Whatever Podcast - Picky Travel Nurse DEMANDS 6ft3 Man Who Makes $100,000+ Per Year？! Jake! E-GIRLS! ｜ Dating Talk #197

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00:02:28.200 discord.gg slash whatever. Guys, if you caught the last stream, there was a fake, conservative,

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00:03:25.240 And then, also, guys, kind of a little more serious thing. Mason Gregoire, who's been on the show

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00:04:06.500 So, this was posted to his Instagram yesterday. So, Mason was involved in a life-threatening

00:04:14.500 motorcycle accident on September 11th, 5.45 a.m. It's been nearly a week since he was hospitalized

00:04:20.140 and placed under heavy sedation, fighting every day to stay with us. His survival so far has been

00:04:25.680 nothing short of miraculous. His family is asking for your continued prayers and thoughts as Mason

00:04:32.280 faces this critical journey of healing. Like I said, he's been on the show a bunch. If you want,

00:04:37.960 and hit the next button on the post. No, no, no, no. Okay, go back. Yeah, that one. So, next one.

00:04:49.340 Next one. Yeah, he's not in great shape. Next one. And yeah, photo's taken just a few days apart.

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00:06:23.820 but... And he was just prepping to enter the Air Force, the military. So, pretty bummer. But hopefully,

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00:06:47.200 And... Well, without further ado... Actually, we'll quickly disclaimer. The views expressed by the

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00:06:58.920 ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So, please tell us your name, age,

00:07:02.580 location, and occupation. Go ahead. Oh, hold on just one sec.

00:07:06.460 Whatever fan donated $200... Hey, thank you, man.

00:07:09.640 ...haven't been around in a while. Here is my contribution. Hope Mason gets better. W Mason.

00:07:16.300 Hey, whatever fan. Really appreciate it, man. So, 50% of that is going to go towards Mason and

00:07:23.580 anything else that's sent throughout the rest of the night. Appreciate it, man. Thank you.

00:07:27.760 Go ahead. Name, age, occupation, location. Where are you from?

00:07:30.600 Hi, my name is Gabby. I'm 27 years old, and I'm a travel nurse from Kansas City, Missouri.

00:07:35.440 Travel nurse. You grew up in Kansas City? Yeah, I grew up there, but I live in Los Angeles

00:07:42.060 right now. Wait, Kansas City, Missouri? Missouri, like the Chiefs football. Wait, Kansas City

00:07:47.700 is not in Kansas? No, there's two different ones, actually. How did I not know? How did

00:07:54.540 I not know this? There's two Kansas... Two Kansas City. So, Kansas City is, like, on the

00:08:01.080 middle of the border. So, there's a Kansas City, Kansas, and a Kansas City, Missouri. I guess

00:08:05.600 there's, like, a Miami in Ohio, isn't there? Oh, really? Isn't there a Miami in Ohio? Anyways,

00:08:11.520 okay. How long you been? You're an RN? Yes. Okay. And I kind of want... Travel nurse, so

00:08:19.960 what's your current assignment? Is that the term that's used? Yeah, so we do contracts for about

00:08:26.340 nine weeks to 13 weeks, but I've been extending my contracts. I've been in LA for almost a year

00:08:31.940 now. Okay. And how many different cities have you been in? I've lived in Kansas City, Miami,

00:08:40.680 Fort Lauderdale, Scottsdale, and now Los Angeles. So, five. So, like, five different places? Yeah. Okay,

00:08:46.780 got it. Are you planning to go somewhere else soon? Because, I mean, you travel nurse, so you

00:08:50.800 got to go... Isn't, like, don't you guys move every six months or something? Some people like to move

00:08:54.900 every three months, but I feel like that's way too quick to, like, build friendships and, like,

00:08:59.180 have a good home life. So, I like to stay for about a year, nine months to a year. Got it. Okay. Do

00:09:04.960 you know where you're off to next? No plans yet. No plans yet. Okay. Where's the favorite place that

00:09:10.000 you've been so far? Well, it depends on what you're looking for. Partying, definitely Miami. If you like

00:09:14.900 to hike outdoors, Scottsdale. And then I think Los Angeles has a good mixture of both, where you can

00:09:19.900 have fun, go to the beach, and you can go hiking if you want to. Got it. What about you? Hi, I'm

00:09:26.160 Feef, 31 years old. I'm from Amsterdam, Netherlands, Europe. And since September, I'm a full-time Twitch

00:09:35.100 partner streamer. What do you stream? Mostly World of Warcraft right now with The War Within, Diablo 4,

00:09:43.360 City Builders, Indie Games, Narrative, Variety. Wait, you're a retail player? Yeah.

00:09:49.900 That's a fucking 50 DKP Minus. What the fuck was that shit? Retail. Unbelievable. What does 1.00

00:09:59.400 that mean, retail? Retail, World of Warcraft. So, there's Classic, and then there's Retail.

00:10:04.880 So, Retail's the more recent iteration of the game. And then Classic, the game came out

00:10:10.480 like 20 years ago. So, Classic's kind of like the OG original version. Never played. I feel

00:10:15.780 like I'm missing out. You are missing out, but it's also a highly pretty addictive game.

00:10:23.720 Very time-consuming. I don't play anymore, but I used to. Yeah. Okay, very cool. So, you'd

00:10:30.140 stream World of Warcraft, Variety, streaming too, like different games, you said? Yeah.

00:10:34.740 Okay. How long have you been streaming? Six and a half years now. And do you do any kind

00:10:39.360 of other content, like OF or anything like that? No. No OF. Okay. And then school? Any

00:10:45.160 school back in the Netherlands? Well, yeah. I did cultural social work, and after that,

00:10:52.120 I did a master's degree in anthropology. Anthropology. So, I actually lived in San Francisco

00:10:56.940 for three months during that researching tech startup culture. Oh, so you got your master's

00:11:02.160 in SF? No, I got it from an American university? From a Dutch university, but I did my research

00:11:08.120 in SF. Okay. Which university? Or maybe? None. No, it was not. I went just there with

00:11:15.360 nobody that I knew. Okay. And just to figure out everything. Went to all the pitch events,

00:11:21.360 to startup grinds. Got it. Just met all people and lived in a startup house for three months.

00:11:27.040 Okay. Very cool. What about you? Yeah. My name is Glaske. Would you say Glaske?

00:11:32.140 Glaske is easier to pronounce. I'm 31 years old. I'm also from the Netherlands, but I'm from

00:11:37.380 the south. So, a little bit further away from Amsterdam, unfortunately. And I'm trying to

00:11:44.420 think. Occupation? I'm a content creator. All around, everywhere. What kind of content

00:11:50.880 do you do? Mainly on Twitch. I have OF, Fansly, you know, TikTok, Twitter, all that jazz.

00:11:59.340 OnlyFans? Yeah. Okay. And university at all? Any school? Yeah. So, I'm a graphic designer.

00:12:06.720 Okay. Well, I don't do it anymore because I thought it was kind of boring, but that's what

00:12:10.900 I studied for. I used to specialize in packaging design. Got it. Wait, and you said you're from

00:12:15.800 the south of the Netherlands. Yeah. So, there's the Netherlands and then Holland. Isn't that the

00:12:22.500 north? Holland is the north? That's like Amsterdam area, and that's Holland.

00:12:26.540 Holland is the north. West. West. It's the west. West. Okay. I'm sorry, west. Okay. Is there a name

00:12:36.920 for the southern region of? Well, it's called Lindbergh. Oh, okay. All right. Okay. What about

00:12:44.320 you? Selina. I'm 19, occupation, corn store. All right. Where are you from? Right now, I'm in

00:12:53.260 Burbank. Where did you grow up, though? Oh, Colorado. Colorado. Jersey. Breckenridge?

00:13:01.760 No, like Denver. Denver. Okay. What about you? I'm 19. I go to... Name? Ruby. My name is Ruby.

00:13:10.120 I'm 19. I'm currently sort of unemployed. I grew up in Bakersfield, but I'm currently living

00:13:19.520 here in Santa Barbara, and I go to UC Santa Barbara. I'm majoring in the history of public

00:13:24.420 policy and law. All right. Do you want to be a lawyer? Criminal defense, yes. Criminal defense.

00:13:30.020 Okay. All right. Welcome. I'm Madison. I'm 19 years old. I'm currently a student at Santa

00:13:38.160 Barbara City College, and I'm here at the Whatever Podcast. All right. I'm Jake. I'm 28 years old.

00:13:45.100 YouTube channel is Rattlesnake TV. Podcast is reality-based. Today, we've got the link

00:13:49.340 tree in the bio, so you guys can find all of the links down there. And looking forward

00:13:55.100 to a good show. W. Mason as well.

00:13:58.980 Sorry. I'm Yael. I'm 20, and I'm a UCSB student studying communications and film design.

00:14:08.100 Second year or third year?

00:14:09.220 I'm a third year.

00:14:10.980 All right. I am Brian Atlas, 35, Santa Barbara, California. Washed up, over the hill, has-been

00:14:18.660 YouTuber. And yeah, let's just get right. Relationship status, of course. So, guys, what is your current

00:14:28.540 relationship status? Single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits, relationship,

00:14:33.260 married, polycule, sex, cult, harem, whatever it may be. If you're single, how long have you

00:14:39.200 been single? And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in? Go ahead.

00:14:43.740 I've been single for about four years. And my longest-

00:14:48.460 Just kidding.

00:14:49.560 And my longest relationship was a year and a half in high school.

00:14:55.820 Longest relationship a year and a half in like junior, sophomore, senior?

00:14:59.920 Like junior to senior year of high school.

00:15:01.960 All right. So, have you had a boyfriend since high school?

00:15:05.840 Yeah. I've had a few boyfriends, but just nothing long-term.

00:15:08.480 Nothing longer than a year and a half.

00:15:10.240 Yeah.

00:15:11.180 What's the longest outside of high school, longest relationship?

00:15:14.980 Probably about a year.

00:15:16.200 A year. Okay.

00:15:17.000 I feel like it's shorter every time because I'm pickier and have higher standards.

00:15:22.140 You're pickier and have higher standards.

00:15:24.360 Yeah.

00:15:24.860 As the years go on. Got it. Okay.

00:15:26.720 We should get into that. Picky. Let's talk about being picky, having standards. That's

00:15:35.860 always a good thing that, you know, having standards.

00:15:37.460 It's a great thing to have.

00:15:38.880 Let's see. And then you said you've been single for four years.

00:15:42.240 Mm-hmm.

00:15:42.520 So, the one-year boyfriend, was that the one that ended four years ago?

00:15:50.660 No. No. It was in college. It was my one year.

00:15:57.300 Okay. Got it. But you said you were single four years ago. How long was the relationship

00:16:01.500 that ended four years ago?

00:16:04.040 Wait. The first relationship or the most recent?

00:16:06.120 So, you said you've been single for four years. So, I'm assuming four years ago something ended.

00:16:09.780 My most recent relationship was six months, but it was during COVID. So, does that really

00:16:13.380 count?

00:16:16.320 Wait. Does it really count? Maybe, I guess.

00:16:19.060 During COVID?

00:16:20.600 Yeah.

00:16:21.280 I feel like relationships are so different during COVID.

00:16:25.060 What was the nature of the relationship?

00:16:28.560 Well, it was during lockdown. So, you don't really have any options.

00:16:33.500 Okay. Got it. And so, are there any guys in the picture currently?

00:16:40.340 No, none.

00:16:41.300 Nothing?

00:16:41.780 The roster's open.

00:16:42.880 Roster's open. So, are there people on the roster?

00:16:46.160 No. I just cleared the bench.

00:16:47.840 You cleared the bench? What happened?

00:16:49.500 Nothing in particular. Just no one that I'm interested in right now.

00:16:54.340 How recently did you clear the bench?

00:16:58.420 Maybe, like, within the past month.

00:17:01.320 Past month.

00:17:02.240 What happened with the bench warmers? The bench warmers weren't performing?

00:17:05.280 Yeah. Weren't performing and just got bored.

00:17:08.860 Anything in particular they were doing that...

00:17:11.380 Just weren't treating me right.

00:17:12.560 Got them delisted?

00:17:13.240 Yeah. Just toxic.

00:17:16.600 But if you've got a roster, doesn't that... Toxic is implicit, isn't it?

00:17:19.760 No. It's because they're just, like, trying out to make the team.

00:17:22.120 Okay.

00:17:22.460 And they didn't.

00:17:23.140 Cool. So, they didn't make it past trials?

00:17:24.820 No.

00:17:26.080 Got it. Okay.

00:17:28.120 You are on a dating app, though, currently.

00:17:30.780 Yeah.

00:17:31.580 We'll react a little later to the dating app.

00:17:35.520 When's the last time you were on a date?

00:17:38.460 Maybe, like, a few weeks ago.

00:17:39.800 A few weeks ago.

00:17:41.120 First date, second date, third date?

00:17:42.380 First date.

00:17:43.360 No. Second date?

00:17:45.660 Not yet.

00:17:46.240 Didn't go well?

00:17:46.920 No. It was a good date, but there's just some traveling happening and distance.

00:17:53.780 Okay. What about you?

00:17:55.020 Yeah. I've been in a relationship for four years now. Before that, I was single for about

00:18:01.100 eight years, and this is also my longest relationship.

00:18:06.020 Wait. So, you've been... Okay. You've been in a relationship for four years. Before that,

00:18:10.140 single for eight years.

00:18:11.020 Yeah.

00:18:11.500 And this is your longest. Got it.

00:18:12.840 Yeah.

00:18:13.280 How did you guys meet?

00:18:14.880 It was at a festival.

00:18:17.180 A rave?

00:18:18.260 No. It's a very town-sea festival. It's all about sailing, and there's a lot of...

00:18:25.020 cover bands playing in the city, and then we met, and he invited me to go to this island

00:18:34.220 with his friends, and I said yes. So, in the middle of the night, we went to an island

00:18:39.840 at a campfire. It was super fun. Then I was... Yeah. I don't know. His friend called dips

00:18:48.160 on me.

00:18:48.640 Dibs?

00:18:49.360 Dibs? Yeah. They have this bro coat, so his friend had called dips, and I liked the current

00:18:55.580 boyfriend, the current guy. So, I had to go with the dips guy into a tent. I didn't like

00:19:02.740 him, so I just left. And then I found this little boat, and I asked for a ride, so I just disappeared.

00:19:09.000 And then, two years later, I found him again. Wait, leave that. Austin, leave that. Is

00:19:14.400 that... Is that Puffy Vegas?

00:19:17.020 Is he back?

00:19:17.680 Hold on. Where's... This guy's been gone for, like, what, a year?

00:19:21.060 No, that can't be him.

00:19:22.860 Is this... Is this like a... It's not... Didn't he usually have a photo of his face?

00:19:27.480 Yeah, I don't think so.

00:19:28.100 Puffy... Is this the real Puffy Vegas?

00:19:30.060 That's...

00:19:30.460 Puffy Vegas.

00:19:31.360 I need you to send me a DM right now. You guys send me a DM right now on Instagram and

00:19:36.900 tell me if this is you, because we have DM history. So, wow. It's been a while since

00:19:41.700 I've seen you, man. Welcome back to... Welcome back to the chat, man. We missed you, dude.

00:19:46.460 Every episode, we do a little vigil, and we're like, when's he going to come back? So, good

00:19:51.900 to see you in the chat, man. I think you kind of finished the story, though. What about

00:19:56.740 you? I am single currently. My longest relationship was six years. I've been single for three years

00:20:04.620 now, and not really seeing anyone seriously. Not looking either, so...

00:20:10.780 When's the last time you were on the date? Maybe a few weeks ago.

00:20:14.860 A few weeks ago? Was it the first date? Yeah.

00:20:18.460 First date. No guys in the picture? Maybe. Maybe a little bit.

00:20:23.300 One, two, three, four. How many guys?

00:20:24.760 No one. Oh, so there's kind of one guy in the picture. Yeah, maybe, yeah.

00:20:28.680 Is it the guy that you went on a date with a few weeks ago? Yeah.

00:20:31.340 Has there been second date, third date,

00:20:32.900 fourth date? Uh, yeah, there has been.

00:20:36.800 Okay. Uh, when's the last? But I wouldn't call it

00:20:38.760 a date. We just hang out and see where things go.

00:20:41.240 No, I understand. Some people,

00:20:42.580 I guess, misunderstand when I ask date.

00:20:45.220 For me, a date would just,

00:20:46.900 you're hanging out with somebody who you have a

00:20:48.640 romantic interest in, essentially,

00:20:51.180 so... Yeah,

00:20:52.700 that's fair. Yeah? Okay. Um,

00:20:55.780 uh, ever had a

00:20:56.620 roster? What does

00:20:58.740 that mean? Uh, multiple

00:21:00.740 guys? Dating multiple guys?

00:21:02.660 No. At the same time? Sure. Yeah.

00:21:04.480 No. Isn't that common in, in, uh, the

00:21:06.580 Netherlands? What? No.

00:21:08.340 It's not, it's not like having boyfriends. It's like

00:21:10.560 you go on a date with someone, and then you'll

00:21:12.420 go on a date with another person, but it's not like you're

00:21:14.560 actually dating, dating.

00:21:16.020 I don't know. I don't think

00:21:18.600 it's fair. I think if you date, you should

00:21:20.380 focus on one person. Sure.

00:21:21.940 W. And are you, uh,

00:21:24.480 were you born in, uh, the

00:21:26.120 Netherlands? Yeah. Like, you're Dutch? 1.00

00:21:27.940 Yeah. Dutch. 100%, yeah. Okay.

00:21:30.100 Got it. What about you? Uh,

00:21:32.540 single, been single for

00:21:34.160 a year.

00:21:38.980 Wait, have you really, though?

00:21:41.200 What? Have you

00:21:42.180 really been single for a year?

00:21:43.340 I mean, pretty much, yeah. Like, I mean,

00:21:45.980 maybe date here and there, but, like.

00:21:54.300 Okay. Um.

00:21:57.440 Single for a year?

00:21:59.720 I mean, like,

00:22:01.520 I've been, like, I don't know. Like, I've

00:22:03.560 kind of, I don't know. But, yeah,

00:22:05.480 pretty much, like,

00:22:07.560 with, like, a label of, like, boyfriend,

00:22:09.640 it has been a year, but, like, an official

00:22:11.620 label. Okay.

00:22:13.340 Uh, longest relationship?

00:22:16.060 Um, a month.

00:22:19.040 One month?

00:22:20.400 Yeah.

00:22:21.360 Oh, okay.

00:22:22.460 It's okay.

00:22:24.040 Uh, now and later. Thank you for the, uh,

00:22:25.440 $100 super chat. I really appreciate it, man.

00:22:27.440 Uh, so, let's see.

00:22:29.180 And by the way, that thing in the corner here, it,

00:22:31.440 we are factoring in the super chats

00:22:33.120 for the, uh, for Mason's medical expenses,

00:22:35.260 but this is, uh, linked

00:22:37.260 to Streamlabs, so

00:22:38.820 we are factoring in the super

00:22:40.920 chats, but it's only going

00:22:42.820 to display, because it's linked to

00:22:44.720 Streamlabs, that it can only, uh,

00:22:46.540 consider the Streamlabs 0.98

00:22:47.780 donations, just for the overlay that

00:22:50.540 we have, uh, there in the

00:22:52.400 corner. But, uh, do not, do not

00:22:54.320 worry, we're also including the super

00:22:56.060 chats. Um,

00:22:57.360 when's the last time you've been on a

00:22:58.520 date?

00:23:00.200 Um,

00:23:00.640 I don't remember, actually.

00:23:04.000 I'm not going to lie.

00:23:04.460 When's the last time you hung out

00:23:06.180 with a guy?

00:23:08.160 Um,

00:23:08.800 I mean, I guess just hung out.

00:23:11.080 Yesterday?

00:23:11.920 No.

00:23:13.540 Like,

00:23:14.660 maybe, like, two or three months ago.

00:23:16.880 Okay.

00:23:17.900 Alright.

00:23:18.880 Uh, when's the last time you

00:23:20.080 shot a scene?

00:23:21.700 Oh, um,

00:23:23.960 I've, I've been on, like,

00:23:25.160 vacation for a few weeks.

00:23:26.840 Oh, yeah?

00:23:27.220 So, yeah, like, I was visiting

00:23:29.080 family, but, yeah, so it's been a

00:23:31.680 few weeks, and then I'll be

00:23:32.520 working pretty much the rest of

00:23:34.200 the week. This was, like, my only

00:23:35.580 free day, so.

00:23:37.400 Hmm, okay. Um,

00:23:39.100 and you were on the show, was it a

00:23:42.920 month, month and a half ago?

00:23:44.460 Uh, it was in July, I think.

00:23:46.280 July, okay. Any prospects in

00:23:48.460 between?

00:23:49.020 Prospects?

00:23:49.640 Prospects, any guys?

00:23:50.840 Uh.

00:23:52.040 Sneaky links, what's up?

00:23:53.540 I mean,

00:23:53.980 what you got?

00:23:54.160 Um, I guess, like, there's someone

00:23:58.300 that, like, I work with that I,

00:24:00.220 like, like, but, I don't know, I

00:24:02.900 don't really want to be in a

00:24:03.800 relationship, you know what I

00:24:05.080 mean? It's just, like, it's too

00:24:06.780 much, like, maintenance, you know?

00:24:10.000 Too, like, you're too much

00:24:11.480 maintenance?

00:24:12.460 Uh, just, like, I don't know, like,

00:24:15.520 I don't know, I don't think I'm

00:24:16.780 ready for, like, an official

00:24:18.160 relationship, you know what I

00:24:19.520 mean?

00:24:19.780 Sure.

00:24:20.080 Like, I kind of just want to do my

00:24:21.140 own thing for now, and just work

00:24:22.920 and, like, live life.

00:24:25.300 Okay, alright. What about you?

00:24:26.800 Very much single.

00:24:29.080 Very much single.

00:24:31.000 Okay.

00:24:32.180 What, what is, uh, what does very

00:24:34.660 much single mean? As, as compared

00:24:36.540 to single, you know?

00:24:38.920 It means my options are very much

00:24:40.800 open.

00:24:42.280 Okay, alright. Um, so, how long

00:24:45.840 you been single for?

00:24:46.820 A year.

00:24:47.900 One year, okay. Uh, longest

00:24:50.220 relationship?

00:24:51.920 Um, almost three years.

00:24:55.580 High school?

00:24:56.220 Yeah, it was a high school

00:24:57.600 relationship, so.

00:24:58.980 Alright, who broke up with who?

00:25:01.180 I broke up with him.

00:25:02.380 Why?

00:25:07.660 It was very toxic.

00:25:10.140 Um.

00:25:10.200 Yeah, what did you do that was

00:25:11.060 toxic?

00:25:13.640 Um, I guess he didn't really like

00:25:16.940 me going out, like, at all.

00:25:18.420 Like, I get the whole party scene

00:25:20.620 and everything, but even if it was

00:25:22.140 just, like, to hang out with

00:25:23.220 my family or even my, like, my

00:25:24.840 sister, I guess that was, like, a

00:25:26.480 problem if I didn't choose him.

00:25:29.060 Um, yeah.

00:25:31.640 And then he was just very

00:25:32.880 disrespectful.

00:25:34.860 How was he disrespectful?

00:25:36.480 I think he called me out my name,

00:25:38.340 like, several times.

00:25:40.320 What, wait, he called you out by

00:25:41.680 name? What do you mean?

00:25:42.180 Like, out my name?

00:25:43.120 He would, like, I'm not sure if I'm

00:25:46.900 allowed to say the words here, but,

00:25:48.380 like.

00:25:48.560 Like, sex?

00:25:49.480 No.

00:25:50.140 Wait, he called me out my name, like,

00:25:52.900 he, he called me disrespectful, like,

00:25:55.740 Oh, he insults you?

00:25:56.840 Yeah, he insulted me.

00:25:58.060 What was, I think you can probably say it.

00:26:02.080 B?

00:26:02.980 Yes.

00:26:04.260 Oh.

00:26:05.700 Anything else?

00:26:06.480 Yeah, you can say, yeah, you can say 1.00

00:26:07.760 bitch. 1.00

00:26:08.120 You can say bitch, that's fine. 1.00

00:26:09.360 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:26:09.720 Was that, was that what he was

00:26:10.660 calling you?

00:26:10.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:26:11.400 How would he say it?

00:26:13.880 He'd just be, like.

00:26:14.880 Like, pretend I'm you and pretend

00:26:16.400 you're him, say it to me.

00:26:18.880 He'd just be, like, you're acting 1.00

00:26:19.920 like a bitch. 1.00

00:26:21.800 Oh. 1.00

00:26:23.720 Well.

00:26:24.400 What were you doing beforehand?

00:26:27.440 I guess, I mean, I don't think that,

00:26:29.880 I don't think you should say that to a

00:26:31.140 girl, but, like, it is a

00:26:32.380 little different than, like, you're 1.00

00:26:33.620 a bitch versus, like, you're acting 1.00

00:26:34.940 like a bitch. 1.00

00:26:36.260 It's still not good, but there's a 1.00

00:26:38.600 bit of nuance there.

00:26:39.820 So, did he ever be, like, you're a 1.00

00:26:43.840 bitch? 1.00

00:26:44.220 Yeah. 1.00

00:26:44.720 Oh, okay. 1.00

00:26:45.240 Or was it, like, listen, bitch? 1.00

00:26:47.040 Okay, no. 1.00

00:26:47.320 Listen, bitch? 1.00

00:26:47.920 No. 1.00

00:26:48.960 No.

00:26:49.540 So, sorry, what was the original

00:26:51.960 thing that you said? 1.00

00:26:52.760 He said, you're acting like a bitch? 1.00

00:26:55.080 Yeah. 1.00

00:26:55.960 So, were you acting like a bitch? 1.00

00:26:59.820 Shit, I might have. 1.00

00:27:01.060 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:27:02.380 Okay. 1.00

00:27:03.600 So, he was spitting facts, basically.

00:27:05.940 Not exactly.

00:27:07.360 No, I can't even remember what the

00:27:08.780 argument was about, but it was

00:27:10.140 definitely, it was, it was definitely,

00:27:14.180 like, something he started, for sure.

00:27:17.080 Mm-hmm.

00:27:17.700 No worries.

00:27:18.320 He apologized for it, though, so I

00:27:20.420 guess we forgave him.

00:27:22.640 Yeah.

00:27:23.520 Okay, and so you broke up with him?

00:27:26.900 Yeah.

00:27:28.120 Right.

00:27:29.240 And he didn't like that you were going

00:27:32.620 out and partying.

00:27:34.640 Is that correct?

00:27:35.760 Yeah, that's one, I guess that's one

00:27:37.960 thing.

00:27:38.140 Did he also not like how you, like, maybe

00:27:39.960 how you dressed when you went out, too?

00:27:41.700 Yeah, he didn't like the way I, um, okay, maybe that wasn't, like, a, really an issue.

00:27:48.180 It was more, like, the way I would, um, record, like, TikToks and stuff and upload them.

00:27:55.180 Oh.

00:27:55.800 Do you still have those videos up?

00:27:57.140 Maybe we can pull them up.

00:27:58.320 What's your TikTok?

00:28:00.360 It's, oh, God.

00:28:02.980 It's Scooby.

00:28:04.820 Scooby?

00:28:05.400 Scooby.

00:28:05.860 Like the dog?

00:28:06.640 Yeah.

00:28:07.240 Scooby?

00:28:08.080 Da, R, O, O, Scooby-Roo.

00:28:11.360 Scooby-Roo?

00:28:12.060 Yeah.

00:28:12.440 That's it?

00:28:13.080 And, no, it's, like, 0-3, I believe.

00:28:15.400 All right.

00:28:17.560 Let's see.

00:28:18.420 Mason, are you, are you, uh, can't find it.

00:28:21.400 I called him Mason again.

00:28:22.880 What's that?

00:28:23.500 You called Austin Mason again.

00:28:24.960 Do I keep calling Austin Mason?

00:28:27.640 You've been calling him Mason old.

00:28:29.340 I don't know what's, my wires are all, like, crossed up.

00:28:33.000 I'm not sure what's going on.

00:28:35.060 Uh, I'm, you know what?

00:28:36.000 Let's just change Austin's name.

00:28:37.840 Austin, do you want a nickname?

00:28:40.240 What, we're going to call you Bartholomew.

00:28:42.860 Oh, no.

00:28:43.340 How's that, does that work?

00:28:44.860 Is that easier to remember than Austin?

00:28:46.640 It is way easier for me to, and it takes longer to say it, so.

00:28:50.500 Um, uh, no, my bad, my bad, Austin.

00:28:53.900 I don't know.

00:28:54.180 My wires are all crossed up.

00:28:55.920 I can't find it.

00:28:56.980 It's, uh.

00:28:58.680 Is it, like, two Ys, or, like, two?

00:29:02.760 No, it's just one Y.

00:29:04.180 Like, Scooby S-C-0, I mean, O-O-B-Y, period, R-O-O-0-3.

00:29:13.920 Hmm.

00:29:14.260 I can't find it.

00:29:16.440 Maybe.

00:29:17.200 Anyway, Sue, in any case, you were posting kind of like, what, dance TikToks or something?

00:29:21.100 It was just me lip-syncing, but, um, I think, well, he mentioned, like, me wanting, me using

00:29:31.180 that as, like, like, trying to get attention.

00:29:36.660 Mm-hmm.

00:29:36.940 So, yeah.

00:29:38.760 So, he just basically, essentially just had an issue with, uh, the, here, Mason, I'll send

00:29:44.180 it in private chat.

00:29:45.120 I found it.

00:29:46.800 His new name is just Mason. 1.00

00:29:48.340 Wait, what the fuck? 0.99

00:29:50.800 Why do I keep, I think it's because it's on, on the screen. 0.99

00:29:54.400 You're not even looking at the screen, though.

00:29:55.640 It's a hint for people to donate.

00:29:57.220 It's just in your head.

00:29:58.240 Wait, was I calling you Mason last episode?

00:30:02.680 What?

00:30:03.380 Why?

00:30:04.320 Don't take it personally.

00:30:05.400 Austin, they kind of sound familiar.

00:30:07.940 Sin.

00:30:08.340 What?

00:30:09.240 The sin at the end.

00:30:10.180 Sin?

00:30:10.900 Austin?

00:30:12.380 Mason?

00:30:14.080 All right.

00:30:15.060 Uh, we'll get that pulled up here, and just, speaking of which, guys, uh, 50% of all fan

00:30:19.720 funding from today's episode, Super Chats, TTS, Twitch Subs, Streamlabs Messages, et cetera,

00:30:24.580 will go to Mason's medical expenses.

00:30:26.320 We have reed at 100, TTS is 200, streamlabs.com, slash whatever.

00:30:30.500 Also, guys, like the video while you're at it.

00:30:32.560 Uh, do you have the, uh, TikTok pulled up?

00:30:35.400 All right.

00:30:36.000 Let's see.

00:30:37.180 How, let's scroll all the way down.

00:30:39.040 Let's see what we got here.

00:30:41.120 Okay.

00:30:41.780 I mean, nothing, I don't see anything too bad.

00:30:44.540 Right?

00:30:44.760 Uh, well.

00:30:46.300 Maybe the.

00:30:46.960 There's some red flags there. 0.99

00:30:48.320 Is there one in specific where it was like, what the fuck is this? 0.96

00:30:51.560 I honestly do not remember. 0.91

00:30:53.860 Scroll all the way down.

00:30:54.760 Let's see.

00:30:55.000 How far does this go?

00:30:55.760 How much do you, God.

00:30:57.440 I have a lot, but they're, it's going to go back into high school.

00:31:01.220 So, uh, I don't know if I want to see those, but, uh, scroll back up, scroll up.

00:31:06.920 What about this one?

00:31:07.900 Scroll up, scroll up, scroll up.

00:31:10.260 The, wait, stop.

00:31:10.960 The one in the red.

00:31:11.740 Is this the one that he had an issue with?

00:31:13.220 Like.

00:31:13.700 No.

00:31:14.560 What?

00:31:15.660 He was out of the picture by then?

00:31:17.500 Was he?

00:31:17.840 No, he was still in the picture.

00:31:19.000 Still in the picture.

00:31:19.460 Oh, okay.

00:31:19.700 Yeah.

00:31:20.300 Let's see why.

00:31:20.880 And so he, so, okay.

00:31:22.440 He had an issue with the going out, maybe how you dressed and then also posting to TikTok.

00:31:27.560 So he would come to you.

00:31:28.960 He'd be like, Hey, uh, I'm not comfortable.

00:31:31.740 And you were with him for three years.

00:31:33.500 You said, right?

00:31:34.300 Yes.

00:31:34.620 How far into the relationship did he start?

00:31:36.600 Like one year in, two years in towards the end?

00:31:39.580 Like, I don't like the TikToks.

00:31:41.400 Don't like how you dress.

00:31:42.320 Don't like the partying.

00:31:45.180 Um, I think, I think everything started literally the first year.

00:31:51.180 First year.

00:31:51.820 Yeah.

00:31:52.020 Like after the whole honeymoon stage, like six months into it, like everything changed.

00:31:58.900 How many followers does she have on TikTok? 0.96

00:32:01.120 Like a thousand.

00:32:02.340 You don't have to.

00:32:03.000 Nearly 10,000.

00:32:03.760 I think it was.

00:32:05.000 Yeah.

00:32:05.320 It's about, it's just shy of 10,000.

00:32:07.780 Um, so he would come to you and what was his ask?

00:32:12.760 Did he say, Hey, can you make your TikTok private?

00:32:15.640 Was that what he was asking?

00:32:16.740 No, he never asked for anything.

00:32:18.420 He would just like, he'd send me my own TikToks or because he made a rule where it was like,

00:32:25.460 anytime I uploaded to, um, my Instagram or TikTok or anything like that, I had to like tell him.

00:32:32.500 Um, so when I would post, I'd be like, Oh, I'm going to post a TikTok and he'd go on it and then send it to me and then be like, okay, like, why, why do you choose this audio?

00:32:43.960 Or like, why are you looking like that?

00:32:47.600 Like, are you basically, are you asking for attention?

00:32:49.980 Um, I see.

00:32:52.140 I see.

00:32:52.600 And did he ever ask you to take down any specific videos?

00:32:55.940 No.

00:32:56.500 Okay.

00:32:56.840 But he was just more like, I don't like it.

00:33:00.480 Yeah.

00:33:01.160 And then the next day you'd post a TikTok?

00:33:04.260 Yeah.

00:33:05.240 Okay.

00:33:05.740 So you were, I mean, we, there, there could certainly be a conversation of, over whether it's appropriate for him to be asking this if it was controlling.

00:33:15.020 But, um, in any case you did not, he would ask you to stop and you didn't stop.

00:33:20.340 Is that correct?

00:33:21.120 Yes. 1.00

00:33:21.480 So this caused conflict in your relationship or not, or he just took it like a bitch. 0.97

00:33:29.940 Um, I'd say cause like a little bit of conflict, like, um, it's cause I shut it down. 0.98

00:33:36.120 Like shut what down?

00:33:37.720 Like him.

00:33:38.640 Like after, after a while, I just, he noticed that I just did not care.

00:33:43.740 I was just going to keep doing what I wanted to do.

00:33:47.240 You didn't care that what?

00:33:51.480 What, like how he felt?

00:33:53.280 What did you not care about?

00:33:54.580 How he felt?

00:33:55.240 Like how he felt about the videos.

00:33:58.120 Well, at least you're admitting to it.

00:33:59.940 Um.

00:34:02.280 Doc Venabili Geo Lesson donated $200.

00:34:05.460 Geo Lesson?

00:34:06.340 There's a Paris in Texas, not to be confused with Paris Hilton.

00:34:10.340 Right.

00:34:10.760 There's Melbourne, Florida, and me born Australia too.

00:34:13.800 Me born.

00:34:14.300 May all Masons get well soon.

00:34:16.580 My prayers with him and his fam.

00:34:18.720 Hey, Doc Venabili, appreciate it, man.

00:34:20.180 Thank you for the TTS, really appreciate it.

00:34:21.960 Yeah, there's, uh, there's also a Hollywood in Miami as well?

00:34:30.280 That's, that's what I was thinking about, the Hollywood in Miami.

00:34:32.960 Uh, Doc, thank you, appreciate it.

00:34:35.140 Uh, and then how often were you going out partying?

00:34:37.560 Um, maybe like, like every two weeks.

00:34:47.460 And this was in high school, were you going to college parties?

00:34:50.840 No.

00:34:51.540 Like out to?

00:34:52.660 I was just, they were like, they were like kickbacks and stuff like that.

00:34:57.260 Okay.

00:34:57.440 So it's not high school parties, but like not college parties either.

00:35:01.660 Okay, got it.

00:35:02.980 And then, um, uh, do you think he was, uh, controlling?

00:35:09.820 Yes.

00:35:10.180 Or insecure?

00:35:11.080 Yes.

00:35:11.700 Okay.

00:35:12.340 Going around the table on this, uh, do you think, so, okay, essentially the boyfriend didn't

00:35:18.000 like her going out, didn't like how she dressed when she was going out, uh, or even in general

00:35:23.980 too?

00:35:25.040 Like, didn't like how you dressed, maybe going to school or stuff like that, or?

00:35:29.000 No, I don't think it was that deep.

00:35:30.460 It was just when you were going out.

00:35:31.720 Yeah.

00:35:32.240 Okay.

00:35:33.060 So didn't like her going out, didn't like how she dressed when she was going out, and

00:35:36.840 then also didn't like some of the TikToks she posts. 0.97

00:35:38.860 What do you guys think?

00:35:39.460 Is this, uh, is this him just having boundaries or is this controlling and insecure starting

00:35:44.440 with you?

00:35:45.220 Um, I think he's definitely insecure and maybe jealous that you get more attention than

00:35:48.680 him.

00:35:51.200 Agreed.

00:35:52.020 Okay.

00:35:52.420 Insecure that he's, she's getting more attention than him.

00:35:55.500 Yeah.

00:35:56.320 Okay.

00:35:56.800 What do you think?

00:35:58.240 Um, yeah, I, I think it sounds like a really bad relationship where you cannot be yourself.

00:36:03.980 So I think it's, it's not good on his sides or for both of you, I guess.

00:36:13.120 Yeah, girl, thank God you got out because that could have gone far South.

00:36:16.820 Like, I don't think it's, it's normal to tell people what to do.

00:36:20.420 And if you don't like what to do and I just don't be with them, you know, erroneous, erroneous.

00:36:26.240 Wait, um, Oh, Oh, okay.

00:36:31.720 Hold on.

00:36:32.260 Hide, hide stream yard in center.

00:36:34.520 No sources, sources, sources, sources down.

00:36:37.100 Just hide it.

00:36:38.060 The eyeball.

00:36:39.200 Okay.

00:36:39.480 So now, sorry guys, uh, just minimize OBS really quick so I can see what's going on.

00:36:46.400 Okay. 1.00

00:36:46.920 The fucking ad block update fucking piece of shit. 1.00

00:36:49.520 Not, not you, Austin, the fucking ad block. 1.00

00:36:51.420 Uh, just, uh, X out of it. 0.99

00:36:56.600 And then, Oh, you can X out the lives, the, the YouTube thing.

00:37:00.060 Yeah.

00:37:00.480 X out of that.

00:37:01.260 And then F11.

00:37:02.280 Sorry guys. 0.99

00:37:02.900 Fucking ad block decided to update midstream. 0.99

00:37:06.660 Our bad. 1.00

00:37:07.940 It's the far right, far right, far right.

00:37:10.000 There you go.

00:37:10.520 Okay.

00:37:10.760 Sorry guys.

00:37:11.740 Uh, wait, it could have gone a lot worse.

00:37:15.180 Hell yeah.

00:37:15.720 Was he abusive?

00:37:17.220 No.

00:37:18.300 So they were dating for three years and it didn't go far worse.

00:37:22.040 He just had boundaries.

00:37:23.660 Been there.

00:37:24.840 Oh, so it would have manifested.

00:37:25.940 Seen that.

00:37:26.520 Would have manifested in year four.

00:37:28.000 Is that what you're saying?

00:37:29.020 Um, I think it gets worse and worse.

00:37:31.420 Like you say, as soon as the honeymoon stage is over, they try to grab.

00:37:35.120 Honey, they, they were dating for three years.

00:37:36.920 Yeah, but what, that's what she called it. 0.90

00:37:38.440 Wait, how long does the honeymoon.

00:37:39.380 It's a honeymoon phase.

00:37:39.880 That's like three months, maybe.

00:37:41.520 Months, right?

00:37:42.040 What?

00:37:42.660 Like the first year.

00:37:43.240 Year and a half.

00:37:43.680 Maybe for a year.

00:37:45.720 Anyways, once that is over, I think these types of people, they will try to grab control.

00:37:51.980 What do you mean these types of people though?

00:37:53.500 What's, what's wrong with not wanting your girlfriend to, to, to, to provocative people?

00:37:57.320 These people as in.

00:37:58.560 What you mean new people?

00:38:00.960 People who don't agree on what you are doing and want to control instead of stepping away.

00:38:06.020 Okay.

00:38:06.580 Would you prefer a man who has no boundaries or some boundaries?

00:38:11.060 This is not, nothing to do with boundaries, I think.

00:38:13.540 If it's not to do with you.

00:38:14.440 If it's not to do with you.

00:38:14.460 But the question was, would you prefer a man who has no boundaries or some boundaries?

00:38:19.200 As in a relationship for me personally or?

00:38:21.500 Yep.

00:38:22.700 Depends what kind of boundaries, I guess.

00:38:24.960 So no boundaries or some boundaries?

00:38:27.360 I think boundaries.

00:38:28.440 I don't know.

00:38:28.920 I don't know.

00:38:29.420 Do you have an example?

00:38:29.920 What kind of boundaries would be acceptable?

00:38:33.420 Well, you're a partner for life, right?

00:38:35.160 So then you have to talk about, okay, I do this.

00:38:37.780 Do you agree on that?

00:38:38.680 Can you live with that?

00:38:39.520 And the other way around as well.

00:38:40.780 Okay.

00:38:41.160 Well, so you're painting this guy as somebody, I don't know the guy, but you're painting

00:38:44.180 him as somebody who could potentially be some sort of danger to her when he's simply

00:38:48.460 asking her not to do TikToks, which are unnecessary.

00:38:51.460 You don't need to be doing TikToks.

00:38:52.960 It's not an important thing.

00:38:54.280 Yeah, but it's not for her.

00:38:55.420 Why wouldn't you just try and find middle ground?

00:38:59.080 Yeah, you have to find middle ground.

00:39:00.760 But if you can...

00:39:01.180 But you're saying that she was good to get out of the relationship and that he could have

00:39:04.860 been dangerous.

00:39:05.780 That seems like bad advice.

00:39:07.120 I think the good advice would be maybe to have the conversation with the guy and think,

00:39:11.220 maybe put yourself in his shoes and think, why doesn't he like me doing this on TikTok? 1.00

00:39:14.600 Sorry, but you should not be with someone who calls you a bitch. 1.00

00:39:16.840 That's just so disrespectful. 1.00

00:39:18.660 At least...

00:39:19.020 But that's not what we're talking about.

00:39:19.780 We're talking about the TikToks for now.

00:39:21.260 So don't you think that it would be better to have the conversation and put yourself in

00:39:25.980 his shoes? 1.00

00:39:26.540 Yeah, but you shouldn't have a conversation with someone who calls you a bitch. 1.00

00:39:29.280 But we're talking about TikTok specifically now. 0.99

00:39:31.140 Yeah. 1.00

00:39:31.300 Put the bitch aside. 1.00

00:39:32.800 Put the bitch stuff aside. 1.00

00:39:34.120 Just on TikTok now. 0.98

00:39:36.200 So if...

00:39:38.020 The TikTok stuff to me seems so unimportant that if you tell your girlfriend, hey, listen, 0.99

00:39:44.720 I can kind of see your titties on the TikTok and you're mumbling all of these sexual songs. 0.99

00:39:50.460 There's no real need to be doing it. 0.99

00:39:52.600 I would expect her to say, yeah, good idea.

00:39:56.020 Don't you think that's fair enough?

00:39:56.700 You would expect her... 0.99

00:39:57.740 Absolutely.

00:39:58.540 Okay.

00:39:59.300 Yeah.

00:40:00.380 Yeah, I don't agree on that.

00:40:03.140 GMD Jim donated $199.

00:40:07.100 Yeah, guys. 1.00

00:40:08.300 You are just insecure and your girlfriend wants to dress like a whore for attention. 1.00

00:40:13.520 JK, run from whores. 1.00

00:40:16.180 Get well, Mason. 1.00

00:40:17.720 All right, Jim.

00:40:18.780 Thank you for the...

00:40:21.200 Thank you for the TTS, man.

00:40:23.260 Really appreciate it.

00:40:24.760 Did you have more?

00:40:26.060 Yeah.

00:40:26.320 I mean, I just think that it's like the most basic of boundaries for me would be don't

00:40:31.320 put your body on the internet and don't be mumbling all these sexual songs. 0.76

00:40:34.900 There's no need to do it. 0.95

00:40:35.760 If you're with me, then you shouldn't need that attention.

00:40:38.280 It's not an important thing to be on TikTok.

00:40:40.260 I wouldn't date someone who's posting weird TikTok videos anyway, but...

00:40:43.800 Exactly.

00:40:44.340 So why would you have a conversation?

00:40:45.740 But I'm saying if...

00:40:46.360 Hypothetically, we're speaking that hypothetically.

00:40:47.940 If we were and she started posting all these TikTok videos, it would be a conversation

00:40:51.480 where you'd say, hey, that's not okay with me.

00:40:53.140 And don't you think that's a reasonable request?

00:40:55.860 A what?

00:40:56.320 A reasonable request?

00:40:58.140 You can talk about it, sure.

00:40:59.880 But as soon as they start getting disrespectful and not accepting the way you do things, like

00:41:05.240 she clearly wants to be on TikTok and all good for you. 0.95

00:41:08.200 But don't be with a guy that just doesn't accept that because that's just not going to

00:41:11.640 work.

00:41:11.920 Girls are horrible friends to each other. 1.00

00:41:15.820 I mean, why is it important to be on TikTok, though, over a relationship?

00:41:20.180 If you like the guy, if you value your relationship, why would it be important to be on TikTok?

00:41:25.800 Dressing like a... 0.63

00:41:26.420 I don't know.

00:41:26.640 It could be...

00:41:27.480 Whoa.

00:41:28.440 Can you say that on a podcast?

00:41:29.980 Yeah.

00:41:30.460 Okay.

00:41:33.540 Why?

00:41:34.340 I think if it's...

00:41:35.520 I don't know what you do on there.

00:41:36.620 Maybe she earns money on there. 1.00

00:41:37.720 Maybe she likes to do it. 0.99

00:41:38.700 I mean, we saw enough.

00:41:41.660 Okay.

00:41:42.220 Well, I don't think I can change your mind with whatever I'm saying, but I just think

00:41:45.840 that it's good you got away because it could have gone worse.

00:41:50.780 I've seen it myself.

00:41:51.920 What would indicate to you that that would go worse?

00:41:55.200 Well, the jealousy and clearly being disrespectful as well.

00:42:00.020 I mean, if you're dating and somebody is just not taking into account your boundaries

00:42:06.560 whatsoever, I'd be kind of pissed off too.

00:42:09.560 Yeah, but then don't be together.

00:42:10.880 I know.

00:42:11.160 I wouldn't be.

00:42:11.640 But I'm saying if that was the situation.

00:42:13.420 So I was speaking in hypotheticals here.

00:42:15.600 Don't you think you'd be pissed off if they were doing something, say, flirting with girls

00:42:18.660 all the time when you went out in public and you said, hey, I really don't like that.

00:42:21.540 And they just keep doing it. 0.99

00:42:22.260 Would you say, hey, listen, bitch? 1.00

00:42:23.860 No, I would not say that at all. 1.00

00:42:25.940 No.

00:42:26.440 No.

00:42:26.760 I would just not agree with it and then talk about it.

00:42:29.180 And if it doesn't work, then you have different priorities in life, I guess.

00:42:32.840 So then it just doesn't work.

00:42:34.040 So it's no use.

00:42:36.440 Just step away and look for someone else.

00:42:38.260 Yep.

00:42:38.580 Just step away.

00:42:40.180 Yeah.

00:42:40.340 Why the jump, though, to it could have gone way worse because he doesn't want his girlfriend 0.70

00:42:48.240 to post provocative photos or dress provocatively or go to parties?

00:42:53.000 Doesn't that seem like a pretty reasonable boundary for a relationship-minded man?

00:42:58.860 I don't know.

00:42:59.560 I think it depends on how far it goes.

00:43:02.680 To me, when I see this, she's just having fun.

00:43:05.600 And sorry, I know this is about you, but that's what I've seen.

00:43:11.380 And it shouldn't be a problem at all.

00:43:13.260 But when he's trying to control her and telling her you shouldn't post this, I don't like it 0.99

00:43:19.100 when you wear this, and then calling her a bitch, that just to me screams, like, get 0.99

00:43:23.440 out. 1.00

00:43:24.480 Get out.

00:43:24.800 That's not normal.

00:43:26.180 No.

00:43:26.320 No, it's super normal.

00:43:27.720 Yeah.

00:43:28.020 Should you just be able to do whatever you want all the time with no consequences?

00:43:31.060 No, that's not what I'm saying.

00:43:32.400 What about if you're flirting with the people all the time?

00:43:33.920 Is that a boundary that he could set?

00:43:36.400 How do you say?

00:43:37.280 If you're flirting with people, if you guys go out and you're at the bar flirting with

00:43:41.060 other guys, is that a boundary that he can set?

00:43:44.820 Yeah, it depends if you have an open relationship.

00:43:46.780 And if you're fine with that, the both of you.

00:43:48.300 What about if you go out to the bar and you're dressed really skimpily and guys are looking 0.99

00:43:52.500 at your tits all the time? 1.00

00:43:53.320 Do you think that that's something that he can say, hey, listen, I don't like when you 1.00

00:43:55.900 dress so provocatively?

00:43:57.620 Yeah, he can.

00:43:58.400 Okay, then why can't he do it on TikTok?

00:44:00.560 Because it's kind of different.

00:44:01.980 I think...

00:44:02.500 It's actually probably worse. 0.98

00:44:04.080 You've got like hundreds of thousands of guys oogling over our breasts. 1.00

00:44:07.940 Yeah, but is that really a problem though? 0.93

00:44:09.520 Yes, big problem.

00:44:10.380 If you want to post these types of TikToks because you want to dance and have fun and

00:44:15.660 your boyfriend doesn't agree with that, well then...

00:44:18.540 So he should just accept that you can do whatever you want all the time with no consequences?

00:44:21.760 Oh no, it works both ways, for sure.

00:44:24.820 What do you mean?

00:44:25.940 That we should all be able to do whatever we want all the time with no consequences?

00:44:28.320 You have to like have good communication and set boundaries and sort of...

00:44:33.760 Who do you think was communicating better out of those two?

00:44:37.200 Who's communicating better?

00:44:38.080 Who do you think was a better communicator?

00:44:40.640 A better?

00:44:41.220 I don't know.

00:44:41.840 I don't know them.

00:44:42.720 Did it look like one person had boundaries and one person wasn't respecting the boundaries?

00:44:46.780 I don't know.

00:44:47.440 I don't know the situation.

00:44:48.940 We just heard it.

00:44:49.860 Yeah, I'm just saying on my opinion on what I just heard, but I can't like go deep into

00:44:54.600 it because I have no idea what the situation really was, what kind of person, how much

00:44:58.800 they talked, all that stuff.

00:45:02.480 Okay, cool.

00:45:04.120 You mentioned controlling, right?

00:45:07.600 Like a guy controlling a woman, right?

00:45:10.360 Yeah.

00:45:10.740 Do you think it's an unreasonable standard for a guy to not want his girlfriend to post

00:45:17.320 revealing photos or to go out to parties, bars, clubs, or to wear, I suppose, revealing

00:45:26.160 clothes?

00:45:28.040 Do you think that's controlling behavior or is that a reasonable boundary?

00:45:32.900 It's a boundary, definitely, unless you're with someone who likes to do these things and

00:45:40.280 you try to change it because that's just not going to work.

00:45:43.060 It's toxic.

00:45:43.960 Well, I mean, don't we all kind of, isn't that the nature of relationships?

00:45:48.480 Like, okay, you're single, you're operating one way, now you're in a relationship, you're

00:45:53.600 no longer operating in the way you used to operate.

00:45:56.540 So conduct that would be acceptable when you're single is no longer acceptable when you're in 0.50

00:46:01.980 a relationship.

00:46:03.000 Case in point, for example, sleeping with multiple people at the same time.

00:46:07.400 This is, well, it's not cheating if you're single to sleep with multiple people at the

00:46:13.760 same time.

00:46:14.800 But in a relationship, this would be considered cheating.

00:46:17.860 And so, well, what other kind of behavior could be considered undesirable or cheating

00:46:22.740 in a relationship that might not be when you're single?

00:46:27.460 Oh, how do you mean?

00:46:32.460 What's cheating when you're in a relationship?

00:46:34.620 So, for example, like when it comes to posting more revealing photos, prior to dating, a man

00:46:40.260 might not have a problem with her engaging in what he considered single behavior.

00:46:45.980 But once they started dating, he wanted her to act in a way that he thought was consistent

00:46:50.780 and commensurate with being in a relationship.

00:46:53.400 And I mean, literally all boundaries are a form of control.

00:46:58.580 That's what a boundary is, drawing lines around behaviors that you don't want your partner

00:47:02.840 to engage in.

00:47:04.780 So, how about this?

00:47:08.680 Or I think I asked a question that I wanted to open up to the panel, but controlling or reasonable

00:47:15.580 boundary?

00:47:16.940 For the situation?

00:47:18.000 Yeah, so not wanting to post revealing photos, not dressing, revealing, and I guess, what

00:47:26.460 was the other one?

00:47:27.040 Not going out to bars or clubs?

00:47:29.740 I feel like it's definitely reasonable to have boundaries.

00:47:33.060 But if you're dating someone...

00:47:34.380 But are those specific boundaries, are they reasonable from the guy's perspective?

00:47:37.700 Or do you feel like generally they're controlling?

00:47:39.800 Well, I feel like in a relationship, you should have the freedom to do whatever you want within

00:47:45.060 like having boundaries.

00:47:47.100 What do you mean doing whatever you want within having boundaries?

00:47:51.320 Like you should feel like you can be yourself.

00:47:53.900 But how can you do whatever you want if you have boundaries?

00:47:56.020 Be yourself.

00:47:57.540 Well, everyone should have boundaries.

00:47:59.220 But those two things don't make sense.

00:48:00.800 But you shouldn't date someone that you want to change.

00:48:04.380 And she's probably posting the same videos before they were dating.

00:48:07.460 So if you see that, you probably shouldn't date someone like that.

00:48:09.340 Wait, but hold on.

00:48:09.780 You say women shouldn't date people or you shouldn't date people you want to change? 1.00

00:48:13.660 Isn't that like the genesis of what women do to every single man that they date? 1.00

00:48:17.880 Yeah, some girls do. 1.00

00:48:18.200 I can fix him.

00:48:19.900 I can fix him.

00:48:22.300 He will change.

00:48:23.940 But that's not what women do with every guy they date. 1.00

00:48:27.420 Don't you guys like a project?

00:48:28.900 No, I'm tired of doing work.

00:48:30.500 Right, but you did it in your past, right?

00:48:31.780 I work for a living.

00:48:32.200 Going around the table, though.

00:48:35.540 Reasonable boundary or controlling insecure?

00:48:39.760 I do have to say, I wonder how, did you do the TikToks before you started dating and all of that?

00:48:45.560 Or was it something you started doing when you were dating?

00:48:48.940 Because I think that might be, yeah, it's controlling if you were already doing that.

00:48:57.300 And he liked you when you were doing that.

00:48:59.580 And then when you started dating after a year, it became a problem, even though you've been doing that all along.

00:49:06.300 So they were together for three.

00:49:07.760 So you would have started when you were dating, right?

00:49:09.680 Started doing the TikToks?

00:49:11.440 I had already started before.

00:49:14.000 Before?

00:49:14.520 Yeah.

00:49:15.180 Even when we were like talking or whatever.

00:49:17.460 Were you dating other guys before you started dating him?

00:49:20.300 No.

00:49:21.220 Were you talking to other guys ever before you started dating him?

00:49:23.720 I talked to like one guy before him.

00:49:26.520 Did you stop doing that when you started dating him?

00:49:28.220 Did I what?

00:49:29.940 Did you stop doing that when you started dating him?

00:49:32.660 Did you stop talking to other guys?

00:49:34.660 Yes.

00:49:35.160 Would that be a boundary?

00:49:36.460 Yes.

00:49:37.040 So why does it matter if they're doing it before?

00:49:39.320 Isn't it the most important that the boundaries match in a relationship?

00:49:43.240 What do you mean boundaries match?

00:49:44.440 Match.

00:49:45.040 Like, for example, I'm in a relationship for four years.

00:49:49.160 So I'm no longer talking to other guys.

00:49:51.660 I'm no longer kissing other guys or sleeping with them, only with my boyfriend.

00:49:55.160 That's a boundary that he wants.

00:49:57.200 And I respect that.

00:49:58.080 It's a good match.

00:49:59.620 But if my boyfriend would say, I don't want you to be a Twitch streamer anymore, then that's

00:50:05.000 my work.

00:50:05.780 That's my hobby.

00:50:06.420 That's my passion.

00:50:07.480 Then it wouldn't match.

00:50:08.500 Then the relationship would just not work.

00:50:10.760 So I think you have to find...

00:50:12.380 You play games on Twitch, yeah?

00:50:13.480 Yeah. 0.98

00:50:13.740 Do you do it with your boobs out? 0.98

00:50:14.880 No. 0.94

00:50:15.520 I mean, it depends what you call boobs out, I guess. 0.76

00:50:19.000 I mean, can I see your cleavage? 0.88

00:50:21.380 I wear this dress also on Twitch.

00:50:23.540 Do you have a lot of...

00:50:24.200 And sometimes a shirt.

00:50:25.100 Do you have a lot of men in the chat sort of...

00:50:27.520 Oh, yeah.

00:50:27.940 But most of them also know my boyfriend because we have meetups and stuff like that.

00:50:32.860 I mean, I don't really know anything about Twitch gaming.

00:50:35.000 I've never been on Twitch myself.

00:50:36.600 So I don't really know how that works.

00:50:38.020 But sure, if it's your work and everything, then as long as it's not like a thirst trap.

00:50:41.620 But this is like a thirst trap, what we're talking about here.

00:50:43.820 Yeah.

00:50:44.160 And that should be off limits when you're in a relationship.

00:50:47.740 It depends because it's about the boundaries matching.

00:50:50.840 I mean, there's also girls with OnlyFans that have boyfriends that are completely fine with that.

00:50:54.700 So when you say the boundaries match, does that mean that my boundaries have to be commensurate with what she thinks she can do?

00:51:00.980 If you...

00:51:02.700 I mean, you should talk about it.

00:51:05.640 But like, what if I have a boundary that she doesn't think is reasonable?

00:51:09.400 Then I'm not sure if it's a great fit for the relationship.

00:51:12.420 And of course, sometimes you have to compensate.

00:51:14.000 I think that we can all agree that if you're dating a girl who won't stop doing the TikToks, then you should break up.

00:51:21.800 Your boyfriend should have broken up with you the first conversation of you the next day when I posted another TikTok. 0.96

00:51:25.960 Because it doesn't match.

00:51:26.860 A hundred percent.

00:51:27.680 He should have broken up with you.

00:51:28.620 But we're arguing about the merit of the boundary and whether it's a reasonable boundary.

00:51:33.580 And sometimes it is completely fine to compensate and, for example, say, well, okay, I really like doing these TikToks.

00:51:38.780 But you don't like it.

00:51:40.100 I really like you.

00:51:41.060 I will stop doing them.

00:51:42.340 But if she wants to... 0.65

00:51:43.040 What do you think your boyfriend would say if you, Tamara, started posting TikToks of you with showing some titty and... 0.98

00:51:49.880 He would laugh so hard.

00:51:51.140 ...mumbling some Chris Brown.

00:51:52.280 He would probably be very worried.

00:51:55.160 But what do you think he would honestly think if you started doing that?

00:51:57.000 He would be worried.

00:51:57.960 Because that's not something I would do.

00:51:59.660 Why would he be worried?

00:52:00.180 Because I don't like that.

00:52:01.240 Because he would be...

00:52:02.280 He knows me for four years.

00:52:04.000 And do you think that it doesn't really match your character to be doing that sort of content?

00:52:07.380 No, I don't think so, no.

00:52:08.460 Okay.

00:52:08.820 So do you think that would be a reasonable boundary if he said, hey, listen, I don't want you doing those videos?

00:52:13.860 I mean, it's hypothetical.

00:52:16.620 I don't know because I can't imagine...

00:52:18.240 I'm saying that, but put yourself in the hypothetical for a second.

00:52:21.540 Do you think that that would be a reasonable boundary?

00:52:25.760 I mean, I do cosplays as well.

00:52:27.740 So I guess maybe if I would have one that has more boobs out and he would say, hey, I don't feel comfortable with that, I might not wear that cosplay anymore.

00:52:38.780 But if I really love the cosplay, then maybe I will keep wearing it.

00:52:42.240 I don't know.

00:52:42.960 I think that I can't think of a point of doing TikToks or anything like that, cosplay, whatever, and sexualizing yourself that isn't for male attention.

00:52:51.660 Oh, but cosplaying isn't sexualizing. 0.93

00:52:54.180 For whatever the reason, maybe for your Twitch streaming, I mean, how much of your audience is male?

00:52:58.680 I don't know, 60%, 70%.

00:53:01.100 Probably more than that, I'd say, because it's gaming.

00:53:03.400 Oh, no, there's a lot of girls in gaming as well. 1.00

00:53:05.940 Is there?

00:53:06.660 Yeah.

00:53:07.520 I am a girl in gaming, for example.

00:53:09.680 Yeah, no, I have a lot of girls in communities and mothers, and it's very, yeah, community-based.

00:53:18.120 Cool.

00:53:18.580 Well, I haven't seen your twitching, but yeah, I'm sure it's very wholesome with the cosplay.

00:53:26.220 Selena, what do you think?

00:53:27.840 Reasonable boundary or controlling insecure?

00:53:30.680 I mean, if it was to the point where she felt she had to break up, like, it was obviously on his end, like, there should be some compromise, just because, especially if she was already making the videos before they were dating, why all of a sudden would it be an issue for him?

00:53:49.120 And, like, why would he date her if it was such a big problem for him?

00:53:52.580 Because they're dating now.

00:53:53.500 You do things differently when you're in a relationship as to how you act when you're single.

00:53:58.220 Right, but in that context, he didn't break up with her over it.

00:54:01.800 I know, he should have.

00:54:02.680 Right, so it's kind of on him.

00:54:04.060 If it's that big of a deal, then just don't date that person for him.

00:54:07.380 Agreed.

00:54:08.580 Definitely should have broken up with her.

00:54:12.340 If it was an issue for him, yeah, you know, I mean.

00:54:14.760 So, let's finish up the relationship stats really quick, but going back to you really quick, you said you're very much single.

00:54:22.820 Yeah.

00:54:23.360 When's the last time you were on a date?

00:54:28.760 Maybe, like, two months ago.

00:54:31.500 Two months ago.

00:54:32.040 When's the last time you hung out with a guy?

00:54:36.120 Maybe, like, two months ago.

00:54:37.500 Okay, same thing.

00:54:38.600 Okay.

00:54:39.520 And last time you hooked up with a guy?

00:54:44.760 Yesterday?

00:54:48.120 No.

00:54:48.740 Oh, okay.

00:54:50.040 I was up there all day yesterday, so.

00:54:53.640 I'm not sure.

00:54:56.740 Two months ago?

00:54:57.660 Maybe, like, no.

00:55:00.800 Sooner?

00:55:02.200 No, no, no.

00:55:03.020 Before that.

00:55:03.800 Oh, longer ago.

00:55:05.400 Yeah, like a couple months ago.

00:55:06.860 Okay, got it.

00:55:07.940 Maddie, what about you?

00:55:08.920 Relationship status?

00:55:10.520 I'm happily in a relationship.

00:55:12.900 My current...

00:55:13.380 It doesn't matter what you think!

00:55:16.680 And it's been a little over two years.

00:55:19.160 Jake?

00:55:20.000 Yep, single since about 2021.

00:55:22.020 Only dating seriously, so not...

00:55:24.040 I think they were saying balking on the show last time, despite the rampant rumors on here.

00:55:27.920 But none of that going on, not on the streets.

00:55:31.860 Oh, I'm just single.

00:55:33.920 Been single for, like, a year.

00:55:35.120 And that's...

00:55:36.120 All right.

00:55:38.400 Longest relationship?

00:55:40.280 Like, two years.

00:55:41.260 Two years.

00:55:41.700 Okay, got it.

00:55:43.300 All right, that's everybody's relationship status.

00:55:44.940 We have a chat here coming from Terminal.

00:55:47.780 Lance.

00:55:48.900 41 states have a city town named Springfield. 0.99

00:55:51.580 Damn, that's a lot. 0.99

00:55:52.860 Is there Springfield, California? 0.99

00:55:54.640 Ladies... 1.00

00:55:55.240 Definitely Ohio.

00:55:55.820 By the way, what's going on in Springfield?

00:55:57.340 They're eating the dogs.

00:55:59.000 They're eating the dogs.

00:56:00.840 Eating the cats.

00:56:02.240 I don't know.

00:56:02.540 I can't do it.

00:56:03.280 Can you do it?

00:56:03.720 They're eating the dogs.

00:56:04.960 The dogs.

00:56:10.160 Ladies... 1.00

00:56:10.720 Here, let me pull it up.

00:56:12.160 Ladies, if you get to keep your... 0.99

00:56:13.980 Wait, did that... 0.95

00:56:14.640 What the hell? 0.95

00:56:15.140 Hold on. 0.99

00:56:16.840 There we go.

00:56:17.460 Ladies, if you get to keep your Instagram or TikTok, then your guy gets to keep his dating

00:56:22.640 apps profiles.

00:56:24.920 Hashtag equality.

00:56:26.120 Do you guys agree?

00:56:26.980 Is this a fair trade-off?

00:56:27.980 No.

00:56:28.180 You get to keep your Instagram.

00:56:29.560 He gets to stay on the dating apps.

00:56:31.240 Is it fair?

00:56:31.880 Going around the table starting with you.

00:56:32.700 Definitely not.

00:56:33.420 Definitely not.

00:56:34.020 If you're trying to date, you already have the best thing there is, so...

00:56:37.720 Oh, okay.

00:56:38.780 But you already have the best thing, so why do you need attention on social media?

00:56:42.860 I don't.

00:56:44.460 No, but I'm saying in the hypothetical world that we're in right now.

00:56:47.680 If you're already dating somebody, why would you need to be getting this attention on social

00:56:50.960 media?

00:56:51.340 You don't.

00:56:52.160 At all.

00:56:52.920 So why can't he keep his apps then?

00:56:55.060 Why does he want attention?

00:56:56.400 Why do you want attention?

00:56:57.820 How about we both just give each other attention?

00:57:00.300 And not have any of the apps?

00:57:03.580 Yeah.

00:57:04.040 Fantastic.

00:57:04.920 You agree then.

00:57:05.540 You know what I think would actually be kind of a sort of fair trade-off, but still not

00:57:10.020 even really?

00:57:10.900 Or maybe it's fair.

00:57:12.220 So the men, they get to keep their dating apps.

00:57:16.660 They can't send a message, though.

00:57:18.740 They can't respond, but they can keep their profile active on the dating app.

00:57:23.240 I think that that's actually a really kind of close to a one-to-one comparison of women 0.79

00:57:30.000 keeping their Instagram.

00:57:31.700 Are they going on the dating app?

00:57:33.080 Go ahead, Yael.

00:57:33.520 I was going to say, a lot of people just post pictures of the ocean, or not everybody's just

00:57:38.900 posting that.

00:57:39.040 Well, we need to pull up Yael's answer.

00:57:41.540 It's private.

00:57:42.460 Wait, it's private?

00:57:43.360 Mm-hmm.

00:57:44.100 It is?

