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Rachel Wilson vs. Feminists! She Is A 10! Better Looking In 20 Years? LDS Dating? | Dating Talk #164


Summary

In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we have our first guest on the show, Anaya! Anaya is a singer/songwriter from Santa Barbara, CA, and she joins us to talk about how she got into music, how she met Nick, and how she and Anaya fell in love with each other.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating
00:00:18.960 hellscape i'm your host brian atlas thanks for tuning in tonight you could in anywhere in the
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00:02:22.860 the description we posted the bts of the girl who who uh attacked nick amaranth sub don't there's no
00:02:29.800 way that's the actual amaranth um yeah the the bts for the the girl who uh attacked nick she like
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00:02:50.120 the guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the whatever channel and uh my apologies that we're
00:02:57.920 running a little bit late here as you guys know we normally aim to go live at 5 p.m we had
00:03:03.160 uh a bunch of flakes maddie and nick were in the mean streets of isla vista
00:03:07.900 santa barbara just trying to uh which which camera are you looking at maddie
00:03:13.960 that one you like no you gotta look dead center yeah don't look at the top one that one's not on
00:03:22.100 you gotta look dead center oh irs is now a member okay hold on that's a little alarming
00:03:28.440 uh oh shit i'm gonna get audited thank you man appreciate it uh eva thank you man uh so yeah we
00:03:37.820 had like uh nine flicks total today six of which within 24 hours and then like three that flicked
00:03:43.500 like an hour before the show so my apologies once again for us being late but without further ado with
00:03:48.700 that said we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location
00:03:53.620 and occupation go ahead um i'm anaya i'm 24 into the mic into the mic i'm a singer songwriter
00:04:02.360 and i'm from los angeles all right welcome welcome what about you uh i'm anza i'm 25 and i'm in between
00:04:10.840 la and uh santa barbara what do you do for work oh right uh i am a student and uh musician where are you
00:04:19.360 a student uh here at ucsb what are you studying music composition undergrad i'm graduating in the
00:04:26.840 spring uh are you undergrad or oh yeah grad student yeah yeah got it all right cool what about you
00:04:33.300 all right i am ebony jenay i am 28 years old and i'm originally from boston but i live here in los
00:04:38.660 angeles now and what are you doing for work i'm currently a content creator astrologer
00:04:43.320 club promoter okay a few things what so what is what does an astrologer do i read charts you read
00:04:53.040 charts i do okay how long you've been doing that for you got did you go to school for that you got
00:04:59.240 so i went for psychology for my degree but i've been studying astrology for about eight years
00:05:05.260 what do they say about um tauruses uh i'm a taurus we're pretty stubborn but we like to work and we
00:05:15.120 mess with the bull you get the horns that's a fact that's very much a fact we'll find the easy way
00:05:20.940 to do anything too okay all right wait and going back to you you said you do uh you're studying music
00:05:27.200 composition yeah so you're like classically trained musician uh yeah classically trained but
00:05:32.500 i mainly focus on uh rock and film composition okay and do you play an instrument or are you
00:05:37.160 singer voice piano guitar are you a soprano soprano with a freaky low range they say okay yeah all
00:05:44.320 right can we hear something i mean sure are we what are we talking like opera what are we talking
00:05:49.880 what kind of i mean i trained in opera but like oh shit let's hear something let's hear it
00:05:54.440 wait wait wait wait god what did i say uh hold on hold on what's it called it's uh the the queen
00:06:04.740 the knight oh the queen of the night uh queen of the night yeah yeah um oh my god i was about to do
00:06:11.300 it but i it's hard okay i have not warmed up today wait can you do it though i i'll give it a shot
00:06:18.340 hell yeah do it okay let's see um
00:06:21.720 yeah damn
00:06:34.880 there we go there we go it would have been better even with the warm-up
00:06:41.700 yeah that was good that's and that's a very hard uh opera piece i mean i don't know if i started in
00:06:47.760 the right key but that's just maybe a little loft but yeah no it was definitely a little pitchy
00:06:52.620 i'm not gonna lie but yeah you aren't warmed up you're on the spot but uh that was very impressive
00:06:57.740 okay uh sweet and then we'll we'll have to uh what's that one from the uh there was this movie
00:07:04.260 in the 90s that featured an opera piece the fifth element are you familiar with that oh god yes
00:07:09.140 but that one's like almost impossible right um i think i know which one you're talking about
00:07:14.020 yeah i could do it maybe right now fuck it okay do it oh god is that the is that the one i was like
00:07:21.880 it's the one with the blue alien or whatever is that the one where she's being like
00:07:24.640 i think so okay you got it okay sure
00:07:30.960 something like that right wow that was really good
00:07:43.740 that was good uh hey guys guys how
00:07:48.900 how are your ear
00:07:51.200 chat how are your
00:07:53.920 okay all right this is a very classy podcast
00:07:58.520 we got an opera singer we'll have to uh we'll go back to the uh the what what is it the the it's
00:08:06.620 what's the actual title of the first one that you did the night queen oh well the the character is
00:08:12.600 queen of the night but that song isn't i'm trying to find that i mean you can find it if you just type
00:08:17.580 queen of the night so queen of the night aria yeah magic the magic flute that's what i was i was
00:08:24.060 looking for okay cool that was good that was good thank you i preferred the first one but uh
00:08:28.120 we'll have you do it again uh so okay and instruments you said piano vocal and guitar guitar oh wow can i
00:08:37.480 just say i forgot to say i also do music but that's wow you guys should start a band
00:08:40.620 hell yeah i'm looking for musicians there you go what about you yeah i'm danielle i'm 25 i'm from
00:08:47.900 salt lake city utah and i am a grad student right now and i also work as a nanny you said you're from
00:08:54.540 utah yeah salt lake yeah okay and you said 25 right 25 yeah what about you hi my name is mingway
00:09:01.420 i'm 32 and i do all sorts of things i'm a surf coach um i work
00:09:09.560 six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine blah blah blah 69 donated 69 dollars
00:09:17.280 okay thank you uh blah blah blah 69 appreciate it man
00:09:30.640 uh so you're a surf coach what else um i do a little modeling and a very small amount of content
00:09:37.640 creation um i work with kids with autism and sometimes i'm a high school substitute teacher
00:09:43.000 all right and uh you're based in did you say ventura yeah okay uh favorite surf spot um i know you
00:09:51.520 want me to say rencon c street i like c street's a great spot i just don't want i don't want to blow
00:09:57.180 it up even more yeah i mean see it's on surf line yeah i know uh i don't are there are there like
00:10:06.140 secret spots in ventura there's no more secret spots anywhere not yeah maybe a couple in santa
00:10:13.200 barbara but you have to go up north ish ish anyways yeah uh okay maddie what about you my name is
00:10:21.780 madison i'm 19 years old i work for the whatever podcast i'm from san diego california i am also a
00:10:28.580 student at santa barbara city college studying business and communication
00:10:31.920 and my caucasian rachel wilson yes i am mrs andrew wilson but you guys can call me rachel
00:10:42.540 um i'm a mom i'm a researcher and author of this year book occult feminism secret history of
00:10:49.480 women's liberation i'm also a certified firearms instructor but most importantly the wife of the
00:10:56.260 infamous andrew wilson who was so good to unchain me from the stove long enough just to let me come
00:11:02.760 out here so thank you very much for having me good to have you good to have you glad we finally were
00:11:08.860 able to get you on uh what uh did you say age 43 43 all right all right so going around the table
00:11:19.300 once more we're gonna get everybody's relationship status so are you single talking stage relationship
00:11:26.960 situationship friendship it's married just gerald donated 69 dollars from the whole chat and every
00:11:34.780 viewer welcome to whatever mrs wilson there you go feminism blew my mind yo dane thank you man
00:11:41.440 appreciate it good to see you in the chat thank you buddy thank you buddy okay so uh relationship
00:11:47.080 status uh whatever it is if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest
00:11:53.180 relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead okay um it's very complicated
00:11:59.320 i'm in i guess a situation ship and i've been in this well a couple situationships for two to four
00:12:09.760 years so wait are you currently in a couple situationships like you're dating multiple guys at
00:12:16.900 the same time yes how many situationships are you currently in two you're in two okay uh have you
00:12:24.880 been in more previously yes what's the most you've been in at the same time oh oh like simultaneously
00:12:31.980 yeah this is the most this is the most yeah okay um and you've been seeing these two guys for how
00:12:39.700 long um one of them for four years and the other one for two two years yeah well almost two years have
00:12:47.420 you ever been exclusive with either of them or has it always been a relationship whatever fan donated
00:12:53.260 one hundred dollars contributing to the barbecue session with rachel for tonight pass the plates
00:12:59.920 around and let her cook all right whatever fan thank you man barbecue session yeah it's in the works
00:13:08.220 appreciate it dude um there's actually one more coming in so i'm gonna before i ask some
00:13:13.360 clarifying questions i'm gonna wait and let it come through couch underscore hopper underscore
00:13:18.640 outdoors donated sixty nine dollars appreciate it andrew gave me pizza yesterday also to the bro in
00:13:25.300 white are you a cuckold
00:13:27.500 no
00:13:31.600 are you supposed to be the bro
00:13:34.440 i guess
00:13:35.520 that's a that's a woman also i don't know
00:13:40.300 what that means
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00:13:47.280 dollars. My sprinkler goes
00:13:49.220 like this.
00:13:53.900 And comes back
00:13:59.220 like this.
00:14:02.640 Nice.
00:14:03.500 That's what a sprinkler
00:14:04.840 sounds like. Thank you.
00:14:06.960 Thank you very much. Okay. So wait.
00:14:09.060 Two situationships. One you've been seeing for four
00:14:11.140 years. One you've been seeing for two years. Do they
00:14:13.100 know about each other?
00:14:14.760 Yeah. Yeah.
00:14:16.580 Yeah. They actually
00:14:18.780 got into an argument
00:14:20.940 today. Wait, today?
00:14:24.560 Right before this. Somebody DM'd
00:14:26.860 me and said that
00:14:28.120 a girl who was going to be on the show today, he didn't
00:14:30.860 say who, has been cheating
00:14:33.000 on him.
00:14:34.880 But I don't know if that's you, but some guy DM'd
00:14:36.860 me. He's like, a girl who's going to be on the show today
00:14:39.100 who's coming on is my girlfriend
00:14:40.800 and she's been cheating on me. Sounds about right.
00:14:44.440 Yeah.
00:14:45.760 No.
00:14:46.580 Not me, but that's my best
00:14:48.480 friend, so.
00:14:52.540 Okay.
00:14:53.840 But you said, because
00:14:54.540 I'm saying that because you said they got, they got into a
00:14:56.860 He started it. He started what?
00:14:58.200 They both started it.
00:14:58.800 What'd they start?
00:14:59.280 He made it what it is.
00:15:01.440 Cheating.
00:15:01.720 They were cheating. The guys were cheating.
00:15:05.520 Yeah.
00:15:07.080 But I mean, you said it's been a situation.
00:15:08.300 I'm not going to be stupid, so I'm going to cheat back.
00:15:10.080 I'm a little confused, though, because I mean, you said that
00:15:12.060 it's never been exclusive at any point
00:15:13.900 in your relationship. You said you both categorize
00:15:16.220 them as situationships, right?
00:15:17.880 Well, I categorize them as
00:15:20.060 situationships because I feel like
00:15:22.020 they like to both play the field.
00:15:24.040 Okay.
00:15:28.000 Devon Jackson donated $69.
00:15:30.360 Hey, good to see you, Devon.
00:15:31.080 W and Rachel L. Feminism.
00:15:33.460 You want to say anything to Devon?
00:15:35.200 Hi, Devon. Thank you for the super chat.
00:15:38.780 Thank you, Devon. Appreciate it.
00:15:40.520 By the way, W's in the chat for Rachel's
00:15:42.920 pink. Look at the pink.
00:15:44.920 It looks good. I like the
00:15:45.840 people always wear like kind of more dull colors,
00:15:49.040 but I like the pink. It looks good
00:15:50.880 against the background. Anyways, okay.
00:15:52.600 So
00:15:52.960 they got into a fight, like a fist fight
00:15:56.440 in person or like a verbal? They want to.
00:15:58.420 They want to fight over you.
00:15:59.800 Does the winner
00:16:01.860 get you?
00:16:03.240 I think it's past that.
00:16:05.320 Nick, can you open the door?
00:16:06.180 It's just been
00:16:06.880 a bunch of disrespect from both
00:16:09.800 ends towards each other.
00:16:11.180 Towards each other.
00:16:12.080 For like the things that they've said.
00:16:14.220 One of them actually
00:16:15.440 pulled up to
00:16:17.160 the house that we were staying at.
00:16:22.020 Yeah.
00:16:23.200 Word.
00:16:24.200 The underscore bear underscore
00:16:25.740 in underscore the underscore
00:16:27.260 which donated $69.
00:16:29.800 Why you keep sending your
00:16:31.480 three hundred and fours
00:16:33.080 into the woods?
00:16:34.260 We don't want your
00:16:35.240 hose either.
00:16:36.640 First off, we use the term
00:16:38.240 strumpet.
00:16:39.740 Not three-o-fo.
00:16:41.040 We use strumpet
00:16:41.820 here at the
00:16:42.500 whatever podcast.
00:16:44.720 See, strumpet.
00:16:45.940 Strumpet.
00:16:46.700 Not three-o-fo.
00:16:47.760 Strumpet.
00:16:48.240 Okay.
00:16:50.360 We need a fun...
00:16:51.360 There's...
00:16:51.800 People have been sending me
00:16:52.780 so many of these
00:16:53.420 bear or man memes.
00:16:56.180 The poor bears.
00:16:57.000 Poor bears.
00:16:58.180 What do we do to the bears?
00:16:59.480 The bears are...
00:17:00.720 They're enjoying the free food though.
00:17:03.340 Okay.
00:17:05.500 So, okay.
00:17:06.240 They're fighting
00:17:07.060 between each other.
00:17:09.140 Yes.
00:17:12.420 Can I ask a question?
00:17:13.560 Yeah, go ahead.
00:17:14.320 So, if they are...
00:17:17.460 Like, why are they fighting
00:17:18.740 if they're mad that
00:17:19.740 you were cheating?
00:17:21.080 Like, why wouldn't they
00:17:21.780 just break it off?
00:17:22.920 Why would they want
00:17:23.540 to, like, fight more?
00:17:28.220 I think everybody's
00:17:29.300 delusional, including me.
00:17:32.120 Okay.
00:17:32.840 Good answer.
00:17:33.080 When you say you're
00:17:33.860 delusional, what do you mean?
00:17:37.340 Like, I want to be
00:17:39.920 a lover girl,
00:17:41.960 but it's hard
00:17:43.280 because
00:17:43.920 I just feel like
00:17:46.300 everybody just lies
00:17:48.180 a lot.
00:17:48.680 and
00:17:49.660 I feel like
00:17:50.800 including me,
00:17:51.480 I have
00:17:51.920 lied,
00:17:53.680 but
00:17:53.900 it's just...
00:17:58.000 It is...
00:17:59.000 Get pooped
00:18:00.380 donated
00:18:00.820 $69.
00:18:02.540 Why is
00:18:03.340 poopoo time
00:18:04.080 always
00:18:04.620 pee-pee time,
00:18:05.500 but pee-pee time
00:18:06.340 isn't always
00:18:07.020 poopoo time?
00:18:09.040 Actually,
00:18:09.700 a good question.
00:18:10.400 Wow.
00:18:10.800 That is
00:18:11.360 just some
00:18:12.840 high-tier
00:18:14.260 Thank you,
00:18:15.760 Get pooped.
00:18:16.480 Appreciate it.
00:18:17.660 We'll leave that
00:18:18.380 to the philosophers
00:18:19.300 and the academics
00:18:20.980 to figure out.
00:18:22.580 So,
00:18:23.040 okay.
00:18:24.600 So you lied,
00:18:25.760 they lied.
00:18:28.360 Now,
00:18:29.060 when it...
00:18:29.480 You said you were...
00:18:30.160 Dreamweaver
00:18:31.960 underscore beaver
00:18:33.060 donated
00:18:33.520 $69.
00:18:35.440 Haikus are easy,
00:18:36.940 but sometimes
00:18:37.800 they don't make sense.
00:18:39.940 Refrigerator.
00:18:40.540 We got another one
00:18:44.920 coming in,
00:18:45.400 so I'll preempt it,
00:18:47.260 but...
00:18:47.520 Refrigerator?
00:18:48.800 Haikus are...
00:18:49.800 Oh, was that a haiku?
00:18:50.600 Yeah, it was a haiku.
00:18:51.300 That was a haiku?
00:18:52.060 That was beautiful.
00:18:52.800 That's some Shakespeare shit.
00:18:54.360 Thank you,
00:18:54.920 Dreamweaver.
00:18:55.660 Dreamweaver beaver.
00:18:56.440 Dylan Lolly donated
00:18:57.540 $69.
00:18:59.220 Get these ladies
00:19:00.360 a pen and paper.
00:19:01.800 Rachel's about
00:19:02.520 to take Yarl to class.
00:19:04.080 To class?
00:19:04.480 Women choose
00:19:05.260 bear to make
00:19:06.000 everyone happy.
00:19:07.480 Bear eats.
00:19:08.460 Woman is believed
00:19:09.280 as the victim,
00:19:09.980 and the man
00:19:10.860 avoids a false accusation.
00:19:12.820 We have another one
00:19:13.680 coming in.
00:19:14.240 Dylan, thank you, man,
00:19:15.120 for the TTS.
00:19:16.120 Appreciate it.
00:19:16.540 Thank you, Dylan.
00:19:17.860 Thank you, sir.
00:19:18.900 You are a legend
00:19:19.800 and a scholar.
00:19:21.440 Rachel underscore
00:19:22.300 is underscore
00:19:23.120 mammy donated
00:19:24.020 $69.
00:19:25.860 Holy sheet.
00:19:27.400 No wonder
00:19:27.960 Andrew is always
00:19:29.080 in a good mood.
00:19:30.280 Look at his wife.
00:19:32.020 Holy eek,
00:19:32.720 he's on all
00:19:33.200 of the bikies.
00:19:34.580 What are red flags
00:19:35.520 you all have ignored
00:19:36.460 in the past
00:19:37.120 that you absolutely
00:19:38.200 shouldn't have?
00:19:39.060 Is that directed
00:19:42.520 towards you, Rachel,
00:19:43.940 or the whole panel?
00:19:44.440 I don't know.
00:19:44.880 What is it?
00:19:46.780 What are red flags
00:19:47.780 you all have ignored
00:19:48.460 in the past
00:19:49.220 that you absolutely
00:19:50.340 shouldn't have?
00:19:51.740 So Rachel is mommy.
00:19:52.840 I'm going to write
00:19:53.360 that down,
00:19:54.760 and we'll ask that
00:19:56.220 a little later on
00:19:57.120 in the show
00:19:57.640 just until we get
00:19:58.860 through the relationship
00:19:59.780 status stuff.
00:20:00.820 No simping, guys.
00:20:01.840 Thanks for the super chat.
00:20:02.840 Stop simping.
00:20:04.020 Red flags ignored.
00:20:08.140 Okay.
00:20:09.760 So,
00:20:11.040 on a,
00:20:13.860 in an average week
00:20:14.760 or average month,
00:20:15.800 so you were seeing
00:20:16.540 two guys at the same time,
00:20:17.820 two situationships,
00:20:18.940 how often would you be
00:20:20.360 seeing each of them?
00:20:21.420 Like,
00:20:21.700 one time per week
00:20:23.200 each,
00:20:23.700 basically?
00:20:24.440 No,
00:20:24.940 it would be like,
00:20:26.340 I'll be dealing
00:20:27.020 with one person,
00:20:28.000 and then we'll get
00:20:28.940 into it,
00:20:29.540 and I'll find out
00:20:30.140 about something,
00:20:30.780 and then I will go
00:20:31.880 to the next person
00:20:33.420 that I was dealing with
00:20:34.800 and then be dealing
00:20:35.380 with them.
00:20:36.560 When you say
00:20:37.260 dealing with them,
00:20:38.080 do you mean like,
00:20:38.840 you would,
00:20:39.900 what do you mean
00:20:40.820 dealing with?
00:20:41.560 Bevo underscore
00:20:42.340 the underscore
00:20:43.160 cup donated
00:20:44.000 $69.
00:20:45.800 Hey,
00:20:46.360 Brian,
00:20:47.060 when you going
00:20:47.640 to have some guys
00:20:48.640 on that I can
00:20:49.360 farm my wife out to?
00:20:51.220 She's looking
00:20:51.840 for a good gang bang.
00:20:54.420 Oh,
00:20:54.920 this is,
00:20:55.460 okay,
00:20:56.100 you're role playing
00:20:56.700 as Bevo.
00:20:57.540 Q's coming
00:21:00.960 next week.
00:21:01.780 We have
00:21:01.980 Jaquan
00:21:04.060 coming
00:21:05.580 next week.
00:21:06.580 Nick Carino
00:21:07.060 for donated
00:21:07.980 $69.
00:21:09.640 Yo,
00:21:09.860 thank you,
00:21:10.240 Nick.
00:21:10.260 Long time watcher
00:21:11.020 of both the Crucible
00:21:11.880 and WhateverPod.
00:21:13.000 We've gotten more
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00:21:13.740 Big shout out
00:21:14.240 to Rachel Wilson.
00:21:15.380 We're going to have
00:21:15.680 to boost it soon.
00:21:19.280 All right,
00:21:19.940 Nick,
00:21:20.160 thank you,
00:21:20.500 man,
00:21:20.620 appreciate it.
00:21:21.920 And then we have
00:21:22.920 Ripped Rich and Rare
00:21:24.040 about to come in.
00:21:25.380 Nick,
00:21:25.580 you can hide that.
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00:21:29.040 Thank you,
00:21:29.600 Nick,
00:21:29.820 appreciate it.
00:21:31.600 Ripped Rich and Rare
00:21:32.580 donated $69.
00:21:33.680 This is a song,
00:21:34.240 by the way.
00:21:35.040 You let him hit it raw.
00:21:36.680 You didn't have
00:21:37.280 second thoughts.
00:21:38.440 Now you're a single mom.
00:21:40.180 Now you're a single mom.
00:21:41.820 You said I'm
00:21:42.520 going to have his kids.
00:21:43.660 Don't care if he's here
00:21:44.840 or not.
00:21:45.640 Now you're a single mom.
00:21:49.020 Word?
00:21:49.720 Touche.
00:21:50.580 Well put.
00:21:50.840 Those are songs.
00:21:51.480 Well put.
00:21:52.280 Thank you.
00:21:52.880 Thank you for that.
00:21:53.680 Appreciate it.
00:21:54.240 Okay,
00:21:54.500 so,
00:21:54.840 try to get through this.
00:22:01.540 You're currently in
00:22:02.480 two situationships.
00:22:03.780 One you've been seeing
00:22:04.300 for four years,
00:22:04.960 one you've been seeing
00:22:05.420 for two years.
00:22:06.180 They know about each other.
00:22:07.500 They're fighting.
00:22:09.360 In that,
00:22:10.300 in the four-year period,
00:22:11.420 the two-year period,
00:22:12.160 I'm assuming like,
00:22:13.220 have other guys
00:22:14.240 come into the picture,
00:22:15.840 come into the picture,
00:22:16.880 gone out of the picture?
00:22:18.580 Um,
00:22:18.860 no.
00:22:20.540 So you,
00:22:21.080 so you're 24.
00:22:22.520 From 20 to 24,
00:22:23.660 you've only been seeing
00:22:25.080 these two guys.
00:22:26.080 Is that correct?
00:22:27.380 Um,
00:22:28.420 well,
00:22:29.040 technically one of them,
00:22:30.880 but,
00:22:31.560 so I guess from 22 to 24,
00:22:33.860 I was seeing another one
00:22:35.940 and that's when it overlapped.
00:22:37.380 But I'm saying like,
00:22:38.660 there weren't even,
00:22:40.080 like any other people
00:22:41.240 coming into the picture
00:22:42.060 at all?
00:22:43.140 Mm-mm.
00:22:43.860 Um,
00:22:44.420 before...
00:22:44.840 I'm talking like even
00:22:45.620 just a one-time casual thing.
00:22:48.160 No.
00:22:49.180 Okay.
00:22:49.780 So two dudes...
00:22:51.160 Like,
00:22:51.760 gone on dates,
00:22:52.860 but not like,
00:22:54.600 like,
00:22:55.720 one-night's thing.
00:22:56.260 Like hookups?
00:22:56.960 Yeah, no.
00:22:57.260 Okay.
00:22:58.260 All right.
00:22:59.340 So,
00:23:00.400 why haven't you,
00:23:01.800 like,
00:23:02.000 have you not been desirous
00:23:03.320 of having a long-term relationship
00:23:04.820 with either of these guys?
00:23:07.200 I have.
00:23:08.500 I,
00:23:08.780 I wanted to,
00:23:09.460 but things just got
00:23:10.640 really complicated
00:23:11.520 just because of a lot
00:23:12.540 of the stuff
00:23:13.040 that they would do
00:23:13.920 and,
00:23:15.160 um,
00:23:16.140 like bring up.
00:23:17.160 like,
00:23:19.680 just,
00:23:21.500 I,
00:23:22.500 just,
00:23:22.840 it's just like
00:23:23.380 a lot of disrespect
00:23:24.300 that has happened.
00:23:27.620 Like being disrespectful
00:23:28.880 to the relationship
00:23:29.700 and just cheating
00:23:31.200 a lot,
00:23:32.520 notoriously,
00:23:33.580 and dealing with exes
00:23:35.840 and just having stuff
00:23:37.400 be really messy
00:23:38.140 to the point where,
00:23:39.200 like,
00:23:39.800 my parents are getting involved,
00:23:41.460 they're messaging my parents
00:23:42.520 and things like that,
00:23:44.060 and I've had
00:23:47.400 a couple
00:23:48.520 abortions
00:23:50.120 because,
00:23:52.080 like,
00:23:52.500 it was,
00:23:53.180 yeah,
00:23:53.580 just a lot of stuff.
00:23:55.500 I don't know if
00:23:56.340 I was allowed to say
00:23:57.440 that word.
00:23:57.920 No,
00:23:58.080 you can,
00:23:58.480 that's totally fine.
00:24:00.260 Uh,
00:24:00.680 okay.
00:24:01.400 Grid One Motorsports
00:24:02.600 donated $69.
00:24:04.940 Mrs. Wilson,
00:24:06.320 welcome to whatever.
00:24:07.720 Please,
00:24:08.600 while I know you
00:24:09.320 will be tempted,
00:24:10.540 show no mercy.
00:24:11.960 The patriarchy
00:24:12.780 supports you
00:24:13.600 in these endeavors
00:24:14.480 and respects
00:24:15.480 all your effort.
00:24:17.180 Respect.
00:24:17.500 Thank you,
00:24:19.760 Grid One.
00:24:20.060 Yeah,
00:24:20.200 good to see you
00:24:20.580 in the chat,
00:24:20.980 Grid One.
00:24:21.360 Appreciate it,
00:24:21.820 man.
00:24:23.180 Okay,
00:24:23.660 so hold on,
00:24:24.200 this is,
00:24:24.700 at any point
00:24:25.300 in the four years
00:24:26.460 or whatever,
00:24:27.220 did you ever call
00:24:28.080 either of these guys
00:24:28.840 your boyfriend?
00:24:29.980 Yeah.
00:24:30.980 Okay,
00:24:31.320 but you said
00:24:31.680 it was a situation,
00:24:32.520 it's been situationships
00:24:33.700 the entire time.
00:24:35.520 Um,
00:24:37.000 I would say
00:24:38.080 for the first one,
00:24:39.420 it didn't start off
00:24:40.600 like,
00:24:41.460 like,
00:24:42.000 no,
00:24:42.280 it did start off
00:24:42.960 like a situationship
00:24:43.920 and then it grew
00:24:44.620 into,
00:24:45.400 like,
00:24:46.200 we're in a relationship
00:24:47.040 and we defined
00:24:47.780 what it was,
00:24:48.700 but I call it
00:24:49.900 a situationship
00:24:50.960 because I don't feel
00:24:52.420 like he was ever
00:24:53.380 treating it like
00:24:54.220 a relationship
00:24:55.160 even when he did
00:24:56.380 define the relationship.
00:24:59.000 It just wasn't like that
00:25:00.400 because his actions
00:25:01.320 were not
00:25:03.380 lining up with
00:25:05.140 his words.
00:25:06.320 Were you guys,
00:25:07.140 like,
00:25:07.640 exclusive at this point
00:25:08.700 or was there still
00:25:09.720 multiple people involved?
00:25:11.180 We were supposed
00:25:11.780 to be exclusive,
00:25:13.420 so there was no
00:25:14.160 exclusivity on his
00:25:15.740 end,
00:25:16.720 so that's when
00:25:17.640 I was like,
00:25:18.140 okay,
00:25:18.280 well,
00:25:18.380 I'm not just
00:25:18.820 going to continue
00:25:19.460 to sit here
00:25:20.240 and be played
00:25:21.880 by somebody.
00:25:23.720 But you kept
00:25:24.480 dating him.
00:25:25.780 Yeah.
00:25:27.120 Why,
00:25:27.660 why did you decide
00:25:28.740 to keep dating him
00:25:29.620 if he was cheating?
00:25:30.780 Because I'm delusional.
00:25:32.980 Fair enough.
00:25:34.060 Fair enough.
00:25:35.020 That just seems
00:25:35.560 like a lot of work
00:25:37.140 and, like,
00:25:38.340 mental stress.
00:25:39.800 I don't know, man.
00:25:40.740 That sounds
00:25:41.740 like a lot of work.
00:25:43.060 She's right.
00:25:44.040 Sounds like a lot
00:25:44.880 of work.
00:25:45.500 It is.
00:25:46.460 So, okay,
00:25:47.260 but just to be clear,
00:25:48.300 so you're currently
00:25:48.760 in two situationships.
00:25:50.420 When you said
00:25:51.100 that there's overlap,
00:25:52.280 for example,
00:25:53.000 would you see,
00:25:53.800 would you see
00:25:54.860 Bobby on Wednesday
00:25:55.980 and Trevor on Friday?
00:25:59.800 No,
00:26:00.340 it wouldn't go like that.
00:26:01.360 It was more so,
00:26:02.260 like,
00:26:02.820 as soon as I'm,
00:26:04.880 like,
00:26:05.160 I find out about
00:26:06.140 something from one person,
00:26:07.540 because it's more so,
00:26:08.320 like,
00:26:08.420 on and off.
00:26:09.700 So,
00:26:10.040 as soon as I find out
00:26:11.060 about something
00:26:11.600 that one person did,
00:26:12.540 then I'm,
00:26:12.880 like,
00:26:13.000 okay,
00:26:13.300 I'm done with you
00:26:14.060 at this moment,
00:26:15.400 and I'm gonna go
00:26:16.220 and be with the other person.
00:26:17.200 Okay,
00:26:17.560 in a 24-hour period,
00:26:19.700 have you ever
00:26:20.360 hung out
00:26:21.180 with both of them?
00:26:24.480 Yeah.
00:26:26.460 In a 24-hour period,
00:26:27.960 have you ever had
00:26:29.080 carnal knowledge
00:26:30.120 of both of them?
00:26:33.360 What is
00:26:34.000 carnal knowledge?
00:26:36.000 Physical
00:26:36.400 interrelations
00:26:38.160 of some kind.
00:26:39.720 Sexual relations.
00:26:40.340 I'll wait to the next day.
00:26:41.280 Sexual relations.
00:26:42.180 You'd wait,
00:26:43.160 you'd be polite,
00:26:44.400 considerate,
00:26:45.280 wait till the next,
00:26:46.100 you know.
00:26:46.540 Oh my god,
00:26:47.180 y'all,
00:26:47.360 this is so good.
00:26:48.180 Like,
00:26:48.200 12 hours.
00:26:49.420 Okay,
00:26:49.780 okay,
00:26:49.940 did you take a shower
00:26:50.980 in between?
00:26:52.020 I'm just kidding.
00:26:52.360 Yes.
00:26:53.900 All right.
00:26:54.600 Good for you.
00:26:55.560 All right,
00:26:56.040 good times.
00:26:56.540 Okay,
00:26:56.780 so,
00:26:57.900 maybe we'll come back to,
00:26:58.760 you know,
00:26:58.780 protection is awesome.
00:26:59.600 Of course.
00:27:00.840 All right,
00:27:01.700 well,
00:27:01.920 maybe we'll come back to that
00:27:02.820 a little later on
00:27:03.720 in the show.
00:27:04.880 What about you?
00:27:07.400 What was the question again?
00:27:09.060 It's been a minute.
00:27:10.280 Relationship status?
00:27:12.540 So,
00:27:13.040 yeah,
00:27:13.220 single.
00:27:14.000 Single,
00:27:14.640 okay.
00:27:15.280 Orientation?
00:27:16.100 Bye.
00:27:16.700 Bye,
00:27:17.080 okay.
00:27:17.840 Do you,
00:27:18.260 is it like the pretty 50-50 split there
00:27:20.320 or do you more so date women,
00:27:22.120 more so date men?
00:27:23.440 I mean,
00:27:24.160 hard to say.
00:27:24.980 I was in a relationship for a while
00:27:27.620 that was with a guy,
00:27:28.360 so I'm only now really getting to experience.
00:27:31.620 The ladies?
00:27:32.540 Okay.
00:27:33.580 How long,
00:27:34.180 longest relationship?
00:27:35.820 Nearly three years.
00:27:36.960 Three years?
00:27:37.440 Is that your most recent one?
00:27:38.540 Yeah.
00:27:39.160 When did it end?
00:27:40.200 Like seven months ago?
00:27:41.440 Seven months ago.
00:27:42.180 Who ended it?
00:27:42.920 Me.
00:27:44.120 Skeezer underscore aversion
00:27:45.680 donated $69.
00:27:48.180 This skeezer's coochie
00:27:49.520 is a graveyard,
00:27:50.640 a few abortions.
00:27:52.220 That's insane.
00:27:53.780 Murdering your offspring
00:27:54.880 instead of taking responsibility
00:27:56.840 for your poor choices.
00:27:58.520 Oh.
00:27:58.760 Fellas,
00:27:59.580 protect your seed.
00:28:00.760 Well,
00:28:01.860 like I said,
00:28:02.460 I didn't want to.
00:28:03.780 It was something that I had to,
00:28:06.400 but that's another conversation.
00:28:09.780 Okay.
00:28:10.480 And then coming back to you,
00:28:13.280 so you've been single for seven months.
00:28:16.260 You said you ended the relationship?
00:28:18.060 I did.
00:28:18.440 Why is that?
00:28:18.860 A lot of things.
00:28:24.260 Again,
00:28:24.740 talk about disrespect
00:28:25.920 in the relationship.
00:28:29.040 And,
00:28:29.600 I mean,
00:28:30.260 we had been arguing for,
00:28:31.420 I mean,
00:28:31.600 a good two years
00:28:32.540 of that relationship.
00:28:34.000 It was like,
00:28:34.700 why are we still doing this?
00:28:36.000 And then last year was,
00:28:37.680 hands down,
00:28:38.200 the hardest year of my life,
00:28:39.580 and I wasn't getting
00:28:40.940 the support I needed.
00:28:41.780 And so I thought,
00:28:43.300 you know,
00:28:44.420 if this is somebody
00:28:45.420 I want to spend
00:28:45.860 the rest of my life with,
00:28:48.140 there's going to be
00:28:49.340 harder times in my life
00:28:50.520 than this.
00:28:51.380 And if I'm not getting
00:28:52.100 the support now,
00:28:53.200 why do I want that
00:28:54.180 in the future?
00:28:56.500 Okay.
00:28:57.860 What were,
00:28:58.680 you said there was
00:28:59.160 some disrespect.
00:29:00.520 By the way,
00:29:01.120 we're going to,
00:29:02.000 we're bumping the TTS up,
00:29:03.440 guys,
00:29:03.900 so it's just back up
00:29:04.960 to the normal.
00:29:05.580 We're going to do
00:29:06.120 100 read,
00:29:07.640 200 TTS.
00:29:08.980 What was the disrespect?
00:29:11.780 For one thing,
00:29:13.340 I got DM messages
00:29:15.760 from other girls
00:29:17.220 who had gotten
00:29:18.900 messages from him.
00:29:20.400 And I had seen
00:29:22.840 some of those
00:29:23.360 on his phone as well.
00:29:25.100 And I know
00:29:26.300 he kissed a stripper.
00:29:28.400 And, uh...
00:29:29.360 What?
00:29:30.620 Yeah.
00:29:31.500 Kissed a stripper?
00:29:32.340 Mm-hmm.
00:29:32.860 Spearmint Rhino?
00:29:38.000 Was that where?
00:29:39.940 No, I mean,
00:29:40.960 I wasn't there
00:29:41.840 when it happened.
00:29:42.680 Oh, okay.
00:29:43.400 I mean...
00:29:44.240 I've heard of that place.
00:29:46.100 Yeah.
00:29:46.340 We have one
00:29:47.040 in Santa Barbara.
00:29:47.700 I did not know that,
00:29:48.620 so...
00:29:48.860 We also have one
00:29:49.520 in Santa Monica.
00:29:50.620 Okay, okay.
00:29:51.480 Yeah, no, uh...
00:29:53.140 Yeah, I was at work
00:29:54.240 and that happened.
00:29:55.080 So he was cheating,
00:29:55.700 basically.
00:29:56.940 Yeah, yeah.
00:29:57.960 Okay.
00:29:58.700 Good times?
00:29:59.340 Yeah.
00:29:59.780 I mean, I could never,
00:30:00.780 of course, confirm
00:30:01.540 if he actually went
00:30:02.320 to those girls' places, but...
00:30:03.780 Prior to this relationship
00:30:05.200 with him,
00:30:05.700 did you date any girls
00:30:07.060 or have any romantic
00:30:08.620 or sexual relationships
00:30:09.740 with any women?
00:30:11.180 No, I mean,
00:30:11.900 I was always into them,
00:30:12.840 but, uh...
00:30:13.400 It just never happened?
00:30:14.160 Yeah.
00:30:14.680 Okay, but...
00:30:16.060 Post your three-year relationship,
00:30:17.720 you have had some...
00:30:18.700 Mm-hmm.
00:30:19.660 ...relationships with women
00:30:20.580 or short-term...
00:30:21.820 I wouldn't say relationships,
00:30:22.940 but I've definitely
00:30:23.380 been involved, yeah.
00:30:24.420 Okay.
00:30:25.480 All right.
00:30:26.460 And do you have, like,
00:30:27.040 a...
00:30:27.380 I know you said you're bi,
00:30:28.160 but do you, like,
00:30:28.620 have a preference
00:30:29.300 more so towards men, women,
00:30:30.840 or...
00:30:31.920 About the same?
00:30:33.380 Eh, about the same.
00:30:35.300 About the same.
00:30:36.020 Okay.
00:30:36.180 Are you currently seeing...
00:30:37.240 Oral, you said
00:30:37.720 you're single, right?
00:30:38.680 Mm-hmm.
00:30:39.160 But is there anybody
00:30:40.000 in the picture?
00:30:40.780 Even anything?
00:30:41.900 I mean, I'm going on dates.
00:30:44.040 You got...
00:30:44.380 Because I feel like
00:30:44.880 you got riz.
00:30:46.120 Well, thank you.
00:30:47.780 I try.
00:30:48.980 So, like,
00:30:49.620 you probably got, like,
00:30:50.460 a roster, right?
00:30:51.840 I mean...
00:30:52.800 Like, you got...
00:30:53.420 There's the lot of people
00:30:54.060 on the dating apps.
00:30:55.660 You got, like,
00:30:56.760 side pieces and shit, right?
00:30:58.340 Sure, sure.
00:31:00.040 Like, you just...
00:31:01.180 Will go on a date
00:31:02.760 and just bust out
00:31:03.760 some opera and...
00:31:05.260 It's like a...
00:31:06.500 It's a done deal, right?
00:31:07.720 It's like a...
00:31:08.300 Oh, yeah.
00:31:08.480 That's really what gets them.
00:31:09.700 Yeah.
00:31:10.120 No.
00:31:11.840 Yeah.
00:31:12.340 I mean, there's some people.
00:31:13.600 Okay.
00:31:14.680 So, you do have a roster,
00:31:16.120 then, currently, or...?
00:31:17.640 I mean,
00:31:18.280 I want to say
00:31:19.200 there's only, like,
00:31:20.740 a handful.
00:31:21.400 Not, like...
00:31:21.700 No, it's not even a full hand.
00:31:22.780 So, like, three?
00:31:23.560 Yeah.
00:31:23.980 Three, four?
00:31:24.740 Yeah, maybe...
00:31:25.060 Talking...
00:31:25.760 How many girls currently?
00:31:27.320 Not as many as you think.
00:31:28.220 They're harder to talk to.
00:31:29.500 It's a little harder.
00:31:30.380 Okay.
00:31:30.620 Yeah, yeah.
00:31:32.520 Wait, what?
00:31:34.380 I just said facts.
00:31:35.500 Oh, okay.
00:31:37.900 So, like,
00:31:38.580 would you say
00:31:38.980 you're currently
00:31:39.500 kind of, like,
00:31:40.340 talking stage,
00:31:41.280 like, maybe two girls,
00:31:42.420 two guys?
00:31:43.020 Something like that?
00:31:43.700 I'm going to say
00:31:44.020 there's, like, one girl.
00:31:45.100 One girl?
00:31:46.540 One guy?
00:31:47.760 Two guys, maybe?
00:31:49.260 Two guys, maybe?
00:31:49.980 Well, because some are, like,
00:31:50.820 in the starting stages
00:31:51.700 of, like, maybe.
00:31:53.180 Yeah.
00:31:53.380 Are you poly?
00:31:55.160 No.
00:31:55.920 Okay.
00:31:56.440 So, you would be desirous
00:31:57.760 of a monogamous relationship?
00:31:59.480 Yeah.
00:32:00.080 Okay.
00:32:00.660 And do you currently
00:32:01.400 want a relationship
00:32:02.100 or are you kind of happy
00:32:02.840 to keep things
00:32:03.420 a bit more casual
00:32:04.360 for the time being?
00:32:05.200 I think
00:32:06.360 it's getting to that point
00:32:08.080 where I might
00:32:09.060 want to get more serious,
00:32:11.460 but I'm just kind of
00:32:12.860 going with the flow.
00:32:13.460 If it feels right,
00:32:13.980 it feels right.
00:32:14.440 I don't want any expectations
00:32:15.700 with anybody, you know?
00:32:16.980 I don't want to force
00:32:17.700 the expectation of
00:32:18.860 we're going to get
00:32:19.400 in a relationship.
00:32:20.260 That just feels weird.
00:32:21.580 Okay.
00:32:22.400 Yeah.
00:32:22.960 All right.
00:32:23.760 What about you?
00:32:24.920 I am currently single.
00:32:26.440 I just got out
00:32:26.980 of a toxic relationship.
00:32:28.340 My longest relationship
00:32:29.280 is five years,
00:32:30.760 but the last relationship
00:32:31.620 was, say, three and a half.
00:32:34.740 When did your last
00:32:35.900 relationship end?
00:32:37.380 Let's say, like, December.
00:32:40.500 So, six, seven months ago?
00:32:43.220 Yeah.
00:32:44.040 And that was the
00:32:44.820 3.5-year relationship?
00:32:46.540 Yep.
00:32:46.860 Who ended it?
00:32:48.480 Hmm.
00:32:49.520 I did first,
00:32:50.660 but then we lived together.
00:32:52.100 Oh, was it on again,
00:32:52.600 off again?
00:32:52.980 Oh, okay.
00:32:53.340 Yeah, we lived together,
00:32:54.300 and I think we were
00:32:55.180 still trying to make it work,
00:32:56.040 and then he agreed, so.
00:32:58.720 To the breakup?
00:32:59.720 Yeah.
00:33:00.120 Okay.
00:33:00.560 He didn't accept it
00:33:01.200 at first, but.
00:33:02.460 So, who ended it first?
00:33:03.840 I did.
00:33:04.560 Why?
00:33:07.100 Because he was
00:33:07.940 super controlling,
00:33:08.860 and he would fill
00:33:09.960 every space that I was in
00:33:11.480 with negative energy.
00:33:13.980 Everywhere I was.
00:33:14.420 When you say
00:33:14.720 super controlling,
00:33:15.700 what are some examples
00:33:17.120 of that?
00:33:17.560 Didn't want me
00:33:19.680 to do music.
00:33:20.900 Mm-hmm.
00:33:22.180 Didn't want me
00:33:22.700 to hang out,
00:33:23.260 didn't want me
00:33:23.520 to go outside,
00:33:24.160 didn't like any
00:33:24.580 of my friends,
00:33:25.180 kind of isolated me
00:33:25.960 a little bit,
00:33:27.560 even from family
00:33:28.380 a little bit.
00:33:29.900 When you say
00:33:30.540 didn't want you
00:33:32.000 to go out,
00:33:32.540 do you mean,
00:33:32.940 like, bars and clubs?
00:33:34.120 Yeah,
00:33:34.500 but he also
00:33:35.020 didn't want to go out,
00:33:35.680 like, with me either.
00:33:36.780 Like, he really
00:33:37.260 didn't enjoy outside either,
00:33:38.600 but I did, so.
00:33:40.120 When you say,
00:33:40.660 so when you're saying
00:33:41.240 outside,
00:33:41.660 you mean, like,
00:33:42.480 out partying?
00:33:43.300 Yeah, like,
00:33:43.860 even just, like,
00:33:44.540 doing stuff, like.
00:33:46.200 Like, going for a hike?
00:33:47.940 Let's say, like,
00:33:48.440 I want to take a trip
00:33:49.200 or I want to, like,
00:33:49.980 we've taken trips
00:33:50.680 and we went to the clubs.
00:33:52.660 He loved the strip club.
00:33:54.080 He loved the strip club.
00:33:55.440 Okay, so, crazy enough,
00:33:57.040 I loved the strip club as well
00:33:58.260 and I introduced him
00:33:59.120 to the strip club.
00:34:00.180 Did you used to dance?
00:34:01.780 No, never danced.
00:34:03.280 But I love girls as well.
00:34:04.760 Oh, okay.
00:34:05.460 Your orientation?
00:34:07.200 Bye.
00:34:07.760 Bye, okay.
00:34:09.020 I want to marry a man
00:34:09.860 and I like girls
00:34:11.320 for poly situations.
00:34:13.160 You like women
00:34:13.780 for poly situations?
00:34:14.920 Yes.
00:34:15.200 Okay.
00:34:15.700 Have you had that before?
00:34:16.860 Yes.
00:34:17.820 Okay.
00:34:18.900 Have you,
00:34:19.480 because you said
00:34:19.960 you were living together
00:34:20.920 with your ex,
00:34:21.960 have you ever lived
00:34:23.080 in a poly situation?
00:34:24.780 For about two months.
00:34:26.740 What was it?
00:34:27.600 Like, what was the arrangement?
00:34:29.540 Well, it was me
00:34:30.400 and my ex
00:34:31.280 and then we brought in
00:34:32.640 a friend of mine
00:34:34.280 and it was pretty good
00:34:36.280 except on his end
00:34:37.440 he kind of got jealous,
00:34:39.300 the key.
00:34:40.020 So, we were spending
00:34:40.660 a lot of time together,
00:34:41.340 me and the girl
00:34:41.780 and then he didn't like that.
00:34:44.140 He didn't really like her
00:34:44.840 too much in the first place,
00:34:45.800 but.
00:34:46.660 Can I ask why you said
00:34:47.820 you want to marry a man?
00:34:49.400 Yeah,
00:34:49.940 because I do believe
00:34:51.420 in having a man
00:34:52.540 that's like the leader
00:34:53.100 of a household
00:34:53.640 but I also like
00:34:55.040 want me and my girlfriend
00:34:56.980 or my like,
00:34:58.620 I don't know,
00:35:00.180 I'm not sure
00:35:00.740 if I do the
00:35:01.400 wife situation.
00:35:04.080 Maybe for the right person
00:35:05.120 but I'd like to have fun.
00:35:07.440 I don't want to be stuck
00:35:08.040 to one person
00:35:08.640 for the rest of my life
00:35:09.340 and just.
00:35:09.920 So, then what's the point
00:35:10.860 of marriage?
00:35:11.660 Like, what do you think
00:35:12.120 marriage is for?
00:35:13.160 Well, I think that it's
00:35:13.780 sharing a life,
00:35:15.000 a partner.
00:35:17.000 But if you're sharing
00:35:18.220 your partner,
00:35:18.880 then what's the point?
00:35:21.720 I feel like if me
00:35:22.500 and my partner
00:35:22.860 are locked in enough
00:35:23.760 that it,
00:35:25.080 and there's nothing
00:35:25.580 that could shake us,
00:35:26.520 another person
00:35:27.180 wouldn't be able
00:35:28.040 to affect that.
00:35:29.120 What about kids
00:35:29.980 in a situation like that?
00:35:31.440 So, this is what
00:35:31.940 I think about as well.
00:35:32.660 I'm not opposed
00:35:35.420 to living
00:35:35.840 an alternative life
00:35:36.820 and explaining
00:35:37.300 to my kids
00:35:37.980 and I feel like
00:35:39.400 at the end of the day
00:35:40.520 you have your family
00:35:41.100 that comes in
00:35:41.640 no matter if you have
00:35:42.260 like an auntie
00:35:42.820 or uncle
00:35:43.120 or somebody
00:35:43.480 that comes in
00:35:44.020 and has influence
00:35:44.660 so it's like
00:35:45.280 as long as the influence
00:35:46.140 isn't negative
00:35:47.020 I think it'd be okay.
00:35:49.680 Okay.
00:35:50.600 We may have some
00:35:51.420 follow-ups for that later
00:35:52.580 but yeah.
00:35:53.840 I'm still figuring it out
00:35:54.700 so.
00:35:56.400 Relationship status?
00:35:57.500 Yeah, I'm married.
00:35:58.620 I've been married
00:35:59.120 for four years
00:36:00.560 as of like two weeks ago
00:36:02.240 and I
00:36:03.500 my longest relationship
00:36:04.500 is with my husband
00:36:05.340 we've been together
00:36:06.040 for seven years.
00:36:07.880 Seven years, okay.
00:36:09.020 So, were you guys
00:36:09.700 high school sweethearts?
00:36:10.760 We were.
00:36:11.740 Okay.
00:36:13.080 And
00:36:13.520 let me just check
00:36:14.920 my notes here
00:36:15.800 but you have dated
00:36:18.660 other people
00:36:19.280 in the past, right?
00:36:20.280 Yeah, yeah I have.
00:36:21.520 So, I mean
00:36:23.060 my husband
00:36:25.320 was like my first
00:36:26.260 serious relationship
00:36:27.420 but I definitely
00:36:29.200 dated
00:36:30.320 and
00:36:31.320 kissed other guys
00:36:34.680 in high school
00:36:35.340 but
00:36:36.340 I was never
00:36:37.400 in like
00:36:37.820 an official relationship
00:36:39.060 with anyone
00:36:39.600 and my lifestyle
00:36:40.860 before I met
00:36:41.580 my husband
00:36:41.960 was also very different.
00:36:45.220 What
00:36:45.360 are you Mormon?
00:36:48.060 I am.
00:36:49.080 I am a member
00:36:49.620 of the Church of Jesus Christ.
00:36:51.000 Yeah.
00:36:51.200 We actually don't
00:36:52.320 prefer to be called Mormons.
00:36:54.020 It changed.
00:36:54.880 Well, it's just
00:36:55.820 it's a derogatory term
00:36:57.500 that was actually
00:36:58.000 given to us
00:36:58.540 by people
00:36:59.100 Wait, is it?
00:37:00.380 Yeah, I mean
00:37:01.140 it was given
00:37:02.020 by people who persecuted
00:37:03.580 like the early saints
00:37:04.620 of our church
00:37:05.260 so we prefer to be called
00:37:07.060 like members of the church.
00:37:07.380 But didn't Mormons
00:37:07.560 self-identify as Mormons?
00:37:09.300 I mean, yeah
00:37:09.740 we kind of accepted it
00:37:10.920 at some point
00:37:11.540 like we were like
00:37:12.120 yeah, you can call us Mormon
00:37:13.100 like we're Mormons
00:37:13.820 but we don't like
00:37:14.580 to be called Mormons now.
00:37:16.320 Now?
00:37:17.140 Yeah, we don't.
00:37:18.240 When did that
00:37:18.960 I feel like
00:37:19.540 2018.
00:37:20.960 Mormons called themselves Mormons.
00:37:22.960 2018.
00:37:23.900 That was the switch?
00:37:25.660 Yeah.
00:37:25.860 Are you aware of this, Rachel?
00:37:26.740 This switcheroo?
00:37:28.100 Okay.
00:37:28.520 No.
00:37:29.180 I mean, I hear them
00:37:30.320 call themselves LDS
00:37:31.560 or
00:37:32.180 Yeah, that is a
00:37:33.440 mainstream LDS
00:37:34.360 or like fundamental
00:37:35.160 or
00:37:35.720 Oh, no, I'm like
00:37:36.840 Church of Jesus Christ
00:37:38.100 of Latter-day Saints
00:37:38.840 so not fundamentalist
00:37:40.080 nothing like that.
00:37:40.860 Yeah.
00:37:41.160 Okay.
00:37:41.500 So, is it a slur
00:37:45.440 to call somebody a Mormon?
00:37:47.240 I mean, define slur
00:37:48.080 it's just like
00:37:48.860 You said it was derogatory
00:37:50.060 I think
00:37:50.380 Yeah, the word I use
00:37:51.660 is derogatory
00:37:52.260 Derogatory
00:37:52.880 I guess I would just say
00:37:54.660 like
00:37:54.940 it's not a respectful term
00:37:57.400 to us
00:37:58.040 because
00:37:58.460 we
00:37:59.560 we just believe
00:38:01.440 that we are members
00:38:02.160 of the Church of Jesus Christ
00:38:03.620 and so
00:38:04.500 we prefer to be called
00:38:06.800 members of the Church
00:38:07.700 or LDS
00:38:08.300 as well
00:38:09.200 but yeah
00:38:10.320 we just
00:38:10.700 we want to
00:38:11.600 identify ourselves
00:38:12.800 as disciples of Jesus Christ
00:38:14.700 and we feel like
00:38:15.420 as people were calling us Mormons
00:38:17.060 it was kind of
00:38:17.940 taking away
00:38:18.720 the fact that we follow
00:38:20.200 Jesus Christ
00:38:20.840 and so we wanted that
00:38:21.820 to be
00:38:22.240 identified.
00:38:24.240 Okay.
00:38:25.220 Cool.
00:38:26.380 So
00:38:26.820 but you
00:38:27.540 you said something
00:38:28.800 along the lines of
00:38:29.880 you didn't
00:38:31.420 always used
00:38:32.520 to be
00:38:33.480 or you weren't
00:38:34.540 always
00:38:35.080 the way you are now
00:38:36.380 Yeah.
00:38:36.780 What do you mean by that?
00:38:37.620 Yeah.
