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00:02:57.200 With that said, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves,

00:03:01.200 so please tell us your name, age, location, and occupation. Go ahead.

00:03:06.040 Hello. My name is Shannon, and my age is 28. I'm originally from Los Angeles, California,

00:03:15.520 and I currently live there now, and my occupation is that I'm self-employed. I run an influencer

00:03:24.280 marketing agency along with a pet-sitting business, and I resell clothes. Got it. Yeah.

00:03:31.600 And you, did you used to do adult content? In the past. In the past. Okay. And your agency,

00:03:38.200 does it work with, is it like an OF agency or just content? No. They can have an, they can be OF

00:03:44.920 creators, but it's not exclusively OF. No, it's for brand deals, actually. Okay. Yeah. Very cool.

00:03:51.680 Very cool. Welcome. Welcome. What about you? I'm Lindsay. I am 20. I live in, uh, Venice. I'm from

00:04:00.220 Manhattan Beach, and I'm a DJ, producer, and my parents give me money, so. Nice. What's your,

00:04:09.420 what's your allowance then? That's the occupation. Uh, they pay my rent, plus send me whatever for

00:04:17.140 whatever podcast name. Are they going to send a TTS in? They're sending. Paying my gas to get here,

00:04:24.780 I'll tell you that. Um, so you're a DJ. Yes. Do you, uh. I'm learning. Learning. How to mix in things

00:04:32.580 right now, but. Can you, like, air DJ? Show us a little air DJing. You know how there's, like,

00:04:37.180 a little bit of that. Air guitar. So that's how you, like. Show us your air DJing. You scratch,

00:04:40.060 you do a little, a little this, a little that, you know. Yeah. Mess around on the,

00:04:45.040 the little controller. Okay. Yeah. Rock and roll. Nice. Yes. What about you? Hi, my name is Azaira.

00:04:53.100 I am 20 years old. I am originally from LA and Louisiana, so I'm really the real LA. Right now,

00:05:04.960 I live in Hollywood, California, and my occupation that I am working on is being a model, hopefully

00:05:12.880 a runway model. All right. Welcome. What about you? Hi, I'm Abby. Um, I just moved here from

00:05:20.140 Kansas a few months ago, and I now live in Ventura, California. Um, did have a job when

00:05:26.100 I came out here. Now I'm currently seeking employment. Um, yeah. And so I'm really just

00:05:32.980 having fun. Age? Um, I'm 27. 27. You said you had a job, but you no longer have a job.

00:05:40.960 Yeah. I came out here, and, um, the employers were not very nice, and so I decided I needed to leave.

00:05:51.420 Oh, so you, you were in Kansas, and you moved here because of the job? Yeah. What, what was the job?

00:05:57.860 Um, you don't have to say the company, just what were you doing? It was just, uh, managing. I managed

00:06:03.480 a store. Okay. Yeah, but my roommate also, uh, she's my best friend from high school, and so she

00:06:09.520 already lived in Ventura, so I had, like, a nice, like, apartment already for me when I got out here.

00:06:15.840 So you quit or you got? I quit. Fire. Um, I quit. Yeah. Okay. Uh, any school? Yeah. Um, I graduated

00:06:26.860 in 2019 from Kansas University, KU. Where were you majoring? Uh, I was a photography major. Okay.

00:06:34.320 Sorority? I didn't do sorority. Okay. Uh, any college for you? Yes. I went to Columbia College

00:06:40.600 in Chicago. Shout out to Columbia College alumni, if you're watching. Shout out Columbia College

00:06:47.100 alumni. Um, the two of you that might be watching. Uh, what did you study? I studied comedy writing

00:06:55.220 in performance. Is that, that's a major? There it is. Yeah. It's very rare. More people have

00:07:01.440 actually been on the show Survivor as contestants than have my degree. Wow. Yeah. Damn. That,

00:07:12.680 you should put that on your resume. I, I'm self-employed. There you go. Uh, any school?

00:07:18.620 Oh. Yeah. College. I, I did community college. Yeah? Yeah. College. Um, I attend University

00:07:26.280 of the West. It's a private Buddhist university. Private Buddhist? Yes. Are you, are you Buddhist?

00:07:32.780 No. Oh, okay. Uh, what are you studying there? Uh, I'm studying business administration of accounting.

00:07:39.140 Okay. What about you? No, I didn't go to school. Oh, just your whole intro name, age, occupation,

00:07:45.460 location. Hi, my name is. So I, I jumped around there a little bit, so I kind of threw you off.

00:07:50.660 My name is Star. I'm 26. Um, born and raised in the Valley in LA and I'm a TikToker, YouTuber,

00:07:57.660 Reseida? No, Silmar. Oh, okay. Um. Sorry, TikToker, singer? YouTuber, social media. Rock and roll.

00:08:06.900 And how long have you been singing for? Um, my whole life. Whole life? Okay. Are you a soprano or?

00:08:14.740 Or? I'm an alto. Alto. Can we, uh, hear something? I don't know. Not right now. No? Okay. On the spot.

00:08:21.080 On the spot. Okay. All right. Uh, do you have like a new album coming out or anything like that? Or?

00:08:26.820 Just a new song coming out next week. Okay. It's called NPC. NPC. Okay. Uh, is it about NPCs?

00:08:35.700 Kind of. Okay. Cool. Very cool. What about you?

00:08:38.900 Okay. My name is Mia Huffman. Um, I'm 22. I'm from LA. Content creator and student, so.

00:08:45.940 Always from LA? I'm originally from Orange County, but I just say LA because this is where I live now.

00:08:50.260 Gotcha. Gotcha. Morgan. Hi. I'm Morgan. I'm 18. I go to Santa Barbara City College,

00:08:57.560 majoring in political science, and I'm from the Bay Area. All right.

00:09:01.140 Hi. I'm Ava. I'm 24. Um, born and raised in Santa Barbara, and I graduated from UCSB this year.

00:09:12.300 What was your major? Sociology.

00:09:15.000 I know. Okay. Uh, cool, cool. So we're going to go around the table once more. What is everybody's

00:09:26.400 current relationship status? So are you single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits,

00:09:32.760 relationship, married, polycule, sex, cult, harem, whatever it may be? Uh, if you're single,

00:09:37.600 how long have you been single? And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with

00:09:41.740 you? I'm taken. I am in a committed relationship. All right. How long have you guys been dating?

00:09:49.400 We've been dating almost six months. Okay. Longest relationship? About a year and a half,

00:09:57.200 two years. Okay. I'll just say two years. And how did you meet this current, uh, person?

00:10:05.480 Off of Bumble. Bumble. Okay. What? So on Bumble, the, at least I'm assuming when you met anyways,

00:10:13.500 the woman has to send the first message. What was your opening line? So the woman, I don't,

00:10:21.400 it's complicated on Bumble because I think that guys can message first based off something on your

00:10:26.400 profile. So I don't remember messaging first. I don't remember something about it being Easter,

00:10:33.820 but we're both Jewish. So, but he was still doing something for Easter, something like that.

00:10:39.840 Oh yeah. I haven't been on that in two years or something. So maybe they changed it, but it was

00:10:47.640 right before they kind of got low key canceled. Yeah. They changed it recently. Now they just opened

00:10:52.940 it up. Anybody can message anybody basically. But apparently it was, it was too much of a burden

00:10:58.000 for the women to message first, to send the first message. So they had to change it. They had to

00:11:05.400 change it. That's what they reported. It was too much of a, it was too hard, too difficult for the

00:11:10.900 ladies to send the first message. So I have sent a first message before, but I usually don't

00:11:18.740 probably why they changed that shit. I guess. Um, so you guys met on the, on Bumble, been dating for

00:11:25.940 six, six months. Very cool. What about you? I'm in the talking stage with like a few people.

00:11:31.880 Okay. Um, my last actual relationship was maybe like broke up like eight months ago,

00:11:38.440 nine. I don't remember. So you've been, I've been single for a minute. Yeah. And how long was the

00:11:43.460 one that ended nine months ago? Like a year ish. And is that your longest relationship? No, I dated

00:11:49.860 someone when I was like super young, like 14 for like four years on and off. Does that count?

00:11:55.940 Panel? No, it was like four years though. It was like high school count. It was a lot of,

00:12:00.820 it was a lot of cheating and this and that. So I, but it was like four years. So I was like,

00:12:06.860 I guess. How many times did you cheat? It was 12. It started actually. Well, he cheated first.

00:12:11.600 Oh, okay. So, so me cheating second doesn't really count as me cheating. How many times did he cheat on

00:12:17.140 you first? Just once? A couple times? Uncountable. Uncountable. Uncountable. So like how many times

00:12:24.940 did you cheat back? It was so nonchalant that I don't remember. You know, it like, it's so,

00:12:33.740 I don't know. Oh, okay. Like a few times, like a few times, like nothing crazy. I was like 14,

00:12:42.200 you know, I wasn't like. People are like cheating on each other at 14. Damn, that's crazy. It was a

00:12:47.320 really bad relationship besides that. So you said it was, uh, that was the longest one. You said the

00:12:52.740 four year one, but on and off, how many times was it, uh, on and off? Like four or five. Okay. And

00:12:58.740 you went to treatment. He went to wilderness therapy, wilderness therapy. Yeah. So it was

00:13:06.120 like a year break. Where did you go? Where did I go? I wasn't gone during that time. I went to rehab

00:13:10.900 later on. Wait, how old were you when you went to rehab? 14. The first time, the first time. What the

00:13:19.900 first, how many times have you been to rehab? Twice. No, no. Three, four, three times. I, well,

00:13:26.420 I went to an intake for a fourth one, but I didn't end up going. I got out of it. Like

00:13:32.820 I, I told, I'm like, I don't do any, I'm like, I didn't do anything like wrong. And, uh, it

00:13:38.680 was school. The school told me I had to know that my school, so it wasn't on my record. Huh?

00:13:44.120 Okay. And so, um, it was off, off and on for four years. How long were the, who, oh, who

00:13:51.900 would end it? It would, it would be me, but it would also be like, I hate you. And

00:13:58.840 like the texts, the calls, but the, I didn't know, I didn't know he was going to treatment

00:14:03.680 the first time. It was just like a week later. I was, it was like, oh, he's in, he's in

00:14:08.240 wilderness. And then I got a call a year later. Like I got a call a year later when he was

00:14:13.960 leaving. He's like, I'm at the airport. I'm calling you on a pay phone.

00:14:17.560 Hmm. Crazy. Um, and then when you guys were trying to get like back together, who would

00:14:25.420 initiate that? You, him, I wanted drugs. So I'd go back to him. He had like, he had like

00:14:31.840 drug, he was like friends with like all these, like, you know, crazy, like Compton people

00:14:37.240 just like, like, like hood, like, like, um, gang members. So, so I was like, I want

00:14:45.280 drugs. Excuse me. Okay. Yeah. No, no, it's, um, so you said you're currently in a couple

00:14:56.520 talking stages. Yeah. Like talking is a little too far, but like, you know, like the, like,

00:15:04.440 Hey, you up type of relationships. What do you mean by the hit you up type relationship?

00:15:09.460 No, like the you up relationships. It's like 1am. I'm not doing anything.

00:15:13.720 Oh, the you up, excuse me. Okay. Yes. Uh, who sends the you up message you or the guys

00:15:19.140 or both? Me. You do it? It's girls and guys. Oh, you date both. Okay. You're, so you're bi.

00:15:24.360 Yes. Okay. I suppose I should add orientation for you then. Um, I'm, I would say queer, but,

00:15:32.260 but mostly just like bisexual. Pan or bi? I don't really take on pansexual. Okay. Are

00:15:38.440 you bi or pan? Bi. Bi. Sorry. No, I didn't mean that. No, no, I didn't mean that shit either.

00:15:44.500 I didn't mean it like that. Make the, you got your tongue tied and I was. Of course. That's

00:15:49.260 why. Copying the tongue. Okay. Um, canceled. Uh, so. I'm done. Uh, uh, multiple. How many,

00:15:58.280 so how many girls right now are in the picture for you? Three. People are watching this.

00:16:11.280 So what? Oh, is it more than three or what? Is it more than three? No, I just don't want

00:16:16.840 them to know that there's three. Oh yeah. Nobody watches the show. They're, they're probably.

00:16:22.000 Well, that's how I met Lucy on hinge. So. And she said she's watching. So. Oh, okay. Um,

00:16:27.940 so, and then how many guys? None really. There's one guy that, um, me and my friend were hooking

00:16:36.020 up with and I met him from like a three, like this guy, like this girl, she's like, oh, I'm

00:16:41.220 friends with this porn star. And then we had him over like, just like to hang out basically. Sure.

00:16:46.940 He ended up like moving in with me and my roommate for a bit. He's at my house right now, but

00:16:52.300 he does porn. He like, Oh, what? Yeah. He's a porn star. And he moved in. So he moved

00:17:01.000 in with us and he was like hooking up with me and my friend, whatever. Like threesome?

00:17:04.700 No, no, no, no. Separate. Wait, your friend lives, your friend lives with you. Yeah. So

00:17:10.160 this guy is living rent free with you and fucking both of the housemates. He, he like, he yells

00:17:17.060 at our scary neighbor, but now we're like super close friends to the point where we're not

00:17:20.300 hooking up. I'm sorry. My neighbor threatened, because my neighbor threatened us and he's

00:17:23.920 like the protector. Cause we live in, we live in Venice, but there's always like homeless

00:17:27.440 and stuff. And I have like a tendency to move people in. I'm about to move by myself and

00:17:32.340 I already have my ex moving in with me. I'm complicated. Sorry. No, it's okay. I'm taking

00:17:37.600 up a lot of time. Oh no, it's, it's all good. We, we give people as much time as necessary.

00:17:42.720 Uh, so, um, so porn star moves in with you. He's hooking up with you and your housemate

00:17:49.640 separately. Yes. Okay. And then, so he's the only guy you're sort of dealing with right

00:17:56.720 now. Yeah. But we're like, he's like one of my best friends. You guys are friends, right?

00:17:59.920 Yeah. And then he has an apartment now. I see. But he's staying with me because I like

00:18:04.460 him there. Yeah. And you guys have, uh, you're dating three women. I'm not dating. Yeah.

00:18:08.720 Well, you're hooking up with three, right? So four currently, um, what's the biggest,

00:18:14.060 your, your hypothetically, are these like side pieces or hypothetically? Yeah. In the

00:18:19.620 video game. Hmm. Huh? Video game. It's like streamer, streamer lingo. Oh, like you're

00:18:28.620 not actually doing it. It's in a video game. Okay. Like you want to like hurt somebody in

00:18:33.280 a video game. Sure. You know, I don't know what that means, but yes, probably if you said

00:18:39.480 it, it's correct. You can say either. Uh, wait. So in the three girls you're seeing, do you

00:18:44.580 consider them, are they side hoes? There's no, is there, is there a main, there's no main

00:18:50.200 ho. There's no main ho. I like some of them, but it's a secret who start watching. Is it

00:18:57.320 Lucy? No, I, maybe. What you don't like, Lucy's watching right now. How are you going

00:19:01.560 to throw her under the butt? You just said no. How are you going to throw Lucy under the

00:19:05.280 butt? Lucy, you need to apologize to Lucy right now and to this camera. No, we're dating.

00:19:09.260 Yeah, exactly. Um, so what's the biggest, what is the biggest the roster has ever been?

00:19:17.020 The roster gets big, but the actual hanging out off dating apps is small. Does that make

00:19:25.620 sense? No, no one else relates. Got it. Does that mean like you'll hook up infrequently?

00:19:34.600 No, like we never actually met up cause I just like got, I get it. I get overwhelmed. Like

00:19:39.720 the ADHD kicks in. But so like right now you have four on the roster. Three, four. Are you

00:19:44.980 not counting the guy? Not really. No. But you guys are hooking up, right? Not as often.

00:19:49.240 We hang out. He lives with you, right? We skateboard. Well, we, yeah, we. When's the

00:19:52.080 last time you guys hooked up? Two weeks ago? Three weeks ago? We're not like, we're not

00:19:58.260 like that, you know? It's like a friend thing. It's literally a friends with benefit thing.

00:20:02.980 Like we'll kiss and stuff, but that's it. When's the last time you guys kissed? Like three

00:20:07.640 days ago. Oh, okay. Uh, what's the biggest the roster's ever been then?

00:20:14.980 Four, three. But the actual hangout, my body count's not that big. Oh, I wasn't asking

00:20:21.520 that, but. No, I mean. If you want. What is it? No, I mean like if the roster was nine,

00:20:25.520 like my body count didn't go up nine, if that makes sense. Oh. I'm like a one and done

00:20:30.280 two type of person. Wait. Like we met at a club or this or that. Wait, you're, when

00:20:37.480 you, you. Like a one night stand. One and done. Like a one night stand. Yeah, yeah. No,

00:20:42.420 I know. But you said that if your roster is this much, it doesn't increase your body

00:20:49.300 count, but you only hit it. Because I didn't, because I didn't like follow through. Like

00:20:53.380 the, like the Instagram DMs are popping, but like the actual like execution is not there.

00:20:59.680 Okay. That's fair. Yes, exactly. Okay. Uh, so you mentioned that you're mostly do one

00:21:06.920 and dones, like one night stands. Yeah. I'll kick people out if it's weird though, too. I

00:21:12.300 had to kick someone. Yeah. Any, yeah. Is it mostly like girls that you're hooking up

00:21:19.620 with or? Yeah. Like which do you prefer, guys or girls? Girls. Okay. Guys are just

00:21:25.500 for fun. And girls are for what? For fun, I guess, too. But like, I just get bored. Yeah,

00:21:31.740 I get bored. She's funny. I get bored. I get bored. You get bored? Mm-hmm. What does that

00:21:36.400 mean? Because I'm like, just like sitting around, I'm like, guys are so easy. You get,

00:21:42.080 wait, uh, you get bored? Like I get, I just get bored. I'll be like, oh, I kind of want

00:21:45.940 to hook up with a guy. Oh, I see. Because guys are so easy. Like they'll like, they're

00:21:51.280 like, oh, I'll be there in 10 minutes. Like girls, they're like, oh, let me get my makeup

00:21:55.040 up on all this bullshit. Yeah. Damn. It's true. Hmm. Interesting. And so, hmm. So I'm just

00:22:07.780 processing. There's a lot of information coming at me. I'm trying to process. Uh, so, okay.

00:22:14.160 Mostly. So what you said, guys are just for fun. Like, but like fun. Like I'm bored. Like

00:22:20.300 they'll, but they're rare. They're rare. I'll put it that way. But like for a long-term

00:22:24.220 serious relationship, it would have to be a girl. I don't think I'd date a guy as of

00:22:27.020 right now. It would be a girl. I see. As of right now, I wouldn't date a guy, if that

00:22:29.400 makes sense. Like no feelings. Okay. Yeah. We can definitely jump into more of that later

00:22:33.700 on in the show. What about you? Right now, I am currently single. I wish I had a boyfriend.

00:22:41.940 That would be so great. And, um, yeah. Okay. Longest relationship? Two to three years.

00:22:50.460 How long have you been single? About two years. Now, last time you were on the show,

00:22:57.460 you said that you were involved, sort of involved with this guy. You want to get back with him,

00:23:03.980 but you kind of don't. And it's kind of toxic. Uh, have you been in contact with him since

00:23:10.560 the last time you were on the show? No, I haven't. I've actually been doing really good. I think

00:23:15.960 it's nothing. Nothing. Nothing. Nothing. Question mark. None of that. But I think that

00:23:23.720 since his birthday is coming up, I've been like really trying not to. Like I have to try hard

00:23:30.800 to keep my self to myself. Interesting. Okay. Uh, so you said you've been, are you on dating

00:23:39.120 apps at all? No, they're scary. You said you've been single for two years,

00:23:43.480 but, uh, when is the last time you did see the toxic ex? Well, I don't know if he's the toxic

00:23:48.740 one, but when's the last time you saw the toxic relationship that is mostly 99% your fault,

00:23:55.080 but just kidding. Okay. Okay. Just kidding. But seriously. That was, yeah, it was, now I think

00:24:01.480 it's been two months. Two months. Nice. So in that time period, have there been any guys in the

00:24:05.600 picture? Um, recently an old guy tried to come back into my life. Like he's old as in his age

00:24:15.140 or like old as in you dated him a while ago. I actually met him on BLK. What was that? It's

00:24:24.340 a black dating app. You on that Desmond? Do you think I would do good on there? Can I join? Am I

00:24:33.460 allowed to join? Yeah. Low key. I seen a couple of people who wasn't black and I was like, okay,

00:24:38.220 you know what I'm saying? It's like the plus size one where like anyone can join, like looking for

00:24:45.120 like somebody plus size. They're just trying to promote black love, like so that we could kind

00:24:51.760 of feel like we can find someone that's the same race as us, but we still have the option for other

00:24:58.200 people. Would it be offensive if, if what, why did you say yeah before I even finish? You just know

00:25:06.800 what I'm going to say. Um, so would it be wrong, like to consider myself African American?

00:25:15.120 No, let me, let me explain. Hold on. Let me explain. So my dad was born in North Africa

00:25:22.540 and my mom was born in America. So if my dad was born in Africa and my mom was born in America,

00:25:29.600 technically I'm African American. I agree. Right? I agree. I agree. Technically. Right, Desmond?

00:25:36.940 Yeah. You're not black though. Of course. Yeah. But you can say. But I can say, can I say I'm African

00:25:43.340 American? If that's the case. I'm 0.3% African. Okay. I don't want to tell you yes and then

00:25:51.140 you go somewhere and then like. Where would I go? Where would I go? Don't you speak French?

00:25:57.460 Was it a Francophone country? Possibly. So then, yeah, I think you can say that you're African.

00:26:02.840 He was born in Africa. My dad was born in Africa. Yeah, and you can say it. Okay. Anyways. Uh, so

00:26:09.840 what about you? Relationship status? Um, I'm single. I've been single for four years now.

00:26:18.160 All right. Longest relationship? Year and a half. All right. Was that the one that ended

00:26:24.320 four years ago? No. The one that lasted a year and a half was in college. And then the one that

00:26:30.120 happened during COVID, that lasted like eight months. Gotcha. Uh, so in the four-year period,

00:26:35.380 have you been dating at all? Um, I've tried and then, um, I get into situationships and I didn't

00:26:43.220 like see them coming. I'm like, no, I don't want that. And then it just ends up being a situationship.

00:26:48.700 So what does that look like? Um, it looks like all the benefits of a relationship with none of the

00:26:56.940 like commitment or actual like labels. So like guys will like, they would like make me dinner

00:27:05.360 or something and I'd be like, oh, they really want to date me. Like they're doing like being

00:27:08.540 proactive and like planning things. And then, uh, they just be like, oh, like, I don't know if I'm

00:27:14.560 really ready to like take this anywhere. They just wanted to like keep it very surface level

00:27:19.540 and I never see it coming. Okay. And when's their most recent, uh, situationship? Um, that was like

00:27:28.660 a month ago, but that ended very quickly. So when did you move to California again? Uh, three months

00:27:35.240 ago. Okay. So you've been dating somewhat in like, I guess I can't even say it was dating. I was like

00:27:41.000 two dates and then I got, and then I was like, nevermind. Did you meet on a dating app?

00:27:45.120 No, we met in person. I prefer to meet in person. I deleted all my dating apps. Where did you guys

00:27:49.180 meet? Um, we met, uh, a bar. Okay. Gotcha. Is a bar, I wonder if like meeting at a bar,

00:27:57.200 is it better than a dating app or is it about the same? I prefer in person because I'm mostly like,

00:28:06.300 it needs to be like, I need to be like physically attracted to you. And then I need to like,

00:28:10.980 really kind of like know your, your vibe, um, off the bat. I feel like every time I look through

00:28:17.920 photos and, um, I just really like, I I'll X more than I ever like, like, so in person,

00:28:26.000 it's just a lot easier. Okay. And so you're not on dating apps. No, not any, any guys currently in

00:28:35.000 the picture right now? No, nothing. No, I'm honestly just going dormant at the moment. Like I'm looking

00:28:40.860 for love and then I'm like looking for it and just really odd ways. And then, um, yeah, I'm going

00:28:48.720 on like dating shows or stuff like that, but I'm honestly just like wanting to meet someone in

00:28:54.960 person. You said you were on Jubilee? Yeah. I recently did a video. What was the topic or

00:29:01.040 whatever? It hasn't come out yet. Um, it was two best friends, um, swiping on 50 women. And so like,

00:29:07.640 they swipe for each other and then it was like mini speed dates. Got it. Okay. Uh, so single for

00:29:13.440 four years, situationships, longest relationship, 1.5 years. Um, any differences when it comes to

00:29:21.180 dating here in California versus in Kansas or about the same? Um, I honestly left Kansas. Um,

00:29:28.460 I lived in, um, Kansas city for a while and I left, I'd been there for like years and hadn't found

00:29:35.000 anyone. And it's really hard to meet someone. Um, I don't know who actually wants a relationship

00:29:40.940 there. And I kind of am feeling like I moved here and it's the same. So it's okay though.

00:29:46.880 Is, uh, Kansas the South or is that? No, it's the Midwest. Midwest. Yeah. That's okay. I don't

00:29:54.560 know. Geography is not my strong suit. What about you? I'm single. All right. Single. How long

00:30:02.400 you've been single for? Um, technically a year, over a year, but I did fall in love a month ago,

00:30:10.180 a month ago or two months. Yeah. Longest relationship. Um, four years. Three and a half.

00:30:20.500 Oh, sorry. Okay. And you said you fell in love a month ago. What happened there?

00:30:25.580 Well, we didn't make it out the talking stage, but we fell in love. Um, he was a virgin and he was

00:30:32.800 super Christian and very sweet. And, but he wanted to marry a virgin because he made that

00:30:39.940 pact with him when he was a kid. So he couldn't get past that. Cause he made the pact with who?

00:30:44.200 Oh, with himself. Oh, okay. That he would stay a virgin and marry a virgin. And, um, I'm not a

00:30:50.580 virgin. So we love each other, but I respect that. That's what he wants to marry. Wait. So how long

00:30:58.220 were you guys, I guess, talking or dating? Um, like a month, but we were friends for a month and then

00:31:04.980 we were talking for a month and fell in love. Oh, you were friends first. Yeah. I see. Okay.

00:31:12.060 But I mean, like romantic love or like a friendship love? Romantic, but no sex.

00:31:22.340 But I mean, this whole virgin thing, Tim sounds like it was a pretty big deal, right?

00:31:26.400 Yeah. He couldn't get past it. Like he wanted to, but he was like, I, I just really, he was also 20.

00:31:31.340 So maybe it was like kind of an age thing that maybe he'll get over it.

00:31:35.060 And I'm kidding. Uh, so you're 26. He was 20. Yeah. Um, uh, of the guys you're interested

00:31:45.400 in, do you, do you like young guys or this kind of more of a fluke situation? Um, I used

00:31:51.620 to like older guys or guys my age, but recently they've been like 21, 20, and I don't know

00:31:56.920 why, but that's just what's been coming my way. And I'm like, okay, that's the vibe now.

00:32:02.680 There you go. So, uh, he wanted, I'm just confused why, if he was so set on this whole

00:32:10.040 virgin thing, it seems like he kind of perhaps led you on a little bit, a little bit like

00:32:16.700 unintentionally. He was like confused. Like it was like, it was complicated. Um, but it

00:32:24.300 was meant to happen. He got me closer to God. So. You said he's Christian. Do you know

00:32:30.320 what denomination he is? Protestant. I don't know. Just normal. Catholic. Okay. Christian.

00:32:37.180 Okay. Um, were you upset when he told you, he's like, I'm in love with you. And then, well,

00:32:43.740 you loved him too. And he's like, yeah, but you're not a virgin. Sorry. Sorry. Like was,

00:32:50.580 is that upsetting to hear? No, because he didn't want to say it. Like it was, he was

00:32:55.460 like crying saying it cause he didn't want to hurt my feelings. He's like, I don't want

00:32:59.080 to like, but I'm like, just say it. Like, just be honest. Like, it's not going to hurt

00:33:01.880 my feelings. I just want you to be honest. So that was just coming from his heart and

00:33:05.320 I was like sad, but he said it in such a gentle way that I knew it was just authentically how

00:33:11.900 he felt. Did you try to get him to have sex with you? Like when you guys were talking?

00:33:16.200 Oh no, I wouldn't. You didn't try. Yeah. I was just curious. No, no. Um, he was crying.

00:33:23.900 Yeah. Like we were crying. Like it was really sad. Who started crying first? I think he did.

00:33:30.820 And then he, so he started crying and then you started crying. Yeah. How, what was the

00:33:35.760 period of time you guys were both crying at the same time? We, we like, it was like 12 hours

00:33:42.300 in a car of us crying and making out and getting dinner and going to like a beautiful, like

00:33:48.660 scenery. Like we couldn't leave each other. So we were like crying, kissing, and then it's

00:33:54.120 like, Oh, it has to end. It was a whole thing. Is he gay? Am I wrong for asking that? But

00:34:03.300 like a 12 hour talking cry session? Sounds very feminine. There's not, if he's gay, that's

00:34:11.420 totally cool. I just feel like that guy on the bachelor that didn't have sex, the football

00:34:17.000 player. He's not, he's definitely not gay. He's just, he's an emotional young man. I don't

00:34:22.760 know if that's out of the pocket, but I'm not, it's not bad if he's gay. It's not bad if he's

00:34:27.860 gay. I'm just asking, like, I think he could be, could be, he could be gay? No. Maybe?

00:34:35.360 Nah. He had a lot of emotional intelligence for a young guy. Like you, I like, I like guys

00:34:40.900 like that. He's not gay. Did he know that you weren't a virgin before you guys were friends

00:34:47.920 or while you guys were friends? Yeah. So then why did he engage in a relationship with you

00:34:52.520 romantically if he knew that you weren't a virgin? Because he said he was trying to get

00:34:58.160 past it, but he couldn't. And I think that might have to do with his age. Like maybe it

00:35:03.140 is like a maturity thing that you can't get past. I've had sex before. I don't know. He

00:35:09.340 was a complicated person. I'm curious, was he, was it, he's allowed to kiss you? Did you

00:35:15.060 ever say that? Oh yeah, we would kiss. You were allowed to kiss. Okay. I'm not familiar

00:35:18.600 with Christianity. Like you're allowed to kiss. You just can't have sex. Well, it wasn't

00:35:23.540 even his faith. It was the fact that he made it as a commitment to himself. Because of his

00:35:28.440 faith. Yeah. Oh, because of his faith. That's, yeah, that's why I ask. I kind of get it because

00:35:33.180 I have an ex who, um, I don't think had ever slept with anyone, uh, before me. And it was

00:35:43.240 a big deal to him that I wasn't a virgin as well. Oh really? Yeah. But he was?

00:35:48.600 I mean, not after we had started dating, but afterwards he felt like it was, he, I feel

00:35:55.460 like he thought he was too inexperienced. Oh, okay. Yeah. But he was a virgin when I

00:36:00.860 met him. Oh, okay. Yeah. He cried for 12 hours? No, but I get the crying. I get the being

00:36:11.360 upset because he's like upset that I, I feel like the reason is cause like he wishes that

00:36:18.520 maybe you weren't avert or maybe he wishes that you were a virgin, but you weren't. And

00:36:22.460 he's like conflicted about his religious beliefs, but he like, if they're claiming they love each

00:36:28.420 other, they love each other. So if he's like in love with star, he's got a lot of conflicting

00:36:33.220 emotions with his faith and, and things like that. So I get it. Yeah. And he doesn't date

00:36:39.380 to date. He dates to marry. So he's like, if I were to date to date, I would love to date

00:36:43.320 you, but I just know like marriage wise, it's not what I'm looking for. And I think that's,

00:36:47.580 that's actually really responsible to cut it off there instead of going in it and being

00:36:52.120 like, oh wait, we're not going to get married probably. You know, I don't know.

00:36:56.800 Were you guys the same faith? Well, he got me, he got me closer to God. I was like, all

00:37:05.020 right. And then we had like a spiritual like whole thing. I'm not laughing at you. I just

00:37:12.220 feel like the pendulum, I don't know if the pendulum needs to swing back and I'm going to

00:37:16.980 probably get accused of toxic masculinity, but we need to teach men to like, you got to

00:37:23.140 fucking stifle that shit. First off, I wouldn't be inclined. Yeah. You got to push that shit.

00:37:30.480 You got to keep that shit bottled in. So like 10 years down the road, you have a massive aneurysm.

00:37:35.360 That's what being a man is on the brink of aneurysm. I like masculinity. There you go.

00:37:42.260 As somebody who's bi, if I want a guy, they have to be a guy. Otherwise I'd go with a girl. There

00:37:50.020 was this one guy. He was like a girl. I want a guy. Does that make sense? Bro. I like

00:37:59.760 masculinity. Like open the door for me. Bro, you can't cry. No, I'm saying I don't want the

00:38:05.540 crying. I don't want the crying. I bet someone will cry. I don't want it. I'm not just saying

00:38:08.280 the crying. I just think it's strange that like you knew, he knew for a month who you

00:38:13.480 were as a person, like you didn't meet that criteria. He engaged with you for another month

00:38:18.500 in addition to the friendship, knowing that maybe he was developing feelings from the

00:38:22.600 friendship, develop that for a further month as a romantic thing. You guys continued with

00:38:27.260 kissing and then he's against the virginity issue. It's just strange. It's just like,

00:38:31.640 you already knew this. Why did you engage? You knew that both feelings were going to get

00:38:34.300 involved. It's just weird. And she said he's dating to marry.

00:38:37.280 And he's dating to marry. It's like you purposefully knew that you weren't going to marry this person

00:38:41.960 and you wasted, not wasted, obviously the love and everything. I don't doubt that you

00:38:46.500 guys fell in love, but it's just kind of like, you knew the checklist was not going to get

00:38:50.320 checked off. So why did he do it? Not, not your fault. Just he knew that. It's kind of,

00:38:55.280 it's kind of a West side story. Yeah. I mean, I know why, like I understand it's because he

00:39:01.000 was trying to get past it, but couldn't. So he just had these conflicting feelings.

00:39:06.480 And was like, Oh, I can't. Sure. And it's, it's a little immature, but I respect if that's how he

00:39:14.680 feels. Okay. We'll come back to that in just a bit. Mia, we'll get your relationship status.

00:39:20.600 I'm single. All right. How long you've been single for? I've been single since January. I did a long

00:39:26.860 term relationship. So eight months, nine months? Eight, nine months. Yeah. All right. Longest relationship?

00:39:33.960 That was three years. Was that the one that ended eight months ago? Yeah. That was the longest and

00:39:39.140 yeah. So wait, weren't you on the show in like late 2023? No, I think I was on the show right

00:39:47.520 after the break. Well, no, you've been, no, you were on the show in 2023. Was I? I'm pretty sure.

00:39:53.560 I think. I think we communicated. But you said you were single.

00:39:58.280 We might've broken up at that time. Guys, find, find the clip. Find the clip. I mean,

00:40:03.420 we did. Was she actually in the, whatever. Um, I think we probably were on a breakup by that point.

00:40:08.660 Okay. Yeah. Uh, and then we've heard it from these two before. Uh, so going back to your thing,

00:40:14.100 uh, star, you said in your pre-show notes, last day to the Virgin that showed me the presence of God

00:40:19.120 while I was having paranormal slash supernatural experiences. Now I'm super spiritual religious

00:40:24.280 after that and celibate waiting for marriage. Yeah. And so, uh, you were having a paranormal

00:40:36.720 supernatural experience. What was that? Well, I moved into this, um, very beautiful house,

00:40:43.380 but it's just really old. And I was having paranormal activity there and like, it was really scary. Um,

00:40:53.940 but yeah, so he would come over and we would like pray away the demons and, uh, wait, I'm sorry.

00:41:04.100 It was like a haunted house. It's okay. Um, yeah, I moved into like a creator house and it's like

00:41:11.080 old, like French European. And like, I was having paranormal activity. No, keep going. And, um,

00:41:19.480 and yeah, like that night that him and I were together, we were having like, my monitor was

00:41:23.420 going off super loud and he was like praying away the demons, but also like praying the Holy

00:41:28.040 Spirit into me. And I felt God's presence for the first time ever. And it just felt like,

00:41:33.200 like happiness and love and just like, I've never felt that before. And then the, like,

00:41:39.860 the paranormal activity stopped and I got delivered by a pastor too. Delivered? Yeah. What does that

00:41:46.600 mean? So I had like, from all my trauma and a lot of negative stuff in my life, I had like bad spirits

00:41:53.180 in me. I just believe everything's spiritual. So he's like rebuked the spirit of Jezebel, like,

00:41:59.100 like the lust spirit, the anger. And then I've been a lot happier. Was it an exorcism?

00:42:06.120 Kind of. You, you went through an exorcism? Deliverance. Wait, you were exercised?

00:42:12.860 Not like in the movies, but like, yes, I had like fasting and prayer and I felt so much better.

00:42:20.320 And was the guy there, the crying for 12 hours guy? Um, he was only there when he was like praying

00:42:27.100 the spirits away and praying like God's presence into me, which I felt, but he wasn't there for the

00:42:31.460 deliverance. And sorry, wait, the deliverance is the, after the exorcism? Is that the, is that

00:42:38.720 another term? Deliverance is the exorcism. Okay. Oh, okay. Huh. Yeah. Interesting. Um, and then now you

00:42:46.780 said after that you're now spiritual, religious, are you Christian? Oh yeah. Okay. What denomination

00:42:53.900 or? I don't know what that is. Do you go to, do you go to a church or? Yeah. Like a Christian

00:42:59.000 church. Do you know the denomination of the church? No. Do you know what it's like when

00:43:03.980 it says church, whatever saint or non-saint that it says, does it say evangelical, Protestant,

00:43:10.540 Presbyterian? Presbyterian. I think it's just normal Christian. It's called Evergreen. It's

00:43:15.300 in Venice area. Okay. I don't know. Uh, you said that you, and now though you're now celibate

00:43:23.000 slash waiting for marriage. Yeah. Okay. And you're going to, you think you're going to hold firm,

00:43:27.880 hold steadfast? I think so. Yeah. When I get engaged, that'll be hard, but, um, when you get

00:43:36.860 engaged? Yeah. Like when I get engaged, I'll probably want to have sex with the person I'm

00:43:40.660 going to marry, but till then I don't want to have sex. There's just so much that comes

00:43:45.160 with it. Like you can get STDs, you can get pregnant. True. It's a lot of suffering. Super

00:43:51.180 true. Okay. Um, and, uh, I going back to the whole, like 12 hours in the car, talking, crying

00:44:00.820 thing. Uh, ladies, would that be, would that make you more or less attracted to a guy if

00:44:10.160 he started, like you've only known that you knew him for a month, right? Two months, two

00:44:14.180 months, like two months is two months too soon for a guy to start crying a little bit, a little

00:44:23.940 soon. I'd appreciate that they can show their emotions, but for 12 hours, it's a long day.

00:44:32.860 That's long. It's a lot. For someone who didn't know for two months. It wasn't crying for 12

00:44:37.420 hours. It's half a day. I've cried, but by myself, I'll go in the car and cry. Like I'm

00:44:43.120 not showing you that I care. Otherwise, like you see that I care. I'm like, it's not, it's

00:44:48.520 not mature. It's just like, I don't want to come off as that. Like, I don't want you telling

00:44:52.640 anyone I cried. I think if it's like the 12 hours of processing together for a relationship

00:44:58.020 that's going to be moving forward, I think that's good that like, you're putting the

00:45:02.560 time and effort into communicating that much and being that open. But if he knew at like

00:45:07.680 hour one, like we're done for good, but I'm still going to continue on for the next like

00:45:12.320 day, then that's where it's like, what are you doing? Was, was it like you guys, the meeting

00:45:18.880 was we are going to end this or that was his plan? Or was it like we hung out, we went

00:45:23.920 on a date, six hours in, then he finds out and he's like, or he figures it out at that

00:45:27.740 moment. He's like, you know what? It's really like weighing in on me. Like I can't do it.

00:45:31.160 And that's when like the other six hours came on.

00:45:33.680 We had a week break and he was like thinking about it and we're like thinking about it of

00:45:38.800 how to go about it. And that meeting, his intention was to end it.

00:45:42.880 Okay. So he came into meeting to end it.

00:45:45.880 Yeah. But I was coming in to just fight it away.

00:45:49.420 Not. He didn't want to end it. I didn't know what his decision was.

00:45:53.380 Wait, if, if, uh, so if he changed, if he had a change up and he was like, uh, I'm actually

00:46:00.480 want to date you, would you date him?

00:46:03.520 Um, no, I wouldn't.

00:46:05.260 Why?

00:46:06.520 Because I've come to realization throughout this experience that I'm not going to date

00:46:12.240 till I'm who I want to be in life.

00:46:16.460 Who do you want to be in life?

00:46:18.920 Uh, just like where I want to be in my career and mentally and everything.

00:46:23.880 I see.

00:46:24.540 I feel like I'll attract the right person.

00:46:25.960 How did he ask you if you were a virgin or not?

00:46:28.900 He didn't. I just was open about stuff.

00:46:31.920 Yeah. Well, let's assume when you are ready to be in a relationship, he comes back into

00:46:38.680 the picture. Would you date him then?

00:46:41.380 If he seems like he like is mature and I've seen his growth and yeah.

00:46:46.080 Oh, is he not mature?

00:46:48.000 No, he wants to like be at a better place too.

00:46:51.760 I see.

00:46:52.440 We've realized that.

00:46:53.540 If he came around, I don't know if this parses now that you've answered the question

00:47:01.360 the way you have, but assuming you were ready to like date somebody, if he came around and

00:47:05.320 he's like, yeah, that whole waiting till marriage celibacy thing, I'm actually just

00:47:09.200 throwing that out the window. Are you DTF? Would you, would you smash?

00:47:14.180 Oh, no.

00:47:15.200 You wouldn't?

00:47:15.920 Respectfully, I would not.

00:47:16.700 Okay. That's fine. I was just curious because maybe he has like a, he changes up or something.

00:47:22.260 Um, by the way, I wasn't trying to like, I mean, I don't, I wasn't trying to like bully

00:47:30.560 the guy over the crying, but, uh, I don't think it's a, I don't think it's like a great

00:47:39.520 idea to be crying in front of people. You know what I mean?

00:47:46.200 I think it's so attractive.

00:47:48.940 You were more attracted to him when he started crying?

00:47:51.560 Yeah.

00:47:52.820 I don't know.

00:47:53.560 That wasn't the first time he did it.

00:47:54.880 I think, honestly, honestly.

00:47:57.820 Wait, that wasn't the first time.

00:47:59.000 I, I honestly think when, at least when it comes to men, the only time you should cry is

00:48:05.460 when you have a loss or like some sort of, you either have like maybe catastrophic health

00:48:11.640 problem, family member, catastrophic health problem.

00:48:14.440 Somebody dies, loss of an, like a loved, a well-loved pet, like a dog.

00:48:24.160 I can't, I don't think you can cry.

00:48:26.500 Like if you'd been talking to a girl for two months, I'm sorry.

00:48:31.420 Stifle that shit.

00:48:33.380 Indulge in the toxic masculinity.

00:48:34.960 Be toxic.

00:48:37.180 Be toxic.

00:48:38.720 Masculinity.

00:48:39.220 Don't cry.

00:48:39.940 I don't know.

00:48:41.840 I don't know, man.

00:48:42.960 Anyways, we need, we have some reacts we have to get to.

00:48:46.740 So, could you grab that for me?

00:48:49.880 So, Nick, could you pull up our first react?

00:48:52.580 Yes.

00:48:53.300 Thank you.

00:48:53.800 Uh, yes, I think.

00:48:58.460 I think.

00:49:03.460 Nope, not, not this one.

00:49:06.500 Next tab.

00:49:14.320 All right, make it bigger.

00:49:16.260 Okay, go ahead.

00:49:17.380 Feminist man, I think the toxic masculinity is so destructive for our culture.

00:49:21.000 Cheers to that.

00:49:21.840 Right?

00:49:22.040 I wish all men were feminists like you.

00:49:24.080 It's so refreshing.

00:49:25.300 All right, here's that check for you, sir.

00:49:27.080 How dare you assume that because I'm a man that I'm going to be paying for this whole dinner.

00:49:30.280 Women are fully capable of paying for themselves.

00:49:32.000 Oh, I'm sorry.

00:49:32.720 Do you want me to split the bill between you two, then?

00:49:33.900 Actually, why don't we do this so we can really drive this point home for you because

00:49:37.360 you're giving me very misogynistic vibes.

00:49:39.500 Leave the entire bill and she will pay for the entire thing because she is a strong, independent

00:49:43.460 woman who does not need a man to provide.

00:49:45.420 As a feminist woman, wouldn't you agree with that?

00:49:47.200 Yeah.

00:49:47.920 Yeah.

00:49:48.780 I guess.

00:49:49.180 In that case, here's the check, ma'am.

00:49:50.920 Uh, I'm sorry.

00:49:52.040 Okay.

00:49:52.620 Canceled.

00:49:53.780 I cannot believe how toxic that guy was.

00:49:56.280 Right.

00:49:56.620 So toxic.

00:49:57.880 Oh my God.

00:49:58.720 This is expensive.

00:49:59.700 Oh, you got it.

00:50:00.280 Give me a buck.

00:50:01.080 Are you going to help me?

00:50:02.220 Absolutely not.

00:50:03.160 As a feminist man, I don't want to imply that you can't defend yourself just because you're

00:50:06.020 a woman.

00:50:06.460 Are you serious right now?

00:50:07.520 Who is capable of defending yourself as a man?

00:50:09.000 All right.

00:50:09.920 F*** this.

00:50:11.940 I'm dating a conservative.

00:50:13.000 And that's why you guys are a feminist man.

00:50:16.160 Uh, okay.

00:50:16.760 So going around the table, your reaction to that.

00:50:18.980 That's funny.

00:50:20.160 Mm-hmm.

00:50:21.820 That's it?

00:50:22.460 That's it?

00:50:23.000 Yeah.

00:50:23.500 It's funny.

00:50:24.160 Like, it's real.

00:50:25.420 Um, so then I, I guess, uh, well, I'll go around the table and I'll ask some more follow-up

00:50:29.840 questions.

00:50:30.460 Absolutely no.

00:50:32.000 To what?

00:50:32.840 All of it.

00:50:33.080 No to what?

00:50:33.740 No to what?

00:50:34.280 No to all of it.

00:50:34.720 All of it.

00:50:35.380 All of it?

00:50:36.140 If a guy's not like, I'm going to take you to lunch, I don't want it.

00:50:39.660 Like I said, I, if I'm going out with a guy, I want him to be a full, I like conservative

00:50:44.780 men.

00:50:45.380 Mm-hmm.

00:50:45.880 If he, if he's not, I like, I like that.

00:50:49.660 I like an assertive, like confident guy that like can prove himself.

00:50:53.900 Because if I want to marry a guy, I want him, I want to be a housewife type, type thing.

00:51:00.240 The video, honestly, I think he played her because he knew he didn't have no money.

00:51:07.100 So he was like, all right, this is how you get him.

00:51:09.220 Like reverse psychology.

00:51:11.000 I feel like he did not really feel like that.

00:51:12.940 He just wanted to like flip the script to show her how it would feel if he were, yeah.

00:51:19.600 No, I don't like that.

00:51:22.100 I don't know.

00:51:23.360 I don't know.

00:51:26.640 Okay.

00:51:27.640 And you react.

00:51:28.320 Okay.

00:51:28.620 Oh, I know that girl.

00:51:29.740 Oh, she's my friend.

00:51:30.880 Oh, you know her?

00:51:31.300 Her name is Ariel.

00:51:32.580 Oh, nice.

00:51:33.320 Okay.

00:51:35.020 Oh, the video?

00:51:37.200 I don't know.

00:51:38.020 I didn't think he was that funny.

00:51:39.480 But I like guys that are providers, but also care about women.

00:51:43.520 Mm-hmm.

00:51:44.520 I like a guy that cares about women, but also definitely a provider.

00:51:47.940 I think it's kind of funny like meeting men that are like, oh, I'm feminist and like kind

00:51:52.280 of do that.

00:51:52.680 And I have met men that do that.

00:51:54.360 And they make those jokes.

00:51:55.340 And it's like, oh, well, you can pay for it.

00:51:56.620 And it's like, you clearly, like you're just fucking with it.

00:52:00.140 Like you're just using that as like a play with it to like, I'm going to like amp that

00:52:05.760 up.

00:52:05.980 Okay.

00:52:06.120 I'm a feminist, so she can afford it.

00:52:07.800 I'm a feminist, but like you make money.

00:52:09.560 Like it's not funny, especially when you're dating.

00:52:13.600 Okay.

00:52:14.920 Morgan, any reaction?

00:52:16.480 I don't know.

00:52:17.140 I wouldn't want a guy like that.

00:52:19.340 But also I think he's kind of like showing the other side, I guess, like showing flipping

00:52:23.160 the script.

00:52:23.840 Ava?

00:52:24.800 I agree with Morgan.

00:52:26.600 All right.

00:52:27.940 So then kind of related to that, who do you think should pay on a first date, men or women?

00:52:34.440 I think that men should pay on a first date.

00:52:37.100 Mm-hmm.

00:52:40.100 That's just how I feel.

00:52:41.680 Sure.

00:52:41.900 Yeah.

00:52:44.200 Wait, hold on.

00:52:45.120 How do I want to frame this?

00:52:46.080 Uh, okay.

00:52:47.860 Yeah, yeah.

00:52:48.960 Who should pay?

00:52:49.920 What?

00:52:50.400 What's the free name?

00:52:51.200 Who should pay?

00:52:52.280 Disregard that.

00:52:52.860 Who should pay?

00:52:53.380 I feel like I know what you're going to ask.

00:52:55.300 Just answer the question.

00:52:56.440 Okay, men.

00:52:57.360 Okay.

00:52:59.020 Um, either men or the person who asked, because I'm not asking nobody on a date if I don't have

00:53:05.460 money to take you on a date.

00:53:07.980 Okay.

00:53:08.480 What about you?

00:53:09.100 I second that.

00:53:10.480 Well, so just one point of clarification.

00:53:12.480 Um, I know sometimes there'll be a tendency to agree with somebody before you, uh, says,

00:53:18.800 but just state your own opinion.

00:53:21.240 Just, you can even just state it.

00:53:24.040 Go ahead.

00:53:25.600 Oh, um, I mean, I offer to pay, but they don't let me.

00:53:30.520 I think they should, though.

00:53:32.900 Okay.

00:53:35.080 I prefer men to pay.

00:53:36.380 I'll offer on occasion, but asking out, et cetera, like men.

00:53:39.840 What about you?

00:53:41.020 Uh, I would say men, but I would split if they would ask, I guess.

00:53:45.000 Okay.

00:53:49.100 Um, men, but I'm also in a relationship, and we switch off, and I'm fine doing that.

00:53:56.540 Sure.

00:53:57.300 Um, by the way, guys, I forgot to mention this.

00:53:59.640 Andrew Wilson's going to be doing a call-in a little bit later on the show.

00:54:03.200 I forgot to mention that during the intro.

00:54:04.380 I'm not sure exactly when he's going to be doing the call-in, but maybe an hour or two,

00:54:09.200 something like that.

00:54:10.400 Uh, so going around the table once more, um, are you a feminist, starting with you?

00:54:18.660 I would say that yes, I am a feminist, because I want women to have the same, like, opportunities

00:54:26.520 and be equal to men.

00:54:28.460 I think that some of the classic, like, modern feminist tropes have taken it a bit too far,

00:54:37.980 and, um, I don't agree with certain things in regards to feminism that I think a lot of

00:54:45.160 modern-day feminists do.

00:54:46.700 Um, I guess I would consider myself to be more old-fashioned, uh, thinking.

00:54:54.440 I used to be more liberal, uh, and leftist when I was in Chicago, and I still hold on

00:55:02.100 to a lot of those beliefs, but I think I've become more, like, in the middle and moderate

00:55:06.400 when it comes to.

00:55:08.620 You, are you serious?

00:55:10.440 Yeah, I don't feel very good.

00:55:12.380 You don't feel good?

00:55:13.460 No, I'm, like, hot and overheating.

00:55:17.880 I'm, like, sick.

00:55:19.940 I'm feeling sick.

00:55:21.000 You're feeling sick because of the heat?

00:55:23.980 Yeah, and the lights, and, like, the, just sitting down.

00:55:27.640 Aren't you an actress?

00:55:29.160 No.

00:55:31.060 I don't feel very good.

00:55:32.640 I don't want to, like...

00:55:33.220 The conversation about who pays is what pushed you over the edge?

00:55:36.740 No, I'm, like, feeling like I'm, like, uh...

00:55:39.380 Do you need a...

00:55:39.980 We have some Gatorade, and do you want some Gatorade?

00:55:42.480 You want to sit for a bit, see if you feel a bit better?

00:55:45.280 Maybe.

00:55:46.280 Okay, you're welcome to...

00:55:47.160 I do not feel good.

00:55:48.200 I'm sorry.

00:55:48.700 I don't want to cause anything.

00:55:50.620 Okay.

00:55:52.220 Do you want to...

00:55:53.040 You can sit.

00:55:53.700 There's Gatorade in the fridge.

00:55:54.920 There's applesauce.

00:55:56.520 Somebody back there want to show a little accommodation?

00:56:02.260 Okay.

00:56:02.660 Okay.

00:56:05.920 Sorry for the interruption there.

00:56:07.460 So you said you used to be a feminist.

00:56:09.480 I used to be more, like, liberal, and I guess we'd consider, like, an angry feminist type.

00:56:17.900 But I've kind of found myself, as I age and grow and meet more people and open my mind

00:56:24.180 to certain things, and I think moving has changed a lot of my opinions, because I used

00:56:28.440 to live in Chicago, and I moved back to L.A., and just, I think, a lot of my beliefs

00:56:34.520 have kind of changed over the years.

00:56:36.380 So I wouldn't consider myself not a feminist, but I would say I used to be leaning even more

00:56:42.800 towards the left, and now I've kind of come to a good middle ground.

00:56:47.420 When did that switch up, start, or take place?

00:56:50.840 Probably, like, two and a half, three years ago.

00:56:55.040 Okay.

00:56:55.880 Two and a half, three years ago.

00:56:58.220 Yeah.

00:56:58.960 What about you?

00:57:01.560 Me?

00:57:02.180 Yeah.

00:57:02.720 No.

00:57:03.320 I mean, yeah, no.

00:57:04.920 I think, I like the feminist movement, but I think the new wave feminism is, like, I agree,

00:57:13.460 it's taken it way too far.

00:57:15.400 I think that people who are still protesting for, like, there's no rights for women here.

00:57:20.380 I don't think that there's an opportunity that women can't have here.

00:57:23.820 Like, I think in America, everyone can, like, do what they want, whether it's that.

00:57:31.020 Like, if you're protesting for other countries where women don't have rights, I agree with

00:57:36.560 that.

00:57:36.820 But here, I think that I have as much rights as you do, you know?

00:57:40.880 I, I, there's not one thing that you can do that I can't.

00:57:44.940 So, I don't agree with that.

00:57:46.620 I think, yeah, I think, like, if you're protesting saying, you have more opportunities as a male,

00:57:52.900 I would disagree with that.

00:57:54.700 Okay.

00:57:55.700 Are you a feminist?

00:57:56.360 As far as feminism goes, I'm not really a feminist, say per se, but women independence

00:58:06.780 is very important to me.

00:58:08.700 I know that I have been independent all of my life, and I really try to make sure that

00:58:14.620 everyone around me is very independent as far as the women.

00:58:19.260 So, I think that as far as feminism, I care about women being independent, but I don't really,

00:58:26.360 put it together with feminism.

00:58:29.680 I think feminism is bigger than just women being independent.

00:58:36.180 I wouldn't label myself a feminist, because I don't really know what that comes with, because

00:58:40.720 like, I'm not for, like, modern day stuff.

00:58:43.820 Like, I, I do think that women biologically have these traits, and men have these traits,

00:58:48.180 but, like, I, I like women.

00:58:50.740 Like, I love girls more than men sometimes.

00:58:54.960 They make me feel safe.

00:58:56.360 I wouldn't say I'm a feminist.

00:58:59.000 I do empower women to be independent and seek opportunity and everything, but I think

00:59:03.500 it's already equal at this point, especially in these states.

00:59:05.860 I agree, and I recognize that in other places, obviously, there's not nearly as much equality,

00:59:10.940 but not a new wave or anything feminist, by any means.

00:59:14.940 So, I guess going back to you, you seemed like, and especially, I'll get into the notes here

00:59:21.400 in a bit.

00:59:22.540 You said pretty strongly that you think men should pay.

00:59:26.360 You also consider yourself a feminist.

00:59:28.580 You said men and women should have the same opportunities.

00:59:31.300 Women should be equal to men.

00:59:33.080 I guess, how do you reconcile all that with...

00:59:36.080 Men should pay on the first date.

00:59:37.640 Men should pay for first dates, yes.

00:59:39.120 I said I've become more old-fashioned.

00:59:41.680 I would ask to split.

00:59:43.420 However, I feel like I kind of relate to the clip that I saw, where I think that, yeah,

00:59:53.180 because I do identify as bi or queer, so it's like, I'm open to dating women, but I think

01:00:01.160 that a good thing about dating a man is, like, they're going to, like, be able to maybe provide

01:00:05.720 more, at least in my experience.

01:00:07.300 I know some women are the providers in their relationships, but that's just not the kind

01:00:11.020 of relationship that I'm looking for, but like some of the other ladies here at the table

01:00:15.480 said, I am willing and offering to pay, but I think that if a guy asks a girl out, then

01:00:22.360 he should be the one to pay.

01:00:27.600 Okay.

01:00:28.080 Well, so that kind of goes into the whole, like, well, whoever asks should pay thing,

01:00:34.700 right?

01:00:36.540 If a girl is asking a guy out, I think that's already an issue.

01:00:41.820 Why is that an issue?

01:00:43.820 I just don't think that most...

01:00:47.140 I think that that's where it kind of gets, like, harder into, like, being, like, a certain

01:00:53.840 side feminist, I guess, where, like, you want to chase men, but I think that men naturally

01:00:59.720 want to be the pursuers, and they want to chase.

01:01:01.960 I mean, this is just, like, majority.

01:01:04.620 I don't think...

01:01:05.520 I think there's, like...

01:01:06.260 Majority of what?

01:01:07.240 Majority of our American society.

01:01:10.100 Hmm.

01:01:12.100 Well, I don't know if it's actually the case that a majority of men want to be pursuers,

01:01:18.340 insofar as a majority of men are never pursued, so they would actually have no perspective

01:01:25.560 as to what it's...

01:01:26.780 I think some have been.

01:01:28.580 Well, that's not what I said, though.

01:01:30.420 It's like majority haven't.

01:01:31.560 So what percentage of men do you think have been pursued by women?

01:01:34.960 I mean, I guess if we're talking about, like, the levels of attractiveness, then probably,

01:01:41.820 like, the top, like, 10, 9, 8, 7s would be getting pursued by women who are, like, a lower

01:01:51.160 point system.

01:01:52.800 So, like, the 4s, the 3s, the 2s, if that's, like, a thing we want to base dating off of,

01:01:57.840 which I think a lot of men do.

01:01:59.300 Mm-hmm.

01:01:59.580 Yeah, I mean, I don't know the exact numbers.

01:02:04.980 There is some data that's related to the dating apps, but...

01:02:08.900 I know it's not great for men on dating apps, majority of men.

01:02:13.440 Well, it's definitely worse on dating apps, but I would say the sort of experience that

01:02:17.860 men have on dating apps is probably fairly similar to the experience they would otherwise

01:02:22.780 have in the, I guess, quote-unquote, normal dating world, so outside of dating apps.

01:02:27.920 And so, guys who never get messages on dating apps never get approached in person.

01:02:33.860 You're actually probably more likely to get initiated on by a woman on a dating app than

01:02:39.620 you are in person.

01:02:41.320 In person?

01:02:41.720 Most men never have the experience of ever being hit on, ever being approached.

01:02:45.580 And so, I don't actually believe, I think the majority of men, I think it's really only

01:02:54.800 the top percent of men would be able to say firmly, I prefer to do the initiating.

01:03:05.060 Probably one because they tend to have a good success rate, but I would wager most men, most

01:03:12.140 men would actually welcome women initiating because they struggle...

01:03:18.060 I think some would.

01:03:19.280 I don't think it's some.

01:03:20.320 I think the majority of men...

01:03:21.300 You think the majority would?

01:03:21.800 I do think the majority of men.

01:03:23.680 But that's because most men are invisible to most women.

01:03:27.700 So, for them to get positive attention, even if they're not the initiator, I'm fairly confident

01:03:33.660 that they would welcome a woman initiating like that.

01:03:36.980 It doesn't mean that the woman has to do so in a masculine way or be too forward, but

01:03:41.900 even sort of a more...

01:03:43.640 Just giving them like a hint of interest?

01:03:45.900 Like a feminine sort of...

01:03:47.420 I don't think initiation necessarily has to be this dominant masculine thing.

01:03:51.700 A woman can initiate in a very sort of gentle, feminine way that I don't think would be

01:03:56.040 off-putting to the vast majority of men, even men who have a lot of options, who might

01:04:02.680 prefer this chase, really.

01:04:08.700 But honestly, I'm not even...

01:04:12.180 I'm not convinced that guys actually like this so-called chase.

01:04:17.320 I'm not convinced.

01:04:18.340 I think they do.

01:04:18.900 I think they do.

01:04:19.980 I'm not convinced that that's even a thing.

01:04:23.200 I think it's just some trope that we've been told that men like to chase and they want

01:04:27.960 someone who plays hard to get.

01:04:29.060 They don't want someone who's running away from them.

01:04:33.520 Disregard.

01:04:34.040 Go ahead.

01:04:34.540 I don't think they want someone who's actively running away from them chase, but I think they

01:04:38.680 want a little like back and forth.

01:04:40.520 Like, I don't...

01:04:41.620 I don't...

01:04:41.980 I think they want to know that you have options and that they should put some effort towards

01:04:49.780 being, I guess, your best option.

01:04:53.860 Okay.

01:04:54.400 I think people like to...

01:04:55.560 I think that people like to act like they don't like the chase, but like, it's a psychological

01:05:00.420 thing.

01:05:01.540 Like, where you're...

01:05:02.920 You want something you can't have.

01:05:04.640 Like, there's always someone above you like, oh, they have a Rolex.

01:05:07.500 It's the same thing.

01:05:08.300 Like, you're chasing something that you can't have.

01:05:11.940 That's where it's at.

01:05:12.900 It's not like you're like looking like, oh, I want this person to hate me.

01:05:16.640 It's like you are chasing something that, you know, you can't have.

01:05:22.960 Like, you want them.

01:05:24.040 They don't want you back.

01:05:26.880 Or you're like trying to win over their affection, like courting.

01:05:29.600 Have you heard of that?

01:05:30.940 I'm familiar with that.

01:05:32.000 Yeah, familiar?

01:05:32.520 Yeah.

01:05:32.940 That's a thing.

01:05:34.560 But I guess I'm still confused about the whole...

01:05:37.900 So you want the same opportunities for women.

01:05:40.780 You want women to be equal to men.

01:05:43.080 And I'm assuming that even, that's not even just legally.

01:05:46.980 You also want women to be viewed equally socially, correct?

01:05:51.180 I don't see that really happening.

01:05:53.940 What do you mean?

01:05:54.200 Because like women and men in society usually play different roles in society.

01:05:59.420 So it's just, I don't think that they'll be seen socially the same, but opportunity wise,

01:06:06.660 yeah, I would like for women to have the same opportunities legally, for sure.

01:06:10.780 Like, you say you don't think women will be equal socially?

01:06:19.000 No, I just think they play different roles in our society.

01:06:22.100 But like, I think they still can have the same opportunities.

01:06:25.700 I just don't think as a society they're going to see them as the same.

01:06:29.320 So let me ask you a question.

01:06:32.480 Do you think that it's a woman's job to be a stay-at-home wife and get pregnant and raise children?

01:06:44.940 I think that's a job.