00:57:44.920 Yeah.

00:57:45.980 It wasn't before.

00:57:47.760 Wait, is it?

00:57:48.500 Really?

00:57:48.820 I think so, right?

00:57:50.000 Yeah.

00:57:50.540 Okay.

00:57:51.360 Oh, okay.

00:57:52.160 All right.

00:57:52.500 Well, in any case, I think the difference is, though, and I think what the super chatter

00:58:00.280 is trying to get at is that, so men and women, we flirt very differently.

00:58:06.680 So, for example, a guy will approach you at a bar or club.

00:58:12.660 He'll approach 10 women in a night.

00:58:14.260 If you guys go to a bar or a club, you're not going to go at, like, approach 10 dudes.

00:58:20.600 You'll go to the bar.

00:58:22.040 Perhaps you'll put yourself in a kind of a position to be approached.

00:58:26.320 You'll go there, dressed really nice, looking sexy, whatever, and maybe you'll make eye contact

00:58:32.180 with a guy.

00:58:32.740 That's the extent of it, in the hopes of eliciting them to come talk to you.

00:58:38.420 So, when you go out to the bars, your intention is not, I'm going to go approach men.

00:58:43.200 Your intention is, whether conscious or unconscious, I'm going to make myself available for men to

00:58:49.800 come talk to me.

00:58:51.380 And similarly, when it comes to Instagram, you're not going to, like, you might occasionally

00:58:55.240 slide into a DM here or there, like an A-list celebrity.

00:58:58.400 You'll shoot your shot with, like, the top-tier dudes, whereas guys will shoot their shot

00:59:02.240 with anything.

00:59:02.640 Um, you'll post a revealing photo.

00:59:06.320 Oh, I hope a guy or some guys or this particular guy notices me, reacts to this.

00:59:13.580 This elicits him to then contact me, or men in general to contact you.

00:59:18.400 So, going back to how men and women flirt very differently, when men enter into a relationship

00:59:23.780 with any of you guys, there's an expectation on his part, okay, the way that you flirt as

00:59:29.160 a man, you need to stop that once we're in a relationship.

00:59:31.700 So, the way men flirt, we take initiative, we approach you, we'll slide into the DMs,

00:59:36.180 et cetera.

00:59:37.120 There's an expectation that that stops and ceases when we're in a relationship.

00:59:42.040 But the ways in which that you conduct yourself when you're single doesn't cease once you're

00:59:49.080 in a relationship.

00:59:50.000 It continues when you're in a relationship.

00:59:51.900 You continue going to bars.

00:59:53.260 You continue going to parties.

00:59:54.480 And you continue making yourself available on social media platforms.

00:59:58.800 You continue posting photos, oftentimes revealing photos, on social media.

01:00:03.400 And this is the way that you flirt online.

01:00:06.160 That's a very good point.

01:00:06.920 Yeah.

01:00:07.220 So, there's an expectation on men.

01:00:10.780 It's a very one-directional expectation.

01:00:13.220 We have to stop the way we flirt, flirt.

01:00:15.640 But you guys, even in a relationship, even in the marriage, you don't have to stop the

01:00:22.980 ways that you make yourselves available to men.

01:00:26.460 And it's very unfair.

01:00:27.960 And so, the soup chat that came in, the Streamlabs donation, I agree with equality.

01:00:32.900 Maybe Jake does too.

01:00:34.560 If we got to stop approaching women, you guys have to stop making yourselves available in 1.00

01:00:39.980 single environments or on social media.

01:00:42.280 You can still have an Instagram.

01:00:45.120 Maybe you could private it.

01:00:47.180 Maybe you stop posting kind of more revealing photos.

01:00:52.360 But definitely no bars, clubs, parties.

01:00:54.640 That's got to be a deal breaker for men.

01:00:57.320 Can you go together?

01:00:58.780 Well, I suppose you could.

01:01:00.560 But I advise against it.

01:01:02.700 But then again, I'm kind of more of a homebody.

01:01:04.400 But I don't go to bars or clubs.

01:01:05.600 So, I wouldn't even want to date a girl who's inclined to do that even when she's single. 0.97

01:01:13.880 Because that's just, that would be such a mismatch of, is it a hobby to go to a bar?

01:01:18.660 I don't know if it's a mismatch of hobby.

01:01:20.160 Maybe how you spend your free time.

01:01:21.180 What's that?

01:01:21.540 How you like to spend your free time.

01:01:23.220 Oh, how do I like to spend my free time?

01:01:25.060 Well, you want to find someone that you have the same free time schedule with.

01:01:29.360 Yeah, I just, since I don't go to these types of venues, I don't think I would.

01:01:32.460 If it's like hobby bar hopping, if it's like they've got like a friend's birthday and they're going out and seeing their friends, I wouldn't mind about that.

01:01:38.840 But if there's somebody who's like a rampant bar or club goer, then yeah, you wouldn't want to date somebody like that.

01:01:44.380 It's constantly in the belly of the beast.

01:01:47.100 But yeah, so I just don't think I see myself dating a girl who even goes out to bars and clubs and parties really to begin with.

01:01:55.900 But like Jake said, if it's occasional thing, I don't think I would really mind.

01:01:59.060 But like Thursday, Friday, Saturday, every single day of the week, yeah, that's probably a problem.

01:02:05.060 So, yeah.

01:02:08.420 But fair proposition, we have to stop flirting. 0.73

01:02:11.560 We have to stop initiating.

01:02:13.160 You guys got to stop going to environments where you can anticipate you're going to get this kind of male attention.

01:02:20.280 Fair?

01:02:21.860 Fair proposition.

01:02:22.960 Isn't that technically everywhere, Dan?

01:02:24.340 Because typically, I've been hit in a grocery store.

01:02:29.140 I've actually got a no grocery store rule.

01:02:32.060 Oh, makes sense.

01:02:33.520 Makes sense.

01:02:34.100 You shouldn't have them go there.

01:02:36.260 So that's a fair, I suppose that's a fair argument.

01:02:38.400 So I would not have a boundary like, oh, you're not allowed to go out in public ever.

01:02:43.600 You're not allowed to go to the grocery store.

01:02:46.200 But I do acknowledge that as a woman, you can be approached anywhere.

01:02:53.460 It could be the grocery store.

01:02:54.940 It could be you're just out and about, shopping, whatever.

01:02:58.660 I wouldn't attempt to put any controls on that because that's just you moving about your day through life.

01:03:08.220 The difference is, though, is the venues that you choose to go to.

01:03:11.080 So, for example, while I acknowledge that men might approach you in a grocery store, it's far less common that at a party club or nightclub, then add on to that, the involvement of alcohol.

01:03:23.080 Most people don't go to Trader Joe's to get turned up.

01:03:25.980 Turned up?

01:03:27.180 I'm sorry.

01:03:27.380 I'm too white.

01:03:27.840 I know what you mean.

01:03:28.680 They don't go to Trader Joe's to get drunk.

01:03:30.800 I don't think in the history of Trader Joe's a woman's ever been finger banged, like, ever.

01:03:36.520 But if you go to a nightclub or a bar, chicks begin, bro, people are hooking up, making out.

01:03:42.480 They're getting finger banged. 0.99

01:03:43.500 They're fucking 30 minutes later. 0.99

01:03:44.880 Okay? 0.99

01:03:45.220 It happens.

01:03:45.900 Look.

01:03:46.420 My bars are different.

01:03:48.460 I, look, I went, I saw, I, Santa Barbara, number one, UCSB, number one party school in the U.S.

01:03:56.920 The amount when I, and I was never a big partier, never a really big drinker, but I went to parties here and there and stuff. 0.95

01:04:02.600 The amount of fuckery that I saw, like, people fucking within 30 minutes of meeting, like, some people meeting right by the beach. 0.95

01:04:10.960 Okay, boom. 0.99

01:04:12.100 Meet at a party. 1.00

01:04:13.060 Let's go fuck at the beach 30 minutes later. 1.00

01:04:14.960 Let's go fuck in the bathroom, laundry room, whatever. 1.00

01:04:18.320 I've seen it. 1.00

01:04:19.120 I've seen people fucking in the middle of parties. 0.99

01:04:21.680 And it wasn't a sex party. 1.00

01:04:22.860 They just started fucking. 1.00

01:04:23.720 It was like a normal college party, and they're getting finger blasted. 0.99

01:04:27.560 I think I missed some things being in Europe.

01:04:31.060 Well, I've been to the Netherlands three times.

01:04:35.220 And they have fraternities.

01:04:36.280 I don't know.

01:04:36.940 Hold on.

01:04:37.460 They have fraternities in the Netherlands.

01:04:39.000 I know.

01:04:39.120 Fraternity sororities.

01:04:40.120 I went to a fraternity party. 1.00

01:04:41.980 Shit goes down in the Dutch frat parties. 1.00

01:04:43.940 And I've been to one of those festivals as well. 0.99

01:04:46.880 I've been to Lowlands Festival in Amsterdam.

01:04:48.180 I know.

01:04:48.800 It happens a lot.

01:04:49.880 But I want to agree with you to some extent.

01:04:53.900 I think I have a friend.

01:04:55.300 When we used to go out together, and she wouldn't go home with a man, she would say,

01:04:59.800 oh, my evening sucked, and it really was disappointing.

01:05:03.320 And I would be like, oh, but we had a great evening because we're just, you know, having fun going out.

01:05:08.600 So, I think for those girls who really see partying as the way to be picked up and hook up with people and go to the beach in 30 minutes, yes, that's a thing. 0.98

01:05:22.100 But I still go out with my best friends every now and then.

01:05:25.380 But if guys approach me, I say, oh, I'm taken by.

01:05:29.440 I'm just having fun with my friend.

01:05:32.040 So, I think, yeah.

01:05:33.260 Yeah.

01:05:33.700 So, I mean, look, going back to this whole Trader Joe's example.

01:05:38.480 So, nightclubs, bars, parties, these are very, very specific social gathering type environments where there's an expectation.

01:05:45.880 As the woman going in, like, there's a high likelihood that you're going to get approached.

01:05:49.780 And so, I just think when it comes to the respect of your partner, you just would opt to not go to these types of environments.

01:05:55.420 I really like live music.

01:05:56.700 And I often go to bars with live music.

01:05:58.660 And you don't have that in your home.

01:06:00.520 Do you like live music more than your boyfriend?

01:06:03.840 No, but my boyfriend is fine with that.

01:06:05.600 And I don't pick up guys when I'm in a bar.

01:06:08.380 Yeah, I mean, look, if he has no issues with it, and you're certainly free to do it, I just think it's a perfectly reasonable standard and boundary for men to have, especially men who are relationship-minded. 1.00

01:06:20.940 Look, a guy who just wants to fuck you probably doesn't give a fuck. 0.99

01:06:23.440 So, a guy who's actually, who cares about you, who wants you to be safe, who doesn't want to see. 1.00

01:06:28.800 Because how many times do we see stories of, like, you know, some guy's going to grab your ass or, you know, you get, you know, something gets dropped in your drink. 0.59

01:06:37.420 Like, guys view the world through, like, a sort of a bit of a different lens sometimes. 0.98

01:06:43.360 And we're, like, looking at it from, like, a security safety perspective.

01:06:46.680 And we don't want our girlfriend to be put in a potentially vulnerable situation where, not her fault, but we can't control for what some drunk douchebag's going to do. 1.00

01:06:59.280 Who knows?

01:06:59.900 There could be some safety concern.

01:07:01.560 And we don't want to be in a position where your safety is at risk.

01:07:07.720 And if, like, as women, you want men to be protectors, like, this is within the purview of us trying to, like, look out for you and your safety.

01:07:16.100 If you say it like that, it's really nice.

01:07:17.280 Yeah.

01:07:17.740 But, I mean, I luckily haven't been in moments that I'm in a bar and people do things that I don't feel safe with.

01:07:25.240 Well, I don't know if Santa Barbara's different.

01:07:27.160 And it's weird because Santa Barbara is, like, a really nice area, high cost of living, relatively safe.

01:07:33.120 But, like, every single time when I, again, never was a big partier, but I'd occasionally, like, go out with a friend, too.

01:07:39.520 And I would maybe have one drink at a bar or a nightclub or whatever.

01:07:43.820 Certainly when I was younger, I haven't been out in years.

01:07:47.700 But when I was a bit younger, I did.

01:07:49.400 Every single time I went out, there was always violence, always saw a fight, always saw something going on.

01:07:54.880 Now, this is typically more so a concern as a man because, you know, some random guy is not going to start a fight with you.

01:08:03.320 But every, like, when it comes to safety concerns, security concerns, every single time I've been out, there's always tension.

01:08:10.820 There's always violence in the air.

01:08:12.360 I always see a fight.

01:08:13.720 Somebody gets knocked out.

01:08:15.020 Brain damage, injury, paramedics, firefighters, police, every single time I've been out.

01:08:20.520 I've never not gone out and not seen something go down.

01:08:24.120 Every single time.

01:08:25.580 True.

01:08:26.120 But I go to rock and metal bars and it happens less, I guess.

01:08:31.200 Yeah, I don't know.

01:08:32.020 What kind of bars?

01:08:32.960 Rock and metal, like music.

01:08:35.120 They're all, like, mosh pitting and stuff like that?

01:08:36.860 Yeah, they're all, like, big friendly bears.

01:08:39.100 They're just very cozy people.

01:08:42.600 Also, the Haas music.

01:08:43.700 Do you have the Haas music in Holland?

01:08:45.660 Yeah, but I don't really go there.

01:08:46.880 Europeans love those parties.

01:08:48.000 And that's where a lot more of the...

01:08:50.960 Yeah, yeah.

01:08:52.040 There's a lot of just, like, sex drugs and rock and roll happening in those places.

01:08:55.380 Yeah.

01:08:55.860 Yeah.

01:08:57.900 Oh, the other thing is, well, you might say, okay, well, go with your girlfriend.

01:09:03.260 But, like, that is...

01:09:04.940 I think that's a terrible idea.

01:09:08.100 And I'll know, Jake, maybe you've had experiences like this.

01:09:10.260 Like, if you're with the wrong girl, like, and she's been drinking, she's going to get you into a fight. 0.73

01:09:18.860 Potentially.

01:09:19.400 That's how the fights normally start.

01:09:21.440 That's a big...

01:09:21.960 I mean, it's a big cause of it.

01:09:23.380 And, like, the thing is, is if, like, some drunk guy is, like, hassling you, you're going to, like, look to your boyfriend to intervene on your behalf.

01:09:31.600 And then there's been so many instances of, it's not always the girl's fault, but, like, sometimes the girl will be intoxicated, like, mouth off to some dude.

01:09:42.820 And then that dude gets aggro.

01:09:44.640 And he's not going to target the girl.

01:09:45.840 He's going to target the guy that she's with.

01:09:48.820 Then it could break out into a fight.

01:09:50.540 He's going to get sparked.

01:09:51.620 And then your boyfriend's going to get knocked out.

01:09:53.180 And then you're going to dump him because you can't see your boyfriend in a vulnerable position.

01:09:58.120 Your boyfriend got knocked out.

01:09:59.680 You're going to dump him within three weeks. 0.98

01:10:01.520 And then he has brain damage.

01:10:03.940 So, guys, don't go out with your girlfriend to bars and clubs because it's just not good. 0.99

01:10:09.940 But is it really like that here?

01:10:12.120 Like, it's...

01:10:12.980 Welcome to America.

01:10:14.100 Yeah.

01:10:14.740 Welcome to America.

01:10:15.460 We were supposed to go out, but I'm kind of scared now, honestly.

01:10:18.700 It's a very different scene in America than it is in Europe, for sure.

01:10:22.180 So there's always fights.

01:10:23.340 You can basically count on it.

01:10:24.780 I can't say I've been out in America too many times, but you can tell by the atmosphere and everything.

01:10:29.660 It's a lot more violent.

01:10:31.000 England is terrible. 0.99

01:10:32.040 England's terrible, yeah.

01:10:33.660 But places like Holland and Germany, they genuinely tend to really go out for music.

01:10:37.280 And they have a better relationship with alcohol.

01:10:39.940 And drug.

01:10:40.580 They take a lot of drugs, though, over there.

01:10:43.980 Right.

01:10:45.100 In any case, in any case, look, I think going back to the original thing, though, I think,

01:10:53.780 look, I think if you guys don't want to give up bars, clubs, partying, you know, keeping your Instagram public, posting revealing stuff,

01:11:01.680 maybe it's fair for the guys to keep their Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Christian, Mingle, Farmers Only, Grindr, even, and keep it on.

01:11:11.000 We won't send a message, but we will accrue.

01:11:14.560 We will continue to accrue matches, and maybe some of the girls message us first. 1.00

01:11:19.360 And we just keep accruing it, but we won't message any of them.

01:11:22.580 We won't respond until we take a break.

01:11:30.680 That's not my husband, then.

01:11:32.480 Yeah, no.

01:11:33.580 That doesn't make any sense.

01:11:34.480 So, okay, that's not your husband.

01:11:36.360 But then what if the guy turns around and says, well, you post revealing photos on Instagram.

01:11:41.040 You're not wifey material. 1.00

01:11:43.040 That's fine.

01:11:43.840 Oh, you're fine with that?

01:11:44.600 That's not my soulmate.

01:11:45.920 So your soulmate has to accept you going to raves and parties and bars and clubs and posting revealing photos on Instagram?

01:11:53.420 Well, if they go with me.

01:11:54.380 What if they don't?

01:11:55.340 Well, then we probably wouldn't be together.

01:11:57.580 Or I would just, I mean, I like to stay at home if I don't go to festivals, so.

01:12:02.860 They have to have the same hobbies as me.

01:12:04.400 This is a cyclical thing.

01:12:05.060 You said before that you have high standards, right?

01:12:06.640 Yeah.

01:12:06.740 So high standards would suggest that you're looking for a pretty capable guy, good looking, he's probably tall.

01:12:11.540 And these sorts of guys have a lot of options.

01:12:13.320 And they just won't put up with this.

01:12:14.840 So it's this cyclical thing that girls enter into and they say, I need this, this, this, this, and this. 0.79

01:12:20.220 And I've got this laundry list of things that I need.

01:12:22.380 But I'm not willing to take these photos down.

01:12:24.960 I'm not willing to compromise with you at all.

01:12:26.960 And then the guys that you will attract, if you do those things, you won't respect.

01:12:30.920 I'd be willing to compromise if they were the right person for me.

01:12:33.260 He just said that.

01:12:34.100 And you said that you wouldn't take the photos down and you wouldn't stop.

01:12:36.780 I didn't say that.

01:12:37.940 Isn't that just what happened?

01:12:39.100 Did I hear wrong?

01:12:41.520 You said that we would.

01:12:43.200 I think she would take photos down. 0.95

01:12:47.280 Is that what you're saying?

01:12:48.200 I said I would make a compromise.

01:12:49.940 What's the compromise?

01:12:50.940 Well, it would depend on the photos.

01:12:52.240 Here's the compromise.

01:12:52.800 Like, okay, there's a difference.

01:12:53.920 Here's the compromise.

01:12:55.020 Here's, okay, role play here.

01:12:56.620 Hi, I'm your boyfriend.

01:12:57.580 It's good to meet you.

01:12:59.140 Okay.

01:13:00.040 You need to make your Instagram private. 1.00

01:13:01.540 And you got to take all this shit down. 0.99

01:13:05.620 No, you can archive. 0.99

01:13:06.620 Maybe you archive.

01:13:07.660 There's a compromise.

01:13:08.900 You can archive.

01:13:09.360 No, archive suggests that we're going to break up.

01:13:11.900 That's a fair point.

01:13:13.000 You know what?

01:13:13.700 You're allowed to have a MySpace account.

01:13:16.660 But I have to choose your top friends and your favorite song.

01:13:19.600 You don't know what MySpace is?

01:13:21.140 Wasn't that like...

01:13:21.680 That's a bit before your time, right?

01:13:22.760 Yeah, it's older.

01:13:23.360 Gen Z. 0.99

01:13:24.360 Damn, you know what's crazy? 0.99

01:13:25.480 Gen Z looks at MySpace the same way that we look at a rotary phone. 1.00

01:13:31.680 That's crazy.

01:13:32.740 Was MySpace like pre-Facebook or was that...

01:13:36.480 Yeah, I remember the exact time when Facebook started to take over MySpace.

01:13:43.100 And I was like, but I can't have top friends in Facebook.

01:13:45.940 Massive bummer.

01:13:47.240 Anyways.

01:13:47.700 Anyways. 1.00

01:13:48.780 Damn. 0.99

01:13:50.560 We're boomers over here. 0.99

01:13:51.420 MySpace was the best.

01:13:53.500 W MySpace.

01:13:54.840 We're old.

01:13:55.460 W MySpace.

01:13:56.000 I wonder if anybody like got...

01:13:59.320 You know how like people use Instagram as a dating app?

01:14:01.860 Like they get it in on Instagram sending DMs. 0.98

01:14:04.320 I wonder if like some dude was fucking killing it on MySpace. 0.97

01:14:07.200 Yeah, dude. 0.98

01:14:07.760 For sure.

01:14:08.420 I had a friend who was in a few different girls' top friends like...

01:14:11.840 And I was like, play out.

01:14:12.740 Top friends.

01:14:13.340 He's killing.

01:14:14.580 He's out here.

01:14:16.880 And that's when you could like...

01:14:18.220 Your whole profile could be like customized.

01:14:20.720 Yeah.

01:14:20.880 Like HTML.

01:14:21.440 You had a song.

01:14:22.560 Remember that?

01:14:22.940 The song.

01:14:23.440 Yeah.

01:14:24.260 Yeah.

01:14:24.840 That was the best.

01:14:25.440 The MySpace, yeah.

01:14:27.560 I used to do some simpy songs when I was younger.

01:14:30.140 Yeah.

01:14:30.840 I wish I could say I was killing it on MySpace, but I was like high school.

01:14:34.020 No, man.

01:14:35.200 Not killing it on MySpace.

01:14:36.940 So how do you guys pick up girls?

01:14:38.400 What's your...

01:14:39.200 What do you guys do?

01:14:39.840 Mainly MySpace.

01:14:40.800 Oh, yeah.

01:14:41.160 MySpace.

01:14:42.680 What's your game?

01:14:43.640 Grindr.

01:14:43.800 I go on Grindr.

01:14:45.280 Apparently like that's...

01:14:46.240 We had a girl...

01:14:46.980 No, I'm kidding.

01:14:47.400 But we had a girl like last week who... 1.00

01:14:50.400 She met a guy on Grindr.

01:14:54.400 What?

01:14:54.840 Remember?

01:14:55.880 Or you weren't here.

01:14:57.100 Oh, you weren't here.

01:14:59.340 It is a gay dating app, but...

01:15:01.160 Sounds like when they're in...

01:15:02.060 So he wasn't gay?

01:15:02.960 I'm just...

01:15:03.660 Disregard the Grindr comment.

01:15:06.440 I'm not on dating apps, so...

01:15:09.380 I just...

01:15:09.860 I let girls slide into the DMs back in the day. 1.00

01:15:15.320 Honestly, you have to be hit on. 0.98

01:15:16.360 Purely killed approach. 0.99

01:15:17.420 Yeah.

01:15:17.760 I'm in my...

01:15:18.480 I'm in my sassy man era.

01:15:20.740 Sassy man era.

01:15:22.080 Yeah.

01:15:23.280 Drizzle, drizzle, drizzle. 0.73

01:15:25.000 The girls have to do all the work. 1.00

01:15:26.840 Yeah.

01:15:27.100 I can't stand the dating apps.

01:15:28.240 It's mainly just cold approach.

01:15:31.080 Just on the streets.

01:15:31.820 Hey, Trader Joe's.

01:15:32.600 Oh, on the streets.

01:15:33.280 So you are on the streets.

01:15:35.220 Cold approaching, though, in a gentlemanly way.

01:15:37.200 But libraries, cafes, these sorts of places.

01:15:39.960 What were we talking about?

01:15:43.480 Do we have any pushback from...

01:15:45.560 Any more pushback from anybody on the whole controlling thing?

01:15:48.840 I don't know.

01:15:50.500 Oh, I was going to ask.

01:15:51.900 Do you think...

01:15:52.480 Question for you, because you mentioned controlling.

01:15:54.960 Mm-hmm.

01:15:55.860 Would you...

01:15:57.560 Your longest relationship was six years, you said?

01:16:00.440 Yeah.

01:16:01.500 Let's just...

01:16:02.340 Like, future boyfriend or whatever.

01:16:04.400 Would you have an issue if he was paying for another girl's OnlyFans?

01:16:08.040 That's a good question.

01:16:13.000 I never thought about that.

01:16:13.740 I don't think I mind.

01:16:14.560 No.

01:16:14.720 You wouldn't mind?

01:16:15.300 No.

01:16:15.680 As long as I don't meet up.

01:16:16.640 He was, like, messaging?

01:16:17.640 No, he was just, like, chatting with her.

01:16:19.080 Yeah, I don't mind.

01:16:21.020 Really?

01:16:21.700 Yeah.

01:16:22.060 Okay.

01:16:22.300 But you asked the wrong person.

01:16:23.380 Like, I'm super open about that kind of stuff.

01:16:25.040 Do you...

01:16:25.340 Are you poly?

01:16:26.320 No.

01:16:27.400 Are you...

01:16:27.680 Do you have open relationships?

01:16:29.460 No.

01:16:29.840 Have you ever had an open relationship?

01:16:31.720 I've had in the past, yeah.

01:16:32.640 How open was the open relationship?

01:16:34.760 As open as it can get, I guess.

01:16:37.720 Who were you monogamous first? 1.00

01:16:41.560 Like, did it start monogamous, then you opened it up, or was it always open?

01:16:44.760 Yeah.

01:16:45.220 The other one who opened it up?

01:16:46.880 No, together.

01:16:48.220 Wait, mutual?

01:16:49.640 Someone's going to come up with the idea.

01:16:50.360 Yeah, we talked about it, and I was like, ah, maybe that's a good idea to try.

01:16:53.720 You talked about it.

01:16:54.340 Who started the condo?

01:16:56.040 He did.

01:16:57.620 Okay.

01:16:58.140 All right.

01:16:58.900 And then you were like, hell yeah.

01:17:00.340 No, I was like, oh, that's interesting.

01:17:02.080 Well, I never tried.

01:17:03.240 Maybe it's fun.

01:17:03.640 You were getting with other guys?

01:17:05.180 Yeah.

01:17:05.820 Was this your six-year relationship?

01:17:07.460 No, that was just something, like, in between.

01:17:10.580 How long was that relationship?

01:17:12.440 Like, one and a half years, so I don't really count it.

01:17:15.780 So, while you were seeing him, how many other guys did you see?

01:17:21.260 I don't know.

01:17:22.040 I don't take count of that.

01:17:23.400 Like, 10, 20, below, 30?

01:17:28.760 I don't know.

01:17:29.460 Maybe 10?

01:17:32.540 I don't know.

01:17:33.620 I think so.

01:17:34.500 Okay.

01:17:35.120 How many girls did he see? 1.00

01:17:37.760 Like, would you guys talk about it, kind of?

01:17:40.340 No, we wouldn't really talk about it, but I did know two girls that he was with.

01:17:45.860 So, I do know of two, but I think it's more probably around five.

01:17:52.720 So, you put in more work than he did?

01:17:56.440 More work?

01:17:57.180 More work.

01:17:58.360 I guess that's an American saying.

01:18:01.040 You got with more guys than he got with girls?

01:18:06.040 Yeah.

01:18:07.020 So, let's just say it would be, like, five and 10.

01:18:09.740 Yeah.

01:18:10.160 Okay.

01:18:11.460 But, so, going back to the question, would you be okay with your boyfriend subscribing to

01:18:16.280 Girls Only Fans while we open up to the panel? 1.00

01:18:18.120 What do you think?

01:18:19.640 No.

01:18:20.460 Not okay with it?

01:18:21.360 No.

01:18:21.800 But he's just being himself.

01:18:23.680 Your words.

01:18:24.500 I would not date someone that does that.

01:18:26.000 Those were your words, though.

01:18:27.540 You're like, well, when it comes to going to bars, clubs, parties, whatever, posting.

01:18:30.780 Oh, yeah, but I wouldn't date someone that is subscribed to someone else.

01:18:34.480 Subscribe to, well, you don't have an O-app.

01:18:36.580 No.

01:18:36.900 Yeah.

01:18:38.820 What would be wrong, though?

01:18:40.200 That's very controlling and insecure of you.

01:18:42.440 No, I'm not going to change him.

01:18:43.540 I'm just not going to date someone that is subscribed to someone else's channel.

01:18:46.920 But, but you should let him be himself.

01:18:49.260 Why are you controlling?

01:18:50.240 Yeah, he can, but not my boyfriend.

01:18:50.900 Okay, so let's say you are dating a guy, and he wasn't doing that, but then you found

01:18:54.880 out he was doing that a year into the relationship.

01:18:57.500 You break up with him?

01:18:59.600 Amazing.

01:18:59.880 Or do you say, stop that, or I'm going to break up with you?

01:19:03.440 It would depend on the situation.

01:19:05.420 How much I really like him.

01:19:07.380 You like him as much as you anticipate liking.

01:19:11.560 Like, would I marry him?

01:19:12.800 He's the best looking guy you've ever.

01:19:14.440 No, let's not be.

01:19:16.280 I feel like it's just got to be.

01:19:17.580 It's a more personality person.

01:19:18.320 Look, it's, it's the guy that you're going to end up with.

01:19:22.880 Doesn't sound like it.

01:19:24.000 Well, so it's, here's the thing.

01:19:25.640 When I say it's the guy you're going to end up with, a lot of girls are not going to get 1.00

01:19:29.420 the perfect man.

01:19:31.420 You're not going to get the perfect guy.

01:19:32.900 You're going to have to settle on certain things.

01:19:35.380 Or maybe, well, maybe that's another.

01:19:37.140 Okay, well, if everything else is perfect about him, then I would make him.

01:19:39.000 No, he's not perfect.

01:19:39.840 Oh, then no.

01:19:41.140 He's your equivalent.

01:19:43.500 So all the deficiencies that you have or that you bring to a relationship, by the way, I'm

01:19:49.300 not saying there are any, but he is, he is mirroring in some way the deficiencies in

01:20:00.800 which you're bringing.

01:20:02.720 Oh, so I'm not subscribed to OnlyFans, so he is.

01:20:05.460 No, I think, how do I just put this simply?

01:20:08.820 Look, let me ask you this.

01:20:11.720 Or, well, you said you're very picky and you have high standards, right?

01:20:14.020 We should get into that.

01:20:18.240 Why don't you tell us about the kind of guy that you want?

01:20:21.360 Okay, well.

01:20:21.940 So let's start looks.

01:20:23.560 Okay.

01:20:24.260 So how tall are you?

01:20:25.080 5'10".

01:20:25.960 Okay, 5'10", so you're pretty high up there?

01:20:30.060 Yeah, and I like to wear heels, too, so.

01:20:31.840 Okay, so bare minimum height for a guy for you to take.

01:20:35.160 Probably 6'2", or 6'3".

01:20:37.100 Okay, so you've already reduced.

01:20:38.640 So that's already, like, a really small percent of the population.

01:20:41.820 Yeah, so 6'3", that's 1%, I believe, or is it 3%, 1%?

01:20:49.640 Jake, do you know the percentage on this?

01:20:51.340 I'm not sure.

01:20:52.640 I know that, I think, 6 foot and above is 15%.

01:20:56.480 I think 5'8", is the average.

01:20:58.240 Yeah, I'm definitely taller than the average man.

01:20:59.880 Yeah, you are.

01:21:00.880 Well, I think the average is 5'9", or 5'10", in the U.S. anyways, but in Holland, it's a bit more than other ones.

01:21:06.400 So that's why I have higher standards.

01:21:10.380 So minimum 6'2", 6'3".

01:21:12.900 Yeah.

01:21:13.720 Okay, so that's already 1% of men, I believe.

01:21:16.980 Maybe 6'2", is like 3% of men.

01:21:18.860 Can somebody, can you find the statistics, Austin?

01:21:22.200 What about other physical traits?

01:21:23.820 So will you date any race?

01:21:26.040 Yeah, I'm open.

01:21:27.980 Will you date an obese guy?

01:21:30.040 No, because that just shows that they don't take care of themselves.

01:21:33.760 Sure.

01:21:34.500 And then age, what's the age range that you'll date?

01:21:37.220 I'm 27, so probably like 29 to 42.

01:21:43.500 Okay, that's pretty reasonable.

01:21:45.600 That's a wide range.

01:21:48.840 Look, we should do the calculator, too.

01:21:50.540 Austin, can you pull up the calculator?

01:21:51.440 Oh my gosh, it's probably so low.

01:21:53.140 Have you done this before?

01:21:54.560 No, but my friends always tell me that my dating pool is like 1%.

01:21:57.500 Brian, do you want to know the average height?

01:22:00.320 Yeah, what?

01:22:01.000 Yeah, you're 5'9".

01:22:01.980 Well, what's the percentage of men over 6'3"?

01:22:05.860 What's the height?

01:22:09.260 Maybe the chat probably knows.

01:22:11.100 What's the height percentile?

01:22:13.460 Okay, so 3%, so 4% 6'2", 3% 6'3", 1% over 6'4".

01:22:19.800 Okay, I was close enough.

01:22:21.140 Oh, okay, I have a 4%.

01:22:22.680 So 4% over 6'2".

01:22:25.640 Okay.

01:22:26.620 How much is 6'2 in centimeters? 0.77

01:22:29.520 About 190 or so.

01:22:30.820 Okay.

01:22:31.160 198, yeah.

01:22:33.160 Let's also pull up the calculator.

01:22:34.960 We should, oh, it should be one of the tabs.

01:22:38.740 If you look at one of the tabs up there, it's calculator.

01:22:41.440 All right, we're going to go through the calculator.

01:22:45.060 By the way, guys, like the video.

01:22:48.080 All right, so age, I think you said?

01:22:53.100 29 to 43.

01:22:55.840 Oh, 43, okay.

01:22:57.820 Race?

01:22:58.760 Any.

01:22:59.400 Exclude married, I'm assuming.

01:23:00.740 Oh, yeah, definitely not married.

01:23:01.660 Minimum height, you said let's do 6'2 or 6'3?

01:23:05.500 6'3.

01:23:06.880 Oh, okay.

01:23:07.940 Exclude obese?

01:23:09.120 Yes.

01:23:10.040 And then minimum income?

01:23:12.020 100,000.

01:23:13.140 100,000.

01:23:14.100 Well, you make way more as a nurse. 1.00

01:23:16.740 Wait.

01:23:18.520 Yeah.

01:23:18.860 Oh, that's fine.

01:23:19.620 Scroll down.

01:23:20.160 Ideal man, 0.11%.

01:23:27.380 That's really bad.

01:23:28.960 Percent.

01:23:30.260 Delusion score, 4 out of 5.

01:23:32.960 Why isn't it 5 out of 5?

01:23:34.300 That should be.

01:23:35.180 It should be more.

01:23:35.720 Oh, my gosh.

01:23:36.240 So what do I need to, like, settle on?

01:23:38.580 Perhaps height.

01:23:39.760 Height would be a good one.

01:23:41.420 Okay, I can go down, like, an inch.

01:23:43.880 But guys already lie about their height.

01:23:45.980 So you can go down an inch.

01:23:48.020 Wait, guys lie about their height?

01:23:49.500 Yeah.

01:23:50.400 Especially on dating apps.

01:23:52.120 Do you think that's wrong?

01:23:54.000 To lie?

01:23:54.840 About your height?

01:23:56.240 Yeah, it'd be like us lying about our bra size.

01:24:00.360 But worse.

01:24:01.380 It's worse.

01:24:02.040 Yeah, but there's not.

01:24:03.520 Girls always photo tune their stuff. 1.00

01:24:06.540 They always look very different in real life than they do in their photos.

01:24:11.520 Maybe, like.

01:24:12.520 These days, the AI is.

01:24:15.100 That's fair.

01:24:17.040 Makeup.

01:24:17.400 How do you lie about your height?

01:24:19.500 Well, like, on dating apps.

01:24:20.880 Oh, fair point.

01:24:21.740 Okay.

01:24:22.880 And then I'll stand up next and be like, oh, no.

01:24:25.620 No.

01:24:26.040 But if someone is super nice, then it doesn't matter that they're smaller than you, right?

01:24:30.460 I've dated shorter people.

01:24:32.820 But you didn't have a good experience.

01:24:34.800 Wait, what is shorter?

01:24:35.860 Like, 5'11"?

01:24:37.740 Is that what you mean by shorter people?

01:24:39.840 Oh, okay.

01:24:40.380 My first boyfriend was 5'10".

01:24:41.620 We were at the same height.

01:24:42.520 But I look taller.

01:24:44.040 Because of the heels. 1.00

01:24:44.780 Well, no, I wouldn't wear heels back then.

01:24:47.360 Right.

01:24:47.960 Okay.

01:24:50.360 What were we going around on initially, though?

01:24:53.000 Because, I mean, we can get into all this stuff.

01:24:54.800 Oh, having high standards.

01:24:56.480 No, before that, we were...

01:24:58.660 I'm trying to remember.

01:25:02.140 Do you recall what we were going around on, Maddie?

01:25:04.340 Why are you looking at me?

01:25:12.420 Give me the stink eye, Maddie. 1.00

01:25:13.820 Okay.

01:25:14.320 Girls should delete their Instagram or boys can keep their dating profile. 0.78

01:25:19.080 Oh, if you want...

01:25:19.100 If your boyfriend subbed to an OnlyFans.

01:25:21.600 Oh, thank you, Maddie.

01:25:22.340 Yes.

01:25:22.640 Okay.

01:25:23.620 Deal breaker.

01:25:24.880 Is it an issue if your boyfriend is subscribed to girls' OnlyFans?

01:25:29.760 Or, here's the other one, he goes to the strip club.

01:25:34.000 Is this a would-you-rather or...

01:25:35.860 No, no, no.

01:25:36.300 Not a would-you-rather.

01:25:37.400 It's just like two scenarios.

01:25:38.840 Okay.

01:25:39.060 So, what about the strip club?

01:25:40.300 Would you have an issue if your boyfriend went to the strip club?

01:25:42.980 Is it a bachelor party?

01:25:44.640 No, he just goes once a week.

01:25:46.080 Oh, no.

01:25:47.260 Once a week?

01:25:48.100 But he goes for the food.

01:25:49.660 Okay, how about...

01:25:50.200 He goes for the food.

01:25:51.380 Okay, well, we can order DoorDash and get a super pool in our house, and he can throw

01:25:56.040 money at me.

01:25:57.860 I suppose that's...

01:25:59.240 Not that often.

01:26:00.780 The Bronaissance donated $200. 0.99

01:26:03.980 Oh, damn. 0.99

01:26:04.380 There's no way an A cup is demanding something or having unrealistic standards. 1.00

01:26:09.340 You're an A cup.

01:26:10.280 You're basically a man, and you should be shipped to Thailand immediately. 1.00

01:26:14.500 Hey, Bronaissance.

01:26:17.240 First off, good to see you in the chat.

01:26:19.000 But first off, I will not, as someone who's part of the itty-bitty-titty committee, I

01:26:24.880 will not allow you to disrespect a sister, okay? 0.99

01:26:29.060 How fucking dare you? 1.00

01:26:30.960 First off, I got to come to the defense of small boobs, okay? 1.00

01:26:35.400 Jake, are you a small boob? 0.99

01:26:37.000 I can't defend them, unfortunately. 0.97

01:26:38.920 It's okay.

01:26:39.260 I know I have an A cup, but at least I'm not lying about my height.

01:26:43.320 How tall are you, sir?

01:26:45.280 Boom.

01:26:45.800 Roasted.

01:26:46.780 Bronaissance, I have not seen you in a while, man.

01:26:48.440 I appreciate the TTS.

01:26:50.840 Yeah, I don't know why the guys, what's, I think small boobs are elegant and great, elegant? 0.99

01:27:02.600 There's another word for it. 0.96

01:27:03.680 Well, they don't look as slutty, so like we were talking about the Instagram pictures. 0.99

01:27:07.080 Small boobs. 0.99

01:27:07.800 If I wear a bikini, it doesn't look slutty, but if someone with bigger breasts wear a 1.00

01:27:12.580 bikini, it makes them look slutty. 1.00

01:27:15.000 It makes them look more tasteful, refined. 0.98

01:27:17.880 How do we, how do we say this?

01:27:19.360 For a guy, when you see that, you think more of it in a very sexual way.

01:27:23.760 Yeah.

01:27:24.280 That's like a guy who has a six pack with his shirt off compared to a guy who has a dad

01:27:27.800 bod with his shirt off.

01:27:29.120 That's a good way to put it.

01:27:30.300 That's definitely a good way to put it.

01:27:31.840 I like to think, this always gets me hate from everybody.

01:27:35.220 Like, you look at Greek statues, Roman statues of women. 1.00

01:27:38.480 They don't have giant fucking can crusher titties. 1.00

01:27:42.020 They got, like, maybe a B cup. 0.99

01:27:44.960 Generally, they're quite voluptuous as well in a lot of those. 0.87

01:27:47.620 Yeah.

01:27:48.080 That is true.

01:27:49.120 That is true.

01:27:50.000 But, they don't, I've never seen like this Roman statue, Greek statue of some giant can 0.98

01:27:57.440 crushers, you know?

01:27:58.440 That was like the beauty standard back in the day, though.

01:28:00.980 They had like a different idea of what was like pretty, you know?

01:28:05.020 But, maybe they were onto something, you know what I mean? 0.98

01:28:10.120 Also, the male statues, the penises weren't very big. 0.98

01:28:12.860 I just want to throw that out. 0.95

01:28:14.080 Just throwing it out there, ladies. 1.00

01:28:15.600 Just throwing it out there.

01:28:17.580 Going around the table, strip club, you're fine with the strip club, him going to the

01:28:21.060 strip club.

01:28:21.740 Why not?

01:28:22.320 He's just there to eat.

01:28:23.380 He just wants a chicken wing.

01:28:25.700 What?

01:28:26.060 He can order it to be delivered.

01:28:28.440 But, that's where he likes to have his chicken wings.

01:28:31.260 That's toxic again.

01:28:32.260 Then, I wouldn't date him.

01:28:33.400 Wait, is the guy, do you think this is a good argument when women say, oh, I just 1.00

01:28:38.060 go to the club to have fun?

01:28:39.700 It's like the guy, I just go to the strip club for the wings or something?

01:28:42.920 Is that like the good counter?

01:28:44.280 Yeah.

01:28:44.560 Maybe that's a good one.

01:28:46.220 Wouldn't date him, though.

01:28:47.120 What about you?

01:28:47.660 Would you date a guy who?

01:28:49.700 I think OnlyFans, I wouldn't like because that's very personal, right?

01:28:53.040 They also chat a lot with the models.

01:28:55.460 Well, here's the difference, though.

01:28:57.240 So, yeah.

01:28:58.080 I'll let you finish your point, but I just want to introduce one quick nuance. 0.98

01:29:02.720 When a guy goes or is talking to a girl on OnlyFans, the chances of him fucking the girl 0.98

01:29:11.440 is zero percent. 0.92

01:29:13.640 When a man goes to a strip club and he's spending money on the girls there, the chances of him 0.99

01:29:18.280 fucking the girls is zero percent. 1.00

01:29:20.680 But if you go to a bar, the chances of you cheating is zero percent. 1.00

01:29:29.000 Because I won't do it.

01:29:30.180 No, it's not.

01:29:31.760 No, but I, okay.

01:29:32.920 It's a bit higher.

01:29:34.320 But I wouldn't like that he's perhaps getting like, I don't know, the whole personal thing.

01:29:39.500 I guess my boyfriend, if he wants, can watch porn or something.

01:29:42.500 But not the personal chatting, I guess.

01:29:46.420 And the strip club, I would find a bit of a waste of money.

01:29:49.220 But if he would do it once a year, then he really wants that.

01:29:51.580 No, every once a week.

01:29:52.980 That's a waste of money.

01:29:54.660 No, he's just going to get some food.

01:29:56.240 But don't you have to pay entrance?

01:29:58.140 Or is it free to walk in?

01:29:59.820 Sometimes it's free.

01:30:00.640 It's a good wing.

01:30:01.560 I've never been in a strip club.

01:30:02.940 I don't know how it works.

01:30:03.880 I've only been once, but sometimes, I mean, there wasn't food at the one that I went to.

01:30:09.660 I don't know.

01:30:11.180 They're terrible.

01:30:11.760 But yeah, I guess.

01:30:14.220 And then just to be polite, like he'll give like 10 bucks to like the one girl or something.

01:30:18.460 But he goes for the food.

01:30:20.400 If he wants to eat there one time, sure.

01:30:22.940 But every week, then maybe I'm not interested.

01:30:28.100 It's his favorite place to eat.

01:30:29.280 But he does look at the girls a little bit, but he's there for the food.

01:30:36.980 That's reasonable, right?

01:30:38.700 I have a boyfriend.

01:30:39.800 I'm now imagining him doing that actually.

01:30:42.080 And it's just very adorable. 0.96

01:30:43.400 But you don't mind your boyfriend watching porn? 0.94

01:30:46.080 I guess not. 0.97

01:30:48.140 Like now I'm like a week away. 0.99

01:30:49.700 But if you're in the next room and he's watching porn, isn't that a bit gay? 0.98

01:30:56.340 What do you mean if I'm in the next room? 0.99

01:30:59.000 If you're in the next room and he's in there playing with himself, isn't that a bit gay? 1.00

01:31:02.600 Gay? 0.99

01:31:03.220 Yeah. 0.99

01:31:05.560 You think watching porn is gay? 1.00

01:31:07.440 No, but he can go and have sex with you. 1.00

01:31:09.600 But I said like right now I'm a week away. 0.99

01:31:12.140 So maybe he does that when he's home.

01:31:14.480 Like I don't know.

01:31:15.040 What if it becomes a habit and then he's doing it in the basement? 0.99

01:31:17.540 Isn't that gay? 0.97

01:31:18.660 Well, I live in an apartment. 0.97

01:31:20.060 I don't have a basement. 0.77

01:31:21.240 But it's only gay. 0.99

01:31:22.320 Yeah, it's gay. 0.99

01:31:23.180 He's playing with himself. 0.95

01:31:26.780 I'm sorry. 1.00

01:31:27.360 He could go upstairs and have sex with a woman. 1.00

01:31:29.440 But he's playing with himself in the next room. 1.00

01:31:31.080 Isn't that a bit gay? 0.99

01:31:32.140 I think this is very funny. 0.95

01:31:33.880 I really assume you're making a joke.

01:31:35.740 No, I'm dead serious.

01:31:36.900 I'm 100% serious. 0.97

01:31:38.140 It's gay to play with yourself? 1.00

01:31:40.600 Well, not necessarily in general. 0.99

01:31:43.280 But I think that if you have a girlfriend and you can have an active sex life with your girlfriend that you're off playing with yourself to be gay. 0.92

01:31:53.120 Are you saying that in like homophobic way? 0.95

01:31:55.860 I mean, not homophobic, homosexual way or like a derogatory term way?

01:31:59.720 Well, it's kind of a little bit of somewhere in between.

01:32:03.420 Okay.

01:32:03.880 Because you're playing with yourself when you could be playing with your girlfriend.

01:32:06.120 But what if I'm working?

01:32:09.120 What do you mean?

01:32:09.600 No, my situation is if you're there.

01:32:12.840 No.

01:32:13.380 Why would he then play with himself?

01:32:15.080 Well, I mean, if you allow it while you're away, what if it becomes a habit and he prefers it?

01:32:20.380 Isn't that concerning?

01:32:20.760 That would be very sad if he prefers playing with himself instead of playing with me.

01:32:24.960 But you allowed it.

01:32:25.780 So you sort of let it in the door.

01:32:28.320 I think you're jumping.

01:32:30.480 Very big steps here.

01:32:32.500 Yeah.

01:32:33.140 Big steps.

01:32:34.520 If you're cool with him watching porn, then like what's the difference between him doing it when you're there and you're away? 0.89

01:32:40.200 He's still getting off to other women.

01:32:42.960 I think if he rather watches porn and plays with himself instead of going with me, then maybe our relationship is really breaking down. 0.84

01:32:52.980 Like, I don't know. 0.78

01:32:53.800 That shouldn't be good.

01:32:55.340 But if he's watching porn when you're not there, it's...

01:32:57.640 I don't know.

01:32:58.060 Why doesn't he just use the bank?

01:33:00.920 Maybe he does use the bank. 0.94

01:33:02.440 But you're okay with him watching porn in a relationship?

01:33:04.880 I mean, hypothetically, yeah, I guess. 0.97

01:33:08.720 Unless he like stalks this porn girl, then it's always the same.

01:33:11.820 I've never dated a Dutch girl, but it seems like you guys have not many boundaries. 1.00

01:33:15.400 You don't think I have boundaries?

01:33:17.380 Well, I mean, like actively allowing your man to watch porn or being okay with it, I think that's strange.

01:33:23.700 And then also being in the open relationship over here, it just seems like there's a lack of boundaries.

01:33:29.220 We're different.

01:33:29.800 I mean, there's a lot of things that are normal in our culture, in our country, that are really not done here.

01:33:37.440 But I guess it's kind of what you grow up with, and I'm fine with that.

01:33:42.480 So, and you're not.

01:33:43.840 And that's also fine.

01:33:45.800 The Dutch are pretty liberal.

01:33:48.140 Yeah, they're in the city.

01:33:49.000 I mean, they got like the red light district, it's prostitution's legal, you can be in the city center of Amsterdam.

01:33:57.340 Amsterdam's the capital, right?

01:33:59.120 Yeah.

01:33:59.240 You can like take one, go one block down from the city center and see everything.

01:34:10.260 See everything.

01:34:11.540 Yeah.

01:34:12.020 But still, I believe I have a lot of boundaries.

01:34:15.380 Like we don't have an open relationship.

01:34:18.040 We don't flirt with other people.

01:34:19.720 We don't do all that stuff.

01:34:21.440 And actually, I don't know if my boyfriend watches porn, but I don't, I just, it's a hypothetical.

01:34:28.540 I think if he really wants that when I'm away, why not?

01:34:32.500 Well, let's get everybody's answers on this. 0.99

01:34:35.300 Selena, you're the porn star here. 1.00

01:34:37.420 Would you be cool if your boyfriend subbed to another girl on OF? 0.99

01:34:43.300 No, because I have one like subbed to mine.

01:34:46.100 Like for me, it's like the competition.

01:34:47.900 So, he would be subscribing and supporting the competition.

01:34:51.060 Wait, but wouldn't your boyfriend get it for free?

01:34:54.020 Mine?

01:34:54.700 Your content.

01:34:55.640 No, but she's saying that she wouldn't like it because he's supporting the competition.

01:35:00.060 Yeah.

01:35:00.640 So, like it's kind of just offensive to me because like that's the competition you're supporting

01:35:05.500 and probably giving money to my competition. 0.56

01:35:07.920 So, it's just like, it's kind of rude.

01:35:10.680 But like you would give your OF to your boyfriend for free, right?

01:35:14.980 Yeah, because I mean, he's my boyfriend.

01:35:17.240 Like he sees everything anyway.

01:35:18.940 And then what about the strip club?

01:35:20.100 That's not really your competition, is it?

01:35:21.720 Or is it still your competition?

01:35:23.340 No, no, not at all.

01:35:24.600 I've never done stripping or anything.

01:35:26.620 But like I wouldn't like it because, I don't know, like I'm more into like monogamous stuff

01:35:33.560 like outside of my work.

01:35:34.700 So, it would just be kind of like, why are you going in your personal time to look at

01:35:39.420 other women? 1.00

01:35:42.500 And like.

01:35:43.240 For the wings.

01:35:44.680 For the food.

01:35:45.480 Yeah, for the food. 0.99

01:35:46.520 I'd be like, get the fuck out of here. 0.99

01:35:48.160 Like, yeah, that's total BS, dude. 0.99

01:35:50.160 Like, bye.

01:35:51.400 Okay.

01:35:52.120 What about you?

01:35:52.900 Would you be cool with your boyfriend if he subscribed to another girl's OnlyFans?

01:35:57.980 Yeah, no.

01:35:58.640 Or a girl's OnlyFans?

01:35:59.400 No.

01:35:59.940 Not cool with it?

01:36:00.780 Not cool with that.

01:36:01.780 He just wanted to support a entrepreneur.

01:36:07.460 He just was supporting an entrepreneur, okay?

01:36:10.740 And then what about the strip club?

01:36:12.040 He went to the strip club once a week.

01:36:14.780 No.

01:36:14.980 You cool with it?

01:36:15.420 No?

01:36:15.700 Why not?

01:36:18.000 Why not?

01:36:19.600 That's a strip club. 1.00

01:36:20.820 I feel like.

01:36:21.480 But he's, it's dance, it's an art form.

01:36:25.200 Uh-huh, but there's a lot of nudity, so.

01:36:29.000 Well, yeah, but isn't that beautiful?

01:36:32.280 Not in that context.

01:36:33.580 It's beautiful, like, I could go with him, but like, you're not going by yourself.

01:36:37.820 It's like his thing, you know?

01:36:38.980 Like, he needs his alone time, you know?

01:36:41.640 Yeah, no.

01:36:42.280 Like she said, we can grab the wing, order some wings, we'll have a stripper pull in the 1.00

01:36:50.560 house, like, but no.

01:36:52.040 What if he orders the wings from the place?

01:36:53.560 Wait, there's no way, wait.

01:36:54.660 That he likes it so much?

01:36:55.760 What if he orders them from the place?

01:36:57.220 He can order it from there.

01:36:58.560 Okay, so wait.

01:36:59.320 You two said this, so I'm just actually curious, though.

01:37:02.740 You're saying if you, wouldn't it, I feel like they would just be like, I feel objectified.

01:37:06.380 But you're telling me, if your boyfriend comes to you, and he's like, you're going to install

01:37:19.040 a stripper pull. 1.00

01:37:20.500 Well, he's going to install it.

01:37:21.440 I'm not going to.

01:37:23.060 So you'd be fine installing a stripper pull at your place, and he can tell you to strip 0.99

01:37:28.120 on command.

01:37:29.560 Not whatever he wants.

01:37:30.860 It's not like, oh, my command, you strip.

01:37:32.900 Okay, the on-command part kind of ruins it.

01:37:36.540 How about, he wants you to strip for him.

01:37:39.840 Yeah. 0.85

01:37:39.960 You're fine with it?

01:37:40.680 Yeah, I'm not saying it'll be good.

01:37:42.200 Yeah, man, that's cool.

01:37:43.460 All right.

01:37:45.540 But not cool with the strip club.

01:37:47.640 Yeah, no.

01:37:48.520 But you have such a strong, like, when I asked you about the OnlyFans, the strip club, you

01:37:53.300 had such a, like, no way, can't do it.

01:37:56.220 But, like, your boyfriend, you broke up with him because he wanted to try to enforce boundaries

01:38:00.760 on you.

01:38:01.280 Okay, but, like, my boyfriend at the time, I mean, come on, it was, like, a high school

01:38:06.740 relationship, whatever, kind of over it.

01:38:08.980 But, like, I feel like it's a different, like, it's a different situation because back

01:38:15.360 then, I was, like, cheated on every year, but I went back.

01:38:21.460 So it's.

01:38:21.780 Wait, by him?

01:38:22.520 Yeah.

01:38:23.040 So I was not going to.

01:38:24.540 That's new information.

01:38:25.400 Yeah, I was not going to, like, I was not going to.

01:38:28.040 Wait, hold on.

01:38:29.000 How many times did he cheat on you?

01:38:31.660 From what I know?

01:38:33.520 Yeah, from what you know.

01:38:35.580 Um, oh my God, I don't know, like.

01:38:38.640 Three, four, five, six, seven.

01:38:40.660 Well, entertain people on social media multiple times during our first year.

01:38:46.560 I think it was our second year.

01:38:49.280 Um, how many girls did he have? 0.84

01:38:52.080 Did he put his poke sword in anyone?

01:38:53.740 Did he boink? 0.99

01:38:54.500 I have no idea.

01:38:55.740 I just, um, our second year I found out he, like, hung out and kissed.

01:39:03.920 But I don't know what else was done with his co-worker.

01:39:07.160 So, yeah, I don't know.

01:39:09.800 Co-worker?

01:39:11.020 Yeah.

01:39:11.920 Subway?

01:39:13.200 McDonald's.

01:39:13.640 He worked at McDonald's?

01:39:14.940 Yeah.

01:39:16.060 All right, that's a respectable.

01:39:19.200 He's making a Big Mac, then he gave her the Big Mac, you know what I'm saying?

01:39:23.700 So, how many girls was he cheating with?

01:39:26.320 Maybe not sleeping with, but how many girls do you think he was, like, cheating? 0.99

01:39:29.180 Like, that you caught him talking to?

01:39:30.560 Like, I have no idea.

01:39:36.320 I mean, like, the conversations he would have with, like, multiple women.

01:39:45.440 And, like, he'd delete messages.

01:39:47.800 And you could tell it's deleted because they're having a conversation, mid-conversation.

01:39:52.080 It's, like, it switches, like, the tone, everything, like.

01:39:56.180 Well, just give us a range.

01:39:57.460 10 girls, 20 girls.

01:39:58.600 Yeah, like, definitely, like, more than 10.

01:40:02.400 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

01:40:05.900 Okay.

01:40:07.780 So, he was cheating on you, and you would break up with him?

01:40:13.100 Yeah.

01:40:13.940 But then you said you got back together a whole bunch of times.

01:40:16.360 Yeah.

01:40:17.980 What?

01:40:19.540 Who would, would you go back to him?

01:40:21.940 Like, you would reach out back to him?

01:40:24.180 No, he would reach out to me, and he would, like, tell me that he's been really going through it, that this time he matured, he's grown.

01:40:35.440 And he was too, he was not in high school.

01:40:37.740 I was in high school.

01:40:38.920 He wasn't.

01:40:40.320 So.

01:40:40.980 Wait.

01:40:41.820 Wait, wait.

01:40:42.500 No, like, I was 17.

01:40:44.700 He was, like, 19.

01:40:46.840 I mean, like, it was only a two-year difference.

01:40:51.160 When you're a seven-year-old, I'm pretty sure that's fine.

01:40:52.840 Is it okay?

01:40:53.360 I don't know.

01:40:54.060 Yeah.

01:40:55.580 I don't know.

01:40:56.000 Is it, I mean, like, is it illegal, or not?

01:40:58.020 I don't know.

01:40:58.820 I think that's not illegal.

01:41:00.940 I have no idea, but it was a two-year difference.

01:41:03.480 In California, it might still get you in trouble.

01:41:06.420 Yeah.

01:41:06.700 I think it depends, like, a certain date after your 17th birthday.

01:41:09.860 Like, it's pretty normal.

01:41:11.020 Well, you guys, okay, so, anyways, he was cheating on you.

01:41:16.900 How many times did you guys break up?

01:41:23.340 I can't even count.

01:41:24.920 So, it was on again, off again.

01:41:26.380 Yeah.

01:41:27.020 Okay.

01:41:27.980 Huh.

01:41:29.460 Hmm.

01:41:34.340 Interesting.

01:41:36.100 Mac?

01:41:36.640 Yeah.

01:41:36.980 What do you call McDonald's in Australia?

01:41:38.760 Macca's.

01:41:39.380 Macca's.

01:41:39.980 Yeah.

01:41:40.540 Macca's.

01:41:41.140 Macca's.

01:41:41.660 Yeah. 1.00

01:41:42.200 Damn. 0.99

01:41:42.820 I still haven't gotten closure on this 0.11 situation. 0.99

01:41:47.320 Oh.

01:41:47.440 I'm sad now.

01:41:48.180 I've been hoping.

01:41:49.380 So, you know, you have your own requests, but what do you bring to the table?

01:41:54.640 I bring a lot, actually.

01:41:56.600 I feel like I have a good job.

01:41:58.700 I give back to other people.

01:42:00.020 I'm super kind.

01:42:00.860 I'm willing to give my all to be in a relationship if they give that back to me.

01:42:05.380 So, you're a nice person.

01:42:06.620 What else?

01:42:08.040 I'm athletic.

01:42:09.340 I like to travel.

01:42:10.120 I like to travel.

01:42:11.460 Red flag.

01:42:13.120 What?

01:42:15.020 A lot of money?

01:42:16.000 Australia?

01:42:16.580 Australia.

01:42:17.140 Okay.

01:42:17.500 You're traveling right now.

01:42:18.360 I know, but I'm a guy, so it's very different.

01:42:20.500 Women like worldly men. 1.00

01:42:22.560 And guys don't like when girls can travel, too? 0.99

01:42:25.080 No.

01:42:25.500 You don't want to travel, buddy?

01:42:27.020 I want to show her the world.

01:42:28.820 Okay.

01:42:29.240 I don't want her to have already been around the world.

01:42:31.900 That's not cool.

01:42:32.880 Oh.

01:42:33.840 Yeah.

01:42:34.880 Anyways.

01:42:35.220 Wait, you said, in response to Jake's question, you said, did you say you bring your career

01:42:42.960 to the table?

01:42:44.200 No.

01:42:44.940 Or was it your career?

01:42:45.820 I haven't got there yet.

01:42:46.280 No.

01:42:46.860 I thought you said, like, I have a good job or something.

01:42:49.200 I mean, I have a job where, like, I give myself to other people all day, helping take

01:42:53.100 care of them.

01:42:53.880 No.

01:42:55.120 Oh.

01:42:55.480 Sorry.

01:42:55.900 I'm a nurse.

01:42:57.000 No.

01:42:57.180 I'm a nurse.

01:42:57.820 Travel nurse, remember?

01:42:59.060 No, I know, but you give yourself to them.

01:43:01.600 Yeah, like, there's a lot of crazy stuff that we do and see in a day.

01:43:06.680 Is that a good thing for a relationship or a bad thing?

01:43:09.240 No, it's a good thing because then you know that I'll take care of you when we get old

01:43:13.060 and about to die, I'll take care of you till death.

01:43:16.540 So, what do you think a guy like that who's six foot three and athletic and earning really

01:43:22.520 good money, what do you think he'd be looking for?

01:43:24.580 Me.

01:43:25.620 I'm just kidding.

01:43:26.320 I don't know.

01:43:27.040 Hopefully.

01:43:28.440 You don't know?

01:43:29.460 No, hopefully me.

01:43:30.240 Have you investigated maybe what that sort of guy might be looking for?

01:43:33.440 I just want to be myself and the right person will come.

01:43:36.360 I know what you want, but what do you think he wants?

01:43:39.360 Someone who's loyal, faithful, trustworthy, which I am.

01:43:44.300 Do you think he, is there anything else that he might want?

01:43:47.940 I don't know.

01:43:48.500 You tell me.

01:43:49.480 Well, it's kind of interesting because.

01:43:50.580 Someone that doesn't travel.

01:43:51.720 Yeah.

01:43:52.120 Well, if I was going to say that I want this very, very rare commodity that's actually

01:43:56.320 very hard to attain and then really hard to keep after that, I'd want to have a game

01:44:00.160 plan about how to get there.

01:44:01.800 And I'd want to understand how exactly to get that.

01:44:04.660 So do you think that, you know, you're kind of winging it here and it doesn't seem very

01:44:09.060 likely?

01:44:10.180 No, it's definitely possible.

01:44:12.060 Do you think you might want someone who's younger?

01:44:14.640 Maybe.

01:44:16.700 Maybe I want someone who's older.

01:44:19.460 And more mature.

01:44:20.780 Yeah.

01:44:20.960 Yeah, he'd said that.

01:44:22.460 Yeah.

01:44:22.900 But do you think that as you get towards 30, you become less fertile?

01:44:26.620 A guy like that might want lots of children. 0.89

01:44:28.520 Yeah.

01:44:28.660 Might want a younger girl. 0.99

01:44:29.320 Then he should definitely date someone younger.

01:44:30.640 Yeah.

01:44:30.800 So has it occurred to you that you have to lower your standards?

01:44:33.340 Yeah, it has.

01:44:34.360 Yeah.

01:44:34.600 I'm still delusional, apparently, is what they said.

01:44:36.560 I'd say so.

01:44:37.880 If you were to lower your standards, what are some of the areas in which you would lower

01:44:42.100 your standards?

01:44:42.360 Would it be height?

01:44:42.920 Would it be athleticism?

01:44:44.060 Money?

01:44:44.680 Age?

01:44:45.880 Maybe like how well in shape they are or height, how much they make.

01:44:50.540 It just depends on the person.

01:44:52.320 Yeah.

01:44:53.200 Conceivably, what kind of guy, could you see yourself going for a guy who's 5'10", earns

01:44:57.600 80K a year, a little bit out of shape?

01:45:00.000 No, because that's taking something out of each different category.

01:45:04.340 But do you think you're above that, better than that?

01:45:07.020 Like you shouldn't have to go for this?

01:45:08.240 I mean, yeah, my height-wise, I'm taller than someone that's 5'8".

01:45:11.080 But in terms of like the overall, we're talking about the overall sort of everything together.

01:45:16.900 Do you think that you're above that?

01:45:18.760 Yeah.

01:45:18.860 A guy who's 5'10", earning 80K a year?

01:45:20.520 Yeah, because I make more than them, I'm taller than them, and I'm in better shape than

01:45:23.900 them.

01:45:24.180 Do you think a guy cares how much you make?

01:45:25.740 No, not at all.

01:45:26.640 So why does it matter?

01:45:27.900 But, no, it doesn't matter, but for girls it does, because we have to think about our

01:45:32.120 future, and like if I'm going to have someone with babies...

01:45:33.600 I know, but we're well aware of what you want, but we're talking about what the guy

01:45:36.080 wants.

01:45:36.460 Yeah, they want someone, they don't care about money. 0.99

01:45:38.700 If he doesn't care about money, then it's not really going to occur to him, so it's

01:45:42.340 not really going to factor in.

01:45:43.260 But for me, it makes a difference, because like if I'm having children or someone...

01:45:47.040 Back to you.

01:45:47.820 Well, yeah, because it's my life, and it's my person I'm going to do with.

01:45:50.800 But what we're talking about here is we're trying to put ourselves in the guy's shoes,

01:45:54.160 see what he might want.

01:45:55.260 Okay, so should I quit my job?

01:45:56.940 No, not quit your job, but I'd say drastically lower your standards.

01:45:59.860 Okay.

01:46:00.120 But unfortunately, when you've been around, and it's like 10 years, and you're 27, and

01:46:05.040 you've dated all these different guys, you've got all these expectations, because you would

01:46:08.700 have dated a guy who's 6'2", dated a guy who earns over 100k, you would have dated all

01:46:12.420 these different guys, and now you'll be disappointed when a guy doesn't have any of those characteristics.

01:46:18.840 Yeah, that's true.

01:46:20.320 Does that concern you?

01:46:21.220 I still have a few more years left than me.

01:46:22.740 Oh, I don't know.

01:46:25.400 Yeah, anyways, okay.

01:46:26.420 What about you?

01:46:28.840 What about me?

01:46:29.220 Let's put you in the hot seat. 1.00

01:46:30.220 Go for it.

01:46:30.560 What are you looking for?

01:46:31.820 I'd say I'm looking for a woman who's interesting, and who's cute, attractive, someone who's humble,

01:46:39.180 someone who isn't out here trying to put themselves all over Instagram, and trying to get all this

01:46:44.220 male validation, somebody who's religious, God-fearing, and somebody who genuinely wants to be a mother,

01:46:50.320 and wants to be a wife, and that's her life ambition. 1.00

01:46:52.580 And what do you bring to the table?

01:46:54.100 Well, I've got a very good career going on.

01:46:56.420 I think I'm decently attractive.

01:46:59.580 Lots going on.

01:47:00.500 What's your Instagram look like?

01:47:02.360 What do you mean?

01:47:03.660 Well, you say girls can't have Instagrams. 1.00

01:47:06.100 Well, do you think that it's equal?

01:47:08.500 It should be.

01:47:09.740 Well, it's not.

01:47:11.620 Okay.

01:47:12.800 Can we see your Instagram?

01:47:14.460 Go for it.

01:47:15.500 I don't really post too much, but...

01:47:17.360 How many followers do you have on Instagram?

01:47:19.500 8,000, I think, maybe.

01:47:21.660 Oh, that's a red flag.

