Whatever Podcast - Rachel Wilson vs. Feminists! She Is A 10! Better Looking In 20 Years？ LDS Dating？｜ Dating Talk #164

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00:03:07.900 santa barbara just trying to uh which which camera are you looking at maddie

00:03:13.960 that one you like no you gotta look dead center yeah don't look at the top one that one's not on

00:03:22.100 you gotta look dead center oh irs is now a member okay hold on that's a little alarming 0.86

00:03:28.440 uh oh shit i'm gonna get audited thank you man appreciate it uh eva thank you man uh so yeah we 0.77

00:03:37.820 had like uh nine flicks total today six of which within 24 hours and then like three that flicked 0.96

00:03:43.500 like an hour before the show so my apologies once again for us being late but without further ado with

00:03:48.700 that said we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location

00:03:53.620 and occupation go ahead um i'm anaya i'm 24 into the mic into the mic i'm a singer songwriter

00:04:02.360 and i'm from los angeles all right welcome welcome what about you uh i'm anza i'm 25 and i'm in between

00:04:10.840 la and uh santa barbara what do you do for work oh right uh i am a student and uh musician where are you

00:04:19.360 a student uh here at ucsb what are you studying music composition undergrad i'm graduating in the

00:04:26.840 spring uh are you undergrad or oh yeah grad student yeah yeah got it all right cool what about you

00:04:33.300 all right i am ebony jenay i am 28 years old and i'm originally from boston but i live here in los

00:04:38.660 angeles now and what are you doing for work i'm currently a content creator astrologer

00:04:43.320 club promoter okay a few things what so what is what does an astrologer do i read charts you read

00:04:53.040 charts i do okay how long you've been doing that for you got did you go to school for that you got

00:04:59.240 so i went for psychology for my degree but i've been studying astrology for about eight years

00:05:05.260 what do they say about um tauruses uh i'm a taurus we're pretty stubborn but we like to work and we

00:05:15.120 mess with the bull you get the horns that's a fact that's very much a fact we'll find the easy way

00:05:20.940 to do anything too okay all right wait and going back to you you said you do uh you're studying music

00:05:27.200 composition yeah so you're like classically trained musician uh yeah classically trained but

00:05:32.500 i mainly focus on uh rock and film composition okay and do you play an instrument or are you

00:05:37.160 singer voice piano guitar are you a soprano soprano with a freaky low range they say okay yeah all

00:05:44.320 right can we hear something i mean sure are we what are we talking like opera what are we talking 0.89

00:05:49.880 what kind of i mean i trained in opera but like oh shit let's hear something let's hear it 0.97

00:05:54.440 wait wait wait wait god what did i say uh hold on hold on what's it called it's uh the the queen 0.93

00:06:04.740 the knight oh the queen of the night uh queen of the night yeah yeah um oh my god i was about to do

00:06:11.300 it but i it's hard okay i have not warmed up today wait can you do it though i i'll give it a shot

00:06:18.340 hell yeah do it okay let's see um 0.98

00:06:21.720 yeah damn 0.98

00:06:34.880 there we go there we go it would have been better even with the warm-up 0.97

00:06:41.700 yeah that was good that's and that's a very hard uh opera piece i mean i don't know if i started in

00:06:47.760 the right key but that's just maybe a little loft but yeah no it was definitely a little pitchy

00:06:52.620 i'm not gonna lie but yeah you aren't warmed up you're on the spot but uh that was very impressive

00:06:57.740 okay uh sweet and then we'll we'll have to uh what's that one from the uh there was this movie

00:07:04.260 in the 90s that featured an opera piece the fifth element are you familiar with that oh god yes

00:07:09.140 but that one's like almost impossible right um i think i know which one you're talking about

00:07:14.020 yeah i could do it maybe right now fuck it okay do it oh god is that the is that the one i was like 0.95

00:07:21.880 it's the one with the blue alien or whatever is that the one where she's being like 0.99

00:07:24.640 i think so okay you got it okay sure

00:07:30.960 something like that right wow that was really good

00:07:43.740 that was good uh hey guys guys how

00:07:48.900 how are your ear

00:07:51.200 chat how are your

00:07:53.920 okay all right this is a very classy podcast

00:07:58.520 we got an opera singer we'll have to uh we'll go back to the uh the what what is it the the it's

00:08:06.620 what's the actual title of the first one that you did the night queen oh well the the character is

00:08:12.600 queen of the night but that song isn't i'm trying to find that i mean you can find it if you just type

00:08:17.580 queen of the night so queen of the night aria yeah magic the magic flute that's what i was i was

00:08:24.060 looking for okay cool that was good that was good thank you i preferred the first one but uh

00:08:28.120 we'll have you do it again uh so okay and instruments you said piano vocal and guitar guitar oh wow can i

00:08:37.480 just say i forgot to say i also do music but that's wow you guys should start a band

00:08:40.620 hell yeah i'm looking for musicians there you go what about you yeah i'm danielle i'm 25 i'm from

00:08:47.900 salt lake city utah and i am a grad student right now and i also work as a nanny you said you're from

00:08:54.540 utah yeah salt lake yeah okay and you said 25 right 25 yeah what about you hi my name is mingway

00:09:01.420 i'm 32 and i do all sorts of things i'm a surf coach um i work

00:09:09.560 six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine blah blah blah 69 donated 69 dollars

00:09:17.280 okay thank you uh blah blah blah 69 appreciate it man

00:09:30.640 uh so you're a surf coach what else um i do a little modeling and a very small amount of content

00:09:37.640 creation um i work with kids with autism and sometimes i'm a high school substitute teacher

00:09:43.000 all right and uh you're based in did you say ventura yeah okay uh favorite surf spot um i know you

00:09:51.520 want me to say rencon c street i like c street's a great spot i just don't want i don't want to blow

00:09:57.180 it up even more yeah i mean see it's on surf line yeah i know uh i don't are there are there like

00:10:06.140 secret spots in ventura there's no more secret spots anywhere not yeah maybe a couple in santa

00:10:13.200 barbara but you have to go up north ish ish anyways yeah uh okay maddie what about you my name is

00:10:21.780 madison i'm 19 years old i work for the whatever podcast i'm from san diego california i am also a

00:10:28.580 student at santa barbara city college studying business and communication

00:10:31.920 and my caucasian rachel wilson yes i am mrs andrew wilson but you guys can call me rachel

00:10:42.540 um i'm a mom i'm a researcher and author of this year book occult feminism secret history of 0.76

00:10:49.480 women's liberation i'm also a certified firearms instructor but most importantly the wife of the 1.00

00:10:56.260 infamous andrew wilson who was so good to unchain me from the stove long enough just to let me come

00:11:02.760 out here so thank you very much for having me good to have you good to have you glad we finally were

00:11:08.860 able to get you on uh what uh did you say age 43 43 all right all right so going around the table

00:11:19.300 once more we're gonna get everybody's relationship status so are you single talking stage relationship

00:11:26.960 situationship friendship it's married just gerald donated 69 dollars from the whole chat and every

00:11:34.780 viewer welcome to whatever mrs wilson there you go feminism blew my mind yo dane thank you man

00:11:41.440 appreciate it good to see you in the chat thank you buddy thank you buddy okay so uh relationship

00:11:47.080 status uh whatever it is if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest

00:11:53.180 relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead okay um it's very complicated

00:11:59.320 i'm in i guess a situation ship and i've been in this well a couple situationships for two to four

00:12:09.760 years so wait are you currently in a couple situationships like you're dating multiple guys at

00:12:16.900 the same time yes how many situationships are you currently in two you're in two okay uh have you

00:12:24.880 been in more previously yes what's the most you've been in at the same time oh oh like simultaneously

00:12:31.980 yeah this is the most this is the most yeah okay um and you've been seeing these two guys for how

00:12:39.700 long um one of them for four years and the other one for two two years yeah well almost two years have

00:12:47.420 you ever been exclusive with either of them or has it always been a relationship whatever fan donated

00:12:53.260 one hundred dollars contributing to the barbecue session with rachel for tonight pass the plates

00:12:59.920 around and let her cook all right whatever fan thank you man barbecue session yeah it's in the works

00:13:08.220 appreciate it dude um there's actually one more coming in so i'm gonna before i ask some

00:13:13.360 clarifying questions i'm gonna wait and let it come through couch underscore hopper underscore

00:13:18.640 outdoors donated sixty nine dollars appreciate it andrew gave me pizza yesterday also to the bro in 0.94

00:13:25.300 white are you a cuckold 0.96

00:13:27.500 no 1.00

00:13:31.600 are you supposed to be the bro

00:13:34.440 i guess

00:13:35.520 that's a that's a woman also i don't know

00:13:40.300 what that means

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00:13:47.280 dollars. My sprinkler goes

00:13:49.220 like this.

00:13:53.900 And comes back

00:13:59.220 like this.

00:14:02.640 Nice.

00:14:03.500 That's what a sprinkler 0.94

00:14:04.840 sounds like. Thank you.

00:14:06.960 Thank you very much. Okay. So wait.

00:14:09.060 Two situationships. One you've been seeing for four

00:14:11.140 years. One you've been seeing for two years. Do they

00:14:13.100 know about each other?

00:14:14.760 Yeah. Yeah.

00:14:16.580 Yeah. They actually

00:14:18.780 got into an argument

00:14:20.940 today. Wait, today?

00:14:24.560 Right before this. Somebody DM'd

00:14:26.860 me and said that

00:14:28.120 a girl who was going to be on the show today, he didn't

00:14:30.860 say who, has been cheating

00:14:33.000 on him.

00:14:34.880 But I don't know if that's you, but some guy DM'd

00:14:36.860 me. He's like, a girl who's going to be on the show today

00:14:39.100 who's coming on is my girlfriend 1.00

00:14:40.800 and she's been cheating on me. Sounds about right. 0.93

00:14:44.440 Yeah.

00:14:45.760 No.

00:14:46.580 Not me, but that's my best

00:14:48.480 friend, so.

00:14:52.540 Okay.

00:14:53.840 But you said, because

00:14:54.540 I'm saying that because you said they got, they got into a

00:14:56.860 He started it. He started what?

00:14:58.200 They both started it.

00:14:58.800 What'd they start?

00:14:59.280 He made it what it is.

00:15:01.440 Cheating.

00:15:01.720 They were cheating. The guys were cheating.

00:15:05.520 Yeah.

00:15:07.080 But I mean, you said it's been a situation.

00:15:08.300 I'm not going to be stupid, so I'm going to cheat back.

00:15:10.080 I'm a little confused, though, because I mean, you said that

00:15:12.060 it's never been exclusive at any point

00:15:13.900 in your relationship. You said you both categorize

00:15:16.220 them as situationships, right?

00:15:17.880 Well, I categorize them as

00:15:20.060 situationships because I feel like

00:15:22.020 they like to both play the field.

00:15:24.040 Okay.

00:15:28.000 Devon Jackson donated $69.

00:15:30.360 Hey, good to see you, Devon.

00:15:31.080 W and Rachel L. Feminism. 1.00

00:15:33.460 You want to say anything to Devon?

00:15:35.200 Hi, Devon. Thank you for the super chat.

00:15:38.780 Thank you, Devon. Appreciate it.

00:15:40.520 By the way, W's in the chat for Rachel's

00:15:42.920 pink. Look at the pink. 1.00

00:15:44.920 It looks good. I like the

00:15:45.840 people always wear like kind of more dull colors,

00:15:49.040 but I like the pink. It looks good

00:15:50.880 against the background. Anyways, okay.

00:15:52.600 So

00:15:52.960 they got into a fight, like a fist fight

00:15:56.440 in person or like a verbal? They want to.

00:15:58.420 They want to fight over you.

00:15:59.800 Does the winner

00:16:01.860 get you?

00:16:03.240 I think it's past that.

00:16:05.320 Nick, can you open the door?

00:16:06.180 It's just been

00:16:06.880 a bunch of disrespect from both

00:16:09.800 ends towards each other.

00:16:11.180 Towards each other.

00:16:12.080 For like the things that they've said.

00:16:14.220 One of them actually

00:16:15.440 pulled up to

00:16:17.160 the house that we were staying at.

00:16:22.020 Yeah.

00:16:23.200 Word.

00:16:24.200 The underscore bear underscore

00:16:25.740 in underscore the underscore

00:16:27.260 which donated $69.

00:16:29.800 Why you keep sending your

00:16:31.480 three hundred and fours

00:16:33.080 into the woods?

00:16:34.260 We don't want your

00:16:35.240 hose either.

00:16:36.640 First off, we use the term

00:16:38.240 strumpet.

00:16:39.740 Not three-o-fo. 1.00

00:16:41.040 We use strumpet

00:16:41.820 here at the

00:16:42.500 whatever podcast.

00:16:44.720 See, strumpet.

00:16:45.940 Strumpet.

00:16:46.700 Not three-o-fo. 1.00

00:16:47.760 Strumpet.

00:16:48.240 Okay.

00:16:50.360 We need a fun...

00:16:51.360 There's...

00:16:51.800 People have been sending me

00:16:52.780 so many of these

00:16:53.420 bear or man memes.

00:16:56.180 The poor bears.

00:16:57.000 Poor bears.

00:16:58.180 What do we do to the bears?

00:16:59.480 The bears are...

00:17:00.720 They're enjoying the free food though.

00:17:03.340 Okay.

00:17:05.500 So, okay.

00:17:06.240 They're fighting

00:17:07.060 between each other.

00:17:09.140 Yes.

00:17:12.420 Can I ask a question?

00:17:13.560 Yeah, go ahead.

00:17:14.320 So, if they are...

00:17:17.460 Like, why are they fighting

00:17:18.740 if they're mad that

00:17:19.740 you were cheating?

00:17:21.080 Like, why wouldn't they

00:17:21.780 just break it off?

00:17:22.920 Why would they want

00:17:23.540 to, like, fight more?

00:17:28.220 I think everybody's

00:17:29.300 delusional, including me.

00:17:32.120 Okay.

00:17:32.840 Good answer.

00:17:33.080 When you say you're

00:17:33.860 delusional, what do you mean?

00:17:37.340 Like, I want to be

00:17:39.920 a lover girl,

00:17:41.960 but it's hard

00:17:43.280 because

00:17:43.920 I just feel like

00:17:46.300 everybody just lies

00:17:48.180 a lot.

00:17:48.680 and

00:17:49.660 I feel like

00:17:50.800 including me,

00:17:51.480 I have

00:17:51.920 lied,

00:17:53.680 but

00:17:53.900 it's just...

00:17:58.000 It is...

00:17:59.000 Get pooped

00:18:00.380 donated

00:18:00.820 $69.

00:18:02.540 Why is

00:18:03.340 poopoo time

00:18:04.080 always

00:18:04.620 pee-pee time,

00:18:05.500 but pee-pee time

00:18:06.340 isn't always

00:18:07.020 poopoo time?

00:18:09.040 Actually,

00:18:09.700 a good question.

00:18:10.400 Wow.

00:18:10.800 That is

00:18:11.360 just some

00:18:12.840 high-tier

00:18:14.260 Thank you,

00:18:15.760 Get pooped. 0.70

00:18:16.480 Appreciate it.

00:18:17.660 We'll leave that

00:18:18.380 to the philosophers

00:18:19.300 and the academics

00:18:20.980 to figure out.

00:18:22.580 So,

00:18:23.040 okay.

00:18:24.600 So you lied,

00:18:25.760 they lied.

00:18:28.360 Now,

00:18:29.060 when it...

00:18:29.480 You said you were...

00:18:30.160 Dreamweaver

00:18:31.960 underscore beaver

00:18:33.060 donated

00:18:33.520 $69.

00:18:35.440 Haikus are easy, 1.00

00:18:36.940 but sometimes

00:18:37.800 they don't make sense.

00:18:39.940 Refrigerator.

00:18:40.540 We got another one

00:18:44.920 coming in,

00:18:45.400 so I'll preempt it,

00:18:47.260 but...

00:18:47.520 Refrigerator?

00:18:48.800 Haikus are... 1.00

00:18:49.800 Oh, was that a haiku?

00:18:50.600 Yeah, it was a haiku.

00:18:51.300 That was a haiku?

00:18:52.060 That was beautiful. 1.00

00:18:52.800 That's some Shakespeare shit. 0.98

00:18:54.360 Thank you, 0.99

00:18:54.920 Dreamweaver.

00:18:55.660 Dreamweaver beaver.

00:18:56.440 Dylan Lolly donated

00:18:57.540 $69.

00:18:59.220 Get these ladies 1.00

00:19:00.360 a pen and paper.

00:19:01.800 Rachel's about

00:19:02.520 to take Yarl to class.

00:19:04.080 To class?

00:19:04.480 Women choose 0.99

00:19:05.260 bear to make

00:19:06.000 everyone happy.

00:19:07.480 Bear eats.

00:19:08.460 Woman is believed 0.51

00:19:09.280 as the victim,

00:19:09.980 and the man

00:19:10.860 avoids a false accusation.

00:19:12.820 We have another one

00:19:13.680 coming in.

00:19:14.240 Dylan, thank you, man,

00:19:15.120 for the TTS.

00:19:16.120 Appreciate it.

00:19:16.540 Thank you, Dylan.

00:19:17.860 Thank you, sir.

00:19:18.900 You are a legend

00:19:19.800 and a scholar.

00:19:21.440 Rachel underscore

00:19:22.300 is underscore

00:19:23.120 mammy donated

00:19:24.020 $69.

00:19:25.860 Holy sheet.

00:19:27.400 No wonder

00:19:27.960 Andrew is always

00:19:29.080 in a good mood.

00:19:30.280 Look at his wife. 0.69

00:19:32.020 Holy eek,

00:19:32.720 he's on all

00:19:33.200 of the bikies. 1.00

00:19:34.580 What are red flags

00:19:35.520 you all have ignored

00:19:36.460 in the past

00:19:37.120 that you absolutely

00:19:38.200 shouldn't have?

00:19:39.060 Is that directed

00:19:42.520 towards you, Rachel,

00:19:43.940 or the whole panel?

00:19:44.440 I don't know.

00:19:44.880 What is it?

00:19:46.780 What are red flags

00:19:47.780 you all have ignored

00:19:48.460 in the past

00:19:49.220 that you absolutely

00:19:50.340 shouldn't have?

00:19:51.740 So Rachel is mommy. 0.77

00:19:52.840 I'm going to write

00:19:53.360 that down,

00:19:54.760 and we'll ask that

00:19:56.220 a little later on

00:19:57.120 in the show

00:19:57.640 just until we get

00:19:58.860 through the relationship

00:19:59.780 status stuff.

00:20:00.820 No simping, guys.

00:20:01.840 Thanks for the super chat.

00:20:02.840 Stop simping.

00:20:04.020 Red flags ignored.

00:20:08.140 Okay.

00:20:09.760 So,

00:20:11.040 on a,

00:20:13.860 in an average week

00:20:14.760 or average month,

00:20:15.800 so you were seeing

00:20:16.540 two guys at the same time,

00:20:17.820 two situationships, 0.99

00:20:18.940 how often would you be

00:20:20.360 seeing each of them?

00:20:21.420 Like,

00:20:21.700 one time per week

00:20:23.200 each,

00:20:23.700 basically?

00:20:24.440 No,

00:20:24.940 it would be like,

00:20:26.340 I'll be dealing

00:20:27.020 with one person,

00:20:28.000 and then we'll get

00:20:28.940 into it,

00:20:29.540 and I'll find out

00:20:30.140 about something,

00:20:30.780 and then I will go

00:20:31.880 to the next person

00:20:33.420 that I was dealing with

00:20:34.800 and then be dealing

00:20:35.380 with them.

00:20:36.560 When you say

00:20:37.260 dealing with them,

00:20:38.080 do you mean like,

00:20:38.840 you would,

00:20:39.900 what do you mean

00:20:40.820 dealing with?

00:20:41.560 Bevo underscore

00:20:42.340 the underscore

00:20:43.160 cup donated

00:20:44.000 $69.

00:20:45.800 Hey,

00:20:46.360 Brian,

00:20:47.060 when you going

00:20:47.640 to have some guys

00:20:48.640 on that I can

00:20:49.360 farm my wife out to?

00:20:51.220 She's looking

00:20:51.840 for a good gang bang. 0.99

00:20:54.420 Oh,

00:20:54.920 this is,

00:20:55.460 okay,

00:20:56.100 you're role playing

00:20:56.700 as Bevo.

00:20:57.540 Q's coming 1.00

00:21:00.960 next week.

00:21:01.780 We have

00:21:01.980 Jaquan

00:21:04.060 coming

00:21:05.580 next week.

00:21:06.580 Nick Carino

00:21:07.060 for donated

00:21:07.980 $69.

00:21:09.640 Yo,

00:21:09.860 thank you,

00:21:10.240 Nick.

00:21:10.260 Long time watcher

00:21:11.020 of both the Crucible

00:21:11.880 and WhateverPod.

00:21:13.000 We've gotten more

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00:21:13.740 Big shout out

00:21:14.240 to Rachel Wilson.

00:21:15.380 We're going to have

00:21:15.680 to boost it soon.

00:21:19.280 All right,

00:21:19.940 Nick,

00:21:20.160 thank you,

00:21:20.500 man,

00:21:20.620 appreciate it.

00:21:21.920 And then we have

00:21:22.920 Ripped Rich and Rare

00:21:24.040 about to come in.

00:21:25.380 Nick,

00:21:25.580 you can hide that.

00:21:27.040 It's about to come in.

00:21:29.040 Thank you,

00:21:29.600 Nick,

00:21:29.820 appreciate it.

00:21:31.600 Ripped Rich and Rare

00:21:32.580 donated $69.

00:21:33.680 This is a song,

00:21:34.240 by the way.

00:21:35.040 You let him hit it raw.

00:21:36.680 You didn't have

00:21:37.280 second thoughts.

00:21:38.440 Now you're a single mom. 1.00

00:21:40.180 Now you're a single mom. 1.00

00:21:41.820 You said I'm

00:21:42.520 going to have his kids.

00:21:43.660 Don't care if he's here

00:21:44.840 or not.

00:21:45.640 Now you're a single mom. 1.00

00:21:49.020 Word?

00:21:49.720 Touche.

00:21:50.580 Well put.

00:21:50.840 Those are songs.

00:21:51.480 Well put.

00:21:52.280 Thank you.

00:21:52.880 Thank you for that.

00:21:53.680 Appreciate it.

00:21:54.240 Okay,

00:21:54.500 so,

00:21:54.840 try to get through this.

00:22:01.540 You're currently in

00:22:02.480 two situationships. 0.98

00:22:03.780 One you've been seeing

00:22:04.300 for four years,

00:22:04.960 one you've been seeing

00:22:05.420 for two years.

00:22:06.180 They know about each other.

00:22:07.500 They're fighting.

00:22:09.360 In that,

00:22:10.300 in the four-year period,

00:22:11.420 the two-year period,

00:22:12.160 I'm assuming like,

00:22:13.220 have other guys

00:22:14.240 come into the picture,

00:22:15.840 come into the picture,

00:22:16.880 gone out of the picture?

00:22:18.580 Um,

00:22:18.860 no.

00:22:20.540 So you,

00:22:21.080 so you're 24.

00:22:22.520 From 20 to 24,

00:22:23.660 you've only been seeing

00:22:25.080 these two guys.

00:22:26.080 Is that correct?

00:22:27.380 Um,

00:22:28.420 well,

00:22:29.040 technically one of them,

00:22:30.880 but,

00:22:31.560 so I guess from 22 to 24,

00:22:33.860 I was seeing another one

00:22:35.940 and that's when it overlapped.

00:22:37.380 But I'm saying like,

00:22:38.660 there weren't even,

00:22:40.080 like any other people

00:22:41.240 coming into the picture

00:22:42.060 at all?

00:22:43.140 Mm-mm.

00:22:43.860 Um,

00:22:44.420 before...

00:22:44.840 I'm talking like even

00:22:45.620 just a one-time casual thing.

00:22:48.160 No.

00:22:49.180 Okay.

00:22:49.780 So two dudes...

00:22:51.160 Like,

00:22:51.760 gone on dates,

00:22:52.860 but not like,

00:22:54.600 like,

00:22:55.720 one-night's thing.

00:22:56.260 Like hookups?

00:22:56.960 Yeah, no.

00:22:57.260 Okay.

00:22:58.260 All right.

00:22:59.340 So,

00:23:00.400 why haven't you,

00:23:01.800 like,

00:23:02.000 have you not been desirous

00:23:03.320 of having a long-term relationship

00:23:04.820 with either of these guys?

00:23:07.200 I have.

00:23:08.500 I,

00:23:08.780 I wanted to,

00:23:09.460 but things just got

00:23:10.640 really complicated

00:23:11.520 just because of a lot

00:23:12.540 of the stuff

00:23:13.040 that they would do

00:23:13.920 and,

00:23:15.160 um,

00:23:16.140 like bring up.

00:23:17.160 like,

00:23:19.680 just,

00:23:21.500 I,

00:23:22.500 just,

00:23:22.840 it's just like

00:23:23.380 a lot of disrespect

00:23:24.300 that has happened.

00:23:27.620 Like being disrespectful

00:23:28.880 to the relationship

00:23:29.700 and just cheating

00:23:31.200 a lot,

00:23:32.520 notoriously,

00:23:33.580 and dealing with exes

00:23:35.840 and just having stuff

00:23:37.400 be really messy

00:23:38.140 to the point where,

00:23:39.200 like,

00:23:39.800 my parents are getting involved,

00:23:41.460 they're messaging my parents

00:23:42.520 and things like that,

00:23:44.060 and I've had

00:23:47.400 a couple

00:23:48.520 abortions

00:23:50.120 because,

00:23:52.080 like,

00:23:52.500 it was,

00:23:53.180 yeah,

00:23:53.580 just a lot of stuff.

00:23:55.500 I don't know if

00:23:56.340 I was allowed to say

00:23:57.440 that word.

00:23:57.920 No,

00:23:58.080 you can,

00:23:58.480 that's totally fine.

00:24:00.260 Uh,

00:24:00.680 okay.

00:24:01.400 Grid One Motorsports

00:24:02.600 donated $69.

00:24:04.940 Mrs. Wilson,

00:24:06.320 welcome to whatever.

00:24:07.720 Please,

00:24:08.600 while I know you

00:24:09.320 will be tempted,

00:24:10.540 show no mercy.

00:24:11.960 The patriarchy

00:24:12.780 supports you

00:24:13.600 in these endeavors

00:24:14.480 and respects

00:24:15.480 all your effort.

00:24:17.180 Respect.

00:24:17.500 Thank you,

00:24:19.760 Grid One.

00:24:20.060 Yeah,

00:24:20.200 good to see you

00:24:20.580 in the chat,

00:24:20.980 Grid One.

00:24:21.360 Appreciate it,

00:24:21.820 man.

00:24:23.180 Okay,

00:24:23.660 so hold on,

00:24:24.200 this is,

00:24:24.700 at any point

00:24:25.300 in the four years

00:24:26.460 or whatever,

00:24:27.220 did you ever call

00:24:28.080 either of these guys

00:24:28.840 your boyfriend?

00:24:29.980 Yeah.

00:24:30.980 Okay,

00:24:31.320 but you said

00:24:31.680 it was a situation,

00:24:32.520 it's been situationships

00:24:33.700 the entire time.

00:24:35.520 Um,

00:24:37.000 I would say

00:24:38.080 for the first one,

00:24:39.420 it didn't start off

00:24:40.600 like,

00:24:41.460 like,

00:24:42.000 no,

00:24:42.280 it did start off

00:24:42.960 like a situationship

00:24:43.920 and then it grew

00:24:44.620 into,

00:24:45.400 like,

00:24:46.200 we're in a relationship

00:24:47.040 and we defined

00:24:47.780 what it was,

00:24:48.700 but I call it

00:24:49.900 a situationship

00:24:50.960 because I don't feel

00:24:52.420 like he was ever

00:24:53.380 treating it like

00:24:54.220 a relationship

00:24:55.160 even when he did

00:24:56.380 define the relationship.

00:24:59.000 It just wasn't like that

00:25:00.400 because his actions

00:25:01.320 were not

00:25:03.380 lining up with

00:25:05.140 his words.

00:25:06.320 Were you guys,

00:25:07.140 like,

00:25:07.640 exclusive at this point

00:25:08.700 or was there still

00:25:09.720 multiple people involved?

00:25:11.180 We were supposed

00:25:11.780 to be exclusive,

00:25:13.420 so there was no

00:25:14.160 exclusivity on his

00:25:15.740 end,

00:25:16.720 so that's when

00:25:17.640 I was like,

00:25:18.140 okay,

00:25:18.280 well,

00:25:18.380 I'm not just

00:25:18.820 going to continue

00:25:19.460 to sit here

00:25:20.240 and be played

00:25:21.880 by somebody.

00:25:23.720 But you kept

00:25:24.480 dating him.

00:25:25.780 Yeah.

00:25:27.120 Why,

00:25:27.660 why did you decide

00:25:28.740 to keep dating him

00:25:29.620 if he was cheating?

00:25:30.780 Because I'm delusional.

00:25:32.980 Fair enough.

00:25:34.060 Fair enough.

00:25:35.020 That just seems

00:25:35.560 like a lot of work

00:25:37.140 and, like,

00:25:38.340 mental stress.

00:25:39.800 I don't know, man.

00:25:40.740 That sounds

00:25:41.740 like a lot of work.

00:25:43.060 She's right.

00:25:44.040 Sounds like a lot

00:25:44.880 of work.

00:25:45.500 It is.

00:25:46.460 So, okay,

00:25:47.260 but just to be clear,

00:25:48.300 so you're currently

00:25:48.760 in two situationships.

00:25:50.420 When you said

00:25:51.100 that there's overlap,

00:25:52.280 for example,

00:25:53.000 would you see,

00:25:53.800 would you see

00:25:54.860 Bobby on Wednesday

00:25:55.980 and Trevor on Friday?

00:25:59.800 No,

00:26:00.340 it wouldn't go like that.

00:26:01.360 It was more so,

00:26:02.260 like,

00:26:02.820 as soon as I'm,

00:26:04.880 like,

00:26:05.160 I find out about

00:26:06.140 something from one person,

00:26:07.540 because it's more so,

00:26:08.320 like,

00:26:08.420 on and off.

00:26:09.700 So,

00:26:10.040 as soon as I find out

00:26:11.060 about something

00:26:11.600 that one person did,

00:26:12.540 then I'm,

00:26:12.880 like,

00:26:13.000 okay,

00:26:13.300 I'm done with you

00:26:14.060 at this moment,

00:26:15.400 and I'm gonna go

00:26:16.220 and be with the other person.

00:26:17.200 Okay,

00:26:17.560 in a 24-hour period,

00:26:19.700 have you ever

00:26:20.360 hung out

00:26:21.180 with both of them?

00:26:24.480 Yeah.

00:26:26.460 In a 24-hour period,

00:26:27.960 have you ever had

00:26:29.080 carnal knowledge

00:26:30.120 of both of them?

00:26:33.360 What is

00:26:34.000 carnal knowledge?

00:26:36.000 Physical

00:26:36.400 interrelations

00:26:38.160 of some kind.

00:26:39.720 Sexual relations. 0.96

00:26:40.340 I'll wait to the next day.

00:26:41.280 Sexual relations. 0.96

00:26:42.180 You'd wait,

00:26:43.160 you'd be polite,

00:26:44.400 considerate,

00:26:45.280 wait till the next,

00:26:46.100 you know.

00:26:46.540 Oh my god,

00:26:47.180 y'all,

00:26:47.360 this is so good.

00:26:48.180 Like,

00:26:48.200 12 hours.

00:26:49.420 Okay,

00:26:49.780 okay,

00:26:49.940 did you take a shower

00:26:50.980 in between?

00:26:52.020 I'm just kidding.

00:26:52.360 Yes.

00:26:53.900 All right.

00:26:54.600 Good for you.

00:26:55.560 All right,

00:26:56.040 good times.

00:26:56.540 Okay,

00:26:56.780 so,

00:26:57.900 maybe we'll come back to,

00:26:58.760 you know,

00:26:58.780 protection is awesome.

00:26:59.600 Of course.

00:27:00.840 All right,

00:27:01.700 well,

00:27:01.920 maybe we'll come back to that

00:27:02.820 a little later on

00:27:03.720 in the show.

00:27:04.880 What about you?

00:27:07.400 What was the question again?

00:27:09.060 It's been a minute.

00:27:10.280 Relationship status?

00:27:12.540 So,

00:27:13.040 yeah,

00:27:13.220 single.

00:27:14.000 Single,

00:27:14.640 okay.

00:27:15.280 Orientation?

00:27:16.100 Bye.

00:27:16.700 Bye,

00:27:17.080 okay.

00:27:17.840 Do you,

00:27:18.260 is it like the pretty 50-50 split there

00:27:20.320 or do you more so date women,

00:27:22.120 more so date men?

00:27:23.440 I mean,

00:27:24.160 hard to say.

00:27:24.980 I was in a relationship for a while

00:27:27.620 that was with a guy,

00:27:28.360 so I'm only now really getting to experience.

00:27:31.620 The ladies? 0.98

00:27:32.540 Okay.

00:27:33.580 How long,

00:27:34.180 longest relationship?

00:27:35.820 Nearly three years.

00:27:36.960 Three years?

00:27:37.440 Is that your most recent one?

00:27:38.540 Yeah.

00:27:39.160 When did it end?

00:27:40.200 Like seven months ago?

00:27:41.440 Seven months ago.

00:27:42.180 Who ended it?

00:27:42.920 Me.

00:27:44.120 Skeezer underscore aversion 1.00

00:27:45.680 donated $69.

00:27:48.180 This skeezer's coochie 1.00

00:27:49.520 is a graveyard, 0.84

00:27:50.640 a few abortions.

00:27:52.220 That's insane. 1.00

00:27:53.780 Murdering your offspring 1.00

00:27:54.880 instead of taking responsibility 1.00

00:27:56.840 for your poor choices.

00:27:58.520 Oh.

00:27:58.760 Fellas,

00:27:59.580 protect your seed.

00:28:00.760 Well,

00:28:01.860 like I said,

00:28:02.460 I didn't want to.

00:28:03.780 It was something that I had to,

00:28:06.400 but that's another conversation.

00:28:09.780 Okay.

00:28:10.480 And then coming back to you,

00:28:13.280 so you've been single for seven months.

00:28:16.260 You said you ended the relationship?

00:28:18.060 I did.

00:28:18.440 Why is that?

00:28:18.860 A lot of things.

00:28:24.260 Again,

00:28:24.740 talk about disrespect

00:28:25.920 in the relationship.

00:28:29.040 And,

00:28:29.600 I mean,

00:28:30.260 we had been arguing for,

00:28:31.420 I mean,

00:28:31.600 a good two years

00:28:32.540 of that relationship.

00:28:34.000 It was like,

00:28:34.700 why are we still doing this?

00:28:36.000 And then last year was,

00:28:37.680 hands down,

00:28:38.200 the hardest year of my life,

00:28:39.580 and I wasn't getting

00:28:40.940 the support I needed.

00:28:41.780 And so I thought,

00:28:43.300 you know,

00:28:44.420 if this is somebody

00:28:45.420 I want to spend

00:28:45.860 the rest of my life with,

00:28:48.140 there's going to be

00:28:49.340 harder times in my life

00:28:50.520 than this.

00:28:51.380 And if I'm not getting

00:28:52.100 the support now,

00:28:53.200 why do I want that

00:28:54.180 in the future?

00:28:56.500 Okay.

00:28:57.860 What were,

00:28:58.680 you said there was

00:28:59.160 some disrespect.

00:29:00.520 By the way,

00:29:01.120 we're going to,

00:29:02.000 we're bumping the TTS up,

00:29:03.440 guys,

00:29:03.900 so it's just back up

00:29:04.960 to the normal.

00:29:05.580 We're going to do

00:29:06.120 100 read,

00:29:07.640 200 TTS.

00:29:08.980 What was the disrespect?

00:29:11.780 For one thing,

00:29:13.340 I got DM messages

00:29:15.760 from other girls 0.75

00:29:17.220 who had gotten

00:29:18.900 messages from him.

00:29:20.400 And I had seen

00:29:22.840 some of those

00:29:23.360 on his phone as well.

00:29:25.100 And I know 0.53

00:29:26.300 he kissed a stripper. 0.81

00:29:28.400 And, uh...

00:29:29.360 What?

00:29:30.620 Yeah.

00:29:31.500 Kissed a stripper?

00:29:32.340 Mm-hmm.

00:29:32.860 Spearmint Rhino?

00:29:38.000 Was that where?

00:29:39.940 No, I mean,

00:29:40.960 I wasn't there

00:29:41.840 when it happened.

00:29:42.680 Oh, okay.

00:29:43.400 I mean...

00:29:44.240 I've heard of that place.

00:29:46.100 Yeah.

00:29:46.340 We have one

00:29:47.040 in Santa Barbara.

00:29:47.700 I did not know that,

00:29:48.620 so...

00:29:48.860 We also have one

00:29:49.520 in Santa Monica.

00:29:50.620 Okay, okay.

00:29:51.480 Yeah, no, uh...

00:29:53.140 Yeah, I was at work

00:29:54.240 and that happened.

00:29:55.080 So he was cheating,

00:29:55.700 basically.

00:29:56.940 Yeah, yeah.

00:29:57.960 Okay.

00:29:58.700 Good times?

00:29:59.340 Yeah.

00:29:59.780 I mean, I could never,

00:30:00.780 of course, confirm

00:30:01.540 if he actually went

00:30:02.320 to those girls' places, but... 0.93

00:30:03.780 Prior to this relationship

00:30:05.200 with him,

00:30:05.700 did you date any girls

00:30:07.060 or have any romantic

00:30:08.620 or sexual relationships

00:30:09.740 with any women?

00:30:11.180 No, I mean,

00:30:11.900 I was always into them,

00:30:12.840 but, uh...

00:30:13.400 It just never happened?

00:30:14.160 Yeah.

00:30:14.680 Okay, but...

00:30:16.060 Post your three-year relationship,

00:30:17.720 you have had some...

00:30:18.700 Mm-hmm.

00:30:19.660 ...relationships with women

00:30:20.580 or short-term...

00:30:21.820 I wouldn't say relationships,

00:30:22.940 but I've definitely

00:30:23.380 been involved, yeah.

00:30:24.420 Okay.

00:30:25.480 All right.

00:30:26.460 And do you have, like,

00:30:27.040 a...

00:30:27.380 I know you said you're bi,

00:30:28.160 but do you, like,

00:30:28.620 have a preference

00:30:29.300 more so towards men, women,

00:30:30.840 or...

00:30:31.920 About the same?

00:30:33.380 Eh, about the same.

00:30:35.300 About the same.

00:30:36.020 Okay.

00:30:36.180 Are you currently seeing...

00:30:37.240 Oral, you said

00:30:37.720 you're single, right?

00:30:38.680 Mm-hmm.

00:30:39.160 But is there anybody

00:30:40.000 in the picture?

00:30:40.780 Even anything?

00:30:41.900 I mean, I'm going on dates.

00:30:44.040 You got...

00:30:44.380 Because I feel like

00:30:44.880 you got riz.

00:30:46.120 Well, thank you.

00:30:47.780 I try.

00:30:48.980 So, like,

00:30:49.620 you probably got, like,

00:30:50.460 a roster, right?

00:30:51.840 I mean...

00:30:52.800 Like, you got...

00:30:53.420 There's the lot of people

00:30:54.060 on the dating apps.

00:30:55.660 You got, like, 0.97

00:30:56.760 side pieces and shit, right? 0.99

00:30:58.340 Sure, sure. 0.99

00:31:00.040 Like, you just...

00:31:01.180 Will go on a date

00:31:02.760 and just bust out

00:31:03.760 some opera and...

00:31:05.260 It's like a...

00:31:06.500 It's a done deal, right?

00:31:07.720 It's like a...

00:31:08.300 Oh, yeah.

00:31:08.480 That's really what gets them.

00:31:09.700 Yeah.

00:31:10.120 No.

00:31:11.840 Yeah.

00:31:12.340 I mean, there's some people.

00:31:13.600 Okay.

00:31:14.680 So, you do have a roster,

00:31:16.120 then, currently, or...?

00:31:17.640 I mean,

00:31:18.280 I want to say

00:31:19.200 there's only, like,

00:31:20.740 a handful.

00:31:21.400 Not, like...

00:31:21.700 No, it's not even a full hand.

00:31:22.780 So, like, three?

00:31:23.560 Yeah.

00:31:23.980 Three, four? 0.63

00:31:24.740 Yeah, maybe...

00:31:25.060 Talking...

00:31:25.760 How many girls currently? 1.00

00:31:27.320 Not as many as you think.

00:31:28.220 They're harder to talk to.

00:31:29.500 It's a little harder.

00:31:30.380 Okay.

00:31:30.620 Yeah, yeah.

00:31:32.520 Wait, what?

00:31:34.380 I just said facts.

00:31:35.500 Oh, okay.

00:31:37.900 So, like,

00:31:38.580 would you say

00:31:38.980 you're currently

00:31:39.500 kind of, like,

00:31:40.340 talking stage,

00:31:41.280 like, maybe two girls,

00:31:42.420 two guys?

00:31:43.020 Something like that?

00:31:43.700 I'm going to say

00:31:44.020 there's, like, one girl.

00:31:45.100 One girl?

00:31:46.540 One guy?

00:31:47.760 Two guys, maybe?

00:31:49.260 Two guys, maybe?

00:31:49.980 Well, because some are, like,

00:31:50.820 in the starting stages

00:31:51.700 of, like, maybe.

00:31:53.180 Yeah.

00:31:53.380 Are you poly?

00:31:55.160 No.

00:31:55.920 Okay.

00:31:56.440 So, you would be desirous

00:31:57.760 of a monogamous relationship?

00:31:59.480 Yeah.

00:32:00.080 Okay.

00:32:00.660 And do you currently

00:32:01.400 want a relationship

00:32:02.100 or are you kind of happy

00:32:02.840 to keep things

00:32:03.420 a bit more casual

00:32:04.360 for the time being?

00:32:05.200 I think

00:32:06.360 it's getting to that point

00:32:08.080 where I might

00:32:09.060 want to get more serious,

00:32:11.460 but I'm just kind of

00:32:12.860 going with the flow.

00:32:13.460 If it feels right,

00:32:13.980 it feels right.

00:32:14.440 I don't want any expectations

00:32:15.700 with anybody, you know?

00:32:16.980 I don't want to force

00:32:17.700 the expectation of

00:32:18.860 we're going to get

00:32:19.400 in a relationship.

00:32:20.260 That just feels weird.

00:32:21.580 Okay.

00:32:22.400 Yeah.

00:32:22.960 All right.

00:32:23.760 What about you?

00:32:24.920 I am currently single.

00:32:26.440 I just got out

00:32:26.980 of a toxic relationship.

00:32:28.340 My longest relationship

00:32:29.280 is five years,

00:32:30.760 but the last relationship

00:32:31.620 was, say, three and a half.

00:32:34.740 When did your last

00:32:35.900 relationship end?

00:32:37.380 Let's say, like, December.

00:32:40.500 So, six, seven months ago?

00:32:43.220 Yeah.

00:32:44.040 And that was the

00:32:44.820 3.5-year relationship?

00:32:46.540 Yep.

00:32:46.860 Who ended it?

00:32:48.480 Hmm.

00:32:49.520 I did first,

00:32:50.660 but then we lived together.

00:32:52.100 Oh, was it on again,

00:32:52.600 off again?

00:32:52.980 Oh, okay.

00:32:53.340 Yeah, we lived together,

00:32:54.300 and I think we were

00:32:55.180 still trying to make it work,

00:32:56.040 and then he agreed, so.

00:32:58.720 To the breakup?

00:32:59.720 Yeah.

00:33:00.120 Okay.

00:33:00.560 He didn't accept it

00:33:01.200 at first, but.

00:33:02.460 So, who ended it first?

00:33:03.840 I did.

00:33:04.560 Why?

00:33:07.100 Because he was

00:33:07.940 super controlling,

00:33:08.860 and he would fill

00:33:09.960 every space that I was in

00:33:11.480 with negative energy.

00:33:13.980 Everywhere I was.

00:33:14.420 When you say

00:33:14.720 super controlling,

00:33:15.700 what are some examples

00:33:17.120 of that?

00:33:17.560 Didn't want me

00:33:19.680 to do music.

00:33:20.900 Mm-hmm.

00:33:22.180 Didn't want me

00:33:22.700 to hang out,

00:33:23.260 didn't want me

00:33:23.520 to go outside,

00:33:24.160 didn't like any

00:33:24.580 of my friends,

00:33:25.180 kind of isolated me

00:33:25.960 a little bit,

00:33:27.560 even from family

00:33:28.380 a little bit.

00:33:29.900 When you say

00:33:30.540 didn't want you

00:33:32.000 to go out,

00:33:32.540 do you mean,

00:33:32.940 like, bars and clubs?

00:33:34.120 Yeah,

00:33:34.500 but he also

00:33:35.020 didn't want to go out,

00:33:35.680 like, with me either.

00:33:36.780 Like, he really

00:33:37.260 didn't enjoy outside either,

00:33:38.600 but I did, so.

00:33:40.120 When you say,

00:33:40.660 so when you're saying

00:33:41.240 outside,

00:33:41.660 you mean, like,

00:33:42.480 out partying?

00:33:43.300 Yeah, like,

00:33:43.860 even just, like,

00:33:44.540 doing stuff, like.

00:33:46.200 Like, going for a hike?

00:33:47.940 Let's say, like,

00:33:48.440 I want to take a trip

00:33:49.200 or I want to, like,

00:33:49.980 we've taken trips

00:33:50.680 and we went to the clubs.

00:33:52.660 He loved the strip club.

00:33:54.080 He loved the strip club.

00:33:55.440 Okay, so, crazy enough,

00:33:57.040 I loved the strip club as well

00:33:58.260 and I introduced him

00:33:59.120 to the strip club.

00:34:00.180 Did you used to dance?

00:34:01.780 No, never danced.

00:34:03.280 But I love girls as well.

00:34:04.760 Oh, okay.

00:34:05.460 Your orientation?

00:34:07.200 Bye.

00:34:07.760 Bye, okay.

00:34:09.020 I want to marry a man 0.99

00:34:09.860 and I like girls 0.99

00:34:11.320 for poly situations.

00:34:13.160 You like women 0.92

00:34:13.780 for poly situations?

00:34:14.920 Yes.

00:34:15.200 Okay.

00:34:15.700 Have you had that before?

00:34:16.860 Yes.

00:34:17.820 Okay.

00:34:18.900 Have you,

00:34:19.480 because you said

00:34:19.960 you were living together

00:34:20.920 with your ex,

00:34:21.960 have you ever lived

00:34:23.080 in a poly situation?

00:34:24.780 For about two months.

00:34:26.740 What was it?

00:34:27.600 Like, what was the arrangement?

00:34:29.540 Well, it was me

00:34:30.400 and my ex

00:34:31.280 and then we brought in

00:34:32.640 a friend of mine

00:34:34.280 and it was pretty good

00:34:36.280 except on his end

00:34:37.440 he kind of got jealous,

00:34:39.300 the key.

00:34:40.020 So, we were spending

00:34:40.660 a lot of time together,

00:34:41.340 me and the girl

00:34:41.780 and then he didn't like that.

00:34:44.140 He didn't really like her

00:34:44.840 too much in the first place,

00:34:45.800 but.

00:34:46.660 Can I ask why you said

00:34:47.820 you want to marry a man? 0.98

00:34:49.400 Yeah,

00:34:49.940 because I do believe

00:34:51.420 in having a man

00:34:52.540 that's like the leader

00:34:53.100 of a household

00:34:53.640 but I also like

00:34:55.040 want me and my girlfriend

00:34:56.980 or my like,

00:34:58.620 I don't know,

00:35:00.180 I'm not sure

00:35:00.740 if I do the

00:35:01.400 wife situation.

00:35:04.080 Maybe for the right person

00:35:05.120 but I'd like to have fun.

00:35:07.440 I don't want to be stuck

00:35:08.040 to one person

00:35:08.640 for the rest of my life

00:35:09.340 and just.

00:35:09.920 So, then what's the point

00:35:10.860 of marriage?

00:35:11.660 Like, what do you think

00:35:12.120 marriage is for?

00:35:13.160 Well, I think that it's

00:35:13.780 sharing a life,

00:35:15.000 a partner.

00:35:17.000 But if you're sharing

00:35:18.220 your partner,

00:35:18.880 then what's the point?

00:35:21.720 I feel like if me

00:35:22.500 and my partner

00:35:22.860 are locked in enough

00:35:23.760 that it,

00:35:25.080 and there's nothing

00:35:25.580 that could shake us,

00:35:26.520 another person

00:35:27.180 wouldn't be able

00:35:28.040 to affect that.

00:35:29.120 What about kids

00:35:29.980 in a situation like that?

00:35:31.440 So, this is what

00:35:31.940 I think about as well.

00:35:32.660 I'm not opposed

00:35:35.420 to living

00:35:35.840 an alternative life

00:35:36.820 and explaining

00:35:37.300 to my kids

00:35:37.980 and I feel like

00:35:39.400 at the end of the day

00:35:40.520 you have your family

00:35:41.100 that comes in

00:35:41.640 no matter if you have

00:35:42.260 like an auntie

00:35:42.820 or uncle

00:35:43.120 or somebody

00:35:43.480 that comes in

00:35:44.020 and has influence

00:35:44.660 so it's like

00:35:45.280 as long as the influence

00:35:46.140 isn't negative

00:35:47.020 I think it'd be okay.

00:35:49.680 Okay.

00:35:50.600 We may have some

00:35:51.420 follow-ups for that later

00:35:52.580 but yeah.

00:35:53.840 I'm still figuring it out

00:35:54.700 so.

00:35:56.400 Relationship status?

00:35:57.500 Yeah, I'm married.

00:35:58.620 I've been married

00:35:59.120 for four years

00:36:00.560 as of like two weeks ago

00:36:02.240 and I

00:36:03.500 my longest relationship

00:36:04.500 is with my husband

00:36:05.340 we've been together

00:36:06.040 for seven years.

00:36:07.880 Seven years, okay.

00:36:09.020 So, were you guys

00:36:09.700 high school sweethearts? 0.88

00:36:10.760 We were.

00:36:11.740 Okay.

00:36:13.080 And

00:36:13.520 let me just check

00:36:14.920 my notes here

00:36:15.800 but you have dated

00:36:18.660 other people

00:36:19.280 in the past, right?

00:36:20.280 Yeah, yeah I have.

00:36:21.520 So, I mean

00:36:23.060 my husband

00:36:25.320 was like my first

00:36:26.260 serious relationship

00:36:27.420 but I definitely

00:36:29.200 dated

00:36:30.320 and

00:36:31.320 kissed other guys

00:36:34.680 in high school

00:36:35.340 but

00:36:36.340 I was never

00:36:37.400 in like

00:36:37.820 an official relationship

00:36:39.060 with anyone

00:36:39.600 and my lifestyle

00:36:40.860 before I met

00:36:41.580 my husband

00:36:41.960 was also very different.

00:36:45.220 What

00:36:45.360 are you Mormon?

00:36:48.060 I am.

00:36:49.080 I am a member

00:36:49.620 of the Church of Jesus Christ.

00:36:51.000 Yeah.

00:36:51.200 We actually don't

00:36:52.320 prefer to be called Mormons.

00:36:54.020 It changed.

00:36:54.880 Well, it's just

00:36:55.820 it's a derogatory term

00:36:57.500 that was actually

00:36:58.000 given to us

00:36:58.540 by people

00:36:59.100 Wait, is it?

00:37:00.380 Yeah, I mean

00:37:01.140 it was given

00:37:02.020 by people who persecuted

00:37:03.580 like the early saints

00:37:04.620 of our church

00:37:05.260 so we prefer to be called

00:37:07.060 like members of the church.

00:37:07.380 But didn't Mormons 1.00

00:37:07.560 self-identify as Mormons?

00:37:09.300 I mean, yeah

00:37:09.740 we kind of accepted it

00:37:10.920 at some point

00:37:11.540 like we were like

00:37:12.120 yeah, you can call us Mormon

00:37:13.100 like we're Mormons

00:37:13.820 but we don't like

00:37:14.580 to be called Mormons now.

00:37:16.320 Now?

00:37:17.140 Yeah, we don't.

00:37:18.240 When did that

00:37:18.960 I feel like

00:37:19.540 2018.

00:37:20.960 Mormons called themselves Mormons.

00:37:22.960 2018.

00:37:23.900 That was the switch?

00:37:25.660 Yeah.

00:37:25.860 Are you aware of this, Rachel?

00:37:26.740 This switcheroo?

00:37:28.100 Okay.

00:37:28.520 No.

00:37:29.180 I mean, I hear them

00:37:30.320 call themselves LDS

00:37:31.560 or

00:37:32.180 Yeah, that is a

00:37:33.440 mainstream LDS

00:37:34.360 or like fundamental

00:37:35.160 or

00:37:35.720 Oh, no, I'm like

00:37:36.840 Church of Jesus Christ

00:37:38.100 of Latter-day Saints

00:37:38.840 so not fundamentalist

00:37:40.080 nothing like that.

00:37:40.860 Yeah.

00:37:41.160 Okay.

00:37:41.500 So, is it a slur

00:37:45.440 to call somebody a Mormon?

00:37:47.240 I mean, define slur

00:37:48.080 it's just like

00:37:48.860 You said it was derogatory

00:37:50.060 I think

00:37:50.380 Yeah, the word I use

00:37:51.660 is derogatory

00:37:52.260 Derogatory

00:37:52.880 I guess I would just say

00:37:54.660 like

00:37:54.940 it's not a respectful term

00:37:57.400 to us

00:37:58.040 because

00:37:58.460 we

00:37:59.560 we just believe

00:38:01.440 that we are members

00:38:02.160 of the Church of Jesus Christ

00:38:03.620 and so

00:38:04.500 we prefer to be called

00:38:06.800 members of the Church

00:38:07.700 or LDS

00:38:08.300 as well

00:38:09.200 but yeah

00:38:10.320 we just

00:38:10.700 we want to

00:38:11.600 identify ourselves

00:38:12.800 as disciples of Jesus Christ

00:38:14.700 and we feel like

00:38:15.420 as people were calling us Mormons

00:38:17.060 it was kind of

00:38:17.940 taking away

00:38:18.720 the fact that we follow

00:38:20.200 Jesus Christ

00:38:20.840 and so we wanted that

00:38:21.820 to be

00:38:22.240 identified.

00:38:24.240 Okay.

00:38:25.220 Cool.

00:38:26.380 So

00:38:26.820 but you

00:38:27.540 you said something

00:38:28.800 along the lines of

00:38:29.880 you didn't

00:38:31.420 always used

00:38:32.520 to be

00:38:33.480 or you weren't

00:38:34.540 always

00:38:35.080 the way you are now

00:38:36.380 Yeah.

00:38:36.780 What do you mean by that?

00:38:37.620 Yeah.