01:06:47.160 Do you think it's a woman's job?

01:06:49.240 I think physically they're the ones that typically do the childbearing and caring for.

01:06:55.540 Well, they're the only ones that can get pregnant.

01:06:57.100 I mean, you could have like gay men who raise a child together.

01:07:00.280 But typically speaking here in a heterosexual all terms, then yeah, I think that I would prefer for women to stay at home with their children and take care of them.

01:07:11.220 Instead of sending them off to a daycare.

01:07:13.900 Or I've been a nanny before, so I kind of know that side of things.

01:07:18.140 But I mean, do you object to the statement that that's a woman's job to do that?

01:07:23.320 No.

01:07:23.680 I mean, I think women should have the opportunity to have other jobs.

01:07:26.860 But I think that if a woman wants to stay at home and raise their children, they should have equal opportunity to do that along with pursuing whatever other sort of actual business endeavors.

01:07:38.960 Like working at a company or starting their own company.

01:07:41.340 Things like that.

01:07:41.940 They can work.

01:07:43.500 Okay.

01:07:44.420 And so...

01:07:47.320 Okay.

01:07:51.620 Yeah, everyone can do it all.

01:07:53.680 Well, I guess the angle I'm coming from here is there seems to be a push from feminists to say, like, that isn't really a woman's job.

01:08:08.960 I don't know who else would be doing it if it wasn't a woman's job.

01:08:12.840 Do you know what I'm saying?

01:08:13.600 Like, if there's a section of women who that's what they want to do for their job and their work, and that is labor, it's just a different form than the...

01:08:23.680 American corporate attempt at labor.

01:08:27.000 So I, like, I view it as equal.

01:08:29.160 If a woman...

01:08:29.760 I think it's crazy that a woman could give birth to a baby and then also go, like, work a nine-to-five.

01:08:37.240 Like, doing that at the same time, I don't think is ideal.

01:08:41.300 It's extremely exhausting.

01:08:42.740 Do you think that there should be a societal pressure to push women away from more traditional gender roles on the woman's part?

01:08:53.780 I think we need both types of women.

01:08:58.300 Like, women who want to raise children and be homesteaders and do all of the things for the childbearing and, like, raising a family.

01:09:09.020 Because we do need, like, family to be important in society.

01:09:14.640 But also, I know that being a sort of trad wife comes along with a lot of responsibilities and a lot of different things that a lot of women don't want to do.

01:09:29.700 And would rather pursue a corporate type of career or just a career for themselves.

01:09:33.660 Okay.

01:09:37.960 Because I think in society, at least from feminists, there does seem to be a bit of demonization when it comes to women's traditional roles.

01:09:46.940 So, for example, there's a really big push in society to say, hey, women, go pursue your career.

01:09:55.980 Like the 4B movement?

01:09:57.920 I'm not sure what that is.

01:09:59.060 But they're saying...

01:09:59.900 Hold on.

01:10:00.200 They're saying there's a bigger push in society, especially from feminists, of disregard, not disregard relationship, but, like, disregard traditional gender roles.

01:10:12.460 Pursue your career.

01:10:13.540 Pursue your career.

01:10:14.440 Pursue your career.

01:10:15.600 Over trying to get married and have children.

01:10:19.740 I don't think there's a total...

01:10:23.620 I mean, there's hardcore feminists that's, like, totally reject family and children.

01:10:27.720 But I definitely think there's a bigger push for women to prioritize career over family.

01:10:35.280 I wouldn't object to it as much if it sort of said either path is okay.

01:10:41.560 Okay, you're a woman.

01:10:42.260 You want to pursue your career.

01:10:43.340 Great.

01:10:43.620 You're a woman.

01:10:43.940 And you want to just stay home, let the man be the breadwinner, whatever, raise kids.

01:10:48.120 And that's the extent of your ambitions, which I think are fantastic ambitions.

01:10:54.440 If both of them were elevated to the same degree, I think that would be okay.

01:10:58.500 But, like I said, there's a push to elevate the go be a boss babe, pursue your career, get married in your late 20s, 30s, then have kids.

01:11:06.660 So, I guess my confusion here is essentially we're doing this push to say, well, either one is okay.

01:11:17.060 But it's okay for a woman to do all that, be sort of more progressive when it comes to her career ambitions.

01:11:25.060 But men should still pay for first dates.

01:11:28.580 Men should still hold to their traditional gender roles.

01:11:31.420 I don't know.

01:11:35.740 That's just how I feel about it.

01:11:37.300 I think that men should be providers.

01:11:43.400 Hold on.

01:11:44.700 What was the bullshit?

01:11:47.480 Some blood drawn or something.

01:11:49.600 What?

01:11:50.100 She got her blood drawn, apparently.

01:11:53.580 She got her blood drawn?

01:11:55.360 I don't know.

01:11:55.980 I think she's just anxious and she just wasn't going to come back.

01:11:58.800 I should have told her, too, that we should have gotten through her notes.

01:12:03.720 Let me see if there's anything even interesting in there.

01:12:05.880 Maddie, go ahead.

01:12:06.520 Take the seat.

01:12:14.720 So, yeah, guys, I don't know if that was a rage quit or was she crying?

01:12:19.460 I wasn't crying.

01:12:20.340 No.

01:12:20.960 Austin?

01:12:21.560 No, she was.

01:12:22.440 She had like a full panic attack.

01:12:23.900 12 hours of crying, but she's keeping it to herself, masculine, you know.

01:12:29.920 No, she wasn't keeping it to herself.

01:12:31.940 No, she's about to cry for the 12 hours, too.

01:12:34.900 She's checking into work right now.

01:12:37.960 12 hours of crying.

01:12:40.640 Oh, yeah.

01:12:41.060 I don't know.

01:12:44.500 Austin, what was the read?

01:12:46.740 Well, so she said she got her blood drawn today for the first time ever, and then she

01:12:51.600 said this whole experience just kind of freaked her out.

01:12:53.580 She realized this wasn't really for her.

01:12:56.060 That's what she said.

01:12:57.720 Bro, this has been a very lukewarm.

01:13:00.880 Yeah, no, this is my show.

01:13:03.280 She can't hang with the Daily Wire crew, I'll tell you that.

01:13:06.080 This is so cold.

01:13:06.700 This has been the most milquetoast fucking show so far.

01:13:10.400 I've been like kids' gloves today.

01:13:12.700 No, God.

01:13:13.520 Was it the, like, crying, and I asked if the guy was gay?

01:13:18.880 Was that probably it?

01:13:20.320 No.

01:13:20.980 She's a feminist is why.

01:13:22.700 Oh, my God.

01:13:23.200 What a fucking coward.

01:13:24.320 Okay.

01:13:26.880 All right.

01:13:28.980 She was, I'm pretty, Austin, be honest, she was, like, fucking crying back there, right?

01:13:32.680 She was shaking pretty heavily.

01:13:34.720 Literally shaking.

01:13:35.720 Let me add that to the title.

01:13:36.940 Literally, literally shaking.

01:13:39.660 Add that to the title.

01:13:41.240 Literally shaking.

01:13:43.040 Trigger.

01:13:44.240 Literally shaking.

01:13:47.660 Okay.

01:13:48.740 It's ridiculous, bro.

01:13:56.480 What were her notes?

01:13:58.140 Women are getting sick of situationships, she says, and may stop dating altogether.

01:14:05.260 Oh, and also fun dating things I've been in the back.

01:14:07.520 Crook.

01:14:07.980 Okay, what else?

01:14:11.000 Can I say something off of that?

01:14:12.820 Sure.

01:14:13.040 I think with the situationships, like I was saying before, when a woman is pursuing, I

01:14:19.360 think that's when the situationship happens, because the guy is like, this happened too

01:14:24.880 easily.

01:14:25.460 Honestly, I'm not going to commit now, I'm not going to commit now, because what if another baddie comes in, and I'm not available anymore.

01:14:33.980 Honestly, though, in the history of forever, I don't think a woman withholding sex on its own was ever enough to get commitment from a guy.

01:14:48.440 Wait, wait, hold on.

01:14:49.760 Wait, hold on.

01:14:50.560 Wait, hold on.

01:14:50.800 Let me actually think that through a little more.

01:14:53.440 The framing there isn't good, because historically, yes.

01:14:56.140 When women collectively, when the status quo was, we don't have sex until marriage, and that was the societal expectation, then women were able to leverage commitment in exchange for sex.

01:15:16.200 That's out the window now.

01:15:46.180 Long term to begin with, with you, you making him wait for sex, I don't think is going to be what it takes.

01:15:53.320 I don't think so, either.

01:15:55.040 Yeah.

01:15:55.500 I agree with that.

01:15:56.680 Yeah, I don't think so, either.

01:15:57.980 I think that it's not withholding sex.

01:16:01.520 I think it's withholding the label of the relationship and not doing the pursuing, because that's at least what I've noticed when women come on too strong.

01:16:10.920 It kind of makes men take a step back a bit, whereas if you're letting the man pursue you and kind of letting him be like a man, then I think it works out better.

01:16:25.780 Yeah.

01:16:30.260 Sorry, one sec.

01:16:31.320 I'm dealing with some bullshit behind the scenes here.

01:16:33.840 Where were we?

01:16:34.340 We were going around the table on something, right?

01:16:38.660 Situationships?

01:16:39.060 The feminist thing.

01:16:40.920 We stopped at me, and then we didn't say it for us.

01:16:43.420 Oh, I mean, they're not.

01:16:45.260 Long gone.

01:16:46.220 Don't do that like that.

01:16:47.440 All right, go ahead, Morgan.

01:16:48.580 Go ahead.

01:16:49.840 Not today.

01:16:50.780 Like, what it is right now, no.

01:16:55.920 Yeah.

01:16:56.260 Am I a feminist?

01:16:57.440 No, I'm not a feminist.

01:16:59.880 Okay.

01:17:01.140 I feel like you guys were going around with something else.

01:17:04.260 I just can't think of it.

01:17:05.220 Yeah, no, same.

01:17:07.200 Was it the video?

01:17:08.820 Mm-mm, we already did that, I think.

01:17:12.980 Let's see.

01:17:15.600 Oh, man.

01:17:16.800 It's too bad she didn't stay for Andrew.

01:17:18.880 That would have been, I don't know.

01:17:20.420 For which?

01:17:21.180 I don't think she could have handled Andrew.

01:17:23.720 Can't hang.

01:17:24.720 No.

01:17:25.360 Somebody pointed out that she was laughing right before she left.

01:17:28.420 Or right before you said, like, state your own opinion.

01:17:31.420 Oh, yeah?

01:17:31.700 Like, she laughed, then you said, state your own opinion,

01:17:33.600 and then that's when she got up.

01:17:35.000 State your own opinion?

01:17:36.080 Because she was like, oh, I remember.

01:17:37.140 Oh, I remember.

01:17:39.080 She second my motion, and then you were like, oh, no, no,

01:17:43.400 you better have your own opinion.

01:17:44.900 Well, no, he just said something like, we're going to need it.

01:17:47.140 But wait, that, that was the breaking point.

01:17:51.300 That was the last time I saw her.

01:17:52.300 That was the breaking point when I was like.

01:17:54.100 She can't state her own opinion.

01:17:55.400 And when I was just like, oh, hey, just make sure you.

01:17:57.860 I think she just took it the wrong way.

01:17:59.920 She's probably been told she's a yes man.

01:18:01.600 Wait, what, Nick?

01:18:05.040 No, I'm just going to take Mia's 100% correct.

01:18:08.940 She can't say her own opinion.

01:18:10.580 Her level of snowflakeness was me just saying,

01:18:17.300 instead of, like, just saying, oh, whatever she said,

01:18:20.720 was just put it in your own.

01:18:22.940 That was.

01:18:24.400 That was a lot of brain power.

01:18:25.360 She's real for that, you know?

01:18:29.980 It probably creates tension.

01:18:31.160 This is why the wage gap exists, by the way.

01:18:33.040 I'm just kidding.

01:18:34.180 That's anti-feminism, her leaving.

01:18:36.520 She's not strong enough to be on the podcast.

01:18:38.540 I think that was the staple.

01:18:39.340 No, that's why she was like, I'm 100% not a feminist.

01:18:41.160 That's why.

01:18:41.420 I need to walk out now because I'm a woman.

01:18:43.200 She's not a feminist because she can't, like, handle the work.

01:18:45.640 Wait, did we even get to the feminist question?

01:18:46.960 I don't think so.

01:18:48.280 Oh, we did.

01:18:48.960 That's what she second my motion.

01:18:50.500 Because I said I'm not a feminist.

01:18:53.580 No, no, no, no.

01:18:55.220 No, it was.

01:18:55.860 As a strong woman, she decided to leave.

01:18:58.100 That was after.

01:18:59.020 It was a who pays.

01:18:59.920 It was a who pays.

01:19:01.280 She left.

01:19:01.900 Then we went around with the feminist thing.

01:19:03.580 You asked, and then she got up right after you asked, I think.

01:19:06.180 Oh, shit.

01:19:06.820 Oh, did she?

01:19:07.380 Wait, chat.

01:19:07.900 Did she answer to the feminist question?

01:19:09.660 She did.

01:19:10.500 I was right here.

01:19:11.400 Okay, I believe you.

01:19:12.560 Sorry, my bad.

01:19:14.940 She second my motion.

01:19:17.700 That's the funniest part.

01:19:20.500 It was nothing.

01:19:21.500 You couldn't just say, yes, I think.

01:19:25.020 Hashtag can't handle.

01:19:25.800 Literally shaking.

01:19:28.280 Literally shaking.

01:19:30.740 Anyways, we'll move on.

01:19:32.440 Let's do some more reacts, guys.

01:19:34.140 Let's do some more reacts.

01:19:36.420 Can you pull up the next thing, Nick?

01:19:46.100 Yes.

01:19:49.020 She didn't even offer.

01:19:50.500 You said, please split the bill with me.

01:19:52.900 No, no.

01:19:53.200 I asked, I said, do you want to split the bill?

01:19:55.980 And she said, okay.

01:19:57.220 Like, she said, okay.

01:19:58.780 She just agreed to be nice.

01:20:00.360 Yeah.

01:20:00.540 You should always treat the girl if you're a guy and pay for the full date.

01:20:05.660 What were you thinking?

01:20:06.400 Absolutely.

01:20:07.280 I don't see what the big deal is here.

01:20:09.660 She works a great job.

01:20:11.320 She has money.

01:20:12.480 It doesn't matter if her dad's a billionaire.

01:20:14.680 It's a matter of principle.

01:20:15.420 She's the prince of Italy.

01:20:18.200 You pay the whole bill if it's a girl.

01:20:20.800 Well, I didn't.

01:20:22.420 And you did a great job, too.

01:20:24.000 So what are you talking about?

01:20:24.640 She's going to be like, he made me drive all the way to the restaurant and he made me split

01:20:27.980 the bill.

01:20:28.460 No.

01:20:28.620 And then her friends are going to be like, oh, I think he's cute.

01:20:32.260 Should I go out with him?

01:20:33.060 And she'll be like, oh, no, he's a bill splitter.

01:20:35.680 Yeah.

01:20:36.000 Have fun.

01:20:36.820 Do you want to be known as a bill splitter?

01:20:38.640 I wouldn't let my daughter date a bill splitter.

01:20:41.680 I wouldn't let my daughter date a bill splitter either.

01:20:45.420 All right.

01:20:47.100 Kind of related to the previous one.

01:20:49.960 Honestly, I think what makes the most sense.

01:20:54.580 Hold on.

01:20:55.000 I got to do disclaimer first.

01:20:56.720 Okay, as a guy, if you want the most success, you should pay for the bill.

01:21:01.040 But what I think is fair, what I think is fair and what should be during the current

01:21:10.120 dating climate, I think y'all should pay for your food.

01:21:13.760 The guy pays for his.

01:21:16.540 You pay for your drinks.

01:21:17.740 He pays for his.

01:21:19.500 Now, little asterisk here for the men.

01:21:22.920 You should pay if you want the most success when it comes to your dating.

01:21:26.720 Uh, but if we're talking about, like, what ought to be, yeah, you guys should pay for

01:21:33.400 your own shit.

01:21:36.460 That's it.

01:21:37.600 Then there's just no success in anything.

01:21:40.520 You just want.

01:21:40.920 You can still succeed.

01:21:41.880 You just want no one to succeed in your relationship.

01:21:43.180 If the girl likes you, honestly, if the girl likes you enough, she'll be cool with it.

01:21:47.080 It's a test.

01:21:47.960 I offer.

01:21:48.740 I'm like, do you want me to pay half?

01:21:50.220 And if they say yes, then I'm like, oh, screw this guy.

01:21:52.340 Honestly, though.

01:21:52.820 Wait, actually, honestly.

01:21:54.340 It's the test is why girls ask.

01:21:56.400 Honestly, though, here's the thing.

01:21:58.760 If the girl really likes you, which is what you want as a guy, she won't care.

01:22:04.860 Mm-mm.

01:22:05.720 It's the first date.

01:22:07.820 I don't think she'll care.

01:22:09.220 Even if she does really like you, she's going to take it as, like, oh, he doesn't really

01:22:13.060 like me, so I should just stop right there.

01:22:15.000 Yeah, but she'll know that you really like her when you're like, let's meet up again,

01:22:19.640 and you're also having sex.

01:22:21.080 When I'm on industry, I'm like, you pay.

01:22:22.780 Is she still going to be questioning?

01:22:26.340 Does he like me while he's, like, having sex?

01:22:29.140 Apparently not enough to pay for her part.

01:22:31.380 I would say it's, like, a half-off date.

01:22:33.900 Like, he obviously is going to want to go out with me again because it's, like, half-off.

01:22:37.200 It's discounted.

01:22:38.040 Yeah, nah.

01:22:38.580 I'm a discounted date.

01:22:39.660 Yeah, wouldn't the guy want to go on a date more because he gets to save money?

01:22:43.260 So then I wouldn't.

01:22:44.480 Doesn't the girl win?

01:22:45.920 Like, he likes you more.

01:22:46.980 I think he values you less than.

01:22:50.160 Meh.

01:22:50.840 Not really.

01:22:51.320 Oh, my goodness.

01:22:52.440 I think so.

01:22:53.960 I think the guy should.

01:22:55.440 Sorry, what do you think?

01:22:56.180 Well, the last guy I did that was crying a lot and not masculine, I never had to even offer.

01:23:06.400 He just would do it, and I really liked that.

01:23:09.340 And then it made me come into my feminine, and I was, like, I was never the type to be, like, I want to cook for a guy.

01:23:14.220 And I never got to the point of it, but I was, like, I would love to make him breakfast because he buys me food.

01:23:19.220 And it just comes to a place where he goes in his masculine, you go in your feminine, and you just want to take care of each other.

01:23:26.180 And that's how I think it's healthy.

01:23:29.380 Okay.

01:23:30.040 I saw this in the chat.

01:23:31.560 Normally, I don't read much of the normal chat.

01:23:34.960 Lauren S. says, fail Brian.

01:23:37.500 He makes a relationship a business.

01:23:39.960 It's sad.

01:23:40.340 Well, hold on.

01:23:41.560 Is it men that make relationship a business, or is it women?

01:23:47.240 Because y'all are the ones.

01:23:50.280 If you object to the statement, oh, we should just pay for our own thing, is it the man who has the standard, or is it the woman who has the standard and the expectation that men should pay?

01:24:02.720 I have a good thing that goes with this.

01:24:04.380 My friend's friend, super successful, like millionaires, my age, like 20, he has a friend, he has autism.

01:24:11.580 So he calculates how much he spends on a girl, and if he spends more than a prostitute cause, he'll break up with her, which is crazy.

01:24:20.120 What?

01:24:21.120 That, okay, that's interesting.

01:24:22.560 Which I'm saying, like, he makes it a business.

01:24:25.680 Yeah.

01:24:26.360 But you know what, though?

01:24:28.040 I'm actually prepared to, I mean, Lauren's not here, so I can't argue with her.

01:24:31.460 Send us a DM, we'll get you on the panel.

01:24:32.760 If you can be here within 30 minutes, we'll put you on the panel, because the fucking snowflake left.

01:24:39.920 So, I can just, I'm pretty, I'll just make the argument that women view it as a business.

01:24:48.720 Because women initiate divorces, women are more likely to seek child support, whereas men, we had a woman on the panel on Sunday, where she was out earning the guy for a period of time, and the guy could have gone after child support, but the guy just didn't.

01:25:07.200 So, even in instances, for example, where there could be a child support dispute, and the guy could actually receive child support from the woman, men are far less likely to seek child support when it's, like, split custody, shared custody.

01:25:22.940 And then, secondly, when it comes to divorce, also same with divorce, men are much more likely, whoever is initiating the divorce, if the woman's the breadwinner, men are much less likely to be as aggressive when it comes to getting equitable distribution of what's been made during the relationship, anything, any alimony.

01:25:46.040 Men are much more likely to forego seeking alimony and distribution.

01:25:50.620 They might just kind of go, like, okay, let's just get divorced.

01:25:53.180 Some men do, of course, but men are less likely to do it, and in any case, women are 80%, women initiate 80% divorces, and they are far more likely to go after a man financially in the event of a divorce than the reverse.

01:26:08.020 So, Lauren, I say to you, who is it really who sees relationships as business, men or women?

01:26:16.340 The chat can be free to answer.

01:26:19.580 Let's see what else we have.

01:26:21.780 Be gone, Lauren.

01:26:22.960 Just kidding.

01:26:24.220 You can come on the show, and we can debate it if you want.

01:26:27.360 Let's see what we have to get into here.

01:26:29.200 Let's do one more react, and then I'll get into some of the pre-show notes.

01:26:38.300 Oh, this might be related to what we were talking about.

01:26:41.540 I think I destroyed our relationship trying to compliment my boyfriend.

01:26:45.160 My boyfriend and I are both 28 years old and together for 2.5 years.

01:26:49.920 Yesterday night, we were drinking, and one thing led to another.

01:26:52.820 Here, Maddie, can you read it?

01:26:53.720 And I tried to compliment him by saying he is not someone who I would hook up or be a friend with benefits with, but marry.

01:27:00.420 I thought everything was fine, but he seemed extremely distraught after that.

01:27:04.500 I realized how he understood it and tried to clarify it, but he is still the same this morning.

01:27:09.100 He told me he needs space to think for a while and left the house.

01:27:11.880 All my friends tell me I messed it up, and guys tell me it's not a compliment, and most men will understand it differently.

01:27:17.660 I think I destroyed our relationship, and I am panicking right now.

01:27:20.880 Okay, keep it up for just a sec.

01:27:25.580 Both 28, 2.5 years.

01:27:30.000 Oh, wait, hold on.

01:27:31.100 We already did this one.

01:27:32.520 Oh, my bad.

01:27:36.440 Well, I guess we'll just get the reaction then.

01:27:39.100 I meant to do a different one, my bad, but we'll react to it.

01:27:42.380 So your reaction to that?

01:27:43.600 Okay, so they've been together two and a half years, and she said she wouldn't be a hook-up or friends with benefits, but she would marry.

01:27:52.520 I have felt that way about a guy in the past, and I feel like he would also be kind of hurt by it, because I feel like for someone to say that, that means that maybe they're not that, I guess, sexually attracted to them or find them attractive enough to do a friends with benefits or one-night stand.

01:28:09.780 But I would take it, if I were the guy, as a compliment, because it's like marriage is usually what the long-term goal is for dating, relationships.

01:28:22.460 Not always, but I would take it as a compliment if I were the guy.

01:28:28.180 Were you, you might have been going?

01:28:32.140 Skidding you.

01:28:32.800 Okay.

01:28:35.100 Honestly, I think that she didn't have a wrong point, because at the end of the day, there's certain types of things you want from people, and she let him know that she wanted the most from him.

01:28:48.480 So I really don't think it was a problem.

01:28:53.140 I think she just worded it very wrongly.

01:28:55.600 I think what she was trying to deliver, she kind of, yeah, it was just worded wrong.

01:29:03.180 I mean, I like Christian guys that want to get married, so if you didn't like that, I'd be like, red flag.

01:29:11.380 I feel like she worded it wrong, too, but at the same time, I think it depends on the person.

01:29:16.260 So if I know, like, if I was in his shoes, and I knew that my girlfriend of two and a half years was that type of chick beforehand, to be like constant F buddies, all these things, and so if she said that to me, and I knew that from beforehand, I wouldn't take it offensively.

01:29:30.540 I'd say, okay, she actually wanted to convince me I'm attractive.

01:29:33.700 It doesn't lean onto that attraction issue.

01:29:35.260 But if she's somebody who's, like, any other side.

01:29:39.120 Blazing Dunn is donated $200.

01:29:41.960 Yeah, thank you.

01:29:42.300 29-year-male.

01:29:43.880 I work 40-plus hours.

01:29:45.940 Cook, clean, grocery shop, and maintain house W slash half-acre yard weekend.

01:29:51.440 I clean and maintain my grandma house W slash three-plus-acre property.

01:29:56.460 I want low-body count submissive woman.

01:29:58.660 Okay, I worked 40 hours.

01:30:07.080 Are you, like, asking if any of the girls would date you?

01:30:10.120 It's a personal ad.

01:30:11.620 That's a statement.

01:30:13.060 It's a personal ad.

01:30:13.920 I think a submissive woman would cook and clean, though.

01:30:18.200 Wouldn't that...

01:30:19.160 Wouldn't, like, a submissive...

01:30:22.280 Wouldn't a submissive girl, like, wouldn't that include, you know, cooking and cleaning?

01:30:28.660 I suppose, yeah.

01:30:30.740 I feel like that goes along with it.

01:30:32.540 Like, what is submissive, like, during sex?

01:30:35.260 Mm-hmm.

01:30:37.420 She's asking, sir.

01:30:38.440 She's, like, obedient to whatever he says and decides.

01:30:41.680 I see.

01:30:44.060 Pull up the thing one more time.

01:30:45.700 I just wanted to take a look at it.

01:30:46.900 Yeah.

01:30:54.700 Yeah, so...

01:30:56.900 We were drinking...

01:30:58.900 Not someone I would hook up with.

01:31:01.500 I think, essentially, like, the male perspective here is, like, this is the second, third, fourth,

01:31:10.340 fifth pick for her.

01:31:12.240 Like, you're not attractive enough that I...

01:31:14.780 Because she's basically admitting, I have fucked guys really quickly.

01:31:18.320 I have had friends with benefits.

01:31:19.860 I have hooked up super quick.

01:31:22.380 I wouldn't have done it with you because you're not attractive enough.

01:31:28.060 You're the safe bet.

01:31:29.660 You're the relationship safe option.

01:31:33.120 After I've had my fun in my college days, in my early 20s, fucked a bunch of dudes, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

01:31:39.720 Now, we're in a cozy, comfortable relationship.

01:31:45.220 And I still fantasize about those, like, really exciting, hot sexual experiences I had with men in my youth.

01:31:53.000 But you're here to be a good provider.

01:31:56.960 You're here to be safe.

01:31:59.460 That's what you are.

01:32:00.540 I've done that with a girl before.

01:32:02.400 Okay.

01:32:03.360 I've done that.

01:32:04.160 I'm, like...

01:32:05.140 But I didn't say that because I feel like that's disrespectful and also manipulative in the sense of, like, oh, one day, one day, one day, let's just keep fucking.

01:32:13.760 I've been, like, in my head, I've been, like, okay, I like you, but I want you to mature a little bit.

01:32:19.740 Like, I want you to mature, but I could see myself being with somebody like you.

01:32:23.240 You believe in this.

01:32:24.520 You have the same morals.

01:32:25.880 You respect my humor.

01:32:27.300 That's, like, not all...

01:32:29.240 Because a lot of girls that date girls are also, like, super PC and feminist and all that, which I'm not.

01:32:36.580 So I'm, like, you get my humor.

01:32:38.480 But I don't want to date you now.

01:32:39.840 You're not mature enough.

01:32:41.660 Okay.

01:32:42.060 So I see that.

01:32:43.480 I agree, but I don't think that's what she was trying to say.

01:32:46.460 Like, I don't think she was trying to say I'm not attracted to you and I don't want to have sex with you.

01:32:51.420 Should I DM that girl?

01:32:53.320 So why did you actually leave?

01:32:56.940 I kind of hear it.

01:32:57.860 You just follow up with her and make sure she's, like, okay.

01:33:00.740 She's fine.

01:33:02.100 I get what she means to me.

01:33:03.220 I feel kind of weird right now, too.

01:33:04.880 But I had caffeine.

01:33:07.000 So maybe.

01:33:07.800 The lights.

01:33:08.560 I don't know.

01:33:08.980 Maybe it's the lights.

01:33:09.320 What lights?

01:33:11.000 There's no light.

01:33:11.720 I think it's just the heat.

01:33:13.540 But I don't know.

01:33:14.380 The natural sunlight.

01:33:17.780 Can't handle the natural sunlight.

01:33:19.440 She's going back to the dark room of her bedroom.

01:33:22.780 Her cage.

01:33:23.340 Bed rot.

01:33:23.840 What drama.

01:33:28.340 What do you mean?

01:33:29.320 From the last show.

01:33:30.740 Yeah.

01:33:31.020 Maybe at the end of the video.

01:33:32.740 It's also funny.

01:33:33.600 We had her.

01:33:36.020 She was going to come with her friend initially.

01:33:38.260 Bro.

01:33:38.580 Guys.

01:33:39.020 So I often.

01:33:40.620 Rarely.

01:33:41.140 Will, like.

01:33:41.820 I reveal the details of, like, people who cancel.

01:33:45.400 Occasionally I will.

01:33:46.580 But, like, you got to realize every time we have a panel.

01:33:48.480 Like, as many girls are on the panel.

01:33:50.800 That many girls flaked.

01:33:53.880 So if we have, like, the past three shows, we had ten flakes every single show.

01:34:01.080 And, like, the excuses.

01:34:02.900 I don't share it most of the time.

01:34:05.080 The excuses are, like, the pretty much the biggest amount of bullshit ever.

01:34:11.280 People in general are just super unreliable.

01:34:15.160 So, I mean, props to all of you who actually made it and showed up and stuff.

01:34:20.500 But I'm trying to actually find, oh, her friend.

01:34:24.040 So her friend messages.

01:34:25.920 They were going to come together.

01:34:27.380 She messaged, like, three weeks ago.

01:34:29.340 Interested in coming on.

01:34:30.480 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

01:34:31.340 And then she says, I'm not in, this is yesterday at 5 p.m.

01:34:41.660 I'm not in a good headspace right now.

01:34:43.880 Sorry.

01:34:48.340 I think people think that.

01:34:49.780 I so badly want to, the wage gap doesn't exist.

01:34:53.060 But I so badly want to actually argue that it's 100% justified.

01:34:57.800 I don't know if that, it's so fucking justified.

01:35:02.040 I'm sorry.

01:35:02.420 I'm sorry.

01:35:02.720 I'm sorry.

01:35:02.900 I'm sorry.

01:35:03.940 I'm not sorry.

01:35:04.980 I think people think they can hang.

01:35:07.220 And then, like, when, like, they're like, oh, it'll be a funny idea.

01:35:10.340 And then when it actually comes, they're like, wait, that was kind of, like, a drunken or stupid decision I made to be on a podcast.

01:35:18.140 Does that make, do you get what I mean?

01:35:19.480 Like, in the moment, like, you're laughing with your friends.

01:35:21.680 You're like, oh, I'm going to DM him.

01:35:23.560 I'm going to, like, get on this.

01:35:24.860 And then, like, and then the time comes and you're like, wait, I've never been on camera.

01:35:28.700 I can't do this.

01:35:30.500 Because I feel that a bit on the drive.

01:35:32.300 Yeah.

01:35:32.820 I mean, when it comes to the entertainment industry, it's kind of normal.

01:35:35.860 Like, people get cold feet.

01:35:37.580 They get nervous and shit.

01:35:39.060 But it's not fair to cancel.

01:35:41.060 Then don't do it.

01:35:42.700 Based.

01:35:44.080 I agree.

01:35:44.420 No, but don't talk.

01:35:46.220 Like, don't, like, why waste, you're wasting your time.

01:35:49.820 Then there's less girls on here.

01:35:51.660 It's just, it's not cool.

01:35:53.200 Oh, I mean, honestly, the people kind of ask about, like, oh, man, it must be so stressful

01:35:59.000 doing the show.

01:36:00.300 Actually, doing the show isn't stressful.

01:36:02.760 It's, like, the talent coordination that's the most stressful thing.

01:36:06.460 Like, dealing with people.

01:36:07.960 Oh, got to cancel last minute.

01:36:10.520 No shows.

01:36:11.000 We had one girl today who no showed, who we had her booked, like, months out.

01:36:15.980 And people just don't even have the courtesy to just be, like, even if it, I mean, obviously,

01:36:22.660 we want as much advance notice as possible.

01:36:25.000 But, like, hey, can't make it.

01:36:26.760 Don't want to come.

01:36:27.540 You can even say the podcast sucks.

01:36:29.180 Don't care.

01:36:30.300 Just be like, fuck this podcast.

01:36:31.900 I'm not coming.

01:36:32.540 It's fucking toxic.

01:36:33.400 Whatever.

01:36:34.120 Don't care.

01:36:34.780 I'd rather somebody just say, like, hey, I'm not coming.

01:36:36.780 But most people have, like, zero, like, the biggest red pill is probably, like, trying

01:36:43.260 to book 20 girls every single week to, like, be here a certain time, on time.

01:36:50.440 Biggest red pill there is probably.

01:36:52.100 Anyways, I'm being fucking tilted.

01:36:55.100 No, it's valid.

01:36:57.320 Yeah.

01:36:58.440 And anyways, sorry.

01:37:01.740 Moving on.

01:37:02.380 Moving on.

01:37:03.760 Let's see.

01:37:04.400 We have, going to some of your notes here, you said you dated a girl long distance and

01:37:11.000 you had to travel every two weeks to see them.

01:37:13.020 You've been cheated on.

01:37:13.880 Me and my ex-boyfriend of five years had a toxic, drug-filled relationship.

01:37:18.760 We already kind of talked about that.

01:37:20.460 That one, yeah.

01:37:22.160 Well, we dated last summer and then she was going to college.

01:37:26.380 So we went on a road trip to drop her off in Boston, which was, like, an eight-day road

01:37:30.320 trip.

01:37:30.580 It was actually, we were on the road trip now last year.

01:37:34.400 Um, and then I was in school at the time, so I would just ditch class, tell no one, and

01:37:42.060 fly to Boston for, like, a week.

01:37:45.100 Can you scoot in and speak closer?

01:37:46.860 Yeah.

01:37:49.000 So it was, it was that.

01:37:51.480 It was, it was the year one.

01:37:53.980 It was the one where we broke up, like, nine months ago.

01:37:56.800 Got it.

01:37:57.500 You said you wanted to talk on hookup culture.

01:38:01.760 Yeah.

01:38:02.120 That was in your notes.

01:38:02.940 I don't remember what I was going with that, but I guess, yeah.

01:38:06.760 I mean, I think hooking up young, I think hooking up young is fine.

01:38:10.800 You know, I, I watch, I actually watch some of the Daily Wire people and I think I disagree

01:38:18.100 with, I think hookup culture, you find out what you want in a relationship, like what

01:38:22.040 you like.

01:38:22.580 I think sex is a big part of a relationship.

01:38:25.180 I respect people that wait, but when I hook up with people, I'm like, I feel that connect.

01:38:31.560 I feel like I feel connected to that person more than just, like, talking sometimes, because

01:38:36.800 if I hook up with someone, usually I'm like, oh my God, I really like this person.

01:38:40.740 Like, we can laugh during sex.

01:38:43.620 Does that make sense?

01:38:44.300 Because I think hookup culture of just, like, I want to hook up with you just to, like, feel

01:38:52.340 good.

01:38:53.300 I want to feel connected to that person when I hook up with someone.

01:38:56.200 And if I don't feel that, I'm not going to hit you back up.

01:38:58.320 Well, I, I don't disagree with the, with the part where you said sex is important in

01:39:05.680 a relationship.

01:39:06.620 I don't disagree with you there.

01:39:08.320 I would say though, my disagreement when it comes to hookup culture, I think, so when

01:39:13.540 I think of hookup culture, I think people who are just having casual sex without the

01:39:17.620 intention of pursuing something long-term with a given individual.

01:39:22.420 I forgot who said it, but someone said they want to date for marriage.

01:39:25.900 Like, I won't get in a relationship unless it's for marriage.

01:39:28.320 That's how I feel.

01:39:29.280 I want to, like, what's the point of dating?

01:39:31.640 But, so hooking up to me, I feel comfortable in my sexuality and things to be able to hook

01:39:37.940 up with people to discover what I want.

01:39:39.380 Like, who knows if I would date men and women if I didn't hook up with either of them.

01:39:43.300 I wouldn't know if I liked it or not.

01:39:45.060 And then you get in the position where, you know, a Christian guy, I'm not saying him,

01:39:49.840 gets in a relationship with a woman, they marry, he realizes he's gay.

01:39:53.120 Because that's happened before.

01:39:54.220 And I feel like sex, you feel, like, what you want.

01:39:57.260 You know what you want.

01:39:58.600 You know, you feel that connection.

01:40:00.140 If you vibe during sex, I feel like you could vibe outside of sex.

01:40:04.780 I don't know if that made sense, but...

01:40:07.820 Wait, when you get married, do you want to get married to a man or a woman?

01:40:13.360 Honestly, I've thought about that a lot, and I'm not sure.

01:40:16.080 In a relationship with women, I'm more of, like, the masculine one.

01:40:18.740 But with a guy, I want the complete opposite, like, wife me kind of thing.

01:40:24.640 So when you date women, you're dominant, but when you're with a guy, you want to be more submissive?

01:40:29.620 Correct.

01:40:30.400 Okay.

01:40:31.660 And do you want kids?

01:40:35.040 Yeah.

01:40:35.780 Do you want your own kids?

01:40:37.840 I do want my own kids.

01:40:39.180 Okay.

01:40:39.520 Is that a factor into...

01:40:40.460 Rather than fostering, you mean?

01:40:42.200 Like, that type of thing.

01:40:43.300 Adopting.

01:40:43.800 Adopting.

01:40:44.580 Yeah, no, I want my own kids.

01:40:46.560 Okay.

01:40:47.460 But, I mean, does that have any impact on who you want to get married to then?

01:40:50.860 I mean, you...

01:40:51.440 Actually, jokingly, when I was dating my ex-girlfriend, we met this guy that's so attractive.

01:40:57.280 He was, like, tall.

01:40:58.000 His name was Jack.

01:40:59.800 We were like, can you be my sperm donor?

01:41:02.700 And he said, hit me up one day, and I'll be your sperm donor.

01:41:05.720 He's a drug addict, but...

01:41:07.300 What the...

01:41:08.160 But he was...

01:41:08.660 It was a year ago.

01:41:10.660 It was a year ago, but he was sober.

01:41:13.800 But he was, like, an ex-drug addict.

01:41:15.360 Damn.

01:41:15.620 So, the genes on that one and me would not be cute.

01:41:19.080 But I need a tall guy, because I'm short.

01:41:21.460 You need to balance out the shortness?

01:41:23.420 Yes, literally.

01:41:24.480 My aunt did that.

01:41:25.300 What's more important, them being tall or them not being a former drug addict?

01:41:30.740 A lot of people I know are former drug addicts, because I'm sober.

01:41:35.860 Does that make...

01:41:36.440 Like, a lot of my friends are drug addicts, because I'm an ex-drug addict.

01:41:39.500 Sure.

01:41:40.320 I was in sober living for a year with, like, 30-year-olds.

01:41:43.500 You know, that's, like, kind of my friend group.

01:41:45.400 Okay.

01:41:46.120 Interesting.

01:41:46.920 Interesting.

01:41:50.040 I kind of want to do...

01:41:51.920 Who here has tattoos?

01:41:53.720 Show of hands.

01:41:54.600 Show of hands.

01:41:56.440 I think we need to do a tattoo check.

01:41:59.240 Tattoo check.

01:42:00.040 Tattoo check.

01:42:00.760 Like, obviously, if you got, like, one on your hoo-ha, we can't see that.

01:42:04.640 But, like, arms...

01:42:06.140 Yeah.

01:42:06.480 ...back.

01:42:07.140 You got one on your belly here.

01:42:08.940 It's a mermaid.

01:42:11.380 Mermaid.

01:42:12.140 Okay.

01:42:13.760 Yeah.

01:42:14.460 Cool.

01:42:15.240 And then what about the arms?

01:42:16.920 Let's see the arms.

01:42:17.280 The arms?

01:42:17.820 This is my 13-year-old SoundCloud name.

01:42:20.840 It was my first tattoo.

01:42:21.980 What is it?

01:42:22.660 It says Lowcap.

01:42:23.920 Lowcap.

01:42:24.120 It's my Instagram tag.

01:42:25.140 That's your SoundCloud?

01:42:26.200 It's my...

01:42:26.800 I kept it.

01:42:27.780 It was...

01:42:28.120 When I was 13, I tried that.

01:42:28.900 Do you rap?

01:42:29.720 Are you a rapper?

01:42:30.520 No, I don't rap.

01:42:31.400 I make more punk music now.

01:42:33.260 Uh-huh.

01:42:33.580 Because I write music still, but I kept the name because I had to.

01:42:37.100 It was, like, 13, you know.

01:42:39.260 Yeah.

01:42:40.000 This is...

01:42:41.260 It says Homesick.

01:42:42.340 Homesick.

01:42:42.760 My parents say it says Home Bitch and make fun of me all the time for it.

01:42:46.780 And then the rest were just...

01:42:48.000 This is for Aspen, Colorado, because my grandma has a house up there and we go every year.

01:42:52.080 This one says Relieve Me of the Bondage of Self and it's a girl tattoo or it's a girl

01:42:57.460 tied up in herself.

01:42:58.680 Star David.

01:42:59.740 Mm-hmm.

01:43:00.500 I have a matching...

01:43:01.560 What's the bondage one?

01:43:03.000 It says Relieve Me of the Bondage of Self and it's a girl tied up.

01:43:06.220 Meaning, like, my problems are within myself.

01:43:09.460 Like, relieve me from it.

01:43:10.540 Like, I can't keep holding myself back.

01:43:12.960 All right.

01:43:13.560 What about you?

01:43:14.600 I do have tattoos, but they're not in places to show.

01:43:18.080 That you can show?

01:43:19.000 What about you?

01:43:19.560 What's this one say?

01:43:20.320 Okay, so you know I got the a real brat because I am a real brat.

01:43:26.320 You haven't been bratty so far.

01:43:28.260 No, because y'all ain't...

01:43:29.500 I'm waiting on Andrew.

01:43:30.700 Like, y'all ain't ready for me.

01:43:32.300 All right.

01:43:32.680 Once Andrew comes, it's gonna come out.

01:43:34.640 It's gonna be out.

01:43:35.880 And then I have...

01:43:37.040 This one's really important to me.

01:43:38.580 It's like, honestly, everyone that does my tattoos are people who are becoming a tattoo artist.

01:43:45.120 I like people like that because they're doing it for something.

01:43:48.440 It means something to them.

01:43:49.520 So, a lot of my tattoos look bad.

01:43:51.940 But this one says, work hard.

01:43:54.980 It tells me to work hard.

01:43:56.620 But then other people see hard work.

01:43:59.560 So, it's like a little, yeah.

01:44:02.980 And then my first tattoo was this little stick and poke.

01:44:05.640 It's so bad.

01:44:06.380 It says, just love me.

01:44:07.440 My friend's mom found us drunk in her bed, like, literally, like, just with ink and, like, markers and pens.

01:44:14.900 I remember that.

01:44:15.780 It was terrible.

01:44:17.000 Just stabbing yourself with the needle trying to get the ink in.

01:44:19.620 Yes.

01:44:20.060 I got an infection because it was, like, straight out of a ballpoint pen.

01:44:23.740 Yes.

01:44:24.240 That's what I'm talking about.

01:44:25.080 We've gotten so much trouble.

01:44:26.980 Like, it was bad.

01:44:27.280 I don't know if that's a normal thing because people are giving looks.

01:44:29.720 Yeah.

01:44:30.260 But, I mean, it doesn't hurt.

01:44:31.700 What about you?

01:44:33.740 Any tattoos?

01:44:35.300 I have a rose.

01:44:36.560 Mm-hmm.

01:44:37.040 And gypsy.

01:44:39.760 Kind of went away.

01:44:40.880 Okay.

01:44:41.040 Gypsy rose?

01:44:41.960 Yes.

01:44:43.220 Gypsy rose.

01:44:45.340 Okay.

01:44:45.960 Aw.

01:44:46.680 And then, don't you have a sternum tattoo?

01:44:49.260 I have other tattoos, but I don't really, like, um...

01:44:51.360 You don't have to show it.

01:44:52.580 I'm just...

01:44:53.120 What does the sternum tattoo say?

01:44:55.820 Um, I don't...

01:44:58.000 I don't want to say.

01:44:59.480 Well, it's on your Instagram.

01:45:00.360 I saw it on your Instagram.

01:45:02.180 It says daddy.

01:45:03.140 I just don't want my dad.

01:45:04.840 Like, I feel bad.

01:45:06.200 You don't want what?

01:45:07.000 I don't know.

01:45:07.640 I don't like to talk about it because I'm my dad.

01:45:10.760 I was dumb in 18.

01:45:12.760 I haven't gotten a tattoo since I was 19.

01:45:14.740 But it's still on your Instagram.

01:45:16.720 Yeah.

01:45:17.100 It's, like, one of your most recent ones.

01:45:18.380 You might see this because this is, like, Red Line Pipeline or whatever it's called.

01:45:22.400 Red...

01:45:22.760 Red Pill?

01:45:23.540 What is it called?

01:45:24.380 Red Pill?

01:45:24.700 Red Line Pipeline.

01:45:25.460 I don't think it's Red Pill.

01:45:26.580 Is it?

01:45:27.320 I don't know.

01:45:27.660 It's not really.

01:45:28.140 He doesn't look at my Instagram, but he watches, like, Red Pipeline stuff.

01:45:31.400 Uh, okay.

01:45:33.240 What?

01:45:34.500 She's just funny.

01:45:35.900 Oh, yeah.

01:45:36.400 She was like, oh, like, he just watches Red Pipeline stuff.

01:45:39.180 Yo, W, her dad's probably watching right now.

01:45:42.160 I told my parents.

01:45:43.300 Is that one?

01:45:43.780 Does he know about it?

01:45:44.980 Are you full Filipino?

01:45:46.800 I'm half.

01:45:47.840 Half Filipino, half what?

01:45:48.980 Um, it's half Filipino, half Italian, Native American, or quarter.

01:45:54.420 On your dad's side?

01:45:55.600 My dad's Italian, Native American.

01:45:57.120 Okay.

01:45:57.880 W, is he watching?

01:45:59.800 Can you text him?

01:46:00.540 Tell him to tune in?

01:46:01.460 He's not, but he watches YouTube a lot.

01:46:03.140 He's probably subscribed to us.

01:46:04.840 Oh, no.

01:46:05.840 Does he know about the country?

01:46:06.700 He's probably, like...

01:46:07.500 No.

01:46:08.200 He's probably one of our, like, major TTSers, like, Low Paladins or some shit.

01:46:12.640 Is your dad Grid One?

01:46:14.520 Is he what?

01:46:15.360 Grid One Motorsports.

01:46:16.200 Is that your dad?

01:46:16.740 No, definitely not.

01:46:19.540 You don't know Grid One?

01:46:20.500 No, I don't know what that is.

01:46:21.120 My parents sent me a long paragraph before this and said,

01:46:23.680 Just so you know, anything you put on the internet's there forever.

01:46:26.320 Don't say anything.

01:46:27.160 Oh, my gosh.

01:46:27.580 And I go, Mom.

01:46:28.440 Oh, man.

01:46:29.100 I go, Mom, look at me.

01:46:30.900 I go, look at my track history.

01:46:33.080 I told her that.

01:46:34.060 And my brother calls me, too.

01:46:35.220 He goes, I'm going to be watching.

01:46:37.040 Oh, shit.

01:46:37.520 Shout out my brother.

01:46:38.460 Yeah.

01:46:38.960 Aw.

01:46:39.520 And then the first thing you say was,

01:46:41.260 Yeah, I went to drug rehab when I was 14.

01:46:44.200 It's public information.

01:46:45.240 No, it's good.

01:46:45.740 It is?

01:46:48.000 Is it, like, on your TikTok or something?

01:46:49.920 No.

01:46:50.600 Oh.

01:46:51.000 I think just, I tell everybody.

01:46:53.540 Oh, okay.

01:46:54.180 All right.

01:46:54.980 No, I mean, I appreciate when people come on and they're, like, super open about stuff.

01:46:58.580 So open.

01:47:00.100 Bro, guys, you know, look, it's getting hard, boys.

01:47:02.660 It's getting hard.

01:47:03.340 We might have to, who knows how long the show, enjoy it while the last, boys.

01:47:06.480 And then, who knows, maybe we have to go down to only one show a week, and then maybe we'll

01:47:12.860 eventually have to take it to the streets because it's, like, progressively harder and

01:47:17.760 harder to do the whole talent coordination shit.

01:47:20.880 So, tats, tattoos.

01:47:23.140 I have a tattoo, but it's on my finger.

01:47:24.960 It's just for my...

01:47:25.500 You don't have, like, the lip one?

01:47:27.220 No.

01:47:27.680 I don't know.

01:47:28.300 No.

01:47:28.680 Sorry.

01:47:29.120 Not Shane.

01:47:29.600 Just, like, no, it's not for me.

01:47:31.640 I don't want to get a tattoo.

01:47:32.880 It was for my dog that passed away.

01:47:34.660 And, yeah.

01:47:34.960 R.I.P.

01:47:37.060 R.I.P.

01:47:37.520 R.I.P. Max.

01:47:38.120 R.I.P. Max.

01:47:39.220 What does it say?

01:47:40.020 That was my dog's name.

01:47:40.460 It's just his initial.

01:47:41.460 It's an M.

01:47:41.980 Oh, cute.

01:47:42.680 Any tats, Morgan?

01:47:44.000 Nope.

01:47:45.280 No tats.

01:47:45.940 Okay, wow.

01:47:46.500 Look at that.

01:47:46.920 No tattoos.

01:47:47.780 All right.

01:47:48.300 I have a lot more tattoos, but I can't show them, you know.

01:47:51.760 I have about 30.

01:47:52.600 Did you show that one?

01:47:54.240 Wait, do you have one, like, right above your...

01:47:56.400 Yeah, I got to say.

01:47:57.520 What one's that?

01:47:59.020 Is it, like, a scorpion or some shit?

01:48:01.720 No.

01:48:02.660 No.

01:48:03.300 I have...

01:48:03.660 Is it YOLO?

01:48:04.740 Safety pins.

01:48:06.460 Safety pins?

01:48:07.160 Oh, like, on the stomach dimples or whatever.

01:48:10.040 You have an edgy face, huh?

01:48:11.660 Yeah.

01:48:12.240 Okay, I see it.

01:48:13.080 I'm really crazy on the inside.

01:48:14.800 One time I was, like, about to hook up with a girl, but, like, right above her...

01:48:18.940 Vagine.

01:48:19.980 Vagine.

01:48:20.340 Vagine.

01:48:20.380 It said...

01:48:21.380 I think it said YOLO.

01:48:22.960 Oh, no.

01:48:23.620 And then I was like, I can't do this, bro.

01:48:26.260 No.

01:48:26.680 You got to hit it and read YOLO and, like...

01:48:29.680 No, I was just, like...

01:48:31.220 I was making some judgments.

01:48:33.700 And so I'm like, I had to rethink the whole...

01:48:37.860 I'll just get the neon sign that says open on it.

01:48:41.380 I was like, oh, maybe we can watch Netflix instead.

01:48:46.700 Netflix and not chill, huh?

01:48:47.800 And then I never saw her again.

01:48:49.000 Oh, you...

01:48:50.200 You should have hit it, YOLO.

01:48:51.480 No, bro, they're...

01:48:52.460 Like, I have dick discipline, to a degree.

01:48:56.760 Mm-mm.

01:48:57.300 I have...

01:48:58.020 Like, even if the opportunity's there, if there's something like that...

01:49:02.040 Tell her you have a blindfold kink and just don't look at it.

01:49:04.960 A blindfold?

01:49:05.700 Like, put a blindfold on you.

01:49:06.560 That doesn't change the fact that she has it.

01:49:08.680 Yeah, but you don't know, like, in your head.

01:49:10.620 You just, like, picture Megan Fox or something.

01:49:12.480 It wouldn't be about looking at it while.

01:49:15.180 It's just the fact that it's there.

01:49:17.300 It's probably dirty anyway, huh?

01:49:19.300 What is the...

01:49:20.040 Her vagina.

01:49:21.980 If you have a tattoo that says YOLO on your vagina, you know...

01:49:25.300 Like, she probably...

01:49:26.240 It doesn't necessarily mean that the vagina's dirty.

01:49:30.300 Probably is, though.

01:49:31.600 I disagree.

01:49:32.420 Like, what's the likelihood of, like, that means it's dirty?

01:49:37.100 Was it YOLO, or was it, like...

01:49:38.880 Fuck, what was it?

01:49:39.800 I don't know if it was YOLO or something.

01:49:40.580 How do you go from, like, about to have sex, and then you're just, like, no?

01:49:43.660 Yeah, like, how did you pick that up?

01:49:45.380 How does...

01:49:45.880 As a guy?

01:49:46.880 Like...

01:49:47.280 What do you mean?

01:49:48.180 As a girl, like, I would have just left immediately.

01:49:50.780 Like, how do you go from, like...

01:49:51.460 Like, if you would have left...

01:49:52.840 You're about to have sex, and the guy's like, let's just watch Netflix.

01:49:56.240 Oh, I'm smoother than that.

01:49:58.940 I was just like, oh, hold on, let's take a...

01:50:01.060 I gotta go use the bathroom really quick.

01:50:03.140 And then you just, like, don't reinitiate.

01:50:05.020 And then you're like, oh, let's just kick it, you know?

01:50:07.460 And then you never talk to her again.

01:50:11.560 Hold on, sorry.

01:50:12.760 Wait.

01:50:13.380 I have a noise for this.

01:50:15.360 One sec.

01:50:16.420 Wait, where is it?

01:50:18.360 Damn, sorry, guys.

01:50:19.380 Either they won't sleep with you, and then there's really no need to ever call them again.

01:50:23.260 Or they do sleep with you.

01:50:24.720 And then there's really no need to ever call them again.

01:50:28.040 That wasn't really what happened.

01:50:30.000 So you did sleep with her?

01:50:31.280 No, I didn't sleep with her.

01:50:32.520 I don't know.

01:50:33.120 I just...

01:50:33.620 I've never played that noise before.

01:50:35.620 And I thought it was somewhat...

01:50:37.760 It went along a little bit.

01:50:39.220 A little bit.

01:50:39.840 A little bit.

01:50:40.340 Not 100%.

01:50:41.240 I feel like you found it, thought it was really good, and then you were like, I gotta use this.

01:50:47.160 I've had that in my soundboard for two years.

01:50:49.760 This is the first time I've ever fucking...

01:50:51.720 The execution was not good, I'll tell you that.

01:50:53.820 It was a bit slow.

01:50:54.900 I have like 50 buttons on here I've never pressed.

01:50:58.380 And then another 50, I've pressed like one time.

01:51:01.060 Let's hear one more.

01:51:02.020 Okay, I'll find one that I've never done before.

01:51:04.280 Let's see.

01:51:05.660 Just so you can use it.

01:51:06.680 Oh, here's two.

01:51:07.460 How about this?

01:51:08.040 When does fucking somebody else mean that I'm not faithful to you?

01:51:12.280 What context?

01:51:13.640 Hold on, and then...

01:51:14.900 I only did it with her because I'm in love with you.

01:51:17.840 What?

01:51:19.400 Toxic gas.

01:51:20.180 Where are you finding these?

01:51:21.800 So those two are from one of my favorite movies.

01:51:24.180 It's very...

01:51:24.820 It's dark.

01:51:25.440 It's called The Rules of Attraction, based on the Brett Easton Ellis novel of the same name.

01:51:30.760 You might know him from...

01:51:32.760 Well, he's the writer of American Psycho.

01:51:35.180 Maybe you know the movie.

01:51:36.020 I just watched that.

01:51:36.680 American Psycho.

01:51:37.360 So he wrote the book, which the movie's based on with Patrick Bateman.

01:51:43.760 But The Rules of Attraction is set in the same universe as American Psycho.

01:51:47.940 And I actually think The Rules of Attraction, in some ways, it's not...

01:51:53.100 It's a darker...

01:51:54.360 I think it's actually darker than American Psycho.

01:51:57.460 And I think it's a better film.

01:51:59.820 Directed by Roger Avery, who I might...

01:52:02.340 I think he lives sort of in the area I've been trying to get him...

01:52:06.700 We might try to get him on the show for, like, a one-on-one interview.

01:52:09.160 Because this is one of my favorite movies, so...

01:52:11.520 Dark comedy.

01:52:13.860 Recommend it.

01:52:15.080 There's a young Jessica Biel.

01:52:18.260 Who are some of the...

01:52:20.660 Who's the guy from Dawson's Creek?

01:52:24.220 Anybody?

01:52:25.100 No.

01:52:25.340 I feel like you guys are too young to know about that.

01:52:30.440 James Van Der Beek.

01:52:31.580 Thank you.

01:52:32.380 James Van Der Beek.

01:52:33.940 Young Jessica Biel.

01:52:35.520 Kip Pardue.

01:52:37.460 That guy from American Pie.

01:52:40.020 Which one?

01:52:40.820 I'm sorry.

01:52:42.240 Before I started doing this shit, I was a...

01:52:45.100 I studied film, so I'm, like, a film...

01:52:47.160 Anyways, whatever.

01:52:49.240 Now I do a dating podcast.

01:52:52.600 How my life has gone.

01:52:53.780 Could have been a director.

01:52:54.800 Now I'm doing this shit.

01:52:55.640 No, I'm kidding.

01:52:56.040 I'm kidding.

01:52:56.980 I'm kidding.

01:52:57.780 Okay.

01:52:58.600 Where were we?

01:52:59.840 Goals.

01:53:00.740 Goals?

01:53:01.340 No.

01:53:01.660 No, you.

01:53:03.280 Like, your podcast.

01:53:04.720 Wait, what?

01:53:05.420 That's not what we were talking about.

01:53:06.800 No, we were, like, having tattoos.

01:53:08.060 We're talking about tattoos.

01:53:09.260 I was responding to you.

01:53:10.820 I said, Goals, you go, I was doing film, and now I'm doing this.

01:53:13.720 And I said, Goals.

01:53:14.300 Apparently, Andrew's ready, I think.

01:53:16.600 Apparently.

01:53:18.000 People in the chat told me.

01:53:21.680 People been telling me.

01:53:23.980 When did he send a message?

01:53:27.000 Excuse me.

01:53:28.460 I don't know.

01:53:28.940 Is he ready?

01:53:29.420 Maybe not.

01:53:29.860 Maybe they're trolling.

01:53:31.800 Okay, sweet.

01:53:33.140 All right.

01:53:35.060 Oh, hold on.

01:53:36.860 Hide that for a bit.

01:53:38.420 While we're doing that.

01:53:41.020 Before you, we should do Twitch.

01:53:45.440 Can you do Twitch really quick?

01:53:47.040 Or do you need?

01:53:48.400 Okay.

01:53:49.940 Oh, look at this guy.

01:53:51.440 Oh, look at his hair.

01:53:52.360 Look at that.

01:53:53.220 Copied my hairstyle.

01:53:55.080 Andrew, can you hear us?

01:53:56.620 Yeah, I can hear you fine, man.

01:53:57.660 Yo, what's up, man?

01:53:59.420 What's up?

01:53:59.980 How are you guys doing tonight?

01:54:00.960 Doing good.

01:54:01.540 How did the debate go?

01:54:02.420 Yeah.

01:54:03.500 It was an absolute disaster.

01:54:06.460 Oh, shit.

01:54:08.380 Just a disaster.

01:54:09.780 But ultimately, I mean, it's all good.

01:54:11.840 I don't even know what the, what was the topic?

01:54:16.520 It was on, well, I can't even, I don't even want to get into the topic on YouTube.

01:54:20.420 All right, that's fine.

01:54:21.460 That's fine.

01:54:21.800 That's how bad it is.

01:54:22.680 When you say it was bad, did you, did you lose?

01:54:28.160 No.

01:54:29.200 Oh, okay.

01:54:29.980 All right.

01:54:30.380 No, the opposite.

01:54:31.280 I mean, I handily, handily won.

01:54:33.560 It's just, that's not what made it bad.

01:54:35.320 Oh, okay.

01:54:36.020 Fair enough.

01:54:36.580 Yeah.

01:54:37.080 It's a whole, it's a whole ordeal.

01:54:38.820 It was a whole ordeal.

01:54:39.920 Welcome, Andrew.

01:54:40.520 Welcome, welcome.

01:54:41.020 So we had a literally shaking quit for the first time ever on the show.

01:54:48.740 And it was honestly, oh, did he freeze?

01:54:53.620 Is that on?

01:54:54.420 It's just lagging.

01:54:55.120 Is that on?

01:54:55.520 Lagging pretty hard on my end.

01:54:56.760 Your end?

01:54:57.280 Yeah, I think it's your end.

01:54:59.600 And honestly, it was pretty milquetoast.

01:55:02.220 It was pretty tame.

01:55:04.160 So, unfortunate nevertheless.

01:55:06.960 Really quick, Nick, can we do Twitch?

01:55:08.400 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:55:11.140 Drop us a follow on the Prime sub if you have one.

01:55:13.540 Ariana Grande looks better than ever.

01:55:15.440 Okay.

01:55:16.840 Subscribe for three months.

01:55:18.260 Yo, guys, drop us a Prime sub.

01:55:19.900 It's been 36 minutes since we last had a Prime.

01:55:22.620 I think it's bugged.

01:55:23.820 Hell.

01:55:25.000 If you guys can drop a follow and a Prime sub, it would be super helpful, guys.

01:55:30.220 Really appreciate it.

01:55:32.460 And what else?

01:55:34.820 Oh, yeah, that's pretty much it.

01:55:37.100 What the?

01:55:37.460 Oh, you can hide that wallet.

01:55:39.640 Sorry, guys.

01:55:40.300 Andrew's lagging a little bit there.

01:55:41.680 We're going to get him going here in just a sec.

01:55:46.000 Let's see.

01:55:46.820 Let's get into Shannon's notes.

01:55:49.540 Shannon.

01:55:50.580 Yeah, this is – I'm sorry, Brian.

01:55:52.320 I don't mean to cut in, but this is really lagging really hard on this end of the broadcast.

01:55:58.500 You want to try to restart your computer or restart the call?

01:56:03.280 Yeah, well, we'll just restart the call.

01:56:05.420 You guys just disconnect the call.

01:56:06.420 Yeah, go ahead, Nick.

01:56:07.600 So, Shannon, you said that your plus size, you only date six to seven-figure earning men, and you'd love to discuss your experiences.

01:56:15.260 You think yours are very unique.

01:56:16.920 So you said only date six to seven-figure earning men.

01:56:19.280 They don't have to be earning seven-figures or anything like that, but I do want a man who has a comfortable lifestyle that they're going to be providing.

01:56:32.800 Okay.

01:56:33.040 But so in your pre-show notes, and I know you might have sent these in a while ago, you did say you only date six to seven-figure earning men.

01:56:41.300 I try to date men who are around that range, and I'm not going to date a guy who doesn't have any money or any future, but I'm currently dating someone who I'm pretty sure they don't make six figures,

01:56:57.760 but I know they have a comfortable lifestyle, hopefully, set up for the two of us.

01:57:04.840 Doesn't that oppose the feminine thing, though?

01:57:08.600 No, I think that in feminism, women should have choices.

01:57:12.840 But what if he said that, that you have to make a certain amount?

01:57:15.920 I'm just curious.

01:57:16.500 I don't think he feels that way, yeah.

01:57:24.360 Oh, yeah.

01:57:29.060 Because in your pre-show notes, you said you only date six to seven-figure earning men.