00:38:37.940 So I
00:38:38.960 I was baptized
00:38:40.500 into the church
00:38:41.760 when I was eight years old
00:38:42.940 but I went in and out
00:38:44.300 of activity a ton
00:38:45.480 and for the most part
00:38:47.460 I really wasn't active
00:38:48.460 I had great examples
00:38:49.560 in my life
00:38:50.120 but it wasn't something
00:38:51.200 that I really wanted
00:38:51.880 to adhere to
00:38:52.680 and
00:38:53.700 when I
00:38:54.720 moved in
00:38:56.140 with some family
00:38:56.900 in high school
00:38:57.680 my husband lived
00:38:58.660 two doors down
00:38:59.260 and he was a member
00:39:00.020 of the church
00:39:00.660 and he just befriended me
00:39:02.280 and
00:39:02.840 I
00:39:03.940 just
00:39:04.480 saw a light in him
00:39:05.560 that I didn't really see
00:39:06.440 in other people
00:39:07.120 and I just
00:39:07.880 appreciated his example
00:39:09.100 and so
00:39:09.760 we were really good friends
00:39:11.300 for like
00:39:11.920 a year and a half
00:39:13.540 and then
00:39:14.080 he kind of confessed
00:39:15.180 his love to me
00:39:15.980 and I was like
00:39:16.580 you're my best friend
00:39:18.160 like don't want to date you
00:39:19.560 don't want to lose you
00:39:20.720 that way
00:39:21.260 and
00:39:21.820 he
00:39:22.820 made it out of
00:39:23.820 the friend zone
00:39:24.420 Hmm
00:39:25.540 nice
00:39:27.580 how do you do that
00:39:28.400 like what got him
00:39:29.180 out of the friend zone
00:39:29.960 yeah I think just being
00:39:31.680 a friend
00:39:33.960 to me
00:39:34.680 that's awesome
00:39:35.760 yeah
00:39:36.700 good for you buddy
00:39:37.500 okay
00:39:37.860 so did you
00:39:40.400 when you say like
00:39:41.640 you were different
00:39:42.560 back then
00:39:43.220 or were you like
00:39:44.220 more in terms of politics
00:39:46.000 you were more liberal
00:39:46.820 um
00:39:47.600 no I would not say
00:39:48.520 I was liberal
00:39:49.260 I'd say that
00:39:50.600 I just didn't have
00:39:51.620 like
00:39:51.960 I didn't have a direction
00:39:53.840 so I wasn't like sure
00:39:55.480 where I was going
00:39:57.220 or
00:39:57.700 what my standards were
00:39:59.480 but I
00:40:00.020 like
00:40:00.880 I didn't
00:40:02.380 do anything
00:40:03.760 like severely bad
00:40:04.680 I just
00:40:05.060 didn't know
00:40:06.060 what was important
00:40:06.700 to me at the time
00:40:07.400 did you go to BYU
00:40:08.440 no
00:40:09.520 okay
00:40:10.560 wait why do you
00:40:12.020 laugh at that
00:40:12.660 um
00:40:14.340 because
00:40:14.820 like
00:40:15.580 there's this whole
00:40:16.640 BYU is in Provo
00:40:17.620 and there's this whole
00:40:18.680 like Provo girl thing
00:40:20.140 and like
00:40:20.900 what's that
00:40:21.500 what's a Provo girl
00:40:22.560 oh man
00:40:23.260 um
00:40:24.520 and
00:40:25.800 obviously
00:40:26.500 not everyone
00:40:27.280 who goes to BYU
00:40:27.940 is a Provo girl
00:40:28.620 I don't want to like
00:40:29.400 say that
00:40:30.060 what is that
00:40:30.680 but a Provo girl
00:40:31.540 is just like
00:40:32.280 a girl that claims
00:40:33.900 to be so
00:40:35.040 virtuous
00:40:36.060 and good
00:40:36.960 but is hiding
00:40:37.820 behind the
00:40:38.960 standards
00:40:40.820 of our church
00:40:41.940 hiding behind
00:40:44.840 the standards
00:40:45.440 like they
00:40:45.640 they claim to be
00:40:46.760 church members
00:40:48.300 but they don't act
00:40:49.240 that way
00:40:49.680 and they're mean
00:40:50.860 and they're mean
00:40:52.500 yeah
00:40:52.920 mean
00:40:53.360 they're mean
00:40:54.040 okay
00:40:54.400 isn't there like
00:40:56.620 in order to go to BYU
00:40:57.840 don't you have to take like
00:40:59.140 certain
00:41:01.000 like a
00:41:02.460 purity pledge
00:41:03.940 or something
00:41:04.340 no
00:41:04.660 you have to agree
00:41:05.700 to the standards
00:41:06.380 of the university
00:41:07.000 like it's a private university
00:41:08.200 so you have to
00:41:09.180 well you can't like
00:41:09.940 co-house
00:41:10.320 you can't be in the same room
00:41:11.520 as a man
00:41:12.100 so depending on
00:41:13.740 like
00:41:14.160 oh no
00:41:14.880 like they have
00:41:15.640 like co-ed classes
00:41:16.960 I mean
00:41:17.460 you can be in the same classroom
00:41:19.160 but you can't like
00:41:19.840 go over to like
00:41:21.200 a guy's dorm
00:41:21.980 I think
00:41:22.680 you can
00:41:23.200 you just can't like
00:41:23.980 be in their room
00:41:24.760 and sleep with them
00:41:26.420 and
00:41:26.720 okay
00:41:27.080 yeah
00:41:27.380 don't they do some
00:41:28.640 sussy stuff
00:41:29.680 like the soaking
00:41:30.660 and whatnot
00:41:31.580 like isn't there some
00:41:32.940 and there's some weird
00:41:33.840 work around
00:41:34.600 yeah
00:41:34.940 so there's soaking
00:41:36.440 and there's also
00:41:37.420 is that an LDS thing
00:41:40.400 I mean I think
00:41:41.720 that
00:41:41.860 a Mormon thing
00:41:42.460 like
00:41:42.780 it's been claimed
00:41:44.120 in Provo
00:41:44.740 I don't know
00:41:45.180 if it's like
00:41:45.740 soaking
00:41:46.640 an LDS thing
00:41:47.460 but I think
00:41:47.860 there's people
00:41:48.460 of religion
00:41:49.380 who also do it
00:41:50.260 because it feels
00:41:51.140 makes them feel
00:41:51.760 like they have
00:41:52.200 like this out
00:41:52.800 but it's basically
00:41:53.880 you are literally
00:41:55.980 having sexual intercourse
00:41:57.460 but it's like
00:41:59.200 if you don't
00:42:00.360 trust
00:42:00.780 it doesn't count
00:42:01.720 yeah
00:42:01.960 for a scenario
00:42:02.600 it'd be like
00:42:03.220 you'd go to your friend
00:42:04.260 and you'd be like
00:42:05.040 can you move the bed
00:42:07.100 for me
00:42:07.660 type thing
00:42:08.820 does that happen
00:42:10.280 is that actually a thing
00:42:11.720 yes
00:42:12.400 it is a thing
00:42:13.320 so
00:42:13.620 and there's people
00:42:14.280 like
00:42:14.660 who would also
00:42:15.700 drive to like
00:42:16.900 because we don't
00:42:17.460 believe in having
00:42:18.100 sex before marriage
00:42:19.140 and so there's people
00:42:20.220 who will like
00:42:20.900 drive to Las Vegas
00:42:22.960 and get married
00:42:23.880 have sex
00:42:24.880 and then like
00:42:25.440 get it annulled
00:42:26.240 but it's like
00:42:27.240 God knows your intent
00:42:28.240 so you're not really
00:42:29.160 cheating anyone
00:42:29.980 but yourself
00:42:30.560 but yeah
00:42:31.820 the derfing thing
00:42:32.540 is
00:42:32.780 or
00:42:33.040 what is it
00:42:34.220 soaking
00:42:34.660 soaking
00:42:35.100 yeah
00:42:35.340 there's a lot
00:42:35.780 of weird terms
00:42:36.640 so
00:42:36.900 my understanding
00:42:38.000 of soaking
00:42:38.520 just for the audience
00:42:39.980 viewers or the panelists
00:42:40.840 who don't know
00:42:41.300 what that is
00:42:41.940 it's a sexual practice
00:42:43.860 the man inserts
00:42:45.360 the penis
00:42:45.940 into the vagina
00:42:48.080 but there can be
00:42:49.940 no subsequent
00:42:50.900 thrusting
00:42:51.900 nothing
00:42:52.540 can't be
00:42:53.620 there can't be
00:42:54.700 thrusting
00:42:54.860 that's why it's called
00:42:57.880 soaking
00:42:58.440 but someone else
00:42:59.960 moves the bed
00:43:00.720 for you
00:43:01.180 it somehow
00:43:01.800 is okay
00:43:02.680 good times
00:43:03.280 okay
00:43:03.780 yeah it's weird
00:43:05.160 I'm not gonna say
00:43:07.160 it's not
00:43:07.460 moving the bed
00:43:08.340 I think is the weirdest
00:43:09.280 right like
00:43:10.060 who would you trust enough
00:43:11.260 that's a lot of work
00:43:12.080 yeah that's
00:43:12.780 how long do you have
00:43:13.940 to do
00:43:14.200 like move the bed
00:43:15.120 for
00:43:15.380 I don't know
00:43:18.040 however long
00:43:18.880 it takes
00:43:19.600 that's crazy
00:43:21.800 probably a lot
00:43:22.800 longer than regular
00:43:23.840 intercourse
00:43:25.220 good times
00:43:26.660 a bigger workout
00:43:27.580 for the person
00:43:28.180 not involved
00:43:28.800 for sure
00:43:29.540 okay
00:43:31.800 and then
00:43:33.060 what about you
00:43:34.580 I am married
00:43:37.180 I just celebrated
00:43:38.840 two years
00:43:39.720 the other day
00:43:40.360 and that's my
00:43:41.900 longest relationship
00:43:42.800 how long
00:43:44.840 are you dating
00:43:45.280 before
00:43:45.760 wait you've been
00:43:46.420 married for two years
00:43:47.200 yeah married for two
00:43:48.000 how long were you
00:43:48.840 dating before you
00:43:49.420 got married
00:43:49.780 I think we were
00:43:50.840 dating for about
00:43:51.860 six years
00:43:52.800 okay so together
00:43:53.780 for like eight years
00:43:54.640 total
00:43:54.900 yeah
00:43:55.160 okay and that's
00:43:56.300 your longest
00:43:56.660 relationship
00:43:57.160 so you've been
00:43:58.420 together from
00:43:59.080 like 24 to 32
00:44:00.640 basically
00:44:01.160 sure yeah
00:44:02.280 okay
00:44:02.580 all right
00:44:03.860 how did you guys
00:44:04.600 meet
00:44:04.920 surfing
00:44:05.780 surfing
00:44:06.720 c street
00:44:07.180 yeah
00:44:07.820 he was in my
00:44:08.900 hood
00:44:09.260 and I'd be like
00:44:10.200 who is this guy
00:44:10.840 okay nice
00:44:12.100 how big
00:44:13.940 how big was it
00:44:14.540 was it like
00:44:14.960 ankle slappers
00:44:15.860 like it was a
00:44:16.320 pretty shitty day
00:44:16.940 it was a pretty
00:44:17.420 shitty day
00:44:17.840 probably
00:44:18.080 so he's like
00:44:18.360 fuck all right
00:44:18.880 I'll just like
00:44:19.300 hit on a girl
00:44:19.840 and
00:44:20.160 I
00:44:21.120 approached him
00:44:23.000 actually
00:44:23.660 well I had a
00:44:24.720 friend introduce
00:44:25.540 us
00:44:26.040 and my friend
00:44:27.560 didn't want to
00:44:28.980 wait hold on
00:44:30.200 it's okay
00:44:30.500 you're you're out
00:44:31.360 surfing with a
00:44:31.840 girlfriend
00:44:32.080 no just by
00:44:33.460 myself
00:44:33.840 oh just
00:44:34.280 but you said
00:44:35.340 you had a
00:44:35.620 friend
00:44:35.940 oh well like
00:44:37.920 you know
00:44:38.680 surfing we
00:44:39.180 it's like
00:44:39.700 it's a community
00:44:40.180 you know each
00:44:40.500 other yeah
00:44:40.860 you see the same
00:44:41.940 people at the
00:44:42.560 same spots
00:44:43.040 and then I
00:44:43.480 noticed my
00:44:44.280 friend talking
00:44:45.060 to my husband
00:44:45.920 and I was
00:44:47.580 like hey
00:44:48.220 he's cute
00:44:49.480 make it happen
00:44:50.340 was your friend
00:44:51.100 a female friend
00:44:51.820 or male friend
00:44:52.340 male friend
00:44:52.920 male friend
00:44:53.540 there's not a lot
00:44:54.020 of females
00:44:54.820 yeah there's not
00:44:55.420 a lot of
00:44:55.660 female surfers
00:44:56.520 so he was
00:44:58.800 talking to
00:44:59.600 your now husband
00:45:00.640 and
00:45:01.640 well he didn't
00:45:02.200 want to
00:45:03.060 introduce us
00:45:03.740 he was like
00:45:04.300 trying to like
00:45:04.960 wait you're
00:45:05.900 my friend
00:45:06.620 my friend's like
00:45:07.160 you don't want
00:45:07.580 to date him
00:45:08.080 why is that
00:45:08.940 um I think
00:45:10.200 my friend
00:45:10.500 liked me
00:45:11.140 oh
00:45:12.440 yeah
00:45:14.680 but you didn't
00:45:15.180 like him
00:45:15.620 no
00:45:15.940 but you liked
00:45:16.780 his friend
00:45:17.140 yes
00:45:17.480 so he introduced
00:45:19.640 you anyways
00:45:20.160 though
00:45:20.400 no I was like
00:45:21.300 step aside
00:45:21.700 I got this
00:45:22.280 oh okay
00:45:22.920 okay so you
00:45:24.600 you paddled
00:45:25.480 up to him
00:45:26.100 we were all
00:45:26.760 hanging out
00:45:27.220 in the parking
00:45:27.760 lot
00:45:28.140 oh it was
00:45:28.700 after the surf
00:45:29.400 oh okay
00:45:30.100 yeah
00:45:30.260 but um
00:45:31.480 he's
00:45:31.920 he's surfed
00:45:33.140 in like
00:45:33.740 at sea street
00:45:34.240 for a very
00:45:35.000 long time
00:45:35.520 and I've
00:45:35.900 just never
00:45:36.560 really
00:45:36.980 had
00:45:37.940 the courage
00:45:38.620 longboarder
00:45:38.820 or shortboarder
00:45:39.480 well we're both
00:45:40.460 he grew up
00:45:41.440 shortboarding
00:45:41.940 and I turned
00:45:42.700 him to the
00:45:43.040 dark side
00:45:43.560 and he's a
00:45:43.920 longboarder
00:45:44.320 now
00:45:44.540 oh okay
00:45:45.800 all right
00:45:46.320 um uh
00:45:47.740 so yeah
00:45:48.280 twin fin
00:45:49.080 tri fin
00:45:49.520 he does it
00:45:50.740 all
00:45:51.020 me
00:45:52.300 yeah him
00:45:53.320 he serves
00:45:54.640 it all
00:45:54.880 he has a
00:45:55.240 fun little
00:45:55.580 like 5-8
00:45:56.480 fish
00:45:56.860 okay
00:45:57.280 that he likes
00:45:58.240 and then now
00:45:59.200 what's that
00:45:59.840 what's it called
00:46:00.460 kneeboarding
00:46:00.980 spoon
00:46:01.480 does he spoon
00:46:02.180 does he got a spoon
00:46:02.780 I mean
00:46:03.660 I spoon him
00:46:05.220 um
00:46:06.020 no he
00:46:07.960 actually he
00:46:09.020 boogie boards
00:46:10.060 sometimes
00:46:10.720 he's a
00:46:11.760 sometimes
00:46:12.520 only only when
00:46:13.400 it's like
00:46:13.800 like
00:46:14.240 he's a sponger
00:46:15.340 no no no no
00:46:16.040 damn bro
00:46:17.020 you gotta
00:46:17.300 you gotta divorce
00:46:18.140 this guy
00:46:18.560 I'm sorry
00:46:19.000 listen though
00:46:20.720 only when it's
00:46:21.760 like insane
00:46:22.760 barreling
00:46:23.300 you can't fit
00:46:24.040 into the barrel
00:46:24.640 standing up
00:46:25.360 on a board
00:46:25.840 he'll pull in
00:46:26.780 with a sponge
00:46:27.440 and
00:46:28.460 okay
00:46:29.460 like that's
00:46:30.340 the only time
00:46:31.060 he'll be on
00:46:31.780 a boogie board
00:46:32.200 wait what's that
00:46:33.580 wet uh
00:46:34.480 like the wedge
00:46:35.160 does he ever
00:46:35.640 surf the wedge
00:46:36.280 is that
00:46:37.360 San Clemente
00:46:38.860 that's Newport
00:46:39.460 Newport
00:46:40.180 because like
00:46:41.120 that's
00:46:41.560 you don't want
00:46:42.040 to really
00:46:42.360 I mean
00:46:42.800 you can surf it
00:46:43.640 but it's mostly
00:46:44.760 like spongers
00:46:45.540 I don't know if he
00:46:45.780 has surfed there
00:46:46.800 boogie boarded there
00:46:48.040 okay
00:46:48.380 we don't really
00:46:49.300 like
00:46:49.460 but he'll go out
00:46:50.140 he'll sponge
00:46:50.780 like on just a big
00:46:51.560 day where
00:46:51.980 okay
00:46:52.400 yeah
00:46:52.960 so
00:46:54.080 what was your
00:46:55.440 opening line
00:46:56.000 um
00:46:57.240 actually
00:46:59.100 okay
00:46:59.560 so let me
00:47:01.580 so we meet
00:47:02.280 in the parking lot
00:47:03.040 I don't really
00:47:03.560 like try to do
00:47:04.540 I'm just like
00:47:05.040 hi
00:47:05.300 introduce myself
00:47:06.560 and it turns out
00:47:07.360 that we lived
00:47:08.100 on the same street
00:47:09.480 and we
00:47:10.780 the street that we
00:47:11.620 lived on
00:47:11.920 had an HOA
00:47:12.640 and him and his
00:47:13.540 buddy
00:47:13.820 are fishermen too
00:47:15.340 so they had
00:47:15.940 a boat in the
00:47:16.800 driveway
00:47:17.020 they would always
00:47:17.580 get yelled at
00:47:18.140 and there was
00:47:18.460 like drama
00:47:18.860 in the HOA
00:47:19.600 like these guys
00:47:20.920 always have their
00:47:21.500 boat in the yard
00:47:22.000 and so I drove by
00:47:23.100 and I screamed
00:47:23.660 out the window
00:47:24.180 like get that boat
00:47:25.320 off the driveway
00:47:26.040 and it freaked
00:47:27.080 him out
00:47:27.440 and I felt bad
00:47:28.240 so I just went
00:47:29.020 back around
00:47:29.560 and I was like
00:47:30.060 hey I'm just
00:47:30.540 kidding
00:47:30.820 let's uh
00:47:32.080 go surf
00:47:32.580 that was a joke
00:47:33.360 and I was like
00:47:34.440 can I get your
00:47:34.840 digits
00:47:35.240 all right
00:47:37.060 and the rest
00:47:37.680 is history
00:47:38.220 yeah
00:47:38.740 and your friend
00:47:40.300 tried to warn
00:47:40.980 you off of him
00:47:41.680 though
00:47:41.880 yeah
00:47:42.300 how so
00:47:43.540 said that
00:47:45.760 he's like
00:47:46.320 does drugs
00:47:47.540 and stuff like
00:47:48.100 that
00:47:48.560 does he
00:47:50.460 did he
00:47:51.260 not at that
00:47:52.380 time no
00:47:52.940 it's furthest
00:47:53.460 from the truth
00:47:54.080 okay
00:47:54.640 yeah
00:47:54.960 he's a very
00:47:55.820 good man
00:47:56.520 okay
00:47:57.600 good times
00:47:58.680 good times
00:47:59.420 and uh
00:48:00.700 well Rachel
00:48:01.700 what about you
00:48:02.240 well I've been
00:48:03.420 married to the
00:48:04.340 most based
00:48:05.320 handsome Chad
00:48:06.260 of all time
00:48:07.160 for over a
00:48:08.260 decade now
00:48:08.980 uh definitely
00:48:09.980 my longest
00:48:10.580 relationship
00:48:11.160 17 years
00:48:12.940 now
00:48:13.420 he's been the
00:48:14.340 guy for me
00:48:15.060 so
00:48:15.340 all right
00:48:15.620 yeah
00:48:16.200 and uh
00:48:17.640 you guys have
00:48:19.180 uh some kids
00:48:20.220 what about you
00:48:20.700 do you guys
00:48:21.020 have kids
00:48:21.860 no not yet
00:48:22.800 planning to though
00:48:23.600 we're thinking
00:48:24.140 about it
00:48:24.680 thinking about it
00:48:25.480 thinking about it
00:48:27.400 thinking about it
00:48:28.220 does he want
00:48:28.620 kids
00:48:28.940 um
00:48:29.680 you're 32
00:48:30.400 right
00:48:30.760 yeah
00:48:31.100 he
00:48:32.120 yeah
00:48:32.780 tick tock
00:48:33.780 yeah we're
00:48:34.360 we are talking
00:48:36.060 about it
00:48:36.520 he's
00:48:36.860 he has a lot
00:48:37.960 of hobbies
00:48:38.440 that keep
00:48:38.980 him like
00:48:39.720 very occupied
00:48:40.360 and
00:48:40.860 I also
00:48:42.100 enjoy hobbies
00:48:43.280 and it's tough
00:48:44.080 to do with kids
00:48:44.980 definitely
00:48:45.700 well I mean
00:48:46.300 with surfing
00:48:47.100 too
00:48:47.460 I mean
00:48:47.860 that's kind
00:48:48.360 of like
00:48:48.800 especially if
00:48:50.140 that's your
00:48:50.440 passion
00:48:50.780 if you have
00:48:51.300 kids
00:48:51.640 that's gonna
00:48:52.080 complicate
00:48:52.680 absolutely
00:48:53.520 the whole
00:48:53.760 surfing thing
00:48:54.380 so
00:48:54.720 I kind of
00:48:56.120 I kind of
00:48:56.620 get that
00:48:57.280 um
00:48:57.720 is he
00:48:58.080 is he a
00:48:58.580 professional
00:48:58.900 surfer
00:48:59.340 or
00:48:59.700 um
00:49:00.320 he's not
00:49:01.220 I am
00:49:02.240 but he
00:49:03.120 is
00:49:03.960 obsessed
00:49:05.000 with fishing
00:49:05.840 that is his
00:49:06.860 first love
00:49:07.340 and I think
00:49:07.720 I'm his second
00:49:08.300 okay
00:49:09.680 uh
00:49:10.640 kids
00:49:11.100 no kids
00:49:12.180 currently
00:49:12.500 no
00:49:12.820 planning to
00:49:13.620 definitely
00:49:14.380 do you know
00:49:15.320 how many you
00:49:15.740 want
00:49:15.980 um
00:49:17.140 an even
00:49:18.540 number
00:49:18.860 probably four
00:49:19.460 we'll see
00:49:20.420 whatever god
00:49:21.120 gives me
00:49:21.580 okay
00:49:22.140 all right
00:49:23.640 cool
00:49:24.420 sorry guys
00:49:24.900 I'm getting
00:49:25.600 a text from
00:49:26.140 Madison here
00:49:26.740 all right
00:49:27.680 so
00:49:28.100 we're gonna
00:49:28.840 read a couple
00:49:29.220 chats here
00:49:29.840 then we'll
00:49:30.160 get into
00:49:30.600 some topics
00:49:31.360 uh
00:49:32.540 pull that
00:49:33.180 back up
00:49:33.580 Nick
00:49:33.760 I'll read
00:49:34.140 it
00:49:34.380 actually
00:49:35.860 let's have
00:49:36.200 the opera
00:49:36.620 singer read
00:49:37.360 it
00:49:37.500 go ahead
00:49:37.840 uh
00:49:39.300 just got
00:49:39.900 out of the
00:49:40.260 mines
00:49:40.580 and used
00:49:41.000 my hard
00:49:41.420 earned
00:49:41.660 money
00:49:41.920 to tell
00:49:42.260 the
00:49:42.440 strumpets
00:49:42.860 to stop
00:49:43.240 strumpeting
00:49:43.640 around
00:49:44.020 Jesus
00:49:44.360 can and
00:49:44.880 will
00:49:45.100 forgive
00:49:45.520 all
00:49:45.760 strumpet
00:49:46.160 actions
00:49:46.600 the
00:49:47.100 spiritual
00:49:47.420 warfare
00:49:47.840 is very
00:49:48.280 real
00:49:48.520 protect
00:49:48.840 your heart
00:49:49.400 there are
00:49:49.760 very real
00:49:50.600 consequences
00:49:51.200 to being
00:49:51.540 a
00:49:51.680 strumpet
00:49:52.100 lol
00:49:52.900 lol
00:49:53.740 lol
00:49:53.900 yo
00:49:54.640 yes
00:49:55.080 thank you
00:49:55.420 man
00:49:55.540 appreciate
00:49:55.860 it
00:49:56.240 um
00:49:56.640 appreciate
00:49:56.980 you helping
00:49:57.960 me
00:49:58.180 repopularize
00:49:59.100 the term
00:49:59.540 strumpet
00:50:00.180 it is
00:50:00.760 a war
00:50:01.760 effort
00:50:02.120 so I
00:50:02.660 thank you
00:50:02.880 for the
00:50:03.020 soup chat
00:50:03.340 man
00:50:03.500 really
00:50:03.700 appreciate
00:50:04.040 your
00:50:04.180 patronage
00:50:04.680 uh
00:50:05.660 what is
00:50:06.360 that
00:50:06.520 working
00:50:06.940 hard
00:50:07.280 he got
00:50:07.640 out of
00:50:07.840 the
00:50:08.020 mines
00:50:08.600 the
00:50:10.120 mines
00:50:10.720 damn
00:50:11.360 what are
00:50:11.580 you
00:50:11.660 what are
00:50:11.900 you
00:50:12.000 mining
00:50:12.320 dude
00:50:12.720 gold
00:50:13.760 diamonds
00:50:14.380 bitcoin
00:50:15.120 and then
00:50:19.120 we have
00:50:19.340 anthony
00:50:19.660 thomas
00:50:20.000 hey all
00:50:20.320 long time
00:50:20.660 viewer of
00:50:20.940 the pod
00:50:21.240 to miss
00:50:21.820 a few
00:50:22.640 abortions
00:50:23.280 unless
00:50:24.620 childbirth
00:50:25.140 was life
00:50:25.540 threatening
00:50:25.840 which I
00:50:26.220 doubt
00:50:26.460 what could
00:50:26.920 possibly
00:50:27.360 make you
00:50:27.840 have to
00:50:28.480 end
00:50:28.700 life
00:50:29.000 grab
00:50:29.740 your
00:50:30.140 popcorn
00:50:30.640 folks
00:50:31.060 uh
00:50:31.460 if you
00:50:31.760 want to
00:50:32.060 respond to
00:50:32.720 that
00:50:32.880 you're
00:50:33.080 welcome
00:50:33.280 to
00:50:33.500 um
00:50:34.340 actually
00:50:34.700 I was
00:50:35.080 born
00:50:35.360 with a
00:50:36.040 heart
00:50:36.240 murmur
00:50:36.600 so
00:50:37.320 you know
00:50:38.640 people don't
00:50:39.600 know everything
00:50:40.100 but
00:50:40.500 word
00:50:41.060 wait I'm
00:50:42.280 a little
00:50:42.440 confused
00:50:42.760 though
00:50:43.120 you were
00:50:44.460 born with
00:50:44.820 heart
00:50:45.060 murmur
00:50:45.480 your point
00:50:48.180 it could
00:50:49.100 have been
00:50:49.400 life
00:50:49.860 threatening
00:50:50.240 if
00:50:50.580 because
00:50:51.040 there's
00:50:51.460 a lot
00:50:51.720 of
00:50:51.960 things
00:50:52.680 that
00:50:52.900 can
00:50:53.040 happen
00:50:53.380 during
00:50:53.920 childbirth
00:50:54.580 but
00:50:54.880 also
00:50:55.320 just
00:50:55.760 the
00:50:55.920 fact
00:50:56.120 that
00:50:56.320 I
00:50:56.480 was
00:50:56.700 forced
00:50:57.980 to
00:50:58.360 so
00:50:59.240 forced
00:51:00.680 to
00:51:01.000 like
00:51:01.280 by the
00:51:01.700 guy
00:51:02.020 or
00:51:02.380 yeah
00:51:02.840 well how
00:51:03.920 did he
00:51:04.220 force
00:51:04.780 you
00:51:05.060 he
00:51:05.360 just
00:51:05.880 didn't
00:51:06.220 want
00:51:06.600 me
00:51:07.340 to
00:51:07.440 have
00:51:07.560 kids
00:51:08.060 with
00:51:08.900 him
00:51:09.220 and
00:51:09.600 he
00:51:09.780 just
00:51:10.060 was
00:51:10.340 screaming
00:51:10.780 at
00:51:11.200 me
00:51:11.540 and
00:51:12.000 basically
00:51:13.600 like
00:51:14.240 every
00:51:14.500 time
00:51:14.740 just
00:51:15.000 drove
00:51:15.340 me
00:51:15.500 there
00:51:15.780 I
00:51:16.300 even
00:51:16.760 like
00:51:17.000 the
00:51:17.160 last
00:51:17.380 one
00:51:17.520 I
00:51:17.620 like
00:51:17.780 tried
00:51:18.040 to
00:51:18.240 just
00:51:18.460 keep
00:51:18.720 it
00:51:18.900 like
00:51:19.140 a
00:51:19.400 secret
00:51:19.720 but
00:51:20.080 I
00:51:20.300 couldn't
00:51:21.160 and
00:51:21.680 then
00:51:21.840 you
00:51:22.040 got
00:51:22.340 back
00:51:22.720 with
00:51:23.020 this
00:51:23.240 guy
00:51:23.540 even
00:51:23.860 after
00:51:24.100 that
00:51:24.520 yeah
00:51:25.180 oh
00:51:25.880 girl
00:51:26.300 why
00:51:28.360 I
00:51:29.860 couldn't
00:51:30.180 give
00:51:30.380 you a
00:51:30.760 real
00:51:31.100 reason
00:51:32.060 that
00:51:32.260 makes
00:51:32.500 sense
00:51:32.840 yeah
00:51:33.540 why
00:51:35.040 didn't
00:51:35.240 you
00:51:35.360 decide
00:51:35.660 to
00:51:35.820 just
00:51:35.980 stop
00:51:36.200 telling
00:51:36.460 him
00:51:36.720 if
00:51:37.100 he
00:51:37.220 was
00:51:37.420 like
00:51:37.740 like
00:51:38.380 why
00:51:39.120 didn't
00:51:39.280 you
00:51:39.400 decide
00:51:39.840 I
00:51:40.320 don't
00:51:40.480 need
00:51:40.640 to
00:51:40.760 tell
00:51:40.960 him
00:51:41.200 I
00:51:41.380 can
00:51:41.660 get
00:51:42.880 my
00:51:43.080 resources
00:51:43.480 and
00:51:43.900 raise
00:51:44.120 this
00:51:44.300 baby
00:51:44.680 at
00:51:45.320 one
00:51:45.480 point
00:51:45.640 we
00:51:45.800 were
00:51:45.940 living
00:51:46.420 together
00:51:46.860 my
00:51:49.320 body
00:51:49.680 is
00:51:49.820 like
00:51:49.960 very
00:51:50.240 sensitive
00:51:50.740 so
00:51:51.120 it was
00:51:51.340 like
00:51:51.620 at
00:51:52.560 that
00:51:52.780 point
00:51:52.960 it was
00:51:53.240 like
00:51:53.460 we
00:51:53.940 just
00:51:54.160 both
00:51:54.620 knew
00:51:54.880 like
00:51:55.120 something's
00:51:55.640 up
00:51:55.860 do
00:51:56.700 you
00:51:56.780 not
00:51:56.900 have
00:51:57.040 family
00:51:57.340 that
00:51:57.540 can
00:51:57.700 help
00:51:57.940 you
00:51:58.180 or
00:51:58.420 that
00:51:58.580 you
00:51:58.700 can
00:51:58.840 move
00:51:59.020 in
00:51:59.140 with
00:51:59.360 um
00:52:00.420 I
00:52:01.320 mean
00:52:01.520 I
00:52:01.840 stay
00:52:02.360 well
00:52:02.880 actually
00:52:03.280 we
00:52:03.560 stay
00:52:03.920 together
00:52:04.200 now
00:52:04.480 but
00:52:04.800 at
00:52:06.420 that
00:52:06.660 point
00:52:06.860 it
00:52:07.000 was
00:52:07.180 like
00:52:07.500 no
00:52:08.200 and
00:52:08.400 then
00:52:08.660 my
00:52:09.860 family's
00:52:10.300 not
00:52:10.480 like
00:52:10.640 the
00:52:10.780 most
00:52:10.980 financially
00:52:11.560 stable
00:52:12.080 people
00:52:12.980 and my
00:52:13.260 mom
00:52:13.460 is
00:52:13.600 also
00:52:13.780 the
00:52:13.920 type
00:52:14.040 of
00:52:14.120 person
00:52:14.260 she's
00:52:14.480 like
00:52:14.580 if
00:52:14.720 you
00:52:14.860 bring
00:52:15.120 a
00:52:15.440 child
00:52:15.820 home
00:52:16.080 you
00:52:16.460 are
00:52:16.760 definitely
00:52:17.140 taking care
00:52:17.880 of it
00:52:18.100 it's
00:52:18.220 not
00:52:18.460 the
00:52:19.560 village
00:52:20.000 or
00:52:20.160 whatever
00:52:20.420 she's
00:52:20.860 like
00:52:21.020 I'm
00:52:21.280 not
00:52:21.540 doing
00:52:22.380 none
00:52:22.620 of that
00:52:22.900 especially
00:52:23.740 if I'm
00:52:24.420 not
00:52:24.760 stable
00:52:25.940 myself
00:52:26.880 yet
00:52:27.400 she's
00:52:27.900 like
00:52:28.040 absolutely
00:52:28.400 not
00:52:28.720 she
00:52:29.920 would
00:52:30.160 she
00:52:30.500 she kicked
00:52:31.380 me out
00:52:31.600 at 17
00:52:32.060 so
00:52:32.480 yeah
00:52:33.200 word
00:52:36.080 did you
00:52:37.000 have
00:52:37.200 a follow
00:52:37.760 up
00:52:37.940 on that
00:52:38.260 Rachel
00:52:38.520 well
00:52:38.840 I
00:52:39.060 actually
00:52:39.380 had
00:52:39.540 a
00:52:39.660 really
00:52:39.860 similar
00:52:40.420 thing
00:52:40.800 my
00:52:41.020 mother
00:52:41.300 is
00:52:41.540 completely
00:52:41.940 uninvolved
00:52:42.520 wants
00:52:42.700 nothing
00:52:42.980 to do
00:52:43.240 with
00:52:43.380 being
00:52:43.540 a
00:52:43.660 mother
00:52:43.820 or
00:52:44.080 a
00:52:44.220 grandmother
00:52:44.620 my
00:52:47.240 parents
00:52:48.560 were like
00:52:49.120 nope
00:52:49.560 nope
00:52:50.000 we're
00:52:50.360 not
00:52:50.520 helping
00:52:50.880 if
00:52:51.200 you
00:52:51.320 have
00:52:51.480 kids
00:52:51.920 it's
00:52:52.060 on
00:52:52.160 your
00:52:52.260 own
00:52:52.400 but
00:52:52.640 I
00:52:52.900 have
00:52:53.040 five
00:52:53.340 so
00:52:53.800 and
00:52:54.820 it
00:52:54.940 wasn't
00:52:55.180 always
00:52:55.400 easy
00:52:55.760 but
00:52:56.260 if
00:52:58.380 you
00:52:58.600 want
00:52:58.960 to
00:52:59.200 you
00:52:59.420 can
00:52:59.680 do
00:53:00.000 it
00:53:00.380 but
00:53:01.440 it's
00:53:01.980 I
00:53:02.440 kind
00:53:02.800 of
00:53:02.940 wonder
00:53:03.180 why
00:53:03.460 so
00:53:03.700 many
00:53:03.940 girls
00:53:04.280 are
00:53:04.480 willing
00:53:04.740 to
00:53:05.160 do
00:53:05.640 the
00:53:05.800 thing
00:53:05.960 that
00:53:06.100 makes
00:53:06.300 babies
00:53:06.740 with
00:53:06.960 guys
00:53:07.440 that
00:53:08.040 and
00:53:09.040 repeatedly
00:53:09.660 the guy
00:53:10.040 doesn't
00:53:10.320 want
00:53:10.520 babies
00:53:10.920 like
00:53:11.440 yeah
00:53:12.920 honestly
00:53:14.000 I
00:53:14.320 really
00:53:15.220 can't
00:53:16.220 give
00:53:16.680 a straight
00:53:18.040 answer
00:53:18.420 for that
00:53:18.900 I feel
00:53:19.420 like
00:53:19.860 before
00:53:24.060 I got
00:53:24.920 involved
00:53:25.360 with this
00:53:25.800 person
00:53:26.360 my ex
00:53:27.480 passed
00:53:27.900 away
00:53:28.260 so
00:53:29.420 I
00:53:30.000 kind
00:53:30.380 of
00:53:30.640 when
00:53:30.980 I
00:53:31.100 met
00:53:31.300 him
00:53:31.520 a few
00:53:31.880 months
00:53:32.120 after
00:53:32.520 that
00:53:32.880 I
00:53:33.100 probably
00:53:33.320 should
00:53:33.500 have
00:53:33.600 taken
00:53:33.800 more
00:53:34.040 time
00:53:34.320 to
00:53:34.580 grieve
00:53:35.380 I
00:53:35.560 feel
00:53:35.720 like
00:53:35.840 I
00:53:35.960 never
00:53:36.260 allowed
00:53:37.020 myself
00:53:37.380 to
00:53:37.560 grieve
00:53:37.720 I
00:53:37.860 don't
00:53:38.080 really
00:53:38.320 handle
00:53:38.680 that
00:53:38.940 stuff
00:53:39.240 well
00:53:39.520 I
00:53:39.680 kind
00:53:39.900 of
00:53:40.020 just
00:53:40.260 put
00:53:40.960 everything
00:53:41.420 on
00:53:41.780 the
00:53:41.920 back
00:53:42.180 burner
00:53:42.620 when
00:53:42.880 it
00:53:43.020 comes
00:53:43.280 to
00:53:43.600 emotions
00:53:44.220 and
00:53:44.540 things
00:53:44.840 until
00:53:45.220 I
00:53:45.700 do
00:53:46.120 blow
00:53:46.360 up
00:53:46.620 which
00:53:47.440 is
00:53:47.580 not
00:53:47.780 healthy
00:53:48.160 and
00:53:48.420 I
00:53:48.520 am
00:53:48.660 aware
00:53:48.920 of
00:53:49.060 that
00:53:49.280 but
00:53:49.600 I
00:53:51.840 feel
00:53:52.040 like
00:53:52.160 I
00:53:52.300 just
00:53:52.540 latched
00:53:52.960 on
00:53:53.400 to
00:53:53.520 him
00:53:53.700 and
00:53:53.820 I
00:53:53.960 felt
00:53:54.160 like
00:53:54.360 I
00:53:54.520 needed
00:53:54.880 him
00:53:55.180 at
00:53:55.960 a
00:53:56.100 certain
00:53:56.260 point
00:53:56.560 and
00:53:56.760 I
00:53:56.900 still
00:53:57.200 feel
00:53:57.500 like
00:53:57.780 sometimes
00:53:59.220 I
00:53:59.920 if I'm
00:54:01.040 being
00:54:01.240 honest
00:54:01.740 with
00:54:02.020 myself
00:54:02.520 I
00:54:03.320 do
00:54:03.540 feel
00:54:03.960 that
00:54:04.420 I
00:54:05.040 need
00:54:05.580 him
00:54:05.740 in
00:54:05.920 certain
00:54:06.260 aspects
00:54:06.660 of my
00:54:06.840 life
00:54:07.000 really
00:54:07.400 I
00:54:08.160 don't
00:54:08.720 but
00:54:09.040 my
00:54:10.680 I
00:54:12.400 do
00:54:12.800 well
00:54:13.620 I
00:54:13.700 think
00:54:13.860 you
00:54:13.980 probably
00:54:14.300 really
00:54:14.680 do
00:54:15.200 need
00:54:15.920 and
00:54:16.180 benefit
00:54:16.500 from
00:54:16.840 having
00:54:17.280 like
00:54:17.540 a
00:54:17.720 strong
00:54:18.080 good
00:54:18.440 man
00:54:18.940 who
00:54:19.100 can
00:54:19.240 lead
00:54:19.440 you
00:54:19.560 in
00:54:19.680 your
00:54:19.800 life
00:54:20.100 but
00:54:20.380 this
00:54:20.880 doesn't
00:54:21.100 sound
00:54:21.280 like
00:54:21.500 that
00:54:21.740 yeah
00:54:22.020 so
00:54:22.540 like
00:54:22.760 when
00:54:22.940 you're
00:54:23.160 dating
00:54:23.580 or
00:54:24.020 when
00:54:24.200 you're
00:54:24.380 choosing
00:54:24.680 a
00:54:24.880 guy
00:54:25.120 like
00:54:25.380 what
00:54:25.820 are
00:54:26.380 you
00:54:26.560 thinking
00:54:26.860 about
00:54:27.200 marrying
00:54:27.720 somebody
00:54:28.380 who's
00:54:28.720 gonna
00:54:28.900 like
00:54:29.120 be
00:54:29.300 there
00:54:29.500 through
00:54:29.700 thick
00:54:29.900 and
00:54:30.080 thin
00:54:30.340 and
00:54:30.540 take
00:54:30.740 care
00:54:30.880 of
00:54:30.960 you
00:54:31.020 no
00:54:31.140 matter
00:54:31.340 what
00:54:31.800 are
00:54:31.940 you
00:54:32.060 just
00:54:32.220 kind
00:54:32.400 of
00:54:32.480 going
00:54:32.660 for
00:54:32.840 whoever's
00:54:33.280 cute
00:54:33.440 and funny
00:54:33.920 or like
00:54:34.880 what
00:54:35.680 what are
00:54:35.980 you
00:54:36.100 thinking
00:54:36.340 of
00:54:36.560 when
00:54:36.720 you're
00:54:36.920 choosing
00:54:37.260 a
00:54:37.700 guy
00:54:38.000 I
00:54:39.200 feel
00:54:39.440 like
00:54:39.600 right
00:54:39.880 now
00:54:40.320 I
00:54:41.640 just
00:54:41.960 haven't
00:54:42.360 been
00:54:42.500 making
00:54:42.820 like
00:54:43.240 good
00:54:43.400 decisions
00:54:43.780 when
00:54:44.140 I'm
00:54:44.400 thinking
00:54:44.760 about
00:54:45.080 choosing
00:54:45.480 men
00:54:47.140 obviously
00:54:48.340 but I
00:54:48.980 feel like
00:54:49.540 for the
00:54:50.140 future
00:54:50.440 I do
00:54:51.100 want to
00:54:52.260 get married
00:54:52.680 and have
00:54:53.160 kids
00:54:53.620 and stuff
00:54:54.660 like that
00:54:55.060 but
00:54:55.320 I just
00:54:56.360 feel like
00:54:56.920 I
00:54:58.780 this
00:54:59.700 generation
00:55:00.140 is so
00:55:00.640 like
00:55:00.920 messed
00:55:01.220 up
00:55:01.540 and
00:55:01.740 I
00:55:01.960 feel
00:55:02.180 like
00:55:02.360 I
00:55:02.540 could
00:55:03.880 just
00:55:04.220 have
00:55:04.980 stayed
00:55:05.380 true
00:55:05.900 to
00:55:06.320 me
00:55:06.980 and
00:55:08.220 not
00:55:09.260 fed
00:55:09.600 into
00:55:09.980 all
00:55:10.280 of
00:55:10.440 the
00:55:10.580 toxicity
00:55:11.140 but
00:55:11.800 I
00:55:12.220 feel
00:55:12.560 like
00:55:12.860 I
00:55:13.680 allowed
00:55:14.220 it
00:55:14.700 and
00:55:15.160 have
00:55:15.540 continuously
00:55:16.600 been
00:55:16.920 allowing
00:55:17.320 it
00:55:17.540 to
00:55:17.740 mold
00:55:18.020 me
00:55:18.260 into
00:55:18.620 someone
00:55:19.980 else
00:55:20.300 but
00:55:20.460 also
00:55:20.660 I
00:55:20.840 want
00:55:21.120 to
00:55:21.280 add
00:55:21.580 that
00:55:21.900 my
00:55:22.880 mom
00:55:23.140 still
00:55:23.440 is
00:55:23.680 a
00:55:23.800 good
00:55:23.960 mother
00:55:24.260 I
00:55:24.760 love
00:55:25.020 her
00:55:25.280 we
00:55:26.440 were
00:55:26.580 just
00:55:26.780 going
00:55:27.000 through
00:55:27.200 a lot
00:55:27.460 when
00:55:27.620 I
00:55:27.740 was
00:55:28.020 younger
00:55:29.000 I
00:55:29.220 was
00:55:29.380 very
00:55:29.600 rebellious
00:55:30.260 but
00:55:31.040 that's
00:55:31.280 my
00:55:31.460 best
00:55:31.700 friend
00:55:31.920 that
00:55:32.700 makes
00:55:32.920 sense
00:55:33.160 I
00:55:33.300 was
00:55:33.420 going
00:55:33.560 to
00:55:33.660 ask
00:55:33.920 actually
00:55:34.360 when
00:55:34.600 you
00:55:34.700 say
00:55:34.840 you
00:55:34.940 were
00:55:35.060 rebellious
00:55:35.660 do you
00:55:35.920 feel
00:55:36.160 like
00:55:36.540 you
00:55:37.240 end
00:55:37.380 up
00:55:37.520 with
00:55:37.640 these
00:55:37.820 guys
00:55:38.140 because
00:55:38.440 part
00:55:38.840 of
00:55:38.940 you
00:55:39.020 is
00:55:39.140 trying
00:55:39.300 to
00:55:39.420 do
00:55:39.520 the
00:55:39.660 strong
00:55:39.980 independent
00:55:40.460 woman
00:55:40.800 thing
00:55:41.120 like
00:55:41.300 I
00:55:41.400 don't
00:55:41.540 need
00:55:41.700 a
00:55:41.820 man
00:55:41.960 I
00:55:42.080 can
00:55:42.180 do
00:55:42.300 it
00:55:42.400 myself
00:55:42.840 but
00:55:43.300 at
00:55:43.460 the
00:55:43.660 same
00:55:44.020 time
00:55:44.600 you
00:55:44.840 want
00:55:45.200 somebody
00:55:45.740 so
00:55:46.060 you
00:55:46.180 end
00:55:46.380 up
00:55:46.520 with
00:55:46.660 a
00:55:46.800 guy
00:55:47.200 who
00:55:47.560 is
00:55:48.320 okay
00:55:48.680 with
00:55:48.880 you
00:55:49.000 being
00:55:49.240 strong
00:55:49.600 independent
00:55:49.980 single
00:55:50.300 woman
00:55:50.620 who
00:55:50.900 also
00:55:51.220 turns
00:55:51.640 out
00:55:51.820 to be
00:55:52.040 the
00:55:52.180 kind
00:55:52.340 of
00:55:52.440 guy
00:55:52.660 who's
00:55:52.980 going
00:55:53.260 to
00:55:53.680 freak
00:55:54.380 out
00:55:54.580 if
00:55:54.680 you
00:55:54.780 get
00:55:54.920 pregnant
00:55:55.240 and
00:55:55.400 not
00:55:55.560 want
00:55:55.780 to
00:55:56.120 commit
00:55:56.440 and
00:55:56.620 all
00:55:56.740 that
00:55:57.020 I
00:55:57.940 feel
00:55:58.140 like
00:55:58.300 you
00:55:58.400 have
00:55:58.640 a
00:55:58.820 really
00:55:59.000 good
00:55:59.220 point
00:55:59.660 there
00:56:00.240 I
00:56:00.440 don't
00:56:01.040 feel
00:56:01.320 like
00:56:01.480 I
00:56:01.580 ever
00:56:01.780 thought
00:56:02.260 of
00:56:02.420 it
00:56:02.620 like
00:56:03.040 that
00:56:03.360 yeah
00:56:05.540 because
00:56:06.000 even
00:56:06.920 when I
00:56:07.160 was
00:56:07.300 being
00:56:08.040 very
00:56:08.320 rebellious
00:56:08.780 I
00:56:08.920 was
00:56:09.040 just
00:56:09.180 always
00:56:09.500 I
00:56:09.920 just
00:56:10.080 don't
00:56:10.280 like
00:56:10.540 rules
00:56:11.000 I
00:56:11.200 guess
00:56:18.880 well
00:56:24.160 let's
00:56:24.420 see
00:56:24.540 that's
00:56:24.860 the
00:56:24.980 thing
00:56:25.340 if
00:56:25.740 you
00:56:26.280 want
00:56:26.940 the
00:56:27.120 kind
00:56:27.340 of
00:56:27.440 guy
00:56:27.620 who's
00:56:27.840 going
00:56:27.940 to
00:56:28.000 handle
00:56:28.200 business
00:56:28.700 he
00:56:29.300 can't
00:56:29.680 also
00:56:30.020 be
00:56:30.220 the
00:56:30.380 same
00:56:30.560 kind
00:56:30.760 of
00:56:30.840 guy
00:56:31.100 that's
00:56:31.380 going
00:56:31.480 to
00:56:31.580 constantly
00:56:31.920 let
00:56:32.400 you
00:56:32.580 step
00:56:32.920 on
00:56:33.080 his
00:56:33.220 dick
00:56:33.480 literally
00:56:34.620 dick
00:56:35.040 stepping
00:56:35.520 yeah
00:56:37.860 she
00:56:38.500 can tell
00:56:38.820 you
00:56:38.980 I'm
00:56:40.060 kind
00:56:40.340 of
00:56:40.420 I'm
00:56:40.560 holding
00:56:40.720 my
00:56:40.920 tongue
00:56:41.100 guys
00:56:41.380 it's
00:56:41.540 not
00:56:41.640 my
00:56:41.780 story
00:56:42.000 throw
00:56:44.140 her
00:56:44.340 under
00:56:44.520 the
00:56:44.660 bus
00:56:44.760 listen
00:56:46.700 I
00:56:47.160 can't
00:56:47.440 talk
00:56:47.580 because
00:56:47.740 my
00:56:47.980 must
00:56:48.780 be
00:56:48.960 kind
00:56:49.180 of
00:56:49.260 messed
00:56:49.480 up
00:56:49.700 too
00:56:49.880 but
00:56:50.220 I
00:56:50.680 will
00:56:50.780 say
00:56:50.920 I'm
00:56:51.120 four
00:56:51.800 years
00:56:52.040 older
00:56:52.360 and
00:56:52.860 to
00:56:53.040 experience
00:56:53.620 the
00:56:54.540 things
00:56:54.740 that
00:56:54.880 she
00:56:54.980 goes
00:56:55.180 through
00:56:55.420 I'm
00:56:55.760 like
00:56:56.080 you're
00:56:58.000 just
00:56:58.140 young
00:56:58.500 but
00:56:59.340 I
00:57:00.660 feel
00:57:00.800 like
00:57:00.920 you
00:57:01.020 really
00:57:01.160 do
00:57:01.320 need
00:57:01.500 to
00:57:01.780 understand
00:57:02.160 that
00:57:02.320 you
00:57:02.420 deserve
00:57:02.700 better
00:57:03.020 and
00:57:03.380 stop
00:57:03.620 being
00:57:03.760 comfortable
00:57:04.080 because
00:57:04.320 at
00:57:04.440 the
00:57:04.520 end
00:57:04.580 of
00:57:04.660 the
00:57:04.740 day
00:57:04.920 it's
00:57:05.140 just
00:57:05.240 being
00:57:05.380 comfortable
00:57:05.720 at
00:57:05.900 this
00:57:06.040 point
00:57:06.280 I
00:57:07.140 get
00:57:07.380 really
00:57:08.060 annoyed
00:57:08.440 with
00:57:08.740 the
00:57:08.960 you're
00:57:09.200 just
00:57:09.400 young
00:57:09.680 thing
00:57:10.080 because
00:57:11.180 you're
00:57:18.780 that's
00:57:18.940 the
00:57:19.160 best
00:57:19.720 accountability
00:57:21.880 I think
00:57:22.820 also
00:57:23.320 needs to
00:57:24.780 happen
00:57:25.060 as well
00:57:25.540 and
00:57:25.780 there's
00:57:26.280 a lot
00:57:26.480 of
00:57:26.580 people
00:57:26.760 who
00:57:26.940 are
00:57:27.100 young
00:57:27.460 what
00:57:27.960 I
00:57:28.080 will
00:57:28.260 say
00:57:28.560 is
00:57:28.900 that
00:57:29.260 coming
00:57:30.220 from
00:57:30.580 we
00:57:30.800 don't
00:57:31.000 exactly
00:57:31.340 come
00:57:31.500 from
00:57:31.640 the
00:57:31.760 same
00:57:31.920 place
00:57:32.280 but
00:57:32.600 I
00:57:32.700 have
00:57:32.860 an
00:57:32.960 understanding
00:57:33.280 because
00:57:33.560 when
00:57:33.740 I
00:57:33.920 was
00:57:34.100 her
00:57:34.300 age
00:57:34.620 I
00:57:35.020 had
00:57:35.720 a
00:57:36.040 similar
00:57:36.240 mindset
00:57:36.580 so
00:57:36.860 for
00:57:37.020 me
00:57:37.140 it's
00:57:37.240 like
00:57:37.480 that's
00:57:37.720 how
00:57:37.800 I
00:57:37.900 thought
00:57:38.040 when
00:57:38.160 I
00:57:38.260 was
00:57:38.400 younger
00:57:38.660 so
00:57:39.260 I
00:57:39.360 give
00:57:40.140 her
00:57:40.260 grace
00:57:40.560 but
00:57:40.700 at
00:57:40.760 the
00:57:40.860 same
00:57:48.780 happen
00:57:49.200 I
00:57:50.040 mean
00:57:50.160 I
00:57:50.240 was
00:57:50.360 just
00:57:50.480 going
00:57:50.600 to
00:57:50.660 say
00:57:50.840 I
00:57:51.000 mean
00:57:51.160 we
00:57:52.200 are
00:57:52.420 definitely
00:57:52.680 allowed
00:57:52.920 to
00:57:53.060 make
00:57:53.200 mistakes
00:57:53.500 and
00:57:53.680 we
00:57:53.820 should
00:57:54.000 be
00:57:54.120 making
00:57:54.340 mistakes
00:57:54.720 but
00:57:54.940 yeah
00:57:55.100 we
00:57:55.240 need
00:57:55.400 to
00:57:55.500 have
00:57:55.700 that
00:57:56.080 awareness
00:57:57.200 as
00:57:58.380 we're
00:57:58.560 making
00:57:58.800 those
00:57:59.000 mistakes
00:57:59.420 and
00:58:00.040 then
00:58:00.200 that's
00:58:00.860 when
00:58:00.960 I
00:58:01.040 think
00:58:01.160 it's
00:58:01.300 okay
00:58:01.600 it's
00:58:02.280 if
00:58:02.600 we're
00:58:02.880 making
00:58:03.140 those
00:58:03.340 mistakes
00:58:03.800 and
00:58:04.380 repeating
00:58:04.720 those
00:58:04.940 mistakes
00:58:05.300 when
00:58:05.600 it
00:58:05.680 becomes
00:58:05.900 a
00:58:06.020 problem
00:58:06.400 yeah
00:58:07.000 repetition
00:58:07.480 builds
00:58:08.160 habits
00:58:08.780 whether
00:58:09.060 it's
00:58:09.380 healthy
00:58:09.840 or
00:58:10.140 not
00:58:10.720 so
00:58:11.120 word
00:58:11.720 can
00:58:18.780 and
00:58:19.580 no
00:58:20.780 because
00:58:21.280 I
00:58:21.760 am
00:58:22.020 not
00:58:22.260 I
00:58:22.800 don't
00:58:23.000 think
00:58:23.300 that
00:58:23.560 I
00:58:23.820 should
00:58:24.080 be
00:58:24.320 having
00:58:24.920 children
00:58:26.340 with
00:58:27.100 a man
00:58:28.440 that
00:58:28.660 doesn't
00:58:28.980 even
00:58:29.160 want
00:58:29.460 to
00:58:29.740 take
00:58:30.300 any
00:58:31.000 type
00:58:31.340 of
00:58:31.540 responsibility
00:58:32.260 I
00:58:32.960 would
00:58:33.140 like
00:58:33.420 to
00:58:33.640 be
00:58:33.860 in
00:58:34.040 a
00:58:34.160 household
00:58:34.400 with
00:58:34.680 you
00:58:35.180 know
00:58:35.340 the
00:58:36.180 healthy
00:58:36.660 family
00:58:37.200 dynamic
00:58:37.840 I
00:58:38.340 would
00:58:38.500 like
00:58:38.700 that
00:58:38.960 but
00:58:39.260 I
00:58:40.100 do
00:58:40.340 understand
00:58:40.820 that
00:58:41.160 people
00:58:42.000 have
00:58:42.400 their
00:58:43.320 beliefs
00:58:43.860 and
00:58:44.760 it
00:58:46.000 like
00:58:46.840 I
00:58:46.980 said
00:58:47.100 it
00:58:47.200 wasn't
00:58:47.360 really
00:58:47.540 something
00:58:47.760 that
00:58:47.960 I
00:58:48.060 wanted
00:58:48.280 to
00:58:48.620 do
00:58:49.020 but
00:58:49.460 I
00:58:51.180 had
00:58:51.980 to
00:58:52.200 and
00:58:52.520 I
00:58:52.720 regret
00:58:53.600 it
00:58:53.760 and
00:58:53.880 I
00:58:54.000 don't
00:58:55.220 basically
00:58:55.760 I
00:58:56.780 mean
00:58:57.200 I
00:58:57.360 definitely
00:58:57.660 agree
00:58:57.980 I
00:58:58.160 think
00:58:58.420 that
00:58:58.680 children
00:58:58.980 do
00:58:59.200 deserve
00:58:59.520 to
00:58:59.700 be
00:58:59.840 born
00:59:00.080 to
00:59:00.380 like
00:59:00.600 a
00:59:00.720 mother
00:59:00.900 and
00:59:01.060 a
00:59:01.160 father
00:59:01.420 who
00:59:01.640 love
00:59:01.860 them
00:59:02.160 and
00:59:02.420 will
00:59:02.600 give
00:59:02.880 them
00:59:03.060 everything
00:59:03.340 that
00:59:03.600 they
00:59:03.760 deserve
00:59:04.200 but
00:59:05.060 I
00:59:05.260 do
00:59:05.440 think
00:59:05.800 that
00:59:06.200 consequences
00:59:07.440 have
00:59:07.700 actions
00:59:08.140 and
00:59:08.340 I
00:59:08.440 believe
00:59:09.180 that
00:59:09.600 if
00:59:09.920 you're
00:59:10.100 having
00:59:10.360 sex
00:59:10.860 then
00:59:12.480 you
00:59:12.720 should
00:59:12.920 be
00:59:13.100 willing
00:59:13.340 to
00:59:13.540 accept
00:59:13.820 the
00:59:14.000 consequence
00:59:14.460 that
00:59:14.680 you
00:59:14.840 could
00:59:15.040 conceive
00:59:15.340 a
00:59:15.500 child
00:59:15.700 with
00:59:15.860 that
00:59:16.000 person
00:59:16.340 and
00:59:16.620 we
00:59:16.800 shouldn't
00:59:17.020 have
00:59:17.180 sex
00:59:17.420 with
00:59:17.560 people
00:59:17.740 we
00:59:17.880 don't
00:59:18.060 want
00:59:18.200 to
00:59:18.260 have
00:59:18.400 kids
00:59:18.640 with
00:59:18.900 yeah
00:59:19.380 and
00:59:20.120 I
00:59:20.240 wanted
00:59:20.440 to
00:59:20.700 have
00:59:20.920 kids
00:59:21.160 with
00:59:21.320 him
00:59:21.540 initially
00:59:22.220 yeah
00:59:22.860 but
00:59:23.880 you know
00:59:24.480 just
00:59:24.800 didn't
00:59:25.840 work out
00:59:26.420 that
00:59:26.640 way
00:59:26.900 and
00:59:27.160 once
00:59:27.560 I
00:59:27.740 I
00:59:28.420 had
00:59:28.580 never
00:59:28.840 seen
00:59:29.340 him
00:59:29.640 blow
00:59:30.080 up
00:59:30.400 like
00:59:30.620 that
00:59:30.880 until
00:59:31.400 that
00:59:32.240 situation
00:59:32.840 happened
00:59:33.480 and
00:59:33.740 then
00:59:33.900 it
00:59:34.220 obviously
00:59:35.520 happened
00:59:35.960 again
00:59:36.480 so
00:59:36.980 just
00:59:37.460 so
00:59:39.060 what
00:59:39.260 was
00:59:39.440 your
00:59:39.640 like
00:59:39.880 first
00:59:40.280 red
00:59:40.620 flag
00:59:41.000 with
00:59:41.260 him
00:59:41.500 and
00:59:41.680 how
00:59:41.860 early
00:59:42.220 did
00:59:42.480 it
00:59:42.640 happen
00:59:42.940 in
00:59:43.100 the
00:59:43.200 relationship
00:59:43.540 because
00:59:43.760 you
00:59:43.840 were
00:59:43.940 together
00:59:44.260 for
00:59:44.500 four
00:59:44.680 years
00:59:44.880 so
00:59:45.120 when
00:59:45.600 did
00:59:45.720 that
00:59:45.880 red
00:59:46.040 flag
00:59:46.280 appear
00:59:46.700 and
00:59:46.880 why
00:59:47.020 did
00:59:47.180 you
00:59:47.260 ignore
00:59:47.540 it
00:59:47.880 first
00:59:49.260 red
00:59:49.460 flag
00:59:49.700 was
00:59:49.860 when
00:59:50.000 he
00:59:50.100 was
00:59:50.260 sleeping
00:59:50.580 in
00:59:50.920 my
00:59:51.200 bed
00:59:51.760 at
00:59:52.160 my
00:59:53.040 house
00:59:53.620 and
00:59:54.360 his
00:59:56.120 phone
00:59:56.360 kept
00:59:56.600 going
00:59:56.880 off
00:59:57.220 and
00:59:57.440 I
00:59:57.540 already
00:59:57.920 knew
00:59:58.100 the
00:59:58.280 phone
00:59:58.440 password
00:59:58.760 so
00:59:58.960 I
00:59:59.080 went
00:59:59.200 through
00:59:59.320 the
00:59:59.440 phone
00:59:59.660 and
01:00:00.840 I
01:00:01.120 seen
01:00:01.540 him
01:00:02.020 talking
01:00:03.180 to
01:00:03.440 multiple
01:00:03.700 people
01:00:04.040 but
01:00:04.220 it
01:00:04.340 was
01:00:04.440 just
01:00:11.500 ex-girlfriend
01:00:11.980 that
01:00:12.180 he
01:00:12.400 claims
01:00:12.780 is
01:00:13.040 not
01:00:13.360 his
01:00:13.580 ex-girlfriend
01:00:14.120 but
01:00:14.300 you
01:00:14.540 guys
01:00:14.780 were
01:00:14.920 dealing
01:00:15.140 with
01:00:15.340 each
01:00:15.500 other
01:00:15.680 seriously
01:00:16.100 so
01:00:16.360 it's
01:00:16.540 obviously
01:00:17.020 that
01:00:18.060 and
01:00:18.660 I
01:00:20.520 figured
01:00:21.180 out
01:00:21.380 that
01:00:21.560 he
01:00:21.700 was
01:00:21.900 driving
01:00:22.440 her
01:00:22.760 car
01:00:23.060 that
01:00:23.240 he
01:00:24.560 was
01:00:24.720 driving
01:00:25.120 and
01:00:25.660 stuff
01:00:25.860 that
01:00:26.020 he
01:00:26.180 was
01:00:26.360 paying
01:00:26.640 on
01:00:26.940 she
01:00:27.560 had
01:00:27.860 ended
01:00:28.140 up
01:00:28.360 moving
01:00:28.800 away
01:00:29.420 to
01:00:29.940 another
01:00:30.420 state
01:00:31.060 and
01:00:32.080 so
01:00:32.560 he
01:00:32.800 was
01:00:33.040 paying
01:00:33.840 on
01:00:34.860 the
01:00:35.000 car
01:00:35.300 can
01:00:35.680 we
01:00:35.800 arrive
01:00:36.040 at
01:00:36.160 the
01:00:36.260 point
01:00:36.460 here
01:00:36.740 but
01:00:38.340 yeah
01:00:38.480 that
01:00:38.660 was
01:00:38.880 really
01:00:39.840 like
01:00:40.100 the
01:00:40.260 first
01:00:40.820 red
01:00:41.020 flag
01:00:41.280 so
01:00:41.840 just
01:00:42.020 him
01:00:42.240 cheating
01:00:42.620 basically
01:00:43.180 yeah
01:00:43.740 okay
01:00:44.440 and
01:00:44.820 when
01:00:44.980 was
01:00:45.200 that
01:00:45.400 in
01:00:45.580 the
01:00:45.680 relationship
01:00:46.080 because
01:00:46.340 you
01:00:46.420 were
01:00:46.480 together
01:00:46.640 for
01:00:46.800 four
01:00:46.940 years
01:00:47.080 when
01:00:47.240 did
01:00:47.360 that
01:00:47.520 happen
01:00:47.820 four
01:00:48.240 months
01:00:48.520 in
01:00:48.720 oh
01:00:49.060 my
01:00:49.200 goodness
01:00:49.620 I'm
01:00:50.060 so
01:00:50.320 sorry
01:00:50.540 you
01:00:50.700 stayed
01:00:50.900 with
01:00:51.080 him
01:00:51.280 and
01:00:51.500 that
01:00:51.640 was
01:00:51.780 after
01:00:52.140 the
01:00:52.460 first
01:00:52.820 abortion
01:00:53.520 yeah
01:00:54.200 can
01:00:54.680 I
01:00:54.800 ask
01:00:55.180 something
01:00:55.540 I'm
01:00:57.340 not
01:00:57.680 saying
01:00:57.920 you
01:00:58.200 were
01:00:58.340 wrong
01:00:58.600 for
01:00:58.780 doing
01:00:59.000 what
01:00:59.160 you
01:00:59.280 did
01:00:59.520 at
01:01:00.180 all
01:01:00.980 just
01:01:01.640 a
01:01:02.000 general
01:01:02.180 question
01:01:02.520 at
01:01:02.880 those
01:01:03.080 clinics
01:01:03.460 you
01:01:03.720 know
01:01:03.880 they
01:01:04.440 are
01:01:05.280 supposed
01:01:05.620 to
01:01:05.860 ask
01:01:06.300 are
01:01:07.040 you
01:01:07.180 being
01:01:07.360 forced
01:01:07.620 into
01:01:07.820 this
01:01:08.020 situation
01:01:08.560 did
01:01:10.340 they
01:01:10.800 ever
01:01:11.060 ask
01:01:11.380 you
01:01:11.500 that
01:01:11.800 yeah
01:01:12.660 they
01:01:12.800 always
01:01:13.040 did
01:01:13.240 and
01:01:13.380 I
01:01:13.500 always
01:01:13.760 told
01:01:14.040 them
01:01:14.240 no
01:01:14.600 oh
01:01:15.100 girl
01:01:15.540 just
01:01:16.920 out
01:01:17.140 of
01:01:17.280 fear
01:01:17.840 sure
01:01:19.300 sure
01:01:19.960 fear
01:01:20.380 is a
01:01:20.840 very
01:01:21.240 strong
01:01:21.880 motivation
01:01:22.520 yeah
01:01:24.260 okay
01:01:27.760 we're
01:01:28.040 gonna
01:01:28.180 get
01:01:28.460 to
01:01:28.940 one
01:01:30.120 of
01:01:30.240 the
01:01:30.440 chats
01:01:31.180 that
01:01:31.360 came
01:01:31.540 in
01:01:31.680 earlier
01:01:32.060 he
01:01:32.920 asked
01:01:33.340 what
01:01:33.720 are
01:01:34.040 red
01:01:34.420 flags
01:01:34.940 y'all
01:01:35.320 have
01:01:35.580 ignored
01:01:35.900 in
01:01:36.120 the
01:01:36.240 past
01:01:36.720 that
01:01:37.080 you
01:01:37.240 absolutely
01:01:38.100 shouldn't
01:01:39.340 have
01:01:39.740 we're
01:01:41.660 gonna
01:01:41.860 we'll
01:01:42.380 start
01:01:42.600 with
01:01:42.820 you
01:01:43.140 we'll
01:01:43.420 go
01:01:43.520 around
01:01:43.720 the
01:01:43.860 table
01:01:44.180 so
01:01:44.560 what
01:01:44.740 are
01:01:44.860 red
01:01:45.060 flags
01:01:45.520 you've
01:01:46.320 ignored
01:01:46.660 in
01:01:46.920 the
01:01:47.020 past
01:01:47.320 that
01:01:47.500 you
01:01:47.620 absolutely
01:01:48.000 shouldn't
01:01:48.380 have
01:01:48.640 go
01:01:48.920 ahead
01:01:49.080 well
01:01:50.500 I
01:01:50.660 feel
01:01:50.820 like
01:01:51.000 I
01:01:51.160 already
01:01:51.360 I
01:01:51.920 touched
01:01:52.260 on
01:01:52.540 it
01:01:52.740 really
01:01:53.200 just
01:01:53.660 going
01:01:54.340 through
01:01:54.500 the
01:01:54.640 phone
01:01:54.840 and
01:01:55.060 seeing
01:01:55.500 a
01:01:55.700 bunch
01:01:55.900 of
01:01:56.000 things
01:01:56.320 like
01:01:56.600 that
01:01:56.820 should
01:01:57.060 have
01:01:57.160 just
01:01:57.320 been
01:01:57.500 like
01:01:57.700 okay
01:01:57.960 like
01:01:58.220 no
01:01:59.620 immediately
01:02:00.740 I
01:02:01.220 should
01:02:01.400 have
01:02:01.480 just
01:02:01.640 been
01:02:01.780 like
01:02:01.920 no
01:02:02.140 so
01:02:02.740 I'll
01:02:03.400 leave
01:02:03.500 it
01:02:03.600 at
01:02:03.700 that
01:02:04.220 well
01:02:07.200 the
01:02:07.420 fact
01:02:07.740 that
01:02:08.020 I
01:02:08.260 started
01:02:08.620 out
01:02:08.920 as
01:02:09.200 the
01:02:09.420 other
01:02:09.660 woman
01:02:09.920 in
01:02:10.140 the
01:02:10.240 first
01:02:10.460 place
01:02:10.860 that's
01:02:11.820 a
01:02:11.980 big
01:02:12.200 one
01:02:12.480 I
01:02:14.300 would
01:02:14.440 say
01:02:14.640 love
01:02:14.980 bombing
01:02:15.300 and
01:02:15.580 then
01:02:15.760 not
01:02:15.980 taking
01:02:16.220 accountability
01:02:16.740 during
01:02:17.400 arguments
01:02:17.840 I
01:02:18.140 was
01:02:18.280 like
01:02:18.560 I'd
01:02:19.200 be
01:02:19.320 gaslighted
01:02:19.880 and
01:02:20.060 I
01:02:20.300 can't
01:02:20.780 argue
01:02:21.000 with
01:02:21.120 crazy
01:02:21.400 so
01:02:21.820 I'd
01:02:24.280 say
01:02:24.560 just
01:02:24.820 being
01:02:25.220 the
01:02:25.680 rebound
01:02:25.980 girl
01:02:26.260 yeah
01:02:27.960 I'd
01:02:30.560 have
01:02:30.680 to
01:02:30.820 say
01:02:31.060 somebody
01:02:31.460 who
01:02:31.680 doesn't
01:02:31.900 have
01:02:32.200 their
01:02:32.460 own
01:02:32.820 interests
01:02:33.320 and
01:02:33.560 hobbies
01:02:33.980 and
01:02:35.500 they're
01:02:35.680 kind
01:02:35.860 of
01:02:36.020 like
01:02:36.260 clinging
01:02:36.560 on
01:02:36.820 to
01:02:36.960 you
01:02:37.220 and
01:02:38.100 you're
01:02:38.280 their
01:02:38.460 hobby
01:02:38.780 so
01:02:39.260 yeah
01:02:39.720 I
01:02:40.560 would
01:02:40.760 say
01:02:41.060 a
01:02:41.260 guy
01:02:41.460 who's
01:02:41.800 willing
01:02:42.040 to
01:02:42.260 let
01:02:42.440 me
01:02:42.800 take
01:02:43.100 responsibility
01:02:43.720 and
01:02:44.040 be
01:02:44.160 in
01:02:44.320 charge
01:02:44.540 of
01:02:44.680 everything
01:02:45.000 and
01:02:45.280 wear
01:02:45.420 the
01:02:45.580 pants
01:02:45.980 and
01:02:46.200 pay
01:02:46.540 all
01:02:46.720 the
01:02:46.840 bills
01:02:47.240 and
01:02:47.720 be
01:02:48.120 the
01:02:48.260 grown
01:02:48.480 up
01:02:48.720 did
01:02:50.200 that
01:02:50.400 when
01:02:50.540 I
01:02:50.640 was
01:02:50.760 really
01:02:50.960 young
01:02:51.200 and
01:02:51.320 that
01:02:51.440 didn't
01:02:51.680 turn out
01:02:52.040 well
01:02:52.340 so
01:02:52.820 yeah
01:02:54.320 go ahead
01:02:59.220 what do
01:03:01.440 you think
01:03:01.700 are your
01:03:02.060 own
01:03:02.340 red
01:03:02.540 flags
01:03:03.020 really
01:03:04.260 cool
01:03:04.680 you want
01:03:06.080 to start
01:03:06.260 with you
01:03:06.600 and go
01:03:06.860 around
01:03:07.100 for me
01:03:09.800 coming from
01:03:10.560 not being
01:03:11.500 a healed
01:03:12.060 person
01:03:12.540 I feel
01:03:13.140 like
01:03:13.480 I have
01:03:15.480 definitely
01:03:16.080 done my
01:03:17.380 fair share
01:03:18.280 of damage
01:03:19.280 and I
01:03:19.960 feel like
01:03:20.480 I always
01:03:22.680 have to
01:03:23.020 one up
01:03:23.480 someone
01:03:24.700 I don't
01:03:25.140 like losing
01:03:26.020 I'm an
01:03:27.560 Aries
01:03:27.820 so I
01:03:28.500 just
01:03:28.800 I don't
01:03:29.260 like
01:03:29.540 I just
01:03:30.980 don't like
01:03:31.220 that
01:03:31.460 I feel
01:03:31.940 like that's
01:03:32.260 a really
01:03:32.480 big thing
01:03:32.980 because you
01:03:33.400 could just
01:03:33.860 be a
01:03:34.360 bigger person
01:03:34.900 just walk
01:03:35.420 away
01:03:35.700 because silence
01:03:36.360 is really
01:03:36.900 the best
01:03:37.540 revenge
01:03:38.560 okay
01:03:40.740 I want
01:03:42.300 to say
01:03:42.660 just
01:03:43.140 that I'm
01:03:44.440 stubborn
01:03:44.880 you know
01:03:46.560 I don't
01:03:46.940 always want
01:03:47.320 to admit
01:03:47.700 that I'm
01:03:48.420 wrong
01:03:48.820 granted
01:03:50.460 I'm working
01:03:50.800 on that
01:03:51.500 you know
01:03:52.940 I want
01:03:53.960 to be
01:03:54.160 better
01:03:54.380 so I can
01:03:54.660 be better
01:03:54.900 for others
01:03:55.320 I get
01:03:57.580 comfortable
01:03:57.980 really
01:03:58.480 really fast
01:03:59.140 so if
01:04:00.260 there's
01:04:00.560 something
01:04:00.760 that's
01:04:01.060 negative
01:04:01.340 in the
01:04:01.960 relationship
01:04:02.240 I can
01:04:03.160 get used
01:04:03.620 to it
01:04:03.860 because I'm
01:04:04.280 like
01:04:04.500 okay
01:04:05.180 it's not
01:04:05.480 that serious
01:04:05.900 it's not
01:04:06.220 that serious
01:04:06.560 until I blow
01:04:07.040 up
01:04:07.320 I'd say
01:04:10.040 I have a
01:04:10.460 difficult time
01:04:11.040 asking for
01:04:11.560 help
01:04:12.320 maybe I
01:04:19.200 have a
01:04:19.620 temper
01:04:20.000 I have been
01:04:22.440 working really
01:04:23.020 hard to make
01:04:23.640 sure that
01:04:24.440 I think
01:04:25.880 before I
01:04:26.500 yell
01:04:26.800 me I
01:04:29.760 for me
01:04:31.560 it was
01:04:31.880 never
01:04:32.200 promiscuity
01:04:34.920 or anything
01:04:35.500 like that
01:04:35.920 I never
01:04:36.240 did that
01:04:36.800 but
01:04:37.620 early on
01:04:38.860 when I
01:04:39.080 was younger
01:04:39.420 I was
01:04:39.760 really
01:04:40.120 willful
01:04:40.740 and
01:04:41.600 same
01:04:42.260 as what
01:04:42.920 all you
01:04:43.300 guys are
01:04:43.640 saying
01:04:43.980 and I
01:04:44.720 think
01:04:44.980 the
01:04:45.220 takeaway
01:04:45.460 from that
01:04:45.980 is that
01:04:46.380 especially
01:04:46.780 all of
01:04:47.200 us
01:04:47.420 who are
01:04:47.740 born
01:04:48.080 in this
01:04:48.700 day and
01:04:48.980 age
01:04:49.200 as
01:04:49.420 women
01:04:49.660 we tend
01:04:50.480 to be
01:04:50.700 really
01:04:50.940 willful
01:04:51.440 we're
01:04:51.920 taught
01:04:52.160 that we
01:04:52.400 should
01:04:52.580 compete
01:04:52.960 with men
01:04:53.540 we're
01:04:54.040 told
01:04:54.320 that we
01:04:54.780 need to
01:04:55.340 not let
01:04:55.740 anyone
01:04:55.960 control
01:04:56.400 us
01:04:56.680 and not
01:04:56.960 let anybody
01:04:57.300 tell us
01:04:57.660 what to
01:04:57.880 do
01:04:58.080 and so
01:04:58.440 we feel
01:04:59.500 like we
01:04:59.860 do have
01:05:00.200 to constantly
01:05:00.960 one up
01:05:01.860 the guy
01:05:02.320 or whatever
01:05:02.740 I did
01:05:03.140 that too
01:05:03.500 when I
01:05:03.700 was younger
01:05:04.080 and good
01:05:05.160 wives are
01:05:05.940 not born
01:05:06.700 they're made
01:05:08.040 and it was
01:05:08.440 something I
01:05:08.820 had to work
01:05:09.380 on it was
01:05:09.800 something that
01:05:10.380 I worked
01:05:11.000 on with
01:05:11.420 my husband's
01:05:12.120 help
01:05:12.500 and we can
01:05:13.880 maybe get
01:05:14.320 into that
01:05:14.720 later but
01:05:15.140 yeah I
01:05:15.860 had all the
01:05:16.380 same issues
01:05:16.880 I had a
01:05:17.260 temper
01:05:17.560 I was
01:05:18.180 willful
01:05:18.740 I was
01:05:20.520 competitive
01:05:21.320 all that
01:05:22.760 stuff
01:05:23.120 when I
01:05:23.600 was young
01:05:23.940 so
01:05:24.280 so did
01:05:28.080 you guys
01:05:28.420 was a
01:05:29.220 second
01:05:29.500 question
01:05:30.000 asked
01:05:30.380 yeah
01:05:30.660 it was
01:05:31.300 what are
01:05:31.800 our red
01:05:32.620 flags
01:05:33.020 red flags
01:05:33.960 okay
01:05:34.480 I had to
01:05:35.580 get up
01:05:35.880 there for
01:05:36.240 a second
01:05:36.600 so I
01:05:37.060 missed
01:05:37.300 all your
01:05:37.600 answers
01:05:37.880 but we
01:05:38.560 have
01:05:38.700 Pans
01:05:39.000 Dan
01:05:39.360 Ming
01:05:40.140 it's
01:05:40.520 Dan
01:05:40.700 from
01:05:40.880 First Point
01:05:41.460 awesome
01:05:41.860 you're
01:05:42.080 on this
01:05:42.340 pod
01:05:42.660 can you
01:05:43.000 get an
01:05:43.240 autograph
01:05:43.520 from Rachel
01:05:44.120 Wilson
01:05:44.400 for me
01:05:44.800 I loved
01:05:45.820 her book
01:05:46.420 and she's
01:05:47.120 an amazing
01:05:47.480 debater
01:05:47.820 good luck
01:05:48.260 Ming
01:05:48.520 see you
01:05:48.860 at
01:05:48.980 Malibu
01:05:49.580 see ya
01:05:50.820 nice
01:05:51.260 hopefully we'll
01:05:51.780 get some
01:05:52.080 Southwell
01:05:52.460 soon
01:05:52.820 you ever
01:05:54.120 surfed
01:05:54.420 Leo
01:05:54.620 Correa
01:05:54.960 secos
01:05:56.040 yeah
01:05:56.500 it's a
01:05:57.660 good spot
01:05:58.140 it's okay
01:05:58.460 it's actually
01:05:59.120 a really crappy
01:05:59.720 break you
01:06:00.080 should never
01:06:00.380 go there
01:06:00.760 well the
01:06:02.600 problem is
01:06:03.040 it's got
01:06:04.360 that rock
01:06:04.940 so it's
01:06:05.320 like there's
01:06:05.660 one takeoff
01:06:06.280 spot
01:06:06.680 yeah the rock
01:06:07.580 is really
01:06:07.940 dangerous
01:06:08.300 you shouldn't
01:06:08.880 go there
01:06:09.360 definitely
01:06:09.800 shouldn't
01:06:10.140 surf secos
01:06:10.880 yeah
01:06:11.140 definitely