00:38:37.940 So I

00:38:38.960 I was baptized

00:38:40.500 into the church

00:38:41.760 when I was eight years old

00:38:42.940 but I went in and out

00:38:44.300 of activity a ton

00:38:45.480 and for the most part

00:38:47.460 I really wasn't active

00:38:48.460 I had great examples

00:38:49.560 in my life

00:38:50.120 but it wasn't something

00:38:51.200 that I really wanted

00:38:51.880 to adhere to

00:38:52.680 and

00:38:53.700 when I

00:38:54.720 moved in

00:38:56.140 with some family

00:38:56.900 in high school

00:38:57.680 my husband lived

00:38:58.660 two doors down

00:38:59.260 and he was a member

00:39:00.020 of the church

00:39:00.660 and he just befriended me

00:39:02.280 and

00:39:02.840 I

00:39:03.940 just

00:39:04.480 saw a light in him

00:39:05.560 that I didn't really see

00:39:06.440 in other people

00:39:07.120 and I just

00:39:07.880 appreciated his example

00:39:09.100 and so

00:39:09.760 we were really good friends

00:39:11.300 for like

00:39:11.920 a year and a half

00:39:13.540 and then

00:39:14.080 he kind of confessed

00:39:15.180 his love to me

00:39:15.980 and I was like

00:39:16.580 you're my best friend

00:39:18.160 like don't want to date you

00:39:19.560 don't want to lose you

00:39:20.720 that way

00:39:21.260 and

00:39:21.820 he

00:39:22.820 made it out of

00:39:23.820 the friend zone

00:39:24.420 Hmm

00:39:25.540 nice

00:39:27.580 how do you do that

00:39:28.400 like what got him

00:39:29.180 out of the friend zone

00:39:29.960 yeah I think just being

00:39:31.680 a friend

00:39:33.960 to me

00:39:34.680 that's awesome

00:39:35.760 yeah

00:39:36.700 good for you buddy

00:39:37.500 okay

00:39:37.860 so did you

00:39:40.400 when you say like

00:39:41.640 you were different

00:39:42.560 back then

00:39:43.220 or were you like

00:39:44.220 more in terms of politics

00:39:46.000 you were more liberal

00:39:46.820 um

00:39:47.600 no I would not say

00:39:48.520 I was liberal

00:39:49.260 I'd say that

00:39:50.600 I just didn't have

00:39:51.620 like

00:39:51.960 I didn't have a direction

00:39:53.840 so I wasn't like sure

00:39:55.480 where I was going

00:39:57.220 or

00:39:57.700 what my standards were

00:39:59.480 but I

00:40:00.020 like

00:40:00.880 I didn't

00:40:02.380 do anything

00:40:03.760 like severely bad

00:40:04.680 I just

00:40:05.060 didn't know

00:40:06.060 what was important

00:40:06.700 to me at the time

00:40:07.400 did you go to BYU

00:40:08.440 no

00:40:09.520 okay

00:40:10.560 wait why do you

00:40:12.020 laugh at that

00:40:12.660 um

00:40:14.340 because

00:40:14.820 like

00:40:15.580 there's this whole

00:40:16.640 BYU is in Provo

00:40:17.620 and there's this whole

00:40:18.680 like Provo girl thing 0.81

00:40:20.140 and like

00:40:20.900 what's that

00:40:21.500 what's a Provo girl 0.95

00:40:22.560 oh man

00:40:23.260 um

00:40:24.520 and

00:40:25.800 obviously

00:40:26.500 not everyone

00:40:27.280 who goes to BYU

00:40:27.940 is a Provo girl

00:40:28.620 I don't want to like

00:40:29.400 say that

00:40:30.060 what is that

00:40:30.680 but a Provo girl

00:40:31.540 is just like

00:40:32.280 a girl that claims

00:40:33.900 to be so

00:40:35.040 virtuous

00:40:36.060 and good

00:40:36.960 but is hiding

00:40:37.820 behind the

00:40:38.960 standards

00:40:40.820 of our church

00:40:41.940 hiding behind

00:40:44.840 the standards

00:40:45.440 like they

00:40:45.640 they claim to be

00:40:46.760 church members

00:40:48.300 but they don't act

00:40:49.240 that way

00:40:49.680 and they're mean

00:40:50.860 and they're mean

00:40:52.500 yeah

00:40:52.920 mean

00:40:53.360 they're mean

00:40:54.040 okay

00:40:54.400 isn't there like

00:40:56.620 in order to go to BYU

00:40:57.840 don't you have to take like

00:40:59.140 certain

00:41:01.000 like a

00:41:02.460 purity pledge

00:41:03.940 or something

00:41:04.340 no

00:41:04.660 you have to agree

00:41:05.700 to the standards

00:41:06.380 of the university

00:41:07.000 like it's a private university

00:41:08.200 so you have to

00:41:09.180 well you can't like

00:41:09.940 co-house

00:41:10.320 you can't be in the same room

00:41:11.520 as a man

00:41:12.100 so depending on

00:41:13.740 like

00:41:14.160 oh no

00:41:14.880 like they have

00:41:15.640 like co-ed classes

00:41:16.960 I mean

00:41:17.460 you can be in the same classroom

00:41:19.160 but you can't like

00:41:19.840 go over to like

00:41:21.200 a guy's dorm

00:41:21.980 I think

00:41:22.680 you can

00:41:23.200 you just can't like

00:41:23.980 be in their room

00:41:24.760 and sleep with them

00:41:26.420 and

00:41:26.720 okay

00:41:27.080 yeah

00:41:27.380 don't they do some

00:41:28.640 sussy stuff 0.97

00:41:29.680 like the soaking

00:41:30.660 and whatnot

00:41:31.580 like isn't there some

00:41:32.940 and there's some weird

00:41:33.840 work around

00:41:34.600 yeah

00:41:34.940 so there's soaking

00:41:36.440 and there's also

00:41:37.420 is that an LDS thing

00:41:40.400 I mean I think

00:41:41.720 that

00:41:41.860 a Mormon thing

00:41:42.460 like

00:41:42.780 it's been claimed

00:41:44.120 in Provo

00:41:44.740 I don't know

00:41:45.180 if it's like

00:41:45.740 soaking

00:41:46.640 an LDS thing

00:41:47.460 but I think

00:41:47.860 there's people

00:41:48.460 of religion

00:41:49.380 who also do it

00:41:50.260 because it feels

00:41:51.140 makes them feel

00:41:51.760 like they have

00:41:52.200 like this out

00:41:52.800 but it's basically

00:41:53.880 you are literally 0.98

00:41:55.980 having sexual intercourse 0.99

00:41:57.460 but it's like 0.99

00:41:59.200 if you don't

00:42:00.360 trust

00:42:00.780 it doesn't count

00:42:01.720 yeah

00:42:01.960 for a scenario

00:42:02.600 it'd be like

00:42:03.220 you'd go to your friend

00:42:04.260 and you'd be like

00:42:05.040 can you move the bed

00:42:07.100 for me

00:42:07.660 type thing

00:42:08.820 does that happen

00:42:10.280 is that actually a thing

00:42:11.720 yes

00:42:12.400 it is a thing

00:42:13.320 so

00:42:13.620 and there's people

00:42:14.280 like

00:42:14.660 who would also

00:42:15.700 drive to like

00:42:16.900 because we don't

00:42:17.460 believe in having

00:42:18.100 sex before marriage 0.53

00:42:19.140 and so there's people

00:42:20.220 who will like

00:42:20.900 drive to Las Vegas

00:42:22.960 and get married 1.00

00:42:23.880 have sex 0.98

00:42:24.880 and then like 0.97

00:42:25.440 get it annulled

00:42:26.240 but it's like

00:42:27.240 God knows your intent

00:42:28.240 so you're not really

00:42:29.160 cheating anyone

00:42:29.980 but yourself

00:42:30.560 but yeah

00:42:31.820 the derfing thing

00:42:32.540 is

00:42:32.780 or

00:42:33.040 what is it

00:42:34.220 soaking

00:42:34.660 soaking

00:42:35.100 yeah

00:42:35.340 there's a lot

00:42:35.780 of weird terms

00:42:36.640 so

00:42:36.900 my understanding

00:42:38.000 of soaking

00:42:38.520 just for the audience

00:42:39.980 viewers or the panelists

00:42:40.840 who don't know

00:42:41.300 what that is

00:42:41.940 it's a sexual practice

00:42:43.860 the man inserts 1.00

00:42:45.360 the penis 1.00

00:42:45.940 into the vagina 1.00

00:42:48.080 but there can be 0.99

00:42:49.940 no subsequent

00:42:50.900 thrusting 0.98

00:42:51.900 nothing

00:42:52.540 can't be

00:42:53.620 there can't be

00:42:54.700 thrusting 0.98

00:42:54.860 that's why it's called

00:42:57.880 soaking

00:42:58.440 but someone else

00:42:59.960 moves the bed

00:43:00.720 for you

00:43:01.180 it somehow

00:43:01.800 is okay

00:43:02.680 good times

00:43:03.280 okay

00:43:03.780 yeah it's weird

00:43:05.160 I'm not gonna say

00:43:07.160 it's not

00:43:07.460 moving the bed

00:43:08.340 I think is the weirdest

00:43:09.280 right like

00:43:10.060 who would you trust enough

00:43:11.260 that's a lot of work

00:43:12.080 yeah that's

00:43:12.780 how long do you have

00:43:13.940 to do

00:43:14.200 like move the bed

00:43:15.120 for

00:43:15.380 I don't know

00:43:18.040 however long

00:43:18.880 it takes

00:43:19.600 that's crazy

00:43:21.800 probably a lot

00:43:22.800 longer than regular

00:43:23.840 intercourse

00:43:25.220 good times

00:43:26.660 a bigger workout

00:43:27.580 for the person

00:43:28.180 not involved

00:43:28.800 for sure

00:43:29.540 okay

00:43:31.800 and then

00:43:33.060 what about you

00:43:34.580 I am married

00:43:37.180 I just celebrated

00:43:38.840 two years

00:43:39.720 the other day

00:43:40.360 and that's my

00:43:41.900 longest relationship

00:43:42.800 how long

00:43:44.840 are you dating

00:43:45.280 before

00:43:45.760 wait you've been

00:43:46.420 married for two years

00:43:47.200 yeah married for two

00:43:48.000 how long were you

00:43:48.840 dating before you

00:43:49.420 got married

00:43:49.780 I think we were

00:43:50.840 dating for about

00:43:51.860 six years

00:43:52.800 okay so together

00:43:53.780 for like eight years

00:43:54.640 total

00:43:54.900 yeah

00:43:55.160 okay and that's

00:43:56.300 your longest

00:43:56.660 relationship

00:43:57.160 so you've been

00:43:58.420 together from

00:43:59.080 like 24 to 32

00:44:00.640 basically

00:44:01.160 sure yeah

00:44:02.280 okay

00:44:02.580 all right

00:44:03.860 how did you guys

00:44:04.600 meet

00:44:04.920 surfing

00:44:05.780 surfing

00:44:06.720 c street

00:44:07.180 yeah

00:44:07.820 he was in my

00:44:08.900 hood

00:44:09.260 and I'd be like

00:44:10.200 who is this guy

00:44:10.840 okay nice

00:44:12.100 how big

00:44:13.940 how big was it

00:44:14.540 was it like

00:44:14.960 ankle slappers 0.99

00:44:15.860 like it was a 0.78

00:44:16.320 pretty shitty day

00:44:16.940 it was a pretty

00:44:17.420 shitty day

00:44:17.840 probably

00:44:18.080 so he's like 1.00

00:44:18.360 fuck all right 0.99

00:44:18.880 I'll just like 1.00

00:44:19.300 hit on a girl 0.98

00:44:19.840 and

00:44:20.160 I

00:44:21.120 approached him

00:44:23.000 actually

00:44:23.660 well I had a

00:44:24.720 friend introduce

00:44:25.540 us

00:44:26.040 and my friend

00:44:27.560 didn't want to

00:44:28.980 wait hold on

00:44:30.200 it's okay

00:44:30.500 you're you're out

00:44:31.360 surfing with a

00:44:31.840 girlfriend

00:44:32.080 no just by

00:44:33.460 myself

00:44:33.840 oh just

00:44:34.280 but you said

00:44:35.340 you had a

00:44:35.620 friend

00:44:35.940 oh well like

00:44:37.920 you know

00:44:38.680 surfing we

00:44:39.180 it's like

00:44:39.700 it's a community

00:44:40.180 you know each

00:44:40.500 other yeah

00:44:40.860 you see the same

00:44:41.940 people at the

00:44:42.560 same spots

00:44:43.040 and then I

00:44:43.480 noticed my

00:44:44.280 friend talking

00:44:45.060 to my husband

00:44:45.920 and I was

00:44:47.580 like hey

00:44:48.220 he's cute

00:44:49.480 make it happen

00:44:50.340 was your friend

00:44:51.100 a female friend

00:44:51.820 or male friend

00:44:52.340 male friend

00:44:52.920 male friend

00:44:53.540 there's not a lot

00:44:54.020 of females

00:44:54.820 yeah there's not

00:44:55.420 a lot of

00:44:55.660 female surfers 0.99

00:44:56.520 so he was

00:44:58.800 talking to

00:44:59.600 your now husband

00:45:00.640 and

00:45:01.640 well he didn't

00:45:02.200 want to

00:45:03.060 introduce us

00:45:03.740 he was like

00:45:04.300 trying to like

00:45:04.960 wait you're

00:45:05.900 my friend

00:45:06.620 my friend's like

00:45:07.160 you don't want

00:45:07.580 to date him

00:45:08.080 why is that

00:45:08.940 um I think

00:45:10.200 my friend

00:45:10.500 liked me

00:45:11.140 oh

00:45:12.440 yeah

00:45:14.680 but you didn't

00:45:15.180 like him

00:45:15.620 no

00:45:15.940 but you liked

00:45:16.780 his friend

00:45:17.140 yes

00:45:17.480 so he introduced

00:45:19.640 you anyways

00:45:20.160 though

00:45:20.400 no I was like

00:45:21.300 step aside

00:45:21.700 I got this

00:45:22.280 oh okay

00:45:22.920 okay so you

00:45:24.600 you paddled

00:45:25.480 up to him

00:45:26.100 we were all

00:45:26.760 hanging out

00:45:27.220 in the parking

00:45:27.760 lot

00:45:28.140 oh it was

00:45:28.700 after the surf

00:45:29.400 oh okay

00:45:30.100 yeah

00:45:30.260 but um

00:45:31.480 he's

00:45:31.920 he's surfed

00:45:33.140 in like

00:45:33.740 at sea street

00:45:34.240 for a very

00:45:35.000 long time

00:45:35.520 and I've

00:45:35.900 just never

00:45:36.560 really

00:45:36.980 had

00:45:37.940 the courage

00:45:38.620 longboarder

00:45:38.820 or shortboarder

00:45:39.480 well we're both

00:45:40.460 he grew up

00:45:41.440 shortboarding

00:45:41.940 and I turned

00:45:42.700 him to the

00:45:43.040 dark side

00:45:43.560 and he's a

00:45:43.920 longboarder

00:45:44.320 now

00:45:44.540 oh okay

00:45:45.800 all right

00:45:46.320 um uh

00:45:47.740 so yeah

00:45:48.280 twin fin

00:45:49.080 tri fin

00:45:49.520 he does it

00:45:50.740 all

00:45:51.020 me

00:45:52.300 yeah him

00:45:53.320 he serves

00:45:54.640 it all

00:45:54.880 he has a

00:45:55.240 fun little

00:45:55.580 like 5-8

00:45:56.480 fish

00:45:56.860 okay

00:45:57.280 that he likes

00:45:58.240 and then now

00:45:59.200 what's that

00:45:59.840 what's it called

00:46:00.460 kneeboarding

00:46:00.980 spoon

00:46:01.480 does he spoon

00:46:02.180 does he got a spoon

00:46:02.780 I mean

00:46:03.660 I spoon him

00:46:05.220 um

00:46:06.020 no he

00:46:07.960 actually he

00:46:09.020 boogie boards

00:46:10.060 sometimes

00:46:10.720 he's a

00:46:11.760 sometimes

00:46:12.520 only only when

00:46:13.400 it's like

00:46:13.800 like

00:46:14.240 he's a sponger

00:46:15.340 no no no no 1.00

00:46:16.040 damn bro 0.99

00:46:17.020 you gotta 1.00

00:46:17.300 you gotta divorce

00:46:18.140 this guy

00:46:18.560 I'm sorry

00:46:19.000 listen though

00:46:20.720 only when it's

00:46:21.760 like insane

00:46:22.760 barreling

00:46:23.300 you can't fit

00:46:24.040 into the barrel

00:46:24.640 standing up

00:46:25.360 on a board

00:46:25.840 he'll pull in

00:46:26.780 with a sponge

00:46:27.440 and

00:46:28.460 okay

00:46:29.460 like that's

00:46:30.340 the only time

00:46:31.060 he'll be on

00:46:31.780 a boogie board

00:46:32.200 wait what's that

00:46:33.580 wet uh 0.92

00:46:34.480 like the wedge

00:46:35.160 does he ever

00:46:35.640 surf the wedge

00:46:36.280 is that

00:46:37.360 San Clemente

00:46:38.860 that's Newport

00:46:39.460 Newport

00:46:40.180 because like

00:46:41.120 that's

00:46:41.560 you don't want

00:46:42.040 to really

00:46:42.360 I mean

00:46:42.800 you can surf it

00:46:43.640 but it's mostly

00:46:44.760 like spongers

00:46:45.540 I don't know if he

00:46:45.780 has surfed there

00:46:46.800 boogie boarded there

00:46:48.040 okay

00:46:48.380 we don't really

00:46:49.300 like

00:46:49.460 but he'll go out

00:46:50.140 he'll sponge

00:46:50.780 like on just a big

00:46:51.560 day where

00:46:51.980 okay

00:46:52.400 yeah

00:46:52.960 so

00:46:54.080 what was your

00:46:55.440 opening line

00:46:56.000 um

00:46:57.240 actually

00:46:59.100 okay

00:46:59.560 so let me

00:47:01.580 so we meet

00:47:02.280 in the parking lot

00:47:03.040 I don't really

00:47:03.560 like try to do

00:47:04.540 I'm just like

00:47:05.040 hi

00:47:05.300 introduce myself

00:47:06.560 and it turns out

00:47:07.360 that we lived

00:47:08.100 on the same street

00:47:09.480 and we

00:47:10.780 the street that we

00:47:11.620 lived on

00:47:11.920 had an HOA

00:47:12.640 and him and his

00:47:13.540 buddy

00:47:13.820 are fishermen too

00:47:15.340 so they had

00:47:15.940 a boat in the

00:47:16.800 driveway

00:47:17.020 they would always

00:47:17.580 get yelled at

00:47:18.140 and there was

00:47:18.460 like drama

00:47:18.860 in the HOA

00:47:19.600 like these guys

00:47:20.920 always have their

00:47:21.500 boat in the yard

00:47:22.000 and so I drove by

00:47:23.100 and I screamed

00:47:23.660 out the window

00:47:24.180 like get that boat

00:47:25.320 off the driveway

00:47:26.040 and it freaked

00:47:27.080 him out

00:47:27.440 and I felt bad

00:47:28.240 so I just went

00:47:29.020 back around

00:47:29.560 and I was like

00:47:30.060 hey I'm just

00:47:30.540 kidding

00:47:30.820 let's uh

00:47:32.080 go surf

00:47:32.580 that was a joke

00:47:33.360 and I was like

00:47:34.440 can I get your

00:47:34.840 digits

00:47:35.240 all right

00:47:37.060 and the rest

00:47:37.680 is history

00:47:38.220 yeah

00:47:38.740 and your friend

00:47:40.300 tried to warn

00:47:40.980 you off of him 0.99

00:47:41.680 though

00:47:41.880 yeah

00:47:42.300 how so

00:47:43.540 said that

00:47:45.760 he's like

00:47:46.320 does drugs

00:47:47.540 and stuff like

00:47:48.100 that

00:47:48.560 does he

00:47:50.460 did he

00:47:51.260 not at that

00:47:52.380 time no

00:47:52.940 it's furthest

00:47:53.460 from the truth

00:47:54.080 okay

00:47:54.640 yeah

00:47:54.960 he's a very

00:47:55.820 good man

00:47:56.520 okay

00:47:57.600 good times

00:47:58.680 good times

00:47:59.420 and uh

00:48:00.700 well Rachel

00:48:01.700 what about you

00:48:02.240 well I've been

00:48:03.420 married to the

00:48:04.340 most based

00:48:05.320 handsome Chad

00:48:06.260 of all time

00:48:07.160 for over a

00:48:08.260 decade now

00:48:08.980 uh definitely

00:48:09.980 my longest

00:48:10.580 relationship

00:48:11.160 17 years

00:48:12.940 now

00:48:13.420 he's been the

00:48:14.340 guy for me

00:48:15.060 so

00:48:15.340 all right

00:48:15.620 yeah

00:48:16.200 and uh

00:48:17.640 you guys have

00:48:19.180 uh some kids

00:48:20.220 what about you

00:48:20.700 do you guys

00:48:21.020 have kids

00:48:21.860 no not yet

00:48:22.800 planning to though

00:48:23.600 we're thinking

00:48:24.140 about it

00:48:24.680 thinking about it

00:48:25.480 thinking about it

00:48:27.400 thinking about it

00:48:28.220 does he want

00:48:28.620 kids

00:48:28.940 um

00:48:29.680 you're 32

00:48:30.400 right

00:48:30.760 yeah

00:48:31.100 he

00:48:32.120 yeah

00:48:32.780 tick tock

00:48:33.780 yeah we're

00:48:34.360 we are talking

00:48:36.060 about it

00:48:36.520 he's

00:48:36.860 he has a lot

00:48:37.960 of hobbies

00:48:38.440 that keep

00:48:38.980 him like

00:48:39.720 very occupied

00:48:40.360 and

00:48:40.860 I also

00:48:42.100 enjoy hobbies

00:48:43.280 and it's tough

00:48:44.080 to do with kids

00:48:44.980 definitely

00:48:45.700 well I mean

00:48:46.300 with surfing

00:48:47.100 too

00:48:47.460 I mean

00:48:47.860 that's kind

00:48:48.360 of like

00:48:48.800 especially if

00:48:50.140 that's your

00:48:50.440 passion

00:48:50.780 if you have

00:48:51.300 kids

00:48:51.640 that's gonna

00:48:52.080 complicate

00:48:52.680 absolutely

00:48:53.520 the whole

00:48:53.760 surfing thing

00:48:54.380 so

00:48:54.720 I kind of

00:48:56.120 I kind of

00:48:56.620 get that

00:48:57.280 um

00:48:57.720 is he

00:48:58.080 is he a

00:48:58.580 professional

00:48:58.900 surfer

00:48:59.340 or

00:48:59.700 um

00:49:00.320 he's not

00:49:01.220 I am

00:49:02.240 but he

00:49:03.120 is

00:49:03.960 obsessed

00:49:05.000 with fishing

00:49:05.840 that is his

00:49:06.860 first love

00:49:07.340 and I think

00:49:07.720 I'm his second

00:49:08.300 okay

00:49:09.680 uh

00:49:10.640 kids

00:49:11.100 no kids

00:49:12.180 currently

00:49:12.500 no

00:49:12.820 planning to

00:49:13.620 definitely

00:49:14.380 do you know

00:49:15.320 how many you

00:49:15.740 want

00:49:15.980 um

00:49:17.140 an even

00:49:18.540 number

00:49:18.860 probably four

00:49:19.460 we'll see

00:49:20.420 whatever god

00:49:21.120 gives me

00:49:21.580 okay

00:49:22.140 all right

00:49:23.640 cool

00:49:24.420 sorry guys

00:49:24.900 I'm getting

00:49:25.600 a text from

00:49:26.140 Madison here

00:49:26.740 all right

00:49:27.680 so

00:49:28.100 we're gonna

00:49:28.840 read a couple

00:49:29.220 chats here

00:49:29.840 then we'll

00:49:30.160 get into

00:49:30.600 some topics

00:49:31.360 uh

00:49:32.540 pull that

00:49:33.180 back up

00:49:33.580 Nick

00:49:33.760 I'll read

00:49:34.140 it

00:49:34.380 actually

00:49:35.860 let's have

00:49:36.200 the opera

00:49:36.620 singer read

00:49:37.360 it

00:49:37.500 go ahead

00:49:37.840 uh

00:49:39.300 just got

00:49:39.900 out of the

00:49:40.260 mines

00:49:40.580 and used

00:49:41.000 my hard

00:49:41.420 earned

00:49:41.660 money

00:49:41.920 to tell

00:49:42.260 the

00:49:42.440 strumpets

00:49:42.860 to stop

00:49:43.240 strumpeting

00:49:43.640 around

00:49:44.020 Jesus

00:49:44.360 can and

00:49:44.880 will

00:49:45.100 forgive

00:49:45.520 all

00:49:45.760 strumpet

00:49:46.160 actions

00:49:46.600 the

00:49:47.100 spiritual

00:49:47.420 warfare

00:49:47.840 is very

00:49:48.280 real

00:49:48.520 protect

00:49:48.840 your heart

00:49:49.400 there are

00:49:49.760 very real

00:49:50.600 consequences

00:49:51.200 to being

00:49:51.540 a

00:49:51.680 strumpet

00:49:52.100 lol

00:49:52.900 lol

00:49:53.740 lol

00:49:53.900 yo

00:49:54.640 yes

00:49:55.080 thank you

00:49:55.420 man

00:49:55.540 appreciate

00:49:55.860 it

00:49:56.240 um

00:49:56.640 appreciate

00:49:56.980 you helping

00:49:57.960 me

00:49:58.180 repopularize

00:49:59.100 the term

00:49:59.540 strumpet

00:50:00.180 it is

00:50:00.760 a war

00:50:01.760 effort

00:50:02.120 so I

00:50:02.660 thank you

00:50:02.880 for the

00:50:03.020 soup chat

00:50:03.340 man

00:50:03.500 really

00:50:03.700 appreciate

00:50:04.040 your

00:50:04.180 patronage

00:50:04.680 uh

00:50:05.660 what is

00:50:06.360 that

00:50:06.520 working

00:50:06.940 hard

00:50:07.280 he got

00:50:07.640 out of

00:50:07.840 the

00:50:08.020 mines

00:50:08.600 the

00:50:10.120 mines 1.00

00:50:10.720 damn 0.99

00:50:11.360 what are 1.00

00:50:11.580 you

00:50:11.660 what are

00:50:11.900 you

00:50:12.000 mining

00:50:12.320 dude

00:50:12.720 gold

00:50:13.760 diamonds

00:50:14.380 bitcoin

00:50:15.120 and then

00:50:19.120 we have

00:50:19.340 anthony

00:50:19.660 thomas

00:50:20.000 hey all

00:50:20.320 long time

00:50:20.660 viewer of

00:50:20.940 the pod

00:50:21.240 to miss

00:50:21.820 a few

00:50:22.640 abortions

00:50:23.280 unless

00:50:24.620 childbirth

00:50:25.140 was life

00:50:25.540 threatening

00:50:25.840 which I

00:50:26.220 doubt

00:50:26.460 what could

00:50:26.920 possibly

00:50:27.360 make you

00:50:27.840 have to

00:50:28.480 end

00:50:28.700 life

00:50:29.000 grab

00:50:29.740 your

00:50:30.140 popcorn

00:50:30.640 folks

00:50:31.060 uh

00:50:31.460 if you

00:50:31.760 want to

00:50:32.060 respond to

00:50:32.720 that

00:50:32.880 you're

00:50:33.080 welcome

00:50:33.280 to

00:50:33.500 um

00:50:34.340 actually

00:50:34.700 I was

00:50:35.080 born

00:50:35.360 with a

00:50:36.040 heart

00:50:36.240 murmur

00:50:36.600 so

00:50:37.320 you know

00:50:38.640 people don't

00:50:39.600 know everything

00:50:40.100 but

00:50:40.500 word

00:50:41.060 wait I'm

00:50:42.280 a little

00:50:42.440 confused

00:50:42.760 though

00:50:43.120 you were

00:50:44.460 born with

00:50:44.820 heart

00:50:45.060 murmur

00:50:45.480 your point

00:50:48.180 it could

00:50:49.100 have been

00:50:49.400 life

00:50:49.860 threatening

00:50:50.240 if

00:50:50.580 because

00:50:51.040 there's

00:50:51.460 a lot

00:50:51.720 of

00:50:51.960 things

00:50:52.680 that

00:50:52.900 can

00:50:53.040 happen

00:50:53.380 during

00:50:53.920 childbirth

00:50:54.580 but

00:50:54.880 also

00:50:55.320 just

00:50:55.760 the

00:50:55.920 fact

00:50:56.120 that

00:50:56.320 I

00:50:56.480 was

00:50:56.700 forced

00:50:57.980 to

00:50:58.360 so

00:50:59.240 forced

00:51:00.680 to

00:51:01.000 like

00:51:01.280 by the

00:51:01.700 guy

00:51:02.020 or

00:51:02.380 yeah

00:51:02.840 well how

00:51:03.920 did he

00:51:04.220 force

00:51:04.780 you

00:51:05.060 he

00:51:05.360 just

00:51:05.880 didn't

00:51:06.220 want

00:51:06.600 me

00:51:07.340 to

00:51:07.440 have

00:51:07.560 kids

00:51:08.060 with

00:51:08.900 him

00:51:09.220 and

00:51:09.600 he

00:51:09.780 just

00:51:10.060 was

00:51:10.340 screaming 0.51

00:51:10.780 at

00:51:11.200 me

00:51:11.540 and

00:51:12.000 basically

00:51:13.600 like

00:51:14.240 every

00:51:14.500 time

00:51:14.740 just

00:51:15.000 drove

00:51:15.340 me

00:51:15.500 there

00:51:15.780 I

00:51:16.300 even

00:51:16.760 like

00:51:17.000 the

00:51:17.160 last

00:51:17.380 one

00:51:17.520 I

00:51:17.620 like

00:51:17.780 tried

00:51:18.040 to

00:51:18.240 just

00:51:18.460 keep

00:51:18.720 it

00:51:18.900 like

00:51:19.140 a

00:51:19.400 secret

00:51:19.720 but

00:51:20.080 I

00:51:20.300 couldn't

00:51:21.160 and

00:51:21.680 then

00:51:21.840 you

00:51:22.040 got

00:51:22.340 back

00:51:22.720 with

00:51:23.020 this

00:51:23.240 guy

00:51:23.540 even

00:51:23.860 after

00:51:24.100 that

00:51:24.520 yeah

00:51:25.180 oh

00:51:25.880 girl 0.91

00:51:26.300 why

00:51:28.360 I

00:51:29.860 couldn't

00:51:30.180 give

00:51:30.380 you a 0.57

00:51:30.760 real

00:51:31.100 reason

00:51:32.060 that

00:51:32.260 makes

00:51:32.500 sense

00:51:32.840 yeah

00:51:33.540 why

00:51:35.040 didn't

00:51:35.240 you

00:51:35.360 decide

00:51:35.660 to

00:51:35.820 just

00:51:35.980 stop

00:51:36.200 telling

00:51:36.460 him

00:51:36.720 if

00:51:37.100 he

00:51:37.220 was

00:51:37.420 like

00:51:37.740 like

00:51:38.380 why

00:51:39.120 didn't

00:51:39.280 you

00:51:39.400 decide

00:51:39.840 I

00:51:40.320 don't

00:51:40.480 need

00:51:40.640 to

00:51:40.760 tell

00:51:40.960 him

00:51:41.200 I

00:51:41.380 can

00:51:41.660 get

00:51:42.880 my

00:51:43.080 resources

00:51:43.480 and

00:51:43.900 raise

00:51:44.120 this

00:51:44.300 baby

00:51:44.680 at

00:51:45.320 one

00:51:45.480 point

00:51:45.640 we

00:51:45.800 were

00:51:45.940 living

00:51:46.420 together

00:51:46.860 my

00:51:49.320 body

00:51:49.680 is

00:51:49.820 like

00:51:49.960 very

00:51:50.240 sensitive

00:51:50.740 so

00:51:51.120 it was

00:51:51.340 like

00:51:51.620 at

00:51:52.560 that

00:51:52.780 point

00:51:52.960 it was

00:51:53.240 like

00:51:53.460 we

00:51:53.940 just

00:51:54.160 both

00:51:54.620 knew

00:51:54.880 like

00:51:55.120 something's

00:51:55.640 up

00:51:55.860 do

00:51:56.700 you

00:51:56.780 not

00:51:56.900 have

00:51:57.040 family

00:51:57.340 that

00:51:57.540 can

00:51:57.700 help

00:51:57.940 you

00:51:58.180 or

00:51:58.420 that

00:51:58.580 you

00:51:58.700 can

00:51:58.840 move

00:51:59.020 in

00:51:59.140 with

00:51:59.360 um

00:52:00.420 I

00:52:01.320 mean

00:52:01.520 I

00:52:01.840 stay

00:52:02.360 well

00:52:02.880 actually

00:52:03.280 we

00:52:03.560 stay

00:52:03.920 together

00:52:04.200 now

00:52:04.480 but

00:52:04.800 at

00:52:06.420 that

00:52:06.660 point

00:52:06.860 it

00:52:07.000 was

00:52:07.180 like

00:52:07.500 no

00:52:08.200 and

00:52:08.400 then

00:52:08.660 my

00:52:09.860 family's

00:52:10.300 not

00:52:10.480 like

00:52:10.640 the

00:52:10.780 most

00:52:10.980 financially

00:52:11.560 stable

00:52:12.080 people

00:52:12.980 and my

00:52:13.260 mom

00:52:13.460 is

00:52:13.600 also

00:52:13.780 the

00:52:13.920 type

00:52:14.040 of

00:52:14.120 person

00:52:14.260 she's

00:52:14.480 like

00:52:14.580 if

00:52:14.720 you

00:52:14.860 bring

00:52:15.120 a

00:52:15.440 child

00:52:15.820 home

00:52:16.080 you

00:52:16.460 are

00:52:16.760 definitely

00:52:17.140 taking care

00:52:17.880 of it

00:52:18.100 it's

00:52:18.220 not

00:52:18.460 the

00:52:19.560 village

00:52:20.000 or

00:52:20.160 whatever

00:52:20.420 she's

00:52:20.860 like

00:52:21.020 I'm

00:52:21.280 not

00:52:21.540 doing

00:52:22.380 none

00:52:22.620 of that

00:52:22.900 especially

00:52:23.740 if I'm

00:52:24.420 not

00:52:24.760 stable

00:52:25.940 myself

00:52:26.880 yet

00:52:27.400 she's

00:52:27.900 like

00:52:28.040 absolutely

00:52:28.400 not

00:52:28.720 she

00:52:29.920 would

00:52:30.160 she 0.56

00:52:30.500 she kicked 0.99

00:52:31.380 me out

00:52:31.600 at 17

00:52:32.060 so

00:52:32.480 yeah

00:52:33.200 word

00:52:36.080 did you

00:52:37.000 have

00:52:37.200 a follow

00:52:37.760 up

00:52:37.940 on that

00:52:38.260 Rachel

00:52:38.520 well

00:52:38.840 I

00:52:39.060 actually

00:52:39.380 had

00:52:39.540 a

00:52:39.660 really

00:52:39.860 similar

00:52:40.420 thing

00:52:40.800 my

00:52:41.020 mother

00:52:41.300 is

00:52:41.540 completely

00:52:41.940 uninvolved

00:52:42.520 wants

00:52:42.700 nothing

00:52:42.980 to do

00:52:43.240 with

00:52:43.380 being

00:52:43.540 a

00:52:43.660 mother

00:52:43.820 or

00:52:44.080 a

00:52:44.220 grandmother

00:52:44.620 my

00:52:47.240 parents

00:52:48.560 were like

00:52:49.120 nope

00:52:49.560 nope

00:52:50.000 we're

00:52:50.360 not

00:52:50.520 helping

00:52:50.880 if

00:52:51.200 you

00:52:51.320 have

00:52:51.480 kids

00:52:51.920 it's

00:52:52.060 on

00:52:52.160 your

00:52:52.260 own

00:52:52.400 but

00:52:52.640 I

00:52:52.900 have

00:52:53.040 five

00:52:53.340 so

00:52:53.800 and

00:52:54.820 it

00:52:54.940 wasn't

00:52:55.180 always

00:52:55.400 easy

00:52:55.760 but

00:52:56.260 if

00:52:58.380 you

00:52:58.600 want

00:52:58.960 to

00:52:59.200 you

00:52:59.420 can

00:52:59.680 do

00:53:00.000 it

00:53:00.380 but

00:53:01.440 it's

00:53:01.980 I

00:53:02.440 kind

00:53:02.800 of

00:53:02.940 wonder

00:53:03.180 why

00:53:03.460 so

00:53:03.700 many

00:53:03.940 girls 0.98

00:53:04.280 are

00:53:04.480 willing

00:53:04.740 to

00:53:05.160 do

00:53:05.640 the

00:53:05.800 thing

00:53:05.960 that

00:53:06.100 makes

00:53:06.300 babies

00:53:06.740 with

00:53:06.960 guys

00:53:07.440 that

00:53:08.040 and

00:53:09.040 repeatedly

00:53:09.660 the guy

00:53:10.040 doesn't

00:53:10.320 want

00:53:10.520 babies

00:53:10.920 like

00:53:11.440 yeah

00:53:12.920 honestly

00:53:14.000 I

00:53:14.320 really

00:53:15.220 can't

00:53:16.220 give

00:53:16.680 a straight

00:53:18.040 answer

00:53:18.420 for that

00:53:18.900 I feel

00:53:19.420 like

00:53:19.860 before

00:53:24.060 I got

00:53:24.920 involved

00:53:25.360 with this

00:53:25.800 person

00:53:26.360 my ex

00:53:27.480 passed

00:53:27.900 away

00:53:28.260 so

00:53:29.420 I

00:53:30.000 kind

00:53:30.380 of

00:53:30.640 when

00:53:30.980 I

00:53:31.100 met

00:53:31.300 him

00:53:31.520 a few

00:53:31.880 months

00:53:32.120 after

00:53:32.520 that

00:53:32.880 I

00:53:33.100 probably

00:53:33.320 should

00:53:33.500 have

00:53:33.600 taken

00:53:33.800 more

00:53:34.040 time

00:53:34.320 to

00:53:34.580 grieve

00:53:35.380 I

00:53:35.560 feel

00:53:35.720 like

00:53:35.840 I

00:53:35.960 never

00:53:36.260 allowed

00:53:37.020 myself

00:53:37.380 to

00:53:37.560 grieve

00:53:37.720 I

00:53:37.860 don't

00:53:38.080 really

00:53:38.320 handle

00:53:38.680 that

00:53:38.940 stuff

00:53:39.240 well

00:53:39.520 I

00:53:39.680 kind

00:53:39.900 of

00:53:40.020 just

00:53:40.260 put

00:53:40.960 everything

00:53:41.420 on

00:53:41.780 the

00:53:41.920 back

00:53:42.180 burner

00:53:42.620 when

00:53:42.880 it

00:53:43.020 comes

00:53:43.280 to

00:53:43.600 emotions

00:53:44.220 and

00:53:44.540 things

00:53:44.840 until

00:53:45.220 I

00:53:45.700 do

00:53:46.120 blow 0.77

00:53:46.360 up

00:53:46.620 which

00:53:47.440 is

00:53:47.580 not

00:53:47.780 healthy

00:53:48.160 and

00:53:48.420 I

00:53:48.520 am

00:53:48.660 aware

00:53:48.920 of

00:53:49.060 that

00:53:49.280 but

00:53:49.600 I

00:53:51.840 feel

00:53:52.040 like

00:53:52.160 I

00:53:52.300 just

00:53:52.540 latched

00:53:52.960 on

00:53:53.400 to

00:53:53.520 him

00:53:53.700 and

00:53:53.820 I

00:53:53.960 felt

00:53:54.160 like

00:53:54.360 I

00:53:54.520 needed

00:53:54.880 him

00:53:55.180 at

00:53:55.960 a

00:53:56.100 certain

00:53:56.260 point

00:53:56.560 and

00:53:56.760 I

00:53:56.900 still

00:53:57.200 feel

00:53:57.500 like

00:53:57.780 sometimes

00:53:59.220 I

00:53:59.920 if I'm

00:54:01.040 being

00:54:01.240 honest

00:54:01.740 with

00:54:02.020 myself

00:54:02.520 I

00:54:03.320 do

00:54:03.540 feel

00:54:03.960 that

00:54:04.420 I

00:54:05.040 need

00:54:05.580 him

00:54:05.740 in

00:54:05.920 certain

00:54:06.260 aspects

00:54:06.660 of my

00:54:06.840 life

00:54:07.000 really

00:54:07.400 I

00:54:08.160 don't

00:54:08.720 but

00:54:09.040 my

00:54:10.680 I

00:54:12.400 do

00:54:12.800 well

00:54:13.620 I

00:54:13.700 think

00:54:13.860 you

00:54:13.980 probably

00:54:14.300 really

00:54:14.680 do

00:54:15.200 need

00:54:15.920 and

00:54:16.180 benefit

00:54:16.500 from

00:54:16.840 having

00:54:17.280 like

00:54:17.540 a

00:54:17.720 strong

00:54:18.080 good

00:54:18.440 man

00:54:18.940 who

00:54:19.100 can

00:54:19.240 lead

00:54:19.440 you

00:54:19.560 in

00:54:19.680 your

00:54:19.800 life

00:54:20.100 but

00:54:20.380 this

00:54:20.880 doesn't

00:54:21.100 sound

00:54:21.280 like

00:54:21.500 that

00:54:21.740 yeah

00:54:22.020 so

00:54:22.540 like

00:54:22.760 when

00:54:22.940 you're

00:54:23.160 dating

00:54:23.580 or

00:54:24.020 when

00:54:24.200 you're

00:54:24.380 choosing

00:54:24.680 a

00:54:24.880 guy

00:54:25.120 like

00:54:25.380 what

00:54:25.820 are

00:54:26.380 you

00:54:26.560 thinking

00:54:26.860 about

00:54:27.200 marrying

00:54:27.720 somebody

00:54:28.380 who's

00:54:28.720 gonna

00:54:28.900 like

00:54:29.120 be

00:54:29.300 there

00:54:29.500 through

00:54:29.700 thick

00:54:29.900 and

00:54:30.080 thin

00:54:30.340 and

00:54:30.540 take

00:54:30.740 care

00:54:30.880 of

00:54:30.960 you

00:54:31.020 no

00:54:31.140 matter

00:54:31.340 what

00:54:31.800 are

00:54:31.940 you

00:54:32.060 just

00:54:32.220 kind

00:54:32.400 of

00:54:32.480 going

00:54:32.660 for

00:54:32.840 whoever's

00:54:33.280 cute

00:54:33.440 and funny

00:54:33.920 or like

00:54:34.880 what

00:54:35.680 what are

00:54:35.980 you

00:54:36.100 thinking

00:54:36.340 of

00:54:36.560 when

00:54:36.720 you're

00:54:36.920 choosing

00:54:37.260 a

00:54:37.700 guy

00:54:38.000 I

00:54:39.200 feel

00:54:39.440 like

00:54:39.600 right

00:54:39.880 now

00:54:40.320 I

00:54:41.640 just

00:54:41.960 haven't

00:54:42.360 been

00:54:42.500 making

00:54:42.820 like

00:54:43.240 good

00:54:43.400 decisions

00:54:43.780 when

00:54:44.140 I'm

00:54:44.400 thinking

00:54:44.760 about

00:54:45.080 choosing

00:54:45.480 men

00:54:47.140 obviously

00:54:48.340 but I

00:54:48.980 feel like

00:54:49.540 for the

00:54:50.140 future

00:54:50.440 I do

00:54:51.100 want to

00:54:52.260 get married

00:54:52.680 and have

00:54:53.160 kids

00:54:53.620 and stuff

00:54:54.660 like that

00:54:55.060 but

00:54:55.320 I just

00:54:56.360 feel like

00:54:56.920 I

00:54:58.780 this

00:54:59.700 generation

00:55:00.140 is so

00:55:00.640 like

00:55:00.920 messed

00:55:01.220 up

00:55:01.540 and

00:55:01.740 I

00:55:01.960 feel

00:55:02.180 like

00:55:02.360 I

00:55:02.540 could

00:55:03.880 just

00:55:04.220 have

00:55:04.980 stayed

00:55:05.380 true

00:55:05.900 to

00:55:06.320 me

00:55:06.980 and

00:55:08.220 not

00:55:09.260 fed

00:55:09.600 into

00:55:09.980 all

00:55:10.280 of

00:55:10.440 the

00:55:10.580 toxicity

00:55:11.140 but

00:55:11.800 I

00:55:12.220 feel

00:55:12.560 like

00:55:12.860 I

00:55:13.680 allowed

00:55:14.220 it

00:55:14.700 and

00:55:15.160 have

00:55:15.540 continuously

00:55:16.600 been

00:55:16.920 allowing

00:55:17.320 it

00:55:17.540 to

00:55:17.740 mold

00:55:18.020 me

00:55:18.260 into

00:55:18.620 someone

00:55:19.980 else

00:55:20.300 but

00:55:20.460 also

00:55:20.660 I

00:55:20.840 want

00:55:21.120 to

00:55:21.280 add

00:55:21.580 that

00:55:21.900 my

00:55:22.880 mom

00:55:23.140 still

00:55:23.440 is

00:55:23.680 a

00:55:23.800 good

00:55:23.960 mother

00:55:24.260 I

00:55:24.760 love

00:55:25.020 her

00:55:25.280 we

00:55:26.440 were

00:55:26.580 just

00:55:26.780 going

00:55:27.000 through

00:55:27.200 a lot

00:55:27.460 when

00:55:27.620 I

00:55:27.740 was

00:55:28.020 younger

00:55:29.000 I

00:55:29.220 was

00:55:29.380 very

00:55:29.600 rebellious

00:55:30.260 but

00:55:31.040 that's

00:55:31.280 my

00:55:31.460 best

00:55:31.700 friend

00:55:31.920 that

00:55:32.700 makes

00:55:32.920 sense

00:55:33.160 I

00:55:33.300 was

00:55:33.420 going

00:55:33.560 to

00:55:33.660 ask

00:55:33.920 actually

00:55:34.360 when

00:55:34.600 you

00:55:34.700 say

00:55:34.840 you

00:55:34.940 were

00:55:35.060 rebellious

00:55:35.660 do you

00:55:35.920 feel

00:55:36.160 like

00:55:36.540 you

00:55:37.240 end

00:55:37.380 up

00:55:37.520 with

00:55:37.640 these

00:55:37.820 guys

00:55:38.140 because

00:55:38.440 part

00:55:38.840 of

00:55:38.940 you

00:55:39.020 is

00:55:39.140 trying

00:55:39.300 to

00:55:39.420 do

00:55:39.520 the

00:55:39.660 strong

00:55:39.980 independent

00:55:40.460 woman 0.99

00:55:40.800 thing

00:55:41.120 like

00:55:41.300 I

00:55:41.400 don't

00:55:41.540 need

00:55:41.700 a

00:55:41.820 man

00:55:41.960 I

00:55:42.080 can

00:55:42.180 do

00:55:42.300 it

00:55:42.400 myself

00:55:42.840 but

00:55:43.300 at

00:55:43.460 the

00:55:43.660 same

00:55:44.020 time

00:55:44.600 you

00:55:44.840 want

00:55:45.200 somebody

00:55:45.740 so

00:55:46.060 you

00:55:46.180 end

00:55:46.380 up

00:55:46.520 with

00:55:46.660 a

00:55:46.800 guy

00:55:47.200 who

00:55:47.560 is

00:55:48.320 okay

00:55:48.680 with

00:55:48.880 you

00:55:49.000 being

00:55:49.240 strong

00:55:49.600 independent

00:55:49.980 single

00:55:50.300 woman 0.99

00:55:50.620 who

00:55:50.900 also

00:55:51.220 turns

00:55:51.640 out

00:55:51.820 to be

00:55:52.040 the

00:55:52.180 kind

00:55:52.340 of

00:55:52.440 guy

00:55:52.660 who's

00:55:52.980 going

00:55:53.260 to

00:55:53.680 freak

00:55:54.380 out

00:55:54.580 if

00:55:54.680 you

00:55:54.780 get

00:55:54.920 pregnant 0.80

00:55:55.240 and

00:55:55.400 not

00:55:55.560 want

00:55:55.780 to

00:55:56.120 commit

00:55:56.440 and

00:55:56.620 all

00:55:56.740 that

00:55:57.020 I

00:55:57.940 feel

00:55:58.140 like

00:55:58.300 you

00:55:58.400 have

00:55:58.640 a

00:55:58.820 really

00:55:59.000 good

00:55:59.220 point

00:55:59.660 there

00:56:00.240 I

00:56:00.440 don't

00:56:01.040 feel

00:56:01.320 like

00:56:01.480 I

00:56:01.580 ever

00:56:01.780 thought

00:56:02.260 of

00:56:02.420 it

00:56:02.620 like

00:56:03.040 that

00:56:03.360 yeah

00:56:05.540 because

00:56:06.000 even

00:56:06.920 when I

00:56:07.160 was

00:56:07.300 being

00:56:08.040 very

00:56:08.320 rebellious

00:56:08.780 I

00:56:08.920 was

00:56:09.040 just

00:56:09.180 always

00:56:09.500 I

00:56:09.920 just

00:56:10.080 don't

00:56:10.280 like

00:56:10.540 rules

00:56:11.000 I

00:56:11.200 guess

00:56:18.880 well

00:56:24.160 let's

00:56:24.420 see

00:56:24.540 that's

00:56:24.860 the

00:56:24.980 thing

00:56:25.340 if

00:56:25.740 you

00:56:26.280 want

00:56:26.940 the

00:56:27.120 kind

00:56:27.340 of

00:56:27.440 guy

00:56:27.620 who's

00:56:27.840 going

00:56:27.940 to

00:56:28.000 handle

00:56:28.200 business

00:56:28.700 he

00:56:29.300 can't

00:56:29.680 also

00:56:30.020 be

00:56:30.220 the

00:56:30.380 same

00:56:30.560 kind

00:56:30.760 of

00:56:30.840 guy

00:56:31.100 that's

00:56:31.380 going

00:56:31.480 to

00:56:31.580 constantly

00:56:31.920 let

00:56:32.400 you

00:56:32.580 step

00:56:32.920 on

00:56:33.080 his 1.00

00:56:33.220 dick 1.00

00:56:33.480 literally 1.00

00:56:34.620 dick 0.96

00:56:35.040 stepping

00:56:35.520 yeah

00:56:37.860 she

00:56:38.500 can tell

00:56:38.820 you

00:56:38.980 I'm

00:56:40.060 kind

00:56:40.340 of

00:56:40.420 I'm

00:56:40.560 holding

00:56:40.720 my

00:56:40.920 tongue

00:56:41.100 guys

00:56:41.380 it's

00:56:41.540 not

00:56:41.640 my

00:56:41.780 story

00:56:42.000 throw

00:56:44.140 her

00:56:44.340 under

00:56:44.520 the

00:56:44.660 bus

00:56:44.760 listen

00:56:46.700 I

00:56:47.160 can't

00:56:47.440 talk

00:56:47.580 because

00:56:47.740 my

00:56:47.980 must

00:56:48.780 be

00:56:48.960 kind

00:56:49.180 of

00:56:49.260 messed

00:56:49.480 up

00:56:49.700 too

00:56:49.880 but

00:56:50.220 I

00:56:50.680 will

00:56:50.780 say

00:56:50.920 I'm

00:56:51.120 four

00:56:51.800 years

00:56:52.040 older

00:56:52.360 and

00:56:52.860 to

00:56:53.040 experience

00:56:53.620 the

00:56:54.540 things

00:56:54.740 that

00:56:54.880 she

00:56:54.980 goes

00:56:55.180 through

00:56:55.420 I'm

00:56:55.760 like

00:56:56.080 you're

00:56:58.000 just

00:56:58.140 young

00:56:58.500 but

00:56:59.340 I

00:57:00.660 feel

00:57:00.800 like

00:57:00.920 you

00:57:01.020 really

00:57:01.160 do

00:57:01.320 need

00:57:01.500 to

00:57:01.780 understand

00:57:02.160 that

00:57:02.320 you

00:57:02.420 deserve

00:57:02.700 better

00:57:03.020 and

00:57:03.380 stop

00:57:03.620 being

00:57:03.760 comfortable

00:57:04.080 because

00:57:04.320 at

00:57:04.440 the

00:57:04.520 end

00:57:04.580 of

00:57:04.660 the

00:57:04.740 day

00:57:04.920 it's

00:57:05.140 just

00:57:05.240 being

00:57:05.380 comfortable

00:57:05.720 at

00:57:05.900 this

00:57:06.040 point

00:57:06.280 I

00:57:07.140 get

00:57:07.380 really

00:57:08.060 annoyed

00:57:08.440 with

00:57:08.740 the

00:57:08.960 you're

00:57:09.200 just

00:57:09.400 young

00:57:09.680 thing

00:57:10.080 because

00:57:11.180 you're

00:57:18.780 that's

00:57:18.940 the

00:57:19.160 best

00:57:19.720 accountability

00:57:21.880 I think

00:57:22.820 also

00:57:23.320 needs to

00:57:24.780 happen

00:57:25.060 as well

00:57:25.540 and

00:57:25.780 there's

00:57:26.280 a lot

00:57:26.480 of

00:57:26.580 people

00:57:26.760 who

00:57:26.940 are

00:57:27.100 young

00:57:27.460 what

00:57:27.960 I

00:57:28.080 will

00:57:28.260 say

00:57:28.560 is

00:57:28.900 that

00:57:29.260 coming

00:57:30.220 from

00:57:30.580 we

00:57:30.800 don't

00:57:31.000 exactly

00:57:31.340 come

00:57:31.500 from

00:57:31.640 the

00:57:31.760 same

00:57:31.920 place

00:57:32.280 but

00:57:32.600 I

00:57:32.700 have

00:57:32.860 an

00:57:32.960 understanding

00:57:33.280 because

00:57:33.560 when

00:57:33.740 I

00:57:33.920 was

00:57:34.100 her

00:57:34.300 age

00:57:34.620 I

00:57:35.020 had

00:57:35.720 a

00:57:36.040 similar

00:57:36.240 mindset

00:57:36.580 so

00:57:36.860 for

00:57:37.020 me

00:57:37.140 it's

00:57:37.240 like

00:57:37.480 that's

00:57:37.720 how

00:57:37.800 I

00:57:37.900 thought

00:57:38.040 when

00:57:38.160 I

00:57:38.260 was

00:57:38.400 younger

00:57:38.660 so

00:57:39.260 I

00:57:39.360 give

00:57:40.140 her

00:57:40.260 grace

00:57:40.560 but

00:57:40.700 at

00:57:40.760 the

00:57:40.860 same

00:57:48.780 happen

00:57:49.200 I

00:57:50.040 mean

00:57:50.160 I

00:57:50.240 was

00:57:50.360 just

00:57:50.480 going

00:57:50.600 to

00:57:50.660 say

00:57:50.840 I

00:57:51.000 mean

00:57:51.160 we

00:57:52.200 are

00:57:52.420 definitely

00:57:52.680 allowed

00:57:52.920 to

00:57:53.060 make

00:57:53.200 mistakes

00:57:53.500 and

00:57:53.680 we

00:57:53.820 should

00:57:54.000 be

00:57:54.120 making

00:57:54.340 mistakes

00:57:54.720 but

00:57:54.940 yeah

00:57:55.100 we

00:57:55.240 need

00:57:55.400 to

00:57:55.500 have

00:57:55.700 that

00:57:56.080 awareness

00:57:57.200 as

00:57:58.380 we're

00:57:58.560 making

00:57:58.800 those

00:57:59.000 mistakes

00:57:59.420 and

00:58:00.040 then

00:58:00.200 that's

00:58:00.860 when

00:58:00.960 I

00:58:01.040 think

00:58:01.160 it's

00:58:01.300 okay

00:58:01.600 it's

00:58:02.280 if

00:58:02.600 we're

00:58:02.880 making

00:58:03.140 those

00:58:03.340 mistakes

00:58:03.800 and

00:58:04.380 repeating

00:58:04.720 those

00:58:04.940 mistakes

00:58:05.300 when

00:58:05.600 it

00:58:05.680 becomes

00:58:05.900 a

00:58:06.020 problem

00:58:06.400 yeah

00:58:07.000 repetition

00:58:07.480 builds

00:58:08.160 habits

00:58:08.780 whether

00:58:09.060 it's

00:58:09.380 healthy

00:58:09.840 or

00:58:10.140 not

00:58:10.720 so

00:58:11.120 word

00:58:11.720 can

00:58:18.780 and

00:58:19.580 no

00:58:20.780 because

00:58:21.280 I

00:58:21.760 am

00:58:22.020 not

00:58:22.260 I

00:58:22.800 don't

00:58:23.000 think

00:58:23.300 that

00:58:23.560 I

00:58:23.820 should

00:58:24.080 be

00:58:24.320 having

00:58:24.920 children

00:58:26.340 with

00:58:27.100 a man

00:58:28.440 that

00:58:28.660 doesn't

00:58:28.980 even

00:58:29.160 want

00:58:29.460 to

00:58:29.740 take

00:58:30.300 any

00:58:31.000 type

00:58:31.340 of

00:58:31.540 responsibility

00:58:32.260 I

00:58:32.960 would

00:58:33.140 like

00:58:33.420 to

00:58:33.640 be

00:58:33.860 in

00:58:34.040 a

00:58:34.160 household

00:58:34.400 with

00:58:34.680 you

00:58:35.180 know

00:58:35.340 the

00:58:36.180 healthy

00:58:36.660 family

00:58:37.200 dynamic

00:58:37.840 I

00:58:38.340 would

00:58:38.500 like

00:58:38.700 that

00:58:38.960 but

00:58:39.260 I

00:58:40.100 do

00:58:40.340 understand

00:58:40.820 that

00:58:41.160 people

00:58:42.000 have

00:58:42.400 their

00:58:43.320 beliefs

00:58:43.860 and

00:58:44.760 it

00:58:46.000 like

00:58:46.840 I

00:58:46.980 said

00:58:47.100 it

00:58:47.200 wasn't

00:58:47.360 really

00:58:47.540 something

00:58:47.760 that

00:58:47.960 I

00:58:48.060 wanted

00:58:48.280 to

00:58:48.620 do

00:58:49.020 but

00:58:49.460 I

00:58:51.180 had

00:58:51.980 to

00:58:52.200 and

00:58:52.520 I

00:58:52.720 regret

00:58:53.600 it

00:58:53.760 and

00:58:53.880 I

00:58:54.000 don't

00:58:55.220 basically

00:58:55.760 I

00:58:56.780 mean

00:58:57.200 I

00:58:57.360 definitely

00:58:57.660 agree

00:58:57.980 I

00:58:58.160 think

00:58:58.420 that

00:58:58.680 children

00:58:58.980 do

00:58:59.200 deserve

00:58:59.520 to

00:58:59.700 be

00:58:59.840 born

00:59:00.080 to

00:59:00.380 like

00:59:00.600 a

00:59:00.720 mother

00:59:00.900 and

00:59:01.060 a

00:59:01.160 father

00:59:01.420 who

00:59:01.640 love

00:59:01.860 them

00:59:02.160 and

00:59:02.420 will

00:59:02.600 give

00:59:02.880 them

00:59:03.060 everything

00:59:03.340 that

00:59:03.600 they

00:59:03.760 deserve

00:59:04.200 but

00:59:05.060 I

00:59:05.260 do

00:59:05.440 think

00:59:05.800 that

00:59:06.200 consequences

00:59:07.440 have

00:59:07.700 actions

00:59:08.140 and

00:59:08.340 I

00:59:08.440 believe

00:59:09.180 that

00:59:09.600 if

00:59:09.920 you're

00:59:10.100 having 0.99

00:59:10.360 sex 0.99

00:59:10.860 then 0.76

00:59:12.480 you

00:59:12.720 should

00:59:12.920 be

00:59:13.100 willing

00:59:13.340 to

00:59:13.540 accept

00:59:13.820 the

00:59:14.000 consequence

00:59:14.460 that

00:59:14.680 you

00:59:14.840 could

00:59:15.040 conceive

00:59:15.340 a

00:59:15.500 child

00:59:15.700 with

00:59:15.860 that

00:59:16.000 person

00:59:16.340 and

00:59:16.620 we

00:59:16.800 shouldn't

00:59:17.020 have 0.78

00:59:17.180 sex 1.00

00:59:17.420 with 0.82

00:59:17.560 people

00:59:17.740 we

00:59:17.880 don't

00:59:18.060 want

00:59:18.200 to

00:59:18.260 have

00:59:18.400 kids

00:59:18.640 with

00:59:18.900 yeah

00:59:19.380 and

00:59:20.120 I

00:59:20.240 wanted

00:59:20.440 to

00:59:20.700 have

00:59:20.920 kids

00:59:21.160 with

00:59:21.320 him

00:59:21.540 initially

00:59:22.220 yeah

00:59:22.860 but

00:59:23.880 you know

00:59:24.480 just

00:59:24.800 didn't

00:59:25.840 work out

00:59:26.420 that

00:59:26.640 way

00:59:26.900 and

00:59:27.160 once

00:59:27.560 I

00:59:27.740 I

00:59:28.420 had

00:59:28.580 never

00:59:28.840 seen

00:59:29.340 him

00:59:29.640 blow 0.96

00:59:30.080 up 0.90

00:59:30.400 like

00:59:30.620 that

00:59:30.880 until

00:59:31.400 that

00:59:32.240 situation

00:59:32.840 happened

00:59:33.480 and

00:59:33.740 then

00:59:33.900 it

00:59:34.220 obviously

00:59:35.520 happened

00:59:35.960 again

00:59:36.480 so

00:59:36.980 just

00:59:37.460 so

00:59:39.060 what

00:59:39.260 was

00:59:39.440 your

00:59:39.640 like

00:59:39.880 first

00:59:40.280 red

00:59:40.620 flag

00:59:41.000 with

00:59:41.260 him

00:59:41.500 and

00:59:41.680 how

00:59:41.860 early

00:59:42.220 did

00:59:42.480 it

00:59:42.640 happen

00:59:42.940 in

00:59:43.100 the

00:59:43.200 relationship

00:59:43.540 because

00:59:43.760 you

00:59:43.840 were

00:59:43.940 together

00:59:44.260 for

00:59:44.500 four

00:59:44.680 years

00:59:44.880 so

00:59:45.120 when

00:59:45.600 did

00:59:45.720 that

00:59:45.880 red

00:59:46.040 flag

00:59:46.280 appear

00:59:46.700 and

00:59:46.880 why

00:59:47.020 did

00:59:47.180 you

00:59:47.260 ignore

00:59:47.540 it

00:59:47.880 first

00:59:49.260 red

00:59:49.460 flag

00:59:49.700 was

00:59:49.860 when

00:59:50.000 he

00:59:50.100 was

00:59:50.260 sleeping

00:59:50.580 in

00:59:50.920 my

00:59:51.200 bed

00:59:51.760 at

00:59:52.160 my

00:59:53.040 house

00:59:53.620 and

00:59:54.360 his

00:59:56.120 phone

00:59:56.360 kept

00:59:56.600 going

00:59:56.880 off

00:59:57.220 and

00:59:57.440 I

00:59:57.540 already

00:59:57.920 knew

00:59:58.100 the

00:59:58.280 phone

00:59:58.440 password

00:59:58.760 so

00:59:58.960 I

00:59:59.080 went

00:59:59.200 through

00:59:59.320 the

00:59:59.440 phone

00:59:59.660 and

01:00:00.840 I

01:00:01.120 seen

01:00:01.540 him

01:00:02.020 talking

01:00:03.180 to

01:00:03.440 multiple

01:00:03.700 people

01:00:04.040 but

01:00:04.220 it

01:00:04.340 was

01:00:04.440 just

01:00:11.500 ex-girlfriend

01:00:11.980 that

01:00:12.180 he

01:00:12.400 claims

01:00:12.780 is

01:00:13.040 not

01:00:13.360 his

01:00:13.580 ex-girlfriend

01:00:14.120 but

01:00:14.300 you

01:00:14.540 guys

01:00:14.780 were

01:00:14.920 dealing

01:00:15.140 with

01:00:15.340 each

01:00:15.500 other

01:00:15.680 seriously

01:00:16.100 so

01:00:16.360 it's

01:00:16.540 obviously

01:00:17.020 that

01:00:18.060 and

01:00:18.660 I

01:00:20.520 figured

01:00:21.180 out

01:00:21.380 that

01:00:21.560 he

01:00:21.700 was

01:00:21.900 driving

01:00:22.440 her

01:00:22.760 car

01:00:23.060 that

01:00:23.240 he

01:00:24.560 was

01:00:24.720 driving

01:00:25.120 and

01:00:25.660 stuff

01:00:25.860 that

01:00:26.020 he

01:00:26.180 was

01:00:26.360 paying

01:00:26.640 on

01:00:26.940 she

01:00:27.560 had

01:00:27.860 ended

01:00:28.140 up

01:00:28.360 moving

01:00:28.800 away

01:00:29.420 to

01:00:29.940 another

01:00:30.420 state

01:00:31.060 and

01:00:32.080 so

01:00:32.560 he

01:00:32.800 was

01:00:33.040 paying

01:00:33.840 on

01:00:34.860 the

01:00:35.000 car

01:00:35.300 can

01:00:35.680 we

01:00:35.800 arrive

01:00:36.040 at

01:00:36.160 the

01:00:36.260 point

01:00:36.460 here

01:00:36.740 but

01:00:38.340 yeah

01:00:38.480 that

01:00:38.660 was

01:00:38.880 really

01:00:39.840 like

01:00:40.100 the

01:00:40.260 first

01:00:40.820 red

01:00:41.020 flag

01:00:41.280 so

01:00:41.840 just

01:00:42.020 him

01:00:42.240 cheating

01:00:42.620 basically

01:00:43.180 yeah

01:00:43.740 okay

01:00:44.440 and

01:00:44.820 when

01:00:44.980 was

01:00:45.200 that

01:00:45.400 in

01:00:45.580 the

01:00:45.680 relationship

01:00:46.080 because

01:00:46.340 you

01:00:46.420 were

01:00:46.480 together

01:00:46.640 for

01:00:46.800 four

01:00:46.940 years

01:00:47.080 when

01:00:47.240 did

01:00:47.360 that

01:00:47.520 happen

01:00:47.820 four

01:00:48.240 months

01:00:48.520 in

01:00:48.720 oh

01:00:49.060 my

01:00:49.200 goodness

01:00:49.620 I'm

01:00:50.060 so

01:00:50.320 sorry

01:00:50.540 you

01:00:50.700 stayed

01:00:50.900 with

01:00:51.080 him

01:00:51.280 and

01:00:51.500 that

01:00:51.640 was

01:00:51.780 after

01:00:52.140 the

01:00:52.460 first

01:00:52.820 abortion

01:00:53.520 yeah

01:00:54.200 can

01:00:54.680 I

01:00:54.800 ask

01:00:55.180 something

01:00:55.540 I'm

01:00:57.340 not

01:00:57.680 saying

01:00:57.920 you

01:00:58.200 were

01:00:58.340 wrong

01:00:58.600 for

01:00:58.780 doing

01:00:59.000 what

01:00:59.160 you

01:00:59.280 did

01:00:59.520 at

01:01:00.180 all

01:01:00.980 just

01:01:01.640 a

01:01:02.000 general

01:01:02.180 question

01:01:02.520 at

01:01:02.880 those

01:01:03.080 clinics

01:01:03.460 you

01:01:03.720 know

01:01:03.880 they

01:01:04.440 are

01:01:05.280 supposed

01:01:05.620 to

01:01:05.860 ask

01:01:06.300 are

01:01:07.040 you

01:01:07.180 being

01:01:07.360 forced

01:01:07.620 into

01:01:07.820 this

01:01:08.020 situation

01:01:08.560 did

01:01:10.340 they

01:01:10.800 ever

01:01:11.060 ask

01:01:11.380 you

01:01:11.500 that

01:01:11.800 yeah

01:01:12.660 they

01:01:12.800 always

01:01:13.040 did

01:01:13.240 and

01:01:13.380 I

01:01:13.500 always

01:01:13.760 told

01:01:14.040 them

01:01:14.240 no

01:01:14.600 oh

01:01:15.100 girl 0.91

01:01:15.540 just

01:01:16.920 out

01:01:17.140 of

01:01:17.280 fear

01:01:17.840 sure

01:01:19.300 sure

01:01:19.960 fear

01:01:20.380 is a

01:01:20.840 very

01:01:21.240 strong

01:01:21.880 motivation

01:01:22.520 yeah

01:01:24.260 okay

01:01:27.760 we're

01:01:28.040 gonna

01:01:28.180 get

01:01:28.460 to

01:01:28.940 one

01:01:30.120 of

01:01:30.240 the

01:01:30.440 chats

01:01:31.180 that

01:01:31.360 came

01:01:31.540 in

01:01:31.680 earlier

01:01:32.060 he

01:01:32.920 asked

01:01:33.340 what

01:01:33.720 are

01:01:34.040 red

01:01:34.420 flags

01:01:34.940 y'all

01:01:35.320 have

01:01:35.580 ignored

01:01:35.900 in

01:01:36.120 the

01:01:36.240 past

01:01:36.720 that

01:01:37.080 you

01:01:37.240 absolutely

01:01:38.100 shouldn't

01:01:39.340 have

01:01:39.740 we're

01:01:41.660 gonna

01:01:41.860 we'll

01:01:42.380 start

01:01:42.600 with

01:01:42.820 you

01:01:43.140 we'll

01:01:43.420 go

01:01:43.520 around

01:01:43.720 the

01:01:43.860 table

01:01:44.180 so

01:01:44.560 what

01:01:44.740 are

01:01:44.860 red

01:01:45.060 flags

01:01:45.520 you've

01:01:46.320 ignored

01:01:46.660 in

01:01:46.920 the

01:01:47.020 past

01:01:47.320 that

01:01:47.500 you

01:01:47.620 absolutely

01:01:48.000 shouldn't

01:01:48.380 have

01:01:48.640 go

01:01:48.920 ahead

01:01:49.080 well

01:01:50.500 I

01:01:50.660 feel

01:01:50.820 like

01:01:51.000 I

01:01:51.160 already

01:01:51.360 I

01:01:51.920 touched

01:01:52.260 on

01:01:52.540 it

01:01:52.740 really

01:01:53.200 just

01:01:53.660 going

01:01:54.340 through

01:01:54.500 the

01:01:54.640 phone

01:01:54.840 and

01:01:55.060 seeing

01:01:55.500 a

01:01:55.700 bunch

01:01:55.900 of

01:01:56.000 things

01:01:56.320 like

01:01:56.600 that

01:01:56.820 should

01:01:57.060 have

01:01:57.160 just

01:01:57.320 been

01:01:57.500 like

01:01:57.700 okay

01:01:57.960 like

01:01:58.220 no

01:01:59.620 immediately

01:02:00.740 I

01:02:01.220 should

01:02:01.400 have

01:02:01.480 just

01:02:01.640 been

01:02:01.780 like

01:02:01.920 no

01:02:02.140 so

01:02:02.740 I'll

01:02:03.400 leave

01:02:03.500 it

01:02:03.600 at

01:02:03.700 that

01:02:04.220 well

01:02:07.200 the

01:02:07.420 fact

01:02:07.740 that

01:02:08.020 I

01:02:08.260 started

01:02:08.620 out

01:02:08.920 as

01:02:09.200 the

01:02:09.420 other

01:02:09.660 woman 0.99

01:02:09.920 in

01:02:10.140 the

01:02:10.240 first

01:02:10.460 place

01:02:10.860 that's

01:02:11.820 a

01:02:11.980 big

01:02:12.200 one

01:02:12.480 I

01:02:14.300 would

01:02:14.440 say

01:02:14.640 love

01:02:14.980 bombing

01:02:15.300 and 0.76

01:02:15.580 then

01:02:15.760 not

01:02:15.980 taking

01:02:16.220 accountability

01:02:16.740 during