01:57:34.240 I think that was a couple months ago when I sent that, but it's true.

01:57:38.100 I do try to date men who have nice lifestyles to provide.

01:57:43.400 Does that not make me a feminist, or it just makes me smart?

01:57:46.500 You said that, I'm trying to remember exactly how you framed it.

01:57:52.320 You said that...

01:57:53.500 Because I was on Gavin's podcast and talking about dating high-earning men.

01:58:00.160 You said that feminism is about women having choices.

01:58:03.480 Yeah.

01:58:04.220 What about men having choices?

01:58:07.620 Or do men not get a choice?

01:58:08.860 They can choose to date a woman who is going to be a provider.

01:58:13.280 Can they, though?

01:58:14.100 You know, it depends on their own, I guess, situation with dating, right?

01:58:22.880 Like, I've gotten comments from people online saying that my, what I'm asking for is, like,

01:58:31.540 to, I guess, like, they say that I have to reach a certain level to get to that certain

01:58:39.860 level of success for a man, and I think it's kind of true for men as well.

01:58:43.520 Like, if, like, let's say if I were to lose weight and, like, be a quote-unquote 10,

01:58:52.840 then I would be able to get more of a guy who's, like, a higher provider, if that makes sense.

01:58:58.560 So I think men have to sometimes do the same.

01:59:01.580 Like, maybe if they're not somewhere in regards to their looks or social skills,

01:59:07.400 maybe they would get a higher-paying job to accommodate that or something along those lines.

01:59:12.760 Maybe they don't make that much, but they're really, really attractive,

01:59:15.240 and then they have to kind of work their way up to making a certain amount of money

01:59:19.900 if they want to get a certain amount, or if they want to get a certain type of woman.

01:59:25.140 Okay.

01:59:26.400 I disagree with that.

01:59:26.980 Something goes both ways.

01:59:28.360 I think it's the same thing of if you want, like, people say it's wrong for men to say,

01:59:33.920 I want this type of body or I want this kind of girl.

01:59:37.140 Like, I want her to be, like, a virgin.

01:59:38.940 I want this or that.

01:59:39.860 And that's, like, wrong.

01:59:42.140 But then, you know, women could be like, oh, I want this guy to make this much money

01:59:46.900 and this and that.

01:59:47.880 I think it's the same thing.

01:59:48.720 Like, if a girl says, you have to make this amount of money,

01:59:51.980 and the guy says, well, I want the girl to look like this or have this quality about her,

01:59:55.840 like, that's where the feminist movement kind of gets screwed up.

02:00:01.080 Yeah, it's the same thing.

02:00:02.600 If, like, a girl's like, I want a guy with a big dick,

02:00:05.420 then a guy could say, well, I want a girl that's skinny and has a fat ass.

02:00:09.920 That's true.

02:00:10.880 I think it's just preference.

02:00:11.700 Or if a girl says she wants a guy with a big dick,

02:00:14.220 a guy can say, I want a girl with a big labia.

02:00:17.700 That, too.

02:00:18.340 Whatever the guy wants.

02:00:19.840 Everyone has choices.

02:00:21.460 I only date women who have large labias, by the way.

02:00:25.040 Is that the reason why YOLO didn't work out?

02:00:27.100 My what?

02:00:27.840 Why?

02:00:28.640 Oh, the YOLO girl?

02:00:29.580 Is that why it didn't work out?

02:00:31.360 Nah, it was the...

02:00:32.340 It was the YOLO.

02:00:33.000 It was medium size, huh?

02:00:34.740 It was a midi.

02:00:35.360 And you have that choice of, to, like, your type.

02:00:39.740 I feel like everyone has standards.

02:00:41.820 Yeah.

02:00:41.900 Like, write out a list of, like, what you want qualities in somebody.

02:00:45.060 I have that.

02:00:45.700 And thrive.

02:00:46.140 I do, too.

02:00:46.940 Thrive for that.

02:00:47.960 I thrive.

02:00:48.460 I thrive for the big labia all day, every day.

02:00:50.860 Exactly.

02:00:51.280 Just write that.

02:00:52.420 Manifest that in your head.

02:00:53.260 Write big labia, big labia.

02:00:54.500 I want that.

02:00:55.040 I need that.

02:00:55.480 Yeah.

02:00:55.920 You don't want that.

02:00:56.520 You have it.

02:00:57.100 Do you say it as an affirmation?

02:00:57.760 Yeah.

02:00:57.920 That's manifesting.

02:00:58.880 In the morning?

02:00:59.320 I don't want a big labia.

02:01:00.520 I have a big labia.

02:01:02.380 That's what you got to say.

02:01:03.540 I have a...

02:01:04.500 No, I mean, like, I don't want a girl with a big labia.

02:01:07.920 I have the girl.

02:01:09.060 She's going to text me right now.

02:01:10.600 Oh, like, the secret?

02:01:11.540 Like, manifest?

02:01:12.400 Yeah.

02:01:13.180 You've got to manifest that shit like you already have it.

02:01:15.660 You've got to be so delusional that it comes true.

02:01:18.880 Big labia energy.

02:01:20.400 Yes.

02:01:20.760 Big labia energy.

02:01:21.880 Big labia energy.

02:01:22.780 I love that.

02:01:23.240 It's 100%.

02:01:23.940 Yeah, I will only, only date women.

02:01:27.540 They got the surgery, too.

02:01:30.240 Can they extend it?

02:01:31.180 Andrew is also, you know, look, I know we're joking.

02:01:33.740 I know we're joking around here a little bit, but I'm serious.

02:01:37.280 But I'm joking.

02:01:38.580 But I'm serious.

02:01:39.920 I have a nonprofit organization, and this is actually, this is the serious thing.

02:01:45.360 Andrew's on the board of directors.

02:01:47.740 We're going 501c3 any day now.

02:01:52.820 Nonprofit.

02:01:53.440 We're going to start fundraising.

02:01:54.680 There it is.

02:01:55.260 Big Labia Matter.

02:01:55.960 BLM.

02:01:57.300 Tax write-off.

02:01:58.380 Tax write-off.

02:01:59.700 Start the nonprofit.

02:02:00.960 That's how you do it.

02:02:01.720 U-U's B-L-M?

02:02:05.600 What?

02:02:06.360 Yeah.

02:02:07.000 Okay.

02:02:07.720 Yeah, it stands for Big Labia Matter.

02:02:10.300 I'm just curious.

02:02:11.200 What's the problem there?

02:02:14.200 Yo.

02:02:14.680 Is there something wrong with Big Labia Matter?

02:02:19.820 What's your objection?

02:02:21.060 Nah, it just caught me off guard.

02:02:23.260 You know Black Lives Matter, so I was automatically thinking, like, hold on.

02:02:31.000 Wait a minute.

02:02:31.860 Should I change it?

02:02:36.760 Do I need to change it?

02:02:37.940 You already talked about you African-American.

02:02:40.420 That's right, so I get a pass.

02:02:42.140 I get a pass.

02:02:43.120 Oh, my God.

02:02:44.860 Fuck.

02:02:45.820 But I didn't give you the pass.

02:02:47.700 Wait, am I being insensitive to that?

02:02:50.240 No, because there's so much.

02:02:51.680 You want to change it because there's so many like that.

02:02:54.240 I don't think.

02:02:55.320 You've got Blue Lives Matter, Black Lives Matter, now Big Labia Matters.

02:02:58.520 Now everyone gets the protest fight of what BLM stands for.

02:03:01.960 Look.

02:03:02.720 We're all saying BLM.

02:03:03.140 Nobody owns an acronym, okay?

02:03:06.120 Nobody gets to own an acronym.

02:03:08.260 I can use the acronym.

02:03:12.060 Trademark.

02:03:13.880 Tears.

02:03:14.360 You have to get BLM tatted on your forehead now.

02:03:17.740 I'm actually going to.

02:03:20.120 That's a good idea.

02:03:21.560 You know, it would be smart to collide the two.

02:03:24.120 You would get a lot more sales.

02:03:26.480 Big Black Labias Matter.

02:03:28.060 Big Black Labia.

02:03:30.080 Is that it?

02:03:30.780 Hey, but they do talk about the BBC, so I feel like it would be fair.

02:03:34.440 Yes, BBLM.

02:03:35.240 There's not enough advocacy for.

02:03:38.900 This is an intersectional organization.

02:03:41.540 Not only do we care about Big Labia.

02:03:43.300 We specifically, we have D.I.E.

02:03:46.900 We need to have fair representation.

02:03:50.120 Big Black Labia Matter.

02:03:52.920 I agree.

02:03:54.960 Maybe we throw in some dwarf.

02:03:57.300 Yes.

02:03:57.900 You can get everyone.

02:03:58.980 Big Black Dwarf Labia Matter.

02:04:01.000 Oh, my God.

02:04:02.700 Trans Labias Matter.

02:04:04.020 This is off the rails, off the rails, and I blame it all on Andrew Wilson.

02:04:09.140 Blame it all on Andrew Wilson.

02:04:10.980 Okay, let's get back to the show.

02:04:13.300 I mean, that's fair.

02:04:15.320 That's fair.

02:04:15.820 That's fair.

02:04:16.440 That's fair.

02:04:19.080 So, have you ever turned down the guy in the past because he didn't make seven figures?

02:04:27.440 It's not because he didn't make seven figures, but it's because I didn't see us having a lifestyle that I would be comfortable in.

02:04:41.380 I want to be, that's a big thing for me is that I really want to be financially comfortable.

02:04:47.240 Okay.

02:04:47.420 Do you want to be stay-at-home, stay-at-home wife?

02:04:52.320 I don't, my current relationship I'm in, we are pretty much on the same page about not wanting to have kids.

02:04:59.760 So, I would still keep on having a career and having my own money, but I would like for him to be providing for the most part.

02:05:09.940 Okay.

02:05:10.620 But I think if I were to be having kids, then of course I'd want someone who's going to be providing 100%.

02:05:15.660 But I think women should have their own money.

02:05:18.340 How old, just curious, how old is your current boyfriend?

02:05:20.700 He is turning 39 next week.

02:05:23.560 39.

02:05:24.200 And you said he's not quite at 100K?

02:05:27.600 Or does he earn?

02:05:28.900 He, his income is an interesting situation because he owns a home where he is a landlord on the property for different tenants that are living there.

02:05:41.700 While he pursues his own, like, creative endeavors.

02:05:45.420 And if you're watching this, hun, you are a little bit of a Nepo baby.

02:05:49.060 So, but not too much, not too much.

02:05:52.080 Okay.

02:05:52.580 Yeah.

02:05:53.560 So, you said in the previous message you were in the top 2% of OnlyFans in 2021.

02:06:02.880 You've also run some of the top accounts in the 0.01%.

02:06:07.160 Yeah.

02:06:08.140 So, I was doing, are we allowed to say the full name or should we say OF?

02:06:14.680 You can say OF.

02:06:15.600 That's fine.

02:06:16.060 Okay.

02:06:16.660 So, yeah, I was on OF for about a year and a half during the pandemic.

02:06:21.740 And then I got into a relationship and stopped being active.

02:06:27.860 But I started working at an agency.

02:06:30.400 And the agency had a few different branches to it.

02:06:32.880 And one of them was running OF accounts.

02:06:36.200 So, I was basically helping with the running of certain people's accounts.

02:06:44.960 Okay.

02:06:46.960 Wait, a couple questions for you.

02:06:48.440 So, did you do plus size modeling too?

02:06:50.780 Yes.

02:06:51.800 But I saw on your Instagram, you're like, you're trying to lose weight currently, right?

02:06:55.620 You're dieting.

02:06:56.340 Yeah.

02:06:56.360 I've lost 70 pounds.

02:06:58.660 Congratulations.

02:06:59.860 Oh, sorry.

02:07:00.200 I meant to.

02:07:02.180 I'm sorry.

02:07:02.900 They're right next to you.

02:07:03.600 I pressed the wrong one.

02:07:04.340 Um, congratulations.

02:07:06.940 Thank you.

02:07:07.400 I need to lose some.

02:07:08.320 I need.

02:07:08.780 Have you, have you tried Ozempic?

02:07:10.600 No.

02:07:11.200 I need to get, I need to get on that shit.

02:07:12.620 I got to lose.

02:07:14.100 I got to lose a bit of weight.

02:07:15.060 My friend works with the company.

02:07:15.940 Me and Andrew.

02:07:16.460 Just count.

02:07:17.160 Me and Andrew, we're joining Weight Watchers any week now.

02:07:19.920 Any week it's happening.

02:07:21.260 It's a scam.

02:07:21.340 Yeah, I think Weight Watchers probably isn't the best for, I don't know, for, they're, they're

02:07:28.680 an interesting way to lose weight, I guess.

02:07:31.940 I lost 20 pounds and got lean muscle when I quit seed oils.

02:07:35.060 You're right.

02:07:35.500 Me and Andrew are actually going to do Thai Bo classes together.

02:07:38.260 Fuck seed oils.

02:07:39.000 Get the seed oil scout thing.

02:07:40.740 Is Thai Bo still a thing?

02:07:42.380 Andrew, do you want to do like Thai Bo classes?

02:07:45.560 We got to wear like leggings though if we do it.

02:07:47.780 Okay, Andrew?

02:07:48.760 With the shorts on top of them.

02:07:50.140 Yeah.

02:07:50.560 Yeah.

02:07:51.340 You ready for Thai Bo class, Andrew?

02:07:55.480 Andrew?

02:07:56.300 I think I'll pass on Thai Bo.

02:07:57.860 I thought we were going to keep each other accountable, Andrew.

02:08:02.100 I'm going to fly, I'm going to fly over there.

02:08:04.500 I'm not, I'm flying over there and we're not going to do content.

02:08:10.580 We're not going to talk business.

02:08:12.060 We're not even going to shoot guns.

02:08:13.540 We're just going to do Thai Bo classes.

02:08:16.420 That's it.

02:08:17.100 No, no, no Thai Bo.

02:08:18.960 No Thai Bo.

02:08:19.680 Is, okay.

02:08:20.920 All right.

02:08:21.240 Well, you know, you're lost.

02:08:22.540 Whatever.

02:08:23.160 Yeah, I know.

02:08:23.740 What was I, what am I thinking?

02:08:25.160 Uh, so, uh, uh, what was I, oh, um, do you think I, I have a shot as a plus size model?

02:08:34.940 How tall are you?

02:08:37.800 Six feet.

02:08:39.300 Six foot one.

02:08:40.320 Honestly, probably.

02:08:41.400 Yeah.

02:08:41.560 For like DXL.

02:08:42.760 If you know that company.

02:08:44.560 It's like, okay.

02:08:45.840 So plus size women fashion doesn't really have that.

02:08:48.560 I mean, they have a good amount of options compared to the early two thousands, but in regards

02:08:52.680 to men's plus size fashion, they don't have like hardly any options, but DXL is a store

02:08:59.780 that they can physically go in person, at least mostly in Southern California.

02:09:04.360 And, um, yeah, it's like one of the only in-person plus size male retailers.

02:09:10.200 So I have a shot then.

02:09:13.340 I think so.

02:09:14.420 What size do you wear?

02:09:16.140 Bra?

02:09:17.280 No, just like shirt and pants.

02:09:19.220 Oh, uh, like XL right now, but I should probably like try to get back down to an L.

02:09:25.840 Honestly, you could try.

02:09:27.380 Is six one your real height?

02:09:28.220 It's like XL, is like XL plus size?

02:09:30.740 Um, it's like, it's like you're a midsize at that point, I guess.

02:09:35.820 Is that real, is that your real height or do you like to?

02:09:38.520 I think my pants is like way bigger.

02:09:40.460 Cause like the chat keeps telling me that I have like a fatty.

02:09:45.740 In the front of the back.

02:09:47.560 No, definitely in the back.

02:09:48.620 A dumpy?

02:09:49.200 Wait, what's a fat, what's a fatty in the front?

02:09:51.700 Like a fupa?

02:09:52.420 Like a fupa?

02:09:53.460 Like a fupa?

02:09:54.380 No, no, no, don't have that yet.

02:09:56.360 Okay.

02:09:56.820 Maybe eventually.

02:09:57.980 A couple more burgers.

02:09:58.800 Well, let's hope not.

02:10:01.160 But no, they like keep telling me I have like a, like a dumpy or whatever, but so I might

02:10:05.600 be like XXL.

02:10:07.320 So XX.

02:10:08.400 On the bottom?

02:10:09.280 On the bottom.

02:10:09.960 And L on the top?

02:10:11.660 XL on the top.

02:10:12.460 You're like pear shaped.

02:10:14.160 What's?

02:10:15.000 Oh my gosh.

02:10:16.380 What the fuck?

02:10:17.860 You're shaped like a pear if you've got a big top.

02:10:19.920 Morgan, do that again, Morgan.

02:10:21.760 Do it again, Morgan.

02:10:23.180 What the hell?

02:10:24.480 That's crazy.

02:10:25.460 Yeah.

02:10:26.760 Yeah.

02:10:27.160 I think, honestly, I think Calvin Klein should hire me.

02:10:33.140 They've hired plus size people.

02:10:35.780 Like, I think it's time for plus size male representation.

02:10:38.180 There's a chick with the gap too.

02:10:39.300 There's a chick with the gap too.

02:10:39.600 Male representation.

02:10:40.460 They hire anybody these days.

02:10:42.460 Oh.

02:10:42.960 Yeah.

02:10:43.120 Yo, Calvin Klein, get at me.

02:10:45.680 Me too.

02:10:46.480 Me too.

02:10:47.720 You're going to be plus size too?

02:10:49.180 I'm going to try.

02:10:50.160 I want to honestly.

02:10:50.880 I can gain a few pounds.

02:10:51.820 Oh my gosh.

02:10:52.380 Do not try to be plus size please.

02:10:54.060 You can start doing mook bangs.

02:10:56.360 Oh yeah.

02:10:56.800 Oh, like that one.

02:10:57.220 Have you seen Jelly Bean Sweets?

02:10:59.420 The rapper?

02:11:00.560 What?

02:11:00.840 No.

02:11:01.660 The mook banger.

02:11:02.420 She's a mook banger.

02:11:03.480 You know who I'm talking about?

02:11:04.620 Probably.

02:11:05.020 Okay.

02:11:05.540 I watched that stuff all the time.

02:11:07.280 She's blowing up in a lot of ways.

02:11:10.180 Oh my gosh.

02:11:11.760 Her stomach.

02:11:13.020 She knows what she's doing.

02:11:15.400 Let's see.

02:11:16.240 In your notes, you said your entire dating history is wild.

02:11:18.900 Loads of stories dated and traveled the United States for hours.

02:11:21.820 For eight months, I can tell you about my experience dating in Chicago, New York City, Vegas, and L.A.

02:11:27.240 I've dated millionaires.

02:11:28.680 I've also dated guys who took me to McDonald's and to walk in the park on the first date.

02:11:34.760 It's true.

02:11:35.440 So now that I have what I would consider higher standards for dating, I did not have the standards that you see here today at 28 when I was younger.

02:11:46.460 I feel that.

02:11:47.520 I feel that.

02:11:48.060 And I feel like being part of, like, the OF world kind of opened me up to having these experiences with, like, dating men who had, like, more resources, I guess, to offer.

02:12:02.040 So your standards have increased since your youth?

02:12:06.640 Yes.

02:12:07.120 That's pretty typical, I would say.

02:12:13.740 Hmm.

02:12:17.740 Wait.

02:12:18.260 Did you do any, like, pay pig stuff?

02:12:20.600 Like, the guys were pay pigs?

02:12:21.680 Oh, like, I'm a dominatrix or something?

02:12:23.860 Like, fin dom?

02:12:25.040 No.

02:12:25.580 Not really.

02:12:26.680 But you had, like, sugar daddies.

02:12:28.120 Um, I guess, I don't really know if I would consider them that, but I guess guys online would send me money, so.

02:12:37.880 Any girl here, just show of hands, had a sugar daddy?

02:12:41.000 My actual dad.

02:12:43.200 He sends me money.

02:12:45.240 Nah, not even my actual dad.

02:12:49.060 Um, okay.

02:12:51.400 May want to think about retracting that statement.

02:12:53.860 Yeah, maybe a little bit.

02:12:58.080 Um, wait, so, okay.

02:13:02.280 But you don't do OF anymore.

02:13:03.540 Why did you quit?

02:13:04.700 Because I got into a relationship with a guy who was willing to provide me a certain lifestyle.

02:13:13.920 So I left and, um, just didn't feel like it was right for me to get back into.

02:13:20.560 I kind of realized that I was interested in talking to just one guy and not talking to a bunch of people on the site.

02:13:29.920 What's the wealthiest guy you ever dated?

02:13:32.900 Any billionaire?

02:13:34.540 No billionaire, but one of my exes was making, like, $300K a year.

02:13:40.140 Okay.

02:13:40.580 Yeah.

02:13:41.820 Nice.

02:13:42.560 Nice.

02:13:43.500 Uh, you said topics you wanted to talk on.

02:13:45.960 Dating men with money while plus size.

02:13:47.580 Dating while plus size in general.

02:13:49.120 Dating while losing weight.

02:13:50.560 And desirability politics.

02:13:52.660 What's desirability politics?

02:13:54.560 Kind of like what I was saying before with, you asked me, oh, do, something about, like, the scale from, like, because I know you guys rate each other through one through ten.

02:14:06.340 We can do that.

02:14:08.480 Right now.

02:14:09.740 I mean, I don't run the podcast.

02:14:13.300 I don't know.

02:14:13.900 Oh, so desirability politics, essentially, just where you land in the dating marketplace in terms of your desirability.

02:14:21.760 Yeah.

02:14:22.420 But what are the politics of that?

02:14:24.780 I guess just, like, how people feel about, like, where certain people stand.

02:14:29.460 Sure.

02:14:29.720 Um, uh, you know what?

02:14:33.720 That's a great suggestion.

02:14:34.880 Perfect timing.

02:14:36.160 Stifler asked everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.

02:14:39.060 You can't pick seven.

02:14:41.320 Starting with you.

02:14:42.060 Go ahead.

02:14:43.100 I would give myself a realistic 6.5.

02:14:46.820 Oh, my God.

02:14:52.620 Ruited, Andrew.

02:14:54.140 Okay.

02:14:59.140 Oh, wait.

02:15:01.760 I wasn't muted?

02:15:02.660 I'm sorry.

02:15:06.140 Yeah, dude, we could hear.

02:15:07.420 We heard that, Andrew.

02:15:09.000 Oh, I'm sorry about that, man.

02:15:10.260 We could see you, too.

02:15:13.440 I was laughing at something my chat said.

02:15:15.240 If you don't agree with my 6.5, that's okay.

02:15:19.240 That's your opinion.

02:15:20.240 What about you?

02:15:22.100 Um, I've been working on my body and, like, going to the gym every day, eating healthy.

02:15:25.960 So, I'd say a 9, 10, because I want to get there.

02:15:29.040 I'm, like, I feel confident in myself.

02:15:32.080 That's why I say that.

02:15:32.780 I'm not everyone's, like, 10 or 9 or 8.

02:15:35.560 But I get it, you know.

02:15:38.300 How long have you been sober?

02:15:39.920 Uh, almost three years.

02:15:41.740 Oh, okay.

02:15:42.300 And I work, you know, I eat healthy.

02:15:43.820 So, I'm, like, I feel confident in myself and, like, where my body's at and everything.

02:15:49.020 Where before, I would have looked in the mirror instead of zero.

02:15:52.340 So, 10?

02:15:53.900 9, because I want to, I'm still working on getting exactly where I want.

02:15:58.040 Also, I want to have the chat rate you on something.

02:16:01.140 Chat, rate her voice on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:16:04.740 Because I think a lot of guys kind of like the more raspy voice.

02:16:08.460 I practiced it for music.

02:16:10.800 Oh, you practiced the raspy voice?

02:16:12.860 Six years ago.

02:16:13.840 And it kind of, you know, like that, uh, the Elvis movie where he just, like, kept that voice.

02:16:17.680 That's kind of, like, what happened to me.

02:16:19.240 I don't know.

02:16:19.520 I've seen, I've had, like, some videos and shows where girls will have a bit more of a raspy voice.

02:16:24.840 A lot of guys really like the raspy voice.

02:16:26.880 I've heard that.

02:16:27.120 So, I'm curious.

02:16:27.940 Uh, so, what is it?

02:16:28.920 One in the chat?

02:16:30.220 How about just, I don't know.

02:16:31.420 Do you guys prefer raspy?

02:16:32.680 I don't know.

02:16:33.580 Whatever.

02:16:33.860 Uh, what about you?

02:16:35.180 Um, I rate myself a 10 always because I look better and better every single day, regardless

02:16:44.380 of what happens.

02:16:45.340 And I need to always think that of myself.

02:16:48.280 Okay.

02:16:48.300 10.

02:16:49.840 8 on a great day.

02:16:51.200 Um, I don't want to come off vain, but I also don't want to feed into that question

02:16:59.900 because I feel like he likes to just see women, like, to either degrade themselves or look

02:17:04.500 arrogant.

02:17:05.220 So, I'm just going to leave that to God.

02:17:07.080 Wait, who's he?

02:17:08.620 Whoever Stifler is.

02:17:10.440 Oh, Stifler?

02:17:12.320 Yeah.

02:17:12.840 Stephen Stifler.

02:17:15.080 Stifler.

02:17:15.720 Yeah, but I think I'm beautiful inside and out.

02:17:18.740 Um, so, 10?

02:17:20.240 I wouldn't say 10.

02:17:21.800 That's kind of vain.

02:17:24.700 But I'm not going to rate myself because I don't like that question.

02:17:35.860 If you did like the question, though, what would you, oh my God, I'm such a goblin.

02:17:42.220 Do you have a number in your head that you know is an answer?

02:17:46.440 No.

02:17:48.420 I don't.

02:17:50.240 Is it a 10, but you don't want to sound arrogant?

02:17:58.160 Well, she's saying she doesn't want to sound vague.

02:18:00.060 She really isn't arrogant.

02:18:01.220 No, I really don't.

02:18:02.040 I really just.

02:18:03.780 I really just don't know the purpose of asking that question.

02:18:07.180 I think it has some, like, malice behind it.

02:18:09.800 And I don't really appreciate it.

02:18:11.640 So, I don't want to feed into it.

02:18:14.140 Hmm.

02:18:14.380 Okay.

02:18:16.180 I'll get back to that in a sec.

02:18:17.920 Mia, what about you?

02:18:19.020 I'd rate myself an eight and a half.

02:18:21.160 Okay.

02:18:21.940 I feel like.

02:18:23.020 Morgan.

02:18:23.800 Eight.

02:18:26.720 Ava.

02:18:27.120 I said six last time.

02:18:32.960 I would do seven, maybe, if we were allowed.

02:18:35.940 He said you can't do seven.

02:18:37.680 I said I would if it was allowed.

02:18:39.280 Oh, if it was allowed.

02:18:40.100 Okay.

02:18:40.360 But it's not, so.

02:18:41.660 Okay.

02:18:42.060 All right.

02:18:42.680 There you go.

02:18:43.760 I give myself a five.

02:18:45.460 Andrew, what about you?

02:18:47.480 Four.

02:18:49.200 All right.

02:18:50.580 I need to get up for a sec, Andrew.

02:18:52.140 Do you have any inquisition?

02:18:53.420 Do you have an inquisition?

02:18:54.560 Inquisition?

02:18:55.060 What the fuck?

02:18:55.660 An inquisition?

02:18:56.420 I do have an inquisition or two.

02:18:58.320 Begin your inquiry, sir.

02:18:59.620 Go ahead.

02:19:00.300 Yeah.

02:19:01.640 So, I was going to ask you.

02:19:04.100 I'm sorry I wasn't able to catch everybody's name because I'm a little late to the broadcast.

02:19:07.540 The gal with the pink hair, what did you say your name was?

02:19:10.220 Star.

02:19:11.380 Star.

02:19:11.940 It's nice to meet you, Star.

02:19:12.820 I understand why you don't want to rate yourself because you find it to be like a trick question.

02:19:21.380 But it's really not a trick question.

02:19:23.160 I feel like if I can explain to you why this question is asked, you'll be far more likely

02:19:27.500 to answer it.

02:19:29.140 So, the reason that this question is asked is because it's our belief that many, many women

02:19:35.740 actually judge each other the second they sit down at the table.

02:19:39.280 The second they sit down at the table with other women.

02:19:41.600 And if we can get a full camera view of the room real quick, can you raise your hand if

02:19:48.240 this is correct that you have either experienced this or done it yourself, which is okay.

02:19:54.080 You've gotten in a room with other women and you immediately, yeah, rate their looks.

02:19:58.920 Yeah.

02:20:00.100 Yeah.

02:20:00.840 Yep.

02:20:01.600 Right.

02:20:01.880 So, because we know that this is true, because that is the number one most common answer,

02:20:07.000 we feel like when we ask this question to you guys, you don't actually want to hurt any

02:20:11.620 of the other gals' feelings who might be there.

02:20:14.100 And so, you answer perhaps dishonestly, even though we know the chances are pretty good that

02:20:19.940 you've already been comparing yourself to probably every other woman who's sitting at

02:20:23.520 that table.

02:20:24.020 So, that's what the purpose of the question is.

02:20:26.280 It's not really a trick.

02:20:27.660 It's just to kind of assess which gals are going to be honest with us and which ones are

02:20:33.440 not going to be honest with us.

02:20:34.620 That's really what the point of it is.

02:20:36.800 Does that make sense?

02:20:38.600 I think that's your point, but I don't think that was Stifler's point.

02:20:43.200 I think that a lot of guys that watch this have an animosity towards women and they want

02:20:48.500 us to rate ourselves to look like a fool or something, either to look arrogant or to

02:20:53.780 look overconfident or to degrade ourselves.

02:20:57.360 How can you look like a fool if you tell the truth?

02:21:00.940 I just don't think rating myself is something I owe Stifler.

02:21:05.460 Well, you don't owe it to him, no, but you can understand that it seems like kind of foolish

02:21:11.140 to me to say, well, me telling the truth is going to make me look foolish.

02:21:15.360 I mean, that's not going to make you look foolish, right?

02:21:17.100 The more honest you are with your answer, the less foolish you're going to look.

02:21:20.120 In fact, you can even play it against Stifler and give yourself a rating, which is more of

02:21:25.680 an assessment of what you actually think.

02:21:28.280 And that'll probably actually, the joke's on him then, right?

02:21:32.960 Well, just doing social media, I just don't respond to comments that I don't want to.

02:21:37.880 And I don't want to respond to his comment because he seems weird.

02:21:42.360 Okay, well, let me ask you a different question.

02:21:45.380 Who would you say, from your own personal opinion, is the prettiest girl sitting at

02:21:49.980 the table?

02:21:52.260 The prettiest girl sitting at the table?

02:21:55.280 Mm-hmm.

02:21:57.280 I don't know what's the point of you asking that because I think inner beauty is more important.

02:22:00.880 Okay, well, then let me ask you a different question then.

02:22:04.180 Between myself and Brian, which one do you think is better looking?

02:22:09.560 Damn, bro.

02:22:10.960 Why you got it?

02:22:13.500 I mean, none of you guys are my type, so I don't really see it that way.

02:22:17.840 I just see two men.

02:22:18.180 Yeah, no, I mean, that's fine.

02:22:19.960 We can both be ugly.

02:22:21.400 I mean, that's perfectly acceptable.

02:22:22.800 I do like white guys, but just 21-year-olds, maybe, Christian.

02:22:28.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:22:28.720 No, that's totally fair.

02:22:29.920 He's an Orthodox Christian.

02:22:31.040 Yeah, but the point of the question is just to assess, you know, like, from your own subjective

02:22:37.860 opinion, yes, we're not your type.

02:22:39.760 Maybe we're both ones.

02:22:40.860 That's totally acceptable, too, right?

02:22:44.720 Not going to hurt our feelings, I promise.

02:22:47.860 Even that comment there just gave me, like, bad vibes.

02:22:52.600 I just know the vibe.

02:22:53.760 I know the energy behind it, and I don't feed into negative energy like that.

02:22:59.060 What's the negative energy?

02:23:03.540 Intuitively, it's not good.

02:23:06.260 It's variance.

02:23:07.740 It's trying to be argumentative for something I don't think is good for my spirit.

02:23:13.860 I think if you answer the question, it would have been easier, and it wouldn't, but as

02:23:19.340 argumentative, I think it's more argumentative that you keep on dragging it along and saying,

02:23:22.840 I don't want to answer.

02:23:23.300 You could just answer.

02:23:24.300 You could give an honest or a fake answer.

02:23:26.980 Vain or not, you could just give an answer.

02:23:28.760 When he asked who's the prettiest, I saw you look around first.

02:23:32.780 Right.

02:23:33.160 She actually contemplated.

02:23:34.440 It's like, you looked around, so I was like, and then you said you don't want to answer.

02:23:40.160 Like, after you looked around at all of us.

02:23:42.660 Right.

02:23:43.280 I just don't understand why I can't not answer.

02:23:46.100 Like, I don't owe Stifler an answer.

02:23:47.020 You can not answer, and you don't owe anything.

02:23:51.200 And nobody's saying you owe anybody anything.

02:23:52.900 Nobody's saying you must answer.

02:23:54.680 The reason that we're wondering why you won't is just simple.

02:23:58.260 I just want the simple reasoning.

02:24:00.080 Is it just because you don't want to hurt anybody's feelings?

02:24:05.420 I don't know, because answering the question wouldn't hurt anyone's feelings.

02:24:08.960 Okay.

02:24:09.440 Are you prettier than the girl in chair one?

02:24:12.840 That would be the one sitting directly across from Brian.

02:24:15.240 I'm not going to say if I'm prettier than anybody.

02:24:16.180 It's simply because I just think that the reason he asked it is because.

02:24:20.060 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:24:20.080 You're not prettier than anybody at the table.

02:24:22.800 You really think that?

02:24:24.340 No, I'm saying that I don't, like, look.

02:24:26.680 I'm not comparing myself like that.

02:24:29.140 Oh.

02:24:29.540 Like, I'm not over here, like, sizing everyone up.

02:24:32.500 Like, I'm prettier than this person.

02:24:34.040 It's just that.

02:24:34.820 Really?

02:24:35.180 It's simply because I don't like his question.

02:24:38.220 Why are you asking me to rape myself?

02:24:40.540 If any guy asked me that, I wouldn't answer it.

02:24:43.360 Okay.

02:24:47.040 I mean, I can't force you to answer.

02:24:49.460 It just seems very disingenuous, right?

02:24:51.500 I genuinely don't want to answer it.

02:24:53.820 And you genuinely don't have to.

02:24:55.240 So I won't.

02:24:55.600 I won't.

02:24:55.640 Oh, there was something.

02:25:00.840 I totally missed it.

02:25:01.840 Shit.

02:25:06.740 Well, if it comes to me, I'll try to remember it.

02:25:09.240 Well, kind of related to this going around the table, we asked this kind of as a follow-up question.

02:25:13.480 And just to give a bit of context, because you're asking, like, why do people ask these kind of questions?

02:25:19.880 Why does it matter?

02:25:20.400 I definitely think, like, how you self-evaluate yourself is really important when it comes to dating.

02:25:27.860 So that's – and obviously, looks is really important when it comes to dating.

02:25:32.340 So combine looks and then self-evaluation.

02:25:35.560 That's going to dictate what you think you deserve in the dating marketplace.

02:25:39.100 It's going to dictate what kind of partner you can get, what kind of, you know, things you can ask for, your standards, those sort of things.

02:25:46.880 So that's kind of one of the reasons why I think Stifler and Definitely Not the Whatever podcast asks it.

02:25:53.400 That's definitely why Stifler definitely asks it.

02:25:57.260 Definitely not ever the Whatever podcast.

02:25:59.980 But going around the table, do you think you will be better looking in 10 years' time as compared to now, starting with you?

02:26:09.060 In 10 years, I would be 38.

02:26:13.060 And I hope just keep getting better and better.

02:26:15.580 So, yeah.

02:26:17.240 Okay.

02:26:18.040 What about in 20 years' time?

02:26:21.920 I've seen it.

02:26:23.040 Like, I've seen some women online and in person who I know.

02:26:26.840 And they age like fine wine.

02:26:28.780 I think they just get better and better looking.

02:26:31.060 So I think it's possible.

02:26:32.980 Okay.

02:26:33.220 What about 30 years' time?

02:26:38.120 To a certain group, maybe, yes.

02:26:41.160 To a certain group, maybe, no.

02:26:42.700 I don't know.

02:26:43.400 In 30 years, it depends on, I guess, what you value in regards to, like, dating and beauty.

02:26:49.760 Because by the time I'm, like, 60, it's going to be an interesting dating pool and dating market, I guess.

02:26:59.420 So who – I think I want to try to frame this a little differently tonight.

02:27:03.800 And so when it comes to a – the heterosexual dating marketplace, who are the appraisers of physical attraction?

02:27:18.580 What do you mean?

02:27:19.820 So, okay.

02:27:21.100 Do you think that looks are important when it comes to dating?

02:27:24.220 Yeah.

02:27:24.740 I think that they play a factor.

02:27:26.920 And you date men, right?

02:27:28.360 Yes.

02:27:28.760 And do you think men care a lot, a little, medium amount, about looks?

02:27:33.660 I think they care about looks generally pretty high.

02:27:40.240 Okay.

02:27:40.420 I think there's other factors that come into play besides just looks.

02:27:45.740 And so the question reframed is then, at what age do you think of the entire population of men, do you think you will have the most amount of men attracted to you?

02:28:00.520 Currently at 28, 38, 48, 58, 68?

02:28:05.060 Because you said you would be better looking at 58, so then would it stand to reason that the vast majority – the majority of men would find you at your most attractive at 58?

02:28:17.880 I would say majority probably wouldn't because I guess the majority of men we're thinking about are looking maybe to get married and have children.

02:28:27.060 And at that age, I wouldn't be seen as desirable to men who are interested in doing that.

02:28:34.380 But maybe to people who, like your sound, gilfs, they would be into it.

02:28:40.040 So it depends on the guy, I guess.

02:28:42.640 Okay.

02:28:44.500 And then – because just one other point of clarification.

02:28:48.540 So when we're asking this question, we're not saying that women can't be attractive at 38, 48, beyond, et cetera.

02:28:55.160 We're just asking, compared to now, like yourself, will you be more attractive 10 years' time, 20 years' time, 30 years' time, et cetera?

02:29:07.580 So far, I feel like I've gotten more attractive as I age.

02:29:12.260 So maybe not my peak at 38, but I think maybe like 32 I'll probably be the most attractive in my own opinion.

02:29:20.340 Got it.

02:29:20.700 And then are you more attractive now at 28 than you were at 18?

02:29:25.160 I would say yes.

02:29:31.520 Okay.

02:29:32.420 All right.

02:29:33.340 What about you?

02:29:34.180 You're 20.

02:29:35.020 Do you think you'll be more attractive at 30 than you are now?

02:29:38.660 My mom is the most beautiful person I know, and she aged like fine wine.

02:29:42.040 Even my friends are like hitting on her.

02:29:43.780 So I think –

02:29:44.400 I took some milk.

02:29:46.100 Pretty much.

02:29:47.340 Not for me, though, but obviously.

02:29:49.240 But also –

02:29:50.200 How old's your mom?

02:29:51.660 She's 57.

02:29:53.100 She's older.

02:29:54.020 My parents –

02:29:55.240 Wait, your like 20-year-old male friends are hitting on your mom?

02:29:59.000 My actual porn star friend, he's hitting on my grandma who's 90s – 86.

02:30:07.040 It took some MILF.

02:30:07.880 GILF.

02:30:09.960 What?

02:30:10.480 And my grandma hits on him back, by the way.

02:30:13.180 What?

02:30:15.100 That's crazy.

02:30:15.600 She asked for a video of his porn.

02:30:18.260 So basically my – oh, my God.

02:30:21.500 She goes, yeah, it just keeps popping up on my phone now.

02:30:24.940 Bro.

02:30:25.700 Yeah.

02:30:26.480 But, yeah.

02:30:27.580 That's disgusting.

02:30:28.200 I can't believe you even said that on YouTube.

02:30:30.260 You see what you just said on YouTube?

02:30:31.340 Oh, yeah.

02:30:31.780 I'm sorry to the world.

02:30:32.840 Please don't listen to this.

02:30:33.900 I'm sorry for her.

02:30:34.880 I'll pray for her.

02:30:35.540 Basically, my whole family is beautiful, so I feel like I'm going to age good.

02:30:40.680 Okay.

02:30:42.200 So, better looking at 30 then?

02:30:47.080 No.

02:30:49.160 I'm just saying I'll look good at 30.

02:30:50.620 Stop it.

02:30:51.660 Get some help.

02:30:53.280 I'm just saying I'll look good at 30.

02:30:57.140 Am I not making sense?

02:30:58.300 You gave that whole preamble.

02:31:00.020 Am I making sense?

02:31:00.820 You gave that whole like buildup.

02:31:02.720 No, I mean –

02:31:03.600 The buildup is just like I know I'm going to be hot like for the rest of my life,

02:31:07.120 but like I'm peaking right now, I feel like.

02:31:09.280 Oh, okay.

02:31:10.100 Yeah, because the question is just will you be better looking in 10 years' time?

02:31:13.560 I'm –

02:31:14.080 You'll still be attractive, but you're saying now is like the peak.

02:31:18.020 It's prime time.

02:31:18.760 Prime time.

02:31:19.220 It gets worse from 20.

02:31:20.240 Prime time at Arby's.

02:31:23.240 That didn't make sense.

02:31:23.880 They have the meat.

02:31:24.600 I don't know.

02:31:26.760 Yeah, there you go.

02:31:28.200 Hashtag make play be a matter.

02:31:30.200 All right.

02:31:30.600 What about you?

02:31:31.520 You're 20.

02:31:32.120 Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?

02:31:34.120 Yes.

02:31:35.280 20 years' time?

02:31:36.640 At 40?

02:31:38.440 Compared to 20?

02:31:41.360 Maybe.

02:31:42.120 Because, yeah, you're 20, so better looking at 30, better looking at 40.

02:31:44.940 Better looking at 30, yes.

02:31:46.600 Yes.

02:31:46.800 But 40?

02:31:48.120 Maybe.

02:31:48.740 Maybe.

02:31:49.400 What did you say last time?

02:31:52.080 I said yes.

02:31:53.280 Okay.

02:31:53.620 50?

02:31:55.200 Maybe.

02:31:55.560 60?

02:31:58.480 I don't know.

02:31:59.340 It's just because my family, they age, like, fat and, like, like.

02:32:05.640 Fat?

02:32:06.060 What do you mean?

02:32:06.380 Yes, like.

02:32:07.100 Wait, so why would you say yes?

02:32:08.520 pH fat?

02:32:08.940 No, like, what I mean is that, like, my family, they start to get all, like, depressed and,

02:32:14.600 like, it's just scary.

02:32:16.040 Like, they let go of themselves in a way of not even just physical appearance, but mental,

02:32:20.860 and it's just like, I don't know.

02:32:22.820 I hope I don't look like that.

02:32:23.480 Well, skip Madison, because we've heard her answer a million times.

02:32:26.680 Star, what about you?

02:32:29.060 I don't know.

02:32:30.560 It's possible.

02:32:32.380 You're 26, right?

02:32:34.960 Yeah.

02:32:35.980 I mean, I get better looking every year.

02:32:38.840 I don't know when it'll stop.

02:32:40.620 Do you think you'll be better looking at 36 than you are now at 26?

02:32:46.460 Possibly, because maybe I'll be more fit and work out more, because I don't really work out a lot right now.

02:32:50.840 What about in 10 years' time, another 10 years' time, so 20 years, 46, as compared to now at 26?

02:32:56.940 I mean, realistically, no.

02:32:59.760 Okay.

02:33:00.500 And then do you think you're better looking at 18 as compared to now?

02:33:04.480 No.

02:33:06.420 So better looking now.

02:33:07.720 Okay.

02:33:08.280 Mia?

02:33:09.340 I think I will definitely look very attractive when I'm older, but I think, as of right now, this is my peak.

02:33:15.160 Okay.

02:33:15.580 So better looking at 32 or no?

02:33:18.360 I think I'll definitely be very attractive.

02:33:20.260 I think I'll age well, but I don't think I'll be better looking at 32.

02:33:23.180 Okay.

02:33:23.260 Sure.

02:33:27.100 So I think it was just you and you that said better looking in 10, 20, 30 years' time.

02:33:31.440 Or also star, just for the 10 years, though.

02:33:34.600 I think, like, five years' time.

02:33:37.840 Maybe not 10.

02:33:38.880 Oh, that's when you'll peak in five years.

02:33:40.920 Around that.

02:33:41.820 Oh, I see.

02:33:42.620 Okay.

02:33:44.440 Okay.

02:33:47.220 Interesting.

02:33:47.580 Interesting answers.

02:33:51.080 Are you going to look better in 10 years?

02:33:53.120 No.

02:33:54.480 It's downhill from here, huh?

02:33:55.720 Actually, I mean, there can be arguments that can be made.

02:33:59.000 I don't fully buy into, like, the whole, like, across the board, men age like, that whole men age like fine wine.

02:34:05.480 I think there's differences between men and women.

02:34:07.940 There's definitely differences when you look at actual, they've done studies, and they'll have, like, women across all ages appraise men of various ages.

02:34:16.440 And you have men of all ages appraise women of all ages.

02:34:19.100 Women do have a tendency to, like, find men around their age a little bit older as the most attractive as they get older, whereas men, it tends to stay pretty static throughout their entire lives.

02:34:33.280 In terms of what they find most physically attractive, I think they typically put it between, like, 20 and 22.

02:34:38.800 I like older men, so I think guys just get more attractive.

02:34:41.740 Yeah.

02:34:42.940 Yeah.

02:34:43.220 Like, 50 cut off, but, you know, like.

02:34:45.680 But, I mean, there's plenty of guys who also don't.

02:34:49.120 People do let themselves go, but, like, if you're a fit, like, you know, Equinox, like, 48-year-old, you're my type.

02:34:55.620 Like, I think I was better looking when I'm 35.

02:34:58.480 I was better looking when I was 25, to be honest.

02:35:01.640 Even if I was, like, the exact same weight, I'm pretty confident I was better looking at 25.

02:35:06.660 I think you can make yourself as attractive as you want, like, your goals.

02:35:11.040 Can you?

02:35:11.660 Yeah.

02:35:11.920 I genuinely think that.

02:35:13.360 Not, like, plastic surgery.

02:35:14.700 I think if somebody works out and gets the type of body they want, their confidence goes with their style.

02:35:20.400 I think confidence is key to look attractive.

02:35:22.900 It's the way you walk.

02:35:24.060 It's the way you talk.

02:35:24.860 It's the way you dress, in my opinion.

02:35:26.680 I think everyone's attractive, but they just have to put the effort in.

02:35:29.960 Like, anyone can be successful, too.

02:35:32.860 I don't really feel like arguing that, but I think there's just some people that are kind of doomed.

02:35:39.480 Yeah.

02:35:39.760 I do agree to that.

02:35:40.860 That's fair.

02:35:41.920 Doomed.

02:35:42.720 Doomed.

02:35:43.100 Anyways, it's not really worth arguing that one, but did you have more of any more inquiry, Andrew?

02:35:49.760 Did you want to inquire?

02:35:50.240 I mean, I think that that is worth arguing a little bit, right?

02:35:53.540 So, confident and ugly is still ugly.

02:35:59.140 True.

02:35:59.540 I'm saying if you put in the work to be attractive, you can't be, like, the grossest looking person and have confidence.

02:36:05.880 I think confidence and effort go together hand in hand to get that attractiveness.

02:36:11.040 Like, if anyone here, like, I'm not saying anyone's bad.

02:36:14.020 I'm saying if anyone here wanted to, like, completely get just, like, ripped at the gym and, like, dress better, like, you could get there.

02:36:20.840 Like, I'm not...

02:36:52.040 I don't even disagree, but I think that it is mitigated by your physical characteristics more than anything else.

02:36:59.180 So, I think that your attractiveness is going to be your physical characteristics.

02:37:02.900 That's going to be the primary.

02:37:03.880 But then other kind of, like, subsets, like maybe a good sense of humor, confidence level, things like that, I think that those matter, but to a way lesser degree.

02:37:14.440 Would you agree with that?

02:37:15.760 I think everybody has a different type.

02:37:18.020 I think confidence is attractive, and I like, you know, different features than you might like and everyone else likes.

02:37:24.060 So, when somebody...

02:37:24.440 Hang on, hang on.

02:37:25.260 Let me stop real quick.

02:37:26.860 We'll just back up a little bit.

02:37:28.240 I'm not disputing that everybody's going to have different tastes.

02:37:31.720 They're all going to have different preferences, this kind of thing.

02:37:33.880 Some men like brunettes, some men like blondes, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

02:37:36.660 I agree with that.

02:37:38.620 However, there are beauty standards and characteristics.

02:37:41.740 Sure.

02:37:42.540 Which we can all agree we all pretty much want.

02:37:46.060 So, here, let me give you an example.

02:37:48.060 Raise your hand at the table if you would like to increase your weight.

02:37:56.080 You can raise it, Maddie.

02:37:57.320 Right?

02:37:57.360 Yeah, nothing.

02:37:58.040 Yeah, just maybe Madison, right?

02:38:01.740 So, one, out of all of you.

02:38:04.140 So, clearly, you must think that thinner is more attractive, right?

02:38:09.220 That's what I'm saying.

02:38:10.120 And these are like universals, though.

02:38:12.720 And if these are universals, then there has to be some things that we're all basically agreeing on when it comes to physical characteristics.

02:38:19.000 I think it depends on who you're asking because there is, like, that little subgroup online that's interested in larger women.

02:38:28.560 But I'm not disputing that.

02:38:30.180 Yeah.

02:38:30.420 So, I'm not disputing that there's going to be outliers to this.

02:38:33.400 I'm not disputing that there's not going to be like...

02:38:34.940 I'm talking about, like, general...

02:38:35.940 There's some guy out there who wants a double burn victim who has her tongue hanging out through her teeth and a hunch on her back.

02:38:43.860 I'm sure that that guy exists somewhere on this planet, okay?

02:38:48.360 But I'm not talking or speaking to him.

02:38:51.380 I'm speaking to just kind of generally what people find attractive in other people.

02:38:56.200 So, while I can say I think that men definitely prefer blondes or brunettes, I think that they still prefer them to be on the thinner side.

02:39:03.920 That's what I'm saying.

02:39:04.700 With a curvy waist and big boobs.

02:39:07.840 I think that there's, like, going to be some universals there, right?

02:39:10.800 That's what I'm saying is you could get there.

02:39:13.320 Like, not all the time, but most of the time you can work out and get that skinny body.

02:39:17.760 Like, you earn those things is what I'm getting at.

02:39:20.420 Like, you're not born and you're not destined to have these things.

02:39:24.280 You could change these characteristics.

02:39:25.680 If you want to have brown hair, you dye your hair brown.

02:39:29.120 If you want to be fit, you go to the gym.

02:39:31.020 You eat healthy.

02:39:32.180 That's what I'm getting at is you could change your scale.

02:39:33.800 Yeah, but I'm not really disputing that.

02:39:35.100 I'm just saying how much of that does confidence play into?

02:39:37.920 And I'm not confident that it plays into a lot.

02:39:40.260 So I would say that a person, for instance, on the woman, hang on, hang on, let me finish my point.

02:39:45.480 I would say on the person's side where, let's say that they're not very confident, a man is not very confident, but he has very chiseled features, he's tall, and he makes a lot of money,

02:39:55.700 that women will still find him more attractive than they will a short, bald guy who's fat.

02:40:00.360 I was hanging out with a guy that was perfectly my type, but he was so, he was, like, also a crier.

02:40:08.820 He was also, like, oh, my God, I'm fat, I need to lose weight, and he was so unattractive to me.

02:40:15.040 And he was, like, my type.

02:40:15.940 Yeah, I know, but you were hanging out with him, right?

02:40:18.460 We stopped hanging out because he got too much.

02:40:20.060 Yeah, but you were hanging out with him, right?

02:40:22.840 Up until he got so bad.

02:40:24.420 Yeah, but you were hanging out with him, which means the physical characteristics trumped, at least for a time, the personality.

02:40:32.520 Yeah, but it was unattractive to me how he acted.

02:40:35.200 Sure, I'm not saying that it couldn't, that there couldn't be things very attractive people do, which are so annoying that it'll drive you away from them.

02:40:41.720 I'm just saying that the key quality that we're looking for, seemingly, is there has to be some sort of attraction.

02:40:48.100 So even if this guy was super annoying and you ditched him, you were still with him, right?

02:40:52.380 You were still with him for at least some length of time based on the fact that, like you said, he was totally your type, right?

02:40:59.760 That's valid.

02:41:00.680 I mean, but, yeah, I'm saying the confidence would have made him more attractive.

02:41:04.900 Yeah, I'm sure it would have, but to what degree, right, to what degree, because the thing, the reason you were with him is because of these other characteristics besides that thing, right?

02:41:18.660 Yeah, I think the way you talk, the way you walk, if you go around thinking you're the baddest in the room, I think that's attractive.

02:41:26.060 Maybe that's, you know, just me.

02:41:27.400 And I think that being confident in yourselves gives you this, like, more outgoing vibe to you that, like, changes your perspective.

02:41:37.580 And I'm saying that goes along with how you look.

02:41:40.000 I know we're talking about looks here.

02:41:41.860 I think it goes along with looks because if you're confident, you stand up.

02:41:45.920 You look taller.

02:41:46.720 If you're confident, you go outside more and dress, like, in more flattering clothes, like, that fit you better rather than a big hoodie that hides your body.

02:41:54.760 If you're confident, that means you probably have better mental health and you're actively working on how you look.

02:42:00.600 Well, I mean, the confidence can be described in many different ways.

02:42:03.360 Like, there's very ugly men who are very, very confident, right?

02:42:06.680 Sure.

02:42:07.020 Perhaps they have some skill set or something like this, which drives the ego up and the confidence up.

02:42:12.060 Who knows, right?

02:42:13.000 Yeah.

02:42:13.560 But ultimately, I'm not disagreeing that confidence is not or an attribute that women would want.

02:42:19.400 I'm sure that it is.

02:42:20.420 I'm just saying that initially, there still has to be the physical attractiveness for you to even give him a shot to even learn what his personality is to know if he's confident.

02:42:30.380 Correct.

02:42:31.440 Yeah.

02:42:32.020 So, I'm thinking, so I think on the category scale here then, we're still looking for physical attractiveness first.

02:42:38.220 That has to be present.

02:42:39.380 I think in regards to, like, dating apps and men dating in general, on both ends with the confidence part, I think that you would have to have enough confidence in yourself to even get on the app or to go out and try to date.

02:42:55.180 So, I think that confidence plays a factor in just your availability on the market in general.

02:43:00.600 Because if you're constantly thinking, oh, I'm not good enough or, oh, I'm not going to even try to date, then you're kind of limiting yourself to the opportunity to get out there and date.

02:43:12.920 So, while I think, like, even for myself, you can better your looks, I think you do have to have some sort of internal confidence to even get to the point of dating.

02:43:22.400 Yeah, but I think that that's tangential.

02:43:25.340 So, the thing is, let me give you an example of what I mean.

02:43:28.920 Let's assume for a second that you could only pick between two guys.

02:43:32.020 These are the only two who are available.

02:43:33.660 You're on a desert island, okay?

02:43:35.860 One is 5'2".

02:43:38.480 He's bald, he's short, and he's fat.

02:43:41.320 Guy two is 6'2".

02:43:43.100 He has abs, full head of hair, right?

02:43:46.480 And, you know, the colored eyes that you like.

02:43:49.980 Which guy would you pick?

02:43:51.120 Like, and, oh, by the way, first guy, short, bald, fat guy, super confident.

02:43:55.440 Guy two, guy's a little shy.

02:43:58.320 I would need to know more about them than their physical appearance and if they're shy.

02:44:03.940 If we're stranded on a desert, I just want to get with the attractive guy.

02:44:07.240 I just don't want to, like, hear him talk.

02:44:08.760 I'll walk away and find water.

02:44:10.400 Right, exactly.

02:44:11.280 And I think that that's an honest answer, right?

02:44:13.780 Yeah, I think you're right on that aspect.

02:44:15.780 I think the honest answer is, hey, look, I'd much rather be with the attractive, shy guy.

02:44:20.900 I don't have to deal with his shit, right?

02:44:22.760 I would still physically prefer him and that needs to be present, right?

02:44:26.880 I think we're on the same page.

02:44:28.300 I think what I'm getting at is confidence plays a factor and it's not the full thing.

02:44:32.480 I agree with you.

02:44:33.060 It's not everything.

02:44:33.780 I just think it does play a huge factor in how you value yourself and who you go for.

02:44:38.620 I wonder how much it plays because I think it does play a factor.

02:44:43.000 I'm not mitigating that, right?

02:44:44.760 But let's say this is the other reason we use this kind of, like, point scale system,

02:44:48.820 one to ten, right?

02:44:49.860 So I think if you're a five as a guy and you're super confident and you do a lot of work on

02:44:55.840 your body to make it physically attractive, you can maybe bump that up two points, you know,

02:45:00.960 maybe.

02:45:01.420 And that's really trying everything.

02:45:04.040 Maybe you can bump it up two points.

02:45:05.980 I think that for women, going from a four to, you know, a six or a seven, that's really

02:45:12.900 just a matter of losing some weight generally.

02:45:15.440 And that's really, it doesn't take much more than that, right?

02:45:17.720 It doesn't take much more than that.

02:45:19.420 So I still think that physically attractive men, the pool of them is much smaller from what

02:45:25.380 women consider to be physically attractive than the other way around, meaning what women

02:45:30.120 find physically attractive than men.

02:45:34.040 I like fat men sometimes.

02:45:36.560 I like a fat daddy.

02:45:37.560 What?

02:45:40.020 Was that guy who you beat up, was he fat?

02:45:42.880 He used to be fat.

02:45:44.400 That's when we were together.

02:45:45.760 He lost weight and then?

02:45:46.860 Yeah.

02:45:47.460 Because you beat him up?

02:45:49.440 He had to be able to run away from you?

02:45:51.040 Yeah, he was running away.

02:45:53.440 Interesting.

02:45:54.180 We have a chat here from Killa of Cereal.

02:45:57.440 Maddie, can I have you read it?

02:45:59.660 Time takes a toll on us all, an objective reality of how biology works.

02:46:04.500 You've seen those time-lapsed videos of decomposing roadkill, right?

02:46:07.920 Would you rather eat a rotten apple or a fresh one?

02:46:11.520 What?

02:46:13.120 I have seen those time-lapses.

02:46:18.740 Appreciate it.

02:46:19.600 Good to see you in the chat.

02:46:21.180 Killa of Cereal from Noah.

02:46:22.500 In my experience, the more money you make, the less a man's looks matter to a woman.

02:46:33.240 Yeah, but then this brings up the question of, is she there for you?

02:46:40.680 Or is she there for your wallet, right?

02:46:43.760 That's where the kind of decisive conversation comes in.

02:46:48.640 People have bad motives.

02:46:49.780 Like, I don't think it, I think it makes you more attractive because your wallet's attractive,

02:46:57.220 not because you're attractive.

02:46:58.860 Right, I agree.

02:46:59.940 Exactly.

02:47:00.660 Do you think that's maybe why, like, you also like older guys?

02:47:03.860 Is there, is there actually, but hold on, is there actually anything wrong with women

02:47:08.860 being attracted to men who are wealthy?

02:47:13.220 It's a different kind of attractiveness.

02:47:15.260 Like, I obviously...

02:47:16.400 But isn't that of the nature?

02:47:19.040 Okay, if you ask the same question of the bald guy and the tall guy, the bald guy has $6 million.

02:47:25.380 The bald guy, or the attractive guy that he said has, like, $10.

02:47:29.140 I'm still going to go for the more attractive guy.

02:47:30.880 Yeah, that's true.

02:47:31.700 Like, especially on an island.

02:47:32.920 Especially if you're stranded on an island, just you three, that money means nothing.

02:47:37.220 So I'm going off the list.

02:47:37.820 That's not really the conversation.

02:47:40.980 So let's assume, like, women are attracted to the money.

02:47:46.980 Sure.

02:47:47.680 I don't know if there's actually anything wrong with that.

02:47:51.520 I think there's something wrong with it if it's not packaged together well.

02:47:56.240 Like, if you are an 18-year-old woman, and you're going to date a 70-year-old man because

02:48:01.560 he has millions of dollars, I think that that's a little messy.

02:48:05.180 However, in my experience of dating men who do have comfortable incomes, it's not just

02:48:12.440 because of the comfortable income.

02:48:14.320 That just plays one factor in the entire, like, pie chart of attractiveness.

02:48:20.940 Now, just to be clear, I would hope women care about more than just the money.

02:48:25.700 But, I mean, it would seem like, in the same way that a lot of men are going to see, like,

02:48:30.380 a really stunning, beautiful woman, and, like, that will be the basis of their entire attraction.

02:48:37.040 Myron donated $200.

02:48:39.700 All women are gold diggers.

02:48:41.780 Some are just better at hiding the shovel.

02:48:44.140 Is that actually Myron?

02:48:45.740 I don't think so.

02:48:46.700 I appreciate it.

02:48:47.120 Probably not.

02:48:47.780 Well, I would say...

02:48:48.700 Thank you, Myron.

02:48:49.640 This is why I would say, if you're a man, I was thinking about this the other night.

02:48:53.340 If you're a man out there, and you really wanted to test this, you just want to see,

02:48:57.200 is she with me because of my money, or is she with me because she actually likes me?

02:49:01.080 I would pull the coming to America thing, and I would go get, like, a ratty apartment,

02:49:06.360 beat-up apartment, and I would present myself as not...

02:49:09.140 You can still present yourself as looking sharp, this kind of thing, but I present myself

02:49:12.300 as not having very much money.

02:49:14.720 That's how I would test her.

02:49:16.340 I would just see, you know what I mean?

02:49:17.980 That's what I would do.

02:49:21.520 Then you know.

02:49:22.380 Are you with me for the money, or are you not with me for the money?

02:49:26.000 That's why I think guys who make bank, like, millionaires, should take a chick to, like,

02:49:29.720 McDonald's, or just have, like, split.

02:49:32.520 Split the check.

02:49:33.660 Oh, no.

02:49:34.140 Old combo.

02:49:34.960 Hell, yeah.

02:49:37.260 I don't know.

02:49:37.960 But, like, I guess going back to my statement, I don't think, like, if women become more attracted

02:49:45.160 to a guy because he's wealthy and ambitious and successful and has a great career, I don't

02:49:52.380 know if, like, what's actually wrong with that?

02:49:55.760 Certainly, I hope that she will care about more things than just purely that, but I don't

02:50:01.200 see anything wrong with it in terms of it actually being an attraction trigger for women.

02:50:06.140 There's nothing wrong with it.

02:50:06.640 I don't think there's...

02:50:07.640 I think you should definitely like them for their insides, but seeing if a guy has...

02:50:13.820 But, like, if that brings up his value, like, yeah.

02:50:18.020 That's usually what they like you guys for.

02:50:20.180 For the insides.

02:50:21.120 The insides.

02:50:21.780 Yeah.

02:50:23.160 But, what's it called?

02:50:28.000 Yeah, I think...

02:50:30.500 I don't know where I'm going with this.

02:50:33.360 Anyways.

02:50:33.560 Anyways, what's the next thing, the next react we have to do?

02:50:38.060 You were kind of looking at me funny when I said that, like, you thought I was way off

02:50:42.300 base there.

02:50:43.660 Oh, me?

02:50:45.040 Yeah, acting as though you have no money.

02:50:46.960 Well, here's my rationale for this.

02:50:48.660 Oh, I wasn't looking at...

02:50:49.660 No, I wasn't looking at you.

02:50:50.980 I was just making faces in general.

02:50:52.780 Oh, okay.

02:50:53.420 Well, the rationale is the most successful married couples that I know started off poor together.

02:50:58.460 Oh, yeah, that's funny.