01:47:22.880 Why?

01:47:23.080 That's too much or too little?

01:47:26.540 Too much.

01:47:27.540 Too much.

01:47:28.360 Too much.

01:47:29.720 I don't know. 1.00

01:47:30.300 You're an hypocrite. 1.00

01:47:31.240 How so? 1.00

01:47:32.200 You don't want a girl to have Instagram at all. 1.00

01:47:35.420 I know.

01:47:35.840 I don't mind if she has Instagram, but it has to be on private, just family and friends.

01:47:38.260 Is yours private?

01:47:39.380 No.

01:47:39.580 I love the fact that you guys are laughing like you made a point, but guys and girls

01:47:48.220 are different.

01:47:49.160 And first of all, I'm a content creator.

01:47:50.640 I'm a YouTuber for a living.

01:47:52.700 And girls don't really care about that. 1.00

01:47:54.980 I've never had a girl say, oh, your Instagram's a little bit too public. 0.86

01:47:58.240 It would just never occur.

01:48:00.720 Yeah.

01:48:01.180 And I also don't want her to be a provider.

01:48:02.840 I don't want her to be a protector.

01:48:03.860 I don't want her to have to jump in front when there's a robber.

01:48:06.320 I don't want any of these things, and I would never expect that.

01:48:09.640 That's the guy's job.

01:48:10.780 And then women have a certain job as well, to be maternal, loving, peaceful, to be a 1.00

01:48:16.180 mother, these sorts of things, and to recognize that.

01:48:19.580 So the fact that I am not maternal doesn't make me a hypocrite, because I'm not going

01:48:24.180 to be a mother.

01:48:25.260 Do you want a guy to pay for a first date? 0.99

01:48:27.340 Yeah.

01:48:28.620 Would you date a guy who wants you to pay for the first date?

01:48:32.180 I would probably pay for dinner and then never see him again. 1.00

01:48:34.760 Well, that makes you a hypocrite. 1.00

01:48:37.120 No? 0.99

01:48:37.600 Because how am I going to know if he's going to pay her?

01:48:39.140 Right.

01:48:39.360 But so you want a trait in a partner that you yourself are not willing to accept in a

01:48:45.540 partner.

01:48:45.980 Similarly, Jake here, he might have some quarrel or objection to a woman who has a public

01:48:51.560 facing Instagram that posts certain types of photos, but he doesn't have, like, he's

01:48:56.400 not going to take his Instagram down.

01:48:57.940 It's not clear to me if that makes him a hypocrite necessarily. 0.97

01:49:00.340 Any more than it makes you a hypocrite for wanting a guy to pay for a first date, but 0.97

01:49:05.820 you would never be willing to pay for a first date.

01:49:08.520 No, I have, but then I wouldn't see them again.

01:49:11.240 Well, so, sure. 0.98

01:49:12.480 So, does that make you a hypocrite? 0.98

01:49:14.480 No. 0.98

01:49:15.140 Why not?

01:49:15.500 Because that's setting my boundaries.

01:49:17.020 Okay.

01:49:17.420 So, you're saying...

01:49:17.960 So, then they cross the boundary and I'm not going to accept that.

01:49:21.160 Are you saying that guys and girls have different roles in that situation when it comes to a

01:49:24.080 first date?

01:49:24.560 Yeah, because...

01:49:25.000 And they have different expectations?

01:49:25.680 If a man wants to be a provider... 0.99

01:49:27.440 Ah, here we go.

01:49:28.160 He's not being a provider.

01:49:29.240 He's not providing the first date. 0.90

01:49:30.060 So, then it doesn't make you a hypocrite having different standards. 0.97

01:49:36.860 Take the L. 0.94

01:49:37.720 Okay.

01:49:38.820 I don't know what to do.

01:49:40.900 All right.

01:49:42.800 But, so, you said that it's okay for a woman to want a provider, right?

01:49:47.240 Yeah.

01:49:48.200 But, so, and would you consider that traditional gender role?

01:49:50.880 Mm-hmm.

01:49:51.500 So, like, a man being a provider, that's a traditional man.

01:49:53.840 And a man who wants 50-50, who wants to split the bill, that's a modern man, right?

01:49:58.460 Mm-hmm.

01:49:58.860 Well, is a modern woman a woman who posts revealing, immodest photos on Instagram? 1.00

01:50:04.360 She's got to pay half the bill, yeah. 1.00

01:50:06.240 Well, hold on.

01:50:07.420 I'm not really getting there.

01:50:08.520 But, so, is a woman traditional if she's posting, revealing... 0.98

01:50:13.400 And I'm not saying it's wrong.

01:50:14.640 I'm just asking, is a woman traditional if she posts revealing photos on Instagram? 1.00

01:50:19.660 Probably not.

01:50:20.560 Do you think a component of being a traditional woman is modesty?

01:50:24.180 Yeah.

01:50:24.760 Okay.

01:50:27.500 Checkmate, I guess?

01:50:28.620 No.

01:50:29.240 Yeah.

01:50:29.580 I think you just keep agreeing to what we're saying and then could not quite sort of conceding.

01:50:34.220 No, yeah.

01:50:35.500 Yeah, you should be a little modest, but you can still...

01:50:38.120 But if you want a guy who's got all these different things going on, you're talking about

01:50:41.200 a top, top, top tier guy who's going to be able to fulfill all of his masculine duties.

01:50:45.740 So then shouldn't you be fulfilling all of your feminine duties? 1.00

01:50:49.340 Yeah.

01:50:50.420 I still got to pay rent.

01:50:52.260 No, you won't.

01:50:52.760 If you've got a guy who's earning upwards of 100K a year...

01:50:56.080 But, I mean, guys, my dating pool's so small, so I'm just living in Duluthu land. 0.70

01:51:01.760 I've got to provide for myself...

01:51:02.360 You do certainly live in Duluthu land.

01:51:03.480 I've got to provide for myself until I can find that person.

01:51:06.480 It sounds like I'll be working a while.

01:51:07.680 Well, yeah.

01:51:08.380 Keep at it.

01:51:09.040 Well, I do want to go around the...

01:51:15.640 Actually, before we go around the table on this question, Austin, can you pull up Twitch,

01:51:21.320 Discord?

01:51:21.960 We'll pull up Mason's thing one more time, too.

01:51:25.040 All right, guys.

01:51:25.520 Go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:51:27.020 Drop us a follow.

01:51:27.700 Drop us a Prime sub if you have one.

01:51:30.100 Guys, Kai, thank you for the 10 gifted subs.

01:51:34.620 USC fan, thank you for the Prime.

01:51:36.820 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:51:38.860 Drop us a follow in the Prime sub if you have one.

01:51:42.100 All...

01:51:42.460 Sorry, guys.

01:51:42.960 There's a loud semi-truck going by.

01:51:45.680 All right, so 50% of all the fan funding, and this includes Twitch subs and Amazon Prime

01:51:52.440 Twitch, Twitch Prime subs, 50% of it will go to Mason's Medical Expenses.

01:51:57.220 I'll pull that up here in just a sec.

01:51:59.660 Also, guys, go to our Discord, discord.gg slash whatever.

01:52:06.660 Join there.

01:52:07.660 Guys, if you recall from last stream, we had that fake poser conservative Christian OF girl. 0.70

01:52:15.680 On the show, claimed she didn't make certain kind of content.

01:52:20.740 We found out that she was totally lying.

01:52:23.960 And when confronted about it, here was the crazy part.

01:52:26.560 When confronted about it, she kept denying it, which was very frustrating, kind of just

01:52:31.100 calling into question, essentially just insulting the viewers and our intelligence here.

01:52:37.060 It's just weird.

01:52:37.960 Like, it's one thing to lie, but then to, like, if you get called out on it with irrefutable

01:52:44.740 evidence and just not copying, yeah, okay, I was bullshitting, it's just super annoying. 0.53

01:52:50.020 So there's the proof.

01:52:51.340 She has a, obviously, we can't show the video on stream, but she's got a tattoo on her arm. 0.95

01:52:57.960 It matches the tattoo that she showed us on stream.

01:53:00.360 And, yeah, so that's available at discord.gg slash whatever.

01:53:05.720 And I think a few of the other people, like, in Baron's chat, they might have been posting,

01:53:10.140 like, the actual, they were posting links. 0.99

01:53:12.980 So, like, you guys can verify for yourself, this chick was full of shit, the girl from Sunday. 1.00

01:53:18.160 Total cap on everything. 0.99

01:53:19.640 So, allegedly, also, allegedly involved in escorting, but I don't think we've 100% verified

01:53:29.120 it, but at least from what I've seen, it's pretty, and then, wait, hold on, go back to,

01:53:33.760 go back really quick to Twitch.

01:53:35.400 Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever, twitch.tv slash whatever, just once again, and I'm going to

01:53:41.900 pull it up in just a sec, if you, can you check if you guys have a Prime sub?

01:53:45.540 Because 50% of it from the Prime subs is going to go to Mason.

01:53:51.320 Maybe you missed it at the beginning.

01:53:53.400 Austin, if you're able to pull up the Instagram post from, about Mason.

01:53:59.660 So, Mason was in a, Mason, he's been on the show eight, nine times, giga Chad Virgin.

01:54:04.960 Very sad, he was, he was in a motorcycle accident a couple days ago on September 11th.

01:54:11.120 He was going to work.

01:54:12.340 Uh, he, uh, he's still in the hospital.

01:54:16.800 Uh, he had a ruptured, I don't know if it's in this post, if it says it, but he had a,

01:54:22.460 I believe it was a ruptured aorta, which is the heart, right?

01:54:25.540 You're a nurse. 0.96

01:54:26.260 Yeah.

01:54:26.740 Ruptured aorta.

01:54:28.080 Is that how you say it?

01:54:29.300 Aorta?

01:54:30.600 Aorta.

01:54:31.220 Sorry, English is my second language.

01:54:33.540 Um, uh, broken leg.

01:54:36.800 He's, it's bad.

01:54:38.020 So, um, all the, uh, all the fan funding tonight.

01:54:42.580 Oh, sorry.

01:54:43.220 Uh, all the fan funding tonight, Super Chat, Streamlabs messages, TTS, Twitch subs, Prime

01:54:48.760 subs, 50% of all the earnings from tonight's episode are going to go towards Mason's medical

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01:54:58.400 Uh, so if you guys, you guys can send it through here if you want, you can send it.

01:55:08.960 Yo, Duren, thank you for the gift of 20 subs.

01:55:10.960 Um, there's also like, he has a Venmo that you can send to.

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01:55:23.520 we sent in one too.

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01:55:30.160 the various ways.

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01:55:40.300 Like the video too, guys.

01:55:41.160 Okay.

01:55:41.880 Back to, uh, what do you bring to the table?

01:55:45.160 Um, in a relationship?

01:55:47.840 Yes.

01:55:48.240 What do you, what do you bring to the table? 0.99

01:55:49.740 Yo, crazy. 0.89

01:55:50.640 Thank you for the gift of 20 subs, man.

01:55:51.920 Really appreciate it.

01:55:52.960 Uh, I'm really kind and caring.

01:55:55.780 Um, I'm fun to be around.

01:55:59.820 Uh, I like to make other people happy.

01:56:02.340 Uh, I have a good job.

01:56:05.100 Um, yeah.

01:56:08.360 Good job.

01:56:09.460 Just a nice person.

01:56:10.900 But, uh, really quick on the job thing.

01:56:12.620 Do you think that I just quit my job to go full time?

01:56:15.160 Uh, as a content creator.

01:56:16.140 But I think that will be successful as well.

01:56:18.300 But like, so the question is, what do you bring to the table in the relationship?

01:56:21.740 Do you think your job is something that you bring to the table?

01:56:25.640 Yeah.

01:56:25.980 Also stability.

01:56:26.720 And, uh, we have money to go on vacation and do fun stuff and go out for dinner.

01:56:32.140 But do you think in the calculus of what your boyfriend or any man for that matter, uh, cares

01:56:39.500 about, do you think your job is high up there in terms of what men, uh, in terms of making

01:56:45.560 an assessment of how attractive you are to him?

01:56:48.440 Um, I think my boyfriend really likes it that I follow my passion.

01:56:53.020 And I mean, you talk a lot about your job because it's a big part of your life.

01:56:56.820 So I think having something interesting to talk to and having money to do fun stuff works.

01:57:03.820 Yeah.

01:57:04.680 Okay.

01:57:05.020 But I mean, mostly the, the fact that I'm caring, that I'm fun, I think that's good.

01:57:11.260 But in general, do you, do you think that men typically highly prioritize a woman's career

01:57:16.960 in terms of the calculus of what they find attractive?

01:57:22.140 I don't, I don't know.

01:57:23.760 How about this?

01:57:24.340 Do you disagree with, uh, and the whole panel can answer this.

01:57:27.500 Do you disagree with the following statement?

01:57:29.300 Men do not care, generally speaking, about your educational achievement or your career

01:57:36.700 or how much money you make.

01:57:39.660 I don't think they care about how much money you make.

01:57:43.900 But they care about what?

01:57:45.500 I do think they, they care about what your education is and what kind of job you have.

01:57:50.060 Yeah.

01:57:50.700 They care about what kind of job you have.

01:57:52.640 But I mean, so wouldn't, I mean, that would to some degree tie into your earnings. 0.98

01:57:59.300 But, um, perhaps not if you're like a feminist studies or some shit. 1.00

01:58:04.100 Um, but, uh, so you think most men care about that? 0.92

01:58:12.900 Roth underscore PSA donated $200.

01:58:17.020 07 Mason.

01:58:18.560 Yo, Rath, thank you so much for the TTS, man.

01:58:20.640 Really appreciate it.

01:58:21.660 Thank you so much, man.

01:58:22.500 Good to see you in the chat.

01:58:23.900 Uh, so how about this?

01:58:25.400 Just going around the table.

01:58:26.240 Do you think, how did I frame it?

01:58:28.860 Uh, agree or disagree.

01:58:31.000 Men don't care about women's careers. 1.00

01:58:36.400 Hold on.

01:58:37.020 Let me frame it a little better.

01:58:38.280 Agree or disagree.

01:58:39.860 A woman's career does not make her more attractive to a man, generally speaking. 0.77

01:58:46.840 Um, generally, yeah, I would agree with that.

01:58:48.860 But it depends on what the man is looking for.

01:58:51.100 Like, what kind of woman he wants.

01:58:53.860 Okay.

01:58:55.100 Sure.

01:58:58.040 Yeah.

01:58:58.400 Agree or disagree?

01:58:59.380 I, I think men do care.

01:59:00.860 So you disagree then?

01:59:03.920 Okay.

01:59:04.580 Sure.

01:59:05.020 That's fine.

01:59:05.620 What about you?

01:59:06.200 Yeah, same.

01:59:07.220 I think men do care.

01:59:08.300 Men do care? 0.99

01:59:09.000 Okay.

01:59:10.100 Um, for me personally, they care.

01:59:12.180 But like, if I had just like a normal job, I feel like most men don't care.

01:59:16.120 Cause like, if like, as a man, you're in the provider role, like you would be the provider

01:59:21.580 anyway.

01:59:22.160 So my job would matter less than yours.

01:59:26.060 But like, obviously, you know, a woman should be educated and like, you know, have like ambition. 1.00

01:59:33.720 So I think that matters over the type of job.

01:59:36.000 When you say ambition, what kind of ambition?

01:59:38.820 Career ambition?

01:59:39.960 Um, just like with anything.

01:59:41.500 So like, maybe she doesn't have the best job, but she is really ambitious in artwork or, you know, she really likes making YouTube or just like has like a hobby where she can be creative.

01:59:52.880 And like, I don't know, just show that, you know, she has ambition to achieve goals, like no matter how big or small, I guess.

02:00:03.980 Huh.

02:00:04.660 Ambition.

02:00:05.100 Ambition.

02:00:08.680 So career ambition.

02:00:13.720 Kind of with anything.

02:00:15.320 All right.

02:00:15.900 What about you?

02:00:16.440 What do you think?

02:00:18.060 Can you repeat the question?

02:00:19.380 Yeah, sure.

02:00:19.940 So agree or disagree.

02:00:22.260 Men in general do not care about a woman's career in terms of it making him more attracted to her.

02:00:30.440 No, I don't think men really care.

02:00:34.980 Okay.

02:00:35.580 Maddie.

02:00:36.340 I don't think they care about career either, but I kind of agree with her on the other, like the passions and the hobbies and things like that aside from a career.

02:00:43.100 I'm not even sure about that one, but Jake or well.

02:00:48.680 No, I don't care at all about your career, but I do, I do like it when a woman has interests though and has things that she's interested in because if she likes reading books and if she likes like making arts and crafts or something like that, then I like that because they can do things in their spare time. 0.99

02:01:04.140 And it makes them more interesting to talk to you because you have to, you do have to talk to this person when you're old.

02:01:07.980 Yeah.

02:01:08.800 Do you though?

02:01:09.680 Couldn't you just like, she's in the other room and you're just kind of.

02:01:12.820 Yeah, exactly.

02:01:13.680 She needs something to do.

02:01:15.300 So it's like, you go do your thing.

02:01:18.040 I'm a big talker as well.

02:01:18.980 Cleaning?

02:01:19.780 Cleaning.

02:01:20.780 Sure.

02:01:21.280 Yeah.

02:01:21.920 I have a passion for cleaning.

02:01:24.920 Yael, what do you think?

02:01:26.360 I think probably.

02:01:27.940 Oh, sorry.

02:01:28.440 I probably generally don't care as much as like women would care about a guy's career, but I mean, I think it's also important to like, if a woman does have a career that you should probably like what her career is or like find it interesting.

02:01:41.700 I don't know.

02:01:42.440 Because that ties into what her hobbies could be depending on her career. 0.88

02:01:46.300 I don't know.

02:01:47.180 You know what I mean.

02:01:48.140 Yeah.

02:01:48.600 You don't want it to be useless either though.

02:01:50.580 Yeah. 0.83

02:01:50.720 You don't want it to be useless.

02:01:51.980 Like, I would ideally have my wife working for my business with me and being able to do like the emails and being competent in a way and not just being a sack. 0.86

02:02:01.780 Yeah.

02:02:01.980 I mean, it's good if she's not just fumbling all over the place and has no.

02:02:09.200 And also, if you go out of town for a week and you're like, hey, you need to take care of the kids and hold it down at home, you need to be able to make sure that she's like, yeah, cool.

02:02:17.360 I got it.

02:02:18.420 Yeah.

02:02:18.740 I think, at least for me, what I would look for is, because, I mean, once you kind of get into a place where you're earning such amount of money, I would want a girl who's ready to help me with my mission.

02:02:34.520 And this is for long-term partnership, right?

02:02:36.460 Because in my mind, I'm like, well, you could have your 50, 60, 70K career, or if we're going to be long-term partners, have kids or whatever, if you can free me up by helping me, and then that can enable me to go on and make an additional $200,000 a year, it just makes way more sense for you to quit whatever you're doing and come help me.

02:03:03.180 Yeah, 100%.

02:03:03.960 Like, just the math of it.

02:03:05.460 Okay, you can have your 60K career, or by helping me, I earn us an additional $200,000 a year.

02:03:13.660 It's a no-brainer at that point.

02:03:16.120 Definitely.

02:03:16.300 So if you can get, and if you can help out, and you don't even necessarily even have to be necessarily even involved with the business, although you could be.

02:03:24.720 It could be just like, how can you free up time for me, make my life easier, so I can go out and kill it for the both of us?

02:03:32.400 That's kind of where my head's at.

02:03:33.580 There's a big difference for a guy between operating at 95% and 105%.

02:03:38.420 And if a woman can make that difference, if the guy's already high-achieving, then it'll make a bigger financial difference than your career or your job. 1.00

02:03:46.940 I had something for Selena about her career.

02:03:56.920 Oh, yeah.

02:03:57.920 What's up?

02:03:58.340 That's probably a rewarding career.

02:04:00.700 I really, her porn ambitions, she needs to, she needs to be more ambitious in her porn career. 0.98

02:04:09.560 She needs to sleep with more men. 1.00

02:04:14.260 Yeah, you go. 0.89

02:04:15.620 Okay.

02:04:16.500 All right.

02:04:17.140 I don't know where I'm going with that.

02:04:18.660 What was the question?

02:04:20.040 I totally, totally forgot.

02:04:21.640 What do you bring to the table?

02:04:23.260 Did we get everybody, I think?

02:04:26.080 What did we get to?

02:04:26.780 I think we only got here.

02:04:28.120 Oh, man.

02:04:28.640 Okay.

02:04:28.980 All right.

02:04:29.320 What do you bring to the table?

02:04:33.480 What do I bring to the table?

02:04:35.340 I'll be obvious.

02:04:36.440 I can cook, clean.

02:04:38.720 I'm fun to be around.

02:04:39.600 I love to go on adventures together.

02:04:41.300 I think that the person who is with me is blessed to never be bored.

02:04:45.660 I think that's a huge thing.

02:04:47.240 Inspiration as well.

02:04:48.560 Never be bored?

02:04:49.480 Yeah.

02:04:49.900 I love being busy.

02:04:51.380 I love adventures.

02:04:52.580 Red flag, red flag.

02:04:53.200 Really?

02:04:53.660 Yeah, sure.

02:04:54.160 I mean, we could go to raves together or we could just game together, play D&D together.

02:04:58.160 When a girl says, you'll never be bored with me, all I just think about is there's going 1.00

02:05:02.860 to be drama.

02:05:04.160 Oh, no.

02:05:04.560 It's drama-free.

02:05:06.380 Arguing, fighting.

02:05:08.460 No?

02:05:09.000 No.

02:05:09.900 I mean, obviously, you're going to have some arguments, but no.

02:05:12.260 Drama-free, definitely.

02:05:17.320 Stop the cap. 0.94

02:05:18.960 Okay.

02:05:19.160 Sorry, go ahead.

02:05:20.160 Go ahead.

02:05:20.420 What else do you bring to the table?

02:05:21.680 What else do you bring to the table?

02:05:22.600 What else?

02:05:23.620 Yeah.

02:05:24.760 What am I saying?

02:05:25.880 Yeah.

02:05:27.640 Yeah.

02:05:28.480 I just love to go on adventures together.

02:05:30.300 I think that's also a big thing.

02:05:31.460 I need someone who is spontaneous so we can go out together and explore.

02:05:36.660 Sure.

02:05:37.740 Selena, what do you bring to the table? 0.80

02:05:42.160 I mean, I'm conversational, funny.

02:05:45.060 I like trying new things, so couples' adventures, I guess.

02:05:49.960 Just activities, traveling.

02:05:51.660 Gangbangs don't count. 0.99

02:05:54.240 I actually have never done a gangbang, so yeah, it doesn't count.

02:05:57.720 Excuse me.

02:05:58.660 Excuse me.

02:06:00.020 Okay.

02:06:01.600 Go ahead.

02:06:02.980 Um, I mean, I think I have a nice body.

02:06:06.360 Like, I don't know.

02:06:08.360 I'm pretty chill, I feel like.

02:06:10.960 Like, I can get along with an array of people, you know?

02:06:13.460 By the end of tonight's show, I'm pretty sure we can get you to quit porn.

02:06:16.480 What do you think?

02:06:18.040 I mean, it didn't work last time, so I don't know.

02:06:21.540 Well, this time we have Jake here, and we have Yael, who's...

02:06:27.380 She, Yael, will convince you. 0.92

02:06:30.400 She's a savage. 1.00

02:06:32.220 I like savage. 0.98

02:06:34.680 She's gonna... 0.99

02:06:35.320 Jake, what do you think?

02:06:36.400 Should we get this girl out of the porn industry? 1.00

02:06:39.140 I think, you know, we'll probably do a nine-hour show tonight, so we've got like seven hours.

02:06:42.740 I'm gonna try to do a short show tonight.

02:06:46.020 Maybe another 20 hours.

02:06:47.760 Another 20 hours.

02:06:48.880 One of these days, we'll do like a 24-hour stream or something.

02:06:52.100 Great.

02:06:52.840 Good luck.

02:06:53.560 That would be insane.

02:06:55.120 Selena, do you want to eventually be engaged in a relationship, a happy marriage, children,

02:07:00.440 all those sorts of things?

02:07:02.080 Yeah.

02:07:03.300 So what's the thinking with the porn?

02:07:04.940 Um, I mean, it's just like, it's something I enjoy doing, like, and I, like, obviously

02:07:12.280 I'm 19, so I haven't been doing it for that long.

02:07:16.020 So you can get out and, well, you still can, maybe.

02:07:19.620 I mean, I could change careers if I wanted to, but for now I'm happy doing what I'm doing.

02:07:24.800 Do you ever stop to think about the detrimental effect that it might have on your future?

02:07:28.920 Yeah.

02:07:29.900 Yeah.

02:07:30.220 And, like...

02:07:30.860 Do you ever, do you recognize that it's dirty money?

02:07:32.900 I mean, I've made dirty money before in different, various ways that I can't tell the United

02:07:36.760 States customs, but, you know, it comes with consequences.

02:07:40.760 Yeah, of course there's consequences.

02:07:44.100 Yeah.

02:07:45.360 There's consequences, but, I mean, you could say that about a lot of jobs.

02:07:49.140 Like, I don't know, like, I'm at a point where it's like I've kind of accepted that there's

02:07:53.860 always going to be judgment, there will be backlash in the future, like, especially if I have

02:07:57.940 a family and stuff, like, you know, at the end of the day, it was a decision that I made

02:08:02.280 to do this career, and, you know, in life you have to kind of just, like, accept your

02:08:07.160 consequences, you know, it's part of life.

02:08:09.440 But why this, though?

02:08:11.660 Why this particular career?

02:08:13.120 There's a lot of ways that are, you seem like a bright young lady, but there's a lot of different

02:08:17.160 ways that you could make money, there's a lot of different things you could do.

02:08:19.920 Why that?

02:08:20.560 It's, like, the most extreme thing that you could possibly do.

02:08:22.700 That is true.

02:08:23.420 Um, I mean, initially, I just kind of started online, and it was more of, like, my fans wanting

02:08:31.740 me to expand.

02:08:33.640 Um, like, I started out really small, and then I kind of just decided to do it, and it was

02:08:39.540 kind of just, like, a rush decision.

02:08:41.200 Like, I wasn't thinking about all the backlash or future consequences, because I'm like, I'm

02:08:46.900 young, whatever, I'm going to do this, because it seems fun and interesting.

02:08:50.980 What about the consequences now, as well?

02:08:53.540 Because, like, diseases and everything is very rampant in that industry, as well.

02:08:59.020 Do you ever think about diseases, you know, sexually transmitted diseases?

02:09:02.860 Um, for our industry, I feel like it's very safe.

02:09:05.960 We get tested full panel every two weeks, and we can't work without it.

02:09:09.720 But if you have a blood disease, like HIV, then it takes six months sometimes for it

02:09:13.540 to show up.

02:09:14.520 That is true, and that's why I do PrEP, like, the HIV PrEP pill, to protect myself from that.

02:09:19.900 Yeah, and, but there's other things, as well, that you could catch, and if you were to slip

02:09:24.060 up, you know, you waited some days.

02:09:26.360 Herpes?

02:09:26.980 Are you talking about herpes?

02:09:27.760 I'm talking about herpes, HIV, all of these different, sort of, things that you could catch.

02:09:32.420 Do you ever...

02:09:32.740 Raise your hand if you have herpes.

02:09:35.920 I don't know.

02:09:38.360 Okay, go.

02:09:38.960 I mean, well, I mean, like, yeah, that's a fair point, but it's like, I feel like in

02:09:43.140 our industry, like, we're safer than average people, because, like, we do care about being

02:09:47.440 tested.

02:09:48.420 So often, like, the likelihood is just very low, I feel like.

02:09:53.340 I mean, like, 14-day, like, in a 14-day span, the only thing I worry about is people, what

02:09:59.160 they do in their spare time, because I don't know if they're going out, you know, with anybody.

02:10:03.160 If you're always engaging in sex, then just by that alone, then you're putting yourself

02:10:07.260 at more risk.

02:10:07.740 And also, the numbers show that these diseases are much more prevalent.

02:10:11.220 Like, herpes is very, very prevalent in the porn industry.

02:10:14.340 Yeah, it is, yeah.

02:10:15.760 And that's a risk you take by doing it, you know?

02:10:18.080 Is the money good enough to be doing this?

02:10:20.540 It kind of just depends who you are, how much...

02:10:22.440 It seems like, like, from what you're saying, you sort of just fell into it.

02:10:25.420 It's sort of escalated.

02:10:27.120 You don't...

02:10:27.600 You're aware that there are consequences.

02:10:29.760 You're not delusional that there are all of these consequences.

02:10:32.080 Not at all.

02:10:32.520 But you don't want to get out of it at this stage.

02:10:35.420 Yeah, I mean, I think right now I'm happy, you know, pursuing it.

02:10:38.680 And, you know, in a few years, if I don't want to do it anymore, then I don't have to

02:10:42.580 do it.

02:10:42.900 You know, I can quit whenever I want.

02:10:44.520 Have you seen the...

02:10:46.200 Like, just recently, in the last year or so, there's been all of these different porn

02:10:49.660 stars that have finished their career and off themselves.

02:10:52.980 Have you seen that as well?

02:10:54.980 Yeah, I mean, I have heard about all those stories, and it is very sad.

02:10:59.300 You tend...

02:10:59.940 It's like they tend to get sort of used up and then thrown away after their career, after

02:11:04.260 these, like, long 20-year careers, and then they're not attractive anymore.

02:11:07.320 And then once their beauty fades, they get sort of tossed to the side.

02:11:11.160 I mean, you could say that with anyone.

02:11:13.020 And, like, I feel like as far as, like, offing yourself and stuff, that's prevalent just in

02:11:19.960 the world in general, not just necessarily within a certain industry.

02:11:23.400 Like, you never know what people deal with, what they're going through, their experiences.

02:11:27.140 Like, I don't know.

02:11:28.940 I actually didn't know those women, so I don't know what they dealt with in their life. 1.00

02:11:32.760 It could have been something completely unrelated to my industry.

02:11:35.940 Yeah.

02:11:36.780 But...

02:11:37.460 Yael, you had a question for her?

02:11:39.020 Yeah, I was just wondering what you thought about...

02:11:40.960 Is it mine?

02:11:41.360 Oh, I'm sorry.

02:11:42.880 Like, how it might affect you since...

02:11:45.320 How old did you say you were, 19?

02:11:47.400 Yeah.

02:11:47.900 Oh, okay.

02:11:48.780 Like, because starting at, like, a younger age versus, like, people that are older, not

02:11:53.720 that I know much about, like, the effects on different people, but since it has, like,

02:11:58.040 effect on people's mental health, do you think it might be worse, like, for people that

02:12:02.280 are younger?

02:12:03.000 Or, like, are you concerned about that at all?

02:12:05.860 For mental health, I feel like I've always personally struggled with it.

02:12:09.460 Like, I've struggled with depression, anxiety, you know, and it's just, it's always been

02:12:15.440 a thing.

02:12:15.880 Like, mentally, I've always been, you know, not the best, and I feel like even if I did

02:12:21.700 a different career, I would still be struggling, and that's why I'm kind of just, like, it

02:12:27.380 is hard mentally to put yourself out there and be vulnerable, like, your whole body and,

02:12:32.040 like, everything.

02:12:33.000 Like, it is difficult, and, like, I do get judged, like, in every way.

02:12:36.060 Like, literally, every single thing about me gets judged.

02:12:39.000 And it is hard, but, I mean, I guess in the future I'll see about my mental health and

02:12:45.280 the effects that it had, but that's just, you know, it's life.

02:12:51.460 Really quick on the career thing.

02:12:53.140 Did we go around the table?

02:12:54.340 We did go around the table on the career.

02:12:56.120 I just, I forgot to actually make my own point on this.

02:12:59.000 So, here's the reality.

02:13:04.740 Vast majority of men really don't care about your career.

02:13:09.100 Like, a lot of girls will say, I bring my career to the table. 0.99

02:13:13.000 I bring my money to the table.

02:13:15.160 Vast majority of men really don't care.

02:13:17.200 It doesn't make you, when I say they don't care, I mean it doesn't make you more attractive

02:13:21.600 to them, in the same way that a woman might be, like, really attracted to a man who's

02:13:26.600 a doctor.

02:13:27.420 Whoa, voice crack.

02:13:28.900 Happens a lot.

02:13:30.180 Voice.

02:13:33.100 Doctor.

02:13:34.000 Lawyer.

02:13:35.120 These are kind of more prestigious positions.

02:13:40.740 Women will tend to really prioritize trying to date these kinds of men who have these kinds 0.97

02:13:46.460 of positions, they're in high demand, it makes them more attractive to women. 1.00

02:13:51.640 Women who occupy these positions typically don't become more attractive. 1.00

02:13:56.700 So, women tend to more highly prioritize. 1.00

02:14:02.900 Posting this for Mason rather than for the panel that is uninterested in what quality man

02:14:08.660 is looking for, but it still needs to be said, ladies, your career ambitions doesn't 1.00

02:14:12.460 make his D harder.

02:14:15.640 Yo, Desert Joe, thank you so much for the TTS, man.

02:14:20.120 I really appreciate it.

02:14:21.240 Good point.

02:14:23.200 For example, like, women, I don't know if you'll know this, like, so, have you ever seen these 1.00

02:14:28.920 concerts where a woman will be, like, go to a concert, her favorite musician or whatever, 0.99

02:14:33.660 and she'll, like, write a message on her iPhone, like, I'll fuck you right now? 1.00

02:14:36.680 Like, like, men who have, who are really high status, who are famous, athletes, musicians, 0.99

02:14:43.380 actors, women, like, will significantly pursue these kinds of men and be, like, more turned 0.97

02:14:50.400 on, more attracted to these kinds of men.

02:14:52.200 But, like, a woman's status, it doesn't really make you more attractive. 0.96

02:14:57.980 Really?

02:15:01.820 You disagree?

02:15:02.300 I mean, I've walked in on a few patients jacking off in the hospital.

02:15:06.080 Wait, what?

02:15:06.740 What is that?

02:15:08.040 That took a turn.

02:15:08.980 Watch!

02:15:09.460 That took a turn.

02:15:10.140 What is that?

02:15:11.280 Are they saying, like, what?

02:15:12.580 Like, my patients, I would, like, walk in and they're just touching themselves.

02:15:17.660 Or they'll be, like, the door will be open and I'll be, like, sitting at my desk and

02:15:21.460 they'll just be, like...

02:15:22.100 Maybe bro's bored.

02:15:23.040 Yeah, I mean...

02:15:23.640 They probably are bored.

02:15:24.960 I'm just saying.

02:15:25.780 You've got nothing else to do.

02:15:26.720 There's a point.

02:15:27.900 Well, I'm not really sure if that's totally related, but...

02:15:32.300 It's kind of related.

02:15:34.060 But, uh...

02:15:35.100 So you're saying men are very attracted to nurses in that way?

02:15:37.480 Maybe.

02:15:38.540 No, probably just bored patients.

02:15:39.360 Or could they just be...

02:15:40.680 Yeah, or could they just sit in there just...

02:15:42.520 Yeah, maybe it's the drugs that we give them.

02:15:44.820 Stop jacking their little witness. 0.54

02:15:46.100 But, like, here's the reality, right?

02:15:48.300 Like, you're a travel nurse, you're an RN, you've done a bunch of schooling for

02:15:51.940 that, you probably make good money.

02:15:53.660 I've heard travel nurses make a lot of pretty good money. 1.00

02:15:57.900 Nurses in general make good money. 0.99

02:16:00.700 I don't think, like, you're going to be able to out-compete, like, a woman who's 1.00

02:16:05.180 more physically attractive who works at Chick-fil-A.

02:16:07.120 I'm not saying that to be insulting, but, like, a man will prioritize, like, a woman's... 0.99

02:16:12.520 Unemployed is what we want. 0.99

02:16:13.540 Well, they want someone feminine, like, in their feminine energy. 1.00

02:16:16.840 Men want that? 1.00

02:16:17.680 Yeah, men.

02:16:18.360 Yeah, absolutely.

02:16:19.640 I mean, it's not just all about looks.

02:16:21.480 I mean, men do care about being feminine, bringing peace, like, you have a good positive

02:16:27.600 disposition, these sorts of things.

02:16:29.680 But, like, women will think, will sort of almost project, okay, I find these traits attractive 1.00

02:16:37.000 in men.

02:16:37.740 I find status, dominance, etc., these things attractive in men.

02:16:44.860 Ergo, men must similarly find these same traits attractive in women. 0.78

02:16:50.140 But it's not the case.

02:16:51.520 So, women will perhaps sometimes, in a sort of confused way, pursue a career or pursue 0.97

02:16:56.940 status, thinking, once I get enough status, once I get here in my career, I will become

02:17:02.260 more attractive to men.

02:17:03.400 It's actually not the case.

02:17:04.500 In fact, as you get more money, as you earn more money, as you get more status, your pool

02:17:09.680 shrinks, not really so much from the male side of it, but because you now need men to either 0.94

02:17:16.960 match or out-earn you.

02:17:18.660 You need men to have similar prestige, similar status to you.

02:17:24.100 You often hear this with women.

02:17:25.720 I need a man who makes as much or more than me.

02:17:28.220 So, typically, once men, the more money a man makes, the more status he makes, his dating

02:17:36.360 pool opens.

02:17:37.400 The more money and status a woman gets, her dating pool shrinks. 1.00

02:17:41.460 That's messed up.

02:17:42.940 Why is that messed up?

02:17:44.680 Well, because a guy, I guess, should be making more money than his wife if you want to have 0.99

02:17:48.440 like a traditional family.

02:17:51.200 Right, but so, that used to not be hard when women were not participating to the same degree 1.00

02:17:59.000 in the labor pool.

02:18:01.040 So, it's very easy to be economically attractive as a man to women if the woman didn't work. 1.00

02:18:08.080 And you used to be able to raise a family on one income.

02:18:11.660 That's no longer the case, though.

02:18:13.620 So, what was the way men typically, at least in the past, made themselves attractive to women

02:18:17.640 by being providers?

02:18:18.820 Now, women don't need men in that same way because you're making your own money. 1.00

02:18:29.080 So, then you start looking at other things that will make you attracted to him that have

02:18:33.560 nothing to do with providing necessarily because you can still provide for yourself.

02:18:38.480 So, I think it used to be in the past, oh, okay, he can provide for me.

02:18:44.180 Then, that's good, I guess.

02:18:46.380 But, anyways, ultimately, most men, if given the option, will date the 21-year-old hottie 0.97

02:18:55.480 who works at the Chick-fil-A drive-thru over the 31-year-old, I guess still good-looking,

02:19:01.860 but lawyer woman. 0.95

02:19:06.820 Agree?

02:19:07.420 Disagree?

02:19:08.040 That's true.

02:19:08.640 Agree?

02:19:09.060 Disagree?

02:19:09.700 You disagree?

02:19:10.020 Maybe it's a difference between Europe and America.

02:19:13.540 It's got to be the same in Europe.

02:19:15.040 Should we move?

02:19:15.440 It's for sure the same in Europe.

02:19:17.120 I really don't.

02:19:18.940 It's...

02:19:19.320 I think there's a lot more nuance.

02:19:21.600 I think there's a lot of men, like you say.

02:19:22.720 Your countries are pretty liberal, though.

02:19:24.340 Like, your countries are very liberal, like those European countries.

02:19:28.060 It is a bit of a different vibe there.

02:19:29.820 But, in saying that, a lot of countries in Europe are also very Christian as well.

02:19:33.780 So, oftentimes, the girls will live at home until they're married and take the whole traditional route as well. 1.00

02:19:40.500 So, it's a mixed bag over there.

02:19:41.900 It's not like they're all just...

02:19:42.920 Maybe the area where I live, indeed.

02:19:44.540 Holland is very liberal.

02:19:46.180 It's falling apart, if I'm honest.

02:19:48.040 They're going to be underwater, hopefully, soon.

02:19:50.980 Okay.

02:19:52.540 So, like...

02:19:53.780 Well, they're pretty good engineers over there.

02:19:58.200 Yeah, they're good...

02:19:59.240 Sorry, they're good farmers.

02:20:00.280 We need their farming.

02:20:01.780 Like, I think the perspective where guys will factor in, like your job, is...

02:20:09.920 I mean, it could be a component insofar as he's like, okay, well, I want to start a family.

02:20:16.920 Like, it will have certain...

02:20:19.320 It'll benefit the family if she's earning enough. 0.96

02:20:25.480 But, like, in terms of attraction, it's not the same between men and women.

02:20:32.400 Like, a girl will be really attracted.

02:20:37.320 Like, I'm trying to think.

02:20:38.760 Like, guys can make up for deficits in other realms with status and with money.

02:20:43.860 It's not so much the case for women that they can make up for their deficits in terms of what men care about when it comes to attraction, which, I mean, the big thing is obviously... 0.87

02:20:55.860 Youth, beauty, and fertility, you don't really make up for it.

02:20:58.100 Yeah.

02:20:59.080 With status and money.

02:21:00.060 So, again, I would argue most men, if given the option, they'll pick a 21-year-old who works at Chick-fil-A over a 31-year-old who's an attorney.

02:21:11.060 Every single time.

02:21:14.940 Agree or disagree?

02:21:18.240 I think often, not every single time.

02:21:21.100 Do you think that for men of all ages?

02:21:23.420 I'd say often as well.

02:21:24.720 Often, yeah.

02:21:25.580 Well, okay, sure.

02:21:26.460 I've met a lot of outliers.

02:21:27.600 It's not every single time, but, you know, it's...

02:21:30.700 Let's just say it's the majority.

02:21:32.760 But a lot of the guys in these countries are, like, institutionalized with liberalism, you know?

02:21:37.060 And they'd be just as shocked as they are to hear about these.

02:21:40.020 Well, I suppose, like, they've been propagandized and brainwashed to some degree, but...

02:21:48.040 In Australia, it's rampant.

02:21:49.100 But in terms of, like, their, like, knee-jerk initial, like, what they're attracted to, I'm sure you'd agree, even with the brainwashing, they're still going to be more attracted to the 21-year-old, like, more attracted to the 21-year-old who works at Chick-fil-A than the 31-year-old master's degree, attorney, whatever.

02:22:09.200 But everyone feels like they need a self-censor these days and that they'd be called out for saying anything else.

02:22:14.300 So guys just won't go with what they actually believe.

02:22:16.900 Yeah.

02:22:19.860 Very safe.

02:22:20.400 Word?

02:22:23.500 Rough tones.

02:22:28.900 Okay.

02:22:29.740 Let's see here.

02:22:30.600 We got a bunch of stuff to get into.

02:22:32.460 We went around the table about what they bring to the table, I think, right?

02:22:37.320 Did you answer that question?

02:22:39.500 I think we got...

02:22:40.420 Yeah, I answered.

02:22:41.100 What do you bring to the table?

02:22:42.180 Um, I'd say I'm very understanding.

02:22:47.560 Of cheating?

02:22:50.460 No, I'm very understanding.

02:22:53.380 I would, I would like to think I'm pretty nice.

02:22:58.780 Hard working.

02:22:59.820 I mean, um, I don't know.

02:23:03.420 I'm just a, I, I'm good at communicating and I feel like that's very important in a relationship.

02:23:09.320 So I, like, if they want to talk about something, I feel like it's my job to make them feel like they're understood.

02:23:17.560 And, yeah, I'm, like, trying to think, but I don't know.

02:23:24.140 Hmm.

02:23:24.880 Okay.

02:23:27.660 All right.

02:23:28.420 Uh, well, we'll, we'll read a couple chats here.

02:23:30.560 Uh, Maddie, can you read?

02:23:33.020 Females can be on the podcast, but ain't no way we can let one get in the White House. 1.00

02:23:37.320 I would rather that gay, but gay guy than a female, especially a Democrat. 1.00

02:23:45.900 They tried locking him up and killing him, but no man can interfere with God's plan. 0.99

02:23:51.000 Vote Trump.

02:23:51.760 Oh, wow.

02:23:52.200 Okay.

02:23:52.520 Thank you, Mike Davis.

02:23:53.340 Good to see you in the chat, man.

02:23:54.320 It's been, uh, Mr. Mike Davis, it's been a while.

02:23:57.360 Fact.

02:23:57.800 Where you been, man?

02:23:58.620 Good to see you in the chat, man.

02:24:00.180 Good to see you in the chat, Mr. Mike Davis.

02:24:02.540 And then, uh, we have a message here from Alixia, uh, Yael, can you read this one?

02:24:09.240 Can you see the?

02:24:10.520 I'm, like, sorry.

02:24:12.320 Just taking the opportunity to be a first-time supporter of the show and aid in the efforts

02:24:18.800 for Mason.

02:24:19.960 What a tragedy.

02:24:21.620 Hey, Alixia. 1.00

02:24:22.440 Thank you, uh, thank you so much for the, the, uh, message via Streamlabs.

02:24:26.960 Pretty, uh, good to have you as a first-time supporter.

02:24:29.340 Really appreciate it.

02:24:30.040 Thank you.

02:24:30.760 All right.

02:24:31.480 So, where do we go?

02:24:34.120 You know what?

02:24:34.740 We need to do your dating app review.

02:24:38.140 We gotta, we're gonna get you a man here. 0.88

02:24:40.300 Let's go.

02:24:40.700 We're gonna get you your .11%.

02:24:43.440 Please do.

02:24:44.260 I actually deleted dating apps for, like, a year.

02:24:46.680 And then I realized that I had really bad dates in person, too.

02:24:49.780 So.

02:24:50.220 Bad dates?

02:24:51.000 What did you do to make of the bad date?

02:24:52.580 Me?

02:24:53.040 Yeah.

02:24:53.300 I showed up.

02:24:54.120 Late?

02:24:55.460 You just showed up.

02:24:57.380 Misty Unicorn might be watching here. 0.94

02:24:59.160 Yeah.

02:24:59.380 That's how do I need to change.

02:25:04.340 Can we, uh, yeah, pull up the dating apps for her? 0.59

02:25:07.340 Okay.

02:25:07.760 Is this the first one?

02:25:08.900 No.

02:25:09.540 All right.

02:25:11.040 That's, like, the second or third, I think.

02:25:13.060 Oh.

02:25:13.080 Are you sure it's at the start?

02:25:14.460 It is at the start.

02:25:15.420 Okay.

02:25:15.840 Maybe it's just out of order, but that's fine.

02:25:17.240 So, uh, okay.

02:25:18.480 So, this is Gabby.

02:25:20.540 Gabby's dating app profile.

02:25:22.200 There she is in, is that Haiti?

02:25:25.320 Havar.

02:25:26.220 Huh?

02:25:26.580 Havar.

02:25:27.060 Where's that?

02:25:27.660 Croatia.

02:25:28.080 Croatia.

02:25:28.520 Oh, okay.

02:25:29.660 Wait.

02:25:30.080 The top one or the bottom one?

02:25:32.280 The first one's in Havar, and then the second one is in Laguna Beach.

02:25:35.720 Oh, how did I confuse Laguna Beach for Haiti?

02:25:37.940 Okay.

02:25:38.660 All right.

02:25:39.460 Next.

02:25:41.340 Can you read, read the prompt?

02:25:43.500 I go crazy for beach days, traveling, coffee, hiking, adventures, and good food.

02:25:48.160 Mm-hmm.

02:25:52.040 Oh.

02:25:52.960 Hold on.

02:25:53.860 Read it.

02:25:54.180 Dating me is like winning the lottery.

02:25:56.900 Where's that photo?

02:25:57.200 Yeah, because you found your unicorn, uh, Santa Monica.

02:26:02.800 Winning the lottery?

02:26:03.920 Yeah, because I'm a unicorn.

02:26:05.160 What's the chance of winning the Powerball or whatever?

02:26:07.480 Isn't it like?

02:26:09.180 One in a million?

02:26:10.540 Less than 0.11%.

02:26:12.160 Oh, see, it's the same.

02:26:13.200 We have the same odds.

02:26:13.940 Oh, my.

02:26:15.580 Wait, so like dating you is like winning the lottery?

02:26:19.020 Yeah.

02:26:20.340 Why is that?

02:26:21.040 You see how small my dating pool is?

02:26:23.080 It's 0.11%.

02:26:25.360 Well, that would be you winning the lottery for dating the guy that you want, right?

02:26:31.340 But.

02:26:31.660 So it's same, same.

02:26:32.940 Is it though?

02:26:33.820 But different.

02:26:35.380 Is it?

02:26:35.960 Is it?

02:26:37.380 It's pretty equivalent.

02:26:41.620 Uh, don't you think it's a bit, uh, prideful or a bit of hubris to be like dating me? 0.60

02:26:48.220 I am so fucking amazing and special that it's like winning the lottery. 0.74

02:26:56.780 Yeah. 0.97

02:26:57.280 I don't know.

02:26:58.260 A lot of red flags in there, Gabby.

02:26:59.520 A lot of red flags.

02:27:00.360 I need to change it.

02:27:01.040 What should I change it to?

02:27:01.820 A lot of red flags.

02:27:02.440 Dating me is like.

02:27:04.760 I didn't know what else to put.

02:27:05.700 I got it.

02:27:06.220 I got it for you.

02:27:07.240 Dating me is like buying 30 scratch cards and winning on one of them.

02:27:13.440 Winning like $1.

02:27:14.580 Yeah.

02:27:15.480 That.

02:27:16.400 That's fair.

02:27:17.260 That would be.

02:27:17.620 And that would be funny as well.

02:27:18.820 I'd.

02:27:19.160 Okay.

02:27:19.620 I'll change it to that.

02:27:20.480 Yeah.

02:27:20.920 There we go.

02:27:21.940 Right.

02:27:22.420 See, I'm already helping you out.

02:27:23.580 Change that.

02:27:24.020 Okay.

02:27:24.420 I'm going to get Helen.

02:27:25.380 Dating.

02:27:25.840 Dating me is like playing Russian roulette. 1.00

02:27:29.660 I might ruin your life or kill you. 0.99

02:27:31.820 Dating me is like picking up a needle from a, one of the back street of impoverished 1.00

02:27:46.540 town in Philadelphia.

02:27:49.000 Wait, hold on.

02:27:49.760 Where am I going?

02:27:50.360 I don't know where I'm going. 0.98

02:27:51.200 Stabbing myself with it and not getting HIV. 0.98

02:27:53.700 There you go.

02:27:54.360 That's great.

02:27:55.760 Because it's still, it's like winning the lottery of not getting HIV.

02:28:01.000 Yeah.

02:28:01.360 That's great.

02:28:02.320 And it communicates that you don't have HIV and.

02:28:08.640 Okay.

02:28:09.000 Nevermind.

02:28:09.720 Um, I don't get the winning the lottery thing though.

02:28:15.340 It was just the prompts and I didn't know what else to put it.

02:28:17.620 Okay.

02:28:17.960 Um, I, I told you I just redownloaded it.

02:28:20.440 So what would you date an average guy?

02:28:22.540 Dating apps.

02:28:23.360 Would I date an average guy if they have a great personality?

02:28:26.820 No, no, no, no, no, no.

02:28:28.040 Oh, so average personality.

02:28:29.620 So average personality, average looks, average height, average pee-pee size.

02:28:36.480 Ding-a-ling. 1.00

02:28:37.720 Ding-a-ling. 1.00

02:28:39.260 Would you?

02:28:41.180 Well, it's all about the motion of the ocean, but no.

02:28:44.120 You wouldn't date an average guy?

02:28:44.900 I'm not like an average personality.

02:28:46.560 That'd be boring.

02:28:47.300 What's wrong with average?

02:28:49.760 Do you think I'm average?

02:28:51.280 Yes.

02:28:51.880 Oh.

02:28:52.820 It's okay though.

02:28:53.540 There's nothing wrong with average.

02:28:55.300 No, there's nothing wrong with average.

02:28:57.440 Uh-huh.

02:28:57.860 It just sounds like it'd be boring.

02:29:00.060 I'd rather be single.

02:29:00.920 I think average people normally, like, date each other, you know?

02:29:04.380 Yeah.

02:29:04.780 Like, extremely beautiful people date each other.

02:29:06.440 Ugly people date each other. 1.00

02:29:07.500 Oh, I need to date someone ugly. 1.00

02:29:09.180 Would you, you said you wouldn't, uh, did you say you wouldn't be willing to, uh, settle? 0.96

02:29:14.200 Is that what you said?

02:29:15.260 I would rather be single than settle with someone who's, like, average and boring and, like,

02:29:21.600 does it make me happy or fulfill my needs?

02:29:23.340 But what about when you're in your 40s, for example, and you're not really traveling as

02:29:28.940 much and, you know, you're not, like, young in your 20s anymore and life slows down a little

02:29:33.120 bit.

02:29:33.720 Don't you think there's a, you'd be more happy to be with a guy who works in construction

02:29:37.680 who's 5'10", earns a decent salary and he's a good guy and you guys can make kids and

02:29:42.140 have a family and live a meaningful life?

02:29:43.500 Maybe.

02:29:44.280 My mind might change when I'm older because every year you learn something new, but at this

02:29:48.160 moment...

02:29:48.280 But isn't it just a vapid lifestyle to be doing the same thing in your 40s and 50s?

02:29:53.620 Um, I mean, I don't do anything too crazy right now.

02:29:56.480 But if you're still doing that when you're in, like, 20 years' time, don't you think it

02:29:59.340 would be just, wouldn't be a very good life?

02:30:01.820 Yeah, I mean, anything that you do for a long time, like, could get boring after a while.

02:30:05.140 Yeah.

02:30:05.840 I don't want to be single for a while.

02:30:06.840 I think if I was still doing what I'm doing now in 20 years' time, that's like a nightmare

02:30:10.220 for me to think about that.

02:30:12.060 Yeah.

02:30:12.280 I don't really think that girls think ahead that much with this sort of thing.

02:30:16.160 I mean, I definitely do.

02:30:17.140 You know, I want to have a big family and have lots of kids.

02:30:21.780 But I shouldn't feel the pressure of society to...

02:30:24.720 I think we all need that pressure.

02:30:26.140 That's, like, a good pressure that we've got.

02:30:28.820 It's like, Judy...

02:30:29.840 Yeah, for men to say that, because you guys don't have, like, a time clock.

02:30:32.760 Yeah, but we've got other disadvantages, you know?

02:30:35.260 We've got lots of disadvantages.

02:30:37.580 Like?

02:30:37.900 Well, the fact that we don't get any attention sexually when we're younger.

02:30:42.960 When a guy's 20, 21, with no resources, and he's probably got, like, pimples on his face

02:30:47.200 and ugly, girls don't really look twice at them. 1.00

02:30:49.980 I mean, same with girls. 0.95

02:30:51.580 Are you joking?

02:30:52.440 Girls who are in between 20 and 24 are in their sexual peak. 0.99

02:30:55.360 They get the most attention.

02:30:57.100 Oh, I thought you were talking about high school.

02:30:58.660 I'm not really talking about...

02:30:59.520 Even young guys in high school.

02:31:01.060 I mean, we should pull up one of my high school photos. 0.93

02:31:03.260 I was disgusting.

02:31:06.280 But, yeah, I mean, yeah, guys...

02:31:09.200 We have to develop ourselves as men, and getting into your 30s,

02:31:13.140 when you've got more resources, you're more competent, you're a better leader.

02:31:16.060 This is when you start to get more attention, and you start to...

02:31:18.860 Yeah, well, it definitely takes guys longer to mature,

02:31:21.180 because your frontal cortex doesn't develop until you're, like, at least 25.

02:31:25.600 And you have to make a bunch of mistakes and fall on your face a bunch of times

02:31:28.400 and go out into the world and experience all different kinds of trials and tribulations.

02:31:32.480 But that actually grows your character as a guy.

02:31:34.680 But before then, you don't really get much serious attention,

02:31:37.540 unless you're, like, ridiculously good-looking.

02:31:39.220 Build character.

02:31:40.260 Or unless you have some sort of precocious talent.

02:31:44.320 But that's a disadvantage that we've got.

02:31:46.860 Going around the table on this, though,

02:31:48.840 you said you would not be willing to...

02:31:51.860 You'd rather stay single than settle.

02:31:54.220 So, would you rather stay single for the rest of your life

02:31:59.460 than lower your standards or settle?

02:32:06.780 But I already have the best man I can wish for.

02:32:10.200 Well, assuming you were single, right?

02:32:13.080 Well, before this, I was eight years single,

02:32:15.680 so I guess I just...

02:32:17.220 I don't know.

02:32:18.460 I don't think there's anything wrong with an average guy.

02:32:21.180 So, you would date an average guy?

02:32:27.080 Yeah.

02:32:27.440 But like you said, average date's average and all of that.

02:32:32.780 I would date an average guy, yeah.

02:32:34.540 And then, would you rather stay single

02:32:37.200 than have to lower your standards or settle?

02:32:43.260 Depends on the situation, really.

02:32:46.740 If it's something that's going to annoy me in the long run,

02:32:48.780 yeah, I would never settle for that.

02:32:50.140 If it's something I can deal with in the long run,

02:32:52.640 yeah, I would settle for that.

02:32:54.500 Okay.

02:32:55.400 What about you?

02:32:56.700 I would settle, yeah.

02:32:58.340 Okay.

02:33:04.360 I think I would settle.

02:33:06.080 I mean, I feel like in the long run,

02:33:08.660 as long as he's like a great dad to our kids,

02:33:13.620 I feel like that's all that really matters.

02:33:16.620 Sure.

02:33:17.060 But other than that, yeah.

02:33:21.120 Ward?

02:33:21.740 Okay.

02:33:23.400 I have a question.

02:33:24.600 Sure.

02:33:24.740 Can an average man be the provider? 1.00

02:33:28.780 Hmm.

02:33:29.440 It is difficult in this economy.

02:33:32.460 But it's possible, though.

02:33:34.240 Depends.

02:33:34.640 If you live rurally, you can.

02:33:36.500 But if you're living in a city or a place like Santa Barbara,

02:33:38.940 then it is nearly impossible.

02:33:40.640 It's a big problem that we've got at the moment.

02:33:42.680 Wait, do you want to get married, right?

02:33:45.540 Yeah.

02:33:45.920 You want to have kids?

02:33:46.680 Mm-hmm.

02:33:47.280 How many kids?

02:33:49.140 Three to five.

02:33:50.160 Three to five?

02:33:50.860 Three to five.

02:33:52.280 Yeah.

02:33:52.520 Not 35.

02:33:53.260 Yeah, three to five.

02:33:54.300 And do you want to continue working while you're, like,

02:33:59.160 once you start having kids, or what do you think?

02:34:00.920 I want to be a per diem princess.

02:34:02.460 Yes.

02:34:03.540 So if you guys don't know what that is, it's, like,

02:34:05.380 so for nurses, you can work full-time, 0.82

02:34:07.320 which is three to five days a week, depending on your hours.

02:34:10.520 Or you can work, like, one day a week, like, per diem job,

02:34:13.940 where you just kind of work whenever you want to have an income

02:34:17.660 and, like, have a social life still and still have, like,

02:34:20.960 a normal routine and have, like, that sense of normalcy.

02:34:25.480 Word?

02:34:26.940 Okay.

02:34:27.260 Let's go back to the dating app.

02:34:31.220 Dating her is like winning the lottery, gentlemen.

02:34:34.260 All right.

02:34:35.060 Next.

02:34:37.740 Go ahead.

02:34:38.900 Okay.

02:34:39.260 It says, the way to win me over is plan a proper date,

02:34:42.400 be a gentleman, and take me on adventures.

02:34:47.260 What's wrong with this?

02:34:48.440 I think that's okay.

02:34:49.500 Okay.

02:34:56.580 Okay.

02:34:56.940 I thought that was the best part of the whole profile.

02:34:59.260 Next.

02:34:59.880 The beginning.

02:35:00.940 That's the first picture, too.

02:35:02.880 And the first part.

02:35:03.560 Okay.

02:35:04.040 That's the last one for the dating app stuff?

02:35:05.900 Okay.

02:35:07.620 Yeah, it wasn't terrible.

02:35:10.140 Okay.

02:35:10.460 Scale of zero to ten.

02:35:12.220 I'd say there's a lot of red flags in that profile.

02:35:14.320 Yeah.

02:35:14.740 The traveling.

02:35:15.640 The lottery.

02:35:16.480 The lottery was bad because that's kind of –

02:35:20.140 That would scream headaches for me, entitlement,

02:35:22.880 already putting yourself on a pedestal.

02:35:24.580 I know it's a joke, and, you know, you're just kidding.

02:35:26.940 But also the traveling photos.

02:35:30.280 Should I do pictures of me and with my cat?

02:35:31.200 Bikini photos on beaches around the world.

02:35:33.100 I'd say –

02:35:33.560 Have you thought about investing in a burka?

02:35:36.040 A burka? 1.00

02:35:36.800 Yeah.

02:35:37.320 I have a poncho.

02:35:38.500 A poncho is the next best thing.

02:35:40.520 Okay.

02:35:41.340 And maybe a photo with a poncho would be better.

02:35:42.940 Oh, or like a onesie.

02:35:43.960 I have a unicorn onesie.

02:35:45.180 There you go.

02:35:45.460 Oh, and then I could be like, this is winning the lottery.

02:35:47.760 You're finding your unicorn.

02:35:49.480 That would be better.

02:35:50.480 That would be funny.

02:35:51.440 That would be all right.

02:35:52.760 But, yeah, all of the traveling, and then when you say registered nurse

02:35:55.520 and you're traveling a lot, it's like –

02:35:57.920 Travel nurse is a red flag already.

02:35:59.620 I know.

02:36:00.240 Wait, you know that?

02:36:01.060 People always tell me that.

02:36:02.620 It is a red flag.

02:36:04.920 Why?

02:36:05.440 What makes it a red flag?

02:36:06.220 I'll give you a couple reasons.

02:36:07.360 It happens in Vegas.

02:36:08.920 So I think one thing – like let's say there's a relationship-minded guy,

02:36:12.780 but you're – and it sounds like you stay in cities a little longer

02:36:15.980 than other travel nurses.

02:36:17.420 But I remember when I was on dating apps, I'd encounter a lot of nurses. 0.97

02:36:23.720 A lot.

02:36:25.340 Like I've dated a lot of nurses. 0.97

02:36:29.500 So not my type, but I've learned.

02:36:31.800 I've learned.

02:36:33.500 And I've dated local nurses,

02:36:35.420 but then I encountered a lot of these travel nurses. 1.00

02:36:37.440 They're in town for like six weeks, eight weeks.

02:36:39.920 Same with flight attendants. 0.99

02:36:40.560 Short stints, flight attendant, even worse.

02:36:42.800 The thing is, if she's on a dating app and she's going on dates,

02:36:47.900 she ain't dating people for long, which means what?

02:36:51.160 High body count, promiscuity.

02:36:52.900 And also, it's a good opportunity for you to be able to do whatever you want

02:36:56.460 and not have the social stigma of your circle back home.

02:37:00.720 Nobody knows about it.

02:37:01.840 Just get away with it.

02:37:02.620 That's true.

02:37:03.080 So it's like, I remember I was on a date with this travel nurse.

02:37:08.340 I thought she was just a regular nurse. 1.00

02:37:09.980 Turns out she's a travel nurse, you know?

02:37:11.820 I mean, it's like crazy, right?

02:37:14.980 And I'm like, oh, how many cities you been in?

02:37:17.440 And she's like 33.

02:37:19.160 I'm like, oh, no.

02:37:20.860 Hold on.

02:37:21.500 Oh, no.

02:37:22.360 Yeah, that's a red flag.

02:37:23.540 Oh, no, no, no.

02:37:24.740 Just no.

02:37:29.640 Bad.

02:37:31.040 Wait, so did you hook up with her?

02:37:32.140 And I'm like, am I dude 30, 100?

02:37:35.580 That's what I'm thinking in my brain.

02:37:37.460 Am I dude 100?

02:37:38.840 Because you were on Tinder and Hinge and Bumble in the other 33 previous cities.

02:37:44.380 Mm-hmm.

02:37:45.580 Seattle.

02:37:48.500 You're not going out for warm, hot chocolates.

02:37:51.120 Washington, D.C.

02:37:53.440 Boston.

02:37:55.200 Fort Lauderdale.

02:37:59.180 Louisiana.

02:37:59.980 Wait, that's a state.

02:38:00.520 Why does that matter, though?

02:38:01.180 New Orleans.

02:38:01.740 Why does what matter?

02:38:02.660 Why does it matter when you have someone who travels a lot?

02:38:06.540 Maybe she celebrates.

02:38:07.300 Because typically people who travel a lot, so they don't make any, what's the term for it?

02:38:15.880 They don't have, I don't know if it's roots, but like when you stay in one place, you're

02:38:21.800 going to end up hopefully with a long-term relationship.

02:38:25.140 If you know you're leaving a city in six weeks' time, are you going to date seriously or are you

02:38:31.320 going to just like date casually?

02:38:33.260 Probably date casually.

02:38:34.320 You're going to rack up a high body count.

02:38:35.840 You're going to have friends with benefits.

02:38:38.700 Even if you date just one guy in one city, it's only going to last a couple weeks, a couple

02:38:43.580 months.

02:38:44.020 Then you're in the next city.

02:38:45.240 You've racked up a high body count.

02:38:46.820 High body count is undesirable in women. 1.00

02:38:49.520 You are now disqualified.

02:38:51.360 Why do you look at it so negatively, though?

02:38:53.880 Negative?

02:38:54.120 Yeah, because...

02:38:55.600 You could go to a city and go dating.

02:38:58.120 Okay, that's not it.

02:38:58.920 You leave, go to the next city, and then you meet someone who's the love of your life.

02:39:02.640 And you know you're leaving, but you can go back.

02:39:04.280 You can always take a staff job, too.

02:39:06.240 So you're asking kind of two different things.

02:39:08.440 So you're saying, yeah, a woman could sleep with 300 men, and then the number 301, that 0.89

02:39:15.540 could be the guy she ends up in a relationship with.

02:39:17.980 But from the male perspective, I don't want to date a girl who has 300, 200, 150 bodies. 0.99

02:39:24.240 That's you, that's not all the males.

02:39:26.360 All the males.

02:39:26.860 Most men.

02:39:27.400 Men hear that, and they will be repulsed by that.

02:39:30.600 And if they're not repulsed by that, and if they're willing to accept 100 bodies or more,

02:39:33.900 then their priorities aren't in the right place.

02:39:37.600 But what does traveling have to do with having a high body count?

02:39:39.400 Well, I just explained it.

02:39:40.360 And also, if you're on the dating apps as well, when you're traveling, and you meet

02:39:44.520 a guy on a dating app, obviously he's going to insinuate, that insinuates that you've

02:39:48.240 been doing that everywhere.

02:39:49.620 And also, when you're going to new cities, you don't really know anyone, you haven't

02:39:53.160 got any friends, what's the easiest way to hang out with people and have some company?

02:39:57.000 It's to go on dating apps.

02:39:58.380 Or joining a club.

02:40:00.200 Yeah, you don't join clubs.

02:40:01.240 Getting a hobby.

02:40:02.260 You're not joining clubs.

02:40:03.440 Give me a break.

02:40:04.280 Have you ever joined a club in a new city?

02:40:05.780 Yeah.

02:40:06.260 Which ones?

02:40:06.860 I play volleyball, sand volleyball.

02:40:07.900 Okay, sure.

02:40:08.720 So, it's the same thing with flight attendants, right?

02:40:13.280 So, these flight attendants, it's hard for them to, like, look, there's different, I've

02:40:17.960 heard from flight attendants, there's different degrees of how frequently they're gone.

02:40:22.700 Here's the thing, right?

02:40:23.440 So, there's a couple components.

02:40:24.520 There's opportunity.

02:40:25.720 So, if you're in a new city and you're on a dating app, a lot of these, I've matched

02:40:30.580 with these flight attendants.

02:40:32.220 This is how the messaging goes.

02:40:34.340 Oh, hey, good to meet you.

02:40:35.720 We match on Tinder or Hinge.

02:40:37.100 How long are you in town for?

02:40:38.100 For 12 hours.

02:40:39.640 Okay, what does she want from me if she's only in town for 12 hours? 1.00

02:40:43.780 Companionship?

02:40:44.500 No, no, no, no, no.

