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00:00:00.000 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, where we try to make sense of the modern dating

00:00:29.260 hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. Before we get into some quick announcements, I'm just going

00:00:34.480 to go ahead and have the guests introduce themselves. So go ahead. I'm Lauren. I'm from

00:00:40.740 California. I'm a business owner. And what else? Age? 29. 29. Business owner. And you're from?

00:00:52.980 California. What part? Palmdale. Palmdale. Like grew up there, born there? Yeah. Okay. And college?

00:00:58.920 Any education? College education? I dropped out of business college to pursue business. And I did.

00:01:04.580 All right. Gotcha. What about you? My name is Isabella. I am 19. I'm going to college studying

00:01:11.280 biology. I work landscaping and pay piggies come my way. Sorry, what? Piggies come my way. Pay piggies

00:01:21.820 come your way. Yes. If you're in the comments, come my way. Don't you have a boyfriend? Yes. He's

00:01:27.720 okay with that? Yeah. The pay piggies. Okay. The landscaping isn't cutting it? Mm-mm. It's not

00:01:34.620 cutting it. What do you do for landscaping? Like pull weeds and like mulch ground and soil

00:01:41.580 and stuff. I'm like in the dirt. You work for a company or? Yeah. Okay. I know. You're surprised.

00:01:47.680 Is it your, is it your like friend's company or your dad's company or something? Uh, I became

00:01:53.260 friends with a teacher and then she helped me get the job. Okay. Landscaping. That's interesting. I

00:01:59.740 know. I know. All right. Do you have to take your nose ring out? I mean, no, I'm just pulling

00:02:05.940 weeds. Aren't you worried like the lawnmower is going to like rip it out or some shit? Oh yeah,

00:02:09.380 just magnet, like magnetize to the ground. Not magnetize. I don't know. One of the landscaping,

00:02:13.300 I feel like when you, when you're doing that kind of work, not, not even landscaping necessarily,

00:02:18.060 but certain physical labor jobs, you want to avoid wearing certain accessories. Like I'm trying to

00:02:23.420 think, um, maybe there's people in the, in the chat who might know, but I think for people who work in

00:02:28.980 certain trades, they recommend not wearing like a wedding ring, for example, because you can de-glove,

00:02:35.060 by the way, don't Google that. Uh, you can de-glove the skin from your finger because your ring could get

00:02:42.140 trapped in something moving. And then, so I was curious if you have to remove the fucking

00:02:48.320 septum piercing. No, but I'll take notes. You might consider it because your whole note,

00:02:54.380 you never know in some of these, you know, labor jobs, it's going to get caught in the lawnmower

00:02:58.300 and spewing my eye. Something's going to get caught. Your fucking nose is going to get fucking

00:03:02.360 destroyed and, uh, you got a good nose. So you don't want to, you know, you don't want to fuck the

00:03:07.640 nose up. You're right. You're right. I got to keep that in mind. Thank you. Um, and you're from

00:03:12.800 where? Los Angeles County. Los Angeles. All right. What, what part? Uh, near Six Flags,

00:03:18.480 Madge Mountain. Is that like Anaheim or what? No, it's like San Fernando, Valencia. Okay. Yeah. What

00:03:25.280 about you? My name's Deadly. Um, I'm a model, actor, singer, songwriter, dancer. Um, I go to school

00:03:33.760 for business at Capella University. Um, I was born in San Diego, but raised in Germany.

00:03:41.560 So that was fun. You speak German? No, I was on base. Okay. Um, and school? Uh, Capella,

00:03:50.360 what's it called? Capella University. Yeah. What are you studying there again? Business. Oh,

00:03:54.800 business. Okay. Age? 21. 21. All right. And, uh, are you comfortable sharing your real first

00:04:02.460 name? It's, it's all, it's out there. It's out there. Yeah. It's Taryn. Taryn. And so

00:04:08.480 you go by deadly, what? P? Mm-hmm. Deadly P. What's the P stand for? It can stand for precious

00:04:14.500 dead. Well, it's mainly for precious, deadly precious. Deadly precious. Precious. Precious.

00:04:20.980 Okay. I have, what's it called? Speech impediment. Speech impediment. No, what's the one you,

00:04:25.260 uh, Dyslexia? Something. I don't know. One of those things. Dyslexia. Is that your natural eye

00:04:31.760 color? No. You, you're wearing color contacts? Okay. Um, I actually think Taryn, you should

00:04:38.200 go by Taryn. That's a badass name. That's my artist name. Taryn's kind of a badass name.

00:04:43.220 So deadly, deadly precious. Okay. Deadly P. I was, I thought that was like deadly pussy

00:04:50.220 or something. I don't know. I like that one. What? Just curious. What would, like, what

00:04:54.780 is deadly pussy? Like, is it really good pussy or is it really? I mean, yeah, you got them

00:05:00.880 down for the count. They're coming back. Keep coming. Okay. There you go. Um, in any

00:05:06.380 case, that's not what the P stands for. Um, all right. And you said you're from where

00:05:11.420 again? Sorry. I missed that part. I was born in San Diego, raised in Germany. San Diego.

00:05:15.820 You know who, okay. You know who you look like, at least with the color contacts, you look like

00:05:19.260 Stacey Dash. I don't know if you know who that is. Have you seen Clueless? The black girl?

00:05:24.920 Uh-huh. You look a little like her. Oh, thank you. That's a, I think that's a compliment.

00:05:28.620 All right. What about you? Um, my name is Nix. I'm 19. I work as a retail cashier,

00:05:33.020 but I'm also a cinematic arts major at Cal State Long Beach and I'm from Valencia, California.

00:05:37.700 All right. And, uh, trying to think if there's anything else. No, I think that's it. All

00:05:43.440 right. What about you? Um, my name's Kamea. I'm 21 and I live in LA. I was born in Hawaii,

00:05:50.000 but, um, grew up in an Inland Empire and yeah. Oh, highest, highest level of education is high

00:05:55.660 school. Okay. I don't go to Clueless. And then, uh. Oh, I'm a content creator. Content

00:06:00.180 creator. What, what kind of content? Um. Not, not only fans, right? No, not only fans. Okay.

00:06:05.640 But you do streaming? Yeah. Streaming. Um, yeah, just like reach me. I don't know. Sorry,

00:06:12.000 what? Um, yeah, just like content, relatable. Okay. And, uh, you said you're from Hawaii,

00:06:18.140 which island? Oahu. Oahu. How long were you living there? Till I was like eight and then I moved

00:06:23.220 to California. Can you do like a Hawaiian accent for the whole show? Like pigeon? Is

00:06:27.780 that what it's called? Yeah. Can we get a demonstration for the people? It's like,

00:06:31.520 oh, no, you won't. I don't know. No, give us a, uh, two sentences at least. Um, honestly,

00:06:37.780 like it's not that good. My mom could do it better, but I don't want to embarrass myself. Maybe

00:06:41.880 later. Maybe later. What about you? Um, my name is Lauren. I'm 24. Um, I'm from Ventura County.

00:06:47.560 Um, right now I work in food service. Um, and I have my BA from Cal State Northridge in English

00:06:54.780 creative writing. All right. Cool. What about you? Hi, my name is Latrice. Uh, I'm 37 years old.

00:07:02.480 I am currently a stay-at-home mom, wife, and I am a content creator as well. What I do is I

00:07:09.980 commentate on the unfairness of what men go through in a dating market and also hold women accountable.

00:07:16.180 All right. What about you? My name is Miriam or Miriam, however you want to call me. Uh,

00:07:22.700 I live in the Bay area. I am 40 years old and, uh, I'm a magician and I work in tech.

00:07:29.760 All right. And, uh, are you going to show us a magic trick? Maybe right now, right now,

00:07:36.200 you got, you got cards on you. What you got? Um, a little card, card flourish or something.

00:07:41.380 Not card flourish. Um, let me, let me grab it. All right. Um, can you, Latrice, can you do me a

00:07:49.980 favor? You see that, uh, green thing behind you? Can you push it like, uh, three inches that way more?

00:07:57.560 Yeah, that's good. All right. So she got some card tricks. I got some cards. Yeah. I think the

00:08:05.260 camera should be able to see. So how long have you been doing magic, by the way? I've been doing

00:08:08.580 magic for 16 years. Um, and stage, stage magic, up close magic. What do you do? I do close up magic.

00:08:14.420 I, yeah. Um, I do close up magic. I do, uh, what we call strolling magic. So like if you have

00:08:20.860 a party or whatever, and you, you know, have people scattered around and you just want them

00:08:25.380 to, you know, I walk, I walk up to the groups and do magic for them. Like you'll do wedding,

00:08:30.660 wedding, quinceaneras? Yes. Bar mitzvahs? Yes. Okay. Yeah. Uh, but I also have my, my shows. I

00:08:38.620 literally just did a birthday party last night. Um, birthday parties. Yeah. Okay. Let's see

00:08:43.220 something. Let's, yeah, absolutely. Um, so, uh, let me see if this space is fine. I cannot

00:08:48.520 move this, right? I can, I can move it a little bit. I can move it a little bit. Thank you.

00:08:51.540 I just need this area so it's visible, I guess. Okay. All right. Um, usually when I ask people

00:08:57.720 to pick a card, you know what card they go with? Uh, the ace of spades. Ace of spades.

00:09:03.240 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I made it hard. I made it easier for myself. So I started to just collect

00:09:08.260 the ace of spades. That way I don't have to, you know, go through the selection

00:09:13.200 part. Yeah. Yeah. Um, so I have the cards here. I'm going to place them at the table.

00:09:19.040 One face down, one face up, face down, face out. Here. Um, the idea is very simple. When I have the

00:09:26.820 cards, um, face up, you can see all the cards are face up. Yeah. However, if I place a card

00:09:33.960 face down, you know what happens? It's no longer an ace of spades. All the cards flip face down. You got

00:09:40.860 it. Okay. All the cards flip face down. Okay. If I place a face up card, you know what happens?

00:09:47.040 It's face up. Are they all face up? You are right. They all flip face up. Um, if I place

00:09:53.480 a card, this situation's not, okay. If I place a card face down, all the cards flip one more

00:10:00.280 time, face down. Face up card. Okay. Okay. You say the magic word. Uh, abracadabra. Oh,

00:10:08.380 you got it. And all the cards flip, uh, face up. Now, even in the same pile, if I flip,

00:10:15.820 if I flip one card face down, you can see all the cards flip face down.

00:10:23.320 I'm not. You can also say the magic word and have one card flips, uh, flip this up in the

00:10:29.820 middle. The magic word. Yeah. Again. Abracadabra. Kelly Clarkson.

00:10:37.340 One card flip face up and the middle of the deck. Oh, I put this in the wrong card. I'm

00:10:43.180 not blanking. Oh, here's the thing. Here's the thing. What you did not realize that while

00:10:48.260 I was doing all of that, I was actually switching the cards. As you can see here, they all came

00:10:54.640 from different piles from different decks. Wait, I'm so tripped out. No, no, no, no, no,

00:11:00.780 no. In a, you know, in a poker game. Having the four Kings. Um, no, it's a Royal Flush.

00:11:09.060 Oh, what? Why are they different colors? What is happening? They were all aces when you started.

00:11:14.500 Oh my goodness. Can I look at the cards? Can I touch this one? I'm confused. I didn't like

00:11:21.820 I made sure not to blink. Look at that. And it's changed. Gravity changed. They were all

00:11:27.320 gold and now they're the, that's cool. All right. Sweet. Maybe, maybe we'll get some more

00:11:32.500 later. We'll get some more tricks later. Well, thank you for showing us that. Appreciate it.

00:11:35.980 First time ever having a female magician. By the way, you were very magical. You've been

00:11:44.660 very magical this entire time. Um, you know, before the show, but, um, don't worry about

00:11:52.980 it. Don't worry about it. Um, uh, you know, uh, so question you have an accent though.

00:11:57.520 Where are you from? I'm from Saudi Arabia, Saudi Arabia. Okay. Um, and when did you move

00:12:02.800 to the United States? Uh, well, back in 2013, to that back in 2013, okay. I came in to get

00:12:10.360 my master's degree and I've never left. What were you studying? Uh, I got my master's degree

00:12:15.140 in economics from Cal state, East Bay. Okay. Economics. And then, uh, have you become a naturalized

00:12:22.340 citizen or what, what's your, do you have a green card or what's your, uh, citizen status?

00:12:27.300 Uh, well, I applied for asylum back in 2017 and unfortunately the USCIS had not processed

00:12:34.660 my application for over eight years. Um, so this year I applied for what's called mandamus,

00:12:41.020 which is basically you're going after them, threatening them of suing them if they don't

00:12:44.720 move your case. Okay. Um, essentially, um, it's, it's a risky move because, uh, they could

00:12:50.700 either, um, say, okay, fine. Here's your appointment or they initiate your deportation

00:12:56.960 process. So, uh, we get the appointment and we get approved. Okay. Gotcha. Uh, before we

00:13:03.720 get into everybody's relationship status, which I'll have you guys share in just a moment,

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00:13:33.920 do that later. Right. Um, so that's, hold on. My notes are all jumbled here. One sec guys.

00:13:39.680 Uh, yeah, yeah. So guys, you know, listen, um, YouTube takes a brutal 30% cut and we barely

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00:14:02.300 me till I'm out of my moment? Like shit guys. I don't know. 2026. I was going to wait until

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00:14:55.840 uh, before we get into it, I'll just give you a heads up. I forgot to mention before the show

00:14:59.360 for the BLM segment, I've added some things after Kanye. So you'll, you'll hear my intro.

00:15:05.820 And when, when you hear the names, you can pull that stuff up. Um, I should have, sorry for not

00:15:10.340 bringing that. Yeah. We're also live on Twitch right now, guys, pull up another tab, go to Twitch.

00:15:16.320 What the heck? Go to twitch.tv slash whatever. And drop a safe follow on the prime sub. If you

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00:15:26.440 show every single month. We don't even have to be live for you guys to do it. It's been eight minutes

00:15:30.960 since we last got the prime sub. I think it's bugged boys. We got merch shopped out, whatever.com.

00:15:36.200 Um, I am wearing the, I heart big labia premium hoodie.

00:15:43.260 Be sure to get it, go get it. Uh, we got other designs too. We sell pick a hobos. We sell cups.

00:15:49.620 Uh, uh, so yeah, I'm shopped at whatever.com. And by the way that it's premium t-shirts, you know,

00:15:55.200 super comfortable, super sane. You'll actually want to wear it soft, lightweight fabric. It's like

00:16:00.240 wearing a fucking cloud. You know, these shitty band t-shirts, they print on some dog shit,

00:16:05.020 fucking cardboard. And it's like, you love the band, but they, the merch is fucking dog

00:16:09.680 shit. It's not comfortable. You don't want to wear it. You're going to chafe your nipples

00:16:12.800 and shit with our shit. No chafed nipples. Fuck that shit. So anyways, follow us on Instagram

00:16:17.840 at whatever. Any women who want to be on the show, you can DM us there. Twitter.com slash

00:16:22.440 whatever. Follow me on Instagram, Brian Atlas X Twitter, Brian Atlas. Uh, I guess my cat,

00:16:27.700 you can also follow my cat. Uh, Oh, so cute. Really? Okay. So hold on. Uh, before you pull

00:16:34.480 it up, Nick, in, in just a sec here, you know, the shirt, whatever, you know, I'm the founder

00:16:41.440 and of, of the nonprofit and grassroots movement, big labia matter or BLM for short, uh, because

00:16:51.680 all labia can't matter until big labia matter. Pull it up, Nick, pull it up. Um, so I, that's

00:16:56.800 my, uh, movement if you want to follow it. Um, but I just want to say, um, this is what

00:17:03.140 I want to say. I want to say, um, fuck Kanye, fuck Matt Reif and tap through those fuck plastic

00:17:15.540 surgeons, the surgery staff, and as a motherfucking crew. And if you want to be down with labia

00:17:22.580 shaming, fuck you too. Howard Stern, fuck you too. All you motherfuckers, fuck you too.

00:17:28.900 All of y'all motherfuckers, fuck you. Die slow, motherfucker. My fo-fo, make sure all y'all

00:17:33.840 kids don't grow. You motherfuckers can't be us or see us. We motherfucking thug life riders

00:17:38.560 west side till we die out here in California, bro. We warned y'all. We'll bomb on you motherfuckers.

00:17:44.500 We do our job. You think you mob, bro? We the motherfucking mob. But, uh, yeah. So, um,

00:17:52.540 none of this, like, look, none of this wizard sleeve beef curtains, roast beef, roasty Arby's

00:17:57.160 talk. Get that out of here. Okay. As someone who only dates women with large labia, like this is

00:18:03.100 important for me. Like it hurts. Sometimes I cry thinking about it. All the women,

00:18:14.500 chopping their pussy lips off or just feeling insecure. I don't like it one bit.

00:18:23.160 What kind of, there's 10, there's 10,000 labiaplasties a year in the USA alone.

00:18:28.500 And it's really the pressing issue of our time. What do you guys think? Just curious. What do you

00:18:34.280 guys think about my movement? It's just a good movement. Strong that women are ashamed of

00:18:39.860 themselves. Shouldn't be. Yeah. Has anybody here faced shaming in that department from culture,

00:18:48.200 society, a guy, nobody, nobody ever feels insecure about, you know, some like, look, guys can also

00:18:59.700 be insecure down there. You know, it's, are you? No, I'm, I'm pretty good. I've, I've accepted my

00:19:06.060 average lot in life. Yeah. I'm proud. Yeah. I, I, I accept. Yeah. You know? So, uh, yeah. All right.

00:19:15.860 All right. Good talk. Is it a primarily male audience? No, it's actually only women who watch

00:19:24.260 the show. No, no, no. Yeah. It's like, you know, hold on. That's crazy. That's crazy. There's a few,

00:19:31.200 very few. Yo, you know, to the women watching, we're going to do this segment a little later,

00:19:35.840 but fuck it. I'll just do it right now. Hold on. Raise your hand if you're a woman. Send a TTS.

00:19:39.840 To the women in the chat, a couple things. Ladies in the chat. First off, let yourself

00:19:45.240 be known in the chat. Let yourself be known in the chat. But what the fuck? Where's all

00:19:50.900 the fucking notes on this? Hold on. Let me find the goddamn notes. One sec, guys. Oh my God.

00:19:57.520 I have too many notes. It's crazy. Um. Where did they go? You're starting to sound Italian.

00:20:02.560 And they disagree. It's crazy. It's fucking crazy here. What the? Oh, of course. That's

00:20:08.840 why. I see. Okay. Listen, ladies. I don't know if you remember last show. I had a come

00:20:14.200 up. I had some women give me money on the podcast. Wow. Yeah. Yeah. They just handed

00:20:21.100 me cash. You saw that? You saw that? I'm glad I didn't come to that one. Wait, did you ask

00:20:28.060 the women to give you cash? Look, I'm a starving college student. You know, it's, it's, I,

00:20:32.940 I am too. I'm right here at me. I'm a starving artist. I was repulsed. I was like, wait, maybe.

00:20:37.580 But listen, to the women watching, these girls, they're doubting. They're doubting that you're

00:20:44.140 out there. So this, you know what? I'm going to skip ahead a little bit, at least for the,

00:20:47.380 for the viewers. Uh, there are women who watch the show and, um, here's what I need you guys

00:20:53.200 to do. It's time for your tribute. I demand the tribute from the women. Just the men, you

00:20:58.720 can kick it. You can chill. The women watching, we need, I need to see the tribute, the super

00:21:03.120 chat, the Venmo, the cash app, the, the stream labs. I need to say, I need to see it. So, um,

00:21:09.900 don't do it. So do, do it. Don't listen to it. Don't listen to her. So, uh, yeah, listen,

00:21:15.840 these girls, they, they doubt that the women are out there, but trust me, some of the women

00:21:19.120 are my most loyal, ruthless. They're fucking ruthless. Not pit. No, they're ready. They're

00:21:26.040 not pick me. I'm just saying they got my back. The women, Jess, Mara, they got my back. That's

00:21:32.500 just to name two. Trust me. These girls, are those actual names or just naming names? Oh,

00:21:36.760 those are some, some women who watch the show. Trust me. They watch Catherine, Catherine, the

00:21:41.200 girl who does my tamp, timestamps, tampon. What the fuck? The girl who does my tampon timestamps,

00:21:48.100 Catherine, she will, she, she, uh, she'll shank a bitch. Oh, is that somebody's? Um, so anyways,

00:21:57.760 I don't know. I'm all over the place right now, but, uh, okay. So somebody, uh, forgot to take

00:22:04.620 their, their lithium medication or something. Xanax. It's 7 PM. It's 5, 5 30. Okay. Let's see here.

00:22:16.080 All right. Uh, I'll finish up the intro though. That was a little interesting. But did you know

00:22:19.740 that most women don't create an actual YouTube account, but they watch their men are more likely

00:22:25.800 to create accounts to leave comments because they, they want to leave comments. Women more likely

00:22:32.160 watch unless if they want to like actually post on, on YouTube, uh, content creators or they already

00:22:39.580 have a Gmail account. Um, other than that, they don't create an account to leave comments and then

00:22:44.820 do that. All right, cool. Uh, so anyways, uh, okay. Finishing. Oh, if you guys, if you can't catch

00:22:51.720 the full shows, we have a clips channel links in the description, discord. We have a discord.gg

00:22:56.780 slash whatever. Uh, we post our stream schedule behind the scenes, hate mail research studies,

00:23:01.980 a bunch of other stuff. If you're my Caucasian, you will join the discord. Uh, we post behind the

00:23:06.900 scenes, et cetera, et cetera. Uh, let's see here. Oh, a final few things here for this intro.

00:23:13.060 If anybody has an iMac G3 DME on Instagram, if anybody has an iBook G3 DME on Instagram,

00:23:20.060 these, those are like the old school clamshell laptops from Apple from like 99. The iMac G3 is the

00:23:26.820 desktop computer. Also, I think 98, 99. I'm looking to get whatever DME. If you have one also,

00:23:34.360 I'm hiring for two positions, you need to either live or be able to make it to Santa Barbara every

00:23:39.960 Sunday. Position one, a new helmet girl sidekick. You just need to be good looking. That's pretty

00:23:47.460 much it. Um, you could be a high school dropout. You could have dropped out of kindergarten. I don't

00:23:52.820 care. Kindergarten. You don't need a fucking resume. I don't care. Uh, and, uh, if you look,

00:23:59.400 if you're good on camera, that helps too, but, uh, not required. I can, I can train you. If you're

00:24:04.600 like an introverted autist, I can probably get you somewhat up to speed. Position two, position two,

00:24:11.500 uh, I need a new soldier sidekick. So think Gustavo old school.

00:24:18.300 You wear the soldier uniform, probably be the easiest and funnest job of your life.

00:24:24.000 How much are you paying? Eh, well, that will be to, to be determined, to be negotiated. You know,

00:24:31.560 I got to see the, you know, I got to see the skillset. Are you paying the man and the woman?

00:24:37.400 Don't worry. The job's not open. I don't think any, yeah. So anyways, um, you can DM on Instagram

00:24:43.820 if you're interested in that. Oh, and oh my, sorry, this interest, I need to reduce this. Uh,

00:24:49.360 if there's any rich people watching, I see Pacey George in the chat. Uh, you know what? If you want

00:24:53.880 a change of pace in your life, if you're just wondering what to do, you want instant clout,

00:24:58.620 clout, you want instant influence. I'll just sell you whatever. My negotiating range is in the eight

00:25:07.000 figures. Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the, oh my God, they already did that.

00:25:11.240 We're going to do relationship status. Excuse me. Uh, if you're single, can you tell us how you're,

00:25:17.040 how long you've been single? So, well, first your relationship status, if you're in a relationship,

00:25:21.040 uh, longest relationship a year, are the yearly recap? Uh, no, no. So just, okay. So your current

00:25:29.540 relationship status, how long you've been single and the longest relationship you've ever been in.

00:25:34.440 Uh, the longest relationship I've been in is three and a half years. Um, I'm recently single of two

00:25:40.060 weeks, two, two weeks. Okay. Two weeks, 3.5 years, longest relationship. The

00:25:46.960 one that ended two weeks ago. How long was that? Very short. Uh, a month. Yeah. Like I've,

00:25:54.120 if that, you know, were you boyfriend, girlfriend or was it just like a situation shit? Um, I don't

00:25:59.120 know. It's complicated, but yeah, I was like boyfriend, girlfriend for like a week and then

00:26:02.020 what's your orientation? Because you're not pansexual. You're you're pan. Okay. It was a

00:26:07.020 guy though. This time. Yeah. Okay. You've dated women though. Yeah. Okay. Uh, and then you have

00:26:13.820 one kid from the 3.5 year relationship. No. Okay. Which one? Um, I was like, and I, I was

00:26:20.760 engaged a couple of years back and it was like on and off for a couple of years, but on and

00:26:25.700 off for like five years. Okay. Gotcha. Uh, engaged, but never married. Is that correct? No. All

00:26:34.280 right. Nick, leave the super chance there for just a sec. I just need to make one adjustment.

00:26:37.260 Uh, okay. Uh, okay. We're good. Um, Oh, these. Okay. Yeah. Thank you guys for the,

00:26:46.520 for the supers. All right. Uh, so one kid, how old's your kid? He's four. Four. Okay. Uh,

00:26:54.000 right. What about you? Uh, I'm taken along this relationship a year and 11 months, current

00:26:59.660 relationship one year and 11 months. Okay. Uh, what about you? I haven't been, I'm gonna

00:27:10.820 say. Sorry, what? Nick, uh, lower the audio. I think it's, what's your, what's your current

00:27:19.740 relationship status? Single? Single. Yeah. How long? Forever? Yeah. You're 21. Uh, so, okay.

00:27:28.320 So you haven't been in a relationship. What's the longest period of time that you've seen

00:27:32.240 a guy? Uh, not long for a guy. Um, for girl, I would say four months, four months, four months,

00:27:45.620 four months. So four months longest with a girl. Okay. Longest for a guy. Are you, are you

00:27:52.360 bi or pan? I am bi. Guys just be weird. Okay. So you just have sex with men? No.

00:27:57.740 You can try, but no. What do you mean? I'm not down for that. To have sex or to have sex

00:28:04.940 with men? To have sex. Period. Oh, so you're, you're asexual. Are you a virgin? No. Okay.

00:28:12.540 But are you, so are you asexual or? Um, if we get in a relationship, y'all, but yeah, no. Oh,

00:28:20.920 so you're demisexual. You can DM me pasty. Um, what is that? Demisexual would mean that,

00:28:27.040 you know, you won't really get involved in any sexual relationship unless you actually

00:28:30.540 find an interpersonal connection with that person. Yeah. Okay. And that's what it is.

00:28:34.780 Okay. Okay. I see. It's, it's true. Have you, have you been with a man, biblically speaking?

00:28:43.800 Yeah. Okay. But it's not your preference. No. You prefer women. Yes. But sometimes a guy. Yes.

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00:29:22.500 Okay. Uh, so you've never said, I love you to somebody. Cause you said single your whole

00:29:32.000 life. So never boyfriend, girlfriend or girlfriend, girlfriend, or, uh, I've been close to it.

00:29:36.880 They friend. But how do you like, uh, like non-binary people? Partner. Is it your girlfriend

00:29:42.260 or is it they friend? They said, they said partner. Like, are you they friend? I just made

00:29:47.000 that up by the way. And that was pretty sharp. I think in 2020 they used to say joy friend.

00:29:51.280 More impressed than you are. Just to, just being honest. What? In 2020 they used to say

00:29:55.320 joy friend. Wow. That is sad. That's new for me. I've never heard that. Wait, what? Interesting.

00:30:00.420 I kind of want to jump on the building right now. Uh, joy friend. Wow. Yeah. That was

00:30:05.500 like from the depths of discord though. I don't know if that was real or like just like Twitter.

00:30:09.060 I don't know. Okay. Yeah. You've really put yourself together since the last time you were

00:30:13.660 on the show. And what the hell does that mean? Huh? That's a compliment. Chill out, Nix. No, bro.

00:30:18.220 What does that mean? That's a, that's a compliment. What do you mean by that?

00:30:20.900 I don't know. Sometimes I just say things because of the autism. Yeah. So yeah. So anyways,

00:30:29.180 um, have you said, I love you to anybody like romantic love? Not I love you as a friend,

00:30:37.160 you know, or I love you as a sugar daddy or I love you as a, I've been close to it.

00:30:47.080 Okay. You've been close. Yes. Well, okay. You've never said it, but have you been in love?

00:30:52.660 Yes. Was it with an inanimate object? No. Cause one time we had a girl on the show who like

00:31:00.880 she dated trees. Oh, she had an, uh, was she okay? A sexual attraction to trees.

00:31:09.720 Redwoods to be specific. What's wrong with redwoods? Are you a redwood hater? Isabella?

00:31:17.580 Ball smeller? Guys, I'm not, I'm not insulting her. That's just her, her Instagram is balls

00:31:24.920 smeller. Yep. You got to change that shit. Yeah, I probably do. You're such a lovely,

00:31:31.160 nice one, like lady. Do women appreciate being called lady? I don't know. Um, yeah, lady,

00:31:37.720 you're a lady. Okay. I don't know. Um, all right. So relationship status, um, single for about

00:31:43.620 three months now. Single for three months. Um, last time were you on the show? Were you in a

00:31:50.020 relationship or were you single? It was like a situation ship, but did you say single? No.

00:31:56.040 Okay. So you were, okay. So is that the guy that you were, was it a guy? Yeah. The guy that you were

00:32:03.740 seeing when you were last on the show? Is that the one that ended three months ago? Yeah. Three months

00:32:09.220 ago. Okay. And, uh, have you had a rebound? It's complicated. It's like a really weird situation.

00:32:18.340 Are you like unicorning for Isabella? Um, no, we were just like, I don't know. It was just like a

00:32:27.700 really weird falling out. She's lesbian now. Yep. She's what? Filipina now? Lesbian. Oh, I'm,

00:32:31.980 I'm Filipina now. Oh, she's, you're, you're dating women or what's the deal? Oh, we'll find out,

00:32:37.340 bro. Okay. Yeah. That's how I'm feeling too. Don't worry. Longest relationship? Um, a year

00:32:43.580 and nine months, I believe. Nick, could you, uh, open the door, but, um, year, that's all

00:32:48.660 good. Nine, nine months. Okay. Uh, so is there somebody in the picture currently? Not in that

00:32:56.200 way. No. What do you mean that way? I'm not talking to anyone. Are you on any dating apps?

00:33:01.060 No. I swore off that shit. There's not even somebody you're texting? No. Communicating

00:33:06.300 with? Email? Facebook? DMs? No. Smoke signals? Smoke signals? What is that? Okay. Uh, I got

00:33:16.480 a bad signal in the sky right now. The most recent relationship, sorry, uh, how long are you seeing

00:33:20.320 that person? Um, nine months. Nine months. Was it on again, off again? Kind of, yeah. Who broke

00:33:28.160 up with who? He broke up with me. What did you do to him? It was, like, really weird.

00:33:34.640 I don't even think he knows why he broke up with me. He doesn't know? I know. No, it

00:33:39.780 was, like. I know why he broke up with you. He DMs me. Just kidding. Oh, yeah. Yeah. But

00:33:44.940 it was just a really weird situation. Bella can confirm. Why? What? It was what? It was

00:33:51.020 just weird. How so? Like, I don't know. It was just weird. Like, you would, like. What was

00:33:58.060 that mean? What does weird mean? I don't know. He was just, like, he would just lie

00:34:02.080 about random shit, so I don't know what he was telling the truth about. He would text

00:34:05.480 me one thing, say something else, act a different way. Like, he was very, very bipolar in that

00:34:10.320 way, I guess. I don't know. Oh, he was bipolar. He was old and he was a bum. No, he wasn't

00:34:12.700 actually bipolar. How old was he? He was old and a bum. Stop it. How old? Too old and not

00:34:18.580 in college doing nothing with his life. A bum. This is not true. How old was he? She deserves

00:34:22.320 better. How old? Hello? He was, he was 25. I was 19. It's not, he's still a bum.

00:34:27.760 That's not bad. That's old? He lied about his age when we first met. He's still not doing

00:34:30.680 anything with his life. How old did he say he was? He said he was 21 and we went when

00:34:34.640 I was 18. Ooh. So that doubles the age gap. Yeah, why are you lying about your age? Trying

00:34:37.660 to be malicious. At what point did he reveal his age? He didn't. I found out. Okay, that's

00:34:42.780 pretty, because, you know, maybe, you know, sometimes people do this thing where they, like,

00:34:47.200 alter their age on a dating app and then they'll say in the bio, not actually, I'm 27, I'm

00:34:52.900 not 24, whatever. I found out. He told you. No, he did not tell me. Oh, he. Oh, wait.

00:34:57.880 Well, wait. He didn't tell you? He told me he was 21. I found out that he was 24 at the

00:35:02.760 time. And then. Like, when you, after you broke up with him or? Okay, basically, we broke

00:35:10.220 up. He broke up with me the first time and then I was like, something doesn't feel right.

00:35:13.840 So then I, like, I did some snooping and then I found out he was lying about his age. And then

00:35:18.180 I texted him again and I was like, hey, what was that about? And then he was like, you

00:35:23.280 weren't supposed to find out about that. What, but did you press him on it? What was

00:35:26.720 his explanation? He didn't really give me an explanation. He was just like, oh, my bad.

00:35:33.300 Oh, my bad. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. That's what I'm saying. He was weird. It was, it was

00:35:38.020 just weird. So, I mean, I guess what's your diagnosis? Cause my impression here is he thought

00:35:44.300 if he said he was older, that would present like a bit of an age gap dynamic and you might

00:35:49.780 not want to date him. Is that, is that fair to say? I, I guess so. I really don't know

00:35:55.040 what his deal is. Like, I don't want to speak on that, you know? Like, I genuinely don't

00:35:58.520 know what's going on that whole time. How soon? So you said it was nine months, but it was

00:36:04.800 kind of on again, off again. How soon into seeing him did y'all find out the lying about

00:36:10.480 the age? Three months. And you dated this dude for another six months. Cause I didn't

00:36:16.900 mind the age gap. So he should have just been up front. Yeah. He should have just told me

00:36:20.960 and I wouldn't have cared. It wouldn't have even been an issue. Yeah. And then him lying

00:36:24.540 wouldn't have been a thing, but it was a thing because he lied about it. Was it the white

00:36:28.520 guy? No. I swore off white men. Oh boy. Sorry. Well, look, I think it's fine for people

00:36:37.400 to have racial dating preferences, but, uh, like Latino guy. Yeah. He was Mexican, Mexican

00:36:42.600 guy. Okay. Huh? Why did you swear off white guys? My first two boyfriends were white and

00:36:49.880 I was just like, I, no, thank you. I'm also just like bad experiences. And also I just

00:36:55.520 realized that like, I'm more attracted to other races. Like I don't, I don't actually swear

00:36:58.940 off white guys. It's just like, I don't seek them out. You know what I mean? Sure. Um, can

00:37:04.400 I, I'm curious though, in terms of like the, the group, that the kinds of people that you

00:37:11.200 move with, would you say that you're part of like an alt, I don't know what the sub,

00:37:18.300 not sub genre, but like, are you alternative? Like, do you go to punk shows? Like what,

00:37:25.300 what, what, what's the people I surround myself with? What's the term for, um,

00:37:28.720 subculture? Like a subculture. Yeah. Yeah. I would say so. Like alt, like are the guys

00:37:34.580 heavily tatted and depressed? Whoa. I mean, yeah, I guess so. But that wasn't until like

00:37:42.040 recently. Okay. Yeah. Cause you said your first two exes and they were white guys,

00:37:50.020 right? Yeah. But they weren't, no, I mean, also alt or whatever. The second one was like

00:37:54.780 sort of alternative, kind of not presenting, but like he was alternative in mindset, I guess.

00:38:02.160 I'm developing a theory that like, I mean, and I, I think it just, it's pretty obvious,

00:38:06.620 like just certain subcultures, probably like people drawn to those subcultures probably like

00:38:15.160 have a higher representation of mental illness. I mean, okay. I see what you're trying to get out

00:38:21.160 there. Huh? Your viewers? Oh, my viewers are very mentally healthy. Super same. I've gotten some

00:38:27.320 really nice messages from the viewers. Nobody met you. You are so, not to be mean, you're very milk

00:38:33.020 toast. What does that mean? Milk toast, bland. Okay. On the show I am, yes. And when I say bland,

00:38:39.380 that's not like, as an insult, that's just like, you don't really have many fire, like crazy

00:38:45.160 hot takes. You're very, you're pretty polite. In the middle. You've been on two or three times,

00:38:49.680 I think. So it's like, I can't imagine like people are coming to hate you. I don't know.

00:38:54.880 No, not hate, not hate, just weird things, weird things. Like what? Like I got, so there's this

00:39:01.360 trans lady that hit me up from your show telling me all about her transition, how she had a husband,

00:39:06.260 like she had a wife and she was like, yeah, I treated my wife so bad and I'm just trying to come to

00:39:10.840 terms with myself as a trans woman. Then there's another erotic writer hitting me up being like,

00:39:15.160 tell me to write 10 pages a day and whip me. I'm like, I can confirm this by the way.

00:39:22.040 There's some interesting fans you have, I'd say. Yeah. I mean, I think with any, obviously in any

00:39:27.560 sort of grouping of people, there's going to be an element of that grouping that, you know,

00:39:33.320 is maybe has something going on. You can, you can find this anywhere though. You can find this in the

00:39:39.160 church. You can find it. Yeah. That's my point. Exactly. You can find it everywhere. Well,

00:39:42.780 yeah, you can find it on the left. You can find it on the right. But I do think if we're talking

00:39:46.840 about a sort of, a sort of like generalized increase in prevalence, like for example, and I think

00:39:53.380 they've actually done studies on this, like people who identify as a leftist or liberal,

00:39:59.780 there's a higher prevalence of depression amongst this group. Okay. That's not an attack. I'm not saying

00:40:04.440 that's an attack on stereotypical, but there, there have been studies that indicate that there is a

00:40:09.020 higher prevalence of depression or, uh, you know, personality disorders or whatever. And, um, maybe

00:40:14.940 you have counter studies that might say, well, conservatives have X, you know, they do this

00:40:19.500 bad thing more. Right. So, uh, but as it relates to, I think some of the, like when you start getting

00:40:25.260 into like the music scene and you're doing, going to these mosh pit things, I think that that look,

00:40:31.980 I'm not saying all people that go to that shit. There's, I know great people. I know people

00:40:35.980 personally, I have some friends that are in the music scene and they, they go to punk concerts

00:40:41.220 and alt concerts and stuff. Yeah. But I do think that there's an element when you're drawn to the

00:40:46.080 alt stuff a little bit, I'm not saying that it causes it. I'm not saying that all people who are

00:40:51.800 drawn to that are it, but the, I think there is a higher prevalence of the people who are drawn to

00:40:58.180 those kinds of scenes. Like for example, somebody who has a face, face tattoos, right? Full fucking

00:41:04.760 face of face tattoos. Yes. You could have logically like you could blast your face in face tattoos and

00:41:12.200 be like a really productive member of society and have no mental health issues. I think the prevalence

00:41:18.400 though, of people who have full blasted face tattoos, the prevalence of mental illness in that group,

00:41:24.800 personality disorders is higher than the general population. And I'm just saying,

00:41:29.700 I love the promiscuous married men scene on your account. The, the what? Promiscuous married men

00:41:35.260 scene. I could say. With what? Your fans. I love the scene. I'm just saying, I love it. Wait,

00:41:39.820 hold on. So you're, you're, you're alleging that my audience is predominated by promiscuous

00:41:45.860 married men. Yes. By like cheating, infidelity. Not necessarily cheating, just like. How would they be,

00:41:51.720 how would you know they're promiscuous and married? I don't know. There's accounts that follow me with

00:41:56.780 a bunch of married women. Why are you following me? I just feel like it's weird that people follow

00:42:00.260 me off your thing. It was a bunch of married men. How many followers do you even have? Not that many,

00:42:05.520 but not many, like a thousand. Okay. But how many followed you from the podcast? I'd say over a good

00:42:11.760 20, especially from the first show I was on. Your sample size is 20 followers. But still, even then,

00:42:16.420 all of them are still odd from your account, from your account. Yes. Okay. Well, maybe they're drawn

00:42:21.840 to the, what, there's this, um, they want like a goth mommy. What's that term? Anybody in the chat

00:42:28.000 can help me. The term for frogs that are brightly colored as a warning sign. So I think, I do think

00:42:35.660 there is a thing when you carry yourself with a certain aesthetic, you'll attract people. Yes,

00:42:39.860 you are going to attract. So like they see the hair and they're like, Oh, this girl's unique. This girl

00:42:46.280 is, uh, I'll just go with unique. And they're like, okay, I want to fucking follow her, whatever.

00:42:56.160 And so I think the hair will, will kind of attract that in a little bit, you know? Okay. Yeah. I've

00:43:04.820 been on social media. It's just odd. Yeah. Uh, so, um, anyway, but how you could, so the women are

00:43:11.560 following you and you say that there's one woman, the rest was men, but yeah, it was one trans woman

00:43:16.160 that texted. No, but you said they were the viewers that were following you were promiscuous or

00:43:19.680 whatever. I say so. I just feel like they have ill intention. How can you demonstrate that the,

00:43:25.080 they're promiscuous? I can't, but I can look at their account, see their married woman. Like I'm

00:43:29.260 confused. I just don't know why they care about my life. Why are you wanting to be involved with my

00:43:33.200 life? How do you have an Instagram? But why do they want to be on mine though? I don't know that.

00:43:38.900 I mean, I would assume that people just follow people just because, okay. But how do you,

00:43:43.420 how do you, I follow people whose content I want to watch. But how do you go from just somebody

00:43:49.800 following you to making a determination? Well, first off, I got countless messages and then the

00:43:57.940 other ones, I guess it is kind of an assumption for the others who didn't message me. It just looks a

00:44:02.760 little weird in my opinion. If somebody follows you, it looks weird. If it's an older man with a

00:44:08.520 wife on their bio and you're following an alternative girl from a podcast, I say it's weird.

00:44:13.440 I'm sorry. That's just what I think. What content do you make? I don't make any, um, she's a, she's a

00:44:19.480 landscaper. Yeah. I'm, I'm studying. I'm not making content. I just post myself occasionally.

00:44:25.400 I don't have 20, 20 followers is a really small sample size. In any case, um, relationship status?

00:44:32.700 Um, single. I never been in a relationship to be honest.

00:44:36.480 Longest period of time dating somebody? Like talking.

00:44:41.240 Honestly, well, I had a sugar daddy, but I wouldn't even count that because like it wasn't.

00:44:46.560 Um, do you date women? Uh, no.

00:44:48.820 Just men? Yeah.

00:44:49.680 Okay. And, uh, longest period of time?

00:44:55.240 Not long. I don't know. I don't, I haven't really talked to anyone for real. I mean, I'm

00:44:59.420 kind of talking to someone right now, but yeah. Sorry, that was counter.

00:45:04.800 So you, um, you've not, for example, have you seen a guy for like a month?

00:45:11.260 Um, yes.

00:45:14.680 Two months, three months. What's the longest?

00:45:17.100 I'd say like a month, but I'm not, honestly, I'm not really like.

00:45:20.680 Have you ever been in love?

00:45:21.980 No. I don't really put myself out there, I guess.

00:45:24.760 So one month is the longest period of time you've.

00:45:27.400 Like tried to see someone, but.

00:45:29.320 Okay. So you just do casual?

00:45:31.560 Mm-mm. Like I just stayed at myself.

00:45:33.540 Okay. And, um, we'll get into this once we finish up with everybody else, but you are trans?

00:45:38.820 Mm-hmm.

00:45:39.460 Okay. Um, I don't believe you, but, um, I think you're trans fishing, but, uh.

00:45:44.920 Oh my God.

00:45:45.440 Um, so.

00:45:47.100 Isn't that a compliment?

00:45:48.160 Yeah, it is.

00:45:50.140 So.

00:45:50.680 So beautiful.

00:45:51.480 Thank you.

00:45:51.800 And you went viral recently, actually.

00:45:53.760 There were some videos of you because you were like on a date with a guy and it was a live stream and you guys kissed.

00:46:02.140 Mm-hmm.

00:46:02.480 And you told him only after that you, only after the kiss that you were trans. Is that correct?

00:46:08.600 Yeah, that's correct.

00:46:10.380 Okay. Um.

00:46:12.260 She's looking at me like.

00:46:13.440 Dubious.

00:46:13.760 No, no, no, no, no, wait, wait.

00:46:14.860 Can you do me a favor? Can you just tilt your head back and look up to the ceiling?

00:46:19.220 No, tilt.

00:46:19.740 I'm not doing that.

00:46:20.680 Tilt, tilt your head back.

00:46:21.780 No, he's trying to clock me. He's trying to clock me.

00:46:23.400 So, tilt your head back and look up towards the ceiling.

00:46:27.120 Ah.

00:46:28.020 Huh?

00:46:28.220 Yeah.

00:46:29.000 What?

00:46:29.440 Yeah.

00:46:30.260 There was an Adam's apple?

00:46:31.900 Yeah.

00:46:32.240 Yeah.

00:46:32.780 Yeah.

00:46:33.220 It's fake.

00:46:34.680 It's fake.

00:46:35.800 It's a fucking.

00:46:36.280 Oh, you like her.

00:46:39.320 Oh, what?

00:46:40.500 Yeah.

00:46:41.000 You don't want to, you don't want to accept that she's trans.

00:46:45.440 Why would that imply that I like her?

00:46:47.660 Bro.

00:46:48.040 Because you're saying it's fake.

00:46:50.820 So you're, what?

00:46:52.160 I don't know.

00:46:52.820 Okay.

00:46:53.120 The logic is logicking.

00:46:54.360 Um, that, how did you arrive there?

00:46:57.480 How, what's the connection?

00:47:03.740 That's for you.

00:47:04.800 I'm asking you.

00:47:05.420 Oh, for me.

00:47:05.880 Yeah.

00:47:07.480 No, I'm just saying.

00:47:08.640 You want to accept that she's trans.

00:47:11.500 I don't feel like he likes me.

00:47:12.700 She can't fake.

00:47:14.240 I mean, there are people that are passable.

00:47:15.480 That's not an implication.

00:47:17.260 So.

00:47:17.500 Right.

00:47:17.900 But that's what I'm saying.

00:47:19.960 Yeah.

00:47:20.300 Okay.

00:47:20.740 No, but I actually had a question.

00:47:22.740 I mean, some women also do, can have a little bit of a.

00:47:25.920 Not like that.

00:47:26.360 Yeah, look, you're my sister.

00:47:27.480 Oh, I'm just kidding.

00:47:29.220 No, I'm kidding.

00:47:30.140 My question was to you is, why would you wait till after the fact?

00:47:34.380 Um, honestly, I didn't see anything with him or like, I didn't see it going anywhere.

00:47:41.040 Um, it was kind of just like, it kind of just happened.

00:47:45.100 Um.

00:47:45.540 I know, but don't, don't you think that it should be more ideal for you to disclose

00:47:49.380 this information before you encounter like people when it comes to the dating world?

00:47:54.040 I guess.

00:47:54.900 But also like, if I don't have intentions with sleeping somewhere, why do I need to like

00:47:59.480 throw my information out there?

00:48:00.920 Like, because you don't know if that person might have the intentions of sleeping with

00:48:03.800 you.

00:48:04.040 Um, I guess.

00:48:06.660 Does it matter as much if she doesn't have the intention?

00:48:08.900 Yeah.

00:48:09.260 It kind of actually really does.

00:48:11.560 It really does for a lot of men, you know, when it comes down to it.

00:48:14.800 Cause how would I feel if I was dating somebody and I had no idea whether or not that that

00:48:18.580 person was.

00:48:18.780 But that's dating.

00:48:20.020 I wasn't dating him.

00:48:22.900 They went on a date.

00:48:24.240 They were on a date.

00:48:25.100 If it was my, my way around, I wouldn't care until like I was about to sleep with somebody.

00:48:29.800 Yeah.

00:48:29.900 That's just my personal preference.

00:48:31.600 But I understand, like, I obviously understand that like if I'm going to sleep with someone.

00:48:34.700 Yeah.

00:48:35.000 But see, like I wouldn't care until that, you know.

00:48:38.000 Well, of course you wouldn't.

00:48:39.480 You disclose your pansexual.

00:48:41.160 That's different.

00:48:41.960 So it's like, that's.

00:48:42.840 But just for.

00:48:44.140 Yeah.

00:48:44.640 Yeah.

00:48:45.080 And that's why it's kind of, it's, it's actually kind of very important for people who are,

00:48:50.120 you know, straight that, you know, need to know these kinds of things though.

00:48:54.240 You know, like I know it's, yes, it's their personal business, their personal life.

00:48:59.760 However, when it comes down to it, that, like I said, that's why I said, for example, for

00:49:04.120 myself, if I was, you know, I'm not in that dating market, been out of the dating games

00:49:08.840 for nine years.

00:49:10.040 But, you know, I'm saying that if I was encountering someone that I happen to be attracted to

00:49:14.480 that I would assume is obviously a man, you know, then yeah, you know, it would be important

00:49:19.340 for me to know and not find out in the bedroom.

00:49:21.520 Yeah.

00:49:21.980 You know.

00:49:22.340 So now you got to say that shit before you even meet in person, you got to disclose.

00:49:27.340 I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

00:49:29.400 If you're trans, you're trans.

00:49:30.460 That's okay.

00:49:31.500 Yeah.

00:49:32.020 Yeah.

00:49:32.200 That's fine.

00:49:32.640 But you got to disclose that shit before you go.

00:49:36.900 I think before you go on a date with the person for your own safety as a trans person,

00:49:41.640 but also in consideration for the other person too.

00:49:47.080 So a couple of questions for you though, really quick on the trans thing.

00:49:52.560 At what age did you transition?

00:49:59.560 18.

00:50:00.200 You transitioned at 18?

00:50:01.900 Yeah.

00:50:02.000 Okay.

00:50:03.240 Are you, what procedures have you had done?

00:50:05.700 Um, I haven't had any procedures.

00:50:09.860 Do you take, uh, do you take any medications or?

00:50:12.560 Yeah.

00:50:13.220 Okay.

00:50:13.520 What are the medications you take?

00:50:14.800 Um, well it's testosterone blockers or it's just hormones.

00:50:18.100 Like estrogen.

00:50:18.720 Yeah.

00:50:18.860 What's the name of the medications?

00:50:20.880 Um, estradiol.

00:50:22.460 Like, I don't know.

00:50:23.640 Estrogen.

00:50:24.200 How many different medications do you take?

00:50:26.820 Two.

00:50:28.140 Okay.

00:50:28.780 But, um.

00:50:29.160 And you've been taking them for three years?

00:50:30.420 Yeah.

00:50:30.760 But I had a hormone deficiency.

00:50:32.120 So like, I didn't really have a, like, strong male puberty.

00:50:35.900 Like, um, my testosterone was at like 90 when I got tested for, which is like really low

00:50:40.620 for an 18 year old.

00:50:42.080 Um.

00:50:42.260 Okay.

00:50:42.880 But yeah, I started hormones after that.

00:50:46.220 Um, okay.

00:50:47.340 Have you had any, you've had, sorry, surgeries or no surgeries?

00:50:50.440 Mm-mm.

00:50:51.400 Okay.

00:50:51.680 So you have a intact penis.

00:50:54.720 Yes.

00:50:55.220 But I was like, it's not like, I mean, obviously it is, but it's not like the same, like it

00:51:02.460 doesn't work type shit.

00:51:05.160 Like, like sensory, I don't know.

00:51:08.040 Yeah.

00:51:08.340 Cause of the medication or.

00:51:09.540 Yeah.

00:51:10.020 Yeah.

00:51:10.420 T blockers.

00:51:10.920 But honestly, I didn't like, I didn't have a strong male puberty like that.

00:51:16.260 Like I was never, I never like gooned type shit.

00:51:19.080 You never gooned?

00:51:20.320 Nah.

00:51:20.620 I'm like, nah.

00:51:21.960 Okay.

00:51:22.200 That's just gross.

00:51:23.220 I don't, I have dysphoria with that.

00:51:25.980 Okay.

00:51:26.660 Um, what does it say on your ID?

00:51:28.000 Does it say male or female?

00:51:28.960 Female.

00:51:29.600 Female.

00:51:30.060 Okay.

00:51:30.240 Did you have, have that changed or?

00:51:32.840 Yes.

00:51:33.580 Okay.

00:51:33.820 And you transitioned at 18?

00:51:35.480 Mm-hmm.

00:51:36.040 You didn't socially transition before?

00:51:38.020 Like you did, you know, clothes or anything before?

00:51:40.860 No, I mean, I kind of just like, like I was taking hormones, but didn't really like

00:51:45.780 force it.

00:51:46.420 Like, I just let it naturally come.

00:51:48.480 Cause I didn't, cause I don't know.

00:51:49.840 I don't want to force like pronouns down people's throats.

00:51:52.360 Like I'll let people call me what they see off the bat.

00:51:55.420 So I didn't want to like right off the bat, just like, you know, but, um, I feel like

00:52:00.580 I was at a point where I was like, all right, but it's time to force them.

00:52:05.300 W.

00:52:06.200 Cause, yo, chat, what, it, are, it, is she trans fishing?

00:52:13.040 I, I want to say, I want to call Cap.

00:52:18.080 You're just too beautiful.

00:52:19.000 I want to call Cap on this.

00:52:20.100 I, I, I mean.

00:52:23.460 I wish, I wish.

00:52:25.300 This feels like the biggest glaze ever.

00:52:27.200 How's the glaze?

00:52:28.020 Cause dude, say claiming like trans fishing, isn't that like a huge compliment?

00:52:32.860 Like, oh, you passed so well.

00:52:33.920 I don't believe you.

00:52:34.680 But there's a thing because even when on OF, like girls were actually portraying themselves

00:52:40.620 as trans just to make money.

00:52:42.720 Oh, wow.

00:52:42.980 Oh yeah.

00:52:43.380 And some of them weren't.

00:52:44.380 Yeah.

00:52:45.460 Period.

00:52:46.560 Sorry.

00:52:48.520 So you said you take two medications?

00:52:50.500 Yeah.

00:52:50.740 Oh, actually three.

00:52:51.580 I forgot.

00:52:51.860 What are the name of the medications?

00:52:54.780 Progesterone.

00:52:55.920 Um, estradiol.

00:52:58.160 Like a shot.

00:52:59.340 And then, um, spironolactin.

00:53:01.560 Spironolactin.

00:53:02.440 Yeah.

00:53:02.760 That like blocks the, even though I, I don't take it.

00:53:05.860 Cause usually people take it every day.

00:53:07.180 I do every other day.

00:53:09.020 Cause my, I don't really produce a lot of testosterone naturally.

00:53:12.600 Cause I have a deficiency.

00:53:14.180 So the doctor was literally like, yeah, you need to start testosterone or estrogen.

00:53:17.460 Cause your bones are going to be so weak.

00:53:19.180 Cause my, like my hormones were just so low naturally.

00:53:22.660 The, the thing that is, I think, at least for me is the voice.

00:53:30.200 The voice is very, uh, feminine convincing, I guess you could say.

00:53:35.440 But I can kind of hear it after she said that.

00:53:37.580 After she said what?

00:53:38.620 She was trans.

00:53:40.320 Like, do you have to modulate your voice?

00:53:42.700 No.

00:53:42.840 Are you modulating your voice?

00:53:43.700 Honestly, like.

00:53:44.100 Or this is how you just free flow naturally.

00:53:45.820 Yeah.

00:53:46.100 I didn't, my voice is always like this.

00:53:47.780 I didn't really have like a deep voice.

00:53:50.780 Were you getting gay allegations before?

00:53:53.060 What do you mean?

00:53:53.940 No.

00:53:54.240 Yeah.

00:53:54.480 I used to, people used to think I was a lesbian.

00:53:56.800 The voice is way too convinced.

00:53:58.920 I'm sorry.

00:53:59.460 That's why I'm, I'm on like, I'm doubtful because the voice is.

00:54:04.240 I don't know why you're trying to me too.

00:54:05.360 It's so annoying.

00:54:06.180 Is very feminine.

00:54:08.700 Like it's a female voice.

00:54:10.200 I don't detect any dude in the voice.

00:54:14.580 There's no, there's no penis in the voice.

00:54:17.320 You know?

00:54:17.880 That's the goal.

00:54:18.740 I think.

00:54:19.820 Thanks.

00:54:20.180 Would it be inappropriate?

00:54:21.920 Oh my God.

00:54:23.040 It would be.

00:54:23.920 It would be.

00:54:25.220 What?

00:54:26.180 I don't know.

00:54:29.480 I'm.

00:54:32.120 All right.

00:54:32.600 I guess we got to step off camera and you got to show me your dick.

00:54:34.660 No, just kidding.

00:54:35.200 Kidding.

00:54:35.500 I'm kidding.

00:54:35.860 Oh, you hashtag me that.

00:54:37.120 Hashtag me that.

00:54:37.420 Hey, burritos.

00:54:38.200 Burritos, guys.

00:54:39.640 Kidding.

00:54:40.080 You guys thought.

00:54:41.060 You guys thought.

00:54:42.040 No.

00:54:42.400 Unless, unless.

00:54:43.260 You got to show me the dick.

00:54:43.860 You got to show me the dick.

00:54:43.880 You got to show me the dick.

00:54:44.400 Got to show me the dick.

00:54:45.240 Whip it out.

00:54:45.700 No, I'm just kidding.

00:54:47.180 All right.

00:54:47.940 Fun times.

00:54:48.720 Good talk.

00:54:49.160 Um, let you, uh, we'll do the video in a sec.

00:54:53.120 Let me get the rest of the, uh, relationship stats from everybody.

00:54:56.260 Relationship status.

00:54:57.040 Um, I recently got out of a long-term relationship.

00:55:01.620 Um.

00:55:01.820 So you're single?

00:55:02.520 No, I'm dating somebody.

00:55:03.820 Oh, okay.

00:55:04.240 But, yeah.

00:55:08.280 How long?

00:55:09.780 How long what?

00:55:10.440 Have, the new person you've been with?

00:55:12.500 Oh, like a couple weeks.

00:55:14.900 Okay.

00:55:16.180 Uh, but you recently got out of, okay, so when did you get out of the long relationship,

00:55:23.020 I guess?

00:55:24.020 Um, like a month and a half ago.

00:55:28.320 Okay.

00:55:28.800 And how long are you dating that person?

00:55:30.740 Uh, almost four years.

00:55:32.520 So longest relationship, four years?

00:55:34.220 Yes.

00:55:34.880 Who broke up with who?

00:55:36.560 Um, he broke up with me.

00:55:38.560 He broke up with you?

00:55:39.420 Yeah.

00:55:39.760 Okay.

00:55:40.020 Was it on again, off again, or was there?

00:55:42.440 No, it was consistent the whole time.

00:55:43.900 Consistent.

00:55:44.240 Was there a reason why he broke up with you?

00:55:46.480 Yes.

00:55:47.040 What was the reason?

00:55:48.740 Infidelity?

00:55:49.700 No.

00:55:50.840 Um, we had a lot of issues.

00:55:53.180 Like, I had tried to break up with him before, um, and I just, like, couldn't do it.

00:55:58.960 And then, I don't know.

00:56:01.420 I think there were, like, some trust issues, and he didn't like certain things that I was

00:56:06.140 doing, um, and I felt kind of, like, trapped by him.

00:56:11.000 What were the things you were doing he didn't like?

00:56:13.220 Like, um, just going out places, like, by myself.

00:56:18.240 Bars?

00:56:19.000 No, not bars.

00:56:20.100 Like, I went to, um, I went to Six Flags one day, just by myself, and he got really

00:56:25.500 mad about that.

00:56:26.720 Um, and, yeah, I mean, I would go out different places to, like.

00:56:32.160 You went, you went alone?

00:56:33.760 Yeah.

00:56:34.100 Not, you didn't even go with, like, girlfriends just alone?

00:56:36.140 No, I just went by myself.

00:56:37.440 Okay.

00:56:37.920 That's kind of dope.

00:56:38.700 Not gonna lie.

00:56:39.560 Yeah, right?

00:56:41.000 Sometimes you gotta do shit on your own.

00:56:42.540 I know.

00:56:42.720 Like, I'm not on, I'm not.

00:56:43.760 Was he, was he kind of, like, always needing to be around you?

00:56:46.420 No.

00:56:47.180 Not at all.

00:56:47.840 Oh.

00:56:48.120 So what was it?

00:56:49.780 He just thought.

00:56:50.360 Like, he was hurt?

00:56:50.900 Like, he wanted to stand in line for his eyes?

00:56:52.380 No, I literally wanted to go.

00:56:54.260 How old was this guy?

00:56:55.020 How old was he?

00:56:56.180 He was older.

00:56:57.200 How old?

00:56:57.700 Like, in his forties.

00:56:59.300 A motherfucking fortier?

00:57:00.900 I, I would be, I, if I was dating a younger chick, and she's, like, begging me to go to all these

00:57:06.120 places with her that I don't give a shit about.

00:57:08.480 I'd be, like, was he, is he a Disney, one of these Disney adults?

00:57:11.460 No, no, no, no, no.

00:57:12.300 Then what the fuck is this guy whining about?

00:57:14.060 I would love it if my girlfriend was like, hey, Brian, I know you fucking hate amusement

00:57:19.440 parks.

00:57:20.540 I'ma just go, go, go to the amusement park.

00:57:23.300 Have fun.

00:57:23.900 Yeah.

00:57:24.640 I don't have to go with you.

00:57:25.980 Perfect.

00:57:27.240 Go by yourself.

00:57:29.820 Yeah, he didn't like that.

00:57:30.480 Wow, he fumbled.

00:57:31.800 He fumbled.

00:57:32.480 Okay, thank you.

00:57:33.300 I've been, yeah.

00:57:35.160 But, wait, question, did you, like, you tell him you were gone?

00:57:37.840 Yeah, I told him.

00:57:38.980 And then he was cool with it, but got mad after the fact?

00:57:41.920 No, he wasn't cool with it before.

00:57:44.080 Oh, okay, so you, you told him.

00:57:46.200 Yeah.

00:57:46.560 And he was upset, and you went anyway.

00:57:49.100 Yeah.

00:57:49.500 Why was, so what was the reason he gave you that, did he give you a reason?

00:57:54.040 Why he's mad?

00:57:55.240 Why he didn't want you to go alone?

00:57:57.480 Oh, yeah, it's, I mean, or to all these things I've gone to alone, it's like a safety

00:58:00.880 thing for him, he thinks I'm not safe, and he.

00:58:04.260 Legoland, where was it?

00:58:06.560 Six Flags.

00:58:07.340 Six Flags.

00:58:07.880 Not safe?

00:58:09.220 Yeah.

00:58:10.000 I feel like the amusement parks are pretty safe.

00:58:12.500 It was also, it was also like a, he had a lot of, like, trust issues, I think, because

00:58:17.180 he was very insecure, so he always thought anytime I was going somewhere, I was gonna, like,

00:58:22.260 I see.

00:58:22.680 cheat on him or something.

00:58:23.640 Okay, so, in any case, would you say the big straw that broke the camel's back was the

00:58:30.460 going to, uh, the amusement park?

00:58:33.040 No, that wasn't, that wasn't the big thing, that was just, like, one example.

00:58:36.880 Um, I had a friend at work that I would, like, hang out with.

00:58:40.540 Guy friend?

00:58:41.180 Yeah.

00:58:41.800 Okay, you done fucked up.

00:58:43.240 Yeah.

00:58:43.800 You fucked up.

00:58:44.420 Well, okay.

00:58:45.140 It was your fucking job, what was it, the, the, the job husband?

00:58:48.420 The work husband.

00:58:49.100 Work husband.

00:58:49.660 Um, so, okay.

00:58:51.520 I mean, to be fair, like, a few months before, I had kind of tried to break up with him,

00:58:56.640 and I was kind of, like, emotionally checked out since then, and I'm not making excuses,

00:59:02.180 but I will say, like, when he finally broke up with me, I was just kind of like, okay.

00:59:06.620 Like, even after four years, which sucks, but, I mean, I, the last few months, I was kind

00:59:11.840 of really not into it at all, so.

00:59:15.320 Damn.

00:59:15.860 Okay.

00:59:16.140 Okay.

00:59:16.600 Um.

00:59:19.660 Uh, okay, so, you were hanging out outside of work with your male co-worker.

00:59:29.220 Yes.

00:59:29.760 And you were in a four-year relationship with this guy.

00:59:32.040 Mm-hmm.

00:59:32.200 When you were hanging out with the male co-worker, would it be, like, okay, we're gonna grab

00:59:36.580 a bite to eat after work?

00:59:37.920 No, we were just.

00:59:38.340 Or would it be, we're not even working today, I'm gonna go kick it with fucking, whatever,

00:59:45.020 isn't it, Justin?

00:59:45.920 No.

00:59:46.240 We were literally, like, after work, we would just hang out.

00:59:49.760 But you never, on a day, I mean, that's still bad, but on a day where there wasn't work,

00:59:55.240 would you guys hang out?

00:59:56.460 Oh, no, no, no.

00:59:57.980 Okay, so, after work, y'all would go hang out.

01:00:00.720 What time would you get off work?

01:00:02.580 Uh, like, between eight and nine.

01:00:05.140 So, okay, even worse.

01:00:07.760 I could, okay, it's, we're getting off at 2 p.m., and we're grabbing a bite to eat.

01:00:11.920 It's daytime, whatever.

01:00:13.140 At night, you're kicking in with this guy, and then did you ever, would he ever come

01:00:17.600 to your place?

01:00:19.120 The, my friend?

01:00:19.980 Yeah, your friend.

01:00:20.580 No, no.

01:00:21.120 Did you go to his house?

01:00:22.020 No.

01:00:22.580 Okay.

01:00:24.020 Um, hmm.

01:00:27.860 So, your, your boyfriend, though, would he tell you he has an issue with it?

01:00:35.340 Um, yeah.

01:00:36.920 Because this seems like a pattern of behavior, correct me if I'm wrong.

01:00:41.440 What do you mean, a pattern of behavior with me?

01:00:42.860 Like, you would, it wasn't just a one-time thing, you would frequently hang out with this

01:00:46.320 guy.

01:00:46.680 Oh, yeah.

01:00:47.800 Okay.

01:00:48.520 So, he told you he didn't like it.

01:00:50.540 Yeah.

01:00:51.000 Correct?

01:00:51.620 Mm-hmm.

01:00:51.920 And then you kept doing it anyway?

01:00:53.580 Yeah.

01:00:55.080 So, I'm just curious, you've been dating a guy for four years.

01:00:58.280 How long were you at this job for?

01:01:00.860 Uh, like, since the beginning of this year, so.

01:01:03.380 Okay, so you'd already been dating the dude for three years.

01:01:05.680 You get a new job, and then you're kicking it with some random work husband, or whatever.

01:01:15.660 Are you dating him now?

01:01:17.000 The work guy?

01:01:17.700 No.

01:01:18.160 Okay.

01:01:19.900 Good question.

01:01:21.420 I guess my further question on this is, um, knowing that it made your boyfriend of three

01:01:29.120 years uncomfortable, and he expressed this to you, why did you continue doing it?

01:01:34.280 I think it was very much the way he went about it, and because he has so much, like, issues

01:01:39.600 with things I had done in the past that he just didn't like.

01:01:42.920 Well, like, for instance, going to Six Flags, or going, like, anywhere by myself, really.

01:01:46.520 Well, by yourself is different than, but.

01:01:49.020 Yeah, no, I understand, but.

01:01:50.000 How was the way he went about it?

01:01:52.060 Like, he was just very, um, disrespectful specifically to the person.

01:01:57.680 Wait, disrespectful to you, or to the guy?

01:02:00.400 To the guy.

01:02:01.560 Well, hold on.

01:02:02.040 Um, when you say he was disrespectful to the guy, he, when, you would be talking to your

01:02:08.700 boyfriend one-on-one, and would he be talking shit about the other guy, or are you saying

01:02:14.480 he met the dude?

01:02:19.160 Hello?

01:02:19.680 You can answer the question.

01:02:20.720 No, he met the dude, but, like, later, after he broke up.

01:02:23.180 So he would be disrespectful?

01:02:23.780 Are you saying he would be disrespectful to the dude, to his face?

01:02:27.220 No.

01:02:28.040 Okay, so when it's just you and him, your boyfriend of four, three years, or whatever,

01:02:32.040 at the time, four years, whatever, he would be like, hey, fuck that guy, I don't like

01:02:36.700 that guy.

01:02:38.380 Not, like, those words, but.

01:02:40.100 Okay, so, you, help me out here, I'm a little frustrated.

01:02:42.220 No, he was just like.

01:02:43.040 How was your boyfriend being disrespectful to your work husband?

01:02:47.820 He wasn't my work husband.

01:02:49.220 Whatever, whatever.

01:02:50.500 He was just very rude, I mean, like, he had.

01:02:53.140 How so, okay, how?

01:02:55.380 Like, making fun of him, like, as if he were disabled, even though he wasn't.

01:02:59.240 Okay, like, calling him a retard or something?

01:03:02.620 Yeah, kind of.

01:03:04.660 W, sounds like a W to me.

01:03:07.200 Okay, what else?

01:03:08.080 How was he disrespectful?

01:03:09.520 It was just the way that I felt like he was not trusting me and feeling like, like, he

01:03:16.620 wanted to be very controlling.

01:03:18.580 Like, he wanted to know, like, where I was all the time.

01:03:20.880 And in the last few months, he got, like, very insecure.

01:03:24.040 And, like.

01:03:24.600 Wait, wait, wait, but hold on.

01:03:26.120 So, how soon, okay, you got this job, like, a year ago.

01:03:29.400 Yeah.

01:03:29.840 How soon, and the, the co-worker, he was there, too, from the beginning, right?

01:03:34.440 No.

01:03:35.080 Okay, he got a job at what point?

01:03:39.020 Like, a few months ago, like, over the summer.

01:03:41.700 Okay, so, new guy starts working there, and then you start hanging out with, with another

01:03:46.040 man.

01:03:46.700 Mm-hmm.

01:03:47.740 Okay.

01:03:48.080 And then your boyfriend brings it up, how, like, because, because he knows, he sees you

01:03:55.780 with him, what, what?

01:03:57.020 No, because, like, I would tell him that I would, like, hang out with him, and he would.

01:04:00.680 And, okay, so the first time you told him, hey, I'm hanging out with my male co-worker

01:04:05.880 at 9 p.m. at night, what, what was his reaction?

01:04:13.540 He was just kind of like, oh, ha-ha, like, that's cool.

01:04:15.680 Like, he really didn't care at first.

01:04:17.180 At first.

01:04:17.680 Yeah.

01:04:18.240 But, okay, so you kept hanging out with him, and then he, at some point, he had an issue

01:04:22.900 with it.

01:04:23.460 Mm-hmm.

01:04:24.200 Okay.

01:04:24.960 And so, the first time he raises the issue is a couple weeks in?

01:04:30.940 Probably like a month or so.

01:04:32.620 A month or so in.

01:04:33.540 Okay.

01:04:35.720 Does he go about it politely then?

01:04:38.120 No.

01:04:38.940 Okay, so, putting aside that he doesn't like the guy, because the guy, I, I, was the guy

01:04:47.480 single, the co-worker?

01:04:48.980 Yeah.

01:04:49.600 Okay.

01:04:50.100 He doesn't like the guy.

01:04:51.320 He thinks the guy's trying to move in on his girlfriend of three, four years, whatever.

01:04:57.780 He, you say he's, he's talking disrespectfully about the other guy.

01:05:01.320 By the way, the guy who's not your boyfriend, how are, how's he being disrespectful or rude

01:05:08.820 to you?

01:05:09.340 Like, how is he approaching it that you feel was not the right way?

01:05:12.260 Because you said he didn't go about it the right way.

01:05:14.420 How so?

01:05:15.460 Like I said, he was just being rude and not trusting me.

01:05:18.260 But, but, what, when you say he wasn't rude, in and of it, because he, obviously, look,

01:05:23.740 let's just go ahead and grant he was insecure.

01:05:26.580 Okay.

01:05:26.800 He didn't, he didn't like you were hanging out with this guy.

01:05:28.400 Let's grant it.

01:05:29.600 But when you, was it just in and of itself, him being rude that he didn't want you to

01:05:34.300 hang out with the guy?

01:05:35.280 Or, like, are you, his tone wasn't good?

01:05:37.800 Yeah, his tone.

01:05:38.780 Okay.

01:05:39.040 How was his tone?

01:05:40.200 Demonstrate it.

01:05:40.600 Like, angry, like, he would yell at me, and I just.

01:05:43.920 The first time he brought it up?

01:05:45.260 No, not the first time, like, later, but I just feel like.

01:05:47.180 But, but, but the first time he was like, hey, I'm not comfortable with this.

01:05:51.020 Can you, the first time.

01:05:52.020 Oh, the first time he was, you know, uncomfortable.

01:05:53.480 Can the first time, no, no, no, the first time he, he raised the issue.

01:05:57.340 Tell me the, the dynamic there.

01:05:59.760 He was angry about it.

01:06:00.760 He was, like, yelling at me, and he was belittling me, um, and.

01:06:05.460 But so, but I guess my confusion here is, he was initially cool with it.

01:06:09.800 And then just, light switch, he, he flipped?

01:06:13.940 Or was this a thing progressively he became concerned with?

01:06:17.420 If it was a thing that progressively he became concerned with, he never brought it up to me.

01:06:21.960 So it was, like, to me, a light switch flipped.

01:06:23.680 Okay, can you, can you demonstrate his tone or voice?

01:06:27.060 You can, you can raise your voice.

01:06:29.260 That's fine.

01:06:30.280 No.

01:06:30.800 I mean, he just, like.

01:06:32.280 No, okay.

01:06:33.020 Well, I'm not going to raise my voice.

01:06:34.600 Like, I don't yell.

01:06:35.720 He was just, like, yelling at me.

01:06:36.960 I understand that's not something you would do, but to demonstrate for us so we can get

01:06:41.380 an understanding of, you know, the dynamic.

01:06:46.080 So what?

01:06:47.040 You want me to mimic him?

01:06:47.920 Okay, remember earlier in the show where I was, like, my faux faux makes shit, like,

01:06:51.160 when I was raising him?

01:06:51.840 Was it like that?

01:06:52.500 Yeah, I don't do that, no.

01:06:53.520 Was it that crazy?

01:06:55.080 I mean, kind of, yeah.

01:06:56.460 Okay.

01:06:56.760 So your boyfriend of three and a half years says you're kicking it at 9, 10, 11.

01:07:04.760 What was the latest you would typically hang out with a guy?

01:07:07.580 Because you said you got off at 8, 9 p.m.?

01:07:09.540 Yeah.

01:07:10.020 So you guys could kick it.

01:07:11.300 Were you guys living together?

01:07:13.100 Who?

01:07:13.560 Me and my boyfriend?

01:07:16.060 Well, I don't know.

01:07:16.760 You could be asking about the guy.

01:07:18.080 Who else are you living with?

01:07:19.260 Well, you could be asking about the guy.

01:07:20.600 With a coworker?

01:07:21.680 I don't know.

01:07:23.180 Were you living with your boyfriend?

01:07:24.820 No.

01:07:25.180 Okay.

01:07:26.560 So you would be kicking it with the guy until midnight?

01:07:33.000 Yeah, sometimes.

01:07:34.040 1 a.m.?

01:07:34.720 No.

01:07:35.680 Okay, around midnight.

01:07:38.200 That's fucking hours.

01:07:40.200 That's fucking hours.

01:07:42.400 That's not, we're just platonic friend hours.

01:07:46.660 That's, I'm fucking your girlfriend hours.

01:07:49.480 So anyway, but okay.

01:07:51.240 I'm confused, though.

01:07:52.460 Was the relationship up until coworker situation, otherwise, look, people have arguments and

01:07:59.800 disagreements in relationships.

01:08:01.380 There's rocky patches, whatever.

01:08:03.660 Was the relationship otherwise good up until the coworker stuff?

01:08:07.800 I wouldn't say so.

01:08:10.580 Okay, so there was other issues.

01:08:12.600 Yeah.

01:08:12.900 Was it related to jealousy on his part, or were there other issues?

01:08:18.960 Yeah, I guess, no, I wouldn't say jealousy, really.

01:08:23.860 Okay.

01:08:27.260 Was the relationship good at any point?

01:08:29.420 Oh, yeah.

01:08:30.420 Okay.

01:08:31.420 If he had asked you not to hang out with this, assuming the relationship had been as good

01:08:35.320 as it was earlier on in the relationship, and he asked you not to hang out with this coworker

01:08:40.120 guy, would you have done it?

01:08:42.840 No.

01:08:44.120 Okay, so even if you're in the most amazing relationship you've ever been in, and the

01:08:47.680 guy's perfect and amazing, and this could be the one, if he simply asks you not to hang

01:08:52.760 out with a male coworker at midnight, you would tell him no.

01:08:58.200 Is that correct?

01:08:58.460 Well, it depends on how he would say it.

01:09:00.420 Who cares?

01:09:01.020 Well, hold on.

01:09:02.240 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:09:02.600 Who cares how he says it?

01:09:03.940 Because why do I have to, like, make decisions based on what he wants?

01:09:09.000 Why would you have to make decisions?

01:09:10.920 That's how relationships work.

01:09:11.400 That's how relationships work.

01:09:12.000 Hold on.

01:09:12.020 Repeat that shit, please.

01:09:13.760 Okay.

01:09:13.980 Repeat that shit for me.

01:09:15.380 Going back, the reason...

01:09:16.440 No, no, no, wait, wait.

01:09:17.200 Before you go back, just repeat.

01:09:18.940 Why would I have to make decisions based on...

01:09:22.200 The person who you love.

01:09:23.980 Okay.

01:09:24.340 Right.

01:09:24.860 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:09:25.280 Why would you have to ever, you know, compromise in a relationship?

01:09:30.300 No, no, no.

01:09:30.860 That's what I'm saying.

01:09:31.760 That's what I'm saying.

01:09:32.320 You know, try to satisfy or please your partners.

01:09:34.520 Because that was the big issue for me in our relationship was that he wasn't, like, compromising

01:09:39.000 for...

01:09:40.360 Compromising to allow you...

01:09:42.360 No, not for that.

01:09:42.900 Compromising to let you continue hanging out with your male coworker at midnight.

01:09:47.180 No, not that.

01:09:48.220 There are other issues.

01:09:49.520 Okay, so it was a tip for tat then.