01:02:17.400 arguments

01:02:17.840 I

01:02:18.140 was

01:02:18.280 like

01:02:18.560 I'd

01:02:19.200 be

01:02:19.320 gaslighted

01:02:19.880 and

01:02:20.060 I

01:02:20.300 can't

01:02:20.780 argue

01:02:21.000 with 0.66

01:02:21.120 crazy 0.87

01:02:21.400 so 0.56

01:02:21.820 I'd

01:02:24.280 say

01:02:24.560 just

01:02:24.820 being

01:02:25.220 the

01:02:25.680 rebound

01:02:25.980 girl 0.91

01:02:26.260 yeah

01:02:27.960 I'd

01:02:30.560 have

01:02:30.680 to

01:02:30.820 say

01:02:31.060 somebody

01:02:31.460 who

01:02:31.680 doesn't

01:02:31.900 have

01:02:32.200 their

01:02:32.460 own

01:02:32.820 interests

01:02:33.320 and

01:02:33.560 hobbies

01:02:33.980 and

01:02:35.500 they're

01:02:35.680 kind

01:02:35.860 of

01:02:36.020 like

01:02:36.260 clinging

01:02:36.560 on

01:02:36.820 to

01:02:36.960 you

01:02:37.220 and

01:02:38.100 you're

01:02:38.280 their

01:02:38.460 hobby

01:02:38.780 so

01:02:39.260 yeah

01:02:39.720 I

01:02:40.560 would

01:02:40.760 say

01:02:41.060 a

01:02:41.260 guy

01:02:41.460 who's

01:02:41.800 willing

01:02:42.040 to

01:02:42.260 let

01:02:42.440 me

01:02:42.800 take

01:02:43.100 responsibility

01:02:43.720 and

01:02:44.040 be

01:02:44.160 in

01:02:44.320 charge

01:02:44.540 of

01:02:44.680 everything

01:02:45.000 and

01:02:45.280 wear

01:02:45.420 the

01:02:45.580 pants

01:02:45.980 and

01:02:46.200 pay

01:02:46.540 all

01:02:46.720 the

01:02:46.840 bills

01:02:47.240 and

01:02:47.720 be

01:02:48.120 the

01:02:48.260 grown

01:02:48.480 up

01:02:48.720 did

01:02:50.200 that

01:02:50.400 when

01:02:50.540 I

01:02:50.640 was

01:02:50.760 really

01:02:50.960 young

01:02:51.200 and

01:02:51.320 that

01:02:51.440 didn't

01:02:51.680 turn out

01:02:52.040 well

01:02:52.340 so

01:02:52.820 yeah

01:02:54.320 go ahead

01:02:59.220 what do

01:03:01.440 you think

01:03:01.700 are your

01:03:02.060 own

01:03:02.340 red

01:03:02.540 flags

01:03:03.020 really

01:03:04.260 cool

01:03:04.680 you want

01:03:06.080 to start

01:03:06.260 with you

01:03:06.600 and go

01:03:06.860 around

01:03:07.100 for me

01:03:09.800 coming from

01:03:10.560 not being

01:03:11.500 a healed

01:03:12.060 person

01:03:12.540 I feel

01:03:13.140 like

01:03:13.480 I have

01:03:15.480 definitely

01:03:16.080 done my

01:03:17.380 fair share

01:03:18.280 of damage

01:03:19.280 and I

01:03:19.960 feel like

01:03:20.480 I always

01:03:22.680 have to

01:03:23.020 one up

01:03:23.480 someone

01:03:24.700 I don't

01:03:25.140 like losing

01:03:26.020 I'm an

01:03:27.560 Aries

01:03:27.820 so I

01:03:28.500 just

01:03:28.800 I don't

01:03:29.260 like

01:03:29.540 I just

01:03:30.980 don't like

01:03:31.220 that

01:03:31.460 I feel

01:03:31.940 like that's

01:03:32.260 a really

01:03:32.480 big thing

01:03:32.980 because you

01:03:33.400 could just

01:03:33.860 be a

01:03:34.360 bigger person

01:03:34.900 just walk

01:03:35.420 away

01:03:35.700 because silence

01:03:36.360 is really

01:03:36.900 the best

01:03:37.540 revenge

01:03:38.560 okay

01:03:40.740 I want

01:03:42.300 to say

01:03:42.660 just

01:03:43.140 that I'm

01:03:44.440 stubborn

01:03:44.880 you know

01:03:46.560 I don't

01:03:46.940 always want

01:03:47.320 to admit

01:03:47.700 that I'm

01:03:48.420 wrong

01:03:48.820 granted

01:03:50.460 I'm working

01:03:50.800 on that

01:03:51.500 you know

01:03:52.940 I want

01:03:53.960 to be

01:03:54.160 better

01:03:54.380 so I can

01:03:54.660 be better

01:03:54.900 for others

01:03:55.320 I get

01:03:57.580 comfortable

01:03:57.980 really

01:03:58.480 really fast

01:03:59.140 so if

01:04:00.260 there's

01:04:00.560 something

01:04:00.760 that's

01:04:01.060 negative

01:04:01.340 in the

01:04:01.960 relationship

01:04:02.240 I can

01:04:03.160 get used

01:04:03.620 to it

01:04:03.860 because I'm

01:04:04.280 like

01:04:04.500 okay

01:04:05.180 it's not

01:04:05.480 that serious

01:04:05.900 it's not

01:04:06.220 that serious

01:04:06.560 until I blow 0.68

01:04:07.040 up

01:04:07.320 I'd say

01:04:10.040 I have a

01:04:10.460 difficult time

01:04:11.040 asking for

01:04:11.560 help

01:04:12.320 maybe I

01:04:19.200 have a

01:04:19.620 temper

01:04:20.000 I have been

01:04:22.440 working really

01:04:23.020 hard to make

01:04:23.640 sure that

01:04:24.440 I think

01:04:25.880 before I

01:04:26.500 yell

01:04:26.800 me I

01:04:29.760 for me

01:04:31.560 it was

01:04:31.880 never

01:04:32.200 promiscuity

01:04:34.920 or anything

01:04:35.500 like that

01:04:35.920 I never

01:04:36.240 did that

01:04:36.800 but

01:04:37.620 early on

01:04:38.860 when I

01:04:39.080 was younger

01:04:39.420 I was

01:04:39.760 really

01:04:40.120 willful

01:04:40.740 and

01:04:41.600 same

01:04:42.260 as what

01:04:42.920 all you

01:04:43.300 guys are

01:04:43.640 saying

01:04:43.980 and I

01:04:44.720 think

01:04:44.980 the

01:04:45.220 takeaway

01:04:45.460 from that

01:04:45.980 is that

01:04:46.380 especially

01:04:46.780 all of

01:04:47.200 us

01:04:47.420 who are

01:04:47.740 born

01:04:48.080 in this

01:04:48.700 day and

01:04:48.980 age

01:04:49.200 as

01:04:49.420 women 1.00

01:04:49.660 we tend

01:04:50.480 to be

01:04:50.700 really

01:04:50.940 willful

01:04:51.440 we're

01:04:51.920 taught

01:04:52.160 that we

01:04:52.400 should

01:04:52.580 compete

01:04:52.960 with men

01:04:53.540 we're

01:04:54.040 told

01:04:54.320 that we

01:04:54.780 need to

01:04:55.340 not let

01:04:55.740 anyone

01:04:55.960 control

01:04:56.400 us

01:04:56.680 and not

01:04:56.960 let anybody

01:04:57.300 tell us

01:04:57.660 what to

01:04:57.880 do

01:04:58.080 and so

01:04:58.440 we feel

01:04:59.500 like we

01:04:59.860 do have

01:05:00.200 to constantly

01:05:00.960 one up

01:05:01.860 the guy

01:05:02.320 or whatever

01:05:02.740 I did

01:05:03.140 that too

01:05:03.500 when I

01:05:03.700 was younger

01:05:04.080 and good

01:05:05.160 wives are 1.00

01:05:05.940 not born

01:05:06.700 they're made

01:05:08.040 and it was

01:05:08.440 something I

01:05:08.820 had to work

01:05:09.380 on it was

01:05:09.800 something that

01:05:10.380 I worked

01:05:11.000 on with

01:05:11.420 my husband's

01:05:12.120 help

01:05:12.500 and we can

01:05:13.880 maybe get

01:05:14.320 into that

01:05:14.720 later but

01:05:15.140 yeah I

01:05:15.860 had all the

01:05:16.380 same issues

01:05:16.880 I had a

01:05:17.260 temper

01:05:17.560 I was

01:05:18.180 willful

01:05:18.740 I was

01:05:20.520 competitive

01:05:21.320 all that

01:05:22.760 stuff

01:05:23.120 when I

01:05:23.600 was young

01:05:23.940 so

01:05:24.280 so did

01:05:28.080 you guys

01:05:28.420 was a

01:05:29.220 second

01:05:29.500 question

01:05:30.000 asked

01:05:30.380 yeah

01:05:30.660 it was

01:05:31.300 what are

01:05:31.800 our red

01:05:32.620 flags

01:05:33.020 red flags

01:05:33.960 okay

01:05:34.480 I had to

01:05:35.580 get up

01:05:35.880 there for

01:05:36.240 a second

01:05:36.600 so I

01:05:37.060 missed

01:05:37.300 all your

01:05:37.600 answers

01:05:37.880 but we

01:05:38.560 have

01:05:38.700 Pans

01:05:39.000 Dan

01:05:39.360 Ming

01:05:40.140 it's

01:05:40.520 Dan

01:05:40.700 from

01:05:40.880 First Point

01:05:41.460 awesome

01:05:41.860 you're

01:05:42.080 on this

01:05:42.340 pod

01:05:42.660 can you

01:05:43.000 get an

01:05:43.240 autograph

01:05:43.520 from Rachel

01:05:44.120 Wilson

01:05:44.400 for me

01:05:44.800 I loved

01:05:45.820 her book

01:05:46.420 and she's

01:05:47.120 an amazing

01:05:47.480 debater

01:05:47.820 good luck

01:05:48.260 Ming

01:05:48.520 see you

01:05:48.860 at

01:05:48.980 Malibu

01:05:49.580 see ya

01:05:50.820 nice

01:05:51.260 hopefully we'll

01:05:51.780 get some

01:05:52.080 Southwell

01:05:52.460 soon

01:05:52.820 you ever

01:05:54.120 surfed

01:05:54.420 Leo

01:05:54.620 Correa

01:05:54.960 secos

01:05:56.040 yeah

01:05:56.500 it's a

01:05:57.660 good spot

01:05:58.140 it's okay

01:05:58.460 it's actually

01:05:59.120 a really crappy

01:05:59.720 break you

01:06:00.080 should never

01:06:00.380 go there

01:06:00.760 well the

01:06:02.600 problem is

01:06:03.040 it's got

01:06:04.360 that rock

01:06:04.940 so it's

01:06:05.320 like there's

01:06:05.660 one takeoff

01:06:06.280 spot

01:06:06.680 yeah the rock

01:06:07.580 is really

01:06:07.940 dangerous

01:06:08.300 you shouldn't

01:06:08.880 go there

01:06:09.360 definitely

01:06:09.800 shouldn't

01:06:10.140 surf secos

01:06:10.880 yeah

01:06:11.140 definitely

01:06:11.840 but it's

01:06:13.460 like if

01:06:13.860 there's

01:06:14.100 more

01:06:14.440 it suffers

01:06:15.280 from like

01:06:15.720 crowd

01:06:16.020 issues

01:06:16.360 because

01:06:16.540 there's

01:06:16.740 basically

01:06:17.160 one

01:06:17.380 takeoff

01:06:17.760 so if

01:06:18.080 there's

01:06:18.220 more than

01:06:18.540 like

01:06:18.780 handful

01:06:19.840 of people

01:06:20.220 out there

01:06:20.600 it's just 1.00

01:06:21.080 it's fucked 1.00

01:06:23.400 it's fucked 1.00

01:06:24.440 okay 1.00

01:06:24.980 yep

01:06:25.560 ring con's

01:06:26.240 better

01:06:26.440 okay

01:06:26.780 okay

01:06:27.640 everyone go to ring con

01:06:28.660 yeah go to ring con

01:06:29.640 all right

01:06:30.640 cool

01:06:31.060 I'll answer the question

01:06:34.580 too I guess

01:06:35.300 let me find it

01:06:36.520 what are red flags

01:06:38.100 y'all have ignored

01:06:38.700 in the past

01:06:39.320 that you absolutely

01:06:40.060 okay

01:06:40.680 she was a feminist 0.99

01:06:43.180 ignored it

01:06:47.480 long time ago

01:06:48.860 speaking of which

01:06:50.540 who here

01:06:52.060 considers themselves

01:06:53.240 I should have

01:06:54.220 maybe asked

01:06:55.120 this first

01:06:55.600 who here

01:06:56.640 considers themselves

01:06:57.700 a feminist

01:06:58.640 we'll start

01:07:00.720 just one by one

01:07:01.440 what about you

01:07:02.400 um

01:07:03.040 yeah I consider

01:07:04.440 myself a feminist 0.90

01:07:05.320 what about you

01:07:06.340 I mean

01:07:07.240 what is a feminist 1.00

01:07:09.040 anymore

01:07:09.580 if we're being honest

01:07:10.820 a feminist

01:07:12.180 is somebody

01:07:12.760 who believes

01:07:13.520 in egalitarianism

01:07:15.260 or equality

01:07:16.220 between men and women 0.90

01:07:17.240 I mean

01:07:18.880 yeah

01:07:19.480 within

01:07:20.960 is that the charitable

01:07:22.580 that's the charitable

01:07:23.940 sure

01:07:24.680 I mean within

01:07:25.240 that definition

01:07:26.060 sure

01:07:26.500 okay

01:07:27.060 hmm

01:07:27.740 now I want to

01:07:28.380 change my answer

01:07:29.080 because I feel like

01:07:30.420 that is um

01:07:31.720 depending on what

01:07:32.880 we're talking about

01:07:33.500 yeah

01:07:33.820 financially

01:07:34.840 um

01:07:35.760 physically

01:07:36.500 like what

01:07:37.560 are we getting at

01:07:38.320 but

01:07:38.760 I'm gonna just say

01:07:40.000 I'm 50-50 on that

01:07:40.860 no I'm not a feminist 0.76

01:07:43.500 I'm not a feminist

01:07:46.460 either

01:07:46.860 but I do

01:07:47.760 want equality

01:07:48.880 in sports

01:07:49.920 though

01:07:50.380 equality in sports

01:07:52.200 yeah

01:07:52.600 meaning

01:07:53.340 like

01:07:54.140 paid the same

01:07:55.620 or

01:07:55.940 um

01:07:56.700 not paid the same

01:07:58.640 but

01:07:59.060 like co-ed

01:08:00.140 it's a

01:08:00.880 it's a

01:08:00.900 I'm very

01:08:02.280 on the fence

01:08:02.980 about it

01:08:03.540 um

01:08:04.540 but as

01:08:06.120 an athlete

01:08:07.020 I want to be able

01:08:08.240 to make a living

01:08:09.460 doing what

01:08:10.340 I like to do too

01:08:11.340 and it's really

01:08:11.960 difficult as a woman

01:08:12.860 so it's more

01:08:14.060 the financial aspect

01:08:15.300 because I was wondering

01:08:16.120 how you feel about

01:08:17.240 the transgender folks

01:08:19.680 who want to

01:08:20.520 compete in women's sports

01:08:21.700 and things like that

01:08:22.640 how do you feel about that

01:08:24.080 I

01:08:24.940 think that

01:08:27.040 we have

01:08:28.040 divisions

01:08:28.940 for a reason

01:08:29.980 we have a

01:08:31.220 women's division

01:08:31.860 and a men's division

01:08:32.680 for a very specific

01:08:34.060 and there's a

01:08:34.900 there

01:08:35.200 that's

01:08:35.740 we should have that

01:08:36.580 yeah

01:08:37.040 well I have some

01:08:39.040 questions on that one

01:08:40.120 so you said that

01:08:41.140 you want equality

01:08:42.040 in sports

01:08:43.000 well not equality

01:08:44.500 but

01:08:44.940 I just want

01:08:47.400 more visibility

01:08:48.460 with women's sports 0.53

01:08:49.880 maybe

01:08:50.520 you want more visibility

01:08:52.000 so what is

01:08:53.020 what would that look like

01:08:53.920 opportunity

01:08:54.020 more opportunity

01:08:54.780 for us

01:08:55.460 yeah what does that mean

01:08:56.280 well I feel like

01:08:57.980 at least in surfing

01:08:59.840 and I'm sure it's similar

01:09:00.680 in other sports

01:09:01.400 you are either

01:09:03.200 maybe the top three

01:09:05.360 in the world

01:09:07.980 and you get a lot

01:09:10.380 of spotlight

01:09:10.940 and you get a lot

01:09:11.880 of attention

01:09:12.340 or you have to

01:09:14.260 kind of show your body

01:09:15.100 and use that

01:09:16.060 to gain followers

01:09:17.820 and income

01:09:18.720 so it's

01:09:20.460 it's just tough

01:09:21.600 in this industry

01:09:23.620 to make a living

01:09:25.800 okay so

01:09:26.980 yeah

01:09:27.400 so when it comes

01:09:28.360 to surfing right

01:09:29.100 you're

01:09:29.360 and when you say

01:09:29.940 you have to be top

01:09:30.560 three you're talking

01:09:31.180 about like the

01:09:31.680 the women's

01:09:32.340 professional surfing

01:09:33.300 yeah

01:09:33.540 okay

01:09:34.240 and so

01:09:35.560 do you think

01:09:37.600 that

01:09:38.000 because

01:09:39.380 one component

01:09:40.500 of surfing

01:09:40.920 you have sponsorships

01:09:41.860 but you also have

01:09:43.620 competitions

01:09:44.540 and typically

01:09:45.720 the person

01:09:46.600 who places

01:09:47.520 the best

01:09:48.160 gets paid more

01:09:50.040 I don't know

01:09:50.480 what it is

01:09:50.860 in women's

01:09:51.540 I remember

01:09:52.240 last time

01:09:52.740 I used to watch

01:09:53.420 at least the men's

01:09:54.120 surfing

01:09:54.380 the first place

01:09:56.120 for like

01:09:56.800 the top surf

01:09:58.040 competitions

01:09:58.480 would typically

01:09:58.980 be like

01:09:59.340 40-50 thousand

01:10:00.160 for the winner

01:10:01.680 that was a long

01:10:02.920 time ago

01:10:03.300 though

01:10:03.460 maybe it's

01:10:03.880 increased

01:10:04.240 yeah that's probably

01:10:04.560 with shortboarding

01:10:05.300 too and I'm a

01:10:05.920 longboarder

01:10:06.460 so I've

01:10:07.200 oh it's probably

01:10:07.840 even less for

01:10:08.620 longboarding

01:10:09.400 yeah so I really

01:10:10.080 stabbed myself

01:10:10.880 in the foot 0.99

01:10:11.300 or shot myself 0.95

01:10:11.860 in the foot 0.91

01:10:12.220 there with being

01:10:12.680 a longboarder

01:10:13.240 because there's

01:10:13.760 really no attention

01:10:14.840 with longboarding

01:10:15.500 let me ask you

01:10:16.220 a question

01:10:16.540 so on a good

01:10:17.740 day at C Street

01:10:18.620 surf spot in Ventura

01:10:20.220 how many people

01:10:22.400 are typically out

01:10:23.240 at a given time

01:10:24.000 a hundred

01:10:24.460 would you say

01:10:25.600 a hundred surfers

01:10:26.940 on a good day

01:10:27.580 maybe 50

01:10:29.140 at C Street

01:10:30.780 just in the cove

01:10:33.100 well there's the cove

01:10:34.400 and then there's like

01:10:35.080 what's it first point

01:10:36.040 what's it called

01:10:36.640 stables

01:10:37.120 the point

01:10:39.000 middle lot

01:10:40.140 the whole

01:10:42.000 well you got the pier

01:10:43.780 and then

01:10:44.200 that's the cove

01:10:45.480 I would argue

01:10:46.560 on a good day

01:10:47.120 at C Street

01:10:47.560 there's gonna be like

01:10:48.460 there can be a hundred

01:10:50.560 people at the cove

01:10:51.340 even

01:10:51.660 sure

01:10:52.020 okay so

01:10:53.720 how many of those

01:10:54.480 are men typically

01:10:55.220 like if there's

01:10:57.720 a hundred people out

01:10:58.420 how many women 1.00

01:10:58.900 90% or more

01:11:00.540 okay

01:11:00.960 all right

01:11:02.140 so

01:11:02.960 and so

01:11:07.280 would you want

01:11:08.160 for example

01:11:08.760 women's longboarders

01:11:10.280 to be paid the same

01:11:11.080 as women's shortboarders

01:11:12.600 yeah

01:11:16.360 even though that

01:11:18.240 they're

01:11:18.680 even though there's

01:11:19.280 like kind of less

01:11:20.180 viewership

01:11:22.380 and demand

01:11:23.220 for

01:11:23.680 watching

01:11:25.020 longboarding

01:11:26.220 compared to

01:11:26.920 yeah I hear

01:11:27.420 I hear what

01:11:27.600 you're saying

01:11:28.160 and I'm

01:11:28.900 and I agree

01:11:31.420 with you

01:11:31.780 with every other

01:11:32.420 sport but mine

01:11:33.420 well that's

01:11:35.040 a little

01:11:35.460 that doesn't

01:11:36.540 make sense

01:11:36.980 I know

01:11:37.300 it doesn't

01:11:37.680 make sense

01:11:38.220 and I think

01:11:40.180 since I'm so

01:11:40.720 close and personal

01:11:41.540 and I've been

01:11:42.320 doing it for

01:11:43.040 a very long

01:11:43.560 time

01:11:43.760 it's hard

01:11:44.180 but I

01:11:44.640 I hear

01:11:45.460 your side

01:11:46.040 and I

01:11:46.480 agree with

01:11:46.980 your side

01:11:47.280 a lot

01:11:47.620 and it's

01:11:48.360 just frustrating

01:11:49.060 trying to

01:11:50.420 should

01:11:52.240 women 1.00

01:11:52.880 longboarders

01:11:54.000 be paid

01:11:54.660 the same

01:11:55.140 as male

01:11:55.700 shortboarders

01:11:56.540 I think

01:12:02.440 if you're

01:12:02.860 competing

01:12:03.220 in the same

01:12:04.000 event

01:12:04.360 which they

01:12:04.740 never would

01:12:05.360 be

01:12:05.720 because you

01:12:06.520 never

01:12:06.820 like a

01:12:07.980 pro event

01:12:08.500 they would

01:12:08.800 never have

01:12:09.420 longboarders

01:12:09.940 and shortboarders

01:12:10.520 at the same

01:12:10.980 event

01:12:11.340 but if you

01:12:13.120 are competing

01:12:13.620 in the same

01:12:14.060 event

01:12:14.320 on the same

01:12:14.960 actually

01:12:16.860 let me think

01:12:17.300 about that

01:12:17.860 if you're

01:12:19.700 okay

01:12:21.900 so for example

01:12:22.740 I watched

01:12:23.300 the

01:12:23.620 pipe master

01:12:24.420 pro

01:12:24.780 and

01:12:26.460 I definitely

01:12:28.300 think

01:12:28.760 those

01:12:29.180 whoever is

01:12:30.360 surfing pipeline

01:12:31.160 when it's

01:12:31.740 huge

01:12:32.060 they definitely

01:12:32.780 deserve

01:12:33.360 to get the

01:12:34.560 pay that they

01:12:35.040 get

01:12:35.320 and which is

01:12:36.460 a lot more

01:12:36.940 than longboarders

01:12:37.720 because that

01:12:39.040 is like

01:12:39.640 you're risking

01:12:40.080 your life

01:12:40.640 so I don't

01:12:41.980 think we

01:12:42.800 should get

01:12:43.080 paid the same

01:12:43.700 as somebody

01:12:44.180 who is

01:12:44.480 literally

01:12:44.800 dropping in

01:12:45.480 onto like

01:12:46.340 reef

01:12:46.820 breaks

01:12:47.780 and it's

01:12:48.360 life

01:12:48.700 they're risking

01:12:49.840 their life

01:12:50.380 so depending

01:12:52.560 on the

01:12:53.100 situation

01:12:53.580 well let's

01:12:54.660 even assume

01:12:55.240 that the

01:12:55.920 woman's 0.82

01:12:56.420 competition

01:12:56.960 like it's

01:12:57.660 you're saying

01:12:59.480 within the

01:12:59.900 same competition

01:13:00.900 let's just

01:13:02.400 assume that

01:13:03.080 the women 0.97

01:13:03.480 are even

01:13:03.880 surfing

01:13:04.260 bigger waves

01:13:05.620 and the men

01:13:06.480 are surfing

01:13:06.900 like head

01:13:07.420 high

01:13:07.840 trestles

01:13:09.180 right

01:13:09.560 even when

01:13:11.460 the men

01:13:11.780 are surfing

01:13:12.260 head high

01:13:12.680 trestles

01:13:13.240 and the women 1.00

01:13:13.780 are surfing

01:13:14.360 like overhead

01:13:16.460 some Hawaii

01:13:17.900 break or

01:13:18.400 something

01:13:18.720 there's still

01:13:19.520 going to be

01:13:19.820 more viewership

01:13:20.740 for the men's

01:13:22.220 competition

01:13:22.720 even in

01:13:23.300 surfing

01:13:23.580 so I mean

01:13:25.260 wouldn't the

01:13:26.160 argument just

01:13:27.040 be that

01:13:27.500 well there's

01:13:28.160 more viewership

01:13:29.140 there that

01:13:29.540 means there's

01:13:29.900 more sponsorship

01:13:30.540 dollars

01:13:31.000 the sponsors

01:13:32.120 whether it's

01:13:32.660 Quicksilver

01:13:33.200 Billabong

01:13:33.920 Rip Curl 0.98

01:13:34.640 whatever the

01:13:35.340 surf sponsorship

01:13:35.940 is

01:13:36.380 they make

01:13:37.520 more money

01:13:37.980 from the

01:13:38.280 men's competition

01:13:38.920 so they have

01:13:39.360 more money

01:13:39.920 to put

01:13:40.820 towards

01:13:41.220 more viewership

01:13:42.640 but women 1.00

01:13:43.540 sell way

01:13:44.640 more

01:13:45.040 things

01:13:46.080 so there

01:13:47.620 might be

01:13:47.940 viewership

01:13:48.560 but women 1.00

01:13:50.060 longboarders

01:13:50.640 or women

01:13:51.080 surfers

01:13:51.520 we are able

01:13:52.100 to market

01:13:53.040 ourselves

01:13:53.440 in different

01:13:53.940 ways

01:13:54.340 and we

01:13:55.460 should be

01:13:55.900 getting

01:13:56.260 I think

01:13:56.940 more views

01:13:57.840 I'm gonna

01:13:58.100 put you

01:13:59.040 yeah perfect

01:13:59.800 all right

01:14:00.240 guys we got

01:14:00.760 two Madison

01:14:01.640 Maddie you

01:14:02.320 want to take

01:14:02.680 your seat

01:14:02.940 back here

01:14:03.340 grab the

01:14:04.260 hat

01:14:04.500 continue with

01:14:07.040 your point

01:14:07.340 then we'll

01:14:07.620 have our

01:14:07.920 new guests

01:14:08.400 introduce

01:14:08.840 themselves

01:14:09.340 I don't

01:14:13.340 really have

01:14:13.740 a

01:14:13.860 oh okay

01:14:15.040 that was

01:14:15.500 kind of

01:14:15.780 it

01:14:16.000 I've been

01:14:17.140 wishy-washy

01:14:17.780 with this

01:14:18.260 for a very

01:14:19.020 long time

01:14:19.560 and it's

01:14:19.880 hard for me

01:14:20.460 to like

01:14:20.840 because I

01:14:21.460 hear what

01:14:21.760 you're saying

01:14:22.240 the viewership

01:14:22.940 I get that

01:14:23.540 but there's

01:14:25.340 yeah

01:14:25.620 okay well

01:14:27.140 moving on

01:14:28.300 then

01:14:28.540 can we have

01:14:29.920 you guys

01:14:30.280 introduce

01:14:30.680 yourselves

01:14:31.060 so name

01:14:31.660 age

01:14:32.140 occupation

01:14:32.720 and where

01:14:33.140 you're

01:14:33.280 from

01:14:33.460 starting

01:14:33.800 with

01:14:33.980 you

01:14:34.140 oh yeah

01:14:35.180 and we

01:14:35.420 do

01:14:35.620 since you

01:14:36.340 guys

01:14:36.460 are just

01:14:36.700 joining

01:14:36.900 us

01:14:37.080 we do

01:14:37.640 need

01:14:38.180 you guys

01:14:38.460 speaking

01:14:38.760 up

01:14:39.020 close

01:14:39.360 as close

01:14:39.860 as you

01:14:40.160 can

01:14:40.340 as to

01:14:40.560 the mic

01:14:40.820 like that

01:14:41.200 close

01:14:41.480 go ahead

01:14:41.960 okay

01:14:42.340 hello

01:14:43.080 my name

01:14:43.580 is Jada

01:14:44.160 I'm 18

01:14:45.180 years old

01:14:46.000 sorry

01:14:46.800 I'm from

01:14:48.160 I came from

01:14:49.120 Guam

01:14:49.540 my dad's

01:14:50.220 in the

01:14:50.400 military

01:14:50.740 so

01:14:51.200 and now

01:14:52.020 I'm

01:14:52.440 a college

01:14:53.240 student

01:14:53.600 at UC

01:14:54.120 Santa Barbara

01:14:54.740 what are you

01:14:56.040 studying

01:14:56.300 I'm a

01:14:57.360 pre-bio

01:14:57.760 major

01:14:58.200 pre-bio

01:14:58.720 okay

01:14:59.120 and you said

01:14:59.700 you're from

01:15:00.000 Guam

01:15:00.340 were you

01:15:00.640 born there

01:15:01.020 no I was

01:15:01.940 born in

01:15:02.280 San Diego

01:15:02.680 but we

01:15:03.100 had to

01:15:03.340 move a

01:15:03.660 lot

01:15:03.860 because

01:15:04.320 he was

01:15:04.860 in the

01:15:05.060 military

01:15:05.360 what

01:15:06.100 branch

01:15:06.520 of the

01:15:06.760 military

01:15:07.080 navy

01:15:07.380 yes

01:15:07.920 navy

01:15:08.160 okay

01:15:08.380 all right

01:15:09.560 so you

01:15:09.940 you've spent

01:15:10.600 some time

01:15:11.380 on Guam

01:15:12.340 yes

01:15:13.000 like high

01:15:14.080 school or

01:15:14.460 something

01:15:14.720 or

01:15:15.120 yeah

01:15:15.320 about

01:15:15.620 three years

01:15:17.000 okay

01:15:17.980 how far

01:15:18.380 like that's

01:15:19.200 what's the

01:15:20.200 population

01:15:20.600 it's like

01:15:20.960 50,000

01:15:21.500 or something

01:15:21.920 I think

01:15:22.220 about

01:15:22.560 100,000

01:15:23.460 oh 100,000

01:15:23.980 okay

01:15:24.220 all right

01:15:24.700 all right

01:15:25.720 and you

01:15:26.360 hi

01:15:27.160 hi

01:15:27.180 my name

01:15:27.600 is

01:15:27.720 Anusha

01:15:28.260 I'm also

01:15:28.960 a first

01:15:29.420 year at

01:15:29.840 Santa Barbara

01:15:30.460 UCSB

01:15:31.220 I grew up

01:15:32.540 in Sri Lanka

01:15:33.320 but I moved

01:15:34.220 here from

01:15:34.760 Sacramento

01:15:35.340 all right

01:15:37.000 what are you

01:15:37.300 studying at

01:15:37.720 UCSB

01:15:38.220 I'm also

01:15:39.200 pre-bio

01:15:39.660 major

01:15:40.060 pre-bio

01:15:40.920 okay

01:15:41.280 and then

01:15:41.540 we're gonna

01:15:41.780 ask also

01:15:42.360 both of

01:15:43.120 your

01:15:43.320 current

01:15:44.120 relationship

01:15:45.160 status

01:15:45.960 so are

01:15:46.840 you like

01:15:47.140 single

01:15:47.560 talking stage

01:15:48.320 situationship

01:15:49.240 starting with

01:15:50.540 you

01:15:50.720 okay

01:15:51.060 I have a

01:15:52.700 boyfriend

01:15:53.060 we've been

01:15:53.920 together for

01:15:54.360 about two

01:15:54.920 years

01:15:55.480 so yeah

01:15:56.480 we got

01:15:56.820 together

01:15:57.140 in

01:15:57.880 junior

01:15:58.880 year

01:15:59.240 can I

01:15:59.460 have you

01:15:59.660 tilt your

01:16:00.140 mic down

01:16:00.620 a little

01:16:00.880 bit

01:16:01.180 perfect

01:16:02.820 two years

01:16:04.700 okay

01:16:05.240 and you

01:16:06.480 said you

01:16:06.700 got together

01:16:07.120 what was

01:16:07.660 that

01:16:07.860 in our

01:16:08.740 junior

01:16:09.000 year

01:16:09.400 of high

01:16:09.960 school

01:16:10.200 okay

01:16:10.640 what about

01:16:11.940 you

01:16:12.140 I'm

01:16:12.840 single

01:16:13.220 all right

01:16:15.140 have you

01:16:16.240 ever been

01:16:16.860 in a

01:16:17.120 relationship

01:16:17.520 no

01:16:18.160 how long

01:16:18.960 well

01:16:19.360 I was

01:16:20.840 gonna say

01:16:21.060 how long

01:16:21.320 have you

01:16:21.500 been

01:16:21.620 single

01:16:21.900 but

01:16:22.220 your

01:16:22.660 whole

01:16:22.800 life

01:16:23.040 then

01:16:23.240 yeah

01:16:23.480 basically

01:16:23.840 okay

01:16:24.520 we'll

01:16:24.780 say

01:16:25.000 single

01:16:25.320 for 18

01:16:25.680 years

01:16:26.080 and then

01:16:27.120 let's see

01:16:28.220 what's

01:16:28.900 I mean

01:16:29.140 what's

01:16:29.320 the longest

01:16:29.720 period

01:16:30.140 of time

01:16:30.560 that you've

01:16:31.240 have you

01:16:32.220 had

01:16:32.400 have you

01:16:32.800 been on

01:16:33.040 a first

01:16:33.360 date

01:16:33.580 for example

01:16:34.160 no

01:16:35.320 I haven't

01:16:35.640 been on

01:16:35.920 a first

01:16:36.300 date

01:16:36.640 or anything

01:16:37.420 huh

01:16:39.000 no

01:16:39.520 have you

01:16:41.780 do you

01:16:42.240 party at

01:16:42.680 all on

01:16:42.940 the weekends

01:16:43.380 a little

01:16:45.140 yeah

01:16:45.500 okay

01:16:46.480 what's

01:16:48.440 what's

01:16:49.040 the extent

01:16:49.580 of your

01:16:50.340 dating

01:16:52.000 dating

01:16:52.020 experience

01:16:52.760 um

01:16:53.860 well

01:16:54.360 have you

01:16:55.180 had

01:16:55.280 like a

01:16:55.880 casual

01:16:56.380 thing

01:16:56.860 a fling

01:16:57.400 anything

01:16:57.660 like that

01:16:58.360 all this

01:16:59.360 summer

01:16:59.640 I was

01:17:00.040 in Sweden

01:17:00.520 and I

01:17:00.820 went out

01:17:01.320 of it

01:17:01.780 and like

01:17:02.260 like I

01:17:03.060 kissed some

01:17:03.660 guys but

01:17:04.060 like that's

01:17:04.660 about it

01:17:05.100 like

01:17:05.400 some Swedish

01:17:06.420 hot Swedish

01:17:07.000 dudes

01:17:07.300 yeah

01:17:07.720 yeah

01:17:08.160 blue hairs

01:17:09.600 blue hair

01:17:10.400 blonde 0.99

01:17:10.700 blue hair

01:17:11.300 blonde 0.99

01:17:11.560 what

01:17:12.460 okay

01:17:13.140 um

01:17:14.180 and you're

01:17:16.060 a freshman

01:17:16.680 at UCSB

01:17:17.300 correct

01:17:17.480 yeah

01:17:17.720 you haven't

01:17:18.480 done like

01:17:18.840 any partying

01:17:19.420 because UCSB

01:17:20.100 is number

01:17:20.400 one party

01:17:20.820 school right

01:17:21.280 so

01:17:21.500 yeah

01:17:21.700 I mean

01:17:21.960 we've gone

01:17:22.960 out of it

01:17:23.320 we partied

01:17:23.760 a bit

01:17:24.120 but

01:17:24.500 any frat

01:17:25.040 boys

01:17:25.300 here and

01:17:27.180 there

01:17:27.320 nothing

01:17:27.680 okay

01:17:28.020 um

01:17:28.800 so

01:17:29.860 at least

01:17:30.460 here

01:17:30.760 in the

01:17:31.520 US

01:17:31.860 no

01:17:32.340 nothing

01:17:33.460 not

01:17:34.860 really

01:17:35.260 like

01:17:37.460 even

01:17:37.700 like a

01:17:38.320 one night

01:17:39.700 hookup

01:17:40.220 nothing

01:17:41.240 okay

01:17:41.620 all right

01:17:42.080 are you on

01:17:43.320 any dating

01:17:43.700 apps

01:17:44.020 no

01:17:44.800 sexual

01:17:46.640 orientation

01:17:47.260 straight 0.70

01:17:48.160 straight 0.70

01:17:48.500 okay

01:17:49.080 all right

01:17:50.220 are you

01:17:50.500 looking for

01:17:50.860 anything

01:17:51.080 or are you

01:17:51.420 kind of

01:17:51.660 just

01:17:51.820 focused on

01:17:52.320 school

01:17:52.520 right now

01:17:52.900 um

01:17:53.700 I mean

01:17:53.980 I'm not

01:17:54.360 like

01:17:54.640 closed off

01:17:55.480 to it

01:17:55.740 or anything

01:17:56.080 but like

01:17:56.680 I'm not

01:17:56.900 like

01:17:57.060 actively

01:17:57.480 looking

01:17:58.000 okay

01:18:00.520 cool

01:18:00.840 great

01:18:01.420 well

01:18:01.820 welcome

01:18:02.140 guys

01:18:02.400 thank you

01:18:02.700 guys

01:18:02.840 for

01:18:03.020 joining

01:18:03.420 us

01:18:03.700 kind of

01:18:04.040 midway

01:18:04.500 through

01:18:04.680 here

01:18:04.920 so

01:18:05.760 getting

01:18:06.480 right

01:18:06.760 back

01:18:07.000 into

01:18:07.240 it

01:18:07.400 I'm

01:18:07.580 going

01:18:07.660 to pull

01:18:07.840 up

01:18:07.980 a

01:18:08.280 super

01:18:08.720 chat

01:18:09.020 that

01:18:09.180 came

01:18:09.400 through

01:18:09.740 we had

01:18:10.900 Darren

01:18:11.940 Jones

01:18:12.800 could I

01:18:13.500 have you

01:18:13.680 read this

01:18:13.980 one

01:18:14.440 what me

01:18:16.220 yeah

01:18:16.620 oh okay

01:18:17.000 the glory

01:18:17.800 of God

01:18:18.320 is that

01:18:18.660 he lives

01:18:19.080 and creates

01:18:19.500 life

01:18:19.940 the peak

01:18:20.440 opposite

01:18:20.820 is to have

01:18:21.400 his own

01:18:21.720 creation 1.00

01:18:22.180 to kill 1.00

01:18:22.580 itself 0.99

01:18:22.980 and deny

01:18:23.520 his best

01:18:24.080 feature

01:18:24.480 of creating

01:18:25.220 life

01:18:25.680 okay

01:18:26.460 all right

01:18:27.360 thank you

01:18:27.700 Darren

01:18:27.900 Jones

01:18:28.180 appreciate it

01:18:28.640 man

01:18:28.760 thank you

01:18:29.120 thank you

01:18:29.500 thank you

01:18:30.180 for the

01:18:30.360 super chat

01:18:30.640 yeah guys

01:18:31.060 go to

01:18:31.280 twitch.tv

01:18:31.900 slash

01:18:32.900 whatever

01:18:33.320 twitch.tv

01:18:35.680 slash

01:18:36.080 whatever

01:18:36.380 nick

01:18:36.600 if you're

01:18:36.780 able to pull

01:18:37.120 up the thing

01:18:37.460 in the stream

01:18:37.820 labs

01:18:38.160 yep

01:18:39.760 go there

01:18:40.420 guys

01:18:40.980 if you have

01:18:41.540 amazon prime

01:18:42.120 you can link

01:18:42.520 it to your twitch

01:18:42.980 it's a quick

01:18:43.360 free easy way

01:18:43.900 to support

01:18:44.520 the show

01:18:45.760 every single

01:18:47.100 month

01:18:47.840 and if you

01:18:49.440 can guys

01:18:50.340 I don't know

01:18:50.860 if

01:18:51.080 any twitch

01:18:53.660 prime

01:18:54.060 in the chat

01:18:55.300 okay

01:18:55.720 thank you guys

01:18:56.460 appreciate it

01:18:57.080 so

01:18:57.680 we were going

01:18:58.980 around the table

01:18:59.480 I think we were

01:18:59.900 just asking

01:19:00.320 like on the

01:19:01.360 feminism

01:19:01.720 thing

01:19:02.280 I think we

01:19:02.800 ended with you

01:19:03.340 then we

01:19:03.600 started talking

01:19:03.980 about

01:19:04.680 surfing

01:19:05.960 different

01:19:06.940 differential

01:19:07.580 and pay

01:19:08.120 surfing

01:19:09.160 would you

01:19:09.920 guys

01:19:10.100 consider

01:19:10.400 yourselves

01:19:10.800 feminists

01:19:11.500 yeah

01:19:13.240 yeah

01:19:14.860 okay

01:19:15.560 got it

01:19:16.640 okay

01:19:17.040 Rachel

01:19:17.760 what about

01:19:18.140 you

01:19:18.340 no

01:19:19.520 I would

01:19:19.940 not

01:19:20.240 consider

01:19:20.780 myself

01:19:21.140 a

01:19:21.320 feminist

01:19:21.780 why

01:19:23.580 is that

01:19:24.420 because

01:19:25.980 I think

01:19:26.340 that

01:19:26.520 patriarchy 0.85

01:19:27.120 is the

01:19:27.480 natural

01:19:27.840 order

01:19:28.160 of

01:19:28.360 things

01:19:28.680 and it's

01:19:29.240 inescapable

01:19:29.920 and if

01:19:30.440 you

01:19:30.700 want to

01:19:32.040 try to

01:19:32.480 be a

01:19:32.800 feminist

01:19:33.100 you're

01:19:33.660 going to

01:19:33.880 have a

01:19:34.160 really hard

01:19:34.600 time

01:19:34.920 because

01:19:35.200 it's

01:19:35.500 simply

01:19:35.840 not

01:19:36.340 actually

01:19:36.820 possible

01:19:37.340 for us

01:19:38.140 to have

01:19:38.700 anything

01:19:39.400 besides

01:19:40.020 a

01:19:40.180 patriarchy 0.85

01:19:40.680 and we

01:19:42.240 can get

01:19:42.580 into why

01:19:43.060 that is

01:19:43.420 if anybody

01:19:43.940 wants to

01:19:45.060 does anybody

01:19:45.720 have any

01:19:47.080 qualms

01:19:47.680 with

01:19:48.020 can you

01:19:49.100 define

01:19:49.400 patriarchy 0.85

01:19:49.920 for those

01:19:50.420 that don't

01:19:50.760 know

01:19:50.940 yeah

01:19:51.280 patriarchy 0.85

01:19:51.960 literally

01:19:52.480 just means

01:19:53.040 rule by

01:19:53.640 the father

01:19:54.200 awesome

01:19:55.300 so it

01:19:57.300 just generally

01:19:57.920 means

01:19:58.480 men are

01:19:59.740 the

01:20:00.080 rulers

01:20:00.580 and

01:20:00.800 organizers

01:20:01.360 in the

01:20:02.120 home

01:20:02.500 in society

01:20:03.520 in the

01:20:04.320 church

01:20:04.700 in the

01:20:05.240 government

01:20:05.640 and this

01:20:07.800 has

01:20:08.040 implications

01:20:08.380 I mean

01:20:08.680 we're

01:20:08.920 dating

01:20:09.240 talk show

01:20:09.980 but this

01:20:10.280 absolutely

01:20:10.780 has

01:20:11.080 implications

01:20:11.580 when it

01:20:12.420 comes to

01:20:12.760 dating

01:20:13.100 gender roles 0.99

01:20:13.780 that sort

01:20:14.220 of thing

01:20:14.620 someone who's

01:20:15.880 a bit more

01:20:16.280 feminist

01:20:16.720 might prefer

01:20:17.480 a bit more

01:20:17.860 of an

01:20:18.100 egalitarian

01:20:18.820 relationship

01:20:19.680 50-50

01:20:20.740 that sort

01:20:21.700 of thing

01:20:22.160 so

01:20:23.340 or at least

01:20:25.140 that's what

01:20:26.080 it would

01:20:26.260 appear

01:20:26.780 to be

01:20:27.560 so

01:20:28.800 she's for

01:20:31.460 patriarchy 0.85

01:20:32.240 hot take

01:20:33.400 from Rachel

01:20:33.920 here

01:20:34.240 does

01:20:34.700 anybody

01:20:35.040 here

01:20:35.540 object

01:20:36.760 to

01:20:37.580 Rachel's

01:20:38.300 position

01:20:38.860 so

01:20:39.780 I don't

01:20:40.380 know if

01:20:40.600 I object

01:20:41.160 but I

01:20:41.380 want to

01:20:41.540 bring up

01:20:41.780 a point

01:20:42.140 does

01:20:43.420 everybody

01:20:43.700 know who

01:20:44.140 Lilith is

01:20:44.740 yes

01:20:45.560 she's in

01:20:46.200 my book

01:20:46.720 how

01:20:47.240 how do

01:20:49.360 you feel

01:20:49.660 about

01:20:49.920 period

01:20:50.480 how do

01:20:51.380 you feel

01:20:51.600 about her

01:20:52.000 Lilith

01:20:53.640 she's a 1.00

01:20:54.520 demon 0.99

01:20:54.960 so

01:20:55.780 I think

01:20:57.120 she's a

01:20:57.500 vengeful

01:20:58.060 goddess

01:20:59.040 figure 0.99

01:20:59.600 feminists

01:21:00.460 love her

01:21:01.120 she tends

01:21:01.620 to be a

01:21:02.000 feminist

01:21:02.300 icon

01:21:02.840 because

01:21:03.440 she takes

01:21:04.660 vengeance

01:21:05.040 on men

01:21:05.820 she

01:21:06.260 sometimes

01:21:08.100 SAs

01:21:09.740 them in

01:21:10.220 their sleep

01:21:10.880 and then

01:21:11.420 murders their 1.00

01:21:12.440 babies 0.99

01:21:12.960 the offspring

01:21:13.800 is this

01:21:15.920 Diablo 4

01:21:18.400 is it

01:21:19.040 Diablo 4

01:21:19.660 is that

01:21:20.300 the one

01:21:20.540 from

01:21:20.720 Diablo

01:21:21.100 Diablo

01:21:21.660 the game

01:21:22.920 yes

01:21:23.300 she's

01:21:25.020 kind of

01:21:25.240 hot

01:21:25.400 not

01:21:26.000 gonna

01:21:26.140 lie

01:21:26.380 yeah

01:21:27.240 she

01:21:27.440 bites 0.96

01:21:27.640 men's 0.99

01:21:27.920 heads 0.99

01:21:28.300 off

01:21:28.580 but

01:21:29.320 basically

01:21:30.480 the idea

01:21:30.860 behind her

01:21:31.320 I guess

01:21:31.600 was that

01:21:31.960 she was

01:21:32.760 the first

01:21:33.640 I like

01:21:34.420 the story

01:21:34.700 about her

01:21:35.140 but now

01:21:36.860 it's funny

01:21:37.300 let me

01:21:37.900 just say

01:21:38.120 this

01:21:38.360 she was

01:21:39.180 there

01:21:39.820 before

01:21:40.160 Eve

01:21:40.460 it was

01:21:40.760 Adam

01:21:41.100 and Lilith

01:21:41.760 she's

01:21:42.040 made out

01:21:42.260 of the

01:21:42.420 same

01:21:42.620 stuff

01:21:42.840 as

01:21:42.980 Adam

01:21:43.240 and

01:21:44.020 she

01:21:44.160 was

01:21:44.320 like

01:21:44.460 why

01:21:44.600 do

01:21:44.680 I

01:21:44.700 have

01:21:44.780 to

01:21:44.880 submit

01:21:45.100 to

01:21:45.260 you

01:21:45.480 if

01:21:45.660 we're

01:21:45.780 made

01:21:45.900 out

01:21:46.000 of

01:21:46.040 the

01:21:46.140 same

01:21:46.280 stuff

01:21:46.680 and

01:21:47.640 then

01:21:47.740 she

01:21:47.840 left

01:21:48.020 the

01:21:48.160 Garden

01:21:48.300 of

01:21:48.420 Eden

01:21:48.600 yeah

01:21:49.840 she

01:21:50.320 would

01:21:50.580 not

01:21:50.800 get

01:21:50.980 underneath

01:21:51.400 Adam

01:21:51.820 yeah

01:21:52.100 and so

01:21:53.100 she

01:21:53.360 flew

01:21:53.880 off

01:21:54.180 into

01:21:54.360 the

01:21:54.540 sky

01:21:54.880 and

01:21:55.080 then

01:21:55.200 down

01:21:55.400 into

01:21:55.620 the

01:21:55.780 ocean

01:21:56.080 and

01:21:56.580 they

01:21:56.900 tried

01:21:57.120 to

01:21:57.280 bring

01:21:57.420 her

01:21:57.520 back

01:21:57.920 and

01:21:58.040 there's

01:21:58.200 like

01:21:58.380 a

01:21:58.480 whole

01:21:58.680 lore

01:21:58.940 behind

01:21:59.380 it

01:21:59.620 they

01:22:01.280 think

01:22:01.740 that

01:22:02.180 the

01:22:02.500 legend

01:22:02.780 was

01:22:03.020 actually

01:22:03.500 like

01:22:04.020 post

01:22:04.500 Christianity

01:22:05.040 more

01:22:05.440 of

01:22:05.600 a

01:22:06.040 like

01:22:06.560 first

01:22:07.860 few

01:22:08.120 centuries

01:22:08.540 after

01:22:08.800 Christianity

01:22:09.300 Judaism

01:22:10.100 type

01:22:10.900 of

01:22:11.120 a

01:22:11.460 lore

01:22:11.900 where

01:22:12.360 it

01:22:12.500 came

01:22:12.700 from

01:22:13.000 but

01:22:13.360 depends

01:22:15.680 how you

01:22:16.220 feel

01:22:17.840 do you

01:22:18.140 think

01:22:18.340 that

01:22:18.500 she's

01:22:18.740 cool

01:22:19.060 like

01:22:19.640 what

01:22:19.760 do

01:22:19.820 you

01:22:19.900 like

01:22:20.120 about

01:22:20.380 her

01:22:20.620 so

01:22:21.020 in

01:22:21.340 my

01:22:21.680 I'll

01:22:22.820 say

01:22:22.980 this

01:22:23.240 one

01:22:23.500 I have

01:22:23.740 a song

01:22:24.000 called

01:22:24.200 Lilith

01:22:24.440 it's

01:22:24.600 actually

01:22:24.940 there's

01:22:25.600 a music

01:22:25.880 video

01:22:26.100 and everything

01:22:26.440 but

01:22:27.340 I actually

01:22:28.680 do feel

01:22:29.040 different

01:22:29.320 about it

01:22:29.620 now

01:22:29.940 I'm

01:22:30.280 kind

01:22:30.420 of

01:22:30.480 going

01:22:30.600 through

01:22:30.700 this

01:22:30.860 phase

01:22:31.080 where

01:22:31.340 I

01:22:31.900 was

01:22:32.020 in

01:22:32.080 my

01:22:32.200 toxic

01:22:32.420 relationship

01:22:32.800 and

01:22:33.380 I

01:22:34.020 was

01:22:34.200 in

01:22:34.300 a

01:22:34.380 stage

01:22:34.540 where

01:22:34.700 I

01:22:34.780 wanted

01:22:34.900 to

01:22:35.060 free

01:22:35.200 myself

01:22:35.580 and

01:22:35.760 I

01:22:35.960 understood

01:22:36.280 that

01:22:36.500 why

01:22:36.820 am

01:22:37.000 I

01:22:37.160 submitting

01:22:37.500 to

01:22:37.720 someone

01:22:37.940 that

01:22:38.120 I

01:22:38.260 don't

01:22:38.520 feel

01:22:38.880 is

01:22:40.600 a

01:22:40.720 leader

01:22:40.900 I'll

01:22:41.760 say

01:22:41.880 that

01:22:42.180 but

01:22:43.460 now

01:22:43.720 that

01:22:43.900 I

01:22:43.980 think

01:22:44.120 about

01:22:44.320 it

01:22:44.460 it's

01:22:44.620 like

01:22:44.820 there

01:22:45.040 are

01:22:45.220 men

01:22:45.400 that

01:22:45.540 are

01:22:45.640 leaders

01:22:45.880 and

01:22:46.240 if

01:22:46.520 you

01:22:46.620 put

01:22:46.780 yourself

01:22:47.040 in

01:22:47.160 that

01:22:47.280 position

01:22:47.680 it's

01:22:49.000 a

01:22:49.100 different

01:22:49.240 woman 0.99

01:22:49.500 but

01:22:50.300 the

01:22:50.420 woman 0.99

01:22:50.560 that

01:22:50.700 I

01:22:50.820 felt

01:22:51.040 that

01:22:51.260 I

01:22:51.380 related

01:22:51.620 to

01:22:51.840 was

01:22:52.060 her

01:22:52.220 because

01:22:52.680 I

01:22:53.100 was

01:22:53.260 in

01:22:53.360 a

01:22:53.460 situation

01:22:53.740 where

01:22:53.920 I'm

01:22:54.000 like

01:22:54.140 I

01:22:54.380 shouldn't

01:22:54.740 submit

01:22:55.000 to

01:22:55.160 this

01:22:55.380 man

01:22:55.620 why

01:22:56.420 did

01:22:57.160 you

01:22:57.300 not

01:22:57.480 want

01:22:57.620 to

01:23:07.500 he

01:23:07.680 was

01:23:07.860 almost

01:23:08.100 like

01:23:08.280 full

01:23:08.500 of

01:23:08.640 air

01:23:08.880 I'll

01:23:09.600 give

01:23:09.720 you

01:23:09.780 that

01:23:09.960 where

01:23:10.120 it's

01:23:10.260 like

01:23:10.400 he

01:23:10.620 felt

01:23:11.000 as

01:23:11.260 though

01:23:11.380 he

01:23:11.520 was

01:23:11.700 more

01:23:11.980 respectable

01:23:12.440 than

01:23:12.660 he

01:23:12.780 actually

01:23:13.020 was

01:23:13.380 so

01:23:14.840 do

01:23:15.280 you

01:23:15.400 feel

01:23:15.580 like

01:23:15.780 he

01:23:15.980 wasn't

01:23:16.360 responsible

01:23:16.900 or

01:23:17.260 he

01:23:17.380 didn't

01:23:17.540 have

01:23:17.680 his

01:23:17.820 stuff

01:23:18.060 together

01:23:18.540 or

01:23:18.800 like

01:23:19.120 that

01:23:19.480 just

01:23:20.620 kind

01:23:20.800 of

01:23:20.880 flying

01:23:21.120 off

01:23:21.280 the

01:23:21.400 rails

01:23:21.560 all

01:23:21.680 the

01:23:21.780 time

01:23:22.180 oh

01:23:22.800 not

01:23:23.020 in

01:23:23.180 control

01:23:23.460 of

01:23:23.600 his

01:23:23.700 emotions

01:23:23.980 yeah

01:23:24.480 yeah

01:23:24.880 that's

01:23:25.960 a

01:23:26.140 that'll

01:23:26.560 dry

01:23:26.920 your

01:23:27.160 panties

01:23:27.560 up 0.59

01:23:27.740 quick

01:23:27.980 very

01:23:28.260 much

01:23:28.460 so

01:23:28.620 I

01:23:28.760 said

01:23:28.980 I'm

01:23:30.400 gonna

01:23:30.520 leave

01:23:30.680 this

01:23:30.840 garden

01:23:31.080 yeah

01:23:31.820 yeah

01:23:32.420 so I

01:23:32.800 felt

01:23:32.940 that

01:23:33.140 because

01:23:33.400 why

01:23:33.860 that's

01:23:34.200 like

01:23:34.340 female 0.86

01:23:34.700 energy

01:23:35.120 right

01:23:35.480 a

01:23:35.880 guy

01:23:36.220 who

01:23:36.580 is

01:23:37.280 not

01:23:37.560 in

01:23:37.700 control

01:23:37.940 of

01:23:38.080 his

01:23:38.200 emotions

01:23:38.540 and

01:23:38.780 he's

01:23:39.040 up

01:23:39.400 and

01:23:39.540 down

01:23:39.740 and

01:23:39.860 all

01:23:40.000 over

01:23:40.160 the

01:23:40.320 place

01:23:40.620 kind

01:23:40.860 of

01:23:40.920 like

01:23:41.080 we

01:23:41.340 are

01:23:41.700 right

01:23:42.160 it's

01:23:43.120 not

01:23:43.480 a

01:23:43.640 good

01:23:43.740 like

01:23:43.940 we're

01:23:44.080 made

01:23:44.200 out

01:23:44.300 of

01:23:44.320 the

01:23:44.420 same

01:23:44.560 stuff

01:23:44.920 right

01:23:45.400 so

01:23:45.980 right

01:23:46.300 yeah

01:23:46.940 so

01:23:47.660 that's

01:23:49.780 why we

01:23:50.080 say

01:23:50.440 no

01:23:50.720 simping

01:23:51.140 boys

01:23:57.980 most of

01:23:58.180 you

01:23:58.300 identified

01:23:58.800 as

01:23:59.720 feminist

01:24:00.280 if I

01:24:00.620 recall

01:24:00.860 I said

01:24:01.160 50-50

01:24:01.620 50-50

01:24:02.460 I think

01:24:02.860 you said

01:24:03.100 yes

01:24:03.460 yes

01:24:04.140 I think

01:24:04.680 no

01:24:05.480 no

01:24:06.680 okay

01:24:07.320 and then

01:24:07.980 yes for

01:24:08.440 you two

01:24:08.820 would you date

01:24:09.660 a guy

01:24:10.020 who is

01:24:11.040 not

01:24:11.500 a feminist

01:24:12.460 starting

01:24:12.900 with you

01:24:13.300 yeah

01:24:15.000 wait

01:24:15.460 into the mic

01:24:16.120 please

01:24:16.320 sorry

01:24:16.840 um

01:24:17.440 yes

01:24:18.060 just hearing

01:24:20.700 like the

01:24:21.200 definitions

01:24:21.940 that you

01:24:22.420 guys have

01:24:23.080 for it

01:24:23.580 is like

01:24:24.120 making me

01:24:24.740 think of

01:24:25.860 it

01:24:26.100 differently

01:24:26.420 because

01:24:26.740 the

01:24:27.740 definition

01:24:28.700 that I

01:24:29.740 had

01:24:30.340 was

01:24:30.600 literally

01:24:30.900 just

01:24:31.280 I

01:24:32.040 just

01:24:32.300 don't

01:24:32.580 want

01:24:32.800 to

01:24:33.100 conform

01:24:34.480 to

01:24:34.920 having

01:24:35.620 to

01:24:35.920 listen

01:24:36.320 to

01:24:36.580 somebody

01:24:37.000 that

01:24:37.360 is

01:24:37.720 not

01:24:37.940 going

01:24:38.180 to

01:24:38.400 listen

01:24:38.700 to

01:24:38.960 me

01:24:39.220 or

01:24:39.400 like

01:24:39.720 like

01:24:40.300 allowing

01:24:40.680 somebody

01:24:41.200 to

01:24:41.520 lead

01:24:41.800 that

01:24:42.100 isn't

01:24:42.660 actually

01:24:43.120 a

01:24:43.400 leader

01:24:43.620 but

01:24:44.220 just

01:24:44.440 feels

01:24:44.680 like

01:24:44.860 they're

01:24:45.060 a

01:24:45.180 leader

01:24:45.340 you

01:24:45.560 know

01:24:45.700 like

01:24:45.940 I

01:24:46.220 want

01:24:46.400 to

01:24:46.500 still

01:24:46.760 make

01:24:47.380 my

01:24:47.580 own

01:24:47.740 decisions

01:24:48.160 and

01:24:48.500 stuff

01:24:48.740 like

01:24:48.900 that

01:24:49.020 and

01:24:49.140 have

01:24:49.320 like

01:24:49.500 a

01:24:49.660 brain

01:24:49.940 of

01:24:50.100 my

01:24:50.320 own

01:24:50.640 and

01:24:50.820 not

01:24:50.940 be

01:24:51.180 like

01:24:51.540 a 1.00

01:24:51.800 brainless 1.00

01:24:52.380 bimbo 0.99

01:24:53.720 like

01:24:54.000 that's

01:24:54.340 that's

01:24:54.860 what

01:24:55.080 I

01:24:55.900 was

01:24:56.140 thinking

01:24:56.520 it

01:24:56.980 was

01:24:57.320 but

01:24:57.620 okay

01:24:58.160 so

01:24:58.940 what

01:24:59.200 made

01:24:59.400 you

01:24:59.660 feel

01:25:00.240 like

01:25:00.480 it's

01:25:00.680 a

01:25:00.800 different

01:25:01.140 definition

01:25:02.320 like

01:25:02.600 why

01:25:02.760 do

01:25:02.880 you

01:25:02.960 feel

01:25:03.140 like

01:25:03.260 that

01:25:03.420 might

01:25:03.580 be

01:25:03.760 different

01:25:04.160 now

01:25:04.500 um

01:25:05.020 well

01:25:05.700 I

01:25:05.960 do

01:25:06.320 understand

01:25:06.700 that

01:25:07.000 men

01:25:08.140 are

01:25:08.700 leaders

01:25:09.100 like

01:25:09.400 I

01:25:09.740 have

01:25:10.620 a

01:25:10.740 really

01:25:10.920 healthy

01:25:11.220 relationship

01:25:11.600 with

01:25:11.880 my

01:25:12.060 father

01:25:12.420 that's

01:25:13.260 my

01:25:13.420 best

01:25:13.640 friend

01:25:13.900 and

01:25:15.780 then

01:25:16.040 just

01:25:16.280 like

01:25:16.560 the

01:25:16.780 things

01:25:17.040 that

01:25:17.160 I've

01:25:17.400 been

01:25:17.580 through

01:25:17.920 just

01:25:18.340 putting

01:25:18.640 it

01:25:18.800 into

01:25:19.000 perspective

01:25:19.540 like

01:25:19.920 it's

01:25:20.300 that's

01:25:21.420 not

01:25:21.660 somebody

01:25:21.980 that I

01:25:22.240 would

01:25:22.360 want

01:25:22.560 to

01:25:22.740 allow

01:25:22.940 to

01:25:23.180 lead

01:25:23.700 me

01:25:23.920 but

01:25:24.140 if

01:25:24.360 I

01:25:24.560 found

01:25:25.060 somebody

01:25:25.440 that

01:25:25.620 was

01:25:25.940 a

01:25:26.120 leader

01:25:26.280 then

01:25:26.480 I

01:25:26.660 would

01:25:26.860 allow

01:25:27.200 them

01:25:27.460 to

01:25:27.720 wait

01:25:27.900 did

01:25:28.080 you

01:25:28.180 say

01:25:28.320 your

01:25:28.460 dad

01:25:28.880 is

01:25:29.080 not

01:25:29.320 somebody

01:25:29.780 who

01:25:30.020 or

01:25:30.240 he

01:25:30.400 is

01:25:30.680 somebody

01:25:30.900 no

01:25:31.060 he

01:25:31.240 is

01:25:31.520 I'm

01:25:31.800 saying

01:25:32.060 just

01:25:32.320 like

01:25:32.480 the

01:25:32.620 things

01:25:32.840 that

01:25:32.980 I've

01:25:33.160 been

01:25:33.340 through

01:25:33.600 and

01:25:33.900 like

01:25:34.720 relationships

01:25:35.440 and

01:25:35.800 stuff

01:25:36.060 like

01:25:36.380 if

01:25:37.340 I

01:25:37.480 found

01:25:37.720 somebody

01:25:38.100 that

01:25:38.360 was

01:25:38.860 actually

01:25:39.320 a

01:25:39.560 leader

01:25:39.700 then

01:25:40.000 I

01:25:40.300 would

01:25:40.660 like

01:25:41.520 so

01:25:41.900 what

01:25:42.220 kind

01:25:42.400 of

01:25:42.520 qualities

01:25:43.000 like

01:25:43.240 what

01:25:43.380 would

01:25:43.520 you

01:25:43.620 be

01:25:43.780 looking

01:25:44.060 for

01:25:44.360 in

01:25:44.480 somebody

01:25:44.720 who

01:25:44.880 you

01:25:45.040 felt

01:25:45.260 was

01:25:45.460 worth

01:25:45.700 like

01:25:45.940 submitting

01:25:46.360 to

01:25:46.740 someone

01:25:48.420 that

01:25:48.680 would

01:25:48.840 be

01:25:49.020 able

01:25:49.240 to

01:25:49.600 like

01:25:50.100 take

01:25:51.820 care

01:25:52.020 of

01:25:52.140 me

01:25:52.220 in

01:25:52.320 the

01:25:52.420 aspects

01:25:52.760 of

01:25:53.060 emotionally

01:25:54.080 and

01:25:56.040 take

01:25:56.300 care

01:25:56.440 of

01:25:56.560 things

01:25:56.820 like

01:25:57.080 rent

01:25:57.980 and

01:25:58.320 stuff

01:25:58.620 like

01:25:58.840 that

01:25:59.100 and

01:25:59.280 not

01:25:59.500 feel

01:25:59.760 like

01:25:59.900 they

01:26:00.040 want

01:26:00.300 to

01:26:00.440 go

01:26:00.620 50-50

01:26:01.240 I'm

01:26:01.720 not

01:26:01.960 into

01:26:02.860 that

01:26:03.280 at

01:26:03.920 all

01:26:04.240 so

01:26:04.640 this

01:26:04.880 is

01:26:05.020 a

01:26:05.180 common

01:26:05.440 thing

01:26:05.680 I've

01:26:05.940 seen

01:26:06.280 and

01:26:06.840 I

01:26:06.920 want

01:26:07.060 to

01:26:07.160 ask

01:26:07.460 you

01:26:07.600 guys

01:26:07.940 do

01:26:09.060 you

01:26:09.220 guys

01:26:09.560 think

01:26:10.000 that

01:26:10.420 what

01:26:11.200 you

01:26:11.380 want

01:26:11.740 would

01:26:11.960 you

01:26:12.060 say

01:26:12.220 what

01:26:12.380 you

01:26:12.520 want

01:26:12.760 is

01:26:13.160 you

01:26:14.100 want

01:26:14.300 you

01:26:14.480 want

01:26:15.480 the

01:26:15.620 man

01:26:15.880 to

01:26:16.100 lead

01:26:16.400 when

01:26:16.620 it

01:26:16.780 comes

01:26:17.200 to

01:26:17.540 doing

01:26:18.320 difficult

01:26:19.020 dangerous

01:26:19.600 dirty

01:26:20.000 things

01:26:20.520 paying

01:26:21.020 bills

01:26:21.620 dealing

01:26:22.060 with

01:26:22.440 really

01:26:22.960 awful

01:26:23.780 situations

01:26:24.480 then

01:26:24.960 he

01:26:25.220 can

01:26:25.760 lead

01:26:26.280 but

01:26:27.060 if

01:26:27.240 you're

01:26:27.360 just

01:26:27.540 in

01:26:27.680 your

01:26:27.840 feelings

01:26:28.260 about

01:26:28.580 something

01:26:28.920 you

01:26:29.060 just

01:26:29.220 want

01:26:29.420 to

01:26:29.520 do

01:26:29.640 what

01:26:29.800 you

01:26:29.900 want

01:26:30.100 to

01:26:30.240 do

01:26:30.620 then

01:26:31.100 you

01:26:31.260 don't

01:26:31.620 want

01:26:31.860 him

01:26:32.020 to

01:26:32.200 lead

01:26:32.480 because

01:26:32.880 I

01:26:33.000 feel

01:26:33.340 like

01:26:33.680 that's

01:26:34.220 a

01:26:34.440 really

01:26:34.600 common

01:26:34.880 thing

01:26:35.200 okay

01:26:36.440 well

01:26:37.240 I

01:26:37.400 feel

01:26:37.600 like

01:26:37.860 say

01:26:38.900 for

01:26:39.080 me

01:26:39.240 like

01:26:39.460 I'm

01:26:39.840 I'm

01:26:40.400 a

01:26:40.640 singer

01:26:40.900 so

01:26:41.180 I'm

01:26:41.620 always

01:26:42.060 out

01:26:42.560 like

01:26:43.120 I'm

01:26:44.040 networking

01:26:44.580 and

01:26:44.960 stuff

01:26:45.220 like

01:26:45.420 that

01:26:45.620 so

01:26:45.800 I

01:26:45.960 feel

01:26:46.240 like

01:26:46.620 I

01:26:47.420 just

01:26:47.620 have

01:26:47.780 to

01:26:47.880 be

01:26:47.980 with

01:26:48.140 somebody

01:26:48.380 that

01:26:48.580 would

01:26:48.720 also

01:26:49.020 be

01:26:49.240 okay

01:26:49.560 with

01:26:49.920 me

01:26:51.220 being

01:26:51.580 out

01:26:52.080 a lot

01:26:53.400 and

01:26:53.700 stuff

01:26:54.040 like

01:26:54.260 that

01:26:54.540 like

01:26:54.840 and

01:26:55.560 just

01:26:55.780 supporting

01:26:56.160 the

01:26:56.380 things

01:26:56.640 that

01:26:56.800 I

01:26:56.960 want

01:26:57.180 to

01:26:57.400 do

01:26:57.860 so

01:26:58.980 if

01:26:59.420 you

01:26:59.560 had

01:26:59.700 a

01:26:59.820 future

01:27:00.080 partner

01:27:00.460 that

01:27:00.740 asked

01:27:01.060 you

01:27:01.180 to

01:27:01.300 give

01:27:01.460 up

01:27:01.600 your

01:27:01.740 singing

01:27:02.100 and

01:27:02.520 raise

01:27:02.940 your

01:27:03.140 children

01:27:03.460 would

01:27:03.780 you

01:27:03.920 not

01:27:04.160 do

01:27:04.360 that

01:27:04.640 I

01:27:05.380 mean

01:27:05.480 I

01:27:05.560 would

01:27:05.660 still

01:27:05.840 raise

01:27:06.040 my

01:27:06.220 children

01:27:06.480 but

01:27:06.700 I

01:27:06.820 wouldn't

01:27:07.240 give

01:27:07.580 up

01:27:07.800 what

01:27:08.360 I

01:27:08.600 love

01:27:08.820 to

01:27:09.000 do

01:27:09.300 for

01:27:09.640 anybody