02:40:45.200 What is the only thing that's on the table with a woman who's in town for 12 hours? 1.00

02:40:49.980 Is it a long-term relationship or does she want to fuck? 1.00

02:40:52.760 She wants to fuck. 1.00

02:40:53.840 It could be either one. 1.00

02:40:54.600 Maybe she just wants a hug and someone to talk to. 0.57

02:40:56.660 She's going to find in her primary city, she's going to get a relationship in her primary

02:41:01.580 city. 0.99

02:41:01.940 If she's on a dating app and she's traveling and she's in fucking Los Angeles, Miami, 0.97

02:41:08.100 wherever for 12 hours time, the long-term potential there is next to nil. 1.00

02:41:14.660 So if she's on a dating app, she's there to fuck. 1.00

02:41:18.820 Yeah, but she can move anywhere, it sounds like. 1.00

02:41:21.380 So she could move to you if you guys hit it off on the first date. 1.00

02:41:25.660 Yeah, but here's the thing.

02:41:27.780 So how long is it going to take to get to that point?

02:41:31.140 All the while, she's still on Tinder, she's still on Hinge, she's still on the dating app

02:41:36.140 and she's in the next city and she's got hoes in different area codes, literally. 1.00

02:41:41.340 She's got a dude she can stay with when she's in New York, a dude she can stay with when

02:41:46.440 she's in Seattle, a dude in LA.

02:41:48.160 Well, it sounds like a little insecurity because if a man was secure, he'd be like, oh, I know

02:41:53.580 I'm the best thing she's going to get.

02:41:54.900 So maybe she'll just delete her dating apps and won't meet anyone else as good as me.

02:42:00.820 You're insecure, everyone.

02:42:01.840 How's that work for women when it comes to commitment? 1.00

02:42:08.060 What do you mean? 0.98

02:42:08.740 I mean, perhaps, I mean, you think most people can operate on this level of, I'm so fucking

02:42:22.240 amazing that immediately this person is going to drop all their other options?

02:42:28.540 Well, it would depend on...

02:42:29.820 You've been single for four years.

02:42:31.360 What's kept you from being able to lock down?

02:42:34.020 I'm not saying this to be insulting.

02:42:35.140 Right, but like, so it would appear to me that you, yourself, I'm not saying this to

02:42:41.700 attack you, just to kind of use your language here.

02:42:44.460 You're not amazing enough to lock down a man.

02:42:47.740 I haven't met the right person.

02:42:49.220 I haven't built a good connection that I would think is strong enough.

02:42:53.540 So I'm saying that if you met someone that was a flight attendant and you had such an amazing

02:42:59.000 connection, you would maybe have hope that they're not going out there and dating other

02:43:03.420 people.

02:43:03.880 But you don't know.

02:43:04.500 Well, so even if I grant that I could meet a flight attendant and she's really cool,

02:43:10.840 whatever, I'm still going to vet her on her past promiscuity. 1.00

02:43:15.260 And if she's 30 and she's been a flight attendant for, I don't know, 10 years or whatever,

02:43:21.420 that's a lot of mileage.

02:43:26.080 That's some frequent flyer miles. 0.98

02:43:29.360 Frequent pussy miles, you know what I mean? 1.00

02:43:31.180 Maybe she'll give some to you so you can take some flights. 0.97

02:43:35.100 I'd rather not, you know.

02:43:36.640 Look, here's the thing, right?

02:43:37.640 When you travel a lot, there's opportunity.

02:43:40.180 You're not in one, it's harder for you to get a long-term relationship because you don't

02:43:44.700 stay in one city for long, right?

02:43:47.640 So, and this is, look, this applies to men too.

02:43:51.140 Like, men who are, men and women who are on the road a lot, whether this means flying,

02:43:58.900 it creates conflict in relationships.

02:44:02.100 Long distance is difficult.

02:44:03.560 Long distance is more difficult.

02:44:05.160 I'm not saying it doesn't work.

02:44:06.580 Long distance is more difficult than just being in the same place as somebody.

02:44:10.620 It introduces issues.

02:44:12.600 I'm on the road all the time.

02:44:13.680 I live on the road traveling.

02:44:15.300 And, yeah, I get quizzed on that regularly.

02:44:17.640 If I'm seeing a girl in a city, she'll be like, oh, well, I mean, is there any hope for 1.00

02:44:21.820 this for the future because you're just going to be in another city next month?

02:44:24.260 And how do I know you haven't got a girl in the next city?

02:44:27.120 So, it's very difficult to be us traveling people.

02:44:31.680 It's a hard life.

02:44:33.780 But, like, think about it, right?

02:44:35.620 When it comes to you, you're a travel nurse.

02:44:37.340 So, in my own anecdotal experience, having encountered a couple travel nurses, I match

02:44:42.700 with them on a dating app.

02:44:43.620 I'm like, how long are you here for?

02:44:44.880 They tell me six weeks.

02:44:45.960 They tell me three months.

02:44:47.760 If I'm inclined, you know, if a guy's inclined, he's not going to view her as a long-term prospect,

02:44:52.960 right?

02:44:53.480 And even if he did, she's leaving anyways.

02:44:56.240 And so, what's ultimately going to happen is what's most likely going to happen.

02:45:01.540 As soon as she leaves to her next assignment, she goes to some, he's on the West Coast,

02:45:05.980 she's on the East Coast, it's going to be the end, right then and there.

02:45:10.280 And if she's done that 10, 20, 30 times throughout her career, she's just already racked up a body 1.00

02:45:16.080 count on top of what she already did in college, on top of what she's just already going to

02:45:20.220 do before she meets the guy who she's going to be exclusive with for two months. 0.99

02:45:26.280 She already hooked up with three, four, five, six, seven guys in this new city she's in.

02:45:30.860 So, I'm already thinking, okay, no way.

02:45:34.560 No way.

02:45:35.240 Too much traveling, too much bodies.

02:45:38.060 I think people don't really understand the whole, like, career aspect of it because you

02:45:42.640 could be a travel nurse and you could do, be, like, considered a local travel nurse, which

02:45:46.860 means you just travel to, like, hospitals in your city, a few cities away.

02:45:50.920 How many cities have you been in in the past?

02:45:52.880 Five.

02:45:53.620 Five cities.

02:45:54.320 In the past how many years?

02:45:55.640 Five years?

02:45:56.780 Three years, four years.

02:45:57.960 You've been in five different cities in three years, right?

02:46:00.500 Yeah.

02:46:00.960 Okay.

02:46:01.180 How many men did you date in each of those cities? 0.99

02:46:03.980 Um, I don't have a number.

02:46:06.820 You can't even remember it, right?

02:46:08.440 No, I remember.

02:46:09.580 Like, seriously dated?

02:46:10.620 I'll go on dates casually, but I haven't dated anyone the entire time that.

02:46:15.780 Well, you said you've been single for four years.

02:46:18.420 Have you been celibate for four years?

02:46:19.900 Um, not four years.

02:46:21.300 How long have you been celibate for?

02:46:22.560 Uh, about a year and a half.

02:46:24.940 Well, hold on.

02:46:26.060 Get the button. 1.00

02:46:27.160 Hey, you're a fucking liar! 1.00

02:46:29.040 You're a fucking liar! 1.00

02:46:30.840 I'm, I swear. 1.00

02:46:32.400 You've been celibate for a year and a half.

02:46:34.060 Yeah.

02:46:34.500 You live in Los Angeles?

02:46:35.620 Mm-hmm. 1.00

02:46:36.500 Hey, you're a fucking liar! 1.00

02:46:38.040 You're a fucking liar! 1.00

02:46:39.280 I swear. 1.00

02:46:40.600 You can, you can ask my roommates, my friends, my family.

02:46:43.860 Sneaky link?

02:46:44.700 No.

02:46:45.100 No sneaky links.

02:46:47.360 Just celibate?

02:46:50.520 Yes.

02:46:51.560 No carnal knowledge?

02:46:53.820 No.

02:46:54.380 None.

02:46:55.200 You got cobwebs?

02:46:56.100 What's going on?

02:46:56.960 Like cobwebs?

02:46:57.680 No, because I feel like a lot of people in this generation just want to hook up, especially

02:47:02.040 if they see you're a travel nurse.

02:47:03.800 So, I want something that's, like, real, and I want to see if someone's willing to wait

02:47:08.980 and put the work in and take me on dates and plan them, and if I have a connection with

02:47:13.500 them, then, yeah, I might go there.

02:47:15.540 Wait, put the work in?

02:47:16.640 Yeah, like, planning dates.

02:47:18.140 How long is it?

02:47:18.700 Wait, so you've been celibate for a year and a half.

02:47:20.620 You meet a, you meet a guy you really like.

02:47:22.280 How long are you waiting to, until you hook up with him?

02:47:24.820 It depends on the connection.

02:47:27.960 Connection's good.

02:47:30.200 Maybe, like, three to five dates.

02:47:34.200 In the past four years, have you gone on three to five dates with any guys?

02:47:38.420 I think I made it to, like, date number five, and then he was leaving to go out of the country,

02:47:44.600 so.

02:47:46.060 Press X to doubt.

02:47:47.400 And he also had a family that I found out about.

02:47:52.780 Celibate for a year and a half?

02:47:55.860 Might not be the case with you, but I often find that they call themselves celibate because

02:48:00.540 they didn't like the guy, but they don't count the guy they met in Boston that one night.

02:48:05.900 No.

02:48:06.260 On Tinder or on Hinge.

02:48:07.360 Seriously, no.

02:48:08.940 He doesn't count.

02:48:10.260 One night stands count, but I haven't had intercourse with a single person.

02:48:15.700 P in the V?

02:48:16.180 No, not even the tip.

02:48:21.700 Yeah.

02:48:27.460 How long did you get in LA?

02:48:28.160 Just for a second.

02:48:29.740 Just to see how it feels.

02:48:32.480 Almost a year.

02:48:34.480 So before that, you were in?

02:48:37.000 Before that, I was living in Scottsdale.

02:48:40.560 You said it was, like, three years you've been traveling?

02:48:44.320 Yeah.

02:48:44.720 So in, like, all the other cities, what would you do?

02:48:48.460 Yeah, I had a few one night stands.

02:48:49.760 There's nothing wrong with that.

02:48:50.800 But I think that there's nothing wrong.

02:48:53.400 If, like, you want to hook up with someone, that's your body.

02:48:56.540 It's your choice.

02:48:57.520 Like, sex is a normal thing.

02:49:00.280 And, like, you release a lot of, like, serotonin, dopamine.

02:49:03.760 It makes people feel happy.

02:49:04.880 But also, it's, like, an energy exchange as well.

02:49:07.420 Just a couple questions on this.

02:49:08.520 Are you religious at all?

02:49:09.280 Just curious.

02:49:10.100 I'm spiritual.

02:49:11.000 Spiritual.

02:49:11.380 You said you've had a couple one night stands more recently?

02:49:15.040 Because you said you didn't in Scottsdale.

02:49:15.680 Obviously not recently.

02:49:16.760 Well, like, two years ago, three years ago, you had some one night stands here and there.

02:49:19.900 And then, like, you went to college, maybe some hookups in college.

02:49:23.180 Yeah, mostly just, like, college and then after graduate.

02:49:25.480 Question for you.

02:49:26.100 What is the quickest from, like, first meeting to it's getting, it's going down?

02:49:32.260 Five minutes.

02:49:32.820 No, I'm just kidding.

02:49:33.500 How quick?

02:49:34.900 An hour, 30 minutes?

02:49:37.000 Definitely a few hours.

02:49:38.400 A couple hours.

02:49:39.040 But same night.

02:49:39.380 Yeah, because I want to, like, talk to someone and see who they are.

02:49:43.240 Okay.

02:49:43.560 Okay.

02:49:44.360 So can you pull up her dating app profile again?

02:49:48.600 The last prompt.

02:49:50.060 So the way to win me over is plan a proper date, be a gentleman, and take me on adventures.

02:50:00.440 And then, in addition to that, you also just said now how you want to wait, you'd wait three

02:50:05.800 to five dates depending on the vibe.

02:50:07.980 Yeah.

02:50:09.400 I'm just curious, why the switch up, though?

02:50:12.620 Because you said you've, I mean, you said you've had one night stands.

02:50:15.340 Yeah, I think I had that phase in my life where it was fun and casual, but now I'm looking

02:50:21.100 for something more serious, and I feel like guys take you more seriously when you tell

02:50:26.180 them that information.

02:50:27.100 What do you guys think?

02:50:27.900 I think you should convey that better on your profile.

02:50:30.780 I should say I'm celibate.

02:50:32.000 The serious stuff.

02:50:33.160 Maybe just look a little bit more modest and not like the whole traveling thing, and just

02:50:39.060 look like you're looking.

02:50:40.020 Because when I see that profile, I think recreational use only.

02:50:43.160 No, nothing serious.

02:50:44.080 Okay.

02:50:45.340 That's a funny term.

02:50:46.280 I like that.

02:50:46.600 I don't like the...

02:50:47.520 I'm going to put that in my caption, recreational use only.

02:50:49.920 I don't do that.

02:50:51.120 I don't like the recreational use only.

02:50:53.620 Well, I mean...

02:50:54.340 Like, it's like no use.

02:50:55.480 I don't, I wouldn't do it personally, but I'm saying when you put people into categories

02:51:00.780 on dating apps, and I'd say that just through the photos and through the bio, it'd be like,

02:51:06.400 you know, maybe signifying just having a bit of fun in a new city, have a few dates.

02:51:10.980 Yeah, but I feel like on the date, then I would like open up and...

02:51:13.980 Yeah, but guys, we read into this stuff.

02:51:16.400 You guys read into it a lot more than we do, but we still read into it.

02:51:19.460 Oh, I really don't.

02:51:20.160 I just like power swipe until I find someone to check out.

02:51:22.440 Power swipe. 0.87

02:51:23.300 Do you enjoy any like luxury goods at all?

02:51:26.800 Like purses or anything like that?

02:51:28.800 Um, I mean, yeah, they're nice.

02:51:32.160 Do you have a nice purse?

02:51:33.300 Yeah, but it's fake.

02:51:34.780 Oh, okay.

02:51:35.700 We don't know that.

02:51:36.260 So, no, I don't.

02:51:37.360 What's the most you've spent on like either some sort of jewelry or a purse or anything?

02:51:41.540 Um, I mean, mostly just like clothes, probably like two or three hundred dollars.

02:51:46.000 Like some nice shoes or something?

02:51:47.180 Yeah.

02:51:47.440 Uh, I'm not really familiar with shoes.

02:51:50.000 Are, what are they?

02:51:50.940 Louis batons?

02:51:51.760 Are they?

02:51:52.100 Christian Louis batons?

02:51:53.660 Are those still like cool shoes?

02:51:56.420 I don't know.

02:51:56.680 Yeah.

02:51:56.820 Uh, and then, so the question I guess for you is, um, would you feel kind of ripped

02:52:02.880 off if you went to, uh, go get some Louboutins and you spent, I don't know how much they,

02:52:10.580 let's say it's a thousand dollars.

02:52:12.100 And then the very next day, one of your girlfriends goes to the same store, same store and the store 0.99

02:52:19.460 sold her the exact same shoes that you bought for a hundred dollars.

02:52:24.340 Would you feel like ripped off a little bit?

02:52:26.220 Yeah, for sure.

02:52:26.380 Yeah.

02:52:27.060 I kind of feel like that's how men feel when women previously gave out sex super easy, 0.89

02:52:33.400 like one night stands, uh, casual sex, whatever. 0.52

02:52:37.740 And then now that you've had your fun, now that you've lent, you've, you're looking for

02:52:42.820 something serious now, now you're going to make these new guys wait a couple of dates.

02:52:49.060 They got to do all this investing.

02:52:51.300 They got to pay for dates.

02:52:52.480 They got to be a gentleman.

02:52:53.360 They got to take you on an adventure.

02:52:54.820 Who knows what that means?

02:52:55.860 Maybe that's like, they got to take you on a trip somewhere before you're going to give

02:52:58.860 it up.

02:52:59.160 Right.

02:53:00.020 Yeah.

02:53:00.300 And it's like weird.

02:53:01.100 It's kind of crazy.

02:53:01.840 It's like, it feels like a rip off almost. 0.99

02:53:05.480 It's like, why do I got to do all this shit when that guy at the club that didn't take you 0.99

02:53:10.500 on a date, didn't, wasn't really even a gentleman, he got to hit within three hours. 0.99

02:53:17.660 But why do I, the guy you think you want a relationship with, why do I got to wait three weeks?

02:53:24.780 Because I'm a better person now.

02:53:26.700 I'm, I have more knowledge, more mature.

02:53:29.980 Is that what you mean by adventures?

02:53:32.180 Trips?

02:53:32.800 Huh?

02:53:33.220 By trip, by adventure.

02:53:34.220 I feel like you could have an adventure just like sitting at home, going to the beach.

02:53:38.100 Like you can have local adventure, just like making life fun.

02:53:40.160 So just gone for a walk?

02:53:41.280 Yeah.

02:53:41.680 That could be an adventure, going to the playground, swinging.

02:53:44.380 That's kind of cool.

02:53:44.960 Going on the spinny thing.

02:53:46.220 I think it's, uh, it's, uh, it's kind of a raw deal from it.

02:53:51.060 So, I mean, essentially, do you promise that you will never have a one night stand again?

02:53:57.440 Um, I can't necessarily say that.

02:53:59.500 See, that's, that's, that's, never say never.

02:54:01.940 But, but that's what, like, that's what's so confusing.

02:54:05.300 Women will say, for example, you'll say, you even said it here. 0.93

02:54:08.240 Well, that's in the past.

02:54:09.820 Now I have higher standards.

02:54:11.400 I want more.

02:54:12.580 I want a relationship, but you're not even still ruling out the possibility of having a

02:54:18.180 one night stand.

02:54:18.680 So imagine like.

02:54:19.380 I mean, I'm just not going to lie about it and be like, oh, I'm never going to.

02:54:22.700 Cause I don't know.

02:54:23.140 Maybe I'll change my mind when I'm, if I'm 40 and single, I don't want to get laid.

02:54:26.960 This is sure.

02:54:27.840 But this is like another layer of like the, the ripoff component here.

02:54:32.820 It's like, it's one thing I suppose for a woman to, okay, well I was in college.

02:54:38.120 I had a string of hookups, but now I'm looking for relationship.

02:54:41.480 Still object to it.

02:54:42.500 I mean, look, you can do it.

02:54:43.740 I still think men are getting ripped off.

02:54:45.380 But then to say like, imagine as a guy, the last guy she hooked up with before you, she 0.98

02:54:52.580 fucked him within an hour and then you come along and then she makes you wait three months. 1.00

02:54:58.020 She's like, no baby. 0.99

02:54:59.080 I want something serious.

02:55:00.120 I want it to mean something. 1.00

02:55:02.080 You got to work for this pussy. 1.00

02:55:03.900 You got to take me on dates. 1.00

02:55:05.000 You got to pay for dates.

02:55:05.700 You got to do adventures, blah, blah, blah, whatever. 1.00

02:55:07.520 Then you date her for, you get the pussy, you date her for six months, you break up. 1.00

02:55:14.580 The next guy she gets into a relationship, she fucks the same day she meets him. 1.00

02:55:18.720 It's like, what are your values exactly? 0.99

02:55:21.300 It just sounds like this is situational.

02:55:23.560 Because that's not my case.

02:55:24.560 It's like you're trying to feign chastity.

02:55:28.640 Like you're trying to, it's like you're playing a game.

02:55:31.760 You're trying to leverage sex for something.

02:55:35.040 I'm not trying to leverage it.

02:55:36.280 I just want to build a deeper connection.

02:55:38.400 Because like when you have sex with someone, you are building a connection based on, you

02:55:42.620 know, emotions and physicality.

02:55:44.620 When I want to build like a deeper emotional, intellectual connection.

02:55:49.900 But that's fine to want that.

02:55:54.200 But let's say the guy that you want to relationship with, he wants to have sex on the first date.

02:55:59.120 Do you tell him no? 0.72

02:56:00.240 Yeah.

02:56:01.140 Okay.

02:56:01.480 Even though, okay.

02:56:04.920 I mean, look, you're, you're, you're totally fine to do that.

02:56:07.820 My body, my choice.

02:56:09.080 Right.

02:56:09.520 That's cool.

02:56:09.880 My wallet, my choice.

02:56:11.240 No, exactly.

02:56:11.980 Yeah.

02:56:12.380 That's fair.

02:56:13.100 But that's fine. 0.99

02:56:14.280 Look, as a woman, you could have had sex with a hundred men within five minutes of meeting 1.00

02:56:21.120 them. 0.98

02:56:21.540 And man number 101, you could look at him and you're not even religious. 1.00

02:56:25.620 You could say, you have to wait until marriage to fuck me. 1.00

02:56:28.040 Women are 100% within their right to do that. 1.00

02:56:31.960 What I'm advising is that men look at a woman like that and say, that's a raw fucking deal. 1.00

02:56:38.140 I ain't dealing with you. 0.99

02:56:40.380 That's a raw deal.

02:56:42.940 So my chances of finding my soulmate is.

02:56:46.200 No, that's not, that's not even what I'm saying.

02:56:48.260 I'm just saying it's kind of like, okay, here's an analogy, right?

02:56:51.500 You're at McDonald's.

02:56:53.680 Wait, who dated the McDonald's?

02:56:54.960 Who was the person?

02:56:55.700 Oh, that was her.

02:56:56.300 Okay, you're at McDonald's.

02:56:57.260 No, okay. 1.00

02:56:57.660 The McDonald's fuck boy. 1.00

02:56:59.380 You're at McDonald's. 1.00

02:57:00.700 There's seven people in front of you.

02:57:04.220 There's seven people in front of you in line at McDonald's.

02:57:07.260 They all order a hamburger.

02:57:08.720 They get charged $1 for the hamburger.

02:57:11.240 You finally get to the front of the line.

02:57:13.340 You ask for a hamburger and the cashier says, it'll be $100 for you for the hamburger.

02:57:18.200 You'll be like.

02:57:18.900 Supply and demand.

02:57:19.980 Well, hold on.

02:57:21.320 Ah, but here's the funny thing.

02:57:22.420 There's 10 people behind you.

02:57:24.640 And then as soon as you pay the $100, the 10 people behind you, they then get the burger

02:57:29.980 for $1.

02:57:31.300 Would you feel ripped off?

02:57:32.520 A thousand percent.

02:57:33.880 And that's how men feel.

02:57:35.160 But is the burger better?

02:57:35.660 That's how men feel.

02:57:36.740 Is it better though?

02:57:38.160 Are all the burgers the same?

02:57:39.620 Yeah, this burger is the exact same.

02:57:41.140 But I don't think all people are the same.

02:57:41.860 The $100 burger, it's the McDonald's cheeseburger.

02:57:45.300 Yeah.

02:57:45.560 But in like relationships, not every relationship is the same.

02:57:51.060 Like everyone you date is different.

02:57:53.080 Well, yeah.

02:57:53.660 But like what you're offering to all those men.

02:57:57.820 Is the same?

02:57:58.660 Like it's going to be the same really.

02:58:00.720 Because it's you.

02:58:01.460 You're the same.

02:58:02.120 You stay the same.

02:58:02.680 Oh, what I'm offering them, my burgers.

02:58:04.160 In fact, you could even make the argument that.

02:58:06.340 The burger gets worse over the time.

02:58:08.140 As you know.

02:58:09.580 As I age.

02:58:10.560 As people age.

02:58:12.120 The buns get saggy.

02:58:12.720 Less attractive.

02:58:14.760 It's just a reality of aging.

02:58:16.280 But the other thing is you've accrued relationship baggage.

02:58:19.600 You've accrued trauma from your past relationships.

02:58:22.180 You're going to bring that into your new relationship.

02:58:24.760 Who knows?

02:58:25.120 Maybe you've gotten.

02:58:26.200 Who knows what you could have gotten.

02:58:28.540 But I'm just saying.

02:58:30.840 You know what I mean?

02:58:32.440 Look, you're free to do it.

02:58:33.960 I'm just advising men to be like, eh. 0.98

02:58:36.620 You're leveraging sex against me.

02:58:39.540 I want a woman who has. 1.00

02:58:41.360 Jake said this yet.

02:58:42.000 On Sunday.

02:58:44.200 As a guy.

02:58:45.020 You want a woman who has.

02:58:46.480 What is it?

02:58:47.100 Burning desire?

02:58:47.960 Is that the?

02:58:48.300 Genuine burning desire.

02:58:49.180 Genuine burning desire.

02:58:50.960 It's like.

02:58:51.920 Okay.

02:58:52.640 Why?

02:58:53.420 It's like. 1.00

02:58:54.320 You reward the fuckboys, jerks, assholes. 1.00

02:58:57.440 The men who would arguably be the least deserving of sex. 1.00

02:59:01.140 You give them the sex super easy. 0.99

02:59:03.520 Same night. 0.82

02:59:04.300 They don't have to do anything for it. 0.99

02:59:05.900 And then the guy that arguably is the most deserving of sex. 0.96

02:59:11.300 He has to wait. 0.95

02:59:12.500 He has to put in the good work.

02:59:14.260 He has to chase the carrot on the stick like a good little, little simp worker boy.

02:59:18.820 A little, a little, a little, what are the ants called?

02:59:22.060 The, the little drones or whatever.

02:59:24.100 Like a good little drone.

02:59:25.720 You put in five first dates and you pay for the date and you're a little, give me that 0.97

02:59:30.040 an ass out hug and a kiss on the cheek on the first date. 0.98

02:59:33.140 You have to wait. 0.99

02:59:34.620 Patience is a virtue.

02:59:35.660 Oh, I have a question for you guys.

02:59:36.920 Okay. 1.00

02:59:37.120 Would you marry a girl that you fuck on the first date? 1.00

02:59:42.560 Well, I don't want to get married, but yeah, yes. 1.00

02:59:45.980 Yeah.

02:59:46.460 I've, so I'll tell you about, I've not been married, but I've had multiple long-term relationships

02:59:51.360 five years, two years, one year.

02:59:53.640 The rapidity, the quickness with which I sleep with a girl is kind of ultimately irrelevant. 0.95

02:59:58.200 It can be an indicator for potential promiscuity.

03:00:01.220 It can be a red flag, but not necessarily.

03:00:03.540 I think there's actually far greater, uh, red flags than that.

03:00:08.100 Of all my long-term relationships, it was like first, second, or third date.

03:00:12.480 It wasn't like, let's wait three months, 60, what, what are the, some of the terms the

03:00:16.840 girls will say? 0.55

03:00:17.420 60 day policy or what is it?

03:00:18.860 30, 30 day, 90 day policy or what would they say?

03:00:22.680 It's like, I don't know.

03:00:23.680 It's just like 90 days.

03:00:25.600 And if you're still interested, 60 day rule, it's like, no, none of my things.

03:00:30.760 In fact, all the girls that like made me wait, I just dipped really.

03:00:38.260 Like once you got it, you just dipped?

03:00:39.520 No, no, no.

03:00:39.980 Like, uh, like if they just continue to make me wait and I'm like, it's one thing if she's

03:00:45.940 a virgin or has a low body count and her standard for waiting has been the standard that she's 0.73

03:00:50.840 equally and equitably applied to all her previous partners.

03:00:55.120 But if you're going to have, you've had 10 one night stands, you had a one, a one night

03:01:00.300 stand three months ago, your values have not sufficiently changed for me to believe that

03:01:04.940 this isn't an act and that you're just not leveraging this to get something from me.

03:01:10.160 You need to, I just wouldn't believe them as well.

03:01:12.880 Like, you know, you, you don't have the evidence if, if they've had a certain past and they say,

03:01:17.440 like you've said, I've, I've been celibate for a year and a half.

03:01:20.560 I just, I couldn't prove that.

03:01:22.260 I just wouldn't believe it.

03:01:23.560 Why do you guys look into it so much though?

03:01:25.660 It's kind of funny.

03:01:26.720 It's actually like you're making drama where there is none.

03:01:29.380 I feel like you're looking into it way more than you should.

03:01:32.820 It kind of sounds like, oh, she did this.

03:01:35.500 So that means probably this.

03:01:36.800 So that means this.

03:01:37.660 So I feel this.

03:01:38.520 So it's kind of like, it's kind of weird.

03:01:40.480 Men are more logical when we, when we think about these sorts of things and past promiscuity

03:01:44.100 is an indicator for, for divorce.

03:01:47.080 They've done studies on this and they show that as a woman's body count goes up five, 0.99

03:01:51.840 10, they become exponentially more likely to, to end a marriage.

03:01:55.780 So what about men?

03:01:56.480 Men can be promiscuous?

03:01:57.860 It's, it affects them less.

03:01:59.240 Definitely.

03:02:00.860 So what's like an average number for a guy to have?

03:02:04.420 Like five to eight.

03:02:06.600 I think that's about it.

03:02:07.160 Five to eight is low.

03:02:08.220 That's not promiscuous.

03:02:09.440 Yeah, I know.

03:02:09.940 Over your whole life.

03:02:11.100 But a lot, a lot of guys, that's, that's where they sit.

03:02:14.560 Yeah.

03:02:15.760 But like five to eight.

03:02:16.840 You asked what the average is.

03:02:17.680 That's about the average.

03:02:19.720 Yeah.

03:02:19.880 Like legit.

03:02:20.420 That's a fact.

03:02:21.080 Well, most, like you'd be surprised to know that most guys are out there at the moment

03:02:24.760 get zero sexual attention.

03:02:26.840 Yeah.

03:02:27.280 A lot of guys in their, in their twenties even have been celibate for a whole year.

03:02:31.120 A big percentage of people.

03:02:33.340 So that would be about the average.

03:02:35.160 I'm just really curious and I want to ask like all the girls here, it's like the mindset

03:02:40.000 that you guys have, is that normal here or is that like, yeah.

03:02:46.080 Yeah, it is.

03:02:47.060 Yeah.

03:02:47.240 Like in America. 0.86

03:02:48.200 Yeah.

03:02:48.360 Yeah.

03:02:48.700 Okay.

03:02:49.360 I just wanted to know that because it seems so, like you said, like you think we're brainwashed,

03:02:55.300 but it's funny because I think we think the same thing about you guys.

03:02:58.900 Well, I mean, you're from Australia and you kind of have this.

03:03:01.380 Australia, it's pretty bad too.

03:03:02.660 In terms of like the liberal sort of mindset, happy wife, happy life type stuff.

03:03:06.920 But you just have to look at the fruits of it.

03:03:09.240 And I think that there is an objective truth about this.

03:03:11.580 It's that people who have lower body counts going into marriage are much more likely to

03:03:16.140 have a long and successful marriage.

03:03:18.120 It's just fascinating that that's so important.

03:03:20.920 Well, do you think it's important when you're going into spending the rest of your life with

03:03:24.100 somebody and having them mother your children that you should be looking into these things?

03:03:28.660 Absolutely not.

03:03:29.380 No, I don't mind if my guy slept with 10 or 1,000 women. 1.00

03:03:33.600 I'm speaking more as a guy looking into the past of a woman.

03:03:39.880 I've never been asked about body count or anything like that.

03:03:42.820 So it's just very fascinating to hear that side of things.

03:03:46.980 Well, like I said before, you can actually look at the fruits of it.

03:03:51.340 And this is actually borne out by stats as well to show that women who have a higher body 1.00

03:03:56.480 count are much more likely to get divorced.

03:03:59.760 And so they make for bad partners.

03:04:02.340 So guys need to be looking into this stuff.

03:04:04.060 If you want to have a logical analysis of the person that you're about to spend your life with.

03:04:07.500 Sleeping with people does not make you any type of worse relationship.

03:04:12.980 Do you think that if you sleep with 1,000 people in a year, that makes you a worse partner?

03:04:17.820 I think it actually says nothing about you, except that your libido might be quite high.

03:04:24.280 Otherwise, you wouldn't be safe. 1.00

03:04:25.100 I'd say that would make you a total whore if you sleep with 1,000 people in a year. 1.00

03:04:29.080 And it says a lot about your character. 0.99

03:04:30.400 It says a lot about how you value yourself.

03:04:32.380 And it would say a lot about what kind of a partner you'd be as well.

03:04:36.480 What kind of a wife you'd be. 1.00

03:04:37.920 And how you value sex. 0.99

03:04:39.040 Because sex is actually important. 0.64

03:04:40.260 It's not just something that we can do and just never think about again.

03:04:43.420 It's so human.

03:04:44.100 It's so natural.

03:04:45.100 So I don't see why it would matter.

03:04:47.020 Do you think it's natural to have sex with lots of different people?

03:04:48.820 Oh, yeah. 0.62

03:04:49.320 That's where we come from.

03:04:50.580 So, yeah.

03:04:51.460 Wait.

03:04:51.680 So do you think body count doesn't matter?

03:04:54.200 Absolutely not.

03:04:55.020 It does not matter at all.

03:04:56.200 What's your body count?

03:04:57.200 I don't know.

03:04:58.340 I knew you were going to ask this question.

03:04:59.740 I thought about it.

03:05:00.260 But I have no idea.

03:05:00.960 I never counted it.

03:05:01.640 Well, I don't need like an exact 53.

03:05:04.860 I don't need an exact number.

03:05:07.020 Give us a range.

03:05:08.380 I don't know.

03:05:09.020 I'd say 50 if I have to guess.

03:05:12.120 More than 100?

03:05:13.740 No, I don't think so.

03:05:18.580 But it doesn't matter.

03:05:20.620 It really doesn't.

03:05:21.520 Well, at least to me.

03:05:22.660 Well, you don't care about body count, right?

03:05:24.880 Yeah.

03:05:25.340 I don't.

03:05:25.800 You don't care about the man who's slept with. 0.99

03:05:27.680 I prefer a man who has more.

03:05:29.340 I think a lot of women, like if they knew that a man slept with like 10,000 women, they'd maybe get a bit of an ick. 1.00

03:05:37.600 No, I prefer a guy who slept with more women because then they know what they're doing and they're experienced. 0.83

03:05:43.660 So I actually prefer that.

03:05:45.560 Are they?

03:05:46.040 Are they more experienced or what is your question?

03:05:49.660 Well, I don't know.

03:05:50.100 I don't get this whole like you need to sleep with a lot of people to either become good at sex or get experienced at sex.

03:05:57.180 You could actually make the argument that a woman who's had, for example, 20 one-night stands and that's it versus a woman who's had one or two boyfriends and has had slept with them dozens or hundreds of times.

03:06:10.560 Yeah, everybody is different though.

03:06:11.980 She's probably going to be better in bed than the woman who's had 20, 30, 40, 50 one-night stands. 1.00

03:06:19.800 That's not true.

03:06:21.180 It's not true?

03:06:22.000 No, it's not true.

03:06:22.980 Everybody is different and also the communication style is different.

03:06:26.040 Some people have fights and some people don't.

03:06:27.240 But I could just use that same argument.

03:06:28.780 You said everybody's different.

03:06:29.920 You're right.

03:06:30.540 So the woman who's had one boyfriend who's had sex with him a ton, she is different. 0.72

03:06:35.440 She's going to be better in bed than the girl who slept with 20 men one time each. 1.00

03:06:40.660 I think it depends what you mean by better in bed though.

03:06:43.600 I don't think that girls who are really promiscuous are good in bed. 1.00

03:06:46.380 I find that they're actually a lot worse. 0.95

03:06:49.880 It depends what you want by sex and it's kind of unattractive when a girl is really promiscuous and she's just there to get her rocks off. 1.00

03:06:56.200 It doesn't really mean anything to her.

03:06:58.240 It's not this sort of important thing because if it's really important and it's really special for her, then that's actually a very attractive thing. 0.88

03:07:04.900 But if she's just there to sort of have an orgasm, that's kind of gross. 1.00

03:07:09.320 Okay. 0.99

03:07:10.400 Yeah, that's just crazy to me.

03:07:12.120 There's also a really big differential here between sexual performance between men and women.

03:07:18.000 You could make the argument that the man who's sexually experienced is going to be better in bed.

03:07:23.020 I'm not sure if this equally applies to women though.

03:07:25.580 First off, typically women are going, unless the woman takes on a more dominant role in the sexual encounter, 1.00

03:07:31.720 I would argue that so long as a woman is open-minded and enthusiastic, that's all it takes to have good sex with her. 1.00

03:07:44.280 I'm not so sure if a woman's encountering a male virgin that she's going to have amazing sex guaranteed with a male virgin. 0.85

03:07:51.520 But a man who has some degree of experience in the bedroom can take an inexperienced woman when it comes to sex or even a woman who has no experience and have amazing sex with her.

03:08:05.020 I think feeling has a lot to do with it.

03:08:07.740 Wait, feeling?

03:08:08.700 Yeah, like the passion you put into it.

03:08:11.720 No, she could even be a little nervous or shy.

03:08:15.380 That's going to be bad.

03:08:16.280 No, I disagree.

03:08:17.300 But if that's the first time, then...

03:08:18.760 That's not the case.

03:08:19.760 Not the case at all.

03:08:20.740 If she's nervous and shy and it means a lot to her, then that's attractive because she hasn't given it out to a bunch of different guys.

03:08:26.860 Is it kind of like a holy grail for you?

03:08:30.700 Think about it like a golden ticket.

03:08:33.660 All right.

03:08:34.360 Yeah, that makes sense.

03:08:35.060 Give the golden ticket away to everyone.

03:08:36.880 And if it means a lot to her, that's a very attractive thing.

03:08:39.160 And if she's passionate enough about you, and if it's a big deal for her, it's a good thing.

03:08:45.360 If it's just nothing for her, that's really unattractive.

03:08:48.140 Also, what is actually wrong with something being special to somebody? 0.99

03:08:54.960 Like, do you, as a girl, do you really want to be pussy number 130? 1.00

03:09:00.340 Really? 1.00

03:09:01.360 Like, you're just pussy 132. 1.00

03:09:03.740 Yeah, I don't care about that. 1.00

03:09:04.840 Okay, well, you're an outlier.

03:09:06.300 I feel like most women, look, maybe you want a guy with a bit more sexual experience, whatever. 1.00

03:09:10.620 Maybe you don't.

03:09:11.200 It doesn't really matter.

03:09:11.760 Don't you still, perhaps in the relationship, want to be special to him?

03:09:16.840 And then men, we want to be special to you. 0.99

03:09:19.000 I don't want to be dick number 57. 0.94

03:09:21.640 But being special has nothing to do... 0.99

03:09:22.580 I don't want to be dick number 57? 0.99

03:09:24.520 Being special has nothing to do with sex. 0.99

03:09:26.720 I see that very separately.

03:09:27.720 Yes, it does.

03:09:28.720 Yeah, I think that's a clash here.

03:09:30.560 Do you think sex is a special thing? 0.98

03:09:33.480 Having sex, I said it on Dutch television, having sex is the same as going to a theme park for me. 0.97

03:09:38.300 You go out, you have fun, and then you go back home. 1.00

03:09:40.760 What is this, fucking Six Flags? 0.99

03:09:42.180 I'd say... 1.00

03:09:42.660 Six cocks? 1.00

03:09:43.300 Six cocks? 1.00

03:09:44.340 What the fuck? 1.00

03:09:44.800 Yeah, but like... 1.00

03:09:45.720 I stand by that.

03:09:46.660 Most guys who are self-respecting would look at that and think, oh, you're just completely desensitized to sex.

03:09:51.660 And that's a very unattractive thing, to be desensitized like that.

03:09:57.860 All right, yeah.

03:09:58.760 I understand where you're coming from now, more than what I did.

03:10:02.280 Like the golden ticket?

03:10:03.420 Like, yeah, that makes sense.

03:10:05.280 Also, sex is not like a complicated procedure, you know?

03:10:11.260 Like, it's not this complicated operation, you know?

03:10:16.940 Yeah, that's what I say.

03:10:17.520 You know what I mean?

03:10:17.860 You go, have fun, and then it's done.

03:10:19.840 So that's why, yeah, for me...

03:10:21.820 But like, okay, you're saying like the quality of the sex. 0.99

03:10:24.780 Like, oh, if she hasn't fucked 30 guys, then the sex is going to be really bad with her. 1.00

03:10:29.520 I mean, the reality is, though, first off, women look to men to be leaders and to be dominant. 0.99

03:10:38.880 Not always.

03:10:39.760 Some people like different kind of dynamics in a relationship.

03:10:42.700 But as a guy, if you know what you're doing in bed, you can take a girl who's never had sex and have really good sex with her if you know how to lead sexually, right?

03:10:52.660 I don't know if this is the case for women. 1.00

03:10:55.380 I don't think women would be turned on by having to teach a guy how to fuck them. 1.00

03:10:59.420 So there's a differential there. 0.99

03:11:01.100 But as a guy, I would have no problem, like, helping the woman along if she's not that sexually experienced. 1.00

03:11:08.540 In fact, there could be some, like, excitement component to that, you know?

03:11:12.720 It's like the girl who's like, I've never done this before, and she, like, immediately, like, cluck, cluck, 9,000 or whatever.

03:11:17.220 Like, hold up.

03:11:17.940 Hold up. 1.00

03:11:18.480 What the fuck? 1.00

03:11:19.760 You've never done this before? 1.00

03:11:20.960 Hold on just a second.

03:11:22.700 But do you think it's cute?

03:11:24.080 Is that also a factor in it?

03:11:25.420 When she's, like, a little shy and doesn't really know what's up?

03:11:28.440 I mean, I do think that there is something attractive about that.

03:11:34.640 And it also just shows morals and virtue as well, if it's something that you take seriously.

03:11:40.060 And then if you take something really seriously, it's really important to you, and then you give that to somebody, it shows that they're giving you something really important that means a lot to them.

03:11:47.940 It means more than just having just random, you know, bodies whacking together.

03:11:52.600 So, also, I don't know if it's, like, the same for women, but, like, let's say she is not the, again, though, if you're a guy and you know what you're doing, you can go ahead and first time having sex with a girl. 0.97

03:12:06.760 You can have good sex with her. 0.99

03:12:08.160 You can continue having really good sex with her, even if she's a virgin, even if she's unexperienced. 0.98

03:12:12.420 If you know how to lead and you know what you're doing and you know how to be even, like, a percentage, I guess, to some degree dominant or leading in the bedroom. 1.00

03:12:22.660 But, shit, I lost my train of thought. 0.98

03:12:27.500 What was I going to say? 0.99

03:12:28.460 Something about, like, experience or whatever, being good in bed kind of slipped my mind.

03:12:34.520 Oh, what I was going to say was maybe it's a deal breaker for a girl, like, if a guy is bad in bed the first time.

03:12:43.500 Like, I would give a girl a lot of leeway, especially if she genuinely was inexperienced. 1.00

03:12:49.480 I'd be like, hey, there's – I care more about just the sex with you.

03:12:54.920 This is something we can work on if it takes a couple weeks, months, whatever.

03:12:59.520 Like, I'm going to be spending hours hanging out with you.

03:13:03.840 We're going to, like, do things besides just sex.

03:13:09.080 Like, you know.

03:13:11.340 I don't care at all if she's – I'd much, much prefer if she's really inexperienced. 0.82

03:13:17.540 Like, that's much better, for sure.

03:13:20.380 Like, virgin would be ideal, and then you can just develop together rather than someone who's really experienced.

03:13:27.180 Oh, also, I think what I was going to get at here is the differential in sexual performance between men and women. 0.99

03:13:34.140 So, it's really hard as a woman to fuck up sex, I think. 0.99

03:13:38.720 Like, you don't really got to do much to – why are you laughing, Selena? 1.00

03:13:45.920 You doing all this extra shit, Selena? 1.00

03:13:48.380 Doing some fucking backwards, Kama Sutra shit. 1.00

03:13:51.400 Look, it's really not that hard. 1.00

03:13:54.240 Doggy style, arch your back a bit. 0.99

03:13:55.980 You're fucking good. 0.99

03:13:57.080 Get on top. 1.00

03:13:58.040 I mean, it's true.

03:13:58.960 I like to do work from the bottom.

03:14:00.960 If she's on top, you don't have to do anything. 0.99

03:14:02.880 Just fucking stay there. 0.99

03:14:04.000 What else? 0.99

03:14:04.860 I mean, look, it's really not that complicated.

03:14:07.700 Why am I getting Italian here?

03:14:10.780 Trump.

03:14:11.400 Trump.

03:14:12.600 But also, here's the big difference, right?

03:14:16.840 So, I've asked this question before.

03:14:20.900 So, question for you ladies.

03:14:22.400 How do I frame this?

03:14:27.120 Question – okay, here's the question, right?

03:14:28.900 And if you guys need an earmuff, any of you need an earmuff.

03:14:31.700 Do you think you could get yourself off without rubbing yourself?

03:14:37.060 The guy just laid there. 0.75

03:14:39.480 The guy just laid there and he was just hard.

03:14:42.200 Do you think you could get yourself off?

03:14:45.480 No. 0.70

03:14:45.980 Could you climax? 0.99

03:14:46.840 Could you orgasm? 0.79

03:14:48.840 Wait, when he is starfishing, but you can't sit on top of him or not? 0.96

03:14:52.780 You could be on top.

03:14:54.680 And he's not doing anything, but he does have a hard on.

03:14:56.840 Could – can you climax?

03:14:58.660 The guy is just laying there.

03:15:01.200 Why not?

03:15:02.940 Well, I'm just asking.

03:15:04.380 I mean, you can.

03:15:05.260 It's just harder.

03:15:06.180 Like, it takes more time.

03:15:09.040 I mean, women's orgasm response is pretty varied, but, like, could you? 1.00

03:15:15.120 He's – you can't rub your clit. 1.00

03:15:17.080 He's not rubbing your clit. 1.00

03:15:18.820 It would take forever. 1.00

03:15:20.240 No. 0.93

03:15:20.560 He just has – he has an erection, and he's just – he's not thrusting or moving. 0.98

03:15:26.880 Can you get yourself off? 0.96

03:15:28.800 Some women can, but can you get yourself off? 1.00

03:15:30.800 Well, I'm confusing what's happening.

03:15:32.340 Okay.

03:15:33.040 Here.

03:15:33.640 All right.

03:15:34.100 Here's the – 0.99

03:15:34.420 If the dude is a sex doll, could you just, like, do all the work? 0.99

03:15:38.580 So, okay. 0.99

03:15:39.120 Oh, yeah.

03:15:39.640 Here's the scenario.

03:15:40.840 Either he's laying down, so you would be on top, or he's standing up, and you'd be in, like, doggy or something.

03:15:45.860 But he's not thrusting.

03:15:47.600 He's not moving at all.

03:15:48.320 He's just got – he's got a stiffy.

03:15:50.420 Can you get yourself off?

03:15:52.000 It's inside of me?

03:15:53.200 Yeah.

03:15:53.780 Oh, yeah.

03:15:54.660 Okay.

03:15:56.040 But you said you cannot touch yourself. 1.00

03:15:59.120 Can't rub your clit. 1.00

03:16:00.780 Then I don't think so. 1.00

03:16:01.840 Okay.

03:16:02.680 Yes, if there's eye contact.

03:16:06.140 Okay.

03:16:06.720 That's really important.

03:16:07.540 I'll allow it.

03:16:08.080 I'll allow the eye contact.

03:16:09.020 I mean, it would be really hard to do it, to be honest.

03:16:15.240 What about you?

03:16:16.160 No.

03:16:19.020 Can I skip this?

03:16:20.160 Sure.

03:16:20.660 I guess, Maddie, if you want to skip this.

03:16:21.580 But I feel like I agree that you probably can.

03:16:24.540 But, like, also, sex is about, like, chemistry.

03:16:26.720 So, like, if there's no chemistry and the dude isn't putting in effort, I'm not turned on by that.

03:16:30.760 Like, that's just, like, you know?

03:16:33.180 I guess the reason I ask this question is that women have a – I guess not always, but have a more complex sexual response here. 0.94

03:16:43.600 So, some women can't come from penetrative sex. 1.00

03:16:50.800 Someone have more difficulty than others when it comes to climaxing. 0.63

03:16:55.280 And then some be, like, coming, like, 20 times in a row within 10 seconds each, you know?

03:16:59.900 Yeah.

03:17:00.760 Why are you shaking your head like that?

03:17:02.100 Okay.

03:17:02.320 No idea.

03:17:05.380 So, where am I going with this?

03:17:08.100 You were saying how, like, it's hard – or it's not that hard for –

03:17:12.940 Well, I think the point I'm trying to make is women will care far more about sexual performance and, like, project this on men to some degree. 0.65

03:17:20.180 Because as a guy, you could lay there.

03:17:26.580 You could just be in doggy position and not moving at all.

03:17:29.420 And, like, 99% of men can climax that way.

03:17:33.880 I don't even know if it's 50% of women who could climax without, like, the guy just having a stiffy.

03:17:41.900 Am I making sense here?

03:17:45.120 I don't know.

03:17:45.660 Yeah, it makes sense.

03:17:46.280 Yeah, it makes sense.

03:17:46.920 It's definitely more complex for women. 1.00

03:17:48.840 Yeah.

03:17:49.400 Isn't that just, like, anatomy?

03:17:51.520 Yeah.

03:17:51.840 I mean, that's biological, though.

03:17:53.540 That's just – yeah, that's just anatomy.

03:17:55.760 But, yeah.

03:17:58.240 Anyways, there's more important things.

03:18:02.280 But I guess this all stems from, like, well, a woman who's had more sexual partners, she's going to be better in bed, more experienced.

03:18:08.900 One, I'm not sure if that's even true because, like we already said, she could have had one or two long-term boyfriends, had plenty of sexual experience.

03:18:16.220 But then the other thing is, I'm not sure if guys really even care.

03:18:25.680 Like, what are you going to – like, I don't know.

03:18:27.400 It's not this complicated procedure.

03:18:29.720 You know what I mean?

03:18:32.720 It makes sense.

03:18:33.340 I'm just getting doggy style archer back.

03:18:34.740 You're good.

03:18:35.360 That's it.

03:18:35.720 But still, you don't want to have someone in bed who is, like, really bad.

03:18:40.280 What do you mean?

03:18:40.840 Hold on.

03:18:41.220 Ladies, this is all – like, look, there's varying degrees. 0.62

03:18:44.180 Ladies, this is all you got to do. 1.00

03:18:45.720 Get in doggy position, arch your back. 1.00

03:18:48.160 That's fucking it. 1.00

03:18:49.420 That's lame. 1.00

03:18:50.600 That's it.

03:18:51.440 That's lame.

03:18:52.240 No, but that's all you got to do. 0.99

03:18:54.200 And the guy will have great sex. 0.97

03:18:56.160 Yeah, but that's it. 0.97

03:18:57.340 That's a one-sided thing because, like, I'm sitting there bored.

03:19:00.220 Like, you're not doing anything.

03:19:01.040 Oh, well, okay. 0.96

03:19:01.740 But the argument here is, doesn't a guy care about a woman's experience so that she can give him good sex? 0.98

03:19:09.440 Right? 0.94

03:19:09.640 That's the argument.

03:19:10.580 I feel like a lot of guys don't care.

03:19:12.140 They just want to get off.

03:19:13.580 Well, I want my girl to come, like, 50 times.

03:19:15.360 But, like, a lot of guys don't feel that way, I feel like.

03:19:18.320 I feel like they don't care.

03:19:18.560 She's got – here's my rule.

03:19:20.080 She's got to come before me, preferably more than once if she can do that. 1.00

03:19:24.660 But not all girls can do that shit. 1.00

03:19:26.600 I don't know. 1.00

03:19:27.280 I feel like a lot of dudes don't care to me.

03:19:29.000 Wait, what do you mean?

03:19:29.480 I'm just kidding.

03:19:30.260 Well, yeah.

03:19:31.280 You mean, like, guys can come multiple times?

03:19:33.640 You said no girl should. 1.00

03:19:35.760 That's why maybe you didn't make her come multiple times.

03:19:38.300 Like, satisfy her?

03:19:39.580 Yeah.

03:19:39.820 Well, I mean –

03:19:41.420 I'm just kidding, though.

03:19:42.240 Oh.

03:19:42.600 I mean, I'm not offended or anything.

03:19:44.840 I'm just saying – I mean, women – it's crazy, though. 1.00

03:19:48.580 Women have really varied orgasm response. 1.00

03:19:52.580 Like, really varied.

03:19:54.740 Some women, they can maybe come one time. 1.00

03:19:59.020 That's it.

03:19:59.720 And it's going to take you 30 minutes with a lot of work.

03:20:05.680 Other women – they're – what's the – what would be the equivalent of a two-pump chump? 1.00

03:20:15.600 A two-pump chump.

03:20:17.020 What is that? 0.86

03:20:17.220 Bro, some women have – I'm – you penetrate, and they've already started coming. 1.00

03:20:26.560 Is that real?

03:20:27.700 One penetrate squirt? 0.97

03:20:28.920 That's real?

03:20:29.720 That's real.

03:20:30.320 I feel like that would only happen if you, like, didn't have sex for, like, 10 years.

03:20:34.000 Oh. 0.97

03:20:34.140 And you were just, like, so horny.

03:20:35.760 Like –

03:20:35.800 There's – okay, so, I don't know, Jake, if you've encountered this.

03:20:38.880 I don't know if you're –

03:20:39.820 No, but, like, what if they were pretending?

03:20:42.040 No.

03:20:42.600 What if they were lying?

03:20:43.300 There's evidence.

03:20:44.220 There's evidence.

03:20:45.080 That's so much more rare than the opposite, though.

03:20:47.940 It is relatively more rare, but, like, there are women who – they'll come within five seconds, 0.93

03:20:54.380 and then they'll come again 10 seconds later, 10 seconds later, 10 seconds later, 10 seconds later.

03:21:00.640 That sounds like a curse.

03:21:02.520 That sounds horrible.

03:21:03.800 I've encountered a few. 1.00

03:21:05.740 Oh, oh, shit. 1.00

03:21:06.460 I've given intel on my body count. 1.00

03:21:09.700 Exposed.

03:21:10.260 High body count.

03:21:11.280 No value. 1.00

03:21:11.980 Fucking exposed. 1.00

03:21:12.840 Play this shit. 1.00

03:21:13.520 What's your body count? 1.00

03:21:14.740 What's your body count?

03:21:15.760 She knows it.

03:21:17.840 Here comes the whole world.

03:21:19.960 Just kidding.

03:21:20.520 I'm kidding.

03:21:21.020 Oh, here comes the whole world.

03:21:23.720 I'm just kidding.

03:21:24.620 I am a virgin.

03:21:26.300 Just kidding.

03:21:26.700 Oh, yeah.

03:21:27.100 Just kidding.

03:21:29.620 Let's see.

03:21:31.020 You guys haven't heard about this?

03:21:32.800 Jake, have you?

03:21:34.260 He's –

03:21:34.740 That's, like, a curse.

03:21:36.000 I would hate that because, like, you can't enjoy it.

03:21:38.280 Oh, no.

03:21:38.460 They don't hate it.

03:21:39.880 But, like, it would hurt after a while.

03:21:41.660 Like, if you came so many times in a row, like, that would hurt after a while.

03:21:46.360 They get used to it.

03:21:48.660 Okay.

03:21:50.700 Whatever you say.

03:21:59.520 Okay.

03:22:00.160 Let's see.

03:22:01.540 Oh, we have some reacts, possibly, do we?

03:22:04.660 Oh, let me read a couple chats first.

03:22:07.860 Let's see here.

03:22:10.140 I'll pull that back up, Daveon.

03:22:12.520 Good timing, man.

03:22:13.360 Good to see you in the chat, man.

03:22:15.180 Maddie, can you read it?

03:22:16.880 As a man, if you need a woman to do flips on it, you watch entirely too much prawn. 0.98

03:22:22.020 Simply being fit, what enthusiastic and vocal will get most men off.

03:22:26.740 It's extremely difficult to turn a man off.

03:22:29.400 100%.

03:22:29.800 True. 1.00

03:22:31.940 Pussy's kind of like pizza. 1.00

03:22:33.440 Even bad pizza is still good. 1.00

03:22:41.960 Pizza? 1.00

03:22:42.440 Wait, what the fuck? 1.00

03:22:43.080 Wait, how does the saying go? 1.00

03:22:47.080 I don't know what kind of, like, pussy you've been getting, Desmond, but I don't think I've, like... 0.99

03:22:52.920 Have you ever had a 7-Eleven pizza? 1.00

03:22:55.940 7-Eleven pizza?

03:22:57.180 Wait, hold on.

03:22:58.720 It's bad. 0.97

03:22:59.220 Have I had bad sex? 0.95

03:23:01.680 Yeah. 0.77

03:23:04.320 There is such thing, but, like...

03:23:05.680 Rare.

03:23:06.220 So you have them. 1.00

03:23:08.200 But it was more so because she, like, not because of the pussy. 1.00

03:23:11.480 It was because she was just kind of being annoying. 1.00

03:23:14.120 Yeah.

03:23:14.400 What?

03:23:15.740 She was like, is it in yet?

03:23:17.440 No, I'm kidding.

03:23:19.880 Yeah.

03:23:21.480 It's an attitude thing, I think.

03:23:23.220 I wrote this down somewhere.

03:23:23.820 It's normally an attitude thing.

03:23:26.040 It definitely is.

03:23:27.640 Wait, let me find my notes about the pizza thing. 0.52

03:23:28.780 Well, then why would you have sex if, like, the attitude is so bad? 0.91

03:23:32.260 You don't...

03:23:32.660 Sometimes you don't find out until, you know, it's too late.

03:23:35.580 What?

03:23:36.120 That makes no sense.

03:23:37.540 You would know that before.

03:23:38.960 Like, why is she giving attitude during it? 1.00

03:23:41.940 That'd be kind of funny, though, to be honest.

03:23:45.760 Oh, here's the saying.

03:23:47.100 Okay, this is how the saying goes. 0.94

03:23:48.740 Sex is a lot like pizza.

03:23:50.180 When it's good, it's great. 0.60

03:23:51.680 When it's bad, it's still pretty good.

03:23:55.320 For guys.

03:23:56.300 For girls... 0.84

03:23:57.020 It's horrible. 0.81

03:23:57.660 If the sex is bad... 0.78

03:23:58.660 It's like, get away from it.

03:23:59.800 This is for... 1.00

03:24:00.420 Yeah, for girls, if the sex is bad, that shit's bad. 1.00

03:24:03.800 It's horrible. 1.00

03:24:05.000 It's like, is this over yet?

03:24:07.360 Wait, Jake, have you ever faked a...

03:24:09.480 No.

03:24:10.200 I've never faked it.

03:24:10.840 No, I couldn't do myself.

03:24:11.720 How would you fake it?

03:24:12.620 You just spray lotion?

03:24:13.520 I'm just like, wait, hold on. 0.53

03:24:16.980 You could have a condom on and pretend. 0.59

03:24:18.980 Yeah. 0.96

03:24:19.580 But wouldn't you see it in there?

03:24:21.260 I don't know.

03:24:21.880 You can hide it.

03:24:22.860 Just, like, throw it away real quick?

03:24:24.660 Yeah.

03:24:24.840 Something like that.

03:24:26.840 But girls who say they're really good in bed, whenever I hear a girl say it, I'm like, 1.00

03:24:30.200 what are you doing that's so different?

03:24:32.220 What are you doing that's so special?

03:24:33.740 Maybe there is someone who's just incredible out there, but it's not going to be that different.

03:24:38.000 Does it make you want to find out or, like, turn off?

03:24:41.320 No.

03:24:42.100 I don't really care.

03:24:43.080 I actually don't hear, I don't hear girls saying, I'm really good at sex.

03:24:48.340 It's always about the BJ. 0.97

03:24:50.280 I give a good head.

03:24:50.860 Well, that's probably the, that's the thing that is, that really does vary.

03:24:54.220 Yeah.

03:24:54.560 That's the one thing that is...

03:24:56.140 You need practice.

03:24:56.660 There's gradients to that.

03:24:58.000 Yeah, you gotta have experience to give a good BJ.

03:25:00.780 But you could have got that experience from one guy.

03:25:04.180 Yeah, you can learn.

03:25:05.100 It's quite easy to learn.

03:25:07.120 Are you gonna learn? 1.00

03:25:07.680 It depends what size the dick is. 0.99

03:25:10.000 Not all BJs are creating... 1.00

03:25:11.300 Pale and well met.

03:25:13.200 Lol Paladins donated $200.02.

03:25:16.900 She was being annoying.

03:25:18.580 Did you have to cover her mouth up to get her to stop talking, Brixen?

03:25:23.000 I know that feeling.

03:25:24.740 I don't even remember what it was. 0.99

03:25:29.040 The pussy was still good. 1.00

03:25:30.220 It was just, you know, she was kind of annoying. 1.00

03:25:34.080 You know what I mean? 0.82

03:25:35.640 Like right before she had sex, she was like at my place and she's like, did you not put 0.58

03:25:41.700 the seat down for me? 1.00

03:25:42.740 I was like, what the fuck? 0.99

03:25:45.820 You know what I mean? 1.00

03:25:46.380 Well, then why would you like have sex with her? 1.00

03:25:49.180 That's like using her. 1.00

03:25:50.060 I'm not gonna let a toilet seat get between me and some pussy, son. 1.00

03:25:53.240 You think I'm gonna let a toilet seat conversation? 1.00

03:25:56.340 I'm gonna grip my teeth.

03:25:57.300 I mean, I guess. 1.00

03:25:57.940 I'm gonna grip my teeth and get the pussy. 1.00

03:25:59.600 If a dude pissed me off that bad, I would not have sex with him. 1.00

03:26:02.680 It was my place. 0.98

03:26:03.780 I left the toilet seat up.

03:26:05.220 She's like, oh, that's very rude of you in your own place to not put the toilet seat 1.00

03:26:08.720 down for me.

03:26:09.020 I was like, oh my God. 0.99

03:26:12.340 Let's have sex. 0.97

03:26:12.820 So she wasn't annoyed. 1.00

03:26:14.440 She was just, she just made like one comment and you're like, total bitch. 1.00

03:26:18.160 Oh, are you not familiar with this podcast? 0.99

03:26:21.960 Okay.

03:26:22.340 That was a bad one.

03:26:22.680 You get annoyed at everything.

03:26:24.120 I get very, I get easily, uh, easily triggered.

03:26:29.540 Triggered.

03:26:29.800 I get triggered.

03:26:30.800 I'm a snowflake.

03:26:32.440 That is true.

03:26:33.500 I'm a woke snowflake.

03:26:35.040 Uh, let's see.

03:26:35.700 Okay.

03:26:35.880 Let's get into, we got to get to the notes finally.

03:26:38.880 But first, Madison, do the favors.

03:26:43.760 Stifler asks, ask everyone to rate their looks, total slash face slash body on a scale

03:26:50.640 of one to 10.

03:26:51.680 You can't pick seven.

03:26:53.340 Hail and well met.

03:26:54.540 We'll get right to that.

03:26:55.160 Lol Paladins donated $200 and two cents.

03:26:59.320 Weird.

03:26:59.900 Desiree was just telling a story about a toilet seat too. 1.00

03:27:03.700 Oh, Lol Paladins.

03:27:05.060 Good to see you in the chat, man.

03:27:06.200 Um, no, not that kind of story, but, uh, yeah.

03:27:13.500 Anyways, uh, so Stifler, starting with you.

03:27:23.960 I have to rate my looks, my total face and body, but I can't say seven.

03:27:29.460 Yeah.

03:27:31.040 So I have to give three scores or all in total?

03:27:34.360 Three.

03:27:34.960 Um, not sure.

03:27:44.920 Eight.

03:27:47.020 Six.

03:27:48.700 So.

03:27:51.480 Total.

03:27:52.820 Can I say six and a half?

03:27:55.260 Oh, so you're saying eight for face, six for body.

03:27:58.520 So it'd be seven.

03:27:59.560 Yeah.

03:27:59.760 Yeah.

03:28:00.180 I suppose that's fine.

03:28:02.220 What about you?

03:28:02.640 Can I just do one for the overall average?

03:28:06.680 Sure.

03:28:07.220 I have to rate every single thing.

03:28:08.900 Well, what's, what do you do total?

03:28:10.960 Um, I would say maybe like an eight.

03:28:15.440 Okay.

03:28:15.880 And then face body.

03:28:17.500 Oh, that's that one.

03:28:18.420 That's one category.

03:28:19.860 Well, separate.

03:28:20.860 Oh, okay.

03:28:21.840 Face.

03:28:22.920 Um, I feel like I need like, I feel like I need a mirror to look at myself in the face

03:28:25.780 now.

03:28:26.060 Um, we'll just say eights all around.

03:28:28.480 Okay.

03:28:29.280 What about you?

03:28:30.380 Uh, I think six and a half, six.

03:28:32.740 Okay.

03:28:34.040 Yeah.

03:28:34.420 For everything.

03:28:35.400 Okay.

03:28:35.700 Um, I'll just do an eight in total, 10 body, six face, eight.

03:28:41.680 All right.

03:28:43.560 I think for my face, um, an eight body, I would say maybe like a four cause I'm just small.

03:28:52.060 And yeah, but the total, what would that be?

03:28:55.580 Your ranking is because you're small.

03:28:58.060 Yeah.

03:28:58.520 Like I'm not like curvy, you know?

03:29:01.380 Well, I think a lot of guys like petite women, so. 1.00

03:29:04.060 Mm-hmm.

03:29:04.360 Yeah.

03:29:05.100 Yeah.

03:29:05.500 That's tasty.

03:29:06.460 I'm Latina, so a lot of like the guys, you know, back at home, they prefer like.

03:29:12.680 When you say back at home, do you mean like Mexico?

03:29:18.300 Bakersfield. 1.00

03:29:19.820 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:29:20.700 My bad. 1.00

03:29:21.120 My bad.

03:29:21.360 I thought she said back at home.

03:29:26.140 No, uh, Bakersfield.

03:29:29.500 What's going on?

03:29:30.380 What?

03:29:30.960 Well, like.

03:29:31.380 So you're saying like.

03:29:32.320 The people I surround myself out there are usually Latinos too.

03:29:35.480 And they like a thick.

03:29:36.540 Yeah.

03:29:36.980 Like they expect.

03:29:37.380 They like a gordita.

03:29:39.140 Wait, what are they?

03:29:40.000 What's it called?

03:29:40.220 They call them pan dulce actually.

03:29:42.400 What, what, what's the term for like tortas?

03:29:44.880 Tortas.

03:29:45.280 They like tortas.

03:29:46.120 Okay.

03:29:46.400 No, because that's like.

03:29:47.280 That's like bigger.

03:29:48.140 Oh, okay.

03:29:48.940 Okay.

03:29:49.060 Yeah.

03:29:49.300 They like curvy. 1.00

03:29:50.220 Yeah.

03:29:50.480 Like a curvy. 0.76

03:29:51.000 Like a thicky Latina woman. 1.00

03:29:53.300 Yeah.

03:29:53.700 That's in Bakersfield.

03:29:54.540 What about here in Santa Barbara?

03:29:55.640 Or were they like still thick, thicky?

03:30:00.700 Santa Barbara?

03:30:01.800 Santa Barbara.

03:30:02.640 That's a lot of surfer boys.

03:30:03.900 Well, yeah.

03:30:05.080 White boys, surfer boys, skater boys.

03:30:07.060 No, I definitely think people here are a lot more like they don't really care about the

03:30:14.040 body as much, but.

03:30:16.980 Erroneous.

03:30:18.300 Erroneous.

03:30:19.580 Sorry, go ahead.

03:30:20.660 Sorry, sorry, sorry.

03:30:21.100 But since I do go to UCSB, and like you said, when you were younger, you'd go out, like

03:30:28.360 no one, like, I don't know, no one cares.

03:30:32.280 Like everyone here is just like trying to do things, you know?

03:30:36.360 When you say nobody cares, like.

03:30:38.600 No one cares how you look.

03:30:40.140 Oh, they're just trying to.

03:30:40.900 They're just trying to.

03:30:41.600 Trying to get.

03:30:42.280 Yeah.

03:30:44.420 Is that a good thing or.

03:30:45.980 No, that's a bad thing.

03:30:47.800 But, but, uh, it's like. 0.99

03:30:49.140 They don't care how you look, and they want to fuck, or they do care how you look, and 1.00

03:30:56.680 they still want to fuck. 1.00

03:30:59.380 So, wouldn't it be better that they, if that's what they want, wouldn't it be better they don't 1.00

03:31:05.600 care what you look like?

03:31:07.740 Because then you can, I don't know where I'm going with that.