01:09:51.500 If you won't do this for me, I won't do this for you.

01:09:55.280 No.

01:09:56.220 Okay, so I'm...

01:09:59.320 Okay.

01:10:00.000 I think this is the problem that we're seeing in a lot of relationships nowadays is that

01:10:04.140 people are not establishing conversations to letting each other know what exactly they

01:10:08.260 want.

01:10:09.240 No, I think I was really clear with him several times what I wanted.

01:10:12.340 I kept giving him chances and that was my mistake.

01:10:15.560 Can I ask you something?

01:10:17.180 Yeah.

01:10:17.340 Will it be...

01:10:18.340 I mean, I guess if you were still in the relationship, will it be okay with you if

01:10:22.960 he hangs out with a female coworker until midnight?

01:10:26.420 Yeah, I don't care.

01:10:27.880 And I told him that.

01:10:31.700 Yeah, I'm not so sure about that.

01:10:33.300 People are sneaky.

01:10:35.540 Yep.

01:10:36.280 Girl, TV, you were dead wrong for that.

01:10:37.940 I'm sorry.

01:10:38.300 Different boundaries, you know, in relationships.

01:10:40.360 But so in a...

01:10:42.480 If you were seeing a guy, are you saying that if he politely, you know, he was like, hey,

01:10:49.400 look, I'm not comfortable with you hanging out with your coworker, would you stop seeing

01:10:56.440 the coworker then?

01:10:57.600 Assuming he went about it, he asked you politely?

01:11:00.360 Honestly, yeah.

01:11:01.040 Yeah, like probably.

01:11:03.260 Okay, so I think there's two issues here.

01:11:07.020 I think with your boyfriend or girlfriend, this applies to both men or women, you should

01:11:12.300 attempt to resolve things in a measured, you know, you should try to avoid, you know, screaming

01:11:19.020 matches and yelling.

01:11:20.020 That's bad.

01:11:21.220 You...

01:11:21.700 And look, I understand also though, sometimes, hey, something, sometimes things can be really

01:11:25.800 upsetting and sometimes you're emotional and sometimes you might raise your voice a bit.

01:11:29.980 I understand that too.

01:11:31.240 But I generally think, yes, it is best to try to, you know, communicate in a calm, measured

01:11:37.680 way without, you know, name calling or yelling or, you know, insults or anything like that.

01:11:45.120 But with the caveat that sometimes people, we got to give people grace.

01:11:48.960 People aren't perfect.

01:11:49.820 Sometimes people can be upset by things and they can, you know, say things or raise their

01:11:54.120 voice when, you know, maybe in retrospect, they wish they didn't.

01:11:59.360 There's two issues here though.

01:12:01.040 I don't think you get to do this thing where, like, if, if you cheat on your partner and

01:12:12.260 they yell at you, that doesn't then give you some perfect get out of jail free justification.

01:12:18.540 Well, you raised your voice at me and you yelled at me.

01:12:22.440 So I'm going to continue the behavior that you dislike.

01:12:24.500 In this case, I think we can acknowledge two wrongs.

01:12:28.680 He shouldn't have raised his voice at you.

01:12:30.760 However, he was correct on this particular issue.

01:12:33.600 I think he has perfect justification for his three and a half year girlfriend to not be

01:12:37.880 hanging out with her male coworker at midnight.

01:12:40.040 And if, even though he didn't go about it the right way, you then snipered in, narrowed in

01:12:47.560 on, oh, well, now that your tone was inappropriate, I'm going to use that as permanent justification

01:12:54.300 to continue doing this behavior that you dislike.

01:12:57.620 Two things can be wrong at the same time.

01:13:00.060 In this case, you should have had a separate conversation with him.

01:13:03.540 Hey, I don't like how you're talking to me, but also I understand that this is upsetting

01:13:09.900 to you.

01:13:10.280 I care about you.

01:13:11.240 We've been dating for three and a half years.

01:13:14.000 If this really bothers you, I won't hang out with him.

01:13:19.340 But do you think it's inappropriate for somebody in a relationship to not want their significant

01:13:24.620 other hanging out with somebody of the opposite sex late at night?

01:13:30.160 I mean, no, like, I feel like that's not unreasonable, but like, I don't know.

01:13:36.540 Like I said, like, if he had a female coworker, like that he was hanging out with, like, I

01:13:41.840 wouldn't have a problem with it.

01:13:43.360 Well, I understand that you wouldn't have an issue with it, but there's not perfect symmetry

01:13:48.660 all the time in respective boundaries in a relationship.

01:13:53.800 What might be okay for one person might not be okay for the other.

01:13:56.760 Um, it's like a, it's like an unspoken rule when it comes down to relationships.

01:14:03.760 I mean, maybe we can ask the panelists here, uh, and look, some people are more okay with

01:14:08.960 certain things in their relationship, friends with the opposite sex, that sort of stuff.

01:14:12.880 Those of you who've been listening to what she's describing here, would you be okay with

01:14:16.620 your boyfriend of three and a half years going to hang out with a female coworker at midnight

01:14:22.140 regularly after the shift?

01:14:24.840 No.

01:14:25.340 No.

01:14:26.180 I'd feel a little weird about it.

01:14:27.400 I'd want to have tabs.

01:14:28.640 Yeah.

01:14:29.380 No?

01:14:30.180 Absolutely not.

01:14:31.060 Wouldn't it be cool with it?

01:14:31.900 This would be a talk.

01:14:32.720 Like, I wouldn't just let it slide.

01:14:33.700 That would be a whole conversation.

01:14:35.940 Okay.

01:14:36.520 Yeah.

01:14:36.700 And I have to say, like, I was in a similar situation where, like, I was in your shoes

01:14:39.640 and guess what I did?

01:14:40.860 I set boundaries and I stopped talking to the guy.

01:14:42.780 Wait, sorry.

01:14:48.180 Hold on.

01:14:49.200 Um, Nick, did we do the, I just want, we got it.

01:14:52.800 We can't have a flash, Nick.

01:14:54.160 I got it.

01:14:54.600 Oh, man.

01:14:55.840 No, I didn't do a painting check.

01:14:58.760 Are you wearing, you are wearing, um, underwear?

01:15:02.340 Yeah, I have boy shorts on it.

01:15:03.620 Okay, good, good, good, good, good, good.

01:15:04.840 Sorry.

01:15:05.440 We were about to get a, either, either a pussy slip or a dick slip.

01:15:09.180 I don't even know.

01:15:09.820 I don't even know what could have, what could have happened.

01:15:11.780 Okay, so, um, okay, so in a future relationship, just curious, though, if you were dating this

01:15:18.960 guy and he said, hey, I'm not comfortable with this, would, what, what would happen?

01:15:25.840 In a future.

01:15:26.200 Obviously not talk to him.

01:15:27.680 No, I'm talking to him.

01:15:29.520 In a future relationship?

01:15:31.520 I mean, if there weren't, like, the pre-existing issues that we had, then I would probably be

01:15:36.940 more okay with it.

01:15:37.800 I mean, y'all should have probably broken up at three years, two years.

01:15:40.560 No, I'm, I'm saying, and that's what I said, I've tried to break up with him in the past

01:15:43.960 and, like, I just couldn't do it, but.

01:15:46.100 When you say you couldn't do it, like, because I've had this experience with women and maybe

01:15:54.200 y'all have had, like, and it's kind of scary, not gonna lie, maybe it's probably scary for

01:15:57.640 women a little bit, I think, where, like, you try to end things with somebody and they

01:16:04.900 don't really take, like, they're a little, the, the, they, they don't take no for an answer.

01:16:09.800 Yeah.

01:16:10.040 Like, I've done, try to break up with chicks and it's like stalker situation, like, you

01:16:19.820 know, and, or, or, you know, they're, they're, they're persistent.

01:16:23.960 I've also had the, not, like, scary stalker, but, like, they're, they don't, no, they,

01:16:30.040 they keep, no, can we get back together, can we get back, you know?

01:16:33.160 So when you say you try to break up with him, like, you, like, you, you said, hey, I'm sorry,

01:16:40.600 Bill, I can't, it's over.

01:16:43.620 Or you, you wanted to break up, but you didn't have the courage.

01:16:47.140 Oh, no, there are a couple times when I said, like, we need to break up and, like.

01:16:50.540 And then what happened?

01:16:51.560 And then I just, like, kept going back to him because, I don't know, a part of me was,

01:16:56.660 like, the, I guess, safety and comfort of being in a relationship for so long.

01:17:00.160 Wait, so you would, you guys would do the, the sort of a breakup?

01:17:03.180 Mm-hmm.

01:17:03.820 And when you say you would go back to him, like, how many times did the breakup things happen?

01:17:08.580 Oh, like, two or three times.

01:17:10.740 Two or three times.

01:17:11.380 And you, you would go back to him?

01:17:14.020 Yeah.

01:17:14.500 Like, you would.

01:17:14.860 I mean, he would reach out to me.

01:17:16.220 He would.

01:17:16.720 He'd be, like, sending me, like, long text messages being, like, oh, like, come on,

01:17:19.940 we can work this out or whatever.

01:17:21.280 And, like, I would, like, give in and go back to him.

01:17:24.240 I see.

01:17:24.260 Okay.

01:17:24.740 All right.

01:17:25.240 All right.

01:17:26.440 And I'd like to also say I'm not justifying, like, I'm not trying to say, like, I'm right

01:17:31.320 or whatever.

01:17:31.900 I'm just, like, a very independent, like, kind of, like, headstrong person.

01:17:36.340 And, like, I'm going to hang out with who I want to hang out with.

01:17:39.440 And if I'm in a relationship, yes, I can, like, respect what, like, my partner wants for me

01:17:44.300 and make compromises and stuff.

01:17:46.000 But, like, there's a, I don't know.

01:17:50.320 I just feel like as many things as I kind of, like, not gave up for him, but just, like,

01:17:56.100 had to compromise my time and what things I wanted to do for him.

01:17:59.240 Like, and it wasn't in his case even for, like, a person.

01:18:04.060 Like, I just feel like he could have been a little bit more, like, respectful and, yeah.

01:18:10.920 So I'm not saying that I'm right.

01:18:12.460 But, like I said, the last few months, like, I had been checked out kind of.

01:18:15.880 So when he did break up with me, I was just kind of like, okay.

01:18:17.900 But him getting mad, maybe this is going to come across the wrong way.

01:18:24.300 But he was invested in the relationship.

01:18:26.560 No, he wasn't.

01:18:28.520 Okay, well, look, I don't know all the details.

01:18:30.500 I could be wrong.

01:18:31.140 But he was, my impression would be he's fighting for the relationship.

01:18:37.940 He's like, yo, this is a problem.

01:18:40.460 This is a problem.

01:18:41.620 The whole hanging out with a coworker guy.

01:18:43.680 And, like, I mean, if it was me, like, if I was dating a girl and I was like, hey, listen,

01:18:49.920 I'm not comfortable with you hanging out with this coworker guy at, you know, well, at any time.

01:18:55.460 But at midnight, I'm not comfortable with you hanging out with a coworker.

01:18:59.220 And she gave me any attitude about that.

01:19:02.040 It's over.

01:19:03.480 I'm not going to.

01:19:05.060 I don't do friction in relationships.

01:19:08.200 I'm not going to do that.

01:19:09.560 Like, it's over.

01:19:11.160 You have any pushback against me on that.

01:19:14.880 You want to do that?

01:19:16.200 That's cool.

01:19:16.840 Be single.

01:19:18.000 That's fine.

01:19:18.820 I'm not going to, I'm not going to, you know, negotiate with you.

01:19:22.920 So, but he was, he was, from my perspective, again, I don't know all the details.

01:19:29.560 He was fighting for the relationship.

01:19:31.780 Okay.

01:19:32.280 I mean, but that was also one of my problems is that I felt like he only fought for the

01:19:36.740 relationship, like, when I was literally having, like, threatened to break up with him,

01:19:40.840 basically.

01:19:42.840 I don't know.

01:19:43.500 I don't know how you get around the whole hanging out with a coworker thing at midnight.

01:19:46.720 I'm not trying to get around it.

01:19:47.680 Like I said, it's over.

01:19:48.600 It's over.

01:19:48.860 You said you're, like, headstrong.

01:19:50.980 You're independent.

01:19:51.900 Yeah.

01:19:52.920 Maybe you should just become a nun.

01:19:55.240 Whoa.

01:19:55.700 I don't know if you have the chops for either you got to date, like, a guy.

01:20:00.280 Independent and headstrong women can still be in, like, relationships.

01:20:03.820 I mean.

01:20:04.420 You just got to be on the same page with the other person.

01:20:06.860 I mean, I'm not getting into the whole backstory of me and this guy because, like, there was

01:20:11.700 much more to the relationship.

01:20:13.340 I'm sure there's a lot.

01:20:13.420 I'm sure there's a lot.

01:20:14.280 But I don't know.

01:20:16.060 I think that, look, if you're, sure, headstrong, independent women, independent and being in

01:20:27.060 a relationship, depending on what you mean by independent is sort of contradictory to

01:20:33.260 a degree.

01:20:34.380 I guess depends a bit on what you mean by independent.

01:20:37.580 I just mean, like, I don't, I'm not, like, a codependent or I'm not, like, relying on a man

01:20:42.220 or, like, if he can't do something with me, like, if he can't hang out with me, then,

01:20:46.100 yeah, I'm going to go, like, Six Flags by myself or do something like that and I don't

01:20:49.060 mind.

01:20:49.500 Like, I'm not going to throw a fit about that.

01:20:51.260 I think it's okay to do things alone.

01:20:52.900 I think it's okay to want, you know, your own.

01:20:55.180 I'm in that same way.

01:20:56.560 I enjoy my time alone.

01:20:58.060 I don't, I can't be, uh, hanging out with somebody 24, like, I need my own time.

01:21:04.440 I need to decompress.

01:21:05.920 Uh, so I guess I understand that, but I, I think that it's not, uh, I don't think it's

01:21:12.940 a crazy ask in a relationship to be like, Hey, I don't think it would be an infringement

01:21:20.380 on your independence or your, you being headstrong to acknowledge, like, I don't know, how far

01:21:26.280 do you take it?

01:21:26.880 Like, would it be an infringement of your independence if a boyfriend was like, Hey, I don't want you

01:21:33.720 to fuck that guy.

01:21:36.340 Well, that's different to me.

01:21:38.660 That's different.

01:21:39.680 And there might be some men and women out there that you can date that, um, will be okay.

01:21:45.440 Oh, you want to just hang out with a person, the opposite sex, whatever.

01:21:48.500 Don't care.

01:21:49.180 You should date.

01:21:50.040 I think you'll, but I think honestly, you ask most people, I think most people will have

01:21:55.540 an issue with the situation as described.

01:21:58.340 So people, when they're in relationships, they can't hang out with people of the opposite

01:22:02.840 sex.

01:22:03.580 I mean, I think there is a degree of impropriety, generally speaking.

01:22:07.400 Yeah.

01:22:07.820 Cause when it, when it does come down to that, you have to take consideration of what may

01:22:13.040 happen if you make that decision.

01:22:16.360 You know what I mean?

01:22:17.500 Like when you're involved in a relationship, you have to think to yourself, this person may

01:22:22.280 not like what I'm doing here.

01:22:25.020 I need to talk to that person first, not just make that decision right off the bat.

01:22:30.340 Okay.

01:22:31.700 I'll move it on though.

01:22:32.720 Just, I don't want to beat a dead horse.

01:22:34.820 My, you broke up with him, the four-year relationship guy, how long ago?

01:22:41.920 Well, like a month and a half ago.

01:22:43.420 And you've been dating this new guy for three weeks.

01:22:48.180 Like two, two or three weeks.

01:22:49.760 You said a few weeks.

01:22:52.580 Did you know that, how did you meet this person?

01:22:55.600 On a dating app.

01:22:57.480 Okay.

01:22:57.740 So this is fresh.

01:22:58.580 Like you, you did not know this person.

01:23:00.780 No, no.

01:23:01.400 While you were dating your ex.

01:23:03.240 No.

01:23:03.820 Okay.

01:23:05.120 It's a pretty quick rebound.

01:23:07.040 Like I said, I was checked out for the last few months.

01:23:09.400 That's fine.

01:23:09.700 I was ready to move on.

01:23:11.240 My philosophy is, um, wait, he broke up with you or you broke up with him?

01:23:15.120 He broke up with me.

01:23:16.100 Okay.

01:23:16.500 My philosophy is, uh, typically it can sometimes be a bad look if like you're in a relationship

01:23:23.560 and then you're with somebody new, like super quick.

01:23:27.360 The person being broken up with, they can do whatever they want.

01:23:31.480 That, I think that's like, uh, in terms of the bad look, like if you break up with somebody

01:23:37.020 and you're with somebody the next day or the next week, that can be hurtful to the other

01:23:41.600 person.

01:23:43.040 But if you're doing the breaking up and you got somebody a week later, if you got dumped,

01:23:51.780 the other person can't complain.

01:23:53.300 I think that's my perspective.

01:23:55.480 That's fair.

01:23:55.900 Oh, so pretty quick, pretty quick, but Hey, you got broken up with.

01:24:02.500 So I think it's fair game.

01:24:03.420 What about you?

01:24:04.200 Relationship status?

01:24:05.280 Uh, married and I've been with my husband for nine years.

01:24:09.220 Kids.

01:24:10.140 Kids.

01:24:10.480 I have two.

01:24:11.360 One, seven, one, 17.

01:24:13.480 One, seven, one, seven.

01:24:15.320 How long have you been?

01:24:16.120 Um, how long were you with your, uh, husband before you were married?

01:24:22.060 Wait, cause you were married.

01:24:23.360 Sorry.

01:24:23.560 You're married for nine years or together for nine years.

01:24:26.020 We've been together for nine years.

01:24:26.860 I'm sorry.

01:24:27.200 Married for seven.

01:24:28.400 Okay.

01:24:28.680 So you have one kid from your husband.

01:24:30.600 Yes.

01:24:31.100 And then a kid from a previous relationship.

01:24:33.420 Yes.

01:24:35.180 You're a kid, right?

01:24:36.020 Not like a step kid.

01:24:37.780 My, my bio kid.

01:24:39.800 You're a bio kid.

01:24:41.020 Yes.

01:24:41.540 Okay.

01:24:42.380 Um, so two kids.

01:24:44.060 Okay.

01:24:44.540 Two different fathers.

01:24:45.580 Correct.

01:24:45.940 Okay.

01:24:47.000 Uh, the nine year relationship, is that your longest relationship?

01:24:50.420 No.

01:24:51.320 Which one?

01:24:51.780 How long was your longest relationship?

01:24:53.480 Uh, my previous marriage was 10 years.

01:24:56.040 You've been married twice.

01:24:57.140 Yes.

01:24:57.640 Okay.

01:24:58.660 Uh, I was married, uh, my previous.

01:24:59.620 And that was your other kid, correct?

01:25:01.340 Yeah.

01:25:01.560 My oldest.

01:25:02.260 I see.

01:25:02.740 Okay.

01:25:02.920 Yeah.

01:25:03.780 Uh, your oldest kid is 17.

01:25:06.160 Yes.

01:25:06.600 Okay.

01:25:06.840 So you, uh, teenage pregnancy or just the cutoff?

01:25:11.220 Well, you're 37, right?

01:25:12.820 So I was 20 when I had her.

01:25:13.840 She's going to be 17.

01:25:15.760 But, hold on.

01:25:18.800 I was 19.

01:25:19.700 When you got pregnant at 19.

01:25:21.220 Teenage pregnancy.

01:25:22.800 Teenage pregnancy.

01:25:23.820 Sure, right.

01:25:24.240 But you gave birth.

01:25:25.540 You gave birth, uh, at 20.

01:25:27.520 At 20.

01:25:27.920 Okay.

01:25:28.620 Um, gotcha.

01:25:30.340 So, um, uh, okay.

01:25:34.460 Who initiated the divorce for the first marriage?

01:25:36.920 Um, unfortunately I initiated the divorce.

01:25:40.200 Okay.

01:25:40.760 Um, does he pay you child support?

01:25:42.480 No.

01:25:42.820 Has he ever paid you child support?

01:25:44.180 No.

01:25:44.480 I did not ask for it.

01:25:45.900 Do you have split custody?

01:25:48.540 I.

01:25:49.200 Or full custody of your first child?

01:25:51.060 It's full on both ends.

01:25:52.900 We, we never initiated that in the courts.

01:25:56.460 So does he visit or?

01:25:58.140 Yeah.

01:25:59.460 Okay.

01:25:59.980 Is it, wait, sorry.

01:26:00.700 So shared custody or?

01:26:02.220 Yes.

01:26:02.760 I guess you could say that.

01:26:03.420 Oh, okay.

01:26:03.620 Okay.

01:26:03.820 I thought you said full custody.

01:26:04.980 Yeah.

01:26:05.980 Well, is it shared custody or full custody?

01:26:08.100 I, I mean, wherever she wants to go, she makes that decision.

01:26:12.840 They don't have a court order.

01:26:14.520 There's no court involvement.

01:26:15.780 Okay.

01:26:16.280 All right.

01:26:16.600 You guys figured it out without the involvement of the legal system.

01:26:20.500 That's good.

01:26:21.040 Yeah.

01:26:21.400 Um.

01:26:21.900 Hate it.

01:26:22.660 But you, you did dissolve the mayor, uh, the marriage, right?

01:26:26.300 You got a divorce.

01:26:27.160 Yes.

01:26:27.880 Uh, does he pay, did he pay you alimony?

01:26:29.900 No.

01:26:30.460 I didn't ask for that either.

01:26:32.060 All right.

01:26:32.400 Pretty reasonable.

01:26:33.560 Um, okay.

01:26:35.100 And, uh, what about you?

01:26:37.420 Uh, well, I don't know.

01:26:39.880 As far as I know.

01:26:41.300 Relationship status?

01:26:42.120 Well, as far as I know, I'm still married despite leaving him for over 13 years now.

01:26:48.040 When's the last time you saw him?

01:26:48.840 Uh, well, back in 2013 when I left Saudi Arabia.

01:26:53.180 Okay.

01:26:53.700 He is married and he has a child.

01:26:54.820 Well, you're, you're separated.

01:26:56.100 Fair to say?

01:26:56.920 Yes.

01:26:57.380 Okay.

01:26:57.940 Um, so you're still legally married though?

01:27:01.620 As far as I know.

01:27:03.060 Okay.

01:27:03.360 Um, and then you're still legally married.

01:27:05.080 And you were married in Saudi Arabia.

01:27:07.320 Is that correct?

01:27:08.060 Yeah.

01:27:08.400 Did you, where did you live in Saudi Arabia?

01:27:11.040 Was that, what's the name of the big city?

01:27:13.360 Riyadh?

01:27:13.780 No.

01:27:14.460 Is Riyadh the...

01:27:15.260 It is, yeah.

01:27:16.060 That's the capital, but I wasn't there.

01:27:18.200 I wasn't the Eastern province.

01:27:20.180 What's the name of the city?

01:27:22.060 Uh, Hufuf.

01:27:23.620 Oh yeah, that's a nice, I haven't...

01:27:25.240 That's a nice name.

01:27:26.560 I like it.

01:27:27.800 Um, so, okay.

01:27:30.460 But you're separated.

01:27:32.140 I understand, I understand the legal technicality there, but are you dating anybody?

01:27:36.580 Uh, no.

01:27:37.440 Not really.

01:27:37.740 Okay, so you're single.

01:27:38.920 Uh, how long have you been single?

01:27:41.340 For like a decade.

01:27:43.120 10 years?

01:27:44.120 Yeah.

01:27:44.320 Have you been celibate for?

01:27:46.000 Uh, for the most part, yeah.

01:27:47.880 You've been celibate for 10 years?

01:27:52.080 Like, was Obama still president the last time you had sex?

01:27:56.120 Really, Brian?

01:27:57.500 All right.

01:27:57.900 Hey, you know, shit.

01:27:59.720 So there are questions, I prefer to keep them, you know.

01:28:03.520 Sure, that's okay.

01:28:04.400 All right, we get the idea, we get the idea.

01:28:06.440 Yeah, I'm single and...

01:28:07.160 You have a kid, correct?

01:28:08.500 Correct, yeah.

01:28:09.240 One kid?

01:28:09.880 Yes.

01:28:10.400 Okay, from your marriage?

01:28:11.920 Correct.

01:28:12.920 Okay.

01:28:13.580 Have you done any dating in America?

01:28:15.860 Yes.

01:28:16.700 Okay.

01:28:17.020 Have you ever pulled a rabbit out of your pussy?

01:28:21.760 Okay, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

01:28:22.640 Oh my God.

01:28:22.980 I'm sorry, that was so vulgar.

01:28:24.260 Are you a magician?

01:28:25.480 I haven't.

01:28:25.760 That is so bad.

01:28:26.900 You don't have to answer that.

01:28:28.180 I don't know.

01:28:29.000 Sexy magician, you know?

01:28:30.960 No.

01:28:31.800 Sorry, that was...

01:28:32.380 I didn't answer that.

01:28:33.320 My autism...

01:28:34.760 It is.

01:28:35.840 The autism fucking got me.

01:28:38.600 Okay, so...

01:28:40.740 That would be kind of hot, though, if you're like...

01:28:42.740 There is actually a magician who did that.

01:28:44.520 Who does sexual magic.

01:28:46.520 He gets a lady, supposedly, from the audience.

01:28:50.240 He lays her down, and then he pulls up a rabbit from between her legs.

01:28:54.600 Whoa.

01:28:55.600 Nice.

01:28:57.360 That's cool.

01:28:57.880 It's not nice, but...

01:28:58.760 That...

01:28:59.280 Or maybe not.

01:29:00.300 Maybe that's inappropriate.

01:29:01.780 But, yeah.

01:29:04.840 That would be kind of hot, though.

01:29:05.960 Like, if you're having sex with a girl, and then she just starts doing magic tricks.

01:29:10.740 Like, that'd be...

01:29:11.560 Oh, I thought you would say it.

01:29:12.820 She pulls up a rabbit.

01:29:14.200 I was like, what kind of trick?

01:29:15.420 No, that would be alarming.

01:29:16.980 That would be really alarming.

01:29:18.500 I'd freak out.

01:29:19.320 No.

01:29:21.860 There's like a fireball or something, and...

01:29:23.860 Yeah.

01:29:24.340 Again, freaking out.

01:29:25.380 Yeah, I mean...

01:29:26.020 I would freak the hell out.

01:29:28.280 She's doing, like, sleight of hand and shit.

01:29:30.600 Well, I...

01:29:30.620 Well, usually I get asked...

01:29:31.300 I can make your dick disappear.

01:29:33.740 Well, have you guys tried the O method?

01:29:35.860 Magic on a first date, so...

01:29:37.740 What was that?

01:29:38.160 The O method.

01:29:39.520 Where you manifest while you...

01:29:40.700 Yeah.

01:29:41.480 Yeah.

01:29:41.760 I've heard of it.

01:29:42.860 What is it?

01:29:43.620 Where you manifest while...

01:29:46.180 It's the idea that when you orgasm, it's like...

01:29:48.940 Yeah.

01:29:49.060 That's your, like, highest vibrational intensity in the universe.

01:29:51.860 Yeah.

01:29:51.940 So it, like, attracts...

01:29:53.300 It's like the power of attraction.

01:29:54.880 Yeah, yeah.

01:29:55.500 Not to say that I necessarily believe in it, but that's what it is.

01:29:58.320 I feel like it works.

01:29:59.340 Claim donated $200.

01:30:02.120 Hey, Brian.

01:30:03.140 I upset Claim.

01:30:03.840 Back in the States, emo bangs most of us are high-earning good men who enjoy a laugh.

01:30:09.460 Purple shirt.

01:30:10.500 If someone is emotionally invested, you have to respect their wishes.

01:30:15.300 Reciprocate.

01:30:16.380 Do you want to respond to that?

01:30:17.480 I mean, I was also emotionally invested for so long, and I feel like he didn't reciprocate.

01:30:26.040 So...

01:30:28.060 Okay.

01:30:28.680 Well, you know, you know how it is.

01:30:31.240 Sometimes things happen.

01:30:32.840 But, you know what?

01:30:34.060 To be fair, like, metalheads, they're pretty chill.

01:30:38.760 Those guys are pretty chill.

01:30:40.460 Depends.

01:30:41.380 They're pretty good.

01:30:42.300 They're good people.

01:30:42.960 They're good people.

01:30:43.880 Yo, Tricia, thank you for the merch purchase.

01:30:47.340 I'm going to have Isabella, you get to read.

01:30:51.440 For the panel, how should a man correct a woman he's with if he asks nicely and she still doesn't change?

01:30:56.960 Yelling at her is verbal abuse.

01:30:58.660 Putting hands on her is physical abuse.

01:31:00.820 Ignoring her is emotional abuse.

01:31:02.520 Not paying for a shit is financial abuse.

01:31:05.040 Thank you, Northumberland, mister.

01:31:07.540 We're going to answer that.

01:31:08.380 Tricia, thank you for the...

01:31:09.340 It looks like you bought a hoodie on the merch store.

01:31:11.100 Thank you, Tricia.

01:31:11.560 Tricia, so ladies, for the panel, how should a man correct the woman he's with?

01:31:18.020 Well, he shouldn't be saying correct.

01:31:20.500 Like, what correct a woman?

01:31:21.480 I think it's related to her situation where it's like, you know...

01:31:25.800 No, but that's where he got it wrong because he automatically went to, I need to correct her.

01:31:30.260 And it's like...

01:31:30.800 I think that's okay.

01:31:31.760 I'm fine with correct.

01:31:33.000 Well, I'm not.

01:31:33.740 I mean, to be fair, don't we correct our men when they're having poor behaviors?

01:31:38.500 Yes.

01:31:39.140 I would...

01:31:39.680 No.

01:31:40.200 I would say have a discussion, but not correct.

01:31:42.020 Oh, we do, in fact, do it sometimes.

01:31:44.500 I mean, I'm guilty of that myself sometimes.

01:31:47.720 You know, but that's something that...

01:31:49.780 I just feel like that's controlling language.

01:31:52.040 We shouldn't be correcting our partners, guys.

01:31:53.180 We could correct ourselves and our behaviors.

01:31:56.960 We should be addressing our partners, not correcting them, I think.

01:31:59.860 Yeah, like, I think it's okay to set boundaries and, like, have that discussion, but, like,

01:32:03.840 correct, I think, is where it automatically went to, like...

01:32:07.920 Because he's talking about, well, if I do all these other things, it's abusive, but it's

01:32:11.040 like, well, yeah, because you started off with correct.

01:32:13.300 Like, we're starting off with control.

01:32:15.400 It's have a conversation.

01:32:17.300 Yes.

01:32:17.860 Set boundaries, and everyone has different boundaries.

01:32:20.000 Like, some people care about social media and likes, and some people don't.

01:32:24.180 And that's where it leads to the...

01:32:26.600 But that would naturally follow...

01:32:28.960 This is a very nothing argument.

01:32:30.000 ...to us correcting our own behaviors when we are being talked to about certain things

01:32:34.520 that we disagree with.

01:32:36.420 Mr. Northumberland, thank you for the soup chat.

01:32:39.260 I do appreciate it.

01:32:40.240 Thank you.

01:32:40.540 Thank you.

01:32:41.360 Okay.

01:32:42.700 That's everybody's relationship status.

01:32:45.240 I have...

01:32:45.960 We have some really interesting things to get into.

01:32:49.300 Oh, we need to do her trans thing, her...

01:32:51.900 Her video.

01:32:54.240 The fuck does that mean?

01:32:55.600 Her trans thing.

01:32:56.460 We need to, not just quite yet, I did want to quickly ask, so you're from Saudi Arabia.

01:33:05.380 Is anybody here, anybody else here, like, born in a different country, or have citizenship

01:33:11.060 from a different country?

01:33:12.740 Or, like, maybe you're a second-generation immigrant?

01:33:15.120 Like, your parents came from, like, you know, Mexico or wherever, somewhere.

01:33:19.760 My mother came from Mexico.

01:33:21.240 My mom came from Mexico.

01:33:22.500 Mexico?

01:33:22.760 I'm first-generation, yeah.

01:33:23.800 What, what's your background?

01:33:25.520 Philippines.

01:33:26.500 Both, both your parents, Philippines?

01:33:27.680 Okay.

01:33:28.440 Anybody else?

01:33:31.640 Lauren?

01:33:32.220 No?

01:33:32.520 No.

01:33:32.840 Italian?

01:33:33.460 What are you?

01:33:34.000 My last name's Italian, but it's from my stepdad.

01:33:36.280 I'm, I'm Spanish, and I'm also, I'm Native American.

01:33:40.220 Native American.

01:33:40.960 Okay, gotcha.

01:33:41.600 So, your parents, Mexico, your mom, Mexico, the Philippines, Mexico, and then Saudi Arabia.

01:33:52.300 I'm so worried about my eye, because you keep doing, sorry.

01:33:54.760 Sorry, I have good control.

01:33:56.060 Your practice.

01:33:56.380 Control, yes.

01:33:59.060 Are you on the pathway to citizenship?

01:34:00.900 Um, well, kind of.

01:34:03.720 So, when you, uh, when you grant the asylum, uh, basically, you're just allowed to stay

01:34:08.720 here, um, until you become eligible to apply for a green card.

01:34:14.000 Only if you apply for a green card is when you, you know, on the path of citizenship.

01:34:18.380 I see.

01:34:18.620 You don't have to go that route, but you can.

01:34:20.320 Sure.

01:34:20.740 Uh, okay.

01:34:22.260 Question for you, you, I guess you, and you.

01:34:26.660 In a morally neutral, blame-free, hypothetical conflict between the United States and your

01:34:36.380 birth country, or the originating country of your guys' parents, where neither side

01:34:44.320 is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance?

01:34:49.260 Uh, with, uh, America.

01:34:51.340 Um.

01:34:52.520 So, if America went to war with the Philippines, would you have allegiance to the United States?

01:34:56.660 To the United States or to the Philippines?

01:34:58.640 Um, I'd have to say, like, I'd have to, like, listen to what my family would want.

01:35:03.260 Not that, like, I would just, like, automatically, like, go wherever they go, but, like, that

01:35:06.560 would, it depends on what they would want to do.

01:35:09.740 Just as, like, a cultural thing.

01:35:11.140 Like, you listen to your family.

01:35:12.560 What, what do you think your parents would do?

01:35:15.500 I have no idea.

01:35:16.380 Are your parents, are they first-generation immigrants?

01:35:19.260 Yeah, like, they came here themselves.

01:35:20.460 From the Philippines?

01:35:21.240 Yes.

01:35:21.620 Okay.

01:35:22.340 And have they, though, become citizens of the United States?

01:35:25.000 Yes.

01:35:25.460 Okay.

01:35:25.720 They've naturalized.

01:35:27.220 Yes.

01:35:27.700 Okay, they have naturalized citizenship.

01:35:29.300 As far as I know.

01:35:29.760 Do you have any inclination?

01:35:31.940 Uh, I know it's a bit of an interesting hypothetical, but, you know, if, if you were to ask them

01:35:37.100 this question, hey, mom, hey, dad, if the United States went to war with the Philippines,

01:35:41.840 would you be, would your allegiance be to the United States or to the Philippines?

01:35:46.480 I really have no idea what they would say, because they don't really talk about that kind of stuff,

01:35:50.360 so I don't really know.

01:35:51.240 Okay.

01:35:52.560 But, like, are you asking me, like, me personally, how I feel?

01:35:54.900 Well, yeah, because, well, you deferred, you said, uh, I would defer to my, what my parents

01:36:00.260 wanted.

01:36:00.900 Yeah.

01:36:01.120 Let's say your parents were not in the picture as it relates to this decision, though.

01:36:05.440 Um, would you be more, would you have allegiance to the United States or to the Philippines?

01:36:12.140 I'd say United States, just because, like, I've never been to the Philippines, really,

01:36:15.480 so I wouldn't even, like, what am I doing there, you know?

01:36:17.820 Now, what if your parents, um, because you were, you were saying, well, I'd have to see

01:36:23.000 what my parents think.

01:36:23.980 What if your parents were like, shit, we're going back, well, if your parents went back

01:36:30.540 to the Philippines, like, if there was a war with the Philippines and they're like, we're

01:36:33.160 going back, um, would you go back with them or would you stay here?

01:36:36.340 I'd say so.

01:36:37.380 I'd be like, there's like, there's very few things I would, like, convince me to leave my parents.

01:36:42.120 Okay.

01:36:42.720 Huh.

01:36:43.240 Okay.

01:36:44.320 How about your parents, they stay in the United States, but they say our allegiance is to

01:36:52.200 the Philippines.

01:36:53.020 I would understand.

01:36:53.800 I would probably agree with them, I think.

01:36:55.200 But would your allegiance be to the Philippines?

01:36:58.520 Me personally?

01:36:59.740 I should have you call them.

01:37:02.380 Boy, my dad doesn't even know I'm here.

01:37:04.160 Can you text them, like, text them, be like, hey, if the United States went to war in a morally

01:37:09.400 neutral, blame-free, hypothetical conflict between the United States and the Philippines,

01:37:13.200 uh, to which country is your allegiance?

01:37:15.820 I'd actually, wait.

01:37:16.380 Do you dead eyes want me?

01:37:17.260 Dude.

01:37:17.520 Yeah, yeah.

01:37:17.920 Slide me a 20.

01:37:18.560 Slide me a 20.

01:37:19.160 What?

01:37:19.460 Why the fuck would I have to pay you for that?

01:37:21.000 I'm joking.

01:37:21.960 Um, yeah.

01:37:22.780 Just text them.

01:37:24.140 Text them.

01:37:25.100 Here, to your Instagram, I'll, I'll send you, I'll actually send you the question to text

01:37:30.080 them.

01:37:30.520 Just copy and paste.

01:37:31.940 Yeah, I'll send you.

01:37:32.120 Do I want to call her or text her?

01:37:34.060 No, not call, just text.

01:37:35.640 Just text.

01:37:36.440 Um, I'm going to send that to you.

01:37:38.260 Um, it's the, it says sissy up.

01:37:40.120 It's like on a sticker.

01:37:40.820 For you, for if, I don't know, the United States went to war with Mexico, where would

01:37:44.280 your allegiance be?

01:37:45.160 America.

01:37:45.980 Okay.

01:37:46.300 There's like a Hello Kitty sticker on it.

01:37:47.700 And then, uh, for you, if the United States went to war with Saudi Arabia, to which country

01:37:54.960 would your allegiance be?

01:37:56.380 First of all, they both are like good allies.

01:37:59.700 So, um, but, um, well, I, I currently only have one citizenship, which is to Saudi Arabia.

01:38:07.980 However, um, and both countries, I cannot like, uh, issue a passport from either countries.

01:38:14.620 Um, so I still like, I sent you, I sent you the Instagram message.

01:38:22.300 If you want to copy and paste that, go ahead.

01:38:24.220 Um, so, uh, yeah, as I was saying, either countries would, uh, you know, allow me to

01:38:28.620 issue a passport, uh, at this point.

01:38:30.700 Um, however, uh, this country provided me a safe home and my freedom, uh, for me and

01:38:37.940 my child.

01:38:38.860 Um, it would suck for my family back home, but are you on the pathway to citizenship?

01:38:45.220 Uh, well, I, I have not applied for the green card yet.

01:38:47.920 I just got approved for that.

01:38:49.460 But is your son?

01:38:51.500 Daughter.

01:38:52.320 Oh, sorry.

01:38:52.700 Daughter.

01:38:53.240 Was he born?

01:38:54.220 I'm sorry.

01:38:54.520 She, was she born here?

01:38:55.640 No, she was born in Saudi Arabia.

01:38:56.640 Okay.

01:38:57.320 Has she become a citizen of the United States?

01:38:59.620 Okay.

01:39:00.880 Her, her case is linked to mine.

01:39:03.060 I see.

01:39:03.580 Okay.

01:39:03.840 Um, I mean, do you have plans to go back to Saudi Arabia?

01:39:07.940 No.

01:39:08.360 So you're going to stay here?

01:39:09.660 Yeah.

01:39:10.260 You're going to live here?

01:39:11.180 Yeah.

01:39:11.880 You're going to work here?

01:39:13.240 Yeah.

01:39:13.540 You're going to pay taxes here?

01:39:15.700 Yeah.

01:39:16.120 Well, I'm paying taxes here.

01:39:17.520 I'm working here.

01:39:18.120 I'm living here.

01:39:18.700 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:39:19.240 Yeah.

01:39:19.620 Um, so you're, I think you're about to get to the answer though.

01:39:22.360 So to which country is your allegiance?

01:39:24.200 I did get to the answer though.

01:39:26.300 I said, I, I, well, this country provided me a safe home and my daughter, a safe home and

01:39:32.400 a freedom.

01:39:32.740 Um, uh, I would side with America.

01:39:36.860 Okay.

01:39:37.400 All right.

01:39:37.940 Let me know when you get an answer.

01:39:39.780 Okay.

01:39:40.280 She said America.

01:39:41.660 Your mom said America.

01:39:42.780 She said, yo, W, W, W, I think, I think it has to do with the fact that yes, my parents

01:39:49.140 did come here like from the Philippines, but they came here very young.

01:39:52.640 My dad came here when he was two.

01:39:53.960 My mom was 16.

01:39:55.100 Okay.

01:39:55.380 So that has to do with it.

01:39:56.600 Like definitely we're still like connected to our culture.

01:39:59.220 It's more a matter of like work here.

01:40:01.380 Yeah.

01:40:01.680 Yeah.

01:40:01.940 So the question isn't like, I think you can have allegiance to the United States and that's

01:40:07.380 not a rejection of your culture of origin.

01:40:10.160 It's not a rejection of familial.

01:40:12.080 You know, if you have family that still lives there, it's not like you have to break your

01:40:15.700 bonds with them, but it's simply just like a pull your political allegiance in wartime.

01:40:21.580 Um, so, you know, it's interesting.

01:40:23.520 I think there's actually something about, uh, first generation immigrants, like who come

01:40:29.440 here.

01:40:29.620 So they basically, they were born in a, you know, different, different country.

01:40:32.900 They come here.

01:40:33.740 They're first generation immigrants.

01:40:35.500 Second gen would be like the children of those people.

01:40:38.360 Uh, they tend to have more patriotism to the United States than their children.

01:40:45.400 Just something interesting.

01:40:46.520 I don't know.

01:40:46.780 I thought it was interesting.

01:40:47.920 Um, question.

01:40:49.140 Are you Muslim?

01:40:50.460 Uh, well, I'm not religious.

01:40:53.080 It's not religious, but did you have to wear a, uh, hijab?

01:40:56.960 I did, yeah.

01:40:57.420 Well, not just the hijab.

01:40:59.260 Like, um...

01:40:59.600 What do they wear in Saudi Arabia?

01:41:00.440 Is it the, the niqab?

01:41:02.960 Correct.

01:41:03.440 Burqa?

01:41:03.900 But where, where I grew up, um, when I was a child, even the niqab would be like too much,

01:41:09.460 too revealing.

01:41:10.680 Niqab?

01:41:11.120 Niqab is the one where the eyes...

01:41:13.140 So there's the burqa?

01:41:13.800 Only the eyes are showing.

01:41:14.800 There's the burqa, the niqab.

01:41:16.080 The burqa is different then.

01:41:17.580 Uh, the burqa is, um, is something that traditionally, um, like wearing in, uh, like Emirates and stuff

01:41:24.280 like that.

01:41:24.640 Just, it's like a small mask thingy on the face that doesn't even cover the face.

01:41:29.040 Sure.

01:41:29.240 The niqab covers the entire face with the exception of the eyes.

01:41:32.520 Um, that was, uh, being considered too revealing when I grew up.

01:41:36.740 Uh, so, uh, we were forced to even cover the eyes.

01:41:41.080 Damn.

01:41:41.680 How do you see?

01:41:42.940 Is it like a mesh neck?

01:41:43.520 That's a good question.

01:41:44.980 Uh, you don't have to see.

01:41:46.640 Oh.

01:41:47.240 Is that actually?

01:41:48.080 W Saudi Arabia.

01:41:49.260 No, no.

01:41:49.780 Well, actually, when the fabric is close to your face.

01:41:52.620 Oh, see through a little.

01:41:53.460 It's kind of see through, but like still like at night and when it's dark, like it would

01:41:57.360 be tripping and falling and everything.

01:41:59.140 So, but they don't care.

01:42:01.560 Uh, let's see.

01:42:02.540 What do we have to get?

01:42:03.400 We're going to do, normally we do this a little later on in the show, but we're going to

01:42:06.720 actually do it right now.

01:42:08.180 Um, oh, really?

01:42:09.540 Okay.

01:42:10.100 We'll do the rating.

01:42:11.200 Then we'll do, but first we have to do her videos.

01:42:14.520 Uh, Nick, let's go ahead and do those guys.

01:42:17.340 If you're enjoying the stream, like the video, a hundred dollar read, $200 TTS in the U S or

01:42:22.220 Israel.

01:42:23.240 Go ahead.

01:42:23.800 Play.

01:42:34.000 That's fucking disgusting.

01:42:36.720 Oh, I want to go home.

01:42:38.500 Damn, you're using the tongue and shit.

01:42:40.160 Fuck.

01:42:40.880 I'm broke.

01:42:41.380 I'm broke.

01:42:42.520 Excuse me?

01:42:43.320 No, but then I gotta tell you something.

01:42:45.780 What?

01:42:48.380 I'm sorry.

01:42:49.900 Hi, Ki.

01:42:51.680 I'm trans.

01:42:52.960 I'm trans.

01:42:56.620 Aw.

01:42:57.860 You're lying.

01:43:00.100 I'm lying.

01:43:00.600 What do you mean by that?

01:43:11.060 Imagine, though, if it was his first kiss and he's like so excited to kiss a girl and then

01:43:14.980 he's like, what, is she not a girl?

01:43:17.800 Huh?

01:43:17.920 Does that guy wear a color contact?

01:43:20.620 Is that a color contact or does he actually?

01:43:22.100 It's not a contact.

01:43:23.080 So he actually has heterochromia?

01:43:25.440 I think so.

01:43:26.860 That's where people, two different eye colors.

01:43:28.780 Yeah.

01:43:28.960 So that went kind of viral.

01:43:36.480 Did he end up smashing or?

01:43:39.020 No.

01:43:39.760 But we're still, like, talking.

01:43:43.180 Did he care, really?

01:43:47.200 I mean, obviously it was kind of shocking, but.

01:43:49.740 I feel like you were on a boat.

01:43:51.720 Was that a boat?

01:43:52.640 Yeah.

01:43:52.960 It was like in a lot of those ones.

01:43:55.360 Listen.

01:43:57.720 You can't.

01:43:59.540 You can't do that shit on a boat.

01:44:02.000 He's trapped.

01:44:03.480 He's trapped.

01:44:04.520 No.

01:44:04.660 Or she's trapped.

01:44:05.780 Yeah, I was about to say.

01:44:07.480 It's not even just that.

01:44:08.180 Because of the implication.

01:44:14.100 What implication?

01:44:15.200 Well, you know, if you bring a woman on a boat because of the implication.

01:44:19.540 It was honestly, like, it just happened so fast.

01:44:22.720 What I'm referencing?

01:44:23.460 Okay, sorry.

01:44:23.940 Go ahead.

01:44:25.100 I don't know.

01:44:26.020 Everything happens so fast.

01:44:26.740 Always honey and fill it.

01:44:27.980 Oh, I get you.

01:44:29.400 It's because of the implication.

01:44:31.960 Nobody.

01:44:32.480 Okay.

01:44:32.680 They don't watch TV, I guess.

01:44:34.160 Sorry.

01:44:35.240 So what happened so fast?

01:44:37.440 Just, like, everything.

01:44:38.620 I obviously didn't anticipate, like, oh, my God, I'm a tricking.

01:44:42.200 Wait.

01:44:42.500 Can you hold?

01:44:43.360 Can you?

01:44:44.220 I have small hands.

01:44:45.780 My hand size.

01:44:47.540 Okay.

01:44:48.080 Wow.

01:44:49.220 They're big.

01:44:49.980 You do have large hands.

01:44:52.580 Yeah.

01:44:52.900 I mean, I...

01:44:55.940 To be fair, I have very dainty man hands.

01:44:58.540 My friend...

01:44:59.240 I don't have, you know...

01:45:01.000 I have friends that are, like, same size hands as me.

01:45:04.480 Like, I feel like not every feature is going to be perfect.

01:45:08.040 And that's okay.

01:45:08.660 You do.

01:45:09.920 I feel like nails make your hands look bigger, too.

01:45:11.900 You can become a magician.

01:45:11.920 True.

01:45:12.760 Mine's not so tiny for a magician.

01:45:14.300 Do you have a nose job?

01:45:15.200 Like, you're not even...

01:45:15.840 Do you have a nose job?

01:45:17.120 Hmm?

01:45:17.480 You have a nose job?

01:45:18.120 Yeah.

01:45:18.960 You said you had no surgery done.

01:45:20.560 I thought you meant, like...

01:45:21.520 That's not gender surgery.

01:45:23.120 That's cosmetic surgery.

01:45:24.020 Yeah, I meant, like, any procedures.

01:45:26.080 Oh.

01:45:26.520 I thought you meant, like, that.

01:45:27.360 But that's the only thing.

01:45:28.980 Like, but you have boobs, lip filler?

01:45:30.540 No.

01:45:30.980 Okay.

01:45:31.540 Was the nose job, like, gender for me?

01:45:33.220 No, it was, like...

01:45:34.340 You just...

01:45:34.720 I just wanted it, period.

01:45:36.160 Yeah.

01:45:36.700 Her lips look natural.

01:45:38.560 You thought I had lip filler?

01:45:39.600 Period.

01:45:40.580 Help her.

01:45:41.500 It's just, like, lip liner.

01:45:44.680 So...

01:45:45.880 I mean, come on, Brian.

01:45:53.740 They make these lip glosses now where they actually...

01:45:55.740 What's he a streamer?

01:45:56.480 Yeah.

01:45:57.020 Yeah, they found the whole...

01:45:57.940 W. Asher, did he ask her in the chat?

01:45:59.760 So, you're...

01:46:00.500 Wait, question.

01:46:01.140 You said your stuff doesn't work.

01:46:03.400 Your equipment doesn't work?

01:46:05.400 Yes, it does not.

01:46:08.200 It doesn't...

01:46:09.600 I have no testosterone.

01:46:11.400 She explained this earlier.

01:46:12.620 Like, I have no testosterone in my body, so...

01:46:14.940 Wait, I'm gonna get break to some?

01:46:16.100 Like, it's not going to work.

01:46:17.600 I thought they could still get...

01:46:19.600 I don't...

01:46:20.700 I don't know.

01:46:21.360 I mean...

01:46:21.660 They, like...

01:46:23.060 Some will take pills.

01:46:25.200 What are your pronouns, by the way?

01:46:26.600 Right.

01:46:27.060 Are you...

01:46:27.500 She, her, they, them?

01:46:29.560 It...

01:46:29.960 Come on.

01:46:31.280 You're fucking with...

01:46:32.140 No, I'm playing...

01:46:33.040 These are...

01:46:33.760 I mean, obviously, she, but I don't, like, force it.

01:46:36.100 Like, I don't want to be, like...

01:46:38.000 My pronouns, like...

01:46:39.140 You know, I don't want to force it, and everyone calls me she.

01:46:41.200 It is ma'am.

01:46:42.400 It is ma'am.

01:46:42.820 Yeah, like, I don't...

01:46:44.000 I'm not gonna...

01:46:44.620 It's always the number.

01:46:45.460 I'm not gonna force it.

01:46:48.060 Mess...

01:46:48.340 Okay.

01:46:48.880 Uh, and then, do we have video number...

01:46:51.260 Oh, wait.

01:46:52.560 Check my...

01:46:53.040 There's more videos.

01:46:53.680 Messages.

01:46:55.520 Oh, no.

01:46:56.540 Oh, hell no.

01:46:57.020 Your ass got clipped.

01:46:57.860 I feel like you did not answer his question, though.

01:47:00.040 Like, when you go on a boat with someone, like, they invite you on a boat, the implications

01:47:04.700 of you are saying.

01:47:05.320 I'm so confused.

01:47:06.020 You know what I mean?

01:47:06.480 Like, genuinely, what's the implication?

01:47:07.940 I don't think I get it.

01:47:08.580 It's terrifying.

01:47:09.380 What if this guy would have done some...

01:47:10.940 Push me off?

01:47:11.560 Yeah.

01:47:12.340 Is this, like, the Echo Park, like, swan boats?

01:47:14.480 Yeah.

01:47:15.080 Oh.

01:47:15.620 Bruh, what's the implication?

01:47:17.720 She could have gotten her in the middle.

01:47:19.240 Yeah, I was like, she could have encountered someone that definitely would have been violent.

01:47:24.100 Could have been.

01:47:24.720 Fucking detective back there.

01:47:26.140 I guess.

01:47:26.640 He was streaming, though, so I don't think he'd want to ruin his streaming reputation in

01:47:30.000 China.

01:47:30.200 Yeah.

01:47:30.780 Oh, he was streaming.

01:47:31.920 In public, too.

01:47:32.620 Have you done any OnlyFans stuff?

01:47:34.920 No.

01:47:35.220 I never will.

01:47:36.480 Never?

01:47:36.940 I don't need to.

01:47:37.940 W.

01:47:38.160 Good point, yeah.

01:47:39.380 I don't know.

01:47:39.960 I'm not convinced yet.

01:47:42.140 I don't know.

01:47:42.920 Oh.

01:47:43.600 Is that why you're asking?

01:47:44.640 He doesn't have to do it.

01:47:44.920 But, yeah, I feel like a lot of people, like, look for signs or, like, or, like, when I

01:47:49.300 tell them, they'll be like, let me look for what can give it away.

01:47:52.540 But I feel like all women, like, not, nobody has, like, 100% feminine features.

01:47:59.620 Like, some women, you know what I mean?

01:48:02.260 There's really tall women.

01:48:03.580 There's women, like, so, I don't know.

01:48:06.860 Yeah.

01:48:07.040 I don't, I don't hate my masculine features.

01:48:09.760 Femininity.

01:48:10.020 I like my height.

01:48:10.860 I like everything about me.

01:48:11.980 Masculinity is not, it's not exclusive to either gender.

01:48:17.860 Both can have that.

01:48:20.300 Uh-uh.

01:48:21.380 Is it, like, spy or something?

01:48:25.340 Can you lift your neck?

01:48:26.780 Oh, my God.

01:48:27.480 No, stop trying to call me.

01:48:29.820 Stop trying to call me.

01:48:30.760 Brian, I confirmed this to you earlier.

01:48:32.780 I'm not getting called no more.

01:48:34.840 I'm not doing this, you know.

01:48:37.520 He wants to tag.

01:48:39.400 Okay.

01:48:40.220 All right.

01:48:40.840 I don't know.

01:48:41.640 I don't know.

01:48:43.000 I guess that's got to be a compliment, though, to a trans person if you're questioning if

01:48:47.540 they're actually a chick.

01:48:48.620 Yeah, that's what I was saying earlier.

01:48:49.960 Like, this is the biggest glaze of it.

01:48:51.220 I know.

01:48:51.500 I'm like.

01:48:51.820 It's not a glaze.

01:48:52.960 No, you're like, I do not believe this.

01:48:54.720 Not for two seconds.

01:48:55.480 Let me see it.

01:48:56.240 Drop it.

01:48:56.540 Because there is a phenomenon online, especially with, like, certain content creators called

01:49:02.300 trans phishing, like, especially with OF girls.

01:49:05.400 I know you don't do OF, allegedly.

01:49:09.420 I believe you.

01:49:10.180 I believe you on the OF stuff, where they, like, pretend to be trans, and it's, like,

01:49:15.620 a thing.

01:49:16.020 Is trans even, like, beneficial in OF?

01:49:18.780 People fetishize it.

01:49:19.860 I feel like it would be more, I don't know.

01:49:24.480 Like, I wouldn't up our lives.

01:49:26.200 Do you pee standing up or sitting?

01:49:27.640 Sitting down.

01:49:30.240 My whole life, I always sat down.

01:49:31.620 My dad used to beat me, bro.

01:49:32.960 Oh.

01:49:33.500 Because I was in a lot.

01:49:34.980 Like, he wanted me to stand up, but.

01:49:36.540 Hold on.

01:49:37.160 Your dad beat you.

01:49:39.040 Yeah.

01:49:39.560 Because you would sit down to pee.

01:49:42.260 How would he see you?

01:49:43.820 Well, he would just spank me.

01:49:44.820 That's kind of a problem.

01:49:45.340 I'm just kidding.

01:49:46.080 I'm kidding.

01:49:46.240 No, when I was little.

01:49:47.520 You know what I mean?

01:49:47.860 Like potty training?

01:49:48.380 Just kidding.

01:49:49.040 Yeah.

01:49:49.240 Or, no, not potty training, but just, like, I don't know.

01:49:52.320 That's weird.

01:49:53.080 Like, when you needed help going to the bathroom and he'd be in there with you, he'd be like.

01:49:56.260 No, but, like.

01:49:56.900 Sorry, that's intrusive.

01:49:57.740 I'm sorry.

01:49:57.980 No, it's definitely, like, early age, like, when I was little.

01:50:00.660 Was this in Hawaii?

01:50:01.480 He would be, like, yeah.

01:50:02.940 So, he would, like.

01:50:04.240 He'd be, like, boy, stand up, boy, stand up.

01:50:05.800 I'm, like, I don't want to sit.

01:50:08.980 Oh, I see how it is.

01:50:10.120 So, like.

01:50:10.400 I always sit down.

01:50:11.900 Damn.

01:50:12.340 Okay.

01:50:12.980 Like, well, I'm going to stand up.

01:50:13.840 There's, like, there's other cultures where they actually encourage men to sit while they.

01:50:18.080 Yeah, I'm not.

01:50:19.120 Yeah.

01:50:20.060 I've heard that story.

01:50:20.940 Next video.

01:50:21.720 Next video.

01:50:22.360 We'll do this next video.

01:50:22.500 There's more videos, bro.

01:50:23.480 There's two videos we're going to watch.

01:50:25.000 Yo.

01:50:25.600 Is this, this is the next one?

01:50:27.120 The same person.

01:50:27.780 I play.

01:50:28.200 Yeah.

01:50:28.400 Same guy.

01:50:28.660 W. Asder.

01:50:29.500 Quiet, everyone.

01:50:32.480 Oh, this little.

01:50:33.260 Oh, you're crying.

01:50:34.420 I'm so sorry.

01:50:36.240 Next up.

01:50:36.800 You're really a, you're really, you're really a nigga?

01:50:39.560 Not anymore.

01:50:41.260 What do you mean, not anymore?

01:50:43.320 Like, I did the work, and I'm doing the work.

01:50:46.560 Huh?

01:50:46.740 Wait, that's a fake contact.

01:50:51.500 Come on.

01:50:52.600 That's fake.

01:50:53.000 That's not.

01:50:53.980 No, I'm sorry.

01:50:54.920 You made me want to cry, too.

01:50:56.000 Like, I really didn't mean to do that, too.

01:50:58.000 So I kissed a nigga.

01:51:02.260 Sorry.

01:51:02.880 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:51:04.700 I'm sorry.

01:51:05.280 Oh, a whole tear.

01:51:08.020 Wait, is he actually crying?

01:51:09.700 Yeah, was he playing with you, or was this real?

01:51:11.520 Bro, this is rage bait.

01:51:12.780 I fucking, this is fucking.

01:51:14.480 This is like acting.

01:51:16.040 This is rage bait.

01:51:18.940 So you think it's all fake?

01:51:20.940 I, I don't look.

01:51:22.920 I don't believe.

01:51:23.940 I don't know.

01:51:25.400 Maybe you, maybe you do have a penis.

01:51:27.520 But I think that shit, that, you know, people, people like stage shit for content, whatever.

01:51:33.800 There's one more clip, though.

01:51:34.700 We got one more clip.

01:51:35.520 We got one more clip.

01:51:37.220 I think I know which one.

01:51:38.460 Oh, wait.

01:51:39.360 Yeah, play it.

01:51:42.600 So you're taking a lie detector.

01:51:44.460 Oh, lie detector.

01:51:45.080 I've never seen this clip.

01:51:47.380 You were in it.

01:51:48.380 I know, but I've never seen it.

01:51:49.300 You actually have a penis.

01:51:50.960 Yes.

01:51:57.040 No way.

01:51:58.400 You actually have a penis.

01:52:00.020 You heard the guy fuck.

01:52:03.580 Oh, yeah, I'm cooked.

01:52:04.540 Next question.

01:52:07.540 Oh, my God, I'm cooked.

01:52:08.460 Next question.

01:52:08.900 He's looking at me like.

01:52:17.980 So I kissed you and you have a penis.

01:52:24.180 Okay.

01:52:26.040 Aren't these lie detector tests like unreliable?

01:52:28.680 Supposedly.

01:52:29.100 They are not, yeah.

01:52:30.560 Yeah, and apparently there's some that I think some people say that guys kind of can sometimes

01:52:36.160 be in on it.

01:52:36.860 I don't know.

01:52:37.480 I don't know.

01:52:38.900 I will say from my experience, like.

01:52:42.220 Hey, Nick, do you feel comfortable?

01:52:45.180 No.

01:52:51.900 No.

01:52:56.020 Comfortable with what?

01:52:57.040 Oh, my God.

01:52:57.660 Wait, what are we asking?

01:52:59.140 Maybe not finishing sentences.

01:53:01.620 Bro, you're the hose.

01:53:02.420 You're supposed to be talking.

01:53:03.180 Yeah, I was wondering if you were going to finish it, if you're just going to sit there,

01:53:06.480 you know.

01:53:07.080 Synthetism.

01:53:07.440 Um, anyways, wow.

01:53:10.380 You want him to take me to the bathroom and confirm?

01:53:13.340 Had us all in suspense.

01:53:14.900 I mean, I didn't say that.

01:53:16.600 Bro.

01:53:17.120 That's an offer.

01:53:18.060 But anyways, I will say, I will say that, like, that guy, um, never, like, he wasn't in

01:53:28.960 on anything.

01:53:29.560 He literally just, like, I don't know.

01:53:31.780 And he, like, showed his computer.

01:53:33.100 It would show the heart rate.

01:53:34.680 I guess it's just off heart rate, but there is a way to, like, finesse it.

01:53:38.220 Like, I was looking into it after.

01:53:39.700 Bro, it's, it's the voice.

01:53:41.880 It's, it's, like, you talk like a girl.

01:53:47.640 Like, there's a certain.

01:53:48.300 That's who she is.

01:53:48.800 She's a girl.

01:53:49.400 But there's a certain, but there's a certain way women, like, talk, and either you've

01:53:53.360 got that shit fucking wired.

01:53:55.720 I don't, I'm just myself, but I did grow up, like, all sisters, and, like, I never really

01:54:00.800 had trans friends.

01:54:01.620 I was always surrounded by, like, women, like, biological women, and.

01:54:05.200 Wait, you didn't transition until you were 18.

01:54:07.220 Yeah, so, like.

01:54:07.880 So you went through puberty.

01:54:09.380 Yeah, but my testosterone was so low that, like, it was, like, it was 90 when I got it.

01:54:15.280 Are you intersex at all?

01:54:16.220 Do you know what twinks are?

01:54:17.020 Uh, I don't know.

01:54:18.060 Yeah, her testosterone, like, your testosterone was, like, the whole thing.

01:54:22.100 Like, that's going to be what makes your voice deep.

01:54:24.460 Yeah, because I didn't have testosterone for boo.

01:54:28.540 Uh, all right, well, um.

01:54:32.980 If some, I would never ask this because I'm a professional, but if someone were to ask

01:54:38.300 you, like, hey, just to verify, can I see your penis, like, would you do it, or?

01:54:44.240 No.

01:54:45.120 Because I would never ask that because I'm a professional.

01:54:47.180 Okay, okay.

01:54:47.960 I'm just asking if somebody, if somebody, not me, not my producer, if somebody were to

01:54:53.000 ask that, would you actually do it, like, as a verification process to see the penis?

01:54:58.300 Um, like, who's, Brian, it's giving, asking for a friend.

01:55:02.360 Who's there, who am I verifying to?

01:55:02.840 Do you get to pick?

01:55:03.480 You want to pick, like, I mean, Nick, Nick's a better looking guy than me.

01:55:07.380 I'll do one of, just kidding.

01:55:09.000 No, I'm playing.

01:55:10.480 Nick, would you be comfortable with that?

01:55:12.140 Bro, I'm not showing nobody my shit.

01:55:13.900 Yeah, she don't got to do that.

01:55:14.840 I'm not showing nobody my shit.

01:55:16.080 No, we're just fucking around.

01:55:19.760 We're messing around, guys.

01:55:20.720 We're messing around.

01:55:21.480 So, anyways.

01:55:22.560 I wasn't.

01:55:23.200 Anyways, we got some more videos, though.

01:55:25.960 We got some more videos we got to get to with Lauren.

01:55:30.520 I guess, Nick, let's do that first video from my homegirl, Lauren, here.

01:55:35.580 First video.

01:55:37.640 Yeah.

01:55:38.040 If you're enjoying the stream, like the video, read 100, TTS 200, streamlives.com, slash, whatever.

01:55:47.340 W's in the chat.

01:55:49.360 Yes.

01:55:49.560 Oh, no.

01:55:51.300 You might have to lower the audio.

01:55:52.640 This is a long video.

01:55:53.680 You're going to play the whole thing?

01:55:54.660 We'll play, like, a minute.

01:55:55.900 Oh, no.

01:55:56.860 Wait, Nick, is there...

01:55:57.840 If you guys...

01:55:58.700 The three dots at the top?

01:56:02.540 Yeah.

01:56:04.060 Click it.

01:56:04.620 Put the speed...

01:56:07.720 Speed?

01:56:09.520 Click?

01:56:10.980 1.25.

01:56:13.140 Whatever.

01:56:13.760 It probably didn't...

01:56:14.580 Me having...

01:56:15.280 Like a four-minute video.

01:56:16.700 Okay, ready?

01:56:17.360 Yeah.

01:56:18.580 Ever...

01:56:19.140 Okay, if you guys...

01:56:20.060 If you guys ever have a date...

01:56:21.380 Or a date with a single mom, don't cancel the day of.

01:56:24.980 Okay.

01:56:25.440 And I knew it, though.

01:56:26.140 I knew it, though.

01:56:26.780 I mentally prepared myself.

01:56:27.800 I guess not enough.

01:56:28.800 But I knew he was going to cancel because normally, I always check in the day of or the day before

01:56:33.240 and he didn't.

01:56:33.880 And so I was already mentally preparing myself and I gave him until a time frame.

01:56:37.440 I'm like, maybe he's just not...

01:56:39.660 You know, he's older.

01:56:40.380 Like, maybe...

01:56:40.720 I don't know.

01:56:41.240 They tend to not communicate as much over time.

01:56:43.160 And he started calling me twice and I just happened to miss it.

01:56:45.060 So he actually did call me.

01:56:47.780 Okay?

01:56:49.380 Right before that deadline that I made in my head.

01:56:51.400 Because I'm like...

01:56:52.080 I would...

01:56:52.420 Because it's not just my night.

01:56:53.800 Okay?

01:56:54.140 That I planned for.

01:56:55.740 I was like, here's the thing.

01:56:56.720 Here's my everything that single mom has to go through.

01:56:58.380 What snacks are amazing going to have?

01:57:00.220 Right?

01:57:00.520 What snacks?

01:57:01.980 Are they soft enough snacks so he doesn't choke when he's...

01:57:03.860 Do I have the choking machine set out for the sitter?

01:57:07.620 Then I also bought him toys yesterday to play with the sitter.

01:57:10.200 So they have, like, play-doh and, like, fun activities to play together.

01:57:12.340 Because I'm also worried about the sitter.

01:57:13.740 Is the sitter gonna, like, not, you know...

01:57:18.040 I have a good time.

01:57:19.400 Like, I want to make sure she has a good time with my son.

01:57:21.700 Because if they don't have anything to do, they just put them in front of the iPad.

01:57:24.460 And if I'm paying for you...

01:57:25.400 Well, the guy, since the guy's paying for you, you better be playing with my son.

01:57:28.040 And so I buy activities for them to play.

01:57:30.240 Anyway, long story short.

01:57:31.300 About the activities.

01:57:32.460 You know, got a pedicure.

01:57:33.620 Okay, because I didn't want Krusty B.

01:57:35.120 And then today, I went to go look at dresses.

01:57:37.160 Because I just didn't like the dress that I had.

01:57:39.040 I realized I don't have a fucking purse.

01:57:41.140 And so I'm, like, walking around and I'm thinking.

01:57:43.100 I'm like, but if he cancels...

01:57:44.260 You know, I can't get this anyway.

01:57:46.620 And honestly, I couldn't even get it.

01:57:48.140 Honestly, I didn't even get myself any, like, any dresses or anything.

01:57:50.280 So it was just, like, I don't know, you know.

01:57:53.400 And he calls to cancel.

01:57:55.000 And you know what he did?

01:57:55.980 At first, I thought it was, like, really nice.

01:57:59.240 But then I ended up sending it back.

01:58:00.360 And I know you guys are going to think I'm crazy.

01:58:01.940 But he gave me $400 because he canceled.

01:58:06.960 And at first, I was like, well, I was, like, I was wanting to see you.

01:58:11.720 And then I was, like, because I was sad.

01:58:13.720 I cried yesterday because I knew he was going to cancel.

01:58:16.140 So I was sad.

01:58:17.280 And I was, like, well, at least I didn't get nothing out of this, you know.

01:58:19.720 And then I was, like, well, that's so sweet.

01:58:21.960 Go ahead and pause it.

01:58:24.680 So we kind of get the idea a little bit there.

01:58:27.620 One thing really quick before we dive into the reaction to that video.

01:58:30.660 There's a couple branched conversation from there.

01:58:34.640 Nix, it's 7.05 p.m.

01:58:37.100 Do you want to take your birth control?

01:58:38.960 I would love to.

01:58:40.020 There it is, everyone.

01:58:41.020 There it is.

01:58:41.560 There it is.

01:58:43.000 It's not a product placement, by the way.

01:58:44.680 She just asked me to remind her.

01:58:46.120 Oh, you want one?

01:58:46.620 You want one?

01:58:47.060 I think it has progesterone or what you have.

01:58:49.720 It has hormones in it.

01:58:51.860 What the fuck?

01:58:52.400 I used to have to take them.

01:58:54.180 But I can't no more.

01:58:54.960 I already take position.

01:58:55.980 She asked me to remind her at 7.

01:58:57.980 So I, you know, I got up.

01:58:58.880 And you're late.

01:58:59.260 I'm going to get pregnant now because of you.

01:59:01.080 Wait, what?

01:59:01.720 Oh.

01:59:03.080 Oh.

01:59:03.340 It's supposed to be on the dot.

01:59:04.500 Oh, really?

01:59:08.980 Okay.

01:59:09.500 We can talk after the show.

01:59:11.400 Oh, yeah.

01:59:15.860 I met you.

01:59:17.340 All right.

01:59:19.040 So anyways, I don't know.

01:59:20.400 I'd rather not get a feminist pregnant.

01:59:23.760 I can fix her, though.

01:59:24.880 So anyways.

01:59:25.560 Oh, okay.

01:59:26.260 Oh, okay, guys.

01:59:27.040 Lauren.

01:59:27.540 Okay, moving on.

01:59:28.860 The video.

01:59:29.420 The video.

01:59:30.120 You, you.

01:59:30.760 Okay, so you had a date scheduled with this guy.

01:59:32.800 Was it a first date?

01:59:34.180 Yes, but we've already met and like talked and things like that.

01:59:36.660 We met at like a pool.

01:59:37.880 So basically, how soon, like it was an hour before the date?

01:59:41.740 When did he cancel?

01:59:42.680 Two hours before.

01:59:43.600 Two hours before.

01:59:44.300 Yeah.

01:59:44.540 Okay.

01:59:44.900 And then he felt bad and he sent you 400.

01:59:48.780 Yeah.

01:59:49.120 And did you, you sent it back or you kept it?

01:59:51.140 I did send it back.

01:59:52.860 Did he send it back?

01:59:54.420 No.

01:59:55.280 Okay, so.

01:59:56.420 Because.

01:59:56.920 Yeah, yeah.

01:59:57.620 I, because I felt like it was in that moment, I felt like it would be more powerful to send

02:00:02.300 it back and just say, just don't cancel another single mom like that quickly.

02:00:06.000 You, it was about sending a message.

02:00:09.260 Yeah, yeah.

02:00:09.880 It was about the principal.

02:00:11.060 Because like, he's like a wealthy guy.

02:00:12.840 Like he probably like, women are like, oh, you sure?

02:00:15.320 Whatever.

02:00:15.760 Like I'll take your money.

02:00:17.160 And like you, what you did was fine.

02:00:19.360 I was like, what you did was not fine because it was two hours before.

02:00:23.400 Like Elise gave me like a 24 hour notice.

02:00:25.820 I see.

02:00:26.420 But it's all the things that like women think about, not like women in general think about

02:00:30.980 so much before a date.

02:00:32.020 Like, but a single mom, like I have to schedule a sitter.

02:00:36.320 I have to do all these things.

02:00:37.440 So it's like, if things cancel last minute, it's not only like my schedule that's messed

02:00:42.700 up.

02:00:42.920 It's my sitter's schedule that's messed up.

02:00:44.580 Yeah.

02:00:45.100 Yeah.

02:00:45.680 Um, okay.

02:00:47.200 And, um, did you end up going on a date with him?

02:00:51.320 No, but.

02:00:52.220 Like down the road.

02:00:53.200 No.

02:00:53.620 And the whole reason that we didn't do that is because we literally lived in different

02:00:57.300 states.

02:00:57.740 Like we just didn't see anything happen.

02:00:59.480 And I was going to go to, um, East Asia.

02:01:01.740 So.

02:01:02.340 I see.

02:01:03.080 And then, you know, I wonder if we do, you have, uh, yeah, yeah.

02:01:11.440 Okay.

02:01:12.260 Two images, Nick, two images.

02:01:14.240 You also have like a, a bullshit price list or something.

02:01:17.360 I do.

02:01:17.740 Uh, we're going to pull that up.

02:01:21.300 Can you zoom in on that a little bit, Nick?

02:01:23.200 So this is, if you're, I guess, dating a guy.

02:01:25.560 Yeah.

02:01:26.040 I have a higher price list though too.

02:01:27.980 I have two different lists.

02:01:29.180 Oh, you should have sent us the higher one.

02:01:31.080 Okay.

02:01:31.320 This is the lower one.

02:01:32.900 I redid it.

02:01:33.960 Can you read each of those options for the audience?

02:01:36.180 If you like a girl's video, see, this is how my prenup would look too, by the way.

02:01:40.040 Um, but if you like a girl's photo video of $50 per like, if you DM a girl to a hundred

02:01:45.360 bucks, if you're caught in a lie to a hundred bucks.

02:01:48.520 If you're best friends with a girl, $500 each.

02:01:51.300 Oh shit.

02:01:51.820 If you unblock, no, if you want to be unblocked, it's a thousand.

02:01:55.300 Oh.

02:01:55.820 And texting an ex is 2000.

02:01:57.760 You gotta, I charge.

02:01:59.260 But that's, it depends on tax brackets.

02:02:01.060 There's two different ones.

02:02:01.640 I charge 5,000 for an unblock.

02:02:03.660 Can you send that to me?

02:02:04.340 So those are, those are rookie numbers.

02:02:05.680 You gotta pump those numbers up.

02:02:06.900 Well, yeah, you have to pull up my other one.

02:02:08.400 Yeah.

02:02:08.760 So I'll send it to you.

02:02:09.880 If it was like her situation, what, what would have been the price list for, for like, if

02:02:14.880 it was a dude doing that shit?

02:02:16.840 I don't think.

02:02:17.780 It's over.

02:02:19.400 Um.

02:02:20.220 Like hanging out with a coworker at night?

02:02:22.420 Um, if he hung out with a coworker, I would consider that a girl best friend.

02:02:25.720 And then I would.

02:02:26.660 So what's the price for that?

02:02:28.020 I would have to.

02:02:28.640 And then next photo, Nick, next photo though, normalize charging men for bullshit in 2025.

02:02:35.560 Yeah.

02:02:35.840 That's actually a good idea.

02:02:37.220 I love that.

02:02:37.680 No, I believe it.

02:02:38.680 I'm for it.

02:02:39.140 The only, cause see, men respect money more than women.

02:02:43.380 So I feel like if you hold them accountable and you put a price on something.

02:02:48.680 Yeah.

02:02:49.080 Because like once you hold them accountable, you're like, no, like I'm not going to let

02:02:52.220 you get away with this.

02:02:52.940 Then I think that they'll actually like, listen.

02:02:55.100 I, you know, I do the same thing.

02:02:56.900 Actually.

02:02:57.780 I charge.

02:02:58.320 How does that work for you?

02:02:59.460 Bullshit.

02:02:59.860 How does that work?

02:03:00.460 I charge women for bullshit and I'm going to collect today.

02:03:03.420 I'm going to collect today, Lauren.

02:03:05.080 And so, uh, you know, I kind of have to wait until, uh, Kamiya is back at the table for

02:03:10.460 this one.

02:03:11.140 Ladies, do not do this.

02:03:12.480 Do not set us back.

02:03:13.300 I'm working so hard to make sure that we don't pay them that money.

02:03:17.320 Yeah.

02:03:17.640 But I will say, I will say.

02:03:24.200 Bro, he just wants to catch a pee.

02:03:25.700 Leave her alone.

02:03:25.940 No, we don't.

02:03:27.060 Yes.

02:03:27.600 Leave her alone, please.

02:03:29.120 Bro, he need that.

02:03:30.160 Hashtag need that.

02:03:31.160 Leave her alone.

02:03:31.680 So, okay.

02:03:32.380 Is this harassment in the workplace?

02:03:33.300 No, yeah.

02:03:33.780 At this point.

02:03:34.280 I can send.

02:03:34.800 Is there HR?

02:03:36.560 I can send.

02:03:37.460 I feel like there should be HR.

02:03:38.860 Uh, yeah.

02:03:39.420 Okay.

02:03:39.660 Nick, what do you think?

02:03:42.020 Yeah, we're good.

02:03:42.800 We're chill.

02:03:43.360 Yeah.

02:03:43.680 So, uh, all right.

02:03:46.480 So, you know, nobody hears a sex worker, right?

02:03:50.220 No.

02:03:50.900 W.

02:03:51.380 Fucking W.

02:03:52.180 Yeah.