02:51:00.400 And when the dude ended up with money later on in life, he knew for sure that the woman

02:51:05.680 was with him specifically because of him.

02:51:08.080 Sure.

02:51:08.400 And he knew that because he didn't have shit, and she was with him when he didn't have shit.

02:51:12.500 So, that's how he knows, right?

02:51:13.760 Yeah.

02:51:13.780 So, I just think it seems like a pretty good test.

02:51:16.680 Definitely.

02:51:17.460 Definitely.

02:51:18.200 What do we have for a reaction, Nick?

02:51:19.520 Biden's story.

02:51:20.940 Oh, yeah.

02:51:21.660 I forgot to mention this.

02:51:22.800 I mean, this is not...

02:51:23.500 We're not going to dive into it.

02:51:24.560 But, guys, apparently Joe Biden, Joseph Biden, is in Santa Barbara.

02:51:29.000 Biden arrives for Santa Ynez.

02:51:30.600 Well, that's Santa Barbara.

02:51:32.180 I think that's the Santa Barbara Airport, Air Force One.

02:51:36.260 So, we were trying to get him on the show to replace the Daily Wire guy, but unfortunately,

02:51:41.260 like, Kamala, like, she shut that shit down.

02:51:44.540 Like, I tried to reach out to Camelot to see if we could get Uncle Biden on, but, like,

02:51:49.960 he just...

02:51:50.400 She just wasn't...

02:51:51.340 She shut that down.

02:51:51.360 Joe was already sleeping on the beach by then, huh?

02:51:53.880 Yeah.

02:51:54.100 He was, like...

02:51:54.540 You see that picture?

02:51:55.200 5 p.m. is, like, his bedtime, so we had a...

02:51:57.420 We couldn't do it.

02:51:57.860 The ice cream store closed by now, too.

02:51:59.660 Yeah.

02:52:00.220 Like, McConnell's or whatever.

02:52:01.620 Too bad.

02:52:03.360 He got to get the...

02:52:04.180 But, yeah, he's here.

02:52:05.280 That's why...

02:52:05.860 I don't know if you guys have heard any of the airplanes.

02:52:07.620 Like, there's fucking Ospreys and shit.

02:52:09.460 Here's to Cheramerimocracy.

02:52:11.960 Right?

02:52:12.140 Wait.

02:52:12.400 What is it?

02:52:12.700 I think they're called Ospreys.

02:52:14.720 Yes.

02:52:15.360 It's Cheramer...

02:52:16.200 Cheramer...

02:52:16.960 Is that how the wife says it?

02:52:19.040 Can you Google the V-22 Os...

02:52:22.100 Am I saying it right?

02:52:23.520 Osprey?

02:52:24.440 Osprey?

02:52:26.640 Just find the Wikipedia article.

02:52:29.940 Guys, there's been fucking Os...

02:52:31.240 Ospreys?

02:52:33.540 Flying around and shit?

02:52:35.720 Can you find it?

02:52:37.280 Oh.

02:52:37.960 That's not F-11.

02:52:41.960 Okay.

02:52:42.620 Scroll down a little.

02:52:43.420 Maybe other side.

02:52:44.320 Put this on the other...

02:52:45.460 Okay.

02:52:47.680 There's been a couple of those flying around.

02:52:50.060 It's been pretty crazy.

02:52:52.040 Anyways, whatever.

02:52:53.180 What's the other react?

02:52:57.040 What is it?

02:52:57.900 Do you know what it is?

02:52:59.240 Paramount.

02:53:00.980 Paramount.

02:53:01.500 Let me see what it is.

02:53:02.540 Yeah, we can react to this.

02:53:06.200 Go ahead and play.

02:53:06.660 So, last night, I ended things with a guy that, in one of my previous videos, I had referred

02:53:14.120 to as the most intentional man I've ever spoken to.

02:53:17.060 It really does suck because he truly is amazing, has a lot of the things I'm looking for in a

02:53:23.360 person, but we hung out, like, six or seven times, and I just wasn't feeling it.

02:53:27.900 And it's just really a shame because he really is a great guy.

02:53:31.000 If he had asked me for more details, I really don't know that I would have been able to give

02:53:34.440 him any besides that shame, but there's really nothing you can do.

02:53:36.960 It's just the name of the gate.

02:53:37.980 Yeah, let this be a lesson that being a good guy, nice guy, chivalrous, romantic, green flag,

02:53:43.320 you know, emotionally available, intentional with your communications, showing her what a great

02:53:48.120 boyfriend you would be, what a great dad you would be, these things don't necessarily

02:53:51.640 build attraction, even though women say it does.

02:53:56.000 So, going around the table, have any of you ever had that experience where, on paper,

02:54:01.620 the guy had everything, could have been good looking, treated you well, good person, funny,

02:54:10.120 confident, good personality, all the things you want, but there just wasn't the click.

02:54:18.580 There wasn't the vibe.

02:54:19.640 There wasn't the chemistry.

02:54:20.580 There wasn't the butterflies.

02:54:21.640 There wasn't the lightning, the thunder, the electricity, whatever sort of bullshit other

02:54:28.080 terms there are.

02:54:29.240 Have you ever had that?

02:54:31.280 Yeah, I think that everyone's gone out with someone who initially the conversation was

02:54:36.920 going well, but then in person, you just, like, don't vibe the same.

02:54:42.040 Yeah.

02:54:42.980 I think it happens.

02:54:44.160 I don't think I, I don't think I, just one point for clarification.

02:54:50.920 I don't think she said that the conversation was bad.

02:54:55.300 I think she just said there wasn't, it just wasn't the, there wasn't.

02:54:59.220 She wasn't feeling it.

02:55:00.220 She wasn't.

02:55:00.820 She just wasn't attracted to his personality, I guess.

02:55:03.180 Good looking.

02:55:04.500 Nope.

02:55:04.980 She didn't say that either.

02:55:06.080 She said it was six to seven dates.

02:55:07.780 She said, in fact, that if she had to describe a reason, she couldn't tell you what it was.

02:55:12.220 She couldn't tell you.

02:55:12.700 Everything was there.

02:55:13.440 She just did.

02:55:14.100 He was attractive.

02:55:15.660 He, she had all the qualities he was looking for, or she was looking for.

02:55:19.100 And she did, she just, she just wasn't feeling it.

02:55:23.240 What do you think?

02:55:24.220 I agree with the pheromones thing.

02:55:25.800 I think, well, it is.

02:55:27.380 You see someone, it's like in a, it's an attractive thing.

02:55:31.540 Like it's chemistry, like how they say that.

02:55:33.500 Cause it comes from pheromones.

02:55:35.760 Okay.

02:55:36.920 But have you had that experience?

02:55:38.880 Oh, that was a question.

02:55:40.000 I'm just, yeah, no.

02:55:41.520 Yes, I have had that experience.

02:55:44.000 Somebody has been attractive to me, everything, hang out.

02:55:46.940 But it just wasn't there.

02:55:49.540 And I think it's because I have a tendency to compare people to exes.

02:55:54.660 That's my reasoning for it.

02:55:56.700 I just want my ex.

02:55:57.880 So I'm just like.

02:55:59.100 Who's your ex?

02:56:01.260 I'm not talking about a specific one.

02:56:03.600 I'm not talking about a specific one.

02:56:05.520 Every relationship.

02:56:06.560 Is this a way to frame it?

02:56:07.560 They don't measure up to your ex.

02:56:10.300 In what way?

02:56:12.240 I think when I want to get in a relationship, it's a pheromones thing.

02:56:19.320 And if it's not, it's just me comparing it to my ex and they're not that.

02:56:23.140 But if some, I'm making no sense.

02:56:25.760 I compare people a lot.

02:56:27.920 Just like the comparing women at a table, I compare people all the time.

02:56:32.740 Like, oh my God, but this, this guy's better.

02:56:35.640 This girl's better.

02:56:36.440 Like, this or that.

02:56:38.380 My brain is just very judgy, I think, which I'm working on.

02:56:42.720 But it's a comparison thing.

02:56:44.520 Okay.

02:56:44.940 Like my ex.

02:56:45.620 I would compare her to mine.

02:56:46.440 I work on it.

02:56:47.560 You've been the most honest person at the table tonight.

02:56:50.700 I don't think most of the women who are sitting at the table really, I don't think their brains

02:56:57.380 function too much differently than yours do when it comes to this.

02:56:59.920 I think that they're probably often making comparisons to previous partners that they've had.

02:57:04.100 I think that they're often judging the attractiveness of men and women who are sitting next to them.

02:57:08.720 I don't think that that's unreasonable to think that that's the assessment.

02:57:12.720 People mostly are pattern recognition machines, so why wouldn't they make comparisons, right?

02:57:17.700 Makes sense.

02:57:19.960 What is it that some of these guys were lacking that your ex had?

02:57:22.660 I think part of it is the history.

02:57:31.400 Because I don't miss my ex.

02:57:33.680 I miss the time I wasted in the memories, if that makes sense.

02:57:37.820 So I think I compare it to the memories we have.

02:57:40.580 Like, oh, that first date was magical.

02:57:42.940 Like, we did this.

02:57:44.200 Like, it was the perfect, like, cookie-cutter movie night.

02:57:47.640 And we didn't have that the first time we met.

02:57:50.020 We met on Hinge, and we had sex, and got dinner.

02:57:53.820 The chemistry was completely there.

02:57:55.560 But that magical, like, this experience.

02:57:58.920 So the history behind it, like, where you compare each moment to the next.

02:58:02.860 GMD Jim donated $199.

02:58:08.140 Andrew, I have done the hiding my success test back when I dated.

02:58:12.560 Did not drive the nice cars and wore sweats.

02:58:15.980 Cut the female interaction by at least 75%.

02:58:19.740 Brian, L to one of your months.

02:58:24.020 Yeah, I mean, that doesn't really surprise me.

02:58:27.000 I'm sure that it did.

02:58:28.700 I'm just talking about what it is that you value.

02:58:31.180 So I think there's probably plenty of guys who, they don't give a shit.

02:58:34.480 They're just like, okay, if you're attracting me based on my money,

02:58:36.440 that's just fine with me.

02:58:37.800 I'm just talking specifically about men who want to have something more

02:58:41.320 than to just be valued for that.

02:58:47.300 Can the chat make up a nickname for her that has to do with Avril Lavigne?

02:58:59.040 I've gotten that so much.

02:59:00.520 I know.

02:59:01.620 Hold on.

02:59:04.040 Oh, okay.

02:59:05.040 I don't know what I'm doing.

02:59:05.800 All right.

02:59:06.620 I'm complicated.

02:59:07.540 Do you know how to sing the song?

02:59:08.840 Which one?

02:59:09.460 Complicated.

02:59:09.980 Go ahead.

02:59:10.320 Do it.

02:59:11.320 Why you gotta make...

02:59:12.640 Wait.

02:59:13.200 Now I'm like, Blake.

02:59:14.020 I'm so spaced out.

02:59:18.980 Skater girl.

02:59:20.200 Skater boy.

02:59:21.020 Skater boy.

02:59:22.520 He was a skater boy.

02:59:24.020 She said, see you later, boy.

02:59:25.540 He wasn't good enough for her.

02:59:28.900 Now he's a superstar slamming on his guitar.

02:59:33.200 Like that?

02:59:34.620 I'm so...

02:59:35.360 That was...

02:59:35.920 Yeah.

02:59:36.220 That was beautiful.

02:59:36.960 That was beautiful.

02:59:37.880 That was great.

02:59:38.100 It's going right on SoundCloud.

02:59:40.740 That exact audio.

02:59:43.060 We need to think of a funny nickname, though.

02:59:45.080 Someone in my chat called you Adderall Levine.

02:59:47.960 What is it?

02:59:49.020 Adderall Levine.

02:59:51.060 Adderall Levine.

02:59:51.740 Oh, that's perfect.

02:59:53.160 Adderall Levine.

02:59:53.700 I'm going to get that tatted right...

02:59:55.020 I'm going to cross this down and get Adderall Levine right there.

02:59:58.640 Avril.

02:59:59.920 Adderall.

03:00:00.460 La Rehab?

03:00:01.560 I'm sorry.

03:00:04.440 Never mind.

03:00:05.420 Avril's a clone, though, now.

03:00:06.740 So she looks different.

03:00:07.880 I'm talking about, like, early 2000s.

03:00:09.620 Yeah, yeah.

03:00:09.980 Like, complicated.

03:00:10.880 Yes.

03:00:11.340 Like, skater boy.

03:00:12.360 All of it.

03:00:12.860 All that.

03:00:13.500 All that shit.

03:00:13.980 Girlfriend.

03:00:14.500 All of it.

03:00:15.720 Your reaction to the...

03:00:16.800 Or, no, no, no.

03:00:17.320 Not your reaction.

03:00:17.980 I mean, have you ever had that where...

03:00:20.060 Guy's perfect, good-looking, funny, treats you well, good personality, but you just didn't

03:00:26.340 feel it.

03:00:28.740 In those instances where I didn't feel it, it was only because I was really focused on

03:00:33.800 myself and I wasn't ready to try to focus on someone else.

03:00:39.780 Like, that has genuinely happened to me before when I was, like, doing really good personally

03:00:45.080 and I was like, dang, like, they would be perfect, but I'm, like, still happy with myself.

03:00:48.920 So I, like, avoided that to keep my own happiness.

03:00:53.440 M-Dog?

03:00:55.940 Yeah, I've actually had that before, but...

03:00:59.160 Rest in peace.

03:01:00.380 Yeah, that was, like, my first boyfriend and then it turned out terribly because I went

03:01:04.680 with it even though I didn't feel it.

03:01:08.280 Oh, okay.

03:01:10.400 Star, what about you?

03:01:11.320 Uh, no, I've never had that.

03:01:14.820 The last guy was all that.

03:01:16.480 I liked him.

03:01:17.340 But I heard some people have that because they're used to toxic-ness, so when a green

03:01:21.820 flag comes, they get scared.

03:01:23.700 Or maybe it's just God didn't, it's not meant for them, so...

03:01:27.040 Got it.

03:01:27.560 Well, I've been told, maybe you can give me your take on this, speaking of the, like,

03:01:32.360 green flag toxic thing.

03:01:34.200 Uh, it's been pointed out to me before that women often, when they are presented with a

03:01:39.780 man who meets all the green flags for the traits they do want, actually reject him because

03:01:44.580 then they can't blame him for anything.

03:01:47.200 Do you think there's any truth to that?

03:01:51.940 I don't know because I just heard men and women don't like green flags sometimes because

03:01:56.920 they're used to toxicity.

03:01:57.900 I'm, I don't know about exactly women doing that.

03:02:03.240 Okay.

03:02:04.160 Hmm.

03:02:04.720 Mia?

03:02:05.860 Um, I think I definitely have had that type of moment where it's like I'm attracted to

03:02:09.620 somebody, they have everything, and then there's something missing, and it took me a little longer to

03:02:15.820 realize that it wasn't that something was missing, it was more so that I was trying to avoid the

03:02:19.940 perfection or avoid that, like, that fit, and then when I finally allowed it, it was perfect,

03:02:24.860 and it worked really well, so...

03:02:26.340 Hmm.

03:02:26.440 In that sense of, like, I tried to avoid it, and then I let myself actually enjoy it.

03:02:30.320 Do you guys have answers for this, or...

03:02:32.740 Morgan?

03:02:34.540 I mean, I think...

03:02:35.540 What you got?

03:02:35.740 Yeah, it's happened, but, like, I think I can usually, like...

03:02:38.400 Oh, sorry.

03:02:39.100 End up, like, realizing, like, something was off.

03:02:42.460 Like, what was off.

03:02:43.860 Like, it was a little awkward.

03:02:44.280 I feel like a lot of girls get scared to get themselves into those type of situations because

03:02:50.060 nobody's ever too perfect, and if you're too perfect and you come off like that, like, up

03:02:54.860 front, you obviously, like, know that there's something, there's something wrong that he's

03:02:59.920 hiding.

03:03:01.000 What?

03:03:01.500 Oh, your answer?

03:03:02.320 Oh, I said it seems like it would...

03:03:03.860 Like, what she was saying, it seems like kind of, like, fake at first, I guess.

03:03:07.240 And most of the times it is.

03:03:09.220 Can I add something?

03:03:10.820 Sure.

03:03:11.180 I think that what it really is, is we have a lot of expectations in what we think we

03:03:18.680 want in a man, and then when it's presented in front of us, we don't really know what

03:03:23.800 to do with it because our perception of what we think we want isn't what we actually want.

03:03:30.900 We have a chat here from Kill of Serial.

03:03:34.800 For everyone, what are your takes on love at first sight?

03:03:37.760 Is it a real thing?

03:03:38.640 Is love at first sight a real thing?

03:03:41.180 I think you can be super attracted to someone at first sight and want to get to know them

03:03:46.540 more, but full-blown love, I think, might take more time.

03:03:53.260 I would say love at first sight is real.

03:03:56.360 I wouldn't say the one at first sight is real because I fell in love at first sight.

03:04:01.620 Love at first sight is definitely real.

03:04:04.360 I think it's a spiritual connection.

03:04:06.880 It's more than the sight.

03:04:07.860 It's, like, a spiritual bond.

03:04:10.200 Word.

03:04:11.180 Yeah, I think attraction at first sight, like, a strong attraction is real, but love is something

03:04:16.480 you build, so I don't think so.

03:04:18.960 I think your take is possible, but some people get it confused with attraction, so it's hard

03:04:24.820 to tell.

03:04:25.160 I think not necessarily love at first sight, but the opportunity to love at first sight is

03:04:38.520 so that attraction can definitely build into love.

03:04:38.580 Yeah, I don't think love at first sight is really a thing.

03:04:41.840 Well, I think when it comes to the reason he's perhaps asking this is if you object to this

03:04:49.440 idea of love at first sight, then how can you also, like, if that's preposterous, absurd,

03:04:56.160 then so too should, like, if you were, if you didn't date somebody because you didn't immediately

03:05:01.060 love them, if that was your standard, like, in order for me to date this person, I need to have

03:05:06.060 love at first sight. He's trying to make, I think, a comparison of if you refuse to, like,

03:05:11.360 pursue something or date somebody because you either don't feel or don't yet feel the so-called

03:05:18.340 click, vibe, chemistry, et cetera. Because I'm sure all of you here have dated a guy who you had,

03:05:24.440 like, insane chemistry with, insane click, insane vibe. Where are they now? Did it work out? Like,

03:05:32.120 was that necessarily a good indicator for this person's going to be a good partner and treat me

03:05:37.000 well? I'm sure you all have stories of somebody you had great chemistry with, great vibe, and they

03:05:41.360 actually ended up being not, I'm not saying, like, in every instance that you have chemistry or vibe

03:05:45.740 or click, that there's going to be, like, abuse or toxicity. But I'm sure you all have experiences

03:05:50.340 where you did have the vibe, chemistry, click, but they ended up being terrible for you because it

03:05:55.800 possibly treated you terribly. So I don't think it's a fantastic indicator to go off of, of, like,

03:06:02.500 I'm going to date this person because of the click or I'm not going to date somebody because they don't

03:06:07.880 have the click. I just think how many people date somebody like that and then it just invariably

03:06:15.360 doesn't work out anyway, so. I agree that's very likely. I don't deny that that's completely

03:06:19.680 likely. If anything, it's just, like, that arousal of feelings and that heightened sensation of,

03:06:24.880 this is perfect, love at first sight, and then we fall for these things and it trickles over and

03:06:29.240 hides the fact of many minor red flags that we probably just wanted to ignore because of it.

03:06:34.080 But I think it depends on also, is that a sensation that you recognize with those

03:06:39.620 imperfections that you hope for? If your list includes the perfection of not having, I don't know,

03:06:44.760 lying tendencies, then, I don't know, that loving at first sight may be more likely,

03:06:49.960 may be successful, but sometimes we allow that to override. Sure. We have a chat here from Jack B.

03:06:54.640 Nimble. Girls, if a man is physically fit, eight out of ten looks, six-figure income,

03:07:00.480 owns his own house, no mortgage, but is a functional drug user, i.e. uses recreationally,

03:07:06.820 off and on. Do you think he's undateable? Yes. What drug is it? I love ten looks, six-figure income,

03:07:14.800 owns his own house. Is that wrong? Like, if he's smoking weed, like, shrooms, or are we talking about

03:07:20.140 fentanyl? What drug is it? Cocaine. Let's say it's cocaine. Cocaine. Oh, that's fine. No? As long as you

03:07:27.080 don't race me, I'm cool. Wait, on and off or routinely? He uses recreationally, off and on.

03:07:33.540 Is he undateable? Meaning, like, coke on weekends. Is he undateable? Uh-huh. Recreationally,

03:07:41.040 off and on. He's asking for himself, maybe. I don't know. How about heroin? He, like,

03:07:45.760 off and on does heroin. Oh, that's a no-go. I've dealt with that before. Yeah? Well, fentanyl,

03:07:52.260 not heroin, but yeah. So, I'm just putting it together. Of course. I think it's the level of use

03:07:58.720 and what they're using. Like, I think if it's weed and something, like, very light

03:08:04.700 like that, or maybe, like, mushrooms every once in a while, something natural, then I

03:08:09.040 wouldn't be as opposed. But I think if it's, like, heroin, then no. It's a deal-breaker.

03:08:14.480 Well, I mean, I would say, like, I'm talking more about, like, casually, casually shooting

03:08:23.160 up heroin once. That's not casual. Once or twice a week. Once or twice is bad. Then that's

03:08:31.100 a deal-breaker, at least for myself. Okay. Just checking. If you switch that to coke, I

03:08:34.880 think it's fine. Yeah. Yeah. Uh, okay. Preferably not, though. Meth in that, no. Let's see.

03:08:43.840 Once or twice is actually hard. How many more reacts do we have, Nick? We have, like, more

03:08:50.560 with retweets, and then... Wait, tweets. Oh, let's do dating app. Who, is it just for,

03:08:59.240 uh, low cap over here? Just her? Yeah, she has two, I think. Yeah, it's safe. Did you, you

03:09:06.600 checked? Yeah, I checked. Okay. Pull it up. It's hinged. Okay. Whoa. Okay. Uh, Lindsay,

03:09:13.280 see, together we could, here, you read the prompt. Together we could gaslight and manipulate

03:09:21.220 each other for a few months. Heart emoji. Whoa. Nice. Okay. Next. Uh, okay. It says

03:09:30.860 I'm 20, 5'4". Next. Next. Wait, is that, do you use, uh... That's just my Instagram. Wait,

03:09:40.660 go back. Are you using Pro Tools, or are you, like, an amateur on, like, what's that fruit

03:09:47.560 one? I use Logic Pro and Serato Pro. You don't use Pro Tools? Psh. I use Serato. Psh. Psh.

03:09:57.680 What? Okay, I'm just fucking... Okay, next. The role of... Next. The best way to ask me out

03:10:04.520 this is by threatening me. Is that the last hinge one? Uh... Or is there, there's maybe

03:10:10.520 one more? Next. It's just a, it's just a gym pic. Confidence is key, remember? Is there

03:10:17.980 another one? Hinge one? Okay. That's my... Yeah. So, wait, there's the threatening me. The

03:10:24.020 best way to ask you out is to threaten you. So, like... It's a joke. Would it go something

03:10:27.260 like this? Pulls out a gun. You fucking better go on a date with me, bitch. Like... No,

03:10:33.740 it's like, I want, I'm trying to get it so it's interactive so I can see if someone matches

03:10:37.640 my humor. Like, they respond with something like, tell me a time. Like, okay, we're going

03:10:44.080 to dinner at this time. I don't know. It's just to start, like, a conversation. So, would

03:10:50.340 it be... It's not, like, actually threaten me. It's, like, if you get the joke, you get

03:10:54.200 the joke and we're together, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Of course. So, would it be something

03:10:58.100 like, like, if you don't go on a date with me? I will rain down on a godly fucking firestorm

03:11:03.480 upon you. You're going to have to call the fucking United Nations and get a fucking binding

03:11:07.400 resolution to keep me from fucking destroying you. I am talking scorched earth, motherfucker.

03:11:12.800 I will massacre you. I will fuck you up. Like, is that the kind of threat that you're

03:11:18.220 talking about? No. It's not. I don't want to be threatened. It's a joke. She's looking

03:11:22.760 cutesy. It's cute. It's, like, threaten me, you know? It's demure. It's demure. Oh, that

03:11:27.500 thing. It's threatening. Wait, can somebody explain the demure thing to me? I don't get

03:11:32.180 it either. What is the... It's this creator named Jules on TikTok and she just made, like,

03:11:38.360 a funny video, kind of making fun of her own life experience where she got, like, a job

03:11:44.420 at, like, a restaurant or a retail store or something and she's just making fun of

03:11:48.200 herself going, like, see how I come to work, ladies. And it's just... It's funny.

03:11:54.000 Brett Cooper on the Daily Wire talked about it. She said, Brad, summer's over. Demure season.

03:11:59.160 Demure fall. Yes. I love her. All right. I love her. And what was the first one? Gaslight

03:12:05.700 each other for a couple... Gaslight and manipulate each other for a few months. Because people

03:12:09.680 on dating apps sometimes are, like, weird, you know? So it's just, like, together we could

03:12:13.660 do this. Like, have a toxic relationship, basically. Have you ever manipulated the

03:12:17.520 guy? Mm-hmm. How? And a girl. How? More. What? More the girls? You manipulate the girls

03:12:23.700 more? I don't try to... I'm so sweet. I'm so sweet. Like, I'm, like, a pay-for-dinner.

03:12:29.780 Like, let's go on, like, a fun... Stop the cat. That's my last name. She's a certified

03:12:33.860 lover girl. I'm literally, though. I love Drake. But...

03:12:37.720 But, no. I have. But it's also because I was

03:12:44.000 unconfident when I did so. Like, you just hit it and quit it? Did you hit it and quit

03:12:46.420 it with the chicks? Somebody went to my roommate's room and goes,

03:12:50.620 is she actually going to text me in the morning? And then my roommate goes,

03:12:54.300 don't count on it. Brutal. Yeah. But I'm so sweet.

03:13:00.720 Can you read this, Maddie? Exactly. Thank you, Brian.

03:13:03.860 And seems like love, a facade on the surface. True colors are shown in the most unlikely

03:13:08.400 of instances. Lusting after others instead of truly loving one. Flesh instead of heart.

03:13:14.140 That was beautiful. Killa of Serial. Thank you. Serial Killa. Are you on the Discord Killa?

03:13:20.500 Let me get... I need to get you a special role on the Discord. Send me a DM on Discord if you

03:13:27.660 are. If you already are, sorry, I'm, like, I have hundreds of DMs on IG, hundreds of DMs

03:13:33.560 on Discord, so it's hard to keep track of everybody.

03:13:38.000 Next dating app?

03:13:39.760 Oh, they're just pictures, actually.

03:13:41.960 We'll go through it. We'll see how degenerate it is.

03:13:46.100 Whose is it?

03:13:46.820 See how...

03:13:48.100 Oh, wait.

03:13:48.740 How strumpet... How strumpet... I haven't been saying strumpet...

03:13:52.400 It's still mine.

03:13:53.180 Recently. Still, you're the only one.

03:13:56.020 I need to reintroduce strumpet again. Strumpet, boys.

03:13:58.340 I'm the only one here with a dating app.

03:14:00.200 Yes.

03:14:01.040 At least who's willing to admit it.

03:14:03.360 Oh, okay.

03:14:04.040 Let's blush.

03:14:05.040 Okay.

03:14:05.560 It's like a...

03:14:06.180 Give me a reason to put my eyeliner on.

03:14:09.440 Okay.

03:14:12.700 Damn.

03:14:13.320 That's when I had my eyebrow for your team.

03:14:14.660 Avril latrine over...

03:14:15.640 Sorry.

03:14:17.540 Okay, next.

03:14:19.760 Next.

03:14:21.000 Next.

03:14:23.420 That's my room.

03:14:25.040 Is that it?

03:14:25.960 That's no...

03:14:26.520 Slipknot. There you go.

03:14:27.260 Duality. Okay, good song.

03:14:28.620 Cool.

03:14:29.600 Next, is that it?

03:14:30.560 Yeah.

03:14:31.100 Okay, cool.

03:14:31.800 You can close all those out.

03:14:34.100 Woo!

03:14:34.660 What do we rate it?

03:14:35.560 That was great.

03:14:36.940 10 out of 10 on the D-Gen...

03:14:38.980 On the who?

03:14:40.280 D-Gen scale.

03:14:41.600 Okay.

03:14:42.460 I feel like 10 on the, like, authenticity scale.

03:14:45.920 Who's swiping?

03:14:47.180 Oh.

03:14:47.940 No one.

03:14:48.700 You're going to get, like, an e-boy who paints his nails black and...

03:14:53.020 She don't want a boy.

03:14:54.120 If I get boys, I do that in person when I go out to, like, clubs and stuff.

03:14:57.320 My thing's only set to girls.

03:14:58.720 Oh, you only date the girls on the dating apps?

03:15:00.680 Only on dating apps, but I'll go for guys in person.

03:15:03.480 Okay.

03:15:04.500 That's cool.

03:15:06.080 That's dope.

03:15:07.960 That's great.

03:15:09.220 Proud of you.

03:15:10.300 You're killing it.

03:15:11.280 Killing the game out here.

03:15:12.440 You're doing wonderful.

03:15:14.360 Serial.

03:15:14.920 Like, killer of cereal out here.

03:15:16.620 Killer of cereal.

03:15:17.160 You're on his level.

03:15:18.500 Exactly.

03:15:18.940 Let's see.

03:15:20.700 Let's do one more react, then I'll get back to pre-show notes.

03:15:24.820 So, what do we got next?

03:15:26.180 What do we got next here?

03:15:28.920 Sure.

03:15:29.340 We'll pull that up.

03:15:32.360 That's fine.

03:15:33.000 Before you play it.

03:15:34.180 So, do you guys think that, here's the content, maybe a bit of context here.

03:15:40.880 Do you guys think that it would be nice if, because I've heard this complaint from a lot of women, if guys like came up to you in person.

03:15:51.520 Like, not sliding into the DMs, not on dating apps.

03:15:54.020 Like, you want a guy to come up to you at Trader Joe's.

03:15:57.380 Because I've heard a complaint from a lot of women, especially some older women who have had the experience of, like, pre-dating app, pre-social media a little bit.

03:16:05.120 Where it's like, yeah, guys used to come up to me way more.

03:16:08.380 Now it's more rare, less common.

03:16:11.580 So, would you guys like that, for guys to, like, approach you in person?

03:16:14.920 Yes.

03:16:15.540 Yes.

03:16:16.680 Yeah.

03:16:17.220 No.

03:16:18.220 I've had people do it, and I'm just not really a fan.

03:16:24.460 Yeah?

03:16:25.020 Yeah.

03:16:25.500 You want them to, like, slide into the DMs, be like, how many fancy seafood dinners for you to be my bedroom acrobat for years?

03:16:35.120 Is, like, that what you want, or what?

03:16:37.780 No, I mean, I have.

03:16:38.660 That's my go-to.

03:16:39.640 My thing is that I'm usually in a relationship, so I would just like to have a ring and not have anyone talk to me in person.

03:16:48.840 Well, if you're obviously dating somebody.

03:16:50.880 I don't think you're single.

03:16:51.460 But if you're single.

03:16:53.220 I still don't want people coming up to me in person.

03:16:55.040 Well, hey, that's fair.

03:16:55.940 That's fair.

03:16:56.220 I feel like it just can be really awkward.

03:16:58.260 Going around the table, though, do you want a guy, you'd prefer a guy to come up to you in person?

03:17:02.000 A guy comes up to me.

03:17:03.840 Not the question.

03:17:04.320 Not the question.

03:17:04.760 Yes, I would.

03:17:05.620 I know it happens.

03:17:06.520 She has a story every time.

03:17:09.580 Too many.

03:17:10.000 What you got?

03:17:10.620 Yeah?

03:17:10.840 Yes.

03:17:11.500 Maddie, if you were single?

03:17:13.540 Or you prefer a guy to slide into the DMs and say something like,

03:17:16.420 Neither.

03:17:17.320 I would drag my balls through 1,000 miles of broken glass shards just to hear you fart through a walkie-talkie.

03:17:23.880 That's the energy.

03:17:25.340 That's the go-to pick-up line on Instagram.

03:17:28.180 Okay, what about you, Star?

03:17:29.480 In person or slide into the DMs dating app?

03:17:31.980 The cute ones in person, because the other ones have more confidence, and they always come up to me in person.

03:17:38.940 I'm like, I'm sorry, and I feel bad, but the cute ones are in the DMs.

03:17:43.100 M-Dog?

03:17:43.380 I don't like that.

03:17:44.540 I love that.

03:17:45.520 Definitely in person.

03:17:46.360 I do not like online.

03:17:47.520 Also M-Dog?

03:17:49.200 Yeah, in person, yeah.

03:17:50.760 A-Dog?

03:17:51.200 Yeah, if I was single.

03:17:55.680 If she was single.

03:17:57.040 And meeting in person is better, because it's organic.

03:18:00.820 Organic.

03:18:01.540 Organic.

03:18:02.160 She goes to Whole Foods for her organic.

03:18:04.620 I actually only do eat organic.

03:18:06.940 I'm proud of you.

03:18:07.560 That's good.

03:18:08.020 That's healthy.

03:18:08.540 You've got to stay healthy.

03:18:09.480 Me too.

03:18:09.980 Seed oil-free.

03:18:10.960 I am pretty healthy.

03:18:11.180 How much do you squat and bench and deadlift?

03:18:15.180 You're asking me.

03:18:17.240 I can answer.

03:18:17.580 Clean and, what is it?

03:18:19.520 Jerk and clean?

03:18:20.400 What the fuck?

03:18:21.060 I haven't done that shit since high school.

03:18:22.720 No, the, it's called the, what's it called?

03:18:25.520 Weightless?

03:18:26.060 Jerk and clean?

03:18:27.140 Or is it clean and jerk?

03:18:28.720 That's a good way to lose weight.

03:18:30.080 What's it called?

03:18:30.980 Jerk and clean.

03:18:32.040 Is that what it's called?

03:18:32.840 You just want to say jerk.

03:18:34.700 The clean is this part.

03:18:35.800 And then this is the, I have not done this since the Obama, no.

03:18:40.080 It was the Bush administration.

03:18:41.400 I have not done a clean and jerk since the Bush administration.

03:18:44.620 Okay, well, you were talking about wanting to lose weight.

03:18:48.040 That's part of how I've lost weight is weightlifting.

03:18:51.420 Not the, whatever you're talking about.

03:18:52.900 I was talking specifically.

03:18:53.920 But you're talking about lifting weights.

03:18:55.300 I was asking for like her PRs and shit.

03:18:57.340 I can give you PRs.

03:18:59.260 Squat PR, 225.

03:19:02.120 Hip thrust, 425.

03:19:05.660 Bench, 135.

03:19:07.300 That's about body weight too.

03:19:09.680 And I think that's kind of all.

03:19:12.420 Well, yeah, that's good.

03:19:14.940 Look at the tricep.

03:19:16.600 It's there.

03:19:17.960 It's there.

03:19:19.160 Show it.

03:19:20.060 Well, I'm trying to.

03:19:21.220 Oh, okay.

03:19:21.780 I'll show you right there.

03:19:22.660 There you go.

03:19:23.040 All right.

03:19:24.440 Wow.

03:19:26.060 The fuck we were talking about?

03:19:27.340 I totally forgot.

03:19:28.380 Sorry, guys.

03:19:28.960 I'm tired tonight.

03:19:29.900 A guy approaching.

03:19:30.660 Oh, that's YouTube short.

03:19:31.740 Okay.

03:19:32.080 All right.

03:19:32.480 Wait.

03:19:32.700 So what did I even ask?

03:19:34.620 Sorry, guys.

03:19:35.220 I got no sleep last night.

03:19:37.440 Approach or online.

03:19:39.160 Oh, right.

03:19:39.760 So, yeah.

03:19:40.060 Okay.

03:19:40.260 A lot of girls say, I'd like guys to start approaching in person.

03:19:44.160 Let's see how that goes.

03:19:45.580 I think guys are just awkward sometimes.

03:19:47.500 So here's a guy who's going to approach.

03:19:50.120 Hi.

03:19:50.800 Are you guys going out tonight?

03:19:53.040 Yeah.

03:19:53.640 I give a disposable camera to strangers.

03:19:55.480 Pause it.

03:19:56.560 Pause it.

03:19:57.040 Pause it.

03:19:57.960 Okay.

03:19:59.640 I wonder if there's a way to find the original video and see, like, the big version of it.

03:20:03.580 Bro.

03:20:03.860 So, like, they didn't say, like, get the fuck out of here.

03:20:09.240 But, like, girls are not super warm if you approach them.

03:20:14.120 Like, she had, I have a boyfriend.

03:20:16.760 Like, she was about to say that.

03:20:18.620 Oh, boyfriend.

03:20:20.060 Got a boyfriend.

03:20:21.740 She's about to drop that shit.

03:20:23.200 Isn't that how you are supposed to act when you do have a boyfriend, though?

03:20:27.180 Not immediately.

03:20:28.320 No, but girls got that shit in the pocket, even if they don't have a boyfriend.

03:20:30.820 Like, they're, like, one step away from just, like, pushing your face away.

03:20:35.120 Just, like, get the fuck out of my business, son.

03:20:39.600 So, bro.

03:20:40.500 Actually, wait.

03:20:41.540 Oh, there's another clip.

03:20:43.300 I think it's his approach also.

03:20:45.660 Like, obviously, they're just not warm in general.

03:20:48.540 Yeah, but that's how girls are.

03:20:49.640 Are you guys going out tonight?

03:20:51.180 But girls are, like, never warm.

03:20:52.720 But, like, he's also going to a group of girls.

03:20:54.860 Like, you're not even interested in one.

03:20:55.460 Aren't they safer, though?

03:20:57.020 Yeah, a guy hit on me and my friend next to each other.

03:20:59.320 He came up to both of us.

03:21:00.360 I said no to giving my Instagram.

03:21:02.100 And then my friend right next to you, he goes, can I get yours?

03:21:04.880 There's nothing wrong.

03:21:05.560 I don't think there.

03:21:06.200 Wait, ladies.

03:21:06.720 Is there anything wrong with that?

03:21:08.020 Yes.

03:21:08.500 I don't think there.

03:21:09.040 No, no, no.

03:21:09.360 I don't think there's anything wrong to, like, do the switch.

03:21:12.600 Pass her to the bro?

03:21:13.180 I don't think there's.

03:21:14.160 There's nothing wrong to do the switch.

03:21:15.600 If you go up to a girl and she's with her friend and you shoot your shot and she turns

03:21:21.280 you down.

03:21:22.620 But it's, like, the second option.

03:21:23.540 Then my friend felt, like, the second option.

03:21:25.560 I'd be, like, if they're, like, yes, then it's, like, in the back of their head.

03:21:29.380 I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

03:21:31.160 Hey, he shot his shot twice.

03:21:32.460 That's confidence.

03:21:33.420 See, that's attractive.

03:21:34.440 But, like, not to me.

03:21:35.200 I think the switch off is fair game.

03:21:38.280 Yeah, it's confidence, but you don't like it, right?

03:21:43.520 Ava, could you, or Maddie, could you read this one?

03:21:45.380 I could bench all of you at once.

03:21:47.060 Just stack you all up on a pallet and give a, get a warm-up in.

03:21:52.880 You might want to re-evaluate this super chat.

03:21:55.320 My pecs would be, yeah, because there's, like, nine people at the table, you know?

03:21:59.400 Like, there's nine people.

03:22:00.460 That's a lot of people.

03:22:02.820 Like, I don't know, like, nine people.

03:22:05.620 Like, I'm kind of chubby, man.

03:22:06.720 I don't think you can do me.

03:22:10.980 Like, in a bench press.

03:22:13.280 Too strong.

03:22:13.820 How much do you weigh?

03:22:16.720 Don't worry about it.

03:22:18.260 Okay.

03:22:20.600 I said that.

03:22:20.860 Did we read the rest of it?

03:22:22.280 Hello?

03:22:22.580 No, no.

03:22:23.840 What was the rest of it?

03:22:25.160 It was a little, I thought we said we were going to re-evaluate it.

03:22:28.600 Hey, girl.

03:22:29.840 What?

03:22:30.140 No, no.

03:22:30.600 It was just, my pecs would be so taught, you could bounce a silver dollar off them.

03:22:33.880 What the fuck?

03:22:35.440 What is that?

03:22:36.060 What the fuck?

03:22:36.840 Hey, girl, what is your true religion?

03:22:39.780 Is it because of my shirt?

03:22:42.160 Oh.

03:22:42.420 Oh.

03:22:42.820 Maybe.

03:22:43.440 But what does it mean?

03:22:44.460 It's a bike.

03:22:45.880 What does that mean?

03:22:46.760 I think it has to do with my shirt.

03:22:48.420 I don't know, but we know Star, Star, you're a Christian, right?

03:22:51.900 Yeah.

03:22:52.400 Andrew was actually, he sent me a text.

03:22:54.360 He said he was really curious what your denomination is.

03:22:56.620 I don't know what that means.

03:23:00.560 I'm new to this, kind of.

03:23:02.300 Do you attend a church?

03:23:04.220 Yeah, I go to Evergreen.

03:23:06.240 Okay.

03:23:09.180 Just normal Christian, I don't know.

03:23:12.740 Okay, good times.

03:23:14.540 Wait, can I say something?

03:23:17.060 Yeah, okay, go ahead.

03:23:19.100 I'm a Christian, too, and I do want to let you know, okay, all right?

03:23:23.140 I was never taught that there are other kinds of Christian, or, like, whatever they're talking about.

03:23:30.960 It was always just, oh, like, you are a Christian, so I feel what you feel.

03:23:37.240 Okay.

03:23:38.060 I mean, there's also just churches that are non-denominational.

03:23:41.920 Can someone explain that to me?

03:23:44.220 In Judaism, there's different.

03:23:45.500 Yeah, so there's...

03:23:46.380 It could be Hasidic or Chabad, like, it's...

03:23:48.520 There's distinctions in theology between Christians.

03:23:51.080 There's Christian science.

03:23:52.260 They believe the same things.

03:23:53.640 So, for instance, some Christians believe, well, almost all Christians believe in the Trinity,

03:23:57.740 but there are sects that call themselves Christians who are Unitarians.

03:24:00.880 They don't believe that Jesus Christ is God, but just think he was the Son of God, et cetera, et cetera.

03:24:05.680 There's Mormons who believe that Joseph Smith came and was a prophet.

03:24:10.800 There's Jehovah's Witnesses who have a completely different doctrine.

03:24:14.220 Though I wouldn't even call those Christian sects, but even within kind of mainstream Christianity,

03:24:20.320 you have Calvinists who believe in predetermination.

03:24:22.760 And, yeah, so there's distinctions in theology.

03:24:26.640 Oh, okay.

03:24:27.200 Well, I'm not Jehovah Witness or Jewish.

03:24:30.260 There's more than that.

03:24:31.140 Those are just, like, a few.

03:24:33.300 Well, Jewish wouldn't be Christian definitionally.

03:24:36.560 That's a whole different religion altogether.

03:24:38.160 I'm talking about just people who identify as being Christians.

03:24:41.380 So, Andrew's an Orthodox Christian.

03:24:43.620 It seems like you're open-minded, though, when it comes to Christianity.

03:24:46.620 Would you go to a liturgy with Andrew?

03:24:50.380 A what?

03:24:52.160 What's a liturgy?

03:24:54.100 I'm not even, I don't even, I just know words.

03:24:56.580 Well, you've, there's a distinction between how Orthodox Christianity and Catholic Christianity,

03:25:04.720 which is the original, we fight amongst ourselves about which was the original, right?

03:25:11.800 Orthodox was.

03:25:13.220 But there's a distinct way in which worship occurs there that is completely different than probably what you're used to.

03:25:22.200 I'm guessing you go into a building, you sing some songs and flap your hands around,

03:25:26.200 and then a guy comes up and he preaches for a while,

03:25:28.640 then you flap your hands around a little bit more, and then you leave, right?

03:25:32.720 Yeah.

03:25:33.380 Yeah, that's totally, so that's totally different, 100% different than how Christians actually worship.

03:25:42.240 So that's called Protestantism.

03:25:44.180 It's a whole, whole different, different form of it.

03:25:46.740 That thing.

03:25:47.380 Wait, you're.

03:25:47.760 So singing to God is bad?

03:25:49.580 Wait, hold on, hold on.

03:25:50.700 It's just a different form of theology.

03:25:52.140 Feel the presence of it?

03:25:53.300 Well, well, no, God wants to be worshipped a certain way.

03:25:58.840 Wait, question, you're.

03:26:00.580 Like, for instance, you have to acknowledge he's God.

03:26:03.280 So if he acknowledges God, then you would already be worshipping him a certain way, right?

03:26:07.560 Yeah, well, in Psalm it says to sing to God, too.

03:26:11.480 Sure, but are there distinct ways that God asks you to pray to him,

03:26:16.360 and how God asks you to conduct yourself in church, and how God asks you to do things?

03:26:20.700 Like, for instance, inside Protestant churches, there's often female preachers.

03:26:26.480 Female preachers are not allowed inside of traditional Christianity, period.

03:26:32.500 So there's lots of distinctions that are like this.

03:26:36.880 Wait, female creatures?

03:26:38.420 What do you mean?

03:26:39.040 Preachers.

03:26:39.520 Preachers, preachers, preachers.

03:26:40.980 I love that.

03:26:41.700 I love that.

03:26:42.140 So you're Filipino and Italian, mostly.

03:26:46.580 And Native American.

03:26:47.800 And Native American.

03:26:48.860 Yeah.

03:26:49.400 Aren't those, like, Filipino and.

03:26:51.800 Traditionally Catholic.

03:26:52.840 Italian are Catholic, typically.

03:26:55.100 Yeah, well, my parents are just Christian.

03:26:57.520 Like, we didn't hear about any of the different ones.

03:27:00.200 I was just raised Christian, but I didn't feel, like, faith or the presence of God until, like, two months ago.

03:27:06.120 And then I.

03:27:07.100 You should.

03:27:08.040 Wait.

03:27:09.120 Andrew, do you think she should explore, like, just cut through the BS and just, like, explore Orthodox Christianity?

03:27:17.840 Or.

03:27:18.400 I'm sorry.

03:27:18.800 I'm sorry, Brian.

03:27:19.420 Say that real quick.

03:27:20.420 You cut out a little bit.

03:27:21.740 Do you think she should just, like, rip off the Band-Aid, jump into the pool, like, cut out all the kind of, like, heresy churches and go straight to Orthodox?

03:27:32.860 Yeah.

03:27:33.280 I would go check out an Orthodox church.

03:27:35.160 Yeah.

03:27:35.320 If you want to experience what real Christianity always was, yeah, I would go check that out for sure.

03:27:43.160 It'll open up a whole different window in your spiritual journey.

03:27:48.000 Does it help you feel the fruit of the Spirit?

03:27:52.320 Well, yeah, we would have different definitions and different ways in which we would describe what that means, though.

03:27:58.320 When you say fruit of the Spirit, this is not, we can't look at these as being kind of subjective metrics, right?

03:28:07.240 There's objective ways to determine what are fruits of the Spirit.

03:28:11.400 So you can't just be like, well, you have the Holy Spirit.

03:28:14.460 Like, here, I'll give you an example of this.

03:28:16.000 If you read the Bible and you think it says one thing and somebody else reads the Bible and thinks it says another thing, how do you know you're right?

03:28:25.840 Yeah, but if they say they have the Holy Spirit and you say you have the Holy Spirit, who's right?

03:28:39.440 I don't really care about who's right.

03:28:44.760 I read the Bible myself and I also interpret it the way I, you know, understand it.

03:28:51.140 Yeah, that's called exegesis.

03:28:52.880 So exegesis is you read the Bible and you have the Holy Spirit.

03:28:57.480 The Holy Spirit is speaking through you as you interpret what the passage means.

03:29:03.380 And somebody else who's next to you, he also has the Holy Spirit and he interprets it to mean something else.

03:29:10.240 How do you determine which one of you is correct?

03:29:12.420 How do you know that you're not wrong and he's not right?

03:29:16.100 I guess you don't.

03:29:17.120 I'm always okay with being wrong.

03:29:18.740 But I just feel like if you were to, if your religion, I mean, kept you in God's presence, why do you practice variance every day?

03:29:33.480 It seems like a fleshly thing rather than living in the spirit, which is, you know, trying to live with love, joy, happiness, self-control and all those things and being nice to people.

03:29:43.640 But you argue with people every day.

03:29:44.460 Well, no, no, no.

03:29:45.420 Christianity is about mastering the passions.

03:29:47.700 There's a lot of things in the Bible.

03:29:49.960 There's a time and a place for passions, but you're not supposed to live inside of passions.

03:29:54.580 Not at all.

03:29:55.340 That's antithetical to Christian ethics is to live inside your passions.

03:29:59.880 Just living every day.

03:30:00.840 Well, it's about living in the spirit.

03:30:02.320 What's that?

03:30:03.160 It's about living in the spirit and not in flesh.

03:30:05.640 Yeah, but what does that mean?

03:30:07.980 Galatians 5, about living in the spirit.

03:30:10.640 There's a whole thing about living in the spirit.

03:30:11.560 Yeah, but what does that mean, though?

03:30:12.880 Like, how would you instruct somebody to do that?

03:30:14.940 Well, you would see the part where it says that is the flesh, which is sexual impurity, wrath, variance, like all the...

03:30:26.440 Yeah, but 500 different people read that and come away with 500 different interpretations.

03:30:31.360 How do you know which one's right?

03:30:32.820 How do you know who's correct?

03:30:34.100 That's the big problem, right?

03:30:36.960 Well, are you saying that you're correct?

03:30:38.680 Because I'm not saying that I'm completely correct.

03:30:40.660 I'm saying that I'm still learning, but you act like you know everything.

03:30:43.340 We have what's called apostolic succession, which goes all the way back to the original apostles of Jesus Christ from the church with an unchanging tradition.

03:30:53.320 And by the way, my church were the ones who put the Bible together.

03:30:56.680 We were the ones who put it together.

03:30:58.680 Put the entire Bible together, that was us.

03:31:00.800 We were the ones who put it together.

03:31:30.780 And theology, but yeah.

03:31:34.860 I think being loving is important, and I don't feel a lot of love in your spirit, Andrew.

03:31:41.060 I'm sorry, have I done something to you?

03:31:45.220 No, it's your spirit.

03:31:47.240 What does that mean?

03:31:48.880 You can judge my spirit?

03:31:53.560 By what capacity can you judge somebody's spirit?

03:31:57.660 If you don't know that in your heart, I can't explain it to you.

03:32:03.180 Huh?

03:32:04.400 Hmm?

03:32:05.200 Oh, okay.

03:32:06.380 So you know my spirit, and you can judge it through a screen based on a couple of minutes of exchange?

03:32:12.960 I can judge your energy, yes.

03:32:16.300 Oh, you can judge my energy.

03:32:17.760 Is that a Christian tenet?

03:32:20.080 Judging people's energy?

03:32:21.240 Everything's energy.

03:32:21.360 Or is that a satanic tenet?

03:32:22.640 It's not satanic.

03:32:24.320 Everything is spirit and energy.

03:32:26.620 Everything is spirit energy.

03:32:31.100 Where can I find that?

03:32:32.400 Is that in the book?

03:32:33.220 Have you just made it the fuck up?

03:32:34.520 Was it chapter four or five?

03:32:36.040 Like, where can I find this in the Bible?

03:32:38.020 The everything is spirit energy, and then I can learn how to judge it.

03:32:41.480 Isn't that heresy?

03:32:43.740 Total heresy.

03:32:45.020 But go ahead, tell me where it is.

03:32:46.660 I just don't feel the Holy Spirit in you.

03:32:48.600 I feel variance, and I refuse to argue with you anymore.

03:32:50.560 But I listen to the determination of somebody who doesn't feel the Holy Spirit coming off of me

03:32:55.440 when they just got done explaining to me a heresy.

03:32:58.640 A literal heresy that you judge people based on energy that's coming off of them.

03:33:03.460 By the way, does your church have a female pastor?

03:33:10.800 We don't.

03:33:11.400 I mean, I know it does.

03:33:12.300 Yeah, it does.

03:33:12.820 I just looked it up.

03:33:13.620 I'm looking at her name right now.

03:33:14.700 Do you want her name?

03:33:15.580 Why'd you just lie?

03:33:16.820 Is that a Christian tenet?

03:33:18.180 I've never seen a female pastor.

03:33:20.180 Never once, huh?

03:33:21.600 Not that I've been.

03:33:22.700 I've only been a few times.

03:33:24.260 Okay.

03:33:24.680 I'm new to this church, but I like it.

03:33:26.940 Okay.

03:33:27.200 But I don't care to argue with you much longer.

03:33:30.040 Yeah, no, but I care to argue with you.

03:33:31.600 I mean, now we're in the discussion.

03:33:33.640 You just said that I have no Holy Spirit, right?

03:33:36.420 So, and I don't know what you're judging this metric by.

03:33:39.660 Can you tell me, though, now that you know that there's a female pastor there,

03:33:44.200 are you going to stay there?

03:33:45.560 Because, I mean, clearly that's a heresy at least, right?

03:33:50.120 Or no?

03:33:52.820 I'd have to figure that out and judge it myself.

03:33:55.840 But I'm not orthodox.

03:33:56.900 I don't think she's...

03:33:58.760 Yeah, even Protestants don't believe that there's supposed to be female pastors.

03:34:02.280 But I also, I mean, it also says that women should be submissive.

03:34:06.240 And another pastor said that that was written back in a time where people were more misogynistic.

03:34:13.000 And people weren't treating women way worse back then.

03:34:15.260 And he believes that men and women should put each other first and submit to each other.

03:34:19.840 And I think that's true love is putting the other person first.

03:34:23.440 So, everyone has their own opinion.

03:34:25.700 And I respect everyone's opinion.

03:34:27.560 So, then how do we judge what is real Christianity?

03:34:29.960 It's just how we feel.

03:34:31.700 Like, can I worship the devil and be a real Christian?

03:34:34.120 Can I worship the devil and be a real Christian?

03:34:36.200 What would make me not a real Christian if I said, I worship the devil, but I'm also a Christian?

03:34:41.340 What would make me not a Christian?

03:34:42.600 Is there any criteria you could apply to that?

03:34:45.820 Like, any?

03:34:47.420 Well, I don't worship the devil.

03:34:49.200 Yeah, I know, but that's not my question.

03:34:50.700 My question is, if a person told you they worship the devil, but they're a Christian, what criteria would you apply that they're not?

03:34:57.900 As a Catholic, I would say, well, that doesn't align to what that was.

03:35:03.420 Let her answer.

03:35:04.240 Let her answer.

03:35:08.300 What criteria would I judge if someone's Christian or not?

03:35:12.940 Yeah.

03:35:13.240 I mean, I can't judge people because people say they're Christian, but then they have premarital sex, or they do a lot of sins, and they don't actually follow the Bible, but at the end of the day.

03:35:23.100 It sounds like you're judging them.

03:35:24.580 Huh?

03:35:25.600 Well, you're making an assessment, right?

03:35:27.320 You're making a value assessment.

03:35:28.420 You're saying, you're doing things which Christians aren't supposed to do, right?

03:35:32.980 What?

03:35:33.600 That's what you're doing.

03:35:34.940 That's a judgment.

03:35:35.800 Well, same with you.

03:35:36.480 You're saying in the Bible.

03:35:37.560 Yeah, exactly.

03:35:38.220 I agree.

03:35:38.540 All the time I judge what people are doing, whether or not it's part of Christian ethics or not, and I think all Christians are supposed to do that.

03:35:46.560 We're supposed to judge based on Christian ethics.

03:35:49.020 That's how we know what we should do, what we shouldn't do, and if people are doing what they should be doing or not doing, right?

03:35:54.060 That's how we know that.

03:35:55.740 I'm just asking, what is the standard for which you would even use to apply to tell a person who said that they worshiped the devil and were a Christian?

03:36:03.300 Would you even tell them that they weren't?

03:36:05.060 Would you be like, no, you're not?

03:36:06.160 You can't worship the devil and be, would you even say that to them?

03:36:10.480 Well, yeah, it's for worshiping the devil.

03:36:12.380 Well, then you judge.

03:36:14.660 You to an extent, I guess.

03:36:16.600 Yeah.

03:36:17.420 What's wrong with that?

03:36:18.340 Is there anything wrong with judgment?

03:36:20.180 I think when you're being mean about it, yes.

03:36:22.400 I don't want to be mean.

03:36:23.440 You are mean.

03:36:23.940 You are mean.

03:36:24.520 Is that in the first book of Nice, chapter four?

03:36:27.780 And I find that, is that in between Corinthians and Timothy?

03:36:32.980 Is it the book of Nice?

03:36:36.460 It's okay, Andrew.

03:36:37.460 I have nothing but love for you, and I don't wish to proceed on this conversation.

03:36:40.020 You sound like you have nothing but love for me.

03:36:44.340 You should probably end this the best Protestant way and just say, I'll pray for you.

03:36:48.400 Just say, I'll pray for you.

03:36:49.360 I mean, we know that that actually means fuck you, but you could say, I'll pray for you.

03:36:52.620 It's okay.

03:36:52.960 Go ahead.

03:36:53.940 I genuinely will pray for you.

03:36:55.840 I'm sure you will.

03:36:57.040 I'm sure you will pray for me.

03:36:58.540 Okay.

03:36:59.100 Wait.

03:36:59.440 And just like curious, like, I know you have, you feel your way or whatever about Andrew,

03:37:04.300 but.

03:37:04.980 The stoic Roman donated $200.

03:37:07.440 Yeah.

03:37:07.460 Thank you, bro.

03:37:08.160 Thank you, stoic Roman.

03:37:08.960 As a former Mormon, Joseph Smith was the first prophet since the apostles, but first and

03:37:14.800 foremost, the Lord Jesus is our Savior and Redeemer.

03:37:18.100 Uh, no, Joseph Smith was not a prophet, right?

03:37:23.100 There are no prophets after Jesus Christ.

03:37:25.240 There's none.

03:37:26.320 That's how you know that the Mormon church is a great heresy.

03:37:30.140 There are no prophets.

03:37:31.520 All right.

03:37:32.340 Thank you.

03:37:32.900 The stoic Roman, like what you had your, like you've, you didn't feel, what did you not feel

03:37:37.760 with Andrew?

03:37:38.300 What was it?

03:37:38.780 How was the phrasing?

03:37:40.020 What?

03:37:41.220 Like you said, like, she said, you got bad vibes from Andrew.

03:37:44.840 He doesn't give off the loving energy I'm used to.

03:37:47.440 I would, he's Christians.

03:37:49.300 Oh.

03:37:51.540 And like, what about for me?

03:37:53.260 Like, am I kind of like giving off that like dark, sinister, toxic vibe that Andrew's giving

03:37:58.100 off?

03:37:58.920 A little bit, but not as bad.

03:38:00.240 Not as bad?

03:38:00.900 Can I just, can I just ask two, two quick follow-up questions?

03:38:03.840 I'm not even going to debate with you.

03:38:04.820 I'm just curious from your worldview.

03:38:06.560 Do you think that it's okay to be LGBTQ and Christian?

03:38:10.960 Do you think that these are okay to, to, to put together that it's okay to be LGBTQ and

03:38:17.000 Christian?

03:38:17.440 I don't think I have to answer that because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so

03:38:25.560 I don't want to answer that.

03:38:27.040 I have love for everybody.

03:38:29.040 And everybody said, okay, and I said I'm not answering your question.

03:38:33.840 I'm sorry.

03:38:34.300 Aren't you supposed to defend all arguments and defend your faith against all people who

03:38:38.640 oppose anything that has to do with, that's your job, right?

03:38:41.640 It's to oppose that.

03:38:42.540 You can't, you can't speak the truth of your faith?

03:38:46.400 Really?

03:38:48.500 Is it compatible with Christianity or not?

03:38:50.660 Can I say something?

03:38:54.320 Hold on.

03:38:54.560 I'd like her to answer the question, is it compatible with Christianity or isn't it?

03:38:58.660 I know it's hard for men to take no for an answer.

03:39:01.760 I know it's hard for women to answer questions so they evade constantly, but I'd like for

03:39:05.660 you to actually answer the question.

03:39:07.000 Well, you're not going to get an answer because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

03:39:11.500 And that's not for God to judge, not me.

03:39:13.680 So I'm not answering further than that, Andrew.

03:39:16.060 You make judgments all the time.

03:39:17.380 You just already expressed that you did.

03:39:19.940 I mean, I don't know why suddenly you can't make a judgment.

03:39:22.160 Church for $8,200.

03:39:23.880 Bet Pinky would accuse John the Baptist of not having a loving energy if she read anything

03:39:28.560 that he said, and it's in the Bible.

03:39:30.620 Well, or Paul, for that matter.

03:39:33.800 But the thing is, okay, then I just have one more then.

03:39:37.120 You don't have to answer this, obviously.

03:39:38.460 You're not going to probably answer anything.

03:39:41.380 So we got female pastors.

03:39:43.500 You're not sure on that.

03:39:44.800 LGBTQ, you won't give us an answer on it.

03:39:46.700 If that's compatible with Christianity, what if a person does not believe that Jesus Christ

03:39:53.620 is God, but just the Son of God?

03:39:56.120 Is that Christianity?

03:39:57.080 That's not what we believe at our church and what I understand of the Bible, no.

03:40:04.700 It's the Trinity.

03:40:06.640 The Trinity.

03:40:08.900 Okay, but don't you think that that's going to hurt the feelings of the people who don't

03:40:14.320 believe in the Trinity?

03:40:16.760 Like the Jehovah Witnesses?

03:40:19.060 Well, I even think Jehovah's Witnesses might even be Trinitarians.

03:40:23.380 I'm not sure, but the people who are Unitarians, who don't believe in the Trinity,

03:40:27.440 isn't that going to hurt their feelings that you just said that?

03:40:30.400 It's not my intention to hurt anyone's feelings.

03:40:32.200 Well, I know.

03:40:33.260 But now that we've established that you can answer those questions, what about LGBTQ?

03:40:37.340 Is that Christian?

03:40:40.280 I think that would hurt people's feelings more, so I'm not going to answer it.

03:40:43.960 Okay.

03:40:45.080 All right.

03:40:45.460 All right.

03:40:45.520 Oh, by the way, guys, by the way, moving on to a different topic.

03:41:01.560 One sec.

03:41:02.240 It just occurred to me we had...

03:41:08.160 Giovanni J.D. donated $200.

03:41:11.880 Yeah, thank you, Giovanni.

03:41:12.800 Pink.

03:41:13.240 Don't mean this to be rude, but Christianity absent the Eucharist is like it whatever without

03:41:18.060 Brian's BLM pitch.

03:41:19.900 Start there.

03:41:21.180 Also, JW are not Trinitarians.

03:41:24.220 They're not even baseline Christian.

03:41:26.840 Yeah, they corrected me on that.

03:41:28.060 Well, they didn't correct me because I said I didn't know for sure, but yeah, that's my

03:41:33.000 understanding, too, is that they're Unitarians or something, some variant thereof.

03:41:38.380 Giovanni, thank you very much for the TTS man.

03:41:40.420 Good to see you back in the chat.

03:41:41.760 Hope your Tuesday is going well.

03:41:43.460 Oh, so the literally shaking rage quit from earlier, we're going to make that available

03:41:50.920 for your viewing pleasure either tonight or tomorrow, discord.gg slash whatever.

03:41:58.120 And Nick, if you're able to get the BTS tab pulled up over there on our Discord.

03:42:06.820 So this is our Discord, discord.gg slash whatever.

03:42:10.080 Guys, we've got over 7,000 members.

03:42:11.680 Help us get to 10,000 members.

03:42:14.680 So I'm going to post it in the behind-the-scenes portion, and then the most recent one that

03:42:19.760 we posted.

03:42:20.300 We're going to be posting a bunch more stuff.

03:42:21.660 I've got a backlog of some BTS kickouts or whatever.

03:42:25.180 This is Desiree when she attacked Andrew.

