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00:04:10.860 occupation education go ahead hi my name is toria i am 25 25 um from la went to cal arts just graduated

00:04:23.400 graduated so working as an artist and have you always been from la um i'm originally from san diego

00:04:30.620 san diego okay what did you uh get your degree in from fine arts oh just fine arts got it okay

00:04:36.920 and are you a painter uh draw like what kind of art i weld i do ceramics and planning event planning

00:04:44.640 okay ceramics yeah nice yeah pottery instruments you do pottery sweet yes okay what about you

00:04:51.620 so i am kitty i am 33 years old i'm originally from jersey now i reside in la um i am a photographer

00:05:00.260 i also work with children and that's pretty much it any school uh college anything like that nope

00:05:08.460 and i think college is a joke to some extent is it a scam to some ways not not all i feel business

00:05:15.940 and college is a scam things like nurses and doctors that is not a scam but you know 50 50 with college

00:05:23.220 all the other stuff though yeah okay um and you do content creation or so i do i do do content um not

00:05:31.680 okay um do you still dance yeah so i'm actually a retired dancer i used stripper bikini bar in jersey

00:05:40.120 didn't get naked not strip not stripping it wasn't stripping no i thought you were stripper no bikini

00:05:45.620 bar we did do lap dances so that is okay sex work that's still it did i take anything off though

00:05:50.680 there's so there's places you can get a lap dance yes in jersey yes in jersey bikini bars

00:05:57.000 oh yeah but you know lap dances is still sex work but retired from that changed my whole life

00:06:03.020 around are there like is there you know in jersey how you have to you can have someone or you do you

00:06:08.380 have to have somebody else pump your gas right yes like it's illegal yeah you can get actually a fine

00:06:14.100 so is there like a combo of bikini gas pumpers in jersey no i feel portland might do something like

00:06:23.180 that though portland oregon they got you know strippers now serving coffee so okay what about

00:06:29.280 you hi um my name is marina and i'm a 30 year old um critical care nurse for massachusetts

00:06:34.800 okay uh education bachelors in nursing okay and you said you're from massachusetts boston

00:06:42.860 around the area i live like 30 minutes north of boston okay got it and uh how long have you been

00:06:48.440 doing nursing for about five years now i was a covid nurse i started in 2020 okay and icu so you get

00:06:55.840 like gunshot victims and uh yes yes not my hospital specifically it's not trauma one hospital i don't

00:07:03.740 work in like boston or anything like that um but i do like take care of like substance patients um just

00:07:09.420 like very critical sick patients a gi bleed kind of thing is it a stressful job it can be but i have

00:07:15.320 amazing co-workers who make it kind of fun and like more bearable and like more more tolerable

00:07:21.440 to go into work okay um just like they're just great people honestly sure cool well welcome what

00:07:27.080 about you i am 24 originally from buffalo new york age or sorry name my allura sorry yeah so 24 go ahead

00:07:35.500 originally from buffalo new york i now live in la for the past four years

00:07:40.080 um i do body sculpting what's that it's like skin tightening okay with the wooden tools

00:07:47.700 oh okay yeah got it and uh any other occupations or no i'm a full-time student now as well okay

00:07:55.620 working on my psychology degree any so you're uh you're a senior junior what are you first year

00:08:02.120 first year okay do you have any associates or no just just getting started with school okay all right

00:08:07.840 and what's the tattoo on this side can you show this side is a moon and stars uh-huh and this side

00:08:13.820 is two crosses a number eight and a sword ah okay interesting why then why eight eight because

00:08:22.680 it's my soul path number it also represents infinity what what is a soul path number if uh you know

00:08:30.320 anything about numerology um it's also there's numbers in the bible as well they have meaning like

00:08:36.000 i said eight represents infinity um it's no wait eight represents zero and the number eight

00:08:44.080 represent infinity i mean i know the infinity symbol but i don't know if that's an eight

00:08:48.120 eight is the affinity symbol turned up i know it's infinity it's an endless loop

00:08:55.500 but i know it looks the exact same you can look it up too the infinity symbol typically is

00:09:06.460 sideways yeah so do you have an eight sideways or do you know it's the number eight okay but i'm

00:09:12.880 saying the number eight represents infinity just like the number zero does as well represents god

00:09:17.880 whole infinity never ending what explain the numerology thing to me what is that numerology

00:09:24.000 is like the math of spirituality that's how i like to put it it's putting numbers to use it's like a

00:09:33.000 spiritual code so can you make predictions you can if yeah absolutely so like based off somebody's

00:09:42.020 birthday yeah if they saw somebody's birthday there's a certain way that you add the numbers

00:09:47.760 and then you keep going until it's a single digit how precise how precise is it so for example i mean

00:09:55.100 it just as precise as a tarot card reading let's so not precise at all it depends so not precise wait so

00:10:02.220 uh okay so because i've heard people make claims of if you're born in this year doesn't matter the date

00:10:10.460 doesn't matter the month if you're born in this year you're gonna have a good year or a bad year

00:10:14.900 do you agree with that it depends on where you're coming from what do you mean what does that mean

00:10:20.240 where you're coming so if you're coming from like a chinese astrology point of view absolutely but if

00:10:26.180 you're coming from a different background different view then no so wait i think it depends on what you

00:10:31.900 personally believe there's not like a set answer the chinese zodiac astrology yeah and usually do they not

00:10:37.860 have months in china it's just years it's it goes by the years each year has a animal that represents

00:10:45.180 it so the year of the right now it's the year right here is the year of the snake monkey of the

00:10:51.940 the snake right now is the year of the snake last year was the year of the dragon so what does that

00:10:57.220 mean if it's the year of the snake it depends on what year you were born it could be a very good year

00:11:01.840 for you could be a very bad year but it represents rebirth but so basically it doesn't factor in like

00:11:08.400 month and day it'll just look at the year and chinese how could that not be bullshit also looks

00:11:14.000 at the element like literally i'm not saying it's not bullshit but like think about it think about it

00:11:17.820 right so all the people born in a year they're all gonna have bad years how could that ever happen

00:11:22.900 but think about it right so like let's say even just going to a more uh micro level high school

00:11:29.380 okay so every most of the kids in a grade in high school right they're most likely all born in the

00:11:39.120 same year this would indicate that everybody in that class is going to have a good year or a bad year

00:11:45.280 but we know from our own personal experiences that like some people have good time in high school

00:11:49.540 some people have bad time in high school have good good years bad years so how could this ever

00:11:53.140 make sense i think it's not so black and white i think it also depends okay that's that's perfectly

00:11:58.800 fine i never think things are too black and white there's too much gray area for everything there's so

00:12:03.780 many subcategories branches of things that really get into detail about it if you're just looking at

00:12:10.580 okay it's the year of the snake you're having good year bad year then yeah it's black and white but if

00:12:15.480 you're going into the elemental aspect of it or how they actually look at the stars and decide okay

00:12:21.120 these planets are aligning so you're gonna feel this way i just think like here's the thing here's

00:12:28.180 the coral is i think you're making it black and white because if you're saying because it's this year

00:12:34.280 i'm gonna make a prediction about like how things are gonna go for people born in this year that's like

00:12:40.060 millions and millions of people yeah and it's like that's just how can you even i'm just saying

00:12:45.280 that based on that's what chinese zodiac is because you asked about the month okay fine then i'm prepared

00:12:49.280 to say not just what you think but whatever the fuck they think is bullshit too okay all right off to

00:12:54.480 a good start wait brian can you open the doors please brian real quick what sign are you how about

00:13:00.540 this why don't you guess and i'll show you if you're right oh taurus she watched the last show

00:13:11.200 are you a taurus yeah i don't know maybe no what sign are you i totally guessed he was a taurus too

00:13:20.660 yeah i have a lot to say about astrology i don't believe in it you don't give leo yeah

00:13:25.560 you might give leo but i'm not sure or a gemini he does give leo a gemini

00:13:31.640 i usually guess within like two tries usually that's all they take

00:13:36.500 it's not just your son we'll get everybody else's introductions what about you

00:13:42.380 hi my name is emma i am 23 years old um i live in vermont and i do a lot of different things

00:13:50.940 astrology being one of them um but i mainly i mainly do you have crystals too who here has

00:13:59.300 crystals what do you mean do i have crystals yes of course i have crystals

00:14:03.000 i have a candle and i have a candle and sage before coming here yeah yeah i was burning incense

00:14:08.700 on the car i asked you what kind of incense it was you also have crystals oh no i was just

00:14:13.760 agreeing that she was burning incense on the way here yep i see

00:14:16.420 she work in medicine she better not have crystals i was like yeah put them in the crystals

00:14:23.500 um but my main job right now is i work with kids in behavior management okay and uh education

00:14:32.840 yep in education i mean uh what education have you no um so i have two years in accounting but right

00:14:40.280 now i'm in school for psychology and communication you have your associates in accounting um no so

00:14:46.260 i went through two years and almost got my associates and then i decided i really don't

00:14:50.540 want to be an accountant um so i was gonna switch it to business because i owned my cleaning company

00:14:56.820 at the time okay um all the way damon uh okay what about you um hi my name is what's the door

00:15:03.540 oh go ahead you're good hi my name is kaylee i'm 22 years old and i'm from tampa florida

00:15:09.060 i graduated from a vocational trade school where i learned how to do special effects professionally

00:15:15.040 so i work in the tv and film industry and i recently segued from special effects artist

00:15:19.320 to producer okay cool and you got your bachelor's or no i just i went to a trade and it was a year

00:15:26.820 so it's an accelerated program of hands-on kind of like sculpting molding casting all that kind

00:15:32.540 of stuff very cool and you are uh the daughter of eddie guerrero which is who's that i know who he is but

00:15:41.860 i know he is as well maybe the viewers um a wwe wrestler um you may know him as latino heat

00:15:47.520 the latino heat here pull it up pull up the the the photo i didn't know if you guys knew on instagram

00:15:53.240 so oh okay so this is posted this is posted to your instagram

00:15:59.480 um so that's that's your dad with your mom yes wow and uh so eddie guerrero famous wwe i guess

00:16:11.460 well at the time it would have been wwf or maybe he was he was there when he was wwf but then it

00:16:17.700 transitioned right he was in wcw wwf and then they changed it yep wwe and then there's go to the

00:16:24.220 tiktok damien but make it full screen oh no we have the tiktok come on i was like 15 16 don't do

00:16:30.800 the resemblance okay play it no audio mute play it trying to see which pair and i look like more

00:16:41.180 there it is boom dad similarity test there you go all right cool uh that's super cool cool

00:16:49.040 hi i'm carrie yeah i'm 29 years old um i am uh what was the next question i'm from philadelphia

00:16:59.980 the philadelphia area but i did live in la for um throughout my 20s pretty much all right and i went

00:17:05.400 to school uh in la um i'm going to have my psychology degree finally in may bachelors

00:17:12.680 bachelors yeah but i would like science or arts it's arts but i want to be a scientist so that's

00:17:19.620 basically my ultimate goal scientist and uh eventual politician too um right right right um right now

00:17:29.260 in terms of other work um you know i am a full-time student right now but uh i have like

00:17:34.500 volunteer hours i do that are clinical hours um so i'm still searching for other work right now

00:17:41.220 other than like different uh side gigs are you so are you doing anything for work right now or no okay

00:17:47.140 no unfortunately not hi my name is raquel i'm 24 i'm from riverside california i'm currently in the u.s

00:17:56.980 army national guard uh recently got back from deployment and i also work at a youth academy

00:18:03.060 with children for disadvantaged youth any uh college or anything i have three years college

00:18:08.520 uh psychology are you still working on the degree or not right now okay you took a break uh what's

00:18:14.480 your rank in the military i'm a e5 sergeant e5 okay you went so you went and enlisted yeah got it

00:18:20.420 okay cool uh and wait where you said you were deployed uh yes where were you deployed i went to

00:18:26.700 kuwait iraq and jordan jordan okay uh and you said you just got back from deployment i got back in

00:18:34.720 a couple months ago uh july 2024 okay and uh and remind me what do you do in the military i'm a mechanic

00:18:43.380 mechanic mechanic okay is there like a specific thing that you're a mechanic for just all-wheeled

00:18:49.460 vehicles basically okay all right any uh like anything flying or no just on the ground just

00:18:56.300 ground stuff okay tanks do you do tank i've worked on a few but yeah all right cool cool

00:19:02.080 uh q what about you uh i'm the q pill certified relationship coach behavioral scientist um youtuber

00:19:12.420 author 32 years old philadelphia pennsylvania yeah okay very cool um and i'm trying to think if i had

00:19:23.500 another uh question about the military uh i i had one but it's evaded me so i'll come back to it but

00:19:35.600 we're gonna go around the table what's everybody's current relationship status if you're single how

00:19:41.000 long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead okay um

00:19:47.080 the longest relationship was three years and i've been single since may but like lots of little

00:19:55.240 things going on it's it's complicated complicated okay so your longest relationship three years

00:20:00.860 was that the one that ended uh back in may yeah okay who broke up with who um i was broken up with

00:20:09.100 but it was kind of yeah yeah yeah yeah but i kind of wanted it to happen not gonna lie you know how

00:20:15.420 you just kind of check out at the end you were checked out uh and orientation do you date men

00:20:21.160 women both i'd say everything everything everything you date dogs dolphins we had a dolphin if it's

00:20:29.180 consensual we should have gone into dolphin shit last show um have you dated the dolphin i can't say

00:20:34.420 i have would you though i mean if we could connect intellectually and it wasn't bestiality spiritually

00:20:40.660 yeah spiritual connection to the dolphin yeah i don't think would you prefer a female or a male

00:20:46.140 dolphin if you that was illegal what the fuck i don't know how to answer that question so you date

00:20:55.100 uh men women they thems xerxes uh non-binary yeah trans have you dated a trans person yeah okay

00:21:06.800 yeah uh trans woman trans man both both all of the above okay um i like it all what can i say

00:21:12.700 and so the three-year relationship you got broken up with but it seems like you're kind of checked out

00:21:18.400 to begin with you've been single for seven months you said though for this seven month period there's

00:21:22.600 been a lot going on and it's currently complicated yeah who is it complicated with you don't need not

00:21:29.880 their name but just you're currently involved with a a man a woman multiple multiple having

00:21:36.880 lots of relationships what's the roster looking like it's a little long not gonna lie i hope the

00:21:42.300 hoes aren't watching this you know they're not they're definitely not give us the details um so

00:21:47.720 what's the roster looking like it's like maybe more than 10 people 10 people okay yeah um

00:21:54.480 i'm finding all the hoes in different area codes but i'm down for that low maintenance

00:22:00.460 stuff right now you know like i feel like having a relationship is too much too much the city in the

00:22:08.120 city like oh i have to be emotionally involved in like the city of angels yeah yeah and there's just

00:22:14.900 so much going on it's hard to know what do you mean what does that mean so much going on there's so

00:22:19.340 many people to meet i feel like i've just been with too many insecure people you know and like

00:22:26.640 they're like don't do that don't do this and i'm just trying to experience the world what are some of

00:22:31.360 the things they tell you don't do like don't fuck somebody else well that that part i also dance

00:22:38.540 and i've go go dance worked on sex work oh when you say sex work what do you mean like dancing

00:22:45.960 oh kind of stripping okay yeah i feel like that's kind of low on the totem pole of like

00:22:53.320 no it is i guess when i say low on the totem pole i mean like stripping i'm like when i think

00:22:58.860 i mean it it is sex work but when i think sex work i start leaning towards like either like

00:23:04.320 only fans pornography or actual full-blown escorting prostitution have you done any of that stuff

00:23:09.840 no okay no only fans no fee pics have you sold fee pics i would like to if anyone wants some pictures

00:23:18.160 okay but uh so you used to dance at a strip club yes you still do i used to used to you still do but

00:23:28.020 you used to to no i used to dance at a strip club but then this person was like don't do that

00:23:36.960 i used to do drugs i still do but i used to too

00:23:40.540 no it's like here i'll play it again i used to do drugs i still do but i used to too because

00:23:49.200 you could used to have done drugs but you still i never mind whatever mitch headberg r.i.p um so

00:23:58.080 okay uh you currently have a roster of 10 people is there is it like equally men equally women like

00:24:04.540 you lean more towards women more towards men hmm i think it's more men right now more men yeah

00:24:11.760 okay i also don't like to put effort into meeting people like that like planning dates i like to meet

00:24:19.680 people organically right so like meeting men has been easier because the they put in the effort is

00:24:25.920 what you're saying i guess i don't know i don't know when you when you do date women is it uh is it

00:24:35.360 kind of confusing navigating like okay who's gonna pay for the date who's gonna make the first move

00:24:44.560 are you more dominant when you're dating women or do you want to take a more like let them

00:24:48.800 lead i guess hmm it depends on the woman they're more mask or femme what do you um i think i'm more

00:24:57.840 femme but depends also on the day um and with pain

00:25:06.160 hmm maybe it's equal okay yeah all right just kind of switch off and uh do you want to have kids

00:25:13.120 one day get married or what do you think i don't think i'll ever get married but kids would love to

00:25:18.480 have a kid to be honest yeah so do you think like at least whoever you're gonna have a kid with do you

00:25:23.200 think it's going to be more likely to be a man or do you want to adopt hmm either i think it'd be cool

00:25:30.560 to to have a kid with someone i'm with but raise this kid in a community like a poly yes yes i agree

00:25:40.400 yeah yeah that'd be really cool before kids you agree you agree yeah village takes a village to raise

00:25:46.400 a child yeah i love that i love like polyamory and oh yeah yeah i think it like i'm all into that

00:25:53.680 free love stuff so yeah to be argued with um have you been in a polyamorous relationship are you

00:26:03.040 currently i guess but nothing's defined what do you mean like i wouldn't say i'm anyone's like

00:26:10.160 girlfriend or boyfriend or anything it's just like people i'm hanging out with

00:26:16.400 doing other things with okay um is do you would you describe it as ethical non-monogamy like are

00:26:24.320 you up front with these people that you're like going out on dates with or sleeping with like hey

00:26:28.080 by the way fyi i'm five other people like do you tell them this yeah usually or if if they ask i'll

00:26:35.600 tell them if we don't talk about if you don't ask oh so like you omit like omission yeah but if you

00:26:41.280 ask me straight up i'll tell you okay and uh do you do you have like threesomes too is that a component

00:26:51.120 of the polyamory polygamy whatever hmm not with other people i see but i guess like if another person

00:26:59.680 enters someone that i'm seeing okay i try to say yeah like enters the couple that's cool but like

00:27:09.360 usually between the people i'm seeing they're not seeing each other okay yeah and uh do you do like

00:27:16.240 orgies i could be down no have you have you done orgy yeah three three sums four sums all the sums

00:27:26.160 what's the largest sum like five some set ten some what do you what have you done a lump sum

00:27:35.760 i don't know maybe like five people but i haven't like engaged with everyone in this huge room i was

00:27:42.720 there at this like sex party once only one time you've been to a sex party once okay yeah huh okay

00:27:48.560 i was scared you were scared i was scared i was terrified you were crying in the corner watching

00:27:53.280 everybody else okay with the whole like what a role that is sweet oh my god okay cool well we can

00:28:01.680 get into some more of that stuff a little later on but we'll get your uh relationship real real quick

00:28:06.800 though girl where do you have the time for 10 people in your roster i don't even got time i've

00:28:12.480 worked a whole time job and you live in la right yeah yeah where do you have the time i don't like

00:28:20.000 once a month or less like once yeah anyways so i guess i'm single i don't know i'm kind of i don't

00:28:30.480 know someone just came in the loop recently but uh i don't think they're dateable because they believe

00:28:35.760 in having two girlfriends and i can't do that no and also they're agreement or not agreement but

00:28:42.880 they can have two girlfriends but the girl can't have two boyfriends so i think that's a little not

00:28:48.400 really fair but um yeah i don't i think that's it just um so you've been single for how long oh a

00:28:56.080 year longest relationship so i'm goofed up last time it's actually five years okay who broke up with who

00:29:02.160 i broke up with him is that the one that ended a year ago no that was two and a half that destroyed

00:29:08.400 my car but the one that i was with for five years that i kind of forgot about that was like my like

00:29:15.760 long-term boyfriend that i dated back when i was like 14 to like 19 or something like that okay so

00:29:22.720 yeah got it cool what about you um i'm currently in a relationship and i my the longest time that

00:29:29.440 i've been single i mean longest relationship sorry was um four years how long have you been

00:29:34.880 in this relationship for a month one month yeah just new okay got it i feel like when you originally

00:29:42.080 reached out were you single i think i was you were okay were you seeing him at the time or this is you

00:29:48.320 just met i know yeah i think i reached out to you i think beginning of january okay how did you guys

00:29:53.600 meet through a co-worker it's my see you also work at the hospital no he's not he doesn't know it's um

00:29:59.600 it's my co-worker's best friend's brother no worker's best friend okay yeah so it was a blind

00:30:04.800 date kind of or just kind of yeah like well she gave him like my instagram because um he was at a

00:30:09.840 party that she was at and she was like hey like you should meet this girl she's very sweet she's like

00:30:14.640 very nice um and she's single and um he saw a picture of me and then um i gave him my instagram i

00:30:21.280 told her you know you can give him my instagram um if he's interested which he was so he hit me up

00:30:26.320 and i'm sitting to my dms okay and uh but so you guys met when what was the day that you

00:30:33.760 january 18th january 18th okay been together for a month so you guys live in the same city

00:30:40.880 no so he lives about i think 40 minutes from me okay got it and uh

00:30:49.120 trying to think about any other question no i think that's it uh and curious what's your like

00:30:54.080 background my ethnicity yes yeah i'm cambodian cambodian okay got it uh what about you uh as of

00:31:01.520 right now i am taken uh that is going to change by the end of today um my longest relationship

00:31:10.800 uh it's gonna end by the end of today yeah so how long have you been in this current

00:31:15.360 barely a month okay one okay it's already a problem how longest relationship three years

00:31:22.080 three years wait really quick i'm gonna get right back to you who ended the four-year relationship that

00:31:26.880 you were in i did you ended it okay uh your three-year relationship who ended it uh we both

00:31:34.160 we both separated that was the one that messed up my car mutual part yeah uh so okay you've been

00:31:41.120 seeing this current guy for a month but you're breaking up with him via the whatever podcast

00:31:46.800 look into this camera and say what you have to say hi luna lunatic loon luna that is his artist name oh

00:31:53.920 his oh wow okay i'm putting the artist name on black i am right into the camera go ahead

00:32:01.600 um we are definitely not going to work out you're still in love with your baby mama please go be with

00:32:08.960 her you what um you guys need to work it out uh i cannot be there to work it out for you

00:32:18.240 that is all i have to say cooked cooked very cooked

00:32:26.320 my shayla my shayla um wow okay that's uh that's cool yeah right so now i'm single um wow yeah okay

00:32:38.800 good times uh and uh do you have you had a rebound yet no he's my first relationship uh since my ex

00:32:49.600 i was single for a whole year celibate for that whole you were celibate i was for a year yeah eight

00:32:55.200 months six months eight months five five months eight months oh okay i don't know it went from a year

00:33:01.520 i had to think about it that's like four months there all right it was eight months uh are there

00:33:07.680 any like uh guys in the dms that you're immediately gonna text for no no absolutely not this was my

00:33:15.440 first time back outside meeting people and i am already over it i would rather much rather be single

00:33:23.120 on my own doing my own thing building what i want to build nice okay yeah what about you um i am single

00:33:30.800 uh my longest relationship was four years and what was the other thing uh how long have you been

00:33:39.280 single how long okay i've been single for about two years two years was that the four-year relationship

00:33:44.560 that ended two years ago no how long was your last one uh my last one that one

00:33:51.280 there's a lot to that story but we officially stopped like talking romantically probably

00:34:00.800 it was like very on and off so like a year in total okay and you said it was really on and off

00:34:06.720 yeah was your four-year relationship also on and off no so i actually i have a rule that i don't break

00:34:11.680 up and get back together um except for the last guy well because of life circumstances that i really

00:34:16.960 had no control over who broke up with who in the long uh the four-year relationship um so he got

00:34:22.800 arrested um for abusing me i don't know if i can say exactly what he did um because of on here um

00:34:35.680 but yeah it was the cops had to take him away we had a restraining order and then i was actually still

00:34:42.080 very convinced we were going to get back together and it took me like after his arrest for abuse yeah

00:34:47.280 because um i mean i just loved him but after being you know he was in jail but released but i was

00:34:55.120 choosing to stay away from him because i thought we were going to take a break and so wait so just

00:35:00.880 you called the police on him i did he pulled a he pulled what did he pull a gun a sword no he pulled a

00:35:11.200 bow and arrow no he pulled oh a gun gun after strangling me after strangling you and then called

00:35:18.000 my mom while he was strangling you no like what's up becky choking you no like i called the cops and

00:35:27.120 he called my mom yeah i called the cops he called my mom put that on the t-shirt that's kind of uh put

00:35:36.240 it on the mug i guess uh wow okay so he strangled you yeah was it like you guys were getting it on

00:35:43.680 and he went a bit too far or was it like violent no yeah it was it was violent strangling if we were

00:35:51.120 if you were to ask him why am i being strangled what would he say because i took the wi-fi box

00:35:56.880 that's ridiculous i think that's kind of valid i'm just kidding so i love how the two men like

00:36:03.120 said it was valid yeah like um so like i mean he should have just pulled the trigger so like he was

00:36:09.520 like they were obviously joking though they were joking um obviously joking of course okay so he

00:36:16.240 you took the wi-fi box yeah so we had just we had just gone on a trip to see my mom and it did not

00:36:24.880 go well and we got back from this trip and he hadn't been working for over a year i was paying

00:36:31.120 for everything our apartment all of his required bills all of those things um and then he just got

00:36:37.040 drunk and went on this tear of like insulting me and telling me how i wasn't even a good girlfriend

00:36:44.000 and i don't even do anything for him why are you why what was he saying well it was for

00:36:49.600 it was um back in 2021 at this point so i can't really remember exactly you guys were like living

00:36:56.000 together yeah yeah so um we had been living together most of that four years and um i was

00:37:03.760 only 16 when i met him right so how old was he he was 19 when we met is that

00:37:08.960 16 should be fine yeah yeah you can technically well i guess it depends some states okay yeah

00:37:19.520 almost everything is wait so how did it how did it get to that point you said he was he was drunk and

00:37:27.120 he just like was he just like like yeah so like and just like insulted you like yeah so like i mean i

00:37:36.240 don't remember exactly in you know whatever order exactly what happened to get to the fight but i

00:37:43.760 remember i was like you're not going to treat me like this i'm taking the wi-fi box and him he was an

00:37:49.520 alcoholic and he would get drunk to the point where like he'd drink an entire court mason jar of like

00:37:56.880 liquor in one night um he was a really bad alcoholic okay um life is wrong and so he would just black out

00:38:05.600 and go on these tears um did you know he was in like was he an alcoholic since you met him so i

00:38:13.280 didn't know he was an alcoholic when i met him when i was so i got kicked out when i was 16 and that's

00:38:20.800 when i met him what do you mean you got kicked out i smoked a cigarette and i got kicked out of your

00:38:27.280 house yes for smoking a cigarette yes my parents shoved out your house like told i don't want to raise

00:38:34.640 you like i'm tired of this yelled out like they found a pack of cigarettes on you or like i was

00:38:40.880 freshly 16 i just got my license and um my parent was supposed to take my car in to i think just like

00:38:48.240 get inspected like something very basic and he saw a burn hole in my seat and i guess he found a cigarette

00:38:56.480 butt but but um yeah and then his my boyfriend ex-boyfriend's little sister was staying the

00:39:05.280 night that night so we had to go back to her house um and he told me he just didn't want to raise me

00:39:12.480 anymore um and he said that when i get home that he wanted me gone and so yeah your parents

00:39:20.640 disowned you and kicked you out of the house for a cigarette are you sure there were other like

00:39:28.960 uh i was a pretty good contributing factors i uh so listen what would you think like what would some

00:39:36.000 other contributing factors be that you would expect i i mean there's there's millions that i

00:39:41.840 could think of but you would know better than me yeah like i mean i was a pretty good kid i never

00:39:47.200 what does that mean though pretty like like i never got into trouble i was never like but like

00:39:50.960 i could see for example and that there's the cigarette incident yeah that could be the straw

00:39:59.280 that breaks the camel's back like maybe there was something prior to that maybe you were already

00:40:03.280 grounded you did something i but i don't know it it could be the case that a parent would

00:40:11.200 kick the child out of their house for a cigarette i would suspect though that that might even be in

00:40:15.760 some sort of contravention of the law i don't think you can just kick a minor out of your house

00:40:22.800 i did end up going back um after like four months um my boyfriend and i began living in the house

00:40:30.720 together your parents house yes your your boyfriend after they after you got kicked out yes hold on

00:40:39.920 but so was there any other contributing factor were there any other behavioral issues did you get

00:40:46.240 in trouble in school did you go to uh what's it called the alternative school no no no the if you

00:40:52.320 get in trouble when you're underage you don't go to jail you go to juvenile juvenile no i never went

00:40:56.560 to juvie i never had any like criminal run-ins i was never even a bad kid in school except for

00:41:02.400 like i got bullied a lot and so i stood up for myself um but like i always had a great like yeah

00:41:09.440 i was a really good kid this at this time so i just be getting in situations but at the time i met my

00:41:19.280 boyfriend i had left school because i had gotten attacked by like a group of five girls and they

00:41:26.400 like it my anxiety had gotten so bad that i couldn't like walk into the school without having

00:41:32.480 a really severe panic attack um and they refused to move my classes they refused to do like really

00:41:40.400 accommodate that in any way so i wasn't in school like that so you stopped going to school i didn't

00:41:48.560 stop going because i did it online and submitted the assignments so i was still listening i'm submitting

00:41:53.120 the assignments but i wasn't like going to the classes does that make sense so wait a group of

00:41:59.440 five girls just they were physically attacking you or just attacking your character they they

00:42:03.760 physically attacked me yeah like i was like they jumped you yeah like i was walking down did you know

00:42:07.440 them yes was their history what was the history yes so um so the history i don't really even

00:42:16.080 remember you know this was in high school i don't remember the specifics exactly but you're 24 right

00:42:23.120 no 20 23 okay um so this was back would you say this is like you being jumped was like one of the

00:42:30.240 more traumatic experiences of your life not now at the time it was okay and you don't remember the

00:42:38.240 history between i've been through a lot worse things and getting like sure my mom's abused me more

00:42:44.400 than those girls did in the hallway so okay um but there was a history with the girls yes did you

00:42:52.960 used to be friends with them yeah so i used to be friends with them um i do remember they started

00:42:59.760 passive aggressively bullying me like telling me i couldn't wear my hair curly once i started

00:43:03.600 straightening it telling like insulting i'm from illinois um and i moved to vermont when i was young

00:43:09.920 so they would insult like my midwestern accent just things like that and so i didn't really i decided

00:43:16.640 to distance myself from them um and that started rumors um and you know i think i had said something

00:43:27.440 to one of them i don't remember exactly what it was um but over a rumor that was started and then

00:43:34.160 two or three days later i was walking down the nurse's hallway and one of them just grabbed me

00:43:39.120 and threw me up against the wall um yeah this didn't have anything to do with a boy no that is so

00:43:48.960 interesting no so wait um were they white yep it was in vermont i think it's yeah it's one of the

00:44:01.200 whitest states yeah it is so it's maine milk white vermont for women to be violent with other women

00:44:10.080 usually requires like a pretty substantial level of

00:44:13.920 yeah good point so i think it's different when you're talking about traumatized individuals individuals

00:44:21.360 who have faced trauma their whole life um so for like you know girls who saw domestic violence in

00:44:28.240 their home growing up or you know just anything like that it's a lot more common for those girls to

00:44:35.120 be willing to fight i mean like i don't i don't like to fight but i know that if someone tries to

00:44:43.360 fight me i can fight when i was younger and right like i saw violence for my mom i saw i didn't see

00:44:50.960 violence for my dad but i saw kind of more mature themes for my dad um you know just things like that

00:44:56.960 like yeah it's a lot more likely that when you have a disagreement you're just gonna fight over it so

00:45:02.800 can i quickly ask a question of course so if you were modeled those behaviors those violent behaviors

00:45:10.960 during your childhood why do you think that you rejected those behaviors and didn't take them on

00:45:16.480 as your own well i did so it was a lot more like that when i was younger um and pretty much since my

00:45:24.720 abusive ex-boyfriend i've had to like calm myself down a lot um and i was never someone who was like

00:45:31.360 outwardly violent or outwardly reckless um but i certainly wasn't kind of like a pushover

00:45:39.520 um you know if you said something that i took offense to you would know that i was offended

00:45:44.640 and you know more than not continuing the behavior because i i didn't like seeing it i didn't like the

00:45:56.480 ramifications that came from those behaviors in my young adult life and you know you only have until

00:46:03.600 a certain age to kind of correct a behavior i think if it's a habit that you've been exposed to like for

00:46:12.720 a very long time i think at a certain point it becomes almost irreversible where you're almost never

00:46:18.880 going to beat the symptoms or ramifications here look let me cut to the chase um i don't think

00:46:25.440 there's ever justification for physical violence but i think you're leaving out components of the

00:46:31.760 story whatever if you talk about these girls if you instigated in some way it doesn't justify

00:46:38.560 physical violence did you instigate in some capacity well i'm sure that you know when they

00:46:43.920 said these things about me like you can't wear your curly hair down or like you can't you know

00:46:48.000 whatever um i'm sure i got really mouthy yeah and i'm not gonna feel bad about that because

00:46:54.720 i was feeling attacked and it got to such a severe point that i had to stop talking to these

00:46:59.440 girls all together i'm just okay so they took issue with you having curly hair they took issue

00:47:05.200 with everything i was bullied for my height i was bullied for my voice and my accent i was bullied

00:47:09.120 for my hair i was bullied for everything but when you said you mouthed off back to them yeah

00:47:14.720 they attacked you not in the moment but in cold blood yes at another date another time yeah so i

00:47:22.960 don't know specifically what it was that triggered them to attack me that day like i said you know this

00:47:29.680 was years and years ago um so they just walked up to you and started fucking you up because like

00:47:34.320 often i just told you i was walking down the nurse's hallway and you know they said something to

00:47:39.200 me and i ignored them i tried to walk past them and they grabbed my arm and threw me up against the

00:47:42.320 concrete wall yes that's just so random i mean okay i mean like that happens it happens like it

00:47:49.440 wasn't like you know reinforced or anything like there wasn't anything um i i don't want to get too

00:47:54.400 sidetracked here you got kicked out of your parents house again i have similar questions though okay

00:47:59.280 i'm answering look i don't lie sometimes these situations happen but for you to just you got

00:48:07.440 caught smoking a cigarette they're usually like parents are not just okay you're now homeless

00:48:16.880 because you smoked a cigarette i can understand the parent being very upset by this kicking a child out

00:48:23.280 of the house one it would if you had gone to like child protective services there would have been

00:48:27.360 consequences um my that seems really extreme for a cigarette yeah well and i agree and um you know

00:48:35.040 like i said we went back after three months and it was because my dad realized that he severely overreacted

00:48:40.880 um and you know um parents aren't perfect either parents mess up and um i mean i i definitely agree

00:48:53.840 that it was extreme i told my dad that at the time um and you know he he'll say that he didn't kick me

00:49:05.120 out because he brought me back to the house while screaming that he didn't want me there and that he

00:49:08.960 wanted me gone um but you know after i think two and a half months of not having me there that's

00:49:16.880 when he like reached out and he said that he tried calling the police in vermont and that they said there

00:49:22.640 was nothing they could do because i was 16. so wait he he called the police yeah he said he tried

00:49:28.880 smoking a cigarette no because i was out like while i was gone oh like so okay my dad kicked me out

00:49:38.560 and then when he called the police they said that he tried to report me as a runaway and wait he kicked

00:49:45.680 you out yes he kicked you out and then how and then that same night said no not that that's not that

00:49:54.160 same night oh when so like i was probably out of the house for about four months altogether so like

00:50:00.240 probably four months after then he called the police i wouldn't say i so i found this out after

00:50:05.600 i got back so i don't know when in between that four month period he called but afterwards we were

00:50:11.840 talking about it and he said that he called the cops and that the cops said they couldn't do anything

00:50:18.080 wait so when he put you out did he put you out

00:50:21.680 like was it in the moment he was angry for that night or did he put a time limit did he say never come

00:50:26.240 back so no he said he just said i don't like that's really what i remember i don't want to raise

00:50:31.440 you anymore i don't want to do this anymore it's too difficult to do this with you um and so you know

00:50:36.560 a 16 year old brain hears that especially when that was abused by their other parent as well they're

00:50:42.880 like okay we'll say less like i'm gone and so that's what i did um you know my dad's not perfect

00:50:50.720 he's lived a really hard life himself um so we got in this argument and that was kind of another

00:50:58.320 situation where i was like i don't like this i don't like this behavior i don't like this reactivity

00:51:02.880 i don't like this anger you know so it was a lot of experiences like that in my like before i turned 18

00:51:11.200 that really helped form my behavior wait so his specific words were i'm tired of raising you

00:51:16.560 his specific words were i don't want you here go live with the oh that because the words are

00:51:24.320 shifting a little bit earlier like when you just said it you said i took a hint i forget exactly

00:51:31.920 verbatim what you had said there but you said oh i took the hint and then i left on my own volition

00:51:37.360 so the the words you used like 30 seconds a minute ago are completely different to how you just

00:51:43.520 described it i just said i took the hint that he wanted you out didn't want me here anymore he

00:51:49.200 didn't want to raise me anymore if you say i don't want you here that kind of insinuates is that what

00:51:54.560 he said though yes okay okay uh all right um we'll come back to them just a sec we have a chat sorry

00:52:03.440 graffito tax donated two hundred dollars this story is so sus number one it takes two people

00:52:11.680 to fight you definitely weren't just a victim number two your school definitely accommodated

00:52:17.280 psychiatric issues it's federal and state law stop the camp do you want to respond to yes i would love

00:52:24.160 to respond so i actually got the chance to go work at the school district um when i first started

00:52:29.360 working with children and one of my big things with the school district just in general was that

00:52:36.000 they never documented abuse or anything like that um like if i had bruises i walked in with bruises that

00:52:42.320 was never documented and when i got to go work at this district i saw that pattern repeating um

00:52:49.680 bruises from your boyfriend or from your parents bruises from well if a child walks in with bruises you're

00:52:55.760 supposed to document it and notify you're a mandated reporter you're supposed to yeah any any marks um

00:53:04.960 and i was never asked about so many of them and then when i went to go work there last year

00:53:10.960 there was a specific student who showed numerous very obvious signs of sexual assault and i kept

00:53:21.280 repetitively pushing to have this reported um to have him go to the nurse and have certain things

00:53:26.320 checked out um and i was basically told to stop i was told that it's a lot of paperwork and we aren't

00:53:34.720 even sure you know i think school districts across the country really aren't doing their job okay um and then

00:53:43.120 i guess bringing it back to the original original thing here your boyfriend uh choked you strangled

00:53:51.200 you and then pointed a gun at you yeah okay was he drunk while he did this of course okay um and then

00:54:01.760 you called the police what was what was he charged with he was arrested he was arrested you could look

00:54:05.840 up the police report from the night he was arrested if you wanted it's okay um he was arrested for

00:54:11.200 assault with a deadly weapon i believe and interfering with 911 calls okay was he prosecuted for the

00:54:16.560 felony no because domestic violence abusers in vermont aren't prosecuted there's someone who has over

00:54:21.520 180 criminal run-ins and they're still just walking the street and after he did this to me um he tried

00:54:27.520 to slit another person's throat and he's still just walking free after getting arrested for that

00:54:32.880 vermont and their laws are i guess vermont's pretty liberal state so i mean they let a lot of criminals go

00:54:39.040 yeah i mean perhaps there's some truth to that statement we have people who don't get a job and

00:54:44.640 just steal all of their things from a store because our laws are so relaxed a cop can't grab you if

00:54:50.960 you're shoplifting because that's assault that's how bernie sanders is he was arrested though correct

00:54:56.640 yes he was and he did he get out on bail how long was he in jail yep so he was in jail for less than

00:55:01.200 three days he was immediately let out um and he went to go stay with someone i knew um and he gave

00:55:11.520 them they gave him all these rules like he couldn't be drinking he couldn't be like playing excessive

00:55:15.760 video games like he had to have a job all these things and he broke every rule and got kicked out

00:55:20.480 in less than like three months were you ever abusive towards him um i wasn't perfect i will say that

00:55:30.960 after you know four years of abuse you definitely give that like you match the energy you know what i

00:55:40.160 mean um i'm really not a malicious person i'm not someone who like tries to go out of my way i don't

00:55:47.120 even like fighting or arguing and i never have i've just always been in fight or flight and felt

00:55:51.680 like i had to so he would say um i was abusive towards him in the sense that when he would hit

00:56:04.320 me i would hit him back like i i wasn't going to take that especially with like what i saw growing up

00:56:09.920 did you ever hit him first no never never okay so he he was physically abusive yes physically violent

00:56:16.240 yeah and he always initiated okay would the would this be out of the blue and typically related to

00:56:22.480 his alcohol consumption like would he was he better when he was sober or the same he was

00:56:33.520 he was bad all the time like he even sober he would do things like insult he would just

00:56:39.920 insult everything about me would you insult him no i loved everything about him i thought he was if

00:56:45.040 i'm dating you you loved even the physical and verbal abuse well in my mind it was like he saw

00:56:51.280 this growing up he doesn't want to do this i was a kid um like he doesn't want to do this this is what

00:56:56.880 yeah who cares what the justifications are uh well i had to go through those experiences to understand

00:57:02.320 that the justifications don't matter though see no that's what i'm saying yeah i don't care how abused

00:57:07.200 you were as a child if you commit crimes i don't care yeah you're still guilty of said crime in this

00:57:14.240 case uh according to you he was physically and brutally abusive yeah yeah i had friends who came

00:57:20.960 i wouldn't forgive like if a girl was abusive towards me i don't care how fucking abused she was

00:57:26.480 goodbye like it's not i'm not gonna tolerate somebody's abuse because they were abused themselves

00:57:31.920 yeah and i totally agree with you and i'm at that point now where like if i see a red flag like

00:57:36.320 someone's doing drugs or has anything to do with drugs or like excessive partying as an unhealthy

00:57:43.440 coping mechanism like i just stay very far away from that but i had to still experience those things

00:57:49.520 to learn those lessons okay um so but i guess my confusion is you stayed with him for four years

00:57:58.560 mm-hmm and then even that had had he been arrested before for physical abuse towards you had you called

00:58:06.800 the police on him before no there was one time he called the police on himself um and that case was

00:58:14.880 dismissed um he wasn't letting me leave and so i was trying to get past him and push past him and

00:58:23.760 he just he wouldn't let me pass so i tried to like move his body like this um and then he pushed me

00:58:32.880 on the ground and because i fell and i got a bruise he called the cops on himself

00:58:40.320 because he didn't want me to call the cops first in his words that's what he said

00:58:43.840 was he arrested uh he was arrested he was released you know so he's been arrested twice

00:58:52.560 in related to domestic violence situations with you and the courts dismissed the first case and i

00:58:58.160 think even though he called so there's a i assume like a police 911 recording of him calling the police

00:59:06.560 on himself confessing essentially yeah to committing a battery i assume the police come

00:59:13.120 they get a statement from him which perhaps was on body camera saying that he physically assaulted you

00:59:20.000 and they let him go like they arrest him and they didn't that's how arrests work in vermont really is

00:59:26.800 you're gonna get arrested the only time you're arrested for more than like 24 hours max is if it's on

00:59:31.680 a friday and a judge can't have a zoom call with you were you in touch with the prosecuting attorney

00:59:37.920 the district attorney because typically with dv cases i mean they can i got a victim advocate

00:59:44.160 well they can prosecute a case even if the victim doesn't want to yeah what's the word

00:59:49.840 it's not up to me it's yeah it's not up to me it's no no uh cooperate yeah but after he was

00:59:57.600 arrested were you unwilling to cooperate with the district attorney so the first domestic violence

01:00:02.320 incident i don't i never even got that i don't think there was ever really even i think there was

01:00:07.120 one court case for the first one which was like first when we got together right and i was just

01:00:13.040 coming out of like that thing with school i was having like all these problems with my dad so like

01:00:17.680 i really wanted this person in my life like i think that's important i was young and i just i really

01:00:22.320 wanted this person in my life and i was mentally not in the best position okay so well fast forwarding

01:00:28.480 back to the second arrest where he strangled you and put a gun in your face you wanted to get back

01:00:33.600 with him after he was because i was so what was it assault with a deadly weapon i think so yeah so

01:00:41.920 okay i think that's what it says in the police report so you got back with him or you did you get

01:00:46.480 back with him after that i didn't no did you meet him in person again after that okay never but you

01:00:51.680 wanted to get back with him so yeah like i would say for the first like couple months when i was

01:00:55.760 depressed like i was essentially grieving a breakup for that first few months um because he wasn't

01:01:02.720 there with me like i had had him next to my side for the last four years and even though he was

01:01:07.040 abusive i don't know why that did so much for me just having someone um but no i never got back

01:01:15.760 with him after that because at the place he was staying he was supposed to stop drinking and he

01:01:20.800 blamed me for all of these things like oh well it's your fault i drink so much like you stress

01:01:24.240 me out or like you're just too boring that's why i play some video games all the time or like we don't

01:01:29.120 you know any of those things um and those issues continued and he kept getting arrested and got another dui

01:01:40.240 he has like eight duis um had he had duis before you started dating him yep yep so when i met him he

01:01:47.040 had no job no car he was living with his dad i got him his life i helped him get his license i helped

01:01:52.400 him get all his government documents you like a project don't you yeah um yeah i mean i did i'm not

01:02:01.280 i'm not gonna lie i did like a project i uh when i was younger but that's a very 16 year old and

01:02:08.320 childhood mindset and that's were there other men interested in you like guys at your high school who

01:02:12.880 were just i don't know on the tennis team who had stuff like i i really always got bullied or some

01:02:19.200 shit i i always got bullied um so i was really anxious i never really had a lot of friends this

01:02:25.440 was my first like long-term serious boyfriend this you know i lost my virginity with him like okay you

01:02:33.040 were so you were like connected and yes so like he up until i dated him and and this is still my

01:02:41.440 perspective you shouldn't date someone unless you're willing to try and make it work and spend

01:02:47.440 your life with them and so i you know

01:02:54.640 i just don't know when you started to date him yeah your attitude was this is going to be my my

01:03:03.040 future husband the alcoholic du multiple dui really okay like don't you think yes going in

01:03:11.840 i'll tell you why when i actually why tell me why okay so my dad's a recovered addict and he hasn't

01:03:17.200 touched anything in the last since i was born he found out um you know my mom's a really bad alcoholic

01:03:22.880 too okay and uh my dad was an addict when i was conceived and so while my mom kept partying my

01:03:29.600 dad went to rehab and switched his life around and everything like so when i was younger like drugs

01:03:37.760 alcohol you know all those things none of those things really turned me off because i've seen how

01:03:41.680 a man can like switch his life around and do the best that you know he can and they they can but it

01:03:48.800 doesn't mean they will and i had to grow and understand that um okay but i know that men are

01:03:56.000 capable of it but now i just have to i can't see those red flags anymore all right wow uh that's a

01:04:03.520 lot okay in any case you said in your notes you're so single yes so single i'm so single you've been so

01:04:10.560 single for two years yes you've been celibate for two years no when's the last time you were involved

01:04:16.000 with the guy uh probably three or four months ago so you can tell that for three four months yes

01:04:24.640 yeah okay but it's all right um yeah okay all right well i'll get we can come back to some of

01:04:33.120 that stuff later but i'm gonna get everybody else in relationship status i am single but as of the

01:04:39.120 last couple weeks i've kind of been talking to someone i'm happy with where that's going

01:04:43.600 um my longest relationship was four years and i initiated the breakup conversation okay um and

01:04:52.720 how long you've been single for i've been single since uh 2022 so about three years three years

01:04:58.640 all right and you kind of been seeing somebody though is it who is he or well don't say his name

01:05:03.360 but how did you guys meet dating app there twitter i actually love it because it was organic we had

01:05:10.240 a mutual friends and i had met him there and it was really nice he treated me really well and i was

01:05:15.920 into it so i uh i saw on your uh on your twitter you respond frequently to mostly tristan tate but

01:05:24.000 occasionally andrew tate i think i'm curious would you uh have you slid into his dms um not like that no

01:05:32.400 what but you have slid into his dms but like asking for advice or some

01:05:35.840 shit uh there was a time where my dog was dying and somebody posted about it and he was very kind

01:05:40.560 about my dog dying oh okay yeah would you date tristan tate i mean i think that uh i'm happy with

01:05:51.120 where my talking phase is going now well maybe if that before you met him would you have been interested

01:05:56.880 in tristan tate or andrew tate dating them i think it would depend on how they were in person

01:06:04.560 and if i actually if they were more than their online persona and i obviously know a little bit

01:06:11.520 more about certain people like tristan with the whole dog situation um but yeah well how about this

01:06:18.720 they offer to fly you to romania for for a date one of them or either whatever would you would you go

01:06:25.360 i think they would have to know my morals first which is what uh that i'm saving myself for marriage

01:06:30.000 and have been my whole life so okay i'm not really are you virgin i am a virgin not a born again virgin

01:06:36.480 no a virgin no i am a virgin it's actually like so important to me it makes dating very difficult so

01:06:42.160 you probably wouldn't want to date them because i don't think they're waiting yeah they're not waiting

01:06:47.040 i was trying to say that nice yeah definitely not obviously they're attractive men obviously have

01:06:51.600 certain morals so it wouldn't line up it wouldn't line up i was trying to say that in the nicest way

01:06:56.000 possible i understand yeah i understand thank you what about you okay um so i was in a well i'm single

01:07:05.440 right now pretty much um i guess it's complicated okay yeah longest relationship yeah longest relationship

01:07:12.960 four years um but we didn't really break up i kind of just you're still fucking

01:07:18.000 uh no i um i i mean okay so i moved from la because you know i have all these goals i want to

01:07:28.400 have like a phd and like i said i want to be in politics so i can't really do that i feel when i'm in

01:07:33.680 la which is very distracting super expensive so that's kind of why we're not hooking up anymore

01:07:41.120 because i moved and i told him and i was like i'm leaving wait bye here i'll ask questions and you

01:07:49.520 just give me the answers when when did you move from la so um i moved in december okay so last year

01:07:57.760 so you were seeing him up until december yeah and you moved where again back to um philadelphia area

01:08:04.160 philadelphia yeah okay and how long are you seeing him um i was like i said i was seeing him for four

01:08:12.400 years okay this is the four-year guy yeah yeah didn't i ask if it was the four okay yeah so it's

01:08:21.280 complicated though so was there not a clean breakup no i mean if i went back to like you know i'm gonna

01:08:30.400 i'm probably gonna see him in a few days that's the question i was about to ask right you're here

01:08:35.280 in southern california yeah so when i see him i see him yeah but you guys i'm confused so did you

01:08:41.120 break up or did you not i i told him i was like i want to stay friends but i don't feel that i can

01:08:49.200 really live in this area at this time in my life because i'm trying to focus on my career and everything

01:08:56.000 like that okay so and he was just like okay did when did you arrive in california uh recently like

01:09:03.920 you mean just now yeah for the podcast oh okay um uh this morning did you see him this morning no okay

01:09:12.080 uh so i guess you're single yeah you could say that yeah but you're gonna meet up with him for some

01:09:19.040 fun time i guess before you leave um okay so but you said earlier you're also uh polyamorous yeah so

01:09:28.880 during the four-year relationship were you seeing no no it was a monogamous relationship yeah you said

01:09:34.640 something about poly though maybe i misunderstood are you i just don't i don't really feel like i'm not

01:09:43.200 i don't really feel that i'm going like i don't i don't have any desire to like find like a monogamous

01:09:49.200 partner that i'll be with for life in a four-year relationship yeah yeah i was um i i feel like he was

01:10:00.720 sexually it was satisfactory for me so that's i think why that's what you a guy loves to hear the

01:10:06.880 sex was satisfactory okay the sex was just good enough yeah um love it um yeah so i'm just not i'm

01:10:17.520 not you know has has there been a period of your life where you were dating multiple people sleeping

01:10:23.920 with multiple people yeah what's uh what was the biggest number i guess five like a roster

01:10:30.560 um two or three two or three okay uh since the breakup you've been single ish for a month or so

01:10:41.520 have you had a rebound no no have you been seeing any other guys i just really i haven't

01:10:47.200 you know and that's the thing about like living in pennsylvania it's just like it's not really my style

01:10:53.200 like sexually philadelphia yeah i mean it's a major city it yeah it's just not your style sexually like

01:10:59.600 la i like la because it's just they're all soy boys and why do you like la what do you like about

01:11:06.880 that they all want to be pegged is that a f boys they all want to be pegged um i've had good experiences

01:11:14.320 like a lot of a lot of no but so good somewhat drug-induced no i'm just kidding i'm just kidding

01:11:21.120 what is sexually wrong with the men in philadelphia um i just haven't found any that were like i found

01:11:30.640 particularly attractive i haven't met any wait but you so you've had sex with them no i haven't i

01:11:39.600 just haven't what did you what did you say sexually what i just haven't found any that i thought were

01:11:45.040 you know attractive like i haven't met any in philadelphia yeah i know when he's sitting here

01:11:52.400 in eastern philly he's just like offended i wasn't born in philly oh you weren't oh okay he's from the

01:11:59.920 mean streets of i don't know where you're from carol north carolina was it yeah yeah mean streets

01:12:10.800 okay i'm from the mean streets of santa barbara yeah so yeah all right uh okay so you're not digging

01:12:18.400 the philadelphia guys got it uh what about you so i'm in a relationship it's six months and my longest

01:12:26.960 was three years who broke up with who in the three-year relationship i broke up with him all

01:12:31.200 right that's everybody's relationship stats speaking of which we had this come through oh boy i hate these

01:12:36.240 ones donated two hundred dollars oh my god ladies would you date brian on one hand he is tall six

01:12:45.120 foot one blue eyes rich sometimes funny successful but he has a dead bod probably autistic probably

01:12:52.720 has a weird liking for big labia and a small peepee it's average first of all okay get it right

01:12:59.280 uh okay i hate this uh we'll go around the table would you date me if you have a big labia

01:13:06.000 yeah yeah wait no he has like he has a thing for big labia okay i'm into that too so we have that in

01:13:18.480 common oh you like women with large labia but you also like women with large labia yes yeah are you

01:13:27.120 so you're saying you have large labia no no but i'm saying we share that we have that in common okay

01:13:34.960 yeah all right yeah you prefer you you prefer that in in women the large labia i like all you like

01:13:41.840 audis me too but yeah you have a preference but i like big labia energy you like big labia energy yeah

01:13:48.480 i like okay cool so if we connected mentally yes but as far as the height requirement

01:13:57.040 i don't i don't care i could date someone that's short tall and i like someone that's bigger than brian so

01:14:02.640 okay cool i would i think you're attractive thank you oh you gotta hold on you got a boyfriend

01:14:09.680 though you can't be so you know saying that sort of thing that's okay uh we're we're very honest

01:14:14.800 like it i mean like i'm a very honest person but i'm not saying right sorry go ahead no i'm just

01:14:19.760 saying like you are an attractive person oh thank you yes so like if i was single whatever boom w okay what

01:14:26.640 about you i would say yeah okay um i think so yeah even after the inquisition even even after

01:14:35.920 i interrogated you oh definitely i mean i she enjoyed the interrogation i'm not i'm not embarrassed

01:14:41.600 about anything i've been through i've worked really hard to get through a lot of it um but yeah i mean

01:14:47.040 i haven't seen any red flags in you you're attractive thank you um i would just yeah

01:14:53.920 i'm getting all the w i'm getting all the w's tonight brian even the dead one you're fine oh

01:15:00.400 thank you thank you all right cool what about you um depending if we were both single and both had a

01:15:06.160 good vibe i would definitely consider going on a date wow all right wow okay look at that okay what about

01:15:11.520 yeah um i want to talk to you more to see how smart you are because i like i have an intelligent

01:15:18.400 guys okay but just at face value yeah you're an attractive guy cool yeah um personally no just

01:15:29.840 because you're not my type but i bet you're a great guy thank you cute my boy almost went eight for

01:15:34.320 eight i know no that's a that's a rare probably yeah all right but no damn what about the female

01:15:43.280 version of you would she date you would she can we find that photo really quick just to pull it up

01:15:47.600 since it's all my gosh pull it up pull that up would she date me or you me i don't think black women

01:15:57.440 like me to be honest you know what i mean it's not that they don't like me okay wow that's that's

01:16:07.440 female q is that ai that's trans q uh very pretty but uh yeah i don't think black women like me you

01:16:17.360 know i would like i feel like they want to date black guys you know they do primarily strong

01:16:23.680 preference okay all right uh okay let's get into some of the pre-show notes here so where do we

01:16:29.440 begin we are going to start with is that a lincoln park song start with one thing i don't know okay

01:16:40.560 so that's all right yeah uh okay kitty we're gonna start with kitty you said you like

01:16:47.600 you attract nothing but guys with warrants and face tattoos yep true you just got played

01:16:53.520 by a younger dude how young i don't want to answer that because you're 33 how old was he

01:17:00.240 not answering come on not answering it give us the over over 21 though he was 20 over 21 he was 22

01:17:08.320 over he was 22 over he was he was 18 right he was oh no no i would never i would never need

01:17:15.760 me drinking age legal he was kind of older uh okay you got uh so you got played by a younger dude

01:17:22.880 when you say you got played what does that mean um well for starters her boyfriend that she dumped i

01:17:28.000 actually hooked her up with his friend so that whole thing i don't know we're just all kicking in my

01:17:34.400 apartment and stuff and i don't know dude like acted like he likes me i also kind of like helped

01:17:41.200 someone out and allowed uh two people in my apartment that got like kicked out from their airbnb

01:17:47.680 and stuff that got threatened to get uh i guess shanked wow um yeah but how would i explain it

01:17:56.240 happen i don't know they left and then bro would just kind of keep leading on in the dms and then

01:18:01.520 one day we're supposed to go to the same rave and they left within five minutes after they knew

01:18:06.560 we were going which is a little sus and then the next day she hits me up and she's like he is a

01:18:12.800 girlfriend now all of a sudden um and then she's like you need to tell her that you don't like her

01:18:18.800 and he's like no but i do like her and i don't know what did he say about smashing both of us or

01:18:24.880 something yeah he said he was smashing two girls and i said you can't lead my friend on because

01:18:31.040 that's crazy that was already done and over with anyways yeah but he was like feeling so high and

01:18:36.560 mighty that he had two bitches and he did not it was just after me yeah interesting um and bro i guess

01:18:43.280 his new chick uh i guess this is sugar mama and she just gave birth like six months ago to like

01:18:48.800 someone else's a kid and just using her for money so i guess that girl just adopted two children

01:18:55.360 la like a lot in la good times here really quick we're gonna get into more of it but guys if you

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01:19:18.160 a message in so do that via streamlabs.com slash whatever now you said that yesterday you almost

01:19:24.560 got drafted into a cult and your soul got taken almost no i said almost almost a lot of people in

01:19:31.440 la need to stop am i allowed to bring certain words up on things some people need to stop doing k out

01:19:36.720 here they're losing their minds in la um thinking they're including you were you taking no no i actually

01:19:42.880 i'm sober i'm 100 sober i'm protected i've had a yes i am protected spiritually protected every way

01:19:50.320 possible spiritually yes okay um but bro is weird and was like get you up are you gonna do some k

01:20:00.880 the portals are gonna open for you i am god i am i am a god the christians talk about me that's who

01:20:08.240 they're talking about is me and and he's like and i just said no like i'm sober i'm happy i'm

01:20:16.560 you know i believe what i believe like that's it you're not my god um and we me and my other two

01:20:23.520 friends we left within like i don't know 15 minutes i feel like he's like the new papa legba

01:20:29.040 but uh he's like you shall pay

01:20:36.240 you really don't know and he did some weird like arm dance oh no do that again

01:20:44.880 he's like i am god

01:20:49.040 oh boy uh wow okay uh that's that's crazy that's yeah yeah just that la la guys you know

01:20:55.760 you need to put down the drugs you wrote here shivery is dead i feel like shivery is dead but

01:21:03.920 let me i'm gonna send it in the chat just you typed it in an interesting way i'm dyslexic

01:21:09.760 shivery like this is how you typed it hold on i know i'm dyslexic

01:21:15.440 shivery that's what you wrote is dead uh this new age of dating men be playing women and want a

01:21:20.720 sugar mama now doesn't matter if you cook clean not and not to be a thought men wife hoes now

01:21:26.960 and you think religion was set into play to keep people pure and follow rules so the world wouldn't

01:21:30.640 be such a messed up place like it is today wait so are you is that like a affirmative like a positive

01:21:36.160 statement towards religion like you think yeah i think i think religion was a positive thing because

01:21:40.800 it kind of made people have morals i see um like i was raised with morals you know manners

01:21:47.120 now in this generation a lot of people don't even have manners like when i house those two people in

01:21:52.240 my crib i like to have like friends family dinner if i'm cooking you're not eating the plate till

01:21:57.600 everyone has a plate like we're supposed to eat together like family uh-huh um and i feel like

01:22:03.280 religion is set in play because you know marriage kids you know cook clean like a lot of things have

01:22:09.520 gotten lost because if you notice a lot of people aren't really religious anymore there is still

01:22:14.400 religious people but a lot of things are just crazy now in my opinion so do you think it's

01:22:20.400 up on both ends like men are up and women are up yes or is it mostly men no no i'm both

01:22:26.400 ends because when i think of chivalry that's usually something the man does like that's the

01:22:29.600 man doing so it does but now there's women doing chivalry they're taking care of man-childs and

01:22:34.160 men aren't even working and just staying home all day recording music talking a bunch of gibberish

01:22:40.080 i don't that's not sexy though like when when women take care of men why no it's not even sexier

01:22:48.960 getting played and i don't have a kid but imagine you're dating a man and you have a kid from someone

01:22:53.520 else and you're taking care of like two kids and you're just getting played and finessed and used

01:22:57.760 that's worse yeah that is not sexy yeah i think the woman likes you more though if she's being a simp

01:23:04.560 like if she's going so far what i'm saying is she's doing all that she's paying for shit for a

01:23:13.440 guy she probably likes the guy a lot like that's so kind of out of the i think the natural order of

01:23:22.160 things for a woman she's got a i mean it's a good sign for the guy i think but what if the guy doesn't

01:23:28.880 want her because that happens now some people just be with i know people that are dating 304s and

01:23:34.480 they're okay leaving as long as they're getting a monthly allowance that wait the guy gets an

01:23:40.640 allowance from the woman yeah yes and i know someone right now that's dating a 304

01:23:46.480 ads and all and he leaves the crib when she got someone and oh wait she's sorry he leaves when she

01:23:54.720 has so she's a uh prostitute yes yes guys don't care even dating a prostitute so she's taking care

01:24:04.240 of him yes but she's a literal whore and she brings men over to their shared house well it's her crib

01:24:13.680 her you don't really have a crib bro just he lives there yeah and then she fucks the marks or whatever

01:24:20.720 they're called in her bed i don't do the sheets after at least i don't i don't know about i don't

01:24:26.560 know about that i just found out bro was dating a 304 recently that's that's for everybody involved

01:24:34.400 although that would be if it was the reverse like if it was the guy like when he was a male

01:24:39.600 prostitute what the fuck he probably would be too though huh he probably would have no problem doing

01:24:45.280 the same if he could get paid for it this is not a really common phenomenon at all this is like yeah

01:24:52.080 it happens but it's like i feel like it only happens in l.a where i'm from in jersey and new

01:24:55.920 york we have family morals yeah we have mob people yeah like a lot so okay i know way too many guys

01:25:04.400 it's not common it's very common because no i know i know five of them they're getting fully paid

01:25:11.200 for and they pretend that they don't care about the other whatever she's got going on because yeah

01:25:16.720 they are getting paid they get they get a free house they get free food they're they basically are

01:25:22.160 just living they're hobosexuals yeah exactly this is not there's a common it's not common it's not

01:25:30.880 supposed to be but but it's not common fortunately it's becoming a lot more common that's real i don't

01:25:36.080 think that i don't even know if it's worth talking about because of how rare it is though yeah it's

01:25:40.960 like i acknowledge it like yeah there's these dudes who are kind of probably weird living off their like

01:25:46.960 sex worker girlfriend because she's making a ton of money it's it might not even be tons of money

01:25:52.160 apparently he's not even getting paid that much some people are happy with the bare minimum

01:25:55.920 um vice versa even in relationships women gotta stop dating homeless men like cut that

01:26:01.760 shit out literally if he's homeless yeah you can't be dealing with him that is what if they're not

01:26:06.560 homeless what if well there's other there's other metrics i only gave a younger person a chance

01:26:13.200 because the thing that i've realized why is it a 30 year old or a 31 year old has the same that

01:26:19.680 i don't know a 24 or 25 year old has wait has the same what like the younger person might have more

01:26:26.640 money than the older person the older person has nothing and they're homie hopping from crib to crib

01:26:30.720 like yeah and just wants to make it big as some rapper or something listen let me help you ladies out

01:26:39.920 i don't care what kind of music you fucking like i don't care for what if i don't like it

01:26:44.320 cloud shit i don't care if you love fucking kendrick lamar whatever bullshit word of advice i don't

01:26:50.240 care how successful of a rapper he is or how unsuccessful a rapper he is if he's a rapper you

01:26:57.360 just run away don't deal with him if he has face tattoos don't deal with him i like tattoos i don't

01:27:05.040 care like it's literally pattern recognition rappers probably not the guy who's gonna be like the good

01:27:13.040 boyfriend face tattoo probably not gonna be the guy with the who's gonna be the good boyfriend then

01:27:20.320 i guess i might go back to austin texas and go date these new age emo cowboys that have face tattoos

01:27:27.120 and they don't do rap music it depends depends what they do everything's different look as women if you

01:27:33.280 just have a blanket ban on face tattoos i don't think that that's gonna preclude you like that's not gonna

01:27:42.000 be like the thing that prevents you from finding a good relationship so it's gonna be the thing that

01:27:47.040 maybe protects you from bad dudes so all people would talk to you you think are bad because some

01:27:52.000 people are what did i say repeat back to me what i said i forgot already no no repeat it back to me i

01:27:56.640 have an attention span of uh dory i literally just said it repeat it back wait what repeat back my

01:28:03.680 position i'm dory i i don't care repeat back my position wait say are you just not listening to the

01:28:09.360 conversation no i suffer from short-term memory loss i'm dory are you taking ketamine is that what

01:28:13.760 no no you could drug test me right now okay get the drug test amian okay i gotta pee actually get

01:28:19.120 a good covet test too we need to oh no that's crazy um i said face tattoos yes i didn't say tattoos

01:28:27.840 although you know what sure she has a face tattoo so i should stay away from her are you trying to

01:28:33.360 her no she wanted to date me but i didn't date her before so does that mean she's bad because she's

01:28:40.480 not what do you mean i'm not look let me explain the logic here i do get your logic well hold on

01:28:47.440 can somebody be fully blasted intent in tattoos and be like a fantastic person uh yes absolutely you could

01:28:55.360 you could be all sorts of things and still be a really good person my thing is is that i just believe

01:29:01.360 in pattern recognition i think you just save your time like i'm not gonna if if i see a girl who's got

01:29:09.440 lip filler giant fake titties bbl lipo belly um uh and just blasted in tattoos i'm just i'm not interested

01:29:19.520 she's an automatic pass because i'm just i'm interested in pattern recognition there's a lot of

01:29:24.000 women out there who have either minimal tattoos or no tattoos i can deal with them

01:29:31.680 but if i were a guessing man i'll let you come in just as if i were a betting man

01:29:36.560 i think more likely than not somebody who does have face tattoos

01:29:43.840 uh i'm trying to think what the correct wording here would be

01:29:47.120 yeah i'm just gonna pass just gonna pass i'm gonna pass i'm gonna pass i just feel like

01:29:54.960 look i could be totally wrong but i do think when it comes to tattoos and i'll date a girl who has

01:30:01.040 tattoos but there's i guess the amount of tattoos they have that could be a determining factor like

01:30:06.960 a girl with a little heart tattoo on her inner wrist okay don't care fine whatever but a girl with like

01:30:13.520 totally blasted neck tattoos face tattoos i'm gonna start making some judgments and guesses i could

01:30:21.120 be wrong but here's the judgment she has mental illness she has trauma she has baggage uh potential

01:30:27.680 drug use potential alcohol use i could be wrong but pattern recognition would indicate that i'm probably right

01:30:38.320 now you could be somebody who has all those tattoos and none of that applies

01:30:42.080 right but you got to understand like people are going to make those sort of snap judgments

01:30:46.800 like if i see somebody with the spiderweb tattoo on their fucking elbow i'm like drugs prison

01:30:54.480 i'm sorry am i wrong that was no that was a belief the spiderweb went back in the day

01:30:58.720 no but how to you was a jail tap but now and to say but am i wrong somebody who has the elbow tattoo

01:31:04.240 with the spiderweb drugs or jail and if it's a guy probably both or some people just trying to fit in

01:31:11.680 out because but if it's a chick probably drugs and i and i've pattern recognition i've been correct

01:31:20.640 on that okay okay go ahead sorry whatever q you have something i need to do for a sec yeah i think

01:31:27.280 well i think the panel is interesting tonight but we got a couple psych majors and a lot yeah so are

01:31:34.320 any of you familiar with the concept of assortative mating yeah okay so you're you're dating reality

01:31:41.360 probably reflects what y'all value and how y'all are so when y'all say something is common it's not

01:31:48.320 that common i mean do y'all consider yourselves the average woman with the way that y'all behave

01:31:53.200 and carry yourselves or the circles that you you know roll in so you probably like your preference

01:31:57.840 would you say the cowboy with the face tats like how many guys i honestly to be honest so yeah i am

01:32:04.000 attracted to dudes with tattoos and stuff like that but i have dated people that necessarily weren't the

01:32:10.080 most attractive but i found them mentally attractive like i could see someone that's

01:32:14.560 hot as hot as fuck but if i don't find them mentally attractive i don't like them like i

01:32:19.840 actually judge the person based on who they are yeah yeah that's that's fine i mean that that's fine i

01:32:24.880 can relate to that too but i'm just interested i'm just curious when y'all say like oh you know this

01:32:30.080 is prevalent this is common or you know i know people like this don't you think that's more reflective

01:32:34.560 of just the circles y'all riding as opposed to like which is why i'm getting out of the circle

01:32:38.800 that's very true that's a good point changing my circle different people absolutely like birds of

01:32:46.080 a feather flock together we talk her and i talk about this a lot it's i isolated for a really long

01:32:52.160 time uh recently and then put myself back in school did all that and when i came back out and started

01:32:57.200 meeting people i saw the same patterns and it was the same thing and that's why like i still don't

01:33:03.280 talk to many people i started making new friends at school trying to make it a new circle

01:33:07.920 and it is a reflection of my transition as well absolutely as soon as you change whatever you're

01:33:14.640 into whatever you like things about yourself personality wise absolutely it changes your circle

01:33:20.800 yeah okay yeah yeah it's absolutely a reflection yeah but i but i also think that there are certain

01:33:27.040 things that it's been found on average women look for you know men and women like i are you familiar

01:33:34.320 with evolutionary psychology that's what i specialize in oh okay yeah so women tend to on average look for

01:33:41.680 resources and partners and men on average tend to look for like physical attractiveness youthfulness

01:33:48.880 yeah so i mean i'd say that that's that's why i i thought that uh when everyone was bringing up the