01:27:10.280 could

01:27:11.720 you

01:27:11.840 still

01:27:12.100 sing

01:27:12.540 though

01:27:12.880 and

01:27:13.160 not

01:27:13.440 be

01:27:13.760 trying

01:27:14.180 to

01:27:14.360 like

01:27:14.500 necessarily

01:27:14.960 make

01:27:15.340 money

01:27:15.620 in

01:27:15.760 it

01:27:15.840 like

01:27:16.000 could

01:27:16.200 you

01:27:16.400 sing

01:27:17.140 for

01:27:17.420 yourself

01:27:18.000 for

01:27:18.280 your

01:27:18.440 family

01:27:18.800 you

01:27:19.240 could

01:27:19.380 sing

01:27:19.540 at

01:27:19.700 church

01:27:19.980 you

01:27:20.160 could

01:27:20.280 sing

01:27:20.580 on

01:27:20.740 Instagram

01:27:21.240 but

01:27:21.620 maybe

01:27:21.840 not

01:27:22.140 be

01:27:22.340 out

01:27:22.520 at

01:27:22.660 clubs

01:27:22.960 networking

01:27:23.560 all

01:27:23.820 the

01:27:23.940 time

01:27:24.160 because

01:27:24.400 you're

01:27:24.600 at

01:27:24.680 home

01:27:24.800 with

01:27:24.960 your

01:27:25.080 kids

01:27:25.500 I

01:27:26.180 feel

01:27:26.340 like

01:27:26.500 when

01:27:26.740 I

01:27:27.200 really

01:27:27.520 make

01:27:27.760 a

01:27:27.880 name

01:27:28.060 for

01:27:28.260 myself

01:27:28.520 I

01:27:28.700 wouldn't

01:27:28.960 have

01:27:29.220 to

01:27:29.480 really

01:27:29.840 network

01:27:30.260 like

01:27:30.520 that

01:27:30.860 all

01:27:31.400 the

01:27:31.520 time

01:27:31.740 but

01:27:31.940 I

01:27:32.140 feel

01:27:32.460 like

01:27:32.820 it's

01:27:34.640 just

01:27:34.780 certain

01:27:34.960 things

01:27:35.180 that

01:27:35.340 I'm

01:27:35.580 just

01:27:35.760 not

01:27:35.980 willing

01:27:36.260 to

01:27:36.700 budge

01:27:37.320 on

01:27:37.560 I

01:27:37.700 just

01:27:37.940 feel

01:27:38.260 like

01:27:38.520 my

01:27:38.780 life

01:27:39.080 is

01:27:39.280 still

01:27:39.600 going

01:27:39.840 to

01:27:40.020 be

01:27:40.180 my

01:27:40.380 life

01:27:40.820 and

01:27:41.220 I'm

01:27:42.180 going

01:27:42.400 to

01:27:42.660 take

01:27:43.020 care

01:27:43.180 of

01:27:43.340 the

01:27:43.620 things

01:27:43.900 that

01:27:44.020 I'm

01:27:44.160 supposed

01:27:44.480 to

01:27:44.700 take

01:27:44.940 care

01:27:45.180 of

01:27:45.440 but

01:27:45.780 like

01:27:46.620 if

01:27:46.960 my

01:27:47.140 partner

01:27:47.480 doesn't

01:27:47.900 want

01:27:48.160 me

01:27:48.380 to

01:27:48.600 do

01:27:48.960 something

01:27:49.240 that

01:27:49.500 I

01:27:49.700 love

01:27:50.080 then

01:27:50.260 I

01:27:50.480 feel

01:27:50.640 like

01:27:50.740 that's

01:27:50.960 not

01:27:51.100 the

01:27:51.260 person

01:27:51.540 for

01:27:51.780 me

01:27:52.000 so

01:27:52.780 do

01:27:52.960 you

01:27:53.060 not

01:27:53.240 believe

01:27:53.520 in

01:27:53.660 like

01:27:53.860 sacrificing

01:27:54.520 in a

01:27:54.840 relationship

01:27:55.380 or

01:27:56.080 or

01:27:57.320 anything

01:27:57.600 like

01:27:57.880 that

01:27:58.100 like

01:27:58.320 do

01:28:00.000 you

01:28:00.200 feel

01:28:00.660 that

01:28:01.440 you

01:28:02.840 the

01:28:04.320 person

01:28:04.660 that

01:28:04.880 you

01:28:05.080 meet

01:28:05.500 how

01:28:06.860 do

01:28:06.920 I

01:28:07.000 phrase

01:28:07.200 this

01:28:07.440 um

01:28:08.060 are

01:28:09.060 you

01:28:09.220 selfishly

01:28:09.820 driven

01:28:10.440 like

01:28:11.040 do

01:28:11.660 you

01:28:12.080 is it

01:28:12.840 everything

01:28:13.500 that you

01:28:14.380 care about

01:28:14.760 has to

01:28:15.080 come

01:28:15.260 first

01:28:15.660 or

01:28:15.880 would

01:28:16.100 you

01:28:16.380 sacrifice

01:28:17.260 in a

01:28:17.800 relationship

01:28:18.300 um

01:28:19.400 it

01:28:19.860 just

01:28:20.060 depends

01:28:20.380 on

01:28:20.580 what

01:28:20.860 is

01:28:21.040 being

01:28:21.440 sacrificed

01:28:22.120 because

01:28:22.760 I

01:28:22.960 understand

01:28:23.360 that

01:28:23.780 in a

01:28:24.320 relationship

01:28:24.680 there

01:28:25.020 is a

01:28:25.300 lot

01:28:25.440 of

01:28:25.580 give

01:28:25.780 and

01:28:25.900 take

01:28:26.200 on

01:28:26.460 both

01:28:26.880 ends

01:28:27.200 so

01:28:27.520 but

01:28:28.320 for

01:28:28.540 me

01:28:28.820 it's

01:28:29.180 just

01:28:29.440 when

01:28:30.380 it

01:28:30.480 comes

01:28:30.600 to

01:28:30.680 something

01:28:30.840 that

01:28:31.080 genuinely

01:28:31.620 makes

01:28:32.060 me

01:28:32.280 happy

01:28:32.720 and

01:28:33.200 stuff

01:28:33.520 like

01:28:33.680 that

01:28:33.840 like

01:28:33.960 there's

01:28:34.140 going

01:28:34.240 to

01:28:34.280 be

01:28:34.400 late

01:28:34.620 nights

01:28:34.880 where

01:28:35.060 I'm

01:28:35.180 in

01:28:35.280 the

01:28:35.380 studio

01:28:35.600 and

01:28:35.820 you're

01:28:36.100 probably

01:28:36.300 not

01:28:36.480 even

01:28:36.660 going to

01:28:36.860 believe

01:28:37.100 where

01:28:37.280 I

01:28:37.400 am

01:28:37.580 or

01:28:37.800 whatever

01:28:38.380 stuff

01:28:38.620 like

01:28:38.780 that

01:28:38.900 happens

01:28:39.760 and

01:28:40.300 I

01:28:40.560 just

01:28:40.780 feel

01:28:40.940 like

01:28:41.040 I'm

01:28:41.260 just

01:28:41.420 not

01:28:41.800 going

01:28:42.340 I'm

01:28:43.120 not

01:28:43.320 going

01:28:43.460 to

01:28:43.580 budge

01:28:43.980 on

01:28:44.220 certain

01:28:44.480 things

01:28:44.700 so

01:28:44.880 you

01:28:45.080 just

01:28:45.360 told

01:28:45.660 us

01:28:45.880 a

01:28:46.060 whole

01:28:46.860 kind

01:28:47.140 of

01:28:47.260 story

01:28:47.640 about

01:28:47.880 what

01:28:48.040 your

01:28:48.160 life's

01:28:48.520 been

01:28:48.640 like

01:28:48.820 so

01:28:48.980 far

01:28:49.200 and

01:28:49.300 what

01:28:49.400 your

01:28:49.560 relationships

01:28:50.140 have

01:28:50.420 been

01:28:50.600 like

01:28:50.820 so

01:28:51.040 far

01:28:51.440 and

01:28:52.080 it's

01:28:52.240 been

01:28:52.380 super

01:28:52.840 volatile

01:28:53.260 you've

01:28:53.900 had

01:28:54.080 would

01:28:54.400 you

01:28:54.560 say

01:28:54.840 it's

01:28:55.060 correct

01:28:55.320 to

01:28:55.480 say

01:28:55.600 that

01:28:55.740 you

01:28:55.840 had

01:28:56.060 no

01:28:56.680 stability

01:28:57.360 no

01:28:57.980 sense

01:28:58.780 of

01:28:58.980 peace

01:28:59.480 predictability

01:29:00.600 calm

01:29:01.520 like

01:29:02.240 continuous

01:29:05.500 predictability

01:29:07.260 in your

01:29:07.540 relationships

01:29:07.980 has been

01:29:08.300 very

01:29:08.540 all over

01:29:08.940 the

01:29:09.080 place

01:29:09.480 yeah

01:29:10.380 pretty

01:29:10.660 much

01:29:11.060 I

01:29:11.680 feel

01:29:11.880 like

01:29:12.020 the

01:29:12.200 only

01:29:12.620 real

01:29:13.020 good

01:29:13.380 relationship

01:29:13.980 that I

01:29:14.480 did

01:29:14.720 have

01:29:15.140 was

01:29:15.500 my

01:29:16.160 ex

01:29:16.400 that

01:29:16.520 passed

01:29:16.760 away

01:29:17.040 so

01:29:17.980 and

01:29:19.120 I

01:29:20.240 was

01:29:20.520 I

01:29:21.500 felt

01:29:21.680 like

01:29:21.780 I

01:29:21.860 was

01:29:21.960 able

01:29:22.100 to

01:29:22.300 submit

01:29:22.520 to

01:29:22.660 him

01:29:22.780 in

01:29:22.880 ways

01:29:23.100 like

01:29:23.440 he

01:29:24.040 took

01:29:24.340 care

01:29:24.540 of

01:29:24.660 me

01:29:24.800 emotionally

01:29:25.260 very

01:29:25.700 well

01:29:26.000 and

01:29:26.180 stuff

01:29:26.340 like

01:29:26.460 that

01:29:26.560 but

01:29:26.660 we

01:29:26.780 were

01:29:26.920 young

01:29:27.320 like

01:29:27.980 really

01:29:28.200 young

01:29:28.460 there

01:29:28.640 was

01:29:28.780 no

01:29:28.940 way

01:29:29.080 we

01:29:29.340 could

01:29:29.560 take

01:29:30.280 care

01:29:30.460 of

01:29:30.660 each

01:29:30.880 other

01:29:31.100 in

01:29:31.340 any

01:29:31.740 other

01:29:32.040 way

01:29:32.340 and

01:29:32.520 stuff

01:29:32.720 like

01:29:32.880 that

01:29:33.000 we

01:29:33.120 couldn't

01:29:33.360 see

01:29:33.540 each

01:29:33.700 other

01:29:33.860 all

01:29:33.960 the

01:29:34.040 time

01:29:34.320 and

01:29:34.480 things

01:29:34.700 like

01:29:34.880 that

01:29:35.140 either

01:29:35.360 like

01:29:35.620 we're

01:29:35.760 both

01:29:35.940 in

01:29:36.080 school

01:29:36.440 so

01:29:37.420 you

01:29:38.080 realize

01:29:38.580 that

01:29:38.820 if

01:29:38.940 you

01:29:39.040 get

01:29:39.180 the

01:29:39.320 kind

01:29:39.520 of

01:29:39.640 guy

01:29:39.820 you're

01:29:39.980 saying

01:29:40.220 you

01:29:40.360 want

01:29:40.640 the

01:29:40.920 kind

01:29:41.140 of

01:29:41.280 man

01:29:41.540 who

01:29:41.820 is

01:29:42.180 going

01:29:42.420 to

01:29:42.720 create

01:29:43.080 stability

01:29:43.680 and

01:29:44.300 continuity

01:29:44.800 in

01:29:45.260 your

01:29:45.380 life

01:29:45.760 predictability

01:29:46.840 he's

01:29:47.200 going

01:29:47.340 to

01:29:47.520 handle

01:29:48.040 the

01:29:48.220 business

01:29:48.520 he's

01:29:48.800 going

01:29:48.920 pay

01:29:49.200 the

01:29:49.380 bills

01:30:00.280 be

01:30:00.400 a

01:30:00.520 mother

01:30:00.720 that's

01:30:01.020 a

01:30:01.140 good

01:30:01.280 quality

01:30:01.740 but

01:30:02.380 that's

01:30:02.780 why

01:30:03.060 you

01:30:03.260 need

01:30:03.420 a

01:30:03.580 man

01:30:03.960 who

01:30:04.420 is

01:30:04.560 like

01:30:04.760 strong

01:30:05.240 steady

01:30:05.800 stable

01:30:06.480 and

01:30:07.340 going

01:30:07.560 to

01:30:07.720 provide

01:30:08.020 the

01:30:08.220 stability

01:30:08.680 you

01:30:09.380 realize

01:30:09.740 he

01:30:09.960 can't

01:30:10.480 do

01:30:10.800 that

01:30:11.140 if

01:30:11.440 you're

01:30:11.760 going

01:30:11.940 to

01:30:12.080 say

01:30:12.240 to

01:30:12.360 him

01:30:12.520 I

01:30:12.700 just

01:30:12.960 feel

01:30:13.520 like

01:30:13.800 I

01:30:13.960 need

01:30:14.240 to

01:30:14.360 be

01:30:14.460 able

01:30:14.540 to

01:30:14.700 do

01:30:14.900 what

01:30:15.100 I

01:30:15.260 feel

01:30:15.900 like

01:30:16.220 is

01:30:16.340 going

01:30:16.480 to

01:30:16.560 make

01:30:16.720 me

01:30:16.900 happy

01:30:17.260 if

01:30:17.460 you

01:30:17.740 are

01:30:18.000 chasing

01:30:18.340 that

01:30:18.940 you're

01:30:19.880 never

01:30:20.080 going

01:30:20.240 to

01:30:20.300 have

01:30:20.480 that

01:30:20.720 stability

01:30:21.260 and

01:30:21.560 that

01:30:21.880 continuity

01:30:22.940 that

01:30:23.260 you've

01:30:23.520 been

01:30:23.680 looking

01:30:24.000 for

01:30:24.440 right

01:30:24.980 like

01:30:26.160 if

01:30:26.420 you're

01:30:26.620 chasing

01:30:26.960 feelings

01:30:27.740 he's

01:30:28.280 not

01:30:28.440 going

01:30:28.540 to

01:30:28.600 be

01:30:28.700 able

01:30:28.860 to

01:30:29.020 you're

01:30:29.220 going

01:30:29.320 to

01:30:29.420 constantly

01:30:29.840 be

01:30:30.080 butting

01:30:30.340 heads

01:30:30.620 with

01:30:30.800 him

01:30:31.000 and

01:30:31.140 you're

01:30:31.240 not

01:30:31.420 going

01:30:31.580 to

01:30:31.680 be

01:30:31.780 able

01:30:31.940 to

01:30:32.160 have

01:30:32.460 that

01:30:32.640 well

01:30:32.940 could

01:30:33.100 I

01:30:33.200 interject

01:30:33.540 for a

01:30:33.880 second

01:30:34.100 sure

01:30:34.400 I

01:30:35.220 find

01:30:35.480 a lot

01:30:35.760 of

01:30:35.880 men

01:30:36.200 have

01:30:37.440 a lot

01:30:38.240 of

01:30:38.380 feelings

01:30:38.740 too

01:30:39.100 I

01:30:39.600 mean

01:30:39.940 not

01:30:40.500 to

01:30:40.640 say

01:30:40.800 there

01:30:41.000 aren't

01:30:41.300 strong

01:30:41.560 men

01:30:41.820 of

01:30:42.000 course

01:30:42.160 there

01:30:42.320 are

01:30:42.600 but

01:30:43.960 you know

01:30:44.900 I mean

01:30:45.540 I dated

01:30:45.860 a man

01:30:46.200 who was

01:30:46.720 not a

01:30:47.000 feminist

01:30:47.240 and

01:30:48.100 he was

01:30:48.900 more in

01:30:49.680 his feelings

01:30:50.080 than he

01:30:50.340 liked to

01:30:50.660 admit

01:30:50.860 I think

01:30:51.860 and

01:30:53.460 it

01:30:53.940 showed

01:30:54.260 and

01:30:55.380 how

01:30:55.600 did

01:30:55.760 it

01:30:55.900 show

01:30:56.220 I

01:30:57.540 mean

01:30:57.740 he

01:30:58.760 was

01:30:59.380 insecure

01:30:59.980 enough

01:31:00.240 that he

01:31:00.540 sought

01:31:00.900 validation

01:31:01.460 in

01:31:01.640 other

01:31:01.800 women 1.00

01:31:02.060 so

01:31:03.400 wait

01:31:04.320 so

01:31:04.500 it's

01:31:04.640 not

01:31:04.880 good

01:31:05.080 to

01:31:05.240 be

01:31:05.460 an

01:31:05.940 emotional

01:31:06.320 man

01:31:06.660 then

01:31:06.900 well

01:31:07.600 I

01:31:07.780 mean

01:31:07.980 because

01:31:08.480 he

01:31:08.640 didn't

01:31:08.920 express

01:31:09.640 that

01:31:10.280 he

01:31:10.400 was

01:31:10.540 insecure

01:31:10.920 that

01:31:11.300 he

01:31:11.400 would

01:31:11.520 bottle

01:31:11.720 them

01:31:11.900 up

01:31:12.100 and

01:31:12.200 not

01:31:12.380 communicate

01:31:12.880 to

01:31:13.160 me

01:31:13.380 what

01:31:13.620 he

01:31:13.760 was

01:31:13.920 feeling

01:31:14.260 and

01:31:14.680 then

01:31:14.780 we'd

01:31:14.980 argue

01:31:15.280 and

01:31:16.040 he

01:31:16.300 still

01:31:16.500 wouldn't

01:31:16.640 express

01:31:16.940 all

01:31:17.240 those

01:31:17.440 things

01:31:17.700 until

01:31:18.080 something

01:31:18.620 had

01:31:18.800 already

01:31:19.040 happened

01:31:19.460 now

01:31:20.320 did he

01:31:20.760 tell you

01:31:21.120 why

01:31:21.440 he

01:31:21.640 didn't

01:31:21.960 express

01:31:22.500 his

01:31:23.040 feelings

01:31:23.480 to

01:31:23.720 you

01:31:23.840 of

01:31:23.960 like

01:31:24.120 whatever

01:31:24.460 the

01:31:24.760 dissatisfaction

01:31:25.600 was

01:31:25.860 that

01:31:26.060 he

01:31:26.320 said

01:31:26.680 made

01:31:26.900 him

01:31:27.060 cheat

01:31:27.260 did

01:31:27.420 he

01:31:27.520 tell

01:31:27.680 you

01:31:27.840 why

01:31:28.100 he

01:31:28.260 felt

01:31:28.460 like

01:31:28.660 he

01:31:28.780 couldn't

01:31:29.000 talk

01:31:29.220 to

01:31:29.320 you

01:31:29.400 about

01:31:29.640 it

01:31:29.800 or

01:31:30.000 I

01:31:31.160 mean

01:31:31.280 I

01:31:31.440 would

01:31:31.560 ask

01:31:31.980 and

01:31:33.280 you

01:31:34.720 know

01:31:34.880 he

01:31:35.360 be

01:31:35.680 like

01:31:35.840 well

01:31:36.020 I

01:31:36.480 I

01:31:37.320 didn't

01:31:37.700 feel

01:31:38.340 validated

01:31:39.140 because

01:31:40.880 he's

01:31:42.940 like

01:31:43.040 you're

01:31:43.460 not

01:31:43.600 giving me

01:31:43.900 enough

01:31:44.080 compliments

01:31:44.600 or

01:31:44.920 something

01:31:45.080 like

01:31:45.260 I'm

01:31:45.380 like

01:31:45.520 I

01:31:46.160 feel

01:31:47.020 like

01:31:47.140 I

01:31:47.220 give

01:31:47.340 you

01:31:47.420 a lot

01:31:47.600 of

01:31:47.740 compliments

01:31:48.100 but

01:31:48.540 you

01:31:48.960 know

01:31:49.080 I'll

01:31:50.200 try

01:31:50.400 more

01:31:50.740 and

01:31:51.240 it

01:31:51.540 still

01:31:52.180 didn't

01:31:52.400 stop

01:31:52.640 things

01:31:52.860 from

01:31:53.020 happening

01:31:53.420 it's

01:31:56.460 and

01:31:56.960 that

01:31:57.160 of

01:31:57.400 course

01:31:57.600 that

01:31:57.760 conversation

01:31:58.120 happened

01:31:58.580 after

01:31:59.100 he

01:31:59.900 had

01:32:00.020 already

01:32:00.260 done

01:32:01.600 something

01:32:02.040 and

01:32:02.880 so

01:32:03.200 these

01:32:03.680 are

01:32:03.800 conversations

01:32:04.160 that

01:32:04.340 need to

01:32:04.520 happen

01:32:04.700 beforehand

01:32:05.120 so

01:32:05.800 he

01:32:06.140 what

01:32:06.480 it

01:32:06.600 sounds

01:32:06.760 like

01:32:06.920 to

01:32:07.040 me

01:32:07.200 is

01:32:07.360 that

01:32:07.500 he

01:32:07.660 didn't

01:32:07.900 have

01:32:08.140 strong

01:32:08.500 enough

01:32:08.720 boundaries

01:32:09.040 to

01:32:09.260 begin

01:32:09.520 with

01:32:09.820 because

01:32:10.180 if

01:32:10.460 he

01:32:10.620 was

01:32:10.860 like

01:32:11.120 a

01:32:11.280 man

01:32:11.620 who

01:32:11.840 had

01:32:12.040 strong

01:32:12.380 boundaries

01:32:12.700 like

01:32:12.880 my

01:32:13.080 husband

01:32:13.380 if

01:32:14.100 he

01:32:14.320 was

01:32:14.520 not

01:32:14.700 happy

01:32:15.060 he

01:32:15.240 wouldn't

01:32:15.480 just

01:32:15.740 like

01:32:16.060 go

01:32:16.820 cheat

01:32:17.180 he'd

01:32:17.520 be

01:32:17.640 like

01:32:17.960 this

01:32:18.620 is

01:32:18.720 what

01:32:18.860 I

01:32:18.980 expect

01:32:19.440 and

01:32:19.820 this

01:32:19.960 is

01:32:20.060 what

01:32:20.180 my

01:32:20.320 needs

01:32:20.560 are

01:32:20.860 and

01:32:21.060 if

01:32:21.160 you

01:32:21.240 can't

01:32:21.500 meet

01:32:21.680 that

01:32:22.060 he

01:32:22.720 would

01:32:23.020 he

01:32:23.640 did

01:32:23.820 he

01:32:24.280 he

01:32:24.440 gave

01:32:25.000 me

01:32:25.300 a

01:32:25.680 bunch

01:32:25.900 of

01:32:26.080 boundaries

01:32:26.500 and

01:32:27.140 morals

01:32:28.560 as he

01:32:28.980 put it

01:32:29.380 and

01:32:30.240 we

01:32:32.740 would

01:32:33.040 I

01:32:33.380 would

01:32:33.520 either

01:32:33.740 abide

01:32:34.100 or

01:32:34.360 compromise

01:32:34.740 on

01:32:35.060 them

01:32:35.280 because

01:32:35.740 you

01:32:35.840 know

01:32:35.920 I

01:32:36.120 believe

01:32:36.440 that

01:32:36.640 we

01:32:36.800 need

01:32:37.060 to

01:32:37.260 have

01:32:37.640 those

01:32:37.960 conversations

01:32:38.580 but

01:32:39.560 then

01:32:39.860 he

01:32:40.460 would

01:32:40.640 and

01:32:40.920 he

01:32:41.020 was

01:32:41.100 like

01:32:41.260 whatever

01:32:41.880 moral

01:32:43.400 I

01:32:43.680 set

01:32:43.900 for

01:32:44.100 you

01:32:44.420 is

01:32:44.920 also

01:32:45.260 set

01:32:45.580 for

01:32:45.780 me

01:32:46.060 but

01:32:46.760 then

01:32:46.980 obviously

01:32:47.820 these

01:32:48.060 things

01:32:48.200 happened

01:32:48.580 so

01:32:50.080 what

01:32:50.420 was

01:32:50.700 it

01:32:50.840 that

01:32:51.000 he

01:32:51.140 came

01:32:51.400 to

01:32:51.540 you

01:32:51.660 and

01:32:51.780 said

01:32:51.940 this

01:32:52.120 is

01:32:52.240 my

01:32:52.440 boundary

01:32:52.840 that

01:32:53.100 you

01:32:53.240 felt

01:32:53.520 like

01:32:53.840 some

01:32:54.200 of

01:32:54.300 the

01:32:54.420 things

01:32:54.640 you

01:32:54.760 respected

01:32:55.220 and

01:32:55.420 other

01:32:55.620 things

01:32:55.880 you

01:32:56.000 compromised

01:32:56.580 on

01:32:57.060 like

01:32:57.280 can

01:32:58.080 you

01:32:58.160 give

01:32:58.260 me

01:32:58.380 any

01:32:58.620 specific

01:32:59.120 examples

01:32:59.660 for

01:33:00.300 example

01:33:00.940 let's

01:33:02.440 see

01:33:02.760 he

01:33:04.640 didn't

01:33:06.100 want

01:33:06.660 me

01:33:07.140 to

01:33:07.800 go

01:33:08.920 out

01:33:09.300 to

01:33:09.760 the

01:33:09.880 clubs

01:33:10.140 with

01:33:10.400 friends

01:33:10.860 or

01:33:11.080 whatever

01:33:11.340 not

01:33:11.760 that

01:33:11.920 I

01:33:12.080 was

01:33:12.240 ever

01:33:12.540 a

01:33:12.840 very

01:33:13.140 partying

01:33:14.100 person

01:33:14.940 just

01:33:16.240 but

01:33:17.420 because

01:33:17.780 I

01:33:18.020 did

01:33:18.180 it

01:33:18.340 maybe

01:33:18.680 once

01:33:21.140 in

01:33:21.920 a

01:33:22.040 month

01:33:22.360 he

01:33:23.460 was

01:33:23.640 like

01:33:23.760 that's

01:33:23.980 too

01:33:24.100 much

01:33:24.440 too

01:33:24.920 much

01:33:25.280 I'm

01:33:25.460 like

01:33:25.580 I'm

01:33:25.940 going

01:33:26.200 to

01:33:26.220 be

01:33:26.320 surrounded

01:33:26.560 with

01:33:26.720 friends

01:33:26.960 he's

01:33:27.080 like

01:33:27.180 I

01:33:27.660 gotta

01:33:27.800 be

01:33:27.960 there

01:33:28.160 and

01:33:28.300 then

01:33:28.420 I'm

01:33:29.140 like

01:33:29.280 okay

01:33:29.500 hey

01:33:29.700 do

01:33:29.840 you

01:33:29.880 want

01:33:29.980 to

01:33:30.060 go

01:33:30.180 with

01:33:30.320 us

01:33:30.520 and

01:33:30.620 be

01:33:30.680 like

01:33:30.780 I

01:33:31.140 don't

01:33:31.220 want

01:33:31.320 to

01:33:31.380 go

01:33:31.580 and

01:33:32.440 I

01:33:32.560 was

01:33:32.660 like

01:33:32.820 okay

01:33:33.540 well

01:33:33.880 and

01:33:34.500 I'm

01:33:34.700 like

01:33:34.820 well

01:33:35.020 then

01:33:35.280 can

01:33:35.400 I

01:33:35.480 go

01:33:35.580 with

01:33:35.660 the

01:33:35.720 friends

01:33:35.880 right

01:33:36.060 no

01:33:36.260 and

01:33:37.900 so

01:33:38.080 one

01:33:38.300 time

01:33:38.520 he

01:33:38.740 was

01:33:38.940 like

01:33:39.140 okay

01:33:39.700 you

01:33:39.860 can

01:33:39.960 go

01:33:40.080 this

01:33:40.200 one

01:33:40.480 time

01:33:40.940 it's

01:33:41.660 just

01:33:41.780 stuff

01:33:41.960 like

01:33:42.140 that

01:33:42.780 it's

01:33:43.140 okay

01:33:43.320 and

01:33:44.020 another

01:33:44.200 time

01:33:44.460 okay

01:33:44.660 he

01:33:44.900 didn't

01:33:45.180 want

01:33:45.380 me

01:33:45.480 to 1.00

01:33:45.620 hang

01:33:45.780 out

01:33:45.960 with

01:33:46.180 this

01:33:46.500 guy

01:33:47.080 friend

01:33:47.320 I

01:33:47.420 had

01:33:47.540 for

01:33:47.700 a

01:33:47.840 very

01:33:48.000 long

01:33:48.180 time

01:33:48.480 I

01:33:48.640 mean

01:33:48.740 I

01:33:48.860 knew

01:33:48.980 for

01:33:49.120 10

01:33:49.460 years

01:33:50.040 and

01:33:50.260 I

01:33:50.360 knew

01:33:50.460 he

01:33:50.580 wouldn't

01:33:50.820 do

01:33:50.940 ever

01:33:51.120 anything

01:33:51.560 I

01:33:52.180 mean

01:33:52.240 he's

01:33:52.440 more

01:33:52.600 into

01:33:52.820 guys

01:33:53.220 than

01:33:53.360 he's

01:33:53.460 ever

01:33:53.660 into

01:33:53.880 women 1.00

01:33:54.180 and

01:33:55.240 wait

01:33:56.600 he

01:33:56.780 was

01:33:56.920 like

01:33:57.140 he

01:33:58.920 was 0.93

01:33:59.060 homosexual 0.93

01:34:08.740 and

01:34:09.560 I

01:34:10.220 was

01:34:10.340 like

01:34:10.440 hey

01:34:10.620 I

01:34:11.540 want

01:34:11.660 to 0.99

01:34:11.740 hang

01:34:11.880 out

01:34:12.040 with

01:34:12.200 him

01:34:12.480 I

01:34:13.440 even

01:34:13.800 communicated

01:34:14.500 with

01:34:14.780 him

01:34:14.880 beforehand

01:34:15.180 I'm

01:34:15.480 like

01:34:15.640 you

01:34:15.920 gave

01:34:16.140 me

01:34:16.260 permission

01:34:16.660 to 0.95

01:34:17.120 hang

01:34:17.240 out

01:34:17.320 with

01:34:17.400 this

01:34:17.520 person

01:34:17.740 before

01:34:18.080 so

01:34:18.700 I

01:34:18.900 am

01:34:19.000 now

01:34:19.140 communicating

01:34:19.500 to

01:34:19.720 you

01:34:19.900 this

01:34:20.160 is

01:34:20.260 someone

01:34:20.420 I'm

01:34:20.600 going

01:34:20.760 to 0.99

01:34:20.920 hang

01:34:21.100 out

01:34:21.260 with

01:34:21.480 today

01:34:22.080 and

01:34:23.480 he

01:34:25.480 got

01:34:25.640 really

01:34:25.820 upset

01:34:26.000 by

01:34:26.180 that

01:34:26.460 and

01:34:27.100 I

01:34:27.220 was

01:34:27.360 like

01:34:28.120 well

01:34:28.260 you

01:34:28.340 didn't

01:34:28.560 say

01:34:28.900 you

01:34:29.060 would

01:34:29.160 be

01:34:29.360 at

01:34:29.620 their

01:34:30.520 place

01:34:30.840 I'm

01:34:30.940 like

01:34:31.080 yeah

01:34:31.480 but

01:34:31.580 all

01:34:31.700 their

01:34:31.840 siblings

01:34:32.180 are

01:34:32.360 there

01:34:32.660 and

01:34:34.160 so

01:34:35.320 I

01:34:35.520 mean

01:34:35.680 like

01:34:35.860 did

01:34:36.040 he

01:34:36.240 say

01:34:36.700 you

01:34:37.060 hanging

01:34:37.280 out

01:34:37.460 with

01:34:37.580 other

01:34:38.140 dudes

01:34:38.580 regardless

01:34:39.040 of

01:34:39.340 their

01:34:39.480 sexual

01:34:39.840 orientation

01:34:40.400 is a

01:34:40.780 deal

01:34:40.980 breaker

01:34:41.240 for

01:34:41.480 me

01:34:41.600 like

01:34:41.760 did

01:34:41.940 he

01:34:42.060 tell

01:34:42.360 you

01:34:42.540 that

01:34:42.720 well

01:34:43.180 we

01:34:43.420 went

01:34:44.080 through

01:34:44.220 my

01:34:44.400 friends

01:34:44.680 list

01:34:45.060 and

01:34:45.520 I

01:34:45.800 was

01:34:46.040 like

01:34:46.220 well

01:34:46.360 how

01:34:46.480 do

01:34:46.580 you

01:34:46.620 feel

01:34:46.700 about

01:34:46.840 that

01:34:47.800 person

01:34:48.140 and

01:34:48.320 I'm

01:34:48.420 like

01:34:48.560 how

01:34:48.680 do

01:34:48.760 you

01:34:48.820 feel

01:34:48.940 about

01:34:49.080 new

01:34:49.300 people

01:34:49.560 coming

01:34:49.820 in

01:34:49.960 so

01:34:50.060 we

01:34:50.160 have

01:34:50.360 those

01:34:50.520 conversations

01:34:51.300 so

01:34:52.440 if

01:34:52.660 he

01:34:52.780 had

01:34:53.040 said

01:34:53.280 look

01:34:55.260 if

01:34:55.680 I'm

01:34:55.800 going

01:34:55.900 to

01:34:55.940 be

01:34:56.060 in

01:34:56.160 a

01:34:56.240 relationship

01:34:56.640 with

01:34:56.900 you

01:34:57.100 I

01:34:57.300 don't

01:34:57.420 want

01:34:57.540 you 0.98

01:34:57.660 hanging

01:34:57.860 out

01:34:58.140 with

01:34:58.380 dude

01:34:58.740 friends

01:34:59.260 without

01:34:59.740 me

01:35:00.100 like

01:35:00.400 if

01:35:00.760 it's

01:35:00.920 couples

01:35:01.320 and

01:35:01.600 we're

01:35:01.720 hanging

01:35:01.900 out

01:35:02.060 together

01:35:02.380 that's

01:35:02.740 fine

01:35:03.020 or

01:35:03.140 if

01:35:03.240 we're

01:35:03.340 in

01:35:03.440 a

01:35:03.560 group

01:35:03.780 and

01:35:03.900 there's

01:35:04.200 guys

01:35:04.620 in

01:35:04.780 the

01:35:04.880 group

01:35:05.060 that's

01:35:05.280 fine

01:35:05.380 but

01:35:05.720 I

01:35:05.820 don't

01:35:05.920 want

01:35:06.080 you

01:35:06.180 to

01:35:06.280 go

01:35:06.660 off

01:35:06.860 with

01:35:06.980 your

01:35:07.080 guy

01:35:07.280 friend

01:35:07.620 how

01:35:08.340 would

01:35:08.540 you

01:35:08.640 have

01:35:08.760 reacted

01:35:09.140 to

01:35:09.640 that

01:35:09.920 I

01:35:22.440 still

01:35:23.300 be

01:35:23.460 attracted

01:35:23.940 and

01:35:24.320 want

01:35:25.460 a

01:35:25.600 guy

01:35:25.720 like

01:35:25.920 that

01:35:26.120 I

01:35:26.280 don't

01:35:26.440 think

01:35:26.620 I

01:35:26.720 do

01:35:26.860 it

01:35:26.960 again

01:35:27.220 I

01:35:28.420 know

01:35:30.620 the

01:35:32.060 friends

01:35:32.340 I've

01:35:32.540 made

01:35:32.860 and

01:35:33.480 I've

01:35:34.300 not

01:35:34.520 had

01:35:34.680 a

01:35:34.800 problem

01:35:35.160 can

01:35:35.680 I

01:35:35.780 say

01:35:35.920 something

01:35:36.260 I

01:35:36.860 feel

01:35:37.000 like

01:35:37.080 it

01:35:37.140 all

01:35:37.240 just

01:35:37.380 comes

01:35:37.540 down

01:35:37.720 to

01:35:37.860 trust

01:35:38.120 like

01:35:38.320 if

01:35:38.460 you

01:35:38.580 and

01:35:38.700 your

01:35:39.000 partner

01:35:39.640 have

01:35:39.920 an

01:35:40.080 understanding

01:35:40.460 of

01:35:40.680 like

01:35:40.880 you

01:35:41.240 wouldn't

01:35:41.500 be

01:35:41.620 doing

01:35:41.800 anything

01:35:42.100 if

01:35:42.280 I'm

01:35:42.380 not

01:35:42.540 there

01:35:42.820 I'm

01:35:43.740 not

01:35:43.840 going

01:35:43.940 to

01:35:43.960 do

01:35:44.060 anything

01:35:44.240 if

01:35:44.380 you're

01:35:44.460 not

01:35:44.580 there

01:35:44.780 just

01:35:45.080 like

01:35:45.280 that

01:35:45.420 understanding

01:35:45.820 it

01:35:46.000 shouldn't

01:35:46.220 be

01:35:46.340 an

01:35:46.480 issue

01:35:46.740 if

01:35:46.940 you

01:35:47.020 want

01:35:47.140 to 0.99

01:35:47.220 hang

01:35:47.360 out

01:35:47.480 with

01:35:47.580 your

01:35:47.680 friends

01:35:48.020 I

01:35:48.200 think

01:35:48.380 that's

01:35:48.660 lies

01:35:49.100 that

01:35:49.380 women 1.00

01:35:49.620 tell

01:35:49.980 themselves

01:35:50.480 so

01:35:50.760 they

01:35:50.940 can

01:35:51.120 do

01:35:51.300 what

01:35:51.440 they

01:35:51.580 want

01:35:52.000 to

01:35:52.440 be

01:35:52.620 honest

01:35:52.900 if

01:35:53.180 you

01:35:53.700 because

01:35:54.480 if

01:35:55.640 you're

01:35:55.880 in

01:35:56.160 a

01:35:56.300 committed

01:35:56.600 relationship

01:35:57.160 and

01:35:57.400 if

01:35:57.540 the

01:35:57.720 purpose

01:35:58.080 of

01:35:58.260 the

01:35:58.380 relationship

01:35:58.820 is

01:35:59.080 eventually

01:35:59.460 marriage

01:36:00.100 which

01:36:00.840 seems

01:36:01.240 like

01:36:01.520 you

01:36:01.660 guys

01:36:01.880 even

01:36:02.080 though

01:36:02.340 you

01:36:02.600 have

01:36:02.860 very

01:36:03.220 loose

01:36:03.820 boundaries

01:36:05.940 about

01:36:06.300 relationships

01:36:06.840 like

01:36:07.160 you're

01:36:07.380 very

01:36:07.660 open

01:36:08.100 and

01:36:08.500 you're

01:36:09.120 really

01:36:09.660 modern

01:36:10.100 about

01:36:10.400 things

01:36:10.740 like

01:36:11.060 everybody

01:36:11.700 kind

01:36:11.980 of

01:36:12.060 says

01:36:12.260 they

01:36:12.400 want

01:36:12.560 to

01:36:12.640 get

01:36:12.780 married

01:36:13.100 at

01:36:13.280 a

01:36:13.400 certain

01:36:13.580 point

01:36:13.820 so

01:36:14.020 it's

01:36:14.220 like

01:36:14.500 you're

01:36:15.560 all

01:36:15.820 saying

01:36:16.120 I

01:36:16.260 want

01:36:16.420 a

01:36:16.580 strong

01:36:17.040 man

01:36:17.420 who's

01:36:17.660 going

01:36:17.780 to

01:36:17.900 lead

01:36:18.300 who's

01:36:18.600 got

01:36:18.760 his 1.00

01:36:18.920 shit 1.00

01:36:19.080 together 0.99

01:36:19.440 who

01:36:19.800 isn't

01:36:20.140 in

01:36:20.340 his

01:36:20.520 feelings

01:36:21.040 who

01:36:21.480 has

01:36:21.920 you

01:36:22.100 know

01:36:22.200 if

01:36:22.320 he

01:36:22.420 has

01:36:22.640 a

01:36:22.760 boundary

01:36:22.960 he's

01:36:23.120 going

01:36:23.240 to

01:36:23.260 be

01:36:23.360 up

01:36:23.520 front

01:36:23.740 he's

01:36:23.980 not

01:36:24.140 going

01:36:24.240 to

01:36:24.340 violate

01:36:24.620 it

01:36:24.760 later

01:36:24.960 but

01:36:25.520 then

01:36:25.800 on

01:36:25.960 the

01:36:26.100 other

01:36:26.280 hand

01:36:26.440 you're

01:36:26.560 like

01:36:26.660 but

01:36:26.840 I

01:36:26.960 also

01:36:27.260 want

01:36:27.540 him

01:36:27.680 to

01:36:27.920 let

01:36:28.160 me 0.99

01:36:28.300 hang

01:36:28.480 out

01:36:28.620 with

01:36:28.760 my

01:36:28.920 guy

01:36:29.200 friends

01:36:29.580 and

01:36:29.740 I

01:36:29.840 want

01:36:29.960 him

01:36:30.080 to

01:36:30.160 be

01:36:30.300 okay

01:36:30.640 with

01:36:30.900 me

01:36:31.340 dabbling

01:36:31.740 with

01:36:31.940 women 1.00

01:36:32.260 and

01:36:32.520 I

01:36:32.620 want

01:36:32.780 him

01:36:32.880 to

01:36:32.980 let

01:36:33.100 me

01:36:33.220 do

01:36:33.400 what

01:36:33.520 I

01:36:33.620 want

01:36:33.820 do

01:36:34.500 you

01:36:34.600 see

01:36:34.840 where

01:36:35.240 I'm

01:36:35.400 going

01:36:35.660 with

01:36:35.860 it

01:36:35.960 how

01:36:36.140 it

01:36:36.320 sounds

01:36:36.720 like

01:36:36.960 you

01:36:37.100 want

01:36:38.140 the

01:36:38.860 strong

01:36:39.480 guy

01:36:40.220 who's

01:36:40.480 hold

01:36:40.900 it

01:36:41.020 together

01:36:41.320 but

01:36:41.540 you

01:36:41.640 want

01:36:42.180 him

01:36:42.280 to

01:36:42.480 let

01:36:42.820 do

01:36:43.080 what

01:36:43.740 why

01:36:45.180 does

01:36:45.740 a

01:36:46.160 man

01:36:46.580 you

01:36:47.320 know

01:36:47.440 not

01:36:47.780 wanting

01:36:48.280 you

01:36:48.700 to 1.00

01:36:48.860 hang

01:36:49.040 out

01:36:49.180 with

01:36:49.280 a

01:36:49.360 guy

01:36:49.500 friend

01:36:49.660 equate

01:36:50.080 to

01:36:50.180 a

01:36:50.340 strong

01:36:50.580 man

01:36:50.820 why

01:36:51.000 do

01:36:52.140 I

01:36:52.200 need

01:36:52.320 a

01:36:52.440 leash

01:36:52.660 well

01:36:54.020 it

01:36:54.340 depends

01:36:54.780 do

01:36:55.100 you

01:36:55.300 want

01:36:55.540 him 1.00

01:36:55.740 hanging

01:36:55.960 out

01:36:56.140 with

01:36:56.280 women 1.00

01:36:56.580 when

01:36:56.820 you're

01:36:56.920 not

01:36:57.040 there

01:36:57.220 I

01:36:57.240 didn't

01:36:57.420 care

01:36:57.700 if

01:36:58.200 he

01:36:58.400 communicated

01:36:59.000 now

01:36:59.580 okay

01:37:01.280 I hear

01:37:01.820 what

01:37:01.960 you're

01:37:02.160 saying

01:37:02.820 but

01:37:03.240 I

01:37:03.380 pay

01:37:03.540 attention

01:37:03.820 to

01:37:03.960 what

01:37:04.100 women 1.00

01:37:04.320 do

01:37:04.560 not

01:37:04.760 what

01:37:04.940 they

01:37:05.100 say

01:37:05.380 so

01:37:05.860 if

01:37:06.600 you

01:37:06.760 say

01:37:07.220 I'm

01:37:08.000 fine

01:37:13.740 that's

01:37:14.700 not

01:37:14.820 a

01:37:14.940 guy

01:37:15.100 you

01:37:15.280 really

01:37:15.600 want

01:37:16.020 that's

01:37:16.540 not

01:37:16.700 a

01:37:16.840 guy

01:37:17.020 that

01:37:17.180 you're

01:37:17.420 actually

01:37:17.940 into

01:37:18.440 who

01:37:18.780 really

01:37:19.160 like

01:37:19.500 maybe

01:37:19.720 you're

01:37:19.900 speaking

01:37:20.140 for

01:37:20.360 yourself

01:37:20.720 but

01:37:20.900 that's

01:37:21.100 not

01:37:21.280 for

01:37:21.460 me

01:37:22.140 that's

01:37:22.420 not

01:37:22.640 what

01:37:22.860 happened

01:37:23.200 I

01:37:24.140 you know

01:37:24.740 I

01:37:24.940 loved

01:37:25.240 him

01:37:25.420 I

01:37:25.800 wanted

01:37:26.160 the

01:37:26.320 whole

01:37:26.480 future

01:37:26.800 with

01:37:27.020 him

01:37:27.240 but

01:37:27.740 not

01:37:28.020 enough

01:37:28.440 to

01:37:28.660 not

01:37:28.840 hang

01:37:29.020 out

01:37:29.160 with

01:37:29.280 the

01:37:29.400 guy

01:37:29.780 friends

01:37:30.160 right

01:37:30.440 but

01:37:30.580 not

01:37:30.800 enough

01:37:31.120 remember

01:37:31.720 I

01:37:32.440 compromised

01:37:32.920 I

01:37:33.740 didn't

01:37:34.060 hang

01:37:34.280 out

01:37:34.380 with

01:37:34.500 guy

01:37:34.680 friends

01:37:34.920 unless

01:37:35.200 he

01:37:35.440 said

01:37:35.680 this

01:37:35.980 is

01:37:36.180 okay

01:37:36.860 and

01:37:38.020 I

01:37:38.720 even

01:37:38.980 went

01:37:39.120 out

01:37:39.200 of

01:37:39.240 my

01:37:39.320 way

01:37:39.440 I'm

01:37:39.540 like

01:37:39.660 hey

01:37:39.900 meet

01:37:40.620 them

01:37:40.920 assess

01:37:41.560 them

01:37:41.760 for

01:37:41.900 yourself

01:37:42.320 right

01:37:42.600 I

01:37:42.820 agree

01:37:43.040 and

01:37:43.840 yeah

01:37:44.660 oh

01:37:45.080 I

01:37:45.420 have

01:37:45.620 a

01:37:45.700 question

01:37:46.000 so

01:37:46.360 you

01:37:46.440 said

01:37:46.620 that

01:37:46.740 your

01:37:46.860 most

01:37:47.080 recent

01:37:47.400 boyfriend

01:37:47.800 cheated

01:37:48.180 on 0.87

01:37:48.380 you

01:37:48.540 I'm

01:37:49.460 curious

01:37:49.760 did

01:37:50.020 he

01:37:50.140 cheat

01:37:50.300 on

01:37:50.420 you

01:37:50.520 with

01:37:50.660 a

01:37:50.800 woman 0.99

01:37:51.060 or

01:37:51.220 with

01:37:51.360 a

01:37:51.500 man

01:37:51.860 with

01:37:52.860 a

01:37:53.000 I

01:37:53.400 mean

01:37:53.640 because

01:37:54.060 you

01:37:54.160 said

01:37:54.300 he's

01:37:54.460 bi

01:37:54.780 right

01:37:55.140 no

01:37:55.520 no

01:37:55.540 no

01:37:55.700 no

01:37:55.820 that

01:37:55.960 was

01:37:56.060 the

01:38:05.440 it

01:38:06.000 sounded

01:38:06.260 like

01:38:06.540 you 0.93

01:38:06.660 hang

01:38:08.680 out

01:38:08.840 with

01:38:08.960 the

01:38:09.080 boyfriend

01:38:09.380 okay

01:38:10.020 all

01:38:10.420 right

01:38:10.600 never

01:38:10.820 mind

01:38:11.040 go

01:38:11.300 ahead

01:38:11.460 continue

01:38:11.820 with

01:38:12.020 your

01:38:12.180 so

01:38:14.660 yeah

01:38:15.020 I

01:38:15.180 mean

01:38:15.300 we

01:38:15.440 compromised

01:38:15.820 and

01:38:16.300 so

01:38:16.740 you

01:38:16.960 know

01:38:17.080 I

01:38:17.460 was

01:38:17.620 even

01:38:17.860 saying

01:38:18.080 hey

01:38:18.340 meet

01:38:19.120 these

01:38:19.720 friends

01:38:20.240 assess

01:38:20.800 for

01:38:20.980 yourself

01:38:21.480 tell

01:38:21.780 me

01:38:21.920 who

01:38:22.060 you're

01:38:22.220 comfortable

01:38:22.640 with

01:38:23.080 etc

01:38:23.480 because

01:38:23.900 I

01:38:24.020 don't

01:38:24.340 want

01:38:24.480 to

01:38:24.540 be

01:38:24.680 disrespectful

01:38:25.260 you

01:38:27.300 know

01:38:27.400 I

01:38:27.580 get

01:38:27.800 we

01:38:27.940 have

01:38:28.140 our

01:38:28.300 differences

01:38:28.720 and

01:38:28.960 I

01:38:29.020 want

01:38:29.140 to

01:38:29.200 respect

01:38:29.460 that

01:38:29.880 but

01:38:31.620 you

01:38:31.740 know

01:38:31.900 so

01:38:32.200 and

01:38:32.380 he

01:38:32.520 said

01:38:32.780 this

01:38:33.100 person

01:38:33.560 in

01:38:33.820 particular

01:38:34.320 was

01:38:34.840 okay

01:38:35.200 and

01:38:35.940 so

01:38:36.100 I

01:38:36.220 was

01:38:36.320 going

01:38:36.440 to 0.99

01:38:36.540 hang

01:38:36.720 out

01:38:36.900 with

01:38:37.080 them

01:38:37.240 and

01:38:38.300 then

01:38:38.500 he

01:38:38.880 got

01:38:39.100 upset

01:38:39.520 and

01:38:40.320 then

01:38:40.560 I

01:38:40.720 get

01:38:40.860 a

01:38:40.960 message

01:38:41.140 from

01:38:41.300 him

01:38:41.440 saying

01:38:41.600 wait

01:38:41.780 why

01:38:41.980 did

01:38:42.180 he

01:38:42.260 get

01:38:42.400 upset

01:38:42.960 I

01:38:44.040 don't

01:38:45.220 know

01:38:45.560 was

01:38:45.860 it

01:38:46.000 the

01:38:46.160 case

01:38:46.560 that

01:38:46.860 you

01:38:47.040 kind

01:38:47.300 of

01:38:47.440 pushed

01:38:47.860 and

01:38:48.080 pushed

01:38:48.440 and

01:38:48.640 pushed

01:38:48.920 until

01:38:49.360 he

01:38:49.640 accepted

01:38:50.020 that

01:38:50.180 he

01:38:50.320 was

01:38:50.420 like

01:38:50.560 fine

01:38:51.040 you

01:38:51.220 can 0.98

01:38:51.360 hang

01:38:51.520 out

01:38:51.620 with

01:38:51.740 the

01:38:51.840 one

01:38:52.040 guy

01:38:52.380 I

01:38:52.560 guess

01:38:52.760 because

01:38:53.040 he

01:38:53.180 mostly

01:38:53.580 get

01:38:53.800 like

01:38:53.980 was

01:38:54.180 it

01:38:54.360 kind

01:38:54.760 of

01:38:54.840 like

01:38:55.040 that

01:38:55.400 or

01:38:55.580 was

01:38:55.860 it

01:38:56.100 like

01:38:57.720 oh

01:38:57.920 no

01:38:58.240 Joey

01:38:58.740 is

01:38:59.020 fine

01:38:59.580 hang

01:38:59.840 out

01:38:59.940 with

01:39:00.080 Joey

01:39:00.320 all

01:39:00.600 you

01:39:00.720 want

01:39:00.860 and

01:39:00.940 then

01:39:01.060 he

01:39:01.160 just

01:39:01.340 randomly

01:39:01.740 got upset

01:39:02.180 for no

01:39:02.520 reason

01:39:02.840 no

01:39:03.980 I

01:39:04.220 mean

01:39:04.420 this

01:39:04.660 was

01:39:04.960 something

01:39:05.360 we

01:39:05.600 agreed

01:39:05.880 to

01:39:06.080 for

01:39:06.360 a

01:39:06.560 long

01:39:06.700 time

01:39:06.960 and

01:39:07.080 it

01:39:07.160 finally

01:39:07.340 came

01:39:07.540 down

01:39:07.720 and

01:39:07.840 mind

01:39:08.080 you

01:39:08.200 the

01:39:08.640 whole

01:39:08.820 hangout

01:39:09.180 that

01:39:09.300 was

01:39:09.440 supposed

01:39:09.620 to

01:39:09.740 happen

01:39:09.960 was

01:39:10.120 supposed

01:39:10.360 to

01:39:10.540 be

01:39:10.780 kind

01:39:11.240 of

01:39:11.360 just

01:39:11.520 professional

01:39:12.000 I

01:39:12.200 was

01:39:23.040 going

01:39:23.240 to

01:39:23.320 his

01:39:23.420 room

01:39:23.500 I

01:39:23.680 have

01:39:23.800 never

01:39:23.960 been

01:39:24.320 in

01:39:24.460 his

01:39:24.660 room

01:39:24.880 actually

01:39:25.340 and

01:39:26.500 so

01:39:28.020 why

01:39:28.460 do

01:39:28.560 you

01:39:28.640 get

01:39:28.780 upset

01:39:29.240 is

01:39:29.420 what

01:39:29.560 I'm

01:39:29.680 trying

01:39:29.900 to

01:39:30.020 because

01:39:30.220 he

01:39:30.700 wasn't

01:39:30.980 aware

01:39:31.180 at

01:39:31.280 the

01:39:31.360 time

01:39:31.580 that

01:39:31.720 I

01:39:31.820 was

01:39:32.060 going

01:39:32.260 to

01:39:32.400 the

01:39:32.500 apartment

01:39:32.760 okay

01:39:33.080 sure

01:39:33.380 I

01:39:33.520 didn't

01:39:33.680 say

01:39:33.920 that

01:39:34.300 but

01:39:35.780 I

01:39:36.040 mean

01:39:36.260 I

01:39:37.040 explained

01:39:37.520 the

01:39:37.660 situation

01:39:38.060 and

01:39:38.260 he

01:39:38.360 was

01:39:38.680 still

01:39:38.940 upset

01:39:39.360 and

01:39:40.380 then

01:39:40.980 he

01:39:41.280 was

01:39:41.440 like

01:39:41.680 okay

01:39:42.220 you

01:39:42.360 know

01:39:42.420 what

01:39:42.560 I'm

01:39:42.800 going

01:39:43.080 to 0.99

01:39:43.140 hang

01:39:43.280 out

01:39:43.380 with

01:39:43.480 a

01:39:43.580 friend

01:39:43.740 I'm

01:39:43.900 like

01:39:44.080 friend

01:39:45.180 defined

01:39:45.560 friend

01:39:45.980 and

01:39:46.340 so

01:39:46.860 he

01:39:46.980 said

01:39:47.120 it

01:39:47.180 was

01:39:47.280 a

01:39:47.400 woman 0.99

01:39:47.620 I

01:39:47.800 was

01:39:47.900 like

01:39:48.060 okay

01:39:48.740 what's

01:39:49.060 her

01:39:49.160 name

01:39:49.500 and

01:39:49.620 her

01:39:49.720 name

01:39:49.820 was

01:39:49.920 Hannah

01:39:50.240 and

01:39:50.960 then

01:39:52.600 I

01:39:53.000 was

01:39:53.500 like

01:39:53.600 I've

01:39:53.720 never

01:39:53.900 heard

01:39:54.100 you

01:39:54.220 mention

01:39:54.420 her

01:39:54.560 before

01:39:54.840 and

01:39:55.160 he's

01:39:55.320 like

01:39:55.440 oh

01:39:55.900 yeah

01:39:56.100 I

01:39:56.340 met

01:39:56.560 her

01:39:56.820 yesterday

01:39:57.520 at

01:39:58.080 journeys

01:39:58.560 she

01:39:59.220 was

01:39:59.420 helping

01:39:59.720 me

01:39:59.940 buy

01:40:00.220 a

01:40:00.460 shoe

01:40:00.800 I'm

01:40:01.060 like

01:40:01.180 and

01:40:01.940 suddenly

01:40:02.160 this

01:40:02.360 is

01:40:02.460 a

01:40:02.560 friend

01:40:02.700 you're

01:40:02.800 going

01:40:02.880 to 0.99

01:40:02.940 hang

01:40:03.100 out

01:40:03.200 with

01:40:03.320 one

01:40:03.460 on

01:40:13.580 but

01:40:15.020 it's

01:40:15.220 a

01:40:15.300 total

01:40:15.640 stranger

01:40:16.460 that

01:40:16.660 he

01:40:16.900 had

01:40:17.060 never

01:40:17.260 met

01:40:17.740 maybe

01:40:18.140 it

01:40:18.360 was

01:40:18.780 but

01:40:19.180 statistically

01:40:20.220 you're

01:40:20.580 more likely

01:40:21.040 to cheat

01:40:21.540 with a

01:40:21.800 guy

01:40:21.960 who's

01:40:22.200 your

01:40:22.320 friend

01:40:22.740 I

01:40:23.460 understand

01:40:24.440 that

01:40:24.840 I'm

01:40:25.660 not

01:40:25.880 going

01:40:26.020 to

01:40:26.100 disagree

01:40:26.320 if

01:40:27.360 you

01:40:27.780 know

01:40:27.900 someone

01:40:28.120 who's

01:40:28.280 familiar

01:40:28.520 it

01:40:28.760 does

01:40:29.120 make

01:40:29.280 it

01:40:29.380 easier

01:40:29.720 but

01:40:31.880 in

01:40:32.720 this

01:40:32.840 case

01:40:32.960 it

01:40:33.100 was

01:40:33.240 a

01:40:33.320 total

01:40:33.480 stranger

01:40:33.860 and

01:40:34.380 I

01:40:34.520 know

01:40:34.640 he

01:40:34.720 was

01:40:34.800 trying

01:40:34.920 to

01:40:35.000 give

01:40:35.080 me

01:40:35.180 a

01:40:35.260 taste

01:40:35.440 of

01:40:35.580 my

01:40:35.840 own

01:40:36.040 medicine

01:40:36.380 but

01:40:36.980 it's

01:40:38.760 a

01:40:39.100 completely

01:40:39.460 different

01:40:43.580 this

01:40:44.640 is

01:40:44.740 someone

01:40:44.880 that

01:40:44.980 we

01:40:45.140 had

01:40:45.320 a

01:40:45.420 communication

01:40:45.680 about

01:40:46.200 this

01:40:46.620 is

01:40:46.740 someone

01:40:46.900 we

01:40:47.040 never

01:40:47.220 spoke

01:40:47.440 about

01:40:47.740 never

01:40:48.080 even

01:40:48.280 knew

01:40:48.500 and

01:40:49.820 so

01:40:51.760 it's

01:40:52.060 those

01:40:52.220 kind

01:40:52.400 of

01:40:52.480 things

01:40:52.620 if that

01:40:52.840 makes

01:40:52.980 any

01:40:53.140 kind

01:40:53.340 of

01:40:53.440 sense

01:40:53.820 yeah

01:40:54.540 it

01:40:54.900 makes

01:40:55.080 sense

01:40:55.380 I

01:40:55.600 feel

01:40:55.780 like

01:40:55.920 it's

01:40:56.100 a

01:40:56.200 situation

01:40:56.560 that

01:40:56.800 completely

01:40:57.240 could

01:40:57.480 have

01:40:57.580 been

01:40:57.720 avoided

01:40:58.080 though

01:40:58.560 and

01:40:59.180 I

01:40:59.320 think

01:40:59.640 that

01:41:00.060 if

01:41:01.200 you

01:41:01.440 are

01:41:01.640 trying

01:41:01.960 to

01:41:02.140 date

01:41:02.320 someone

01:41:02.620 seriously

01:41:03.080 you

01:41:03.340 shouldn't

01:41:03.660 be

01:41:03.820 hanging

01:41:04.020 out

01:41:04.240 with

01:41:04.380 people

01:41:04.580 of

01:41:04.720 the

01:41:04.800 opposite

01:41:05.020 sex

01:41:05.360 period

01:41:05.780 it

01:41:06.260 doesn't

01:41:06.540 matter

01:41:06.900 I

01:41:07.360 will

01:41:07.480 say

01:41:07.660 I

01:41:07.820 personally

01:41:08.760 have

01:41:08.940 never

01:41:09.140 hung

01:41:09.340 out

01:41:09.440 with

01:41:09.560 a

01:41:09.720 guy

01:41:09.940 friend

01:41:10.300 one

01:41:10.600 on

01:41:10.700 one

01:41:10.960 when

01:41:11.220 I'm

01:41:11.340 in

01:41:11.400 a

01:41:11.480 relationship

01:41:11.740 I

01:41:12.000 don't

01:41:12.220 do

01:41:12.360 that

01:41:12.600 but

01:41:13.340 what

01:41:13.660 I

01:41:13.760 will

01:41:13.860 say

01:41:14.020 is

01:41:14.200 that

01:41:14.460 if

01:41:14.660 I

01:41:15.060 have

01:41:15.320 a

01:41:15.420 guy

01:41:15.540 friend

01:41:15.700 that

01:41:15.800 I

01:41:15.900 knew

01:41:16.000 before

01:41:16.220 my

01:41:16.380 relationship

01:41:16.740 and

01:41:17.300 I

01:41:17.480 introduced

01:41:17.800 them

01:41:18.160 and we 1.00

01:41:18.440 hang

01:41:18.600 out

01:41:18.700 together

01:41:19.020 I

01:41:19.220 think

01:41:19.360 that

01:41:19.500 is

01:41:19.620 fine

01:41:19.880 let's

01:41:21.300 continue

01:41:21.600 going

01:41:21.820 around

01:41:22.000 the

01:41:22.120 table

01:41:22.360 so

01:41:22.620 would

01:41:22.860 you

01:41:23.000 date

01:41:23.160 a

01:41:23.260 guy

01:41:23.460 who's

01:41:23.720 not

01:41:24.020 a

01:41:24.200 feminist

01:41:24.640 yeah

01:41:25.780 yes

01:41:28.820 I

01:41:30.680 don't

01:41:30.900 think

01:41:31.120 I

01:41:31.280 would

01:41:31.640 you

01:41:32.520 wouldn't

01:41:32.880 okay

01:41:33.120 what

01:41:33.300 about

01:41:33.460 you

01:41:33.720 could

01:41:35.320 you

01:41:35.560 explain

01:41:37.340 what

01:41:37.600 a

01:41:37.740 feminist

01:41:37.980 is

01:41:38.560 well

01:41:40.280 I

01:41:40.480 mean

01:41:40.580 didn't

01:41:40.760 you

01:41:40.880 describe

01:41:41.160 yourself

01:41:41.480 as

01:41:41.980 a

01:41:42.080 feminist

01:41:42.340 could

01:41:43.520 you

01:41:43.620 explain

01:41:44.080 a

01:41:44.280 little

01:41:44.520 well

01:41:46.320 okay

01:41:46.560 so

01:41:46.760 I

01:41:47.020 would

01:41:47.220 argue

01:41:48.120 that

01:41:48.680 the

01:41:48.920 most

01:41:49.140 charitable

01:41:49.700 definition

01:41:50.120 I

01:41:51.760 would

01:41:51.940 give

01:41:52.120 feminism

01:41:52.520 is

01:41:53.180 it's

01:41:53.340 a

01:41:53.460 woman's 0.82

01:41:53.820 advocacy

01:41:54.440 movement

01:41:55.020 that's

01:41:57.560 the

01:41:57.640 most

01:41:57.800 charitable

01:41:58.100 definition

01:41:58.560 I

01:41:58.940 give

01:41:59.160 it

01:41:59.320 I

01:42:00.180 don't

01:42:00.320 even

01:42:00.480 believe

01:42:00.720 it's

01:42:01.080 in

01:42:01.640 the

01:42:01.800 most

01:42:01.980 charitable

01:42:02.300 form

01:42:02.660 it's

01:42:02.900 a

01:42:03.000 movement

01:42:03.200 for

01:42:03.400 equality

01:42:03.800 I

01:42:04.320 think

01:42:04.460 it's

01:42:04.620 a

01:42:04.680 woman's 0.82

01:42:04.980 advocacy

01:42:05.420 movement

01:42:06.280 there's

01:42:06.840 nothing

01:42:07.020 wrong

01:42:07.280 with

01:42:07.460 that

01:42:07.760 I

01:42:08.780 don't

01:42:08.960 think

01:42:09.140 it

01:42:09.240 has

01:42:09.380 any

01:42:09.600 interest

01:42:09.960 in

01:42:10.160 equality

01:42:10.780 though

01:42:11.100 so

01:42:12.480 yeah

01:42:14.700 it's

01:42:14.860 women's

01:42:15.700 advocacy

01:42:16.380 the

01:42:17.120 reality

01:42:17.920 but

01:42:18.880 that's

01:42:19.260 me

01:42:19.400 being

01:42:19.620 charitable

01:42:19.940 I

01:42:20.160 would

01:42:20.280 argue

01:42:20.480 the

01:42:20.680 reality

01:42:21.180 of

01:42:21.360 feminism

01:42:21.720 is

01:42:22.640 it's

01:42:22.960 something

01:42:23.380 along

01:42:23.780 the

01:42:23.960 lines

01:42:24.300 of

01:42:24.580 women's

01:42:25.540 advocacy

01:42:26.160 steeped

01:42:27.280 in

01:42:27.460 conspiracy

01:42:28.020 theories

01:42:28.560 and

01:42:29.440 there's

01:42:31.200 bare

01:42:32.540 minimum

01:42:32.860 like

01:42:33.280 some

01:42:33.640 degree

01:42:34.040 of

01:42:34.380 male

01:42:34.800 bigotry

01:42:35.360 bias

01:42:36.080 even

01:42:37.240 misandry

01:42:38.200 hatred

01:42:38.720 of

01:42:38.900 men

01:42:39.160 yeah

01:42:41.060 that's

01:42:41.820 my

01:42:42.060 more

01:42:43.100 accurate

01:42:43.680 sense

01:42:44.000 of

01:42:44.240 what

01:42:44.600 feminism

01:42:44.940 is

01:42:45.720 okay

01:42:46.780 can I

01:42:48.700 change

01:42:48.940 my

01:42:49.080 answer

01:42:49.420 I

01:42:49.660 don't

01:42:49.800 think

01:42:50.080 that

01:42:50.220 I'm

01:42:50.380 a

01:42:50.480 feminist

01:42:50.860 good

01:42:52.980 job

01:42:53.240 I'm

01:42:53.640 noticing

01:42:54.000 a

01:42:54.280 pattern

01:42:54.760 are you

01:42:55.140 noticing

01:42:55.460 a

01:42:55.700 pattern

01:42:56.160 with

01:42:57.440 they all

01:42:58.200 say

01:42:58.400 they're

01:42:58.600 a

01:42:58.760 feminist

01:42:59.060 and

01:42:59.440 then

01:42:59.580 when

01:42:59.700 we

01:42:59.860 further

01:43:00.180 they're

01:43:00.640 like

01:43:00.840 no

01:43:01.340 I

01:43:01.520 don't

01:43:01.760 want

01:43:02.520 to

01:43:02.780 identify

01:43:03.300 with

01:43:03.600 that

01:43:03.760 right

01:43:03.940 but

01:43:04.120 then

01:43:04.300 when

01:43:04.440 we

01:43:04.600 get

01:43:04.780 probing

01:43:05.200 questions

01:43:05.760 going

01:43:06.360 we

01:43:07.780 kind

01:43:08.020 of

01:43:08.140 find

01:43:08.380 out

01:43:08.700 that

01:43:09.780 they

01:43:09.940 are

01:43:10.100 feminist

01:43:10.460 let

01:43:11.020 me

01:43:11.160 let me

01:43:11.420 ask

01:43:11.620 a

01:43:11.720 couple

01:43:11.900 questions

01:43:12.460 that

01:43:12.620 could

01:43:12.760 perhaps

01:43:13.080 help

01:43:13.300 with

01:43:13.460 this

01:43:13.660 so

01:43:13.960 you've

01:43:15.220 got

01:43:15.340 a

01:43:15.480 boyfriend

01:43:15.740 over

01:43:16.120 here

01:43:16.500 I

01:43:16.740 do

01:43:16.980 with

01:43:19.080 him

01:43:19.420 or

01:43:19.600 just

01:43:19.800 like

01:43:20.040 if

01:43:20.200 you

01:43:20.300 were

01:43:20.420 ever

01:43:20.580 to

01:43:20.820 go

01:43:21.500 up

01:43:21.720 back

01:43:22.020 out

01:43:22.200 there

01:43:22.360 and

01:43:22.480 date

01:43:22.680 who

01:43:24.000 do

01:43:24.140 you

01:43:24.200 think

01:43:24.340 should

01:43:24.500 pay

01:43:24.680 on

01:43:24.800 the

01:43:24.900 first

01:43:25.100 date

01:43:25.320 the

01:43:26.540 man

01:43:26.720 or

01:43:26.820 the

01:43:27.200 woman 0.99

01:43:27.720 like

01:43:31.620 the

01:43:31.740 very

01:43:31.980 first

01:43:32.320 date

01:43:32.600 I

01:43:33.940 mean

01:43:34.060 I

01:43:34.180 guess

01:43:34.340 if

01:43:34.480 he's

01:43:34.660 taking

01:43:34.880 you

01:43:35.060 out

01:43:35.260 then

01:43:35.600 he

01:43:37.120 could

01:43:37.400 pay

01:43:37.780 for

01:43:38.100 it

01:43:38.220 but

01:43:38.380 throughout

01:43:39.620 the

01:43:39.880 relationship

01:43:40.400 I

01:43:40.680 feel

01:43:40.900 like

01:43:41.100 it

01:43:41.720 shouldn't

01:43:41.940 just

01:43:42.120 be

01:43:42.320 him

01:43:42.720 okay

01:43:43.780 so

01:43:44.000 first

01:43:44.280 date

01:43:44.500 should

01:43:44.640 be

01:43:44.720 the

01:43:44.840 guy

01:43:44.960 what

01:43:45.100 about

01:43:45.240 the

01:43:45.400 first

01:43:45.580 few

01:43:46.300 dates

01:43:46.600 I

01:43:47.880 would

01:43:48.080 split

01:43:48.340 I

01:43:48.480 would

01:43:48.640 offer

01:43:49.020 like

01:43:49.540 when

01:43:49.700 we

01:43:49.820 were

01:43:49.980 first

01:43:50.320 starting

01:43:50.560 to

01:43:50.840 date

01:43:51.100 I

01:43:51.660 would

01:43:51.820 like

01:43:52.060 if

01:43:52.520 he

01:43:52.680 pays

01:43:52.940 for

01:43:53.080 the

01:43:53.220 dinner

01:43:53.380 then

01:43:53.560 maybe

01:43:53.760 I'll

01:43:53.940 get

01:43:54.100 dessert

01:43:54.500 okay

01:43:55.380 so

01:43:55.580 you

01:43:55.740 pay

01:43:55.980 for

01:43:56.140 80%

01:43:56.600 and

01:43:56.780 you

01:43:56.880 pay

01:43:57.280 for

01:43:57.420 20%

01:43:58.620 of

01:43:59.400 the

01:43:59.500 bill

01:43:59.660 typically

01:44:02.560 if my

01:44:02.960 understanding

01:44:03.580 of

01:44:03.880 eating

01:44:04.620 out

01:44:04.980 dessert

01:44:05.340 is

01:44:05.560 typically

01:44:05.900 going

01:44:06.100 to

01:44:06.160 be

01:44:06.420 a

01:44:07.160 fraction

01:44:07.580 of

01:44:07.840 the

01:44:08.080 maybe

01:44:09.360 it's

01:44:09.560 five

01:44:09.840 dollars

01:44:10.280 it

01:44:10.840 doesn't

01:44:11.060 have

01:44:11.260 to

01:44:11.400 be

01:44:11.540 like

01:44:11.760 dinner

01:44:12.080 and

01:44:12.240 dessert

01:44:12.420 it

01:44:12.560 could

01:44:12.640 be

01:44:12.760 like

01:44:13.040 if

01:44:13.640 we're

01:44:13.740 going

01:44:13.880 to

01:44:14.000 the

01:44:14.120 movies

01:44:14.420 and

01:44:14.620 he

01:44:14.800 could

01:44:14.980 buy

01:44:15.120 the

01:44:15.300 tickets

01:44:15.640 or

01:44:15.800 then

01:44:15.980 I'll

01:44:16.200 get

01:44:16.340 the

01:44:16.540 snack

01:44:16.720 with

01:44:17.340 your

01:44:17.480 boyfriend

01:44:17.800 for

01:44:18.000 the

01:44:18.100 first

01:44:18.300 date

01:44:18.500 did

01:44:18.640 he

01:44:18.800 pay

01:44:18.940 for

01:44:19.140 it

01:44:19.320 um

01:44:20.580 I'm

01:44:22.360 pretty

01:44:22.540 sure

01:44:22.680 he

01:44:22.800 got

01:44:22.940 the

01:44:23.100 tickets

01:44:23.440 and

01:44:23.620 I

01:44:23.720 got

01:44:23.840 the

01:44:24.040 snacks

01:44:24.400 okay

01:44:26.280 um

01:44:27.220 what

01:44:27.360 about

01:44:27.520 you

01:44:27.720 if

01:44:28.020 you

01:44:28.240 end

01:44:28.560 up

01:44:28.720 on

01:44:28.840 the

01:44:28.940 first

01:44:29.120 date

01:44:29.260 with

01:44:29.360 guy

01:44:29.540 would

01:44:29.700 you

01:44:29.800 like

01:44:30.000 him

01:44:30.160 to

01:44:30.260 pay

01:44:30.420 or

01:44:30.660 are

01:44:30.880 you

01:44:30.980 okay

01:44:31.140 50-50

01:44:31.760 um

01:44:32.640 I'm

01:44:33.080 okay

01:44:33.280 with

01:44:33.500 50-50

01:44:34.140 for

01:44:34.360 like

01:44:34.500 the

01:44:34.640 first

01:44:34.920 date

01:44:35.200 yeah

01:44:35.500 what

01:44:36.300 about

01:44:36.480 dates

01:44:36.700 beyond

01:44:36.920 the

01:44:37.060 first

01:44:37.240 date

01:44:37.460 um

01:44:38.900 I

01:44:39.160 think

01:44:39.520 it

01:44:39.840 would

01:44:39.960 be

01:44:40.100 like

01:44:40.420 it

01:44:41.220 shouldn't

01:44:41.460 have

01:44:41.580 to

01:44:41.640 be

01:44:41.720 like

01:44:41.840 exactly

01:44:42.160 50-50

01:44:42.740 but

01:44:42.900 I'm

01:44:43.060 okay

01:44:43.240 with

01:44:43.420 like

01:44:43.740 um

01:44:44.740 you

01:44:45.160 like

01:44:45.600 if

01:44:45.820 we're

01:44:46.000 like

01:44:46.140 more

01:44:46.340 serious

01:44:46.680 about

01:44:46.920 it