01:06:11.840 but it's
01:06:13.460 like if
01:06:13.860 there's
01:06:14.100 more
01:06:14.440 it suffers
01:06:15.280 from like
01:06:15.720 crowd
01:06:16.020 issues
01:06:16.360 because
01:06:16.540 there's
01:06:16.740 basically
01:06:17.160 one
01:06:17.380 takeoff
01:06:17.760 so if
01:06:18.080 there's
01:06:18.220 more than
01:06:18.540 like
01:06:18.780 handful
01:06:19.840 of people
01:06:20.220 out there
01:06:20.600 it's just
01:06:21.080 it's fucked
01:06:23.400 it's fucked
01:06:24.440 okay
01:06:24.980 yep
01:06:25.560 ring con's
01:06:26.240 better
01:06:26.440 okay
01:06:26.780 okay
01:06:27.640 everyone go to ring con
01:06:28.660 yeah go to ring con
01:06:29.640 all right
01:06:30.640 cool
01:06:31.060 I'll answer the question
01:06:34.580 too I guess
01:06:35.300 let me find it
01:06:36.520 what are red flags
01:06:38.100 y'all have ignored
01:06:38.700 in the past
01:06:39.320 that you absolutely
01:06:40.060 okay
01:06:40.680 she was a feminist
01:06:43.180 ignored it
01:06:47.480 long time ago
01:06:48.860 speaking of which
01:06:50.540 who here
01:06:52.060 considers themselves
01:06:53.240 I should have
01:06:54.220 maybe asked
01:06:55.120 this first
01:06:55.600 who here
01:06:56.640 considers themselves
01:06:57.700 a feminist
01:06:58.640 we'll start
01:07:00.720 just one by one
01:07:01.440 what about you
01:07:02.400 um
01:07:03.040 yeah I consider
01:07:04.440 myself a feminist
01:07:05.320 what about you
01:07:06.340 I mean
01:07:07.240 what is a feminist
01:07:09.040 anymore
01:07:09.580 if we're being honest
01:07:10.820 a feminist
01:07:12.180 is somebody
01:07:12.760 who believes
01:07:13.520 in egalitarianism
01:07:15.260 or equality
01:07:16.220 between men and women
01:07:17.240 I mean
01:07:18.880 yeah
01:07:19.480 within
01:07:20.960 is that the charitable
01:07:22.580 that's the charitable
01:07:23.940 sure
01:07:24.680 I mean within
01:07:25.240 that definition
01:07:26.060 sure
01:07:26.500 okay
01:07:27.060 hmm
01:07:27.740 now I want to
01:07:28.380 change my answer
01:07:29.080 because I feel like
01:07:30.420 that is um
01:07:31.720 depending on what
01:07:32.880 we're talking about
01:07:33.500 yeah
01:07:33.820 financially
01:07:34.840 um
01:07:35.760 physically
01:07:36.500 like what
01:07:37.560 are we getting at
01:07:38.320 but
01:07:38.760 I'm gonna just say
01:07:40.000 I'm 50-50 on that
01:07:40.860 no I'm not a feminist
01:07:43.500 I'm not a feminist
01:07:46.460 either
01:07:46.860 but I do
01:07:47.760 want equality
01:07:48.880 in sports
01:07:49.920 though
01:07:50.380 equality in sports
01:07:52.200 yeah
01:07:52.600 meaning
01:07:53.340 like
01:07:54.140 paid the same
01:07:55.620 or
01:07:55.940 um
01:07:56.700 not paid the same
01:07:58.640 but
01:07:59.060 like co-ed
01:08:00.140 it's a
01:08:00.880 it's a
01:08:00.900 I'm very
01:08:02.280 on the fence
01:08:02.980 about it
01:08:03.540 um
01:08:04.540 but as
01:08:06.120 an athlete
01:08:07.020 I want to be able
01:08:08.240 to make a living
01:08:09.460 doing what
01:08:10.340 I like to do too
01:08:11.340 and it's really
01:08:11.960 difficult as a woman
01:08:12.860 so it's more
01:08:14.060 the financial aspect
01:08:15.300 because I was wondering
01:08:16.120 how you feel about
01:08:17.240 the transgender folks
01:08:19.680 who want to
01:08:20.520 compete in women's sports
01:08:21.700 and things like that
01:08:22.640 how do you feel about that
01:08:24.080 I
01:08:24.940 think that
01:08:27.040 we have
01:08:28.040 divisions
01:08:28.940 for a reason
01:08:29.980 we have a
01:08:31.220 women's division
01:08:31.860 and a men's division
01:08:32.680 for a very specific
01:08:34.060 and there's a
01:08:34.900 there
01:08:35.200 that's
01:08:35.740 we should have that
01:08:36.580 yeah
01:08:37.040 well I have some
01:08:39.040 questions on that one
01:08:40.120 so you said that
01:08:41.140 you want equality
01:08:42.040 in sports
01:08:43.000 well not equality
01:08:44.500 but
01:08:44.940 I just want
01:08:47.400 more visibility
01:08:48.460 with women's sports
01:08:49.880 maybe
01:08:50.520 you want more visibility
01:08:52.000 so what is
01:08:53.020 what would that look like
01:08:53.920 opportunity
01:08:54.020 more opportunity
01:08:54.780 for us
01:08:55.460 yeah what does that mean
01:08:56.280 well I feel like
01:08:57.980 at least in surfing
01:08:59.840 and I'm sure it's similar
01:09:00.680 in other sports
01:09:01.400 you are either
01:09:03.200 maybe the top three
01:09:05.360 in the world
01:09:07.980 and you get a lot
01:09:10.380 of spotlight
01:09:10.940 and you get a lot
01:09:11.880 of attention
01:09:12.340 or you have to
01:09:14.260 kind of show your body
01:09:15.100 and use that
01:09:16.060 to gain followers
01:09:17.820 and income
01:09:18.720 so it's
01:09:20.460 it's just tough
01:09:21.600 in this industry
01:09:23.620 to make a living
01:09:25.800 okay so
01:09:26.980 yeah
01:09:27.400 so when it comes
01:09:28.360 to surfing right
01:09:29.100 you're
01:09:29.360 and when you say
01:09:29.940 you have to be top
01:09:30.560 three you're talking
01:09:31.180 about like the
01:09:31.680 the women's
01:09:32.340 professional surfing
01:09:33.300 yeah
01:09:33.540 okay
01:09:34.240 and so
01:09:35.560 do you think
01:09:37.600 that
01:09:38.000 because
01:09:39.380 one component
01:09:40.500 of surfing
01:09:40.920 you have sponsorships
01:09:41.860 but you also have
01:09:43.620 competitions
01:09:44.540 and typically
01:09:45.720 the person
01:09:46.600 who places
01:09:47.520 the best
01:09:48.160 gets paid more
01:09:50.040 I don't know
01:09:50.480 what it is
01:09:50.860 in women's
01:09:51.540 I remember
01:09:52.240 last time
01:09:52.740 I used to watch
01:09:53.420 at least the men's
01:09:54.120 surfing
01:09:54.380 the first place
01:09:56.120 for like
01:09:56.800 the top surf
01:09:58.040 competitions
01:09:58.480 would typically
01:09:58.980 be like
01:09:59.340 40-50 thousand
01:10:00.160 for the winner
01:10:01.680 that was a long
01:10:02.920 time ago
01:10:03.300 though
01:10:03.460 maybe it's
01:10:03.880 increased
01:10:04.240 yeah that's probably
01:10:04.560 with shortboarding
01:10:05.300 too and I'm a
01:10:05.920 longboarder
01:10:06.460 so I've
01:10:07.200 oh it's probably
01:10:07.840 even less for
01:10:08.620 longboarding
01:10:09.400 yeah so I really
01:10:10.080 stabbed myself
01:10:10.880 in the foot
01:10:11.300 or shot myself
01:10:11.860 in the foot
01:10:12.220 there with being
01:10:12.680 a longboarder
01:10:13.240 because there's
01:10:13.760 really no attention
01:10:14.840 with longboarding
01:10:15.500 let me ask you
01:10:16.220 a question
01:10:16.540 so on a good
01:10:17.740 day at C Street
01:10:18.620 surf spot in Ventura
01:10:20.220 how many people
01:10:22.400 are typically out
01:10:23.240 at a given time
01:10:24.000 a hundred
01:10:24.460 would you say
01:10:25.600 a hundred surfers
01:10:26.940 on a good day
01:10:27.580 maybe 50
01:10:29.140 at C Street
01:10:30.780 just in the cove
01:10:33.100 well there's the cove
01:10:34.400 and then there's like
01:10:35.080 what's it first point
01:10:36.040 what's it called
01:10:36.640 stables
01:10:37.120 the point
01:10:39.000 middle lot
01:10:40.140 the whole
01:10:42.000 well you got the pier
01:10:43.780 and then
01:10:44.200 that's the cove
01:10:45.480 I would argue
01:10:46.560 on a good day
01:10:47.120 at C Street
01:10:47.560 there's gonna be like
01:10:48.460 there can be a hundred
01:10:50.560 people at the cove
01:10:51.340 even
01:10:51.660 sure
01:10:52.020 okay so
01:10:53.720 how many of those
01:10:54.480 are men typically
01:10:55.220 like if there's
01:10:57.720 a hundred people out
01:10:58.420 how many women
01:10:58.900 90% or more
01:11:00.540 okay
01:11:00.960 all right
01:11:02.140 so
01:11:02.960 and so
01:11:07.280 would you want
01:11:08.160 for example
01:11:08.760 women's longboarders
01:11:10.280 to be paid the same
01:11:11.080 as women's shortboarders
01:11:12.600 yeah
01:11:16.360 even though that
01:11:18.240 they're
01:11:18.680 even though there's
01:11:19.280 like kind of less
01:11:20.180 viewership
01:11:22.380 and demand
01:11:23.220 for
01:11:23.680 watching
01:11:25.020 longboarding
01:11:26.220 compared to
01:11:26.920 yeah I hear
01:11:27.420 I hear what
01:11:27.600 you're saying
01:11:28.160 and I'm
01:11:28.900 and I agree
01:11:31.420 with you
01:11:31.780 with every other
01:11:32.420 sport but mine
01:11:33.420 well that's
01:11:35.040 a little
01:11:35.460 that doesn't
01:11:36.540 make sense
01:11:36.980 I know
01:11:37.300 it doesn't
01:11:37.680 make sense
01:11:38.220 and I think
01:11:40.180 since I'm so
01:11:40.720 close and personal
01:11:41.540 and I've been
01:11:42.320 doing it for
01:11:43.040 a very long
01:11:43.560 time
01:11:43.760 it's hard
01:11:44.180 but I
01:11:44.640 I hear
01:11:45.460 your side
01:11:46.040 and I
01:11:46.480 agree with
01:11:46.980 your side
01:11:47.280 a lot
01:11:47.620 and it's
01:11:48.360 just frustrating
01:11:49.060 trying to
01:11:50.420 should
01:11:52.240 women
01:11:52.880 longboarders
01:11:54.000 be paid
01:11:54.660 the same
01:11:55.140 as male
01:11:55.700 shortboarders
01:11:56.540 I think
01:12:02.440 if you're
01:12:02.860 competing
01:12:03.220 in the same
01:12:04.000 event
01:12:04.360 which they
01:12:04.740 never would
01:12:05.360 be
01:12:05.720 because you
01:12:06.520 never
01:12:06.820 like a
01:12:07.980 pro event
01:12:08.500 they would
01:12:08.800 never have
01:12:09.420 longboarders
01:12:09.940 and shortboarders
01:12:10.520 at the same
01:12:10.980 event
01:12:11.340 but if you
01:12:13.120 are competing
01:12:13.620 in the same
01:12:14.060 event
01:12:14.320 on the same
01:12:14.960 actually
01:12:16.860 let me think
01:12:17.300 about that
01:12:17.860 if you're
01:12:19.700 okay
01:12:21.900 so for example
01:12:22.740 I watched
01:12:23.300 the
01:12:23.620 pipe master
01:12:24.420 pro
01:12:24.780 and
01:12:26.460 I definitely
01:12:28.300 think
01:12:28.760 those
01:12:29.180 whoever is
01:12:30.360 surfing pipeline
01:12:31.160 when it's
01:12:31.740 huge
01:12:32.060 they definitely
01:12:32.780 deserve
01:12:33.360 to get the
01:12:34.560 pay that they
01:12:35.040 get
01:12:35.320 and which is
01:12:36.460 a lot more
01:12:36.940 than longboarders
01:12:37.720 because that
01:12:39.040 is like
01:12:39.640 you're risking
01:12:40.080 your life
01:12:40.640 so I don't
01:12:41.980 think we
01:12:42.800 should get
01:12:43.080 paid the same
01:12:43.700 as somebody
01:12:44.180 who is
01:12:44.480 literally
01:12:44.800 dropping in
01:12:45.480 onto like
01:12:46.340 reef
01:12:46.820 breaks
01:12:47.780 and it's
01:12:48.360 life
01:12:48.700 they're risking
01:12:49.840 their life
01:12:50.380 so depending
01:12:52.560 on the
01:12:53.100 situation
01:12:53.580 well let's
01:12:54.660 even assume
01:12:55.240 that the
01:12:55.920 woman's
01:12:56.420 competition
01:12:56.960 like it's
01:12:57.660 you're saying
01:12:59.480 within the
01:12:59.900 same competition
01:13:00.900 let's just
01:13:02.400 assume that
01:13:03.080 the women
01:13:03.480 are even
01:13:03.880 surfing
01:13:04.260 bigger waves
01:13:05.620 and the men
01:13:06.480 are surfing
01:13:06.900 like head
01:13:07.420 high
01:13:07.840 trestles
01:13:09.180 right
01:13:09.560 even when
01:13:11.460 the men
01:13:11.780 are surfing
01:13:12.260 head high
01:13:12.680 trestles
01:13:13.240 and the women
01:13:13.780 are surfing
01:13:14.360 like overhead
01:13:16.460 some Hawaii
01:13:17.900 break or
01:13:18.400 something
01:13:18.720 there's still
01:13:19.520 going to be
01:13:19.820 more viewership
01:13:20.740 for the men's
01:13:22.220 competition
01:13:22.720 even in
01:13:23.300 surfing
01:13:23.580 so I mean
01:13:25.260 wouldn't the
01:13:26.160 argument just
01:13:27.040 be that
01:13:27.500 well there's
01:13:28.160 more viewership
01:13:29.140 there that
01:13:29.540 means there's
01:13:29.900 more sponsorship
01:13:30.540 dollars
01:13:31.000 the sponsors
01:13:32.120 whether it's
01:13:32.660 Quicksilver
01:13:33.200 Billabong
01:13:33.920 Rip Curl
01:13:34.640 whatever the
01:13:35.340 surf sponsorship
01:13:35.940 is
01:13:36.380 they make
01:13:37.520 more money
01:13:37.980 from the
01:13:38.280 men's competition
01:13:38.920 so they have
01:13:39.360 more money
01:13:39.920 to put
01:13:40.820 towards
01:13:41.220 more viewership
01:13:42.640 but women
01:13:43.540 sell way
01:13:44.640 more
01:13:45.040 things
01:13:46.080 so there
01:13:47.620 might be
01:13:47.940 viewership
01:13:48.560 but women
01:13:50.060 longboarders
01:13:50.640 or women
01:13:51.080 surfers
01:13:51.520 we are able
01:13:52.100 to market
01:13:53.040 ourselves
01:13:53.440 in different
01:13:53.940 ways
01:13:54.340 and we
01:13:55.460 should be
01:13:55.900 getting
01:13:56.260 I think
01:13:56.940 more views
01:13:57.840 I'm gonna
01:13:58.100 put you
01:13:59.040 yeah perfect
01:13:59.800 all right
01:14:00.240 guys we got
01:14:00.760 two Madison
01:14:01.640 Maddie you
01:14:02.320 want to take
01:14:02.680 your seat
01:14:02.940 back here
01:14:03.340 grab the
01:14:04.260 hat
01:14:04.500 continue with
01:14:07.040 your point
01:14:07.340 then we'll
01:14:07.620 have our
01:14:07.920 new guests
01:14:08.400 introduce
01:14:08.840 themselves
01:14:09.340 I don't
01:14:13.340 really have
01:14:13.740 a
01:14:13.860 oh okay
01:14:15.040 that was
01:14:15.500 kind of
01:14:15.780 it
01:14:16.000 I've been
01:14:17.140 wishy-washy
01:14:17.780 with this
01:14:18.260 for a very
01:14:19.020 long time
01:14:19.560 and it's
01:14:19.880 hard for me
01:14:20.460 to like
01:14:20.840 because I
01:14:21.460 hear what
01:14:21.760 you're saying
01:14:22.240 the viewership
01:14:22.940 I get that
01:14:23.540 but there's
01:14:25.340 yeah
01:14:25.620 okay well
01:14:27.140 moving on
01:14:28.300 then
01:14:28.540 can we have
01:14:29.920 you guys
01:14:30.280 introduce
01:14:30.680 yourselves
01:14:31.060 so name
01:14:31.660 age
01:14:32.140 occupation
01:14:32.720 and where
01:14:33.140 you're
01:14:33.280 from
01:14:33.460 starting
01:14:33.800 with
01:14:33.980 you
01:14:34.140 oh yeah
01:14:35.180 and we
01:14:35.420 do
01:14:35.620 since you
01:14:36.340 guys
01:14:36.460 are just
01:14:36.700 joining
01:14:36.900 us
01:14:37.080 we do
01:14:37.640 need
01:14:38.180 you guys
01:14:38.460 speaking
01:14:38.760 up
01:14:39.020 close
01:14:39.360 as close
01:14:39.860 as you
01:14:40.160 can
01:14:40.340 as to
01:14:40.560 the mic
01:14:40.820 like that
01:14:41.200 close
01:14:41.480 go ahead
01:14:41.960 okay
01:14:42.340 hello
01:14:43.080 my name
01:14:43.580 is Jada
01:14:44.160 I'm 18
01:14:45.180 years old
01:14:46.000 sorry
01:14:46.800 I'm from
01:14:48.160 I came from
01:14:49.120 Guam
01:14:49.540 my dad's
01:14:50.220 in the
01:14:50.400 military
01:14:50.740 so
01:14:51.200 and now
01:14:52.020 I'm
01:14:52.440 a college
01:14:53.240 student
01:14:53.600 at UC
01:14:54.120 Santa Barbara
01:14:54.740 what are you
01:14:56.040 studying
01:14:56.300 I'm a
01:14:57.360 pre-bio
01:14:57.760 major
01:14:58.200 pre-bio
01:14:58.720 okay
01:14:59.120 and you said
01:14:59.700 you're from
01:15:00.000 Guam
01:15:00.340 were you
01:15:00.640 born there
01:15:01.020 no I was
01:15:01.940 born in
01:15:02.280 San Diego
01:15:02.680 but we
01:15:03.100 had to
01:15:03.340 move a
01:15:03.660 lot
01:15:03.860 because
01:15:04.320 he was
01:15:04.860 in the
01:15:05.060 military
01:15:05.360 what
01:15:06.100 branch
01:15:06.520 of the
01:15:06.760 military
01:15:07.080 navy
01:15:07.380 yes
01:15:07.920 navy
01:15:08.160 okay
01:15:08.380 all right
01:15:09.560 so you
01:15:09.940 you've spent
01:15:10.600 some time
01:15:11.380 on Guam
01:15:12.340 yes
01:15:13.000 like high
01:15:14.080 school or
01:15:14.460 something
01:15:14.720 or
01:15:15.120 yeah
01:15:15.320 about
01:15:15.620 three years
01:15:17.000 okay
01:15:17.980 how far
01:15:18.380 like that's
01:15:19.200 what's the
01:15:20.200 population
01:15:20.600 it's like
01:15:20.960 50,000
01:15:21.500 or something
01:15:21.920 I think
01:15:22.220 about
01:15:22.560 100,000
01:15:23.460 oh 100,000
01:15:23.980 okay
01:15:24.220 all right
01:15:24.700 all right
01:15:25.720 and you
01:15:26.360 hi
01:15:27.160 hi
01:15:27.180 my name
01:15:27.600 is
01:15:27.720 Anusha
01:15:28.260 I'm also
01:15:28.960 a first
01:15:29.420 year at
01:15:29.840 Santa Barbara
01:15:30.460 UCSB
01:15:31.220 I grew up
01:15:32.540 in Sri Lanka
01:15:33.320 but I moved
01:15:34.220 here from
01:15:34.760 Sacramento
01:15:35.340 all right
01:15:37.000 what are you
01:15:37.300 studying at
01:15:37.720 UCSB
01:15:38.220 I'm also
01:15:39.200 pre-bio
01:15:39.660 major
01:15:40.060 pre-bio
01:15:40.920 okay
01:15:41.280 and then
01:15:41.540 we're gonna
01:15:41.780 ask also
01:15:42.360 both of
01:15:43.120 your
01:15:43.320 current
01:15:44.120 relationship
01:15:45.160 status
01:15:45.960 so are
01:15:46.840 you like
01:15:47.140 single
01:15:47.560 talking stage
01:15:48.320 situationship
01:15:49.240 starting with
01:15:50.540 you
01:15:50.720 okay
01:15:51.060 I have a
01:15:52.700 boyfriend
01:15:53.060 we've been
01:15:53.920 together for
01:15:54.360 about two
01:15:54.920 years
01:15:55.480 so yeah
01:15:56.480 we got
01:15:56.820 together
01:15:57.140 in
01:15:57.880 junior
01:15:58.880 year
01:15:59.240 can I
01:15:59.460 have you
01:15:59.660 tilt your
01:16:00.140 mic down
01:16:00.620 a little
01:16:00.880 bit
01:16:01.180 perfect
01:16:02.820 two years
01:16:04.700 okay
01:16:05.240 and you
01:16:06.480 said you
01:16:06.700 got together
01:16:07.120 what was
01:16:07.660 that
01:16:07.860 in our
01:16:08.740 junior
01:16:09.000 year
01:16:09.400 of high
01:16:09.960 school
01:16:10.200 okay
01:16:10.640 what about
01:16:11.940 you
01:16:12.140 I'm
01:16:12.840 single
01:16:13.220 all right
01:16:15.140 have you
01:16:16.240 ever been
01:16:16.860 in a
01:16:17.120 relationship
01:16:17.520 no
01:16:18.160 how long
01:16:18.960 well
01:16:19.360 I was
01:16:20.840 gonna say
01:16:21.060 how long
01:16:21.320 have you
01:16:21.500 been
01:16:21.620 single
01:16:21.900 but
01:16:22.220 your
01:16:22.660 whole
01:16:22.800 life
01:16:23.040 then
01:16:23.240 yeah
01:16:23.480 basically
01:16:23.840 okay
01:16:24.520 we'll
01:16:24.780 say
01:16:25.000 single
01:16:25.320 for 18
01:16:25.680 years
01:16:26.080 and then
01:16:27.120 let's see
01:16:28.220 what's
01:16:28.900 I mean
01:16:29.140 what's
01:16:29.320 the longest
01:16:29.720 period
01:16:30.140 of time
01:16:30.560 that you've
01:16:31.240 have you
01:16:32.220 had
01:16:32.400 have you
01:16:32.800 been on
01:16:33.040 a first
01:16:33.360 date
01:16:33.580 for example
01:16:34.160 no
01:16:35.320 I haven't
01:16:35.640 been on
01:16:35.920 a first
01:16:36.300 date
01:16:36.640 or anything
01:16:37.420 huh
01:16:39.000 no
01:16:39.520 have you
01:16:41.780 do you
01:16:42.240 party at
01:16:42.680 all on
01:16:42.940 the weekends
01:16:43.380 a little
01:16:45.140 yeah
01:16:45.500 okay
01:16:46.480 what's
01:16:48.440 what's
01:16:49.040 the extent
01:16:49.580 of your
01:16:50.340 dating
01:16:52.000 dating
01:16:52.020 experience
01:16:52.760 um
01:16:53.860 well
01:16:54.360 have you
01:16:55.180 had
01:16:55.280 like a
01:16:55.880 casual
01:16:56.380 thing
01:16:56.860 a fling
01:16:57.400 anything
01:16:57.660 like that
01:16:58.360 all this
01:16:59.360 summer
01:16:59.640 I was
01:17:00.040 in Sweden
01:17:00.520 and I
01:17:00.820 went out
01:17:01.320 of it
01:17:01.780 and like
01:17:02.260 like I
01:17:03.060 kissed some
01:17:03.660 guys but
01:17:04.060 like that's
01:17:04.660 about it
01:17:05.100 like
01:17:05.400 some Swedish
01:17:06.420 hot Swedish
01:17:07.000 dudes
01:17:07.300 yeah
01:17:07.720 yeah
01:17:08.160 blue hairs
01:17:09.600 blue hair
01:17:10.400 blonde
01:17:10.700 blue hair
01:17:11.300 blonde
01:17:11.560 what
01:17:12.460 okay
01:17:13.140 um
01:17:14.180 and you're
01:17:16.060 a freshman
01:17:16.680 at UCSB
01:17:17.300 correct
01:17:17.480 yeah
01:17:17.720 you haven't
01:17:18.480 done like
01:17:18.840 any partying
01:17:19.420 because UCSB
01:17:20.100 is number
01:17:20.400 one party
01:17:20.820 school right
01:17:21.280 so
01:17:21.500 yeah
01:17:21.700 I mean
01:17:21.960 we've gone
01:17:22.960 out of it
01:17:23.320 we partied
01:17:23.760 a bit
01:17:24.120 but
01:17:24.500 any frat
01:17:25.040 boys
01:17:25.300 here and
01:17:27.180 there
01:17:27.320 nothing
01:17:27.680 okay
01:17:28.020 um
01:17:28.800 so
01:17:29.860 at least
01:17:30.460 here
01:17:30.760 in the
01:17:31.520 US
01:17:31.860 no
01:17:32.340 nothing
01:17:33.460 not
01:17:34.860 really
01:17:35.260 like
01:17:37.460 even
01:17:37.700 like a
01:17:38.320 one night
01:17:39.700 hookup
01:17:40.220 nothing
01:17:41.240 okay
01:17:41.620 all right
01:17:42.080 are you on
01:17:43.320 any dating
01:17:43.700 apps
01:17:44.020 no
01:17:44.800 sexual
01:17:46.640 orientation
01:17:47.260 straight
01:17:48.160 straight
01:17:48.500 okay
01:17:49.080 all right
01:17:50.220 are you
01:17:50.500 looking for
01:17:50.860 anything
01:17:51.080 or are you
01:17:51.420 kind of
01:17:51.660 just
01:17:51.820 focused on
01:17:52.320 school
01:17:52.520 right now
01:17:52.900 um
01:17:53.700 I mean
01:17:53.980 I'm not
01:17:54.360 like
01:17:54.640 closed off
01:17:55.480 to it
01:17:55.740 or anything
01:17:56.080 but like
01:17:56.680 I'm not
01:17:56.900 like
01:17:57.060 actively
01:17:57.480 looking
01:17:58.000 okay
01:18:00.520 cool
01:18:00.840 great
01:18:01.420 well
01:18:01.820 welcome
01:18:02.140 guys
01:18:02.400 thank you
01:18:02.700 guys
01:18:02.840 for
01:18:03.020 joining
01:18:03.420 us
01:18:03.700 kind of
01:18:04.040 midway
01:18:04.500 through
01:18:04.680 here
01:18:04.920 so
01:18:05.760 getting
01:18:06.480 right
01:18:06.760 back
01:18:07.000 into
01:18:07.240 it
01:18:07.400 I'm
01:18:07.580 going
01:18:07.660 to pull
01:18:07.840 up
01:18:07.980 a
01:18:08.280 super
01:18:08.720 chat
01:18:09.020 that
01:18:09.180 came
01:18:09.400 through
01:18:09.740 we had
01:18:10.900 Darren
01:18:11.940 Jones
01:18:12.800 could I
01:18:13.500 have you
01:18:13.680 read this
01:18:13.980 one
01:18:14.440 what me
01:18:16.220 yeah
01:18:16.620 oh okay
01:18:17.000 the glory
01:18:17.800 of God
01:18:18.320 is that
01:18:18.660 he lives
01:18:19.080 and creates
01:18:19.500 life
01:18:19.940 the peak
01:18:20.440 opposite
01:18:20.820 is to have
01:18:21.400 his own
01:18:21.720 creation
01:18:22.180 to kill
01:18:22.580 itself
01:18:22.980 and deny
01:18:23.520 his best
01:18:24.080 feature
01:18:24.480 of creating
01:18:25.220 life
01:18:25.680 okay
01:18:26.460 all right
01:18:27.360 thank you
01:18:27.700 Darren
01:18:27.900 Jones
01:18:28.180 appreciate it
01:18:28.640 man
01:18:28.760 thank you
01:18:29.120 thank you
01:18:29.500 thank you
01:18:30.180 for the
01:18:30.360 super chat
01:18:30.640 yeah guys
01:18:31.060 go to
01:18:31.280 twitch.tv
01:18:31.900 slash
01:18:32.900 whatever
01:18:33.320 twitch.tv
01:18:35.680 slash
01:18:36.080 whatever
01:18:36.380 nick
01:18:36.600 if you're
01:18:36.780 able to pull
01:18:37.120 up the thing
01:18:37.460 in the stream
01:18:37.820 labs
01:18:38.160 yep
01:18:39.760 go there
01:18:40.420 guys
01:18:40.980 if you have
01:18:41.540 amazon prime
01:18:42.120 you can link
01:18:42.520 it to your twitch
01:18:42.980 it's a quick
01:18:43.360 free easy way
01:18:43.900 to support
01:18:44.520 the show
01:18:45.760 every single
01:18:47.100 month
01:18:47.840 and if you
01:18:49.440 can guys
01:18:50.340 I don't know
01:18:50.860 if
01:18:51.080 any twitch
01:18:53.660 prime
01:18:54.060 in the chat
01:18:55.300 okay
01:18:55.720 thank you guys
01:18:56.460 appreciate it
01:18:57.080 so
01:18:57.680 we were going
01:18:58.980 around the table
01:18:59.480 I think we were
01:18:59.900 just asking
01:19:00.320 like on the
01:19:01.360 feminism
01:19:01.720 thing
01:19:02.280 I think we
01:19:02.800 ended with you
01:19:03.340 then we
01:19:03.600 started talking
01:19:03.980 about
01:19:04.680 surfing
01:19:05.960 different
01:19:06.940 differential
01:19:07.580 and pay
01:19:08.120 surfing
01:19:09.160 would you
01:19:09.920 guys
01:19:10.100 consider
01:19:10.400 yourselves
01:19:10.800 feminists
01:19:11.500 yeah
01:19:13.240 yeah
01:19:14.860 okay
01:19:15.560 got it
01:19:16.640 okay
01:19:17.040 Rachel
01:19:17.760 what about
01:19:18.140 you
01:19:18.340 no
01:19:19.520 I would
01:19:19.940 not
01:19:20.240 consider
01:19:20.780 myself
01:19:21.140 a
01:19:21.320 feminist
01:19:21.780 why
01:19:23.580 is that
01:19:24.420 because
01:19:25.980 I think
01:19:26.340 that
01:19:26.520 patriarchy
01:19:27.120 is the
01:19:27.480 natural
01:19:27.840 order
01:19:28.160 of
01:19:28.360 things
01:19:28.680 and it's
01:19:29.240 inescapable
01:19:29.920 and if
01:19:30.440 you
01:19:30.700 want to
01:19:32.040 try to
01:19:32.480 be a
01:19:32.800 feminist
01:19:33.100 you're
01:19:33.660 going to
01:19:33.880 have a
01:19:34.160 really hard
01:19:34.600 time
01:19:34.920 because
01:19:35.200 it's
01:19:35.500 simply
01:19:35.840 not
01:19:36.340 actually
01:19:36.820 possible
01:19:37.340 for us
01:19:38.140 to have
01:19:38.700 anything
01:19:39.400 besides
01:19:40.020 a
01:19:40.180 patriarchy
01:19:40.680 and we
01:19:42.240 can get
01:19:42.580 into why
01:19:43.060 that is
01:19:43.420 if anybody
01:19:43.940 wants to
01:19:45.060 does anybody
01:19:45.720 have any
01:19:47.080 qualms
01:19:47.680 with
01:19:48.020 can you
01:19:49.100 define
01:19:49.400 patriarchy
01:19:49.920 for those
01:19:50.420 that don't
01:19:50.760 know
01:19:50.940 yeah
01:19:51.280 patriarchy
01:19:51.960 literally
01:19:52.480 just means
01:19:53.040 rule by
01:19:53.640 the father
01:19:54.200 awesome
01:19:55.300 so it
01:19:57.300 just generally
01:19:57.920 means
01:19:58.480 men are
01:19:59.740 the
01:20:00.080 rulers
01:20:00.580 and
01:20:00.800 organizers
01:20:01.360 in the
01:20:02.120 home
01:20:02.500 in society
01:20:03.520 in the
01:20:04.320 church
01:20:04.700 in the
01:20:05.240 government
01:20:05.640 and this
01:20:07.800 has
01:20:08.040 implications
01:20:08.380 I mean
01:20:08.680 we're
01:20:08.920 dating
01:20:09.240 talk show
01:20:09.980 but this
01:20:10.280 absolutely
01:20:10.780 has
01:20:11.080 implications
01:20:11.580 when it
01:20:12.420 comes to
01:20:12.760 dating
01:20:13.100 gender roles
01:20:13.780 that sort
01:20:14.220 of thing
01:20:14.620 someone who's
01:20:15.880 a bit more
01:20:16.280 feminist
01:20:16.720 might prefer
01:20:17.480 a bit more
01:20:17.860 of an
01:20:18.100 egalitarian
01:20:18.820 relationship
01:20:19.680 50-50
01:20:20.740 that sort
01:20:21.700 of thing
01:20:22.160 so
01:20:23.340 or at least
01:20:25.140 that's what
01:20:26.080 it would
01:20:26.260 appear
01:20:26.780 to be
01:20:27.560 so
01:20:28.800 she's for
01:20:31.460 patriarchy
01:20:32.240 hot take
01:20:33.400 from Rachel
01:20:33.920 here
01:20:34.240 does
01:20:34.700 anybody
01:20:35.040 here
01:20:35.540 object
01:20:36.760 to
01:20:37.580 Rachel's
01:20:38.300 position
01:20:38.860 so
01:20:39.780 I don't
01:20:40.380 know if
01:20:40.600 I object
01:20:41.160 but I
01:20:41.380 want to
01:20:41.540 bring up
01:20:41.780 a point
01:20:42.140 does
01:20:43.420 everybody
01:20:43.700 know who
01:20:44.140 Lilith is
01:20:44.740 yes
01:20:45.560 she's in
01:20:46.200 my book
01:20:46.720 how
01:20:47.240 how do
01:20:49.360 you feel
01:20:49.660 about
01:20:49.920 period
01:20:50.480 how do
01:20:51.380 you feel
01:20:51.600 about her
01:20:52.000 Lilith
01:20:53.640 she's a
01:20:54.520 demon
01:20:54.960 so
01:20:55.780 I think
01:20:57.120 she's a
01:20:57.500 vengeful
01:20:58.060 goddess
01:20:59.040 figure
01:20:59.600 feminists
01:21:00.460 love her
01:21:01.120 she tends
01:21:01.620 to be a
01:21:02.000 feminist
01:21:02.300 icon
01:21:02.840 because
01:21:03.440 she takes
01:21:04.660 vengeance
01:21:05.040 on men
01:21:05.820 she
01:21:06.260 sometimes
01:21:08.100 SAs
01:21:09.740 them in
01:21:10.220 their sleep
01:21:10.880 and then
01:21:11.420 murders their
01:21:12.440 babies
01:21:12.960 the offspring
01:21:13.800 is this
01:21:15.920 Diablo 4
01:21:18.400 is it
01:21:19.040 Diablo 4
01:21:19.660 is that
01:21:20.300 the one
01:21:20.540 from
01:21:20.720 Diablo
01:21:21.100 Diablo
01:21:21.660 the game
01:21:22.920 yes
01:21:23.300 she's
01:21:25.020 kind of
01:21:25.240 hot
01:21:25.400 not
01:21:26.000 gonna
01:21:26.140 lie
01:21:26.380 yeah
01:21:27.240 she
01:21:27.440 bites
01:21:27.640 men's
01:21:27.920 heads
01:21:28.300 off
01:21:28.580 but
01:21:29.320 basically
01:21:30.480 the idea
01:21:30.860 behind her
01:21:31.320 I guess
01:21:31.600 was that
01:21:31.960 she was
01:21:32.760 the first
01:21:33.640 I like
01:21:34.420 the story
01:21:34.700 about her
01:21:35.140 but now
01:21:36.860 it's funny
01:21:37.300 let me
01:21:37.900 just say
01:21:38.120 this
01:21:38.360 she was
01:21:39.180 there
01:21:39.820 before
01:21:40.160 Eve
01:21:40.460 it was
01:21:40.760 Adam
01:21:41.100 and Lilith
01:21:41.760 she's
01:21:42.040 made out
01:21:42.260 of the
01:21:42.420 same
01:21:42.620 stuff
01:21:42.840 as
01:21:42.980 Adam
01:21:43.240 and
01:21:44.020 she
01:21:44.160 was
01:21:44.320 like
01:21:44.460 why
01:21:44.600 do
01:21:44.680 I
01:21:44.700 have
01:21:44.780 to
01:21:44.880 submit
01:21:45.100 to
01:21:45.260 you
01:21:45.480 if
01:21:45.660 we're
01:21:45.780 made
01:21:45.900 out
01:21:46.000 of
01:21:46.040 the
01:21:46.140 same
01:21:46.280 stuff
01:21:46.680 and
01:21:47.640 then
01:21:47.740 she
01:21:47.840 left
01:21:48.020 the
01:21:48.160 Garden
01:21:48.300 of
01:21:48.420 Eden
01:21:48.600 yeah
01:21:49.840 she
01:21:50.320 would
01:21:50.580 not
01:21:50.800 get
01:21:50.980 underneath
01:21:51.400 Adam
01:21:51.820 yeah
01:21:52.100 and so
01:21:53.100 she
01:21:53.360 flew
01:21:53.880 off
01:21:54.180 into
01:21:54.360 the
01:21:54.540 sky
01:21:54.880 and
01:21:55.080 then
01:21:55.200 down
01:21:55.400 into
01:21:55.620 the
01:21:55.780 ocean
01:21:56.080 and
01:21:56.580 they
01:21:56.900 tried
01:21:57.120 to
01:21:57.280 bring
01:21:57.420 her
01:21:57.520 back
01:21:57.920 and
01:21:58.040 there's
01:21:58.200 like
01:21:58.380 a
01:21:58.480 whole
01:21:58.680 lore
01:21:58.940 behind
01:21:59.380 it
01:21:59.620 they
01:22:01.280 think
01:22:01.740 that
01:22:02.180 the
01:22:02.500 legend
01:22:02.780 was
01:22:03.020 actually
01:22:03.500 like
01:22:04.020 post
01:22:04.500 Christianity
01:22:05.040 more
01:22:05.440 of
01:22:05.600 a
01:22:06.040 like
01:22:06.560 first
01:22:07.860 few
01:22:08.120 centuries
01:22:08.540 after
01:22:08.800 Christianity
01:22:09.300 Judaism
01:22:10.100 type
01:22:10.900 of
01:22:11.120 a
01:22:11.460 lore
01:22:11.900 where
01:22:12.360 it
01:22:12.500 came
01:22:12.700 from
01:22:13.000 but
01:22:13.360 depends
01:22:15.680 how you
01:22:16.220 feel
01:22:17.840 do you
01:22:18.140 think
01:22:18.340 that
01:22:18.500 she's
01:22:18.740 cool
01:22:19.060 like
01:22:19.640 what
01:22:19.760 do
01:22:19.820 you
01:22:19.900 like
01:22:20.120 about
01:22:20.380 her
01:22:20.620 so
01:22:21.020 in
01:22:21.340 my
01:22:21.680 I'll
01:22:22.820 say
01:22:22.980 this
01:22:23.240 one
01:22:23.500 I have
01:22:23.740 a song
01:22:24.000 called
01:22:24.200 Lilith
01:22:24.440 it's
01:22:24.600 actually
01:22:24.940 there's
01:22:25.600 a music
01:22:25.880 video
01:22:26.100 and everything
01:22:26.440 but
01:22:27.340 I actually
01:22:28.680 do feel
01:22:29.040 different
01:22:29.320 about it
01:22:29.620 now
01:22:29.940 I'm
01:22:30.280 kind
01:22:30.420 of
01:22:30.480 going
01:22:30.600 through
01:22:30.700 this
01:22:30.860 phase
01:22:31.080 where
01:22:31.340 I
01:22:31.900 was
01:22:32.020 in
01:22:32.080 my
01:22:32.200 toxic
01:22:32.420 relationship
01:22:32.800 and
01:22:33.380 I
01:22:34.020 was
01:22:34.200 in
01:22:34.300 a
01:22:34.380 stage
01:22:34.540 where
01:22:34.700 I
01:22:34.780 wanted
01:22:34.900 to
01:22:35.060 free
01:22:35.200 myself
01:22:35.580 and
01:22:35.760 I
01:22:35.960 understood
01:22:36.280 that
01:22:36.500 why
01:22:36.820 am
01:22:37.000 I
01:22:37.160 submitting
01:22:37.500 to
01:22:37.720 someone
01:22:37.940 that
01:22:38.120 I
01:22:38.260 don't
01:22:38.520 feel
01:22:38.880 is
01:22:40.600 a
01:22:40.720 leader
01:22:40.900 I'll
01:22:41.760 say
01:22:41.880 that
01:22:42.180 but
01:22:43.460 now
01:22:43.720 that
01:22:43.900 I
01:22:43.980 think
01:22:44.120 about
01:22:44.320 it
01:22:44.460 it's
01:22:44.620 like
01:22:44.820 there
01:22:45.040 are
01:22:45.220 men
01:22:45.400 that
01:22:45.540 are
01:22:45.640 leaders
01:22:45.880 and
01:22:46.240 if
01:22:46.520 you
01:22:46.620 put
01:22:46.780 yourself
01:22:47.040 in
01:22:47.160 that
01:22:47.280 position
01:22:47.680 it's
01:22:49.000 a
01:22:49.100 different
01:22:49.240 woman
01:22:49.500 but
01:22:50.300 the
01:22:50.420 woman
01:22:50.560 that
01:22:50.700 I
01:22:50.820 felt
01:22:51.040 that
01:22:51.260 I
01:22:51.380 related
01:22:51.620 to
01:22:51.840 was
01:22:52.060 her
01:22:52.220 because
01:22:52.680 I
01:22:53.100 was
01:22:53.260 in
01:22:53.360 a
01:22:53.460 situation
01:22:53.740 where
01:22:53.920 I'm
01:22:54.000 like
01:22:54.140 I
01:22:54.380 shouldn't
01:22:54.740 submit
01:22:55.000 to
01:22:55.160 this
01:22:55.380 man
01:22:55.620 why
01:22:56.420 did
01:22:57.160 you
01:22:57.300 not
01:22:57.480 want
01:22:57.620 to
01:23:07.500 he
01:23:07.680 was
01:23:07.860 almost
01:23:08.100 like
01:23:08.280 full
01:23:08.500 of
01:23:08.640 air
01:23:08.880 I'll
01:23:09.600 give
01:23:09.720 you
01:23:09.780 that
01:23:09.960 where
01:23:10.120 it's
01:23:10.260 like
01:23:10.400 he
01:23:10.620 felt
01:23:11.000 as
01:23:11.260 though
01:23:11.380 he
01:23:11.520 was
01:23:11.700 more
01:23:11.980 respectable
01:23:12.440 than
01:23:12.660 he
01:23:12.780 actually
01:23:13.020 was
01:23:13.380 so
01:23:14.840 do
01:23:15.280 you
01:23:15.400 feel
01:23:15.580 like
01:23:15.780 he
01:23:15.980 wasn't
01:23:16.360 responsible
01:23:16.900 or
01:23:17.260 he
01:23:17.380 didn't
01:23:17.540 have
01:23:17.680 his
01:23:17.820 stuff
01:23:18.060 together
01:23:18.540 or
01:23:18.800 like
01:23:19.120 that
01:23:19.480 just
01:23:20.620 kind
01:23:20.800 of
01:23:20.880 flying
01:23:21.120 off
01:23:21.280 the
01:23:21.400 rails
01:23:21.560 all
01:23:21.680 the
01:23:21.780 time
01:23:22.180 oh
01:23:22.800 not
01:23:23.020 in
01:23:23.180 control
01:23:23.460 of
01:23:23.600 his
01:23:23.700 emotions
01:23:23.980 yeah
01:23:24.480 yeah
01:23:24.880 that's
01:23:25.960 a
01:23:26.140 that'll
01:23:26.560 dry
01:23:26.920 your
01:23:27.160 panties
01:23:27.560 up
01:23:27.740 quick
01:23:27.980 very
01:23:28.260 much
01:23:28.460 so
01:23:28.620 I
01:23:28.760 said
01:23:28.980 I'm
01:23:30.400 gonna
01:23:30.520 leave
01:23:30.680 this
01:23:30.840 garden
01:23:31.080 yeah
01:23:31.820 yeah
01:23:32.420 so I
01:23:32.800 felt
01:23:32.940 that
01:23:33.140 because
01:23:33.400 why
01:23:33.860 that's
01:23:34.200 like
01:23:34.340 female
01:23:34.700 energy
01:23:35.120 right
01:23:35.480 a
01:23:35.880 guy
01:23:36.220 who
01:23:36.580 is
01:23:37.280 not
01:23:37.560 in
01:23:37.700 control
01:23:37.940 of
01:23:38.080 his
01:23:38.200 emotions
01:23:38.540 and
01:23:38.780 he's
01:23:39.040 up
01:23:39.400 and
01:23:39.540 down
01:23:39.740 and
01:23:39.860 all
01:23:40.000 over
01:23:40.160 the
01:23:40.320 place
01:23:40.620 kind
01:23:40.860 of
01:23:40.920 like
01:23:41.080 we
01:23:41.340 are
01:23:41.700 right
01:23:42.160 it's
01:23:43.120 not
01:23:43.480 a
01:23:43.640 good
01:23:43.740 like
01:23:43.940 we're
01:23:44.080 made
01:23:44.200 out
01:23:44.300 of
01:23:44.320 the
01:23:44.420 same
01:23:44.560 stuff
01:23:44.920 right
01:23:45.400 so
01:23:45.980 right
01:23:46.300 yeah
01:23:46.940 so
01:23:47.660 that's
01:23:49.780 why we
01:23:50.080 say
01:23:50.440 no
01:23:50.720 simping
01:23:51.140 boys
01:23:57.980 most of
01:23:58.180 you
01:23:58.300 identified
01:23:58.800 as
01:23:59.720 feminist
01:24:00.280 if I
01:24:00.620 recall
01:24:00.860 I said
01:24:01.160 50-50
01:24:01.620 50-50
01:24:02.460 I think
01:24:02.860 you said
01:24:03.100 yes
01:24:03.460 yes
01:24:04.140 I think
01:24:04.680 no
01:24:05.480 no
01:24:06.680 okay
01:24:07.320 and then
01:24:07.980 yes for
01:24:08.440 you two
01:24:08.820 would you date
01:24:09.660 a guy
01:24:10.020 who is
01:24:11.040 not
01:24:11.500 a feminist
01:24:12.460 starting
01:24:12.900 with you
01:24:13.300 yeah
01:24:15.000 wait
01:24:15.460 into the mic
01:24:16.120 please
01:24:16.320 sorry
01:24:16.840 um
01:24:17.440 yes
01:24:18.060 just hearing
01:24:20.700 like the
01:24:21.200 definitions
01:24:21.940 that you
01:24:22.420 guys have
01:24:23.080 for it
01:24:23.580 is like
01:24:24.120 making me
01:24:24.740 think of
01:24:25.860 it
01:24:26.100 differently
01:24:26.420 because
01:24:26.740 the
01:24:27.740 definition
01:24:28.700 that I
01:24:29.740 had
01:24:30.340 was
01:24:30.600 literally
01:24:30.900 just
01:24:31.280 I
01:24:32.040 just
01:24:32.300 don't
01:24:32.580 want
01:24:32.800 to
01:24:33.100 conform
01:24:34.480 to
01:24:34.920 having
01:24:35.620 to
01:24:35.920 listen
01:24:36.320 to
01:24:36.580 somebody
01:24:37.000 that
01:24:37.360 is
01:24:37.720 not
01:24:37.940 going
01:24:38.180 to
01:24:38.400 listen
01:24:38.700 to
01:24:38.960 me
01:24:39.220 or
01:24:39.400 like
01:24:39.720 like
01:24:40.300 allowing
01:24:40.680 somebody
01:24:41.200 to
01:24:41.520 lead
01:24:41.800 that
01:24:42.100 isn't
01:24:42.660 actually
01:24:43.120 a
01:24:43.400 leader
01:24:43.620 but
01:24:44.220 just
01:24:44.440 feels
01:24:44.680 like
01:24:44.860 they're
01:24:45.060 a
01:24:45.180 leader
01:24:45.340 you
01:24:45.560 know
01:24:45.700 like
01:24:45.940 I
01:24:46.220 want
01:24:46.400 to
01:24:46.500 still
01:24:46.760 make
01:24:47.380 my
01:24:47.580 own
01:24:47.740 decisions
01:24:48.160 and
01:24:48.500 stuff
01:24:48.740 like
01:24:48.900 that
01:24:49.020 and
01:24:49.140 have
01:24:49.320 like
01:24:49.500 a
01:24:49.660 brain
01:24:49.940 of
01:24:50.100 my
01:24:50.320 own
01:24:50.640 and
01:24:50.820 not
01:24:50.940 be
01:24:51.180 like
01:24:51.540 a
01:24:51.800 brainless
01:24:52.380 bimbo
01:24:53.720 like
01:24:54.000 that's
01:24:54.340 that's
01:24:54.860 what
01:24:55.080 I
01:24:55.900 was
01:24:56.140 thinking
01:24:56.520 it
01:24:56.980 was
01:24:57.320 but
01:24:57.620 okay
01:24:58.160 so
01:24:58.940 what
01:24:59.200 made
01:24:59.400 you
01:24:59.660 feel
01:25:00.240 like
01:25:00.480 it's
01:25:00.680 a
01:25:00.800 different
01:25:01.140 definition
01:25:02.320 like
01:25:02.600 why
01:25:02.760 do
01:25:02.880 you
01:25:02.960 feel
01:25:03.140 like
01:25:03.260 that
01:25:03.420 might
01:25:03.580 be
01:25:03.760 different
01:25:04.160 now
01:25:04.500 um
01:25:05.020 well
01:25:05.700 I
01:25:05.960 do
01:25:06.320 understand
01:25:06.700 that
01:25:07.000 men
01:25:08.140 are
01:25:08.700 leaders
01:25:09.100 like
01:25:09.400 I
01:25:09.740 have
01:25:10.620 a
01:25:10.740 really
01:25:10.920 healthy
01:25:11.220 relationship
01:25:11.600 with
01:25:11.880 my
01:25:12.060 father
01:25:12.420 that's
01:25:13.260 my
01:25:13.420 best
01:25:13.640 friend
01:25:13.900 and
01:25:15.780 then
01:25:16.040 just
01:25:16.280 like
01:25:16.560 the
01:25:16.780 things
01:25:17.040 that
01:25:17.160 I've
01:25:17.400 been
01:25:17.580 through
01:25:17.920 just
01:25:18.340 putting
01:25:18.640 it
01:25:18.800 into
01:25:19.000 perspective
01:25:19.540 like
01:25:19.920 it's
01:25:20.300 that's
01:25:21.420 not
01:25:21.660 somebody
01:25:21.980 that I
01:25:22.240 would
01:25:22.360 want
01:25:22.560 to
01:25:22.740 allow
01:25:22.940 to
01:25:23.180 lead
01:25:23.700 me
01:25:23.920 but
01:25:24.140 if
01:25:24.360 I
01:25:24.560 found
01:25:25.060 somebody
01:25:25.440 that
01:25:25.620 was
01:25:25.940 a
01:25:26.120 leader
01:25:26.280 then
01:25:26.480 I
01:25:26.660 would
01:25:26.860 allow
01:25:27.200 them
01:25:27.460 to
01:25:27.720 wait
01:25:27.900 did
01:25:28.080 you
01:25:28.180 say
01:25:28.320 your
01:25:28.460 dad
01:25:28.880 is
01:25:29.080 not
01:25:29.320 somebody
01:25:29.780 who
01:25:30.020 or
01:25:30.240 he
01:25:30.400 is
01:25:30.680 somebody
01:25:30.900 no
01:25:31.060 he
01:25:31.240 is
01:25:31.520 I'm
01:25:31.800 saying
01:25:32.060 just
01:25:32.320 like
01:25:32.480 the
01:25:32.620 things
01:25:32.840 that
01:25:32.980 I've
01:25:33.160 been
01:25:33.340 through
01:25:33.600 and
01:25:33.900 like
01:25:34.720 relationships
01:25:35.440 and
01:25:35.800 stuff
01:25:36.060 like
01:25:36.380 if
01:25:37.340 I
01:25:37.480 found
01:25:37.720 somebody
01:25:38.100 that
01:25:38.360 was
01:25:38.860 actually
01:25:39.320 a
01:25:39.560 leader
01:25:39.700 then
01:25:40.000 I
01:25:40.300 would
01:25:40.660 like
01:25:41.520 so
01:25:41.900 what
01:25:42.220 kind
01:25:42.400 of
01:25:42.520 qualities
01:25:43.000 like
01:25:43.240 what
01:25:43.380 would
01:25:43.520 you
01:25:43.620 be
01:25:43.780 looking
01:25:44.060 for
01:25:44.360 in
01:25:44.480 somebody
01:25:44.720 who
01:25:44.880 you
01:25:45.040 felt
01:25:45.260 was
01:25:45.460 worth
01:25:45.700 like
01:25:45.940 submitting
01:25:46.360 to
01:25:46.740 someone
01:25:48.420 that
01:25:48.680 would
01:25:48.840 be
01:25:49.020 able
01:25:49.240 to
01:25:49.600 like
01:25:50.100 take
01:25:51.820 care
01:25:52.020 of
01:25:52.140 me
01:25:52.220 in
01:25:52.320 the
01:25:52.420 aspects
01:25:52.760 of
01:25:53.060 emotionally
01:25:54.080 and
01:25:56.040 take
01:25:56.300 care
01:25:56.440 of
01:25:56.560 things
01:25:56.820 like
01:25:57.080 rent
01:25:57.980 and
01:25:58.320 stuff
01:25:58.620 like
01:25:58.840 that
01:25:59.100 and
01:25:59.280 not
01:25:59.500 feel
01:25:59.760 like
01:25:59.900 they
01:26:00.040 want
01:26:00.300 to
01:26:00.440 go
01:26:00.620 50-50
01:26:01.240 I'm
01:26:01.720 not
01:26:01.960 into
01:26:02.860 that
01:26:03.280 at
01:26:03.920 all
01:26:04.240 so
01:26:04.640 this
01:26:04.880 is
01:26:05.020 a
01:26:05.180 common
01:26:05.440 thing
01:26:05.680 I've
01:26:05.940 seen
01:26:06.280 and
01:26:06.840 I
01:26:06.920 want
01:26:07.060 to
01:26:07.160 ask
01:26:07.460 you
01:26:07.600 guys
01:26:07.940 do
01:26:09.060 you
01:26:09.220 guys
01:26:09.560 think
01:26:10.000 that
01:26:10.420 what
01:26:11.200 you
01:26:11.380 want
01:26:11.740 would
01:26:11.960 you
01:26:12.060 say
01:26:12.220 what
01:26:12.380 you
01:26:12.520 want
01:26:12.760 is
01:26:13.160 you
01:26:14.100 want
01:26:14.300 you
01:26:14.480 want
01:26:15.480 the
01:26:15.620 man
01:26:15.880 to
01:26:16.100 lead
01:26:16.400 when
01:26:16.620 it
01:26:16.780 comes
01:26:17.200 to
01:26:17.540 doing
01:26:18.320 difficult
01:26:19.020 dangerous
01:26:19.600 dirty
01:26:20.000 things
01:26:20.520 paying
01:26:21.020 bills
01:26:21.620 dealing
01:26:22.060 with
01:26:22.440 really
01:26:22.960 awful
01:26:23.780 situations
01:26:24.480 then
01:26:24.960 he
01:26:25.220 can
01:26:25.760 lead
01:26:26.280 but
01:26:27.060 if
01:26:27.240 you're
01:26:27.360 just
01:26:27.540 in
01:26:27.680 your
01:26:27.840 feelings
01:26:28.260 about
01:26:28.580 something
01:26:28.920 you
01:26:29.060 just
01:26:29.220 want
01:26:29.420 to
01:26:29.520 do
01:26:29.640 what
01:26:29.800 you
01:26:29.900 want
01:26:30.100 to
01:26:30.240 do
01:26:30.620 then
01:26:31.100 you
01:26:31.260 don't
01:26:31.620 want
01:26:31.860 him
01:26:32.020 to
01:26:32.200 lead
01:26:32.480 because
01:26:32.880 I
01:26:33.000 feel
01:26:33.340 like
01:26:33.680 that's
01:26:34.220 a
01:26:34.440 really
01:26:34.600 common
01:26:34.880 thing
01:26:35.200 okay
01:26:36.440 well
01:26:37.240 I
01:26:37.400 feel
01:26:37.600 like
01:26:37.860 say
01:26:38.900 for
01:26:39.080 me
01:26:39.240 like
01:26:39.460 I'm
01:26:39.840 I'm
01:26:40.400 a
01:26:40.640 singer
01:26:40.900 so
01:26:41.180 I'm
01:26:41.620 always
01:26:42.060 out
01:26:42.560 like
01:26:43.120 I'm
01:26:44.040 networking
01:26:44.580 and
01:26:44.960 stuff
01:26:45.220 like
01:26:45.420 that
01:26:45.620 so
01:26:45.800 I
01:26:45.960 feel
01:26:46.240 like
01:26:46.620 I
01:26:47.420 just
01:26:47.620 have
01:26:47.780 to
01:26:47.880 be
01:26:47.980 with
01:26:48.140 somebody
01:26:48.380 that
01:26:48.580 would
01:26:48.720 also
01:26:49.020 be
01:26:49.240 okay
01:26:49.560 with
01:26:49.920 me
01:26:51.220 being
01:26:51.580 out
01:26:52.080 a lot
01:26:53.400 and
01:26:53.700 stuff
01:26:54.040 like
01:26:54.260 that
01:26:54.540 like
01:26:54.840 and
01:26:55.560 just
01:26:55.780 supporting
01:26:56.160 the
01:26:56.380 things
01:26:56.640 that
01:26:56.800 I
01:26:56.960 want
01:26:57.180 to
01:26:57.400 do
01:26:57.860 so
01:26:58.980 if
01:26:59.420 you
01:26:59.560 had
01:26:59.700 a
01:26:59.820 future
01:27:00.080 partner
01:27:00.460 that
01:27:00.740 asked
01:27:01.060 you
01:27:01.180 to
01:27:01.300 give
01:27:01.460 up
01:27:01.600 your
01:27:01.740 singing
01:27:02.100 and
01:27:02.520 raise
01:27:02.940 your
01:27:03.140 children
01:27:03.460 would
01:27:03.780 you
01:27:03.920 not
01:27:04.160 do
01:27:04.360 that
01:27:04.640 I
01:27:05.380 mean
01:27:05.480 I
01:27:05.560 would
01:27:05.660 still
01:27:05.840 raise
01:27:06.040 my
01:27:06.220 children
01:27:06.480 but
01:27:06.700 I
01:27:06.820 wouldn't
01:27:07.240 give
01:27:07.580 up
01:27:07.800 what
01:27:08.360 I
01:27:08.600 love
01:27:08.820 to
01:27:09.000 do
01:27:09.300 for
01:27:09.640 anybody
01:27:10.280 could
01:27:11.720 you
01:27:11.840 still
01:27:12.100 sing
01:27:12.540 though
01:27:12.880 and
01:27:13.160 not
01:27:13.440 be
01:27:13.760 trying
01:27:14.180 to
01:27:14.360 like
01:27:14.500 necessarily
01:27:14.960 make
01:27:15.340 money
01:27:15.620 in
01:27:15.760 it
01:27:15.840 like
01:27:16.000 could
01:27:16.200 you
01:27:16.400 sing
01:27:17.140 for
01:27:17.420 yourself
01:27:18.000 for
01:27:18.280 your
01:27:18.440 family
01:27:18.800 you
01:27:19.240 could
01:27:19.380 sing
01:27:19.540 at
01:27:19.700 church
01:27:19.980 you
01:27:20.160 could
01:27:20.280 sing
01:27:20.580 on
01:27:20.740 Instagram
01:27:21.240 but
01:27:21.620 maybe
01:27:21.840 not
01:27:22.140 be
01:27:22.340 out
01:27:22.520 at
01:27:22.660 clubs
01:27:22.960 networking
01:27:23.560 all
01:27:23.820 the
01:27:23.940 time
01:27:24.160 because
01:27:24.400 you're
01:27:24.600 at
01:27:24.680 home
01:27:24.800 with
01:27:24.960 your
01:27:25.080 kids
01:27:25.500 I
01:27:26.180 feel
01:27:26.340 like
01:27:26.500 when
01:27:26.740 I
01:27:27.200 really
01:27:27.520 make
01:27:27.760 a
01:27:27.880 name
01:27:28.060 for
01:27:28.260 myself
01:27:28.520 I
01:27:28.700 wouldn't
01:27:28.960 have
01:27:29.220 to
01:27:29.480 really
01:27:29.840 network
01:27:30.260 like
01:27:30.520 that
01:27:30.860 all
01:27:31.400 the
01:27:31.520 time
01:27:31.740 but
01:27:31.940 I
01:27:32.140 feel
01:27:32.460 like
01:27:32.820 it's
01:27:34.640 just
01:27:34.780 certain
01:27:34.960 things
01:27:35.180 that
01:27:35.340 I'm
01:27:35.580 just
01:27:35.760 not
01:27:35.980 willing
01:27:36.260 to
01:27:36.700 budge
01:27:37.320 on
01:27:37.560 I
01:27:37.700 just
01:27:37.940 feel
01:27:38.260 like
01:27:38.520 my
01:27:38.780 life
01:27:39.080 is
01:27:39.280 still
01:27:39.600 going
01:27:39.840 to
01:27:40.020 be
01:27:40.180 my
01:27:40.380 life
01:27:40.820 and
01:27:41.220 I'm
01:27:42.180 going
01:27:42.400 to
01:27:42.660 take
01:27:43.020 care
01:27:43.180 of
01:27:43.340 the
01:27:43.620 things
01:27:43.900 that
01:27:44.020 I'm
01:27:44.160 supposed
01:27:44.480 to
01:27:44.700 take
01:27:44.940 care
01:27:45.180 of
01:27:45.440 but
01:27:45.780 like
01:27:46.620 if
01:27:46.960 my
01:27:47.140 partner
01:27:47.480 doesn't
01:27:47.900 want
01:27:48.160 me
01:27:48.380 to
01:27:48.600 do
01:27:48.960 something
01:27:49.240 that
01:27:49.500 I
01:27:49.700 love
01:27:50.080 then
01:27:50.260 I
01:27:50.480 feel
01:27:50.640 like
01:27:50.740 that's
01:27:50.960 not
01:27:51.100 the
01:27:51.260 person
01:27:51.540 for
01:27:51.780 me
01:27:52.000 so
01:27:52.780 do
01:27:52.960 you
01:27:53.060 not
01:27:53.240 believe
01:27:53.520 in
01:27:53.660 like
01:27:53.860 sacrificing
01:27:54.520 in a
01:27:54.840 relationship
01:27:55.380 or
01:27:56.080 or
01:27:57.320 anything
01:27:57.600 like
01:27:57.880 that
01:27:58.100 like
01:27:58.320 do
01:28:00.000 you
01:28:00.200 feel
01:28:00.660 that
01:28:01.440 you
01:28:02.840 the
01:28:04.320 person
01:28:04.660 that
01:28:04.880 you
01:28:05.080 meet
01:28:05.500 how
01:28:06.860 do
01:28:06.920 I
01:28:07.000 phrase
01:28:07.200 this
01:28:07.440 um
01:28:08.060 are
01:28:09.060 you
01:28:09.220 selfishly
01:28:09.820 driven
01:28:10.440 like
01:28:11.040 do
01:28:11.660 you
01:28:12.080 is it
01:28:12.840 everything
01:28:13.500 that you
01:28:14.380 care about
01:28:14.760 has to
01:28:15.080 come
01:28:15.260 first
01:28:15.660 or
01:28:15.880 would
01:28:16.100 you
01:28:16.380 sacrifice
01:28:17.260 in a
01:28:17.800 relationship
01:28:18.300 um
01:28:19.400 it
01:28:19.860 just
01:28:20.060 depends
01:28:20.380 on
01:28:20.580 what
01:28:20.860 is
01:28:21.040 being
01:28:21.440 sacrificed
01:28:22.120 because
01:28:22.760 I
01:28:22.960 understand
01:28:23.360 that
01:28:23.780 in a
01:28:24.320 relationship
01:28:24.680 there
01:28:25.020 is a
01:28:25.300 lot
01:28:25.440 of
01:28:25.580 give
01:28:25.780 and
01:28:25.900 take
01:28:26.200 on
01:28:26.460 both
01:28:26.880 ends
01:28:27.200 so
01:28:27.520 but
01:28:28.320 for
01:28:28.540 me
01:28:28.820 it's
01:28:29.180 just
01:28:29.440 when
01:28:30.380 it
01:28:30.480 comes
01:28:30.600 to
01:28:30.680 something
01:28:30.840 that
01:28:31.080 genuinely
01:28:31.620 makes
01:28:32.060 me
01:28:32.280 happy
01:28:32.720 and
01:28:33.200 stuff
01:28:33.520 like
01:28:33.680 that
01:28:33.840 like
01:28:33.960 there's
01:28:34.140 going
01:28:34.240 to
01:28:34.280 be
01:28:34.400 late
01:28:34.620 nights
01:28:34.880 where
01:28:35.060 I'm
01:28:35.180 in
01:28:35.280 the
01:28:35.380 studio
01:28:35.600 and
01:28:35.820 you're
01:28:36.100 probably
01:28:36.300 not
01:28:36.480 even
01:28:36.660 going to
01:28:36.860 believe
01:28:37.100 where
01:28:37.280 I
01:28:37.400 am
01:28:37.580 or
01:28:37.800 whatever
01:28:38.380 stuff
01:28:38.620 like
01:28:38.780 that
01:28:38.900 happens
01:28:39.760 and
01:28:40.300 I
01:28:40.560 just
01:28:40.780 feel
01:28:40.940 like
01:28:41.040 I'm
01:28:41.260 just
01:28:41.420 not
01:28:41.800 going
01:28:42.340 I'm
01:28:43.120 not
01:28:43.320 going
01:28:43.460 to
01:28:43.580 budge
01:28:43.980 on
01:28:44.220 certain
01:28:44.480 things
01:28:44.700 so
01:28:44.880 you
01:28:45.080 just
01:28:45.360 told
01:28:45.660 us
01:28:45.880 a
01:28:46.060 whole
01:28:46.860 kind
01:28:47.140 of
01:28:47.260 story
01:28:47.640 about
01:28:47.880 what
01:28:48.040 your
01:28:48.160 life's
01:28:48.520 been
01:28:48.640 like
01:28:48.820 so
01:28:48.980 far
01:28:49.200 and
01:28:49.300 what
01:28:49.400 your
01:28:49.560 relationships
01:28:50.140 have
01:28:50.420 been
01:28:50.600 like
01:28:50.820 so
01:28:51.040 far
01:28:51.440 and
01:28:52.080 it's
01:28:52.240 been
01:28:52.380 super
01:28:52.840 volatile
01:28:53.260 you've
01:28:53.900 had
01:28:54.080 would
01:28:54.400 you
01:28:54.560 say
01:28:54.840 it's
01:28:55.060 correct
01:28:55.320 to
01:28:55.480 say
01:28:55.600 that
01:28:55.740 you
01:28:55.840 had
01:28:56.060 no
01:28:56.680 stability
01:28:57.360 no
01:28:57.980 sense
01:28:58.780 of
01:28:58.980 peace
01:28:59.480 predictability
01:29:00.600 calm
01:29:01.520 like
01:29:02.240 continuous
01:29:05.500 predictability
01:29:07.260 in your
01:29:07.540 relationships
01:29:07.980 has been
01:29:08.300 very
01:29:08.540 all over
01:29:08.940 the
01:29:09.080 place
01:29:09.480 yeah
01:29:10.380 pretty
01:29:10.660 much
01:29:11.060 I
01:29:11.680 feel
01:29:11.880 like
01:29:12.020 the
01:29:12.200 only
01:29:12.620 real
01:29:13.020 good
01:29:13.380 relationship
01:29:13.980 that I
01:29:14.480 did
01:29:14.720 have
01:29:15.140 was
01:29:15.500 my
01:29:16.160 ex
01:29:16.400 that
01:29:16.520 passed
01:29:16.760 away
01:29:17.040 so
01:29:17.980 and
01:29:19.120 I
01:29:20.240 was
01:29:20.520 I
01:29:21.500 felt
01:29:21.680 like
01:29:21.780 I
01:29:21.860 was
01:29:21.960 able
01:29:22.100 to
01:29:22.300 submit
01:29:22.520 to
01:29:22.660 him
01:29:22.780 in
01:29:22.880 ways
01:29:23.100 like
01:29:23.440 he
01:29:24.040 took
01:29:24.340 care
01:29:24.540 of
01:29:24.660 me
01:29:24.800 emotionally
01:29:25.260 very
01:29:25.700 well
01:29:26.000 and
01:29:26.180 stuff
01:29:26.340 like
01:29:26.460 that
01:29:26.560 but
01:29:26.660 we
01:29:26.780 were
01:29:26.920 young
01:29:27.320 like
01:29:27.980 really
01:29:28.200 young
01:29:28.460 there
01:29:28.640 was
01:29:28.780 no
01:29:28.940 way
01:29:29.080 we
01:29:29.340 could
01:29:29.560 take
01:29:30.280 care
01:29:30.460 of
01:29:30.660 each
01:29:30.880 other
01:29:31.100 in
01:29:31.340 any
01:29:31.740 other
01:29:32.040 way
01:29:32.340 and
01:29:32.520 stuff
01:29:32.720 like
01:29:32.880 that
01:29:33.000 we
01:29:33.120 couldn't
01:29:33.360 see
01:29:33.540 each
01:29:33.700 other
01:29:33.860 all
01:29:33.960 the
01:29:34.040 time
01:29:34.320 and
01:29:34.480 things
01:29:34.700 like
01:29:34.880 that
01:29:35.140 either
01:29:35.360 like
01:29:35.620 we're
01:29:35.760 both
01:29:35.940 in
01:29:36.080 school
01:29:36.440 so
01:29:37.420 you
01:29:38.080 realize
01:29:38.580 that
01:29:38.820 if
01:29:38.940 you
01:29:39.040 get
01:29:39.180 the
01:29:39.320 kind
01:29:39.520 of
01:29:39.640 guy
01:29:39.820 you're
01:29:39.980 saying
01:29:40.220 you
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01:29:40.920 kind
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01:29:41.280 man
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01:29:42.720 create
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01:29:44.300 continuity
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01:29:47.200 going
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01:29:47.520 handle
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01:30:03.060 you
01:30:03.260 need
01:30:03.420 a
01:30:03.580 man
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01:30:08.220 stability
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01:30:09.740 he
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01:30:13.520 like
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01:30:16.720 me
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01:30:17.460 you
01:30:17.740 are
01:30:18.000 chasing
01:30:18.340 that
01:30:18.940 you're
01:30:19.880 never
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01:30:30.620 with
01:30:30.800 him
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01:30:34.100 sure
01:30:34.400 I
01:30:35.220 find
01:30:35.480 a lot
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01:30:35.880 men
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01:30:39.600 mean
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01:30:40.640 say
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01:30:41.560 men
01:30:41.820 of
01:30:42.000 course
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01:30:42.320 are
01:30:42.600 but
01:30:43.960 you know
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01:30:45.540 I dated
01:30:45.860 a man
01:30:46.200 who was
01:30:46.720 not a
01:30:47.000 feminist
01:30:47.240 and
01:30:48.100 he was
01:30:48.900 more in
01:30:49.680 his feelings
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01:30:50.660 admit
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01:30:53.940 showed
01:30:54.260 and
01:30:55.380 how
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01:30:55.760 it
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01:30:59.380 insecure
01:30:59.980 enough
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01:31:00.900 validation
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01:31:01.640 other
01:31:01.800 women
01:31:02.060 so
01:31:03.400 wait
01:31:04.320 so
01:31:04.500 it's
01:31:04.640 not
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01:31:05.940 emotional
01:31:06.320 man
01:31:06.660 then
01:31:06.900 well
01:31:07.600 I
01:31:07.780 mean
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01:31:10.540 insecure
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01:31:12.100 and
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01:31:12.880 to
01:31:13.160 me
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01:31:17.440 things
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01:31:18.080 something
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01:31:21.120 why
01:31:21.440 he
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01:31:21.960 express
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01:31:27.060 cheat
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01:31:27.520 tell
01:31:27.680 you
01:31:27.840 why
01:31:28.100 he
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01:31:28.460 like
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01:31:31.980 and
01:31:33.280 you
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01:31:35.360 be
01:31:35.680 like
01:31:35.840 well
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01:31:36.480 I
01:31:37.320 didn't
01:31:37.700 feel
01:31:38.340 validated
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01:31:42.940 like
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01:31:43.600 giving me
01:31:43.900 enough
01:31:44.080 compliments
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01:31:44.920 something
01:31:45.080 like
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01:31:45.380 like
01:31:45.520 I
01:31:46.160 feel
01:31:47.020 like
01:31:47.140 I
01:31:47.220 give
01:31:47.340 you
01:31:47.420 a lot
01:31:47.600 of
01:31:47.740 compliments
01:31:48.100 but
01:31:48.540 you
01:31:48.960 know
01:31:49.080 I'll
01:31:50.200 try
01:31:50.400 more
01:31:50.740 and
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01:31:52.400 stop
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01:31:57.400 course
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01:32:04.160 that
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01:32:08.140 strong
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01:32:10.620 was
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01:32:11.120 a
01:32:11.280 man
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01:32:12.700 like
01:32:12.880 my
01:32:13.080 husband
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01:32:14.100 he
01:32:14.320 was
01:32:14.520 not
01:32:14.700 happy
01:32:15.060 he
01:32:15.240 wouldn't
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01:32:16.060 go
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01:32:17.640 like
01:32:17.960 this
01:32:18.620 is
01:32:18.720 what
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01:32:18.980 expect
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01:32:19.960 is
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01:32:20.320 needs
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01:32:24.280 he
01:32:24.440 gave
01:32:25.000 me
01:32:25.300 a
01:32:25.680 bunch
01:32:25.900 of
01:32:26.080 boundaries
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01:32:28.980 put it
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01:32:32.740 would
01:32:33.040 I
01:32:33.380 would
01:32:33.520 either
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01:32:34.100 or
01:32:34.360 compromise
01:32:34.740 on
01:32:35.060 them
01:32:35.280 because
01:32:35.740 you
01:32:35.840 know
01:32:35.920 I
01:32:36.120 believe
01:32:36.440 that
01:32:36.640 we
01:32:36.800 need
01:32:37.060 to
01:32:37.260 have
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01:32:38.580 but
01:32:39.560 then
01:32:39.860 he
01:32:40.460 would
01:32:40.640 and
01:32:40.920 he
01:32:41.020 was
01:32:41.100 like
01:32:41.260 whatever
01:32:41.880 moral
01:32:43.400 I
01:32:43.680 set
01:32:43.900 for
01:32:44.100 you
01:32:44.420 is
01:32:44.920 also
01:32:45.260 set
01:32:45.580 for
01:32:45.780 me
01:32:46.060 but
01:32:46.760 then
01:32:46.980 obviously
01:32:47.820 these
01:32:48.060 things
01:32:48.200 happened
01:32:48.580 so
01:32:50.080 what
01:32:50.420 was
01:32:50.700 it
01:32:50.840 that
01:32:51.000 he
01:32:51.140 came
01:32:51.400 to
01:32:51.540 you
01:32:51.660 and
01:32:51.780 said
01:32:51.940 this
01:32:52.120 is
01:32:52.240 my
01:32:52.440 boundary
01:32:52.840 that
01:32:53.100 you
01:32:53.240 felt
01:32:53.520 like
01:32:53.840 some
01:32:54.200 of
01:32:54.300 the
01:32:54.420 things
01:32:54.640 you
01:32:54.760 respected
01:32:55.220 and
01:32:55.420 other
01:32:55.620 things
01:32:55.880 you
01:32:56.000 compromised
01:32:56.580 on
01:32:57.060 like
01:32:57.280 can
01:32:58.080 you
01:32:58.160 give
01:32:58.260 me
01:32:58.380 any
01:32:58.620 specific
01:32:59.120 examples
01:32:59.660 for
01:33:00.300 example
01:33:00.940 let's
01:33:02.440 see
01:33:02.760 he
01:33:04.640 didn't
01:33:06.100 want
01:33:06.660 me
01:33:07.140 to
01:33:07.800 go
01:33:08.920 out
01:33:09.300 to
01:33:09.760 the
01:33:09.880 clubs
01:33:10.140 with
01:33:10.400 friends
01:33:10.860 or
01:33:11.080 whatever
01:33:11.340 not
01:33:11.760 that
01:33:11.920 I
01:33:12.080 was
01:33:12.240 ever
01:33:12.540 a
01:33:12.840 very
01:33:13.140 partying
01:33:14.100 person
01:33:14.940 just
01:33:16.240 but
01:33:17.420 because
01:33:17.780 I
01:33:18.020 did
01:33:18.180 it
01:33:18.340 maybe
01:33:18.680 once
01:33:21.140 in
01:33:21.920 a
01:33:22.040 month
01:33:22.360 he
01:33:23.460 was
01:33:23.640 like
01:33:23.760 that's
01:33:23.980 too
01:33:24.100 much
01:33:24.440 too
01:33:24.920 much
01:33:25.280 I'm
01:33:25.460 like
01:33:25.580 I'm
01:33:25.940 going
01:33:26.200 to
01:33:26.220 be