01:33:56.480 issue earlier of like kind of taking care of a man as a woman i mean i do think of my relationships as

01:34:05.360 egalitarian but to be honest like i don't think that if it's unbalanced either way like i don't want

01:34:13.200 like a father figure or anything like that in my relationship like a guy who's like totally taking

01:34:18.160 care of me i mean if he's if he's making a little bit more than i am then i think that that's fine

01:34:24.320 um you know it's like it's been found that men mate uh across and down and then women mate across and up

01:34:33.520 but you know i i would be lying if i said that you know i would ever go out with a guy who has like

01:34:42.960 nothing going on well like well he has no job i don't mean to interrupt you but he has no job

01:34:49.440 no income no interests you know what i'm saying like that's not sexy to me right i mean that wouldn't

01:34:55.280 be sexy to most women because that doesn't provide any benefits evolutionary right yeah but um i do see

01:35:00.960 it is more prevalent now especially in like western cultures and the interesting thing about

01:35:07.120 it what if i introduced you to a novel idea such as well if evolutionary psychology is a thing and

01:35:12.480 it's valid then of course we're still evolving our evolutionary psyches so that means if society is

01:35:18.640 adopting feminism sexual liberation women making their own money men women are attracted to things

01:35:25.440 men did because that's the state of the societies that they've evolved in so we could be just adjusting

01:35:30.720 to this new founded women having jobs making money you know we're finding out that women actually

01:35:36.160 have the capacity to want to take care of men when they have their own money they're not as stressed

01:35:41.200 out you know and i'm just saying that's that's a possible direction we could be going and that's

01:35:45.680 why you see it it's yeah more prevalent like in america and in europe where women you know sent for

01:35:51.760 men more and aren't if they got money you know hey yeah i'll take care of the bills because

01:35:56.400 i mean we have the capacity to yeah you get what i'm saying yeah like i think that's a good

01:36:00.080 explanation and and you'll probably see more of it as we continue ahead and i feel like it really

01:36:04.640 started being that way when women had more of an opportunity to make more money you can almost see

01:36:10.720 the shift exactly where it happened and you're continuing to see that shift as women have more

01:36:15.280 and more opportunities to really run a much bigger bag now than they did before and that really is

01:36:21.680 the difference i was just talking to my mom about this this morning because my mom is newly single

01:36:26.560 as well and datings and she's like my best friend so we talk about it and we were both kind of having

01:36:32.080 the same issue where we would find people who are maybe making less money and they almost latch on

01:36:38.240 and when you think about it women did the same to men it's not like we never did that it's not a new

01:36:43.600 idea it's just a a role switch i guess you could say yeah because it's whatever is beneficial or

01:36:50.240 advantageous and if you like somebody then whoever's in the best position to provide essentially is going

01:36:54.400 to provide and that's why you know more and more people pay 50 50 on bills i mean the majority of

01:36:59.680 people who are married share bills they split bills i mean they got the traditional guy who pays all the

01:37:05.040 household bills and take care of everything to stay at home mom that's the outlier now so it is you

01:37:10.160 know it's just reflective of the state of our culture yeah it absolutely is uh let's see here

01:37:17.600 i don't know where we left off i think we're talking about tattoos i don't know how much you hate

01:37:24.160 girls with tattoos i don't hate women with tattoos we wear a trauma on our sleeve

01:37:30.960 a little bit i mean that's just i mean he's he's correct guys are colors because we're toxic sleeves

01:37:36.320 guys with sleeves are hot especially if they're like real fit and they go to the gym that's real

01:37:41.840 hot you need to get that you need to get that like tattoos tend to be a more masculine yeah i mean there

01:37:48.000 are like tattoos that can be cutie or more girly but i think the thing is like i think for women not

01:37:54.160 i don't think all women are attracted to tattoos or men who have tattoos but i think there's a large cohort

01:38:01.520 of women who will view tattoos on men and it'll make them more attractive or more masculine right

01:38:08.480 that'll be the impression maybe maybe not even more attractive but it will make them more masculine

01:38:15.920 and whether a woman likes that or not i'm unsure but but when it comes to tattoos on women

01:38:23.520 the assessment is kind of the same but not in the terms of attractiveness they think tattoos

01:38:31.440 make women more masculine so they make men more masculine and they make women more masculine

01:38:37.200 and so typically men are not attracted to masculinity in women so if a tattoo masculinizes women that's

01:38:45.680 going to can very well make her less attractive to a man realistically i would say that tattoos on the

01:38:54.160 woman i think for most men it's going to be neutral or it's going to be a negative

01:39:01.200 like most men now there are men like who are parts of certain subcultures or maybe they're heavily

01:39:06.480 tattooed themselves or they're actually using it as a pattern recognition to perhaps make a determination

01:39:12.640 if i can manipulate this woman um i don't know if that's necessarily always the case well it certainly

01:39:19.280 isn't always the case but i think or they could be like okay she's more promiscuous like and i think

01:39:24.960 it'd be a fair assessment to say like a woman who's more heavily tattooed is more promiscuous is

01:39:30.160 likely to be more promiscuous whether that's no it's true it's a correlation i do think there's a

01:39:34.960 correlation because i don't think there's a lot of like like if you had to bet the whole panel

01:39:40.960 if a woman had neck tattoos do you think she's a virgin no no no no so i think oh hold sorry

01:39:50.960 she's got a neck tattoo i forgot about that i was like but she's also but she's also free spirited

01:39:56.880 yeah so yeah probably a correlation correlation not causation but yeah right no if i see a woman who

01:40:04.880 or who's like heavily it doesn't even have to be neck or head tattoos she's got like full sleeves and

01:40:10.400 i'm like she's not virgin you know so i mean i can look in most i can look a woman without

01:40:16.960 tattoos and be like she's not wait so you are attracted to that or no what do you mean if she

01:40:22.400 had like a ton of tattoos you wouldn't find that attractive really it it depends yeah it really

01:40:28.320 depends because there are some tattoos which uh are i think are more aesthetically pleasing it's the

01:40:34.800 location it's the design um although if i'm just being completely honest so tattoos are not a deal

01:40:44.640 breaker but for me it's strictly neutral or negative so if you have a tattoo on you it's never a positive

01:40:55.520 it's only neutral i agree i feel the same way only neutral from the same way i think part of that

01:41:01.600 stems from self-respect and when you have a certain degree of self-respect for yourself you kind of

01:41:08.480 have a stronger resilience and strength to say no to certain things because you're not acting at

01:41:13.520 instant gratification you're not acting out of um you know excitement or just like on a whim i'm gonna do

01:41:20.640 this and so i think that also shows men that there's a level of self-restraint when it comes to that

01:41:26.400 woman if she maybe has less tattoos just like a different perspective yeah no there's there can

01:41:33.920 definitely be deeper components there like you just said and like psychological psychologically um

01:41:39.920 sometimes i think you know as you said pattern recognition is a big thing but sometimes i think that

01:41:45.920 psychologically the brain can do the domino effect for you in a sense say to yourself well what kind of

01:41:54.880 tattoo is this where did you get it what led you to get this decision how quick did you make that

01:41:59.840 decision and what other decisions do you make in that way like impulse control yeah it's the gratification

01:42:06.640 yeah it's the gratification yeah so no that that is uh that's definitely a really good point on that

01:42:12.480 uh we have to let me think here but just to be clear tattoos are not a deal breaker like i i have and

01:42:19.680 would date a girl who has tattoos but neutral or can be a negative can i add one more thing sure

01:42:27.760 i feel like so historically in lots of tribes they also have markings or tattoos that are made for

01:42:34.800 fighting protection you know and these are markings to help people identify each other there's like that

01:42:41.120 um news reporter with the the mountain yeah yeah yeah what do you think about that well i mean people

01:42:47.760 who belong to that culture like it's probably going to be looked at and viewed a different way because

01:42:52.640 it's there's a cultural basis but like a girl who has like a chandelier sternum tattoo who's like white

01:43:03.600 she ain't not what tribe is she well what kind of i don't know uh i mean

01:43:10.320 uh so your question is like if i was dating like a native american i don't know is it are tattoos as

01:43:17.280 common among like native americans as they are in like like brazilian like uh latin american tribes or

01:43:23.360 like in like the maori in new zealand for example if i was dating a woman who's a maori although to be

01:43:29.840 honest they typically have face tattoos which while i like culturally would respect i don't personally find

01:43:36.240 like like they have like the they put it on their cheek and i find that at least in my own taste

01:43:42.160 aesthetically like not really appealing but um if she had like a maori sleeve or something or like

01:43:51.040 polynesian sleeve i would probably interpret that specific tattoo a little bit differently versus

01:43:58.480 somebody who has like true like a white girl who has like traditional american tattoo you know i'm

01:44:03.760 talking about like all the little stamp pieces or whatever on her forum i probably interpret it a

01:44:08.560 little bit differently um truth be told i'm not running into like a lot of native americans or maori

01:44:14.880 women when i'm dating but uh i yeah sure in that circumstance i'd probably interpret it a little

01:44:21.040 differently i guess okay yeah you said like negative or neutral so more neutral oh it would still be

01:44:26.640 neutral yeah like it still wouldn't be positive okay for me but it would just be neutral i'd have

01:44:31.600 questions you have no i'd have questions like questions like even if i was dating like a maori

01:44:37.840 woman or anybody tribal from a different culture i would just want to understand like what's the

01:44:42.640 significance of those markings and you know why they have them and then of course through explanation

01:44:47.520 i could probably be like oh okay yeah so you know i have a question yes would you date ambrose no

01:44:55.520 okay so let's ask i don't think a lot of men really find her oh and now has a huge head tattoo on

01:45:02.880 yeah oh she is she does and i don't know i think it's her it's above her head oh the father of her

01:45:09.600 like second child is now with share so he's like oh god that's a huge age gap relationship right there

01:45:16.880 who who here has tattoos just show of hands

01:45:23.200 q do you have all of us i think you don't have tattoos mine's the only one you see

01:45:28.960 my little wrist one the one where you're like if she has a heart

01:45:32.720 was that the trinity yeah it's the trinity not it's the only one i plan to get as well yeah but

01:45:36.960 like most guys are not gonna like i can't imagine guys are gonna view something like that in the

01:45:43.280 negative um maybe for them it's just neutral but yeah what what tattoo do you have um so i have three

01:45:52.000 they're hidden okay um purposely i have my first tattoo is a rose like on my groin area that's pretty

01:45:58.640 basic on the ground like the pelvis area okay a rose yeah that was my first one why thank you just

01:46:05.200 curious why um i don't know i just thought it was really cute in the location as well and it took me

01:46:09.840 like three or five years to like get a tattoo and i'm like i really want this okay i just thought

01:46:14.320 it was really what's the other one i have like a sun with the wave on the mike's side boob um it was

01:46:18.720 supposed to be a best friend tattoo yeah and um my third tattoo is my biggest tattoo it's on the

01:46:24.480 back no i i want to see my tattoos um so i have a tiger like from my hip down like my thigh and it's

01:46:32.000 climbing up with like red streaks on it okay i thought that was very feminine i don't know i just

01:46:36.400 yeah that was pretty cool i mean i don't know precisely what they look like but i think

01:46:40.880 like for me i think that would probably be in like the neutral territory like i don't think that's to

01:46:45.840 the point where it's super excessive or anything um so yeah uh q did you have something on or wait

01:46:53.040 you were asking oh no you asked about amber rose yeah she asked what i did yeah that's right okay no

01:46:57.600 hell no chat we have we have a very short segment here called this is for the viewers more so

01:47:04.400 oh no would you date this woman so me and q are going to answer this and you get to answer it

01:47:08.560 who here's bi any other bi women okay all right okay all right let's pull it up all right

01:47:20.000 would you chat would you date this woman yeah the one i yeah okay no audio

01:47:29.040 okay okay oh that was a doll wow okay that looks like some kind of ai um wait that looks like

01:47:40.160 no it's real she's real she is no she's real she's real uh would you date her i'll start first yes

01:47:50.080 with conditions but just kidding uh yes q would you date her fuck no wait why you pig how dare you

01:48:01.680 i like to look at my woman during you can still during what during coitus during coitus there's other

01:48:09.200 positions you know no the act of during the act yeah i know yeah well no i'm no i can't there's

01:48:16.720 mask paper bag the blood ain't gonna flow no it really yeah what about the bottom half would that

01:48:24.480 were you so i might just be thinking about the top no but it's the top

01:48:29.600 i would date i would i do not believe that that i would date her i don't believe it hey she's stacked

01:48:36.080 okay that's just shows that i don't put my thing in anything i'm just yeah i don't put my thing in

01:48:43.680 no so are you are you what are you saying are you what are you saying about her are you you're

01:48:48.320 being a little misogynistic right now i guess i am i'll own up to it everyone everyone judges i'm

01:48:54.720 not perfect i know i'm not perfect maybe she's a great girl there's a lot of great women a lot

01:48:59.520 of great women also get played i uh chat would you date her um so would you date her no why i thought

01:49:06.000 no you don't like asian women are you racist no she looks like a mannequin yeah no she's real yeah

01:49:11.600 but that's why i was no uh you're buying to yes would you date her no would you date her i would

01:49:18.960 give her a chance to get to know her but oh but but i'm not i'll see i'll see wow what if she paid

01:49:27.520 you i'm like the only one who's not superficial well brian why would you date me based on that video

01:49:33.600 why why would you really smart you know she looks really smart okay she looks smart you know and i

01:49:40.000 look you know with a bit of dental work she a bit

01:49:49.440 just to clean i think she's attractive

01:49:53.280 damien would you date her if you were single oh yeah what the hell

01:49:56.960 we're so excited she's like excited about it very enthusiastic um chat would you date her yes

01:50:03.600 or no yes or no i would she doesn't even have to you know what i'll she you know what here's

01:50:10.320 she doesn't even have to have to fix the i'll still date her she doesn't have to fix it

01:50:14.800 i will still date her i do not believe this i swear i feel like you'd be married by now

01:50:19.920 now i agree if i would i respect yes yeah yeah i don't think you're respectfully i don't think

01:50:25.120 your standards are that low i'm sorry respectfully i feel like you guys are being really mean to her

01:50:31.760 i feel like you'd be married by now no because you always ask us what we'd rate each other yeah but

01:50:36.160 like it balances out like he doesn't strike me as a marrying type she the body's good is that

01:50:42.560 i care about more than just the body but what i'm saying is like sometimes certain

01:50:49.760 qualities about a person make up for other detriments in this yeah i don't believe that

01:50:57.520 if you look like this please slide into his dms look maybe she was in a terrible train accident

01:51:04.160 when she was younger i don't know if she was and so i don't know that probably won't get passed down

01:51:09.760 to your kids i think so we're good what what's passed down i don't know isn't that like she has a

01:51:19.520 it's a it's a genetic deformity her body looks okay so it might just be i don't know that's a

01:51:26.320 little more than cleft lip it she's hot to be honest i'm the body everything total package i feel

01:51:36.960 like if you're weird i don't know if you're in a relationship with that i feel like you throw a

01:51:42.160 mask on it at that point you might as well get a real doll eyes and tell her i love her smile

01:51:48.640 oh that's i don't believe that i i'm serious i believe it only because sorry only because

01:51:55.360 i feel like with girls sometimes they'll think a guy's attractive because he has like big muscles

01:52:01.040 or they have some some of those features right or maybe like tattoos is their thing so oh this guy's

01:52:06.960 more attractive because his tattoos but maybe his face isn't like it you know what i mean and that

01:52:11.600 might so that's why i you know there's there's an extent though built for that i ain't built for that

01:52:20.640 her body her body is straight but i can't if i'm gonna only think about her face then it's

01:52:25.440 pointless she just negated her body by the way that she looks in the face so

01:52:36.000 okay beauty is in the eye of the beholder that is true it is true that means all the

01:52:42.320 girls will say they're tons in here that means i guess they're tons debatable no i'm just saying

01:52:48.480 wait brian what would you rate her i would date her what do i rate her yeah what do you rate her

01:52:52.720 because you always go around the table and rate people oh man oh this is gonna be good well i'd

01:52:56.720 have to break it down like body that's a solid the body's a solid nine no no no no no no no the

01:53:05.440 body's a solid nine package yeah total package she's a 10 right no she's a track she's attracted i

01:53:14.640 would date her though i would wear on the the spectrum of the total population of everyone in

01:53:20.640 the world because that's what you always know i would genuinely date her but what is she on the

01:53:25.120 rating scale out of everyone the whole entire world oh god it's you know i give her uh i give

01:53:33.840 her six maybe a seven okay look you think she's average i think that's a fair if you look up that

01:53:42.960 rating scale it'll actually show photos from like who's the hottest to the lowest and no offense she would

01:53:49.360 not be on the six like i've actually looked it up but that's just judging face i'm talking total package

01:53:55.760 face body

01:53:58.960 would your date her with a cups sure

01:54:05.120 what about nobody just

01:54:09.040 just flat like plank from ed and eddie ed and eddie uh how about like an average female body i feel like

01:54:17.680 that's fair yeah average female body average oh wait but then she's overweight average attractive

01:54:24.880 female like yeah what if she was overweight what if she was 300 pounds the average healthy bmi female

01:54:31.840 body how about that that is that fair okay so doesn't she's not like fucking insane curves whatever uh

01:54:37.520 do you know what that new average number now is in america for weight no but i just said like

01:54:43.360 healthy bmi average body within healthy bmi yeah sure i'll still date her why not okay maybe she has

01:54:50.960 a large lady i don't know i don't know whatever good talk good talk wow what if she anybody here have

01:55:01.520 of us oh my god what a largely large labia

01:55:08.320 oh who's number five anybody okay whatever i don't know

01:55:12.640 all right moving on to the next thing i guess oh let's do another react

01:55:17.200 uh next one yeah all right yeah we might have to refresh it really quick

01:55:33.840 because it's not going to play from and no but here refresh it but you have to hit pause like immediately

01:55:40.080 yeah audio who is worse a man who rejects a woman because she's overweight or a woman who rejects a man

01:55:50.160 because he's short a man rejecting a woman that's overweight because like you you like wait stop it

01:55:55.760 okay so going around the table what's worse a man rejecting a woman because she's overweight or a woman

01:56:00.720 rejecting a man because she's short huh into the mic scoot into the table scoot uh

01:56:06.640 a man rejecting a woman because hormones and periods and bloating and pregnancy that's my case

01:56:15.040 that's worse than the woman yeah okay what about you i would say a woman that's overweight a man

01:56:21.280 rejecting a woman yeah it's worse yeah same agree i feel like it's equal if i'm being honest equal okay

01:56:28.320 um i don't think either of them are wrong because people are allowed to have their preferences

01:56:32.880 but i think probably yes i think it would probably be worse to reject a man for his height because

01:56:40.480 how can you fix your height in any capacity you can i also have to say uh the man in the height

01:56:47.840 situation because you're dealing with like a health situation so like he's technically not unhealthy and

01:56:54.560 um technically that could bring potential health benefits especially if you want children

01:56:59.040 wait what do you mean like say like a guy wanted to have children with a girl that might be

01:57:05.840 overweight it could affect their future children genetically and i guess the same thing with

01:57:11.360 height but at the same time it's not something that's going to cause actual health i see what you're

01:57:16.000 saying okay so looking in a familial sense what about you rejecting a man for height okay i would say

01:57:22.320 it's equal equal q what do you think uh rejecting a man for height i i agree i would agree uh why do you

01:57:31.040 i think some of you you three said that worse to reject a woman for her weight and i think you said

01:57:36.960 equal i believe uh why

01:57:43.360 well i feel like hormones and pregnancy and all that thyroid is um thyroid issues and you know what i

01:57:50.320 changed my answer i'd say they're both equal i think it's worse though i mean because here's why

01:57:55.200 what if they have a health issue men can't do anything about their height women you can control

01:58:00.640 your weight what if there's a health issue because there's some people that do have health issues like

01:58:04.480 thyroid problems sleep disorders um i think there's like some hormonal issue there are some weight

01:58:12.800 issue factors for those i do know the thyroid there yeah i mean i have hypothyroidism uh i have i have

01:58:22.640 mild hypothyroidism are you taking the medication mm-hmm yeah and has it gone down but the thing is

01:58:28.240 though is that if my diet is proper it makes it a little bit harder for me but if my diet is good

01:58:34.000 i can lose weight no that that's true and for like honestly my current dad bod situation

01:58:39.920 is more so just is not related to that at all because for most of my life i've been pretty

01:58:46.880 thin and fit um that's more just like stress related i that's it's way more stress related

01:58:52.560 than it's anything to do with the thyroid but look there are certain medical conditions that can make

01:58:57.120 it harder but like those are really really rare and especially in terms of the people who are overweight

01:59:02.480 or who are obese it's really strictly related to their diet if they ate better that's not true

01:59:11.200 with uh narcolepsy what do you mean people that have narcolepsy uh doesn't matter what they eat

01:59:17.440 they'll actually be heavier than a normal person you can look it up online how many people have

01:59:21.440 narcolepsy and do all overweight people have narcolepsy no okay but so even here i'll just go ahead

01:59:28.960 and say yes every single person who has narcolepsy is obese i don't think that's the case but let's

01:59:33.360 just grant it if we just remove all those narcoleptics narcoleptics from the pool of obese people that

01:59:40.720 still leaves like a massive amount of obese people where it just is strictly to diet but it's also a

01:59:45.680 problem with the u.s food as well because if you look at the new average weight for most women and you

01:59:52.160 you can look this up um the average weight for most women is actually 170 if you look it up on google

02:00:03.840 look it up on google yeah what is the average weight for women

02:00:08.640 no i know the u.s on google it'll say 170 i don't think that's a healthy weight though it's not a

02:00:12.720 healthy weight but why is it average why are multiple women in the united states that weight it comes down to

02:00:18.160 food where we're getting it from a lot of things yeah but people have choice people have agency

02:00:22.240 people choose to eat unhealthy foods they choose to eat a lot of food i agree with you that the uh

02:00:28.400 there certainly there certainly should be a look taken at the processed foods in america like it's

02:00:35.680 obviously really bad all the sugar um that's terrible right but people even if these are available

02:00:43.360 for purchase i think people still need to take responsibility no that's true yeah but some

02:00:48.720 people also you know many issues eggs are expensive now that's a healthy option but eggs are like gold

02:00:54.560 now that's fine but in any case the prompt is i do think because women can't do have quite a bit of

02:01:02.960 control i understand that there are these factors that can contribute whether there's specific health

02:01:08.160 things that make it harder um the the diet the average diet in america is fucking terrible i agree

02:01:14.880 with you but as a woman you have a choice when it comes to what you eat yeah so i think

02:01:24.160 i don't know judging somebody based off something they can't control

02:01:27.840 seems a bit more superficial i'm gonna say it's equal in my opinion now anyways next thing let's do

02:01:32.800 another react here i'm gonna do one read blah fest who wants to read this let's do uh let's have uh

02:01:41.120 you read it me yeah okay uh so it's a little hard to read with white but i use lessons based in

02:01:47.520 astrology for my own personal pattern recognition skills too brian i have learned that if someone is

02:01:53.280 interested in astrology i am not interested in them oh it works so well it works so well thank you

02:01:59.360 blah fest yeah that's uh who here believes in astrology uh it's a science 50 50. it is not

02:02:06.880 it's a science it is no no i think it's a cool fun thing for people yeah yeah i think it it adds a

02:02:13.840 little spice but it's not like a hundred percent maybe taking a grain of salt yeah exactly uh

02:02:21.520 sulk says who in here saw smile too what is that movie yeah yeah it was pretty good first one

02:02:28.480 what is that i'm a horror movie buff oh it's a scary movie wait smiley is that what smile too oh

02:02:35.440 smile yeah it's creepy is that the one with like the flesh face and like a carved smile no it's just

02:02:41.840 like if you had a creepy smile and then you just pull it up damien you know you die uh yeah let's

02:02:47.600 yeah play it hi my name is julian i'm 20 years old i'm from canada uh the highest level of education

02:02:59.200 completed was high school i decided not to go to college and i'm i said i'm single right i don't leave

02:03:07.120 the house that much but when i do i listen to live jazz music um okay i play sports on the beach

02:03:17.280 i play a lot of sports so maybe i go to the farmer's market on sundays okay i go to church

02:03:23.440 i'll get too much she's telling you where to find them she's telling you where to find them

02:03:27.760 i actually don't know where to find them uh what about you hi my name is hollywood i'm

02:03:35.040 i am a certified tax advisor i specialize in a credit hi my name is julian

02:03:42.640 wait so the question the question for the panel here is uh if you're thinking of men

02:03:48.320 which of those two women do you think the men would prefer the first one

02:03:52.400 one or the second one starting with you definitely the first one

02:03:59.600 it's hard to say don't overthink it no i'm not hard to say neither because some guys might not

02:04:07.040 want to ruin a chick like that because she's too pure and too innocent that might be the exact reason

02:04:12.720 they do want it though but that too as well could take advantage and also ruin her uh-huh okay

02:04:18.560 uh the first one first one first one definitely the first one i definitely think the first one as

02:04:27.040 well definitely the first one agreed on that interesting interesting okay they're pretty good

02:04:36.800 yeah they're pretty good now do you guys i guess to make a point of it do you guys think that generally

02:04:43.040 speaking like men have a tendency to prefer more i guess soft women like that versus uh a woman who's

02:04:54.800 maybe a bit more rough boss babe this sort of thing yeah do you think do you guys think men prefer boss

02:05:00.960 babes or like kind of more demure women like that demure women demure i feel like uh well like some guys

02:05:09.680 don't like a lot of guys don't like loud chicks like yeah you know like their voices is very loud

02:05:15.920 the aggressiveness and guys can be scared of that as well um even if it even if you're like you're

02:05:20.480 masculine um they just don't like that energy that you bring to the table sure um so i hear that a lot

02:05:26.560 from guys let's oh sorry go ahead i was just gonna say that i think a lot of time uh whether we realize

02:05:32.480 or not subconsciously like as females we're always looking for more of like a masculine or like just

02:05:37.280 somebody that can provide for us in a sense and i think men do the same thing whether it's conscious

02:05:42.080 or subconscious where they're looking for somebody to kind of take care of them as well but in a

02:05:47.040 more nurturing way and i think maybe the soft girl kind of gives that vibe to them more than maybe

02:05:53.120 a girl who's working because she wouldn't have time for his needs where maybe a girl that was more

02:05:58.240 slow-paced and more demure um would have more time for him and the the things he feels he needs so yeah

02:06:07.200 cool yeah cool uh we're gonna do one more react and then we're gonna get into some more show notes

02:06:12.800 let's do the next one oh uh let's save it for the bow video but i think i pulled up one is there one

02:06:19.680 other one youtube one let's save we're gonna save that one for later we'll save it for later uh here

02:06:30.480 we're gonna do stiffer though ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten

02:06:34.320 you can't pick seven starting with you own looks okay one to ten some days i'm like oh i can't wait

02:06:41.280 actually i want to do something a little bit different for this okay okay i want to do it a

02:06:45.360 little different on the count of three on the count of three you're all going to do this at the same

02:06:50.240 time on your hands you're going to show your you're just going to lift up your fingers okay at the exact same

02:06:58.160 time so this would be ten this would be five this would be seven however you want to do it

02:07:03.040 what if you have a point number you got a round round up or down to whatever you think is appropriate

02:07:10.720 okay you can't pick seven okay damn all right you guys get you guys all got it all got in your head

02:07:16.800 all right all right three two one hold them up don't change them okay so six six six eight

02:07:30.160 six six eight six wait so eight eight everybody else was six right eight eight six oh q would like

02:07:40.560 five five five okay i give myself a five also uh wow okay pretty pretty reasonable i want to hear

02:07:50.160 from the two most attractive women on the panel eight and eight um

02:08:00.560 can you boost the audio

02:08:04.480 uh tell us tell us yeah so do you do you disagree with the other women on the panel like do you think

02:08:10.400 they rated themselves too low what do you think no i think um i think that you guys are very like

02:08:18.400 humble and you know you're rating yourselves a little low i'd say um you know i i think that

02:08:26.240 maybe you could be a little bit higher for sure but i you know i mean six i feel like so that would be

02:08:32.800 like a little over average yeah like i i don't i think that you're prettier than that you know

02:08:41.200 that's what i'd say thank you thank you yeah you're welcome um okay sure um

02:08:49.600 okay and then uh also you your thoughts like do you think the women rating themselves too low

02:08:54.720 or you think about right however they feel it's our own opinion on ourselves okay

02:09:01.680 does your does your guys's anybody's answers change if the question changes to not what you rate yourself

02:09:08.640 but if there's a room of a thousand men and they're rating you would you hold up a different

02:09:12.800 number would you think it's higher would you think it's lower same same same okay so got a

02:09:18.800 thousand guys average would give you eight and then no i'd say ten in that case

02:09:23.200 and i would say it i would say it because

02:09:31.120 men just okay you are gonna say i know that you're gonna say that i'm not being humble when i say this

02:09:37.040 but men obsess over me so are they all familiar wait hold on so hold on i'm just gonna i'm gonna

02:09:47.600 recap it you tell me if i'm correct you rated yourself an eight yeah okay men if we were to

02:09:54.720 put you in a room with a thousand men and we averaged out their answers those men would give you ten yes

02:10:00.800 this is actually a first for this because different women will give themselves a higher

02:10:07.040 rating but when they say well if men were rating me i didn't maybe a point down or whatever so but

02:10:12.080 you would be a perfect 10 out of 10 uh and then i'm curious though if you were not in a room alone

02:10:19.200 with a thousand men but all these other women here were also in the room would would their uh would

02:10:26.320 the men also rate them tens too or would they rate them lower than you um no i think that they

02:10:33.200 probably would rate them as like nine or ten yeah because i think that men are very like they will have

02:10:41.840 i mean look like i think that men are their standards are lower than women are than the women's

02:10:49.600 are in many cases when it comes to physical appearance yeah i mean i know that you're probably

02:10:55.040 gonna get offended by that oh i'm not offended oh i'm far from offended i'm a little bit amused

02:11:01.520 but no i mean men there are plenty of men out there who will have sex with like any woman but but let me

02:11:08.480 ask you this question and i'm gonna we're gonna cut right to the chase do men only have sex with women

02:11:13.920 who they think are tens no no um yeah good point yeah so just because a man has sex with you but but

02:11:22.400 trust me but in the moment but but in the moment like if he were like asked that like you know in

02:11:29.600 a room with like a thousand men or something like he would probably like simp and he'd be like oh

02:11:35.680 you're ten you know if the circumstances were that he the not all men the questioner was like

02:11:42.880 yeah maybe there are some men who would like genuinely simp but if they're if these men are

02:11:46.880 instructed like hey give us your honest rating wait i'm curious to know what obsessing over you

02:11:53.040 entails like what do you mean when you say men obsess over you i get like stalks like you get a lot

02:12:00.160 like stalks a lot yeah i get stalked a lot stalked yes i'm not being articulate yeah yeah right right

02:12:08.880 right right right no i do i do and you know it's by guys that you know or stranger um

02:12:16.400 both strangers yeah i don't yeah men that i just i've never met them but they see yeah i know you're

02:12:25.440 laughing at me but i mean i know it's not that i mean like desperate guys like guys that have nothing

02:12:32.640 else going on obviously they invest their time based off of desperate men

02:12:40.000 no no it's not entirely not entirely not entirely based off of desperate men but you know most guys

02:12:49.200 out there they're not gonna you know they're not gonna get um the woman that they want so the men

02:12:56.880 the men are delusional though because you're like hey i'm an eight but all these men think i'm a ten

02:13:00.720 well yeah because i i think that my intelligence actually is more important than my looks but we're

02:13:09.840 talking about looks yes i know but i'm saying that but i'm saying that you know i'm i'm always trying

02:13:16.560 to work on myself you know and my physical appearance you know as part of that i don't

02:13:21.760 want to sound cocky and say like you know that i'm a ten um wait oh so you do think you're a ten you

02:13:27.760 just don't want to sound cocky uh no because because that's not like i want to always be

02:13:32.400 working on like improving myself if i were to just sit here and say that i'm a ten then like there's

02:13:37.040 nothing to work on right but just clarification like my physical appearance a thousand men in the

02:13:41.360 room they're just rating you on your looks you the answer is ten correct probably yeah like yeah i'd say

02:13:48.080 so because because wait is this like a hubris answer or is this a genuine answer no like like legit

02:13:56.080 men think that this is not like i'm being confident thing like this is a genuine answer yes no like

02:14:03.680 i know that it's the reverse of what you've normally heard it is yeah typically women will acknowledge

02:14:10.560 oh if it's ren men rating me uh if they say there are seven oh okay maybe like five or six something

02:14:15.920 like that like i don't know men just think that i am like so worth obsessing over like so i'm gonna

02:14:24.000 i actually will just go ahead and grant that absolutely are there some men who are obsessed

02:14:31.200 with you and think you're really attractive sure probably have you had stalkers absolutely i don't

02:14:36.480 think your physical attractiveness precludes you your or lack thereof precludes you from having

02:14:42.640 stalkers like that typically tends to manifest itself more just um not even necessarily about

02:14:49.760 how you look but an established relationship typically with somebody although it sounds like

02:14:54.160 you also have total strangers stalking you because they see you and they're like i'm just gonna stalk

02:14:58.720 her i think of stalkers typically like you dated somebody for a month and then like they will not

02:15:02.800 take no for an answer and then they're gonna harass you for like a year yeah i mean you could look at

02:15:06.720 it that way too so you were literally going to trader joe's and then like you get stalkers yeah

02:15:12.880 and men always look at me and that's not stalking but i'm saying like i constantly receive male

02:15:19.520 attention constantly i don't dispute that you i don't dispute that most women receive an abundance

02:15:27.280 of male attention be it romantic or sexual i'm still just confused like so you're saying because i

02:15:33.200 receive this amount of male attention it must mean i look this good is that is that the logic i'm just

02:15:39.280 trying to yeah huh okay you know what ready to be humbled that you know it's crazy that girl with

02:15:48.400 the tooth thing she gets a lot of male attention too i mean her dms are crazy she's oh my god no but

02:15:58.800 but i'm she would be on your level because she also gets a lot of male attention right

02:16:05.520 so do you think she's a 10 because like let me ask you a question right no men tell me wait wait wait

02:16:10.160 stop stop hold on hold on let me walk it let me try to walk it through so you're here's the logic

02:16:15.440 here's the logic i'm i'm following this is your claim i'm a 10 because i've had this proportion of

02:16:23.920 male attention right i've had stalkers i've had all this sexual and romantic attention from men

02:16:30.000 if that girl if i could prove to you that that girl that i showed you earlier received just as much

02:16:37.280 of the same or the exact same attention as you did you would then have to agree that she's also a 10

02:16:42.320 right because if that's your metric for i am a 10 i receive x amount of romantic and sexual attention

02:16:48.560 anybody else who receives that exact same amount of attention also has to be a 10. is that yeah

02:16:54.080 okay so is she a 10 then you you that would be the logical yeah i mean that's that's the logic that

02:17:00.160 you're arriving at you know i hadn't really thought about it in the depth that you have

02:17:07.200 you know sure um but i think that you know i mean if you if you looked at it from that perspective

02:17:14.960 yeah then yeah you could argue but and what if i showed you a woman who you could definitively make

02:17:20.800 a statement she was a one but this woman received just as much or more sexual and romantic attention

02:17:27.760 as you but she's a one would you then have to how would you reconcile i don't really

02:17:36.080 look at it as just the attention that i've received is why like it's not that variable alone

02:17:44.560 you know what i mean it's many things so what until my whole life that i'm like physically beautiful

02:17:49.920 all the time by my family members you gotta by you gotta throw that in the trash

02:17:56.720 i know i should i should i should i'm good i know i know me i'm the most handsome i know you make a

02:18:03.760 good point you make a good point you make a good point i don't have i don't have trouble i don't

02:18:10.480 have trouble either like getting but men tell you that men have told me that many times yeah but

02:18:16.400 like here's the thing right do has a man ever lied to you to get laid um

02:18:24.400 it did happen yeah just that one time okay yeah do you think how about maybe not with you but

02:18:30.080 generally speaking do you think men will uh try to flatter women to get laid yeah they will will

02:18:36.480 they compliment women to get laid yeah they will will they um lie to get laid yes they will

02:18:45.840 i'm not gonna sit here and that's what i'm saying like i'm not raiding myself i think that i can always

02:18:50.560 work on my physical appearance like i think that it's you know what i'm saying so i but i have been

02:18:56.000 told like i said by many different men that i'm physically beautiful are you and they could be lying

02:19:02.640 but you know i'll let you in just you know what i'm saying thank you michael jones many women are

02:19:08.240 considered to men to be mobets fun to have a ride but you wouldn't want to be caught with by your

02:19:13.760 friends some women on this panel fall into this category look really quick and i'll let you come in

02:19:22.320 thank you michael jones for the tts appreciate it man i here's the thing is

02:19:26.960 i don't think it would go over well like to not tell a woman she's attractive and if you're trying

02:19:38.080 to date her or get her into bed like and i don't know if you ask the men maybe you don't but like

02:19:45.600 even if a woman asked you like oh rape me even if she asked you like rape me honestly i don't think

02:19:51.200 it's like the best move to be like uh you're kind of average looking and you could stand to lose a

02:19:56.960 bit of weight like that's not i'm not speaking about you by the way i'm just saying in general

02:20:00.880 um and it's not gonna go over well like as a man you're gonna have to flatter women a little bit

02:20:06.880 like it's just not the polite thing to do to not flatter them you're saying uh yeah like yeah like it's

02:20:13.760 not gonna go over well like instead of giving you a compliment of oh you're so beautiful the guy's like

02:20:20.160 wow you are so unremarkable that's a good point yeah i mean you're so ugly or average you never

02:20:30.320 say i'm such a lucky guy to be dating this completely average unremarkable woman you're the best babe

02:20:39.280 or you're no you're not even best you're just average you can't do that as a guy there's some

02:20:44.800 degree of flattery no yeah of course there is like i've had women say oh my god brian

02:20:49.440 you're so handsome i'm like shut up calm down they're just trying to get your pants on exactly

02:20:55.840 yeah i know what you i know what you guys are up to i know you're swimming in pussy i know

02:21:02.960 all you women though you all you think about is one thing and it's disgusting okay all you girls want

02:21:09.200 you want like sometimes you know you know q like they just sometimes you just want to cuddle but they're

02:21:14.080 they're trying to like that's crazy that is not true i just want to talk i'm a god i just want to

02:21:20.240 talk why can't we just talk why can't we just talk and get to know each other a little bit y'all always

02:21:24.640 come out you just want one thing and then i feel used like i feel used and like i'm just a piece of

02:21:29.840 meat and you don't care about me and i'm trying to talk to you and you're not really listening i'm

02:21:33.360 just wondering when you're gonna get some dick and i'm just trying to talk i'm trying to have a

02:21:36.480 connection go through it sometimes and all y'all watching all y'all want is is sex it's ridiculous

02:21:42.960 it's crazy y'all crazy let me tell you about the new dinosaur that was discovered today

02:21:47.840 can we talk about that would be interesting you kind of sounded feminine for a minute for a minute

02:21:52.720 you just spoke what women want you just sounded like women sorry other than i just want somebody

02:21:59.200 who can get to know me guys never talk like that ever i want a girl like god y'all man

02:22:06.640 you never talk like that so why haven't you found one in your opinion huh why haven't you found one in

02:22:11.040 your opinion if you haven't found one i don't think you're especially that one girl you know he'd date

02:22:16.480 her i think you're a wild man and you just haven't accepted it you need like many women huh you you're

02:22:23.920 not like you're not gonna have a wife are you no you're not what do you mean what does that mean

02:22:31.760 like i feel like you're like like you should be more sexually like open like you should just like

02:22:40.720 have sex with who you want right i mean would you do that like would you live that lifestyle or you're

02:22:46.720 looking for monogamy i think it depends like who you want to attract you know like right i want to

02:22:53.040 attract a respectful respectable woman so that's kind of how he like portrays himself yeah you know

02:22:57.760 kind of like i want to get to know you you get to know me yeah kind of thing i it just depends i

02:23:02.160 feel like who you who you're trying to attract right yeah yeah totally uh it's great uh what were we

02:23:12.160 talking oh looks we're doing the looks thing okay uh wait here i want all the girls to rate me

02:23:18.320 i won't be offended you be brutally honest i will not be mad i won't insult you back or anything like

02:23:25.920 that scale of one to ten go ahead 12 oh come on come on here give me be honest come on

02:23:35.840 hmm looks on just looks i would say six also all right based on your astrology sign if you're a

02:23:46.320 tourist just looks just looks just looks okay seven seven okay probably a seven or eight all

02:23:53.200 right uh six point five six point five seven seven okay uh five okay cool wait so uh i would be what

02:24:01.520 did you give me seven seven again you're an eight but men think you're a ten so wait you guys you guys

02:24:07.200 are settling for me damn what the fuck yeah you're happy yeah you have an okay face but if you went to

02:24:14.480 the gym like well we could both use that oh thanks i'm just what i'm just saying i'm white she didn't

02:24:22.400 hold me i'm a little chubby no i mean you're right though we both need to go to the gym wait what

02:24:27.760 well you know we'll go to the gym together should we do a side-by-side fit check yeah uh we should

02:24:34.960 get it okay okay um my hands are still so sweaty why are your hands sweaty it's too much red bull today

02:24:49.120 and it's hot yeah it's hot here it's pretty warm i am toasty and we're all so shady so you're so you just

02:24:57.120 like if we were dating you'd be like kind of thinking like i'm doing this guy a favor

02:25:03.760 you know what i mean no i don't think so okay all right that's cool all right no you know what i

02:25:09.360 really like about you is that you like assert yourself like your behavior like you're very

02:25:14.640 like in control of the room like you know let's say re-personality you know oh thank you yeah

02:25:22.560 appreciate it you know how to run a show i try my best oh man uh no but i'm serious i run this

02:25:30.640 podcast with an iron face all right uh oh final thing on the rating thing do you think you'll look

02:25:39.040 better in 10 years time so you're 25 will you be better looking in 10 years time 35 i'm like yeah

02:25:45.600 i'm asian so yeah asian okay what uh are you wait i want to guess oh yeah guess your specific

02:25:56.800 ethnicity um nationality laos laos no no vietnamese no

02:26:06.960 oh i'll just keep going then okay chinese that's part of it oh you're half yeah

02:26:13.360 half china like half both asian like 75 and 25 75 chinese yeah okay uh mongolian is that 25

02:26:24.800 oh that's close oh close shit wait it's close like geoc geographically shit what tibet

02:26:33.520 tibetan what siberian oh siber oh i would have never guessed that okay all right uh okay uh oh sorry

02:26:42.320 will you be better looking in 20 years time at 45 to you you said better looking at 25 or 45 20 years

02:26:51.520 time in 20 years yeah 45 huh um no no no okay you're 33 better looking in 10 years time 43 no you're 33

02:27:02.640 were you better 10 looking 10 years ago at 23 yes okay you're 30 better looking better looking in 10

02:27:10.320 years time at 40 yeah i think i look better 40 okay uh better looking in 20 years time at 50

02:27:17.200 probably not no okay just a little closer into the mic if you can probably uh and then it's fine were

02:27:22.240 you better looking 10 years ago at 20 it really depends on how i dressed um i let's say same outfit

02:27:29.200 if you had the same exact outfit oh i look exactly the same 10 years ago i've been told i look exactly

02:27:33.760 the same since middle school um so um so i my face did not change my body size hasn't changed since

02:27:42.240 middle school oh well i mean started since high school high school college like my middle school

02:27:46.000 my face has still been exactly nice okay got it okay so about the same then yeah okay uh you're 24

02:27:52.480 better looking in 10 years time 34 yes 20 years time 44 no okay you're 23 better looking in 10 years

02:27:59.280 time 39 um maybe i i don't i don't i think that maybe it would stay the same

02:28:30.000 yeah okay uh 20 years time 49 versus probably not no okay so stay the same though 39 and then you're

02:28:38.080 29 now were you better looking 10 years ago at 19 um no so better looking better the same no probably

02:28:48.640 well maybe a little bit better looking yeah just because of less lines on my face you know less lines

02:28:55.040 okay yeah uh and you're 24 better looking in 10 years time at 34 yes 20 years time 44 no probably

02:29:03.360 not okay all right damian do we have the age advance mints do we have gender swap too yes sweet

02:29:10.240 oh my god this is so fun okay let's do it all right there you go um you said did you say

02:29:22.240 better looking no just 10 years forward okay yeah 10 was like yeah okay all right there you go let's do

02:29:28.240 next next oh my god nice next oh oh i like you know some of this is i don't know i definitely do with the 50

02:29:39.840 next next here we go what the fuck oh that looks they did you dirty they did you dirty

02:29:49.840 nice smile though the smile yeah yeah the smile stays good uh okay all right next

02:29:54.800 oh she's we'll when she's back we'll we'll do it next oh no oh here i come all right next

02:30:09.840 oh my god so many lines oh boy i know okay all right next i'm getting like two chins

02:30:16.080 what the fuck what is that damn well you turn a whole different you look so nice in the first

02:30:21.600 one and by the end you look like a raisin you look like a witch yeah i look scary wicked witch of the

02:30:28.400 u.s national guard no literally next what the damn they fucked you up man oh boy they

02:30:37.920 fucked you up all right yeah exactly the same yeah 10 to 50. holy shit darkavia

02:30:45.680 i feel like your middle one is not that bad that's crazy next oh boy

02:30:53.920 don't fuck me up so bad you guys really uh here uh can you tab do you know how to tab backward or just

02:31:01.120 start at her again because i just she wants to she'll we'll just tab each one like per second oh

02:31:08.400 this is you okay yeah and then and then wait stacy for just a second okay and then do we have gender

02:31:16.000 swap yeah all right let's do that i've done that so now guys you're gonna pick you're gonna tell me

02:31:21.600 would you date your looks gender swap so this is you gender swap would you date the male version of you

02:31:28.240 basically good okay okay you look like you work in a hibachi restaurant yeah right they always have

02:31:37.360 like the i don't know yeah like the bandana you're like yeah but like uh not benihana though like one

02:31:45.760 of those it's not a chain more bootleg it's not a chain no benny uh hibachi would you date the male

02:31:53.680 version of you oh yeah okay if i could work the wrist yeah the wrist because hibachi you know

02:31:59.440 oh yeah next jesus that's crazy would you date the male version of you no because i don't like

02:32:11.760 blondes that looks like somebody next oh god would you date the male version definitely not really

02:32:21.120 why do i have short hair like you don't think you don't like asian guys no i don't my boyfriend's

02:32:25.680 white i i only date white guys interesting yes what about you do you only date white guys no

02:32:32.400 have you dated asian guys only one only one yeah it's oxford study hello um wait you've never dated

02:32:40.000 only white guys yeah i i just i'm attracted to like latinos i mean i'm attracted to like i'm not

02:32:46.080 attracted to asian guys i'm just like other why why aren't you attracted to asian guys um i don't know

02:32:50.160 i think it was like the whole culture thing like uh you know my dad he was like i would rather you date

02:32:55.040 like an asian person um you said you're cambodian yes yeah okay just like for the culture to keep it

02:33:01.040 in and i just like i didn't like that mindset that he had um or just like in general so i kind

02:33:07.760 of like kind of diversified my dating pool yeah so i've so i don't i've only dated white guys yeah

02:33:14.800 i only did white guys i mean um i've talked to black guys and i did did a spanish guy before but

02:33:20.720 white guys were um they're a lot nicer to me uh do you speak cambodian um i do speak a little bit

02:33:26.960 kamai i can understand it just a little bit but i can understand i just can't really speak as much

02:33:31.520 okay um cool yeah so i don't know good times yeah um let's pull it back up okay no you went okay

02:33:40.480 oh my curly hair whoa whoa what's he doing with his tongue over there would you date the male why not

02:33:48.400 that's that's you but a man no you do you don't like white guys i don't actually really what's your

02:33:57.280 type i go for russians which i guess white that's definitely white that's ultra white

02:34:03.920 black russians hell yeah black russian wait do you prefer you date black guys though yeah oh

02:34:09.840 is it black black russian yes they are black russian you're not me getting excited but it's

02:34:15.600 not black no he's not but he's russian asian he's still right he's not asian though russian is

02:34:26.320 black irish i don't think i've ever met a black irish guy that'd be hot yeah it would be all right

02:34:32.720 next wow you know what they're kind of the the mouth i feel like the mouth did it dirty you know looks

02:34:39.440 like i've done this so many times and i would you date the male version of you like just here

02:34:46.160 block off the mouth he's handsome kind of i mean yeah he's not ugly but i mean you wouldn't hit

02:34:54.160 well i wouldn't i don't just hit but um no i wouldn't no no being a long-term monogamous

02:35:01.360 relationship probably not i don't like beards you you like beards or you don't like beards i don't

02:35:06.080 really like beards that much oh okay damn whoever does these if you can try to try to get them when

02:35:11.600 they're like not making a face just because i feel like why was i talking directly at the camera

02:35:18.160 okay next oh my god okay not bad i was so

02:35:24.800 so fucking deep that's not bad the male version of you no because it looks like my dad wait

02:35:32.960 get the instagram post of her by the way guys if you're just tuning in because there's new viewers

02:35:37.920 who tuned in this uh she is the daughter of eddie guerrero famous wwe professional wrestler wrestler

02:35:45.360 superstar rest in peace of course r.i.p rest in peace uh i used to watch him when i was a kid actually

02:35:51.200 eddie guerrero yeah yeah i i stopped watching a long time ago but he was active when i was

02:35:57.360 watching in like junior high school like way back then so i'm trying to remember if i recall anything

02:36:02.560 but anyways um let's go back to it would you would you date the the guy no he looks too much like my

02:36:09.840 god it's weird like if the goatee you should do a side by side you wouldn't date your look okay that's

02:36:19.520 fine uh we're going to me oh my god you know what actually it's actually kind of attractive

02:36:27.040 not bad right not bad yeah he's got like the flow he's got the flow going on yeah he was a ho for

02:36:36.640 show um would you do it would you yeah would you date him yeah i'd date him yeah all right

02:36:44.400 would you be settling for him though um like is he kind of you know i'd have to look into the

02:36:51.920 personality just looks just looks alone um yeah maybe like what do you rate him on the scale of

02:36:58.160 one to ten yeah is this like reflective of my narcissism is that what what do you rate him on

02:37:04.800 the scale of one to ten like uh see it's me so i have to say like it's like a nine um yeah next

02:37:17.280 oh did you say yo yo chat she just said ew it actually looks kind of cute i don't know why it

02:37:26.800 looks like somebody i don't know who but i don't know why it looks like me obviously that's you

02:37:31.840 that's true that is me yeah but like it looks like a would you date him maybe if he had like

02:37:36.560 different hair different hair the hair is kind of up it is it is kind of it's a little nerdy right

02:37:43.600 it is it's giving nerd for sure but it's what if he had like a fade i think a fade you know that

02:37:49.360 yeah yeah oh yeah fade is good the the hair's a little up i will be i'll give you that um

02:37:54.880 all right next of course all right next whoa okay darkavia would you date the male version of you

02:38:04.960 say it yes she says yes she would smash okay next oh the that's all the doll okay next

02:38:16.640 oh that looks like oh wow damn i got fat um whoa right what yeah is that like a younger picture of

02:38:26.960 you on the side that's a like 10 plus year old without the beard we look so different 10 plus

02:38:32.400 didn't you start this in like 2020 oh my gosh no the woman version of you no they like super they

02:38:38.000 took an old photo of me and then put they photoshopped it into me in the studio um

02:38:46.800 yeah here i'll show you even a really young damien pull up that young photo of me with the blue shirt

02:38:52.480 or whatever speaking we have some chats coming too you can pull that up oh damn that's young that's young

02:39:01.520 brian wow yep those were the days those were the days okay we have uh let's see is that was that

02:39:11.440 everything yeah were there any other batches or that's it okay we can uh close those out then

02:39:20.320 uh wow okay you know look i'm just saying aging is a thing

02:39:24.720 i feel like though if we lined up every woman on earth and we put y'all next to your male equivalent

02:39:35.280 90 of y'all would be more mortified you'd be like shit that's fucked up huh no probably yeah you're not

02:39:46.320 wrong you'd be like shit do i do i gotta reconsider some things okay yeah all right let's see good look in

02:39:53.840 the mirror you got to take yep long stare deep into your own eyes deep into your own eyes um

02:40:02.560 hmm i don't know why can't like average why can't if people are average just be like yeah i'm average

02:40:07.920 you know what i mean agreed yeah you know what i mean i don't yeah it's also i mean oh thank

02:40:17.760 it also i think it has like to do with whether or not it's getting reinforced like if someone is

02:40:26.080 like telling the person that they're gorgeous like all the time where a group of people are a series of

02:40:32.640 people then i mean they could be the ugliest person on the planet like it doesn't if it's getting

02:40:39.440 reinforced the idea then they're going to continue to think it but i feel like there's a difference here

02:40:45.360 between men and women because i think a lot of women will conflate sexual interest with long-term

02:40:52.160 romantic or dating interest because men will sleep with a girl who we're not even

02:41:01.200 all that physically attracted to i'm not saying all men do this but like men will just like if a woman

02:41:07.840 makes herself sexually available yeah a man will have sex with like yeah here's the scenario

02:41:14.560 if a man is in a room with like a woman who's like one two three points below him average she could

02:41:21.280 even be average looking they're in a bedroom she wants to have sex with him nobody has to know

02:41:25.600 there's no chance of pregnancy no chance of std a lot of guys are just gonna be like okay i'll do it

02:41:30.800 i don't think the same applies if a woman's alone in a room there's no chance of pregnancy no chance of

02:41:34.720 std he's like definitely less attractive than you are you would consider him like kind of

02:41:39.280 unattractive i don't think most women like and nobody ever finds out your friend doesn't find

02:41:44.400 out and nobody knows i don't think a lot of women go for it i don't think a lot of women okay yeah

02:41:50.560 sure we'll yeah that's probably true yeah very profound sex difference but yeah that's like the

02:41:56.000 thing it's like men think about sex all the time so if like some woman like you just said just to

02:42:02.320 reiterate it it it's like if a woman is like i am open for sex then like that's a whole line of men

02:42:10.480 they're gonna line up it's not the same vice versa you know yeah because i there's a there's another

02:42:17.440 difference here so men sleep with who they uh sorry women sleep with who they want men sleep with who they

02:42:23.920 can so what is this kind of how does this impact the uh dating landscape so as a guy if i sleep with

02:42:33.520 a girl i think there's a really high probability i can get her into a relationship but as a woman if

02:42:39.200 you sleep with a guy i think that probability is way lower way lower yeah so you're saying from her

02:42:46.480 perspective or you're saying that sorry could you repeat yeah so if if i can sleep with a girl

02:42:53.520 i have i'm i have a pretty strong level of confidence i can then take her and bring her

02:42:58.800 into a relationship like very high confidence yeah not always but like pretty high whereas a woman if

02:43:04.720 you just have sex with a guy fairly quickly i don't think that there's a high no high probability of a

02:43:11.760 woman with a strong guarantee of being able to get a given guy into a relationship the way i think

02:43:19.280 about it it's like a reward system so it's like because men like sex is so rewarding to them so if

02:43:27.360 you is it it is is it though it's like so if you are the ones who like can have multiple orgasms and

02:43:35.120 no with you but like legs twitching on a neurological level it is it's like it's just it's so rewarding

02:43:43.040 for men yeah yeah yeah they release more dopamine yeah yeah so it's like that's why does it release

02:43:50.240 more like oxytocin or whatever in women no but um yeah i mean the the thing is is you know you already

02:44:00.080 there have been studies done on this and that the hypothalamus and the amygdala are activated in

02:44:04.720 male brains that doesn't necessarily happen in female brains we could go you know into that but um

02:44:12.800 you know there's a sex difference in terms of arousal it's been like well documented so

02:44:18.560 men are more stimulated by these well i don't want to repeat myself but these visual sexual stimuli are

02:44:25.360 more reinforcing to men than they are to women so i think what that may suggest

02:44:34.720 is that you know men are just very easily if i'm being honest with you you know i it's very

02:44:42.960 men are just they're very prone to being on this like reward system of if they do something then

02:44:50.880 they'll get sex if they do something then they'll get sex it's not really the case with women

02:44:56.000 yeah it's the answer i actually took it's it's not no but like you're right but in my own experience i

02:45:03.440 i flip that shit around oh you did the laundry for me you get sex oh you hooked boom i flip that

02:45:10.240 shit around i'm not the only man to do that but it doesn't that shit unless it doesn't always work in a

02:45:16.000 sense so women isn't always looking for that yeah i know that's not really a reward for a woman it's

02:45:21.600 fun don't get me wrong yeah yeah because well because you gotta find a guy who does well well

02:45:27.200 because the reward is the reward is in the orgasm yeah so the reward is in the orgasm the orgasm is

02:45:33.600 reinforced right yeah no i'm saying for men like men for men yeah men orgasm a lot more than women do

02:45:40.160 the average woman doesn't orgasm that often so the reward is in the orgasm so if women orgasm as

02:45:46.640 often as men do then they would probably have more sex in theory but it's just like when you have

02:45:51.440 sex with a woman and you make her orgasm she get crazy and she won it all the time i know i got a

02:45:56.720 girl but you know it's it's always been that like once a woman orgasms because women don't orgasm

02:46:03.440 that often you find that the same effect occurs she's experienced with that guy and then she wants it from

02:46:08.320 that guy because she knows that guy can make her orgasm right right right so then you're saying

02:46:14.560 that so then where would you say just out of curiosity like the sex differences

02:46:20.240 the sex differences the sex difference is one in pinpointed well uh it starts in the brain um the

02:46:28.000 men pursue sex more because the part of the brain that's responsible for sexual pursuing initiating

02:46:33.360 is larger in men it's the medial pre-optic area so then that's where the drive for sex comes and then

02:46:39.600 testosterone reinforces that makes men even like if women take testosterone their sex drives get

02:46:45.920 higher like that's been done that that study has been done as well and then of course it's the orgasm so

02:46:51.680 there's a physiological response uh physical response and a psychological it's it's all the above men

02:46:58.480 are just hardwired for sex because we want to uh procreate right propagate our genius and so we have

02:47:04.640 to take advantage of every sexual opportunity almost that comes along because we don't get

02:47:09.120 sexual opportunities as often as women do like you said you have men obsessing over you i can tell you

02:47:14.320 99 of men don't have women obsessing over right i know they don't and they yeah yeah so so the stimulus

02:47:19.920 for you is essentially you become more desensitized to it as a woman because it's like guys always come at

02:47:25.440 me but as a guy you don't have that experience with women coming at you so when they do you're

02:47:30.400 overstimulated that's why a lot of guys when they come into money or they come into fame what do they

02:47:35.360 do they fuck a lot of women because they never experienced that they've never been exposed to that

02:47:40.800 that's the biological differences yeah yeah for sure um and you know that if you want to go back to

02:47:47.120 like the perspective of evolutionary psychology women historically have invested more in the offspring

02:47:53.680 so they're going to be a lot more selective also you know a woman is born with all the eggs she'll

02:47:58.080 ever have and that's a pretty sensitive thing whereas men you know they can disperse their sperm

02:48:04.720 wherever and not invest so that's probably you know the root if you want to look at the genetic

02:48:12.080 root the biological root yeah sexual selection theory right of why women are kind of more so looking for

02:48:18.000 that investment compared to men whereas men are a lot less selective but i know that brian disagrees

02:48:24.000 with me he agrees he's just talking about in his case i said he just talked about in his case he

02:48:30.640 agrees generally generally yeah yeah yeah um here we're gonna go to twitch guys go to twitch.tv

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02:49:20.640 get into the questionnaire stuff and then we have more pre-show notes and whatnot so going around the

02:49:26.240 table what would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband what do i say i think i

02:49:34.720 said as long as it's um not significantly less than me or like average living comfortable expense okay

02:49:47.520 um i put 65 000 because i thought what a number but just average enough to live really well okay

02:49:55.360 i said 75 000 um just kind of on like same terms kind of like how i make your nurse you make around

02:50:06.160 there so yeah okay i didn't put a number i just said enough to take trips and live comfortably how

02:50:12.400 often do you want to take trips i want to travel the world up like backpack across europe i want to go to

02:50:17.760 asia i've gone all over america already yeah me too uh okay you want to go to europe and asia okay

02:50:31.760 and he pays for it no or okay okay no just enough to that i'm not paying for it solely

02:50:38.880 so split it yeah absolutely what about you um i didn't list a number either i just said enough to

02:50:44.880 afford your bills like live comfortably that's well as long as you can sustain yourself in your

02:50:50.480 lifestyle okay sure what about you um i really really want children i really want to be a stay

02:50:54.880 at home mom so i said anything that would make our family be okay and live comfortably would be okay

02:51:01.280 with me okay how many kids do you want you're everybody's gonna think i'm crazy i want three before

02:51:07.440 i'm 30 and i'm 22 i don't think that's crazy so i feel i feel a little out of it i feel a little

02:51:12.880 those are some rookie numbers you gotta pump that up well i know but i'm afraid to scare people when

02:51:18.400 i say that so i just play it safe and i'm like three before i'm 30 but really i want a lot of kids

02:51:24.000 like seven you want seven kids i want like you have five i always said about five to seven but i

02:51:28.720 don't want to seem insane sure i don't think it's insane yeah i think for the right guy he'll be like

02:51:33.840 hell yeah because some girls are gonna say like some guy might want a lot of kids and some women might

02:51:40.160 be like i kind of only want two or three and it's really crucial to me to have them in my 20s

02:51:45.440 because i want to be agile enough to raise them and play sports with them and run around with them

02:51:50.480 so it's definitely something i'm very eager to accomplish sure okay uh what about you i'd say at

02:51:56.080 least a hundred thousand at least a hundred thousand yeah okay uh what about you i don't have

02:52:00.800 a specific number but same thing with uh as long as we have like a comfortable comfortable life okay

02:52:07.280 who here wants kids show of hands kids no kids no kids everybody else though kids how many kids do

02:52:16.800 you want um two two four four she doesn't want kids what about you probably three to five three to five

02:52:24.880 set five to seven one or two one or two and two okay yeah i mean i know some of you said you don't

02:52:31.200 really care but i think you know just the economic realities are if you want to have kids you do have

02:52:37.840 to consider finances to some degree when you're picking a partner i would imagine um but okay um

02:52:46.320 a hundred thousand hundred thousand how much do you make aren't you like a neat aren't you like

02:52:52.240 unemployed right now i am i am i'm working on it it's a long you know i say predators oh my god

02:52:59.440 wait what i can't believe i can't believe that do you see how did i miss that how did you miss this

02:53:04.960 because it's fading and i see the stains too oh i know well i'm sweating i'm sorry oh it's sweat

02:53:10.720 stands titty sweat it's okay i get that too oh i'm sure well i'm just it's that's the way it's on

02:53:16.720 the chest what do you want me it is i know good times yeah okay predators can't have any of this

02:53:22.800 why not oh my god what's so special like isn't that just a given like who would have a shirt like

02:53:32.080 predators can get this um what well because some some men feel and i'm not talking about either of

02:53:41.680 you some men feel entitled to women they feel entitled well they feel entitled to yeah they feel

02:53:49.600 sexually entitled wouldn't a predator feel entitled regardless of your shirt yes i'm just

02:53:55.920 going to be like you know what i thought about it i know i know he's not gonna stop because i have

02:54:02.000 this obviously like what are you trying to signal i guess like i don't get it um well i see it as more

02:54:08.560 of a you know it's more of like a joke but because it's it's a serious to me but i understand that

02:54:15.680 it's not going to be perceived in a serious matter by anybody who actually does think that way

02:54:22.160 because there are men that i've dealt with you know who feel very entitled to me i don't know if

02:54:27.440 they are aware that they're predators probably not yeah and that's actually very interesting that you

02:54:32.400 bring up that point um because a lot of people think that many of these like predatory minded people

02:54:38.160 male or female they actually know that they're like predatory and it's actually not the case a lot of the

02:54:43.280 time there's a whole whole psychological movement on that but yeah movement and psychology i should

02:54:52.480 say i'm trying to like kind of wrap my head around it though like what would be an equivalent shirt like

02:54:58.400 what what would a guy wear that's like

02:55:02.960 gold diggers can't something obese gold digger

02:55:06.080 yeah but see that's the thing it's like men who

02:55:34.800 i feel like our society has this idea of like men that are like very assertive with other people

02:55:41.520 like they're not so the way i think of it is like guys that aren't frauds like i wouldn't consider them

02:55:48.720 like predatory even if they're very like assertive and like maybe they've had like a couple like

02:55:53.840 um mishaps with women or men or other men or something like they're not so they're gay no like a guy who's

02:56:02.400 like no a guy who's like assertive and very powerful like that's not what i would consider

02:56:08.800 to be a predator i would consider a predator to be like somebody who like like he he's like basically

02:56:18.240 well he's like he like he just said um he's not aware that his behavior is like creepy

02:56:27.120 like he's his behaviors are not matching his thoughts about his be about how he's like

02:56:34.240 being but if he wasn't aware perceived by the world i'm sorry but if he wasn't aware that he was a

02:56:40.080 predator how would he know the shirt applied to him right exactly yeah that's why it's kind of a joke

02:56:45.200 in my mind i just don't there's a whole i don't get it there's literature on this i mean there's

02:56:50.160 narcissists there's men that are narcissists that don't know that they're narcissists and they're

02:56:57.120 the ones that i actually don't like it's not the men that like know they're narcissists and like you

02:57:03.120 you'll date a narcissist if they know they're a narcissist because they're more likely than not

02:57:08.480 they're not going to have this like cognitive dissonance going on where they like they are behaving

02:57:14.960 in one way and they're thinking about themselves in another way so for example like those guys who

02:57:21.680 think that they're maybe this is attack on how you perceive yourself i don't know but there are guys

02:57:27.440 that that there are guys who think that they're like these that do everything to try to impress a

02:57:35.200 girl like they basically simp for her you know and they like they'll do everything just like follow

02:57:41.040 her around like they'll they'll do they're basically like simps what are you saying i'm sorry i'm like

02:57:46.720 you're lost you're lost you're lost okay wait okay we'll drop the point no but okay there's male simps

02:57:51.920 what okay because that's like what a predator is in my mind so what like guys that do everything guys

02:57:58.800 that yeah no i think so yeah hold on not like a guy who's like who's creepy yeah like a guy who is

02:58:09.760 okay let me think of it this way it's on your shirt like i assume you know how to like right so so what

02:58:16.480 so what this is basically addressing like i just said is like this cognitive dissonance there are

02:58:21.280 certain people where they their behaviors don't match their actions i'm sorry their behaviors don't

02:58:28.400 match their actions so they could be like violating boundaries poor boundary recognition um constantly

02:58:37.440 asserting control over like another person like trying to control their life their the person's

02:58:42.800 life what's an example of that so the way that i think of it is like a guy who thinks that because

02:58:48.960 he's a nice guy he should get he should get to sleep with a woman and that's the only reason

02:58:54.800 because he's a nice guy that's done stuff for her and i i mean i think that that's a bad mindset to

02:59:00.960 have but i i don't know if that would make him a predator i agree like that's a bad attitude but

02:59:07.360 i think there could be other things about him that make him predatory

02:59:11.680 but just a guy who's like i'm a nice like that's a shit mindset to have but i don't think that makes

02:59:17.920 him predatory in and of itself maybe maybe that's your opinion well i don't just i mean i think a lot

02:59:24.800 of people i think a lot of people agree with you there would have to be predatory behavior in

02:59:29.120 conjunction with the mindset right so a guy might i mean so probably gonna get a lot of backlash for

02:59:38.080 this but a guy might think that if he and this may be associated with like people that i oh this is

02:59:46.960 gonna make me sound bad this is gonna make me sound bad um but like i'm very attracted honestly i'm

02:59:53.520 very attracted to intelligent men so i don't really appreciate like intellectually deficient men

03:00:00.320 i think that you know that if they have like some kind of intellectual disability that's like

03:00:06.080 unattractive to me um that sounds prejudice but yeah okay what about that what what about

03:00:11.760 but but you know i think and well i'm saying that it may be correlated like if you're if you're

03:00:17.200 highly intelligent is no no no no no no not not those two not to those two things why are you

03:00:22.080 bringing that up so please make it make sense okay okay so i think that like it may be characteristic

03:00:29.760 of somebody with an intellectual disability to not understand how their how their actions are

03:00:36.240 impacting another person and so as a result they will behave in a certain way okay and it may be an

03:00:45.600 aggressive way now this again this is going to make me sound like a really mean person because

03:00:51.680 there's people out there that you know are kind of given this pass oh they have like a disability

03:00:56.560 they can't help themselves they have a cognitive problem wait hold on are you talking low iq or full

03:01:01.120 on disability because you're talking like down syndrome why what what are you talking i i mean

03:01:05.920 somebody with a low iq yeah but low iq is not it isn't necessarily a metric of intelligence

03:01:12.400 so it's not i don't want to say iq i'd want to say somebody who isn't um and i don't know if if you

03:01:21.520 know that but there are issues with iq tests um but yeah so so there are people out there let's say that

03:01:30.960 i have been taught throughout my life where something has happened where i as a man believe that if i steal

03:01:37.840 items from a woman for example or i do something to hurt her that she's still going to like me

03:01:43.520 or if i'm you know if i have those cognitive distortions if i have like this idea in my brain

03:01:49.920 that if i do things to manipulate a female that she's going to like me that's somebody who obviously

03:01:57.360 something is going on in their brain where they think that they're a good person when their behavior

03:02:03.280 is suggesting otherwise and there's a lot of examples of this in psychology let me give you

03:02:08.720 an example so so let me give you an example so so wait can i ask you something yes jump in so earlier

03:02:16.000 you kind of commented on how you would date a narcissist who is aware they're a narcissist yeah so

03:02:25.520 in that that kind of indicates that you think the awareness

03:02:28.240 awareness reduces the symptoms of narcissism or the behaviors and how it affects you right so if

03:02:34.480 somebody is and again there's like data on this that narcissism does have a strong it has a stronger

03:02:44.400 genetic component than we once thought um but there are certain forms of narcissism that are probably

03:02:52.400 more so due to environment even though that genetic that genetic base basis is still there

03:02:58.320 um but i think that if somebody is raised in a household where they're maybe more aware of their

03:03:05.040 behaviors so they're not so the way that i think of it is this is going to sound complicated to you guys

03:03:12.880 but there are people that are taught that empathy may mean something you know other than what it actually

03:03:22.240 is and what is that something so if you're gonna if you're one of the if you're one of these guys who

03:03:31.120 thinks that they're going to like that they need to like rescue women or something like that that

03:03:36.160 women need to be saved yeah um and that you know let's say if she is like a three if she's you know

03:03:43.360 selling her body for sex um she needs to be saved that she needs to be saved and like you know taking

03:03:49.440 care of or something like that well continue but i don't know if that woman needs to be saved i mean

03:03:57.840 maybe she does maybe she doesn't either way it's not really up to the guy so wait it's not really up to

03:04:04.720 the guy to like decide that for her that's a boundary violation if he's just like what are you

03:04:11.280 talking about he doesn't know what i'm talking about you're just yapping i'm yapping yeah make a

03:04:16.880 make a cohesive a cohesive a cohesive argument articulate something i think that you don't

03:04:22.960 understand what i'm saying no you're just i'm i'm just ranting okay okay so yeah so wait back to

03:04:30.640 the question that i had like yeah but i want to i want to you i want to answer your question okay

03:04:35.360 yeah oh my god yes so because so okay so we have genetics and we have an environment

03:04:43.200 and environment it think of environment like this the soil and genetics is the seed so the soil like