01:44:47.040 like

01:44:47.280 um

01:44:47.960 we

01:44:48.080 just

01:44:48.320 kind

01:44:48.720 of

01:44:48.800 like

01:44:49.000 pay

01:44:49.360 for

01:44:49.640 each

01:44:49.900 other

01:44:50.180 and

01:44:50.400 it's

01:44:50.540 not

01:44:50.660 like

01:44:50.920 something

01:44:51.540 like

01:44:51.840 super

01:44:52.660 like

01:44:53.240 strict

01:44:53.760 I

01:44:53.960 guess

01:44:54.180 like

01:44:54.460 okay

01:44:54.740 he gets

01:44:55.120 one

01:44:55.400 you

01:44:55.600 get

01:44:55.760 one

01:44:56.060 yeah

01:44:56.360 kind

01:44:56.640 of

01:44:56.760 like

01:44:56.880 that

01:44:57.160 what

01:44:57.720 about

01:44:57.880 you

01:44:58.040 absolutely

01:44:59.060 absolutely

01:45:00.800 what

01:45:01.120 pay

01:45:01.460 on the

01:45:01.780 first

01:45:02.040 date

01:45:02.360 the

01:45:02.700 guy

01:45:02.800 should

01:45:02.980 pay

01:45:03.100 on

01:45:03.200 the

01:45:03.280 first

01:45:03.480 date

01:45:03.620 okay

01:45:04.300 what

01:45:05.080 about

01:45:05.220 you

01:45:05.400 yes

01:45:05.660 the

01:45:05.820 guy

01:45:05.960 should

01:45:06.140 pay

01:45:06.240 on

01:45:06.340 the

01:45:06.420 first

01:45:06.580 date

01:45:06.820 I

01:45:07.500 don't

01:45:09.160 think

01:45:09.320 so

01:45:09.520 I

01:45:09.760 mean

01:45:09.920 look

01:45:10.740 if

01:45:11.040 they're

01:45:11.500 asking

01:45:12.020 for

01:45:12.440 they're

01:45:13.400 like

01:45:13.540 I

01:45:13.680 want

01:45:13.840 to

01:45:13.880 take

01:45:14.000 you

01:45:14.100 to

01:45:14.200 a

01:45:14.360 super

01:45:14.640 expensive

01:45:15.000 restaurant

01:45:15.500 I

01:45:16.360 don't

01:45:16.600 have

01:45:16.860 the

01:45:17.000 money

01:45:17.180 for

01:45:17.380 that

01:45:17.620 I'm

01:45:17.940 going

01:45:18.020 to

01:45:18.100 communicate

01:45:18.500 that

01:45:19.040 and

01:45:19.640 if

01:45:19.780 they're

01:45:19.900 like

01:45:20.040 okay

01:45:20.240 then

01:45:20.380 let's

01:45:20.520 go

01:45:20.640 somewhere

01:45:20.820 cheaper

01:45:21.100 cool

01:45:21.420 that's

01:45:21.780 fine

01:45:21.900 with

01:45:22.040 me

01:45:22.160 I

01:45:22.300 don't

01:45:22.440 care

01:45:22.680 okay

01:45:23.080 but

01:45:23.500 I

01:45:23.780 will

01:45:23.920 split

01:45:24.160 that's

01:45:24.440 fair

01:45:24.620 okay

01:45:24.940 so

01:45:25.220 if

01:45:25.520 he's

01:45:26.240 asking

01:45:26.480 you

01:45:26.620 somewhere

01:45:26.860 expensive

01:45:27.340 then

01:45:29.140 yeah

01:45:29.840 yeah

01:45:30.240 okay

01:45:30.780 what about

01:45:31.400 you

01:45:31.560 who should

01:45:32.240 pay

01:45:32.420 men

01:45:33.340 men

01:45:34.260 okay

01:45:34.700 didn't

01:45:35.020 you say

01:45:35.240 you were

01:45:35.420 feminist

01:45:35.840 feminist

01:45:37.020 feminist

01:45:37.340 feminist

01:45:37.800 not a

01:45:38.660 feminist

01:45:38.980 here's

01:45:42.440 another

01:45:42.620 question

01:45:42.980 that we

01:45:43.300 can kind

01:45:43.680 of

01:45:43.880 figure

01:45:44.360 out

01:45:44.600 here

01:45:44.880 should

01:45:46.860 women 1.00

01:45:47.100 be

01:45:47.320 drafted

01:45:47.800 this

01:45:49.060 is

01:45:49.200 this

01:45:49.380 is

01:45:49.540 an

01:45:49.700 effort

01:45:49.960 to

01:45:50.300 figure

01:45:51.040 out

01:45:51.240 if

01:45:51.360 you

01:45:51.440 guys

01:45:51.580 are

01:45:51.700 feminist

01:45:52.060 or

01:45:52.280 not

01:45:52.560 should

01:45:53.620 women 1.00

01:45:53.840 be

01:45:54.020 drafted

01:45:54.420 in

01:45:54.780 the

01:45:54.900 military

01:45:55.280 like

01:45:56.460 by

01:45:57.520 drafted

01:45:57.900 do

01:45:58.220 you

01:45:58.320 mean

01:45:58.480 like

01:45:58.720 when

01:45:59.040 you

01:45:59.160 turn

01:45:59.360 18

01:45:59.640 like

01:45:59.900 you

01:46:00.060 automatically

01:46:00.480 yeah

01:46:00.760 so

01:46:01.020 men

01:46:01.240 have

01:46:01.480 to

01:46:01.640 register

01:46:02.020 for

01:46:02.280 the

01:46:02.420 selective

01:46:02.740 service

01:46:03.260 currently

01:46:03.620 there's

01:46:03.860 not

01:46:03.980 a

01:46:04.100 draft

01:46:04.360 in

01:46:04.500 the

01:46:04.600 United

01:46:04.780 States

01:46:05.140 but

01:46:05.640 all

01:46:05.820 men

01:46:06.020 in

01:46:06.120 the

01:46:06.220 United

01:46:06.440 States

01:46:06.840 at

01:46:07.060 18

01:46:08.460 in order

01:46:08.860 to be

01:46:09.140 able

01:46:09.300 to

01:46:09.440 vote

01:46:09.700 and have

01:46:10.040 other

01:46:10.240 benefits

01:46:10.680 they have

01:46:11.040 to register

01:46:11.500 for the

01:46:11.880 selective

01:46:12.140 service

01:46:12.640 which would

01:46:13.780 then make

01:46:14.340 them subject

01:46:14.860 to

01:46:15.440 military

01:46:16.360 conscription

01:46:16.880 in the

01:46:17.220 case

01:46:17.460 that there

01:46:17.740 was

01:46:18.120 a

01:46:18.520 military

01:46:19.500 conflict

01:46:19.940 which

01:46:20.480 required

01:46:21.500 a draft

01:46:22.060 so do

01:46:23.720 you think

01:46:23.860 women should 1.00

01:46:24.220 be subject

01:46:24.760 to

01:46:25.240 selective

01:46:27.220 service

01:46:27.740 draft

01:46:28.340 absolutely

01:46:29.140 not

01:46:29.940 okay

01:46:31.220 I wouldn't

01:46:31.860 even

01:46:32.080 chose 0.56

01:46:32.360 women to 1.00

01:46:33.180 like

01:46:33.500 fight

01:46:33.880 for

01:46:34.160 our

01:46:34.500 country

01:46:34.960 unless

01:46:35.400 that's

01:46:35.720 like

01:46:36.020 that's

01:46:36.880 their

01:46:37.060 thing

01:46:37.440 you know

01:46:37.800 like

01:46:38.100 if you're

01:46:38.600 like

01:46:38.840 that type

01:46:39.320 of woman

01:46:39.720 that you

01:46:40.280 feel like

01:46:40.820 you're

01:46:41.160 stronger

01:46:42.060 and stuff

01:46:42.640 like that

01:46:42.980 but I

01:46:43.380 just feel

01:46:43.860 like

01:46:44.080 no

01:46:45.620 okay

01:46:46.380 what do you

01:46:46.900 think

01:46:47.140 well hold on

01:46:47.680 so you think

01:46:48.380 they should be

01:46:49.240 drafted based on

01:46:50.140 how they feel

01:46:50.880 no

01:46:52.200 about

01:46:52.480 I'm not saying

01:46:53.040 that at all

01:46:53.380 I'm saying

01:46:53.760 like

01:46:54.380 willingly

01:46:54.880 if you just

01:46:55.360 want to

01:46:55.660 go

01:46:55.760 she's saying

01:46:55.900 if they

01:46:56.140 want to

01:46:56.340 volunteer

01:46:56.580 well just

01:46:56.880 really

01:46:57.120 want to

01:46:57.440 volunteer

01:46:57.820 yeah

01:46:58.080 if they

01:46:58.340 want to

01:46:58.640 volunteer

01:46:59.140 yes

01:46:59.600 yeah

01:46:59.760 but then

01:46:59.980 yeah

01:47:00.220 that's

01:47:00.420 what we

01:47:04.120 currently

01:47:04.400 have

01:47:04.660 yeah

01:47:04.980 but

01:47:05.720 yeah

01:47:06.740 I guess

01:47:07.100 we should

01:47:07.360 be drafted

01:47:07.700 because I

01:47:08.020 mean

01:47:08.260 plenty of men

01:47:10.240 don't want to

01:47:10.640 join

01:47:10.920 plenty of men

01:47:12.900 I'm plenty of

01:47:13.480 men

01:47:13.680 plenty of

01:47:14.060 women 1.00

01:47:14.240 don't matter

01:47:14.780 if we gotta

01:47:15.660 do what

01:47:15.840 we gotta

01:47:16.040 do

01:47:16.220 I mean

01:47:16.520 yeah

01:47:17.080 now here's

01:47:17.460 the interesting

01:47:17.860 thing

01:47:18.140 you guys

01:47:18.480 both have

01:47:18.960 different

01:47:19.220 opinions

01:47:19.520 on this

01:47:19.920 I still

01:47:20.960 don't know

01:47:21.480 which is

01:47:21.960 actually like

01:47:22.620 the actual

01:47:23.180 feminist

01:47:23.720 position

01:47:24.280 because it

01:47:25.480 will have

01:47:25.820 feminists

01:47:26.160 who will

01:47:26.440 argue

01:47:26.740 it's

01:47:26.940 actually

01:47:27.240 we had

01:47:27.560 one last

01:47:28.020 week

01:47:28.200 with

01:47:28.380 Andrew

01:47:28.720 who said

01:47:29.520 well it's

01:47:30.180 not

01:47:30.400 it's not

01:47:31.220 equitable

01:47:32.040 it's not

01:47:32.880 equity for

01:47:33.720 women to 1.00

01:47:34.140 be drafted

01:47:34.580 that's a

01:47:35.240 whole nother

01:47:35.620 thing

01:47:35.920 but what

01:47:36.960 about you

01:47:37.340 no

01:47:38.280 no

01:47:38.780 okay

01:47:39.180 no women 1.00

01:47:40.000 should not

01:47:40.340 be drafted

01:47:40.600 should not

01:47:40.840 be drafted

01:47:41.280 no

01:47:41.780 but they

01:47:42.500 should be

01:47:42.780 paid

01:47:43.100 equally

01:47:43.520 in sporting

01:47:44.260 events

01:47:44.740 no comment

01:47:47.200 okay

01:47:47.760 no

01:47:49.400 they shouldn't

01:47:50.660 be drafted

01:47:51.060 I don't

01:47:51.560 think so

01:47:52.080 well

01:47:52.400 hold on

01:47:53.000 okay so

01:47:53.340 everybody

01:47:54.060 except

01:47:54.900 Anza

01:47:55.660 yeah

01:47:56.020 said

01:47:57.340 women 1.00

01:47:57.800 shouldn't 0.98

01:47:58.080 be drafted

01:47:58.520 but y'all

01:47:59.120 want to be

01:47:59.440 equal

01:47:59.780 so wait a sec

01:48:01.380 how are you

01:48:02.200 equal if the

01:48:03.380 men are the

01:48:04.380 ones that have

01:48:04.860 to fight and

01:48:05.560 die to defend

01:48:06.280 the country

01:48:06.880 the men are

01:48:07.500 the ones that

01:48:08.200 build and

01:48:09.080 maintain all the

01:48:09.780 infrastructure

01:48:10.480 right like

01:48:12.180 none of this

01:48:12.840 stuff in the

01:48:13.440 studio is built

01:48:14.800 or maintained

01:48:15.260 by women

01:48:15.920 do you know

01:48:16.580 that like 90

01:48:17.480 percent of

01:48:17.960 infrastructure jobs

01:48:19.020 are still held

01:48:19.820 by men

01:48:20.420 and that if

01:48:21.580 you look at the

01:48:22.040 top 20 jobs

01:48:23.240 held by women 0.97

01:48:24.020 now in

01:48:25.480 2024 versus

01:48:26.620 1924 are

01:48:27.880 almost the

01:48:28.280 exact same

01:48:29.020 so women have 1.00

01:48:29.500 had a hundred

01:48:29.940 years to do

01:48:30.700 whatever they

01:48:31.100 want and they

01:48:32.280 still do the

01:48:33.240 same 20 jobs

01:48:34.100 they did a hundred

01:48:34.600 years ago other

01:48:35.600 than we switched

01:48:36.980 out farm labor

01:48:37.800 for HR work but

01:48:38.800 other than that

01:48:39.300 we're secretaries

01:48:40.100 nurses daycare

01:48:41.580 ladies early 1.00

01:48:42.860 childhood education

01:48:44.140 administrative

01:48:45.700 assistants retail

01:48:46.960 workers all the 1.00

01:48:48.100 same shit that we 1.00

01:48:48.900 were a century 1.00

01:48:49.680 ago so if the

01:48:52.440 men are the

01:48:53.420 ones tasked

01:48:54.120 with every

01:48:54.680 time there's a

01:48:55.120 natural disaster

01:48:55.900 they have to go

01:48:56.460 out and rescue

01:48:57.040 people from the

01:48:57.760 fires and the

01:48:58.360 floodwaters and

01:48:59.080 every time there's

01:48:59.600 a war the men

01:49:00.380 have to go and

01:49:00.980 fight it and

01:49:01.440 defend the

01:49:01.900 country and

01:49:02.840 anytime there's

01:49:03.560 a criminal who

01:49:04.700 needs to be

01:49:05.260 violently arrested

01:49:06.140 it's going to be

01:49:06.640 a man who goes

01:49:07.400 and does that

01:49:07.880 not a woman 1.00

01:49:08.520 where does the

01:49:10.720 equality come in

01:49:11.920 if we're doing

01:49:12.560 the fluffy jobs

01:49:13.420 you know we're

01:49:13.820 all singers we

01:49:14.720 got a lot of

01:49:15.220 singers and

01:49:15.720 musicians which

01:49:16.260 is cool it's

01:49:16.960 great I love

01:49:17.420 music too but

01:49:19.120 y'all ain't

01:49:19.680 like rescuing

01:49:20.580 people and

01:49:21.460 you know doing

01:49:22.420 the heavy lifting

01:49:23.680 or the dirty or

01:49:24.700 the dangerous

01:49:25.220 jobs like who

01:49:25.860 collects the

01:49:26.380 trash men you 0.91

01:49:27.920 know who does 1.00

01:49:30.340 all the steel

01:49:30.960 working and oil

01:49:31.920 rig work and all

01:49:33.580 of the like sewer

01:49:34.560 cleaning men we

01:49:36.260 have a video on

01:49:37.000 this Rachel actually

01:49:37.820 Nick remember that

01:49:38.580 video we were

01:49:39.140 looking at yesterday

01:49:39.940 I think it might

01:49:42.140 still be on one of

01:49:43.100 the tabs

01:49:43.640 let's watch this

01:49:48.180 no audio

01:49:49.620 no audio

01:49:50.620 go ahead

01:49:51.260 yeah go ahead

01:49:54.920 are you ready

01:49:56.360 to work on an

01:49:57.060 oil rig

01:49:57.800 all right

01:49:59.220 come on feminists 1.00

01:50:00.700 get in there

01:50:01.320 you can do it

01:50:01.900 those are some

01:50:02.020 roughnecks 0.97

01:50:02.840 come on ladies 1.00

01:50:04.140 ladies 0.99

01:50:04.880 anyone

01:50:05.220 Andrew had to do

01:50:06.640 stuff like that

01:50:07.260 back in the day

01:50:07.880 they'd lower him

01:50:08.640 underwater welding

01:50:09.920 not underwater but

01:50:11.680 they would lower him

01:50:12.620 into these tiny

01:50:13.480 little horrifically

01:50:14.580 frightening spaces

01:50:15.740 to do extremely

01:50:16.520 dangerous stuff

01:50:17.400 I'm claustrophobic

01:50:18.300 I really feel like

01:50:18.920 women should just 1.00

01:50:19.400 have the choice to

01:50:19.920 do if they want to

01:50:20.520 because I know

01:50:20.900 some women that 1.00

01:50:21.340 can handle it

01:50:21.780 they do have the

01:50:22.360 choice and they're

01:50:22.860 not they do and

01:50:23.820 they're not doing

01:50:24.560 it they don't want

01:50:25.260 to well I mean

01:50:26.000 well this is the

01:50:26.660 big secret right

01:50:27.540 is that women 1.00

01:50:28.060 don't want to do

01:50:29.100 any of this dirty

01:50:30.000 dangerous scary

01:50:31.260 stuff they don't

01:50:32.520 want to well

01:50:33.320 yeah but is that

01:50:34.040 just you know what

01:50:34.800 we've been raised

01:50:35.300 with the culture

01:50:35.780 we're surrounded by

01:50:36.540 no and I have data

01:50:37.800 to back this up

01:50:38.900 so okay if you

01:50:40.820 oh is there more

01:50:41.420 Nick just let it

01:50:42.620 play yeah we'll

01:50:43.880 just let it play

01:50:44.580 okay so back

01:50:46.440 around the time

01:50:47.080 of suffrage we're 0.95

01:50:47.820 talking like 1850s

01:50:50.440 to 1920 roughly

01:50:51.680 around there when

01:50:52.300 the big suffrage 0.75

01:50:53.120 movement was

01:50:53.660 happening did you

01:50:56.360 guys know that most

01:50:57.800 women were completely 1.00

01:50:58.660 against it by all

01:51:00.280 of the referendums

01:51:02.260 that they would do

01:51:02.780 where they would let

01:51:03.280 women vote on 0.99

01:51:04.320 whether they wanted

01:51:05.020 to vote only about

01:51:05.900 four percent actually

01:51:07.340 had any interest in

01:51:08.500 voting and they

01:51:09.400 actually had really

01:51:10.280 good reasons for

01:51:11.200 this there was much

01:51:11.800 higher membership in

01:51:13.340 anti-suffrage groups

01:51:14.340 and pro-suffrage

01:51:15.060 groups and these

01:51:15.900 groups would do

01:51:16.440 public debates they

01:51:17.660 would do written

01:51:18.200 debates newspaper

01:51:19.520 periodicals where they

01:51:20.580 would go back and

01:51:21.220 forth and debate

01:51:21.840 these things and the

01:51:23.080 women who are against

01:51:23.780 suffrage said look the 1.00

01:51:26.040 primary purpose of

01:51:28.020 government is to

01:51:28.900 protect persons and

01:51:30.220 property okay why

01:51:32.480 task women with that 1.00

01:51:33.600 when we're not really

01:51:34.940 capable of doing that

01:51:36.000 okay we don't want to

01:51:38.940 have to be drafted we

01:51:40.020 don't want to have to

01:51:40.600 do jury duty we don't

01:51:41.960 want to have to be a

01:51:42.780 political block because

01:51:44.520 back then women had 1.00

01:51:46.200 advocacy groups for

01:51:47.360 things they wanted but

01:51:48.780 they weren't a lobbying

01:51:50.080 group they didn't have

01:51:51.160 like voting rights so

01:51:53.060 they weren't able to be

01:51:53.860 as easily politicized

01:51:54.840 they felt like they had

01:51:55.580 a moral high ground to

01:51:56.960 ask for things like we

01:51:58.120 need more parks we need

01:51:59.240 better schools we need

01:52:00.180 clean air whatever it

01:52:01.020 was and that if they

01:52:03.320 became just another

01:52:04.160 voting block they would

01:52:06.280 be involved in dirty

01:52:07.820 politics and they didn't

01:52:08.820 want to do that they

01:52:09.620 felt like somebody has to

01:52:11.060 be morally neutral and

01:52:12.100 not involved in

01:52:12.720 politics so given all

01:52:14.980 of that do you guys

01:52:16.120 think that women can 1.00

01:52:17.260 protect and defend

01:52:18.820 persons and property

01:52:20.080 sure I mean I will

01:52:22.480 first of all I want to

01:52:23.620 go back to the fact that

01:52:24.520 for a long time women

01:52:25.780 weren't allowed to own

01:52:26.380 property or at least not

01:52:27.220 without being married and

01:52:29.100 so actually it was the

01:52:30.700 opposite it was once you

01:52:31.700 got married you generally

01:52:34.140 whatever belonged to you

01:52:35.460 belonged sure but then

01:52:36.440 usually the woman is 1.00

01:52:37.380 still living with the

01:52:38.020 family and why would you

01:52:39.780 so think about why

01:52:41.180 why do you want to live

01:52:42.020 on your own why do you

01:52:42.920 think women didn't own 1.00

01:52:44.140 property well do you

01:52:46.020 think it was just the

01:52:46.560 patriarchy like just 1.00

01:52:47.520 no I'm not saying that

01:52:48.500 I'm not saying that

01:52:49.380 put their boot on their

01:52:50.620 neck and keep them down

01:52:51.720 I generally don't think

01:52:52.560 that I generally I

01:52:53.740 generally think it was

01:52:54.440 just a matter of the

01:52:54.980 times like you know

01:52:55.900 because it was I mean

01:52:57.720 so you do you think

01:52:58.620 there was a reason

01:52:59.460 though do you think

01:53:00.140 there was a logic behind

01:53:01.540 not letting I think it

01:53:02.980 worked for back then I

01:53:04.320 think it worked for what

01:53:05.180 it is at that point in

01:53:06.560 time no I think I don't

01:53:07.460 think you understand what

01:53:08.100 I'm sure so if you're a

01:53:09.360 woman and you own land 1.00

01:53:10.640 and it's 1802 and bandits

01:53:13.720 or cattle robbers or

01:53:15.920 Indians come and they 1.00

01:53:18.140 say we're taking your 0.94

01:53:19.520 land what are you going

01:53:20.780 to do about it but

01:53:21.640 that's exactly my point

01:53:22.420 that worked for that

01:53:23.080 time okay what's

01:53:24.360 different now we don't

01:53:25.680 have that as much I

01:53:26.720 mean it depends on the

01:53:27.660 neighborhood of course I

01:53:28.560 mean it depends on the

01:53:29.360 community okay so if you

01:53:30.860 own land now in 2024 and

01:53:33.440 you have a squatter who

01:53:34.960 comes and squats on your

01:53:36.200 property and you need

01:53:36.960 them removed I did that

01:53:38.340 call do you call ladies 0.87

01:53:39.920 to come and physically

01:53:40.920 remove them or are there

01:53:42.200 men who come and

01:53:43.440 physically remove them

01:53:44.340 so I had a subleaser who

01:53:46.260 I needed to get rid of

01:53:47.080 and I did all of it my

01:53:49.280 landlord didn't do

01:53:49.820 anything okay what'd you

01:53:50.740 do I went to the court

01:53:52.480 and I got the papers I

01:53:54.380 took her to court I won

01:53:55.980 oh wait it was a woman 1.00

01:53:56.920 squatter uh yeah oh well

01:54:00.380 okay but did you

01:54:01.500 physically remove her or

01:54:03.200 did cops come well did

01:54:05.560 she willingly after the 0.87

01:54:07.120 judgment from the court

01:54:08.080 she willingly left so

01:54:09.400 okay the lease was up

01:54:10.880 she refused to leave

01:54:11.900 and uh is and so um

01:54:16.640 you know I got the

01:54:17.780 paperwork um I gave her

01:54:19.540 the three-day notice to

01:54:20.480 vacate which is the

01:54:21.520 proper way to right

01:54:22.920 you're going through the

01:54:23.560 eviction process exactly

01:54:24.660 and so then you know uh

01:54:27.380 and she was still like

01:54:28.060 that's not right that's

01:54:29.500 you're it's totally

01:54:30.540 illegal even though I

01:54:31.180 got it literally from the

01:54:32.000 courthouse and so then

01:54:33.800 we're like okay let's

01:54:34.400 get the proper eviction

01:54:35.280 papers mind you we still

01:54:37.400 uh had um the papers

01:54:40.340 escorted by cops so did

01:54:42.600 did you you both went to

01:54:44.900 the court and there was

01:54:45.720 like the eviction trial yeah

01:54:47.780 and we did well I mean

01:54:48.920 what the eviction trial so

01:54:49.960 she did leave within the

01:54:51.240 five days of receiving the

01:54:52.280 eviction oh okay yeah but

01:54:54.980 so let's say she stayed

01:54:56.420 there right yeah because I

01:54:57.640 think this is what Rachel

01:54:58.460 is getting at let's say she

01:54:59.620 stayed there you what you

01:55:00.720 you even won the eviction

01:55:01.860 case the judge did an

01:55:03.860 order I don't know

01:55:04.580 typically after the

01:55:05.780 eviction I think they

01:55:06.500 have another period of

01:55:07.880 time it depends on the

01:55:08.780 state yeah it can be 10

01:55:09.820 days 30 days whatever it

01:55:10.980 is and then the cops will

01:55:12.400 come after a certain

01:55:13.500 period of time and then

01:55:14.780 forcibly remove the

01:55:15.900 person I think what

01:55:16.600 Rachel's trying to get 1.00

01:55:17.240 at is right who's going

01:55:18.460 to forcibly remove the

01:55:20.000 person whether man or

01:55:21.320 woman if they were even 0.95

01:55:22.840 after getting a judgment

01:55:24.120 from a court they still

01:55:25.720 refuse to leave right

01:55:27.000 okay um so in this case

01:55:29.040 um because she left

01:55:29.920 within the five days I

01:55:30.840 didn't have to have like

01:55:31.860 the sheriff remove her 0.90

01:55:32.760 but um and I mean at

01:55:35.080 least when uh I was

01:55:36.640 giving the papers the

01:55:37.540 cops that were there

01:55:38.160 were men and women yes

01:55:39.660 primarily men but there

01:55:42.200 were women I mean who's 1.00

01:55:44.020 to say there can't be

01:55:44.800 more well you you're

01:55:45.680 talking about the

01:55:46.100 process server so you

01:55:47.640 served her with the um

01:55:49.720 so it was my mother who

01:55:50.960 served her but because of

01:55:52.340 the threats she was

01:55:52.920 making we had her

01:55:53.900 escorted uh by foot

01:55:55.180 patrol ah and that was

01:55:57.200 not like a bunch of

01:55:58.180 strong independent women

01:55:59.200 who marched it was a

01:56:00.360 man and a woman okay

01:56:01.680 and if it had just been

01:56:03.320 a woman do you see

01:56:05.420 what I'm getting at do

01:56:06.460 you see like I who

01:56:07.600 defends our national

01:56:08.760 borders not a bunch of

01:56:10.180 feminists right uh the 0.99

01:56:12.440 use of force is still

01:56:14.040 always going to be I

01:56:15.240 mean of course like when

01:56:15.940 you come men are taller

01:56:17.100 and bigger of course

01:56:17.760 they're gonna they're

01:56:18.280 gonna have that physical

01:56:19.200 well I always got it I

01:56:20.900 really understood I

01:56:21.840 mean going back to the

01:56:23.580 sports things I mean the

01:56:24.580 men are going to be able

01:56:25.180 to do things that you

01:56:26.200 know women just physically 0.99

01:56:27.800 right so when we talk

01:56:29.980 about equality the only 0.68

01:56:32.860 equality women have is 0.90

01:56:34.800 the illusion of equality

01:56:36.400 granted to them and

01:56:37.820 provided for them by men

01:56:40.160 sure I mean that's why I

01:56:42.060 think it depends on the

01:56:42.700 context when it comes to

01:56:43.800 equality personally um if

01:56:46.900 you have to appeal to men

01:56:49.500 and say men let us be

01:56:51.520 equal we demand equality

01:56:53.340 and the men go fine we'll

01:56:54.700 enforce equality for is

01:56:55.980 that really equality well

01:56:57.760 that's why I think it

01:56:58.700 depends on how it is being

01:57:00.300 handled personally I think

01:57:01.580 so it's up to the men

01:57:02.640 basically it's always going

01:57:05.100 to when well because they're

01:57:06.460 already in that position if

01:57:08.100 I mean if that was I mean

01:57:09.440 if we could flip it and

01:57:10.880 then they'd have to ask us

01:57:12.080 right I mean okay okay so

01:57:14.380 you think we could put women 1.00

01:57:16.100 on all the oil rigs and we

01:57:17.500 could put women in the 1.00

01:57:18.360 senate we could put women in 1.00

01:57:19.700 the military as generals we

01:57:21.500 could make them sheriffs and

01:57:22.940 that would work out fine yeah

01:57:25.120 do you think so okay I mean

01:57:26.500 well here's the thing I

01:57:27.680 mean I mean okay uh for

01:57:30.720 example I remember watching

01:57:31.900 this one show I think it

01:57:33.800 was called stars and

01:57:34.400 stripes and it took a bunch

01:57:36.180 of celebrities and put them

01:57:37.540 in the position of military

01:57:38.460 it had men it had women the 1.00

01:57:39.980 person who ended up winning

01:57:40.760 was uh the skier peekaboo

01:57:43.160 streets and she was a woman 0.99

01:57:45.580 she beat out actually um 1.00

01:57:47.300 who the fuck is that guy 0.99

01:57:48.700 uh she ended up beating out 1.00

01:57:51.780 uh like Sarah Palin's uh

01:57:53.420 husband um and uh this is a

01:57:57.140 reality show where's this

01:57:58.900 where is this going well for

01:58:00.860 example she ended up winning

01:58:01.740 she was in but they were all

01:58:02.820 put in position of military

01:58:03.880 and she ended up winning it

01:58:05.100 was a woman so do you think

01:58:07.280 that men and women are the

01:58:08.380 same I don't think they're

01:58:09.760 the same I don't I got like

01:58:11.380 again I think physically there

01:58:13.020 are differences okay just

01:58:15.040 physically though like you

01:58:16.000 don't think that men have 0.97

01:58:16.880 certain strengths and women

01:58:17.780 have certain strengths and

01:58:18.660 they each have like different

01:58:19.940 divinely appointed roles in

01:58:21.540 existence um well I mean I'm

01:58:23.720 an atheist personally okay

01:58:25.000 um well not okay do you

01:58:26.440 think that they have

01:58:27.020 appointed roles in society in

01:58:28.580 order for society to be

01:58:29.820 mostly successful I think

01:58:31.620 that's how it's come to be

01:58:32.980 so can I ask you another

01:58:34.300 question yeah do you think

01:58:35.140 that women are happier today

01:58:36.480 or do you think that they

01:58:37.340 were happier before all of

01:58:38.380 this stuff um I think

01:58:41.960 because it's proven that

01:58:43.740 women are way less happier 1.00

01:58:45.500 today okay but is that

01:58:47.760 just the stats we're

01:58:49.380 looking at now as in like

01:58:50.260 those are the stats we're

01:58:50.880 taking that's just

01:58:51.600 ignorance is bliss yeah

01:58:53.260 because I mean for

01:58:54.140 example like people like

01:58:55.360 to make the argument that

01:58:56.540 um you know we're seeing a

01:58:58.520 rise in autism okay is it

01:58:59.620 the fact that there's a

01:59:01.140 rise in autism or did we

01:59:02.780 just not take into account

01:59:03.740 uh the the fact that you

01:59:05.740 know we didn't know what it

01:59:06.320 was before well so I think

01:59:07.640 people know I can actually

01:59:08.580 explain this because it's

01:59:09.800 like my area of specialty

01:59:11.200 there's um surveys that

01:59:13.900 were done like very large

01:59:15.140 scale surveys that were

01:59:16.280 done in the 70s and then

01:59:17.980 again in the 90s and then

01:59:19.220 again in the early 2000s

01:59:20.820 so the first one that came

01:59:23.700 out was called the paradox

01:59:25.220 of female happiness where 0.94

01:59:26.480 when they surveyed women all

01:59:28.340 over the west and asked them

01:59:30.600 if they were how what their

01:59:31.760 satisfaction levels were a

01:59:33.060 ton of different metrics were

01:59:34.160 used um in the 70s pretty

01:59:37.220 good pretty happy uh not a

01:59:39.220 lot wrong by the time we get

01:59:41.460 to the 90s and they repeat

01:59:42.600 the survey uh women are 0.97

01:59:44.540 declining in happiness in

01:59:46.100 the places that they have

01:59:47.300 the most freedom the most

01:59:49.840 egalitarian society so the

01:59:52.120 places where women have the 1.00

01:59:53.060 most equality are the places

01:59:54.360 where we see them not only

01:59:56.160 reporting that they have

01:59:57.800 higher levels of self

01:59:58.780 unhappiness but also we see

02:00:01.780 a rise in alcoholism fetal

02:00:03.660 alcohol syndrome depression

02:00:05.600 anxiety uh prescription drug

02:00:08.180 use every metric they look

02:00:10.580 at women are reporting that

02:00:12.260 they are less happy now

02:00:13.580 there's a lot of reasons we

02:00:14.620 could talk about why that

02:00:15.580 might be but I think people

02:00:17.960 don't understand that when

02:00:18.920 women are trying to be 1.00

02:00:19.840 equal it makes life pretty

02:00:21.860 impossible you end up

02:00:23.220 thinking you can have it all

02:00:24.260 do it all be it all your

02:00:25.520 expectations are wildly high

02:00:27.600 and you expect that you're

02:00:29.580 going to be able to have a

02:00:30.340 husband and a family and a

02:00:31.700 career and do whatever you

02:00:33.860 want but also have a man who's

02:00:35.360 going to take care of stuff

02:00:36.400 and these things all

02:00:37.720 contradict each other these

02:00:39.160 things do not like mesh

02:00:40.620 together well on top of

02:00:42.900 that women are more 0.83

02:00:44.440 emotionally volatile we have

02:00:45.800 a hormonal cycle every

02:00:47.360 month that you know

02:00:48.660 fluctuates we have pre

02:00:51.060 menopause we have postpartum

02:00:53.300 you know we we have a lot

02:00:54.780 of ups and downs okay and

02:00:55.820 don't have why why does that

02:00:57.380 make us more emotional

02:00:58.480 because I mean because and

02:00:59.580 I'm genuinely asking a

02:01:00.460 literal hormone well hold on 1.00

02:01:01.920 I know I know but I mean

02:01:04.220 for example let's look at

02:01:05.380 like history here so much

02:01:07.280 war has been caused by men 0.88

02:01:10.240 well I have something for

02:01:11.840 this actually yeah so I

02:01:13.400 mean they they looked at

02:01:14.620 monarchs for example

02:01:16.320 kings kings and queens and

02:01:18.200 they actually found that

02:01:19.160 queens were just as or even 1.00

02:01:21.560 more likely to wage war than 0.56

02:01:23.280 kings oh I'm not 1.00

02:01:24.340 disagreeing I think

02:01:25.360 there's some real messed up

02:01:26.660 women in history too truly 0.74

02:01:28.100 no but they they did like an

02:01:30.140 analysis here I'm not just

02:01:31.400 saying there were some

02:01:32.360 queens they just comparing 0.98

02:01:34.100 all of these I don't know

02:01:35.460 if it was if it was the

02:01:36.560 the English monarchs the

02:01:38.240 British monarchs I don't

02:01:39.420 recall exactly the specific

02:01:40.640 details of this analysis

02:01:42.260 they did but they did find

02:01:43.500 that queens were more

02:01:45.060 likely to wage war than 0.89

02:01:46.540 kings okay I wanted to put

02:01:48.680 that in there sure sure I

02:01:50.320 mean are we looking at it

02:01:51.440 statistically as in I mean

02:01:53.000 let's be real there were

02:01:54.160 probably still more kings in

02:01:56.280 history than there were

02:01:56.980 ever like queens that were

02:01:57.920 really in charge

02:01:58.920 per capita okay so it is

02:02:00.120 per capita yeah okay um I

02:02:02.860 mean I don't mean I can't

02:02:03.880 speak to that personally so

02:02:04.740 why would we think that men

02:02:06.180 are going to start more war 0.59

02:02:07.300 if women are more 1.00

02:02:08.200 emotionally volatile and

02:02:09.680 less rational and less

02:02:10.820 logical on average well

02:02:12.000 maybe we'd know that if we

02:02:13.080 were taught more about

02:02:14.480 those women as well because 0.98

02:02:16.940 I mean I'm personally I

02:02:17.920 mean I'm just gonna be

02:02:18.800 honest with you I I mean

02:02:19.940 how many women in history 1.00

02:02:21.080 can we actually name a ton

02:02:22.760 well I mean talking in that

02:02:24.560 specific position to cause a

02:02:26.400 war I mean I'm an

02:02:28.440 orthodox Christian and we

02:02:29.640 have tons of different

02:02:30.540 queens and princesses and

02:02:32.480 women who were in various 0.97

02:02:34.060 leadership positions and

02:02:35.300 sure terrific war on their 0.93

02:02:37.500 enemies sure it's I mean

02:02:39.140 it's just usually I mean we

02:02:40.460 see you know queens that 1.00

02:02:42.660 are just with a king yes

02:02:44.900 oh you're sorry sorry

02:02:48.200 that would be I could give

02:02:51.320 you that except that in the

02:02:52.940 modern age we have a whole

02:02:53.980 bunch more data that proves

02:02:55.500 that this is not the case

02:02:56.620 okay for example when you

02:02:58.420 look at juvenile correction

02:03:00.040 facilities or women's

02:03:01.440 prisons so we were just

02:03:02.340 talking about how men have

02:03:03.240 the monopoly on force yeah

02:03:04.680 so men in male prisons 0.64

02:03:07.120 things like that generally

02:03:08.840 men grow up using physical

02:03:12.040 force and when they're

02:03:13.000 little they do rough and

02:03:13.960 tumble play with their dad

02:03:14.920 with their siblings with

02:03:15.800 their friends and they kind

02:03:16.620 of learn where the

02:03:17.100 boundaries are of like how

02:03:18.760 much can I beat up my

02:03:19.940 friend before I go too far

02:03:21.040 and actually cause harm so

02:03:22.700 they tend to learn that

02:03:23.780 young and it has an impact

02:03:26.740 women don't have those same 1.00

02:03:28.080 experiences so what we see

02:03:29.460 is that when women do have 1.00

02:03:31.260 the monopoly on force for

02:03:32.380 instance when you are a

02:03:33.920 female guard in a juvenile

02:03:35.360 facility or a female garden 1.00

02:03:36.820 in a women's prison the women 1.00

02:03:39.880 guards are far more likely to

02:03:41.500 be abusive and the abuse

02:03:42.620 tends to be worse than men and 1.00

02:03:45.320 I have heard that they do

02:03:46.620 think it's it's partially

02:03:47.980 because of our emotional

02:03:48.920 volatility or home hormonal

02:03:50.760 fluctuations and also just

02:03:53.560 because women tend to be more 1.00

02:03:56.340 likely to be on prescription

02:03:57.540 psychiatric medications have

02:03:59.080 mental illnesses and just be

02:04:01.380 less used to knowing where the

02:04:03.560 boundary is so when women lose 1.00

02:04:04.760 their shit and get physical they 1.00

02:04:06.520 tend to escalate to a point 1.00

02:04:08.220 that's a lot okay can I ask them

02:04:10.780 is some of this maybe because you

02:04:12.920 know also I we hear a lot that

02:04:15.260 women don't get the resources they 1.00

02:04:17.840 need in the medical field you

02:04:21.100 mean like mental health wise I'm

02:04:22.840 not talking necessarily mental

02:04:24.040 health like for me personally I

02:04:25.420 took years to get diagnosed with

02:04:26.680 chronic illness okay and there's

02:04:30.060 a lot of that and there's also not

02:04:31.200 as much like research and on women

02:04:33.340 in medicine I'm like again going

02:04:37.100 back to autism how does that relate

02:04:38.900 to like the violence I think I kind

02:04:41.080 of know what you're talking about a

02:04:42.040 little bit I'd like to offer up a

02:04:43.500 bit of a rebuttal okay so I think

02:04:45.120 you're talking perhaps about how

02:04:46.720 there's less testing of certain

02:04:49.300 drugs yeah so I mean or like less

02:04:52.000 less things are tested on women my 1.00

02:04:54.900 rebuttal though there would be well

02:04:56.460 one thing that's a concern is if

02:04:58.740 you're test if you're testing an

02:05:00.180 experimental drug on somebody if the

02:05:03.020 woman happens to be pregnant but she 1.00

02:05:04.880 doesn't know it there could be

02:05:06.620 ramifications there when it comes

02:05:08.680 because for example some medications

02:05:10.400 are not recommended if you're

02:05:12.300 pregnant for example so if you're

02:05:13.980 testing something experimental the

02:05:15.540 woman doesn't know she's pregnant 1.00

02:05:16.660 you know obviously could be very

02:05:18.840 rare that you know she's happened to

02:05:20.560 be partaking in a trial and you know

02:05:23.040 she's pregnant that could be one of 1.00

02:05:24.320 the justifications for why they're

02:05:26.100 more inclined to test things on men

02:05:27.620 there's also like this component of

02:05:29.340 well women when women's hormones tend 1.00

02:05:32.640 to shift a bit more throughout their

02:05:34.400 cycle so I think it's better to test on

02:05:37.600 someone who has their hormones are a 0.99

02:05:39.280 and I get this but the other thing is

02:05:41.200 it's not clear to me if it's some

02:05:42.420 privilege to have have to be tested on

02:05:46.040 to have like experimental drugs test on

02:05:49.500 you that that seems like it would be a

02:05:51.340 negative like a more men are so

02:05:53.380 desperate for money and resources that

02:05:55.560 they're willing to have experimental

02:05:57.500 drugs test on them I think if it was

02:06:00.240 actually the reverse if it was a hundred

02:06:01.860 percent women where we were testing 0.98

02:06:03.620 drugs on them there would be a huge

02:06:06.040 outcry from feminists saying wait why

02:06:08.200 are we like subjugating women 1.00

02:06:10.380 specifically to this this you know drug

02:06:13.520 treatment that seems like I get what

02:06:15.880 you're saying I mean I personally

02:06:17.120 wouldn't be opposed to that but if it

02:06:19.600 was a hundred percent women yeah I

02:06:21.140 honestly think it's kind of necessary

02:06:22.200 because I feel like feminists would 1.00

02:06:24.040 just argue and be like I mean hold on

02:06:26.040 this is like look at how this is unfair

02:06:28.500 like why are you not gonna hear that

02:06:30.880 from me okay but all right well that's

02:06:32.400 fine um but uh no I mean for

02:06:35.120 example uh this is a more minor thing

02:06:37.280 but like okay why has okay uh

02:06:41.360 recently on when they test like uh

02:06:45.380 tampons or pads uh it's only now

02:06:48.060 they're using uh real menstrual blood 0.84

02:06:51.020 rather than like water or like but how

02:06:55.280 does it's different I just wonder how

02:06:57.200 this gets back to what we were debating

02:06:59.120 which was why okay so can women defend 1.00

02:07:02.600 persons and property yeah to tie back to

02:07:04.940 that if if a hurricane takes out half

02:07:08.020 the eastern seaboard are the women 0.99

02:07:09.720 gonna get out there and get the power

02:07:11.060 lines back up and put the sandbags out

02:07:13.240 and rescue people from the floodwaters

02:07:14.940 and rebuild everything I mean I would

02:07:16.240 certainly hope so no they can't I mean

02:07:18.660 I can't do it I can't do it Ben George

02:07:21.280 donated 200 thank you Ben appreciate it

02:07:23.460 man so you claimed men are more dangerous

02:07:25.620 and advocate for women yet want examples

02:07:28.240 of powerful women abusing power use google

02:07:31.360 image search for teacher arrested for

02:07:34.120 essay 90 percent are images of women in 0.93

02:07:37.200 power I agree I agree I mean there's

02:07:39.740 there's definitely a lot of that a couple

02:07:41.520 quick things yeah uh Rachel you were

02:07:43.520 talking about like uh you know how

02:07:46.320 aggression tends to tends to manifest

02:07:48.240 especially young boys for example um

02:07:50.700 would you I don't know if you're kind

02:07:52.460 of familiar with this like how uh men's

02:07:55.380 aggression especially at an early age

02:07:57.040 tends to man massive men excuse me

02:07:59.120 manifest itself more in a phys in the

02:08:01.560 physical realm yeah but isn't it the

02:08:03.680 case that women's aggression will 1.00

02:08:05.000 manifest it might not manifest itself in

02:08:07.780 the physical realm but it will still

02:08:08.980 manifest itself itself regardless so

02:08:12.240 reputation destruction yeah women use 1.00

02:08:14.420 subterfuge manipulation gossip that sort

02:08:17.500 of thing because right if you can't use

02:08:20.100 physical force to get your way those are

02:08:21.680 the things you know that's true I mean

02:08:23.360 that's something we see in history as

02:08:24.520 well I mean yeah I have a question yeah

02:08:26.600 sorry wait one more thing actually one

02:08:28.780 more thing also when it comes to like

02:08:30.480 physical um were we talking about like

02:08:34.360 violence at all I don't know if that was

02:08:37.140 kind of yeah yeah a little bit like

02:08:38.940 military and then we yeah so I mean what

02:08:41.440 do you think about this I mean there you're

02:08:43.040 saying well men throughout history I've

02:08:44.520 been a bit more violent um so I I saw

02:08:48.040 this I've seen the stat a couple times so

02:08:50.040 if we're looking at heterosexual couples

02:08:53.540 lesbian couples and gay couples we actually

02:08:56.560 find that for example uh gay couples so 0.74

02:08:59.480 two men in a relationship the rate of

02:09:01.920 domestic violence is actually lowest

02:09:03.920 amongst homosexual gay men it's in the 0.97

02:09:07.960 middle for heterosexual couples and the

02:09:09.920 incidence rate of domestic violence in

02:09:12.560 lesbian couples is actually the highest 1.00

02:09:14.840 okay so that's an interesting thing

02:09:17.000 because when you have two men you you

02:09:18.920 would think well men are tend to be more

02:09:20.640 violent why is it then can I put two men

02:09:24.020 in a relationship the incidence of

02:09:25.980 violence domestic violence is the lowest

02:09:28.220 okay can I play devil's advocate there's

02:09:29.800 two women together it's the highest okay 1.00

02:09:32.720 can I play devil's advocate for a second go

02:09:34.300 ahead okay so we like to typically I think

02:09:38.520 make out um anyone who's let's say gay to

02:09:43.000 be well they're more feminine and then we 0.99

02:09:44.780 look at uh women who are lesbian and we're 1.00

02:09:47.820 like well they're more masculine so is that 0.90

02:09:50.320 what in the brain what's making that happen

02:09:54.080 then this is similar to what I wanted to

02:09:55.720 ask do we believe that I mean that's a fair

02:09:57.700 question but go ahead like every female well 1.00

02:10:00.500 first of all women and men we both have

02:10:03.400 testosterone and um estrogen right yeah and

02:10:06.240 it can be imbalanced so I feel like it

02:10:07.640 depends on the person and we can't like

02:10:09.080 box everything in well yeah we can take a

02:10:11.600 look at statistical averages and another

02:10:13.420 important data point is that although when

02:10:17.240 men tend to do domestic violence the damage

02:10:20.200 can be greater women are more likely to 1.00

02:10:23.540 initiate domestic violence than men and

02:10:25.560 men are less likely to report it than women

02:10:28.320 are because they're less lucky to be believed

02:10:30.320 I'll give you that yeah I want to go back to

02:10:33.920 the draft really quick yeah I wanted to go

02:10:36.800 back to you two guys I think both of you

02:10:38.500 said no women shouldn't be drafted I was just 1.00

02:10:40.400 curious why not um I think because there's a

02:10:44.680 difference between men and women because men

02:10:47.540 are you know physically stronger and like sure um I

02:10:51.740 feel like I don't know if you enlist everybody

02:10:56.020 then so can I ask you a question a follow-up on

02:10:57.860 that um so you say men are physically

02:11:00.720 stronger do you think then if that's the

02:11:03.920 case if women shouldn't be subject to forced 1.00

02:11:06.560 military conscription should women be barred from 1.00

02:11:09.080 volunteering for uh the military no I think

02:11:13.440 well what so why are they barred from forced

02:11:15.900 military conscription but they're able to

02:11:18.040 volunteer um because it occurs to me like for

02:11:24.680 example in peacetime uh I mean or in wartime there

02:11:31.180 could perhaps be a greater need for more uh more

02:11:35.620 soldiers whereas in peacetime

02:11:38.460 do you need them women just join the military so 1.00

02:11:45.860 they can get free college wait so but uh okay but so

02:11:50.100 men are stronger that's why isn't really even 0.56

02:11:53.760 happening anymore and then what about you you

02:11:55.680 said uh women should not be drafted why is that 1.00

02:11:59.080 um well when I said I was for the same reason that

02:12:02.080 like men are physically stronger and I was for what

02:12:05.520 you said about like volunteering I feel like um the

02:12:09.680 women who choose to volunteer would have like would 1.00

02:12:12.240 be physically strong as well but like like oh were you

02:12:16.760 gonna come in on this okay well then okay yeah I'm not gonna

02:12:19.480 deny men are physically stronger that's just a thing

02:12:22.580 um but then uh you know you were saying how you know

02:12:26.020 women have to use their brain because they gotta make up for 1.00

02:12:28.160 what they lack in strength right so then who's to say that

02:12:31.820 the brains can't be used in uh situations in the military as

02:12:36.900 well well that would be a great point as well except for

02:12:40.540 this thing called greater male variability which if you look

02:12:44.440 at you can look at a number of different metrics I was just on

02:12:47.380 tim cast and we were talking about grip strength as an example

02:12:50.140 but you can do it with iq you can do it with all different

02:12:53.860 measures of aptitude and what we see is that women tend to 1.00

02:12:56.400 cluster around the mean more than men and there's this small

02:13:00.320 percentage of men and in anything that are so much better

02:13:04.720 at everybody else that it's like not even close so as a

02:13:08.260 woman if you're trying to be a ceo a general in the military a 1.00

02:13:11.980 strategist in the military trying to be a police officer a detective

02:13:15.480 anything like that you're going to have to compete with this tiny

02:13:19.160 private jet top tier of men that is going to be so far ahead of you

02:13:23.260 that the the odds of you beating them are very very small which is why

02:13:27.660 even after 100 years of equality we don't see a lot of women 0.99

02:13:31.440 at the top of these highly competitive pursuits like being a ceo like being a

02:13:37.200 four-star general in the military like being the president things like

02:13:40.280 that so it's one of the differences that

02:13:43.220 makes it really tough for women to compete so even if you're very smart for 1.00

02:13:46.100 a woman you may not be able to compete with that top tier of men 1.00

02:13:50.300 statistically so you're saying men are just naturally smarter

02:13:54.900 well i'm saying that the variability yes can you pull that up we'll just look at

02:14:00.140 it so there's this uh this is like um nick can you make a smaller please

02:14:04.940 yeah and then i'm also going to find you just the article hold on i'm sending

02:14:11.020 that to you in private chat pull that up please get it quick if you can

02:14:13.820 uh so it's this idea that i think it isn't it even the case that on like

02:14:20.740 women are on average smarter yes or is it there's more of us that are in 1.00

02:14:26.400 that middle gathering around yeah so i'll read this really quick but the men who

02:14:31.080 are smartest are way ahead the the variability hypothesis also known as the

02:14:35.920 greater male variability hypothesis is the hypothesis that males generally

02:14:40.760 display greater variability in traits than females pull that one back up nick

02:14:45.480 the the chart just click on it okay so basically what the saying is that 1.00

02:14:52.440 there's more stupid men there's like real there's a lot more dumb dumb men sure 0.99

02:15:00.340 but there's like also like a greater proportion of like really really smart 1.00

02:15:05.380 men okay but then there's like more women who are in the middle right okay then 1.00

02:15:08.960 that kind of goes back to my point though then if there's more women in the 1.00

02:15:13.360 middle then what's the harm then of actually because that means we're having

02:15:16.420 greater odds of having smart women than we are we're risking more by having a 1.00

02:15:20.800 i'm not i'm not saying smart women can't do smart girl things i i'm a smart

02:15:26.620 woman who does smart girl things but when we're talking about who should be 1.00

02:15:31.560 like at the apex of society running things generally men are going to have

02:15:36.320 the monopoly on force strength cognitive skills leadership skills social

02:15:41.780 skills they're just that top bit of men are going to be so far ahead okay but

02:15:45.940 going back to your point then then how does that affect the draft

02:15:48.120 because that's not the top tier that no but the draft is just you have to be

02:15:54.020 physically capable and like you are a tiny girl if you had to if you had to jump

02:15:58.460 in tomorrow and do the pt prescriptions that men have literally have a booster

02:16:02.520 yeah and i'm like a really strong girl i've done powerlifting and weightlifting

02:16:07.980 for years i've got like a 250 pound for five reps deadlift right now i've got a 200

02:16:13.400 pound squat but you put me next to a man who's my size that doesn't even train he's 0.95

02:16:18.400 gonna whoop my ass oh but for example like what if there's an emergency 0.97

02:16:21.220 situation uh you know when you're out in the field uh you know we're i think i'm 0.99

02:16:27.980 okay to say that's the more likely to see a man just kind of like brute his way

02:16:32.220 through it rather than like okay think how can we problem solve this so nobody gets

02:16:36.240 more injured or in a less risky situation i should say um you know so you think that

02:16:42.340 on average women are more strategic no i'm not saying strategic but i mean if 1.00

02:16:47.400 we're looking at like you know the mean average of you know the brain kind of

02:16:54.120 thing sorry um then you know wouldn't it be fair to say that they're gonna be

02:17:00.340 more able to look at those situations uh better than the average we're seeing based off the graph

02:17:07.720 you gave us i'm not really sure what you're asking so in those risky situations then if the mean

02:17:16.940 average is that you know the women are uh gonna overall have a decent iq then they'd be more 1.00

02:17:28.120 likely to handle those risky situations where we really need to think about it then say the average

02:17:34.520 we're gonna find that's not really how it works and when you're entering the military they test you

02:17:39.340 sure i know that if you're below a certain iq you're not going to be in the field doing certain

02:17:43.620 things for that reason i know we assess risk differently right and men do not take as much

02:17:49.660 time to assess those risks and they just jump right in well women are more risk averse but usually 1.00

02:17:55.220 in a military situation that's going to be bad well yes no you want to be on your toes because

02:17:59.280 of course you know you never know what's going to happen um women are very conflict avoidant and on 1.00

02:18:04.380 average they don't want to be in the military well well here's the thing then then why is there a

02:18:08.480 problem having an equal amount like an equal opportunity for drafting men and drafting women

02:18:13.680 then so that means we're having uh equal risk takers and it's equal maybe not risk takers

02:18:20.220 we want that fair bit of both what you're telling me is all throughout human history armies have been

02:18:26.560 made of men and now because it's 2024 and technology we should put all of like look at the table of

02:18:34.800 ladies here you all are lovely you're probably great singers you're beautiful but do i want you on

02:18:38.900 the front lines fighting no i don't i sure i get i get that i want women on the front lines

02:18:46.120 i'm a feminist so send them you know what i think we do we do total switch up men don't get to get 0.99

02:18:53.380 drafted and we just draft with the women use the women as meat shields for a little bit 1.00

02:18:57.820 soften soften soften the enemy up a little bit then the men can come in i'm not i think something

02:19:03.560 that's interesting take care of it we'll take care of it the women soften them up i think something 1.00

02:19:07.400 that's interesting is that you're saying we have equal portions of men and women entering the

02:19:12.020 military but then what you would have to do is you would have to separate those roles once they

02:19:17.140 enter the military and then then it's not equal anymore so what is the point of doing i do what

02:19:21.580 get you saying well i mean if okay based off the physical stuff like we're talking about again

02:19:26.500 i think that would have to depend on the woman i mean look at some of the women in the olympics they 1.00

02:19:30.400 could totally do it right um could they like who i mean first of all about outliers as well

02:19:36.580 like one i know they're outliers but like when we're talking about this kind of stuff you have

02:19:39.920 to think about in general yes the women in general and bigger numbers sure i'm not denying that i think

02:19:47.600 if anything if we are going to have a draft with women we need to us i mean we all have to go through

02:19:52.660 a physical even if we're being drafted right so i mean we then assess okay what can we best put them

02:20:00.680 to well then like then most women are not going to meet the requirements and it will depend on 1.00

02:20:06.360 the position they've opened up all of the special forces to women for what 20 30 years now 20 years 0.99

02:20:12.780 something like that not a single woman has been able to pass uh navy seals or buds or like the 0.97

02:20:18.960 different green beret women just can't do it well and going along going along with that i wouldn't 1.00

02:20:23.880 want them to lower that standard so that women could they do no no no but here's the thing oh they 1.00

02:20:28.540 have to do like less push-ups it is a different standard and this isn't just for the military

02:20:32.840 it's for police force firefighters like i think for the police uh the military you know there's

02:20:38.660 there's a speed test in terms of being able to complete a mile or i don't know how long yeah

02:20:43.920 push-ups these things women always will say like we want to be equal so you have to let us do these 1.00

02:20:49.560 things you have to first of all if they have to let you it's not equal second of all if they have 0.57