01:33:26.320 surrounded
01:33:26.560 with
01:33:26.720 friends
01:33:26.960 he's
01:33:27.080 like
01:33:27.180 I
01:33:27.660 gotta
01:33:27.800 be
01:33:27.960 there
01:33:28.160 and
01:33:28.300 then
01:33:28.420 I'm
01:33:29.140 like
01:33:29.280 okay
01:33:29.500 hey
01:33:29.700 do
01:33:29.840 you
01:33:29.880 want
01:33:29.980 to
01:33:30.060 go
01:33:30.180 with
01:33:30.320 us
01:33:30.520 and
01:33:30.620 be
01:33:30.680 like
01:33:30.780 I
01:33:31.140 don't
01:33:31.220 want
01:33:31.320 to
01:33:31.380 go
01:33:31.580 and
01:33:32.440 I
01:33:32.560 was
01:33:32.660 like
01:33:32.820 okay
01:33:33.540 well
01:33:33.880 and
01:33:34.500 I'm
01:33:34.700 like
01:33:34.820 well
01:33:35.020 then
01:33:35.280 can
01:33:35.400 I
01:33:35.480 go
01:33:35.580 with
01:33:35.660 the
01:33:35.720 friends
01:33:35.880 right
01:33:36.060 no
01:33:36.260 and
01:33:37.900 so
01:33:38.080 one
01:33:38.300 time
01:33:38.520 he
01:33:38.740 was
01:33:38.940 like
01:33:39.140 okay
01:33:39.700 you
01:33:39.860 can
01:33:39.960 go
01:33:40.080 this
01:33:40.200 one
01:33:40.480 time
01:33:40.940 it's
01:33:41.660 just
01:33:41.780 stuff
01:33:41.960 like
01:33:42.140 that
01:33:42.780 it's
01:33:43.140 okay
01:33:43.320 and
01:33:44.020 another
01:33:44.200 time
01:33:44.460 okay
01:33:44.660 he
01:33:44.900 didn't
01:33:45.180 want
01:33:45.380 me
01:33:45.480 to
01:33:45.620 hang
01:33:45.780 out
01:33:45.960 with
01:33:46.180 this
01:33:46.500 guy
01:33:47.080 friend
01:33:47.320 I
01:33:47.420 had
01:33:47.540 for
01:33:47.700 a
01:33:47.840 very
01:33:48.000 long
01:33:48.180 time
01:33:48.480 I
01:33:48.640 mean
01:33:48.740 I
01:33:48.860 knew
01:33:48.980 for
01:33:49.120 10
01:33:49.460 years
01:33:50.040 and
01:33:50.260 I
01:33:50.360 knew
01:33:50.460 he
01:33:50.580 wouldn't
01:33:50.820 do
01:33:50.940 ever
01:33:51.120 anything
01:33:51.560 I
01:33:52.180 mean
01:33:52.240 he's
01:33:52.440 more
01:33:52.600 into
01:33:52.820 guys
01:33:53.220 than
01:33:53.360 he's
01:33:53.460 ever
01:33:53.660 into
01:33:53.880 women
01:33:54.180 and
01:33:55.240 wait
01:33:56.600 he
01:33:56.780 was
01:33:56.920 like
01:33:57.140 he
01:33:58.920 was
01:33:59.060 homosexual
01:34:08.740 and
01:34:09.560 I
01:34:10.220 was
01:34:10.340 like
01:34:10.440 hey
01:34:10.620 I
01:34:11.540 want
01:34:11.660 to
01:34:11.740 hang
01:34:11.880 out
01:34:12.040 with
01:34:12.200 him
01:34:12.480 I
01:34:13.440 even
01:34:13.800 communicated
01:34:14.500 with
01:34:14.780 him
01:34:14.880 beforehand
01:34:15.180 I'm
01:34:15.480 like
01:34:15.640 you
01:34:15.920 gave
01:34:16.140 me
01:34:16.260 permission
01:34:16.660 to
01:34:17.120 hang
01:34:17.240 out
01:34:17.320 with
01:34:17.400 this
01:34:17.520 person
01:34:17.740 before
01:34:18.080 so
01:34:18.700 I
01:34:18.900 am
01:34:19.000 now
01:34:19.140 communicating
01:34:19.500 to
01:34:19.720 you
01:34:19.900 this
01:34:20.160 is
01:34:20.260 someone
01:34:20.420 I'm
01:34:20.600 going
01:34:20.760 to
01:34:20.920 hang
01:34:21.100 out
01:34:21.260 with
01:34:21.480 today
01:34:22.080 and
01:34:23.480 he
01:34:25.480 got
01:34:25.640 really
01:34:25.820 upset
01:34:26.000 by
01:34:26.180 that
01:34:26.460 and
01:34:27.100 I
01:34:27.220 was
01:34:27.360 like
01:34:28.120 well
01:34:28.260 you
01:34:28.340 didn't
01:34:28.560 say
01:34:28.900 you
01:34:29.060 would
01:34:29.160 be
01:34:29.360 at
01:34:29.620 their
01:34:30.520 place
01:34:30.840 I'm
01:34:30.940 like
01:34:31.080 yeah
01:34:31.480 but
01:34:31.580 all
01:34:31.700 their
01:34:31.840 siblings
01:34:32.180 are
01:34:32.360 there
01:34:32.660 and
01:34:34.160 so
01:34:35.320 I
01:34:35.520 mean
01:34:35.680 like
01:34:35.860 did
01:34:36.040 he
01:34:36.240 say
01:34:36.700 you
01:34:37.060 hanging
01:34:37.280 out
01:34:37.460 with
01:34:37.580 other
01:34:38.140 dudes
01:34:38.580 regardless
01:34:39.040 of
01:34:39.340 their
01:34:39.480 sexual
01:34:39.840 orientation
01:34:40.400 is a
01:34:40.780 deal
01:34:40.980 breaker
01:34:41.240 for
01:34:41.480 me
01:34:41.600 like
01:34:41.760 did
01:34:41.940 he
01:34:42.060 tell
01:34:42.360 you
01:34:42.540 that
01:34:42.720 well
01:34:43.180 we
01:34:43.420 went
01:34:44.080 through
01:34:44.220 my
01:34:44.400 friends
01:34:44.680 list
01:34:45.060 and
01:34:45.520 I
01:34:45.800 was
01:34:46.040 like
01:34:46.220 well
01:34:46.360 how
01:34:46.480 do
01:34:46.580 you
01:34:46.620 feel
01:34:46.700 about
01:34:46.840 that
01:34:47.800 person
01:34:48.140 and
01:34:48.320 I'm
01:34:48.420 like
01:34:48.560 how
01:34:48.680 do
01:34:48.760 you
01:34:48.820 feel
01:34:48.940 about
01:34:49.080 new
01:34:49.300 people
01:34:49.560 coming
01:34:49.820 in
01:34:49.960 so
01:34:50.060 we
01:34:50.160 have
01:34:50.360 those
01:34:50.520 conversations
01:34:51.300 so
01:34:52.440 if
01:34:52.660 he
01:34:52.780 had
01:34:53.040 said
01:34:53.280 look
01:34:55.260 if
01:34:55.680 I'm
01:34:55.800 going
01:34:55.900 to
01:34:55.940 be
01:34:56.060 in
01:34:56.160 a
01:34:56.240 relationship
01:34:56.640 with
01:34:56.900 you
01:34:57.100 I
01:34:57.300 don't
01:34:57.420 want
01:34:57.540 you
01:34:57.660 hanging
01:34:57.860 out
01:34:58.140 with
01:34:58.380 dude
01:34:58.740 friends
01:34:59.260 without
01:34:59.740 me
01:35:00.100 like
01:35:00.400 if
01:35:00.760 it's
01:35:00.920 couples
01:35:01.320 and
01:35:01.600 we're
01:35:01.720 hanging
01:35:01.900 out
01:35:02.060 together
01:35:02.380 that's
01:35:02.740 fine
01:35:03.020 or
01:35:03.140 if
01:35:03.240 we're
01:35:03.340 in
01:35:03.440 a
01:35:03.560 group
01:35:03.780 and
01:35:03.900 there's
01:35:04.200 guys
01:35:04.620 in
01:35:04.780 the
01:35:04.880 group
01:35:05.060 that's
01:35:05.280 fine
01:35:05.380 but
01:35:05.720 I
01:35:05.820 don't
01:35:05.920 want
01:35:06.080 you
01:35:06.180 to
01:35:06.280 go
01:35:06.660 off
01:35:06.860 with
01:35:06.980 your
01:35:07.080 guy
01:35:07.280 friend
01:35:07.620 how
01:35:08.340 would
01:35:08.540 you
01:35:08.640 have
01:35:08.760 reacted
01:35:09.140 to
01:35:09.640 that
01:35:09.920 I
01:35:22.440 still
01:35:23.300 be
01:35:23.460 attracted
01:35:23.940 and
01:35:24.320 want
01:35:25.460 a
01:35:25.600 guy
01:35:25.720 like
01:35:25.920 that
01:35:26.120 I
01:35:26.280 don't
01:35:26.440 think
01:35:26.620 I
01:35:26.720 do
01:35:26.860 it
01:35:26.960 again
01:35:27.220 I
01:35:28.420 know
01:35:30.620 the
01:35:32.060 friends
01:35:32.340 I've
01:35:32.540 made
01:35:32.860 and
01:35:33.480 I've
01:35:34.300 not
01:35:34.520 had
01:35:34.680 a
01:35:34.800 problem
01:35:35.160 can
01:35:35.680 I
01:35:35.780 say
01:35:35.920 something
01:35:36.260 I
01:35:36.860 feel
01:35:37.000 like
01:35:37.080 it
01:35:37.140 all
01:35:37.240 just
01:35:37.380 comes
01:35:37.540 down
01:35:37.720 to
01:35:37.860 trust
01:35:38.120 like
01:35:38.320 if
01:35:38.460 you
01:35:38.580 and
01:35:38.700 your
01:35:39.000 partner
01:35:39.640 have
01:35:39.920 an
01:35:40.080 understanding
01:35:40.460 of
01:35:40.680 like
01:35:40.880 you
01:35:41.240 wouldn't
01:35:41.500 be
01:35:41.620 doing
01:35:41.800 anything
01:35:42.100 if
01:35:42.280 I'm
01:35:42.380 not
01:35:42.540 there
01:35:42.820 I'm
01:35:43.740 not
01:35:43.840 going
01:35:43.940 to
01:35:43.960 do
01:35:44.060 anything
01:35:44.240 if
01:35:44.380 you're
01:35:44.460 not
01:35:44.580 there
01:35:44.780 just
01:35:45.080 like
01:35:45.280 that
01:35:45.420 understanding
01:35:45.820 it
01:35:46.000 shouldn't
01:35:46.220 be
01:35:46.340 an
01:35:46.480 issue
01:35:46.740 if
01:35:46.940 you
01:35:47.020 want
01:35:47.140 to
01:35:47.220 hang
01:35:47.360 out
01:35:47.480 with
01:35:47.580 your
01:35:47.680 friends
01:35:48.020 I
01:35:48.200 think
01:35:48.380 that's
01:35:48.660 lies
01:35:49.100 that
01:35:49.380 women
01:35:49.620 tell
01:35:49.980 themselves
01:35:50.480 so
01:35:50.760 they
01:35:50.940 can
01:35:51.120 do
01:35:51.300 what
01:35:51.440 they
01:35:51.580 want
01:35:52.000 to
01:35:52.440 be
01:35:52.620 honest
01:35:52.900 if
01:35:53.180 you
01:35:53.700 because
01:35:54.480 if
01:35:55.640 you're
01:35:55.880 in
01:35:56.160 a
01:35:56.300 committed
01:35:56.600 relationship
01:35:57.160 and
01:35:57.400 if
01:35:57.540 the
01:35:57.720 purpose
01:35:58.080 of
01:35:58.260 the
01:35:58.380 relationship
01:35:58.820 is
01:35:59.080 eventually
01:35:59.460 marriage
01:36:00.100 which
01:36:00.840 seems
01:36:01.240 like
01:36:01.520 you
01:36:01.660 guys
01:36:01.880 even
01:36:02.080 though
01:36:02.340 you
01:36:02.600 have
01:36:02.860 very
01:36:03.220 loose
01:36:03.820 boundaries
01:36:05.940 about
01:36:06.300 relationships
01:36:06.840 like
01:36:07.160 you're
01:36:07.380 very
01:36:07.660 open
01:36:08.100 and
01:36:08.500 you're
01:36:09.120 really
01:36:09.660 modern
01:36:10.100 about
01:36:10.400 things
01:36:10.740 like
01:36:11.060 everybody
01:36:11.700 kind
01:36:11.980 of
01:36:12.060 says
01:36:12.260 they
01:36:12.400 want
01:36:12.560 to
01:36:12.640 get
01:36:12.780 married
01:36:13.100 at
01:36:13.280 a
01:36:13.400 certain
01:36:13.580 point
01:36:13.820 so
01:36:14.020 it's
01:36:14.220 like
01:36:14.500 you're
01:36:15.560 all
01:36:15.820 saying
01:36:16.120 I
01:36:16.260 want
01:36:16.420 a
01:36:16.580 strong
01:36:17.040 man
01:36:17.420 who's
01:36:17.660 going
01:36:17.780 to
01:36:17.900 lead
01:36:18.300 who's
01:36:18.600 got
01:36:18.760 his
01:36:18.920 shit
01:36:19.080 together
01:36:19.440 who
01:36:19.800 isn't
01:36:20.140 in
01:36:20.340 his
01:36:20.520 feelings
01:36:21.040 who
01:36:21.480 has
01:36:21.920 you
01:36:22.100 know
01:36:22.200 if
01:36:22.320 he
01:36:22.420 has
01:36:22.640 a
01:36:22.760 boundary
01:36:22.960 he's
01:36:23.120 going
01:36:23.240 to
01:36:23.260 be
01:36:23.360 up
01:36:23.520 front
01:36:23.740 he's
01:36:23.980 not
01:36:24.140 going
01:36:24.240 to
01:36:24.340 violate
01:36:24.620 it
01:36:24.760 later
01:36:24.960 but
01:36:25.520 then
01:36:25.800 on
01:36:25.960 the
01:36:26.100 other
01:36:26.280 hand
01:36:26.440 you're
01:36:26.560 like
01:36:26.660 but
01:36:26.840 I
01:36:26.960 also
01:36:27.260 want
01:36:27.540 him
01:36:27.680 to
01:36:27.920 let
01:36:28.160 me
01:36:28.300 hang
01:36:28.480 out
01:36:28.620 with
01:36:28.760 my
01:36:28.920 guy
01:36:29.200 friends
01:36:29.580 and
01:36:29.740 I
01:36:29.840 want
01:36:29.960 him
01:36:30.080 to
01:36:30.160 be
01:36:30.300 okay
01:36:30.640 with
01:36:30.900 me
01:36:31.340 dabbling
01:36:31.740 with
01:36:31.940 women
01:36:32.260 and
01:36:32.520 I
01:36:32.620 want
01:36:32.780 him
01:36:32.880 to
01:36:32.980 let
01:36:33.100 me
01:36:33.220 do
01:36:33.400 what
01:36:33.520 I
01:36:33.620 want
01:36:33.820 do
01:36:34.500 you
01:36:34.600 see
01:36:34.840 where
01:36:35.240 I'm
01:36:35.400 going
01:36:35.660 with
01:36:35.860 it
01:36:35.960 how
01:36:36.140 it
01:36:36.320 sounds
01:36:36.720 like
01:36:36.960 you
01:36:37.100 want
01:36:38.140 the
01:36:38.860 strong
01:36:39.480 guy
01:36:40.220 who's
01:36:40.480 hold
01:36:40.900 it
01:36:41.020 together
01:36:41.320 but
01:36:41.540 you
01:36:41.640 want
01:36:42.180 him
01:36:42.280 to
01:36:42.480 let
01:36:42.820 do
01:36:43.080 what
01:36:43.740 why
01:36:45.180 does
01:36:45.740 a
01:36:46.160 man
01:36:46.580 you
01:36:47.320 know
01:36:47.440 not
01:36:47.780 wanting
01:36:48.280 you
01:36:48.700 to
01:36:48.860 hang
01:36:49.040 out
01:36:49.180 with
01:36:49.280 a
01:36:49.360 guy
01:36:49.500 friend
01:36:49.660 equate
01:36:50.080 to
01:36:50.180 a
01:36:50.340 strong
01:36:50.580 man
01:36:50.820 why
01:36:51.000 do
01:36:52.140 I
01:36:52.200 need
01:36:52.320 a
01:36:52.440 leash
01:36:52.660 well
01:36:54.020 it
01:36:54.340 depends
01:36:54.780 do
01:36:55.100 you
01:36:55.300 want
01:36:55.540 him
01:36:55.740 hanging
01:36:55.960 out
01:36:56.140 with
01:36:56.280 women
01:36:56.580 when
01:36:56.820 you're
01:36:56.920 not
01:36:57.040 there
01:36:57.220 I
01:36:57.240 didn't
01:36:57.420 care
01:36:57.700 if
01:36:58.200 he
01:36:58.400 communicated
01:36:59.000 now
01:36:59.580 okay
01:37:01.280 I hear
01:37:01.820 what
01:37:01.960 you're
01:37:02.160 saying
01:37:02.820 but
01:37:03.240 I
01:37:03.380 pay
01:37:03.540 attention
01:37:03.820 to
01:37:03.960 what
01:37:04.100 women
01:37:04.320 do
01:37:04.560 not
01:37:04.760 what
01:37:04.940 they
01:37:05.100 say
01:37:05.380 so
01:37:05.860 if
01:37:06.600 you
01:37:06.760 say
01:37:07.220 I'm
01:37:08.000 fine
01:37:13.740 that's
01:37:14.700 not
01:37:14.820 a
01:37:14.940 guy
01:37:15.100 you
01:37:15.280 really
01:37:15.600 want
01:37:16.020 that's
01:37:16.540 not
01:37:16.700 a
01:37:16.840 guy
01:37:17.020 that
01:37:17.180 you're
01:37:17.420 actually
01:37:17.940 into
01:37:18.440 who
01:37:18.780 really
01:37:19.160 like
01:37:19.500 maybe
01:37:19.720 you're
01:37:19.900 speaking
01:37:20.140 for
01:37:20.360 yourself
01:37:20.720 but
01:37:20.900 that's
01:37:21.100 not
01:37:21.280 for
01:37:21.460 me
01:37:22.140 that's
01:37:22.420 not
01:37:22.640 what
01:37:22.860 happened
01:37:23.200 I
01:37:24.140 you know
01:37:24.740 I
01:37:24.940 loved
01:37:25.240 him
01:37:25.420 I
01:37:25.800 wanted
01:37:26.160 the
01:37:26.320 whole
01:37:26.480 future
01:37:26.800 with
01:37:27.020 him
01:37:27.240 but
01:37:27.740 not
01:37:28.020 enough
01:37:28.440 to
01:37:28.660 not
01:37:28.840 hang
01:37:29.020 out
01:37:29.160 with
01:37:29.280 the
01:37:29.400 guy
01:37:29.780 friends
01:37:30.160 right
01:37:30.440 but
01:37:30.580 not
01:37:30.800 enough
01:37:31.120 remember
01:37:31.720 I
01:37:32.440 compromised
01:37:32.920 I
01:37:33.740 didn't
01:37:34.060 hang
01:37:34.280 out
01:37:34.380 with
01:37:34.500 guy
01:37:34.680 friends
01:37:34.920 unless
01:37:35.200 he
01:37:35.440 said
01:37:35.680 this
01:37:35.980 is
01:37:36.180 okay
01:37:36.860 and
01:37:38.020 I
01:37:38.720 even
01:37:38.980 went
01:37:39.120 out
01:37:39.200 of
01:37:39.240 my
01:37:39.320 way
01:37:39.440 I'm
01:37:39.540 like
01:37:39.660 hey
01:37:39.900 meet
01:37:40.620 them
01:37:40.920 assess
01:37:41.560 them
01:37:41.760 for
01:37:41.900 yourself
01:37:42.320 right
01:37:42.600 I
01:37:42.820 agree
01:37:43.040 and
01:37:43.840 yeah
01:37:44.660 oh
01:37:45.080 I
01:37:45.420 have
01:37:45.620 a
01:37:45.700 question
01:37:46.000 so
01:37:46.360 you
01:37:46.440 said
01:37:46.620 that
01:37:46.740 your
01:37:46.860 most
01:37:47.080 recent
01:37:47.400 boyfriend
01:37:47.800 cheated
01:37:48.180 on
01:37:48.380 you
01:37:48.540 I'm
01:37:49.460 curious
01:37:49.760 did
01:37:50.020 he
01:37:50.140 cheat
01:37:50.300 on
01:37:50.420 you
01:37:50.520 with
01:37:50.660 a
01:37:50.800 woman
01:37:51.060 or
01:37:51.220 with
01:37:51.360 a
01:37:51.500 man
01:37:51.860 with
01:37:52.860 a
01:37:53.000 I
01:37:53.400 mean
01:37:53.640 because
01:37:54.060 you
01:37:54.160 said
01:37:54.300 he's
01:37:54.460 bi
01:37:54.780 right
01:37:55.140 no
01:37:55.520 no
01:37:55.540 no
01:37:55.700 no
01:37:55.820 that
01:37:55.960 was
01:37:56.060 the
01:38:05.440 it
01:38:06.000 sounded
01:38:06.260 like
01:38:06.540 you
01:38:06.660 hang
01:38:08.680 out
01:38:08.840 with
01:38:08.960 the
01:38:09.080 boyfriend
01:38:09.380 okay
01:38:10.020 all
01:38:10.420 right
01:38:10.600 never
01:38:10.820 mind
01:38:11.040 go
01:38:11.300 ahead
01:38:11.460 continue
01:38:11.820 with
01:38:12.020 your
01:38:12.180 so
01:38:14.660 yeah
01:38:15.020 I
01:38:15.180 mean
01:38:15.300 we
01:38:15.440 compromised
01:38:15.820 and
01:38:16.300 so
01:38:16.740 you
01:38:16.960 know
01:38:17.080 I
01:38:17.460 was
01:38:17.620 even
01:38:17.860 saying
01:38:18.080 hey
01:38:18.340 meet
01:38:19.120 these
01:38:19.720 friends
01:38:20.240 assess
01:38:20.800 for
01:38:20.980 yourself
01:38:21.480 tell
01:38:21.780 me
01:38:21.920 who
01:38:22.060 you're
01:38:22.220 comfortable
01:38:22.640 with
01:38:23.080 etc
01:38:23.480 because
01:38:23.900 I
01:38:24.020 don't
01:38:24.340 want
01:38:24.480 to
01:38:24.540 be
01:38:24.680 disrespectful
01:38:25.260 you
01:38:27.300 know
01:38:27.400 I
01:38:27.580 get
01:38:27.800 we
01:38:27.940 have
01:38:28.140 our
01:38:28.300 differences
01:38:28.720 and
01:38:28.960 I
01:38:29.020 want
01:38:29.140 to
01:38:29.200 respect
01:38:29.460 that
01:38:29.880 but
01:38:31.620 you
01:38:31.740 know
01:38:31.900 so
01:38:32.200 and
01:38:32.380 he
01:38:32.520 said
01:38:32.780 this
01:38:33.100 person
01:38:33.560 in
01:38:33.820 particular
01:38:34.320 was
01:38:34.840 okay
01:38:35.200 and
01:38:35.940 so
01:38:36.100 I
01:38:36.220 was
01:38:36.320 going
01:38:36.440 to
01:38:36.540 hang
01:38:36.720 out
01:38:36.900 with
01:38:37.080 them
01:38:37.240 and
01:38:38.300 then
01:38:38.500 he
01:38:38.880 got
01:38:39.100 upset
01:38:39.520 and
01:38:40.320 then
01:38:40.560 I
01:38:40.720 get
01:38:40.860 a
01:38:40.960 message
01:38:41.140 from
01:38:41.300 him
01:38:41.440 saying
01:38:41.600 wait
01:38:41.780 why
01:38:41.980 did
01:38:42.180 he
01:38:42.260 get
01:38:42.400 upset
01:38:42.960 I
01:38:44.040 don't
01:38:45.220 know
01:38:45.560 was
01:38:45.860 it
01:38:46.000 the
01:38:46.160 case
01:38:46.560 that
01:38:46.860 you
01:38:47.040 kind
01:38:47.300 of
01:38:47.440 pushed
01:38:47.860 and
01:38:48.080 pushed
01:38:48.440 and
01:38:48.640 pushed
01:38:48.920 until
01:38:49.360 he
01:38:49.640 accepted
01:38:50.020 that
01:38:50.180 he
01:38:50.320 was
01:38:50.420 like
01:38:50.560 fine
01:38:51.040 you
01:38:51.220 can
01:38:51.360 hang
01:38:51.520 out
01:38:51.620 with
01:38:51.740 the
01:38:51.840 one
01:38:52.040 guy
01:38:52.380 I
01:38:52.560 guess
01:38:52.760 because
01:38:53.040 he
01:38:53.180 mostly
01:38:53.580 get
01:38:53.800 like
01:38:53.980 was
01:38:54.180 it
01:38:54.360 kind
01:38:54.760 of
01:38:54.840 like
01:38:55.040 that
01:38:55.400 or
01:38:55.580 was
01:38:55.860 it
01:38:56.100 like
01:38:57.720 oh
01:38:57.920 no
01:38:58.240 Joey
01:38:58.740 is
01:38:59.020 fine
01:38:59.580 hang
01:38:59.840 out
01:38:59.940 with
01:39:00.080 Joey
01:39:00.320 all
01:39:00.600 you
01:39:00.720 want
01:39:00.860 and
01:39:00.940 then
01:39:01.060 he
01:39:01.160 just
01:39:01.340 randomly
01:39:01.740 got upset
01:39:02.180 for no
01:39:02.520 reason
01:39:02.840 no
01:39:03.980 I
01:39:04.220 mean
01:39:04.420 this
01:39:04.660 was
01:39:04.960 something
01:39:05.360 we
01:39:05.600 agreed
01:39:05.880 to
01:39:06.080 for
01:39:06.360 a
01:39:06.560 long
01:39:06.700 time
01:39:06.960 and
01:39:07.080 it
01:39:07.160 finally
01:39:07.340 came
01:39:07.540 down
01:39:07.720 and
01:39:07.840 mind
01:39:08.080 you
01:39:08.200 the
01:39:08.640 whole
01:39:08.820 hangout
01:39:09.180 that
01:39:09.300 was
01:39:09.440 supposed
01:39:09.620 to
01:39:09.740 happen
01:39:09.960 was
01:39:10.120 supposed
01:39:10.360 to
01:39:10.540 be
01:39:10.780 kind
01:39:11.240 of
01:39:11.360 just
01:39:11.520 professional
01:39:12.000 I
01:39:12.200 was
01:39:23.040 going
01:39:23.240 to
01:39:23.320 his
01:39:23.420 room
01:39:23.500 I
01:39:23.680 have
01:39:23.800 never
01:39:23.960 been
01:39:24.320 in
01:39:24.460 his
01:39:24.660 room
01:39:24.880 actually
01:39:25.340 and
01:39:26.500 so
01:39:28.020 why
01:39:28.460 do
01:39:28.560 you
01:39:28.640 get
01:39:28.780 upset
01:39:29.240 is
01:39:29.420 what
01:39:29.560 I'm
01:39:29.680 trying
01:39:29.900 to
01:39:30.020 because
01:39:30.220 he
01:39:30.700 wasn't
01:39:30.980 aware
01:39:31.180 at
01:39:31.280 the
01:39:31.360 time
01:39:31.580 that
01:39:31.720 I
01:39:31.820 was
01:39:32.060 going
01:39:32.260 to
01:39:32.400 the
01:39:32.500 apartment
01:39:32.760 okay
01:39:33.080 sure
01:39:33.380 I
01:39:33.520 didn't
01:39:33.680 say
01:39:33.920 that
01:39:34.300 but
01:39:35.780 I
01:39:36.040 mean
01:39:36.260 I
01:39:37.040 explained
01:39:37.520 the
01:39:37.660 situation
01:39:38.060 and
01:39:38.260 he
01:39:38.360 was
01:39:38.680 still
01:39:38.940 upset
01:39:39.360 and
01:39:40.380 then
01:39:40.980 he
01:39:41.280 was
01:39:41.440 like
01:39:41.680 okay
01:39:42.220 you
01:39:42.360 know
01:39:42.420 what
01:39:42.560 I'm
01:39:42.800 going
01:39:43.080 to
01:39:43.140 hang
01:39:43.280 out
01:39:43.380 with
01:39:43.480 a
01:39:43.580 friend
01:39:43.740 I'm
01:39:43.900 like
01:39:44.080 friend
01:39:45.180 defined
01:39:45.560 friend
01:39:45.980 and
01:39:46.340 so
01:39:46.860 he
01:39:46.980 said
01:39:47.120 it
01:39:47.180 was
01:39:47.280 a
01:39:47.400 woman
01:39:47.620 I
01:39:47.800 was
01:39:47.900 like
01:39:48.060 okay
01:39:48.740 what's
01:39:49.060 her
01:39:49.160 name
01:39:49.500 and
01:39:49.620 her
01:39:49.720 name
01:39:49.820 was
01:39:49.920 Hannah
01:39:50.240 and
01:39:50.960 then
01:39:52.600 I
01:39:53.000 was
01:39:53.500 like
01:39:53.600 I've
01:39:53.720 never
01:39:53.900 heard
01:39:54.100 you
01:39:54.220 mention
01:39:54.420 her
01:39:54.560 before
01:39:54.840 and
01:39:55.160 he's
01:39:55.320 like
01:39:55.440 oh
01:39:55.900 yeah
01:39:56.100 I
01:39:56.340 met
01:39:56.560 her
01:39:56.820 yesterday
01:39:57.520 at
01:39:58.080 journeys
01:39:58.560 she
01:39:59.220 was
01:39:59.420 helping
01:39:59.720 me
01:39:59.940 buy
01:40:00.220 a
01:40:00.460 shoe
01:40:00.800 I'm
01:40:01.060 like
01:40:01.180 and
01:40:01.940 suddenly
01:40:02.160 this
01:40:02.360 is
01:40:02.460 a
01:40:02.560 friend
01:40:02.700 you're
01:40:02.800 going
01:40:02.880 to
01:40:02.940 hang
01:40:03.100 out
01:40:03.200 with
01:40:03.320 one
01:40:03.460 on
01:40:13.580 but
01:40:15.020 it's
01:40:15.220 a
01:40:15.300 total
01:40:15.640 stranger
01:40:16.460 that
01:40:16.660 he
01:40:16.900 had
01:40:17.060 never
01:40:17.260 met
01:40:17.740 maybe
01:40:18.140 it
01:40:18.360 was
01:40:18.780 but
01:40:19.180 statistically
01:40:20.220 you're
01:40:20.580 more likely
01:40:21.040 to cheat
01:40:21.540 with a
01:40:21.800 guy
01:40:21.960 who's
01:40:22.200 your
01:40:22.320 friend
01:40:22.740 I
01:40:23.460 understand
01:40:24.440 that
01:40:24.840 I'm
01:40:25.660 not
01:40:25.880 going
01:40:26.020 to
01:40:26.100 disagree
01:40:26.320 if
01:40:27.360 you
01:40:27.780 know
01:40:27.900 someone
01:40:28.120 who's
01:40:28.280 familiar
01:40:28.520 it
01:40:28.760 does
01:40:29.120 make
01:40:29.280 it
01:40:29.380 easier
01:40:29.720 but
01:40:31.880 in
01:40:32.720 this
01:40:32.840 case
01:40:32.960 it
01:40:33.100 was
01:40:33.240 a
01:40:33.320 total
01:40:33.480 stranger
01:40:33.860 and
01:40:34.380 I
01:40:34.520 know
01:40:34.640 he
01:40:34.720 was
01:40:34.800 trying
01:40:34.920 to
01:40:35.000 give
01:40:35.080 me
01:40:35.180 a
01:40:35.260 taste
01:40:35.440 of
01:40:35.580 my
01:40:35.840 own
01:40:36.040 medicine
01:40:36.380 but
01:40:36.980 it's
01:40:38.760 a
01:40:39.100 completely
01:40:39.460 different
01:40:43.580 this
01:40:44.640 is
01:40:44.740 someone
01:40:44.880 that
01:40:44.980 we
01:40:45.140 had
01:40:45.320 a
01:40:45.420 communication
01:40:45.680 about
01:40:46.200 this
01:40:46.620 is
01:40:46.740 someone
01:40:46.900 we
01:40:47.040 never
01:40:47.220 spoke
01:40:47.440 about
01:40:47.740 never
01:40:48.080 even
01:40:48.280 knew
01:40:48.500 and
01:40:49.820 so
01:40:51.760 it's
01:40:52.060 those
01:40:52.220 kind
01:40:52.400 of
01:40:52.480 things
01:40:52.620 if that
01:40:52.840 makes
01:40:52.980 any
01:40:53.140 kind
01:40:53.340 of
01:40:53.440 sense
01:40:53.820 yeah
01:40:54.540 it
01:40:54.900 makes
01:40:55.080 sense
01:40:55.380 I
01:40:55.600 feel
01:40:55.780 like
01:40:55.920 it's
01:40:56.100 a
01:40:56.200 situation
01:40:56.560 that
01:40:56.800 completely
01:40:57.240 could
01:40:57.480 have
01:40:57.580 been
01:40:57.720 avoided
01:40:58.080 though
01:40:58.560 and
01:40:59.180 I
01:40:59.320 think
01:40:59.640 that
01:41:00.060 if
01:41:01.200 you
01:41:01.440 are
01:41:01.640 trying
01:41:01.960 to
01:41:02.140 date
01:41:02.320 someone
01:41:02.620 seriously
01:41:03.080 you
01:41:03.340 shouldn't
01:41:03.660 be
01:41:03.820 hanging
01:41:04.020 out
01:41:04.240 with
01:41:04.380 people
01:41:04.580 of
01:41:04.720 the
01:41:04.800 opposite
01:41:05.020 sex
01:41:05.360 period
01:41:05.780 it
01:41:06.260 doesn't
01:41:06.540 matter
01:41:06.900 I
01:41:07.360 will
01:41:07.480 say
01:41:07.660 I
01:41:07.820 personally
01:41:08.760 have
01:41:08.940 never
01:41:09.140 hung
01:41:09.340 out
01:41:09.440 with
01:41:09.560 a
01:41:09.720 guy
01:41:09.940 friend
01:41:10.300 one
01:41:10.600 on
01:41:10.700 one
01:41:10.960 when
01:41:11.220 I'm
01:41:11.340 in
01:41:11.400 a
01:41:11.480 relationship
01:41:11.740 I
01:41:12.000 don't
01:41:12.220 do
01:41:12.360 that
01:41:12.600 but
01:41:13.340 what
01:41:13.660 I
01:41:13.760 will
01:41:13.860 say
01:41:14.020 is
01:41:14.200 that
01:41:14.460 if
01:41:14.660 I
01:41:15.060 have
01:41:15.320 a
01:41:15.420 guy
01:41:15.540 friend
01:41:15.700 that
01:41:15.800 I
01:41:15.900 knew
01:41:16.000 before
01:41:16.220 my
01:41:16.380 relationship
01:41:16.740 and
01:41:17.300 I
01:41:17.480 introduced
01:41:17.800 them
01:41:18.160 and we
01:41:18.440 hang
01:41:18.600 out
01:41:18.700 together
01:41:19.020 I
01:41:19.220 think
01:41:19.360 that
01:41:19.500 is
01:41:19.620 fine
01:41:19.880 let's
01:41:21.300 continue
01:41:21.600 going
01:41:21.820 around
01:41:22.000 the
01:41:22.120 table
01:41:22.360 so
01:41:22.620 would
01:41:22.860 you
01:41:23.000 date
01:41:23.160 a
01:41:23.260 guy
01:41:23.460 who's
01:41:23.720 not
01:41:24.020 a
01:41:24.200 feminist
01:41:24.640 yeah
01:41:25.780 yes
01:41:28.820 I
01:41:30.680 don't
01:41:30.900 think
01:41:31.120 I
01:41:31.280 would
01:41:31.640 you
01:41:32.520 wouldn't
01:41:32.880 okay
01:41:33.120 what
01:41:33.300 about
01:41:33.460 you
01:41:33.720 could
01:41:35.320 you
01:41:35.560 explain
01:41:37.340 what
01:41:37.600 a
01:41:37.740 feminist
01:41:37.980 is
01:41:38.560 well
01:41:40.280 I
01:41:40.480 mean
01:41:40.580 didn't
01:41:40.760 you
01:41:40.880 describe
01:41:41.160 yourself
01:41:41.480 as
01:41:41.980 a
01:41:42.080 feminist
01:41:42.340 could
01:41:43.520 you
01:41:43.620 explain
01:41:44.080 a
01:41:44.280 little
01:41:44.520 well
01:41:46.320 okay
01:41:46.560 so
01:41:46.760 I
01:41:47.020 would
01:41:47.220 argue
01:41:48.120 that
01:41:48.680 the
01:41:48.920 most
01:41:49.140 charitable
01:41:49.700 definition
01:41:50.120 I
01:41:51.760 would
01:41:51.940 give
01:41:52.120 feminism
01:41:52.520 is
01:41:53.180 it's
01:41:53.340 a
01:41:53.460 woman's
01:41:53.820 advocacy
01:41:54.440 movement
01:41:55.020 that's
01:41:57.560 the
01:41:57.640 most
01:41:57.800 charitable
01:41:58.100 definition
01:41:58.560 I
01:41:58.940 give
01:41:59.160 it
01:41:59.320 I
01:42:00.180 don't
01:42:00.320 even
01:42:00.480 believe
01:42:00.720 it's
01:42:01.080 in
01:42:01.640 the
01:42:01.800 most
01:42:01.980 charitable
01:42:02.300 form
01:42:02.660 it's
01:42:02.900 a
01:42:03.000 movement
01:42:03.200 for
01:42:03.400 equality
01:42:03.800 I
01:42:04.320 think
01:42:04.460 it's
01:42:04.620 a
01:42:04.680 woman's
01:42:04.980 advocacy
01:42:05.420 movement
01:42:06.280 there's
01:42:06.840 nothing
01:42:07.020 wrong
01:42:07.280 with
01:42:07.460 that
01:42:07.760 I
01:42:08.780 don't
01:42:08.960 think
01:42:09.140 it
01:42:09.240 has
01:42:09.380 any
01:42:09.600 interest
01:42:09.960 in
01:42:10.160 equality
01:42:10.780 though
01:42:11.100 so
01:42:12.480 yeah
01:42:14.700 it's
01:42:14.860 women's
01:42:15.700 advocacy
01:42:16.380 the
01:42:17.120 reality
01:42:17.920 but
01:42:18.880 that's
01:42:19.260 me
01:42:19.400 being
01:42:19.620 charitable
01:42:19.940 I
01:42:20.160 would
01:42:20.280 argue
01:42:20.480 the
01:42:20.680 reality
01:42:21.180 of
01:42:21.360 feminism
01:42:21.720 is
01:42:22.640 it's
01:42:22.960 something
01:42:23.380 along
01:42:23.780 the
01:42:23.960 lines
01:42:24.300 of
01:42:24.580 women's
01:42:25.540 advocacy
01:42:26.160 steeped
01:42:27.280 in
01:42:27.460 conspiracy
01:42:28.020 theories
01:42:28.560 and
01:42:29.440 there's
01:42:31.200 bare
01:42:32.540 minimum
01:42:32.860 like
01:42:33.280 some
01:42:33.640 degree
01:42:34.040 of
01:42:34.380 male
01:42:34.800 bigotry
01:42:35.360 bias
01:42:36.080 even
01:42:37.240 misandry
01:42:38.200 hatred
01:42:38.720 of
01:42:38.900 men
01:42:39.160 yeah
01:42:41.060 that's
01:42:41.820 my
01:42:42.060 more
01:42:43.100 accurate
01:42:43.680 sense
01:42:44.000 of
01:42:44.240 what
01:42:44.600 feminism
01:42:44.940 is
01:42:45.720 okay
01:42:46.780 can I
01:42:48.700 change
01:42:48.940 my
01:42:49.080 answer
01:42:49.420 I
01:42:49.660 don't
01:42:49.800 think
01:42:50.080 that
01:42:50.220 I'm
01:42:50.380 a
01:42:50.480 feminist
01:42:50.860 good
01:42:52.980 job
01:42:53.240 I'm
01:42:53.640 noticing
01:42:54.000 a
01:42:54.280 pattern
01:42:54.760 are you
01:42:55.140 noticing
01:42:55.460 a
01:42:55.700 pattern
01:42:56.160 with
01:42:57.440 they all
01:42:58.200 say
01:42:58.400 they're
01:42:58.600 a
01:42:58.760 feminist
01:42:59.060 and
01:42:59.440 then
01:42:59.580 when
01:42:59.700 we
01:42:59.860 further
01:43:00.180 they're
01:43:00.640 like
01:43:00.840 no
01:43:01.340 I
01:43:01.520 don't
01:43:01.760 want
01:43:02.520 to
01:43:02.780 identify
01:43:03.300 with
01:43:03.600 that
01:43:03.760 right
01:43:03.940 but
01:43:04.120 then
01:43:04.300 when
01:43:04.440 we
01:43:04.600 get
01:43:04.780 probing
01:43:05.200 questions
01:43:05.760 going
01:43:06.360 we
01:43:07.780 kind
01:43:08.020 of
01:43:08.140 find
01:43:08.380 out
01:43:08.700 that
01:43:09.780 they
01:43:09.940 are
01:43:10.100 feminist
01:43:10.460 let
01:43:11.020 me
01:43:11.160 let me
01:43:11.420 ask
01:43:11.620 a
01:43:11.720 couple
01:43:11.900 questions
01:43:12.460 that
01:43:12.620 could
01:43:12.760 perhaps
01:43:13.080 help
01:43:13.300 with
01:43:13.460 this
01:43:13.660 so
01:43:13.960 you've
01:43:15.220 got
01:43:15.340 a
01:43:15.480 boyfriend
01:43:15.740 over
01:43:16.120 here
01:43:16.500 I
01:43:16.740 do
01:43:16.980 with
01:43:19.080 him
01:43:19.420 or
01:43:19.600 just
01:43:19.800 like
01:43:20.040 if
01:43:20.200 you
01:43:20.300 were
01:43:20.420 ever
01:43:20.580 to
01:43:20.820 go
01:43:21.500 up
01:43:21.720 back
01:43:22.020 out
01:43:22.200 there
01:43:22.360 and
01:43:22.480 date
01:43:22.680 who
01:43:24.000 do
01:43:24.140 you
01:43:24.200 think
01:43:24.340 should
01:43:24.500 pay
01:43:24.680 on
01:43:24.800 the
01:43:24.900 first
01:43:25.100 date
01:43:25.320 the
01:43:26.540 man
01:43:26.720 or
01:43:26.820 the
01:43:27.200 woman
01:43:27.720 like
01:43:31.620 the
01:43:31.740 very
01:43:31.980 first
01:43:32.320 date
01:43:32.600 I
01:43:33.940 mean
01:43:34.060 I
01:43:34.180 guess
01:43:34.340 if
01:43:34.480 he's
01:43:34.660 taking
01:43:34.880 you
01:43:35.060 out
01:43:35.260 then
01:43:35.600 he
01:43:37.120 could
01:43:37.400 pay
01:43:37.780 for
01:43:38.100 it
01:43:38.220 but
01:43:38.380 throughout
01:43:39.620 the
01:43:39.880 relationship
01:43:40.400 I
01:43:40.680 feel
01:43:40.900 like
01:43:41.100 it
01:43:41.720 shouldn't
01:43:41.940 just
01:43:42.120 be
01:43:42.320 him
01:43:42.720 okay
01:43:43.780 so
01:43:44.000 first
01:43:44.280 date
01:43:44.500 should
01:43:44.640 be
01:43:44.720 the
01:43:44.840 guy
01:43:44.960 what
01:43:45.100 about
01:43:45.240 the
01:43:45.400 first
01:43:45.580 few
01:43:46.300 dates
01:43:46.600 I
01:43:47.880 would
01:43:48.080 split
01:43:48.340 I
01:43:48.480 would
01:43:48.640 offer
01:43:49.020 like
01:43:49.540 when
01:43:49.700 we
01:43:49.820 were
01:43:49.980 first
01:43:50.320 starting
01:43:50.560 to
01:43:50.840 date
01:43:51.100 I
01:43:51.660 would
01:43:51.820 like
01:43:52.060 if
01:43:52.520 he
01:43:52.680 pays
01:43:52.940 for
01:43:53.080 the
01:43:53.220 dinner
01:43:53.380 then
01:43:53.560 maybe
01:43:53.760 I'll
01:43:53.940 get
01:43:54.100 dessert
01:43:54.500 okay
01:43:55.380 so
01:43:55.580 you
01:43:55.740 pay
01:43:55.980 for
01:43:56.140 80%
01:43:56.600 and
01:43:56.780 you
01:43:56.880 pay
01:43:57.280 for
01:43:57.420 20%
01:43:58.620 of
01:43:59.400 the
01:43:59.500 bill
01:43:59.660 typically
01:44:02.560 if my
01:44:02.960 understanding
01:44:03.580 of
01:44:03.880 eating
01:44:04.620 out
01:44:04.980 dessert
01:44:05.340 is
01:44:05.560 typically
01:44:05.900 going
01:44:06.100 to
01:44:06.160 be
01:44:06.420 a
01:44:07.160 fraction
01:44:07.580 of
01:44:07.840 the
01:44:08.080 maybe
01:44:09.360 it's
01:44:09.560 five
01:44:09.840 dollars
01:44:10.280 it
01:44:10.840 doesn't
01:44:11.060 have
01:44:11.260 to
01:44:11.400 be
01:44:11.540 like
01:44:11.760 dinner
01:44:12.080 and
01:44:12.240 dessert
01:44:12.420 it
01:44:12.560 could
01:44:12.640 be
01:44:12.760 like
01:44:13.040 if
01:44:13.640 we're
01:44:13.740 going
01:44:13.880 to
01:44:14.000 the
01:44:14.120 movies
01:44:14.420 and
01:44:14.620 he
01:44:14.800 could
01:44:14.980 buy
01:44:15.120 the
01:44:15.300 tickets
01:44:15.640 or
01:44:15.800 then
01:44:15.980 I'll
01:44:16.200 get
01:44:16.340 the
01:44:16.540 snack
01:44:16.720 with
01:44:17.340 your
01:44:17.480 boyfriend
01:44:17.800 for
01:44:18.000 the
01:44:18.100 first
01:44:18.300 date
01:44:18.500 did
01:44:18.640 he
01:44:18.800 pay
01:44:18.940 for
01:44:19.140 it
01:44:19.320 um
01:44:20.580 I'm
01:44:22.360 pretty
01:44:22.540 sure
01:44:22.680 he
01:44:22.800 got
01:44:22.940 the
01:44:23.100 tickets
01:44:23.440 and
01:44:23.620 I
01:44:23.720 got
01:44:23.840 the
01:44:24.040 snacks
01:44:24.400 okay
01:44:26.280 um
01:44:27.220 what
01:44:27.360 about
01:44:27.520 you
01:44:27.720 if
01:44:28.020 you
01:44:28.240 end
01:44:28.560 up
01:44:28.720 on
01:44:28.840 the
01:44:28.940 first
01:44:29.120 date
01:44:29.260 with
01:44:29.360 guy
01:44:29.540 would
01:44:29.700 you
01:44:29.800 like
01:44:30.000 him
01:44:30.160 to
01:44:30.260 pay
01:44:30.420 or
01:44:30.660 are
01:44:30.880 you
01:44:30.980 okay
01:44:31.140 50-50
01:44:31.760 um
01:44:32.640 I'm
01:44:33.080 okay
01:44:33.280 with
01:44:33.500 50-50
01:44:34.140 for
01:44:34.360 like
01:44:34.500 the
01:44:34.640 first
01:44:34.920 date
01:44:35.200 yeah
01:44:35.500 what
01:44:36.300 about
01:44:36.480 dates
01:44:36.700 beyond
01:44:36.920 the
01:44:37.060 first
01:44:37.240 date
01:44:37.460 um
01:44:38.900 I
01:44:39.160 think
01:44:39.520 it
01:44:39.840 would
01:44:39.960 be
01:44:40.100 like
01:44:40.420 it
01:44:41.220 shouldn't
01:44:41.460 have
01:44:41.580 to
01:44:41.640 be
01:44:41.720 like
01:44:41.840 exactly
01:44:42.160 50-50
01:44:42.740 but
01:44:42.900 I'm
01:44:43.060 okay
01:44:43.240 with
01:44:43.420 like
01:44:43.740 um
01:44:44.740 you
01:44:45.160 like
01:44:45.600 if
01:44:45.820 we're
01:44:46.000 like
01:44:46.140 more
01:44:46.340 serious
01:44:46.680 about
01:44:46.920 it
01:44:47.040 like
01:44:47.280 um
01:44:47.960 we
01:44:48.080 just
01:44:48.320 kind
01:44:48.720 of
01:44:48.800 like
01:44:49.000 pay
01:44:49.360 for
01:44:49.640 each
01:44:49.900 other
01:44:50.180 and
01:44:50.400 it's
01:44:50.540 not
01:44:50.660 like
01:44:50.920 something
01:44:51.540 like
01:44:51.840 super
01:44:52.660 like
01:44:53.240 strict
01:44:53.760 I
01:44:53.960 guess
01:44:54.180 like
01:44:54.460 okay
01:44:54.740 he gets
01:44:55.120 one
01:44:55.400 you
01:44:55.600 get
01:44:55.760 one
01:44:56.060 yeah
01:44:56.360 kind
01:44:56.640 of
01:44:56.760 like
01:44:56.880 that
01:44:57.160 what
01:44:57.720 about
01:44:57.880 you
01:44:58.040 absolutely
01:44:59.060 absolutely
01:45:00.800 what
01:45:01.120 pay
01:45:01.460 on the
01:45:01.780 first
01:45:02.040 date
01:45:02.360 the
01:45:02.700 guy
01:45:02.800 should
01:45:02.980 pay
01:45:03.100 on
01:45:03.200 the
01:45:03.280 first
01:45:03.480 date
01:45:03.620 okay
01:45:04.300 what
01:45:05.080 about
01:45:05.220 you
01:45:05.400 yes
01:45:05.660 the
01:45:05.820 guy
01:45:05.960 should
01:45:06.140 pay
01:45:06.240 on
01:45:06.340 the
01:45:06.420 first
01:45:06.580 date
01:45:06.820 I
01:45:07.500 don't
01:45:09.160 think
01:45:09.320 so
01:45:09.520 I
01:45:09.760 mean
01:45:09.920 look
01:45:10.740 if
01:45:11.040 they're
01:45:11.500 asking
01:45:12.020 for
01:45:12.440 they're
01:45:13.400 like
01:45:13.540 I
01:45:13.680 want
01:45:13.840 to
01:45:13.880 take
01:45:14.000 you
01:45:14.100 to
01:45:14.200 a
01:45:14.360 super
01:45:14.640 expensive
01:45:15.000 restaurant
01:45:15.500 I
01:45:16.360 don't
01:45:16.600 have
01:45:16.860 the
01:45:17.000 money
01:45:17.180 for
01:45:17.380 that
01:45:17.620 I'm
01:45:17.940 going
01:45:18.020 to
01:45:18.100 communicate
01:45:18.500 that
01:45:19.040 and
01:45:19.640 if
01:45:19.780 they're
01:45:19.900 like
01:45:20.040 okay
01:45:20.240 then
01:45:20.380 let's
01:45:20.520 go
01:45:20.640 somewhere
01:45:20.820 cheaper
01:45:21.100 cool
01:45:21.420 that's
01:45:21.780 fine
01:45:21.900 with
01:45:22.040 me
01:45:22.160 I
01:45:22.300 don't
01:45:22.440 care
01:45:22.680 okay
01:45:23.080 but
01:45:23.500 I
01:45:23.780 will
01:45:23.920 split
01:45:24.160 that's
01:45:24.440 fair
01:45:24.620 okay
01:45:24.940 so
01:45:25.220 if
01:45:25.520 he's
01:45:26.240 asking
01:45:26.480 you
01:45:26.620 somewhere
01:45:26.860 expensive
01:45:27.340 then
01:45:29.140 yeah
01:45:29.840 yeah
01:45:30.240 okay
01:45:30.780 what about
01:45:31.400 you
01:45:31.560 who should
01:45:32.240 pay
01:45:32.420 men
01:45:33.340 men
01:45:34.260 okay
01:45:34.700 didn't
01:45:35.020 you say
01:45:35.240 you were
01:45:35.420 feminist
01:45:35.840 feminist
01:45:37.020 feminist
01:45:37.340 feminist
01:45:37.800 not a
01:45:38.660 feminist
01:45:38.980 here's
01:45:42.440 another
01:45:42.620 question
01:45:42.980 that we
01:45:43.300 can kind
01:45:43.680 of
01:45:43.880 figure
01:45:44.360 out
01:45:44.600 here
01:45:44.880 should
01:45:46.860 women
01:45:47.100 be
01:45:47.320 drafted
01:45:47.800 this
01:45:49.060 is
01:45:49.200 this
01:45:49.380 is
01:45:49.540 an
01:45:49.700 effort
01:45:49.960 to
01:45:50.300 figure
01:45:51.040 out
01:45:51.240 if
01:45:51.360 you
01:45:51.440 guys
01:45:51.580 are
01:45:51.700 feminist
01:45:52.060 or
01:45:52.280 not
01:45:52.560 should
01:45:53.620 women
01:45:53.840 be
01:45:54.020 drafted
01:45:54.420 in
01:45:54.780 the
01:45:54.900 military
01:45:55.280 like
01:45:56.460 by
01:45:57.520 drafted
01:45:57.900 do
01:45:58.220 you
01:45:58.320 mean
01:45:58.480 like
01:45:58.720 when
01:45:59.040 you
01:45:59.160 turn
01:45:59.360 18
01:45:59.640 like
01:45:59.900 you
01:46:00.060 automatically
01:46:00.480 yeah
01:46:00.760 so
01:46:01.020 men
01:46:01.240 have
01:46:01.480 to
01:46:01.640 register
01:46:02.020 for
01:46:02.280 the
01:46:02.420 selective
01:46:02.740 service
01:46:03.260 currently
01:46:03.620 there's
01:46:03.860 not
01:46:03.980 a
01:46:04.100 draft
01:46:04.360 in
01:46:04.500 the
01:46:04.600 United
01:46:04.780 States
01:46:05.140 but
01:46:05.640 all
01:46:05.820 men
01:46:06.020 in
01:46:06.120 the
01:46:06.220 United
01:46:06.440 States
01:46:06.840 at
01:46:07.060 18
01:46:08.460 in order
01:46:08.860 to be
01:46:09.140 able
01:46:09.300 to
01:46:09.440 vote
01:46:09.700 and have
01:46:10.040 other
01:46:10.240 benefits
01:46:10.680 they have
01:46:11.040 to register
01:46:11.500 for the
01:46:11.880 selective
01:46:12.140 service
01:46:12.640 which would
01:46:13.780 then make
01:46:14.340 them subject
01:46:14.860 to
01:46:15.440 military
01:46:16.360 conscription
01:46:16.880 in the
01:46:17.220 case
01:46:17.460 that there
01:46:17.740 was
01:46:18.120 a
01:46:18.520 military
01:46:19.500 conflict
01:46:19.940 which
01:46:20.480 required
01:46:21.500 a draft
01:46:22.060 so do
01:46:23.720 you think
01:46:23.860 women should
01:46:24.220 be subject
01:46:24.760 to
01:46:25.240 selective
01:46:27.220 service
01:46:27.740 draft
01:46:28.340 absolutely
01:46:29.140 not
01:46:29.940 okay
01:46:31.220 I wouldn't
01:46:31.860 even
01:46:32.080 chose
01:46:32.360 women to
01:46:33.180 like
01:46:33.500 fight
01:46:33.880 for
01:46:34.160 our
01:46:34.500 country
01:46:34.960 unless
01:46:35.400 that's
01:46:35.720 like
01:46:36.020 that's
01:46:36.880 their
01:46:37.060 thing
01:46:37.440 you know
01:46:37.800 like
01:46:38.100 if you're
01:46:38.600 like
01:46:38.840 that type
01:46:39.320 of woman
01:46:39.720 that you
01:46:40.280 feel like
01:46:40.820 you're
01:46:41.160 stronger
01:46:42.060 and stuff
01:46:42.640 like that
01:46:42.980 but I
01:46:43.380 just feel
01:46:43.860 like
01:46:44.080 no
01:46:45.620 okay
01:46:46.380 what do you
01:46:46.900 think
01:46:47.140 well hold on
01:46:47.680 so you think
01:46:48.380 they should be
01:46:49.240 drafted based on
01:46:50.140 how they feel
01:46:50.880 no
01:46:52.200 about
01:46:52.480 I'm not saying
01:46:53.040 that at all
01:46:53.380 I'm saying
01:46:53.760 like
01:46:54.380 willingly
01:46:54.880 if you just
01:46:55.360 want to
01:46:55.660 go
01:46:55.760 she's saying
01:46:55.900 if they
01:46:56.140 want to
01:46:56.340 volunteer
01:46:56.580 well just
01:46:56.880 really
01:46:57.120 want to
01:46:57.440 volunteer
01:46:57.820 yeah
01:46:58.080 if they
01:46:58.340 want to
01:46:58.640 volunteer
01:46:59.140 yes
01:46:59.600 yeah
01:46:59.760 but then
01:46:59.980 yeah
01:47:00.220 that's
01:47:00.420 what we
01:47:04.120 currently
01:47:04.400 have
01:47:04.660 yeah
01:47:04.980 but
01:47:05.720 yeah
01:47:06.740 I guess
01:47:07.100 we should
01:47:07.360 be drafted
01:47:07.700 because I
01:47:08.020 mean
01:47:08.260 plenty of men
01:47:10.240 don't want to
01:47:10.640 join
01:47:10.920 plenty of men
01:47:12.900 I'm plenty of
01:47:13.480 men
01:47:13.680 plenty of
01:47:14.060 women
01:47:14.240 don't matter
01:47:14.780 if we gotta
01:47:15.660 do what
01:47:15.840 we gotta
01:47:16.040 do
01:47:16.220 I mean
01:47:16.520 yeah
01:47:17.080 now here's
01:47:17.460 the interesting
01:47:17.860 thing
01:47:18.140 you guys
01:47:18.480 both have
01:47:18.960 different
01:47:19.220 opinions
01:47:19.520 on this
01:47:19.920 I still
01:47:20.960 don't know
01:47:21.480 which is
01:47:21.960 actually like
01:47:22.620 the actual
01:47:23.180 feminist
01:47:23.720 position
01:47:24.280 because it
01:47:25.480 will have
01:47:25.820 feminists
01:47:26.160 who will
01:47:26.440 argue
01:47:26.740 it's
01:47:26.940 actually
01:47:27.240 we had
01:47:27.560 one last
01:47:28.020 week
01:47:28.200 with
01:47:28.380 Andrew
01:47:28.720 who said
01:47:29.520 well it's
01:47:30.180 not
01:47:30.400 it's not
01:47:31.220 equitable
01:47:32.040 it's not
01:47:32.880 equity for
01:47:33.720 women to
01:47:34.140 be drafted
01:47:34.580 that's a
01:47:35.240 whole nother
01:47:35.620 thing
01:47:35.920 but what
01:47:36.960 about you
01:47:37.340 no
01:47:38.280 no
01:47:38.780 okay
01:47:39.180 no women
01:47:40.000 should not
01:47:40.340 be drafted
01:47:40.600 should not
01:47:40.840 be drafted
01:47:41.280 no
01:47:41.780 but they
01:47:42.500 should be
01:47:42.780 paid
01:47:43.100 equally
01:47:43.520 in sporting
01:47:44.260 events
01:47:44.740 no comment
01:47:47.200 okay
01:47:47.760 no
01:47:49.400 they shouldn't
01:47:50.660 be drafted
01:47:51.060 I don't
01:47:51.560 think so
01:47:52.080 well
01:47:52.400 hold on
01:47:53.000 okay so
01:47:53.340 everybody
01:47:54.060 except
01:47:54.900 Anza
01:47:55.660 yeah
01:47:56.020 said
01:47:57.340 women
01:47:57.800 shouldn't
01:47:58.080 be drafted
01:47:58.520 but y'all
01:47:59.120 want to be
01:47:59.440 equal
01:47:59.780 so wait a sec
01:48:01.380 how are you
01:48:02.200 equal if the
01:48:03.380 men are the
01:48:04.380 ones that have
01:48:04.860 to fight and
01:48:05.560 die to defend
01:48:06.280 the country
01:48:06.880 the men are
01:48:07.500 the ones that
01:48:08.200 build and
01:48:09.080 maintain all the
01:48:09.780 infrastructure
01:48:10.480 right like
01:48:12.180 none of this
01:48:12.840 stuff in the
01:48:13.440 studio is built
01:48:14.800 or maintained
01:48:15.260 by women
01:48:15.920 do you know
01:48:16.580 that like 90
01:48:17.480 percent of
01:48:17.960 infrastructure jobs
01:48:19.020 are still held
01:48:19.820 by men
01:48:20.420 and that if
01:48:21.580 you look at the
01:48:22.040 top 20 jobs
01:48:23.240 held by women
01:48:24.020 now in
01:48:25.480 2024 versus
01:48:26.620 1924 are
01:48:27.880 almost the
01:48:28.280 exact same
01:48:29.020 so women have
01:48:29.500 had a hundred
01:48:29.940 years to do
01:48:30.700 whatever they
01:48:31.100 want and they
01:48:32.280 still do the
01:48:33.240 same 20 jobs
01:48:34.100 they did a hundred
01:48:34.600 years ago other
01:48:35.600 than we switched
01:48:36.980 out farm labor
01:48:37.800 for HR work but
01:48:38.800 other than that
01:48:39.300 we're secretaries
01:48:40.100 nurses daycare
01:48:41.580 ladies early
01:48:42.860 childhood education
01:48:44.140 administrative
01:48:45.700 assistants retail
01:48:46.960 workers all the
01:48:48.100 same shit that we
01:48:48.900 were a century
01:48:49.680 ago so if the
01:48:52.440 men are the
01:48:53.420 ones tasked
01:48:54.120 with every
01:48:54.680 time there's a
01:48:55.120 natural disaster
01:48:55.900 they have to go
01:48:56.460 out and rescue
01:48:57.040 people from the
01:48:57.760 fires and the
01:48:58.360 floodwaters and
01:48:59.080 every time there's
01:48:59.600 a war the men
01:49:00.380 have to go and
01:49:00.980 fight it and
01:49:01.440 defend the
01:49:01.900 country and
01:49:02.840 anytime there's
01:49:03.560 a criminal who
01:49:04.700 needs to be
01:49:05.260 violently arrested
01:49:06.140 it's going to be
01:49:06.640 a man who goes
01:49:07.400 and does that
01:49:07.880 not a woman
01:49:08.520 where does the
01:49:10.720 equality come in
01:49:11.920 if we're doing
01:49:12.560 the fluffy jobs
01:49:13.420 you know we're
01:49:13.820 all singers we
01:49:14.720 got a lot of
01:49:15.220 singers and
01:49:15.720 musicians which
01:49:16.260 is cool it's
01:49:16.960 great I love
01:49:17.420 music too but
01:49:19.120 y'all ain't
01:49:19.680 like rescuing
01:49:20.580 people and
01:49:21.460 you know doing
01:49:22.420 the heavy lifting
01:49:23.680 or the dirty or
01:49:24.700 the dangerous
01:49:25.220 jobs like who
01:49:25.860 collects the
01:49:26.380 trash men you
01:49:27.920 know who does
01:49:30.340 all the steel
01:49:30.960 working and oil
01:49:31.920 rig work and all
01:49:33.580 of the like sewer
01:49:34.560 cleaning men we
01:49:36.260 have a video on
01:49:37.000 this Rachel actually
01:49:37.820 Nick remember that
01:49:38.580 video we were
01:49:39.140 looking at yesterday
01:49:39.940 I think it might
01:49:42.140 still be on one of
01:49:43.100 the tabs
01:49:43.640 let's watch this
01:49:48.180 no audio
01:49:49.620 no audio
01:49:50.620 go ahead
01:49:51.260 yeah go ahead
01:49:54.920 are you ready
01:49:56.360 to work on an
01:49:57.060 oil rig
01:49:57.800 all right
01:49:59.220 come on feminists
01:50:00.700 get in there
01:50:01.320 you can do it
01:50:01.900 those are some
01:50:02.020 roughnecks
01:50:02.840 come on ladies
01:50:04.140 ladies
01:50:04.880 anyone
01:50:05.220 Andrew had to do
01:50:06.640 stuff like that
01:50:07.260 back in the day
01:50:07.880 they'd lower him
01:50:08.640 underwater welding
01:50:09.920 not underwater but
01:50:11.680 they would lower him
01:50:12.620 into these tiny
01:50:13.480 little horrifically
01:50:14.580 frightening spaces
01:50:15.740 to do extremely
01:50:16.520 dangerous stuff
01:50:17.400 I'm claustrophobic
01:50:18.300 I really feel like
01:50:18.920 women should just
01:50:19.400 have the choice to
01:50:19.920 do if they want to
01:50:20.520 because I know
01:50:20.900 some women that
01:50:21.340 can handle it
01:50:21.780 they do have the
01:50:22.360 choice and they're
01:50:22.860 not they do and
01:50:23.820 they're not doing
01:50:24.560 it they don't want
01:50:25.260 to well I mean
01:50:26.000 well this is the
01:50:26.660 big secret right
01:50:27.540 is that women
01:50:28.060 don't want to do
01:50:29.100 any of this dirty
01:50:30.000 dangerous scary
01:50:31.260 stuff they don't
01:50:32.520 want to well
01:50:33.320 yeah but is that
01:50:34.040 just you know what
01:50:34.800 we've been raised
01:50:35.300 with the culture
01:50:35.780 we're surrounded by
01:50:36.540 no and I have data
01:50:37.800 to back this up
01:50:38.900 so okay if you
01:50:40.820 oh is there more
01:50:41.420 Nick just let it
01:50:42.620 play yeah we'll
01:50:43.880 just let it play
01:50:44.580 okay so back
01:50:46.440 around the time
01:50:47.080 of suffrage we're
01:50:47.820 talking like 1850s
01:50:50.440 to 1920 roughly
01:50:51.680 around there when
01:50:52.300 the big suffrage
01:50:53.120 movement was
01:50:53.660 happening did you
01:50:56.360 guys know that most
01:50:57.800 women were completely
01:50:58.660 against it by all
01:51:00.280 of the referendums
01:51:02.260 that they would do
01:51:02.780 where they would let
01:51:03.280 women vote on
01:51:04.320 whether they wanted
01:51:05.020 to vote only about
01:51:05.900 four percent actually
01:51:07.340 had any interest in
01:51:08.500 voting and they
01:51:09.400 actually had really
01:51:10.280 good reasons for
01:51:11.200 this there was much
01:51:11.800 higher membership in
01:51:13.340 anti-suffrage groups
01:51:14.340 and pro-suffrage
01:51:15.060 groups and these
01:51:15.900 groups would do
01:51:16.440 public debates they
01:51:17.660 would do written
01:51:18.200 debates newspaper
01:51:19.520 periodicals where they
01:51:20.580 would go back and
01:51:21.220 forth and debate
01:51:21.840 these things and the
01:51:23.080 women who are against
01:51:23.780 suffrage said look the
01:51:26.040 primary purpose of
01:51:28.020 government is to
01:51:28.900 protect persons and
01:51:30.220 property okay why
01:51:32.480 task women with that
01:51:33.600 when we're not really
01:51:34.940 capable of doing that
01:51:36.000 okay we don't want to
01:51:38.940 have to be drafted we
01:51:40.020 don't want to have to
01:51:40.600 do jury duty we don't
01:51:41.960 want to have to be a
01:51:42.780 political block because
01:51:44.520 back then women had
01:51:46.200 advocacy groups for
01:51:47.360 things they wanted but
01:51:48.780 they weren't a lobbying
01:51:50.080 group they didn't have
01:51:51.160 like voting rights so
01:51:53.060 they weren't able to be
01:51:53.860 as easily politicized
01:51:54.840 they felt like they had
01:51:55.580 a moral high ground to
01:51:56.960 ask for things like we
01:51:58.120 need more parks we need
01:51:59.240 better schools we need
01:52:00.180 clean air whatever it
01:52:01.020 was and that if they
01:52:03.320 became just another
01:52:04.160 voting block they would
01:52:06.280 be involved in dirty
01:52:07.820 politics and they didn't
01:52:08.820 want to do that they
01:52:09.620 felt like somebody has to
01:52:11.060 be morally neutral and
01:52:12.100 not involved in
01:52:12.720 politics so given all
01:52:14.980 of that do you guys
01:52:16.120 think that women can
01:52:17.260 protect and defend
01:52:18.820 persons and property
01:52:20.080 sure I mean I will
01:52:22.480 first of all I want to
01:52:23.620 go back to the fact that
01:52:24.520 for a long time women
01:52:25.780 weren't allowed to own
01:52:26.380 property or at least not
01:52:27.220 without being married and
01:52:29.100 so actually it was the
01:52:30.700 opposite it was once you
01:52:31.700 got married you generally
01:52:34.140 whatever belonged to you
01:52:35.460 belonged sure but then
01:52:36.440 usually the woman is
01:52:37.380 still living with the
01:52:38.020 family and why would you
01:52:39.780 so think about why
01:52:41.180 why do you want to live
01:52:42.020 on your own why do you
01:52:42.920 think women didn't own
01:52:44.140 property well do you
01:52:46.020 think it was just the
01:52:46.560 patriarchy like just
01:52:47.520 no I'm not saying that
01:52:48.500 I'm not saying that
01:52:49.380 put their boot on their
01:52:50.620 neck and keep them down
01:52:51.720 I generally don't think
01:52:52.560 that I generally I
01:52:53.740 generally think it was
01:52:54.440 just a matter of the
01:52:54.980 times like you know
01:52:55.900 because it was I mean
01:52:57.720 so you do you think
01:52:58.620 there was a reason
01:52:59.460 though do you think
01:53:00.140 there was a logic behind
01:53:01.540 not letting I think it
01:53:02.980 worked for back then I
01:53:04.320 think it worked for what
01:53:05.180 it is at that point in
01:53:06.560 time no I think I don't
01:53:07.460 think you understand what
01:53:08.100 I'm sure so if you're a
01:53:09.360 woman and you own land
01:53:10.640 and it's 1802 and bandits
01:53:13.720 or cattle robbers or
01:53:15.920 Indians come and they
01:53:18.140 say we're taking your
01:53:19.520 land what are you going
01:53:20.780 to do about it but
01:53:21.640 that's exactly my point
01:53:22.420 that worked for that
01:53:23.080 time okay what's
01:53:24.360 different now we don't
01:53:25.680 have that as much I
01:53:26.720 mean it depends on the
01:53:27.660 neighborhood of course I
01:53:28.560 mean it depends on the
01:53:29.360 community okay so if you
01:53:30.860 own land now in 2024 and
01:53:33.440 you have a squatter who
01:53:34.960 comes and squats on your
01:53:36.200 property and you need
01:53:36.960 them removed I did that
01:53:38.340 call do you call ladies
01:53:39.920 to come and physically
01:53:40.920 remove them or are there
01:53:42.200 men who come and
01:53:43.440 physically remove them
01:53:44.340 so I had a subleaser who
01:53:46.260 I needed to get rid of
01:53:47.080 and I did all of it my
01:53:49.280 landlord didn't do
01:53:49.820 anything okay what'd you
01:53:50.740 do I went to the court
01:53:52.480 and I got the papers I
01:53:54.380 took her to court I won
01:53:55.980 oh wait it was a woman
01:53:56.920 squatter uh yeah oh well
01:54:00.380 okay but did you
01:54:01.500 physically remove her or
01:54:03.200 did cops come well did
01:54:05.560 she willingly after the
01:54:07.120 judgment from the court
01:54:08.080 she willingly left so
01:54:09.400 okay the lease was up
01:54:10.880 she refused to leave
01:54:11.900 and uh is and so um
01:54:16.640 you know I got the
01:54:17.780 paperwork um I gave her
01:54:19.540 the three-day notice to
01:54:20.480 vacate which is the
01:54:21.520 proper way to right
01:54:22.920 you're going through the
01:54:23.560 eviction process exactly
01:54:24.660 and so then you know uh
01:54:27.380 and she was still like
01:54:28.060 that's not right that's
01:54:29.500 you're it's totally
01:54:30.540 illegal even though I
01:54:31.180 got it literally from the
01:54:32.000 courthouse and so then
01:54:33.800 we're like okay let's
01:54:34.400 get the proper eviction
01:54:35.280 papers mind you we still
01:54:37.400 uh had um the papers
01:54:40.340 escorted by cops so did
01:54:42.600 did you you both went to
01:54:44.900 the court and there was
01:54:45.720 like the eviction trial yeah
01:54:47.780 and we did well I mean
01:54:48.920 what the eviction trial so
01:54:49.960 she did leave within the
01:54:51.240 five days of receiving the
01:54:52.280 eviction oh okay yeah but
01:54:54.980 so let's say she stayed
01:54:56.420 there right yeah because I
01:54:57.640 think this is what Rachel
01:54:58.460 is getting at let's say she
01:54:59.620 stayed there you what you
01:55:00.720 you even won the eviction
01:55:01.860 case the judge did an
01:55:03.860 order I don't know
01:55:04.580 typically after the
01:55:05.780 eviction I think they
01:55:06.500 have another period of
01:55:07.880 time it depends on the
01:55:08.780 state yeah it can be 10
01:55:09.820 days 30 days whatever it
01:55:10.980 is and then the cops will
01:55:12.400 come after a certain
01:55:13.500 period of time and then
01:55:14.780 forcibly remove the
01:55:15.900 person I think what
01:55:16.600 Rachel's trying to get
01:55:17.240 at is right who's going
01:55:18.460 to forcibly remove the
01:55:20.000 person whether man or
01:55:21.320 woman if they were even
01:55:22.840 after getting a judgment
01:55:24.120 from a court they still
01:55:25.720 refuse to leave right
01:55:27.000 okay um so in this case
01:55:29.040 um because she left
01:55:29.920 within the five days I
01:55:30.840 didn't have to have like
01:55:31.860 the sheriff remove her
01:55:32.760 but um and I mean at
01:55:35.080 least when uh I was
01:55:36.640 giving the papers the
01:55:37.540 cops that were there
01:55:38.160 were men and women yes
01:55:39.660 primarily men but there
01:55:42.200 were women I mean who's
01:55:44.020 to say there can't be
01:55:44.800 more well you you're
01:55:45.680 talking about the
01:55:46.100 process server so you
01:55:47.640 served her with the um
01:55:49.720 so it was my mother who
01:55:50.960 served her but because of
01:55:52.340 the threats she was
01:55:52.920 making we had her
01:55:53.900 escorted uh by foot
01:55:55.180 patrol ah and that was
01:55:57.200 not like a bunch of
01:55:58.180 strong independent women
01:55:59.200 who marched it was a
01:56:00.360 man and a woman okay
01:56:01.680 and if it had just been
01:56:03.320 a woman do you see
01:56:05.420 what I'm getting at do
01:56:06.460 you see like I who
01:56:07.600 defends our national
01:56:08.760 borders not a bunch of
01:56:10.180 feminists right uh the
01:56:12.440 use of force is still
01:56:14.040 always going to be I
01:56:15.240 mean of course like when
01:56:15.940 you come men are taller
01:56:17.100 and bigger of course
01:56:17.760 they're gonna they're
01:56:18.280 gonna have that physical
01:56:19.200 well I always got it I
01:56:20.900 really understood I
01:56:21.840 mean going back to the
01:56:23.580 sports things I mean the
01:56:24.580 men are going to be able
01:56:25.180 to do things that you
01:56:26.200 know women just physically
01:56:27.800 right so when we talk
01:56:29.980 about equality the only
01:56:32.860 equality women have is
01:56:34.800 the illusion of equality
01:56:36.400 granted to them and
01:56:37.820 provided for them by men
01:56:40.160 sure I mean that's why I
01:56:42.060 think it depends on the
01:56:42.700 context when it comes to
01:56:43.800 equality personally um if
01:56:46.900 you have to appeal to men
01:56:49.500 and say men let us be
01:56:51.520 equal we demand equality
01:56:53.340 and the men go fine we'll
01:56:54.700 enforce equality for is
01:56:55.980 that really equality well
01:56:57.760 that's why I think it
01:56:58.700 depends on how it is being
01:57:00.300 handled personally I think
01:57:01.580 so it's up to the men
01:57:02.640 basically it's always going
01:57:05.100 to when well because they're
01:57:06.460 already in that position if
01:57:08.100 I mean if that was I mean
01:57:09.440 if we could flip it and
01:57:10.880 then they'd have to ask us
01:57:12.080 right I mean okay okay so
01:57:14.380 you think we could put women
01:57:16.100 on all the oil rigs and we
01:57:17.500 could put women in the
01:57:18.360 senate we could put women in
01:57:19.700 the military as generals we
01:57:21.500 could make them sheriffs and
01:57:22.940 that would work out fine yeah
01:57:25.120 do you think so okay I mean
01:57:26.500 well here's the thing I
01:57:27.680 mean I mean okay uh for
01:57:30.720 example I remember watching
01:57:31.900 this one show I think it
01:57:33.800 was called stars and
01:57:34.400 stripes and it took a bunch
01:57:36.180 of celebrities and put them
01:57:37.540 in the position of military
01:57:38.460 it had men it had women the
01:57:39.980 person who ended up winning
01:57:40.760 was uh the skier peekaboo
01:57:43.160 streets and she was a woman
01:57:45.580 she beat out actually um
01:57:47.300 who the fuck is that guy
01:57:48.700 uh she ended up beating out
01:57:51.780 uh like Sarah Palin's uh
01:57:53.420 husband um and uh this is a
01:57:57.140 reality show where's this
01:57:58.900 where is this going well for
01:58:00.860 example she ended up winning
01:58:01.740 she was in but they were all
01:58:02.820 put in position of military
01:58:03.880 and she ended up winning it
01:58:05.100 was a woman so do you think
01:58:07.280 that men and women are the
01:58:08.380 same I don't think they're
01:58:09.760 the same I don't I got like
01:58:11.380 again I think physically there
01:58:13.020 are differences okay just
01:58:15.040 physically though like you
01:58:16.000 don't think that men have
01:58:16.880 certain strengths and women
01:58:17.780 have certain strengths and
01:58:18.660 they each have like different
01:58:19.940 divinely appointed roles in
01:58:21.540 existence um well I mean I'm
01:58:23.720 an atheist personally okay
01:58:25.000 um well not okay do you
01:58:26.440 think that they have
01:58:27.020 appointed roles in society in
01:58:28.580 order for society to be
01:58:29.820 mostly successful I think
01:58:31.620 that's how it's come to be
01:58:32.980 so can I ask you another
01:58:34.300 question yeah do you think
01:58:35.140 that women are happier today
01:58:36.480 or do you think that they
01:58:37.340 were happier before all of
01:58:38.380 this stuff um I think
01:58:41.960 because it's proven that
01:58:43.740 women are way less happier
01:58:45.500 today okay but is that
01:58:47.760 just the stats we're
01:58:49.380 looking at now as in like
01:58:50.260 those are the stats we're
01:58:50.880 taking that's just
01:58:51.600 ignorance is bliss yeah
01:58:53.260 because I mean for
01:58:54.140 example like people like
01:58:55.360 to make the argument that
01:58:56.540 um you know we're seeing a
01:58:58.520 rise in autism okay is it
01:58:59.620 the fact that there's a
01:59:01.140 rise in autism or did we
01:59:02.780 just not take into account
01:59:03.740 uh the the fact that you
01:59:05.740 know we didn't know what it
01:59:06.320 was before well so I think
01:59:07.640 people know I can actually
01:59:08.580 explain this because it's
01:59:09.800 like my area of specialty
01:59:11.200 there's um surveys that
01:59:13.900 were done like very large
01:59:15.140 scale surveys that were
01:59:16.280 done in the 70s and then
01:59:17.980 again in the 90s and then
01:59:19.220 again in the early 2000s
01:59:20.820 so the first one that came
01:59:23.700 out was called the paradox
01:59:25.220 of female happiness where