03:04:50.160 shapes the soil shapes how the seed grows right pause you to speed this up a little bit everyone in my

03:04:57.440 family is narcissistic my mom my dad all three my brothers yeah so i kind of understand what's

03:05:04.800 genetic and what's environmental i know tell us more about the soil i'm using it a metaphor um

03:05:13.840 that's all it is so what matters more the environment or the genetic factor do you think if someone

03:05:19.280 who comes from a long line of generational trauma is put into a foster care a foster home no

03:05:27.120 brian's annoyed well we can move on brian sorry um but i'm asking her about her shirt

03:05:34.800 this is true and i told you about what a predator is no you zigzag all over the place i agree

03:05:41.920 i'm proud there's a lot of zigzagging yeah what what are you trying to communicate with your like

03:05:48.160 i don't just don't get i'm trying to make murderers like murderers you can't hang out with me

03:05:54.560 what did that who so of course i don't want to hang out oh murderers don't hang out with me

03:06:01.040 you think a murderer is gonna oh she's got the shirt that says i don't like murderers you don't

03:06:05.520 that's the point i'm gonna stay away from her no if i'm a murderer i'm gonna be like challenge accepted

03:06:09.520 you're you're attracting these predators are like that's the one so and you're you're saying

03:06:17.200 right you're you're describing exactly what i'm saying so why are you wearing the shirt lady

03:06:22.240 because i want to be bait

03:06:26.800 yeah like when the predatory person see that should be like

03:06:33.280 i got well that's what i'm saying it's like a guy who's aware that he's like

03:06:37.200 you know an arrogant guy he's gonna see it and he's gonna just laugh he's gonna be like

03:06:43.200 oh well like i wasn't like he probably wouldn't want me anyway so because obviously i'm aware but

03:06:49.360 somebody who's not aware of their actions i am going to you know what i like the shirt i'm going

03:06:55.600 to put it on my merch store i'm also i just a three other t-shirt ideas came to my mind while we've

03:07:01.120 been discussing this your t-shirt says predators can't have any of this i also am going to release a

03:07:06.800 couple shirts on my merch store shop.whatever.com the sky is blue i'm gonna the sky is blue um

03:07:16.800 what uh well i don't know what some other um grass is green and women are gonna nag you okay that's

03:07:26.000 that's what my the merch shop is awesome anyways i don't know why okay all right that's yeah yeah

03:07:36.720 okay are you a predator i might you know it's reverse psychology you're no you know what you

03:07:42.640 make a good point because when i was younger you i knew i think some men some men would probably

03:07:52.400 consider me if they were they probably consider me to be a predator some when you were younger men

03:08:00.480 would think you were a predator no so um let me let me let me let me explain i don't know i mean

03:08:13.120 there have been guys that have said that i've used them why do they say that um i don't know if it's in

03:08:22.480 i don't know it won't stop wait you were abusive i think maybe i was did you hit a guy

03:08:38.960 no i didn't hit him you were verbally abusive no i don't think verbally abusive no emotionally

03:08:44.320 abusive i think i guess emotionally yeah how did you emotionally abuse the guy well i've had

03:08:49.280 a couple guys have said that actually just one basically said that i used him for sex i'd see

03:08:57.200 i told you guys girls do that shit not all women i'm telling you bro these girls but it was like one

03:09:04.240 guy who said that and he has like a very unstable background so i don't know if that's if it's just

03:09:11.040 because did you he has like trump yeah oh yeah i mean i don't it's not like a personal thing though

03:09:21.120 you used him you used him it's not a personal thing i mean i'm not i don't like hate the person used

03:09:28.000 sexually q like a woman just used you sexually

03:09:37.600 no i don't mind

03:09:39.760 i don't mind it's not that big of a deal yeah have fun yeah that's the thing it's like that's what most

03:09:44.400 men how that's how most men would react like they wouldn't even have you have you seen american pie

03:09:49.520 yeah the the film yeah um i saw one of them i don't remember which one though it's like the first

03:09:56.960 time like no i haven't seen at the end jim jimbo finally loses i'm gonna spoil it look it came out

03:10:03.840 25 years ago you are dating yourself

03:10:10.560 i know i know uh jimbo finally loses her his virginity to the uh uh this one time at band camp

03:10:18.240 band geek girl and she they hook up they have sex prom they weren't even really together he just

03:10:25.280 asked her to prom they they have sex and then she's he wakes up and she's disappeared and he was

03:10:30.800 like where where'd she go and he was like oh my god i was used i was used and he was i don't know

03:10:42.480 but couldn't you say that like well we could like and we could analyze the movie but like stifler's mom

03:10:48.480 used that the the other was his name i don't remember uh finch a finch yeah i mean that was

03:10:56.160 a consensual i'm pretty sure that was a counter yeah but he was like a young man like i took some

03:11:02.320 milf oh there we go yeah from the movie all right here uh let's get into the rest of the questionnaire

03:11:09.200 stuff how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date starting with you

03:11:12.880 um i'm 5'2 i don't really care that much about height if there's height somewhere else you know

03:11:22.480 wait can you stick your mic to the edge of the table oh it moves yeah it travels it's all good

03:11:27.600 uh what about women do you have a preference there do you prefer petite women tall women

03:11:33.040 don't care i think i know you said you're a large labia enjoy um okay yeah so no high preference so

03:11:41.600 you'll do the guy who's like 5'2 then 5'3 okay yeah all right uh what about you must be at least

03:11:48.320 the same height as me and you're 5'6 yes 5'6 okay what about you um i'm 5'1 and i said i don't really

03:11:54.400 care about height unless unless he's taller than me okay okay most guys are going to be taller than

03:11:59.760 you what about you i said i'm 5'3 and the shortest i would date is 5'3 really okay i'm 4'11 um i don't

03:12:09.520 really have any height restrictions i never have i've never cared about it got it x was 5'4 though

03:12:16.000 yep my x was 5'4 what about you uh i'm five two and a half and i go for guys probably about the 5'10

03:12:24.080 range and i will say the reason why is i feel like men that are taller appear a little bit more

03:12:28.640 masculine to me so i'm into it okay i prefer tall um i'll tell you taller so i'm 5'3 yeah but if

03:12:38.720 preferably over six feet sure but only if he's like ripped like only if i don't want like a tall

03:12:45.040 skinny guy you know i see he's got makeup for it if he's taller all right yeah what about you i'm

03:12:51.360 five two i would say five five just like a couple inches sure uh do you have any dating frustrations

03:12:57.760 if so what toria starting with you okay um i feel like nowadays there's a lot of people who

03:13:06.000 are emotionally immature or unavailable and you like go around and you're showing all these acts of care

03:13:15.600 but then you can't say i love you or like i care about you you know and you're just like doing this

03:13:22.000 weird little dance where you're like oh we can have like we can have a child together you'll say that

03:13:28.160 but like i love you can't say that like that's weird that comes all right

03:13:34.720 dating frustrations i would say not emotionally available or guys want two girlfriends um

03:13:45.760 and i feel like we just live like i don't know in a boy generation

03:13:52.000 no what about you i feel like uh being single so long and really thinking about it i got too

03:13:59.760 choosy okay and i feel like i just see a lot of things that i don't like like the roles being

03:14:04.960 reversed and that includes me as well like having to be a little more masculine in a relationship is

03:14:11.840 kind of strange okay yeah um so lack of communication is a really big one for me and then also lack lacking

03:14:22.160 emotional maturity and being able to you know effectively identify and

03:14:29.920 solve feel resolve feelings things like that resolve yeah like i feel like a lot of um men i

03:14:36.720 see are more likely to not talk about something that bothers them and just kind of let it go until

03:14:41.920 it gets to a point where they're like you know really um i think they get triggered really easily

03:14:48.320 and kind of and then it's like there are all these problems and then but you never talked to me about

03:14:52.400 any of them so it like builds up and then it overwhelms them to the point where you just

03:14:56.160 feel like i've seen the exact opposite of that yeah i tend to attract men that are maybe i don't

03:15:02.000 want to say too open because i love the open emotionally dumb yeah but yeah emotionally dumb the amount of

03:15:08.240 guys i've dated that say i love you so quick or and like i can't say it back because it's like

03:15:16.480 way too soon like we barely know each other that's a little crazy um but yeah i feel like i've dealt

03:15:23.280 with the opposite where it's like the emotion is a little too fast like it's coming it's the first

03:15:28.560 thing that comes where it should be like that's so interesting love bombing yeah yeah i guess yeah

03:15:36.160 you know most of what i experience is um just really avoidant men who would rather not talk about

03:15:42.240 i don't know just even like their childhood or things like that but won't tell me why

03:15:46.880 um just avoidance in a lot of ways such as that that ultimately doesn't benefit you at all

03:15:54.480 because you're keeping that information back any information um out of fear of it causing a bigger

03:16:00.560 problem or being rejected and so i mean those problems can't be confronted if they're not mentioned

03:16:08.400 if they're not brought to light so yeah i just see avoidance in men a lot typically okay

03:16:15.360 uh i feel like my struggles are a little more personal or more little like on that outlier range

03:16:20.880 i think trying being 22 years old and like wanting to save myself for marriage and not really skewing from

03:16:27.120 that has made dating really hard for me because a lot of guys that i've experienced i can't say this is

03:16:33.360 the truth for all men out there aren't really in the mood to wait and um or respect my morals in

03:16:40.240 that sense and my morals are everything to me so i feel like that's been my personal biggest struggle

03:16:46.320 is finding somebody that would be open to that kind of dating style so is the guy you currently talk to

03:16:52.640 open to that yeah and that that's why i said uh earlier and i even mentioned it because i feel if i was

03:16:58.960 just talking and he wasn't i wouldn't have mentioned it but i was like you know what you respect me

03:17:03.200 enough to be respectful with you know me being open with you about the fact i'm saving myself and gave

03:17:08.800 me a really great response actually so that's why when i came on here i wasn't just like i'm single and

03:17:13.440 ready to mingle i'm like now i'm talking to somebody um because that's something i really respect but you

03:17:18.240 said you only been talking to him for only like no no like way shorter than that it's only been really like

03:17:23.920 we've known each other longer but we both kind of admitted to liking each other within the last two

03:17:29.360 weeks so that's more my situation one question for you i know like some women who they say that

03:17:37.680 they're waiting for marriage but they're like waiting for that guy so they'll like and i'm not saying

03:17:47.360 that that's the case for you but someone will say for example like i'm just waiting for the guy who i

03:17:51.920 know is going to be the one so like they'll have sex before marriage but it's like that you're like

03:17:57.920 really high certainty like we're gonna get married or is that even then you're like nope no not even

03:18:02.960 when i'm engaged for me i want it to be like the night i'm married and it's very like it's not only

03:18:10.160 spiritual for me but it's also the fact that um both my dad and stepdad passed and um i know that

03:18:19.360 that was their wishes for me and it's almost like now that they're both gone it's definitely something

03:18:23.920 that uh is a reminder for me to like hold up to my moral values because like inevitably i don't have

03:18:29.120 that father figure in my life to protect me and like kind of give me that advice and i feel as though

03:18:33.920 saving myself for marriage has given me this really cool perspective where i can say that maybe i've

03:18:39.600 been hurt less in certain ways because i've never inevitably faced that heartbreak in the same way

03:18:45.360 because i've never given myself to someone so i feel like when i make decisions it's not

03:18:51.680 like out of lust and when i do things it's with a clear head um so that's like a plus and uh i guess

03:18:59.440 also kind of just not experiencing heartbreak as bad i would say just because i feel like and maybe

03:19:06.480 you guys can relate if you can you know let me know but um like i know that um sometimes that like

03:19:12.720 once you've kind of been intimate with somebody it can hurt more when they like act stupid or just

03:19:17.520 ghost or leave or something like that and i feel like that's been something i've been fortunate enough

03:19:22.480 to not have to face in that aspect so i think that's another driving reason that i want to keep doing

03:19:29.680 it it's because i've seen the benefits but i can't speak for everybody and i don't shame anybody else

03:19:34.720 who doesn't follow that that's just a personal belief for me uh and then going to you dating

03:19:39.760 frustrations you wrote something here oh um right so i do feel that there's i actually had a question

03:19:46.720 for you though oh yeah um do you feel ostracized by like the current cultural climate that's what

03:19:53.120 she just said you do that's literally uh i'm not trying to pick on you but that's literally what

03:19:58.960 she was okay yeah kind of i feel like not not as in depth it's strange to live okay we'll go in

03:20:04.080 depth go ahead uh strange to live in a world full of hookup culture right now just as i can't i don't

03:20:10.160 participate and uh it kind of in a sense uh with women being a little bit more promiscuous now i feel

03:20:17.920 like men kind of have that expectation sometimes um because views like mine are not necessarily really

03:20:24.400 respected or practiced as much so i would say i definitely feel ostracized and uh that's kind of

03:20:30.000 my struggle right now just want to reinforce the answer is he religious too um i what i love uh

03:20:38.720 about the conversation i had with said person uh was the fact that i'm not super super religious i

03:20:45.920 would say that my dad was a like devout christian and my mom was very earthy and naturey and so in a

03:20:51.840 sense i believe i'm more like universally spiritual in the sense that i i you know 48 laws of power

03:20:59.120 you know that kind of affirmations the secret you know like speaking positivity into reality you know

03:21:05.920 what i mean kind of situation wait 48 laws of power that's a book on like machiavellianism yeah

03:21:15.040 yeah but you said like earthy and no but i mean i don't know if like the 48 laws of power is like

03:21:20.560 no like i'm naming like the like the 48 laws of power um yeah that's like how to manipulate people

03:21:26.320 kind of no like it's it's based on the prince by machiavelli in my defense i haven't read the whole

03:21:32.800 thing i've read excerpts from it so there are pieces of it that are i have not read the whole book

03:21:38.240 i've not read a lot of it is on manipulation how to see manipulation if somebody's manipulating you

03:21:43.920 well those aren't the parts i've read i take that back i'll recommend the secret

03:21:47.840 real quick i'm curious is the guy you talk to is is he a virgin uh no so that's interesting do you

03:21:56.800 think he'll hold out um i don't know but i'd be willing to date him and see where it goes i've

03:22:03.200 definitely guys say they were okay with it in the past uh i was in a relationship for four years is

03:22:08.320 he christian uh the one i'm current uh the current guy i'm in the talking stage with he is also like

03:22:14.960 universal universally spiritual so that's kind of how i'd put it because it's not necessarily

03:22:21.840 a man-made religion but it's definitely living by a moral principle what's his body count i i didn't

03:22:27.280 ask him how old is he

03:22:31.360 is it tristan tate i knew no i'll just say he's in his uh later 30s but not like 39 i just don't i don't

03:22:40.400 know i don't know i don't know i do know his age i just don't want my friend group back at home

03:22:45.440 picking it out right now oh they would they they would know process yeah elimination yeah yeah

03:22:51.360 well i don't think private not 39 39 yeah he's not he's waiting yeah it's not 39 he's okay that's

03:22:59.600 funny your responses between wait why are responses funny no like you're like you both said that he

03:23:06.640 wouldn't wait yeah because she just because she just started talking to him like and he said oh yeah

03:23:11.920 you know i respect that and it's early he's not so he's not a virgin no and he's old enough to have

03:23:17.360 probably had like multiple multiple multiple sexual relationships once you've had like once that's

03:23:23.280 been your sort of expectation and experience it's far less likely that you're gonna be willing to wait

03:23:29.200 when he can just go find another girl who will have sex not to say that but we are he is extremely

03:23:34.160 traditional which is he is yeah how so in the sense of how he was raised and his moral beliefs and

03:23:41.280 disciplines i mean i don't i know i'm not gonna ask him that right off the bat hey i was wait you're

03:23:45.760 christian right uh no my dad was very christian so i was raised christian and then my mom's side of

03:23:51.120 the family is more like um spiritual she's spiritual but i was also like roman catholic like grew up with

03:23:57.840 the nuns and stuff what uh are you typically attracted to older men yeah what about like a

03:24:03.200 guy who's a couple years older than i don't know like 25 or something no because i'll be honest

03:24:06.800 with you i have personally found i know you both are men sitting right here you could totally disagree

03:24:10.960 if you'd like um but in my personal experiences men in their early to late 20s tend to be little

03:24:18.240 horndogs kind of just trying to get it where they can all the time and then guys in their 30s are

03:24:24.800 looking to get married settle down have kids so they're willing to kind of put a little bit more

03:24:29.040 effort in because they're looking for their wife the guy you're currently seeing does he have kids

03:24:33.920 no but he wants kids has he ever been married no uh and he's spiritual he's i was surprisingly

03:24:41.920 spiritual i i enjoyed talking to him about that i was shocked because not many people have the same

03:24:46.640 kind of spirituality that i do i just feel like it's gonna be hard to like i you could probably find

03:24:54.480 this guy in the church but like a non-religious man who's wants to wait until marriage that's not

03:25:01.600 regardless of his age i think he would actually be more likely to find that in younger men than in

03:25:08.560 older men like older men they might want like they they're probably more inclined to like settle down

03:25:14.160 have kids have a family but like when it comes to premarital sex i don't know if there's

03:25:20.000 any difference there as compared to uh but do you younger counterparts how old are you if you don't

03:25:26.640 mind me 35 okay do you and if you don't mind me asking i feel like we've all gone pretty personal

03:25:31.120 and some of our answers but do you feel like you have a higher sex drive now or when you're in your 20s

03:25:37.520 or at least like ability to question i don't know kind of maybe hold back at least for a little bit

03:25:44.720 honestly i think it's pretty much the same i think it's pretty much the same yeah if i almost

03:25:53.680 so like you don't feel like guys in their 20s and again this is me actually asking because i have two

03:25:57.520 men sitting right here that are how old are you i'm 32 okay so so in their 30s so do you feel like

03:26:03.520 you go around as much as maybe you did in your 20s to like look for it and seek it out and go through

03:26:09.280 the action of it um you're like me personally i mean i didn't it came and more so came to me

03:26:21.360 it came to him waves waves uh i mean i'm trying to think was i more trying to pursue it

03:26:32.800 i can tell you this i've always been relationship minded like i've never been into sleep with a girl

03:26:43.120 once never talked to her again i thought that was weird yeah like i thought it was a waste of time

03:26:47.840 and it was frankly a liability but that's a another conversation um do you think a high valued man

03:26:53.920 would be willing to wait if it meant that it could potentially land him with a high value woman

03:26:59.680 with a high value man because you know i always hear that talked about you know what i mean and

03:27:05.840 guys are always like oh we want a high value woman or we want a woman that has been with less people

03:27:10.640 so if they really want that then god do the time the thing she doesn't just fall into the marriage

03:27:18.000 you know the thing is though the thing is is i do think absent there being some sort of

03:27:25.920 structured value system like religion i think like the majority of men who are agnostic or atheist

03:27:34.880 are probably not the type to wait until marriage especially if they're 39 like now i'm not just to be

03:27:42.720 clear i'm not whatever like i'm not saying that hey you you know that you're not a catch but what i'm

03:27:49.440 saying is what i'm saying is is like even a man presented with like a really fantastic woman but

03:27:56.640 she's like i want to wait until marriage i a lot of men are so accustomed to getting sex up front or

03:28:05.280 pretty early on yeah that that's they're like i can probably find a woman who's just as attractive

03:28:12.720 and personality wise probably just as good and also have a premarital sexual relationship with her

03:28:19.840 which could lead into a marriage um i i so you feel like kind of what i do is a little bit outdated

03:28:28.800 and like shouldn't necessarily really need to be practiced anymore and i don't take offense to that

03:28:33.840 because i know that i kind of i don't think what you're doing is wrong i just think that

03:28:38.480 i i think a lot of men who are not virgins themselves i see or who are who are not maybe

03:28:46.240 they've had sexual partners in the past i see but now they're like christian and they have like

03:28:50.800 a guiding moral guiding moral and ethical principles uh and like a religious foundation

03:28:58.960 i think most agnostic and atheist men which i assume you're open to dating since you're not

03:29:04.560 religious herself i think it's going to be hard to find that i'm not saying it's impossible but i

03:29:09.600 think a lot of men because you feel like maybe they'd use the thing of like oh well she's following

03:29:13.920 her religion kind of thing no he's following his religion but let me ask you this uh has how long

03:29:21.280 have you guys been talking a month oh no i i'm just i i said the guy the guy you're seeing the guy i'm

03:29:26.960 talking to talking um have you guys been on a couple dates uh i'm not going to disclose that much

03:29:31.840 information for my friends back home but i would say that we've we've have you met in person yes

03:29:36.560 yes multiple times yes okay have you been alone together yes um has he attempted to move things

03:29:43.280 forward sexually no and that's why i like him okay okay i mean that's a good indicator because i was

03:29:50.640 very upfront about that yeah and again i don't want to talk like someone if he like listens in to think

03:29:54.880 i'm some weirdo like yeah we've been talking a couple weeks and i said that because i like where

03:29:59.840 things are going and i think that he's a high value man and respectable enough for me to say

03:30:04.960 hey i'm not single and ready to mingle to the world so yeah look if if you can get it that's fine um

03:30:12.960 i think it's i think it's early oh definitely i don't know how it's gonna work out some guys wait

03:30:17.920 some guys wait yeah we were just talking about telling y'all what they want to hear in order if

03:30:22.640 anybody knows that i know and i've been with a guy for nine months before and then had him be like

03:30:27.920 i actually can't do this anymore and i will say that's what i'm talking about and you know what i

03:30:31.600 don't blame him because i i appreciate guys that are opening up front like there was this one guy

03:30:35.440 that one time asked me out and then we we had the talks like i'm not going to lead on a guy and like

03:30:39.920 get into a relationship with him just to be like hey guess what i don't do um but i i told him my

03:30:46.000 morals and he straight up told me so listen like sex is something that i need in my life to be very

03:30:50.880 healthy and like it's something that i need and it was really amazing because he just came up to me and

03:30:56.560 told me that rather than leading me on for a bunch of months just to be like actually

03:31:00.400 i don't think i can you know so i do have respect for people even for being open about that you

03:31:07.040 know q did you have something or oh i was just gonna say um in reference to the fact that you

03:31:12.320 holding out till marriage my i actually i'd say that's probably a top two or three uh problem in

03:31:17.520 my female clientele of of women that i coach single women the women who are religious and want

03:31:22.800 to wait till marriage but they struggle tremendously and they're older um you talking about like uh

03:31:28.160 30s like some yeah some women have held out to to their 30s um yeah and i'm just saying this i'm

03:31:35.600 just saying it is it is difficult like because you have to find a guy that you really like and and

03:31:40.720 who aligns with your values and if you aren't on the same religious foundation then that's typically

03:31:44.960 going to be really really difficult yeah 100 yeah the odds are crazy what if it never happens

03:31:51.440 like what if you're the 40 year old virgin why would you i'm just i'm just saying i'm not saying

03:31:56.400 that's what's going to happen i'm just curious are you like if you hit 40 are you just going to be

03:32:00.560 like all right i guess i'll have premarital sex or are you just gonna be like i'm gonna just die

03:32:06.960 none what are you gonna do i'll just marry somebody really quickly then i'll be like all right i'll

03:32:11.280 marry you in a week like vegas i'm just kidding i don't think it's gonna get to that i have faith

03:32:16.880 okay but i am always curious with like the women who are virgins like what if and who are waiting

03:32:21.840 until marriage like what if it doesn't happen are you gonna like make some concessions do you die

03:32:27.920 a virgin what do you do i actually thought about that would you be willing to die virgin i kind of

03:32:32.560 would i know it sounds stupid don't make fun of me okay i'm not making fun but like i don't

03:32:36.880 know it really matters to me it's like it's i don't expect it on my friends i don't preach about

03:32:41.840 it i don't tell other people they should do it but it's something that matters to me and if i'm truly

03:32:46.800 loyal then i'm not going to go back on my own convictions either and that's a promise i made

03:32:51.120 to myself i have three questions for you okay if you're still a virgin do you want to make a pact

03:32:59.520 at 40 do you want we could what do you think like premarital i'm not having sex before marriage okay hold

03:33:06.800 on 50. oh my god no you know i was 60. no at 60 you know what i'll do you know what i'll do i'll

03:33:14.000 join the nuns and i'll go to the vatican and go yeah 70. yeah i would be a cute nun okay okay all

03:33:23.040 right no pack at least i would have something to do with it i'd have purpose i'd be like oh well i

03:33:26.720 saved it this long i don't have anybody looks like i'll go be a nun you know like there's always

03:33:31.440 that okay i'm wrong with a few cobwebs i was just gonna say i think it's worth addressing the fact

03:33:37.840 because i like older guys too and um but i think a lot of what they a lot of them at least some of

03:33:45.760 the ones i've known they think that like they can again i don't know if it's malicious manipulation

03:33:53.120 but they know kind of how to they know what a woman is like looking for in terms of maturity

03:34:02.080 that she's not going to find in like a younger guy and they'll play on that so i really like i

03:34:08.880 respect you a lot i couldn't do that the things that you're doing like i definitely couldn't um

03:34:15.680 you know but i and what is she doing what what you said no well the fact that she's saying she's

03:34:22.080 saving herself for marriage like that's just very like noble and you know and i just um but

03:34:28.560 wait older men are predatory wait what i didn't say that i'm confused or well you're saying like

03:34:33.120 these older men they know how i think i think it's not malicious manipulation i think necessarily

03:34:38.560 it's just that they're a lot they're they're mature and smart and they know like i'd say overall

03:34:44.960 compared to like a 25 year old guy and so they not everybody obviously but i think some of them know

03:34:53.600 how to like play the game better and so kind of say like gas a female up and just give her what she

03:34:59.760 wants to hear compared to you know and again i don't think it that i don't think the correlating

03:35:05.680 factors necessarily um always age but i just think that it come you know people that are older are wiser

03:35:12.800 so like they're just going to be a lot better at like communicating you know because because one of

03:35:19.360 the one of the reasons that i don't like younger like guys closer to my age basically is um is

03:35:26.480 because i think that they're immature so it's just like i think that a lot of times they know that

03:35:31.760 women are looking for that maturity and they'll play off that you know what i'm saying i'm just i'm

03:35:36.400 just saying this to you because no i luckily pulled the popcorn right oh out of my mic oh my god

03:35:46.320 carrie needs to

03:35:50.320 um okay yeah

03:35:54.960 he turned my mic off what no no i said he pulled oh he pulled the plug

03:35:59.440 a plug no popcorn popcorn the popcorn okay i don't know he had like real popcorn yeah she was

03:36:10.400 laughing about it no i know i know yeah all right i thought she said pull the plug i was like oh my

03:36:17.280 microphone like oh no thanks for the suggestion um you said that uh okay your dating frustration is what

03:36:25.280 so i don't really know if i want to go into what's on there now even though i put it down

03:36:33.040 too bad i'm gonna read it okay okay no no no no i'll talk about it then i'll talk about it fine

03:36:37.520 um i don't know like i've just i have it's not even bad it's not even bad or anything no it's not bad

03:36:45.200 but like i've dealt with like okay so like in la there are quite a few pimps right for some reason

03:36:51.360 like some of them have taken interest in me and so they've made it about finances right like i should

03:36:56.960 go out with them because they like can get me a job or they can you know provide for me or something

03:37:02.720 like that do you want that kind of hold on no i don't you wrote hold on you said i do think that

03:37:10.960 some men believe nowadays that women are looking for financial resources rather than a relationship

03:37:16.320 based on other qualities there's nothing about pimping and hoeing in here no because i was very

03:37:23.600 broad like i wasn't specific but i you're you're dating pimps no i'm not who want to turn you i've

03:37:32.800 attracted some pimps though yeah who have tried have you been pimped have you some men have tried to

03:37:39.120 pimp me out some of them have yes what do you mean they tried um again like i i don't even i

03:37:48.560 shouldn't even have written this down um but you didn't write down the pimp part this is like a

03:37:52.480 perfectly you think that men believe now you're basically saying all these men okay like the men

03:37:56.960 think that so why don't we okay so yeah why don't we go ahead okay why don't we go into that one um

03:38:03.760 yes let's yes okay um i i think i said earlier that uh you know women do oftentimes prefer guys

03:38:12.480 with resources and i'm not saying that i don't but i have kind of right you wrote that at least

03:38:19.360 a hundred thousand dollars is the minimum yearly income you want for your future husband yeah and

03:38:23.040 i do and i i do think that he but but here's what i mean by this okay so i don't want a guy who's like

03:38:29.040 sitting on money right i want a guy who's like working hard so he's not he didn't inherit the

03:38:34.240 money necessarily like he's not being it's not like his parents are giving him money like he's a hard

03:38:39.600 worker who's rich or is it's a hundred thousand dollars a year it's a hundred thousand dollars a

03:38:45.760 year is not rich but but not in california anyway rich wealthy guy well i mean okay i want yeah like a

03:38:52.720 heart like a hard he doesn't have to be rich but like well you said at least a hundred thousand dollars a

03:38:57.520 year that's not rich nowadays but you want a rich guy but you said yeah at least at least a hundred

03:39:03.360 thousand yeah income yeah future husband because what do you think instead of at least what do you

03:39:08.080 think let's not even use ideal let's just say realistic like what how much money how much income

03:39:16.560 will your future husband make

03:39:17.680 um

03:39:24.160 so for one thing i don't want to get married just for the record um but uh do you want to i mean i

03:39:32.400 want i want kids i want kids and i you know but i'm not saying that like i necessarily have to be

03:39:38.000 married to have kids sure so but do you want to the person you have kids with do you want to spend your

03:39:44.400 right hopefully the rest of your life so so that the father is in the children's lives i'm assuming

03:39:49.200 right right right yeah um so that guy i don't want to i don't know if we would necessarily be like

03:39:55.920 that linked like for all time no but like you know i would at least want to be like

03:40:02.640 to have a stable relationship with him for the sake of the kids yeah

03:40:10.160 am i making any sense in your minds no you're making no you're making sense okay i'm not saying

03:40:15.840 like i'm not trying to like find a man and fall in love or something like that like i'm not trying

03:40:20.320 to find them yeah well you just want to be an ink because i don't think that necessarily i'm going to

03:40:26.640 be madly in love with the person that i decide to have kids with i think that's holy

03:40:31.760 fuck that's a scarlet letter wait you think that it is say it again i don't think i think that i'm

03:40:37.600 just not somebody that's like deeply like deeply emotional i don't i can't envision myself like

03:40:44.400 falling in love with a guy and wanting to spend the rest of my life with him no then why do you think

03:40:50.640 you'll be a good parent um because i think that i can observe his his interactions with me and with

03:40:58.160 other people and you know i think that that's a better test of whether or not he'll be a good

03:41:04.080 parent than whether or not i'm in love with him you know because i've seen i mean i i've seen couples

03:41:12.480 who they prioritized like being in love or something over their kids and then that

03:41:18.560 no that's not what i'm saying i'm saying if you're not a very emotional person and you're not very like

03:41:22.880 lovey-dovey or nurturing or anything like that why do you think you'd be a good parent because

03:41:27.680 kids oh no no no they they you're right um well i'm not an abuser like i don't think that i'm an

03:41:33.760 abusive person i mean i know how to take keep going

03:41:39.360 i don't think that's the okay okay okay go ahead keep talking oh sorry sorry sorry okay um

03:41:46.640 um so i just okay so i i mean i don't i don't when i say i don't consider myself a deeply emotional

03:41:56.240 person i don't really like i don't i don't sit around thinking about like oh like you know i'm

03:42:05.040 gonna find the man of my dreams or something like that or you know that i even like the people i'm

03:42:10.400 friends with like i'm not like i could go with or without them like it's not like i'm glued to anybody

03:42:16.240 but at the hip or something like that like that's the way that i think about it i think that that's

03:42:20.080 different than being an abusive person i'd never abuse a child i know how to you know because of

03:42:26.800 social modeling from my own family life and everything i know how to nurture a child um

03:42:33.280 but i don't i think that that's a different type of love than like a romantic like a romantic love

03:42:40.320 like where like you just like fall in love with somebody it's and it is a different type of love

03:42:46.320 but i mean there's definitely a correlation with like you know if you're not if you feel like you're

03:42:51.200 not capable of falling in love and making someone feel loved and you know cared for and like you

03:42:55.440 care about their needs and all everything like that then i'm not really sure that you can make a

03:43:00.720 child feel like that just because you're their parent you know what i mean maybe not like i think

03:43:05.360 being cold you're right being cold and distant as a parent isn't being abusive um but i don't know

03:43:13.600 how to be cold and distant i mean i well you said you can never fall in love with men yes is that the

03:43:18.400 same as being like cold am i cold and distant because i don't have you ever been in love with a

03:43:24.480 guy no have you ever loved anybody yeah i love my parents i love uh do you have a pet yeah do you love

03:43:33.280 your pets yeah i love i love my dog um you've never loved a man though i have loved men i've never

03:43:42.720 been in love with what the fuck i think that that's different what i think that i think that it's

03:43:48.080 different don't you think that it's hold on you were in a four-year relationship or well i think yeah

03:43:54.000 i think that there's a difference did you say i love you to him um so he's like me in that

03:44:00.960 he doesn't really like he's tried that before and it doesn't really work he doesn't he tried

03:44:07.760 what he's not like he's just not he doesn't really like get like get the whole falling in

03:44:14.080 love thing yeah what about you though i don't care about him fuck him no say i love you to him

03:44:20.400 did you say i love you no no no okay that's all i was asking um did he say i love you to you

03:44:26.480 no and you were in a four-year relationship but yeah other i consider him one of my best friends

03:44:32.720 yeah i don't i know that this doesn't sound right in your mind because some of the men you dated you

03:44:39.120 did love or you had love i i say it's love for them did you say i love you to any of them no

03:44:46.320 so so i think that acts of love are very different than like this biochemical yeah aspect

03:44:55.440 of love where like you're inseparable from somebody and they're all that you think about

03:45:00.640 all day i'm gonna bring it a little bit back on track here so you said when it came to dating

03:45:04.960 frustrations i'm not even talking about the pimp ship because that's a whole nother thing

03:45:09.360 you said you think that some men believe nowadays that women are looking for financial

03:45:12.960 resources rather than a relationship based on other qualities you want a guy to you want to

03:45:19.040 date a guy who makes at least a hundred thousand dollars a year how do you reconcile these two

03:45:23.040 positions well first of first of all um a hundred thousand dollars isn't really like in today's name

03:45:31.360 age how much do you like it's not really that much oh we're not we're not going to talk about this

03:45:35.120 right now because i'm not in a good financial situation um yes okay yeah and so and and here's the

03:45:42.240 the thing though is that i'm working on myself i want to be well off i'm just going through some uh

03:45:48.400 a rocky situation um but you know i think that that those episodes those events can only motivate me

03:45:57.360 um but i you know i think that it's not going to do me any good if i if i lower my standards

03:46:04.320 you know at the same time um because i want to get to that place where i could acquire a man like that

03:46:14.080 who's making that kind of money i mean that that's let me ask you a question let's say a guy asked you

03:46:20.160 out on a date and it seemed like he was interested in something long term and he reveals to you that

03:46:25.120 he makes fifty thousand dollars a year uh knowing that are you dating with intention at the moment or

03:46:30.560 you're just kind of whatever no would you take the guy who makes 50k a year depending on what he does

03:46:35.920 yeah like if he's i really does 50k i don't know i don't know he's a car salesman why not i mean

03:46:44.800 that's not really like interesting to me though so what i mean like i i want like you don't make any

03:46:51.200 money i know why i'm a loser but i know i'm a loser right now why but why does the interestingness of

03:47:00.000 his job matter um i mean you make a good point um but i think you wouldn't date a car salesman

03:47:10.160 no i would go out with him i guess yeah but you'd be doing them it would depend

03:47:15.040 no i mean i it would depend i guess on like what his long-term goals are

03:47:21.040 what what he's enjoying selling toyota okay fine and then we we can look at like interests like you

03:47:28.240 know what are what are his like intellectual interests that's like a big thing for me he

03:47:32.640 likes watching game of thrones i'm not really into game of thrones i i really

03:47:39.920 i you know i i like i like guys that are like

03:47:46.240 just really like intellectually diverse like they're really into like building upon themselves

03:47:51.680 as like a thinker and if that makes sense like a guy who's like really really smart like i would

03:47:58.320 love an academic is that is that the qualities other than finance academics well i don't mean

03:48:04.080 to interrupt i'm sorry but academics don't make a lot of money so like phds you would date like

03:48:09.440 what about the high school teacher yeah that's cool yeah and he makes 50k you yeah yeah i guess now

03:48:16.720 that you bring it up yeah i probably would yeah i'm just confused because but i think that but i

03:48:22.240 think it's also about goals too right because if he has like the goal to become like a better version

03:48:29.520 of himself financially then like that that is beneficial to me because there's only a limited

03:48:35.920 amount of hustlers to go around right like not every woman's gonna get a rock star not every woman's

03:48:41.200 gonna get some guy who's making not uh even six figures seven there's not enough men who make

03:48:46.640 seven figures to go there's not even enough six figure men to go around a lot of women want a guy

03:48:52.400 who makes it the amount of women who want a guy who makes six figures is not commensurate to the

03:48:58.000 amount of men who make six figures right there's somebody on your show that brought that up i forget

03:49:02.320 who it was but oh you me right now i just made that i just brought that shit up yeah but no it's something

03:49:07.280 like one percent of men or something i think yeah but you said you you want a guy who makes at least

03:49:11.680 a hundred thousand dollars but then ideally isn't that ideal no it's minimum it's minimum so your

03:49:16.160 ideal could be like a million dollars per year um did you want to come in on this or yeah i wanted to

03:49:21.680 make a comment because you mentioned that you wouldn't lower your standards so with that being said

03:49:28.240 you said you're in a pretty bad position right now in life so would you not accept someone who

03:49:34.560 is also maybe in a bad position but they have those goals they have that determination to fix

03:49:40.000 their life just like you if they were in the same position absolutely would that be lowering your

03:49:43.920 standards yeah yeah and um you know i don't know if you're familiar with this study but they actually

03:49:50.320 did find excuse me they did find that women prefer men who are working as opposed to those who are like

03:49:58.640 not working and they're just sitting on money um i'd have to cite the study but basically rich men and poor

03:50:04.000 men that are both working very hard are preferred by women over guys that are rich and poor who aren't

03:50:12.480 working at all which makes sense to me and i think that's why those findings stood out to me is because

03:50:19.440 yes i think that and i could have put zero on there but i kind of wanted to stimulate conversation um

03:50:26.320 because you make a good point um you know it it's tough out there for everybody right now

03:50:34.000 and i i do value that i do i i really value guys that like work hard for what they want

03:50:42.160 like that that means a lot to me i hate guys who are rich who don't work for anything or poor and

03:50:47.680 don't work for anything wait it's about hard work for me just to be clear yeah you would hate

03:50:52.640 i don't use hate but you know wait but you wouldn't date a guy who isn't working but has

03:51:01.840 like a trust fund yeah or a guy who's retired what if he's retired retired he made a bunch

03:51:08.480 he's 40 made a ton of money a fuck uh no no i don't think i would no i think i would maybe have

03:51:14.960 sex with him i don't think i would like what i would maybe i would let him take me out that's

03:51:21.280 very kind of you so he he hustled from 20 and then he retired at 35 because he made so much money

03:51:28.640 but he's not worried he's retired he's living off the money he made i don't like that no what

03:51:34.400 isn't that you though that's me yeah no but that's not even you that you're just you don't but you don't

03:51:40.080 have those it is kind of me i guess you could say that yeah the not working part is you but

03:51:45.760 my understanding is trying to work but you don't have a lot of places you don't have underlying

03:51:49.680 resources is that correct like you don't have a trust fund you don't have uh it's a personal

03:51:55.840 question but no i um i'm pretty broke yeah that's why i had to move but so you're broke

03:52:02.720 you're broke i'm working hard though i'm trying to get a job but you're you're broke just one

03:52:09.680 second hasn't worked you're broke for a couple months but you wouldn't date a guy who hustled

03:52:16.000 in his 20s and has made so much wouldn't that indicate like a higher work ethic or ambition

03:52:21.840 when he was younger and he's made so much money he's like i don't need to work anymore i'm gonna

03:52:25.440 relax i already hustled i'm good i'm retired why do you need a guy in that situation to work

03:52:31.360 no because you could always be i mean maybe i don't know i don't i just don't think that that's

03:52:36.160 sexy if he just sits at home all day he he but but if you work because i actually do a lot all day

03:52:42.560 he already did that though he did the work he did the hustle already and now he's done why is he done

03:52:48.880 isn't that you could always the guy who's working who's just i'm gonna slave away for the next 40 years

03:52:54.160 it's like that's commendable but to me it would occur it would occur to me that the guy who's already

03:53:00.080 set at 35 that's kind of a more appealing scenario yeah i guess it kind of shows

03:53:06.560 mental like mentality wise that they were determined enough and like had that work ethic enough to make

03:53:14.400 it before 30 and now they could sit they could sit pretty they could take trips they could yeah who's

03:53:20.320 saying who said you won't date a guy who's sitting on five mil and he's just not working i let him take me

03:53:28.080 out but because he's not currently working but he earned the five million just at a just at a

03:53:35.040 quicker pace than the guy who's going to work until he's 60 or 65 and then retire i think it's very like

03:53:42.560 i i think that it's very noble of a guy when he puts in so much work to to provide for himself um

03:53:53.120 um yeah i do think that that's like really commendable but that would be the same guy that

03:53:58.000 put so much work in for himself at his 20s that is now sitting pretty at 30. well why why

03:54:04.880 why i mean so then maybe he didn't want to work to begin with maybe it was all about the money

03:54:09.680 alchemist donated 200 dollars hard working guy always sexy facts yep okay thank you for that

03:54:17.600 appreciate it wait he said hard working guy what are always sexy facts yeah

03:54:25.840 so i mean i don't i don't know say it beggars can't be choosers but like

03:54:30.560 i don't i mean if he if he stops working at 40 sorry no go ahead if he stops working at 40 what

03:54:36.080 like i mean then he would maybe it was all about the money to begin with that's why like he's

03:54:42.160 shallow how what you don't work no a lot of people have careers that they genuinely love

03:54:48.800 and that's the minority of people it is a minority of people yes it is a minority you're right majority

03:54:54.800 of people would not do what they do if they weren't being paid for it yeah that's that's true

03:55:00.960 and but i think and it's i think it's perfectly okay if you're going to labor for somebody or labor

03:55:06.880 for yourself to want to be compensated for that financially yeah there's nothing wrong with that

03:55:12.480 oh i didn't say that i don't think people should work for free but you said oh he's working for the

03:55:18.240 money ergo he's must be superficial what well you can always be richer i think like i mean you know

03:55:26.320 like i think she's i mean yeah so now you're saying one thing but then you kind of retract it

03:55:34.240 a little bit with what i think so when you continue so okay well do you yeah um i was gonna say i think

03:55:42.320 what i'm hearing you say is that like when a man so like if a man worked till he was 41 made as much

03:55:50.400 money as he could and then stopped working that would show you that he doesn't have a love and a

03:55:54.240 yearning for that work and that is what's unattractive to you is that what i'm hearing

03:55:59.280 yeah okay yeah i i think that a guy has um a passion i think that that's really commendable

03:56:07.760 so you just want yeah it's commendable so what what if he doesn't have a passion who cares

03:56:12.880 would you date a guy who doesn't have a passion when it comes to what he does for work

03:56:17.760 like you think the card salesman is like man i go to every day i'm taking people on test drives i'm so

03:56:24.000 passionate about this yeah you can be a good car salesman but i don't think most car salesmen are

03:56:28.720 like this is my passion they do it for the paycheck no they do perfectly respect it is it is respectable

03:56:36.000 i'm not saying it's not respectable i think you gotta reassess your standards here oh i gotta be honest

03:56:42.160 okay i need a guy who's really

03:56:46.160 who's has a passion what's wrong with dating average guy dating average guy i would love

03:56:51.120 well okay like do you have a passion for what you do uh do i have a passion there's no way because i

03:56:59.440 get to uh speak because i get to i guess have provide commentary on things that i think are

03:57:08.720 important uh there's a passion there yeah i mean i i enjoy what i do but like would i do it for free

03:57:15.360 probably not right okay that's reasonable i didn't say that i didn't say a guy should like

03:57:22.320 you know do stuff for free let me explain that further if i was a professional surfer that would

03:57:28.000 be like a passion but like doing a podcast like i enjoy what i do but i don't know if i would call

03:57:37.680 what i'm doing a passion like if i was a i was a professional skateboarder a professional surfer a

03:57:45.760 professional athlete i think that maybe for some people like being involved in the entertainment

03:57:50.720 industry creating films that could be a passion i have some components of uh not compassion as it

03:57:57.120 pertains to forwarding my world view i have passion about that but like the technical aspects of

03:58:04.320 doing a podcast booking guests not my passion just being honest right do you think other podcasters

03:58:12.400 would disagree with you or they would all agree um i don't honestly i don't think most people

03:58:23.280 most podcasters are doing it like it's their passion it's a hobby maybe it's a hobby it's a hobby i don't

03:58:30.240 think they're like okay we'll use the word that's so interesting i feel like i see a lot of passion

03:58:35.760 like from who from you hosting the show like you get so into it i think my speech is impassioned

03:58:42.720 but the actual all that goes into doing the show i i'm not sure if there's if you could be doing

03:58:51.600 anything would you be doing this no oh if so if i got caught like a crypto pump like if i bought bitcoin

03:59:00.880 in 2013. if i bought bitcoin in 2013 uh i definitely wouldn't be doing this maybe i could

03:59:08.080 still be doing content creation but i wouldn't be going through the like dealing with no offense all

03:59:13.200 y'all i not y'all have been pretty cool but i trust me i would not be talking to strangers

03:59:18.800 if i had like a hundred million bitcoin are you into crypto are you passionate about crypto no no

03:59:25.120 not at all but i knew about here's the crazy thing i passed on crypto in 2013. okay i knew about bitcoin

03:59:31.920 and i was like i should put a thousand in do you know how painful it is to be like now i'm doing a

03:59:38.240 podcast and i'm like dealing with all y'all well but i could have been like multi multi multi

03:59:44.240 millionaire for off of a thousand dollar investment and you still could it's still valid i launched you're

03:59:49.760 you're not going to actually i mean that's very into oh my god get out of here it's it's called

03:59:54.160 goth coin okay okay chill your fucking hell yeah goth coin guys okay join the telegram okay um

04:00:04.720 anyways i don't know can i make one comment sure let me ask you this question um so if a guy made

04:00:11.360 all that money and he's now sitting does it what would you be working or no i'd love to be working

04:00:16.400 yeah okay oh well no no oh if he were doing that oh um if he had the funds to take care of you i

04:00:25.120 see i don't like that phrase that phrase bothers me um because the only thing i think of you said

04:00:29.680 you don't know if you could ever fall in love with a guy so does it bother you that you might be living

04:00:34.720 together and you like spend too much time around each other i think i think that that's spending time

04:00:41.120 with someone again i think that that's very different than like being inseparable like isn't

04:00:47.120 that what falling in love is no that's obsession that's lust yeah so then what what is falling in

04:00:53.280 love to you so i have a chat coming in one sec guys this is the next one yo jones thank you man

04:01:00.160 nico chair seven has more red flags than germany in 1939 news flash no one at the table rates above a

04:01:05.120 four good times you had something go ahead um yes um

04:01:17.760 i've noticed you talked about how a lot of men are get up like get obsessed with you i feel like

04:01:23.920 i have noticed that you base a lot of your worth based on what other people think of you or the

04:01:30.320 actions they take towards you interesting and in my experience i've had men get very obsessive over

04:01:38.480 me men who i have just not given the time of day not responded to you know things like that and i

04:01:45.360 definitely notice that more unstable men are a lot more obsessive have a tendency to be a lot more

04:01:51.760 obsessive so i'm wondering like you have all these really high standards for what you'd ideally like

04:02:01.120 in a man what kind of woman would those men want that's a very good um you're saying like

04:02:08.080 the types of men that that would fit those standards really quick answer on this i'm not

04:02:12.240 saying this to be rude we've spent a lot of time talking to you oh man to the rest of the panel

04:02:17.200 give her a quick answer and then i'm moving okay okay um okay so so

04:02:25.520 so what would what would he like what would he look like like what what would he be doing what

04:02:30.240 would he look for a woman yeah so like if you got that 100 no it's okay if you got that a hundred

04:02:36.480 thousand dollars like whatever everything perfect man what would if you saw him in public what would

04:02:42.560 the woman he'd be with so yeah i think that maybe that would be somebody that's like as maybe has similar

04:02:50.560 interest to him has similar income to him to be honest uh you know maybe it's a little bit different

04:02:58.640 in terms of him making a little bit more um and definitely you know a lot more successful than

04:03:03.920 i am right now and i'm not acknowledge you know i'm not denying the fact that i need to get my life

04:03:10.560 together but um you know there's a lot that i'm trying to do so i'm just i'm going from there so

04:03:17.840 that if that's someone answers your question claim donated two hundred dollars chair seven how can

04:03:23.920 you have a head that big with a brain that small red shirt would sell that v-card for a g-wagon

04:03:29.840 and a penthouse stop the cat late flight early morning gonna miss the roast oh

04:03:36.640 shit yo thank you clan appreciate it you guys want to respond to that real quickly tts

04:03:42.480 um no thank you for your comment

04:03:48.480 believe what you want boom clan you just they just roasted you believe what you want

04:03:53.840 okay uh i want to go to you really quick uh yes oh hello it's uh emma right yeah

04:03:59.840 okay uh emma so you've been writing down long notes maybe we can't linger too long on all of

04:04:06.080 them but what what do you have what do you have you were writing down notes oh um well i told you

04:04:10.560 i was going to bring my notebook to yeah what are your notes what you got um disagreements no kind of

04:04:16.160 just um so like the i wanted to ask her if she was also happy with her physical beauty because she

04:04:22.720 made a comment about it earlier i just let it go i mean they're just like things for me to ask and

04:04:27.120 bring up basing her worth off of external validation unstable men are obsessive any disagreements with

04:04:32.880 me that you wrote down okay you do have one disagreement with me though which is yes i do what

04:04:39.280 is it um that you wouldn't take a bullet for someone you married right married yeah dating yeah i wouldn't

04:04:48.880 do it why at least i'm honest right i mean yeah i'm just asking why you're allowed to have yeah yeah

04:04:57.280 well before i'll answer i will 100 get into it i'll answer it i do want to go around the table though

04:05:02.480 do you want your guy or whoever you're dating to be willing to take a bullet for you starting with you

04:05:09.120 um can you turn your body this way yes yes well if i honestly thought about it for myself like i don't

04:05:17.600 know what i would do when it really came down for it so no i wouldn't expect that but i would for my

04:05:23.680 family sure what about you i'm not sure i'd have to be put in the situation maybe i'd push them if i

04:05:30.400 get hit i get hit but actually i'm not even answering the question no no you don't want your i wouldn't want

04:05:41.280 my oh i think the person i'm dating well well if it was my husband yeah your boyfriend or husband

04:05:47.440 long-term i would want my yeah yeah i would take a bullet for you jump in front of the bullet yeah i

04:05:52.480 would want my husband to take a bullet for me i wouldn't expect it at all but i would definitely

04:05:57.200 want want it yeah because i feel like i would do the same for my partner 100 yeah yeah just like she

04:06:04.000 said like i wouldn't expect it because like you know if that didn't happen it's not like i would

04:06:08.400 be upset if you didn't take a bullet for me but um yeah i think it's really important that when

04:06:16.960 you have someone like that that you care about in your life it should be very clear how much you

04:06:20.400 care about them and how much you are willing to protect um and go through things with that and i

04:06:26.720 would take a bullet for him too potentially but the thing is in the scenario only one person gets to

04:06:33.280 take the bullet yeah right yeah well yeah you can't both take the bullet no i meant vice versa

04:06:38.800 i would as well you would you would take the bullet yes even if he didn't want to take the bullet

04:06:43.280 would you take the bullet for a guy who doesn't want to take a bullet i wouldn't be dating you

04:06:53.200 oh i feel like i do because i feel like if you're gonna take a bullet for like the united states military

04:06:59.040 Like, you could take a bullet for me, your wife.

04:07:02.340 Okay.

04:07:03.120 Especially if I'm going to give it to children in your life.

04:07:05.040 That's a funny point, actually.

04:07:07.360 Like, come on.

04:07:08.820 Sure.

04:07:09.240 If you would do it for the country, you could do it for me.

04:07:11.300 Should men take a bullet?

04:07:11.760 No.

04:07:13.120 Real quick question.

04:07:15.100 Real quick question.

04:07:15.860 Okay.

04:07:16.400 Let's just say, the guy that you're dating, would you give it up if he took a bullet for you?

04:07:22.940 And survive.

04:07:23.640 You know what?

04:07:24.400 Yes.

04:07:24.680 And survive.

04:07:24.960 Yes.

04:07:25.260 You know what, if you're making a shot for me, you deserve it.

04:07:29.240 You know what, though?

04:07:30.080 Okay.

04:07:30.760 Oh, no.

04:07:31.300 Don't cut that out.

04:07:32.140 She's going to be dating a dude who's going to stage a shooting.

04:07:35.660 Oh, my leg.

04:07:37.280 Oh, my leg.

04:07:38.560 You got me the leg.

04:07:39.220 I'm a special effects artist, so I will know if it's real or not.

04:07:42.300 No, he really gets shot, but he's that desperate.

04:07:44.800 He's taking the bullet for you.

04:07:45.640 No, okay, listen.

04:07:46.640 I'll call Baxies if I find out it's premeditated.

04:07:51.720 No, but you don't find out.

04:07:52.800 But he took the bullet for you.

04:07:55.060 No, listen.

04:07:55.920 Like, it has to be like, there's a bad guy, right?

04:07:58.180 And they're about to be like, we're going to kill her.

04:08:00.020 No, he stages that shit.

04:08:01.480 Like, he has a friend that you don't know about who's got a gun.

04:08:04.240 And he's like, okay, I'm going to get some pussy.

04:08:05.480 Okay, he has to get hit in a vital area and live.

04:08:07.540 Vital area.

04:08:08.160 Okay, so it can't be like the foot.

04:08:09.280 No, no, no.

04:08:10.400 I'm not screwing somebody.

04:08:11.780 What about a BJ for the foot?

04:08:12.980 Would you do BJ for the foot?

04:08:15.820 What kind of woman do you think I am?

04:08:17.860 I don't think for any kind of woman.

04:08:19.380 I'm just asking if he gets shot in the foot, that's maybe a BJ.

04:08:24.280 A blowie.

04:08:25.060 I'm not answering that.

04:08:25.960 Okay.

04:08:28.020 Listen, a vital area shot for me, I will.

04:08:31.060 You know what?

04:08:31.600 That is my one condition, okay?

04:08:33.360 Like, I will.

04:08:34.460 So he could die.

04:08:35.580 Like, he could have died.

04:08:36.640 He could have died.

04:08:37.500 What if it's like the artery in the leg?

04:08:39.180 Like, you can die from that.

04:08:40.040 You know what?

04:08:40.760 It's like, if you are going to actually, like, I'm serious, not some stage thing.

04:08:44.720 Like, I mean, if you're actually.

04:08:45.900 But you wouldn't know.

04:08:46.380 You wouldn't know.

04:08:46.940 Yeah, you know what?

04:08:47.840 My mom used to be a private investigator.

04:08:49.420 I'll have her call her cop friends on that shit.

04:08:51.780 And I'll be like, help me out.

04:08:52.660 He sets this up.

04:08:53.380 He is.

04:08:54.560 Do a whole analysis just to see.

04:08:57.360 Okay, what about you?

04:08:58.940 No.

04:08:59.320 I love that question.

04:08:59.920 Okay, what about you?

04:09:01.120 Yes, I would.

04:09:02.280 Would you do that?

04:09:03.500 Yeah, I would do it too.

04:09:04.860 You would take the bullet.

04:09:05.760 Yeah, I would do the bullet.

04:09:06.020 But you want the guy to take the bullet.

04:09:07.300 Yeah.

04:09:08.240 Look, in chess.

04:09:11.320 Let me start by saying this.

04:09:13.000 Okay.

04:09:14.960 In chess, you lose if you sacrifice the king to save the queen.

04:09:19.320 Oh, okay.

04:09:19.760 First off, that's number one.

04:09:22.620 So.

04:09:23.840 Good point.

04:09:24.320 Yeah, she can take the bullet.

04:09:25.840 She can take the bullet for me.

04:09:26.980 I'm not taking the bullet.

04:09:29.460 Can I?

04:09:29.940 I'm not.

04:09:30.720 Look, but here's the thing.

04:09:32.040 Most guys will never dare actually admit this.

04:09:35.400 You know?

04:09:36.060 Like, guys won't admit certain things.

04:09:39.380 Like, a guy isn't going to admit if it's been a minute, if he's had a dry spell, he'll

04:09:44.840 fuck a fat chick.

04:09:45.620 Guys aren't going to admit certain things, you know.

04:09:47.740 But I'm that dude.

04:09:50.500 So, yeah, she can take the bullet.

04:09:51.940 I don't care.

04:09:52.760 I'm not taking the bullet.

04:09:54.480 She can take it.

04:09:55.440 That's fair.

04:09:56.000 Can I ask you a question?

04:09:56.820 Even if we have kids, son.

04:09:58.240 Even if she's giving me three kids, I'm like, I need a couple more.

04:10:03.700 I asked him if she was pregnant.

04:10:05.940 Would he take the bullet for her?

04:10:08.400 You know what?

04:10:09.120 No.

04:10:10.060 Fuck it.

04:10:11.560 Quadruple coincide right there.

04:10:13.440 Genghis Khan.

04:10:14.160 Do you think Genghis Khan is taking the bullet for one of his concubines?

04:10:20.080 Hell no.

04:10:20.720 It's a concubine.

04:10:25.120 Genghis Khan had, like, dozens, maybe hundreds of wives.

04:10:29.540 Yeah.

04:10:30.700 Do you see yourself as Genghis Khan?

04:10:33.740 I'm not Asian, but yes.

04:10:36.240 Okay.

04:10:37.100 No, but look.

04:10:37.780 I'm not trying to have a bunch of different women, but individually.

04:10:43.040 But.

04:10:43.680 Yes.

04:10:44.120 Like Genghis Khan.

04:10:45.840 Okay.

04:10:47.180 Okay.

04:10:47.660 And so, but what do you think?

04:10:49.020 You disagree with that.

04:10:50.460 No.

04:10:51.200 So, I'm thinking about it.

04:10:52.220 Do you think it's beta?

04:10:53.240 Do you think it's beta male?

04:10:55.260 It's beta.

04:10:56.720 No.

04:10:57.080 I mean, no.

04:10:58.880 Isn't it?

04:10:59.760 So, I don't, by the way, just to be clear, when it comes to the beta alpha shit, I don't

04:11:03.840 actually, like, I don't, I would never call myself an alpha male.

04:11:07.900 I don't, it's cringe.

04:11:09.220 It's super cringe.

04:11:10.080 Yeah.

04:11:10.380 Yeah.

04:11:10.560 I don't even really buy into those kind of categorizations.

04:11:13.500 Yeah.

04:11:14.340 But, but, you, my position would be, it's definitely, it's definitely more alpha to be like, yeah,

04:11:26.300 she can die.

04:11:27.300 I can get another woman and have, reproduce with her.

04:11:30.840 That's more, that's the, like, alpha, that's like the caveman, sigma male grind set.

04:11:37.560 So, you sound like Andrew Tate now.

04:11:40.140 How's that Andrew Tate?

04:11:41.100 That's not a bad thing.

04:11:42.040 I don't think that's Andrew Tate.

04:11:43.060 Is that, does he call himself an alpha male?

04:11:44.740 No.

04:11:44.760 Andrew Tate would probably, Andrew Tate would lie.

04:11:47.440 Andrew Tate would say, it's my duty as a man to protect a woman.

04:11:51.960 I will give my life for a woman.

04:11:54.760 I'll take the bullet.

04:11:55.400 You know what the fucking truth is?

04:11:56.920 I guarantee you, Andrew Tate is not risking, like, I'm being fucking honest.

04:12:01.420 He says that shit because women want to hear that shit.

04:12:04.160 Yeah.

04:12:04.320 He's not risking.

04:12:05.460 He's got multiple women.

04:12:06.760 You think he's giving up his life for some shit?

04:12:09.520 It's cap.

04:12:10.160 He's not doing it.

04:12:10.940 Right, right.

04:12:11.320 Andrew, I'm not, I'm not saying that to insult you, but it's, come on, Andrew.

04:12:15.600 That's the truth.

04:12:16.000 Can I play devil's advocate?

04:12:16.540 Well, I'll risk my life for some Romanian girl.

04:12:19.320 Come on, bro.

04:12:19.840 No, you're not.

04:12:20.560 Get out of here.

04:12:21.460 No, you're not.

04:12:21.940 Can I play devil's advocate for one moment?

04:12:24.100 Sure.

04:12:24.600 Okay, so don't they say, and like, that like, originally when like the arguments come up

04:12:30.060 and stuff that like, they don't want women on the front lines because technically if a

04:12:34.140 man is next to a woman in combat, he'll go to protect her instead of doing his duty.

04:12:39.140 And so it's not your natural instinct as a man is to protect the female?

04:12:44.580 Yeah, it's natural.

04:12:45.360 He ain't natural.

04:12:45.900 I think so.

04:12:49.140 That's fair.

04:12:50.040 But I'm just playing devil's advocate.

04:12:51.620 I'm not calling you out.

04:12:52.500 I think there, there's, look, there's something in men that's benevolent where we want to protect,

04:12:59.620 I don't know if weaker is the right word.

04:13:02.940 No, we would be weaker than a man.

04:13:04.480 But like a child, we would protect a child from harm.

04:13:07.620 Or we would protect, like if, it's, I don't think, I don't know if it's weaker or like.

04:13:13.820 Younger.

04:13:14.220 There's some, there is something in men there, but.

04:13:16.760 So would you take a bullet for your child?

04:13:20.740 Probably.

04:13:21.560 Okay.

04:13:22.320 Yes.

04:13:22.720 Okay, I can get from.

04:13:23.540 That's valid.

04:13:24.180 Probably.

04:13:24.620 That's a little bit different.

04:13:25.480 But so would a mother.

04:13:26.560 But it depends.

04:13:28.120 There's qualifying, like.

04:13:29.900 Interesting.

04:13:30.540 He has to be a good kid on Tuesday.

04:13:31.860 Like, is he my heir?

04:13:33.440 Like, is this kid my heir?

04:13:35.520 Heir to what?

04:13:36.600 To the throne or some shit.

04:13:38.500 To the whatever studio.

04:13:40.220 The heir to whatever dynasty.

04:13:42.080 No.

04:13:42.880 But is my kid like a fuck up that's like doing drugs and shit?

04:13:48.640 Damn.

04:13:49.440 You take the bullet.

04:13:51.200 He can take the bullet.

04:13:52.400 She can take the bullet.

04:13:53.420 Whatever.

04:13:53.560 That's such a mic drop.

04:13:54.880 But if like, it's my kid, my kid, and he's a fucking G?

04:13:59.740 Maybe in the leg.

04:14:00.720 He's a fucking G.

04:14:01.220 Maybe in the leg.

04:14:01.960 Maybe I'll take the bullet in the leg.

04:14:07.140 Okay.

04:14:07.880 Okay.

04:14:09.760 At least you're honest.

04:14:10.900 Look.

04:14:11.400 Honesty.

04:14:11.880 You guys could.

04:14:12.620 I like.

04:14:12.940 A guy could sit here and just lie to you.

04:14:14.460 Oh, yes.

04:14:15.020 Of course.

04:14:15.620 I would.

04:14:16.220 Okay.

04:14:16.700 Yeah.

04:14:17.060 At least I'm honest.

04:14:17.920 No, I really like your defense.

04:14:19.020 I respect it.

04:14:20.320 Yeah.

04:14:20.960 Absolutely.

04:14:22.800 The honesty, not the fact that you would maybe let your child die.

04:14:25.960 But don't you think that that's better, though?

04:14:28.780 Like, don't you think that a guy who's honest about that is better?

04:14:33.760 Yeah.

04:14:33.960 Yeah.

04:14:34.180 Honesty is everything.

04:14:34.980 He could lie.

04:14:35.480 And still be like.

04:14:36.440 Yeah.

04:14:36.740 I think no matter what, male or female, we all kind of value honesty, whether we give

04:14:41.500 it or not.

04:14:41.840 Yeah, definitely.

04:14:42.500 Right, right.

04:14:43.420 Seriously.

04:14:44.160 But let's be real.

04:14:45.660 I'm sending some bullets back the other way before anything.

04:14:49.740 Anything happens.

04:14:51.540 So you know what I mean?

04:14:52.760 You know.

04:14:53.240 Okay.

04:14:53.900 All right.

04:14:54.640 That's a better answer.

04:14:54.980 I'm not going to try to stop the shit.

04:14:56.100 I'm not going to just sit there and let something happen.

04:14:58.180 I'm sending some bullets back in the other direction.

04:15:00.900 Okay.

04:15:01.140 You're making your case better.

04:15:02.420 Yeah.

04:15:03.160 That is a better answer.

04:15:04.940 I like the first line of your argument, which was you don't play chess by killing the

04:15:08.720 kid.

04:15:08.780 I'll tell you this.

04:15:09.900 If somebody hurt my kid, like, I'm going to get revenge on that person.

04:15:15.840 I'd hope so.

04:15:17.000 I would hope so.

04:15:18.280 So he takes the bullet, but you're going to, I'll get revenge on you.

04:15:21.800 Okay.

04:15:22.340 You'll avenge.

04:15:23.180 You'll avenge.

04:15:23.780 I hope so.

04:15:25.880 See, like, let me ask you guys a question.

04:15:28.260 If I was dating any of y'all and we were, I'm your husband, you're, you love me and somebody

04:15:35.160 and somebody killed me, but they got let off, you know, some, some bullshit, you know,

04:15:39.560 they get let off.

04:15:40.400 Are you going to avenge me?

04:15:42.320 Absolutely.

04:15:42.960 Are you going to go kill me?

04:15:44.140 Are you going to go kill a guy?

04:15:45.440 Like private investigation?

04:15:47.360 I don't know what country he went to.

04:15:49.320 Put him in jail.

04:15:50.060 Somebody kills my kid.

04:15:51.100 The system won't do anything.

04:15:52.540 They're getting, it's a life for life.

04:15:54.320 They're being dead.

04:15:54.780 Yeah.

04:15:55.100 Yeah.

04:15:55.520 Yep.

04:15:56.180 Yeah.

04:15:56.480 Good talk.

04:15:57.140 Absolutely.

04:15:58.420 You guys, come on.

04:15:59.120 You guys would be on Tinder within a month.

04:16:00.660 Come on.

04:16:00.880 Be honest.

04:16:01.760 I've never met up with that.

04:16:03.700 You guys aren't avenging.

04:16:05.380 I'm going to go.

04:16:07.220 I'll cry my heart out.

04:16:08.260 I'm never going to go on Tinder in a month.

04:16:09.080 Yeah.

04:16:09.240 I don't want you.

04:16:09.980 Okay.

04:16:10.260 I'm never going to go on Tinder in a month.

04:16:11.420 If somebody kills me, you're my wife.

04:16:13.340 You better go kill him.

04:16:14.460 I'm not going to go on Tinder.

04:16:15.840 I'm going to.

04:16:16.380 You guys will be on Tinder in a month.

04:16:17.580 That's crazy.

04:16:18.020 If your wife dies and a girl comes in and she's like, I'll sleep with you to make you feel

04:16:23.080 better.

04:16:23.500 Would you screw the girl or would you be too sad avenging your wife?

04:16:26.960 You know what?

04:16:27.440 I'm a gentleman.

04:16:29.100 I'll wait.

04:16:30.020 The night of the funeral, I can.

04:16:32.340 Yes.

04:16:32.940 The night of the funeral?

04:16:34.180 But not before.

04:16:35.160 Because I'm a gentleman.

04:16:37.180 I'll at least wait until the funeral is over.

04:16:41.000 Maybe at the reception.

04:16:43.100 Oh, okay.

04:16:43.660 At the funeral home.

04:16:45.540 At the funeral home, I think that's fair game.

04:16:47.740 Like the reception after the funeral.

04:16:50.000 Brian's like, this is what she would want from me.

04:16:52.320 This is what you want.

04:16:53.360 She would want me to be happy.

04:16:54.400 She would want me to be.

04:16:56.520 Yes.

04:16:56.920 I'm going to say one thing.

04:16:58.580 Shivery is dead.

04:17:00.180 Shivery.

04:17:00.900 This is why I'm not having kids.

04:17:04.000 Why?

04:17:04.900 Wait, why?

04:17:05.640 Why?

04:17:06.260 Just because how everything is now.

04:17:09.900 In terms of?

04:17:11.460 Like dating is what it wasn't.

04:17:13.440 Shivery.

04:17:13.640 Was years ago.

04:17:14.980 Shivery.

04:17:15.480 Like when I see.

04:17:16.540 Yes, exactly.

04:17:17.180 Shivery.

04:17:17.720 Shivery.

04:17:18.220 Like it'd be awesome.

04:17:19.800 Like I love when I see two elderly people still in love and like, you know, slow and like

04:17:25.380 Costco shopping together.

04:17:27.120 Like, yeah.

04:17:28.760 I don't know.

04:17:29.160 It's cute, but I don't know.

04:17:31.240 World's kind of low key doomed.

04:17:33.920 But do women deserve chivalry is the question.

04:17:37.120 Depends on the woman.

04:17:37.880 Depends on the woman.

04:17:38.860 Which do you deserve chivalry?

04:17:41.400 Yeah.

04:17:42.040 Why?

04:17:43.160 Because I cook clean.

04:17:45.380 You know, I.

04:17:46.380 Are you still a stripper though?

04:17:47.680 No.

04:17:48.820 I've been out of it.

04:17:49.800 I work in schools with children.

04:17:53.020 Do you wear that?

04:17:53.940 No, I don't.

04:17:54.700 I cover all my tattoos.

04:17:55.640 I, I down.

04:17:57.260 I don't have my makeup like this.

04:17:58.920 I hide my ears.

04:18:00.200 I hide my tattoos.

04:18:01.520 I look completely different.

04:18:02.640 Ear?

04:18:02.920 You hide your ears?

04:18:04.080 I have my ear shut.

04:18:04.720 Oh, you have the.

04:18:05.980 Okay.

04:18:06.080 Yeah.

04:18:06.380 I take out my piercings.

04:18:08.320 Time and place.

04:18:10.120 Time and place to look a certain way.

04:18:11.660 It's kind of like when you go to a funeral.

04:18:13.060 I think chivalry is dead and women killed it.

04:18:16.720 Interesting.

04:18:17.860 Okay.

04:18:18.560 Yeah.

04:18:19.740 Would you consider yourself chivalrous?

04:18:22.100 What do you mean?

04:18:23.100 Like, I don't know.

04:18:25.100 Chivalrous.

04:18:25.500 Like, would you consider.

04:18:26.940 Hold on.

04:18:28.060 Like, in your past dating history, do you think you were chivalrous?

04:18:31.680 Or do you feel that you should have been?

04:18:33.520 Or not?

04:18:33.680 I'll answer that.

04:18:34.640 I'll answer that.

04:18:36.720 Brian, you need us in a white monster, a sports jacket,

04:18:40.760 and a crypto portfolio.

04:18:43.100 You're on your Galilean air grind set.

04:18:45.680 Stay with it, Sigma King.

04:18:47.400 Did you send this in before or after I called you out?

04:18:49.860 No.

04:18:49.940 Thank you, Andrew Tate.

04:18:50.740 Appreciate it.

04:18:52.100 Sorry.

04:18:52.580 What was your question?

04:18:56.220 Like, would you consider yourself chivalrous?