02:20:54.420 to lower the standard for you to get in it's also not equal so it's all just this illusion this silly

02:21:00.440 illusion and i don't want to i'm sick of it i think that she's sick of it i think that in the not so

02:21:08.200 distant future a few generations from now they're going to look back on this feminist experiment and 1.00

02:21:13.040 go whoa that was a disaster glad we got rid of that because it's not it's simply not sustainable

02:21:17.960 i mean we can't even keep going with it because birth rates have tanked right so either tanked

02:21:24.680 maybe maybe it won't go away and then humanity will just go extinct there will be a reset and

02:21:30.220 like people people always ask me what i think it'll be and i think it's going to be painful and ugly

02:21:35.160 there's like a couple ways it could go but it's not going to be fun for anyone when it happens

02:21:39.020 whoever gets ai first we're in trouble i don't know it could be china who knows what happens okay 0.86

02:21:46.400 uh one thing related to this just i don't know we who's physically who's physically stronger men or

02:21:54.400 women starting with you well men i haven't denied it it is still men men men men men okay all right

02:22:03.640 just just wanted to check here we've heard we have had some we've had some women there are some 1.00

02:22:08.800 weenie men and i'll even grant there are certainly there are women out there who can be stronger than

02:22:15.700 men who can lift more yeah but i saw that grip strength thing and we've pulled that up before

02:22:23.080 too i mean but i mean the vast majority of men are stronger than women so anyways uh let's see let's

02:22:29.560 get into actually kind of sort of related to the feminist conversation a little bit i don't know 1.00

02:22:35.380 if we'll linger too long on the actual debate of it but i do at least want to get your answers

02:22:38.960 so the question is oh after ben george donated two hundred dollars last one do the ladies believe

02:22:47.660 in evolution if so men evolved into their role because men have been primarily on the front lines

02:22:54.040 and pushed mentally and physically join a seal team ladies okay ben george thank you man uh do you

02:23:00.400 believe in evolution yes um yes and no okay yes yep i don't know what does the lds

02:23:13.500 i was actually just i was just thinking about that um because we believe in adam and eve

02:23:19.020 um and i have had discussions with family members about this but i don't feel like i've ever gotten

02:23:24.860 an answer so i don't know okay what about you yeah yes i don't don't believe in evolution no

02:23:32.360 wait aren't you a bio major i'm yes rachel no evolution is fake and gay uh okay um cool

02:23:44.820 okay thank you ben george appreciate it bro appreciate it okay so let's see here we have 0.89

02:23:50.780 ah yes okay man or bear would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the woods

02:23:58.200 starting with you go ahead

02:23:59.380 can you come back to me i don't know okay we'll come back go ahead a man man yay

02:24:07.840 oh come on no no guys let people answer don't try to

02:24:13.400 force them go ahead no i give a man why wait hold on did somebody pressure you no i don't get

02:24:21.580 pressured i have my own thoughts you were thinking about you're thinking about the i was just gonna

02:24:25.320 say um a bear this is gonna sound crazy but if i obviously if i'm in the woods and then a bear

02:24:33.520 approaches me and i did not have time to research a bear wait grid one motorsports donated two hundred

02:24:40.140 dollars yo thank you good one songbird feminism has failed you your lies to yourself are failing 1.00

02:24:45.820 you the patriarchy stands ready to help submit and be saved from your irrational thoughts be better

02:24:53.740 okay thank you grid one motorsports man good to see you in the chat thank you man uh you were saying

02:24:59.680 let's say that um men can be pretty unpredictable i'll give you that but i chose i choose men i'd rather

02:25:08.140 be in the woods with the man a man a man man a man i'm still on the fence about it just because

02:25:16.900 i've got like got like a neat uh instant i'm gonna say bear say bear rachel what about you oh a man

02:25:24.660 okay there's an article on my sub stack where i go over the last 45 years of data about men and

02:25:30.340 whether or not the primary risk to women is men and it's absolutely not like unequivocally not even

02:25:36.260 close your husband or the man in your life is poses like far less risk to you than you've been

02:25:42.100 led to believe by propaganda what was the largest risk the riskiest situation for a woman is to be

02:25:49.180 in a cohabitation situation with a guy that she's sleeping with whereas far and away the safest is to

02:25:57.280 be living with your married husband and children like by a factor of 12 times and it was a major 0.91

02:26:04.380 talking point of feminism in the 60s and 70s that men are these abusers uh they're alcoholics they're 0.99

02:26:10.300 going to beat you and so you have to be able to leave and you have to be able to cohabitate or you

02:26:14.800 have to just be able to be remain unattached that you can get away if he turns out to be a bad guy

02:26:19.340 but turns out that when you take the the primary person out of your life who has an interest in

02:26:25.780 providing for you and protecting you you actually put yourself at much greater risk and you end up

02:26:29.800 with the kind of guys who are going to pump you and dump you and be bad to you and treat you like

02:26:34.380 garbage because they have no vested interest in long term what's your best interest so like the

02:26:40.940 data is super overwhelming on it why do you pick bear just curious um i've just i've just been through 0.86

02:26:50.220 like a lot of things with um men um i was assaulted as a kid and a lot of a couple of my first experiences

02:27:03.360 in like sexually was also that like in high school so i just feel like i don't know i'd rather

02:27:13.560 be mauled than go through that again but that's just so based off my experience it's not just based

02:27:19.920 off of okay keep in mind this is a random man or a random bear so the random man could be

02:27:28.940 all right i mean the overwhelmingly likely to either leave you alone or be helpful in some sort of

02:27:37.320 woods situation why are we both standing in the middle of the woods like i think you're

02:27:43.860 overthinking the scenario a little bit but in the middle of nowhere in the woods you're probably a

02:27:49.820 serial unaliver no way you're not gonna then why are you in the middle of the woods yeah the man's

02:27:56.900 gonna be in the woods because he's hunting or hiking or doing bro stuff so like here's the scenario

02:28:01.660 though so it's like a random man so you of the entire u.s population you're just plucking a random

02:28:09.920 man out of it so you can't even think of what are the motivations for him being there it's like you

02:28:16.580 just get both of you just get plucked into the woods but you are you are coming across so you will

02:28:23.900 come across a random man or a random bear you will get into contact

02:28:30.320 i'm just still so if you were like roll the dice and you just randomly get put into a situation with

02:28:40.800 a random man what do you think is like the chance of any given man a random man having wanting to

02:28:47.900 harm you in some way wanting to assault you in some way so if jeffrey dommer was in the woods

02:28:53.740 versus the bear what would you rather no the question is what like okay there what's the

02:29:00.120 population of the u.s over 300 million 150 yeah so it's like 150 basically statistically you're

02:29:06.120 basically saying that you statistically think that there's a more chance that the man is going to be

02:29:10.560 wicked and evil towards you i'm not even thinking statistically i'm thinking personally like well okay 0.85

02:29:17.060 but it's a red shirt but it's a random man right yes okay i was also thinking i could probably 0.93

02:29:23.600 outrun a guy i cannot outrun a bear especially in their natural habitat yeah i don't think i could

02:29:31.680 outrun either you're all okay well that being said a bear we know for sure will if we get too close

02:29:38.940 is gonna cause harm let me ask you let me ask you a different question would you rather would you

02:29:45.220 rather let's say you see a man at a campfire and then you see like a bear at a campsite who's like

02:29:52.920 ruffling through some uh some like food or something who would you rather go up and pat on the head

02:30:00.660 three times the man or the bear obviously the man okay here here's a different scenario you're on the

02:30:07.980 top floor of a burning house i'm so glad i'm not dating donated hey good to see you dude it's been a

02:30:15.420 while if my wife was hiking through the woods alone she's five foot four plus 110 pounds say i wasn't 1.00

02:30:22.980 present i would rather her come across another random man rather than a bare 100 of the time

02:30:29.160 irrational thank you i'm so glad i'm not dating good to see you back in the chat dude okay here's the

02:30:35.560 other scenario you're on the top floor of a burning building for an appointment you don't work there so

02:30:41.480 you don't know like the people in the building whatever top floor of a burning building the stairs

02:30:46.540 burning there's two elevators top floor there's a man in one of the elevators and a bear in the

02:30:53.620 other other elevator and you're trying to get to the bottom which which elevator do you go into

02:30:58.460 the one with the random man or the one with the bear well i feel like the answer is obvious the one

02:31:03.720 with the man in it because we're both trying to escape something okay good times all right well

02:31:13.400 there it is i feel like i need to ask that question like show of hands because i feel like

02:31:18.200 some of you would have said bear i thought about it i think some of you would have said bear but then

02:31:22.640 she said man look at that i good for you i'm reasonable here yeah you're reasonable okay there

02:31:28.220 you go that's good that's good all right so we did man versus bear let's do uh wait actually grid

02:31:35.120 won motorsports he's still in the chat he mentioned the patriarchy he did do you guys want to

02:31:42.680 this this is definitely dating related do you guys want to smash the patriarchy should we should 0.67

02:31:49.040 we smash smash the patriarchy necessarily like what we're talking about here when we say the

02:31:55.060 well so like you know feminism one of the core tenets of feminism is the there's the patriarch the 1.00

02:31:59.580 patriarchy theory patriarchy do you want to smash it should we get rid of the patriarchy i feel like i

02:32:07.860 just don't care enough but okay cool what about you um i i think there are certain aspects where

02:32:15.260 it's just naturally going to happen and i think there's some places where maybe there could be

02:32:19.260 more leeway that's it that's really so is is there a patriarchy

02:32:23.140 these days i want to say just like smidge it really depends on where you're looking you'd and

02:32:31.240 you'd have to look that's the thing yeah don't be shy i know i see that you want to say something

02:32:39.260 and i want you to oh i was making a joke in my head like yeah i want to smash the patriarchy but

02:32:43.440 not smash the patriarchy if you know what i meant oh yeah yeah you know um i think that there could

02:32:49.700 be some tweaks but i don't want to end it no okay no we should not get rid of the patriarchy

02:32:55.640 no we should not get rid of it um i think i also don't really know what the patriarchy is that much

02:33:04.160 do you feel like so when feminists talk about the patriarchy they're usually saying there's this 1.00

02:33:10.020 historic conspiracy of men to control women to keep them under their boot to prevent them from

02:33:16.820 having power or free will or like the choice to leave or do what they want right there's this effort

02:33:23.200 among men in general to keep women like under under their foot a little bit to keep them down do you

02:33:29.980 feel like that's a thing um maybe in the past but not so much now okay yeah same i feel like we all

02:33:39.180 can pretty much do what we want so okay question what are we going to do about the men that think 0.96

02:33:44.940 that they can lead but they can't we're supposed to just let them like run shit i mean i don't i 0.98

02:33:48.980 don't see that well uh can you give me an example of a man who thinks he can lead but but doesn't so 0.99

02:33:56.000 it could be like if we're talking about the patriarchy in general we could talk about a president

02:33:59.880 i don't want to pick one and say like what i think but i'm not going to say every man is going to

02:34:04.640 be great to lead and they like that's been in office so do you guys assume then that when we're

02:34:09.760 talking about like patriarchy that all men have dominion over all women or do we think that there's

02:34:16.360 a hierarchy among men i can respect that yeah and i think one thing that feminism did unintentionally 1.00

02:34:22.700 that's been really destructive for everybody is it destroyed that hierarchy among men and now what you

02:34:28.600 have it because you used to have the like more alpha type of men uh we used to keeping down the 0.99

02:34:35.880 the like beta cuck type of like you know the the gamma type of males who are just jealous and resentful

02:34:41.980 and they like they think that they're like i should be having a girlfriend she should like me but she

02:34:46.700 only likes that six foot tall football player and i'm gonna i'm gonna show her you know those those 0.90

02:34:50.840 type of guys a girl yeah yeah they used to bully those guys into their proper place i love that we need to 0.78

02:34:57.080 bring it back yeah keep them kind of like where they need to keep them in line a little bit but

02:35:01.720 what feminism and egalitarianism did was kind of like take that away so now you do have these feminine 1.00

02:35:07.620 by the way feminist men okay all they're trying to do is what okay woman yeah they're just they're 0.98

02:35:15.780 trying to fuck yeah right so they're not they're not honest dudes they're not gonna be leaders they're 0.99

02:35:20.980 gonna be shitheads they're gonna be uh impersonators they're gonna be the kind of dudes that you don't 1.00

02:35:26.560 want and it used to be that you had to compete for a wife you know back in the day like you had 0.99

02:35:31.720 to prove to a man that you could support his daughter that you could take care of her that

02:35:35.380 you were worthy of marrying her now we all just like go for the guy who like we all pick the wrong

02:35:41.880 dudes right we very often we pick the wrong guy because some of them have adapted and figured out

02:35:48.880 how to manipulate and sneak their way in and like the guy who you friend zoned forever and then the

02:35:54.140 minute you break up with your boyfriend he's like right there with a bottle of wine and like oh

02:35:57.820 honey i'm you know like he's trying to use what he can to get what he wants so like they become they

02:36:05.080 act like females they act sneaky and they use manipulation and subterfusion gossip and things 1.00

02:36:09.240 like that to get girls and so we end up with these dudes right can i ask um so you know i i know people

02:36:18.520 who are like that and i know people who are feminists who aren't like that they're yeah i'm so glad i'm

02:36:25.180 not dating donated two hundred dollars he's a perfect match you go to his house one of his rooms properly

02:36:33.280 locked in his house is filled with guns and ammo reloading equipment including multiple ar-15 rifles

02:36:40.520 whatever do you do uh what if it's just for protection like you know like he feels like

02:36:48.260 the need to protect his home and he's one of those people that likes to collect things i don't know

02:36:51.740 if it's properly locked then that doesn't have anything to do with me i guess so you'd be okay

02:36:55.560 with it yeah yeah i think that's what the question is asking okay yeah i'd be okay with it i mean i'd ask

02:37:04.220 like is i mean are you using it for hunting purposes uh you know i know hunters they're fine but

02:37:09.920 then also i mean if it's not why do you need an ar-15 and that's it grid one motorsports donated

02:37:18.120 two hundred dollars i am the patriarchy we value women and protect them especially from themselves 1.00

02:37:25.740 we die so you don't have to accepting mrs wilson you lot know so little of my work

02:37:32.260 yet speak in ignorance dot be better okay let's should we continue with the gun question okay

02:37:39.740 what do you think um i'm not gonna lie i didn't really fully hear the question but

02:37:48.020 you go you date a guy he's the perfect match everything about him is perfect but you go to

02:37:52.920 his house and he's got a locked room that's filled with all kinds of guns bunch of ar-15s yeah i don't 0.99

02:37:57.540 mind that okay yeah no problem probably ask him what his favorite one is

02:38:02.940 sounds like my house so okay happy my dad's house i mean i would ask like questions of like

02:38:10.740 what they're for but like um i probably wouldn't have a problem with it i would be okay as long

02:38:16.980 as it's secured and i'll see uh i would be cool with it um i'd probably say where's the ak-47s

02:38:25.140 period yeah that's a big question like why only one type

02:38:31.480 ar-15s the most popular rifle i think in america but you know has its limits yeah

02:38:39.020 they're fun though would you guys change your answer he just thought they were cool like he

02:38:44.300 really liked guns i also think they're cool

02:38:47.420 i guess it's like what would be the motivation if he like if he didn't want well i'm like

02:39:07.120 completely fine with it but if the answer was not to protect himself what would it be

02:39:11.340 maybe you know i mean things like i don't know or goes hunting or because i think the main

02:39:17.340 motivation that every guy every man has a gun is to protect protect himself and protect his home so

02:39:23.600 and it's just it's similar to why guys like cars they like cool mechanical stuff that they can take

02:39:29.120 apart and modify and do fun things with and it makes it things go boom and it's fun

02:39:33.640 all right do i have any questions um goodness uh what do you guys think about

02:39:47.600 all the plastic surgery that ladies are getting these days what do you think about 1.00

02:39:52.140 the fillers the botox the lip injections the the eyelashes like all of the enhancements because i'm 43

02:39:59.520 and when i was growing up we didn't have all that like fake boobs were just a thing in the 90s and 1.00

02:40:05.160 that was like pretty much it there was not this ubiquitous plastic surgery when i was growing up

02:40:09.500 i don't remember ever thinking about what my butt looked like till i was like in my 20s

02:40:14.020 because it just like we would in high school we'd compliment each other on our outfits be like oh my

02:40:18.080 god your hair's cute how'd you get it so tall right because the mall bangs in the 90s but uh 0.96

02:40:23.400 there wasn't this like hyper fixation on like oh i've got to have a huge ass and a tiny waist and 0.87

02:40:29.320 huge lips and all this stuff so i'm wondering like what how do you guys feel about kind of growing up 0.66

02:40:34.020 in the air with all that well i was born in the year 2000 so i just feel like for me i literally

02:40:40.780 grew up in the social media age like and i always just had to see like you know you just have to be

02:40:46.220 perfect and everything like that so i feel like for me um maybe i thinking about it like in a more

02:40:54.520 i don't know a different way i feel like i were all a little brainwashed even if we don't like to

02:41:00.980 admit it but i would definitely get my lips done when i get the chance i'm gonna get a lot of things

02:41:07.440 done and maybe that means i have a little bit of mental health issues but that's just i don't know

02:41:13.260 i just feel like stop it get some help do you think it has to do with perfection like i don't

02:41:18.900 know i want to be perfect you guys ever see the before you want to be perfect it's impossible

02:41:22.440 and the after pictures of the kardashians wait so what yeah what do you want to get you said lips 0.98

02:41:27.920 what else um my boobs um fake boobs i want to get hip fillers hip fillers what else bbl lipo 0.93

02:41:38.380 i would definitely get botox so i don't get lines on my forehead um so you are intending to get 0.79

02:41:44.280 this um oh yeah i'm definitely i'm going to you're going to have you gotten anything yet or nothing so

02:41:50.020 far no nothing so far but i would we can wait actually let's get everybody's response before

02:41:57.120 we give our take on that what about you um personally at this point in time not for me i want

02:42:02.940 to do if you know if i want to enhance anything about me i want to do that naturally i'm you know

02:42:07.520 um work out a certain way etc um at one point i was thinking i don't like my nose but i was like

02:42:14.580 why what's why so yeah good answer um i feel like it's to each is their own um i feel like if it

02:42:23.520 doesn't come from a place of like mental health issues it's fine i have gotten a little bit of

02:42:28.580 lip filler personally that's it that's it okay i think it's unhealthy and unnatural

02:42:34.420 uh i think i i don't know about boobs or anything like that kind of stuff but i think i'm okay with

02:42:44.560 facials and stuff like that i feel like in the future since i've been in the sun so much

02:42:50.400 i'll have to get some stuff taken off my face to like pre-cancer stuff that's not like yeah yeah you

02:42:58.860 said facials isn't that just like skin treatment like skin care there's some pretty intense like

02:43:04.160 treatments that you can do too sure but it's not something like inside you right yeah preventative

02:43:10.380 care does that constitute this cosmetic surgery though i don't know i don't know okay uh what

02:43:16.220 about you um i think it is unnecessary and like social media has caused a lot of insecurities and

02:43:22.320 made it really normalized um but like i i wouldn't judge anyone who does it and yeah to each their

02:43:28.400 own okay what about you um it's not for me i think i i prefer to be natural i think aging is like part

02:43:36.160 of life and it's like bound to happen so okay and i also think social media could be harmful for

02:43:41.860 especially young like impressionable girls to like compare themselves to people when it's really not

02:43:47.380 all right some good answers can i ask rachel one thing that i'm a little nervous about with like

02:43:53.900 child rearing is like what's going to happen afterwards and you've had five and i think that's

02:43:59.800 the thing that women think about like i'll get my mommy makeover um what are your thoughts on that

02:44:06.440 like if a mom wants to feel confident again after her body just got wrecked i think well it kind of

02:44:11.440 depends like i know some women who've had a bunch of kids and they look fantastic and i'm like dang 1.00

02:44:17.140 um if you have like i had five and they were all over eight pounds and they went straight out because

02:44:22.600 i have like narrow hips so they just went straight out in front so like if there's excess skin and it's

02:44:28.460 bothersome and you want to get that removed i don't think there's any problem with that um i would i would

02:44:33.860 consider it i haven't done that but i think it's okay and i'm not 100 against plastic surgery but i think

02:44:42.020 it's gone like way too far with women just looking like like people don't like you have an adorable 1.00

02:44:47.960 nose why would you ever like think your side profile here oh oh god she has nothing wrong with her nose 1.00

02:44:55.900 at all and i see girls who already have like great features but they think they have to look like how 1.00

02:45:02.360 all the celebrities look the same like they have to have that tiny nose and these huge lips and it's like

02:45:07.800 i am a fan of real faces i like i used to draw portraits when i was growing up all the time i

02:45:13.260 like worked as an artist when i was younger and i like people's actual faces i like the things that

02:45:18.380 make their face unique and make them look different so i'm just not i don't like everybody trying to

02:45:23.040 look like blow-up doll clones i think that's i agree i'll give my take on this i am a natural body

02:45:28.840 supremacist um i am very much against both in a partner and you know if i ever gain political power

02:45:37.860 i will actually outlaw plastic surgery i'll outlaw cosmetic procedures lip fillers straight to jail 0.99

02:45:45.640 fake titties straight to jail bbl that's an x actually you can get executed in my i will execute 0.99

02:45:53.740 you in my government if you get a bbl um yeah this is good this is hardcore okay i want to ask a 1.00

02:46:01.160 question and you can't even be grandfathered in you have to get that shit out you got to remove that 1.00

02:46:05.960 shit you got to remove the shit or sorry execution no yeah period um and then also uh labiaplasty 1.00

02:46:14.960 execution oh i can't if you get one of those i can't imagine that either that sounds crazy 1.00

02:46:19.140 hashtag big labia matter okay that's my movement wait brian i have a question about this big labia

02:46:24.880 thing yeah go ahead go ahead let's so let's hear i worked in a gynecologist office for a long time

02:46:29.560 and there was women that would come in with like huge labias huge like huge sign me up what's that 1.00

02:46:37.120 no it was just like they couldn't exercise because of like chafing and issues like that are you okay

02:46:43.420 with labiaplasties when they're like medically or are you like no labiaplasty period i don't know if

02:46:49.200 i believe the it's interfering i don't believe in it there was a lady that couldn't run because it

02:46:56.760 was so painful and bad yeah so like what i'm not saying it was common i'm just saying i saw it

02:47:02.900 and so like i'm just curious she couldn't run it was so painful like the chafing and the issues

02:47:08.880 there's there's ways there's work around i'm just saying duct tape is what you're saying i don't

02:47:14.200 know maybe like stuff it i don't know there's nowhere just roll it up i am look there i maybe

02:47:25.880 i've heard of these incredibly dubious and rare scenarios where there can be pain who knows if

02:47:33.020 it's just pretext for justification for them getting a cut pure what is typically purely a

02:47:39.100 cosmetic procedure but if there is uh cloud flying donated two hundred dollars long time watch your

02:47:46.900 first time contributor love the show brian how did the trip to the eastern orthodox temple with rachel

02:47:53.800 we weren't we weren't able to great panel tonight nick needs a microphone keep killing it oh nick on

02:48:00.180 the microphone uh maybe yeah eventually just it's uh we'll get it done eventually thank you cloud

02:48:06.480 for the uh street sorry i got i went to a lovely church here this morning though was it saint

02:48:13.380 anathias yep saint athanasius athanasia and then isn't there like a greek yeah orthodox one is that

02:48:19.960 what you guys are greek we're antiochian and the one that i went saint athanasius is antiochian

02:48:24.600 okay nice because but they're all under the banner of eastern orthodox yeah they're all in

02:48:29.520 communion with each other so it would be the same liturgy the same theology everywhere i know the

02:48:34.700 greek one has like it's a really nice one up in the mountains or something they tend to have

02:48:38.060 beautiful like fancy churches yeah going back though to the plastic surgery stuff uh so wait your point

02:48:44.820 was like what if there's it's medically indicated they have pain well i don't think that there's a lot

02:48:50.060 of scenarios where any plastic surgery is medically indicated like right but i'm saying i saw like 0.99

02:48:56.020 one or two women where it was like like like you saw like you saw that shit and i was like you were 0.99

02:49:02.520 in the shit i saw it and i was like yeah like i could see i could see why this would be so like 0.99

02:49:10.580 interfere in so many aspects of your life i don't know look i'm not a woman so i don't know you know 0.98

02:49:16.240 how that is but like how many women for example or just people in general will say like oh yeah i

02:49:24.080 got a nose i got a rhinoplasty because i have breathing problems yeah and they'll like people

02:49:30.940 do genuinely have like i have a deviated septum yeah i broke my nose back in high school i was on the 0.96

02:49:36.580 wrestling team broke my nose oh shit it was almost 20 years ago or some shit right um never bothered to 0.88

02:49:43.040 fix it but people do genuinely have these things where plastic surgery can uh uh actually address 0.99

02:49:49.020 like a uh medically indicated problem but there are people who will just lie and be like well i've

02:49:55.220 got this blah blah blah totally even even to a doctor they won't even always be honest to the doctor

02:50:00.040 and say well i just have issues with it cosmetically they'll say oh my breathing's kind of for in the

02:50:05.560 case of nose jobs for example uh in this case they might just want to you know they don't want to

02:50:11.020 come off even to the doctor as like well i want to do it for cosmetic reasons they'll say well um

02:50:16.500 you know there's also i wonder if there's like something with insurance if you say yeah if you

02:50:22.840 say well i i experience pain while running versus i just don't like how it looks if it has some play

02:50:29.880 there with insurance so who knows what the truth is but moving off of labiaplasty i'm a natural body

02:50:36.320 supremacist um so i'll give you my rundown quickly on this so i would prefer a girl who has small upper 1.00

02:50:45.380 lip over lip filler i prefer a girl with small flat boobs over some fake titties prefer a girl with 1.00

02:50:52.340 flat flat bum over bbl prefer a girl with a little belly fat over lipo belly and uh yeah that's pretty 1.00

02:51:02.340 much it so i don't know and actually did i did a couple polls recently on my twitter asking other

02:51:08.580 men this like would you prefer a girl who has uh like a um what i did i did one for bbl yeah i saw

02:51:15.640 those bbl uh fake breasts and i think lip filler the lip filler one was phrased a bit differently but

02:51:22.220 the men overwhelmingly at least the people who answered overwhelmingly said that they prefer 0.97

02:51:26.960 natural even if natural means you have a small bum small boobs small upper lip they always prefer it 0.92

02:51:34.080 over the fake thing so do you feel the same way about breasts if it was like you had a woman who 1.00

02:51:39.460 had just huge breasts major back pain do you feel the same way about a reduction or are you like yeah

02:51:45.180 that'd be fine they could get a reduction okay yeah i mean i don't really i'm i'm i'm not even a 1.00

02:51:51.340 boob guy so i honestly wouldn't care if she had some giant knockers i wouldn't be like oh fuck 1.00

02:51:56.140 she's gotta oh no she's losing it actually there's like a i feel like there's a curb your enthusiasm 1.00

02:52:01.780 episode about this where this guy was dating a woman big boobs and then she got a breast reduction and 0.97

02:52:07.480 then they she lost or he lost interest um yeah i've heard that like women with big uh you know 1.00

02:52:13.520 yeah they get back pain yeah that's fine so that just ties them back to medical reasons for you

02:52:19.720 really yeah that's fine yeah and i i'm not a boob guy so i wouldn't even i don't care

02:52:24.020 i wouldn't care yeah no i'm not even really a buck i'm a labia guy it's weird

02:52:29.060 sorry can i add something did you guys know that they're like there's some women women that are 1.00

02:52:40.740 lying to their doctors like saying that they have like body dysmorphia or whatever so that they can 0.88

02:52:45.020 get like a bbl from oh on insurance yeah oh shit interesting it was just a random fact i don't 0.53

02:52:51.380 have an opinion it's really funny it's really actually i i do want to see here if we can

02:52:56.200 potentially change your view on this because you said that you want to get all these procedures

02:53:02.000 right you said you wanted lips titties botox what was the other thing lipo bbl did you say bbl

02:53:08.580 bbl yeah hip fillers hip fillers oh don't do that that walking around these girls are walking 1.00

02:53:15.580 around looking like a wisdom tooth they're like this and then just looks like well i'd go to a good 0.99

02:53:20.740 doctor listen what's it going to take to change your mind on this shit um if it was like something 0.99

02:53:28.920 that i could like die on the table wait madison you got a story on this shit my aunt died from 1.00

02:53:35.740 getting a bbl so it was more so my aunt died you got this man my aunt died from getting a bbl 1.00

02:53:44.480 um she just didn't wake up from the anesthesia oh my god well they can hear louder okay that's fine

02:53:51.940 her her aunt died her aunt who wait what was the story here so she was already married correct 0.69

02:53:57.580 and had kids she had two kids one toddler and one like newborn that was like a couple months old 0.52

02:54:05.180 she just gave birth and she was trying to get the bbl and she died because of the bbl or well uh

02:54:11.260 the anesthesia i'm assuming during the procedure they're dangerous kanye west's mom died i think it

02:54:17.600 was lipo she was i have a question do you know how the like filler works in your hips how does that work

02:54:22.360 because like with breasts it's usually like in a sack right so it's like contained yeah um but like 1.00

02:54:30.060 i have a crazy story about a guy who actually got like filler injections into his penis and 0.99

02:54:37.440 it was watch yeah like he went abroad because he wanted his penis like bigger and he just kept 0.99

02:54:48.160 having all these injections done and it was like this big and because it's not encapsulated it was 0.99

02:54:53.860 just like lumpy and there was no way to reverse it like like we're talking like this this big huh

02:55:01.960 so and like just look like a lumpy tuna can or something yeah excuse me couldn't even use it 0.69

02:55:08.940 couldn't have an erection like would snap so like i just think that yeah you should really 0.90

02:55:15.860 reconsider i think that you're beautiful just the way that yeah i was just gonna say the same 1.00

02:55:20.100 thing i don't think she needs anything but don't do that shit who are you is there a celebrity or 0.97

02:55:25.240 someone that you're that you would like to emulate or look like no i still want to look like me i just 0.97

02:55:30.740 want to look like me with enhancements i don't know yeah you do not need anything thank you so don't do 0.98

02:55:41.680 that shit well then what's driving you to because it's i you look beautiful like everyone's saying 0.95

02:55:48.520 and i think you know that you are an attractive person like what's driving you to want to enhance 0.99

02:55:53.740 what's already really like good perfection i want to be like wait hold on let me give you the guy's 0.95

02:56:01.920 perspective nick can you pull up the chat so she can see the chat on this shit this is this is where the 0.82

02:56:07.000 chat's gonna get introduced here for a bit so remind me what your name is anaya anaya what if 0.93

02:56:14.780 i told you because you're saying you're saying you're chasing perfection by getting all these

02:56:19.340 plastic surgery things what if i told you that the there are some honestly i think weird men who are

02:56:26.620 like into women with plastic surgery but and i typically don't tend to think that those men

02:56:32.840 are good men typically who find that an aesthetic but when you say you're chasing perfection my actual

02:56:39.920 position on this is is that overwhelmingly women who get all these procedures i i i'm not even saying 0.82

02:56:47.140 this to gas you up or anything i do genuinely think they look worse after the procedure so even if you had 0.98

02:56:53.900 small boobs and you get some fake titties i don't think it looks better now boobs is a little bit 1.00

02:57:00.940 different but like look at the fake lips i don't i don't think lip filler ever looks better than how 0.99

02:57:06.520 your lips were and you already got you got nice lips what are you doing what's she doing look 1.00

02:57:11.560 like a perfect pout so what's your what's your definition of perfect nobody is perfect you got 0.98

02:57:17.920 good lips too what the fuck yeah it's just like perfect for like did you know that i had lips at 0.87

02:57:21.620 the table did you know that i had lip filler well i mean it's it's worn off right or how recently 0.99

02:57:27.480 it was probably like do you have any pictures of you before the lip filler yeah pull that shit 0.89

02:57:33.660 oh yeah i'm just saying i will you probably had nice lips no i do before like i just did the top 0.98

02:57:41.120 just to like kind of like facial balance anything that i would do would be to balance you don't need 0.88

02:57:45.300 that shit i got you thank you like i want to do like fat transfer not implants still still bad 0.96

02:57:50.600 don't do it i just want to move it nope don't do it it's unnatural love the rolls love the rolls 0.98

02:57:56.580 don't do it i also want to say um i did get my top teeth done as well i forgot to say that okay yeah

02:58:04.400 i've had my i had my teeth done but i think that's a little bit because like mine i had braces for five

02:58:09.620 and a half years and they had permanent staining there was nothing i could do about it so aside from

02:58:14.540 the fact that they were slightly crooked they just looked dirty which bothered me because i'm like a

02:58:18.480 super clean hygienic person and i was like i don't like that it looks like i don't brush my teeth

02:58:23.880 because i'm constantly brushing and flossing and i just wanted to close my gap yeah not a gap i just

02:58:28.980 want to close it so then i some guys like the gap you know it's crazy like remove your teeth and put

02:58:33.500 new teeth in why not what's crazy no tell us what's crazy um i actually did miss my gap after i was like

02:58:38.880 oh but then i'm like no not really i still feel more confident with how my teeth are okay yeah your

02:58:43.200 smiles wait so question for the chat chat do you guys prefer do you guys prefer plastic surgery or

02:58:49.720 no plastic surgery 0.97

02:58:50.760 i've never seen a butt look better after bbl even if the girl had a small butt 1.00

02:59:00.540 you can i've never seen it that's true you can build a really nice butt and then your butt and 0.98

02:59:06.160 your legs go together right the thing about look at that it looks like you're got a big old lumpy 0.80

02:59:12.680 diaper half the time it doesn't look like skinny legs and then they got this big like weird looking

02:59:19.320 it doesn't look right no it gives you what it is yes uncanny valley thing where you just know

02:59:25.640 something's off and i think for a lot of men it like sets off something in the back of their head

02:59:30.140 where they're like don't mate with that something's wrong something's wrong well i do think that

02:59:34.160 plastic surgery can absolutely be proxy for mental illness yeah because if you're so

02:59:40.960 dissatisfied with your physical appearance that you're going to one spend thousands of dollars

02:59:45.820 but also in terms of the risk assessment go under anesthesia and anytime you go under anesthesia 0.99

02:59:51.840 there is a risk of shit you could get permanent brain damage they give you too much you can even die 0.98

02:59:57.400 just like with madison's aunt or whatever she wanted a bb i don't know she wanted a bbl 0.99

03:00:03.260 already married and had kids you already won yeah anyways she died she died i mean it can have an

03:00:09.980 effect like an addiction some people legit do like you start getting tattoos and then you just can't

03:00:15.460 yeah but it's in addition to being proxy for mental illness it's also just a proxy for vanity

03:00:20.760 like that's i me personally i prefer much more modest women so um yeah and that's a little far of a reach 1.00

03:00:31.200 but like okay you get haircuts right that's a cosmetic thing that you like well i i would differentiate

03:00:38.600 here between like grooming so i'd put like haircuts or like for example when i say natural body supremacist

03:00:45.820 oh well you'd want a woman with armpit hair and uh like right leg hair no i grooming i think 1.00

03:00:51.820 doesn't like you can groom you know i'm fine with grooming's cool i'm fine with grooming how do you 0.99

03:00:59.140 feel about men that like spray paint their hairline i hate that shit yeah i can't say that i can't say 0.98

03:01:05.200 that because i do my thing so you know well it does kind of get into the whole like well is is it 0.98

03:01:11.380 deceptive right to have like plastic surgery but then going beyond that like makeup usage uh is that

03:01:18.020 deceptive in the same way that it's deceptive for a man who to wear like a toupee or wear a cap all the 0.92

03:01:24.260 time or uh no hat fish hat fish hat fishing okay yeah uh so i actually wanted to you said something

03:01:34.100 earlier i want to jump back to you said and i was up over there but i heard something like you said that

03:01:38.860 you can be aggressive or raise your voice or something yeah i have a pretty hot temper do you

03:01:46.020 well because you seem like pretty mellow yeah and you have like kind of you're a bit soft spoken you

03:01:51.380 have like kind of a melodic soothing voice so thank you uh it's something that i've worked on um

03:01:59.180 pretty much when i started dating my husband um because i watched my parents have a pretty

03:02:06.240 argumentative relationship and i knew that i didn't want to be like that with my husband and

03:02:13.240 so when i realized that i wanted to be with my husband that i needed to change the way i react

03:02:18.880 to things and it's a slow process i think i think i'm a lot better at it but i definitely like

03:02:26.400 so you would you used to yell um yeah but yeah i can't for some reason i can't imagine you yelling

03:02:35.040 i don't know why i don't know why come surf with me come surf with you oh like people drop in 0.98

03:02:40.060 fuck you kook yeah yeah okay i mean i'm not yeah i think i've um also my husband is really good at 0.99

03:02:49.440 pushing my buttons too he's very good at it and he knows he knows he knows exactly like what to say 1.00

03:02:57.740 to like like what what pushes your buttons so if we're having a disagreement i'm always trying to

03:03:06.320 solve the conflict and sometimes he likes to do little jabby things and i'm like why are we

03:03:14.840 why are we trying to hurt feelings i'd rather what's a jab like is he like i can hang 10 better

03:03:20.560 than you well he can so damn shots fired i know um i don't know it's like uh like instead of just 0.95

03:03:29.620 like i'll say something he's like well you did that blah blah blah blah blah and and i'll say okay 0.97

03:03:34.420 well that's not really helping what we're trying to solve here yeah how often do you guys argue

03:03:38.760 he would probably say a lot but i don't say that much wait currently you guys are like arguing

03:03:46.980 no not currently but in general currently well we have discussions yeah i like to call them

03:03:55.460 discussions how frequently uh maybe like once a month once a month yeah because i would also say

03:04:06.220 once a month and andrew always knows he's like i know what's happening here and i'm like yeah

03:04:11.360 do you guys think that arguing and like having disagreements is good in a relationship though

03:04:16.600 i think it's really good what do you think rachel no i don't think it's good so you think it should

03:04:22.140 be happy like 24 7 all the time well i think that we're all human beings and we're going to

03:04:27.560 have disagreements but i think that they're way more frequent than they need to be like when andrew

03:04:33.880 and i first started dating my favorite story to tell because i grew up with parents who've been

03:04:38.400 divorced a bunch on both sides and they were yellers they were people that threw things slam doors like

03:04:45.020 my life growing up was with these chaotic crazy people and i thought i was like the stable one so

03:04:51.560 i was doing fine right i was like i'm not like them so i'm good but when we first started dating

03:04:55.940 he came over to my house for something and he he made like a little funny comment and i threw a remote

03:05:01.740 control at him and he was like if you're gonna do that i'm gonna leave right now and i'm not gonna

03:05:09.420 ever come back so you can think about if you want to be like that or not and at first i was like well

03:05:16.480 who does he think he is and then i thought about it for a minute because he did he left i mean he 0.97

03:05:21.560 didn't just tell me he like proved it he was like i'm gonna leave now bye and i was like what a jerk 0.97

03:05:27.060 and then i thought about it and i was like wait a minute do i want to be the girl who throws stuff 0.88

03:05:34.380 right because he just made like he it wasn't even something really bad he said it was like a harmless 0.59

03:05:38.520 little like poking fun at me kind of thing playing around with me and i was like oh shit am i doing 0.67

03:05:44.580 that like how my mom did or like how my dad would or am i being like that and it really just made me

03:05:49.920 think about it and so like over time uh because andrew's so like my favorite thing about him is

03:05:56.160 he's so emotionally stable he's very like in control of his feelings in control of his emotions he doesn't

03:06:02.240 lose it because he could be a really dangerous guy if he let himself lose control and he knows that so

03:06:08.240 he's gotten very good over the years of his life at keeping stuff under wraps and so if i'm acting

03:06:15.800 crazy he'll just kind of be like i'm not gonna talk to you if you're acting crazy when you chill

03:06:21.820 we can talk right so like over a couple years of being with him that stuff really i just unlearned

03:06:28.760 it but like you said it takes time it's not like instant that's why i always say like you're not born

03:06:33.480 a good wife you kind of have to like learn how to be a good wife and if you have a guy that's strong 1.00

03:06:38.780 like that where um like i never had to be afraid of him or anything like that because he would never

03:06:44.360 lose control and it would just like hit the contrast of him being so calm and like not crazy

03:06:50.900 and emotional which i had only ever dated crazy emotional people before that where i was the sane

03:06:55.540 person so the contrast of suddenly him being so steady it made me see where i was crazy and then i was

03:07:02.120 like oh shit i better handle that i agree with that i do think that there are situations though where

03:07:08.640 people instead of discussing like their differences they just don't and it turns into like not talking 0.94

03:07:16.140 about anything and then it could turn into like you're literally just cohabitating and there's no

03:07:20.080 point in you having a relationship and i think that that's wrong too yeah uh we have a chat here it

03:07:25.620 came in i'm not able to pull it back up it's from nickelodeon it came in a while ago nickelodeon sorry

03:07:31.280 we're finally getting to it it fell off so i missed it but he re or he says have the new girls never

03:07:37.780 seen the show before inform them that it's traditional to bow to the host brain he said

03:07:43.900 brain not brian new girls what would your father say about being so easily lured into a strange man's

03:07:51.580 studio um and this came in this came in just as the girls uh so do you guys want to uh he was asking

03:08:02.280 if you guys want to bow um not particularly like i don't know you don't have to i mean if you if you

03:08:12.180 want like that's just like the traditional like all these other girls here bowed before oh they bowed 0.99

03:08:16.920 like when they like she did the deepest bow actually she did a full-on respect deep we're supposed to

03:08:24.500 tell them that it's true it's true someone wait what we asked her to come on the show and she 0.54

03:08:32.600 like politely was like no and bowed to nick like a full-on bow was the white girl no oh there you go

03:08:40.120 well wait but like she like bowed she was like no sorry what but was she like uh like american asian 0.96

03:08:48.340 or oh well that makes sense then right yeah it's still cool it's more cultural

03:08:54.720 did you fall in love nick well did you get her contact info or what's up

03:09:00.640 okay wow just unprompted bow okay nice um actually speaking of speaking of maybe we do the bow video

03:09:12.260 segment so one of my requirements for a girl i would date a girlfriend did you have something on

03:09:21.440 the bow did we talk about the bow um i'd love to talk about the bow okay we'll talk about them

03:09:27.640 we'll play the video first a girl she's got a bow i need a girl to bow you know at least once a day 1.00

03:09:34.760 boom huge bow did you see the bow very well that was the perfect technique i give it an a minus

03:09:41.040 a minus a minus you don't want her to get too uh yeah i can't they can't get too confident you know

03:09:47.180 uh you know look very attentive i get home from a long day at the podcast studio she's got my beer 0.99

03:09:53.940 ready my food ready my noodles good to go she's gonna stir the noodles because they she fucked up 1.00

03:09:59.500 stirring them there you go do it again do it again good okay sweet boom attentive hands in lap 0.98

03:10:07.200 one more time nick let's see the bow boom huge bow look at that technique grace

03:10:13.000 respect still still an a minus a minus so going around the table would you bow to a man

03:10:20.940 no no like okay what about you i mean what's the context just they come home it was just like i need a

03:10:29.780 bow depends on the context okay if i can get a push gift when i have his kids yes what's a push give

03:10:40.900 i get a mercedes amg when i have your child then yeah you can i'll buy you so after children and

03:10:47.000 marriage and he has to buy you a just very take care of me in all forms of fashions and you'll 1.00

03:10:52.860 consider doing about yeah what if it's on like the second date hell no okay if it is important to my

03:11:01.700 husband that i bow to him sure but i do think that it's like a cultural thing and i don't understand

03:11:10.020 why it'd be necessary but like yeah this is cultural appropriation no it's not i just don't like like you

03:11:16.940 literally made the comment like is she asian oh that makes sense like you said that so like i didn't say

03:11:21.260 that so i just feel that like if my husband was like i want you to bow to me i'd be like

03:11:28.880 okay sure but i mean okay whatever so bowing is a part of my culture and i bowed at all sorts of

03:11:39.420 people what's your culture i'm half taiwanese um and i'm half what american white word okay um so i see

03:11:50.420 it as we are two people i respect you as a person and usually it's to my elders um but

03:11:57.480 definitely i would bow to my husband i don't see it as a diss like i think it's like i respect you

03:12:03.820 you respect me kind of a thing where were you born in taiwan no my mom was okay do you speak

03:12:10.900 i speak mandarin okay what about you would you hear the bow um i mean it depends on the man like

03:12:16.840 if it's a stranger then i wouldn't but like it's first aid second date like he asked for it he's

03:12:22.180 like can i see about not if not if he just wants to see it but if it's like someone i actually know

03:12:26.760 and like show the bow not not like just like someone i don't know that well but like i mean if

03:12:32.680 i know them and i respect them and they they really want me to bow then i guess but like i don't really

03:12:37.340 think it means that like much no he just liked it he thought it was endearing or cute or something

03:12:42.360 yeah sure okay what about you do you hit the bow for your boyfriend like if he comes home like is

03:12:49.780 he is he long distance your boyfriend yeah he lives two hours away or not it's not that far but medium

03:12:55.460 yeah wait really quick so you've been dating him for two years correct so we got together in high

03:13:00.080 school so okay and so he's you met initially in person close school yeah different colleges

03:13:09.200 okay two hours away okay how often do you see him like every weekend or maybe like once a week

03:13:17.040 like twice a month maybe twice a month okay you should just like next time you see him

03:13:24.560 unprompted hit the bow i don't know i'm not familiar with that but like if you like if he's

03:13:33.320 like if we're married and he's my husband and he's like maybe coming home from work maybe i wouldn't

03:13:38.320 bow but like greet him like with a kiss or something so like the bare minimum

03:13:42.900 so what do you do when you greet like you greet him now you slap him across the face no i hug him

03:13:50.800 like when he picks me up from the train then i i was just like you got to be married to greet him

03:13:54.720 with a kiss what do you how are you greeting him now okay so you wouldn't do the bow now if he asked

03:14:03.820 for it like for fun or no he was serious he was serious about it like for respect or yeah he just

03:14:13.800 thought it was cute he was like every time i see you i want to bow if he um i don't know

03:14:20.740 like what would your objection to it be like like bow to like worship him no just respect as a high

03:14:31.900 like as a respect like a not just like a slight head tilt it's got to be full-on respect bow you see

03:14:39.460 that wait she's not fully like 90 she's not at the hips yeah exactly yeah um maybe i'm just not

03:14:49.880 familiar with it so i don't know you think your boyfriend's watching right now i told him about it

03:14:54.640 but i don't know he's with his family right now what's his name terrell wait what is it terrell

03:15:02.000 terrell terrell demand bows from here on out see how it goes i'm just saying terrell yeah i don't

03:15:13.100 think he would demand it from me though is he a white guy no he's um tomorrow and filipino wait he's

03:15:22.300 what tomorrow from guam it's there oh word word yeah well he sounds like uh he's a brave and a

03:15:33.320 decent man he's a pioneer try it out terrell try it out uh yeah what do you guys think so i want a

03:15:40.160 girl who's willing like immediately first date second date she's she's got start hitting bows 1.00

03:15:45.380 can i just say what's up i can understand bowing like ancestor wise and um out of respect but it just

03:15:51.800 feels too close to like treating your man like he's god and i don't like that sign me up well

03:15:56.620 maybe maybe it's because you're not dating guys who are like you see them as you want to respect

03:16:02.380 them as well like i said before my i have a stipulation with it if i have that respect yes

03:16:07.460 but on the second date no no no got it first date first date first date boom absolutely hit me with a

03:16:15.040 bow he'll put it i'm telling you respect if i do it just as an experiment right you're an attractive

03:16:20.660 girl i'm sure you get asked out on first dates all the time try it as an experiment just upon

03:16:25.980 walking up you know you've set up the date maybe you've met him at on a dating app i don't know the

03:16:30.260 circumstances you're walking up to each other maybe he's probably arrived early because you're running 15

03:16:35.660 minutes late but just as you're walking up just be like do like kind of a cute little do a bow

03:16:44.740 i think he's that could be the one for you her face does not look like she's gonna do the back 1.00

03:16:50.860 just try it rachel would you yeah i would do back flips i would rachel whatever andrew want rachel

03:16:59.100 you wouldn't do that andrew i want to see you do that absolutely whatever he wants go ahead wait

03:17:04.420 i i want to see the video the the proof that andrew me telling to andrew oh he has he hasn't

03:17:12.200 requested about but he gets one andrew one that's a crew shout out to the crucible crew watching by

03:17:17.600 the way but they know they're constantly calling me a simp and saying i'm the biggest simp for him

03:17:21.940 i yeah i think women should be simps it's rightful women should be simps for men i also want to know

03:17:26.520 like the the girls who wouldn't bow what are you losing in bowing to your man like what's the

03:17:32.800 why don't you want to do it well here's the thing i'm i'm not against bowing i mean

03:17:37.040 respect earns respect i think okay i'll bow you bow to me if i do something respectful too though

03:17:42.900 like you know same respect i gotta reciprocate the bow i gotta reciprocate the bow what are you

03:17:49.760 talking about you want me to reciprocate the bow oh whoa what is this that's crazy i think it just

03:17:58.320 goes back to the feminism thing that's crazy i mean i mean if we're doing something respectful

03:18:04.300 i mean would you like about if you did something i mean he respects you right no if andrew bowed to

03:18:09.480 me it would be out of order you'd be worried yeah she'd be right because like i don't know if this

03:18:15.860 line of questioning makes sense but if if you're on a first date and you expect the guy to pay for

03:18:22.080 the first date um but he finds out that he doesn't respect you and he doesn't want to pay is that okay

03:18:28.280 if he just doesn't pay for the first date then i mean i like i was someone who likes to split you know

03:18:33.640 um i mean it really depends if he's splitting just or not if he's refusing to pay just to be like

03:18:40.600 no why would i do that i would be like well i mean you pay for your meal i pay for my meal like

03:18:45.560 right but back to like you want the reciprocated respect right if he didn't reciprocate that and

03:18:52.340 he's like well i don't really want to pay for your dinner that's fine like i don't really want to

03:18:55.700 anyone to pay for my dinner no i never expect that well hypothetically if you did if you were a woman 0.90

03:19:02.020 who did expect that and they said well i if you want me to pay for the dinner i want to respect you

03:19:07.800 and you're i don't know also like you're saying if if they are going to pay for the dinner and they

03:19:14.060 then wanted to bow because they did that thing is that what you're suggesting no i was just saying

03:19:19.600 you're you were saying the only way i would bow to you is if i respect you and i was kind of flip

03:19:26.260 trying to flip but i don't know if it's a good comparison if you're expecting him to pay for the

03:19:30.520 first date and then he doesn't respect you enough to do that i don't know well okay well if he's if

03:19:36.220 someone's just being disrespectful of course i'm not gonna i mean here's the thing i'm always gonna go

03:19:39.420 into any situation even with a stranger with with respect because i don't know you 0.93

03:19:43.960 i don't want to assume anything with you wow holy shit sorry guys i sneeze very violently 0.94

03:19:50.600 um yeah sorry i got a loud sneeze what can i say yeah but um okay yeah so i any situation any 0.92

03:20:03.800 person i'm gonna go into this situation assuming respect um i mean if i bump into a stranger i'm

03:20:09.720 gonna be oh i'm sorry that's kind of a bow in its way it's right for shizzle yeah so

03:20:16.140 if that makes sense so who wasn't willing to bow was it you not no bow wait i got a question

03:20:25.740 so for question for you two really quick should men be willing to sacrifice their life for their

03:20:32.360 girlfriend yeah yeah yeah yeah like take a bullet should a man take a bullet for his girl 0.99

03:20:40.820 protect her right men are supposed to be protectors yeah if it's a serious serious relationship how long

03:20:47.280 how long do you think you should how long should you be dating before a guy i'm gonna say if you 1.00

03:20:52.360 committed to that person i wouldn't put a timeline on it three months let's say he committed to you

03:21:00.140 three months in three months in girlfriend should he be willing to take a bullet for you protect you

03:21:05.880 yeah yeah what about you same thing what do you think on this one um i think again it depends on

03:21:13.400 the context i mean however two people define something a relationship you know if would you

03:21:22.520 take would you in that scenario would you take the bullet for your three-month boyfriend or do you

03:21:28.800 think that's more like so more so the man's job to protect i don't know about that one i wouldn't do

03:21:39.420 so that sounds like no you wouldn't what not for my three-month boyfriend but but would you want

03:21:43.440 would you want your three-month boyfriend to do it for you um i wouldn't even say i necessarily like

03:21:48.840 want them to but i would just hope that you love me enough to want to protect me why are we in the

03:21:55.900 situation hey it could happen yeah it could happen have me in that room huh did he have me in that

03:22:00.860 room where that was happening what do you mean like if they yeah like because of his choices and

03:22:06.260 whatnot you're you're at uh you're at a uh an after party for an up-and-coming rap artist who

03:22:12.960 happens to be gang affiliated who brought me there i don't know it was for one of your music things or

03:22:18.560 whatever you're a musician right yeah your fault okay you're like babe take me to this thing you

03:22:23.620 know this guy's a great rapper whatever it is i don't know i listen to pearl jam i don't know okay so

03:22:29.120 uh you want him to like take a bullet for you then well you're saying that it's my fault for us

03:22:37.980 being in the room so no i don't know if there's fault like who you could go anywhere what if you're 0.73

03:22:43.460 just at a restaurant yeah you're at a restaurant and like someone goes crazy yeah yeah you want the

03:22:48.520 bullet the man to jump in front ah take the bullet that's what men do yes not if he doesn't like

03:22:53.820 that not if he's like yeah uh what about you you think the guy should do the take the bullet

03:23:00.780 yeah yeah i mean you can't control people and how they act what about you yes what about you um no

03:23:08.080 man shouldn't have to take the bullet what about what do you think your boyfriend let's talk about

03:23:12.060 your boyfriend would you terrell do you want terrell to protect you and take the bullet

03:23:18.900 oh yes yes now would a guy be less attractive if he was unwilling to do that let's say you're just

03:23:26.000 meeting this guy and you know he's a pansy he's a pansy he would never take a bullet for his

03:23:31.940 girlfriend is he less attractive and less date worthy starting with you yes yeah i'm sorry can you

03:23:41.460 repeat uh is a guy who's unwilling to do it less attractive less date worthy yeah yep

03:23:47.220 you don't care okay he's absolutely less attractive and not date worthy uh okay so here we go so let

03:23:56.780 me start by saying if you guys are familiar with the game of chess in chess you lose if you sacrifice

03:24:03.240 the king to save the queen checkmate now a couple things here a couple things here you don't want to

03:24:11.500 do a bow you don't want to do a bow but you both want a man to lay down his life and die for you

03:24:19.400 what let's pause it let's let's take a step back here because nope huh step back okay let's take a

03:24:25.520 step back and let's see a bow right now a bow on the first date you want a man to die for you i don't 0.98

03:24:30.200 want him to die you want a man to die for you but you're not going to do a bow you said my boyfriend 0.99

03:24:34.160 did i want my boyfriend to take my bullet for me but you said you hold on your terms your terms 0.99

03:24:40.000 for the bow were married and an eighty thousand dollar luxury car i said a push gift if i can push

03:24:47.200 out your child you can oh and children and children what i gotta push the child out what are you talking 0.61

03:24:52.200 about and and that's your job and it's half your it's your child yes it is but um i have to go

03:24:59.400 through the pain of it so i should be gifted i you don't have to i mean you probably should

03:25:02.960 what if you don't have children with this guy because you said three months in you you want that

03:25:08.220 you want ah bullet i think bowing in a different form yes you can have it but different form what do

03:25:16.700 you mean like huh huh what do you mean what do you mean different form listen i can reward a man

03:25:28.920 one way i don't have to bow that's how i feel about it you're talking about 0.65

03:25:32.800 fellatio yeah why not huh yeah why not cloud flying donated to that's about that's damn near about 0.95

03:25:40.500 okay we'll get question for the panel in your opinion is sex work a legitimate career option 0.96

03:25:46.000 for women today there are many groups pushing for stem-centered career paths but not many

03:25:51.680 promoting sex work we'll get to that in a sec thank you cloud flying we'll get to that in a sec

03:25:56.260 uh how are you gonna reward the guy you talking s-ing the d yeah why not you're gonna s the d

03:26:03.560 you can get rewarded that way i don't feel about you how you're gonna do how you're gonna reward

03:26:07.300 you're gonna reward the with the s-ing the d yeah s-ing the d yeah it's a bow it's crazy though

03:26:14.640 but it's amazing that you guys don't think that's as big of an act of submission as a little bow you

03:26:19.940 will let you will let a guy splunk on your face in your mouth but you won't just bow for a guy i like 0.85

03:26:29.900 that it's crazy son these girls they they wouldn't cook for a guy but you'll let a guy blast all over 1.00

03:26:36.880 i would cook for a guy that's actually another crazy son i never said i wouldn't cook i love to

03:26:42.260 cook for a man i'm just giving an example here i'm giving an example you wouldn't bow right let a guy

03:26:48.600 you know something interesting about this i have this thing where like i cannot get on my knees and

03:26:56.580 give head if i don't respect a man i refuse to get on my knees and give you head if i don't respect

03:27:00.760 that's like a bow you prefer like 69 or something or like if you don't respect him like i just can't

03:27:07.620 do it he's like laying in bed i'm not gonna do that period yeah like i just can't do it can i play devil's

03:27:11.920 advocate um are you expecting him to go down then so here's the thing oh oh are we talking casually

03:27:24.160 are we talking relationship i've been in a relationship i just want to hear you personally

03:27:28.480 where do you stand um i don't always expect to actually no okay based okay i feel like you gotta 0.99

03:27:38.080 warm it up so i do damn y'all crazy you guys are crazy all of that is included in in having a 0.99

03:27:47.780 intercourse that's all a part of intercourse to me okay but then what if is it expected for 0.99

03:27:54.840 then there's a man expecting it too is it not fair like yeah i just said it's a part of it

03:27:59.360 okay okay yeah it's just crazy to me like you guys don't want to bow

03:28:05.660 but i never said i wouldn't i just got stipulations stipulations to what to the bow like yeah what's

03:28:13.600 the context shouldn't be the reverse shouldn't be shouldn't be the reverse though like you'll

03:28:18.280 you'll wait until the marriage and the car i don't even agree with the car thing but you'll wait

03:28:22.640 until marriage and car for sex but maybe the bow you'll give a little early on i'm not even like

03:28:29.300 it seems like sex is a bigger give than a bow it is it is however you know what i mean yeah like you 0.68

03:28:36.020 can bend me over and that's fine but i'm not gonna just bend over to do the bow now listen that's a guy

03:28:40.860 like that one listen that's well put let's keep it on task where you said on the first date

03:28:46.420 but do you think it's because in modern times women think that they equate sex with a man with

03:28:55.640 attention from the guy so they feel like that's more of a fair trade whereas if you just do the

03:29:00.080 bow it's like you're not the boss of me i can submit i feel like sex goes both ways i want it too

03:29:04.800 that is that that is a fair argument because the bow is one directional whereas well i mean i would even

03:29:09.940 argue i don't even think i mean my view is sex is an equal value exchange but i actually do think

03:29:16.840 a lot of women view it as like i'm giving up something like i don't know y'all are the ones that 1.00

03:29:23.600 come like a hundred times in one go i mean y'all be but a lot of women just you know what i mean yeah 1.00

03:29:30.460 what do you mean they just can't come i don't know they the dudes be fucking up then yeah well 0.92

03:29:34.840 that's not always the case sometimes they literally i know i know it's medical yeah i mean 0.98

03:29:38.600 yeah it's medical but i also think that promiscuity leads to intimacy issues and if you're screwing

03:29:45.120 every guy he ain't gonna be able to make you come oh well for example you know it's not always easy

03:29:50.520 for me but like you know i i haven't been with many men i actually adapt but when i was with just

03:29:55.540 one man i still couldn't do anything maybe he wasn't the rubik's cube i had a friend who couldn't

03:30:01.500 either ever like ever there's like even on their own there's a pretty blind she just 0.99

03:30:06.640 yeah some women can't she said some women can't some women it's pretty pretty fast i mean sometimes

03:30:12.400 it's just mental sometimes i was gonna say a lot of the time it is mental yeah because in order for

03:30:18.220 me to i have to like i have to focus i can't have any distractions there's also like little things that

03:30:23.560 could happen that'll like instantly i have the ick i'm like okay no speaking of this wait actually

03:30:28.700 speaking of this uh the whole like this i guess the orgasm response thing it actually occurred to

03:30:34.180 me that so there's this term and rachel i think you might be familiar with it uh like the alpha widow

03:30:38.880 yeah term where like once as a woman you've like met a certain caliber of guy and it might not even be

03:30:45.560 within the realm of like sex it could be his personality he's really attractive uh successful he has status

03:30:52.740 if you date like a like a i don't know a really rich guy it's gonna be hard to like go and date the

03:30:59.800 guy who lives in a dorm who shares like roommates it's like a little harder to go back to that but

03:31:06.340 like speaking within the realm of like sex i actually think that this can happen to men too

03:31:11.560 this is often framed as something that only happens to women but actually like speaking specifically on 0.99

03:31:17.300 the sex topic like once you girls have like dated a guy who can do that just right it can be hard to

03:31:24.520 like go date a guy who's kind of like subpar in the bedroom um not to say that that's all that women 1.00

03:31:31.000 care about obviously obviously not i think women care about other things far more but uh in terms of 0.99

03:31:36.680 being sexually satisfied i do think it's harder once you've like been with a guy who does it you know 0.98

03:31:41.740 just the way you want it to what the fuck okay hide that for a sec we'll pull it back up later um 0.97

03:31:46.840 i think the same can happen to a dude we can get kind of spoiled because like there's some women who 1.00

03:31:56.180 like is crazy son yeah it's like i'm talking like instant climax and then like multiples and can come

03:32:08.360 like 30 times yep i don't know what's going on over here i think yep you know something about that

03:32:16.320 it's true you speak effects word i don't know it's great you don't some of these girls like 1.00

03:32:20.920 one thrust boom premature ejaculation why here's the double standard why is it bad when it happens to a

03:32:29.320 guy okay anyways it's fine if you know again i don't think it's bad wait i know i'm kidding

03:32:34.140 the women just keep going um anyways okay not i want to move it all it's uh moving on to something 1.00

03:32:40.500 else but it's definitely the case that men can get helpful with it too

03:32:45.040 oh yeah we're gonna lower that in just a sec uh you can pull that up i think i had one chat come

03:32:54.520 through no actually we're good wait we oh the the okay i do need to pull this one back up

03:32:58.720 uh oh it's below the threshold okay uh well there it is we had cloud flying in your opinion is sex

03:33:07.840 work a legitimate career option for women today actually well we don't have nobody here has only 0.88

03:33:13.760 fans correct i do oh shit wait really i thought this was a non sorry i didn't know oh no no it's not 0.71

03:33:21.760 the problem i just i thought for some reason you guys didn't say so so you guys do of it's like

03:33:27.600 content yeah but you wouldn't know what what what do you mean you i wouldn't like my page is literally

03:33:34.140 like all music stuff like really you you subscribe to literally watch me talk about my experience in

03:33:40.520 the industry and stuff like that are you just naked while you're talking absolutely not so there's no

03:33:45.760 like adult content if you wanted to pay for stuff but it's more so like

03:33:52.720 not news more so like um lingerie stuff bikini pictures feet pictures wait and what about you

03:34:03.220 so my page is about astrology um i post about that but the reason what the reason i um started i had a

03:34:13.240 friend but she's in my close friends on instagram and i personally

03:34:16.440 hold on can you lower the volume a little bit yo stay safe thank you for the raid dude i hope you

03:34:24.800 had a good time i assume you're playing world of warcraft cataclysm just came out we're gonna

03:34:31.180 interrupt this segment here to talk about world of warcraft briefly thank you stay safe for the raid

03:34:39.300 if one of the mods can do a shout out over there on twitch thank you for the raid man appreciate it

03:34:43.340 ladies going around the table 0.99

03:34:45.540 would you date a guy who plays a female gnome warlock with pink hair

03:34:56.320 no i play video games i understand you you understand the female gnome warlock with pink hair

03:35:04.800 it's a character on the game right nick can you pull up a uh stay safe his his instagram

03:35:13.580 would you guys date this guy he's good friend close friend i'm gonna set him up with one of you

03:35:19.120 so we're gonna go around the table we'll see would you date him would you date him

03:35:22.880 i don't know if you you got his instagram guys go to twitch by the way if you're thank you if

03:35:28.660 you're over here from stay safe twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub

03:35:33.100 if you have one there it is that's definitely not his girlfriend that was about to be the first

03:35:38.460 question don't worry about that scroll scroll down definitely not um uh that's that's his sister 0.97

03:35:45.680 keep scrolling down scroll down god damn why are you posting all these trying to hook you up dude 0.85

03:35:52.640 uh keep scrolling there we go click that one the the the yeah scare scare ab lord stay safe um 0.99

03:36:04.260 so would you date a guy who plays

03:36:07.180 as a female dwarf warlock with pink hair uh and also would you just scroll down x out of that scroll 0.93

03:36:18.820 down a little bit nick so uh would you date this guy in the event that you know he

03:36:29.360 become single again no no what about you i don't know i don't even know the personality

03:36:37.480 you know gamer is not a singular personality would you date would you date no not because

03:36:45.680 of the game though no but no because of the gnome there's a few things i saw that like you'd rather

03:36:51.180 him play like human warlock no it's not about the game i don't care if he plays the character oh

03:36:56.180 you're more like horde you'd prefer if he played on the horde versus the lions what like you'd prefer

03:37:01.840 like an undead you'd prefer undead warlock i don't care what he picks as to play like a video game i

03:37:06.760 don't care about video games i love you prefer more like okay you prefer an orc warlock because of

03:37:12.440 like the stun resist for pvp sure yeah like undead has will of the forsaken but like orc you could

03:37:18.640 argue like stun resist would be a little better i have no idea what you're talking about that's

03:37:24.720 why he plays alliance a gnome which like that's more of a pve like i mean there's escape artist or

03:37:31.880 whatever but like the intellect bonus and the engineering bonus like i mean you know

03:37:37.620 what about you probably not you wouldn't date him what about i mean you're married but if you

03:37:45.980 were single um what if he serves yeah if he serves and he's like does outdoor stuff okay are