01:59:26.480 when they surveyed women all
01:59:28.340 over the west and asked them
01:59:30.600 if they were how what their
01:59:31.760 satisfaction levels were a
01:59:33.060 ton of different metrics were
01:59:34.160 used um in the 70s pretty
01:59:37.220 good pretty happy uh not a
01:59:39.220 lot wrong by the time we get
01:59:41.460 to the 90s and they repeat
01:59:42.600 the survey uh women are
01:59:44.540 declining in happiness in
01:59:46.100 the places that they have
01:59:47.300 the most freedom the most
01:59:49.840 egalitarian society so the
01:59:52.120 places where women have the
01:59:53.060 most equality are the places
01:59:54.360 where we see them not only
01:59:56.160 reporting that they have
01:59:57.800 higher levels of self
01:59:58.780 unhappiness but also we see
02:00:01.780 a rise in alcoholism fetal
02:00:03.660 alcohol syndrome depression
02:00:05.600 anxiety uh prescription drug
02:00:08.180 use every metric they look
02:00:10.580 at women are reporting that
02:00:12.260 they are less happy now
02:00:13.580 there's a lot of reasons we
02:00:14.620 could talk about why that
02:00:15.580 might be but I think people
02:00:17.960 don't understand that when
02:00:18.920 women are trying to be
02:00:19.840 equal it makes life pretty
02:00:21.860 impossible you end up
02:00:23.220 thinking you can have it all
02:00:24.260 do it all be it all your
02:00:25.520 expectations are wildly high
02:00:27.600 and you expect that you're
02:00:29.580 going to be able to have a
02:00:30.340 husband and a family and a
02:00:31.700 career and do whatever you
02:00:33.860 want but also have a man who's
02:00:35.360 going to take care of stuff
02:00:36.400 and these things all
02:00:37.720 contradict each other these
02:00:39.160 things do not like mesh
02:00:40.620 together well on top of
02:00:42.900 that women are more
02:00:44.440 emotionally volatile we have
02:00:45.800 a hormonal cycle every
02:00:47.360 month that you know
02:00:48.660 fluctuates we have pre
02:00:51.060 menopause we have postpartum
02:00:53.300 you know we we have a lot
02:00:54.780 of ups and downs okay and
02:00:55.820 don't have why why does that
02:00:57.380 make us more emotional
02:00:58.480 because I mean because and
02:00:59.580 I'm genuinely asking a
02:01:00.460 literal hormone well hold on
02:01:01.920 I know I know but I mean
02:01:04.220 for example let's look at
02:01:05.380 like history here so much
02:01:07.280 war has been caused by men
02:01:10.240 well I have something for
02:01:11.840 this actually yeah so I
02:01:13.400 mean they they looked at
02:01:14.620 monarchs for example
02:01:16.320 kings kings and queens and
02:01:18.200 they actually found that
02:01:19.160 queens were just as or even
02:01:21.560 more likely to wage war than
02:01:23.280 kings oh I'm not
02:01:24.340 disagreeing I think
02:01:25.360 there's some real messed up
02:01:26.660 women in history too truly
02:01:28.100 no but they they did like an
02:01:30.140 analysis here I'm not just
02:01:31.400 saying there were some
02:01:32.360 queens they just comparing
02:01:34.100 all of these I don't know
02:01:35.460 if it was if it was the
02:01:36.560 the English monarchs the
02:01:38.240 British monarchs I don't
02:01:39.420 recall exactly the specific
02:01:40.640 details of this analysis
02:01:42.260 they did but they did find
02:01:43.500 that queens were more
02:01:45.060 likely to wage war than
02:01:46.540 kings okay I wanted to put
02:01:48.680 that in there sure sure I
02:01:50.320 mean are we looking at it
02:01:51.440 statistically as in I mean
02:01:53.000 let's be real there were
02:01:54.160 probably still more kings in
02:01:56.280 history than there were
02:01:56.980 ever like queens that were
02:01:57.920 really in charge
02:01:58.920 per capita okay so it is
02:02:00.120 per capita yeah okay um I
02:02:02.860 mean I don't mean I can't
02:02:03.880 speak to that personally so
02:02:04.740 why would we think that men
02:02:06.180 are going to start more war
02:02:07.300 if women are more
02:02:08.200 emotionally volatile and
02:02:09.680 less rational and less
02:02:10.820 logical on average well
02:02:12.000 maybe we'd know that if we
02:02:13.080 were taught more about
02:02:14.480 those women as well because
02:02:16.940 I mean I'm personally I
02:02:17.920 mean I'm just gonna be
02:02:18.800 honest with you I I mean
02:02:19.940 how many women in history
02:02:21.080 can we actually name a ton
02:02:22.760 well I mean talking in that
02:02:24.560 specific position to cause a
02:02:26.400 war I mean I'm an
02:02:28.440 orthodox Christian and we
02:02:29.640 have tons of different
02:02:30.540 queens and princesses and
02:02:32.480 women who were in various
02:02:34.060 leadership positions and
02:02:35.300 sure terrific war on their
02:02:37.500 enemies sure it's I mean
02:02:39.140 it's just usually I mean we
02:02:40.460 see you know queens that
02:02:42.660 are just with a king yes
02:02:44.900 oh you're sorry sorry
02:02:48.200 that would be I could give
02:02:51.320 you that except that in the
02:02:52.940 modern age we have a whole
02:02:53.980 bunch more data that proves
02:02:55.500 that this is not the case
02:02:56.620 okay for example when you
02:02:58.420 look at juvenile correction
02:03:00.040 facilities or women's
02:03:01.440 prisons so we were just
02:03:02.340 talking about how men have
02:03:03.240 the monopoly on force yeah
02:03:04.680 so men in male prisons
02:03:07.120 things like that generally
02:03:08.840 men grow up using physical
02:03:12.040 force and when they're
02:03:13.000 little they do rough and
02:03:13.960 tumble play with their dad
02:03:14.920 with their siblings with
02:03:15.800 their friends and they kind
02:03:16.620 of learn where the
02:03:17.100 boundaries are of like how
02:03:18.760 much can I beat up my
02:03:19.940 friend before I go too far
02:03:21.040 and actually cause harm so
02:03:22.700 they tend to learn that
02:03:23.780 young and it has an impact
02:03:26.740 women don't have those same
02:03:28.080 experiences so what we see
02:03:29.460 is that when women do have
02:03:31.260 the monopoly on force for
02:03:32.380 instance when you are a
02:03:33.920 female guard in a juvenile
02:03:35.360 facility or a female garden
02:03:36.820 in a women's prison the women
02:03:39.880 guards are far more likely to
02:03:41.500 be abusive and the abuse
02:03:42.620 tends to be worse than men and
02:03:45.320 I have heard that they do
02:03:46.620 think it's it's partially
02:03:47.980 because of our emotional
02:03:48.920 volatility or home hormonal
02:03:50.760 fluctuations and also just
02:03:53.560 because women tend to be more
02:03:56.340 likely to be on prescription
02:03:57.540 psychiatric medications have
02:03:59.080 mental illnesses and just be
02:04:01.380 less used to knowing where the
02:04:03.560 boundary is so when women lose
02:04:04.760 their shit and get physical they
02:04:06.520 tend to escalate to a point
02:04:08.220 that's a lot okay can I ask them
02:04:10.780 is some of this maybe because you
02:04:12.920 know also I we hear a lot that
02:04:15.260 women don't get the resources they
02:04:17.840 need in the medical field you
02:04:21.100 mean like mental health wise I'm
02:04:22.840 not talking necessarily mental
02:04:24.040 health like for me personally I
02:04:25.420 took years to get diagnosed with
02:04:26.680 chronic illness okay and there's
02:04:30.060 a lot of that and there's also not
02:04:31.200 as much like research and on women
02:04:33.340 in medicine I'm like again going
02:04:37.100 back to autism how does that relate
02:04:38.900 to like the violence I think I kind
02:04:41.080 of know what you're talking about a
02:04:42.040 little bit I'd like to offer up a
02:04:43.500 bit of a rebuttal okay so I think
02:04:45.120 you're talking perhaps about how
02:04:46.720 there's less testing of certain
02:04:49.300 drugs yeah so I mean or like less
02:04:52.000 less things are tested on women my
02:04:54.900 rebuttal though there would be well
02:04:56.460 one thing that's a concern is if
02:04:58.740 you're test if you're testing an
02:05:00.180 experimental drug on somebody if the
02:05:03.020 woman happens to be pregnant but she
02:05:04.880 doesn't know it there could be
02:05:06.620 ramifications there when it comes
02:05:08.680 because for example some medications
02:05:10.400 are not recommended if you're
02:05:12.300 pregnant for example so if you're
02:05:13.980 testing something experimental the
02:05:15.540 woman doesn't know she's pregnant
02:05:16.660 you know obviously could be very
02:05:18.840 rare that you know she's happened to
02:05:20.560 be partaking in a trial and you know
02:05:23.040 she's pregnant that could be one of
02:05:24.320 the justifications for why they're
02:05:26.100 more inclined to test things on men
02:05:27.620 there's also like this component of
02:05:29.340 well women when women's hormones tend
02:05:32.640 to shift a bit more throughout their
02:05:34.400 cycle so I think it's better to test on
02:05:37.600 someone who has their hormones are a
02:05:39.280 and I get this but the other thing is
02:05:41.200 it's not clear to me if it's some
02:05:42.420 privilege to have have to be tested on
02:05:46.040 to have like experimental drugs test on
02:05:49.500 you that that seems like it would be a
02:05:51.340 negative like a more men are so
02:05:53.380 desperate for money and resources that
02:05:55.560 they're willing to have experimental
02:05:57.500 drugs test on them I think if it was
02:06:00.240 actually the reverse if it was a hundred
02:06:01.860 percent women where we were testing
02:06:03.620 drugs on them there would be a huge
02:06:06.040 outcry from feminists saying wait why
02:06:08.200 are we like subjugating women
02:06:10.380 specifically to this this you know drug
02:06:13.520 treatment that seems like I get what
02:06:15.880 you're saying I mean I personally
02:06:17.120 wouldn't be opposed to that but if it
02:06:19.600 was a hundred percent women yeah I
02:06:21.140 honestly think it's kind of necessary
02:06:22.200 because I feel like feminists would
02:06:24.040 just argue and be like I mean hold on
02:06:26.040 this is like look at how this is unfair
02:06:28.500 like why are you not gonna hear that
02:06:30.880 from me okay but all right well that's
02:06:32.400 fine um but uh no I mean for
02:06:35.120 example uh this is a more minor thing
02:06:37.280 but like okay why has okay uh
02:06:41.360 recently on when they test like uh
02:06:45.380 tampons or pads uh it's only now
02:06:48.060 they're using uh real menstrual blood
02:06:51.020 rather than like water or like but how
02:06:55.280 does it's different I just wonder how
02:06:57.200 this gets back to what we were debating
02:06:59.120 which was why okay so can women defend
02:07:02.600 persons and property yeah to tie back to
02:07:04.940 that if if a hurricane takes out half
02:07:08.020 the eastern seaboard are the women
02:07:09.720 gonna get out there and get the power
02:07:11.060 lines back up and put the sandbags out
02:07:13.240 and rescue people from the floodwaters
02:07:14.940 and rebuild everything I mean I would
02:07:16.240 certainly hope so no they can't I mean
02:07:18.660 I can't do it I can't do it Ben George
02:07:21.280 donated 200 thank you Ben appreciate it
02:07:23.460 man so you claimed men are more dangerous
02:07:25.620 and advocate for women yet want examples
02:07:28.240 of powerful women abusing power use google
02:07:31.360 image search for teacher arrested for
02:07:34.120 essay 90 percent are images of women in
02:07:37.200 power I agree I agree I mean there's
02:07:39.740 there's definitely a lot of that a couple
02:07:41.520 quick things yeah uh Rachel you were
02:07:43.520 talking about like uh you know how
02:07:46.320 aggression tends to tends to manifest
02:07:48.240 especially young boys for example um
02:07:50.700 would you I don't know if you're kind
02:07:52.460 of familiar with this like how uh men's
02:07:55.380 aggression especially at an early age
02:07:57.040 tends to man massive men excuse me
02:07:59.120 manifest itself more in a phys in the
02:08:01.560 physical realm yeah but isn't it the
02:08:03.680 case that women's aggression will
02:08:05.000 manifest it might not manifest itself in
02:08:07.780 the physical realm but it will still
02:08:08.980 manifest itself itself regardless so
02:08:12.240 reputation destruction yeah women use
02:08:14.420 subterfuge manipulation gossip that sort
02:08:17.500 of thing because right if you can't use
02:08:20.100 physical force to get your way those are
02:08:21.680 the things you know that's true I mean
02:08:23.360 that's something we see in history as
02:08:24.520 well I mean yeah I have a question yeah
02:08:26.600 sorry wait one more thing actually one
02:08:28.780 more thing also when it comes to like
02:08:30.480 physical um were we talking about like
02:08:34.360 violence at all I don't know if that was
02:08:37.140 kind of yeah yeah a little bit like
02:08:38.940 military and then we yeah so I mean what
02:08:41.440 do you think about this I mean there you're
02:08:43.040 saying well men throughout history I've
02:08:44.520 been a bit more violent um so I I saw
02:08:48.040 this I've seen the stat a couple times so
02:08:50.040 if we're looking at heterosexual couples
02:08:53.540 lesbian couples and gay couples we actually
02:08:56.560 find that for example uh gay couples so
02:08:59.480 two men in a relationship the rate of
02:09:01.920 domestic violence is actually lowest
02:09:03.920 amongst homosexual gay men it's in the
02:09:07.960 middle for heterosexual couples and the
02:09:09.920 incidence rate of domestic violence in
02:09:12.560 lesbian couples is actually the highest
02:09:14.840 okay so that's an interesting thing
02:09:17.000 because when you have two men you you
02:09:18.920 would think well men are tend to be more
02:09:20.640 violent why is it then can I put two men
02:09:24.020 in a relationship the incidence of
02:09:25.980 violence domestic violence is the lowest
02:09:28.220 okay can I play devil's advocate there's
02:09:29.800 two women together it's the highest okay
02:09:32.720 can I play devil's advocate for a second go
02:09:34.300 ahead okay so we like to typically I think
02:09:38.520 make out um anyone who's let's say gay to
02:09:43.000 be well they're more feminine and then we
02:09:44.780 look at uh women who are lesbian and we're
02:09:47.820 like well they're more masculine so is that
02:09:50.320 what in the brain what's making that happen
02:09:54.080 then this is similar to what I wanted to
02:09:55.720 ask do we believe that I mean that's a fair
02:09:57.700 question but go ahead like every female well
02:10:00.500 first of all women and men we both have
02:10:03.400 testosterone and um estrogen right yeah and
02:10:06.240 it can be imbalanced so I feel like it
02:10:07.640 depends on the person and we can't like
02:10:09.080 box everything in well yeah we can take a
02:10:11.600 look at statistical averages and another
02:10:13.420 important data point is that although when
02:10:17.240 men tend to do domestic violence the damage
02:10:20.200 can be greater women are more likely to
02:10:23.540 initiate domestic violence than men and
02:10:25.560 men are less likely to report it than women
02:10:28.320 are because they're less lucky to be believed
02:10:30.320 I'll give you that yeah I want to go back to
02:10:33.920 the draft really quick yeah I wanted to go
02:10:36.800 back to you two guys I think both of you
02:10:38.500 said no women shouldn't be drafted I was just
02:10:40.400 curious why not um I think because there's a
02:10:44.680 difference between men and women because men
02:10:47.540 are you know physically stronger and like sure um I
02:10:51.740 feel like I don't know if you enlist everybody
02:10:56.020 then so can I ask you a question a follow-up on
02:10:57.860 that um so you say men are physically
02:11:00.720 stronger do you think then if that's the
02:11:03.920 case if women shouldn't be subject to forced
02:11:06.560 military conscription should women be barred from
02:11:09.080 volunteering for uh the military no I think
02:11:13.440 well what so why are they barred from forced
02:11:15.900 military conscription but they're able to
02:11:18.040 volunteer um because it occurs to me like for
02:11:24.680 example in peacetime uh I mean or in wartime there
02:11:31.180 could perhaps be a greater need for more uh more
02:11:35.620 soldiers whereas in peacetime
02:11:38.460 do you need them women just join the military so
02:11:45.860 they can get free college wait so but uh okay but so
02:11:50.100 men are stronger that's why isn't really even
02:11:53.760 happening anymore and then what about you you
02:11:55.680 said uh women should not be drafted why is that
02:11:59.080 um well when I said I was for the same reason that
02:12:02.080 like men are physically stronger and I was for what
02:12:05.520 you said about like volunteering I feel like um the
02:12:09.680 women who choose to volunteer would have like would
02:12:12.240 be physically strong as well but like like oh were you
02:12:16.760 gonna come in on this okay well then okay yeah I'm not gonna
02:12:19.480 deny men are physically stronger that's just a thing
02:12:22.580 um but then uh you know you were saying how you know
02:12:26.020 women have to use their brain because they gotta make up for
02:12:28.160 what they lack in strength right so then who's to say that
02:12:31.820 the brains can't be used in uh situations in the military as
02:12:36.900 well well that would be a great point as well except for
02:12:40.540 this thing called greater male variability which if you look
02:12:44.440 at you can look at a number of different metrics I was just on
02:12:47.380 tim cast and we were talking about grip strength as an example
02:12:50.140 but you can do it with iq you can do it with all different
02:12:53.860 measures of aptitude and what we see is that women tend to
02:12:56.400 cluster around the mean more than men and there's this small
02:13:00.320 percentage of men and in anything that are so much better
02:13:04.720 at everybody else that it's like not even close so as a
02:13:08.260 woman if you're trying to be a ceo a general in the military a
02:13:11.980 strategist in the military trying to be a police officer a detective
02:13:15.480 anything like that you're going to have to compete with this tiny
02:13:19.160 private jet top tier of men that is going to be so far ahead of you
02:13:23.260 that the the odds of you beating them are very very small which is why
02:13:27.660 even after 100 years of equality we don't see a lot of women
02:13:31.440 at the top of these highly competitive pursuits like being a ceo like being a
02:13:37.200 four-star general in the military like being the president things like
02:13:40.280 that so it's one of the differences that
02:13:43.220 makes it really tough for women to compete so even if you're very smart for
02:13:46.100 a woman you may not be able to compete with that top tier of men
02:13:50.300 statistically so you're saying men are just naturally smarter
02:13:54.900 well i'm saying that the variability yes can you pull that up we'll just look at
02:14:00.140 it so there's this uh this is like um nick can you make a smaller please
02:14:04.940 yeah and then i'm also going to find you just the article hold on i'm sending
02:14:11.020 that to you in private chat pull that up please get it quick if you can
02:14:13.820 uh so it's this idea that i think it isn't it even the case that on like
02:14:20.740 women are on average smarter yes or is it there's more of us that are in
02:14:26.400 that middle gathering around yeah so i'll read this really quick but the men who
02:14:31.080 are smartest are way ahead the the variability hypothesis also known as the
02:14:35.920 greater male variability hypothesis is the hypothesis that males generally
02:14:40.760 display greater variability in traits than females pull that one back up nick
02:14:45.480 the the chart just click on it okay so basically what the saying is that
02:14:52.440 there's more stupid men there's like real there's a lot more dumb dumb men sure
02:15:00.340 but there's like also like a greater proportion of like really really smart
02:15:05.380 men okay but then there's like more women who are in the middle right okay then
02:15:08.960 that kind of goes back to my point though then if there's more women in the
02:15:13.360 middle then what's the harm then of actually because that means we're having
02:15:16.420 greater odds of having smart women than we are we're risking more by having a
02:15:20.800 i'm not i'm not saying smart women can't do smart girl things i i'm a smart
02:15:26.620 woman who does smart girl things but when we're talking about who should be
02:15:31.560 like at the apex of society running things generally men are going to have
02:15:36.320 the monopoly on force strength cognitive skills leadership skills social
02:15:41.780 skills they're just that top bit of men are going to be so far ahead okay but
02:15:45.940 going back to your point then then how does that affect the draft
02:15:48.120 because that's not the top tier that no but the draft is just you have to be
02:15:54.020 physically capable and like you are a tiny girl if you had to if you had to jump
02:15:58.460 in tomorrow and do the pt prescriptions that men have literally have a booster
02:16:02.520 yeah and i'm like a really strong girl i've done powerlifting and weightlifting
02:16:07.980 for years i've got like a 250 pound for five reps deadlift right now i've got a 200
02:16:13.400 pound squat but you put me next to a man who's my size that doesn't even train he's
02:16:18.400 gonna whoop my ass oh but for example like what if there's an emergency
02:16:21.220 situation uh you know when you're out in the field uh you know we're i think i'm
02:16:27.980 okay to say that's the more likely to see a man just kind of like brute his way
02:16:32.220 through it rather than like okay think how can we problem solve this so nobody gets
02:16:36.240 more injured or in a less risky situation i should say um you know so you think that
02:16:42.340 on average women are more strategic no i'm not saying strategic but i mean if
02:16:47.400 we're looking at like you know the mean average of you know the brain kind of
02:16:54.120 thing sorry um then you know wouldn't it be fair to say that they're gonna be
02:17:00.340 more able to look at those situations uh better than the average we're seeing based off the graph
02:17:07.720 you gave us i'm not really sure what you're asking so in those risky situations then if the mean
02:17:16.940 average is that you know the women are uh gonna overall have a decent iq then they'd be more
02:17:28.120 likely to handle those risky situations where we really need to think about it then say the average
02:17:34.520 we're gonna find that's not really how it works and when you're entering the military they test you
02:17:39.340 sure i know that if you're below a certain iq you're not going to be in the field doing certain
02:17:43.620 things for that reason i know we assess risk differently right and men do not take as much
02:17:49.660 time to assess those risks and they just jump right in well women are more risk averse but usually
02:17:55.220 in a military situation that's going to be bad well yes no you want to be on your toes because
02:17:59.280 of course you know you never know what's going to happen um women are very conflict avoidant and on
02:18:04.380 average they don't want to be in the military well well here's the thing then then why is there a
02:18:08.480 problem having an equal amount like an equal opportunity for drafting men and drafting women
02:18:13.680 then so that means we're having uh equal risk takers and it's equal maybe not risk takers
02:18:20.220 we want that fair bit of both what you're telling me is all throughout human history armies have been
02:18:26.560 made of men and now because it's 2024 and technology we should put all of like look at the table of
02:18:34.800 ladies here you all are lovely you're probably great singers you're beautiful but do i want you on
02:18:38.900 the front lines fighting no i don't i sure i get i get that i want women on the front lines
02:18:46.120 i'm a feminist so send them you know what i think we do we do total switch up men don't get to get
02:18:53.380 drafted and we just draft with the women use the women as meat shields for a little bit
02:18:57.820 soften soften soften the enemy up a little bit then the men can come in i'm not i think something
02:19:03.560 that's interesting take care of it we'll take care of it the women soften them up i think something
02:19:07.400 that's interesting is that you're saying we have equal portions of men and women entering the
02:19:12.020 military but then what you would have to do is you would have to separate those roles once they
02:19:17.140 enter the military and then then it's not equal anymore so what is the point of doing i do what
02:19:21.580 get you saying well i mean if okay based off the physical stuff like we're talking about again
02:19:26.500 i think that would have to depend on the woman i mean look at some of the women in the olympics they
02:19:30.400 could totally do it right um could they like who i mean first of all about outliers as well
02:19:36.580 like one i know they're outliers but like when we're talking about this kind of stuff you have
02:19:39.920 to think about in general yes the women in general and bigger numbers sure i'm not denying that i think
02:19:47.600 if anything if we are going to have a draft with women we need to us i mean we all have to go through
02:19:52.660 a physical even if we're being drafted right so i mean we then assess okay what can we best put them
02:20:00.680 to well then like then most women are not going to meet the requirements and it will depend on
02:20:06.360 the position they've opened up all of the special forces to women for what 20 30 years now 20 years
02:20:12.780 something like that not a single woman has been able to pass uh navy seals or buds or like the
02:20:18.960 different green beret women just can't do it well and going along going along with that i wouldn't
02:20:23.880 want them to lower that standard so that women could they do no no no but here's the thing oh they
02:20:28.540 have to do like less push-ups it is a different standard and this isn't just for the military
02:20:32.840 it's for police force firefighters like i think for the police uh the military you know there's
02:20:38.660 there's a speed test in terms of being able to complete a mile or i don't know how long yeah
02:20:43.920 push-ups these things women always will say like we want to be equal so you have to let us do these
02:20:49.560 things you have to first of all if they have to let you it's not equal second of all if they have
02:20:54.420 to lower the standard for you to get in it's also not equal so it's all just this illusion this silly
02:21:00.440 illusion and i don't want to i'm sick of it i think that she's sick of it i think that in the not so
02:21:08.200 distant future a few generations from now they're going to look back on this feminist experiment and
02:21:13.040 go whoa that was a disaster glad we got rid of that because it's not it's simply not sustainable
02:21:17.960 i mean we can't even keep going with it because birth rates have tanked right so either tanked
02:21:24.680 maybe maybe it won't go away and then humanity will just go extinct there will be a reset and
02:21:30.220 like people people always ask me what i think it'll be and i think it's going to be painful and ugly
02:21:35.160 there's like a couple ways it could go but it's not going to be fun for anyone when it happens
02:21:39.020 whoever gets ai first we're in trouble i don't know it could be china who knows what happens okay
02:21:46.400 uh one thing related to this just i don't know we who's physically who's physically stronger men or
02:21:54.400 women starting with you well men i haven't denied it it is still men men men men men okay all right
02:22:03.640 just just wanted to check here we've heard we have had some we've had some women there are some
02:22:08.800 weenie men and i'll even grant there are certainly there are women out there who can be stronger than
02:22:15.700 men who can lift more yeah but i saw that grip strength thing and we've pulled that up before
02:22:23.080 too i mean but i mean the vast majority of men are stronger than women so anyways uh let's see let's
02:22:29.560 get into actually kind of sort of related to the feminist conversation a little bit i don't know
02:22:35.380 if we'll linger too long on the actual debate of it but i do at least want to get your answers
02:22:38.960 so the question is oh after ben george donated two hundred dollars last one do the ladies believe
02:22:47.660 in evolution if so men evolved into their role because men have been primarily on the front lines
02:22:54.040 and pushed mentally and physically join a seal team ladies okay ben george thank you man uh do you
02:23:00.400 believe in evolution yes um yes and no okay yes yep i don't know what does the lds
02:23:13.500 i was actually just i was just thinking about that um because we believe in adam and eve
02:23:19.020 um and i have had discussions with family members about this but i don't feel like i've ever gotten
02:23:24.860 an answer so i don't know okay what about you yeah yes i don't don't believe in evolution no
02:23:32.360 wait aren't you a bio major i'm yes rachel no evolution is fake and gay uh okay um cool
02:23:44.820 okay thank you ben george appreciate it bro appreciate it okay so let's see here we have
02:23:50.780 ah yes okay man or bear would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the woods
02:23:58.200 starting with you go ahead
02:23:59.380 can you come back to me i don't know okay we'll come back go ahead a man man yay
02:24:07.840 oh come on no no guys let people answer don't try to
02:24:13.400 force them go ahead no i give a man why wait hold on did somebody pressure you no i don't get
02:24:21.580 pressured i have my own thoughts you were thinking about you're thinking about the i was just gonna
02:24:25.320 say um a bear this is gonna sound crazy but if i obviously if i'm in the woods and then a bear
02:24:33.520 approaches me and i did not have time to research a bear wait grid one motorsports donated two hundred
02:24:40.140 dollars yo thank you good one songbird feminism has failed you your lies to yourself are failing
02:24:45.820 you the patriarchy stands ready to help submit and be saved from your irrational thoughts be better
02:24:53.740 okay thank you grid one motorsports man good to see you in the chat thank you man uh you were saying
02:24:59.680 let's say that um men can be pretty unpredictable i'll give you that but i chose i choose men i'd rather
02:25:08.140 be in the woods with the man a man a man man a man i'm still on the fence about it just because
02:25:16.900 i've got like got like a neat uh instant i'm gonna say bear say bear rachel what about you oh a man
02:25:24.660 okay there's an article on my sub stack where i go over the last 45 years of data about men and
02:25:30.340 whether or not the primary risk to women is men and it's absolutely not like unequivocally not even
02:25:36.260 close your husband or the man in your life is poses like far less risk to you than you've been
02:25:42.100 led to believe by propaganda what was the largest risk the riskiest situation for a woman is to be
02:25:49.180 in a cohabitation situation with a guy that she's sleeping with whereas far and away the safest is to
02:25:57.280 be living with your married husband and children like by a factor of 12 times and it was a major
02:26:04.380 talking point of feminism in the 60s and 70s that men are these abusers uh they're alcoholics they're
02:26:10.300 going to beat you and so you have to be able to leave and you have to be able to cohabitate or you
02:26:14.800 have to just be able to be remain unattached that you can get away if he turns out to be a bad guy
02:26:19.340 but turns out that when you take the the primary person out of your life who has an interest in
02:26:25.780 providing for you and protecting you you actually put yourself at much greater risk and you end up
02:26:29.800 with the kind of guys who are going to pump you and dump you and be bad to you and treat you like
02:26:34.380 garbage because they have no vested interest in long term what's your best interest so like the
02:26:40.940 data is super overwhelming on it why do you pick bear just curious um i've just i've just been through
02:26:50.220 like a lot of things with um men um i was assaulted as a kid and a lot of a couple of my first experiences
02:27:03.360 in like sexually was also that like in high school so i just feel like i don't know i'd rather
02:27:13.560 be mauled than go through that again but that's just so based off my experience it's not just based
02:27:19.920 off of okay keep in mind this is a random man or a random bear so the random man could be
02:27:28.940 all right i mean the overwhelmingly likely to either leave you alone or be helpful in some sort of
02:27:37.320 woods situation why are we both standing in the middle of the woods like i think you're
02:27:43.860 overthinking the scenario a little bit but in the middle of nowhere in the woods you're probably a
02:27:49.820 serial unaliver no way you're not gonna then why are you in the middle of the woods yeah the man's
02:27:56.900 gonna be in the woods because he's hunting or hiking or doing bro stuff so like here's the scenario
02:28:01.660 though so it's like a random man so you of the entire u.s population you're just plucking a random
02:28:09.920 man out of it so you can't even think of what are the motivations for him being there it's like you
02:28:16.580 just get both of you just get plucked into the woods but you are you are coming across so you will
02:28:23.900 come across a random man or a random bear you will get into contact
02:28:30.320 i'm just still so if you were like roll the dice and you just randomly get put into a situation with
02:28:40.800 a random man what do you think is like the chance of any given man a random man having wanting to
02:28:47.900 harm you in some way wanting to assault you in some way so if jeffrey dommer was in the woods
02:28:53.740 versus the bear what would you rather no the question is what like okay there what's the
02:29:00.120 population of the u.s over 300 million 150 yeah so it's like 150 basically statistically you're
02:29:06.120 basically saying that you statistically think that there's a more chance that the man is going to be
02:29:10.560 wicked and evil towards you i'm not even thinking statistically i'm thinking personally like well okay
02:29:17.060 but it's a red shirt but it's a random man right yes okay i was also thinking i could probably
02:29:23.600 outrun a guy i cannot outrun a bear especially in their natural habitat yeah i don't think i could
02:29:31.680 outrun either you're all okay well that being said a bear we know for sure will if we get too close
02:29:38.940 is gonna cause harm let me ask you let me ask you a different question would you rather would you
02:29:45.220 rather let's say you see a man at a campfire and then you see like a bear at a campsite who's like
02:29:52.920 ruffling through some uh some like food or something who would you rather go up and pat on the head
02:30:00.660 three times the man or the bear obviously the man okay here here's a different scenario you're on the
02:30:07.980 top floor of a burning house i'm so glad i'm not dating donated hey good to see you dude it's been a
02:30:15.420 while if my wife was hiking through the woods alone she's five foot four plus 110 pounds say i wasn't
02:30:22.980 present i would rather her come across another random man rather than a bare 100 of the time
02:30:29.160 irrational thank you i'm so glad i'm not dating good to see you back in the chat dude okay here's the
02:30:35.560 other scenario you're on the top floor of a burning building for an appointment you don't work there so
02:30:41.480 you don't know like the people in the building whatever top floor of a burning building the stairs
02:30:46.540 burning there's two elevators top floor there's a man in one of the elevators and a bear in the
02:30:53.620 other other elevator and you're trying to get to the bottom which which elevator do you go into
02:30:58.460 the one with the random man or the one with the bear well i feel like the answer is obvious the one
02:31:03.720 with the man in it because we're both trying to escape something okay good times all right well
02:31:13.400 there it is i feel like i need to ask that question like show of hands because i feel like
02:31:18.200 some of you would have said bear i thought about it i think some of you would have said bear but then
02:31:22.640 she said man look at that i good for you i'm reasonable here yeah you're reasonable okay there
02:31:28.220 you go that's good that's good all right so we did man versus bear let's do uh wait actually grid
02:31:35.120 won motorsports he's still in the chat he mentioned the patriarchy he did do you guys want to
02:31:42.680 this this is definitely dating related do you guys want to smash the patriarchy should we should
02:31:49.040 we smash smash the patriarchy necessarily like what we're talking about here when we say the
02:31:55.060 well so like you know feminism one of the core tenets of feminism is the there's the patriarch the
02:31:59.580 patriarchy theory patriarchy do you want to smash it should we get rid of the patriarchy i feel like i
02:32:07.860 just don't care enough but okay cool what about you um i i think there are certain aspects where
02:32:15.260 it's just naturally going to happen and i think there's some places where maybe there could be
02:32:19.260 more leeway that's it that's really so is is there a patriarchy
02:32:23.140 these days i want to say just like smidge it really depends on where you're looking you'd and
02:32:31.240 you'd have to look that's the thing yeah don't be shy i know i see that you want to say something
02:32:39.260 and i want you to oh i was making a joke in my head like yeah i want to smash the patriarchy but
02:32:43.440 not smash the patriarchy if you know what i meant oh yeah yeah you know um i think that there could
02:32:49.700 be some tweaks but i don't want to end it no okay no we should not get rid of the patriarchy
02:32:55.640 no we should not get rid of it um i think i also don't really know what the patriarchy is that much
02:33:04.160 do you feel like so when feminists talk about the patriarchy they're usually saying there's this
02:33:10.020 historic conspiracy of men to control women to keep them under their boot to prevent them from
02:33:16.820 having power or free will or like the choice to leave or do what they want right there's this effort
02:33:23.200 among men in general to keep women like under under their foot a little bit to keep them down do you
02:33:29.980 feel like that's a thing um maybe in the past but not so much now okay yeah same i feel like we all
02:33:39.180 can pretty much do what we want so okay question what are we going to do about the men that think
02:33:44.940 that they can lead but they can't we're supposed to just let them like run shit i mean i don't i
02:33:48.980 don't see that well uh can you give me an example of a man who thinks he can lead but but doesn't so
02:33:56.000 it could be like if we're talking about the patriarchy in general we could talk about a president
02:33:59.880 i don't want to pick one and say like what i think but i'm not going to say every man is going to
02:34:04.640 be great to lead and they like that's been in office so do you guys assume then that when we're
02:34:09.760 talking about like patriarchy that all men have dominion over all women or do we think that there's
02:34:16.360 a hierarchy among men i can respect that yeah and i think one thing that feminism did unintentionally
02:34:22.700 that's been really destructive for everybody is it destroyed that hierarchy among men and now what you
02:34:28.600 have it because you used to have the like more alpha type of men uh we used to keeping down the
02:34:35.880 the like beta cuck type of like you know the the gamma type of males who are just jealous and resentful
02:34:41.980 and they like they think that they're like i should be having a girlfriend she should like me but she
02:34:46.700 only likes that six foot tall football player and i'm gonna i'm gonna show her you know those those
02:34:50.840 type of guys a girl yeah yeah they used to bully those guys into their proper place i love that we need to
02:34:57.080 bring it back yeah keep them kind of like where they need to keep them in line a little bit but
02:35:01.720 what feminism and egalitarianism did was kind of like take that away so now you do have these feminine
02:35:07.620 by the way feminist men okay all they're trying to do is what okay woman yeah they're just they're
02:35:15.780 trying to fuck yeah right so they're not they're not honest dudes they're not gonna be leaders they're
02:35:20.980 gonna be shitheads they're gonna be uh impersonators they're gonna be the kind of dudes that you don't
02:35:26.560 want and it used to be that you had to compete for a wife you know back in the day like you had
02:35:31.720 to prove to a man that you could support his daughter that you could take care of her that
02:35:35.380 you were worthy of marrying her now we all just like go for the guy who like we all pick the wrong
02:35:41.880 dudes right we very often we pick the wrong guy because some of them have adapted and figured out
02:35:48.880 how to manipulate and sneak their way in and like the guy who you friend zoned forever and then the
02:35:54.140 minute you break up with your boyfriend he's like right there with a bottle of wine and like oh
02:35:57.820 honey i'm you know like he's trying to use what he can to get what he wants so like they become they
02:36:05.080 act like females they act sneaky and they use manipulation and subterfusion gossip and things
02:36:09.240 like that to get girls and so we end up with these dudes right can i ask um so you know i i know people
02:36:18.520 who are like that and i know people who are feminists who aren't like that they're yeah i'm so glad i'm
02:36:25.180 not dating donated two hundred dollars he's a perfect match you go to his house one of his rooms properly
02:36:33.280 locked in his house is filled with guns and ammo reloading equipment including multiple ar-15 rifles
02:36:40.520 whatever do you do uh what if it's just for protection like you know like he feels like
02:36:48.260 the need to protect his home and he's one of those people that likes to collect things i don't know
02:36:51.740 if it's properly locked then that doesn't have anything to do with me i guess so you'd be okay
02:36:55.560 with it yeah yeah i think that's what the question is asking okay yeah i'd be okay with it i mean i'd ask
02:37:04.220 like is i mean are you using it for hunting purposes uh you know i know hunters they're fine but
02:37:09.920 then also i mean if it's not why do you need an ar-15 and that's it grid one motorsports donated
02:37:18.120 two hundred dollars i am the patriarchy we value women and protect them especially from themselves
02:37:25.740 we die so you don't have to accepting mrs wilson you lot know so little of my work
02:37:32.260 yet speak in ignorance dot be better okay let's should we continue with the gun question okay
02:37:39.740 what do you think um i'm not gonna lie i didn't really fully hear the question but
02:37:48.020 you go you date a guy he's the perfect match everything about him is perfect but you go to
02:37:52.920 his house and he's got a locked room that's filled with all kinds of guns bunch of ar-15s yeah i don't
02:37:57.540 mind that okay yeah no problem probably ask him what his favorite one is
02:38:02.940 sounds like my house so okay happy my dad's house i mean i would ask like questions of like
02:38:10.740 what they're for but like um i probably wouldn't have a problem with it i would be okay as long
02:38:16.980 as it's secured and i'll see uh i would be cool with it um i'd probably say where's the ak-47s
02:38:25.140 period yeah that's a big question like why only one type
02:38:31.480 ar-15s the most popular rifle i think in america but you know has its limits yeah
02:38:39.020 they're fun though would you guys change your answer he just thought they were cool like he
02:38:44.300 really liked guns i also think they're cool
02:38:47.420 i guess it's like what would be the motivation if he like if he didn't want well i'm like
02:39:07.120 completely fine with it but if the answer was not to protect himself what would it be
02:39:11.340 maybe you know i mean things like i don't know or goes hunting or because i think the main
02:39:17.340 motivation that every guy every man has a gun is to protect protect himself and protect his home so
02:39:23.600 and it's just it's similar to why guys like cars they like cool mechanical stuff that they can take
02:39:29.120 apart and modify and do fun things with and it makes it things go boom and it's fun
02:39:33.640 all right do i have any questions um goodness uh what do you guys think about
02:39:47.600 all the plastic surgery that ladies are getting these days what do you think about
02:39:52.140 the fillers the botox the lip injections the the eyelashes like all of the enhancements because i'm 43
02:39:59.520 and when i was growing up we didn't have all that like fake boobs were just a thing in the 90s and
02:40:05.160 that was like pretty much it there was not this ubiquitous plastic surgery when i was growing up
02:40:09.500 i don't remember ever thinking about what my butt looked like till i was like in my 20s
02:40:14.020 because it just like we would in high school we'd compliment each other on our outfits be like oh my
02:40:18.080 god your hair's cute how'd you get it so tall right because the mall bangs in the 90s but uh
02:40:23.400 there wasn't this like hyper fixation on like oh i've got to have a huge ass and a tiny waist and
02:40:29.320 huge lips and all this stuff so i'm wondering like what how do you guys feel about kind of growing up
02:40:34.020 in the air with all that well i was born in the year 2000 so i just feel like for me i literally
02:40:40.780 grew up in the social media age like and i always just had to see like you know you just have to be
02:40:46.220 perfect and everything like that so i feel like for me um maybe i thinking about it like in a more
02:40:54.520 i don't know a different way i feel like i were all a little brainwashed even if we don't like to
02:41:00.980 admit it but i would definitely get my lips done when i get the chance i'm gonna get a lot of things
02:41:07.440 done and maybe that means i have a little bit of mental health issues but that's just i don't know
02:41:13.260 i just feel like stop it get some help do you think it has to do with perfection like i don't
02:41:18.900 know i want to be perfect you guys ever see the before you want to be perfect it's impossible
02:41:22.440 and the after pictures of the kardashians wait so what yeah what do you want to get you said lips
02:41:27.920 what else um my boobs um fake boobs i want to get hip fillers hip fillers what else bbl lipo
02:41:38.380 i would definitely get botox so i don't get lines on my forehead um so you are intending to get
02:41:44.280 this um oh yeah i'm definitely i'm going to you're going to have you gotten anything yet or nothing so
02:41:50.020 far no nothing so far but i would we can wait actually let's get everybody's response before
02:41:57.120 we give our take on that what about you um personally at this point in time not for me i want
02:42:02.940 to do if you know if i want to enhance anything about me i want to do that naturally i'm you know
02:42:07.520 um work out a certain way etc um at one point i was thinking i don't like my nose but i was like
02:42:14.580 why what's why so yeah good answer um i feel like it's to each is their own um i feel like if it
02:42:23.520 doesn't come from a place of like mental health issues it's fine i have gotten a little bit of
02:42:28.580 lip filler personally that's it that's it okay i think it's unhealthy and unnatural
02:42:34.420 uh i think i i don't know about boobs or anything like that kind of stuff but i think i'm okay with
02:42:44.560 facials and stuff like that i feel like in the future since i've been in the sun so much
02:42:50.400 i'll have to get some stuff taken off my face to like pre-cancer stuff that's not like yeah yeah you
02:42:58.860 said facials isn't that just like skin treatment like skin care there's some pretty intense like
02:43:04.160 treatments that you can do too sure but it's not something like inside you right yeah preventative
02:43:10.380 care does that constitute this cosmetic surgery though i don't know i don't know okay uh what
02:43:16.220 about you um i think it is unnecessary and like social media has caused a lot of insecurities and
02:43:22.320 made it really normalized um but like i i wouldn't judge anyone who does it and yeah to each their
02:43:28.400 own okay what about you um it's not for me i think i i prefer to be natural i think aging is like part
02:43:36.160 of life and it's like bound to happen so okay and i also think social media could be harmful for
02:43:41.860 especially young like impressionable girls to like compare themselves to people when it's really not
02:43:47.380 all right some good answers can i ask rachel one thing that i'm a little nervous about with like
02:43:53.900 child rearing is like what's going to happen afterwards and you've had five and i think that's
02:43:59.800 the thing that women think about like i'll get my mommy makeover um what are your thoughts on that
02:44:06.440 like if a mom wants to feel confident again after her body just got wrecked i think well it kind of
02:44:11.440 depends like i know some women who've had a bunch of kids and they look fantastic and i'm like dang
02:44:17.140 um if you have like i had five and they were all over eight pounds and they went straight out because
02:44:22.600 i have like narrow hips so they just went straight out in front so like if there's excess skin and it's
02:44:28.460 bothersome and you want to get that removed i don't think there's any problem with that um i would i would
02:44:33.860 consider it i haven't done that but i think it's okay and i'm not 100 against plastic surgery but i think
02:44:42.020 it's gone like way too far with women just looking like like people don't like you have an adorable
02:44:47.960 nose why would you ever like think your side profile here oh oh god she has nothing wrong with her nose
02:44:55.900 at all and i see girls who already have like great features but they think they have to look like how
02:45:02.360 all the celebrities look the same like they have to have that tiny nose and these huge lips and it's like
02:45:07.800 i am a fan of real faces i like i used to draw portraits when i was growing up all the time i
02:45:13.260 like worked as an artist when i was younger and i like people's actual faces i like the things that
02:45:18.380 make their face unique and make them look different so i'm just not i don't like everybody trying to
02:45:23.040 look like blow-up doll clones i think that's i agree i'll give my take on this i am a natural body
02:45:28.840 supremacist um i am very much against both in a partner and you know if i ever gain political power
02:45:37.860 i will actually outlaw plastic surgery i'll outlaw cosmetic procedures lip fillers straight to jail
02:45:45.640 fake titties straight to jail bbl that's an x actually you can get executed in my i will execute
02:45:53.740 you in my government if you get a bbl um yeah this is good this is hardcore okay i want to ask a
02:46:01.160 question and you can't even be grandfathered in you have to get that shit out you got to remove that
02:46:05.960 shit you got to remove the shit or sorry execution no yeah period um and then also uh labiaplasty
02:46:14.960 execution oh i can't if you get one of those i can't imagine that either that sounds crazy
02:46:19.140 hashtag big labia matter okay that's my movement wait brian i have a question about this big labia
02:46:24.880 thing yeah go ahead go ahead let's so let's hear i worked in a gynecologist office for a long time
02:46:29.560 and there was women that would come in with like huge labias huge like huge sign me up what's that
02:46:37.120 no it was just like they couldn't exercise because of like chafing and issues like that are you okay
02:46:43.420 with labiaplasties when they're like medically or are you like no labiaplasty period i don't know if
02:46:49.200 i believe the it's interfering i don't believe in it there was a lady that couldn't run because it
02:46:56.760 was so painful and bad yeah so like what i'm not saying it was common i'm just saying i saw it
02:47:02.900 and so like i'm just curious she couldn't run it was so painful like the chafing and the issues
02:47:08.880 there's there's ways there's work around i'm just saying duct tape is what you're saying i don't
02:47:14.200 know maybe like stuff it i don't know there's nowhere just roll it up i am look there i maybe
02:47:25.880 i've heard of these incredibly dubious and rare scenarios where there can be pain who knows if
02:47:33.020 it's just pretext for justification for them getting a cut pure what is typically purely a
02:47:39.100 cosmetic procedure but if there is uh cloud flying donated two hundred dollars long time watch your
02:47:46.900 first time contributor love the show brian how did the trip to the eastern orthodox temple with rachel
02:47:53.800 we weren't we weren't able to great panel tonight nick needs a microphone keep killing it oh nick on
02:48:00.180 the microphone uh maybe yeah eventually just it's uh we'll get it done eventually thank you cloud
02:48:06.480 for the uh street sorry i got i went to a lovely church here this morning though was it saint
02:48:13.380 anathias yep saint athanasius athanasia and then isn't there like a greek yeah orthodox one is that
02:48:19.960 what you guys are greek we're antiochian and the one that i went saint athanasius is antiochian
02:48:24.600 okay nice because but they're all under the banner of eastern orthodox yeah they're all in
02:48:29.520 communion with each other so it would be the same liturgy the same theology everywhere i know the
02:48:34.700 greek one has like it's a really nice one up in the mountains or something they tend to have
02:48:38.060 beautiful like fancy churches yeah going back though to the plastic surgery stuff uh so wait your point
02:48:44.820 was like what if there's it's medically indicated they have pain well i don't think that there's a lot
02:48:50.060 of scenarios where any plastic surgery is medically indicated like right but i'm saying i saw like
02:48:56.020 one or two women where it was like like like you saw like you saw that shit and i was like you were
02:49:02.520 in the shit i saw it and i was like yeah like i could see i could see why this would be so like
02:49:10.580 interfere in so many aspects of your life i don't know look i'm not a woman so i don't know you know
02:49:16.240 how that is but like how many women for example or just people in general will say like oh yeah i
02:49:24.080 got a nose i got a rhinoplasty because i have breathing problems yeah and they'll like people
02:49:30.940 do genuinely have like i have a deviated septum yeah i broke my nose back in high school i was on the
02:49:36.580 wrestling team broke my nose oh shit it was almost 20 years ago or some shit right um never bothered to
02:49:43.040 fix it but people do genuinely have these things where plastic surgery can uh uh actually address
02:49:49.020 like a uh medically indicated problem but there are people who will just lie and be like well i've
02:49:55.220 got this blah blah blah totally even even to a doctor they won't even always be honest to the doctor
02:50:00.040 and say well i just have issues with it cosmetically they'll say oh my breathing's kind of for in the
02:50:05.560 case of nose jobs for example uh in this case they might just want to you know they don't want to
02:50:11.020 come off even to the doctor as like well i want to do it for cosmetic reasons they'll say well um
02:50:16.500 you know there's also i wonder if there's like something with insurance if you say yeah if you
02:50:22.840 say well i i experience pain while running versus i just don't like how it looks if it has some play
02:50:29.880 there with insurance so who knows what the truth is but moving off of labiaplasty i'm a natural body
02:50:36.320 supremacist um so i'll give you my rundown quickly on this so i would prefer a girl who has small upper
02:50:45.380 lip over lip filler i prefer a girl with small flat boobs over some fake titties prefer a girl with
02:50:52.340 flat flat bum over bbl prefer a girl with a little belly fat over lipo belly and uh yeah that's pretty
02:51:02.340 much it so i don't know and actually did i did a couple polls recently on my twitter asking other
02:51:08.580 men this like would you prefer a girl who has uh like a um what i did i did one for bbl yeah i saw
02:51:15.640 those bbl uh fake breasts and i think lip filler the lip filler one was phrased a bit differently but
02:51:22.220 the men overwhelmingly at least the people who answered overwhelmingly said that they prefer
02:51:26.960 natural even if natural means you have a small bum small boobs small upper lip they always prefer it
02:51:34.080 over the fake thing so do you feel the same way about breasts if it was like you had a woman who
02:51:39.460 had just huge breasts major back pain do you feel the same way about a reduction or are you like yeah
02:51:45.180 that'd be fine they could get a reduction okay yeah i mean i don't really i'm i'm i'm not even a
02:51:51.340 boob guy so i honestly wouldn't care if she had some giant knockers i wouldn't be like oh fuck
02:51:56.140 she's gotta oh no she's losing it actually there's like a i feel like there's a curb your enthusiasm
02:52:01.780 episode about this where this guy was dating a woman big boobs and then she got a breast reduction and
02:52:07.480 then they she lost or he lost interest um yeah i've heard that like women with big uh you know
02:52:13.520 yeah they get back pain yeah that's fine so that just ties them back to medical reasons for you
02:52:19.720 really yeah that's fine yeah and i i'm not a boob guy so i wouldn't even i don't care
02:52:24.020 i wouldn't care yeah no i'm not even really a buck i'm a labia guy it's weird
02:52:29.060 sorry can i add something did you guys know that they're like there's some women women that are
02:52:40.740 lying to their doctors like saying that they have like body dysmorphia or whatever so that they can
02:52:45.020 get like a bbl from oh on insurance yeah oh shit interesting it was just a random fact i don't
02:52:51.380 have an opinion it's really funny it's really actually i i do want to see here if we can
02:52:56.200 potentially change your view on this because you said that you want to get all these procedures
02:53:02.000 right you said you wanted lips titties botox what was the other thing lipo bbl did you say bbl
02:53:08.580 bbl yeah hip fillers hip fillers oh don't do that that walking around these girls are walking
02:53:15.580 around looking like a wisdom tooth they're like this and then just looks like well i'd go to a good
02:53:20.740 doctor listen what's it going to take to change your mind on this shit um if it was like something
02:53:28.920 that i could like die on the table wait madison you got a story on this shit my aunt died from
02:53:35.740 getting a bbl so it was more so my aunt died you got this man my aunt died from getting a bbl
02:53:44.480 um she just didn't wake up from the anesthesia oh my god well they can hear louder okay that's fine
02:53:51.940 her her aunt died her aunt who wait what was the story here so she was already married correct
02:53:57.580 and had kids she had two kids one toddler and one like newborn that was like a couple months old
02:54:05.180 she just gave birth and she was trying to get the bbl and she died because of the bbl or well uh
02:54:11.260 the anesthesia i'm assuming during the procedure they're dangerous kanye west's mom died i think it
02:54:17.600 was lipo she was i have a question do you know how the like filler works in your hips how does that work
02:54:22.360 because like with breasts it's usually like in a sack right so it's like contained yeah um but like
02:54:30.060 i have a crazy story about a guy who actually got like filler injections into his penis and
02:54:37.440 it was watch yeah like he went abroad because he wanted his penis like bigger and he just kept
02:54:48.160 having all these injections done and it was like this big and because it's not encapsulated it was
02:54:53.860 just like lumpy and there was no way to reverse it like like we're talking like this this big huh
02:55:01.960 so and like just look like a lumpy tuna can or something yeah excuse me couldn't even use it
02:55:08.940 couldn't have an erection like would snap so like i just think that yeah you should really
02:55:15.860 reconsider i think that you're beautiful just the way that yeah i was just gonna say the same
02:55:20.100 thing i don't think she needs anything but don't do that shit who are you is there a celebrity or
02:55:25.240 someone that you're that you would like to emulate or look like no i still want to look like me i just
02:55:30.740 want to look like me with enhancements i don't know yeah you do not need anything thank you so don't do