03:42:28.040 I don't know if you guys haven't heard of that, haven't seen it.

03:42:30.740 Desiree attacked Andrew with her derriere.

03:42:34.120 It was very disturbing.

03:42:36.160 Andrew actually told me he's never done therapy before, but he actually has gone to therapy.

03:42:41.440 to seek coping strategies for the assault, the attack.

03:42:47.720 So best wishes and prayers to Andrew's recovery from the...

03:42:57.440 We'll pray for him.

03:43:00.060 Discord.gg slash whatever.

03:43:02.080 There was a literally shaking rage quit.

03:43:03.860 She said, you'll pray for me.

03:43:04.880 I'll pray for you, Andrew.

03:43:08.040 Prayer.

03:43:08.620 What is it?

03:43:09.100 What do the people say?

03:43:10.700 Bless your heart.

03:43:12.180 No, they say like prayers.

03:43:14.380 We'll pray for you.

03:43:14.880 I'll pray for you.

03:43:15.920 Whenever you're in an argument with a Christian, right?

03:43:19.460 Or somebody who's identifying as a Christian, you're just usually Protestants.

03:43:22.320 And they say, when you're arguing and they're wrong or something like this, I'll pray for you.

03:43:27.120 That usually just means fuck you.

03:43:28.660 That's usually what I mean.

03:43:29.440 The argument's over and fuck you.

03:43:31.300 That's usually what they mean by that.

03:43:32.680 Does he have any info about like deliverance like she had discussed earlier?

03:43:36.060 Let's move it on.

03:43:36.960 Was that what you wanted to...

03:43:38.380 I just was wondering if...

03:43:39.300 Okay, I got to move it on.

03:43:41.140 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

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03:43:52.120 Thank you, Whack Attack, for clearing up the bug there.

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03:44:02.780 Open up another tab, twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:44:05.820 Also like the video, guys.

03:44:07.640 Like the video.

03:44:08.880 So let's get through the rest of the notes here.

03:44:11.600 We have Shannon.

03:44:13.020 Shannon, you said you're...

03:44:15.780 Okay.

03:44:17.500 Hold on.

03:44:18.160 Dating apps complicate but also help current dating.

03:44:22.700 Having a dating roster, talking to multiple men at once

03:44:25.260 while dating as a woman is a good thing.

03:44:29.140 I think that a lot of men date multiple women at once

03:44:34.680 and that women should also probably be dating multiple men at once.

03:44:40.680 I think having a roster that you're not sleeping with

03:44:43.900 is probably a good thing when you are dating

03:44:46.860 just to kind of have different options, I guess.

03:44:50.480 And just kind of like see who you're a best fit with

03:44:53.560 but also to not waste your own time.

03:44:57.360 Okay.

03:45:00.520 Who do you think has the ability to be dating multiple people?

03:45:06.240 Like who has a better ability to do that, men or women?

03:45:08.720 Because you said, well, a lot of guys do this.

03:45:11.440 Ergo, women should do it too because men do it.

03:45:14.300 I think it's only fair that both do it.

03:45:19.080 I mean, in the talking stages, in the dating world,

03:45:23.800 I think that some people only talk to one person at a time

03:45:28.040 but I think majority of people who are looking for a long-term relationship,

03:45:32.220 they go on dates with multiple people at the same time to kind of feel it out.

03:45:37.480 Now, you said it's only fair if both do it.

03:45:39.880 Is it, going back to the previous discussion,

03:45:42.940 is it only fair that women pay for dates?

03:45:45.980 Or pay for their selves on dates, excuse me?

03:45:49.440 If a woman wants to pay for herself on a date, she can

03:45:52.700 but I don't think that's the norm.

03:45:55.120 Why not?

03:45:56.620 Because of what I said before, there's chivalry.

03:45:59.100 Men, a lot of men still want to, at least for the first couple dates,

03:46:04.040 pay to show romantic interest.

03:46:08.160 No, none of them anymore want to pay for dates anymore.

03:46:10.540 They don't want to do that anymore?

03:46:12.200 Well, then they're probably not getting second or third dates.

03:46:16.120 Right.

03:46:16.480 Well, then it's not really a matter of,

03:46:20.920 because you kind of frame this like,

03:46:22.240 I'm doing this big favor to them by allowing them to embrace

03:46:26.680 their chivalrous nature and pay for my date.

03:46:30.140 Wow, how nice of me to do that for them.

03:46:33.280 But as it turns out, that's not really the case.

03:46:36.340 The case is that you just want to pay for the date, right?

03:46:39.400 That's actually what the case is?

03:46:41.240 I think because it shows romantic interest.

03:46:43.660 I think a lot of women,

03:46:45.240 if a man doesn't pay for the first or second date,

03:46:47.760 they think, oh, maybe this guy is just interested in being friends,

03:46:51.520 or they see down the line,

03:46:54.120 oh, we're going to be going 50-50 on everything

03:46:56.680 if I'm already paying 50-50 for a first date,

03:46:59.820 or if I'm paying fully for the first date,

03:47:02.800 then what makes me think this man's not gold digging after me?

03:47:08.140 Yeah, but I mean, if he's going 50-50 with you,

03:47:11.220 I don't understand what's the actual problem with that.

03:47:14.360 On the first couple dates, I think a lot of women,

03:47:16.680 it's kind of like guys are keeping it safe,

03:47:20.120 like, oh, I don't want to spend all this money on this girl,

03:47:22.600 but you know that if they were with their dream woman,

03:47:25.640 then they would have usually no problem paying the entire thing,

03:47:30.040 so it's kind of showing their interest level.

03:47:31.340 Well, couldn't you just reverse the logic there and say,

03:47:33.880 okay, if you're with your dream man,

03:47:35.940 you'd have no problem paying for everything?

03:47:38.720 Personally, my dream man would not have me paying for everything.

03:47:42.880 Yeah, but that's beside the point, right?

03:47:44.860 So I understand that's not your preference,

03:47:46.900 but couldn't the logic itself be applied the same way?

03:47:50.260 So if you say,

03:47:51.700 the type of man,

03:47:55.340 my dream guy,

03:47:56.820 the dream guy is going to pay for everything,

03:47:59.820 wouldn't the reverse of that for the man be,

03:48:02.140 okay, the dream girl pays for everything?

03:48:03.880 Wouldn't that be the same standard applied?

03:48:06.060 Sure.

03:48:06.640 If that's what their dream woman does,

03:48:09.500 then that's their dream woman.

03:48:12.000 You can't argue that.

03:48:13.360 So how is the idea that you want them to pay for the meal

03:48:16.320 anything short of entitlement?

03:48:18.440 I don't think it's entitled.

03:48:19.920 I think that,

03:48:21.200 what is he doing?

03:48:23.420 I'm sorry.

03:48:24.420 I think,

03:48:25.340 I'm sorry.

03:48:27.220 I think that's just kind of how our society

03:48:29.660 has normally been,

03:48:32.420 that men show chivalry through these acts of,

03:48:36.780 whether it be holding,

03:48:37.380 Paying for all your shit?

03:48:38.000 Not all of it,

03:48:39.360 but I think at the very beginning of dating,

03:48:42.080 there is the courting phase

03:48:43.480 where a man should bring flowers,

03:48:45.500 should hold the doors open,

03:48:47.860 and pay for the date.

03:48:49.100 Wait,

03:48:49.300 what does the woman do?

03:48:50.420 Just show up?

03:48:50.920 Yes,

03:48:51.140 I was going to say,

03:48:52.080 what should women do then?

03:48:54.520 You should show up looking your best

03:48:56.740 and prepared for the date,

03:48:58.080 and I would hope that...

03:48:59.720 So nothing.

03:49:00.540 So the expectation is that you put on makeup

03:49:02.820 and show up?

03:49:03.680 That's really the expectation?

03:49:04.480 That's pretty expensive.

03:49:05.500 Oh boy.

03:49:07.020 Do we have to do the math on this?

03:49:12.460 Wait,

03:49:13.000 is that the justification though?

03:49:16.020 Is this just like a summary of the podcast?

03:49:19.180 What is?

03:49:20.000 What this person dragged me to say.

03:49:21.560 I think it's somebody who would never had a chance

03:49:23.420 with any of us anyways.

03:49:24.420 We'll pull it up later.

03:49:25.440 Disregard.

03:49:28.380 No,

03:49:28.920 I think that women go into dates

03:49:31.280 with the expectation,

03:49:33.340 some women,

03:49:34.480 of that I want this to be

03:49:35.920 a long-term committed relationship.

03:49:39.020 And I think a guy,

03:49:40.880 even having a woman,

03:49:42.040 give them the courtesy

03:49:43.420 of going on a date with them

03:49:44.520 when so many women are nervous

03:49:47.340 and afraid to go out

03:49:49.360 one-on-one on dates with men.

03:49:50.860 Like, yeah, I think...

03:49:51.920 So it's a privilege.

03:49:53.040 It's a privilege to pay for your date.

03:49:54.520 I think it's a privilege.

03:49:55.740 Yeah,

03:49:56.000 I think it's a privilege

03:49:56.580 to be seen out in public

03:49:57.900 with a woman you find attractive.

03:50:01.760 So there...

03:50:02.380 So wait,

03:50:03.160 so it's not that women are privileged

03:50:05.780 and that you're privileged

03:50:06.940 because you have the expectation

03:50:08.020 that men will pay

03:50:09.980 for the dates they go on.

03:50:11.880 It's actually that men are privileged

03:50:14.020 because they're allowed

03:50:15.300 to take you on a date.

03:50:16.980 They should be grateful

03:50:17.820 for those sons of bitches.

03:50:19.440 to...

03:50:19.860 Even back in the day,

03:50:22.140 to even, like,

03:50:22.760 be on a date with a woman,

03:50:24.540 you had to usually, like,

03:50:25.860 ask her father

03:50:26.540 father and have a good job

03:50:29.380 and already have

03:50:30.820 some type of, like,

03:50:32.220 thing you could provide

03:50:33.120 to her to even get the first date.

03:50:34.460 No, that's an appeal.

03:50:35.000 You're just appealing

03:50:35.660 to history, right?

03:50:36.500 That is not the day we live in.

03:50:38.700 That is not the age we live in.

03:50:40.140 Some people like me.

03:50:40.520 You definitely don't have to ask

03:50:41.660 women's fathers

03:50:42.480 to take them on dates.

03:50:43.720 Some do, though,

03:50:44.620 and there's some people

03:50:45.740 who are still old-fashioned

03:50:46.920 in that sense.

03:50:48.320 Yeah,

03:50:48.540 but there's expectations

03:50:49.600 that came with that.

03:50:50.960 So, for instance,

03:50:52.200 the expectation for chivalry,

03:50:54.440 you can't just give

03:50:55.180 the one side of the coin

03:50:56.120 and say,

03:50:56.560 well, once upon a time,

03:50:57.860 men were very chivalrous

03:50:59.020 and they were only,

03:51:01.060 you know,

03:51:01.320 when they would take us on dates,

03:51:02.220 they'd pay for everything,

03:51:03.620 they would bring us flowers,

03:51:04.840 et cetera, et cetera.

03:51:05.420 That's all true.

03:51:06.240 But what about the other side

03:51:07.120 of the coin,

03:51:07.540 which was the women's responsibility?

03:51:08.960 Like, oh, here's one.

03:51:10.280 You only date one guy

03:51:11.160 at a time, right?

03:51:13.000 You're not dating any other guy

03:51:14.300 while you're dating one guy.

03:51:15.920 That would be a responsibility

03:51:17.540 that the woman had.

03:51:19.260 They're always on time.

03:51:20.440 They're always presentable.

03:51:21.740 Also, they're good company.

03:51:23.240 That would have been

03:51:23.900 a requirement for them as well.

03:51:25.320 None of those requirements

03:51:26.400 for women now.

03:51:27.380 Why would any of those

03:51:28.080 be requirements for men?

03:51:29.260 I mean, for some men,

03:51:30.360 having a woman

03:51:30.940 who's good company

03:51:31.940 is a requirement

03:51:32.680 and those women

03:51:33.560 who don't bring that

03:51:34.540 to the table

03:51:35.060 for that particular guy

03:51:36.240 also don't get

03:51:37.360 second or third dates.

03:51:39.380 Yeah, but your expectation

03:51:40.540 isn't that just traditional men

03:51:42.700 pay for the dates.

03:51:44.120 The expectation

03:51:44.680 would be non-traditional men

03:51:45.960 also pay for the dates, right?

03:51:47.400 If you're a non-traditional man

03:51:51.700 and then you wouldn't

03:51:53.400 necessarily pay for the date,

03:51:54.960 that makes sense.

03:51:55.940 But most traditional men

03:51:57.560 would pay for a first date.

03:52:00.160 And is that what you're after

03:52:01.080 as a traditional man?

03:52:03.740 I'm kind of in the middle

03:52:05.200 because I'm not planning

03:52:06.580 to be a stay-at-home mom.

03:52:07.820 So I don't need someone

03:52:08.600 who's a full-blown provider.

03:52:09.860 So then why do they pay

03:52:10.800 for the date?

03:52:11.280 I don't get it.

03:52:11.960 What are they paying

03:52:13.600 for the date

03:52:14.060 for if they're traditional

03:52:15.020 and they're traditional men?

03:52:16.180 They value that a woman

03:52:17.460 is out being their company

03:52:19.040 and they enjoy the company.

03:52:21.180 Do you think that

03:52:22.120 when men were chivalrously

03:52:24.000 paying for everything

03:52:25.200 for women

03:52:25.760 that they would have

03:52:26.380 the expectation

03:52:27.140 that the women

03:52:27.700 would be virgins?

03:52:30.620 Probably back in the day, yeah.

03:52:32.480 Yeah, and do you think

03:52:33.560 that they can have

03:52:34.280 any such expectation now?

03:52:36.600 Some men, yeah.

03:52:37.560 Some men do want

03:52:38.920 women who are virgins.

03:52:39.720 No, no, no.

03:52:40.040 Do you think that

03:52:40.520 they can have the expectation

03:52:41.580 that almost any woman

03:52:43.000 they go on a date with

03:52:43.840 is actually going to be

03:52:44.860 a virgin in this day and age?

03:52:46.240 They could ask beforehand

03:52:47.740 or they could get to know

03:52:48.800 the woman and figure it out.

03:52:49.500 Yeah, no, but that's not

03:52:49.820 my question.

03:52:50.500 My question is,

03:52:51.280 do you think that most men

03:52:52.760 would have the expectation

03:52:53.640 that basically any woman

03:52:55.000 they went on a date with

03:52:55.820 would be a virgin?

03:52:56.820 I think it depends

03:52:57.440 on how they met the woman.

03:52:58.640 If it's off of a random

03:52:59.760 dating app, then perhaps...

03:53:01.420 Wait, I just got to

03:53:02.720 come in on that,

03:53:03.600 but do random women

03:53:04.740 on dating apps

03:53:05.500 have the expectation

03:53:06.660 that men should pay

03:53:07.600 for first dates?

03:53:09.240 Usually, yeah.

03:53:10.000 I think so.

03:53:11.120 Yeah.

03:53:11.980 But we can't...

03:53:12.980 A woman's not a virgin

03:53:14.120 doesn't mean you don't

03:53:14.920 pay for the first date.

03:53:16.860 Yeah, but here's the thing.

03:53:18.920 So all you're doing

03:53:19.720 is saying that men

03:53:20.560 should have this holdover

03:53:21.720 responsibility of chivalry

03:53:23.360 from a bygone era

03:53:24.740 where they had the expectation

03:53:26.680 that the women

03:53:27.180 that they were with

03:53:28.020 were only dating them

03:53:29.020 and also were virgins.

03:53:30.820 Don't you think

03:53:31.320 that that's kind of

03:53:31.860 a raw end of the deal

03:53:32.780 for men now?

03:53:34.520 Well, men nowadays can...

03:53:36.900 You know, it's legal

03:53:37.560 to go 50-50

03:53:38.640 or have a woman pay

03:53:40.100 on a first date.

03:53:41.000 It's not illegal.

03:53:42.140 It's just preferences.

03:53:42.840 It never was.

03:53:43.860 Yeah, it's just preferences.

03:53:45.500 So, sure,

03:53:46.940 men back in the day

03:53:47.740 wanted to go

03:53:48.800 and pay for everything

03:53:49.820 for specifically a virgin

03:53:51.240 and now the goalpost

03:53:52.760 has shifted

03:53:53.160 where men want

03:53:54.220 to go on dates

03:53:54.880 with women

03:53:55.280 and they may

03:53:56.040 or may not be virgins

03:53:56.940 but it's kind of

03:53:57.680 an odd thing to ask

03:53:58.760 before going on

03:53:59.780 the first date.

03:54:00.460 Well, wait.

03:54:00.940 Almost none of them

03:54:01.680 are going to be.

03:54:02.760 Almost none.

03:54:03.620 Okay, then they should

03:54:04.540 hold out for someone

03:54:05.480 who is if that's

03:54:06.560 what they want.

03:54:07.540 Right, but why...

03:54:08.640 So, basically,

03:54:09.760 if a woman

03:54:10.640 or if a man

03:54:12.000 would have the preference

03:54:12.840 of a very low body

03:54:13.980 count or virgin woman

03:54:15.060 and it goes out

03:54:16.460 on any date

03:54:17.060 with a woman

03:54:17.420 who isn't that,

03:54:19.540 why the hell

03:54:20.560 would he pay

03:54:21.160 for everything?

03:54:21.740 That just makes

03:54:22.420 no sense.

03:54:23.340 Then he wouldn't

03:54:24.040 and that's not

03:54:24.580 the girl for him

03:54:25.380 so I understand him

03:54:26.480 wanting to go 50-50

03:54:27.740 but also...

03:54:28.740 Me too.

03:54:29.260 There wouldn't be

03:54:29.900 a first date.

03:54:31.080 Like, I think

03:54:31.720 if you have

03:54:32.340 these sort of

03:54:36.260 not rule breakers

03:54:37.260 but like dating

03:54:38.320 non-negotiables

03:54:40.320 then that's something

03:54:41.740 that you should

03:54:42.080 probably put

03:54:42.740 in the talking stage

03:54:43.740 before you go

03:54:44.440 on a physical date

03:54:45.320 with that person

03:54:45.840 and spend

03:54:46.520 your hard-earned money.

03:54:47.560 Yeah, but why

03:54:47.860 should there be

03:54:48.340 an expectation

03:54:49.300 that a woman

03:54:50.540 is not traditional?

03:54:52.140 She slept with

03:54:52.720 like many, many men

03:54:53.780 for instance,

03:54:55.120 okay?

03:54:55.760 Or any number

03:54:56.780 of these

03:54:57.080 non-traditional traits

03:54:58.340 that modern women have,

03:55:00.400 why should they

03:55:00.940 have any expectation

03:55:02.100 to have any sort

03:55:03.360 of traditionalism

03:55:04.520 out of a man

03:55:05.060 like paying for dates

03:55:05.920 opening doors

03:55:06.680 and chivalry?

03:55:07.440 I don't even understand

03:55:08.180 how is that anything

03:55:08.960 other than entitlement?

03:55:10.380 I'm not going to do

03:55:11.160 any of the expectations

03:55:12.200 for the things

03:55:13.540 that women used to do

03:55:14.900 for this chivalry

03:55:15.780 but I still want

03:55:16.520 the chivalry.

03:55:17.280 Can you explain

03:55:17.640 how that's not

03:55:18.340 actually entitlement?

03:55:20.360 I guess it's just

03:55:21.520 to each their own.

03:55:22.980 Like, I would expect

03:55:25.780 a man to not be a virgin

03:55:27.560 but...

03:55:28.360 I would expect, yeah,

03:55:29.420 a man to not be a virgin

03:55:30.280 but still be wanting

03:55:31.740 to pay on a first date.

03:55:34.840 So why myself

03:55:37.020 going on a first date

03:55:38.100 potentially as a non-virgin?

03:55:40.540 Would I expect a man

03:55:41.580 to not want to pay?

03:55:42.700 I mean, if men...

03:55:43.760 Yeah, so I mean,

03:55:44.380 if you're not a virgin

03:55:45.820 and he's not a virgin,

03:55:47.580 I still don't understand

03:55:48.820 why he's paying here.

03:55:51.440 Yeah, I mean...

03:55:52.260 I still don't get that.

03:55:52.860 Does men value

03:55:53.200 having a woman

03:55:54.280 to go out with?

03:55:55.040 If he didn't want to pay,

03:55:56.400 he didn't want to be there,

03:55:57.400 he wouldn't ask

03:55:58.560 the person on the date

03:55:59.560 in the first place.

03:56:01.780 Well, that's bizarre.

03:56:03.200 If you wouldn't accept,

03:56:04.600 I would hope,

03:56:05.520 if you didn't want

03:56:06.560 to be there

03:56:07.080 and didn't want

03:56:07.700 to go with him

03:56:08.380 unless it was just

03:56:09.180 for the purpose

03:56:09.740 of getting, like,

03:56:10.600 a free dinner out of it.

03:56:12.300 No, I don't think

03:56:13.180 most women are going

03:56:14.420 on first dates for that.

03:56:14.760 Well, then if it's not...

03:56:15.700 If you're not going

03:56:16.400 to get free shit,

03:56:17.720 then you're there

03:56:18.340 for the same reason

03:56:19.380 he's there.

03:56:21.020 Right?

03:56:22.560 No, I'm there

03:56:23.480 to see if there's potential

03:56:24.680 for a long-term relationship.

03:56:26.540 I think a lot of...

03:56:27.460 That he's there for?

03:56:29.380 I think he's there

03:56:30.500 for the potential

03:56:32.100 of a long-term relationship

03:56:32.900 or a short-term relationship.

03:56:35.360 I think men go out

03:56:36.880 with any woman.

03:56:37.740 So every...

03:56:38.540 But that's a preference

03:56:39.400 of almost anybody.

03:56:40.620 So any woman

03:56:41.080 going out with a man,

03:56:41.860 it could be the same thing,

03:56:42.880 right?

03:56:43.700 But the thing is,

03:56:44.460 I assume that if a man

03:56:45.660 asks you out,

03:56:46.500 you're not there

03:56:47.160 because you want free shit.

03:56:48.540 You're there

03:56:49.200 because you want to know

03:56:50.160 the potentiality

03:56:51.060 of having a long-term

03:56:51.920 relationship with him.

03:56:53.140 Yes.

03:56:53.320 If that is the case,

03:56:55.220 then again,

03:56:55.900 you haven't really shown me

03:56:57.240 why he's supposed

03:56:58.040 to pay for everything

03:56:59.020 other than you just

03:56:59.560 want him to.

03:57:00.680 Well, we answered

03:57:01.500 the love at first sight

03:57:02.540 question.

03:57:03.340 So most of us agree

03:57:04.560 that love at first sight

03:57:05.560 isn't a thing,

03:57:06.620 but attraction

03:57:07.440 and wanting to get

03:57:08.400 to know the person

03:57:09.120 further is.

03:57:10.340 So if you've been

03:57:11.900 messaging on a dating app

03:57:13.000 or you met in person,

03:57:14.060 you already have

03:57:14.840 this initial attraction

03:57:16.320 and want to get

03:57:16.980 to know the person more.

03:57:18.860 So then,

03:57:19.520 if you're a guy

03:57:20.860 and you want the chance

03:57:21.760 of getting to know

03:57:22.340 a woman further,

03:57:23.320 usually you would

03:57:24.340 pay for the date

03:57:24.960 and not go 50-50

03:57:26.040 because...

03:57:26.520 Well, wait, wait, wait.

03:57:28.740 Doesn't the...

03:57:29.380 Isn't the woman

03:57:30.220 going on the date

03:57:31.540 to also do the same thing,

03:57:32.880 get to know him further?

03:57:33.840 Otherwise,

03:57:34.180 why is she going?

03:57:35.720 Yeah.

03:57:36.280 And I want to know

03:57:37.600 what kind of guy you are

03:57:39.140 and if you're going

03:57:40.060 to make me pay

03:57:41.380 for the bill

03:57:41.880 or split,

03:57:42.660 that's, to me,

03:57:44.160 a bad sign

03:57:45.280 of a long-term relationship.

03:57:46.700 Like, you're already

03:57:47.360 expecting off the bat

03:57:48.540 for me to be paying half.

03:57:51.300 Why is that

03:57:52.080 an unreasonable expectation?

03:57:54.220 Just for me personally,

03:57:55.320 it's just not my cup of tea.

03:57:56.880 I just don't think

03:57:57.680 that it shows

03:57:58.540 true romantic interest.

03:58:00.260 Like, I want them

03:58:00.980 to be investing

03:58:02.400 in the relationship

03:58:03.040 not only time

03:58:04.900 but also some finances.

03:58:07.080 I mean,

03:58:07.300 it seems like

03:58:07.820 a complete double standard

03:58:08.920 but I won't belabor

03:58:10.000 the point.

03:58:11.060 I think that's why

03:58:11.780 a lot of guys

03:58:12.480 maybe don't get

03:58:13.180 second or third dates

03:58:14.260 because sometimes

03:58:16.440 it's just from

03:58:17.380 splitting the bill maybe.

03:58:18.620 Some women just

03:58:19.120 don't like that approach

03:58:20.200 but also I think

03:58:21.160 maybe if the chemistry

03:58:22.060 and the vibe is off

03:58:23.140 and even if the guy

03:58:24.740 pays the whole bill,

03:58:26.340 they might not get

03:58:26.980 a second or third date

03:58:27.880 because the vibe's

03:58:28.600 just off.

03:58:29.120 It just kind of depends

03:58:29.880 on the person

03:58:30.560 you're dating.

03:58:34.380 I thought it was

03:58:35.380 like because

03:58:35.760 biologically men...

03:58:36.820 Wait, do you think

03:58:37.760 that the vibe...

03:58:38.520 Wait, I just want to

03:58:39.140 make sure I'm clear

03:58:39.640 on this.

03:58:41.100 You would not date...

03:58:43.320 Let's say he's

03:58:43.840 Mr. Perfect.

03:58:44.960 He's in the looks

03:58:45.780 department,

03:58:46.380 personality,

03:58:46.980 everything else

03:58:47.720 but he just says,

03:58:49.000 look, I don't think

03:58:50.480 it's fair for me

03:58:51.060 to have to pay

03:58:51.660 for the entirety

03:58:52.900 of this date

03:58:53.900 if we're both here

03:58:54.860 for the same purpose.

03:58:56.460 You're saying

03:58:56.740 that's a disqualifier

03:58:57.940 for you

03:58:58.520 even though

03:58:59.260 all the other

03:59:00.020 marks are checked?

03:59:01.260 If it's like

03:59:02.060 a first or second date,

03:59:03.800 I wouldn't find

03:59:06.000 it very attractive

03:59:06.780 but after a while

03:59:08.420 I think that

03:59:09.720 going back and forth

03:59:11.380 on paying for dates

03:59:12.800 after you get

03:59:13.220 to know the person

03:59:14.000 but I really want

03:59:14.980 to see effort

03:59:16.620 on the guy's part

03:59:18.100 that they're invested

03:59:19.660 in getting to know me.

03:59:23.080 Well, let me just ask you...

03:59:24.260 I'll follow up

03:59:24.800 this last thing.

03:59:26.600 If it were the case

03:59:28.400 that a man told you,

03:59:30.340 asked you out

03:59:30.960 and said that he did not

03:59:32.060 want to pay for the date,

03:59:33.320 would you consider

03:59:33.800 that a red flag?

03:59:35.580 Yes.

03:59:36.360 Then why do you have

03:59:37.720 the expectation

03:59:38.480 that he wouldn't see

03:59:39.720 the same red flag

03:59:40.720 with you

03:59:41.340 if you refused?

03:59:42.720 I think a lot of guys

03:59:43.720 do.

03:59:46.260 They don't like

03:59:47.360 a woman who just

03:59:48.060 expects men

03:59:49.460 to pay on the first date.

03:59:52.220 Which you are

03:59:53.020 one of those women.

03:59:54.260 But my expectations

03:59:55.580 come from

03:59:56.240 my lived reality

03:59:57.240 which is that

03:59:58.080 pretty much

03:59:58.860 for the most part

03:59:59.440 every date I've been on

04:00:00.500 the guy has paid

04:00:01.420 but come towards

04:00:03.600 the second or third date

04:00:04.580 I'll offer to split

04:00:05.920 and most of the time

04:00:06.740 they don't want to.

04:00:07.600 Well, how magnanimous

04:00:10.240 of you.

04:00:11.660 Okay, I appreciate

04:00:13.100 the back and forth there.

04:00:17.080 Oh, I was just

04:00:18.000 going to say

04:00:18.380 I just thought

04:00:18.900 that it was

04:00:19.280 because biologically

04:00:20.280 men were providers

04:00:21.360 and protectors

04:00:22.320 and women were

04:00:23.360 nurturers and caretakers

04:00:24.780 so I thought

04:00:25.880 biologically

04:00:26.820 we would look

04:00:27.380 for those traits

04:00:28.020 and they would

04:00:28.480 look for that in us.

04:00:30.540 Yeah, so I don't

04:00:31.420 dispute that

04:00:33.200 I think

04:00:33.680 the ontology

04:00:34.900 of men and women

04:00:35.580 follows this pedigree.

04:00:37.040 However,

04:00:38.300 I think that

04:00:38.940 if that is true

04:00:39.820 aren't women

04:00:40.460 supposed to be

04:00:41.320 acting in that

04:00:42.920 pedigree

04:00:43.720 and not

04:00:44.800 acting in some

04:00:46.320 other manner

04:00:47.080 meaning

04:00:47.480 okay, I want

04:00:49.080 a provider

04:00:49.740 and I want

04:00:50.760 a provider

04:00:51.340 to take care

04:00:52.060 of me

04:00:52.520 and etc.

04:00:54.380 etc.

04:00:54.740 In this case

04:00:55.800 you the woman

04:00:56.420 is the nurturer

04:00:57.120 blah blah blah blah blah

04:00:57.820 but if that's the case

04:00:59.560 and you want to do this

04:01:00.320 the correct way

04:01:01.140 why wouldn't

04:01:01.740 the expectation

04:01:03.240 of the man

04:01:03.820 be then

04:01:04.340 that you did

04:01:05.260 everything

04:01:05.960 in that traditional

04:01:06.740 way

04:01:07.120 meaning

04:01:07.500 virginity

04:01:09.220 or low body

04:01:10.120 count at the very

04:01:10.900 least

04:01:11.400 or the submission

04:01:13.300 portion of this

04:01:14.440 etc.

04:01:15.740 etc.

04:01:15.980 Why wouldn't he

04:01:16.560 have those

04:01:16.940 expectations?

04:01:17.960 It's like

04:01:18.260 you can't ask

04:01:19.180 him to provide

04:01:20.540 you with all

04:01:20.960 those things

04:01:21.440 and then not

04:01:22.260 give your end

04:01:23.380 of that

04:01:23.800 right?

04:01:24.180 Otherwise

04:01:24.660 you know

04:01:26.220 what are you

04:01:26.520 doing here?