03:37:52.140 you saying like this is what he does as a career just a hobby he plays like a casual like 14 hours

03:37:57.240 a day okay what about you would you date him um not for 14 hours a day but like i don't care if he

03:38:04.060 played less like if he was like less sweaty yeah you would date him yeah sure like if he's a bit more

03:38:09.680 like like if he was a dad gamer you would date him what's a dad gamer what he is like you know

03:38:16.080 like he's in a dad guild or whatever like they play a little bit you know yeah i mean i don't really

03:38:21.020 know much about gaming but like they're wifing on lucy who's lucy lucifron molten core

03:38:27.920 this jargon yeah like they're hearts they're like hard stuck on veil in bwl

03:38:36.940 yeah i mean like that's the kind of guy you would date like a guy who's in a guild who's like hard

03:38:42.040 stuck on veil i don't know in bwl i don't know what anything you're saying means okay just checking

03:38:48.280 what about you like if you're single would you date him if he's if all he does is play video games

03:38:54.580 no like he let's just say he's in a dad guild hard stuck on veil i don't know what that means

03:39:00.840 and they're like their their roster it's like they're always struggling to like fill 40

03:39:04.860 for a raid

03:39:06.820 they're all looking at me like i can help you know that rachel's a world of warcraft expert

03:39:14.500 um i don't know what they're saying about some sims and they're they're like their raid comp is 0.96

03:39:21.860 like dog like absolute dog shit like they're bad at video games no just like the raid comp no just 0.99

03:39:28.740 like the raid comp's terrible like it's a bunch of hunters like feral druids elemental shamans like 1.00

03:39:33.700 ret paladins like just dog i know what a shaman is like totally suboptimal like and they're all 0.85

03:39:39.900 they're parsing in like 50 percentile on warcraft logs

03:39:43.500 um i don't know i i don't know if he plays that game and if he's addicted then no i'm not you 0.99

03:39:54.860 that's a fucking 50 dkp minus what the fuck was that shit okay anyways moving on thank you stay 0.98

03:40:08.820 safe for the raid appreciate it yeah guys pull up twitch guys you better i better get follows from 0.99

03:40:14.080 you guys after that guys follow me on twitch drop a follow and also oh my are we bugged or

03:40:19.280 it's been it's been a minute since the twitch prime a little oh no the tier one it's been two

03:40:25.420 minutes since i think our our twitch prime isn't working so guys drop us a follow if you enjoyed

03:40:31.060 that little world of warcraft dating segment um like i don't know if you guys know this but like

03:40:36.620 this is pretty much me like like i'm basically aoe farming like the whatever like the dating podcast

03:40:42.140 thing like like i'm basically joker d when it comes to like aoe farming noobs and shit 0.86

03:40:47.120 like you know i'm like a mage and i'm just like you know cone of cold flames flame strike cone of 0.68

03:40:53.780 cold ice nova arcane explosion blizzard blizzard blizzard like that's what i'm doing with this 0.97

03:41:00.200 podcast so you guys better follow and drop some fucking prime boys okay thank you 0.97

03:41:04.340 oh right we're gonna lower it okay anyway sorry what were we talking about what were we talking 0.98

03:41:12.600 about before this my brain just went blank yeah it was about what we were talking to you right

03:41:19.540 oh sex work oh yeah oh yeah only fans uh okay question for the panel in your opinion is sex work

03:41:28.000 short and quick answers if you can is sex work a legitimate career option for women today starting 1.00

03:41:32.420 with you going around the table i mean if you can monetize off of it then sure

03:41:36.220 i mean not for me but like do what you gotta do i guess and do what you gotta do

03:41:44.800 um i'm a supporter supporter okay no

03:41:51.360 no um again not for me but like if they have to then no no i have a question for you do you think

03:42:04.260 there's a scenario where any woman has to do sex work um yeah i don't think so but like i i can see 1.00

03:42:12.020 how like for some people like if they're really struggling for money that's the easiest option for

03:42:16.120 them and i'm not gonna say anything if that's what they choose to do or being born in 69 tts

03:42:22.560 starting now i mean you can be born into sex work i didn't know that yeah for sure like if you're

03:42:29.160 trafficked like if your mom was trafficked and then you're you have to yeah but that but sex work is a 1.00

03:42:35.300 choice like we're talking like you're choosing to make an onlyfans or you're choosing to prostitute

03:42:39.800 yourself we're not talking about child sex trafficking what i was gonna say before was um on my

03:42:45.760 close friends i like to twerk that's something i enjoy doing so that is why what yeah i actually

03:42:53.620 love it so why not like you like to twerk i do like do you i literally enjoy it okay yeah that's

03:42:59.860 valid so my friend was like you need to make ollie pants and i'm like why not because you like to

03:43:04.520 twerk i mean i could sell that so is that what you sell on you said you do tarot reading so is it

03:43:10.100 like tarot part tarot part twerking so if you were to go on my page it's astrology information

03:43:16.540 there's people that follow me for astrology but if they would like to see other things in the

03:43:20.480 messages they can buy a twerk video what's the best month for twerking um i'm not consistent it's

03:43:28.360 not my first job it's not something i'm like this is all what i'm gonna do like what zodiac

03:43:32.400 yeah like what's the best like zodiac for a twerk like are there certain like jupiter rising is that

03:43:36.680 a good time to work please i don't know that's i'm serious that's a serious question what repeat

03:43:42.340 that question i'm sorry like if it's like uh you know if you're capricorn and it's you know the that

03:43:48.420 time of the it's like like it's the jupiter rising so we gotta twerk is that like a good time to

03:43:55.680 twerk there's always a good time to twerk it's always a good time to twerk it actually um releases 0.98

03:44:00.600 trauma because you hold trauma in your hips so shake that shit wait hold on say that one more 0.98

03:44:06.260 time just the way you said it i said twerking releases trauma you hold trauma in your hips 1.00

03:44:15.240 so shake that shit what period wait what is a woman prattle are we talking about wait 1.00

03:44:22.540 holding trauma in your hips and you do twerking releases trauma yep yeah i gotta do that i got 1.00

03:44:28.680 i got some hang-ups i gotta start twerking boys it's like a voodoo witchcraft sign me up basically 0.78

03:44:33.860 sacral chakra releasing oh lord exactly but sure do you think i would benefit from twerking yes

03:44:40.380 i've got some twerk for us brian some stuff i'm just like you know whining whining his

03:44:44.720 brian's really going through some stuff going through some stuff let me go to the twerk

03:44:48.720 let's have a twerk off okay okay no honestly though if you guys can you get a prescription

03:44:55.280 from a doctor like maybe not like a md but like a homeopath doctor let me say this cloud flying

03:45:01.000 donated sixty nine dollars brian what happened to chase his last appearance was great but he's

03:45:07.740 mia six billion nine hundred and sixty nine million six hundred and ninety six thousand

03:45:13.820 nine hundred and sixty nine thank you sir uh chase uh he was on he joined me for the interview with

03:45:22.560 orion teraband but yeah he hasn't been on in a while uh i think he doesn't really like arguing with

03:45:29.340 strumpets that's what he took that's what he told me he said he doesn't like arguing with strumpets

03:45:34.860 um but uh that's kind of it jp donated sixty nine dollars won't bow because it feels like

03:45:45.480 worship but wives submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the lord for the husband 0.97

03:45:51.800 is the head of the wife as christ is the head of the church oops i think that's a tough one on this

03:45:59.140 panel because there's only like what two of us that are christians i'm a christian okay so there's

03:46:03.620 i was raised christian who's christian you're christian yes what's anonymous donated sixty

03:46:08.860 nine dollars twerk brian let's see that dumpy what where's this like did did somebody catch a 0.98

03:46:16.080 glimpse like people keep saying i have a dumpy or like a fatty you're not denying it what you gonna 0.95

03:46:22.460 do with it whoa what you gonna do uh oh no i don't know um nothing i'm good nothing what i was

03:46:37.640 gonna say was um if you look it up doing yoga as like for women it actually does release trauma

03:46:43.020 throughout your hips so twerking yoga stretching it's a thing i believe it i was gonna ask the

03:46:50.040 priest this morning for some holy water i was gonna put in a squirt gun and then when you guys

03:46:53.660 say anything like i just damn but i didn't do it so i'm kind of regretting it oh it's it's holy

03:47:03.500 water so it won't ruin your makeup it'll just like you know get you out of your pagan your pagan 0.96

03:47:09.560 nonsense i'll twerk for a bitcoin you know what somebody donates a bitcoin i'll do it so when i want 0.95

03:47:17.520 to twerk on my only fans it's a problem but you're gonna twerk for bitcoin like everybody has their 0.99

03:47:23.600 price exactly okay everybody bitcoin what is that 70k right now shit well uh what were you saying 0.96

03:47:35.900 about christians and denominations oh yeah what's your denomination i'm seventh day adventist 0.87

03:47:40.700 is that like protestant yeah okay yeah is anybody else here religious i was raised baptist oh we know

03:47:51.700 you're lds you're i was raised baptist torque god you believe in the torque god listen what would you

03:47:59.880 say like are you kind of new age or do you follow any specific thing besides astrology or um so like i

03:48:06.680 was saying i was raised in a baptist church christian my family is christian i'm sure that

03:48:11.300 if i passed away they are going to bury me as a christian like that form that's how i like i'd like

03:48:16.420 to think about it but i do um i like knowledge just like you like to read data and like science yeah

03:48:23.460 that's me so i like to learn new information and apply it to my life i would consider myself spiritual

03:48:29.100 though you would consider yourself spiritual but you don't follow like a certain path i have before

03:48:36.460 like i like i said i was raised in the church and i've also taken it upon myself while i was in

03:48:40.840 college to go to church alone and have my own relationship with god i still have a relationship

03:48:44.880 with god but i also believe in learning other forms of practice yeah i was just wondering like if you've

03:48:52.600 checked into like hinduism or theosophy or like new age or different things or i haven't or if you

03:48:59.340 just kind of do the the spirituality buffet where like i take a little yoga and a little astrology and a

03:49:04.380 little bit of this and a little bit of that and kind of mishmash it pretty much yeah what drew you

03:49:09.960 to astrology um i've always asked everybody their zodiac sign and then i started to understand how

03:49:15.760 like deep it is like your entire blueprint to your life is there so it comes down to if you want to

03:49:20.660 actually know that information or if you don't i don't i never shove it down people's throat i'm not

03:49:24.920 going to try and make people believe what i believe but i do truly believe in it it shows you

03:49:29.760 it can answer a lot in your life

03:49:32.200 the eyebrows

03:49:36.720 i'm just so caught up in this astrology talk i'm mike davis donated 69 dollars

03:49:46.100 brian i am not impressed with this panel hey i want to see prettier females in the future 1.00

03:49:52.280 sorry to disappoint mike davis i was a fan of you before but after that i don't know

03:49:58.260 wow i'd like to see your face on here speaking of yeah

03:50:01.780 scroll it down just a little bit this is mike davis he's uh he's the resident roaster he likes to

03:50:09.980 roast a lot scroll it up a little bit you're cutting off his burger king hat he owns multiple

03:50:15.420 burger kings many burger kings i like y'all breakfast actually mike davis is single so

03:50:22.120 well he doesn't like anybody over here so can i say you are you he's not impressed she's not

03:50:28.340 impressed thank god mike davis maybe say something nice and i can i can set up a date can i get you a

03:50:35.180 date with one of the ladies okay anyways uh i did want to come to you actually over here so you've

03:50:40.320 never had a boyfriend ever never you it doesn't even sound like you've been on a date no are you

03:50:45.500 are you religious at all or no just haven't found the right guy yeah okay so i mean you've never done

03:50:51.260 anything with a guy then not beside kissing okay so you're so you're a virgin then yeah and are you

03:50:58.600 waiting until marriage or no no just the right guy yeah do you have a sense of maybe you're not

03:51:04.360 waiting until marriage but like i assume you don't want to have a one-night stand too

03:51:09.580 no you'd prefer would you prefer to be like a boyfriend at least something like that okay

03:51:15.700 good times and are you um thinking maybe sophomore year is going to be the year or are you still

03:51:25.160 going to just be forever alone i mean i don't know i hope what sorry okay all right so if you don't

03:51:32.020 want to wait till marriage like i'm kidding i'm kidding how do you determine um it just seems a

03:51:37.120 little ambiguous for me like how long do you have to be with a boyfriend or i mean i don't think you

03:51:41.780 have to be with anyone for anything like or like i i'm okay with um one night stands too like i

03:51:47.480 wouldn't do it because i just don't think i'd be comfortable if i don't know the person

03:51:50.260 but you're fine with it yeah like i don't have nothing against it okay you know what we should do

03:51:55.520 we should do the bumble section so we're gonna do a segment called actually it doesn't even have a

03:52:04.380 name but we're gonna have you each get oh hold on remember memorial day donated 69 dollars

03:52:14.180 thank you hi brian u.s army veteran here joined age 28 now 33 physically slash mentally messed up

03:52:22.580 from it affecting dating life versus before lost riz body pain wondering the girl's thoughts slash 0.92

03:52:30.000 advice with ex-military so like would they date a guy who is ex-military i think i could frame the

03:52:38.160 question like that uh would you date a guy how about let me would you date a guy who's

03:52:42.300 well you did say ex-military timothy donated 69 dollars bricsom what are you gonna do with all

03:52:51.260 that junk all that junk inside your trunk you should consult your doctor to see if twerking is right for

03:52:59.180 you good the twerk doctor um thank you timothy uh so would you guys date hmm how do i frame this a 0.97

03:53:07.000 guy who was in the because he says ex-military when you date a veteran

03:53:15.400 oh i'm sorry i was reading that uh yes i would

03:53:22.680 had to reboot um yeah you would what about you yeah i mean just like any person they gotta know who

03:53:29.340 they are okay yeah absolutely i have dated um ex-military and they he had ptsd and that was

03:53:38.260 really scary so you wouldn't assume if you were single you wouldn't date somebody they saw like

03:53:44.220 combat like intense combat i would say no but if they were they didn't do much didn't see much then

03:53:50.760 i would say yeah i have no problem yeah i would date them me too rachel well uh yeah i mean if i was

03:53:58.820 if i was single and yeah if you're saying yeah okay and uh wait shoot i had a question related to this

03:54:06.060 but uh uh he's so he's joined at age 28 he's now 33 is this mason from the future oh mason good luck

03:54:17.460 mason yeah he's going off to the well he's going off to the air force dating life wondering the girl's

03:54:23.860 thoughts advice the ex-military i don't really know what kind of advice he wants

03:54:30.700 see a therapist not like in a bad way but they talk about therapy no wait hold on where there's

03:54:43.860 something else i wanted to go to wait oh i remember what it was wait so you're saying like

03:54:48.500 you and your totally off topic you said you like to argue with your husband can we do a role play

03:54:56.040 here like let me hear you angry go ahead i'm your husband take it out on me go ahead it's good it's

03:55:01.420 therapeutic you said he likes to poke you a little bit right say something mean to her okay all right 0.98

03:55:09.700 you're mad oh man like be like uh you really sucked out there on that surfboard today you know 0.99

03:55:18.200 you missed that fucking set wave what are you fucking kook so he'll watch me compete sometimes 1.00

03:55:23.920 and he'll say that kind of stuff he'll be like god you were paddling so slow why did you not wait for 0.99

03:55:28.440 the bat and um what would i say back to him but he's a good coach so i appreciate his feedback um

03:55:35.900 in the moment i'd be like that's really not a good time to be saying that to me after i just got 0.97

03:55:42.260 out of the water i don't know say it how you would say it if we were arguing that's really fucked up do 0.97

03:55:49.580 you really have to talk to me like that right now i just got out of the water let me put my jersey 0.90

03:55:53.180 away there we go that's very good well i don't know if it was good i mean it was good she got in the

03:56:00.400 roll she got into the mood because you're like kind of soft-spoken and no but there's another

03:56:06.720 there's a dark there's a dark side of cloud flying donated 69 ladies you must choose boyfriend who 1.00

03:56:14.740 thinks astrology is whack bullshite or become a submissive wife rachel what does submissive mean 0.73

03:56:21.160 to you okay so first question boyfriend who thinks astrology is whack wait what choose 0.99

03:56:27.340 so date a guy who thinks astrology is whack or become a submissive wife 0.96

03:56:33.320 okay that those are the options go together but yeah it's gonna so you have to choose

03:56:41.840 like if you're if you're if she your friend's like oh what sign are you in the guy that you're 0.89

03:56:48.580 dating is like i think that's stupid i don't believe in any of that stuff would you rather date 0.88

03:56:52.220 a bunch of men that don't believe in astrology so i mean i already don't i mean no offense i don't care 0.99

03:57:00.060 but um so yeah so the choice is you have to date a guy who thinks astrology is bullshit or you have 0.88

03:57:09.520 to do or you have to be a submissive housewife well that's yeah i think we all think that like the guy 0.97

03:57:15.880 who thinks astrology is whack is probably going to be the same guy that you're right housewife too is 1.00

03:57:21.340 that well i guess the scenario question is probably direct here here's the scenario so the boyfriend

03:57:26.800 thinks astrology is whack but it's a 50 50 relationship or you become a submissive housewife

03:57:32.740 but he's all for astrology i guess that's the um counter likely but yeah it does be the submissive

03:57:39.660 housewife yeah okay what about you i'd be the submissive housewife but why does he believe in

03:57:46.580 astrology yeah yeah i'm having a hard time with the believing in astrology thing

03:57:51.900 um i would date the guy who thinks astrology is whack i think i would be the submissive housewife

03:58:00.300 wait you would date the astrology is whack guy yeah versus being the submissive wife yeah do you not 0.73

03:58:08.020 want to be submissive in your relationship like what do you mean by submissive like bowing

03:58:13.360 what's the second part of the question yeah so the second part is rachel what does submissive mean

03:58:20.420 to you to me uh it's a biblical thing but i think in general it just means that you submit to your

03:58:28.620 husband so in all things so there's none of this um well you have to consult me first and i have to

03:58:36.520 agree with everything and you have to justify everything before you can make the decision and we

03:58:40.820 you know like that the 50 50 thing i think submission is you're saying look yes you're in

03:58:47.980 charge of everything and i submit to your will and all things but also that's because you have

03:58:52.320 all the responsibility so you need the authority to go with the responsibility right if we want the

03:58:57.300 men to defend us with their life pay for everything handle all the tough situations then they need the

03:59:03.960 authority to go along with that level of responsibility i would say so if you went home

03:59:09.760 and andrew was like rachel astrology is real mike davis donated 69 dollars nothing honorable about

03:59:22.340 being a puppet on the strings serving people who view you as disposable our enemies aren't some poor

03:59:28.120 bum in cave in afghanistan but our leaders here dot military service is low iq

03:59:33.080 is this in response to that military guy

03:59:38.480 yo mike davis thank you dude good to see you back in the chat i've been wondering where you were i know

03:59:44.940 you've been busy with them burger king franchises let me just say this mike davis

03:59:49.640 you will always be welcome at the whatever podcast you'll get it your way at the podcast mike davis

03:59:57.540 ben george donated 69 dollars would you date a paramilitary member that bows to his wife and has a phd

04:00:06.380 in astrology what

04:00:09.040 super cheddars are drinking today okay okay we'll go around then we'll come back to the

04:00:18.920 submissive thing i'll say sure

04:00:23.280 sure uh wait they believe in astrology is that what i said yeah they have a phd in it oh they have a phd

04:00:34.580 uh and they'll bow to you hmm no yeah why not no no no no no

04:00:52.040 did you want i i don't know if you two were having a she was asking something about if andrew was into

04:00:58.820 astrology which he i could totally see him doing you'll get home off the plane and he'll be like

04:01:03.620 rachel astrology is legit yeah i think we all can see andrew being super into astrology we can all

04:01:10.220 foresee that happening would you submit to that no no because the thing about biblical submission

04:01:16.920 is the one thing we don't have to submit to is if our husband is like trying to get us to do

04:01:22.440 something inherently sinful like something that is especially like a mortal sin like apostasy no

04:01:28.780 you don't have to submit to that wait i have a question in under uh orthodox christianity

04:01:35.420 is uh being an apostate punishable by death no okay is that just in islam yeah right as far as i'm

04:01:44.420 aware i don't know any other religions where they kill you for it okay i just wasn't sure explain what

04:01:49.200 an apostate is it's when you leave the religion so it's like say you're a baptized orthodox christian

04:01:54.420 and you turn your back on the religion and you no longer practice or believe it um we do think

04:01:59.740 that you'll be judged much more harshly right than somebody who was never baptized and doesn't believe

04:02:05.900 so i was never baptized jehovah's witnesses like my grandmother's a jehovah's witness so

04:02:10.620 like if you if you leave the church or whatever they shun you yeah get shunned your get shunned like your

04:02:19.680 family too yeah we have a question here from stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on the

04:02:25.780 one to ten graal zulu donated sixty nine dollars so abortion thoughts okay why not um we'll come

04:02:35.940 back to stifler's question didn't you say that you had a couple if i recall yes okay uh just really

04:02:42.840 quick uh who's show of hands who's pro-choice show of hands who's pro-choice wait

04:02:52.160 okay who's pro-life

04:02:56.100 you guys like roommates or something don't you guys live together we're neighbors oh neighbors do 0.99

04:03:04.500 you guys like argue about this shit or no we haven't never talked about it oh okay that's the 0.97

04:03:08.600 ends of that friendship going to ucsb okay uh so i don't know i don't really talk about abortion on 0.99

04:03:17.560 the show but i mean you got anything rachel you against it i'm against it against it we believe

04:03:24.900 that it's you know murder so nickelodeon donated sixty nine dollars nickelodeon ladies of the panel

04:03:34.400 of the men you've had a romantic relationship with what percentage would you say were narcissistic

04:03:39.820 or sociopathic shout out rw you were great on tim cast chen was insufferable i like lauren 0.77

04:03:47.860 not like uh not in that way but like she's been on the show i thought reasonable ray's television

04:03:56.100 donated sixty nine dollars we'll come to that nickelodeon lds girl hi sister andrew said he

04:04:02.220 wants to debate an lds person i don't think i'm ready for a conversation doctrine wise but would you

04:04:08.580 be willing if so brian slash rachel can you make it happen i mean would you want to debate

04:04:15.620 i don't know debate like andrew wilson um yeah that's i don't know if you are you a debater

04:04:22.260 i don't know if i'm like a debater i definitely feel like he would compare me to pieces i definitely

04:04:28.600 feel like i can stand up for what i believe would you rather your past partners remember you as the

04:04:34.740 best sex they've had or the best relationship they've had assume average in the other of what

04:04:40.120 you pick anime thighs are my demise okay interesting name uh really quick before we get to that we had

04:04:47.420 nickelodeon uh of the men you've had room and by the way nickelodeon i did read your chat that came

04:04:53.340 in a while back it took me a while to get to it but just wanted to let you know i did read it

04:04:57.500 mike davis donated sixty nine dollars yo md thank you the message is simple serving in the military is

04:05:03.700 nothing but beta behavior bowing to masters who wouldn't shed a tear over your death enemies aren't

04:05:09.160 abroad they're right here in a suit and tie mike davis though do you think there's been any wars

04:05:14.800 at least in the u.s history that were righteous or any military conflicts in recent history that

04:05:22.120 have been righteous wars or do you think they've all been like nah okay anyways thank you mike davis

04:05:28.640 appreciate it wait so okay we had two things here nickelodeon asks of the men you've had romantic

04:05:34.280 relationships with would you say they were narcissistic or sociopathic yes definitely how many how many men

04:05:45.140 would you say um three out of four three out of four what about you any narcissists or sociopaths

04:05:53.540 i wouldn't necessarily define it like that no okay what about you yes no no not applicable not

04:06:04.120 n a n a n a no no okay but i will say if you think the majority of your past partners have been

04:06:13.060 narcissists it's it's a you thing you're the common denominator there shot's fire yeah do you care to

04:06:19.380 respond to the accusation um it's been one of my partners and i got out of that so i'm willing to

04:06:25.280 admit that i was accepting of that and now i'm not i think if it's one like say you've dated 10 guys and

04:06:31.400 it's one that could be a one-off that could be a wild card but if it's three out of four

04:06:35.140 you gotta have bad choices in men that's what it is because it's it's honestly truly not me but

04:06:41.520 yeah to each their own

04:06:43.520 word okay and then we hit we did have from anime thighs are my demise 0.94

04:06:50.860 i'll let her read it again

04:06:54.240 anime thighs are my demise donated 69 dollars would you rather your past partners remember you as the

04:07:02.980 best sex they've had or the best relationship they've had assume average in the other of what you pick

04:07:08.900 you rather your past partners remember you as the best they've had the best relationship they've

04:07:15.340 had i'd rather be the best relationship oh best relationship relationship best relationship best

04:07:23.240 relationship best relationship best relationship me too wow that's interesting i finally have a

04:07:30.560 consensus best sex i think most guys would say that don't you think i don't know that guys would

04:07:38.420 generally rather be remembered for the best d and not like oh he was such a great boyfriend you

04:07:45.080 know what i mean yeah uh okay anyways thank you for that question um let's see here where were we

04:07:54.220 oh stifler of course stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten starting

04:08:01.860 with you go ahead ten seven seven seven seven seven i'm like right now five or six but like if i had

04:08:14.200 time to get ready and stuff probably like a seven or an eight i think a seven i'd say five

04:08:20.240 who said ten

04:08:22.780 all right now pause as somebody that likes natural women if a woman says they think them themselves are 0.84

04:08:34.440 a ten how is that bad don't you have lip filler i do

04:08:37.440 i also like modesty and women you know that's kind of a thing but i'm just gonna say it

04:08:46.400 brian you always say you two are not tens you know to you oh i didn't rate myself i'm a five

04:08:52.940 there you go average i'm average looking it was a little weight i could i could get back to a six

04:08:58.520 if i was better shape a 10 to you is a ironing board which is fine an ironing board she's saying 0.99

04:09:05.260 you don't like girls with tits and ass ah no i never said that right he just said he prefers saying 0.99

04:09:10.960 i would prefer a girl so that's a 10 to you though right what do you mean no no no okay it was 1.00

04:09:16.140 about plastic surgery i'm not saying your big boobs are nice big butt is nice i'm not but if 1.00

04:09:23.080 it's a choice between flat boobs and fake titties i'd prefer small flat over fake titties now if you're 1.00

04:09:33.020 like would you prefer a c cup over a cup i'd have a slight preference for the c cup but i don't i'm a 0.99

04:09:39.920 labia guy but here's my thing think of like a woman that we know who you would consider a 10 yeah 1.00

04:09:45.340 like what celebrity yeah there's no tens okay period i'll accept that so when you're talking

04:09:53.080 about like modesty too though are you referencing there's face and body those are two different

04:09:58.460 categories okay i have a question so if the woman because you say you don't rate 10 it's just at

04:10:03.960 most probably a nine right yeah okay so say that person you would rate a nine and then you ask them

04:10:10.280 would you how would you rate yourself and they say nine because they rate themselves exactly as you

04:10:15.160 would does that not count because it's not modest or or would you then deduct points if my if you're

04:10:23.020 nine assessment of them is that they're nine and they're they're saying they're nine yeah i wouldn't

04:10:27.520 object to their assessment no just generally curious yeah yeah does your modesty lend itself to other

04:10:33.100 aspects or is it just like what do you mean how well so you say you like modest women yeah how they 0.98

04:10:38.420 talk about themselves do you like modest women when it comes to clothing and things like that 1.00

04:10:42.600 okay yeah i don't want to date a girl who's uh like it's not a huge like she's got a bikini photo on 0.86

04:10:51.700 her instagram it's not like i mean i would prefer if she had honestly no social media at all or minimal

04:10:58.060 social media or a private social like private instagram right and she posted tasteful modest

04:11:03.560 photos um so yes i do prefer modesty in those realms too public facing modesty absolutely um yeah

04:11:12.780 okay so when you guys say you're a 10 does that mean that you think you are perfect looking or is it

04:11:20.020 more like i'm a 10 she doesn't think she's perfect because she wants to get plastic right right that's 1.00

04:11:23.800 what i was asking good argument that's what i was asking you you said you're a 10 but you said you 0.94

04:11:28.440 want lip filler and fake tits and uh the hip fillers the hip fillers and do and botox yeah well 1.00

04:11:37.300 how can you possibly be a 10 if you want those cosmetic procedures i can still feel like i'm a 10 0.86

04:11:42.000 because i know that i'm beautiful i just want to be more beautiful but hold on if you're you can't

04:11:47.340 be more beautiful than most beautiful room for improvement right i want to break the scale you you want

04:11:53.460 uh-huh break the scale break the scale well you got to eat a lot more food if you want to do that

04:11:57.720 why is that you got you got to get obese you got to get sorry i'm just wondering why that's so

04:12:02.920 important to you why this but ebony to donated 69 dollars what is ebony's only van's name i like

04:12:09.800 the barely there short shorts but i need to know if she has the proper size kicks to work d it's 1.00

04:12:15.800 actually a skirt but it's fine um yeah i don't disclose that but thank you though it sounds to me

04:12:23.100 like you think that if you can achieve physical perfection it'll like make up for something it'll

04:12:28.260 fix something in your life is that why or like why do you value your looks like so much i've just

04:12:34.560 always been into that like since i was a kid like i've always been into like beauty and stuff like that

04:12:39.780 like i used to wake up at three in the morning to do my hair why it was three that i did was it

04:12:46.940 because uh you wanted to i was just people to perceive you a certain way or this for me like

04:12:52.780 when i feel like i look good i feel good do you feel like you have more to offer than your looks

04:12:59.780 of course okay i was just wondering if there was a connection with like you've dated mostly narcissists

04:13:06.520 and guys who were like you would say abusive to you like emotionally like you said you were forced

04:13:13.060 to an abortion and these guys are narcissists you have picked bad men and then you're hyper focused

04:13:17.520 on your looks does that kind of sounds like it all goes together to me like a package i mean it could but

04:13:24.420 it is what it is um okay i mean i just want to say the question i feel like all comes down to it's

04:13:34.060 subjective so how do i feel about myself that's how i answered it i'm not gonna say that i'm a 10

04:13:38.480 to you a 10 to you a 10 to you or you guys could feel as though you're a seven to myself i'm gonna

04:13:42.520 answer 10 because that's how i feel about myself so you don't think there's like an objective standard

04:13:46.540 of beauty like there is but for myself wait what so subjective that's what i said that's what i said

04:13:55.260 yeah what she was asking you do you think there's an objective standard of beauty so like you could

04:14:00.700 have 10 people in a line and objectively one would be an eight and another one would be a four

04:14:06.140 yeah

04:14:12.060 but the question as far as how it was asked

04:14:18.540 asked everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten so i answered how

04:14:23.980 i felt but that's all i'm saying i wasn't asked to rate everybody sitting here i was asked to rate

04:14:29.880 myself so i feel that was

04:14:32.540 pa donated 69 dollars patriotic helmet girl is pretty damn close to a 10 it is not just about looks

04:14:42.540 she is the whole package

04:14:44.540 speaking of which show us the other side

04:14:50.700 you guys uh do you guys like the change up you prefer the hat over the helmet nick pull up the

04:14:56.380 pull up the uh pull up the chat pull up the chat let's see the chat guys do you prefer the helmet or the

04:15:02.940 chat or the hat do you prefer the helmet oh nick exposed uh do you prefer this hat or the helmet in general i

04:15:14.140 know it's like memorial day weekend but that the flag hat or the german helmet 0.99

04:15:22.220 flag or helmet bojang was donated 69 dollars would you rather your hypothetical lonely son use sex 0.99

04:15:30.300 workers or have an ai girlfriend which of the two is worse 1.00

04:15:34.220 would you rather your heavenly lonely son use sex workers 0.99

04:15:42.300 i'm gonna go with i gotta go with ai girlfriend i'd prefer the ai girlfriend 0.99

04:15:47.980 i would say the same thing because diseases exist yeah

04:15:53.340 i prefer the ai girlfriend for sure 0.99

04:15:55.180 i want to say depends on how far ai advances uh because for one i mean are we gonna get real 0.58

04:16:02.620 human connection that way can they learn something you'll get that from a sex worker

04:16:06.380 you can't oh well i mean they're still gonna they're they're there for a reason yes um but i think

04:16:12.940 there's at least still a smidgen more opportunity to learn human behavior if that makes sense from a

04:16:20.380 sex worker well i mean you still get to read some body language you can still maybe tell if they're

04:16:24.460 not really as into it as they would like to be you know you can you can read someone even when they're

04:16:29.260 wait is that what you want in a sex worker encounter that she's not into jerry donated 69 0.95

04:16:36.060 it's my birthday and would love for y'all to sing happy birthday we'll do for champagne pop you do

04:16:40.940 champagne pop the rate for it is in the description we'll we'll pop champagne for you and we will sing

04:16:47.900 you happy birthday if you pop a champagne bottle uh let's do quick answers on this so 0.95

04:16:55.100 would you rather your hypothetical lonely son you have use a sex worker or have an ai girlfriend 0.99

04:17:00.940 ai ai is it just for sex or is it like what is it for like a relationship both so the ai is a 1.00

04:17:12.220 girlfriend and the sex worker is probably just gonna be for sex yeah like he's okay wait and then the ai 0.97

04:17:22.460 ai ai ai i guess ai dystopian future okay um so let's see here oh we were talking about the

04:17:31.740 rating thing okay well i have a couple clarifying questions here for you guys

04:17:34.860 here's another test all else being equal do you think you will be more physically attractive in 10

04:17:44.620 years time for you and you actually we'll ask everybody this yeah okay so you're 24 so you'll

04:17:52.300 be more physically attractive at 34. hell yeah okay what about you and i hope so i mean i i you're 25 so

04:17:59.340 more attractive at 35 i aim to work towards that future okay but so okay what about you you're 28

04:18:07.580 will you be more attractive at 38 than you are now yep okay what about you no no um no but i

04:18:18.460 think that i'm more attractive now than when i was 10 years younger so you're more attractive now at 32

04:18:23.980 than you were at 22 yeah question do you have any photos of you at 22 that we can open this up to the

04:18:30.940 i might chat but they're like old facebook stuff with stupid like filters that like i don't know 0.65

04:18:42.780 let me look uh what about you yeah do you think you'll be so you're 18 you'll be more attractive at 0.96

04:18:50.060 28 yeah okay you're 18 you'll be more attractive at 28 yes i guess rachel you too on this absolutely

04:18:58.300 not like that's total that's peak delusional to think that you're gonna be hotter in 10 years i

04:19:04.700 this is one of the ones that just stumps me when we're like oh i'll totally be hotter in 10 years like

04:19:10.380 even if you look good for your age in 10 years even if you like lost weight things like that it's like

04:19:16.380 you don't get hotter as you age as a woman that's not how it works like attractiveness physical 1.00

04:19:22.860 attract some some women that really do okay so like j-lo looks great for being 60 or whatever

04:19:29.900 she is but j-lo is not hotter at 60 than she was at 30 or 20. because you said beyonce is not hotter now

04:19:38.460 than she was 20 years no none of these women gorgeous as they are at an older age are hotter now than they 1.00

04:19:44.540 were when they were young i'm gonna allow i'm gonna allow that because you said physically okay but i

04:19:50.380 really think that knowledge is sexy yeah but we're talking about physical attractiveness i will say

04:19:55.260 i will say that um i think in general people who are 10 years younger are way more attractive

04:20:02.700 for me in particular i think i got cuter i think there's some people that might have like a drastic

04:20:09.580 transformation like say you were 250 pounds when you were 22 and then you get in shape and you look

04:20:15.820 amazing like 10 years later okay but like in general outlier situation yeah yeah and all things being

04:20:21.980 equal yeah that is the question all things being equal so people like to do this thing of like

04:20:26.860 well yeah at 21 i was morbidly obese and then at 31 i was in i was healthy body weight

04:20:37.820 got the excess skin removed got plastic surgery perfected my skill with makeup whatever it is

04:20:44.700 uh it's comparing like imagine you had all those things oh i learned how to dress better i did my

04:20:50.700 makeup better lost weight skin care etc if you had all those things at 21 and at 31 how can the answer

04:21:00.540 not be you're better looking at 21 or you could think of it this way take two eights two women who are 1.00

04:21:06.700 an eight they're exactly the same on the attractiveness scale but one of them is 35 and one of them is 22

04:21:13.020 men are gonna go for the 22 year old every single time i think you also have to consider too like we're

04:21:17.740 all women and i don't know how many of you want to have children but like i will definitely have 1.00

04:21:21.740 children within the next 10 years and that will take a toll on my body and so yeah i'm not going to be

04:21:29.500 more attractive in 10 years from yeah so we found um oh god we found a picture of you this is actually

04:21:38.780 11 years ago april 5th 2013 your very first photo oh on instagram nick i'm gonna link that in the private

04:21:46.460 chat linked linked okay april 5th 2013 the chat is going to compare

04:21:58.700 granted we have you in 1080p and this is from 2013 but you can uh yeah sure no it's fine

04:22:09.580 oh god yeah so that's you uh nick hide uh move us up please

04:22:19.500 so oh just hi so it's april 5th 2013 so what that's 11 years ago right if my mouth serves me

04:22:27.100 okay get your cheek off i know was she i mean look it's one photo compared to you know studio lighting 0.98

04:22:35.980 she's cuter you oh my god mid to mid what the fuck guys be nice okay uh 0.99

04:22:55.580 i would say you look the same too pretty much like you look you're still attractive 0.99

04:22:59.900 when you're still attractive yeah like you look like you've aged a little bit but you're not like

04:23:03.660 unattractive

04:23:13.420 okay you can you can i don't know i think

04:23:18.780 i don't know i think you look great thanks really what do you think your husband would say

04:23:24.060 oh yeah you guys been dating for eight years oh well i think you'd say that i'm

04:23:34.060 more attractive now i don't know i don't know what he would say he's a pretty realistic guy i don't know

04:23:41.820 you think he would cause an argument if he were to tell her you were hotter you were hotter eight

04:23:47.500 years ago you think that would be a good thing for your boyfriend well so um my husband and i

04:23:54.140 watched the show together and we have discussions about the questions that you asked okay and so

04:24:00.060 when we first started watching the rate your looks thing we rated each other yeah oh really yeah what did

04:24:06.460 he give you he gave me i think like a 6.5 good for him yeah is he watching right now what's up dude

04:24:13.740 actually let's let's hit ring call what's that he's actually asleep because he's gonna go to work

04:24:18.060 at midnight okay but he'll watch this when he wakes up um but yeah he's pretty realistic i think he

04:24:25.180 thinks i'm more attractive now okay i was just like a dorky 20 year old i wasn't like this cute

04:24:31.740 i was a dork i don't know you know yourself better and it shows yeah by the way just want to be clear 0.98

04:24:37.580 like with this whole thing uh like i don't it's not like oh you're 32 you're worthless you're 0.86

04:24:46.780 unattractive it's not that and it's not to say that women who are in their 30s there's absolutely

04:24:52.220 beautiful attractive women's uh in their uh excuse me 30s 40s etc it's not like oh once you hit 30 once

04:25:00.060 you hit 40 you're just unattractive no not not at all no but it's more so like okay well like if we're

04:25:05.820 just looking at this we're zooming out we're looking at it just kind of objectively look were

04:25:11.820 you more attractive at 25 versus 35 and aging is a biological reality when you say more attractive

04:25:18.700 too like you mean strictly physically because i think a lot of people are incorporating like oh

04:25:23.260 maybe i will have done this with my career maybe i will like this is my personality i'm more confident

04:25:28.140 in my skin and so i mean i but here's the thing even with that i i mean unless a girl's an absolute 1.00

04:25:35.020 mess in her 20s i don't think people tend to get i mean they can but like a lot of people get jaded

04:25:43.500 as they get older yeah like me personally me personally i was much more optimistic i was probably

04:25:50.620 more uh pleasant and optimistic 10 years ago now i'm jaded it is what it is people got so mad when

04:25:59.500 andrew rated me a six on here oh they were like how could you i would divorce him immediately he's

04:26:05.180 such a terrible abusive awful person i was like i rate my i rated myself a five because i was streaming 0.57

04:26:11.100 at the same time and i was like oh i'd give myself a five and people got mad about that too so so who's

04:26:16.060 a 10 to you oh who would you say is a 10 to you um probably like grace kelly or like uh uh vivian

04:26:26.220 lee the actress who played scarlet and gone with the wind like she's just her facial symmetry is

04:26:33.420 insane and gorgeous i have a question i'm just a normal midwestern mom so both of you said you'll

04:26:39.420 be better looking in 10 years both of you but you also said that you're currently 10 is donated 69

04:26:49.500 dollars given the societal emphasis on youth and beauty why do you think many people strive to look

04:26:55.900 younger rather than embracing their natural aging process is this a rhetorical question or i mean he

04:27:04.540 kind of answered his own question people strive to look younger because there's an emphasis on youth

04:27:10.780 than beauty ripped rich and rare donated 69 rachel how does it feel to have a beta fat boy husband 1.00

04:27:19.740 that has bigger tits than you that's a bag of trash men don't have tits pull up his shirt and tell me 1.00

04:27:26.620 you're fucking proud of that shit andrew is super hot so you're barking up the wrong tree and he does 1.00

04:27:32.940 not have tits he was like hunched over on the stool he's gorgeous what would you rate your husband 1.00

04:27:38.460 i think he's an eight and a half he thinks that that's insane but andrew's a handsome guy he's 0.99

04:27:43.260 a handsome he's a handsome guy he's a handsome guy um wait so okay you both rated yourselves tens you

04:27:50.620 think you'll both be better looking in 10 years so you're 24 you're 28 so at 34 38 how can you

04:27:57.740 possibly be a 10 now if you will be better looking in 10 years time i could still be a 10 how's that

04:28:05.020 i could still be a 10 it's woman math ryan i don't get it though like if you're gonna be

04:28:13.100 better looking now and then like progress and still be a 10 okay you want me to change my answer

04:28:20.460 okay no i'm a six don't change your answer don't know i don't know i just want to don't i want to

04:28:25.420 rate myself what i want to rate myself so you know i'm gonna go around the table on one last thing on

04:28:28.700 this and then we're gonna move on how about 20 years will you be more physically attractive in 20 0.65

04:28:34.780 years time so i'll be 44 um yeah 0.98

04:28:44.540 but the thing is is black don't crack so erroneous oh i you're yeah well black don't crack so 0.90

04:28:51.980 oh i'm gonna age differently than most people 30 years i still look good my mom looks amazing 0.96

04:29:02.860 erroneous she does erroneous

04:29:07.100 will will you look better in 30 years than you do now okay in 30 years i wouldn't say i look

04:29:14.700 better that'll be like you'll be kind of at the end of the peak at 54 yeah

04:29:20.300 i wouldn't be a 20 anymore i'd be a 15 like so you think like 44 that's like kind of the peak

04:29:27.660 no oh when's your peak 70 all right okay that's a troll answer now i don't know what your answer

04:29:34.940 was uh better looking in 20 years i said i would try to aim for that yeah no but you think you will

04:29:41.740 be better looking in 20 years at the rate i'm taking care of myself yes so you'll be better looking

04:29:47.020 at 45 than you are now at 25 oh at 45 i'm sorry i thought we should say no 20 years so 20 years no

04:29:52.380 i mean i think there's 10 but so 10 years yes 20 years 20 years i think there's gonna be some uh

04:29:56.860 mileage okay no not in 20 years are you just don't tell me what i want here no honestly that's

04:30:06.380 junior that's being delusional all right yeah no no no no definitely not all right uh well there you

04:30:15.660 have it folks um we are going to do uh one question then i'm gonna have maddie sit down for a little 1.00

04:30:21.020 bit uh do you guys object oh beat a girl donated 999 pop champagne all right to drinking oh yeah

04:30:36.380 yeah opera singer can you do the uh magic flute song again again yeah really quick can she sing 1.00

04:30:42.220 the happy birthday song to the guy turn what down nick maybe not since he didn't wait what audio

04:30:52.700 where did you turn it down where are you gonna turn it down like i don't work for free

04:30:59.500 i don't know if that's gonna help but okay fine yeah do it we're gonna pop champagne did you do it

04:31:07.500 nick yeah okay go ahead magic flute boom um

04:31:27.900 look at that you got a champagne pop and some opera mozart did you turn it

04:31:32.140 class you turned it back up nick all right here we go let's see if i can get it this time

04:31:37.900 all right boys while we're doing that um

04:31:45.660 i'll just ask a throwaway question really quick while i'm getting this champagne figured out

04:31:51.980 who's the primary victim who's the primary victim of war men or women starting with you going around

04:31:58.220 the table of war huh of war yeah men yeah men are dying men men men men men men men all right

04:32:13.740 rachel you got any questions for the girls while i get the champagne going um

04:32:20.140 somebody already asked the narcissism question um do you guys think there's any correlation

04:32:27.740 between the amount of kids that are born out of wedlock nowadays and the growth of the welfare

04:32:34.700 state do you think that those connect at all what was your question again so like in 1960 i think it

04:32:43.100 was something like five percent of babies in the u.s were born out of wedlock now it's something like 40

04:32:49.580 do you think that that change in a short period of time like we're talking 50 years do you think that

04:32:55.980 had any bearing on the growth of the welfare state yeah over that same time period yes but i also

04:33:02.700 think there's other factors that go into it like do you need some help people don't really care to be

04:33:10.300 married anymore can i get a paper towel or something

04:33:12.700 there you go i need a little leverage okay there we go oh there you go that reaction

04:33:29.340 cheers cheers okay uh we'll get that going uh who's over 21

04:33:39.820 sorry guys

04:33:42.460 one day

04:33:44.860 do i get extra because i'm the oldest you can have mine i don't drink alcohol

04:33:48.780 rachel while i'm sure i don't all right see that's been my problem boys i got clammy hands

04:33:55.500 do i get to keep this sweet cup like for breakfast yes you can have it yeah as a

04:34:05.260 memento if it's mixed yeah you can't even find these cups that's what i'm saying we're

04:34:11.740 we're running out yeah we are running out of these i'm gonna put it in like a shadow box and keep it

04:34:15.980 for years oh wait that's it i guess just me and you are you getting one no thank you oh you said

04:34:22.940 it gives her a headache okay do you want some uh here just gerald donated 69 dollars mrs wilson

04:34:32.300 if there is one book i must read what is the title it's this one occult feminism the secret

04:34:40.220 history of women's liberation has everything you need to know in it cheers to

04:34:50.460 bears bears to bear to bears for taking one cheers

04:35:01.420 also cheers to whoever uh it was a b-day girl get to drinking and singing oh we were going to do

04:35:10.060 happy birthday okay uh we'll do the truncated short version of this right i don't know do you want

04:35:16.780 to lead lead us here all right happy birthday gmd jim donated 69 dollars brian even though we placed

04:35:25.820 embargoes and froze japan's bank accounts here before pearl harbor our war with japan was our only

04:35:33.100 righteous war in the last 150 years because of their attack on our soil i would say not even that

04:35:41.500 was i would go back to before uh world war one personally civil war yeah i think that everything

04:35:49.020 from from world war one on has had like false flags and shenanigans and fuckery going on including

04:35:55.900 world war two yes exactly yep okay cool uh so b-day girl

04:36:05.340 cherry it's my birthday and would love for you all to sing happy birthday to me

04:36:09.020 uh okay to to cherry ben george donated 69 dollars to your previous discussion 18 year old men see women as

04:36:20.300 hot between 18 to 20 men that are 60 see women as hot from 18 to 50 the older a man is the wider range of

04:36:29.260 choice word isn't it the case though i've seen some like a study or a chart that showed that even as men

04:36:36.940 got older they in terms of what they just deemed most physically attractive not uh factoring in other

04:36:43.580 things it was like 20 to 20 to 22 23 typically was the range of like hey who's the most attractive

04:36:52.540 physically i don't know anyways uh happy birthday to you happy birthday to you happy birthday dear cherry 0.99

04:37:06.060 whatever the fuck your name is happy birthday to you cheers okay so where were we we were talking oh do you 0.99

04:37:17.100 object to a man caring about a woman's body count do you object to that i would understand why someone would 1.00

04:37:29.020 care but that's all i'm gonna say about it tell us how you really feel say with your chest yeah

04:37:41.660 i just feel like if men can have high body counts why can't women if that's what if that was their choice

04:37:49.500 i have so many thoughts but okay yeah we'll get we'll get everybody's answers

04:37:53.020 and so for you uh you would object to a man caring about a woman's body count yeah that could be like

04:38:02.460 is he insecure why does he care blank ken donated 69 dollars so andrew's wife lifts weights and he

04:38:11.020 doesn't interesting lol she's just as aggressive too queen pick me this is not a dating pod this is a 1.00

04:38:18.700 men's rights and grievance pod you became what you hate i'm not a men's rights advocate yeah that's me

04:38:26.460 get it right ken um we talk about dating look we're talking about body count right now uh do you object

04:38:34.540 to men caring about a woman's body count um i just don't personally see why it matters but i mean you do

04:38:43.980 you okay uh same like now i said i can understand why but i also think that it should not be a thing

04:38:55.180 what should not be a thing um a man caring about a woman's body count okay no men should care and they

04:39:04.460 should know your body count before they do anything with you no i don't object um i think i like a

04:39:13.580 certain like i think they should care like at a certain point but like i don't think it should

04:39:18.300 be like a like a huge deal no it shouldn't be a huge deal yeah or it depends like how much it is maybe

04:39:24.860 like but i find that interesting seeing as like you're a virgin um you don't really have any skin in 0.91

04:39:31.100 the game when it comes to this like yeah you don't have a body count to be judged by i suppose a man could

04:39:37.580 judge you for not having a body count although i think that's exceedingly rare perhaps the only 0.62

04:39:42.780 men that would judge you are the ones who are desirous of just having quick immediate sex with 0.96

04:39:48.460 you and they would perhaps deem it unlikely to have quick sex with you given that you're a virgin

04:39:54.460 i mean yeah i really don't have much of an opinion i guess but like if i had to say something 0.73

04:40:01.980 you know like would you fund like you despite like being a virgin yourself would you find it

04:40:07.340 unappealing if a guy was like i wouldn't date a girl who has a body count of more than three 0.99

04:40:13.420 um yeah really even though you yourself are a virgin that's interesting united states donated 69

04:40:23.020 brian please ask the panel who voted for our president and chief joe biden in 2020.

04:40:28.460 uh okay i'll come back to that in a sec um so wait why like if a guy was like i don't want to date a

04:40:35.020 girl who's has a body count more than five you object to that oh i mean like it's up to him if

04:40:41.500 he doesn't want to date that that's his own choice right but you would be like i mean i don't feel a

04:40:46.220 type of way about it because i mean i guess we all have our in our mind we all have a number that we

04:40:50.940 think is like like kind of extreme or not and to me i don't think five is like that crazy but like

04:40:57.580 i mean everyone has a different opinion so like if they think five is too much like that's their

04:41:01.580 thing so like i guess i wouldn't object that much like they i you know would you date a guy who

04:41:07.900 didn't want to date a woman who had a body count of over 10 yeah over five 1.00

04:41:17.420 or do you think then he's getting into like judgy territory and you wouldn't want to date a guy like

04:41:22.140 that um yeah i think um i don't yeah i don't think i would date that so you would not date a guy who

04:41:38.380 would not date a woman with a body count of over five ben george donated 69 dollars happy birthday cherry

04:41:47.340 brian give her nine of the 69 lol you probably won't i don't get it give her is that like

04:41:58.540 okay thank you ben george go ahead oh he means because you're not a fan of you know that that

04:42:03.580 thing yeah yeah yeah brian yeah sorry it's your yeah even if it's your birthday i'm not doing that 0.97

04:42:10.060 shit it's not going down at all i don't huh you don't get paid at all nope damn i want her to okay 0.95

04:42:15.980 we'll get into it like i want i want her to you give him we're not wait we're not oh my you thought 0.99

04:42:24.220 we were no she's married to andrew wilson bruv he's bright yeah i'm brian we're not this is my this is

04:42:31.660 my homie she's my caucasian don't get it don't get it twisted she is my caucasian but she's married 1.00

04:42:37.580 to andrew wilson put some respect put some respect on the name put some respect on the name i'm sorry

04:42:43.980 show me about i need a bow now oh my god show apology bow i need an apology bow let's see it

04:42:51.420 you can do it seated go ahead i'll i'm generous i'm nice apology bow go ahead

04:42:57.820 i can just give you an apology i'm sorry i was deeply offended this whole time i thought you two

04:43:03.980 were married no put some put some respect put some respect he's a single on andrew put some

04:43:11.420 respect on andrew wilson's name i'm sorry andrew wilson i want you to look into this camera and

04:43:17.500 apologize to andrew wilson i am sorry andrew wilson thank you i forgive you

04:43:25.980 she is my caucasian though it's true she's my caucasian my husband is usually

04:43:30.060 half the time sitting in the seat he's he's here frequently yeah

04:43:35.900 no okay look i'll answer your thing really quickly okay so i absolutely care about my

04:43:40.620 partner's sexual pleasure preferably i make her come before i come multiple times if possible but 1.00

04:43:47.180 i just uh that specifically that specific sexual act not really my thing i let you know we could use

04:43:52.940 hands we can even use toys i'd rather use hands there's other ways look sometimes the girl can come 1.00

04:43:58.140 from and of course that works too i want her to come first preferably multiple times that's my 0.87

04:44:03.420 goal i care about her pleasure just sexual boundary don't really like to do it did you have a bad

04:44:08.300 experience no not really just uh i don't know i got neck problems okay that's my cop out that's my 0.99

04:44:16.380 cop out i do actually have neck problems look i got fucking i got ice packs right here yeah please 0.98

04:44:21.260 probably shown sorry madison ben george donated 69 dollars give her nine bucks of the 69 bucks 0.97

04:44:30.940 it's her birthday where is your mind come on ben george it was you who was all being sus with the

04:44:36.780 the six and the nine and the

04:44:43.180 okay thank you thank you dude appreciate it how did we get into that though um because you just

04:44:49.660 curious question oh yeah it was literally the 69 and it was the you don't nine oh yeah yeah so

04:44:54.540 that's true yeah wait but i have to ask you're a labia guy right what huge you just want to look at

04:45:01.100 it yeah just like to look at it so you you appreciate it from a distance well

04:45:09.340 big lady matter hashtag big lady matter um yeah this is my non-profit movement but

04:45:16.460 yeah i'm a fan yeah but i mean like you can appreciate it like in other ways i guess no sure

04:45:23.900 visually but also i mean is it a sensory thing penally i enjoy it penally 0.52

04:45:30.540 sure i mean i heard the other stuff you said you like to do and i respect that that's fair

04:45:34.220 but yeah i'm not i'm not judging i'm just asking i'm just curious what it is yeah what do you mean

04:45:40.380 is it like you're curious right i don't get it it feels like what no what do you what do you mean

04:45:46.620 what curious about what like the smell like the smell don't even put don't put those thoughts in my

04:45:53.660 head rachel oh so it is the smell i don't know i want to know we're we're women yeah i feel like

04:45:59.660 it's it's like kind of graphic to articulate why i like large labia you're willing to admit it

04:46:08.540 you're willing to admit it though that's true so we're already i actually i only date women with 1.00

04:46:14.460 large labia you ask on the first date doubling down how do you deny that how do you know first

04:46:21.340 first i don't ask oh uh so what do you like to do for fun i don't ask you know uh what do you what's

04:46:29.100 important to you he's like how do you feel what are your values you like so on a dating app that's

04:46:34.220 the first thing you ask very early on you know i respect that what's what's the status of the

04:46:40.060 late how often does that work uh 65 of the time it works every time i'm kidding i will date i will 0.91

04:46:52.700 date women with innies so there's outies there's got there's outies and innies i will look y'all 1.00

04:46:59.340 women have penis size preferences huh no surprise y'all want a big dick i want big labia what's up 1.00

04:47:06.620 no nothing wrong just curious i'm just y'all have preferences men are allowed to have preferences 0.99

04:47:12.060 i'm just the only one i'm the spearhead of this movement i'm a trail brazer trailblazer

04:47:17.740 groundbreaker sorry i'm i'm a lightweight i don't drink so i'm already drunk um i'm the trailblazer of

04:47:24.220 this movement i want to i want to help women i want to be i'm a feminist this is a this actually is a

04:47:31.180 feminist point about so you're a feminist absolutely i'm a feminist i am a feminist 0.57

04:47:37.900 through and through i believe big lady you got those like labia murals on the wall kind of thing 1.00

04:47:42.940 he's got a lot of georgia

04:47:46.940 it's true it is true but i will say look i will say i don't even know where i was going uh

04:47:53.900 it's art no i'll tell you what i you know what i'm actually a nice guy though i will give a little

04:47:59.420 leeway on the body count thing you know like if you have an innie but you can have double the body

04:48:06.300 count what if you have an audi wow that's the that's the bro math a compromise so if she has 0.93

04:48:12.940 like an audi she's like in terms of the threshold for like would date would not date double the body 0.99

04:48:19.020 count is acceptable if she has an audi okay can i also ask does body count matter like over a period

04:48:24.140 of time like say they had like a wild like younger years oh yeah that's a bad thing but like okay but

04:48:29.660 say it's been five years since they've done anything like that does that help i got something for you

04:48:36.860 i'm just curious yeah abdul yeah get the rock get the rocks sorry i'm sorry but yeah it's just to the

04:48:44.540 monastery to the sorry nunnery to the nunnery you must go just curious to the nunnery you must go look

04:48:53.580 i'm just saying oh why you guys were asking why i like the labia thing i don't know no we were

04:48:58.300 wondering what you're we'll just do you really want to know i'm kind of curious you're curious about it's

04:49:04.620 interesting to me like a guy who's like super adverse to that like why wait like the guys who

04:49:12.460 would averse like i ain't going down there like oh to to the the the uh i'm just curious like what

04:49:19.420 about it oh i thought oh okay i thought you were talking about okay well i mean so okay there's a

04:49:26.700 couple things right like you can't you definitely can't be doing this this is my advice to guys who

04:49:30.620 are inclined to do it you can't do it with like you're just meeting the girl because you haven't

04:49:35.340 vetted her properly so like yeah if she's like dating other dudes sleeping with other dudes you 1.00

04:49:43.420 can't you can't do it it could linger it lingers a couple days you know it could linger if the guy's

04:49:49.020 blasting hasn't been wearing a rubber it lingers okay right ladies that i understand you have morning 0.92

04:49:57.100 sex but like what if it's your wife right five years she's only been with you for like and she 1.00

04:50:02.220 she could be my wife and a virgin i still ain't wait so what is it then like take out the whole 0.88

04:50:09.260 i got neck problems look at this i'm wearing a ice pack

04:50:11.980 yeah yeah yeah that's no no it's too that's too dominant in the bedroom she can't okay no i can't

04:50:19.820 she can't no she can't no she's not gonna sit on my face okay it's way too dominant 0.99

04:50:24.860 way too dumb sorry okay i think i have no fun at all i feel like we haven't learned anything but 0.50

04:50:33.180 that's okay wait you haven't learned anything like learned about why you like or well like 0.98

04:50:38.780 sorry wait there's two different questions here there's there's labia thing and then there's the 0.99

04:50:42.700 oral sex thing there's two different things what's your question go ahead um to the very religious 0.99

04:50:48.540 women do you guys s the d that but also get eaten is that a thing that you guys do lds i mean

04:50:58.540 don't think that's if you don't i don't i don't know that my husband would want me to answer so i'll

04:51:02.940 just say all i'll say is are you allowed we have a lot of fun together period okay good we have a lot

04:51:09.260 of fun together yeah i mean that's but i would okay i would echo that i would say that it's i'm not gonna

04:51:16.540 speak details but no you enjoy your time together oh yeah we enjoy it yeah love that but that's i

04:51:22.300 think that people think that if you're religious and married that it's like stuffy and missionary

04:51:27.100 that's why i'm asking no it's definitely not just no that's what i'm asking once you're married i

04:51:31.260 feel like it's a go yeah yeah okay that's and it's even better because you're married to them yeah

04:51:37.020 i feel like i feel like that's one of the main benefits of it to be honest like one better be

04:51:42.860 the one yeah i have a question for you so being a virgin and you know we're talking about men having

04:51:51.100 objection to body count would you and you don't have to answer if you're not comfortable would you

04:51:55.740 feel comfortable losing your virginity to a guy who had a body count of 20 or 50 or do you care about

04:52:01.500 the guy's body count that takes your virginity i mean if we're in a relationship and i feel

04:52:06.380 comfortable with him i wouldn't care okay so he could have slept with like 50 women before you 0.86

04:52:12.140 i mean i have a limit as well but like um like 20 i'm like okay but i guess so what's your limit like

04:52:19.020 hands this is this is a really interesting differential here between men and women though

04:52:23.340 and rachel maybe you can weigh in on this is even the virgin woman has no objections right to dating a guy 0.98

04:52:30.060 who has a high body count sleeping with a guy who has a high body count yeah i mean i disagree but

04:52:36.700 well that's what i was gonna say is like morally and ethically right from my christian worldview

04:52:43.180 ideally both people are very virtuous as far as sex and hopefully both virgins when they're married 0.89

04:52:49.020 that'd be great that'd be the ideal that's what we want but in the real world we run into this problem

04:52:55.180 where women don't care about men's body count in fact a woman if there's like a 25 year old guy who's 1.00

04:53:01.820 a virgin they're like what's wrong with you right they almost they are and they're like yeah what have 0.99

04:53:07.020 they been doing right like yeah yeah whereas we see guys who can rack up a high body count as

04:53:14.380 desirable and successful sexually like we see other women want them so we want them yeah even us like good 0.64

04:53:21.660 christian virtuous girls tend to like the charismatic guys who all the other women want 0.81

04:53:27.740 it's just kind of how how things work so when people get pressed about it and they're like well

04:53:33.100 why can't you know we should have the same standard for both i'm like well that would be fine if women 1.00

04:53:37.500 held men to that standard but they don't i mean i i kind of do i mean if i see a guy with like a high

04:53:43.740 body count i don't see it as like oh you know like stds or whatever i mean i i would hope they're

04:53:50.380 being safe you know um but um i mean i know i know but um you know i look at it more as in

04:53:59.260 okay they're probably a player and they're probably not someone's gonna treat me right yeah that's the

04:54:04.300 big thing i'm looking at but you said you objected to them caring about your body count so why are you

04:54:09.340 i'm more like i it's just it's not personally for me like i don't care like i mean i like that's why

04:54:15.420 i kind of brought up the whole like what if they messed around a lot in younger years but then say

04:54:19.100 five years later they're not really doing that anymore and because like i care more about the

04:54:22.860 personality it brings forward than i care about like um so you don't think that like say someone was

04:54:30.460 super sexually promiscuous in their 20s and then they had that five-year break and they're like 31 and

04:54:35.580 they're like i'm better now you don't think that that sexual promiscuity would have an effect on

04:54:41.340 them later on in life i think if they're responsible a donated 69 dollars define response

04:54:47.020 orders from the inquisitor miss wilson is hereby requested to bring home a sleeve of the blue white

04:54:52.940 cups the inquisitor sends his compliments the crucible laughed at brian sneeze merch to follow

04:55:00.220 sneeze merch sneeze merch it's coming this is definitely yeah it's coming let's see wait hold

04:55:07.740 on we they only have like a few of these i don't know if they even have more because i guess we're

04:55:12.220 almost out and then saying they don't make them anymore they like here's the crazy thing so i say

04:55:16.860 that and then people will be like oh look i found it online but these like it's these like small scale

04:55:23.820 like not amazon retailers they don't actually like yes they list them but if you contact them

04:55:31.020 it's out of stock they don't actually have them in stock it's like these shitty third-party websites

04:55:36.700 you literally cannot find these cups like trust me i've i've even ordered them from amazon and they'll

04:55:42.300 send me the wrong cup design like this i want the solo jazz they don't sell that is that what it's

04:55:49.660 called solo jazz that's the design is called solo jazz i even contacted dart i think it's dart or solo 0.97

04:55:55.980 the manufacturer uh they won't print it they won't even pray i was like bro i'll buy a fucking case of 0.99

04:56:02.940 i'll buy 5 000 cups from you they they're like bro you gotta buy 50 000 cups i'm like shit i can't 0.94

04:56:10.780 i'm not gonna stockpile 50 000 cups that's a lot um we did have a chat that came through we're gonna go

04:56:16.380 around the table and then we'll come back to body count united states donated 69 dollars brian

04:56:22.700 please ask the panel who voted for our president and chief joe biden in 2020 did anybody here vote

04:56:28.620 for uh joe biden in 2020 no yes but that's complicated no no no i didn't vote you were yeah

04:56:38.300 you guys were not of age okay wait going back to body count didn't get your answer on this

04:56:43.500 i would not be objective to them caring okay and did you no i don't really care um i'm gonna get

04:56:51.500 up for a sec maddie has a question for you then we're going to do bumble then we'll do the roast 0.96

04:56:55.500 segment uh maddie if you want to take a seat ask this question and then uh yeah

04:57:00.300 okay we asked this every show but what does everybody's body count um that's yeah i'm not

04:57:13.420 saying that you can give like a range if you don't want to get the exact number nope

04:57:18.300 i don't care five thank you for sharing yeah i'm not sharing range no range you can say like under

04:57:29.500 10 i thought it didn't matter this table feels very judgy i'm not gonna lie to you um and so does this

04:57:39.420 chat i'm all set one period based out of respect for my husband i'm not gonna share zero one but now

04:57:52.700 i'm waiting oh really so now you're waiting for marriage to have yeah oh nice uh same with the

04:58:00.780 husband thing but it's very low it's like one hand yeah yeah very low cool okay now we're gonna do

04:58:08.300 the fun bumble segment so each of you get 20 swipes and we're gonna go through and you just have to

04:58:15.340 say yes or no if you would go on a date with the guy but first we have to get like your age range so

04:58:21.260 like what would what's your dating age range um my dating age range i'll put 27 to

04:58:29.420 35. do you hear that nick yeah okay so yeah 20 swipes just a yes or no yeah

04:58:40.140 there's no no no no no no no no no no no no

04:59:08.860 yeah he goes fishing no no he's too pretty

04:59:18.280 i hear that a lot that's no

04:59:23.420 oh what what i'm very confused i would i would swipe yes though just to ask him about the picture

04:59:33.180 because i'm on here on board okay you meet people in real life okay no

04:59:38.380 no his dog's cute though i like his arms yeah

04:59:45.320 no duck lips what the hell no no

04:59:53.300 no has it been 20 yet i feel like i said no to everybody

04:59:59.120 okay okay you want to go until you finally say yes

05:00:04.380 do five take a minute no no

05:00:09.320 no no and you got kids no

05:00:14.440 no he looks like um what's that no he sings though james yeah james like who is it no

05:00:24.160 no no no

05:00:31.040 five more no

05:00:33.460 i don't think she's no

05:00:35.420 there's not one black man in this exactly do you guys have like do you have like a racial preference

05:00:41.160 yeah that's the problem do you have like a racial preference like do you don't i don't date white

05:00:45.420 guys or i i don't date white men they just you don't understand what i've gone through so i i need

05:00:52.820 yeah okay fair enough yeah we'll do we'll we'll just move on we'll do your age range dating age range

05:01:00.820 um 22 to 30

05:01:03.320 i don't know who i'm looking at no

05:01:18.940 i know which one no no no no no no no

05:01:31.320 no no no no no no no i was like a double whammy no no

05:01:49.320 no who do a leap yeah

05:01:53.320 yeah it's just gonna go wait uh maybe yeah

05:01:57.560 wait are you saying yes to do a leap i mean yeah

05:02:03.080 i mean yes yes yes we should have put women up here no 1.00

05:02:14.280 we could do women no no no no no 0.99

05:02:24.280 yeah maybe it is it like an easy

05:02:26.280 yeah let's do a really big switch

05:02:27.780 ben george donated 69 dollars sorry for the misunderstanding

05:02:34.280 i never meant any ill will toward anyone sometimes text can be misinterpreted

05:02:40.280 i don't know which one yeah i don't think you upset anybody ben george you were cool

05:02:46.280 about what six nine

05:02:48.280 all good

05:02:50.280 you or

05:02:52.280 yikes

05:02:54.280 i forgot you i'm sorry

05:02:56.280 yeah yeah yeah it's fine uh no

05:02:58.280 no

05:03:00.280 no

05:03:02.280 no

05:03:04.280 no

05:03:06.280 no

05:03:08.280 no

05:03:10.280 no

05:03:12.280 no

05:03:14.280 yeah yeah no

05:03:16.280 all right

05:03:18.280 your dating age range

05:03:19.280 um

05:03:20.280 28 through

05:03:22.280 38

05:03:24.280 28

05:03:25.280 28

05:03:26.280 28

05:03:27.280 28

05:03:28.280 28

05:03:29.280 38

05:03:30.280 for the next one

05:03:31.280 all right

05:03:32.280 you only got through just one

05:03:33.280 or a bunch of chats came through

05:03:34.280 yeah i checked with you

05:03:35.280 okay

05:03:36.280 all right

05:03:37.280 no

05:03:38.280 no

05:03:40.280 no

05:03:41.280 kitty

05:03:42.280 no

05:03:43.280 all right

05:03:44.280 no

05:03:45.280 no

05:03:46.280 no

05:03:48.280 yeah

05:03:50.280 no

05:03:52.280 nope

05:03:53.280 nope

05:03:54.280 really nope

05:03:55.280 you guys are saying no to some that i'm like

05:03:58.280 dermato

05:03:59.280 he looks like he's holding a

05:04:01.280 a syringe

05:04:02.280 oh my god

05:04:03.280 i was gonna say

05:04:04.280 yeah

05:04:05.280 he can do your plastic surgery for you

05:04:07.280 he'll do your lip fillers and your botox for you

05:04:08.280 yeah

05:04:09.280 that's totally a purposeful picture

05:04:10.280 yeah

05:04:11.280 no

05:04:13.280 unabomber

05:04:14.280 no

05:04:15.280 halfish

05:04:16.280 halfish no

05:04:17.280 okay

05:04:18.280 definitely

05:04:19.280 halfish no

05:04:20.280 halfish no 1.00

05:04:21.280 what the fuck 0.99

05:04:22.280 halfish 0.99

05:04:23.280 no

05:04:24.280 halfish

05:04:25.280 no

05:04:26.280 no

05:04:28.280 no

05:04:29.280 no

05:04:30.280 what

05:04:31.280 people like glaring

05:04:32.280 no

05:04:33.280 no

05:04:34.280 oh

05:04:35.280 um

05:04:36.280 that's the profile

05:04:40.280 all right do you want to skip because you're married

05:04:42.280 yeah

05:04:43.280 i mean i can do it if you guys want me to do it i'll do it but i don't do it

05:04:48.280 i'll do it

05:04:49.280 yeah we'll do it for fun if you want to okay sure

05:04:52.280 um i'd probably say like 25 to 35

05:04:58.280 actually 30 or like let's do 20 yeah 25 to 35 sorry

05:05:03.280 okay

05:05:04.280 um no

05:05:05.280 no

05:05:06.280 no

05:05:07.280 no

05:05:08.280 no

05:05:09.280 no

05:05:10.280 no

05:05:11.280 no

05:05:12.280 oh

05:05:13.280 sure

05:05:14.280 no

05:05:16.280 no

05:05:17.280 no

05:05:18.280 no

05:05:19.280 no

05:05:20.280 sure

05:05:21.280 no

05:05:22.280 no

05:05:25.280 what on earth

05:05:29.280 no

05:05:30.280 no

05:05:31.280 no

05:05:32.280 no

05:05:33.280 no

05:05:34.280 no

05:05:36.280 no

05:05:37.280 no

05:05:38.280 no

05:05:40.280 no

05:05:41.280 no

05:05:42.280 no

05:05:43.280 no

05:05:44.280 that is sweet

05:05:45.280 mm-hmm

05:05:46.280 no

05:05:47.280 did you want to do this or pass I guess I can age range um 35 to 45

05:05:58.620 are most of you guys picking dudes that are a little older it seems like yeah

05:06:06.840 no no no no no no no no yeah no

05:06:36.840 no no no no no no damn girl I would have said yes to the dude with the lobster because he cooks 0.97

05:06:58.440 he cooks lobster yeah the seafood gets you okay you're age range um 18 to 22 0.99

05:07:06.620 no no no no no

05:07:28.040 no too dark yeah I can't no no no no no I mean the younger one yeah 0.96

05:07:51.360 no no yeah no no no no no

05:08:07.420 why do why do these people have like Adam Sandler Dua Lipa in their photos they want

05:08:19.480 you to think they're cool right yeah that's not your friend no

05:08:23.280 did you want to do this one Jade okay um 18 to 21

05:08:29.920 all right 18 21

05:08:31.820 I can't do it exactly but it's close so just go with it all right so no Adam's in my head

05:08:36.500 no here's me at the salon getting my hair washed no

05:08:42.260 the party boss come on no no no no no no no I can't see no

05:09:00.680 but you don't be a какие-plus

05:09:01.860 but you said BMW

05:09:02.680 but you said BMW

05:09:02.740 but you said BMW

05:09:03.600 no

05:09:04.140 those arms though

05:09:05.900 no no no no no no no no no no no no no

05:09:23.240 no no is that 20 or 25 words at all those?