03:31:10.260 No, because then they have a higher body count.

03:31:12.600 If they don't care.

03:31:14.700 I feel like most things don't care. 0.99

03:31:16.100 But they're still, they're still fucking no matter what. 1.00

03:31:17.540 But they're, they're equal opportunity dick slangers. 1.00

03:31:22.960 Like, they'll still hit. 0.99

03:31:25.000 Right?

03:31:26.040 You think that's better?

03:31:27.920 But if the, if that's what the girls are after, too. 1.00

03:31:31.260 What, isn't it good for the girl to. 1.00

03:31:33.340 Girls are.

03:31:33.660 I don't know.

03:31:34.140 I have no idea what.

03:31:34.640 I mean, if the girl's after it, then I mean, yeah, I guess it's better, but like.

03:31:38.820 I feel like the guys don't care.

03:31:40.980 The guys don't care, but the girls do. 0.87

03:31:43.740 About looks?

03:31:44.580 Mm-hmm.

03:31:45.360 Hmm.

03:31:45.580 That's actually a very astute observation, Madison.

03:31:49.540 Well, well put.

03:31:50.360 Like, even just like interviewing, walking around, I see like.

03:31:55.200 See what?

03:31:56.080 Like. 1.00

03:31:58.440 Guys with really ugly girls. 0.99

03:32:00.660 Not to like be like, not a girl's girl. 1.00

03:32:02.960 Wait, Maddie, do you remember that first night we went out?

03:32:05.760 Mm-hmm.

03:32:06.180 And like, this might come off as like kind of sus or whatever, but I was like, I was like,

03:32:14.220 there were a lot of good looking dudes.

03:32:17.060 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

03:32:18.360 There, there are a lot of good looking dudes with mid girls. 0.99

03:32:21.240 I'm like, whoa, holy shit, dude. 0.99

03:32:22.460 That's what I'm saying. 0.99

03:32:23.300 The guys don't care out here.

03:32:24.460 Well, that, that's the thing.

03:32:26.020 Cause like, I feel like with girls, they're like, well, if I'm gonna hook up, he better 0.99

03:32:31.140 be really fucking hot. 0.99

03:32:32.620 He better be hot. 0.99

03:32:34.020 Yeah. 1.00

03:32:34.520 But like for guys, it's like, I'm trying to get some pussy. 1.00

03:32:38.980 Like you said, pussy's pussy. 1.00

03:32:40.960 You know what I mean? 1.00

03:32:41.960 The guys just don't care.

03:32:42.560 I mean, that's, it's true.

03:32:43.620 It's true.

03:32:45.020 Wait.

03:32:45.460 Okay.

03:32:45.660 So rating anyways.

03:32:48.840 I think you said.

03:32:50.060 Yeah.

03:32:50.620 Like four body.

03:32:51.680 Really?

03:32:52.000 Okay.

03:32:52.100 Four from, for the body, but eight for the face.

03:32:54.820 So I don't know.

03:32:55.700 Six, I guess.

03:32:56.420 Average.

03:32:56.980 Okay.

03:32:57.260 Yeah.

03:32:57.820 M-Dog.

03:32:59.500 Six face, eight body, total seven, even though we can't pick seven.

03:33:03.660 That's just.

03:33:04.840 Jake.

03:33:05.700 Rammel.

03:33:06.020 Six is all round.

03:33:08.080 Six is all round.

03:33:09.520 Y-Dog.

03:33:10.240 Uh, I've never been called that.

03:33:14.000 Um, yeah, probably just six all round.

03:33:16.940 Oh, okay. 1.00

03:33:17.740 Uh, I give myself shit. 1.00

03:33:20.480 Hold on. 1.00

03:33:20.880 Total five.

03:33:22.360 Oh, the math's not going to math here.

03:33:24.280 Face five, body four.

03:33:27.160 I got a dad bod.

03:33:28.280 I got to lose the dad bod boys. 0.85

03:33:30.480 You're almost down to a four, bro.

03:33:32.940 What's that?

03:33:33.460 I know, dude.

03:33:33.960 It's bad.

03:33:34.920 That's a body shame me, dude.

03:33:36.480 Yeah, it's a 4.5.

03:33:37.920 You were a six once upon a time.

03:33:39.280 I was once a six.

03:33:40.320 Now I'm going down great.

03:33:41.740 Do you turn it around for them with the camera?

03:33:43.740 The dumpy?

03:33:44.500 Mm-hmm.

03:33:44.920 Yeah, they keep asking this.

03:33:46.140 Yeah.

03:33:47.740 Never.

03:33:48.380 Never.

03:33:48.980 Um, but, uh, anyways.

03:33:50.500 Uh, oh, and related to this question.

03:33:52.100 Thank you, Stifler.

03:33:53.100 Also, really quick.

03:33:53.940 I, normally we don't read these, but Brian, God made, I, just because I read it, I thought

03:33:57.980 it was interesting.

03:33:59.280 God made it where women don't need to get off to reproduce. 1.00

03:34:01.780 If God doesn't care, why should we?

03:34:03.980 Oh.

03:34:05.300 Jesus.

03:34:05.860 I just thought, I was below the threshold, but thought it was funny.

03:34:10.500 Maybe that, what do you guys think about that?

03:34:15.040 Even God doesn't care.

03:34:18.000 Okay.

03:34:18.520 All right. 1.00

03:34:18.840 That, it's just a, it's just kind of an asshole comment, whatever. 1.00

03:34:22.740 He's an asshole. 1.00

03:34:23.860 So, going around the table, uh, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time? 1.00

03:34:29.920 Better looking in 10 years' time?

03:34:33.060 Potentially.

03:34:33.620 Have more money.

03:34:34.280 I could get Botox, plastic surgery. 0.98

03:34:36.180 I could get bigger boobs. 0.84

03:34:37.120 I don't necessarily want to, but, like. 0.98

03:34:42.360 If you, let's say you didn't get any of that, though.

03:34:45.440 Do you think you, uh, in 10 years' time, at, so you're 27.

03:34:48.720 At 37, will you be better looking?

03:34:50.540 No.

03:34:51.460 Okay.

03:34:51.960 Maybe in, like, five.

03:34:53.180 And then you're 27 now.

03:34:54.440 Are you better looking now at 27 than you were at 18?

03:34:57.000 I think so, yes.

03:34:57.900 I was a very late bloomer.

03:35:00.900 Okay.

03:35:01.260 Um, and then, uh, I would actually argue, though, I'm not even sure, like, no, no, I

03:35:08.540 guess when it comes to you being 37, and you said, well, at 37, I could get, like, five

03:35:13.300 money, I could get plastic surgery and Botox.

03:35:17.080 I'm not even sure, like, 37 you without plastic surgery versus 37 you with plastic surgery.

03:35:23.380 Maybe this is just my own aesthetic taste.

03:35:25.580 I think you'd be better looking at 37 without the plastic surgery than with it.

03:35:31.860 And this applies for any woman who has plastic surgery. 1.00

03:35:37.360 You've seen, like, Cher, who's, like, 70, and she has, like, the most insane amount of 0.98

03:35:41.740 plastic surgery, and she looks like not even a real human being. 0.85

03:35:44.640 It's, like, so scary.

03:35:46.860 I have not seen Cher recently, but I'll take, I'll take, oh, Donatella.

03:35:53.060 That looks kind of creepy.

03:35:55.580 The only thing that I actually will concede on when it comes to plastic surgery, making

03:36:00.420 a woman more attractive, is, uh, is nose job. 1.00

03:36:06.340 I've seen some of these, like, transformation videos.

03:36:08.880 It's actually quite astounding, like, the, what your nose does to your facial aesthetics.

03:36:14.380 But that's different, though, because a nose job can make your nose look like a normal nose,

03:36:21.800 whereas all these other procedures, like lip filler, you can tell.

03:36:26.200 Botox, you can tell.

03:36:28.380 Maybe not always, but you can tell. 0.99

03:36:30.400 Fake tits, you can tell. 1.00

03:36:31.960 BBL, you can tell. 1.00

03:36:33.320 Lipo, you can tell.

03:36:35.660 You know?

03:36:36.500 So, I don't know.

03:36:37.540 Maybe I just don't like the fake.

03:36:39.160 You can also just get, like, better skincare treatments.

03:36:41.220 But assuming your skin, like, your skincare is just as good at 27 as it is at 37, you'd agree

03:36:49.340 that you are not going to be, not you, but, like, people in general are not going to be

03:36:54.660 as good looking due to aging in 10 years' time.

03:36:57.880 Um, no, because if you're, like, working out and, like, staying fit and maintaining a

03:37:01.260 healthy diet and lifestyle, you could be more beautiful.

03:37:04.820 What if you had that at your current age, though?

03:37:08.060 Um, are you, like...

03:37:09.660 As long as you're continuing that.

03:37:10.760 Well, let me ask you a question on the fitness thing.

03:37:12.400 So, you're 27.

03:37:13.700 I mean, I haven't really looked at you all that much, but it's, I mean, you seem like

03:37:21.040 you have a healthy body fat percentage, whatever.

03:37:23.120 I mean, do you think that there are such significant things you can do when it comes to your fitness

03:37:29.000 that you would be more attractive at 37 than you are now at 27?

03:37:34.060 Uh, maybe not super significantly, but I could just work out more.

03:37:39.620 Sure.

03:37:40.140 Going around the table, better looking in 10 years' time?

03:37:42.720 Uh, if I manage to lose weight, I think I might have a shot at looking better.

03:37:47.380 All right.

03:37:48.200 Uh, what about 20 years' time, 51?

03:37:50.360 Do you think you'll be better looking?

03:37:55.040 No, I don't think so.

03:37:56.580 Okay.

03:37:56.780 And then were you, are you better looking now at 31 than you were at 21?

03:38:02.480 No, because I gained weight.

03:38:04.120 At 21, you were better looking.

03:38:05.420 Okay.

03:38:05.740 Maybe 25, 27 was my best ages.

03:38:08.260 Sure.

03:38:08.960 And then for you, 31, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?

03:38:12.280 Absolutely not.

03:38:13.540 And then were you better looking at 21 as compared to now at 31?

03:38:19.800 My peak was 27, so it's closer to what I'm now.

03:38:23.200 So, you are, you are better looking now at 31?

03:38:26.840 Than when I was 21, yeah.

03:38:28.340 At 21.

03:38:29.940 Do you have photos?

03:38:32.460 Of like young, young, glossy, glosky?

03:38:36.620 Gloska.

03:38:37.620 Gloska.

03:38:38.500 Yeah.

03:38:40.200 Um, okay, well.

03:38:42.000 Uh, Selena, you're 19, better looking in 10 years' time?

03:38:45.780 Um, no.

03:38:47.380 Okay.

03:38:48.620 Better looking at, uh, 29 versus now at 19?

03:38:51.460 Um, yes.

03:38:54.600 In Bakersfield or in?

03:38:57.740 No, hopefully by that time I'm already, you know.

03:39:00.200 You're going to thick up a bit at 29, so all the Bakersfield methods are going on.

03:39:05.140 No, I just, well, I'm assuming at that time I probably already have like started a family.

03:39:11.240 Sure.

03:39:12.560 So, fitness mom.

03:39:14.260 So, I think I'm cute.

03:39:16.140 Should we show the picture of young, young Jake?

03:39:21.480 I could get it up.

03:39:22.560 Show it.

03:39:23.100 Is it on your Instagram or, or do you have to like email it to us or something?

03:39:26.760 Uh, if you scroll down, uh, is it like the transformation one?

03:39:29.640 Yeah, transformation.

03:39:30.160 That's on my Instagram if you scroll down.

03:39:31.140 Can, can you pull up his, uh, Instagram?

03:39:32.840 Also pull up mine.

03:39:34.740 We've got to see young, young Brian here.

03:39:37.880 Jake, what's your Instagram?

03:39:38.800 Jake Rattle, S-N-K.

03:39:40.880 Also, guys, while you're at it, like the video.

03:39:43.500 Please like the video.

03:39:45.240 And, you gotta like the video.

03:39:47.440 We are doing a, uh, a sort of a, essentially a fundraiser for our good friend Mason who's

03:39:53.440 been on the show.

03:39:54.140 If you're just tuning in, he was in a very serious, uh, motorcycle accident a couple days

03:39:59.220 ago.

03:39:59.480 He's still in the hospital.

03:40:00.880 He's, uh, looking like he's recovering, but, uh, things are, uh, you know, I don't know

03:40:07.040 the full details, but he's still in the hospital.

03:40:09.000 In any case, six days later, six, seven days later.

03:40:11.400 So, uh, 50% of all fan funding from tonight's stream are going to go towards Mason's medical

03:40:17.360 expenses, super chats, TTS, Twitch subs, um, stream labs, messages, 50% of all fan funding

03:40:25.720 will go to Mason's medical expenses, uh, read 100, TTS 200.

03:40:30.700 Were you able to find it, Austin?

03:40:32.240 Yeah, we're just going down to find it.

03:40:33.780 Okay.

03:40:34.540 Sounds, sounds good.

03:40:36.860 Sounds good.

03:40:37.760 Uh, any, let's see.

03:40:39.540 Oh, here, I'll read this while we're trying to find it.

03:40:43.640 Old man Marine.

03:40:44.900 Maddie, could you read it?

03:40:46.320 Gabby, seven.

03:40:47.820 Redhead, five. 0.96

03:40:49.180 Glow stick, four.

03:40:50.940 Pink top, three.

03:40:53.360 Ruby, six.

03:40:54.840 Maddie, 7.5.

03:40:56.540 Tell your sister I said hi. 0.94

03:40:58.200 What the hell?

03:40:59.140 Blue top, L, 8.5. 0.95

03:41:02.520 Your eyebrow gain, what is it?

03:41:04.520 Sorry.

03:41:04.860 Oh, I'll pull it back up.

03:41:05.640 My eyebrow.

03:41:07.080 My sisters are taken.

03:41:09.540 8.5, your eyebrow rating?

03:41:12.700 They're real.

03:41:13.720 I don't fill them in or anything.

03:41:15.300 Oh, all right.

03:41:16.100 You've got good eyebrows.

03:41:17.660 Get well soon, Mason.

03:41:19.040 Uh, thank you, old man Marine.

03:41:20.200 Really good to see you, uh, back in the chat.

03:41:22.520 What's up?

03:41:22.900 We have it.

03:41:24.180 All right, let's see it.

03:41:27.960 Jake. 1.00

03:41:28.360 Look at that fucking giga chat on the left. 1.00

03:41:32.700 Wow. 1.00

03:41:33.020 Look at this guy.

03:41:33.860 This guy pounding back some bruise.

03:41:36.280 Yeah, that was my 19th birthday on the left there. 0.99

03:41:39.380 Damn. 0.99

03:41:40.200 Oh my goodness. 1.00

03:41:41.200 It's about 110 kilos.

03:41:43.800 What is that in like pounds?

03:41:46.060 What's that in pounds?

03:41:46.860 I've got no idea.

03:41:47.560 I don't really know how to convert it.

03:41:48.360 Isn't it like about double?

03:41:50.300 Yeah, I think it's maybe a bit more than double.

03:41:52.380 Yeah.

03:41:53.400 Something like that.

03:41:54.460 You were, wait, how many kilos?

03:41:56.500 About 110.

03:41:58.300 So you were like two, probably 230?

03:42:00.960 Yeah.

03:42:01.220 220, 230?

03:42:02.160 Yeah.

03:42:02.260 It's about double.

03:42:02.940 We'll just say. 0.99

03:42:03.920 Damn, that's about what. 0.99

03:42:05.140 That is crazy. 0.99

03:42:06.720 Yeah.

03:42:07.540 Also, we're going to do the reverse transformation. 1.00

03:42:10.060 Pull up my Instagram and we'll see how much of a fat sack of shit I've become. 1.00

03:42:14.800 To do that. 1.00

03:42:15.500 Pull up, pull up young Brian.

03:42:19.080 We got to get young Brian.

03:42:21.160 Let's look at Brian's transformation.

03:42:23.740 All right.

03:42:24.040 Let's scroll down.

03:42:25.480 Scroll down.

03:42:26.040 Let's see it.

03:42:26.900 We got, I don't think I have any shirtless.

03:42:28.720 I got some, I got the tank top photo.

03:42:32.680 Look at, I got the surf photos.

03:42:35.500 Look at, wait.

03:42:36.840 The karate photos.

03:42:38.740 Take it easy. 1.00

03:42:40.700 Oh, damn. 1.00

03:42:41.600 Yael. 1.00

03:42:42.120 Wait, say it again.

03:42:42.920 Yael.

03:42:43.240 Say it for the camera.

03:42:44.020 Say it.

03:42:46.560 Go ahead.

03:42:46.880 It's like, that's you?

03:42:47.880 Like, I didn't recognize you.

03:42:49.600 Sorry, man.

03:42:50.440 Sorry.

03:42:52.160 That should be some motivation.

03:42:57.540 Pull it, pull it back up.

03:42:58.660 Pull it back up.

03:43:01.580 Pull it back up.

03:43:02.960 Giga, look at the karate photos.

03:43:04.780 Look at, look at.

03:43:05.300 Who's that chat?

03:43:06.120 That's me.

03:43:06.880 I was like 12 years old.

03:43:08.060 Pull up the karate photos.

03:43:09.540 Pull up the first one.

03:43:10.820 Can you still do the poses?

03:43:12.900 This was photo day at the karate dojo.

03:43:15.940 Okay.

03:43:16.320 Oh my gosh.

03:43:17.320 Look at this.

03:43:18.100 Peaked in the, uh, scroll down.

03:43:20.460 Or no, sorry.

03:43:21.040 Uh, next one.

03:43:21.780 Over. 1.00

03:43:22.880 Do you, look at that fucking. 1.00

03:43:24.320 That was, look at this fucking alpha aesthetic. 1.00

03:43:27.060 Hold on. 1.00

03:43:27.280 Look at this shit, boys. 1.00

03:43:28.360 I'm done. 1.00

03:43:28.800 You see that shit? 1.00

03:43:29.740 Hands are the same. 1.00

03:43:30.720 You see that shit, boys? 1.00

03:43:32.040 Okay. 1.00

03:43:32.320 And then come back.

03:43:32.980 Go back.

03:43:33.440 Uh, exile that.

03:43:34.520 Let's see the surf.

03:43:35.200 One of the surf ones.

03:43:35.860 Uh, click on the one where I'm putting on my wetsuit.

03:43:39.660 The.

03:43:41.460 This was on, um.

03:43:43.200 Bro.

03:43:43.820 On wiki.

03:43:44.360 I was.

03:43:45.320 Now I got a belly, dude.

03:43:46.820 There's no belly there.

03:43:48.840 Too much beer?

03:43:50.020 No, not too much beer.

03:43:51.000 Too much in and out.

03:43:51.940 Oreos.

03:43:52.420 I don't, I don't drink.

03:43:53.740 Wait, actually, hold on.

03:43:54.700 Wait, exile.

03:43:55.300 One more.

03:43:55.640 I got to see one more.

03:43:57.460 You just got to eat the protein salad in and out and then you're set.

03:44:00.320 Probably.

03:44:01.100 Probably.

03:44:01.900 Yeah.

03:44:02.140 Young Brian.

03:44:02.760 Uh, scroll up.

03:44:04.120 Scroll up.

03:44:05.000 That's me with a dong. 0.99

03:44:06.080 Wait, what the fuck was that? 0.99

03:44:07.360 It does. 0.99

03:44:08.360 Uh, let's see.

03:44:11.200 What about the, okay, pull up the angel one.

03:44:13.620 Angel one.

03:44:15.620 There you go.

03:44:16.340 Look at that.

03:44:17.300 Little flat tummy there.

03:44:19.420 Flat tummy.

03:44:20.720 That's a Halloween costume. 0.52

03:44:22.480 Yeah, well, originally, so this is like a little prank video I did.

03:44:25.700 It's supposed to be a chick in this costume. 1.00

03:44:27.940 So it's like a fucking extra small for a woman. 1.00

03:44:30.980 But she flaked on the day of the shoot. 1.00

03:44:32.800 So I was like, fuck it. 1.00

03:44:33.720 I'll do it. 1.00

03:44:34.680 Wow.

03:44:34.900 It was going to be like this angel devil thing.

03:44:37.780 Anyways.

03:44:38.260 You know, like the whole, the, the trope of the angel devil on the shoulder thing.

03:44:42.220 So that was kind of, anyways.

03:44:43.860 Uh, wait.

03:44:46.120 Wrath PSA says hands like lethal weapons, bro. 0.99

03:44:48.980 You don't even fucking know. 1.00

03:44:50.400 I was a fucking menace in that karate dojo, bro. 1.00

03:44:54.400 Just kidding. 0.99

03:44:55.620 I did a bit of sparring.

03:44:57.580 Anyways.

03:44:58.160 Uh, where were we?

03:45:02.340 Oh yeah.

03:45:02.880 Let's do that.

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03:45:23.640 Guys.

03:45:24.180 I think it's bugged boys.

03:45:25.640 Boys.

03:45:26.440 I think it's bugged.

03:45:27.500 Like, can you help out with like a little prime survey?

03:45:30.080 Also, here's the thing.

03:45:31.320 If you do have a prime sub available, 50% of the earnings revenue from the prime sub, it's

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03:45:58.020 And then, oh, Discord.

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03:46:01.280 And then we're going to get into these crazy pre-show notes from all the guests here.

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03:46:14.420 Uh, last show, Brenna, the fucking liar, fake conservative chick. 1.00

03:46:18.880 We posted, uh, well, I posted this evidence of the tattoo matching to some D-Gen video that 1.00

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03:46:47.600 Okay, let's get into some of the pre-show notes here.

03:46:51.260 Let's see.

03:46:52.800 Uh, actually, uh, Selena.

03:46:55.420 Mm-hmm.

03:46:58.000 Uh, I think, I don't know if you said it on your, on the last show.

03:47:01.860 Uh, is it?

03:47:03.360 I had a different story last time.

03:47:05.500 What was a different story?

03:47:06.600 It was when the dude dropped me off on the highway.

03:47:09.560 Oh, it wasn't going to be that.

03:47:11.300 I think it was like, didn't you say that your, your dad supports the, the point?

03:47:17.600 Reborn stuff.

03:47:18.860 He supports me as a person.

03:47:20.420 Like, he would obviously rather me do a different job.

03:47:22.660 Oh, okay.

03:47:23.400 Like, I'm his daughter.

03:47:24.240 He loves me.

03:47:24.820 I'm like, you know, we have a good relationship.

03:47:27.220 Okay.

03:47:27.760 And then, is there something about like toy dolls or something?

03:47:32.940 Um, I mean, I do collect, um, reborn dolls.

03:47:36.900 Yeah.

03:47:37.280 What, what is it called?

03:47:38.280 Reborn dolls?

03:47:38.780 Reborn dolls?

03:47:39.300 Yeah.

03:47:39.500 What's that? 1.00

03:47:40.340 Is it like this shit? 1.00

03:47:41.580 Babies that look real. 1.00

03:47:44.980 Like, so sometimes when.

03:47:46.780 Oh, sorry.

03:47:47.160 I thought you were Morgan.

03:47:47.880 My bad.

03:47:50.500 Don't do my girl Morgan like that. 0.99

03:47:54.340 You get the chocolate one.

03:47:55.660 Um, that's for Madison.

03:47:57.580 Madison, this one's for you. 0.95

03:47:58.900 That's racist. 1.00

03:47:59.220 And then you get the, damn, this one's all fucked up. 1.00

03:48:03.080 Here you go. 1.00

03:48:03.320 There you go.

03:48:04.960 That's for you, Selena.

03:48:05.780 Perfect.

03:48:06.200 Why do you have these?

03:48:08.440 Uh.

03:48:08.720 Yeah, like why do you have them?

03:48:09.880 He also collects.

03:48:11.000 It's a, it's a segment.

03:48:12.280 Is this from the Ark?

03:48:13.300 Look at it.

03:48:14.480 It's like dirty.

03:48:15.820 Oh, that, that baby has been through a lot.

03:48:20.780 I used it in prank videos.

03:48:22.720 I did this flyway baby prank.

03:48:24.720 I did some of the old years ago.

03:48:26.880 Anyways.

03:48:27.700 So that's the, you're holding a baby that's had like millions and millions of views.

03:48:32.240 It's just laying, you know.

03:48:33.600 It's like a celeb.

03:48:34.700 It's a celebrity.

03:48:36.100 Um.

03:48:38.900 Wow.

03:48:39.660 That's.

03:48:41.320 Just post it up with me, you know.

03:48:42.860 Just, um, it has your eyes, I guess.

03:48:46.520 Or something.

03:48:48.480 It has my eyes.

03:48:50.100 So you collect toy, toy dolls?

03:48:52.520 Like, are they just all in your room?

03:48:54.940 Um, honestly, no.

03:48:56.160 Like, honestly, when I was growing up, I always had dolls.

03:48:58.940 And I've kept some of them over the years.

03:49:01.440 But most of the time, now, I am very interested in like the reborn dolls.

03:49:06.660 I think the artists put a lot of work into them.

03:49:09.500 Um.

03:49:09.840 I haven't bought one in a while.

03:49:11.220 Like, it used to be a hobby of mine when I was like 16.

03:49:15.000 I haven't bought one in probably a year.

03:49:18.500 I'll take it back, by the way.

03:49:20.720 Just, I don't know.

03:49:21.940 So, um.

03:49:30.920 So, uh.

03:49:33.800 Oh, uh.

03:49:34.560 Have you ever done any escorting?

03:49:37.080 Um.

03:49:38.280 I don't talk about that stuff online.

03:49:42.480 Okay.

03:49:47.920 Anyways, uh.

03:49:48.800 Moving on in my notes here.

03:49:50.320 That's all right.

03:49:50.720 What about?

03:49:51.780 Sorry.

03:49:52.400 Oh, no.

03:49:54.240 Okay.

03:49:54.720 I mean, it's.

03:49:55.360 All right.

03:49:55.700 She's not doing anything terrible.

03:49:58.440 Okay.

03:49:59.420 Let's go to, uh.

03:50:00.920 Let's get to Gloss.

03:50:03.120 Gloss.

03:50:03.480 Gloss.

03:50:04.220 Gloss.

03:50:04.380 Gloss.

03:50:04.460 Gloss.

03:50:05.020 Gloss.

03:50:06.500 Your gaming streamer.

03:50:08.100 Only fans in a maid. 0.92

03:50:10.200 I didn't know about the maid thing.

03:50:11.840 Yeah, I kind of quit that now.

03:50:13.380 Do you charge for it?

03:50:14.360 Or is it like a.

03:50:15.140 I don't know.

03:50:16.320 Like, is it one of those maid things where you like dress up?

03:50:19.180 And I'm like.

03:50:19.660 No, like, uh, it was kind of like, uh, it was kind of like an au pair job when I lived

03:50:25.300 in Norway, but I recently moved back to New England.

03:50:27.460 So kind of quit that.

03:50:29.120 Yeah.

03:50:32.520 Here, Maddie.

03:50:33.220 I'll take.

03:50:34.980 I'll take.

03:50:35.720 Okay.

03:50:35.860 I'll take it up.

03:50:40.420 Um.

03:50:42.480 Okay.

03:50:44.120 Uh.

03:50:44.540 Oh, wait.

03:50:44.980 You.

03:50:45.240 Wait.

03:50:46.080 Oh, you currently.

03:50:47.320 Wait.

03:50:47.780 You live in Amsterdam currently?

03:50:49.580 Or in the Netherlands?

03:50:51.060 No.

03:50:51.240 So two weeks ago.

03:50:51.260 Because it says here.

03:50:52.380 Aren't you in Norway or something?

03:50:53.820 Two weeks ago, I moved to the Netherlands.

03:50:56.320 Oh, okay.

03:50:57.020 So this is from a while ago then.

03:50:58.460 Yeah.

03:50:58.640 On, let's see, you, I don't know if we fully had it, but the big thing you wanted to come

03:51:03.900 on and talk about was the body count thing.

03:51:05.660 Yeah.

03:51:05.940 Right.

03:51:06.600 We sort of touched on it.

03:51:08.880 Um.

03:51:09.880 Going around the table before we get into it.

03:51:12.620 Uh.

03:51:13.160 Do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count?

03:51:20.580 No.

03:51:21.500 Not.

03:51:22.000 Okay.

03:51:22.260 You're fine with that?

03:51:22.820 What do you think?

03:51:27.100 Uh.

03:51:28.560 No.

03:51:29.280 No?

03:51:29.680 Okay.

03:51:30.860 Well.

03:51:31.080 Can you, yeah.

03:51:32.000 Can you say it differently?

03:51:33.260 And, uh.

03:51:33.900 Do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count?

03:51:38.520 And I think, I mean, you kind of already answered it.

03:51:40.100 You said yes.

03:51:41.000 Yeah.

03:51:41.200 I was just confused by that.

03:51:42.680 Okay.

03:51:43.620 Selena.

03:51:45.220 What do you think?

03:51:46.420 What was the question?

03:51:48.640 Do you think men?

03:51:49.120 Are men insecure about their own body count?

03:51:51.680 No.

03:51:51.860 About caring about a woman's body count? 0.98

03:51:53.840 Um.

03:51:54.800 I mean, it's just a preference.

03:51:56.660 I don't think it's insecurity, to be honest.

03:51:58.480 It's more of, like, a preference, like, thing.

03:52:01.060 Sure.

03:52:02.460 Ruby?

03:52:02.900 No.

03:52:04.620 No.

03:52:06.240 I don't think it's insecure because I would care about someone else's body count because

03:52:10.940 of standard reasons, so.

03:52:12.520 Got it.

03:52:13.220 Okay.

03:52:13.440 Okay.

03:52:15.060 Uh.

03:52:15.500 Let's see, then.

03:52:16.320 Oh, you, you already said body count, Selena. 0.99

03:52:23.080 We'll just do body count, then, I guess.

03:52:24.920 Oh, like, in total?

03:52:25.960 Yeah.

03:52:26.160 What's your body count?

03:52:27.000 I don't know.

03:52:28.680 What was it last time?

03:52:30.280 I don't, I'm pretty sure, I feel like I said the same thing.

03:52:33.380 Because, like, I literally don't know.

03:52:35.300 And then you asked me, like, bodies in porn versus in real life, and I still don't know.

03:52:41.100 Range.

03:52:41.380 Way less, though.

03:52:41.960 You don't need to give us an exact number, but it's, like, over 50, over 100.

03:52:46.380 Not more than 100.

03:52:48.080 No.

03:52:49.540 Stop the count.

03:52:51.640 Selena.

03:52:52.240 It's not more than 100.

03:52:52.880 I thought we were homies.

03:52:53.980 How are you going to lie?

03:52:54.680 How are you going to lie?

03:52:55.400 I ain't lying.

03:52:56.040 It ain't more than 100.

03:52:56.240 Why are you lying, Selena?

03:52:57.740 Okay, 100 is a lot.

03:52:59.680 Right, so is that what it is?

03:53:00.340 It's not more than 100.

03:53:02.920 99.

03:53:03.760 99?

03:53:04.160 99?

03:53:04.640 I mean, like, just in personal life.

03:53:06.880 Okay.

03:53:07.060 In personal life, probably, like, I don't know, like, I don't know.

03:53:14.720 Word?

03:53:15.220 Way, probably less than 50 in real life.

03:53:18.940 And then what about, like, working with?

03:53:23.300 Um, probably, like, do females count? 1.00

03:53:30.920 Give us your male count and your female count. 0.97

03:53:33.640 Female count in porn is, like, less, probably, like, I think maybe, like, seven.

03:53:42.580 Seven.

03:53:43.280 Okay, all right.

03:53:44.060 Because, like, I mostly do, like, stuff with guys for my job.

03:53:47.960 And then what's the, yeah, so what's the male count, then?

03:53:50.160 Um, I don't know.

03:53:52.780 More than 50, I think you said.

03:53:55.300 In scenes, no.

03:53:57.780 Well, total, I mean, there's more than 50.

03:54:00.020 Total?

03:54:00.600 Yeah, I guess.

03:54:02.100 What about you?

03:54:02.760 I'll just level.

03:54:03.640 Nine.

03:54:09.680 I'm also at eight or nine.

03:54:11.440 Mm-hmm.

03:54:13.160 Ruby?

03:54:15.720 I don't want to give an exact number, only because I know people, I know, like, some of my friends

03:54:21.060 are going to watch this, but, um, definitely less than five.

03:54:25.940 Okay.

03:54:28.920 Jake?

03:54:30.140 Voice crack.

03:54:31.120 Jake?

03:54:31.320 I don't want to say it all the time.

03:54:32.100 It's between me and the man upstairs.

03:54:35.160 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:54:35.860 I'm sorry.

03:54:36.520 I'm about to sneeze.

03:54:38.540 Sneeze the body count number.

03:54:39.840 No, it went away.

03:54:40.820 I already said that.

03:54:41.740 Like, two.

03:54:42.680 Only.

03:54:43.440 Yeah.

03:54:44.280 Wait, is that what you said last time?

03:54:45.820 Yeah.

03:54:46.100 Okay.

03:54:48.120 I don't share my body count.

03:54:49.260 Sorry.

03:54:49.440 Um, of course, y'all going to say that, but then make us answer and be all like, oh, what's

03:54:54.100 the exact number? 0.86

03:54:55.400 Sucka. 0.91

03:54:56.760 What?

03:54:57.440 I mean, what is that?

03:55:00.040 Like, keep it real.

03:55:01.320 Keep it real.

03:55:01.900 You want me to keep it real?

03:55:02.900 You keep it real.

03:55:03.740 I keep it real?

03:55:05.000 Well, you just said you don't want to answer.

03:55:06.760 I'm keeping it real.

03:55:07.900 That is not real.

03:55:08.680 I don't want to answer the question.

03:55:09.360 That's like the opposite of real.

03:55:10.960 That's super real.

03:55:12.080 I don't want to answer that.

03:55:13.040 Have you ever answered on one of your podcasts?

03:55:15.700 No.

03:55:16.300 Oh.

03:55:16.840 I've not.

03:55:17.220 Like, that is not keeping it real.

03:55:18.900 But I feel like the viewers can, like, maybe figure out a minimum.

03:55:23.660 Who've been watching a long time, they can figure out a minimum based on, like, certain

03:55:27.420 details.

03:55:28.080 Like, okay, he's had this many relationships.

03:55:31.360 Here's these girls. 1.00

03:55:32.520 He's encountered, like, these kind of girls. 0.99

03:55:34.740 Even from this conversation tonight, when I told y'all I've encountered certain types

03:55:40.040 of women, y'all can probably figure it out from there. 1.00

03:55:43.800 So you're just telling us you're a slut like that? 1.00

03:55:45.920 No. 1.00

03:55:46.520 No.

03:55:46.700 What if we guess?

03:55:50.180 I, listen, I am not going to answer this question.

03:55:55.820 So, Glosky, body count, you had really strong opinions on it.

03:56:02.200 What you got?

03:56:03.440 What you got for us?

03:56:04.880 My body count?

03:56:06.300 Yeah.

03:56:07.060 I already answered that.

03:56:08.840 I feel like you had more opinions.

03:56:12.940 More opinions?

03:56:13.920 On the body count conversation.

03:56:17.040 On the body count.

03:56:18.040 Oh, okay.

03:56:18.520 Yeah.

03:56:19.460 I think I said everything about it that I wanted to say.

03:56:22.340 I'm just kind of like, I have a lot to think about when I go home because this whole perspective

03:56:28.760 is crazy to me.

03:56:30.440 So, what's crazy about it?

03:56:32.220 So, that it means so much to you and that you view it as this thing.

03:56:38.240 And I don't.

03:56:39.820 So, it's like, it's fascinating.

03:56:42.880 Because we're human.

03:56:44.040 And I mean, it's...

03:56:46.620 Don't you think people are pair bonded for the longest time and generally speaking around

03:56:50.940 the world, that's the norm is that people, for the most part, get married when they're

03:56:56.960 virgins in most cultures around the world.

03:56:59.860 Probably, yeah.

03:57:00.780 I don't know.

03:57:01.460 Yeah.

03:57:01.740 So, that's actually the norm, what we're saying.

03:57:03.960 This is an anomaly.

03:57:04.820 Oh, there is no norm.

03:57:05.760 I don't think there's a good or bad.

03:57:07.400 I just like to hear your perspective on it.

03:57:09.900 Because I thought that Americans and Europeans were quite, like, the same.

03:57:14.800 But, yeah, it's wild.

03:57:16.060 Well, I mean, it just depends who you speak to, really.

03:57:19.300 But it's definitely an anomaly in the world how liberal Western culture is with sex.

03:57:24.540 It's very, very taboo and frowned upon in most other places in the world.

03:57:29.640 Yeah, I can understand that.

03:57:30.660 Any religious community, it's very frowned upon.

03:57:34.080 Yeah.

03:57:34.320 And most people in the world are religious.

03:57:36.400 All the Muslims, all the Christians. 1.00

03:57:38.740 Except for the Colombians. 0.97

03:57:39.960 They're religious, but they just throw it around.

03:57:43.440 You've been to Colombia, Jake?

03:57:44.760 I have.

03:57:45.620 Going back in a few weeks.

03:57:47.060 Interesting.

03:57:48.040 Nice.

03:57:49.300 Wait, but you were starting to say, but we're people.

03:57:52.200 What do you mean by that?

03:57:53.800 Like, I feel like we're kind of like...

03:57:55.700 Like judging?

03:57:56.440 Is that kind of what you mean?

03:57:57.180 No, I mean, like I say, we're the same-ish.

03:58:01.820 As in, I can speak English to you and understand what I'm saying.

03:58:05.360 Because it's kind of like, we can understand each other, but we've grown up so differently

03:58:11.100 that we have such different perspectives on something that's like, it's so different.

03:58:16.020 It's the complete opposite.

03:58:17.160 That's just very fascinating.

03:58:18.280 I don't really understand.

03:58:21.440 It's like agree to disagree kind of thing.

03:58:25.240 But I mean, like, just because we speak the same language, I mean, even in, I mean, for

03:58:33.040 example, politics, right?

03:58:34.420 Even in the Netherlands, there's more conservative politicians.

03:58:39.260 There's super liberal politicians, but they speak the same language.

03:58:42.400 So I'm just, I'm not, I'm a little confused by the, well, we speak the same language, thus

03:58:46.640 we must have identical...

03:58:47.460 Yeah, yeah, don't read too much into it.

03:58:49.120 What I'm trying to say is we're just kind of, we're the same, we're vibing.

03:58:53.600 Most of us are, yeah, it's nice, and we get to meet each other.

03:58:56.640 So it's like, there's a lot of the same things, and we view the world in a lot of the same

03:59:01.620 ways.

03:59:02.420 And I thought we were kind of grown up in the same ways.

03:59:06.060 And now it turns out that there's a few things that are completely opposite.

03:59:09.360 So this is just a completely alien perspective to you, that people should be more conservative

03:59:14.640 with their sexual life.

03:59:14.840 I mean, I only heard it on the podcast.

03:59:16.880 You've never heard that before?

03:59:17.700 That's not something that was familiar to you at all, that people live that way?

03:59:20.200 Only on TV.

03:59:22.260 Yeah.

03:59:22.500 Very interesting.

03:59:23.380 Do you think that it's a positive thing when people pair bond and when people have families?

03:59:27.560 When people what?

03:59:28.400 Pair bond, when people have families and they get together and they have long relationships

03:59:33.500 and marriages and families?

03:59:35.100 If I think it's important.

03:59:35.600 Positive thing?

03:59:36.520 A positive thing.

03:59:37.260 Yeah, I guess so, if that's what you want to do in life.

03:59:40.380 What do you think would happen if everyone stopped doing that?

03:59:43.840 We're kind of screwed, but also times change, so who knows if that will ever happen.

03:59:48.180 But if, just hypothetically, if that happened tomorrow and everyone stopped pair bonding

03:59:51.600 and everyone stopped being, and males and females stopped being attracted to each other

03:59:56.000 and just went away, or on the flip side, if everyone was just having sex and not being

04:00:01.320 in relationships, not having families, not having kids, what do you think would happen

04:00:04.620 to society?

04:00:05.200 Well, it shouldn't be the one extreme or the other extreme.

04:00:09.600 Hypothetically, I mean.

04:00:10.380 Within the hypothetical, what do you think would happen?

04:00:11.860 We would be effed.

04:00:13.820 So then, with that in mind, and when you think about what makes a healthy society, which is

04:00:18.040 nuclear family.

04:00:19.740 You need both.

04:00:20.900 Why do you need promiscuity?

04:00:22.100 Because you need something of everything.

04:00:25.380 Why?

04:00:25.820 Why do you need that?

04:00:26.280 There's people who want to stay single and just...

04:00:28.420 I know people want to, but why do you need it?

04:00:29.420 When we're talking about...

04:00:30.880 This is more of a conversation about duties and about what makes a healthy society rather

04:00:34.820 than what we want, what our desires are.

04:00:37.400 Why do you need promiscuity in a society?

04:00:40.000 Because you need something out of everything.

04:00:41.940 Why?

04:00:42.220 People are different.

04:00:43.200 Why do you need it?

04:00:43.900 Not everyone matches together.

04:00:45.240 I know, but just, is there a reason why?

04:00:47.560 Because I gave you my reason why we need family, because that makes a healthy society, healthy

04:00:52.320 communities.

04:00:53.080 We need to maintain our birth rate.

04:00:54.720 We need to proliferate as a species.

04:00:56.520 Why do we need promiscuity?

04:00:57.980 Because we're human, and we've been doing this since the beginning of time, and it would

04:01:02.020 be bad if that would not be a thing anymore.

04:01:04.140 Do you think it would be bad if people got together young, and they pair bonded, and they

04:01:07.700 had kids and families, and they weren't sleeping around, and there were no STDs, and there

04:01:12.300 were no abortions, and there were no single mothers? 0.68

04:01:15.240 And criminals coming from single mother households, and people on welfare? 0.99

04:01:18.860 Do you think that it would be bad if those things were taken away?

04:01:21.200 It's two extremes.

04:01:22.320 I do think you need a healthy mix of the both of them to make things work.

04:01:26.740 Yeah, it's just funny, because you can't really give a reason why, though.

04:01:29.140 Because you're just saying, we need it because we need it, without much of a reason.

04:01:32.920 Yeah, because people are different.

04:01:33.940 If everyone was the same, and wanted the same thing, that would not really be a good thing.

04:01:38.120 But, yeah, I think you're more talking about what we want.

04:01:41.460 So, people want to have lots of sex, and there are people that want to have lots of sex, 0.97

04:01:46.140 and I think most men out there want to have a lot of sex. 0.57

04:01:48.780 But what we want and what we need are two different things.

04:01:51.540 We need a stable society in order to move forward, in order to have future generations.

04:01:56.920 You also need people who think and act differently.

04:01:58.440 I would say that it's good if everyone is...

04:02:01.940 There are many different aspects of life.

04:02:03.680 For example, people's creativity.

04:02:05.420 We need creative people, and we need more orderly people, more structured people.

04:02:09.580 That is a positive way that we can have diversity in the world.

04:02:13.660 But in terms of this, it's very easy to see the fruits of a society that is very promiscuous,

04:02:19.740 when they have very low birth rates, and when they have high rates of disease, and single mothers, and...

04:02:24.000 That's not always the case.

04:02:25.480 These are extremes, what you're saying right now.

04:02:27.400 But this happens.

04:02:29.320 This happens.

04:02:29.800 It happens right here in America.

04:02:30.900 You look at the African-American community, for example, 75% of kids are born out of wedlock,

04:02:36.840 and are in single-mother households.

04:02:39.200 And then if you look at the statistics of kids who go to single-mother households,

04:02:42.800 they're 20 times more likely to end up being criminals,

04:02:45.520 much more likely to end up being on drugs, because they don't have a father in the home.

04:02:49.980 This is all borne out by statistics.

04:02:53.060 I can't talk about this side of the world.

04:02:54.940 I don't know how things are being planned here, but...

04:02:57.080 I think in Europe, I can say that this works pretty well for us.

04:03:00.520 What does?

04:03:00.900 And I can't see it, like...

04:03:02.640 What works well?

04:03:03.480 If you want to say it, like, vulgarly is the promiscuous thing.

04:03:08.320 It works well in Europe?

04:03:09.920 Yeah.

04:03:10.580 It's super...

04:03:11.540 It's actually really nice, because it makes dating so much easier.

04:03:14.080 Everyone's more relaxed, open-minded, less drama.

04:03:16.380 It makes it easier?

04:03:17.660 Yeah.

04:03:18.060 There's a lot of cultural decadence in Europe, for sure.

04:03:20.860 You guys have a birth rate in countries like Holland that's falling off a cliff.

04:03:26.180 You guys are going to be replaced, because you're not pair-bonding over there.

04:03:30.000 Probably, but times are changing.

04:03:31.320 There's nothing bad about it.

04:03:32.100 No, actually, times are changing.

04:03:32.800 It's going in a really bad direction.

04:03:34.860 Like, the native population of Holland in 100, 200 years will be replaced by Muslims. 1.00

04:03:40.280 And why is that a problem?

04:03:41.800 Well, don't you have any national identity?

04:03:43.860 Don't you have any pride in who you guys are?

04:03:47.000 Well, I can only speak for myself, and I don't...

04:03:49.320 I think that a lot of countries change.

04:03:51.840 A lot of cultures change.

04:03:54.320 So, if it happens because of certain things that we do, then it happens.

04:03:57.580 So, you'd be happy for Dutch people to just fade out of existence? 1.00

04:04:00.180 No, of course not.

04:04:00.880 But what if it happened, though?

04:04:03.860 What if the Dutch people disappeared?

04:04:05.520 I would be very sad.

04:04:07.120 Well, it kind of contradicts a little bit what you said before.

04:04:10.400 Let me ask you a question related to what Jake is saying.

04:04:11.760 It won't be in my lifetime.

04:04:12.780 Do you think...

04:04:13.400 So, like, Japan is...

04:04:14.800 Although this might be changing.

04:04:16.860 Japan is a country that's pretty well known for...

04:04:20.100 Homogeneity? 0.87

04:04:21.020 Yeah, homogeneity.

04:04:21.940 And they don't want a lot of immigration, I believe.

04:04:25.180 Although, maybe it's changing a little bit.

04:04:27.040 It's changing a little bit because their birth rates are so low.

04:04:30.200 It's actually below one now in these places.

04:04:32.760 But I guess my question for you is, would you think that there is anything wrong if Japanese

04:04:37.660 people wanted Japan to remain Japanese?

04:04:41.400 Like, me and Jake, we could move to Japan.

04:04:43.360 We can never become Japanese, right? 0.97

04:04:45.980 Yeah.

04:04:46.440 But do you think there's anything wrong with a country saying, hey, we want our country

04:04:51.120 to remain our...

04:04:53.580 Is it race or ethnicity or I don't know the specific terminology?

04:04:57.220 Me personally, I can't...

04:04:58.580 I can't actually think of any argument that in terms of objecting to Japan wishing to stay

04:05:07.080 Japanese.

04:05:09.180 Sure.

04:05:09.780 Do you think that's wrong, though?

04:05:11.300 No, I honestly do not care about it.

04:05:13.120 But I don't have a say in it.

04:05:14.840 So it is what it is.

04:05:17.240 Okay.

04:05:18.800 By the way, I'm looking here on Twitch.

04:05:21.480 We have Burmese Mountain Tiger who's watching.

04:05:25.480 Burmese Mountain Tiger, can you write a message in the Twitch chat?

04:05:30.260 Because you're a longtime supporter.

04:05:33.340 Maybe you're just...

04:05:34.220 It's in the background.

04:05:34.820 Maybe you stepped away to, you know, do a line of cocaine.

04:05:39.460 I don't know what it is.

04:05:40.540 Can you just write in the chat?

04:05:42.460 I want to see if you're active in the chat or me, Mountain Tiger.

04:05:46.180 Hail and well met.

04:05:48.260 Lol paladins donated $200.02.

04:05:52.260 Jake, you can't force a love of nation onto a woman. 0.97

04:05:55.680 Women have a biological imperative to breed with stronger men. 1.00

04:05:59.660 European men are weed cooks. 1.00

04:06:01.280 She would enjoy being forced to wear the burqa. 1.00

04:06:05.760 I think that a lot of European men are weed cucks. 1.00

04:06:08.680 I think that's very true. 0.97

04:06:11.080 And that's the thing.

04:06:11.900 It's so wild because I think if you would ask Europeans, 1.00

04:06:14.860 they would say the same thing about you.

04:06:16.400 And that's...

04:06:17.320 I think it's really bad.

04:06:18.620 I think there has to be some type of understanding,

04:06:21.620 but it's so far apart.

04:06:22.960 I don't think we'll ever really understand each other.

04:06:23.980 I think that if you want to have a coherent worldview about that

04:06:28.180 and when you want to think about the bigger picture and what's best,

04:06:30.900 you have to be able to explain why you think what you think

04:06:34.040 and why it's okay and why it's okay to just go with what we want

04:06:37.880 and what we desire and what makes us feel nice all the time.

04:06:41.000 Do you know what I mean?

04:06:41.960 And I think that...

04:06:42.500 I don't explain it right.

04:06:44.600 No, I think you just don't really know why you believe that.

04:06:47.980 I think it just feels nice.

04:06:49.100 That's basically what you say.

04:06:50.640 It feels good.

04:06:51.720 It doesn't feel good.

04:06:52.500 We need to make...

04:06:55.340 You can't have one without the other.

04:06:57.120 That's my reason.

04:06:57.800 You haven't made a...

04:06:58.900 Because it doesn't work.

04:07:00.100 What doesn't work?

04:07:00.740 What doesn't work?

04:07:01.340 Do you think that society didn't function well

04:07:03.700 when people were creating families and getting married young?

04:07:07.500 Yeah, there will be people creating families,

04:07:09.000 but there will also be single people that look for other single people.

04:07:12.960 But you're saying that it won't work.

04:07:14.840 You have to justify that claim.

04:07:16.180 Why won't it work?

04:07:17.540 I don't know how else to explain it than that there has to be a mix.

04:07:25.640 Wait, a mix of what?

04:07:27.360 Promiscuity and family structure.

04:07:29.700 Yeah, different people with different views.

04:07:31.900 I thought you meant mix in terms of culture.

04:07:34.820 No, no, no.

04:07:35.620 Groups of people.

04:07:36.660 No, no, no.

04:07:37.280 We got to that because I said that their birth rate is falling off a cliff

04:07:40.520 with the native Dutch people,

04:07:42.540 and they're actually going to get replaced in a few hundred years,

04:07:45.880 and your country will be Muslim eventually. 0.50

04:07:48.660 And she was like,

04:07:49.240 oh, I don't really see the problem with that.

04:07:50.900 And that's where you came in with Japan. 0.72

04:07:53.060 Okay.

04:07:53.760 That was a kind of meta-conversation.

04:07:55.500 Hmm.

04:07:56.120 But, yeah.

04:07:57.540 I just don't really...

04:07:59.160 Like, this is a very new thing,

04:08:00.420 all of this cultural decadence that we're experiencing

04:08:02.680 in the West at the moment

04:08:03.760 where people are just very liberal about it.

04:08:05.860 Oh, we can do what we want. 0.98

04:08:06.900 We can just have all of this sex, 0.88

04:08:08.840 and we can not pair bond.

04:08:10.520 And we're seeing the fruits of that,

04:08:11.720 and it's not good.

04:08:13.120 It's not good at all.

04:08:13.940 The birth rates are literally falling off a cliff,

04:08:16.480 and that's a big problem.

04:08:18.240 And women are getting older and older, 1.00

04:08:20.460 and they're not marrying,

04:08:21.620 and they're pretty becoming depressed about it.

04:08:24.380 Like, in America, 0.54

04:08:25.820 and I think throughout the Western world as well,

04:08:28.220 the amount of antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications

04:08:31.520 that women are taking is obscene.

04:08:35.300 But that doesn't have to do anything with being a mess.

04:08:37.380 It actually does because you can correlate it.

04:08:39.120 You can correlate women who are single and childless

04:08:41.200 in their 40s with antidepressants.

04:08:43.900 What's the rate for men?

04:08:45.600 Much lower than women. 1.00

04:08:48.000 What are the statistics?

04:08:49.820 I don't know off the top of my head,

04:08:51.360 but I'm sure we could look it up.

04:08:53.260 Yeah.

04:08:53.980 But, I mean,

04:08:55.580 I think that, generally speaking,

04:08:58.260 a man can go his whole life

04:09:00.720 just focusing on a career

04:09:02.720 and be reasonably satisfied.

04:09:05.280 It's not optimal, obviously,

04:09:06.620 but if a woman does that, 1.00

04:09:08.000 I think that it's a recipe for a disaster.

04:09:12.560 Just the way that we're biologically wired.

04:09:15.340 Only 40% of men that have ever lived have reproduced.

04:09:19.380 All right, piece in the chat.

04:09:24.340 Do you want to respond to his point, or...?

04:09:26.360 Oh, no, I thought you...

04:09:27.320 No, sorry.

04:09:27.860 I thought you mugged something.

04:09:30.300 So, okay.

04:09:32.120 No, I can't explain it any better

04:09:34.700 than what I already said.

04:09:35.780 Maybe I can't bring it across the way I want it,

04:09:39.620 but to me, it makes a lot of sense.

04:09:42.160 So, but essentially,

04:09:43.420 your position is promiscuity is good.

04:09:45.980 And needed.

04:09:47.080 Is that correct?

04:09:47.560 It's needed.

04:09:48.480 It's needed?

04:09:49.080 But not promiscuity, per se,

04:09:51.860 but different types of people

04:09:53.440 with different types of views are needed, yes.

04:09:55.940 But, okay, so,

04:09:57.700 even if we grant that

04:09:58.780 different types of people

04:09:59.940 with different types of views are needed,

04:10:03.020 what does that...

04:10:03.620 Okay, how does...

04:10:04.620 How is promiscuity needed?

04:10:08.080 What's the purpose?

04:10:08.540 Well, that's kind of how we started the...

04:10:10.400 No, but...

04:10:10.740 Yeah, but what...

04:10:11.340 Okay, so what purpose does it serve?

04:10:15.020 What purpose does it serve?

04:10:16.320 So people can just be their own,

04:10:18.080 and if they want to be more vulgar,

04:10:20.360 then they can.

04:10:21.400 Not everybody wants to marry 0.82

04:10:22.940 and get locked down.

04:10:24.000 People can just be

04:10:24.700 sort of at the whim of their desire.

04:10:26.640 They can do what feels nice.

04:10:27.700 How do you mean?

04:10:29.900 That people can just follow their desires?

04:10:31.840 They can just do what feels good?

04:10:33.680 If that's a priority for them, yeah.

04:10:36.260 Do you think that that's a positive thing, though,

04:10:38.260 to always be attached to your desire

04:10:40.100 rather than your duties and responsibilities?

04:10:43.700 It's not me,

04:10:44.680 but I think for a lot of people,

04:10:45.900 if that's what they want to do

04:10:46.820 and that's what makes them happy

04:10:47.720 and they're not hurting anyone else,

04:10:48.780 it's great.

04:10:49.420 What if you are hurting other people?

04:10:51.480 What if the society as a whole,

04:10:53.480 like the bigger picture that I just painted,

04:10:54.780 is affected by all of this decadence?

04:10:56.980 Not all women want to be breeding machines 1.00

04:10:58.740 and get married, you know?

04:10:59.920 What do you mean by a breeding machine?

04:11:02.380 Like, they don't want to reproduce.

04:11:05.320 Well, what makes them a breeding machine 0.95

04:11:07.480 if they reproduce?

04:11:08.700 It's the primary function of a woman. 1.00

04:11:10.580 Yeah, well, you don't have to.

04:11:12.280 I'm not saying that you have to.

04:11:13.380 You can, unfortunately, not do that

04:11:16.200 if you'd really like to,

04:11:17.720 but it doesn't make you a breeding machine.

04:11:19.220 It just makes you a mother. 0.90

04:11:21.380 It's a beautiful thing.

04:11:22.560 Yeah, it is.

04:11:23.320 It is, yeah.

04:11:24.160 Yeah.

04:11:24.380 So I wouldn't call a woman who has children 1.00

04:11:26.060 a breeding machine.

04:11:27.800 No, it's fair.

04:11:28.980 Yeah, maybe I worded it differently.

04:11:31.160 Yeah, but I think it's kind of a subconscious thing

04:11:33.620 that comes out sometimes

04:11:34.540 because this is the messaging

04:11:35.520 that young women are fed these days

04:11:37.300 is that if you actually view motherhood

04:11:39.640 and being a wife and having a family

04:11:41.740 as something that's aspirational in itself,

04:11:45.060 then you're subjecting yourself

04:11:46.660 to a lower form of purpose.

04:11:48.860 But I don't see that at all.

04:11:50.460 If you have children,

04:11:51.600 and if you're a woman who has children, 1.00

04:11:53.000 three, four, five children,

04:11:53.940 and you send them out into the world

04:11:55.440 and they're good people,

04:11:56.380 it's like the ultimate responsibility.

04:11:58.820 It's difficult to raise good kids.

04:12:01.660 And what if you don't want to have kids then?

04:12:03.560 Like, how is that in your perspective?

04:12:05.260 I'd say that it's a selfish thing to do.

04:12:07.620 I think that we have duties as people.

04:12:09.240 One of those duties is to replace our lineage.

04:12:14.040 It's a selfish, materialistic thing to do.

04:12:16.820 Do you really think that it's bad

04:12:18.640 if you don't want to reproduce?

04:12:19.520 A hundred percent, yeah.

04:12:20.500 You have duties.

04:12:21.560 It's not all about what feels nice in life.

04:12:23.900 Okay, yeah.

04:12:24.880 Yeah.

04:12:25.100 Interesting.

04:12:25.580 Like, for example,

04:12:26.260 your country is a perfect example.

04:12:28.060 You guys are getting replaced. 0.99

04:12:30.020 And if you guys don't have some white babies... 1.00

04:12:32.180 What the fuck? 1.00

04:12:33.560 ...then you're going to be replaced. 1.00

04:12:34.880 There are quite a lot of people in the Netherlands

04:12:38.720 who do have families and go for all of that.

04:12:41.720 But it's going like this, though.

04:12:43.700 Like, if you have mass immigration 0.99

04:12:45.500 of people from the Middle East and Africa,

04:12:48.340 which is happening in the Netherlands at the moment,

04:12:50.440 and they all breed at a much higher rate than you,

04:12:53.100 three, four kids per woman,

04:12:55.020 and the Netherlands has a birth rate of, like, 1.2,

04:12:58.980 then what's going to happen

04:13:00.380 is that you're eventually going to be replaced.

04:13:01.900 And the Dutch people aren't going to exist anymore. 1.00

04:13:05.500 It's going to be an offshoot of the Middle East. 1.00

04:13:09.400 Doesn't that concern you at all?

04:13:10.840 No.

04:13:11.300 There's a lot of countries who won't exist anymore

04:13:13.100 in thousands of years.

04:13:14.600 We won't exist anymore in thousands of years.

04:13:16.220 A country like Holland,

04:13:17.260 it's, like, one of the best countries in the world.

04:13:20.600 You guys have the best farmers in the world.

04:13:22.600 One of the most...

04:13:23.560 Like, the ingenuity in Holland is amazing.

04:13:26.660 You guys build those dikes to keep the water out.

04:13:29.200 Like, you guys are one of the most productive farmers

04:13:31.340 in the whole world.

04:13:32.360 That's not going to remain,

04:13:34.420 especially if your government keeps trying

04:13:36.580 to restrict the farmers.

04:13:38.920 Don't you think that's a problem?

04:13:39.880 Don't you think Holland is good?

04:13:41.260 Dutch people should stay around? 1.00

04:13:43.340 Yeah.

04:13:43.800 Dutch people are awesome.

04:13:45.000 I think, yeah, from my perspective,

04:13:46.520 being around Dutch people are awesome.

04:13:47.740 But still, I stand by what I just said,

04:13:51.340 that I think that lots of different people

04:13:53.300 with different views are still needed.

04:13:54.920 And if that eventually leads to one country dying out,

04:13:58.120 I mean, it's going to happen eventually anyway.

04:13:59.440 But then again, I'm a nihilist, so...

04:14:01.620 Yeah, I can tell.

04:14:02.820 Yeah.

04:14:03.220 You're going to go out with a wimper. 1.00

04:14:06.120 Nihilist.

04:14:08.880 I mean, maybe...

04:14:09.940 So you don't want to have kids, then?

04:14:11.200 Is that...

04:14:12.180 Sorry?

04:14:12.680 You don't want to have kids? 0.87

04:14:15.400 Right now, absolutely not.

04:14:17.140 Sure.

04:14:17.600 I mean, eventually, maybe.

04:14:20.440 I don't know.

04:14:21.420 It's not something I think about.

04:14:22.960 But let's say...

04:14:23.440 Hail and well met.

04:14:26.400 Lol Paladins donated $200.02.

04:14:29.880 Thank you, man.

04:14:30.280 Appreciate it.

04:14:30.500 And there it is.

04:14:31.620 You think the Nazis lost? 0.98

04:14:33.560 Nope.

04:14:34.200 He or she is right in the studio.

04:14:36.280 A woman who would be happy if humans stopped existing. 1.00

04:14:39.740 Should we just go march into the gas chambers to speed it up?

04:14:43.800 Thank you, Lol Paladins. 0.99

04:14:44.820 Damn, that's extreme. 0.99

04:14:46.540 Your response? 1.00

04:14:48.180 My response?

04:14:49.600 I love Paladins.

04:14:51.880 But also, that's very extreme.

04:14:54.540 Like, that's not at all what I'm meant to say.

04:14:55.980 And if it comes across like that, that's really bad.

04:14:57.880 He's being facetious, but he's making a good point, which is that...

04:15:02.240 Old Man Marine donated $100.

04:15:05.520 Is addiction or gluttony needed?

04:15:07.980 Should we not try to civilize ourselves?

04:15:10.860 We are devolving into animalistic desires because we harp on our rights and not duty.

04:15:15.780 Hey, Old Man Marine.

04:15:17.240 Thank you, man.

04:15:17.740 Really appreciate it.

04:15:19.620 Yeah, so Lol Paladins was actually making a good point, which was just to say that why

04:15:24.440 don't we just march ourselves into the gas chambers already?

04:15:26.700 What's the point?

04:15:27.380 I mean, you did say that you're a nihilist, but yeah, it's probably in accordance with

04:15:33.480 your way of thinking. 0.99

04:15:34.960 Why don't we just die? 0.96

04:15:37.020 I'd like to actually have that answered. 1.00

04:15:38.260 Why don't we just die? 0.95

04:15:39.560 Because we don't. 0.97

04:15:40.940 I mean, it's a bit common sense.

04:15:42.120 That's not what I was trying to say, right?

04:15:43.860 We all make the best of it, and some people want to have families, and they want to have

04:15:47.700 10 kids.

04:15:48.180 Fine.

04:15:48.540 Some people don't.

04:15:49.440 They just want to sleep with everyone, which is also fine.

04:15:51.720 I think we should respect both parties, and if eventually that leads to problems in a

04:15:56.940 country, we deal with it then.

04:15:59.100 Humans have always adjusted to any situation that's how we sit here right now.

04:16:03.400 But do we have to respect them?

04:16:06.940 Respect who?

04:16:07.620 Jake, maybe you know this term.

04:16:10.080 Something about tolerance.

04:16:12.520 If you tolerate everything...

04:16:14.480 If you tolerate everything, you stand for nothing.

04:16:17.840 I think there's some specific term for it.

04:16:20.200 I can't...

04:16:20.380 Maybe the chat will know.

04:16:21.420 Chat, something about like the intolerance of tolerance, or the tolerating...

04:16:27.860 I don't know exactly what it is.

04:16:29.700 It's not clear to me, though, if everyone's deserving of respect and certain conduct.

04:16:33.080 But like, I think most...

04:16:34.780 Like, do you think hookup culture is good?

04:16:37.220 Do I think hookup culture is good?

04:16:39.040 Yes.

04:16:40.640 Hookup culture as in people just sleeping around?

04:16:43.200 Yeah, so essentially promiscuity.

04:16:44.860 Is it good?

04:16:46.640 Is it good?

04:16:47.540 I mean, for the teenagers, I guess.

04:16:50.220 Well, I don't even know if it's good for the teenagers.

04:16:52.780 There's a difference between should people be allowed to do something, and is it good?

04:16:59.900 It doesn't have to be good or bad.

04:17:01.360 I think everyone should make the decision for themselves.

04:17:04.080 So like, as a society, right?

04:17:05.400 I can't imagine the United States is ever going to, for example, criminalize having a casual sexual encounter.

04:17:10.920 But as a society, we can still say, this is undesirable conduct.

04:17:15.140 We should try to move away from it.

04:17:16.620 We shouldn't do it.

04:17:17.780 And there should be social shame.

04:17:20.360 So you said, these people still deserve respect.

04:17:22.780 Do they, though?

04:17:23.360 Because if we're not going to criminalize something, the only way that we can enforce, like, certain social values is through social shame.

04:17:31.360 It's shameful to conduct yourself this way.

04:17:34.900 So it's not deserving of respect.

04:17:37.640 If you're a person, whether male or female, and you go out and you sleep with 10 new people a month, I think that this is worthy of social shame.

04:17:47.520 So it comes from a point of keeping something safe.

04:17:52.960 What do you mean?

04:17:53.680 Keeping something safe?

04:17:54.640 Yeah, you're trying to keep...

04:17:55.780 Preserve something.

04:17:56.620 Yeah, maybe that's the right word to say it.

04:17:58.660 Well, you said respect.

04:18:00.080 Yeah.

04:18:00.280 I don't think you...

04:18:01.540 Nobody's owed...

04:18:02.780 Like, respect is earned, right?

04:18:04.780 So this idea that we need to respect people and their beliefs, I kind of disagree.

04:18:10.340 I don't think they're owed respect.

04:18:11.660 I think you should respect everyone.

04:18:13.300 No, I don't think you should respect everyone.

04:18:15.080 I think you should comport yourself in a...

04:18:19.280 Yourself in a respectable manner.

04:18:22.020 And it doesn't mean you need to necessarily insult somebody.

04:18:24.360 But this idea that we need to respect all beliefs, I think, is erroneous.

04:18:30.100 I think there should be...

04:18:33.000 In instances where there's no conceivable way that a law can be passed to police people's conduct,

04:18:40.740 there needs to be social and societal and cultural shame that exists to prevent undesirable conduct in a society.

04:18:51.140 Yeah, it makes a lot of sense with where you're coming from.

04:18:54.780 It's very doable as well because we've done the reverse.

04:18:57.500 Since feminism has really come into the frame in Western society, 1.00

04:19:04.760 there's been a mass propaganda campaign to indoctrinate young women into this liberal way of thinking. 0.89

04:19:10.340 And the reverse is actually possible as well.

04:19:13.240 It just matters about what kind of propaganda is put out there.

04:19:16.800 So it's very doable.

04:19:19.240 Interesting.

04:19:19.940 All right.

04:19:21.400 I'm just glad I don't live here.

04:19:23.140 I'm very happy.

04:19:24.420 Well, I mean, it's degenerate in the United States too.

04:19:27.800 I would do really bad here.

04:19:29.060 I actually think the United States is more degenerate than...

04:19:31.620 Oh, I don't know about where they're from.

04:19:33.740 The Netherlands?

04:19:34.300 I've been to the Netherlands three times.

04:19:37.440 I mean, I feel like in Europe, obviously, each country is different.

04:19:41.640 I actually think in Europe, promiscuity is not nearly as bad as it is in the United States.

04:19:47.380 I think that Europe in general, it's not.

04:19:50.280 But then you're taking into account Eastern Europe and places like Russia and Ukraine and Hungary and more traditional.

04:19:56.600 And then you're also taking into account Turkey, which is a bit more traditional as well.

04:19:59.940 But where they're from in Western Europe, it's like very, very degenerate. 0.99

04:20:04.700 A place like Germany. 0.81

04:20:05.440 Have you ever heard of the Bergheim?

04:20:06.420 I think it's a lot more, less black and white, a lot more nuanced, I think, because I am together with my boyfriend for four years and we're thinking about next steps.

04:20:18.520 And we have a lot of friends around us getting children and growing their families.