02:55:41.680 that shit well then what's driving you to because it's i you look beautiful like everyone's saying
02:55:48.520 and i think you know that you are an attractive person like what's driving you to want to enhance
02:55:53.740 what's already really like good perfection i want to be like wait hold on let me give you the guy's
02:56:01.920 perspective nick can you pull up the chat so she can see the chat on this shit this is this is where the
02:56:07.000 chat's gonna get introduced here for a bit so remind me what your name is anaya anaya what if
02:56:14.780 i told you because you're saying you're saying you're chasing perfection by getting all these
02:56:19.340 plastic surgery things what if i told you that the there are some honestly i think weird men who are
02:56:26.620 like into women with plastic surgery but and i typically don't tend to think that those men
02:56:32.840 are good men typically who find that an aesthetic but when you say you're chasing perfection my actual
02:56:39.920 position on this is is that overwhelmingly women who get all these procedures i i i'm not even saying
02:56:47.140 this to gas you up or anything i do genuinely think they look worse after the procedure so even if you had
02:56:53.900 small boobs and you get some fake titties i don't think it looks better now boobs is a little bit
02:57:00.940 different but like look at the fake lips i don't i don't think lip filler ever looks better than how
02:57:06.520 your lips were and you already got you got nice lips what are you doing what's she doing look
02:57:11.560 like a perfect pout so what's your what's your definition of perfect nobody is perfect you got
02:57:17.920 good lips too what the fuck yeah it's just like perfect for like did you know that i had lips at
02:57:21.620 the table did you know that i had lip filler well i mean it's it's worn off right or how recently
02:57:27.480 it was probably like do you have any pictures of you before the lip filler yeah pull that shit
02:57:33.660 oh yeah i'm just saying i will you probably had nice lips no i do before like i just did the top
02:57:41.120 just to like kind of like facial balance anything that i would do would be to balance you don't need
02:57:45.300 that shit i got you thank you like i want to do like fat transfer not implants still still bad
02:57:50.600 don't do it i just want to move it nope don't do it it's unnatural love the rolls love the rolls
02:57:56.580 don't do it i also want to say um i did get my top teeth done as well i forgot to say that okay yeah
02:58:04.400 i've had my i had my teeth done but i think that's a little bit because like mine i had braces for five
02:58:09.620 and a half years and they had permanent staining there was nothing i could do about it so aside from
02:58:14.540 the fact that they were slightly crooked they just looked dirty which bothered me because i'm like a
02:58:18.480 super clean hygienic person and i was like i don't like that it looks like i don't brush my teeth
02:58:23.880 because i'm constantly brushing and flossing and i just wanted to close my gap yeah not a gap i just
02:58:28.980 want to close it so then i some guys like the gap you know it's crazy like remove your teeth and put
02:58:33.500 new teeth in why not what's crazy no tell us what's crazy um i actually did miss my gap after i was like
02:58:38.880 oh but then i'm like no not really i still feel more confident with how my teeth are okay yeah your
02:58:43.200 smiles wait so question for the chat chat do you guys prefer do you guys prefer plastic surgery or
02:58:49.720 no plastic surgery
02:58:50.760 i've never seen a butt look better after bbl even if the girl had a small butt
02:59:00.540 you can i've never seen it that's true you can build a really nice butt and then your butt and
02:59:06.160 your legs go together right the thing about look at that it looks like you're got a big old lumpy
02:59:12.680 diaper half the time it doesn't look like skinny legs and then they got this big like weird looking
02:59:19.320 it doesn't look right no it gives you what it is yes uncanny valley thing where you just know
02:59:25.640 something's off and i think for a lot of men it like sets off something in the back of their head
02:59:30.140 where they're like don't mate with that something's wrong something's wrong well i do think that
02:59:34.160 plastic surgery can absolutely be proxy for mental illness yeah because if you're so
02:59:40.960 dissatisfied with your physical appearance that you're going to one spend thousands of dollars
02:59:45.820 but also in terms of the risk assessment go under anesthesia and anytime you go under anesthesia
02:59:51.840 there is a risk of shit you could get permanent brain damage they give you too much you can even die
02:59:57.400 just like with madison's aunt or whatever she wanted a bb i don't know she wanted a bbl
03:00:03.260 already married and had kids you already won yeah anyways she died she died i mean it can have an
03:00:09.980 effect like an addiction some people legit do like you start getting tattoos and then you just can't
03:00:15.460 yeah but it's in addition to being proxy for mental illness it's also just a proxy for vanity
03:00:20.760 like that's i me personally i prefer much more modest women so um yeah and that's a little far of a reach
03:00:31.200 but like okay you get haircuts right that's a cosmetic thing that you like well i i would differentiate
03:00:38.600 here between like grooming so i'd put like haircuts or like for example when i say natural body supremacist
03:00:45.820 oh well you'd want a woman with armpit hair and uh like right leg hair no i grooming i think
03:00:51.820 doesn't like you can groom you know i'm fine with grooming's cool i'm fine with grooming how do you
03:00:59.140 feel about men that like spray paint their hairline i hate that shit yeah i can't say that i can't say
03:01:05.200 that because i do my thing so you know well it does kind of get into the whole like well is is it
03:01:11.380 deceptive right to have like plastic surgery but then going beyond that like makeup usage uh is that
03:01:18.020 deceptive in the same way that it's deceptive for a man who to wear like a toupee or wear a cap all the
03:01:24.260 time or uh no hat fish hat fish hat fishing okay yeah uh so i actually wanted to you said something
03:01:34.100 earlier i want to jump back to you said and i was up over there but i heard something like you said that
03:01:38.860 you can be aggressive or raise your voice or something yeah i have a pretty hot temper do you
03:01:46.020 well because you seem like pretty mellow yeah and you have like kind of you're a bit soft spoken you
03:01:51.380 have like kind of a melodic soothing voice so thank you uh it's something that i've worked on um
03:01:59.180 pretty much when i started dating my husband um because i watched my parents have a pretty
03:02:06.240 argumentative relationship and i knew that i didn't want to be like that with my husband and
03:02:13.240 so when i realized that i wanted to be with my husband that i needed to change the way i react
03:02:18.880 to things and it's a slow process i think i think i'm a lot better at it but i definitely like
03:02:26.400 so you would you used to yell um yeah but yeah i can't for some reason i can't imagine you yelling
03:02:35.040 i don't know why i don't know why come surf with me come surf with you oh like people drop in
03:02:40.060 fuck you kook yeah yeah okay i mean i'm not yeah i think i've um also my husband is really good at
03:02:49.440 pushing my buttons too he's very good at it and he knows he knows he knows exactly like what to say
03:02:57.740 to like like what what pushes your buttons so if we're having a disagreement i'm always trying to
03:03:06.320 solve the conflict and sometimes he likes to do little jabby things and i'm like why are we
03:03:14.840 why are we trying to hurt feelings i'd rather what's a jab like is he like i can hang 10 better
03:03:20.560 than you well he can so damn shots fired i know um i don't know it's like uh like instead of just
03:03:29.620 like i'll say something he's like well you did that blah blah blah blah blah and and i'll say okay
03:03:34.420 well that's not really helping what we're trying to solve here yeah how often do you guys argue
03:03:38.760 he would probably say a lot but i don't say that much wait currently you guys are like arguing
03:03:46.980 no not currently but in general currently well we have discussions yeah i like to call them
03:03:55.460 discussions how frequently uh maybe like once a month once a month yeah because i would also say
03:04:06.220 once a month and andrew always knows he's like i know what's happening here and i'm like yeah
03:04:11.360 do you guys think that arguing and like having disagreements is good in a relationship though
03:04:16.600 i think it's really good what do you think rachel no i don't think it's good so you think it should
03:04:22.140 be happy like 24 7 all the time well i think that we're all human beings and we're going to
03:04:27.560 have disagreements but i think that they're way more frequent than they need to be like when andrew
03:04:33.880 and i first started dating my favorite story to tell because i grew up with parents who've been
03:04:38.400 divorced a bunch on both sides and they were yellers they were people that threw things slam doors like
03:04:45.020 my life growing up was with these chaotic crazy people and i thought i was like the stable one so
03:04:51.560 i was doing fine right i was like i'm not like them so i'm good but when we first started dating
03:04:55.940 he came over to my house for something and he he made like a little funny comment and i threw a remote
03:05:01.740 control at him and he was like if you're gonna do that i'm gonna leave right now and i'm not gonna
03:05:09.420 ever come back so you can think about if you want to be like that or not and at first i was like well
03:05:16.480 who does he think he is and then i thought about it for a minute because he did he left i mean he
03:05:21.560 didn't just tell me he like proved it he was like i'm gonna leave now bye and i was like what a jerk
03:05:27.060 and then i thought about it and i was like wait a minute do i want to be the girl who throws stuff
03:05:34.380 right because he just made like he it wasn't even something really bad he said it was like a harmless
03:05:38.520 little like poking fun at me kind of thing playing around with me and i was like oh shit am i doing
03:05:44.580 that like how my mom did or like how my dad would or am i being like that and it really just made me
03:05:49.920 think about it and so like over time uh because andrew's so like my favorite thing about him is
03:05:56.160 he's so emotionally stable he's very like in control of his feelings in control of his emotions he doesn't
03:06:02.240 lose it because he could be a really dangerous guy if he let himself lose control and he knows that so
03:06:08.240 he's gotten very good over the years of his life at keeping stuff under wraps and so if i'm acting
03:06:15.800 crazy he'll just kind of be like i'm not gonna talk to you if you're acting crazy when you chill
03:06:21.820 we can talk right so like over a couple years of being with him that stuff really i just unlearned
03:06:28.760 it but like you said it takes time it's not like instant that's why i always say like you're not born
03:06:33.480 a good wife you kind of have to like learn how to be a good wife and if you have a guy that's strong
03:06:38.780 like that where um like i never had to be afraid of him or anything like that because he would never
03:06:44.360 lose control and it would just like hit the contrast of him being so calm and like not crazy
03:06:50.900 and emotional which i had only ever dated crazy emotional people before that where i was the sane
03:06:55.540 person so the contrast of suddenly him being so steady it made me see where i was crazy and then i was
03:07:02.120 like oh shit i better handle that i agree with that i do think that there are situations though where
03:07:08.640 people instead of discussing like their differences they just don't and it turns into like not talking
03:07:16.140 about anything and then it could turn into like you're literally just cohabitating and there's no
03:07:20.080 point in you having a relationship and i think that that's wrong too yeah uh we have a chat here it
03:07:25.620 came in i'm not able to pull it back up it's from nickelodeon it came in a while ago nickelodeon sorry
03:07:31.280 we're finally getting to it it fell off so i missed it but he re or he says have the new girls never
03:07:37.780 seen the show before inform them that it's traditional to bow to the host brain he said
03:07:43.900 brain not brian new girls what would your father say about being so easily lured into a strange man's
03:07:51.580 studio um and this came in this came in just as the girls uh so do you guys want to uh he was asking
03:08:02.280 if you guys want to bow um not particularly like i don't know you don't have to i mean if you if you
03:08:12.180 want like that's just like the traditional like all these other girls here bowed before oh they bowed
03:08:16.920 like when they like she did the deepest bow actually she did a full-on respect deep we're supposed to
03:08:24.500 tell them that it's true it's true someone wait what we asked her to come on the show and she
03:08:32.600 like politely was like no and bowed to nick like a full-on bow was the white girl no oh there you go
03:08:40.120 well wait but like she like bowed she was like no sorry what but was she like uh like american asian
03:08:48.340 or oh well that makes sense then right yeah it's still cool it's more cultural
03:08:54.720 did you fall in love nick well did you get her contact info or what's up
03:09:00.640 okay wow just unprompted bow okay nice um actually speaking of speaking of maybe we do the bow video
03:09:12.260 segment so one of my requirements for a girl i would date a girlfriend did you have something on
03:09:21.440 the bow did we talk about the bow um i'd love to talk about the bow okay we'll talk about them
03:09:27.640 we'll play the video first a girl she's got a bow i need a girl to bow you know at least once a day
03:09:34.760 boom huge bow did you see the bow very well that was the perfect technique i give it an a minus
03:09:41.040 a minus a minus you don't want her to get too uh yeah i can't they can't get too confident you know
03:09:47.180 uh you know look very attentive i get home from a long day at the podcast studio she's got my beer
03:09:53.940 ready my food ready my noodles good to go she's gonna stir the noodles because they she fucked up
03:09:59.500 stirring them there you go do it again do it again good okay sweet boom attentive hands in lap
03:10:07.200 one more time nick let's see the bow boom huge bow look at that technique grace
03:10:13.000 respect still still an a minus a minus so going around the table would you bow to a man
03:10:20.940 no no like okay what about you i mean what's the context just they come home it was just like i need a
03:10:29.780 bow depends on the context okay if i can get a push gift when i have his kids yes what's a push give
03:10:40.900 i get a mercedes amg when i have your child then yeah you can i'll buy you so after children and
03:10:47.000 marriage and he has to buy you a just very take care of me in all forms of fashions and you'll
03:10:52.860 consider doing about yeah what if it's on like the second date hell no okay if it is important to my
03:11:01.700 husband that i bow to him sure but i do think that it's like a cultural thing and i don't understand
03:11:10.020 why it'd be necessary but like yeah this is cultural appropriation no it's not i just don't like like you
03:11:16.940 literally made the comment like is she asian oh that makes sense like you said that so like i didn't say
03:11:21.260 that so i just feel that like if my husband was like i want you to bow to me i'd be like
03:11:28.880 okay sure but i mean okay whatever so bowing is a part of my culture and i bowed at all sorts of
03:11:39.420 people what's your culture i'm half taiwanese um and i'm half what american white word okay um so i see
03:11:50.420 it as we are two people i respect you as a person and usually it's to my elders um but
03:11:57.480 definitely i would bow to my husband i don't see it as a diss like i think it's like i respect you
03:12:03.820 you respect me kind of a thing where were you born in taiwan no my mom was okay do you speak
03:12:10.900 i speak mandarin okay what about you would you hear the bow um i mean it depends on the man like
03:12:16.840 if it's a stranger then i wouldn't but like it's first aid second date like he asked for it he's
03:12:22.180 like can i see about not if not if he just wants to see it but if it's like someone i actually know
03:12:26.760 and like show the bow not not like just like someone i don't know that well but like i mean if
03:12:32.680 i know them and i respect them and they they really want me to bow then i guess but like i don't really
03:12:37.340 think it means that like much no he just liked it he thought it was endearing or cute or something
03:12:42.360 yeah sure okay what about you do you hit the bow for your boyfriend like if he comes home like is
03:12:49.780 he is he long distance your boyfriend yeah he lives two hours away or not it's not that far but medium
03:12:55.460 yeah wait really quick so you've been dating him for two years correct so we got together in high
03:13:00.080 school so okay and so he's you met initially in person close school yeah different colleges
03:13:09.200 okay two hours away okay how often do you see him like every weekend or maybe like once a week
03:13:17.040 like twice a month maybe twice a month okay you should just like next time you see him
03:13:24.560 unprompted hit the bow i don't know i'm not familiar with that but like if you like if he's
03:13:33.320 like if we're married and he's my husband and he's like maybe coming home from work maybe i wouldn't
03:13:38.320 bow but like greet him like with a kiss or something so like the bare minimum
03:13:42.900 so what do you do when you greet like you greet him now you slap him across the face no i hug him
03:13:50.800 like when he picks me up from the train then i i was just like you got to be married to greet him
03:13:54.720 with a kiss what do you how are you greeting him now okay so you wouldn't do the bow now if he asked
03:14:03.820 for it like for fun or no he was serious he was serious about it like for respect or yeah he just
03:14:13.800 thought it was cute he was like every time i see you i want to bow if he um i don't know
03:14:20.740 like what would your objection to it be like like bow to like worship him no just respect as a high
03:14:31.900 like as a respect like a not just like a slight head tilt it's got to be full-on respect bow you see
03:14:39.460 that wait she's not fully like 90 she's not at the hips yeah exactly yeah um maybe i'm just not
03:14:49.880 familiar with it so i don't know you think your boyfriend's watching right now i told him about it
03:14:54.640 but i don't know he's with his family right now what's his name terrell wait what is it terrell
03:15:02.000 terrell terrell demand bows from here on out see how it goes i'm just saying terrell yeah i don't
03:15:13.100 think he would demand it from me though is he a white guy no he's um tomorrow and filipino wait he's
03:15:22.300 what tomorrow from guam it's there oh word word yeah well he sounds like uh he's a brave and a
03:15:33.320 decent man he's a pioneer try it out terrell try it out uh yeah what do you guys think so i want a
03:15:40.160 girl who's willing like immediately first date second date she's she's got start hitting bows
03:15:45.380 can i just say what's up i can understand bowing like ancestor wise and um out of respect but it just
03:15:51.800 feels too close to like treating your man like he's god and i don't like that sign me up well
03:15:56.620 maybe maybe it's because you're not dating guys who are like you see them as you want to respect
03:16:02.380 them as well like i said before my i have a stipulation with it if i have that respect yes
03:16:07.460 but on the second date no no no got it first date first date first date boom absolutely hit me with a
03:16:15.040 bow he'll put it i'm telling you respect if i do it just as an experiment right you're an attractive
03:16:20.660 girl i'm sure you get asked out on first dates all the time try it as an experiment just upon
03:16:25.980 walking up you know you've set up the date maybe you've met him at on a dating app i don't know the
03:16:30.260 circumstances you're walking up to each other maybe he's probably arrived early because you're running 15
03:16:35.660 minutes late but just as you're walking up just be like do like kind of a cute little do a bow
03:16:44.740 i think he's that could be the one for you her face does not look like she's gonna do the back
03:16:50.860 just try it rachel would you yeah i would do back flips i would rachel whatever andrew want rachel
03:16:59.100 you wouldn't do that andrew i want to see you do that absolutely whatever he wants go ahead wait
03:17:04.420 i i want to see the video the the proof that andrew me telling to andrew oh he has he hasn't
03:17:12.200 requested about but he gets one andrew one that's a crew shout out to the crucible crew watching by
03:17:17.600 the way but they know they're constantly calling me a simp and saying i'm the biggest simp for him
03:17:21.940 i yeah i think women should be simps it's rightful women should be simps for men i also want to know
03:17:26.520 like the the girls who wouldn't bow what are you losing in bowing to your man like what's the
03:17:32.800 why don't you want to do it well here's the thing i'm i'm not against bowing i mean
03:17:37.040 respect earns respect i think okay i'll bow you bow to me if i do something respectful too though
03:17:42.900 like you know same respect i gotta reciprocate the bow i gotta reciprocate the bow what are you
03:17:49.760 talking about you want me to reciprocate the bow oh whoa what is this that's crazy i think it just
03:17:58.320 goes back to the feminism thing that's crazy i mean i mean if we're doing something respectful
03:18:04.300 i mean would you like about if you did something i mean he respects you right no if andrew bowed to
03:18:09.480 me it would be out of order you'd be worried yeah she'd be right because like i don't know if this
03:18:15.860 line of questioning makes sense but if if you're on a first date and you expect the guy to pay for
03:18:22.080 the first date um but he finds out that he doesn't respect you and he doesn't want to pay is that okay
03:18:28.280 if he just doesn't pay for the first date then i mean i like i was someone who likes to split you know
03:18:33.640 um i mean it really depends if he's splitting just or not if he's refusing to pay just to be like
03:18:40.600 no why would i do that i would be like well i mean you pay for your meal i pay for my meal like
03:18:45.560 right but back to like you want the reciprocated respect right if he didn't reciprocate that and
03:18:52.340 he's like well i don't really want to pay for your dinner that's fine like i don't really want to
03:18:55.700 anyone to pay for my dinner no i never expect that well hypothetically if you did if you were a woman
03:19:02.020 who did expect that and they said well i if you want me to pay for the dinner i want to respect you
03:19:07.800 and you're i don't know also like you're saying if if they are going to pay for the dinner and they
03:19:14.060 then wanted to bow because they did that thing is that what you're suggesting no i was just saying
03:19:19.600 you're you were saying the only way i would bow to you is if i respect you and i was kind of flip
03:19:26.260 trying to flip but i don't know if it's a good comparison if you're expecting him to pay for the
03:19:30.520 first date and then he doesn't respect you enough to do that i don't know well okay well if he's if
03:19:36.220 someone's just being disrespectful of course i'm not gonna i mean here's the thing i'm always gonna go
03:19:39.420 into any situation even with a stranger with with respect because i don't know you
03:19:43.960 i don't want to assume anything with you wow holy shit sorry guys i sneeze very violently
03:19:50.600 um yeah sorry i got a loud sneeze what can i say yeah but um okay yeah so i any situation any
03:20:03.800 person i'm gonna go into this situation assuming respect um i mean if i bump into a stranger i'm
03:20:09.720 gonna be oh i'm sorry that's kind of a bow in its way it's right for shizzle yeah so
03:20:16.140 if that makes sense so who wasn't willing to bow was it you not no bow wait i got a question
03:20:25.740 so for question for you two really quick should men be willing to sacrifice their life for their
03:20:32.360 girlfriend yeah yeah yeah yeah like take a bullet should a man take a bullet for his girl
03:20:40.820 protect her right men are supposed to be protectors yeah if it's a serious serious relationship how long
03:20:47.280 how long do you think you should how long should you be dating before a guy i'm gonna say if you
03:20:52.360 committed to that person i wouldn't put a timeline on it three months let's say he committed to you
03:21:00.140 three months in three months in girlfriend should he be willing to take a bullet for you protect you
03:21:05.880 yeah yeah what about you same thing what do you think on this one um i think again it depends on
03:21:13.400 the context i mean however two people define something a relationship you know if would you
03:21:22.520 take would you in that scenario would you take the bullet for your three-month boyfriend or do you
03:21:28.800 think that's more like so more so the man's job to protect i don't know about that one i wouldn't do
03:21:39.420 so that sounds like no you wouldn't what not for my three-month boyfriend but but would you want
03:21:43.440 would you want your three-month boyfriend to do it for you um i wouldn't even say i necessarily like
03:21:48.840 want them to but i would just hope that you love me enough to want to protect me why are we in the
03:21:55.900 situation hey it could happen yeah it could happen have me in that room huh did he have me in that
03:22:00.860 room where that was happening what do you mean like if they yeah like because of his choices and
03:22:06.260 whatnot you're you're at uh you're at a uh an after party for an up-and-coming rap artist who
03:22:12.960 happens to be gang affiliated who brought me there i don't know it was for one of your music things or
03:22:18.560 whatever you're a musician right yeah your fault okay you're like babe take me to this thing you
03:22:23.620 know this guy's a great rapper whatever it is i don't know i listen to pearl jam i don't know okay so
03:22:29.120 uh you want him to like take a bullet for you then well you're saying that it's my fault for us
03:22:37.980 being in the room so no i don't know if there's fault like who you could go anywhere what if you're
03:22:43.460 just at a restaurant yeah you're at a restaurant and like someone goes crazy yeah yeah you want the
03:22:48.520 bullet the man to jump in front ah take the bullet that's what men do yes not if he doesn't like
03:22:53.820 that not if he's like yeah uh what about you you think the guy should do the take the bullet
03:23:00.780 yeah yeah i mean you can't control people and how they act what about you yes what about you um no
03:23:08.080 man shouldn't have to take the bullet what about what do you think your boyfriend let's talk about
03:23:12.060 your boyfriend would you terrell do you want terrell to protect you and take the bullet
03:23:18.900 oh yes yes now would a guy be less attractive if he was unwilling to do that let's say you're just
03:23:26.000 meeting this guy and you know he's a pansy he's a pansy he would never take a bullet for his
03:23:31.940 girlfriend is he less attractive and less date worthy starting with you yes yeah i'm sorry can you
03:23:41.460 repeat uh is a guy who's unwilling to do it less attractive less date worthy yeah yep
03:23:47.220 you don't care okay he's absolutely less attractive and not date worthy uh okay so here we go so let
03:23:56.780 me start by saying if you guys are familiar with the game of chess in chess you lose if you sacrifice
03:24:03.240 the king to save the queen checkmate now a couple things here a couple things here you don't want to
03:24:11.500 do a bow you don't want to do a bow but you both want a man to lay down his life and die for you
03:24:19.400 what let's pause it let's let's take a step back here because nope huh step back okay let's take a
03:24:25.520 step back and let's see a bow right now a bow on the first date you want a man to die for you i don't
03:24:30.200 want him to die you want a man to die for you but you're not going to do a bow you said my boyfriend
03:24:34.160 did i want my boyfriend to take my bullet for me but you said you hold on your terms your terms
03:24:40.000 for the bow were married and an eighty thousand dollar luxury car i said a push gift if i can push
03:24:47.200 out your child you can oh and children and children what i gotta push the child out what are you talking
03:24:52.200 about and and that's your job and it's half your it's your child yes it is but um i have to go
03:24:59.400 through the pain of it so i should be gifted i you don't have to i mean you probably should
03:25:02.960 what if you don't have children with this guy because you said three months in you you want that
03:25:08.220 you want ah bullet i think bowing in a different form yes you can have it but different form what do
03:25:16.700 you mean like huh huh what do you mean what do you mean different form listen i can reward a man
03:25:28.920 one way i don't have to bow that's how i feel about it you're talking about
03:25:32.800 fellatio yeah why not huh yeah why not cloud flying donated to that's about that's damn near about
03:25:40.500 okay we'll get question for the panel in your opinion is sex work a legitimate career option
03:25:46.000 for women today there are many groups pushing for stem-centered career paths but not many
03:25:51.680 promoting sex work we'll get to that in a sec thank you cloud flying we'll get to that in a sec
03:25:56.260 uh how are you gonna reward the guy you talking s-ing the d yeah why not you're gonna s the d
03:26:03.560 you can get rewarded that way i don't feel about you how you're gonna do how you're gonna reward
03:26:07.300 you're gonna reward the with the s-ing the d yeah s-ing the d yeah it's a bow it's crazy though
03:26:14.640 but it's amazing that you guys don't think that's as big of an act of submission as a little bow you
03:26:19.940 will let you will let a guy splunk on your face in your mouth but you won't just bow for a guy i like
03:26:29.900 that it's crazy son these girls they they wouldn't cook for a guy but you'll let a guy blast all over
03:26:36.880 i would cook for a guy that's actually another crazy son i never said i wouldn't cook i love to
03:26:42.260 cook for a man i'm just giving an example here i'm giving an example you wouldn't bow right let a guy
03:26:48.600 you know something interesting about this i have this thing where like i cannot get on my knees and
03:26:56.580 give head if i don't respect a man i refuse to get on my knees and give you head if i don't respect
03:27:00.760 that's like a bow you prefer like 69 or something or like if you don't respect him like i just can't
03:27:07.620 do it he's like laying in bed i'm not gonna do that period yeah like i just can't do it can i play devil's
03:27:11.920 advocate um are you expecting him to go down then so here's the thing oh oh are we talking casually
03:27:24.160 are we talking relationship i've been in a relationship i just want to hear you personally
03:27:28.480 where do you stand um i don't always expect to actually no okay based okay i feel like you gotta
03:27:38.080 warm it up so i do damn y'all crazy you guys are crazy all of that is included in in having a
03:27:47.780 intercourse that's all a part of intercourse to me okay but then what if is it expected for
03:27:54.840 then there's a man expecting it too is it not fair like yeah i just said it's a part of it
03:27:59.360 okay okay yeah it's just crazy to me like you guys don't want to bow
03:28:05.660 but i never said i wouldn't i just got stipulations stipulations to what to the bow like yeah what's
03:28:13.600 the context shouldn't be the reverse shouldn't be shouldn't be the reverse though like you'll
03:28:18.280 you'll wait until the marriage and the car i don't even agree with the car thing but you'll wait
03:28:22.640 until marriage and car for sex but maybe the bow you'll give a little early on i'm not even like
03:28:29.300 it seems like sex is a bigger give than a bow it is it is however you know what i mean yeah like you
03:28:36.020 can bend me over and that's fine but i'm not gonna just bend over to do the bow now listen that's a guy
03:28:40.860 like that one listen that's well put let's keep it on task where you said on the first date
03:28:46.420 but do you think it's because in modern times women think that they equate sex with a man with
03:28:55.640 attention from the guy so they feel like that's more of a fair trade whereas if you just do the
03:29:00.080 bow it's like you're not the boss of me i can submit i feel like sex goes both ways i want it too
03:29:04.800 that is that that is a fair argument because the bow is one directional whereas well i mean i would even
03:29:09.940 argue i don't even think i mean my view is sex is an equal value exchange but i actually do think
03:29:16.840 a lot of women view it as like i'm giving up something like i don't know y'all are the ones that
03:29:23.600 come like a hundred times in one go i mean y'all be but a lot of women just you know what i mean yeah
03:29:30.460 what do you mean they just can't come i don't know they the dudes be fucking up then yeah well
03:29:34.840 that's not always the case sometimes they literally i know i know it's medical yeah i mean
03:29:38.600 yeah it's medical but i also think that promiscuity leads to intimacy issues and if you're screwing
03:29:45.120 every guy he ain't gonna be able to make you come oh well for example you know it's not always easy
03:29:50.520 for me but like you know i i haven't been with many men i actually adapt but when i was with just
03:29:55.540 one man i still couldn't do anything maybe he wasn't the rubik's cube i had a friend who couldn't
03:30:01.500 either ever like ever there's like even on their own there's a pretty blind she just
03:30:06.640 yeah some women can't she said some women can't some women it's pretty pretty fast i mean sometimes
03:30:12.400 it's just mental sometimes i was gonna say a lot of the time it is mental yeah because in order for
03:30:18.220 me to i have to like i have to focus i can't have any distractions there's also like little things that
03:30:23.560 could happen that'll like instantly i have the ick i'm like okay no speaking of this wait actually
03:30:28.700 speaking of this uh the whole like this i guess the orgasm response thing it actually occurred to
03:30:34.180 me that so there's this term and rachel i think you might be familiar with it uh like the alpha widow
03:30:38.880 yeah term where like once as a woman you've like met a certain caliber of guy and it might not even be
03:30:45.560 within the realm of like sex it could be his personality he's really attractive uh successful he has status
03:30:52.740 if you date like a like a i don't know a really rich guy it's gonna be hard to like go and date the
03:30:59.800 guy who lives in a dorm who shares like roommates it's like a little harder to go back to that but
03:31:06.340 like speaking within the realm of like sex i actually think that this can happen to men too
03:31:11.560 this is often framed as something that only happens to women but actually like speaking specifically on
03:31:17.300 the sex topic like once you girls have like dated a guy who can do that just right it can be hard to
03:31:24.520 like go date a guy who's kind of like subpar in the bedroom um not to say that that's all that women
03:31:31.000 care about obviously obviously not i think women care about other things far more but uh in terms of
03:31:36.680 being sexually satisfied i do think it's harder once you've like been with a guy who does it you know
03:31:41.740 just the way you want it to what the fuck okay hide that for a sec we'll pull it back up later um
03:31:46.840 i think the same can happen to a dude we can get kind of spoiled because like there's some women who
03:31:56.180 like is crazy son yeah it's like i'm talking like instant climax and then like multiples and can come
03:32:08.360 like 30 times yep i don't know what's going on over here i think yep you know something about that
03:32:16.320 it's true you speak effects word i don't know it's great you don't some of these girls like
03:32:20.920 one thrust boom premature ejaculation why here's the double standard why is it bad when it happens to a
03:32:29.320 guy okay anyways it's fine if you know again i don't think it's bad wait i know i'm kidding
03:32:34.140 the women just keep going um anyways okay not i want to move it all it's uh moving on to something
03:32:40.500 else but it's definitely the case that men can get helpful with it too
03:32:45.040 oh yeah we're gonna lower that in just a sec uh you can pull that up i think i had one chat come
03:32:54.520 through no actually we're good wait we oh the the okay i do need to pull this one back up
03:32:58.720 uh oh it's below the threshold okay uh well there it is we had cloud flying in your opinion is sex
03:33:07.840 work a legitimate career option for women today actually well we don't have nobody here has only
03:33:13.760 fans correct i do oh shit wait really i thought this was a non sorry i didn't know oh no no it's not
03:33:21.760 the problem i just i thought for some reason you guys didn't say so so you guys do of it's like
03:33:27.600 content yeah but you wouldn't know what what what do you mean you i wouldn't like my page is literally
03:33:34.140 like all music stuff like really you you subscribe to literally watch me talk about my experience in
03:33:40.520 the industry and stuff like that are you just naked while you're talking absolutely not so there's no
03:33:45.760 like adult content if you wanted to pay for stuff but it's more so like
03:33:52.720 not news more so like um lingerie stuff bikini pictures feet pictures wait and what about you
03:34:03.220 so my page is about astrology um i post about that but the reason what the reason i um started i had a
03:34:13.240 friend but she's in my close friends on instagram and i personally
03:34:16.440 hold on can you lower the volume a little bit yo stay safe thank you for the raid dude i hope you
03:34:24.800 had a good time i assume you're playing world of warcraft cataclysm just came out we're gonna
03:34:31.180 interrupt this segment here to talk about world of warcraft briefly thank you stay safe for the raid
03:34:39.300 if one of the mods can do a shout out over there on twitch thank you for the raid man appreciate it
03:34:43.340 ladies going around the table
03:34:45.540 would you date a guy who plays a female gnome warlock with pink hair
03:34:56.320 no i play video games i understand you you understand the female gnome warlock with pink hair
03:35:04.800 it's a character on the game right nick can you pull up a uh stay safe his his instagram
03:35:13.580 would you guys date this guy he's good friend close friend i'm gonna set him up with one of you
03:35:19.120 so we're gonna go around the table we'll see would you date him would you date him
03:35:22.880 i don't know if you you got his instagram guys go to twitch by the way if you're thank you if
03:35:28.660 you're over here from stay safe twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub
03:35:33.100 if you have one there it is that's definitely not his girlfriend that was about to be the first
03:35:38.460 question don't worry about that scroll scroll down definitely not um uh that's that's his sister
03:35:45.680 keep scrolling down scroll down god damn why are you posting all these trying to hook you up dude
03:35:52.640 uh keep scrolling there we go click that one the the the yeah scare scare ab lord stay safe um
03:36:04.260 so would you date a guy who plays
03:36:07.180 as a female dwarf warlock with pink hair uh and also would you just scroll down x out of that scroll
03:36:18.820 down a little bit nick so uh would you date this guy in the event that you know he
03:36:29.360 become single again no no what about you i don't know i don't even know the personality
03:36:37.480 you know gamer is not a singular personality would you date would you date no not because
03:36:45.680 of the game though no but no because of the gnome there's a few things i saw that like you'd rather
03:36:51.180 him play like human warlock no it's not about the game i don't care if he plays the character oh
03:36:56.180 you're more like horde you'd prefer if he played on the horde versus the lions what like you'd prefer
03:37:01.840 like an undead you'd prefer undead warlock i don't care what he picks as to play like a video game i
03:37:06.760 don't care about video games i love you prefer more like okay you prefer an orc warlock because of
03:37:12.440 like the stun resist for pvp sure yeah like undead has will of the forsaken but like orc you could
03:37:18.640 argue like stun resist would be a little better i have no idea what you're talking about that's
03:37:24.720 why he plays alliance a gnome which like that's more of a pve like i mean there's escape artist or
03:37:31.880 whatever but like the intellect bonus and the engineering bonus like i mean you know
03:37:37.620 what about you probably not you wouldn't date him what about i mean you're married but if you
03:37:45.980 were single um what if he serves yeah if he serves and he's like does outdoor stuff okay are
03:37:52.140 you saying like this is what he does as a career just a hobby he plays like a casual like 14 hours
03:37:57.240 a day okay what about you would you date him um not for 14 hours a day but like i don't care if he
03:38:04.060 played less like if he was like less sweaty yeah you would date him yeah sure like if he's a bit more
03:38:09.680 like like if he was a dad gamer you would date him what's a dad gamer what he is like you know
03:38:16.080 like he's in a dad guild or whatever like they play a little bit you know yeah i mean i don't really
03:38:21.020 know much about gaming but like they're wifing on lucy who's lucy lucifron molten core
03:38:27.920 this jargon yeah like they're hearts they're like hard stuck on veil in bwl
03:38:36.940 yeah i mean like that's the kind of guy you would date like a guy who's in a guild who's like hard
03:38:42.040 stuck on veil i don't know in bwl i don't know what anything you're saying means okay just checking
03:38:48.280 what about you like if you're single would you date him if he's if all he does is play video games
03:38:54.580 no like he let's just say he's in a dad guild hard stuck on veil i don't know what that means
03:39:00.840 and they're like their their roster it's like they're always struggling to like fill 40
03:39:04.860 for a raid
03:39:06.820 they're all looking at me like i can help you know that rachel's a world of warcraft expert
03:39:14.500 um i don't know what they're saying about some sims and they're they're like their raid comp is
03:39:21.860 like dog like absolute dog shit like they're bad at video games no just like the raid comp no just
03:39:28.740 like the raid comp's terrible like it's a bunch of hunters like feral druids elemental shamans like
03:39:33.700 ret paladins like just dog i know what a shaman is like totally suboptimal like and they're all
03:39:39.900 they're parsing in like 50 percentile on warcraft logs
03:39:43.500 um i don't know i i don't know if he plays that game and if he's addicted then no i'm not you
03:39:54.860 that's a fucking 50 dkp minus what the fuck was that shit okay anyways moving on thank you stay
03:40:08.820 safe for the raid appreciate it yeah guys pull up twitch guys you better i better get follows from
03:40:14.080 you guys after that guys follow me on twitch drop a follow and also oh my are we bugged or
03:40:19.280 it's been it's been a minute since the twitch prime a little oh no the tier one it's been two
03:40:25.420 minutes since i think our our twitch prime isn't working so guys drop us a follow if you enjoyed
03:40:31.060 that little world of warcraft dating segment um like i don't know if you guys know this but like
03:40:36.620 this is pretty much me like like i'm basically aoe farming like the whatever like the dating podcast
03:40:42.140 thing like like i'm basically joker d when it comes to like aoe farming noobs and shit
03:40:47.120 like you know i'm like a mage and i'm just like you know cone of cold flames flame strike cone of
03:40:53.780 cold ice nova arcane explosion blizzard blizzard blizzard like that's what i'm doing with this
03:41:00.200 podcast so you guys better follow and drop some fucking prime boys okay thank you
03:41:04.340 oh right we're gonna lower it okay anyway sorry what were we talking about what were we talking
03:41:12.600 about before this my brain just went blank yeah it was about what we were talking to you right
03:41:19.540 oh sex work oh yeah oh yeah only fans uh okay question for the panel in your opinion is sex work
03:41:28.000 short and quick answers if you can is sex work a legitimate career option for women today starting
03:41:32.420 with you going around the table i mean if you can monetize off of it then sure
03:41:36.220 i mean not for me but like do what you gotta do i guess and do what you gotta do
03:41:44.800 um i'm a supporter supporter okay no
03:41:51.360 no um again not for me but like if they have to then no no i have a question for you do you think
03:42:04.260 there's a scenario where any woman has to do sex work um yeah i don't think so but like i i can see
03:42:12.020 how like for some people like if they're really struggling for money that's the easiest option for
03:42:16.120 them and i'm not gonna say anything if that's what they choose to do or being born in 69 tts
03:42:22.560 starting now i mean you can be born into sex work i didn't know that yeah for sure like if you're
03:42:29.160 trafficked like if your mom was trafficked and then you're you have to yeah but that but sex work is a
03:42:35.300 choice like we're talking like you're choosing to make an onlyfans or you're choosing to prostitute
03:42:39.800 yourself we're not talking about child sex trafficking what i was gonna say before was um on my
03:42:45.760 close friends i like to twerk that's something i enjoy doing so that is why what yeah i actually
03:42:53.620 love it so why not like you like to twerk i do like do you i literally enjoy it okay yeah that's
03:42:59.860 valid so my friend was like you need to make ollie pants and i'm like why not because you like to
03:43:04.520 twerk i mean i could sell that so is that what you sell on you said you do tarot reading so is it
03:43:10.100 like tarot part tarot part twerking so if you were to go on my page it's astrology information
03:43:16.540 there's people that follow me for astrology but if they would like to see other things in the
03:43:20.480 messages they can buy a twerk video what's the best month for twerking um i'm not consistent it's
03:43:28.360 not my first job it's not something i'm like this is all what i'm gonna do like what zodiac
03:43:32.400 yeah like what's the best like zodiac for a twerk like are there certain like jupiter rising is that
03:43:36.680 a good time to work please i don't know that's i'm serious that's a serious question what repeat
03:43:42.340 that question i'm sorry like if it's like uh you know if you're capricorn and it's you know the that
03:43:48.420 time of the it's like like it's the jupiter rising so we gotta twerk is that like a good time to
03:43:55.680 twerk there's always a good time to twerk it's always a good time to twerk it actually um releases
03:44:00.600 trauma because you hold trauma in your hips so shake that shit wait hold on say that one more
03:44:06.260 time just the way you said it i said twerking releases trauma you hold trauma in your hips
03:44:15.240 so shake that shit what period wait what is a woman prattle are we talking about wait
03:44:22.540 holding trauma in your hips and you do twerking releases trauma yep yeah i gotta do that i got
03:44:28.680 i got some hang-ups i gotta start twerking boys it's like a voodoo witchcraft sign me up basically
03:44:33.860 sacral chakra releasing oh lord exactly but sure do you think i would benefit from twerking yes
03:44:40.380 i've got some twerk for us brian some stuff i'm just like you know whining whining his
03:44:44.720 brian's really going through some stuff going through some stuff let me go to the twerk
03:44:48.720 let's have a twerk off okay okay no honestly though if you guys can you get a prescription
03:44:55.280 from a doctor like maybe not like a md but like a homeopath doctor let me say this cloud flying
03:45:01.000 donated sixty nine dollars brian what happened to chase his last appearance was great but he's
03:45:07.740 mia six billion nine hundred and sixty nine million six hundred and ninety six thousand
03:45:13.820 nine hundred and sixty nine thank you sir uh chase uh he was on he joined me for the interview with
03:45:22.560 orion teraband but yeah he hasn't been on in a while uh i think he doesn't really like arguing with
03:45:29.340 strumpets that's what he took that's what he told me he said he doesn't like arguing with strumpets
03:45:34.860 um but uh that's kind of it jp donated sixty nine dollars won't bow because it feels like
03:45:45.480 worship but wives submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the lord for the husband
03:45:51.800 is the head of the wife as christ is the head of the church oops i think that's a tough one on this
03:45:59.140 panel because there's only like what two of us that are christians i'm a christian okay so there's
03:46:03.620 i was raised christian who's christian you're christian yes what's anonymous donated sixty
03:46:08.860 nine dollars twerk brian let's see that dumpy what where's this like did did somebody catch a
03:46:16.080 glimpse like people keep saying i have a dumpy or like a fatty you're not denying it what you gonna
03:46:22.460 do with it whoa what you gonna do uh oh no i don't know um nothing i'm good nothing what i was
03:46:37.640 gonna say was um if you look it up doing yoga as like for women it actually does release trauma
03:46:43.020 throughout your hips so twerking yoga stretching it's a thing i believe it i was gonna ask the
03:46:50.040 priest this morning for some holy water i was gonna put in a squirt gun and then when you guys
03:46:53.660 say anything like i just damn but i didn't do it so i'm kind of regretting it oh it's it's holy
03:47:03.500 water so it won't ruin your makeup it'll just like you know get you out of your pagan your pagan
03:47:09.560 nonsense i'll twerk for a bitcoin you know what somebody donates a bitcoin i'll do it so when i want
03:47:17.520 to twerk on my only fans it's a problem but you're gonna twerk for bitcoin like everybody has their
03:47:23.600 price exactly okay everybody bitcoin what is that 70k right now shit well uh what were you saying
03:47:35.900 about christians and denominations oh yeah what's your denomination i'm seventh day adventist
03:47:40.700 is that like protestant yeah okay yeah is anybody else here religious i was raised baptist oh we know
03:47:51.700 you're lds you're i was raised baptist torque god you believe in the torque god listen what would you
03:47:59.880 say like are you kind of new age or do you follow any specific thing besides astrology or um so like i
03:48:06.680 was saying i was raised in a baptist church christian my family is christian i'm sure that
03:48:11.300 if i passed away they are going to bury me as a christian like that form that's how i like i'd like
03:48:16.420 to think about it but i do um i like knowledge just like you like to read data and like science yeah
03:48:23.460 that's me so i like to learn new information and apply it to my life i would consider myself spiritual
03:48:29.100 though you would consider yourself spiritual but you don't follow like a certain path i have before
03:48:36.460 like i like i said i was raised in the church and i've also taken it upon myself while i was in
03:48:40.840 college to go to church alone and have my own relationship with god i still have a relationship
03:48:44.880 with god but i also believe in learning other forms of practice yeah i was just wondering like if you've
03:48:52.600 checked into like hinduism or theosophy or like new age or different things or i haven't or if you
03:48:59.340 just kind of do the the spirituality buffet where like i take a little yoga and a little astrology and a
03:49:04.380 little bit of this and a little bit of that and kind of mishmash it pretty much yeah what drew you
03:49:09.960 to astrology um i've always asked everybody their zodiac sign and then i started to understand how
03:49:15.760 like deep it is like your entire blueprint to your life is there so it comes down to if you want to
03:49:20.660 actually know that information or if you don't i don't i never shove it down people's throat i'm not
03:49:24.920 going to try and make people believe what i believe but i do truly believe in it it shows you
03:49:29.760 it can answer a lot in your life
03:49:32.200 the eyebrows
03:49:36.720 i'm just so caught up in this astrology talk i'm mike davis donated 69 dollars
03:49:46.100 brian i am not impressed with this panel hey i want to see prettier females in the future
03:49:52.280 sorry to disappoint mike davis i was a fan of you before but after that i don't know
03:49:58.260 wow i'd like to see your face on here speaking of yeah
03:50:01.780 scroll it down just a little bit this is mike davis he's uh he's the resident roaster he likes to
03:50:09.980 roast a lot scroll it up a little bit you're cutting off his burger king hat he owns multiple
03:50:15.420 burger kings many burger kings i like y'all breakfast actually mike davis is single so
03:50:22.120 well he doesn't like anybody over here so can i say you are you he's not impressed she's not
03:50:28.340 impressed thank god mike davis maybe say something nice and i can i can set up a date can i get you a
03:50:35.180 date with one of the ladies okay anyways uh i did want to come to you actually over here so you've
03:50:40.320 never had a boyfriend ever never you it doesn't even sound like you've been on a date no are you
03:50:45.500 are you religious at all or no just haven't found the right guy yeah okay so i mean you've never done
03:50:51.260 anything with a guy then not beside kissing okay so you're so you're a virgin then yeah and are you
03:50:58.600 waiting until marriage or no no just the right guy yeah do you have a sense of maybe you're not
03:51:04.360 waiting until marriage but like i assume you don't want to have a one-night stand too
03:51:09.580 no you'd prefer would you prefer to be like a boyfriend at least something like that okay
03:51:15.700 good times and are you um thinking maybe sophomore year is going to be the year or are you still
03:51:25.160 going to just be forever alone i mean i don't know i hope what sorry okay all right so if you don't
03:51:32.020 want to wait till marriage like i'm kidding i'm kidding how do you determine um it just seems a
03:51:37.120 little ambiguous for me like how long do you have to be with a boyfriend or i mean i don't think you
03:51:41.780 have to be with anyone for anything like or like i i'm okay with um one night stands too like i
03:51:47.480 wouldn't do it because i just don't think i'd be comfortable if i don't know the person
03:51:50.260 but you're fine with it yeah like i don't have nothing against it okay you know what we should do
03:51:55.520 we should do the bumble section so we're gonna do a segment called actually it doesn't even have a
03:52:04.380 name but we're gonna have you each get oh hold on remember memorial day donated 69 dollars
03:52:14.180 thank you hi brian u.s army veteran here joined age 28 now 33 physically slash mentally messed up
03:52:22.580 from it affecting dating life versus before lost riz body pain wondering the girl's thoughts slash
03:52:30.000 advice with ex-military so like would they date a guy who is ex-military i think i could frame the
03:52:38.160 question like that uh would you date a guy how about let me would you date a guy who's
03:52:42.300 well you did say ex-military timothy donated 69 dollars bricsom what are you gonna do with all
03:52:51.260 that junk all that junk inside your trunk you should consult your doctor to see if twerking is right for
03:52:59.180 you good the twerk doctor um thank you timothy uh so would you guys date hmm how do i frame this a
03:53:07.000 guy who was in the because he says ex-military when you date a veteran
03:53:15.400 oh i'm sorry i was reading that uh yes i would
03:53:22.680 had to reboot um yeah you would what about you yeah i mean just like any person they gotta know who
03:53:29.340 they are okay yeah absolutely i have dated um ex-military and they he had ptsd and that was
03:53:38.260 really scary so you wouldn't assume if you were single you wouldn't date somebody they saw like
03:53:44.220 combat like intense combat i would say no but if they were they didn't do much didn't see much then
03:53:50.760 i would say yeah i have no problem yeah i would date them me too rachel well uh yeah i mean if i was
03:53:58.820 if i was single and yeah if you're saying yeah okay and uh wait shoot i had a question related to this
03:54:06.060 but uh uh he's so he's joined at age 28 he's now 33 is this mason from the future oh mason good luck
03:54:17.460 mason yeah he's going off to the well he's going off to the air force dating life wondering the girl's
03:54:23.860 thoughts advice the ex-military i don't really know what kind of advice he wants
03:54:30.700 see a therapist not like in a bad way but they talk about therapy no wait hold on where there's
03:54:43.860 something else i wanted to go to wait oh i remember what it was wait so you're saying like
03:54:48.500 you and your totally off topic you said you like to argue with your husband can we do a role play
03:54:56.040 here like let me hear you angry go ahead i'm your husband take it out on me go ahead it's good it's
03:55:01.420 therapeutic you said he likes to poke you a little bit right say something mean to her okay all right
03:55:09.700 you're mad oh man like be like uh you really sucked out there on that surfboard today you know
03:55:18.200 you missed that fucking set wave what are you fucking kook so he'll watch me compete sometimes
03:55:23.920 and he'll say that kind of stuff he'll be like god you were paddling so slow why did you not wait for
03:55:28.440 the bat and um what would i say back to him but he's a good coach so i appreciate his feedback um
03:55:35.900 in the moment i'd be like that's really not a good time to be saying that to me after i just got
03:55:42.260 out of the water i don't know say it how you would say it if we were arguing that's really fucked up do
03:55:49.580 you really have to talk to me like that right now i just got out of the water let me put my jersey
03:55:53.180 away there we go that's very good well i don't know if it was good i mean it was good she got in the
03:56:00.400 roll she got into the mood because you're like kind of soft-spoken and no but there's another
03:56:06.720 there's a dark there's a dark side of cloud flying donated 69 ladies you must choose boyfriend who
03:56:14.740 thinks astrology is whack bullshite or become a submissive wife rachel what does submissive mean
03:56:21.160 to you okay so first question boyfriend who thinks astrology is whack wait what choose
03:56:27.340 so date a guy who thinks astrology is whack or become a submissive wife
03:56:33.320 okay that those are the options go together but yeah it's gonna so you have to choose
03:56:41.840 like if you're if you're if she your friend's like oh what sign are you in the guy that you're
03:56:48.580 dating is like i think that's stupid i don't believe in any of that stuff would you rather date
03:56:52.220 a bunch of men that don't believe in astrology so i mean i already don't i mean no offense i don't care
03:57:00.060 but um so yeah so the choice is you have to date a guy who thinks astrology is bullshit or you have
03:57:09.520 to do or you have to be a submissive housewife well that's yeah i think we all think that like the guy
03:57:15.880 who thinks astrology is whack is probably going to be the same guy that you're right housewife too is
03:57:21.340 that well i guess the scenario question is probably direct here here's the scenario so the boyfriend
03:57:26.800 thinks astrology is whack but it's a 50 50 relationship or you become a submissive housewife
03:57:32.740 but he's all for astrology i guess that's the um counter likely but yeah it does be the submissive
03:57:39.660 housewife yeah okay what about you i'd be the submissive housewife but why does he believe in
03:57:46.580 astrology yeah yeah i'm having a hard time with the believing in astrology thing
03:57:51.900 um i would date the guy who thinks astrology is whack i think i would be the submissive housewife
03:58:00.300 wait you would date the astrology is whack guy yeah versus being the submissive wife yeah do you not