02:03:52.860 But whatever podcast, uh, has been, what's that term?

02:03:57.960 Typecast a little bit.

02:03:59.120 I don't know if that's exactly the right word.

02:04:00.860 Stereotypes.

02:04:01.400 Oh, you only bring on OnlyFans girls.

02:04:03.500 The majority of our guests actually don't do OnlyFans.

02:04:06.680 Maybe on a panel, sometimes we have one or two, many times none, sometimes more.

02:04:11.840 We've had more, sometimes three, four.

02:04:14.000 But, uh, mostly it's, uh, yeah, you know, so no, no OnlyFans girls here tonight.

02:04:18.500 Does selling feet pics count?

02:04:20.080 Yes.

02:04:21.280 You shouldn't have said that shit because that's kind of sex worker, a little bit sex worker territory.

02:04:27.220 Yeah, it is because the guys.

02:04:29.480 We know what it's for.

02:04:30.720 Yeah, it's like through sexual gratification.

02:04:32.720 We know what he's doing.

02:04:33.420 So, but even though none of y'all are involved in sex work, I'd like to do this role reversal with the women who are sex workers where, you know, but even like, let me ask this.

02:04:44.340 Who here has had like a guy just randomly send you money for no fucking reason?

02:04:49.260 Like some simp.

02:04:53.020 Here's a hundred bucks, 20 bucks, whatever it is.

02:04:55.600 Well, what do you think about the 400?

02:04:56.780 Oh, you've definitely gotten money from, from, from dudes just sending you money.

02:04:59.860 Yeah.

02:05:00.360 Yeah.

02:05:00.700 Yeah.

02:05:00.920 And like on social media, cause I'm a single mom.

02:05:03.140 So sometimes they just like to help me out.

02:05:05.100 Yeah.

02:05:05.460 I didn't mean to interrupt you though.

02:05:06.440 You said, what about you're about to say?

02:05:09.320 Oh, cause like my situation, I don't know if that was for no reason, but it was kind of like he wanted like incentive.

02:05:14.340 The 400, um, has it, you got money?

02:05:17.560 Have you ever gotten money from a dude, sent you money, paid for your rent, this sort of thing?

02:05:21.980 More like he saw me, or a couple of me, niggas, men, see me on the street and they'd be like, can I give you some money to hang out with me?

02:05:31.600 And I'd be like, yeah.

02:05:33.120 Fuck you too.

02:05:34.240 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

02:05:35.920 I mean, what the fuck?

02:05:41.120 Yeah, nigga, we will both match you.

02:05:42.980 What?

02:05:43.220 Um, sorry.

02:05:46.300 Um, okay.

02:05:47.980 So on the street, guys are just like, here's some cash.

02:05:51.320 Yeah.

02:05:51.680 Like I'd be walking down and like, oh my God, you're so beautiful.

02:05:54.320 Sometimes guys try to follow me.

02:05:55.840 And then it's like, you got to bring the taser out.

02:05:57.620 And it's like, I don't even want your money at this point.

02:06:00.720 Yeah.

02:06:02.500 Guys, like it's like, it's mainly in LA though.

02:06:05.100 I could be walking down the street and they'd be like, are you a sex worker?

02:06:08.320 No.

02:06:09.640 Can I give you money for this?

02:06:12.500 No.

02:06:13.360 Go on the street and go find a hoe.

02:06:15.920 Find a hoe on the street.

02:06:18.060 Okay.

02:06:18.740 Uh, have you ever been sent money by like a simp or something?

02:06:21.380 Um, they've offered.

02:06:22.080 I said no.

02:06:23.000 They've offered, but you've turned it down.

02:06:24.680 You've been, you sold feet pics?

02:06:27.720 Um, no, but.

02:06:29.600 What's your shoe size, by the way?

02:06:30.660 He's inquiring.

02:06:31.440 He wants to know.

02:06:32.080 Okay.

02:06:33.020 You said lemons.

02:06:33.740 I actually, um, I can wear kids.

02:06:36.200 I don't fit men's.

02:06:36.920 That's not fair.

02:06:37.600 Uh, have you, has a guy, has a simp ever sent you money?

02:06:39.620 My feet are bigger.

02:06:40.900 Really?

02:06:41.480 Yes.

02:06:42.180 Uh, what about you?

02:06:42.980 You two?

02:06:43.540 Has a guy like ever just simped and sent you money?

02:06:45.540 No.

02:06:46.580 No.

02:06:47.120 All right.

02:06:47.620 So, you know, regardless, um, I like to do a role reversal though.

02:06:52.560 Typically it's with the, the, the, the workers, you know, where, cause they have such a frequency

02:06:59.000 of men just sending them money, just simping, simping.

02:07:03.080 But even normal girls who don't do sex work, guys will sometimes just simp.

02:07:08.260 So tonight on the whatever podcast.

02:07:11.640 You're going to simp?

02:07:14.020 What the?

02:07:15.800 What the fuck?

02:07:16.740 Excuse, hold on.

02:07:19.540 No, wait, you want us to do that.

02:07:21.660 But what does simp even mean?

02:07:23.480 To simp, like to, to.

02:07:25.200 To goon?

02:07:25.800 To, to, to goon.

02:07:27.100 To do too much.

02:07:28.380 To love, like actually love women.

02:07:31.180 Love women.

02:07:31.460 Or like women.

02:07:32.640 I feel like men who do that, like you don't even have to question if they're straight or

02:07:36.760 not.

02:07:36.960 They obviously just love women.

02:07:38.840 They can, they might be straight, but they might be cucks too.

02:07:42.120 Yeah.

02:07:42.420 But the, the role reversal is women for the longest time have been receiving money.

02:07:54.220 So maybe it's dinners, maybe it's whatever, steaks.

02:07:59.560 Sometimes girls just get sent steaks and shit.

02:08:01.800 I don't know.

02:08:02.140 Like frozen steaks.

02:08:03.600 Read this.

02:08:04.200 They get sent.

02:08:05.140 You just get sent stuff.

02:08:06.520 You get free stuff.

02:08:07.660 You get, you know, guys will just buy you shit, whatever.

02:08:11.080 They'll just give you money.

02:08:13.720 This is your opportunity to show the patriarchy.

02:08:18.780 Take a stand as strong, independent women.

02:08:22.860 I want all of you to, to reverse that shit.

02:08:26.860 It shouldn't be this one directional thing.

02:08:29.600 I want you women right now.

02:08:31.820 Then wear a dress first.

02:08:33.100 To, to go get, to, to go get your wallets.

02:08:38.060 I have not cash.

02:08:39.180 And I'd like some cash, please.

02:08:40.400 I have not cash.

02:08:41.120 That is not, that is not what the.

02:08:44.120 Hold on.

02:08:44.600 Who among you, as a true feminist, can sit here.

02:08:49.380 I'm not a feminist.

02:08:49.840 And get your purse.

02:08:50.700 Yeah, I'm not a feminist.

02:08:52.420 And bestow upon me.

02:08:54.860 I'm a starving college student.

02:08:56.760 I'm a starving artist.

02:08:57.160 You're rich.

02:08:58.580 I'm a star, I'm a starving artist.

02:09:00.340 Who here will give me a bit of money?

02:09:03.040 Some cash.

02:09:03.260 The circumstances here are starkly different.

02:09:05.380 You cannot even compare these two.

02:09:06.880 How about this?

02:09:07.640 Let's start with this.

02:09:08.080 I'll sit here and support you.

02:09:09.180 Who here has cash?

02:09:09.440 Who has cash on them?

02:09:11.400 Cash, cash, cash, cash, cash.

02:09:14.180 Will you give me some cash?

02:09:15.840 No.

02:09:16.040 No.

02:09:16.360 I need this.

02:09:17.160 You keep saying that you're a college student.

02:09:19.800 Put this on first.

02:09:20.460 But I'm a student in three different schools.

02:09:22.180 Can you put this on?

02:09:23.760 I'll give you cash.

02:09:24.460 Nah, I'm good.

02:09:25.260 No, no.

02:09:25.620 Because, I mean, that's what we're doing.

02:09:26.920 No, you keep saying that you're a college student.

02:09:28.700 I'm a student in three different schools.

02:09:30.340 Like, I'm doing a lot of things.

02:09:31.500 And I need to pay for my things.

02:09:32.680 So, as an independent woman, as a feminist, I'm going to do what I need for me as a woman.

02:09:38.400 I love that.

02:09:39.040 I'm a student to fly.

02:09:40.360 Will you give me?

02:09:40.920 You have some cash.

02:09:41.780 Can you give me some cash?

02:09:42.900 No.

02:09:43.580 Don't set us back.

02:09:44.320 I don't understand this.

02:09:45.000 That doesn't prove the patriarchy anything.

02:09:46.980 It doesn't set women back.

02:09:48.160 It sets women forward.

02:09:51.080 No, because if you truly, women, don't have to give men anything.

02:09:58.480 They don't.

02:09:59.260 They don't have to give them cash or money.

02:10:02.560 I mean, I'm not, like, robbing you guys, right?

02:10:04.100 You don't have to do it.

02:10:05.660 It's volunteer.

02:10:07.180 You're volunteering.

02:10:08.320 So, I'm not.

02:10:08.780 Yeah, they don't have to.

02:10:09.800 No, you don't have to.

02:10:11.000 That's not what feminism is.

02:10:12.880 And that's not what the patriarchy is.

02:10:14.840 Us giving men money doesn't equal the playing field.

02:10:18.160 Yeah, it doesn't.

02:10:19.320 Well, the difference would be, like, it's not really changing anything because you're

02:10:23.360 not my anything.

02:10:24.260 You're not anything to me.

02:10:25.720 It's different if we're in a relationship and I'm paying for your steak.

02:10:28.880 I'm paying for you to go do some nails.

02:10:31.140 You know, we have.

02:10:32.260 I just feel.

02:10:33.400 You know, it's a long show.

02:10:34.160 The way that men pay for dates.

02:10:35.540 But you're not in my relationship, please.

02:10:37.060 Like, women also, like, how much is an eyeshadow palette?

02:10:40.020 How much is, like, her nails?

02:10:42.300 That's why men, like, pay for dates and things.

02:10:44.580 You think men pay for dates?

02:10:45.420 So, you look at it as more as a transaction?

02:10:47.340 Wait, wait, wait.

02:10:47.740 Hold on.

02:10:47.960 No, I don't look at it as a transaction.

02:10:49.020 But you just mentioned it.

02:10:50.240 I didn't say it was a transaction.

02:10:51.800 You just mentioned it.

02:10:52.700 When women are paying their way through makeup, dresses, heels, whatever that they're doing

02:10:58.980 before the date, you think that that's what that's giving back as far as what men are

02:11:04.060 doing?

02:11:04.240 No, no.

02:11:04.540 I just think it's like, you know, women are held to a certain standard to, you know, look

02:11:09.920 a certain way.

02:11:11.200 And that costs money for us to get a nails done.

02:11:13.640 I wouldn't know.

02:11:14.320 Typically, men don't care about the makeup.

02:11:16.480 Yeah, I don't go to dates with makeup on.

02:11:18.440 I have a question on this.

02:11:20.280 So, you're...

02:11:21.140 I get money randomly.

02:11:22.440 But you mentioned, well, women spend money on XYZ, so men should pay for dates.

02:11:26.720 Is that the only reason men should pay for dates?

02:11:29.860 Is because women spend more money?

02:11:30.380 No, because I also think it's like, you know, the stakes for women to go on a date is higher

02:11:34.060 than the stakes for men to go on a date.

02:11:36.600 Yeah.

02:11:36.900 Well, quick, before we get into that separate argument, you say women spend more money getting

02:11:42.920 ready.

02:11:43.380 Yeah, 1,000%.

02:11:43.980 And that's one of the justifications for women.

02:11:46.080 Yeah.

02:11:46.480 So, in a scenario where I could demonstrate that I spend more money getting ready, are

02:11:53.800 you okay with a woman fully paying for the date?

02:11:56.100 No.

02:11:56.880 Okay.

02:11:57.120 So, then why would that even be an argument, then?

02:12:01.700 Can you repeat the question?

02:12:02.840 Well, essentially, if I can say, like, let's say I'm super wealthy, right?

02:12:07.200 Because it's conceivable.

02:12:08.180 Like, let's say a guy who, you would agree that a guy could go out with a woman.

02:12:13.480 I'm not saying he's broke, but he could go out with a woman who earns more money than

02:12:17.560 him.

02:12:18.100 And she has a luxury taste.

02:12:20.940 And she might spend a ton of money on makeup, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, right?

02:12:25.200 But couldn't the reverse also be true?

02:12:27.380 Where I'm a really high-earning guy going on a date with a girl who's not broke, but she

02:12:32.720 makes $70,000 a year and I make a million.

02:12:36.580 And I show up to, and I pick her up in a Lamborghini.

02:12:41.540 I've definitely spent more money showing up to that date than she did.

02:12:46.220 Yeah, but.

02:12:46.800 So, if I show up in my Lamborghini and my Rolex and my custom suit and whatever, whatever,

02:12:55.240 whatever, I've spent more money on, you know, in preparation showing up for that date, should

02:13:00.860 she then pay for the date?

02:13:02.060 Even though I, well, yeah, I'll leave it at that.

02:13:04.500 Yeah.

02:13:04.940 Well, okay.

02:13:06.600 And like, and I think that's fine.

02:13:08.200 But should she, should she fully pay for the whole date?

02:13:11.740 No.

02:13:13.280 But I spent more money getting ready.

02:13:15.300 And then, yeah, but it's also more than that.

02:13:18.520 But I'm just examining that specific logic on that front.

02:13:22.380 Okay, so that specific, sure.

02:13:23.000 Because why make.

02:13:23.820 And then do you want to jump, jump into like the other two.

02:13:26.720 Yeah.

02:13:26.980 So you mentioned safety.

02:13:28.000 Points that I have.

02:13:28.280 So, yeah.

02:13:28.900 Right.

02:13:29.280 The women have more at stake.

02:13:31.000 Yes.

02:13:31.500 Okay.

02:13:31.760 I, I sort of disagree.

02:13:33.440 Like if, if as a woman, you genuinely have a fear that like with a, I think women can

02:13:39.960 have general fear, but as it relates to a specific guy, if you are generally scared and

02:13:46.860 are, this is what's at stake, you probably shouldn't go on the date.

02:13:52.160 Well, so here's the thing.

02:13:53.540 I've been in DV relationships before and it's not something, and that's why this matters to

02:13:58.580 me.

02:13:58.760 It's not something that you're going to see right away.

02:14:02.300 Can women also commit domestic violence?

02:14:04.380 Yeah.

02:14:05.440 Yeah.

02:14:06.020 Yeah.

02:14:06.300 And if we remove, like, I'll go ahead and grant that generally speaking, men are physically

02:14:11.420 stronger than women.

02:14:12.240 Do you agree?

02:14:13.120 Yes.

02:14:13.640 Okay.

02:14:13.940 But like with a knife, for example, can a man and a woman do the same damage?

02:14:18.680 A knife?

02:14:19.660 Yes.

02:14:20.160 They can.

02:14:20.820 Well.

02:14:21.200 Cause he has more muscles, more, you know.

02:14:23.900 Assuming the woman has enough strength and the knife is sharp enough.

02:14:30.680 Yes.

02:14:31.160 I would like, okay.

02:14:32.020 For example, a stronger man versus a weaker woman and they both have a knife.

02:14:36.180 I would tend to agree with you that the man is going to have a better time, better time.

02:14:42.440 I don't know if better times the right.

02:14:43.420 He's going to kill her and he's probably going to get slashed a bit, but yeah, a woman who

02:14:50.420 has a knife and a man who doesn't, uh, I don't care if you're a man or woman.

02:14:55.480 If she, if, if your partner walks up behind you and stabs you in the neck, you're probably

02:15:01.000 going to die regardless of the fact that women generally speaking have less strength.

02:15:05.560 If a woman has a firearm, she can definitely, she can definitely kill you.

02:15:11.020 Yeah.

02:15:11.620 So, and I guess my confusion here then is, well, if you're, if your argument is, well, down

02:15:20.000 the road, there's a chance of domestic violence.

02:15:22.800 Women can also perpetrate domestic violence.

02:15:25.000 Yeah.

02:15:25.520 And they do.

02:15:26.400 And then that goes to my third point also, because women, it depends on what type of

02:15:30.860 relationship you want to, you know, and everyone wants different relationships, has different

02:15:34.760 boundaries and has different ways that they like their relationship.

02:15:37.820 But for me, if I'm going to have children, then yes, he needs to spend more so that I

02:15:43.500 know that he had, he's financially stable to support a family.

02:15:47.120 Can I ask you a question?

02:15:47.900 How many, how many first dates have you been on in your entire life?

02:15:51.880 In my time, like...

02:15:53.300 I don't need an exact number, but do you think it's over a hundred?

02:15:55.980 No, like 30.

02:15:57.340 30 first dates.

02:15:58.220 Yeah.

02:15:58.520 How many children do you have?

02:15:59.580 One.

02:16:01.640 Okay.

02:16:02.300 I have a question.

02:16:02.760 Well, you, you didn't get pregnant from all the men.

02:16:05.240 I didn't sleep with all of them.

02:16:06.780 Right.

02:16:07.080 Well, even further, but this idea, I don't know if it totally makes sense if the justification

02:16:14.340 for men paying on first dates is you, pregnancy, because you don't get pregnant from every first

02:16:21.100 date you're going on.

02:16:21.480 They're for the date for.

02:16:23.060 To get pregnant?

02:16:24.100 No.

02:16:24.500 To see if this could be a potential partner.

02:16:28.040 I'm not just dating to date.

02:16:29.800 I'm seeing if that's a potential partner.

02:16:31.520 So for me, that's why my standards are the way that they are.

02:16:34.980 Okay.

02:16:35.480 So, so...

02:16:38.080 So, yeah, I agree with her with that point.

02:16:39.580 I have a response, but it looks like you wanted to come in.

02:16:42.060 Yeah.

02:16:42.520 So I totally agree with that point.

02:16:44.420 I did have dates where we split and I had dates where I totally paid because I put my

02:16:51.240 card and he didn't put his and I ended up paying for the full bill, whatever.

02:16:56.380 And the last time that happened, he actually said that he wants kids.

02:17:01.540 I want, I want kids too.

02:17:03.740 And he had a number.

02:17:05.120 He's like, he wants five kids.

02:17:07.820 And then he didn't even pay.

02:17:09.400 And when I went home, I was like, like, what the hell are you setting?

02:17:12.180 And here, like, oh, he even took the Leftovers.

02:17:15.360 Oh, no.

02:17:16.700 And yours?

02:17:17.640 Oh, my God.

02:17:18.280 He took your Leftovers?

02:17:19.440 He took the Leftovers for, like, everything.

02:17:22.020 W.

02:17:22.760 W.

02:17:24.640 And so it got me thinking, you know, like, if a guy...

02:17:28.500 So wait, he didn't pay?

02:17:29.860 He didn't pay.

02:17:30.460 I paid.

02:17:31.040 You paid for the whole thing?

02:17:31.980 Yeah.

02:17:32.240 I had only $150 in my bank account.

02:17:35.000 Just kidding.

02:17:35.300 It was $120.

02:17:36.440 Oh, he also picked the restaurant too.

02:17:38.520 And it was like out of my budget.

02:17:40.080 Whatever.

02:17:40.340 Whatever.

02:17:41.220 And so when I went back home...

02:17:42.220 They meant to be gold diggers too.

02:17:43.240 Right.

02:17:43.500 So when I went back home, I was like, hold on a second.

02:17:45.660 If I'm looking for a man to have children with, why would I be okay with, like, them not paying?

02:17:52.760 You know?

02:17:53.100 Like, if you also want children...

02:17:55.280 Yeah.

02:17:55.760 That has to be, like...

02:17:56.860 You have to...

02:17:57.840 Essentially, like, if I'm having babies, there is a point of, you know, a time or whatever where I may be staying at home.

02:18:04.560 Yeah, exactly.

02:18:05.180 Then you have to show, at least, that you care and you're like, you will pay.

02:18:09.540 Yeah.

02:18:09.820 And it's more about, like, them just caring in that time.

02:18:13.240 And I usually think, like, the first date is, like, their initial, their first impression.

02:18:18.540 And so when they care about you enough in your experience and they care about, you know, taking care of you in that moment, that's, like, the first step that kind of shows us.

02:18:28.260 Like, okay, this is how he could be in another time that I'm vulnerable.

02:18:32.200 I'm possibly pregnant one day if it gets to that point.

02:18:35.680 Yeah.

02:18:35.780 Can I ask you a question, though, on this?

02:18:38.440 You do acknowledge that...

02:18:39.840 And this is just to test the logic a little bit.

02:18:43.580 Yeah.

02:18:44.040 You do acknowledge that there are women who are child-free.

02:18:47.300 And what I mean by that is they don't want to have children ever.

02:18:51.340 Yeah.

02:18:51.960 But they still are romantically interested in dating men.

02:18:54.580 Yeah.

02:18:54.800 And having, like, a boyfriend.

02:18:56.380 Yeah.

02:18:57.080 1,000%.

02:18:57.520 So what would you say to women who make it very clear, or whether they make it clear or not, but just from their own perspective, they've made a determination in their life.

02:19:05.720 They don't want kids.

02:19:06.740 So in that situation, do you grant, where the woman doesn't want children ever, that it should be 50-50 on the first date?

02:19:17.680 My grant is she should do whatever she wants and whatever makes her feel happy and whatever makes her feel loved.

02:19:23.220 But your position is men should pay on first dates.

02:19:25.680 My position is everyone's different with what their standards are and what their kinks are, what makes them feel loved, what makes them feel, you know, like they want to date someone long-term.

02:19:35.240 Okay.

02:19:35.560 But if we're having a conversation about fairness, it then becomes, okay, well, let's say there's guys out there who maybe they also don't want kids and they want a 50-50 dynamic.

02:19:46.740 I wouldn't even be in that situation.

02:19:50.400 What do you mean?

02:19:51.360 She has standards.

02:19:52.140 She knows what she wants.

02:19:52.940 For you, for you, but you also like you do content, you talk about dating.

02:19:58.220 Yeah.

02:19:58.600 Would you say to women out there, like don't generally speaking, you say men should pay for first dates.

02:20:05.200 Like, I don't think you have nuance as to your actual position when it comes to the advice you give women.

02:20:13.780 No, I think my nuance is know what you like and stand up for what you like and don't go down on your standards.

02:20:20.380 But, okay, how about this?

02:20:23.540 You can say that people can do whatever they want, but in terms of like helpfulness and understanding your actual position, like what advice would you give to a man, for example, who he doesn't want to have kids and he's on a date with a woman who doesn't want to have kids?

02:20:41.820 Yeah.

02:20:42.740 And do you think it would be unreasonable in that situation for the woman to have an expectation that the man pay for the date?

02:20:50.000 I think you should have a conversation with her first to make sure that they're aligned on that.

02:20:57.900 Yeah, I think I'm fine.

02:20:59.140 I'm fine with that.

02:21:00.100 There's a woman out there that wants to do 50-50 on a first date, and if you want to, do it.

02:21:04.720 But that's why you should have that conversation before the date.

02:21:07.420 I don't even allow the first date to even get to that point to know if they're aligned or not.

02:21:11.580 Wait, how do you ask?

02:21:12.860 Sorry.

02:21:13.300 Well, originally, so, you know, I don't go on dates with guys unless they like pay for the sitter too.

02:21:18.380 And that's usually.

02:21:19.500 Oh, wow.

02:21:19.720 We need to get into that.

02:21:20.820 Yeah.

02:21:21.340 So just to repeat.

02:21:22.540 And that's usually how.

02:21:24.240 You'll only go on the first date with a guy if he pays for the babysitter.

02:21:28.400 1,000%.

02:21:29.080 Okay.

02:21:31.800 Did you have a question for her?

02:21:34.200 I did.

02:21:34.800 It was how does the guy ask?

02:21:37.040 Oh, how does she ask the guy?

02:21:38.680 But she answered already just like that.

02:21:40.560 She had him pay for the babysitter too.

02:21:42.620 But how about this?

02:21:43.420 If we're faced with a situation where the guy wants to go.

02:21:49.200 How do I?

02:21:49.880 Do you think it would be.

02:21:53.360 It's unreasonable for a woman who wants to be child free to have then an expectation.

02:22:00.060 That the man pay for the date.

02:22:01.480 No.

02:22:03.160 It's not unreasonable.

02:22:04.920 It's whatever she wants.

02:22:06.240 So women can want anything.

02:22:08.200 Anyone can want anything.

02:22:09.540 Men can.

02:22:10.260 Well, I think part of the issue though.

02:22:12.420 My answer is not going to change.

02:22:13.700 You can keep going any which way you want.

02:22:15.780 And that's my answer.

02:22:16.860 It's not going to change.

02:22:17.680 I feel like what she's saying is that everybody's different.

02:22:20.200 Like, I wouldn't go 50-50 on the first date, but I'm a college student.

02:22:24.460 So everybody's different.

02:22:26.320 So the guy pays for the date?

02:22:28.800 Yeah.

02:22:29.100 Even if you're on a date with a fellow college student who also doesn't make money?

02:22:32.680 I don't usually go on dates with fellow college students.

02:22:34.860 Okay.

02:22:35.100 You date older people then.

02:22:36.900 Or out of college.

02:22:37.660 Sometimes, but like most people are in the same industry as me.

02:22:40.400 And a lot of people in the same industry as me are not going to college for that.

02:22:44.940 Or also military child.

02:22:47.840 So a lot of the people I'm friends with get paid for their stuff.

02:22:52.500 I feel like this is a bit of a Mott and Bailey because I think your true genuine position is men should pay for first dates.

02:23:00.460 But now that I'm logically examining your position, you want to retreat back to, well, people can negotiate whatever they want.

02:23:08.960 And if a man wants this, you guys can negotiate and talk it through.

02:23:12.160 Well, because that's my, that's for me.

02:23:14.280 Like I am never going to pay for a first date.

02:23:18.140 So that is like how I am.

02:23:20.480 But I can't speak on all women and I can't put like a stance for all women.

02:23:25.520 But that's me.

02:23:26.160 Yeah.

02:23:26.460 I have a question.

02:23:28.120 What age range of men do you date?

02:23:30.740 It's all.

02:23:31.920 Really?

02:23:32.520 I've 25.

02:23:34.360 I've dated.

02:23:34.900 Like younger or older?

02:23:35.900 Like you'll go younger?

02:23:37.200 Chicks and milk.

02:23:38.120 Yeah.

02:23:39.400 You'll go younger than 25?

02:23:41.600 I've almost.

02:23:42.640 I've almost been on a date with a 24.

02:23:44.000 I asked and he was also going to pay for this.

02:23:45.740 Just one sec.

02:23:45.900 I missed the intros.

02:23:47.560 What does chair number one offer?

02:23:49.460 Because all I see is some wide eyes and an elevated sense of worth.

02:23:53.900 Solid seven with makeup.

02:23:55.660 Bet if you take that off, she a four, five at best.

02:23:58.640 Wow.

02:23:59.220 I'm a five.

02:24:00.080 Oh, that's a, that's a, you a five, but she a fucking 10.

02:24:03.640 Yeah.

02:24:04.260 Here we go.

02:24:04.640 Do you want to respond to that?

02:24:06.220 Oh, I just think men that talk like that, they don't have money.

02:24:09.320 So.

02:24:09.440 If you want to rate me, send me a screenshot of your bank account and then maybe.

02:24:15.900 Oh boy.

02:24:16.900 But here's the thing.

02:24:18.600 Here's the thing.

02:24:19.060 That's a challenge, Clayton.

02:24:20.740 Did you want to answer that question?

02:24:22.840 Because only broke men like attack women on their looks.

02:24:25.520 But that's the thing.

02:24:26.360 Also, people, different people have different tastes and I think that's okay.

02:24:30.020 So let's say.

02:24:31.420 Latrice, were you asking.

02:24:33.000 Did you want to answer that question of what he says?

02:24:34.860 Offer?

02:24:35.340 Yeah.

02:24:36.120 So I think he said, he asks, what does chair one offer?

02:24:38.840 So I guess he's asking, what do you bring to the table?

02:24:41.360 I'm a mother.

02:24:42.360 I'm a mommy.

02:24:43.600 Like, that's what I offer.

02:24:45.420 Like, you know what I mean?

02:24:46.360 Like, I take care.

02:24:48.080 Excuse me?

02:24:49.200 Wait, wait.

02:24:49.900 Of my family.

02:24:50.720 Of my baby.

02:24:51.680 You cook and clean or?

02:24:52.860 But can I.

02:24:53.380 Like cooking and cleaning, caregiving?

02:24:54.860 No, I wouldn't cook and clean.

02:24:56.160 Oh.

02:24:56.400 Okay.

02:24:56.680 Wait, wait.

02:24:57.360 What?

02:24:58.280 Wait, wait, wait.

02:24:58.980 Hold on.

02:24:59.220 Oh my gosh.

02:25:00.240 Hold on.

02:25:00.520 I like that.

02:25:01.400 How about you?

02:25:01.980 I want to make something.

02:25:03.120 I want to do a disclaimer before I get into this.

02:25:04.800 I want to be like you and I'm older.

02:25:07.260 How old are you?

02:25:08.540 I'm setting new standards for women.

02:25:10.380 How are you?

02:25:11.380 All right.

02:25:12.560 Guys, can we avoid the quips?

02:25:14.000 Can we avoid the quips, please?

02:25:15.880 I'm sorry, but you're kind of giving these ideas for women to have these standards, which

02:25:19.980 are more inclined for them to stay single.

02:25:22.880 I'm just saying.

02:25:24.020 Well, hold on.

02:25:24.740 Really quick.

02:25:25.340 I want to address the point that you just raised.

02:25:27.180 So you said when I asked or when Clayne asks, what do you want?

02:25:31.920 What does chair one offer?

02:25:33.020 What does, uh, what do you bring to the table?

02:25:35.440 Your immediate, your first response was your mother.

02:25:38.540 I'm a mother.

02:25:39.500 So I want to do a little disclaimer here first.

02:25:42.860 Yeah.

02:25:43.040 I don't think there's anything wrong with a man becoming a stepfather.

02:25:45.780 With that said, I, I don't think that that is typically going to be viewed as a positive.

02:25:55.560 Right.

02:25:56.240 I don't think, I don't think it's a deal for, for me, it's not a deal breaker for woman's

02:26:00.940 a single mom.

02:26:01.780 However, generally speaking, I don't think that that's like a positive thing in the, in the

02:26:08.040 sense that because what you bring to the table, what you offer, I think a lot of men are going

02:26:13.340 to view that as this could be a potential complication in our relationship.

02:26:19.220 This could be a liability in our relationship.

02:26:21.700 Yeah, maybe.

02:26:22.500 But I, I think when people are asking what you offer, what you bring to the table, it

02:26:26.400 might be something to do with, uh, I mean, you just stating your current mother status.

02:26:35.320 I don't, that doesn't seem like.

02:26:37.060 So when I'm saying, when I answered that, it's because when I'm dating, it's for that

02:26:43.200 to have more kids and have a family.

02:26:45.800 So when I said that, that's what I mean.

02:26:48.260 So like if I get a relationship with someone, usually the guys I date want kids, that's

02:26:52.440 why they're attracted to me.

02:26:53.640 So I understand.

02:26:54.580 And I think it's fair.

02:26:56.060 However, I 1000% think it's fair to not want to date a single mom.

02:27:00.200 Like you should know yourself.

02:27:02.040 Okay.

02:27:02.480 So perhaps there is a misunderstanding here, but, um, I think it perhaps would have been

02:27:09.520 better worded.

02:27:11.060 Like I will give him children.

02:27:14.860 Yes.

02:27:15.300 But it's also the energy that I bring to the relationship.

02:27:18.380 It's the, but why did you say I'm a, I'm a mother?

02:27:20.900 Because that's the energy that I bring.

02:27:22.260 So I'm nurturing.

02:27:23.280 I'm going to take care of the babies.

02:27:24.440 I'm going to make sure that they're good.

02:27:26.020 They're my first thought.

02:27:27.440 I guess the question is, sorry.

02:27:29.820 Okay.

02:27:30.300 I hope it's constructive, but go ahead.

02:27:32.320 Oh, sorry.

02:27:33.720 Okay.

02:27:34.100 Before you became a mother, what do you bring to the table?

02:27:37.400 What do I bring to the table?

02:27:38.440 I'm a business owner.

02:27:39.900 So my ideal partner, I want to have a business with like, what do you mean?

02:27:44.200 Guys don't care about that either.

02:27:46.380 And I don't care what they care about.

02:27:47.820 That's just what I want.

02:27:48.860 Okay.

02:27:49.220 Well, you, you just said earlier that you don't cook and you don't clean.

02:27:53.140 No, because I, well, okay.

02:27:54.640 I don't think people, when women, when the default goes for women to cook and clean in

02:27:59.820 a relationship, then I think that's also why so many people are struggling in relationships

02:28:05.940 because that's labor.

02:28:07.240 So compared to women's labor, compared to men's labor, if he takes care of all the bills,

02:28:12.800 it's still five jobs compared to his.

02:28:15.000 No, no, no.

02:28:17.000 I strongly disagree considering that my husband's a blue collar worker.

02:28:21.280 My husband does blue collar work.

02:28:23.300 And what I do at home is nothing compared to what he does outside the house.

02:28:27.120 Okay.

02:28:27.420 And wait, you have two kids, right?

02:28:28.800 Yep.

02:28:29.220 Two kids.

02:28:30.000 One kid.

02:28:31.020 Two kids.

02:28:32.200 Yeah.

02:28:32.620 One.

02:28:32.820 And what does your, what does your husband do for work?

02:28:34.940 Oh, he does construction.

02:28:36.500 Uh, what kind of, can you be detailed?

02:28:38.180 Um, before, before years, about maybe five, six years ago, he was doing, um, exterior work,

02:28:43.480 which is everything that you see outside of Las Vegas, all over the buildings is what

02:28:47.600 he did.

02:28:48.000 You're, you're from Vegas, right?

02:28:49.140 Yeah.

02:28:49.580 Like, does he do heavy machinery or is he more?

02:28:52.760 Forklift, boom lifts, all kinds of lifts.

02:28:54.940 Okay.

02:28:55.200 So is he like putting like the stuff on the wall, like the bricks, everything that you

02:28:59.140 see, the panels and all of that.

02:29:00.400 Oh, so all the designs and everything.

02:29:02.160 That's super cool.

02:29:02.920 And mind you, he does it all year round.

02:29:05.280 He didn't just do, like, this is out in the sun.

02:29:08.400 So he's doing that.

02:29:08.940 Vegas.

02:29:09.220 No joke.

02:29:09.860 Yeah.

02:29:10.020 It's hot.

02:29:11.680 It's hot.

02:29:12.340 So to me, him doing what he's doing, coming home, baked, looking like a freaking lobster.

02:29:18.400 I'm not going to complain about what I do at home.

02:29:22.360 And he supports the whole family.

02:29:23.980 Huh?

02:29:24.200 He supports the whole family.

02:29:25.200 Absolutely.

02:29:26.320 I think that's fair to that stuff.

02:29:28.120 And all I'm doing is, what am I doing?

02:29:29.940 Cooking.

02:29:30.620 Cleaning.

02:29:31.120 Yeah.

02:29:31.360 I keep my house clean every day.

02:29:33.260 I don't have to worry about that.

02:29:34.000 What if you were.

02:29:35.160 No.

02:29:36.140 Okay.

02:29:36.580 You're just like taking care of your homemaker.

02:29:38.380 Yes.

02:29:38.620 What if you were working too?

02:29:40.020 Like, would you want him to also clean and cook too?

02:29:43.200 He offers, but I tell him hell no.

02:29:44.900 Stay.

02:29:45.420 Sit your ass down.

02:29:47.060 Yeah.

02:29:47.380 Do not do a thing.

02:29:48.700 You were just out there for like 12, 14, 16, sometimes 18 or more hours.

02:29:53.900 Oh, damn.

02:29:54.580 Why am I going to make him do all that?

02:29:56.740 That would make no sense for me.

02:29:58.480 Yeah.

02:29:58.660 To make him do any sort of house chores.

02:30:00.140 W Latrice.

02:30:00.740 And so he frequently works, like how many hours per week would you say he works today?

02:30:07.840 On average, anywhere between 60 to 80 hours a week.

02:30:10.580 Wow.

02:30:11.620 Damn.

02:30:12.740 Again.

02:30:13.020 That's a lot.

02:30:13.380 Do not lift a finger in the house.

02:30:15.600 Can you share his take home?

02:30:16.880 What's his take home?

02:30:17.800 What do you mean?

02:30:18.300 Pay.

02:30:21.180 He doesn't usually like me to say it.

02:30:22.760 You don't have to.

02:30:23.280 Just enough.

02:30:23.720 He makes enough.

02:30:24.240 He makes enough for all four, for me and the kids.

02:30:29.020 We'll put it this way.

02:30:29.900 Like, he knows that I like nice things.

02:30:32.480 He takes care of you.

02:30:33.760 I'll tell you.

02:30:34.060 I'll tell you right now.

02:30:34.860 My anniversary gift was a new car.

02:30:37.340 What did he get?

02:30:39.100 Huh?

02:30:39.380 Wait, but I want to hear more from Lauren here.

02:30:42.420 So can you just clarify your...

02:30:44.380 I have one message coming in, but then I want...

02:30:47.420 Hold on.

02:30:47.860 Klayne donated $200.

02:30:52.480 You think broke men are sending random 200 messages on a podcast?

02:30:57.440 I have ran through 100 like you.

02:31:00.140 Oh.

02:31:01.240 So he's ran through.

02:31:02.280 Do you have more to see?

02:31:02.960 I know.

02:31:03.600 I was like, oh.

02:31:04.500 Yeah.

02:31:05.100 Do you want to respond to Klayne?

02:31:06.680 Maybe that's why he has to watch a dating podcast.

02:31:09.640 Ooh.

02:31:10.500 And a oof.

02:31:12.020 Because he's rich?

02:31:13.320 No.

02:31:14.060 No.

02:31:14.680 Because he doesn't have a girl.

02:31:15.420 He's obviously not working out if he's ran through 100 women.

02:31:18.860 That's crazy.

02:31:19.120 No.

02:31:19.320 I think he's ran...

02:31:20.260 Like, he's a repeat commenter on the podcast.

02:31:25.300 So he's not, like, running through girls.

02:31:26.780 Yeah, but why is he watching a dating podcast that long?

02:31:29.260 That's crazy.

02:31:31.020 I mean, I'm married.

02:31:31.880 I sit down and watch...

02:31:33.040 But he said ran through.

02:31:34.560 That sounds more like he was in a relationship with them.

02:31:36.760 No.

02:31:36.960 He's talking like he runs through sending TTS messages.

02:31:42.060 Like, he'll talk...

02:31:42.600 But the first message was about him not having enough money.

02:31:45.420 Or, like, that question was about men having money.

02:31:49.260 He said money.

02:31:50.020 What?

02:31:50.340 No, there was no question.

02:31:51.580 We're dating.

02:31:52.120 Well, good.

02:31:52.800 Save the podcast.

02:31:53.540 Because earlier she said that guy was broke.

02:31:55.300 Oh, was that not the same question as earlier?

02:31:57.360 No.

02:31:58.140 I have no idea what you're talking about.

02:31:59.540 But, okay, Lauren.

02:32:00.180 Yes.

02:32:00.420 You were saying that being a mom, that's, like, five jobs.

02:32:05.700 That's way harder than the guy's job.

02:32:07.880 So, this is where we go back into this, okay?

02:32:10.960 Because every relationship is different with your husband and your situation.

02:32:15.040 A 1,000 person.

02:32:16.400 Oh, I get that.

02:32:17.620 I just wanted to just put that out there.

02:32:19.980 Wait, hold on, hold on.

02:32:20.740 Because I wanted to put this out here.

02:32:22.120 Yeah.

02:32:22.380 My husband wasn't doing construction when we first dated.

02:32:25.480 Yeah.

02:32:25.640 He was just working as an oyster shucker.

02:32:28.180 Yeah, yeah.

02:32:28.580 And making less money than I did.

02:32:30.800 Yeah.

02:32:31.280 So, me giving that opportunity for both of us to really align with one another on what

02:32:37.460 we wanted in our relationship, it then became that.

02:32:40.380 Because the way men are typically, men like my husband, they may not have it all at that

02:32:45.800 very moment.

02:32:46.400 But they end up building that, especially for the right person that they're with.

02:32:49.860 It's amazing.

02:32:50.360 It's not like I have a price limit on men.

02:32:52.920 Yeah.

02:32:53.080 Like, I believe in that.

02:32:54.740 That's, I love that.

02:32:55.780 No, and I get that.

02:32:56.580 And that's the thing.

02:32:57.220 It's, like, he is doing so much labor.

02:32:59.540 So, I totally get that.

02:33:01.600 You know what I mean?

02:33:01.840 He's doing the job.

02:33:03.140 No, I know, I know, I know.

02:33:04.660 Typically is really, how do I say this?

02:33:08.560 It's, like, typically people don't even really respect that kind of work.

02:33:13.660 Like, they just look at, they just look at it like, oh, great, you know, another guy doing

02:33:18.800 a blue collar job.

02:33:19.780 If it weren't for him, we wouldn't be in the building we're in.

02:33:22.700 We wouldn't have the things that we have all around us.

02:33:25.120 Yeah, yeah.

02:33:25.720 So, it's, like, they are literally the backbone to our society building the infrastructure

02:33:30.720 that we have all around us.

02:33:32.160 Yeah.

02:33:32.340 The technology and all of that.

02:33:34.140 Yeah.

02:33:34.300 You know, so I actually put my husband on that highest level of respect when it comes to

02:33:38.860 the line of work he does.

02:33:40.280 Because if it weren't for him and everybody else, where would we be?

02:33:43.300 Yeah.

02:33:43.660 Yeah, no, a thousand percent.

02:33:45.000 So, but he, I didn't look at it as, oh, you know, my husband, he better make some money.

02:33:51.540 He's better be doing this.

02:33:52.640 He better be doing that.

02:33:53.600 Because, mind you, I had a child already when we first dated.

02:33:56.600 Mm-hmm.

02:33:57.420 We, you know, I had a child already when we first dated, but nowhere in me felt like it

02:34:01.540 was his responsibility to deal with my child.

02:34:03.380 And I don't make it.

02:34:04.620 No, no, no, I'm not saying you did.

02:34:05.840 I'm not saying you said that.

02:34:06.840 Yeah.

02:34:06.940 But that's just usually how it works.

02:34:08.980 Yeah.

02:34:09.420 And, you know, when he took on that responsibility, it's a really hard one.

02:34:13.760 Mm-hmm.

02:34:13.840 And typically men would not want to deal with a woman that's already had children because

02:34:17.840 of the fact that they look at it automatically as a burden.

02:34:20.840 Yeah.

02:34:21.000 But see, I don't see, I don't never run into those men because obviously the ones that I

02:34:24.880 run into would, do you want to deal with me and my son?

02:34:27.640 You know what I mean?

02:34:28.300 Yeah.

02:34:28.420 So 1,000% and I would never expect a man to take over my son.

02:34:36.180 Like my son is my son.

02:34:37.560 You know what I mean?

02:34:38.200 Well, wait, wait, wait, do you plan to eventually, if you end up involved with this man, do you

02:34:42.920 eventually want to marry that person?

02:34:44.820 Yes.

02:34:45.300 Okay.

02:34:45.620 And so you do realize that in order for the man to be involved in this relationship,

02:34:49.520 he has to lead and also be involved with the rearing of your child too.

02:34:53.100 Oh, 1,000%.

02:34:53.960 But I'm just saying like in the dating phase.

02:34:56.880 Oh, right, right.

02:34:57.520 No, and the reason that I make it a requirement that they pay for the sitter is so that they

02:35:01.740 can have my full attention.

02:35:03.380 Yeah.

02:35:03.520 And it also shows like their willingness to understand that we're a package deal, even

02:35:08.720 though I don't expect him to like be involved in my son's life.

02:35:12.240 I mean, I get, I get what you're saying, but don't you think that's like, and I, I kind

02:35:16.880 of respectfully, I just, I just find it a little bit unreasonable when you're telling

02:35:23.120 a man that he should pay for your sitter when it's your responsibility.

02:35:26.820 Well, they don't see it as unreasonable.

02:35:29.240 Well, I know they're the ones that don't see it.

02:35:31.420 That's kind of their choice.

02:35:32.300 And so my, my men have no issue with it.

02:35:35.280 So that's my standard.

02:35:36.660 But, but I guess, so where has this been going so far?

02:35:41.840 It's been going great, actually.

02:35:44.420 Are you in a relationship?

02:35:45.700 Um, no, I'm not in a relationship, but that's the thing, even though if I am dating, it's

02:35:51.140 intentional, but I am not actively dating.

02:35:55.340 Does that make sense?

02:35:56.040 Like I'm not actively trying to find a relationship.

02:35:57.840 I'm actively building a business and raising my son.

02:36:00.920 Okay.

02:36:01.200 So when did you make that video that we saw earlier?

02:36:03.960 Um, that was a couple months ago.

02:36:05.580 Cause I've been celibate for a year.

02:36:06.900 So I like kind of completely stopped like dating.

02:36:09.340 So were you dating at that time when you made the video?

02:36:11.220 No, I just met him.

02:36:12.740 He was like a guy that I met kind of like in the wild, you know, not off the dating app.

02:36:16.560 So I was like really looking forward to it.

02:36:18.500 And I think, um, yeah, so I was a little like upset.

02:36:22.920 Cause like, of course I want like love.

02:36:24.700 And of course I want to build a relationship with somebody and like, I would love that.

02:36:28.860 But see, I made a commitment to my son first.

02:36:31.240 So he's my priority.

02:36:32.560 And I stopped making dating a priority.

02:36:34.780 Yeah.

02:36:35.180 Cause these girls are getting way too out of control nowadays with, you know, having their

02:36:39.280 kids heavily involved in all these other relationships that the moms are in.

02:36:42.720 And I'm like, I was like celibate for a year and a half.

02:36:45.440 Yeah.

02:36:45.900 Yeah.

02:36:46.560 You good?

02:36:47.340 You, you overheating over there?

02:36:48.860 Yeah.

02:36:49.240 I am.

02:36:50.580 It's hot in here?

02:36:51.380 Yes.

02:36:52.080 Oh, I'm, I'm nice.

02:36:54.340 I'm feeling pretty good.

02:36:55.400 Maybe so.

02:36:56.060 I'm feeling like, oof.

02:36:57.000 The fluorescent lights.

02:37:00.240 So really quick, I guess, just to finish off that convo thread, Lauren, is it your position

02:37:06.420 that being a single mom, or I guess just even being a mom, do you think I've heard, I don't

02:37:12.580 know if it was Oprah who said this, it's the hardest job in the world.

02:37:16.760 Oh yeah.

02:37:17.680 Being a mom.

02:37:18.600 Well, I can't say.

02:37:21.280 Like the hardest job.

02:37:22.840 No.

02:37:24.540 Is a, I just said no.

02:37:27.200 Well, let's say, cause I don't want to get too fine tuned into hardest.

02:37:31.740 How about compared to the average job, that average job of men, is it harder than the

02:37:40.100 average male job being a mom?

02:37:42.760 I think it depends.

02:37:48.620 Like, because I just think like, if you're in a relationship and you're a mom, then yes,

02:37:54.280 because I think the expectations that women tend to have and hold is difficult to manage

02:37:59.980 in a relationship.

02:38:00.740 And there's an imbalance.

02:38:02.360 I do believe that.

02:38:03.520 Which are those, if you don't mind me asking?

02:38:05.760 Yeah.

02:38:06.000 So I think when women are in a relationship with men, usually that's the thing.

02:38:11.040 I feel like it's every relationship so different, especially like you expressing yours.

02:38:15.200 Yeah.

02:38:15.400 I'm like hearing that, like that totally makes sense to me.

02:38:19.680 If we're talking about an average man's job compared to like an average woman's job, if

02:38:24.940 she's a stay at home mom, then yes, I do think that's harder for a stay at home mom with an

02:38:30.660 average man's income and an average man's job.

02:38:33.100 Yes.

02:38:34.340 How is it harder though?

02:38:36.160 Because of the, all the, um, unspoken labor that women do in relationships, like managing

02:38:43.920 the household, making sure the kids are fed, driving to and from school, things that men

02:38:48.080 don't think about, you know what I mean?

02:38:49.600 Like naturally, traditionally up to this point, which we're kind of changing the game.

02:38:53.980 That's why we're all here, right?

02:38:55.040 We're kind of opening discussion to understand why there's issues in intimacy and relationships.

02:39:00.400 So, um, I, when it comes to the average man's job with the average income compared to the

02:39:07.460 average woman and her, what is the average man's job and income?

02:39:11.520 Um, I would say like 75,000 a year.

02:39:14.940 That's what I think.

02:39:16.060 I don't know.

02:39:16.280 That's average.

02:39:17.180 I don't know though.

02:39:17.980 I, I've just ballparking if it's more than that.

02:39:21.860 But even if, even if it was more than that compared to domestic labor, if you were to break

02:39:26.900 it down, women are doing at home between 150,000 to 200 and $50,000 a year in domestic labor.

02:39:34.860 I've seen, I think your video on this.

02:39:36.540 Yes.

02:39:37.020 So you're saying, well, if you as an individual were to hire a private chef and hire a house

02:39:43.920 cleaner and hire a therapist, I don't know if you include that.

02:39:48.540 Yeah.

02:39:48.640 Yeah.

02:39:48.800 So can you tell us, cause you say, well, women are doing 150 to 200,000.

02:39:52.940 Is that the range?

02:39:54.140 Yes.

02:39:54.460 They're doing 150 to $200,000 of unpaid labor.

02:39:58.060 Yes.

02:39:58.500 Um, what.

02:40:00.540 Including, and most women are working now.

02:40:02.480 Yeah.

02:40:02.660 Can you break down like, uh, the breakdown of that, I guess.

02:40:07.140 Yeah.

02:40:07.580 Cause it's the break, the cleaning, the dishes, the taking care of the kids, the mental load,

02:40:15.300 making sure they're tuned from school.

02:40:16.720 If your kid, like, and I'm a mom, so I know this.

02:40:18.880 Like if your kid has a delay, you have to make sure they're on top of those things.

02:40:22.940 Like women are naturally doing this in relationships.

02:40:26.160 It doesn't even come across a man's brain.

02:40:28.580 Usually they're not, they're not thinking about, oh, we need to book the therapist appointment

02:40:33.740 for our kid.

02:40:34.500 Um, if they, you know, have like autism or something, like they're not thinking about

02:40:37.920 those things.

02:40:38.420 So these are all things that are put onto women, like expectations that are put onto

02:40:42.700 women that costs mental space that doesn't make us as like, um, you know, we just have

02:40:55.320 much more on our plate.

02:40:56.760 So women are doing unpaid labor with kids and in a marriage to the tune of 150 to $200,000.

02:41:05.140 Yeah.

02:41:06.000 I feel like it depends on the child or sorry, not the month.

02:41:08.300 Yeah.

02:41:08.500 Yeah.

02:41:09.220 Yeah.

02:41:10.380 I know I don't have a uterus, but like, I know I don't have a uterus, but like, I would say

02:41:15.680 I feel like a mom is like 24 seven.

02:41:18.340 Yeah.

02:41:18.640 And like, you know, as hard as the job is, cause like there's obviously labor intensive

02:41:22.160 jobs, but, um, like you obviously get a break, you get off work.

02:41:27.140 And I feel like moms, like, I mean, sometimes probably dads too, but like they have to wake

02:41:31.200 up in the middle of the night, especially with younger children.

02:41:33.500 Um, so it's kind of like 24 seven that you're constantly like, and some moms don't get a

02:41:37.920 break when they get home.

02:41:39.420 Latrice, is it, is it, you know, what do you think?

02:41:42.720 I wouldn't know.

02:41:43.840 I honestly, I don't, I don't see the concept of this because it's just weird.

02:41:49.240 Like I, I don't see it because of the fact that it was something that I chose to do.

02:41:54.680 It was something that I chose.

02:41:56.380 I chose to be a mom.

02:41:57.620 I chose to stay at home before that.

02:41:59.280 I was also working, you know, I was, I was working and taking on some of those things.

02:42:03.800 However, when I chose to be at home with my kids, that I knew the tasks that I have

02:42:11.680 to take on as, and the responsibilities as a mother.

02:42:14.720 Now, as far as what my husband does outside, deal with that shit.

02:42:19.340 Cause I don't want it.

02:42:20.800 I'm cool with that.

02:42:22.240 And I feel like though, your situation isn't average.

02:42:25.660 Cause your husband has a very intense job.

02:42:28.220 You know what I mean?

02:42:29.020 So I feel like you're in kind of like not a completely relatable situation because your

02:42:35.200 husband is doing like an intense job.

02:42:37.840 And that makes sense to me.

02:42:39.340 And the reason that I don't want to do domestic labor is because I have a career.

02:42:44.720 That I want to go after.

02:42:45.920 Okay.

02:42:46.120 But I've also been a stay at home mom.

02:42:48.200 I've been a stay at home girlfriend.

02:42:49.460 I've been a stay at home almost wife.

02:42:51.180 So I know what labor that goes into it.

02:42:53.960 So I'm not saying that in like, I mean, do we really want to say that it's that laborious

02:42:59.820 when we got dishwashers and washing machines doing that work for us?

02:43:03.080 I mean, that's true.

02:43:03.840 So what I would do as well is maybe start thinking every day, start clocking in how much you're

02:43:10.960 doing hourly and pay attention.

02:43:13.320 Just pay attention just for like two weeks.

02:43:15.900 And then, and kind of think about how much like domestic labor you're doing, how much

02:43:21.980 mental load you're doing, how much work you're doing.

02:43:25.440 I wash dishes every day.

02:43:26.980 I cook.

02:43:27.880 I don't always cook every day.

02:43:29.380 I usually meal prep every week with my husband.

02:43:32.300 Because in my previous relationship, I cook like three times a day.

02:43:34.420 Yeah.

02:43:34.640 So that's why.

02:43:35.480 We don't always cook because we meal prep.

02:43:37.920 Yeah.

02:43:38.380 Yeah.

02:43:38.640 That's true.

02:43:38.980 There's, there's, there's washing clothes.

02:43:42.260 I do that once a week.

02:43:43.860 Mm-hmm.

02:43:44.260 And I, again, my house stays clean.

02:43:47.280 Yeah.

02:43:47.500 But there's mental labor and like thinking about what kind of meals you're going to do that

02:43:50.960 week.

02:43:51.320 What are you going to shop for?

02:43:52.240 Not really.

02:43:52.980 There's not much when you're in, when it comes to fitness, there's not much you think about.

02:43:56.260 I just see my time differently.

02:43:59.600 So I guess I would, I would agree with you in, in, in terms of like, uh, you know, that's

02:44:05.720 how much it would cost if you would outsource all of these tasks.

02:44:09.140 That's, uh, you know, if a man is entering your life, he's single, you're single, you both

02:44:13.280 don't have children.

02:44:14.140 He will save up, you know, all that money.

02:44:16.180 I'm assuming while you're staying at home, but you already are a single mom.

02:44:20.460 You're already working and doing the labor work at home and doing everything by yourself.

02:44:25.980 If a man is entering your life, he's going to take some of the load off of your shoulders.

02:44:30.260 No, but see, I've been in those relationships while being a single mom.

02:44:33.340 So I still feel like women are still doing more.

02:44:37.420 So I do want to ask you out of curiosity, if, if say, for example, that this person that

02:44:42.580 you end up involved with, say that this person ends up making like astronomical money and he

02:44:50.220 just told you to not really focus too hard on your career and to just be at home and

02:44:55.620 be, and take care of the kids and do whatever, would you decide on that?

02:45:00.220 I just, for me personally, I like, I like feeling like I have something outside of a relationship

02:45:06.220 and that's just me.

02:45:07.700 So that's just my personal idea.

02:45:10.960 I, when I have a baby, if I have another baby, then yes, I want to be home with that

02:45:15.120 baby when they're little.

02:45:15.920 But as soon as they're older and even while my son was a newborn, like I was still working,

02:45:20.540 but even if I was in a relationship and I chose to stay in that relationship, I would

02:45:24.980 have still been working just because that's me.

02:45:29.860 I just, I just don't know if I find that to be very optimal for kids because, you know,

02:45:36.460 kids need to have their mom, kids need to have their parents.

02:45:39.920 I work from home though.

02:45:40.940 So like my work has never been outside the home.

02:45:43.460 I started a business at home for that reason.

02:45:45.380 What is your business?

02:45:46.620 I have a skincare business, but I just moved to coaching.

02:45:49.360 Oh, nice.

02:45:49.780 Yeah.

02:45:50.160 Yeah.

02:45:50.980 What type of coaching?

02:45:52.320 So I do coaching with, for women in business and financial, like building financial autonomy.

02:45:59.200 Okay.

02:46:03.500 On the topic, the, the original video, the, there was this date and the guy canceled a few hours,

02:46:10.600 two hours before whatever.

02:46:13.120 Um, and you, I think your point was that men should, and you, well, your position is men

02:46:18.440 should pay for the babysitter.

02:46:19.820 Okay.

02:46:22.100 Um, we actually, we, we had you, uh, uh, we had you scheduled for two weeks ago.

02:46:30.000 Yeah.

02:46:30.500 Can you tell us what happened?

02:46:32.420 My babysitter canceled.

02:46:34.400 Cause we had you scheduled for, I think our, yeah, December 7th show.

02:46:38.540 Uh huh.

02:46:39.440 And then what happened two hours before our show?

02:46:42.300 I know where this is going.

02:46:43.240 Sorry.

02:46:45.420 Um, my babysitter canceled.

02:46:47.540 And you know, you know that video where you were crying?

02:46:50.820 Yeah.

02:46:51.460 I actually had that same reaction.

02:46:53.880 Oh, you were crying?

02:46:54.600 I was actually, I, I was in tears because this podcast is my baby.

02:46:58.660 Yeah.

02:46:58.940 This is my baby and I, you know, it's really hurtful.

02:47:03.380 I'm just like a father just taking care of my little, my little podcast.

02:47:07.540 Yeah.

02:47:08.540 My, my little podcast.

02:47:10.220 It has, you know, it's, it's, you know, it's in its third year now and it's really,

02:47:13.860 I think your kid's three years old, right?

02:47:15.720 Four.

02:47:16.060 Four.

02:47:16.400 Yeah.

02:47:16.640 Well, I think my podcast, I started in 2022, this like summer of 2022.

02:47:22.300 So 23, 24, 25, it's three and a half years, you know?

02:47:25.720 So it's like, it's, it's, uh, I don't know what, what stage that's called.

02:47:30.040 Is that adolescent?

02:47:33.160 No, that's like old later.

02:47:34.940 Um, the podcast is my little baby.

02:47:37.880 And when you canceled on us like two hours before the podcast, like I cried.

02:47:43.080 Do you have the video next still?

02:47:45.220 Uh, yeah.

02:47:45.900 The, the, the TikTok one.

02:47:47.700 You're lying.

02:47:48.400 Cause you have like seven.

02:47:49.580 No, but I was crying.

02:47:50.900 I was like, how could she do this to me?

02:47:53.660 Like you got to realize as a single father of a podcast, like that's going to have a

02:47:58.440 big, that's going to have a big, male victim card, play from the beginning.

02:48:04.340 And, um, no, but, but this guy canceled on you.

02:48:07.020 If you ever have a date or a date with a single mom.

02:48:09.520 But look, if you, if you ever have a date.

02:48:12.520 My lashes stayed.

02:48:13.900 And I sold so many after that.

02:48:15.220 If you ever have a date with a single father who has a podcast, a little, a baby, a podcast

02:48:19.580 baby.

02:48:19.940 This is my podcast baby.

02:48:21.080 It's still growing.

02:48:22.760 And I think honestly, like, I kind of think that you maybe you said that guy ends up sending

02:48:28.760 you 400.

02:48:29.600 I feel like maybe you could have sent me 400 for the inconvenience.

02:48:34.360 Um, we'll see.

02:48:35.480 I can't say what I, cause like, yeah, so, um, but the thing is, but think about my thing

02:48:41.600 is that's how much you value your podcast.

02:48:45.920 What?

02:48:46.500 That's how much you value your podcast.

02:48:48.680 So you should pay him.

02:48:49.660 No, no, but you canceled on him.

02:48:54.620 You should pay him.

02:48:55.600 Yeah, no, but you have your standards and you said your, you had your values and you

02:49:00.740 set your standards.

02:49:01.480 Therefore, you believe that.

02:49:02.520 Well, I'm not saying you believe that, but see, but he didn't set that up before.

02:49:05.960 He didn't say there was a cancel fee before.

02:49:07.560 No, no, no.

02:49:08.020 To be fair to her, there's no legal, there's no legal obligation.

02:49:11.760 And see, but that's the thing.

02:49:12.840 Maybe you should have, maybe let's take this as a learning experience.

02:49:15.560 And you're telling me that this is how important this podcast is for you next time.

02:49:21.140 Next time you have guests, then you need to set that tone before because if I go on a

02:49:24.520 date, I set that tone before.

02:49:25.900 Well, the issue is though, I mean, practically speaking, um, I agree with you that I've debated

02:49:32.800 this and I've gone back and forth on whether I should charge a deposit or, you know, have

02:49:37.020 them sign up via, sign up for the podcast via square.

02:49:41.260 And in the event of a cancellation, you can charge a late fee or something or not.

02:49:45.820 Well, you could charge a late fee, but you could charge a cancellation fee.

02:49:48.860 Like how, if you book an appointment through square, you can do that.

02:49:51.820 But my, I think my issue is, is there is a component of women who otherwise would show

02:49:59.880 up like they'll a hundred percent show up, but if you introduce a financial component,

02:50:07.680 some people might get cold feet right there.

02:50:09.960 So it's like this balancing act between how do I avoid people canceling, but then is a

02:50:17.640 girl who otherwise would come on the podcast.

02:50:19.680 If I say, Hey, uh, let's say with the deposit, for example, that would be, I definitely think

02:50:24.900 if we charged a deposit, like, Hey, if you want to come on the show, you have to pay us 200 bucks.

02:50:28.940 Um, we'll fully return it.

02:50:32.340 But even if we say it's a hundred percent fully refundable deposit, there's definitely

02:50:36.460 women who they're like, no, I won't do that.

02:50:40.260 Yeah.

02:50:40.580 So I have to balance like accepting a level of flakiness and balance.

02:50:46.700 And ultimately my determination was, I think it, it would not make sense to do a deposit.

02:50:53.100 I think maybe I could get away with like, you know, having them put down a credit card

02:50:57.500 through square and if they cancel, whatever, that might be an option.

02:51:01.160 But in any case, legally, she has no obligation to, I'm just saying from the bottom of your

02:51:05.220 heart, because I was hurting, I was hurting like how you were crying in that moment.

02:51:09.940 I was also very upset.

02:51:11.440 I was crying deeply.

02:51:12.960 Like I, it was, I almost thought about, you know.

02:51:16.900 Where's the video though?

02:51:17.600 Yeah, the video.

02:51:18.060 I knew it was the video.

02:51:18.820 Well, see the difference between men and women is when men cry, women like are very performative.

02:51:23.980 So like if, I don't know why women do this, by the way, why do you guys record your, one,

02:51:29.640 why do you record yourself crying?

02:51:31.140 And then two, why the fuck would you post it?

02:51:33.960 I just, I don't know.

02:51:35.700 If you read those comments though, um, there was a greater purpose to that message of that

02:51:41.260 video about how much like thought that women put into dating and how much mothers put into

02:51:45.760 that dating.

02:51:46.140 Cause if you were to look in the comments, um, you would see some guys say like, Oh, like

02:51:49.780 next time, like I'll think twice.

02:51:51.140 And then you see, you'll see other girls cause I thought about taking it down and you'll

02:51:54.500 see them like, I'm, I'm grateful that you posted something vulnerable because it helped

02:51:58.620 them process them being hurt by being canceled because like, we like to pretend that we're

02:52:02.460 not hurt and it's really quick on that.

02:52:07.300 I can guarantee you, uh, maybe not.

02:52:10.480 Well, who knows?

02:52:11.140 I don't know your level of whatever I'd say for the general mother, but I'd be prepared

02:52:15.860 to say, even for you, trust me, I put more work into this podcast.

02:52:20.500 I believe, I believe, then you put into your kids, guarantee it, guarantee it because there's

02:52:26.900 a fuck ton of mothers and there's very few podcasts like this.

02:52:31.680 If it, it's, it's very easy for women to become mothers and to be mothers and to do that.

02:52:37.280 And if people could do this, then they would do it.

02:52:42.140 So, but your argument is, well, okay, the men should, you know, I spend all this time

02:52:47.000 to the, no, no, no, let's go back.

02:52:48.160 Let's go back.

02:52:48.640 No, cause let's go back.

02:52:49.500 I want to go back.

02:52:50.660 Um, you want my opinion.

02:52:52.780 Then if you don't want people to cancel, then you should make them sign a contract before.

02:52:58.480 Cause if you did before, I would have paid you, but you didn't.

02:53:02.480 Yeah.

02:53:02.620 But again, that, that goes back to what I was saying about, you know, and exactly because

02:53:07.840 then it's a balance.

02:53:09.400 The men who are flaky already canceled themselves out before we even get to the first day.

02:53:14.840 Exactly.

02:53:15.440 Exactly.

02:53:16.000 But then the majority of women are not going to be like signing up their contract because

02:53:20.740 they don't want the obligation of the potential of, you know, cancellation.

02:53:24.980 The issue with like having, we, we do keep it somewhat informal in the sense of our invitations.

02:53:32.360 I mean, you know, we, we're organized with it, but it's not like here, sign this contract.

02:53:38.960 I think when you put a contract in front of somebody, you put legal, legalese, it's going

02:53:43.740 to give people cold feet.

02:53:45.300 It's people that would otherwise be like, yeah, I'm going to come, I'll do the podcast

02:53:49.180 that they're not going to flake.

02:53:50.940 They're going to show up, but you put a contract in front of them.

02:53:53.820 Like then they're going to be like, do I really want to do this?

02:53:59.520 Uh, like what if something comes up, but then I got to pay like a thing.

02:54:03.380 So it is a balancing act on one hand.

02:54:05.480 Yes, if we had the contract in place, uh, of the, of the proportion of people who do

02:54:11.420 sign up to be on the podcast, yeah, we would get less flakes, but we would let, get less

02:54:15.780 people to actually agree to sign up to be on the podcast, but we will get away from the

02:54:20.380 meta conversation of that.

02:54:21.780 There was some, uh, claim.

02:54:24.600 Did I pull up your, did I pull up claims thing?

02:54:27.420 I didn't claim.

02:54:28.600 I'm sorry.

02:54:29.460 Uh, let me, let me do that right now.

02:54:32.180 My apologies.

02:54:33.660 Uh, hello.

02:54:35.480 Wait, wait, did I pull this one up?

02:54:39.640 Lower the volume.

02:54:40.500 Claim donated $200.

02:54:43.160 To clarify, I spent my time in the Marine Corps.

02:54:46.580 I worked construction and now I do something that makes a lot more money.

02:54:51.380 Ran through means I have been with 100 unsatisfied women.

02:54:55.400 Like you didn't satisfy them?

02:54:57.480 What?

02:54:58.340 Yo, Mads, thank you for the gifted 10 memberships.

02:55:00.920 Really appreciate it.

02:55:01.580 And Claim, thank you for the TTS, man.

02:55:03.860 Uh, Semper Fi, man.

02:55:05.540 Uh, that makes a lot more money.

02:55:08.500 What do you do for work, Claim?

02:55:09.660 What do you, what do you do for work, man?

02:55:10.960 Uh, let us know.

02:55:12.080 Uh, who gets to read?

02:55:13.580 You get to read, Nix.

02:55:14.420 Can you read that for us?

02:55:15.740 Have you thought about the unpaid labor that men do around the house?

02:55:18.680 Construction, landscaping, plumber, electrician, pest control, security guard, IT support, chauffeur,

02:55:23.500 mechanic, babysitter, et cetera.

02:55:24.780 And all that is on top of the work done outside the home.

02:55:27.560 That is such a fantastic point.

02:55:32.000 Using Lauren's exact framework, men can also start adding up these sort of ways in which

02:55:40.540 they do various things, unpaid labor.

02:55:43.460 So using your framework, Lauren.

02:55:46.760 Yeah.

02:55:47.780 No, and I think, no, and I think that's a valid point.

02:55:50.400 It's just not every man does all of that.

02:55:52.720 But if he does all of that, like I, what my point is, I just want there to be more balance

02:55:56.880 in relationships and some of the relationships that I've seen my friends in see like where

02:56:01.640 my content usually comes from is like those relationships and seeing women in my life put

02:56:07.880 in more labor and work than their relationships.

02:56:10.480 But can I ask you a question though, because you're, I guess your argument here was in

02:56:16.500 a situation where the woman stays at home and the man goes out to do, uh, you know, he

02:56:22.260 was working, he's the breadwinner, uh, your, your contention was, Hey, women are doing unpaid

02:56:28.900 labor.

02:56:30.600 However, even when a man is the primary breadwinner, the sole breadwinner, he's men are still doing

02:56:38.220 all those things and I don't think you can just ignore these.

02:56:44.240 I'm not.

02:56:44.800 I, well, but you're, you're saying when you brought up the unpaid labor thing, you were

02:56:52.380 saying men go to work and women do all this unpaid labor, but you conveniently ignored

02:56:57.820 or omitted that men do all that unpaid labor.

02:57:02.320 I'm saying if that was the dynamic that he just comes home, but if he's doing stuff at home

02:57:06.960 like that, then that's fine.

02:57:09.420 Well, let's ask Latrice.

02:57:10.580 So Latrice, your, uh, your husband of all these things, um, does he do some of this,

02:57:19.140 some of this stuff?

02:57:20.020 Like he built me a pergola on the backyard.

02:57:22.440 Wow.

02:57:23.080 Because typically even if the man, like the man will do some of the heavier labor around

02:57:28.320 the house, uh, lawn mowing, landscaping, unless you're that chick right there.

02:57:32.300 Um, who's not, who she does.

02:57:34.120 I live in Vegas.

02:57:34.560 We don't even have grass in the front yard.

02:57:36.540 Yeah.

02:57:36.720 But like he'll, your husband does do stuff around the house.

02:57:40.200 Yes.

02:57:40.680 Right.

02:57:41.020 Right now, just today he called me, he FaceTimed me and he was showing that he was organizing

02:57:45.160 the garage.

02:57:45.840 Does your husband own a firearm?

02:57:47.540 Huh?

02:57:48.100 Does he own a firearm?

02:57:49.600 Five.

02:57:50.440 Five.

02:57:51.280 So if I, do you, do you own a firearm?

02:57:54.760 No.

02:57:55.240 Would you date a guy who owns a firearm?

02:57:56.240 Yes.

02:57:56.940 Okay.

02:57:57.200 Have you dated?

02:57:57.960 Yeah.

02:57:58.120 Uh, okay.

02:57:59.120 So it's interesting because you're saying, well, it, for you to have a full-time armed security

02:58:05.880 guard, which is what women have, uh, that's really expensive.

02:58:11.900 Uh-huh.

02:58:12.540 Armed security, armed, like you base, women basically have executive protection for free.

02:58:20.480 That's unpaid labor.

02:58:21.920 In fact, can I ask you a question?

02:58:23.800 Um, uh, yes.

02:58:25.580 In the questionnaire, husband should be willing to die protecting you.

02:58:29.600 Take them.

02:58:29.880 Yes.

02:58:30.280 Take the bullet.

02:58:31.220 Yeah.

02:58:31.380 Would you do the reverse for him?

02:58:32.840 No.

02:58:33.880 Hmm.

02:58:34.640 So hold on.

02:58:35.320 Even if you love it.

02:58:36.300 Hold on.

02:58:36.900 So he has to be, he's doing unpaid labor of being, because think about it, this, well,

02:58:42.880 he's not protecting me at all times, but if I hire, um, somebody to do executive protection,

02:58:49.180 close protection.

02:58:50.280 So executive protection is essentially a bodyguard armed executive protection.

02:58:58.240 There's not like, if, if I was out in public, there's not threats coming at me all the time.

02:59:03.560 Most bodyguards do really nothing, but I mean, they're being vigilant, but they're, I don't

02:59:11.080 want to diminish what they do.

02:59:12.500 Like, but there's not an immediate threat at all times when you're a bodyguard for the

02:59:17.880 most part, when you're a bodyguard, executive, doing executive protection, armed security,

02:59:22.520 there's things are okay.

02:59:25.200 Things are fine.

02:59:25.960 I'm not, I shouldn't say they're doing nothing, but I've dated guys like this too.

02:59:28.960 Like they're very protective and they like scan the room for you and like, they let you

02:59:32.380 be a girl.

02:59:33.100 But if we're talking about unpaid labor, if I wanted to hire 24 seven security, that's,

02:59:39.080 that's hundreds, I think hundreds of thousands of dollars a year.

02:59:43.100 And you know what the thing is where my content's coming from is women in unbalanced relationships.

02:59:49.260 I've never said that men also don't pull their weight at home because like my stepdad growing

02:59:54.320 up, I've never seen that man take a nap.

02:59:56.720 You know what I mean?

02:59:57.340 Cause he woke up at 4am, he worked hard, came home and did things on the weekend.

03:00:02.300 That was a balanced relationship.

03:00:04.440 And it sucks waking up early in the morning.

03:00:06.680 Yeah, no.

03:00:07.160 And so my content's coming from, I was in a DV situation.

03:00:11.480 Most women that follow me are in DV situations or they're with men who don't contribute at

03:00:16.800 home.

03:00:17.260 So where my content's coming from is that, but when it's like that, no, 1000% and that's

03:00:22.800 a balanced relationship.

03:00:24.400 Let me add this.

03:00:25.500 Sorry.

03:00:26.360 So oftentimes people don't see what's like not point out to them.

03:00:30.660 And so if they say he doesn't contribute, you know, to the home or whatever, but you

03:00:36.340 don't even point that out.

03:00:37.560 You just say, this is the amount of work that we do that is unpaid, that this is the equivalent

03:00:42.580 of, you know, the, the value of it.

03:00:45.720 If we, if you were to outsource of these jobs, but you don't do the same thing for men, meaning

03:00:51.840 that you don't point it out to your viewers.

03:00:55.680 So they don't even, it doesn't register to them because you're not pointing it out.

03:00:59.420 No.

03:00:59.860 And I think that's, you know, I've, I've thought about approaching my content a little

03:01:03.400 bit more balanced, like moving forward, but primarily my audience is women.

03:01:07.780 So I just never really thought about that side, if that makes sense.

03:01:11.120 Well, you're, you're a feminist, right?

03:01:13.760 Um, I would say like, it depends on like what people define.

03:01:17.340 Come on.

03:01:17.940 Your content is in your videos.

03:01:20.300 You say you're a feminist.

03:01:21.160 I am a feminist.

03:01:22.260 No.

03:01:22.520 Yeah.

03:01:22.820 And it just also depends on like how people define like feminism as well.

03:01:26.120 Cause I feel like people define it in different ways.

03:01:28.060 Um, here, we're going to move on, but, uh, we have M1 Garand ask everyone to rate their

03:01:35.620 own looks face, body total on the scale of one to 10.

03:01:41.660 You can't pick seven.

03:01:43.840 Uh, so rate your own looks.

03:01:47.160 Do, do your face, do your, so I need three numbers, face, body total scale of one to 10.

03:01:53.220 I'm going to do zero.

03:01:54.340 I'm not, I'm going to opt out on this.

03:01:55.700 Come on.

03:01:56.180 Be, no, zero.

03:01:57.820 Be honest.

03:01:58.560 No, because I've dated people from all shave sizes.

03:02:02.660 What does that have to do?

03:02:03.540 Like you think you are.

03:02:05.320 Yeah.

03:02:05.480 What does that have to do?

03:02:06.240 You look in the mirror and you think you're a baddie.

03:02:10.160 Come on.

03:02:10.720 You can't say you don't.

03:02:12.000 Wait, wait, wait.

03:02:12.540 It's you're, you're rating your own looks.

03:02:15.040 Yeah.

03:02:15.220 Your looks.

03:02:15.900 Yeah.

03:02:16.020 Zero.

03:02:16.900 I'm not going to rate based on how others perceive you.

03:02:19.240 How, what would you rate yourself?

03:02:20.740 I'm going to rate myself zero.

03:02:22.140 I'm not going to rate myself.

03:02:22.880 Oh, come on.

03:02:23.280 You can participate.

03:02:24.200 That's crazy.

03:02:25.080 No, no, I don't want to.

03:02:26.360 Okay, fine.

03:02:26.900 Then I think it's fair for me to ask, what is your objection to this question?

03:02:31.040 Um, just because I think that it's, we shouldn't rate ourselves.

03:02:36.500 I feel like it's a rage baby question.

03:02:38.320 It's not a rage baby question.

03:02:41.440 I feel like it, I feel like it just, everyone has different types.

03:02:44.360 And so like, I'm obviously going to think of myself in a high regard and know that my

03:02:49.600 partner is going to think the same way.

03:02:51.360 So I'm not going to like have a number because like, I might say something and then someone

03:02:55.500 online, you know, called me a four and then back.

03:02:58.380 Okay.

03:02:58.700 It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks.

03:03:00.080 Yeah, we're asking what you think.

03:03:03.120 Your own subjective opinion.

03:03:05.440 Yeah.

03:03:06.440 Okay.

03:03:07.380 Then 10.

03:03:08.060 Okay.

03:03:08.860 Well, I didn't really hear much of a justification, I guess, but.

03:03:12.020 Oh, she said 10.

03:03:13.320 Huh?

03:03:13.500 Yeah, I said 10.

03:03:14.080 She said 10.

03:03:14.560 Oh, well, face, body.

03:03:16.500 10, 10, 10.

03:03:17.280 Okay.

03:03:17.580 Thank you.

03:03:17.980 What about you?

03:03:20.040 Six, six, six.

03:03:22.700 Not in a, not in a bad way.

03:03:24.400 Uh, yeah.

03:03:26.720 Okay.

03:03:27.000 Um, I think, I high key want to say 11, 11, 11, but yeah.

03:03:35.340 Oh, I love it.

03:03:37.260 Uh, so 10.

03:03:38.520 Yeah.

03:03:38.940 For, for all.

03:03:40.760 Okay.

03:03:41.400 What about you?

03:03:42.420 Uh, six across the board.

03:03:44.580 Okay.