04:18:59.820 Or do you think that the women that you've dated in the past deserve chivalry?

04:19:03.900 Weird.

04:19:04.300 So what is chivalry?

04:19:05.480 Like, is that opening car door, flowers?

04:19:07.880 Yeah, like, all those cute things like that.

04:19:11.260 I would say in a relationship that I'm a provider.

04:19:14.560 Like, if I'm dating a girl, I'm just going to take care of everything.

04:19:17.520 But, like, flowers?

04:19:18.720 I'm not, like, I don't know.

04:19:20.240 That's kind of like, eh.

04:19:21.340 Yeah.

04:19:21.680 He's going overboard.

04:19:22.940 He's trying to woo her.

04:19:24.100 Yeah.

04:19:24.440 Like, I already got her.

04:19:25.600 Yeah, I don't know.

04:19:30.600 Do you think we should bring it back or that there's a need to?

04:19:33.640 No.

04:19:34.940 Okay.

04:19:35.240 I don't know.

04:19:36.080 Maybe for, like, 1% of women.

04:19:37.680 Like, 1% of women deserve it and then the rest probably not.

04:19:40.500 Okay.

04:19:41.560 Like, she probably deserves chivalry.

04:19:43.420 Although, like, the secret stuff's a little, astrology shit's a little, I don't know.

04:19:47.200 Oh, my gosh.

04:19:49.080 But, no.

04:19:49.580 Do you have crystals?

04:19:51.540 Do you have rocks and shit?

04:19:53.000 Minerals?

04:19:53.340 No, I'm just saying that sometimes it can be difficult for me to choose, like, a specific

04:19:57.820 man-made religion.

04:19:58.940 So, I kind of take disciplines and morality from the ones that resonate with me or the

04:20:04.460 ones I grew up learning.

04:20:05.740 I have a very similar way.

04:20:06.340 But it's like, okay, my thought on this, though, when it comes to chivalry, if we're looking

04:20:12.760 at what is traditional, like, are women traditional anymore?

04:20:16.360 I don't really think so.

04:20:18.320 Chivalry is a component of traditional behavior from the men's part.

04:20:23.340 It takes two to tango.

04:20:25.180 Like, if, you got to be deserving of it.

04:20:29.980 Yeah.

04:20:30.320 Now, don't get me wrong.

04:20:31.800 Men know what works.

04:20:33.380 Women still appreciate all those traditional male gender roles.

04:20:36.860 It still works.

04:20:37.680 It's still good.

04:20:38.800 Like, it's probably the optimum thing in terms of, I mean, simping can go too far and it

04:20:44.280 can make you look like a sucker.

04:20:45.600 But there's actually some women who are, like, turned off by flowers.

04:20:49.480 Like, they think it's extra.

04:20:51.180 But not all women.

04:20:52.460 But I just don't think, like, chivalry, you want a guy to do all this shit, but women

04:20:58.880 aren't traditional.

04:20:59.760 You don't move traditional.

04:21:01.460 That's fair.

04:21:01.800 So, for example, a girl could have a roster.

04:21:06.800 She could be sleeping with one or multiple men and then be going on a date with a guy.

04:21:11.680 Should that guy be chivalrous on the date knowing, let's say he doesn't know, but, like,

04:21:17.520 if you have a, let's say you have a bird's eye view.

04:21:20.120 You're looking down at the world.

04:21:21.500 You are playing a video game or you're God or whatever.

04:21:25.120 You're looking down at the world and you see the chessboard and you see a woman who's

04:21:31.980 sleeping with three men and then she slept with a guy in the morning, 11 a.m.

04:21:38.060 And then she has a date with a new guy for 7 p.m.

04:21:42.420 That guy doesn't know.

04:21:44.520 Should he, from your third bird's eye view perspective, should he be chivalrous towards

04:21:50.520 her?

04:21:51.500 I mean, no.

04:21:54.340 Why?

04:21:54.940 Probably not.

04:21:55.780 I mean, because...

04:21:56.520 Because she's not doing what?

04:21:58.720 Because she's not showing him how much she appreciates it, like, by having sex with all

04:22:05.520 these other men.

04:22:06.220 She's not, like, it's not, it doesn't seem like it's something that she cares about if

04:22:09.660 she's willing to be having sex with other men.

04:22:12.400 Uh-huh.

04:22:12.780 So...

04:22:13.500 Really quick?

04:22:14.380 Yes.

04:22:18.300 Yo, Bobka, thanks for the raid, man.

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04:22:57.060 Really quick since we're here.

04:22:58.400 Captain Awesome says, AI is advancing quickly when AI takes over jobs.

04:23:02.780 Then whose jobs would be easier to take over, men's or women's?

04:23:08.460 Who thinks men's with AI?

04:23:11.540 And then who thinks women's jobs easier to take over with AI?

04:23:16.000 Where are we going to read those?

04:23:17.060 I don't think it's gender.

04:23:20.040 Okay, I think it's women's.

04:23:21.480 Can we define those jobs?

04:23:23.960 Let's not.

04:23:24.840 No?

04:23:25.360 You want to define the jobs?

04:23:26.660 No, I mean, you're talking about those that are statistically more male versus those that

04:23:33.320 are statistically more female.

04:23:36.100 I just want to define just for operational definition purposes.

04:23:40.120 AI is kind of, could probably do both at the same time.

04:23:43.940 Of all the jobs that men have versus all the jobs that women have, if AI starts being more

04:23:50.120 prevalent, in which, for which gender is AI going to be more prominent in terms of taking

04:23:57.400 over that gender's jobs?

04:23:59.860 I think a lot of office work is going to disappear, so probably women in that regard, right?

04:24:06.540 Like monotonous data entry type things, I think AI is going to take that over really

04:24:10.600 quickly.

04:24:11.140 Mm-hmm.

04:24:11.940 Yep.

04:24:14.320 Yeah.

04:24:14.760 Okay.

04:24:15.320 Cool.

04:24:17.760 Mm-hmm.

04:24:19.440 Anybody else?

04:24:20.160 No take?

04:24:20.500 Okay.

04:24:21.620 Wait, so we were talking about bullets, right?

04:24:25.120 Chivalry.

04:24:25.440 Yeah.

04:24:26.040 Chivalry.

04:24:26.520 Chivalry.

04:24:27.020 We were talking about bullets.

04:24:30.260 Chivalry.

04:24:31.260 Yeah.

04:24:31.540 Also, have you guys, I have in my notes here something about a queen's sacrifice in chess?

04:24:40.280 When a player voluntarily lets the opponent capture their queen?

04:24:44.560 The player offering the queen's sacrifice does so to try to gain an advantage, like more

04:24:49.600 material, a better position, or checkmate.

04:24:52.040 Look, in the life, life is like the chess board.

04:24:56.360 Is like a chess board.

04:24:57.660 As the king, you have to sacrifice the queen.

04:25:04.100 Right?

04:25:06.740 You know?

04:25:07.460 I have no comment.

04:25:08.920 Yeah.

04:25:09.360 Who's seen House of the Dragon?

04:25:11.020 Who's a Game of Thrones fan?

04:25:11.860 Oh, hell yeah.

04:25:13.300 King Viserys.

04:25:15.100 King.

04:25:15.560 He's the king.

04:25:17.280 His wife is pregnant.

04:25:18.640 He's got to choose between the kid and the...

04:25:21.520 He chose the kid.

04:25:22.720 Both of them ended up dying.

04:25:23.960 It was very fucked up.

04:25:24.900 There was a lot of blood.

04:25:26.020 Very dis...

04:25:26.460 Okay, never mind.

04:25:27.360 You've got a tough ground.

04:25:28.240 That's true.

04:25:28.860 Well, I think in a situation like that, like, the kid should come first.

04:25:31.720 I think the kid should be the priority.

04:25:33.460 Well, in that case, the kid is the heir.

04:25:35.920 Yo, Chad, if your wife is pregnant, and it's between the doctors, they're like, we got

04:25:41.940 to pay...

04:25:42.400 We can only save one.

04:25:45.060 Do you save the kid, or do you save the wife?

04:25:49.120 What do you do?

04:25:49.840 Q?

04:25:50.200 What do you pick?

04:25:52.300 I'm saving my wife.

04:25:53.320 I think I'm saving...

04:25:54.460 I think I got to save the wife.

04:25:55.940 I'm saving my wife.

04:25:56.560 I think I got to save the wife.

04:25:57.500 We can have another baby.

04:25:58.900 Well, if the baby's not born, yeah.

04:26:00.280 We can have another baby.

04:26:01.500 It's still in there.

04:26:04.600 It's like a pro-life question.

04:26:06.880 Especially in modernity.

04:26:08.840 You know how hard a wife is to find?

04:26:10.760 Yeah.

04:26:11.180 If I got one, I'm saving her.

04:26:12.320 I'm going to have to put so much time in there.

04:26:13.220 I might not get another.

04:26:13.820 Chat, do you pick the kid or the wife?

04:26:16.000 Like, it's...

04:26:17.100 The kid's not born yet.

04:26:20.300 It's still in utero.

04:26:20.960 It's still...

04:26:21.780 I mean...

04:26:22.660 You know, that's a hard one.

04:26:25.200 I would leave it up to my wife, though.

04:26:27.320 But ultimately...

04:26:28.780 DNA test first.

04:26:30.260 Somebody in the chat said $500 fine says DNA test first.

04:26:34.640 That's funny.

04:26:37.360 Wait.

04:26:37.900 If it...

04:26:38.180 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

04:26:39.480 To the guy who said DNA test first.

04:26:42.300 If...

04:26:42.900 If...

04:26:43.940 Hold on.

04:26:45.160 If it's not your kid...

04:26:46.740 Would you want to keep it?

04:26:47.600 Don't you kind of want...

04:26:49.600 But she cheated on you, bro.

04:26:52.060 Well, I mean...

04:26:52.900 So kind of you keep the kid.

04:26:54.180 So what are you going to do with the kid?

04:26:55.960 You keep the kid.

04:26:56.860 You going to put the kid up for adoption?

04:26:58.480 Yeah.

04:26:58.840 Yeah.

04:26:59.200 I'm not going to raise the kid, but...

04:27:02.520 The fuck?

04:27:03.200 She's trying to cuck me, bro.

04:27:04.840 She's got to go.

04:27:05.860 That's the matter.

04:27:06.720 She's got to go, right?

04:27:08.340 She's got to go.

04:27:09.240 I don't got to do it.

04:27:10.660 The doctor can do it.

04:27:12.360 Yeah, I probably wish I could.

04:27:13.180 I would not murder my wife for infidelity.

04:27:16.040 Sure.

04:27:16.740 I'd just make that clear.

04:27:17.980 I wouldn't murder her.

04:27:19.960 Your future wife watching.

04:27:21.540 Future wife.

04:27:21.980 I wouldn't murder her, but we would not be together any longer.

04:27:27.260 Save...

04:27:27.740 She cheated.

04:27:28.340 Save the kid.

04:27:29.200 That's an interesting one, though.

04:27:33.020 $500 fine.

04:27:34.300 Yeah, you got to save the kid, right?

04:27:36.300 If it's your choice...

04:27:38.060 Damn, that's crazy.

04:27:40.580 You would be so...

04:27:41.660 You got five minutes to pick, Hugh.

04:27:43.220 Think about it.

04:27:44.140 Chat, you have five minutes to pick.

04:27:46.360 You do a DNA test.

04:27:49.100 And you have only five minutes to make a decision.

04:27:50.920 You're like...

04:27:52.240 She cheated on you.

04:27:54.660 She fucked another dude.

04:27:56.540 You've been supporting your wife this whole time.

04:27:58.340 And that's another man's kid in her.

04:28:03.600 Take them both out.

04:28:05.600 What the fuck?

04:28:06.320 Take them both out.

04:28:07.200 What the fuck, Hugh?

04:28:08.560 Damn, that's crazy.

04:28:09.880 Old school.

04:28:10.600 No, the kid is innocent.

04:28:12.380 Hugh, the kid is innocent.

04:28:13.620 The kid isn't innocent.

04:28:14.680 I do think...

04:28:15.440 Wait, wait.

04:28:17.480 The kid isn't innocent.

04:28:18.740 That's my rival at that point.

04:28:20.280 That's your rival.

04:28:21.140 That's my rival.

04:28:22.120 It's a child.

04:28:23.100 Rival?

04:28:23.420 I mean, hey.

04:28:24.200 Wait, rival?

04:28:24.920 Yeah.

04:28:25.680 Like, the guy who was sleeping with my wife is my enemy.

04:28:28.700 Why would I want his kid?

04:28:29.740 So the child would be your rival?

04:28:31.580 You could give it up for adoption.

04:28:32.740 Nah, they can get rid of both.

04:28:33.960 Both?

04:28:34.300 Damn.

04:28:34.640 You're heartless.

04:28:35.660 That's cold, kid.

04:28:36.880 Brutal.

04:28:37.080 Very cold.

04:28:37.700 Holy shit.

04:28:41.560 Yeah, but you could just move.

04:28:44.140 Like, the kid and the kid...

04:28:46.340 Like, say that dad's not in the picture, so then the kid's just, like, adopted.

04:28:50.120 And it's like, rival?

04:28:51.420 What?

04:28:51.760 He's gonna fucking...

04:28:52.900 What's he gonna do?

04:28:53.620 It would bother me.

04:28:54.560 It would just bother you?

04:28:55.400 Yeah, it would bother me.

04:28:56.200 I'd be like, that little nigga's still alive.

04:28:57.600 Jesus.

04:28:59.720 That's crazy.

04:29:02.160 Damn.

04:29:02.840 Wow.

04:29:04.320 Heartless.

04:29:04.980 You're cold.

04:29:05.420 You're cold.

04:29:05.540 You're cold.

04:29:06.260 That's his preference.

04:29:07.700 Damn.

04:29:09.380 That's crazy.

04:29:10.640 Yeah.

04:29:11.120 I think in the heat of the moment, though, a lot of people would be like, save the kid.

04:29:15.620 I don't know.

04:29:16.200 Save the kid.

04:29:17.420 Anyways, whatever.

04:29:18.160 This is getting crazy.

04:29:19.040 This is wild.

04:29:20.100 The bullet.

04:29:21.240 The bullet.

04:29:22.740 I don't know.

04:29:23.120 Why should the guy take the bullet?

04:29:24.940 Should women be virgins?

04:29:26.220 How about that?

04:29:27.600 Like, wait.

04:29:28.580 Should women...

04:29:29.580 Wait, what?

04:29:30.560 How does this correlate?

04:29:31.740 Yeah, how to explain the thought process.

04:29:34.120 So it's like, okay, the ultimate form of chivalry would be...

04:29:37.680 The man is willing to die for you.

04:29:40.480 Yeah.

04:29:40.800 Like, that would be the ultimate...

04:29:42.720 The ultimate manifestation of chivalry and protection.

04:29:47.780 He's willing to die so you can live.

04:29:50.740 That is protection.

04:29:52.480 Yeah.

04:29:52.660 If we look at bodyguards, like the ones that are like paid, hey, if there's gunfire, you

04:29:58.780 got to...

04:30:00.700 That's protection.

04:30:03.580 I don't know if women are holding up their end of the bargain in terms of what men find

04:30:10.580 traditionally valuable.

04:30:12.360 Okay.

04:30:12.940 Virginity, chastity, that sort of thing.

04:30:15.420 Yeah.

04:30:15.640 Modesty, femininity, submissiveness.

04:30:18.700 Yeah.

04:30:18.980 We got boss...

04:30:20.420 Y'all, boss babes.

04:30:22.580 Bodies.

04:30:24.900 Titties out.

04:30:28.600 Walking around saying men ain't shit.

04:30:30.380 Rusty trombones.

04:30:32.240 What?

04:30:33.540 Dirty Sanchez.

04:30:36.780 And you want me to take a bullet?

04:30:43.280 Fucking crazy.

04:30:44.460 So, after you first asked, you know, you don't win chess by killing the king, I thought, like,

04:30:52.600 what good would it be if the man did get shot?

04:30:55.580 And how would that change things?

04:30:58.080 And I'm really not sure that it would change things for the better.

04:31:01.320 I think it might just make things exponentially harder.

04:31:03.480 So, ideally, I still think, like, you should want to protect your partner and, like, you

04:31:10.300 know, take a bullet for your partner, protect them.

04:31:13.440 I would protect her, but in the scenario where, okay, some psychopath points a gun and he's

04:31:22.640 a fucking sicko, like a demented freak who's like the joker and it's a game to him.

04:31:28.080 And he's like, Brian, choose.

04:31:31.140 Do I kill you or do I kill your wife or your long-term girlfriend?

04:31:39.140 I'm like, yeah, go ahead, take care.

04:31:42.420 That's what I'm doing.

04:31:43.460 He'd be like, I'll be sad for 24 hours.

04:31:46.580 He'd kill you anyways.

04:31:47.320 Huh?

04:31:48.000 Probably would kill you anyways.

04:31:49.620 Yeah.

04:31:49.920 No, he's like, he has honor.

04:31:52.180 He's a demented.

04:31:53.360 He has honor, but he's demented.

04:31:55.280 Yes.

04:31:55.700 Okay.

04:31:56.360 He, it's, you know, the, the, the.

04:31:58.500 Very specific scenario.

04:31:59.500 Have you seen No Country for Old Men?

04:32:01.400 No.

04:32:02.000 With, uh, Havier, what's his name?

04:32:04.000 Chat, what's that, the actor's name?

04:32:06.560 Havier Bardem or some shit.

04:32:08.800 Yeah.

04:32:09.280 Total sicko.

04:32:10.340 Total fucking psychopath killer.

04:32:13.680 He plays the game.

04:32:15.060 He flips a coin.

04:32:16.580 Flips a coin.

04:32:17.600 He loves killing.

04:32:18.520 He wants to kill people.

04:32:19.840 It's a sport.

04:32:20.600 It's game to him.

04:32:21.680 He flips a coin.

04:32:23.480 Whatever they call, I think my understanding, if they call, they get to call it heads, tails.

04:32:28.480 If it lands on whatever they call, they get to live.

04:32:32.780 If it lands, say they call heads and it lands tails, he kills them.

04:32:37.280 He has rules.

04:32:39.420 There's rules to his, uh, insanity, I guess.

04:32:43.860 Okay.

04:32:44.480 So that would be the scenario.

04:32:45.540 So, all right.

04:32:47.360 Havier Bedlam, I don't know.

04:32:49.940 You guys haven't seen No Country for Old Men?

04:32:52.020 I haven't.

04:32:53.100 There Will Be Blood?

04:32:54.300 I don't know.

04:32:54.800 Okay.

04:32:55.000 A long time ago.

04:32:55.700 Get on it.

04:32:56.220 Get on it, guys.

04:32:57.040 I've seen There Will Be Blood a long time ago.

04:32:58.100 Film.

04:32:58.480 It's very important.

04:32:59.400 Okay.

04:32:59.660 I'm a film buff.

04:33:00.840 I just haven't seen it.

04:33:01.440 Yeah.

04:33:01.760 You're a film buff?

04:33:02.540 What do you watch?

04:33:03.140 Spice Girls?

04:33:03.840 What do you, what do you see?

04:33:04.760 Oh my God.

04:33:05.540 So rude.

04:33:06.100 No, I love old movies.

04:33:08.000 Like what?

04:33:08.800 Like The Bad News Bears, Breakfast Club.

04:33:10.860 Okay.

04:33:11.380 St. Elmo's Fire.

04:33:12.620 Cool.

04:33:12.780 All those things.

04:33:13.820 I just watched Interstellar for the first time like a month ago.

04:33:16.560 I did too.

04:33:17.240 That blew me away.

04:33:18.600 I did too.

04:33:19.200 I fell in love with that movie.

04:33:21.100 Anyways.

04:33:21.680 I didn't fall in love.

04:33:22.620 I fell asleep.

04:33:23.460 But so you think men should take the bullet?

04:33:28.740 I think you proposed a lot of good points that I didn't necessarily consider before.

04:33:32.760 I've changed your mind.

04:33:33.540 So you'll take, if we were dating, you'll take the bullet for me.

04:33:34.800 Well, I don't know if I'd say I'd change my mind.

04:33:36.240 Oh, okay.

04:33:36.560 But I think it's a lot more understandable that like, you know, I don't think it's one

04:33:44.360 way or the other.

04:33:45.280 I think, like I said, ideally, I think you should still want to like protect your partner

04:33:49.320 and yeah, I would still want to protect her, but like in some sort of situation where I

04:33:54.960 could make a determination, but it would ultimately, I think be harder for the woman to kind of

04:34:01.040 recover from seeing that and like from losing a partner and all those things.

04:34:05.240 Yeah.

04:34:05.780 I'm doing her a favor then.

04:34:08.360 She doesn't have to have to.

04:34:09.420 Oh, yes.

04:34:09.980 I'm giving you some credibility.

04:34:11.260 Yeah, she doesn't have to go through the suffering and trauma of losing me.

04:34:16.040 I'm such a gentleman.

04:34:17.280 So dramatic.

04:34:17.700 That she can just die and I can continue and she doesn't have to, she doesn't have to,

04:34:22.340 you know, suffer.

04:34:24.520 I meant more in the sense.

04:34:25.800 I'm such a nice guy.

04:34:26.900 Like if you guys were, you know, sharing financial responsibilities or things like that, like

04:34:32.900 it would probably be a lot harder for the woman to be able to recover from that.

04:34:38.420 Like if the man's no longer in the picture, you're saying the woman should die.

04:34:41.660 I'm saying that there are pros and cons.

04:34:45.020 Wait, so you're saying, wait, here's another argument.

04:34:48.880 Let's say we do have kids and I'm the sole breadwinner.

04:34:52.040 If I die, you're fucked.

04:34:53.980 So you should definitely die then because I'm more capable.

04:34:58.420 I'm more capable of taking care of the kids.

04:35:01.100 Look, I don't know how to breastfeed.

04:35:02.800 I don't know.

04:35:03.040 Can you milk a man?

04:35:03.840 I don't know.

04:35:04.720 I've never tried.

04:35:05.860 Q, you want to, what the fuck?

04:35:07.360 You can milk a man.

04:35:08.920 Sure, take a shot.

04:35:10.620 Can you milk a cat?

04:35:12.700 A cat?

04:35:13.580 Can you milk a male cat?

04:35:15.620 No, not a male cat.

04:35:16.820 I don't know if you want to.

04:35:18.060 I'm thinking of Meet the Parents with Robert De Niro.

04:35:20.380 I don't, wait.

04:35:21.320 Oh, no, he says in Meet the Parents, he says, I don't know, Greg.

04:35:25.540 Wait, what?

04:35:27.440 Fuck.

04:35:28.100 How does it, Damien, you know how it goes.

04:35:29.720 No.

04:35:29.900 He's like, oh, no, he says something like, oh, you can milk anything with nipples.

04:35:36.100 He's like, well, I have nipples, Greg.

04:35:38.340 Can you milk me?

04:35:40.780 I don't know why I'm quoting all these movies now.

04:35:42.920 Yeah.

04:35:43.500 No, it's cool.

04:35:44.860 Good talk.

04:35:45.520 Yeah.

04:35:45.820 Maybe they're awesome.

04:35:47.120 It's good.

04:35:47.800 Also, My Body, My Choice.

04:35:49.540 Yeah.

04:35:50.040 Okay.

04:35:50.800 Yeah.

04:35:51.240 Always.

04:35:52.040 Yeah.

04:35:52.220 When it's only your body.

04:35:56.400 I would maybe take a, I'd probably take a bullet for my dad.

04:36:00.260 Okay.

04:36:00.580 I would definitely take a bullet for my dad.

04:36:02.200 I'd take a bullet for my dad.

04:36:03.260 Or mom.

04:36:04.240 Not my mom.

04:36:04.920 I'd take one for my dad.

04:36:06.060 Yeah.

04:36:11.320 Yes.

04:36:11.640 You just slide it in there.

04:36:13.100 Uh-huh.

04:36:17.240 Good times.

04:36:18.900 Yeah.

04:36:19.240 Give me another argument.

04:36:20.260 Come on.

04:36:20.460 Me?

04:36:21.200 Come on.

04:36:21.660 You can't.

04:36:22.300 You came on to debate me about the bullet.

04:36:24.120 Come on.

04:36:24.480 Give me something.

04:36:24.880 Just the bullet?

04:36:25.660 No.

04:36:25.920 Not just the bullet.

04:36:29.600 I don't know.

04:36:30.740 Like, why?

04:36:34.340 Are you a feminist?

04:36:35.400 No.

04:36:35.840 Okay.

04:36:36.980 Oh, go ahead.

04:36:37.460 Why?

04:36:38.780 Well, I didn't have anywhere I was going with it.

04:36:40.600 You go ahead.

04:36:41.020 Uh-huh.

04:36:44.300 No, I'm not a feminist.

04:36:49.280 Someone wrote this.

04:36:50.480 I want to read it.

04:36:51.280 Anyone can jump in front of a bullet or a knife and be a hero.

04:36:54.620 Try working your life away day in and day out for 40 years at an unenjoyable job just

04:36:59.580 to take care of people that scarcely appreciate you sacrificing your entire life to their well-being and only tacitly resent you for not earning more or achieving more.

04:37:09.740 Having no real sense of you as a human being with his own thoughts, feelings, feelings, and needs.

04:37:17.120 Jeez.

04:37:18.040 All right.

04:37:18.720 Damn.

04:37:19.320 What's the username?

04:37:20.360 Shit.

04:37:21.180 Who hurt you?

04:37:21.880 That got heavy, bro.

04:37:25.340 Yeah, it did.

04:37:26.660 That hit hard.

04:37:27.460 It did.

04:37:27.620 Did you tell me the username?

04:37:29.680 There is no username.

04:37:31.160 Oh, okay.

04:37:31.660 Never mind.

04:37:32.300 You said a comment, right?

04:37:33.820 It was a...

04:37:34.640 I'm not going to share the username.

04:37:36.740 It was a...

04:37:37.640 Somebody sent it to me.

04:37:38.820 Okay.

04:37:39.280 Yeah.

04:37:41.840 Good talk.

04:37:42.480 Good talk.

04:37:45.200 Do you have anything else on that?

04:37:47.180 I mean, not really.

04:37:49.980 That's a sentiment I've heard from my dad my whole life.

04:37:54.140 Is that he's constantly felt unappreciated, whether it be by his first wife, by my mom, by his parents.

04:38:01.420 I've heard my dad say that his whole life.

04:38:05.680 But I also think my...

04:38:08.760 If there was a large-scale war, should women be drafted for military service?

04:38:13.960 If no, should women be required to have children to restore the population?

04:38:18.860 Who?

04:38:19.500 Mike Jones.

04:38:20.200 Yo, Mike Jones.

04:38:20.880 Thank you for the message.

04:38:21.900 Going around the table, should women be drafted for the military?

04:38:26.720 Yeah.

04:38:28.220 Yeah.

04:38:32.100 That's a hard one.

04:38:34.060 I'd say...

04:38:35.620 Sidia should be even.

04:38:38.500 Yeah.

04:38:39.620 I don't believe in drafting, period.

04:38:42.440 Well, granting that it exists and it's not going to be something that's taken away, would you be in favor of it?

04:38:49.080 I mean, yeah.

04:38:49.900 I think if one gender gets drafted, it should be both genders.

04:38:54.120 Okay.

04:38:54.660 More people, more people.

04:38:55.520 I think men and women are equal in different ways.

04:38:59.820 So, I'm going to go ahead and say I don't think women should be drafted because that's not our strong suit.

04:39:05.140 It would probably hurt it more than it helped.

04:39:08.180 Okay.

04:39:08.400 What about you?

04:39:09.020 I think women should be drafted.

04:39:10.880 Yeah.

04:39:11.200 Okay.

04:39:11.400 I'm going to say no because I don't feel like, again, like she said, men and women are very different, extremely different.

04:39:21.180 You're in the military, though.

04:39:22.160 You're in the national government.

04:39:22.880 Yeah.

04:39:23.060 I think women should be drafted.

04:39:28.600 Me, too.

04:39:29.040 Send the feminists to war.

04:39:29.900 Send them.

04:39:30.480 Send them.

04:39:30.980 Okay, yeah.

04:39:31.560 Correction.

04:39:32.240 The feminists to war.

04:39:33.620 Yeah, send the feminists to war.

04:39:34.280 Yeah.

04:39:34.960 Us traditional women get a pass.

04:39:36.840 This was an argument, like, made against the Equal Rights Amendment, you know, that second wave feminists had to deal with because the 14th Amendment, which already, like, granted equality to women on a legal level, was, like, already there.

04:39:55.860 But a lot of these second wave feminists were arguing for the Equal Rights Amendment, which would have caused women to get drafted, especially during the Vietnam War.

04:40:05.640 Yeah, I agree.

04:40:06.560 We should send them to, we should send the women to fight.

04:40:09.700 We should.

04:40:11.120 They can eliminate the feminists from the gene pool.

04:40:14.840 Yeah.

04:40:14.980 Oh, yeah.

04:40:15.320 Only the feminists can be sent to, but the second component of that is, should women be required, so, well, most of you said yes, but what about, because one of the arguments you hear when it comes to why women shouldn't be drafted is, well, if the women go and die, how do you repopulate the population?

04:40:36.560 And this was perhaps the case in, like, more, like, way, way back.

04:40:43.240 Like, if you had smaller groups of people, if the women fought and they died, you cannot really repopulate.

04:40:49.740 But if this is the argument posed, oh, well, women need to be the ones that can repopulate, should women be required to have children via, like, a pregnancy draft?

04:41:03.200 A pregnancy?

04:41:05.200 So you could pick who you, but you would be forced to get pregnant, basically.

04:41:12.360 Like, it would be consensual sex, kind of, I guess.

04:41:16.380 I mean, you'd pick who if you're dating a boyfriend, but it's like, oh, you're dating a guy?

04:41:20.520 Okay.

04:41:21.560 No more birth control.

04:41:22.680 You have to try to get pregnant.

04:41:26.040 Would you guys be in favor of the pregnancy draft?

04:41:28.820 I hate the idea of that.

04:41:30.360 No.

04:41:30.640 I think that's a bad idea.

04:41:31.980 I understand the purpose.

04:41:32.460 Realistically, logically, it would make sense in that scenario.

04:41:35.540 Absolutely.

04:41:36.320 But personally, I would hate that.

04:41:38.640 I mean, I'm going to give, like, the libertarian perspective in that I think more regulation is generally bad.

04:41:48.400 So more laws being implemented is generally a bad thing.

04:41:52.600 You know, you look at prohibition, that didn't stop alcohol consumption.

04:41:55.720 I think when it comes to people's, like, personal choices, the government really needs to stay out of that.

04:42:01.540 So, you know, if people want kids, they should have kids.

04:42:04.100 If they don't, they don't.

04:42:05.320 Okay.

04:42:05.880 We have any message here from Graffito?

04:42:07.900 Thank you, Graffito.

04:42:08.840 Graffito Tacked donated $200.

04:42:12.240 Proposition.

04:42:13.060 Every man should be able to carry his woman to safety in an emergency situation, like the house is on fire and she's passed out.

04:42:21.000 So he needs to be fit and she must avoid becoming obese.

04:42:26.480 Yeah.

04:42:28.080 True.

04:42:29.480 That's all he says.

04:42:31.520 Dope.

04:42:33.320 All right.

04:42:33.900 We have a chat here from Bruno.

04:42:35.560 Bruno Mars showing love.

04:42:39.240 Bruno Mars showing love.

04:42:40.860 Hey, been watching like a ninja.

04:42:42.580 Podcast is dope.

04:42:43.920 Keep that groove going, man.

04:42:45.920 Yo, Bruno.

04:42:46.980 Thank you so much for the $100 soup chat.

04:42:49.540 Really appreciate it, man.

04:42:50.740 Also remember, chivalry is dead.

04:42:52.160 Bruno.

04:42:52.780 Guys, W's in the chat for Bruno for the $100 soup chat.

04:42:55.780 And thank you, Graffito, Michael Jones, for the recent TTSs.

04:42:59.820 Thank you, guys.

04:43:00.260 Really appreciate it.

04:43:01.820 Read is $100.

04:43:02.600 TTS is $200.

04:43:03.620 All right.

04:43:03.800 Let's get into the questionnaire.

04:43:05.020 We've got a lot to get through.

04:43:07.080 All right.

04:43:07.680 Men are not insecure for, you know what?

04:43:11.720 Hold on now.

04:43:12.420 Let's start, let's start.

04:43:14.100 Yeah, we'll start down here.

04:43:15.780 Transgender individuals have a duty to disclose to romantic partners to which, Toria, you disagree.

04:43:22.920 And then, Alora, you also disagree.

04:43:28.500 Why do you guys disagree?

04:43:29.500 Well, I think it should just be the same as anyone else, you know?

04:43:34.480 Like, if they want to disclose it, then disclose it.

04:43:37.960 If they don't, then don't.

04:43:40.140 Yeah, I felt the same way about that.

04:43:42.000 It should be the same.

04:43:42.940 Yeah.

04:43:44.340 Trans or not.

04:43:45.220 Yeah, trans or not, if you don't want to disclose it, don't.

04:43:48.080 If you do, do.

04:43:49.440 What do you mean, trans or not?

04:43:50.660 This would only apply to trans people.

04:43:52.700 Well, that's what I'm saying.

04:43:53.500 I have the same idea about both.

04:43:56.320 Wouldn't you want?

04:43:56.900 But what would...

04:43:57.500 What would...

04:43:58.500 It wouldn't matter to me what partners they had before.

04:44:02.660 Wait, what?

04:44:03.000 Is that the question?

04:44:04.020 No.

04:44:05.220 If you're transgender, the question is, like, should you tell a person that you're going

04:44:10.520 to go on a date with or you are dating that you are trans?

04:44:14.200 Because maybe you're passing.

04:44:15.380 I definitely read that question wrong.

04:44:17.600 I thought it was like...

04:44:18.260 I thought it might not.

04:44:19.220 I was concerned for a second.

04:44:21.200 Yeah.

04:44:21.560 No, they should definitely disclose.

04:44:23.600 Exactly.

04:44:24.080 If they're trans.

04:44:25.040 Yeah.

04:44:25.440 But not their past partners.

04:44:26.780 That's how I read that question.

04:44:27.820 That's what I thought it was.

04:44:28.640 Really?

04:44:29.060 Yeah.

04:44:29.460 That's what I thought it meant.

04:44:30.860 Transgender individuals have a duty to disclose to romantic partners.

04:44:35.900 Yeah.

04:44:36.560 Yeah.

04:44:36.800 Is that confusing?

04:44:37.380 Period.

04:44:38.160 Is that confusing?

04:44:38.800 Maybe you meant genitalia or, like, biological sex.

04:44:42.880 I don't know.

04:44:43.100 So you think if a trans person is on a dating app that they should say before even meeting

04:44:49.360 up with a person, BTW, I am trans.

04:44:52.080 Yes.

04:44:52.360 Yeah.

04:44:52.560 They should let them know.

04:44:53.740 Agree?

04:44:54.560 Yeah.

04:44:55.060 Out of safety, too, for them.

04:44:56.620 I was just going to say that.

04:44:57.920 Out of safety above everything.

04:44:59.100 Yeah.

04:44:59.920 And I think that's, like, violating.

04:45:03.740 It's just, like, it's violating someone's trust.

04:45:06.380 And that's, like, a lie.

04:45:07.380 Okay.

04:45:07.540 Yeah.

04:45:08.080 You know.

04:45:08.460 Let's see here.

04:45:09.440 Allura.

04:45:10.520 So the statement is, men are physically stronger than women.

04:45:13.480 Allura, you disagree.

04:45:15.360 I didn't think I circled that one.

04:45:18.020 Did I cross it out?

04:45:19.460 You circled it.

04:45:20.580 I did?

04:45:21.080 You circled it.

04:45:22.280 There's one above it that says, possible to be sexist towards men.

04:45:26.220 And you circled that one, but you crossed that one out.

04:45:28.380 Did you mean to cross out the men are physically stronger than women?

04:45:31.240 I think so, yeah.

04:45:33.320 Okay.

04:45:33.760 So you think men are physically stronger than women?

04:45:36.460 Yeah.

04:45:36.700 Okay.

04:45:37.640 We'll skip to the next one then.

04:45:39.080 Possible to be sexist towards men.

04:45:42.660 You disagree.

04:45:46.420 You circled it, but then you crossed it out.

04:45:48.580 But there's confusion if you meant to cross out the next one.

04:45:51.580 Do you think it's possible to be sexist towards men?

04:45:54.780 Yeah, I do.

04:45:56.000 Oh, okay.

04:45:56.860 Toria, you're the only one on this one.

04:45:59.180 Why do you disagree?

04:46:00.420 No, I think it's possible.

04:46:02.200 Oh.

04:46:02.380 I thought it had a double negative.

04:46:03.820 Okay, I didn't read well.

04:46:04.920 I was like, let's finish this.

04:46:06.660 I don't know.

04:46:07.460 I'm like dumb.

04:46:07.800 How about that?

04:46:08.180 Let me frame it like this.

04:46:09.260 I didn't read it like that in my head.

04:46:09.640 Can a woman be sexist towards a man?

04:46:13.060 Yeah, I think definitely.

04:46:14.300 Oh, okay.

04:46:14.540 Yeah.

04:46:15.080 All right.

04:46:16.060 It works both ways.

04:46:16.980 Making it simple then.

04:46:18.380 Possible to be racist towards white people, to which Marina, you disagree.

04:46:26.020 And then...

04:46:26.720 Is it not possible?

04:46:27.800 Oh, my God.

04:46:28.920 You guys are killing me here.

04:46:30.600 It's possible.

04:46:31.120 She was confusing me.

04:46:32.020 It's possible to be racist towards a white man.

04:46:34.020 Is that what you're saying?

04:46:35.040 Is that what it was?

04:46:35.720 It's possible.

04:46:35.960 Is it possible for a black person to be racist towards a white person?

04:46:39.480 Yeah.

04:46:39.740 I think racism is even throughout all race.

04:46:42.600 Okay.

04:46:42.940 Because you circled.

04:46:44.140 You disagree.

04:46:45.020 Oh, sorry.

04:46:45.520 I think we all read through your things wrong.

04:46:47.720 All right.

04:46:48.160 Men are the primary...

04:46:49.380 You guys...

04:46:50.120 I feel like you guys just don't want to argue with me.

04:46:51.980 Men are the primary victims of war.

04:46:55.580 Toria, you disagree.

04:46:58.420 Allura, you disagree.

04:47:01.180 Are or not?

04:47:02.860 Bro.

04:47:03.500 Sorry.

04:47:04.900 Sorry.

04:47:05.940 Directions.

04:47:06.580 And then I explained it to you.

04:47:07.780 Directions.

04:47:08.300 If you disagree, circle with the corresponding number.

04:47:12.780 Hey, there are double negatives.

04:47:14.320 It's not a double negative.

04:47:15.560 For some of them, and I was like, wait.

04:47:17.220 How is it a double...

04:47:18.320 Oh, my God.

04:47:19.100 The first question was like, does it not do...

04:47:23.920 Okay, so men are the primary victims of war, yes or no?

04:47:29.380 I would say it affects everyone.

04:47:32.560 Okay.

04:47:33.480 But maybe men...

04:47:35.920 It affects men first, and then...

04:47:37.840 That's primary.

04:47:39.100 So primary?

04:47:39.740 Yeah.

04:47:40.040 But then it also affects, you know, women who are, you know...

04:47:44.200 I can't say that.

04:47:44.920 But it's not as bad.

04:47:45.820 But it's not as bad.

04:47:47.700 Right?

04:47:50.100 If I get shot, if I get shot and killed, does it affect my mom as much as it affected me?

04:47:56.160 Well, I guess you wouldn't be here to be experiencing it anymore.

04:47:58.740 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

04:47:59.600 Would I be the primary victim?

04:48:01.600 You said, like, it can have a trickle effect.

04:48:03.520 Of course.

04:48:04.060 Yeah.

04:48:04.300 Yeah.

04:48:04.480 Yeah, but primarily, it would affect me because I'm the one who got shot.

04:48:08.940 And she would just feel the effect.

04:48:10.800 But I think you were saying...

04:48:11.800 Emotionally.

04:48:12.320 In war, some women get essayed, is what you're going to say.

04:48:16.120 Yeah.

04:48:16.240 Right?

04:48:16.680 Which is true.

04:48:18.120 Like, Ingus Kong.

04:48:18.760 But typically, I'm not aware of any war where there are more women who get essayed than there

04:48:26.400 are men who die.

04:48:27.160 And I'd actually be prepared to say there's...

04:48:30.080 I've not studied every single war in the entirety of human history.

04:48:33.360 I would be prepared to say that every single war, there have been more men who were casualties.

04:48:40.180 Or I'll just...

04:48:40.760 I won't even say casualties.

04:48:42.240 There are more men who died than there were women who were essayed.

04:48:45.000 I don't know the statistics for that, but...

04:48:51.120 Well, I mean, it's pretty easy.

04:48:52.200 Typically, like, women get to...

04:48:53.920 They flee the front line, typically.

04:48:55.580 And sometimes invading...

04:48:57.180 I mean, it depends on the nature of the war.

04:49:00.120 But invading countries sometimes do cross paths with...

04:49:03.240 Well, oftentimes cross paths with civilians.

04:49:08.140 But, like, most people retreat into the interior of the country.

04:49:13.320 I mean, sometimes countries, an invading force, will take over the entire country.

04:49:19.880 But oftentimes, the women and children will flee.

04:49:23.980 They'll go to a different country.

04:49:25.200 So there's just way more men who are encountering the actual combat.

04:49:29.280 Who are actually, you know, being...

04:49:33.320 Encountering the enemy, who would be the ones who would be essaying these women.

04:49:39.580 Like, look at Genghis Khan.

04:49:41.680 There's, like, millions and millions.

04:49:43.320 He probably killed more people than...

04:49:45.140 Yeah.

04:49:46.260 Yeah.

04:49:47.140 Mm.

04:49:49.100 Wait, I'm actually curious about this.

04:49:50.740 It is kind of a heavy topic, but, like...

04:49:52.820 Normally, I frame it...

04:49:55.820 What do you think is worse?

04:49:58.180 Ten soldiers who die?

04:50:00.900 Ten male soldiers who die?

04:50:02.440 Or one woman who gets essayed by a belligerent soldier?

04:50:06.560 Fuck.

04:50:07.780 I don't know how to answer that.

04:50:09.380 That's, like, the train question.

04:50:11.620 Like, do you kill your besties?

04:50:12.860 Yeah.

04:50:13.000 It's like the trolley dilemma.

04:50:14.400 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:50:14.740 Which one's worse?

04:50:15.780 Of the trolley?

04:50:16.240 Ugh.

04:50:17.040 Ten soldiers who die, but that's also, like, human history.

04:50:21.080 I think on the show before, they had talked about the greater male variability hypothesis,

04:50:25.680 you know, where, like, most men won't reproduce, basically, successfully reproduce, and it's

04:50:30.760 been like that throughout human history due to intersexual competition between men for

04:50:35.740 women.

04:50:36.060 And so, I think it's sad that men die so often, you know, and you have men at, like, both ends

04:50:44.680 of the bell curve.

04:50:45.660 Like, you have a high amount of men that are geniuses, and then you have a high amount of

04:50:48.720 men that are intellectually disabled, like I was talking about earlier.

04:50:52.400 Um, but I think, you know, and that's because of that competition, but I think, unfortunately,

04:50:58.500 if you look at this morally, and you have to choose one, you probably would say the men

04:51:04.220 dying, uh, even though I feel like people in society would say the woman, though.

04:51:10.100 Like, they would say.

04:51:10.840 How about we go around the table?

04:51:11.540 Go ahead.

04:51:11.960 Yeah.

04:51:13.420 Oh, wait.

04:51:14.020 Um, the woman, uh, not the woman, sorry.

04:51:16.400 The ten soldiers dying would be worse.

04:51:18.320 Yeah, definitely.

04:51:19.240 You're losing ten lives.

04:51:20.660 Yeah.

04:51:21.260 Ten soldiers.

04:51:22.400 Yeah, I think ethically, ten soldiers.

04:51:24.280 Ten lives.

04:51:25.420 Ten soldiers.

04:51:26.500 Ten soldiers, yeah.

04:51:28.160 Okay, fine.

04:51:29.840 I've talked a lot today.

04:51:31.740 No, it's okay.

04:51:33.060 Um, what a podcast.

04:51:35.700 Essay does happen a lot in the military, it does, but it also happens outside the military,

04:51:40.660 you know what I mean?

04:51:41.360 So.

04:51:43.080 What about one for one?

04:51:46.360 Like, one man, one essay?

04:51:48.800 Yeah.

04:51:49.780 One person killed?

04:51:50.940 That's still, I.

04:51:52.220 Versus one essay.

04:51:53.400 That's still one life right there.

04:51:55.060 Yeah.

04:51:55.940 Sorry.

04:51:56.560 Yeah.

04:51:57.300 Does that make it more challenging for you, or?

04:51:59.640 A little bit.

04:52:00.360 It does, yeah.

04:52:00.560 Because I feel like the woman lives with that forever.

04:52:03.900 In the same aspect, you could say the family of whose man that died that was also lived with that forever.

04:52:11.880 Mm-hmm.

04:52:12.200 I don't, yeah.

04:52:13.200 Oh, I mean, to be charitable, the, what, uh, a woman who's been essayed, that would be harmful

04:52:19.900 also to the family.

04:52:21.300 Yeah.

04:52:22.260 Yeah, it would.

04:52:22.880 Like, the, the brothers, fathers, mother, sister, that, that would be hurtful to them

04:52:27.680 that their, uh, sister, uh, child was victimized in that way.

04:52:33.540 Yeah.

04:52:34.360 Um.

04:52:35.760 But they could go to therapy.

04:52:37.500 If a life got lost, there's nothing you can do.

04:52:40.500 They can't get brought back.

04:52:41.460 Right, right, right.

04:52:41.900 They could at least go to therapy for essay, and not for nothing.

04:52:44.840 There could be a loss, and you could be rich also on top of that.

04:52:47.220 Yeah.

04:52:47.900 Well, I don't think.

04:52:49.460 You, you don't know, I'm just saying, I'm trying to, I'm trying to think of a positive.

04:52:52.240 I don't know about that argument, but, uh, I, I don't know if essay would ever be justified.

04:52:57.600 Like, you don't know.

04:52:58.720 You never know.

04:52:59.440 I think, though, and tell me if you think I'm wrong, because I feel like Brian and I

04:53:05.720 may see eye to eye on this.

04:53:07.700 Don't you think that this is going to sound bad?

04:53:11.140 Wait, can I ask one favor?

04:53:13.020 One favor.

04:53:13.740 Yeah.

04:53:13.900 I want you to be concise, but you, you include a lot of preambles when you speak.

04:53:20.460 Like, you gave two preambles there.

04:53:23.880 Yeah.

04:53:24.560 Just say what you're going to say.

04:53:25.800 Okay.

04:53:26.100 You don't need a, uh, I know, I know.

04:53:28.340 I know.

04:53:29.220 It's because of my narcissism, I know.

04:53:31.120 I didn't, what?

04:53:32.200 Are you a narcissist?

04:53:32.820 I like to mouth off.

04:53:34.540 Anyway, anyway, so I was going to say, I was going to say, um, so do you think that whether

04:53:40.000 sexual assault has happened is, like, relative to the individual?

04:53:47.300 Like, do you think it's based on perception?

04:53:50.060 Does that make sense?

04:53:51.620 I'm just, I'm, I'm trying to play devil's advocate here because a lot of the Me Too stuff,

04:53:57.280 there were accusations coming out, right?

04:53:59.420 And it was, like, no due process.

04:54:01.060 And so, I'm, yeah, I think there's false accusations.

04:54:04.440 Yeah.

04:54:04.980 But, but I think there, there would, there is, like, an objective standard to, like, has

04:54:11.060 this person been, I think yes.

04:54:14.280 Mm-hmm.

04:54:14.880 But, um, so I'm, the, I'm, what's the question?

04:54:21.060 Um, no, I just, I, I, I, I, I'm asking whether you think that somebody could, like, believe

04:54:30.740 that, like, a man raping them is the same as, like, being groped or touched, like, if

04:54:37.420 they would be, if they would, like, be equated, like, as, as equal types of sexual assault.

04:54:43.840 I'm just playing devil's advocate.

04:54:45.440 I'm saying, do you think it's as bad?

04:54:47.980 Do you, do you think that rape?

04:54:49.440 Wait, what, what?

04:54:49.940 Wait, please don't, we told you not to say that word.

04:54:53.280 Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

04:54:53.860 Say rape or essay.

04:54:55.400 I'm sorry, sexual assault, I'm sorry.

04:54:57.080 What is your question?

04:54:58.340 You know what, it's fine.

04:54:59.140 No, oh my god, now you're gonna say it, because, just say it, go ahead.

04:55:02.200 Okay.

04:55:03.100 Um, do you think that some, I'm playing devil's advocate, do you think that some women, maybe,

04:55:10.220 No, you're asking me a hypothetical question.

04:55:11.740 What is your devil's advocate position?

04:55:13.480 So, that maybe some people, some women, if they're on drugs, maybe they imagine the fact

04:55:21.640 that they're sexually assaulted, or they hallucinate the situation.

04:55:25.240 Are you asking me that if this is a phenomenon that happens?

04:55:27.660 Yes.

04:55:28.480 Yes.

04:55:28.780 Is that your question?

04:55:29.520 Yes, yeah.

04:55:30.340 Yeah, even, women can go to therapy, and there's this certain thing where, like, the therapist

04:55:35.160 will, like, introduce, what is it, past, fuck, what's that, do you know what it's called?

04:55:38.920 Permission?

04:55:39.520 They go to therapy, and it's like, past memory, fuck, chat, can anybody in the chat, chat, anybody

04:55:46.560 in the chat know what I'm talking about, they go to a therapist, fucking hypnosis, or some

04:55:50.220 bullshit.

04:55:51.140 Eye movement, desensitization, really?

04:55:53.760 Yeah.

04:55:53.960 No, it's, it's like a repressed memory.

04:55:56.280 Yeah, repressed memories.

04:55:57.560 Repressed memories.

04:55:57.900 Yeah.

04:55:59.380 Yeah, but I think, like, some of that can be, uh, inserted.

04:56:04.300 There's a phenomenon where, uh, a memory can be inserted into somebody.

04:56:08.560 Oh, like, false memory.

04:56:10.000 It's, like, a memory, a memory that can be inserted is false memory.

04:56:13.980 It's also true that, like, generational trauma can be passed on in that way.

04:56:20.300 So, say, like, your mom went through something like that, and you didn't necessarily, but

04:56:23.480 just based off of, maybe you heard it in the background, or, like, you can feel like it

04:56:28.640 happened to you as well.

04:56:30.240 Is it, like, confabulation or something?

04:56:32.500 Like, you have a confabulating idea?

04:56:33.000 I forgot exactly what that's called, but it's a form of, like.

04:56:35.160 I'm not sure if it would be confabulation.

04:56:37.860 I get what you're saying, but I don't, I don't actually think it happens like that.

04:56:41.960 It's more so, like, it can change, like, stress responses.

04:56:45.400 It can alter stress responses genetically.

04:56:48.040 That, that would be, yeah, the basis of it.

04:56:52.060 There is, I mean, there's a Wikipedia article on memory implantation as a technique used in

04:56:58.100 cognitive psychology to investigate human memory.

04:57:01.180 In memory implantation studies, researchers make people believe that they remember an event

04:57:05.660 that actually never happened.

04:57:07.100 That's the false memory.

04:57:07.600 False memories that have been successfully implanted in people's memories include remembering

04:57:11.780 being lost in a mall as a child, taking a hot air balloon ride, among other things,

04:57:15.720 which could be both good and bad.

04:57:19.880 So, I don't know.

04:57:21.960 I'm a little curious.

04:57:22.220 I don't know, I don't think they do that.

04:57:23.500 I don't know if they do that in therapy.

04:57:25.500 I do know that it's a cognitive, psychological phenomenon.

04:57:27.880 There are some therapists that will, like.

04:57:30.240 I don't know if a therapist do that.

04:57:31.380 They'll implant memories.

04:57:32.680 It happens.

04:57:33.240 No, they're sociologist Richard, blah, blah, blah, an expert on false memories due to coercive

04:57:44.640 interrogations, as well as suggestive therapies.

04:57:49.100 I don't know.

04:57:50.060 I'm not an expert in that.

04:57:52.980 What is your question, though?

04:57:55.920 I want to make sure that I word it correctly, because I think it's a sensitive subject.

04:58:00.140 Don't preamble.

04:58:01.080 Just say it.

04:58:01.840 Okay, okay, okay.

04:58:05.080 No, I mean, that's what I was asking.

04:58:06.940 I was asking whether you think that some females hallucinate their rape, their sexual assault

04:58:14.000 experience.

04:58:14.540 Holy fuck, are you cooked?

04:58:15.040 Sexual assault experience.

04:58:17.440 I said rate, rate, rate, rate, R-A-T-E.

04:58:21.500 I told, what?

04:58:22.420 I didn't, I didn't, I said.

04:58:24.160 She said, okay, now I'm being gaslit here.

04:58:27.260 Okay.

04:58:27.700 She, you did not say rate, total gaslighting.

04:58:32.040 What the fuck?

04:58:32.620 No, right then, yeah, I didn't say.

04:58:35.620 Just say grape or essay, please.

04:58:38.160 Okay.

04:58:39.700 Um, yeah, it's fine.

04:58:42.500 Let's move on.

04:58:43.320 Why, why are you bringing that up, though?

04:58:45.300 I'm just, what, are you trying to get a gotcha?

04:58:47.340 No, I'm just, I'm wondering, like, what you think about, like, if you think people's

04:58:54.060 perceptions, like, formulate how we are dealing with this situation, because there wasn't any

04:59:00.020 due process that was going on during Me Too.

04:59:02.440 No one was investigating these accusations.

04:59:05.580 And I'm just wondering, you know, if you think that some people.

04:59:09.820 People, whoa, whoa, whoa, hold on.

04:59:11.500 You're saying that any woman who brought forth a allegation of essay prior to Me Too, which

04:59:19.480 is, like, what, 2017?

04:59:21.640 It was never taken seriously.

04:59:24.300 No man has ever been convicted of a, of a sex crime until 2017.

04:59:29.920 You're actually cooked.

04:59:31.100 That, I'm, I don't mean to be insulting, but that is such a just factually incorrect

04:59:37.560 thing to say.

04:59:39.660 So you think, if, if I were to present evidence to you that says, in 2000, there's, there's

04:59:46.280 hundreds, if not thousands of criminal cases that have been prosecuted, and there was a

04:59:51.320 prosecution, and there are men who are in prison from the 90s, 80s, 70s, 60s, who

04:59:59.540 were prosecuted correctly for sex crimes.

05:00:03.400 You think sex crimes have not been prosecuted until 2017.

05:00:08.120 They have, yeah.

05:00:08.280 They have.

05:00:08.800 I'm saying.

05:00:09.620 You literally just said, no, they haven't.

05:00:11.520 No, I'm saying that when Me Too started, it's kind of like you could just come out and

05:00:17.240 say that somebody sexually assaulted you, and then they would get, you know, like, a lot

05:00:22.780 of hate for that without any kind of due process happening.

05:00:25.680 I'm not saying that it didn't go on, there was a lot of due process prior to that, but

05:00:30.700 I'm wondering, as a society, like, what kind of direction we're heading in terms of that

05:00:35.320 being a thing.

05:00:37.140 You know, because we don't know if people are just imagining these events.

05:00:41.940 I'm not saying that I agree with that.

05:00:44.280 I'm saying that there could be some people that, you know, maybe they had a false memory

05:00:51.600 implanted, because that does happen in therapy.

05:00:54.080 Or they make a false accusation.

05:00:56.420 Yeah, or they make a false accusation.

05:00:57.600 Yes, does that happen?

05:00:58.860 Yeah.

05:00:59.220 But also, are there women who are genuinely essayed?

05:01:01.980 Yes, absolutely.

05:01:02.740 Of course, yeah.

05:01:03.160 What is your, I don't understand why, are you trying to get a gotcha?

05:01:06.480 What are you doing?

05:01:07.060 No, I just wanted to hear, I just wanted to hear how you were thinking about all this,

05:01:12.820 because, you know, we were kind of talking about it.

05:01:16.680 I'm not trying to get anyone upset.

05:01:21.320 I'm just, but, I don't know what you're, okay.

05:01:28.340 Okay.

05:01:33.160 I'm just, I'm kind of annoyed, not going to lie.

05:01:40.820 I just need to step away for a second.

05:01:42.220 Okay.

05:01:43.700 I'm sorry.

05:01:45.120 Bro, be crashing out.

05:01:46.420 Huh?

05:01:47.300 Bro, it's just like.

05:01:53.060 I don't know.

05:01:54.940 I don't know.

05:02:00.480 Somebody else want to fucking talk?

05:02:01.880 I'm just.

05:02:02.240 Yeah.

05:02:03.600 I don't really know how to follow that.

05:02:05.780 Yeah, I don't know.

05:02:06.860 I don't know where to go from here.

05:02:08.880 I'm really, my goal is really to just get people to think.

05:02:12.980 That's all.

05:02:14.460 What's the next question?

05:02:17.060 Has anyone experienced love at first sight?

05:02:20.300 Or do you believe in it?

05:02:22.340 Yes.

05:02:22.980 No.

05:02:23.440 I believe in attachment at first sight.

05:02:27.580 I don't think you can really love someone just by laying eyes on them.

05:02:31.120 What is attachment at first sight?

05:02:34.400 So it's called limerence.

05:02:37.840 It's just like when you see someone and for no reason.

05:02:40.580 Oh, infatuation?

05:02:41.680 Yeah.

05:02:42.060 Like for no reason you become obsessed with them.

05:02:44.340 Usually because of like.

05:02:46.060 There's a reason.

05:02:46.780 Well, yeah.

05:02:48.020 There's usually a, some type of situation that happened in your life that made you attracted

05:02:52.360 to that person.

05:02:53.680 Like so obsessed with that person that you feel like you need to.

05:02:57.260 Positive illusions.

05:02:58.580 Yeah.

05:02:59.040 You have an idea of who that person is in your head.

05:03:01.000 Yeah.

05:03:01.020 Like you build a perception of them up in your head and put them on this pedestal and like,

05:03:05.520 yeah.

05:03:05.840 Yeah.

05:03:06.180 Okay.

05:03:06.840 Yeah.

05:03:07.040 I believe in that.

05:03:08.200 I think in order to like really love someone, you have to, you know, spend time with them.

05:03:13.740 That's really it.

05:03:14.760 Okay.

05:03:16.300 Do you want to talk about necrophilia too while we're, is there any other like kind of heavier

05:03:22.100 topics?

05:03:22.560 You want to talk about child abuse?

05:03:25.160 What else do you want to talk about?

05:03:26.240 No.

05:03:28.660 No, I'm, I'm sorry.

05:03:30.880 Yeah.

05:03:31.640 I'm sorry.

05:03:32.340 Trafficking.

05:03:32.880 We could talk about trafficking too.

05:03:35.080 What do you want to talk about?

05:03:36.720 No, I've been talking a lot.

05:03:37.920 I want to hear you talk.

05:03:38.600 You want to talk about Michael Jackson?

05:03:39.620 What do you want to talk about?

05:03:40.640 Michael Jackson.

05:03:42.980 Still very much alive.

05:03:45.520 Oh boy.

05:03:46.580 Okay.

05:03:47.280 All right.

05:03:51.600 Okay.

05:03:51.960 Here, I'm going to move it on.

05:03:52.900 I'm going to move it on.

05:03:53.600 All right.

05:03:55.040 There is no gender wage gap.

05:03:56.680 Toria, you disagree.

05:03:58.920 Anybody else disagree?

05:04:00.340 No gender wage gap.

05:04:01.820 Laura, you think there's a gender wage gap?

05:04:05.500 Carrie, you think there's a gender wage gap?

05:04:08.140 Okay.

05:04:10.180 Why?

05:04:11.340 I mean, you said it earlier, 80 cents to a dollar.

05:04:14.740 Oh, I don't believe that.

05:04:16.720 You don't believe it?

05:04:17.120 That it exists.

05:04:19.120 That that's true.

05:04:21.200 Hmm.

05:04:22.660 Well, why?

05:04:24.020 What is the evidence?

05:04:24.660 Well, first, you tell me what the gender wage gap is.

05:04:29.380 For the same job, women will be getting paid less.

05:04:34.700 Or, for example, they'll inherit some kind of company or whatever,

05:04:40.380 and then it tanks once they inherit it.

05:04:43.460 Or it's like at the war or...

05:04:45.360 Inherited companies in the war?

05:04:47.360 Hold on.

05:04:47.920 Let me let a couple chats go through and we'll come back to it.

05:04:51.360 Comer 594 donated $200.

05:04:55.460 Drug test these broads.

05:04:57.760 Chair 7, we're thinking you are retarded.

05:05:04.120 It's okay.

05:05:04.880 We're all a little bit...

05:05:05.700 Arslered.

05:05:06.700 Arslered.

05:05:07.720 I'm a little...

05:05:08.560 I'm Arslered, too.

05:05:09.460 It's okay.

05:05:10.040 We have something in common, I guess.

05:05:17.640 The next one.

05:05:18.500 I'm just waiting for the next one to come.

05:05:19.760 What the fuck?

05:05:21.380 Klain donated $200.

05:05:23.440 Shit.

05:05:24.140 Big head, small brain starting to make sense.

05:05:27.380 Uh-oh.

05:05:27.780 In case no one covered it, 14th Amendment was about slavery,

05:05:32.220 while 19th was women's right to vote.

05:05:34.980 No conscription ever brought up.

05:05:37.420 Where is Andrew?

05:05:38.760 Oh, Klain, welcome back.

05:05:39.960 Yeah.

05:05:40.460 I don't know, man.

05:05:42.620 Andrew would be losing his mind right now.

05:05:44.280 He'd be fucking chain-smoking, I'll tell you that night.

05:05:48.420 Okay.

05:05:50.440 Good talk.

05:05:53.940 Yeah.

05:05:54.600 Okay, wage gap.

05:05:55.960 What's the wage gap?

05:05:57.260 I think it's shifted, honestly,

05:05:59.320 because I think there's been more opportunities for women to make more money.

05:06:03.340 So I feel like it's almost shifted in a way.

05:06:06.460 Kind of like what I was talking about earlier.

05:06:08.600 Sure.

05:06:09.920 You think there's a wage gap?

05:06:12.120 Yeah, I know there's a wage gap,

05:06:13.840 but it's not for the same reasons, you know,

05:06:16.540 that I think maybe other people here think it exists for.

05:06:22.540 It definitely is there, though,

05:06:24.140 but it's because women and men go into different jobs,

05:06:26.580 and they work different hours.

05:06:28.320 You know, it's not there for a prejudiced reason, I'd say.

05:06:32.040 But it does exist.

05:06:33.380 I agree with you.

05:06:34.000 Yeah.

05:06:34.720 I think the differential here is if we use the term wage gap,

05:06:39.720 it indicates that it's sort of like a snuck in.

05:06:44.440 And it's a bit loaded because with the wage gap,

05:06:48.700 it's indicating, okay, well, the person with the same exact job,

05:06:51.380 same job, same all other criteria,

05:06:55.140 they're being paid way less.

05:06:57.600 There's an earnings gap between men and women.

05:07:01.200 An earnings gap because what the wage gap,

05:07:04.260 which is really an earnings gap, does,

05:07:05.860 is it takes all the money that men make,

05:07:07.920 all the women that money make,

05:07:09.400 and it just does a one-to-one comparison.

05:07:11.620 It doesn't factor in hours worked, type of job, location, geography,

05:07:18.240 the education received prior to that.

05:07:21.420 It doesn't factor in any of those variables.

05:07:23.340 It's just like all the women in the United States who are working

05:07:26.740 versus all the men in the United States who are working.

05:07:29.180 It's totally unfair to do that sort of comparison.

05:07:31.400 Men go into different fields.

05:07:33.140 And so if you actually do the control for it,

05:07:39.260 it shrinks to one cent.

05:07:41.620 It's just one cent.

05:07:43.280 If you do the same job, they've been in the field the same time,

05:07:47.040 working at the same company, it shrinks to just one cent.

05:07:52.280 Right.

05:07:53.180 And also, I think the gender,

05:07:56.880 even if there was a gender wage gap, which there isn't,

05:08:01.140 it would just be explained away by women's mating preferences.

05:08:07.580 Probably, yeah.

05:08:08.420 Interesting.

05:08:10.140 You want a guy who makes $100,000.

05:08:13.080 You're currently broke.

05:08:15.120 If I'm broke, I definitely can't date a girl who makes $100,000.

05:08:19.980 Women typically, when they're high earners,

05:08:22.460 they want to date a guy who's on their level or above,

05:08:25.400 who's making as much as them or above.

05:08:27.840 A guy who's an attorney,

05:08:29.300 actually, here's a really interesting thing I just thought about the other night,

05:08:32.160 and you guys can correct me if I'm wrong.

05:08:34.980 A woman who makes enough money,

05:08:38.340 so you guys know how, I'll get right back to that,

05:08:40.560 but you guys know how typically for most families,

05:08:43.420 it's going to require two incomes.

05:08:46.260 It's going to take two incomes to have kids and raise a family, right?

05:08:49.280 Yeah.

05:08:49.800 For a lot of people.

05:08:50.560 That's the economic reality.

05:08:52.080 There's going to need to be two incomes.

05:08:53.520 Once a woman gets into the range, though,

05:08:57.760 where she could support a family on her own,

05:09:01.800 so conceivably, she makes so much money,

05:09:05.160 well, maybe not,

05:09:06.200 you don't need to make so much money to do that,

05:09:09.120 but she makes enough money that she could have her husband stay at home.

05:09:14.060 Not saying she would want that, but she could.

05:09:16.520 She makes enough money where he wouldn't need to work,

05:09:18.600 and they would be okay.

05:09:20.420 Once she makes enough money to do that,

05:09:22.540 she's going to be looking to date a guy who can also do that.

05:09:27.820 So really high-earning women get into a problem there,

05:09:31.380 more so than women who make a little bit less,

05:09:33.380 who would pair off with a guy,

05:09:34.640 who he probably would be helpful financially

05:09:36.740 to pair off with a woman who's also working.

05:09:39.280 Once a woman makes that level of money,

05:09:41.500 she wants to date guys who they can support a family

05:09:44.540 on a single income.

05:09:46.880 Those women are in real hot water

05:09:48.780 because that guy,

05:09:49.840 he can support a family on one income.

05:09:53.020 He doesn't need your money at all.

05:09:55.280 He doesn't care at all.

05:09:57.060 But those women want to date those men.

05:09:59.500 Those women are going to,

05:10:00.560 and those women who are probably earning that much

05:10:02.440 are very career-driven.

05:10:04.580 A woman who's earning enough money

05:10:05.940 to support a family just on her income

05:10:08.380 are probably very career-driven,

05:10:10.680 probably boss babes,

05:10:11.880 probably a little bit in their masculine.

05:10:13.320 A little bit.

05:10:15.180 Yeah.

05:10:16.700 So the guy who he's making enough money

05:10:19.440 to be able to support a family on his own,

05:10:21.440 he's thinking,

05:10:22.900 I can support a family on my own.

05:10:25.840 I don't need her money.

05:10:28.700 I'm going to go date a girl

05:10:30.620 who's going to prioritize me and the family

05:10:33.140 and not be so focused on her career.

05:10:35.140 So that leaves a bunch of women

05:10:37.300 who earn this level of money

05:10:38.900 with a lack of prospects

05:10:41.800 because the guys who can support a family

05:10:45.180 on their income,

05:10:46.640 he doesn't need you.

05:10:50.840 He's going to go date a barista.

05:10:53.780 He's going to date a woman

05:10:54.920 who wants to be a stay-at-home mom

05:10:56.420 who's not prioritizing her career

05:10:58.560 over family and kids.

05:10:59.760 I don't know.

05:11:05.400 That thought crossed my mind recently.

05:11:09.040 But also,

05:11:10.420 when it comes to the wage gap,

05:11:12.720 you guys want men to pay for first dates.

05:11:16.040 This would explain away the wage gap.

05:11:18.320 You want men who are successful.

05:11:20.200 You're attracted to ambition.

05:11:21.620 You're attracted to men who work hard.

05:11:23.720 When it comes to men occupying positions

05:11:26.140 of like CEO jobs,

05:11:28.240 men who are executives,

05:11:30.340 men who are at the highest echelons

05:11:31.860 of corporate life,

05:11:33.120 men who occupy the more prestigious jobs.

05:11:37.720 You guys are attracted to that.

05:11:39.460 You guys reward that.

05:11:41.440 But you as women,

05:11:42.780 our attraction to women

05:11:44.320 is never based on your status

05:11:46.200 or your success.

05:11:47.320 We don't care.

05:11:48.700 We'll date the hot 20-year-old

05:11:50.680 who works at Chick-fil-A.

05:11:52.520 Don't care.

05:11:54.980 Like, oh my God.

05:11:56.300 She's a VP at a court.

05:11:59.200 Don't care.

05:12:00.600 It doesn't make a woman more attractive.

05:12:02.940 It could be a plus in terms of

05:12:04.420 like if you're bringing some money to the table,

05:12:06.680 it can be a plus,

05:12:07.880 but like at what cost?

05:12:09.560 Because most guys,

05:12:10.720 like if you're a boss babe,

05:12:12.300 you're an ICU nurse

05:12:15.620 who's like seeing people die and shit.

05:12:17.460 Trauma?

05:12:17.920 Hello?

05:12:19.080 I don't know.

05:12:19.820 So I was in a relationship,

05:12:20.980 a very healthy relationship

05:12:21.780 where my ex kind of lost his job

05:12:24.360 for three months

05:12:24.920 and I was a traveler

05:12:25.800 so I was making like really good money

05:12:27.060 at that time

05:12:27.680 and he was very upset

05:12:29.920 that, you know,

05:12:30.500 they just happened to,

05:12:32.340 the job let him go

05:12:33.720 and it wasn't his fault.

05:12:35.040 Like, he was a contract.

05:12:36.920 He was a third-party contract.

05:12:38.740 And I felt really bad for him

05:12:41.640 and I was like, you know,

05:12:42.460 like, and he was constantly searching for jobs.

05:12:44.760 Like, you know,

05:12:45.580 he had a master's degree

05:12:48.840 in like Homeland Security.

05:12:50.540 He was trying to find

05:12:50.980 a really good job in that field

05:12:52.100 and I completely understand that

05:12:53.320 and I kind of like,

05:12:55.460 we took care of him

05:12:56.480 and us together

05:12:57.460 and like in our apartment,

05:12:59.340 like paid our bills.

05:13:00.200 Like he paid his own bills

05:13:01.000 but like I kind of like took care of us

05:13:02.720 until he was able

05:13:03.280 to get back on his feet

05:13:04.280 and he did get back on his feet.

05:13:06.140 But like I didn't look for anyone else.

05:13:08.580 I kind of like supported him

05:13:09.840 and I support him emotionally as well.

05:13:12.400 I was thinking,

05:13:12.780 I'm just trying to make him feel better.

05:13:14.760 And also like my current boyfriend,

05:13:16.380 we've talked about our salary.

05:13:17.500 He makes way less than I do.

05:13:19.760 And I didn't know that

05:13:20.660 until after we met

05:13:22.080 and after,

05:13:23.300 and I really don't care.

05:13:25.720 Like I,

05:13:26.140 because like I know

05:13:26.680 I can support myself

05:13:27.600 but I'm not like,

05:13:28.840 I'm not trying to like show that off.