03:58:08.020 want to be submissive in your relationship like what do you mean by submissive like bowing
03:58:13.360 what's the second part of the question yeah so the second part is rachel what does submissive mean
03:58:20.420 to you to me uh it's a biblical thing but i think in general it just means that you submit to your
03:58:28.620 husband so in all things so there's none of this um well you have to consult me first and i have to
03:58:36.520 agree with everything and you have to justify everything before you can make the decision and we
03:58:40.820 you know like that the 50 50 thing i think submission is you're saying look yes you're in
03:58:47.980 charge of everything and i submit to your will and all things but also that's because you have
03:58:52.320 all the responsibility so you need the authority to go with the responsibility right if we want the
03:58:57.300 men to defend us with their life pay for everything handle all the tough situations then they need the
03:59:03.960 authority to go along with that level of responsibility i would say so if you went home
03:59:09.760 and andrew was like rachel astrology is real mike davis donated 69 dollars nothing honorable about
03:59:22.340 being a puppet on the strings serving people who view you as disposable our enemies aren't some poor
03:59:28.120 bum in cave in afghanistan but our leaders here dot military service is low iq
03:59:33.080 is this in response to that military guy
03:59:38.480 yo mike davis thank you dude good to see you back in the chat i've been wondering where you were i know
03:59:44.940 you've been busy with them burger king franchises let me just say this mike davis
03:59:49.640 you will always be welcome at the whatever podcast you'll get it your way at the podcast mike davis
03:59:57.540 ben george donated 69 dollars would you date a paramilitary member that bows to his wife and has a phd
04:00:06.380 in astrology what
04:00:09.040 super cheddars are drinking today okay okay we'll go around then we'll come back to the
04:00:18.920 submissive thing i'll say sure
04:00:23.280 sure uh wait they believe in astrology is that what i said yeah they have a phd in it oh they have a phd
04:00:34.580 uh and they'll bow to you hmm no yeah why not no no no no no
04:00:52.040 did you want i i don't know if you two were having a she was asking something about if andrew was into
04:00:58.820 astrology which he i could totally see him doing you'll get home off the plane and he'll be like
04:01:03.620 rachel astrology is legit yeah i think we all can see andrew being super into astrology we can all
04:01:10.220 foresee that happening would you submit to that no no because the thing about biblical submission
04:01:16.920 is the one thing we don't have to submit to is if our husband is like trying to get us to do
04:01:22.440 something inherently sinful like something that is especially like a mortal sin like apostasy no
04:01:28.780 you don't have to submit to that wait i have a question in under uh orthodox christianity
04:01:35.420 is uh being an apostate punishable by death no okay is that just in islam yeah right as far as i'm
04:01:44.420 aware i don't know any other religions where they kill you for it okay i just wasn't sure explain what
04:01:49.200 an apostate is it's when you leave the religion so it's like say you're a baptized orthodox christian
04:01:54.420 and you turn your back on the religion and you no longer practice or believe it um we do think
04:01:59.740 that you'll be judged much more harshly right than somebody who was never baptized and doesn't believe
04:02:05.900 so i was never baptized jehovah's witnesses like my grandmother's a jehovah's witness so
04:02:10.620 like if you if you leave the church or whatever they shun you yeah get shunned your get shunned like your
04:02:19.680 family too yeah we have a question here from stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on the
04:02:25.780 one to ten graal zulu donated sixty nine dollars so abortion thoughts okay why not um we'll come
04:02:35.940 back to stifler's question didn't you say that you had a couple if i recall yes okay uh just really
04:02:42.840 quick uh who's show of hands who's pro-choice show of hands who's pro-choice wait
04:02:52.160 okay who's pro-life
04:02:56.100 you guys like roommates or something don't you guys live together we're neighbors oh neighbors do
04:03:04.500 you guys like argue about this shit or no we haven't never talked about it oh okay that's the
04:03:08.600 ends of that friendship going to ucsb okay uh so i don't know i don't really talk about abortion on
04:03:17.560 the show but i mean you got anything rachel you against it i'm against it against it we believe
04:03:24.900 that it's you know murder so nickelodeon donated sixty nine dollars nickelodeon ladies of the panel
04:03:34.400 of the men you've had a romantic relationship with what percentage would you say were narcissistic
04:03:39.820 or sociopathic shout out rw you were great on tim cast chen was insufferable i like lauren
04:03:47.860 not like uh not in that way but like she's been on the show i thought reasonable ray's television
04:03:56.100 donated sixty nine dollars we'll come to that nickelodeon lds girl hi sister andrew said he
04:04:02.220 wants to debate an lds person i don't think i'm ready for a conversation doctrine wise but would you
04:04:08.580 be willing if so brian slash rachel can you make it happen i mean would you want to debate
04:04:15.620 i don't know debate like andrew wilson um yeah that's i don't know if you are you a debater
04:04:22.260 i don't know if i'm like a debater i definitely feel like he would compare me to pieces i definitely
04:04:28.600 feel like i can stand up for what i believe would you rather your past partners remember you as the
04:04:34.740 best sex they've had or the best relationship they've had assume average in the other of what
04:04:40.120 you pick anime thighs are my demise okay interesting name uh really quick before we get to that we had
04:04:47.420 nickelodeon uh of the men you've had room and by the way nickelodeon i did read your chat that came
04:04:53.340 in a while back it took me a while to get to it but just wanted to let you know i did read it
04:04:57.500 mike davis donated sixty nine dollars yo md thank you the message is simple serving in the military is
04:05:03.700 nothing but beta behavior bowing to masters who wouldn't shed a tear over your death enemies aren't
04:05:09.160 abroad they're right here in a suit and tie mike davis though do you think there's been any wars
04:05:14.800 at least in the u.s history that were righteous or any military conflicts in recent history that
04:05:22.120 have been righteous wars or do you think they've all been like nah okay anyways thank you mike davis
04:05:28.640 appreciate it wait so okay we had two things here nickelodeon asks of the men you've had romantic
04:05:34.280 relationships with would you say they were narcissistic or sociopathic yes definitely how many how many men
04:05:45.140 would you say um three out of four three out of four what about you any narcissists or sociopaths
04:05:53.540 i wouldn't necessarily define it like that no okay what about you yes no no not applicable not
04:06:04.120 n a n a n a no no okay but i will say if you think the majority of your past partners have been
04:06:13.060 narcissists it's it's a you thing you're the common denominator there shot's fire yeah do you care to
04:06:19.380 respond to the accusation um it's been one of my partners and i got out of that so i'm willing to
04:06:25.280 admit that i was accepting of that and now i'm not i think if it's one like say you've dated 10 guys and
04:06:31.400 it's one that could be a one-off that could be a wild card but if it's three out of four
04:06:35.140 you gotta have bad choices in men that's what it is because it's it's honestly truly not me but
04:06:41.520 yeah to each their own
04:06:43.520 word okay and then we hit we did have from anime thighs are my demise
04:06:50.860 i'll let her read it again
04:06:54.240 anime thighs are my demise donated 69 dollars would you rather your past partners remember you as the
04:07:02.980 best sex they've had or the best relationship they've had assume average in the other of what you pick
04:07:08.900 you rather your past partners remember you as the best they've had the best relationship they've
04:07:15.340 had i'd rather be the best relationship oh best relationship relationship best relationship best
04:07:23.240 relationship best relationship best relationship me too wow that's interesting i finally have a
04:07:30.560 consensus best sex i think most guys would say that don't you think i don't know that guys would
04:07:38.420 generally rather be remembered for the best d and not like oh he was such a great boyfriend you
04:07:45.080 know what i mean yeah uh okay anyways thank you for that question um let's see here where were we
04:07:54.220 oh stifler of course stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten starting
04:08:01.860 with you go ahead ten seven seven seven seven seven i'm like right now five or six but like if i had
04:08:14.200 time to get ready and stuff probably like a seven or an eight i think a seven i'd say five
04:08:20.240 who said ten
04:08:22.780 all right now pause as somebody that likes natural women if a woman says they think them themselves are
04:08:34.440 a ten how is that bad don't you have lip filler i do
04:08:37.440 i also like modesty and women you know that's kind of a thing but i'm just gonna say it
04:08:46.400 brian you always say you two are not tens you know to you oh i didn't rate myself i'm a five
04:08:52.940 there you go average i'm average looking it was a little weight i could i could get back to a six
04:08:58.520 if i was better shape a 10 to you is a ironing board which is fine an ironing board she's saying
04:09:05.260 you don't like girls with tits and ass ah no i never said that right he just said he prefers saying
04:09:10.960 i would prefer a girl so that's a 10 to you though right what do you mean no no no okay it was
04:09:16.140 about plastic surgery i'm not saying your big boobs are nice big butt is nice i'm not but if
04:09:23.080 it's a choice between flat boobs and fake titties i'd prefer small flat over fake titties now if you're
04:09:33.020 like would you prefer a c cup over a cup i'd have a slight preference for the c cup but i don't i'm a
04:09:39.920 labia guy but here's my thing think of like a woman that we know who you would consider a 10 yeah
04:09:45.340 like what celebrity yeah there's no tens okay period i'll accept that so when you're talking
04:09:53.080 about like modesty too though are you referencing there's face and body those are two different
04:09:58.460 categories okay i have a question so if the woman because you say you don't rate 10 it's just at
04:10:03.960 most probably a nine right yeah okay so say that person you would rate a nine and then you ask them
04:10:10.280 would you how would you rate yourself and they say nine because they rate themselves exactly as you
04:10:15.160 would does that not count because it's not modest or or would you then deduct points if my if you're
04:10:23.020 nine assessment of them is that they're nine and they're they're saying they're nine yeah i wouldn't
04:10:27.520 object to their assessment no just generally curious yeah yeah does your modesty lend itself to other
04:10:33.100 aspects or is it just like what do you mean how well so you say you like modest women yeah how they
04:10:38.420 talk about themselves do you like modest women when it comes to clothing and things like that
04:10:42.600 okay yeah i don't want to date a girl who's uh like it's not a huge like she's got a bikini photo on
04:10:51.700 her instagram it's not like i mean i would prefer if she had honestly no social media at all or minimal
04:10:58.060 social media or a private social like private instagram right and she posted tasteful modest
04:11:03.560 photos um so yes i do prefer modesty in those realms too public facing modesty absolutely um yeah
04:11:12.780 okay so when you guys say you're a 10 does that mean that you think you are perfect looking or is it
04:11:20.020 more like i'm a 10 she doesn't think she's perfect because she wants to get plastic right right that's
04:11:23.800 what i was asking good argument that's what i was asking you you said you're a 10 but you said you
04:11:28.440 want lip filler and fake tits and uh the hip fillers the hip fillers and do and botox yeah well
04:11:37.300 how can you possibly be a 10 if you want those cosmetic procedures i can still feel like i'm a 10
04:11:42.000 because i know that i'm beautiful i just want to be more beautiful but hold on if you're you can't
04:11:47.340 be more beautiful than most beautiful room for improvement right i want to break the scale you you want
04:11:53.460 uh-huh break the scale break the scale well you got to eat a lot more food if you want to do that
04:11:57.720 why is that you got you got to get obese you got to get sorry i'm just wondering why that's so
04:12:02.920 important to you why this but ebony to donated 69 dollars what is ebony's only van's name i like
04:12:09.800 the barely there short shorts but i need to know if she has the proper size kicks to work d it's
04:12:15.800 actually a skirt but it's fine um yeah i don't disclose that but thank you though it sounds to me
04:12:23.100 like you think that if you can achieve physical perfection it'll like make up for something it'll
04:12:28.260 fix something in your life is that why or like why do you value your looks like so much i've just
04:12:34.560 always been into that like since i was a kid like i've always been into like beauty and stuff like that
04:12:39.780 like i used to wake up at three in the morning to do my hair why it was three that i did was it
04:12:46.940 because uh you wanted to i was just people to perceive you a certain way or this for me like
04:12:52.780 when i feel like i look good i feel good do you feel like you have more to offer than your looks
04:12:59.780 of course okay i was just wondering if there was a connection with like you've dated mostly narcissists
04:13:06.520 and guys who were like you would say abusive to you like emotionally like you said you were forced
04:13:13.060 to an abortion and these guys are narcissists you have picked bad men and then you're hyper focused
04:13:17.520 on your looks does that kind of sounds like it all goes together to me like a package i mean it could but
04:13:24.420 it is what it is um okay i mean i just want to say the question i feel like all comes down to it's
04:13:34.060 subjective so how do i feel about myself that's how i answered it i'm not gonna say that i'm a 10
04:13:38.480 to you a 10 to you a 10 to you or you guys could feel as though you're a seven to myself i'm gonna
04:13:42.520 answer 10 because that's how i feel about myself so you don't think there's like an objective standard
04:13:46.540 of beauty like there is but for myself wait what so subjective that's what i said that's what i said
04:13:55.260 yeah what she was asking you do you think there's an objective standard of beauty so like you could
04:14:00.700 have 10 people in a line and objectively one would be an eight and another one would be a four
04:14:06.140 yeah
04:14:12.060 but the question as far as how it was asked
04:14:18.540 asked everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten so i answered how
04:14:23.980 i felt but that's all i'm saying i wasn't asked to rate everybody sitting here i was asked to rate
04:14:29.880 myself so i feel that was
04:14:32.540 pa donated 69 dollars patriotic helmet girl is pretty damn close to a 10 it is not just about looks
04:14:42.540 she is the whole package
04:14:44.540 speaking of which show us the other side
04:14:50.700 you guys uh do you guys like the change up you prefer the hat over the helmet nick pull up the
04:14:56.380 pull up the uh pull up the chat pull up the chat let's see the chat guys do you prefer the helmet or the
04:15:02.940 chat or the hat do you prefer the helmet oh nick exposed uh do you prefer this hat or the helmet in general i
04:15:14.140 know it's like memorial day weekend but that the flag hat or the german helmet
04:15:22.220 flag or helmet bojang was donated 69 dollars would you rather your hypothetical lonely son use sex
04:15:30.300 workers or have an ai girlfriend which of the two is worse
04:15:34.220 would you rather your heavenly lonely son use sex workers
04:15:42.300 i'm gonna go with i gotta go with ai girlfriend i'd prefer the ai girlfriend
04:15:47.980 i would say the same thing because diseases exist yeah
04:15:53.340 i prefer the ai girlfriend for sure
04:15:55.180 i want to say depends on how far ai advances uh because for one i mean are we gonna get real
04:16:02.620 human connection that way can they learn something you'll get that from a sex worker
04:16:06.380 you can't oh well i mean they're still gonna they're they're there for a reason yes um but i think
04:16:12.940 there's at least still a smidgen more opportunity to learn human behavior if that makes sense from a
04:16:20.380 sex worker well i mean you still get to read some body language you can still maybe tell if they're
04:16:24.460 not really as into it as they would like to be you know you can you can read someone even when they're
04:16:29.260 wait is that what you want in a sex worker encounter that she's not into jerry donated 69
04:16:36.060 it's my birthday and would love for y'all to sing happy birthday we'll do for champagne pop you do
04:16:40.940 champagne pop the rate for it is in the description we'll we'll pop champagne for you and we will sing
04:16:47.900 you happy birthday if you pop a champagne bottle uh let's do quick answers on this so
04:16:55.100 would you rather your hypothetical lonely son you have use a sex worker or have an ai girlfriend
04:17:00.940 ai ai is it just for sex or is it like what is it for like a relationship both so the ai is a
04:17:12.220 girlfriend and the sex worker is probably just gonna be for sex yeah like he's okay wait and then the ai
04:17:22.460 ai ai ai i guess ai dystopian future okay um so let's see here oh we were talking about the
04:17:31.740 rating thing okay well i have a couple clarifying questions here for you guys
04:17:34.860 here's another test all else being equal do you think you will be more physically attractive in 10
04:17:44.620 years time for you and you actually we'll ask everybody this yeah okay so you're 24 so you'll
04:17:52.300 be more physically attractive at 34. hell yeah okay what about you and i hope so i mean i i you're 25 so
04:17:59.340 more attractive at 35 i aim to work towards that future okay but so okay what about you you're 28
04:18:07.580 will you be more attractive at 38 than you are now yep okay what about you no no um no but i
04:18:18.460 think that i'm more attractive now than when i was 10 years younger so you're more attractive now at 32
04:18:23.980 than you were at 22 yeah question do you have any photos of you at 22 that we can open this up to the
04:18:30.940 i might chat but they're like old facebook stuff with stupid like filters that like i don't know
04:18:42.780 let me look uh what about you yeah do you think you'll be so you're 18 you'll be more attractive at
04:18:50.060 28 yeah okay you're 18 you'll be more attractive at 28 yes i guess rachel you too on this absolutely
04:18:58.300 not like that's total that's peak delusional to think that you're gonna be hotter in 10 years i
04:19:04.700 this is one of the ones that just stumps me when we're like oh i'll totally be hotter in 10 years like
04:19:10.380 even if you look good for your age in 10 years even if you like lost weight things like that it's like
04:19:16.380 you don't get hotter as you age as a woman that's not how it works like attractiveness physical
04:19:22.860 attract some some women that really do okay so like j-lo looks great for being 60 or whatever
04:19:29.900 she is but j-lo is not hotter at 60 than she was at 30 or 20. because you said beyonce is not hotter now
04:19:38.460 than she was 20 years no none of these women gorgeous as they are at an older age are hotter now than they
04:19:44.540 were when they were young i'm gonna allow i'm gonna allow that because you said physically okay but i
04:19:50.380 really think that knowledge is sexy yeah but we're talking about physical attractiveness i will say
04:19:55.260 i will say that um i think in general people who are 10 years younger are way more attractive
04:20:02.700 for me in particular i think i got cuter i think there's some people that might have like a drastic
04:20:09.580 transformation like say you were 250 pounds when you were 22 and then you get in shape and you look
04:20:15.820 amazing like 10 years later okay but like in general outlier situation yeah yeah and all things being
04:20:21.980 equal yeah that is the question all things being equal so people like to do this thing of like
04:20:26.860 well yeah at 21 i was morbidly obese and then at 31 i was in i was healthy body weight
04:20:37.820 got the excess skin removed got plastic surgery perfected my skill with makeup whatever it is
04:20:44.700 uh it's comparing like imagine you had all those things oh i learned how to dress better i did my
04:20:50.700 makeup better lost weight skin care etc if you had all those things at 21 and at 31 how can the answer
04:21:00.540 not be you're better looking at 21 or you could think of it this way take two eights two women who are
04:21:06.700 an eight they're exactly the same on the attractiveness scale but one of them is 35 and one of them is 22
04:21:13.020 men are gonna go for the 22 year old every single time i think you also have to consider too like we're
04:21:17.740 all women and i don't know how many of you want to have children but like i will definitely have
04:21:21.740 children within the next 10 years and that will take a toll on my body and so yeah i'm not going to be
04:21:29.500 more attractive in 10 years from yeah so we found um oh god we found a picture of you this is actually
04:21:38.780 11 years ago april 5th 2013 your very first photo oh on instagram nick i'm gonna link that in the private
04:21:46.460 chat linked linked okay april 5th 2013 the chat is going to compare
04:21:58.700 granted we have you in 1080p and this is from 2013 but you can uh yeah sure no it's fine
04:22:09.580 oh god yeah so that's you uh nick hide uh move us up please
04:22:19.500 so oh just hi so it's april 5th 2013 so what that's 11 years ago right if my mouth serves me
04:22:27.100 okay get your cheek off i know was she i mean look it's one photo compared to you know studio lighting
04:22:35.980 she's cuter you oh my god mid to mid what the fuck guys be nice okay uh
04:22:55.580 i would say you look the same too pretty much like you look you're still attractive
04:22:59.900 when you're still attractive yeah like you look like you've aged a little bit but you're not like
04:23:03.660 unattractive
04:23:13.420 okay you can you can i don't know i think
04:23:18.780 i don't know i think you look great thanks really what do you think your husband would say
04:23:24.060 oh yeah you guys been dating for eight years oh well i think you'd say that i'm
04:23:34.060 more attractive now i don't know i don't know what he would say he's a pretty realistic guy i don't know
04:23:41.820 you think he would cause an argument if he were to tell her you were hotter you were hotter eight
04:23:47.500 years ago you think that would be a good thing for your boyfriend well so um my husband and i
04:23:54.140 watched the show together and we have discussions about the questions that you asked okay and so
04:24:00.060 when we first started watching the rate your looks thing we rated each other yeah oh really yeah what did
04:24:06.460 he give you he gave me i think like a 6.5 good for him yeah is he watching right now what's up dude
04:24:13.740 actually let's let's hit ring call what's that he's actually asleep because he's gonna go to work
04:24:18.060 at midnight okay but he'll watch this when he wakes up um but yeah he's pretty realistic i think he
04:24:25.180 thinks i'm more attractive now okay i was just like a dorky 20 year old i wasn't like this cute
04:24:31.740 i was a dork i don't know you know yourself better and it shows yeah by the way just want to be clear
04:24:37.580 like with this whole thing uh like i don't it's not like oh you're 32 you're worthless you're
04:24:46.780 unattractive it's not that and it's not to say that women who are in their 30s there's absolutely
04:24:52.220 beautiful attractive women's uh in their uh excuse me 30s 40s etc it's not like oh once you hit 30 once
04:25:00.060 you hit 40 you're just unattractive no not not at all no but it's more so like okay well like if we're
04:25:05.820 just looking at this we're zooming out we're looking at it just kind of objectively look were
04:25:11.820 you more attractive at 25 versus 35 and aging is a biological reality when you say more attractive
04:25:18.700 too like you mean strictly physically because i think a lot of people are incorporating like oh
04:25:23.260 maybe i will have done this with my career maybe i will like this is my personality i'm more confident
04:25:28.140 in my skin and so i mean i but here's the thing even with that i i mean unless a girl's an absolute
04:25:35.020 mess in her 20s i don't think people tend to get i mean they can but like a lot of people get jaded
04:25:43.500 as they get older yeah like me personally me personally i was much more optimistic i was probably
04:25:50.620 more uh pleasant and optimistic 10 years ago now i'm jaded it is what it is people got so mad when
04:25:59.500 andrew rated me a six on here oh they were like how could you i would divorce him immediately he's
04:26:05.180 such a terrible abusive awful person i was like i rate my i rated myself a five because i was streaming
04:26:11.100 at the same time and i was like oh i'd give myself a five and people got mad about that too so so who's
04:26:16.060 a 10 to you oh who would you say is a 10 to you um probably like grace kelly or like uh uh vivian
04:26:26.220 lee the actress who played scarlet and gone with the wind like she's just her facial symmetry is
04:26:33.420 insane and gorgeous i have a question i'm just a normal midwestern mom so both of you said you'll
04:26:39.420 be better looking in 10 years both of you but you also said that you're currently 10 is donated 69
04:26:49.500 dollars given the societal emphasis on youth and beauty why do you think many people strive to look
04:26:55.900 younger rather than embracing their natural aging process is this a rhetorical question or i mean he
04:27:04.540 kind of answered his own question people strive to look younger because there's an emphasis on youth
04:27:10.780 than beauty ripped rich and rare donated 69 rachel how does it feel to have a beta fat boy husband
04:27:19.740 that has bigger tits than you that's a bag of trash men don't have tits pull up his shirt and tell me
04:27:26.620 you're fucking proud of that shit andrew is super hot so you're barking up the wrong tree and he does
04:27:32.940 not have tits he was like hunched over on the stool he's gorgeous what would you rate your husband
04:27:38.460 i think he's an eight and a half he thinks that that's insane but andrew's a handsome guy he's
04:27:43.260 a handsome he's a handsome guy he's a handsome guy um wait so okay you both rated yourselves tens you
04:27:50.620 think you'll both be better looking in 10 years so you're 24 you're 28 so at 34 38 how can you
04:27:57.740 possibly be a 10 now if you will be better looking in 10 years time i could still be a 10 how's that
04:28:05.020 i could still be a 10 it's woman math ryan i don't get it though like if you're gonna be
04:28:13.100 better looking now and then like progress and still be a 10 okay you want me to change my answer
04:28:20.460 okay no i'm a six don't change your answer don't know i don't know i just want to don't i want to
04:28:25.420 rate myself what i want to rate myself so you know i'm gonna go around the table on one last thing on
04:28:28.700 this and then we're gonna move on how about 20 years will you be more physically attractive in 20
04:28:34.780 years time so i'll be 44 um yeah
04:28:44.540 but the thing is is black don't crack so erroneous oh i you're yeah well black don't crack so
04:28:51.980 oh i'm gonna age differently than most people 30 years i still look good my mom looks amazing
04:29:02.860 erroneous she does erroneous
04:29:07.100 will will you look better in 30 years than you do now okay in 30 years i wouldn't say i look
04:29:14.700 better that'll be like you'll be kind of at the end of the peak at 54 yeah
04:29:20.300 i wouldn't be a 20 anymore i'd be a 15 like so you think like 44 that's like kind of the peak
04:29:27.660 no oh when's your peak 70 all right okay that's a troll answer now i don't know what your answer
04:29:34.940 was uh better looking in 20 years i said i would try to aim for that yeah no but you think you will
04:29:41.740 be better looking in 20 years at the rate i'm taking care of myself yes so you'll be better looking
04:29:47.020 at 45 than you are now at 25 oh at 45 i'm sorry i thought we should say no 20 years so 20 years no
04:29:52.380 i mean i think there's 10 but so 10 years yes 20 years 20 years i think there's gonna be some uh
04:29:56.860 mileage okay no not in 20 years are you just don't tell me what i want here no honestly that's
04:30:06.380 junior that's being delusional all right yeah no no no no definitely not all right uh well there you
04:30:15.660 have it folks um we are going to do uh one question then i'm gonna have maddie sit down for a little
04:30:21.020 bit uh do you guys object oh beat a girl donated 999 pop champagne all right to drinking oh yeah
04:30:36.380 yeah opera singer can you do the uh magic flute song again again yeah really quick can she sing
04:30:42.220 the happy birthday song to the guy turn what down nick maybe not since he didn't wait what audio
04:30:52.700 where did you turn it down where are you gonna turn it down like i don't work for free
04:30:59.500 i don't know if that's gonna help but okay fine yeah do it we're gonna pop champagne did you do it
04:31:07.500 nick yeah okay go ahead magic flute boom um
04:31:27.900 look at that you got a champagne pop and some opera mozart did you turn it
04:31:32.140 class you turned it back up nick all right here we go let's see if i can get it this time
04:31:37.900 all right boys while we're doing that um
04:31:45.660 i'll just ask a throwaway question really quick while i'm getting this champagne figured out
04:31:51.980 who's the primary victim who's the primary victim of war men or women starting with you going around
04:31:58.220 the table of war huh of war yeah men yeah men are dying men men men men men men men all right
04:32:13.740 rachel you got any questions for the girls while i get the champagne going um
04:32:20.140 somebody already asked the narcissism question um do you guys think there's any correlation
04:32:27.740 between the amount of kids that are born out of wedlock nowadays and the growth of the welfare
04:32:34.700 state do you think that those connect at all what was your question again so like in 1960 i think it
04:32:43.100 was something like five percent of babies in the u.s were born out of wedlock now it's something like 40
04:32:49.580 do you think that that change in a short period of time like we're talking 50 years do you think that
04:32:55.980 had any bearing on the growth of the welfare state yeah over that same time period yes but i also
04:33:02.700 think there's other factors that go into it like do you need some help people don't really care to be
04:33:10.300 married anymore can i get a paper towel or something
04:33:12.700 there you go i need a little leverage okay there we go oh there you go that reaction
04:33:29.340 cheers cheers okay uh we'll get that going uh who's over 21
04:33:39.820 sorry guys
04:33:42.460 one day
04:33:44.860 do i get extra because i'm the oldest you can have mine i don't drink alcohol
04:33:48.780 rachel while i'm sure i don't all right see that's been my problem boys i got clammy hands
04:33:55.500 do i get to keep this sweet cup like for breakfast yes you can have it yeah as a
04:34:05.260 memento if it's mixed yeah you can't even find these cups that's what i'm saying we're
04:34:11.740 we're running out yeah we are running out of these i'm gonna put it in like a shadow box and keep it
04:34:15.980 for years oh wait that's it i guess just me and you are you getting one no thank you oh you said
04:34:22.940 it gives her a headache okay do you want some uh here just gerald donated 69 dollars mrs wilson
04:34:32.300 if there is one book i must read what is the title it's this one occult feminism the secret
04:34:40.220 history of women's liberation has everything you need to know in it cheers to
04:34:50.460 bears bears to bear to bears for taking one cheers
04:35:01.420 also cheers to whoever uh it was a b-day girl get to drinking and singing oh we were going to do
04:35:10.060 happy birthday okay uh we'll do the truncated short version of this right i don't know do you want
04:35:16.780 to lead lead us here all right happy birthday gmd jim donated 69 dollars brian even though we placed
04:35:25.820 embargoes and froze japan's bank accounts here before pearl harbor our war with japan was our only
04:35:33.100 righteous war in the last 150 years because of their attack on our soil i would say not even that
04:35:41.500 was i would go back to before uh world war one personally civil war yeah i think that everything
04:35:49.020 from from world war one on has had like false flags and shenanigans and fuckery going on including
04:35:55.900 world war two yes exactly yep okay cool uh so b-day girl
04:36:05.340 cherry it's my birthday and would love for you all to sing happy birthday to me
04:36:09.020 uh okay to to cherry ben george donated 69 dollars to your previous discussion 18 year old men see women as
04:36:20.300 hot between 18 to 20 men that are 60 see women as hot from 18 to 50 the older a man is the wider range of
04:36:29.260 choice word isn't it the case though i've seen some like a study or a chart that showed that even as men
04:36:36.940 got older they in terms of what they just deemed most physically attractive not uh factoring in other
04:36:43.580 things it was like 20 to 20 to 22 23 typically was the range of like hey who's the most attractive
04:36:52.540 physically i don't know anyways uh happy birthday to you happy birthday to you happy birthday dear cherry
04:37:06.060 whatever the fuck your name is happy birthday to you cheers okay so where were we we were talking oh do you
04:37:17.100 object to a man caring about a woman's body count do you object to that i would understand why someone would
04:37:29.020 care but that's all i'm gonna say about it tell us how you really feel say with your chest yeah
04:37:41.660 i just feel like if men can have high body counts why can't women if that's what if that was their choice
04:37:49.500 i have so many thoughts but okay yeah we'll get we'll get everybody's answers
04:37:53.020 and so for you uh you would object to a man caring about a woman's body count yeah that could be like
04:38:02.460 is he insecure why does he care blank ken donated 69 dollars so andrew's wife lifts weights and he
04:38:11.020 doesn't interesting lol she's just as aggressive too queen pick me this is not a dating pod this is a
04:38:18.700 men's rights and grievance pod you became what you hate i'm not a men's rights advocate yeah that's me
04:38:26.460 get it right ken um we talk about dating look we're talking about body count right now uh do you object
04:38:34.540 to men caring about a woman's body count um i just don't personally see why it matters but i mean you do
04:38:43.980 you okay uh same like now i said i can understand why but i also think that it should not be a thing
04:38:55.180 what should not be a thing um a man caring about a woman's body count okay no men should care and they
04:39:04.460 should know your body count before they do anything with you no i don't object um i think i like a
04:39:13.580 certain like i think they should care like at a certain point but like i don't think it should
04:39:18.300 be like a like a huge deal no it shouldn't be a huge deal yeah or it depends like how much it is maybe
04:39:24.860 like but i find that interesting seeing as like you're a virgin um you don't really have any skin in
04:39:31.100 the game when it comes to this like yeah you don't have a body count to be judged by i suppose a man could
04:39:37.580 judge you for not having a body count although i think that's exceedingly rare perhaps the only
04:39:42.780 men that would judge you are the ones who are desirous of just having quick immediate sex with
04:39:48.460 you and they would perhaps deem it unlikely to have quick sex with you given that you're a virgin
04:39:54.460 i mean yeah i really don't have much of an opinion i guess but like if i had to say something
04:40:01.980 you know like would you fund like you despite like being a virgin yourself would you find it
04:40:07.340 unappealing if a guy was like i wouldn't date a girl who has a body count of more than three
04:40:13.420 um yeah really even though you yourself are a virgin that's interesting united states donated 69
04:40:23.020 brian please ask the panel who voted for our president and chief joe biden in 2020.
04:40:28.460 uh okay i'll come back to that in a sec um so wait why like if a guy was like i don't want to date a
04:40:35.020 girl who's has a body count more than five you object to that oh i mean like it's up to him if
04:40:41.500 he doesn't want to date that that's his own choice right but you would be like i mean i don't feel a
04:40:46.220 type of way about it because i mean i guess we all have our in our mind we all have a number that we
04:40:50.940 think is like like kind of extreme or not and to me i don't think five is like that crazy but like
04:40:57.580 i mean everyone has a different opinion so like if they think five is too much like that's their
04:41:01.580 thing so like i guess i wouldn't object that much like they i you know would you date a guy who
04:41:07.900 didn't want to date a woman who had a body count of over 10 yeah over five
04:41:17.420 or do you think then he's getting into like judgy territory and you wouldn't want to date a guy like
04:41:22.140 that um yeah i think um i don't yeah i don't think i would date that so you would not date a guy who
04:41:38.380 would not date a woman with a body count of over five ben george donated 69 dollars happy birthday cherry
04:41:47.340 brian give her nine of the 69 lol you probably won't i don't get it give her is that like
04:41:58.540 okay thank you ben george go ahead oh he means because you're not a fan of you know that that
04:42:03.580 thing yeah yeah yeah brian yeah sorry it's your yeah even if it's your birthday i'm not doing that
04:42:10.060 shit it's not going down at all i don't huh you don't get paid at all nope damn i want her to okay
04:42:15.980 we'll get into it like i want i want her to you give him we're not wait we're not oh my you thought
04:42:24.220 we were no she's married to andrew wilson bruv he's bright yeah i'm brian we're not this is my this is
04:42:31.660 my homie she's my caucasian don't get it don't get it twisted she is my caucasian but she's married
04:42:37.580 to andrew wilson put some respect put some respect on the name put some respect on the name i'm sorry
04:42:43.980 show me about i need a bow now oh my god show apology bow i need an apology bow let's see it
04:42:51.420 you can do it seated go ahead i'll i'm generous i'm nice apology bow go ahead
04:42:57.820 i can just give you an apology i'm sorry i was deeply offended this whole time i thought you two
04:43:03.980 were married no put some put some respect put some respect he's a single on andrew put some
04:43:11.420 respect on andrew wilson's name i'm sorry andrew wilson i want you to look into this camera and
04:43:17.500 apologize to andrew wilson i am sorry andrew wilson thank you i forgive you
04:43:25.980 she is my caucasian though it's true she's my caucasian my husband is usually
04:43:30.060 half the time sitting in the seat he's he's here frequently yeah
04:43:35.900 no okay look i'll answer your thing really quickly okay so i absolutely care about my
04:43:40.620 partner's sexual pleasure preferably i make her come before i come multiple times if possible but
04:43:47.180 i just uh that specifically that specific sexual act not really my thing i let you know we could use
04:43:52.940 hands we can even use toys i'd rather use hands there's other ways look sometimes the girl can come
04:43:58.140 from and of course that works too i want her to come first preferably multiple times that's my
04:44:03.420 goal i care about her pleasure just sexual boundary don't really like to do it did you have a bad
04:44:08.300 experience no not really just uh i don't know i got neck problems okay that's my cop out that's my
04:44:16.380 cop out i do actually have neck problems look i got fucking i got ice packs right here yeah please
04:44:21.260 probably shown sorry madison ben george donated 69 dollars give her nine bucks of the 69 bucks
04:44:30.940 it's her birthday where is your mind come on ben george it was you who was all being sus with the
04:44:36.780 the six and the nine and the
04:44:43.180 okay thank you thank you dude appreciate it how did we get into that though um because you just
04:44:49.660 curious question oh yeah it was literally the 69 and it was the you don't nine oh yeah yeah so
04:44:54.540 that's true yeah wait but i have to ask you're a labia guy right what huge you just want to look at
04:45:01.100 it yeah just like to look at it so you you appreciate it from a distance well
04:45:09.340 big lady matter hashtag big lady matter um yeah this is my non-profit movement but
04:45:16.460 yeah i'm a fan yeah but i mean like you can appreciate it like in other ways i guess no sure
04:45:23.900 visually but also i mean is it a sensory thing penally i enjoy it penally
04:45:30.540 sure i mean i heard the other stuff you said you like to do and i respect that that's fair
04:45:34.220 but yeah i'm not i'm not judging i'm just asking i'm just curious what it is yeah what do you mean
04:45:40.380 is it like you're curious right i don't get it it feels like what no what do you what do you mean
04:45:46.620 what curious about what like the smell like the smell don't even put don't put those thoughts in my
04:45:53.660 head rachel oh so it is the smell i don't know i want to know we're we're women yeah i feel like
04:45:59.660 it's it's like kind of graphic to articulate why i like large labia you're willing to admit it
04:46:08.540 you're willing to admit it though that's true so we're already i actually i only date women with
04:46:14.460 large labia you ask on the first date doubling down how do you deny that how do you know first
04:46:21.340 first i don't ask oh uh so what do you like to do for fun i don't ask you know uh what do you what's
04:46:29.100 important to you he's like how do you feel what are your values you like so on a dating app that's
04:46:34.220 the first thing you ask very early on you know i respect that what's what's the status of the
04:46:40.060 late how often does that work uh 65 of the time it works every time i'm kidding i will date i will
04:46:52.700 date women with innies so there's outies there's got there's outies and innies i will look y'all
04:46:59.340 women have penis size preferences huh no surprise y'all want a big dick i want big labia what's up
04:47:06.620 no nothing wrong just curious i'm just y'all have preferences men are allowed to have preferences
04:47:12.060 i'm just the only one i'm the spearhead of this movement i'm a trail brazer trailblazer
04:47:17.740 groundbreaker sorry i'm i'm a lightweight i don't drink so i'm already drunk um i'm the trailblazer of
04:47:24.220 this movement i want to i want to help women i want to be i'm a feminist this is a this actually is a
04:47:31.180 feminist point about so you're a feminist absolutely i'm a feminist i am a feminist
04:47:37.900 through and through i believe big lady you got those like labia murals on the wall kind of thing
04:47:42.940 he's got a lot of georgia
04:47:46.940 it's true it is true but i will say look i will say i don't even know where i was going uh
04:47:53.900 it's art no i'll tell you what i you know what i'm actually a nice guy though i will give a little
04:47:59.420 leeway on the body count thing you know like if you have an innie but you can have double the body
04:48:06.300 count what if you have an audi wow that's the that's the bro math a compromise so if she has
04:48:12.940 like an audi she's like in terms of the threshold for like would date would not date double the body
04:48:19.020 count is acceptable if she has an audi okay can i also ask does body count matter like over a period
04:48:24.140 of time like say they had like a wild like younger years oh yeah that's a bad thing but like okay but
04:48:29.660 say it's been five years since they've done anything like that does that help i got something for you
04:48:36.860 i'm just curious yeah abdul yeah get the rock get the rocks sorry i'm sorry but yeah it's just to the
04:48:44.540 monastery to the sorry nunnery to the nunnery you must go just curious to the nunnery you must go look
04:48:53.580 i'm just saying oh why you guys were asking why i like the labia thing i don't know no we were
04:48:58.300 wondering what you're we'll just do you really want to know i'm kind of curious you're curious about it's
04:49:04.620 interesting to me like a guy who's like super adverse to that like why wait like the guys who
04:49:12.460 would averse like i ain't going down there like oh to to the the the uh i'm just curious like what
04:49:19.420 about it oh i thought oh okay i thought you were talking about okay well i mean so okay there's a
04:49:26.700 couple things right like you can't you definitely can't be doing this this is my advice to guys who
04:49:30.620 are inclined to do it you can't do it with like you're just meeting the girl because you haven't
04:49:35.340 vetted her properly so like yeah if she's like dating other dudes sleeping with other dudes you
04:49:43.420 can't you can't do it it could linger it lingers a couple days you know it could linger if the guy's
04:49:49.020 blasting hasn't been wearing a rubber it lingers okay right ladies that i understand you have morning
04:49:57.100 sex but like what if it's your wife right five years she's only been with you for like and she
04:50:02.220 she could be my wife and a virgin i still ain't wait so what is it then like take out the whole
04:50:09.260 i got neck problems look at this i'm wearing a ice pack
04:50:11.980 yeah yeah yeah that's no no it's too that's too dominant in the bedroom she can't okay no i can't
04:50:19.820 she can't no she can't no she's not gonna sit on my face okay it's way too dominant
04:50:24.860 way too dumb sorry okay i think i have no fun at all i feel like we haven't learned anything but
04:50:33.180 that's okay wait you haven't learned anything like learned about why you like or well like
04:50:38.780 sorry wait there's two different questions here there's there's labia thing and then there's the
04:50:42.700 oral sex thing there's two different things what's your question go ahead um to the very religious
04:50:48.540 women do you guys s the d that but also get eaten is that a thing that you guys do lds i mean
04:50:58.540 don't think that's if you don't i don't i don't know that my husband would want me to answer so i'll
04:51:02.940 just say all i'll say is are you allowed we have a lot of fun together period okay good we have a lot
04:51:09.260 of fun together yeah i mean that's but i would okay i would echo that i would say that it's i'm not gonna
04:51:16.540 speak details but no you enjoy your time together oh yeah we enjoy it yeah love that but that's i
04:51:22.300 think that people think that if you're religious and married that it's like stuffy and missionary
04:51:27.100 that's why i'm asking no it's definitely not just no that's what i'm asking once you're married i
04:51:31.260 feel like it's a go yeah yeah okay that's and it's even better because you're married to them yeah
04:51:37.020 i feel like i feel like that's one of the main benefits of it to be honest like one better be
04:51:42.860 the one yeah i have a question for you so being a virgin and you know we're talking about men having
04:51:51.100 objection to body count would you and you don't have to answer if you're not comfortable would you
04:51:55.740 feel comfortable losing your virginity to a guy who had a body count of 20 or 50 or do you care about
04:52:01.500 the guy's body count that takes your virginity i mean if we're in a relationship and i feel
04:52:06.380 comfortable with him i wouldn't care okay so he could have slept with like 50 women before you
04:52:12.140 i mean i have a limit as well but like um like 20 i'm like okay but i guess so what's your limit like
04:52:19.020 hands this is this is a really interesting differential here between men and women though
04:52:23.340 and rachel maybe you can weigh in on this is even the virgin woman has no objections right to dating a guy
04:52:30.060 who has a high body count sleeping with a guy who has a high body count yeah i mean i disagree but
04:52:36.700 well that's what i was gonna say is like morally and ethically right from my christian worldview
04:52:43.180 ideally both people are very virtuous as far as sex and hopefully both virgins when they're married
04:52:49.020 that'd be great that'd be the ideal that's what we want but in the real world we run into this problem
04:52:55.180 where women don't care about men's body count in fact a woman if there's like a 25 year old guy who's
04:53:01.820 a virgin they're like what's wrong with you right they almost they are and they're like yeah what have
04:53:07.020 they been doing right like yeah yeah whereas we see guys who can rack up a high body count as
04:53:14.380 desirable and successful sexually like we see other women want them so we want them yeah even us like good
04:53:21.660 christian virtuous girls tend to like the charismatic guys who all the other women want
04:53:27.740 it's just kind of how how things work so when people get pressed about it and they're like well
04:53:33.100 why can't you know we should have the same standard for both i'm like well that would be fine if women
04:53:37.500 held men to that standard but they don't i mean i i kind of do i mean if i see a guy with like a high
04:53:43.740 body count i don't see it as like oh you know like stds or whatever i mean i i would hope they're
04:53:50.380 being safe you know um but um i mean i know i know but um you know i look at it more as in
04:53:59.260 okay they're probably a player and they're probably not someone's gonna treat me right yeah that's the
04:54:04.300 big thing i'm looking at but you said you objected to them caring about your body count so why are you
04:54:09.340 i'm more like i it's just it's not personally for me like i don't care like i mean i like that's why
04:54:15.420 i kind of brought up the whole like what if they messed around a lot in younger years but then say
04:54:19.100 five years later they're not really doing that anymore and because like i care more about the
04:54:22.860 personality it brings forward than i care about like um so you don't think that like say someone was
04:54:30.460 super sexually promiscuous in their 20s and then they had that five-year break and they're like 31 and
04:54:35.580 they're like i'm better now you don't think that that sexual promiscuity would have an effect on
04:54:41.340 them later on in life i think if they're responsible a donated 69 dollars define response
04:54:47.020 orders from the inquisitor miss wilson is hereby requested to bring home a sleeve of the blue white
04:54:52.940 cups the inquisitor sends his compliments the crucible laughed at brian sneeze merch to follow
04:55:00.220 sneeze merch sneeze merch it's coming this is definitely yeah it's coming let's see wait hold
04:55:07.740 on we they only have like a few of these i don't know if they even have more because i guess we're
04:55:12.220 almost out and then saying they don't make them anymore they like here's the crazy thing so i say
04:55:16.860 that and then people will be like oh look i found it online but these like it's these like small scale
04:55:23.820 like not amazon retailers they don't actually like yes they list them but if you contact them
04:55:31.020 it's out of stock they don't actually have them in stock it's like these shitty third-party websites
04:55:36.700 you literally cannot find these cups like trust me i've i've even ordered them from amazon and they'll
04:55:42.300 send me the wrong cup design like this i want the solo jazz they don't sell that is that what it's
04:55:49.660 called solo jazz that's the design is called solo jazz i even contacted dart i think it's dart or solo
04:55:55.980 the manufacturer uh they won't print it they won't even pray i was like bro i'll buy a fucking case of
04:56:02.940 i'll buy 5 000 cups from you they they're like bro you gotta buy 50 000 cups i'm like shit i can't
04:56:10.780 i'm not gonna stockpile 50 000 cups that's a lot um we did have a chat that came through we're gonna go
04:56:16.380 around the table and then we'll come back to body count united states donated 69 dollars brian
04:56:22.700 please ask the panel who voted for our president and chief joe biden in 2020 did anybody here vote
04:56:28.620 for uh joe biden in 2020 no yes but that's complicated no no no i didn't vote you were yeah
04:56:38.300 you guys were not of age okay wait going back to body count didn't get your answer on this
04:56:43.500 i would not be objective to them caring okay and did you no i don't really care um i'm gonna get
04:56:51.500 up for a sec maddie has a question for you then we're going to do bumble then we'll do the roast
04:56:55.500 segment uh maddie if you want to take a seat ask this question and then uh yeah
04:57:00.300 okay we asked this every show but what does everybody's body count um that's yeah i'm not
04:57:13.420 saying that you can give like a range if you don't want to get the exact number nope
04:57:18.300 i don't care five thank you for sharing yeah i'm not sharing range no range you can say like under
04:57:29.500 10 i thought it didn't matter this table feels very judgy i'm not gonna lie to you um and so does this
04:57:39.420 chat i'm all set one period based out of respect for my husband i'm not gonna share zero one but now
04:57:52.700 i'm waiting oh really so now you're waiting for marriage to have yeah oh nice uh same with the
04:58:00.780 husband thing but it's very low it's like one hand yeah yeah very low cool okay now we're gonna do
04:58:08.300 the fun bumble segment so each of you get 20 swipes and we're gonna go through and you just have to
04:58:15.340 say yes or no if you would go on a date with the guy but first we have to get like your age range so
04:58:21.260 like what would what's your dating age range um my dating age range i'll put 27 to
04:58:29.420 35. do you hear that nick yeah okay so yeah 20 swipes just a yes or no yeah
04:58:40.140 there's no no no no no no no no no no no no
04:59:08.860 yeah he goes fishing no no he's too pretty
04:59:18.280 i hear that a lot that's no
04:59:23.420 oh what what i'm very confused i would i would swipe yes though just to ask him about the picture
04:59:33.180 because i'm on here on board okay you meet people in real life okay no
04:59:38.380 no his dog's cute though i like his arms yeah
04:59:45.320 no duck lips what the hell no no
04:59:53.300 no has it been 20 yet i feel like i said no to everybody
04:59:59.120 okay okay you want to go until you finally say yes
05:00:04.380 do five take a minute no no
05:00:09.320 no no and you got kids no
05:00:14.440 no he looks like um what's that no he sings though james yeah james like who is it no
05:00:24.160 no no no
05:00:31.040 five more no
05:00:33.460 i don't think she's no
05:00:35.420 there's not one black man in this exactly do you guys have like do you have like a racial preference
05:00:41.160 yeah that's the problem do you have like a racial preference like do you don't i don't date white
05:00:45.420 guys or i i don't date white men they just you don't understand what i've gone through so i i need
05:00:52.820 yeah okay fair enough yeah we'll do we'll we'll just move on we'll do your age range dating age range
05:01:00.820 um 22 to 30
05:01:03.320 i don't know who i'm looking at no
05:01:18.940 i know which one no no no no no no no
05:01:31.320 no no no no no no no i was like a double whammy no no
05:01:49.320 no who do a leap yeah
05:01:53.320 yeah it's just gonna go wait uh maybe yeah
05:01:57.560 wait are you saying yes to do a leap i mean yeah
05:02:03.080 i mean yes yes yes we should have put women up here no
05:02:14.280 we could do women no no no no no
05:02:24.280 yeah maybe it is it like an easy
05:02:26.280 yeah let's do a really big switch
05:02:27.780 ben george donated 69 dollars sorry for the misunderstanding
05:02:34.280 i never meant any ill will toward anyone sometimes text can be misinterpreted
05:02:40.280 i don't know which one yeah i don't think you upset anybody ben george you were cool
05:02:46.280 about what six nine
05:02:48.280 all good
05:02:50.280 you or
05:02:52.280 yikes
05:02:54.280 i forgot you i'm sorry
05:02:56.280 yeah yeah yeah it's fine uh no
05:02:58.280 no
05:03:00.280 no
05:03:02.280 no
05:03:04.280 no
05:03:06.280 no
05:03:08.280 no
05:03:10.280 no
05:03:12.280 no
05:03:14.280 yeah yeah no
05:03:16.280 all right
05:03:18.280 your dating age range
05:03:19.280 um
05:03:20.280 28 through
05:03:22.280 38
05:03:24.280 28
05:03:25.280 28
05:03:26.280 28
05:03:27.280 28
05:03:28.280 28
05:03:29.280 38
05:03:30.280 for the next one
05:03:31.280 all right
05:03:32.280 you only got through just one
05:03:33.280 or a bunch of chats came through
05:03:34.280 yeah i checked with you
05:03:35.280 okay
05:03:36.280 all right
05:03:37.280 no
05:03:38.280 no
05:03:40.280 no
05:03:41.280 kitty
05:03:42.280 no
05:03:43.280 all right
05:03:44.280 no
05:03:45.280 no
05:03:46.280 no
05:03:48.280 yeah
05:03:50.280 no
05:03:52.280 nope
05:03:53.280 nope
05:03:54.280 really nope
05:03:55.280 you guys are saying no to some that i'm like
05:03:58.280 dermato
05:03:59.280 he looks like he's holding a
05:04:01.280 a syringe
05:04:02.280 oh my god
05:04:03.280 i was gonna say
05:04:04.280 yeah
05:04:05.280 he can do your plastic surgery for you
05:04:07.280 he'll do your lip fillers and your botox for you
05:04:08.280 yeah
05:04:09.280 that's totally a purposeful picture
05:04:10.280 yeah
05:04:11.280 no
05:04:13.280 unabomber
05:04:14.280 no
05:04:15.280 halfish
05:04:16.280 halfish no
05:04:17.280 okay
05:04:18.280 definitely
05:04:19.280 halfish no
05:04:20.280 halfish no
05:04:21.280 what the fuck
05:04:22.280 halfish
05:04:23.280 no
05:04:24.280 halfish
05:04:25.280 no
05:04:26.280 no
05:04:28.280 no
05:04:29.280 no
05:04:30.280 what
05:04:31.280 people like glaring
05:04:32.280 no
05:04:33.280 no
05:04:34.280 oh
05:04:35.280 um
05:04:36.280 that's the profile
05:04:40.280 all right do you want to skip because you're married
05:04:42.280 yeah
05:04:43.280 i mean i can do it if you guys want me to do it i'll do it but i don't do it
05:04:48.280 i'll do it
05:04:49.280 yeah we'll do it for fun if you want to okay sure
05:04:52.280 um i'd probably say like 25 to 35
05:04:58.280 actually 30 or like let's do 20 yeah 25 to 35 sorry
05:05:03.280 okay
05:05:04.280 um no
05:05:05.280 no
05:05:06.280 no
05:05:07.280 no
05:05:08.280 no
05:05:09.280 no
05:05:10.280 no
05:05:11.280 no
05:05:12.280 oh
05:05:13.280 sure
05:05:14.280 no
05:05:16.280 no
05:05:17.280 no
05:05:18.280 no
05:05:19.280 no
05:05:20.280 sure
05:05:21.280 no
05:05:22.280 no
05:05:25.280 what on earth
05:05:29.280 no
05:05:30.280 no
05:05:31.280 no
05:05:32.280 no
05:05:33.280 no
05:05:34.280 no
05:05:36.280 no
05:05:37.280 no
05:05:38.280 no
05:05:40.280 no
05:05:41.280 no
05:05:42.280 no
05:05:43.280 no
05:05:44.280 that is sweet
05:05:45.280 mm-hmm
05:05:46.280 no
05:05:47.280 did you want to do this or pass I guess I can age range um 35 to 45
05:05:58.620 are most of you guys picking dudes that are a little older it seems like yeah
05:06:06.840 no no no no no no no no yeah no
05:06:36.840 no no no no no no damn girl I would have said yes to the dude with the lobster because he cooks
05:06:58.440 he cooks lobster yeah the seafood gets you okay you're age range um 18 to 22
05:07:06.620 no no no no no
05:07:28.040 no too dark yeah I can't no no no no no I mean the younger one yeah
05:07:51.360 no no yeah no no no no no
05:08:07.420 why do why do these people have like Adam Sandler Dua Lipa in their photos they want
05:08:19.480 you to think they're cool right yeah that's not your friend no
05:08:23.280 did you want to do this one Jade okay um 18 to 21
05:08:29.920 all right 18 21
05:08:31.820 I can't do it exactly but it's close so just go with it all right so no Adam's in my head
05:08:36.500 no here's me at the salon getting my hair washed no
05:08:42.260 the party boss come on no no no no no no no I can't see no
05:09:00.680 but you don't be a какие-plus
05:09:01.860 but you said BMW
05:09:02.680 but you said BMW
05:09:02.740 but you said BMW
05:09:03.600 no
05:09:04.140 those arms though
05:09:05.900 no no no no no no no no no no no no no
05:09:23.240 no no is that 20 or 25 words at all those?