03:03:45.120 What about you?

03:03:46.600 Um, I would say probably eight across the board.

03:03:51.540 Okay.

03:03:52.000 What about you?

03:03:53.040 I would say four across the board.

03:03:55.500 All right.

03:03:55.900 What about you?

03:03:56.940 I would say like six.

03:03:58.720 Okay.

03:03:59.200 You?

03:04:01.940 What is the averages?

03:04:03.360 Like five is average.

03:04:05.280 Five is average.

03:04:05.480 Five is average.

03:04:06.440 Yeah.

03:04:06.620 So like, oh gosh, I should have thought of this.

03:04:12.880 Um, I don't know.

03:04:14.300 One, one, one.

03:04:15.300 Oh, come on.

03:04:16.100 Let's be real.

03:04:16.760 Let's be realistic here.

03:04:18.720 No, like what?

03:04:19.940 One, one, one is that's the percentage of people who fall into one, one, one would be

03:04:25.680 really small.

03:04:27.180 And that's very ugly.

03:04:31.460 You're nowhere near that.

03:04:34.200 I don't know.

03:04:34.980 So, okay.

03:04:37.300 That's what I rate myself.

03:04:38.440 So your face and your body, you would say your face and body is very ugly.

03:04:45.080 No, like.

03:04:46.140 That's the entailment of one, one, one.

03:04:49.380 Like shockingly ugly.

03:04:52.600 Like this is, if you see a one, you don't see ones very, that's like the ugliest person

03:04:59.520 you've seen in three years.

03:05:01.400 We're talking about.

03:05:01.900 That's, that's what.

03:05:02.880 That's a one.

03:05:03.740 Like warts and hunchback and everything.

03:05:06.600 Yeah.

03:05:06.720 Well, it's one to 10.

03:05:08.120 Rate yourself on a scale of one to 10.

03:05:09.540 Oh, yeah.

03:05:10.020 So one is.

03:05:12.380 One is a generational ugly.

03:05:14.920 Mm-hmm.

03:05:15.700 Okay.

03:05:16.060 If you can't escape it.

03:05:17.440 I don't know.

03:05:18.200 Do we have to.

03:05:19.020 It's a hard question.

03:05:21.940 Because like, I, like I never look at myself in the mirror and go like, oh yeah, I'm like,

03:05:26.440 I'm beautiful.

03:05:27.860 You know what I mean?

03:05:28.560 Like.

03:05:29.220 I get, I get what she's saying though.

03:05:31.180 Cause I'm not really heavy on the mirror myself.

03:05:33.100 Right.

03:05:33.420 But.

03:05:34.160 Okay.

03:05:34.760 Like, I'm not saying.

03:05:35.500 So that.

03:05:36.380 You look in the mirror and it's like, okay, I don't think I'm beautiful.

03:05:39.860 Okay.

03:05:40.240 Do you think you're about average?

03:05:42.420 That would be five.

03:05:43.140 Do you think you're a bit above average?

03:05:44.480 That's a six.

03:05:45.160 You think you're a bit below average?

03:05:46.600 That's a four.

03:05:49.600 I don't know.

03:05:51.460 What?

03:05:52.160 Guess then.

03:05:52.840 Just throw out a number.

03:05:54.400 That's not.

03:05:55.320 One is ridiculous.

03:05:56.600 How about two?

03:05:57.180 All right.

03:05:59.480 Thank you for burning three minutes of our time here.

03:06:02.200 Oh my God.

03:06:03.340 No, like I'm being serious.

03:06:07.340 Okay.

03:06:08.040 But.

03:06:08.840 All right.

03:06:09.380 Oh, thank you.

03:06:09.880 You're beautiful.

03:06:11.380 Thank you.

03:06:11.520 Okay.

03:06:12.000 Um, so we have my, uh, she deserves a 10.

03:06:16.240 We have a 10, a 10, eight.

03:06:18.120 Um, question for you.

03:06:19.820 I, I know this, I don't know.

03:06:20.860 Is that a cross necklace that you're wearing?

03:06:23.040 Mm-hmm.

03:06:23.540 Are you Christian?

03:06:24.660 No.

03:06:25.500 Oh, okay.

03:06:26.060 I just like the little pearls.

03:06:27.380 Okay.

03:06:27.900 Uh-huh.

03:06:28.340 Uh, we have a 10, a 10, and an eight, uh, 10 across the board, 10 across the board,

03:06:32.560 eight across the board.

03:06:32.960 It's interesting that, like, people can't.

03:06:38.060 I thought the, breaking it down by face, body, total might result in, like, okay, my face

03:06:45.320 is a seven, my body's a six, whatever.

03:06:47.040 But, okay.

03:06:48.200 Um, we'll continue testing that out.

03:06:51.320 Um.

03:06:51.640 Um, going around the table, uh, look for the 10, the 10, and the eight.

03:06:57.940 Can you tell me a woman who you think is a 10, like a, maybe a celebrity we can think

03:07:02.820 of, a 10 and an eight?

03:07:06.040 Hmm.

03:07:08.880 Oh, sorry.

03:07:09.620 Um.

03:07:10.380 I love this artist named Ravina, and I think she's a 10.

03:07:15.160 Okay.

03:07:16.120 What about you?

03:07:16.560 Um, I, I gotta say Rihanna, Beyonce.

03:07:21.380 Oh, wow.

03:07:21.980 Billie Eilish.

03:07:24.060 Yeah.

03:07:24.900 Okay.

03:07:25.200 What about you?

03:07:26.460 Um, I honestly don't know.

03:07:29.360 Hmm?

03:07:31.160 I try to think really hard, but I can't.

03:07:34.360 Caitlyn Jenner?

03:07:36.620 For real?

03:07:37.280 Yeah, and I give myself an eight, because I feel like the fact that I was born, like,

03:07:43.360 biologically a boy, like, you know, I have more of a disadvantage, and I feel like I still

03:07:48.060 did a pretty good job.

03:07:49.020 Girl, would you look like a 10?

03:07:51.240 Thanks.

03:07:52.820 Okay.

03:07:53.400 All right.

03:07:53.680 But no one's perfect, so I'm not going to give myself a 10.

03:07:55.720 Uh, I had a note on this that I wanted to get into.

03:08:00.640 Hold on.

03:08:01.000 Where is it?

03:08:02.060 Uh, Nick, do you have photos of any of those people?

03:08:04.420 Yeah, I have.

03:08:05.100 I don't know if you want to.

03:08:07.100 What about, uh, Lawrence?

03:08:08.820 Ray Vena.

03:08:09.340 Ray Lena or something?

03:08:10.320 Ray Vena.

03:08:10.980 R-A-E-V-E-E-N-A.

03:08:14.660 She's a singer.

03:08:16.120 Who's?

03:08:16.680 I think I know who that is.

03:08:17.920 Yeah, yeah.

03:08:18.600 She does, like, very, like, soul and, like, sensual music.

03:08:22.120 I've never heard of this person.

03:08:26.440 I don't listen to mainstream too much.

03:08:28.720 Okay, we'll skip it.

03:08:29.780 We'll skip it.

03:08:30.680 Can you tell me a guy who you think is a 10, a 10, an 8?

03:08:35.580 Whoever has it first, just blurt it out.

03:08:37.320 Oh, I don't know his name.

03:08:39.920 I don't know the name of any.

03:08:41.820 Like a celebrity who, you don't have to, just a guy who you think is a 10, an 8.

03:08:50.520 I think, I like Jeff Whittig.

03:08:51.980 Michael B. Jordan.

03:08:52.800 But he's, like, an influencer.

03:08:53.760 Jeff Whittig.

03:08:54.020 Michael B. Jordan.

03:08:54.940 He's funny.

03:08:55.720 Michael B. Jordan.

03:08:57.300 Okay, that's her league, I guess.

03:08:59.940 Jeff Whittig, her league.

03:09:01.140 What about you?

03:09:04.720 I don't know, like, Timothy Chalamet.

03:09:06.560 Oh, yes.

03:09:07.740 Timothy.

03:09:08.820 Okay.

03:09:09.620 All right.

03:09:10.200 I feel like he's me.

03:09:11.100 We don't need to Google those.

03:09:12.600 People can figure it out.

03:09:15.080 Have you seen him with his hair shaved, though?

03:09:17.460 Wait, can I?

03:09:18.360 He doesn't look good.

03:09:19.200 Can I ask you one, make one polite request of you?

03:09:24.020 Sorry.

03:09:26.780 These quips that you put out, if it's not material to the conversation, can we not, like, waste time?

03:09:38.580 Or, like, Timothee Chalamet's haircut is not material to the conversation at hand.

03:09:46.680 I'm happy to have you contribute if it's substantive, but Timothee Chalamet's hair is not the topic of conversation.

03:09:55.960 Okay.

03:09:56.200 Is that fair?

03:09:57.360 Okay.

03:09:57.880 Because there's been a lot of quips, and how about this?

03:10:09.680 How do I go about this?

03:10:14.380 I'll only do it with your guys' permission.

03:10:17.780 Would you guys be open?

03:10:19.180 And I won't be intentionally malicious or rude or mean or anything like that.

03:10:23.680 I will be, I'll keep my tone neutral.

03:10:28.700 I'll keep it polite.

03:10:30.600 I will be fair.

03:10:32.760 Even if I disagree with you, I won't intentionally be like, well, I disagree with this person, so I'm going to say something mean to, no.

03:10:38.760 I will try to be as fair, impartial as I can.

03:10:43.180 I'll give you a rating, and I'll include, I'll try to include more positives than negatives, but I'll give you,

03:10:50.440 and you can opt out of the actual breakdown.

03:10:54.440 I'll give you a number rating.

03:10:55.960 I'll give you a positive characteristic and a negative characteristic.

03:11:00.260 Who's down to opt in?

03:11:05.800 For a rating?

03:11:07.180 Do you want to do it?

03:11:08.480 No.

03:11:08.880 No?

03:11:10.060 You don't have to nitpick it.

03:11:11.380 You can rate me, yeah?

03:11:12.860 That's it.

03:11:13.820 Do you opt in?

03:11:15.360 Yeah.

03:11:15.900 Opt in?

03:11:16.620 Opt in?

03:11:17.380 Opt in?

03:11:18.420 I'm cool with it.

03:11:19.340 Sure.

03:11:20.000 Okay.

03:11:20.820 All right.

03:11:21.480 So, Lauren opts out, unfortunately.

03:11:26.500 I know.

03:11:27.180 You would have loved it if I...

03:11:28.640 I thought you'd be a good sport, but...

03:11:31.340 And then do we all go after?

03:11:33.320 Yeah.

03:11:33.760 Can we, like, make comments on what you say?

03:11:36.040 Sure.

03:11:36.520 Or no, we can rate you after.

03:11:37.540 Yeah, you can rate me.

03:11:38.600 Wait, what do you rate yourself?

03:11:40.020 Oh, yeah.

03:11:40.460 That's right.

03:11:40.820 I forgot.

03:11:41.220 I give myself a 4.5.

03:11:42.880 Why?

03:11:43.600 4.5.

03:11:44.700 Face body total.

03:11:46.060 Yeah, face body total.

03:11:47.000 What?

03:11:47.920 Oh, yeah.

03:11:49.200 I'd say, hmm.

03:11:51.680 Hmm.

03:11:53.040 That's a good one.

03:11:54.660 You know what?

03:11:55.420 I'll do...

03:11:55.860 Because you guys went across the board, I'll go across the board.

03:11:59.540 I'll go across the board on it.

03:12:02.360 It could be the case that, like, face 4.75, body 4.25.

03:12:07.800 I mean, the primary thing, at least for me, as to my determination here, is I need to lose weight.

03:12:13.660 No getting around that.

03:12:14.500 Need to lose a bit of weight.

03:12:16.800 I would thin that on my face.

03:12:18.500 Obviously, thin that on my body.

03:12:20.360 So, need to lose weight.

03:12:24.620 In terms of...

03:12:25.860 I mean, there's not much else in terms of body to just...

03:12:29.500 Yeah, got to lose weight.

03:12:30.560 A little chubby.

03:12:31.680 Although, body 1 positive would be I'm tall.

03:12:35.020 I'm 6'1".

03:12:36.320 But, yeah, I'm chubby right now.

03:12:38.660 I got to lose weight.

03:12:39.760 And then face.

03:12:42.100 Positives, I would say blue eyes, striking eyes.

03:12:47.440 Although, related to eyes, weak under eye area, bags.

03:12:52.540 I got some products for you.

03:12:54.460 I got some products.

03:12:55.040 Yeah, yeah.

03:12:55.980 Was it neutral, canthel tilt?

03:12:57.940 For my age, hair still in decent condition.

03:13:02.280 So, that's kind of...

03:13:03.600 How old are you?

03:13:04.340 36.

03:13:05.320 Oh.

03:13:05.920 You can't tell.

03:13:07.660 So, still...

03:13:09.540 Yeah, you know, I'm probably going to lose it soon here, but...

03:13:12.920 Soon?

03:13:13.660 Why?

03:13:14.400 Sorry.

03:13:14.860 I'm getting older.

03:13:15.760 People lose their hair as they get older, so...

03:13:17.960 Men.

03:13:18.680 But, we'll see.

03:13:20.020 And then, let's see.

03:13:23.680 Oh, negatives.

03:13:26.580 Poor skin clarity.

03:13:28.620 I have some redness.

03:13:29.660 I have some skin flakiness, whatever.

03:13:34.000 I mean, the fat face is a little chubby due to the weight.

03:13:38.100 I have decent symmetry.

03:13:42.860 That's a positive.

03:13:44.980 Decent eyebrows.

03:13:48.560 But...

03:13:49.160 Oh, big nose.

03:13:50.120 Yeah, that's a big one.

03:13:51.300 Big nose.

03:13:52.700 Positive or negative?

03:13:53.500 Big nose.

03:13:54.860 Eh.

03:13:55.920 But he doesn't.

03:13:58.940 And...

03:13:59.420 I think I'll leave it there.

03:14:01.080 But, essentially...

03:14:02.480 Yeah, that's...

03:14:03.040 So, that's my own rating.

03:14:04.200 And those are some positive negatives that I would say I have.

03:14:09.540 Let's see.

03:14:10.980 Okay.

03:14:11.360 So, the ratings for you.

03:14:13.100 You know, it's difficult because...

03:14:14.940 I think people will have certain aesthetic inclinations.

03:14:20.180 And, you know, it's funny.

03:14:21.380 I actually don't...

03:14:22.880 When I was younger, I kind of liked women who had color in their hair.

03:14:26.480 But, it was more so...

03:14:28.580 At least when I was a bit younger, that meant that she was, like, into rock music.

03:14:34.440 Now, it doesn't always mean...

03:14:37.760 That's true.

03:14:38.280 But, it can mean that she's a crazy liberal lady.

03:14:43.520 Or, like, a raging feminist.

03:14:45.600 Or, mental illness.

03:14:47.720 Back then, it was daddy issues or rock music.

03:14:51.920 So, you know, there's that.

03:14:54.180 So, I'm trying to think, though.

03:14:57.880 And then, the bangs...

03:15:00.260 Are bangs a negative?

03:15:02.800 I think, in terms of the male gaze, men generally...

03:15:06.460 I mean, maybe that's what she's going for, right?

03:15:08.740 But, men generally don't like bangs.

03:15:12.960 Like bangs, period?

03:15:13.840 Or, like, straight across?

03:15:15.340 It's also, you are wearing a lot of makeup.

03:15:17.240 So, it's hard to give, like, a determination.

03:15:20.040 At the end, are you going to remove your makeup?

03:15:22.160 You got to me last time.

03:15:23.260 During the makeup segment?

03:15:24.880 I think...

03:15:25.720 You had me last time.

03:15:27.920 It's hard.

03:15:28.980 If somebody's wearing, you know...

03:15:30.660 You're wearing a lot of eye makeup, right?

03:15:32.440 So, it's a bit hard.

03:15:33.480 I want to say, though.

03:15:34.760 Can you turn face that way?

03:15:37.120 You have a very good nose.

03:15:38.560 Unfortunately, you've...

03:15:39.960 With the septum piercing, that, you know...

03:15:42.240 You have a good nose, though.

03:15:43.880 You have a good nose.

03:15:45.860 Oh.

03:15:46.820 Oh, okay.

03:15:47.400 You know, I'd be curious.

03:15:51.920 Have you ever seen those videos where they'll have, like, a makeup artist and somebody who's, like...

03:15:57.220 Oh, they make them normal?

03:15:58.640 Make them normal.

03:15:59.400 Yeah.

03:15:59.840 I'd be curious.

03:16:00.640 I think you...

03:16:01.000 Someone do that with me.

03:16:01.900 You could do...

03:16:02.440 I'll do it with you.

03:16:03.200 I'll do it.

03:16:03.380 I think you obey.

03:16:04.220 You have a really good base.

03:16:05.860 You have good symmetry.

03:16:07.020 You have nice eyes.

03:16:08.240 Thank you.

03:16:08.500 Good face shape.

03:16:09.540 Thanks, Brian.

03:16:10.040 I had braces, so my teeth are straight.

03:16:14.100 You have nice teeth.

03:16:15.360 I would say one...

03:16:16.200 Perhaps one slight negative.

03:16:18.160 Thin lips.

03:16:18.740 Thin lips.

03:16:19.220 Yeah, I was going to say thin lips.

03:16:20.380 Your bottom lip is not...

03:16:22.160 But the upper lip could be a bit thicker.

03:16:24.160 Yeah.

03:16:24.920 Is this autistic, by the way?

03:16:27.000 Yes.

03:16:27.780 Yes.

03:16:27.980 A little bit.

03:16:28.900 No, but I actually...

03:16:29.920 I'm white, so I don't know.

03:16:30.520 I think you have a really solid base.

03:16:32.420 So...

03:16:32.940 Oh, are we doing, like, body, too?

03:16:36.040 I feel like that's...

03:16:36.940 That's a little...

03:16:37.600 Okay.

03:16:37.960 Is that a bit much?

03:16:38.940 Yes.

03:16:39.220 I mean, if you want to do...

03:16:40.560 If you want to, like, stand up and do a fit check, otherwise it's kind of hard to do.

03:16:44.140 We can do fit checks, yes.

03:16:46.420 Honestly, to rate body, it's kind of hard.

03:16:48.960 I'm not going to rate body.

03:16:49.960 I'll just keep it to face, but congrats, I guess.

03:16:53.600 You didn't hurt on me.

03:16:54.960 Honestly, I'm trying to, like, do a visual removal of the...

03:17:00.540 The makeup?

03:17:01.400 Is that a wig?

03:17:02.780 No, it's not a wig.

03:17:04.840 Honestly, I want to say, like, six.

03:17:08.020 I think, face, six, maybe 6.5 for you.

03:17:12.700 It's hard, because you guys are wearing...

03:17:14.040 Like, you're wearing a lot of stuff, but...

03:17:14.520 I can show you a picture of me with no makeup.

03:17:16.800 You guys asked me to come in this exact makeup look.

03:17:19.980 Are you...

03:17:20.320 Is it a wig?

03:17:21.320 Yeah, you guys asked me to come in the same hair and everything.

03:17:23.180 Yeah, yeah, we asked for the wig, yeah.

03:17:24.160 Because I usually have my red afro out and stuff.

03:17:27.180 That's fine.

03:17:27.860 And I usually go minimalistic with makeup.

03:17:29.800 Can you turn your face to the side, so I can see the side profile?

03:17:32.660 She's so pretty.

03:17:33.180 Can you pull your hair back on this side?

03:17:37.740 Okay.

03:17:38.300 And are you wearing color contacts?

03:17:40.420 Yeah, these are my actual, like, seeing contacts.

03:17:43.120 Okay.

03:17:43.720 Because...

03:17:44.360 You can leave that thing on.

03:17:45.400 You can leave the thing on.

03:17:46.300 It's fine.

03:17:48.520 Okay, so...

03:17:50.560 Good eyes.

03:17:55.220 Good eyes.

03:17:56.100 I'm assuming, do you shave those into your eyebrows?

03:17:58.900 Yeah, I did them.

03:17:59.340 They're not, like, scars or whatever.

03:18:01.440 Good eyes.

03:18:02.680 Good eye area.

03:18:06.500 Obviously, there's differences when it comes to race, like, in terms of the phenotype.

03:18:12.120 I would say strong, like, good nose.

03:18:15.700 You've got a good nose.

03:18:17.280 Are you full black, half black, or...?

03:18:19.120 I am African, and I am Native American.

03:18:26.080 Okay, gotcha.

03:18:29.580 I'm going to give you...

03:18:30.740 I think I give you, like, for the...

03:18:35.500 Hmm.

03:18:36.400 We don't have a lot of black women on the show, so it's...

03:18:39.740 I give you, like...

03:18:45.140 Oh, man.

03:18:47.140 She's very pretty.

03:18:49.120 Yeah, I have to, like, consider...

03:18:51.480 Okay.

03:18:53.040 We'll tread carefully.

03:18:53.820 She's really gorgeous.

03:18:54.800 I don't know.

03:18:55.080 She's really pretty.

03:18:55.920 Yeah.

03:18:56.340 I almost feel like I might need to adjust your score up a bit.

03:19:00.020 Huh?

03:19:00.540 Yeah.

03:19:01.740 What did I say?

03:19:02.420 Six or 6.5?

03:19:03.760 Like six, yeah.

03:19:04.560 I might...

03:19:09.300 I don't know, man.

03:19:13.260 Shit, I don't know.

03:19:15.920 You know, it's hard.

03:19:17.000 I might have to bump you up.

03:19:18.420 You know what?

03:19:18.760 I'll do a range.

03:19:19.660 6.5 to 7.

03:19:21.080 Oh, my God.

03:19:21.380 I'm going to say 6.75 to 7.

03:19:25.240 You here...

03:19:26.180 By the way, glow up since last show.

03:19:28.400 I was about to ask you that.

03:19:29.720 What do you...

03:19:29.960 Okay.

03:19:30.200 What do you think my rating was at the last show?

03:19:32.740 Well, I mean, the style, the aesthetic was...

03:19:35.420 I mean, obviously, your face is your face.

03:19:37.000 You didn't probably really change anything.

03:19:39.040 You're just stylistically different.

03:19:40.780 The makeup's different.

03:19:41.640 The hair is different.

03:19:43.780 So, ultimately, you're still you.

03:19:45.480 But, I mean, you had a bit more of, like, a sort of alt-goth look before?

03:19:50.300 I do want to say...

03:19:51.080 I didn't change.

03:19:52.860 Like, I literally did that same makeup look last night.

03:19:55.860 Last night?

03:19:56.720 Oh, okay.

03:19:57.440 So, just for this.

03:19:58.520 Yeah.

03:19:58.860 So, I just, like...

03:19:59.380 Okay.

03:19:59.680 So, you're wearing fake lashes?

03:20:01.040 Yeah.

03:20:01.360 Did you draw your eyebrows on?

03:20:04.300 Like, they're, like, shaved down.

03:20:06.220 Like, they're stylistic.

03:20:07.240 But, those are my brows.

03:20:08.920 Okay.

03:20:10.120 Let's see.

03:20:12.640 Rating.

03:20:13.040 It's also hard.

03:20:20.420 Y'all are wearing full faces of makeup.

03:20:22.400 Like, y'all...

03:20:22.940 But, who did you ask to come and make up?

03:20:25.200 Not makeup, but...

03:20:25.840 You asked us to come and...

03:20:26.940 Right?

03:20:27.340 Well, not totally.

03:20:27.680 Ask us to dress up.

03:20:28.800 Oh.

03:20:29.280 Not totally.

03:20:29.820 No, you asked me to wear this exact makeup look.

03:20:31.600 And the hair.

03:20:32.000 We asked for the hair, I think.

03:20:33.400 I forgot exactly what...

03:20:34.440 Yeah.

03:20:35.280 The only reason I did the makeup was because you guys asked.

03:20:37.140 No, no.

03:20:37.300 But, I'm not...

03:20:37.980 But, I'm saying it's hard to do the rating with, like, full, full face of makeup.

03:20:42.240 But, okay.

03:20:45.640 Very strong eye area.

03:20:48.280 I mean, again, with the phenotype, though, like, there is going to be...

03:20:52.640 Can you turn your face that way?

03:20:55.880 Okay.

03:20:56.300 I mean, you have, like, a Filipino-Asian phenotype.

03:20:59.840 Yep.

03:20:59.940 So, that's going to entail, like...

03:21:02.780 Like, flat nose.

03:21:04.080 Yeah.

03:21:04.500 Your nose from the side profile is a bit flat.

03:21:07.340 Yeah.

03:21:08.600 Although, shape-wise, I think, at least from the front, quite good.

03:21:13.240 Very good smile.

03:21:15.820 No, thank you.

03:21:16.640 Perhaps a slightly a bit gummy.

03:21:19.400 Maybe a little bit gummy of a smile, but...

03:21:21.240 Kind of, yeah.

03:21:21.900 I have braces.

03:21:22.500 Lips, quite strong.

03:21:23.660 Very strong lips.

03:21:26.520 Good, strong symmetry.

03:21:29.540 Strong...

03:21:30.180 Hey.

03:21:31.560 Strong...

03:21:31.920 I mean, you're wearing makeup, but skin clarity looks pretty solid.

03:21:35.960 I will say, like...

03:21:37.240 If someone has, like, unclear skin, you can kind of tell.

03:21:39.720 I'm not...

03:21:39.960 With the makeup?

03:21:40.480 I'm not wearing foundation.

03:21:41.580 I'm wearing skin tint.

03:21:42.460 Okay.

03:21:42.820 It's different.

03:21:43.620 I mean, again, this is just aesthetic.

03:21:45.660 I think septum piercing...

03:21:46.880 I haven't heard of something like that.

03:21:47.700 The septum piercing, I'm not going to...

03:21:49.400 Wait, can I flip it up?

03:21:50.660 Sure.

03:21:51.640 But just as...

03:21:52.760 Oh!

03:21:54.220 It's like magic.

03:21:56.000 Hey, that's my magic trick.

03:21:57.160 It disappears.

03:21:58.380 I think generally men dislike the septum.

03:22:01.300 Yeah.

03:22:01.640 No?

03:22:02.240 At least, I'm speaking from the male gaze perspective.

03:22:04.500 Oh, I remember your conversation from last show.

03:22:06.840 You skipped hers, but you gave them trouble for it.

03:22:10.820 You skipped hers totally.

03:22:13.560 You did not mention one.

03:22:14.820 I have one.

03:22:15.200 It's very small.

03:22:16.800 Sure, yeah, okay.

03:22:17.540 I keep it small for the model.

03:22:19.280 All right.

03:22:20.160 Fair, but, like, he mentioned theirs, but he didn't mention yours.

03:22:23.940 So, anyways, I honestly, I think...

03:22:27.840 I think seven.

03:22:32.060 Wow.

03:22:32.820 I think seven.

03:22:33.700 See, I wanted to say seven, but you guys say...

03:22:35.520 Don't say seven.

03:22:36.180 You know what?

03:22:36.700 Am I being too generous?

03:22:38.300 Okay, wow.

03:22:39.440 Like, in a second...

03:22:40.480 Nick, did you say yes?

03:22:41.860 Oh, my God.

03:22:42.700 Okay.

03:22:43.900 6.75.

03:22:45.000 6.75.

03:22:46.240 I think I am being...

03:22:47.160 6.75.

03:22:48.820 Oh, I mean, I guess you're...

03:22:50.880 I don't know if I...

03:22:51.940 Like, you kind of got a dick, so I don't know if I should...

03:22:54.980 You don't have to.

03:22:56.020 Eh, fuck it, whatever.

03:22:58.440 It's look.

03:22:59.520 You're doing the look.

03:23:00.700 You're doing the face.

03:23:01.480 I think you're a chick, to be honest.

03:23:04.440 So, I don't know.

03:23:06.840 I can't...

03:23:07.160 Can I rate a trans person?

03:23:08.780 I don't know.

03:23:08.920 Yes.

03:23:09.320 Why not?

03:23:09.640 She identifies as a girl, first of all, and she said you can.

03:23:12.980 She gave you permission.

03:23:14.200 You rate the face.

03:23:15.420 Yo, Chad, am I being too generous?

03:23:17.500 Am I being too nice?

03:23:18.680 Oh, my God.

03:23:19.880 Am I being a little too nice?

03:23:21.440 I don't know.

03:23:21.620 It don't matter what they think.

03:23:22.520 It's what you think.

03:23:23.380 Yeah.

03:23:23.720 Negative Nancy over here.

03:23:24.820 All right.

03:23:25.260 Nice eye area.

03:23:27.620 Nice nose.

03:23:31.200 I think...

03:23:32.080 Do you have lip filler?

03:23:33.420 I don't.

03:23:34.560 I was thinking about it, but I guess I don't even know.

03:23:37.040 It's the way she does her liner.

03:23:38.820 It's just lip liner.

03:23:41.040 Bro, I can't rate.

03:23:42.200 I don't know if I...

03:23:43.240 I'm going to skip you, I think.

03:23:45.380 I got to skip you.

03:23:45.540 Go ahead and say 10.

03:23:47.320 That means it's a 10.

03:23:48.540 Yeah.

03:23:49.400 No, it's not.

03:23:50.040 No.

03:23:50.200 Oh, my God.

03:23:51.520 Oh, my God.

03:23:52.060 Let us play.

03:23:53.060 That's crazy.

03:23:55.080 What if you just say, hypothetically, I am trolling?

03:23:57.920 Then what would it be?

03:23:59.400 If I was trolling?

03:23:59.860 If you're actually a chick?

03:24:00.720 Yeah.

03:24:01.360 But obviously, like, I understand that me being trans is like a circumstance that could lower

03:24:05.940 it.

03:24:06.840 But hypothetically...

03:24:07.680 Yeah, I wouldn't know how to even rate a trans person, so I think I'll skip.

03:24:12.120 Okay, for you.

03:24:14.500 Huh?

03:24:14.920 But she's saying, hypothetically, she's trolling you.

03:24:18.760 She's just a girl.

03:24:20.300 Yeah, I know.

03:24:20.900 I heard her say it.

03:24:22.320 But why would you still skip?

03:24:25.320 Are you my mom?

03:24:26.700 No.

03:24:27.500 Hello?

03:24:28.220 I'm skipping.

03:24:29.180 I'm skipping.

03:24:29.800 Okay, fine.

03:24:30.400 All right.

03:24:31.060 For you...

03:24:32.000 All right.

03:24:34.460 And then, you'll be the last one.

03:24:45.580 You have a unique look.

03:24:51.800 What's your ethnicity background?

03:24:54.560 Are you part black?

03:24:56.160 Yeah.

03:24:56.460 My mom's black and my dad's Hispanic, Mexican.

03:24:59.960 Okay.

03:25:01.820 Oh, you're the same.

03:25:04.460 You rated...

03:25:06.900 I want to do the breakdown for you.

03:25:11.300 Can you stand up?

03:25:13.220 You want me to stand up?

03:25:14.100 Sure.

03:25:14.500 Okay.

03:25:14.860 I'll give you a rating for...

03:25:16.240 I'll...

03:25:17.460 Okay, you're not a four body.

03:25:21.640 I think that's...

03:25:24.180 At minimum, you're average five.

03:25:26.400 But I actually think I'd probably give you...

03:25:28.700 I mean, you're...

03:25:30.120 I'm not going to give you too much of an up and down glance.

03:25:32.580 But come on.

03:25:33.860 You're not a four body.

03:25:34.900 That's ridiculous.

03:25:37.520 I think your face rating is probably a bit accurate.

03:25:41.920 I might bump you to 4.25, 4.5.

03:25:48.360 I think your total...

03:25:50.020 If I give you a four face and a six body, I would give you a total of five.

03:25:54.880 Okay.

03:25:55.160 Putting you at average.

03:25:56.140 Okay.

03:25:56.500 In total.

03:25:57.460 And then I'm going to skip the rest.

03:26:02.120 Can I rate you?

03:26:03.560 Yeah, it's our turn.

03:26:04.600 Oh, I mean...

03:26:06.540 Dang, skipping me and I agreed.

03:26:09.860 Well, it takes a while.

03:26:11.540 Okay, sure.

03:26:12.060 If you want to rate me, go ahead.

03:26:13.560 Okay.

03:26:14.060 So, coming from a model stance...

03:26:17.580 Model stance, okay.

03:26:18.880 Yeah, like, if I were to pick somebody for a job or just, like, how I view people differently

03:26:25.200 because of how others have viewed people, like, in the modeling industry, yeah.

03:26:32.700 I would say that you, four, four on the face.

03:26:38.920 Okay.

03:26:39.100 I would say three in the body, but zero in fit.

03:26:46.620 You could totally put more personality into that.

03:26:49.260 Zero in fit, okay.

03:26:50.920 Does fit go in the body?

03:26:52.520 Yeah.

03:26:53.180 Yeah.

03:26:53.780 Yeah, I prioritize comfort over...

03:26:57.100 I honestly just don't care.

03:26:58.880 We know.

03:26:59.220 Hell yeah.

03:26:59.700 Yeah.

03:27:00.160 Comfort over everything.

03:27:01.280 So, sweatpants, yeah, I don't really...

03:27:06.100 Not a priority for me, so...

03:27:07.860 But, okay, cool.

03:27:08.740 Yeah.

03:27:10.200 That's fine.

03:27:11.360 I wish you would rate me.

03:27:13.280 Because I just want to know.

03:27:14.640 I've never...

03:27:15.180 I'll pass.

03:27:15.600 I'm going to pass.

03:27:16.360 I'm not going to take the bait there, but, yeah.

03:27:19.060 I'll clip.

03:27:19.900 That's great.

03:27:20.300 Yeah.

03:27:20.700 How about the rest of us?

03:27:23.580 Fine.

03:27:24.100 I guess I'll do it really quick, then.

03:27:25.900 Okay, Latrice.

03:27:27.100 What?

03:27:28.400 You gave yourself a six.

03:27:32.060 I'll just do face for the both of you.

03:27:39.160 Four.

03:27:40.360 And then for you...

03:27:47.200 Four point...

03:27:48.840 No, I mean, I'll try to be reasonable.

03:27:50.520 I'd just say 4.5.

03:27:51.860 Okay.

03:27:52.060 If it's...

03:27:52.760 I'll take it.

03:27:54.440 Yeah.

03:27:55.740 Okay, good.

03:27:56.440 That was a good...

03:27:57.120 Good talk.

03:27:58.520 Good talk.

03:28:00.040 All right.

03:28:02.720 Trying to think.

03:28:04.420 Wasn't there something else we were...

03:28:06.780 Bro, I'm going to...

03:28:07.760 Okay.

03:28:08.140 Yeah.

03:28:08.440 Can you...

03:28:09.020 No, it's okay.

03:28:09.400 Tell us.

03:28:09.780 Tell us.

03:28:11.420 It's okay.

03:28:11.820 Tell us.

03:28:12.340 It's okay.

03:28:13.480 It's fine.

03:28:13.680 Can you what?

03:28:14.200 What is it?

03:28:14.980 I wanted to ask if I can ask you a question, but you're already mad, so...

03:28:19.260 It's your show.

03:28:20.200 No, no.

03:28:20.760 Look, I don't want to, like, scare anybody off from participating.

03:28:25.460 I do think...

03:28:28.700 I don't know if I'm...

03:28:30.320 I don't know.

03:28:31.060 Nick?

03:28:31.860 It's been a bit...

03:28:32.760 What's up?

03:28:34.540 There is a tendency you seem like you need to chip in on everything a little bit.

03:28:45.780 Okay, go ahead.

03:28:46.840 Just ask it.

03:28:47.600 Just ask it.

03:28:50.460 All right.

03:28:51.000 So, you mentioned earlier that you started the show, like, three years and a half ago or

03:28:55.140 so...

03:28:56.040 I've seen a video.

03:28:56.740 I thought it was, like, 10 years ago.

03:28:58.460 You were, like, very fit, very cute, I guess, and you rated yourself, like, 6.9, and you

03:29:05.520 said the reason is because you could lose some weight, but you only gained weight since

03:29:10.300 then, so why aren't you losing weight, I guess?

03:29:16.460 Again, I'll answer your question, but I don't find this particularly material to the...

03:29:22.200 Now we're having a conversation about weight loss.

03:29:25.660 So, yes, earlier when I started the podcast, I weighed less.

03:29:31.980 My rating was higher of me when I was thinner.

03:29:36.240 There was a period as the weight started to accrue, I guess, over time, I've started rating

03:29:42.920 myself lower and lower, so I guess to answer your question, yes, it was the case, like,

03:29:50.040 two years ago or whatever, three years ago, yeah, I needed to lose weight then, and I still

03:29:54.480 need to lose weight now.

03:29:56.040 Okay.

03:29:59.000 But, okay, all right.

03:30:03.420 It's because you entered the body rating as well, but, like, you obviously care, but you

03:30:08.160 don't really care.

03:30:11.340 What do you mean?

03:30:12.340 No, it's okay.

03:30:14.480 What?

03:30:14.980 You're saying you're not working on yourself, that's it.

03:30:16.780 There you go.

03:30:18.500 I guess the question is, like, is there value in, like, what your rating is?

03:30:21.520 Like, does it matter?

03:30:22.240 Does it have bearing on you?

03:30:23.980 I don't think that's what she's getting at, but...

03:30:26.840 I was trying to devil's advocate.

03:30:28.460 No, I mean, to answer your question or your statement, I don't think that there...

03:30:37.220 So this idea that...

03:30:40.280 By the way, I'm self-aware on this topic, but this idea that, oh, well, only, like, 10

03:30:47.520 out of 10 models can give a rating, that logically, that doesn't make sense.

03:30:52.900 Yeah.

03:30:53.120 Um, logically, regardless of your own physical attractiveness, or lack thereof, you can make

03:31:01.620 a determination, regardless of how good-looking or not good-looking you are, if somebody else

03:31:07.600 is good-looking.

03:31:08.600 Right, but the question is, do you think that, like, do you think your looks matter to your

03:31:14.780 value as a person, is what I was trying to ask.

03:31:17.220 I mean, you would be trying to lose weight, right?

03:31:19.940 Yeah.

03:31:20.160 Because why does your rating matter if it doesn't add to your value, you know what I mean?

03:31:24.160 Wait, I'm not following.

03:31:25.880 Okay, if...

03:31:26.680 We're all rating looks here, so what's the purpose of that?

03:31:29.360 You care about looks.

03:31:30.060 Because why...

03:31:31.460 I care...

03:31:32.340 Well, sure, I care.

03:31:32.920 Why are you not going to the gym every day?

03:31:34.320 Like...

03:31:34.480 Wait, that's completely ridiculous.

03:31:36.780 Don't you want to look better?

03:31:38.100 Shouldn't a person want to look better?

03:31:38.960 No, yes, I agree, and yes, I should lose weight.

03:31:42.520 Okay.

03:31:43.400 However, I don't see how this has anything to do with my ability to make a determination.

03:31:48.480 No, you can't make it.

03:31:49.160 No, I did not say that.

03:31:50.680 I did not say that.

03:31:51.940 The question was just...

03:31:52.880 So, are you guys trying to be my personal trainer?

03:31:54.780 Should looks matter?

03:31:54.920 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:31:55.180 Are you guys trying to be my motivator?

03:31:56.700 No, the question...

03:31:57.020 Because yes, I don't...

03:31:57.980 There's no disagreement that I need to lose weight.

03:31:59.720 You believe in looks strongly.

03:32:01.800 Do you not?

03:32:02.560 For women, you believe in looks strongly when it comes down to looks.

03:32:05.360 I think looks matter for both men and women.

03:32:07.780 Yeah.

03:32:08.060 Okay.

03:32:08.260 I think...

03:32:09.340 But I'm not sitting here calling myself a 10 when I'm clearly overweight.

03:32:13.500 That's not what's...

03:32:14.260 That's not what's happening here.

03:32:15.660 You want to look good, though.

03:32:16.760 I guess to my point...

03:32:18.280 I don't understand the logic there completely.

03:32:21.640 To my point, I guess in the same video, that's why I'm coming from this idea.

03:32:25.700 In the same video, you kind of revert to the woman who rated themselves higher, saying...

03:32:31.140 So you're saying that there's no room for improvement, yet you are aware since then that there's room for improvement, but you're not taking steps towards that.

03:32:40.740 So what's the point of rating ourselves?

03:32:44.020 Like, regardless of the...

03:32:44.660 How does that logically...

03:32:45.840 How does that lead...

03:32:47.220 Are you basically saying that him judging...

03:32:49.660 You're basically saying that him judging based on looks, yet he's not improving?

03:32:54.000 No, I'm talking about his rating to himself.

03:32:56.220 I could be morbidly obese and still have this conversation.

03:32:59.560 No, no.

03:32:59.580 I'm talking about your rating for yourself.

03:33:03.220 I'm confused.

03:33:04.320 What about it, bro?

03:33:05.760 Okay.

03:33:06.700 No, explain it.

03:33:08.040 See?

03:33:09.180 No, but you're not making...

03:33:10.680 Like, I can have a conversation if somebody's being at least somewhat rational and reasoned and logical.

03:33:16.080 I am not even understanding the basis of your statement or question.

03:33:21.880 No, I'm saying that when you mention, at least in that, you know, segment that I saw, that you said to the women who rated themselves, like, they gave themselves high rate, that, you know, they are saying there's no room for improvement and you are giving yourself less than what you should, I guess, because you think that you need to lose weight.

03:33:43.060 So there's room for improvement, but you're not improving yourself.

03:33:46.880 So what I just said earlier, you're saying that he's mentioning it, yet he's not.

03:33:53.800 Yeah.

03:33:54.320 So, yes, that was the question I said earlier.

03:33:57.440 I know that you are aware.

03:34:00.060 If you're aware, I'm not saying that.

03:34:00.860 No, no, no.

03:34:01.000 I don't.

03:34:01.600 I understand your point.

03:34:04.140 All right.

03:34:04.760 I don't understand your point.

03:34:06.140 Brian, she's basically saying, like, why is it that, you know, you're speaking on them improving themselves if you're not improving yourself?

03:34:13.720 Wait, what?

03:34:16.300 That, okay, logically, that's not even coherent.

03:34:18.840 I didn't even, I didn't even give any prescription for any of the women at the table.

03:34:24.140 Right.

03:34:24.480 Right.

03:34:24.600 To lose weight.

03:34:25.860 So I don't.

03:34:27.140 This is why I think this entire, and, like, why I didn't participate, I think this entire thing, like, shouldn't even be a conversation or continue to happen.

03:34:34.660 I mean, I think there's nothing wrong with it.

03:34:36.520 I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

03:34:38.860 Like, it's your opinion.

03:34:39.700 Nothing wrong with sharing an opinion on how you rate somebody or how you rate yourself.

03:34:43.560 Regardless of it, when it comes down to relationships, there's always going to have to be physical attraction being the number one thing.

03:34:48.740 Yeah.

03:34:49.000 And I think it's also important to point out that, like, looks shouldn't matter to your value as a person at all.

03:34:53.940 So really, like, not to say that looks don't matter, but, like, they shouldn't hold bearing over you, I guess.

03:35:00.000 Your value as human doesn't change based on your looks.

03:35:05.340 We agree.

03:35:05.640 Moral value, but if we're having, like, a conversation about hierarchies and the dating landscape and pretty privilege and this sort of thing, of course it's the case that if you're good looking, you're probably going to fare better in dating.

03:35:20.420 Actually, they've done studies.

03:35:21.820 You're going to fare better in career.

03:35:23.980 You're going to have even non-romantic, you know, people are more likely to be friends with you.

03:35:28.480 People are more likely to trust you.

03:35:30.280 If you're in, like, a criminal proceeding, people are more likely to believe somebody who's better looking versus ugly.

03:35:36.140 There's all kinds of, like, pretty privilege that exists.

03:35:39.860 And I think in dating it makes sense, but pretty privilege as a concept in society otherwise, I feel like that I don't...

03:35:45.560 You reject pretty privilege?

03:35:47.280 Like, I don't like that.

03:35:48.980 Like, I think you shouldn't be treated differently outside of a dating aspect because of your looks.

03:35:53.300 Well, we can have a conversation about what should be, but that would be prescriptive, what should be the case.

03:36:01.240 But if we're speaking descriptively, what is, it is the case that if you're good looking, even outside of dating, if you're good looking, that's going to confer a ton of benefits.

03:36:15.460 And I agree that that's a concept, but, like, just it shouldn't be.

03:36:18.900 Well, I mean, we can talk about what should be, but, I mean, I'm more interested in what is.

03:36:24.120 Sure.

03:36:24.940 Because, I mean, I don't think we're going to, you know, that's going to be something that we can really do anything about.

03:36:31.760 Okay.

03:36:32.020 So, yeah.

03:36:37.020 But do you, descriptively, do you agree?

03:36:39.520 Or descriptively, do you disagree?

03:36:41.160 I agree pretty privilege exists.

03:36:43.540 Okay.

03:36:44.160 Yeah.

03:36:44.720 Yeah.

03:36:45.260 I wasn't disagreeing with that.

03:36:46.840 I still don't understand what your question was.

03:36:50.740 Was it just, like, Brian, why aren't you working out or losing weight?

03:36:54.320 Is that the question?

03:36:56.340 I don't know.

03:36:57.400 No.

03:36:58.360 So, what was the question?

03:37:01.540 Okay.

03:37:01.980 Let's circle back around this one.

03:37:04.200 Yeah.

03:37:04.680 Okay.

03:37:04.920 I already explained it.

03:37:06.020 If you think that people who rate themselves, like, 10 or 8 or whatever, they are saying that they don't have room for improvement, but you're already aware that, I don't know, a couple years ago, that you do have room for improvement, but you're not taking steps towards making that happen.

03:37:25.380 So, what's the point of, like, disagreeing with other people regarding their own rating?

03:37:30.260 Like, the whole rating thing is, like, irrelevant at this point.

03:37:33.420 Wait, wait, wait.

03:37:34.200 Hold on.

03:37:34.800 That is totally logically incoherent.

03:37:39.020 Completely logically incoherent.

03:37:40.800 So, your argument is, Brian, three years ago, you rated yourself a 6.5 and you were thinner, but even then, you needed to lose weight.

03:37:51.020 It's two, three years later, you've gained a bit of weight since then, you still need to lose weight.

03:37:56.540 You shouldn't do the looks rating segment because of this.

03:38:00.120 No, that's not.

03:38:00.960 That's literally.

03:38:01.880 Hold on.

03:38:02.160 It sounds like that's what you're saying.

03:38:03.500 Is that not what she just fucking said at the end?

03:38:06.560 Guys, he's falling for the rage, babe.

03:38:07.760 No, I said that you disagree with people's ratings for themselves because, at that time it said, at least, not this time, but at that time it said, because they are saying there's no room for improvement if they rate themselves high.

03:38:25.820 You know what I mean?

03:38:26.160 But the difference is that you're conveniently ignoring is that I rate myself a 6 or a 5 or a 4, whatever it is, 4.5.

03:38:34.440 That would be the entailment of that built in is that if I call myself a 6, that would indicate that there's room for improvement, and I've acknowledged that.

03:38:44.740 Okay, fair.

03:38:46.020 But can't you still have room for improvement at a 10?

03:38:49.260 No, that's not how that would work.

03:38:50.960 Her argument is, well, Brian, you're saying that the women who are 10s, if they said that there are 10s, and by the way, I have a whole bunch of reasons why I object to the 10 rating, but these women who are 10s, they're saying that they don't have any room for improvement.

03:39:05.340 What would that have to do with my own rating and the fact, like it's completely logically incoherent, my lacking of having improved in the past two to three years?

03:39:17.760 I mean, it's hard to lose weight.

03:39:22.340 Okay.

03:39:24.220 No, no, but I don't think she's, she didn't say, I don't think the question is, Brian, why haven't you lost weight?

03:39:31.180 I don't think that's the question.

03:39:33.780 I'm confused.

03:39:34.280 That is not the question, no.

03:39:35.560 So that's not the question.

03:39:36.900 No.

03:39:38.000 So.

03:39:39.220 Oh, okay.

03:39:40.100 I think, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

03:39:41.480 I think I'm starting to collect it.

03:39:43.860 I think I'm starting to collect it.

03:39:45.160 Look around different levels.

03:39:46.220 Give me a moment, give me a moment while I try to figure this one out.

03:39:49.700 Give me a second, give me a second.

03:39:51.180 So she's basically stating that if you knew during the time that you were rating yourself

03:39:58.280 like about a six or seven and you knew there were, there was room for improvement, why didn't

03:40:05.240 you apply that years later?

03:40:08.020 What?

03:40:08.760 But then.

03:40:09.080 Is that the question?

03:40:09.800 Why is she?

03:40:10.600 Okay.

03:40:11.220 What is, hold on, hold on, hold on.

03:40:12.760 Um, but she prefaces this by saying, she prefaced, this is prefaces this by saying, Brian, when

03:40:20.580 women say that there are 10, they have no, you say that they have no room for improvement.

03:40:26.400 Maybe that's like a convenient distraction.

03:40:30.000 I don't know.

03:40:31.320 Okay.

03:40:31.680 What the fuck does that have?

03:40:32.800 Those are two completely separate.

03:40:35.420 Correct.

03:40:35.900 They are not related whatsoever.

03:40:39.120 So I don't know why you preface it with this.

03:40:42.060 What is the cost of tea in China?

03:40:44.180 What does that have to do with the conversation?

03:40:46.980 So what I'm saying is that you are disagreeing with other people's own ratings, even though

03:40:52.920 they did not say that they have, or they see a room for improvement, but you are challenging

03:40:58.460 them saying that they should see that though.

03:41:01.720 You do see that for yourself, but you're not working on it.

03:41:05.040 You think you have something, but you have literally nothing.

03:41:09.380 You think in your brain, you have something, but there's nothing there.

03:41:15.320 That's why I had to break that down.

03:41:17.560 That's why I had to break that down earlier, Brian, is because that's what she was saying.

03:41:21.380 I'm not saying that I agree with what she said.

03:41:23.820 I don't agree with it.

03:41:24.900 But I'm just like...

03:41:25.860 You know what?

03:41:26.720 I just want to say you're high maintenance.

03:41:29.400 You are a high maintenance woman.

03:41:30.620 Yes, before the show, you sent us a DM demanding, in a very demanding manner, that those two

03:41:39.220 mannequins, those dolls we have back there, you said, I have to find it.

03:41:43.900 I was not demanding.

03:41:44.980 I have to find this shit.

03:41:46.540 I asked politely, but he got upset.

03:41:49.220 Wait, was it you that one who replied?

03:41:51.560 You didn't ask?

03:41:52.460 Where?

03:41:53.880 You've got a funky attitude, lady.

03:41:56.820 So this is...

03:41:58.220 Let's see.

03:41:59.360 Hold on.

03:41:59.980 Let me find the notes here.

03:42:00.940 You're not the only one on the spectrum.

03:42:04.060 Okay.

03:42:04.540 Well, that's helpful to know now that I'm dealing with an autistic person.

03:42:08.800 Great.

03:42:09.380 Two autistic people fucking being autistic together.

03:42:13.300 It's a fucking...

03:42:15.300 Oh, my...

03:42:16.140 Holy shit, bro.

03:42:17.800 You have Asperger's?

03:42:18.480 Holy shit.

03:42:20.500 Probably.

03:42:21.220 Okay.

03:42:21.820 So, like a week before the show, you write to us, you've noticed...

03:42:26.180 You say, I've noticed there are some sex dolls in the...

03:42:30.280 And you write, I would appreciate if we remove those on the 21st.

03:42:35.860 I don't want them in my background, please.

03:42:39.540 Those are your words verbatim.

03:42:40.780 So, my issue was...

03:42:42.180 So, I said I would appreciate...

03:42:43.860 Like, I was being polite and nice.

03:42:44.540 That's not a...

03:42:45.080 Hold on.

03:42:46.380 That's a demand.

03:42:47.640 No, it's not.

03:42:47.760 Let me help you out with the English language.

03:42:49.760 I know...

03:42:50.060 What, do you speak Arabic first?

03:42:51.100 Yeah.

03:42:51.440 Arabic for first language.

03:42:52.460 Let me help you out a little bit.

03:42:53.780 You saying, I would appreciate if we remove those.

03:42:56.680 That's not a question.

03:42:57.980 That comes across like a demand.

03:43:01.240 No, it's not.

03:43:01.340 Like you're bossy.

03:43:02.100 Yeah.

03:43:02.360 And then, when you say, I don't want them in...

03:43:04.520 What was I doing?

03:43:05.060 Hold on.

03:43:06.260 W.

03:43:06.620 W Latrice.

03:43:07.700 Sorry.

03:43:08.140 When you say, I don't want them in my background, please, exclamation mark.

03:43:14.840 There was never a question mark, exclamation mark.

03:43:19.260 I don't want them in my background, please.

03:43:22.740 See, I was very polite.

03:43:24.420 Hold on.

03:43:24.500 Wait, wait, wait.

03:43:25.020 No, no, no.

03:43:25.640 It's not your background.

03:43:27.440 It's my background.

03:43:29.800 Right.

03:43:30.280 And once you said that, I said, okay, it's your show.

03:43:33.560 Like, I do shows with other magicians.

03:43:36.060 If we disagree, that's fine.

03:43:37.600 So, look.

03:43:37.920 It's my show.

03:43:38.280 This ain't your show, lady.

03:43:39.800 This ain't your show, lady.

03:43:40.980 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:43:41.340 It's your show.

03:43:41.660 Hear me out.

03:43:42.180 Hear me out.

03:43:42.640 Because this is what it would sound...

03:43:43.800 Hold on.

03:43:44.280 Hold on.

03:43:44.640 Because this is what it would sound like.

03:43:46.100 Because you saying it like that does sound very demanding.

03:43:49.060 It would have been a little different.

03:43:50.540 You would have said, hey, Brian, I know this is your show.

03:43:54.280 However, those dolls back there, they kind of make me a little uncomfortable.

03:43:58.420 Is there any possible way that I could not be in that shot?

03:44:01.980 Can I hire you?

03:44:02.320 Thank you.

03:44:04.800 Look, you're writing my stuff.

03:44:06.760 Did you want her to let you finish your sentence?

03:44:09.280 No, no, no, no, no.

03:44:09.920 I was just like...

03:44:11.600 It's just you have to be able to break it down that way.

03:44:14.000 Like, when it comes down to asking for something politely.

03:44:16.720 If you're asking something of somebody that they have no obligation to do,

03:44:23.440 you need to come correct.

03:44:25.440 Like, I have no obligation to do anything with those dolls.

03:44:28.800 Like, the dolls back there.

03:44:30.640 I don't have to.

03:44:31.880 You got to come, like, in a way that sort of is...

03:44:36.560 I don't know if acquiescing is the right word.

03:44:38.740 I don't know if...

03:44:40.520 Anyways.

03:44:41.420 It's how you articulate what you say.

03:44:43.240 You got to, like, my background.

03:44:45.920 It's not your background.

03:44:47.320 This is my background.

03:44:49.100 How are you going to...

03:44:50.600 Shit, bro.

03:44:51.600 You...

03:44:52.120 Damn.

03:44:54.200 Anyways.

03:44:54.440 Mike, I mean, if you really think about it.

03:44:56.600 Oh, and then what else?

03:44:57.920 Oh, okay, guys.

03:44:58.980 This...

03:44:59.080 Oh, hold on a minute.

03:44:59.800 One second, one second.

03:45:01.160 There's more?

03:45:02.240 No.

03:45:02.900 Hold on.

03:45:03.520 Last night, while I'm struggling to sleep,

03:45:06.520 he messaged me at 1 a.m., mind you,

03:45:10.320 asking me to bring some magic stuff.

03:45:12.120 But after, I already prepped everything,

03:45:14.840 and they told me to, like,

03:45:15.920 not even to bring a purse or whatever,

03:45:17.840 to bring, like, a small...

03:45:18.840 I'm like, just, like, last second.

03:45:20.780 I'm like, I have my stuff.

03:45:21.720 I just did a magic show.

03:45:22.900 I brought everything back home,

03:45:24.560 just, like, everything, like...

03:45:25.360 Oh, a deck of cards.

03:45:26.280 Oh, my God.

03:45:27.220 A deck of cards.

03:45:28.080 Look, you have a deck of cards?

03:45:29.880 I got a deck of cards.

03:45:30.720 Okay, bring your deck of cards.

03:45:31.500 I got a fucking deck of cards.

03:45:32.080 Why are you asking me?

03:45:33.020 We're already bickering.

03:45:33.820 We're like a married couple here.

03:45:35.060 Oh, my God.

03:45:35.520 We're already married.

03:45:36.240 It's like we've been married for 10 years.

03:45:37.940 So, anyways, look, I'll just say this.

03:45:40.520 I was...

03:45:40.960 The reason I messaged you then

03:45:42.500 is because the night before the show,

03:45:44.700 I compile all my notes,

03:45:46.680 and I saw that you said you do magic.

03:45:50.440 And so I was like,

03:45:50.980 oh, she does magic.

03:45:51.680 Okay, she can do magic for the show.

03:45:53.440 But hold on.

03:45:54.100 Let me get to this, right?

03:45:55.420 So, before the show, you're like,

03:45:57.280 I want to sit here.

03:45:58.600 I want to sit on that side.

03:45:59.800 That's my good side.

03:46:00.380 Like, it's crazy.

03:46:02.800 You're a little high-maintenance.

03:46:03.740 I'm just letting you know.

03:46:04.580 Well, I don't...

03:46:05.280 It's okay, though.

03:46:05.980 First of all, I don't like myself,

03:46:07.860 but, like...

03:46:09.380 That's something you should say.

03:46:11.580 I have a side that I prefer.

03:46:13.960 But you were like, man...

03:46:14.740 And you put me on my bad side.

03:46:16.180 Yeah, but you're like, yo...

03:46:17.100 And that's why I was like,

03:46:18.020 I put you right here.

03:46:19.740 But, but...

03:46:20.880 I wanted this, like, my better side.

03:46:25.040 But that's high-maintenance, man.

03:46:27.220 Anyways, whatever.

03:46:28.060 Whatever.

03:46:28.360 I'm sorry.

03:46:28.800 The girls are loving this conversation.

03:46:31.960 For...

03:46:32.320 Do you have a private chat?

03:46:33.140 I did not get your private chat.

03:46:35.360 What...

03:46:35.880 Let me take a look.

03:46:37.680 The website.

03:46:37.940 Can I hold a doll?

03:46:39.320 No.

03:46:40.300 Oh.

03:46:41.220 10 years, 20 years, AI, Bumble.

03:46:43.340 The website?

03:46:44.200 Can you...

03:46:45.040 The magic website.

03:46:45.920 Oh, sure, sure.

03:46:47.380 Okay, super quick.

03:46:48.280 We're going to pull up her magic website

03:46:49.620 if you want to book her for your quinceanera bar mitzvah.

03:46:52.260 No, I need to update the website.

03:46:54.040 Ah, too late.

03:46:55.140 Pull it up.

03:46:56.760 So, guys, if you want to book her...

03:46:58.580 Oh, no, Nick.

03:46:59.300 Oh, okay.

03:46:59.900 Home tab.

03:47:00.520 Home tab.

03:47:01.780 It's okay.

03:47:02.280 Keep it there.

03:47:02.740 Keep it there.

03:47:03.720 Just keep it there.

03:47:04.320 You can just click it.

03:47:05.480 I don't even remember what's in there.

03:47:07.340 Oh, my God.

03:47:07.780 I have not updated it.

03:47:08.060 Is that a fucking fedora?

03:47:10.880 Nope.

03:47:11.640 There you go.

03:47:11.980 No way you have one here.

03:47:14.260 Put that on.

03:47:14.660 Put that on.

03:47:15.440 Oh, you look good.

03:47:16.940 Oh, wow.

03:47:17.840 I'm going to have to book her.

03:47:18.400 Actually, that does look good.

03:47:19.560 I'm not going to have to book her, guys.

03:47:22.260 Has anybody ever told you...

03:47:23.520 Never mind.

03:47:24.160 What?

03:47:25.160 Told me what?

03:47:26.400 Never mind.

03:47:26.940 Don't worry about it.

03:47:27.200 Brian, I feel like I know what you're going to ask.

03:47:29.060 Please don't ask.

03:47:29.620 Say it.

03:47:31.380 The singer?

03:47:32.440 Yes.

03:47:32.960 Wait, really?

03:47:33.660 MJ.

03:47:34.520 You kind of...

03:47:35.120 Michael Jackson?

03:47:36.820 I don't mind.

03:47:37.660 With the hat.

03:47:38.700 She looks like Michael Jackson.

03:47:39.320 No, listen.

03:47:39.760 My bullies, my side-to-man bullies, they always tell me that I look like Michael Jackson.

03:47:45.280 So, I get that.

03:47:46.300 That's okay.

03:47:46.800 I love Michael Jackson.

03:47:47.540 I got to stop doing that.

03:47:50.260 I actually met Michael Jackson when I was younger.

03:47:52.340 What?

03:47:52.680 Not fair.

03:47:53.300 I was jealous.

03:47:53.920 I didn't mean him.

03:47:54.760 Yeah.

03:47:55.300 I'm very jealous.

03:47:56.020 He didn't touch me, by the way.

03:47:58.100 Oh, what?

03:47:59.700 That's not fair.

03:48:01.340 And he didn't get touched?

03:48:02.480 Yeah.

03:48:03.100 I want a handshake.

03:48:03.940 I want a hug.

03:48:04.680 Like, I'm right.

03:48:05.080 That's not what he meant.

03:48:06.820 No.

03:48:07.440 We're talking about the allegations of what he had.

03:48:09.760 That's not fair.

03:48:12.000 He didn't get touched.

03:48:13.020 That's not fair.

03:48:13.940 This girl.

03:48:14.820 This girl.

03:48:14.920 I totally forgot about that, but it wasn't real.

03:48:17.320 I mean, not real, but it didn't.

03:48:18.240 Dave Chappelle actually has a joke on this.

03:48:21.120 It's a little...

03:48:21.840 You guys want to hear it?

03:48:23.060 It's a little...

03:48:25.040 No.

03:48:25.920 It wouldn't be the worst you said in the show.

03:48:27.840 Well, okay.

03:48:28.440 So, I'm going to totally butcher it.

03:48:30.080 By the way, Dave Chappelle just dropped a new special.

03:48:32.600 I don't know if you guys...

03:48:33.980 I don't know if you watched it.

03:48:34.860 He's kind of woke.

03:48:36.400 Dave Chappelle's kind of woke.

03:48:38.440 Like, on some stuff, he's based, but he's kind of woke.

03:48:41.280 Okay.

03:48:41.960 Like, in a bad way.

03:48:43.360 I don't know.

03:48:44.100 He's a great comedian, but I don't know.

03:48:47.040 He's kind of...

03:48:47.660 Some of the race stuff.

03:48:49.020 Kind of woke.

03:48:50.220 Wokey.

03:48:51.900 So, Dave Chappelle...

03:48:53.260 I don't know.

03:48:53.980 It's kind of...

03:48:55.720 Fuck it.

03:48:56.140 I'm going to skip the joke.

03:48:56.940 Say it.

03:48:57.480 No, no, no, no.

03:48:58.320 You already started it.

03:48:59.520 Here, take the hat off.

03:49:00.360 Take the hat off.

03:49:02.380 But, uh...

03:49:03.340 I'm sorry.

03:49:03.780 Anyways, the magic website.

03:49:05.420 Yep.

03:49:05.900 We...

03:49:06.460 Yep.

03:49:07.120 And then just click on the...

03:49:08.380 I have not updated it in ages.

03:49:09.720 Scroll up.

03:49:10.140 Scroll up.

03:49:10.380 So, I need to...

03:49:11.320 Click on types of shows.

03:49:13.100 Wow.

03:49:13.640 Damn.

03:49:13.980 That is...

03:49:15.220 That's...

03:49:16.900 Okay.

03:49:17.680 Wow.

03:49:18.100 Fire out of the fingers.

03:49:18.820 Well, that's a filter.

03:49:19.900 That's hot.

03:49:20.240 I don't like using filters, but I like that filter because it has fires in my fingers.

03:49:26.000 I love playing with fire.

03:49:27.400 All right.

03:49:28.280 There you go.

03:49:29.140 You said you love playing with fire?

03:49:30.720 Yeah.

03:49:31.420 Like, action...

03:49:32.000 Like, you play with fire?

03:49:33.480 Yes.

03:49:33.800 Do you, like, branch it?

03:49:34.580 Yes.

03:49:35.660 I fire spin.

03:49:36.340 Like, arson?

03:49:36.980 Oh, you...

03:49:37.840 Oh!

03:49:38.800 I do it with my husband, though.

03:49:39.980 He got me into it.

03:49:41.060 Like, he does fire, play, and contact staff, and I do dragon staff.

03:49:45.560 Have you ever gotten hurt?

03:49:46.380 I feel like I would hurt myself.

03:49:47.420 Oh, gosh.

03:49:48.240 Okay.

03:49:48.560 Yeah.

03:49:48.820 Oh, here's...

03:49:49.380 Here's a...

03:49:50.220 Question.

03:49:51.340 Do you think, Lauren, you are at 29.

03:49:53.960 Do you think you'll be better looking at 39?

03:49:57.600 Yes.

03:49:58.760 49?

03:49:59.640 Yes.

03:50:00.160 59?

03:50:00.760 Yes.

03:50:01.060 69?

03:50:01.620 Yes.

03:50:02.400 So, better looking at 69 than 29?

03:50:04.720 Yes.

03:50:05.640 Better...

03:50:06.320 Okay.

03:50:06.640 Hold on.

03:50:07.280 Let me just repeat.

03:50:08.380 You will be more physically attractive, better looking at 69 versus now, how you are now,

03:50:13.700 at 20...

03:50:14.620 29?

03:50:15.540 Yeah.

03:50:15.840 Okay.

03:50:16.400 And then, are you better looking now, or were you better looking at 19?

03:50:19.800 Now, for sure.

03:50:21.800 What the fuck?

03:50:24.540 Goddamn.

03:50:25.760 Excuse me.

03:50:26.520 Sorry.

03:50:26.920 This girl's burping and shit.

03:50:28.900 Shit.

03:50:29.480 You shouldn't...

03:50:29.920 You can't...

03:50:30.480 You can't...

03:50:31.480 Even in private, you can't do that.

03:50:34.120 Are you doing that shit in public?

03:50:36.020 I said excuse me.

03:50:37.400 I believe my...

03:50:38.480 I believe a girl should...

03:50:40.900 Well, a girl should never fart in front of a man.

03:50:43.840 And can the man do it in front of the girl?

03:50:45.520 Yes.

03:50:46.360 No.

03:50:46.900 I will always do it.

03:50:48.460 I'm just like you.

03:50:49.900 I like them and like you, too.

03:50:51.260 Look, if you're a girl and you gotta fart, I don't care if it's negative 20 degrees, you

03:50:55.140 gotta at least step outside the room.

03:50:56.980 I mean, yeah.

03:50:57.640 That's respectful for both things.

03:50:58.780 Go somewhere.

03:50:59.160 You gotta step outside.

03:51:00.500 But if you're a dude, yeah, you can let him rip in front of your girl.

03:51:02.840 Men's parts are smellier, so they should step out.

03:51:06.100 Yeah.

03:51:07.460 I subject every boyfriend to a Dutch oven.

03:51:09.480 Oh, my God.

03:51:09.840 Yeah, fart in their face.

03:51:11.500 Oh.

03:51:11.860 Yikes.

03:51:12.680 Wait, a Dutch oven is what I think it is, right?

03:51:14.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:51:14.640 Yes.

03:51:15.820 The blankets.

03:51:16.940 Yeah, yeah.

03:51:17.820 Oh, no.

03:51:18.300 That's the test.

03:51:19.020 That's the test.

03:51:19.400 Okay.

03:51:20.180 Third keeper.

03:51:21.860 100.

03:51:22.760 Will you be better looking at 100?

03:51:24.160 Yes, I just think.

03:51:25.220 That's interesting.

03:51:25.980 What about you?

03:51:27.220 19, better looking in 10 years?

03:51:29.100 Yes.

03:51:30.000 29, 39?

03:51:31.260 Yes.

03:51:31.980 49?

03:51:32.380 Yes.

03:51:33.400 Really?

03:51:34.020 Yes.

03:51:35.160 I've done this with you.

03:51:36.520 You know my answer.

03:51:37.420 But it all depends on your skin care.

03:51:38.460 What about you?

03:51:39.180 Better looking at 31?

03:51:40.980 Yeah.

03:51:41.800 41?

03:51:42.740 Yeah.

03:51:43.100 51?

03:51:43.680 Yes.

03:51:44.700 Better at 51 than 20 now?

03:51:47.780 Yeah.

03:51:48.180 You'll be better looking.

03:51:48.800 My skin's going to be so much better.

03:51:50.700 Like, I'm all into that.

03:51:51.680 Do you know about wrinkles?

03:51:53.120 Yeah.

03:51:53.820 And I literally do stuff to prevent that.

03:51:56.460 That's why my family, they still look hotter than they did when they was older.

03:52:00.580 I mean, younger.

03:52:01.180 That's 61, 71, better looking?

03:52:03.640 Yes.

03:52:04.100 Okay.

03:52:04.400 What about you?

03:52:06.000 Like.

03:52:07.460 You're 19.

03:52:08.580 Mm-hmm.

03:52:08.800 Better looking at 29?

03:52:09.860 Yes.

03:52:10.440 39?

03:52:11.340 Yes.

03:52:12.160 49?

03:52:13.520 Yes.

03:52:14.140 59?

03:52:14.500 I think that's where it stops.

03:52:17.740 39?

03:52:18.480 I agree.

03:52:20.580 Menopause.

03:52:22.020 I mean, my grandma, you couldn't even tell.

03:52:25.040 It's rough.

03:52:26.100 But it's about taking care of yourself.

03:52:28.740 59?

03:52:30.100 That's the peak?

03:52:32.300 And then...

03:52:33.560 Sure.

03:52:34.440 Kick some MILF.

03:52:39.340 All right.

03:52:40.560 All right.

03:52:41.680 Okay.

03:52:42.300 You are 21, better looking at 31?

03:52:45.820 Into the mic.

03:52:49.900 Yes.

03:52:51.340 Better looking at 41?

03:52:53.320 No.

03:52:54.260 Okay.

03:52:54.980 You're 24, better looking at 34?

03:52:58.360 Yes.

03:53:00.020 44?

03:53:00.860 No.

03:53:01.440 Okay.

03:53:02.380 37, better looking at 47?

03:53:04.140 No.

03:53:05.380 Whoa.

03:53:05.980 No.

03:53:07.480 That was gravely.

03:53:08.600 That was a gravely one.

03:53:09.940 What about 27?

03:53:11.220 Were you better looking at 27?

03:53:12.980 Me?

03:53:13.640 Oh, yeah.

03:53:14.980 I mean, I was younger.

03:53:15.660 And then were you better looking at 18?

03:53:19.740 Yes.

03:53:20.360 Okay.

03:53:20.760 You're 40, better looking at 50?

03:53:23.000 No.

03:53:23.820 You're 40, were you better looking at 30?

03:53:25.980 Yes.

03:53:26.740 Better looking at 20?

03:53:28.780 My 20s were rough.

03:53:30.260 So, I would say I peaked at 35.

03:53:33.980 Peaked at 30?

03:53:34.620 Okay.

03:53:34.840 Yeah.

03:53:35.620 All right.

03:53:36.920 Okay.

03:53:38.060 Well, we have put all of you through an AI age advancement tool.

03:53:41.900 No!

03:53:42.760 Some of you.

03:53:43.700 You guys.

03:53:44.640 This is an interesting panel.

03:53:45.860 Y'all better looking in your 70s.

03:53:47.760 100s and shit.

03:53:48.740 You'll be fucking.

03:53:49.800 God damn.

03:53:50.780 All right.

03:53:51.080 Let's get that going, Nick.

03:53:53.380 Yep.

03:53:54.040 All right.

03:53:54.480 Go ahead.

03:53:58.380 Can you scoot into the table, please?

03:54:00.260 What's that, Nick?

03:54:03.160 I think it's fine.

03:54:06.340 She's a baddie.

03:54:07.780 So, you said they're looking at 89, I think?

03:54:09.920 Yeah, she's a baddie.

03:54:11.260 So, the one on the far right, that's better looking than the one on the left.

03:54:15.540 Look how much she's laughed.

03:54:17.340 No.

03:54:17.680 What?

03:54:18.940 Yeah, but what does that have to do with the looks, though?

03:54:20.800 Oh, gosh.

03:54:21.060 The DeLulu.

03:54:22.200 Because, like, when you grow old with someone, like, you find beauty in that.

03:54:26.160 Oh.

03:54:28.220 Oh.

03:54:28.880 Let me, okay.

03:54:30.320 Two questions really quick for you, and then we'll do the rest of the people.

03:54:35.880 Hmm.

03:54:37.780 Would you date a guy who's shorter than you?

03:54:39.580 I have.

03:54:41.340 Sure, you have.

03:54:42.360 Yeah.

03:54:42.560 But is it your preference to?

03:54:43.840 Um, I just tend to.

03:54:46.300 I don't know.

03:54:47.520 You're how tall?

03:54:48.340 I'm 5'9".

03:54:49.260 Right, but is it your preference to date men who are shorter than you?

03:54:53.800 I just.

03:54:54.460 Or would you prefer to date taller?

03:54:57.140 Um, I prefer, like, personality.

03:55:00.400 So.

03:55:01.340 That's fine.

03:55:02.300 Yeah.

03:55:02.640 I understand that for women, you can care more.

03:55:05.300 See, but for me, I'm already 5'9", so it's not like I need tall kids.

03:55:08.900 I'm already going to have tall kids.

03:55:11.020 I mean, if you get with a 5'4", dude, you're, well, I mean, height is, who cares, whatever.

03:55:17.220 But.

03:55:18.200 You care because you're asking me?

03:55:20.440 Well, men typically don't care that much about women's height, at least from a, like, attraction perspective.

03:55:25.580 Really?

03:55:25.700 Yeah, I don't care about height.

03:55:27.800 As long as there's money, though, for you.

03:55:30.060 At least not to the degree that women.

03:55:31.280 I've never said that either.

03:55:32.980 Um, so you're telling me you don't care whatsoever about height.

03:55:36.720 Um, no.

03:55:38.460 How about this?

03:55:39.080 Um, your last guy you dated, you said you've been single for two weeks.

03:55:43.240 Uh, how tall was he, the most recent guy?

03:55:45.300 He was, I think, like, an inch shorter than me.

03:55:49.260 So he was, like, 5'8".

03:55:50.620 Okay, all right, well, I'll take your word for it.

03:55:52.400 And my son's dad is fine.

03:55:53.340 The other question was, um, hmm, it was about height, and it was, oh, sure.

03:56:01.500 Uh, you said you'd be better looking at, uh, let's just say 49, 59 versus now 29.

03:56:10.580 Can you scoot into the table a little bit, up on the mic?

03:56:15.360 If I, uh, and do you think when it comes to dating, do you think that women who are good

03:56:20.940 looking or better looking, do they tend to fare better when it comes to their dating

03:56:26.680 prospects?

03:56:30.080 Yes and no, but sometimes they have horror stories, like they have the worst horror stories.

03:56:34.740 Well, I don't disagree that regardless of how good you look, you can encounter bad people.

03:56:39.980 But the question is, if you're good looking, do you tend to have better options?

03:56:45.420 No, I don't think so.

03:56:47.280 Because I think, like, sometimes, like, their options, like, you don't know what they're in

03:56:50.720 it for, or if they're in it for superficial reasons, so, you know.

03:56:57.180 So, wait, hold on.

03:56:58.660 Your argument would be, actually, uh, uh, uglier women have a better time when it comes to dating

03:57:08.260 than beautiful women.

03:57:10.500 I didn't say that either.

03:57:12.200 Well, that would sort of be the entailment of your position.

03:57:17.980 Okay.

03:57:18.420 Oh, okay.

03:57:21.440 Um, do you have lip filler?

03:57:22.860 Yes.

03:57:23.980 Uh, okay, so.

03:57:24.960 Well, you do care about your own looks anyways.

03:57:26.960 Yes.

03:57:27.340 So, you are taking specific action to improve your own physical appearance.

03:57:31.520 Yeah.

03:57:32.240 Why?

03:57:33.120 Because I like the way I look with lip filler.

03:57:35.360 You like the way you look with lip filler?

03:57:38.200 Yeah.

03:57:38.840 Okay.

03:57:39.620 I see.

03:57:40.640 Um, if it is the case then that you'd be better looking at, say, 59 versus 29.

03:57:48.640 If the whatever podcast, uh, this is probably not a commonly asked for procedure, but I'm

03:57:54.480 sure it can be done with the combination of a tattoo artist and a plastic surgeon.

03:58:00.760 We will age you and we will fully cover the, uh, the cost of, you know, if they do certain

03:58:08.720 tattooing to age you.

03:58:10.720 Um, and I'll even pay for like a, for a three year period, a makeup artist, you know, maybe

03:58:15.960 we don't even need to have her do surgery.

03:58:19.840 We'll just do prosthetics and we'll do makeup and I will hire a full-time makeup artist to

03:58:25.420 follow it, basically follow you around, but you're going to be living a whole, your whole

03:58:28.520 life.

03:58:28.960 Sorry, not three years.

03:58:30.360 Okay.

03:58:30.940 Uh, as a 59 year old.

03:58:33.040 Yeah.

03:58:33.820 Uh, in terms of your physical appearance.

03:58:36.080 Yeah.

03:58:36.640 This would, from your, from your own, uh, admission, you said you'd be better looking at 59.

03:58:42.680 Yeah.

03:58:43.420 So wouldn't you want to maximize your looks right now?

03:58:47.060 And this would be non, or previously we've offered, Hey,

03:58:49.840 we'll, we'll give you plastic surgery.

03:58:51.480 So you're just perma look older from here on out.

03:58:55.420 Uh, would you, do you want to take up the offer?

03:58:58.440 I would just like start dating in nursing homes.

03:59:00.620 Like, I don't know.

03:59:02.620 Okay.

03:59:03.140 Well, I mean, your, your actual age would remain the same.

03:59:06.840 Yeah.

03:59:07.820 So, but we could age you forward.

03:59:09.780 No, cause my definition of beauty is like, as you age, like I said, like the smile wrinkles

03:59:15.420 are like where that came from.

03:59:17.460 So I'm just going to be appreciative while I'm aging.

03:59:23.260 Yeah.

03:59:24.060 Okay.

03:59:24.880 I guess the question is, if we have you and we had your future 89 years old woman time

03:59:32.420 travel and come here today and you're facing a man, maybe he's 40 years old.