04:01:29.600 Yeah, I'm

04:01:30.240 just saying

04:01:30.640 that biologically

04:01:31.380 we just feel

04:01:32.120 that way

04:01:32.680 like

04:01:34.240 that's just

04:01:35.860 the way

04:01:36.160 we feel

04:01:37.020 Okay

04:01:38.380 I guess

04:01:38.940 biologically

04:01:39.620 men also

04:01:40.260 prefer women

04:01:41.020 who are

04:01:41.480 not promiscuous

04:01:42.400 and virgins

04:01:43.260 but

04:01:43.600 biologically

04:01:45.300 men like

04:01:45.820 paying for

04:01:46.200 dates

04:01:46.440 Brian

04:01:46.740 yeah

04:01:49.900 well this

04:01:50.540 all stemmed

04:01:51.040 from

04:01:51.340 I think

04:01:51.820 this all

04:01:52.160 stemmed

04:01:52.380 from

04:01:52.540 we were

04:01:52.760 talking

04:01:53.040 about

04:01:53.300 rotational

04:01:53.760 dating

04:01:54.160 women

04:01:54.680 you said

04:01:55.960 well men

04:01:57.760 do this

04:01:58.400 men

04:01:59.080 they

04:02:00.880 date

04:02:01.640 multiple

04:02:01.960 women

04:02:02.220 at the

04:02:02.480 same

04:02:02.640 time

04:02:02.940 so

04:02:03.200 women

04:02:03.440 should

04:02:03.640 do

04:02:03.760 the

04:02:03.940 same

04:02:04.280 and then

04:02:05.960 I think

04:02:06.380 that's

04:02:06.960 how we

04:02:07.320 got back

04:02:07.740 into it

04:02:08.120 about

04:02:08.380 well

04:02:09.100 so then

04:02:11.240 women

04:02:11.640 should

04:02:12.020 pay

04:02:12.900 because

04:02:13.440 that's

04:02:13.960 what

04:02:14.140 men

04:02:14.480 do

04:02:14.780 it's

04:02:17.160 not

04:02:17.420 illegal

04:02:17.920 to pay

04:02:18.420 for a

04:02:18.740 first

04:02:18.960 date

04:02:19.220 if you're

04:02:19.540 a woman

04:02:19.880 you can

04:02:20.740 but I

04:02:21.400 just

04:02:21.620 think

04:02:21.860 that

04:02:22.080 typically

04:02:22.800 women

04:02:23.620 are under

04:02:24.380 the assumption

04:02:24.860 that if a

04:02:25.320 man asks

04:02:25.800 them out

04:02:26.140 and wants

04:02:26.460 to get

04:02:26.680 to know

04:02:26.940 them

04:02:27.080 further

04:02:27.420 that they

04:02:28.460 would be

04:02:28.880 more than

04:02:29.200 happy

04:02:29.580 to pay

04:02:30.520 for a

04:02:30.820 first

04:02:31.020 date

04:02:31.320 sure

04:02:33.840 yeah

04:02:34.100 most men

04:02:34.620 are more

04:02:35.300 probably

04:02:36.080 more than

04:02:36.440 happy

04:02:36.640 to pay

04:02:36.880 for the

04:02:37.100 first

04:02:37.320 date

04:02:37.520 but the

04:02:37.820 thing

04:02:37.980 is that

04:02:38.500 I as a

04:02:39.440 man

04:02:39.660 can never

04:02:40.440 go into

04:02:41.020 a date

04:02:41.460 with the

04:02:42.120 same

04:02:42.500 expectations

04:02:43.240 that women

04:02:44.220 can go

04:02:44.680 into

04:02:44.860 are you

04:02:45.140 going on

04:02:45.500 a date

04:02:45.760 with another

04:02:46.280 man

04:02:46.700 how

04:02:48.240 I don't

04:02:48.600 see how

04:02:48.900 that's

04:02:49.260 then you

04:02:49.600 can maybe

04:02:50.040 have that

04:02:50.760 expectation

04:02:51.580 of getting

04:02:52.960 your date

04:02:53.400 paid for

04:02:53.860 with a

04:02:54.300 man

04:02:54.720 that's not

04:02:56.560 that doesn't

04:02:57.200 map on

04:02:57.680 one-to-one

04:02:58.180 about the

04:02:58.480 conversation

04:02:58.860 we're having

04:02:59.380 because

04:02:59.700 we're talking

04:03:00.660 about women

04:03:01.140 dating men

04:03:01.800 and men

04:03:02.440 dating

04:03:02.640 women

04:03:03.000 it's

04:03:03.660 not even

04:03:03.940 clear to

04:03:04.300 me

04:03:04.440 I don't

04:03:04.860 know how

04:03:05.400 gay guys

04:03:06.040 go about

04:03:06.540 it

04:03:06.660 I thought

04:03:06.920 they just

04:03:07.320 I didn't

04:03:08.680 think that

04:03:09.100 I don't

04:03:10.020 know how

04:03:10.200 they do

04:03:10.480 it

04:03:10.760 you don't

04:03:12.260 know

04:03:12.540 yeah I

04:03:13.100 don't know

04:03:13.300 how you're

04:03:13.640 kind of

04:03:13.840 giving vibes

04:03:14.360 like you

04:03:14.740 might know

04:03:15.480 BLM

04:03:18.980 wait how

04:03:20.200 how does

04:03:20.380 labia

04:03:20.860 get

04:03:21.140 it comes

04:03:22.600 into

04:03:22.820 everything

04:03:23.440 well it

04:03:24.500 gets

04:03:24.660 cummed

04:03:25.000 in

04:03:25.200 well

04:03:25.580 what

04:03:25.920 the fuck

04:03:26.600 you

04:03:27.040 degens

04:03:27.480 well like

04:03:28.600 you're upset

04:03:29.120 because you

04:03:29.980 want the

04:03:30.580 expectation

04:03:31.160 to be a

04:03:31.780 man goes

04:03:32.420 into a

04:03:32.960 date with

04:03:33.380 a woman

04:03:33.720 and she

04:03:34.120 would pay

04:03:34.540 right

04:03:34.900 no he's

04:03:36.660 saying the

04:03:37.200 expectation

04:03:37.740 that if

04:03:38.340 he would

04:03:38.720 prefer

04:03:39.000 if women

04:03:39.940 prefer men

04:03:40.640 to pay

04:03:41.060 for dates

04:03:41.620 they equally

04:03:42.320 could have

04:03:42.700 the same

04:03:43.020 expectation

04:03:43.460 that women

04:03:43.860 would not

04:03:44.240 be promiscuous

04:03:45.040 the argument

04:03:45.800 was

04:03:46.180 oh look

04:03:48.360 at

04:03:48.500 lol paladins

04:03:49.380 donated

04:03:49.880 two hundred

04:03:50.660 dollars and

04:03:51.300 two cents

04:03:52.060 it's simple

04:03:53.280 andrew

04:03:53.780 she needs

04:03:54.720 to get

04:03:55.040 paid for

04:03:55.540 her time

04:03:56.240 same as

04:03:57.220 any other

04:03:57.680 escort

04:03:58.220 call it

04:03:59.200 what it

04:03:59.580 is

04:03:59.920 prostitution

04:04:00.980 modern women

04:04:02.100 are trash

04:04:02.860 it's just

04:04:03.860 the way

04:04:04.340 I feel

04:04:04.900 your energy

04:04:05.520 is that

04:04:06.000 of a

04:04:06.320 cool

04:04:06.560 lol paladins

04:04:07.780 we do not

04:04:08.500 tolerate

04:04:09.080 that

04:04:09.900 that

04:04:10.620 misogyny

04:04:11.720 disavow

04:04:12.840 um go ahead

04:04:13.560 with your

04:04:14.040 that's just

04:04:15.100 simply what

04:04:15.500 the argument

04:04:15.840 is

04:04:16.060 it's just

04:04:16.480 if you

04:04:17.560 if you

04:04:18.040 expect

04:04:18.340 to be

04:04:19.040 paid for

04:04:19.520 for the

04:04:19.820 first date

04:04:20.300 and I'm

04:04:21.060 not deciding

04:04:21.560 what I need

04:04:21.920 but it's even

04:04:22.620 more pointed

04:04:23.260 right

04:04:23.700 I mean

04:04:24.320 she's

04:04:24.860 she's right

04:04:25.440 but it's

04:04:25.780 even more

04:04:26.060 pointed than

04:04:26.480 that

04:04:26.740 it's just

04:04:27.160 to ask

04:04:27.580 oh I

04:04:28.380 want to

04:04:28.580 be a

04:04:28.820 boss

04:04:29.140 babe

04:04:29.520 and I

04:04:29.840 want to

04:04:30.240 not be

04:04:30.600 a stay

04:04:30.880 at home

04:04:31.160 mom

04:04:31.560 and I

04:04:31.820 don't

04:04:31.980 want to

04:04:32.180 give

04:04:32.320 you

04:04:32.440 children

04:04:32.820 I

04:04:33.040 don't

04:04:33.220 want

04:04:33.440 to

04:04:33.540 do

04:04:33.700 any

04:04:33.940 of

04:04:34.100 the

04:04:34.200 traditional

04:04:34.660 shit

04:04:35.100 that

04:04:35.860 men

04:04:36.240 would

04:04:36.420 want

04:04:36.860 in their

04:04:44.040 as though

04:04:44.480 I am

04:04:45.000 providing

04:04:45.620 all of

04:04:46.040 those

04:04:46.260 things

04:04:46.580 and it's

04:04:46.900 like

04:04:47.140 at that

04:04:47.560 point

04:04:47.880 isn't it

04:04:48.540 delusional

04:04:49.060 to have

04:04:49.360 that

04:04:49.500 expectation

04:04:50.180 but you're

04:04:50.880 not providing

04:04:51.500 those things

04:04:54.300 on the

04:04:54.620 first date

04:04:55.340 you're

04:04:56.500 already

04:04:57.120 signifying

04:04:58.020 that

04:04:58.760 you are

04:04:59.420 providing

04:04:59.920 that

04:05:00.280 yes

04:05:00.920 wait

04:05:01.640 first date

04:05:02.280 the

04:05:03.820 what

04:05:04.480 the woman

04:05:05.200 shouldn't

04:05:05.540 what

04:05:05.780 woman

04:05:06.160 shouldn't

04:05:06.420 pay

04:05:06.600 oh

04:05:07.660 well I was

04:05:08.980 actually

04:05:09.200 going to

04:05:09.480 sort of

04:05:10.000 relate it

04:05:10.360 to that

04:05:10.680 I was

04:05:11.180 going to

04:05:11.360 hang on

04:05:11.840 hang on

04:05:12.080 hang on

04:05:12.600 hang on

04:05:12.980 real quick

04:05:13.540 before you

04:05:13.920 go into

04:05:14.200 that

04:05:14.560 yes

04:05:15.740 there is

04:05:16.260 a

04:05:16.400 signifier

04:05:16.960 here

04:05:17.340 if

04:05:18.100 you're

04:05:18.260 saying

04:05:18.600 I

04:05:18.920 will

04:05:19.100 I

04:05:19.280 like

04:05:19.580 a

04:05:19.740 traditional

04:05:20.260 man

04:05:20.860 who's

04:05:21.340 going to

04:05:21.560 pay

04:05:21.820 for my

04:05:22.260 even

04:05:23.000 the

04:05:23.200 first

04:05:23.480 date

04:05:23.800 you

04:05:24.420 are

04:05:24.680 sending

04:05:24.980 out

04:05:25.180 the

04:05:25.360 signal

04:05:25.660 that

04:05:25.940 you

04:05:26.320 are

04:05:26.600 a

04:05:26.740 traditional

04:05:27.140 woman

04:05:27.620 right

04:05:28.720 that

04:05:29.260 is

04:05:29.460 what

04:05:29.720 you

04:05:29.900 are

04:05:30.080 essentially

04:05:30.500 inferring

04:05:31.240 and so

04:05:32.060 of course

04:05:32.360 you're

04:05:32.520 going to

04:05:32.600 show up

04:05:32.920 on the

04:05:33.140 first

04:05:33.340 date

04:05:33.540 and

04:05:33.660 feel

04:05:33.760 like

04:05:33.900 he

04:05:33.980 got

04:05:34.140 robbed

04:05:34.620 he's

04:05:34.960 going

04:05:35.040 to

04:05:35.060 be

04:05:35.160 like

04:05:35.320 what

04:05:35.460 the

04:05:35.620 fuck

04:05:35.840 kind

04:05:35.980 of

04:05:36.100 bullshit

04:05:36.420 is

04:05:36.720 this

04:05:36.920 you

04:05:37.320 don't

04:05:37.700 want

04:05:37.820 to

04:05:37.880 be

04:05:37.980 a

04:05:38.120 stay

04:05:38.240 at

04:05:38.360 home

04:05:38.480 mom

04:05:38.720 and

04:05:38.980 you

04:05:39.300 still

04:05:39.560 got

04:05:39.700 to

04:05:39.800 pay

04:05:39.940 for

04:05:40.080 the

04:05:40.180 first

04:05:40.420 date

04:05:40.680 that

04:05:40.880 seems

04:05:41.120 absurd

04:05:41.660 right

04:05:41.960 well

04:05:42.480 at least

04:05:42.980 in

04:05:43.180 the

04:05:43.460 relationship

04:05:43.860 that

04:05:44.140 I'm

04:05:44.360 actually

04:05:44.900 in

04:05:45.360 my

04:05:47.260 boyfriend

04:05:47.760 and I

04:05:48.080 have

04:05:48.280 discussed

04:05:48.900 having

04:05:49.520 children

04:05:50.100 in the

04:05:50.420 future

04:05:50.820 and it's

04:05:51.660 not

04:05:51.900 that

04:05:52.080 I

04:05:52.540 have

04:05:53.520 decided

04:05:54.040 I'm

04:05:54.500 not

04:05:54.780 going

04:05:55.000 to

04:05:55.120 be

04:05:55.240 a

04:05:55.400 stay

04:05:55.580 at

04:05:55.700 home

04:05:55.880 mom

04:05:56.180 I'm

04:05:56.440 crushing

04:05:56.780 your

04:05:57.040 dreams

04:05:57.540 it's

04:05:58.080 that

04:05:58.280 we

04:05:58.420 both

04:05:58.660 agree

04:05:59.040 that

04:05:59.600 having

04:05:59.860 kids

04:06:00.280 is

04:06:00.480 probably

04:06:00.760 not

04:06:01.060 something

04:06:01.280 that

04:06:01.440 we

04:06:01.560 want

04:06:01.880 to

04:06:02.120 do

04:06:02.460 together

04:06:03.000 so

04:06:04.120 I

04:06:04.920 don't

04:06:05.080 think

04:06:05.420 that

04:06:05.960 just

04:06:06.480 because

04:06:06.680 a

04:06:06.820 woman

04:06:06.980 doesn't

04:06:07.260 want

04:06:07.440 to

04:06:07.540 be

04:06:07.660 a

04:06:07.840 stay

04:06:08.020 at

04:06:08.140 home

04:06:08.420 mom

04:06:08.920 or

04:06:09.380 have

04:06:10.140 someone's

04:06:10.660 children

04:06:11.020 did he

04:06:11.620 pay

04:06:11.860 for the

04:06:12.760 first

04:06:12.980 date

04:06:13.240 yeah

04:06:13.560 sucker

04:06:14.660 what a

04:06:15.360 sucker

04:06:15.700 but I'm

04:06:16.880 in a

04:06:17.120 relationship

04:06:17.600 with him

04:06:18.000 now

04:06:18.540 wait

04:06:18.860 question

04:06:19.120 he's

04:06:19.460 as

04:06:19.600 big

04:06:19.800 a

04:06:19.920 sucker

04:06:20.180 now

04:06:20.480 as

04:06:20.620 he

04:06:20.700 was

04:06:20.900 when he

04:06:21.280 paid

04:06:21.480 for

04:06:21.620 those

04:06:21.760 first

04:06:22.020 two

04:06:22.320 I

04:06:22.680 don't

04:06:22.880 think

04:06:23.180 he

04:06:23.320 would

04:06:23.460 agree

04:06:23.760 with

04:06:24.060 that

04:06:24.480 wait

04:06:24.760 so

04:06:25.600 you've

04:06:25.780 been

04:06:25.880 dating

04:06:26.080 this

04:06:26.280 guy

04:06:26.400 for

04:06:26.580 six

04:06:26.840 months

04:06:27.180 around

04:06:27.560 you

04:06:28.280 guys

04:06:28.460 live

04:06:28.660 together

04:06:28.980 yeah

04:06:29.380 does

04:06:30.100 he

04:06:30.400 do

04:06:30.660 you

04:06:30.700 guys

04:06:30.860 split

04:06:31.120 rent

04:06:31.400 no

04:06:32.120 because

04:06:32.400 he

04:06:32.620 owns

04:06:32.960 the

04:06:33.160 property

04:06:33.700 so

04:06:35.040 it's

04:06:36.280 not

04:06:36.420 rent

04:06:36.980 does

04:06:37.380 he

04:06:37.500 pay

04:06:37.680 mortgage

04:06:38.220 his

04:06:38.920 it's

04:06:39.440 complicated

04:06:39.920 because

04:06:40.240 his

04:06:40.400 family

04:06:40.740 is

04:06:41.780 involved

04:06:42.300 well

04:06:42.960 does

04:06:43.140 his

04:06:43.240 family

04:06:43.480 own

04:06:43.640 the

04:06:43.740 property

04:06:44.040 yeah

04:06:44.660 him

04:06:44.980 and

04:06:45.080 his

04:06:45.220 family

04:06:45.520 own

04:06:45.720 the

04:06:45.860 property

04:06:46.260 does

04:06:46.740 his

04:06:46.920 family

04:06:47.180 live

04:06:47.660 on

04:06:47.840 the

04:06:48.040 property

04:06:48.440 him

04:06:49.060 and

04:06:49.220 his

04:06:49.400 brother

04:06:49.880 okay

04:06:51.320 but

04:06:52.340 I'm

04:06:52.560 assuming

04:06:52.920 but

04:06:53.520 I

04:06:53.660 help

04:06:53.900 with

04:06:54.040 some

04:06:54.800 of

04:06:54.920 the

04:06:55.020 bills

04:06:55.360 what

04:06:55.920 bills

04:06:56.220 I

04:06:57.400 help

04:06:57.660 with

04:06:57.860 rent

04:06:58.320 and

04:06:58.820 I

04:06:59.300 help

04:06:59.740 with

04:07:02.460 mortgage

04:07:02.880 but

04:07:03.120 it's

04:07:03.360 not

04:07:04.480 rent

04:07:05.200 per

04:07:05.420 se

04:07:05.560 it's

04:07:05.780 just

04:07:05.920 helping

04:07:06.300 with

04:07:06.500 utilities

04:07:07.000 and

04:07:07.300 stuff

04:07:07.700 wait

04:07:08.360 so

04:07:08.560 is

04:07:08.680 it

04:07:08.780 rent

04:07:09.040 is

04:07:09.200 it

04:07:09.300 utilities

04:07:09.720 is

04:07:10.080 it

04:07:10.240 I

04:07:10.620 would

04:07:10.800 consider

04:07:11.160 it

04:07:11.340 rent

04:07:11.640 because

04:07:11.820 it's

04:07:12.220 not

04:07:12.400 my

04:07:12.640 mortgage

04:07:12.960 I

04:07:13.140 don't

04:07:13.280 own

04:07:13.660 the

04:07:13.780 property

04:07:14.120 but

04:07:14.720 I

04:07:16.120 guess

04:07:16.300 I

04:07:16.380 just

04:07:16.500 help

04:07:16.740 with

04:07:16.940 the

04:07:17.460 household

04:07:17.820 stuff

04:07:18.220 so

04:07:18.640 you

04:07:18.940 pay

04:07:19.180 rent

04:07:19.500 yeah

04:07:20.300 I

04:07:20.480 guess

04:07:20.820 or

04:07:21.420 do

04:07:21.560 you

04:07:21.620 pay

04:07:21.740 utilities

04:07:22.320 whatever

04:07:23.600 they

04:07:23.880 put

04:07:24.180 the

04:07:24.340 money

04:07:24.560 towards

04:07:25.280 because

04:07:26.580 it's

04:07:26.700 not

04:07:26.860 technically

04:07:27.300 a

04:07:27.520 rent

04:07:27.700 to

04:07:28.040 me

04:07:28.320 it

04:07:28.460 is

04:07:28.800 but

04:07:29.080 for

04:07:29.320 them

04:07:29.560 it's

04:07:29.720 a

04:07:29.820 mortgage

04:07:30.060 well

04:07:31.200 I

04:07:31.320 mean

04:07:31.480 it's

04:07:32.380 essentially

04:07:32.820 rent

04:07:33.200 because

04:07:33.520 you're

04:07:34.060 not

04:07:34.220 paying

04:07:34.420 the

04:07:34.560 mortgage

04:07:34.840 directly

04:07:35.360 I'm

04:07:35.580 assuming

04:07:35.840 you're

04:07:36.480 giving

04:07:36.760 the

04:07:36.960 money

04:07:37.200 for

04:07:37.740 you

04:07:37.920 to

04:07:38.060 live

04:07:38.220 there

04:07:38.540 and

04:07:39.060 they're

04:07:39.260 putting

04:07:39.540 it

04:07:39.760 towards

04:07:40.460 the

04:07:40.640 mortgage

04:07:41.040 like

04:07:41.780 any

04:07:41.960 other

04:07:42.320 landlord

04:07:43.380 would

04:07:43.760 do

04:07:44.020 and

04:07:45.940 what

04:07:46.420 about

04:07:46.720 dates

04:07:47.260 does

04:07:47.520 he

04:07:47.680 pay

04:07:47.860 for

04:07:48.020 dates

04:07:48.280 yeah

04:07:48.780 and

04:07:49.040 I've

04:07:49.200 talked

04:07:49.420 to him

04:07:49.580 about

04:07:49.740 it

04:07:49.880 too

04:07:50.040 I've

04:07:50.660 mentioned

04:07:50.980 if

04:07:51.440 you

04:07:51.560 want

04:07:51.860 me

04:07:52.160 to

04:07:52.660 pay

04:07:53.500 a

04:07:53.760 certain

04:07:53.960 amount

04:07:54.360 for

04:07:54.980 dates

04:07:55.360 and

04:07:55.540 stuff

04:07:55.980 if

04:07:56.340 money

04:07:56.600 is

04:07:56.740 ever

04:07:56.900 tight

04:07:57.240 let

04:07:58.260 me

04:07:58.420 know

04:07:58.640 and

04:07:58.760 he

04:07:58.900 says

04:07:59.420 no

04:08:00.220 there

04:08:00.400 are

04:08:00.540 date

04:08:00.780 nights

04:08:01.300 he

04:08:02.200 wants

04:08:02.480 to

04:08:02.640 provide

04:08:02.920 them

04:08:03.280 okay

04:08:08.240 doesn't

04:08:09.820 seem

04:08:10.020 very

04:08:10.320 egalitarian

04:08:11.380 what

04:08:12.880 do

04:08:12.980 you

04:08:13.060 mean

04:08:13.440 he's

04:08:14.900 paying

04:08:15.060 for

04:08:15.840 everything

04:08:16.140 pretty

04:08:16.420 much

04:08:16.720 well

04:08:17.720 I

04:08:17.920 pay

04:08:18.240 a

04:08:18.480 portion

04:08:18.720 of

04:08:18.900 the

04:08:19.060 rent

04:08:19.520 so

04:08:20.300 well

04:08:20.720 my

04:08:20.880 own

04:08:21.100 rent

04:08:21.420 how

04:08:21.680 much

04:08:21.840 do

04:08:21.960 you

04:08:22.000 pay

04:08:22.240 that's

04:08:23.280 personal

04:08:23.740 but

04:08:24.220 let's

04:08:24.680 say

04:08:24.920 it's

04:08:25.360 I

04:08:26.600 feel

04:08:26.900 like

04:08:27.220 it's

04:08:27.660 very

04:08:27.880 affordable

04:08:28.340 do

04:08:28.980 you

04:08:29.160 pay

04:08:29.460 as

04:08:29.720 much

04:08:30.200 for

04:08:30.660 the

04:08:30.820 accommodations

04:08:31.220 that

04:08:31.540 you're

04:08:31.700 receiving

04:08:32.060 do

04:08:32.720 you

04:08:32.940 pay

04:08:33.500 as

04:08:33.700 much

04:08:33.980 as

04:08:34.180 you

04:08:34.300 would

04:08:34.480 get

04:08:34.780 as

04:08:35.800 you

04:08:35.960 would

04:08:36.120 pay

04:08:36.420 in

04:08:37.240 the

04:08:37.360 open

04:08:37.580 market

04:08:37.900 for

04:08:38.200 a

04:08:38.420 similar

04:08:38.780 comparable

04:08:39.380 property

04:08:40.160 no

04:08:41.220 the

04:08:43.260 perks

04:08:43.660 okay

04:08:46.720 so

04:08:47.580 dating

04:08:48.920 for

04:08:49.100 six

04:08:49.340 months

04:08:49.720 around

04:08:51.180 around

04:08:51.980 six

04:08:52.220 months

04:08:52.480 he

04:08:54.620 pays

04:08:54.880 for

04:08:55.060 mostly

04:08:55.460 everything

04:08:55.900 then

04:08:56.180 I'll

04:08:57.980 like

04:08:58.280 you

04:08:58.520 know

04:08:58.600 his

04:08:58.760 birthday

04:08:59.000 is

04:08:59.120 coming

04:08:59.300 up

04:08:59.460 so

04:08:59.640 I've

04:08:59.920 gotten

04:09:00.180 him

04:09:00.460 some

04:09:00.960 gifts

04:09:01.560 and

04:09:02.000 I've

04:09:02.360 paid

04:09:02.580 for

04:09:02.880 a

04:09:03.300 couple

04:09:03.520 of

04:09:03.700 the

04:09:03.880 dates

04:09:04.260 like

04:09:04.600 he

04:09:05.000 when

04:09:07.080 we

04:09:07.240 first

04:09:07.500 started

04:09:07.720 dating

04:09:08.080 I told

04:09:08.500 him

04:09:08.620 about

04:09:08.800 my

04:09:08.960 weight

04:09:09.360 loss

04:09:09.640 journey

04:09:09.960 I've

04:09:10.200 been

04:09:10.320 on

04:09:10.580 and

04:09:10.740 that

04:09:10.960 in

04:09:11.140 the

04:09:11.260 first

04:09:11.620 month

04:09:12.000 I lost

04:09:12.380 20

04:09:12.660 pounds

04:09:13.100 because

04:09:13.540 I'm

04:09:14.360 sorry

04:09:14.560 did you

04:09:14.800 say

04:09:14.920 your

04:09:15.080 journey

04:09:15.440 it's

04:09:16.160 journey

04:09:16.520 I'm

04:09:16.900 on it

04:09:17.220 that's

04:09:17.480 the

04:09:17.580 journey

04:09:17.820 okay

04:09:18.340 go

04:09:19.040 ahead

04:09:19.220 so

04:09:19.840 my

04:09:20.200 first

04:09:20.640 month

04:09:21.260 I

04:09:22.180 did

04:09:23.760 no

04:09:24.080 fast

04:09:24.380 food

04:09:24.580 no

04:09:24.840 take

04:09:25.120 out

04:09:25.320 just

04:09:25.620 groceries

04:09:26.100 I lost

04:09:26.920 like 20

04:09:27.320 pounds

04:09:27.680 so

04:09:28.620 that was

04:09:29.360 pretty sweet

04:09:29.840 thanks

04:09:30.300 people in

04:09:31.400 chat who

04:09:31.840 probably

04:09:32.220 recommended

04:09:32.680 that

04:09:33.020 on the

04:09:33.720 last

04:09:33.960 podcast

04:09:34.420 I was

04:09:34.740 on

04:09:35.000 so I

04:09:36.020 did it

04:09:36.480 and so

04:09:36.920 I told

04:09:37.280 my

04:09:37.560 now

04:09:38.040 boyfriend

04:09:38.380 about it

04:09:39.020 he

04:09:39.520 finished

04:09:40.140 the

04:09:40.760 challenge

04:09:41.400 and so

04:09:42.720 yeah

04:09:43.600 I

04:09:44.140 rewarded

04:09:45.020 him

04:09:45.260 how long

04:09:45.860 have you guys

04:09:46.240 been living

04:09:46.580 together

04:09:46.980 probably

04:09:48.700 like two

04:09:49.100 months

04:09:49.520 what's the

04:09:50.700 distribution

04:09:51.200 of the

04:09:51.560 household

04:09:51.960 chores

04:09:52.400 we

04:09:54.100 kind

04:09:54.260 of

04:09:54.320 take

04:09:54.460 turns

04:09:54.920 but

04:09:55.540 I

04:09:55.800 we

04:09:56.380 both

04:09:56.660 do

04:09:56.920 cooking

04:09:57.280 and

04:09:57.620 cleaning

04:09:58.000 there

04:09:59.400 is

04:09:59.740 a

04:10:00.220 I

04:10:01.660 think

04:10:01.880 like

04:10:02.200 housekeeper

04:10:03.760 maid

04:10:04.260 who

04:10:04.740 comes

04:10:05.220 like

04:10:05.440 every

04:10:05.920 couple

04:10:06.640 weeks

04:10:07.180 to do

04:10:07.740 like

04:10:07.900 deep

04:10:08.180 cleaning

04:10:08.680 do

04:10:09.200 you

04:10:09.400 do

04:10:09.820 the

04:10:09.980 laundry

04:10:10.300 I

04:10:11.460 do

04:10:11.860 my

04:10:12.400 own

04:10:12.660 laundry

04:10:12.980 and

04:10:13.140 some

04:10:13.320 of

04:10:13.440 his

04:10:13.600 laundry

04:10:14.000 but

04:10:15.400 it's

04:10:15.600 not

04:10:15.760 like

04:10:15.980 on

04:10:16.280 a

04:10:16.440 consistent

04:10:16.800 basis

04:10:17.240 that

04:10:17.480 we're

04:10:17.620 like

04:10:17.800 always

04:10:18.120 doing

04:10:18.420 laundry

04:10:18.860 so

04:10:19.100 he

04:10:19.240 pays

04:10:19.480 for

04:10:19.840 all

04:10:20.560 the

04:10:20.680 dates

04:10:20.960 you

04:10:21.140 get

04:10:21.280 heavily

04:10:21.580 discounted

04:10:22.240 rent

04:10:22.620 perhaps

04:10:23.120 but

04:10:26.560 you

04:10:27.120 don't

04:10:27.860 the

04:10:28.820 cooking

04:10:29.160 is

04:10:29.500 50-50

04:10:30.400 or

04:10:32.760 does

04:10:32.960 he

04:10:33.100 do

04:10:33.260 most

04:10:33.400 he's

04:10:33.420 actually

04:10:33.760 a really

04:10:34.080 good

04:10:34.320 cook

04:10:34.640 and

04:10:34.840 he's

04:10:35.060 really

04:10:35.240 good

04:10:35.360 at

04:10:35.480 baking

04:10:35.760 so

04:10:36.320 he

04:10:36.540 likes

04:10:36.900 to

04:10:37.300 do

04:10:37.440 those

04:10:37.640 things

04:10:37.920 and

04:10:38.120 I

04:10:38.260 help

04:10:38.540 him

04:10:38.780 as

04:10:39.020 his

04:10:39.160 sous

04:10:39.560 chef

04:10:39.800 when

04:10:39.980 he

04:10:40.140 cooks

04:10:40.440 and

04:10:40.600 then

04:10:40.840 I'll

04:10:41.380 take

04:10:41.580 on

04:10:41.740 cooking

04:10:42.000 some

04:10:42.220 meals

04:10:42.540 who

04:10:42.560 cleans

04:10:42.860 the

04:10:43.020 dishes

04:10:43.360 whoever

04:10:44.360 cooks

04:10:44.780 cleans

04:10:45.060 the

04:10:45.240 dishes

04:10:45.560 but

04:10:46.200 it

04:10:46.320 sounds

04:10:46.480 like

04:10:46.660 he

04:10:46.780 does

04:10:46.960 most

04:10:47.140 of

04:10:47.260 the

04:10:47.340 cooking

04:10:47.680 not

04:10:48.480 most

04:10:49.000 cooks

04:10:49.800 clean

04:10:50.100 dishes

04:10:50.660 yeah

04:10:51.360 that's

04:10:51.780 crazy

04:10:52.340 when I

04:10:52.900 cook

04:10:53.140 for my

04:10:53.560 friend

04:10:53.900 like

04:10:54.760 the

04:10:54.980 one

04:10:55.140 I

04:10:55.660 don't

04:10:55.800 like

04:10:56.000 when

04:10:56.140 he

04:10:56.280 cooks

04:10:56.620 I

04:10:56.960 only

04:10:57.180 cook

04:10:57.520 and

04:10:58.060 he

04:10:58.220 cleans

04:10:58.600 everything

04:10:59.460 so

04:11:00.440 I

04:11:03.900 have a

04:11:04.100 question

04:11:04.400 so

04:11:04.820 would

04:11:05.480 you

04:11:05.600 do

04:11:05.880 you

04:11:05.940 agree

04:11:06.100 with

04:11:06.240 the

04:11:06.360 following

04:11:06.580 statement

04:11:06.980 men

04:11:07.700 should

04:11:08.000 pay

04:11:08.180 for

04:11:08.360 first

04:11:08.600 dates

04:11:08.860 yes

04:11:09.540 okay

04:11:10.060 women

04:11:10.640 should

04:11:10.880 cook

04:11:11.080 and

04:11:11.220 clean

04:11:11.480 sure

04:11:12.700 yes

04:11:13.320 you're

04:11:13.580 should

04:11:14.280 yeah

04:11:15.040 you're

04:11:15.220 fine

04:11:15.380 with

04:11:15.540 that

04:11:15.720 that's

04:11:16.160 fine

04:11:16.400 is

04:11:16.600 it

04:11:16.680 a

04:11:16.800 sexist

04:11:17.220 statement

04:11:17.600 that

04:11:18.460 women

04:11:18.760 should

04:11:19.040 cook

04:11:19.300 and

04:11:19.440 clean

04:11:19.740 is

04:11:19.860 the

04:11:20.000 sexist

04:11:20.380 statement

04:11:20.660 I

04:11:21.180 think

04:11:21.380 it

04:11:21.500 depends

04:11:21.840 on

04:11:22.220 the

04:11:22.960 relationship

04:11:23.580 if

04:11:23.880 that's

04:11:24.240 kind

04:11:24.400 of

04:11:24.500 what

04:11:24.600 the

04:11:24.720 expectation

04:11:25.300 is

04:11:25.900 I

04:11:26.480 think

04:11:26.800 that

04:11:27.260 most

04:11:28.180 relationships

04:11:28.760 nowadays

04:11:29.260 people

04:11:30.120 kind

04:11:30.400 of

04:11:30.500 take

04:11:30.740 on

04:11:31.040 whatever

04:11:31.500 works

04:11:31.840 with

04:11:31.960 their

04:11:32.100 schedule

04:11:32.520 so

04:11:32.880 if

04:11:33.120 he's

04:11:33.920 out

04:11:34.360 you

04:11:34.780 know

04:11:35.000 working

04:11:35.560 he

04:11:35.940 helps

04:11:37.040 with

04:11:37.220 filming

04:11:37.480 stuff

04:11:37.920 then

04:11:38.680 I'd

04:11:39.280 be

04:11:39.340 on

04:11:39.480 my

04:11:39.620 own

04:11:39.800 to

04:11:39.980 cook

04:11:40.260 but

04:11:40.540 we

04:11:40.840 kind

04:11:41.180 of

04:11:41.280 plan

04:11:41.560 our

04:11:41.760 meals

04:11:42.020 out

04:11:42.300 and

04:11:42.460 figure

04:11:42.680 out

04:11:42.860 who's

04:11:43.120 going

04:11:43.240 to

04:11:43.300 be

04:11:43.560 cooking

04:11:44.200 what

04:11:44.680 which

04:11:45.080 day

04:11:45.460 depending

04:11:45.860 on

04:11:46.100 just

04:11:46.280 like

04:11:46.540 life

04:11:47.120 schedules

04:11:47.780 women

04:11:49.840 should

04:11:50.100 be

04:11:50.280 submissive

04:11:50.880 it

04:11:54.300 depends

04:11:54.560 on

04:11:54.680 the

04:11:54.800 woman

04:11:55.100 but

04:11:55.780 I

04:11:55.980 mean

04:11:56.260 if

04:11:57.720 you

04:11:57.880 have

04:11:58.060 a

04:11:58.200 man

04:11:58.440 that

04:11:58.600 you

04:11:58.720 can

04:11:58.900 trust

04:11:59.420 to

04:11:59.800 lead

04:12:00.220 sure

04:12:00.860 okay

04:12:02.780 it

04:12:03.220 depends

04:12:03.700 but

04:12:04.000 you

04:12:04.540 wouldn't

04:12:04.780 say

04:12:04.920 the

04:12:05.060 same

04:12:05.200 thing

04:12:05.460 about

04:12:05.860 men

04:12:07.500 should

04:12:07.720 pay

04:12:08.020 it

04:12:08.500 depends

04:12:08.800 on

04:12:08.940 the

04:12:09.040 man

04:12:09.320 you

04:12:10.200 would

04:12:10.320 say

04:12:10.500 it

04:12:10.760 depends

04:12:11.040 on

04:12:11.180 the

04:12:11.300 man

04:12:11.620 I

04:12:12.000 think

04:12:12.220 some

04:12:12.540 men

04:12:12.820 who

04:12:13.000 some

04:12:13.420 men

04:12:13.560 are

04:12:13.660 like

04:12:13.840 sugar

04:12:14.080 babies

04:12:14.620 but

04:12:15.060 here's

04:12:15.380 the

04:12:15.500 thing

04:12:15.680 right

04:12:15.920 so

04:12:16.200 as

04:12:16.720 a

04:12:16.840 woman

04:12:17.060 you

04:12:17.460 can

04:12:17.620 go

04:12:17.780 into

04:12:17.960 a

04:12:18.120 date

04:12:18.360 with

04:12:19.240 the

04:12:19.400 expectation

04:12:20.040 of

04:12:21.200 this

04:12:21.940 guy's

04:12:22.200 going

04:12:22.300 to

04:12:22.360 pay

04:12:22.500 for

04:12:22.640 the

04:12:22.740 date

04:12:23.000 or

04:12:23.760 the

04:12:24.060 I

04:12:25.120 suppose

04:12:25.440 the

04:12:25.640 minimum

04:12:25.940 is

04:12:27.060 we

04:12:28.240 might

04:12:28.580 have

04:12:28.840 to

04:12:29.020 split

04:12:29.440 like

04:12:30.020 you

04:12:30.140 can

04:12:30.400 girls

04:12:31.400 go

04:12:31.520 on

04:12:31.620 dates

04:12:31.800 sometimes

04:12:32.100 the

04:12:32.260 guy

04:12:32.380 splits

04:12:32.680 there's

04:12:35.340 typically

04:12:35.620 never

04:12:35.980 an

04:12:36.180 expectation

04:12:36.580 that

04:12:36.940 the

04:12:37.060 woman

04:12:37.220 is

04:12:37.320 going

04:12:37.440 to

04:12:37.500 go

04:12:37.640 into

04:12:37.820 date

04:12:38.080 with

04:12:38.320 the

04:12:38.500 expectation

04:12:39.220 that

04:12:39.520 she's

04:12:39.740 going

04:12:39.840 to

04:12:39.920 pay

04:12:40.080 for

04:12:40.240 the

04:12:40.360 whole

04:12:40.640 bill

04:12:40.960 as

04:12:42.000 a

04:12:42.140 man

04:12:42.420 it's

04:12:43.080 impossible

04:12:43.760 the

04:12:44.080 best

04:12:44.540 I

04:12:44.740 can

04:12:44.920 hope

04:12:45.120 for

04:12:45.380 is

04:12:45.720 maybe

04:12:46.300 split

04:12:47.140 but

04:12:48.620 I'm

04:12:48.760 going

04:12:48.980 in

04:12:49.180 with

04:12:49.300 the

04:12:49.400 expectation

04:12:49.940 that

04:12:50.200 I'm

04:12:50.320 going

04:12:50.420 to

04:12:50.480 pay

04:12:50.620 for

04:12:50.740 the

04:12:50.840 whole

04:12:50.980 thing

04:12:51.300 I

04:12:52.300 don't

04:12:52.440 think

04:12:52.600 there's

04:12:52.840 any

04:12:53.140 dating

04:12:54.180 meta

04:12:54.600 that

04:12:54.860 exists

04:12:55.340 where

04:12:55.800 a

04:12:56.040 guy

04:12:56.240 can

04:12:56.480 go

04:12:56.760 into

04:12:57.000 a

04:12:57.240 date

04:12:57.600 expecting

04:12:59.040 the

04:12:59.320 woman

04:12:59.540 to

04:12:59.760 pick

04:12:59.980 up

04:13:00.140 the

04:13:00.380 entire

04:13:00.920 tab

04:13:01.440 yeah

04:13:02.100 if

04:13:02.480 she's

04:13:02.840 a

04:13:02.960 sugar

04:13:03.160 mama

04:13:03.500 okay

04:13:04.760 but

04:13:05.220 yes

04:13:06.520 that

04:13:06.940 happens

04:13:07.640 but

04:13:08.100 it's

04:13:08.340 exceptionally

04:13:08.980 rare

04:13:09.400 most

04:13:10.000 women

04:13:10.360 are not

04:13:11.040 going

04:13:11.160 to

04:13:11.280 tolerate

04:13:11.600 that

04:13:11.860 kind

04:13:12.160 of

04:13:12.420 arrangement

04:13:13.840 okay

04:13:15.720 wait

04:13:16.780 what's

04:13:17.040 the

04:13:17.140 question

04:13:17.500 then

04:13:17.900 he's

04:13:18.360 saying

04:13:18.580 like

04:13:18.800 generally

04:13:19.420 most

04:13:20.120 men

04:13:20.420 when

04:13:20.600 they

04:13:20.720 walk

04:13:20.980 into

04:13:21.360 a

04:13:22.000 first

04:13:22.360 date

04:13:22.680 they

04:13:23.560 knowing

04:13:24.120 have

04:13:24.580 the

04:13:24.740 instinct

04:13:25.020 that

04:13:25.280 I

04:13:25.500 am

04:13:25.640 most

04:13:25.860 likely

04:13:26.200 if

04:13:26.720 not

04:13:26.980 going

04:13:27.620 to

04:13:27.940 have

04:13:28.260 to

04:13:28.420 pay

04:13:28.560 the

04:13:28.720 entire

04:13:29.080 bill

04:13:29.340 I

04:13:29.880 may

04:13:30.340 by

04:13:30.620 chance

04:13:31.120 pay

04:13:31.580 50%

04:13:32.220 of

04:13:32.440 it

04:13:32.620 but

04:13:33.120 I'm

04:13:34.060 most

04:13:34.400 likely

04:13:34.720 if

04:13:34.920 not

04:13:35.140 expected

04:13:35.780 to

04:13:36.060 pay

04:13:36.320 100%

04:13:36.900 of

04:13:37.020 that

04:13:37.160 bill

04:13:37.400 the

04:13:38.000 woman

04:13:38.300 on

04:13:38.460 the

04:13:38.580 other

04:13:38.720 hand

04:13:38.920 does

04:13:39.140 not

04:13:39.320 have

04:13:39.500 that

04:13:39.680 pressure

04:13:40.040 of

04:13:41.800 anything

04:13:42.560 else

04:13:43.020 she

04:13:43.380 has

04:13:43.540 the

04:13:43.660 pressure

04:13:43.900 of

04:13:44.240 arriving

04:13:44.640 maybe

04:13:45.560 she

04:13:45.740 wants

04:13:45.920 to

04:13:46.060 clean

04:13:46.220 up

04:13:46.340 maybe

04:13:46.500 she

04:13:46.660 does

04:13:46.800 not

04:13:47.020 but

04:13:47.580 that

04:13:47.840 is

04:13:48.040 what

04:13:54.120 women

04:13:54.360 on

04:13:54.880 first

04:13:55.120 dates

04:13:55.340 why

04:13:55.900 is

04:13:56.040 that

04:13:56.200 being

04:13:57.240 so

04:13:57.560 that's

04:13:58.760 all

04:13:58.880 it

04:13:59.000 is

04:13:59.240 and

04:13:59.540 is

04:13:59.940 there

04:14:00.080 a

04:14:00.240 reason

04:14:00.540 that

04:14:00.840 women

04:14:01.400 have

04:14:01.780 any

04:14:02.060 offering

04:14:02.440 towards

04:14:02.840 that

04:14:03.120 do

04:14:03.540 women

04:14:03.800 offer

04:14:04.160 anything

04:14:04.480 in

04:14:04.640 addition

04:14:05.020 to

04:14:05.300 that

04:14:05.460 of

04:14:05.620 why

04:14:06.100 they

04:14:06.260 should

04:14:06.980 be

04:14:07.100 taken

04:14:07.340 care

04:14:07.560 of

04:14:07.680 on

04:14:07.840 that

04:14:08.000 first

04:14:08.240 date

04:14:08.460 or

04:14:08.940 that

04:14:09.180 of

04:14:09.380 maybe

04:14:10.340 why

04:14:10.580 they

04:14:10.740 should

04:14:10.860 be

04:14:10.980 even

04:14:11.180 just

04:14:11.460 considerably

04:14:11.860 paying

04:14:12.200 only

04:14:12.460 50%

04:14:13.000 of

04:14:13.120 that

04:14:13.260 bill

04:14:13.460 that's

04:14:14.040 the

04:14:14.340 argument

04:14:14.620 why

04:14:15.060 right

04:14:17.460 yeah

04:14:18.500 well I

04:14:20.020 won't

04:14:20.200 belabor

04:14:20.540 it

04:14:24.120 I suppose

04:14:24.880 the

04:14:25.200 and maybe

04:14:26.000 this is

04:14:26.300 hypothetical

04:14:26.700 the question

04:14:28.120 is do

04:14:28.540 non-traditional

04:14:29.240 women deserve

04:14:30.400 traditional

04:14:31.280 treatment

04:14:31.840 or chivalry

04:14:33.020 yeah

04:14:37.140 why not

04:14:38.560 I think

04:14:41.420 that if

04:14:41.960 you're going

04:14:42.300 into a

04:14:42.660 first date

04:14:43.360 and you're

04:14:44.680 looking to

04:14:45.640 have a

04:14:46.700 woman's

04:14:47.400 time and

04:14:48.180 attention

04:14:48.680 thank you

04:14:49.980 for the

04:14:50.360 time and

04:14:50.620 attention

04:14:50.900 even if

04:14:51.280 it doesn't

04:14:51.520 lead to

04:14:51.880 a long

04:14:52.180 term

04:14:52.320 relationship

04:14:52.840 could be

04:14:53.600 paying

04:14:53.920 for the

04:14:54.380 first

04:14:54.640 date

04:14:54.900 because

04:14:55.360 women

04:14:56.140 like we

04:14:56.760 are aware

04:14:57.520 of like

04:14:58.140 that women

04:14:59.000 have

04:14:59.580 more to

04:15:00.920 lose

04:15:01.260 if they

04:15:01.740 go on

04:15:02.040 a first

04:15:02.380 date

04:15:02.660 than a

04:15:03.000 man

04:15:03.200 does

04:15:03.700 well okay

04:15:04.120 we can

04:15:04.360 get into

04:15:04.680 that but

04:15:05.140 you said

04:15:06.180 that the

04:15:07.060 woman's

04:15:07.420 time and

04:15:07.780 attention

04:15:08.140 so is it

04:15:09.120 your position

04:15:09.600 that women

04:15:10.060 ought to be

04:15:10.680 pedestalized

04:15:11.580 essentially

04:15:12.240 I think

04:15:13.360 it happens

04:15:14.120 sure it

04:15:15.340 happens

04:15:15.660 but do you

04:15:16.540 think

04:15:16.800 that's what

04:15:17.880 should

04:15:18.420 happen

04:15:18.840 I think

04:15:20.740 that's what

04:15:21.100 works

04:15:21.740 that's what

04:15:23.280 works

04:15:23.680 for our

04:15:24.200 society

04:15:24.800 you said

04:15:27.840 that women

04:15:28.260 have more

04:15:28.880 to lose

04:15:29.560 when going

04:15:30.020 on a

04:15:30.320 first date

04:15:30.800 what does

04:15:31.300 that mean

04:15:31.640 a woman

04:15:33.340 could get

04:15:33.920 pregnant

04:15:34.520 on a first

04:15:35.220 date if

04:15:35.660 they decide

04:15:36.920 to partake

04:15:38.560 in that

04:15:38.780 or even if

04:15:39.220 they don't

04:15:39.600 if something

04:15:40.100 happens

04:15:41.360 where a

04:15:42.500 woman can't

04:15:42.960 consent

04:15:43.480 there's a

04:15:44.840 risk of

04:15:45.340 that

04:15:45.800 there's a

04:15:46.500 risk of

04:15:46.840 getting

04:15:47.220 kidnapped

04:15:49.540 or trafficked

04:15:50.700 or

04:15:51.080 can it be

04:15:51.780 the same

04:15:52.100 for both

04:15:52.640 it's less

04:15:53.740 likely for

04:15:54.440 men

04:15:54.840 no you'd

04:15:55.400 be getting

04:15:55.840 a girl

04:15:56.180 pregnant

04:15:56.580 and you

04:15:56.960 have to

04:15:57.220 deal with

04:15:57.580 it just

04:15:57.900 as much

04:15:58.280 as a

04:15:58.520 woman

04:15:58.720 getting

04:15:58.980 pregnant

04:15:59.380 that's a

04:15:59.600 good point

04:16:00.020 and to

04:16:01.460 get kidnapped

04:16:02.280 and stuff

04:16:02.760 if you're

04:16:03.140 talking about

04:16:03.660 dating apps

04:16:04.300 it could be

04:16:05.200 a set up

04:16:05.840 you could be

04:16:06.560 getting set up

04:16:07.280 it's I think

04:16:08.120 it's just as

04:16:09.000 likely you know

04:16:10.620 a man

04:16:11.160 for a guy

04:16:12.040 yeah I don't

04:16:13.260 think it's as

04:16:13.740 likely

04:16:14.060 just like you

04:16:15.100 know celebrities

04:16:16.020 and stuff

04:16:16.380 but even if

04:16:20.200 I were to

04:16:20.540 grant for a

04:16:21.700 second that

04:16:22.420 this is

04:16:22.720 correct I

04:16:23.280 think that

04:16:23.760 you're right

04:16:24.460 to one

04:16:25.780 small degree

04:16:26.520 that maybe

04:16:27.500 the chances

04:16:28.140 of like

04:16:29.700 SA or

04:16:30.380 things like

04:16:30.860 that for

04:16:32.020 women of

04:16:32.520 course are

04:16:32.960 going to be

04:16:33.280 higher than

04:16:33.880 men probably

04:16:34.580 on a date

04:16:35.100 I wouldn't

04:16:35.480 even dispute

04:16:35.960 that that's

04:16:36.440 true however

04:16:37.640 the likelihood

04:16:38.400 of a woman

04:16:38.960 getting taken

04:16:39.560 advantage of

04:16:40.240 on a first

04:16:40.720 date not

04:16:41.220 nearly as

04:16:41.740 high as

04:16:42.060 that of a

04:16:42.400 man meaning

04:16:42.900 most men

04:16:43.620 are not

04:16:43.900 going to do

04:16:44.300 this the

04:16:44.660 overwhelming

04:16:45.400 majority I'm

04:16:46.160 talking 99

04:16:47.040 point something

04:16:47.720 percent are

04:16:48.940 not going to

04:16:49.360 do anything

04:16:49.720 to you on

04:16:50.180 the first

04:16:50.540 date but

04:16:51.740 they could

04:16:52.360 definitely get

04:16:53.040 taken advantage

04:16:53.800 of and

04:16:54.780 hang on

04:16:56.500 hang on let

04:16:56.960 me finish

04:16:57.300 the point

04:16:57.720 and then you

04:16:57.960 can respond

04:16:58.400 to it they

04:16:59.220 could easily

04:16:59.740 get taken

04:17:00.660 advantage of

04:17:01.340 by let's

04:17:02.040 say oh I

04:17:02.660 don't know a

04:17:03.160 woman who's

04:17:03.420 not really

04:17:03.760 interested in

04:17:04.320 them having

04:17:04.640 pay for the

04:17:05.180 entire date

04:17:06.000 pay for their

04:17:06.780 dinner pay for

04:17:07.700 their night out

04:17:08.320 pay for their

04:17:08.840 drinks pick

04:17:09.960 them up drop

04:17:10.620 them off the

04:17:11.160 whole thing is

04:17:11.660 on their dime

04:17:12.380 and let's not

04:17:13.480 pretend that

04:17:14.200 women don't do

04:17:14.800 this all the

04:17:15.800 time I would

04:17:16.800 say that men

04:17:17.420 are running a

04:17:17.960 much higher

04:17:18.460 realistic risk

04:17:20.640 than women

04:17:21.300 are the risk

04:17:22.560 of this happening

04:17:23.420 to a woman on

04:17:24.060 the first date

04:17:24.840 is not very

04:17:26.340 realistic it's

04:17:27.240 extremely rare

04:17:28.000 whereas for men

04:17:28.900 this happening

04:17:29.520 to them is

04:17:30.260 extremely common

04:17:31.520 happens non-stop

04:17:32.560 all the time

04:17:33.300 in fact I

04:17:34.600 wouldn't be

04:17:34.920 surprised let me

04:17:35.920 just ask you

04:17:36.460 this and be

04:17:37.060 honest with me

04:17:37.840 have you ever

04:17:38.920 gone out with a

04:17:39.560 guy because he

04:17:41.260 paid for the

04:17:41.720 whole thing and

04:17:42.180 you just wanted

04:17:42.540 to have a nice

04:17:43.000 night out

04:17:43.500 no I usually

04:17:45.620 will go on

04:17:46.200 dates with guys

04:17:46.980 because I see

04:17:47.740 potential in a

04:17:48.600 relationship

04:17:49.220 okay well how

04:17:49.980 many women here

04:17:50.620 have have gone

04:17:51.580 out with a guy

04:17:52.260 because they just

04:17:52.840 wanted to have a

04:17:53.320 nice night out

04:17:54.060 none of you

04:17:56.540 really

04:17:57.420 I think majority

04:17:58.860 of women who

04:18:00.100 have self-esteem

04:18:02.640 and find themselves

04:18:03.820 to be attractive

04:18:04.600 typically are not

04:18:06.240 go and have

04:18:07.400 money typically

04:18:08.760 don't go out

04:18:09.700 with men just

04:18:10.520 for free things

04:18:11.640 okay well let

04:18:13.980 me ask this

04:18:14.420 question a

04:18:14.860 different way

04:18:15.260 how many of

04:18:15.820 you women have

04:18:16.420 gone out with a

04:18:17.080 guy and had a

04:18:17.700 first date with

04:18:18.460 him and then

04:18:18.840 never talked to

04:18:19.500 him again after

04:18:20.180 that or never

04:18:21.500 went back out

04:18:22.140 with him yeah

04:18:22.960 but that's on

04:18:23.740 the guy not the

04:18:24.620 woman I'm sure

04:18:25.360 it is yeah I'm

04:18:26.100 sure that that I'm

04:18:26.880 sure that there

04:18:27.380 was never any

04:18:28.240 type of motivation

04:18:29.200 that you weren't

04:18:30.120 really that into

04:18:30.820 him but you went

04:18:31.400 anyway just because

04:18:32.580 well it was free

04:18:33.460 so two things to

04:18:35.340 say to to this

04:18:37.100 the first thing is

04:18:38.720 if you're very

04:18:39.820 afraid as a man

04:18:40.840 to pay on a

04:18:42.400 first date because

04:18:43.040 you think a woman

04:18:43.700 is scamming you

04:18:44.680 you should be

04:18:45.680 vetting the women

04:18:47.000 that you go on

04:18:47.800 dates with yeah

04:18:48.400 you can by asking

04:18:49.320 them to pay for

04:18:49.840 half the date right

04:18:50.800 that seems like a

04:18:51.580 really easy way to

04:18:52.220 vet it I think you

04:18:53.720 could vet before the

04:18:54.820 date and probably

04:18:55.520 figure out if

04:18:56.780 they're the type of

04:18:57.580 yeah you can by

04:18:58.440 asking them if

04:18:59.080 they're willing to

04:18:59.620 pay for 50% of

04:19:00.640 the date if they're

04:19:01.360 willing to pay for

04:19:01.880 50% of the date

04:19:03.040 then I think that

04:19:04.320 she's probably not

04:19:05.100 going to scam you

04:19:05.880 but if she's not

04:19:06.940 willing to I think

04:19:07.660 that your risk

04:19:08.280 wouldn't you say

04:19:08.860 that your risk

04:19:09.480 drastically as a

04:19:10.680 man goes up of

04:19:11.960 being scammed by

04:19:12.680 a woman for just

04:19:13.620 having a free date

04:19:14.540 by the fact that

04:19:15.660 she demands that

04:19:16.980 you pay for the

04:19:17.620 entirety of the

04:19:18.280 date and don't

04:19:19.120 you think it

04:19:19.540 decreases drastically

04:19:20.540 if she's willing

04:19:21.120 to pay for 50%

04:19:22.220 my second point

04:19:24.160 is I can answer

04:19:25.460 to my first point

04:19:26.380 I mean I am

04:19:29.060 answering the

04:19:29.860 first thing I said

04:19:31.220 was that if you're

04:19:32.220 so concerned about

04:19:33.560 a woman scamming

04:19:34.520 you you should be

04:19:35.560 vetting them before

04:19:36.520 you get on the

04:19:37.280 first date with

04:19:38.060 them yeah but

04:19:39.040 wouldn't an easy

04:19:39.620 way to do that

04:19:40.440 be to just ask

04:19:41.520 them to pay for

04:19:41.920 50% of the date

04:19:42.840 that's after you

04:19:44.140 guys have already

04:19:44.700 been on the date

04:19:46.220 though why do you

04:19:47.720 why do you need to

04:19:48.540 go on a date in

04:19:49.460 order to ask them

04:19:50.180 if they'll pay for

04:19:50.780 50% of the date

04:19:51.820 up front it just

04:19:53.880 doesn't happen

04:19:54.480 usually but my

04:19:55.740 second point yeah

04:19:56.680 but that doesn't

04:19:57.420 answer to the

04:19:58.260 question the question

04:19:59.260 is wouldn't a

04:20:00.200 great way to

04:20:01.000 mitigate getting

04:20:01.780 scammed by women

04:20:03.580 who just want free

04:20:04.480 dates and free shit

04:20:05.440 from you be to

04:20:06.880 just ask them to

04:20:07.820 pay 50% wouldn't

04:20:09.040 that greatly

04:20:09.800 mitigate this risk

04:20:10.840 for men if you

04:20:12.120 are so concerned

04:20:13.580 about the 50%

04:20:15.760 that you're gonna

04:20:16.220 have to pay to

04:20:17.020 have a woman out

04:20:17.680 on a date perhaps

04:20:18.760 you can't afford to

04:20:19.760 have a woman

04:20:20.420 maybe well wait

04:20:22.280 that doesn't even

04:20:22.880 follow you can have

04:20:23.720 a million dollars in

04:20:24.920 the bank and still

04:20:25.600 ask a woman to pay

04:20:26.420 for 50% of the

04:20:27.420 first date but you

04:20:28.500 wouldn't need to

04:20:29.380 because you have

04:20:30.140 yeah you don't

04:20:30.620 need to but that's

04:20:31.660 not the point so

04:20:32.700 I'm gonna ask the

04:20:33.300 question again

04:20:33.880 this is the fourth

04:20:34.880 time you've avoided

04:20:35.780 this I'm gonna ask

04:20:36.420 one more time

04:20:37.080 okay

04:20:37.520 isn't it true that

04:20:39.840 a great way to

04:20:40.980 mitigate getting

04:20:41.740 scammed on a date

04:20:42.840 as a man would be

04:20:43.860 to ask a woman to

04:20:45.120 pay for 50% of the

04:20:46.720 date wouldn't that

04:20:47.900 be a great way to

04:20:48.900 mitigate getting

04:20:49.900 scammed by women

04:20:50.920 sure you can

04:20:51.720 definitely ask but

04:20:53.120 I don't think that a

04:20:53.960 woman who doesn't

04:20:54.940 want to go 50%

04:20:55.980 is a scammer

04:20:56.580 I didn't ask if

04:20:57.640 you could ask

04:20:58.300 wait I didn't ask

04:21:00.080 if you could ask

04:21:00.760 that I know they

04:21:01.620 can ask that I

04:21:03.000 asked if it would

04:21:03.780 be true that if a

04:21:05.200 woman would be

04:21:05.720 willing to pay for

04:21:06.580 50% of the date the

04:21:08.060 chances she's just

04:21:09.000 scamming him to go

04:21:10.100 on a free date would

04:21:11.400 be drastically lower

04:21:12.640 because after all

04:21:14.400 why would she pay for

04:21:15.360 50% of the date if

04:21:16.740 she just wanted the

04:21:17.460 free date right

04:21:18.300 but I don't

04:21:19.700 doesn't that follow

04:21:20.500 I need you well

04:21:21.840 wait I don't

04:21:22.300 I don't think

04:21:22.840 anything else that's

04:21:24.980 tangential to this

04:21:26.240 I want you to say

04:21:27.680 yes or no that

04:21:28.920 would mitigate

04:21:29.580 scamming of of

04:21:32.080 women trying to

04:21:32.800 get free dates

04:21:33.500 yes or no would

04:21:34.360 that mitigated or

04:21:35.380 not mitigated I

04:21:36.500 don't think need

04:21:37.960 you to answer yes

04:21:39.040 or no would that

04:21:40.440 mitigate it or not

04:21:42.160 mitigate it

04:21:43.260 women aren't

04:21:46.140 scamming though

04:21:46.780 gonna need that

04:21:47.480 yes or no from

04:21:48.540 you gonna need yes

04:21:49.760 gonna need no

04:21:50.820 would it mitigate

04:21:52.040 it or not mitigate

04:21:52.980 it yeah you should

04:21:54.000 definitely ask a

04:21:55.160 woman to pay 50%

04:21:56.220 before even meeting

04:21:57.560 her to go on a

04:21:58.260 first date so

04:21:59.240 again I'm gonna

04:21:59.880 ask this one more

04:22:00.680 time can you just

04:22:01.600 answer yes or no

04:22:02.560 I said yes it would

04:22:03.820 yes yes okay thank

04:22:06.320 you but I don't think

04:22:06.860 the woman's a scammer

04:22:07.980 because she doesn't

04:22:08.540 want to go out with a

04:22:09.200 guy who wants her to

04:22:10.000 pay 50% of the date

04:22:11.540 yeah I'm not but nobody

04:22:16.000 said that a woman is a

04:22:18.500 scammer but you're

04:22:18.680 saying would it reduce

04:22:19.760 no no no stop stop I

04:22:21.980 didn't say that does

04:22:22.960 not mean that any

04:22:24.100 women are scamming

04:22:26.220 because they're asking a

04:22:28.040 man to pay for 50% of

04:22:29.580 the date what it does

04:22:31.020 mean though is that men

04:22:32.560 get scammed for free

04:22:33.700 dates all the time and

04:22:35.220 it would be a great way to

04:22:36.340 mitigate that that doesn't

04:22:37.740 mean I don't think that's a

04:22:38.840 good way I don't think

04:22:40.040 a woman asking for that

04:22:41.280 is scamming them now I

04:22:43.660 never never said that I

04:22:44.660 just said a great way to

04:22:45.500 mitigate getting scammed

04:22:46.500 would be to ask for 50%

04:22:47.820 right I honestly I don't

04:22:49.760 think it's a good way

04:22:50.800 okay well then can you

04:22:53.500 explain to me how your

04:22:54.760 risk of getting scammed on

04:22:56.140 a date would go up if the

04:22:58.060 woman pays for 50% of it

04:22:59.840 if the woman's paying for

04:23:03.520 50% of the date you are

04:23:05.040 not likely repeat my

04:23:06.480 question back to me you

04:23:07.400 just answer the question

04:23:08.260 you're not likely to get

04:23:09.280 a second how your

04:23:11.420 chances would go up of

04:23:13.660 getting scammed for free

04:23:14.940 date if a woman pays for

04:23:16.380 50% of the date are you

04:23:18.700 more concerned about

04:23:20.100 getting scammed by a

04:23:20.980 woman or finding your

04:23:21.800 future question why do

04:23:23.560 you avoid questions like

04:23:24.820 the plague just answer the

04:23:26.740 question you don't have

04:23:28.080 to ask me a question just

04:23:29.200 answer the question can

04:23:30.300 you explain to me how your

04:23:33.320 chances of getting scammed

04:23:35.220 would increase on a first

04:23:37.660 date if a woman paid for

04:23:39.740 50% of the date can you

04:23:41.440 explain how your chances

04:23:42.180 hail and well met lol

04:23:43.860 paladins donated $200 and

04:23:46.280 two cents i have dated a

04:23:48.460 lot more than andrew and i'm

04:23:50.520 a multi-millionaire a good

04:23:52.260 way of weeding out chicks like

04:23:53.820 this scammer is to take them

04:23:55.160 out to kfc or twisted teas in

04:23:57.840 the park yeah but i mean i

04:24:00.060 don't even disagree with that

04:24:00.940 but hang on don't answer to

04:24:02.100 that don't answer that answer

04:24:03.240 to my question please can you

04:24:05.760 explain to me how your

04:24:06.860 chances how your chances of

04:24:09.460 getting scammed would increase

04:24:10.720 if a woman paid for 50% of the

04:24:12.640 first date you won't be getting

04:24:15.360 a second date she already but

04:24:17.260 prior to the date she already

04:24:18.800 agreed to paying the 50% if she

04:24:21.340 already agreed to pay then she

04:24:22.760 doesn't care then she's really

04:24:25.260 curious about going out with

04:24:27.800 learning more about you i guess and

04:24:30.060 wouldn't that decrease your

04:24:30.940 chance of getting scammed on

04:24:32.020 that date for a free date sure

04:24:35.060 but i think women who have high

04:24:36.940 self-esteem for the most part

04:24:38.860 want to go out with a guy who's

04:24:40.180 showing them that they are

04:24:42.620 willing to invest in the

04:24:44.440 relationship uh i have a couple

04:24:47.980 things here on that um you uh

04:24:52.540 used to do sex work right uh

04:24:55.900 of so sex work essentially okay

04:25:00.040 um do you think men with high

04:25:02.460 self-esteem would refuse to go on

04:25:04.060 a date with a sex worker even a

04:25:06.420 past sex worker i think so i think

04:25:08.940 it depends on the type of guy and

04:25:10.380 their values some men are fine with

04:25:13.380 it uh others aren't just depends on

04:25:17.040 their values okay um so let me read a

04:25:24.840 couple chats here because uh ava has

04:25:26.780 to uh leave but we'll kind of jump

04:25:29.100 right back into it we have uh kill i

04:25:31.940 can't pull it up a kill of cereal

04:25:33.500 said did it ever used to be a trial

04:25:34.900 by death if two people of different

04:25:36.580 religions were sharing carnal

04:25:37.860 knowledge of each other like in the

04:25:39.480 way back days or currently trial by

04:25:42.540 death if two people of different

04:25:44.660 religions so he's basically asked if

04:25:48.100 well it wasn't really a trial by

04:25:49.500 death he would just need some

04:25:51.240 religions just get put to death

04:25:52.660 is that i yeah i don't know uh i mean

04:25:59.040 isn't it the case for these religions

04:26:01.720 that even just premarital sex is

04:26:03.560 well for many religions you're not

04:26:06.400 allowed to date outside of that

04:26:07.480 religion or have a relationship

04:26:09.740 outside of that really well you're

04:26:10.980 definitely not allowed to marry

04:26:11.940 sometimes you can date outside of it

04:26:13.500 but you're not allowed to marry

04:26:14.180 outside of it we have danny m i'm in

04:26:17.820 my soft guy era i want to be wined and

04:26:19.640 dined on the date why should i have to

04:26:21.240 pay for the date aren't men and women

04:26:22.640 equal now quick answer admitted he's

04:26:25.300 in his soft guy era and it's giving

04:26:27.160 that yeah but so like why should he

04:26:31.620 have to pay for the date if he's a soft

04:26:34.000 guy and he's looking for a woman to pay

04:26:36.180 on the date that's his right

04:26:37.480 but what but you're saying okay let's

04:26:42.600 say your position is you think well men

04:26:45.580 should pay women should not tolerate

04:26:48.020 men wanting split so why yes we get

04:26:53.160 that men can want it but why should men

04:26:57.120 pay because i think men understand that

04:27:01.160 women are looking more for a provider

04:27:03.240 type and it kind of shows off the bat

04:27:06.260 that they're willing to provide at

04:27:08.600 least a little bit of their expendable

04:27:12.420 income yes so we get that women want

04:27:15.020 men to pay why should men pay because

04:27:17.920 don't men want women

04:27:19.680 but yeah sure but what is the argument

04:27:26.000 from women as to why men should do it

04:27:30.000 like what's the actual argument she's

04:27:31.660 kind of consistent on this point right

04:27:33.560 so the consistency on this point is

04:27:35.400 just to say she believes from her from

04:27:37.880 her paradigm that women are a prize and

04:27:41.240 that if you want the prize you got to

04:27:42.620 pay for the prize right isn't that

04:27:46.580 basically what you're saying yeah yeah

04:27:48.580 i mean i think women who have high

04:27:49.820 enough self-esteem to see themselves

04:27:51.540 as a prize would conduct themselves

04:27:54.080 accordingly yeah that's consistent but

04:27:57.000 i just i just want to ask you this

04:27:58.660 since since it is consistent do you

04:28:01.160 think that a man with high self-esteem

04:28:02.720 should see the woman as the prize or

04:28:04.620 should he see himself as the prize they

04:28:06.560 should both want to be king and queen of

04:28:08.660 the castle they should both do kings

04:28:10.880 wait wait i'm sorry if kings pay for

04:28:13.560 the queen isn't the queen supposed to

04:28:15.620 serve the king to a certain extent yeah

04:28:19.440 i'm not so sure that you know what

04:28:21.780 kings and queens do well he pays that's

04:28:25.020 all that matters

04:28:25.740 okay we have got to be consistent here

04:28:31.880 too i think it's consistent to say that

04:28:33.620 you think women are the prize i think

04:28:35.900 that that's consistent to say that men

04:28:37.320 should pay because you think that women

04:28:38.540 are the prize that's totally consistent i

04:28:40.540 can at least understand where where your

04:28:42.860 thought process comes from there that

04:28:44.260 makes sense to me but what man who

04:28:47.720 considers himself to be high value or to

04:28:50.280 have high value or to have high self-esteem

04:28:52.540 would ever accept in a million years he's

04:28:54.920 not the prize isn't that what makes him

04:28:57.420 the guy who's high value and high status

04:28:59.960 i'm the prize not you

04:29:01.420 i think that that's kind of devaluing the

04:29:04.600 woman if a guy has high you're devaluing

04:29:08.260 him

04:29:08.640 no i don't think so because a guy who

04:29:12.520 has high self-esteem would want a woman

04:29:15.160 by his side who he can you know show off

04:29:20.180 that he has got yeah i mean who sounds

04:29:23.840 like a sucker not a high not a guy who

04:29:26.240 has high self-esteem why would a high

04:29:28.320 self-esteem guy who thought a lot of

04:29:30.380 himself was highly confident go oh you

04:29:32.900 know what i'll just go pay for all your

04:29:34.160 fucking shit you know you have to do

04:29:35.400 anything i just want to flex i just want

04:29:37.660 to show you how great i am would that be

04:29:40.020 the opposite of high self-esteem to do

04:29:41.900 that to have to impress you wouldn't that

04:29:44.000 be low self-esteem no i think a lot of men

04:29:46.640 gain value in monetary things because they

04:29:51.840 want to be able to have a high status

04:29:58.280 woman i think that's a lot of way a high

04:30:01.480 status woman that's weird wait a second if

04:30:05.000 you think you're going to get a high

04:30:06.680 status woman you're high status man right

04:30:09.540 you think that the only way to do that is

04:30:12.180 to give her your money it's not just about

04:30:15.980 the money it's showing that you're willing

04:30:18.160 to invest in the relationship so not only

04:30:21.080 money but time and effort and it takes

04:30:23.300 what's her investment what's her investment

04:30:25.480 back in the relationship to a guy who

04:30:27.620 considers himself high status have he so

04:30:29.740 for in other words if i'm if i was a

04:30:31.540 multi-millionaire and you know 10 times

04:30:34.060 more handsome than i am and i wanted some

04:30:37.120 chick right i desired her uh and i said

04:30:40.720 okay let's go out and let's have a date

04:30:42.560 and she just saw me as a wallet why the

04:30:44.800 why would i ever humor that when i just

04:30:46.600 go right you don't get it you don't get

04:30:49.180 it it's not about seeing someone as a

04:30:50.760 wallet it's about showing that as a guy

04:30:54.360 you are putting in not only your time

04:30:57.600 but your money and your effort towards

04:30:59.820 getting to know the woman yeah but

04:31:01.680 usually you get something for that yeah

04:31:04.420 you get like do you not value your

04:31:06.900 relationships with women what you're

04:31:08.260 still doing what you're still doing is

04:31:10.000 considering the woman the prize i don't

04:31:11.920 believe that a high status man

04:31:13.320 donated one hundred dollars men need to

04:31:16.880 know that if a woman refuses to pay half

04:31:19.280 she may refuse to do other things that

04:31:21.560 matter in future when it comes to

04:31:23.300 milestone changes in life together an

04:31:25.940 ethical slash supportive type pays half

04:31:28.700 yo kill of cereal thank you for the

04:31:30.780 tts man by the way tts has been lowered

04:31:33.080 to a hundred uh if you guys want to get

04:31:35.300 your i mean you're right i don't get it

04:31:37.480 because i would not ever think that a

04:31:40.140 high a very high status man who was very

04:31:42.660 good looking who had high self

04:31:44.720 confidence would ever see a woman as a

04:31:47.280 prize why would he so do you like not

04:31:51.940 value your relationships with women oh

04:31:56.700 i'm happily married and what you didn't

04:32:00.100 pay for the first date with your wife we

04:32:02.960 didn't have a date on our first date

04:32:04.900 where either of us had to pay at a

04:32:06.840 picnic okay who brought she paid i guess

04:32:10.320 she paid then because she made the food

04:32:12.040 okay good for her if that's what she

04:32:14.680 wants to do i'm glad that that's legal

04:32:16.820 what what is yeah but nobody was

04:32:20.400 disputing the legality of this thing

04:32:22.560 i'm just i'm just saying it's like

04:32:24.540 everyone has a right allowed yeah it's

04:32:26.620 allowed like i'm just saying even if i

04:32:29.880 had taken her out and i had gone on a

04:32:31.800 date with her and i had paid for the

04:32:33.460 date uh each individual situation would

04:32:36.200 be different and i would still consider

04:32:38.560 myself to be the prize inside of that

04:32:42.320 paradigm so if i had said to her look

04:32:44.440 uh i want you to pay for half i don't

04:32:47.280 even think she would have to maybe just

04:32:49.340 the willingness to might be enough maybe

04:32:52.380 you'd still be like i'm still gonna pay

04:32:53.980 but just knowing that they would right

04:32:56.240 yeah

04:32:57.000 dragon slayer 34 donated 100

04:33:01.880 red shirt is prettiest let her talk more

04:33:05.940 star gives she let us tap energy

04:33:08.580 true religion handkerchief shirt sex on

04:33:11.900 first date is ick plus size model could

04:33:14.600 more attractive if she loses weight

04:33:16.760 thank you dragon slayer 34 do you want

04:33:22.660 to say anything to dragon slayer 34

04:33:24.540 thank you dragon slayer 34 okay thank

04:33:28.940 you appreciate it man uh our new hire ava

04:33:31.780 does have to uh leave at the moment do

04:33:35.000 you want to say a parting word i'll see

04:33:38.900 you all again i'm happy to be here though

04:33:41.820 thank you to everyone watching way too

04:33:44.240 talkative ava you need so damn talkative i

04:33:47.160 just need to yeah out of control i just

04:33:50.800 need to be quiet you're right cool um i

04:33:56.500 think we might shift the chairs a little

04:33:57.880 bit but uh thank you for coming ava we'll

04:34:00.080 see you next time thank you thank you

04:34:02.020 bye and uh nice to meet you nice to meet

04:34:05.240 you guys let's see here we oh i uh yeah we

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04:34:15.040 drop us a prime sub guys it's been 49

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04:34:28.380 thing for the follows lady boner 5000

04:34:30.140 thank you for the follow appreciate it

04:34:31.260 bro solid name great name perfect name

04:34:34.460 beautiful name so wait going back to your

04:34:37.180 notes here you said uh

04:34:39.180 um hmm

04:34:43.300 i'm trying to think where we left off

04:34:50.180 uh do non-traditional so okay we were

04:34:56.880 talking about chivalry who pays you think

04:34:59.180 men should be chivalrous in all instances

04:35:01.340 even with non-traditional women correct

04:35:03.560 look if that's how they want to treat

04:35:06.860 someone if if they want to have a

04:35:09.520 relationship with someone they should

04:35:10.820 treat them with respect kindness and try

04:35:13.480 to go the extra mile if they're really

04:35:15.340 interested in pursuing a relationship

04:35:17.160 okay doesn't really matter if the woman's

04:35:19.880 traditional or not okay but let me ask

04:35:22.780 you a question do you think non-traditional

04:35:25.060 women are right for desiring traditional

04:35:29.240 treatment from men is that fair

04:35:31.700 sure so you're fine with that women can

04:35:38.440 have whatever standards they want to have

04:35:40.720 for their own dating yeah i mean if they're

04:35:43.680 not finding anyone to live up to that

04:35:45.160 standard maybe they need to reassess but i

04:35:47.520 think that initially if a woman decides

04:35:49.440 she doesn't want to go out with a guy

04:35:50.820 who will make her pay 50 percent she's

04:35:53.100 entitled to have that opinion

04:35:54.780 if a guy doesn't if a guy doesn't want to

04:35:59.060 pay the 100 percent because she's not

04:36:00.820 traditional enough that's his take he

04:36:04.540 doesn't have to pay for her well i'm not

04:36:06.760 really interested in having a conversation

04:36:08.580 of should people be allowed to have

04:36:11.900 these preferences for example i am allowed

04:36:16.060 to have a preference that i only want to

04:36:19.600 date a 20 year old woman with double d's

04:36:24.320 and a big fat ass and who's a virgin and

04:36:26.400 who's a billionaire heiress and i i'm

04:36:29.180 allowed to want that but is it realistic

04:36:32.580 can i get that you can change your

04:36:35.240 expectations a bit if you're not finding

04:36:38.980 your dream woman right so but how about

04:36:41.980 this so i'm a i'm a guy who's slept with a

04:36:47.080 ton of women and i'm i've been

04:36:49.340 promiscuous and i'm not saying this is

04:36:51.920 the case i'm just painting a hypothetical

04:36:54.040 here yeah i've been promiscuous and i want

04:36:57.740 to date a virgin

04:36:58.360 and i but i don't want to pay for first

04:37:02.580 dates

04:37:02.980 but i want like a woman who's super

04:37:06.120 submissive who's a virgin who's beautiful

04:37:09.200 who's feminine but i don't want to pay

04:37:12.240 for first dates i don't want to be

04:37:14.100 traditional

04:37:14.560 but i still want her is that like

04:37:18.380 realistic

04:37:18.980 if you can find it and go for it not the

04:37:25.580 question i don't know if it's super

04:37:26.520 realistic

04:37:27.060 but i think it happens and if that's how

04:37:30.540 you want to live your life then you can

04:37:33.560 now is it a good deal for the girl to

04:37:35.580 date me

04:37:36.000 it's up to her to decide but

04:37:38.680 generally speaking i don't think so

04:37:40.320 you don't think so

04:37:41.040 so then is it a good deal for a

04:37:42.780 traditional man

04:37:43.660 to date and provide and be chivalrous and

04:37:47.020 be traditional

04:37:47.560 with a non-traditional woman

04:37:49.360 is it a good deal for him

04:37:51.620 yes or no

04:37:53.040 if he's really interested in her

04:37:54.520 i just need a yes or no

04:37:55.520 i guess not

04:37:57.380 okay so then should

04:37:59.660 non-traditional women

04:38:00.840 expect or demand traditional treatment

04:38:04.340 like i said i think everyone's entitled to

04:38:09.660 have the standards that they have for

04:38:11.140 dating

04:38:11.480 i well then okay then i am entitled

04:38:17.100 or let's say this hypothetical man

04:38:19.540 hypothetical man who's promiscuous

04:38:21.900 non-traditional wants to date multiple

04:38:23.940 women at the same time and doesn't want to

04:38:26.400 pay for first dates doesn't want to do

04:38:27.780 anything traditional uh he wants like a

04:38:30.180 traditional virgin submissive feminine

04:38:31.780 woman

04:38:32.160 uh he should he should you know it's okay

04:38:35.900 for him that want that right

04:38:37.140 yeah you can have whatever you want is it

04:38:40.860 realistic probably not but at the same

04:38:43.280 time who are we to say you should

04:38:45.620 completely change your ideals on what

04:38:48.100 you want in a partner just because

04:38:50.080 maybe your past like maybe he's

04:38:52.680 changed alvin sam donated 100

04:38:55.700 why should a woman be called high

04:38:58.560 status when her husband works long

04:39:00.580 hours and demanding jobs so she can

04:39:02.780 have an easier comfortable life you

04:39:05.580 make zero logical sense ffs

04:39:09.120 uh alvin sam good to see you back in

04:39:13.620 the chat man i feel like we haven't seen

04:39:14.860 you too much

04:39:15.360 recently really appreciate your tts thank

04:39:17.480 you man

04:39:17.780 um why should women be called high

04:39:21.380 status when her husband that's a good

04:39:24.380 question um i guess to move things on

04:39:26.860 um i just it's interesting to me like

04:39:29.080 so who what kind of woman do you think

04:39:34.460 is deserving of chivalrous treatment

04:39:37.080 any woman who wants it but don't you

04:39:43.360 think okay so don't you think

04:39:44.860 did andrew say there's no such thing as

04:39:48.900 a high value woman i don't know man i'd

04:39:50.800 pay for a couple hundred first dates

04:39:51.920 with madison and feed uncle andrew's

04:39:54.800 ass too

04:39:55.800 okay thank you za ross pay for a couple

04:40:01.020 hundred first dates i literally didn't

04:40:02.820 say that i didn't say there's no such

04:40:04.720 thing as a high value woman totally made

04:40:06.500 up

04:40:06.800 um so

04:40:08.800 oh do you think that not uh non-traditional

04:40:14.380 women are just i kind of already asked

04:40:16.580 are deserving of traditional treatment

04:40:17.960 if by traditional treatment like respect

04:40:23.900 and cared for yes you can still respect a

04:40:27.580 girl and care about her and not pay for

04:40:29.120 the first date

04:40:29.700 and like open the car door and do all

04:40:31.680 that shit

04:40:32.120 i think yeah you can i think it's how she

04:40:36.260 views it

04:40:37.060 okay what was the thing you said before

04:40:38.980 the tts came in what did you

04:40:40.340 i wanted to touch back on that you

04:40:42.340 recall

04:40:42.600 i don't think that's fine um so

04:40:46.400 my view is when it comes to chivalry

04:40:49.540 who is deserving of chivalry

04:40:51.140 right ladies if you want gentlemanly

04:40:54.000 treatment shouldn't you be a lady

04:40:56.020 right as a woman

04:40:57.000 that seems fair right

04:40:59.140 sure but life isn't always fair

04:41:02.520 sure but

04:41:05.900 okay i don't even know how to tackle

04:41:09.000 wait hold on hold on hold on let me

04:41:11.620 just okay

04:41:12.120 so my view is then

04:41:14.720 so

04:41:15.660 my position would be

04:41:18.240 you used to do sex work

04:41:20.300 okay

04:41:21.040 my position if your position is

04:41:22.860 men should pay for women

04:41:24.640 my position is

04:41:27.120 any woman who has done sex work

04:41:29.080 or does sex work

04:41:30.000 sorry mia

04:41:30.580 should be barred

04:41:33.560 from receiving

04:41:34.780 chivalrous treatment

04:41:36.200 barred

04:41:36.820 barred

04:41:37.440 thank you for

04:41:38.520 being a supporter of the content

04:41:40.080 you're not muted

04:41:40.880 oh sorry

04:41:41.440 sorry bro

04:41:42.080 it's okay

04:41:42.580 uh

04:41:43.600 sorry

04:41:44.220 yes when

04:41:44.900 they should be

04:41:45.640 who is making this law

04:41:47.260 i'm making the law

04:41:48.900 nope

04:41:49.320 under my

04:41:50.540 yes i'm gonna

04:41:51.240 do a coup d'etat

04:41:52.520 manted man

04:41:53.680 thank you for the gift of 20

04:41:54.540 i'm gonna do a coup d'etat

04:41:56.100 of the government

04:41:56.900 i'm gonna pass a law

04:41:57.800 that if you

04:41:58.340 if you either are

04:41:59.700 or were a sex worker

04:42:00.860 no man should ever have to pay

04:42:02.940 for a first date

04:42:03.640 with you

04:42:04.200 because only ladies

04:42:06.440 here's my standard

04:42:07.680 here's the male standard

04:42:08.700 only ladies

04:42:10.080 deserve

04:42:11.020 chivalrous

04:42:12.040 gentlemanly treatment

04:42:13.420 i'm not saying you don't

04:42:14.640 you can treat her

04:42:15.760 well

04:42:16.360 doesn't mean you have to

04:42:17.940 call her

04:42:18.500 names

04:42:19.360 treat her poorly

04:42:20.480 but when it comes to the

04:42:22.220 expect

04:42:23.020 the

04:42:23.500 expected

04:42:25.060 gender roles

04:42:26.340 you have

04:42:27.880 failed

04:42:28.480 at your

04:42:30.000 expected gender role

04:42:31.600 as a woman

04:42:32.280 by engaging in sex work

04:42:33.760 sorry mia

04:42:34.340 i'm good

04:42:35.060 and so

04:42:36.060 you have

04:42:37.080 you have abandoned

04:42:39.020 you have

04:42:40.780 oh what's the term

04:42:42.560 you have

04:42:43.000 not abandoned

04:42:43.660 disregarded

04:42:45.220 no there's another word

04:42:46.480 give me more synonyms

04:42:47.500 gave up

04:42:48.080 more synonyms

04:42:49.300 abandoned

04:42:50.380 neglected

04:42:51.160 terminated

04:42:52.280 you have

04:42:52.620 fucked up

04:42:53.240 fuck i got

04:42:54.120 do i gotta google

04:42:55.220 abandoned synonyms

04:42:57.120 hold on

04:42:57.560 okay

04:42:58.120 neglected

04:42:59.160 deserted

04:42:59.760 ruined your chances

04:43:00.860 forsaken

04:43:01.320 rejected

04:43:02.160 dumped

04:43:02.540 ditched

04:43:03.160 that's a good one

04:43:03.820 reckless neglected

04:43:04.640 uh

04:43:05.160 you have deserted

04:43:06.180 abandoned

04:43:07.080 you have abandoned

04:43:07.960 keep it

04:43:11.600 you have abandoned

04:43:12.440 you have abandoned

04:43:13.700 uh

04:43:14.840 your sort of

04:43:16.200 uh

04:43:16.500 what you ought

04:43:17.640 what you should have

04:43:18.420 brought to the table

04:43:19.240 oh i didn't know i did that

04:43:21.360 i'm just saying

04:43:24.100 i don't think you pay for

04:43:26.500 a first date for a woman

04:43:27.360 who's not a lady

04:43:28.000 now here's the difference

04:43:29.640 that i'll actually grant

04:43:30.700 though

04:43:30.940 i can say this

04:43:32.620 you'll still have

04:43:34.180 guys who are gonna

04:43:35.220 still

04:43:35.840 because they

04:43:36.780 one they know

04:43:37.420 it's the most effective

04:43:38.140 dating strategy

04:43:38.900 as a man

04:43:39.480 to just pay for

04:43:40.260 the first date

04:43:40.820 psycho donated

04:43:42.140 one hundred dollars

04:43:43.540 me a honey

04:43:44.480 oh no

04:43:44.980 why you have to do

04:43:46.560 the dirty work

04:43:47.540 forever barbed

04:43:48.720 forever barbed

04:43:49.740 scarlet letter

04:43:51.960 damn

04:43:52.460 i really do have

04:43:53.360 the scarlet letter

04:43:54.020 scarlet letter

04:43:54.760 it's okay

04:43:55.260 here's the thing

04:43:56.600 and i'll admit this

04:43:57.580 men are still

04:43:58.520 even if you've done

04:43:59.340 gang bangs

04:44:00.360 and like crazy shit

04:44:01.840 you got a hundred

04:44:02.700 plus body count

04:44:03.540 these simps out here

04:44:04.740 are still gonna simp

04:44:06.400 simps gonna fucking

04:44:07.380 simp

04:44:07.780 they're gonna pay

04:44:08.540 for your shit

04:44:09.200 they're gonna trick

04:44:10.220 they're gonna be

04:44:10.940 fucking i don't know

04:44:12.000 what the term

04:44:12.400 trick marks

04:44:13.080 whatever the fuck

04:44:13.820 they're still gonna

04:44:14.660 pay for your shit

04:44:15.380 they're gonna pay

04:44:16.080 for dates

04:44:16.580 they're gonna

04:44:17.160 it's it's kind of

04:44:19.400 like cucking

04:44:19.840 they're cucks

04:44:20.440 they're cucks

04:44:21.340 that's not exactly

04:44:22.220 the definition of that

04:44:23.440 whatever anyways

04:44:24.300 look all i'm saying

04:44:25.660 is look

04:44:26.300 i'm just saying

04:44:27.720 what i think

04:44:28.320 should be

04:44:29.100 it's not

04:44:30.400 it's not reality

04:44:30.920 you're not living in reality

04:44:31.980 unfortunately it's not

04:44:32.780 yeah these women

04:44:33.560 who are essentially

04:44:34.900 uh prostitutes

04:44:36.900 it's not

04:44:37.580 that's not what

04:44:38.200 you're trading

04:44:38.620 you're

04:44:39.060 when a woman

04:44:40.220 normally

04:44:41.100 goes on a date

04:44:42.240 she's not trading

04:44:43.380 her body

04:44:44.080 as if she were in

04:44:45.560 sw

04:44:46.500 that's not what i'm

04:44:47.200 trading

04:44:47.760 the opportunity

04:44:49.100 to get to know her

04:44:50.040 and her time

04:44:50.880 but okay

04:44:52.500 but so

04:44:53.280 don't you as the woman

04:44:55.400 get the same exact thing

04:44:57.040 i get your time

04:44:58.900 and attention

04:44:59.360 you get my time

04:45:00.880 and attention

04:45:01.360 it holds different value

04:45:03.420 for men and women

04:45:04.300 actually i i totally

04:45:06.880 i actually disagree

04:45:08.760 i think women care

04:45:10.000 far more about

04:45:10.960 attention

04:45:11.720 than men do

04:45:13.160 so

04:45:14.140 i actually think

04:45:15.700 that our attention

04:45:17.220 to you

04:45:17.940 is more valuable

04:45:19.840 i wouldn't agree

04:45:24.200 because like you said

04:45:26.320 there's a lot of guys

04:45:27.240 out there

04:45:27.740 who want

04:45:29.700 female attention

04:45:31.280 and they're willing

04:45:32.800 to take them out

04:45:34.040 on nice first dates

04:45:35.340 and provide for them

04:45:36.300 and pay

04:45:36.700 because they want

04:45:37.980 the female attention

04:45:39.540 i don't think men

04:45:43.820 want attention

04:45:45.020 i think they kind of like

04:45:46.680 they do

04:45:47.440 they want

04:45:47.780 they want attention

04:45:48.440 i think she's saying

04:45:49.100 because they don't

04:45:49.620 experience it as often

04:45:50.920 so like

04:45:51.280 so women

04:45:53.160 for example

04:45:54.500 will go to a night

04:45:56.240 club

04:45:56.520 and

04:45:57.560 they'll want

04:45:59.780 the attention

04:46:00.420 of men

04:46:01.080 even if they have

04:46:02.420 no romantic interest

04:46:04.080 in the man

04:46:05.260 like if a guy

04:46:06.080 you go to the club

04:46:07.240 and a guy

04:46:07.920 approaches you

04:46:08.860 you might even be

04:46:10.160 angling to just

04:46:11.060 immediately reject him

04:46:12.260 but you'll still

04:46:13.240 enjoy that

04:46:14.240 attention

04:46:15.220 first off

04:46:16.600 it's not clear to me

04:46:18.640 if there's a

04:46:19.740 corresponding thing

04:46:20.920 in men

04:46:21.500 where men are like

04:46:22.700 seeking to like

04:46:23.920 i just want to go

04:46:25.660 out

04:46:26.000 and have a bunch

04:46:27.020 of women

04:46:27.380 hit on me

04:46:27.940 and turn them

04:46:29.080 down

04:46:29.480 that doesn't exist

04:46:31.500 it doesn't happen

04:46:32.560 i would agree

04:46:34.840 it wouldn't make

04:46:35.620 much sense

04:46:36.500 so women

04:46:36.780 care far more

04:46:37.720 about attention

04:46:38.360 than men do

04:46:39.380 we want something

04:46:40.400 different

04:46:40.900 what kind

04:46:41.340 of attention

04:46:41.900 it's like

04:46:42.380 validation

04:46:43.000 yeah

04:46:43.480 i think both

04:46:44.440 i bet

04:46:44.820 i think both

04:46:45.420 want validation

04:46:46.300 no we actually

04:46:47.240 genuinely want

04:46:48.560 your romantic

04:46:49.560 interest

04:46:50.520 but that's

04:46:51.100 different than

04:46:51.660 attention

04:46:52.220 recognition

04:46:53.020 that's what i'm

04:46:53.660 saying validation

04:46:54.380 for like

04:46:55.020 men want that

04:46:55.780 too

04:46:56.140 like validation

04:46:57.580 that somebody

04:46:58.260 enjoys our

04:46:58.900 company

04:46:59.320 validation

04:46:59.980 personable

04:47:00.800 validation

04:47:01.880 that of

04:47:02.560 women want

04:47:03.220 more of an

04:47:03.640 attention

04:47:04.120 seeking

04:47:04.600 was that

04:47:05.120 revoked

04:47:06.080 i said

04:47:07.340 no i'm like

04:47:08.260 i'm not good

04:47:09.160 with vocab

04:47:10.000 what about

04:47:10.960 love

04:47:11.640 i mean

04:47:12.220 are we there

04:47:12.880 looking for love

04:47:14.000 isn't that

04:47:14.620 the basis of it

04:47:15.640 and then we just

04:47:16.240 want to take care

04:47:16.960 of each other

04:47:17.460 and have someone

04:47:17.980 take care of us

04:47:18.840 and once you

04:47:19.860 genuinely love

04:47:20.600 somebody like

04:47:21.100 the last person

04:47:21.820 even though we

04:47:22.260 didn't work out

04:47:22.760 we didn't have

04:47:23.180 any of these

04:47:23.660 problems

04:47:24.020 we just

04:47:24.560 cared and loved

04:47:25.740 for each other

04:47:26.300 beautiful

04:47:26.660 i like that

04:47:27.480 start that was

04:47:27.960 beautiful

04:47:28.420 put it on a

04:47:29.520 hallmark card

04:47:30.780 uh so

04:47:31.820 a coaster

04:47:32.920 but like we said

04:47:34.080 like love at first

04:47:35.360 sight

04:47:35.720 usually you

04:47:36.780 grow into

04:47:37.620 loving someone

04:47:38.200 after getting

04:47:38.620 to know them

04:47:39.520 hold on

04:47:40.060 we're off

04:47:40.660 topic

04:47:41.160 okay

04:47:41.860 um

04:47:42.600 ultimately look

04:47:44.100 my position is

04:47:44.960 if you're not

04:47:45.960 a lady

04:47:46.420 and by

04:47:47.780 simply by

04:47:48.580 virtue of

04:47:49.060 having

04:47:49.280 killer of

04:47:50.960 cereal

04:47:51.340 donated

04:47:51.860 one hundred

04:47:52.580 dollars

04:47:53.200 get some

04:47:54.380 get some

04:47:55.320 keep life

04:47:56.260 in perspective

04:47:56.880 live within

04:47:57.720 your means

04:47:58.520 stay hydrated

04:47:59.840 stay healthy

04:48:01.120 be true to

04:48:02.180 self and

04:48:02.680 others

04:48:03.140 keep promises

04:48:04.380 protect the

04:48:05.480 kids

04:48:05.940 last question

04:48:07.440 most embarrassing

04:48:08.680 date

04:48:09.100 you'll kill

04:48:10.200 of cereal

04:48:10.520 thank you for

04:48:10.860 the tts

04:48:11.280 we'll get to

04:48:11.680 that back

04:48:12.360 in a sec

04:48:12.780 so my view

04:48:14.800 is is that

04:48:15.780 chivalry is

04:48:17.120 reserved for

04:48:18.000 ladies

04:48:18.540 and so if

04:48:21.120 you have

04:48:21.780 been involved

04:48:23.040 in sex work

04:48:23.780 in any

04:48:24.280 capacity

04:48:24.820 you have

04:48:25.980 abandoned

04:48:26.820 and you've

04:48:27.760 rescinded

04:48:28.380 revoked

04:48:28.760 god damn

04:48:29.260 what the

04:48:29.560 fuck is

04:48:29.880 the word

04:48:30.240 rescinded

04:48:31.080 revoked

04:48:31.540 abandoned

04:48:31.960 you have

04:48:33.180 abandoned

04:48:33.980 you can

04:48:35.460 never

04:48:35.920 I don't

04:48:36.800 think you

04:48:37.160 can

04:48:37.320 forsaken

04:48:37.800 thank you

04:48:38.200 I don't

04:48:38.500 know what

04:48:38.720 it is

04:48:38.940 if you

04:48:40.120 have ever

04:48:40.660 done

04:48:40.980 sex work

04:48:41.580 I don't

04:48:42.160 think you

04:48:42.460 can ever

04:48:43.220 claim to

04:48:45.640 be a lady

04:48:46.840 okay that's

04:48:49.480 your opinion

04:48:50.020 but it's not

04:48:51.000 the reality

04:48:51.540 it's not the

04:48:52.440 reality

04:48:52.880 no it is

04:48:53.320 reality

04:48:53.760 no because

04:48:54.400 I've had

04:48:54.920 guys pay

04:48:55.520 for first

04:48:55.980 dates

04:48:56.340 okay yes

04:48:56.900 you will

04:48:57.340 still

04:48:57.660 there's simps

04:48:58.620 out there

04:48:59.020 there's guys

04:48:59.440 who don't

04:48:59.820 have any

04:49:00.400 sure fine

04:49:01.540 there are

04:49:02.120 some guys

04:49:02.500 who are

04:49:02.700 willing to

04:49:03.060 tolerate that

04:49:03.660 I guess

04:49:04.840 what I'm

04:49:05.120 saying here

04:49:05.760 is that

04:49:07.680 how do I

04:49:08.840 explain it

04:49:09.200 again

04:49:09.400 I don't

04:49:12.700 think it's

04:49:13.440 the point

04:49:13.800 of no

04:49:14.140 return

04:49:14.680 I'm

04:49:16.980 I've

04:49:17.400 returned

04:49:17.840 and I'm

04:49:18.420 here

04:49:18.800 it's a

04:49:19.780 black hole

04:49:21.320 event horizon

04:49:22.560 once you

04:49:23.640 have

04:49:24.080 gang bang

04:49:27.140 videos of

04:49:27.620 you on the

04:49:27.980 internet

04:49:28.180 you can't

04:49:28.760 be a lady

04:49:29.180 anymore

04:49:29.660 sorry

04:49:30.820 depends I

04:49:31.560 guess

04:49:31.700 on the guy

04:49:32.120 you're asking

04:49:32.960 you lost

04:49:33.660 your lady

04:49:34.860 card

04:49:35.240 start

04:49:36.640 splitting

04:49:36.980 the bill

04:49:38.080 on first

04:49:38.580 dates

04:49:38.900 I think

04:49:39.340 a lot

04:49:39.960 of men

04:49:40.620 would love

04:49:41.420 to pay

04:49:42.080 for a

04:49:42.560 woman

04:49:42.980 brother

04:49:43.800 I think

04:49:46.720 most men

04:49:47.460 who are

04:49:48.580 financially

04:49:49.140 able to

04:49:50.180 and have

04:49:50.560 expendable

04:49:51.040 income

04:49:51.520 are fine

04:49:52.280 with paying

04:49:52.600 for a

04:49:52.860 first date

04:49:53.280 even for

04:49:53.840 a lady

04:49:54.240 who's

04:49:54.720 gang banged

04:49:55.460 who's

04:49:55.640 gang banged

04:49:56.680 who did

04:49:56.920 a gang bang

04:49:57.560 that's

04:49:58.300 disgusting

04:49:58.560 she's not

04:49:59.580 a lady

04:50:00.020 anymore

04:50:00.540 she's just

04:50:02.160 a woman

04:50:02.580 she gave

04:50:03.580 up the

04:50:03.920 name

04:50:04.200 so that's

04:50:04.720 all he's

04:50:05.120 saying

04:50:05.300 yes

04:50:06.460 she can

04:50:07.500 I'm not

04:50:09.020 on anybody's

04:50:09.500 side

04:50:09.600 I'm just

04:50:09.840 giving the

04:50:10.320 plain simple

04:50:11.060 what he's

04:50:11.880 saying is

04:50:12.240 a lady

04:50:13.200 would not

04:50:13.820 contribute to

04:50:14.680 that line

04:50:15.240 of work

04:50:15.520 and I do

04:50:16.060 so I'm

04:50:17.300 not a lady

04:50:17.840 in this

04:50:19.380 interpretation

04:50:21.140 I'm not a

04:50:21.940 lady

04:50:22.100 they forfeit

04:50:23.140 for the

04:50:23.460 privilege

04:50:23.880 of my

04:50:24.320 chivalry

04:50:24.860 sorry

04:50:25.440 my

04:50:25.820 yo

04:50:26.360 Jake

04:50:26.760 and

04:50:26.980 Ecken

04:50:27.320 good to

04:50:27.700 see

04:50:27.900 in the

04:50:28.100 chat

04:50:28.380 I think

04:50:28.680 me

04:50:28.920 appreciate

04:50:29.340 it

04:50:29.740 it's

04:50:30.980 the reason

04:50:31.360 it would

04:50:31.600 be

04:50:31.760 considered

04:50:32.120 reality

04:50:32.680 I'm not

04:50:33.200 on either

04:50:33.460 side

04:50:33.740 I'm just

04:50:34.180 saying

04:50:34.360 the reason

04:50:34.740 because people

04:50:35.520 are like

04:50:35.820 oh that's

04:50:36.280 not lady

04:50:36.820 like

04:50:37.180 this isn't

04:50:37.860 lady

04:50:38.140 like

04:50:38.460 and that's

04:50:39.320 the reality

04:50:39.960 of like

04:50:40.520 what we've

04:50:41.340 been grown

04:50:41.720 up to do

04:50:42.300 and then

04:50:42.800 when you're

04:50:43.260 not quote

04:50:44.080 lady

04:50:44.440 like

04:50:44.860 then you're

04:50:45.580 giving up

04:50:46.140 that

04:50:46.360 you're giving

04:50:47.860 up your

04:50:48.300 like lady

04:50:49.700 card

04:50:50.040 like you said

04:50:50.760 you lose

04:50:51.220 the lady

04:50:51.580 card

04:50:51.900 maybe I'm

04:50:57.080 in the

04:50:57.520 minority

04:50:58.020 here

04:50:58.460 when it

04:50:59.020 comes to

04:50:59.380 this

04:50:59.740 lol paladins

04:51:02.620 donated

04:51:03.020 100

04:51:03.760 dollars

04:51:04.240 and 2

04:51:04.720 cents

04:51:05.280 I'm sure

04:51:06.560 she completely

04:51:07.280 tells men

04:51:08.060 on the

04:51:08.380 first date

04:51:09.040 that she

04:51:09.400 is a

04:51:09.680 former

04:51:09.940 sex

04:51:10.340 worker

04:51:10.780 she's

04:51:11.620 just

04:51:11.940 a scammer

04:51:12.660 pretending

04:51:13.300 to be

04:51:13.740 something

04:51:14.120 she isn't

04:51:15.260 she wants

04:51:15.840 to get

04:51:16.220 paid

04:51:16.540 by suckers

04:51:17.300 I don't

04:51:19.880 want to

04:51:20.160 get paid

04:51:20.800 by anyone

04:51:21.780 I don't

04:51:24.020 probably tell

04:51:24.600 them on

04:51:24.820 the first

04:51:25.260 date

04:51:25.540 if it

04:51:25.820 doesn't

04:51:26.040 come up

04:51:26.480 but I

04:51:26.920 have told

04:51:27.480 the person

04:51:27.920 I'm currently

04:51:28.580 with

04:51:29.080 and they

04:51:30.460 you don't

04:51:31.020 disclose

04:51:31.460 not on

04:51:33.880 the first

04:51:34.460 date

04:51:34.940 I probably

04:51:35.440 wouldn't

04:51:36.140 how far

04:51:36.660 in

04:51:37.000 until it

04:51:38.420 seems like

04:51:39.000 we're

04:51:39.340 going

04:51:39.860 towards

04:51:40.180 a serious

04:51:40.820 relationship

04:51:41.460 you won't

04:51:42.080 mention it

04:51:42.740 like what's

04:51:43.700 the reasoning

04:51:44.240 behind not

04:51:44.980 mentioning it

04:51:45.540 on a first

04:51:46.020 date

04:51:46.280 I don't

04:51:46.560 think a

04:51:46.820 guy would

04:51:47.240 tell you

04:51:47.740 his

04:51:48.240 like genital

04:51:49.380 size on

04:51:49.880 a first

04:51:50.280 date

04:51:50.580 so I

04:51:51.140 guess

04:51:51.340 it's

04:51:51.560 just

04:51:51.740 personal

04:51:52.400 I don't

04:51:54.280 think that's

04:51:54.740 the same thing

04:51:55.460 I'd ask somebody I'd be like what do you do for work and then you'd say what he does for work and you'd be like oh I do this and then you're like oh cool like what brought you into that and like