04:20:23.880 So that's also in the Netherlands.

04:20:25.620 And then there's also a very free scene.

04:20:27.820 Sorry.

04:20:28.040 I know you're giving your own anecdotal experience. 0.55

04:20:32.000 I don't think Jake is certainly not saying all the women in these countries or all the people in these countries, they're all degenerate. 1.00

04:20:39.240 Obviously, there's people that conduct themselves in a different way.

04:20:42.700 But I mean, to Jake's point, even the Western European countries, I don't think they're as degen and as promiscuous as American women. 0.99

04:20:55.360 I think American women are probably the... 1.00

04:20:59.100 I'm trying to think... 0.91

04:20:59.720 No, UK is the worst.

04:21:00.840 Yeah, England.

04:21:01.700 England? 0.96

04:21:02.240 The UK is the worst. 0.90

04:21:02.900 There's a deal worse than that. 1.00

04:21:03.980 UK is the worst.

04:21:05.200 And then I'd say probably countries like Germany and Netherlands are pretty bad. 0.72

04:21:10.240 I think German women are pretty... 1.00

04:21:11.980 Like, you compare a German woman to an American woman?

04:21:15.940 The only reason I say that, though, is because America is still a very Christian country. 0.96

04:21:19.120 And in the more rural places, you do get...

04:21:23.220 Like, these places are very Christian.

04:21:24.360 When you get to the cities, like at Los Angeles and New York and Miami and places like this, they're probably the most degenerate places in the world.

04:21:32.140 But America still has that Christian core, which I think is holding the ship up. 1.00

04:21:35.280 Is it the majority, though?

04:21:36.900 I feel like the lib agnostic atheist is the majority now in the United States.

04:21:43.820 But I mean, I think... 0.94

04:21:45.560 Like, you look at your average German woman versus your average American woman, I'm pretty sure the average American woman is more promiscuous than the average German woman. 0.99

04:21:54.200 Dude, if you go to Berlin, honestly, it's terrible.

04:21:57.020 I feel like European women, and that's obviously very broad in general, seem to conduct themselves a bit more uprightly than their American counterparts. 0.69

04:22:09.400 I think they're smarter.

04:22:10.820 I don't know about England.

04:22:12.500 You're probably right about England. 0.97

04:22:14.020 They're probably slags or whatever they call them. 1.00

04:22:15.620 But, man, you go out for a night out in Liverpool or Manchester? 1.00

04:22:19.440 Oh, England's fucked. 0.99

04:22:20.980 But, like, continental Europe? 1.00

04:22:23.680 I'm pretty sure, like, continental European women... 1.00

04:22:27.440 Hmm, Scandinavia's kind of fucked. 1.00

04:22:29.000 Hold on, let me think about this. 1.00

04:22:29.840 Look, it's very feminist over there. 1.00

04:22:31.660 Why are you so negative about...

04:22:32.920 About what?

04:22:33.740 That people are a bit more free.

04:22:35.640 It's kind of...

04:22:35.940 Free?

04:22:36.820 Are you free or are you slave?

04:22:39.460 What? 1.00

04:22:39.660 That was some fucking fifth grade tweet, fucking Jaden Smith tweet shit. 1.00

04:22:47.200 But it's, like... 1.00

04:22:47.920 Perfect question.

04:22:48.820 But I think it's nice that people are free to experience...

04:22:53.540 You mean a slave to your base primal animal urges?

04:22:58.720 It depends what you mean by free, though.

04:23:01.120 Well, there's less shame if you want to experiment or go to Bergenheim.

04:23:05.740 I've never been, but I've heard stories.

04:23:07.780 Just for those who don't know, the Berghain is this club in Berlin

04:23:12.740 where people go and you're not allowed to have your phones on you

04:23:16.360 or anything like that, and everyone's dressed up really freaky

04:23:18.700 and they're all having sex in the different rooms, 0.99

04:23:20.680 and there's a guy who's famous for getting his mouth peed in there. 0.99

04:23:23.980 What the?

04:23:24.480 He's, like, he hangs out...

04:23:25.320 I've never been here, by the way.

04:23:26.140 What?

04:23:26.640 He hangs out in the toilet and he puts his face under 0.97

04:23:29.420 and people pee in his mouth. 0.97

04:23:30.660 This is a real guy.

04:23:31.840 And this is what they do.

04:23:33.520 But this is the logical conclusion of being free,

04:23:36.420 of people being able to explore whatever they want to do.

04:23:41.340 You end up...

04:23:43.840 That's one guy you said.

04:23:45.840 One guy.

04:23:46.700 God.

04:23:47.580 You know?

04:23:48.340 I never heard that story.

04:23:50.260 Interesting.

04:23:52.000 No, I don't know.

04:23:53.680 I think it's good that people can...

04:23:55.840 Revive the Patriarchy donated $100.

04:23:59.780 The reason depression and anxiety is high in the West

04:24:04.080 is due to lack of purpose and discipline.

04:24:06.640 The West is committed to self-destructive hedonism and self-shame.

04:24:10.940 Face the mirror and accountability.

04:24:15.400 Revive the Patriarchy. 0.86

04:24:16.800 Great name, man.

04:24:17.520 Really appreciate the message.

04:24:19.740 But that's the thing.

04:24:20.860 There is also purpose and discipline.

04:24:22.680 Because once you go for a relationship,

04:24:28.260 then you can have the commitment that you want.

04:24:31.100 Yeah.

04:24:31.460 But it's kind of a risk, isn't it?

04:24:33.320 Because if you go until your sort of late 20s, early 30s,

04:24:36.840 and you just do what you want, you're free,

04:24:38.720 you're much less likely to pair bond when you're in your 30s.

04:24:41.960 And you're much less likely to have kids as well.

04:24:44.060 And if you do have kids after 35 or whatever,

04:24:46.360 they're much more likely to have conditions as well.

04:24:48.980 So there's a lot of risk involved.

04:24:51.900 So you can say that it's good and it might be fun.

04:24:55.220 I'll be the first to admit that it can be fun.

04:24:57.540 But is it right?

04:25:00.160 Is it what's best for society?

04:25:01.960 That's the question.

04:25:03.220 For people to be free.

04:25:06.060 And also, what is freedom?

04:25:07.480 What does that even mean?

04:25:09.540 What do you think freedom means? 1.00

04:25:10.880 Free to suck a dick. 1.00

04:25:14.680 I'm curious what you mean by freedom. 1.00

04:25:17.080 Do you think that people actually want to be free?

04:25:18.980 Well, I don't know.

04:25:21.480 I was just listening to the whole story.

04:25:24.240 And I think you were talking about shaming people

04:25:28.140 and body counts and stuff like that.

04:25:31.120 And personally, I think, of course, it matters.

04:25:34.460 I don't think I would date a guy that has a body count over 100 or 50.

04:25:38.600 But if other people don't have a problem with them,

04:25:44.620 then why would you shame them for it?

04:25:46.640 Like, we have to look at ourselves and what we want.

04:25:49.520 And if I want someone with a low body count,

04:25:51.900 then I look for someone with a low body count.

04:25:53.660 And if she enjoys life and has a high body count

04:25:58.820 and doesn't see a problem, then why would we shame her for that? 0.78

04:26:01.520 Well, because we have to live in the same society as people.

04:26:04.500 And we have to create a societal standard.

04:26:07.880 And it does affect us.

04:26:09.460 But people are different.

04:26:10.780 I understand that.

04:26:11.720 But I think that people are also reasonably malleable

04:26:14.760 in the way that we conduct ourselves.

04:26:18.020 For example, in America, they've got this big thing

04:26:20.040 where you have these transgender people 1.00

04:26:22.100 who are reading kids' stories in school.

04:26:24.460 And there's all this indoctrination

04:26:25.760 into this sexual ideology happening in schools in America.

04:26:29.080 That's the logical conclusion of freedom.

04:26:31.820 Because if you believe in freedom over anything,

04:26:33.800 then why is that wrong?

04:26:34.940 You can't really make a case for why that's wrong.

04:26:37.240 But if you believe in that that's something that should be...

04:26:39.260 Do you believe that that's something

04:26:40.080 that should be stigmatized and shamed?

04:26:42.900 There should be a rule set in place for that.

04:26:45.320 Yeah. Why?

04:26:46.080 I think personally.

04:26:46.860 But why?

04:26:49.420 Because, moncatios,

04:26:51.900 you shouldn't mix children with certain things.

04:26:55.680 Why not?

04:26:56.860 Well, there's many reasons why you shouldn't do that.

04:26:59.080 It's not good for their brains, first of all.

04:27:02.260 But you're a nihilist, though.

04:27:03.500 So, like, why...

04:27:04.300 No, I'm not going to get deep into the philosophy with you.

04:27:07.240 Yeah, just thinking about the future.

04:27:08.640 I mean, the kids, they are the future, right?

04:27:10.820 So you can't brainwash them from a young age.

04:27:13.000 But that's a whole different topic.

04:27:14.260 Like, I don't really know what the deal is.

04:27:16.460 Like, I've seen it on TV.

04:27:18.600 What if they want to?

04:27:19.040 What if they want to read it?

04:27:20.700 What if the storyteller wants to read it?

04:27:23.180 What if the kids want to read it?

04:27:24.260 The kids want to read it.

04:27:25.620 I think they should ask their parents first.

04:27:27.860 Yeah?

04:27:28.400 And what if their parents say, 1.00

04:27:29.300 that's fine, you can go read that book about oral sex, 1.00

04:27:31.880 my 11-year-old? 1.00

04:27:33.000 Should that be okay?

04:27:34.180 No, it should be, like, maybe 14 or something.

04:27:37.740 So then you're saying at least there should be

04:27:39.380 some sort of shame and stigma attached to sexuality?

04:27:42.780 There should be some rules.

04:27:43.380 Some rules set in place, especially when it comes to children.

04:27:47.740 Do you think that maybe that's because we don't want the next generation of children 1.00

04:27:51.300 who are going to go out into the workforce and going to have families, etc.,

04:27:55.040 because we don't want them to be degenerates?

04:27:58.060 Well, you call it degenerate.

04:27:59.360 It sounds so negative.

04:28:00.820 I just view it as people with different priorities, standpoints, lifestyles.

04:28:05.880 There's no good or bad in that.

04:28:07.660 Do you think that it's bad to be a serial killer?

04:28:10.660 Well, that's common sense.

04:28:12.120 Why?

04:28:12.940 Because you're hurting other people.

04:28:15.260 You said there's no good or bad?

04:28:16.760 You're hurting other people.

04:28:17.920 So obviously there's exceptions.

04:28:20.980 But don't you think that if you're one of these people

04:28:23.180 who's reading books to kids,

04:28:25.160 you're also hurting other people?

04:28:28.600 No, that depends.

04:28:29.600 Because then it's about the parents and the child, right?

04:28:33.440 So what they decide to do is best, then they should follow that.

04:28:36.120 But what if it hurts the child?

04:28:38.480 Well, I hope it won't hurt the child.

04:28:40.200 I don't know what they're doing, but reading a book to the child's work.

04:28:42.760 You could quantify it pretty easily and say that children shouldn't be exposed

04:28:45.760 to overly sexual material and that it does hurt children.

04:28:50.220 No, it depends on how young they are.

04:28:51.700 I mean, they do get such education here in America as well, right?

04:28:56.760 But this is not sexual education.

04:28:58.640 This is like sexual indoctrination of kids.

04:29:00.860 And it's happening on a pretty broad scale over here.

04:29:04.120 But I think to get to the meat and potatoes of it,

04:29:06.860 it's to say that some things should be shamed in society.

04:29:09.700 And it just matters where you draw that line.

04:29:11.760 And what we're saying is that the line should be drawn way before

04:29:14.420 where it is at the moment.

04:29:16.280 And what you're saying is that people should be able to be free

04:29:18.500 to do whatever they want.

04:29:19.620 Yeah, our lines are we off 100%.

04:29:20.860 But what you're saying is that if I'm not hurting anybody else,

04:29:25.860 but you are hurting other people

04:29:27.460 because you have to live in the same society as people.

04:29:29.720 and then my kids have to go to the same school as your kids

04:29:33.400 and I have to see you guys around

04:29:35.040 and then my kids have to watch these gay pride parades

04:29:37.280 happening in the middle of the street 1.00

04:29:38.360 with these naked men with their penises out dancing in front of them. 1.00

04:29:41.700 That affects me. 0.99

04:29:42.820 And that's the consequence of liberalism

04:29:44.200 and of this freedom that you guys talk about.

04:29:47.120 And perhaps you haven't thought about the logical conclusion of it

04:29:49.220 because in your life you don't do anything...

04:29:51.840 I mean, OnlyFans, it's pretty heinous, but...

04:29:54.480 You know, perhaps you haven't thought about the logical conclusion of it,

04:29:56.880 but it does affect other people who you live in the society with.

04:30:00.640 I would disagree

04:30:02.900 because, like, Amsterdam is obviously known

04:30:06.460 for the most amazing gay pride

04:30:09.480 and we bring children back.

04:30:12.600 But it's a different type of introduction.

04:30:13.920 Revive the Patriarchy donated $100.01.

04:30:17.840 There is no discipline in the West.

04:30:19.580 It is beaten out of our children

04:30:21.320 as during Drag Queen Story Hour.

04:30:24.260 Discipline is doing what you hate

04:30:25.760 but doing it like you love it, Mike Tyson.

04:30:28.460 I believe that's Grid One Motorsports.

04:30:30.940 Revive the Patriarchy. 0.86

04:30:32.560 Hey, dude, thank you.

04:30:33.680 Good to see you in the chat, man.

04:30:34.700 Thank you for the message.

04:30:36.900 I do got to move things on a little bit here,

04:30:39.500 but that was an interesting little comment.

04:30:43.260 I did want to get into

04:30:46.440 more of the pre-show notes here from you.

04:30:50.400 So you said you met a guy on Tinder

04:30:52.700 and you let him tattoo your booty on the first date.

04:30:57.820 So, like, what...

04:30:59.500 I'm curious, like, what happened there?

04:31:02.240 That's kind of...

04:31:03.180 That's crazy.

04:31:04.160 Yeah.

04:31:04.660 That's crazy.

04:31:05.140 When did it happen?

04:31:07.180 I think it was, like, seven years ago or something.

04:31:10.780 It was just...

04:31:11.760 I'm very spontaneous,

04:31:12.860 so I had this idea in mind.

04:31:14.820 And, yeah, it was fun.

04:31:16.360 It was just fun activity.

04:31:17.060 What was the tattoo?

04:31:18.940 Stay wild.

04:31:20.260 Stay wild? 0.95

04:31:23.920 Did you guys have sex afterwards or before? 0.91

04:31:28.120 Maybe both. 0.93

04:31:30.400 Okay.

04:31:31.740 And you said...

04:31:32.600 Oh, he was not a tattoo artist.

04:31:34.740 No.

04:31:35.660 And he did the tattoo?

04:31:37.320 Yeah.

04:31:39.580 Did it come out good?

04:31:42.180 Well, it's not an art piece,

04:31:44.920 but I do love it

04:31:46.060 because of the story behind it,

04:31:48.380 and it suits me,

04:31:49.320 and I think it's kind of cute,

04:31:50.520 so I'm still happy with it, yeah.

04:31:52.340 Okay.

04:31:53.080 You said you moved to...

04:31:54.460 You moved countries to be with a guy

04:31:56.200 you met on Tinder,

04:31:57.040 but unfortunately it didn't work out.

04:31:59.680 Yeah, that's the guy.

04:32:00.680 That's the tattoo guy.

04:32:01.640 And now you're stuck in that country?

04:32:03.820 Oh, Norway?

04:32:04.540 Yeah.

04:32:05.860 Oh, so these are like older notes then

04:32:07.660 because you're not stuck there anymore.

04:32:09.840 No.

04:32:10.280 Well, it moved two weeks ago, so...

04:32:11.820 Okay, but so you moved to...

04:32:13.460 Wait, so the tattoo guy,

04:32:14.820 you met him on Tinder.

04:32:15.900 Yeah.

04:32:16.140 He was on holiday in an L.O.N.S.

04:32:19.380 Base Taste donated $100.

04:32:22.220 Hey, thank you, man.

04:32:22.580 Long-time viewer,

04:32:23.840 but only occasional.

04:32:25.360 Four-plus hours is long.

04:32:27.320 God bless you all,

04:32:28.320 and may you all find him if you haven't.

04:32:30.960 May Mason recover fully.

04:32:32.260 Mm-hmm.

04:32:32.760 Brian, go on more IRL stream walks.

04:32:35.820 Lose the dumpy.

04:32:37.360 Tongue.

04:32:38.480 We gotta do some more IRL streams, man.

04:32:41.200 I gotta walk around some more.

04:32:43.120 Yeah, Base Taste.

04:32:43.980 Thank you for the TTS, man.

04:32:45.560 So, okay, you met this guy on Tinder.

04:32:47.080 You let him tattoo you on the first date,

04:32:49.000 your booty,

04:32:50.440 and it was a statewide tattoo.

04:32:52.360 So, how long did you date him or whatever?

04:32:57.780 Because you said it didn't work out.

04:32:58.720 Yeah, like three years.

04:33:00.140 Oh, you dated him for three years.

04:33:01.540 Yeah.

04:33:02.040 But then you were stuck in Norway.

04:33:03.520 Yeah.

04:33:04.440 I see.

04:33:05.200 Like you were in the basement or something?

04:33:09.860 What?

04:33:10.400 Like you were tied up in the basement?

04:33:11.740 Well, no.

04:33:12.480 It just didn't work out.

04:33:13.840 We just split up,

04:33:16.300 and he moved to Singapore,

04:33:17.860 and I was in Norway,

04:33:19.560 and I was like,

04:33:19.960 what do I want to do?

04:33:21.280 Do I not want to stay?

04:33:22.460 Was he a passport bro?

04:33:24.140 A what?

04:33:24.780 You said he went to Singapore,

04:33:25.940 so maybe he was trying to get some...

04:33:28.680 He went there for work.

04:33:30.780 Oh, okay.

04:33:31.920 You said you were in an abusive relationship

04:33:33.880 for six years with a guy you met on YouTube.

04:33:36.500 Yeah.

04:33:37.040 Oh, sorry.

04:33:42.180 Abusive?

04:33:43.440 Yeah. 0.99

04:33:45.720 It sucked. 0.88

04:33:46.720 I don't want to say too much about it. 0.87

04:33:48.140 How soon into the relationship

04:33:49.340 did he allegedly abuse you?

04:33:52.760 It was, I think, like a year in.

04:33:54.900 It went really slow,

04:33:56.100 and my friends and family

04:33:58.840 tried to warn me then,

04:34:00.380 but it was all sugar-coated with,

04:34:02.200 no, just want to try to keep you safe.

04:34:04.740 So I was like,

04:34:05.460 oh, he loves me so much.

04:34:06.500 This is amazing.

04:34:07.520 How was he abusive?

04:34:09.400 I don't want to talk about that.

04:34:11.320 Can you say...

04:34:12.300 No.

04:34:12.460 Was it physical, emotional abuse?

04:34:14.840 Yes.

04:34:14.900 But all of the above?

04:34:16.280 Yeah.

04:34:18.280 Why didn't you leave?

04:34:21.080 That's a very good question,

04:34:22.420 and I think you would never understand

04:34:23.720 unless you're in a situation like that,

04:34:25.960 but they take over your life,

04:34:28.240 and you're stuck,

04:34:29.120 and you're not allowed to leave.

04:34:30.500 So it's very...

04:34:32.220 So you were trapped in...

04:34:33.440 Greenwashy.

04:34:34.060 Trapped in the basement, or...?

04:34:36.380 No.

04:34:37.420 Well, we lived together for a long time.

04:34:39.180 I just don't, like...

04:34:43.340 I understand that it's hard to leave a partner.

04:34:48.000 I get that.

04:34:49.240 But I just don't understand this whole, like...

04:34:53.300 It's...

04:34:55.560 They make it impossible to leave.

04:34:57.760 Like, I just don't really understand that whole thing.

04:35:01.260 Maybe somebody can explain it to me.

04:35:02.920 Yeah.

04:35:03.560 So let's say we live together, right?

04:35:06.420 But I'm abusive towards you,

04:35:08.680 and you say,

04:35:09.540 Yeah, I don't want this anymore.

04:35:10.740 I want you to leave,

04:35:11.780 or I want to leave.

04:35:12.360 But we, like, got the apartment together,

04:35:14.540 and you have nowhere else to go.

04:35:15.760 And I say,

04:35:16.160 No, you can't leave.

04:35:17.740 And I lock the door.

04:35:21.220 What are you going to do?

04:35:21.940 Jump out of the window?

04:35:23.300 And where are you going to go?

04:35:24.300 Sleep on the streets?

04:35:25.940 So that's what he did then?

04:35:27.680 Yeah.

04:35:31.440 So...

04:35:31.840 You're saying you were essentially kidnapped, or...?

04:35:35.380 I don't want to call it that.

04:35:36.640 So he never left the house?

04:35:40.040 Yeah, he did.

04:35:42.220 But where are you...

04:35:42.400 And he, like, did he hammer the door with wood,

04:35:46.380 so you couldn't open the door?

04:35:47.960 No, I went out.

04:35:48.720 So you could leave.

04:35:49.240 I went grocery shopping and all that stuff.

04:35:50.800 It was not like I was stuck in a house.

04:35:52.700 Okay, so he didn't prevent you from leaving?

04:35:55.220 No, no, no.

04:35:55.980 Well, at times.

04:35:58.280 Okay.

04:35:59.300 You mean, like, you guys...

04:36:00.140 You can physically leave,

04:36:01.060 but you can't mentally leave.

04:36:02.080 He won't let you.

04:36:05.840 Well, you're not dating him anymore,

04:36:08.220 so he let you?

04:36:11.140 Yeah, I'm not going to get into that,

04:36:12.480 but it got really dangerous, yeah.

04:36:14.000 All right.

04:36:14.400 I mean, that's fair enough.

04:36:16.300 Sometimes I'm a little confused by these stories, though,

04:36:19.600 where it's like, well, the abuse started,

04:36:21.180 you said it started one year in,

04:36:22.980 and you stayed with him for six years.

04:36:26.040 It's very hard to understand.

04:36:27.540 Like, before this happened to me,

04:36:28.920 I was also like, you can't just leave.

04:36:30.360 What's the problem?

04:36:31.080 Just walk out the door.

04:36:32.360 But it's different once you're brainwashed

04:36:34.400 and you're in it.

04:36:36.400 I mean, doesn't this take away some accountability from you?

04:36:40.460 Like, I was brainwashed.

04:36:42.640 There's nothing I could do.

04:36:44.320 I was abusive.

04:36:45.860 Or he was abusive.

04:36:46.720 I mean.

04:36:53.160 What do you mean?

04:36:55.040 I mean, you're putting all the blame on him.

04:36:59.100 But, again, I'll even grant or acknowledge

04:37:02.760 that there are situations that are more difficult to exit than others.

04:37:07.360 But it's like, you were allowed.

04:37:11.860 Like, I've heard stories of women where they're like, 1.00

04:37:14.320 they weren't even allowed to leave the house.

04:37:16.720 But you said you could go shopping.

04:37:18.880 You could, he would leave.

04:37:21.220 Like, obviously, there's degrees to abuse.

04:37:24.720 But, like, the way you're painting it is, like,

04:37:27.200 he would always stay at the house,

04:37:29.080 and I can never go out.

04:37:30.660 And he would, he boarded up the doors.

04:37:33.740 Well, it's not like that, no.

04:37:35.940 Okay.

04:37:36.420 It's not like physically you're not allowed to leave,

04:37:38.780 but you're not allowed to leave the relationship.

04:37:40.340 Maybe that's a better way to put it.

04:37:41.840 So how did you, I mean, you might,

04:37:43.480 you're probably just going to say I can't answer it,

04:37:44.800 but how did you leave the relationship?

04:37:47.200 Did you just break up with him?

04:37:48.800 I'm not going to answer that.

04:37:49.900 Is it, it's just confusing.

04:37:51.420 It's like, okay.

04:37:52.380 Hail and well met.

04:37:54.240 Lol Paladins donated $100.02.

04:37:58.040 Nah, I called it.

04:37:59.680 She wants a man to control her life. 0.99

04:38:02.000 She'd be proud to have the Dutch men be replaced with Muslims. 1.00

04:38:05.360 She wants to wear the burqa. 0.99

04:38:06.900 Yo, Lol Paladins.

04:38:09.860 Thank you, man.

04:38:10.220 Appreciate it.

04:38:10.720 Anyways, look, I'm not going to try to dig too deep here,

04:38:13.120 but I just, you said you guys lived together

04:38:15.260 and you had a lease together.

04:38:16.940 I can acknowledge that, yeah,

04:38:18.980 there's going to be some financial ramifications

04:38:21.360 if you like break your lease,

04:38:23.340 but you could just break the lease.

04:38:29.600 Like, is that what was keeping you there?

04:38:31.240 Because you had a lease?

04:38:32.760 People break leases all the time.

04:38:35.700 Okay, you break the lease,

04:38:36.720 and then where are you going to go?

04:38:39.860 Aren't you a boss babe career woman? 1.00

04:38:42.100 You don't, you weren't,

04:38:43.120 were you making your own money?

04:38:44.320 Were you working?

04:38:44.640 I was 17.

04:38:48.320 Was family in the picture?

04:38:50.520 Not for this situation, no.

04:38:53.980 Are your parents,

04:38:54.800 were your parents still together at the time?

04:38:56.960 No.

04:38:59.680 Were, were you previously living with your parents?

04:39:03.760 Yes.

04:39:05.980 Well, so there's some accountability here.

04:39:07.780 You opted to move out of your parents' house at 17.

04:39:10.640 Did he force you to move in with him?

04:39:12.480 No, that, it was great.

04:39:14.640 Before we moved in.

04:39:15.980 But I don't really want to talk about this situation.

04:39:19.400 There's no use to it.

04:39:20.160 There's no, yeah.

04:39:23.040 Okay, all right.

04:39:24.720 You said you were involved in the BDSM scene,

04:39:28.740 and that you've heard crazy stories

04:39:31.160 like slaves running through the forest

04:39:32.840 and men trying to catch them.

04:39:35.540 I'm not going to talk about that other part, but.

04:39:39.180 Okay, that's, all right.

04:39:41.220 You were on a dating show on Dutch television

04:39:43.380 where they put you together with a random guy in the house.

04:39:46.080 Big brother vibes.

04:39:47.220 Yeah.

04:39:48.220 Okay.

04:39:50.440 Still get messages from that to this day.

04:39:52.660 It was great.

04:39:53.200 We played World of Warcraft together.

04:39:54.840 Great vibe, but not the right person.

04:39:57.480 You said that you broke up with your high school boyfriend

04:39:59.840 on Valentine's Day

04:40:00.760 because he said you were playing too much World of Warcraft?

04:40:03.420 Yeah.

04:40:03.660 When was this?

04:40:06.700 2001?

04:40:08.040 I don't know how old I was.

04:40:10.740 2009?

04:40:11.580 2010?

04:40:12.520 I don't know.

04:40:13.240 Well, you're 31, so.

04:40:15.420 I was way young.

04:40:16.560 Obviously, I wouldn't do that to this day,

04:40:18.360 but it's just.

04:40:18.740 It's probably like TBC or Wrath, maybe?

04:40:23.360 Classic TBC, yeah.

04:40:24.680 It's probably TBC.

04:40:26.260 Burning Crusade. 0.90

04:40:28.200 You said you had sex with a game master 0.88

04:40:30.300 to get a higher ranking in which game? 1.00

04:40:32.180 Yeah, that's a really fucked up story. 0.96

04:40:34.480 Which game? 0.99

04:40:35.580 I won't say.

04:40:36.880 Why not?

04:40:37.720 No, because I don't want to.

04:40:40.080 How do you say?

04:40:41.000 How long ago was it?

04:40:41.840 10 years ago?

04:40:42.900 It was a long time ago, but.

04:40:44.740 What game was it?

04:40:45.700 No, I'm not going to tell.

04:40:46.700 And it's very Monka TOS,

04:40:48.360 because I was underage at that time.

04:40:52.680 It was a TBC era.

04:40:57.140 Oh, wait.

04:40:57.960 So it was World of Warcraft.

04:40:59.480 Yeah.

04:41:02.340 Just to give you an idea of how old I was.

04:41:09.700 Like arena?

04:41:12.340 Like PvP arena?

04:41:13.660 I won't say.

04:41:15.120 Well, I mean, that would be the only way you could. 1.00

04:41:16.380 What the fuck? 0.99

04:41:18.960 Yeah, it was crazy. 1.00

04:41:19.840 At that time, I thought it was really cool,

04:41:21.300 but now I realize I should have gone to the police instead.

04:41:26.380 Oh, he was like older?

04:41:28.500 Yikes.

04:41:29.100 Yeah.

04:41:29.240 Okay.

04:41:29.760 All right.

04:41:30.280 Yeah, that's probably not.

04:41:32.120 Not the right topic. 0.85

04:41:34.680 You had sex for a,

04:41:37.660 removing like the whole age thing or whatever. 0.99

04:41:39.260 You had sex so that you could get like a rank in World of Warcraft. 0.93

04:41:43.060 Oh, man. 1.00

04:41:45.920 That's crazy.

04:41:47.580 Yeah.

04:41:47.800 Did he give you some gold too?

04:41:50.080 So long ago, I don't remember.

04:41:51.560 Did he give you some gold?

04:41:53.640 Did he give you Martin Fury?

04:41:55.860 No, I didn't get anything crazy like that. 0.96

04:41:58.260 It was something really stupid, but I felt amazing. 0.88

04:42:01.520 I was like, wow, this is great. 0.95

04:42:02.760 I can achieve things like this. 0.98

04:42:04.060 That was a really fucked up situation, yeah. 0.93

04:42:05.960 You said you also have strong feelings about marriage, 0.98

04:42:08.460 so I assume you're like not in favor of marriage.

04:42:10.500 I am anti-marriage, yes. 0.97

04:42:11.900 Okay.

04:42:12.320 No objections from me.

04:42:13.300 Yeah.

04:42:14.640 You think OnlyFans creators get too much hate.

04:42:17.200 You're on OnlyFans 2, and I want to stick up for them.

04:42:19.980 Yeah.

04:42:21.840 Okay.

04:42:22.400 I don't know.

04:42:23.400 We already kind of talked about sex work bad.

04:42:25.600 I don't know if there's much else there.

04:42:27.400 Yeah.

04:42:27.720 What do you think about the OnlyFans girls who have typers and chatters? 1.00

04:42:40.880 Do you think that's justified hate?

04:42:43.020 Who have what?

04:42:44.280 Typer?

04:42:46.220 What?

04:42:46.900 Chatter? 0.65

04:42:47.580 Typer?

04:42:48.500 What is that?

04:42:50.360 You don't know about this?

04:42:52.100 Bots?

04:42:52.500 Yeah, like AI.

04:42:53.920 They either use AI software,

04:42:56.300 or they hire people to talk to their fans.

04:42:58.800 Into the mic.

04:42:59.360 Sorry.

04:43:00.380 They either get an AI software to talk to the fans

04:43:05.080 so that they don't have to,

04:43:06.320 or they hire people to do it for them

04:43:08.960 instead of actually personally interacting.

04:43:11.100 Oh, yeah, yeah.

04:43:11.960 Like on OnlyFans are talking, right?

04:43:13.680 Yeah.

04:43:14.040 So you're not actually talking to the real person.

04:43:15.640 Yeah, that's scammy.

04:43:18.660 Wait, was the guy a YouTuber?

04:43:20.340 Just curious.

04:43:22.020 The guy?

04:43:22.980 The six-year guy?

04:43:24.520 Yeah.

04:43:26.300 Never dating someone from YouTube again.

04:43:31.580 Okay.

04:43:32.680 Let's see.

04:43:33.560 We have Viev?

04:43:35.840 Viev?

04:43:36.420 How do you say that?

04:43:37.480 Viev.

04:43:38.340 You have your master's in anthropology.

04:43:41.280 That's cool.

04:43:42.400 You consider yourself liberal politically.

04:43:46.040 And you say you consider yourself

04:43:47.840 a combination of feminist and traditional. 0.79

04:43:51.220 You like equity over equality.

04:43:53.020 What is, so, I mean, two separate things there.

04:43:56.760 When you say you're a combination of feminist and traditional, 0.98

04:43:59.420 what does that mean?

04:44:00.060 Um, I think some feminists go really far in the whole equal, 1.00

04:44:06.500 uh, being equal, like having exactly the same role.

04:44:11.040 But I do think that feminists is about respecting each other 1.00

04:44:14.980 and feeling that people are, uh, worth the same.

04:44:20.900 And I believe that women should not have to be questioned

04:44:25.640 for being in an office room

04:44:27.660 and have to explain why they're there,

04:44:29.780 even though a man walks in and that's all right.

04:44:32.600 But at the same time, I think, uh,

04:44:34.860 men should be able to show their emotions

04:44:37.240 and be not frowned upon when they do.

04:44:40.320 So, I, I, I just think people should be more together.

04:44:45.100 Do you need to be a feminist to... 1.00

04:44:47.960 That's how I thought the definition from feminist is, 0.99

04:44:51.800 to, to, uh, believe that one is not above the other.

04:44:55.820 But I do think that it's more about equity

04:44:59.000 where we have different roles

04:45:00.400 because biological men and women are different.

04:45:03.820 But respect-wise, not one is above the other.

04:45:07.900 That's interesting.

04:45:09.220 And relationships should be a partnership.

04:45:11.280 Well, let's go around the table on this.

04:45:12.580 Do you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

04:45:16.080 Um, I guess so.

04:45:18.080 It's like loving women, expecting our rights. 1.00

04:45:21.440 Is it all about equality, though?

04:45:23.440 Uh...

04:45:23.920 I thought it was just, like, supporting women.

04:45:26.740 So, I'll just give this definition.

04:45:28.480 So, feminism is, uh, uh, I suppose, 1.00

04:45:32.860 pursuit of equality with a rejection of patriarchy.

04:45:38.900 Rejection of patriarchy?

04:45:40.100 Rejection of patriarchy.

04:45:41.000 That's the definition?

04:45:41.980 To reject patriarchy?

04:45:42.760 I mean, look, there's different definitions of feminism. 1.00

04:45:45.700 Uh...

04:45:46.380 I don't...

04:45:49.000 My definition...

04:45:50.300 I mean, my definition of feminism is it's a, uh... 1.00

04:45:55.100 At best, a woman's advocacy movement. 0.98

04:45:57.900 At worst, and what it actually is,

04:46:00.300 is a man-hating ideology

04:46:02.480 intended to divide the sexes 1.00

04:46:04.520 and destroy the nuclear family.

04:46:06.400 But that's my definition.

04:46:08.620 And that is the feminism I didn't like. 1.00

04:46:10.220 That's why I said combined with the traditionality.

04:46:12.440 Yeah, I feel like it depends on what your definition of feminist is. 1.00

04:46:15.220 I would say I support all women,

04:46:16.800 and I think we should have equal rights,

04:46:19.000 but I don't think we should destroy the patriarchy.

04:46:21.220 Do you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

04:46:27.780 I don't know.

04:46:28.520 Not really.

04:46:29.540 No?

04:46:30.980 So you're in favor of the patriarchy?

04:46:33.220 I don't really have an opinion about this topic, honestly.

04:46:36.380 No opinion on patriarchy?

04:46:38.780 No, not really.

04:46:43.540 What about you?

04:46:44.260 Uh, no.

04:46:46.640 Non-feminist? 0.67

04:46:47.840 No.

04:46:48.880 Ruby, feminist? 1.00

04:46:50.040 Um, I would say no,

04:46:53.480 only because I'm not that educated on it.

04:46:57.200 I'm actually taking a feminist, um, 1.00

04:46:59.340 feminism class this far. 1.00

04:47:03.880 Uh-oh.

04:47:04.260 But yeah.

04:47:05.000 Don't take it.

04:47:05.620 Get out of it.

04:47:06.340 Get out.

04:47:06.840 We'll never be the same.

04:47:08.100 Don't do it.

04:47:08.580 Your hair will be purple,

04:47:10.020 and you'll...

04:47:10.680 Oh, wow.

04:47:12.100 Yeah.

04:47:12.820 Um, so...

04:47:14.420 As of right now, no.

04:47:15.860 What's the name of the class?

04:47:17.860 It's just feminist studies. 1.00

04:47:19.960 Oh, I'd love it.

04:47:20.480 Like, 101...

04:47:22.000 I'd love to be a flower on the wall.

04:47:23.180 Honestly, I...

04:47:24.040 I forgot.

04:47:25.400 I don't know.

04:47:26.320 Okay.

04:47:26.800 All right.

04:47:27.400 What about you?

04:47:27.800 Don't listen.

04:47:28.080 No.

04:47:29.040 I reject feminism in all of its forms. 0.98

04:47:31.520 Why, dog?

04:47:33.520 I think it just depends on

04:47:35.020 different definitions of it for me, so...

04:47:37.720 It's like, yes,

04:47:38.520 I don't know in different ways.

04:47:40.040 Sure.

04:47:42.360 Uh, so...

04:47:44.960 Feminism. 1.00

04:47:48.180 Traditional feminism. 1.00

04:47:51.020 Uh...

04:47:52.180 What's the traditional components

04:47:53.620 that you believe in?

04:47:54.940 Like...

04:47:55.300 Partnership.

04:47:56.420 So...

04:47:56.780 So what?

04:47:57.340 How does that look like?

04:47:58.040 I think that feminism, 1.00

04:47:59.320 in my opinion,

04:48:00.540 is where women want to go above men 1.00

04:48:03.960 and where they shout

04:48:05.520 and hate on men

04:48:07.140 and where men do things bad.

04:48:09.420 Uh, I think

04:48:10.280 it should be a partnership.

04:48:12.360 Men and women

04:48:12.960 are equal.

04:48:14.740 Well, let me ask you

04:48:15.200 a couple questions.

04:48:16.380 Uh, do you think

04:48:17.240 that historically women

04:48:18.220 were disadvantaged

04:48:19.900 in comparison to men?

04:48:22.920 Uh...

04:48:23.520 Yeah, in some ways,

04:48:25.260 definitely.

04:48:26.140 Whose fault was that?

04:48:28.800 Um...

04:48:29.200 Was it men?

04:48:33.920 What time are we talking about?

04:48:36.920 Historically?

04:48:37.580 How about, are women 1.00

04:48:38.000 disadvantaged today?

04:48:39.400 Uh, today...

04:48:42.200 Still?

04:48:43.240 In some ways, yes.

04:48:45.680 Yeah, and then so...

04:48:47.600 Who?

04:48:48.120 Who's doing it?

04:48:48.960 Is it men?

04:48:55.520 Yeah, but also women themselves. 1.00

04:48:57.920 I think we're...

04:48:58.780 We're...

04:48:59.180 We're...

04:48:59.840 Having this culture of...

04:49:02.040 Um...

04:49:03.520 Pressure...

04:49:04.640 On us.

04:49:06.600 Which can be oppressing.

04:49:09.280 A culture of pressure?

04:49:11.460 What do you mean?

04:49:11.960 Of rule sets.

04:49:12.960 Of things that should go

04:49:14.460 in a certain way.

04:49:15.800 Such as?

04:49:17.020 Um...

04:49:18.100 Like, uh...

04:49:23.620 A career is something

04:49:24.740 the man does, uh...

04:49:27.020 That, uh...

04:49:28.300 Women can't... 1.00

04:49:30.680 Um...

04:49:32.020 I don't know.

04:49:34.480 Now that you put me

04:49:35.280 on the spot,

04:49:35.800 I find it very difficult

04:49:36.800 to think of examples.

04:49:42.240 Uh, well, I mean...

04:49:44.280 It's just the notes

04:49:46.120 that you provided.

04:49:46.780 Uh...

04:49:47.820 Well, okay.

04:49:48.300 How about this?

04:49:48.800 Uh...

04:49:49.400 Do you think that there's

04:49:51.660 a patriarchy in society?

04:49:55.300 Yeah, I think there's

04:49:56.420 a lot of men, uh...

04:49:58.800 That lead.

04:50:00.060 Lead to households.

04:50:01.140 Lead to politics.

04:50:02.200 Lead...

04:50:02.640 But there's also room

04:50:03.760 for women.

04:50:04.580 And I think that's nice.

04:50:06.140 There's also companies

04:50:06.960 that try to look more

04:50:08.480 for a 60-40 split

04:50:09.880 with men and women.

04:50:12.400 Do you think women 0.99

04:50:13.020 are oppressed?

04:50:13.600 Some women are... 1.00

04:50:16.120 I don't feel oppressed.

04:50:17.760 You don't feel oppressed.

04:50:19.160 Uh...

04:50:19.520 Are some women 1.00

04:50:20.300 oppressed?

04:50:21.140 What do you mean,

04:50:21.560 like, in different countries?

04:50:22.500 Or...

04:50:22.900 Um...

04:50:24.700 Yeah.

04:50:29.120 I think also,

04:50:30.100 for example,

04:50:30.580 in the Netherlands,

04:50:31.220 there are women, uh... 1.00

04:50:32.580 that are oppressed

04:50:34.380 on the...

04:50:35.700 With, for example,

04:50:37.640 making career.

04:50:38.400 They don't get the same chances

04:50:40.200 as men do. 0.73

04:50:42.240 Um...

04:50:43.040 But at the same time,

04:50:44.160 like I mentioned,

04:50:44.980 the whole emotion for men,

04:50:47.260 men are oppressed

04:50:48.160 in that way

04:50:48.740 because they have to

04:50:49.520 tough it up

04:50:50.220 and they have to be strong

04:50:51.700 and cannot share that.

04:50:53.380 And I think it's nicer

04:50:54.380 if that can both

04:50:55.720 grow to each other.

04:50:58.100 Hmm.

04:50:59.540 Uh-huh.

04:51:01.780 Well, one of the things

04:51:02.760 I've heard feminists say 1.00

04:51:03.720 is that

04:51:04.180 women were 1.00

04:51:06.340 or are

04:51:07.140 still oppressed

04:51:07.960 and it's men's fault.

04:51:10.580 Uh...

04:51:11.180 Don't you think

04:51:11.740 this is kind of, uh...

04:51:13.440 hitting...

04:51:14.720 pitting women 1.00

04:51:15.340 against men?

04:51:16.580 Yeah, that's what I said.

04:51:17.520 I don't like

04:51:18.140 what the term

04:51:19.220 feminism

04:51:19.780 is becoming

04:51:20.960 because it's about

04:51:21.800 hating men.

04:51:22.560 Hold on.

04:51:23.220 What do you mean

04:51:23.560 by becoming?

04:51:25.040 Well,

04:51:26.080 I mean,

04:51:26.480 how I learned

04:51:27.440 the word feminist 0.99

04:51:28.800 when I was, like,

04:51:29.720 15 in high school

04:51:30.900 was about

04:51:31.660 equality and partnership

04:51:33.800 and about equity

04:51:35.440 and respecting each other

04:51:36.740 and having room

04:51:37.880 for people

04:51:38.340 the way they are.

04:51:39.660 So...

04:51:39.860 But did they talk

04:51:41.000 about how women 0.91

04:51:42.120 were oppressed

04:51:43.200 even when you were

04:51:44.540 younger in school?

04:51:45.900 They were talking

04:51:46.960 about that women 0.99

04:51:47.600 don't get the same chances

04:51:48.900 and they were working

04:51:49.800 towards that.

04:51:51.760 But did they say

04:51:52.780 that women 0.97

04:51:53.300 were oppressed?

04:51:54.440 I don't think

04:51:55.040 they used those words.

04:51:56.260 It was more about

04:51:56.960 the chances

04:51:57.500 that people get.

04:51:58.360 Because, I mean,

04:51:59.220 patriarchy theory,

04:52:01.000 women as oppressed,

04:52:04.120 men as oppressors,

04:52:05.160 is, like,

04:52:05.880 mainstream feminist

04:52:07.040 theory

04:52:07.460 for pretty much

04:52:09.240 the entirety

04:52:09.820 of feminism.

04:52:12.720 Which I think

04:52:13.580 is, one,

04:52:14.540 objectionable,

04:52:15.380 historically inaccurate,

04:52:17.040 and it pits

04:52:18.020 women against men.

04:52:19.820 And that I don't like.

04:52:21.000 And it's a total

04:52:21.880 mischaracterization

04:52:23.060 of, one,

04:52:24.000 the relationship

04:52:24.520 between men and women 0.90

04:52:25.440 currently

04:52:26.400 and throughout

04:52:26.980 history.

04:52:28.380 But it also

04:52:29.280 essentially just

04:52:29.960 teaches women 0.89

04:52:30.560 to be man-haters 0.95

04:52:31.600 and to have contempt

04:52:32.420 for men.

04:52:32.860 Because if it is

04:52:33.760 true, let's say

04:52:35.100 it is true

04:52:35.600 that men are

04:52:36.280 oppressors.

04:52:37.280 If men are 0.90

04:52:37.880 the oppressor

04:52:38.460 class and women 0.96

04:52:39.580 are the oppressed

04:52:40.220 class, it teaches

04:52:42.140 women that men 0.99

04:52:43.640 are terrible, 0.97

04:52:44.780 innately.

04:52:45.920 But that's the

04:52:46.700 bad side of

04:52:47.420 feminism. 1.00

04:52:48.300 That is feminism. 1.00

04:52:51.860 I have learned

04:52:52.880 feminism is about 1.00

04:52:53.880 equal rights.

04:52:55.260 And that means

04:52:55.720 that...

04:52:56.260 Is it?

04:52:57.360 That's, but maybe...

04:52:58.860 You're natively

04:52:59.600 Dutch, right?

04:53:00.240 Yeah.

04:53:00.560 Is there

04:53:01.480 military conscription

04:53:02.460 in the Netherlands?

04:53:04.920 Sorry?

04:53:06.020 Military conscription?

04:53:07.580 I'm assuming there is.

04:53:08.480 That they have to

04:53:09.100 serve, or...

04:53:12.480 Is there

04:53:17.060 military conscription?

04:53:18.340 I don't know

04:53:18.760 the word conscription.

04:53:20.460 Forced

04:53:21.140 the draft

04:53:23.640 conscription?

04:53:23.900 No, you don't

04:53:24.420 have to go into

04:53:25.180 the military.

04:53:26.580 As a woman?

04:53:28.400 At all.

04:53:29.080 There is now

04:53:30.440 a one-year

04:53:32.080 dienstia

04:53:33.600 where you can

04:53:34.340 go and get

04:53:35.060 paid for a year

04:53:36.140 to do that,

04:53:37.860 but it's not

04:53:38.340 enforced.

04:53:39.860 Actually, I just

04:53:40.900 want to be fair

04:53:41.540 here.

04:53:42.400 Apparently, in

04:53:43.120 2020,

04:53:43.880 conscription in

04:53:44.760 the Netherlands

04:53:45.200 was changed

04:53:45.960 to include

04:53:46.600 women. 0.81

04:53:47.820 Apparently.

04:53:48.600 So they have

04:53:49.640 equalized this

04:53:50.400 in the Netherlands,

04:53:51.840 so this is

04:53:52.300 perhaps not the

04:53:52.860 best example,

04:53:53.480 but...

04:53:54.480 Hmm. 1.00

04:53:57.200 The fucking 1.00

04:53:57.640 Netherlands. 1.00

04:53:58.040 But I'm not

04:53:59.260 a man-hater

04:54:00.160 at all,

04:54:00.920 so if that's

04:54:01.480 the definition

04:54:02.180 of feminist

04:54:02.760 here,

04:54:03.320 that women 0.97

04:54:04.140 should be

04:54:04.580 above men

04:54:05.240 or should

04:54:05.640 hate men,

04:54:06.280 that's completely

04:54:07.140 not what I

04:54:08.780 stand behind

04:54:09.980 at all.

04:54:11.540 It's just

04:54:12.260 about equality.

04:54:14.140 I just don't...

04:54:14.860 The feminist

04:54:15.620 traditional thing,

04:54:16.720 it's just...

04:54:18.080 It clashes.

04:54:19.120 A little bit,

04:54:19.780 because I think

04:54:20.640 what a lot of

04:54:21.480 women do 1.00

04:54:21.940 is they want 0.94

04:54:24.280 all the benefits

04:54:25.120 of feminism

04:54:26.100 or equality

04:54:27.060 when it suits

04:54:28.120 them.

04:54:29.360 So that my

04:54:30.120 sense of

04:54:30.680 feminism is 1.00

04:54:31.780 you'll only

04:54:33.500 fight for

04:54:34.060 equality,

04:54:34.860 whether it's

04:54:36.280 socially,

04:54:36.880 whether it's

04:54:37.320 legally,

04:54:37.620 if that legal

04:54:39.460 equality or that

04:54:40.320 social equality

04:54:41.360 benefits women.

04:54:43.080 So for example,

04:54:43.780 if there is

04:54:48.060 some form

04:54:48.760 of equality

04:54:49.440 which were

04:54:50.060 to come

04:54:50.640 to the

04:54:51.120 detriment

04:54:51.520 of women

04:54:52.240 in some

04:54:52.720 conceivable

04:54:53.240 way,

04:54:54.360 feminists

04:54:54.720 will not

04:54:55.080 fight for

04:54:55.740 it,

04:54:56.340 even if it

04:54:56.960 were to

04:54:57.860 create greater

04:54:59.440 equality between

04:55:00.380 men and women.

04:55:01.500 So for example,

04:55:02.140 feminists in 0.99

04:55:02.660 the United States,

04:55:03.820 they're not in

04:55:04.620 the streets

04:55:05.340 or even

04:55:07.100 advocating in

04:55:08.100 any degree

04:55:08.700 or any

04:55:09.100 capacity

04:55:09.580 to equalize

04:55:10.920 draft

04:55:11.360 registration,

04:55:12.200 military

04:55:12.640 registration,

04:55:13.780 military

04:55:14.260 conscription

04:55:14.840 between men

04:55:16.080 and women. 0.98

04:55:16.860 Only men 0.83

04:55:17.700 are subject

04:55:18.100 to military

04:55:18.680 conscription

04:55:19.140 in the

04:55:20.020 United States.

04:55:22.280 In most

04:55:22.640 other,

04:55:23.280 in the vast

04:55:23.760 majority of

04:55:24.220 other countries

04:55:24.740 in the world,

04:55:25.660 only men

04:55:26.260 are subject

04:55:26.800 to forced

04:55:28.120 military

04:55:28.560 conscription,

04:55:29.600 draft,

04:55:30.800 obligatory

04:55:31.860 military service

04:55:32.960 in some

04:55:33.360 countries.

04:55:34.380 I don't know

04:55:34.640 if it's

04:55:34.960 some countries

04:55:37.220 like the men

04:55:38.520 have to go

04:55:39.480 do military

04:55:40.420 service for a

04:55:41.040 couple years.

04:55:41.840 This is common

04:55:42.380 in various

04:55:42.940 Asian countries

04:55:43.720 I believe

04:55:44.420 even in

04:55:44.900 Switzerland

04:55:45.240 for example,

04:55:45.900 I think

04:55:46.180 it's still

04:55:47.040 mandatory that

04:55:47.740 men have

04:55:48.100 to do

04:55:48.360 some sort

04:55:48.800 of civilian

04:55:50.000 service or

04:55:51.160 military service.

04:55:53.700 Women are 1.00

04:55:54.180 excluded from

04:55:55.420 having to do

04:55:56.000 this and

04:55:57.460 there are

04:55:57.740 punishments

04:55:58.200 for men

04:55:58.640 who try

04:56:00.320 to avoid

04:56:00.760 it or

04:56:01.080 who don't.

04:56:03.120 But women 1.00

04:56:03.500 don't fight

04:56:04.040 for equality

04:56:04.680 for those

04:56:05.320 sorts of

04:56:05.680 things.

04:56:06.320 They don't

04:56:06.540 fight for

04:56:06.880 equality for

04:56:07.540 the dangerous

04:56:08.300 jobs that

04:56:09.380 men predominate

04:56:10.640 in the

04:56:11.560 dangerous

04:56:12.020 dirty

04:56:12.400 jobs.

04:56:14.460 You want

04:56:15.180 to close

04:56:15.500 the wage

04:56:15.920 gap but

04:56:16.540 you don't

04:56:16.780 want to

04:56:17.000 close the

04:56:17.500 workplace

04:56:17.840 fatality

04:56:18.460 gap,

04:56:19.120 the workplace

04:56:19.580 injury

04:56:20.060 gap,

04:56:20.720 the more

04:56:21.080 likely to

04:56:21.600 work in

04:56:21.960 the freezing 0.99

04:56:22.420 fucking cold 1.00

04:56:23.160 gap, 1.00

04:56:23.780 the more

04:56:24.180 likely to

04:56:25.100 get electrocuted

04:56:25.860 to death 0.96

04:56:26.300 gap,

04:56:26.820 the more

04:56:27.200 likely to

04:56:27.780 work dangerous

04:56:28.600 disgusting

04:56:29.160 jobs gap. 0.65

04:56:30.400 You only

04:56:30.900 want to

04:56:31.180 close the

04:56:31.740 gaps in

04:56:33.500 things that

04:56:33.960 benefit women.

04:56:34.680 you don't

04:56:35.840 want to

04:56:36.040 close the

04:56:36.440 gap in

04:56:37.340 other

04:56:37.560 realms,

04:56:38.240 which is

04:56:38.620 interesting.

04:56:41.480 So you

04:56:42.060 don't really

04:56:42.480 care about

04:56:42.860 equality,

04:56:43.420 you care

04:56:43.740 about securing

04:56:44.400 benefits for

04:56:45.140 women, 1.00

04:56:46.000 which I

04:56:47.020 don't suppose

04:56:47.440 is wrong,

04:56:48.620 but to

04:56:49.060 parade

04:56:49.540 feminism as 0.86

04:56:50.940 equality is 0.97

04:56:52.680 laughable.

04:56:57.440 Yeah,

04:56:58.020 I think the

04:56:58.540 way feminism 1.00

04:56:59.380 right now is

04:57:00.480 being paraded

04:57:01.400 is true.

04:57:03.100 We're looking

04:57:03.920 at the gaps

04:57:04.540 where women 0.97

04:57:05.360 could win.

04:57:09.860 But yeah,

04:57:10.500 I mean,

04:57:11.440 I still

04:57:12.620 think life

04:57:13.660 is a

04:57:13.940 partnership,

04:57:14.580 and I

04:57:14.780 have a

04:57:15.120 man at

04:57:15.680 home,

04:57:16.180 so I

04:57:17.120 would also

04:57:17.620 fight for

04:57:18.080 his rights.

04:57:20.980 But I'm

04:57:22.160 not very

04:57:22.980 actively

04:57:23.640 fighting at

04:57:25.180 all.

04:57:26.120 But yeah.

04:57:26.880 Well, I

04:57:27.280 guess moving

04:57:27.680 off of that,

04:57:28.220 you said you

04:57:28.560 like equity

04:57:29.540 over equality,

04:57:30.520 so what does

04:57:30.880 that mean?

04:57:31.520 What's the

04:57:32.140 difference there?

04:57:33.500 Equality is

04:57:34.360 that you

04:57:35.060 have to do

04:57:35.560 exactly the

04:57:36.140 same things,

04:57:37.080 though equity

04:57:37.600 is looking

04:57:38.180 at where

04:57:38.560 people are

04:57:39.380 having their

04:57:40.480 talents and

04:57:41.280 what they're

04:57:42.420 best at.

04:57:43.160 Because for

04:57:43.760 example, me

04:57:44.680 and my

04:57:44.920 boyfriend, if

04:57:45.580 we have to

04:57:46.420 move a very

04:57:47.180 heavy stone,

04:57:48.520 he is better

04:57:49.560 equipped for

04:57:50.560 that than I

04:57:51.460 am because of

04:57:52.720 our builds.

04:57:53.600 and I

04:57:54.780 could train

04:57:55.460 to be

04:57:56.400 exactly as

04:57:57.220 strong as

04:57:57.660 he is,

04:57:58.180 but it

04:57:58.380 would cost

04:57:58.700 me a

04:57:59.180 lot more

04:57:59.800 energy to

04:58:02.180 get to

04:58:02.460 that level.

04:58:03.300 So he

04:58:03.880 should get

04:58:04.240 the bigger

04:58:04.620 piece of

04:58:05.060 chicken.

04:58:06.240 Oh, he

04:58:06.560 always gets

04:58:07.100 the bigger

04:58:07.440 piece of

04:58:07.960 chicken.

04:58:08.300 Well, can

04:58:08.520 we just

04:58:08.880 apply this

04:58:10.480 to society

04:58:11.040 too then?

04:58:12.860 So if

04:58:13.600 men are

04:58:13.920 more productive,

04:58:14.780 should they

04:58:15.180 get paid

04:58:15.540 more than

04:58:15.860 women? 1.00

04:58:17.100 If they

04:58:18.100 do...

04:58:18.800 Provably

04:58:19.340 more productive,

04:58:21.300 I mean...

04:58:21.860 If they're...

04:58:22.740 Yeah.

04:58:23.420 If someone

04:58:24.180 is more

04:58:24.540 productive than

04:58:25.200 someone else,

04:58:25.740 they should

04:58:26.020 get paid

04:58:26.420 more.

04:58:27.240 Well, then,

04:58:28.000 for example,

04:58:29.160 I don't know

04:58:30.200 how it is in

04:58:30.720 the Netherlands,

04:58:31.720 but police

04:58:33.200 officers,

04:58:34.520 firefighters,

04:58:35.920 and people

04:58:36.920 in the

04:58:37.180 military.

04:58:38.180 So women 0.99

04:58:38.560 can become

04:58:39.060 police officers,

04:58:40.500 women can 1.00

04:58:40.900 become

04:58:41.160 firefighters,

04:58:42.420 women can 1.00

04:58:43.040 join the

04:58:43.700 military.

04:58:44.660 But these

04:58:45.060 are jobs

04:58:45.520 that require

04:58:46.160 some degree

04:58:46.840 of physical

04:58:47.780 exertion.

04:58:49.140 Firefighters,

04:58:50.140 police officers,

04:58:51.300 excuse me,

04:58:52.100 a police

04:58:52.440 officer might

04:58:53.420 have to

04:58:53.740 apprehend a

04:58:55.120 suspect,

04:58:55.720 might have

04:58:56.080 to physically

04:58:57.060 arrest him,

04:59:00.900 detain him,

04:59:01.480 whatever.

04:59:02.660 And then

04:59:03.180 military,

04:59:03.840 there's a

04:59:04.140 force application

04:59:04.880 in the

04:59:05.240 military too.

04:59:07.480 And not

04:59:08.460 only in

04:59:09.840 the actual

04:59:10.240 job,

04:59:11.140 but all

04:59:11.860 these jobs

04:59:12.280 I listed

04:59:12.680 have physical

04:59:13.340 requirements,

04:59:14.680 which would

04:59:16.220 seem to

04:59:16.680 indicate that

04:59:17.200 in the

04:59:17.580 actual job

04:59:18.420 there are

04:59:18.640 going to

04:59:18.760 be physical

04:59:19.160 requirements.

04:59:20.460 Right.

04:59:20.560 So then

04:59:21.420 the women, 0.96

04:59:22.380 if they

04:59:22.700 want to

04:59:23.020 be on

04:59:23.300 the same

04:59:23.660 level,

04:59:24.100 should

04:59:24.260 train

04:59:24.620 more

04:59:24.900 probably.

04:59:25.780 But here's

04:59:26.100 the difference

04:59:26.680 in for

04:59:28.860 the purposes

04:59:29.680 of equity

04:59:30.340 or equality,

04:59:31.200 we've lowered

04:59:32.040 the physical

04:59:32.640 requirements for

04:59:33.800 women in 0.62

04:59:35.200 police force,

04:59:35.940 and this is

04:59:36.300 seen across

04:59:36.780 various countries,

04:59:37.920 in police

04:59:38.320 forces,

04:59:38.980 military,

04:59:39.640 and firefighting,

04:59:40.580 but they get

04:59:41.400 paid the

04:59:41.960 exact same,

04:59:42.920 even though

04:59:43.260 these are

04:59:44.160 physically

04:59:44.660 laborious

04:59:45.320 jobs.

04:59:45.780 also in

04:59:47.580 the corporate

04:59:48.000 world as

04:59:48.400 well,

04:59:48.560 you've got

04:59:48.780 DEI,

04:59:49.660 so women 0.99

04:59:50.180 will be

04:59:50.880 DEI

04:59:51.320 hires,

04:59:51.880 they don't

04:59:52.120 meet the

04:59:52.420 same

04:59:52.680 qualifications,

04:59:53.580 but because

04:59:53.900 they're

04:59:54.120 women and 0.99

04:59:54.520 they need

04:59:54.880 to fill

04:59:55.320 a quota,

04:59:56.240 they'll get

04:59:56.500 the job

04:59:56.860 more easier.

04:59:57.680 Don't you

04:59:57.940 see that a

04:59:58.400 lot in

04:59:58.680 coding and

04:59:59.480 computer

04:59:59.840 engineering

05:00:00.280 jobs?

05:00:00.820 They're

05:00:01.020 desperate to

05:00:02.460 get the,

05:00:03.500 oh, we have

05:00:04.240 a woman 0.57

05:00:04.660 engineer,

05:00:06.040 and they're

05:00:06.340 less qualified

05:00:07.160 than their

05:00:07.500 male counterparts,

05:00:08.740 and then

05:00:09.020 males who are 0.98

05:00:10.120 more qualified

05:00:10.780 are overlooked

05:00:11.560 in software

05:00:12.300 engineering and

05:00:13.340 so forth,

05:00:13.880 because the

05:00:14.280 woke Silicon

05:00:15.640 Valley and

05:00:16.980 San Francisco

05:00:17.680 companies want

05:00:18.660 to, I

05:00:20.140 don't know,

05:00:20.580 do the 0.99

05:00:20.880 DEI bullshit. 0.99

05:00:27.060 Okay, I 0.99

05:00:27.920 don't know.

05:00:28.660 No pushback?

05:00:30.000 I guess the

05:00:30.720 point he's

05:00:31.340 making is that

05:00:32.020 you've got

05:00:32.600 DEI and

05:00:33.820 you've got all

05:00:34.160 of these

05:00:34.440 lowered

05:00:34.680 requirements that

05:00:35.600 actually goes

05:00:36.100 against the

05:00:37.020 natural course

05:00:37.880 of things.

05:00:38.320 If the market

05:00:38.780 was just

05:00:41.240 play out,

05:00:41.680 men would 0.98

05:00:41.880 get paid

05:00:42.240 more,

05:00:42.680 men would 0.98

05:00:42.920 be in

05:00:43.140 all these

05:00:43.380 different

05:00:43.640 positions,

05:00:44.840 and also

05:00:45.420 men are

05:00:46.180 more likely

05:00:46.560 to die

05:00:46.860 at work,

05:00:47.520 work in

05:00:47.820 all these

05:00:48.080 horrible

05:00:48.320 conditions,

05:00:50.060 doesn't it

05:00:50.500 seem like

05:00:50.920 women are 1.00

05:00:51.340 kind of

05:00:51.700 already

05:00:52.140 winning?

05:00:55.600 If you

05:00:56.260 say it

05:00:56.520 like that?

05:00:58.300 Yeah.

05:01:01.180 I don't

05:01:01.820 think it's

05:01:02.980 necessarily

05:01:03.920 I don't

05:01:10.740 know.

05:01:11.240 I like it

05:01:12.540 when there's

05:01:12.900 a partnership.

05:01:14.100 I have

05:01:14.380 that with

05:01:14.700 my partner,

05:01:16.100 I have

05:01:16.400 that with

05:01:16.680 my friends,

05:01:18.140 I see

05:01:18.780 that in

05:01:19.080 my family,

05:01:20.080 and that's

05:01:21.600 what I

05:01:21.940 meant.

05:01:24.940 Okay.

05:01:25.740 You said men

05:01:26.440 and women are 1.00

05:01:26.880 different by

05:01:27.280 nature, and

05:01:27.640 thus complete

05:01:28.200 equality would

05:01:29.260 make no sense.

05:01:29.980 We need to

05:01:30.300 find where

05:01:31.440 people's potential

05:01:32.260 lies and bring

05:01:32.820 that up,

05:01:33.400 where women 0.97

05:01:33.880 or men feel

05:01:35.040 they are stuck

05:01:36.240 with boundaries

05:01:37.040 imposed by

05:01:37.540 others.

05:01:37.900 We should

05:01:38.140 ask questions.

05:01:39.060 For example,

05:01:39.460 that women 0.97

05:01:39.840 have to

05:01:40.220 prove

05:01:40.420 themselves

05:01:40.880 while they

05:01:41.660 are in

05:01:41.900 a room

05:01:42.320 while a

05:01:43.180 man is

05:01:43.760 assumed to

05:01:44.380 be there,

05:01:45.520 like for

05:01:45.960 business.

05:01:46.700 Okay.

05:01:47.320 Or the

05:01:47.720 fact that

05:01:48.100 men are

05:01:48.420 not supposed

05:01:48.840 to cry

05:01:49.340 or show

05:01:49.780 emotions.

05:01:50.420 Yeah, but

05:01:55.520 this is kind

05:01:56.000 of something,

05:01:56.420 I mean,

05:01:56.620 the whole

05:01:56.840 crying thing,

05:01:57.820 like this

05:01:58.260 is something

05:01:58.640 that is

05:01:59.420 kind of

05:01:59.860 policed

05:02:00.360 by women. 0.78

05:02:01.900 You don't 0.71

05:02:02.420 like weak

05:02:02.860 men.

05:02:06.840 Crying is

05:02:07.380 not weak.

05:02:07.980 Yeah, it

05:02:08.260 is.

05:02:09.180 Crying is

05:02:09.740 not weak.

05:02:10.900 If men

05:02:11.940 cried in the

05:02:12.880 same ways

05:02:13.600 that women 0.97

05:02:14.040 cry, you

05:02:14.600 would think

05:02:14.900 it's weak.

05:02:16.340 I fully

05:02:17.060 disagree.

05:02:18.160 What about

05:02:18.520 if they cry

05:02:18.980 because they

05:02:19.320 stubbed their

05:02:19.720 toe?

05:02:20.420 Would that

05:02:21.080 be weak?

05:02:22.800 Then they

05:02:23.460 have a low

05:02:23.860 pain tolerance

05:02:24.660 unless it's

05:02:25.180 really bad.

05:02:25.720 Would that

05:02:25.860 be a hint

05:02:26.900 of weakness

05:02:27.380 about that?

05:02:29.640 If it's

05:02:30.680 about, if

05:02:32.280 it's measured

05:02:33.460 on their

05:02:34.240 pain level,

05:02:35.380 then yeah,

05:02:36.640 but that

05:02:37.620 doesn't say

05:02:38.040 anything about

05:02:38.500 them as a

05:02:38.880 person at

05:02:39.320 all.

05:02:39.340 What about

05:02:39.620 because someone

05:02:40.260 called them

05:02:40.680 fat?

05:02:42.300 Someone called

05:02:43.060 them fat?

05:02:43.420 Someone called 0.72

05:02:43.640 them fat and

05:02:44.240 they started 0.97

05:02:44.580 crying.

05:02:45.580 Well, that's

05:02:46.000 awful.

05:02:47.100 That's really

05:02:47.400 sad.

05:02:47.980 So you think

05:02:48.540 that if just

05:02:49.360 an off

05:02:50.020 comment,

05:02:50.640 you're walking

05:02:51.080 with your

05:02:51.360 boyfriend down

05:02:51.880 the street

05:02:52.280 and someone

05:02:52.680 says, hey

05:02:53.660 fatty, and

05:02:54.500 then he starts

05:02:55.720 crying about it.

05:02:57.140 Maybe he has

05:02:57.460 trauma or something.

05:02:58.140 It doesn't make

05:02:58.520 him a weak man.

05:02:59.780 If a man

05:03:00.740 dares to cry

05:03:01.920 in front of me,

05:03:02.560 that makes me

05:03:03.240 feel more

05:03:03.940 honored.

05:03:04.840 like, oh, you

05:03:06.000 dare to, you

05:03:06.860 trust me, you

05:03:07.720 dare to cry in

05:03:08.680 front of me and

05:03:09.120 I'll take care

05:03:09.740 of you.