03:59:36.560 Which one would he pick?

03:59:39.560 You're the same person.

03:59:40.960 It's just, you're different ages.

03:59:42.560 Which one would he pick?

03:59:43.940 Why am I concerned about who a man picks?

03:59:46.160 But you're dating.

03:59:46.920 Come on, just answer the question.

03:59:48.460 I mean, I already did.

03:59:49.900 Shouldn't you be a tiny bit concerned and then move on?

03:59:52.460 No, you didn't answer her question.

03:59:54.480 Um, I would date someone who I'm the same age as.

03:59:57.680 Can, can we not do this like coy, like not answering the question thing?

04:00:02.380 It's a reasonable question that she asked.

04:00:04.620 I think it's fair for you to answer it.

04:00:06.720 I would date, I wouldn't even date someone.

04:00:09.080 I would date someone my age.

04:00:11.500 Was that the question?

04:00:12.280 You're the same age.

04:00:12.700 Was that even the question?

04:00:13.780 Was that even the question?

04:00:15.020 Okay, so you're the same age in both.

04:00:17.740 You just like have that look.

04:00:19.100 Can you guys move on?

04:00:20.000 It's a different look.

04:00:20.380 Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:00:21.400 I want to ask Lauren.

04:00:22.580 Lauren, how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast?

04:00:26.500 This morning.

04:00:27.340 Yeah, how would you feel if you hadn't had breakfast this morning?

04:00:31.860 I don't know.

04:00:32.760 Like, fine.

04:00:33.540 There you go, Brian.

04:00:34.500 There you go.

04:00:36.680 That's the point.

04:00:37.920 Okay.

04:00:38.960 Wait, what was the answer?

04:00:39.720 She might have.

04:00:40.480 She said she doesn't know.

04:00:41.800 She doesn't know.

04:00:43.520 There you go.

04:00:44.380 Trust me, I've been on quite a few debates, and I ask this question all the time to people

04:00:51.540 who have a hard time just answering simple questions.

04:00:54.120 How would you feel if you had breakfast in the morning, if you didn't have breakfast in

04:00:59.260 the morning, and they dance around the question, or they just don't really realistically answer

04:01:04.680 it?

04:01:05.860 So, you know, the whole time that you are being asked this, she was just basically being really

04:01:11.920 up front.

04:01:12.360 But if you saw younger you and older you, and there was a guy in front of you, who would

04:01:16.940 he choose?

04:01:17.660 Here, we're going to continue on with the AI.

04:01:21.080 Let's go ahead.

04:01:21.520 Not bad.

04:01:29.260 All right, next.

04:01:33.860 You said you'd be better looking at 70, 80, 80, 90.

04:01:38.480 Okay.

04:01:39.340 Well, none of my family looks like that, and I got strong jeans.

04:01:41.600 Lauren, can you just scoot into the table, please, a little bit?

04:01:44.620 All right.

04:01:45.840 Next.

04:01:46.120 Next.

04:01:46.200 I took some milk.

04:01:53.940 Okay.

04:01:55.800 Thoughts?

04:01:58.580 What?

04:01:59.180 Dude, every time you guys put me into AI, it makes me look white.

04:02:04.160 Like, that's not what a Filipino grandma looks like.

04:02:07.080 Next.

04:02:07.300 Bro, these almost don't look realistic.

04:02:13.880 Yeah.

04:02:14.260 AI is never going to replace humans, guys.

04:02:15.980 Don't worry.

04:02:16.460 It's definitely going to replace humans.

04:02:18.380 Yeah.

04:02:18.520 But that's another conversation.

04:02:19.900 Next.

04:02:22.280 Why are the pictures so red?

04:02:24.020 I know.

04:02:28.260 It's a TV.

04:02:29.160 You guys have no reaction?

04:02:30.380 Hello?

04:02:30.860 Okay.

04:02:31.260 Next.

04:02:31.500 Lunch lady.

04:02:33.500 Oh, I look like my grandmother.

04:02:35.260 Really?

04:02:36.100 No, like, legit.

04:02:37.520 I look like my Mexican grandma.

04:02:39.360 They made you boom.

04:02:42.600 I mean, that's kind of something that's inevitable for a lot of women.

04:02:46.300 Really?

04:02:46.900 Yeah.

04:02:47.400 When we get older, we lose hair, too.

04:02:49.500 Way off.

04:02:50.240 I don't know what age that is, but way off.

04:02:54.320 Next.

04:02:56.280 Oh, my God.

04:02:57.880 I'm fucking excited.

04:02:58.600 Oh, my God.

04:03:00.200 Christmas come early.

04:03:04.760 We're going to...

04:03:05.780 Oh, we've also gender swapped all of you, so we've made you into men.

04:03:09.600 So the question is, would you date the male version of you?

04:03:12.160 I would make a hot one.

04:03:12.920 All right.

04:03:13.540 Ready, Nick?

04:03:15.680 Oh.

04:03:16.320 Oh.

04:03:16.880 Hey.

04:03:17.660 Oh, God.

04:03:19.560 Pretty boy.

04:03:21.300 Actually, it looks like my ex.

04:03:22.880 Oh, really?

04:03:24.620 This was...

04:03:25.580 Okay.

04:03:26.840 It looks like my ex.

04:03:28.040 Would you date him?

04:03:29.360 I did.

04:03:30.200 She did.

04:03:31.500 Okay.

04:03:32.060 Next.

04:03:32.200 The most straightforward answer I heard.

04:03:36.520 He looks like a femboy.

04:03:38.120 What is that?

04:03:40.340 Oh, my God.

04:03:41.300 Oh, my God.

04:03:42.060 Why did you keep that?

04:03:42.800 This is just young Jacksepticeye.

04:03:44.100 Nick, can you make us smile?

04:03:44.600 He gets it in the butt.

04:03:46.260 Oh.

04:03:46.920 Oh.

04:03:47.320 Oh.

04:03:48.120 Okay.

04:03:49.800 All right.

04:03:50.380 The fucking septum piercing has faded into the mustache.

04:03:55.600 Mustache.

04:03:55.820 Mustache.

04:03:57.000 All right.

04:03:57.500 Would you date him?

04:03:58.640 If you were single?

04:03:59.820 Uh-uh.

04:04:00.820 Hmm.

04:04:01.280 Next.

04:04:03.240 Oh.

04:04:03.800 Oh, that's kind of cute.

04:04:06.460 Oh.

04:04:07.900 It's like Playboy Cardi.

04:04:09.280 Would you date him?

04:04:10.840 I mean, yeah.

04:04:12.660 Without the makeup.

04:04:14.240 Yeah.

04:04:14.600 Yeah, they did keep the makeup on, so that's kind of a...

04:04:17.420 If he had no makeup, you would date him?

04:04:19.280 Yeah.

04:04:19.900 All right.

04:04:20.260 Next.

04:04:22.980 Bro.

04:04:23.540 Who?

04:04:23.960 Who's doing...

04:04:25.000 Yo.

04:04:25.640 Who the fuck is doing this?

04:04:27.060 Not the lashes.

04:04:28.020 Yeah.

04:04:29.260 That's bullshit.

04:04:30.360 Who's doing these, bro?

04:04:31.420 Who's fucking...

04:04:32.060 They're looking without the lashes.

04:04:34.740 All right.

04:04:34.980 Next.

04:04:35.840 Next.

04:04:36.820 Bro, these are...

04:04:37.800 But you didn't have us.

04:04:38.380 These are so bad.

04:04:39.280 Hey, that's the trans version of you.

04:04:40.840 I know.

04:04:42.120 Like, if you were a chick and became a dude, that would kind of be...

04:04:46.960 They both tins.

04:04:48.440 All right.

04:04:48.880 Next.

04:04:51.300 Oh, that's kind of weird here.

04:04:53.480 Would you date him?

04:04:55.080 No.

04:04:56.580 You wouldn't?

04:04:57.520 He looks nice.

04:04:58.700 Yeah.

04:04:59.000 He seems like a nice guy.

04:05:00.680 It's my face.

04:05:01.940 Like, I could still, like, see.

04:05:03.160 So, that's my face.

04:05:04.780 What if he was your co-worker?

04:05:06.700 Oh.

04:05:08.780 Sorry.

04:05:09.340 Sorry.

04:05:09.880 Sorry.

04:05:09.920 Next.

04:05:12.000 Oh, okay.

04:05:13.200 Do you look like somebody?

04:05:13.960 The beard is tough.

04:05:14.940 No.

04:05:15.580 I look Middle Eastern.

04:05:17.400 He's kind of funny.

04:05:17.920 I got it, girl.

04:05:19.480 Why did your skin color change?

04:05:21.620 He looks like the guy from that TV show.

04:05:24.680 Oh.

04:05:24.960 Okay.

04:05:25.980 Man in a suit.

04:05:27.000 I like it.

04:05:27.580 You look like you're working at a car dealership.

04:05:29.040 Is that just in the direction?

04:05:31.300 I would take it.

04:05:32.000 I was thinking more, like, luxury retail.

04:05:35.300 Okay.

04:05:36.200 Oh, she's cute.

04:05:37.720 Okay.

04:05:38.960 Yeah.

04:05:39.260 No, it's.

04:05:39.760 What's that, Nick?

04:05:40.380 We didn't ask the question.

04:05:41.780 We didn't ask the question.

04:05:43.580 Oh, whatever.

04:05:44.940 Whatever.

04:05:46.560 Bumble.

04:05:47.140 Yes.

04:05:47.480 We're, okay.

04:05:47.900 So, here's what we're going to do.

04:05:49.820 Um, we are going to hop on the Bumble dating app and you each get 20 swipes.

04:06:00.620 You ready, Nick?

04:06:01.460 I need an age break down.

04:06:03.580 Yeah.

04:06:04.020 Go ahead.

04:06:05.220 What's your age?

04:06:06.240 Preferred age?

04:06:07.600 Lauren?

04:06:08.560 Preferred age?

04:06:09.080 I'm, like, 30 to 45.

04:06:11.780 30 to 45.

04:06:12.920 That's what you're going to do.

04:06:13.660 All right.

04:06:16.580 I'm going to get up for a sec.

04:06:17.980 All right.

04:06:20.980 Oh, um, I guess really quick.

04:06:23.000 Uh, if you guys can, uh, so you're just going to see, we don't see the whole profile.

04:06:29.520 You get one image.

04:06:31.180 Um, if it's a group photo, you can just, if there's one guy in there that you like, I guess

04:06:40.520 you could just pick him, I guess.

04:06:42.640 Yeah.

04:06:43.040 The hot guy, the hottest guy.

04:06:45.100 I don't know.

04:06:45.480 That sounds weird.

04:06:46.500 Um, and then try to just give us quick, quick answers.

04:06:51.340 You can take a second just to look, but be like, yes, no, yes, no, no, no, no, no.

04:06:56.240 Whatever it is.

04:06:57.140 Uh, that's pretty much it.

04:06:58.220 Go ahead, Nick.

04:07:02.000 No.

04:07:02.420 Uh, Nick, can you make us bigger, please?

04:07:07.540 Okay.

04:07:07.960 Tell me when.

04:07:09.740 No.

04:07:10.100 No.

04:07:13.660 No.

04:07:15.700 No.

04:07:18.060 No.

04:07:19.800 No.

04:07:21.340 No.

04:07:24.920 Yeah.

04:07:28.860 Yeah.

04:07:31.900 No.

04:07:33.980 No.

04:07:36.880 Yes.

04:07:39.320 No.

04:07:41.720 No.

04:07:43.920 No.

04:07:46.360 No.

04:07:48.400 No.

04:07:48.700 No.

04:07:48.740 No.

04:07:51.340 No.

04:07:51.700 No.

04:07:55.260 No.

04:07:57.220 No.

04:07:58.260 All right.

04:07:59.260 Next, what's your next person?

04:08:01.780 Me?

04:08:02.560 Yeah.

04:08:03.340 29.

04:08:04.880 Oh, I think he's asking about the next person.

04:08:07.260 Oh, I'm sorry.

04:08:08.280 I have a boyfriend.

04:08:09.300 I don't want to do this.

04:08:10.500 Okay.

04:08:10.920 We'll move on to the next person.

04:08:11.820 Thank you.

04:08:12.200 Um, I would say 25 to 35.

04:08:24.980 No.

04:08:27.480 No.

04:08:27.880 No.

04:08:27.920 No.

04:08:28.420 No.

04:08:29.660 No.

04:08:30.660 No.

04:08:31.660 No.

04:08:34.660 No.

04:08:35.860 No.

04:08:37.340 No.

04:08:39.040 That's cool.

04:08:39.400 No.

04:08:40.980 Mm-mm.

04:08:42.540 Nada.

04:08:43.880 No.

04:08:45.040 I don't like him.

04:08:48.180 You got some nice abs, yeah.

04:08:49.780 No.

04:09:14.840 No.

04:09:16.800 No.

04:09:16.880 No.

04:09:16.900 No.

04:09:17.380 No.

04:09:17.460 No.

04:09:17.660 No.

04:09:18.860 Sorry, guys, we're just fixing something here.

04:09:28.000 Yes.

04:09:30.900 No.

04:09:32.820 No.

04:09:35.020 No.

04:09:36.980 No.

04:09:39.020 No.

04:09:43.720 Seems like they are distracted and they're giving you more than they should.

04:09:47.280 Yeah.

04:09:48.860 Give us the yes or no.

04:09:56.600 I said no.

04:10:03.180 No.

04:10:05.200 No.

04:10:06.920 No.

04:10:08.760 No.

04:10:11.080 No.

04:10:13.040 No.

04:10:13.880 Oh, no.

04:10:16.360 No.

04:10:18.680 No.

04:10:21.400 No.

04:10:27.540 How many of these are we doing?

04:10:29.340 A million.

04:10:30.260 Keep going.

04:10:30.960 No.

04:10:31.440 No.

04:10:31.540 No.

04:10:35.960 No.

04:10:37.140 No.

04:10:39.200 No.

04:10:40.820 No.

04:10:44.200 No.

04:10:45.320 No.

04:10:47.420 No.

04:10:49.800 No.

04:10:50.800 No.

04:10:51.860 No, no, no, no, no, no, yes, it's not that they just don't look well kept like y'all don't look

04:11:12.260 like y'all put much effort into it. Like his phone's still charging. No, no, no, no, no, no.

04:11:42.260 Nice traps. No. No. Blue collar worker. No. Sleeping on them. No. Mm-mm. Oh no. Yeah. No. No.

04:12:10.840 Mm-mm. All right. Next. Age range? Yeah, age range. Uh, 21 to 25.

04:12:22.720 Can we do girls? Oh. Nah, just guys. Okay. Um, I can't even see his face. No.

04:12:39.900 No. Yes? No. I can't see his face. No. No, I can't. No. Yes, because of the cat.

04:12:59.600 Look at yes. No. No. No. No. No. Yes. No. No. Sure. No. No. No.

04:13:27.000 I can't fucking see his face. No. I can't fucking see his face. No.

04:13:30.780 What? Okay, next. 21 to 26. Okay, let's do this.

04:13:37.000 Uh, no. No. No. No. Yes. I was kidding. Wait. Um, no.

04:13:49.660 No. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. No. No. No. No. No. No. No.