05:13:30.780 Wait, didn't you say

05:13:31.240 your last boyfriend,

05:13:32.340 he lost his job

05:13:33.360 and you had to hold it down?

05:13:34.900 Yeah, for like three months.

05:13:36.080 And then you dumped him?

05:13:37.060 No, no.

05:13:37.760 We broke up,

05:13:39.020 no, my first boyfriend

05:13:40.220 was the one that I dumped.

05:13:41.120 It was a four-year relationship

05:13:42.240 and then my last boyfriend,

05:13:43.900 I had.

05:13:44.080 You were taking care of him?

05:13:46.140 When he lost his job, yeah,

05:13:47.420 because we were together,

05:13:48.180 we were living in an apartment.

05:13:49.140 Wait, how soon after he,

05:13:50.380 how long were you together?

05:13:51.600 Three years,

05:13:52.220 the second one.

05:13:53.300 And then he lost his job

05:13:55.020 and then how many?

05:13:55.940 After two years of us

05:13:57.440 being together.

05:13:58.280 So you stayed together

05:13:59.000 for a year

05:13:59.480 after he lost his job

05:14:00.900 or how soon after

05:14:01.580 he lost his job

05:14:02.260 did the breakup happen?

05:14:03.540 Yeah, we broke up,

05:14:04.860 I think about a year after.

05:14:06.300 He lost his job.

05:14:07.060 Yeah, because we broke up

05:14:10.940 for personal reasons.

05:14:13.000 I was still more career-driven

05:14:14.560 and he was too.

05:14:16.180 And he lives in Alabama

05:14:17.400 and I live in Massachusetts.

05:14:19.340 We met when he was in Massachusetts

05:14:21.040 and I was traveling

05:14:22.740 and I stopped traveling

05:14:23.540 to go into critical care

05:14:24.620 and long distance

05:14:27.540 was not working for us.

05:14:29.240 We've tried it before

05:14:30.040 when I was a travel nurse

05:14:31.680 and it just...

05:14:33.160 Travel nurse.

05:14:34.360 Yeah, I was a travel nurse

05:14:35.340 for a couple of years

05:14:37.940 when we were together.

05:14:40.420 And so we broke up

05:14:41.840 because it wasn't going

05:14:43.100 to work out long distance

05:14:44.220 and stuff like that.

05:14:45.920 So not because

05:14:46.780 of financial reasons at all.

05:14:48.600 Like we never argued

05:14:49.320 about our finances

05:14:50.120 and I never put that on him.

05:14:52.860 So you chose your career

05:14:54.000 over the relationship.

05:14:55.600 Correct, yeah.

05:14:56.260 And so this time around

05:14:57.780 with my current boyfriend,

05:14:58.740 I'm not doing that.

05:14:59.900 Like I'm at home.

05:15:00.740 I want to get married.

05:15:02.260 I want to have kids.

05:15:02.920 I want to have a house.

05:15:03.940 Like I'm like, I'm 30.

05:15:05.820 Like I'm ready to settle

05:15:07.340 and I'm kind of like

05:15:09.860 comfortable where I'm at.

05:15:11.980 Of course, I'd want to

05:15:13.220 further my education.

05:15:14.820 Like I'd like to like

05:15:16.160 be a nursing professor one day

05:15:17.860 or go into like flight nursing

05:15:19.240 or something like that.

05:15:20.020 But I can multitask.

05:15:21.960 I can do that while I'm at home.

05:15:23.900 I can take online classes,

05:15:25.940 you know, and be with someone.

05:15:27.560 Like I've, I just, yeah.

05:15:28.860 I stopped because I was

05:15:30.680 in a healthy relationship

05:15:31.320 before with this ex-boyfriend

05:15:33.320 and I gave that up

05:15:35.460 because I wanted to go.

05:15:36.940 In terms of both of your,

05:15:38.300 you're with the guy

05:15:38.920 you're currently seeing,

05:15:39.600 in terms of both

05:15:40.380 of your career trajectories,

05:15:42.660 are you going to make

05:15:44.620 more than him?

05:15:45.560 Oh yeah, 100%.

05:15:46.740 You're okay with that?

05:15:48.220 Like I don't judge.

05:15:49.600 Like I was into him

05:15:51.400 before I knew our finances.

05:15:54.700 Genuine desire.

05:15:55.580 Yeah, and honestly,

05:15:57.140 like he treats me very well.

05:15:58.860 It's another healthy relationship.

05:16:00.980 He's very respectful.

05:16:02.500 Like he takes care of my needs.

05:16:03.660 I'm a needy person.

05:16:04.960 You're needy?

05:16:05.560 I'm a princess sometimes, yes.

05:16:07.560 Yes, I can.

05:16:09.340 I can, like, I mean,

05:16:10.300 I will travel over shifts.

05:16:11.340 Like I would,

05:16:11.820 I would like someone

05:16:12.420 to take care of me.

05:16:13.020 I want someone to cuddle me.

05:16:13.940 I want someone to like

05:16:14.700 take care of me as well,

05:16:16.240 especially if I don't

05:16:16.800 take care of myself.

05:16:17.820 Like how can I take care

05:16:19.220 of other people

05:16:19.660 if I don't take care of myself

05:16:20.660 emotionally, physically, mentally?

05:16:22.180 Like I need someone there.

05:16:23.920 You know what I mean?

05:16:24.720 Like it's,

05:16:26.500 and the fact that he like,

05:16:28.180 he caters to those kind of needs

05:16:30.020 that I can't do myself.

05:16:31.520 I appreciate that.

05:16:32.660 Like I don't care

05:16:33.640 about your finances at all.

05:16:35.540 Okay.

05:16:36.160 No, I really don't.

05:16:38.600 And if anything happens,

05:16:39.840 I know that I can,

05:16:41.020 I can cover both of us,

05:16:43.240 provide for both of us.

05:16:44.840 I think that,

05:16:45.620 I think that's a good narrative

05:16:46.540 because outside of the internet,

05:16:48.940 I don't think a lot of people

05:16:50.220 are aware that it's actually

05:16:51.380 not as serious

05:16:52.540 or as highly prevalent

05:16:53.700 as we like to talk about it.

05:16:55.880 Act like women don't date men

05:16:57.640 when they make less

05:16:58.940 or act like if once a guy

05:17:00.860 loses his job

05:17:01.680 that the relationship

05:17:02.380 ends abruptly

05:17:03.460 right then and there

05:17:04.560 because that's not the case.

05:17:05.660 I mean,

05:17:05.880 obviously if you're in a relationship

05:17:07.120 and you guys have

05:17:08.160 probably communicated,

05:17:09.360 you know the status

05:17:10.260 of your finances,

05:17:11.560 you know what you have

05:17:12.400 planned for one another,

05:17:13.540 you know what you see

05:17:14.400 the outlook of the relationship being.

05:17:15.780 So of course,

05:17:16.800 any intelligent woman,

05:17:18.520 when you hit,

05:17:19.360 you know,

05:17:20.560 potholes,

05:17:21.800 bumps in the road,

05:17:22.960 whatever the case may be,

05:17:24.260 you're going to stick by your man

05:17:25.460 for as long as you know you can

05:17:27.460 before you're overwhelmed

05:17:28.540 and say,

05:17:29.040 okay,

05:17:29.280 this is not working.

05:17:30.480 And I don't think

05:17:31.360 a lot of guys out there

05:17:32.340 understand that,

05:17:33.420 you know,

05:17:33.700 so it's good

05:17:34.620 that you were able

05:17:35.280 to demonstrate that

05:17:36.680 based on your situation.

05:17:38.160 I think it also proves

05:17:39.140 a point too

05:17:39.960 that the whole time

05:17:41.420 he was working towards it,

05:17:42.740 it's not like he got comfortable

05:17:44.180 just living off of you

05:17:45.360 and that's a big difference too

05:17:47.100 because,

05:17:47.880 and that goes for a woman as well,

05:17:49.680 as soon as you get comfortable

05:17:51.320 living off of that person,

05:17:52.660 that's where it becomes

05:17:53.400 kind of like,

05:17:54.720 okay,

05:17:55.020 now this is the situation

05:17:56.280 everybody talks about,

05:17:57.720 like this is the problem,

05:17:59.620 but if you're actively

05:18:00.520 working towards it

05:18:01.380 and you know that person

05:18:02.220 can build,

05:18:02.840 you know they're driven to do so,

05:18:04.320 absolutely stick to it,

05:18:06.020 like absolutely.

05:18:07.800 Yeah.

05:18:10.260 Anybody else have any thoughts?

05:18:12.040 Brian wants me to ask

05:18:13.260 a spicy question.

05:18:15.200 Hey.

05:18:16.360 I don't have any though,

05:18:17.760 but do you guys

05:18:18.340 have any to come to mind?

05:18:19.520 No,

05:18:19.740 I don't have any.

05:18:20.580 I thought he had

05:18:21.480 a spicy question.

05:18:22.480 No,

05:18:22.640 he wants me to ask

05:18:23.380 a spicy question.

05:18:24.580 I could ask about

05:18:25.340 how you guys think

05:18:25.900 about cheating culture.

05:18:27.700 Cheating culture.

05:18:28.720 Interesting.

05:18:28.900 I've never been cheated on

05:18:30.080 and I've never cheated

05:18:31.220 and sorry,

05:18:32.520 I don't,

05:18:33.160 sorry.

05:18:33.660 Oh,

05:18:33.900 you're good,

05:18:34.180 you're good.

05:18:34.460 And I kind of brought that

05:18:35.500 firsthand in the relationship

05:18:37.100 it's like I don't want

05:18:38.160 to get hurt

05:18:38.740 because I don't think

05:18:40.120 I'm a hurtful person at all

05:18:42.360 and I don't feel like

05:18:43.180 I deserve that in general.

05:18:45.040 So I would 100% expect

05:18:47.580 my partner to not do it

05:18:49.480 and that's what I talked

05:18:50.520 about with my previous

05:18:51.480 relationships

05:18:51.880 and my current one as well.

05:18:53.160 And just,

05:18:54.160 we both agree on terms,

05:18:55.640 like no one wants

05:18:56.140 to get cheated.

05:18:56.720 Like that sucks.

05:18:58.120 I got a question.

05:19:00.720 I saw this,

05:19:01.680 I saw this video yesterday

05:19:03.500 and they were going around

05:19:05.440 asking women and men

05:19:07.880 if the Grim Reaper

05:19:09.600 came to your door

05:19:10.680 and offered to take you

05:19:13.100 or your husband,

05:19:14.480 who would you tell

05:19:15.460 the Grim Reaper to take?

05:19:17.100 Me.

05:19:18.420 And we can start right here

05:19:19.580 and go around.

05:19:20.900 This is kind of like

05:19:21.600 the bullet question.

05:19:21.920 The Grim Reaper's not taking me.

05:19:23.240 So your husband?

05:19:24.560 Yeah.

05:19:24.980 Yeah.

05:19:25.560 Okay.

05:19:25.900 He's not taking me.

05:19:27.060 Okay.

05:19:27.620 What about you?

05:19:28.580 Husband.

05:19:29.540 Husband?

05:19:31.900 I'd say take me.

05:19:33.380 Take you?

05:19:33.900 Yeah.

05:19:35.760 I don't know.

05:19:36.520 It's like the bullet question.

05:19:37.760 It is.

05:19:38.420 Yeah.

05:19:39.200 And I have the same answer.

05:19:41.700 What was your answer

05:19:42.320 for the bullet question?

05:19:43.700 I wouldn't expect

05:19:45.160 my partner to do anything,

05:19:46.540 but I know I would.

05:19:48.040 I would go.

05:19:48.960 I would take me,

05:19:50.140 you know.

05:19:50.640 You would take you?

05:19:51.240 But I would want

05:19:51.980 my partner to do the same.

05:19:54.220 Okay.

05:19:54.720 Yeah.

05:19:56.500 Yeah.

05:19:57.280 I'd want to,

05:19:58.260 me.

05:19:59.300 You?

05:20:00.000 Okay.

05:20:00.880 Yeah,

05:20:01.320 with the bullet question

05:20:02.160 it was more like

05:20:02.700 I just want you

05:20:03.160 to protect me

05:20:03.820 when there's like

05:20:04.380 an emergency.

05:20:05.560 But if the Grim Reaper

05:20:06.200 came to me,

05:20:07.320 I would say me

05:20:07.960 for two reasons.

05:20:09.060 One,

05:20:09.400 because like,

05:20:10.120 okay,

05:20:10.320 he's going to take

05:20:10.820 the bullet,

05:20:11.260 I'll take the Grim Reaper.

05:20:12.560 But two,

05:20:13.120 I think I could

05:20:13.620 talk my way out of it.

05:20:14.860 Like,

05:20:14.900 I'd be like,

05:20:15.120 come on.

05:20:15.460 No, seriously though?

05:20:16.540 Like, hey.

05:20:17.000 I'd be like,

05:20:17.440 come on.

05:20:18.180 You think you could

05:20:18.980 talk your way

05:20:19.520 out of the Grim Reaper?

05:20:20.460 I do.

05:20:20.800 Well, I'll tell you

05:20:21.240 what's working

05:20:21.620 in your disadvantage

05:20:22.480 because the Grim Reaper

05:20:23.220 is still male.

05:20:24.220 He'd be like,

05:20:24.580 hey,

05:20:24.720 you got to give it up

05:20:25.440 if you ain't doing that,

05:20:28.880 then he's swiping you anyway.

05:20:31.660 Oh my God.

05:20:34.420 Yeah.

05:20:35.500 So I would,

05:20:37.420 myself,

05:20:38.280 basically.

05:20:38.780 Yourself?

05:20:39.160 That's all I'll say.

05:20:39.940 If it's my time,

05:20:40.660 it's my time.

05:20:41.540 Yeah.

05:20:42.180 But it don't have

05:20:42.760 to be your time.

05:20:43.380 It could be

05:20:43.640 your husband's time.

05:20:45.300 But I agree

05:20:46.080 with you,

05:20:46.380 the same thing.

05:20:47.120 Like,

05:20:47.240 the bullet thing

05:20:47.820 is like protection.

05:20:49.060 This is like,

05:20:50.360 I'd rather like,

05:20:51.300 I put myself

05:20:52.240 than my husband.

05:20:54.060 Oh, okay.

05:20:54.500 I feel like he,

05:20:56.480 I mean,

05:20:56.960 yeah,

05:20:57.320 I feel like my husband

05:20:58.100 will be a better,

05:20:59.980 like,

05:21:00.360 provider and protector

05:21:01.080 for the kids.

05:21:01.900 Okay.

05:21:02.420 So the women

05:21:02.920 who chose husbands,

05:21:04.020 y'all don't love

05:21:04.440 y'all husbands?

05:21:05.860 I don't want a husband.

05:21:07.160 You don't want a husband?

05:21:07.920 I don't want a husband,

05:21:08.540 so I'm going to take it.

05:21:09.800 Oh, damn.

05:21:10.400 Well, I guess,

05:21:11.340 you don't love your husband?

05:21:13.020 I don't think I,

05:21:13.640 I don't really want

05:21:14.280 to get married,

05:21:14.740 but I do have something

05:21:15.260 to say, though,

05:21:15.980 which is interesting.

05:21:17.380 Yes.

05:21:17.900 I forgot her name.

05:21:20.260 The Monroe Piercing.

05:21:21.980 Oh, me or Carrie.

05:21:22.280 I have a question for you.

05:21:23.060 Yeah.

05:21:23.480 Sorry, Carrie.

05:21:24.500 So you said

05:21:26.180 you would,

05:21:28.840 wait,

05:21:29.460 take your husband

05:21:29.940 or not take your husband?

05:21:31.460 No,

05:21:31.920 I wouldn't take my husband.

05:21:33.240 You wouldn't?

05:21:33.760 No.

05:21:34.700 But,

05:21:35.260 oh, wait,

05:21:35.740 you're,

05:21:36.000 wait,

05:21:36.420 okay,

05:21:37.020 so,

05:21:38.440 no,

05:21:39.840 if I could pick,

05:21:40.900 I would pick me,

05:21:41.840 not him,

05:21:42.740 yeah.

05:21:43.340 Okay,

05:21:43.920 but the thing

05:21:44.440 that's a little

05:21:44.820 interesting to me,

05:21:46.060 you said that,

05:21:46.800 like,

05:21:47.400 you never loved a man

05:21:48.520 and that whole

05:21:49.320 love thing,

05:21:51.440 like,

05:21:53.380 I don't know,

05:21:54.080 like,

05:21:54.320 it's interesting to me

05:21:55.200 if the whole,

05:21:56.100 like,

05:21:57.340 it's your husband,

05:21:58.020 you have kids,

05:21:58.880 but you don't love him,

05:22:00.540 like,

05:22:00.680 you feel like you're gonna end up

05:22:01.280 with someone that you don't love,

05:22:03.260 technically,

05:22:04.060 by saying,

05:22:04.800 pick you over your husband,

05:22:06.020 that actually is love,

05:22:07.640 so,

05:22:08.140 that's why I'm a little

05:22:09.700 confused.

05:22:12.340 Sacrifice.

05:22:13.100 Yeah,

05:22:13.500 because I think that I

05:22:14.700 like to take risks

05:22:16.240 and,

05:22:17.200 I mean,

05:22:17.480 I guess that that,

05:22:18.400 that would be love,

05:22:20.500 you know?

05:22:21.200 Yeah,

05:22:21.600 no,

05:22:21.860 that,

05:22:22.140 that would be,

05:22:22.680 it's an act of love,

05:22:24.740 but I think,

05:22:26.800 you know,

05:22:27.080 I would do it just because

05:22:28.340 I would like to take on

05:22:29.340 the Grim Reaper

05:22:29.920 and,

05:22:30.540 you know,

05:22:32.260 and be like,

05:22:33.100 I don't know,

05:22:33.600 like,

05:22:33.860 encounter the Grim Reaper,

05:22:35.200 I don't know,

05:22:35.720 I think about it that way.

05:22:37.120 Like,

05:22:37.520 I don't really,

05:22:38.160 because,

05:22:38.340 because if he,

05:22:39.400 if,

05:22:40.060 okay,

05:22:40.440 because like,

05:22:42.260 if he dies,

05:22:43.260 like,

05:22:43.480 if my husband dies,

05:22:44.940 I don't know,

05:22:45.420 I mean,

05:22:45.740 I'm,

05:22:46.380 I'm an agnostic,

05:22:48.480 so it's kind of like,

05:22:49.460 when you're dead,

05:22:50.120 you're dead,

05:22:50.800 like,

05:22:50.980 it's not like I'm gonna be able

05:22:51.940 to talk to your spirit

05:22:53.300 or something like that.

05:22:54.680 Yeah,

05:22:54.700 but you get to pick,

05:22:56.000 like,

05:22:56.280 technically love,

05:22:57.180 like,

05:22:57.400 real love,

05:22:57.800 in my opinion,

05:22:58.800 love is pain,

05:22:59.840 love is sacrifice.

05:23:01.180 Yeah.

05:23:01.820 Like,

05:23:02.320 yeah,

05:23:02.740 real morals.

05:23:03.860 Yeah,

05:23:04.140 yeah,

05:23:04.600 I mean,

05:23:05.000 like I said,

05:23:05.380 you know,

05:23:05.680 I would like,

05:23:06.860 well,

05:23:07.900 I mean,

05:23:09.400 I,

05:23:09.660 I would want to,

05:23:11.940 and also,

05:23:12.640 I'm like,

05:23:13.140 super tired right now,

05:23:14.660 but,

05:23:15.880 I,

05:23:17.720 yeah,

05:23:18.060 I mean,

05:23:18.380 I don't,

05:23:18.840 again,

05:23:19.220 I think it's like,

05:23:19.840 the intention behind the act,

05:23:22.080 I just think that it would be really cool,

05:23:24.160 to like,

05:23:24.940 take on the Grim Reaper,

05:23:26.080 I mean,

05:23:26.260 I'm looking at it that way,

05:23:27.560 but I see what you're saying,

05:23:29.280 because,

05:23:29.740 you know,

05:23:29.940 if you love someone,

05:23:30.960 then you sacrifice yourself for them.

05:23:34.880 And also,

05:23:35.360 maybe I should have looked at the question more seriously.

05:23:37.720 Yeah,

05:23:37.940 I mean,

05:23:38.200 you said it in kind of a loving way.

05:23:39.900 I thought you loved your husband for a second.

05:23:42.760 I mean,

05:23:43.280 like I said,

05:23:43.820 it's like,

05:23:45.060 love is a,

05:23:46.420 is a complicated thing,

05:23:47.500 you know,

05:23:47.660 like I have all you need is love tattooed on my torso,

05:23:51.140 and after the Beatles song,

05:23:54.240 and,

05:23:54.640 you know,

05:23:56.120 it's like,

05:23:56.540 it's,

05:23:57.660 I mean,

05:23:58.020 it can mean a lot of things,

05:23:59.500 I feel like.

05:24:00.380 So,

05:24:01.000 like,

05:24:01.320 I can demonstrate acts of love for somebody.

05:24:04.800 Again,

05:24:05.300 I don't,

05:24:05.760 I don't think that it necessarily equates to seeing that person as like,

05:24:12.040 this like,

05:24:12.620 perfect entity that like,

05:24:15.240 doesn't do anything wrong.

05:24:16.660 And,

05:24:16.840 you know,

05:24:17.180 and I also think of it,

05:24:18.040 but that's not,

05:24:18.760 yeah,

05:24:18.940 that's,

05:24:19.300 that's not love.

05:24:20.060 I would argue that the opposite is actually love.

05:24:22.240 If you're like,

05:24:22.780 infatuated with somebody though.

05:24:24.420 Yeah,

05:24:24.720 but you,

05:24:25.120 if you reference an infatuation,

05:24:26.600 and we both understand that that's not love.

05:24:28.560 Yeah.

05:24:28.760 If you're talking about,

05:24:29.240 you know the person's flaws,

05:24:30.540 and you know everything about them,

05:24:31.960 what's wrong with them,

05:24:32.580 and you still accept them anyway.

05:24:34.000 Yeah,

05:24:34.180 that's love.

05:24:34.820 Well,

05:24:35.800 okay.

05:24:36.440 Yeah.

05:24:36.800 If that's how you're defining love,

05:24:38.280 then yeah.

05:24:39.240 What,

05:24:39.520 how else would you define love?

05:24:40.740 Well,

05:24:41.020 I would also think of like,

05:24:42.340 empathy.

05:24:43.340 Because somebody who,

05:24:44.680 I feel like love comes with empathy,

05:24:47.700 and there's,

05:24:48.960 Do you not have empathy for people you love?

05:24:50.440 But you would have empathy for the person expecting all,

05:24:53.320 Well,

05:24:53.500 she's a narcissist,

05:24:54.580 she don't know.

05:24:56.120 No,

05:24:56.640 I'm looking,

05:24:57.120 I'm,

05:24:57.360 again,

05:24:57.800 I'm looking at this from like,

05:24:59.960 a,

05:25:00.900 I guess maybe I'm looking at this like,

05:25:02.500 too scientifically.

05:25:03.320 I don't know.

05:25:03.740 Um,

05:25:04.480 because,

05:25:05.000 you know,

05:25:05.340 there's a,

05:25:05.880 there are differences,

05:25:07.260 there are different types of empathy.

05:25:09.940 There's cognitive empathy,

05:25:11.300 which is what like,

05:25:13.060 you know,

05:25:13.380 a lot of people have.

05:25:14.680 And then there's emotional empathy,

05:25:16.080 which is entirely different.

05:25:17.760 That's like vicarious,

05:25:19.280 emotional experience,

05:25:21.900 uh,

05:25:22.220 with the individual.

05:25:23.760 So,

05:25:24.260 that's like,

05:25:24.760 you can't help but feel what the other person is feeling.

05:25:27.900 Um,

05:25:28.420 I feel like that type of empathy,

05:25:30.440 is like synonymous with love.

05:25:32.860 Where like,

05:25:33.900 when they feel pain,

05:25:35.120 you feel pain.

05:25:36.180 When they feel happy,

05:25:37.420 you feel happy.

05:25:38.260 When you,

05:25:38.920 when you feel sad,

05:25:40.640 or when they feel sad.

05:25:41.900 $200.

05:25:44.080 Chair one,

05:25:44.940 you are beautiful.

05:25:46.300 I love your jewelry and your eyes.

05:25:48.720 Would you date a guy with a house,

05:25:50.800 a boat,

05:25:51.500 and makes $200,000?

05:25:56.400 Who is,

05:25:56.960 you're chair one.

05:25:57.600 I'm one.

05:25:57.960 Yeah.

05:25:58.260 That's for you.

05:25:59.420 Oh,

05:25:59.740 chair one's sim.

05:26:01.300 Yep,

05:26:01.720 you got a sim.

05:26:02.480 This is a sim.

05:26:04.540 I mean,

05:26:05.280 yeah,

05:26:06.400 come through.

05:26:09.060 Let the grim ripper take you out.

05:26:10.620 I know.

05:26:11.440 It's great.

05:26:12.580 Uh,

05:26:12.800 we have a chat here from Jordan,

05:26:14.400 Brian,

05:26:14.980 Myron called ice on Daisy,

05:26:16.480 which is hilarious.

05:26:17.480 Oh yeah,

05:26:17.740 I saw that.

05:26:18.420 He called,

05:26:19.440 uh,

05:26:19.760 that was funny.

05:26:20.440 Um,

05:26:21.200 during our last stream,

05:26:23.060 F that three out foe.

05:26:24.240 Also got to support my girls,

05:26:25.420 Kitty and Elora.

05:26:26.100 When is the F and F and whatever collab happening?

05:26:29.020 Uh,

05:26:29.260 yo,

05:26:29.480 Jordan,

05:26:29.780 thank you so much for the,

05:26:30.680 uh,

05:26:31.160 stream labs message,

05:26:32.080 man.

05:26:32.500 Uh,

05:26:32.860 really appreciate it.

05:26:33.740 Thank you so much,

05:26:34.360 dude.

05:26:35.280 Um,

05:26:36.280 uh,

05:26:37.900 yeah.

05:26:38.580 Do you know that guy?

05:26:39.760 That's,

05:26:40.180 that's my friend Jordan.

05:26:41.860 He,

05:26:42.120 you guys know,

05:26:43.120 she doesn't know him.

05:26:44.480 I actually,

05:26:45.520 yeah,

05:26:46.220 I've known him since I was 16.

05:26:48.760 Wait,

05:26:48.920 you don't do an OF?

05:26:50.140 No.

05:26:50.700 You being honest?

05:26:51.640 Yes.

05:26:52.660 Have you ever done an OF?

05:26:54.280 No.

05:26:56.100 Are you looking at me to ask me?

05:26:58.520 You guys are friends,

05:26:59.260 right?

05:26:59.480 Because I have.

05:27:00.600 Oh,

05:27:00.860 you,

05:27:01.040 you have OF?

05:27:02.060 I used to.

05:27:03.400 You used to?

05:27:04.480 Yeah.

05:27:05.680 Did you ever make a guest appearance on her OF?

05:27:08.080 No.

05:27:08.700 No.

05:27:09.080 I started it when I was 18 and I stopped,

05:27:11.780 uh,

05:27:11.880 when I was 21.

05:27:13.280 I still do,

05:27:14.220 but I used to do.

05:27:15.160 Honestly,

05:27:16.220 dancing's a lot easier.

05:27:17.880 Dancing,

05:27:18.260 I could swipe it away.

05:27:20.140 Didn't do it.

05:27:20.620 Yeah,

05:27:21.020 exactly.

05:27:22.940 Huh.

05:27:23.200 Okay.

05:27:24.760 Uh,

05:27:25.200 interesting.

05:27:26.680 Uh,

05:27:27.040 sorry,

05:27:27.440 I didn't mean to just,

05:27:28.240 I was,

05:27:28.600 I apologize for the delays on,

05:27:30.120 on those guys.

05:27:30.860 I was away from the,

05:27:31.560 uh,

05:27:32.340 table.

05:27:33.180 Uh,

05:27:33.680 let's get back into,

05:27:35.380 let's finish up the questionnaire.

05:27:36.560 Uh,

05:27:38.120 women are not oppressed in the United States.

05:27:43.360 Toria,

05:27:43.820 uh,

05:27:44.020 Toria,

05:27:44.440 right?

05:27:44.740 Am I saying your name right?

05:27:45.420 Mm-hmm.

05:27:45.620 You disagree.

05:27:47.720 Women are not.

05:27:50.420 I think you might be the only one who disagrees.

05:27:52.740 Wait,

05:27:52.980 women are not?

05:27:54.780 Yeah,

05:27:55.160 you're the only one.

05:27:55.900 Circle it is.

05:27:57.360 Circle if you disagree with the statement.

05:27:59.980 So,

05:28:00.880 women are not oppressed in the USA.

05:28:03.080 So if you circle disagree,

05:28:04.840 it would indicate that you think women are oppressed in the United States.

05:28:09.500 Which is your position,

05:28:10.680 right?

05:28:12.300 Yeah.

05:28:13.040 Okay,

05:28:13.380 how are women oppressed?

05:28:14.220 Um,

05:28:17.460 my brain is not working right now.

05:28:20.560 I am cooked.

05:28:21.660 Um,

05:28:22.240 Damien.

05:28:23.660 Damien.

05:28:24.900 Damien.

05:28:25.340 Damien.

05:28:27.100 Uh,

05:28:27.980 I don't know why I repeated it here.

05:28:30.700 We need energy shots.

05:28:32.120 You're taking an energy shot,

05:28:33.420 and you're taking an energy shot.

05:28:35.060 Performance time.

05:28:36.080 Yeah.

05:28:36.360 Can you pour it into the little mini cups?

05:28:38.080 They get to take little mini shots,

05:28:39.660 like they're little dwarves.

05:28:41.740 You guys are dwarves.

05:28:42.680 Little dwarves.

05:28:43.540 Little dwarves.

05:28:44.220 Who else wants a shot of energy juice?

05:28:46.580 Yeah,

05:28:46.840 let me get one too.

05:28:47.960 You're taking it.

05:28:48.500 You're taking it.

05:28:48.960 If you say you're tired on the podcast,

05:28:50.280 you got to take one.

05:28:51.140 She's taking one.

05:28:51.900 Perfect.

05:28:53.180 While you are in a comatose state,

05:28:55.860 why don't you explain to me though,

05:28:57.200 how women are oppressed?

05:28:58.120 Um,

05:28:58.620 bring,

05:29:04.580 bring,

05:29:04.600 bring,

05:29:05.700 hello,

05:29:06.000 are you on drugs?

05:29:06.760 Hello?

05:29:07.120 I am,

05:29:07.580 I am.

05:29:08.380 You,

05:29:08.640 wait,

05:29:08.900 oh,

05:29:09.260 she just said yes.

05:29:10.280 I need to pass this.

05:29:11.980 You're the only one

05:29:13.360 who said yes,

05:29:15.440 so you're the only one,

05:29:16.580 you can't pass it.

05:29:17.400 There's no one to pass to.

05:29:18.800 He's asking like,

05:29:19.580 just two Damien,

05:29:20.580 just two shots.

05:29:21.440 Do women have rights here

05:29:22.820 or do women not have rights?

05:29:25.160 Well,

05:29:25.420 are they oppressed?

05:29:26.320 Yeah,

05:29:26.640 I wouldn't say that.

05:29:27.380 We're not quite,

05:29:28.140 well,

05:29:28.300 she also said women,

05:29:29.680 she disagrees that women have equal rights to men in the USA,

05:29:32.320 so we'll just combine those two.

05:29:33.940 That's 11.

05:29:35.180 Chris,

05:29:35.440 you also think women do not have equal rights to men in the United States.

05:29:41.380 What did I say?

05:29:42.580 You want to just give it to her and we'll just pass it down?

05:29:45.660 Yeah.

05:29:46.000 Pass it down.

05:29:47.780 Thank you.

05:29:48.860 Was that one of the little small ones,

05:29:51.620 Damien,

05:29:51.900 or the,

05:29:53.040 from a bottle?

05:29:54.620 Celsius.

05:29:55.180 Okay,

05:29:55.460 so it's not much.

05:29:56.240 Enough caffeine to get you guys going.

05:29:57.720 Okay,

05:30:01.520 here,

05:30:01.780 I'll skip to you while she gathers her brain.

05:30:04.300 So,

05:30:05.020 wait,

05:30:05.220 were you asking me a question?

05:30:07.480 Women have equal rights to men in the USA.

05:30:09.700 You disagree.

05:30:10.520 Why is that?

05:30:11.200 So,

05:30:11.980 I messed up.

05:30:13.440 I was thinking something else.

05:30:15.820 What were you thinking?

05:30:18.120 Or lack thereof?

05:30:18.940 just how,

05:30:19.960 it's technically not a right,

05:30:21.240 so I feel that wrong.

05:30:22.440 What is?

05:30:23.460 In other words,

05:30:24.220 I feel like

05:30:24.800 men

05:30:26.360 think they could have two girlfriends,

05:30:28.200 but it's wrong for a woman to have

05:30:30.200 two boyfriends.

05:30:31.560 Like,

05:30:31.720 let's say you're in a relationship.

05:30:32.960 They want

05:30:33.540 two girlfriends,

05:30:34.500 but you can't have two boyfriends.

05:30:36.960 But that's not a woman's,

05:30:38.600 it's,

05:30:39.760 yeah.

05:30:40.680 So,

05:30:41.040 I goofed up on that.

05:30:41.760 Sorry.

05:30:42.720 I mean,

05:30:43.120 and a woman could have that exact same dynamic.

05:30:46.260 She could dictate that dynamic to a man.

05:30:48.760 She could be like,

05:30:49.340 you're going to be monogamous to me,

05:30:50.400 but I'm going to fuck other dudes.

05:30:51.900 No,

05:30:52.120 what I'm saying is it's crazy that men think it's not the same.

05:30:54.440 Like,

05:30:54.600 I actually had this argument earlier today.

05:30:56.240 I mean,

05:30:57.280 we could probably argue that.

05:30:58.760 Yeah,

05:30:59.040 definitely could argue that.

05:30:59.800 We could argue it.

05:31:00.960 Definitely could argue that.

05:31:02.000 So,

05:31:02.240 you're saying,

05:31:02.920 like,

05:31:03.100 let's just say you're allowed to have

05:31:04.540 two girlfriends.

05:31:06.340 I didn't say that.

05:31:07.200 Okay.

05:31:08.160 I'm,

05:31:08.680 I think you're saying,

05:31:10.480 you were saying how there's a difference.

05:31:13.140 Men point out how there's a difference.

05:31:14.760 Yeah.

05:31:15.000 And I don't think that's wrong.

05:31:16.800 Uh,

05:31:17.680 so the difference would be men,

05:31:18.940 men have a natural revulsion to female promiscuity.

05:31:23.360 Here's why.

05:31:24.280 So,

05:31:24.800 because of paternity uncertainty,

05:31:26.180 if a woman is sleeping with 10 different men,

05:31:28.860 who's the father?

05:31:30.280 Okay.

05:31:30.540 What if they don't want children?

05:31:31.920 I know,

05:31:32.240 but it's not the point.

05:31:33.120 It's,

05:31:33.360 it's,

05:31:33.680 it's psychological.

05:31:35.020 That means we still behave as if that's the case,

05:31:38.300 even if that's not the case.

05:31:39.780 Yeah.

05:31:40.420 Well put.

05:31:41.420 Very well put.

05:31:42.040 We still behave as if that's the case.

05:31:44.800 It's kind of like,

05:31:47.240 for example,

05:31:48.400 uh,

05:31:48.760 why are men attracted to women with large breasts and wide hips?

05:31:52.080 Because that this woman is conceivably more fertile,

05:31:55.460 better suited,

05:31:56.420 the big breasts,

05:31:57.440 more milk,

05:31:58.300 wide hips,

05:31:59.200 better birthing fucking canal.

05:32:01.020 But when a man is engaging with a woman just for a casual sexual encounter,

05:32:05.700 he has no intention of having a child with her,

05:32:08.700 but the things in which make him attracted to that very thing are related.

05:32:14.800 He's attracted to,

05:32:15.360 uh,

05:32:16.320 childbirth.

05:32:16.980 Our ability to give birth.

05:32:17.560 Childbirth.

05:32:18.180 Right.

05:32:18.960 But he's like,

05:32:19.540 I don't want to,

05:32:19.960 I don't want to have a kid with her,

05:32:21.060 but like he's attracted to her and wants to have sex with her because of those markers.

05:32:25.760 Mm-hmm.

05:32:26.520 Okay.

05:32:27.600 It's evolutionary psychology.

05:32:29.060 Right.

05:32:29.960 Yeah.

05:32:30.360 And,

05:32:30.600 and generally,

05:32:31.540 uh,

05:32:32.300 expecting fathers and then fathers who are like very monogamous,

05:32:35.880 they have very low testosterone levels too,

05:32:38.200 compared to men who are single,

05:32:39.660 which they've found.

05:32:41.220 So I don't know if you're familiar with.

05:32:42.160 No,

05:32:42.400 I'm familiar with all of it.

05:32:43.840 Yeah.

05:32:44.300 Oh,

05:32:44.620 wait,

05:32:44.880 let me ask.

05:32:45.340 Okay.

05:32:45.580 So there is actually something completely random.

05:32:48.140 And I wonder if you heard this study.

05:32:49.800 There's been a new study that women that are married with children compared to women that are single or in a relationship.

05:33:00.180 The woman that is married with the child is more depressed than the other party.

05:33:05.800 That wasn't the results.

05:33:07.620 There's,

05:33:07.980 no,

05:33:08.140 there's been studies on that recently.

05:33:09.760 No,

05:33:09.960 that wasn't the results.

05:33:11.340 It was about perception.

05:33:12.840 It was women.

05:33:13.520 Yeah,

05:33:13.900 I know what you're talking about.

05:33:15.080 I know what you're talking about.

05:33:16.140 I really hope you do,

05:33:17.420 but it literally said women that have children are married are more depressed.

05:33:22.820 Yeah,

05:33:23.020 but,

05:33:23.240 yeah,

05:33:23.920 but where did you see that study at?

05:33:25.320 Because a lot of times what will happen is the people who report the studies,

05:33:28.760 they misinterpret the studies and they say they sensationalize the heading.

05:33:32.740 They don't actually read the study to understand what the findings actually were.

05:33:36.960 So you could be,

05:33:38.800 that's why I'm saying,

05:33:39.520 where'd you see that study at?

05:33:40.740 Because if it was by a news outlet or like,

05:33:42.980 you know,

05:33:43.360 New York post or something like that is,

05:33:45.280 is very,

05:33:46.120 very likely.

05:33:46.940 Pretty public thing.

05:33:48.200 I,

05:33:48.640 not like I could search it up right now,

05:33:50.040 but it's pretty public.

05:33:51.440 Do you remember?

05:33:52.520 You can just Google it and multiple things will come up and multiple studies.

05:33:56.160 Because I've seen,

05:33:58.940 I've seen similar studies that report the opposite.

05:34:02.800 I have not.

05:34:06.540 Look,

05:34:07.020 I'll get back on track here.

05:34:08.420 So,

05:34:08.760 okay.

05:34:09.080 Did you take your energy shot or whatever?

05:34:12.560 Women have equal rights to men in the USA.

05:34:14.860 Women are not oppressed in the USA.

05:34:16.300 You disagree with both of these statements.

05:34:18.240 So in what way do women not have equal rights to men in the USA?

05:34:24.980 So I think naturally women and men are already different.

05:34:30.880 It's not equal.

05:34:33.240 How so?

05:34:33.940 And there's a lot of also internalized oppression.

05:34:39.640 Maybe it's not here anymore,

05:34:41.520 but you know,

05:34:43.260 throughout history,

05:34:44.460 women had to fight for suffrage and,

05:34:47.600 you know,

05:34:49.560 do a lot to earn their rights.

05:34:53.200 And I think even myself,

05:34:57.260 like I have some of that internalized,

05:34:59.880 like,

05:35:00.140 oh,

05:35:00.420 I don't respect if a woman is in charge as much sometimes,

05:35:05.960 which I've come to terms with and saw.

05:35:09.820 Is there a reason why?

05:35:11.680 Because of the way I think I've understood the patriarchy and saw myself through that lens,

05:35:20.320 you know?

05:35:22.400 So it's the patriarchy's fault?

05:35:25.200 Like there has,

05:35:27.020 there's been no pattern recognition when you've had like a female boss?

05:35:32.560 Hmm.

05:35:33.060 Well,

05:35:34.700 I think just,

05:35:36.940 just like in the past,

05:35:39.820 yeah.

05:35:40.140 And noticing that within myself.

05:35:41.740 Yeah.

05:35:42.000 So,

05:35:42.220 I mean,

05:35:42.400 okay,

05:35:42.600 we can talk about like historical stuff,

05:35:44.340 but like,

05:35:44.680 how about just maybe to make it a little easier?

05:35:47.540 Are there any rights that a man has today that the woman doesn't?

05:35:50.860 Um,

05:35:54.740 it's changing now.

05:35:58.020 Like abortion stuff.

05:36:00.620 It's different.

05:36:01.600 I'll address that,

05:36:02.400 but is,

05:36:02.760 is there anything else besides abortion?

05:36:05.740 Um,

05:36:06.780 probably are.

05:36:08.520 I'm not thinking of them right now.

05:36:09.880 I can give you a moment if you'd like to try to manifest one,

05:36:17.200 but,

05:36:17.940 um,

05:36:19.080 okay.

05:36:20.200 Well,

05:36:20.380 while you're manifesting one of the ways in which women don't have equal rights to

05:36:23.840 men in the United States today,

05:36:25.560 uh,

05:36:26.940 I guess on the abortion thing,

05:36:29.540 men don't have any reproductive rights.

05:36:31.580 So I actually think this is,

05:36:33.300 you're almost making the opposite argument that women have more rights than men do.

05:36:36.700 But what,

05:36:42.140 what reproductive rights do men need?

05:36:46.140 They are fathers.

05:36:49.020 They contribute to pregnancy,

05:36:50.760 but they don't have any rights.

05:36:56.420 I mean,

05:36:57.080 I guess there's the sign of the prenup and there's also that shit.

05:37:01.540 There should sign a prenup.

05:37:02.580 What do you mean?

05:37:04.860 Um,

05:37:05.340 I don't know.

05:37:08.640 You,

05:37:09.100 come on.

05:37:10.300 I don't know.

05:37:10.800 I don't know.

05:37:11.340 You wait.

05:37:12.780 Please don't play with the cup.

05:37:13.900 Sorry.

05:37:13.920 Um,

05:37:15.240 I was just going to say,

05:37:16.560 I think that like on the question itself and just like something I always try to like

05:37:21.100 encourage other like American women to recognize and just like while we have this moment is

05:37:26.140 that a lot of the time we're actually really privileged here in America to have the rights we

05:37:30.200 do as females and there's countries like Iraq and Iran.

05:37:34.720 Afghanistan where I literally saw a story of a young woman's tongue being cut out of her

05:37:40.380 mouth for speaking poetry in the public square.

05:37:42.820 So we are extremely privileged even if certain people feel like certain things have been

05:37:49.220 skewed,

05:37:49.680 maybe not in the favor that they'd like.

05:37:51.640 And so that's always something I just try to like encourage us to remember is that we're

05:37:55.240 actually extremely privileged compared to other countries in our rights and oppression,

05:38:00.120 that kind of stuff.

05:38:00.660 And I actually think that's a byproduct of just how privileged you are because you start

05:38:06.320 to create phantom issues.

05:38:08.020 You start to believe that things are actually wrong and want to look for problems in society,

05:38:13.480 especially as women,

05:38:14.680 because you have it so good.

05:38:16.180 Because if you could compare the state of American society for women to other countries

05:38:20.780 where women are still second class citizens,

05:38:22.900 you realize like,

05:38:23.940 damn,

05:38:24.220 we do have it made.

05:38:25.500 Like we could easily not have education.

05:38:28.640 We could not be allowed to speak.

05:38:30.540 We could all of these things that women in public by yourself.

05:38:33.180 So all of that.

05:38:34.360 Yeah.

05:38:34.760 Yeah.

05:38:35.540 Yeah.

05:38:36.360 I feel like in other countries,

05:38:37.860 women are seen as like property almost where they just can't express themselves as

05:38:43.880 much as we are able to hear.

05:38:45.280 Like we can wear crop tops.

05:38:47.240 We can like flash our boobs.

05:38:48.340 We can do all that.

05:38:49.120 And like we can have these conversations.

05:38:51.240 Yeah.

05:38:51.800 Like openly and not be persecuted.

05:38:55.980 Exactly.

05:38:56.860 Yep.

05:39:00.140 Were you able to in that moment,

05:39:01.960 were you able to think of any ways that women don't have equal rights?

05:39:08.880 Well,

05:39:09.340 I was thinking more historically.

05:39:11.460 Okay.

05:39:11.880 Sure.

05:39:13.360 Well,

05:39:13.880 I'll quit.

05:39:14.480 I'll finish on the abortion thing really quick.

05:39:16.420 So like as a woman,

05:39:18.040 once she gets pregnant,

05:39:19.220 pretty much she has all control.

05:39:21.280 She has all,

05:39:21.780 she has all power.

05:39:22.900 She can actually exert massive amounts of power over the man in that situation.

05:39:26.840 Um,

05:39:28.020 but once she's pregnant,

05:39:31.220 she has all the decision making.

05:39:33.760 Now I acknowledge that some States abortion is illegal,

05:39:36.740 but a woman could always travel to a state where it is,

05:39:38.880 uh,

05:39:39.540 legal and certainly States where it is legal.

05:39:42.100 There's absolutely no question that she has a hundred percent,

05:39:44.900 uh,

05:39:45.620 ability to make decisions related to this.

05:39:47.440 In addition to that,

05:39:48.600 once the child is born,

05:39:50.040 she can make a couple other determinations.

05:39:52.580 There's safe Harbor laws.

05:39:54.080 So the woman can go to like a fire station.

05:39:57.000 And I think 30 days post birth,

05:39:59.020 she can just drop it at the fire station.

05:40:01.900 No questions asked.

05:40:03.540 No question.

05:40:04.540 Can totally,

05:40:05.540 uh,

05:40:06.680 anonymous,

05:40:07.560 totally,

05:40:07.900 totally anonymous.

05:40:08.940 Just give it up.

05:40:09.860 She's not going to have,

05:40:10.620 there's no financial ramification.

05:40:12.500 She won't have to pay.

05:40:13.120 My understanding,

05:40:14.340 she won't have to pay child support.

05:40:16.840 She could opt to adopt it.

05:40:18.500 She could unilaterally without the fathers.

05:40:23.020 I,

05:40:23.500 I do think perhaps I'd have to research this a bit more name is on the birth

05:40:27.340 certificate or not.

05:40:28.820 That changes.

05:40:29.580 I don't know the,

05:40:31.520 all the dynamics.

05:40:32.540 Exactly.

05:40:33.540 If they're not married,

05:40:35.100 my understanding,

05:40:35.720 if they're married,

05:40:36.660 there's a presumption.

05:40:38.280 I think,

05:40:39.300 I don't know exactly.

05:40:40.060 I don't know.

05:40:40.500 Like,

05:40:40.920 does he have to sign the,

05:40:41.700 I'll know exactly how it works.

05:40:43.120 If they're not married though,

05:40:44.520 the woman has incredible choice when it comes to much more choice as to,

05:40:49.200 uh,

05:40:49.980 what she can do with the child.

05:40:51.520 Absolutely.

05:40:52.400 Um,

05:40:53.420 now a father who wants to be in that child's life can intervene in some

05:40:56.580 ways.

05:40:56.880 I don't know if there's with the safe Harbor laws,

05:40:58.740 if the father would be able to somehow claim the child,

05:41:01.680 I don't know exactly.

05:41:02.320 Again,

05:41:02.680 it depends if his name is on the birth certificate or not.

05:41:05.760 If it's on like the hospital note,

05:41:07.760 no,

05:41:08.720 cause then he has more rights to go for that kid or to have claim.

05:41:14.220 Now,

05:41:14.500 I don't know if there's situations where the mom could like prevent the

05:41:17.580 father from like going to see her in the hospital.

05:41:20.500 She could probably deny like a given man who's not like she could,

05:41:25.460 she could probably,

05:41:26.140 I'm pretty sure a woman could even deny her husband from being able to go see

05:41:30.420 her in the hospital if she was so inclined.

05:41:32.220 Right.

05:41:32.820 So,

05:41:33.780 um,

05:41:34.960 I don't know the specifics of like the birth certificate stuff,

05:41:37.720 but there's safe Harbor laws.

05:41:38.860 They can do adoption,

05:41:40.740 unilateral adoption.

05:41:42.100 And then,

05:41:43.000 or they could just choose to get an abortion,

05:41:47.120 get rid of the kid.

05:41:48.560 So,

05:41:49.200 whereas the man,

05:41:50.800 once the woman is pregnant,

05:41:52.020 your choices cease from conception,

05:41:55.160 you have no rights at all.

05:41:59.960 Here's what can happen.

05:42:01.920 Uh,

05:42:02.340 you can ask her to get an abortion,

05:42:04.200 but it's ultimately her choice.

05:42:06.000 So from there on out,

05:42:08.360 if she chooses to have the abortion,

05:42:10.920 but you don't want to have the abortion,

05:42:13.040 you have zero say.

05:42:13.940 Like,

05:42:14.100 let's say you want her to keep the kid.

05:42:15.660 You would have zero say in a state where abortion is legal.

05:42:19.680 So there's that.

05:42:20.640 So that's a kind of one component.

05:42:23.680 And then the secondary component would be,

05:42:25.440 she has the kid and she wants to keep it.

05:42:28.560 You don't want the kid,

05:42:29.680 but she keeps it and delivers the baby.

05:42:32.320 And she's going to raise the kid.

05:42:33.800 You're now on the hook for 18 years of child support,

05:42:36.680 despite your unwillingness to be a father.

05:42:39.320 So women can force men into fatherhood.

05:42:41.580 And then this,

05:42:42.580 I think the third thing would be,

05:42:44.400 uh,

05:42:44.820 well,

05:42:45.060 she can give it up safe Harbor adoption.

05:42:47.680 And it can be an uphill battle for the man to actually,

05:42:50.920 if he wants the kid to get the kid.

05:42:59.600 Do you have,

05:43:00.580 do you want to offer a rebuttal or a response or?

05:43:07.720 Yeah,

05:43:08.160 I'm talking to you.

05:43:08.980 Hello.

05:43:09.380 Oh my God,

05:43:10.060 bro.

05:43:10.440 I'm sorry.

05:43:10.860 I'm getting frustrated with you,

05:43:11.880 but like,

05:43:12.220 Holy fuck guys.

05:43:13.040 Come on.

05:43:17.340 Oh my God,

05:43:18.020 please.

05:43:22.060 Typically in the conversation,

05:43:23.620 somebody speaks for a little bit.

05:43:25.240 I kind of went on.

05:43:27.860 The other person responds.

05:43:29.820 Or are you just stonewalling?

05:43:31.200 Is this what you do in relationships?

05:43:32.440 You just stonewall.

05:43:33.360 Don't respond.

05:43:34.520 Just look at them.

05:43:35.460 I hate that.

05:43:36.740 I hate that.

05:43:37.440 That drives me crazy.

05:43:39.360 I mean,

05:43:39.980 I think abortion is a smoke screen.

05:43:43.020 Okay.

05:43:43.400 The way that I see it.

05:43:44.860 It's just like,

05:43:45.860 you know,

05:43:46.180 cause it's,

05:43:46.900 it really isn't fair.

05:43:47.880 I think that men have very little say in what happens to their unborn child.

05:43:54.440 Um,

05:43:54.800 I don't consider myself pro-life,

05:43:56.740 but I do understand how somebody could be pro-life and I wouldn't have an abortion,

05:44:00.940 uh,

05:44:01.900 because it's not solely,

05:44:03.760 it wouldn't solely be my child.

05:44:05.460 So,

05:44:06.560 you know,

05:44:06.800 how,

05:44:07.160 how could I exclusively have a say over what happens to that child?

05:44:11.960 Um,

05:44:12.320 but at the same time,

05:44:13.100 I don't think making it illegal is actually going to do anything,

05:44:15.900 but does anyone other than me want to talk about this?

05:44:19.760 I was asking her.

05:44:21.140 Well,

05:44:21.640 I know,

05:44:22.080 but somebody had to say something.

05:44:23.600 I mean,

05:44:24.200 uh,

05:44:25.520 yeah.

05:44:29.420 What do you want to talk?

05:44:32.740 Um,

05:44:33.180 how are women oppressed in the United States?

05:44:39.540 Hmm.

05:44:40.500 Um,

05:44:40.980 I was saying historically with voting rights,

05:44:44.220 education.

05:44:45.540 Yeah.

05:44:46.040 Yeah.

05:44:46.420 But I didn't know you meant like right now.

05:44:48.500 So they're women are not oppressed right now.

05:44:50.560 I think not systematically,

05:44:53.080 not systematically maybe,

05:44:55.600 but through,

05:44:56.320 you know,

05:44:57.320 like generational inherited oppressions,

05:45:01.940 general generational inherited oppression.

05:45:08.720 In some ways.

05:45:10.120 Okay.

05:45:10.320 It was internalized.

05:45:11.520 I mean,

05:45:11.740 I could,

05:45:12.280 we could get into some historical stuff,

05:45:14.780 but I don't know how fruitful that's conversation would even be.

05:45:18.260 Um,

05:45:18.660 do you think,

05:45:20.760 uh,

05:45:21.220 women not being able to vote is an example of,

05:45:23.580 uh,

05:45:24.500 women not having equal rights?

05:45:27.320 Historically.

05:45:27.860 Yeah.

05:45:28.340 Even though they've had the right to,

05:45:29.620 you know,

05:45:29.820 they have had the right to vote for over a hundred years now.

05:45:32.740 Mm-hmm.

05:45:33.300 Definitely before.

05:45:34.300 Yeah.

05:45:34.820 No,

05:45:35.120 no voice.

05:45:36.700 Mm-hmm.

05:45:36.940 Mm-hmm.

05:45:38.380 Do you think it's unfair

05:45:40.240 that women were able to secure the right to vote

05:45:44.880 without any corresponding responsibility to the country?

05:45:48.660 What do you mean?

05:45:51.060 No.

05:45:51.280 Like women don't have duties.

05:45:53.260 So women are like children.

05:45:54.680 They don't have responsibility.

05:45:58.420 I'll explain.

05:45:59.140 You're talking like drafting and.

05:46:00.200 Yes.

05:46:00.500 I'll explain.

05:46:01.540 So men,

05:46:02.560 in order to be able to vote,

05:46:04.760 even today,

05:46:05.320 you need to register for the selective service.

05:46:07.860 You need to be subject,

05:46:08.900 subject to the potential of forced military conscription,

05:46:12.420 even today in 2025.

05:46:14.180 Even today in 2025,

05:46:15.960 there's nothing corresponding

05:46:17.500 that pertains to any sort of civil service for women.

05:46:20.480 Women are not required to register for selective service.

05:46:23.800 Men's rights organizations have tried time and time again

05:46:27.260 to get some semblance of equality.

05:46:30.240 Mind you,

05:46:30.600 feminists have never,

05:46:32.020 feminists who purport to be in favor of equality,

05:46:34.540 have never actually advocated or lobbied

05:46:37.740 for an equalization

05:46:39.040 when it comes to forced military conscription.

05:46:40.780 In 2025,

05:46:42.260 women are completely,

05:46:44.320 in a rather privileged sense,

05:46:46.840 they are immune to being drafted

05:46:50.900 to forced military conscription.

05:46:53.540 This is rather unequal.

05:46:56.220 And I think an advantage of male oppression,

05:46:58.560 or an example of male oppression,

05:47:01.080 and an example of unequal rights

05:47:03.100 as it pertains to men.

05:47:04.400 So that's a bit confusing to me

05:47:09.560 that women,

05:47:12.820 you were able to secure the right to vote,

05:47:14.580 the same right to vote

05:47:16.620 that men have had to die for,

05:47:19.340 you kind of just secured it

05:47:21.100 without any responsibility.

05:47:24.660 But men have a responsibility to this country.

05:47:26.500 I would say women fought really hard

05:47:30.960 to support that.

05:47:33.160 Don't care.

05:47:33.740 And also,

05:47:34.820 what was I going to say?

05:47:36.640 And during that time,

05:47:37.560 women had taken over the jobs

05:47:39.500 while the men were at war.

05:47:40.960 So no,

05:47:41.420 they weren't going to war,

05:47:42.620 but they had achieved those jobs.

05:47:45.220 Yeah,

05:47:45.620 you're talking during World War II,

05:47:47.360 like Rosie the Riveter?

05:47:49.560 Yeah.

05:47:50.080 Okay.

05:47:50.640 If we're talking historically,

05:47:52.120 yes.

05:47:52.260 Tell you what,

05:47:53.040 if we,

05:47:53.480 if we,

05:47:54.080 let's,

05:47:56.580 let's do this.

05:47:57.500 Time machine.

05:47:58.460 We send you back to 1939.

05:48:01.080 You can choose

05:48:02.420 to be a woman

05:48:03.940 working in a factory

05:48:05.380 making shells

05:48:07.860 or helping make tanks

05:48:09.620 or something.

05:48:11.080 Or,

05:48:11.900 or,

05:48:13.380 you could be

05:48:15.180 like fighting in Poland

05:48:18.740 or something.

05:48:21.360 And be a man.

05:48:22.740 I mean,

05:48:22.960 so you're,

05:48:23.560 you could be a woman

05:48:24.160 and you have to work

05:48:25.540 in the factory.

05:48:26.420 Oh no.

05:48:27.420 Or would you rather be a soldier,

05:48:29.800 a male soldier at that time?

05:48:31.400 Which do you pick?

05:48:32.800 A woman.

05:48:34.100 Oh,

05:48:34.340 okay.

05:48:34.660 Absolutely.

05:48:35.080 Yeah,

05:48:35.180 I don't think women laboring

05:48:36.460 or doing like physically laborious jobs

05:48:38.460 is at all comparable

05:48:39.800 to like the horrors of war

05:48:41.140 that men were victim to

05:48:42.660 or witnessed.

05:48:43.340 I'm not trying to compare it.

05:48:44.660 I'm saying that was,

05:48:45.920 I think,

05:48:46.520 the more deciding factor.

05:48:47.640 Here,

05:48:47.840 let me give you an example.

05:48:48.960 Being able to vote.

05:48:49.940 Okay.

05:48:51.220 Let's say a girl

05:48:52.000 just told me she got S-A'd

05:48:53.360 and I told her

05:48:54.100 one time a girl

05:48:54.920 grabbed my butt.

05:48:57.040 Like,

05:48:57.500 that's literally

05:48:58.160 what you're doing.

05:49:02.300 But you see,

05:49:03.100 like you see,

05:49:03.840 oh man,

05:49:04.340 these poor men

05:49:05.080 who got like

05:49:05.760 trench foot

05:49:06.760 and mustard gas,

05:49:08.140 well,

05:49:08.380 World War I,

05:49:09.220 mustard gas

05:49:10.220 or,

05:49:10.720 you know,

05:49:10.920 they died

05:49:11.640 and prisoners of war

05:49:13.860 where they were starved

05:49:14.720 and tortured.

05:49:15.360 But these poor women

05:49:18.160 worked in factories

05:49:20.000 and got lunch breaks

05:49:21.300 and smoked cigarettes.

05:49:25.100 You know what I mean?

05:49:26.640 It's like,

05:49:27.320 okay,

05:49:27.660 so?

05:49:30.760 Um.

05:49:31.900 Is that a checkmate?

05:49:32.760 I'll just take this.

05:49:33.220 Can I add a comment?

05:49:34.420 Sure.

05:49:34.840 I kind of have to agree

05:49:36.220 with you here

05:49:36.840 and I know that

05:49:37.520 I'll probably get some hate

05:49:38.520 for this

05:49:38.860 because I am a woman

05:49:39.680 and I'm like

05:49:40.400 agreeing that maybe

05:49:42.020 women voting

05:49:43.260 wasn't the best thing.

05:49:44.780 I didn't forward that.

05:49:45.900 That's not my position.

05:49:47.000 Well, no,

05:49:47.140 I was just going to say

05:49:48.160 that it is kind of crazy

05:49:49.360 to think that

05:49:50.460 it came into play

05:49:51.800 like women's,

05:49:53.180 women fighting to vote

05:49:54.520 without like how you're saying

05:49:55.840 repercussion

05:49:56.640 in a sense.

05:49:57.660 Responsibility.

05:49:58.140 Well,

05:49:58.300 responsibility.

05:49:59.600 But in the same turn,

05:50:00.740 none of the voting rights

05:50:02.560 that they got at that time

05:50:03.720 applied to them.

05:50:05.140 It applied to the men.

05:50:06.420 So,

05:50:07.200 even their vote

05:50:08.400 at that time

05:50:09.000 was affecting the men,

05:50:10.160 not even themselves.

05:50:11.940 So,

05:50:12.280 I just thought that,

05:50:12.920 I just thought it was

05:50:13.600 weird parallel.

05:50:14.780 because,

05:50:16.500 yeah.

05:50:17.520 Yeah.

05:50:18.580 Yeah.

05:50:19.160 No,

05:50:19.380 but it's like,

05:50:21.400 and also mind you,

05:50:23.120 men only got like,

05:50:25.100 in terms of the group dynamic,

05:50:26.980 men only got the right to vote

05:50:28.360 something like 50 years

05:50:30.020 before women did.

05:50:31.060 So,

05:50:31.680 the time period

05:50:32.580 from when all men could vote

05:50:34.000 to when all women could vote

05:50:35.480 was 50 years

05:50:36.500 in the United States

05:50:37.720 about.

05:50:38.960 So,

05:50:39.300 this idea that,

05:50:39.960 oh,

05:50:40.160 for such a long time

05:50:41.360 men just had all this power,

05:50:42.560 they could all vote,

05:50:43.160 women were like,

05:50:44.220 brutally oppressed.

05:50:45.120 It's actually not true.

05:50:46.000 For most of human history,

05:50:47.920 neither men or women

05:50:49.500 could vote.

05:50:50.000 You'd had kings,

05:50:50.640 you had tyrants,

05:50:51.640 you'd have people in power.

05:50:53.100 Most men,

05:50:53.960 like peasantry,

05:50:54.940 they couldn't vote either.

05:50:55.800 The majority of men

05:50:59.240 were oppressed,

05:50:59.820 the majority of women

05:51:00.500 were oppressed

05:51:01.000 in some way or the other.

05:51:03.140 So,

05:51:03.700 I don't know.

05:51:04.820 Yeah.

05:51:08.700 Okay.

05:51:09.380 All right.

05:51:10.020 It's outside.

05:51:11.460 I mean,

05:51:12.080 just even historically,

05:51:13.800 I mean like,

05:51:14.600 look,

05:51:15.280 there's this meme

05:51:16.140 that I saw

05:51:16.880 was like,

05:51:19.180 it was in 1918.

05:51:21.080 Oh,

05:51:21.300 this woman couldn't get an education,

05:51:22.820 she couldn't vote,

05:51:23.500 and then there's a photo

05:51:24.640 of a guy next to her

05:51:25.700 that's like,

05:51:26.480 oh,

05:51:26.740 well,

05:51:27.160 he couldn't,

05:51:27.860 he died.

05:51:29.420 Men went to war.

05:51:31.240 So,

05:51:31.420 it's like,

05:51:32.500 I don't know,

05:51:32.820 it's just an interesting

05:51:33.600 retelling of history,

05:51:34.780 like,

05:51:34.980 oh,

05:51:35.200 men just lived

05:51:35.760 these really pampered lives

05:51:37.100 and they were all

05:51:37.820 really abusive to women.

05:51:39.460 All the men were really abusive

05:51:40.660 to women,

05:51:41.180 they were all wife beaters

05:51:42.200 and they lived

05:51:43.120 really nice lives

05:51:44.280 and the women

05:51:45.360 just fed them grapes

05:51:46.500 and the women

05:51:48.440 were just fanning them

05:51:49.520 with palm tree leaves

05:51:50.660 and the women

05:51:52.800 were just in the dark cellar

05:51:54.740 and just beaten

05:51:55.740 by their husbands

05:51:56.740 day in,

05:51:57.440 day out

05:51:57.920 and they couldn't vote

05:51:59.080 and they didn't have any,

05:52:00.140 they didn't have any influence

05:52:01.540 in society.

05:52:02.340 It's just a total

05:52:03.700 retelling

05:52:04.420 of history

05:52:05.380 that's completely fabricated

05:52:06.960 and completely bogus.

05:52:10.940 The reality is

05:52:12.340 throughout most of human history,

05:52:14.000 men and women,

05:52:15.380 especially in the peasantry,

05:52:17.260 life was fucking brutal.

05:52:18.760 they strived together,

05:52:22.320 they had families together

05:52:23.520 and it was a,

05:52:25.180 the story of men and women

05:52:28.340 and their relationship

05:52:29.300 was,

05:52:30.900 it's not a story

05:52:32.000 of oppressor oppressed,

05:52:33.080 it's a story of cooperation.

05:52:37.880 Yes.

05:52:38.440 But feminists want to tell you,

05:52:39.680 no,

05:52:40.000 oh my God,

05:52:40.480 these men,

05:52:40.880 they're just beating

05:52:41.500 and brutalizing their wives

05:52:43.540 and these poor wives

05:52:45.200 couldn't,

05:52:45.680 it's like,

05:52:46.120 come on,

05:52:46.500 what the fuck,

05:52:47.300 ridiculous.

05:52:48.760 That's very true.

05:52:50.640 A lot of it,

05:52:51.220 well not a proportion

05:52:52.200 are used to,

05:52:53.800 like anything else,

05:52:54.840 is used to

05:52:55.760 stretch a narrative.

05:52:58.380 You're agreeing.

05:52:59.140 Or push a narrative.

05:53:00.580 Like,

05:53:01.600 men,

05:53:02.920 when I say,

05:53:04.040 I'm about to say,

05:53:04.820 men would kill

05:53:05.340 for their wives

05:53:05.980 and I mean like,

05:53:06.960 perhaps in a,

05:53:07.620 a work sense.

05:53:09.060 so you'd have men

05:53:11.180 in America

05:53:13.020 who would go into

05:53:14.860 coal mines

05:53:15.640 work their fingers

05:53:16.540 to the bone

05:53:17.020 and come back,

05:53:19.020 their face covered in,

05:53:20.700 in,

05:53:21.120 covered black,

05:53:22.780 dark,

05:53:24.080 hold on,

05:53:24.600 sorry,

05:53:25.600 not black face,

05:53:27.860 but you know,

05:53:28.380 they weren't,

05:53:28.920 they weren't trying

05:53:29.420 to do a joke,

05:53:30.020 like it wasn't a joke,

05:53:30.920 like they,

05:53:31.400 thank you,

05:53:32.080 thank you.

05:53:32.300 And they got black lung

05:53:35.280 and they were like,

05:53:37.160 fucking spent

05:53:38.040 the last five years

05:53:39.200 of their life,

05:53:39.980 like literally

05:53:40.960 unable to breathe

05:53:42.880 so that their wife

05:53:43.960 could stay at home

05:53:44.800 and take care of the kids.

05:53:46.340 Like these men

05:53:46.940 went into the coal mines,

05:53:49.140 inhaled all these toxins,

05:53:52.340 died at 40 or 50

05:53:54.300 or some shit,

05:53:55.400 probably suffering,

05:53:56.620 like literally lungs on fire,

05:53:59.020 all fucked up,

05:54:00.060 so that their woman

05:54:01.220 was insulated

05:54:02.480 and protected

05:54:03.300 from the realities

05:54:04.840 of the external world

05:54:06.380 and kind of the brutality,

05:54:07.980 most jobs back then

05:54:09.000 were like labor.

05:54:11.720 True labor.

05:54:12.020 Women couldn't work

05:54:12.940 200 years ago.

05:54:14.380 There weren't fucking

05:54:15.200 air conditioned office jobs

05:54:17.140 200 years ago.

05:54:18.720 Yeah.

05:54:18.880 If you were working

05:54:19.840 200 years ago,

05:54:21.000 you were like toiling

05:54:22.540 in the fields

05:54:23.460 and doing physically

05:54:24.500 back-breaking work.

05:54:26.960 Yeah.

05:54:28.120 So I don't think it,

05:54:29.240 I think that would be kind of,

05:54:30.680 look,

05:54:30.900 and I think women

05:54:31.540 were actually involved

05:54:32.400 in some capacity

05:54:33.200 and some physically

05:54:33.920 laborious jobs too.

05:54:36.900 But like men,

05:54:37.760 we weren't,

05:54:38.680 like in terms of women

05:54:39.600 couldn't do that.

05:54:40.500 One,

05:54:40.940 there's the physical component,

05:54:42.220 like some of these

05:54:42.900 physical jobs,

05:54:43.600 women just could not

05:54:44.640 physically do.

05:54:47.220 But I don't know

05:54:48.680 if it's oppression

05:54:49.340 to be like,

05:54:50.100 let me ruin my body,

05:54:52.440 you stay at home,

05:54:53.520 take care of the household,

05:54:54.460 keep it clean,

05:54:55.160 you know,

05:54:55.440 keep the household in check

05:54:57.080 and I'll go out

05:54:59.540 so you don't have

05:55:01.520 to do that.

05:55:02.480 Is that oppression

05:55:03.220 or is that male benevolence?

05:55:06.100 Plot twist,

05:55:07.040 if the men never went

05:55:08.120 to war to save us,

05:55:09.480 we'd never be here

05:55:10.580 complaining about oppression.

05:55:12.960 So,

05:55:13.440 that's a very true point too.

05:55:15.080 No, no, no,

05:55:15.500 in a good way,

05:55:16.200 meaning that like,

05:55:17.380 if we look at it

05:55:18.000 from that sense,

05:55:18.620 like they literally

05:55:19.060 went to war and died

05:55:20.660 so that we could be here today,

05:55:22.160 like generational.

05:55:23.380 But also,

05:55:24.040 who is instigating this war?

05:55:25.840 Like what would happen

05:55:26.780 if women were

05:55:28.260 leading more things?

05:55:30.540 Sorry,

05:55:30.900 go,

05:55:31.080 wait,

05:55:31.300 continue with your point.

05:55:33.280 Like what would happen

05:55:34.480 if more women

05:55:35.400 were in positions,

05:55:37.020 government,

05:55:38.200 you know,

05:55:38.500 like look at,

05:55:39.360 what's that country

05:55:40.020 in Europe?

05:55:41.820 Like Switzerland,

05:55:43.540 Finland?

05:55:43.760 Ukraine?

05:55:45.580 Are you talking

05:55:45.920 about Ukraine?

05:55:46.500 I don't know.

05:55:47.020 You don't even know?

05:55:48.520 You don't even know

05:55:49.460 about the wars?

05:55:50.520 Switzerland?

05:55:51.360 You mean the famously

05:55:53.080 and historically

05:55:54.180 neutral country?

05:55:55.660 Mm-hmm.

05:55:58.740 Switzerland?

05:55:59.200 I don't think

05:55:59.460 they're ran by women

05:56:00.300 either though,

05:56:01.200 Switzerland.

05:56:01.460 There's a country

05:56:02.420 ran by women

05:56:03.920 and the happiest,

05:56:07.040 no.

05:56:07.300 Which one?

05:56:08.020 Who told you this?

05:56:09.500 Who told you this?

05:56:10.940 Australia?

05:56:11.420 That's how Sweden.

05:56:12.400 Well,

05:56:12.880 you know what's

05:56:13.360 interesting?

05:56:13.860 They've actually

05:56:14.320 done studies

05:56:15.240 and they've looked

05:56:16.140 at queens.