05:09:28.400 more is that almost yeah we'll try to do five more we'll do ten more okay at ten no oh whoa
05:09:45.760 maybe yes no okay no are we we got a yes did you want to pass on this rachel yeah i'll pass okay
05:09:57.120 do you do you have like a racial i guess we'll go around the whole entire table racial preference
05:10:02.560 if so what race um yeah i like i like black men i wouldn't be opposed to trying to date someone
05:10:11.120 outside of my race but they couldn't be white wait did you say yes to a white guy i did he was
05:10:19.920 i mean we could go on a date wait they could be white or they couldn't they they couldn't because
05:10:25.280 i just feel like it would just be hard to incorporate them into my family and then i
05:10:31.360 feel like i can't i i can't speak for everybody's families but i just don't know how their family
05:10:36.480 would react to me so were your two boy friends were they white or black they were black okay
05:10:43.920 wait would you date like latino man i've i've never i've i've actually never have but i would
05:10:51.280 would yeah i would so why would you date those other racial groups but not specifically you're
05:10:56.560 specifically excluding white men yes because um well i went to a predominantly white school k-12
05:11:06.400 and i just um endured like different disrespectful things racial slurs and stuff like that and then
05:11:13.920 a lot of white men that get black girlfriends tend to like think that they can they have the n-word
05:11:19.920 past and stuff like that like i'm not with that if you're gonna be white be white you're not black
05:11:24.240 so i mean consider he's like a good white man not racist do you think i feel like love didn't given
05:11:31.600 the problems you've had dating historically maybe you would not have those same problems with a white guy
05:11:40.160 i feel like i could still have the same problems with any race that i dated to be honest well the
05:11:46.160 statistics don't really agree with that but i don't know if we want to get into that i'm just saying
05:11:52.080 like i mean but also i don't know we could get into it if you wanted to but i just don't know if brian
05:11:58.320 wants to it's probably tos but yeah it might be would you like consider dating a white man or just like
05:12:04.320 not i would consider dating the right white man like if if we vibed and he actually ended up being
05:12:12.160 somebody that i vetted properly then yeah okay yeah we'll go around the table with the racial
05:12:19.360 preference question um don't really have a preference for the last part okay i don't have
05:12:27.760 a preference um i just want to speak to what she was just saying though um how you were saying you
05:12:32.960 know because of the situation she's dealt with i dealt with the white man and i got bit in the face
05:12:36.640 so you know what i'm saying do you think that all white men it could happen anything can happen
05:12:42.160 with anybody in a basement and statistically are serial killers wait what white men are statistically
05:12:48.800 serial killers who are going to tie you up in the basement yeah i think that's actually no i'm saying
05:12:54.560 like statistically speaking the people that do that the most are white men i think that's been debunked
05:13:01.600 maybe we need to google it but i i believe that that's actually not true it's just that the high
05:13:06.880 profile ones that they put all over the media exactly yeah also does that have anything if a
05:13:11.520 black man did that they would definitely well i mean if we want to talk about like rates of imprisonment
05:13:16.560 rates of domestic violence rates of sticking around you know to raise your kids and things like that
05:13:24.000 my point in saying what i said was just to point out that it could be any race sure of course there's
05:13:28.960 bad people yeah everywhere yeah i don't know stats but just yeah wait so wait we don't really i don't
05:13:37.120 have a preference okay let's say my preference is is white my husband is white i don't have any
05:13:45.200 preferences no preference i think mine is asians i prefer white guys mary what about you ditto
05:13:54.560 you prefer white second that yeah would you date an asian guy madison i would
05:14:05.040 i okay just because i've never dated an asian guy or like i found them attractive before
05:14:13.040 but just because i haven't dated one doesn't mean i'm closed off to it and i'm never going to date
05:14:19.280 anyone else for the rest of my life besides my boyfriend period so cute so yeah that's good
05:14:28.320 brian's coming back
05:14:35.280 welcome back uh we're uh one before we get into the roast section a couple questions here uh can you be
05:14:43.520 be since we're on the topic can you be racist towards white people i think you can be racist
05:14:52.240 towards it i think you'd be racist towards anybody yeah no i mean yeah no anybody
05:14:58.560 i don't know why why you would tell us how you really feel um i think yes let me just say that yes
05:15:13.680 you can be racist however white is the uh the majority
05:15:21.200 nickelodeon donated 69 ladies explain who pays for the following dinners one woman invites girlfriends
05:15:32.080 her to bidet dinner two woman invites girlfriends and one guy friend three bf takes gf and her friends out
05:15:40.800 who pays okay well if if a woman invites her girlfriends to her birthday dinner i feel like if
05:15:50.880 if you want other people to pay for your dinner just i say that but i feel like you shouldn't have to
05:15:57.040 pay for anything on your birthday one um two i don't know what the second question or the third one was
05:16:02.880 either but yeah that's my opinion i got a nickelodeon i'm sorry i gotta keep it it's like you're asking three
05:16:09.680 questions here they're not even going to be able to remember the three different scenarios i'm going
05:16:14.320 to have to limit it to just one um explain who pays for the following dinners woman invites girlfriend
05:16:23.520 woman invites girlfriends to her b-day part uh dinner yeah friends because everybody can pitch in to me
05:16:33.440 he's donated sixty nine dollars women if a man completely provided for you what value and qualities
05:16:42.080 would you bring to the table as his woman that's a good one before we actually we'll get to that one
05:16:48.160 i'll come back to nickelodeon um if a man completely provided for you what value and qualities would you bring
05:16:52.800 to the table oh this is the question okay we're doing yeah yeah um i would i would take care of the house
05:17:02.080 i would make sure that food is prepared and clean up everything um try to take care of him emotionally
05:17:12.320 and yeah uh that's pretty much it really um yeah no i mean if you know he was doing like all that work
05:17:26.560 i mean i would probably you know do the cooking do the cleaning etc i think there's a fair trade like
05:17:30.720 you know if if i was in that position as like doing like all the job stuff then i would expect
05:17:36.880 more housework but it's it's that kind of fair trade that's it agreed um just nurture emotionally
05:17:43.680 take care of the home do what a woman does i'd fulfill my wife as or fulfill my role as a wife and mother
05:17:50.240 uh yeah i would take care of the house and potential kids and i'd also make sure that he comes home to
05:17:59.040 like a peaceful house um and he doesn't have to i don't want to add more stress to him
05:18:05.760 um i mean i do want to work but if i don't and he does end up providing for everything then i would also like take care of stuff
05:18:13.840 like at the house yeah i would i would be um i would cook for him clean the house but also like
05:18:21.440 other qualities like loyalty if he doesn't want me to see other men like even if they're my friends
05:18:27.680 then then i would cut them off especially if it makes them uncomfortable because he's i would say
05:18:33.280 that he should be the priority would you be submissive what do you mean what do you mean
05:18:39.680 like would i bow to him sure yeah
05:18:46.880 i mean i mean if i respect him and like we're married and he's providing yeah
05:18:52.000 i have a good submission follow-up question but yeah for me like this isn't this is the case right
05:18:57.360 andrew has provided and taken care of everything for the last you know decade and a half uh you get
05:19:04.480 food you get sex you don't have to do any housework my most notorious tweet is when i said that
05:19:09.120 andrew doesn't do housework and like a million people went nuts and freaked out because he doesn't
05:19:14.400 do housework even though he works full-time and i stay home raise your kids uh and you just don't
05:19:20.960 give the man trouble just don't give him any shit nice yeah and then we were going to go to
05:19:28.960 nickelodeon's question who pays for the following dinners man i'm so i i appreciate you sending this
05:19:36.800 in but you've asked essentially three different questions i know it kind of destroys a little
05:19:42.160 bit the purpose of your question but uh who pays when a woman invites girlfriends to her birthday dinner
05:19:52.720 i think they all just split it yeah i've never been to one where they didn't split okay um wait how
05:20:02.320 about just what about like collectively woman invites girlfriends and one guy friend still split
05:20:07.920 yeah yeah boyfriend takes girlfriend and her friends out yeah the type of men that i do they're
05:20:15.680 gonna pay for me and my friends did you there's this video where a woman she's dating a guy they've
05:20:22.400 been together for a year and trying to remember the details she brought along like 11 of her girlfriends
05:20:28.960 but that's crazy so in that situation would you still expect him to pay though no no absolutely
05:20:35.840 not one friend fine one friend fine yeah for my birthday i don't think he's responsible
05:20:43.840 would i treat the friend for her birthday for your girlfriend's birthday it's her birthday
05:20:49.920 yeah but if the friend's going why is she bringing well then you just take her out then but
05:20:53.840 yeah if you're taking her and her girlfriend out then right why would i take her girl third wheel
05:20:58.960 a fucking friend nah okay awkward i have a question yeah so for everybody around the table
05:21:10.880 you're married and your husband there's an election coming up your husband's gonna vote one way
05:21:17.680 and you want to vote the other way but your husband says no i want you to vote what i'm voting would you
05:21:24.560 do it i don't vote for precedents i only vote on propositions so okay well on the proposition you
05:21:31.600 want to vote yes and he wants you to vote no are you going to defer to him are you gonna vote how you
05:21:36.080 want i think i would just vote how i wanted i think that depends i mean you can have a conversation
05:21:44.720 about it you know well let's just say that you don't really agree like you it's it's a proposition
05:21:51.760 or a president or whatever it is you're like no i really feel this way and he's like well i feel this
05:21:57.120 way i mean again hard to say without knowing the context but all things considered you know
05:22:02.240 i'm gonna respect our differences and i'd like him to respect our my differences if that really comes
05:22:07.280 down to it stewie brown thank you for the gifted 20 subs on twitch man you're a legend thank you
05:22:18.480 actually really quick let's do that guys twitch.tv slash whatever
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05:22:28.480 oh my god guys it's been 30 minutes are is our twitch bugged it's been 30 minutes since we got a
05:22:34.160 prime guys see if we if there's a prime yo guatama thank you for the five sub gifts appreciate it
05:22:40.640 thank you uh did you want to continue on with the yeah just like if you if you and your husband had
05:22:46.400 a disagreement on something you were going to vote on are you going to like go with what he wants you
05:22:50.640 to vote it on or are you going to vote how you want to vote once you're in the booth yeah i definitely
05:22:56.160 think that i would listen to my husband's counsel and take into his like take into consideration his
05:23:01.840 knowledge and why he's choosing that and at the end of the day if it's for a righteous purpose i
05:23:06.880 would definitely go with my husband's um i do a little bit of research with political things but
05:23:13.760 my husband does a lot more than i do and he pays attention he he has a pulse on it more than i do so
05:23:19.760 um i would definitely trust what he um has to say i feel like you guys are all just being really nice now
05:23:28.160 no no do you think they're just saying stuff to be nice and not like fight with me that happens
05:23:34.880 no no no okay okay good i mean i would hear him out and i'd want him to hear me out but like i feel
05:23:41.440 like i i tend to like not know much about politics so if he seems to know more about it and i'll do my
05:23:48.240 own research after if like it's a big deal like it's a big disagreement and then i'd vote depending on
05:23:52.960 that but if i just do my own research i don't agree i would vote on what i would think is right
05:23:59.360 um i'm really not sure i don't i'm not that big i don't know much about politics either
05:24:05.120 but and we're also that we have the same views on it too so i'm not sure what i don't think he
05:24:09.760 would ever force me to change it because we have the the same but if we didn't just if we disagreed
05:24:15.760 on something then i would also want to listen to him and then do my own research and see
05:24:21.120 okay i think something else that this makes me think of is how women tend to be a lot more
05:24:27.680 emotional and we've talked about this and i think that sometimes they make decisions especially in
05:24:32.960 the political light that are based off of emotion and it's generally not good right and so i do think
05:24:40.400 that that is why the patriarchy is in existence yeah i think so too uh women are very easily propagandized
05:24:48.720 i always say that's like the bad news is women are easily propagandized but the good news is that
05:24:53.600 women are easily propagandized so we can like push it back the other direction but yeah they tend to
05:24:59.040 like if you look at women's voting patterns it tends to be like oh i want to take care of everyone
05:25:04.400 i want to be nice it's donated 69 dollars women do you consider yourself to be feminine and if you are
05:25:11.760 who taught you to be feminine going around the table really quick do you consider yourself to be
05:25:16.160 feminine um sometimes uh yeah yeah yeah oh we are feminine like i'm a feminine person yeah like are you
05:25:27.760 feminine you present as a yeah yep yes i'm actually kind of a tomboy but i'm very like motherly so i have
05:25:36.400 like a feminine side and i have like a tomboyish did you want to uh continue with your point i think
05:25:42.160 you were going back on something or no i was just saying like when you look at female voting patterns
05:25:47.840 it tends to be like women will not vote for someone who's bald women will not vote for someone who's
05:25:53.120 short women will not vote for someone who's not tan like when they look at when they look at not yet
05:26:00.000 when they look at women's voting patterns it tends to be based on all kinds of other things whereas men
05:26:04.880 are more like about policy and logic and things like that i think if women have had a personal
05:26:11.120 issue with a policy too they're more willing to vote that way instead of looking at the greater
05:26:16.800 good for society right and that's like an issue yeah women do personalize everything yeah they're not
05:26:23.520 very good at abstract thinking so they're like you're not a woman like we well i gotta say men and women
05:26:31.920 and talk about them and them but um i do think i'm a little bit abnormally rational in some ways but
05:26:38.880 i'm still a woman i'm still i mean don't we all like to think we're a little bit better than i don't
05:26:44.160 think i'm better it's not i'm not saying that yeah it's a bad word but you know what i'm saying well
05:26:49.680 like my husband always says that one of the reasons he picked me is because i tend to be more rational and
05:26:56.320 logical than most women he's dated who tended to be highly emotional like he knows he can sit me
05:27:02.240 down and reason with me and i'll be able to separate you know the personal from the political
05:27:07.760 and things like that ken says do we read this one or no can i have you read this one oh yeah uh good
05:27:15.920 evening mrs wilson i just purchased your book occult feminism i would recommend all the women present
05:27:21.040 tonight to buy and read the book it will give you a new perspective about feminism mr wilson
05:27:26.160 shall buy more guns to protect his family god bless america merci beaucoup ken thank you appreciate
05:27:31.200 it thanks ken all the way up there in canada thank you man appreciate it so guys we're going to get
05:27:37.920 into the chaos rose section the tts has been lowered let me re-trigger the one that did come through
05:27:42.480 double agent donated 25 around the table who do you choose dating a man you have good sex with who
05:27:51.840 i saw the weight who treats you like gold or dating a hot model malignant narcissist man who is bad in
05:27:58.000 bed and is rich which doodled donated 25 by the way if you're sending a question this is the babe it's
05:28:04.640 gonna be rapid fire with the tts don't want to lose track of you lol first guy or second guy to that
05:28:10.240 original question the first guy first one okay he's trying to slide into the dm's twix chinese
05:28:20.240 motherfucker donated 25 dollars brian show us stat dumper thick like a semi truck bumper get up and
05:28:27.520 shake that thumper brian show us dat dumper i think they'd have to donate more than that
05:28:34.160 i want to go home
05:28:37.440 oh shit thank you donated 69 dollars brian women want you to find their little man in the boat
05:28:48.080 do the women on the panel discuss hygiene as part of their dating choices
05:28:53.280 of course yeah yeah yeah hygiene's important yeah hygiene's important when it comes to dating i hope
05:28:58.960 everyone's hygienic thank you uh pat appreciate it thank you pat also we do have some pre-show notes
05:29:08.480 here that i will make sure to uh six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars
05:29:16.560 these that's our first time hearing that one i like that one that was good
05:29:33.680 the purpose of the second amendment is not about hunting nor self-defense
05:29:38.240 the purpose is for we the people to be able to overthrow our government when not if it becomes
05:29:43.840 tyrannical i'm well aware thanks loose energy donated 25 dollars brian the amount of nose from the app
05:29:51.360 from these dusty they're picky busted looking bishes is crazy yeah y'all need to get your alien versus
05:29:57.360 predator looking asses out of here stop the damn cap y'all pick y'all y'all super picky
05:30:03.120 free nick number eight at 18 all y'all picky jack the tipper donated 25 dollars in a public setting with
05:30:10.080 your bf slash spouse if an important decision arises and you disagree do you resolve it immediately or
05:30:16.480 let your bf slash spouse lead and discuss it privately later second student 456 donated 25
05:30:25.760 hey pre-op ellen page you are delusional if you think you will look better in 10 years
05:30:32.000 that's probably that's probably i've gotten ella page so much in my life it's fine you're the only
05:30:36.560 cloud flying 25 happy to have made it to tonight's show thank you man ladies embrace the patriarchy
05:30:44.720 feminism has failed you cloud out feminism has failed you read chapter 10 of my book nickelodeon
05:30:52.480 donated 25 sorry if the question was overloaded but you got to the point i was trying to make
05:31:00.000 women support and be equal with other women well what's interesting is like men in their lives to
05:31:04.480 cover them friends and family like you're by right so like nine six nine six nine blah blah
05:31:10.000 even by women will have a different expectation for the men red shirt worked at the sperm bank but
05:31:15.520 got fired for drinking on the job like you wish m m which red shirt
05:31:22.080 m m m was watson donated 25 dollars i call on everyone to destroy this 304 rachel wilson and her
05:31:36.480 pathetic clown simp andrew wilson make them regret they were born why don't we dare tell you what a 304
05:31:44.400 you are to your face rachel mr bull a donated 25 dollars communicate from the grand inquisitor we
05:31:53.040 congratulate the grand inquisitor's promotion brian this is official notice that the sneeze merch designs
05:31:59.680 have been approved production prototypes to follow stochastic decay donated 25 dollars hey brain
05:32:07.840 sorry i'm sorry i'm late long day my girlfriend's dog died naturally i told her she should work her trauma
05:32:16.240 out i'm single now anyway there was too much group think this episode hashtag where's gustavo
05:32:25.120 is donated 25 dollars what is the man's role in a matriarchal society
05:32:30.720 no such thing never been one won't ever be one just saying i didn't know what picture anybody else
05:32:39.360 got got anything master baker donated 25 dollars i'm just waiting for a girl rosie find her boyfriend
05:32:46.640 is on bimble during the bumble segment also brian do you read labias like they are braille
05:32:52.400 what was that sentence six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars
05:33:01.360 what's that song that'd be like
05:33:10.320 why does this work why do i know what song it is
05:33:13.600 jessica eloded donated 25 dollars rachel you're awesome and brian this is your obligatory friendly
05:33:25.280 reminder to stop eating
05:33:30.160 so do you think you've like twerked all the drama hi rachel donated not all of it rachel will you
05:33:36.800 address why you divorced twice five kids three baby daddies
05:33:41.360 i mean we can if you want so i didn't divorce twice i've only been divorced once rachel wilson's
05:33:49.040 two baby daddies donated 25 dollars rachel wilson you miserable strumpet play with joy on my trumpet
05:33:57.760 shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that as
05:34:04.240 shake it till you break it
05:34:08.320 okay
05:34:17.680 go daddy
05:34:20.160 wait what'd you say the trauma the hip trauma oh i said i asked her she's six nine six nine six nine
05:34:27.360 blah blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars when i rinse my mouth i go blair blig blick uprising
05:34:36.720 blick blick blerk blerk blare blick bl girl blick blick blick blick blerk blare blick blerk blah
05:34:44.080 speed actually like clicking in the back
05:34:46.200 those are kind of fun those are good
05:34:50.320 guys you can roast me if you want go for it nickelodeon donated 25 dollars i think the ass
05:35:04.140 clapper got the study messed up twerking only helps cause a release if there's a man laying
05:35:09.900 underneath you that works too that works as well does it work better i don't know if it works better
05:35:15.200 bucky larson donated 26 dollars ladies if you just bowed to a man on the first date his pp will
05:35:23.040 get so hard he'll put a ring on your finger on the second date and lastly don't be a strumpet
05:35:29.060 michigan christian donated 25 dollars happy memorial day let's talk about how women in
05:35:37.120 our country spit on the graves of our fallen by continually ruining the principles that made
05:35:41.780 our country great which they neither want or appreciate jared lds donated 25 dollars the church
05:35:49.720 of jesus christ of latter-day saints is christ's true church go to church of jesus christ it's true
05:35:56.780 there's more coming as watson donated 25 dollars rachel proofs that evolution exist one genetic evidence
05:36:08.840 two fossil record three comparative anatomy four biogeography five embryology six direct observation
05:36:20.160 so the only gays your facking husband betch is donated 25 dollars what salary should your ideal man
05:36:28.920 have quick a big one don't matter as long as he can provide double divine
05:36:34.620 six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars when all these chicks leave brian be in the
05:36:48.160 back like
05:36:48.660 how did they learn these right
05:36:54.820 oh oh oh oh oh what
05:37:00.160 mr z9107 donated 25 dollars yo yo yo embrace the patriarchy ladies it's best for you it's best for
05:37:13.340 family and great for society brian and andrew the dream team hosts rachel is the perfect wife
05:37:20.380 madison are submissive was watson donated 25 dollars rachel men have built the infrastructure
05:37:28.640 thanks to the women which conceived them carried out the pregnancy gave them birth and raised them
05:37:34.700 this is a woman give women well deserved credit and respect it's definitely a woman and oh is that under
05:37:42.940 the they're pretending to be west watson it's a long story but oh okay thanks selena gornez
05:37:49.660 unfortunately it's under the threshold it's 25 dollars for tcs
05:37:54.620 so we can't read it but thank you roast me
05:38:02.780 what
05:38:07.740 kaiju donated 25 dollars to the first girl on the right there are great white men out there as a
05:38:17.340 white man i do understand if you still choose not to date outside of your race i am sorry for your
05:38:23.660 past wish you the best thank you but yeah you're right there are great white men out there i'm sure
05:38:29.980 she said she said she'd be open to it guys yeah it's not that closed off
05:38:38.860 can you be sexist can you be sexist towards men
05:38:44.860 i mean yeah why isn't
05:38:52.540 can you be sexist towards men yeah yes i think everyone can be sexist towards anybody
05:38:57.100 yes yes biases just don't go away
05:39:05.260 is donated 25 dollars a lot of these comments are from low value men mansplaining their beliefs
05:39:12.300 they don't walk thr walk but talk the talk real men are hard-working and courteous and god-fearing
05:39:20.300 double agent donated 25 dollars brian when can we get whatever to come to central florida for a
05:39:26.940 road trip so you can get the women here to come correct and take the red pill
05:39:33.820 uh i would like to take it on the road hit alabama wait why isn't this coming through
05:39:39.180 it could be a spam filter um i don't know why it's not triggering blah blah blah it might have been the
05:39:46.220 speed it will not let me do it um six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25
05:39:55.260 this one when all these chicks leave brian be in the back like
05:39:59.420 that's exactly what happens six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars
05:40:19.500 what's that song that'd be like
05:40:25.740 i re-triggered it because the the other one didn't come through i don't know why uh
05:40:33.740 i'll try to re-trigger it
05:40:34.940 i think that's to to you
05:40:51.100 zionist underscore supremacist donated 25 dollars big respect to brixian maddie and nick
05:40:58.860 rachel glad andrew unchained you from the stove rachel would you take the vax if andrew told you
05:41:06.620 hi rachel donated 25 dollars nuance is important to relationships if people have an undesirable past
05:41:15.100 they can change andrew tells people not to date single moms but he married rachel something to
05:41:22.140 consider yeah kuchim and 69 donated 25 dollars most black slash white relationships i've seen have
05:41:30.140 had more family slash parent animosity when it's a black man and white girl almost a stealing our men's
05:41:36.620 situation any thoughts i can't i tried to re-trigger it but it didn't work hold on i'm gonna try something
05:41:43.980 else i'm gonna see if this works but i don't know why it's not coming through why the phone in uk be like
05:41:54.620 six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars i broke tts
05:42:02.220 me
05:42:10.060 brian's lint roller donated 25
05:42:12.860 they don't want to be called mormons anymore what about church of the latter day soakers
05:42:19.420 also my helicopter goes like this sat
05:42:22.220 like the sat don't hit close to 69 donated 25 dollars what does the fox say ring ding ding ding ding
05:42:32.620 ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding what the fox say
05:42:40.140 wapapapapapapow wapapapapapapow still 456 donated 25 dollars she doesn't look like caitlyn clark
05:42:51.020 she looks like weird al yankovich okay rude wow i guess this is the talented man
05:43:01.420 still not triggering sorry man i played with a couple settings i tried my best but
05:43:05.420 it must have been i don't know why but sorry bud sorry bud
05:43:21.340 are we done i think there's something else coming in i must have re-triggered it like three times whoops
05:43:27.180 we have actually no wait adam donated twenty five dollars madison's forehead be like kamehameha
05:43:37.580 kamehameha what what is that it's like a dragon ball z thing oh
05:43:44.540 colonel donated twenty five dollars don't knock the white man until he's been dressed up as the kfc
05:43:50.940 colonel and had you calling him massa all night long and that's exactly why it said no for me
05:43:59.580 nemesis donated twenty five dollars kisses and hugs for eight at 19 good to have you on the
05:44:06.140 podcast mrs wilson oh seven nick the lad i only simp for bricks and chat thank you man good to see
05:44:14.300 you in the chat andrew's ex-black wife donated twenty five dollars look here you white bish stop
05:44:20.140 trying to out cute me i even wore this red top to show what he'll never have again i'm still waiting
05:44:27.020 on that child's support old man take a look at my life donated twenty five dollars hey that's
05:44:33.500 my i'm curious who on the panel would date brian that's a lyric from wait is it pearl jam
05:44:44.700 as watson donated twenty five dollars i know with husband like andrew you're not used to be
05:44:51.260 appreciated as a woman but believe it or not there are men who appreciate the women and i'm one of
05:44:58.540 them however zero respect for you bucky larson donated twenty five dollars brian isn't it crazy
05:45:07.260 how the average woman will choose to do crazy sexual activities in the bedroom but they can't do a
05:45:12.940 simple bow unreal bucky that's the whole point i'm trying to make they'll let a guy last on the face but
05:45:19.580 they went blah blah 69 donated twenty five dollars they did it wrong a roof helicopter sounds like soy soy
05:45:26.140 soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy
05:45:33.580 i'm definitely thinking the fuck
05:45:49.800 so brian don't eat ass is it just
05:45:51.800 icky to him man up
05:45:52.920 that's not what we were even talking about but yeah i don't do that either
05:45:55.580 easy dem peaches and this segment
05:45:57.680 is the lamest brian labia creeper
05:45:59.880 okay uh apparently
05:46:01.380 apparently it
05:46:03.580 Selena Gomez donated $30
05:46:05.800 if it's not lost already
05:46:08.200 read my $20 chat
05:46:10.040 because I missed the threshold
05:46:11.620 also love Andrew and Rachel
05:46:14.240 I don't have it has to be
05:46:15.960 for it to even show
05:46:18.020 it has to be above the threshold
05:46:19.360 thank you Selena Gomez
05:46:21.060 Madison is only a 9 and a half
05:46:23.380 boom roasted
05:46:25.560 boom roasted
05:46:28.080 she's crying
05:46:29.860 I'll try to find it Selena since you did
05:46:32.380 I'll be nice
05:46:33.000 as Watson donated $25
05:46:36.100 Rachel why you call yourself
05:46:38.960 anti-feminist when you're
05:46:40.680 304 with 5 kids
05:46:42.760 from 3 different baby daddies
05:46:44.720 and 2 divorces and on top of that
05:46:46.680 you're working writing books
05:46:48.620 podcasting etc
05:46:50.320 typical feminist
05:46:52.000 it's all wrong
05:46:53.880 Selena wrote
05:46:55.640 little material
05:46:56.300 underscoordinated $25
05:46:58.400 hate to keep simping
05:47:00.580 on the opera singer
05:47:01.440 over there
05:47:02.180 but she looks amazing
05:47:03.560 thank you
05:47:04.280 you're sweet
05:47:05.040 Selena also bought the new book
05:47:18.440 by Rachel
05:47:18.880 can't wait to read it
05:47:19.660 Brian and whatever pod crew
05:47:20.760 keep up the good work
05:47:21.580 also Maddie is a 10
05:47:22.540 thank you Selena
05:47:25.380 thank you Selena
05:47:26.500 alright
05:47:28.100 you guys can keep sending them in
05:47:29.800 I have a couple notes
05:47:30.940 from some of the panelists
05:47:32.100 and then we're gonna
05:47:32.820 wrap up
05:47:34.560 the show
05:47:35.440 so we have
05:47:36.520 generic statue
05:47:37.760 donated $25
05:47:39.100 Brian I appreciate
05:47:41.180 the work you're doing
05:47:42.240 with this podcast
05:47:43.320 you have opened my eyes
05:47:44.940 to the decline
05:47:45.640 in society
05:47:46.380 and hearing you
05:47:47.140 and your guests speak
05:47:48.280 encourage me
05:47:48.980 to better my life
05:47:50.080 keep it up
05:47:52.080 696969
05:47:54.380 blah blah blah
05:47:55.100 69
05:47:55.680 donated $25
05:47:57.260 Brian don't eat
05:47:59.340 as
05:47:59.700 sheet ID
05:48:00.780 Tebony
05:48:01.440 Fart Box
05:48:02.160 like
05:48:02.520 Rola
05:48:02.920 That's a follow
05:48:06.880 GMD
05:48:09.000 donated
05:48:09.520 $25
05:48:10.600 Brixen
05:48:12.020 I appreciate
05:48:12.960 that you do not
05:48:13.960 perform oral
05:48:14.740 the original
05:48:15.920 Christian definition
05:48:17.040 of sodomy
05:48:17.700 was any sex other than reproductive PNV.
05:48:21.000 Do not be a sodomite.
05:48:22.840 That's true.
05:48:23.600 Yeah, I do it.
05:48:24.920 That's why I don't do it.
05:48:26.620 Brian asked the chat to roast Maddie,
05:48:28.660 and the result was crickets.
05:48:30.620 The chat loves and respects Maddie.
05:48:32.860 Speaking of which, guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.
05:48:35.240 She's going to start streaming on there.
05:48:37.360 We did a test stream the other day.
05:48:39.000 We're going to get it going, guys.
05:48:40.380 There's just a million things going on.
05:48:42.340 So I know I've been saying that for a while,
05:48:44.360 but jobs to follow in the Prime sub over here
05:48:46.760 if you're watching.
05:48:48.320 On Twitch.
05:48:50.380 All right, some pre-show.
05:48:51.700 Let me get into the pre-show notes.
05:48:53.720 So Danielle?
05:48:58.300 Yeah.
05:48:59.480 Looking back in high school,
05:49:01.300 you said you were a couple dudes rebounds?
05:49:03.380 Yes, I was.
05:49:05.100 I was.
05:49:05.800 I think I shared a specific story, though.
05:49:08.700 It was like the only crazy story I had.
05:49:11.880 So I was this guy's rebound.
05:49:15.100 It was like very obvious,
05:49:16.420 and at the time,
05:49:19.100 I just had no direction in my life,
05:49:21.700 but my husband was befriending me,
05:49:23.780 so he was like my best friend at the time.
05:49:27.100 Anyways, this guy just ghosted me
05:49:29.840 after talking to me for a while,
05:49:31.440 and I was like,
05:49:32.400 I'm going to get revenge.
05:49:33.800 I was like a dumb 17-year-old girl,
05:49:35.840 and I had some of his underwear
05:49:38.480 because we had ran a Ragnar race together,
05:49:41.580 and you're in a van for over 24 hours,
05:49:45.240 so you change clothes.
05:49:46.260 So I filled his underwear with peanut butter,
05:49:50.780 and I rubbed it over his brand-new motorcycle.
05:49:54.340 Damn.
05:49:56.880 Excuse me?
05:49:57.940 And my husband drove me to do it.
05:50:00.800 Wow.
05:50:01.320 Damn.
05:50:03.140 Partners in crime.
05:50:04.000 I was going to say.
05:50:07.000 It's just peanut butter, though.
05:50:08.320 It's not that kind of thing.
05:50:09.480 No.
05:50:09.920 It was just on the seat.
05:50:12.420 A nice prank?
05:50:13.240 A nice prank.
05:50:13.580 Yeah.
05:50:14.260 Because it could have been like,
05:50:16.040 he could have been crazy.
05:50:17.760 I mean, we don't want to be too crazy.
05:50:19.080 We can't get honest.
05:50:19.560 No, I know.
05:50:19.800 I'm just saying.
05:50:20.360 So you stuck it on the bike, though.
05:50:21.860 So, yeah, I just, like, stuck it on the seat of the bike
05:50:25.340 and, like, just rubbed it and left.
05:50:29.700 So you just rubbed peanut butter on the motorcycle seat?
05:50:32.860 Yeah.
05:50:33.360 Inconvenient.
05:50:33.940 Yeah.
05:50:34.260 Give him his underwear back.
05:50:35.620 Yeah.
05:50:38.020 Because he ghosted you?
05:50:40.500 Yeah.
05:50:41.200 Like, it was, I acknowledge it was childish.
05:50:43.580 I was a 17-year-old girl.
05:50:43.860 I have a question for the girls.
05:50:45.420 If a girl, or if a girl ghosted a guy,
05:50:49.120 and then the guy goes over to her house
05:50:54.220 and then murders her,
05:50:58.460 would you guys have a problem with that?
05:51:00.040 What?
05:51:01.020 Yeah.
05:51:01.500 Yeah.
05:51:01.920 I mean, I wouldn't equate what I did to murder.
05:51:03.760 No.
05:51:04.380 Just saying.
05:51:07.560 Wow, good stuff, Brian.
05:51:08.720 Yeah.
05:51:09.120 That was great.
05:51:09.620 Good stuff.
05:51:13.160 You said men can make it out of the friend zone?
05:51:15.420 Yes.
05:51:16.260 I believe that.
05:51:18.100 Obviously.
05:51:18.460 I suppose they can,
05:51:19.320 but honestly, my...
05:51:20.080 6,969.
05:51:22.300 Brian gonna hate this 69.
05:51:24.380 Donated $25.
05:51:26.660 Here it goes dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot,
05:51:29.040 cats, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot,
05:51:31.020 kids, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, kids,
05:51:37.860 dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, kits,
05:51:39.240 are you abusing bro you're abusing okay that's crazy i'm sorry i gotta i gotta skip how long
05:51:47.120 bro we got the idea though thank you man i actually can but i think it's better to just
05:51:53.280 fucking move on and find another girl no i i definitely agree like i think that you shouldn't
05:52:00.320 be i don't and i don't know how you would define that timeline um because me and my husband were
05:52:08.420 just in high school so he was just like i'm her friend like i like her michigan christian donated
05:52:13.480 25 rachel great to see the woman who takes care of one of our great leaders would love to hear
05:52:20.900 your thoughts on the consequences of women in leadership and voting repeal the 19th and return
05:52:26.660 to christ yeah i mean it's all been bad i mean name a woman politician that you really thought
05:52:34.620 was exceptional and fantastic i don't think any politician nickelodeon donated 25 dollars
05:52:42.200 i'm willing to bet a couple of girls here have craziest stories than peanut butter on a motorcycle
05:52:48.180 any popped tires broken windows burned clothes
05:52:53.000 tell us i've slashed tires and i you've slashed cars you've keep cars that's all i'm gonna say
05:53:01.540 about it don't tell what else what else wes watson donated 25 dollars brian why you no longer post
05:53:09.760 the insta handles of the girls they put the food on your table come on dude you know we don't want you
05:53:16.640 for andrew's pretty face girls don't come to this show yes donated 25 dollars did you guys know that
05:53:25.240 the tongue is a muscular organ that connects adam's apple to madam's chapel okay interesting okay
05:53:32.880 fun fact um so you slashed a couple tires how many men's car like was it just one guy or multiple
05:53:41.340 guys you've slashed tires great scott's donated 25 dollars really appreciate your efforts brian for
05:53:49.700 getting the message out for masculinity but half these tts hurt the show and almost unbearable
05:53:55.180 you should learn from my run and better the quality of the show
05:53:58.700 oh this is the ethereal hunders coordinated 25 dollars i'm trying to get the opera singer to sing
05:54:05.840 for me every night they're gonna all marry you what is happening hugging around donated 25
05:54:16.780 dollars ladies how would you feel if you wrote a book and it did really well and your husband took
05:54:22.160 all the kka to buy mo pretty good i'd feel i'd feel good about it just saying ladies how would you feel
05:54:30.560 like all the dough 6969 still worth it bro 69 donated 25 dollars much respect brian but why you hit the
05:54:41.320 blunt like cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough
05:54:47.560 cough cough cough cough cough eating peaches donated 26 dollars three girls on the right what was that song
05:54:56.960 i'd bite them peaches in the bleachers all night first date just met on a bus hitchhiking i ain't no
05:55:05.060 biatch good for you good for you that was beautiful that was beautiful okay uh
05:55:15.800 it was under the threshold um can you said consent based morality is a lie what does that mean
05:55:23.200 yeah i think that people can consent to things that are harmful to them and to
05:55:29.180 other people and so i think the whole idea that if you consent to something it's okay is a lie
05:55:38.460 i would agree with that consent based morality is dumb and easily easy to defeat
05:55:44.280 uh you said being an of woman you you did quotes on woman does not require any skills or attributes
05:55:54.400 and is not a real job even though you're earning money donated 25 dollars lds girl are you not
05:56:02.300 familiar with the book of mormon it is sacred text of the church of the latter day saints movement
05:56:08.100 mormon was their term not something forced upon them yeah so we read from the book of mormon and the
05:56:15.900 that's why the name mormon was given to us so yes that is true i am familiar with the blue book
05:56:23.460 um it's blue it is is it like teal or is it blue no it's like a dark navy it's a navy it's a dark navy
05:56:31.360 yeah yeah are there any like accents of like purple in there is it most it's mostly blue dark navy the
05:56:38.340 book is blue the church is true i've never seen you have one i haven't seen my husband has one okay we
05:56:43.320 don't sorry i'm just um derailing okay what was the question well you oh yeah being an of woman does
05:56:51.580 not require any schools or skills or attributes and it is not a real job even though you're earning money
05:56:56.880 you're sitting next to a girl who does of and there's another of girl right here yeah
05:57:01.180 that's what she said do you guys want to risk do you want to address her her hateful comments
05:57:06.900 do you want to address it i just think it's her opinion and i feel like anything that you can
05:57:12.340 monetize selena gone is donated 25 dollars ladies quickly give one reason why you're voting for trump
05:57:20.020 in this upcoming election and one reason why you're not voting for sleepy joe hashtag trump 2024
05:57:27.400 uh my reason is because that's what andrew's doing so i only vote to double his vote and or
05:57:35.240 various crazy people donated 25 dollars imagine an opera singer as a wife the veracity of the neck
05:57:42.980 would be unbearable that's literally the magic flute queen of the night aria it's like a harp it's
05:57:50.020 literally the mom nagging her daughter so at least from that's what i learned from amadeus which is
05:57:55.320 obviously historically accurate i mean it's pretty close i mean it's fictitious but yeah
05:58:00.900 yeah it's not historically accurate but so do you think that it requires like specific talent to
05:58:06.220 post like pictures of yourself on the internet i'm gonna just say this the way i shake my ass i think
05:58:11.460 that it is the talent that's all i'm saying i'd like to see you do it okay i can't do it
05:58:19.160 but i think that sexualizing yourself like that on the internet is not a talent or skill
05:58:24.660 it's also like a cultural thing too though well there's a lot of i'm sorry working like that's
05:58:31.920 like i'm not gonna seriously yeah but prostitution is like a worldwide phenomenon yeah it is how is
05:58:38.820 only fans donated 25 dollars that's not based rachel based wait so you don't think that only fans is
05:58:46.800 prostitution at all no but i also feel like it's literally a platform where you can post anything
05:58:53.180 it's just like youtube yeah but like 98 percent of it's sex here's my weekly donation i'll be gone
05:58:59.100 for a while thank you jace ladies you're welcome i'm so damn pretty lol yeah he's he's a babe
05:59:05.440 how is he's a is he a babe he's a babe yes gerald donated 25 dollars mrs wilson what's that book that
05:59:14.500 the viewers should go and buy it's called the cult feminism the secret history of women's liberation
05:59:20.480 the whole thing is a lie it was never a grassroots movement it's totally after the real undiscoordinated
05:59:26.060 25 dollars simping like a madman here but opera singer has a gorgeous smile too god damn she's
05:59:34.040 thank you i wish i had rose petals to throw on her like whatever these come through damn he's
05:59:40.920 shooting a shot good for you guys good for you buddy uh so what constitutes prostitution then
05:59:49.940 like what's the definition according to you um the definition is literally going and selling your body
05:59:56.580 andrew is chatted donated 25 dollars brian if you had to wipe up one full progressive feminist
06:00:03.960 or sex worker turned based damn bro why you gotta do me dirty like that i'm going full progressive
06:00:10.800 feminist generic statue donated 25 dollars uh the progressive feminist because i can the exchange of
06:00:17.200 sexual services for money do whatever mental gymnastics you want you are a prostitute you can
06:00:23.860 save her brian right yeah i'll save her i missed that it said that like prostitution is the exchange of
06:00:34.580 any form of sex for money and i agree with that i would too you also said there's absolutely no good
06:00:39.700 that comes from sex work yes period yeah and i respect your opinion but but but you disagree
06:00:48.280 what's the but what's the but yeah my personal opinion is i feel like everybody should be able
06:00:51.860 to do whatever the fuck they want why well but what good comes from it like tell me what good comes
06:00:55.740 from it that's what i'm saying wait a minute wait we have to address that everyone should be able to
06:01:01.080 do whatever they want yeah that's true because what if a guy wants to down there on the street below
06:01:06.420 the balcony what if he wants to jerk it in the middle of the street he should be able to do
06:01:10.480 whatever he wants he's gonna do what i will say crazy people donated 25 dollars only tramps is not
06:01:18.700 only prostitution it's prostitution scaled up for mass distribution i bet you can find cheeto boogers
06:01:25.520 in that cleavage cheeto boogers yeah no i don't eat cheetos do you prefer doritos i feel like you're
06:01:31.460 more of a doritos gal i do like doritos but i don't eat them often do we want to talk about
06:01:43.140 everybody should do what they want yeah okay i just feel like yes that that's a good example
06:01:49.320 no that should not be done however whereas something that is consensual and like it's
06:01:54.640 appropriate as far as only fans people sign up for that they get what they get i think that should be
06:02:00.460 acceptable because that's what people want to do okay so if a 60 year old man wants to date an 18
06:02:06.440 year old girl and she can sense is that cool personally no i don't like it but it's legal
06:02:11.640 that's why it's a legal thing but i think so i don't think it's okay be able to do it though
06:02:16.240 according to the law according to the law okay what what if uh this is anderson donated 25 dollars
06:02:24.560 hey maddie me again you're so pretty smiles lds girl isn't being black a curse in the book of
06:02:31.140 mormon huge fan brian rachel is great thank you simp donated 25 dollars opera girl is w wife
06:02:41.780 material they're in love with you oh no we're gonna get her married by the end of this thing
06:02:46.060 apparently all you need to be able to do is sing so what if what if brian here wanted to uh dig up
06:02:52.620 as watson donated 25 dollars what the fuck rachel wilson was flipped more than an apartment in fort
06:02:58.640 lauderdale well i'm just saying like he's not hurting anybody right seen more helmets than hitler
06:03:03.740 and last but not least she has a posse like a punched lasagna what i think that this goes back
06:03:10.760 like you said anyone should be able to do what they want i'll take that back i will take that back
06:03:15.260 as far as what i do with my body should not affect how you feel
06:03:18.420 oh i but it it affects society so it does affect how i feel because you're producing something
06:03:24.640 negative and so it's going to have a negative effect i'm very body positive i love my body and
06:03:29.620 i love i wish everybody would love their body and you could do what you would like with your body as
06:03:33.520 long as it's not hurting somebody i love my body too i respect my body you are destroying the world
06:03:39.440 with your twicking oh no all right go cry about it you know what though it's it's an actual thing that
06:03:46.860 uh for girls who let's say you're a girl who wants to be a virgin until the right man comes
06:03:51.740 along and marries you it makes it very hard to do that ever since a bunch of women broke like the
06:03:57.580 the contract right back in the 60s 70s if even 30 of the girls are giving it away like it's going out
06:04:05.300 of style it makes it really hard for those of us who do want to marry a guy and stay with him and like
06:04:12.380 you know it just kind of ruined the whole marriage thing that we have every girl who turns 18 is
06:04:18.140 signing up for only fans almost every girl like i think i will can i ask a question
06:04:22.640 well i was gonna say i mean y'all feel the way that y'all feel that y'all are still married
06:04:29.460 so it didn't ruin it for also do you want the guys that are going to sign up to pay for only fans
06:04:34.540 that's my other question well why are so many men doing that it's actually not true that whites
06:04:41.580 are more likely to be serial killers check out the database of all serial killers in the u.s that
06:04:47.580 florida gulf coast university and radford university have compiled yeah i was pretty sure
06:04:53.260 selena gorniz donated 25 dollars psa five like the video and boost the algorithm people yeah help
06:05:03.660 us out thank you so many fans is 100 prostitution definitions matter also i think another problem
06:05:11.260 with like the liberal opinion about anything in society today is that you guys think well it's not
06:05:17.980 you so it doesn't matter or worry about yourself how's that hurting you though and it's like
06:05:23.260 it is i should care because what you produce and put out into the world has an effect and will have
06:05:29.900 an effect on you and those around you and so to have the opinion of well just worry about yourself
06:05:35.740 or you do yeah we i mean we can look at data to see how bad things have gotten since women's
06:05:41.580 liberation and if you look at it it's like the uh if you look at kids who are in a juvenile facility
06:05:48.460 kids who are in any sort of substance ebony to donated 25 dollars why have anomaly vans to not
06:05:55.420 share it give me a hint to find it
06:06:02.140 it's my name and then what i study there you go
06:06:07.900 so yeah if you if you look at like uh kids who are homeless uh kids who are on psych wards almost
06:06:14.780 all of them like it's like 80 to 90 percent of them come from fatherless homes or homes that are
06:06:21.260 disrupted uh marriage got thrown out the window there is no family cohesion anymore and how is
06:06:28.380 this helping anyone how is this do whatever you want just don't hurt anybody or take my stuff like
06:06:33.660 like that hasn't worked for us we no longer have any sort of like societal standard for morality at
06:06:41.260 all or just do whatever you want then i mean shouldn't you be chastising like a father's for
06:06:45.740 leaving too then i mean well i would except for that mostly it's the women leaving not
06:06:53.660 imagine perpetuating the downfall in men because you like the money you'd ride the thin line of the
06:06:59.340 law and say it's okay because it's legal if killing someone was legal would you
06:07:08.300 yeah i mean ultimately i think that feminism has led to the destruction of the nuclear family which is
06:07:13.340 a central part of society tom jones donated 25 dollars i'm very body positive lol
06:07:21.420 lol thank you tom jones uh guys we're gonna wrap up the show here um before i do that we we will do
06:07:27.740 twitch raid any final thoughts from anybody before i start wrapping this up i would just like the
06:07:33.740 only thing i don't want to like come off as like condescending i just like think that you guys can
06:07:37.580 do a lot more with your lives and you have a lot to offer and you're beautiful women and i don't think
06:07:42.860 that you need to to do sex work like we said that's not the only things that we do right that's the minimal
06:07:48.060 of what i do that's that's just all you heard i didn't even say that when i was asked what do i do
06:07:52.780 i brought that up after the conversation was brought up if you noticed why did you feel the
06:07:56.780 need to not share that because that's that's not my main thing that i do is it something that you're
06:08:02.860 ashamed of not really honestly that's why i said it when you do bg content boy girl content no
06:08:10.380 you've never shot anything with a guy but do i sell that no have you ever sold it
06:08:16.780 it sounds like a yes to me what about you do you do bg content yeah because that's just something
06:08:24.220 that i like to do with my partner but how many men have you done bg content with two two different
06:08:30.940 guys okay is that how they found out about each other because various crazy people will pull it back
06:08:37.340 up no uh well here i have a question but if someone is giving sex away or selling it for 2.99
06:08:43.660 it becomes a race to the bottom cheap poon is just that cheap poon no man who has any self-respect is
06:08:49.900 going to commit would you guys if you're on the first date with the guy would you guys disclose that
06:08:53.980 you guys do of i actually i have before um but i don't know if it's something that i would just like
06:09:02.380 off the rip whatever but i would but i guess like i would say i would want a man to disclose
06:09:08.300 like something like the fact that he has kids to me on the first date but i don't think that equates
06:09:13.820 but yeah you think it's a bigger deal to withhold uh somebody's uh parentage status as compared to
06:09:20.780 their sex worker status um i don't think that um it's comparable at all i was just saying like
06:09:27.740 an example of something that i would want but can you i mean i would my position would be
06:09:31.900 it would be a bigger issue for a girl to hide her sex worker status than her i mean we're talking
06:09:39.180 about first date but i'm also not a sex worker wait hold on you're not a sex worker thank you for
06:09:45.820 coming opera singer your return they love you hope it's not the last time i get to see you well sex
06:09:52.300 worker is sort of this all-encompassing term but like i mean you said you've done boy girl content you
06:09:57.980 do only fans you're a sex worker i don't sell those videos what i sell are provocative pictures
06:10:05.660 and they're not even nudes so when you say you make boy girl content yeah it's not for consumption
06:10:11.420 it's like private content or yeah but i already said that that i don't sell that did you have you
06:10:17.020 sold it previously no i could how am i getting gaslit here yeah i could have sworn you said
06:10:22.940 you've done bg content i think you're trying to gaslight me and tell me that i said something
06:10:27.180 that i didn't say are you just trying to say like you said you did bg content oh literally what i said
06:10:31.820 okay wait you said you did bg content with two guys i just answered it the way that i answered it
06:10:38.940 i don't even understand what that really means i think there's just a misunderstanding i think she was
06:10:43.020 just like boy girl can just mean a video and so she's like i took a personal video with like my
06:10:47.500 boyfriend or something and then you asked me how many but that's not content content is posted
06:10:52.300 tends to imply like it's okay i mean if you want to be like by definition but you asked me a question
06:10:57.900 i answered it wait so did you or did you not do content with a man for your only fans or some other
06:11:08.060 platform i just said no so what did you mean when you said you made bg content i already said it i'm
06:11:14.380 not about to like no you didn't really explain it i but i did though so like just for private
06:11:20.060 usage private content that you sold or didn't sell like am i done that's okay no i'm just
06:11:31.020 she said she likes to make it that's what she likes to do she did it because she liked to do it
06:11:34.460 content like okay making a private video is not content content you guys were getting into
06:11:39.980 definitions like just i think we're getting in like modern day definition content can still be
06:11:45.660 like content for yourself that's why i consider it like i mean i mean if we're really looking at the
06:11:49.580 dictionary i'm talking like not like modern urban dictionary kind of thing i mean yeah but i feel
06:11:54.620 like the context was there yeah i know what you mean the context but i still said what i said
06:12:00.220 at any rate i said what i said i'm confused about it so
06:12:11.500 a little confused but me too a little bit confused i mean if there's nothing wrong with it
06:12:17.340 why are you upset is my question i'm not upset i just feel like i'm being asked the same thing
06:12:26.220 repeatedly when i already answered the question and i don't like to repeat myself yeah you're just
06:12:33.900 getting really defensive about it when if you're not ashamed of it and there's no problem with it
06:12:39.020 you could be like oh i misunderstood i thought that you were saying have you ever filmed something
06:12:44.140 i have filmed something but it was always private when we when he asks have you made bg content and
06:12:49.900 we're talking about your only fans but i didn't misunderstand the question because i did answer
06:12:54.460 the question and i still said okay well maybe something that i was doing with my i might be
06:12:58.620 the dumb one and i wasn't clarify it for me so have you ever made if i sold it and i said no have you
06:13:05.260 ever okay have you ever given it away for free have you ever posted it have you girls have free only
06:13:12.300 fans yeah no no that's wild girls will post that shit for free on twitter yeah that's them it is
06:13:21.820 okay but sometimes people play this trick of like well i didn't technically sell it so no i didn't
06:13:27.820 make it and sell it but they'll otherwise distribute it for free for example that doesn't apply to me but
06:13:36.220 yeah for example i've had like situations where i'll ask a woman if she has uh breast if she has
06:13:42.460 breast implants and she'll dance around the question saying well no but she she has like the fat transfer
06:13:50.460 thing which i mean it's kind of like the question is have you had any sort of breast any sort of yeah
06:13:57.180 breast augmentation procedure and they'll be like oh i don't have fake boobs wow
06:14:02.460 well so they'll like play this is that semantic i don't know what that's considered so what that
06:14:09.580 game is let's just cut the shit and say have you ever posted you doing bg content anywhere online
06:14:17.260 answered the question okay answer it again no okay wait is it was okay was the answer no
06:14:24.540 the answer is no oh okay yeah it's been said that i did
06:14:37.100 all right guys we're gonna do a twitch raid
06:14:41.820 how many how many you said you keyed a couple cars and
06:14:45.260 slashed a few tires granny's box underscore i'm trying to change the topic i'm sorry 25 dollars
06:14:53.660 lickety-fricty somewhere's that beta cuck his sheikah and dudas dudes filled her with goo while
06:14:58.780 he sat in the corner jerking off what tf cuck love you all gotta go now time to get grand p's rocks off
06:15:07.420 all right nick we're gonna do a raid i think i'm pretty sure i'm gonna do
06:15:10.940 raid aladar so let me just get make sure let's see we got woe grandma but we've been raiding her a lot
06:15:19.340 got bobka we're gonna do
06:15:23.260 actually we haven't done bobka
06:15:30.780 do we do bobka no we're gonna do aladar you can pull up aladar really quick
06:15:34.700 yeah guys before you before we do a raid guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drops a follow
06:15:41.420 drop us a prime sub if you have one and then i'll just do a quick brief uh outro here for
06:15:47.420 a bit those of you who are watching on twitch i appreciate it guys we are going to do a raid
06:15:52.060 there in just a sec gg well played to the panel six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine time to fix
06:15:59.500 the vibe sixty nine donated twenty five dollars from the window to the wall till the sweat drop
06:16:05.740 down my balls till all the beaches crawl till our skeet skeet my fucker till our skeet skeet god damn
06:16:21.100 okay cool unwanted fetus donated 25 dollars where am i i'm so cold please why
06:16:29.180 mommy damn son okay we said okay uh so last call hit the like button please on your way
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06:16:46.860 live again tuesday at 5 p.m pacific rachel will be joining us again oh actually shit uh we're gonna do
06:16:52.940 it rachel i don't forgot if i asked you are you free tomorrow yeah debate yeah okay we i'm down
06:16:58.540 pretty good chance we're gonna be doing a debate tomorrow guys we had we actually had 10 flakes
06:17:02.620 today i said nine we had 10 flakes we had uh a no show that i just totally forgot about that's how
06:17:07.980 crazy it was that i just totally forgot about one of the no shows so uh let's see yeah and then we'll
06:17:14.140 be doing another dating talk tuesday 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show dm at whatever
06:17:18.860 on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara if you're watching on twitch we're gonna raid alidar
06:17:23.500 nick if you can pull up alidar we're gonna drop a raid are we actually just doing he's playing
06:17:29.500 world of warcraft oh is he doing a raid this is not oh my god this isn't even done yet he's in a
06:17:33.420 raid group oh he's in alterac valley he's an av doing some pvp world of warcraft classic okay
06:17:40.620 thanks for watching on twitch guys uh hope you guys have a good night enjoy alidar thank you guys
06:17:45.500 appreciate it good night oh this is where i gotta decide like do i wait a little bit or just jump
06:17:53.020 right back in and goodbye what the oh whatever whatever podcast what's up man whatever i gotta
06:18:07.180 ask you a question i actually don't know the question or the answer to this welcome everyone
06:18:12.300 i'm gonna go way past 14 000 followers now nine inches on a good day what the fuck i had nine
06:18:21.900 inches of snow one time look at this are we gonna get past 14 000 followers now holy crap anyways welcome
06:18:30.060 everyone from the whatever podcast the podcast for men by men and women as i don't know where they
06:18:39.500 find these women that are on this podcast i really don't know where there it is chat look at this
06:18:48.300 look at this oh good we got them to uh in the middle of my 14k followers there's 14 000 followers
06:18:55.900 thank you guys yeah we helped him out all right there you go you know how long i've been like
06:19:01.420 waiting look at this thank you very much everyone that followed i appreciate it
06:19:05.900 it that's massive my goal was to get to 14 000 by the end of the year i i like to raid
06:19:12.460 anyways just to help them for the men are men the women are women and uh cucks are uh
06:19:17.580 what the fuck the cucks all right okay you can x out that name he's going into another alterac valley
06:19:23.980 okay okay there it is all right cool cool uh so lastly uh no i think that's actually it i'm trying to
06:19:30.300 think if we uh there's anything else uh i think that's it
06:19:40.380 right are we forgetting anything no i think we hit everything okay cool all right guys uh
06:19:48.380 pretty sure we're gonna do that stream tomorrow the debate stream people are flaky you never know uh
06:19:54.300 then we'll have tuesday show and yeah that's it guys okay oh seven's in the chat thank you guys for
06:20:00.380 tuning in appreciate it hope you guys have a good night and we'll uh see you again soon good night guys