04:52:03.500 black shirt rocked and burped that's all for 90 minutes green flag chair one has crazy demands but admitted to renting her nepa boyfriend's parents house and doing porn stop Ryan relinquish or wait relinquish I think

04:52:20.580 wave you're yeah can't the hate Hee and Elawhaabik OK

04:52:21.940 leave you're right wave you're right wave your right wave your right is perfect thank you for highlighting my green flag

04:52:25.320 it's good

04:52:26.620 damn

04:52:26.820 look

04:52:27.900 damn

04:52:28.940 look

04:52:29.000 damn

04:52:29.620 there's guys

04:52:30.940 even the women who do the OS stuff

04:52:34.400 psycho donated $100

04:52:36.940 star

04:52:38.420 are you a big big fan of Ariana Grande

04:52:40.880 does that explain the outfit

04:52:43.000 attitude

04:52:43.700 and everything

04:52:44.820 i don't know when the last time she wore this hair and dress but i do like her music

04:52:51.000 thank you next okay appreciate it psycho appreciate it so look all i'm just saying

04:53:02.180 yeah you can still get the treatment plenty of guys will still do the treatment

04:53:05.620 but uh i'm trying to introduce a new paradigm what's that wait oh anybody remember those like

04:53:13.680 90s oh wait the nine i'm sorry this is totally unrelated i'm just like autism attacking

04:53:20.360 cynodyne a new paradigm and anybody know what i'm talking about andrew wilson

04:53:27.500 the only paradigm i know is the rehab i went cynodyne a new paradigm wait how's it go hold on

04:53:36.220 god damn wait it's cynodyne a new paradigm oh it goes cynodyne a new paradigm in cinema

04:53:43.680 no andrew you know i'm talking about

04:53:46.440 you're alone on this one i don't know where that came i hate to leave you hanging but i just never

04:53:52.820 heard that like movies when you see a movie someone in the chat will relate i bet you know that thx

04:53:57.900 sound yeah yeah the audience is now deaf yeah yeah that's not how it goes sorry that's not how

04:54:04.760 it goes i don't know how it's like the film stuff coming yeah wait do it do it yeah wait do it it's

04:54:10.540 it starts with like a low a low v and then it wait do it just kind of pitches up can you do it

04:54:15.980 i can't really do it you were just about to do it yeah but i can't really do it andrew don't leave

04:54:22.380 me hanging bro i can't i can't do it with you i'll do it with you i'll do it with you i'll do

04:54:27.240 it with you i'll do it with you i'll do it with you let's go it's good it's good but it's just okay

04:54:33.940 hang on hang on i'll just pull up the sound i have no idea what you guys can you find the thx

04:54:41.740 yeah the thx wait is this gonna be like copyright are we gonna get a fucking for the thx thing

04:54:48.080 yeah oh yeah i better not do that actually dang it yeah dang it oh dang it i did the avril song

04:54:55.420 oh dang it i can't do it whatever it's like hey can you do the disney one disney yeah can you do

04:55:04.900 the disney it does it go something like we ruined all our intellectual property yeah basically it goes

04:55:11.260 something like that but you know when like the castle comes on and it has the disney like the disney

04:55:15.300 intro music oh that's mcdonald's that's mcdonald's

04:55:20.640 yeah oh my what is going on okay you gotta wait i feel like i know you are now watching disney well

04:55:28.580 there's a there's actually an old mental exercise right watch this watch this okay so indiana jones

04:55:35.560 star wars right same composer brian you'll be able to hum one but you won't be able to hum the other

04:55:43.140 wait what

04:55:46.900 wait star wars indiana jones same same conductor okay you'll be able to do one but you won't be able

04:55:58.140 to do the other so whichever one you do first you won't be able to do the other one

04:56:02.340 i don't know how it goes i don't know how either of them go but i'm i'm more of like a trekkie to

04:56:11.960 be honest just kidding oh man fail just kidding just kidding i don't watch that shit sorry trekkies

04:56:17.800 wait i think here hold on maybe i can do it like

04:56:19.800 psycho donated 100 dollars rude lindsay you look like you would ruin my life that being said when

04:56:34.700 can the destruction begin i've become too complacent and need some excitement the best way to ask me out

04:56:42.000 is by threatening me so yeah yeah like this though i will rain down on a godly fucking firestorm upon

04:56:49.900 you you're gonna have to call the fucking united nations and get a fucking binding resolution to

04:56:54.320 keep me from fucking destroying you i am talking scorched earth motherfucker i will massacre you

04:57:00.300 i will fuck you up just did it also take you two years to play that one

04:57:05.640 what is this is justin bieber oh like my friends they go

04:57:13.040 can they hear it that's like et or no it's justin bieber it's justin bieber

04:57:20.760 and then wait let me find it's like the the little light bulb

04:57:26.460 the pixar sorry guys this is like wait is this it

04:57:31.320 oh that was good i don't know wait no there's a deeper i don't know if that's it okay whatever

04:57:45.200 i don't know sounds like ai's saying it cynodyne i thought it was way deeper voice

04:57:50.760 the world where the whatever podcast loses all objectivity and starts going off on a derailment

04:57:57.440 which have nothing to do with the show wait andrew can you say can you do in a deep voice

04:58:03.400 cynodyne a new paradigm in cinema cynodyne a new paradigm in cinema you should be it was okay

04:58:12.560 yeah you should do audiobooks i give it a b minus audiobooks like you know the guy that reads the

04:58:18.860 i should do video books you should do the audio audio audio audio audio audio we could have you do

04:58:26.080 that ebooks oh going back to killer of cereal he said most embarrassing date short if you can

04:58:35.180 i can't really think of one right now okay what about you girl was gross i went to the bathroom

04:58:42.200 texted my friend to call me in five minutes to say that he needed something i had to drive her

04:58:47.640 back home and she lived 20 minutes from me and i blasted the music so we couldn't talk peace out

04:58:53.900 oh whoops you when you say gross what do you mean like she smelled bad or something all of it

04:59:01.240 everything everything everything photoshopped pictures gross looking and catfish is the word

04:59:08.440 didn't have a car i drove i picked her up i'm a simp for that i drove 20 minutes

04:59:12.620 damn big loser on that what about you embarrassing date as far as embarrassing i think it just depends on

04:59:23.020 the person but i think what was embarrassing is that we both didn't have no money

04:59:29.740 broke yeah no that was embarrassing most embarrassing date um i don't think i've ever

04:59:36.940 had an embarrassing day what about the date where the guy cried for like 12 hours

04:59:41.020 that was beautiful oh so sorry not 12 hours like like that you guys had like a deep 12 hour talk

04:59:48.400 a deep talk that involved crying sounds like a fun time to me okay i loved it

04:59:57.440 it was like a let's go out with the bang 12 hours mia except there was no bang i remember this one

05:00:07.280 randomly the other day um i thought i was talking to the same person i thought they just had two

05:00:12.960 different instagram accounts and then i realized while i was on the date with one of them that they're

05:00:17.300 twins and they look identical and they have the same almost name i thought it was just like a fix

05:00:23.960 on like the username only to find out they're the same almost identical and i only found out because

05:00:29.660 the other one texted me while i was out with the brother oh you sent this in the notes right i did

05:00:34.320 yeah i just remembered it recently i was like this is i don't know how i forgot this i feel like

05:00:39.040 you're gonna be a great abuela thank you in the future thank you like you have abuela vibes

05:00:46.880 abuela vibes thank you you give me abuela vibes thank you what a compliment is that i think it's a

05:00:52.660 compliment i think she gives more mom vibes than abuela vibes chill out madison bro she gotta be a mom

05:00:58.320 first to become that i know but i thought you meant mom in like a kind of sus way mommy way yeah like

05:01:04.540 a mommy way mother thank you there's milk mommy and mom i'm abuela let's see okay perfect going to start

05:01:13.340 here scatological underscore studies donated one hundred dollars brian would you rather sit through

05:01:21.260 the dnc convention or rock gallock's underwear as your new face mask excuse me i would go to the dnc

05:01:30.240 convention there's no way i'm putting that wait wait you're doing both for free huh he's wearing

05:01:39.320 the face mask to the convention that's right i'm wearing it to the convention this is an unanswerable

05:01:46.800 hypothetical it is it is it is unanswerable because yeah you can't pick which one you want you want

05:01:52.120 both it's very difficult very difficult all right thank you scatological studies was it star

05:01:59.140 how do you say your last name by the way abelar abelar okay oh you have a beavis and butthead tattoo

05:02:06.780 yeah is it it's like on your leg or something um no it's on my butt oh okay and it's a friendship

05:02:12.800 tattoo with my friend from kindergarten oh i thought that was cool but i hate it oh yeah okay

05:02:18.560 uh let's see oh did you wait do oh man all i have here in my notes that um maddie gave to

05:02:29.080 me apparently there's because she does just um there's one in the pubic area why were you

05:02:37.880 looking at that maddie she told me that in the notes yeah is there one you have one in the pubic

05:02:47.400 area i didn't tell anybody that you have a tattoo and you're not just what is it what's the design

05:02:52.580 oh um i just thought it was funny again i was i was 18 and i was stupid it's a cat

05:02:59.160 because it's pussy on pussy and i love cats and now at 26 i don't think it's funny okay but i still

05:03:08.920 love cats that's how i look in the mirror every day i'm like that's not as funny as i remember

05:03:12.760 forgetting it and matching tattoos are the worst i agree with that i have a matching tattoo so you

05:03:19.460 said last guy i dated well or i'll just repeat it really quick last guy i dated was a virgin and he

05:03:23.820 helped me feel god's presence while i was dealing with paranormal demonic activity he got me closer

05:03:31.160 to god but he didn't work out because he well we talked to he wants to marry a virgin the guy before

05:03:36.260 him was also christian but didn't get me as close to god he helped me make me tiktok famous

05:03:41.260 and we would make a viral couple videos together okay so you did you not have a tiktok before you

05:03:47.960 met that guy no how and how many following uh how many followers do you have on tiktok 11 million

05:03:54.620 daniel did he uh did did he have a following on tiktok before you met him uh yeah he had one million

05:04:02.300 what was the demonic activity yeah i wanted to ask like the lights accidentally got shut up

05:04:09.260 it was just like when i moved into the house i would stay up to like 3 a.m and everyone else

05:04:15.600 go to bed early and i would hear like people walking around or banging and i would ask people the next

05:04:21.080 day like was that you and they'd be like no and it happened again i'd be like was that any of you

05:04:26.080 they're like no and then some of them even heard it too and they thought it was me um and then the

05:04:31.200 guy was seeing like he saw we had paranormal activity at his house too miles donated 100

05:04:38.540 yeah thank you first time donating been a long time whatever fan thank you w brian w andrew and

05:04:45.800 rachel because of the mimicured feminist to the girl in first seat i've sent my hubs roses and beer

05:04:52.540 on valentine's day that's like the fucking most awesome thing that i've ever that's the best

05:04:58.240 super chat that has ever come in to the whatever podcast on valentine's day roses and beer to the

05:05:06.360 like what else could he ever want that's pretty epic brian that's why he's doing me that's why he's

05:05:13.960 the goat the goat i'd prefer the recreational cocaine the like every other week one yeah that's better

05:05:22.140 than the huh okay you oh the you prefer the super chat uh the the tts about the the coke the

05:05:31.740 recreational drug use that was your favorite super chat that came in yeah that's what she's saying

05:05:38.740 yeah that's like her favorite one of the funny ones no i meant instead of the beer i'd want never

05:05:42.600 oh no oh she's saying she'd prefer that boyfriend that one what's that new synthetic

05:05:51.400 which one cocaine pink cocaine oh yeah i saw some news story about that

05:05:57.640 or there's some girl went crazy yeah it's pink cocaine it's just like laced with like

05:06:03.320 every drug what was the story i read about that what the fudge some girl like took it and just

05:06:08.860 absolutely went bonkers wasn't it 2cb or something like that there's a bath there's so much but it was

05:06:14.840 like called something like that which is weird i watched a vice on it yeah i watched the vast

05:06:19.380 documentary and then i did some pink cocaine okay uh always so demonic demonic activity anything else

05:06:28.340 scoot can you scoot into the table just a little bit you can scoot the chair too maybe maddie can be a

05:06:32.920 gentleman and help you root okay go ahead oh okay yeah so it was just that and then we had some noises

05:06:41.540 at his house so i brought it there and then um i was very intuitive that week and i knew when things

05:06:48.660 were off so i called him like i was like is something the matter and in that moment his roommates freaked

05:06:55.680 out because that was like the moment they saw a dark figure at their house and they were talking about

05:07:01.700 the stuff going on at my house like what do you mean by dark figure like a shadow like a shadow person

05:07:11.960 it sounds like me in psychosis oh yeah i was gonna say like though what the fuck it wasn't their own

05:07:17.900 shadow wait so you did you saw it with your own eyes no they all saw it i felt that something was

05:07:23.180 off and i called when it happened and they freaked out do you have neighbors that could have been doing

05:07:29.580 the like the footsteps the no stepping no but um bad spirits huh yeah i mean this happened also to my

05:07:39.960 music manager and he's not even spiritual religious so things just happen i had to have a pastor like

05:07:47.960 kind of deliver me and things don't happen anymore wait that's what that's what i wanted to ask and

05:07:54.840 oh was andrew not here oh yes wait andrew she got an exorcism well it's not like that it's basically

05:08:02.360 just prayer and like i had to like face my own demons and deliver out like the spirit of jezebel and

05:08:08.520 like like like like the lustful spirit the wrathful spirit i've dealt with mental health a lot so

05:08:13.980 i didn't understand there was a spiritual side to it and nothing helps me more than like i went to

05:08:20.380 therapy i went to rehab nothing's really helped me more than like we have spiritually praying and

05:08:27.060 fasting it out and stuff like that so what was the process for the exorcism it wasn't like a crazy

05:08:35.460 process it was just praying and fasting so i just had to fast 12 hours for two days and um we would

05:08:42.460 just get on a phone call and then we would just pray no ghostbusters no it wasn't anything like crazy

05:08:49.180 just prayer and fasting it's not really an exorcism to be honest well i mean church church going church

05:08:58.480 going is is exorcism in a way right i mean i i fully believe the demonic is real i'm a very logical

05:09:06.080 person and i usually ground all of my arguments and everything else between logic and the scientific

05:09:12.280 method but i still think that the demonic is quite real and i'm glad that you're receiving some

05:09:18.500 assistance for any demonic oppression you have but may i recommend you check out an orthodox church

05:09:24.820 as the exorcisms there as part of your actual baptism are the real deal i mean i'm just saying

05:09:33.000 maybe i can feel too bad i mean yeah yeah i just don't like when people are like forcefully like

05:09:41.460 it's just kind of like well nobody nobody's trying to force you to do do anything i'm just engaging in

05:09:48.280 dialogue with you i mean i don't even understand why you're so upset anyway i like we barely said

05:09:54.560 three words to each other i don't even know what you're so mad about all the time what are you so

05:09:58.220 angry about i just think you're not very kind to be honest well hang on i'm very kind i'm not

05:10:04.720 particularly nice but the thing is is no they're not the same thing kindness is telling the truth

05:10:11.400 niceness is lying and that's why they're not the same thing because you said in order to be nice

05:10:17.800 that you wouldn't represent the faith properly and you wouldn't claim that lgbtq does not belong

05:10:22.620 christianity in order to be nice that is that is the opposite of kindness kindness is to tell the

05:10:28.760 truth on behalf of christ you know they don't belong in christ's church if they do it's in a

05:10:34.280 repentant way only leaving that pathway behind but if they're practicing and they claim that

05:10:41.260 practicing this uh and being christian at the same time are compatible you know that that's not true

05:10:48.300 but you're unwilling to say it in order to be nice and i believe that that is the opposite of kindness

05:10:53.140 so i think i'm a very kind man i think that that's the opposite of kindness what you're doing

05:10:57.720 to be to be honest with you

05:11:00.140 what did i miss what did i miss i don't like arguing kindness we're trying yeah he's teaching kindness

05:11:15.260 versus i go away i go away for like 10 seconds and y'all talking about like he made a suggestion

05:11:21.580 that she check out an orthodox church that's all okay um cool so did like your bad spirits go away

05:11:32.920 right away after your delivery i mean i'm still in the process of praying and fasting because

05:11:39.440 they're still there it's not that they're still there it's just certain like sin that i'm dealing

05:11:44.800 with that i'm trying to like not think so lustfully and stuff like that i feel you i feel you on that

05:11:52.540 it's hard out here to not be lusting make a mockery brian it the deep the demonic is real whether

05:12:01.940 you think so or not i'm telling you it's real no i was just she she said that she's trying not to lust

05:12:08.540 and i you know how it is you feel it you know how it is you know how it is um but uh andrew

05:12:16.340 do they do exorcisms in in uh orthodox christianity yeah it's not the same as as roman catholicism

05:12:24.680 where you have uh exorcists in this in this type of way so the orthodox church is a continuous lifelong

05:12:31.580 exorcism the idea is that sin itself is a sickness so even in your baptism you were exercised

05:12:38.520 this is uh this is what the point of exorcism is this is a lifelong process to um kind of rebut what

05:12:47.540 is called the legismi which is the idea of demonic influence which creeps into your thoughts and sin

05:12:54.380 which makes you more susceptible to it so the it's a it's a lifelong exorcism it's not it's not even a

05:13:00.800 one time and done it's every single time you're at liturgy you are exercised that's what taking the

05:13:06.080 eucharist the blood of christ is for amen yo andrew really quick totally not dating related

05:13:17.980 christopher hitchens said that he thinks the most compelling argument

05:13:26.820 for god is the fine-tuning argument yes this is the argument which is stating that if anything

05:13:36.280 is off by any degree anywhere in the universe the universe does not work and that it's almost a

05:13:43.460 mathematical well it is it's just a mathematical impossibility that could spontaneously happen

05:13:48.960 that is the fine-tuning argument there's actually uh it's called the god equation and this there's

05:13:57.320 actual mathematical proofs for this though i usually don't use them because they're very heady

05:14:02.080 and i don't actually understand them all myself and so i i feel like it would be disingenuous

05:14:06.980 argumentation to dive into something that i only have kind of a fleeting grasp of okay uh star last

05:14:15.040 notes from you here you said i think modern dating is cooked i feel like people should date to marry

05:14:19.600 but most people don't even i don't sometimes i feel like both guys and girls should wait till

05:14:24.960 marriage for sex even though i didn't but i regret it i feel if people valued having a soul connection

05:14:30.860 and genuine love before anything else there would be less fighting about gender roles and just two

05:14:37.240 people wanting love and care for each other oh i thought you wanted maybe elaborate or something but

05:14:44.080 it's okay i'm i can move it on a lot i mean like elaborate yeah i guess like um i i do think

05:14:52.020 modern dating sucks and like i feel like people should date to marry and sometimes i entertain guys

05:15:00.100 because i'm lonely and i know it's hard even though i'm not ready for a relationship but i don't

05:15:05.480 actually date um so i get it it's hard but i think like that should be the intention do you um

05:15:11.100 are your parents still together yeah okay they've been together for like 30 years good times good

05:15:17.880 time going around the table i'm just always curious about this uh just parents still together no yes

05:15:23.280 divorced no no

05:15:27.440 what about you oh yes yeah still together andrew what about you

05:15:35.840 my uh my parents is that what you asked yes i'm sorry still together my my parents are still

05:15:44.600 happily together nice wait really quick to you this just popped into my mind yes um do you want

05:15:51.780 to get married one day yes will you take your husband's last name sure yeah my last name is very

05:15:58.980 boring and generic so i'm open to taking okay like pretty much any other last name i feel like this

05:16:05.560 was a cop-out hang on i i do i feel like the the answer here is a cop-out so you don't like your last

05:16:13.140 name so that's why you're open to it changing i understand that part uh but if you did like your

05:16:19.040 last name would you then be open to changing it

05:16:21.840 yeah i really i don't think it matters that much to me okay what if you had a dope last name and it

05:16:31.060 was like it was uh shannon power

05:16:34.140 shannon silver i think my future husband and i would have to talk about which last name we think

05:16:43.880 is better and and then the guy you're dating who you love and adore his last name is

05:16:49.760 rumpelstiltskin

05:16:52.220 i don't think it really matters you take you're taking rumpelstiltskin if he had a preference

05:17:00.120 for his last name then i would take it i don't care either way i don't really like my last

05:17:06.360 just checking just checking there's a reason

05:17:10.400 chris underscore hitchens donated one hundred dollars

05:17:15.100 the universe's fine-tuned constants precise for life suggest intentional design over random chance

05:17:22.760 pointing to a higher power god as the ultimate cause designer and sustainer the only

05:17:30.400 my okay so my only concern with this argument is that if you use an argument which is relying on

05:17:38.940 complexity itself it is a fallacious argument so yes it's compelling yes it's hard to refute

05:17:46.040 but i'm not confident that it's actually a really good argument to make this is just my my take on

05:17:53.440 that damn imagine a christopher hitchens andrew wilson debate be one for the ages i would do it and i

05:18:04.520 think it would be fun to do he's he's dead andrew you know i would still do it from beyond if the

05:18:11.880 roman catholics can dig up a pope we can dig up christopher hitchens i see you want to debate him

05:18:17.680 from that i was just making a shot at the catholic i was making a shot at the cat anyway we're all good

05:18:22.180 going to back to shannon you said uh let's see marrying oh uh okay marrying a man who is not able

05:18:32.700 to financially provide it can cause you to live a very unhappy life it can cause sickness and early

05:18:38.680 death in women i have a question for you is there anything else that can cause sickness and early

05:18:45.700 death in women yes there's definitely more than just financial stressors that can cause that in women

05:18:56.060 anything else probably like smoking anything else yeah there's a lot of different things

05:19:03.080 anything else yeah like you're taking a shot at smokers there rude that's just it just caught my eye

05:19:10.540 that you were smoking hang on pink hair that wasn't very nice of her to take a shot at a smoker like

05:19:16.020 that was it i don't think you're what you're doing very nice to yourself you know it wasn't you know

05:19:22.400 i think it wasn't really respectful of his identity i think as a smoker he identifies as a smoker i think

05:19:29.900 you owe him an apology i am so sorry that you're a smoker and his pronouns are black i'm really sorry

05:19:35.560 that you work out in her really buff i am working out yeah i've got the video super buff i'm getting

05:19:43.160 there uh so i'm just so sickness and early death in women to marry men who's not able to financially

05:19:53.880 provide yeah it happens but like what about these isn't the life expectancy pretty high for people who

05:20:05.540 don't have a lot of wealth wait hold on i don't even know what i'm arguing here

05:20:10.820 i don't know like some some fucking you got these really old people in like these

05:20:15.560 villages i would say just like just to combat this like there's a higher or there's a greater

05:20:24.300 likelihood of people that are in love that nurture a relationship emotionally in addition to that of

05:20:30.120 the nurturing of finances would outlive those of financial comfort so if you're if you're debating

05:20:37.160 that somebody with financial comfort in a relationship like that a woman that's being

05:20:40.280 supported by a man that she is happier and so she's going to be healthy and she's not going to

05:20:44.480 endure whatever early death it's not one it's not guaranteed at all but two it's just somebody that's

05:20:50.480 actually supported and emotionally involved with somebody else in a real marriage in a real

05:20:53.400 matrimony or relationship long term they're most likely going to be healthier really quick i have to

05:20:58.760 interrupt this task star question star what are your thoughts on the like the geopolitical uh

05:21:04.320 conflict between like the the state of georgia the country of georgia and like russia like the border

05:21:10.240 conflict what

05:21:13.000 i wasn't really aware of yeah that like what's going on in georgia georgia

05:21:22.220 he's he's screwing with you and russia

05:21:27.140 what do you mean he's screwing with you i'm confused i have friends i'm sorry i'm confused

05:21:34.320 but they don't talk about it i live with russian girls and i'll talk about it so i'm confused

05:21:39.660 thank you next i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry star i'm sorry star

05:21:46.540 morgan put me up to it it was morgan's fault morgan whispered in my ear she's like brian make a joke

05:21:56.300 i don't get the joke

05:21:59.420 okay um

05:22:10.060 so uh also to add i think modern feminine this is from you

05:22:15.760 modern feminism has too much black and white thinking which in my opinion has aided in the

05:22:20.740 male loneliness loneliness epidemic do you think that we need like a little more like latino thinking

05:22:25.840 or like you know native american you're right like i do think it's really like first it was just white

05:22:33.300 and then they introduced like the intersectional black thinking but i think we need to broaden our

05:22:38.480 horizons with feminism and like get some like like half italian like half filipina yeah why not

05:22:48.300 do you speak tagalog by the way um a little bit not a lot did somebody just fart morgan

05:22:53.740 morgan what you smelt it you dealt it

05:23:01.000 brian you act like you've like never farted in your life no i have farted yeah i know

05:23:08.400 just now no not not just now okay i'm sorry um do you speak can you speak a little

05:23:15.740 if like a white guy step to you i kind of understand a little too are you

05:23:25.180 no but i have like family that is like half so

05:23:28.940 mia lay off the protein shakes okay please

05:23:33.680 are you okay i'm good what's going on sorry that caffeine's finally fucking kicking in i've been tired

05:23:41.280 i've been tired the whole show and now right before the end i'm tripping okay would it be hot

05:23:47.140 star if a guy stepped to you like a white dude the most white dude you've ever seen and he just starts

05:23:53.000 like fluently dropping like some tagalog my dad would you be like damn what's up yeah actually

05:24:01.080 well that's crazy because andrew's actually a fluent he's a polyglot he's fluent in tagalog go ahead andrew

05:24:07.720 my dad did that to my mom let's see i'm trying to figure out how to remember pig latin i can't even

05:24:19.840 i thought i could just bounce some pig latin off i thought it would be good but um yeah i'm drawing

05:24:27.040 a blank here brian shit okay yeah well he has to be like early 20s we forgot that part

05:24:36.480 cricket noises cougar oh yeah do you only prefer younger um recently i've been liking younger guys

05:24:48.700 or guys my age i don't know i used to like older guys nick's like 22

05:24:52.520 who's that you think nick is cute nick's a virgin too by the way

05:24:57.480 like funny what do you think can i set you up with nick this is so awkward do you think he's

05:25:08.500 i'm sorry do you think he's handsome i don't want to answer that that's just so weird look nick

05:25:15.920 asked me like he's he's a virgin and he like asked me for help so i'm just trying to help him out i feel

05:25:22.520 like really doubt he's a virgin he doesn't look like a virgin really oh that's not an insult

05:25:27.560 that's judgment that's not an insult boy donated one hundred dollars lindsey you better show up to

05:25:33.540 bouchon on w victoria westy at 8 p.m tomorrow or i will eat the meal i order you then order desert

05:25:40.200 and eat the two boom threatened boom threatened oh and he's skater boy i feel threatened he it's skater

05:25:47.580 boy too like avril levine yeah he's buff he's buff he's buff yeah he's buff leave him alone i'll be

05:25:54.460 there yeah you should go i'll meet you there slap into a slim jim what is that is that their catchphrase

05:26:02.600 are you what's up with those cookies bro whose cookies are those they're like cool right yeah

05:26:08.820 they're not like you think they're late they're good i don't know they're edible it's got the pink

05:26:16.140 cocaine in them for sure two cookies bro and i'm tripping that's not sugar-free good to me where did

05:26:22.900 you get those cookies madison trader joe's tarjay oh target okay okay i've never heard someone refer

05:26:32.100 to trader joe's uh let's see here what do we have to do uh what do we have to do we had a couple more

05:26:37.460 things would you rather be alone in the forest with a random man or random bear

05:26:48.020 i know most people say bear um i'm not sure i guess bear

05:27:03.380 a man

05:27:03.860 you chose bear last time i didn't make it to this last time oh

05:27:13.700 you're gonna die with a bear

05:27:14.420 like a guy with the bear oh i i think a gay guy huh like he got about that joke

05:27:24.980 no like no i'm like an actual animal yeah no a random guy maybe he's sweet maybe we're gonna fall

05:27:31.460 in love huh i said maybe me and the random guy i'll fall in love yeah of course story what do you pick

05:27:37.060 it's gotta be a bear gotta be into them into the mic so that it's gotta be the bear maddie m dog s dog

05:27:44.820 i don't know a bear you can like stand still and pretend you're not there but a man he might be

05:27:52.260 nice so maybe a man yeah isn't it if you stand still with the bear it'll more

05:27:58.660 it depends a polar bear you're done for i like animals so i'm just gonna assume it's a small little

05:28:03.540 bear a little cub animal girl other m dog man okay so wait bear bear i said man no i was pointing

05:28:13.940 oh okay okay yeah i don't know bear we don't have to go crazy we don't have to kill the bear then

05:28:25.380 carve his skin then wear his skin as a jacket you know what i'm saying like

05:28:29.380 then we'll survive that's like a free fur coat cook them up you eat them just why do you pick the bear

05:28:35.220 go crazy um i picked the bear because i've just seen a lot of posts online talking about

05:28:41.380 the horrors of potentially picking a man in the middle of the woods and i just feel like a bear

05:28:48.180 could potentially be safer

05:28:55.460 why do you pick bear nick we'll pull up that bear video we have

05:29:00.180 i chose a bear because i kind of know the ways i could die when it comes to a bear but i feel like

05:29:07.620 with a man like there's way more ways that i could die and have to avoid i feel like i would do better

05:29:15.380 with a bear yeah so you like see the online horrors too like the horror stories i've seen them yeah i

05:29:24.820 don't do that i don't do it sounds both that sounds horrible to me nick uh pull up the bear video but

05:29:31.700 like skip it to the point where you see the other bear walking if you know what i'm talking about the one in

05:29:36.580 the cars or the cars do you know what i'm talking about is it gory because i don't like that no

05:29:40.900 it's not gory yeah i don't do that oh yeah you can just play like a few seconds of it so

05:29:47.700 just play a few seconds okay bear walking you see the cars they're kind of moving slowly it's like

05:29:54.740 i don't know if it's it's a i don't know if that's a zoo or probably not a zoo but

05:29:59.220 now i have a question for you would you be more likely to exit the vehicle

05:30:08.100 in that situation or if you just saw like a random man in the the same position as that bear just a

05:30:14.900 random man just kind of crossing the road which scenario would you be more likely to exit your

05:30:20.900 your vehicle a bullet donated sixty nine dollars yes if seat one across from brian came across a

05:30:27.220 bear i think the bear would either run away or fall in love with her

05:30:31.780 fall in love winnie the okay winnie the

05:30:39.380 um your question was would i rather have a man or a bear at that place near the car so the video

05:30:45.700 yeah the video we just watched in which scenario would you be more likely to exit your vehicle

05:30:51.780 with that bear crossing right there or if it was just like put a man in position of that bear

05:30:59.220 i'm just like why would i be getting out though

05:31:02.580 just would you rather just like just i guess i guess a man why is that well like i could just

05:31:09.780 get back into my car and drive off i guess but with a bear i i don't know i feel like they're

05:31:16.500 more easily able to attack if they're like that close up

05:31:24.020 okay um that's interesting that's an interesting one but i thought the men were more dangerous

05:31:31.220 if i'm like alone in the woods without like a vehicle and i'm like on foot then i think that's

05:31:37.300 a bit scarier to come across like a random guy because in the woods they could have like a gun

05:31:41.860 or something but if you're like close up to them i feel like you can see what they've got going on

05:31:49.620 but a bear is like that close to you i feel like they could attack wait just really quick show of

05:31:53.700 hands who who said bear just show of hands did you say bear star bear star um i i was leaning towards

05:32:01.380 man but i think i think both are scary like i'm scared to be in an elevator with a man sometimes

05:32:07.860 would you be would you be more scared in an elevator with a man or a bear with a bear but i i understand

05:32:14.500 like it's scary i just i don't understand what's the chances like why pick the bear like what what if

05:32:22.340 you're like in like most men aren't just gonna attack you if you're in the woods with them a bear

05:32:27.300 doesn't know not to i just want a bear story see that's valid i want a bear story yeah but if you

05:32:34.420 if it's between the two of them like the chances of a man actually hurting you in the woods or whatever

05:32:40.580 that percent is a bear is gonna kill you like i don't know why men are just as scary as bears it

05:32:46.500 makes no sense to me now here's a question

05:32:49.380 uh would what what do you think the rate rate like the chance of you being attacked by a man is

05:33:02.900 in the middle of the woods or just like day to day so well so here the scenario is it's a totally

05:33:08.820 random man so like you spawn in the forest the man spawns in the forest or if you pick the bear the

05:33:14.740 bear spawns in the forest you guys cross paths what percentage of like because you're obviously doing a

05:33:19.060 risk assessment i think like here's my risk of this potentially happening if it's a man so what is

05:33:25.940 the actual risk assessment what if you put a number to it how many men do you think would be inclined in

05:33:31.060 this situation to uh attack you hurt say you victimize you in some way what percent of men um i would

05:33:44.980 say if we're doing like one out of ten probably like percent percent's better i'd say like probably

05:33:50.580 like twenty percent twenty percent of men what about you bear what do you think wait what is the

05:33:57.700 question chances a man will attack like a chance is a man will victimize you in some way what percentage

05:34:04.100 of men do you think compared to a bear or just a man in general man in general

05:34:10.980 a manager i would say a 50 percent that's wild

05:34:16.980 stop it get some help

05:34:20.500 mia what about you out in the wild with a random man 22

05:34:24.980 22 percent actually 18 22 percent 22 repeating like 0.22 repeating no just 18 to 22 percent of

05:34:34.580 course that range um

05:34:38.740 damn y'all crazy because it depends on like what you're quantifying as an attack

05:34:44.100 he just harms you and so like an actual

05:34:47.700 okay but like in general we do have a higher chance of being attacked by men like just an

05:34:52.820 everything well actually a bear well like it is scary all of them i'm scared as a girl i'm gonna

05:34:58.980 take self-defense i'd say there's less than 10 chance a guy will hurt you you carry a what pepper

05:35:04.980 spray oh i was like did we check bags today my dad agrees he thinks i should take self-defense

05:35:11.060 carry pepper spray and a pocket knife so he knows would you get a gun

05:35:14.020 uh oh cannot wait would you date it would you date a guy who owns a gun yeah i don't care okay all

05:35:22.100 right interesting very interesting yeah that's right and you should absolutely carry a gun with you

05:35:31.860 good idea

05:35:34.740 anyways i don't really want to we don't have to get into the bear conversation but we all know that you guys

05:35:39.860 guys are crazy y'all crazy

05:35:45.620 y'all crazy crazy mia's crazy you're crazy absolutely nothing like crazy

05:35:52.980 okay i'll just do my stack then uh let's see tts is 69 by the way if you guys want to get one in

05:35:59.140 pretty sure it should have been swamped so shannon going to you shannon okay

05:36:07.380 do you think it's wrong for a guy to not want to date

05:36:24.420 starting with morgan do you think it's wrong for a guy to not want to date hold on never mind i can't

05:36:30.500 do that say it say a very very buff woman a very what woman buff buff buff woman yeah buff

05:36:42.260 he

05:36:46.420 so he doesn't want to date a woman who's really buff

05:36:49.460 a real buff like muscles and fully yeah yeah big body yeah okay oh wait hold on i'm sorry i totally

05:36:59.140 have to change the topic do you think

05:37:05.620 what do you think about this first time ever a girl goes to a dude's house should she do his laundry

05:37:13.140 the first time first time ever going to his house should she do his laundry no

05:37:19.220 bruh okay what about you i don't know the scenario like am i did i get a stain on my shirt hey i'm

05:37:24.340 throwing in a load you want some laundry i'm not just gonna be like he's not you only get to focus

05:37:28.900 on his load your load doesn't matter that's the wrong load for the first day i want to take care of

05:37:35.300 the other road let's take care of the other load leave exactly behind you should always take care of

05:37:40.500 a man's love exactly exactly i want to take care of not not the laundry load though that's not what i'm

05:37:45.540 talking about i get get your mind get your mind out of the gutter get your mind out of the laundry

05:37:53.300 get your mind out of the freaking gutter get your mind out of the dirty laundry is what it is so

05:37:58.500 first time going over the guy's house i don't care if it's your first time second time third time

05:38:01.860 hanging out should you just do his laundry yeah that people do that for me like just do my laundry

05:38:09.300 yes what do you think wait wait people have just done that for you just yeah have men just have men

05:38:14.500 just done your laundry yeah like people like will come over i'll be cooking or something did you peg

05:38:20.020 them after what did you peg them after yeah exactly i took the strap on and everything it was it was good

05:38:25.460 i believe that they help with the load exactly load for load is what we call that honestly if a guy

05:38:31.860 goes over to a girl's house and does her laundry he kind of deserves he deserves a little strap he's

05:38:38.260 probably a feminist if you know what i mean he's definitely a feminist

05:38:50.980 uh what about you should first time going to a guy's house should you be down to do his laundry

05:38:55.780 yes and say yes sir yes sir okay good maddie what about you

05:39:01.860 uh if i really liked him yeah if i thought he was really cute i would do it well you're going

05:39:06.180 over to his house so i'm assuming you'd like him at least okay yeah i would do it yeah first time

05:39:09.940 going there yeah would you do his laundry um if i was like really liked him sure but it just depends

05:39:17.220 how it comes across like if he's like do my laundry i'd be like none no sweet guy i've ever talked to

05:39:22.820 what he's like okay here wouldn't even let me do it here's the scenario here's the scenario it works

05:39:28.820 every time you're like i'd love to i want to show you take you on a tour to my house you don't

05:39:34.900 actually take her on a tour to your house you go straight to the laundry room and you're like

05:39:39.700 here you're nice because you already like it's already been in the wash it just needs to be folded

05:39:45.140 i'm a gentleman i'm a nice guy you take her into the laundry room and you just kind of like

05:39:49.540 look at it and walk out that's honestly not the worst what about like a we both do it together type

05:39:59.380 of vibe let's let's knock this thing out oh no let's get to folding let's do it no you you just walk

05:40:08.580 in there no and then you look at her there and then you walk out of the laundry room

05:40:14.180 what does that mean you what do you mean i don't i don't oh babe i want to take you on a tour of my

05:40:21.300 house like boom boom boom but the first place you take her is the laundry room and then like

05:40:26.340 lo and behold there's it i'm a nice guy i already what put it in the wash it's been in the dryer it's

05:40:33.700 dry needs to be folded he walks out hello we'll do the bow we'll do the bow so oh my gosh you just

05:40:43.300 you just look at her you look here you do it like this you look at you look at her that's her you

05:40:51.060 guys are her

05:40:57.300 and then i see that's what you do that's kind of rude he should be like what do you mean that's

05:41:02.500 that's i'm so sorry that's like the gentleman i i i pre-washed i washed it it's already dry i don't

05:41:08.420 know i could have made you i could have been like here's the hamper full of dirty clothes

05:41:17.380 put it in the wash that's such a funny story though this guy had me over and i just folded

05:41:21.860 his laundry and he left me in the room that's like my go-to yeah what a good date it shows if he paid

05:41:28.660 for dinner that's wifey material like is that like the 50 50 like yeah she does the laundry you did half

05:41:34.900 the wash that's what i was thinking about that like i was gonna say like the dinner part but

05:41:40.900 honestly like you already did some of the work do i get a steal yeah i'm a gentleman you're done

05:41:45.220 i'm a gentleman do i get to steal a hoodie no yes out of the you gotta earn that you can't just

05:41:49.940 exactly you gotta earn it if i get to go through his clothes i get the hoodie y'all crazy

05:41:55.620 y'all are crazy wait so would you do it i forgot where we left off the laundry did we get everybody's

05:42:00.820 answer star who where maddie we did star laundry mia would you do the laundry absolutely morgan

05:42:10.420 no morgan bro haven't you learned anything you have to be like oh like i'm so sorry it's such

05:42:15.780 a mess i haven't i've been so busy like i haven't folded my laundry yet that's how i know i would do

05:42:20.020 it maybe you have to like i feel like i would seem desperate if a guy does that i'll get back to you on

05:42:25.780 it i also make girls water my trees i'd probably kill it do you water their trees though no they

05:42:34.900 don't have trees they're bushes what you don't water the bush

05:42:44.260 okay um water the tree where were we what were we

05:42:50.900 wait so you would do it you would do the laundry or no for a first date no i also honestly truth

05:43:01.380 be told like i do think like first time a girl goes to a guy's house she like probably should

05:43:10.260 do a full deep clean of the entire house and i'll have cleaning supplies ready for her

05:43:14.420 gloves i'm very considerate i'll have the cleaning supplies ready the gloves ready new gloves too

05:43:20.820 not like the used gloves they'll give you a rash new gloves you know fancy i i i give her the the

05:43:30.100 star treatment is that a joke have you actually like done that that's really weird energy like

05:43:39.220 i think people should just want to care and love for each other and no i really care and love when

05:43:43.700 they clean my house and do my laundry it sounds so on the first day 100 no it's not transaction it's

05:43:49.300 not it's not no it's not transactional it's not transactional they just do it and they get

05:43:53.860 nothing in return if you clean the sheets after sex what's wrong what it what's wrong with that no

05:43:58.820 i'm they just do it there's no transaction they just do it and i'm like moderately pleased you've

05:44:06.340 like actually had women come to your house on a first date yeah that's a red flag on my part or

05:44:14.820 theirs kind of both what about the yolo girl netflix and no chill netflix and no chill that doesn't sound

05:44:22.100 like a lady to me oh i didn't i didn't hit she had yolo on her vagina it wasn't really lady like

05:44:28.900 i mean you like entertain her he saw that tattoo and he said goodbye okay he said you only live

05:44:34.260 once i'm not doing this i'll just say a lot of these a lot of women are unassuming you don't know

05:44:40.020 look you said you did of you don't disclose to these guys that you did of right away sometimes

05:44:47.060 you don't know you don't know all the details about a girl in this case i

05:44:54.180 you know want to show you're a slob no i want to show i want to show that oh i almost want to frame

05:45:02.900 it the same way you framed it that i am uh i i am uh allowing her to be in her feminine traditional

05:45:17.140 i'm allowing her to be like wouldn't she want to do that like to you're talking about like a

05:45:22.500 hypothetical woman or do you actually have a woman no but it's her privilege to do it but has a woman

05:45:27.220 ever because you didn't you say has a woman ever done it all the time for you yes all the time and

05:45:33.780 where where did that get them i'll look i'll give you gentlemen latina women and asian women

05:45:40.340 i'm just gonna and there's some white ladies don't sleep don't sleep on the white women okay

05:45:45.380 sorry but you invited those women over to do your laundry are you always isn't that a really

05:45:51.380 romantic yeah always clean i'm ocd and like very always cleaning so it's really funny when things

05:45:56.420 are dirty you don't think i think it's really i think you get second dates with them yes all right

05:46:01.540 see the framing the kitchen the framing hold on the framing is completely wrong do they get second

05:46:07.940 dates with me like if they didn't do the toilet probably not do you make them rake the leaves like

05:46:13.860 clean your pool like oh yeah they get to mow the lawn too if the trees die they're gone goggles

05:46:18.900 though right they have to do everything they do everything i just feel like you should make enough

05:46:22.100 money with the podcast to like hire someone and not just like dates no for that but here's the

05:46:26.340 interesting thing free 99 i want a woman who even if i have the money to pay for everything and all

05:46:33.700 that stuff she still does it for free amen okay that's nurturing for you you are allowed to

05:46:41.700 want those two coffees she has to make me two coffees i only drink one i toss the other coffee

05:46:47.540 she does it a little wasteful but okay she does it because it's what you want and she's trying to

05:46:53.140 impress you

05:46:57.060 honestly i feel like a girl who really wants the guy will do it no questions i think i would do almost

05:47:04.660 everything you mentioned except for like mow the yard like i think all that i'm joking about

05:47:09.860 the that's like except mowing the yard but honestly but the cleaning and the laundry and yeah that's

05:47:14.740 all that that's that's the toilet needs to be scrubbed ladies i think i would marry not just

05:47:20.340 kidding i wouldn't do that not if the kitchen's not clean i would deeply like someone who did that

05:47:26.260 she would have you ever had shira seven on the podcast who's that you don't know who shira is

05:47:32.340 no what's what she sprinkle sprinkle lady

05:47:36.740 i have not had her oh my god i think that you two would really

05:47:40.260 debate well oh she would i don't think she would

05:47:47.300 i think honestly like the biggest thing i look for in a girl is like her

05:47:53.300 like would she replace a laundromat for me

05:47:57.860 that's a really interesting thing to be looking for i think it's a red flag if a guy doesn't have a

05:48:02.660 laundry room in his apartment slash house so it's kind of a flex in california it's a flex

05:48:09.300 i have me too like if you gotta go because i'm not going downstairs peasants yeah exactly

05:48:15.060 that don't have that go to a laundromat for real that shows and if i will do your laundry if you got

05:48:20.340 it in the unit i i had to like carry that like santa yes i'm not doing it like you know what and

05:48:27.700 since i'm a traditionalist i actually i'm actually thinking of getting rid of my laundry machine and

05:48:33.540 washing machine i want her to like washboard that shit and then put them on the uh the hanger things

05:48:39.860 outside she's got a wash yes clothes pins yes that's what i need right andrew

05:48:47.620 absolutely correct thank you only if they pay for the first day has my back

05:48:56.580 always has my back well here's the thing right he's right he's right in a way isn't he um again

05:49:03.140 if you're looking for a traditional relationship and you're going to test a man by asking him if

05:49:07.780 you'll pay for your meal because that's traditional then shouldn't you do as

05:49:11.140 fucking laundry because that's traditional the underscore yellow underscore tattoo donated 69

05:49:16.660 dollars you missed out brian i would have done your laundry and fold your thongs neatly and hit

05:49:22.740 the boat you woo you woo you woo uh thank you yellow tattoo appreciate it yeah i missed out

05:49:31.220 really missed out on you really don't know who shira seven is no oh my god i feel like that's who the

05:49:38.980 fuck is that guy like your biggest op yo yeah yeah all right she can come on you know her not

05:49:46.420 personally but i love her work is she folding his laundry oh absolutely not oh okay no she can't

05:49:53.620 come then sprinkle yeah your your followers are the drizzle drizzle boys yeah no and hers are the

05:49:59.380 sprinkle your drizzle drizzle drizzle she's sprinkle sprinkle that's cool that's cool look all i'm saying

05:50:07.700 is that i do think a woman should be able to come over and churn butter on the first day

05:50:16.100 if she doesn't know how to do that if she doesn't know how to churn butter she ain't the one

05:50:22.500 if she won't find someone who will she needs to find somebody who will knit my clothes make those

05:50:29.220 little dolls without the faces for the kids make me a freaking quilt bitch yes dead ass quilt me

05:50:36.260 bitch don't are you single this chick sounds like an ultra feminist um it would be great to have her

05:50:44.900 on the show tell you know that i'll uh i'll fly out i feel like shira probably has a very high uh

05:50:52.500 body count right no she's married with two kids so that does nothing to disprove i don't think you need

05:50:59.780 to pull up one video yeah all you need is pull up one sprinkle sprinkle just one sprinkle the only

05:51:06.580 place i sprinkle wait never mind oh is that bush get your mind on the spring no wait i'm still stuck

05:51:13.860 on water the trees i thought that was crazy and the flowers listen bro have you seen the karate kid

05:51:22.420 i'm fucking mr miyagi with these bitches bro you gotta come off fucking sand the floor wax on wax off

05:51:29.140 paint the fence with the toothbrush draw the drapes sorry jacket on jacket off are you in a relationship

05:51:36.980 are you single what are you talking about are you in a relationship are you single look man i'm just

05:51:45.540 saying every time i date a new girl my floors are my floors are sanded my fences are painted my cars

05:51:53.940 are waxed okay and my house is painted but you're like alone afterwards so she like wants to hang out

05:52:00.180 with you after no she's really invested now okay and it's sort of like cleaning the house or you

05:52:05.700 do i do my own cleaning oh so you this myself i don't i don't trust okay well i prefer a cleaning

05:52:16.340 assistant so oh my god you didn't answer that's why i have a wife but cleaning assistant i ask for a

05:52:24.820 lot but in return in the case in the case like she gets beat up by some like 80s bullies i will come and

05:52:32.900 defend her framework engineer donated 69 dollars no how is adderall trailer vineyard based wifey in

05:52:40.100 training and free willy so entitled glad adderall will have five to six kids and reproduce her

05:52:46.260 based values and free willy is skipping kids hash breed based kids what that's an awesome hashtag

05:52:55.620 breed based kids yo framework thank you thank you for the uh tts man good to see you in the chat

05:53:01.460 appreciate it brother what were we talking about well you were you were on the topic of uh discussing

05:53:10.740 how you in a very uh karate miyagi like way are going to be protecting your future ex-wife or

05:53:18.180 girlfriend from whatever threats might come her way in exchange for wax on wax off which seems totally

05:53:26.980 the bullies the 80s bullies yes and i will also train her in the art of karate krav maga

05:53:36.260 no karate but like you're are you single are you in a relationship we had we've had women on here

05:53:42.500 who know brazilian jiu-jitsu who can break men's legs not one leg four they can break all of their

05:53:48.660 legs all the legs and all three they're not using no krav maga okay they're using brazilian jiu-jitsu

05:53:55.140 bjj bjj what oh brazilian jiu-jitsu yes that's that's two jays two jays

05:54:07.220 also i also expect if a girl's coming over to my place for the first time

05:54:10.900 that she actually i'm she just brings like a steak already cooked

05:54:19.620 no almost cooked she just throws it on the pan i don't want her pre-making my stuff she got it from

05:54:25.140 the store it's cold and grows by the time like get it all seasoned and prepared just toss it on the

05:54:30.180 grill yeah cooks a nice and then it's good but you got to bring like the plate all set great that's

05:54:35.060 listen that's what i think i deserve because i are you single or are you in a relationship

05:54:43.860 i am not disclosing that because i have security concerns and stalkers so please respect my boundaries

05:54:55.940 hang on somebody said that you were dating desiré cray cray desiré doomsday yeah that's been a meme

05:55:05.380 that's been a meme in the chats brian do you wanna do you wanna address the allegations

05:55:10.820 okay finally i'll come out i will come out and say this

05:55:17.620 you cannot pay me enough money to have sexual intercourse with this woman

05:55:21.380 i we are not dating there's been no carnal knowledge i wish her the best prayers and wishes

05:55:30.820 wishes and prayers we pray over we will pray for her desiré maybe we'll have her back on the show

05:55:38.020 just she look she can come back on the show maybe there's been no carnal knowledge there's been no dating

05:55:44.980 well okay but there's a lot of speculation about this drama that you passed up the last show you

05:55:54.180 didn't talk about there brian a lot of speculation about that drama uh oh maybe towards the end of

05:56:03.860 the show i'll get into the drama but no uh to dispel any and all uh rumors and what what have you

05:56:10.500 no me and desiré are not dating the girl that left at the beginning of this show

05:56:18.740 no no snowflake i wouldn't date her either absolutely absolutely not honestly it's a no-go for sure

05:56:28.660 yeah like she wouldn't do your laundry i know that girl yeah the girl that just left or not just

05:56:34.260 left like at the beginning she couldn't hang with the the questions i would not i would not date her

05:56:40.500 she has a weak weak constitution giovanni jade he donated 69 dollars okay ask which of the women

05:56:47.700 are pro-choice poor favor giovanni jurist doctor thank you bro thank you for the tts who's uh show

05:56:54.420 of hands who's pro-choice what does that mean abortion right no no no catholic catholic girl you can't

05:57:02.260 be pro-choice we've already discussed you can't be pro-choice i know we've already discussed this i'm

05:57:07.300 catholic by my mom and i'm confirmed and everything but i don't necessarily practice all authentically i

05:57:12.820 still have my own personal beliefs i aligned to pro-choice and i think that in any case with pro-choice

05:57:17.940 i think that man and woman those that are involved the couple or not should also be able to make that

05:57:23.700 justified decision themselves both together not necessarily just the woman i think and i honor

05:57:28.420 women as well to also make that choice but i think it should be a joint decision

05:57:31.220 okay hang on i need you to stop real quick say say women and then say woman

05:57:39.940 the woman and the women okay okay women i'm california

05:57:44.820 i'm from california and i can say women answer this how many nudes has desiris sent you brixen

05:57:53.540 whatever your answer i guarantee it's more than anyone else has received

05:58:00.260 she bro she's been messaging me during the show i don't respond to her it's literally walls of text

05:58:07.060 i just don't i don't even read it at this point

05:58:15.460 okay all right well i gotta ask though how can you make the claim that you're a catholic

05:58:21.780 and be pro-choice don't wouldn't you have to either make one claim or the other you couldn't you

05:58:26.660 couldn't say both are true well we've spoken about this plenty of times um i was raised catholic by my

05:58:33.700 mom i was raised agnostic by my dad so i just have a different world view on my you have to pick a

05:58:41.140 you have to pick a lane here right i've picked to not align myself entirely with catholicism

05:58:46.900 as an adult i don't necessarily practice i don't attend church i don't attend mass

05:58:50.900 i very rarely go to church by any means unless there is a certain need do you do porn too i do not film

05:58:57.300 porn now i film i film solo content now but i do not film porn whoa wait you do you do OF2

05:59:04.900 wait you didn't know wait just her and andrew have talked before yeah yeah yeah i do have to move it on

05:59:11.460 from the i can't remember i look i can't remember every gal i've ever talked to on the show no that's

05:59:17.460 okay i don't now that's not a knock against you i just i talked to a lot of various people

05:59:24.020 not just on this show but on my own show um so it's not a knock against you but you can't make the

05:59:30.980 pro-catholic claim and be an OF abortion supporter you can't you can't do it no there's no there's no

05:59:37.460 it's just no no but no i'm not in yang and the whole interaction with everybody else as well

05:59:42.820 in realm of the catholicism and the christian beliefs and everything i only know so much

05:59:47.060 information because i attended catholic school from fourth grade till the end of high school so

05:59:51.780 that's why i had so much knowledge and that's why i was extending into the explanation of certain

05:59:55.700 things and then oh you mean yeah okay well that's fair if you're just critiquing their world

05:59:59.220 view yeah like i'm just so if you're just if you're just critiquing the world view because you

06:00:03.540 understand it yeah that's totally fine that's why i'm just saying so you're not actually making

06:00:07.620 the claim that you're catholic by no means no i just state that i was all right oh yeah that's

06:00:12.740 fair wait quick question for you uh you used to do only fans what kind of content were you

06:00:17.780 making on OF um i was making content of myself were you doing bg content uh yeah bbg um different

06:00:29.220 kinds but but very short lived two bees two bees one girl i don't think i did any of those scenes

06:00:39.220 but you did do content with guys like set stuff i have in the past did you do any traditional porn at all