05:56:19.580 They compared

05:56:20.000 queens to kings

05:56:20.960 and they actually

05:56:21.920 found that queens

05:56:22.880 were more likely

05:56:24.240 to wage wars

05:56:25.300 than kings.

05:56:26.560 It's this idea

05:56:27.300 that if women

05:56:28.100 ruled,

05:56:28.800 if women were rulers

05:56:29.960 and there was

05:56:30.900 a matriarchy

05:56:31.700 that there wouldn't

05:56:32.420 be war,

05:56:33.060 there'd still be war.

05:56:33.780 Damn,

05:56:34.280 they were trying

05:56:34.700 to swing their dicks.

05:56:36.180 I feel like we've

05:56:37.260 had a hormonal response,

05:56:39.140 we have more

05:56:39.580 of an emotional response

05:56:40.780 where men don't

05:56:42.080 have those things

05:56:42.920 come up as much.

05:56:43.740 Yeah,

05:56:44.000 men could be

05:56:44.380 a little bit.

05:56:45.200 Well,

05:56:45.420 I'm not even

05:56:46.220 going to say that.

05:56:47.160 I'm not even

05:56:47.600 going to take

05:56:48.320 that position.

05:56:49.040 I'm just going

05:56:49.440 to say historically

05:56:50.220 there have been

05:56:51.240 women who were queens.

05:56:52.320 I'm not even saying

05:56:53.140 they were just

05:56:53.620 more emotional,

05:56:54.360 therefore,

05:56:55.360 who knows what

05:56:55.860 the reasons are.

05:56:56.500 And I think men

05:56:57.040 are emotional too.

05:56:57.920 I feel like war is

05:56:58.560 mostly so at the end

05:57:00.460 of the day.

05:57:01.180 Yeah,

05:57:01.200 yeah.

05:57:02.740 Governments waging war,

05:57:03.840 a lot of it has to do

05:57:04.560 with money,

05:57:05.380 not gender.

05:57:06.540 You know what,

05:57:07.300 Q,

05:57:07.480 I want to take

05:57:08.740 the devil's advocate

05:57:09.520 position on that thing.

05:57:11.480 So Q,

05:57:12.060 tell me,

05:57:13.560 debate with me on this.

05:57:14.820 So like men who say

05:57:15.600 women are more emotional.

05:57:17.440 I think women

05:57:18.700 are more neurotic,

05:57:21.040 like a personality trait.

05:57:24.460 Women,

05:57:25.220 I'm not,

05:57:25.500 this isn't like

05:57:26.020 an offensive thing.

05:57:26.920 Women are higher

05:57:27.600 in trait neuroticism,

05:57:29.020 like it's a person,

05:57:29.960 whatever.

05:57:30.460 They're going to be

05:57:31.120 offended,

05:57:31.620 but this idea

05:57:34.580 that women are

05:57:35.340 more emotional

05:57:36.020 than men,

05:57:36.580 I was thinking

05:57:37.000 the other day,

05:57:37.600 I'm like,

05:57:37.960 well,

05:57:38.940 like a really good,

05:57:40.100 I think a defeater

05:57:41.100 to this would be like,

05:57:42.160 okay,

05:57:42.380 well,

05:57:43.700 when it comes to violence

05:57:44.880 and typically like

05:57:45.680 if you act out

05:57:47.900 in violence

05:57:48.400 towards somebody,

05:57:49.180 I think that's

05:57:49.920 an emotional response.

05:57:51.300 Yeah,

05:57:51.540 it's an impulsive response.

05:57:52.840 Like anger,

05:57:53.220 right?

05:57:53.740 And I'm like,

05:57:54.220 okay,

05:57:54.460 well,

05:57:54.680 who's in,

05:57:56.640 and maybe there's

05:57:57.380 a counterclaim to this,

05:57:58.520 but okay,

05:57:59.280 when it comes to prison,

05:58:00.160 when it comes to murderers,

05:58:01.280 when it comes to violent crime,

05:58:02.320 like it's overwhelmingly men

05:58:03.640 and these are probably

05:58:05.020 not like men

05:58:05.840 who are making

05:58:06.440 these decisions

05:58:07.100 when they're committing crimes

05:58:08.240 and they're probably

05:58:09.220 not thinking really

05:58:10.060 rationally or logically.

05:58:11.660 There's probably

05:58:12.300 some component

05:58:13.160 of like emotionality,

05:58:14.640 especially with

05:58:15.160 violent crime.

05:58:16.700 So I'm like,

05:58:18.260 I sometimes question

05:58:19.500 this narrative like,

05:58:20.500 okay,

05:58:20.680 women are just

05:58:21.120 way more emotional.

05:58:23.260 Do you know what I mean?

05:58:23.860 Yeah,

05:58:24.360 I get what you're saying,

05:58:25.640 but also you got to look

05:58:26.780 at it as,

05:58:27.760 in the context

05:58:28.960 of what emotion means,

05:58:30.360 like yeah,

05:58:30.880 men get more angry

05:58:32.300 and are more aggressive,

05:58:33.480 but women in a sense

05:58:35.160 are also more manipulative.

05:58:37.680 Yes.

05:58:38.040 And women get upset

05:58:40.300 really easily

05:58:41.500 and women have

05:58:42.440 a higher baseline

05:58:44.100 level of stress

05:58:45.160 due to the pituitary

05:58:47.280 hypothalamic adrenal access.

05:58:48.700 So women naturally,

05:58:51.160 when they feel anger

05:58:52.720 or upset,

05:58:53.720 they feel it quicker

05:58:54.620 and they take longer

05:58:56.100 to come back down

05:58:57.200 from that level

05:58:58.000 of anger

05:58:59.020 or frustration

05:59:00.220 than men do.

05:59:02.120 And then in a sense,

05:59:03.280 also I think

05:59:03.900 another aspect of it

05:59:05.540 is when we look at

05:59:06.980 just the way

05:59:07.540 women perceive,

05:59:08.520 they're a lot more

05:59:09.180 emotional in their perceptions

05:59:11.080 of what their reality is.

05:59:14.680 I think that's also

05:59:15.880 another component

05:59:16.480 that most people miss.

05:59:17.840 It's not just the emotion

05:59:19.360 that they feel,

05:59:20.320 but it's also the way

05:59:21.140 they look at reality.

05:59:22.520 Like men can sit down

05:59:23.420 and have a logical conversation.

05:59:24.980 You can talk to a man,

05:59:26.140 a woman gets ticked off

05:59:27.360 at something

05:59:27.760 that you say

05:59:28.580 that she don't like

05:59:29.260 and she disagrees with

05:59:30.420 and she don't want

05:59:30.860 to be your friend no more.

05:59:31.900 She's like,

05:59:32.260 fuck you,

05:59:32.900 how could you say that?

05:59:34.320 Whereas you could tell

05:59:35.200 a man the truth

05:59:35.980 and he'd be like,

05:59:36.900 um, really?

05:59:38.480 That's interesting.

05:59:39.660 Okay.

05:59:40.520 You know,

05:59:40.800 I might disagree with that,

05:59:41.860 but I don't want

05:59:42.700 to fuck you up over it

05:59:43.900 unless you're disrespecting him.

05:59:46.180 You get what I'm saying?

05:59:47.380 Yeah.

05:59:47.480 So that's,

05:59:48.140 that's the difference.

05:59:49.080 Okay.

05:59:49.980 Yeah.

05:59:50.960 Well,

05:59:51.320 also women are higher

05:59:52.340 in negative emotion.

05:59:53.780 Yeah,

05:59:53.960 that's what I mean.

05:59:54.460 That's the stress response.

05:59:55.540 Right,

05:59:55.560 right,

05:59:55.700 right.

05:59:55.980 Especially after puberty,

05:59:57.040 just to word it differently.

05:59:58.800 Um,

05:59:59.020 yeah,

05:59:59.180 that would be trait

05:59:59.900 neuroticism.

06:00:00.840 more negative emotion.

06:00:02.400 All right,

06:00:03.920 we'll move it on.

06:00:04.860 Adult age gap relationships

06:00:06.060 are 100% okay.

06:00:07.660 Example,

06:00:08.100 30-year-old dating

06:00:08.700 a 19-year-old.

06:00:09.940 That's a disagree,

06:00:11.460 disagree.

06:00:13.240 Uh,

06:00:14.680 Laura,

06:00:15.300 disagree.

06:00:18.560 Okay,

06:00:19.060 so disagree,

06:00:19.740 disagree,

06:00:20.080 disagree.

06:00:20.400 Why do you guys disagree

06:00:21.080 with the age gap relationships?

06:00:23.340 Start.

06:00:23.780 Well,

06:00:24.280 I'm like,

06:00:24.720 for the 19,

06:00:25.700 at least be able

06:00:26.420 to buy a drink.

06:00:27.960 You know,

06:00:29.000 21.

06:00:29.860 Okay,

06:00:30.040 so what about

06:00:30.480 31-21?

06:00:31.760 Are you cool with that?

06:00:32.600 Yeah,

06:00:33.080 I think that's okay.

06:00:33.300 Okay,

06:00:33.500 so just be able

06:00:34.140 to buy alcohol.

06:00:35.460 Okay.

06:00:35.680 I said the same thing

06:00:38.480 literally on the paper.

06:00:39.440 I put,

06:00:39.820 I think,

06:00:40.220 21 plus,

06:00:41.300 I think,

06:00:41.660 on there.

06:00:42.040 Laura?

06:00:43.360 Yeah,

06:00:43.720 I don't think

06:00:44.680 it's okay.

06:00:45.880 I think there's

06:00:46.420 a certain

06:00:46.840 point

06:00:48.580 that,

06:00:49.540 sure,

06:00:50.060 you can buy alcohol

06:00:51.080 if someone's

06:00:51.820 10 years older than you,

06:00:53.100 but coming,

06:00:54.560 just coming from

06:00:55.340 a relationship

06:00:55.880 where I was dating

06:00:56.600 someone older than me,

06:00:58.100 I was still

06:00:59.440 very naive.

06:01:00.920 I'm still

06:01:01.580 kind of naive.

06:01:02.640 I will absolutely

06:01:03.260 admit that,

06:01:04.480 and I think

06:01:05.120 someone who's

06:01:05.620 older has already

06:01:06.280 gone through that,

06:01:07.260 so it's kind of,

06:01:08.780 I guess it's

06:01:09.280 situational,

06:01:10.120 but I don't

06:01:10.620 think it's okay.

06:01:12.180 But why?

06:01:14.320 Because there's

06:01:15.320 that sense

06:01:16.000 of controlling

06:01:18.180 somebody,

06:01:19.200 right,

06:01:19.480 or having

06:01:20.160 a superiority

06:01:21.460 over somebody

06:01:22.540 in an age gap.

06:01:24.200 I'm not saying

06:01:24.720 that's everybody.

06:01:25.540 I'm sure there's

06:01:26.140 someone older

06:01:26.780 who won't do

06:01:27.740 that to somebody

06:01:28.380 younger,

06:01:28.900 but there's

06:01:29.780 almost that

06:01:30.740 sense of power,

06:01:34.100 like,

06:01:34.400 sense of,

06:01:36.480 I don't know.

06:01:37.440 In what way?

06:01:38.400 Who's your favorite

06:01:38.960 rapper?

06:01:40.020 My favorite rapper?

06:01:40.920 Yeah.

06:01:41.280 Juice WRLD.

06:01:42.260 Is he alive?

06:01:43.140 No.

06:01:43.360 No, he's dead.

06:01:44.200 Give me somebody

06:01:44.880 alive.

06:01:46.320 Someone alive?

06:01:47.280 Yeah.

06:01:47.620 Kendrick?

06:01:48.900 Hell yeah.

06:01:49.760 Yeah.

06:01:50.000 Okay.

06:01:50.440 Would you date

06:01:50.800 Kendrick Lamar?

06:01:52.740 Uh, no.

06:01:53.560 Why not?

06:01:54.280 No.

06:01:55.540 I like his music.

06:01:56.920 I think he's a cool

06:01:57.560 person, but I don't

06:01:58.320 think I would date him.

06:01:59.220 No.

06:02:00.000 Why won't you date him?

06:02:00.700 I think just too petty.

06:02:01.900 Way too petty.

06:02:02.760 He's petty.

06:02:03.560 You're not petty.

06:02:04.920 Not really.

06:02:06.320 He's too petty.

06:02:07.100 Okay.

06:02:07.880 He really went on

06:02:08.980 the whole Super Bowl

06:02:09.900 and trolled.

06:02:11.300 I guess that's true.

06:02:12.020 Like, petty.

06:02:13.280 Okay.

06:02:14.000 But I'm curious.

06:02:15.640 I want to probe

06:02:16.500 because when you say,

06:02:18.360 I'm always intrigued

06:02:20.160 by this,

06:02:20.920 there's this controlling

06:02:21.960 element.

06:02:22.620 Like, what does that

06:02:23.300 look like?

06:02:23.820 When y'all say control,

06:02:25.400 what does that mean?

06:02:25.920 In my own situation,

06:02:27.480 I was 20,

06:02:29.060 and I met someone

06:02:29.660 who was 30,

06:02:30.280 and we had started

06:02:31.200 dating, he would

06:02:32.440 always make a joke

06:02:33.300 that he was raising

06:02:34.280 me.

06:02:34.600 He was raising me

06:02:35.580 as his girlfriend

06:02:36.320 to, like,

06:02:37.480 build a bitch

06:02:38.340 or something.

06:02:38.720 Pretty much grooming.

06:02:39.560 Yeah.

06:02:40.220 Oh, boy.

06:02:41.160 I knew it.

06:02:42.260 I knew when she said

06:02:43.060 that.

06:02:43.440 Go ahead.

06:02:43.760 I'm listening.

06:02:44.200 Go ahead.

06:02:45.160 In my head,

06:02:46.120 I never really

06:02:46.660 thought of it.

06:02:47.680 I was just, like,

06:02:48.920 I was just really

06:02:50.780 happy.

06:02:51.320 I was excited to learn

06:02:52.920 from someone older

06:02:53.580 than me.

06:02:54.140 I was ready to be

06:02:55.540 submissive and just,

06:02:56.640 like, let him lead

06:02:57.900 as a man.

06:02:59.340 And I did that,

06:03:00.540 and it led me

06:03:01.260 the complete opposite

06:03:02.500 way.

06:03:03.260 And that's because

06:03:03.900 I didn't have a sense

06:03:05.040 of grounding in myself

06:03:07.120 and what should,

06:03:08.980 what I should be led

06:03:10.840 by and what I

06:03:11.420 shouldn't be led by.

06:03:12.380 There was no sense

06:03:13.140 of that.

06:03:13.780 So when you're talking

06:03:15.340 about someone who is

06:03:16.940 younger versus someone

06:03:17.860 older, someone's older,

06:03:19.100 who is older,

06:03:19.820 has already gone through

06:03:20.580 things to know that,

06:03:22.280 right?

06:03:22.660 To know, okay,

06:03:24.040 I'm going to let this

06:03:24.740 lead me or I'm going

06:03:25.360 to lead myself kind of

06:03:27.020 thing.

06:03:28.220 I do think that has

06:03:29.420 to do with gender

06:03:30.060 too.

06:03:30.880 Not, again,

06:03:31.740 situational.

06:03:32.700 Not everybody,

06:03:33.640 but, yeah.

06:03:35.660 Do you want to say,

06:03:36.760 like, give an example

06:03:37.580 of something that you

06:03:39.280 said he led you the

06:03:40.220 wrong way?

06:03:42.000 Yeah.

06:03:42.440 In what way did he

06:03:43.140 lead you the wrong

06:03:44.240 way?

06:03:44.580 I, I ended up taking

06:03:47.160 care of him a lot.

06:03:48.640 Okay.

06:03:50.000 Which.

06:03:52.240 Were you paying

06:03:52.840 the bills?

06:03:53.540 Yeah.

06:03:55.000 And I was working,

06:03:56.560 I ended up telling

06:03:57.340 him to work with me,

06:03:58.860 so it felt different.

06:04:00.920 Wait, work with you

06:04:01.620 on what?

06:04:02.600 Like, doing DoorDash

06:04:03.600 and stuff, so we

06:04:04.360 would at least make

06:04:05.120 money together,

06:04:05.780 because I was the

06:04:07.360 only one making money,

06:04:08.520 spending money.

06:04:09.480 Yeah.

06:04:09.880 You guys were

06:04:10.260 living together?

06:04:11.360 At the time, yeah.

06:04:12.280 Okay.

06:04:14.100 Did he have a health

06:04:15.020 problem?

06:04:15.460 Like, when you say

06:04:15.940 taking care of him?

06:04:16.360 Health problem, no.

06:04:17.540 I mean, taking care of

06:04:18.580 him financially,

06:04:19.540 emotionally.

06:04:20.440 Okay.

06:04:21.340 All of that.

06:04:21.920 A lot of guys

06:04:22.700 don't want to work.

06:04:23.740 Well, yeah.

06:04:24.700 But I'm saying in a

06:04:26.020 sense of...

06:04:27.080 Was he a rapper?

06:04:28.220 No.

06:04:28.820 Okay, just checking.

06:04:30.340 Aspiring?

06:04:31.260 You forgot that one

06:04:32.780 song you put out.

06:04:34.520 Yeah, like, with

06:04:35.380 other people, but he

06:04:36.460 wasn't, no, he did it

06:04:38.320 with his friends when

06:04:39.200 they were around.

06:04:39.980 We know a lot of

06:04:40.540 people in studio

06:04:41.460 spaces, it's LA,

06:04:42.760 it's, you're always

06:04:43.900 going to end up in a

06:04:44.580 studio, I think, but,

06:04:46.120 yeah.

06:04:46.920 So, my thing is, I

06:04:50.140 hear that, and that

06:04:52.080 can be in any

06:04:52.880 relationship, any

06:04:54.120 dynamic.

06:04:54.980 That's why I said it's

06:04:55.780 situational, but I think

06:04:57.120 it happens a lot more

06:04:58.520 often with younger

06:05:00.120 women and older men.

06:05:01.960 In that specific age

06:05:03.580 gap, like he said,

06:05:05.040 or, what, you said

06:05:06.540 19 and 30, 20 and

06:05:08.000 30, specifically, just

06:05:10.320 because I have that of

06:05:12.440 thinking, okay, I can

06:05:14.960 trust this man to lead

06:05:17.400 me in the right

06:05:17.920 direction, and ended

06:05:18.980 up losing everything,

06:05:21.520 like, myself, everything

06:05:24.000 we built, because I put

06:05:26.080 my trust that he would

06:05:27.900 lead as a man and do

06:05:29.180 that, and I ended up

06:05:30.220 leading as a woman, so,

06:05:31.880 like, he taught me how

06:05:33.180 to do that, which is

06:05:34.360 cool, like, honestly,

06:05:36.520 props to him for that,

06:05:37.400 because now I could do

06:05:38.060 that for myself, but, I

06:05:40.740 don't know.

06:05:41.240 But you know what that

06:05:41.960 conveys to me?

06:05:43.040 That just sounds like

06:05:43.800 somebody who likes

06:05:44.600 somebody and wants to

06:05:45.500 please them.

06:05:46.700 Now, I reduce it to

06:05:48.680 that because, as I just

06:05:49.800 said, I can't see that

06:05:51.660 only being evident in an

06:05:54.300 age gap relationship, and

06:05:55.520 I wouldn't attribute that

06:05:56.600 to the fact that you

06:05:57.480 guys had that difference

06:05:58.520 in age.

06:05:59.360 To me, it just appears

06:06:00.800 because every woman that

06:06:02.700 I've heard thus far can

06:06:03.800 relate to a story of

06:06:04.780 where she was basically

06:06:07.160 felt like she was taken

06:06:08.300 advantage of, or she put

06:06:10.020 her trust in a guy, and

06:06:11.520 he led her astray, or he

06:06:12.880 did her wrong by whatever

06:06:14.000 metric she wants to

06:06:14.960 utilize, and that's

06:06:15.940 simply because you like

06:06:16.980 him.

06:06:17.620 So, when I say that, you

06:06:20.240 always have to look at

06:06:21.320 what's going on with you

06:06:22.160 psychologically, too.

06:06:23.600 Now, is it easy to get a

06:06:25.420 woman to do what you want

06:06:27.180 her to do when she likes

06:06:27.960 you?

06:06:28.260 Absolutely.

06:06:29.160 You can take advantage of

06:06:30.460 that.

06:06:30.600 You can be like, oh, she

06:06:31.620 trusts me.

06:06:32.100 She likes me.

06:06:32.700 I can probably get her to

06:06:33.920 do whatever I want to get

06:06:35.020 her to do, and she'll do

06:06:36.560 it.

06:06:36.940 In that regard, you're

06:06:37.920 correct, but I think that

06:06:39.180 has more to do.

06:06:39.800 I think for a younger

06:06:42.100 woman, it's a lot easier

06:06:43.280 to do that, too.

06:06:45.680 Do you get what I'm

06:06:46.240 saying?

06:06:46.760 Yeah, but the thing is,

06:06:48.520 see, me, I'm more of a,

06:06:51.160 I'm more of a, I'm not a

06:06:53.080 big proponent of free will

06:06:55.060 in the sense that we can do

06:06:57.840 whatever we want.

06:06:58.700 I believe our brains lead

06:07:00.320 us, and our behaviors

06:07:01.460 follow.

06:07:02.080 Absolutely.

06:07:02.440 So, when you like

06:07:03.800 somebody, that's why I'm

06:07:05.140 saying, even if you were

06:07:06.760 40, and he was 42, it

06:07:10.440 wouldn't matter.

06:07:11.600 He could still, literally,

06:07:12.760 the same thing could

06:07:13.460 happen, because if you

06:07:14.880 trust him, and you like

06:07:15.900 him, and you want to

06:07:16.560 please him, he could get

06:07:17.620 you to do the same exact

06:07:18.840 thing, and you would do

06:07:19.780 it just because you like

06:07:20.820 him.

06:07:20.980 He would just be taking

06:07:21.720 advantage of the fact that

06:07:22.940 you like him.

06:07:24.960 Yeah.

06:07:26.200 Yeah.

06:07:26.860 That's very, very, very

06:07:27.920 true.

06:07:28.340 That's why when I hear

06:07:29.140 the, oh, there's a power

06:07:30.600 dynamic he's trying to

06:07:31.680 control.

06:07:31.980 It's not that, and

06:07:33.100 honestly, I don't see

06:07:33.960 anything wrong.

06:07:34.980 If you're in a

06:07:35.540 relationship, even if I am

06:07:37.220 older than you by 10

06:07:38.240 years, if I'm trying to

06:07:39.680 show you how I want you

06:07:41.380 to love me, or how I

06:07:43.440 think our relationship

06:07:44.480 can work, I don't see

06:07:45.680 the issue in that.

06:07:46.800 The issue only comes

06:07:48.020 after you realize that

06:07:49.600 you did some things you

06:07:51.060 didn't like, and you

06:07:51.980 regret doing it, and

06:07:53.020 that could be because he

06:07:54.320 did you wrong, and

06:07:55.220 whatever way you felt he

06:07:56.160 did you wrong, and you

06:07:57.540 wish you hadn't, and

06:07:58.580 it's just regret.

06:07:59.380 It's coming from a

06:07:59.960 place of regret.

06:08:00.600 But in a sense of, I'm

06:08:03.440 with this girl, this

06:08:05.260 girl likes me, this

06:08:05.940 girl trusts me, I'm

06:08:07.240 going to tell her what I

06:08:08.600 like about her, how I

06:08:09.700 want her to do things

06:08:10.560 because I'm trying to set

06:08:11.700 a foundation of how I

06:08:12.800 want our relationship to

06:08:13.760 work, and how I want the

06:08:14.800 dynamic to be.

06:08:15.540 I don't see no issue with

06:08:16.820 that, and a lot of times

06:08:18.480 that's the argument women

06:08:19.580 make when it comes to age

06:08:20.700 gap relationships because

06:08:21.980 if it ain't, oh, it's

06:08:23.720 icky, I find it really

06:08:24.940 interesting.

06:08:25.320 It always comes from a

06:08:26.900 personal experience.

06:08:27.980 It's shaped by a personal

06:08:29.420 experience, not in general,

06:08:31.240 not thinking beyond or

06:08:32.500 outside of your personal

06:08:33.460 experience, but it's

06:08:34.160 because I don't like this

06:08:35.500 because this happened to

06:08:37.020 me when I did it, and I

06:08:40.000 think that distorts your

06:08:41.720 perception of what may be

06:08:43.520 actually at play, which is

06:08:44.840 simply that you liked him,

06:08:46.380 you trusted him, and he

06:08:47.460 took advantage of that to a

06:08:48.680 degree, but we all do that

06:08:50.100 in relationships regardless of

06:08:51.320 if there's an age gap or

06:08:52.220 not.

06:08:52.480 Yeah, that's true.

06:08:54.980 You're very, very right.

06:08:56.980 Absolutely, and it does come

06:08:58.160 from my own personal

06:08:58.920 experience, which is why I

06:08:59.880 thought that way, why I

06:09:01.380 still think that way, even

06:09:02.440 having this conversation.

06:09:03.900 Yeah.

06:09:04.120 Probably still would.

06:09:05.440 Even, like, if I heard,

06:09:06.920 like, my sister right now

06:09:07.980 was dating someone older

06:09:09.620 or whatever, I would give

06:09:10.560 her that same warning,

06:09:11.620 like, blah, blah, blah,

06:09:12.620 blah, blah.

06:09:13.100 Mm-hmm.

06:09:13.600 Absolutely.

06:09:14.600 Adding this perspective to

06:09:15.820 it now, but, yeah.

06:09:18.740 Hmm.

06:09:20.040 Okay, I'm going to move

06:09:21.100 it on.

06:09:21.440 We have, let me do a

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06:09:48.440 bit, though, so stay

06:09:49.500 tuned for that.

06:09:51.960 So, you know what?

06:09:53.280 Let's do this.

06:09:54.460 There's more stuff on the

06:09:55.440 questionnaire, but I'm going to

06:09:56.360 probably ignore the rest of

06:09:57.720 it.

06:09:57.920 So, final thing, though.

06:09:59.180 Would you rather cross paths

06:10:00.280 with a man or a bear in the

06:10:01.480 forest?

06:10:01.920 Starting with you.

06:10:02.560 Go ahead.

06:10:03.800 Bear.

06:10:05.020 A man.

06:10:06.100 A man.

06:10:06.900 Bear.

06:10:07.640 A man.

06:10:08.600 Man.

06:10:09.240 Man.

06:10:09.940 Man.

06:10:10.640 Okay.

06:10:11.120 Why do you pick bear and

06:10:12.120 why don't you pick men?

06:10:13.840 Because there have been some

06:10:15.440 scary men out there to me.

06:10:18.600 Why do you pick bear?

06:10:20.580 Because you know how to scare

06:10:22.320 away a bear or at least get

06:10:23.680 away from a bear.

06:10:24.520 You can't always get away

06:10:25.380 from a bear.

06:10:25.700 Have you met a bear before?

06:10:26.280 No, but you're just supposed

06:10:27.000 to get big and loud.

06:10:28.440 Is that?

06:10:29.400 That's like the rule of thumb.

06:10:31.440 Have you tested that out?

06:10:33.120 It depends on the color of

06:10:34.080 the bear.

06:10:34.820 That's true.

06:10:35.300 A polar bear, you're fucked

06:10:36.820 either way, I think.

06:10:38.180 Yeah.

06:10:38.380 Because you're fucked either

06:10:39.800 way.

06:10:40.100 Like, mauled.

06:10:43.000 So, you think you stand a

06:10:46.640 better chance against the

06:10:47.800 bear than the man?

06:10:49.500 I think so.

06:10:50.480 Pull up that meme, Damien.

06:10:51.960 I want to pull up the meme

06:10:53.520 with the bear and Kyle or

06:10:54.920 whatever.

06:10:56.220 So, brown bear, nine foot

06:10:58.580 tall, 1,300 pounds, claws,

06:11:00.440 four inches, bite force,

06:11:01.280 1,200.

06:11:01.960 Kyle, 5'10", ew.

06:11:04.020 174 pounds, project

06:11:05.240 engineer, said hi to you at

06:11:06.440 the gym once.

06:11:07.320 Do you still pick the bear

06:11:10.800 or still pick the bear?

06:11:12.460 Still pick the bear?

06:11:16.340 Depends, honestly.

06:11:18.380 Bears are massive.

06:11:19.100 Why do you guys hate men so

06:11:20.780 much?

06:11:21.400 I don't get it.

06:11:22.000 Why do you hate men?

06:11:23.200 It's not that I hate men at

06:11:24.680 all.

06:11:25.040 It's not that I hate men at

06:11:25.880 all.

06:11:26.280 So, you're scared like, okay,

06:11:28.060 the bear could kill me, the man

06:11:29.300 could kill me, but the man

06:11:30.120 could all.

06:11:30.540 So, essay me.

06:11:31.320 Is that like the thought

06:11:32.000 process?

06:11:32.960 I mean, maybe, but I also

06:11:34.160 think, like I said, could be

06:11:40.600 easier to get away from a

06:11:41.720 bear than a man.

06:11:43.120 Bears are fast.

06:11:43.700 Could be.

06:11:44.280 Bears are fast.

06:11:44.740 Depends on the bear.

06:11:46.000 What bear?

06:11:46.500 What do you mean?

06:11:46.780 A strong routine.

06:11:47.840 Adult bear, adult man.

06:11:50.520 Shit.

06:11:51.600 The bear might make it

06:11:52.640 quicker.

06:11:54.440 Actually, no.

06:11:55.040 The bears just eat you.

06:11:56.220 They don't kill you first.

06:11:57.720 Like, you know how certain

06:11:58.640 big cats will kill you first?

06:12:01.220 Bears, they'll just start

06:12:02.400 eating you.

06:12:03.260 They don't care about

06:12:04.060 killing you first.

06:12:04.920 Oh, no.

06:12:05.520 They'll just hold you down

06:12:06.300 and start eating your guts.

06:12:07.880 Eating your guts, eating

06:12:08.780 your stomach.

06:12:08.980 That's why you see the bear

06:12:09.800 survival victims be missing

06:12:10.940 face and missing parts and

06:12:12.760 stuff like that.

06:12:16.880 Okay.

06:12:19.580 So, is part of the fear,

06:12:23.080 like, okay, the guy could

06:12:24.080 essay you.

06:12:24.700 Is that part of it?

06:12:26.940 Well, recently, one of my

06:12:30.420 friends was murdered by a

06:12:33.280 man.

06:12:34.580 Sorry to hear that.

06:12:35.900 Mm-hmm.

06:12:36.320 And I also personally have

06:12:37.900 encountered bears and

06:12:39.260 they're just sleeping,

06:12:40.200 minding their business.

06:12:41.020 Wait, hold on.

06:12:41.720 In Alaska.

06:12:42.040 Was your friend,

06:12:43.120 unfortunately, murdered by

06:12:44.060 somebody that she know?

06:12:45.720 Random person.

06:12:46.520 Random person?

06:12:47.240 Mm-hmm.

06:12:47.420 Random act of violence?

06:12:48.560 Mm-hmm.

06:12:49.040 Mm-hmm.

06:12:49.960 And found out that this

06:12:51.480 person was a serial killer.

06:12:53.120 So, there were others and

06:12:55.500 they look unsuspecting, you

06:12:57.600 know?

06:12:57.780 Yeah.

06:12:58.660 Yeah, no.

06:12:59.420 I think that's the scariest

06:13:00.380 part.

06:13:01.060 Yeah.

06:13:01.240 It is a lot more unsuspecting

06:13:02.960 a bear.

06:13:03.440 You know you're probably

06:13:05.760 fucked, maybe not, you know,

06:13:07.920 but it could be the most

06:13:09.380 normal-looking dude.

06:13:10.560 I want to test this logic,

06:13:11.900 though, because you said...

06:13:13.100 Absolutely ruin your life.

06:13:14.300 I want to test the logic,

06:13:15.220 though, because you said

06:13:15.800 that your friend, I'm very

06:13:18.740 sorry to hear that, was

06:13:19.500 murdered by a serial killer.

06:13:21.820 Knowing that there are

06:13:23.340 serial killers among us,

06:13:25.340 why are you guys living in

06:13:27.600 civilization?

06:13:28.720 Like, you know, like, you

06:13:30.220 should all be in the forest,

06:13:31.420 while those of you pick

06:13:32.080 bear, like, you should go

06:13:33.360 live in the forest.

06:13:34.400 Like, why are you living in,

06:13:35.340 like, Los Angeles, which is,

06:13:37.080 like, one of the largest

06:13:37.680 cities in the world?

06:13:39.000 To make the money to live

06:13:40.340 in the forest.

06:13:41.280 But you pick the bear, and,

06:13:43.620 like, the justification for

06:13:44.700 picking the bear is my friend

06:13:47.400 encountered a serial murderer.

06:13:50.420 There are serial murderers out

06:13:52.060 there.

06:13:52.220 This is just a reality of

06:13:53.540 life.

06:13:56.620 Move to the forest, man.

06:13:58.120 You're in L.A.

06:13:59.160 There's probably, there's a

06:14:00.520 couple serial killers out

06:14:01.500 there right now.

06:14:02.860 I'm trying to go to the

06:14:03.920 forest.

06:14:04.020 Where are you at, Compton?

06:14:04.860 Where are you at, Santa

06:14:06.340 Monica?

06:14:07.020 Where are you at?

06:14:08.760 K-Town.

06:14:09.780 Korea Town, okay.

06:14:10.780 Yeah.

06:14:10.960 Are they from the same

06:14:11.600 area?

06:14:12.520 There's definitely a

06:14:13.500 murderer.

06:14:13.940 There's probably a couple

06:14:14.640 serial murderers in

06:14:15.540 Korea Town.

06:14:16.640 Definitely.

06:14:17.260 Shit, maybe you're the

06:14:18.200 serial murderer.

06:14:19.120 Who knows?

06:14:19.740 See, look, she could be.

06:14:21.100 You could be.

06:14:22.300 The serial murderer.

06:14:23.500 Have you stabbed somebody

06:14:24.240 before?

06:14:24.620 No.

06:14:25.180 Be honest.

06:14:25.660 You've shanked somebody

06:14:26.520 once.

06:14:26.860 No.

06:14:27.740 Okay, whatever.

06:14:28.920 I've never even used my

06:14:29.920 taser.

06:14:31.660 I've used my taser.

06:14:33.360 Okay, well.

06:14:34.420 Never had to.

06:14:35.300 I don't know, the whole

06:14:35.780 bear thing is kind of

06:14:36.460 crazy.

06:14:37.620 You guys aren't just, you

06:14:38.500 guys aren't going to give

06:14:39.060 me any pushback, so I don't

06:14:40.440 even want to argue with you

06:14:41.380 guys.

06:14:42.480 Guys, chivalry is dead.

06:14:44.560 Chivalry is dead.

06:14:45.680 It's fucked up.

06:14:46.880 Holy shit.

06:14:48.040 Like the video.

06:14:49.100 Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:14:50.500 Drop us a quick follow in a

06:14:51.500 Prime sub.

06:14:51.820 Guys, if you're watching on

06:14:52.600 Twitch, please, just drop us a

06:14:54.460 quick Prime sub.

06:14:55.700 Show a little love, you know?

06:14:57.080 It costs a lot.

06:14:58.440 It's a lot of time and money to

06:14:59.780 put the show together.

06:15:00.860 I'm not just, look, I'm not one

06:15:02.200 of these Twitch streamers that's

06:15:03.700 just got a computer and I'm

06:15:04.860 playing video games and there's

06:15:06.180 no, you know, there's not any

06:15:07.520 production cost for them.

06:15:09.520 They're just, duh, I'm in the,

06:15:11.840 I'm in my room, duh, I'm

06:15:13.240 streaming world.

06:15:13.920 You know, help a brother out.

06:15:15.120 If you've got a Prime sub, oh my

06:15:16.200 God, they're on fire.

06:15:17.640 Sure.

06:15:18.120 Yo, DJ2, think for the Prime.

06:15:19.600 That was a good episode.

06:15:21.040 Baguette.

06:15:21.360 That was perfect.

06:15:23.100 Baguette, think for the Prime.

06:15:24.480 Katil, think for the tier one.

06:15:26.420 Posca, think for the Prime.

06:15:27.560 No, I do appreciate it, guys.

06:15:28.580 You know, the show requires of

06:15:30.640 like, you know, absent like,

06:15:33.120 like a CNN, like one of these

06:15:35.440 network news stations or like a

06:15:37.300 legitimate Hollywood production.

06:15:38.560 Like when it comes to like run

06:15:40.920 of the mill YouTuber, streamer,

06:15:42.660 like the, the, the time and

06:15:44.800 money we put into the production

06:15:45.940 is orders of magnitude greater

06:15:47.940 than some guy who's fucking

06:15:49.180 playing Fortnite or some shit.

06:15:51.420 So, I mean, Mr. Beast is doing

06:15:54.040 crazy shit, but that's, that's,

06:15:56.200 that's another level.

06:15:57.300 So thank you guys so much.

06:15:58.380 I do appreciate that.

06:16:00.860 Okay.

06:16:02.260 The bear.

06:16:04.100 Yeah, I'm just gonna, you know

06:16:05.820 what?

06:16:06.100 I kind of want to just do the

06:16:07.580 row session, early row session.

06:16:09.500 And then, and then we're just

06:16:10.720 going to do your notes and shit

06:16:12.020 during the row.

06:16:12.780 Fuck it.

06:16:13.140 We're just doing the row session.

06:16:14.880 You know, actually, no.

06:16:16.280 Well, you know what?

06:16:17.040 Here, we're going to start the

06:16:18.060 row session in 25 minutes, 25

06:16:21.240 minutes.

06:16:21.900 It'll still be early, but I want

06:16:23.480 to get through a bit more notes

06:16:24.340 before we jump into it.

06:16:25.260 So, uh, let's see, where do we

06:16:27.780 go from here?

06:16:28.440 I don't know.

06:16:29.280 Um, okay.

06:16:32.400 I know, I know what we're doing.

06:16:33.740 We got reacts.

06:16:34.420 We got to do some reacts.

06:16:35.200 Guys, let's get the tweets out

06:16:36.440 of the way.

06:16:38.440 There's like three tweets from

06:16:39.880 Kaylee.

06:16:40.980 Did I say your name right?

06:16:41.840 Kaylee?

06:16:42.220 Yes.

06:16:42.740 Her Twitter is based, boys.

06:16:44.300 Her Twitter is based.

06:16:45.560 Oh, here we go.

06:16:46.520 Read it in your voice.

06:16:47.940 Um, Eddie Grill's daughter

06:16:49.480 encourages girls to only date

06:16:51.260 men who follow Joe Rogan, Alex

06:16:53.180 Jones, and the Tates on social

06:16:54.660 media.

06:16:55.380 Okay.

06:16:56.320 And this is in response to?

06:16:58.060 Tim Waltz's daughter.

06:16:59.120 Uh, she was saying, Tim Waltz's

06:17:01.760 daughter encourages girls not to

06:17:03.160 date guys who follow Joe Rogan on

06:17:04.840 social media.

06:17:06.080 Um, and then she goes to say, I

06:17:07.840 don't know how you have the

06:17:08.740 largest podcast in the world and

06:17:10.320 are able to just lie and put out

06:17:12.260 misinformation and straight up

06:17:13.800 lies on your platform.

06:17:15.780 That's rich coming from the

06:17:17.800 Democrats.

06:17:19.720 Um, uh, what's the next one?

06:17:21.440 Oh, scroll down just a tad.

06:17:25.060 This is like your follow-up tweet.

06:17:27.380 Yes.

06:17:27.940 So I got a lot of hate of people

06:17:29.880 telling me that my father.

06:17:31.280 Wait, we got to show the

06:17:32.280 Instagram photo once more.

06:17:35.680 Oh, geez.

06:17:36.800 Because some people are just

06:17:38.360 tuning in.

06:17:39.740 She is the daughter of famed

06:17:42.300 WWE superstar Eddie Guerrero.

06:17:46.000 That's your dad and your mom.

06:17:48.180 Yes.

06:17:48.800 So, okay.

06:17:49.520 Just for new newcomers to the

06:17:51.100 stream.

06:17:51.540 So, uh, let's bring it back to

06:17:52.620 the, uh, Twitch or sorry, not

06:17:54.100 the Twitter post.

06:17:55.600 Uh, so for, for a bit of

06:17:56.640 context on that tweet, I

06:17:57.780 received like over 2000 death

06:17:59.620 threats.

06:18:00.360 People telling me.

06:18:00.700 2000?

06:18:01.340 Yeah.

06:18:01.660 No way.

06:18:02.220 No, seriously.

06:18:02.780 Go, go look at the quote

06:18:03.940 tweets on not just that, but

06:18:05.760 the other ones.

06:18:06.400 Uh, people telling me to kill

06:18:07.900 myself and that my dad would be

06:18:09.620 so disappointed me from his

06:18:11.700 grave for being a Trump

06:18:13.140 supporter and also being a

06:18:14.680 Latino woman.

06:18:15.640 Wait, was your dad a Trump

06:18:17.420 supporter?

06:18:18.000 Well, my dad died young, but

06:18:19.420 he passed away.

06:18:20.580 Like what year did he pass

06:18:22.320 away?

06:18:22.420 Uh, he, wow.

06:18:23.580 He was like 20, 20, 2005.

06:18:26.140 I think it was.

06:18:27.860 Yeah.

06:18:28.160 Oh, okay.

06:18:28.880 So yeah, that was before

06:18:29.680 Trump.

06:18:29.920 Yeah, exactly.

06:18:31.040 And he was just a really,

06:18:32.200 really conservative,

06:18:33.140 traditional man.

06:18:34.100 So context to this, I said,

06:18:35.940 my father was a devout Christian

06:18:37.220 man who was extremely against

06:18:38.620 abortion.

06:18:39.520 He would have never sided with

06:18:40.460 the left, not even for a

06:18:41.480 second.

06:18:41.800 If you think he would, it's

06:18:42.840 clear you only knew him from

06:18:44.100 the storyline.

06:18:45.040 He stood against corrupt

06:18:46.100 elites and would have viewed

06:18:47.200 the current left as extremely

06:18:48.600 blasphemous.

06:18:49.680 My father likely would have

06:18:50.680 been canceled just as the men

06:18:51.980 I named in my last post.

06:18:53.600 He often laughed at the false

06:18:54.860 news articles written about

06:18:56.100 him, much like those men who

06:18:57.260 are facing discrimination from

06:18:58.580 the press and media.

06:18:59.880 Although I'm not a man, I am

06:19:01.040 committed to carrying on my

06:19:02.240 father's legacy in a way that

06:19:03.440 would make him proud.

06:19:04.180 As a daughter who has lost her

06:19:05.520 father, the only question I

06:19:06.720 ask myself is, would he be

06:19:08.560 proud of the woman I have

06:19:09.640 become?

06:19:10.160 This question guides me to

06:19:11.360 live in a way that would

06:19:13.060 honor him and his beliefs.

06:19:16.960 And it went viral?

06:19:18.480 This was just like two months

06:19:19.360 ago.

06:19:19.780 Yeah, it did.

06:19:20.180 I was on InfoWars.

06:19:21.680 Oh.

06:19:23.300 They invited you on InfoWars?

06:19:24.860 I actually, I filmed with

06:19:26.080 Owen, but yeah.

06:19:27.000 Oh, okay.

06:19:27.640 Sweet.

06:19:29.260 Or like digitally.

06:19:30.740 Yeah, like it was a call.

06:19:32.240 Yeah, it was really awesome.

06:19:34.180 I almost wonder, like you got

06:19:36.040 so much hate because, do you

06:19:38.240 think it was like some of the

06:19:39.720 WWE audience or no?

06:19:43.060 I think it was probably new

06:19:44.320 age WWE audience.

06:19:45.720 Like wrestling fans.

06:19:46.680 Yes, new age wrestling fans.

06:19:48.480 Because you know what it's

06:19:49.740 like, you guys are in your

06:19:50.480 30s.

06:19:51.220 Growing up back in the day, it

06:19:52.440 didn't matter if you listened to

06:19:53.440 rock music or like the arts or

06:19:55.160 were maybe even a little goth.

06:19:56.560 It didn't mean you stood one

06:19:57.800 way or another politically.

06:19:59.420 And now it's very much like I

06:20:01.480 know from even going to art

06:20:02.660 school that if you're in one

06:20:04.340 class of art, typically, like

06:20:06.060 for instance, I was like really

06:20:07.360 the only conservative girl in

06:20:08.500 my art class.

06:20:10.400 That now if you like the arts

06:20:13.320 or you like entertainment or

06:20:14.440 you like anything mainstream,

06:20:15.580 you're typically categorized as

06:20:17.740 left.

06:20:19.000 And I think that was a really

06:20:20.580 big misconception with my

06:20:22.600 following was they saw that I

06:20:24.500 did art and they saw that,

06:20:25.920 you know, I'm the daughter of a

06:20:27.500 WWE guy.

06:20:28.380 And they automatically assumed

06:20:30.860 that I would fall into a

06:20:31.980 certain category and were mad

06:20:34.160 when I didn't.

06:20:35.580 But, you know, that's the name

06:20:37.420 of having your family be really

06:20:39.880 public.

06:20:40.460 So I think it definitely just

06:20:41.880 made my skin thicker.

06:20:43.660 I see.

06:20:44.260 Okay.

06:20:44.920 Yeah.

06:20:45.560 Is there another tweet?

06:20:46.760 I think there's one more.

06:20:48.300 That's a different one.

06:20:49.380 I'm always very controversial

06:20:51.380 online.

06:20:53.740 Okay.

06:20:54.140 This is just for funsies.

06:20:56.860 Men, don't let women tell you

06:20:59.540 they don't need you.

06:21:00.580 I really could have used some

06:21:01.800 toxic masculinity today.

06:21:03.360 Go full screen with the video.

06:21:04.520 Oh, you're going to play it.

06:21:06.020 Go full screen with it.

06:21:07.420 And just, yeah.

06:21:10.580 Oh, mute the audio, mute the audio.

06:21:12.560 Yeah.

06:21:13.580 This was me attempting to put up

06:21:16.120 my Christmas tree alone.

06:21:17.640 I actually did a pretty good job

06:21:18.740 in the end.

06:21:19.620 However, I would have much rather

06:21:21.220 sat on the couch and pointed and

06:21:22.720 been like, to the left, please.

06:21:25.020 There you go.

06:21:26.080 Yeah.

06:21:26.840 Oh, mute the audio.

06:21:27.860 Just, I guess, rid of that.

06:21:30.960 I think there's a couple more

06:21:32.220 reacts we have to do.

06:21:33.560 Let's do those.

06:21:35.120 I'm trying to, oh, you know what?

06:21:36.320 Let's do the bow video.

06:21:37.320 Fuck it.

06:21:37.580 That's a little more lighthearted.

06:21:39.400 Let's do my normal bow video.

06:21:41.920 Then we're going to do the

06:21:44.140 updated bow video.

06:21:45.740 And then we're going to do the

06:21:47.660 wedding one.

06:21:49.660 Do you know what I'm talking about?

06:21:50.420 Yeah.

06:21:50.580 Perfect.

06:21:51.980 All right.

06:21:52.460 So, back story.

06:21:54.560 This is my ex-girlfriend.

06:21:55.880 I took this video of her.

06:21:59.060 This is my expectation.

06:22:01.380 Go ahead.

06:22:01.720 Play it.

06:22:04.660 Boom.

06:22:05.080 Huge bow.

06:22:05.500 Did you guys see the bow?

06:22:06.580 Did you see the bow?

06:22:07.640 That's what, yeah.

06:22:08.940 So, I just got home from a long

06:22:10.280 podcast day.

06:22:11.360 And, you know, look, I'm tired.

06:22:13.400 And, you know, I do expect a woman

06:22:16.460 to bow to me at least once a day.

06:22:18.720 If I see her.

06:22:19.660 If I don't see her, obviously, I

06:22:22.480 don't need to bow.

06:22:23.060 But if I see her, it's once a day.

06:22:25.400 Mandatory.

06:22:26.560 She's got my dinner ready, which is

06:22:28.080 great.

06:22:28.540 You know, I was hungry after the show.

06:22:31.240 And she's very, very attentive.

06:22:33.760 Has the crazy eyes, though.

06:22:34.880 That's why I had a break.

06:22:35.540 Play it one more time.

06:22:36.700 That's why I had a dumper.

06:22:38.100 I was kind of, one time.

06:22:39.460 Wait, pause it, pause it.

06:22:41.520 What the fuck?

06:22:42.460 One time I woke up and she was just

06:22:44.600 standing there looking at me.

06:22:46.880 And so I, and she also had a knife

06:22:49.440 in her hand.

06:22:50.260 So, I had a dumper.

06:22:51.540 But she was like, oh, no.

06:22:53.200 I was going to cut you some watermelon.

06:22:55.960 And she just came in to check on me.

06:22:58.020 Because, anyways.

06:23:04.200 Boom.

06:23:04.800 Huge.

06:23:04.960 Okay, that's good.

06:23:06.420 That's good.

06:23:07.020 All right.

06:23:07.740 So, going around the table,

06:23:09.220 would you be willing to bow for your man?

06:23:12.480 Yeah, I'll bow.

06:23:13.800 Okay, let's see it.

06:23:14.420 Right now, do it.

06:23:15.640 Do I stand up?

06:23:17.160 Do a stand up.

06:23:18.080 Let's see it.

06:23:19.020 Oh, we can't see you.

06:23:20.200 Get into frame.

06:23:21.220 Stand up.

06:23:21.580 No, no.

06:23:22.960 Stand up.

06:23:24.060 Actually, you know what?

06:23:24.740 Just.

06:23:25.600 I got it.

06:23:26.200 I got it.

06:23:26.660 Oh, I knew she was going to do that.

06:23:28.020 Fuck.

06:23:28.460 Okay.

06:23:29.340 She moved the camera.

06:23:30.540 I'm going to do the P signs.

06:23:32.540 You know?

06:23:32.660 Okay.

06:23:35.240 Going around the table, are you willing to bow for your men?

06:23:40.400 Oh, wait.

06:23:40.960 Me?

06:23:41.180 No.

06:23:43.580 Going around the table?

06:23:44.500 Oh, yes.

06:23:45.440 Because it is in my culture.

06:23:47.180 And I bow to whether you're a man or woman of any age, just out of respect.

06:23:53.440 Okay.

06:23:54.320 Next.

06:23:54.640 I honestly would.

06:23:58.380 Yeah.

06:23:58.920 I would, too.

06:24:00.620 Definitely would.

06:24:01.540 I'd be willing to give it a go.

06:24:03.220 Maybe even a little curtsy.

06:24:04.160 Yeah, I'd be willing to give it a go.

06:24:05.900 I don't know.

06:24:07.140 I don't see why not if he really wants me to.

06:24:09.760 Because, I mean, he opens a door for me, like, all the time.

06:24:12.940 You know?

06:24:13.180 He doesn't have to do that.

06:24:14.020 Wait, so everybody's down to bow?

06:24:15.740 Yeah.

06:24:16.220 I said no.

06:24:17.600 I don't know.

06:24:18.040 She says no.

06:24:18.500 It's just a movement.

06:24:19.060 I said I'd even curtsy.

06:24:20.180 Is this not my culture?

06:24:21.620 Oh, that's cute.

06:24:22.780 It's not your culture?

06:24:23.620 Okay, that's fine.

06:24:24.440 Yeah, I'm a ballerina.

06:24:25.300 Cultural appropriation, maybe?

06:24:26.640 I don't know.

06:24:27.140 Nah.

06:24:27.640 Yeah.

06:24:27.940 You should try it, I guess.

06:24:29.460 Would you never bow back?

06:24:31.140 No, I wouldn't bow back.

06:24:32.120 Oh.

06:24:32.820 So is this, like, as a form of submission and respect?

06:24:35.560 Yes.

06:24:36.000 Yes.

06:24:36.540 Yes.

06:24:37.040 So why a bow?

06:24:38.680 Like, why couldn't it be another action?

06:24:41.540 Why a bow?

06:24:41.980 So, I mean, it's such a benign thing.

06:24:45.560 It's, like, it's a temperature check for, like, it takes no effort.

06:24:52.560 It takes literally no effort.

06:24:54.520 It's this cute, totally benign, harmless thing.

06:24:58.020 I'm not asking myself, like, there's some people who, like, aren't a legitimate BDSM and

06:25:02.760 they want to, like, put their legs, like, have the girl lay on the floor and, like, put their

06:25:09.360 legs on her back and shit.

06:25:11.200 Like, I'm not trying to do that.

06:25:13.220 I mean, if she wants me to, maybe we can have a conversation about it.

06:25:16.080 But it's more of the men for that.

06:25:19.480 But it's so, such a small thing.

06:25:22.760 And it's just literally a temperature check for, is she submissive?

06:25:29.640 That's it.

06:25:31.300 Now, there's other, you can, you know, there's other things, too, but.

06:25:34.160 Like.

06:25:35.480 Will she do my laundry on the first date?

06:25:37.940 On the first date?

06:25:39.420 On the first date?

06:25:39.720 Yeah.

06:25:40.340 Okay.

06:25:40.820 On the first date is pushing it.

06:25:43.160 That's a little too crazy.

06:25:44.520 No, that's valid.

06:25:45.200 That's so valid.

06:25:45.880 That is not valid.

06:25:46.740 Look, I'm a nice guy.

06:25:48.200 She just has to fold it.

06:25:49.520 I'll put it in.

06:25:50.720 Fold it?

06:25:51.160 Yeah.

06:25:51.660 On the first date?

06:25:52.920 You're saying it's a very first date.

06:25:54.000 You know what?

06:25:54.320 You're right.

06:25:54.760 I'll just, she just has to.

06:25:56.740 Because I don't want her fucking up my laundry machine.

06:25:59.200 So I'll, I'll put the clothes in, I'll do the soap, I'll do the detergent, and then

06:26:03.720 I'll, no, she transfers it to the, the dryer, but then she has to fold it.

06:26:10.020 Like, that's her job.

06:26:10.520 Is this like a first date idea for you?

06:26:12.400 Oh my, that is.

06:26:12.940 Like, you would do this for a first date?

06:26:15.120 I would be in love, I am in love with the girl if she does that.

06:26:17.600 Do you just not like doing laundry?

06:26:18.440 For all men, though.

06:26:19.160 Interesting.

06:26:20.020 No, I'm fine folding laundry.

06:26:21.960 You're fine doing it?

06:26:22.740 Okay.

06:26:23.060 And sometimes, sometimes.

06:26:24.420 Why is this so appealing?

06:26:25.360 You know, sometimes.

06:26:27.740 Why is it so appealing?

06:26:28.880 Why is it so appealing?

06:26:30.700 Like.

06:26:31.000 It's another, it's a temperature check.

06:26:33.380 It's a temperature check.

06:26:34.860 To see if she'd do your laundry.

06:26:36.800 Yes.

06:26:37.540 Okay.

06:26:38.240 Why can't you just ask?

06:26:39.600 Why can't you just ask?

06:26:40.600 Would you do my laundry?

06:26:41.280 I feel like if I heard that on a first date.

06:26:43.200 Wait, that is, that is, I'm like, hey, do you want to do my laundry for me?

06:26:45.600 Well, yeah, but.

06:26:46.400 Actually, but like, make it.

06:26:47.980 No, hold on.

06:26:48.680 I'll take that back.

06:26:49.440 It needs to be unprompted.

06:26:53.120 She.

06:26:54.240 Unprompted on the first date.

06:26:55.880 Doing your laundry.

06:26:57.020 She has to.

06:26:57.740 She has to.

06:26:58.420 Wait, pull up the bow video again.

06:27:00.260 Let me tell you exactly how.

06:27:01.960 Let me show you.

06:27:03.000 Let me explain this to you.

06:27:03.940 Pull it up.

06:27:06.500 Pull it up.

06:27:07.680 Shivery is dead.

06:27:09.320 She has to scamper up to me.

06:27:11.000 Watch.

06:27:11.480 Watch this.

06:27:11.980 Play it.

06:27:12.360 Did you give her.

06:27:12.960 Pause it.

06:27:13.720 She has to scamper up like that.

06:27:15.640 Be like, excuse me, sir.

06:27:16.800 Can I do your laundry?

06:27:18.220 That's what she has to do.

06:27:20.460 She has to scamper.

06:27:21.880 She has to scamper with her hands here.

06:27:24.420 And she has to be like, can I do your laundry, sir?

06:27:29.340 I will accept.

06:27:30.700 And you know what, though?

06:27:31.440 By the third date, I'm expecting master.

06:27:33.400 Okay?

06:27:34.200 Okay?

06:27:34.840 Oh, my God.

06:27:35.540 Get with the program, ladies.

06:27:36.700 How about a new merch shirt that says.

06:27:38.380 Get with the program.

06:27:39.200 That says, girl to scamper.

06:27:41.160 I will only accept, sir, for the first three dates.

06:27:43.400 But once we're on the third date, I need to know you're serious about me.

06:27:47.320 Wow.

06:27:47.940 I will only accept master.

06:27:49.980 Wow.

06:27:50.380 From there on out.

06:27:51.500 Guys don't care about that stuff.

06:27:54.040 What are you talking about?

06:27:55.100 I'm just saying that.

06:27:56.280 The douche that was in my crib with her now ex.

06:28:00.160 Offered to do his laundry.

06:28:01.720 Said no, I might mess up his clothes.

06:28:03.500 And then I did her man's laundry.

06:28:05.540 Well, look.

06:28:05.980 You know, you can't trust her with anything sensitive for the first couple weeks.

06:28:09.700 You know, if you got something really important, you got to do that shit yourself.

06:28:13.180 You know?

06:28:13.840 Sometimes, you know, they struggle with the instructions.

06:28:17.760 But you got to, you know.

06:28:19.580 The instructions of doing laundry.

06:28:21.780 Yeah, you know.

06:28:23.400 It's hard.

06:28:24.320 It's hard out there.

06:28:24.960 Something women have been doing for years.

06:28:28.340 You know what?

06:28:29.220 In fact, I actually purchased online a rustic.

06:28:34.700 Wait, what's it called?

06:28:35.780 Like an antique?

06:28:37.760 I purchased a rustic antique washboard and clotheslines to really see what she's about.

06:28:48.460 To see if she can hand wash.

06:28:50.080 Do your laundry on the phone?

06:28:50.940 I make her fucking washboard my clothes like it's fucking 1800s.

06:29:00.140 You don't get a washing machine.

06:29:02.220 Yeah.

06:29:02.720 You don't get a washing machine.

06:29:03.840 She doesn't get a washing machine.

06:29:05.020 And she doesn't get vacuum either.

06:29:06.340 She has to broom.

06:29:07.180 She has to sweep.

06:29:08.840 She has to sweep that shit.

06:29:11.100 Oh my God.

06:29:11.840 That's right.

06:29:12.260 That is terrible.

06:29:14.840 I know.

06:29:15.080 That is actually kind of foul.

06:29:16.000 Because I'm seeing what's up.

06:29:18.960 That's how you see what's up?

06:29:20.220 He's just, he's testing waters.

06:29:22.700 Testing the waters.

06:29:23.820 He's like testing to see.

06:29:25.100 You know.

06:29:26.960 In your experience.

06:29:28.240 I doubt he's even really kissed.

06:29:29.800 Yeah.

06:29:30.000 Do you think that, that Asian women have been more submissive or with a temperature check better?

06:29:45.460 Vietnamese women, no.

06:29:49.100 Korean women, a little bit.

06:29:53.160 Japanese women, a bit more.

06:29:55.640 And then it's a toss up for the other Asian countries.

06:29:58.260 Okay.

06:29:58.720 Okay.

06:29:59.040 I like how you skid it up.

06:30:01.120 You really?

06:30:01.740 She was like, okay, dude.

06:30:02.760 The Vietnamese women, they don't.

06:30:05.080 You really know your shit.

06:30:06.200 The Vietnamese women are not, they're not doing that shit.

06:30:09.680 They're like, fuck you.

06:30:11.320 Like what the fuck?

06:30:12.100 Yeah.

06:30:12.760 Yeah.

06:30:16.100 But I don't know where I was going with all that.

06:30:19.340 Would you do laundry for a guy?

06:30:21.240 Yeah, of course.

06:30:22.120 Oh my gosh.

06:30:22.280 No, first, like first date.

06:30:23.740 Like you guys are kicking it.

06:30:24.920 Yeah.

06:30:25.100 And you're at his place.

06:30:26.500 And he's like, oh, I got this laundry.

06:30:27.820 Can you fold it for me?

06:30:28.660 Would you do it?

06:30:29.280 I've had friends who have asked me, like I show up to hang out and they ask me to help

06:30:33.300 them do their dishes and stuff like that.

06:30:35.080 Yeah.

06:30:35.580 Of course.

06:30:35.760 Oh yeah.

06:30:36.300 And by help.

06:30:36.940 See, doing the dishes makes more sense to me on the first date.

06:30:40.000 Really?

06:30:40.480 Doing laundry.

06:30:40.980 Yeah.

06:30:41.360 Like I'm kind of scared.

06:30:42.040 Doing laundry is so like intimate.

06:30:44.040 Laundry is intimate.

06:30:44.960 Like I'm going to be washing your possibly shit-stained boxers on the first date.

06:30:51.420 I'm going to be a lot more.

06:30:52.280 First off, if I even wear boxers, they're black.

06:30:58.780 Secondly, that's disgusting and you should break up with a guy if he has shit-stained boxers.

06:31:07.120 What if he didn't know?

06:31:08.540 He just like threw it in the bin.

06:31:10.120 It was like, oh geez, like it just happened.

06:31:12.620 It's definitely a red flag.

06:31:13.440 You got to clean better.

06:31:16.420 No, but like what if he like thought it was just gas and-

06:31:20.440 What?

06:31:22.840 No, but doing laundry on the first date, I don't know.

06:31:26.660 I feel like dirty dishes is worse than laundry.

06:31:29.980 No, it isn't.

06:31:30.860 I come over to your house for a dinner date, whatever.

06:31:35.100 Definitely laundry.

06:31:35.820 I'm naturally going to take my own dishes to the sink, take your dishes to the sink and do them.

06:31:40.160 Yeah, I already do.

06:31:40.680 Like that's a custom.

06:31:42.000 Clean whatever was on the stove, clean the kitchen, blah, blah, blah.

06:31:46.320 Maybe I got to switch things up a bit.

06:31:48.060 But laundry is like months down the line.

06:31:52.000 No, that's first date.

06:31:53.900 That is first date activity.

06:31:55.940 I don't think so.

06:31:56.380 I wouldn't be a first date activity.

06:31:58.260 Like I-

06:31:58.800 Oh, that's true.

06:32:00.820 That's true.

06:32:01.140 Yeah, I wouldn't-

06:32:02.000 Why would I-

06:32:02.380 I wouldn't-

06:32:03.000 Yeah.

06:32:04.640 I wouldn't be able to-

06:32:06.140 If someone asked me for help, I wouldn't be able to say no.

06:32:08.520 You know what?

06:32:09.120 I should actually try this.

06:32:10.280 I don't know.

06:32:12.100 Do a social experiment.

06:32:13.660 I'd be just like-

06:32:14.520 I should just invite like the entire podcast panel after my shows to do the laundry for

06:32:20.980 me.

06:32:21.880 After the show.

06:32:23.320 All right, guys.

06:32:23.880 We're going to the crib.

06:32:25.620 After party.

06:32:27.260 Little do you know.

06:32:28.400 It's laundry day.

06:32:29.520 There's no alcohol.

06:32:31.540 There's no party.

06:32:33.340 Here's all the laundry.

06:32:34.540 Here's the dishes.

06:32:35.600 Vacuum.

06:32:37.080 I thought you said there was no vacuum.

06:32:38.700 You had to sweep.

06:32:39.400 Yeah, I thought I had to sweep.

06:32:40.800 No, I have one.

06:32:42.140 Okay.

06:32:42.860 But you don't get to use it.

06:32:44.080 You don't get to use it.

06:32:44.400 It's like there-

06:32:44.980 We get to look at it.

06:32:45.880 It's there in case I need it.

06:32:47.580 Okay.

06:32:47.900 But like you gotta, you know, whatever.

06:32:51.260 It would be a very interesting social experiment.

06:32:53.380 It would.

06:32:53.720 Okay.

06:32:54.380 Let's do the other bow video.

06:32:56.920 Oh, there's two.

06:32:58.340 That would be a dope stream.

06:32:59.920 Do a bow.

06:33:01.160 You might have to re-refresh it.

06:33:03.540 Oh, it's good?

06:33:05.020 Okay.

06:33:05.440 Sweet.

06:33:05.800 I think audio is good.

06:33:07.700 Yeah.

06:33:08.160 Play.

06:33:09.660 Boom.

06:33:10.480 Bow.

06:33:11.280 There we go.

06:33:14.760 This is taking it to another level.

06:33:17.800 Okay.

06:33:18.700 I'm-

06:33:19.200 Oh.

06:33:20.060 Hello.

06:33:20.680 What?

06:33:20.920 Hey.

06:33:21.420 What the fuck?

06:33:22.200 For a male move?

06:33:23.400 Princess treatment.

06:33:24.340 Okay.

06:33:24.860 I can get behind this.

06:33:31.920 Lower the volume.

06:33:32.940 Lower the volume.

06:33:33.900 There he is.

06:33:34.820 Lower the volume.

06:33:44.800 Okay, dude.

06:33:45.520 Chill out, dude.

06:33:52.200 Oh, my God.

06:33:58.140 This is kind of-

06:33:59.440 All right.

06:34:01.720 So, you know, she's being-

06:34:02.820 She's doing more than the bow.

06:34:03.780 She's taking his clothes off.

06:34:06.120 Taking-

06:34:06.820 Taking-

06:34:08.240 Taking his shoes.

06:34:09.540 What about this?

06:34:10.120 This would-

06:34:10.560 Okay.

06:34:10.880 Put your shirt on, bro.

06:34:12.920 Would you do that?

06:34:14.180 All that shit?

06:34:15.160 I'm assuming he really provides by what is going on.

06:34:22.880 In that sense, absolutely.

06:34:24.560 What else do I have to do but take care of a man like that?

06:34:29.320 Would you guys do that?

06:34:30.940 Yeah.

06:34:31.140 If he provided in the right way, 100%.

06:34:33.360 Like, if he's providing that way, hell yeah.

06:34:36.340 We'd be fine.

06:34:37.040 Personal chef.

06:34:37.620 Personal maid.

06:34:39.180 I want to feed him.

06:34:39.900 Let's do the wedding one.

06:34:43.380 Let's do the wedding one.

06:34:47.880 All right.

06:34:48.660 Yeah, we can play it.

06:34:50.160 Yeah, audio.

06:34:50.680 I'll forever-

06:34:51.720 Louder.

06:34:52.580 All the way.

06:34:54.840 I'll forever submit to you.

06:34:59.400 I'll forever submit to you, Miles.

06:35:01.960 I'll forever respect you, Miles.

06:35:04.400 I'll forever honor you, Miles, as the head of our home,

06:35:08.300 and no other.

06:35:10.340 There is no other.

06:35:11.540 There is no one.

06:35:13.280 No plans of hell will ever prosper in our marriage

06:35:15.880 and will ever hold me not to be a wife

06:35:18.760 that is a Proverbs 31 woman.

06:35:21.560 I will become that woman that builds the home

06:35:24.800 as I follow you, as you follow Christ.

06:35:27.540 That is the only thing that we will do in our household.

06:35:30.340 And I promise and I vow that in heaven, they hear.

06:35:36.360 On earth, I declare and decree.

06:35:38.880 I shall be a submissive white man.

06:35:40.780 Declare and decree.

06:35:42.060 As we continue to do this work of God.

06:35:44.840 I'll forever.

06:35:46.280 Okay.

06:35:46.640 I think that's it.

06:35:48.760 What do you guys think?

06:35:50.360 A bit much?

06:35:51.000 Is it extra or?

06:35:52.340 Extra.

06:35:53.260 Too extra?

06:35:54.160 Extra.

06:35:54.680 Oh, I thought that was super sweet.

06:35:55.920 Panel, go ahead.

06:35:56.660 I thought it was super sweet.

06:35:57.300 Speak up.

06:35:57.680 Yeah, I thought it was super sweet.

06:35:59.760 It was extra.

06:36:00.440 Came from her heart.

06:36:01.360 I think it's rare to have a situation like that.

06:36:03.780 Yeah.

06:36:03.920 But when there is a situation like that,

06:36:05.520 it's absolutely beautiful.

06:36:06.200 I thought that guy was gay, to be honest.

06:36:07.900 I know.

06:36:08.500 I thought.

06:36:09.220 I was like, he looks super gay.

06:36:10.540 I was getting some gay vibes from him.

06:36:11.980 I know.

06:36:12.760 I know.

06:36:13.900 You know what I mean?

06:36:14.860 Yeah.

06:36:15.480 He looked gay.

06:36:17.520 Word.

06:36:19.440 Any thoughts?

06:36:20.440 Hello?

06:36:21.680 Yeah.

06:36:22.080 I think that especially if you got to do kind of

06:36:24.960 the interior of the wedding, because he might say,

06:36:29.280 oh, well, you're the girl, so however you want the day

06:36:31.120 to look, you know, I think that would be like a really

06:36:33.040 nice way to like pay respect to him if he like let us

06:36:37.040 decorate, however.

06:36:38.800 If you're like, here, let me make you feel special.

06:36:40.920 You let me decorate, however.

06:36:42.480 So, there you go.

06:36:43.720 By the way, guys, we're going to do the roast session.

06:36:45.680 TTS has now been changed.

06:36:47.500 Oh, wait.

06:36:47.920 Hold on.

06:36:48.440 What?

06:36:50.420 I'm speaking to the audience.

06:36:51.660 All right, roast session, streamlabs.com slash whatever.

06:36:59.020 Here, we're going to get that pulled.

06:37:00.500 One sec, guys.

06:37:02.280 Oh, final thing from the questionnaire.

06:37:04.260 Do you guys think men are insecure if they care about

06:37:06.160 the woman's body count?

06:37:07.440 No.

06:37:08.080 No.

06:37:08.760 No.

06:37:10.040 No.

06:37:12.200 No?

06:37:13.020 Oh, wow.

06:37:13.680 Okay.

06:37:14.720 Well, I mean, generally, I'd say no, but yeah, it depends.

06:37:21.140 I'm just like, don't be a hypocrite about it.

06:37:23.400 If yours is super high and mine is super high, then like, why are you judging me if

06:37:27.840 yours is also high?

06:37:28.220 Right.

06:37:28.740 I think that's okay.

06:37:30.380 I think it was on this podcast, but somebody brought that up because they said, it must

06:37:35.500 have been on another episode.

06:37:36.800 Somebody said that men in our current society are not judged for their, or they are judged

06:37:43.660 for their body count, whereas women really aren't anymore.

06:37:45.980 So, it's kind of, it's become reversed, you know, that whole thing.

06:37:51.140 Some people, I don't remember, maybe it wasn't this podcast, but it was somewhere else.

06:37:56.540 That's what the argument was.

06:37:58.440 Just in that, you know, men are...

06:38:01.540 I think men still tend to care more about it.

06:38:05.340 They care, yeah.

06:38:06.040 Well, not caring about their own, or seeing their own as also, like, an equal issue.

06:38:13.560 Yeah.

06:38:14.480 Yeah.

06:38:15.040 And I think...

06:38:16.180 Someone actually made this comparison.

06:38:18.820 I don't know if it was you or not, but say you have a can of soda, and was it you dip

06:38:28.240 your finger in it, and pass it to the next person, and tell them to drink it?

06:38:32.620 Are you going to drink it?

06:38:33.820 And the whole premise of that was to prove a point about women having a higher body count

06:38:39.400 versus men, whereas, what did they say?