05:03:10.400 I think women 1.00

05:03:11.140 will generally

05:03:11.620 say this, but

05:03:12.300 it's for the

05:03:13.460 most part a

05:03:13.940 lie.

05:03:14.680 They're actually

05:03:15.240 pretty grossed

05:03:15.800 out when guys

05:03:16.580 cry, especially

05:03:18.000 for trivial

05:03:19.000 reasons as

05:03:19.940 well.

05:03:20.460 And wouldn't

05:03:20.900 you want that

05:03:21.440 to change?

05:03:22.260 No.

05:03:22.860 You don't have

05:03:23.500 a feeling, like

05:03:24.340 do you cry?

05:03:25.380 No.

05:03:26.260 Never.

05:03:26.740 That's bad.

05:03:27.860 I don't think

05:03:28.300 it is.

05:03:28.600 I think you

05:03:30.400 guys think about

05:03:31.000 it from the

05:03:31.380 female paradigm, 0.99

05:03:32.440 which is that

05:03:32.860 you cry a lot

05:03:33.880 because you

05:03:34.440 guys are more

05:03:35.020 emotional beings.

05:03:36.240 I couldn't cry

05:03:37.300 if I tried. 1.00

05:03:38.560 Sometimes shit 0.98

05:03:40.060 happens that's 0.98

05:03:40.680 really horrible

05:03:41.240 and I'm like,

05:03:42.240 there's not even

05:03:43.100 one little bit

05:03:43.760 of me that wants

05:03:44.260 to cry right

05:03:44.920 now.

05:03:46.440 But that's not

05:03:47.600 good because

05:03:48.120 you're holding

05:03:48.440 in your emotion.

05:03:49.320 It's okay to be

05:03:50.040 vulnerable in

05:03:50.940 certain situations.

05:03:51.520 I'll go smash 0.99

05:03:51.800 the boxing bag for 0.76

05:03:52.660 an hour and I'll

05:03:53.100 feel good after

05:03:53.680 it.

05:03:54.140 I think we just

05:03:54.900 operate differently.

05:03:56.360 And generally,

05:03:56.820 if I see a guy

05:03:57.300 who cries a lot,

05:03:58.600 it suggests to me

05:03:59.560 that he has a

05:04:00.060 lack of emotional

05:04:00.820 control and that

05:04:02.260 would echo in

05:04:03.480 other parts of

05:04:04.180 his personality

05:04:04.780 and his character

05:04:05.400 as well.

05:04:07.280 Okay,

05:04:07.800 then maybe I

05:04:09.160 put that as one

05:04:10.180 of the things I

05:04:11.080 thought would be

05:04:12.460 nice to have

05:04:13.100 more room for

05:04:13.800 men,

05:04:14.260 but maybe that's

05:04:14.920 completely my own

05:04:15.800 mind and that's

05:04:16.820 not a need at

05:04:17.500 all.

05:04:18.420 Yeah.

05:04:19.420 I don't know.

05:04:19.760 I think a lot of

05:04:20.200 guys just don't

05:04:20.740 really like crying.

05:04:22.460 It's just not

05:04:23.540 really something we

05:04:24.120 do as much.

05:04:25.620 You guys can

05:04:26.280 cry on a dime.

05:04:27.260 It's a human

05:04:27.500 emotion, of

05:04:28.220 course men

05:04:28.640 cry as well.

05:04:29.580 I think they

05:04:30.200 don't because I

05:04:30.900 feel like they

05:04:31.400 can't.

05:04:32.680 I don't really

05:04:33.460 think that's

05:04:33.920 true.

05:04:34.760 I've got a lot

05:04:35.200 of male friends

05:04:37.180 and it's very

05:04:38.260 rare that they

05:04:39.320 cry. 0.75

05:04:39.560 If they did,

05:04:40.160 that's fine.

05:04:40.760 I think if you're

05:04:41.340 around your male

05:04:42.200 friends, it's okay

05:04:43.200 to shed a tear

05:04:44.000 sometimes, but I

05:04:45.360 just don't really

05:04:45.700 think it's

05:04:45.960 something we do

05:04:46.500 as much.

05:04:46.900 Generally, we

05:04:47.280 tend to have

05:04:47.840 more logical,

05:04:48.840 practical

05:04:49.100 conversations.

05:04:50.380 If I had a

05:04:51.220 real disagreement

05:04:51.820 with a guy and

05:04:52.380 he just started

05:04:52.760 crying, I'd be a

05:04:53.960 bit like, okay,

05:04:54.680 can we stop the

05:04:55.780 tears and can we

05:04:56.360 just have a

05:04:57.020 conversation about

05:04:58.060 it?

05:04:58.380 Because we're not

05:04:59.360 really solving

05:04:59.940 anything by you

05:05:00.560 just sitting there

05:05:01.080 sobbing.

05:05:02.440 Well, you let

05:05:03.760 out your emotion.

05:05:04.840 It's good to let

05:05:05.520 it go sometimes.

05:05:07.120 That's for every

05:05:07.980 single human being.

05:05:08.880 Of course, maybe

05:05:09.440 you don't have it.

05:05:10.100 Some people have

05:05:10.680 it more than

05:05:11.060 others.

05:05:11.700 But I think it's

05:05:12.500 a bad thing to

05:05:13.240 say that men

05:05:14.220 shouldn't do it

05:05:14.920 because it's weak.

05:05:15.640 But we have

05:05:16.780 other ways of

05:05:17.480 channeling out

05:05:18.280 our emotion

05:05:18.920 though.

05:05:19.720 And I think

05:05:20.100 that crying is

05:05:21.040 just not really

05:05:21.500 necessarily one

05:05:22.200 of them.

05:05:23.260 If you go to

05:05:23.660 the gym, go for

05:05:24.580 a run, go and

05:05:25.640 have a logical,

05:05:26.860 practical conversation

05:05:27.700 with somebody.

05:05:28.960 If I've got a

05:05:29.560 real problem and

05:05:30.060 it's really eating

05:05:30.720 away at me, I'm

05:05:31.860 not going to cry

05:05:32.680 because then the

05:05:33.200 problem is still

05:05:33.780 there.

05:05:34.360 I'm going to

05:05:34.680 go and call up

05:05:36.020 one of my

05:05:36.280 brothers or one

05:05:36.840 of my best

05:05:37.360 friends.

05:05:37.840 You do that

05:05:38.200 after crying

05:05:39.100 usually.

05:05:40.060 First you let

05:05:40.480 your emotion go

05:05:41.120 and then you

05:05:41.600 grab yourself

05:05:42.060 together and

05:05:43.160 brainstorm, okay,

05:05:44.000 what can we do

05:05:44.500 about this?

05:05:45.220 It's not like

05:05:45.620 we have a waste

05:05:46.060 of time crying.

05:05:48.420 Yeah, well,

05:05:48.780 maybe for you.

05:05:49.560 I think, yeah.

05:05:50.820 I don't know.

05:05:51.280 It's just like a

05:05:52.140 way to release

05:05:53.000 the emotion.

05:05:54.040 It doesn't have

05:05:54.520 to, like when

05:05:55.120 you feel really

05:05:55.800 intensely sad or

05:05:56.960 mad about

05:05:57.700 something, it's

05:05:58.220 just a way of

05:05:58.800 releasing emotion.

05:05:59.860 It doesn't make

05:06:00.480 you more weak.

05:06:02.140 Because you'd say 0.73

05:06:02.980 their way of

05:06:04.820 releasing that is

05:06:05.900 by hitting things

05:06:06.840 or with anger and

05:06:07.920 I don't think

05:06:08.260 that's better or

05:06:10.000 worse.

05:06:10.500 It's just like

05:06:10.960 people, the way

05:06:12.320 they let out

05:06:12.780 emotion is

05:06:13.380 different.

05:06:13.780 So I don't

05:06:14.860 view it as

05:06:15.220 weak.

05:06:15.560 It's just like,

05:06:17.020 you know, I'd

05:06:18.160 rather have them

05:06:18.740 cry than to

05:06:19.540 hold it inside and

05:06:21.020 feel like that

05:06:21.800 intense pain.

05:06:22.380 No, that's some 1.00

05:06:23.620 man shit. 1.00

05:06:25.080 You fucking 1.00

05:06:25.700 stifle that shit, 1.00

05:06:26.780 push it down. 1.00

05:06:27.260 Yeah, you push

05:06:27.800 it down. 1.00

05:06:28.660 Fucking push 1.00

05:06:29.300 that shit down. 1.00

05:06:30.140 I don't believe 1.00

05:06:30.840 in that.

05:06:31.340 You should be

05:06:32.060 able to be

05:06:32.460 emotional.

05:06:33.640 Well, even if I

05:06:34.980 grant that, like,

05:06:35.880 look, if you're a

05:06:36.840 guy and you're

05:06:37.380 gonna cry, don't 1.00

05:06:38.940 do that shit in 1.00

05:06:39.720 front of your 1.00

05:06:40.160 chick.

05:06:40.900 That's for sure.

05:06:41.660 Yeah, she should.

05:06:42.680 Definitely.

05:06:43.180 She's the one who's

05:06:43.880 supposed to be there

05:06:47.340 for you and take

05:06:47.900 care of you in

05:06:48.460 times when you're

05:06:49.140 doing bad.

05:06:49.600 She's supposed to be

05:06:50.560 there and take care

05:06:51.340 of you.

05:06:52.220 And if she's the 0.97

05:06:52.720 right one, she will.

05:06:53.380 But what women say 1.00

05:06:55.000 and how they act are

05:06:56.560 sometimes very

05:06:57.120 different.

05:06:57.720 So you'll see your

05:06:59.520 guy cry in front of

05:07:00.640 you.

05:07:01.520 And like, even if it

05:07:02.640 doesn't register in

05:07:03.800 your brain, somewhere

05:07:05.120 back there, you're

05:07:06.540 gonna be like, this 1.00

05:07:07.080 guy's a fucking 1.00

05:07:07.660 bitch. 1.00

05:07:08.220 I know, but I 1.00

05:07:09.660 feel like men 0.79

05:07:10.220 feel that way.

05:07:11.500 Because he just

05:07:12.140 said that it is

05:07:12.880 bitchy, basically. 1.00

05:07:14.140 He implied that.

05:07:14.820 So I feel like it's

05:07:15.340 more of a society

05:07:16.120 thing.

05:07:16.960 No, it's a woman

05:07:17.900 thing.

05:07:18.300 No, I think it's

05:07:19.280 kind of ingrained

05:07:19.920 with the

05:07:20.240 person.

05:07:20.340 But like, who

05:07:20.540 raised the

05:07:21.720 women, though? 1.00

05:07:22.600 If I were to,

05:07:23.260 We grew up in a

05:07:23.980 society that ingrains

05:07:25.200 ideas in our

05:07:26.060 head, so then we're

05:07:27.340 gonna just, you

05:07:28.380 know, subconsciously

05:07:29.380 react in a certain

05:07:30.060 way.

05:07:30.080 Wait, Jake, can I

05:07:30.500 ask you a question?

05:07:30.980 Yes.

05:07:31.240 And then he just

05:07:31.880 said that it's not

05:07:32.580 okay.

05:07:33.180 If one of your boys

05:07:33.500 cried in front of 0.81

05:07:33.960 you, but it was

05:07:38.220 a perfect example.

05:07:39.000 Like, if one of

05:07:39.540 your male friends

05:07:40.440 cried, like, would

05:07:41.720 you console him?

05:07:42.880 Yeah.

05:07:43.480 Yeah.

05:07:44.520 But it wouldn't be

05:07:45.720 like a, oh, are you

05:07:47.540 okay, that sort of

05:07:48.100 thing.

05:07:48.240 You'd just sit there

05:07:48.900 with them, and then

05:07:49.700 you'd come to a

05:07:50.380 logical, practical

05:07:50.960 solution about it.

05:07:52.100 Yeah, of course.

05:07:52.960 I'd sit there in the

05:07:53.900 moment, and that's

05:07:54.380 happened to me

05:07:54.760 before, where I've

05:07:55.320 had guy friends of

05:07:56.460 mine who have, you

05:07:57.480 know, confided in me

05:07:58.280 and ended up crying.

05:07:59.620 There's nothing wrong

05:08:00.320 with that.

05:08:00.560 It's fine.

05:08:01.260 But I'm not gonna

05:08:01.780 sit there and start

05:08:02.860 crying with you.

05:08:03.800 Yeah, like, you

05:08:04.440 don't need to baby

05:08:05.160 someone, but you can

05:08:06.220 definitely support

05:08:07.140 them.

05:08:07.160 But I think that

05:08:07.180 women do that, 1.00

05:08:07.860 though, and that's

05:08:08.200 different.

05:08:08.580 Like, one of you

05:08:09.040 starts crying, and

05:08:09.780 everyone starts

05:08:10.300 crying, and then

05:08:11.040 I don't baby people

05:08:11.980 when they cry.

05:08:12.880 You just want to

05:08:13.380 be sort of heard.

05:08:14.620 As a guy, it's

05:08:15.340 different.

05:08:16.040 Women tend to 1.00

05:08:16.800 want, let's say, if

05:08:18.200 your girl cries in

05:08:18.980 front of you, the

05:08:20.100 last thing that I'm

05:08:20.680 gonna do is be

05:08:21.180 like, okay, cool,

05:08:21.800 like, let's get a

05:08:22.300 practical solution

05:08:22.940 going, and I'm

05:08:23.940 just gonna be like,

05:08:24.400 yeah, okay, cool,

05:08:25.160 yeah, okay, wow,

05:08:25.980 that's so sad, and

05:08:26.820 let's sit there.

05:08:27.540 Yeah, so just

05:08:28.240 support them.

05:08:28.880 You can say that

05:08:29.600 on both sides.

05:08:30.040 That's a tragedy.

05:08:31.400 But if a guy cries

05:08:32.560 in front of me,

05:08:32.940 generally, it's gonna

05:08:33.460 be like, all right,

05:08:33.900 let's try and let's

05:08:34.880 get this out the way,

05:08:35.800 and then let's try and

05:08:36.540 fix this problem.

05:08:37.700 There's two different

05:08:38.360 things.

05:08:39.140 But also, guys are

05:08:40.920 meant to be the

05:08:41.540 protectors, and

05:08:43.120 generally, if you

05:08:43.800 cry, it means that

05:08:44.520 you can't handle a

05:08:45.300 situation, and it

05:08:46.580 reduces you to tears,

05:08:47.600 it reduces you to

05:08:48.320 this level of

05:08:48.900 emotion.

05:08:49.980 And I think there's

05:08:50.480 something in women 1.00

05:08:51.160 that says if they

05:08:51.980 see a guy crying

05:08:52.740 over a problem, then

05:08:53.800 he can't handle

05:08:54.560 tough situations, and

05:08:56.020 then when it comes

05:08:56.500 to that moment where

05:08:57.140 he needs to step

05:08:57.800 up, he might

05:08:59.000 crumble, he might

05:08:59.820 collapse.

05:09:00.800 So, I don't think

05:09:02.940 it's an attractive

05:09:03.660 thing to do.

05:09:04.380 I feel like it's

05:09:04.920 more situational,

05:09:06.020 you know what I

05:09:06.360 mean?

05:09:07.280 Like, if he's

05:09:08.160 crying at everything,

05:09:09.400 like, okay.

05:09:09.960 If a family member

05:09:10.740 dies, and then he's

05:09:11.980 like, overcome with

05:09:12.640 emotion, then that's

05:09:13.960 fair enough, obviously.

05:09:15.160 If something so

05:09:15.740 tragic happens.

05:09:16.980 But if it's every,

05:09:17.840 over all these little

05:09:18.880 things, then it's

05:09:19.600 just kind of just

05:09:20.300 bitchy. 1.00

05:09:21.180 Well, it's just a

05:09:21.840 lack of, like,

05:09:23.120 emotional stability,

05:09:24.280 if they cry at

05:09:25.060 everything.

05:09:25.820 But it's like, if

05:09:26.380 you're crying for

05:09:27.100 every good reason,

05:09:28.500 it just...

05:09:28.780 Law Paladins donated

05:09:29.760 $100.

05:09:31.440 It's true that women 1.00

05:09:32.560 want a man to show 0.60

05:09:33.700 crying to them,

05:09:34.800 because nothing is

05:09:35.680 more repulsive to a

05:09:36.860 woman than wasting 1.00

05:09:37.800 her time with a 0.98

05:09:38.840 weak man.

05:09:39.640 If you show her

05:09:40.560 your weakness, you've

05:09:42.080 saved her time.

05:09:42.960 Facts.

05:09:46.800 That's facts, Law Paladins.

05:09:48.140 This is so toxic, I

05:09:49.220 can't even...

05:09:49.980 By the way, you can

05:09:51.240 do your little special

05:09:52.040 100, you know, your

05:09:53.120 little thing, Law Paladins. 0.97

05:09:54.860 Sorry, it's what?

05:09:56.620 It's so toxic to

05:09:58.620 spread this message.

05:10:00.020 How is it toxic?

05:10:01.640 To young men thinking

05:10:02.660 that they cannot

05:10:03.480 express emotion.

05:10:05.020 The only time, honestly,

05:10:06.420 the only time a man 0.90

05:10:07.340 should cry is if a

05:10:10.180 family member died,

05:10:11.380 someone close to them

05:10:12.760 died, maybe like a

05:10:16.580 beloved animal died.

05:10:20.360 That's toxic masculinity. 1.00

05:10:22.100 It's not toxic.

05:10:22.580 No, it literally is.

05:10:23.600 Hold on, hold on.

05:10:24.200 Because then if you

05:10:24.860 cry at something, you'll

05:10:25.740 be like, everyone

05:10:26.280 hates me.

05:10:26.940 Men keep show emotion. 0.88

05:10:28.460 No one cares about

05:10:29.320 blah, blah, blah.

05:10:29.940 It's like you're the

05:10:30.720 one saying it.

05:10:31.400 Hold on.

05:10:31.720 So, okay.

05:10:33.100 So, I'm trying to think

05:10:34.880 like severe health issue

05:10:38.280 for a loved one or

05:10:40.100 yourself.

05:10:40.560 Like you find out you

05:10:41.420 have cancer.

05:10:43.440 That's acceptable.

05:10:44.680 But like all the

05:10:45.920 scenarios where y'all 1.00

05:10:47.020 fucking cry about shit, 1.00

05:10:48.340 it's not acceptable for 1.00

05:10:49.920 a dude to cry in like

05:10:51.440 99% of the scenarios in

05:10:53.740 which y'all cry.

05:10:55.060 I don't be crying that

05:10:56.240 much though.

05:10:56.840 What's your sign? 1.00

05:10:57.360 Bullshit. 1.00

05:10:57.920 Taurus. 1.00

05:10:58.940 Oh, I don't, is it

05:10:59.740 a nice sign?

05:11:00.100 Anyways.

05:11:00.600 Mess with the horns,

05:11:02.580 you get, wait, mess

05:11:03.880 with the bull. 1.00

05:11:04.280 Oh my God, I fucked it 0.99

05:11:05.480 up. 0.94

05:11:05.780 But I would say the

05:11:06.340 reverse of what you

05:11:08.320 guys think is actually

05:11:09.520 true about crying and

05:11:10.720 about toxic masculinity.

05:11:12.620 If you encourage guys

05:11:14.800 to just cry about

05:11:15.520 everything, then that's

05:11:16.720 actually against our

05:11:17.780 nature.

05:11:18.460 We don't want to cry

05:11:19.380 about things.

05:11:19.900 We want to come up

05:11:20.540 with solutions.

05:11:20.920 Hail and well met.

05:11:22.520 Lol Paladin's donated

05:11:23.740 $100.02.

05:11:25.920 Thank you, man.

05:11:26.460 It's toxic for you to

05:11:27.680 prevent men like me

05:11:28.740 from teaching other

05:11:29.720 men truth.

05:11:31.020 Feminism is about 1.00

05:11:32.020 power, not equality,

05:11:33.420 and women knowing 0.99

05:11:34.280 the truth and men

05:11:35.180 being kept in the

05:11:36.060 dark is a power

05:11:36.940 imbalance.

05:11:39.380 It's true.

05:11:40.200 It's true.

05:11:40.820 It's true.

05:11:41.260 What does that even

05:11:41.900 mean?

05:11:44.000 Brian, I have to

05:11:44.940 leave. 0.99

05:11:45.220 I have to work

05:11:45.680 tomorrow.

05:11:46.680 Yeah, I'm going

05:11:47.140 to leave soon too.

05:11:48.360 What the?

05:11:48.460 Bro, we got a

05:11:49.000 thing.

05:11:49.100 No, you guys got

05:11:50.440 to stay.

05:11:50.940 You got to stay.

05:11:51.760 I have to work

05:11:52.020 tomorrow.

05:11:52.340 I have to work

05:11:52.880 at like 8 a.m.

05:11:55.100 What? 1.00

05:11:55.600 Sucking dick? 1.00

05:11:56.600 Hell yeah. 1.00

05:11:58.340 Guys, we're going

05:11:58.860 to wrap the show

05:11:59.540 up here soon.

05:12:00.780 You guys got to

05:12:01.380 make it to the

05:12:01.860 end.

05:12:02.640 How long?

05:12:03.560 I can stay for

05:12:04.260 maybe another 20

05:12:05.020 minutes or so.

05:12:05.760 Bro, don't do me

05:12:06.760 dirty like that.

05:12:07.320 You'll be right.

05:12:07.740 Just have a Red

05:12:08.300 Bull.

05:12:08.780 Yeah, can I get you

05:12:09.860 a Red Bull?

05:12:10.420 I already had an

05:12:11.060 energy drink.

05:12:11.960 No, I mean,

05:12:12.480 tomorrow morning,

05:12:13.120 you just have a Red

05:12:13.780 Bull and you'll be

05:12:14.440 winder up, watch

05:12:15.580 you go.

05:12:16.400 Wait, did we get

05:12:17.000 through all your

05:12:17.540 notes?

05:12:17.960 Hold on.

05:12:18.420 Let me see here.

05:12:19.720 We have Gloski.

05:12:21.280 We have, yeah.

05:12:22.400 Oh, okay.

05:12:23.060 Hold on.

05:12:23.540 Well, I got to

05:12:24.140 at least get

05:12:24.800 through your

05:12:25.300 notes first, Gabriella.

05:12:27.360 So, okay.

05:12:27.980 You said you have

05:12:28.580 lots of wild

05:12:29.180 dating stories from

05:12:30.000 all the states I've

05:12:31.000 lived in.

05:12:31.720 Here we go.

05:12:32.100 From first dates

05:12:32.700 that ended up at

05:12:33.580 a strip club,

05:12:35.060 swingers, dates

05:12:36.460 with doctors, plural,

05:12:38.960 from my hospital, etc.

05:12:41.340 How many physicians

05:12:43.340 have you dated?

05:12:45.520 Only like one,

05:12:47.840 actually.

05:12:48.480 But another one

05:12:49.320 sent me flowers.

05:12:50.520 You said you have

05:12:51.000 asked me out,

05:12:52.320 but I said no.

05:12:52.960 Wait, you said you

05:12:53.520 had dates with

05:12:54.320 doctors, plural,

05:12:56.440 from your hospital.

05:12:57.440 Well, I meant

05:12:58.080 just one.

05:12:59.380 But like multiple

05:13:00.180 dates with one

05:13:01.440 doctor.

05:13:02.980 Mm-hmm.

05:13:04.820 Wild.

05:13:05.260 Let's hear one

05:13:06.040 or two of these

05:13:07.080 wild dating stories.

05:13:08.760 Okay, so whenever

05:13:09.700 I was living in

05:13:10.300 Miami, these guys

05:13:11.900 asked me and my

05:13:12.780 friend to go on

05:13:13.360 a double date

05:13:13.880 on a boat.

05:13:14.840 We thought they

05:13:15.600 had a boat

05:13:16.460 or were renting

05:13:17.160 a boat, but they

05:13:18.220 were actually the

05:13:18.960 skippers for the

05:13:19.720 boat, and they

05:13:20.220 just stole the

05:13:22.540 owner's boat

05:13:23.480 and took us to

05:13:25.300 the wharf, which

05:13:25.940 is like a bar

05:13:27.140 on the water.

05:13:28.880 And then we

05:13:30.280 didn't like the

05:13:30.820 vibe, so we

05:13:31.180 just dipped.

05:13:33.540 Yeah.

05:13:33.760 And then, okay,

05:13:36.800 so I went on a

05:13:38.040 date with the

05:13:38.620 guy who took me

05:13:39.540 to a strip club.

05:13:41.440 And, you know, I

05:13:42.280 was honestly down

05:13:43.000 because I'm always

05:13:43.680 down for the

05:13:44.080 plot.

05:13:44.880 I'm down.

05:13:46.160 Because I had

05:13:46.840 just moved to

05:13:47.400 Arizona, and I

05:13:49.460 didn't really know

05:13:49.860 a lot of people

05:13:50.280 there.

05:13:51.080 And already from

05:13:51.940 dinner, he took

05:13:53.420 me to a nice

05:13:53.780 restaurant, but just

05:13:54.460 so many red flags,

05:13:55.440 and I didn't see

05:13:56.080 it going anywhere.

05:13:57.660 So he told me

05:13:58.420 that his birthday

05:13:59.060 was that night, but

05:14:00.720 he was meeting up

05:14:01.200 with his friends.

05:14:01.700 And I was like,

05:14:02.400 you know what, 1.00

05:14:03.360 fuck it, maybe 1.00

05:14:04.140 his friends are 1.00

05:14:04.760 cool, or I'll 0.63

05:14:05.920 meet some cool

05:14:06.480 girls through

05:14:07.080 whoever they go

05:14:08.320 with.

05:14:09.340 And he took me

05:14:10.220 to the strip

05:14:10.480 club, and as

05:14:11.720 soon as we got

05:14:12.160 there, the

05:14:13.680 stripper came up 1.00

05:14:14.320 and she was

05:14:14.760 like, oh, hey

05:14:15.880 so-and-so, good

05:14:16.580 to see you again,

05:14:17.680 and looked at me

05:14:18.420 and she's like,

05:14:18.680 you know, he

05:14:18.960 comes here all

05:14:19.380 the time, right?

05:14:20.820 I was like, oh,

05:14:21.900 yeah, it's a cool

05:14:22.440 spot, because

05:14:23.140 honestly, I didn't

05:14:24.080 care if he goes

05:14:24.860 to the strip club

05:14:25.340 because I wasn't

05:14:26.420 going to date

05:14:26.800 him.

05:14:27.500 You're like, I

05:14:28.040 don't even know

05:14:28.500 him like that.

05:14:29.140 You said that

05:14:31.660 you're, earlier

05:14:32.900 on in the show,

05:14:33.540 you said you're

05:14:33.940 really picky, and

05:14:35.560 you have high

05:14:36.220 standards, although

05:14:37.720 we kind of went

05:14:38.520 over that a

05:14:40.060 little bit, right?

05:14:40.660 I mean, we did

05:14:41.140 the delusional,

05:14:42.560 we did the

05:14:43.520 delusional

05:14:44.040 calculator, but

05:14:46.460 you said you'd

05:14:47.200 rather remain

05:14:48.260 single than

05:14:48.960 settle or lower

05:14:50.780 your standards,

05:14:51.660 is that correct?

05:14:52.720 Correct.

05:14:53.940 Okay.

05:14:54.380 But I'll, like,

05:14:55.100 I'll give people

05:14:55.660 a chance and

05:14:56.240 I'll go on

05:14:56.620 dates with

05:14:57.040 them, because

05:14:58.100 I feel like

05:14:58.320 everyone deserves

05:14:58.960 a shot, because

05:14:59.620 you don't know

05:15:00.100 if there is a

05:15:01.640 connection or not

05:15:02.200 until you try it

05:15:02.900 out.

05:15:03.360 You should give

05:15:04.320 this podcast a

05:15:05.160 shot and stay

05:15:05.760 until the end

05:15:06.440 of the show.

05:15:07.060 I can't.

05:15:07.800 I'm, like, too

05:15:08.620 many of them.

05:15:10.960 I mean, we are

05:15:11.900 going to wrap

05:15:12.360 probably within

05:15:13.360 an hour.

05:15:17.180 You guys could

05:15:18.000 stay an hour,

05:15:19.800 that would be

05:15:20.200 super.

05:15:24.300 I wish I

05:15:25.000 could, but I've

05:15:25.640 got lives to

05:15:26.300 save.

05:15:26.980 I've got to be

05:15:27.420 up at 6 a.m.

05:15:28.020 as well.

05:15:29.040 30 minutes.

05:15:30.600 We'll all do

05:15:31.460 this together.

05:15:32.440 I've got to be

05:15:32.740 up at 6 a.m.

05:15:33.380 too.

05:15:34.060 So let's all

05:15:34.460 power through.

05:15:35.260 You're not

05:15:35.760 getting up at

05:15:36.340 6 a.m.

05:15:37.000 I am.

05:15:37.560 Are you?

05:15:38.060 Yeah.

05:15:38.320 I've got to

05:15:38.560 drive to L.A.

05:15:40.000 early in the

05:15:40.540 morning.

05:15:40.740 You know why?

05:15:41.280 This is why the

05:15:41.920 wage gap exists,

05:15:42.780 because Jake's

05:15:43.500 over here.

05:15:44.580 He's like,

05:15:45.280 yo, we're

05:15:47.220 going to power

05:15:47.700 through, and

05:15:48.900 y'all are like,

05:15:49.560 oh, no.

05:15:50.680 I stayed till

05:15:51.400 the end last

05:15:52.060 time, so.

05:15:53.880 Yeah.

05:15:55.360 No one told

05:15:56.180 me how long

05:15:56.780 this was going

05:15:57.160 to be.

05:15:57.960 I'm covered.

05:16:00.260 A cursory bit

05:16:01.060 of research

05:16:01.580 would have.

05:16:02.600 I know, I

05:16:03.420 did no research.

05:16:04.440 Yeah, well.

05:16:05.260 I'm always down

05:16:06.040 for the plot.

05:16:06.740 Down for the

05:16:07.320 plot.

05:16:07.920 This is the

05:16:10.180 plot, so

05:16:11.140 it's got to

05:16:11.900 be here till

05:16:12.960 it thickens.

05:16:17.020 You want to

05:16:17.680 just stay?

05:16:18.320 I think you

05:16:18.980 got this, bro.

05:16:19.920 I think you

05:16:20.320 got this.

05:16:20.740 I'm getting

05:16:21.140 hangry, and I

05:16:22.120 got to work

05:16:22.560 tomorrow.

05:16:23.280 I got, actually,

05:16:25.140 I don't have any

05:16:25.680 episodes.

05:16:26.460 I got ketchup

05:16:27.040 packets.

05:16:28.740 It's okay.

05:16:29.700 I have some

05:16:30.580 ketchup packets.

05:16:31.940 Wow.

05:16:32.900 That's the L.A.

05:16:33.900 Wait, tell you

05:16:34.440 what, tell you

05:16:34.980 what.

05:16:35.200 How about we

05:16:35.880 make a deal?

05:16:36.600 I'll let you

05:16:37.020 leave early if 1.00

05:16:37.660 you shoot a

05:16:38.360 ketchup packet on

05:16:39.460 stream right now.

05:16:40.520 That's a good deal.

05:16:41.040 Like in my mouth?

05:16:41.580 Yeah.

05:16:41.940 Well, not like, I

05:16:43.100 didn't mean it that

05:16:43.640 way. 1.00

05:16:43.940 Like, shoot it. 1.00

05:16:44.880 Like, you have to 1.00

05:16:45.380 take a ketchup

05:16:47.520 packet. 1.00

05:16:47.980 Oh, damn it. 0.99

05:16:48.480 Why did I 0.99

05:16:48.840 offer this?

05:16:49.580 Yeah.

05:16:50.660 Can I have a

05:16:52.300 ketchup packet?

05:16:52.500 That's like an 1.00

05:16:53.080 easy ass. 1.00

05:16:53.440 Okay, and there's 0.99

05:16:54.820 a soy sauce packet

05:16:55.760 that you also have

05:16:56.820 to do.

05:16:57.120 Oh, okay.

05:16:58.260 And?

05:16:58.920 No, you can't

05:17:00.280 keep adding

05:17:00.700 stuff.

05:17:02.060 No chaser.

05:17:02.820 No chaser.

05:17:05.040 No chase, no

05:17:05.720 case.

05:17:07.500 Actually, I

05:17:08.180 rescind my thing.

05:17:09.140 You guys just, I'm 0.99

05:17:09.820 going to kidnap you 0.99

05:17:10.820 here.

05:17:13.160 You guys are now

05:17:14.140 all in an abusive

05:17:14.960 relationship with me.

05:17:16.580 I'm actually

05:17:17.380 kidnapping all of 0.82

05:17:18.260 you.

05:17:18.540 None of you are

05:17:19.000 allowed to leave.

05:17:23.860 Sorry.

05:17:25.520 Okay.

05:17:32.820 Selena, I need

05:17:34.620 to get into your

05:17:35.260 notes, too, you 0.99

05:17:36.340 dork. 0.99

05:17:37.520 Yeah. 0.99

05:17:38.800 All right, you

05:17:39.500 said you wanted to

05:17:40.280 talk about sexual

05:17:40.980 compatibility, can

05:17:41.960 money buy love?

05:17:43.280 Oh, yeah.

05:17:44.140 I mean, I feel like

05:17:45.000 we already talked

05:17:45.500 about that stuff.

05:17:46.540 These are your new

05:17:47.520 notes.

05:17:48.360 Also, your Instagram,

05:17:49.240 and why does it say

05:17:49.860 Southern Belle?

05:17:51.280 Because I'm from

05:17:52.240 Texas.

05:17:53.320 Oh, that's right.

05:17:55.440 Okay.

05:17:57.480 But, yeah, I mean,

05:17:58.540 the only thing new I

05:17:59.300 really added was just

05:18:00.220 another date story

05:18:01.220 about the guy.

05:18:02.080 I mean, he was just

05:18:03.860 kind of rude, and he

05:18:05.680 took me out to this

05:18:06.500 really nice place, and

05:18:08.860 everything was going

05:18:09.580 well, and it wasn't

05:18:11.780 like the fanciest

05:18:12.740 restaurant, but I was

05:18:13.980 eating chicken with a

05:18:14.840 knife and fork,

05:18:15.440 whatever, and one of

05:18:16.640 the wings were so

05:18:17.520 small that I just

05:18:18.220 picked it up and was

05:18:18.760 going to eat it,

05:18:19.460 like in a pig way or

05:18:21.080 whatever, like going 0.72

05:18:22.020 in, and he's like,

05:18:23.400 oh, it's not that

05:18:24.260 kind of place, and

05:18:25.180 that just pissed me

05:18:26.780 off.

05:18:27.460 So, I mean, it's not

05:18:28.500 that crazy, but.

05:18:29.480 You said that he was

05:18:35.260 mocked, he's just

05:18:35.900 essentially mocking the

05:18:36.920 way you were eating?

05:18:37.860 Yeah, I just thought

05:18:38.620 it was a little rude.

05:18:39.820 How were you eating?

05:18:41.260 Just like.

05:18:41.740 She just explained it.

05:18:43.260 Like, just nibbling.

05:18:46.480 Let's see, you, okay,

05:18:50.660 we got Ruby, we got to

05:18:52.240 get to Ruby's notes.

05:18:53.680 You said, you wanted

05:18:55.020 to ask, what do

05:18:55.620 people consider cheating

05:18:56.860 or toxic in a

05:18:57.700 relationship?

05:18:58.700 You know what I

05:18:59.320 consider toxic in a

05:19:00.340 relationship?

05:19:00.900 If it's like, I'm 0.90

05:19:01.500 kicking it with a 0.76

05:19:02.180 chick, and she's like, 1.00

05:19:03.440 it's like fucking 0.99

05:19:04.260 10.30, and she's 0.98

05:19:05.180 like, I got to leave

05:19:06.160 because I have work

05:19:06.820 early tomorrow, and

05:19:07.900 I'm like, bro, you

05:19:08.600 said, I thought we

05:19:09.540 were going to kick it

05:19:10.140 for at least another

05:19:10.820 hour.

05:19:11.680 Like, that's what, I

05:19:13.020 feel like that's

05:19:13.620 pretty toxic.

05:19:14.240 That's toxic?

05:19:15.840 Oh, wow.

05:19:16.880 That's toxic, dude.

05:19:17.440 Brent Brooks

05:19:18.120 donated $200.

05:19:20.480 Gabby, you are a

05:19:21.700 legend Arizona is

05:19:22.900 less cool without

05:19:23.860 you.

05:19:25.880 Yeah, that's to you.

05:19:26.840 Look, you got a

05:19:27.340 nice message.

05:19:28.100 See, even the chat

05:19:29.680 wants you to stay.

05:19:30.240 Who is Brent Brooks?

05:19:31.160 Is that a doctor that

05:19:32.100 you had carnal

05:19:32.740 knowledge with?

05:19:33.980 No.

05:19:34.980 Did you smash

05:19:35.700 Brent?

05:19:36.540 I did not.

05:19:37.300 Dr. Brooks?

05:19:38.060 No.

05:19:38.280 Was he an

05:19:38.920 ophthalmologist?

05:19:39.960 Actually, if this is

05:19:40.500 the first thing I

05:19:40.900 think it is, we

05:19:41.420 did go on a

05:19:41.940 date.

05:19:42.640 Did you smash?

05:19:44.600 No.

05:19:45.940 Let us know,

05:19:46.620 Brent, what

05:19:47.040 happened.

05:19:47.540 Yeah, what

05:19:48.160 happened?

05:19:48.580 A blowie? 1.00

05:19:49.840 She's like, I'm

05:19:50.640 like, okay, sorry,

05:19:53.320 sorry, sorry, that

05:19:53.660 was inappropriate.

05:19:54.280 My bad, my bad.

05:19:55.180 Let's see.

05:19:56.220 Ruby, you said, I

05:19:57.180 genuinely believe

05:19:57.940 people don't date to

05:19:58.780 marry anymore and

05:19:59.820 people just expect

05:20:00.760 too much now such

05:20:01.960 as fast reply shared

05:20:03.620 location.

05:20:04.840 Yeah, I feel like

05:20:05.940 that's something I

05:20:07.100 wanted to like ask

05:20:08.640 you guys about.

05:20:09.980 I feel like people

05:20:11.040 nowadays, like,

05:20:14.340 personally, like, I'll

05:20:18.540 meet a guy and, like,

05:20:21.980 they expect me to

05:20:23.180 respond, like, within,

05:20:25.280 like, a minute or

05:20:26.880 two.

05:20:27.740 Oh, yeah.

05:20:28.320 Yeah, like, and

05:20:29.460 now, like, I feel

05:20:31.220 like nowadays, like,

05:20:33.040 based off the stories

05:20:33.780 my parents told me or

05:20:34.760 like what, like, my

05:20:36.020 family, what I'm kind

05:20:37.220 of, like, what I was

05:20:38.740 educated on, um,

05:20:41.300 nowadays, just people

05:20:42.560 my age, like, they

05:20:43.740 expect too much.

05:20:45.900 They expect us to

05:20:46.900 respond like this,

05:20:48.220 like, or, like,

05:20:49.880 they'll ask for your

05:20:50.760 location right away.

05:20:52.660 It's like, what?

05:20:55.000 I've never.

05:20:55.720 I don't know.

05:20:56.860 Asked for the

05:20:57.520 location?

05:20:57.720 Yes.

05:20:58.060 I've never asked a

05:20:59.060 girl for location. 0.96

05:21:00.560 Really?

05:21:01.420 Has a girl ever asked 0.99

05:21:01.660 you?

05:21:02.740 No.

05:21:03.100 Why?

05:21:03.640 Did she come see you

05:21:04.480 or?

05:21:05.080 No.

05:21:05.680 No, it's like sharing

05:21:06.680 location.

05:21:07.160 Yeah, like, requested.

05:21:08.680 I think they're

05:21:09.360 scammers.

05:21:10.460 Huh?

05:21:10.760 I think they're

05:21:11.360 scammers if they do

05:21:12.060 that.

05:21:12.200 No, like, these

05:21:12.920 are people I've

05:21:13.580 met, like, in real

05:21:14.220 life.

05:21:14.780 So that's.

05:21:15.680 And, like, we're,

05:21:16.980 like, talking, like,

05:21:17.800 we're already, like,

05:21:18.720 let's say, like, I'm

05:21:20.420 talking to this man

05:21:21.260 and we're a month in.

05:21:22.980 He's already, like,

05:21:24.160 hey, so, like, since

05:21:25.460 we're getting a little

05:21:26.460 more serious, I think

05:21:28.360 we should share

05:21:28.840 locations.

05:21:29.680 I'm like, what?

05:21:31.220 But he's talking

05:21:32.000 about, like, Life

05:21:32.980 360.

05:21:33.920 And I've had

05:21:34.440 multiple.

05:21:35.360 Oh, that's worse.

05:21:35.860 Wait, Life 360?

05:21:36.220 Multiple experiences.

05:21:38.020 Wait, what is it?

05:21:38.600 Life 360?

05:21:39.640 What is that?

05:21:40.080 It's an app where

05:21:40.820 you can track

05:21:41.540 everything someone

05:21:42.660 does, like, the

05:21:43.300 time, the miles per

05:21:44.720 hour they're going

05:21:45.380 on the freeway. 1.00

05:21:45.920 What the fuck? 1.00

05:21:47.100 I didn't know about 1.00

05:21:47.760 that.

05:21:47.780 The time they

05:21:48.180 arrive at a certain

05:21:49.660 address.

05:21:50.040 Do you have that with

05:21:50.080 Frankie?

05:21:50.600 No, we just have

05:21:51.420 fine friends.

05:21:52.500 Oh, okay.

05:21:53.060 It's, like, not. 0.99

05:21:53.920 Damn. 0.98

05:21:54.280 Yeah, like, you see. 1.00

05:21:54.920 You're dating some

05:21:55.520 toxic dudes.

05:21:56.800 No. 1.00

05:21:57.520 Holy shit. 1.00

05:21:58.540 Maybe it's the men 0.99

05:21:59.500 I'm attractive to, but

05:22:00.660 honestly, I, like, even

05:22:03.060 my friends or even some

05:22:05.560 family, it's just people

05:22:06.660 around my age.

05:22:08.200 Yeah.

05:22:08.700 They just expect too

05:22:10.500 much.

05:22:10.940 I feel like that's not

05:22:11.920 normal.

05:22:13.120 Wait, what's your type

05:22:13.740 of guy?

05:22:15.460 I don't, I don't, I

05:22:16.760 don't know.

05:22:17.240 White guy, black 1.00

05:22:18.280 guys. 0.69

05:22:19.040 No.

05:22:19.580 Mexicans.

05:22:20.080 No.

05:22:20.580 I don't have a type.

05:22:21.580 Latino.

05:22:21.740 I like everything.

05:22:22.760 You're open to

05:22:23.200 anything.

05:22:23.560 Yeah.

05:22:23.820 All right.

05:22:26.360 The whole, yeah, the

05:22:27.300 sharing location thing,

05:22:28.160 I've never, I've never

05:22:28.980 had a girl ask me for 1.00

05:22:29.840 that.

05:22:30.180 I've never asked that

05:22:31.340 of a girl.

05:22:34.100 And then you said

05:22:35.160 that, like, expecting

05:22:37.560 replies super fast.

05:22:39.760 Yeah, I feel like,

05:22:41.600 come on, we have,

05:22:43.140 like, I may.

05:22:44.300 How old are these

05:22:44.800 guys?

05:22:46.200 They're in their

05:22:46.960 twenties.

05:22:48.300 Early twenties?

05:22:49.040 Late twenties?

05:22:49.600 Early twenties.

05:22:50.880 Yeah.

05:22:51.460 They don't sound very

05:22:52.220 busy.

05:22:53.340 Yeah.

05:22:54.280 I mean, yeah, but

05:22:56.260 like, still, what

05:22:58.560 if I just wanted to

05:22:59.320 like, to sit back

05:23:00.420 and then like, you

05:23:01.520 know, I just got off

05:23:02.240 my shift.

05:23:03.140 Let's say I just

05:23:03.660 want to watch

05:23:04.760 Netflix or something.

05:23:05.640 I can't even lie

05:23:06.380 about that anymore

05:23:07.240 because, you know,

05:23:08.000 they'll be like,

05:23:08.400 hey, like, why

05:23:08.980 haven't you responded?

05:23:09.860 It's been, it's

05:23:10.980 been 30 minutes.

05:23:11.800 I'm like, bro, I'm

05:23:12.360 watching my show.

05:23:13.080 Oh, that's

05:23:13.400 annoying.

05:23:13.980 Like, what?

05:23:15.780 Sometimes it takes

05:23:16.460 me over a day to

05:23:18.280 reply.

05:23:19.000 Like, yeah.

05:23:19.840 Like, I'm doing

05:23:20.640 72 hours.

05:23:23.420 Yeah.

05:23:23.780 I feel like the

05:23:25.740 expectations now are

05:23:27.680 just insane.

05:23:28.920 I don't know.

05:23:29.960 Yeah.

05:23:30.720 That's why I'd rather

05:23:31.440 meet people like in

05:23:32.460 real life and just,

05:23:33.500 you know, I don't

05:23:34.580 know.

05:23:36.120 Do you girls, have

05:23:36.720 you guys had that

05:23:37.380 experience of like,

05:23:38.480 that's got to be kind

05:23:39.360 of like almost scary

05:23:40.300 for a girl.

05:23:42.020 Like, it makes me

05:23:42.760 uncomfortable, like,

05:23:43.680 as a guy, if a girl's 1.00

05:23:44.860 saying this shit. 1.00

05:23:46.000 It is scary. 1.00

05:23:46.360 Like, depending on

05:23:47.200 the person.

05:23:47.860 If a girl's like, 1.00

05:23:49.200 getting on my case

05:23:50.380 about not replying

05:23:51.200 too quick, or like,

05:23:52.380 it's literally been

05:23:53.100 30 minutes and, or

05:23:54.440 like, one or two

05:23:55.140 hours and it's like,

05:23:55.760 I was doing some 0.99

05:23:56.260 shit. 0.98

05:23:58.420 But I feel like that's 0.99

05:23:59.420 got to be kind of

05:24:00.020 scary for a girl,

05:24:00.960 you know?

05:24:01.720 Like, I don't know.

05:24:02.880 Have you had that?

05:24:04.140 Like, a guy's like,

05:24:04.840 why didn't you

05:24:05.220 respond?

05:24:05.560 It's so lame, too. 0.51

05:24:07.040 It's like, you're so 0.98

05:24:07.960 lame. 0.99

05:24:08.660 You're just screaming, 1.00

05:24:09.440 I don't have shit to 0.99

05:24:10.080 do. 0.99

05:24:10.280 Oh, it's so lame.

05:24:12.520 Like, yeah.

05:24:13.840 But you've had that?

05:24:15.060 Yeah, just they

05:24:15.900 don't have a life.

05:24:18.040 Have you had that?

05:24:19.060 Yes.

05:24:21.240 Didn't work out.

05:24:22.480 I don't, but like,

05:24:24.020 as a guy, why would

05:24:25.060 you do that?

05:24:25.600 Because girls are 0.99

05:24:26.960 probably way more

05:24:27.760 sensitive to that

05:24:28.700 than men are.

05:24:30.240 So it's just like,

05:24:31.520 you're going to lose

05:24:32.600 the girl.

05:24:33.680 I feel like.

05:24:34.700 I don't know.

05:24:35.960 You want to make it

05:24:36.980 seem like the opposite.

05:24:37.920 Like, you don't really

05:24:38.520 care.

05:24:39.000 You're doing your thing

05:24:39.560 and they message you.

05:24:40.540 Not care, but like,

05:24:41.480 give people their space.

05:24:42.660 You know what I mean?

05:24:43.140 No, I think you want to

05:24:43.840 make it seem like your

05:24:46.220 mission and whatever

05:24:46.960 you're doing in life is

05:24:47.820 most important.

05:24:48.600 And then when like

05:24:49.380 messaging is just sort of

05:24:50.280 a side thing.

05:24:50.980 Yeah.

05:24:51.380 Are you one of those

05:24:53.160 people that think after a

05:24:54.560 good day that you have

05:24:55.480 to wait two days before

05:24:57.460 texting?

05:24:57.980 Okay.

05:24:58.460 I think I just don't

05:24:59.280 like playing games, you

05:25:00.260 know, because like seven

05:25:01.800 days a week, I'm busy.

05:25:02.900 And if you want me to

05:25:03.520 text you, I don't really

05:25:04.400 do small talk.

05:25:05.540 Maybe one or two

05:25:06.280 messages throughout the day.

05:25:07.140 But if it's like, hey,

05:25:07.860 like, what are you up to?

05:25:09.020 I'm like, working.

05:25:11.000 Yeah.

05:25:11.560 Go away.

05:25:12.140 From my experience, I feel

05:25:13.720 like the guys just think

05:25:14.860 you're like doing the

05:25:15.880 worst.

05:25:17.700 What do you mean?

05:25:18.420 Like they think you're

05:25:19.440 thought and plotting and

05:25:20.280 trying.

05:25:21.520 I've never heard that.

05:25:22.620 Really?

05:25:22.840 Like that happened to me

05:25:25.360 one time, not with my

05:25:26.480 current boyfriend, but he

05:25:27.860 had my location and he

05:25:29.420 was just like blowing up

05:25:30.280 my phone and I was like,

05:25:31.280 bro, I'm at a work

05:25:31.880 meeting.

05:25:32.800 Like he thought I was

05:25:35.240 like keeping a secret

05:25:36.320 or like.

05:25:38.000 I think guys that think

05:25:39.020 that they're projecting

05:25:40.700 because they're probably

05:25:41.480 doing something that they

05:25:42.380 shouldn't be doing.

05:25:43.540 Because one of my exes,

05:25:44.880 he would always like be on

05:25:46.200 my case at where I'm at.

05:25:47.220 And I worked a night

05:25:47.880 shift as a nurse and he

05:25:50.060 would be like, oh, like,

05:25:51.200 why are you sleeping all

05:25:52.220 day?

05:25:52.740 Like you're always out.

05:25:54.160 And I'm like, yeah, I'm

05:25:54.660 at work.

05:25:56.500 And like coming to find

05:25:57.500 out he was cheating on

05:25:58.240 me.

05:25:59.320 That didn't happen to me,

05:26:01.060 but like he didn't cheat

05:26:02.820 on me.

05:26:03.260 I don't think he was doing

05:26:04.240 anything.

05:26:05.120 And then Ruby, going back

05:26:06.340 to you, you said you were

05:26:07.220 getting to know guy in a

05:26:08.180 weekend to us going on

05:26:09.080 dates.

05:26:09.340 He told you he loved you.

05:26:11.860 Yes.

05:26:12.360 Oh, my gosh.

05:26:15.360 I don't understand like why

05:26:18.220 that was even said.

05:26:19.540 I feel like I don't

05:26:22.240 know.

05:26:23.740 You have to build a

05:26:24.980 connection in order to

05:26:26.120 like love someone.

05:26:27.640 So like for them to say

05:26:29.080 that or for anyone to

05:26:30.460 well, no judgment if you

05:26:32.540 guys believe in that.

05:26:33.640 But like me personally,

05:26:35.500 like you can't love

05:26:37.100 someone you just sort of

05:26:38.460 met.

05:26:39.320 Like there has to be a

05:26:40.900 deeper connection.

05:26:43.580 So I don't know.

05:26:44.480 That was just so weird.

05:26:45.520 It threw me off.

05:26:46.280 And I was just like, bro,

05:26:47.180 like, you know what?

05:26:48.080 Never mind.

05:26:48.480 I'm like, you just gave

05:26:49.160 me the biggest ache of

05:26:49.940 my life. 1.00

05:26:51.720 Damn. 1.00

05:26:52.500 And then you. 1.00

05:26:53.600 No, I played it cool.

05:26:55.140 I was like, oh, I was

05:26:55.860 like, I think I might have

05:26:57.280 said thank you.

05:27:01.180 You said that one time

05:27:04.160 you thought the guy you

05:27:05.300 were in a situation with

05:27:06.620 was going to take you out

05:27:07.600 to dinner.

05:27:09.380 He mentioned taking a

05:27:10.780 quick stop. 0.81

05:27:12.120 He took you to a trap

05:27:13.340 house to sell drugs to a

05:27:14.640 bunch of bald men who 0.74

05:27:15.440 were disrespectful.

05:27:16.220 respectful instead.

05:27:21.100 And then he took you

05:27:22.200 straight home afterwards.

05:27:22.960 He took you straight

05:27:24.420 home afterwards.

05:27:26.340 Yes, that indeed did

05:27:27.900 happen.

05:27:28.280 How many bald men were

05:27:29.260 there?

05:27:29.540 And was this like, oh,

05:27:30.440 God, there was more

05:27:31.700 than five.

05:27:32.460 And they were all

05:27:33.020 bald.

05:27:34.400 That's what happened.

05:27:35.180 Like, I'm not.

05:27:36.200 I am not kidding.

05:27:37.780 They were all.

05:27:39.100 I was like, oh,

05:27:41.040 like this.

05:27:41.480 They just all had had a

05:27:44.940 nude knot.

05:27:45.620 All of them.

05:27:46.640 It was a bald community,

05:27:47.880 I believe.

05:27:49.420 Interesting.

05:27:50.220 But that did happen.

05:27:51.760 Like, I'm not lying about

05:27:53.180 that.

05:27:54.140 I hope he doesn't see

05:27:55.220 this.

05:27:56.720 But, yeah, I really

05:27:59.320 thought, you know, we're

05:28:00.380 going to go out for

05:28:01.020 dinner.

05:28:01.440 It was, you know, like

05:28:02.340 probably like eight

05:28:03.340 already.

05:28:04.260 I was like, oh, OK.

05:28:05.980 And he was mentioning

05:28:07.480 like being hungry.

05:28:07.880 I'm picturing like orcs in

05:28:08.880 my head, like Lord of the

05:28:09.840 Rings orcs.

05:28:10.500 They were big, too.

05:28:13.400 Like, they were big.

05:28:14.540 Yeah.

05:28:15.480 Going to your notes here,

05:28:16.500 you said you used to

05:28:17.200 date this guy that had

05:28:18.080 two weed plants, weed

05:28:19.560 plants in the bed.

05:28:20.740 You asked multiple times

05:28:21.920 if he could remove them.

05:28:22.960 But he always explained

05:28:24.180 that the sun was best

05:28:25.140 there for the plants. 1.00

05:28:25.960 I was so stupid. 1.00

05:28:28.300 And you were supposed 1.00

05:28:28.860 to deal with it.

05:28:29.580 Yeah.

05:28:29.980 I dated him for like

05:28:31.520 two and a half years.

05:28:32.720 And I don't know why

05:28:33.840 I allowed that.

05:28:36.660 But, yeah.

05:28:37.300 Yeah.

05:28:37.520 I would come to his

05:28:38.400 place and he was,

05:28:40.000 you can have weed plants

05:28:41.540 in the Netherlands,

05:28:42.260 but I don't smoke weed.

05:28:44.060 So I don't like the smell

05:28:45.400 of the plants.

05:28:46.220 And one day they were

05:28:47.180 in the bed and he

05:28:49.380 scooched the mattress

05:28:50.980 to the sides.

05:28:52.480 So there was this tiny

05:28:53.660 space to sleep.

05:28:57.140 Yeah.

05:28:57.620 And I asked, hey, can you

05:28:59.560 remove those when we

05:29:01.240 were going to sleep?

05:29:02.540 And he was like, no,

05:29:03.740 because tomorrow morning

05:29:04.820 the sun starts there

05:29:06.100 and that's good for the

05:29:07.000 plants.

05:29:09.100 And I stayed.

05:29:10.880 Interesting.

05:29:11.680 Huh.

05:29:12.000 You said that you were,

05:29:13.960 uh, wait, hold on.

05:29:15.100 There's a different one.

05:29:15.760 Uh, you went with a guy

05:29:18.600 to Curacao, is that

05:29:20.560 how you say it?

05:29:20.940 Curacao.

05:29:21.540 Curacao.

05:29:22.120 Okay.

05:29:22.360 Yeah.

05:29:22.460 Where he came from.

05:29:23.460 The same guy.

05:29:24.020 Yeah.

05:29:24.680 So he, he came from

05:29:26.080 Curacao and his mom

05:29:28.060 lived there and we were

05:29:28.940 going to visit her for

05:29:29.840 a month.

05:29:30.460 And then, uh, she 0.86

05:29:32.840 would say like, oh,

05:29:33.920 maybe you can bring

05:29:34.800 Thief to this and that

05:29:35.840 place.

05:29:36.280 That's really nice.

05:29:37.120 And he would be like,

05:29:37.860 oh, I've been there so

05:29:38.820 many times already.

05:29:40.020 And he would just play

05:29:41.260 poker in the house on

05:29:43.020 his laptop.

05:29:43.660 Uh, but then his mom

05:29:45.460 was super sweet.

05:29:46.740 So she would say like,

05:29:47.840 Hey Thief, do you want

05:29:48.660 to walk the dog with

05:29:49.460 me?

05:29:49.740 And then she would say,

05:29:51.100 let's take the car.

05:29:52.340 And then she would bring

05:29:53.320 me to all these places to

05:29:54.680 show me how beautiful the

05:29:55.760 islands was.

05:29:57.280 You said that, uh, you

05:29:58.680 once you were on the

05:30:00.180 first date and he asked

05:30:01.960 you, what do you like to

05:30:02.940 do?

05:30:03.460 You were super hyped about

05:30:04.680 the new world of Warcraft

05:30:05.980 expansion.

05:30:07.320 So you, uh, mentioned

05:30:09.600 lower the volume to 50

05:30:11.860 that I think, can you

05:30:14.220 lower the volume?

05:30:15.720 Can you, can you

05:30:16.380 lower the volume?

05:30:20.020 Oh, Desiree Noel

05:30:21.920 donated $1,000.

05:30:23.860 Wow.

05:30:24.440 Pop champagne, champagne

05:30:26.480 pops for Mason and a

05:30:28.260 big thanks to Brian for

05:30:29.680 being the goat and

05:30:30.400 helping me feed my kids.

05:30:32.740 Wow.

05:30:33.240 That is a champagne

05:30:34.300 pop.

05:30:35.040 Um, W Desiree.

05:30:36.880 Austin.

05:30:37.720 Hey, yeah, I never

05:30:38.820 thought I'd, I guess

05:30:39.700 that's a W for Desiree.

05:30:40.840 There, there she goes.

05:30:41.980 She's becoming a, uh, 0.89

05:30:43.460 whatever fan.

05:30:44.860 Uh, Mason.

05:30:45.180 The character arc is

05:30:45.860 real.

05:30:46.160 Mason.

05:30:46.540 Oh my God.

05:30:47.560 Austin.

05:30:48.120 Austin, can you grab a

05:30:49.080 champagne and get

05:30:49.780 also, I'm pretty sure

05:30:51.420 she left.

05:30:53.460 I heard the door. 1.00

05:30:56.180 What a dork. 0.99

05:30:57.080 Okay. 1.00

05:30:58.000 Rude.

05:30:59.480 Uh, okay.

05:31:02.120 Um, I'm going to do

05:31:03.920 this.

05:31:04.900 She, she left right 0.98

05:31:06.020 before the champagne

05:31:06.720 pop, man.

05:31:09.040 She left.

05:31:10.840 Uh, it's one you

05:31:12.820 open by the hand.

05:31:14.340 Yeah.

05:31:14.700 I don't, I, I, yeah,

05:31:15.680 just can, just give me a

05:31:16.800 paper towel if you can.

05:31:18.560 And, uh, we got some

05:31:19.460 cups here.

05:31:20.220 Yes.

05:31:20.540 Thank you.

05:31:21.480 Uh, while we're doing

05:31:22.600 that, uh, can you tell

05:31:24.220 us the world of Warcraft

05:31:25.520 story?

05:31:26.820 Yeah.

05:31:27.240 So, uh, I got out of

05:31:28.660 the relationship with the

05:31:29.720 wheat plant guy and I

05:31:31.700 was excited to date again.

05:31:34.020 And I remember I had

05:31:35.680 this date, uh, with

05:31:37.200 someone, I believe it

05:31:38.940 was a friend of a

05:31:40.300 friend and they set us

05:31:41.420 up.

05:31:42.180 So I went there and we

05:31:43.720 sat down and he asked

05:31:45.820 me like, oh, what are

05:31:46.740 you doing?

05:31:47.320 What's on your mind?

05:31:48.280 And at the time, uh, I

05:31:50.040 think it was Legion or

05:31:51.380 maybe the expansion

05:31:52.160 before that, but it was

05:31:53.220 going to be, get

05:31:54.320 released for World of

05:31:55.240 Warcraft.

05:31:56.060 And I was super hyped

05:31:57.420 about it.

05:31:58.320 And then I explained

05:31:59.580 like, oh, there's this

05:32:00.480 new expansion.

05:32:01.080 So in a few days that's

05:32:02.300 going to happen and all

05:32:03.360 the new stuff, are you

05:32:04.940 going to pop it now?

05:32:06.420 Yeah.

05:32:06.960 And then he said like,

05:32:09.040 oh yeah, gaming is, uh, 1.00

05:32:10.940 stupid for girls. 1.00

05:32:12.440 That's only something men 1.00

05:32:13.720 should do.

05:32:14.520 And then, uh, the waiter

05:32:15.940 came and he just ordered

05:32:17.460 drinks and I was like, 1.00

05:32:18.500 shit, I really don't want 0.99

05:32:19.860 to sit here. 0.99

05:32:20.440 But we, we talked a lot

05:32:21.800 about him playing Call of

05:32:23.780 Duty because he was also

05:32:25.040 a gamer.

05:32:26.260 Um, and yeah.

05:32:28.720 And so he said what

05:32:30.500 again?

05:32:31.440 He said that, uh,

05:32:32.880 gaming is for men and

05:32:34.320 women shouldn't game. 1.00

05:32:35.380 It's a waste of time,

05:32:36.200 but he was a gamer as

05:32:37.820 well, but I don't know

05:32:39.140 what his logic was there.

05:32:40.860 And then you were so

05:32:42.640 done with him after he

05:32:44.240 said, uh, gaming was for

05:32:46.520 men and women shouldn't 1.00

05:32:47.640 game.

05:32:48.180 Yeah.

05:32:48.740 Uh, well, before I get

05:32:49.740 into that, because I

05:32:50.400 really want to get into

05:32:51.140 that, who wants some

05:32:53.480 champagne?

05:32:54.820 Is there alcohol in

05:32:55.840 it?

05:32:56.220 Yeah.

05:32:57.000 Yes.

05:32:58.160 Please.

05:32:58.900 All right.

05:32:59.400 All right.

05:32:59.780 She's, she's, she's a 0.64

05:33:01.420 being a good sport.

05:33:02.240 Now we're getting some

05:33:02.900 alcohol.

05:33:03.660 All right.

05:33:04.300 Uh, here, let me, uh,

05:33:06.260 make it a little, or

05:33:07.080 Maddie, can you do the

05:33:07.820 favors?

05:33:09.320 So only four or can you

05:33:11.000 pour Jake?

05:33:12.020 You want, you got to

05:33:12.840 have a little Desiree

05:33:13.860 champagne.

05:33:14.500 I don't drink, but I, I

05:33:15.860 appreciate that.

05:33:17.160 It's going to a good

05:33:17.940 cold.

05:33:18.320 Well done.

05:33:18.840 All right.

05:33:19.180 Maddie, if you can

05:33:19.740 pour the rest for the

05:33:20.480 gals, uh, Ruby, you 1.00

05:33:22.780 can't have champagne,

05:33:25.020 champagne, champagne,

05:33:26.980 champagne, champagne.

05:33:28.640 Yeah.

05:33:29.260 Champagne.

05:33:29.700 Champagne.

05:33:30.080 Okay.

05:33:30.320 So two.

05:33:32.160 Perfect.

05:33:32.740 Just two bottles.

05:33:33.760 All right.

05:33:34.000 Well, I don't need the

05:33:35.020 whole bottle.

05:33:35.760 Just these two.

05:33:36.500 Yeah.

05:33:37.020 Yeah.

05:33:38.400 There's a lot.

05:33:39.220 Uh, so the whole

05:33:39.900 video gaming thing, I

05:33:40.900 maybe, you know what I'm

05:33:42.160 talking about.

05:33:42.900 There was like this girl

05:33:44.060 who, oh man, it was,

05:33:46.540 is he wrong?

05:33:50.540 I, I don't know.

05:33:52.900 I've always been a

05:33:53.720 gamer, but I've had so

05:33:55.160 many people tell me that

05:33:56.480 it's, it's a waste of

05:33:58.540 time to game.

05:34:00.300 I don't know, but that's

05:34:01.500 now my job and I built

05:34:02.880 this beautiful community.

05:34:03.920 So for me, no.

05:34:05.560 And I know a lot of

05:34:06.580 girls who also game.

05:34:07.960 I like it.

05:34:09.180 But, well, it's not, I

05:34:10.740 don't think it's that

05:34:11.540 like, maybe this is the

05:34:12.760 angle here is that, so

05:34:15.240 gaming is, was more of a

05:34:19.000 male space and men are 1.00

05:34:22.860 frequently losing kind of

05:34:24.740 more male dominated

05:34:25.860 spaces, right?

05:34:28.680 Let's do a quick cheers 0.99

05:34:29.780 and then we'll get into

05:34:30.780 the topic.

05:34:31.440 All right.

05:34:31.980 Uh, salute.

05:34:32.500 Thank you, Desiree.

05:34:33.520 Doomsday Desiree.

05:34:34.420 Salute.

05:34:35.220 Cheers.

05:34:35.860 Cheers.

05:34:36.580 Cheers.

05:34:37.480 To a quick recovery

05:34:38.280 for Mason.

05:34:38.680 Yes.

05:34:38.940 And cheers to Mason, uh,

05:34:40.480 to Mason.

05:34:42.120 Uh, I'm sure you'll love

05:34:45.080 that Desiree is, um,

05:34:46.240 um, um,

05:34:48.240 so women go into male 1.00

05:34:52.020 spaces and destroy 0.98

05:34:53.120 male spaces.

05:34:55.260 Uh, so maybe that's

05:34:56.400 what he was saying.

05:34:57.440 Yeah.

05:34:57.820 I don't know.

05:34:58.620 I've never considered it

05:34:59.940 a male space because I

05:35:01.620 mean, I started gaming

05:35:02.740 when I was like 11 or

05:35:04.100 something when we had a

05:35:04.960 PlayStation two, I

05:35:05.940 always played SSX three

05:35:07.400 and Tony Hawk pro

05:35:08.920 skater and heroes of

05:35:10.800 might and magic three on

05:35:12.240 the PC.

05:35:12.740 And it was always, but

05:35:14.360 these were all single

05:35:15.160 players.

05:35:15.560 So I didn't meet other

05:35:16.760 people.

05:35:17.180 I didn't know if there

05:35:18.120 were male or female.

05:35:20.240 Well, I think the issue

05:35:22.580 that men tend to have is 0.98

05:35:23.900 if women wanted to come 1.00

05:35:25.820 into their space, I

05:35:26.780 don't think they would

05:35:27.340 really care necessarily.

05:35:29.880 But what ends up

05:35:30.820 happening is women will 1.00

05:35:32.500 enter male spaces and 1.00

05:35:34.140 start to try to police

05:35:35.800 their conduct.

05:35:38.800 Oh, you can't make

05:35:40.100 these kinds of jokes.

05:35:41.140 You can't talk this way.

05:35:42.300 They'll start policing

05:35:43.540 the conduct.

05:35:44.620 Yeah, maybe I had bad

05:35:47.120 experiences with his

05:35:48.460 Call of Duty groups.

05:35:50.240 I don't know.

05:35:51.120 You had bad experiences

05:35:52.020 with Call of Duty groups?

05:35:52.980 He, like he played

05:35:53.860 Call of Duty, so he.

05:35:55.340 Yeah, they just want to

05:35:56.180 be on Call of Duty and 1.00

05:35:57.540 fucking talk shit to each 1.00

05:35:59.080 other and be super toxic. 1.00

05:36:00.940 But you introduce like a

05:36:02.600 woman and then is she 1.00

05:36:04.380 going to tolerate that

05:36:05.260 level of toxicity?