04:14:16.100 no

04:14:17.920 no

04:14:19.760 no

04:14:21.780 um 25 to 45

04:14:27.760 25 to 45

04:14:29.900 alright

04:14:31.520 why are they posting up with girls though

04:14:50.520 how's that going to attract the woman

04:14:52.460 this is true I hate when guys use those

04:14:54.480 they need to take better photos

04:14:55.640 this too

04:14:56.320 or just be a woman you know

04:14:58.300 uh no

04:15:01.960 yes

04:15:04.200 yes

04:15:06.360 no

04:15:08.760 no

04:15:10.740 yes

04:15:13.660 no

04:15:16.020 yes

04:15:17.920 no

04:15:19.880 yes

04:15:22.160 no

04:15:24.600 no

04:15:26.500 no

04:15:28.800 he's a lawyer

04:15:29.940 oh

04:15:30.560 oh

04:15:32.160 um

04:15:34.560 um

04:15:35.560 uh

04:15:38.560 you're married we're not gonna do you want to do this

04:15:41.220 sure why not

04:15:42.060 okay age range of menu a day

04:15:43.640 uh 35 45

04:15:45.200 what was it 35 45

04:15:47.220 no I don't see even his face

04:15:53.800 no

04:15:55.200 no

04:15:55.240 which one

04:15:58.000 no

04:15:59.860 I mean sure

04:16:05.660 he got a nice smile

04:16:07.100 let's do yes for this guy

04:16:11.640 no I don't see his face

04:16:13.660 no

04:16:14.860 no

04:16:17.400 too much beard

04:16:18.740 no

04:16:19.580 sure

04:16:21.880 no

04:16:24.180 no

04:16:26.580 no

04:16:26.640 no

04:16:28.480 no

04:16:28.640 no I can't see his face

04:16:33.520 no

04:16:34.320 sure

04:16:36.820 I can't see his face

04:16:40.340 no

04:16:41.520 I can't see his eyes

04:16:46.140 no

04:16:46.500 yeah

04:16:47.960 I gotta see his eyes

04:16:49.740 no

04:16:50.700 all right

04:16:53.400 that was uh

04:16:54.440 wow

04:16:54.660 some people are kind of a little bit picky

04:16:56.400 I think

04:16:57.460 who who was the pickiest

04:16:58.700 Nick

04:16:59.320 what do you say

04:17:00.480 chair three or chair

04:17:03.360 or Lauren

04:17:04.120 it was a tie

04:17:09.280 okay

04:17:10.160 it's hard to pick

04:17:11.420 um

04:17:12.000 but Lauren

04:17:13.220 you said no to a lot of those guys

04:17:15.200 I know

04:17:15.880 didn't you

04:17:16.680 didn't you

04:17:17.140 no

04:17:17.500 I think you mean other Lauren

04:17:18.900 huh

04:17:19.520 do you

04:17:20.420 probably

04:17:20.740 yeah

04:17:21.580 I'm talking to you

04:17:22.260 I know but I think she

04:17:23.720 I said yes to a few

04:17:25.000 she's right

04:17:25.620 you

04:17:26.200 I said yes to a few

04:17:27.800 okay

04:17:28.540 um

04:17:29.880 interesting to see

04:17:32.000 uh

04:17:32.860 I guess the final thing on the looks

04:17:34.200 topic

04:17:34.960 is

04:17:36.440 we have

04:17:37.760 women here who on one hand

04:17:40.040 10 10 10 10 10 10 10

04:17:42.380 uh

04:17:42.920 there's a lot of

04:17:47.580 I hear from a lot of women

04:17:48.660 that they frequently date narcissists

04:17:50.640 but I don't think there's a better

04:17:52.720 demonstration of narcissism

04:17:54.400 as

04:17:56.620 viewing yourself

04:17:58.500 as

04:18:00.260 uh

04:18:01.500 well

04:18:02.320 among the most

04:18:03.820 beautiful women in the world

04:18:05.240 that I mean that would be

04:18:11.000 narcissists

04:18:12.280 what was the story

04:18:14.960 he

04:18:16.540 he drowned himself in water or something

04:18:19.460 because he was looking at his reflection

04:18:21.180 isn't that the story

04:18:24.780 I love greek mythology

04:18:26.760 oh my god

04:18:27.460 isn't that the story

04:18:28.400 I believe so

04:18:29.580 narcissists

04:18:30.460 uh

04:18:31.240 that's what happened

04:18:32.440 he fell in love with his own reflection

04:18:34.700 good for him

04:18:37.200 I don't know

04:18:37.780 then there's some shit about daffodils

04:18:39.540 I don't know anything about that

04:18:40.700 what the fuck

04:18:41.280 but just because someone thinks they're a 10

04:18:43.260 doesn't mean they think they're prettier than somebody else

04:18:45.300 yeah

04:18:45.920 can you speak into the mic please

04:18:48.340 just because somebody says that they're a 10

04:18:50.180 I wasn't talking to you

04:18:51.240 I was talking to Lauren

04:18:52.140 oh sorry

04:18:52.380 just a listen

04:18:54.440 can you speak into the mic please

04:18:55.420 if you're gonna speak

04:18:56.380 yeah

04:18:57.060 okay

04:18:58.740 so

04:18:59.440 what was it

04:19:01.540 I wasn't the only one who also called myself a 10

04:19:03.980 so

04:19:04.340 and also

04:19:05.600 that's true

04:19:06.120 yeah

04:19:06.680 and so

04:19:08.800 I

04:19:10.160 I'm raising a son

04:19:11.700 I would want him to think of himself the same way

04:19:13.820 they're allowed to be confident

04:19:15.420 uh

04:19:16.040 well I think confidence would

04:19:18.000 actually point more towards

04:19:20.180 being like

04:19:21.340 oh yeah

04:19:21.640 I think I'm

04:19:22.420 average looking

04:19:23.380 and I'm

04:19:24.060 comfortable with that

04:19:25.020 I think that's more confident than

04:19:26.560 delusion

04:19:27.940 but I think that

04:19:30.260 how I measure attraction

04:19:32.040 is like

04:19:32.720 from a holistic level

04:19:34.080 so that's just how I view

04:19:35.840 myself as a partner

04:19:37.340 as a mother

04:19:38.300 but I'm also someone who does

04:19:40.740 lots of self work on myself as well

04:19:43.380 so

04:19:43.960 okay

04:19:44.880 uh

04:19:45.620 what is the minimum yearly income

04:19:47.340 to be uh

04:19:48.300 to be your future husband

04:19:50.040 um

04:19:51.000 I put

04:19:51.360 150 to 300k

04:19:53.340 okay

04:19:53.940 what about you

04:19:54.580 um

04:19:55.820 75k

04:19:57.140 what about you

04:19:57.840 I think I said

04:19:59.860 7k

04:20:00.940 or 1k

04:20:02.240 or

04:20:02.560 I don't know

04:20:04.020 what I put

04:20:04.580 41

04:20:06.240 does that ring a bell

04:20:07.480 I don't know

04:20:08.140 um

04:20:08.620 what about you

04:20:09.040 I think I said 65

04:20:10.080 okay

04:20:10.700 what about you

04:20:11.200 um

04:20:12.540 6 billion

04:20:13.240 is it billion

04:20:16.400 yeah

04:20:16.640 yeah

04:20:17.380 what did you write

04:20:18.880 Elon Musk

04:20:19.680 6-7 billion

04:20:21.720 I don't know

04:20:22.320 ah that

04:20:23.080 that's funny

04:20:23.840 um

04:20:25.100 what about you

04:20:26.100 I think I said

04:20:27.180 equal to me

04:20:28.460 so like 30,000

04:20:29.800 okay

04:20:30.500 uh

04:20:31.680 you two

04:20:32.160 um

04:20:33.940 I mean

04:20:35.840 ranges like

04:20:36.660 I went from like

04:20:37.520 50 to 100k

04:20:38.560 uh

04:20:42.200 well

04:20:42.500 I don't care

04:20:43.120 as long as

04:20:43.560 he's independent

04:20:44.240 I make my own money

04:20:46.200 okay

04:20:47.940 if he wants

04:20:48.760 babies

04:20:49.160 that's another

04:20:49.720 story

04:20:50.200 but

04:20:50.440 all right

04:20:51.940 uh

04:20:52.320 would you rather

04:20:52.920 cross paths

04:20:53.520 with a random man

04:20:54.260 or a random bear

04:20:55.060 on I

04:20:55.560 a bear

04:20:58.660 what about you

04:20:59.780 a man

04:21:00.780 a man

04:21:02.460 bear

04:21:03.320 bear

04:21:04.100 a man

04:21:04.720 a man

04:21:06.260 man

04:21:07.360 you'll get mad at me

04:21:09.340 I put a human male

04:21:10.500 in a bear suit

04:21:12.000 uh

04:21:12.900 why do you pick bear

04:21:15.820 why do you pick bear

04:21:16.440 I love wildlife

04:21:17.760 what about you Lauren

04:21:19.280 why is that

04:21:19.720 yeah

04:21:20.720 I think

04:21:21.900 yeah

04:21:24.340 same

04:21:24.720 I could just

04:21:25.640 you

04:21:25.840 you like wildlife

04:21:29.600 that's the uh

04:21:30.700 answer

04:21:31.260 or whatever

04:21:31.780 yeah

04:21:33.400 uh

04:21:34.420 is there a concern

04:21:35.280 about

04:21:35.700 well

04:21:36.140 you know

04:21:36.620 in the instance

04:21:37.360 where

04:21:37.620 either the bear

04:21:38.900 or the man

04:21:39.360 is aggressive

04:21:39.900 uh

04:21:40.900 yes the bear

04:21:41.480 will kill you

04:21:42.180 but the man

04:21:42.860 could do worse

04:21:43.440 is that

04:21:43.820 kind of

04:21:44.340 also

04:21:44.820 component

04:21:45.360 yeah

04:21:45.940 I would

04:21:46.560 rather be

04:21:47.080 slaughtered

04:21:47.600 than raped

04:21:48.120 so

04:21:48.520 gotcha

04:21:49.380 yeah

04:21:49.740 um

04:21:50.780 and I

04:21:52.380 I mean

04:21:52.700 I think that

04:21:53.340 uh

04:21:53.820 I think that

04:21:54.780 that's a fair

04:21:55.600 conclusion

04:21:56.080 yeah

04:21:56.660 in terms of

04:21:57.900 how you want

04:21:58.340 to go out

04:21:58.780 I don't

04:21:59.300 object to that

04:22:00.300 I guess

04:22:00.680 my

04:22:01.760 confusion here

04:22:03.180 a little bit

04:22:03.700 is uh

04:22:05.020 the risk profile

04:22:06.200 of a

04:22:06.740 a given

04:22:07.840 encounter

04:22:08.360 with a bear

04:22:08.940 versus a given

04:22:09.760 encounter

04:22:10.680 with a

04:22:11.080 with a man

04:22:11.700 so

04:22:12.320 given that

04:22:13.120 you've made

04:22:13.660 a determination

04:22:14.180 that you'd

04:22:14.740 rather pick

04:22:15.120 bear over man

04:22:15.960 I guess

04:22:16.560 what percentage

04:22:17.140 of men

04:22:17.840 uh

04:22:18.920 do you think

04:22:19.500 would be

04:22:20.060 inclined

04:22:21.100 to victimize

04:22:21.860 you in that

04:22:22.480 way

04:22:22.800 victimize

04:22:24.160 me

04:22:24.460 yeah

04:22:25.300 well

04:22:25.580 you said

04:22:26.000 one in four

04:22:26.580 women

04:22:27.000 are in

04:22:27.700 abusive

04:22:27.980 relationships

04:22:28.480 so one in

04:22:29.040 four men

04:22:29.520 yeah

04:22:30.020 so like

04:22:30.500 that is

04:22:31.060 absolutely

04:22:31.480 not how

04:22:32.000 statistics

04:22:32.440 work

04:22:32.820 whatsoever

04:22:33.640 but

04:22:34.880 so you

04:22:35.440 think

04:22:35.680 because

04:22:36.260 one in

04:22:36.660 four women

04:22:37.120 are in

04:22:37.440 abusive

04:22:37.740 relationships

04:22:38.560 what

04:22:39.540 by the way

04:22:40.060 what is

04:22:40.540 what are we

04:22:40.940 talking about

04:22:41.280 when we

04:22:41.580 use the

04:22:41.840 word

04:22:41.960 abuse

04:22:42.320 um

04:22:42.960 you think

04:22:43.260 that would

04:22:43.720 translate

04:22:44.160 to one in

04:22:45.020 four men

04:22:46.420 are abusers

04:22:47.300 so 25%

04:22:48.180 or is it

04:22:51.280 higher

04:22:51.540 even

04:22:51.940 um

04:22:53.460 yeah

04:22:55.000 I mean

04:22:55.480 that's just

04:22:56.040 what the

04:22:56.360 statistics show

04:22:57.160 on

04:22:57.580 the statistics

04:22:58.940 show that

04:22:59.560 one in four

04:23:00.400 men are abusers

04:23:01.360 oh no

04:23:01.620 one in four

04:23:02.300 women are

04:23:03.040 in abusive

04:23:03.600 relationships

04:23:03.920 yeah but

04:23:04.420 even when

04:23:05.040 they said

04:23:05.520 one in four

04:23:06.120 women

04:23:06.400 they didn't

04:23:06.820 discuss

04:23:07.280 they never

04:23:07.740 disclosed

04:23:08.300 who is the

04:23:08.980 perpetrators

04:23:09.600 and in

04:23:10.600 those one

04:23:11.120 in four

04:23:11.580 and the ratio

04:23:12.480 between as far

04:23:13.320 as domestic

04:23:13.740 violence between

04:23:14.480 men and women

04:23:15.060 are actually

04:23:15.680 even

04:23:16.060 so that's

04:23:18.080 so would

04:23:19.020 this mean

04:23:19.360 that uh

04:23:20.300 one in four

04:23:21.800 women are

04:23:22.540 abusers also

04:23:23.300 then maybe

04:23:24.720 yeah

04:23:25.040 then maybe

04:23:27.080 okay

04:23:27.620 um

04:23:28.860 um

04:23:29.460 um

04:23:31.460 uh

04:23:33.460 what I

04:23:34.580 guess

04:23:34.800 moving off

04:23:36.200 of the

04:23:36.580 abusive

04:23:37.860 relationships

04:23:38.440 or whatever

04:23:38.840 uh

04:23:39.620 but to my

04:23:40.260 question though

04:23:40.880 uh

04:23:41.520 you said

04:23:42.000 that there's

04:23:42.660 the the

04:23:43.120 fear of

04:23:43.560 like

04:23:43.780 essay

04:23:44.220 rape

04:23:44.600 yeah

04:23:45.020 what

04:23:46.020 percentage

04:23:46.480 of men

04:23:47.140 do you

04:23:47.740 think

04:23:48.060 would

04:23:48.640 in this

04:23:49.500 scenario

04:23:49.880 would

04:23:50.320 rape

04:23:50.740 a woman

04:23:51.040 um

04:23:52.100 I don't

04:23:52.400 know

04:23:52.620 if you

04:23:53.400 had to

04:23:53.680 guess

04:23:54.000 I

04:23:56.020 I don't

04:23:56.680 know

04:23:56.960 okay

04:23:59.160 um

04:24:00.300 you can't

04:24:01.100 even

04:24:01.320 do an

04:24:02.460 approximation

04:24:02.980 you think

04:24:04.540 it's five

04:24:04.900 percent

04:24:05.220 ten percent

04:24:05.980 twenty

04:24:06.400 percent

04:24:06.780 I would

04:24:08.260 say like

04:24:08.600 twenty

04:24:08.920 percent

04:24:09.800 okay

04:24:10.060 twenty

04:24:10.360 percent

04:24:10.660 what

04:24:10.840 about

04:24:11.020 you

04:24:11.240 um

04:24:12.980 I've

04:24:13.520 fifteen

04:24:15.920 percent

04:24:16.580 I don't

04:24:17.120 know

04:24:17.420 okay

04:24:18.600 I was

04:24:19.940 thinking of

04:24:20.300 this billboard

04:24:20.760 that I saw

04:24:21.240 on the freeway

04:24:21.720 that said

04:24:22.180 Uber gets

04:24:22.800 a call about

04:24:23.340 sexual harassment

04:24:24.060 every eight

04:24:24.800 minutes

04:24:25.180 that's

04:24:26.400 I don't

04:24:28.360 know

04:24:28.460 every

04:24:28.660 eight minutes

04:24:29.900 just a

04:24:30.900 billboard I saw

04:24:31.440 on the freeway

04:24:31.920 guys don't

04:24:32.320 country of

04:24:32.980 over 300

04:24:33.820 million people

04:24:34.760 and that's

04:24:36.600 just Uber

04:24:36.980 drivers

04:24:37.560 yeah I

04:24:40.080 I get that

04:24:41.060 and I wasn't

04:24:41.660 even going with

04:24:42.220 that argument

04:24:42.660 either

04:24:43.040 you weren't

04:24:44.700 going with

04:24:45.060 the argument

04:24:45.360 no genuinely

04:24:46.100 I just

04:24:46.500 wanted

04:24:46.740 you want

04:24:47.240 the cuddly

04:24:48.000 yogi bear

04:24:48.660 there was

04:24:49.280 no that

04:24:49.720 wasn't a

04:24:50.040 trick answer

04:24:50.480 I just

04:24:50.840 yeah I

04:24:51.300 guess um

04:24:51.800 just for

04:24:52.160 you two

04:24:52.480 I would

04:24:53.100 the question

04:24:53.500 I would

04:24:53.720 ask if

04:24:54.320 we were

04:24:54.560 to reframe

04:24:55.000 this question

04:24:55.580 and instead

04:24:57.200 of making

04:24:57.740 it about

04:24:58.040 gender we

04:24:58.540 were to

04:24:58.740 make it

04:24:58.960 about race

04:24:59.520 if I

04:25:00.380 if I

04:25:01.600 won't say

04:25:01.900 I

04:25:02.180 but if

04:25:02.520 somebody

04:25:02.780 were

04:25:03.180 if we

04:25:04.760 swap it

04:25:05.240 and we

04:25:05.500 say would

04:25:05.840 you rather

04:25:06.200 come across

04:25:06.860 a black

04:25:07.360 person or

04:25:08.620 a random

04:25:09.100 bear and

04:25:09.680 the person

04:25:10.100 picks bear

04:25:11.360 over a black

04:25:12.040 person would

04:25:12.520 you think

04:25:12.760 that they're

04:25:13.020 racist

04:25:13.420 wait what

04:25:17.760 can you

04:25:18.260 repeat the

04:25:18.660 question

04:25:19.040 I just

04:25:21.340 said it

04:25:21.720 and oh

04:25:22.500 I don't

04:25:23.100 know I

04:25:23.320 don't want

04:25:23.600 to comment

04:25:23.920 on race

04:25:24.480 you don't

04:25:27.320 want to

04:25:27.560 comment on

04:25:28.080 race

04:25:28.320 yeah I

04:25:29.120 don't know

04:25:29.560 because I'm

04:25:29.860 confused with

04:25:30.300 the question

04:25:30.800 okay then I'll

04:25:31.500 repeat it and

04:25:32.020 you can tell

04:25:32.440 me if you

04:25:32.780 can parse

04:25:33.200 it so if

04:25:35.220 we were to

04:25:35.600 change so

04:25:36.280 the question

04:25:37.880 was would you

04:25:38.500 rather cross

04:25:38.940 paths with a

04:25:39.420 random man or

04:25:39.960 random bear

04:25:40.420 on the hike

04:25:41.240 if we just

04:25:42.140 replace random

04:25:42.900 man with

04:25:43.560 random black

04:25:44.280 person so it

04:25:46.120 could be a

04:25:46.580 random black

04:25:47.540 woman or a

04:25:48.380 random black

04:25:48.840 man if

04:25:50.380 somebody were

04:25:51.200 to pick the

04:25:52.260 random bear

04:25:52.980 over the

04:25:53.660 random black

04:25:54.120 person would

04:25:55.460 you think that

04:25:56.020 that answer

04:25:56.940 is racist

04:25:58.260 they pick

04:26:01.440 the man

04:26:01.880 over the

04:26:02.260 bear

04:26:02.480 no they

04:26:03.200 they pick

04:26:03.720 the bear

04:26:04.120 over the

04:26:04.420 black

04:26:04.620 person

04:26:05.040 is it

04:26:09.540 black

04:26:09.860 man or

04:26:10.300 like

04:26:10.600 men and

04:26:11.060 women

04:26:11.220 person

04:26:11.620 so that

04:26:13.160 could be

04:26:13.380 a man

04:26:13.600 or woman

04:26:13.920 so they

04:26:14.020 switch

04:26:14.360 their

04:26:14.580 answers

04:26:15.080 choosing a

04:26:17.880 bear

04:26:18.120 yeah

04:26:19.080 choosing a

04:26:19.560 bear

04:26:19.700 is he

04:26:20.760 racist

04:26:21.260 would you

04:26:24.520 think if

04:26:25.440 somebody

04:26:25.920 picks bear

04:26:26.700 yeah

04:26:27.160 over a

04:26:27.920 black

04:26:28.180 person

04:26:28.620 do you

04:26:29.300 think that

04:26:29.580 that would

04:26:30.040 are you

04:26:31.700 sexist

04:26:32.440 are you

04:26:33.420 sexist

04:26:33.840 am I

04:26:34.120 sexist

04:26:34.560 yeah

04:26:34.820 no guys

04:26:35.760 don't muddy

04:26:36.340 the waters

04:26:36.740 don't muddy

04:26:38.360 the waters

04:26:38.880 though

04:26:39.200 she's already

04:26:40.100 having difficulty

04:26:41.240 comprehending it

04:26:42.080 yeah

04:26:42.680 the question

04:26:43.440 do you

04:26:44.800 would you

04:26:45.320 find that

04:26:45.900 to be

04:26:46.220 racist

04:26:46.760 to pick

04:26:48.780 the bear

04:26:49.320 over a

04:26:50.060 black

04:26:50.300 person

04:26:50.780 I don't

04:26:55.220 know

04:26:55.460 I'm gonna

04:26:56.260 opt out

04:26:56.720 of this

04:26:56.940 question

04:26:57.260 so

04:26:57.500 okay

04:26:58.680 what about

04:26:59.080 you

04:26:59.260 well I

04:27:00.080 feel like

04:27:00.300 now you've

04:27:00.580 changed the

04:27:00.880 question

04:27:01.280 you said

04:27:01.780 person

04:27:02.180 now

04:27:02.460 so you've

04:27:03.260 changed the

04:27:03.520 implication of

04:27:04.140 what you're

04:27:04.340 asking

04:27:04.640 I always

04:27:05.200 said person

04:27:05.820 I didn't

04:27:06.120 say black

04:27:06.580 man

04:27:07.000 you said

04:27:07.520 black

04:27:07.800 person

04:27:08.140 no

04:27:08.400 the original

04:27:09.360 question was

04:27:09.980 man or

04:27:10.760 bear

04:27:11.040 now you've

04:27:11.680 changed

04:27:11.900 it's a

04:27:12.260 person

04:27:12.580 I did

04:27:13.000 change the

04:27:13.480 question

04:27:13.860 because it's

04:27:14.300 a new

04:27:14.560 question

04:27:14.980 yeah

04:27:15.380 so I

04:27:16.360 you can

04:27:18.120 still answer

04:27:18.740 the new

04:27:19.220 question

04:27:19.660 I don't

04:27:20.060 understand

04:27:20.360 I've asked

04:27:21.120 multiple

04:27:21.600 questions

04:27:22.040 tonight

04:27:22.360 I don't

04:27:23.180 understand

04:27:23.580 why there's

04:27:24.180 difficulty

04:27:24.780 parsing

04:27:25.360 this

04:27:25.740 I understand

04:27:26.720 perfectly

04:27:27.200 but okay

04:27:28.560 to choose

04:27:30.200 a black

04:27:30.620 person

04:27:31.280 period

04:27:31.620 I feel

04:27:31.980 like there's

04:27:32.240 definitely

04:27:32.460 implications

04:27:32.940 but I don't

04:27:33.360 think it

04:27:33.640 inherently has

04:27:34.240 any bearing

04:27:34.680 on race

04:27:35.220 to pick

04:27:37.720 the bear

04:27:38.100 yeah

04:27:39.560 so you

04:27:40.820 don't think

04:27:41.320 that that

04:27:41.580 would be

04:27:41.920 racist

04:27:42.480 what's the

04:27:43.660 question

04:27:43.900 you're really

04:27:44.260 asking

04:27:44.660 that is

04:27:49.460 the question

04:27:49.880 I'm asking

04:27:50.480 what is the

04:27:51.420 question you

04:27:51.860 think I'm

04:27:52.220 asking

04:27:52.500 because I

04:27:54.140 feel like

04:27:54.740 elephant in

04:27:55.360 the room

04:27:55.660 everyone knows

04:27:56.160 that the

04:27:56.380 man or

04:27:56.640 bear question

04:27:57.120 is about

04:27:57.560 like what

04:27:58.140 is it

04:27:58.440 about

04:27:58.940 rape

04:28:00.200 sexual

04:28:00.580 assault

04:28:00.980 that's

04:28:01.940 well it

04:28:02.460 could be a

04:28:02.860 generalized

04:28:03.200 fear that

04:28:03.800 women have

04:28:04.240 of men

04:28:04.660 and I'm

04:28:05.860 wondering

04:28:06.260 though

04:28:06.680 ultimately

04:28:07.460 what I

04:28:08.140 am getting

04:28:08.580 at

04:28:08.920 is

04:28:09.520 if it

04:28:10.120 is okay

04:28:10.560 to have

04:28:10.900 a

04:28:11.060 general

04:28:11.380 as a

04:28:11.880 woman

04:28:12.140 to have

04:28:13.040 a

04:28:13.220 generalized

04:28:13.640 fear

04:28:14.300 of men

04:28:14.920 then what

04:28:16.480 objection

04:28:16.940 could you

04:28:17.340 possibly have

04:28:18.200 to white

04:28:18.700 people

04:28:19.120 or really

04:28:19.880 any race

04:28:20.460 having a

04:28:21.300 generalized

04:28:21.740 fear of

04:28:22.440 another race

04:28:23.060 could you

04:28:23.900 ever have

04:28:24.300 an objection

04:28:24.860 and I

04:28:27.420 think a lot

04:28:27.920 of you

04:28:28.140 would object

04:28:28.740 if a

04:28:29.180 white

04:28:29.420 person

04:28:29.940 had a

04:28:30.880 generalized

04:28:31.360 fear of

04:28:32.040 black

04:28:32.280 people

04:28:32.620 you would

04:28:33.320 probably

04:28:33.720 say that

04:28:34.220 that's

04:28:34.520 racist

04:28:35.040 why

04:28:36.580 would it

04:28:36.960 then not

04:28:37.440 be the

04:28:37.740 case

04:28:38.140 that

04:28:38.800 your

04:28:39.520 generalized

04:28:40.020 fear of

04:28:40.720 men

04:28:41.020 is

04:28:41.380 sexist

04:28:42.220 that's

04:28:44.000 what I'm

04:28:44.340 getting at

04:28:44.940 because we

04:28:45.620 could argue

04:28:46.000 the same

04:28:46.420 situation

04:28:47.040 as far as

04:28:47.640 schools

04:28:48.060 a lot of

04:28:49.240 teachers

04:28:49.540 that tend

04:28:50.080 to be

04:28:50.620 touching

04:28:51.700 diddling

04:28:52.340 kids

04:28:52.940 are female

04:28:53.660 teachers

04:28:54.200 yet we're

04:28:54.980 not generalizing

04:28:55.860 women

04:28:56.220 we're instead

04:28:56.760 still generalizing

04:28:57.760 men as far

04:28:58.620 as SA

04:28:59.680 or assault

04:29:00.500 in any

04:29:00.740 kind

04:29:01.020 what if

04:29:01.760 it's

04:29:01.920 about

04:29:02.120 their

04:29:02.340 experience

04:29:03.200 what do

04:29:04.520 you mean

04:29:04.980 go into

04:29:05.480 that

04:29:05.740 like if

04:29:06.560 you've

04:29:06.880 had

04:29:07.040 experience

04:29:07.440 with a

04:29:08.000 man that's

04:29:08.480 tried to

04:29:09.040 do that

04:29:09.420 or like

04:29:09.960 you've been

04:29:10.560 in an

04:29:11.000 abusive

04:29:11.340 relationship

04:29:11.980 and it's

04:29:12.420 only been

04:29:12.920 men that's

04:29:13.540 done it

04:29:13.920 to you

04:29:14.300 and it's

04:29:15.660 only been

04:29:16.000 men that's

04:29:16.360 done it

04:29:16.640 to you

04:29:16.880 like you

04:29:17.340 could have

04:29:17.740 that fear

04:29:18.560 that's no

04:29:18.920 excuse

04:29:19.200 I've been

04:29:20.080 a victim

04:29:20.460 of SA

04:29:20.920 by males

04:29:21.840 that doesn't

04:29:22.740 make me

04:29:23.140 change the

04:29:23.560 fact that

04:29:23.900 not every

04:29:24.660 man is

04:29:25.160 like that

04:29:25.500 but people

04:29:26.320 react differently

04:29:27.120 to trauma

04:29:27.660 it's no

04:29:29.140 excuse

04:29:29.600 we still

04:29:30.100 shouldn't

04:29:30.480 be

04:29:30.660 general

04:29:30.880 we cannot

04:29:31.720 generalize

04:29:32.640 men

04:29:33.100 for something

04:29:34.200 that a

04:29:34.960 very small

04:29:35.540 percentage

04:29:35.940 is doing

04:29:36.660 the same

04:29:37.140 way that we

04:29:37.560 cannot

04:29:37.840 generalize

04:29:38.480 women for

04:29:39.020 domestic

04:29:39.420 violence

04:29:39.980 especially

04:29:40.620 in lesbian

04:29:41.220 couples

04:29:41.740 we cannot

04:29:42.440 generalize

04:29:43.160 that when

04:29:43.560 it comes

04:29:43.860 down to

04:29:44.160 women as

04:29:44.600 far as

04:29:44.840 being

04:29:45.040 teachers

04:29:45.500 but that

04:29:46.100 doesn't

04:29:46.280 mean you're

04:29:46.540 not going

04:29:46.800 to have

04:29:47.020 the fear

04:29:47.420 from it

04:29:47.740 stereotypes

04:29:49.120 are bad

04:29:49.560 period

04:29:49.880 the question

04:29:51.040 is

04:29:52.240 is your

04:29:53.040 criteria

04:29:55.460 for what

04:29:56.520 justifies

04:29:57.200 fear

04:29:57.640 so you

04:29:58.800 said what

04:29:59.360 if I

04:29:59.620 had a

04:29:59.860 bad

04:29:59.980 experience

04:30:00.500 and then

04:30:01.220 you might

04:30:01.540 even

04:30:01.800 double up

04:30:02.500 on that

04:30:02.880 and you

04:30:03.160 might say

04:30:03.660 and there's

04:30:05.760 it's not

04:30:06.160 just I

04:30:06.560 had a

04:30:06.800 bad

04:30:06.920 experience

04:30:07.380 there's

04:30:08.220 statistics

04:30:08.900 you can

04:30:13.960 hide it

04:30:14.440 so

04:30:16.840 anecdotal

04:30:18.360 you have

04:30:19.220 your own

04:30:19.500 bad

04:30:19.700 experience

04:30:20.180 and then

04:30:20.720 you can

04:30:21.060 point to

04:30:21.460 statistics

04:30:22.160 women can

04:30:23.980 say I

04:30:24.920 had a

04:30:25.160 bad

04:30:25.300 experience

04:30:25.640 with a

04:30:25.880 man

04:30:26.120 and then

04:30:26.600 men

04:30:26.860 commit

04:30:27.160 these

04:30:27.400 crimes

04:30:27.700 more

04:30:27.940 often

04:30:28.320 therefore

04:30:29.120 I

04:30:30.140 feel

04:30:30.800 justified

04:30:31.420 in

04:30:32.620 my

04:30:33.360 fear

04:30:34.080 and it

04:30:34.560 goes

04:30:34.980 beyond

04:30:35.340 just

04:30:35.560 the

04:30:35.700 fear

04:30:35.920 because

04:30:36.220 women

04:30:36.520 it's

04:30:37.100 not

04:30:37.240 just

04:30:37.420 like

04:30:37.620 an

04:30:37.740 internal

04:30:38.000 I

04:30:38.160 think

04:30:38.380 to

04:30:39.020 some

04:30:39.260 degree

04:30:39.540 it's

04:30:39.760 okay

04:30:39.960 to have

04:30:40.280 like

04:30:40.420 some

04:30:40.620 internal

04:30:41.260 individualistic

04:30:42.440 experience

04:30:44.080 however

04:30:45.780 however

04:30:45.820 when you

04:30:46.400 start

04:30:46.720 creating

04:30:47.600 what I

04:30:48.900 believe

04:30:49.220 to

04:30:49.440 in essence

04:30:50.140 be

04:30:50.360 anti-male

04:30:50.900 propaganda

04:30:51.520 and

04:30:53.260 creating

04:30:54.020 anti-male

04:30:55.240 bias

04:30:55.780 throughout

04:30:56.440 society

04:30:57.080 endorsing

04:30:59.840 misandry

04:31:00.540 endorsing

04:31:02.240 sexism

04:31:02.880 and there's

04:31:04.420 quite a bit

04:31:04.900 of that

04:31:05.300 online

04:31:06.420 I think

04:31:08.280 we get

04:31:08.660 into

04:31:09.020 a different

04:31:09.940 territory

04:31:10.500 where we

04:31:11.300 are

04:31:11.560 essentially

04:31:12.040 crossing

04:31:12.620 into

04:31:13.080 sexism

04:31:15.000 sexism

04:31:15.880 but so

04:31:17.220 I guess

04:31:17.700 my

04:31:18.140 argument

04:31:19.560 here

04:31:19.980 is

04:31:20.360 there's

04:31:20.600 no

04:31:20.800 dispute

04:31:21.500 there's

04:31:21.780 no doubt

04:31:22.220 that many

04:31:22.680 women

04:31:22.960 have had

04:31:23.340 bad

04:31:23.540 experiences

04:31:23.960 with

04:31:24.200 men

04:31:24.440 I'm

04:31:25.000 sure

04:31:25.220 the

04:31:25.660 women

04:31:25.840 here

04:31:26.020 at

04:31:26.120 the

04:31:26.220 stable

04:31:26.460 have

04:31:26.660 had

04:31:26.880 bad

04:31:27.500 experiences

04:31:27.920 with

04:31:28.160 men

04:31:28.360 I

04:31:28.520 don't

04:31:28.780 doubt

04:31:29.000 you

04:31:29.240 and

04:31:29.940 that's

04:31:30.200 terrible

04:31:30.480 that

04:31:30.680 that

04:31:30.860 happened

04:31:31.340 and

04:31:31.780 I

04:31:31.920 wish

04:31:32.160 it

04:31:32.300 didn't

04:31:32.880 however

04:31:33.780 I

04:31:34.260 think

04:31:34.480 we

04:31:35.180 can't

04:31:35.500 do

04:31:35.620 this

04:31:35.820 collective

04:31:36.300 blame

04:31:36.800 this

04:31:37.020 collective

04:31:37.440 guilt

04:31:37.840 thing

04:31:38.300 of

04:31:39.180 mapping

04:31:40.320 onto

04:31:40.840 all

04:31:41.820 men

04:31:42.100 or

04:31:42.300 most

04:31:42.640 men

04:31:43.040 either

04:31:45.180 what

04:31:45.940 you've

04:31:46.200 seen

04:31:46.440 in

04:31:46.640 statistics

04:31:47.260 added

04:31:49.260 to

04:31:49.720 your

04:31:50.140 own

04:31:50.320 bad

04:31:50.540 experiences

04:31:51.160 again

04:31:52.000 I

04:31:52.320 wish

04:31:52.540 that

04:31:52.720 these

04:31:52.880 bad

04:31:53.140 things

04:31:53.360 never

04:31:53.620 happened

04:31:53.960 they're

04:31:54.180 terrible

04:31:54.500 I'm

04:31:54.720 sorry

04:31:54.920 that

04:31:55.100 they

04:31:55.240 happened

04:31:55.600 however

04:31:56.740 if

04:31:57.420 the

04:31:58.060 standard

04:31:58.620 for

04:31:59.680 having

04:32:01.240 these

04:32:01.720 sentiments

04:32:02.340 towards

04:32:02.780 men

04:32:03.080 is

04:32:03.420 I

04:32:03.920 had

04:32:04.080 a

04:32:04.160 bad

04:32:04.300 experience

04:32:04.740 I'm

04:32:05.040 justified

04:32:05.560 there's

04:32:06.320 statistics

04:32:06.740 I can

04:32:07.080 point

04:32:07.440 men

04:32:07.720 commit

04:32:07.940 these

04:32:08.140 crimes

04:32:08.400 more

04:32:08.580 than

04:32:08.720 women

04:32:08.980 I'm

04:32:09.560 justified

04:32:09.980 what

04:32:13.060 is

04:32:13.260 stopping

04:32:13.640 a

04:32:13.840 white

04:32:14.080 person

04:32:14.560 who's

04:32:15.400 had

04:32:15.540 say

04:32:15.860 a

04:32:16.000 bad

04:32:16.220 experience

04:32:16.620 with

04:32:16.780 a

04:32:16.880 black

04:32:17.140 person

04:32:17.580 and

04:32:18.280 they

04:32:18.440 can

04:32:18.620 point

04:32:18.900 to

04:32:19.220 crime

04:32:19.700 statistics

04:32:20.260 what

04:32:21.140 is

04:32:21.320 stopping

04:32:21.660 them

04:32:22.000 from

04:32:22.280 justifying

04:32:23.480 racism

04:32:24.020 under

04:32:25.400 your

04:32:26.080 framework

04:32:26.680 nothing

04:32:27.260 well

04:32:28.940 I

04:32:29.220 didn't

04:32:29.460 say

04:32:29.660 I

04:32:29.760 was

04:32:29.920 it's

04:32:30.200 just

04:32:30.380 human

04:32:30.740 nature

04:32:31.160 like

04:32:31.520 you

04:32:31.740 could

04:32:31.880 have

04:32:32.020 a

04:32:32.140 fear

04:32:32.280 of

04:32:32.400 that

04:32:32.520 you

04:32:32.660 could

04:32:32.820 be

04:32:32.980 white

04:32:33.280 and

04:32:33.440 have

04:32:33.760 black

04:32:34.280 people

04:32:34.540 that

04:32:34.760 have

04:32:35.020 had

04:32:35.380 stuff

04:32:35.900 happen

04:32:36.260 to

04:32:36.440 you

04:32:36.560 that's

04:32:38.740 just

04:32:38.940 human

04:32:39.220 nature

04:32:39.560 you

04:32:39.860 might

04:32:40.200 be

04:32:40.640 traumatized

04:32:41.220 from

04:32:41.360 that

04:32:41.640 but

04:32:42.120 let's

04:32:43.060 say

04:32:43.180 you

04:32:43.400 haven't

04:32:43.820 had

04:32:43.980 any

04:32:44.220 experiences

04:32:44.760 but

04:32:45.000 you

04:32:45.120 still

04:32:45.380 feel

04:32:45.660 that

04:32:45.840 way

04:32:46.100 I

04:32:46.580 would

04:32:46.720 feel

04:32:46.980 like

04:32:47.100 that's

04:32:47.360 a

04:32:47.540 little

04:32:47.640 different

04:32:48.060 or

04:32:48.420 you've

04:32:48.720 had

04:32:48.880 those

04:32:49.040 experiences

04:32:49.520 and

04:32:49.780 you

04:32:49.900 go

04:32:50.060 through

04:32:50.240 therapy

04:32:50.660 people

04:32:51.640 react

04:32:52.040 differently

04:32:52.420 to

04:32:52.580 different

04:32:52.960 things

04:32:53.520 is

04:32:54.180 what

04:32:54.380 I'm

04:32:54.600 saying

04:32:54.960 there's

04:32:56.240 no

04:32:56.520 people

04:32:58.180 cope

04:32:59.140 and deal

04:32:59.560 with

04:32:59.740 trauma

04:33:00.100 in

04:33:00.320 various

04:33:00.660 ways

04:33:01.040 I'm

04:33:01.540 not

04:33:01.680 saying

04:33:01.880 that

04:33:02.040 if

04:33:04.140 you

04:33:04.300 have

04:33:04.500 something

04:33:04.760 bad

04:33:05.020 that

04:33:05.180 happens

04:33:05.520 to

04:33:05.720 you

04:33:06.000 that

04:33:06.540 I

04:33:07.420 don't

04:33:07.560 think

04:33:07.700 I'm

04:33:07.880 saying

04:33:08.940 that

04:33:10.060 you

04:33:10.220 should

04:33:10.540 I'm

04:33:12.500 more so

04:33:12.880 talking

04:33:13.260 about

04:33:13.580 the

04:33:14.380 outward

04:33:14.740 manifestations

04:33:15.500 of this

04:33:16.680 and it

04:33:17.200 seems to

04:33:17.640 me

04:33:17.820 like

04:33:18.060 in

04:33:18.220 society

04:33:18.640 we've

04:33:19.040 made

04:33:19.180 a

04:33:19.300 determination

04:33:19.880 well

04:33:20.500 if

04:33:20.620 you're

04:33:20.740 a

04:33:20.860 white

04:33:21.040 person

04:33:21.460 just

04:33:21.920 because

04:33:22.180 a

04:33:22.300 black

04:33:22.480 person

04:33:22.820 has

04:33:23.040 done

04:33:23.220 something

04:33:23.500 bad

04:33:23.740 to

04:33:23.900 you

04:33:24.120 and

04:33:24.500 there's

04:33:24.720 crime

04:33:24.960 statistics

04:33:25.400 that

04:33:25.740 indicate

04:33:26.100 that

04:33:26.280 black

04:33:26.480 people

04:33:26.720 commit

04:33:26.960 more

04:33:27.140 crimes

04:33:27.400 than

04:33:27.540 white

04:33:27.740 people

04:33:28.040 that

04:33:28.600 doesn't

04:33:29.040 give

04:33:29.420 white

04:33:29.920 people

04:33:30.260 justification

04:33:30.820 to

04:33:31.800 have

04:33:32.280 racist

04:33:33.260 sentiment

04:33:33.800 towards

04:33:34.820 black

04:33:35.280 people

04:33:35.620 I

04:33:36.440 would

04:33:36.620 never

04:33:36.960 you

04:33:37.620 know

04:33:37.740 I

04:33:37.900 think

04:33:38.080 people

04:33:38.340 need

04:33:38.500 to be

04:33:38.720 judged

04:33:39.000 as

04:33:39.220 individuals

04:33:39.780 so

04:33:40.500 just

04:33:40.740 because

04:33:40.980 you're

04:33:41.120 black

04:33:41.320 that

04:33:41.480 doesn't

04:33:41.680 mean

04:33:41.820 that

04:33:42.020 you

04:33:42.500 should

04:33:42.740 be

04:33:43.180 discriminated

04:33:44.540 against

04:33:44.820 or

04:33:44.940 anything

04:33:45.120 like

04:33:45.380 that

04:33:45.680 or

04:33:45.800 somebody

04:33:46.080 should

04:33:46.340 have

04:33:46.920 racial

04:33:47.300 hatred

04:33:47.620 towards

04:33:47.980 you

04:33:48.120 no

04:33:48.440 I

04:33:48.640 reject

04:33:49.020 that

04:33:49.320 but

04:33:49.980 what

04:33:50.200 I

04:33:50.340 see

04:33:50.620 happening

04:33:50.960 in

04:33:51.160 society

04:33:51.640 is

04:33:52.300 that

04:33:52.580 women

04:33:53.560 are

04:33:55.260 saying

04:33:55.720 I

04:33:56.180 had

04:33:56.360 a

04:33:56.440 bad

04:33:56.580 thing

04:33:56.740 happen

04:33:57.000 to

04:33:57.140 me

04:33:57.280 a

04:33:57.520 guy

04:33:57.740 did

04:33:57.960 it

04:33:58.200 look

04:33:59.120 at

04:33:59.200 these

04:33:59.340 crime

04:33:59.560 statistics

04:34:00.020 men

04:34:00.280 commit

04:34:00.520 this

04:34:00.680 crime

04:34:00.880 more

04:34:01.040 often

04:34:01.220 than

04:34:01.380 women

04:34:01.560 do

04:34:01.820 and

04:34:02.660 there

04:34:02.780 are

04:34:02.900 some

04:34:03.060 disputes

04:34:03.440 as to

04:34:03.740 the

04:34:03.900 statistics

04:34:04.380 but

04:34:04.620 even

04:34:04.800 granting

04:34:05.220 them

04:34:05.560 okay

04:34:07.520 I'm

04:34:07.920 just

04:34:08.040 going to

04:34:08.180 be

04:34:08.260 a

04:34:08.380 fucking

04:34:08.640 misandrist

04:34:09.320 I'm

04:34:09.640 going to

04:34:09.780 hate

04:34:09.960 men

04:34:10.260 I'm

04:34:10.740 going

04:34:10.860 to

04:34:11.000 be

04:34:11.140 sexist

04:34:11.700 and

04:34:12.660 I

04:34:12.800 think

04:34:12.960 that's

04:34:13.340 bad

04:34:14.140 for

04:34:15.580 society

04:34:16.060 I

04:34:16.500 think

04:34:16.640 it's

04:34:16.780 bad

04:34:16.980 for

04:34:17.160 the

04:34:17.320 individual

04:34:17.760 woman

04:34:18.260 even

04:34:18.960 if

04:34:19.140 it

04:34:19.240 might

04:34:19.400 be

04:34:19.600 some

04:34:19.780 sort

04:34:20.100 of

04:34:20.400 coping

04:34:23.000 mechanism

04:34:23.660 is

04:34:23.880 the

04:34:24.020 right

04:34:24.220 word

04:34:24.580 or

04:34:24.740 some

04:34:24.940 sort

04:34:25.240 of

04:34:25.480 what's

04:34:25.760 that

04:34:25.900 term

04:34:26.300 for

04:34:26.820 what's

04:34:28.060 that

04:34:28.180 word

04:34:28.380 for

04:34:28.740 it's

04:34:31.020 evading

04:34:31.280 me

04:34:31.420 it doesn't

04:34:31.640 really

04:34:31.820 matter

04:34:32.060 but

04:34:32.360 yeah

04:34:33.840 I

04:34:34.060 don't

04:34:34.160 know

04:34:34.400 but

04:34:35.400 what

04:34:35.540 you're

04:34:35.680 saying

04:34:35.840 is

04:34:35.960 like

04:34:36.120 overall

04:34:36.620 sexist

04:34:37.140 and

04:34:37.240 not

04:34:37.400 just

04:34:37.580 like

04:34:37.740 being

04:34:38.220 afraid

04:34:38.640 I

04:34:41.520 don't

04:34:42.280 understand

04:34:42.620 what

04:34:42.820 you

04:34:42.920 mean

04:34:43.120 because

04:34:44.140 when

04:34:44.320 you

04:34:44.440 were

04:34:44.580 talking

04:34:44.920 about

04:34:45.280 like

04:34:45.680 earlier

04:34:46.660 when you

04:34:47.000 first

04:34:47.240 brought

04:34:47.480 it

04:34:47.600 up

04:34:47.860 it

04:34:48.420 kind

04:34:48.620 of

04:34:48.720 sounded

04:34:48.940 like

04:34:49.180 that

04:34:49.480 sounded

04:34:50.660 like

04:34:50.860 what

04:34:51.120 well

04:34:51.860 when

04:34:52.000 they

04:34:52.160 said

04:34:52.380 like

04:34:52.680 you

04:34:53.800 would

04:34:53.940 be

04:34:54.040 afraid

04:34:54.420 of

04:34:54.580 them

04:34:54.760 like

04:34:55.080 a

04:34:55.860 guy

04:34:56.060 would

04:34:56.220 rape

04:34:56.420 you

04:34:56.520 or

04:34:56.640 something

04:34:56.860 like

04:34:57.100 that

04:34:57.280 like

04:34:57.540 that's

04:34:58.320 kind

04:34:58.500 of

04:34:58.580 how

04:34:58.680 it

04:34:58.800 started

04:34:59.100 well

04:35:00.600 the

04:35:00.740 bear

04:35:01.140 scenario

04:35:01.460 I guess

04:35:01.800 the idea

04:35:02.400 here

04:35:02.660 with

04:35:02.800 the

04:35:02.940 bear

04:35:03.200 is

04:35:03.740 if

04:35:04.520 you

04:35:04.660 pick

04:35:04.880 bear

04:35:05.260 but

04:35:06.000 you

04:35:06.120 would

04:35:06.260 be

04:35:06.560 you

04:35:07.040 would

04:35:07.180 object

04:35:07.660 to

04:35:08.780 a

04:35:11.300 white

04:35:11.540 person

04:35:11.980 picking

04:35:12.340 a bear

04:35:12.720 over

04:35:12.960 a black

04:35:13.340 person

04:35:13.820 then

04:35:15.160 you

04:35:15.500 then

04:35:15.820 and

04:35:16.600 you

04:35:16.740 might

04:35:16.920 you

04:35:17.120 might

04:35:17.300 label

04:35:17.600 it

04:35:17.740 racist

04:35:18.100 for

04:35:18.360 example

04:35:18.720 you

04:35:19.360 would

04:35:19.520 then

04:35:19.720 have

04:35:19.940 to

04:35:20.120 examine

04:35:20.580 logically

04:35:21.920 why

04:35:23.580 it's

04:35:23.840 okay

04:35:24.080 in

04:35:24.240 one

04:35:24.600 scenario

04:35:25.020 but

04:35:26.220 not

04:35:26.480 okay

04:35:26.780 in

04:35:26.960 the

04:35:27.080 other

04:35:27.300 and

04:35:28.380 so

04:35:28.600 essentially

04:35:29.140 it

04:35:29.380 points

04:35:29.740 to

04:35:30.120 if

04:35:31.280 it's

04:35:31.460 racist

04:35:31.880 then

04:35:32.780 it's

04:35:32.980 probably

04:35:33.260 sexist

04:35:33.960 like

04:35:34.600 if

04:35:34.720 there's

04:35:34.860 a

04:35:35.000 statement

04:35:35.260 that

04:35:35.480 you

04:35:35.600 can

04:35:35.760 make

04:35:36.080 about

04:35:36.940 men

04:35:37.360 and

04:35:37.980 you

04:35:38.100 replace

04:35:38.500 men

04:35:38.760 with

04:35:38.960 women

04:35:39.260 and

04:35:39.720 it

04:35:39.820 becomes

04:35:40.100 sexist

04:35:40.720 you

04:35:41.500 should

04:35:41.640 probably

04:35:41.880 take

04:35:42.120 a

04:35:42.260 look

04:35:42.480 at

04:35:42.860 your

04:35:43.000 original

04:35:43.360 statement

04:35:43.680 against

04:35:44.000 men

04:35:44.800 if

04:35:46.040 you

04:35:46.140 say

04:35:46.300 something

04:35:47.740 black

04:35:47.980 people

04:35:48.340 and

04:35:49.560 it's

04:35:49.740 racist

04:35:50.240 or

04:35:52.260 how

04:35:52.460 about

04:35:52.580 no

04:35:52.800 hold on

04:35:53.300 sorry

04:35:53.500 I got

04:35:53.700 that

04:35:53.860 mixed up

04:35:54.220 if

04:35:54.620 you

04:35:54.720 say

04:35:54.860 something

04:35:55.100 about

04:35:55.340 white

04:35:55.600 people

04:35:55.960 and

04:35:56.780 if

04:35:56.880 you

04:35:56.980 were

04:35:57.080 to

04:35:57.180 say

04:35:57.320 that

04:35:57.480 same

04:35:57.700 thing

04:35:57.880 about

04:35:58.080 black

04:35:58.360 people

04:35:58.680 and

04:36:00.020 you

04:36:00.240 would

04:36:00.480 say

04:36:01.200 that

04:36:01.400 oh

04:36:01.560 that's

04:36:01.800 problematic

04:36:02.220 that's

04:36:03.400 racist

04:36:03.780 then

04:36:05.120 it

04:36:06.240 might

04:36:06.520 be

04:36:06.700 the

04:36:06.820 case

04:36:07.980 well

04:36:08.640 it

04:36:08.760 is

04:36:08.880 the

04:36:08.980 case

04:36:09.340 that

04:36:10.300 what

04:36:10.540 you

04:36:10.700 said

04:36:10.880 about

04:36:11.040 white

04:36:11.260 people

04:36:11.500 is

04:36:11.640 also

04:36:11.840 objectionable

04:36:12.440 that's

04:36:14.480 what

04:36:14.580 I'm

04:36:14.680 trying

04:36:14.820 to

04:36:14.920 get

04:36:15.040 at

04:36:17.740 double

04:36:18.020 standard

04:36:18.520 where

04:36:19.320 this

04:36:20.280 whole

04:36:20.660 man

04:36:23.400 versus

04:36:23.800 bear

04:36:24.080 thing

04:36:24.300 is

04:36:24.460 extremely

04:36:25.160 ridiculous

04:36:25.780 this

04:36:27.100 whole

04:36:27.780 trend

04:36:28.100 started

04:36:28.560 off

04:36:28.900 and

04:36:29.040 it

04:36:29.180 ended

04:36:29.440 up

04:36:29.660 becoming

04:36:30.020 more

04:36:30.320 so

04:36:30.600 misandrist

04:36:31.420 and

04:36:32.520 the

04:36:33.460 idea

04:36:33.780 that

04:36:34.040 we

04:36:34.200 are

04:36:34.360 generalizing

04:36:35.120 one

04:36:36.540 whole

04:36:36.980 group

04:36:37.600 as far

04:36:38.740 as

04:36:39.020 when it

04:36:39.540 comes

04:36:39.780 down

04:36:40.020 to

04:36:40.380 biological

04:36:40.920 sex

04:36:41.460 but

04:36:42.240 then

04:36:42.480 it

04:36:42.640 then

04:36:42.880 changes

04:36:43.400 when it

04:36:44.700 comes

04:36:44.940 down

04:36:45.200 to

04:36:45.500 race

04:36:46.240 because

04:36:46.880 it's

04:36:48.540 automatically

04:36:49.160 frowned

04:36:49.620 upon

04:36:49.980 if

04:36:50.320 white

04:36:52.280 people

04:36:52.580 just

04:36:52.820 said

04:36:53.080 hey

04:36:53.480 I'm

04:36:53.680 afraid

04:36:53.920 of

04:36:54.040 a

04:36:54.140 black

04:36:54.320 person

04:36:54.620 just

04:36:54.860 because

04:36:55.240 there's

04:36:55.960 only

04:36:56.140 13%

04:36:56.760 of us

04:36:57.140 and

04:36:57.300 committing

04:36:57.700 more

04:36:57.900 than

04:36:58.000 50%

04:36:58.440 of

04:36:58.580 the

04:36:58.680 crimes

04:36:59.040 so

04:36:59.820 they

04:37:00.140 find

04:37:00.540 that

04:37:00.720 as

04:37:00.920 an

04:37:01.060 excuse

04:37:01.500 to

04:37:01.940 look

04:37:02.900 at

04:37:03.200 black

04:37:03.460 people

04:37:03.740 a

04:37:03.900 specific

04:37:04.240 way

04:37:04.640 but

04:37:05.180 yet

04:37:05.540 if

04:37:06.060 they

04:37:06.420 said

04:37:06.800 that

04:37:07.140 which

04:37:07.900 is

04:37:08.220 quote

04:37:08.640 unquote

04:37:08.900 justified

04:37:09.400 on

04:37:09.680 their

04:37:09.880 end

04:37:10.240 what

04:37:10.680 ends

04:37:10.920 up

04:37:11.060 happening

04:37:11.420 is

04:37:11.660 that

04:37:11.800 it

04:37:11.900 still

04:37:12.120 comes

04:37:12.400 off

04:37:12.620 as

04:37:12.800 racist

04:37:13.220 but

04:37:13.980 when

04:37:14.200 it

04:37:14.320 comes

04:37:14.520 down

04:37:14.780 to

04:37:15.100 women

04:37:15.560 having

04:37:15.900 these

04:37:16.140 discussions

04:37:16.620 talking

04:37:17.000 about

04:37:17.380 oh

04:37:17.660 I'd

04:37:17.900 rather

04:37:18.100 choose

04:37:18.380 the

04:37:18.540 bear

04:37:18.780 over

04:37:19.100 the

04:37:19.340 man

04:37:19.720 it's

04:37:20.720 going

04:37:20.860 to

04:37:20.960 come

04:37:21.200 off

04:37:21.420 as

04:37:21.600 sexist

04:37:22.020 because

04:37:22.300 you're

04:37:22.560 generalizing

04:37:23.120 men

04:37:25.180 assuming

04:37:26.160 that

04:37:26.400 that's

04:37:26.620 how

04:37:26.740 they

04:37:26.900 all

04:37:27.140 are

04:37:27.420 even

04:37:28.060 with

04:37:28.320 the

04:37:28.500 slogan

04:37:28.900 that

04:37:29.120 I

04:37:29.240 keep

04:37:29.460 hearing

04:37:29.960 that's

04:37:30.800 BS

04:37:31.140 by the

04:37:31.480 way

04:37:31.680 it's

04:37:32.140 not

04:37:32.320 always

04:37:32.580 men

04:37:32.840 it's

04:37:33.380 not

04:37:33.660 all

04:37:33.920 men

04:37:34.120 but

04:37:34.300 it's

04:37:34.440 always

04:37:34.760 a

04:37:34.920 man

04:37:35.140 like

04:37:36.200 I

04:37:37.040 don't

04:37:37.440 understand

04:37:37.800 the

04:37:37.940 concept

04:37:43.220 I

04:37:43.780 think

04:37:44.240 this

04:37:44.600 whole

04:37:45.020 trend

04:37:45.560 or

04:37:45.740 that

04:37:45.920 whole

04:37:46.140 thing

04:37:46.420 eventually

04:37:46.920 just

04:37:47.340 I

04:37:47.700 wish

04:37:47.940 it

04:37:48.040 would

04:37:48.160 just

04:37:48.340 die

04:37:48.520 down

04:37:48.860 yeah

04:37:49.360 can

04:37:50.040 I

04:37:50.180 also

04:37:50.460 add

04:37:50.760 that

04:37:51.080 ironically

04:37:51.760 all the

04:37:52.940 women

04:37:53.180 who

04:37:53.360 pick

04:37:53.800 the

04:37:54.380 bear

04:37:54.740 they

04:37:55.360 are

04:37:55.540 still

04:37:55.860 going

04:37:56.160 on

04:37:56.500 dates

04:37:57.060 with

04:37:57.280 random

04:37:57.660 men

04:37:58.060 they

04:37:58.260 don't

04:37:58.480 know

04:37:58.900 the

04:38:00.180 other

04:38:00.440 thing

04:38:00.680 is

04:38:01.000 they

04:38:01.160 always

04:38:01.540 assume

04:38:02.120 that

04:38:02.340 the

04:38:02.500 bear

04:38:02.740 would

04:38:03.000 kill

04:38:03.420 them

04:38:03.700 as

04:38:03.880 in

04:38:03.980 like

04:38:04.140 he

04:38:04.240 would

04:38:04.360 have

04:38:04.600 a

04:38:04.840 sharp

04:38:05.160 knife

04:38:05.480 and

04:38:05.640 just

04:38:05.800 cut

04:38:06.020 off

04:38:06.160 the

04:38:06.340 head

04:38:06.580 that's

04:38:07.040 not

04:38:13.220 full

04:38:13.520 injuring

04:38:14.840 you

04:38:15.160 but

04:38:15.460 just

04:38:15.720 leaving

04:38:15.980 you

04:38:16.140 alone

04:38:16.520 and

04:38:16.760 you

04:38:16.860 would

04:38:16.960 be

04:38:17.080 just

04:38:17.280 struggling

04:38:17.680 for

04:38:17.980 hours

04:38:18.500 maybe

04:38:18.880 days

04:38:19.300 or

04:38:19.520 I

04:38:19.840 don't

04:38:19.960 know

04:38:20.100 God

04:38:20.280 knows

04:38:20.520 how long

04:38:20.940 may I

04:38:21.160 add

04:38:21.560 a

04:38:21.780 horrific

04:38:22.260 fun

04:38:22.800 fact

04:38:23.300 about

04:38:23.600 bears

04:38:23.920 they

04:38:24.180 will

04:38:24.400 literally

04:38:24.840 eat

04:38:25.280 you

04:38:25.540 while

04:38:25.860 you're

04:38:26.080 still

04:38:26.400 alive

04:38:26.880 they

04:38:27.120 will

04:38:27.300 rip

04:38:27.660 you

04:38:28.000 apart

04:38:28.600 while

04:38:29.520 you're

04:38:29.700 still

04:38:29.940 living

04:38:30.320 some

04:38:31.480 women

04:38:31.800 I'm

04:38:32.620 pretty

04:38:32.780 sure

04:38:32.880 some

04:38:33.080 women

04:38:33.260 died

04:38:33.520 recently

04:38:33.920 from

04:38:34.420 a

04:38:34.560 bear

04:38:34.700 attack

04:38:35.100 from

04:38:35.940 a

04:38:36.940 black

04:38:37.420 bear

04:38:37.740 by the

04:38:38.120 way

04:38:38.300 Brian

04:38:38.520 which

04:38:38.720 they

04:38:38.860 often

04:38:39.120 say

04:38:39.520 the

04:38:40.080 harmless

04:38:41.140 one

04:38:41.700 that's

04:38:42.060 the

04:38:42.120 bear

04:38:42.260 you

04:38:42.360 don't

04:38:42.460 have

04:38:42.600 to

04:38:42.680 worry

04:38:42.800 about

04:38:43.060 Nick's

04:38:43.880 going

04:38:44.140 to

04:38:44.960 some

04:38:45.180 of

04:38:45.280 your

04:38:45.400 notes

04:38:45.640 that

04:38:45.800 I

04:38:45.940 have

04:38:46.140 here

04:38:46.340 we're

04:38:47.660 going

04:38:47.740 to

04:38:47.840 wrap

04:38:48.020 up

04:38:48.160 on

04:38:48.280 the

04:38:48.480 bear

04:38:48.800 race

04:38:49.300 convo

04:38:49.680 soon

04:38:50.040 but

04:38:50.500 in

04:38:51.040 the

04:38:51.140 previous

04:38:51.380 podcast

04:38:51.820 you

04:38:52.160 said

04:38:52.320 you

04:38:52.440 hate

04:38:52.660 white

04:38:52.920 people

04:38:53.280 oh

04:38:55.300 what

04:38:57.360 do you

04:39:02.000 want

04:39:02.100 to say

04:39:02.320 it's

04:39:02.700 not

04:39:03.040 racist

04:39:03.580 I

04:39:04.180 didn't

04:39:04.340 say

04:39:04.520 that

04:39:04.820 I

04:39:05.060 mean

04:39:06.540 one

04:39:06.780 of my

04:39:06.980 researchers

04:39:07.460 do you

04:39:08.220 want

04:39:08.340 to

04:39:08.440 clarify

04:39:08.720 them

04:39:09.080 if

04:39:09.460 that's

04:39:09.640 not

04:39:09.740 what

04:39:09.840 you

04:39:09.920 say

04:39:10.080 well

04:39:11.360 what

04:39:11.560 did

04:39:11.720 you

04:39:11.820 say

04:39:11.980 last

04:39:12.280 time

04:39:13.200 you

04:39:13.300 were

04:39:13.400 on

04:39:13.500 the

04:39:13.600 show

04:39:13.780 I

04:39:14.380 said

04:39:14.560 I

04:39:14.660 hate

04:39:14.800 white

04:39:14.980 people

04:39:15.280 and

04:39:15.440 I

04:39:15.520 was

04:39:15.620 trying

04:39:15.780 to

04:39:15.860 be

04:39:15.980 sarcastic

04:39:16.520 but

04:39:16.760 watching

04:39:17.060 back

04:39:17.320 I

04:39:17.440 understand

04:39:17.760 that

04:39:17.880 the

04:39:17.980 sarcasm

04:39:18.380 didn't

04:39:18.620 land

04:39:18.820 with

04:39:18.940 the

04:39:19.060 panel

04:39:19.360 I

04:39:36.980 was

04:39:37.280 making

04:39:37.540 well

04:39:39.560 do you

04:39:40.480 think

04:39:40.640 it would

04:39:40.780 be

04:39:40.900 racist

04:39:41.260 to

04:39:41.580 call

04:39:42.100 a

04:39:42.300 white

04:39:42.420 person

04:39:42.680 the

04:39:42.880 c

04:39:43.040 word

04:39:43.280 what's

04:39:44.680 the

04:39:44.780 c

04:39:44.900 word

04:39:45.100 I

04:39:45.380 can't

04:39:45.680 say

04:39:45.840 it

04:39:46.040 because

04:39:46.300 we're

04:39:46.460 on

04:39:46.660 the

04:39:46.920 youtube

04:39:47.220 and

04:39:47.520 twitch

04:39:47.840 and

04:39:48.100 I

04:39:48.780 don't

04:39:48.980 know

04:39:49.580 what

04:39:49.640 the

04:39:49.740 word

04:39:50.020 is

04:39:50.200 it's

04:39:50.440 something

04:39:51.040 you

04:39:51.280 eat

04:39:51.620 something

04:39:52.240 you

04:39:52.460 eat

04:39:52.760 do you

04:39:55.600 think

04:39:55.740 it's

04:39:55.880 racist

04:39:56.180 is it

04:39:56.520 racist

04:39:56.880 I

04:39:57.360 think

04:39:58.520 it's

04:39:58.660 definitely

04:39:58.880 insensitive

04:39:59.860 what

04:40:00.740 is it

04:40:00.920 racist

04:40:01.340 I

04:40:02.520 don't

04:40:02.640 know

04:40:02.860 I'm

04:40:03.280 not

04:40:03.420 white

04:40:03.580 I

04:40:03.700 can't

04:40:03.860 say

04:40:03.980 if

04:40:04.080 it's

04:40:04.200 racist

04:40:04.520 to

04:40:05.200 you

04:40:05.900 know

04:40:06.000 you're

04:40:06.160 not

04:40:06.320 black

04:40:06.680 if

04:40:06.920 I

04:40:07.200 were

04:40:07.340 to

04:40:07.480 drop

04:40:07.840 the

04:40:08.080 n

04:40:08.240 word

04:40:08.420 right

04:40:08.660 now

04:40:09.020 would

04:40:09.280 you

04:40:09.380 think

04:40:09.540 that

04:40:09.680 that's

04:40:09.920 racist

04:40:10.220 well

04:40:10.440 we

04:40:10.580 have

04:40:10.720 two

04:40:10.860 black

04:40:11.080 people

04:40:11.300 here

04:40:11.480 that

04:40:11.640 disagree

04:40:11.960 on

04:40:12.200 whether

04:40:12.360 or

04:40:12.480 not

04:40:12.600 it's

04:40:12.740 racist

04:40:13.100 but

04:40:13.420 you

04:40:13.800 do

04:40:14.180 you

04:40:14.280 think

04:40:14.500 it's

04:40:14.680 racist

04:40:14.940 I'm

04:40:15.300 not

04:40:15.420 a

04:40:15.520 black

04:40:15.700 person

04:40:15.960 I

04:40:16.080 can't

04:40:16.220 speak

04:40:16.400 on

04:40:16.540 that

04:40:16.640 wait

04:40:16.920 you

04:40:17.720 can

04:40:17.980 hold

04:40:18.380 on

04:40:18.600 one

04:40:21.020 quick

04:40:21.860 question

04:40:22.180 before I

04:40:23.080 have you

04:40:23.440 jump

04:40:23.640 in

04:40:23.780 the

04:40:23.900 trees

04:40:24.140 okay

04:40:24.580 have

04:40:26.360 you

04:40:26.440 ever

04:40:26.580 had

04:40:26.700 an

04:40:26.780 abortion

04:40:27.080 no

04:40:28.800 do

04:40:29.420 you

04:40:29.480 have

04:40:29.620 a

04:40:29.720 position

04:40:30.000 on

04:40:30.200 abortion

04:40:30.540 yes

04:40:33.040 okay

04:40:33.340 so

04:40:33.540 you

04:40:33.680 can

04:40:33.840 have

04:40:34.040 a

04:40:34.180 position

04:40:34.480 on

04:40:34.720 something

04:40:35.020 even

04:40:35.320 if

04:40:35.520 you

04:40:35.780 haven't

04:40:36.420 experienced

04:40:36.980 it

04:40:37.340 or

04:40:37.980 sure

04:40:39.420 okay

04:40:40.180 so

04:40:40.460 you're

04:40:40.660 not

04:40:40.820 a

04:40:40.940 black

04:40:41.160 person

04:40:41.660 like

04:40:42.800 for

04:40:42.960 example

04:40:43.160 I'm

04:40:43.460 white

04:40:43.780 I

04:40:44.780 don't

04:40:44.960 think

04:40:45.140 people

04:40:45.420 should

04:40:45.660 call

04:40:45.860 black

04:40:46.100 like

04:40:46.340 I

04:40:46.640 don't

04:40:46.780 think

04:40:46.920 white

04:40:47.140 people

04:40:47.400 should

04:40:47.580 call

04:40:47.740 black

04:40:47.940 people

04:40:48.160 the

04:40:48.320 n

04:40:48.500 word

04:40:48.760 I

04:40:49.280 don't

04:40:49.520 think

04:40:49.800 so

04:40:49.840 either

04:40:53.780 would

04:40:53.900 be

04:40:54.020 racist

04:40:54.520 for

04:40:54.900 a

04:40:55.020 white

04:40:55.180 person

04:40:55.560 to

04:40:56.380 call

04:40:57.300 somebody

04:40:57.740 call

04:40:58.200 excuse

04:40:58.460 me

04:40:58.620 call

04:40:58.800 black

04:40:59.080 person

04:40:59.380 the

04:40:59.540 n

04:40:59.700 word

04:40:59.920 yeah

04:41:00.160 sure

04:41:00.660 yeah

04:41:00.860 especially

04:41:01.120 with a

04:41:01.340 hard

04:41:01.500 r

04:41:02.420 does

04:41:02.700 the

04:41:02.880 c

04:41:03.040 word

04:41:03.220 have

04:41:03.400 like

04:41:03.580 any

04:41:03.760 historical

04:41:04.220 connotation

04:41:04.760 to it

04:41:05.040 or

04:41:05.120 that's

04:41:05.420 why

04:41:05.640 I

04:41:05.840 don't

04:41:06.200 know

04:41:06.420 it

04:41:06.780 is

04:41:07.000 still

04:41:07.260 for

04:41:08.520 the

04:41:08.680 sake

04:41:08.880 of

04:41:09.020 the

04:41:09.140 convo

04:41:09.500 I'm

04:41:09.740 absolutely

04:41:10.100 willing

04:41:10.520 to

04:41:10.740 grant

04:41:11.000 that

04:41:11.240 that

04:41:11.740 there's

04:41:12.340 different

04:41:12.660 levels

04:41:13.020 of

04:41:13.240 severity

04:41:13.720 to

04:41:14.100 certain

04:41:14.400 words

04:41:14.860 and

04:41:15.280 there's

04:41:15.460 absolutely

04:41:16.040 historical

04:41:16.740 context

04:41:23.780 black

04:41:23.980 person

04:41:24.280 I

04:41:24.780 think

04:41:25.040 it's

04:41:25.280 more

04:41:25.640 severe

04:41:26.180 than

04:41:26.900 saying

04:41:27.380 the

04:41:27.960 c

04:41:28.160 word

04:41:28.340 to

04:41:28.500 a

04:41:28.640 white

04:41:28.840 person

04:41:29.320 however

04:41:30.380 that's

04:41:30.660 not

04:41:30.760 the

04:41:30.900 question

04:41:31.340 it's

04:41:33.160 not a

04:41:33.360 question

04:41:33.560 of

04:41:33.760 severity

04:41:35.740 it's

04:41:36.140 a

04:41:36.240 question

04:41:36.500 of

04:41:36.680 whether

04:41:36.880 it

04:41:37.120 meets

04:41:37.580 the

04:41:37.760 threshold

04:41:38.060 of

04:41:38.240 racism

04:41:38.620 or

04:41:38.840 not

04:41:39.620 I

04:41:39.800 think

04:41:40.080 I

04:41:40.680 think

04:41:40.900 severity

04:41:41.320 kind

04:41:41.600 of

04:41:41.680 goes

04:41:41.920 hand

04:41:42.200 in

04:41:42.320 hand

04:41:42.480 with

04:41:42.680 is

04:41:42.860 it

04:41:42.980 racist

04:41:43.280 or

04:41:43.480 not

04:41:43.660 because

04:41:43.900 that's

04:41:44.180 why

04:41:44.280 I

04:41:44.360 said

04:41:44.480 it's

04:41:44.640 definitely

04:41:44.860 insensitive

04:41:45.400 but

04:41:46.240 it's

04:41:46.640 definitely

04:41:46.900 less

04:41:47.260 severe

04:41:47.860 than

04:41:53.780 being

04:41:55.880 black

04:41:56.140 I

04:41:56.280 don't

04:41:56.460 think

04:41:56.680 that

04:41:56.860 it

04:41:57.040 changes

04:41:57.340 anything

04:41:57.640 I

04:41:57.780 mean

04:41:57.920 there

04:41:58.060 is

04:41:58.360 a

04:41:58.600 severity

04:41:58.940 level

04:41:59.360 but

04:41:59.660 it

04:41:59.800 still

04:42:00.060 is

04:42:00.180 racist

04:42:00.440 like

04:42:00.700 I've

04:42:00.900 never

04:42:01.220 heard

04:42:01.520 anybody

04:42:02.100 say

04:42:02.480 the

04:42:02.700 c

04:42:02.880 word

04:42:03.200 to

04:42:03.720 a

04:42:04.020 white

04:42:04.180 person

04:42:04.600 in

04:42:04.820 a

04:42:04.940 non

04:42:05.180 racist

04:42:05.500 way

04:42:05.840 like

04:42:06.160 would

04:42:06.920 you

04:42:07.020 come up

04:42:07.480 and say

04:42:07.760 what's

04:42:08.340 up

04:42:08.520 c

04:42:08.720 word

04:42:09.000 like

04:42:09.640 you're

04:42:10.100 not

04:42:10.200 going

04:42:10.340 just

04:42:10.540 randomly

04:42:10.900 call

04:42:11.300 somebody

04:42:11.680 that

04:42:11.960 and

04:42:12.180 you're

04:42:12.420 specifically

04:42:13.080 only

04:42:13.460 calling

04:42:13.920 white

04:42:14.480 people

04:42:14.760 that

04:42:15.020 and

04:42:15.500 a lot

04:42:16.040 of

04:42:16.180 times

04:42:16.420 people

04:42:16.680 mean

04:42:16.920 to

04:42:17.040 do

04:42:17.180 harm

04:42:17.480 like

04:42:17.720 I

04:42:18.280 have

04:42:18.460 never

04:42:18.860 in

04:42:19.100 my

04:42:19.260 life

04:42:19.780 met

04:42:20.140 somebody

04:42:20.560 who

04:42:20.800 has

04:42:21.020 said

04:42:21.240 that

04:42:21.460 word

04:42:21.740 with

04:42:22.220 non

04:42:22.760 malicious

04:42:23.100 intent

04:42:23.680 and

04:42:24.300 even

04:42:24.540 if

04:42:24.860 like

04:42:25.320 even

04:42:26.040 if

04:42:26.180 the

04:42:26.320 severity

04:42:26.660 is

04:42:26.940 different

04:42:27.300 it

04:42:27.580 still

04:42:27.960 is

04:42:28.120 racist

04:42:28.460 and

04:42:28.640 I

04:42:28.740 can

04:42:28.860 still

04:42:29.100 affect

04:42:29.380 somebody

04:42:29.840 anything

04:42:35.580 no

04:42:36.500 I

04:42:37.400 didn't

04:42:37.580 like

04:42:37.780 the

04:42:37.940 names

04:42:38.220 that

04:42:38.420 people

04:42:38.740 were

04:42:38.960 calling

04:42:39.280 my

04:42:39.500 husband

04:42:39.880 okay

04:42:41.180 and

04:42:42.000 it

04:42:42.180 was

04:42:42.340 pretty

04:42:42.580 messed

04:42:42.860 up

04:42:43.140 what

04:42:43.660 about

04:42:43.900 like

04:42:44.120 in

04:42:44.260 other

04:42:44.500 cultures

04:42:44.920 so

04:42:45.500 like

04:42:45.760 let's

04:42:46.020 say

04:42:46.200 a

04:42:46.360 white

04:42:46.540 person

04:42:46.940 went

04:42:47.260 to

04:42:47.540 Japan

04:42:48.000 or

04:42:48.220 something

04:42:48.540 and

04:42:50.080 the

04:42:50.500 Japanese

04:42:50.880 I

04:42:52.100 don't

04:42:52.220 know

04:42:52.400 if

04:42:52.560 I'm

04:42:52.720 allowed

04:42:52.920 to

04:42:53.120 say

04:42:53.360 it

04:42:53.600 but

04:42:54.380 the

04:42:54.740 Japanese

04:42:55.080 have

04:42:55.340 a

04:42:55.480 word

04:42:55.720 for

04:42:56.000 white

04:42:56.320 people

04:42:56.640 I

04:42:56.880 guess

04:42:57.120 that

04:42:58.200 that

04:42:58.600 is

04:42:58.980 unequivocally

04:42:59.880 an

04:43:00.200 offensive

04:43:00.560 slur

04:43:00.960 for

04:43:01.200 Westerners

04:43:01.820 I

04:43:02.480 guess

04:43:02.640 white

04:43:02.840 people

04:43:03.120 would

04:43:04.620 you

04:43:04.780 consider

04:43:05.220 that

04:43:05.500 racist

04:43:05.980 I

04:43:09.660 don't

04:43:10.180 wait

04:43:11.280 what is

04:43:11.640 the

04:43:11.800 word

04:43:12.480 it's

04:43:13.660 the

04:43:13.800 nobody's

04:43:15.100 gonna

04:43:15.220 know

04:43:15.460 it

04:43:15.620 but

04:43:15.760 it's

04:43:15.980 it

04:43:16.720 starts

04:43:16.940 with

04:43:17.080 the

04:43:17.180 letter

04:43:17.340 K

04:43:17.640 I

04:43:18.380 it's

04:43:19.120 probably

04:43:19.520 fine

04:43:19.840 for me

04:43:20.060 to say

04:43:20.280 but I'd

04:43:20.600 rather not

04:43:21.020 just to be

04:43:21.660 safe

04:43:22.960 I just

04:43:23.400 again like

04:43:24.360 I feel like

04:43:24.840 severity

04:43:25.320 still goes

04:43:26.160 in with like

04:43:26.920 is it

04:43:27.180 insensitive

04:43:27.620 or is it

04:43:28.080 racist

04:43:28.360 I don't

04:43:28.900 even know

04:43:29.300 what this

04:43:29.620 word is

04:43:29.920 I don't

04:43:30.720 know

04:43:30.840 what you're

04:43:31.160 talking about

04:43:31.700 slur

04:43:32.060 you don't

04:43:32.380 you don't

04:43:32.400 need to

04:43:32.780 know

04:43:33.040 the

04:43:33.240 word

04:43:33.540 and

04:43:33.760 it's

04:43:33.980 not

04:43:34.200 gaijin

04:43:34.700 it's

04:43:35.060 not

04:43:35.200 gaijin

04:43:35.600 I

04:43:36.080 know

04:43:36.340 what

04:43:36.540 you're

04:43:36.720 talking

04:43:37.060 about

04:43:37.380 but I

04:43:38.200 guess

04:43:38.520 I could

04:43:38.900 throw

04:43:39.080 something

04:43:39.480 in there

04:43:39.980 that in

04:43:40.580 Japan

04:43:40.920 there's

04:43:41.400 actual

04:43:41.760 places

04:43:42.220 and

04:43:42.440 establishments

04:43:43.080 that do

04:43:43.460 not

04:43:43.700 allow

04:43:43.940 anybody

04:43:44.520 other than

04:43:45.060 just

04:43:45.360 their

04:43:45.580 own

04:43:45.880 to be

04:43:46.280 in there

04:43:46.640 do you

04:43:47.000 find

04:43:47.220 that

04:43:47.400 racist

04:43:47.840 yeah

04:43:49.440 well

04:43:50.240 what's

04:43:50.800 the word

04:43:51.040 for it

04:43:51.320 is it

04:43:51.580 xenophobic

04:43:52.220 where you're

04:43:52.680 like you

04:43:52.980 don't like

04:43:53.300 other people

04:43:53.700 from your

04:43:54.000 that aren't

04:43:54.600 from your

04:43:54.840 country

04:43:55.060 period

04:43:55.400 yeah

04:43:55.980 that's

04:43:56.360 what I

04:43:56.560 think

04:43:56.700 that that

04:43:57.040 is

04:43:57.340 but what

04:43:58.040 about when

04:43:58.440 white people

04:43:58.920 only let

04:43:59.520 white people

04:44:00.100 into things

04:44:00.900 you don't

04:44:01.500 consider that

04:44:02.260 racist

04:44:02.740 because we

04:44:03.160 all say

04:44:03.620 yeah no

04:44:04.060 I would

04:44:04.600 consider

04:44:05.080 that

04:44:06.780 yeah I

04:44:07.740 would

04:44:07.940 I would

04:44:08.320 not argue

04:44:09.180 that any

04:44:09.800 of that

04:44:10.160 doing any

04:44:10.620 of those

04:44:10.860 things

04:44:11.040 are racist

04:44:11.500 here really

04:44:12.440 quick

04:44:12.740 so

04:44:13.620 your

04:44:14.700 family

04:44:16.540 your

04:44:16.960 family's

04:44:18.000 origination

04:44:18.840 is from

04:44:19.440 the Philippines

04:44:19.920 yes

04:44:20.400 do you speak

04:44:20.920 Tagalog

04:44:21.380 no

04:44:21.920 okay

04:44:22.700 do you know

04:44:23.420 if there's

04:44:23.780 a like

04:44:24.340 a word

04:44:24.820 in Tagalog

04:44:25.320 that might

04:44:25.860 be a

04:44:26.340 slur for

04:44:26.700 white people

04:44:27.140 I have

04:44:27.740 no idea

04:44:28.140 okay

04:44:29.120 in any

04:44:30.500 case

04:44:30.760 if

04:44:31.060 here I'll

04:44:31.560 just use

04:44:31.820 the Japan

04:44:32.240 example

04:44:32.680 then

04:44:32.920 if I'm

04:44:33.980 in Japan

04:44:34.420 and white

04:44:35.460 people have

04:44:36.180 no systemic

04:44:37.800 power

04:44:38.300 in Japan

04:44:39.080 the government

04:44:40.200 is run

04:44:40.700 by ethnic

04:44:41.960 Japanese

04:44:42.400 people

04:44:42.900 they run

04:44:43.900 the media

04:44:44.300 they run

04:44:44.660 the corporations

04:44:45.320 white people

04:44:45.820 have no

04:44:46.460 power

04:44:48.400 in Japan

04:44:49.280 if a

04:44:53.160 Japanese

04:44:53.480 person

04:44:53.920 walks up

04:44:54.900 to me

04:44:55.120 while I'm

04:44:55.440 in Japan

04:44:55.880 and calls

04:44:58.080 me the

04:44:58.580 slur that

04:44:59.020 I was

04:44:59.320 referencing

04:44:59.700 earlier

04:45:00.140 would you

04:45:00.960 consider

04:45:01.200 that

04:45:01.380 racist

04:45:01.800 for

04:45:03.940 Japanese

04:45:04.300 person

04:45:04.800 sure

04:45:05.420 sure

04:45:06.140 okay

04:45:06.620 interesting

04:45:09.000 what about

04:45:10.640 if I'm

04:45:11.040 would this

04:45:12.080 apply like

04:45:12.680 if I was

04:45:13.260 in China

04:45:14.320 and they

04:45:15.420 had their

04:45:15.860 own

04:45:16.160 slur for

04:45:16.680 white

04:45:16.840 people

04:45:17.100 sure

04:45:18.040 when you

04:45:20.000 say

04:45:20.160 sure

04:45:20.520 it seems

04:45:20.920 like

04:45:21.160 you are

04:45:21.880 begrudgingly

04:45:22.680 agreeing

04:45:23.100 a little

04:45:23.460 bit

04:45:23.700 because

04:45:24.060 we're

04:45:24.300 circling

04:45:24.740 back

04:45:25.000 to the

04:45:25.240 conversation

04:45:25.680 we had

04:45:25.960 the first

04:45:26.320 time

04:45:26.620 and I

04:45:26.880 don't

04:45:27.080 want to

04:45:27.340 do

04:45:27.460 that

04:45:27.620 again

04:45:27.940 because

04:45:28.320 we

04:45:28.460 already

04:45:28.640 had

04:45:28.820 the

04:45:28.920 conversation

04:45:29.260 before

04:45:29.640 we

04:45:30.000 cover

04:45:30.440 the

04:45:30.780 okay

04:45:31.580 well

04:45:31.780 you're

04:45:31.920 here

04:45:32.040 now

04:45:32.240 and I'm

04:45:32.480 asking

04:45:32.800 it

04:45:33.080 yeah

04:45:33.700 and I'm

04:45:34.180 allowed

04:45:34.360 to not

04:45:34.780 like

04:45:35.720 participating

04:45:36.300 in this

04:45:36.520 conversation

04:45:36.920 so I'm

04:45:37.660 still having

04:45:38.020 this conversation

04:45:38.580 with you

04:45:39.020 oh my god

04:45:40.480 um

04:45:41.180 hmm

04:45:42.720 what about

04:45:44.200 I guess

04:45:44.520 final question

04:45:45.120 on this

04:45:45.600 uh

04:45:46.940 if we

04:45:47.720 were in

04:45:48.280 uh

04:45:49.160 if I was

04:45:51.880 in an

04:45:52.140 African

04:45:52.420 country

04:45:52.900 and I

04:45:53.900 don't know

04:45:54.240 they

04:45:55.400 were

04:45:55.820 had

04:45:56.820 uh

04:45:57.340 can

04:45:57.800 uh

04:45:58.440 black

04:45:58.680 people in

04:45:59.140 African

04:45:59.600 country

04:46:00.000 be

04:46:00.320 racist

04:46:01.600 towards

04:46:01.900 white

04:46:02.080 people

04:46:02.320 sure

04:46:02.860 is that

04:46:06.360 your

04:46:06.560 genuine

04:46:07.680 yeah

04:46:08.680 okay

04:46:10.000 what's

04:46:10.280 with the

04:46:10.540 attitude

04:46:10.960 there's

04:46:11.780 no

04:46:11.920 attitude

04:46:12.220 I'm

04:46:12.440 answering

04:46:12.640 your

04:46:12.800 question

04:46:13.120 I mean

04:46:13.520 it just

04:46:13.840 seems

04:46:14.080 a bit

04:46:14.520 dismissive

04:46:16.720 that's

04:46:17.120 that's

04:46:17.780 if that

04:46:17.900 if that's

04:46:18.460 your genuine

04:46:19.000 if that's

04:46:19.960 your genuine

04:46:20.360 position

04:46:20.900 um

04:46:22.040 okay

04:46:22.720 I have

04:46:24.420 more notes

04:46:24.820 for you

04:46:25.080 but I'm

04:46:25.340 going to

04:46:25.660 get to

04:46:25.900 those

04:46:26.120 later

04:46:26.420 um

04:46:27.180 I'm

04:46:28.320 going to

04:46:28.480 get into

04:46:29.200 uh

04:46:29.880 Lauren

04:46:30.260 some

04:46:30.520 of

04:46:30.660 your

04:46:30.760 notes

04:46:31.020 here

04:46:31.260 uh

04:46:32.380 your

04:46:32.560 notes

04:46:32.880 uh

04:46:34.680 Lauren

04:46:34.900 on your

04:46:35.300 thing

04:46:35.640 the

04:46:37.240 question

04:46:37.580 do you

04:46:37.800 have

04:46:37.920 any

04:46:38.060 disagreements

04:46:38.540 with the

04:46:38.840 show

04:46:39.080 slash

04:46:39.400 hosts

04:46:39.740 and you

04:46:40.420 just

04:46:40.580 say

04:46:40.720 their

04:46:40.900 entire

04:46:41.280 setup

04:46:41.700 what does

04:46:42.100 that

04:46:42.320 mean

04:46:42.520 yes

04:46:43.100 okay

04:46:45.200 so

04:46:45.720 um

04:46:46.360 I've

04:46:47.420 obviously

04:46:48.000 seen

04:46:48.260 some of

04:46:48.500 like the

04:46:48.760 viral clips

04:46:49.380 like years

04:46:49.920 ago

04:46:50.220 and then

04:46:51.320 the other

04:46:51.820 day

04:46:52.240 I saw

04:46:52.820 some

04:46:53.080 clips

04:46:53.740 on like

04:46:54.440 this

04:46:54.700 because

04:46:54.840 you guys

04:46:55.060 have

04:46:55.200 multiple

04:46:55.460 TikTok

04:46:55.760 accounts

04:46:56.220 I feel

04:46:56.620 like most

04:46:57.640 shows and

04:46:58.560 influencers

04:46:59.020 do have

04:46:59.600 that

04:46:59.840 but

04:47:01.120 um

04:47:02.100 we have

04:47:02.460 we have

04:47:02.900 one

04:47:03.120 TikTok

04:47:03.540 account

04:47:03.920 oh

04:47:04.040 we have

04:47:04.240 one

04:47:04.540 okay

04:47:04.800 so maybe

04:47:05.120 yeah

04:47:05.760 okay

04:47:06.400 maybe it's

04:47:06.800 a fan

04:47:07.060 account

04:47:07.240 I don't

04:47:07.520 know

04:47:07.700 but I

04:47:08.020 found

04:47:08.320 some

04:47:08.540 like

04:47:08.720 most

04:47:09.020 recent

04:47:09.580 like

04:47:09.760 the

04:47:09.920 most

04:47:10.120 recent

04:47:10.460 clips

04:47:10.960 and

04:47:12.300 um

04:47:12.920 I didn't

04:47:13.700 like

04:47:14.140 the way

04:47:14.840 that the

04:47:15.220 debates

04:47:15.560 were

04:47:15.740 portrayed

04:47:16.280 especially

04:47:17.140 like

04:47:17.600 having

04:47:18.320 women

04:47:19.240 on the

04:47:19.760 show

04:47:20.500 the way

04:47:21.900 that you

04:47:22.460 guys

04:47:22.860 edited

04:47:23.400 the

04:47:24.080 clips

04:47:25.040 were

04:47:26.240 you

04:47:26.900 guys

04:47:27.260 asked

04:47:27.580 them

04:47:27.700 like

04:47:27.840 random

04:47:28.160 questions

04:47:28.660 about

04:47:28.880 like

04:47:29.120 when

04:47:29.400 was

04:47:29.600 war

04:47:29.780 1812

04:47:30.500 or

04:47:30.900 something

04:47:31.160 like

04:47:31.380 that

04:47:31.520 1812

04:47:32.360 um

04:47:33.220 and you

04:47:33.500 guys

04:47:33.680 like

04:47:33.840 went

04:47:34.040 around

04:47:34.240 asking

04:47:34.660 like

04:47:34.880 irrelevant

04:47:35.420 questions

04:47:36.060 about

04:47:36.300 dating

04:47:36.700 but

04:47:37.240 to

04:47:37.700 set

04:47:38.160 the

04:47:38.400 stage

04:47:39.000 of

04:47:40.020 denying

04:47:41.120 all

04:47:41.460 their

04:47:41.660 opinions

04:47:42.240 once

04:47:43.080 it

04:47:43.240 got

04:47:43.400 to

04:47:43.560 that

04:47:43.760 because

04:47:44.180 if

04:47:45.300 people

04:47:45.720 were

04:47:45.960 to

04:47:46.180 see

04:47:46.620 other

04:47:47.120 parts

04:47:47.440 of

04:47:47.560 it

04:47:47.680 because

04:47:47.860 if

04:47:48.160 they

04:47:48.280 can't

04:47:48.760 answer

04:47:49.060 those

04:47:49.280 like

04:47:49.440 basic

04:47:50.160 or

04:47:50.840 random

04:47:51.160 questions

04:47:51.760 right

04:47:52.140 then

04:47:52.840 you

04:47:53.120 are

04:47:53.340 already

04:47:54.040 setting

04:47:54.520 the

04:47:54.760 stage

04:47:55.260 that

04:47:55.500 their

04:47:55.780 opinions

04:47:56.180 irrelevant

04:47:56.660 because

04:47:57.000 they

04:47:57.120 don't

04:47:57.240 even

04:47:57.420 know

04:47:57.740 when

04:47:58.160 1812

04:47:58.920 was

04:47:59.300 right

04:47:59.620 so

04:48:00.460 I

04:48:00.760 feel

04:48:01.100 like

04:48:01.260 the

04:48:01.400 way

04:48:01.540 that

04:48:01.680 that

04:48:01.840 was

04:48:02.000 framed

04:48:02.640 already

04:48:03.620 puts

04:48:03.980 women

04:48:04.280 in a

04:48:04.580 position

04:48:05.000 where

04:48:05.640 you're

04:48:05.960 saying

04:48:06.200 like

04:48:06.360 their

04:48:06.540 opinions

04:48:06.940 don't

04:48:07.240 matter

04:48:07.540 they're

04:48:07.720 not

04:48:07.900 even

04:48:08.060 educated

04:48:08.700 then

04:48:09.980 also

04:48:10.920 the

04:48:11.840 blow up

04:48:12.340 dolls

04:48:12.660 and

04:48:13.140 your

04:48:13.360 previous

04:48:13.800 assistant

04:48:14.300 which

04:48:14.580 I

04:48:14.760 don't

04:48:14.840 know

04:48:14.920 what

04:48:15.040 happened

04:48:15.340 but

04:48:15.560 she's

04:48:15.800 not

04:48:15.920 here

04:48:16.120 today

04:48:20.160 looking

04:48:21.300 like

04:48:21.620 a

04:48:21.940 blonde

04:48:22.900 crossing

04:48:23.380 her

04:48:23.640 eyes

04:48:24.120 sucking

04:48:24.600 on

04:48:24.820 a

04:48:24.940 lollipop

04:48:25.520 and

04:48:26.260 that's

04:48:26.840 the

04:48:26.980 one

04:48:27.220 consistent

04:48:27.660 woman

04:48:27.880 that

04:48:28.040 you

04:48:28.180 do

04:48:28.480 have

04:48:28.780 on

04:48:29.020 the

04:48:29.200 podcast

04:48:29.520 so

04:48:30.240 I

04:48:30.360 also

04:48:30.740 think

04:48:31.220 that

04:48:31.440 you're

04:48:31.680 setting

04:48:31.920 the

04:48:32.120 stage

04:48:32.680 of

04:48:32.960 your

04:48:34.160 guys'