05:09:28.400 more is that almost yeah we'll try to do five more we'll do ten more okay at ten no oh whoa

05:09:45.760 maybe yes no okay no are we we got a yes did you want to pass on this rachel yeah i'll pass okay

05:09:57.120 do you do you have like a racial i guess we'll go around the whole entire table racial preference

05:10:02.560 if so what race um yeah i like i like black men i wouldn't be opposed to trying to date someone

05:10:11.120 outside of my race but they couldn't be white wait did you say yes to a white guy i did he was

05:10:19.920 i mean we could go on a date wait they could be white or they couldn't they they couldn't because

05:10:25.280 i just feel like it would just be hard to incorporate them into my family and then i

05:10:31.360 feel like i can't i i can't speak for everybody's families but i just don't know how their family

05:10:36.480 would react to me so were your two boy friends were they white or black they were black okay

05:10:43.920 wait would you date like latino man i've i've never i've i've actually never have but i would

05:10:51.280 would yeah i would so why would you date those other racial groups but not specifically you're

05:10:56.560 specifically excluding white men yes because um well i went to a predominantly white school k-12

05:11:06.400 and i just um endured like different disrespectful things racial slurs and stuff like that and then

05:11:13.920 a lot of white men that get black girlfriends tend to like think that they can they have the n-word

05:11:19.920 past and stuff like that like i'm not with that if you're gonna be white be white you're not black 0.64

05:11:24.240 so i mean consider he's like a good white man not racist do you think i feel like love didn't given

05:11:31.600 the problems you've had dating historically maybe you would not have those same problems with a white guy

05:11:40.160 i feel like i could still have the same problems with any race that i dated to be honest well the

05:11:46.160 statistics don't really agree with that but i don't know if we want to get into that i'm just saying

05:11:52.080 like i mean but also i don't know we could get into it if you wanted to but i just don't know if brian

05:11:58.320 wants to it's probably tos but yeah it might be would you like consider dating a white man or just like

05:12:04.320 not i would consider dating the right white man like if if we vibed and he actually ended up being

05:12:12.160 somebody that i vetted properly then yeah okay yeah we'll go around the table with the racial

05:12:19.360 preference question um don't really have a preference for the last part okay i don't have

05:12:27.760 a preference um i just want to speak to what she was just saying though um how you were saying you

05:12:32.960 know because of the situation she's dealt with i dealt with the white man and i got bit in the face

05:12:36.640 so you know what i'm saying do you think that all white men it could happen anything can happen 0.76

05:12:42.160 with anybody in a basement and statistically are serial killers wait what white men are statistically 0.97

05:12:48.800 serial killers who are going to tie you up in the basement yeah i think that's actually no i'm saying 0.88

05:12:54.560 like statistically speaking the people that do that the most are white men i think that's been debunked

05:13:01.600 maybe we need to google it but i i believe that that's actually not true it's just that the high

05:13:06.880 profile ones that they put all over the media exactly yeah also does that have anything if a

05:13:11.520 black man did that they would definitely well i mean if we want to talk about like rates of imprisonment 1.00

05:13:16.560 rates of domestic violence rates of sticking around you know to raise your kids and things like that

05:13:24.000 my point in saying what i said was just to point out that it could be any race sure of course there's

05:13:28.960 bad people yeah everywhere yeah i don't know stats but just yeah wait so wait we don't really i don't

05:13:37.120 have a preference okay let's say my preference is is white my husband is white i don't have any

05:13:45.200 preferences no preference i think mine is asians i prefer white guys mary what about you ditto

05:13:54.560 you prefer white second that yeah would you date an asian guy madison i would 0.93

05:14:05.040 i okay just because i've never dated an asian guy or like i found them attractive before

05:14:13.040 but just because i haven't dated one doesn't mean i'm closed off to it and i'm never going to date

05:14:19.280 anyone else for the rest of my life besides my boyfriend period so cute so yeah that's good

05:14:28.320 brian's coming back

05:14:35.280 welcome back uh we're uh one before we get into the roast section a couple questions here uh can you be

05:14:43.520 be since we're on the topic can you be racist towards white people i think you can be racist

05:14:52.240 towards it i think you'd be racist towards anybody yeah no i mean yeah no anybody

05:14:58.560 i don't know why why you would tell us how you really feel um i think yes let me just say that yes

05:15:13.680 you can be racist however white is the uh the majority

05:15:21.200 nickelodeon donated 69 ladies explain who pays for the following dinners one woman invites girlfriends

05:15:32.080 her to bidet dinner two woman invites girlfriends and one guy friend three bf takes gf and her friends out 0.97

05:15:40.800 who pays okay well if if a woman invites her girlfriends to her birthday dinner i feel like if

05:15:50.880 if you want other people to pay for your dinner just i say that but i feel like you shouldn't have to

05:15:57.040 pay for anything on your birthday one um two i don't know what the second question or the third one was

05:16:02.880 either but yeah that's my opinion i got a nickelodeon i'm sorry i gotta keep it it's like you're asking three

05:16:09.680 questions here they're not even going to be able to remember the three different scenarios i'm going

05:16:14.320 to have to limit it to just one um explain who pays for the following dinners woman invites girlfriend

05:16:23.520 woman invites girlfriends to her b-day part uh dinner yeah friends because everybody can pitch in to me 0.99

05:16:33.440 he's donated sixty nine dollars women if a man completely provided for you what value and qualities 0.97

05:16:42.080 would you bring to the table as his woman that's a good one before we actually we'll get to that one 1.00

05:16:48.160 i'll come back to nickelodeon um if a man completely provided for you what value and qualities would you bring

05:16:52.800 to the table oh this is the question okay we're doing yeah yeah um i would i would take care of the house

05:17:02.080 i would make sure that food is prepared and clean up everything um try to take care of him emotionally 0.97

05:17:12.320 and yeah uh that's pretty much it really um yeah no i mean if you know he was doing like all that work

05:17:26.560 i mean i would probably you know do the cooking do the cleaning etc i think there's a fair trade like

05:17:30.720 you know if if i was in that position as like doing like all the job stuff then i would expect

05:17:36.880 more housework but it's it's that kind of fair trade that's it agreed um just nurture emotionally

05:17:43.680 take care of the home do what a woman does i'd fulfill my wife as or fulfill my role as a wife and mother 0.99

05:17:50.240 uh yeah i would take care of the house and potential kids and i'd also make sure that he comes home to

05:17:59.040 like a peaceful house um and he doesn't have to i don't want to add more stress to him

05:18:05.760 um i mean i do want to work but if i don't and he does end up providing for everything then i would also like take care of stuff

05:18:13.840 like at the house yeah i would i would be um i would cook for him clean the house but also like

05:18:21.440 other qualities like loyalty if he doesn't want me to see other men like even if they're my friends

05:18:27.680 then then i would cut them off especially if it makes them uncomfortable because he's i would say

05:18:33.280 that he should be the priority would you be submissive what do you mean what do you mean

05:18:39.680 like would i bow to him sure yeah

05:18:46.880 i mean i mean if i respect him and like we're married and he's providing yeah

05:18:52.000 i have a good submission follow-up question but yeah for me like this isn't this is the case right

05:18:57.360 andrew has provided and taken care of everything for the last you know decade and a half uh you get

05:19:04.480 food you get sex you don't have to do any housework my most notorious tweet is when i said that

05:19:09.120 andrew doesn't do housework and like a million people went nuts and freaked out because he doesn't 0.83

05:19:14.400 do housework even though he works full-time and i stay home raise your kids uh and you just don't 0.93

05:19:20.960 give the man trouble just don't give him any shit nice yeah and then we were going to go to 0.96

05:19:28.960 nickelodeon's question who pays for the following dinners man i'm so i i appreciate you sending this 0.97

05:19:36.800 in but you've asked essentially three different questions i know it kind of destroys a little

05:19:42.160 bit the purpose of your question but uh who pays when a woman invites girlfriends to her birthday dinner 0.98

05:19:52.720 i think they all just split it yeah i've never been to one where they didn't split okay um wait how

05:20:02.320 about just what about like collectively woman invites girlfriends and one guy friend still split

05:20:07.920 yeah yeah boyfriend takes girlfriend and her friends out yeah the type of men that i do they're

05:20:15.680 gonna pay for me and my friends did you there's this video where a woman she's dating a guy they've

05:20:22.400 been together for a year and trying to remember the details she brought along like 11 of her girlfriends

05:20:28.960 but that's crazy so in that situation would you still expect him to pay though no no absolutely

05:20:35.840 not one friend fine one friend fine yeah for my birthday i don't think he's responsible

05:20:43.840 would i treat the friend for her birthday for your girlfriend's birthday it's her birthday 0.96

05:20:49.920 yeah but if the friend's going why is she bringing well then you just take her out then but 0.99

05:20:53.840 yeah if you're taking her and her girlfriend out then right why would i take her girl third wheel 1.00

05:20:58.960 a fucking friend nah okay awkward i have a question yeah so for everybody around the table 0.99

05:21:10.880 you're married and your husband there's an election coming up your husband's gonna vote one way 1.00

05:21:17.680 and you want to vote the other way but your husband says no i want you to vote what i'm voting would you

05:21:24.560 do it i don't vote for precedents i only vote on propositions so okay well on the proposition you

05:21:31.600 want to vote yes and he wants you to vote no are you going to defer to him are you gonna vote how you

05:21:36.080 want i think i would just vote how i wanted i think that depends i mean you can have a conversation

05:21:44.720 about it you know well let's just say that you don't really agree like you it's it's a proposition

05:21:51.760 or a president or whatever it is you're like no i really feel this way and he's like well i feel this

05:21:57.120 way i mean again hard to say without knowing the context but all things considered you know

05:22:02.240 i'm gonna respect our differences and i'd like him to respect our my differences if that really comes

05:22:07.280 down to it stewie brown thank you for the gifted 20 subs on twitch man you're a legend thank you

05:22:18.480 actually really quick let's do that guys twitch.tv slash whatever

05:22:22.800 drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one guys drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one

05:22:28.480 oh my god guys it's been 30 minutes are is our twitch bugged it's been 30 minutes since we got a

05:22:34.160 prime guys see if we if there's a prime yo guatama thank you for the five sub gifts appreciate it

05:22:40.640 thank you uh did you want to continue on with the yeah just like if you if you and your husband had

05:22:46.400 a disagreement on something you were going to vote on are you going to like go with what he wants you

05:22:50.640 to vote it on or are you going to vote how you want to vote once you're in the booth yeah i definitely

05:22:56.160 think that i would listen to my husband's counsel and take into his like take into consideration his

05:23:01.840 knowledge and why he's choosing that and at the end of the day if it's for a righteous purpose i

05:23:06.880 would definitely go with my husband's um i do a little bit of research with political things but

05:23:13.760 my husband does a lot more than i do and he pays attention he he has a pulse on it more than i do so

05:23:19.760 um i would definitely trust what he um has to say i feel like you guys are all just being really nice now

05:23:28.160 no no do you think they're just saying stuff to be nice and not like fight with me that happens

05:23:34.880 no no no okay okay good i mean i would hear him out and i'd want him to hear me out but like i feel

05:23:41.440 like i i tend to like not know much about politics so if he seems to know more about it and i'll do my

05:23:48.240 own research after if like it's a big deal like it's a big disagreement and then i'd vote depending on

05:23:52.960 that but if i just do my own research i don't agree i would vote on what i would think is right

05:23:59.360 um i'm really not sure i don't i'm not that big i don't know much about politics either

05:24:05.120 but and we're also that we have the same views on it too so i'm not sure what i don't think he

05:24:09.760 would ever force me to change it because we have the the same but if we didn't just if we disagreed

05:24:15.760 on something then i would also want to listen to him and then do my own research and see

05:24:21.120 okay i think something else that this makes me think of is how women tend to be a lot more 1.00

05:24:27.680 emotional and we've talked about this and i think that sometimes they make decisions especially in

05:24:32.960 the political light that are based off of emotion and it's generally not good right and so i do think

05:24:40.400 that that is why the patriarchy is in existence yeah i think so too uh women are very easily propagandized 1.00

05:24:48.720 i always say that's like the bad news is women are easily propagandized but the good news is that 1.00

05:24:53.600 women are easily propagandized so we can like push it back the other direction but yeah they tend to 1.00

05:24:59.040 like if you look at women's voting patterns it tends to be like oh i want to take care of everyone 1.00

05:25:04.400 i want to be nice it's donated 69 dollars women do you consider yourself to be feminine and if you are 0.99

05:25:11.760 who taught you to be feminine going around the table really quick do you consider yourself to be 0.83

05:25:16.160 feminine um sometimes uh yeah yeah yeah oh we are feminine like i'm a feminine person yeah like are you

05:25:27.760 feminine you present as a yeah yep yes i'm actually kind of a tomboy but i'm very like motherly so i have

05:25:36.400 like a feminine side and i have like a tomboyish did you want to uh continue with your point i think

05:25:42.160 you were going back on something or no i was just saying like when you look at female voting patterns 0.99

05:25:47.840 it tends to be like women will not vote for someone who's bald women will not vote for someone who's 0.96

05:25:53.120 short women will not vote for someone who's not tan like when they look at when they look at not yet 1.00

05:26:00.000 when they look at women's voting patterns it tends to be based on all kinds of other things whereas men

05:26:04.880 are more like about policy and logic and things like that i think if women have had a personal 1.00

05:26:11.120 issue with a policy too they're more willing to vote that way instead of looking at the greater

05:26:16.800 good for society right and that's like an issue yeah women do personalize everything yeah they're not 1.00

05:26:23.520 very good at abstract thinking so they're like you're not a woman like we well i gotta say men and women

05:26:31.920 and talk about them and them but um i do think i'm a little bit abnormally rational in some ways but

05:26:38.880 i'm still a woman i'm still i mean don't we all like to think we're a little bit better than i don't

05:26:44.160 think i'm better it's not i'm not saying that yeah it's a bad word but you know what i'm saying well

05:26:49.680 like my husband always says that one of the reasons he picked me is because i tend to be more rational and

05:26:56.320 logical than most women he's dated who tended to be highly emotional like he knows he can sit me

05:27:02.240 down and reason with me and i'll be able to separate you know the personal from the political

05:27:07.760 and things like that ken says do we read this one or no can i have you read this one oh yeah uh good

05:27:15.920 evening mrs wilson i just purchased your book occult feminism i would recommend all the women present 0.70

05:27:21.040 tonight to buy and read the book it will give you a new perspective about feminism mr wilson

05:27:26.160 shall buy more guns to protect his family god bless america merci beaucoup ken thank you appreciate

05:27:31.200 it thanks ken all the way up there in canada thank you man appreciate it so guys we're going to get

05:27:37.920 into the chaos rose section the tts has been lowered let me re-trigger the one that did come through

05:27:42.480 double agent donated 25 around the table who do you choose dating a man you have good sex with who 0.92

05:27:51.840 i saw the weight who treats you like gold or dating a hot model malignant narcissist man who is bad in 0.96

05:27:58.000 bed and is rich which doodled donated 25 by the way if you're sending a question this is the babe it's

05:28:04.640 gonna be rapid fire with the tts don't want to lose track of you lol first guy or second guy to that

05:28:10.240 original question the first guy first one okay he's trying to slide into the dm's twix chinese 0.97

05:28:20.240 motherfucker donated 25 dollars brian show us stat dumper thick like a semi truck bumper get up and 1.00

05:28:27.520 shake that thumper brian show us dat dumper i think they'd have to donate more than that 0.99

05:28:34.160 i want to go home 0.99

05:28:37.440 oh shit thank you donated 69 dollars brian women want you to find their little man in the boat 1.00

05:28:48.080 do the women on the panel discuss hygiene as part of their dating choices 0.99

05:28:53.280 of course yeah yeah yeah hygiene's important yeah hygiene's important when it comes to dating i hope

05:28:58.960 everyone's hygienic thank you uh pat appreciate it thank you pat also we do have some pre-show notes

05:29:08.480 here that i will make sure to uh six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars

05:29:16.560 these that's our first time hearing that one i like that one that was good

05:29:33.680 the purpose of the second amendment is not about hunting nor self-defense

05:29:38.240 the purpose is for we the people to be able to overthrow our government when not if it becomes

05:29:43.840 tyrannical i'm well aware thanks loose energy donated 25 dollars brian the amount of nose from the app

05:29:51.360 from these dusty they're picky busted looking bishes is crazy yeah y'all need to get your alien versus 1.00

05:29:57.360 predator looking asses out of here stop the damn cap y'all pick y'all y'all super picky 0.99

05:30:03.120 free nick number eight at 18 all y'all picky jack the tipper donated 25 dollars in a public setting with 1.00

05:30:10.080 your bf slash spouse if an important decision arises and you disagree do you resolve it immediately or

05:30:16.480 let your bf slash spouse lead and discuss it privately later second student 456 donated 25

05:30:25.760 hey pre-op ellen page you are delusional if you think you will look better in 10 years

05:30:32.000 that's probably that's probably i've gotten ella page so much in my life it's fine you're the only

05:30:36.560 cloud flying 25 happy to have made it to tonight's show thank you man ladies embrace the patriarchy

05:30:44.720 feminism has failed you cloud out feminism has failed you read chapter 10 of my book nickelodeon 0.99

05:30:52.480 donated 25 sorry if the question was overloaded but you got to the point i was trying to make

05:31:00.000 women support and be equal with other women well what's interesting is like men in their lives to

05:31:04.480 cover them friends and family like you're by right so like nine six nine six nine blah blah

05:31:10.000 even by women will have a different expectation for the men red shirt worked at the sperm bank but 0.95

05:31:15.520 got fired for drinking on the job like you wish m m which red shirt

05:31:22.080 m m m was watson donated 25 dollars i call on everyone to destroy this 304 rachel wilson and her 0.99

05:31:36.480 pathetic clown simp andrew wilson make them regret they were born why don't we dare tell you what a 304 0.98

05:31:44.400 you are to your face rachel mr bull a donated 25 dollars communicate from the grand inquisitor we 0.99

05:31:53.040 congratulate the grand inquisitor's promotion brian this is official notice that the sneeze merch designs

05:31:59.680 have been approved production prototypes to follow stochastic decay donated 25 dollars hey brain

05:32:07.840 sorry i'm sorry i'm late long day my girlfriend's dog died naturally i told her she should work her trauma

05:32:16.240 out i'm single now anyway there was too much group think this episode hashtag where's gustavo

05:32:25.120 is donated 25 dollars what is the man's role in a matriarchal society 1.00

05:32:30.720 no such thing never been one won't ever be one just saying i didn't know what picture anybody else

05:32:39.360 got got anything master baker donated 25 dollars i'm just waiting for a girl rosie find her boyfriend

05:32:46.640 is on bimble during the bumble segment also brian do you read labias like they are braille

05:32:52.400 what was that sentence six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars

05:33:01.360 what's that song that'd be like

05:33:10.320 why does this work why do i know what song it is

05:33:13.600 jessica eloded donated 25 dollars rachel you're awesome and brian this is your obligatory friendly

05:33:25.280 reminder to stop eating

05:33:30.160 so do you think you've like twerked all the drama hi rachel donated not all of it rachel will you

05:33:36.800 address why you divorced twice five kids three baby daddies

05:33:41.360 i mean we can if you want so i didn't divorce twice i've only been divorced once rachel wilson's

05:33:49.040 two baby daddies donated 25 dollars rachel wilson you miserable strumpet play with joy on my trumpet 1.00

05:33:57.760 shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that ass hoe shake that as 1.00

05:34:04.240 shake it till you break it 1.00

05:34:08.320 okay

05:34:17.680 go daddy

05:34:20.160 wait what'd you say the trauma the hip trauma oh i said i asked her she's six nine six nine six nine

05:34:27.360 blah blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars when i rinse my mouth i go blair blig blick uprising

05:34:36.720 blick blick blerk blerk blare blick bl girl blick blick blick blick blerk blare blick blerk blah

05:34:44.080 speed actually like clicking in the back

05:34:46.200 those are kind of fun those are good 0.99

05:34:50.320 guys you can roast me if you want go for it nickelodeon donated 25 dollars i think the ass 0.98

05:35:04.140 clapper got the study messed up twerking only helps cause a release if there's a man laying 0.96

05:35:09.900 underneath you that works too that works as well does it work better i don't know if it works better

05:35:15.200 bucky larson donated 26 dollars ladies if you just bowed to a man on the first date his pp will

05:35:23.040 get so hard he'll put a ring on your finger on the second date and lastly don't be a strumpet

05:35:29.060 michigan christian donated 25 dollars happy memorial day let's talk about how women in 0.90

05:35:37.120 our country spit on the graves of our fallen by continually ruining the principles that made

05:35:41.780 our country great which they neither want or appreciate jared lds donated 25 dollars the church

05:35:49.720 of jesus christ of latter-day saints is christ's true church go to church of jesus christ it's true

05:35:56.780 there's more coming as watson donated 25 dollars rachel proofs that evolution exist one genetic evidence

05:36:08.840 two fossil record three comparative anatomy four biogeography five embryology six direct observation

05:36:20.160 so the only gays your facking husband betch is donated 25 dollars what salary should your ideal man 0.84

05:36:28.920 have quick a big one don't matter as long as he can provide double divine 1.00

05:36:34.620 six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars when all these chicks leave brian be in the

05:36:48.160 back like

05:36:48.660 how did they learn these right

05:36:54.820 oh oh oh oh oh what

05:37:00.160 mr z9107 donated 25 dollars yo yo yo embrace the patriarchy ladies it's best for you it's best for

05:37:13.340 family and great for society brian and andrew the dream team hosts rachel is the perfect wife

05:37:20.380 madison are submissive was watson donated 25 dollars rachel men have built the infrastructure

05:37:28.640 thanks to the women which conceived them carried out the pregnancy gave them birth and raised them 0.99

05:37:34.700 this is a woman give women well deserved credit and respect it's definitely a woman and oh is that under 1.00

05:37:42.940 the they're pretending to be west watson it's a long story but oh okay thanks selena gornez

05:37:49.660 unfortunately it's under the threshold it's 25 dollars for tcs

05:37:54.620 so we can't read it but thank you roast me

05:38:02.780 what

05:38:07.740 kaiju donated 25 dollars to the first girl on the right there are great white men out there as a

05:38:17.340 white man i do understand if you still choose not to date outside of your race i am sorry for your

05:38:23.660 past wish you the best thank you but yeah you're right there are great white men out there i'm sure

05:38:29.980 she said she said she'd be open to it guys yeah it's not that closed off

05:38:38.860 can you be sexist can you be sexist towards men

05:38:44.860 i mean yeah why isn't

05:38:52.540 can you be sexist towards men yeah yes i think everyone can be sexist towards anybody

05:38:57.100 yes yes biases just don't go away

05:39:05.260 is donated 25 dollars a lot of these comments are from low value men mansplaining their beliefs

05:39:12.300 they don't walk thr walk but talk the talk real men are hard-working and courteous and god-fearing

05:39:20.300 double agent donated 25 dollars brian when can we get whatever to come to central florida for a

05:39:26.940 road trip so you can get the women here to come correct and take the red pill 1.00

05:39:33.820 uh i would like to take it on the road hit alabama wait why isn't this coming through

05:39:39.180 it could be a spam filter um i don't know why it's not triggering blah blah blah it might have been the

05:39:46.220 speed it will not let me do it um six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25

05:39:55.260 this one when all these chicks leave brian be in the back like 1.00

05:39:59.420 that's exactly what happens six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars

05:40:19.500 what's that song that'd be like

05:40:25.740 i re-triggered it because the the other one didn't come through i don't know why uh

05:40:33.740 i'll try to re-trigger it

05:40:34.940 i think that's to to you

05:40:51.100 zionist underscore supremacist donated 25 dollars big respect to brixian maddie and nick

05:40:58.860 rachel glad andrew unchained you from the stove rachel would you take the vax if andrew told you

05:41:06.620 hi rachel donated 25 dollars nuance is important to relationships if people have an undesirable past

05:41:15.100 they can change andrew tells people not to date single moms but he married rachel something to

05:41:22.140 consider yeah kuchim and 69 donated 25 dollars most black slash white relationships i've seen have

05:41:30.140 had more family slash parent animosity when it's a black man and white girl almost a stealing our men's 0.99

05:41:36.620 situation any thoughts i can't i tried to re-trigger it but it didn't work hold on i'm gonna try something

05:41:43.980 else i'm gonna see if this works but i don't know why it's not coming through why the phone in uk be like

05:41:54.620 six nine six nine six nine blah blah blah 69 donated 25 dollars i broke tts

05:42:02.220 me

05:42:10.060 brian's lint roller donated 25

05:42:12.860 they don't want to be called mormons anymore what about church of the latter day soakers 1.00

05:42:19.420 also my helicopter goes like this sat

05:42:22.220 like the sat don't hit close to 69 donated 25 dollars what does the fox say ring ding ding ding ding

05:42:32.620 ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding what the fox say

05:42:40.140 wapapapapapapow wapapapapapapow still 456 donated 25 dollars she doesn't look like caitlyn clark

05:42:51.020 she looks like weird al yankovich okay rude wow i guess this is the talented man

05:43:01.420 still not triggering sorry man i played with a couple settings i tried my best but

05:43:05.420 it must have been i don't know why but sorry bud sorry bud

05:43:21.340 are we done i think there's something else coming in i must have re-triggered it like three times whoops

05:43:27.180 we have actually no wait adam donated twenty five dollars madison's forehead be like kamehameha 1.00

05:43:37.580 kamehameha what what is that it's like a dragon ball z thing oh

05:43:44.540 colonel donated twenty five dollars don't knock the white man until he's been dressed up as the kfc 0.51

05:43:50.940 colonel and had you calling him massa all night long and that's exactly why it said no for me

05:43:59.580 nemesis donated twenty five dollars kisses and hugs for eight at 19 good to have you on the

05:44:06.140 podcast mrs wilson oh seven nick the lad i only simp for bricks and chat thank you man good to see

05:44:14.300 you in the chat andrew's ex-black wife donated twenty five dollars look here you white bish stop 0.98

05:44:20.140 trying to out cute me i even wore this red top to show what he'll never have again i'm still waiting 0.92

05:44:27.020 on that child's support old man take a look at my life donated twenty five dollars hey that's

05:44:33.500 my i'm curious who on the panel would date brian that's a lyric from wait is it pearl jam

05:44:44.700 as watson donated twenty five dollars i know with husband like andrew you're not used to be

05:44:51.260 appreciated as a woman but believe it or not there are men who appreciate the women and i'm one of

05:44:58.540 them however zero respect for you bucky larson donated twenty five dollars brian isn't it crazy

05:45:07.260 how the average woman will choose to do crazy sexual activities in the bedroom but they can't do a 1.00

05:45:12.940 simple bow unreal bucky that's the whole point i'm trying to make they'll let a guy last on the face but

05:45:19.580 they went blah blah 69 donated twenty five dollars they did it wrong a roof helicopter sounds like soy soy

05:45:26.140 soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy soy 1.00

05:45:33.580 i'm definitely thinking the fuck 1.00

05:45:49.800 so brian don't eat ass is it just 1.00

05:45:51.800 icky to him man up 0.99

05:45:52.920 that's not what we were even talking about but yeah i don't do that either

05:45:55.580 easy dem peaches and this segment

05:45:57.680 is the lamest brian labia creeper

05:45:59.880 okay uh apparently

05:46:01.380 apparently it

05:46:03.580 Selena Gomez donated $30

05:46:05.800 if it's not lost already

05:46:08.200 read my $20 chat

05:46:10.040 because I missed the threshold

05:46:11.620 also love Andrew and Rachel

05:46:14.240 I don't have it has to be

05:46:15.960 for it to even show

05:46:18.020 it has to be above the threshold

05:46:19.360 thank you Selena Gomez

05:46:21.060 Madison is only a 9 and a half

05:46:23.380 boom roasted

05:46:25.560 boom roasted

05:46:28.080 she's crying

05:46:29.860 I'll try to find it Selena since you did

05:46:32.380 I'll be nice

05:46:33.000 as Watson donated $25

05:46:36.100 Rachel why you call yourself

05:46:38.960 anti-feminist when you're 1.00

05:46:40.680 304 with 5 kids

05:46:42.760 from 3 different baby daddies

05:46:44.720 and 2 divorces and on top of that

05:46:46.680 you're working writing books

05:46:48.620 podcasting etc

05:46:50.320 typical feminist 1.00

05:46:52.000 it's all wrong

05:46:53.880 Selena wrote

05:46:55.640 little material

05:46:56.300 underscoordinated $25

05:46:58.400 hate to keep simping

05:47:00.580 on the opera singer

05:47:01.440 over there

05:47:02.180 but she looks amazing

05:47:03.560 thank you

05:47:04.280 you're sweet

05:47:05.040 Selena also bought the new book

05:47:18.440 by Rachel

05:47:18.880 can't wait to read it

05:47:19.660 Brian and whatever pod crew

05:47:20.760 keep up the good work

05:47:21.580 also Maddie is a 10

05:47:22.540 thank you Selena

05:47:25.380 thank you Selena

05:47:26.500 alright

05:47:28.100 you guys can keep sending them in

05:47:29.800 I have a couple notes

05:47:30.940 from some of the panelists

05:47:32.100 and then we're gonna

05:47:32.820 wrap up

05:47:34.560 the show

05:47:35.440 so we have

05:47:36.520 generic statue

05:47:37.760 donated $25

05:47:39.100 Brian I appreciate

05:47:41.180 the work you're doing

05:47:42.240 with this podcast

05:47:43.320 you have opened my eyes

05:47:44.940 to the decline

05:47:45.640 in society

05:47:46.380 and hearing you

05:47:47.140 and your guests speak

05:47:48.280 encourage me

05:47:48.980 to better my life

05:47:50.080 keep it up

05:47:52.080 696969

05:47:54.380 blah blah blah

05:47:55.100 69

05:47:55.680 donated $25

05:47:57.260 Brian don't eat

05:47:59.340 as

05:47:59.700 sheet ID

05:48:00.780 Tebony

05:48:01.440 Fart Box

05:48:02.160 like

05:48:02.520 Rola

05:48:02.920 That's a follow

05:48:06.880 GMD

05:48:09.000 donated

05:48:09.520 $25

05:48:10.600 Brixen

05:48:12.020 I appreciate

05:48:12.960 that you do not

05:48:13.960 perform oral

05:48:14.740 the original

05:48:15.920 Christian definition

05:48:17.040 of sodomy 0.97

05:48:17.700 was any sex other than reproductive PNV. 0.99

05:48:21.000 Do not be a sodomite. 0.99

05:48:22.840 That's true. 0.91

05:48:23.600 Yeah, I do it.

05:48:24.920 That's why I don't do it.

05:48:26.620 Brian asked the chat to roast Maddie,

05:48:28.660 and the result was crickets.

05:48:30.620 The chat loves and respects Maddie.

05:48:32.860 Speaking of which, guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:48:35.240 She's going to start streaming on there.

05:48:37.360 We did a test stream the other day.

05:48:39.000 We're going to get it going, guys.

05:48:40.380 There's just a million things going on.

05:48:42.340 So I know I've been saying that for a while,

05:48:44.360 but jobs to follow in the Prime sub over here

05:48:46.760 if you're watching.

05:48:48.320 On Twitch.

05:48:50.380 All right, some pre-show.

05:48:51.700 Let me get into the pre-show notes.

05:48:53.720 So Danielle?

05:48:58.300 Yeah.

05:48:59.480 Looking back in high school,

05:49:01.300 you said you were a couple dudes rebounds?

05:49:03.380 Yes, I was.

05:49:05.100 I was.

05:49:05.800 I think I shared a specific story, though.

05:49:08.700 It was like the only crazy story I had.

05:49:11.880 So I was this guy's rebound.

05:49:15.100 It was like very obvious,

05:49:16.420 and at the time,

05:49:19.100 I just had no direction in my life,

05:49:21.700 but my husband was befriending me,

05:49:23.780 so he was like my best friend at the time.

05:49:27.100 Anyways, this guy just ghosted me

05:49:29.840 after talking to me for a while,

05:49:31.440 and I was like,

05:49:32.400 I'm going to get revenge. 0.99

05:49:33.800 I was like a dumb 17-year-old girl, 0.99

05:49:35.840 and I had some of his underwear 0.96

05:49:38.480 because we had ran a Ragnar race together,

05:49:41.580 and you're in a van for over 24 hours,

05:49:45.240 so you change clothes.

05:49:46.260 So I filled his underwear with peanut butter,

05:49:50.780 and I rubbed it over his brand-new motorcycle. 1.00

05:49:54.340 Damn. 0.99

05:49:56.880 Excuse me? 0.99

05:49:57.940 And my husband drove me to do it.

05:50:00.800 Wow. 1.00

05:50:01.320 Damn. 1.00

05:50:03.140 Partners in crime. 1.00

05:50:04.000 I was going to say.

05:50:07.000 It's just peanut butter, though.

05:50:08.320 It's not that kind of thing.

05:50:09.480 No.

05:50:09.920 It was just on the seat.

05:50:12.420 A nice prank?

05:50:13.240 A nice prank.

05:50:13.580 Yeah.

05:50:14.260 Because it could have been like,

05:50:16.040 he could have been crazy.

05:50:17.760 I mean, we don't want to be too crazy.

05:50:19.080 We can't get honest.

05:50:19.560 No, I know.

05:50:19.800 I'm just saying.

05:50:20.360 So you stuck it on the bike, though.

05:50:21.860 So, yeah, I just, like, stuck it on the seat of the bike

05:50:25.340 and, like, just rubbed it and left.

05:50:29.700 So you just rubbed peanut butter on the motorcycle seat?

05:50:32.860 Yeah.

05:50:33.360 Inconvenient.

05:50:33.940 Yeah.

05:50:34.260 Give him his underwear back.

05:50:35.620 Yeah.

05:50:38.020 Because he ghosted you?

05:50:40.500 Yeah.

05:50:41.200 Like, it was, I acknowledge it was childish.

05:50:43.580 I was a 17-year-old girl.

05:50:43.860 I have a question for the girls.

05:50:45.420 If a girl, or if a girl ghosted a guy,

05:50:49.120 and then the guy goes over to her house

05:50:54.220 and then murders her,

05:50:58.460 would you guys have a problem with that?

05:51:00.040 What?

05:51:01.020 Yeah.

05:51:01.500 Yeah.

05:51:01.920 I mean, I wouldn't equate what I did to murder.

05:51:03.760 No.

05:51:04.380 Just saying.

05:51:07.560 Wow, good stuff, Brian.

05:51:08.720 Yeah.

05:51:09.120 That was great.

05:51:09.620 Good stuff.

05:51:13.160 You said men can make it out of the friend zone?

05:51:15.420 Yes.

05:51:16.260 I believe that.

05:51:18.100 Obviously.

05:51:18.460 I suppose they can,

05:51:19.320 but honestly, my...

05:51:20.080 6,969.

05:51:22.300 Brian gonna hate this 69.

05:51:24.380 Donated $25.

05:51:26.660 Here it goes dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot,

05:51:29.040 cats, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot,

05:51:31.020 kids, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, kids,

05:51:37.860 dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, kits, 0.84

05:51:39.240 are you abusing bro you're abusing okay that's crazy i'm sorry i gotta i gotta skip how long 0.68

05:51:47.120 bro we got the idea though thank you man i actually can but i think it's better to just 0.99

05:51:53.280 fucking move on and find another girl no i i definitely agree like i think that you shouldn't 0.75

05:52:00.320 be i don't and i don't know how you would define that timeline um because me and my husband were 0.97

05:52:08.420 just in high school so he was just like i'm her friend like i like her michigan christian donated

05:52:13.480 25 rachel great to see the woman who takes care of one of our great leaders would love to hear

05:52:20.900 your thoughts on the consequences of women in leadership and voting repeal the 19th and return

05:52:26.660 to christ yeah i mean it's all been bad i mean name a woman politician that you really thought

05:52:34.620 was exceptional and fantastic i don't think any politician nickelodeon donated 25 dollars

05:52:42.200 i'm willing to bet a couple of girls here have craziest stories than peanut butter on a motorcycle 1.00

05:52:48.180 any popped tires broken windows burned clothes

05:52:53.000 tell us i've slashed tires and i you've slashed cars you've keep cars that's all i'm gonna say

05:53:01.540 about it don't tell what else what else wes watson donated 25 dollars brian why you no longer post

05:53:09.760 the insta handles of the girls they put the food on your table come on dude you know we don't want you 1.00

05:53:16.640 for andrew's pretty face girls don't come to this show yes donated 25 dollars did you guys know that

05:53:25.240 the tongue is a muscular organ that connects adam's apple to madam's chapel okay interesting okay

05:53:32.880 fun fact um so you slashed a couple tires how many men's car like was it just one guy or multiple

05:53:41.340 guys you've slashed tires great scott's donated 25 dollars really appreciate your efforts brian for

05:53:49.700 getting the message out for masculinity but half these tts hurt the show and almost unbearable

05:53:55.180 you should learn from my run and better the quality of the show

05:53:58.700 oh this is the ethereal hunders coordinated 25 dollars i'm trying to get the opera singer to sing

05:54:05.840 for me every night they're gonna all marry you what is happening hugging around donated 25

05:54:16.780 dollars ladies how would you feel if you wrote a book and it did really well and your husband took

05:54:22.160 all the kka to buy mo pretty good i'd feel i'd feel good about it just saying ladies how would you feel

05:54:30.560 like all the dough 6969 still worth it bro 69 donated 25 dollars much respect brian but why you hit the

05:54:41.320 blunt like cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough

05:54:47.560 cough cough cough cough cough eating peaches donated 26 dollars three girls on the right what was that song 0.99

05:54:56.960 i'd bite them peaches in the bleachers all night first date just met on a bus hitchhiking i ain't no

05:55:05.060 biatch good for you good for you that was beautiful that was beautiful okay uh

05:55:15.800 it was under the threshold um can you said consent based morality is a lie what does that mean

05:55:23.200 yeah i think that people can consent to things that are harmful to them and to

05:55:29.180 other people and so i think the whole idea that if you consent to something it's okay is a lie 0.94

05:55:38.460 i would agree with that consent based morality is dumb and easily easy to defeat

05:55:44.280 uh you said being an of woman you you did quotes on woman does not require any skills or attributes 0.94

05:55:54.400 and is not a real job even though you're earning money donated 25 dollars lds girl are you not

05:56:02.300 familiar with the book of mormon it is sacred text of the church of the latter day saints movement

05:56:08.100 mormon was their term not something forced upon them yeah so we read from the book of mormon and the

05:56:15.900 that's why the name mormon was given to us so yes that is true i am familiar with the blue book

05:56:23.460 um it's blue it is is it like teal or is it blue no it's like a dark navy it's a navy it's a dark navy

05:56:31.360 yeah yeah are there any like accents of like purple in there is it most it's mostly blue dark navy the

05:56:38.340 book is blue the church is true i've never seen you have one i haven't seen my husband has one okay we

05:56:43.320 don't sorry i'm just um derailing okay what was the question well you oh yeah being an of woman does

05:56:51.580 not require any schools or skills or attributes and it is not a real job even though you're earning money

05:56:56.880 you're sitting next to a girl who does of and there's another of girl right here yeah

05:57:01.180 that's what she said do you guys want to risk do you want to address her her hateful comments

05:57:06.900 do you want to address it i just think it's her opinion and i feel like anything that you can

05:57:12.340 monetize selena gone is donated 25 dollars ladies quickly give one reason why you're voting for trump 0.83

05:57:20.020 in this upcoming election and one reason why you're not voting for sleepy joe hashtag trump 2024

05:57:27.400 uh my reason is because that's what andrew's doing so i only vote to double his vote and or

05:57:35.240 various crazy people donated 25 dollars imagine an opera singer as a wife the veracity of the neck

05:57:42.980 would be unbearable that's literally the magic flute queen of the night aria it's like a harp it's

05:57:50.020 literally the mom nagging her daughter so at least from that's what i learned from amadeus which is

05:57:55.320 obviously historically accurate i mean it's pretty close i mean it's fictitious but yeah

05:58:00.900 yeah it's not historically accurate but so do you think that it requires like specific talent to 0.95

05:58:06.220 post like pictures of yourself on the internet i'm gonna just say this the way i shake my ass i think 0.91

05:58:11.460 that it is the talent that's all i'm saying i'd like to see you do it okay i can't do it 0.97

05:58:19.160 but i think that sexualizing yourself like that on the internet is not a talent or skill

05:58:24.660 it's also like a cultural thing too though well there's a lot of i'm sorry working like that's

05:58:31.920 like i'm not gonna seriously yeah but prostitution is like a worldwide phenomenon yeah it is how is

05:58:38.820 only fans donated 25 dollars that's not based rachel based wait so you don't think that only fans is

05:58:46.800 prostitution at all no but i also feel like it's literally a platform where you can post anything

05:58:53.180 it's just like youtube yeah but like 98 percent of it's sex here's my weekly donation i'll be gone 0.99

05:58:59.100 for a while thank you jace ladies you're welcome i'm so damn pretty lol yeah he's he's a babe 0.80

05:59:05.440 how is he's a is he a babe he's a babe yes gerald donated 25 dollars mrs wilson what's that book that

05:59:14.500 the viewers should go and buy it's called the cult feminism the secret history of women's liberation

05:59:20.480 the whole thing is a lie it was never a grassroots movement it's totally after the real undiscoordinated 0.98

05:59:26.060 25 dollars simping like a madman here but opera singer has a gorgeous smile too god damn she's 1.00

05:59:34.040 thank you i wish i had rose petals to throw on her like whatever these come through damn he's 0.99

05:59:40.920 shooting a shot good for you guys good for you buddy uh so what constitutes prostitution then 1.00

05:59:49.940 like what's the definition according to you um the definition is literally going and selling your body 0.83

05:59:56.580 andrew is chatted donated 25 dollars brian if you had to wipe up one full progressive feminist 1.00

06:00:03.960 or sex worker turned based damn bro why you gotta do me dirty like that i'm going full progressive 0.99

06:00:10.800 feminist generic statue donated 25 dollars uh the progressive feminist because i can the exchange of 1.00

06:00:17.200 sexual services for money do whatever mental gymnastics you want you are a prostitute you can 0.99

06:00:23.860 save her brian right yeah i'll save her i missed that it said that like prostitution is the exchange of 1.00

06:00:34.580 any form of sex for money and i agree with that i would too you also said there's absolutely no good

06:00:39.700 that comes from sex work yes period yeah and i respect your opinion but but but you disagree

06:00:48.280 what's the but what's the but yeah my personal opinion is i feel like everybody should be able 0.98

06:00:51.860 to do whatever the fuck they want why well but what good comes from it like tell me what good comes 0.65

06:00:55.740 from it that's what i'm saying wait a minute wait we have to address that everyone should be able to 0.98

06:01:01.080 do whatever they want yeah that's true because what if a guy wants to down there on the street below

06:01:06.420 the balcony what if he wants to jerk it in the middle of the street he should be able to do

06:01:10.480 whatever he wants he's gonna do what i will say crazy people donated 25 dollars only tramps is not 1.00

06:01:18.700 only prostitution it's prostitution scaled up for mass distribution i bet you can find cheeto boogers 1.00

06:01:25.520 in that cleavage cheeto boogers yeah no i don't eat cheetos do you prefer doritos i feel like you're 0.96

06:01:31.460 more of a doritos gal i do like doritos but i don't eat them often do we want to talk about

06:01:43.140 everybody should do what they want yeah okay i just feel like yes that that's a good example

06:01:49.320 no that should not be done however whereas something that is consensual and like it's

06:01:54.640 appropriate as far as only fans people sign up for that they get what they get i think that should be

06:02:00.460 acceptable because that's what people want to do okay so if a 60 year old man wants to date an 18

06:02:06.440 year old girl and she can sense is that cool personally no i don't like it but it's legal

06:02:11.640 that's why it's a legal thing but i think so i don't think it's okay be able to do it though

06:02:16.240 according to the law according to the law okay what what if uh this is anderson donated 25 dollars

06:02:24.560 hey maddie me again you're so pretty smiles lds girl isn't being black a curse in the book of

06:02:31.140 mormon huge fan brian rachel is great thank you simp donated 25 dollars opera girl is w wife

06:02:41.780 material they're in love with you oh no we're gonna get her married by the end of this thing 0.99

06:02:46.060 apparently all you need to be able to do is sing so what if what if brian here wanted to uh dig up 0.96

06:02:52.620 as watson donated 25 dollars what the fuck rachel wilson was flipped more than an apartment in fort 1.00

06:02:58.640 lauderdale well i'm just saying like he's not hurting anybody right seen more helmets than hitler 0.97

06:03:03.740 and last but not least she has a posse like a punched lasagna what i think that this goes back 0.95

06:03:10.760 like you said anyone should be able to do what they want i'll take that back i will take that back

06:03:15.260 as far as what i do with my body should not affect how you feel

06:03:18.420 oh i but it it affects society so it does affect how i feel because you're producing something

06:03:24.640 negative and so it's going to have a negative effect i'm very body positive i love my body and

06:03:29.620 i love i wish everybody would love their body and you could do what you would like with your body as

06:03:33.520 long as it's not hurting somebody i love my body too i respect my body you are destroying the world

06:03:39.440 with your twicking oh no all right go cry about it you know what though it's it's an actual thing that 0.61

06:03:46.860 uh for girls who let's say you're a girl who wants to be a virgin until the right man comes 1.00

06:03:51.740 along and marries you it makes it very hard to do that ever since a bunch of women broke like the 1.00

06:03:57.580 the contract right back in the 60s 70s if even 30 of the girls are giving it away like it's going out

06:04:05.300 of style it makes it really hard for those of us who do want to marry a guy and stay with him and like

06:04:12.380 you know it just kind of ruined the whole marriage thing that we have every girl who turns 18 is 1.00

06:04:18.140 signing up for only fans almost every girl like i think i will can i ask a question

06:04:22.640 well i was gonna say i mean y'all feel the way that y'all feel that y'all are still married

06:04:29.460 so it didn't ruin it for also do you want the guys that are going to sign up to pay for only fans

06:04:34.540 that's my other question well why are so many men doing that it's actually not true that whites

06:04:41.580 are more likely to be serial killers check out the database of all serial killers in the u.s that

06:04:47.580 florida gulf coast university and radford university have compiled yeah i was pretty sure

06:04:53.260 selena gorniz donated 25 dollars psa five like the video and boost the algorithm people yeah help

06:05:03.660 us out thank you so many fans is 100 prostitution definitions matter also i think another problem

06:05:11.260 with like the liberal opinion about anything in society today is that you guys think well it's not

06:05:17.980 you so it doesn't matter or worry about yourself how's that hurting you though and it's like

06:05:23.260 it is i should care because what you produce and put out into the world has an effect and will have

06:05:29.900 an effect on you and those around you and so to have the opinion of well just worry about yourself

06:05:35.740 or you do yeah we i mean we can look at data to see how bad things have gotten since women's 0.66

06:05:41.580 liberation and if you look at it it's like the uh if you look at kids who are in a juvenile facility

06:05:48.460 kids who are in any sort of substance ebony to donated 25 dollars why have anomaly vans to not

06:05:55.420 share it give me a hint to find it

06:06:02.140 it's my name and then what i study there you go

06:06:07.900 so yeah if you if you look at like uh kids who are homeless uh kids who are on psych wards almost

06:06:14.780 all of them like it's like 80 to 90 percent of them come from fatherless homes or homes that are

06:06:21.260 disrupted uh marriage got thrown out the window there is no family cohesion anymore and how is

06:06:28.380 this helping anyone how is this do whatever you want just don't hurt anybody or take my stuff like

06:06:33.660 like that hasn't worked for us we no longer have any sort of like societal standard for morality at

06:06:41.260 all or just do whatever you want then i mean shouldn't you be chastising like a father's for

06:06:45.740 leaving too then i mean well i would except for that mostly it's the women leaving not 0.86

06:06:53.660 imagine perpetuating the downfall in men because you like the money you'd ride the thin line of the 0.96

06:06:59.340 law and say it's okay because it's legal if killing someone was legal would you

06:07:08.300 yeah i mean ultimately i think that feminism has led to the destruction of the nuclear family which is 1.00

06:07:13.340 a central part of society tom jones donated 25 dollars i'm very body positive lol

06:07:21.420 lol thank you tom jones uh guys we're gonna wrap up the show here um before i do that we we will do

06:07:27.740 twitch raid any final thoughts from anybody before i start wrapping this up i would just like the

06:07:33.740 only thing i don't want to like come off as like condescending i just like think that you guys can

06:07:37.580 do a lot more with your lives and you have a lot to offer and you're beautiful women and i don't think

06:07:42.860 that you need to to do sex work like we said that's not the only things that we do right that's the minimal

06:07:48.060 of what i do that's that's just all you heard i didn't even say that when i was asked what do i do

06:07:52.780 i brought that up after the conversation was brought up if you noticed why did you feel the

06:07:56.780 need to not share that because that's that's not my main thing that i do is it something that you're

06:08:02.860 ashamed of not really honestly that's why i said it when you do bg content boy girl content no

06:08:10.380 you've never shot anything with a guy but do i sell that no have you ever sold it

06:08:16.780 it sounds like a yes to me what about you do you do bg content yeah because that's just something

06:08:24.220 that i like to do with my partner but how many men have you done bg content with two two different

06:08:30.940 guys okay is that how they found out about each other because various crazy people will pull it back

06:08:37.340 up no uh well here i have a question but if someone is giving sex away or selling it for 2.99 0.91

06:08:43.660 it becomes a race to the bottom cheap poon is just that cheap poon no man who has any self-respect is 0.50

06:08:49.900 going to commit would you guys if you're on the first date with the guy would you guys disclose that

06:08:53.980 you guys do of i actually i have before um but i don't know if it's something that i would just like

06:09:02.380 off the rip whatever but i would but i guess like i would say i would want a man to disclose

06:09:08.300 like something like the fact that he has kids to me on the first date but i don't think that equates

06:09:13.820 but yeah you think it's a bigger deal to withhold uh somebody's uh parentage status as compared to

06:09:20.780 their sex worker status um i don't think that um it's comparable at all i was just saying like

06:09:27.740 an example of something that i would want but can you i mean i would my position would be

06:09:31.900 it would be a bigger issue for a girl to hide her sex worker status than her i mean we're talking 0.99

06:09:39.180 about first date but i'm also not a sex worker wait hold on you're not a sex worker thank you for 0.74

06:09:45.820 coming opera singer your return they love you hope it's not the last time i get to see you well sex

06:09:52.300 worker is sort of this all-encompassing term but like i mean you said you've done boy girl content you

06:09:57.980 do only fans you're a sex worker i don't sell those videos what i sell are provocative pictures

06:10:05.660 and they're not even nudes so when you say you make boy girl content yeah it's not for consumption 0.84

06:10:11.420 it's like private content or yeah but i already said that that i don't sell that did you have you

06:10:17.020 sold it previously no i could how am i getting gaslit here yeah i could have sworn you said

06:10:22.940 you've done bg content i think you're trying to gaslight me and tell me that i said something

06:10:27.180 that i didn't say are you just trying to say like you said you did bg content oh literally what i said

06:10:31.820 okay wait you said you did bg content with two guys i just answered it the way that i answered it

06:10:38.940 i don't even understand what that really means i think there's just a misunderstanding i think she was

06:10:43.020 just like boy girl can just mean a video and so she's like i took a personal video with like my

06:10:47.500 boyfriend or something and then you asked me how many but that's not content content is posted

06:10:52.300 tends to imply like it's okay i mean if you want to be like by definition but you asked me a question

06:10:57.900 i answered it wait so did you or did you not do content with a man for your only fans or some other

06:11:08.060 platform i just said no so what did you mean when you said you made bg content i already said it i'm

06:11:14.380 not about to like no you didn't really explain it i but i did though so like just for private

06:11:20.060 usage private content that you sold or didn't sell like am i done that's okay no i'm just

06:11:31.020 she said she likes to make it that's what she likes to do she did it because she liked to do it

06:11:34.460 content like okay making a private video is not content content you guys were getting into

06:11:39.980 definitions like just i think we're getting in like modern day definition content can still be

06:11:45.660 like content for yourself that's why i consider it like i mean i mean if we're really looking at the

06:11:49.580 dictionary i'm talking like not like modern urban dictionary kind of thing i mean yeah but i feel

06:11:54.620 like the context was there yeah i know what you mean the context but i still said what i said

06:12:00.220 at any rate i said what i said i'm confused about it so

06:12:11.500 a little confused but me too a little bit confused i mean if there's nothing wrong with it

06:12:17.340 why are you upset is my question i'm not upset i just feel like i'm being asked the same thing

06:12:26.220 repeatedly when i already answered the question and i don't like to repeat myself yeah you're just

06:12:33.900 getting really defensive about it when if you're not ashamed of it and there's no problem with it

06:12:39.020 you could be like oh i misunderstood i thought that you were saying have you ever filmed something

06:12:44.140 i have filmed something but it was always private when we when he asks have you made bg content and

06:12:49.900 we're talking about your only fans but i didn't misunderstand the question because i did answer

06:12:54.460 the question and i still said okay well maybe something that i was doing with my i might be

06:12:58.620 the dumb one and i wasn't clarify it for me so have you ever made if i sold it and i said no have you 0.59

06:13:05.260 ever okay have you ever given it away for free have you ever posted it have you girls have free only 1.00

06:13:12.300 fans yeah no no that's wild girls will post that shit for free on twitter yeah that's them it is 0.84

06:13:21.820 okay but sometimes people play this trick of like well i didn't technically sell it so no i didn't 0.99

06:13:27.820 make it and sell it but they'll otherwise distribute it for free for example that doesn't apply to me but

06:13:36.220 yeah for example i've had like situations where i'll ask a woman if she has uh breast if she has 0.99

06:13:42.460 breast implants and she'll dance around the question saying well no but she she has like the fat transfer 1.00

06:13:50.460 thing which i mean it's kind of like the question is have you had any sort of breast any sort of yeah

06:13:57.180 breast augmentation procedure and they'll be like oh i don't have fake boobs wow 1.00

06:14:02.460 well so they'll like play this is that semantic i don't know what that's considered so what that 0.99

06:14:09.580 game is let's just cut the shit and say have you ever posted you doing bg content anywhere online 0.96

06:14:17.260 answered the question okay answer it again no okay wait is it was okay was the answer no 0.99

06:14:24.540 the answer is no oh okay yeah it's been said that i did

06:14:37.100 all right guys we're gonna do a twitch raid

06:14:41.820 how many how many you said you keyed a couple cars and

06:14:45.260 slashed a few tires granny's box underscore i'm trying to change the topic i'm sorry 25 dollars

06:14:53.660 lickety-fricty somewhere's that beta cuck his sheikah and dudas dudes filled her with goo while 0.99

06:14:58.780 he sat in the corner jerking off what tf cuck love you all gotta go now time to get grand p's rocks off 0.99

06:15:07.420 all right nick we're gonna do a raid i think i'm pretty sure i'm gonna do 0.96

06:15:10.940 raid aladar so let me just get make sure let's see we got woe grandma but we've been raiding her a lot 0.99

06:15:19.340 got bobka we're gonna do

06:15:23.260 actually we haven't done bobka

06:15:30.780 do we do bobka no we're gonna do aladar you can pull up aladar really quick

06:15:34.700 yeah guys before you before we do a raid guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drops a follow

06:15:41.420 drop us a prime sub if you have one and then i'll just do a quick brief uh outro here for

06:15:47.420 a bit those of you who are watching on twitch i appreciate it guys we are going to do a raid

06:15:52.060 there in just a sec gg well played to the panel six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine time to fix

06:15:59.500 the vibe sixty nine donated twenty five dollars from the window to the wall till the sweat drop 1.00

06:16:05.740 down my balls till all the beaches crawl till our skeet skeet my fucker till our skeet skeet god damn 0.99

06:16:21.100 okay cool unwanted fetus donated 25 dollars where am i i'm so cold please why 1.00

06:16:29.180 mommy damn son okay we said okay uh so last call hit the like button please on your way 0.89

06:16:39.180 thanks for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i 0.98

06:16:42.300 appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donate some supports the show we will be

06:16:46.860 live again tuesday at 5 p.m pacific rachel will be joining us again oh actually shit uh we're gonna do 0.61

06:16:52.940 it rachel i don't forgot if i asked you are you free tomorrow yeah debate yeah okay we i'm down

06:16:58.540 pretty good chance we're gonna be doing a debate tomorrow guys we had we actually had 10 flakes

06:17:02.620 today i said nine we had 10 flakes we had uh a no show that i just totally forgot about that's how

06:17:07.980 crazy it was that i just totally forgot about one of the no shows so uh let's see yeah and then we'll

06:17:14.140 be doing another dating talk tuesday 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show dm at whatever 1.00

06:17:18.860 on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara if you're watching on twitch we're gonna raid alidar

06:17:23.500 nick if you can pull up alidar we're gonna drop a raid are we actually just doing he's playing

06:17:29.500 world of warcraft oh is he doing a raid this is not oh my god this isn't even done yet he's in a

06:17:33.420 raid group oh he's in alterac valley he's an av doing some pvp world of warcraft classic okay

06:17:40.620 thanks for watching on twitch guys uh hope you guys have a good night enjoy alidar thank you guys

06:17:45.500 appreciate it good night oh this is where i gotta decide like do i wait a little bit or just jump

06:17:53.020 right back in and goodbye what the oh whatever whatever podcast what's up man whatever i gotta

06:18:07.180 ask you a question i actually don't know the question or the answer to this welcome everyone 0.97

06:18:12.300 i'm gonna go way past 14 000 followers now nine inches on a good day what the fuck i had nine 0.91

06:18:21.900 inches of snow one time look at this are we gonna get past 14 000 followers now holy crap anyways welcome 0.91

06:18:30.060 everyone from the whatever podcast the podcast for men by men and women as i don't know where they

06:18:39.500 find these women that are on this podcast i really don't know where there it is chat look at this 0.78

06:18:48.300 look at this oh good we got them to uh in the middle of my 14k followers there's 14 000 followers

06:18:55.900 thank you guys yeah we helped him out all right there you go you know how long i've been like

06:19:01.420 waiting look at this thank you very much everyone that followed i appreciate it

06:19:05.900 it that's massive my goal was to get to 14 000 by the end of the year i i like to raid

06:19:12.460 anyways just to help them for the men are men the women are women and uh cucks are uh 0.99

06:19:17.580 what the fuck the cucks all right okay you can x out that name he's going into another alterac valley 0.99

06:19:23.980 okay okay there it is all right cool cool uh so lastly uh no i think that's actually it i'm trying to 1.00

06:19:30.300 think if we uh there's anything else uh i think that's it

06:19:40.380 right are we forgetting anything no i think we hit everything okay cool all right guys uh

06:19:48.380 pretty sure we're gonna do that stream tomorrow the debate stream people are flaky you never know uh

06:19:54.300 then we'll have tuesday show and yeah that's it guys okay oh seven's in the chat thank you guys for

06:20:00.380 tuning in appreciate it hope you guys have a good night and we'll uh see you again soon good night guys

Whatever Podcast - May 27, 2024

Rachel Wilson vs. Feminists! She Is A 10! Better Looking In 20 Years？ LDS Dating？｜ Dating Talk #164

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Whatever Podcast - May 27, 2024

Rachel Wilson vs. Feminists! She Is A 10! Better Looking In 20 Years？ LDS Dating？ ｜ Dating Talk #164

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Rachel Wilson vs. Feminists! She Is A 10! Better Looking In 20 Years？ LDS Dating？｜ Dating Talk #164