05:36:06.320 She's going to start

05:36:06.860 policing it.

05:36:07.840 She's going to start

05:36:08.480 calling them sexist and

05:36:09.600 all this stuff.

05:36:10.660 Isn't this the like

05:36:11.460 genesis of Gamergate 2

05:36:13.200 where, I don't know all

05:36:14.940 the details of Gamergate,

05:36:16.180 but like they just

05:36:17.640 wanted to police gamers.

05:36:20.440 Isn't that what it was

05:36:21.440 all about?

05:36:23.680 I don't know.

05:36:24.340 I thought gaming was

05:36:25.200 all about just escaping

05:36:26.500 worlds and enjoying

05:36:27.900 your little fairy tale

05:36:29.380 and play together with

05:36:30.860 friends.

05:36:32.180 But yeah, I don't know.

05:36:33.340 I don't experience it as

05:36:35.140 policing.

05:36:36.160 I also didn't talk to him

05:36:37.880 that long after the

05:36:39.400 first drink I left, so I

05:36:40.560 never asked him why he

05:36:43.120 thought gaming wasn't

05:36:44.000 for women.

05:36:45.280 Maybe I should have and

05:36:46.340 then a story like that

05:36:47.320 would have occurred.

05:36:50.100 I guess.

05:36:51.780 I don't know.

05:36:53.240 Do you think women 0.99

05:36:54.420 should be gamers?

05:36:57.120 Can be gamers?

05:36:58.520 Well, of course you can

05:36:59.600 be gamers.

05:37:01.060 I have no objections to

05:37:02.700 women playing video

05:37:03.480 games.

05:37:03.780 What I object to is the

05:37:05.400 tendency for women to 1.00

05:37:07.160 enter predominantly male

05:37:10.200 spaces and instead of

05:37:12.740 like trying to become

05:37:14.020 one of the boys, you're

05:37:15.560 like the way you guys are

05:37:17.320 conducting yourselves is

05:37:18.680 wrong.

05:37:19.360 You need to change

05:37:20.560 because now a woman is 1.00

05:37:21.780 here.

05:37:22.680 That's the problem.

05:37:24.460 Does that make sense?

05:37:26.060 Yeah, I guess I think

05:37:27.480 what you mean, but I

05:37:28.200 don't think that's an

05:37:29.000 issue in World of

05:37:29.740 Warcraft, at least not

05:37:30.940 like how I experienced

05:37:32.260 it.

05:37:33.440 I mean.

05:37:34.480 But I know, for

05:37:35.360 example, Valorant, I

05:37:36.620 played that for a little

05:37:37.420 bit and I quit because

05:37:38.580 the toxicity was so high

05:37:40.440 and I didn't like all

05:37:42.300 the go back to the

05:37:43.440 kitchen kind of jokes.

05:37:45.920 So I just quit.

05:37:47.260 So I left them with

05:37:48.620 their toxicity in

05:37:50.120 Valorant, I suppose.

05:37:53.760 But yeah.

05:37:55.600 I mean, if women want 1.00

05:37:57.500 to play video games,

05:37:58.240 that's I don't have any

05:37:59.620 issues with it.

05:38:00.280 I think the issue that a

05:38:01.200 lot of these video game

05:38:01.980 guys have.

05:38:02.660 Hail and well met.

05:38:04.400 Lol, paladins donated

05:38:05.600 one hundred dollars and

05:38:06.960 two cents.

05:38:08.400 Women are absolutely 1.00

05:38:09.440 welcome to game.

05:38:11.120 Someone has to play the

05:38:12.340 rest of shaman slash

05:38:13.760 holy priest keeping my

05:38:15.120 tank alive.

05:38:16.300 Having a female in 1.00

05:38:17.280 guild changes the

05:38:18.420 dynamic, even if they

05:38:19.860 aren't sleeping with

05:38:20.760 guild lead.

05:38:25.580 I do have to say I

05:38:26.780 know a lot of female 1.00

05:38:27.980 healers in World of

05:38:29.060 Warcraft.

05:38:29.400 We do need healers.

05:38:31.480 That's true.

05:38:32.120 I am also I'm a holy

05:38:33.820 paladin, so I am also a

05:38:35.860 healer.

05:38:36.660 So that stereotype I

05:38:38.140 kind of fit.

05:38:40.280 Yeah.

05:38:40.860 Well, anyways, totally

05:38:42.420 cool with women gaming 1.00

05:38:43.740 like that's totally cool.

05:38:45.340 It's just like when you

05:38:46.300 come in and start trying

05:38:47.300 to like police the

05:38:50.040 way the men are were

05:38:53.840 happily conducting

05:38:55.000 themselves when it was

05:38:56.060 mostly just men.

05:38:57.140 it's like also didn't

05:38:58.840 this happen in the

05:38:59.480 corporate world too

05:39:00.200 essentially.

05:39:00.800 But oh boy, I'm

05:39:02.880 going to get canceled

05:39:03.360 for that one.

05:39:05.240 But I mean, is that

05:39:06.660 what?

05:39:06.900 HR departments?

05:39:07.720 OK.

05:39:08.140 All right.

05:39:09.480 Let's see what else

05:39:10.540 you said that

05:39:11.720 more traditional

05:39:16.480 topics.

05:39:17.900 You're being bisexual. 0.99

05:39:19.740 You date both men

05:39:20.480 and women. 0.98

05:39:20.900 You notice a lot of

05:39:23.900 hidden homophobia.

05:39:25.700 OK.

05:39:25.940 Well, I'm not going to

05:39:26.420 get into that.

05:39:28.900 OK.

05:39:29.460 Of course, dating and

05:39:30.120 making content is

05:39:30.900 interesting.

05:39:32.820 Let's see.

05:39:33.400 There's this one episode

05:39:34.440 where it seemed girls

05:39:35.440 cannot have guy friends

05:39:36.800 when they're in a

05:39:37.780 relationship.

05:39:38.360 I have a lot of guy

05:39:39.040 friends.

05:39:39.740 Never understand why

05:39:40.620 they would be why that

05:39:41.820 would be a problem. 1.00

05:39:42.380 I wouldn't fuck my 1.00

05:39:43.060 friends. 1.00

05:39:43.740 That's why they are my

05:39:44.480 friends and not anything

05:39:45.460 romantically involved.

05:39:46.460 I find that weird.

05:39:47.820 I agree with the

05:39:48.480 statements of Brian about

05:39:49.220 how women should not 1.00

05:39:49.920 change too much about

05:39:50.800 their body.

05:39:51.860 I think the beauty

05:39:52.400 standard is getting out

05:39:53.340 of hand and surgeries

05:39:54.300 can come with complications.

05:39:56.280 Women should learn to 1.00

05:39:57.000 love their bodies instead

05:39:57.960 of constantly trying to 0.97

05:39:58.840 make their boobs bigger, 1.00

05:39:59.800 their belly smaller, 0.99

05:40:00.860 their lips bigger, 1.00

05:40:01.660 their ass, 1.00

05:40:02.260 their everything. 1.00

05:40:03.460 Yeah, I agree with you.

05:40:05.060 And you forgot

05:40:05.800 labiaplasty, though.

05:40:07.300 What's that?

05:40:09.200 The labia,

05:40:10.100 labiaplasty. 0.98

05:40:13.180 Oh, sorry.

05:40:15.100 Yeah, that's. 1.00

05:40:15.660 They chop their shit up. 1.00

05:40:16.700 It's fucked up. 1.00

05:40:17.120 Oh, yeah. 0.99

05:40:17.300 Yeah, no.

05:40:18.600 Women should be. 1.00

05:40:20.400 Big labia matter, huh? 1.00

05:40:22.740 Yeah, I don't know.

05:40:23.700 I think the beauty

05:40:24.340 standard is scary

05:40:26.160 sometimes.

05:40:28.280 I think it's good when

05:40:29.240 people are open about

05:40:30.200 what's fake so you don't

05:40:31.460 try to go after an ideal

05:40:34.100 that isn't realistic.

05:40:36.360 But I wonder how the

05:40:37.860 next generations will be 0.98

05:40:39.020 of girls with all the 1.00

05:40:40.360 Instagram models and

05:40:43.280 changes.

05:40:44.800 Yeah.

05:40:44.960 So I think it's cool

05:40:46.440 that you sometimes

05:40:47.080 mention that.

05:40:48.780 Okay.

05:40:53.280 Let's see.

05:40:55.120 You said,

05:40:56.160 I do disagree with

05:40:57.280 the host on a

05:40:57.800 standpoint on OnlyFans

05:40:58.840 is always bad.

05:41:00.120 I don't have an

05:41:00.780 OF and do really

05:41:02.240 dislike how normalized

05:41:03.160 it is on Twitch

05:41:04.220 and having people

05:41:05.320 asking for my nudes

05:41:06.140 while I don't do

05:41:06.760 that.

05:41:07.220 When did this become

05:41:08.080 normal to ask?

05:41:09.120 However, I do think

05:41:09.920 that girls that do 0.88

05:41:11.300 OF should do

05:41:12.060 whatever they want.

05:41:13.060 Yeah, I think it's

05:41:15.260 weird that when I'm

05:41:16.480 playing World of

05:41:17.120 Warcraft on Twitch,

05:41:18.480 it's apparently now

05:41:19.540 normal for people to

05:41:20.580 walk into my chat and

05:41:21.460 say, hey, what's your

05:41:22.280 OnlyFans link?

05:41:23.040 Do you have OnlyFans?

05:41:24.060 Or send me DMs with

05:41:25.440 like, hey, if I give

05:41:26.260 you 15 gift subs,

05:41:27.620 will you show me your

05:41:29.260 nudes?

05:41:29.780 And I'm like, that's

05:41:30.640 not the content I make.

05:41:31.800 I'm a game entertainer.

05:41:33.380 I game.

05:41:34.560 That's the content.

05:41:37.160 So it's a bit weird

05:41:38.480 that it's being so

05:41:39.220 normalized to just

05:41:40.320 randomly ask people

05:41:41.320 for their nudes and

05:41:42.260 pay for it.

05:41:43.060 Hmm.

05:41:45.100 But you said they

05:41:45.880 should be able to do

05:41:46.480 whatever they want,

05:41:47.560 essentially.

05:41:48.420 No, like, I don't

05:41:50.000 think there's something

05:41:51.000 wrong with OnlyFans,

05:41:52.680 but I do think there's

05:41:53.920 something wrong with

05:41:55.000 people normalizing that

05:41:56.700 you can ask any girl

05:41:58.340 about their private

05:42:00.320 parts.

05:42:02.520 Okay.

05:42:03.840 I don't, I do think

05:42:05.660 that's rude or

05:42:06.440 inappropriate, I

05:42:07.280 suppose.

05:42:07.680 is there, Jake, is

05:42:11.780 there a contradiction

05:42:12.840 there or not really?

05:42:14.180 Like, OnlyFans is

05:42:15.320 totally cool.

05:42:16.460 Yeah.

05:42:16.940 Sex work normal,

05:42:17.900 should be normalized,

05:42:19.000 but also how dare you

05:42:20.980 clutching your pearls

05:42:22.180 ask me for nudes?

05:42:24.060 Yeah.

05:42:26.280 Oh, did I?

05:42:26.840 Yeah.

05:42:26.960 I got it?

05:42:28.380 Okay.

05:42:28.600 You answered your

05:42:28.960 own question.

05:42:29.780 Okay, yeah.

05:42:32.780 I don't know if that's

05:42:33.720 necessarily a contradiction,

05:42:35.040 though.

05:42:36.620 Like, I don't play...

05:42:37.540 Pale and well met.

05:42:39.480 Lol Paladins donated

05:42:40.700 $100 and two cents.

05:42:43.460 Plus, it's that much

05:42:44.860 harder to pink parts if

05:42:46.200 there aren't legions of

05:42:47.440 women out there great 1.00

05:42:48.420 parsing to help inflate

05:42:49.780 your score.

05:42:51.040 Plus, society needs

05:42:52.800 baby machines or

05:42:53.920 civilization collapses. 1.00

05:42:55.880 What the fuck? 1.00

05:42:57.180 What the fuck? 1.00

05:42:58.460 All right, guys, we're 0.99

05:42:59.380 going to do a brief

05:43:00.380 row session and then

05:43:01.260 we're going to wrap up

05:43:01.860 the show.

05:43:02.920 TTS is now 20.

05:43:04.940 I'm going to get

05:43:05.520 everything up.

05:43:06.200 It is updated if you

05:43:07.300 want to get them in.

05:43:09.000 So, TTS is now set to

05:43:11.280 20.

05:43:12.080 Then we'll wrap up the

05:43:13.060 show here in just, I

05:43:15.660 don't know, 10 minutes

05:43:16.480 or so.

05:43:17.040 So, get your roasts in.

05:43:18.660 You need to roast Yael.

05:43:22.840 You need to roast Jake.

05:43:24.100 You need to roast Ruby. 1.00

05:43:26.200 You need to roast her. 1.00

05:43:27.900 You need to roast her. 1.00

05:43:30.020 She already got it pretty 0.78

05:43:30.800 bad tonight, so maybe be

05:43:31.900 easy on her.

05:43:32.580 You can still roast me.

05:43:33.120 I have champagne now.

05:43:34.900 Do you need more, by the

05:43:36.200 way?

05:43:36.380 Did we tap?

05:43:36.920 Yeah, this is the perfect

05:43:38.640 amount.

05:43:38.840 Did we tap the champagne?

05:43:40.300 Okay.

05:43:41.340 Guys, get your TTSs in.

05:43:44.380 Get your roasts in.

05:43:45.380 We are now entering the

05:43:46.320 whatever roast segment.

05:43:48.820 So, get in, boys.

05:43:50.240 And then, any final thoughts

05:43:51.460 from any of the panelists

05:43:52.180 here?

05:43:52.620 This is going to be an

05:43:53.060 early show, I think.

05:43:55.720 This is the shortest one

05:43:57.080 I've seen.

05:43:58.480 What's the longest you've

05:43:59.340 done?

05:43:59.560 We went to like...

05:44:00.820 We had like eight hours

05:44:01.620 the other night.

05:44:01.960 It was almost eight hours

05:44:03.240 last night.

05:44:03.660 This is...

05:44:04.120 Right now, we're just at...

05:44:05.380 We're less than six hours, so...

05:44:07.380 Yeah.

05:44:07.700 It's going to be a short

05:44:08.300 one tonight, I think.

05:44:09.440 It's an early night.

05:44:10.060 I just get so hungry.

05:44:11.560 Yeah.

05:44:13.460 Matt donated $20.

05:44:15.180 Can you boost the audio? 0.99

05:44:15.940 Redhead, shut the fuck up 1.00

05:44:17.440 and make me a sandwich. 1.00

05:44:18.960 Damn. 0.99

05:44:19.300 Also, women deserve equal 1.00

05:44:21.260 rights and lefts. 1.00

05:44:23.180 Oh, shit. 1.00

05:44:24.140 Okay. 1.00

05:44:24.820 All right.

05:44:25.980 Thank you, Matt.

05:44:26.580 Appreciate the message.

05:44:28.780 Old man Marine donated $20.

05:44:31.860 Redhead should get back in 1.00

05:44:33.160 the kitchen and stop sharing

05:44:34.620 her opinion. 1.00

05:44:35.520 Damn. 1.00

05:44:36.900 Uh-oh. 1.00

05:44:38.020 Yeah, no, that...

05:44:38.940 I saw that coming.

05:44:40.500 Oh, we have some reacts we

05:44:41.640 can do, too, while these come

05:44:43.000 in.

05:44:44.260 Why don't we do some of the

05:44:45.360 reacts, then?

05:44:46.020 Let's...

05:44:46.760 Let's do that one a little

05:44:50.500 later.

05:44:50.880 Let's do the...

05:44:52.600 The tweets.

05:44:53.900 Are there tweets?

05:44:54.840 There are.

05:44:55.740 Yeah, there is.

05:44:56.440 Lol Paladins donated $20.

05:44:59.180 I mean, can you really roast

05:45:00.860 the Nazi?

05:45:01.860 She's the one that wants us 0.99

05:45:03.280 all to go off into the ovens

05:45:04.880 so that we can be replaced

05:45:06.140 by a more worthy culture.

05:45:08.140 Boom, we're all roasted.

05:45:11.760 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

05:45:12.980 Appreciate it, man.

05:45:15.060 Yeah, you know.

05:45:15.960 You know, it is what it is.

05:45:18.440 Do you have a response to

05:45:19.540 Lol Paladins?

05:45:20.820 He's an oathbreaker.

05:45:23.040 Oathbreaker.

05:45:24.060 Ooh, okay.

05:45:25.820 How about that, Lol Paladins?

05:45:28.060 You are an oathbreaker, sir.

05:45:30.980 Let's see here.

05:45:34.580 Reacts, what do we have?

05:45:38.240 Oh, okay.

05:45:39.160 Zoom in, make it bigger, please.

05:45:40.220 Bunga Bunga donated $20.

05:45:42.640 I'm pretty sure the girl in the pink 0.78

05:45:44.580 on the far right is a guy. 1.00

05:45:46.080 Do you have a penis? 1.00

05:45:47.780 Me? 1.00

05:45:48.380 Yeah.

05:45:49.000 No, I don't.

05:45:49.920 I'm a girl.

05:45:52.560 Boom.

05:45:53.560 You want to see?

05:45:54.700 Just kidding.

05:45:55.160 Thank you, Bunga Bunga. 1.00

05:46:03.820 What the fuck? 1.00

05:46:06.200 Is it because of my boobs? 1.00

05:46:08.440 Damn, bro. 1.00

05:46:09.340 Why y'all got, why y'all. 0.99

05:46:10.680 Sorry, I can't help it.

05:46:12.220 Why y'all got to be so.

05:46:14.220 As a representative of the itty bitty

05:46:16.020 to the committee, you guys got to be nice.

05:46:18.300 You know, Lauren Red reminds me

05:46:21.020 of a Tupperware bowl that once held spaghetti.

05:46:22.800 Ramen donated $20. 0.99

05:46:25.220 I would death smash crackhead Angelina Jolie. 0.98

05:46:30.400 I think this is maybe about you. 1.00

05:46:34.000 Me?

05:46:34.460 Yeah, do you have a response?

05:46:37.160 Thanks.

05:46:38.080 McKesson's donated $20.

05:46:40.360 First time tip.

05:46:41.580 Yeah, thank you.

05:46:41.980 Rears and fast recovery to Mason.

05:46:44.560 BTW, my wife watches this and Nabo's here 1.00

05:46:47.740 and they're due to your show.

05:46:49.700 Thanks.

05:46:50.740 I love it.

05:46:52.800 Hey, makes sense.

05:46:54.500 Thank you, man.

05:46:54.900 Really appreciate it.

05:46:55.680 Appreciate your first time tip there.

05:46:57.160 Really appreciate it.

05:46:58.100 React to mango worms.

05:47:01.100 What is it?

05:47:01.620 I don't think I want.

05:47:02.800 That just doesn't sound right.

05:47:04.100 I don't know.

05:47:05.700 Let's do the reacts.

05:47:07.580 Make it bigger, please.

05:47:09.920 Wait, make it bigger.

05:47:10.860 Make it bigger.

05:47:11.720 Okay.

05:47:11.980 Chad advertises criminal record for beating a woman,

05:47:16.640 receives more than 800 matches.

05:47:18.640 Sons of Liberty donated $20.

05:47:21.000 Say no to Marxism and degeneracy.

05:47:23.940 Say yes to liberty.

05:47:25.340 Vote Trump 2024.

05:47:27.160 Oh, what?

05:47:28.120 How is everybody voting in the election?

05:47:33.280 Who are you voting for?

05:47:34.320 A lot of us can't.

05:47:37.360 That's true.

05:47:38.640 Yeah.

05:47:39.440 Um, undecided.

05:47:43.040 Lol Paladins donated $20.

05:47:45.440 I'm pretty sure the guy in the whatever hoodie is a guy also.

05:47:49.580 I'm not sure, though.

05:47:51.120 Usually the whatever podcast has the biggest tatars in seat number one

05:47:55.160 instead of the far left seat.

05:47:56.860 Rude, Lol Paladins.

05:47:59.800 How dare you, sir?

05:48:01.300 It's because you said you were a part of the itty bitty titty committee.

05:48:04.980 I didn't mean it like that.

05:48:06.340 I just meant like I'm a, I'm an ally.

05:48:09.500 I took it like that.

05:48:10.540 I'm an ally.

05:48:11.520 You're sharp.

05:48:13.360 Me? 1.00

05:48:15.080 I think he was saying that you have bigger tits than I do. 1.00

05:48:17.200 Yeah, that's what he was saying. 1.00

05:48:18.220 Yeah, yeah.

05:48:18.900 I'm just, but what I meant is I'm an ally.

05:48:21.580 Like, for example, short dudes.

05:48:23.560 I'm not, I'm six for one.

05:48:24.920 But I, like, I have the back of short, short men.

05:48:29.700 Short kings.

05:48:30.280 I will defend short men.

05:48:31.500 Some guy underscore you will underscore chair one donated $20.01.

05:48:36.760 Chair one.

05:48:37.400 Oh, my God.

05:48:37.900 You tucking your sack back. 0.99

05:48:39.480 Also, Britson, I might really fall on fapping to your fat swinging mommy milkers. 1.00

05:48:44.940 Quit hiding, Em. 0.97

05:48:46.140 Bro.

05:48:46.580 Shout out to Mason and his family.

05:48:49.260 You all will get through this.

05:48:52.300 Yo, thank you, Uwu.

05:48:53.880 Where is it?

05:48:55.320 Too slow.

05:48:56.160 Okay.

05:48:56.740 Appreciate it.

05:48:57.700 Let's do the react real quick.

05:48:59.880 Repeal the night.

05:49:00.740 Whoa.

05:49:01.140 Okay.

05:49:01.700 Oh, my God.

05:49:02.120 Kaiju donated $20.24.

05:49:05.460 I'm playing WoW right now.

05:49:07.900 Named my dwarf Tyrion.

05:49:09.680 The spelling Tyrion was taken, of course.

05:49:12.720 Winter is coming.

05:49:14.780 Tyrion is a character in World of Warcraft.

05:49:17.340 But it's getting high.

05:49:17.880 Ancient Derek Flynn donated $20.

05:49:20.780 Brian, give me your address immediately.

05:49:23.720 That Mexican girl in the middle has an open deportation warrant, and I've been looking for her for a few weeks. 1.00

05:49:29.740 How do you guys know? 1.00

05:49:30.640 Shit. 1.00

05:49:32.280 Old man Marine donated $20. 1.00

05:49:35.220 Love your content, Jake.

05:49:37.120 Always good to see you on the show.

05:49:39.660 You should get a better tattoo artist, though.

05:49:41.920 I know a good one.

05:49:43.420 When are you leaving your fake country? 0.93

05:49:45.460 My country exists, and thank you for your service.

05:49:49.620 Appreciate it.

05:49:50.520 Thank you, old man Marine.

05:49:52.100 Let's see.

05:49:53.240 Can we...

05:49:53.800 Let's do the react super quick.

05:49:55.500 Okay, so...

05:49:56.680 Blonde underscore chick underscore 88 donated $20.

05:50:00.900 I play COD, imtoxic but not trashy, etc.

05:50:04.740 Not all women are the same. 1.00

05:50:06.860 Host acts more like an emotional woman than I do. 1.00

05:50:09.780 Desmond's stinky chicken donated $20. 0.94

05:50:15.060 My toxic Latina goes like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, and comes back like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like, like. 1.00

05:50:26.620 Lol Paladins donated $20. 0.92

05:50:29.000 Oh, boy.

05:50:29.500 Like, middle girl, like, like, like, like, like.

05:50:31.460 Literally said like, like, three times like in a row for real like.

05:50:35.460 But like.

05:50:36.300 So why don't you tell us some more

05:50:44.220 Like what do you think about

05:50:45.300 What do you think about

05:50:47.660 Like what are you trying to say

05:50:51.720 Gordita Crunch Dumpy donated $20

05:50:56.200 Hide your cats

05:50:58.200 Hide your dogs

05:50:59.840 Hide your pets

05:51:01.380 They're eating your cats 0.90

05:51:03.360 They're eating the dogs

05:51:05.180 They're eating the pets

05:51:07.800 You need to bring back Desire

05:51:12.500 Since I am certain

05:51:13.600 That she hasn't shown her final form

05:51:15.880 I don't think I'd put her back on the panel

05:51:18.740 Like there's a possibility

05:51:19.960 I would do a one on one with her

05:51:21.940 Kind of like how me and Andrew did it 1.00

05:51:23.380 Cause she just sucks 1.00

05:51:25.060 Well hold on 1.00

05:51:26.340 She like takes up way too much 1.00

05:51:28.440 She just ruins the panels 1.00

05:51:30.440 No offense Desiree if you're still watching

05:51:31.780 Thank you for the champagne by the way

05:51:33.520 We're down to maybe do a one on one 0.98

05:51:36.320 Where I can like explore some of the other crazy shit 0.97

05:51:39.840 But otherwise 0.93

05:51:40.380 Yeah no more dating talk panels

05:51:42.180 Pretty poor feedback on

05:51:44.360 No offense Desiree

05:51:45.480 It's just a day

05:51:45.920 It is what it is

05:51:47.140 So

05:51:47.980 What are your thoughts on

05:51:50.200 The

05:51:51.600 Operation Barbarossa

05:51:57.800 No white knights donated $20

05:52:00.160 Tell the young man in the pink 0.99

05:52:02.620 That she might fool some Americans

05:52:04.420 But she would never fool anyone in Thailand

05:52:06.880 That's

05:52:13.500 It's rough

05:52:14.660 Hi Brian

05:52:16.960 I'd be more entertained than you

05:52:18.140 Well why don't you send us a DM on

05:52:19.620 On Instagram

05:52:20.780 And we'll get you on the show

05:52:21.720 Just add whatever on Instagram

05:52:23.100 We'll get you on the show

05:52:24.160 Thank you Marley

05:52:24.920 Appreciate it

05:52:25.860 Let's see here

05:52:28.280 Let's

05:52:28.980 Can we do the react?

05:52:30.180 Can we do the react?

05:52:31.320 Okay

05:52:31.520 Pull up the first image

05:52:32.740 Click the first image

05:52:33.640 Okay

05:52:34.640 So he says

05:52:36.420 By the way

05:52:36.960 This is I guess fake image

05:52:37.920 I have a criminal record for beating a woman 1.00

05:52:39.840 But we all have a past

05:52:41.440 And then like

05:52:42.480 All these girls 1.00

05:52:43.220 Messaged

05:52:44.080 Messaged him

05:52:44.960 Like

05:52:46.020 That first

05:52:46.900 Second girl says

05:52:47.580 Good

05:52:48.040 What can I say?

05:52:50.380 What's your favorite Italian dish?

05:52:51.460 Hey handsome

05:52:51.900 Next image

05:52:53.080 I got asked about this

05:52:56.300 Okay

05:52:57.280 I got asked about this criminal record of yours

05:52:59.520 I'm intrigued to say the least

05:53:01.020 She caught me cheating

05:53:02.000 But this was years ago

05:53:03.000 I have to be honest

05:53:04.080 And I'm not the same

05:53:05.040 I'll give credit where credit's due

05:53:07.080 I appreciate the honesty

05:53:08.120 Okay 1.00

05:53:08.440 She's trying to fuck 1.00

05:53:09.140 Next 1.00

05:53:09.680 Will I make an exception?

05:53:13.060 Blah blah blah

05:53:13.660 Okay

05:53:19.440 She's trying to like hit

05:53:20.500 Okay

05:53:20.820 Next

05:53:21.180 Do you want to make another half blank

05:53:25.780 Half Italian

05:53:26.440 Baby?

05:53:28.180 My apartment?

05:53:28.920 Yes

05:53:29.200 Okay

05:53:29.580 And then go back to the first one

05:53:31.320 I have a criminal record for beating a woman 1.00

05:53:35.880 But we all have a past

05:53:36.940 Is this like fake or is it real?

05:53:39.440 Well I mean that's not a real guy

05:53:41.260 Some person just took a picture and made a fake profile

05:53:44.100 Yeah that's right

05:53:44.580 But like all that stuff

05:53:46.040 That's real

05:53:47.360 For sure

05:53:48.240 For sure

05:53:49.900 For sure

05:53:50.300 That's all real 0.98

05:53:51.520 Damn 0.97

05:53:52.640 That's crazy 1.00

05:53:55.440 No white knights donated $20

05:53:57.380 Don't get excited young man in the pink 0.98

05:54:00.520 The guy who beats girls isn't gay 0.99

05:54:02.820 So don't DM him 0.95

05:54:04.360 Do you have a response?

05:54:10.260 I don't know what's happening

05:54:11.720 I'm confused

05:54:12.460 Me too

05:54:13.180 It's very confusing

05:54:14.700 Next

05:54:15.620 Let's

05:54:16.000 Next react

05:54:17.080 Ooh this is brutal

05:54:20.620 Can I have you read it for us?

05:54:24.360 Okay 1.00

05:54:24.840 My girlfriend told me that I have what's called a boyfriend dick 1.00

05:54:28.520 So me and my girlfriend were laying in bed and talking about sex 1.00

05:54:32.140 She brought up penis size 1.00

05:54:33.640 Which is something I don't usually like to bring up 0.96

05:54:35.560 Because I think nothing good can come of it

05:54:37.560 Well she asked me what I thought of my size

05:54:39.900 And I said I think it's a good size

05:54:41.400 So I asked her what she thought of it 1.00

05:54:43.880 And she said I have a boyfriend dick 0.99

05:54:45.620 I was confused when I heard this 0.99

05:54:47.840 And asked what she meant

05:54:48.880 She said that it's the perfect size for a long term relationship

05:54:52.000 But for a one night stand

05:54:54.200 Or a casual friends with benefits

05:54:56.620 It would be a bit lacking

05:54:58.320 I was taken back by this comment and left the room

05:55:01.620 When I came back

05:55:03.500 I told her the comment bothered me

05:55:04.880 And she assured me that she was satisfied 0.99

05:55:07.180 And that my penis is fine 1.00

05:55:08.420 She said bigger dicks need time to recover from 1.00

05:55:11.880 And require too much prep 0.97

05:55:14.180 This didn't help at all

05:55:16.020 It's been a week since the comment

05:55:17.440 But I can't seem to shake it 0.96

05:55:18.940 Damn 0.98

05:55:19.460 Savage 1.00

05:55:20.300 Damn 0.99

05:55:21.560 Run 0.99

05:55:22.140 Damn 0.99

05:55:24.080 React to humor bagel 0.99

05:55:26.180 Not sure what that is

05:55:27.080 Bye Felicia 0.98

05:55:27.980 Damn 0.98

05:55:28.980 Next react 0.99

05:55:29.900 Oh I think we already have this one

05:55:36.080 Is there another one?

05:55:37.700 Yeah we just did that one

05:55:38.960 No

05:55:39.460 That's it

05:55:41.040 That's it

05:55:41.460 I thought there was a

05:55:43.260 YouTube video

05:55:43.900 YouTube video

05:55:45.680 Yeah we can do that one really quick

05:55:50.660 I'll let these come through first

05:55:52.120 Guys get your last call 0.99

05:55:54.500 Chinese motherfucker donated $20 0.99

05:55:56.420 Hope Mason has a full recovery 1.00

05:55:59.380 Desiree upgraded from an uppercase L

05:56:02.200 To a lowercase L

05:56:03.380 For her contribution for Mason's recovery

05:56:05.800 That's fair

05:56:06.360 Also 0.99

05:56:06.800 Shut a fuck up Desiree 1.00

05:56:08.760 Giovanni J.D. donated $20 1.00

05:56:12.120 Girl on the right is only less attractive than the chick next to Brian 1.00

05:56:16.860 Not sure why she's getting so much hate

05:56:19.800 She's clearly very attractive 0.97

05:56:21.820 Young men have awful taste 1.00

05:56:24.260 Oh Giovanni

05:56:25.500 He's an attorney by the way

05:56:26.440 Law Paladins donated $20

05:56:27.980 There's only two things I hate in this world

05:56:31.180 People who are intolerant of other people's cultures

05:56:34.060 And the Dutch 0.55

05:56:35.260 Also

05:56:36.120 Where did you guys get my Tinder profile?

05:56:40.620 Some guy underscore you will underscore chair one donated $20 and one cent

05:56:45.860 Why are you so confused?

05:56:48.320 It must be uncomfortable sitting on that

05:56:50.720 Is it under theft thigh or the right?

05:56:53.580 It will

05:56:54.080 Armenian apostolic donated $20

05:56:58.400 Yeah thank you

05:56:59.280 First time donation

05:57:00.600 Sorry no roast

05:57:02.220 W Brian W Jake 0.56

05:57:04.360 W Maddie love you guys

05:57:06.220 You're all beautiful

05:57:07.620 Thank you

05:57:08.180 I pray Mason makes a full recovery

05:57:10.320 What about

05:57:11.100 What about Yael?

05:57:12.300 Is there a W for Yael? 0.60

05:57:13.580 Or does she not get one yet?

05:57:14.860 I don't get one

05:57:15.360 Yo Armenian

05:57:16.360 Thank you man

05:57:17.000 Really appreciate the support

05:57:18.660 Let's see

05:57:19.780 Let's do the react

05:57:20.940 Let's do the video

05:57:22.060 Yeah let's do the full screen video

05:57:24.180 Why not?

05:57:25.580 And

05:57:26.100 Yeah

05:57:26.800 A video tab please

05:57:28.060 Right

05:57:29.220 Yeah

05:57:32.220 Thanks

05:57:33.060 Thank you.

05:58:03.060 Thank you.

05:58:33.060 Thank you.

05:59:03.060 Thank you.

05:59:33.060 Thank you.

06:00:03.060 Essentially, he's interviewing these girls, and they claim to be, the two girls claim

06:00:10.500 to be virgins, and he kind of questions that they're virgins because they're out kind of

06:00:16.040 in a club environment.

06:00:17.000 And then also based off the way they dressed, Jake, do you think they were telling the truth?

06:00:22.260 Do you think those two girls were virgins? 1.00

06:00:23.700 They were absolutely not virgins.

06:00:24.980 There was no chance in God's green earth they were virgins. 0.97

06:00:27.740 And then the other thing was, I think the other component here is, I'm pretty sure the girl 0.96

06:00:41.500 on the right had nipple piercings. 1.00

06:00:46.460 It looked that way. 0.89

06:00:47.840 There was a bulge.

06:00:49.660 And I'm like, has a girl, like, maybe it's possible, but like...

06:00:55.500 No, it's not possible.

06:00:59.880 In the history of humanity, has a woman... 1.00

06:01:02.500 No, the way they said it at the start, when she was like, I'm a virgin, and the other one

06:01:06.380 was like, me too.

06:01:06.960 They were joking.

06:01:07.600 It was like her eye contact and her body language, which made me not believe it, but their outfits

06:01:11.420 weren't like slutty.

06:01:12.920 A little bit. 0.93

06:01:14.100 Maybe just a teeny bit.

06:01:15.380 You know?

06:01:15.620 Like long maxi skirts, they're like tight, but it wasn't anything too revealing.

06:01:18.960 Well, the one on the left was a bit more modest than the one on the right. 0.78

06:01:21.740 But like, in the history of humanity, has there ever been a woman who's a virgin who has nipple 1.00

06:01:30.680 piercings? 0.85

06:01:31.340 And also probably mid to late 20s, tatted up, revealing clothes in Miami at the club.

06:01:37.600 Give me a break.

06:01:38.260 It's not a revealing outfit.

06:01:40.520 Not to you, maybe.

06:01:41.820 Maybe not for you, but to the rest of the world.

06:01:45.500 And wait, just one question for the chat.

06:01:48.080 Was there no audio at all?

06:01:50.300 Like, could you not hear us?

06:01:52.700 I'm assuming that you couldn't hear us at all.

06:01:57.000 Is that correct, chat?

06:01:58.000 You could not hear even us?

06:01:59.360 It was just total silence, right?

06:02:02.840 They're saying nothing.

06:02:03.960 Only desktop audio is muted.

06:02:05.820 Okay.

06:02:06.080 I'll have to, something must have got messed up before the stream.

06:02:10.180 I'll fix it.

06:02:10.620 Sorry, guys.

06:02:11.080 Sorry about that.

06:02:12.280 We'll get that fixed.

06:02:13.520 We'll let the rest of the roast come through, then we're going to wrap up the show.

06:02:17.940 Brian's Jumpy donated $20. 1.00

06:02:20.700 Damn son. 1.00

06:02:21.940 All that jelly and no toast. 1.00

06:02:24.000 What does that mean?

06:02:24.440 Please give the panel a whirl. 0.99

06:02:27.780 He wants to see your butts. 0.99

06:02:29.760 He wants to see whose? 1.00

06:02:31.040 Your butts. 0.99

06:02:31.560 Everyone. 0.98

06:02:31.860 Old man Marine donated $20.

06:02:35.400 Everything is muted.

06:02:36.960 So unprofessional, Brixham.

06:02:39.000 There's also lint on your shirt. 1.00

06:02:41.280 Fuck, you're right. 1.00

06:02:42.140 My bad. 1.00

06:02:43.560 Ah, boy.

06:02:44.360 Okay. 1.00

06:02:44.860 Well, fucking shit show, whatever podcast. 1.00

06:02:47.320 Typical. 1.00

06:02:47.860 Christopher Scott donated $20.

06:02:50.060 My bad, boys.

06:02:50.800 There's no audio, Brian.

06:02:52.540 We had TTS turned off, too. 1.00

06:02:54.100 Fuck. 1.00

06:02:54.440 My bad, boys. 1.00

06:02:55.180 My bad.

06:02:55.520 Uh, okay.

06:03:00.920 Uh, thank you.

06:03:02.500 Lol Paladins donated $20.

06:03:04.980 Good job, Nick.

06:03:06.200 You're fired.

06:03:07.240 Uh, it's Austin.

06:03:09.060 It's Austin back there.

06:03:10.660 It's Mason.

06:03:12.040 It's Mason.

06:03:13.080 Uh, it's not Austin's fault.

06:03:14.720 It wasn't Austin's fault.

06:03:15.940 Um, something got tweaked in OBS.

06:03:17.940 Matt donated $20.

06:03:19.920 Would you rather have democracy or access to abortions? 0.92

06:03:23.760 Mm, okay.

06:03:24.280 We'll go around the table really quick.

06:03:25.520 Would you rather have democracy or access to abortions? 0.92

06:03:28.140 Define democracy.

06:03:29.360 The ability to be able to vote in an election.

06:03:31.720 So you want to be able to vote or have abortions? 1.00

06:03:36.240 Um.

06:03:36.800 So democracy.

06:03:37.620 Probably to vote because then you could vote for abortions. 1.00

06:03:40.300 No, but so in the democracy you would not be allowed to have.

06:03:44.940 Wait.

06:03:45.760 Yeah.

06:03:45.880 Democracy is the ability to vote?

06:03:47.400 Let's say, let's say in the democracy there's no abortion. 0.82

06:03:51.240 Just for the sake of the question.

06:03:52.740 Yeah.

06:03:53.240 Okay.

06:03:53.540 That's a good point.

06:03:54.000 But you get to vote?

06:03:54.880 Yeah, you get to vote on policies and the president.

06:03:56.980 On everything else.

06:03:58.100 But just the.

06:03:58.620 Probably democracy. 0.97

06:03:59.900 Okay.

06:04:02.320 It's a tough one.

06:04:03.660 I think also democracy then.

06:04:06.780 I'm not getting in the political conversation.

06:04:12.940 Okay.

06:04:13.500 All right.

06:04:13.880 That is a hard question, but I would say democracy.

06:04:18.540 Democracy.

06:04:20.100 Obviously.

06:04:21.320 No, I don't really like either of them, but democracy.

06:04:23.520 Yeah.

06:04:24.440 You're more of a dictator kind of guy?

06:04:26.480 Yes.

06:04:27.260 Definitely.

06:04:27.760 There you go.

06:04:28.380 Yeah.

06:04:29.540 Christian Kim Jong-un. 0.73

06:04:30.880 Imagine that.

06:04:31.340 I've never heard it put that way, but all right.

06:04:43.780 That's an interesting way to frame it.

06:04:45.900 Hentai can't call me.

06:04:47.100 Thank you, man.

06:04:47.440 Appreciate it.

06:04:48.560 Thank you, sir.

06:04:49.320 Some guy underscore you woo underscore chair one donated $20 and one cent.

06:04:55.120 Brixen.

06:04:56.160 F'n fail.

06:04:57.360 Hit the gym. 0.82

06:04:58.540 Chair one.

06:04:59.540 I've had a few beers.

06:05:01.220 I'd hit it from behind, but you need to hold the boys up so our speed bags don't bounce

06:05:06.920 together.

06:05:08.880 Lol Paladins donated $20. 0.84

06:05:11.020 Not slutty dressed, number one. 1.00

06:05:14.160 You're effing crazy. 1.00

06:05:15.840 We've seen Brian live stream from Isla Vista streets. 0.99

06:05:19.560 You have women literally walking around outdoors in lingerie. 1.00

06:05:23.060 That is NT normal.

06:05:25.940 White Nights donated $20.

06:05:28.880 I like a single mom.

06:05:30.400 We've been hanging out for a few weeks.

06:05:32.880 She had a few FWB in recent months.

06:05:35.500 I want to be exclusive going forward.

06:05:37.800 How should I address this without it coming off rude or judgy?

06:05:42.020 I like a single mom.

06:05:43.660 We've been hanging out for a few weeks.

06:05:44.740 She had a few friends with benefits.

06:05:46.320 I want to be exclusive going forward.

06:05:47.640 How should I address this without it coming off rude or judgy? 0.52

06:05:51.740 I don't know how you could be rude or judgy by telling someone to stop having sex with

06:05:56.120 other people while you're dating them.

06:05:57.900 If they don't accept that, then do they have no respect for you and get out of there ASAP?

06:06:02.540 Let me just make this even easier.

06:06:04.980 Instead of trying to navigate what should I do, what should I not do when it comes to this

06:06:08.480 specific thing.

06:06:09.040 Bro, don't date this woman. 1.00

06:06:14.140 Just move on.

06:06:15.860 You said you like a single mom, hanging out for a few weeks. 1.00

06:06:18.440 She's fucking other men. 1.00

06:06:20.580 And a few FWBs. 1.00

06:06:22.040 A few.

06:06:22.860 She's had a few, dude.

06:06:24.440 Hold on.

06:06:26.240 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

06:06:27.720 White Nights for the Win, bro.

06:06:28.640 Just find another girl. 1.00

06:06:30.680 Find another single mom that's not a strumpet. 1.00

06:06:32.720 And if you really like her, then ask her to be exclusive.

06:06:36.140 Ew.

06:06:37.620 If he really likes her.

06:06:39.440 Is this in her past or how recent was it?

06:06:41.180 She said she had a few friends with benefits in recent months.

06:06:44.580 It's a raw deal.

06:06:45.540 Yeah.

06:06:45.760 That's absurd.

06:06:47.040 Lol Paladins donated $20.

06:06:49.680 Best way to date a single mother. 0.99

06:06:52.160 Treat her children like they'd be treated in a lion pride.

06:06:56.160 Wait. 0.98

06:06:57.880 So killed?

06:06:59.480 Wait, what?

06:07:00.920 Wait.

06:07:01.700 Treat? 1.00

06:07:02.320 Because doesn't like the male lion, if he enters like another tribe or wait, fuck. 1.00

06:07:06.800 I don't know how it fucking goes. 1.00

06:07:08.360 Don't they like kill the competing males? 1.00

06:07:10.840 The lions?

06:07:12.120 Not the kids at all.

06:07:13.740 That would be fun.

06:07:14.320 I don't know how.

06:07:15.360 I don't know about lion. 0.99

06:07:16.520 Fucking the whatever lion dating podcast. 0.99

06:07:21.780 That'd be interesting. 1.00

06:07:22.700 The lion dating podcast.

06:07:23.780 The lion dating podcast. 1.00

06:07:27.260 We should just get a bunch of fucking lions here at the table and they just can fucking 1.00

06:07:30.360 roar the entire time. 1.00

06:07:31.600 We should get bear. 0.88

06:07:32.360 We should put some.

06:07:33.540 April Fool's will put bears at the table and they can.

06:07:36.620 That'll be the whole stream.

06:07:37.520 Three hours. 1.00

06:07:38.000 Just some bears fucking shit up in here. 1.00

06:07:40.200 Pooping on the table and shit. 1.00

06:07:41.440 It's going to be fucking crazy. 0.99

06:07:42.860 And if they're smaller. 0.97

06:07:44.240 Cat fights?

06:07:46.780 Yeah.

06:07:47.180 That'd be cool to just bring in some, some cats.

06:07:49.280 I have a cat.

06:07:49.740 I like cats.

06:07:50.680 Yo.

06:07:50.940 You want your cats to fight? 0.88

06:07:52.820 No.

06:07:53.120 Oh, can you scoot your mic to the very edge of the table, please?

06:07:55.460 Me and my roommates are cats.

06:07:56.600 By the way, I can't see the mic.

06:07:57.800 So just somebody else point that out next time.

06:08:01.860 Roth underscore PSA donated $20.

06:08:05.360 Real men don't cry during movies.

06:08:08.040 A man saying I love you too early is the same as a woman saying I want to get married. 0.98

06:08:13.700 Biggest tick.

06:08:14.420 Biggest tick.

06:08:14.860 Yo, Roth.

06:08:16.460 Thank you for the message, man.

06:08:17.300 Really appreciate it.

06:08:18.080 Thank you, everybody else who sent in some messages. 0.99

06:08:21.300 What the fuck? 0.99

06:08:22.880 Tickle, tickle. 1.00

06:08:23.580 Incoming tickle.

06:08:24.180 The time.

06:08:24.680 You got to do it.

06:08:25.060 By the way, if you want TTS, you got to do it through Streamlabs.

06:08:27.200 Also, really quick.

06:08:28.100 I'm going to change the Streamlabs voice to Dutch. 1.00

06:08:30.900 No.

06:08:32.800 Lol Paladins donated $20.

06:08:35.800 Yes, that is exactly how that happens, you uneducated kids.

06:08:40.220 A new male lion kills off every other cub from the previous male.

06:08:44.640 Jokes are funnier when you have to explain them.

06:08:49.880 I got it.

06:08:51.320 I got it.

06:08:52.220 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

06:08:53.020 Pretty sure that all supports them.

06:08:53.880 Okay, I changed the – it's now in Dutch, so we have two Dutch women here. 1.00

06:09:03.340 If you want to send in a TTS in, like, the Dutch accent, whatever, go do it.

06:09:07.680 Let's see.

06:09:08.300 What else do we – let me do the outro stuff really quick.

06:09:12.240 Let's see here.

06:09:13.260 We're going to wrap up.

06:09:13.920 Guys, last call.

06:09:14.920 Last call on the – if you want to put in a roast.

06:09:20.320 We still have not gotten a roast on Yael.

06:09:22.100 You guys need to roast her. 1.00

06:09:23.300 She's – she needs a roast. 1.00

06:09:27.180 Last call on those.

06:09:28.240 Okay, thank you, guys.

06:09:28.900 Appreciate it.

06:09:30.420 Is there – are you sure there's no other reacts?

06:09:32.300 The bow video?

06:09:35.380 Okay, really quick. 1.00

06:09:36.200 Fuck it. 1.00

06:09:36.440 Play it. 1.00

06:09:36.660 Play it.

06:09:43.240 Love it.

06:09:45.020 All good.

06:09:53.300 Founding fathers.

06:10:00.800 Thank you.

06:10:01.240 I don't even – I don't even – I just want to support Mason.

06:10:13.860 Jake will be supporting his – oh, my – oh, my – oh, my – oh, my God.

06:10:16.240 Come on, man.

06:10:16.960 Come on, man.

06:10:17.480 Come on, man.

06:10:18.640 Come on, man.

06:10:19.260 Single mom syndrome. 0.91

06:10:20.580 She did not have dating prospects before he came along.

06:10:24.020 And so she slept with guys because she thought it was how she could get. 0.99

06:10:27.900 As far as he knows, she has met some them since we're talking.

06:10:30.960 They're loving the Dutch accent, by the way.

06:10:34.060 It's a very Dutch accent.

06:10:35.200 One more – one more, and I'll switch it to a Mexican. 1.00

06:10:40.140 Okay.

06:10:40.320 Okay.

06:10:40.340 Okay.

06:10:42.400 Met Tonja Ted, 20 dollar.

06:10:45.040 Black High Red, Dutch woman calling things toxic. 1.00

06:10:48.500 Laugable. 0.79

06:10:49.720 She's literally the definition of a toxic human being. 1.00

06:10:53.840 Interesting.

06:10:54.460 Almost all women find it hard to choose freedom or de lesion of their baby. 0.99

06:10:59.160 Oh, that one came through pretty clear.

06:11:01.140 Thank you, man.

06:11:01.500 I appreciate it.

06:11:05.600 Black-haired Dutch woman calling things toxic. 0.84

06:11:07.820 She's literally the definition of a toxic human being. 1.00

06:11:12.880 Yeah, I mean, if you think that way.

06:11:15.000 I mean, it's like I said, we're like opposites, right?

06:11:18.220 So probably from your perspective, I'm toxic.

06:11:21.740 So that's fine.

06:11:22.680 I mean, you can have your opinion.

06:11:23.960 I don't mind.

06:11:25.620 Good times.

06:11:26.820 Good times.

06:11:27.260 Have you ever slashed a guy's tires?

06:11:32.360 No.

06:11:32.840 Why would I do that?

06:11:34.900 Revenge?

06:11:36.040 No.

06:11:36.620 That's toxic.

06:11:38.020 Oh, okay.

06:11:38.700 You've never done anything toxic ever?

06:11:42.080 No.

06:11:42.500 I've never been in trouble or anything, no.

06:11:45.600 Okay.

06:11:47.180 All right.

06:11:48.960 Let me just double-check a couple things here.

06:11:50.920 Okay.

06:11:52.120 Final thing.

06:11:52.860 I'll just do one last mention of this.

06:11:54.680 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:11:57.260 Drop us a follow in the Prime sub, twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:12:02.640 Drop us a follow in the Prime sub.

06:12:04.680 If you can, before you exit, maybe you guys can check if you have a Prime sub available.

06:12:09.960 Because like I said, we are giving 50% of all earnings from Super Chats, TTS, Twitch subs, Prime subs.

06:12:19.840 We're going to be donating that to Mason from tonight's stream.

06:12:23.220 You can go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:12:25.540 If you enjoyed the show, drop us a follow.

06:12:27.420 It's just an easy way to support us.

06:12:30.580 Even if you watch on YouTube, if you've got a Twitch account, just drop us a follow on Twitch.

06:12:34.880 And CJ, thank you for the Prime.

06:12:36.500 Zach, thank you for the Prime.

06:12:37.700 Just check before we wrap up the show here.

06:12:39.540 If you have a Prime sub available, we'd very much appreciate it.

06:12:42.740 And it is going to go to Mason.

06:12:44.460 And also our Discord, discord.gg slash whatever.

06:12:48.820 We post a lot of BTS stuff on there most recently.

06:12:53.980 Last week, we had a kickoff, kickoff, kickout.

06:12:58.640 This crazy girl refused to leave. 1.00

06:13:00.200 She fucking, oh, what did she do, man? 1.00

06:13:03.520 She accused us of like kidnapping her or something. 0.99

06:13:06.960 Even though we were like, can you please leave?

06:13:08.360 And she's like, oh my God, they're holding me here against my will.

06:13:11.380 Like tonight?

06:13:12.560 Exactly.

06:13:13.320 No, it's totally different. 0.99

06:13:14.960 She got kicked off the show and we're like, yo, get the fuck out. 0.99

06:13:17.220 And she wouldn't leave. 0.99

06:13:17.960 So we posted the BTS of that. 0.97

06:13:20.580 Also, the crazy, fake, conservative Christian OF girl from Sunday show.

06:13:27.060 We posted to the, we posted Discord this photo showing proof that she was lying about everything that she was talking about. 0.97

06:13:34.580 Some other people were like posting evidence in like some of the, one of the other channels in our Discord.

06:13:39.740 Discord.gg slash whatever.

06:13:40.980 Guys, join the Discord.

06:13:42.640 And then also, as far, I know the show's over.

06:13:46.460 If you want, you can get a last minute roast in and then any TTS, the Super Chats.

06:13:50.940 I paused it temporarily.

06:13:52.360 Just want to do one final reminder about this fundraiser that we're helping out Mason with.

06:13:57.640 Can you pull up the Instagram post just so people who don't know?

06:14:01.920 If you saw in the bottom, the corner over here, Mason Medical Expenses, he was in a very serious motorcycle accident.

06:14:10.620 We're, we're contributing.

06:14:12.980 Yeah.

06:14:13.460 So a couple days ago, it was a life-threatening motorcycle accident.

06:14:20.780 So he's in bad shape.

06:14:22.120 He posted this to his Instagram.

06:14:24.160 I've been in touch with, with them.

06:14:26.300 We're going to, you know, help out as best as we can.

06:14:29.820 Don't show that.

06:14:31.240 Don't show that.

06:14:32.840 Can you just hide that?

06:14:34.700 Oh, bro.

06:14:35.180 Intel wild.

06:14:36.080 A little time and, time and place, man.

06:14:39.420 So there's a, there's a thing.

06:14:44.280 Can you pull up the other page though?

06:14:46.960 So guys, if, if you can't support, just, you know, do a little prayer for, for Mason or something.

06:14:54.120 But there's this page after we get off the stream, if you want to support, you can go there.

06:14:58.720 Um, give, send, go.

06:15:02.740 And, uh, yeah.

06:15:04.980 And all, and yeah, if you can pull that up really quick.

06:15:07.760 So yeah, 50% of all the fan funding from tonight.

06:15:12.120 Uh, that's all the super chats, TTS, memberships, Twitch subs.

06:15:15.220 We're going to, uh, send to, uh, to that thing for, to, to Mason for hopefully to help out with medical expenses and stuff.

06:15:22.640 So, uh, wishing Mason Godspeed and his recovery.

06:15:27.220 Uh, super bummer.

06:15:29.780 He's been on the show a bunch.

06:15:30.820 Good, good, good friends of the show.

06:15:33.100 Uh, had, had many good, uh, dinners after the show with him at, at In-N-Out getting fat.

06:15:39.740 So, well, he didn't get fat.

06:15:41.140 I got fat.

06:15:42.120 But, um, but anyways, if you guys can support, um, we'll, we'll be sending that over, uh, everything from the show.

06:15:48.640 So, but, uh, if you're catching this after we've finished the live or whatever, you can feel free to just go straight to him.

06:15:55.500 You can send him a Venmo.

06:15:56.740 You can do the thing, whatever it is.

06:15:58.960 So, um, appreciate all your guys' support tonight.

06:16:01.420 I'm going to let the rest come through and then we're going to wrap.

06:16:03.080 Oh, that's so bad.

06:16:10.000 Spicy Latina. 1.00

06:16:16.640 Hold on.

06:16:18.480 No white knights donated 20 dólares.

06:16:21.520 If anyone's building a house and they run out of dos by cuatro, then they could light rally.

06:16:26.480 Just grab the girl in pink. 1.00

06:16:28.020 What?

06:16:28.640 No, no paladins and big labias. 0.97

06:16:31.200 Thank, thank you, no white knights. 0.89

06:16:32.620 Appreciate it. 0.98

06:16:34.320 Big labia matter. 1.00

06:16:35.400 I only date women with large labia. 1.00

06:16:38.880 Y'all got. 0.96

06:16:39.560 Y'all donated 20 pesos. 0.99

06:16:41.120 You all suck except Maddie and the stunning one next to her. 1.00

06:16:44.500 All that they don't need to do a location. 1.00

06:16:47.280 Love listening to the great convo.

06:16:49.500 Big fun for sure.

06:16:50.920 And stop hating on the nurse.

06:16:55.320 Yeah, thank you.

06:16:56.540 Appreciate it.

06:16:57.680 Thank you, man.

06:16:58.820 Toncat donated 20 pesos.

06:17:00.960 She may play a rogue, but aside from that is exactly the opposite of toxic. 1.00

06:17:04.900 Wait, that guy sounds, that guy's not Mexican. 0.99

06:17:06.680 He's a fake. 1.00

06:17:07.760 He's a fake Mexican. 1.00

06:17:10.480 Unbelievable. 0.98

06:17:11.800 Let's do, uh, why don't we do this?

06:17:13.900 Guateverfan donated 20 pesos.

06:17:15.500 Love the show, but I ain't got any team.

06:17:18.060 Thank you.

06:17:18.260 Keep up the great work.

06:17:19.540 Hey.

06:17:20.860 It's like the most American sound.

06:17:23.520 Do they get to pick the accent?

06:17:25.460 I'm just changing it randomly.

06:17:27.720 Whatever, Finn.

06:17:28.420 Thank you.

06:17:29.320 GMDJ donated 20 million.

06:17:31.680 Never date a single mom. 0.86

06:17:33.780 Period.

06:17:34.800 They bring way too much baggage.

06:17:37.100 The kids will laugh and resent you because you are not their dad and he will most likely interfere.

06:17:43.220 Start your only family.

06:17:45.700 Is that Japanese? 0.51

06:17:46.920 I think it was Chinese.

06:17:48.580 Yeah.

06:17:49.980 Yeah.

06:17:50.780 It's interesting how that works.

06:17:52.600 Yeah.

06:17:52.720 Thank you guys for all the subs.

06:17:53.700 Why don't you pull the Twitch up really so I just can thank them super quick for everybody

06:17:57.940 who sent in the Prime.

06:17:59.020 Uh, the Primes, the Twitch Primes are also gonna, uh, we'll, we'll do the, uh, proportionate

06:18:04.880 distribution also for these.

06:18:06.760 So, uh, Bev, thank you for the Prime.

06:18:08.560 Brian Wong, thank you for the Prime.

06:18:10.140 Lars, thank you for the Prime.

06:18:11.080 Appreciate it.

06:18:11.340 Lars, thank you for, Lars, thank you for the Prime.

06:18:14.040 Appreciate it, guys.

06:18:15.420 Okay, uh, I think we're gonna, we'll wrap there.

06:18:18.740 I changed it to, uh, Gregory if anybody wants to send in the final seat.

06:18:23.160 Well, if more come in, but you can send in, uh, so okay, GG. 0.99

06:18:30.980 Fuck, too slow. 1.00

06:18:31.860 GG. 1.00

06:18:32.460 Well played.

06:18:33.620 To the panel.

06:18:34.680 Last call.

06:18:35.340 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

06:18:37.180 No white knights donated $20. 0.98

06:18:40.280 All nurses are crazy, and I swear they all have the smallest labias. 1.00

06:18:44.040 It's disgusting. 1.00

06:18:45.220 How do you know? 0.97

06:18:48.420 You date a lot of nurses?

06:18:52.940 Are you asking me or?

06:18:54.280 No.

06:18:54.820 This person over here. 0.97

06:18:56.660 He's also a big labia enjoyer.

06:18:58.460 Donated, donated, donated, donated $20. 0.80

06:19:01.340 Those two are as much as a virgin, as much as Desiree is quite. 0.90

06:19:05.080 Yayo, shut ya. 1.00

06:19:07.940 I didn't say anything.

06:19:08.720 Oh, wait, not in the frame.

06:19:11.000 I didn't say anything.

06:19:11.860 That was, that was the joke.

06:19:12.900 Oh, that's the, oh.

06:19:15.540 Uh, yeah, let's, let's see here.

06:19:17.920 Uh, so, thank you everybody for tuning in tonight.

06:19:22.020 You can then anyone in the world, but you're here with me.

06:19:23.640 I appreciate that.

06:19:24.220 Thank you to everyone who so generously, uh, super chats, donates, and supports the show.

06:19:28.780 Really means the world, guy.

06:19:30.160 Oh, my, sorry, I just late.

06:19:31.280 I'm losing my mind.

06:19:32.740 Uh, really means the world.

06:19:34.180 Appreciate it, guys.

06:19:34.860 And, um, thank you guys also for supporting and just kind of helping out with this whole,

06:19:39.440 uh, Mason thing.

06:19:40.120 We will be live again.

06:19:44.300 Sunday.

06:19:44.660 We might be doing some more IRL stuff, so, uh, we might be live sooner than Sunday, but

06:19:51.060 we'll be back again Sunday.

06:19:53.020 Uh, Jake will be here.

06:19:54.700 I'm pretty sure we got Andrew in studio, 5 p.m. Pacific.

06:19:58.800 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out, whatever. 1.00

06:20:01.660 On Instagram, if you can make it to Santa Barbara, 07's in the chat, we're going to do

06:20:07.580 a Twitch raid.

06:20:09.880 Armenian Apostolic donated $20.

06:20:12.080 Yo, thank you, man.

06:20:12.700 YL?

06:20:13.840 Pretty sure I butchered your name, sorry.

06:20:15.820 But a W for you, too.

06:20:16.880 You do get one smile.

06:20:17.960 VTW, chair one, you're pretty and have a good attitude. 0.90

06:20:20.620 Hashtag Christy's King.

06:20:22.340 There you go.

06:20:22.880 Why, thank you.

06:20:23.560 Also, I want to say W to Gabby.

06:20:26.440 Do you prefer Gabby or Gabrielle?

06:20:27.940 Gabby.

06:20:28.620 Gabby. 1.00

06:20:29.660 She was going to leave an hour ago, but she's a fucking trooper. 1.00

06:20:34.340 I just needed some champagne. 0.99

06:20:35.600 She's a trooper.

06:20:37.080 She made it to the end of the show. 0.92

06:20:39.780 I appreciate that.

06:20:41.120 Thank you for staying.

06:20:43.280 So, congrats.

06:20:44.480 So, W, Gabby in the chat.

06:20:47.240 Waggy, wait.

06:20:48.920 Wabby.

06:20:49.660 Wabby in the chat.

06:20:51.440 Wabby in the chat.

06:20:52.300 Okay.

06:20:52.580 We're on Twitch.

06:20:54.560 Austin, we're going to raid Frost Adonis.

06:20:57.020 So, guys, thank you all for watching on Twitch.

06:20:59.200 Those of you who are watching on Twitch.

06:21:01.440 Right before we do the raid, check if you can follow.

06:21:03.600 Check if you can do the Prime sub.

06:21:04.880 But he's playing World of Warcraft Classic Era.

06:21:09.260 And so, you can play the audio.

06:21:14.580 I'm going to send that out in 10 seconds here, guys.

06:21:18.180 We didn't do the bow video, but... 0.99

06:21:20.220 Oh, shit. 0.99

06:21:21.000 Wait. 1.00

06:21:21.280 Hold on.

06:21:23.220 L to the blank star who couldn't go to the distance.

06:21:25.980 Bro, Selina.

06:21:26.820 Big L to Selina.

06:21:28.960 She could have... 0.82

06:21:29.780 Not a trooper, man.

06:21:31.320 Not a trooper.

06:21:32.840 Okay.

06:21:33.780 Thank you, all little paladins.

06:21:35.500 Okay.

06:21:36.120 He's playing Classic Era.

06:21:37.900 We're going to send a raid over there.

06:21:39.660 He's playing...

06:21:40.220 Is he a rogue? 0.91

06:21:41.880 He is a rogue. 0.86

06:21:42.840 He looks like he's an Ashara. 1.00

06:21:46.520 So, he's like what?

06:21:47.880 I can't see his level.

06:21:48.900 50-something.

06:21:50.500 All right.

06:21:51.240 Thank you, guys, for watching on Twitch.

06:21:52.680 I hope you enjoy Frost Adamus' dream.

06:21:54.180 He lives in Romania.

06:21:55.580 Tell him he should...

06:21:57.100 Ask him what he thinks about Andrew Tate

06:21:59.140 and tell him he should come on the podcast.

06:22:00.740 He's got like 13 people watching right now.

06:22:04.160 So, maybe we can...

06:22:05.060 We're going to help out a little bit.

06:22:08.540 Romanian World of Warcraft streamer.

06:22:10.440 It's probably like super early in the morning over there.

06:22:12.460 So, he's just waking up.

06:22:13.300 Just started to stream.

06:22:14.480 So, go show him some love.

06:22:16.220 I'm going to send the raid over.

06:22:17.220 Thank you, guys, again, for watching on Twitch.

06:22:18.940 I'm going to send the raid now.

06:22:20.100 Thank you, guys, again.

06:22:22.200 And then, leave that up.

06:22:23.700 We'll just see what he's got to say.

06:22:27.880 He's playing an Ashara.

06:22:29.920 He's going around on his Undead Rogue W.

06:22:32.960 Well, we're going to come back to it.

06:22:33.580 I played an Undead Rogue, guys.

06:22:35.380 Oh, Brian, good morning.

06:22:37.380 I played an Undead Rogue.

06:22:38.840 That's a huge raid.

06:22:40.020 Hello, hello.

06:22:40.480 My first character was Undead Mage.

06:22:41.940 Mr. Lever.

06:22:43.220 Bro, Ryan, 69.

06:22:44.900 Nice.

06:22:45.380 69.

06:22:46.900 Bortzbow.

06:22:47.600 Undead's not min-max, though.

06:22:48.980 Canadian Bacon.

06:22:50.100 No, but it was the first character that I could pick.

06:22:53.980 Casual smoke enjoyer.

06:22:55.760 Yeah.

06:22:56.920 Mr. Wrong.

06:22:57.680 Hey, welcome, everyone.

06:23:01.820 Anyways.

06:23:02.620 Is he aiming from his kitchen?

06:23:04.020 Where do you guys come out with those names?

06:23:04.760 He's like, yeah, that's where his computer setup is.

06:23:07.160 That's cool.

06:23:07.500 It's in his kitchen.

06:23:08.820 All right.

06:23:09.120 Welcome, everyone.

06:23:10.440 Anyways, you can pause that.

06:23:12.600 Oh, I think, all right.

06:23:15.420 I think that's it, guys.

06:23:16.520 So, guys, like the video on the way out.

06:23:19.260 I hope you enjoyed the stream.

06:23:20.340 It's probably one of our shortest streams.

06:23:23.120 I don't know in how long.

06:23:24.980 Wait, let me, I'm really curious to see really quick.

06:23:29.420 Hmm.

06:23:29.780 Let's see here.

06:23:33.600 I mean, not counting the IRL streams.

06:23:36.660 More than the dates.

06:23:38.600 Yeah.

06:23:41.360 Holy, I mean.

06:23:42.500 It's been years.

06:23:43.500 And normally, you go to, like, eight hours.

06:23:50.140 It's been, I think, three months.

06:23:51.780 So, there was the Rachel Wilson episode.

06:23:54.280 That was a six-hour and 20-minute stream three months ago when Rachel Wilson is in studio.

06:24:00.700 We did, okay.

06:24:01.380 So, it's been three months.

06:24:03.180 This is going to be our shortest stream in three months.

06:24:04.680 So, you guys lucked out.

06:24:07.560 All right, guys.

06:24:09.360 I think that's it, right?

06:24:10.640 Any final thoughts?

06:24:12.300 Or I think we're good.

06:24:13.340 Okay.

06:24:13.900 All right, we're good.

06:24:15.020 Okay.

06:24:16.480 What am I forgetting?

06:24:23.780 No, we got everything.

06:24:25.360 Okay.

06:24:26.840 07s in the chat, guys.

06:24:27.840 Like the video on your way out, please.

06:24:29.120 I hope you guys have a really good night.

06:24:30.520 We'll see you on Sunday with our next dating talk.

06:24:33.900 I hope you guys have a fantastic night.

06:24:35.700 And we'll see you guys soon.

06:24:37.280 Good night, guys.

06:24:43.160 Go ahead, guys.

06:24:47.380 Bye.

06:24:49.180 And now we're good.

06:24:53.480 Bye.

06:24:53.840 Bye.

06:24:57.740 Bye.

06:24:59.260 Bye.

06:25:00.140 Bye.

06:25:00.840 Bye.

06:25:01.340 Bye.

06:25:05.500 Bye.

06:25:05.900 Bye.

06:25:06.300 Bye.

06:25:07.180 Bye.

Whatever Podcast - September 18, 2024

Picky Travel Nurse DEMANDS 6ft3 Man Who Makes $100,000+ Per Year？! Jake! E-GIRLS! ｜ Dating Talk #197

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