04:48:34.460 opinion

04:48:35.720 on

04:48:36.020 women

04:48:36.380 which

04:48:36.720 is

04:48:36.900 completely

04:48:37.340 objectified

04:48:38.240 and

04:48:38.480 that

04:48:38.640 women

04:48:38.880 should

04:48:39.100 be

04:48:39.480 quiet

04:48:40.940 and

04:48:41.260 submissive

04:48:41.720 because

04:48:41.860 I

04:48:42.140 don't

04:48:42.400 hear

04:48:42.700 any

04:48:42.860 hot

04:48:43.060 takes

04:48:43.300 from

04:48:43.520 her

04:48:43.740 and

04:48:44.040 things

04:48:44.260 like

04:48:44.420 that

04:48:44.580 but

04:48:44.760 that's

04:48:45.100 just

04:48:45.260 from

04:48:45.520 an

04:48:45.840 outsider's

04:48:50.160 sure

04:48:50.780 okay

04:48:51.060 I'll

04:48:51.460 try

04:48:51.660 to

04:48:51.800 go

04:48:52.000 one

04:48:52.260 by

04:48:52.420 one

04:48:52.660 on

04:48:52.860 those

04:48:53.060 there

04:48:53.220 was

04:48:53.360 a

04:48:53.480 lot

04:48:53.640 there

04:48:53.940 but

04:48:54.180 I'll

04:48:54.640 try

04:48:54.860 to

04:48:55.040 okay

04:48:55.280 so

04:48:55.480 we'll

04:48:55.640 start

04:48:55.920 with

04:48:56.220 the

04:48:57.060 questions

04:48:58.140 first

04:48:59.200 off

04:48:59.440 most

04:48:59.660 of

04:48:59.760 those

04:48:59.900 like

04:49:00.140 little

04:49:00.320 rapid

04:49:00.620 fire

04:49:00.900 questions

04:49:01.360 that's

04:49:01.740 just

04:49:01.880 a

04:49:02.040 fun

04:49:02.240 segment

04:49:02.620 to

04:49:02.840 lighten

04:49:03.120 the

04:49:03.220 mood

04:49:03.420 because

04:49:03.680 sometimes

04:49:04.100 the

04:49:04.700 conversation

04:49:05.260 can

04:49:05.660 get

04:49:05.920 you

04:49:06.100 know

04:49:06.300 a

04:49:06.720 little

04:49:06.900 heavy

04:49:07.280 with

04:49:07.680 even

04:49:08.820 if

04:49:09.040 it

04:49:09.140 is

04:49:09.320 strictly

04:49:09.600 about

04:49:09.940 dating

04:49:10.260 there's

04:49:10.520 obviously

04:49:10.840 disagreements

04:49:11.480 so

04:49:11.900 that's

04:49:12.080 a fun

04:49:20.160 that

04:49:20.400 segment

04:49:20.820 happens

04:49:21.840 typically

04:49:22.260 very far

04:49:22.960 into the

04:49:23.460 show

04:49:23.720 so

04:49:24.640 like

04:49:25.020 those

04:49:25.300 questions

04:49:25.660 are not

04:49:26.000 asked

04:49:26.340 early

04:49:26.880 on

04:49:27.260 to

04:49:27.480 like

04:49:27.680 be

04:49:27.820 like

04:49:28.000 oh

04:49:28.200 look

04:49:28.360 at

04:49:28.460 these

04:49:28.580 stupid

04:49:28.840 women

04:49:29.100 you can

04:49:29.420 discount

04:49:29.840 everything

04:49:30.660 that they

04:49:31.020 say

04:49:31.280 it's

04:49:31.540 usually

04:49:31.820 no

04:49:32.380 we

04:49:32.640 have

04:49:33.040 the

04:49:33.360 conversations

04:49:34.160 up front

04:49:34.860 and then

04:49:35.600 towards the

04:49:35.980 end of the

04:49:36.280 show

04:49:36.560 we do

04:49:37.220 some of

04:49:37.480 those

04:49:37.620 fun

04:49:37.880 questions

04:49:38.540 in any

04:49:39.700 case

04:49:39.960 I also

04:49:40.660 do

04:49:40.920 think

04:49:41.160 though

04:49:41.460 as it

04:49:41.980 relates

04:49:42.180 to

04:49:42.360 those

04:49:42.600 questions

04:49:43.020 while you

04:49:43.380 might

04:49:43.580 think

04:49:43.920 that

04:49:44.060 they're

04:49:44.200 a

04:49:44.300 bit

04:49:44.400 unfair

04:49:44.820 I

04:49:45.560 think

04:49:50.160 requisite

04:49:50.520 knowledge

04:49:50.860 they probably

04:49:51.580 shouldn't be

04:49:51.880 allowed to

04:49:52.220 vote

04:49:52.420 whether

04:49:52.660 you're

04:49:52.820 a man

04:49:53.040 or a woman

04:49:53.560 so if

04:49:54.400 you're

04:49:54.680 a man

04:49:55.180 or a woman

04:49:55.740 and you

04:49:56.340 can't name

04:49:56.880 three countries

04:49:57.580 I don't

04:49:58.400 think you're

04:49:58.760 smart enough

04:49:59.160 to vote

04:49:59.520 so

04:50:00.820 you know

04:50:02.500 that's

04:50:04.500 kind of a

04:50:05.120 separate

04:50:05.280 conversation

04:50:05.860 the dolls

04:50:07.100 you mentioned

04:50:07.560 the dolls

04:50:07.980 I don't know

04:50:08.380 how that's

04:50:08.800 material

04:50:09.180 but what's

04:50:10.180 your criticism

04:50:10.680 of the

04:50:11.160 dolls

04:50:12.020 yeah

04:50:12.760 because it's

04:50:13.540 like

04:50:13.920 it's making

04:50:15.360 fun of

04:50:15.780 women

04:50:16.180 how would

04:50:16.700 you

04:50:17.600 I think

04:50:18.520 you view

04:50:19.020 things through

04:50:19.460 like a

04:50:19.820 victim

04:50:20.100 hood

04:50:20.400 mindset

04:50:20.960 but how

04:50:22.020 would having

04:50:22.800 the dolls

04:50:23.280 there

04:50:23.600 be

04:50:24.480 making fun

04:50:25.780 of women

04:50:26.120 look at

04:50:27.380 the dolls

04:50:27.880 what

04:50:28.820 what about

04:50:29.460 describe the

04:50:30.060 dolls in

04:50:30.500 detail

04:50:30.920 they

04:50:32.620 one has

04:50:33.360 blue hair

04:50:33.860 one has

04:50:34.320 pink hair

04:50:34.960 one of them

04:50:35.780 is doing

04:50:36.180 the fucking

04:50:36.940 bell

04:50:37.320 delphine

04:50:37.900 hey go

04:50:38.780 face

04:50:39.260 okay

04:50:40.780 for example

04:50:42.860 our

04:50:43.400 no woman

04:50:44.140 on this

04:50:44.520 podcast

04:50:44.820 right now

04:50:45.200 was also

04:50:45.680 uncomfortable

04:50:46.360 being clipped

04:50:47.420 with the

04:50:47.780 dolls as well

04:50:48.280 so it

04:50:48.980 makes women

04:50:49.680 uncomfortable

04:50:50.240 that

04:50:52.040 well this

04:50:52.840 okay so

04:50:53.540 we've had

04:50:53.860 on over

04:50:54.480 well over

04:50:54.980 a thousand

04:50:55.360 women on

04:50:55.760 the show

04:50:56.060 this autist

04:50:57.800 over here

04:50:58.460 is the

04:50:59.600 first woman

04:51:00.500 ever to

04:51:01.860 have ever

04:51:02.280 sent me a

04:51:02.700 message like

04:51:03.280 hey by the

04:51:04.080 way I'm a

04:51:04.500 little bit

04:51:04.780 uncomfortable

04:51:05.160 with the

04:51:05.560 dolls

04:51:05.860 so I don't

04:51:06.600 think like a

04:51:07.120 one out of

04:51:07.860 like a

04:51:08.540 thousand plus

04:51:09.240 is a

04:51:09.900 is a great

04:51:10.560 sample size

04:51:11.180 there

04:51:11.420 devil's advocate

04:51:12.160 what about all

04:51:12.940 the women that

04:51:13.380 were uncomfortable

04:51:13.780 but didn't say

04:51:14.420 anything

04:51:14.620 yeah

04:51:14.800 because I

04:51:15.140 would

04:51:15.300 yeah

04:51:15.640 I mean

04:51:18.000 you walk

04:51:18.480 past

04:51:18.760 you don't

04:51:19.000 think it's

04:51:19.380 weird

04:51:19.620 no

04:51:20.360 it's weird

04:51:20.900 but why would

04:51:21.440 it make you

04:51:21.740 uncomfortable

04:51:22.080 they're there

04:51:22.420 you what's up

04:51:23.740 I also don't

04:51:24.360 understand why

04:51:24.860 you would come

04:51:25.200 on this podcast

04:51:25.860 knowing that

04:51:26.760 those are there

04:51:27.460 like if you

04:51:27.980 felt uncomfortable

04:51:28.680 right

04:51:29.200 what if they

04:51:29.740 didn't come on

04:51:30.460 the podcast

04:51:30.860 I mean

04:51:31.140 they're in

04:51:31.580 that also

04:51:32.060 they're inanimate

04:51:32.820 objects like

04:51:33.520 I don't know

04:51:33.920 with opposing

04:51:34.500 opinions like

04:51:35.300 that's the whole

04:51:35.720 point of

04:51:36.220 there's also

04:51:36.660 like a

04:51:37.340 crap ton

04:51:38.200 of chicks

04:51:38.540 okay so

04:51:38.800 if you know

04:51:39.280 that then

04:51:39.940 why are you

04:51:40.600 like

04:51:40.800 opposing opinions

04:51:43.120 that's why

04:51:43.960 I'm on here

04:51:44.620 because they've

04:51:45.180 seen my

04:51:45.580 so you have

04:51:46.120 an opposing

04:51:46.500 opinion to

04:51:47.060 the dolls

04:51:47.440 but like

04:51:47.840 why are you

04:51:48.200 making like

04:51:48.680 exactly

04:51:49.120 for that

04:51:49.500 exact reason

04:51:50.100 just for

04:51:50.900 the views

04:51:51.700 no

04:51:52.040 no

04:51:52.700 it's because

04:51:53.420 I have opposing

04:51:54.240 opinions on

04:51:55.160 some of their

04:51:55.980 rhetoric on the

04:51:56.820 podcast so

04:51:57.820 that's why

04:51:58.340 I'm here

04:51:58.820 and that's

04:52:00.280 what the whole

04:52:00.720 point of

04:52:01.080 debates are

04:52:01.900 and I still

04:52:02.700 think there's a

04:52:03.120 greater purpose

04:52:03.740 to all of

04:52:04.320 this you know

04:52:05.000 what I mean

04:52:05.460 no

04:52:06.620 there's really

04:52:07.080 a woman with

04:52:07.600 like semen

04:52:08.040 dripping from

04:52:08.520 her shirt

04:52:09.000 it's just

04:52:09.440 weird

04:52:09.720 what

04:52:10.100 that's

04:52:11.460 not

04:52:11.760 oh

04:52:12.220 is it

04:52:12.660 is it

04:52:12.920 spit

04:52:13.160 it looks

04:52:13.780 like one

04:52:14.040 of those

04:52:14.240 anime girls

04:52:14.920 I don't know

04:52:15.500 it's some

04:52:15.860 anime

04:52:16.280 fucking

04:52:16.800 it's hentai

04:52:17.440 it's weird

04:52:18.180 I don't even

04:52:19.920 know if that

04:52:20.340 I don't even

04:52:20.820 know if the

04:52:21.160 h word is

04:52:21.720 allowed

04:52:22.000 oh it's

04:52:23.820 probably fine

04:52:24.440 but okay

04:52:25.940 I mean

04:52:26.300 the dolls

04:52:27.160 I mean

04:52:27.620 if you want

04:52:28.020 the like

04:52:28.380 origination

04:52:29.040 story of

04:52:29.500 the dolls

04:52:29.940 it's not

04:52:30.720 like to

04:52:31.940 to like

04:52:32.640 embarrass

04:52:33.740 women

04:52:34.120 the actual

04:52:35.120 origination

04:52:35.780 was if we

04:52:36.740 ever had

04:52:37.160 after the

04:52:37.580 show

04:52:37.800 whoa

04:52:39.500 huh

04:52:39.860 he's

04:52:40.460 those

04:52:41.380 two

04:52:41.720 those dolls

04:52:42.240 are

04:52:42.460 virgins

04:52:44.200 okay

04:52:44.800 sorry

04:52:45.040 their chastity

04:52:46.380 is intact

04:52:47.180 okay

04:52:47.680 uh

04:52:49.280 by the way

04:52:50.900 it would be

04:52:51.260 a fucking

04:52:51.720 if you did

04:52:52.440 fuck a

04:52:52.880 sex doll

04:52:53.300 it would

04:52:53.580 be so

04:52:54.120 inconvenient

04:52:54.760 to like

04:52:55.300 those things

04:52:56.160 are heavy

04:52:56.640 and they're

04:52:56.960 dead weight

04:52:57.420 to drag

04:52:58.100 it into

04:52:58.420 the fucking

04:52:59.280 shower

04:52:59.720 are you

04:53:01.980 speaking from

04:53:02.720 experience

04:53:03.320 no but

04:53:04.660 you seem

04:53:05.080 very passionate

04:53:05.840 about that

04:53:06.420 me and Nick

04:53:06.700 if I recall

04:53:07.580 fucking moved

04:53:08.720 those dolls

04:53:09.580 are heavy

04:53:10.060 as fuck

04:53:10.840 like it is

04:53:12.860 so I don't

04:53:13.520 know why

04:53:13.860 I don't even

04:53:14.240 know why a man

04:53:14.860 would buy a

04:53:15.500 sex doll

04:53:15.820 they're so

04:53:16.280 fucking

04:53:16.740 inconvenient

04:53:17.420 and it's

04:53:18.420 like I got

04:53:18.840 little back

04:53:19.280 problems

04:53:19.640 I'm not

04:53:20.000 trying to lift

04:53:20.400 some fucking

04:53:20.920 heavy ass

04:53:21.440 fucking doll

04:53:22.520 anyways

04:53:22.980 but the

04:53:24.140 origination of

04:53:25.100 those was

04:53:25.460 actually when I

04:53:26.140 first started

04:53:26.560 the show

04:53:26.840 they actually

04:53:27.280 would sit

04:53:27.760 at the table

04:53:28.340 because we

04:53:29.260 would get

04:53:29.640 people who

04:53:30.080 cancel

04:53:30.440 so we would

04:53:31.340 actually scoop

04:53:32.200 the dolls

04:53:32.740 in now we

04:53:33.360 don't do it

04:53:33.740 because it's

04:53:34.000 just like

04:53:34.260 fuck whatever

04:53:34.800 we'd scoot

04:53:36.080 the dolls

04:53:36.520 in if

04:53:37.200 somebody was

04:53:37.800 like not

04:53:38.180 here and

04:53:38.980 they would

04:53:39.240 actually just

04:53:39.740 sit at the

04:53:40.180 table just

04:53:40.700 as like kind

04:53:41.180 of a funny

04:53:41.660 meme so we

04:53:42.780 could like

04:53:43.100 placeholders

04:53:44.560 so we can

04:53:45.260 make the table

04:53:45.780 look full

04:53:46.360 also it's just

04:53:47.600 kind of a

04:53:48.160 like it's

04:53:49.580 kind of a

04:53:50.080 you know in

04:53:50.540 music and

04:53:52.220 this relates

04:53:52.620 to the

04:53:52.960 felicity thing

04:53:53.640 do you know

04:53:54.060 in music

04:53:54.740 what a hook

04:53:55.940 is you sing

04:53:57.620 right or who

04:53:58.400 was the singer

04:53:58.800 sorry that's

04:53:59.960 you a hook

04:54:01.320 that's like at

04:54:02.580 the beginning of

04:54:03.220 the song there's

04:54:03.900 like something

04:54:04.460 like a melody

04:54:05.620 or something

04:54:06.120 the intro

04:54:06.560 the hook is

04:54:08.260 what hooks them

04:54:09.280 the chorus

04:54:10.260 chorus is different

04:54:11.300 than the hook

04:54:11.760 oh you mean like

04:54:12.680 the very beginning

04:54:13.300 the hook is

04:54:13.880 something that

04:54:14.320 hooks you in

04:54:14.980 right and so

04:54:16.200 it was like

04:54:16.720 okay if I have

04:54:17.740 clips out there

04:54:18.520 where I have a

04:54:18.900 podcast and it's

04:54:20.040 like look it's

04:54:20.600 how many fucking

04:54:21.260 podcasts are there

04:54:21.940 there's hundreds

04:54:22.380 of podcasts

04:54:23.000 how do you

04:54:23.760 differentiate yourself

04:54:24.720 just something

04:54:25.680 unique quirky

04:54:26.660 that stands out

04:54:27.820 what the fuck

04:54:28.920 are and so

04:54:29.920 so somebody comes

04:54:30.660 across a whatever

04:54:31.300 clip their first

04:54:32.040 time ever seeing

04:54:32.680 a clip

04:54:33.040 yo what the

04:54:35.220 fuck is that

04:54:35.740 in the background

04:54:36.260 and even if that

04:54:37.480 buys me another

04:54:38.160 10 seconds of

04:54:38.900 their attention

04:54:39.440 they can listen

04:54:40.680 to the conversation

04:54:41.480 and that gives me

04:54:42.540 an opportunity

04:54:43.140 to get them

04:54:43.980 oh okay this is

04:54:45.400 interesting convo

04:54:46.200 but they wouldn't

04:54:47.440 have gotten to

04:54:48.240 that point

04:54:48.840 had I not

04:54:49.760 presented to

04:54:50.660 them a spectacle

04:54:51.840 as an enabling

04:54:54.620 factor to hook

04:54:55.640 them in

04:54:56.100 and so similar

04:54:57.380 to Felicity

04:54:58.000 I have her

04:54:58.660 I've actually

04:54:59.400 only done that

04:54:59.980 for two episodes

04:55:00.760 where she stood

04:55:01.300 in the front

04:55:01.800 and by the way

04:55:02.780 we parted ways

04:55:03.480 with Felicity

04:55:04.380 no drama

04:55:06.900 no beef

04:55:07.520 wish her the best

04:55:08.220 I use that

04:55:11.620 as a hook

04:55:12.140 so the very first

04:55:13.120 thing you see

04:55:13.620 is her doing

04:55:14.520 like by the way

04:55:15.300 that's not the

04:55:15.780 hey gal

04:55:16.260 she just knows

04:55:16.800 how to cross

04:55:17.220 her eyes

04:55:17.620 and make it

04:55:18.380 go

04:55:18.560 that's innocent

04:55:19.660 I thought

04:55:20.000 there was a talent

04:55:20.600 yeah she just

04:55:21.860 crosses her eyes

04:55:22.540 or whatever

04:55:22.920 that's the hook

04:55:23.900 oh what the fuck

04:55:25.140 why is this girl

04:55:25.640 doing this weird

04:55:26.200 fucking thing

04:55:26.680 boom hook

04:55:27.700 to be fair

04:55:28.980 Brian

04:55:29.360 blue hair girl

04:55:30.180 has been around

04:55:30.660 in the game

04:55:31.100 a lot longer

04:55:31.660 than pink hair

04:55:32.220 that is true

04:55:33.620 the blue one

04:55:34.460 was the first

04:55:35.220 and then the pink

04:55:35.820 hair came around

04:55:37.100 after episode 100

04:55:38.320 and you're not

04:55:39.100 dressing them

04:55:39.560 overly sexual

04:55:40.440 like

04:55:40.920 yeah

04:55:41.520 she's wearing

04:55:43.140 a porn shirt

04:55:43.860 that's

04:55:45.340 the other one's

04:55:47.380 wearing a fucking

04:55:48.020 Arby's t-shirt

04:55:49.200 and a

04:55:49.800 to referent her

04:55:51.100 vagina

04:55:51.500 so anyways

04:55:52.880 anyways

04:55:53.540 okay so there's

04:55:55.240 the dolls

04:55:55.600 Felicity

04:55:56.080 questions

04:55:56.820 the entire

04:55:57.500 setup

04:55:57.900 do you think

04:55:58.940 do you think

04:55:59.460 the show

04:55:59.920 is

04:56:00.540 or me

04:56:01.500 even

04:56:01.860 is

04:56:02.440 misogynistic

04:56:04.420 be for real

04:56:10.980 no I'm thinking

04:56:12.460 because I mean

04:56:13.040 obviously I have

04:56:13.540 a different opinion

04:56:14.360 after being here

04:56:15.280 you know what I mean

04:56:16.080 so

04:56:17.140 well what was your

04:56:17.680 opinion going in

04:56:18.440 that was my

04:56:18.960 first impression

04:56:19.780 and then right now

04:56:21.020 I'm undecided

04:56:22.100 because I haven't

04:56:22.900 you love the show

04:56:24.420 now you're coming

04:56:25.040 back

04:56:25.360 but

04:56:27.500 okay

04:56:29.040 but going in

04:56:30.720 you thought

04:56:31.040 it was

04:56:31.400 misogynistic

04:56:31.680 look

04:56:32.140 yeah

04:56:32.560 but

04:56:33.760 I'm very

04:56:34.280 let me just say this

04:56:35.220 I'm very used to

04:56:36.100 people disagreeing

04:56:37.020 with me

04:56:37.320 I'm used to

04:56:38.140 people having

04:56:38.680 different

04:56:39.140 perspective

04:56:39.880 and world views

04:56:41.020 this is nearly

04:56:42.000 episode 300

04:56:42.880 if you think

04:56:44.540 I'm a misogynist

04:56:45.460 I'm not going to be

04:56:46.340 I disagree with you

04:56:47.360 I'm not going to be

04:56:48.320 offended

04:56:48.720 no I

04:56:50.180 obviously

04:56:50.880 you're not going

04:56:51.200 to be offended

04:56:51.600 because your show

04:56:52.960 but what

04:56:54.620 that was my

04:56:55.260 first impression

04:56:56.260 obviously

04:56:57.060 but what

04:56:58.340 you obviously

04:56:59.500 sorry

04:57:00.220 you've obviously

04:57:01.460 built something

04:57:02.120 that is still

04:57:04.320 my bad

04:57:05.280 something

04:57:05.900 and that we've been

04:57:07.340 here we've had

04:57:08.040 meaningful conversations

04:57:08.940 so

04:57:09.420 that is an answer

04:57:11.120 okay

04:57:11.600 let's see here

04:57:13.680 I guess we'll move

04:57:14.320 moving along from that

04:57:15.740 unless you

04:57:16.240 did you have other

04:57:17.040 quarrels or

04:57:18.740 disagreements

04:57:19.820 or whatever

04:57:20.280 yeah we'll do

04:57:23.700 those

04:57:23.960 but Lauren

04:57:25.500 you said

04:57:26.180 that

04:57:26.500 yeah

04:57:29.320 in an email

04:57:29.980 you sent

04:57:30.380 you said

04:57:30.640 the conversations

04:57:31.260 feel exploitative

04:57:32.320 or dismissive

04:57:33.620 because that

04:57:33.960 was me

04:57:34.560 like literally

04:57:35.060 after I

04:57:35.580 like saw

04:57:36.360 those clips

04:57:36.900 you know

04:57:37.340 okay

04:57:37.800 also you

04:57:43.560 asked us

04:57:44.380 you asked

04:57:45.860 us to pay

04:57:46.440 for your

04:57:46.780 babysitter

04:57:47.400 I'm not

04:57:47.700 your date

04:57:48.960 Lauren

04:57:49.360 I'm not

04:57:49.740 your date

04:57:50.120 I'm your

04:57:50.460 potential

04:57:51.120 person

04:57:51.800 you're

04:57:52.040 doing

04:57:52.380 business

04:57:52.720 I can't

04:57:53.240 answer

04:57:53.440 this

04:57:53.620 question

04:57:53.980 don't

04:57:55.860 don't

04:57:56.340 we get

04:57:57.020 paid

04:57:57.380 it's an

04:58:00.080 interview

04:58:00.440 you don't

04:58:01.200 get paid

04:58:01.600 for it

04:58:02.120 boy

04:58:02.800 okay

04:58:03.300 so anyways

04:58:03.860 moving on

04:58:04.500 Lauren

04:58:05.080 I read

04:58:07.380 on your

04:58:07.720 Instagram

04:58:08.180 there's so

04:58:09.280 much on

04:58:09.580 your Instagram

04:58:09.960 I don't even

04:58:10.340 think we'll

04:58:10.600 have time

04:58:10.920 tonight

04:58:11.100 but you

04:58:12.840 describe

04:58:13.220 yourself

04:58:13.440 as a

04:58:13.800 modern

04:58:14.160 healer

04:58:14.620 rooted in

04:58:15.120 native

04:58:15.420 ancestry

04:58:16.020 yes

04:58:16.980 I do

04:58:18.940 womb

04:58:19.180 healing

04:58:19.440 so I

04:58:20.280 womb

04:58:20.700 healing

04:58:21.380 sexual

04:58:22.020 healing

04:58:22.360 with women

04:58:22.820 who've

04:58:23.240 dealt

04:58:23.400 with

04:58:23.540 trauma

04:58:23.840 oh

04:58:24.820 okay

04:58:25.100 you

04:58:25.260 do

04:58:26.240 EFT

04:58:26.740 tapping

04:58:27.240 what's

04:58:27.520 that

04:58:27.740 yeah

04:58:28.200 so

04:58:28.500 can you

04:58:28.780 do it

04:58:29.020 on her

04:58:29.380 I can

04:58:31.340 but I

04:58:32.140 have to

04:58:32.460 ask

04:58:32.760 permission

04:58:33.740 can you

04:58:35.860 do it

04:58:36.040 on yourself

04:58:36.380 then

04:58:36.600 yeah

04:58:36.880 so

04:58:37.120 EFT

04:58:37.580 tapping

04:58:38.060 is

04:58:38.340 like

04:58:38.460 so

04:58:38.700 for

04:58:38.960 example

04:58:39.400 if

04:58:40.300 you

04:58:40.440 had

04:58:40.720 difficulties

04:58:41.240 with

04:58:41.540 confidence

04:58:42.180 or

04:58:42.860 something

04:58:43.140 like

04:58:43.380 that

04:58:43.620 then

04:58:44.540 if

04:58:45.020 I

04:58:45.120 had

04:58:45.300 a

04:58:45.740 client

04:58:47.040 with

04:58:47.440 confidence

04:58:48.580 issues

04:58:49.240 I love

04:58:49.680 how

04:58:49.860 every time

04:58:50.260 she says

04:58:50.560 confidence

04:58:50.940 she looks

04:58:51.340 at me

04:58:51.760 okay

04:58:52.060 keep

04:58:52.440 going

04:58:52.760 no

04:58:53.060 just

04:58:53.280 let

04:58:53.480 it

04:58:53.880 sorry

04:58:54.400 oh my god

04:58:55.120 sorry

04:58:55.500 so we

04:58:56.140 would just

04:58:56.580 do like

04:58:57.180 we would

04:58:58.080 rewire

04:58:58.520 you're

04:58:58.740 essentially

04:58:59.020 rewiring

04:58:59.640 the brain

04:59:00.180 right

04:59:00.900 show us

04:59:01.420 though

04:59:01.540 show us

04:59:01.820 the EFT

04:59:02.260 tapping

04:59:02.760 you would

04:59:03.340 just say

04:59:03.720 something

04:59:04.040 like

04:59:04.580 I'm

04:59:05.080 powerful

04:59:05.680 and you

04:59:07.680 would just

04:59:07.960 keep doing

04:59:08.320 that over

04:59:08.740 your meridian

04:59:09.100 can you

04:59:09.380 do it

04:59:09.640 like

04:59:09.820 this

04:59:10.280 but

04:59:11.100 no

04:59:11.340 but that's

04:59:11.660 not your

04:59:11.960 meridian

04:59:12.460 is this

04:59:13.700 scientific

04:59:14.080 or is this

04:59:14.500 more like

04:59:14.780 spiritual

04:59:15.160 no there's

04:59:15.680 actually

04:59:15.980 science

04:59:16.420 behind it

04:59:17.080 that actual

04:59:17.980 therapists

04:59:18.360 do use

04:59:19.040 with people

04:59:19.560 who have

04:59:20.100 extreme

04:59:20.700 trauma

04:59:21.060 so I

04:59:22.020 want to

04:59:22.300 do more

04:59:23.000 because like

04:59:23.340 I've had

04:59:23.660 clients like

04:59:24.220 we have

04:59:24.420 breakthroughs

04:59:24.980 in our

04:59:25.220 sessions

04:59:25.520 so I

04:59:26.600 want to

04:59:26.980 like also

04:59:27.460 get more

04:59:27.860 certified

04:59:28.260 before I

04:59:28.900 do it

04:59:29.260 more

04:59:29.560 widespread

04:59:30.020 genuine

04:59:30.680 question

04:59:31.120 is part

04:59:31.480 of this

04:59:31.680 like a

04:59:31.940 placebo

04:59:32.260 or is

04:59:32.560 this like

04:59:32.800 dead ass

04:59:33.220 full on

04:59:33.620 scientific

04:59:34.020 no

04:59:34.400 actual

04:59:34.880 scientific

04:59:35.240 law

04:59:35.680 of attraction

04:59:36.260 how do you

04:59:37.120 get certified

04:59:37.780 for it

04:59:38.200 how do you

04:59:39.300 get certified

04:59:39.840 for it

04:59:40.280 yeah that's

04:59:40.640 what I'm

04:59:40.920 saying

04:59:41.140 lady hold

04:59:42.440 on I'm

04:59:42.820 sorry

04:59:43.020 it's not

04:59:44.920 material to

04:59:45.540 the conversation

04:59:46.200 you want to

04:59:48.480 know the

04:59:48.840 certification

04:59:49.300 process of

04:59:50.260 EFT

04:59:50.780 not like

04:59:52.420 I was

04:59:53.120 wondering

04:59:54.080 okay did

04:59:59.700 you have to

05:00:00.020 go to

05:00:00.240 school for

05:00:00.700 it

05:00:00.920 um no

05:00:02.000 but I

05:00:02.300 I'm going

05:00:02.840 back to

05:00:03.180 school so

05:00:03.580 that I

05:00:03.800 can be

05:00:04.640 more

05:00:05.140 because I

05:00:06.200 think it's

05:00:06.800 really important

05:00:07.360 to respect

05:00:07.820 that type of

05:00:08.340 space with

05:00:08.780 people so

05:00:09.280 like therapists

05:00:09.900 like so you

05:00:10.580 took like an

05:00:11.100 online class

05:00:11.980 for the EFT

05:00:12.800 yes

05:00:13.940 but it

05:00:15.740 has actual

05:00:16.660 like data

05:00:17.380 behind it

05:00:17.960 that it

05:00:18.320 helps people

05:00:18.880 and I mean

05:00:19.400 I've had

05:00:19.840 personal

05:00:20.120 experience

05:00:20.460 with people

05:00:20.780 that have

05:00:21.060 had breakthroughs

05:00:22.680 with um

05:00:24.120 some like

05:00:25.060 hard things

05:00:25.480 that they

05:00:26.000 go through

05:00:26.260 you also

05:00:26.640 something about

05:00:27.460 chakras

05:00:28.220 yes

05:00:29.640 well part

05:00:30.500 of your

05:00:30.780 what's that

05:00:31.240 chakra

05:00:31.680 so if you're

05:00:32.380 dealing with

05:00:33.120 um SA

05:00:33.820 um then

05:00:35.300 usually your

05:00:35.940 root chakra

05:00:36.520 is blocked

05:00:37.780 which is the

05:00:38.420 one that keeps

05:00:38.920 you grounded

05:00:39.360 so women who

05:00:40.700 deal with that

05:00:41.420 we tend to

05:00:42.920 start there

05:00:43.600 with our

05:00:44.060 root chakra

05:00:44.520 and we do

05:00:45.200 I'm safe

05:00:46.320 I'm grounded

05:00:47.120 so they can

05:00:48.100 attract like

05:00:49.220 safe like

05:00:49.800 relationships

05:00:50.420 in their

05:00:50.780 life

05:00:51.100 okay you

05:00:51.980 also write

05:00:52.720 that even

05:00:53.620 though you

05:00:53.900 identify as

05:00:54.540 a feminist

05:00:54.940 you're comfortable

05:00:55.620 dating traditional

05:00:57.060 men and enjoy

05:00:57.920 balance between

05:00:58.640 your independence

05:00:59.260 and partnership

05:01:00.340 you think social

05:01:01.040 media sometimes

05:01:01.660 over complicates

05:01:02.460 these dynamics

05:01:03.400 yeah

05:01:03.700 okay so you

05:01:04.600 identify as a

05:01:05.220 feminist

05:01:05.420 yes

05:01:05.940 as a feminist

05:01:06.940 do you believe

05:01:07.840 in equality

05:01:08.500 what do you

05:01:13.380 mean by that

05:01:13.880 what do I mean

05:01:15.660 by equality

05:01:16.380 as equality

05:01:17.540 yeah yeah

05:01:18.440 I think

05:01:18.860 like men

05:01:19.460 and women

05:01:20.080 are equal

05:01:20.420 I feel like

05:01:20.620 every relationship

05:01:21.420 should be equal

05:01:22.260 and how you

05:01:22.820 guys divide it

05:01:23.920 is individualistic

05:01:25.700 but you said

05:01:27.700 you're comfortable

05:01:28.180 dating traditional

05:01:29.280 men and you

05:01:30.780 enjoy a balance

05:01:31.760 between your

05:01:32.260 independence and

05:01:32.900 partnership

05:01:33.440 yeah so like

05:01:34.500 if I'm gonna

05:01:35.240 have like a

05:01:35.960 baby then

05:01:37.040 yes like

05:01:37.740 like I said

05:01:38.800 earlier like

05:01:39.520 he needs to

05:01:40.200 like provide

05:01:40.720 the home so

05:01:41.420 I can have

05:01:41.960 a baby safely

05:01:42.840 but if I

05:01:43.960 were to get

05:01:44.280 in a relationship

05:01:44.780 where I don't

05:01:45.360 have a baby

05:01:45.880 then things

05:01:46.880 would probably

05:01:47.360 change a little

05:01:47.940 bit because

05:01:48.440 it's just

05:01:48.820 more of

05:01:49.200 like when

05:01:49.760 I'm vulnerable

05:01:50.340 and in

05:01:51.600 that type

05:01:52.140 of position

05:01:52.560 again

05:01:52.920 I guess

05:01:54.640 my my

05:01:56.320 question mark

05:01:57.020 on this

05:01:57.540 is feminism

05:01:59.220 and tradition

05:02:00.960 are at odds

05:02:02.480 feminism is

05:02:04.300 modernity

05:02:04.940 tradition is

05:02:06.480 tradition

05:02:06.960 and I think

05:02:08.560 these two

05:02:09.220 things are

05:02:09.800 incompatible

05:02:10.660 I think they

05:02:11.820 can come

05:02:12.100 together because

05:02:12.680 I feel like

05:02:13.200 modern feminism

05:02:13.880 is more based

05:02:14.520 on like giving

05:02:15.040 women the

05:02:15.420 choice and

05:02:16.060 like not

05:02:17.480 not so much

05:02:18.360 like it's

05:02:20.480 like less of

05:02:21.120 the expectation

05:02:22.080 that women

05:02:22.620 should be

05:02:22.980 traditional like

05:02:24.240 you have the

05:02:24.800 choice to

05:02:25.260 uphold that

05:02:25.860 or to like

05:02:26.740 be more

05:02:27.480 modern

05:02:27.680 so what do

05:02:28.040 men what

05:02:28.540 choice do

05:02:29.080 men have

05:02:29.580 in this

05:02:29.940 dynamic

05:02:30.060 men still

05:02:30.360 have the

05:02:30.640 choice

05:02:31.040 they can

05:02:31.460 like they

05:02:31.820 can look

05:02:32.240 for a

05:02:32.580 traditional

05:02:32.860 woman they

05:02:33.340 can look

05:02:33.640 for a

05:02:33.900 modern

05:02:34.100 woman

05:02:34.500 do you

05:02:35.740 think it

05:02:36.220 would go

05:02:36.760 over well

05:02:37.320 with 99%

05:02:38.440 of women

05:02:39.020 if I said

05:02:40.400 I want

05:02:41.680 you to

05:02:43.040 be the

05:02:43.300 breadwinner

05:02:43.840 sole breadwinner

05:02:44.700 and I'm

05:02:45.520 not gonna

05:02:46.060 work and

05:02:46.900 I'm going

05:02:47.300 to stay

05:02:47.720 home and

05:02:48.280 take care

05:02:48.640 of the

05:02:48.820 kids do

05:02:49.500 you think

05:02:49.740 that that's

05:02:50.780 going to

05:02:51.200 limit my

05:02:51.840 dating pool

05:02:52.500 99%

05:02:54.620 of women

05:02:54.980 like I

05:02:56.340 1% of

05:02:57.940 women might

05:02:58.420 be okay

05:02:58.720 with that

05:02:59.140 sure and

05:03:00.060 that's why

05:03:00.300 feminism

05:03:00.660 exists to

05:03:01.380 like start

05:03:02.040 that push

05:03:02.680 to make

05:03:03.040 it more

05:03:03.460 acceptable

05:03:03.800 feminism's

05:03:04.120 been around

05:03:04.520 for over

05:03:04.980 100 years

05:03:05.780 women have

05:03:07.180 had equal

05:03:07.660 rights for a

05:03:08.320 very long

05:03:08.760 time unless

05:03:09.800 you disagree

05:03:10.420 with that

05:03:10.860 women are

05:03:13.680 participating

05:03:14.900 just as

05:03:15.440 much if in

05:03:16.160 fact I think

05:03:16.740 there's recent

05:03:17.320 studies and

05:03:18.580 data coming

05:03:19.000 out that

05:03:19.380 actually in

05:03:20.040 a lot of

05:03:20.880 fields women

05:03:21.600 are out

05:03:23.440 earning men

05:03:24.000 in certain

05:03:24.400 fields women

05:03:25.240 are in I

05:03:26.820 think in

05:03:27.140 certain stem

05:03:27.700 fields women

05:03:28.300 are there's

05:03:29.160 higher participation

05:03:29.900 rates I

05:03:30.920 believe in

05:03:31.460 the legal

05:03:32.080 field it's I

05:03:32.960 believe it's

05:03:33.660 equalized so

05:03:35.080 it's like okay

05:03:35.980 well all these

05:03:36.720 women though

05:03:37.280 where are they

05:03:39.320 like I'm

05:03:39.780 just trying to

05:03:40.240 kick it with

05:03:40.620 the kids

05:03:41.100 I'll knock

05:03:41.940 you up and

05:03:42.400 I'll take

05:03:42.900 care of the

05:03:43.180 household but

05:03:43.740 you got to

05:03:44.420 go out and

05:03:44.780 work 99% of

05:03:46.820 women even if

05:03:47.740 she's a feminist

05:03:48.360 it's not

05:03:49.260 happening men

05:03:50.360 don't have a

05:03:51.040 choice men at

05:03:52.680 the very least

05:03:53.340 they got to do

05:03:53.860 50-50 but

05:03:55.160 women y'all have

05:03:55.940 at least reserved

05:03:56.600 the right in

05:03:57.320 some instances

05:03:58.100 to stay at

05:04:00.520 home well I

05:04:01.660 don't think that

05:04:02.040 just because it's

05:04:02.620 taken a long

05:04:03.260 time or it

05:04:03.780 doesn't look like

05:04:04.220 there's progress

05:04:04.780 that that

05:04:05.240 discredits it

05:04:06.340 because I feel

05:04:07.180 like there

05:04:07.400 definitely still is

05:04:08.280 this push and

05:04:09.120 like more

05:04:09.700 growth in that

05:04:10.440 aspect are you

05:04:11.340 a feminist I

05:04:12.500 would say that

05:04:12.880 I'm a feminist

05:04:13.320 would you be

05:04:14.160 okay with the

05:04:14.900 dynamic where

05:04:15.820 you do the

05:04:16.480 work and the

05:04:17.160 man stays at

05:04:17.800 home if I

05:04:18.420 could genuinely

05:04:19.080 like find a

05:04:19.860 job where I

05:04:20.300 can take care

05:04:20.780 of my man yes

05:04:21.680 you would you

05:04:22.460 would be okay

05:04:22.880 with that

05:04:23.160 dynamic yes a

05:04:24.160 man who has

05:04:24.840 no career

05:04:26.580 ambitions but

05:04:28.080 beyond just

05:04:29.160 taking care of

05:04:30.240 the children you

05:04:30.980 be okay with

05:04:31.480 that if I can

05:04:32.420 take care of

05:04:32.860 our family and

05:04:33.440 he can take

05:04:34.600 care of our

05:04:35.200 dates you'll

05:04:35.900 pay for the

05:04:36.240 first date yes

05:04:37.200 you'll pay for

05:04:38.060 the date this

05:04:38.500 is not

05:04:38.820 groundbreaking

05:04:39.380 information yes

05:04:40.320 I was speaking

05:04:40.820 about this last

05:04:41.320 podcast too

05:04:41.920 okay well I

05:04:43.060 mean it's just

05:04:43.820 generally it would

05:04:44.580 be really hard to

05:04:45.400 believe because of

05:04:46.520 the next well

05:04:47.880 in sorry sorry

05:04:49.220 continue continue

05:04:50.160 I know I was I

05:04:51.580 was gonna let you

05:04:52.160 but I was I was

05:04:53.280 saying that I find

05:04:54.120 it I find it that

05:04:54.860 is very difficult to

05:04:55.740 believe especially

05:04:56.300 when modern women

05:04:57.100 are still expecting

05:04:57.900 a man to pay on

05:04:58.580 the first date

05:04:59.160 but hold on

05:05:00.820 because let's

05:05:02.980 just see we're

05:05:04.100 seeing how it is

05:05:04.780 right now we're

05:05:05.740 even in the

05:05:07.140 times where us

05:05:08.000 women have the

05:05:08.620 choice to be able

05:05:09.280 to choose whatever

05:05:10.060 it is that we

05:05:10.540 want to do with

05:05:11.040 ourselves independently

05:05:12.320 and individually

05:05:13.560 men still have to

05:05:15.400 uphold the same

05:05:16.660 values and the

05:05:18.380 same traditions that

05:05:19.260 are expected upon

05:05:20.140 them and again I

05:05:21.260 don't think that

05:05:21.820 just because it's

05:05:22.400 taken a long time

05:05:23.100 for us as a

05:05:24.100 society as a whole

05:05:24.840 to come around on

05:05:25.600 that aspect I

05:05:26.300 don't think that

05:05:26.680 discredits the

05:05:27.260 movement at all

05:05:27.960 I'm gonna provide

05:05:29.560 I'm gonna provide

05:05:30.980 yeah but I mean

05:05:33.460 sure and that

05:05:35.160 and that's for you

05:05:36.240 guys but generally

05:05:37.740 speaking women are

05:05:38.820 not doing that

05:05:39.420 women are not

05:05:41.140 doing that and

05:05:41.660 even if that's

05:05:42.500 gonna be the case

05:05:43.180 in most cases that

05:05:44.520 women are out

05:05:45.200 earning the man

05:05:45.740 they don't have

05:05:46.400 respect for him

05:05:47.120 they don't they

05:05:48.220 just sit there and

05:05:48.800 they look at him

05:05:49.440 that like as though

05:05:50.360 they want to have

05:05:51.240 complete utter control

05:05:52.500 over the relationship

05:05:53.300 and a lot of men

05:05:53.900 don't respect their

05:05:54.580 housewife woman

05:05:55.340 a lot of men

05:05:56.420 don't respect their

05:05:57.140 housewife woman

05:05:58.060 but like okay

05:05:58.820 again just because

05:06:00.540 it's taking us a

05:06:01.320 long time to come

05:06:02.080 around on that

05:06:02.720 doesn't discredit

05:06:03.980 it's never gonna

05:06:04.740 happen

05:06:05.220 and why do you

05:06:06.080 realistically you

05:06:06.960 have to look at it

05:06:07.700 from a general

05:06:08.280 aspect

05:06:08.860 nurture can only

05:06:10.000 go so far

05:06:10.900 there's certain

05:06:11.620 evolutionary psychology

05:06:13.680 principles there's

05:06:14.700 biology at play

05:06:15.680 there's just

05:06:16.180 physical

05:06:16.580 physiological

05:06:17.980 realities

05:06:18.880 I think

05:06:21.000 I think

05:06:21.760 nurture is a

05:06:22.900 component

05:06:23.260 but you're not

05:06:24.420 gonna get rid

05:06:24.880 you're not gonna

05:06:25.460 undo nature

05:06:26.420 and the reality

05:06:28.080 is I do think

05:06:29.380 it is the case

05:06:29.940 that evolutionarily

05:06:30.900 speaking

05:06:31.320 there is something

05:06:33.100 in women

05:06:33.540 where they want

05:06:35.060 to be protected

05:06:35.780 they want to be

05:06:36.860 provided for

05:06:37.600 I'm not saying

05:06:38.440 it's I'm not

05:06:39.160 saying you're a

05:06:39.660 hundred you don't

05:06:40.920 have chains on

05:06:41.780 your wrist where

05:06:42.820 you are a hundred

05:06:43.440 percent beholden

05:06:45.140 it's not complete

05:06:46.360 biological determinism

05:06:47.860 but there I don't

05:06:50.140 think we can

05:06:50.640 overlook that also

05:06:52.000 but then do you

05:06:52.740 think that men

05:06:53.680 biologically

05:06:55.020 have a need

05:06:56.420 or like a want

05:06:57.140 to protect

05:06:57.880 and that's why

05:06:58.440 women

05:06:58.620 yes

05:06:59.120 okay then

05:07:00.060 sure if that

05:07:01.160 works for us

05:07:01.920 then yeah

05:07:02.480 and that's why

05:07:04.160 I say like

05:07:04.680 that's why

05:07:05.140 that's why I

05:07:06.280 believe in

05:07:06.580 feminism

05:07:06.880 it gives us a

05:07:07.440 choice to like

05:07:07.900 choose modernity

05:07:08.680 or stay with

05:07:09.300 tradition

05:07:09.700 I suppose

05:07:11.820 but

05:07:12.360 isn't the point

05:07:13.840 of it to like

05:07:14.400 break to

05:07:14.960 tradition

05:07:15.500 like wouldn't

05:07:16.080 you be more

05:07:16.600 so a feminist

05:07:17.180 if you believe

05:07:17.840 that you could

05:07:18.980 be the breadwinner

05:07:19.740 and still respect

05:07:21.140 the man

05:07:21.460 and give the man

05:07:21.920 the same respect

05:07:22.440 you give a woman

05:07:23.020 because if he's

05:07:23.460 doing the same

05:07:24.100 job that a woman

05:07:24.760 is doing

05:07:25.260 but we give them

05:07:26.220 way more respect

05:07:27.060 it's literally

05:07:28.840 the same job

05:07:29.520 and they should

05:07:29.820 get the same respect

05:07:30.460 well also with

05:07:31.360 feminism

05:07:31.760 there are some

05:07:33.220 notable feminists

05:07:35.220 who are very much

05:07:36.940 against the family

05:07:37.820 yeah

05:07:39.300 like there's some

05:07:39.880 radical elements

05:07:40.700 of feminism

05:07:41.180 that are anti-nuclear

05:07:42.660 family

05:07:43.120 anti-family

05:07:44.120 yeah

05:07:44.960 like I don't know

05:07:46.500 if it's Sally

05:07:47.340 Miller Gearhart

05:07:48.360 I don't know

05:07:48.660 if I'm

05:07:49.400 even thinking

05:07:49.900 the right person

05:07:50.560 some of these

05:07:51.820 major feminists

05:07:52.640 like and

05:07:53.400 and their works

05:07:54.140 are studied

05:07:54.640 in feminist

05:07:55.680 studies classes

05:07:56.440 or whatever

05:07:56.880 it's like

05:07:57.980 we need to

05:07:58.740 dismantle

05:07:59.380 the traditional

05:08:00.000 family

05:08:00.540 it's like

05:08:02.460 your ideology

05:08:03.960 is problematic

05:08:06.260 toxic feminine

05:08:09.600 but I mean

05:08:10.600 Nix

05:08:10.860 in your questionnaire

05:08:11.800 and I know

05:08:12.540 exactly what

05:08:12.980 you're gonna ask

05:08:13.380 you circle

05:08:14.060 men should

05:08:15.520 provide protect

05:08:16.400 men should

05:08:17.220 be chivalrous

05:08:17.940 husband should

05:08:19.100 be willing

05:08:19.460 to die

05:08:19.820 protecting

05:08:20.240 me

05:08:20.400 take the

05:08:20.740 bullet

05:08:21.020 chivalry

05:08:23.860 you know

05:08:24.880 you could say

05:08:25.360 well I would

05:08:25.800 provide

05:08:26.160 I would

05:08:26.440 protect

05:08:26.840 women

05:08:27.400 aren't

05:08:27.800 chivalrous

05:08:28.340 women

05:08:28.820 don't do

05:08:29.400 chivalry

05:08:29.940 okay

05:08:30.660 so

05:08:31.460 so if

05:08:33.140 men being

05:08:34.460 chivalrous

05:08:34.860 is a

05:08:35.160 traditional

05:08:35.560 gender role

05:08:36.320 a traditional

05:08:37.340 like shouldn't

05:08:38.520 feminism be

05:08:39.280 about a

05:08:39.780 rejection

05:08:40.300 of holding

05:08:41.480 people to

05:08:41.960 their traditional

05:08:42.460 gender roles

05:08:43.100 do you want

05:08:43.580 to ask me

05:08:44.020 why I said

05:08:44.540 those

05:08:44.860 because I

05:08:46.420 believe that

05:08:46.920 relationships

05:08:47.440 should go

05:08:48.080 both ways

05:08:48.680 I will take

05:08:49.880 care of my

05:08:50.360 husband

05:08:50.760 I feel like

05:08:51.860 he should

05:08:52.180 protect me

05:08:52.640 because I

05:08:53.060 will protect

05:08:53.500 him because

05:08:53.900 we're in a

05:08:54.320 relationship

05:08:54.760 and we take

05:08:55.340 care of each

05:08:55.800 other

05:08:56.020 and that's

05:08:56.700 what I meant

05:08:57.060 by that

05:08:57.380 well two

05:08:57.900 things right

05:08:58.360 so but as

05:08:59.240 it relates

05:08:59.620 to chivalry

05:09:00.400 how do you

05:09:01.480 define chivalry

05:09:02.040 it's certain

05:09:03.660 specific acts

05:09:04.660 so for example

05:09:05.320 I can give you

05:09:05.900 examples of

05:09:06.420 these acts

05:09:06.900 so it

05:09:09.200 could encompass

05:09:09.800 protecting

05:09:10.360 it could be

05:09:11.000 opening the

05:09:11.560 car door

05:09:12.100 it could be

05:09:12.660 observing the

05:09:13.500 sidewalk rule

05:09:14.280 so the guy

05:09:15.060 walks closer

05:09:15.720 to where the

05:09:16.260 cars are

05:09:16.680 moving in

05:09:17.140 the street

05:09:18.000 or whatever

05:09:18.480 in the

05:09:18.800 sidewalk

05:09:19.140 paying for

05:09:20.600 dates

05:09:20.860 although to

05:09:21.340 be fair

05:09:21.680 you didn't

05:09:22.220 circle men

05:09:22.780 should pay

05:09:23.060 for dates

05:09:23.400 because I

05:09:23.720 don't believe

05:09:24.140 that that's

05:09:24.540 like a

05:09:24.820 can I ask

05:09:25.100 you a question

05:09:25.480 how many

05:09:25.800 first dates

05:09:26.160 have you been

05:09:26.480 on in

05:09:27.060 your life

05:09:27.500 you think

05:09:27.800 in my

05:09:28.100 life

05:09:28.700 by the way

05:09:29.740 some people

05:09:30.740 want to do

05:09:31.140 this thing

05:09:31.480 with the

05:09:31.900 term date

05:09:32.800 they want

05:09:33.200 to say

05:09:33.480 well

05:09:33.760 well I guess

05:09:35.840 let's just

05:09:36.360 yeah never

05:09:37.040 mind

05:09:37.200 disregard

05:09:37.600 like we

05:09:38.140 just went

05:09:38.480 out we

05:09:38.780 hung out

05:09:39.280 something

05:09:39.960 was paid

05:09:40.300 for

05:09:40.580 dinner

05:09:40.880 yeah

05:09:41.200 yeah

05:09:41.400 something

05:09:41.680 was paid

05:09:42.080 for

05:09:42.200 how many

05:09:42.640 of those

05:09:42.940 have you

05:09:43.200 done

05:09:43.700 first dates

05:09:44.300 I want

05:09:45.360 to say

05:09:45.640 two

05:09:46.020 okay

05:09:46.660 and what

05:09:47.340 was the

05:09:47.620 breakdown

05:09:47.920 there

05:09:48.280 was it

05:09:48.740 split

05:09:49.040 did he

05:09:49.480 pay

05:09:49.740 both times

05:09:50.660 they paid

05:09:51.160 but I

05:09:51.720 did offer

05:09:52.280 and insist

05:09:52.840 on splitting

05:09:53.300 and they

05:09:53.660 said no

05:09:54.040 okay

05:09:55.000 well I

05:09:55.760 mean

05:09:55.980 can't get

05:09:56.380 me here

05:09:56.700 bro

05:09:56.940 well a

05:09:58.120 little bit

05:09:58.500 but the

05:09:59.100 well if

05:09:59.500 they're

05:09:59.740 insisting

05:10:00.360 and they're

05:10:00.800 being nice

05:10:01.260 about it

05:10:01.740 but you're

05:10:02.280 the woman

05:10:02.600 you can

05:10:03.580 insist

05:10:04.120 and I

05:10:04.580 did insist

05:10:05.240 and they

05:10:05.960 shut me

05:10:06.280 down

05:10:06.460 am I

05:10:08.300 gonna stand

05:10:08.800 there at

05:10:09.100 the register

05:10:09.540 for 10

05:10:10.000 minutes debating

05:10:10.620 with this

05:10:11.000 guy

05:10:11.280 yes

05:10:11.680 you decided

05:10:15.320 to come

05:10:15.840 here

05:10:16.240 in furtherance

05:10:17.440 of principle

05:10:19.800 like insisting

05:10:21.460 is like

05:10:21.900 no no no

05:10:22.720 no no

05:10:23.640 like I get

05:10:24.640 that they're

05:10:25.000 insisting too

05:10:25.680 and that

05:10:26.060 creates a

05:10:26.560 bit of a

05:10:27.000 stalemate

05:10:27.540 or whatever

05:10:27.920 but um

05:10:29.140 you should

05:10:30.000 be like

05:10:30.320 bit

05:10:30.580 you should

05:10:31.120 this is how

05:10:32.060 you could

05:10:32.460 actually

05:10:33.020 maneuver it

05:10:34.440 listen

05:10:35.740 I get that

05:10:37.040 you want to

05:10:37.420 be nice

05:10:37.820 or whatever

05:10:38.160 but I'm a

05:10:38.720 fucking

05:10:38.960 feminist

05:10:39.560 Brad

05:10:40.040 I'm a

05:10:41.620 fucking

05:10:41.840 feminist

05:10:42.280 Brad

05:10:42.720 I'll

05:10:43.660 fucking

05:10:43.980 leave this

05:10:44.620 date if

05:10:45.080 I insist

05:10:46.640 we split

05:10:47.520 it

05:10:47.680 I will not

05:10:48.560 see you

05:10:48.980 again if

05:10:49.340 we don't

05:10:49.720 split it

05:10:50.140 that's the

05:10:50.840 level you

05:10:51.240 got to go

05:10:51.680 to if you

05:10:52.080 want to see

05:10:52.440 your feminist

05:10:53.140 utopia

05:10:54.080 project

05:10:55.020 actually come

05:10:56.420 to fruition

05:10:57.040 I just feel

05:10:57.720 like that's

05:10:58.040 too aggressive

05:10:59.060 for a first

05:10:59.700 date

05:10:59.980 don't you think

05:11:00.400 it's really

05:11:00.760 aggressive

05:11:01.240 that guys are

05:11:01.780 like no

05:11:02.720 bitch

05:11:03.380 oh well

05:11:04.760 yes I do

05:11:05.240 think that's

05:11:05.640 aggressive

05:11:05.960 well no I'm

05:11:07.020 saying that in a

05:11:07.760 joking way I'm

05:11:08.400 not actually

05:11:08.820 calling you a

05:11:09.260 bitch

05:11:09.300 no I'm paying

05:11:11.400 for that that's

05:11:12.220 kind of aggressive

05:11:12.800 don't you think

05:11:13.460 well yes I do

05:11:14.960 think that's

05:11:15.280 aggressive but it's

05:11:15.980 not like they

05:11:16.340 said it like

05:11:17.120 that like what

05:11:17.920 okay on the one

05:11:19.260 first date

05:11:19.900 I'm not saying

05:11:20.120 they're calling

05:11:20.500 you a bitch

05:11:20.980 when I when I

05:11:22.160 say that like they

05:11:22.760 insisted I literally

05:11:23.660 mean like I was

05:11:24.300 like no I'll pay

05:11:24.860 for it and then

05:11:25.180 he just tapped

05:11:25.560 his card and I

05:11:26.180 was like I

05:11:27.840 guess what can

05:11:29.160 you do there

05:11:29.680 exactly that's

05:11:30.520 why I'm like

05:11:30.920 just next time

05:11:31.560 tell the server

05:11:32.120 to split the

05:11:32.620 bill well and

05:11:34.360 okay and I

05:11:34.980 would have done

05:11:35.360 that if I knew

05:11:35.840 that they would

05:11:36.180 have insisted

05:11:36.560 that hard but

05:11:37.240 also like if

05:11:37.840 they want to

05:11:38.400 pay for the

05:11:38.880 first date like

05:11:40.200 do I do you

05:11:41.300 need you know

05:11:42.420 like if they

05:11:43.320 want to do a

05:11:43.960 nice gesture

05:11:44.660 why would I

05:11:46.080 shut that down

05:11:46.920 you know what I

05:11:47.380 mean like I'll

05:11:48.700 pay for the

05:11:49.060 second date or

05:11:49.580 I'll pay for

05:11:49.940 other stuff

05:11:50.280 quality can you

05:11:51.600 tell me what

05:11:52.040 women do that

05:11:52.720 are that's

05:11:53.340 chivalrous um

05:11:55.240 I feel like

05:11:55.920 chivalry is like

05:11:56.620 very a very

05:11:57.980 masculine connotation

05:11:59.520 but like I

05:12:00.400 think that chivalry

05:12:01.240 is just like small

05:12:01.900 acts of kindness

05:12:02.500 to just like show

05:12:03.280 someone that you

05:12:03.820 care so like for

05:12:04.680 guys what do

05:12:05.140 women do um

05:12:06.520 I think that

05:12:07.280 women can do the

05:12:08.240 same thing that

05:12:08.680 men do like

05:12:09.280 can do yes I

05:12:11.060 do like my my

05:12:13.180 ex would open the

05:12:14.120 door for me and

05:12:14.620 from inside the car

05:12:15.460 I would open his

05:12:16.260 car door on his

05:12:16.820 side you would

05:12:17.900 lean over

05:12:18.720 yeah okay I

05:12:21.780 mean I would

05:12:22.280 open his car door

05:12:22.940 for him but

05:12:23.660 generally speaking

05:12:24.560 do women do that

05:12:25.520 no and again do

05:12:26.780 you think that the

05:12:27.520 slow movement of

05:12:28.560 or of a movement

05:12:30.200 discredits it I

05:12:31.480 mean the polite

05:12:31.980 thing though is to

05:12:32.500 get out of the car

05:12:33.140 and open it like

05:12:34.020 actually he lets me

05:12:35.880 into the car and

05:12:36.760 then I get back out

05:12:37.660 to let him in the

05:12:38.420 car and we're just

05:12:39.060 going in circles

05:12:39.740 back and forth

05:12:40.580 yes and you know

05:12:41.800 what you're right

05:12:42.240 and I should have

05:12:42.600 done that oh

05:12:43.240 fuck I'm so stupid

05:12:44.040 I'm sorry I

05:12:46.240 appreciate you

05:12:47.600 apologizing for

05:12:48.360 that that and

05:12:49.080 acknowledging that

05:12:50.300 so thank you

05:12:51.200 okay let's see

05:12:54.300 here all right

05:12:57.660 well let's pull up

05:12:59.740 Lauren's Instagram

05:13:00.360 I wanted to review

05:13:01.180 her Instagram really

05:13:01.960 quick just scroll

05:13:03.520 down to the photo

05:13:04.380 part Nick there's

05:13:05.620 so much there

05:13:06.220 unfortunately we

05:13:06.800 won't be able to

05:13:07.300 hit everything you

05:13:08.680 got some hot takes

05:13:09.440 on Instagram Lauren

05:13:10.560 I'm just saying

05:13:11.240 yep all right

05:13:13.900 oh do you know

05:13:16.220 how to swap this

05:13:16.860 Nick no probably

05:13:20.640 not so here in

05:13:21.920 the sources in the

05:13:23.820 sources double click

05:13:26.500 that and then just

05:13:28.360 put it center that

05:13:30.020 that should be two I

05:13:31.280 think yeah okay

05:13:34.160 all right all right

05:13:37.020 go ahead that's it's

05:13:38.780 fine that's fine

05:13:39.420 whatever dominance

05:13:40.500 versus leadership

05:13:41.280 can you click on

05:13:41.960 that really quick

05:13:42.500 can you try to put

05:13:46.340 us in the corner

05:13:47.020 like the thing do

05:13:48.520 you see how there's

05:13:48.980 like a gap that's

05:13:50.480 weird sorry guys

05:13:52.000 we're fucking

05:13:52.380 oh it's I don't

05:13:56.480 know it's fine

05:13:59.080 whatever um

05:14:00.020 dominance versus

05:14:01.980 leadership oh my

05:14:05.540 wait actually you know

05:14:06.340 what's this matters

05:14:08.340 in partnership uh

05:14:09.480 tab through the

05:14:10.700 photo no yeah

05:14:12.800 yeah yeah

05:14:13.220 provoke second

05:14:15.120 next

05:14:15.900 eh I'm not gonna

05:14:18.660 bite on this one

05:14:19.380 x out of it

05:14:20.040 uh scroll down

05:14:22.000 uh do immature

05:14:24.220 partners become

05:14:24.820 abusive scroll down

05:14:25.840 scroll down

05:14:26.560 you guys probably

05:14:28.440 want to go to my

05:14:28.980 real women for more

05:14:30.040 hot take women are

05:14:31.040 actually leading

05:14:32.100 relationships and

05:14:33.220 scroll down scroll

05:14:34.800 down uh reverse

05:14:38.940 the poverty why men

05:14:40.740 make terrible leaders

05:14:41.900 yeah uh okay so

05:14:44.420 you say why men make

05:14:45.340 terrible leaders and

05:14:46.000 why women are choosing

05:14:46.800 life without them

05:14:47.500 tell me why men make

05:14:49.000 terrible leaders

05:14:49.640 well see you have to

05:14:54.280 scroll through my post

05:14:55.320 because obviously I

05:14:56.560 did you don't get

05:14:57.080 notes you don't get

05:14:58.060 to read off of your

05:14:58.820 notes on there

05:14:59.600 what I'm saying is I

05:15:00.500 did the same thing

05:15:01.020 that you do here

05:15:01.760 you want to get

05:15:03.040 attention so of course

05:15:04.800 I'm going to put

05:15:05.360 something like that

05:15:06.220 out to go on a

05:15:08.120 greater point correct

05:15:09.040 so when you scroll

05:15:10.020 through it we're

05:15:11.220 comparing what good

05:15:12.340 leadership looks like

05:15:13.440 and what bad

05:15:14.120 leadership looks like

05:15:15.200 and the rest of my

05:15:17.160 point is both men

05:15:18.680 and women both need

05:15:19.560 to have some sense of

05:15:20.860 understanding what

05:15:21.600 leadership is because

05:15:23.220 even women fall back

05:15:24.560 on dominance and

05:15:25.520 leadership and that's

05:15:27.180 why there's like an

05:15:28.100 imbalance

05:15:28.680 well look I I'm I'm

05:15:32.320 not I don't really

05:15:35.760 have a big qualm with

05:15:36.860 people having

05:15:38.380 sensational titles as

05:15:40.320 a as a hook but

05:15:41.740 the can you pull it

05:15:43.740 back up Nick I'm

05:15:45.780 assuming that you

05:15:46.900 believe in the title

05:15:48.620 which is why men

05:15:49.860 make and then you

05:15:50.580 go why men make

05:15:51.760 terrible you know

05:15:52.420 like then I go more

05:15:53.540 really quick give us

05:15:54.500 the 30 second rundown

05:15:55.540 why do men make

05:15:56.340 terrible leaders well

05:15:57.820 in some relationships

05:15:59.340 I think that some

05:16:00.860 men fall back on

05:16:02.400 dominance because

05:16:03.300 they are like tend to

05:16:04.860 be stronger and they

05:16:05.760 tend to be the

05:16:06.360 breadwinners and the

05:16:07.240 financial providers so

05:16:08.960 and then relationships

05:16:09.800 that I've seen growing

05:16:10.540 up that's what I've

05:16:11.440 saw so when men fall

05:16:14.020 back on dominance then

05:16:15.900 it also you know creates

05:16:18.000 that power imbalance in

05:16:19.280 relationships and why men

05:16:22.500 do that as well we kind

05:16:23.780 of like went into like

05:16:24.460 the psychology like why

05:16:25.760 men fall back on

05:16:27.580 dominance as well

05:16:28.900 okay um next pull it

05:16:30.860 back up Nick I'm not

05:16:33.060 going to push back on

05:16:33.800 all of these just for

05:16:34.860 the sake of time go to

05:16:35.660 my reels they're more

05:16:36.760 interesting we'll get

05:16:37.920 there we'll get there

05:16:38.720 uh oh uh click on the

05:16:43.040 one with the iv bag me

05:16:47.160 after can you read that

05:16:48.400 just the caption can you

05:16:51.800 read it the men no no

05:16:54.380 me after wait what the

05:16:56.960 subtitles me after oh

05:16:59.300 me after okay me after

05:17:01.260 talking crap about men

05:17:02.500 on the internet while

05:17:03.620 one sent me an ivy drip

05:17:04.820 because I fainted

05:17:05.480 yesterday so someone

05:17:06.960 paid for it yeah aren't

05:17:08.780 those like a couple

05:17:09.360 hundred bucks yeah damn

05:17:10.960 okay yeah whatever x

05:17:12.200 out of it but he was a

05:17:13.180 guy that I was like

05:17:13.760 seeing for a couple

05:17:14.400 weeks lame don't do

05:17:15.980 that man don't take care

05:17:18.560 of the girl that you're

05:17:19.180 seeing the only drip you

05:17:21.340 should be sending her is

05:17:22.840 from your penis okay

05:17:25.740 okay wow that was

05:17:27.760 why would I even want to

05:17:28.380 go hear that that was a

05:17:29.720 good one if that's what

05:17:30.660 he would say dude that

05:17:31.660 was the perfect chance to

05:17:32.600 plug your merch like the

05:17:33.720 only drip you should be

05:17:34.400 getting and he claims he's

05:17:35.420 not a misogynist what the

05:17:37.920 fuck what the fuck wait

05:17:39.720 wait wait Nick I scroll

05:17:40.780 back up I think we scroll

05:17:42.720 up oh okay I see uh scroll

05:17:44.680 down uh that's what I'm

05:17:46.500 saying I have better hot

05:17:47.400 takes on my girls single

05:17:48.380 mother caring I disagree

05:17:50.580 wait a single mother

05:17:51.740 caring for a child alone

05:17:53.800 is juggling roughly five

05:17:55.200 to eight full-time jobs

05:17:56.360 hold on hold on the

05:17:58.740 math wait wait pull it

05:17:59.880 back up for a sec the

05:18:00.860 math isn't math in five

05:18:02.400 to eight full-time jobs

05:18:03.160 okay so you work um a

05:18:05.140 full-time job is typically

05:18:06.280 40 hours a week you work

05:18:08.100 from nine to five that

05:18:09.820 would uh you like an

05:18:11.260 eight-hour shift you can

05:18:12.660 there's only technically

05:18:13.880 three eight-hour shifts in

05:18:15.260 the day eight 16 24 and

05:18:17.560 you said what was it

05:18:18.140 four to seven what was

05:18:19.220 five to eight I'm sorry

05:18:21.300 Lauren uh the you know

05:18:23.040 look math isn't my thing

05:18:24.480 either the math isn't

05:18:25.660 math and Lauren

05:18:26.240 sensational headlines

05:18:27.360 full-time jobs how many

05:18:28.520 hours wait Lauren I'm

05:18:29.820 gonna ask you one of

05:18:30.280 those questions how many

05:18:31.500 hours in a day how many

05:18:33.100 hours in a day yes how

05:18:35.160 many hours in a day that

05:18:36.700 oh 24 yes yeah yeah see

05:18:39.300 well and nobody there's

05:18:40.340 not enough time for five

05:18:42.060 to eight full-time jobs

05:18:43.520 but that means that my

05:18:44.920 jobs aren't as like good as

05:18:46.800 I would want them to be

05:18:47.720 like that means like I'm

05:18:48.680 not cooking as many

05:18:49.600 healthy meals as I would

05:18:50.580 like because I'm exhausted

05:18:51.520 I'm not that's my point

05:18:53.760 of that okay so I'm not

05:18:55.980 able to you know sit down

05:18:58.620 with him more than I would

05:19:00.000 like do okay all right

05:19:04.440 well uh pull it back up

05:19:05.420 we got some more we got

05:19:06.140 some more uh X out of that

05:19:08.640 um scroll down scroll down

05:19:10.680 am I a traditional woman or

05:19:12.120 modern okay wait wait

05:19:13.860 Lauren Lauren um I want can

05:19:21.980 you say woman oh yeah I

05:19:25.260 always gotta fix you gotta

05:19:26.420 fix it you gotta fix it you

05:19:27.920 know what that gives me

05:19:29.140 engagement you gotta oh

05:19:30.980 because this is true it's

05:19:32.460 raid bait why men don't

05:19:34.900 value emotional labor we

05:19:36.360 kind of talked about that

05:19:37.260 earlier so we'll skip that

05:19:38.420 scroll down I said you have

05:19:40.200 to look at my reels you

05:19:41.800 guys scroll down scroll

05:19:43.360 down scroll down

05:19:44.980 uh scroll down scroll

05:19:46.640 down scroll down go down

05:19:47.580 I scroll down scroll down

05:19:50.120 a little more little more

05:19:51.900 a little more uh click the

05:19:54.480 flower one I think that was

05:19:56.020 one I wanted to react to

05:19:57.040 how to get men

05:19:58.040 scroll up scroll up the

05:19:59.300 flower one on the left

05:20:00.100 there

05:20:00.320 no it wasn't that one I

05:20:02.600 know which one you're

05:20:03.220 talking about scroll down a

05:20:04.380 little bit I think uh scroll

05:20:05.800 down scroll down how to get

05:20:06.600 spoiled in relationships

05:20:07.500 scroll down scroll down

05:20:09.340 scroll down keep going keep going i get spoiled in relationships oh uh wait scroll up scroll up

05:20:17.500 uh the most feminine thing you can do is the most feminine feminine thing you can do is to

05:20:23.020 be financial okay yeah uh exile that scroll up click on the pink thing the core themes

05:20:30.620 i already hit on these though the eft okay so you teach this yeah or you do this yeah okay

05:20:39.340 um i think you need to hook up hook up kemani sorry came came

05:20:51.260 kameya with some of your like chakra eft stuff why

05:20:56.940 i don't believe in that oh okay i disagree i think her shock

05:21:04.460 uh okay nick can you tell me the reacts we have left nick

05:21:09.340 tweets what are the tweets can you remind me what the tweets are

05:21:21.740 oh the dating wrapped stuff

05:21:25.900 uh i'll just yeah um here yeah go ahead and just show them super quick the the tweets and then you

05:21:34.380 can exile those as soon as we're done

05:21:38.220 yeah just the video and then we'll just tab over to the photos so we're going to do a quick dating

05:21:43.100 wrapped segment a lot of the girls are posting this so basically she's saying had 65 dates this year

05:21:48.060 ghosted 32 fell in love 14 that's crazy cried over 19 men um next holy crap i think some people like

05:21:57.820 confuse liking someone with falling in love with them there's no way she fell in love okay so this

05:22:03.020 girl uh 17 first dates 50 plus dates total two situationships uh four made it past date three

05:22:09.740 100 plus raya matches zero men under six feet nice i love that uh countless crash out walks ending 2025

05:22:18.700 single tab over 16 first dates 12 second dates two situationships 10 finance bros uh done with dating

05:22:28.300 okay so really quick going around the table you can just tell us like how many first dates third day

05:22:31.980 if you want to add in anything you're welcome to uh how many first dates have you had in 2025

05:22:39.020 i've been celibate for a year and a half so i would say two two first dates okay and did they pay for the

05:22:47.580 babysitter yes because you make guys pay for the babysitter um and then did any of them go to

05:22:54.620 second dates yes third dates yes fourth days yes fifth dates yes and no none of them became your

05:23:02.380 boyfriend though um one and then we broke up two weeks ago wait how long were you saying seeing him

05:23:10.220 before um in total like a month but i think that was like my situationship you know okay um

05:23:17.580 but you you said you've been celibate for a year and a half so you guys did not hook up yeah i haven't

05:23:21.500 been like actively dating no okay uh you're in a relationship what's your dating wraps 2025 how many

05:23:29.740 first dates this year that can include just going over the dude's house and watching naruto or some

05:23:37.340 five 50 50 first dates yeah how many second dates uh not many maybe three so wow okay of the 50 first

05:23:57.980 dates only three minutes a second date how many uh sit you had some situationships or something

05:24:03.660 mm-hmm okay um 50 first dates how many with men how many with women

05:24:11.900 most definitely more with women i'm not sure you pulled those up nick yeah okay all right what about

05:24:20.380 you um how many first one first date one situationship and then realized i like girls

05:24:25.580 oh and not white people or white men no i knew that before you like white girls we'll find out

05:24:35.740 would you date a trans person yes oh sorry she likes she likes dudes though so can you make an

05:24:45.020 exception yeah are you guys gonna make out right now or something content we're content you guys want to

05:24:51.260 make out okay okay so uh only one day hashtag knew that he hashtag knew that only one date yeah and

05:24:58.940 then it turned into that situationship okay from this year so you've only dealt with one dude this whole

05:25:04.460 year i can i can back how many chicks how many chicks none yet none yet okay um what about you

05:25:12.300 um how many dates first dates two dates and how many did you kiss and then told them after you're

05:25:18.380 trans one what's that guy's name as as asder asder rest in peace asder uh what about you

05:25:27.420 just one first date one first date and then it's now the guy you're talking to yes okay uh what about

05:25:33.020 you oh well you're married duh uh and then you and even you've been celibate for 10 years five or

05:25:38.700 well somebody's got cracking 10 years that's a long time that's like it's been a decade no dick

05:25:44.780 i'm sorry you gotta get on that you gotta get on that you don't make it because of you or because of

05:25:50.460 them oh it depends i almost want it okay when's the last time you went on a date uh it was it was

05:26:00.940 two weeks two weeks ago no no two weeks before my last birthday i remember this is that

05:26:07.260 oh hold on hold on hold on i'm gonna come so it's by the end of august i'm gonna i'm gonna do

05:26:11.900 the math oh okay i heard something else i was like i'm not appropriate that the podcast no uh so it

05:26:17.340 was that's what it was by the end by the by the end of august um um okay i'm sorry what sorry i'm

05:26:26.540 sorry i'm sorry i'm not supposed to interrupt each other but okay i know i'm a terrible hypocrite um

05:26:32.380 at the end of august so by the end of august uh we only um saw each other five times and then

05:26:40.380 he said uh he doesn't think it's gonna work did you guys have carnal knowledge huh did you have

05:26:49.100 carnal knowledge did you have sex with no no no no no no nothing nothing happened um was he a magician

05:26:57.180 oh he actually likes magic i took him to a magic show well actually i said i'm gonna take him to a

05:27:02.860 magic show for my birthday but he insisted in pay and then he bought the ticket so that was

05:27:07.820 kind of him i i think magic is kind of an aphrodisiac like i kind of got it when she was

05:27:13.580 showing me that card trick i was like wow this is kind of hot guys this might be riz this is the new

05:27:18.380 the whole time yeah we're i i told you we're already a bickering married couple uh so okay

05:27:24.940 that's cool um what was the question i was asking about the how many oh the dating wrapped yeah okay

05:27:31.500 but x out those what are the next reacts by the way as they're doing just fine he know we're home at

05:27:37.820 i love you baby oh he know we're home i think i still don't think you're i i don't think you're

05:27:46.220 trans i don't believe you're trans i still don't want me to prove it to you yeah i mean if if you

05:27:50.620 actually not not on the you can't whip it out here but if you want to step back there i'll take

05:27:57.900 bro i will take one for the team i will hashtag need that he need that i'll take one for the team um

05:28:05.020 and fuck it but uh i'll i'll do it you will you actually you're gonna look at that

05:28:10.540 huh brita loving what's that like that oh no maybe she she we'll see whatever um what was the next

05:28:18.540 react nick uh we have three more yes let's do those we'll we'll get through lauren's notes yeah uh can you

05:28:27.900 read that these lauren read them for us casually thinking about the one time this guy was 15 minutes

05:28:34.140 late for our coffee date so i ignored it acted like my super charming self and then looked at

05:28:39.900 him straight in the eyes at the end and said if he was late again i'd never see him again so he came

05:28:46.060 15 minutes early the next day and made sure that i was 15 minutes more late excuse toxic toxic wow

05:28:56.700 that's a bit vindictive little little petty then after that he was like in love with me don't you think

05:29:02.140 it's a little petty to intentionally be late you know but it was just to set the tone like that

05:29:08.060 mattered to me and then after that then then we were like on time you know look i think it's okay

05:29:14.860 to be upset if somebody's right but i'm a little petty and he's a little petty too he's a scorpio so

05:29:19.660 we were both kind of like petty petty okay and then you know what the scorpio we had a good good run

05:29:28.460 what's your zodiac sign guess

05:29:33.260 aquarius that's my guess what do you think over there

05:29:37.580 i don't know zodiacs okay cool neither do i anyways uh my my sign is the money sign um let's

05:29:46.140 see uh next yeah

05:29:53.100 can you read it oh yes casually thinking about the one time a guy was going to take me on a date but

05:29:59.660 told me he was going to be late because his pants were drying in the dryer so i told him if he doesn't

05:30:05.020 come in wet pants don't come at all i thought he was canceling by the way so i thought he was just

05:30:09.260 saying he wasn't coming but he in fact came in soaking wet pants what and we still went on a sushi

05:30:16.620 date and he needed to sit on a napkin when you say soaking wet i mean soaking wet how did he like

05:30:22.620 he actually took them out of the dryer oh my god and then let me but like i just said i didn't i

05:30:29.180 thought he was like soaking wet or damp like like sand like drip was it dripping but it was

05:30:36.940 definitely in the jar he wasn't lying this would be like it's a little different but if a woman was

05:30:43.100 on her period and she she started her period and i was like no you can't be 15 minutes late show up

05:30:51.020 with some blood stains on your white pants that's what you did bro i just said that's so rude i just

05:30:58.380 said that i just i thought he was canceling like you didn't actually mean it yeah and then he did

05:31:04.700 and then i was like oh my gosh did you feel bad yeah i did i did feel bad was that cold it was oh

05:31:11.020 yeah he was like sitting on it then i get if you were just like actually just fucking with him yeah

05:31:14.540 no i was not like i didn't actually mean it but it was funny not really not related to to that

05:31:20.620 but because i brought up the whole period thing or whatever uh that's completely i think the most

05:31:24.940 romantic thing a man could ever say to a woman is you know let's say you've already you guys been

05:31:30.460 hooking up whatever and she's like ah you know i'm like on my period and then you look her dead in

05:31:35.900 the eyes and you say i guess we're gonna have to make a fucking mess yeah that's the most romantic

05:31:43.580 thing because if they decline i would be like you hate me like if you declined i'd be like you hate me

05:31:48.940 then but truth be told we can skip i feel like every guy i've been with has like insisted on it

05:31:56.940 and then i was the one that said no i said no because i was like you're not comfortable with

05:32:01.900 it no i'm never comfortable with it but they're like yes yes let's go for it wait they're more into

05:32:07.020 it or no they're just like still equally as enthusiastic and i'm like yeah which i don't

05:32:13.340 understand whatever i i think if if you've been dating a girl for a minute then it can definitely

05:32:19.020 wait but i don't know if it's like i feel like guys if it's oh it's the first time but you're on

05:32:28.060 your period you're gonna bite the bullet probably some people have a kink for it too well that's a bit

05:32:36.700 i don't know about that that just seems very stressful stressful i worked in child safety

05:32:44.620 and i've seen all the stupid kinks in the universe wait okay hold on child safety and

05:32:48.940 oh okay we're talking about that's a different yeah but like but but the accounts that sell

05:32:54.460 that material they also sell like material for all the other kinks in the universe so uh next thing

05:33:01.180 there can you read this lauren when my family says the reason i'm not married is because my

05:33:11.980 opinions and i'm not nice but i get treated like a princess so wait even your family the people who

05:33:20.380 know you they say yeah uh they say that uh you're not nice yeah because they're like doormats to men

05:33:33.900 and i hate that and i would never trade my relationship to be with type of men they're with

05:33:39.100 what do you consider i do think i do think though like women like men will put up with a lot of shit

05:33:46.380 like men will wine and dine like a girl who's kind of i'm not saying you but i'm saying like in general

05:33:53.660 like if a girl's kind of rude or bitchy or whatever like i think a lot of men tolerate that

05:33:58.300 yeah which i disagree with that's why we all have different kinks kinks i don't know if that's a kink

05:34:04.620 i just think that i mean maybe they're fucking if i'm a princess in a relationship some men love a

05:34:10.100 princess so it's a kink that's what that's like how i see it but yeah do you like your man to be in

05:34:16.100 control of the relationship um in the bedroom that is no in the relationship sorry so sorry

05:34:24.020 oh i don't believe you're trans but okay keep going

05:34:26.900 keep going um yeah yeah keep going i like it yeah yeah well it's like like honestly even in the

05:34:33.680 relationship like just your adam's apple i don't know no oh my god stop her experience like

05:34:40.820 it still counts i'm just kidding um but yeah control me slap me i love that wait what

05:34:47.860 i don't consider that domestic violence or like because there's or no there you guys said something

05:34:55.000 what was it or like uh i don't want my man to correct me like i want to be corrected low-key

05:34:59.900 yeah i'd say that's what i'm saying there's a kind of a kink to it not even kinky like

05:35:04.980 i don't know okay and it's not ridiculous to say that because feminism gives us the choice

05:35:09.800 oh boy okay um next is there a next oh can you read this one oh oh yeah that's fair men who don't

05:35:23.980 take care of their family expect to be chased and don't treat girls with princess human i just said

05:35:28.940 the type of dynamic i like and yeah and i go and that one i'm like ew gross men who don't take care of

05:35:34.920 their families show of hands who here is a princess

05:35:37.560 uh more than queen no no queen princess i'm a baddie i love it are you a princess yes

05:35:49.380 have you seen me oh no i don't like this i don't like the king queen princess prince shit

05:35:55.280 no because it's like it's like the dynamic okay so like me thinking of this one guy went on a date

05:36:00.240 was like he was just like was very like protective or he got mad at this guy from opening my door

05:36:04.560 for me and like i don't know i just thought that was hot it was like foreplay you know like he was

05:36:09.000 about to fight a stranger yeah but he was obviously not going to you know but it was like you know

05:36:14.600 foreplay i don't know as far as this prince princess king queen shit

05:36:20.700 look i i personally think

05:36:24.460 these people saying this shit at best

05:36:28.540 are court jesters at best at best i'm just saying like let's not bring royalty into this shit

05:36:35.860 like we're just peasants bruv we're peasants we're all peasants yeah no obvious like i said my content is

05:36:43.060 too yeah and here's why i see it brian it's because tell me you know the way that it works in my

05:36:50.380 household it is there is a patriarch w w patriarch now here's also the thing though the reason i name

05:36:59.540 myself the queen is because the queen is made but a king is born okay fine go inspect it yeah the king

05:37:06.860 is a king is made or wait no a queen is made but a king is born maybe a king is born that way but a

05:37:14.800 queen is made by the king w agreed well put uh next react nick i'm gonna investigate these fucking

05:37:22.980 cards there's a double side to them or something no i know i was really looking at those cards like

05:37:28.260 there's something you did something casually casually thinking about the one time a guy said

05:37:36.820 he wasn't ready for a relationship so i sent him a book on how to love him petty and wish i am petty

05:37:44.080 i kind of like this one though shit lauren okay that's something i would do you know

05:37:49.200 it's from what and he read it uh sure sure sure we'll pull it uh can you read this really quick

05:37:58.180 you posted this to your story a couple days ago i think oh yeah we praise ceos who manage high

05:38:03.740 stakes operations we applaud executives who juggle logistics and personnel mothers carry the same level

05:38:10.480 of responsibility for years without terms titles or time off the difference one gets a bonus and a

05:38:15.620 corner office the other enjoy it while it lasts so as a single mom sorry yeah go ahead um i i don't

05:38:23.840 think the work i do is as much as the work that elon musk does for all of his companies like come on

05:38:30.260 yes i look women work hard raising their children but i don't think it's like i i think people

05:38:41.000 misunderstood like ceos are yes very highly paid some might argue they're paid too much

05:38:45.820 however these ceos typically a lot of them i don't think they have great work-life balance

05:38:55.160 these guys like people who are at the top yeah they work a fuck ton yeah and they're handsomely

05:39:02.880 rewarded because they work a lot if something some bullshit happens to the company the ceo is he's kind

05:39:11.120 of he's gonna catch flack he's gonna he's gonna have some level of responsibility there

05:39:15.940 i don't know jeff bezos jeff bezos single mom jeff bezos six sevens jeff bezos single mom

05:39:28.140 which one is jeff bezos because i feel like there'd be a lot of billionaire women if being a mom

05:39:36.100 was it mom or single mom i don't know whatever i think it was just mom

05:39:40.360 instead of being moms y'all could just be ceos if it's harder to be a mom than be a ceo just be a

05:39:49.800 ceo and make a lot of money which is fuck i almost think it's harder to be okay all right

05:39:55.180 come on give me something to argue with your family they have to risk it all to get to where

05:40:02.080 they have to be next like it's a lot is there next i feel like there's one or two more things

05:40:06.840 maybe or did we do every all the reacts oh there are her videos oh boy there's like three

05:40:16.620 three three videos two videos then two videos okay let's play the first video i'll be back

05:40:23.560 oh okay this is a long time ago so i don't remember what i said sometimes i wonder if i'm

05:40:31.020 a feminist or a traditional woman but let me just explain to you what i've experienced and what i

05:40:36.060 believe after i've experienced it as a 28 year old who has lived with a man and had a baby so i play

05:40:41.500 the whole housewifey role already if you're like well you never got married yeah thank god because i

05:40:45.640 would have gotten divorced and thank god i never got married i was the one who didn't want to get

05:40:48.240 married because i was like there's no way because tell me how this makes sense i grew up in a very

05:40:52.400 traditional household and so naturally i wanted a traditional household and i chose a traditional

05:40:57.800 man who also grew up in a traditional household meaning that the women the women take care of the

05:41:02.540 kids cook and clean and take care of the house and the men work and i lived it but we also live in the

05:41:07.280 modern day world so when he first met my ex i was 50 50 50 50 on bills 50 50 on food and i cooked

05:41:13.500 and i cleaned the first couple months living with him i was like i feel like slave i remember doing the

05:41:19.360 dishes every single day and i'm like i literally feel like a slave like what the heck this wasn't

05:41:24.720 the dream that i had in my head about having a household having a family living with a boyfriend

05:41:27.940 so then i would work less i eventually quit my job and then i remember being shamed like oh you just

05:41:34.300 want a man to take care of you and that's some things that people have said to me during that time

05:41:38.400 then eventually when i was pregnant i was like since i'm already doing all of this i actually don't want

05:41:43.100 a man and i'm gonna do it by myself eventually left that person did my own thing then years later we came back

05:41:48.760 together and i was like i am not going to be with you unless you pay all the bills if you want a

05:41:53.840 household family together so then that leads me back to the traditional route however i finally

05:41:58.440 decided that yes women can work and you can go 50 50 on bills but that means that the household chores

05:42:04.700 will go 50 50 when my ex was like hey um we need more money i said hey get another job and he did

05:42:12.460 if you're a stay-at-home mother or wife right and you get home and you tell your man that you are

05:42:18.940 tired no fucking shit you're tired because i want you to also think about this too and this is a common

05:42:25.320 thing that i see with people in my life right look up how much it costs to hire a full-time maid

05:42:30.200 then i want you to look up how much it costs to hire a full-time cook then i want you to look how

05:42:35.600 much it costs to hire a full-time nanny that is three jobs one two three jobs that people make

05:42:42.420 salaries on and living thank you daddy on when i've been in working

05:42:47.200 why i went back to my ex you can pause it because i was like it was like we we kind of talked about

05:42:53.660 that where it's like the jobs and the i i stepped away there but what latrice i guess your thoughts

05:42:58.960 on that because i'm wondering why is this why why why are we so focused on being monetized for

05:43:04.580 something that we chose to do i i don't understand on god i don't understand i you choose any job that

05:43:12.920 you get paid no no no no no i chose to be a mom but that doesn't mean that i should be earning some

05:43:18.120 type of income because i chose to bring life onto this planet and i'm just not going to choose a

05:43:22.940 relationship dynamic like that but also you said you feel like a slave doing all those things well

05:43:27.600 what are you going to do if you just you're living alone you feel like a slave washing your own

05:43:31.260 dishes doing all of that no that's for real no that was doing all of his

05:43:35.840 but see like that when he was working and did like multiple like jobs like i respected that that's

05:43:43.240 not why that relationship ended why didn't you use a dishwasher huh we didn't have one

05:43:48.040 she didn't have a dishwasher fuck that's sorry yeah it doesn't take a lot to do wash dishes

05:43:54.040 question for the two other moms at the table right so you want a guy to pay for a babysitter

05:44:03.160 if he's going to take you on a date yes so that guy who you're recently dating i think you said it was

05:44:08.620 a month how many dates would you say you went on like five or something or yeah did he pay for the

05:44:14.920 babysitter every single time like for all the dates most of the dates yeah i don't want to talk about my

05:44:20.620 last relationship what i'm just asking i just i genuinely i don't want to talk about that one

05:44:28.460 but i can talk about any well i don't need details about the guy i'm just asking because you say well

05:44:32.680 guys should pay for the babysitter like in a normal dynamic yes they they do that yes wait the guy you

05:44:38.700 were just seeing for a month yes but i'm saying like in a normal dynamic and any guy that i date they

05:44:43.140 so he didn't he didn't what he didn't pay for the babysitter no yes he did oh yes but like that was

05:44:49.240 answer to the to the women who are mothers here should a man for a first date pay for the babysitter

05:45:01.160 no no no 100 would you ever ask would you ever ask a man to pay for the babysitter no no and here's

05:45:09.600 why i wouldn't ask him because it's not his responsibility that's one no and here's the

05:45:14.720 second thing that i want to add to that is because of the fact that if mine will hold on because if

05:45:20.800 my focus is if my focus was to see if this man is going to pay for my babysitter then obviously the

05:45:25.540 focus is is his wallet and not what he is no like that's it doesn't make any sense that's your child

05:45:32.360 not his so he shouldn't be coming out of pocket for your child no it's a way that i weed out people

05:45:38.980 who are serious about me or not because my time serious can i ask you a question let me ask you

05:45:43.580 a question so i believe you know because i'm a prince right that if i go on a date with a girl

05:45:49.540 princess but if i oh hey easy there yeah you asked for money earlier well hey you still haven't gotten

05:45:56.640 your wallet so i think chop chop but anyways post taste go anybody what gonna get no he's asking for

05:46:05.340 money again oh you asked me i would like some money so okay let's say i'm my my thing i will

05:46:12.500 only go on the first date with a girl if she gets uh wax she gets she gets she has to get waxed um

05:46:20.100 before the date everyone how would you know so well i mean like lower body and i just don't think that

05:46:25.340 that is a an argument because the reason that i do that is for safety for my son and i and my time

05:46:31.160 and my resources yes not not safety in the whole dv but you got money girl you got money

05:46:36.340 you're a successful business how do we how does it make you and no because i'm weeding out people

05:46:43.520 who are serious about me or not and usually i'm me too if a girl's really down for me she's gonna wax

05:46:49.320 and we can argue that i think you should have that preference and we can argue that you're like

05:46:53.580 if i had a partner and he's like i prefer women that were waxed no not a partner first date

05:46:58.580 first date girl first date um first date first date yes i'm going back to my same thing okay so

05:47:05.560 how about this here here's the i'll you guys aren't gonna seem lovely i don't think it would

05:47:10.020 work out but hypothetically just hypothetically lauren just hypothetically lauren if i were to

05:47:15.420 agree to take you on a on a first date yes actually this would be a huge l for me but whatever

05:47:20.120 uh i wouldn't even well i'm not saying that but i'm saying if i pay for the babysitter i already

05:47:25.300 know who we are would you pay would you wax your shit would you wax if like as a trade-off

05:47:31.200 a trade-off i'm yes girl yes girlfriend no would you wax your shit

05:47:38.720 i'm confused okay if one can i wait wait hold on let me clarify let me clarify first date first date

05:47:46.160 let's say it's not me it's some guy you like and he's like hey babe absolutely i will take care of

05:47:51.640 the babysitter but what i would like for you to do por favor uh will you wax your shit for me

05:48:01.080 he doesn't say like he says well are we effing because that why else would i be waxing

05:48:07.460 so if we were and that's his preference yes

05:48:11.000 one thing yes i don't know that's his preference but would you do it yes i have a question i mean

05:48:19.620 she's gonna wax the pussy what if what if the male had a kid that was like what if what if that man

05:48:25.220 feels that i was about to be serious about somebody so to be serious i want you to pay for my kids

05:48:31.440 daycare the that's the question yes you are a genius i've been raising my hand for it thank you

05:48:39.540 deadly p fucking genius here's the question you have one kid and i wouldn't he has to you why

05:48:47.160 wait wait wait stop stop stop let me ask the question yeah you have one kid he has one kid

05:48:52.440 uh crosses each other out neutral you pay maybe split the sitter we'd be like hey that's actually

05:49:00.740 a good idea yeah i'd be like let's split the sitter okay here's the question uh-huh what if what if

05:49:07.200 she wants to go on a date with a man who has a kid should she pay for his kid yeah no because that

05:49:14.540 the reasons why that i have a man that pays for a sitter is because if i'm gonna have his children

05:49:20.660 then she's not gonna have to provide if i'm gonna go into the coal mines and get black lung for this

05:49:26.780 woman this is what i want i'm gonna go this is what i want i don't give a shit about what anyone

05:49:32.620 if it's the 1940s i'm going to well fuck the night whatever if i'm going into the coal mines and i'm

05:49:37.080 gonna get black lung or i'm gonna do some deep sea diving and get fuck what is it called when you uh

05:49:41.740 go up too quick the the the when you're accelerate the the the the the bends you get the bends i think

05:49:47.860 that is oh what's it called nick nick come on you're smart nick you're fucking smart nick figure

05:49:52.720 the shit out nick just let it manifest in your brain um the bends bends if you you go up i'm a

05:49:59.860 fucking you know these deep sea divers they fuck these guys die early it's so stressful on your

05:50:05.280 body to fucking the pressure or whatever bullshit i don't know what i don't even know how to describe

05:50:09.680 it i'm going fucking deep sea diving on some offshore oil rig fucking fixing under underwater welding

05:50:16.820 i'm gonna die 20 years i'm telling you these guys die 20 years earlier than they otherwise would

05:50:23.120 the stress of being that that fucking pressure whatever i don't even know what the cause is but

05:50:27.520 they die 20 years younger and some of them die on the job and shit you gotta pay for my motherfucking

05:50:34.360 uh babysitter and that's his whatever so that's his baby he has to pay

05:50:41.720 i don't know i kind of lost you five minutes ago because we went down like a whole rabbit hole

05:50:46.640 i'm just saying i'm in the coal mine getting black i think women can have standards and i think men

05:50:51.240 can have standards if i so i'm gonna go into the coal mine if i'm gonna go for it if i'm gonna go into

05:50:57.080 a coal mine and get black lung the least she can do is like pay for the date no the least the woman

05:51:06.000 that's his choice like he wanted it's your choice to get fucking have a kid yeah and i'm that's and i'm

05:51:11.500 not actively dating i chose my life with my son i'm just saying if i got to climb the burj khalifa

05:51:18.320 and wash windows she can pay for the first date i'm just saying if i got to run into the burning

05:51:25.220 do you want a woman to pay for the first date yeah if i'm gonna if i'm gonna have this crazy podcast

05:51:30.380 where all these girls are stressing me out and like i get death threats okay so someone

05:51:34.860 didn't take him on a first date that's what he means right now yes when i a little princess

05:51:40.120 treatment yes and he needs in fact after the show i'm expecting you one of you is gonna have to take

05:51:45.520 me in and out and buy me a hamburger or some bullshit oh hell yeah i'll take you not a day i'll just fit

05:51:51.140 and there we go and there we go call me matchmaker but uh he's getting his princess treatment guys i'm just

05:51:59.040 saying if i got this crazy podcast that's stressful and i you know you asked why i was getting fat

05:52:04.220 earlier this fucking podcast that's why i got fat that's the stress of this fucking podcast this is

05:52:09.640 this fucking gig is stressful in ways you probably can't imagine but i would say i would say look

05:52:16.120 i don't know what else i'm a fucking cop i'm a cop and uh i don't know i'm fucking

05:52:22.360 uh these people resisting arrest and bullshit if i'm a cop and you know what that day somebody

05:52:30.420 resisted arrest yeah the girl got to pay for the date how about that i'm a lumberjack and i got a

05:52:37.480 splinter she pays for the date i am a plumber well those guys always dealing with if you're a plumber

05:52:45.400 the woman always pays because you're dealing with shit literally all day like if i'm a plumber

05:52:51.620 she got to pay what else what's some other jobs that men have you know uh what else is there

05:52:57.440 you know if you're doing like a hard job you're probably getting paid like good money she can

05:53:03.500 still pay for the shit okay oil rigs i like it when a woman simps i kind of like it if a woman

05:53:08.240 simps electricians but don't you criticize men for simping so what is so then why do you encourage

05:53:14.940 women to do it yeah wait huh what was that because it's a role reversal because this had been the

05:53:20.760 treatment y'all been receiving for generations not me and i'm over here these men i just need to know

05:53:27.300 where's your villain origin story get me some i need to know your villain origin story what started

05:53:33.200 this look i'm just saying i i appreciate if a girl simps like she should be all over me she should

05:53:40.260 she should be a little bit obsessed not in a scary way where i'm like this you just said you had

05:53:45.060 women stalking you so well i don't like that i like yeah i like a healthy obsession but like

05:53:50.180 i'm gonna have to get a restraint no i don't want a restraining order but like if a girl is kind of

05:53:55.260 obsessed i can get behind that i can get behind that a little bit but not like a creepy not like

05:54:02.140 i will accept if she has a shrine of me that's okay shrine i'm okay with the shrine if she is in

05:54:09.460 you know shrine is okay stalker no like daddy issues obsessed not mental issues obsessed

05:54:15.720 yeah yeah bow we'll do the bow i like when a woman simps i don't even mind you know like if a woman

05:54:25.380 wants to take a bit of initiative she can make the first move in the sense like if she slides into the

05:54:29.540 dms i'll take it from there but hey that's i don't mind a woman taking a little bit of initiative

05:54:35.580 just slide into the dms that's it careful brian but i only date women with large ladies so

05:54:40.200 just kidding it's i'll date women with innies i'll date women with innies you know but uh

05:54:47.960 she has to bow and this is the video that i'm about to play

05:54:51.280 si senor si senor nick is spana he's a spaniard boom huge bow did you see the fucking bow even nick

05:55:05.380 nick nicks into it look at that oh my god oh in the discord i think i posted you can keep it

05:55:11.960 playing i think i posted a new bow video there's a new bow video so lauren this is what i think women

05:55:18.760 should i you see this lauren keep watching keep watching lauren and that's your kink it's not a

05:55:23.760 kink it is no it's not a kink yes like you just would you prefer her to be on her knees like right

05:55:29.020 when you came in like mouth oh well we'll wait for it uh play the bow really quick again just the

05:55:35.760 bow boom you see the fucking depth you see the submissive hand posture this is what i need i get

05:55:43.660 home from a long podcast day my girl has my dinner ready and she drops she drops a bow yes yes daddy

05:55:50.380 i prefer sir or master i don't like daddy you fucked up earlier okay that girl whatever you are

05:55:59.440 called me fucking she called me daddy and i don't appreciate that nick uh just i have one second one

05:56:07.660 second nick discord resources media okay media and it's going to be you're going to see three things

05:56:15.340 from matt rife it's the it's above it it's the new bow well there's no bow but it's the new one

05:56:20.680 i'm going to the bathroom do you want to come with me hold on just wait just wait just wait

05:56:25.520 can i get water uh you got it

05:56:31.500 oh there's uh lower the lower the audio we can play the audio though sure why not just lower it

05:56:41.380 yes yes he hurt doing it okay yeah

05:56:46.720 what oh geez this is what i need this is i need this

05:57:00.940 what i'm scared look at the scampering look at the scampering my dinner's ready

05:57:11.980 wait was that there before

05:57:13.780 is she gonna feed you

05:57:18.600 so um i think peep and bop is actually really good i want no i like that i mean she didn't do a bow

05:57:29.340 though it's the only thing that's missing but otherwise it was good it was good that kind of

05:57:33.160 attentiveness is what as a man i i'm looking for okay and i think y'all women y'all gotta stop step up

05:57:39.780 all right so do you like asian women because i think asian women uh i like i like white women

05:57:47.320 asian women latina women uh i i haven't santa barbara there's not a lot of black women but i

05:57:54.220 would date a black woman but um i would say generally like white asian latina okay so the

05:57:59.960 reason i'm asking is because you can throw native american too i'm for for asians the bow has different

05:58:05.100 mean and then you know other cultures for example so like if you if you were to ask maybe an american

05:58:11.680 woman to bow for you that wouldn't be like acceptable but like in a culture where i deem

05:58:18.540 it to be if i deem it to be acceptable it's acceptable well she's saying there's different

05:58:22.580 meanings like when we come and greet each other we shake hands that's just our american culture but

05:58:26.860 in the asian culture they'll bow to each other to greet each other yeah but i mean this transcends

05:58:31.340 this transcends culture i i can have a fucking southern white woman i'm gonna get a white the

05:58:37.360 whitest woman ever and she's gonna hit a bow well well okay so it would have a different meaning

05:58:44.280 because like it means i don't know it's kind of humiliating to like ask a woman to bow for you if

05:58:50.700 it's not like the culture that we she's you know it's not about i'm look if you want to call it

05:58:55.980 cultural appropriation i'm co-opting no that's not what i'm calling it by the way bowing has existed

05:59:01.620 in western cultures in white cultures in modernity sure it's more the case you see it more in asian

05:59:08.560 cultures sure however it's not about the cultural aspect of the bow the bow is a is a symbol for her

05:59:18.240 willingness to do something that is basically effortless in a completely effortless easy quick

05:59:25.940 way to simply please and acquiesce to me so so she prepped the food for you she did like everything

05:59:31.960 for you before you get home yeah uh but she didn't bow when you're still upset saying that woman was

05:59:39.000 like running like she's like on a treadmill like trying to please yes even then you're like oh she didn't

05:59:45.380 bow she's attentive well no look what she's doing is great and uh the the thing with the bow is

05:59:51.420 it's her willingness to do it if she doesn't do it if she's willing to do it that's and if she look

05:59:58.240 all the better if she does it but it's the willingness so so she can just say hey i'm willing

06:00:04.080 to do it for you but she never does it that would be still well okay so if if i'm desirous of having a

06:00:10.820 like having my partner be submissive in a relationship what better test than to ask her

06:00:17.040 to do something in from my perspective completely benign completely effortless it doesn't cost her

06:00:23.280 money it takes three seconds she can do it it it costs nothing i'm looking simply to see is she

06:00:31.060 willing to acquiesce to this even small thing and if she's not i have to wonder what about in

06:00:37.760 instances in relationships where there is something important will she acquiesce to me there

06:00:43.160 would you do it no i don't there's not i don't believe there's symmetry in relationships no i would

06:00:50.760 not bow to a woman the only scenario however i would bow to a woman i've explained this before

06:00:55.440 is if she's a billionaire and like okay brian uh you would you bow to be with a woman who's a

06:01:04.280 billionaire yeah sure because then i don't have to work so you sure i'll do it but like

06:01:10.120 i'm the breadwinner but you still have to work that that's retarded and if you're both working why

06:01:16.420 would why would what why would a billionaire expect their do you know do you understand how much a

06:01:22.360 billion is yeah yeah a billionaire does not need their significant other to work well i mean

06:01:29.280 elon musk's girlfriends all work huh elon musk all of her all of his girlfriends work like they don't

06:01:38.800 quit their jobs or whatever just because they were dating him and having his babies i mean but they

06:01:43.480 don't he's not making them work well that's that's what i'm saying like you're wait hold on

06:01:51.320 i'm sure if if he's got like fucking seven baby mamas or some shit if elon musk's one of one of

06:02:00.340 the parents was like hey look uh i don't want to work he pays them plenty of money to the point where

06:02:06.180 they don't have to work um i'm sure he'd be fine with it and he'd pay them to be like if they didn't

06:02:13.820 have enough money or whatever he'd pay them more to not work and just take care of the kids so what

06:02:17.700 you're saying is if you're the breadwinner making the most money you want them to bow but if the

06:02:22.340 woman is making the most money well i mean in terms of how i would like realistically speaking even

06:02:28.320 if i was dating a woman who earned more than me i would still want the leadership position in the

06:02:33.080 relationship i'd still want her be submissive

06:02:35.460 so wait even if she's a so okay oh you have a private jet when we're on the jet it's my jet

06:02:47.180 it's your jet it's your jet but it's my jet

06:02:52.200 i feel like i'm just too dominant for that do you have a private jet if i did it would be my jet

06:03:01.020 you can get what do you mean you're what do you mean you're too dominant for what like if you earn

06:03:05.980 more money than the guy you wouldn't be submissive or you're not i'm not submissive at all oh okay well

06:03:11.460 hey that's fine yeah find yourself a guy who will let you peg him find yourself a little soy boy

06:03:16.940 i didn't say i need to peg him i'm just more dominant you prefer black guys right i never

06:03:23.320 said that i prefer personality but you have a preference at all no not really because i feel

06:03:28.680 like you could get away with this with a white guy i don't know if a black guy is going to get

06:03:34.340 on board every guy i've been with asian black native american mexican and white have accepted

06:03:42.340 it and if you can't accept it you can walk your ass right out the door yeah that's fine obviously

06:03:45.860 you're going to have to deal with a guy who's going to agree to your terms everybody does it's

06:03:52.820 not terms it's just how i am i'm just a dominant person like okay good for you and you know what

06:03:58.160 that's fine but most men don't want that i mean hey do you want girls to clean the house for you

06:04:05.060 shit i mean i'll clean the house as long as you cleaning the house because i'm still gonna be

06:04:09.260 working and you're gonna be working like i'm most definitely be working more hours question for all

06:04:13.500 the women at the panel what where's that where's the uh little filipina girl where is she bathroom

06:04:18.980 hey hey i'm gonna i'm gonna talk some shit in tagalog or whatever doesn't faze me i don't know it

06:04:28.580 okay what's that we don't bow in the philippines well you're i'll bow on stage you cheer for me

06:04:37.020 um oh going around the table who here has like a i get you know this is a bit more of a feminist

06:04:44.100 panel or whatever um for the perfect man picture it now in your mind's eye perfect man

06:04:52.620 perfect looks perfect height perfect personality perfect money perfect treatment perfect loyalty

06:05:00.300 everything across the board perfect whatever perfect is to you for the perfect man do you give

06:05:07.800 up your career no what's your career no um my career is working with people with trauma the eft

06:05:20.460 tapping okay so you come across your perfect man and he's a billionaire he's like look i want to take

06:05:27.100 care of you i'm gonna take care of your kid you'll never have to work another day in your life you can

06:05:31.140 spend as much time with me with with your kid as you want everything you want paid for everything

06:05:39.240 you get the best house x etc etc etc the one thing you have to do is give up that do you give it up

06:05:45.980 no brian yeah i want to add no prenup what i already said no even with no prenup involved wait what

06:05:55.540 well the perfect man the entailment here yeah he would never leave her the perfect man will never

06:06:01.720 leave you yeah yeah you don't give up your career no because it has a greater meaning to it

06:06:07.740 but but think about the benefit to your child the benefit to my of aligning so now you have the

06:06:15.620 perfect father figure in your child's life yeah and the perfect provider when once they start school

06:06:20.720 then what am i gonna do you know what i mean you hold on school public school yeah public school

06:06:25.920 you can hire my perfect relationship my perfect relationship would be yes when they're little

06:06:31.400 i'm home with them and like i was home with my son so yes you're gonna pump out more kids

06:06:36.220 yeah probably right yeah maybe you meet the perfect guy you're gonna pump out more kids yeah not about

06:06:40.320 public school i'm actually thinking about homeschooling but homeschool is better but

06:06:43.880 okay but you don't give it up for the perfect guy no really the perfect guy

06:06:50.280 have you ever met a perfect guy no because if i did i would be married question if if we think of

06:06:56.560 perfect as a spectrum perfect over here the worst human i don't know uh stalin plus hitler plus okay

06:07:07.280 carrot top

06:07:08.540 what's the furthest to perfect on the spectrum that you've encountered in a man okay ready i'm gonna move

06:07:17.820 the bar okay wait here this hand right hand my right hand this side perfect man this side

06:07:23.900 worst man okay man terrible man okay tell me when to stop oh it's like the best man no no it's like

06:07:32.080 here tell me when to stop okay you ready in terms of the best man you've ever dealt with okay

06:07:37.540 okay stop okay that's kind of close i guess yeah there was someone that was close okay didn't work

06:07:47.540 out though yeah didn't work out yeah we had different yeah different opinions on foreign things

06:07:52.780 you're 29 you've been dating for a while right i'm 36 i've been dating for a while

06:07:59.500 we can probably agree it's hard out there right there's not a lot of good people out it's not that

06:08:05.440 they're not good people but maybe they're a good person but it's you're different you don't connect

06:08:09.520 you don't find them attractive they don't think you're attractive the person that you like they

06:08:13.080 don't like you the person that likes you you don't like them it's a complicated thing right

06:08:16.960 you've been out there in the dating field you've dealt with a bad guy too by the way yeah if i

06:08:24.140 could instantly deliver to you the perfect man you don't take it no because let me ask you a different

06:08:30.620 question get the man out of the picture okay in my hand i could give you 10 billion dollars

06:08:41.360 all you have to do in order to have the 10 billion dollars is you have to quit your job and you cannot

06:08:49.040 work one more day do you take the 10 billion no no because bro do you know how much 10 billion

06:08:57.200 dollars is that's generational because i was thousand year dynasty actual like no you won't

06:09:05.880 even be able to run that money out even after you're long gone i understanding what you're saying

06:09:10.940 i think that i love what i do and the work that i do with women you you love what you do more than

06:09:16.680 10 billion dollars yeah yeah she said her child and curse first okay all right i'm gonna move on i'm

06:09:22.480 uh uh for the perfect man do you give up your career like assume you're in college right what

06:09:28.500 do you want to be when you grow up optometrist okay um the perfect man comes along yeah and

06:09:37.120 well i know you're in a relationship so i'm trying to think how i can frame it like if i was i can do

06:09:42.800 a hypothetical sure sure okay thank you uh you got the perfect man comes along but in order for you to

06:09:47.940 be with him and it's not him imposing something it's a magic genie so he's not being like a dickhead

06:09:53.460 the magic genie says i will give you the perfect man but you have to drop out of college and you have

06:10:00.800 to you can't pursue career yeah do you take the do you take the trade yeah i'd like to be a doctor

06:10:06.260 but my goal is to travel i would take the trade easily for the perfect no perfect man do you take the

06:10:11.020 trade no really billion so when the perfect man is going to fulfill me like singing fulfills me like

06:10:18.100 being on that stage like oh my god i'd rather i'm not even gonna have a kid until i'm where i'm at

06:10:24.360 where i want to be like you don't even understand how addicting and how just amazing you feel when

06:10:29.920 you do that like my singing is my everything and it will always be my everything you can sing in

06:10:33.780 private no you can still sing no that's not what i want to do you can sing in the shower girl sing in

06:10:38.760 the shower you can sing to your husband how about that i want to sing to everybody i want to share

06:10:43.940 my art while that's not being on stage that's not getting cheered for raining down okay uh you'd be

06:10:51.160 perfect for the perfect man you give up your career do you mean that i'm not allowed to do what i want

06:10:56.260 for a career at all which is what tell us what that is like working in film but like film yeah like a

06:11:03.100 film producer a director like with harvey weinstein okay but i mean like am i not allowed to

06:11:08.060 um because i mean like perfect man perfect man billionaire hot yeah whatever i get the

06:11:14.920 question or some shit i don't know but like am i not allowed to do it period like i am i able to

06:11:20.460 do it but with no income profession so like if you want to sit at the computer and like edit youtube

06:11:25.320 videos but like could i do it but without an income my concern is that i feel like i just wouldn't

06:11:33.280 feel fulfilled i wouldn't have like any ambition you know what i mean well like i need something to do

06:11:37.520 travel you have your partner you can have but that's only so much like i need something to do

06:11:41.860 like i want to do stuff that i enjoy but if i can't what is up with she's rich what is up with

06:11:47.040 people i'm just saying this is not even true this is not even true this is not even true we live in

06:11:52.220 two different oh she's a she's a trust fund kid no i'm not her parents are dinero no i'm broken

06:11:58.220 why are women so obsessed with the rat race like no because it's like it's genuinely just like mental

06:12:04.700 wellness like what what the fuck am i gonna do you know what do you mean by the rat race because

06:12:08.960 like i don't work the rat race i don't care for work i just care for singing and sharing my art like

06:12:14.160 if i don't get paid for it i don't get paid for it are your parents rich no okay so right now

06:12:20.340 right now you do a job besides singing right yeah like do you would you have a are you a waitress

06:12:27.980 because a lot of people in hollywood a lot of people in the entertainment industry they're

06:12:33.620 waiters um i'm training to be a caregiver but before that just school and acting and all that

06:12:40.720 you're gonna wash old people's backs great while you're pursuing your music career yeah i think

06:12:48.740 that's an honorable job because that's i'm not making a criticism of that job yes taking care

06:12:55.140 of people being a hell in the health care yes what i'm saying though if presented with the opportunity

06:13:00.760 to not only have the perfect person but an entailment of that is i i would think the perfect

06:13:07.540 person is obscenely rich and i'm saying he's he's a multi multi-billionaire you never have to work

06:13:13.840 everything is taken care of that level of benefit to you you don't give up like most people work to

06:13:22.540 make money here's all the money you could ever need in the world no i'd rather work 50 years i

06:13:29.580 never said that i'd rather work 50 years i'm gonna tell you this right now you don't look at a computer

06:13:34.960 screen fucking what are you gonna do editing or some shit what are you gonna do dude did you even

06:13:39.060 listen to what i was saying i said yes this is exact i would take it but my concern is my mental

06:13:43.780 wellness because my question was just can i still do it but like without income like can i still pursue

06:13:50.720 what i like as long that counts as like a career you can't do it then i worry about my mental wellness

06:13:55.360 in that situation you would and it's like fulfillment better than like you know how they say money can't

06:14:00.080 buy happiness what do you want to do tell me what you want to do i want to be a film producer

06:14:03.000 film producer yes not a film producer so you like not a director like you're not actually either i

06:14:11.340 don't know exactly like producers aren't typically involved in like the creative aspects of yeah

06:14:15.260 it i said i don't know what i want to do producers like the financier they do finances legal stuff

06:14:22.500 paperwork so you're gonna be like in an office basically it depends what kind of producer you

06:14:27.500 are but like i said i don't know what i want to do they just sit in an office and it depends what

06:14:32.040 kind of producer you are there's line producers there's like certain there's like publication

06:14:37.260 producers if you can't work on teenage mutant ninja turtles five you're gonna have mental health

06:14:43.560 issues if you can't work on iron man seven you're gonna have mental health issues i mean what am i

06:14:50.120 gonna do if i have like nothing to do i don't know why women say that billionaire girlfriend would you

06:14:58.160 stop this podcast i don't think if if you come into an obscene amount of wealth whether you win

06:15:14.120 the lottery or you date like a super rich person who's super generous yeah that doesn't shrink your

06:15:20.340 life that expands your life and so this idea that what would i do with my time you have all the

06:15:28.020 freedom in the world oh it's wonderful what i'm saying is i would be doing the same exact thing

06:15:32.920 with what i'm already doing with my time you know yeah all right well what's up with all these

06:15:37.460 therapists and you haven't seen a therapist seeing well you do like therapy adjacent shit i guess i don't

06:15:43.540 know like all these therapists be seeing a therapist you why the what you're giving me advice and

06:15:52.040 can't you therapist yourself you're giving me advice and y'all fucked up too a therapist is someone who

06:15:59.420 makes sure that you're grounded so you have to be grounded to give people anyways um do you take

06:16:06.420 the trade perfect man yes what do you want to do with your life you want to um i just conjugate you

06:16:12.920 want to just like yes he's coming home to a warm meal and a warm mouth every night do you take the

06:16:17.060 trade you're a headstrong independent woman well with my day job i would take the trade but with

06:16:24.440 what i'm like pursuing like for my future career i don't know because i feel like it's kind of similar

06:16:30.280 to like the film thing like i'm a writer so if i couldn't like even if i wasn't making money off of

06:16:36.160 what my writing but if i just like couldn't do it period even the hobby then i don't know by the way

06:16:41.680 ai is coming for fucking everything yeah i say on this not for magic not yet it's coming for magic

06:16:47.580 no it's coming nope it's probably coming for this podcast shit yeah it's not doing anything for the

06:16:52.760 fucking gender swaps like honestly i i do actually think within like it's probably less but within

06:16:58.600 three years you could upload every single episode of whatever podcast and it will pump out

06:17:03.800 like a randomized rng like a new episode and it'll be super convincing and i'll be here fucking

06:17:12.120 raging out losing my fucking shit losing my mind you still can do it in the bathroom i'll be fucking

06:17:17.320 pissed off hey nick you motherfucker um still in our identity well you're married i get to live that

06:17:24.660 life there you go i'm living that life do you work you have a job uh yes i do have two jobs do you

06:17:30.780 give up magic do you give up magic for the perfect man i would not give up magic uh hold on hold on

06:17:35.600 i would give up hold on i would give up my day job i would not give up magic but if if you wouldn't

06:17:43.760 allow me to generate income from it i'm fine with that i can just do magic for hospitals no you have to

06:17:51.800 give up magic you see these cards here you see the shit you see the shit

06:17:56.640 he's still trying to figure it out it's done no you can't no fake thumbs no fucking pulling strings

06:18:07.460 out of your butthole or whatever the fuck no rabbits out of your vagina what kind of magic are

06:18:11.000 you watching i don't know it's some crazy shit you did not trust me earlier uh go ahead i just saw

06:18:18.840 change oh my god you guys amaze very easily these are different cards but thank you what where are

06:18:26.820 the other cards like i swear you just had right okay these are totally different this is not the

06:18:32.780 trick but thank you would you give up magic if i just handed you 10 billion dollars right now

06:18:38.720 i don't think people understand wait let me think i don't think people have a full appreciation for

06:18:51.200 how much even one billion dollars is it wouldn't make you because you're you're thinking you're

06:18:56.060 thinking in terms of you're thinking of to enter them off money only but then yes we're not because

06:19:01.660 you're a man so what wait a minute women have to pay for women got to pay for shit too right that's

06:19:09.960 why i'm working you gotta buy tampons and fucking that's why i'm working makeup products and shit

06:19:15.680 i don't know what the fuck y'all buy well that's why you're fucking kim kardashian have you heard

06:19:19.420 about the success stories huh so the what i said that's why i'm 10 million dollars you gotta quit

06:19:25.900 magic do you take the deal but i i will get bored my brain thought of the wrong magic

06:19:33.800 i'm a nerd i'm sorry i'm a nerd i mean look i mean we're all right well uh you don't have any

06:19:42.320 hobbies or anything uh do you do you read books do you well i mean already the biggest one is my job

06:19:50.000 yes i would give a woman uh perfect woman honestly i'd give up my job i'd give up my job

06:19:57.720 for the perfect woman and she could we could be like kind of financially struggling a little bit

06:20:04.080 i'd give up my job for the perfect woman and she makes uh well i guess i can't work because i have

06:20:10.680 to give up my job in this hypothetical i don't know she makes 50k whatever we'll struggle she's the

06:20:15.360 perfect woman though i'll do it okay so y'all won't do it for that's not what i'm asking

06:20:19.820 that's not what i'm asking though because i told you i told you i will give up my job but i'm not

06:20:24.080 gonna give up something that i'm do you have any obsessions anything anything you like and life to

06:20:29.760 do like do you do what i give up what what uh what is something you obsess big labia for the perfect

06:20:36.080 woman she's perfect but she has like the but that's not the question the inniest any what the

06:20:43.500 fuck is this girl doing did did you want to show me by the way are you actually hashtag need that

06:20:49.380 are you actually for like for real let's go she's fucking cat all right fuck it well i've been

06:20:56.560 do it all right in in the in the in the bathroom but i'm i'm not gonna go like close the door behind

06:21:03.800 me if you hey what hey what are you doing stay away go over here brian brian brian if you if you

06:21:11.260 if you do that you're not he's gay guys he's okay okay we've been knowing he's gay

06:21:17.960 wow girl i do have a question for y'all so have y'all heard about the success stories where they be

06:21:26.400 like oh i'm rich and famous but now i'm not happy because i'm rich and famous he's dropping wait

06:21:31.100 oh my god so embarrassed come on that is insane no don't do it don't do it oh my god are we with

06:21:42.080 this is like an essay right now come on she's all pressuring her bro coercing her you're pressuring her

06:21:48.780 oh my god hey hey yo she wouldn't do it well because she didn't know you would actually follow

06:22:08.940 through like hey i'm fucking insane i'll why oh we know we know we know yes uh you said you had a

06:22:17.500 question um but yo chat she she was like she was like she i didn't see anything she didn't show me

06:22:29.360 anything she she she didn't she she didn't show me because every time yeah she actually did go like

06:22:34.320 this yeah good on her yes we none of your business i sit down you will have to comment so like

06:22:44.000 she offered hey it's just a little banter you know a little banter all right let me let's get

06:22:48.620 through the questionnaire here uh okay lauren to your you say women are oppressed in the usa

06:22:54.260 uh isabella you agree why do you think well hey oh oh you want to be the host okay go ahead

06:23:01.940 go ahead i'm telling you after me you know what if you and me were to date i'm putting you i'm

06:23:08.920 putting you in a burka or something what did you just say well she's from saudi arabia so we we need

06:23:15.680 to return to the roots oh my goodness this girl you're crazy thank you so anyways um okay

06:23:23.660 do you want to you want to host no okay do you want me to i actually i can do that

06:23:30.040 no i just want you to what was the question okay no don't worry about it uh women are oppressed

06:23:35.640 lauren agrees isabella agrees taryn agrees nix nothing wait so to prove to me that women are not

06:23:43.740 oppressed in the u.s you wanted to oppress me but that's not my oh yeah i will oppress the

06:23:48.720 shit out of you so anyways you're like here here's indica uh how are women oppressed

06:23:53.620 in the usa so the way that i look at it as i feel like our experiences are usually mocked

06:24:04.080 which is like why there's what do you mean dolls oh well dolls let me finish the dolls

06:24:09.340 let me finish wait our experiences really quick on the doll thing i'm still feeling the way that

06:24:13.900 i feel about dogs really quick on the dolls i can make a counter argument to this so the fact that

06:24:19.400 it's two female dolls equals representation i actually think maybe men's rights advocates could

06:24:26.160 say excuse me brian there's two female dolls why isn't there a male doll yeah that's lacking in

06:24:30.640 representation dei initiative the whatever podcast is failing at dei that's really lacking in

06:24:37.960 representation i think here i am sitting here as a feminist i have zero zero male dolls i have two

06:24:45.560 female dolls that's crazy so and then also because only 97 no it's only i think only three percent of

06:24:55.960 great beasts are actually charged because women's experiences are not you know okay and that's why

06:25:03.580 so i feel like women our experiences are usually mocked i feel like our experiences are usually

06:25:08.120 not taken seriously and i feel that's just my experience okay um but when i think of oppression

06:25:17.420 i there's no dispute that this happens where women aren't taken seriously i'm not going to even dispute

06:25:23.260 that uh bad things happen to women not going to dispute that how i don't know if that's necessarily