06:38:42.440 If you touch the...

06:38:44.160 If you...

06:38:46.200 Fuck, I forgot what they did with the tin can, but I hope you get my point.

06:38:50.100 I think it was something like this.

06:38:52.460 That's a good analogy.

06:38:52.880 So you have a glass of water, and then one person puts their finger in it, you might

06:38:58.340 still drink it, maybe, even then.

06:39:01.000 And then, but if, like, ten people put their finger in it, and, like, stirred it around,

06:39:04.040 you'd be probably a little more grossed out.

06:39:06.060 Yeah.

06:39:06.280 Twenty, thirty, forty, like, the more people put their finger in it, the kind of grosser

06:39:09.520 it gets, you know?

06:39:10.740 I actually believe that a man can be a hypocrite about it.

06:39:15.980 And the reason that I believe that a man can be a hypocrite about it is because we aren't

06:39:20.640 held to the same standards when it comes to our sexual behavior.

06:39:24.260 I would expect a man, if he can, to have a higher body count than his woman because sexual

06:39:31.460 opportunities don't present themselves to men as often as they do women.

06:39:35.560 Men are not as sexually disciplined as women are.

06:39:38.520 We are not as sexually selective as women are.

06:39:41.740 So to think a man should show the level of discipline or sexual selectivity that women

06:39:46.440 demonstrate is unrealistic because we're not women.

06:39:49.840 We're not operating on the same hormones.

06:39:52.020 We're not operating on the same sex drive.

06:39:54.700 It's just, it's one of those things that's just a biological reality.

06:39:58.640 Yeah.

06:39:58.780 So I actually think men can be a hypocrite about it.

06:40:01.240 Oftentimes, too, because when you look at it, the average body count for a man is very

06:40:05.620 similar to a woman's, which speaks volumes to how much easier it is for a woman to get

06:40:12.140 sex and refuse to have it, whereas a man doesn't have a choice because he's not getting

06:40:16.740 sex.

06:40:17.020 Yeah.

06:40:17.440 So if he can get sex, like, let's be real, who's going to tell Chris Brown, I'm not dating

06:40:22.180 you, you slept with too many women?

06:40:23.840 Like, that would be insane.

06:40:25.600 And when you look at guys like that who have slept around or who have high body counts,

06:40:29.620 you see women filled in their comments and they're probably in their DMs.

06:40:34.120 They don't care.

06:40:35.260 They're like, this is him.

06:40:36.540 Like, it's an opportunity to be with him.

06:40:38.060 They're not thinking about how many women he's been with.

06:40:40.060 And some women even say, hell, I would let him date other women because I know it's him.

06:40:46.240 So that is very true, too.

06:40:48.600 Yeah, absolutely.

06:40:49.800 That was a good point, too.

06:40:51.560 Yeah.

06:40:51.760 And I think not to go back to, like, the evolutionary argument, but, like, throughout human history,

06:40:58.040 there have been polygamous men.

06:41:00.000 And then there have also been monogamous men for the most part.

06:41:03.140 It has been found, and I'd have to cite this study, but it has been found that women generally

06:41:10.320 see it as a positive if a guy can attract a lot of women.

06:41:14.600 It's, like, a cue to them that he's, like, worth mating with.

06:41:20.460 But I think in certain environments, it's been advantageous from a purely survival-based

06:41:28.180 standpoint to value men that are very polygynous.

06:41:31.440 And let me just define polygyny so that's, like, multiple women for one man.

06:41:37.460 You know, some women, it's, like, we were talking, we mentioned pimping earlier.

06:41:42.520 I mean, some women, it's, like, it's very valuable if a guy has, like, a lot of women around him

06:41:49.760 and he's, like, sleeping with, like, different women.

06:41:53.040 I don't think every woman values that.

06:41:55.380 But I think it just, it, there are so many individual differences as well, I think, overall.

06:42:03.280 And, again, you see this, you've seen this throughout human history, is that monogamy is valued a lot.

06:42:10.420 So I think from both ends, it's just important that, and this is coming from somebody who doesn't

06:42:17.720 consider herself purely monogamous.

06:42:21.180 But I still try to respect people.

06:42:23.500 And, you know, I think that sexual fluidity in many regards is important.

06:42:29.340 But, and something that's important to me.

06:42:31.980 So it doesn't, that's just, that doesn't just apply to sexual orientation.

06:42:35.160 It's also just, like, how many partners you have and everything.

06:42:37.300 But at the same time, I think that it is important to, like, just respect people's boundaries, you know.

06:42:46.120 They don't want to hear that you're sleeping with, like, a ton of different people, regardless if you're male or female.

06:42:51.700 Because that's just, like, a lot of fluid exchange.

06:42:54.300 Yeah.

06:42:54.780 It's just, like, a distrust type of thing, you know.

06:42:57.160 If you've gone through, if you've ran through this many people, male or female, then, you know, who's to say that I'm just, like, another notch on your belt, so to speak.

06:43:07.900 I'm glad you said that.

06:43:09.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:43:09.740 I'm glad you said that.

06:43:10.420 Because I think that's what women think about when they think about a man having a higher body count, which is understandable.

06:43:15.760 But, I mean, I don't want.

06:43:16.920 It's like another number.

06:43:17.400 Yeah.

06:43:17.940 It's like, do I mean something to you?

06:43:20.440 Or am I just going to be another woman that you just want to pump and dump?

06:43:23.900 Because I do understand, like, I can understand it from the female perspective.

06:43:27.560 You want to know if this man is going to be monogamous, if he can commit to you.

06:43:30.720 So if his history shows that he just likes to run through women, then, of course, you're going to be skeptical.

06:43:35.100 And believe that he, you know, his chances of keeping you around are going to be slim.

06:43:39.160 But I think on the flip side, if a guy does want something long term and he's ready to settle down and he chooses to do that, then his body count becomes more relevant to the woman.

06:43:50.800 Because her main concern was, are you going to stick with me?

06:43:54.300 And if fidelity is going to be a factor, and if he knows, like, yeah, I'm going to stick with you, I'm going to be loyal, et cetera, then I don't think most women would have an issue with it beyond, you know, that concern.

06:44:08.760 Does body count matter?

06:44:11.260 We just talked.

06:44:11.940 We just had a whole conversation about it, actually.

06:44:15.000 You missed it.

06:44:15.180 Show of hands?

06:44:15.760 Okay, fine.

06:44:20.100 We'll do this, then.

06:44:20.840 We'll do this.

06:44:21.600 I'm going to let the chats come in in just a sec, guys.

06:44:23.760 I just want to get through one or two more things.

06:44:27.320 What is everybody's body count, starting with you?

06:44:31.480 Go ahead.

06:44:33.980 I don't want to disclose that.

06:44:35.900 Do you want to do it?

06:44:36.460 No.

06:44:36.800 Give us a range.

06:44:37.400 No.

06:44:38.040 Give us a range.

06:44:41.660 All of my toes.

06:44:42.720 All of your toes?

06:44:46.060 Yeah, yeah.

06:44:47.120 Toe counting.

06:44:48.400 So it's over 10?

06:44:49.600 Yeah.

06:44:51.480 Do you have, like, a mutation where you have, like, maybe 20 toes?

06:44:55.720 Like, I'm just curious.

06:44:57.060 Just 10, just 10.

06:44:58.200 I'll leave that.

06:45:00.820 Mutations.

06:45:02.320 Mutations.

06:45:03.120 How about this?

06:45:04.980 How many women have you slept with?

06:45:07.960 Hmm.

06:45:09.800 I think about the same as men.

06:45:12.720 Which is?

06:45:13.960 Which is?

06:45:14.720 How many women have you slept with?

06:45:18.120 Also around the same.

06:45:22.240 What about you?

06:45:23.660 Any chance could me and her say it at the same time?

06:45:26.420 We're the same number.

06:45:27.100 We have the same number.

06:45:28.820 Sure.

06:45:30.260 18.

06:45:30.740 18.

06:45:34.260 Stop the count.

06:45:36.160 18.

06:45:36.740 Okay, 18.

06:45:37.580 18 new boys.

06:45:38.360 Can I put a range, or?

06:45:44.380 Give us the number.

06:45:45.420 19.

06:45:46.460 19?

06:45:47.080 Okay.

06:45:48.540 4.

06:45:49.360 4.

06:45:49.920 Okay.

06:45:50.720 0.

06:45:51.320 0.

06:45:52.140 It's like 20.

06:45:53.860 Like 20?

06:45:54.720 Okay.

06:45:54.940 Yeah, it's like 9.

06:45:55.640 7.

06:45:56.480 7.

06:45:57.080 That's bad.

06:45:57.800 You said, wait, 18?

06:45:58.860 19.

06:45:59.360 19.

06:46:00.040 18.

06:46:00.360 18.

06:46:00.480 18.

06:46:01.120 4.

06:46:01.780 0.

06:46:02.480 20.

06:46:03.440 7?

06:46:04.040 Yeah.

06:46:04.620 Okay.

06:46:04.920 All right.

06:46:05.680 That's cool.

06:46:07.420 Multiply it by 3, and that's the real number.

06:46:09.020 Boost the audio.

06:46:09.680 100.

06:46:11.720 All right.

06:46:12.720 Cool.

06:46:13.340 So what do you think about that?

06:46:15.480 I mean...

06:46:17.080 I don't know.

06:46:18.920 Hey, every other girl...

06:46:20.160 Hey, come on.

06:46:20.720 They all answered.

06:46:22.080 Do you want to answer?

06:46:22.700 I actually just don't know for sure.

06:46:24.860 You have to count.

06:46:25.420 Oh, that's a good question.

06:46:26.400 Did you forget?

06:46:27.040 I actually just don't know.

06:46:27.900 You forgot.

06:46:29.120 I would have to sit here and count it, but I could do it.

06:46:32.420 Is it over 50?

06:46:33.280 No.

06:46:33.860 No.

06:46:34.060 Is it over 100?

06:46:35.440 It's like around like 10 to 20.

06:46:36.320 Is it over 1,000?

06:46:38.180 10 to 20 in that range?

06:46:39.500 I'm not sure.

06:46:39.700 Is it over 5,000?

06:46:41.940 No.

06:46:42.280 In between 10 to 20.

06:46:43.580 Is it over 10,000?

06:46:45.520 Oh, my God.

06:46:46.400 10 to 20.

06:46:46.980 Okay.

06:46:47.200 Got it.

06:46:47.580 Yeah.

06:46:48.040 Got it.

06:46:48.520 What's your body count?

06:46:49.780 I'm a virgin.

06:46:51.640 With someone who bows?

06:46:53.340 I'm a virgin.

06:46:53.960 I'm a virgin.

06:46:55.000 I'm a virgin.

06:46:55.420 Born again?

06:46:56.420 I'm a virgin.

06:46:57.400 Yeah.

06:46:57.560 Born again virgin.

06:46:58.500 Okay.

06:46:59.520 It resets every Sunday.

06:47:00.800 Every Sunday.

06:47:02.060 Every Sunday.

06:47:03.880 Resets.

06:47:04.520 Resets.

06:47:05.340 Yeah.

06:47:06.580 Yeah.

06:47:07.560 At that point, I'm a virgin too.

06:47:09.160 I believe that.

06:47:11.400 At least by my definition.

06:47:16.000 Okay.

06:47:16.700 Wait.

06:47:17.200 Where were we?

06:47:17.540 Okay.

06:47:17.880 Let me let some of the chats come through.

06:47:19.700 We'll have another break here in a bit.

06:47:22.040 Comer 594 donated $20.

06:47:25.640 So that's why you left your ex, Chair 2.

06:47:29.040 Because Kermit wanted to fool around with Gonzo in Chair 4.

06:47:33.400 Brian only watched because you have Encino Man in Chair 7.

06:47:37.240 What is Encino Man?

06:47:38.800 Yeah.

06:47:39.240 Encino movie?

06:47:39.800 What is that?

06:47:40.700 You're Chair 7.

06:47:41.420 What is it?

06:47:41.860 What is that?

06:47:42.280 It's like a movie about...

06:47:44.060 Man.

06:47:44.560 It takes place in Encino.

06:47:45.960 It's an old movie.

06:47:47.200 It's about these two...

06:47:47.700 Is it a movie?

06:47:48.160 It's about these two...

06:47:48.840 No.

06:47:49.140 It's about these two like just dumb friends in high school.

06:47:53.540 Yeah.

06:47:53.780 And they find a caveman frozen in the earth.

06:47:58.540 Wow.

06:47:58.800 This sounds terrible.

06:48:00.420 But okay.

06:48:01.020 They saw him and that's it.

06:48:03.000 Is it a comedy or...

06:48:04.240 Yeah.

06:48:04.440 It's like a 1970s comedy.

06:48:05.940 Oh, 1970s.

06:48:07.040 Yeah.

06:48:07.160 It's like old.

06:48:08.460 Wow.

06:48:08.940 Wow.

06:48:09.500 Okay.

06:48:10.020 Quite a reference.

06:48:11.720 Let's see here.

06:48:12.620 We'll play this.

06:48:13.780 Thank you, Toast.

06:48:14.760 Toast donated $20.

06:48:17.860 CHR1 doesn't know facts.

06:48:19.640 Most women didn't want the right to vote because they didn't want to be drafted or become pawns

06:48:25.100 or do jury duty.

06:48:26.580 They really didn't fight that hard.

06:48:28.560 They fought against it.

06:48:30.600 Wow.

06:48:31.320 Yeah.

06:48:31.680 That's true.

06:48:35.880 Coastal operator donated $19.99.

06:48:40.520 Thank you, Toast.

06:48:40.800 CHR1 is the worst Jack Sparrow impersonator I've ever seen.

06:48:44.660 CHR6, you look like the Russian from Dodgeball.

06:48:48.320 Yikes.

06:48:49.640 You're the Russian from Dodgeball?

06:48:53.580 Huh?

06:48:54.180 The Russian from Dodgeball?

06:48:54.500 Chair six is the Russian from...

06:48:56.980 You're chair six.

06:48:58.740 I've never seen the Russian from Dodgeball.

06:48:59.980 I don't know what that means.

06:49:01.080 I don't know either.

06:49:01.880 Is that a good thing?

06:49:03.660 Wait, so you have to do...

06:49:05.180 Do you know...

06:49:05.680 Have you seen Pirates of the Caribbean?

06:49:07.100 You have to be Jack Sparrow.

06:49:08.860 And you just go like, arrr.

06:49:11.020 Now I'm so curious.

06:49:12.060 That's terrible.

06:49:12.640 See?

06:49:13.220 They're right.

06:49:13.980 You're right.

06:49:14.700 Do you wear color contacts, by the way, or are those your natural?

06:49:16.680 I bleached my eyes.

06:49:18.340 Wait, you what?

06:49:19.820 You bleach your eyes?

06:49:20.680 Yeah.

06:49:21.500 Yeah.

06:49:21.920 That's a thing?

06:49:22.700 What?

06:49:23.100 With those eye drops?

06:49:24.580 The tattoo, you mean.

06:49:26.660 No, I'm just kidding.

06:49:28.400 I don't think you can do that.

06:49:29.740 Oh, color contacts.

06:49:31.180 That'd be crazy.

06:49:32.020 I was like, what the heck?

06:49:33.260 You'd be blind.

06:49:34.100 I'm going to make you a deal.

06:49:37.360 You either have to do Jack Sparrow impersonation the rest of the show, or you can reveal your

06:49:42.840 body count, or you have to eat a banana for refusing, on stream, for refusing the body

06:49:48.520 count.

06:49:49.440 Well, I said the body count.

06:49:51.340 Three options.

06:49:51.900 Like, it's because women, I don't know how to count that.

06:49:55.120 Like, I don't know if it's, like, penetration, or, like.

06:49:56.880 How about just the guy?

06:49:57.740 Give us the guy number, then.

06:49:59.280 Like, seven.

06:50:01.560 Oh, okay.

06:50:02.120 Yeah.

06:50:02.480 Do you, anybody still want a banana?

06:50:03.860 I want a banana, though.

06:50:04.900 I'm like, I'll eat that.

06:50:07.780 Make it eight.

06:50:08.320 Do you want, do you want, do you want to catch it?

06:50:10.320 Like, do you want to catch it?

06:50:12.040 Or should I, like, throw it like a boomerang?

06:50:15.280 Here, let's just pass it down.

06:50:17.220 I'm ready.

06:50:17.920 I'm scared.

06:50:19.220 Poke out of her eye, then she'll really be a pirate.

06:50:21.620 Pass it down.

06:50:24.280 Thank you.

06:50:25.460 Welcome.

06:50:25.740 See, now that we all touched that.

06:50:27.060 Sons of liberty.

06:50:27.880 Yeah, I was going to read it.

06:50:29.700 Women en masse have been brainwashed and propagandized by liberalism.

06:50:33.600 They say the same exact thing, show after show, week after week, intersectionality,

06:50:39.980 structural racism, inequality, like a cult.

06:50:44.720 Thank you, Sons of liberty.

06:50:46.180 Coastal operator donated $19.99.

06:50:48.860 Thank you, Coastal.

06:50:49.660 Chair 2, does Kermit know where you are right now?

06:50:53.120 I think he's getting worried.

06:50:57.620 Do you want to respond to that?

06:50:59.020 That's for you.

06:50:59.660 I have nothing to say.

06:51:00.680 Women 594 donated $20.

06:51:02.720 Damn Johnny, it looks like you rolled around in Amber Heard's poo and decided to show up

06:51:08.760 and share one on whatever.

06:51:10.600 Stop being such a dirty hippie.

06:51:13.100 Oh, wow.

06:51:14.240 Wait.

06:51:14.900 Dirty hippie.

06:51:15.920 Can you take this off?

06:51:17.560 The bandana?

06:51:19.000 And into my hair.

06:51:20.780 Let's see it.

06:51:21.500 Oh, man.

06:51:21.820 We should have had you.

06:51:22.840 I totally didn't even think about that.

06:51:25.700 Just show us.

06:51:26.360 It's the end of the stream.

06:51:27.140 Nobody's watching.

06:51:28.340 I mean, you didn't say your body count.

06:51:30.020 Rip that off.

06:51:30.840 You didn't say your body count.

06:51:32.900 What if I'm balding?

06:51:33.500 I'm a virgin.

06:51:34.080 I told you I'm a virgin.

06:51:35.460 What if you're balding?

06:51:36.640 Yeah.

06:51:37.180 Some guys are into that.

06:51:38.040 It's all good.

06:51:40.760 No.

06:51:41.420 No.

06:51:42.500 All right.

06:51:43.180 That's a crazy ask.

06:51:44.320 I would date a girl if she, you know, had, what's that?

06:51:48.900 Alopecia.

06:51:50.040 I would stick with my girl.

06:51:51.960 I would buzz her hair off.

06:51:53.820 I'd be like, fuck this shit.

06:51:54.700 Let's buzz it together.

06:51:55.380 I'll buzz mine.

06:51:55.980 You buzz yours.

06:51:56.820 We're going through this together.

06:51:58.380 Yeah.

06:51:58.700 We just grab the skin on her head.

06:52:01.360 That's real dedication.

06:52:03.960 Thank you.

06:52:05.200 Thank you very much.

06:52:06.340 Thank you.

06:52:07.700 Lulu.

06:52:08.060 Lulu donated $20.

06:52:10.280 Brian, would you rather get a lap dance from chair seven or make out with chair one?

06:52:16.080 You have to pick one.

06:52:17.480 Come on.

06:52:19.880 I have to pick one.

06:52:21.300 Okay.

06:52:23.160 Lap dance or make out with chair one.

06:52:35.460 That's hard.

06:52:37.200 You know, that's.

06:52:37.840 Cause like a kiss, that's, you know, exchange of, you know, there's, is it a peck?

06:52:48.880 No, it says make out.

06:52:49.960 It's a make out.

06:52:50.980 It's a make out.

06:52:58.880 Pam, bro.

06:52:59.560 What the fuck?

06:53:00.320 Okay.

06:53:00.580 I'll make out with chair one.

06:53:01.760 Oh my God.

06:53:02.980 Sorry.

06:53:03.540 Sorry.

06:53:04.120 I'm sorry.

06:53:04.360 I'm not really a lap dance guy.

06:53:07.840 You know, serious question.

06:53:09.480 Chair eight.

06:53:10.440 Did you get approval to appear on this podcast?

06:53:13.480 Did you interact with your PR officer?

06:53:16.760 PR.

06:53:17.640 Oh, like for the military.

06:53:19.760 Um, I don't need permission to be on a podcast.

06:53:22.380 She doesn't need permission.

06:53:24.340 Apparently.

06:53:25.020 Thank you.

06:53:25.380 Seymour for the message.

06:53:26.820 Uh,

06:53:27.140 Sons of Liberty donated $19 and 99 cents.

06:53:34.160 I'm a man and I have refused sex numerous times.

06:53:37.700 Not all of us are degenerates.

06:53:40.260 A high body count for a woman is disgusting and I definitely would not dip my finger in

06:53:45.040 the cup.

06:53:46.060 Degenerate men will tell.

06:53:47.340 Um, have you turned down sex, but like in the moment, like it's not just some girl comes

06:53:53.960 up to you at the club.

06:53:54.700 It's like you're in the bedroom and some shit, you know, you know what I mean?

06:53:58.560 I have.

06:54:00.480 Me too.

06:54:01.140 What do you consider, um, a high body count for?

06:54:04.000 High five.

06:54:04.500 Q.

06:54:04.940 Oh, sorry.

06:54:05.460 High five, bro.

06:54:06.740 Look at that.

06:54:07.520 W.

06:54:07.900 What do you consider a high body count for a woman?

06:54:09.720 Like what's considered disgusting?

06:54:11.880 What's considered disgusting?

06:54:13.060 Yeah.

06:54:13.220 Well, what do you find?

06:54:13.920 Does she have a large labia?

06:54:16.520 I give women, if a woman has a large labia, I give them a bit, I'll give them a couple

06:54:20.980 more bodies, like a bit more leeway.

06:54:23.580 If you want, I mean, if she's like submissive, she gets, uh, huh?

06:54:29.380 Just like, what do you think men think is a disgusting, like high number?

06:54:32.760 Honestly, for most men, they're going to say double digit.

06:54:36.220 I think most men will say anything over double digit is high.

06:54:39.400 But, I mean, like, the thing is, though, is I went to, I went to college and I saw what

06:54:48.000 went down.

06:54:49.940 Some of these girls, like all y'all, maybe, I don't know if you're telling the truth,

06:54:54.020 sometimes women lie about their body count, whatever, if we just take it at face value.

06:54:58.040 A lot of girls, at least where I went to college, did y'all's body count their first

06:55:03.800 freshman quarter or semester, they'll put up 20 bodies before winter break.

06:55:11.480 So it's like, in my mind, like, it's still high, but I compare it to my college experience

06:55:18.660 where I'm like, these girls are going out Thursday, Friday, Saturday, they're taking

06:55:21.640 home a new guy every single weekend.

06:55:27.120 A lot of these college girls, it depends which school they go to.

06:55:30.280 Some schools are more party schools than others.

06:55:33.160 Arizona State, UCSB.

06:55:36.900 A lot of them, like, 20, 30, 40, 50 bodies by the time they graduate.

06:55:42.600 So, I mean, you know what I mean?

06:55:45.900 You know what I mean?

06:55:46.620 I don't know, whatever.

06:55:48.360 Whatever.

06:55:50.320 Yeah, I mean, I'd like to see the average body count of a female who went to school here

06:55:54.980 because it's a huge party school.

06:55:57.680 UCSB.

06:55:58.260 Yeah.

06:55:58.500 Well, you got those studious types, you know, that are, they get down to, though.

06:56:05.080 But it's more low-key.

06:56:06.200 All right.

06:56:07.460 Oh, God.

06:56:08.060 Oh, my God.

06:56:08.600 Oh, my God.

06:56:08.620 Oh, my God.

06:56:13.140 Damn, what the fuck?

06:56:15.540 Hey, yeah.

06:56:18.280 How dare you?

06:56:21.740 Wow.

06:56:22.600 That is so rude, Coastal.

06:56:24.640 Roasted.

06:56:25.040 Oh, another one.

06:56:27.060 Since Chair 7 is homeless and retarded, would you consider hiring her to just sit there like

06:56:32.560 Black Labia?

06:56:34.580 Lulu.

06:56:35.460 Roasted.

06:56:36.120 Just sit there like Black Labia.

06:56:38.300 Wait, wait, it's Dark...

06:56:39.620 It's Dark Labia, not Black...

06:56:41.860 Darkavia, but Dark Labia.

06:56:45.880 Um, Chair, are you homeless?

06:56:49.240 No.

06:56:49.860 Oh.

06:56:51.040 Are you...

06:56:51.580 So it's just the other part of that.

06:56:53.420 I have been in the past, actually.

06:56:55.920 Retarded?

06:56:56.500 No.

06:56:57.160 Oh, sorry.

06:56:58.160 I just...

06:56:58.760 I'm just kidding.

06:56:59.500 No, I've...

06:57:00.280 By the way, I hope there's no hard feelings.

06:57:02.080 I was a little abrasive towards you earlier, perhaps multiple times throughout the stream.

06:57:07.100 I know.

06:57:08.160 But...

06:57:08.600 No, there's a...

06:57:12.340 There's a period at the end of that sentence.

06:57:13.940 I don't know why I...

06:57:14.620 Okay.

06:57:16.480 No, I think you're great.

06:57:18.500 I mean, I should have been more conscientious.

06:57:23.120 Well, I think the thing that frustrated me in that moment in the most is I think I asked

06:57:28.140 you a question, and then it was about, like, prior to Me Too, are you saying that these

06:57:36.800 crimes were never prosecuted, and you said yes, and then you said no, so it's just frustrating

06:57:43.720 kind of when you're talking to somebody, and it's just...

06:57:47.300 Yeah, I needed my energy shot, so...

06:57:49.420 Yeah, it's all good.

06:57:50.080 It's all good.

06:57:51.040 It worked.

06:57:51.640 All good.

06:57:53.120 Oh, boy.

06:57:54.520 Coastal operator donated $19.

06:57:57.140 Coastal.

06:57:58.880 Chair 2 and 4, how did you both manage to find 18 blind dudes?

06:58:04.240 You trolling for dong at the local optometrist's office?

06:58:07.480 That's crazy.

06:58:08.300 Wow, that's wild.

06:58:09.380 Yeah.

06:58:10.040 Wow.

06:58:11.180 Damn.

06:58:13.060 Sorry, multiple people have higher numbers.

06:58:16.560 Like who?

06:58:17.240 Yeah, like...

06:58:17.880 Who has higher numbers?

06:58:18.980 The person that's on my crib, their body counts 100.

06:58:21.420 Oh, who's at your crib?

06:58:23.260 Yeah.

06:58:24.180 Who's she?

06:58:25.260 Who's they?

06:58:26.320 I ain't speaking on it.

06:58:27.600 It's like that, that...

06:58:29.560 Oh, no, I'm...

06:58:30.220 And I just found this out today.

06:58:33.680 Oh.

06:58:34.560 Yeah.

06:58:35.120 You wanna...

06:58:35.620 You wanna...

06:58:36.160 You wanna call somebody out?

06:58:37.920 Oh, no, no, no, no.

06:58:38.440 You wanna call your girl out?

06:58:39.520 I'm not trying to...

06:58:40.200 You calling Allura out?

06:58:41.880 No.

06:58:42.460 You wanna say something about Allura?

06:58:44.180 No.

06:58:44.800 What you gotta say about Allura?

06:58:45.960 I feel like you guys got a little tension.

06:58:47.100 Wait, hold on the table.

06:58:48.500 You guys got a little tension going on.

06:58:49.980 Really?

06:58:50.660 I know.

06:58:50.780 Oh, no, that passed.

06:58:51.700 That was two weeks ago.

06:58:53.160 Yeah.

06:58:53.620 You guys got some beef?

06:58:55.380 It was stupid.

06:58:56.960 Yeah?

06:58:57.440 It's okay.

06:58:57.980 Problem's done now.

06:58:59.180 Was it about a dude?

06:59:01.380 That's a yes.

06:59:01.980 Yeah, it was.

06:59:02.940 You guys both...

06:59:03.720 Wait, did you guys both fuck the same dude?

06:59:05.460 No.

06:59:05.820 Oh, no, that's your body counts.

06:59:06.780 We've never done that.

06:59:07.880 Okay.

06:59:08.600 We are not as good as we're seeing.

06:59:10.200 So, uh...

06:59:11.760 You guys got beef?

06:59:13.740 What's up?

06:59:14.300 Oh, no, we're good.

06:59:15.340 Air that shit out.

06:59:16.660 We're good.

06:59:17.100 We don't have beef.

06:59:17.400 This is a safe space, kind of.

06:59:19.960 I don't know.

06:59:20.700 The trolls are outside, so...

06:59:23.800 What's that?

06:59:24.400 She felt like I didn't have her back with something.

06:59:26.620 And I verbally did, but I still hung around people that she...

06:59:31.140 Oh, no, I just found her, her boyfriend,

06:59:33.460 and then I got screwed over, and then...

06:59:37.120 Wait, you're in the...

06:59:37.760 Wait.

06:59:38.180 Oh, no, you broke up with the guy.

06:59:39.300 Yeah, I'm live.

06:59:40.300 Oh.

06:59:40.540 That I hooked her up with, and then the dude screwed me over,

06:59:42.740 and she was okay hanging out with the dude that she found out

06:59:44.620 screwed me over, like, hanging out with him and her boyfriend,

06:59:48.900 like, all the time, and I was, like, left out.

06:59:50.240 Are you still eating the banana?

06:59:51.720 Are you still working?

06:59:52.260 Yeah.

06:59:53.260 Maybe I...

06:59:54.100 Once you're done, just, like, maybe just pass it to Damien

06:59:56.800 so we just don't have the banana on the table.

06:59:59.680 Okay.

07:00:00.120 Um, all right.

07:00:01.800 So, there's no beef.

07:00:02.620 You guys are chillin'.

07:00:03.840 We're chillin'.

07:00:04.660 You're chillin'.

07:00:05.640 Chillin'.

07:00:06.300 Like villains.

07:00:06.820 Like villains.

07:00:07.800 Like villains.

07:00:08.760 Coastal operator donated $19.99.

07:00:13.380 Ment chair seven is the Russian from dodgeball.

07:00:17.320 Listening to how made me curious how nine millimeters would taste.

07:00:22.000 What the fuck?

07:00:24.160 What the fuck?

07:00:25.780 Okay, thank you, Coastal.

07:00:26.940 Appreciate it.

07:00:27.480 Who wants...

07:00:27.900 Who's...

07:00:28.280 We do a segment called Removing Your Makeup.

07:00:30.840 That's what it's called.

07:00:32.760 Who's down to remove their makeup?

07:00:34.020 Are you down?

07:00:36.220 Well...

07:00:36.940 Yeah, I gotta take off my makeup anyway.

07:00:39.120 That...

07:00:39.520 That's the honest wipes.

07:00:42.520 Honesty is the best policy.

07:00:44.060 I said right after this.

07:00:45.280 Michael Jones donated $20.

07:00:48.320 Kinda hard to get a good discussion when every panelist is Stonewall Jacqueline.

07:00:53.080 Stonewall Jacqueline.

07:00:53.440 Care six, keep it up.

07:00:55.640 Shares one through five, seven, and eight change.

07:00:59.840 Brian, cut down on the burritos, brother.

07:01:02.620 I had a burrito today.

07:01:05.220 Uh, yes, I need to...

07:01:06.740 Getting...

07:01:07.220 Boys.

07:01:08.060 This one?

07:01:08.900 I'm...

07:01:09.220 It's gonna happen this year.

07:01:10.220 2025.

07:01:11.280 I got it.

07:01:12.260 Actually, I'm removing some of my makeup.

07:01:13.840 L.W.O.

07:01:14.760 Baron Woods donated $20.

07:01:17.280 Viva La Raza.

07:01:18.800 Question for Kaylee.

07:01:20.340 Are you dating a wrestler?

07:01:22.560 No.

07:01:24.680 Mmm.

07:01:25.660 Mmm.

07:01:26.440 Nice.

07:01:26.880 I'm not dating anyone.

07:01:28.300 I thought you were talking to somebody.

07:01:29.600 I'm talking, but I'm not dating, so that question is invalid.

07:01:32.540 I see.

07:01:35.980 Chore XD donated $20.

07:01:38.680 I might be getting nicer over time, or maybe my expectation based on past panels have gone

07:01:44.560 down, but I thought you ladies did all right.

07:01:48.100 For the good of the nation, tell your female peers to be better.

07:01:51.820 Oh, wow.

07:01:52.500 Thank you, man.

07:01:53.200 Thank you.

07:01:53.540 Thank you.

07:01:53.600 Mer 594 donated $20.

07:01:55.840 I know you're 23, and me would tell you that you are majority Neanderthal.

07:02:01.000 Chair 5?

07:02:01.420 Chair 5.

07:02:02.200 I've always wanted to meet the Elephant Man.

07:02:05.120 Wait.

07:02:05.760 Wait, what?

07:02:07.880 I've always wanted to meet the Elephant Man.

07:02:09.880 Yeah, I don't know.

07:02:10.560 Chair 5?

07:02:11.260 What does that mean?

07:02:12.080 This is so nice.

07:02:13.440 You got the nice ones.

07:02:15.260 People complain about those.

07:02:16.800 Oh, well, then maybe I'm just kidding.

07:02:17.920 I think they're nice.

07:02:18.860 They're really abrasive.

07:02:20.300 End of quote.

07:02:21.760 Do you...

07:02:22.760 Who wants to...

07:02:23.300 Will you take your makeup off?

07:02:24.320 Am I a catfish?

07:02:24.660 Makeup?

07:02:25.060 Makeup?

07:02:25.400 You're going to take your makeup off?

07:02:26.220 Take your makeup off.

07:02:26.900 Take it off, guys.

07:02:28.460 Take it off.

07:02:28.960 Are you a catfish?

07:02:29.960 I don't think so.

07:02:30.780 I mean, I don't know.

07:02:32.200 No, I really don't put face makeup on.

07:02:34.340 It's just my eye makeup.

07:02:34.840 I just have lashes on that I don't want to use.

07:02:36.160 I have some highlighter.

07:02:37.220 Oh.

07:02:38.140 I have a little...

07:02:38.980 Wait.

07:02:39.680 What is the Elephant Man?

07:02:41.740 The Elephant Man?

07:02:42.580 Well, that's a movie.

07:02:43.500 It's actually a couple of movies.

07:02:44.660 Yeah.

07:02:45.740 Oh, yeah.

07:02:46.760 But I don't really know what they were trying to say.

07:02:49.920 They were trying to insult me, but I don't really care about what people on the internet

07:02:53.420 say.

07:02:53.940 Blackmer, $594, donated $20.

07:02:57.620 Damn, I didn't know that Kermit was such a stud.

07:03:00.740 Chair 2.

07:03:01.280 Oh, my God.

07:03:01.740 Of course he has gained.

07:03:03.040 Oh, fuck.

07:03:04.180 I have dud.

07:03:05.580 This is king.

07:03:06.560 Let's get some Sesame Street references while we're at it, okay?

07:03:10.400 Coastal operator donated $19.99.

07:03:13.920 Captain Sparrow, what kind of ship do you sail?

07:03:18.600 Is it a Subaru by chance?

07:03:20.100 Subaru?

07:03:20.400 I forgot about that.

07:03:21.180 Did you drive a Subaru?

07:03:22.140 I drive a Prius.

07:03:23.700 Oh.

07:03:24.040 I drive a Subaru.

07:03:24.600 I drive a Subaru Forester.

07:03:25.160 All right.

07:03:26.760 That's cool.

07:03:27.160 What do you say, the miles per gallon?

07:03:28.840 Also, kicker donated $20.

07:03:31.640 Chair 4.

07:03:32.280 Women have legal rights to refuse men to sign birth certificate.

07:03:36.000 Need to submit that form to have opt to fight for kid.

07:03:39.720 Chair 6.

07:03:40.840 GJ tonight, RIP dad.

07:03:42.760 He would be proud.

07:03:44.020 Except maybe the spurt stuff lol.

07:03:46.220 Those of you who are working on their makeup, hold up the wipe, hold it up, spread, spread

07:03:54.060 them.

07:03:54.300 Oh, yes.

07:03:55.040 Oh, wow.

07:03:55.580 The damage.

07:03:56.600 Okay.

07:03:57.020 There you go.

07:03:58.100 She's, oh.

07:03:58.960 It's mostly lipstick and highlight.

07:04:00.640 You got to do the eyes too, though.

07:04:02.540 I know.

07:04:02.900 I guess.

07:04:03.780 The eyeliner is just not going to come off.

07:04:06.280 Is it waterproof on my eyes?

07:04:08.120 Huh.

07:04:09.740 Oh.

07:04:10.460 You guys.

07:04:11.720 No.

07:04:12.380 No.

07:04:13.060 I'm just rubbing my eye.

07:04:14.180 I have a bruise.

07:04:16.540 It's from work.

07:04:17.160 I didn't wear any makeup.

07:04:19.200 From work?

07:04:20.180 Yeah.

07:04:20.520 What do you mean?

07:04:21.380 Well, I work with behavioral students.

07:04:23.240 Oh, boy.

07:04:23.480 So I got headbutted.

07:04:24.900 Oh, my goodness.

07:04:25.860 Yeah.

07:04:27.420 Oh, my God.

07:04:29.300 Wait.

07:04:30.080 So, wait a minute.

07:04:31.760 Do you do ABA?

07:04:33.360 It's not ABA.

07:04:34.500 Oh, okay.

07:04:34.640 So I have worked in ABA facilities.

07:04:36.460 Right.

07:04:36.560 I don't really think ABA is the most effective method.

07:04:39.280 Yeah.

07:04:39.840 Treating students.

07:04:41.400 And then specifically the student that I work with is traumatized.

07:04:45.120 It's not.

07:04:47.080 Oh.

07:04:47.120 Murph 594 donated $20.

07:04:50.740 Q, can we hear you be honest?

07:04:53.340 Give them a roast.

07:04:54.560 I know you can.

07:04:57.540 Q.

07:04:58.760 Roast the panel?

07:05:00.240 All of us?

07:05:00.940 If you want.

07:05:01.820 I am trained in ABA, though.

07:05:03.440 No.

07:05:03.880 I ain't got nothing bad to say.

07:05:05.860 I'm going to do that.

07:05:09.540 Hi.

07:05:10.140 I hear you.

07:05:11.060 Come.

07:05:12.280 If.

07:05:13.200 I look so baby-free.

07:05:16.280 I feel like a baby.

07:05:18.280 Wait.

07:05:18.680 Emma.

07:05:19.240 Yeah.

07:05:19.420 If you were dating a guy and he was like, hey, look.

07:05:22.740 I want you to.

07:05:24.180 I don't know if you have a passion for, like, what you're doing.

07:05:26.200 Yeah.

07:05:26.420 But he was a provider type.

07:05:27.400 And he was like, hey, I want you to just stop working.

07:05:29.060 I don't like you doing that job.

07:05:30.460 Would you do it?

07:05:31.040 Would you stop?

07:05:31.800 Yeah.

07:05:32.640 Okay.

07:05:33.140 Cool.

07:05:33.520 Well, it would, like, I would want to hear why.

07:05:36.560 I don't think you, it should ever be just like, this is what's happening.

07:05:39.840 I would like to know why.

07:05:41.140 Oh.

07:05:43.040 But I can definitely see why it would put someone I'm dating in an uncomfortable position to be coming home.

07:05:51.200 Into the mic.

07:05:51.680 Into the mic.

07:05:52.040 Just move back.

07:05:55.440 I definitely wouldn't want to put someone I was dating into an uncomfortable position.

07:05:59.600 As to where they see me coming home with, like, bruises on my nose or on my eye or, like, anything.

07:06:07.580 Or, like, just big bruises on my arm from, like, biting attempts.

07:06:11.100 Like, I can definitely understand that.

07:06:13.640 But, I mean, when I get married, I don't want to be working.

07:06:18.900 So, it's not right.

07:06:20.900 Like, this isn't what I want to do forever.

07:06:22.780 I have a passion for it.

07:06:23.820 Okay.

07:06:23.960 Vexzith donated $20.

07:06:26.220 Oh, yeah.

07:06:26.820 Bricks and you abandoned us.

07:06:28.860 At least you told us prior to ever starting that you would create and do just that.

07:06:33.700 It was fun while it lasted.

07:06:35.720 You still an absolute legend.

07:06:37.600 Keep up the good work.

07:06:38.920 Yo, Vexzith.

07:06:39.620 Night Slayer.

07:06:40.160 Thank you, man.

07:06:40.740 I appreciate it.

07:06:41.800 I recognize your name.

07:06:43.720 Yeah, pretty much.

07:06:44.740 Wait, are you the druid?

07:06:45.600 I forgot.

07:06:46.040 Oh, for, like, three weeks, I was playing World of Warcraft.

07:06:53.560 And then I was like, I just don't have time to play this game.

07:06:56.660 So, I quit after, like, three weeks of playing.

07:07:00.920 But, thank you, man.

07:07:02.100 I do appreciate the message.

07:07:03.760 All right, guys.

07:07:04.520 We're going to let a few more come through.

07:07:06.380 We're going to get through some of the notes here because we haven't done all the notes.

07:07:09.840 And then, hopefully, we'll have an earlier wrap-up here.

07:07:13.220 So, why don't we do, Alora, it's time for you to take your fake lashes off.

07:07:22.060 I already took them off.

07:07:23.240 Oh, you did?

07:07:24.100 Oh, wow.

07:07:25.580 Nice.

07:07:26.380 I did.

07:07:27.320 Congrats.

07:07:28.320 Thank you.

07:07:28.840 Congrats.

07:07:29.940 Oh, I like your real lashes.

07:07:30.980 Alora, you said your recent ex is a crazy, pathological liar you've ever met.

07:07:35.780 He's very emotional.

07:07:36.780 He used to jump out the car while you're driving, broke your windshield, and other things in the car spit on you.

07:07:42.580 He told you you were getting deported?

07:07:45.740 Yeah, he did.

07:07:46.240 Are you, like, Mexican?

07:07:47.260 I'm from New York.

07:07:49.020 And he told me he was going to deport me back to New York.

07:07:51.720 Oh.

07:07:53.580 Mind you, he's from Russia.

07:07:56.020 So, literally, that can't happen.

07:07:58.660 He was just very drunk.

07:08:00.740 You can get deported back to another state?

07:08:02.800 Yeah.

07:08:03.480 What?

07:08:03.860 I'm in New York State, please.

07:08:05.740 Any illegals on the panel?

07:08:08.460 Any illegal aliens?

07:08:10.520 Kaylee?

07:08:11.940 I'm just laughing because people make a lot of hate comments to me, and they're like,

07:08:16.140 yo, we're going to get you deported.

07:08:17.500 I'm like, dude, my dad was an American citizen.

07:08:19.480 Calm down.

07:08:20.240 Chill out.

07:08:20.620 Sit down.

07:08:21.440 Chill out.

07:08:21.620 So, are you of Mexican descent?

07:08:23.860 Yeah.

07:08:24.200 My dad's family from Mattis.

07:08:27.780 I mean, I just was asking.

07:08:30.580 So, anyways, you have the receipts about the deportation comments.

07:08:37.420 I feel like that's not funny, though.

07:08:38.460 It was a while.

07:08:38.480 That's kind of funny, though.

07:08:39.740 That's funny.

07:08:40.300 Like, the first time I was here.

07:08:40.760 Like, if you were Mexican or some shit, that might be offensive.

07:08:43.220 It was hilarious.

07:08:43.940 It was like, he was trying to deport you to New York.

07:08:48.160 Yep.

07:08:49.560 I'd laugh in his face.

07:08:50.220 You should have tried to deport him back.

07:08:51.720 Like, you're the Russian.

07:08:55.000 You said narcissistic mama's boys and why they need to be bopped.

07:08:58.400 What does that mean?

07:08:58.880 Like, punched?

07:08:59.320 I need to be bopped.

07:08:59.860 Are you violent?

07:09:00.700 No.

07:09:00.900 Have you ever punched a guy?

07:09:01.860 No.

07:09:02.460 Have you ever slashed a dude's tires?

07:09:03.760 No.

07:09:04.200 Have you ever gotten revenge on somebody?

07:09:06.500 No.

07:09:06.860 Be honest.

07:09:07.540 I'm being honest.

07:09:08.260 You've definitely revenged.

07:09:09.440 Come on.

07:09:09.680 You've revenged somebody.

07:09:11.020 You broke up with someone on the live.

07:09:12.660 Yeah.

07:09:12.980 What the fuck?

07:09:13.160 If that counts as revenge, I guess.

07:09:14.140 Yeah, at the beginning of the day.

07:09:15.600 A little bit of a statement.

07:09:16.960 But I've never gone out of my way to, like, get revenge maliciously on somebody.

07:09:22.420 Modern dating has gone weird and dangerous.

07:09:24.360 It's a big joke out there waiting to be laughed at.

07:09:26.480 Ella Mayo.

07:09:27.460 My ex most, you said your ex most recent relationship men really got disgusting over COVID.

07:09:32.620 For real, for real.

07:09:33.560 Oh, these might be your old notes.

07:09:34.760 I was going to say, those are my old ones.

07:09:36.400 Because we talked about that last time on the show.

07:09:39.260 For real, for real.

07:09:41.500 So, let's see.

07:09:42.300 The other notes we have.

07:09:44.720 I know I talked about, I had texted this time about how many guys I've seen really leeching

07:09:54.560 off of women who are making money.

07:09:56.400 And that's not the only situation I have heard of or seen in L.A.

07:10:01.520 And that's why I said it's becoming such, like, a bigger problem in that sense of men are

07:10:07.780 really happy to just sit and let the women do everything.

07:10:12.560 And that's how the roles are reversing.

07:10:14.360 Sure.

07:10:14.540 And you're seeing it more and more.

07:10:16.400 Okay.

07:10:16.720 It's kind of scary.

07:10:17.420 Kitty, going to your notes, you said, the dude that just played me that I was seeing

07:10:21.640 is a fan of my F buddy.

07:10:23.980 When bro thought he was playing me for a new bitch, I smashed the artist's art.

07:10:30.240 I smashed the artist.

07:10:31.560 He's a fan of the night I hit him up.

07:10:33.640 I low-key miss you before I smashed.

07:10:38.680 Yep.

07:10:39.080 So, wait.

07:10:41.620 Not getting into it, but exactly what you just said.

07:10:43.520 So, he's a fan of...

07:10:45.620 All I'm going to say is one time I had someone playing that I've been good friends with for,

07:10:50.500 like, three and a half years on my Alexa.

07:10:53.940 And bro asked who it was.

07:10:56.660 No, he was like, oh, this is so-and-so.

07:10:58.640 I met him.

07:10:59.960 Who is it?

07:11:00.740 I'm not saying who.

07:11:02.060 But, okay.

07:11:03.280 So, yeah.

07:11:03.820 What's the story, I guess?

07:11:05.020 Wait, what?

07:11:05.600 What's the story?

07:11:06.300 What's the rest?

07:11:06.740 Oh, all I'm going to say is when she revealed the truth, but actually, no.

07:11:11.060 That happened before it happened.

07:11:12.300 Can you read this in your own words?

07:11:14.140 Because I'm too articulate and white, you know, to, like, say that.

07:11:19.200 Like, say it how you would say it.

07:11:20.720 I'm dyslexic.

07:11:21.780 So.

07:11:22.800 Wait, here's what I'm going to do.

07:11:24.000 I'm going to copy and paste this.

07:11:25.780 No, you're making fun of my dyslexia.

07:11:27.920 I'm going to copy and paste this.

07:11:29.300 No, it's not dyslexia.

07:11:30.140 It's just, I'm going to have you-

07:11:31.180 It is dyslexia.

07:11:32.020 I'm going to have you read it.

07:11:34.500 Oh, man.

07:11:35.320 Read it.

07:11:35.620 I was also driving it in the car.

07:11:37.380 Read it.

07:11:37.460 Read it.

07:11:37.940 The dude that just played me I was seeing is a fan of my fuck buddy.

07:11:42.880 When bro thought he was playing me for a new bitch, I smashed an artist.

07:11:46.640 He's a fan of the night I hit him up.

07:11:50.020 I low-key.

07:11:51.100 Oh, wait.

07:11:51.500 Did I not write the whole thing?

07:11:52.640 No.

07:11:52.840 It just, it only shows some of it.

07:11:54.780 I texted him.

07:11:55.880 I low-key miss him and then smashed my fuck buddy that he's a fan of.

07:12:01.800 Michael Jones donated $20.

07:12:04.140 Thank you, man.

07:12:04.640 Brian, give us a psychic reading.

07:12:06.500 For sure.

07:12:06.920 Since you are one.

07:12:08.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:12:08.620 I got you.

07:12:09.120 Mike Jones.

07:12:09.900 I got you.

07:12:10.500 Who?

07:12:11.100 Mike Jones.

07:12:12.080 Yeah.

07:12:12.580 Who?

07:12:13.220 Mike Jones.

07:12:14.620 Back then, 304s didn't want me.

07:12:17.600 Now I'm hot.

07:12:18.500 304s all on me.

07:12:21.080 All on, all on me.

07:12:22.860 All on me.

07:12:23.640 Thank you, Michael.

07:12:24.220 Uh, psychic.

07:12:24.860 I'll do one psychic reading.

07:12:26.620 Uh, who wants a psychic reading?

07:12:28.600 I'm a psychic.

07:12:32.500 Uh, shit, this is hard.

07:12:35.180 Who I can go?

07:12:36.000 I can board.

07:12:36.640 No, I can board.

07:12:37.560 She can go.

07:12:38.140 Okay, I'm going to do you.

07:12:39.380 I'll do you.

07:12:40.520 Okay.

07:12:41.700 A psychic reading, not like a, never mind.

07:12:44.860 What?

07:12:45.700 What?

07:12:46.520 What do you, get your mind out of the gutter.

07:12:48.220 I didn't have one.

07:12:49.400 Get your mind out of the gutter, Emma.

07:12:51.500 Ridiculous.

07:12:52.040 You implied it.

07:12:52.620 You implied it with your brain.

07:12:55.460 You definitely implied that shit.

07:12:56.740 Anyways, so, okay, you are currently dating a dude, but it's only been a month.

07:13:03.460 Yeah.

07:13:05.300 I have this intuition about him.

07:13:09.680 He's secretly gay.

07:13:11.380 So, you know, and, you know, we talked before the show and you said that he liked to do butt

07:13:16.800 stuff, so, uh, just kidding.

07:13:18.900 She didn't say that.

07:13:19.420 I don't remember saying that.

07:13:20.600 I'm kidding.

07:13:20.620 Joke.

07:13:20.940 Just, just jokes.

07:13:22.540 But you, this is going to present a conflict in your relationship, his homosexuality, and

07:13:28.760 so, not because you have anything against gays, but you don't really want to peg him.

07:13:37.360 So, you're just going to break up with him, and then you're going to date a cardiologist,

07:13:43.560 and you guys are going to live happily ever after, and it's going to be great.

07:13:46.960 Cardiologist?

07:13:47.720 Neologist?

07:13:48.160 Is that, like, is that your, um, kind of, like, what you're guessing of my, um, relationship?

07:13:53.320 Or, like, kind of, like, my, my future, or?

07:13:55.720 I was getting more about the cardiologist.

07:13:58.820 So, I don't like dating my coworkers, so I would never date a doctor or a resident.

07:14:04.160 I've never done that before.

07:14:06.200 Ex-cardiologist is what I was going to say.

07:14:08.340 Oh.

07:14:09.800 He's retired.

07:14:11.260 He's retired.

07:14:12.020 He now, he now does, um, he, he paints.

07:14:17.660 He does painting of dogs.

07:14:19.980 Painting of dogs.

07:14:20.460 He paints dogs.

07:14:21.580 He does portraits.

07:14:22.960 And he's doing very well for himself.

07:14:24.540 He has an Etsy store.

07:14:26.180 Okay.

07:14:26.840 Yeah.

07:14:27.280 Right?

07:14:28.040 And, yeah.

07:14:29.580 But then, he's going to die, and then you're going to move back to Cambodia.

07:14:33.740 Oh.

07:14:34.240 Oh.

07:14:34.700 Yeah.

07:14:35.100 I want to visit Cambodia with my family, but.

07:14:38.120 You're going to move back to Cambodia and become a nun.

07:14:41.180 Oh, wow.

07:14:42.020 Oh, that's escalated.

07:14:44.320 In Cambodia.

07:14:45.440 Okay.

07:14:45.680 I don't know.

07:14:46.140 There you go.

07:14:46.540 All right, Mike Jones.

07:14:47.220 Let me let the rest come through.

07:14:48.200 Ridiculous.

07:14:48.800 That's so ridiculous.

07:14:49.860 Coastal operator donated $19.99.

07:14:54.460 Chair one, pirate.

07:14:56.480 Roasted.

07:14:57.340 Boom.

07:14:57.520 Chair two, Miss Piggy.

07:14:58.980 Oh, wow.

07:14:59.600 Roasted.

07:15:00.240 Boom.

07:15:00.640 Chair five, Adderall Levine.

07:15:03.020 Roasted.

07:15:03.440 Adderall Levine.

07:15:05.000 Did you take Adderall?

07:15:05.820 Yeah.

07:15:07.020 Chair seven, I love your work in the Geico commercials.

07:15:10.880 You were in the Geico commercials.

07:15:13.480 That's dope.

07:15:14.400 All right.

07:15:15.020 Geico.

07:15:15.640 Thank you, Coastal.

07:15:16.720 Comer 594 donated $20.

07:15:20.320 Nothing personal, ladies.

07:15:22.400 It was a roast session.

07:15:24.220 I definitely disagree with many of your choices, but you came on this show and I'm entertained.

07:15:30.320 So, props to you.

07:15:32.280 And no chat.

07:15:33.380 This isn't simping.

07:15:34.560 Thank you, Murph.

07:15:35.140 Appreciate it.

07:15:36.140 IT underscore virgin donated $20.

07:15:39.740 Chair six is worth waiting for.

07:15:41.960 Aw.

07:15:43.280 Aw.

07:15:43.760 That's cute.

07:15:45.620 Sweet.

07:15:46.640 Okay.

07:15:48.100 Night.

07:15:49.140 Thank you, IT virgin.

07:15:50.820 I think.

07:15:52.820 That's his name.

07:15:53.740 Oh, the night.

07:15:54.220 Oh, that's below the threshold.

07:15:55.300 Thank you, Night.

07:15:55.680 I know that I appreciate it.

07:15:56.940 Aaron Chambers says, shout out from Tuscaloosa, Alabama.

07:15:59.200 The biggest problem with modern women is perhaps the modern man that accepts degeneracy because they are degenerate themselves.

07:16:05.760 Without a compass outside secular humanism, we are left to our own devices.

07:16:10.060 Inevitably.

07:16:10.660 Hashtag World Tide.

07:16:11.760 Aaron Chambers, shout out to you in Alabama.

07:16:14.620 I was researching Alabama recently.

07:16:16.760 I don't know why.

07:16:18.140 But thank you, man.

07:16:18.920 Appreciate it.

07:16:21.200 Going back to you, Kitty, your notes.

07:16:22.920 You said also you come from a family of strippers.

07:16:24.960 Your dad, grandma, and mom.

07:16:27.120 Wait.

07:16:27.420 Your dad?

07:16:28.260 Yep.

07:16:28.520 As a stripper.

07:16:29.320 Yep.

07:16:29.720 What?

07:16:30.900 Wow.

07:16:31.300 I actually have an altar.

07:16:35.900 An altar?

07:16:37.080 Yeah, it's actually on my story of my Instagram.

07:16:41.620 And I show the altar and everyone always sees my dad.

07:16:43.980 They're like, is that a naked man?

07:16:45.580 But on my altar, I have a photo of my dad with a little thong behind the pole.

07:16:49.720 Oh, damn.

07:16:50.940 And my grandmother used to own a strip club.

07:16:53.720 And my grandmother forced my mom to be a dancer.

07:16:56.800 So, even though I'm retired, and I'm doing well, and I work with children and everything

07:17:02.320 else, no one could ever say, your parents must be proud, because that's all I have to

07:17:08.420 say.

07:17:09.520 Sweet.

07:17:09.960 Strippers.

07:17:10.640 That's dope.

07:17:12.520 That's cool.

07:17:13.560 Yeah.

07:17:13.720 Is your dad, is he still with us?

07:17:16.180 No, he died when I was 16.

07:17:18.500 Sorry to hear that.

07:17:19.580 Yeah.

07:17:20.020 But just to be clear, the photo you do have of him is in a thong?

07:17:25.560 My mom gave it to me when I moved to Austin, Texas, because my mom thought it would be

07:17:30.940 funny and a good memory of my dad.

07:17:32.460 Okay.

07:17:33.020 All right.

07:17:34.320 Let's see.

07:17:35.560 Update on your crazy ex who bashed your windows out.

07:17:37.700 You ended up back to seeing each other again for three weeks, and then he screwed you over

07:17:43.340 for an escort and trying to tell you-

07:17:45.420 That is old notes.

07:17:47.040 He is not valid.

07:17:48.780 He is done.

07:17:50.240 He is no more.

07:17:52.420 Done.

07:17:52.860 You said body count.

07:17:54.820 We already talked about this pretty much.

07:17:56.060 Body count shouldn't matter.

07:17:57.240 The only thing that matters is like an HIV, STD test.

07:18:00.160 That's what should really matter, and the new younger generation have higher body count

07:18:04.220 than the older generations.

07:18:05.360 Yep.

07:18:05.920 Okay.

07:18:08.100 Let's see.

07:18:13.020 You had a strictly platonic relationship where this guy was your slave.

07:18:16.640 That's old.

07:18:17.340 He liked to be kicked in the groin.

07:18:19.200 He was your dog.

07:18:20.040 And you'd walk him like a leash.

07:18:22.560 He had a dog collar that stayed property of kitty if lost return.

07:18:27.420 Yes.

07:18:27.920 That was my old slave.

07:18:29.500 And if I knew these old notes would have repeated, he actually wrote on a piece of paper

07:18:35.860 something to the whatever podcast about me kicking him.

07:18:40.260 Yeah.

07:18:41.100 Wait, what?

07:18:41.880 Yeah.

07:18:42.260 My old slave, he-

07:18:43.580 What did he write?

07:18:44.380 He wrote on a piece-

07:18:45.520 Remember, if I knew you were going to pull up the old notes, I would have literally sent

07:18:48.980 you the thing, and he actually wrote and I think tagged you guys about what I used to

07:18:54.540 do to him.

07:18:55.800 Those are old from like two episodes ago on here.

07:18:59.540 Oh, okay.

07:19:00.040 Those notes.

07:19:00.800 Cool.

07:19:01.260 Yeah.

07:19:01.700 I don't know.

07:19:02.020 It was just there.

07:19:02.920 BDSM.

07:19:03.580 Oh, we have Toria here.

07:19:05.220 Toria.

07:19:05.800 She's never been on an actual date.

07:19:09.300 Scoot into the table just now.

07:19:10.500 Yeah.

07:19:11.620 Um, I've never been on a planned date.

07:19:14.680 Like, I just meet people.

07:19:16.940 Weren't you in a three-year relationship?

07:19:18.720 Yeah.

07:19:19.380 Yeah.

07:19:19.780 Now, when you say been on an act, do you mean like a first date?

07:19:21.700 Like, okay, let's meet.

07:19:22.840 We're here.

07:19:23.880 I've never done a dating app.

07:19:25.420 But what about like the three-year relationship?

07:19:27.380 Would you go out to like dinner?

07:19:29.180 Yeah, but I wouldn't-

07:19:30.180 You wouldn't call it a date?

07:19:30.900 Because there's not like an official date.

07:19:32.240 An official date.

07:19:33.140 Okay.

07:19:33.520 Like, I've never been like, okay, let's meet up for the first time.

07:19:38.280 Get dinner.

07:19:38.600 Here, this restaurant.

07:19:39.400 You just go over to their house and just scissor?

07:19:42.980 Or what do you do?

07:19:43.980 Oh.

07:19:44.460 Oh, because-

07:19:45.020 I mean, that's not on the table.

07:19:46.420 You just, you just said, oh, you don't-

07:19:48.320 Oh, okay.

07:19:48.760 You're more-

07:19:48.960 I just meet people organically, I guess.

07:19:51.160 And then we like hang out.

07:19:53.040 It's not like a definitive date.

07:19:58.040 Do you go for walks or you go-

07:20:00.480 Yeah.

07:20:01.680 You go to the theater?

07:20:04.060 Yeah.

07:20:04.820 That's happened.

07:20:05.380 You go to the theater.

07:20:05.960 That's happened.

07:20:06.760 Okay, that's cool.

07:20:07.720 You've never used dating apps, though.

07:20:09.400 No.

07:20:09.880 So, you meet these people organically.

07:20:11.580 Yeah.

07:20:12.940 I see.

07:20:14.020 Mm-hmm.

07:20:14.920 Just like-

07:20:15.240 That's dope.

07:20:16.060 You've been on weird dates with friends, though, but you've never been on them.

07:20:19.580 Yeah.

07:20:20.120 Like, I've been on dates with my friends and their sugar daddies.

07:20:23.800 And then they'll, like, pay for everything.

07:20:28.020 Went to this really cool Brazilian barbecue spot somewhere in L.A.

07:20:32.640 And then I was like, how much do I Venmo?

07:20:34.580 And then she was like, oh, that's cute.

07:20:36.660 Nightgall donated $20 Australian dollars.

07:20:38.740 I'm sorry.

07:20:39.000 I didn't mean to interrupt that.

07:20:39.780 You look better without makeup.

07:20:41.720 Share too much better.

07:20:42.820 Ah, there you go.

07:20:43.940 I don't know why.

07:20:44.260 Thank you, but I filmed-

07:20:45.160 Oh, wait.

07:20:45.380 Was that me?

07:20:46.560 I'm like, I think it's me.

07:20:47.620 You're beautiful.

07:20:49.500 Thank you.

07:20:50.160 You mentioned love at first sight.

07:20:52.420 Yeah.

07:20:52.720 What do you mean by that?

07:20:53.680 Have you been in love at first sight, or?

07:20:55.600 Yeah, I asked that because I had this-

07:20:58.540 Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

07:20:59.580 Had this experience when I went to Flognaw and Camp Flognaw.

07:21:05.460 Who the fuck is that guy?

07:21:07.840 It's a music festival, I think, right?

07:21:09.560 Yeah, yeah.

07:21:10.700 Tyler, the creator.

07:21:12.080 Yep.

07:21:12.900 Runs this.

07:21:13.580 Who was, yeah?

07:21:15.160 Mm-hmm.

07:21:15.480 You fell in love with who?

07:21:17.020 So I just met this person.

07:21:18.480 I was like, oh, I like your fit.

07:21:19.780 And then we said, I love you within the first 36 hours.

07:21:23.580 Fully meant it.

07:21:24.640 Like, this was my twin.

07:21:26.320 Like, and then I found out that he had a tattoo of my Chinese name on his chest.

07:21:33.320 And I was like, what the fuck?

07:21:35.200 This is crazy.

07:21:36.280 And we've, like, done the same shit.

07:21:38.400 We look like we were matching.

07:21:39.640 It was weird.

07:21:40.740 But then it just ended.

07:21:42.420 It just ended.

07:21:43.280 Wait, what do you mean it just ended?

07:21:44.540 On Valentine's Day.

07:21:45.660 It just ended.

07:21:46.000 Oh, recently.

07:21:46.560 Recently.

07:21:47.380 Yeah.

07:21:47.520 How long were you guys dating?

07:21:49.780 Um, that was in November.

07:21:52.280 Like, mid-November.

07:21:53.480 Uh-huh.

07:21:53.620 But he also lives in D.C.

07:21:55.760 I see.

07:21:56.920 Okay.

07:21:57.200 Mm-hmm.

07:21:57.940 You can pull that up, Damien.

07:21:58.980 Yo, Christopher, thanks for the gifted 20 memberships.

07:22:01.400 Really appreciate it, man.

07:22:02.040 Guys, W's in the chat.

07:22:03.320 Oh, wait.

07:22:03.620 I have to trigger it.

07:22:04.380 Hold on.

07:22:04.720 Let me see if I can trigger it.

07:22:06.380 Yo, Christopher, thanks for the gifted 20 memberships, man.

07:22:08.700 Appreciate it.

07:22:09.640 Uh, okay.

07:22:10.420 He had your, the tattoo, Chinese name.

07:22:12.780 Okay.

07:22:14.040 And right after Love at First Sight, very romantic of you.

07:22:19.260 You write, Shit Eater.

07:22:21.680 Yes.

07:22:22.340 Same guy?

07:22:23.180 Different guy.

07:22:23.920 Not same guy.

07:22:24.920 Different guy.

07:22:25.640 Uh, what's the story?

07:22:28.100 Um, so I was in Berlin this summer.

07:22:31.400 Of course.

07:22:32.280 Yeah.

07:22:32.800 It's Germans.

07:22:33.060 And I went to this club.

07:22:34.620 I fully did not know this was a sex club.

07:22:37.920 Yikes.

07:22:38.540 I walk in by myself because my friend got COVID.

07:22:42.040 And I'm like, I'm terrified in this club.

07:22:45.060 They like separate me from this line.

07:22:47.760 And they make me go in my own line.

07:22:49.500 They're like, okay, do you know what you're here for?

07:22:51.380 I was like, this is a club?

07:22:52.760 No.

07:22:53.040 And they're like, but what are you doing here?

07:22:54.340 I was like, I don't know.

07:22:55.280 Like, dancing.

07:22:56.760 And they're like, do you know what happens here?

07:22:58.620 Like, talk to the bartenders if you're uncomfortable.

07:23:03.780 And I met this German man.

07:23:06.300 And we were talking for like a few hours.

07:23:09.900 And he asked me to eat my shit for money.

07:23:15.220 How much?

07:23:16.340 Like.

07:23:16.820 How many Reichsmarks did he offer?

07:23:18.840 Like, 200.

07:23:20.620 Gross.

07:23:21.760 Damn.

07:23:22.480 Yeah.

07:23:23.020 That's crazy.

07:23:24.000 It was crazy.

07:23:24.900 That's wild.

07:23:25.300 And then I was just like on the plane back thinking about it.

07:23:27.580 Like, damn.

07:23:30.340 Wow.

07:23:30.940 Wow.

07:23:31.320 And then I talked to him for like seven more hours after that.

07:23:35.260 Trying to understand the, like, psychology behind that.

07:23:38.740 And it was deep.

07:23:40.300 It's like, wow.

07:23:42.200 Yo.

07:23:44.480 It's an intense thing.

07:23:45.840 Mm-hmm.

07:23:46.340 Okay.

07:23:47.000 Yeah.

07:23:47.680 Cool.

07:23:48.260 Good times.

07:23:49.340 Good times.

07:23:50.300 Yeah.

07:23:51.340 Did you do it?

07:23:52.520 No, I tried.

07:23:53.440 I tried.

07:23:54.240 But I was like.

07:23:55.840 What do you mean you tried?

07:23:57.380 I was like, as much as I would defile you for money, I respect you too much.

07:24:02.240 Even if you want it.

07:24:03.420 Damn.

07:24:04.080 I can't do it.

07:24:04.680 Wild.

07:24:05.100 A non-donated $20.

07:24:07.500 How the hell is seat two a stripper?

07:24:09.800 Who the hell would pay to see that?

07:24:11.320 Oh, my God.

07:24:11.620 I couldn't get paid to get a lap dance from her.

07:24:14.540 Seat six full pick me girl.

07:24:16.320 Uh-oh.

07:24:16.560 Pick me.

07:24:17.020 Seat seven is insane, but at least honest.

07:24:19.420 Oh, there you go.

07:24:20.020 Seat five VIP.

07:24:20.920 Seat five VIP.

07:24:22.740 Michael Jones donated $20.

07:24:24.380 Thank you, bro.

07:24:24.940 Thank you, Michael Jones.

07:24:25.520 Seat one looks like the bully in every street to DVD high school.

07:24:28.780 That's so true.

07:24:29.520 That's a compliment.

07:24:30.280 Seat seven looks like the bad oldest sister in the same movies.

07:24:36.340 Is that a rose?

07:24:37.980 Seat five donated $19.99.

07:24:42.380 Seat nine, the chat requests an argmaties.

07:24:45.560 You're never going to find·thalda blues while making a hook with your hand and closing one arm.

07:24:50.180 You have to do it.

07:24:51.980 Okay, okay.

07:24:53.160 Send another $20, okay?

07:24:55.620 No, you got to do it for this one here.

07:24:57.680 I'm pulling it back up.

07:24:58.400 Wait, I need the font.

07:24:59.220 Coastal operator donated $19.

07:25:02.540 Okay, read.

07:25:03.620 Arr, mateys.

07:25:04.760 Okay.

07:25:05.520 Arr, mateys, you're never going to find that doubloons.

07:25:11.900 That was beautiful.

07:25:13.700 Clip it and ship it, boys.

07:25:14.820 You can unmute.

07:25:17.760 Father off two girls donated $20.

07:25:21.140 Not a roast, but chair six.

07:25:23.660 As a married 30-year-old guy with two little girls,

07:25:27.060 want you to know you should be proud of yourself and wait for the right guy.

07:25:31.300 Your dad would be slash she's very proud of you.

07:25:34.140 That's so sweet.

07:25:34.900 There you go.

07:25:35.740 Don't make me cry, but thank you.

07:25:37.700 There you go.

07:25:38.440 Thank you, father of two girls.

07:25:39.580 That was nice.

07:25:40.220 That's so sweet.

07:25:40.720 Very sweet, very sweet.

07:25:42.220 Okay, finishing up Toria's notes here.

07:25:44.580 You said you wanted to speak about polyamory, so you're polyamorous.

07:25:47.760 We kind of talked about that at the beginning.

07:25:49.480 Yeah, about that.

07:25:50.020 Dating all genders.

07:25:51.700 Okay, kind of talked about that long distance.

07:25:54.300 Okay, compatibility, love languages.

07:25:57.240 Emotionally unavailable people.

07:26:00.240 Kind of covered most of it.

07:26:01.560 I think we did.

07:26:02.180 Yeah.

07:26:02.880 I agree.

07:26:04.240 Okay.

07:26:05.080 Let's see.

07:26:05.680 We have M.

07:26:07.220 Going back to you, Emma.

07:26:10.280 You said you're so single by choice.

07:26:12.880 I am.

07:26:13.240 So single.

07:26:13.980 Yeah.

07:26:14.180 What does that mean, so single?

07:26:15.320 It means that I'm extremely single and I'm not the happiest about it.

07:26:18.480 Into the mic?

07:26:19.100 It means that I'm super single and I'm not the happiest about it.

07:26:22.120 Yeah.

07:26:22.680 Yeah.

07:26:22.860 Do you scare off men is that what you're saying or you just don't like the dude?

07:26:28.320 Like, what are you saying?

07:26:29.820 I wouldn't say I scare off men.

07:26:34.660 I think I probably intimidate men a little bit.

07:26:37.300 When we shook hands, your grip was strong.

07:26:41.520 I've been told that my whole life, that I have a great handshake.

07:26:43.660 You have a solid handshake.

07:26:45.820 It was a good handshake.

07:26:47.120 Thank you.

07:26:48.380 You asserted your dominance.

07:26:49.820 And then, actually, guys, she went into one of the corners and started urinating.

07:26:55.580 Holy.

07:26:56.380 Why are we lying?

07:26:58.080 That's what dogs do.

07:27:00.560 Mark territory.

07:27:01.380 This is my territory.

07:27:02.400 She just popped a squat and looked me in the eyes.

07:27:04.820 Like, dead in the eyes.

07:27:05.780 She looked me in the eyes.