06:00:47.780 uh no oh okay did you only have like one scene partner or um i mean i've like collaborated with

06:00:56.820 people uh when i was doing it but i i don't know exactly what you mean oh like men you shot scenes

06:01:04.980 with was there one two three like just curious how many different how many different scenes did you do

06:01:09.940 and with how many different scene partners um i leave that stuff in the past i don't really want

06:01:16.660 to talk about stuff like that yeah but i did i ran my OF for about a year and a half so not too long

06:01:25.380 okay um i'm just curious like if is yours because you stopped right yeah i deleted my account but like

06:01:34.420 do you have is your stuff still out there i don't think so i mean probably somewhere on the internet

06:01:39.540 but i'm not uh putting it out there question for the whole panel going around the table do you think

06:01:46.660 that i haven't we haven't done this one in a while uh do you think men should be willing to take a bullet

06:01:52.820 for his woman

06:01:53.700 if it's your wife then yes but a girlfriend i don't think so if you have kids

06:02:08.500 yes i would take a bullet for my friends friends yes

06:02:15.220 yeah like i mean is that deep oh i i see what you're saying okay yes

06:02:19.780 yes i don't have a strong opinion on it but i know my dad would for me and my mom so i'd like the

06:02:25.780 same okay yeah morgan yeah yeah can i uh can i start by asking for you who said if you have kids

06:02:36.980 why would that be the qualifier for taking the bullet um i don't think anyone's in i think that

06:02:43.460 it's equal like mentioned i don't i wouldn't take a bullet for a husband i don't think they need to do

06:02:47.620 it for me i mean if you could say both obviously but that's not the question if you have kids

06:02:53.540 like let's say she's pregnant or you have kids i think that it's important

06:03:00.740 i don't know i just to protect your kids i think that it's more important for the child

06:03:08.020 well let me give you an argument this one comes straight from a gentleman named ho math

06:03:12.260 very compelling argument that i want to map on to the bullet taking argument when it comes to kids

06:03:19.380 okay so this compelling argument goes like this women can only have as many children as they can

06:03:28.900 get impregnated by one man at a time right so they can only have as many as men can impregnate them

06:03:34.900 which is only going to be one man at a time who can't actually impregnate them you can sleep with

06:03:39.700 many men at a time but only one can impregnate them however a man can impregnate as many women

06:03:46.660 as he can make arrangements to sleep with so if that is the case if the protection of the kids is

06:03:53.940 the priority then shouldn't the woman self-sacrifice as she can only have so many kids whereas he can

06:03:59.460 continuously have more children no i mean if you even look at the titanic they've saved women and

06:04:05.780 children i think that it's the same thing yeah no but but but that was that whole chivalry thing

06:04:10.980 where there was an expectation because women were fulfilling their end of whatever this bizarre

06:04:15.380 social construct i agree with that i think that i i think that that's i i'm still on that i think that

06:04:23.620 a man should protect his men are protectors i think that a man should protect his

06:04:30.740 wife and kids to show like the strong i don't know i but if it's in the best interest of the

06:04:37.620 children the man is the provider inside of your logic then he's going to be the better provider

06:04:42.980 for the children and he can continuously make far more children than the woman can so shouldn't she

06:04:48.900 sacrifice herself for him no i think it's like i'm looking for the word i think the what was the word you

06:05:00.260 used before uh chivalry yeah i think that i think that a man should protect his wife why

06:05:12.580 i guess

06:05:12.980 i guess i don't have an explanation it just feels right okay fair enough like i you know maybe that's

06:05:22.260 not wrong uh i'm not like set on that i just i would hope whoever i marry would take a bullet for me

06:05:33.620 so i'm gonna go with that answer fair enough all right thank you

06:05:37.540 yeah so it's not necessarily because she's a mom but more because you just love that person

06:05:48.020 i think if you're deep in the relationship and you have kids that a mother because the kid's gonna

06:05:56.100 grow up being like my dad was a hero he saved my mom rather than like oh my dad like this might be

06:06:02.020 sexist but oh my my mom took a uh took a bullet for my dad like it just one of them sounds right to me

06:06:12.020 i think i think the woman should take the bullet i was just as a traditional man the woman should take

06:06:17.940 the bullet yeah i'm on the other i'm on the see i'm on the opposing side of that i would if it was my

06:06:23.940 parents i would rather be i would rather know my dad died protecting my mom and having my mom

06:06:31.940 raise me nothing against my dad i just like i wouldn't want to be like oh my mom took a bullet

06:06:36.420 for my dad i think i personally just like maybe it's because i'm romantic or like that's just the way

06:06:41.780 i see life is i would prefer it just be one and or the other would do that so if i'm in danger and

06:06:47.860 my husband is drawn to save my life and do so then may he jump for the bullet if i see them in danger

06:06:53.700 and i'm in love with him and that's what i'd hope to have that relationship dynamic then may i jump in

06:06:57.860 front of them not because my children of any format i think is just an honor of just because i love you

06:07:03.860 regardless of children or whatever it may be i like your answer i like your answer thank you well

06:07:09.220 spoken thank you mine the woman should definitely take the bullet and then there's that why do you

06:07:15.700 hate women i don't think it's wait wait wait hold on hold on sorry what's that what do you what do

06:07:20.100 you have against women so much because my dad would never say something like that and he's conservative

06:07:25.300 and he would never let my mom take a bullet because he loves us yeah i don't understand i'm sorry so

06:07:31.620 your mom doesn't love him she does but it's just the way why wouldn't she take the bullet she probably

06:07:36.900 would but i know he wouldn't let that happen yeah why would she let him let him that happen

06:07:41.700 why do you hate women so much oh why do you hate men so much i don't i'm just saying why do you have

06:07:48.100 sex with dogs wait what like why do you have sex with dogs what are you talking about oh why do you

06:07:56.260 have sexual intercourse with canines why why do you have carnal knowledge with golden yeah why do you

06:08:04.100 have sex with canines he means he's not sexist you don't have sex with dogs why do you allow a dog's

06:08:09.140 penis inside of you oh i'm sorry you don't like pre-loaded questions where you make the inference

06:08:13.780 of why so it's pre-loaded which assumes truth oh you don't like that maybe you shouldn't

06:08:19.220 fucking do it to other people then why are you so triggered by my question why are you so triggered

06:08:24.100 you're the one who said why do you hate women that sounds triggered you why do you have sex

06:08:28.740 with dogs towards women and so you have sex with dogs whoa i don't have an animosity towards men but

06:08:34.260 you guys have an animosity you have sex with dogs that's the question yeah i have an animosity tell

06:08:39.060 you we got an animo me and andrew have an animosity hold on let's be honest first off i was it your

06:08:44.500 mom or an ex-girlfriend what's the trauma i just want to know like psychologically you gotta watch

06:08:48.820 don't bring in the mother i'm just being like psychologically trying to understand where is

06:08:53.220 this coming from is well let's psychologically i'm happy to i love psychology it's my favorite

06:08:59.060 it's all bullshit but i still like it anyway just because it's interesting to study is it your so

06:09:04.260 let's uh let's move into it psychologically perhaps it's a freudian slip perhaps it's because

06:09:12.020 of my relationship with my mother's freud would say or perhaps it's a entirely different psychological

06:09:18.500 phenomenon altogether perhaps it's youngian and the fact is i haven't found myself yet perhaps

06:09:24.420 it's many of these things or perhaps you're just full of fucking shit and can't make a single argument

06:09:30.020 and so you defer to play do you hate women like a dumb trash feminist it could be it could be that

06:09:35.540 too have you perhaps thought that psychologically you could just be full of fucking dog shit have you

06:09:42.740 thought of that he's just pandering it's okay to who i don't see the audience that you want to rage

06:09:49.700 bait and what well you look like you're pandering to a kfc so anyway back to where i was at before i

06:09:55.140 was so rudely interrupted by mrs jowls over there can we get back to our conversation really good

06:10:01.620 the wrath is so slow to anger for sure it's the smoker thing he's got to have another pack

06:10:07.220 well you'll have another cheeseburger so anyway back to where i was at before i was so rudely

06:10:12.900 interrupted there's no possible way for you to insult me about my health habits you look like you're

06:10:18.340 i literally feel bad for the chair the chair looks like it's an agony hold on calm down

06:10:25.940 while we finish our discussion everybody be nice everybody be nice okay go why do we hate women

06:10:30.420 why do we why do you think we hate women i mean i used to have an animosity towards men when i was

06:10:35.540 dating someone who was treating me badly but then i stopped dating him and some a guy treated me right

06:10:40.660 and now like i just see like my dad is yeah he caused me some trauma but i forgive him and he's

06:10:46.100 actually a very loving man and i don't feel like this animosity anymore i i like wait what does that

06:10:51.380 have to do with the claims that you made i just see this like anger like that i used to have i don't

06:10:57.220 have it really anymore but i just see it in you guys and i'm like do you think what is what unfulfilled

06:11:02.020 trauma have you guys i'm happily i'm happily married with children what unfulfilled trauma

06:11:08.020 do you think my wife sees in me i don't what unfulfilled trauma do you think a happily married

06:11:14.500 man with many children including female children can you point to what you think this trauma is by

06:11:21.060 the way are you married no i'm not married maybe that's because of all of your unfulfilled trauma

06:11:26.500 you just couldn't can't get can't get a husband huh they just can't see past the unfulfilled trauma

06:11:32.740 i'm not ready for a husband i know that and god knows that wait do you think me and andrew

06:11:37.140 that doesn't strike a chord for me i'm really not ready hold on do you think that uh me and andrew

06:11:42.100 are misogynists a little bit yeah okay do you andrew's a misogynist uh i think he has an animosity

06:11:49.460 towards women yeah i think so do you think i'm a misogynist a little bit how do you define

06:11:54.500 misogyny just somebody who has like a a dislike or hatred towards so i don't know the exact

06:12:00.100 dictionary i don't want to say hatred but it's definitely a dislike and the and the like the

06:12:06.020 definition of hatred is a great dislike and it's actually one of the like sins of of living in the

06:12:12.100 flesh wait what if what if it's possible that i just i don't dislike women i just dislike stupid

06:12:20.100 people and it doesn't matter if they're men or women and you just happen to be a stupid person

06:12:25.140 and that's why i dislike you and also happen to be a woman at the same time so you happen to be

06:12:30.260 stupid and happen to be a woman but i don't hate you because you're a woman i dislike you because

06:12:34.980 you're stupid well could that be possible well why don't you ever talk about men you always talk

06:12:39.460 about you talk about how much you hate women every day with men non-stop when do you when do you

06:12:44.100 debate with anybody ever about any world view you can't even denounce the lgbtq in your own faith

06:12:50.660 how could you ever talk to me about anything i debate it professionally for a living against men

06:12:56.500 and women you go on uh a tick tock after you got with a guy who had a million tick tock followers so

06:13:03.380 you could piggyback on that to fame i would not bullshit me here sweetheart it ain't gonna work well

06:13:09.060 wait andrew check your check your text check your text on but um it's okay i'd be curious does he

06:13:15.940 his wife come on and talk yeah she has oh she has yeah she has would you like to debate with her

06:13:22.900 i'll bring her down right now let's do it oh yes let's do it if you want to bring her down

06:13:30.660 i'll go get her real quick i'll be right back

06:13:32.660 oh rachel oh my god let's get rachel wilson okay because if we're saying gonna get that we're

06:13:38.900 getting misogynistic vibes uh framework engineer donated 69 dollars

06:13:47.860 women should take the first bullet try not to die to enable the man to fight bullet free for

06:13:53.780 the kids sorry these came in if the man gets shot who fights the shooter logic logic yo engineer thank

06:14:00.820 you for the uh 69 tts hashtag watching mucho gusto thank you giovanni jd donated 69 dollars

06:14:09.300 thank you bro she rocks and burps that dolbert would just as quickly dismember it

06:14:14.100 keep it away from her brian oh shame oh my god no yo giovanni thank you for the uh tts man i really

06:14:24.180 appreciate it you can hide here too just temporarily uh yo giovanni appreciate it brother appreciate it

06:14:30.820 i really hope rachel comes has anybody seen alien romu wait oh my god alien

06:14:41.380 gmd jim donated 69 so the pro-choice catholic not only wants children gone she wants the husband to

06:14:49.940 take a bullet also wow wow stop calling yourself a catholic she stopped

06:14:55.620 she's back there she heard it uh jim she already did she stopped yeah she stopped she already

06:15:01.700 denounced her she unclaimed she denounced she was raised catholic and she was raised this way

06:15:09.460 she was born this way hillary epstein donated 69 dollars imagine not being able to see the viewpoint that

06:15:17.700 men get the terrible end of the deal in the dating perspective there is no hate but modern sex culture

06:15:23.540 isn't fair for men gotta see both sides thank you next thank you hillary epstein appreciate it

06:15:36.740 lol paladin's donated 69 dollars you don't look happy says the woman who looks happy on the

06:15:43.140 outside but is deeply troubled on the inside just keep smiling for the camera sweetie keep hiding who you

06:15:49.940 really are you sociopath so i'm not actually an empath so i'm short a what like i'm the opposite of

06:15:57.460 sociopath i feel an empath

06:16:05.220 is that like when you can read is andrew back

06:16:09.700 or is it rachel rachel guys rachel's coming

06:16:12.340 rachel's coming is she wearing her pink uh her pink sweater pink sweater it's a good i think it's

06:16:20.660 a good look for rachel the pink it's a good look so just curious though uh oh wait now i can hear them

06:16:30.340 rachel oh my goodness there she is wait you're i can't i'm not even in frame what the heck can we can we

06:16:37.860 raise her seat up can we get her booster seat look at that i have a marriage can we get rachel a booster

06:16:43.620 seat can we oh there's andrew with the cigarette she needs that we need it we need andrew we need

06:16:49.460 a rachel this way oh can we literally got dragged out of bed for this this better be good

06:16:56.900 i i hear my husband is a woman hating misogynist and i'm and i'm here to uh show proof of life he

06:17:03.940 unchained me from the stove just long enough to to be here so she's out of the dog cage how can i

06:17:11.140 help you ladies

06:17:14.740 who

06:17:17.860 so have you watched your husband talk to women on the podcast yeah i listen to every single podcast he does

06:17:25.780 i've also been on the podcast and i debate women all the time myself okay

06:17:31.220 in fact i was listening to you earlier describe how you think that men should pay for dates with

06:17:37.780 women who want to be equal don't want to give them children and also want to have their own careers and

06:17:44.740 that absolutely blew my mind you don't think that men should pay on the first date oh i think they

06:17:50.820 should pay on the first date for women who are going to be wives not for women like you i wouldn't

06:17:56.340 be a wife not if you're going to refuse to give a man children have to have your own career working

06:18:02.980 outside the home it's not refusing to give a man no you're a roommate why would a man pay for you if

06:18:08.340 you're just a roommate do you want to be equal or no well i have a conversation with my partner and

06:18:13.780 we've discussed having children i'm not taking away from them having children we've decided together

06:18:21.300 that having children is probably not the best idea if you're equal partners why should he pay for your

06:18:27.220 stuff because a man want a man at the beginning of the relationship should want to prove that they

06:18:34.900 are invested in the relationship so what are you proving like well there was a man i'd be like hell to

06:18:42.100 the no to the no no no if it's not equal i'd be like no thank you ma'am uh you can pay for your own

06:18:49.780 super seismic value meal and i will uh go find a woman who actually wants to be a wife if i'm going

06:18:55.300 to pay for you said you're makes no sense you said you're equal 50 is just being there so what is

06:19:00.900 does that mean he's doing 70 because he's paying in there too you're both there no but i think how

06:19:06.900 is that showing the investment women show investment with time because if you do want to have children

06:19:11.780 there's limited time but i think that um women they value different things like they value when a man

06:19:19.140 provides for them especially on a first date a first meeting and men men so you you providing

06:19:25.220 your glorious presence is what he's investing in if he values my presence yes i don't really

06:19:32.180 well i mean simps are gonna simp there's a simp out there you know for everyone so i don't think that's

06:19:37.940 that's the right way to go with simping that's the worst simping ever i'm gonna let you live at my

06:19:43.140 house for like practically free and split the chores and pay for all your that's simping that's

06:19:49.780 that's like a guy who genuinely likes you do you pay any bills with your husband no but i'm a stay at

06:19:56.900 home mom i raise the children i cook all the meals andrew has never done a house chore ever in 17 years

06:20:03.380 i do all of that i bring him his food i bring him his drinks i keep track of his schedule basically do

06:20:10.740 anything he he needs me to do to help him because that's my duty in the relationship so

06:20:17.060 yeah i mean if you want to talk about investment i'm pretty invested so he feels like you know if i

06:20:23.060 want this traditional wife role and i actually do all those things then he feels like it's worth it to

06:20:29.700 provide but if i were to come in here and be like well i want my own career and you have to do your own

06:20:33.860 laundry and we're gonna split the chores 50 50 and i want to be equal he'd be like okay

06:20:38.100 bitch then you can be equal and pay for all your shit you know like why would he pay for my stuff

06:20:43.060 this makes no sense you guys have to choose do you want to be strong independent equal women

06:20:48.420 or do you want chivalry and protection and provision you want the best of both you want

06:20:55.220 all of the rights and all of the privileges and you want none of the duties and none of the

06:20:59.380 responsibilities and that's bullshit it's like you didn't have a mom to tell you that this isn't how

06:21:04.180 the world works or something like my my daughters don't get that nonsense for me i'm like uh no

06:21:09.780 that's not how that works so if your daughter why are you so entitled that's what i want if your

06:21:15.300 daughters went on a first date you want them to split the bill what's that if your daughters went on

06:21:22.180 a first date would you want them to split the bill only if they're going to be feminists which

06:21:28.020 they're not because i didn't raise them to be that way okay that's how my parents relationship is

06:21:33.620 it's like my mom does the same stuff that you described and i think it's perfect like my mom

06:21:38.340 might not be contributing to rent my dad makes the money but she's contributing something else she's

06:21:42.980 doing a job that's just as equal as his job but she's not getting paid because it's she's being

06:21:50.020 she's doing the household duties that returning somebody she's doing the same thing whether or not it's

06:21:55.300 being paid like my parents are fortunate enough where my my parents are fortunate enough or my

06:22:00.820 dad makes enough money where she does enough to work and she's able to provide those things

06:22:05.700 therefore it's the same thing as money in my opinion like spending time and working around the house

06:22:11.220 yeah i mean it even goes beyond division of labor it's more than right about division of labor like

06:22:16.980 i have tremendous amount of respect for andrew he is the head of the household he's the person that

06:22:22.100 has the major burden of most of the responsibility we've had a home invasion he was the person who

06:22:27.940 had to go deal with that and risk his life you know he's worked 60 70 hour weeks for years so that

06:22:35.460 i could stay home and our kids didn't have to be raised by strangers in daycare i mean there's a

06:22:40.420 massive amount of responsibility on this man and he's extremely competent he is a really loving honorable

06:22:47.220 man who has like very firm boundaries and stands by them and takes very good care of his family so

06:22:53.540 he gets the big piece of chicken he gets the respect he gets the love and the admiration and

06:22:59.300 because i'm loyal and i'm doing all those things then he he provides for me and protects me and the

06:23:05.220 kids and yeah i mean this is how it works now if you don't want that and you want this egalitarian

06:23:10.660 stuff where we're we're equal partners he's my partner then you gotta pay for your own

06:23:16.180 shit and you gotta do your own work and you better like you know take care of all your own stuff and

06:23:21.460 don't expect the man to go answer the bump in the night because you're strong you're equal right if

06:23:27.060 you're equal you can go take care of that you can go deal with the man that breaks in in the middle

06:23:31.780 of the night you can change the tire in the rain uh if the basement floods and there's sewage backing

06:23:37.940 up into it i guess you can go deal with that right so you just have to choose don't do this

06:23:43.220 bullshit where you're like we're equal partners except for when there's anything dirty dangerous

06:23:48.340 difficult that's all his job i just sit here and and grace him with my glorious presence that's

06:23:55.460 entitlement that's narcissism it's terrible behavior it's ruining society and then on top of it you feel

06:24:02.340 no obligation to produce future generations you want him to just let his lineage die with you know

06:24:08.980 die with him and you feel super entitled to that too it's like i don't understand why you can't

06:24:14.900 get the concept that i've talked to my partner i'm not taking away his ability to have children we've

06:24:20.500 both agreed we don't want to have children if he doesn't want to have children i'm not taking that

06:24:25.860 away from him to be fair i did say he's a pathetic simp so i mean that's right in line with being a

06:24:31.140 pathetic simp you just i think you would just respect women's choices until i die it's just

06:24:37.860 you guys are selfish materialists is what i'm getting life is about me and my comfort and what

06:24:43.140 i want and and my you know uh just i live for me every day i wake up with no thought of the future

06:24:49.780 or any duties or responsibilities i have to anyone other than myself and and that's great so it's like

06:24:55.860 if you want to live that way i guess but i just i'm just looking at you and i'm listening to you

06:25:01.220 and i'm wondering where this entitlement and this sense of uh confidence is coming from because i'm

06:25:07.460 entitled because i don't want to have children and i like when men pay on first dates that's entitlement

06:25:13.780 what what are you useful for um i would say that women have intrinsic value just no you

06:25:21.060 what are you well i'm a woman so i have intrinsic value sad that you don't see that how because i'm

06:25:29.300 a person and everyone has val everyone has value it depends on who's looking at you do men have

06:25:34.420 intrinsic value yeah they do but i said that it's different it's a different type of value but feminism is

06:25:41.060 about equality so if it's different then how is that equal no they can they can be equal in the

06:25:47.940 sense of they can both work you can be a stay-at-home mom and not pursue a career that's fine but women

06:25:54.180 should have the opportunity and the choice so do you think women should work too women should be allowed

06:25:59.780 to work no i mean like in your relationship if you're not raising kids should you both in your

06:26:03.860 marriage let's say you get married have a job both of you yeah but i think that a woman's job could be a

06:26:10.420 little less harsh i guess like women shouldn't have to go work some nine to five and and uh do this

06:26:19.460 climbing of a corporate ladder but like for myself i found a job that allows me to stay home

06:26:25.700 and is not super strenuous and i think that a lot of women should be able to have the option

06:26:31.300 to either stay at home or work what would you do lol paladins donated 69 w to rachel elta fat

06:26:42.180 for prostitute feminists who have no value and tiktok he who also hate men and provide no value to

06:26:48.580 society the problem is they had mothers but their mothers are bad people my mother's amazing and i love

06:26:55.300 her very much b i'm just it's wild to me because you asked do i hear how my husband talks to women

06:27:01.700 i actually donated 69 dollars don't forget there's two first chair did of as well thank you jim

06:27:08.260 including bg and said she couldn't remember if she ever did b slash b slash g pretty sure anyone that's

06:27:15.220 got gang banged and posted it would remember i have not gotten gang banged and bbg is not the

06:27:22.420 same thing as a gang bang but okay have you done not two guys gmd jim donated 69

06:27:30.180 you called him your partner partners split expenses two more he is not your husband

06:27:36.020 he could just hire a cleaner and a prostitute with a nice body you are just too ungrateful leech

06:27:44.100 i don't think he would agree with that but okay

06:27:46.420 there's another one coming in random bear random underscore bear donated 69

06:27:55.220 rachel be like i got out of bed for this and look this good i will bring the heat

06:28:02.340 we must look terrible i look terrible but thank you it's fine it's fine you're shaking your head

06:28:07.700 a star that's not very judgment also love your rachel looks very dapper rachel looks very dapper

06:28:16.820 i literally just like put on face cream and was like tucking myself into bed and andrew comes upstairs so

06:28:23.860 rachel is titus 245 what's that uh that's the titus the titus two wife um it's like a description of

06:28:32.500 like what an honorable woman is and how she acts and operates in the world so thank you that's a

06:28:37.860 lovely compliment i certainly have my flaws it's not like i'm over here being a perfect wife or

06:28:42.500 anything but the the point is i try and i care about you know ryan's lint roller donated 69

06:28:50.100 rachel is out of the kitchen but she's still thugging cooking

06:28:56.820 okay uh now since rachel also came down she wanted to address i guess your criticism

06:29:02.420 um uh you said andrew he has animosity towards women and that he hates women

06:29:10.500 and so does she captain donated 69 dollars i definitely take a bullet for the girl in the

06:29:16.900 white crop top this girl is based and hot the world needs more of that she'd be a great woman for any man

06:29:24.820 um or girl i want to address the the gal with the pink hair real quick because i did hear her say that

06:29:32.980 um it is not hatred to criticize women it is in no way hateful to notice when women are acting like

06:29:42.820 entitled narcissists and to call them out on that like i said all the women at this table could tell

06:29:49.140 me all night long about what they think they deserve and what their rights are and what they should have

06:29:55.380 and what they ought be able to do but none of you can tell me what duties responsibilities or obligations

06:30:01.620 you have outside of yourself to society to the people around you you would say things like i'm smart

06:30:07.940 and i'm funny and i'm just a really great person and i'm a good friend and you know all these worthless

06:30:13.940 platitudes but there's no like sacrifice you don't ever feel you need to sacrifice anything for

06:30:20.020 anyone outside yourself you're not willing to have sleepless nights so that you can raise babies and

06:30:25.060 produce human beings that are going to go out into the world and and have a legacy and have an effect

06:30:31.060 right you're not really willing to do much of anything unless it benefits you and then if someone

06:30:35.940 questions if andrew comes on here and says let me poke around and see why you think these things let me see if

06:30:42.340 there's any logic behind your beliefs let me see if you even understand why you believe the things

06:30:47.300 you believe you think that's hateful you think that's misogynistic you think he's mean no it's just

06:30:54.340 that you're used to be being treated like a child princess and being carried around on a cushy little pillow

06:30:59.940 in life with absolutely no opposition with nobody ever going hey wait what are you doing what are

06:31:07.220 what are you providing in life what are you doing for anyone else outside yourself you you haven't

06:31:12.420 ever been challenged on anything because you're a pretty girl right i'm young and i'm cute why are

06:31:17.620 you questioning me why are you so hateful where's all the trauma no i'm just a 44 year old woman who's

06:31:23.380 actually lived raised five children worked really hard in my life for everything i have i take care of you

06:31:30.180 know other family members a help at my church i do things that aren't just for me so when i see

06:31:37.060 girls that behave this way and have this mentality you're damn right i'm gonna come on here and say

06:31:41.300 some shit especially if i get dragged out of bed to defend you know this little girl that's saying my

06:31:47.460 husband must be traumatized and hates women it's just garbage you're full of shit you have no idea what

06:31:52.580 you're talking about these are the orthodox church you guys seem lovely i would love to go to the

06:31:57.860 orthodox church i think you're upset okay coming from someone who i know personally i'm not a 10 i

06:32:06.500 am very self-aware in that regard i think that there might be animosity coming from you because

06:32:12.260 you're maybe not as good looking oh i'm definitely not i've been on the show i've rated myself but i grew

06:32:19.860 up in an era where we didn't all think we were models when you were growing up in the 80s and 90s

06:32:25.460 everyone didn't think they were a 10 like all of us girls who were not going to have modeling careers

06:32:31.220 or be the hot cheerleader we all knew that and we were fine with it and we didn't think we deserve

06:32:36.900 six foot six pack six figure man you know we were just like happy to meet a nice boy

06:32:42.100 who liked us back this was before you're calling those boys narcissistic insanity huh you're calling

06:32:49.220 those boys simps no i'm calling your boy a simp he's a simp that's simply a nice boy who likes you

06:32:56.900 isn't the same thing as some absolute goober who's gonna pay for all your crap he's not

06:33:02.580 not expecting anything i'm just saying at the beginning of the relationship on the first couple

06:33:07.380 dates a man should take the investment and pay for the first couple dates she's not paying for

06:33:13.620 everything she said that his family's paying for some yeah and i think it's only fair that i pay a

06:33:18.980 portion of rent for a girlfriend you're not even married like why would his family pay for your

06:33:25.300 stuff you're not they're not this guy they're not there's something they all they all own a home

06:33:31.620 and i help with she pays the water bill she pays some of the mortgage i pay some of the mortgage

06:33:38.260 my question is it's not even fitting to the dynamic that you're expressing so much interest in

06:33:44.260 you're expressing so much interest in not only the first dates but that you also want to be

06:33:47.860 supported by this person and i don't think that means not paying any bills or doing any sort of

06:33:53.780 housework or like helping in the relationship like i don't think that it's entitled i just think that

06:33:59.540 it's a better dynamic long term for a man who has the financial stability to be with them

06:34:05.380 rather than a man who doesn't have any sort of future plan to provide for you

06:34:10.980 do you think the woman needs a future plan though i think that women should and this might be

06:34:16.180 controversial to is she gone she's here she's still here okay i think it might be controversial

06:34:21.220 but i think women um even if they're not working a traditional nine to five should have some sort of

06:34:28.740 money saved up separate from their husbands in case there's domestic violence or there's divorce or

06:34:34.340 things like that like you should have some of your own income you need a keepsake of like if there's

06:34:39.380 domestic violence i think like you're contributing yeah like you should feel safe in your relationship

06:34:45.700 and like pick something if you want a job just that's equal or you can do the equal housework or

06:34:52.020 and have kids like there's an equality thing that's different feminists believe that there's equality but

06:34:57.860 you're talking about things not being equal i think it is equal like i'm gonna jump off here because

06:35:04.500 andrew's gonna come back and i do i am actually gonna go to bed but is anybody does anybody have

06:35:10.260 any like final questions or phones to pick i think star back there had like a thing she wanted to

06:35:16.020 come back and say i'm just curious if anyone on the sorry what

06:35:20.900 i really don't have anything to say i'm just curious if anyone else on the show has brought

06:35:26.580 up like internalized misogyny to you uh yeah i get it every day of my life so you don't know my

06:35:32.340 background but i'm an uh i wrote a book about the history of feminism and how almost everything that

06:35:37.300 the normal person thinks about it is actually wrong the way that the feminist liberation movements

06:35:42.740 unfolded is garbage that was rewritten history by women's studies departments um and i debate feminists

06:35:49.700 all the time so this is normal for me of course i've heard absolute garbage

06:35:53.860 bullshit like internalized misogyny it's not a thing it doesn't exist it's pure coke okay

06:35:58.740 um i love women but i do think that women have proper roles and i think that the biggest problem

06:36:06.340 the problem with you and most of the other girls that have a problem with me is that you don't

06:36:10.900 understand that this modern world and all this beautiful technology around you that you're sitting in

06:36:15.780 right now if it weren't for men building that and maintaining that you would have no illusion of

06:36:21.620 being able to be a strong independent woman and have all these choices and do what why do men do all of

06:36:27.700 that they do it because they're benevolent and they are good isn't that crazy they're actually really

06:36:34.340 nice and they care about us even though they don't have but they're getting something out of men were as

06:36:40.020 bad and misogynistic as you think they would put us in cages and we'd be you know baby farms there

06:36:45.540 would be baby farms i think you might be a little bit of a baby farm because they could no they could

06:36:50.740 you're a bit of a baby farm haven't you popped out five children yeah i'm a baby farm oh i think that's

06:36:58.500 the ultimate form of sex work actually what's that i think that i think that you popping out five

06:37:04.980 children is the ultimate form of sex work because without those children what would your husband

06:37:09.700 provide for you language wait a minute wait a minute why are you using degrading language popping

06:37:14.820 out babies uh popping out babies this is so you're against if you didn't people having babies if you

06:37:21.620 didn't provide children would your husband marry you no exactly why should he exactly so you're a baby

06:37:28.180 farm to him a bit marrying someone is also about starting a family yeah a family these are my

06:37:34.340 baby farm you should be so lucky because you're gonna die alone okay early thank you so much on top

06:37:42.020 of that so thank you so much i mean if you would you like me to go wake up my children and get them

06:37:46.980 down here too so you can tell them that they're like no little i don't think it's appropriate that

06:37:51.860 i think it's really appropriate them out that they're the result of baby from i mean take your

06:37:56.020 little snarky little insults and shove them up your ass because do you think your parents did

06:38:01.140 that it's women like me my parents only had one child my parents are useless you are a useless

06:38:08.100 heifer who has never done anything except you're a great woman you're a very godly woman aren't you

06:38:14.900 be nice ah you started it hey you can dish it out but you can't i started it didn't you come on

06:38:20.020 you're talking about mcflurries or something you called me a baby farm and now you're going to

06:38:24.740 pretend to be offended get the fuck i said you're the ultimate sex worker actually

06:38:29.620 uh okay yeah me being devoted to one man for 17 years and giving him you're the ultimate

06:38:36.900 you're the ultimate so your parents are also part of a baby farm because you were born

06:38:41.060 my mom had one child and she also worked so but i know that my parents would have gotten married

06:38:47.460 without having to have children if i milk a cow the cow's still providing milk though even if i only

06:38:54.180 milk him once so you're going oh my we don't believe that marriage is only for the purpose

06:39:00.340 of children had we gotten married and for some reason biologically i couldn't i had a medical

06:39:04.820 issue and could not give andrew children he would not have divorced me and he would not have left me

06:39:08.820 that's not what we believe in we believe that marriage is also a sacrament of our church you don't

06:39:13.700 get divorced for a reason like that however why would a man marry a woman who's giving him

06:39:19.460 nothing like you are you you don't bring so you just don't value the man except you don't value

06:39:25.380 women for just being us like you just don't i value people but that's different than what a man would

06:39:32.900 want to get married for why do you not understand these basic distinctions a man could want to get

06:39:37.860 married without wanting to have children but that's not what your husband did with you honey

06:39:41.460 no man does that except for a simp or some guy who's just men some men just don't want to have

06:39:48.180 children doesn't want a family sweetie sweetie honey yeah i love these feminists always sweetie honey

06:39:55.780 they get so sassy but this is going to be you're very sassy yeah well listen i was dragged out of bed

06:40:03.700 because you're sitting here insulting my husband and saying uh oh your wife must be some victim or there

06:40:10.820 must be trauma maybe your wife is bad you're saying all kinds of personal garbage and then when i come

06:40:16.260 on here and tell you what's what you're like how dare she she's so mean she's not a good christian

06:40:22.180 it's like well then don't say this stupid shit lady don't come on here and talk a bunch of smack and

06:40:27.380 then when i come down here and set you straight you're like i'm shocked and offended you definitely

06:40:32.580 didn't set anyone straight oh well the chat disagrees with you and it's okay great not straight

06:40:40.820 what what do you have this i think the thing where they say you're just pandering i think it shows i

06:40:46.740 think it shows the type of woman you are the fact that you got out of bed and came down here

06:40:52.340 to not only defend your husband but to defend women at the right instinct that they should be in so

06:41:00.580 i hell the main reason i do the stuff i do is because i was really shamed for not going down

06:41:06.980 a career path i had a full college scholarship that i declined because i wanted to be a mom instead and

06:41:13.460 everyone around me thought it was some massive tragedy that i was going down the wrong path i was

06:41:18.420 going to regret not being a career babe uh everybody said oh it's such a shame you're just a mom and turns

06:41:25.780 out there's nothing i could have done with my life that's more meaningful than having five children

06:41:31.460 raising them well and you know being a good mom there's nothing i could do in the career world

06:41:36.740 that's going to last the way that that will have a lasting impact in this world and i was shamed for

06:41:42.100 it and i was made to feel like oh i was losing somehow in life so yeah i don't want other women to

06:41:47.220 feel that way i want to stick up for women who do want to be good wives who do want to be good mothers

06:41:52.660 who think that that's a worthwhile thing to do with their lives and not have them be subject to

06:41:58.020 being called baby factories by disrespectful chunky heifers with attitude problems who can't

06:42:04.740 even properly articulate a single thought in their head so with that i'm gonna go to bed and you guys

06:42:10.580 can talk to the nice wilson instead maybe you'll feel better now when he comes back continue pandering

06:42:16.260 rachel uh shoot good night rachel i was gonna let the i'll let the tts's come through uh

06:42:24.580 i had to pause them temporarily just so we could allow rachel to have the back and forth

06:42:28.660 so a couple tts's are gonna go through we're gonna try to wrap up here pretty soon uh practicing

06:42:34.580 gentlemen donated 69 dollars to all the women how often do you receive an honest opinion about anything

06:42:42.500 from an adult straight male that is neither related to you nor wants any kind of romantic

06:42:48.180 carnal relationship with you how often do you receive an honest opinion from an adult straight

06:42:55.460 male that is neither related to you nor mike davis donated 69 dollars just tuning in wait this blue whale

06:43:04.180 only dates one million dollars plus earners to cover the food bill when her fatter gets in the car

06:43:10.500 the tire sensors pop on bro oh my gosh warlord 69 you donated 69 dollars baby farm you are the

06:43:20.980 ultimate farm when you're eating for more than two ppa do better bro you guys only fuel the weight loss

06:43:28.660 like do you not realize i've already lost can you guys start fat shaming me boys i need to lose some

06:43:33.620 weight yeah i got a dad bod getting on him get on me guys fucking roast me giovanni this is the

06:43:40.500 roast session it's the roast session thank you giovanni growing a family with your loving husband is a baby

06:43:45.620 farm farming produces commodities people with children don't see them as commodities exposed

06:43:52.660 yourself and your view on children i'm just saying by the way you were totally

06:43:58.100 anti-natalist i just want to point that out totally anti-natalist anti-natalist anti like

06:44:04.100 people who need help babies getting pregnant you called my wife a breeder and said that she was a

06:44:08.740 sex worker because she had my children i mean that's kind of what it comes down to to a certain

06:44:13.860 point like you would not marry and provide for her if she could not have your children you should

06:44:17.860 probably i don't think you understand the distinction in faith they talked about that

06:44:21.940 within the within the confines of our faith it's not even committed he would not divorce her if she

06:44:26.340 couldn't have children but the beginning stages of their relationship were that they decided they

06:44:31.300 were going to have children if she said she didn't want to he would not have married her and provided

06:44:35.460 for her if there was how do you how do you even know that we talked to her no we talked to her

06:44:40.660 you're just kind of making these broad assumptions but the thing is is that she she asked this fantastic

06:44:45.700 question so what why what would be the problem with a man having a preference of a woman who

06:44:51.380 promises him children so his lineage can live on how would that make her a prostitute that's

06:44:56.900 insanity that's not what i'm calling a prostitute i'm saying that it's the ultimate form of sex work

06:45:02.900 then that would be the ultimate form of prostitution what they're not the same thing

06:45:08.180 she had to have sex with you in order to make the children to say that one dating

06:45:14.660 is too generous for coming it's anti-life men the martial they provide and women are their

06:45:20.260 dignity in exchange death for men humiliation for women whatever it's anti-life men the material

06:45:30.100 marshal they provide are their death thank you gmd jim donated 69 dollars holy shite did the beluga

06:45:40.020 say that rachel is not attractive rachel is the most attractive woman currently on this show

06:45:45.940 hey chrisco hey chrisco you will never be worth one percent of rachel wilson i was saying i didn't

06:45:52.820 say that she was unattractive i said there might be animosity towards star because star is more

06:45:58.340 attractive war seepoo donated 69 dollars god she's awesome right what you what you're doing is you're

06:46:06.900 making this kind of argument which says the only reason rachel thinks is because she's jealous of

06:46:11.780 acts it's a non-argument right i can say the same thing the only reason you make an anti-natalist

06:46:16.580 argument is because you're jealous you don't have children i wouldn't make such an argument because

06:46:20.500 it's absurd it's an absurd argument it's not the thing is that she has internalized misogyny

06:46:26.500 because a more attractive woman is trying to say that you are basically all you're saying is that

06:46:33.140 all that you're saying here with your argument is it's not absurd if it were true that's not an

06:46:38.260 argument that's not demonstrating it's true it's just asserting that it's true demonstrate rachel

06:46:43.860 wilson is jealous of fucking any of you go ahead i'll wait i'm sure deep down she might be okay are

06:46:51.860 you gonna demonstrate it or are you just gonna assert it excuse me sorry guys it might be just an

06:46:58.100 internal thing that uh happens when someone has internalized misogyny no logic no nothing you just

06:47:04.020 made it up because you have no argument okay andrew you're the one who said that every woman sitting

06:47:09.300 here is making judgments in their head about who's more attractive so your wife doesn't do that

06:47:16.260 no i didn't say that she wouldn't make a judgment as to who's more attractive or less attractive but

06:47:20.420 that wouldn't make her jealous or not yes it would yes it would wait i'm sorry are you saying that i could

06:47:28.340 claim that another man is better looking than me and that would mean i was jealous of him or a woman

06:47:32.980 could claim another woman is better looking than her and you're jealous of them does that even make

06:47:36.980 fucking sense to you yes it could cause some animosity no no stop inserting the word could

06:47:43.300 that's very sneaky with the language anything could do anything does it entail if you understand a

06:47:50.180 person next to you is more attractive than you that that means you're jealous of them does it

06:47:54.420 actually mean that or not i think your wife might be jealous of my question answer the question don't

06:48:01.460 divert again answer the question i think your wife could potentially be jealous could potentially

06:48:07.700 i think no demonstration no evidence just wild assertions that you have no argument hold on

06:48:17.700 really quick um we'll get right back to it uh nick you gotta leave soon right so why don't we

06:48:25.220 before you leave let's pull up twitch discord and debate university

06:48:31.860 so guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow and a prime sub if

06:48:40.100 you've been enjoying the stream if you're watching on youtube open up another tab twitch.tv slash whatever

06:48:44.900 drops a follow if you're watching uh if you have a prime sub available maybe you guys can check

06:48:49.540 uh it would mean the world to me if you guys do have a prime sub available it's been one hour since

06:48:53.780 our last prime you know what that means it could be bugged drop those prime subs on twitch or whatever

06:48:58.660 i mean we have to yeah those are the rules are you guys watching on the crucible those of you who are

06:49:03.540 watching on the crucible just drop us a follow if you guys liked seeing rachel just come in there

06:49:09.620 all randomly we need to see you spamming the follow button just to follow don't worry if you want to

06:49:14.900 join if you got a prime if you got a prime you can drop one uh virtual self think for the prime

06:49:19.780 scatterman thing for the prime shobs thing for the tier one uh tube 1980 thing for the prime guys

06:49:25.700 drop us a follow over there on twitch you can probably move us over uh yeah oh yeah it's uh

06:49:32.340 debate university.com oh uh i'll do discord after i guess uh yeah debate university.com if you want to

06:49:40.660 learn how to become a master debater like andrew wilson you want to learn how to debate like andrew wilson

06:49:46.660 you got to go to debate university.com get his course verbal combat over 80 plus hours or sorry

06:49:54.260 sorry not 80 plus excuse me 80 plus videos there's about six hours of uh content guys listen it's that

06:50:01.380 time of year uh thanksgiving and christmas is around the corner so if you want to dominate your liberal

06:50:06.980 family members at dinner uh go to debate university.com you got to get the course debate university.com it

06:50:13.620 really is a fantastic course but as you can see in the difference in erratic thinking versus logical

06:50:19.860 thinking in reasonable thinking versus just random assertions in people who actually know how to

06:50:26.020 structure thoughts in a correct way without making completely fallacious and erratic and stupid

06:50:30.740 arguments that would be the place to go yes university hold on wait wait verbal combat and verbal abuse

06:50:37.940 oh boy okay hold on let me just say let me let me just get through the discord really quick go

06:50:45.220 go to your fake phony preacher and tell him the ortho the mean ortho bros told us that we're

06:50:50.100 fucking stupid and can't make arguments for our positions go cry to him and tell him that you don't

06:50:55.220 feel the spirit of christ go tell him that go tell him i hope you and then have this female

06:51:00.420 preacher come out pat you on the head if i lose 100 pounds will you stop smoking oh my gosh absolutely

06:51:08.500 not okay wait so okay really quick since nick's got to go um guys we had a literally shaking quit it's

06:51:16.180 the first in the whatever history i will be posting the bts security camera footage to our discord it's

06:51:25.940 discord if you can put us just on the other side discord.gg slash whatever i will post it probably

06:51:32.180 tomorrow discord.gg slash whatever you sign up through patreon patreon.com slash whatever uh

06:51:37.700 guys guys discord.gg slash whatever we'll post in the bts behind the scenes section over there on

06:51:46.180 discord.gg slash whatever if you want to see the first ever literally shaking quit and if you want to

06:51:53.140 learn again verbal abuse go to verbal combat go you can pick up verbal combat from debate

06:52:00.020 university you can learn all of the verbal abuse which is actually just logical argumentation which

06:52:04.980 offends people because they have no positions and uh they don't even know how to articulate what

06:52:09.140 they're saying makes no sense and they spew verbal diarrhea make sure you get all the verbal

06:52:13.940 abuse over there i would certainly appreciate i feel like you are demons speaking through you you

06:52:19.300 verbally abused me oh demons are speaking i feel verbally abused you can't even you can't even

06:52:25.700 a certain sect of that and say that they don't belong to christianity but i'm the one who has

06:52:30.580 demons speaking through me why don't you go uh parade your rainbow flag through your church next

06:52:36.740 lol paladins donated 69 dollars welcome back pinky you're safe again now that rachel is gone

06:52:43.940 you can fake being happy again feminist whore is just a brainwashed death cultists who believes that

06:52:49.780 humans should go extinct see this is how like rachel's pandering she's just pandering there's a few more

06:52:56.340 coming in she completely obliterated your entire world view in 15 seconds it wasn't even different

06:53:02.340 catholics but donated 69 dollars she's pandering to a male audience

06:53:06.660 misogyny is lunacy and buzzwords maybe educate yourself fully with actual research instead of bs

06:53:12.980 from comic cult worships thank god feminists seem to not want kids dying ideology

06:53:21.940 uh trad catholic thank you for the uh tts man really appreciate it thank you brother thank you

06:53:27.620 brother uh we got a few more that are coming through uh guys we're just going to do the roast section

06:53:32.180 the roast session and then we'll wrap up the show here pretty soon tts has been lowered so if you

06:53:40.260 want to get it in if you want to wait what the hell happened here hold on andrew you remember me

06:53:47.700 question mark i do remember you yeah thank you all right cool because you look a lot like my black ex-wife

06:53:55.620 you know what we'll bring her on and and we'll see what she's been in the chat most of the night

06:54:01.140 she's uh she's sending a ton of gifted subs i guess i must have left an impression on my black

06:54:06.500 ex-wife okay well make sure you leave an impression on brian because he he dis including

06:54:12.020 my people wait what what he he he he do to be the big the big libya that blm but he won't do

06:54:20.260 he won't do a black girlfriend how about that right i would do the black girl

06:54:25.060 i would do the black girl you said a boy donated 69

06:54:29.460 wow that time and where tomorrow boom tested

06:54:35.940 what lindsey memory check what time and where oh and brian you're not uh you're not going for the

06:54:40.580 sisters he was a skater boy i said see you later i did black i've i've dated a uh a black woman one

06:54:48.020 this looks like some coke brian i dated black you're african-american i'm african-american i

06:54:52.980 date african americans yeah oh wait did i she she no he told me he didn't he said it earlier he was

06:55:03.140 like when you were talking about all your little girlfriends you'd be cleaning up your house

06:55:07.220 giovanni jd donated 69 dollars pink andrew only emphasized the lgbt issue because you were commanded

06:55:15.140 by christ to defend his law to be christian is to expect persecution and hatred stand strong do not

06:55:22.980 cover evil peter that's not that's not niceness or i mean it is niceness it's not kindness kindness

06:55:31.220 kindness is termiotops for donated 30 dollars w rachel andrew you have a heck of a wife god bless you

06:55:38.740 both pink princess needs some life lessons and christ crop top second chair well-based stay sober

06:55:45.540 and awesome cheers to brian madison and morgan hey thank you man appreciate it guys 30 tts we'll do

06:55:51.700 it for a bit and then we'll uh we'll wrap the show here church underscore of underscore thiantology

06:55:57.300 donated 30 dollars one being the lead singer of ob slash cd is now the least of your unattractive

06:56:04.340 qualities chair two avril latrine three female michelle obama four strawberry should take five

06:56:12.340 too generic to insult brian stay dumpy stay dumpy stay dumpy so if you guys want to get your uh 30 30

06:56:24.340 tts in everything should have been swapped over uh body count are you pointing at me yeah

06:56:34.340 24 how many men how many women mostly women like what's the breakdown give us the breakdown six

06:56:43.700 men and i regret part of my body count i got kicked out of treatment at 14 because i hosted a sex party

06:56:53.860 i got kicked out because they were all in darya donated 30 dollars w andrew w brixton w rachel

06:57:01.540 good show tonight are we up for watching the bow video also we'll do it to the panel would you bow

06:57:08.660 for your man show of hands would you bow for wait actually we'll show the video first um wait hold on

06:57:13.860 really quick you had a sex party yeah i got kicked out how old brian i'm sorry i have an appointment in

06:57:20.740 the morning i have to get to oh okay about a little bit early tonight 3 a.m here uh thank you guys thank

06:57:26.820 you to the entire panel just so you know i hold no ill will and i never hold grudges never have

06:57:32.180 i consider these to be spirited uh back and forth when we do have them but i hold no grudges to any

06:57:37.060 of you and it was very nice to meet all of you uh with exception to nobody i really appreciate it you

06:57:42.900 guys have a great night hey uh andrew thank you for joining us man appreciate it wait can i say

06:57:47.460 something before you leave sure okay i watched some of your debates and with men as well and i

06:57:54.180 think that you hold your ground very well with both aspects of genders when you debate i don't treat

06:58:01.220 anybody any differently it doesn't matter if they're men or women i'm just going to uh hold the ground

06:58:06.900 not only from my world view but from my political perspective as well i treat everybody the same uh it's

06:58:13.700 it's just that men seem to take it far less personal than women because women are pampered

06:58:17.780 princesses who like to have their asses kissed so anyway i appreciate it very much you guys have a

06:58:23.860 wonderful no hey thank you thank you thank you andrew we'll pray for you i'm sure your wife would

06:58:29.700 like to be pampered like a princess uh so austin in the sources tab over there to hide this you're gonna

06:58:36.660 you see the sources tab no sources tab yeah no turn off it's it's okay hold on hold on just just listen

06:58:47.220 to my voice okay so there's oh yes yeah so scroll down a little bit there yeah hide the discord one

06:58:54.900 perfect and then on center zoom here i'm gonna have you hide the discord there too and then also we're

06:59:01.460 gonna change split let me see yeah hide the discord one on split and we'll keep it there okay cool cool

06:59:08.820 cool uh so oh hold on let me see oh i gotta let them come through okay we're gonna have some come

06:59:16.580 through guys got some tts is coming through guys like the video please please like the video uh if you

06:59:25.620 you enjoyed the stream like the video well paladins donated 30 dollars or something feminists didn't

06:59:31.380 create the anti-baby belief they only parrot what they were taught as young children sesame street

06:59:37.700 globalist millionaires who want an empty world for their own children to control

06:59:43.860 right-wing king donated 29.99 brian has a fat tum-tum and andrew has big tatatas pinky has no brain

06:59:53.940 sorry whale kfc is closed tonight after rachel cooked all the chicken brian do 30 push-ups a day okay

07:00:02.420 i gotta lose weight brian's twitch prime bug donated 30 dollars oops sorry it's my fault there's a bunch

07:00:09.700 of cobwebs in here and a laughing spider the likes of which sounds like carmala harris also it looks like

07:00:16.660 gustavo is here and tied up

07:00:18.580 r.i.p you guys are so funny word um oh body count oh hillary epstein donated 30 dollars

07:00:32.180 w maddie not in simp way w stream w discord w w w w w

07:00:39.060 thanks hillary epstein discord.gg slash whatever i'm going to post the literally shaking bts

07:00:46.100 security camera footage tomorrow probably like the video 30 tts get it in last call last call guys

07:00:54.020 uh rate really quick before you get up uh so wait you said body count 24 right yeah how many guys how

07:01:00.740 many girls six guys i believe i got the list on notes but bro you had a blank party at 14.

07:01:08.580 it was framework engineer donated 30 dollars adderall levine isn't going to make dinner tomorrow

07:01:15.380 sorry she's going to be busy ruining her mascara and getting a sore throat if she knows what's good

07:01:21.220 for her otherwise it's back in the cage oh what thank you engineer appreciate it he's threatening you

07:01:29.780 basically okay cool uh going around the table with you body count um i plead the fifth do you want to

07:01:39.860 give us a range no do you think the passion matter um i think it matters to a certain partner i've

07:01:48.020 definitely had partners who i had a higher body count then and it made them feel insecure um so i just

07:01:55.620 unless unless my partner is asking me to bring it up then i think out of courtesy i probably wouldn't

07:02:03.540 bring it up on my own sure and wait did you uh do you think body count matters though i genuinely i don't

07:02:11.220 think so body count um i don't want to say i can't be the only one yeah don't leave your girl hanging

07:02:28.180 no but like the thing is i don't want to have to like put it together because i have been with girls

07:02:35.060 before so it's like probably a bigger list than i what's the guy list what's the girl list single

07:02:41.620 digit double digit or two give the range somewhere with under 20 under 10 i mean well somewhere like

07:02:50.260 mixed and it's just i don't know you can give me like maybe a couple minutes and i'm going around the

07:03:00.100 the table don't want to answer no yeah 11 11 great fuck me morgan one who no okay

07:03:13.780 all right did you get us idiot donated 30 dollars in dating men's only value is external things they

07:03:20.500 bring in exchange women give their dignity for those external things yes this is reflected in the men and

07:03:26.820 women on the podcast no to baby farmer donated 30 dollars w chair one you held your own you know

07:03:37.140 what if you're down to come back maybe we'll have you and rachel do a 1v1 debate i don't know if i want

07:03:42.180 to see her in person she's harmless mike maffia donated 30 dollars i see a lot of great qualities in

07:03:49.300 the women on this panel compared to most i have seen well except the cookie monster bro please don't

07:03:55.940 talk to talk about me that way i'm very sensitive about my weight okay i don't appreciate happy

07:04:00.660 donated 30 dollars i don't appreciate that brian please remove the phrase it's not clear to me i do

07:04:06.100 say that from your vocabulary i do say that it sounds so unsure and lame a f be more assertive should it

07:04:12.740 be like it's clear to me waffledon donated 30 dollars hey brian have you heard of patrice o'neill's

07:04:20.980 30 point system for rating looks he talks about it in black philip show i think it's much better

07:04:28.100 he calls uma thurman a 10 a beautiful ugly woman lol i actually saw that yesterday he donated 30

07:04:36.740 l panel first chair was awful true religion was decent ww sex isn't real so bc is six black shirt

07:04:46.180 made the one true church look bad that's evil pink loves christ so better pink hat greater than maddie

07:04:54.260 love you russ fox donated 30 dollars hey bree chat show i've got some show ideas hit my dm

07:05:02.420 question slash challenge for the whole panel claim accountability for a mistake you've made

07:05:07.700 and learned from in a relationship which has made you grow claim accountability are they asking if

07:05:14.900 we've ever claim accountability for a mistake you've made and learned from in a relationship

07:05:18.820 was made you grow yes so what is it a mistake that has made you grow have you made madison uh probably

07:05:28.820 like leading someone on like knowing i wasn't i guess the only mistake i've ever made is never having

07:05:35.380 made the mistake no being perfect you can't learn from those you know like it's it's not fun for

07:05:41.300 the girl if you're just too perfect and amazing you're so real for that it's it's not fun for her

07:05:49.220 i mean that's true but i was just too perfect and amazing i think i shouldn't trust so easily

07:05:57.060 because i genuinely believe that people would feel like oh the bowel video oh uh

07:06:04.980 i don't know austin you think you can figure it out or not yes

07:06:12.660 be careful yeah okay hold on let me hide that i'll hide this okay go ahead and uh hit the play yeah

07:06:22.900 uh oh no we don't need no volume just boom huge huge bow huge bow huge bow anyways uh started from

07:06:34.260 the beginning we'll just see the bow again if you can just like drag the little thing part two he's

07:06:38.900 got it he's got it there we go boom huge uh so going around the table would you bow for your man

07:06:45.940 i've seen you guys talk about this on the podcast before yeah if it was something in our culture or

07:06:54.020 something that my uh boyfriend or future husband would really want me to do then i would do it

07:07:03.860 i don't really feel like it's okay i've seen people have strong opinions on this i don't get it

07:07:07.700 yeah what about what about you would you hit the bow for your every morning every night after i tuck

07:07:12.420 him into bed and read him a bedtime story that's beautiful based beautiful every morning would you

07:07:18.260 hit a bow i'm only bowing for a man if i'm doing one thing like what there's only one thing i bow for

07:07:27.780 what she means sucking dick yeah

07:07:34.020 it doesn't add to the body

07:07:35.060 stop it wait no wait because i actually go to a buddhist university and i have to deal with

07:07:42.340 bowing to people all the time so i only bow to people when i feel like they'll understand that

07:07:47.700 i'm trying to show them respect so if i'm doing that with a man everyone at the buddhist church no no no

07:07:54.740 no no no if i'm doing something with a man i'm like i'm like okay well i actually like to do that

07:08:01.620 so i might just do that but that's the only time i'll bow i only get on my knees for god never

07:08:08.500 would you bow for a man we would just bow to god okay yeah i would bow morgan oh

07:08:15.140 is that that no oh no okay i thought oh that's lawyer david tozekiak donated 30 dollars thank you

07:08:22.340 david serious respect to all the people who debated on the panel what is the shaking quits was busy

07:08:28.660 watching dnc earlier make brian pay for deleter in and out for you all brian please go back to wait

07:08:36.020 what how are you trying to say brian good in and out but brian will get there so wait austin what

07:08:42.260 what was she saying to you because she basically said that she like just got her blood drawn before

07:08:47.540 she came and was like shaking because of it and then also she just couldn't take the whole

07:08:53.620 did did she donate blood or did she just get a blood draw for she didn't specify i don't know

07:09:00.820 i highly doubt she donated blood to be fair i am like i'm shaky right now my blood sugar is low which

07:09:08.260 is why i ate a sandwich and like but i didn't leave uh gmd jim donated 30 dollars

07:09:14.580 w's in the chat for star she ate a sandwich and didn't leave low blood sugar find a man to give

07:09:19.060 you half a dozen brian your dumpy doesn't need work pinky you really do need a legit exorcism

07:09:28.180 max k donated thirty dollars bricks and try the carnivore diet you'll lose weight eat delicious

07:09:35.300 steaks and trigger more feminist live tarts um oh you know what date offer donated thirty dollars

07:09:44.900 i'll answer the car lindsay would coordinating a fake kidnapping that brought you to a red carpet

07:09:49.860 five-star restaurant be the threatening request you need yes 100 only the red carpet five-star michelin

07:09:58.900 yo uh max k i actually did the carnivore diet for 30 days it was really hard i lost a decent amount

07:10:07.540 of weight but the problem was it was so difficult to adhere to it maybe i needed like i mean 30 days

07:10:13.860 was pretty solid commitment it was just uh all i had was salt meat eggs butter uh water that's it i was

07:10:24.100 gonna try coffee i was gonna try i'm on a different diet though i shouldn't have led with

07:10:29.620 salt i should have it should have been steak eggs salt salt water no pepper no veggies no cart none of

07:10:41.460 that it was hard weight from that yeah i lost like i lost like 10 pounds but then like i was so i gained

07:10:49.460 it all back within like a month you have to adjust to it because you're but it's like ketosis that's

07:10:54.580 what i was on it for 30 days that shit was hard man i'll do it again eventually giovanni jade you

07:10:59.700 donated 30 dollars it's brian you promised explanation of the after show drama from last

07:11:05.380 episode i'm sorry don't honeydick me i'm sorry i'm sorry giovanni uh i i'll have to maybe do it next

07:11:13.540 show i gotta do next show because it's already late all right guys last call if you want to get a

07:11:18.180 a little tts in in the chat uh just remember boys big labia matter like the video 29 30 30 30

07:11:27.860 dollar tts uh let's see gg uh well played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your

07:11:34.500 way out thank you for tuning in tonight to commit anyone in the world but you were here with me i

07:11:38.020 really appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show your uh

07:11:43.460 generosity is uh greatly appreciated um couldn't do the show without you guys so thank you so much

07:11:49.620 everybody who uh sent in a chat really appreciate it we will be live again sunday we might be doing

07:11:57.460 maybe we'll have to see maybe something friday saturday gotta see but we will certainly be live

07:12:02.820 again sunday with our dating talk 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show dm out whatever

07:12:07.140 on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara um let me just see i'll do twitch try to get twitch

07:12:13.620 raid going for somebody let's see one sec boys one sec uh any final thoughts before i wrap up the show

07:12:20.980 speak now forever hold your peace i do want to say something one of the tts it said something about

07:12:28.740 being able to recommend your mistake whatever something yes i have a mistake when it comes to

07:12:35.940 dating is i always try to make sure that people see me as trustworthy instead of me making sure that

07:12:44.020 they are trustworthy so i really wanted to say that but yeah amen lord of donated 40 the big one the

07:12:53.380 coat hanger survivor that big one is demonic and it hates andrew and rachel because they speak a truth

07:12:59.140 that cannot be known by it i've never had a coat hanger ripped rich and rare donated 30

07:13:07.540 fat boy andrew should be the last one talking shit about someone's weight he has bigger tits than

07:13:13.220 all the girls on panels combined fat boy jiggled them big old titties jiggly m big tits he's he's gone

07:13:22.180 he's gone thank you for the uh the tts there bro um appreciate it thank you thank you who are we

07:13:30.260 rating on twitch we'll do uh uh while i'm figuring that out who's the primary victim of war men or women

07:13:40.340 everyone involved in war it's pretty awful but if you have to pick one

07:13:44.980 um i would say men physically die more in war so i'd say men what about you men

07:13:55.060 men men men babies and baby animals men into the into the mic babies and baby animals all right guys

07:14:06.020 uh guys i just want to do a quick shout out um get ariana grande's new album thank you next thank you

07:14:16.740 next we should honestly or god is a woman god is a woman that is the one uh we should have really

07:14:23.140 leaned in every time star talked we should have just as soon as she finished thank you next yeah

07:14:29.540 every single time every single time to be extra extra who i don't know if anybody's uh i don't know

07:14:36.980 this guy's playing wukong i don't know if i want to raid i guess i'll just do i whoa grandma we can't

07:14:42.180 even pull it up there's uh peshero but uh i'll just fucking throw it to whoa grandma uh okay let's see

07:14:49.460 hold on let me see if there's any more did i pause it let me check guys um one sec boys just want to make

07:14:58.740 sure everything's good uh oh call to action who does anyone here do of oh yeah okay uh final call

07:15:08.660 to action uh are you willing to uh stop being a strumpet no i i said i wouldn't accept the job offer

07:15:15.380 but i appreciate it okay i tried thank you i tried i'm doing more things though that's good that's

07:15:22.740 big things out here i am she does big things big things pop in small straight stop it she's

07:15:29.140 gardening the bush oh god watering the bush all right i think that's it for all the chats guys uh

07:15:38.260 let's see let me just uh okay i is that everything are we forgetting anything i feel like we're forgetting

07:15:44.820 something i'm i'm i think we're set blm wait did i raid her oh wait let me just do the raid okay

07:15:53.540 those of you who watch on twitch thank you guys for watching on twitch i can't pull it we're not

07:15:56.740 going to pull it up but will grandma's rating on twitch i'm going to send you over there doing a

07:16:00.820 raid hope you guys be nice to her she's uh 82 she plays world of warcraft be nice um thank you for

07:16:06.020 watching on twitch i'm going to send that in 10 seconds but oh before you leave twitch.tv slash whatever

07:16:10.820 drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you guys have one and what else i want to play a sound i've

07:16:18.580 never played i haven't played in a while oh god i used to do drugs i still do but i used to too

07:16:26.180 all right w wait wait used a what you want me to play it again it's mitch headberg i used to do drugs

07:16:32.500 i still do but i used to too boom boom boom boom thank you next all right guys like the video on

07:16:42.580 your way out please oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat i hope you guys have a really good night

07:16:49.140 we'll be back with the dating talk on sunday good night guys

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Whatever Podcast - August 21, 2024

Plus Size Model ONLY Dates Men Who Make $1,000,000+？! Andrew Wilson! Rachel Wilson CRASHES SHOW？! ｜ Dating Talk #189

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