07:27:07.080 You know how dogs poop?

07:27:08.740 Like, when dogs poop?

07:27:10.040 We're lying.

07:27:10.280 You know when dogs poop?

07:27:11.720 And they look at you.

07:27:13.480 I know.

07:27:14.660 It means you feel protected.

07:27:16.280 This is blasphemy.

07:27:17.780 No, she just, and she kind of urinated on the carpet, too.

07:27:20.560 So, we had to clean it before the show.

07:27:23.020 It was disturbing.

07:27:24.880 Cruising, bruising, bruising.

07:27:26.980 Just kidding.

07:27:27.760 That did not happen.

07:27:29.640 Obviously.

07:27:30.000 It was, yeah.

07:27:33.580 Good talk.

07:27:34.200 You said you grew up pretty conservative.

07:27:36.660 Your views are more right-leaning, but you're not sure you'd fully identify with the party

07:27:39.800 right now?

07:27:40.380 Yep.

07:27:40.940 Okay.

07:27:42.580 I don't know if I saw this in your Instagram.

07:27:44.620 You describe yourself as a Christian astrologer?

07:27:47.140 What is that?

07:27:48.100 Yeah, that's on my ex.

07:27:50.660 Or your Twitter, yeah?

07:27:51.620 Yeah.

07:27:51.860 You said you've seen it all, been through it all.

07:27:53.940 What does that mean?

07:27:54.660 Seen it all, been through it all?

07:27:55.860 Yeah?

07:27:56.740 Well, I told you a little bit about, like...

07:27:58.460 Yeah, all the stuff.

07:27:59.760 Well, yep.

07:28:01.320 I have my abusive ex, and then I had a pretty abusive mom growing up.

07:28:08.180 Like, verbally?

07:28:09.420 What kind?

07:28:10.040 Like, smash concrete lamps on my head and chase me with knives.

07:28:13.320 Damn.

07:28:14.740 That's crazy.

07:28:15.960 Yeah.

07:28:16.740 So, you know, I've lived a lot of life very young.

07:28:20.280 Question.

07:28:20.740 Have you ever dated a guy...

07:28:21.760 Like, has every guy you've dated been abusive to you?

07:28:27.860 No.

07:28:28.580 Okay.

07:28:29.020 But some of them have.

07:28:32.740 I would say that one is the only one that was, like, as intensely and physically abusive.

07:28:44.040 The homeless guy?

07:28:45.000 Or wait, which guy was that?

07:28:46.100 Hold on.

07:28:46.700 Let me think.

07:28:47.500 Not the homeless guy.

07:28:48.300 The abusive boyfriend.

07:28:50.280 Oh, the older...

07:28:51.040 Yeah.

07:28:51.200 Like, the four-year-old one.

07:28:52.460 Yikes.

07:28:53.500 Okay.

07:28:53.880 So...

07:28:54.560 Oh, it's okay.

07:28:55.020 Don't worry about it.

07:28:55.540 Fatty fat donated $19.

07:28:57.120 Unless you want to tell it.

07:28:57.980 I don't know.

07:28:58.440 I was going to say that.

07:28:59.620 Chair one, are you wearing a Dale Jarrett UPS NASCAR jacket?

07:29:04.360 If so, do you even know what NASCAR stands for?

07:29:08.340 If you don't know the answer to this, you need to eat another banana.

07:29:11.640 And you actually have to eat it in one bite.

07:29:14.560 Can you do that?

07:29:15.380 Um, I like how you just assume it's the banana, because it is.

07:29:22.080 Wait, what?

07:29:22.880 Because I don't know what it stands for.

07:29:25.080 Oh, okay.

07:29:25.660 I was just gifted this jacket.

07:29:27.740 Oh, she got gifted.

07:29:29.120 What the...

07:29:30.600 Yeah.

07:29:32.880 So, do you want the banana now or later?

07:29:34.960 Oh.

07:29:37.000 Good talk.

07:29:37.640 Maybe in a second.

07:29:38.980 Okay.

07:29:39.280 Just had one.

07:29:40.140 She just ate one.

07:29:40.820 Just had a banana.

07:29:41.620 She just had one.

07:29:44.280 In your...

07:29:44.960 I think this is on your IG.

07:29:46.840 Something...

07:29:47.480 Aetherius Apothecary?

07:29:48.940 What is that?

07:29:49.340 Yeah.

07:29:49.760 I own an apothecary.

07:29:50.980 What is an apothecary?

07:29:53.080 So, it's kind of just like a small little self-care shop right now.

07:29:57.400 But I do herbal blends.

07:29:58.760 So, I make two kinds of tea.

07:30:00.880 And I make lemon honey.

07:30:03.520 And I'm working on a bug spray and a bug bite bomb for the summer cup.

07:30:08.480 Excuse me.

07:30:09.100 Oh, my God.

07:30:09.700 Do you do alchemy?

07:30:10.740 Or is it just apothecary?

07:30:12.640 Well, I mean, yeah.

07:30:13.860 It's just the apothecary.

07:30:15.280 Okay.

07:30:15.480 You're not doing like crazy shit, though.

07:30:17.040 Like witchcraft shit.

07:30:18.760 Like, no.

07:30:20.820 Okay.

07:30:21.220 I do tarot readings and I burn sage.

07:30:23.900 Oh, no.

07:30:24.480 Okay.

07:30:25.000 Oh, no.

07:30:25.960 But, yes.

07:30:26.400 I am also a Christian.

07:30:28.260 Are you a witch?

07:30:28.820 You're a Christian?

07:30:29.500 Yeah.

07:30:30.060 Wait, you're a Christian who does...

07:30:31.340 I have Christian, yes.

07:30:32.180 Tarot?

07:30:32.580 Isn't tarot cards...

07:30:34.520 Isn't that like heresy?

07:30:36.760 Yeah.

07:30:37.220 Isn't that heresy?

07:30:40.100 Right.

07:30:40.720 Chat.

07:30:41.080 Any Christians in the chat?

07:30:42.200 Help me out.

07:30:42.660 Yeah.

07:30:43.000 I mean, it says in the Bible that stay away from your astrologers and tarot and things like

07:30:47.380 that.

07:30:47.740 But, so, how do you reconcile that?

07:30:51.580 Okay.

07:30:53.020 So, I'm trying to think of the best way to explain it.

07:30:56.800 Think about it.

07:30:57.520 Think about it.

07:30:58.100 No.

07:30:58.500 I know why.

07:30:59.380 I'm just trying to figure out how to display it eloquently enough so that anyone who can

07:31:05.200 see this will also understand.

07:31:08.060 You're a heretic?

07:31:09.000 Just say that.

07:31:09.960 Are you a heretic?

07:31:11.160 No.

07:31:11.640 What denomination of Christian are you?

07:31:13.600 So, here's the thing.

07:31:14.700 My dad and I, we moved around a lot growing up and so we jumped churches a lot and I saw

07:31:20.300 a lot of corruption in organized Christian churches.

07:31:24.640 Yep.

07:31:24.900 So, I kind of learned by 14 that no one else can tell me about my relationship with God

07:31:30.540 and that if I pray and I read my Bible and I hold, you know, the same values, no one

07:31:37.060 else can determine my relationship with God but me.

07:31:40.640 And so.

07:31:41.200 So, you're Protestant?

07:31:43.380 Sure.

07:31:44.600 Or like non-denominational?

07:31:46.140 Yeah.

07:31:46.600 Like, I'm very non-denominational.

07:31:48.520 Right.

07:31:48.620 Um, and I, I also.

07:31:50.360 Are you satanic?

07:31:51.380 No.

07:31:53.840 Put that back.

07:31:54.760 Okay.

07:31:55.360 Do you think I'm satanic?

07:31:56.520 Do I give satanism?

07:31:57.540 I don't know.

07:31:57.980 The chat's, the chat's spamming heresy, heresy, blasphemy, satan.

07:32:02.620 Oh my God, she talks to demons.

07:32:04.400 She's going to hell.

07:32:05.720 I mean, I don't, I don't really care.

07:32:08.140 Um, I think.

07:32:09.740 Wait, so religion is that, look, I'm not an expert in theology but you're, you're essentially

07:32:13.620 saying you are the ultimate arbiter of your relationship with, uh, religion and God and

07:32:22.240 you make determinations as to, uh, interpretations related to the Bible?

07:32:26.920 Yep.

07:32:28.120 What is that called?

07:32:29.520 There's a specific, chat, there's a specific, like, theological word for, on the individual

07:32:34.980 level where you make your own determinations.

07:32:37.780 I don't know, chat, anybody want to help me out there with the specific term?

07:32:41.540 I think it's a Latin term, anybody, chat, anybody, not heresy, Gnostic, Christian, cherry

07:32:50.820 picking, no, leftist, no, called delusional, no, that's not what I'm looking, oh, sola scriptura,

07:32:58.940 thank you, that's what I was looking, sola scriptura, wait, chat, I'm not, I don't know

07:33:05.080 much about, is that a heresy though, sola scriptura, is it heretical?

07:33:09.660 Uh, I thought sola scriptura meant, uh, scripture alone.

07:33:14.080 Is it heretical?

07:33:15.640 Well then, yeah.

07:33:16.120 Or I don't, I don't know, I genuinely don't know.

07:33:19.360 Yeah, it does.

07:33:20.120 Sola scriptura, chat, is it heresy?

07:33:21.660 I took the LB for seven years.

07:33:22.740 Is that a heresy?

07:33:23.340 I don't know.

07:33:24.080 Yeah, it does mean that.

07:33:25.780 Anyways.

07:33:26.300 No, you're fine.

07:33:27.240 I'm just curious.

07:33:27.860 All right, whatever.

07:33:28.840 Uh, you said, uh, let's see, oh my gosh, so many, you had someone fake an Australian accent

07:33:33.320 for two and a half years?

07:33:34.240 Yeah.

07:33:34.400 That you were dating?

07:33:35.000 Yep.

07:33:36.560 Yep.

07:33:36.880 Boy, mate, is this giving you flashbacks or?

07:33:41.800 No, so like, I had this one online boyfriend, so this was like my first boyfriend, but we

07:33:49.120 were very on and off and I was 14 to 16, so I don't really consider it like a serious relationship

07:33:53.620 of mine.

07:33:54.860 Um, but this was the partner when I said I don't get back, break up, get back together,

07:33:58.840 this is why.

07:33:59.420 Um, there was one time we would just get in arguments and like fight and block each

07:34:04.940 other, um, and so one time that happened and like two months later he asked me to call

07:34:10.020 him, and so I do, and his Australian accent's gone.

07:34:15.120 Damn.

07:34:17.120 That's weird.

07:34:17.960 Yeah.

07:34:18.420 Okay.

07:34:18.700 I was very taken aback.

07:34:20.180 Wow.

07:34:22.120 Okay.

07:34:22.800 I'm going to let a couple chats come through.

07:34:24.100 Who has a septum piercing anyway?

07:34:37.260 Me.

07:34:38.020 Both of us.

07:34:38.840 Yeah.

07:34:39.180 Red toast.

07:34:41.180 Thank you, toast.

07:34:41.600 Brickson, you have to admit Chair 5 looks like Pxie.

07:34:44.860 Out of curiosity, do you know a Kuma gremlin named Destiny?

07:34:49.340 Have you had sex with Destiny?

07:34:51.560 No.

07:34:52.220 Do you know who Destiny is?

07:34:53.380 Like the YouTuber?

07:34:54.240 The gamer?

07:34:54.320 Coastal operation donated $19.99.

07:34:58.020 Have you hooked up with him?

07:34:58.940 No, I've never even met him.

07:35:00.020 I've talked to him.

07:35:01.580 Chair 2 is Grunjita.

07:35:03.320 Grunjita.

07:35:03.560 Chair 5 sounds like Elmo after his DUI.

07:35:06.860 My voice has been the same.

07:35:07.880 Q, you know you want to roast.

07:35:09.640 Go off, King.

07:35:10.520 One roast, Q.

07:35:12.020 One roast.

07:35:12.960 It can be pirate related if you want.

07:35:15.300 Pirate related.

07:35:16.040 Pirate related.

07:35:17.340 A pirate roast.

07:35:20.360 But do better.

07:35:24.460 I have nothing.

07:35:26.800 Lame.

07:35:28.120 Yeah.

07:35:28.640 It won't be personal.

07:35:30.380 Okay.

07:35:31.300 Okay.

07:35:32.020 So going back to your notes, Emma, you said you had a best friend of years sleep with you,

07:35:36.560 then tell you he had a baby to be delivered soon.

07:35:39.520 Yep.

07:35:40.880 Okay.

07:35:41.800 Oh, this one's a bit more interesting.

07:35:43.280 You said you had an ex, also had brain surgery, and it was a whole thing because you were

07:35:49.680 only working and paying for all the bills.

07:35:52.180 Mm-hmm.

07:35:53.020 Oh, this is, you said he was also extremely abusive, who strangled you and pulled a gun

07:35:56.580 on you.

07:35:56.860 We talked about that, though.

07:35:57.700 We did talk about that.

07:35:58.820 Question.

07:35:59.580 Okay.

07:35:59.860 And if it's too much, if it's a little sensitive, we don't have to do it.

07:36:03.920 I came on here to talk about it.

07:36:05.260 That's cool.

07:36:05.980 Here's what I want you to do.

07:36:08.640 With Laura.

07:36:09.880 Yeah.

07:36:10.760 Can you recreate the strangulation?

07:36:14.420 Whoa.

07:36:15.200 Not full force.

07:36:16.620 Only use 10%.

07:36:17.920 She might get triggered.

07:36:19.180 Look, she's got a strong grip, though.

07:36:21.020 I like it.

07:36:21.460 She got a strong grip.

07:36:22.520 I felt her handshake.

07:36:23.800 So, 10% of your power level.

07:36:25.800 Only use 10% of your power level.

07:36:27.200 Oh, man.

07:36:27.680 Are you, do you consent?

07:36:29.120 I consent.

07:36:29.780 Okay, go ahead.

07:36:30.440 She's into it.

07:36:32.560 She's getting a little excited now.

07:36:34.080 Okay, they're recreating the, they're recreating it.

07:36:36.920 I'm just worried he's going to see this.

07:36:38.800 Okay.

07:36:39.240 Don't hurt her, though, but just, how did the strangulation go?

07:36:43.580 So, it was like, I was standing with my back against the wall.

07:36:47.500 Yeah.

07:36:48.520 I'll just pretend.

07:36:51.200 He was trying, I had the Wi-Fi box like this.

07:36:54.680 Oh.

07:36:56.460 Shit.

07:36:56.980 He was probably trying to play World of Warcraft or some shit.

07:36:58.940 Call of Duty.

07:36:59.980 Okay, oh, Call of Duty.

07:37:01.120 Okay.

07:37:01.280 He was taking a Wi-Fi box.

07:37:02.740 All right.

07:37:03.000 He went to grab it, and I, like, put it over, and I wouldn't give it to him, and so he went

07:37:10.460 like this, like this, and lifted me up the wall.

07:37:13.960 With, up the wall?

07:37:15.400 Yeah.

07:37:15.840 I dropped the Wi-Fi box.

07:37:17.620 He did, like, a, wait, what's that wrestling move where, the, the, where he, they grabbed

07:37:24.400 the neck, chokeslam.

07:37:26.660 She got chokeslam, right?

07:37:28.020 Yeah.

07:37:28.220 I didn't think so.

07:37:29.280 I didn't get, like, slammed.

07:37:30.820 He, like.

07:37:31.020 Oh, okay.

07:37:31.480 He lifted you up the wall.

07:37:32.140 He lifted me up.

07:37:33.040 Were you turned on a little bit, or?

07:37:34.580 Oh, my God.

07:37:35.100 That's such a terrible question.

07:37:36.040 Wait, it was like, what?

07:37:36.740 Were you turned on a little bit?

07:37:38.860 Not when I'm, like, fearing for my life.

07:37:41.060 Yeah.

07:37:41.620 Okay.

07:37:41.880 Okay.

07:37:41.960 Part, part, part two of this.

07:37:43.580 Here, pass this down.

07:37:44.500 Here, grab that.

07:37:45.560 Um, reenact the gun scenario with the banana.

07:37:50.080 This is, this is therapy right now.

07:37:52.260 Okay, reenact it.

07:37:53.000 Hey, I thought this was crazy.

07:37:55.880 Here, um, use the banana as the gun on Kaylee.

07:38:01.340 Okay, so the gun came out last.

07:38:03.760 Is this after you got choked?

07:38:05.380 Yeah.

07:38:06.100 Okay.

07:38:06.300 So, okay.

07:38:07.980 Am I going to get canceled for this?

07:38:10.280 Maybe.

07:38:10.680 Maybe.

07:38:10.760 Making her relive her trauma?

07:38:12.420 Banana violence.

07:38:13.480 I'm like, I've done this in my life now.

07:38:14.580 This is probably therapeutic, to be honest.

07:38:16.480 Yeah, she's being brave.

07:38:18.000 I, absolutely.

07:38:19.300 Thank you for sharing.

07:38:20.080 I don't think any healing happens for myself or for other people who have been in similar

07:38:25.140 Don't worry about it.

07:38:25.880 Just show us the banana gun.

07:38:27.140 Talk about it.

07:38:27.800 Just do the banana gun.

07:38:29.100 Um, so he had just beaten down in the hallway.

07:38:34.900 Don't worry about that.

07:38:35.640 Just show us the gun.

07:38:37.700 Okay.

07:38:38.580 Stick it to, stick it, no, Kaylee.

07:38:40.440 She's the victim.

07:38:41.340 Okay.

07:38:42.660 And then Kaylee has to eat it after.

07:38:45.160 And I'm visualizing.

07:38:46.300 Oh, okay.

07:38:47.200 All right.

07:38:48.220 So, I had tried to call the cops, and, um, he had just taken all the phones, so he really

07:38:54.560 didn't want me calling the cops, so he ran over to his bag, unzipped it, and pulled out

07:38:58.300 the gun.

07:38:58.680 We had just gone back from his trip.

07:39:02.300 Damn, don't do it.

07:39:03.140 You don't gotta do that, man.

07:39:04.480 You don't gotta do it if you don't want to do it.

07:39:06.340 Well, I just, yeah.

07:39:07.960 Damn.

07:39:08.500 I don't know if I can do all that, but, um, yeah.

07:39:12.460 Show us on the banana where he, never mind.

07:39:14.960 Okay.

07:39:16.440 Is that too far?

07:39:17.480 Oh, shit.

07:39:19.320 Hello.

07:39:20.000 Yeah.

07:39:23.340 Okay.

07:39:23.860 All right.

07:39:24.320 Well.

07:39:25.420 Can I reenact this one time Q actually pulled it?

07:39:28.300 Here, pass me the banana.

07:39:30.080 This one time Q pulled a gun on me, he's like, give me your money.

07:39:35.160 And I was like, no.

07:39:36.900 And he's like, yes.

07:39:38.500 And I was like, no.

07:39:39.480 And that was it.

07:39:44.620 Sorry.

07:39:45.380 I'm just kidding.

07:39:46.120 He didn't pull a gun on me.

07:39:46.860 Wait, wait, wait, you put a joke?

07:39:47.860 I'll just take it.

07:39:49.640 Okay.

07:39:50.240 All right.

07:39:51.360 Good talk, guys.

07:39:52.420 Okay.

07:39:52.840 Let's see.

07:39:53.460 You'd just be getting into situations, really.

07:39:55.560 You'd be getting into situations.

07:39:56.920 All right.

07:39:57.300 You said you disagree.

07:39:58.280 You typically agree with Brian on most things, but the bullet thing you disagree with.

07:40:02.860 You think you shouldn't be dating if you're not willing to take a bullet for your partner.

07:40:05.940 We talked about that.

07:40:08.440 Let's see.

07:40:09.320 You can go through all my notes.

07:40:10.580 I also think the porn industry harmful.

07:40:13.740 Let's see.

07:40:17.520 It's extremely hard to find men who want anything except sexual gratification quickly.

07:40:22.000 This has been perpetuated by social media and the rise in porn.

07:40:24.340 Women contributing to the sex work industry then creates a vicious cycle that men expect shallow sexual gratification.

07:40:30.660 And women feel as though their most valuable or only valuable aspect is sex.

07:40:34.800 I think so.

07:40:36.260 Okay.

07:40:38.180 Trauma bonding.

07:40:40.020 Pass.

07:40:40.900 You think men do themselves and everyone surrounding them a disservice by not speaking their emotions honestly?

07:40:46.120 Yeah.

07:40:46.960 Okay.

07:40:48.100 Cool.

07:40:48.980 You disagree?

07:40:51.300 I don't think men should be emotional in front of women, to be honest.

07:40:54.940 Especially a girl you're romantically interested in.

07:40:57.820 Very interesting.

07:40:59.420 Yeah, that's so interesting.

07:41:00.580 No, you need to be like, you need to keep that shit in and let it blow up.

07:41:07.400 Oh, I think you should want to share that with your partner.

07:41:11.540 I think you should find someone who makes you feel so comfortable that you can be that vulnerable with them and you're not worried.

07:41:17.320 Oh, that's so beautiful.

07:41:18.420 Here's what I think.

07:41:19.140 I think as a man, you gotta bottle that shit in and then just let the aneurysm take you at 50.

07:41:25.780 How does that benefit you?

07:41:26.720 That is all bad.

07:41:28.780 I think that's so valid.

07:41:30.100 It definitely blows up before the aneurysm.

07:41:32.360 How does that benefit you or your future wife or kids?

07:41:35.100 You know what?

07:41:35.780 It doesn't, but that's just kind of, that's what you do as a man.

07:41:39.740 You just accept the high blood pressure.

07:41:42.420 She's a nurse.

07:41:43.020 She knows what I'm talking about.

07:41:44.100 I feel like your relationship isn't gonna...

07:41:46.320 You know, you just listen.

07:41:47.540 As a guy, you don't vent.

07:41:51.020 You don't show vulnerability to your girlfriend.

07:41:54.340 You just bottle that shit in and let the aneurysm take care of it when you're in your 50s.

07:42:00.000 That's it.

07:42:00.860 There's no communication in that relationship.

07:42:02.660 So how is it gonna work out?

07:42:04.400 Oh, hold on.

07:42:06.380 I love lack of communication.

07:42:10.020 I don't wanna talk.

07:42:10.420 That's why you kept skipping over the lack of communication.

07:42:13.340 Lame.

07:42:13.620 Just like do my...

07:42:14.720 No, I'm kidding.

07:42:15.240 I'm kidding.

07:42:15.660 You're a Taurus.

07:42:16.660 That makes sense.

07:42:17.220 Just bow.

07:42:18.480 You know, just bow.

07:42:20.040 Do my laundry.

07:42:21.460 Sit in the corner.

07:42:22.680 You're naked in the corner while you hold...

07:42:24.320 Really intense eye contact with me like Emma did earlier.

07:42:27.460 What?

07:42:29.820 Um, okay.

07:42:31.340 No, I don't know.

07:42:31.880 It's just like, here's the thing.

07:42:33.260 As a guy, if you share these vulnerable things with women,

07:42:37.080 a lot of times women use that shit against you in future arguments.

07:42:42.600 Are you laughing because you agree?

07:42:44.160 No, it's true though.

07:42:45.920 You did that shit, right?

07:42:47.140 You've done that shit.

07:42:48.200 Um, yeah.

07:42:51.520 Yeah.

07:42:51.840 Yeah, I guess I have.

07:42:52.420 Like some girl will say something like fucked up, some crazy shit.

07:42:56.200 Like, oh man.

07:42:56.880 Sure.

07:42:57.280 A guy will say something like this.

07:42:58.680 Man, you know, growing up I didn't really get to spend that much time with my dad.

07:43:02.160 And then in an argument, the girl's gonna be like,

07:43:04.320 no wonder your dad didn't want to spend no fucking time with you because you're a fucking bitch.

07:43:07.920 You know, some girl will say some crazy shit like that.

07:43:10.780 You know what I mean?

07:43:12.000 Situationally.

07:43:12.320 Men do the same thing too though.

07:43:13.660 Men do the same thing.

07:43:14.460 Yeah, I have.

07:43:14.740 And I think that's why it's so hard for there to be that vulnerable emotional connection with people in general.

07:43:21.740 I feel like we've kind of lost that a little bit.

07:43:23.680 There's either too much of it or not enough.

07:43:25.460 Yeah.

07:43:25.940 I don't advocate for that.

07:43:27.400 I think men, I think there's a healthy way, masculine way to be vulnerable.

07:43:31.640 I think it's contextual.

07:43:32.700 As long as you don't emotionally dump or overwhelm her or, you know, basically vent to where you don't have a solution or a plan prepared, it builds intimacy.

07:43:45.600 So I've never had a woman, any woman that I've dated seriously, use anything against me that I've told her because I know how to be vulnerable.

07:43:53.720 And I know how to vet a woman to, if I can trust her, to be vulnerable with her.

07:43:58.820 I don't just vent to any woman.

07:44:00.900 That's awesome.

07:44:01.580 Yeah.

07:44:02.080 Mr. Baseman donated $20.

07:44:05.040 Keep the crystal-wielding wench away from the effing children.

07:44:09.220 She's poisoning the next generation with witchcraft and astrological brain blocked.

07:44:14.620 Panel, how many of you are participating in hypergamy?

07:44:19.500 Coastal operator donated $19.99.

07:44:23.440 Nobody?

07:44:23.780 Okay, they're not.

07:44:24.380 Last show, Q looked like he wanted to take some of the girls home.

07:44:28.260 This show, he looks like he just wants to go home.

07:44:31.900 I don't think you see it.

07:44:33.100 When we're getting you on the cardio again.

07:44:34.680 Soon.

07:44:35.460 It's soon.

07:44:36.860 March.

07:44:37.000 Comer $594 donated $20.

07:44:40.480 Hate share 2.

07:44:41.720 How hard do you try to portray yourself as a fit, attractive girl on social media?

07:44:47.080 What filters or angles do you use?

07:44:49.640 Wow.

07:44:49.980 And do you consider that as false advertising?

07:44:52.420 Pickle Rick for Bifordinated $20.

07:44:56.120 Thank you, Pickle Rick.

07:44:56.960 Thank you.

07:44:57.360 Panel, dating in 2025 is worse than having spicy diarrhea.

07:45:02.060 True or false?

07:45:03.560 True, false.

07:45:04.160 True, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true.

07:45:08.600 Can you please stop masturbating the microphone, please?

07:45:11.820 Yes.

07:45:12.260 Thank you.

07:45:14.200 You are molesting my microphone stand, miss.

07:45:18.680 You said, final note for you, women frequently get away with domestic violence more often.

07:45:25.140 I think so.

07:45:26.020 Yeah.

07:45:26.640 You want to add?

07:45:27.600 I know you have other notes, but I'll just prompt you to, if you want to just say it.

07:45:32.920 Okay, I'll read it for you.

07:45:34.280 I'd argue they're often the main perpetrators yet are the ones who are still seen as victims.

07:45:39.300 This doesn't account for every case, as men can be and are also aggressive abusers.

07:45:43.520 Yep.

07:45:44.320 Were you ever the DV starter?

07:45:47.660 I wasn't ever the initiate, but I definitely did respond to behavior.

07:45:52.760 When I wrote that comment, my mom was, like I said, my mom was really abusive.

07:45:56.920 And so, my entire life, my mom just really got away with that.

07:46:02.680 I mean, she lost her kids, and my dad won custody of me.

07:46:06.880 Wait, can you tilt, straighten your mic.

07:46:09.200 No, scoot it back that way.

07:46:11.520 Scoot it back.

07:46:12.040 Yep, go ahead.

07:46:12.760 Okay.

07:46:14.980 My mom lost custody of both of my half-brothers, and then my dad got custody of me.

07:46:21.360 But my mom got away with just so much treacherous behavior, like calling and making false police reports that my dad said he was going to bomb government buildings so the police would show up at our door.

07:46:35.860 You know, she was very physically violent with me and my brothers.

07:46:41.520 Yeah, and I've seen, it's like when I was young, everyone seemed to have a functional mom in their life.

07:46:54.120 And now that I'm older, I feel like I see a lot more women my age displaying similar behaviors that my mom had with drinking or unhealthy coping.

07:47:04.080 And then, you know, like the rise of BPD and episodes like that.

07:47:08.940 Do you have BPD?

07:47:10.080 I don't.

07:47:11.080 Any personality disorder?

07:47:12.680 I don't have a personality disorder.

07:47:14.180 Anybody here BPD, bipolar?

07:47:16.700 Bipolar.

07:47:17.340 Bipolar.

07:47:18.040 I have bipolar.

07:47:19.060 You have what?

07:47:19.980 I have bipolar, too.

07:47:20.640 Oh, you have bipolar.

07:47:21.840 Okay.

07:47:22.580 BPD.

07:47:24.720 Nurse.

07:47:26.620 Is that a personality disorder?

07:47:28.160 I'm kidding.

07:47:29.040 Personality disorder.

07:47:31.020 No.

07:47:31.840 Okay.

07:47:32.460 No.

07:47:32.900 Nothing.

07:47:34.580 Nothing.

07:47:36.020 A little autism, maybe, per chance.

07:47:38.380 Oh.

07:47:38.940 A little autism.

07:47:40.560 It's okay.

07:47:41.080 I'm autistic, too.

07:47:42.300 It's like, it's kind of like we can, you know how black people can say the N-word?

07:47:46.280 Oh, my God.

07:47:47.000 Yeah.

07:47:47.340 You know how black people can say the N-word to other, it's like autistic people can be like, what's up, my autist?

07:47:54.800 Okay, well, I.

07:47:56.320 Oh, boy.

07:47:56.920 That's your journey.

07:47:58.080 It's my journey.

07:48:00.460 It's your journey, and it may be mine, too.

07:48:02.720 I haven't really, I don't really think so, but.

07:48:07.600 Oh, thank you.

07:48:08.740 That was very, very kind.

07:48:10.080 Don't want to dry it out, dry it out.

07:48:11.860 Yeah.

07:48:12.020 Why do you say that?

07:48:16.160 Because it comes off as though I don't care what other people like about people's feelings.

07:48:20.420 I have a autism radar.

07:48:23.440 Oh.

07:48:24.000 I have an autism radar, and I'm detecting slight amounts of autism from you.

07:48:30.140 But I know it because I, myself, am probably autistic.

07:48:33.440 Oh, really?

07:48:34.220 To some degree.

07:48:35.800 Well, there's a lot of very rich and successful people that are.

07:48:39.140 That's right.

07:48:39.900 We are going to make it.

07:48:41.200 We're all going to make it.

07:48:43.020 We're all going to make it.

07:48:43.900 Okay, cool.

07:48:45.180 Let's see here.

07:48:46.740 Moving to Carrie.

07:48:47.940 Moving, speaking of autism, moving to your notes.

07:48:50.600 You said, if you're ever looking to hear from a feminist who doesn't agree with modern feminism's pro-pornography approach, I'd love to be on your podcast.

07:49:02.180 Okay, so you're, oh, you're a feminist.

07:49:06.380 Yeah, in the traditional sense of the word.

07:49:08.780 Okay, so like anti-porn.

07:49:10.080 In the old school.

07:49:10.820 You're anti-porn.

07:49:11.940 Yeah.

07:49:12.340 Yeah, yeah.

07:49:13.840 Okay.

07:49:14.500 Anti-porn, for sure.

07:49:15.520 In the day, you also said in your notes, in the days you were more involved with hookup culture, you went on a date with someone you had been hooking up with for a while.

07:49:22.820 You realized that when you actually went out on a date with each other, you had absolutely nothing to talk about.

07:49:27.680 It was very quiet as a result, and also quite awkward.

07:49:30.220 It was around this time that I realized I needed a lifestyle change.

07:49:32.640 Yeah.

07:49:34.300 And you said when you were involved in hookup culture, when you were involved with hookup culture.

07:49:38.860 Yeah.

07:49:39.160 When was that?

07:49:39.700 You had like a ho phase or whatever?

07:49:41.580 Yeah.

07:49:42.160 Yeah.

07:49:42.520 When was the ho phase?

07:49:43.620 So I went, before my current university, I had another university that I went to in Pennsylvania, and I basically just partied all three years.

07:49:52.500 And so that was like around 21 that I stopped kind of just fucking around, you know.

07:49:59.500 Good times.

07:49:59.980 21, you stopped fucking around.

07:50:01.460 Yeah.

07:50:01.940 But you were fucking around.

07:50:03.100 You said historically you like the fact that this podcast addresses the issues with OnlyFans sex workers.

07:50:08.000 You pride yourself on the ability to use old school feminist theory to fight pornography.

07:50:11.900 Okay.

07:50:12.620 Yeah.

07:50:12.860 Unfortunately, there's, yeah.

07:50:14.240 Let's see.

07:50:16.160 The current cultural framework in which Americans live emphasizes this perception that women are sex objects.

07:50:21.500 And you believe that sites like TikTok, for example, are also desensitizing young people to this phenomenon.

07:50:27.620 You disagree, though.

07:50:28.940 So you think that the show tends to dichotomize the issue of the sexual objectification of girls and women into being far more simplistic than it actually is.

07:50:36.500 For example, as if these cultural narratives can be approached from a conservative versus OnlyFans girl perspective.

07:50:43.200 You, however, believe that this issue is far more complex than what meets the eye and understanding these details is a necessity.

07:50:52.120 Okay.

07:50:52.860 You want to elaborate a little bit?

07:50:54.540 Yeah.

07:50:55.020 So I don't think that there's anyone here that you had an OnlyFans account, right?

07:51:02.700 Okay.

07:51:03.200 Yeah.

07:51:03.400 So we talked about this throughout the day.

07:51:07.480 But there are a lot of neurological effects that OnlyFans has on, like, men, for example, that feminists, modern feminists seem to ignore.

07:51:18.240 Um, that is something that I think needs to be addressed.

07:51:23.640 And I think that we should even get to the point as a society, um, or I, I wouldn't even frame it that way.

07:51:30.800 But there should be, like, and this isn't very libertarian of me, but we should get to the point where it's actually, like, there's a whole medical process that takes place, like, medical screening that takes place prior to men consuming OnlyFans models.

07:51:48.240 So that they should go through, like, they should be, like, given a survey of their health background.

07:51:55.860 Yeah.

07:51:56.420 Wait, men, you're, you're a libertarian, but you want men.

07:51:59.180 I know it's not very libertarian of me.

07:52:00.640 To have to, but.

07:52:01.600 What, shouldn't there, wouldn't, wouldn't you rather cut it off at the source for the porn creators?

07:52:06.400 So you think that I should, well, the thing is, though, is that that's hindering, like, capitalism, really.

07:52:13.640 Yeah, wouldn't it be hindering, what?

07:52:15.520 It is, because it's stopping them from being able to do it in the first place, and I don't think that that's practical.

07:52:22.380 I think that these women want to do it, though.

07:52:24.960 That would be way more practical than establishing this for men before they can watch porn.

07:52:32.840 I mean, but the thing is, I feel that people are going to do it anyway.

07:52:36.680 So just, like, cigarette boxes or alcohol.

07:52:40.020 Do you think there are more, do you think there are more porn stars or people who consume porn?

07:52:44.160 People who consume porn.

07:52:48.200 Okay, so it would be way more difficult, like, it would require much more effort to have, like, the hundreds of millions or even billions of men who consume porn have to take a survey.

07:53:01.820 Right.

07:53:02.060 A mental.

07:53:02.840 Right.

07:53:03.900 Psychological evaluation versus just saying, porn's illegal, cut that shit off.

07:53:08.200 Oh, so you think that we should criminalize porn, basically.

07:53:15.560 No, I didn't say that, but...

07:53:17.960 Okay.

07:53:18.620 No, but maybe is that...

07:53:19.740 Wait, I don't even, like, just to be fair, this is just never going to happen, so I'm not sure if it's even worth talking about.

07:53:25.740 That's what I mean.

07:53:26.500 It's never going to happen.

07:53:27.700 We're never going to get rid of porn.

07:53:29.220 Well, yeah, and also you're not going to be able to survey men before they watch...

07:53:32.060 You don't think so?

07:53:32.980 With, like, a health precaution or some kind of warning before they, like, go into consuming OnlyFans?

07:53:40.180 Because this, like, drastically affects their dopamine balances in their brain.

07:53:44.900 I mean, it would be nice if war...

07:53:46.620 It would be nice if there was no war.

07:53:49.160 Like, it'd be great if there was no war.

07:53:50.320 Yeah, yeah.

07:53:51.180 But I just don't know if it's worth talking about, like, oh, what would it, like, let's talk about the practicalities of a world without war.

07:54:00.020 Like, is it even worth having the conversation?

07:54:02.060 Because it's just never going to happen.

07:54:05.200 It's like, what's the point?

07:54:06.460 Well, I think it's worth having that.

07:54:08.660 I mean, a lot of libertarians, for example...

07:54:10.620 Yeah, but we can talk about, like, a million different hypotheticals here.

07:54:12.400 I'm trying to, like, move things...

07:54:13.600 No, I know that.

07:54:14.400 I know that you are.

07:54:15.360 Okay.

07:54:15.640 So we can move on to the next thing.

07:54:17.520 Well, that was the last thing for that.

07:54:19.120 Yeah, but Rocky, you said you love to come on the podcast, talk about the whole equality, feminist bullshit.

07:54:24.160 Really?

07:54:26.340 Oh, okay.

07:54:27.320 You said, especially being a female mechanic, deployed and working on bass definitely taught me a lot and showed you a lot in that sense.

07:54:35.860 Okay.

07:54:40.080 Yeah, but there's no, I mean, there's no, like, feminist on here, and I feel like a lot of us...

07:54:44.840 She's a feminist.

07:54:45.640 She's a feminist.

07:54:46.820 Yeah, but when they talked about, like, they didn't really go into it.

07:54:49.100 I went to for the whole feminism thing, and...

07:54:53.180 Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't consider myself a feminist by today's standards, because it's, yeah.

07:54:59.920 I've already said that, but, you know.

07:55:01.420 Okay, Rocky, your notes.

07:55:02.980 You said one time you met a guy online who had tattoos in his pictures.

07:55:05.660 In person, he did not.

07:55:06.720 When you asked about it, he ended the date early and left.

07:55:09.460 Yes.

07:55:10.520 That's interesting.

07:55:11.720 Yeah.

07:55:12.760 We met up.

07:55:14.300 We went, well, I seen him first on Twitter.

07:55:17.000 I thought he was good looking.

07:55:18.580 So then we met up on a date.

07:55:20.360 We went to Yogurtland.

07:55:21.480 So cute.

07:55:22.420 And we're sitting there, and, like, I didn't even notice at first, and then I realized that he had, like, no tattoos.

07:55:28.820 But in his picture, he had, like, a whole sleeve.

07:55:31.800 Did he look like his pictures in the face?

07:55:33.760 No, not really.

07:55:34.580 That's the thing, too.

07:55:35.320 So, like, full catfish?

07:55:36.540 No, he, like, kind of looked like him, but, like, at the same time, he kind of looked a little goofy.

07:55:40.620 Like, you know, you have, like, the Gucci version and then, like, the Walmart version.

07:55:44.420 That's what he...

07:55:45.020 It, like, looked off.

07:55:46.100 Question.

07:55:46.580 Okay.

07:55:46.700 So he had tattoos in his online photos.

07:55:50.020 Yes.

07:55:50.920 Because I know they make, like, T-shirts that look like sleeves or whatever, but...

07:55:55.020 And in person, he did not.

07:55:57.400 And were you upset?

07:55:58.660 Were you kind of disappointed?

07:56:00.080 When I first seen him, I was, because he didn't look like himself, really.

07:56:05.700 And then he also looked taller, too, in his picture.

07:56:09.140 Which is, like, whatever.

07:56:10.060 But it was just weird, because when I asked him about the tattoos, that's when he got all weird.

07:56:14.620 And he's like, I have to leave, and he left.

07:56:16.860 And that was it.

07:56:17.260 That's pretty weird.

07:56:18.680 Yeah, that's kind of scary.

07:56:19.100 Wouldn't this just be, like, the same as women who wear makeup, though?

07:56:23.860 Yeah.

07:56:25.260 Like, you were, oh, man, he doesn't actually have tattoos.

07:56:28.640 And it's, like, the same thing with, oh, she doesn't actually, like, look like that.

07:56:32.600 Yeah.

07:56:33.260 I agree.

07:56:34.000 It's the same thing.

07:56:34.820 It's the same thing.

07:56:35.680 Yeah.

07:56:35.980 Although it's weird when you confronted him.

07:56:38.740 Like, did it look photoshopped?

07:56:44.440 Or, like...

07:56:45.120 I think what it was...

07:56:45.720 Because they make fake sleeves.

07:56:47.200 Weird for me was that when we were messaging, we were talking about tattoos.

07:56:50.800 And he was telling me about his tattoos and how many he had.

07:56:54.580 So that's what made it weird.

07:56:56.060 Like, he was making it a thing when he didn't even have tattoos.

07:56:59.180 Yeah, that's true.

07:56:59.640 You know?

07:57:00.060 But if he would have not said anything, I would have never even, like...

07:57:04.040 Sounds like makeup.

07:57:05.420 He pulled a Pete Davidson.

07:57:07.540 Something like that.

07:57:08.480 Well, he got all his tattoos removed successfully.

07:57:10.760 Oh, okay.

07:57:11.520 You said a lot of people in the military cheat a lot.

07:57:14.180 Did you cheat?

07:57:15.080 No, I did not.

07:57:16.560 Okay.

07:57:17.060 Well, I wasn't in a relationship when I was out there anyways.

07:57:20.980 I see.

07:57:21.760 Did you question...

07:57:22.980 Have you...

07:57:23.440 Did you, like, smash in...

07:57:25.240 Where did you say you went to?

07:57:27.480 Afghanistan?

07:57:28.280 Kuwait.

07:57:28.760 Kuwait?

07:57:29.500 Kuwait, Jordan, and Iraq.

07:57:31.420 Iraq.

07:57:32.280 Mm-hmm.

07:57:33.880 Oh.

07:57:37.060 Oh, okay.

07:57:38.260 I don't know where I was going with that.

07:57:39.760 You said you lost your V-card to a guy at 16.

07:57:41.860 You thought you were in love.

07:57:43.700 But he was in a relationship for...

07:57:45.180 He was in a relationship for five years?

07:57:47.740 Yeah.

07:57:48.160 So, like, he had a girlfriend the whole time.

07:57:50.320 And I've always...

07:57:50.740 So you were the side chick.

07:57:52.060 Yeah.

07:57:52.640 And, like, it sucks because I've always thought that I was going to wait till marriage for some

07:57:57.100 reason.

07:57:57.540 Like, I just always, like, thought that that was really special.

07:58:01.260 And so, when I see, like, all my other friends doing it, and then I meet this guy that's

07:58:07.240 giving me all this attention, you know?

07:58:09.000 And so, it sucks that, I guess, that kind of made me feel like every man was like that.

07:58:17.260 And so, after that, it just ruined my perspective on just men in general.

07:58:23.160 And it took me a while to actually, like, grow up and realize that, no, not every man is the

07:58:28.160 same.

07:58:28.980 But, you know, it sucks.

07:58:30.540 And I envy you that, you know, that you still have that.

07:58:33.080 Because sometimes I do wish that, you know, that I did keep it that way.

07:58:36.700 And I'm sorry that you had to experience that as well.

07:58:39.360 Because, like, you shouldn't have to deal with somebody lying either, so.

07:58:42.660 You said you always dated older men, but now you're dating a younger man and never been

07:58:46.660 happier.

07:58:47.380 So, you're 24.

07:58:48.440 How old is he?

07:58:49.340 He is 22.

07:58:51.220 Okay.

07:58:51.620 So, you're enjoying that relationship.

07:58:52.860 That's cool.

07:58:53.780 You also said that there's a disagreement you have.

07:58:57.060 Final thing in your notes, I believe.

07:58:59.620 Why didn't you bring this up when we did the rating thing?

07:59:02.020 When it comes to the rating scale, you understand both viewpoints, but I really think it doesn't

07:59:06.080 matter.

07:59:06.780 If a woman thinks she's a 10, but in reality she's a 4, who effing cares?

07:59:11.840 At the end of the day, she's going to attract who she attracts and who she doesn't, she doesn't.

07:59:16.100 So, regardless what you think about yourself, it doesn't matter because at the end of the

07:59:18.880 day, no one cares.

07:59:20.640 Yeah.

07:59:21.060 I mean, I don't know.

07:59:21.920 I just feel like nobody really cares.

07:59:23.800 Like, everybody has their different preferences.

07:59:25.420 Yeah, there's like the scale and everything, but I just don't feel like it's a really important

07:59:34.500 topic, honestly.

07:59:35.960 Oh, I think it's important.

07:59:38.320 And I mean, just because it's late, I'm going to spend maybe 30 minutes.

07:59:43.080 Sorry.

07:59:43.760 30 minutes?

07:59:44.520 30 seconds on it.

07:59:45.720 30 seconds on it.

07:59:46.660 I was like, now I changed my mind.

07:59:47.640 Look, here, I think we kind of talked about it already, but here's the big thing is that

07:59:51.860 as a woman, you will have men who, who will be sexually interested in you, but have no

07:59:58.960 intention whatsoever of ever being in a relationship with you.

08:00:02.460 And typically those men who are going to be dealing with you sexually, but have no relationship

08:00:06.860 or long-term or marriage intention are typically going to be doing that because you're less

08:00:12.100 attractive than them.

08:00:12.980 So what ends up happening as a woman, if you think you're, you're, you are better looking

08:00:18.960 than you actually are, you're going to have high, you're going to perhaps think you can

08:00:24.000 have higher standards.

08:00:25.180 You're going to be chasing after, uh, guys who are more attractive or guys, you know,

08:00:30.320 because you can sleep with a guy who's got status or who's really good looking or is

08:00:35.340 famous or has money, but can you get commitment from him?

08:00:39.420 And so what ends up happening if you're a girl, like for example,

08:00:42.900 let me, let me give you the role reversal.

08:00:44.680 I think it'll make it easier.

08:00:46.660 Let's say there's a guy who he's a six or he's just average looking, but there are women

08:00:53.820 who are more attractive than him.

08:00:56.880 And before I get into that, you can all agree.

08:00:58.920 Have you guys ever seen a guy who's with a more attractive woman?

08:01:02.260 Yes.

08:01:02.720 Yeah.

08:01:02.980 Like a guy who's mid, who's dating, you think she's a beautiful girl.

08:01:05.980 Women y'all will have really, you're really unfair when it comes to your looks assessments

08:01:11.040 of men.

08:01:12.240 So let's say this guy, he's mid, he's a five.

08:01:15.900 And let's say there's six, seven, eights and nines who want to sleep with him, but that's

08:01:22.140 all they want.

08:01:23.380 Like seven, eight, nines.

08:01:24.760 They want to sleep with him, but that's all he gets just sex.

08:01:27.660 Right.

08:01:27.860 And let's say he's on your level.

08:01:31.820 Like, let's say some of you girls here said you're six, whatever.

08:01:35.360 Why is he going to settle for you and you want a relationship with him?

08:01:39.640 Why is he going to deal with you when he can have a bunch of casual sex and get attention

08:01:45.740 with attention from women who are more attractive than you?

08:01:51.820 And maybe he'll occasionally get like a situationship.

08:01:55.820 One of these girls will keep him around for sex for three months, a month, six months.

08:02:00.860 Why would that guy deal with you?

08:02:03.920 And you're on his level though.

08:02:05.100 Technically you guys deserve each other.

08:02:07.460 Why is he going to deal with you when he's getting sex with all these women?

08:02:10.960 He wouldn't.

08:02:11.720 Right.

08:02:12.340 Now I know there's some differences when it comes to sex between men and women different,

08:02:16.600 you know, there's some differences there, but y'all be dealing with guys who you'll

08:02:21.000 never get a relationship with, right?

08:02:23.280 The reverse never happens.

08:02:24.840 Like the, the scenario I described where there, here's this mid guy, all these eights, nines

08:02:29.380 and tens want to fuck him.

08:02:30.660 Doesn't happen.

08:02:31.360 Right.

08:02:32.180 But you would understand why, oh, why can't I get a relationship with him?

08:02:36.320 He's getting, but here's why, because he's getting sexual attention from women who are

08:02:40.940 more attractive than y'all.

08:02:42.380 You guys are getting sexual attention from men who are more attractive than you.

08:02:46.100 We all want to get the best that we can get when it comes to dating.

08:02:48.820 We all want the best partner, the funniest, the best personality, the most money, the

08:02:52.960 best looking, whatever, whatever it is that you care about.

08:02:55.740 You want to get the best that we can get.

08:02:58.060 We're all greedy when it comes to dating.

08:02:59.640 We're all trying to get the most optimum partner because of this as men.

08:03:05.920 If I think I'm a 10, doesn't fucking matter.

08:03:07.980 If I think I'm a 10, I'm not getting a 10.

08:03:10.520 Doesn't matter as a guy.

08:03:11.400 Like, here's the thing.

08:03:15.120 If I'm trying to get a girl who's a Victoria's Secret model, I'm getting instantly rejected.

08:03:20.820 And I recognize this and I accept this as fact.

08:03:23.480 I'm not delusional about it.

08:03:24.840 I'm not even upset by it.

08:03:26.220 If I step to a girl who's a Victoria's Secret model or some like big name celebrity who's

08:03:31.700 also attractive, whatever it is, a woman who has status, I'm not getting anything.

08:03:36.000 I'm not getting a conversation.

08:03:37.180 I'm not getting sex.

08:03:38.040 I'm not getting a date.

08:03:38.840 I'm not getting a first kiss.

08:03:40.300 Men get rejected on the front end.

08:03:42.700 We get rejected up front.

08:03:44.620 You guys get rejected after you've fucked a guy once, twice, three times.

08:03:48.340 Maybe it keeps you around for a situationship.

08:03:50.760 You get rejected by never getting the commitment from the man, right?

08:03:55.500 And so because of this, because you can get these guys, you're going to think, oh, okay,

08:04:00.940 I can sleep with a guy who's, I fucked this really attractive guy once.

08:04:04.620 I must be a 10 too.

08:04:05.440 And then what ends up happening is y'all start looking at the guys who are actually on your

08:04:10.780 level, who are ready to be a monogamous, who are ready to give you commitment, who are ready

08:04:14.920 to give you a relationship, who are ready to give you a ring.

08:04:17.880 You look at those guys and you think you're settling for them.

08:04:20.460 It's actually absolutely tragic because a lot of women spend their 20s sleeping with a bunch

08:04:25.160 of dudes and then, oh, 30.

08:04:26.940 Okay.

08:04:27.220 Time to get married.

08:04:28.180 Okay.

08:04:28.360 I'm going to settle for this guy and you're, you've dealt with like men who are way more

08:04:33.440 attractive than him, men who fucked you way better.

08:04:36.800 And now you're going to be in a, in like a relationship with a guy who you're sexually

08:04:42.220 dissatisfied with.

08:04:43.220 You lack attraction for him, uh, but you do it out of necessity just because you want to

08:04:48.680 get married and have kids or whatever it is.

08:04:50.960 That marriage is inevitable, inevitably going to fail your, or maybe you're just going to be

08:04:55.760 contemptuous and nag the shit out of him.

08:04:57.580 And he's probably going to be some soy boy, blue pill dude.

08:05:01.020 That's what the, that's why the rating thing is so important because y'all can deal with

08:05:07.300 men who are of a certain caliber when it comes to how attractive they are.

08:05:14.360 And if you think you're more attractive than you are, you're going to be perpetually chasing

08:05:18.040 those dudes.

08:05:19.460 You're never going to get commitment, never get a relationship.

08:05:21.620 And then your brain is fucking fried.

08:05:24.360 Like, think about it this way.

08:05:25.760 Let's say I, I could fuck Victoria's secret models, but none of them would give me a

08:05:30.100 relationship.

08:05:30.800 And now I got it.

08:05:31.980 The girl who actually will give me a relationship is average looking.

08:05:36.640 You think I'm going to be sexually attracted to her?

08:05:39.340 You think I'm going to enjoy sex with her?

08:05:43.300 I'm going to be thinking, Oh my God, bro, this Victoria's secret model, like, Oh, it was

08:05:47.820 so much, you know what I mean?

08:05:49.220 That's what y'all are doing though.

08:05:53.400 Yeah.

08:05:53.740 No, I get it.

08:05:54.420 And so that's why the rating thing is so important is like, y'all got to be realistic about the

08:06:00.440 kind of men you can get, because I know you guys can fuck men who are really attractive.

08:06:05.480 I know you can deal with like NBA players, NFL players.

08:06:08.360 You got DMS from those guys, rappers, whatever.

08:06:11.060 Or are they going to give you commitment?

08:06:14.100 And we all want to chase the best thing that we can get.

08:06:16.620 So you're going to chase after those dudes.

08:06:18.440 You won't get commitment.

08:06:19.840 And then finally, when it's time to settle down, you're going to settle for the guy who's

08:06:25.040 actually on your level.

08:06:26.060 And that's why it's dangerous.

08:06:32.900 Okay.

08:06:33.460 All right.

08:06:33.860 That was very long winded.

08:06:35.240 There's also people that get married though, at a young age and they're divorced by 30

08:06:39.200 something though.

08:06:42.720 Sure.

08:06:43.320 Do you, do you have anything to say on that?

08:06:44.880 About what happens?

08:06:46.260 Cause you know, pretty much all these women are getting ran through.

08:06:49.300 Let me get married at 30.

08:06:50.700 There's women that get married at a young age and then they're divorced by 30 something.

08:06:56.980 Sure.

08:06:57.800 I guess that happens.

08:06:58.640 Yeah.

08:06:59.020 Yeah.

08:06:59.300 I don't sure.

08:07:00.600 Okay.

08:07:01.100 All right.

08:07:01.300 I'm going to let the chats come through.

08:07:02.300 Blarfist donated $20.

08:07:06.720 Chair seven.

08:07:07.940 You look like if unenthusiastic handjobs had a face.

08:07:11.680 Chair two.

08:07:12.680 Everyone on your body count should be able to claim it as a charitable donation.

08:07:17.020 Oh my God.

08:07:18.560 Uh, Blarfist.

08:07:19.560 These nuts, I got them donated $20.

08:07:22.800 Chair one and three boys brought dishonor to their familles.

08:07:26.580 Brain with the huge dumpy.

08:07:28.780 Lay off the burritos.

08:07:29.740 Also, tell your boy, Kevin Hart, to wake up and stop wearing his sister's sweater.

08:07:36.200 The fuck?

08:07:36.920 Not $594 donated $20.

08:07:40.300 D's nuts.

08:07:41.460 Why did you lie about your off?

08:07:43.520 Brian has the screenshots.

08:07:45.600 What?

08:07:46.040 You do it.

08:07:46.680 What?

08:07:47.020 So stop lying.

08:07:48.440 Be honest.

08:07:48.940 Really?

08:07:49.700 Are you capping?

08:07:50.780 About the O.F.?

08:07:51.160 No.

08:07:51.580 No.

08:07:55.380 Somebody says you did the OnlyFans.

08:07:57.940 Okay, I did have an O.F., but there was no, but there was no, weren't on it.

08:08:05.260 There's no, I, I'm, you don't see me getting, you know, smashed from behind.

08:08:08.460 She was lying by the way she hesitated when you asked me.

08:08:10.360 Swear on my dad's grave.

08:08:12.220 Whoa, don't, you shouldn't do that.

08:08:13.920 No, I will because there's no video footage.

08:08:16.840 Okay.

08:08:17.240 By the way, that was the first roast for you tonight.

08:08:21.920 So you, you thought you were going to get through the roast session without a roast.

08:08:25.620 They roast, you got roasted.

08:08:28.540 Okay, good talking.

08:08:29.420 We have this one.

08:08:31.020 Bren donated $20.

08:08:33.180 Getting rid of all sites like OnlyFans and Fansly would be the first step towards a better society.

08:08:39.300 Also, Brian, I got a shout out Levi Nixon to put him on.

08:08:43.980 Check DMs.

08:08:45.080 Yo, Bren, thank you for the message, man.

08:08:46.740 Really appreciate it.

08:08:47.520 Okay.

08:08:48.400 I'm pretty sure, is that it for all the notes or is there more?

08:08:53.460 Okay, we did Rocky.

08:08:55.700 Oh, we got Kaylee.

08:08:57.940 Oh, we hit most of this stuff here, I think.

08:09:02.900 I think the only thing I have is my dating story, which is not even that, like, exciting.

08:09:10.400 Okay.

08:09:11.800 I'm trying to think if there's.

08:09:15.100 Oh, I'll just read it.

08:09:16.120 It's just an anecdote.

08:09:17.260 You went on a date with a guy who tried to cook you dinner.

08:09:19.060 The chicken ended up being undercooked and you ate it anyway because you felt bad.

08:09:23.520 You're a trooper.

08:09:25.440 It felt really bad.

08:09:26.660 I like that all the time.

08:09:27.420 Were you sick afterwards?

08:09:29.060 Yeah.

08:09:29.600 Oh, there's more, yeah.

08:09:31.040 He attempted to kiss you.

08:09:32.220 When he did, he started to growl and it made you feel weird.

08:09:34.920 What?

08:09:35.480 Growling?

08:09:37.960 Can you reenact the growl?

08:09:39.700 Do the growl.

08:09:40.700 Do the growl.

08:09:41.100 Okay, so, like, it wasn't sexy.

08:09:42.400 Like, a little, like, or something like that.

08:09:44.160 I don't know.

08:09:44.860 Do it.

08:09:45.260 Do it.

08:09:45.480 Okay, so he, like, okay.

08:09:46.740 Do it.

08:09:47.480 Okay.

08:09:48.060 Do it.

08:09:48.380 So he started kissing me and then he went up by my ear, right?

08:09:51.520 Oh, I forgot to put the worst.

08:09:52.980 Did he purr?

08:09:53.360 No, no, no.

08:09:53.900 I forgot to put the worst part of the story in there.

08:09:55.400 He licked the inside of my ear and I was not having it.

08:09:59.300 Do it.

08:09:59.880 Okay, so after he did that, I was like, ah, ha, ha, ha.

08:10:03.380 I'm just so ticklish.

08:10:05.080 Like, so that he didn't feel bad.

08:10:06.720 And then he went, he went, um, rawr.

08:10:09.840 Like, like, it wasn't, like, sexy.

08:10:12.500 It was, like, really like a, like a, like, rawr, rawr, rawr.

08:10:15.260 Like, oh, it was so bad.

08:10:17.560 It was so bad.

08:10:23.020 That's how I felt.

08:10:25.400 You told me you didn't do it.

08:10:33.580 Oh, no.

08:10:36.580 Okay.

08:10:37.440 Um.

08:10:40.080 And, uh, oh, you pre-

08:10:41.740 Okay.

08:10:42.700 That's crazy.

08:10:43.840 Good times.

08:10:44.360 Okay, I'm-

08:10:45.580 Oh.

08:10:47.320 Wait.

08:10:49.920 Me?

08:10:50.660 Do you have-

08:10:51.060 Did you have notes?

08:10:51.880 No, I did not.

08:10:53.900 You said, I think the only thing, bringing in previous relationships into current relationships.

08:10:58.700 Yeah.

08:10:59.100 What does that mean?

08:10:59.620 I mean, like, when, like, if you, like, if you talk, if you're in a relationship and you

08:11:03.020 bring in a past relationship, that kind of ruins your current relationship.

08:11:05.700 Like, why would you do that?

08:11:07.040 Yeah.

08:11:07.420 Unless, like, if in the beginning, like, oh, like, you know, like, what, like, what have

08:11:11.600 you met in the past?

08:11:12.940 Okay.

08:11:13.120 It's kind of, like, unraveling trauma, but honestly, if it continues after that, if you

08:11:18.600 guys are in a relationship, you know, like, there's no point.

08:11:21.460 Okay.

08:11:21.880 Like, why?

08:11:22.600 Exactly why I broke up.

08:11:23.980 Oh, no.

08:11:24.960 Del Frank Castle 512 donated $20.

08:11:29.340 Brian, how did you manage to get Miss Piggy chair two on the panel?

08:11:33.760 Damn.

08:11:34.080 She's out here cheating on Kermit.

08:11:36.220 What the hell?

08:11:37.220 I am not that big, thank you.

08:11:39.160 All right, last call, guys, last call on the TTS, that's the final call, we're going

08:11:43.960 to get this wrapped up.

08:11:45.200 As I'm getting everything wrapped up, you're a nurse, our nurse is crazy.

08:11:51.060 Yes.

08:11:52.040 Are you crazy?

08:11:54.600 No, I am not anymore.

08:11:57.680 Anymore?

08:11:58.280 I have, like, a very long time.

08:11:59.160 What do you mean, wait, hold on, what do you mean anymore?

08:12:01.580 I mean, I just, I would like to, like, I know, like, pick fights and stuff.

08:12:05.620 In relationships?

08:12:06.660 Yeah, just, like, for no reason.

08:12:08.440 Give me an example.

08:12:10.540 I don't know.

08:12:11.540 Pick a fight with me right now.

08:12:12.860 Go ahead.

08:12:13.040 Like, something so stupid, like, I don't know, I just, like, why did you fall asleep on me

08:12:17.140 when I want you to call me or FaceTime me?

08:12:19.500 Oh, no.

08:12:19.800 It would be something so stupid, but I'm like, you know, I'm over it.

08:12:21.700 Oh, you're so toxic.

08:12:22.220 I am.

08:12:22.580 I'm so, I'm so, I'm so toxic.

08:12:24.240 Or, like, just, I don't know.

08:12:26.060 It's, it's, like, I try not to think about me, like, to help, like, the world doesn't revolve

08:12:29.600 around me.

08:12:30.160 Do you start arguments because you get attention, or?

08:12:32.500 Yeah.

08:12:34.120 At least she's honest.

08:12:35.400 Yes, I am.

08:12:36.580 But I've been, I've been a lot better.

08:12:38.160 Like, you like it when the guy's annoyed, kind of?

08:12:41.020 I used to, but I was, like, it was more, like, like, give me attention, kind of thing.

08:12:45.440 Oh, no.

08:12:45.480 But then, like, now I'm just, like, over it, because, like, being a nurse, I have more,

08:12:47.980 like, more patience.

08:12:50.680 That's so bad.

08:12:51.160 So I'm very calm now.

08:12:52.300 Oh, when was this?

08:12:53.520 Like, when you were younger, is what you're saying?

08:12:55.480 Oh, wait, hold on.

08:12:56.340 Let me know.

08:12:56.500 Dan Frank Castle, 512, donated $20.

08:13:00.840 Brian, how did you manage to get Miss Piggy?

08:13:03.500 Share two on the panel.

08:13:05.140 Damn.

08:13:05.540 She's out here cheating on Germit.

08:13:07.520 What the hell?

08:13:08.260 He sent it twice.

08:13:08.960 The real Frank Castle, damn.

08:13:10.700 Was it twice?

08:13:11.580 Yeah.

08:13:12.180 That was the people who got gritty for that.

08:13:13.760 Oh, damn.

08:13:14.500 I saw how irritated he got.

08:13:17.860 Okay.

08:13:19.180 Let's see here.

08:13:20.380 I did wear cow ears, though, I think one podcast ago here, so.

08:13:26.000 Okay.

08:13:27.260 Oh, we have another one.

08:13:29.560 Captain underscore America donated $20.

08:13:33.180 Share five, Leviticus 1931, do not turn to mediums or seek out spiritists, for you will

08:13:39.820 be defiled by them.

08:13:41.200 I am the Lord, your God's slightly bland panel.

08:13:44.360 Where's Selina?

08:13:45.760 Where's Selina?

08:13:47.780 In Luke 21, 22 through 25, there's this verse that says, God will put systems in the stars

08:13:55.720 as signs for the final days.

08:13:58.180 And I think that's...

08:13:59.320 Into the mic.

08:14:00.520 Hmm?

08:14:02.880 In Luke 21, 22...

08:14:04.840 No, they heard it, but...

08:14:05.640 Oh, okay.

08:14:06.560 Then what?

08:14:09.120 Okay.

08:14:10.520 That it?

08:14:10.860 But yeah, that's one of my favorite verses.

08:14:12.880 Nurses are crazy.

08:14:13.740 You're crazy.

08:14:14.380 You used to be crazy.

08:14:15.420 Yeah.

08:14:15.900 I mean, yeah.

08:14:16.580 Nurses are crazy.

08:14:18.300 I'll admit that.

08:14:19.400 I mean, like, the trauma that we see in the hospital, like, we see a lot of crazy stuff.

08:14:23.960 Wait.

08:14:24.180 Have you ever done this?

08:14:25.000 Because you said you, like, would start fights or whatever.

08:14:27.100 Or you just, you know, have you, a guy wasn't texting you quick enough or didn't text you

08:14:32.940 back or whatever.

08:14:34.480 And then would you say something like, okay, guess I'll talk to you later then or something

08:14:41.060 like that.

08:14:41.480 Yeah.

08:14:41.980 I'll just, like, what if this was an important text message?

08:14:45.960 But, like, as I've gotten older, like, that was so stupid.

08:14:48.160 It was, like, high school stuff.

08:14:49.200 Like, I don't know.

08:14:50.100 I feel like I've matured quite a bit, honestly.

08:14:52.920 Sure.

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08:16:04.200 If you can make it to Santa Barbara, we're going to do a quick Twitch raid.

08:16:08.420 We're going to do Grayson.

08:16:09.540 Okay, Damien, if you can.

08:16:11.160 Oh, oh, they just.

08:16:12.980 Oh, yeah.

08:16:13.640 Okay, we're going to do Twitch raid.

08:16:14.580 Get Grayson pulled up.

08:16:15.800 Oh, my God.

08:16:16.320 They got a binding.

08:16:17.080 Holy shit.

08:16:17.580 Wait.

08:16:17.880 Do the raid.

08:16:18.340 Pull it up.

08:16:18.680 Oh, dude.

08:16:19.640 Pull it up.

08:16:20.680 Oh, shit.

08:16:21.400 They got a binding.

08:16:22.280 Holy shit.

08:16:24.000 Oh, motherfucker.

08:16:25.180 They got a fucking binding.

08:16:27.420 Oh, my God.

08:16:28.740 Holy shit.

08:16:30.060 Holy shit.

08:16:30.620 And they got Flame Guard Gauntlets.

08:16:32.460 Goddamn.

08:16:33.660 Holy shit, bro.

08:16:34.880 We just missed it a little bit.

08:16:36.320 Okay.

08:16:37.300 Goddamn.

08:16:38.020 Good for him.

08:16:38.860 Holy shit.

08:16:41.240 They got.

08:16:41.900 That's good loot from Baron.

08:16:44.000 Get him.

08:16:44.760 Holy shit.

08:16:45.640 Oh, it's not Hardcore.

08:16:46.820 Okay.

08:16:47.140 Hey, we only need one more.

08:16:47.940 I thought it was Hardcore.

08:16:49.260 We only need one more.

08:16:50.000 Saldo's dead.

08:16:50.860 Guys, the binding is HR, bro.

08:16:52.720 Okay.

08:16:53.220 Thank you guys for watching over there on Twitch.

08:16:54.980 I'm going to send him a raid.

08:16:56.440 Yo, when I send you guys over, when I send you guys over, tell him he needs to delete the binding.

08:17:01.320 Tell him to delete the binding from his inventory.

08:17:04.100 All right, guys.

08:17:04.460 Thank you guys for watching on Twitch.

08:17:05.600 We're going to send the raid right now.

08:17:06.780 I hope you guys on Twitch have a good night.

08:17:07.900 All right, thank you guys.

08:17:09.080 All right, Grats Chayula.

08:17:10.520 Chayula getting geared.

08:17:11.780 Look at those shoulders.

08:17:13.040 Aren't these bitch shoulders for looks?

08:17:17.240 Holy shit, boys.

08:17:20.500 That's hot as hell, bro.

08:17:22.500 Yo, whatever.

08:17:23.880 Thank you for the raid.

08:17:25.280 Hello, guys.

08:17:26.960 Delete.

08:17:27.420 Delete binding.

08:17:28.300 Hey, nope.

08:17:29.480 No, we are not deleting that binding.

08:17:31.320 Oh, hell no, dude.

08:17:32.420 All right, wow.

08:17:38.760 That was pretty good timing.

08:17:40.660 That's fate right there.

08:17:42.400 Those who don't know anything about World of Warcraft, the bindings are super rare.

08:17:45.820 It's a legendary item.

08:17:47.100 Very, very rare.

08:17:48.320 It's one of the most coveted items.

08:17:50.560 Well, you need the other binding from the other boss, but it's one of the most coveted items in World of Warcraft.

08:17:55.160 So, wow, what just total happenstance that he got a binding right as we raided him.

08:18:03.420 Anyways, you can close that out.

08:18:05.700 All right.

08:18:06.500 Thank you guys for tuning in.

08:18:08.000 Thank you guys, everybody.

08:18:09.080 I hope you guys have a good night.

08:18:10.380 07's in the chat.

08:18:12.140 07's.

08:18:12.640 What are we forgetting?

08:18:13.340 Oh, wait.

08:18:13.620 Hold on.

08:18:13.840 Let me just double check.

08:18:14.520 Make sure there were no...

08:18:15.580 I don't want to...

08:18:16.180 Okay, sorry.

08:18:16.700 There was just one more that came through.

08:18:17.740 I didn't want to screw this guy.

08:18:18.540 Go over.

08:18:20.240 Uh-oh.

08:18:20.720 Yo, thank you.

08:18:34.640 Do you want to respond to that?

08:18:35.860 Yeah.

08:18:36.800 I mean, not all nurses, but I don't want to call out a specific specialty, but...

08:18:42.300 Wait, do it.

08:18:42.820 Do it.

08:18:42.940 Do it.

08:18:43.980 Which one?

08:18:44.600 I know you're nurses.

08:18:47.260 You know how you watch a Grey's Anatomy kind of thing?

08:18:49.740 It's kind of, like, similar.

08:18:50.820 Like, they have their own, like, drama and, like, that kind of stuff.

08:18:53.080 ER nurses.

08:18:53.940 Yeah.

08:18:54.340 But ICU...

08:18:55.260 They love men and units.

08:18:55.780 Is ICU part of...

08:18:57.140 No, we are critical care departments, ER and ICU, but we are completely separate departments.

08:19:03.060 ICU is, like...

08:19:04.800 Like, you could go to the emergency room for something minor.

08:19:10.180 Yeah, like, put a bandaid on, and then they go to the ICU to be more stabilized.

08:19:13.320 We maintain the patients a little bit more.

08:19:15.240 Okay.

08:19:15.480 But in ER, you see, like, firefighters and police officers, like, men in uniform.

08:19:19.120 I see.

08:19:19.780 Oh.

08:19:20.280 So, that's...

08:19:21.880 Yeah, that's the whole thing.

08:19:23.420 There you go.

08:19:23.440 Okay.

08:19:24.360 Going on down in that world.

08:19:27.480 Nurses.

08:19:28.500 Nurses.

08:19:28.880 We got to do a whole show on...

08:19:30.060 I should just have a nurse panel.

08:19:32.360 You got some nurses?

08:19:33.700 I need a nurse panel.

08:19:34.760 Yeah.

08:19:34.920 That would be...

08:19:35.260 I would definitely...

08:19:36.020 Yo, chat, would you like to see a nurse panel?

08:19:38.580 I think that would be good.

08:19:39.400 Just all nurses.

08:19:41.060 Anyways.

08:19:41.800 All right.

08:19:42.140 07 is in the chat, guys.

08:19:43.300 I hope you guys have a good night.

08:19:44.540 Thank you to the wonderful panel, by the way.

08:19:46.620 Good night, guys.

08:19:47.420 We will see you guys next time.

08:19:48.760 Good night.

08:19:48.980 Good night.

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