06:25:29.460 evidence of oppression i think so because it's like our experiences don't matter then we would

06:25:34.520 have in what context though so if a woman goes to a police officer and reports a rape you can only

06:25:40.320 report it after 24 hours usually you don't you don't yeah that's complete hold on no no that's

06:25:44.960 completely ridiculous there are people being prosecuted you can only have actual evidence

06:25:49.020 donald trump the president of the united states from 30 40 what was it 40 years back i'm gonna

06:25:57.220 decline if we're talking about trump i don't know as a minor i was almost killed and their felony is

06:26:02.140 going to be revoked when they're 18 i don't know like it's just kind of what what was it as a minor i

06:26:07.220 was almost killed in our relationship how yet their felony is revoked when they're 18 well that's

06:26:13.560 juvenile court there's there is well i don't know i'm not an expert in the the punishments that

06:26:21.160 juveniles face but it is the case that typically if you're a juvenile when you commit a crime

06:26:24.740 there's um less severe consequences i guess i mean something super severe like if you're 15 16

06:26:32.460 and you murder somebody you're probably still fucked um i'm sorry to hear that happen though but

06:26:38.280 uh i i do think it's the case that if a woman goes to a police like do you think it's the case

06:26:44.700 if a woman goes to a police officer and reports that she was raped that the police officer is like

06:26:49.760 eh fuck you i think that they i think that they do the process i think the process i think the process

06:26:57.120 starts and that's how they act so okay i but you said women only have 24 hours that's not true

06:27:04.880 what i meant was 24 hours is when you can get actual evidence after an assault but like the

06:27:12.540 rape kit yes but usually women don't realize because there's different types of sa it's not

06:27:18.260 the type that's in an alley it's not the type that most sa happens in relationships or in dating or at

06:27:25.600 clubs if a woman's drink is spiked so usually women don't realize they have been sa'd and more women

06:27:32.980 have been sa'd but they don't realize it until it's too late to report or if they do report because

06:27:39.040 there's no evidence their experiences aren't taken seriously well clearly spiking somebody's drink

06:27:44.600 that's clearly that's clearly essay my question to you though you mentioned like if there's a

06:27:50.940 alcohol component so if i have what i would consider to be consensual sex with a woman and

06:27:58.100 i'm i've had three drinks and she's sober was i said

06:28:02.360 i think you know i think it depends on

06:28:10.980 i i think i think so i think so because so if i had three beers by the way i am a lightweight like

06:28:23.180 i will get fucked up off of three beers really yeah yeah i don't drink alcohol so i'm a lightweight

06:28:27.840 um and i i think sa happens at the point of blackout you know or like if a woman's incoherent so i think

06:28:35.380 it depends on the drunk state so if you're a lightweight and a woman did that then i think

06:28:39.420 that is sa and women i would be drunk but i don't think i would be incapacitated and like

06:28:45.440 see like how that's like not okay why again i did say i'm a lightweight but three beers wouldn't

06:28:51.860 like i would be exactly pretty drunk but i wouldn't be over the edge like i wouldn't be

06:28:56.560 i would be aware like i'd be aware it's messy because there needs to be a level of coherence

06:29:01.080 and consent sure but from my perspective i definitely don't think that in that situation

06:29:07.700 i have been essayed okay do you think wait one quick clarifying question yeah let's reverse the

06:29:15.040 roles the woman had three drinks um going into the date she definitely wanted to fuck the guy

06:29:23.240 but she was trying to loosen up or whatever she wanted to um maybe even unbeknownst to him maybe

06:29:30.800 they're just out to dinner and she's so nervous some women some people calm their nerves with alcohol

06:29:34.900 yeah she goes to the bathroom takes fucking three shots she's she loves this guy she's enamored

06:29:40.720 but she's like oh man i'm really nervous with this guy i'm super nervous i really really like him

06:29:47.560 and she resorts to alcohol he doesn't even know he doesn't even know and she's not she doesn't pass

06:29:53.680 out or anything but she's you know she's a bit drunk but she's she's there she's i guess

06:30:00.080 they then have sex yeah what she has said and he's sober coherent you just said she was coherent

06:30:06.740 right but i mean like to what when you're drunk it's like a bit of a i feel like spectrum i feel

06:30:12.920 like my relationships moving forward there needs to be like a verbal consent verbal consent from my

06:30:18.460 personal experience yes okay i mean i'm fine with people doing that but do you think absent verbal

06:30:25.860 like a affirmative consent verbal consent threshold if there if that doesn't occur do you think an essay

06:30:32.160 occurred again it's all about coherence and that's what makes them no but assume it no no let's say

06:30:37.600 both people are sober are sober there's no alcohol involved well if both people are sober then there's

06:30:42.460 no like power dynamic but if one person is not sober and the other person is see how there's an imbalance

06:30:49.820 like depends how drunk they are and exactly that's why i said it goes back to go like if i had two

06:30:55.640 white claws and i have sex with a girl i don't think i was essayed okay and i'm sure probably

06:31:01.940 because you're coherent well no but i would say women would probably feel that way too if they're

06:31:07.420 like they like the guy and they have two white claws one thousand percent and i'm not saying every

06:31:12.260 situation like that is yeah but you said that there has to be verbal consent for my personal

06:31:18.000 even in sober situations if yes no not sober because i think like oh okay so non-verbal like

06:31:25.020 uh because i think people frequently have sex without there being like a clear affirmative

06:31:29.920 i am giving you consent to stick your penis inside me yeah like i think there's like the vibe you know

06:31:36.540 you don't know yeah no yeah but that's what i'm saying to like prevent future experiences like that

06:31:41.540 happening i think that if there is an imbalance in the alcohol there should be more consent because

06:31:48.620 of the coherence what if both people are super tanked like they're both equally messy they're both

06:31:54.960 equally incoherent did they rape each other that that's just messy i yeah but like you do acknowledge

06:32:01.900 like for example and i agree with you that there's definitely cases where i mean it could go either way

06:32:07.360 right yeah but like the only cases that i consider way too far gone the only cases that i consider

06:32:11.960 that i've been in with essay is i was not coherent well that's yeah of course but if i drank with

06:32:17.940 somebody and and was coherent then i don't consider that essay right but i i'm thinking about a situation

06:32:24.380 where like you would agree i don't know if you went to like a party school but at least here in

06:32:28.980 santa barbara very very heavy party scene and like both men and women drank way too much

06:32:36.960 and they'll drink a lot and i think you'll have situations where like a really really drunk woman

06:32:43.240 will get with a really really drunk guy and i'm in that situation where did they rape each other

06:32:49.100 was the woman raped was the man raped and it's like i i don't know if the purely just if you've

06:32:56.300 consumed alcohol if that's enough of a threshold there yeah because i mean honestly um i know there's

06:33:04.440 things are shifting in this realm but i think one i think especially when you're young people are like

06:33:10.440 really nervous i think a lot of young people are uncomfortable i i'm some people are uncomfortable

06:33:18.260 with sober sex like some people cannot have sex sober which is kind of sad but um so people also like

06:33:26.100 alcohol is a social lubricant so people will drink to feel more comfortable i think especially for

06:33:32.560 somebody who's maybe sexually inexperienced although i wish they felt more comfortable with

06:33:36.820 engaging in sex i think that a lot of people will resort to alcohol both men and women to sort of

06:33:43.120 i mean literally socially lubricate themselves to being more comfortable some people can be

06:33:48.880 uncomfortable being naked in front whatever it is right and so i wonder though like if the standard

06:33:54.440 is okay you've just been drunk and you have sex i mean people have been getting

06:34:00.100 fucking shit-faced and they fuck for a long time men get fucking too trashed women get too trashed they

06:34:09.120 hook up with each other maybe one's more drunk than the other the man's more drunk the woman's more

06:34:13.220 drunk whatever it is i do agree with you that there's definitely a point of intoxication that's like

06:34:20.240 she definitely there's no consent there like yeah definitely too far gone and that's what i that's

06:34:26.660 what i mean and that's wrong when it's incoherent when someone but if it's too drunk people doing

06:34:34.640 whatever they're doing that's fine but like i i think so many people do hook up when they're drunk

06:34:38.900 it's like what is the standard it's like but see i'm talking about times like drinks have been spiked

06:34:43.820 that's what i'm talking about i'm not talking about two people trying to be chill and relaxed that's

06:34:51.100 fine i kind of wanted to touch on something real quick because you were saying that women are

06:34:55.840 oppressed based on essay of those kinds um would you also say that men also are oppressed good

06:35:03.940 question um and actually and actually a little bit because i feel like yeah so no and a little bit

06:35:10.420 because i feel like men um also have a harder time opening up emotionally because they're shamed for

06:35:17.920 so i i even especially talking about essay i'm sure that the statistics aren't even right with

06:35:23.640 what men experience i mean it's not just the emotional aspect of them not opening up but it's

06:35:28.100 also false allegations that happen happening in schools with teachers you know diddling boys as

06:35:34.620 well as grown women that are trying to have sexual relationships with small children as i'm going

06:35:39.720 to move off of this topic but i guess like one quick final thought here um you say that that uh

06:35:46.660 it's underreported because some women don't go to the police yeah yeah i think that and that

06:35:53.640 definitely happened like 100 sure i actually think if it's the case that women under report

06:36:00.120 then it ha i actually think men under report yeah even more and and i agree to that but uh moving on

06:36:08.200 you say men are more privileged in society or well there are some other women who said women are

06:36:13.320 oppressed uh isabella women are oppressed in the usa why is that um can you can you please define

06:36:19.380 oppression for me uh on typically at least from my perspective like severe unjust treatment

06:36:26.180 okay um historically they have been oppressed i kind of read it i didn't read the wording

06:36:31.180 are oppressed i could google it if you prefer a different definition but uh she meant the question

06:36:36.620 itself um well she has no no no she's right i wanted to know prolonged cruel or unjust treatment

06:36:42.560 or control i mean there's control over abortion but i mean yeah i i was thinking historically what do

06:36:49.260 you think why um i was gonna touch up on the abortion part like that's our body we should be able to do

06:36:55.720 what we want with it like uh and then all right there's just like a lot of stuff like not getting

06:37:02.700 the same type of jobs just because you are a woman or like you don't get picked for it because you're

06:37:07.540 a woman but i don't just think that it's women that are oppressed in america um i could have some

06:37:13.920 arguments there but just for the sake of time i'll move it on to the next thing uh women can't be sexist

06:37:19.360 towards men lauren you agree with that why is that oh no i said no i said they can

06:37:24.360 oh no i said women oh you circled i must have oh okay that's fine then i'll skip that uh lauren

06:37:30.720 do you believe that there's a patriarchy yes i do because when you divide the world's wealth men

06:37:37.380 are still leading in wealth well i mean depending on certain metrics for example there are more women

06:37:42.980 uh single women who own households who own homes in the united states but worldwide

06:37:47.700 oh well i'm talking about the usa okay well my statistics were from worldwide but i think yeah

06:37:54.200 just in the usa is there yeah and i think in the usa we're kind of like setting that forward so of

06:37:58.520 course we're more forward because but i feel like if women um in general i feel like because

06:38:05.240 men still hold that primary you know 75 to 25 i think that it does we're still under a patriarchy

06:38:15.020 but typically uh wealthy men typically have wives they have families so and women isn't it the case

06:38:26.200 uh women are like 80 percent of the consumer base women make 80 percent of consumer decisions women

06:38:32.140 hold the majority of debt yeah so it's like i think when a woman is married she has actually quite a bit

06:38:39.680 yes technically the money is like would be viewed as the man's money but women actually wield quite a bit

06:38:46.740 of economic influence in their marriages it's not a lot of women run their households

06:38:52.200 and they wear the pants and they peg their boyfriends slash husbands oh whoa whoa she knows what i'm

06:38:59.300 talking about nicks she pegs men for a living just kidding i made that up by the way you're welcome

06:39:06.240 back to the table we you're like hey brian let me show you my schlong in the bathroom and then we get

06:39:12.100 there cold low cold feet what happened um i don't know what happened you didn't want to show the penis

06:39:21.840 the non-existent penis latrice do you think it's a do you think she's a man or a woman

06:39:27.360 i don't know

06:39:30.520 okay anyways i think she's trans woman she's not lying why would she lie

06:39:40.880 trans fishing we went over this earlier uh okay chicks lie i mean okay fine i'll show you

06:39:48.460 uh not that obviously not right now huh not or not here at the table no you're gonna make me go

06:39:57.360 back there again here and then she'll give you another project in 10 minutes in 10 minutes

06:40:01.120 she showed the adam's apple did you not see it yeah yeah i even confirmed you guys let's close

06:40:06.900 this conversation fake news okay you just want to see it you got me i'm just i'm trying to see some

06:40:14.540 i'm trying to see some she dick you're right lord you were like begging in there bro

06:40:20.620 show me now i'm trying to see her feminine penis that's you got me hashtag need that what the fuck

06:40:26.640 is that hashtag for the babysitter uh let's see here um adult age gap isabella adult age gap

06:40:35.440 relationships are wrong example 30 year old dating 20 year old why do you teach one is not bad

06:40:40.040 why do you say that thank you for that addition why do you why do you say uh i believe with age

06:40:45.460 you mature more you have a lot more experience there can be bad things that happen i'd say there's a

06:40:50.820 different there's a shift in power and you can abuse that what's up uh our oh oh it's recovering

06:40:59.560 hey chat uh looks like we had a little blip you might have to refresh if you guys are watching

06:41:05.600 we had a little blip in our stream quality uh so you might just have to refresh uh where were we i

06:41:12.680 forgot i got lost age gap oh yeah who here's does anybody else object to age gap relationships

06:41:19.760 it depends you okay i say wait till your friends like wait till you're 25 and then and then you can

06:41:30.020 but i don't yeah before that no i think i mean my perspective on age gaps i think generally speaking

06:41:36.760 when i defend age gaps it's not i'm not trying to like oh women should date older men that's not

06:41:45.140 the case at all i think generally speaking most younger women you know 20 21 19 whatever it is

06:41:51.200 the vast majority of them prefer dating men their age like so it's not like women should i'm just saying

06:41:57.980 in situations where the woman wants to date the older guy i think that's fine i don't i don't see

06:42:06.280 an issue um or even the reverse the older woman dating a younger younger guy although i think that's

06:42:12.020 more rare um but i also acknowledge yeah most women typically prefer to date men most women prefer

06:42:18.820 to date men their own age uh but i don't like a 30 year old dating a 20 year old don't care i think

06:42:24.640 that's fine i mean i say you can do what you want but i say it can also be dangerous have you ever

06:42:30.820 dated a guy your age who treated you like shit yes well i mean dating men your own age no but like

06:42:38.880 what if you you're following this man you're doing what this man wants you don't have to do anything

06:42:43.000 he's older he's going to probably provide you're not going to establish yourself you're not going to

06:42:47.400 become like who you can be i feel like you have to grow a little bit possibly or you date an older

06:42:56.500 guy who okay you're in college cool do your college thing i mean perhaps timelines maybe he's

06:43:04.120 you want to wait seven years to have kids he wants to wait three years i don't know um timelines might

06:43:11.940 be off but uh yeah i'm fine i mean i i don't think there's anything morally wrong there 30 year old

06:43:20.320 with a 20 year old okay lauren your thoughts until she's 25 wait till okay uh yeah i mean i think

06:43:28.440 ultimately um like i think it's the the one time it can be weird is if the guy like if he's kicking it

06:43:38.800 at college parties and he's 35 yeah that's kind of weird but like if the guy for example like i would

06:43:45.340 i would even date a woman older than me i would date a woman who's my age i'd date a woman who's

06:43:50.480 33 34 but i'd date a 25 year old i'd even date a 20 year old why not uh but i'm not like exclusively

06:43:59.880 like i will only date a 20 year old but if a hot 20 year old girl slides into my dms

06:44:05.880 who am i to say no can i add but do you don't ask me how to date okay no i just i was just gonna say

06:44:13.360 i was 19 dating a 25 year old so i kind of know what it's like i don't think that's too crazy but

06:44:18.580 that's like six years but that's like i we met when i was 18 remember and this guy lied about his age

06:44:22.520 okay well yeah yeah i remember that but um i feel like i feel like it is very circumstantial like

06:44:27.680 ordinarily i would be against it but then i feel like in this situation i was willing to make an

06:44:32.840 exception but generally like it can be really bad it was just like in this situation it was

06:44:38.960 passable but it was still definitely weird and i just feel what was relating to his age what was

06:44:44.700 he doing wrong like that you can attach to how old he was he lied about his age well but you can

06:44:53.380 lie about like like what did he do wrong related to his age can lie you know this is true but i just

06:44:59.760 like he was hiding her from his family because he was ashamed of how young she was it's just like he

06:45:05.740 felt weirded by it he lied about his my age to his family like he wouldn't be your own friends

06:45:11.000 wouldn't let me meet them and he wouldn't let me meet any of his friends because i was like so young

06:45:15.420 and also like wait he said that he said that yes okay well that's weird he was like he was like oh

06:45:21.900 like i told my friends about you like i told them you're real age and they were like really into it

06:45:25.280 and i was like i don't like that you're friends with people like that you know what i mean wait they

06:45:28.980 were they were into it they were egging him on they were like oh yeah you go man like get that

06:45:33.380 18 year old the friends did like it the friends did he said that it made him uncomfortable but i was

06:45:38.760 like why are you friends with people like that you know what i mean but it's just like and like

06:45:43.840 i was thinking about it in terms of like he was telling me about how he was like at the hospital

06:45:48.380 with his older sister and she was giving birth and i was like hey you're getting to that stage

06:45:52.360 of your life too like what about me you know what i mean how old are you 20 i'm 19 now 19 i mean

06:45:58.500 shit you could you could start pumping but i'm like i'm still in college like you know what i mean

06:46:03.160 like we're still we're definitely in very different parts of our life so that's why i feel like it's like

06:46:07.480 it's a little risky but i don't think it's end all be all it's always bad but it's definitely

06:46:11.720 proceed with caution okay you had something uh yeah so um the the man i got married to um i was

06:46:20.220 i was 18 at that time well not okay that how how marriages work in saudi arabia um there are like

06:46:27.300 arranged marriages um and so basically what they do is that after whatever happens and they ask for

06:46:34.880 the girl's hand or whatever and they agree whatever um they actually do like the marriage

06:46:41.040 vows or whatever which is like basically in term of like religion and you know in the eyes of the

06:46:45.840 government you are married but society consider you as engaged until the wedding day so uh so we were

06:46:53.320 like in that period for like two years and then we how old are you and how old was he so i was 18

06:46:59.540 um he was uh well he lied about his age too um so he said he was 28 um but his okay so when he was

06:47:13.340 born uh back in the day saudi arabia did not like really keep track um you know keep records of

06:47:20.000 you know birth or whatever and like the villages i i like i grew up in the villages um his mom said he

06:47:28.220 was at least 30 um so i don't know his exact age um and like despite all the other issues regarding

06:47:36.080 like the whole arrangement or whatever um just like the mentality like differences between like

06:47:43.200 that totally different generation and me coming from like a newer generation it was just like

06:47:48.360 just how we think and like everything's like we're on a totally different level and just like

06:47:54.400 but i mean people who are the same age can also have these differences of values too so like i think

06:48:01.140 you can have a matching up of values and desires and relationship goals with somebody of a different

06:48:07.820 age correct that's why i'm saying it depends so like um is it perhaps more likely i think generally

06:48:14.540 speaking sure i'd be willing to say that yeah probably a 30 year old 35 year old guy dating a 20 year

06:48:21.060 old girl he's probably a little timeline wise he's probably a bit more assuming both of them are

06:48:27.060 desirous of having a family at some point he's probably a little closer to wanting that sooner

06:48:32.940 than the typical 20 year old woman and he's more mature too uh well assuming hopefully not all of them

06:48:40.200 but yeah um yeah okay um moving on to the next topic here uh let's see we have

06:48:49.340 taryn deadly p a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that

06:48:56.600 because like what does weight have to do with it into the mic into the mic what does weight have to

06:49:02.660 do with it like you're telling me that if i was bigger you wouldn't want me but because i'm skinny

06:49:06.700 you want me yeah what can i ask you a question yes would you uh hold on hold on okay so taryn in

06:49:16.660 your questionnaire how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date you said

06:49:20.260 you're 5'4 the minimum height you would date for a man is 5'9 how is this any difference than the

06:49:26.620 weight thing you're telling me because a guy is 5'7 you wouldn't date him or 5'5 or 5'3

06:49:35.160 well you can't change your height but you can definitely change your weight

06:49:40.580 but what what is it with the fat girls and like there's always that suppression of it and it's

06:49:48.140 always like what's wrong with not women cannot hold on women cannot want to date a fat guy i'm fine

06:49:54.080 with that but why does it matter a little bit but um uh why does it matter because physical people

06:50:01.560 care about physical attraction and the reality is if you're overweight you're fat that some people

06:50:07.180 are not attracted to that well not just some most people are probably not attracted to that

06:50:11.200 i mean like so why is it wrong for a guy not want to date a i mean it could go either way a woman

06:50:20.360 doesn't want to date a fat guy that's fine i'm fine with that yeah just know that there's like a very

06:50:25.820 small percent there's like not a large percentage of men that are over six feet tall so it's like you know

06:50:31.280 there's a lot of women out there that are always talking about i want a guy who's six feet or he's

06:50:36.480 got to have abs and he's got to make six figures but that's a very small percentage and you know as

06:50:42.180 far as weight goes it is something that most of the times we do have control over you know and it's

06:50:47.520 okay to have that preference you know if you don't want someone that big it's okay if you want someone

06:50:54.600 skinny can i give you like a practical answer to this like for a fat chick like are we talking obese

06:51:00.960 are we talking are we talking i'm i'm like i was chubby so i'm thinking like a like what do you

06:51:06.760 mean can i ask you something no you can't because i'm in the middle of my sorry uh wait so you used

06:51:13.980 to be chubby is what you're saying yeah but i mean you do you acknowledge that maybe you got less

06:51:19.680 attention when you were chubby yeah i got a lot less attention and now you you you got you lost some

06:51:25.420 weight and you're getting more attention it's not like i lost it to lose it for attention no i'm not

06:51:30.100 saying that's the reason but you acknowledge that that's the reality yeah yeah so it's like but i

06:51:35.020 feel like it shouldn't be the reality well i don't know how useful talking about should is

06:51:40.900 because men are attracted to what they're attracted to women are attracted to what they're attracted to

06:51:45.500 let me give you a practical reason now

06:51:49.020 all right so a big girl a big girl even let's say she's just thick like she got thunder thighs

06:51:59.520 and a big fat ass don't sometimes that's nice to look at you know but like practically speaking

06:52:05.140 sometimes that makes sex complicated you know like if she like if her legs are big

06:52:14.360 like it can be nice to kind of look at but it can complicate the the the procedure i mean i

06:52:21.680 wouldn't know because it had i have no difficulties when i'm with my thick girls so i'm just saying with

06:52:25.860 your girl yeah dick girls oh thick girls yeah i have no difficulties and in a threesomes

06:52:32.360 they still they still don't have any difficulties i could you could have a dick you gonna we should

06:52:38.040 we go to the bathroom too you're gonna whip it out nigga i said i i mean wait wait say it again

06:52:42.840 say it again say it again oh i thought you said the n-word did you come in there do you want to like

06:52:49.780 be like my like am i your you say it because i can't say am i your nigga yes am i am i your

06:53:02.320 say it no okay no yeah i'm not no it's just like we're not homies we're not like good because

06:53:08.120 you're my caucasian so we homies we good homies yeah we're homies you're my caucasian you're my

06:53:16.080 caucasian you're my filipina yeah like if we homies like i call all my friends all my trans caucasian

06:53:23.480 you're my half caucasian or i'm really looking at us government it is yeah yeah so you y'all my

06:53:33.580 caucasian you're my caucasian all of y'all my caucasian w except for the filipina she she doesn't

06:53:41.240 like white people and men so i'm like doubly fucked i'm doubly screwed she doesn't like white people and

06:53:47.740 men and i'm pale so i'm screwed can i also add no okay go ahead

06:53:54.940 i'm come on joshing you i was just giving you some flack real quick before you start you have

06:54:03.100 lipstick on your teeth oh good call wait really quick before you do your thing okay so sometimes

06:54:07.660 if a girl's like a thicky icky look i'm gonna be honest i've got an average penis size and like

06:54:14.820 sometimes some positions become difficult if she's you know so you're talking about she's got

06:54:20.820 a big badonk i just smaller sizes because the sizes i've been within the reasons you don't got a dick

06:54:26.780 you don't know how do you know you don't have a dick show me there's more than one way to work

06:54:30.240 yeah like there's yes what was that with a thick woman and a guy but you don't know because you don't

06:54:35.260 have a dick i see it happen i'm just saying i'm just saying if she's thick like it her on top

06:54:42.360 becomes a bit more difficult how she's big like well one i'm getting crushed a little bit but two

06:54:47.420 it's just it's hard to maneuver like it's hard to maneuver a little bit her no like it's hard to

06:54:54.820 for the dick to find it's never moving when you're on top the girl's moving you got to find the grooving

06:55:02.100 well i top from the bottom i guess or whatever so it's hard for you to find motion so you're talking

06:55:07.640 about yourself personally if i'm on if she's on top i want to be in control so how are we talking

06:55:13.500 about that if she's on top okay i do i have to be graphic do i have to be graphic with it all right

06:55:18.760 so here's like you holding her waist hold on here's me and like you think a girl on top is she's like

06:55:25.700 this right the girl on top should be like this and i'm she's she's here so we're chest to chest

06:55:33.400 and i'm i got her by the hair and i'm like you know her ear is right there and i'm i'm talking

06:55:41.400 my shit and i'm controlling i'm controlling the situation uh-huh yeah yeah chill out isabella

06:55:49.320 okay all right i'm sorry it seems like you're talking about personal experience from because

06:55:53.480 from what i've seen and what i've done i don't like it when the when i'm laying down and the girls like

06:55:58.840 this no chest to chest but i'm saying but i'm saying i've seen that and i've like i've seen that

06:56:05.200 and i literally did it when i was bigger like i don't understand which what you're talking about

06:56:10.120 like it's i'm just saying it sounds like you're talking about people with smaller smaller that

06:56:15.720 means it's average okay it's average trust me it's average i'm just saying some positions are as

06:56:21.000 harder if you average it should be fine no it's still is she thick if she's a thing is she dumb

06:56:29.120 thick i still think the same thing if she's dumb thick it's like there's only there's not it's the

06:56:34.480 ass is fine your maneuver figure it out the pussy the ass is not protecting but the ass is blocking

06:56:40.140 the pussy i mean whatever i totally get what you're saying but it's still like

06:56:45.120 is that really gonna be the reason because like you could figure it out it could be harder for

06:56:51.620 for you to do it with a skinny girl anyway a skinny girl no it's the easiest to do with a skinny girl

06:56:57.580 a bit bony but yeah well now now i mean what do we mean by skinny anyways let me get it off the sex

06:57:04.900 talk because we got a fucking isabella here clutching her pearls oh my god yes i'm scared

06:57:11.580 guys i'm frightened oh my god give her the earmuffs so she we can do earmuffs

06:57:16.400 wait how did we oh the the rejecting of a fat uh it's wrong women should not be rejected because

06:57:24.700 of her weight well can a man be rejected because of his height i mean like yeah but no well what are

06:57:32.720 we talking about i don't think it should matter if women can reject men for their height men can

06:57:37.220 reject women for if they're for their weight that's fair and women can reject men for their

06:57:44.060 weight and men can reject i think it's rare but men can reject women for their height but it's not

06:57:49.360 as much of a hate thing and it's not as much of a big deal yeah i don't know there's a lot of chubby

06:57:54.080 chasers you can find somebody you found you found people right no okay um how about this uh let's see

06:58:00.740 oh okay men should pay on first dates you say lauren men should provide protect men should be

06:58:06.260 averse husband should be willing to die protecting you uh i personally honestly because i'm such a

06:58:13.100 feminist you can have it for as long as you want i think the woman should take the bullet but that's

06:58:18.660 not what you asked i would have said yes for both ends even if she's really small i think you use this

06:58:23.180 excuse you sorry

06:58:26.480 oh we got okay so anyways if the you use the woman as a meat shield like how tall are you

06:58:35.680 five foot five foot yeah it's like home invasion and like we're in like a bickering married couple

06:58:42.220 or whatever and you're using her as a shield he's just gonna pick me up like you're gonna pick her

06:58:45.660 up and put her in front of you yeah like i'm a the the guy's just shooting bullets and i'm using

06:58:50.260 i don't even think you should do that as a female you should have pick up the man and put him in front

06:58:54.260 of you you should have pick up the woman and put him in front of you that has to be your choice

06:58:56.720 you better get in front of that bullet from your own choice if i love you i'm gonna get in front

06:59:01.480 of that person it don't matter if i love you can i is it cool if like because you know no if i love

06:59:08.920 you can i you're gonna do it this is true because if you're using them as a shield you don't love them

06:59:13.520 so what are you even there for because it's like i was gonna do it but why are you what using me as

06:59:18.300 a shield i will put you on the street look i'm thinking about our children like if i have kids with

06:59:24.900 her then i want to protect why are you talking about me because i will be the one who murders

06:59:29.500 you like why would you use me as a shield you know for reasons sound like you sound like you

06:59:38.460 got some hate in there there's no hate no it's love no if you hate a woman love somebody you're

06:59:44.280 gonna be the one who gets in front it doesn't matter if you male or female if you really love

06:59:49.300 somebody you're gonna get in front of that bullet because you want them to be safe you want them to

06:59:52.960 be the one that lives you should insist on taking the bullet for them yes i think the woman should

06:59:58.340 sacrifice well you said it could be both we were talking about kings and queens in chess if you lose

07:00:04.880 the king the game is over i'm not a misogynist you never chill out isabella isn't the queen the most

07:00:12.660 powerful piece though yeah the queen yes exactly which is why she should sacrifice herself in fact

07:00:17.100 there's a move called this queen sack queen sack you sacrifice your queen to save the kid or

07:00:22.040 whatever i don't know what the fuck you actually do are we playing chess lonely but no i'm playing

07:00:26.000 checkers i might sacrifice you you never lose the king though you just whatever that means okay

07:00:31.620 really quick question for i don't know you i guess um or the whole panel imagine consider a scenario

07:00:39.600 a ship is sinking and only one functioning life preserver remains a married couple face i guess you in

07:00:47.580 this situation you and your husband faces the reality that it can save only one person there's

07:00:52.600 no loophole there's no work around there's no additional options one life preserver one of you

07:00:58.540 must die who should volunteer to sacrifice themselves do we have kids in this scenario

07:01:04.180 give me your answer for both no kids yes kids no i no kids both of you just duke it out figure it

07:01:11.200 out i think it's situational fight with no don't literally duke it out it's literally just like

07:01:15.700 okay which of us wants to fucking die is the kid on the boat no okay the kid is like offshore safe

07:01:21.860 already yes it's just you and your husband on the boat okay then i think if we have kids it's like

07:01:27.380 literally whoever is more capable of taking care of our kids w the man not inherently i don't think

07:01:34.740 yeah that's not always the case w the man most of the time that is not always the case you can milk

07:01:40.560 milk i think can men produce milk no i i think i think they said yes i mean can them

07:01:46.380 were you raised on male breast milk does that explain yeah what explain yeah

07:01:55.580 um i don't know what does it explain i can't he doesn't know uh you know yeah yeah

07:02:06.220 is that your final answer

07:02:09.400 uh so the autism guys it's the autism uh okay i look i don't know i well okay getting into this

07:02:19.760 lauren you do say the man should take the boat what's your answer to the sinking ship one

07:02:23.680 um i don't she was zoned out yeah i don't know no because i think like if i was like genuinely like

07:02:30.580 in love with someone like i would have survivor's guilt so i think we would just die together oh my

07:02:36.040 wait you'd both just die yeah what about the kids she said i'm gonna die yes because like

07:02:43.000 what does that have to do with because if i was in love with them like i couldn't like

07:02:47.040 you know kill the kids too while we're at it bro like she literally said we go i'm gonna

07:02:51.720 i was like we're all of us together you know question yeah uh question we're sinking together

07:02:57.460 lauren uh so you say in terms of last name do you want to get married again i said whoever has

07:03:05.220 the coolest last name oh let's say well let's say the guy has a really bad last name yeah no

07:03:10.200 i dated a guy with his last name duty and i was like there's no way what's wrong with that hey

07:03:16.380 that's fine but mine is la palia it's like hard men should pay for your babysitter when you go on

07:03:22.480 the first date men should pay for dates men should provide men should protect men should be chivalrous

07:03:27.460 husband should be willing to die protecting you but if you draw the line if he has a bad last name

07:03:33.020 you're not taking the last name in marriage you don't deserve chivalry if he has a cuter last name

07:03:38.680 then i'll consider it you don't deserve chivalry and i did this guy's cool last names in me

07:03:42.240 she belongs to the streets

07:03:43.480 okay i named my son a different last name than me uh let's see here um

07:03:51.220 um wait hold on one uh body count going around the table what's your body count starting who's

07:04:05.540 gonna uh who wants to start who's down to start okay go ahead nine going this way three going this

07:04:12.960 way three going this way i'm opting out range 30 brain 70 whatever you want it to be it's okay

07:04:20.320 whatever i want it to be yeah

07:04:23.860 six seven you could just go back to the last podcast did you did you say it on the last show

07:04:30.500 did i yeah oh come on then you already said it be a good sport then you guys can find that

07:04:35.660 information if you so please you already said it homegirl okay just because she did that whoever's

07:04:42.300 if my editor is watching this i want you to go back we already edited that episode go find it

07:04:47.600 go cut a clip that's like three minutes long of her just repeating her body count over and over

07:04:53.580 again you you want me to make up your body count uh whatever you know honestly i'll be your last body

07:05:02.600 count oh so whatever the number is after me i'm the last oh i'm avoiding looking at you right now i

07:05:17.340 don't anyways moving on what about you um body count i'm not gonna give y'all an exact number give us a

07:05:23.140 girl number how many girls have you just how many of these hood rats have you just ran through

07:05:28.020 hood rats well okay you fuck some classy women too how about that like let's not okay i'll be

07:05:34.660 fair i ain't fucking with no hood rats you fuck some bougie chicks you fuck some hood rats you fuck

07:05:38.460 look it's okay we all we all you know who's we you it's just i would say for women it would be

07:05:48.140 six six women how many men

07:05:59.060 uh the range is four to five okay what about you isabella say say it two what about you lauren

07:06:08.660 um 15 15 okay what about you um i said i'm not gonna answer private question thank you do you want

07:06:16.720 to do a range uh no because it will have that clip that says all right whatever it doesn't matter

07:06:22.460 i mean multiply by three so that's fine uh okay i know there's something about body count no we did

07:06:30.180 body count we did nick are we were there's another video or something all you did was ask us about it

07:06:36.060 you didn't ask us about the question on the paper oh well i'll move ahead for the sake of time but

07:06:40.800 uh nick there's a video let's pull that up a woman's career money status does not make her

07:06:47.100 more attractive to men isabella you oh makes her more attractive a woman's okay we'll touch on that

07:06:55.120 really quick a woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men isabella you agree

07:07:01.060 taryn you agree nicks you agree uh

07:07:06.640 i think it depends on where you live uh i mean i'll tell you guys this men don't really care about

07:07:16.120 your career but don't you want to be asked out on dates and don't you want to have dates paid for

07:07:19.760 like i don't get your logic there and you literally said earlier if she had 10 billion bucks you'd

07:07:24.500 fucking yeah that would be for an egalitarian the difference here is that it has really

07:07:28.560 no impact that that would be like a a life altering thing but in terms of like a sort of attraction

07:07:37.360 that men feel like yeah that'd be nice for my life and that would isn't that attractive well i think in

07:07:44.860 this like crazy hypothetical that i i described um i don't realistically ever expect that to happen

07:07:52.060 but i think realistically women can and do encounter men who have a provider mindset and who are

07:07:58.720 perfectly like down assuming they make the appropriate appropriate amounts of money to be

07:08:04.020 like hey listen i'm fine with you staying at home i want to um i want to take care of everything that's

07:08:10.740 the kind of dynamic i'm fine with in my relationship i'm making good money you don't have to work i'm

07:08:16.820 going to take care of everything take care of the rent take care of the food well if we're living

07:08:20.620 together i'll take care of take care of everything right uh and when we have kids you don't have to

07:08:25.460 work you can take care of the kids and that's the dynamic that i i'm fine having very very few women

07:08:32.960 are okay like it with the reverse dynamic where they're the ones doing that so i guess for example

07:08:39.520 for there are guys who might find that attractive or care or whatever i think most men though

07:08:44.800 uh they don't really care they're going to primarily care about your personality and they're going to

07:08:49.560 not well they're going to care about your physical appearance and they're going to care about your

07:08:52.680 personality your job your status your money your education that's secondary if you're pleasant and

07:08:58.480 you're good looking honestly that's that's really it that's really it i live in silicon valley and like

07:09:04.980 i had a lot of um first dates who like literally asked me um well they were saying that they require

07:09:13.080 are you are you are you a little ups you you you want to go to the bathroom is that you you're

07:09:18.920 waiting to show me the the caca is that what's going you're you seem a little pouty so anyways continue

07:09:23.480 all right so as i was saying okay um i did have multiple dates where the man on a first date they

07:09:33.000 were saying that if you want to have babies we both have to make at least 150 or 200 oh you're dating

07:09:40.280 like lefty computer programmers and fucking san francisco is super super lib well look a lot of

07:09:50.040 these i mean 150k if he's making 150k i mean that's good money but not i mean in silicon valley that's

07:09:57.160 not i don't know if you can uh in silicon valley i don't know if you can is anybody here from like sf

07:10:03.400 san francisco i don't know if like 150k in sf or silicon valley you can have like raise a

07:10:14.280 yeah but they're saying we both have to make that much like they are requiring me to not only have a

07:10:20.760 job but also have that minimum but so that's a economic and financial reality in terms of a man's

07:10:28.280 attraction i don't think that that's

07:10:34.440 like a guy's not going to be more maybe that's a consideration for like okay realistically like

07:10:40.120 the economy is fucking dog shit it's bullshit whatever two you need two incomes for to to

07:10:46.040 you know have a household have a family have kids you need two incomes but in terms of a man being

07:10:51.160 more attracted to a woman because of her career i don't think that's the case i think it's purely like

07:10:57.000 a financial economic reality whereas i do think it's the case that women will have more attraction

07:11:02.280 for a guy regardless of her own financial standing a woman will have more attraction for a guy based

07:11:07.640 off of status based off of money based off of his career like a woman will feel will have more

07:11:14.920 attraction even beyond the financial reality if she's dealing with a doctor versus dealing with a

07:11:20.360 guy who works at chick-fil-a for me there's actually i think there's benefits is it the

07:11:27.240 estrogen or whatever you're taking the the the shit it knocks you out when you're taking the the

07:11:32.120 i'm just waiting for you you're waiting for me to go to the bathroom man last time we went to the

07:11:38.440 bathroom by the way i didn't go in the bathroom i stood outside the bathroom and you just flicked me

07:11:43.480 off very rude i'm very upset you're gonna have to go get some cash or something okay at least you

07:11:49.160 you gotta repay him you got rid of the daddy that's an improvement i i think you're agreeing with me

07:11:54.760 you're just worried in it differently we're in different levels of the spectrums you see

07:11:59.960 i don't know does anybody dispute this at all that i i personally think career-wise you're like

07:12:04.760 more established than the average man i'd say you make i mean i say you're well off

07:12:09.400 yeah no i'm doing well not many not a lot of men not all men are sure and they will literally

07:12:16.280 stop talking to her if she doesn't reach this quota of money they want so that's like completely

07:12:22.200 cutting off attraction altogether yes i agree with you that yeah if a guy's like look i need to date a

07:12:27.880 woman who's making this much money but i don't think the the reason for that is because of a an

07:12:34.840 assessment of attractiveness i think that's just like a pragmatic economic and financial thing

07:12:42.600 whereas for women i do think it's the case when a woman sees a successful guy a wealthy guy a guy

07:12:49.160 with status that triggers attraction not maybe not all women especially i think young women don't care

07:12:55.800 that much about money generally i think like i think well i think when women get into their mid-20s

07:13:01.960 late 20s they start caring about different things i think when you're your 19 year old girl in college

07:13:07.240 you probably just think is he hot is he fun do i like him that's it whatever and people in college

07:13:14.200 aren't making money so it's like most college girls aren't gonna be like oh he doesn't make six figures

07:13:19.160 no they're not gonna they're not thinking like that it's not a consideration but if we're talking about

07:13:24.280 like a larger uh portion of the dating pool which is i want to say like 22 23 to uh 35 yeah i think

07:13:34.200 then okay the guy's status his career his money plays a bigger factor but like me to give you my

07:13:40.360 own perspective and maybe you think well brian that's just you other men are different maybe you

07:13:46.040 can ask your male well i don't know a lot of male friends just lie about this shit but

07:13:49.240 i will date a girl who works at chick-fil-a

07:13:55.960 i probably make i i probably 3x what she makes in a year i make it in the month

07:14:04.840 i don't care don't care um

07:14:10.520 it's not a consideration i'll date a girl who works at chick-fil-a i'll date a girl who doesn't

07:14:15.640 have a job she's in college whatever doesn't don't care i'll date it doesn't matter is she a

07:14:21.800 good person do i like her shared values is she attractive money don't care it'd be nice if she's

07:14:29.960 not like has a hundred k of debt which becomes a liability for me but even then that's not even

07:14:37.160 necessarily a deal breaker if she's the perfect woman and she has a hundred k of debt i'm taking

07:14:42.520 i'm excellent that's she's the perfect one so i have to pay a hundred thousand dollars for the

07:14:48.840 perfect woman instant okay instantly instantly i do it feel like you'd buy a woman bro like you

07:14:57.720 just want her to bow to just flat out bring the sex robot now bring the ai girlfriend robot let's

07:15:06.120 fucking do it um no i think uh i mean i'm joking a bit there obviously like there's

07:15:12.920 there's a humanity that's important i was about to say you have two of them over there but

07:15:17.880 you know utilizing them well they're not robots you know they're just lifeless okay

07:15:26.760 i was gonna make a joke but never mind um yeah and i'm scared i'm scared about the ai robots or

07:15:33.320 no whatever joke you want it wasn't gonna be that bad um okay i think we're pretty much done

07:15:40.760 with the questionnaire we have some a few more pre-show notes we got to get to the video yeah

07:15:45.240 we'll do lauren needs a bit of attention so we're going to give her a bit of attention infusion

07:15:51.240 attention lauren scoot into the table and lauren okay play

07:15:59.240 roles you guys are dating in order to end up being with a guy who won't pay the bill but let me

07:16:07.000 tell you guys what i do in order to make sure that i only hang out with guys that will absolutely pay

07:16:12.520 the bill and pay for the sitter because i also ask like i'll talk to them for a little bit but it's

07:16:16.920 like hey if you want to go out with me and you want me to go out in the town and like at all like

07:16:21.880 you have to pay for the sitter because if they don't want to pay for the sitter then i don't even want

07:16:24.440 to leave my house anyway and what if i pay to go on this date and they suck and then i just lose

07:16:29.960 money to hang out with a guy like it just doesn't make sense i never want to spend any of my money in

07:16:35.160 order to hang out with a guy and a true man who like values you and the connection and what energy

07:16:41.000 it takes for women in the dating process will absolutely pay for the sitter so all the guys

07:16:44.360 that i date pay for the sitter and automatically once we get that conversation out of the way well then

07:16:48.760 i already know that i'm only messing around with people that already value me as a mother value my

07:16:53.720 time as a woman and who are in that providing energy and if they're not in that providing energy

07:16:58.200 then i can't waste my time and my energy getting to know them because i have limited time as it is

07:17:03.640 as being a mother and i need someone who not only respects me as a mother but respects that i have a

07:17:08.040 child and for me personally just because i don't co-parent whoever comes into my life next is

07:17:13.800 essentially going to be my son's father and so um i'm not going to date a guy who is going to

07:17:18.840 see my son as a stepson and push him aside and only care about me like he needs to care about me

07:17:24.200 and my son just as equally because he is the extension of myself he is my entire world so i'm

07:17:31.400 not going to ever be with someone who cannot see that and love that about me and who respects that and

07:17:38.600 that's how i stay away from dusty crusty men and if you don't have a kid you don't want to be with

07:17:42.920 dusty crusty men well here's the thing here's some like little um easter eggs in the beginning

07:17:47.400 process how you would know if he was a good guy or a bad guy and a guy who's gonna waste your time

07:17:51.560 or guys who can pay for the dinner and respects you as a woman usually high quality men all right we

07:17:57.640 get the idea guys we're gonna lower the tts as we kind of uh wind down the show here pretty soon

07:18:03.000 69 tts if you want to get the final message in or you want to get a roast in you want to roast me

07:18:07.800 you want to call me a fatty you want to make a comment about saudi arabia you want to latrice

07:18:12.120 is pretty cool i don't know um blue eyes over there um something about trans people something

07:18:17.400 about um you want to i don't know you the the her um i'm i'm okay you want to do you want to you

07:18:30.200 want to roast somebody 69 tts can you make it six seven uh next time you come on the podcast i promise

07:18:36.920 you i'll make it six seven thank you promise uh pinky promise here it'll be six seven but

07:18:43.480 but with conditions you have to hit one bow and you have to reveal your body count w

07:18:54.840 guys guys is it funny enough for me to do it i think it's funny enough i definitely think it's

07:19:00.520 funny enough is it worth it i i get your viewers two dollars off to i think that's fair i think that's

07:19:05.800 a fair trade-off all right 69 tts guys if you want to get in 69 tts uh okay i had a question for you

07:19:13.400 your uh ex or whatever does he pay you child support i don't want to speak on my son's father

07:19:20.040 well i mean you don't yeah no no i just think it's for my son you know so i don't want to go there

07:19:25.720 i won't ask you any other questions but so i i won't probe further but to be clear even just that

07:19:35.160 question don't want to answer that's fine that's totally fine if you don't want to answer that i

07:19:40.840 think about when my son gets older and he sees like anything that i do i just want to respect

07:19:45.560 his okay i mean with his i don't totally fully understand but i mean she's not going to answer

07:19:55.560 next question oh hey relax i'm i'm not going to press it too much but it seems like a pretty

07:20:01.400 i don't fully understand seems like a pretty benign thinking about the child like no but i'm not asking

07:20:05.720 her to like talk shit about her what if it's not the dad doesn't provide yeah yeah and that could be

07:20:11.080 something that the kid like doesn't like or makes them not like the father like she's thinking about

07:20:15.720 if her kid finds the video later on not about it's not about talking question why do you need to know

07:20:22.280 this information anyways it's it's not within it's within the purview it's within all on child support

07:20:28.120 is definitely within the purview of a dating podcast sure um wait question though um on your

07:20:35.480 social media so you do post about an abusive ex yes is that the same person who's the father of

07:20:42.840 your children i'm not gonna but hold on i'm confused you make tiktok videos no wait wait hold on you make

07:20:49.080 look look i think this is fair okay no it is you make tiktok videos talking about a abusive ex i'm not

07:20:55.640 asking you to talk about the abuse i'm not asking you to say anything negative about them i'm just

07:21:01.000 asking a pretty basic i guess biographical question yeah if you're comfortable saying

07:21:06.360 that your ex was abusive uh-huh i think you revealing if he does or doesn't pay child support

07:21:12.440 i can't see how that would amount to allegation like comparatively how that could be

07:21:19.640 okay i'm fine calling my ex an abuser but i refuse to disclose the child support i have more than one ex

07:21:25.800 ex but no the the the you have one child though but she has multiple exes she's only talking about

07:21:33.560 a x like you just said that doesn't she never says the child of the father of her child yeah

07:21:39.000 wait what she never said no i asked her i asked her she makes videos online so it's not like i'm this

07:21:45.640 i'm not you know this is private information on your tiktok you talk about having an abusive ex

07:21:52.040 being an abusive relationship that's terrible i'm sorry that happened yeah but i guess my confusion

07:21:58.200 is well i didn't i ask if so you have the father of your kid that's the one who you talk about who's

07:22:05.480 abusive am i correct so i don't want to say anything that could hurt my son one day you have i don't want to

07:22:17.160 i can be open on my social media and i feel like i've made some mistakes in the past with

07:22:24.120 how um like certain topics that i brought up but i would like to keep that part but okay i understand

07:22:32.520 my confusion though is i'm asking about child support on your tiktok you have videos i believe

07:22:42.520 i mean you're i you're kind of refusing to acknowledge whether the the the dad is the one

07:22:48.840 that you're talking about who's abusive um my understanding is it is the case that that's the

07:22:55.480 one who you claim and like i don't memorize all your videos but i'm pretty sure the abusive ex

07:23:00.760 is the father maybe i don't know why you're being coy it's like you like she explained why she's

07:23:08.040 being she has tiktok i don't understand okay so if you care so much go find her tiktok's where she

07:23:13.080 talks about it like it's really she doesn't want to talk about it right here no guys i would prefer

07:23:17.400 this is my son we're talking about so can we take a moment and put a pen in this conversation and talk

07:23:23.560 about something else she works to heal trauma it's not talk about her personal information she just

07:23:27.800 doesn't want to next but i think if hold on and also this isn't my podcast so like i can't and

07:23:32.760 it's my it's my instagram so i can edit certain things and i just don't want to get into this

07:23:37.880 topic that could possibly hurt my son okay but look the reason i'm kind of pushing back on this the

07:23:43.480 whole night you've been like a bit evasive and not you've participated in some things but you've

07:23:48.360 also been like no i don't want to talk about i know i don't know i know i know i know i did to a

07:23:53.800 degree but there were some things you didn't want to weigh in on and if if i was just like

07:23:59.320 blindsiding you and like you you didn't have a tiktok you didn't have a public you have hundreds

07:24:05.160 of thousands of followers i believe a hundred thousand followers on take a hundred k on tiktok

07:24:09.880 or something you have tiktoks talking about this i i don't want to get into the abuse i don't want to

07:24:15.800 get i don't even want to get anywhere near there i don't want to touch that i'm just asking if the

07:24:20.840 if the guy pays you child support that's it that's it i don't think that's crazy it's not crazy but

07:24:27.560 she's also not crazy for not wanting to talk about it so that's but how about like okay here's here's

07:24:31.640 how i'm viewing it here's how i'm viewing it um let's say i had a video online where i was

07:24:41.160 i don't know i was saying oh um man this one time uh you know i was i had really bad food poisoning

07:24:50.760 and i was barfing and and i you know and uh you have to look up legally like am i i don't even know

07:24:57.080 if i'm illegally allowed to speak on that like see i don't want to get into a legal case so this is why

07:25:02.200 i'm saying out of protection okay but just to finish my point um i had this video where i was like oh my

07:25:07.240 god i had food poisoning and blah i got into details and then somebody asked me oh brian do you like

07:25:12.760 pepperoni on your pizza and i was like i'm not comfortable i feel like the question of i i'm

07:25:20.200 failing to see parse how asking if someone's being paid child support i don't know like that scene

07:25:28.760 that's where you draw the line but you have videos of you talking about your abusive ex but i just asked

07:25:33.400 about child support anyway whatever i'm not going to push it but i'm just trying to explain myself

07:25:38.040 your hypothetical isn't hypotheticaling it's not your what it's not your hypothetical is just not

07:25:43.240 it makes it's it's not lining up it's clocking it's not parallel it's not comparable in my it is

07:25:49.400 he does make sense to be honest i mean think about it this way like my mom didn't want to tell me about

07:25:53.880 the child support i'll make it hold on really quick i'll make it super simple you say the hypothetical

07:25:57.880 isn't parsing yeah i think if you're willing to be so oh how about this i think it's weird how about

07:26:04.600 this how about this how about this uh a woman who's a sex worker she has she's shown her

07:26:09.960 pussy she's she's body count no no no hold on she's shown her pussy she's shown her titties

07:26:16.120 she's shown her ass she's getting fucked on camera but then somebody's like oh um can you show me your

07:26:21.880 elbow oh my god how dare you want to see my elbow it's like you've already so what whatever

07:26:30.440 finally fine does that make sense i don't know uh well i i guess you give different examples and

07:26:38.920 that's why it doesn't make sense but um to me the way i see and remember five minutes ago when she

07:26:44.680 asked if we could stop talking about this and we're still talking about this he doesn't give a

07:26:49.320 fuck exactly well hold on if you've been invited thinking about it from the kid's point of view like

07:26:54.760 if this kid finds this later on it's like that's what she's just trying to protect her from him from

07:27:00.120 like let's say like like literally that's just like a parent's point of view and remember when

07:27:05.320 she said stop talking about it what if yes what if the kid finds all her tick tock videos of her

07:27:10.120 saying she never says that that's your fault correct but and remember when she said stop talking about

07:27:18.920 child wouldn't know which x she's talking about and if she if he asked her and she refused to say

07:27:25.480 then he would just assume it's that one you see what i'm saying yeah he won't know that

07:27:34.040 so i look it's an interest i'm not gonna press if whatever it it's an interesting hill to die on

07:27:40.040 or whatever it's kind of ridiculous here we have a chat here

07:27:43.000 lululu donated 69 dollars six one has how to stay single forever energy unless she counts

07:27:51.960 situationships as legitimate relationships

07:27:57.160 okay uh lululu thank you for your message appreciate it uh all right we'll finish up was

07:28:03.400 there another react nick or did we do all the reacts all right

07:28:08.200 i'm not a girl i'm just kidding okay we're gonna go to this lauren lauren uh your ex stalked you is

07:28:25.320 that the older guy yes okay so he's he's stalking you yeah i i kind of thought about it and like i

07:28:33.000 feel like i shouldn't have brought that up because it is like an active thing that i'm going through

07:28:36.840 like for like legal reasons okay that's fine he doesn't follow me why does it seem like in

07:28:44.520 today's dating world men hate women and women hate men i don't know you should ask her yeah

07:28:48.760 why do you hate men i don't okay actually no longer white people sorry you hate white people my

07:28:54.760 uh let's see in uh you said in modern dating you feel like women want too much for men and men don't

07:29:00.920 know how to treat women relationships or partnerships you feel many people fail to see you know

07:29:06.600 i was thinking about this i think uh i think we teach boys and men how to treat women we teach

07:29:12.680 women how to expect to be treated however we do not teach girls and women how to treat men and we do

07:29:19.320 not teach men how to expect to be treated i think that's the case also treat men to like respect

07:29:27.080 themselves it's true uh sure yeah like when it comes to like your emotions like those are valid but

07:29:34.840 some men think it's not manly to cry it's not manly to show your emotions okay sure uh i just don't

07:29:44.440 think women are holding up their end of the deal it's like okay you want chivalry you want men to

07:29:49.080 pay for dates you want traditional treatment but you're a modern woman i don't know i think

07:29:57.240 traditional men should be with traditional women they should treat each other traditionally

07:30:00.600 i think women want to reject their traditional expectations and they want to maintain the

07:30:06.280 benefits of traditional treatment receptive traditional treatment from men

07:30:12.200 you want the benefits it's great oh wouldn't be wonderful you don't have to pay for dates that's great

07:30:17.000 but i'm a sex worker i'm a sex worker i'm a woman who's a sex worker men should still pay for dates i

07:30:23.080 fuck dudes on camera men should pay for dates that's outrageous why are you making the argument

07:30:27.800 when none of the people at the table are like i i get i get the point but yes i know none of you

07:30:33.560 none of you are sex workers okay how about this uh anybody here a virgin i'll use a super extreme

07:30:38.600 example is anybody a virgin okay you're not a virgin um so it's like okay i mean how far do we talk

07:30:48.680 about tradition but even if you're not like y'all okay you want a man to protect you want a man to

07:30:54.520 provide you want a man to be chivalrous he should be willing to die for you but if his name isn't cool

07:31:00.120 i don't want to take his last name in marriage i mean she got a point are you putting us all no

07:31:04.760 she doesn't have a point no no she does not have a point i don't care if the man has the worst name

07:31:09.480 ever if you want to move in a traditional way i don't care if his name is fucking dickwad you're

07:31:16.120 taking his last i don't care if his name is rumple dick skin you're taking his last name

07:31:21.880 i don't care if his name is i don't know fucking

07:31:27.960 dick sucker the third you're taking his last i don't know what's some dumb ass name

07:31:31.400 i don't even know why that's debatable for some women to sit there and want that you think that

07:31:36.920 no no no i said i'm who she she she was fighting me on this she says oh yeah that's fine if the last

07:31:42.200 name isn't cool the woman doesn't have to take the last name yeah you want to be you want to be a

07:31:46.520 wife you want to be married you want a guy to get down on one knee to you want a traditional man

07:31:52.040 yeah but if you want a traditional man you have to be willing to go to uphold those traditional

07:31:56.840 values as well that's the thing is that it a lot of women are asking for that miriam you circled

07:32:03.160 mention pound first dates mention provide protect okay you have to read my notes

07:32:07.640 if he wants to have babies great he does want to have babies you want to have babies too husband

07:32:13.000 should be willing to die protecting me i'm willing to and you write you circle i'm willing to die too

07:32:18.600 okay fine but men should pay on first dates is unique men should be chivalrous unique to the man

07:32:23.880 well hold on let me make the point let me make the point you also circle i will keep my last name

07:32:28.920 or hyphenated marriage so i'll explain that um so where where i came from it's it's like your your

07:32:35.960 family tree that's your name so like it's my name wait in saudi so in maybe somebody in the chat can

07:32:41.880 clarify in saudi arabia is it caught the woman keeps the last name in marriage yeah we never change

07:32:48.680 what about for the kids well the kids take the father's name that's what i'm saying for your kids

07:32:53.240 will they take your husband my father's name all the way to like that last for your kids

07:32:58.520 for your kids they will have the father's new man they'll take the father's name what about for you lauren

07:33:06.920 whoever's the coolest last name no for let's say you meet a new guy uh do your kids get the father's

07:33:13.000 name i mean i don't know you said is it whoever has the coolest name yeah why because i just think that

07:33:25.720 there's just like a cute thing to it like i think my last name is cute like i would love to like

07:33:30.200 continue that unless it's a cooler last name how about this let's say that the guy's last name

07:33:35.880 is cool then he yeah we'll take it you'll take it yeah but if it's and you get you're the final

07:33:42.920 arbiter of what's cool and what isn't so you can reserve the right at any time to change your mind

07:33:49.640 yeah i had the baby oh i guess continuing his bloodline is not what matters

07:33:55.080 i guess this you want a man to pay for not just pay for the date you want a man to pay for a

07:34:01.400 babysitter hundreds of dollars just to take you out on the date yes you and you won't take a guy's

07:34:08.600 last name that's crazy and you want to give it that's crazy you know it's interesting weren't you

07:34:14.200 saying how uh you do that you want the guy to pay for the babysitter because you want to see if he's

07:34:19.160 serious if he's intentional you won't take his last name you have no seriousness you have no intention

07:34:27.000 i mean honestly it just depends on what it means to him you let's well if he's a traditional guy yeah

07:34:32.840 that's typically pretty important and then that then we would have but it's a bad last name you said

07:34:37.880 hold on can i ask you a question you say it can be a conversation a discussion a negotiation yes how

07:34:44.040 would for you would you appreciate would you go for it if the guy wanted to have a conversation

07:34:53.320 about paying for the babysitter or paying for the first date hey let's have a we're on a date hey

07:34:59.320 let's have a we should have a convo let me let's negotiate this let's have a let's have a a disagreement

07:35:05.880 let's have a negotiation i don't think you would be okay with that i've had those conversations

07:35:12.040 so you're telling me you don't you want the guy to just acquiesce yeah of course he's paying for

07:35:17.560 the first date of course he's paying for the babysitter really you don't think it's a weird

07:35:22.200 like for example if a guy was like i want to negotiate with you i want to have a conversation

07:35:27.000 with you i want to discuss having to pay for the first date that's not going to fly for a woman like you

07:35:33.560 no didn't you have a girl on the podcast that had the same situation old girl with the tattoos

07:35:39.640 i remember something like that i find this hard to believe you were so

07:35:46.360 gung gung-ho on the man paying for the date i think it's because i've never had anyone this

07:35:52.280 like passionate about it but i mean if it meant something to him of course take the last name

07:35:57.000 yeah i'm sorry i can't go to the bathroom with you now but maybe later yeah it just depends on like

07:36:01.880 if it meant something to him like of course but okay that's what i'm saying i've just never really

07:36:08.840 had it means something that's traditional can i genuinely ask like what's the point of taking a

07:36:13.480 last name like it's different because i had tradition no what's what's the point is to keep

07:36:18.200 track of as far as children goes to continue his bloodline what the fuck does bloodline mean we're

07:36:23.080 like this is the 21st century like what uh bloodline like okay continue the family tree and not let it

07:36:28.440 end in filipino culture you take both last names so this argument literally means nothing to me we're in

07:36:32.920 the united states we're not in the philippines she lives in the united states you live in the united

07:36:37.160 states you're born in the united states okay and people do this even outside of culture like

07:36:41.160 literally i just don't understand what this means in the united states the traditional thing

07:36:45.880 is for the the the wife to take the husband's last name but like literally what's the point

07:36:50.280 i mean what's the point what's the point of anything exactly what's the point great we what are you a

07:36:55.400 fucking uh nihilist i named my son no i just like i just don't get my son after not my stepdad or his

07:37:02.760 dad i named him after my grandpa because i respected him that's that's totally fine so and that's and

07:37:08.280 that's how like that's wait after your yeah you named your son wait wait yeah yeah your son after your

07:37:16.760 grandpa my grandpa how does that benefit the man it what do you mean every do you know what solipsism

07:37:23.320 is solipsism is the idea you think you're the son you think or i guess you think you're what depends

07:37:29.560 how you're you think things revolve around you me me you you is me me me me me me me me okay you don't

07:37:39.240 consider the other person i mean i just considered my son about how he'd feel i've also considered and i

07:37:45.640 said hey if i had a man and it meant something to him then i would so i feel like that argument

07:37:50.120 actually doesn't work i think if the man is asking you it means something to him he's not going to ask

07:37:55.080 if it doesn't mean anything no i think he would tell me like why does that have to be a conversation

07:38:00.520 why isn't it just a given if if you're getting married some people don't care that's that's what

07:38:06.280 i'm saying but it's like how can you be how can you say so yeah not only should the man pay on the

07:38:12.040 first date he's got to spend hundreds how much is a babysitter for a few hours pretty expensive

07:38:16.680 how much is a baby maybe for like a night out maybe about it depends on how long we're gone like

07:38:22.680 60 to 150 okay so 100 let's say it's 150 yeah not only does he got to take and i'm assuming you

07:38:28.840 you're not going to be satisfied with chilis or mcdonald's like you'd like a decent place for the

07:38:34.200 first day something sweet but this then after that then it doesn't matter okay so this guy's looking at

07:38:39.720 spending 300 that's a lot that's and then yeah you won't take the plus gas you won't take the you

07:38:48.120 won't take the last name i actually didn't say that you're trying to make me say something that i

07:38:53.000 didn't even say you did say it you're gaslighting me right she didn't say she never would she said

07:38:59.720 it would only have to be if the name is cute and his last name okay if he has a really bad last name

07:39:06.520 because i could swear i swear to god i'm pretty sure the guy that had to do the duty last name

07:39:11.800 i think he's the one who probably was like it doesn't matter you know that's him exactly so

07:39:18.120 i'm talking about my experiences and this is a dating podcast and i'm talking about my sure but

07:39:21.880 what i'm saying is if you do i guess he was fine with it but it's conceivable that you have your own

07:39:30.200 viewpoint on it and the the viewpoint that you articulated was oh you know regardless of you

07:39:36.520 being able to find a guy who's like yeah whatever i don't care about the last name it can be yours it

07:39:40.280 can be mine we can invent a new one who fucking cares yeah you can find that however your position

07:39:47.320 your position is if it's not a cool name i think i'd keep mine if it's not a cool name i don't want

07:39:53.800 the kids to have his name uh in a situation though where you do meet a guy and he comes across like

07:40:02.360 a traditional guy and maybe you haven't had the conversation yet but maybe you get the impression

07:40:07.080 based off of how traditional he is he's like look you almost assume that this guy wants you to take his

07:40:14.760 last name you assume that if you have kids with him you uh he's gonna want you to take the last name

07:40:19.720 why does it have to be a discussion then like when you say discussion can i let i guess we can uh

07:40:29.400 hypothetical it you guys are been dating for six months you guys start talking hey maybe we can

07:40:35.880 you know this could this could go the distance i'd love to how many more kids do you want to have

07:40:40.040 oh i want to have this many kids um hey yeah so i want uh i want the kids to have my last name

07:40:46.360 is that is there a discussion beyond that i think there i no no not after you have the discussion but

07:40:53.880 the reason that i also think it is a discussion is because i've also had friends that i grew up with

07:40:59.080 and they didn't take their husband's last name so for me this happens this is like what i've also

07:41:04.120 seen so i've seen it not being as big of a deal i don't understand because something happens in another

07:41:09.400 relationship if you okay but do you agree that the traditional thing is for the woman to take the last

07:41:14.920 name and for the kids to have the last name of the husband yes but i've seen relationships on all

07:41:20.600 sides well yeah but you've probably heard of relationships where the dude gets pegged like

07:41:27.480 that exists that exists so i don't think that that's a that's super compelling and then you have

07:41:31.720 discussions i i asked you guys that on a date okay but can we role play it really because all of that

07:41:36.840 matters can we role play really quick so okay um i'm a traditional guy i want the kids to have my

07:41:45.480 last name okay wait that's the discussion that's the discussion so you just acquiesce yes now i know

07:41:52.840 that means something to you well when you say discussion i would oh my god i guess i don't know

07:41:57.000 i was assuming like no let's have prolonged conversations and but if it's but that meant

07:42:02.600 something that's fine it just sounded like you were basically just asking permission like like

07:42:07.000 you were asking him for him to ask for your permission for his kids relax you guys no it just doesn't

07:42:14.120 seem you're not yourself get her a snickers bar it just doesn't it doesn't seem right though

07:42:20.840 hold on just one sec we got chats coming through donated 69 dollars uh-oh they're coming

07:42:25.640 one you're single not finding the man you want cause you're the problem and god is just protecting others

07:42:31.000 from you all defensive about your son but yet you put him all over your social media smh actually i

07:42:37.720 don't put my son's face on my social media but i kind of wanted to touch on that part for a second

07:42:43.560 because you know women are asking for this out of men to be traditional yet you know like i said before

07:42:51.000 earlier they're not upholding those traditional values and then the thing is about when it comes down

07:42:56.040 to marriage it the whole point of having the last name of your husband is to honor him

07:43:01.240 it's not necessarily just oh i'm taking a last name whether or not it's nice or it sounds cute or

07:43:06.040 it sounds cool it's the it's about the fact that you're honoring him we're still talking about last

07:43:11.080 yeah and then you guys i do have to move it off

07:43:13.800 it's related 69 dollars chair one how you gonna make tiktoks but then don't want to talk about it

07:43:21.480 else sisterhood y'all are all soft and weak as hell you let him hit it raw didn't have second

07:43:28.280 thoughts now you a single mom what the heck okay nick i sent you a uh text

07:43:35.320 uh these nuts thank you for the tts lululu thank you for the tts lulu donated 69 dollars

07:43:41.800 share one no offense but you never had a conversation about last names with a guy

07:43:46.520 course nobody ever intended to lock you down you got the looks but your personality is vapid come down

07:43:53.480 to earth there's a compliment there i've been engaged chivalry used to go final thing on this

07:44:01.960 chivalry used to go hand in hand with the idea of a woman being a lady it was a mutual reciprocal

07:44:11.160 not quite symmetrical but at least it was mutual and reciprocal the man had his roles the woman had

07:44:16.760 her roles women have forsaken and completely abandoned any duty any responsibility any variance

07:44:24.920 or even interpretation of a traditional gender role but if you were nine you you basically act as if

07:44:33.480 you're 1950s bachelorettes it's 1950 for the man and it's 2025 20 coming into 2026 for you

07:44:44.440 so for you you're a modern woman for the man tradition that's a raw deal for men raw deal for men

07:44:52.920 uh let's see here uh i'm trying to think if but what about those women who are like slightly

07:44:58.440 traditional yes of course there are there are definitely traditional women out there and by the

07:45:03.960 way there's also men who are definitely not traditional but it seems like women even if

07:45:11.720 they're super modern super feminist super super egalitarian still seem to desire because they can get

07:45:18.040 it still seem to desire those traditional things because they're beneficial of course it's it's

07:45:24.520 optimal to not have to pay for the meal you get to save your money somebody else pays for you that's

07:45:29.480 a privilege that's a benefit but what duties do women have

07:45:36.840 do women well do they do women have any responsibilities or duties i think so

07:45:42.040 well let me ask you this um this came up last show men will get women flowers has anybody here

07:45:50.280 ever received flowers from a man yeah yes i hit flowers what is the female equivalent of that i get

07:45:56.920 the head yeah did you say head what did you say i would i agree with that bj but the guy could give

07:46:03.880 you oral sex so no but i would most definitely get my man flowers like i would most definitely open the

07:46:09.160 door for my man like i'm a i'm a i'm a clean i'm a cook but i also expect you to do the same thing

07:46:14.920 i don't think a bj is the equivalent of flowers she's one person she's not everyone okay i just

07:46:22.440 asked whoever i'm dating what is i was just gonna say like when it comes to like men paying on the

07:46:27.960 first date and stuff and like being chauvinist i feel like when you're asking the question like

07:46:32.360 what does a woman do or whatever i feel like because a lot of that has to do with like

07:46:36.760 the further you go in a relationship and like marriage like once you get married and move in

07:46:43.000 together then it's the woman's job to like cook and clean and take care of the house and um raise

07:46:47.800 the kids and stuff like that but i i feel like if you're talking about traditional gender roles then

07:46:52.680 like while you're dating like then i feel like it's easy to say then yeah woman's job is just to be

07:46:57.880 like look pretty and like let the guy treat her so prior to the marriage she doesn't have to do anything

07:47:04.280 i'm not saying i'm not saying that like that's what i think but i'm just saying i feel like that's

07:47:08.360 how some women and maybe men like look at it no i think there's i mean that bow video that we played

07:47:16.360 you be submissive and you can be submissive very early on in a first date that one for you

07:47:23.640 well you can it's not even the bow it's just a general submissiveness you acquiesce to his leadership

07:47:30.280 you fought he leads you follow what if i want to lead and you follow i'm gonna come home from my

07:47:37.400 job i'm gonna be the one paying for the house but i want you to come back i want my dishes clean

07:47:43.560 i want my clothes washed like she's she's she's just upset i haven't seen her talk yet but so

07:47:52.200 um camilla we're getting into uh camilla's notes here uh okay we we did your videos you think red

07:48:00.040 pill men are sabotaging themselves in the dating world and they're i was kidding i actually feel

07:48:05.160 like red pill men are so hot what is it after she came on this podcast everything changed i guess

07:48:09.960 yeah after seeing you um all right uh deadly p uh you said men being okay with staying in the friend

07:48:18.600 zone but still buying you things bruh that's a yikes you're telling me that you have guys in the

07:48:26.280 friend zone who buy you shit well it's more like we're in the friend zone and you want to hang out

07:48:33.560 but i'm not going to go do the thing that you want to do because it costs money and i'm a college student

07:48:37.720 but if you're down to pay for that that's fine like as long as you pay for what you want to do

07:48:42.520 okay it's not like you're buying me objects like because i'm totally fine with like going and hanging

07:48:47.640 out without spending money but most of my friends and all these other people want to go spend all this

07:48:53.000 money which i'm not down to spend but you want me there and you're begging for me to be there so if

07:48:58.920 you really want me there you can pay for it because i'm down to do something else and still be in your

07:49:04.840 presence wouldn't i have to apply to all your other friends it does oh so like if i'm the one who is

07:49:13.240 asking you to do something but you don't want to pay for it sure like if i'm begging to be for you to be

07:49:18.920 there i'm gonna pay for it but if it's the other way around you gotta pay for it or we can do

07:49:23.560 something else i mean i guess it makes sense i only do that with my friends if i invite them somewhere

07:49:28.680 out of pocket but if it's a guy that i friend zone i don't even talk to them

07:49:35.800 so you did not friends wait also you said you would punch him in the face oh you wrote in your

07:49:41.160 notes for the this guy you're talking platonically after saying you'd punch him in the face

07:49:45.560 that's the question okay it was men being okay with staying in the friend zone but still buying

07:49:53.240 you things and taking you to do and paying for what the you want to do want platonically after

07:49:59.800 saying you'd punch him in the face that's your notes oh yeah people a lot of the men who been

07:50:07.240 friend zone really harassed me about it like they want sex and all this other stuff and i'm like bro

07:50:13.240 i i will punch you in the face if you keep continuing to do this but then they want to go

07:50:17.880 what continue to beg me for sex continue to slide into my dms and tell me hey i want to jerk off to

07:50:23.960 you okay well that's weird these guys in the friend zone though i mean this idea that i think men and

07:50:30.200 women can be friends but friend zone implies that initially he had a romantic or sexual interest in

07:50:38.120 you i don't think you can be friends with somebody really if it started off with him wanting to

07:50:45.080 fuck you yeah like i i mean logically it's possible but practically yeah you friend zone first off if a

07:50:53.800 girlfriend zones you all right next next but i don't know you friends on i mean if you're harassing me

07:51:05.480 about it eventually i might say yes like some people that's crazy don't say that that's completely

07:51:10.520 different when there was when that was not initiated if there was no any sort of all right i'm going to

07:51:16.520 the bathroom if it wasn't if actually oh my god you guys if there wasn't any she's running she's running

07:51:27.080 i was saying if there was like it would it would have been different if you weren't romantically

07:51:30.680 involved in that person at all and it was just strictly platonic then yeah that would make more

07:51:35.560 sense on your end but it's like if if that person was trying to get romantically involved and you just

07:51:40.280 told them you know what this is not going to work out i think we just we should just stay friends and

07:51:46.360 then that continues on i'm not really sure where that's going with that one i'm not really sure if

07:51:51.400 that it doesn't really make too much sense to me then again i also the the whole dating scene the

07:51:58.440 way that you guys are struggling out there it's i'm not gonna lie it's a big ghetto it is it is i

07:52:05.720 don't know how you guys are managing it's even struggling with the girls because they'd be saying

07:52:09.560 they lesbian and hopping on the dick the next day oh wow i just i just don't know how that works out

07:52:15.560 for you guys i'm so sorry that's all i can say like i to hear the amount of first dates and all of this

07:52:24.040 i i don't know how that works well then again i've never done online dating i've never i've never

07:52:30.760 been on a first date with someone i have no idea about that's one thing i could say i've never

07:52:36.120 experienced that so when for me when i when i was uh getting slowly romantically involved with a guy

07:52:41.880 i wanted to get to know him first had some conversations talk actually made time with that

07:52:47.960 person to get to know them on a personal level then i then proceeded to the first date i never really

07:52:53.720 did the whole like first date first date buy me steak dinners i mean like i get to know them and

07:52:58.520 everything and it's just like it's chill until it's not because a lot of men be like oh you're in which

07:53:04.920 by the way i have i am fully clothed on my instagram i'm not super sexual but yeah those men be like oh

07:53:12.280 you're presenting yourself in this way so i deserve sex there are so many men that tell me oh we went on

07:53:18.920 this first date now i am expecting sex and it's just crazy because it's like well we just spent

07:53:23.400 weeks getting to know each other and now you're telling me i owe you sex yeah and obviously that

07:53:27.800 guy was just no good it happens so much and people say that my prettiness is the excuse for their

07:53:33.960 behavior yeah and it makes it so much harder for me because i want to just get to know you i want to

07:53:39.240 have an actual relationship yeah i'm not down to just have sex on the first date and then they're like

07:53:44.120 but i just bought you food yeah and it's just like that's the problem that we're seeing on both

07:53:49.240 ends though if you really want to look at it from both ends not just from one side because not we see

07:53:53.560 that we see that women are going through the situation with where men are expecting something

07:53:58.760 to come out of that date that they're having and then you have and then you also have i'm kidding

07:54:03.880 i'm messing around we're just sorry we're just i was saying uh i was saying that you know when it comes

07:54:09.720 down to the negatives and dating and stuff where women are sitting here dealing with men that are

07:54:14.520 expecting sex out of out of their first dates or just because they bought them a steak dinner but

07:54:18.920 then you also have women that are sitting there they utilize men as a free meal as well so it's like

07:54:24.280 i mean that's the problem i mean like it is a problem but like i'm not part of that problem

07:54:28.360 i'm not using it for a free meal i'm here to make an actual relationship just shifting gears to move

07:54:33.320 things on a little bit you said no standards are too high sorry what's this girl doing what's she

07:54:41.480 doing sorry all right uh no standards are too high so if like a morbidly obese woman is like my standard

07:54:48.840 is i want to date brad pitt you think it's a bit too high young brad pitt like in the 90s oh like a

07:54:56.680 morbidly obese i've seen a morbidly more more i can't see that morbidly yeah it's fine yeah obese

07:55:03.640 woman with more than over 10 type men i'm like damn i want that but like i think honestly they're

07:55:10.440 just being fetishized yeah that's what it is okay and if they found their niche and it makes them

07:55:15.640 happy can i ask you a question are no standards no standards are too high for women for both for men

07:55:25.960 too yeah like you have standards i want to know your standards so if my standard is um

07:55:33.240 i make no quant like i think i'm a average like at best average guy at best average but i get

07:55:39.080 obviously i get myself a 4.5 so that's a bit below average you even think i'm lower than that you think

07:55:44.520 i'm lower than that not upset by that whatsoever do you think there are no standards are too high for

07:55:51.080 me no so if i'm holding out if i don't want to deal with an average chick and i want to

07:55:57.880 a 10 out of 10 20 year old supermodel am i being realistic

07:56:05.400 i mean you're going to bout to you is that realistic 100 okay there's a there's many

07:56:12.360 many 20 year olds who would do that every girl i've dated in the past i don't know three years

07:56:17.640 or whatever two years i don't know when i start the bow video two years ago i don't know they all do

07:56:21.880 it you think you think if a girl likes a guy can you invite me to your wedding please sure you can be

07:56:27.880 there you can be my maid of honor can we be the flower girls yes uh sure but you have to take the

07:56:36.120 septum piercing out i will you you think if a girl if a girl really likes a guy she'll i don't

07:56:45.000 know if i want to be graphic here you think a girl who really likes a guy the the bow is going to be

07:56:52.600 the what's the term for it no she can but you're all talking about these expectations like she has to

07:56:58.120 be a model and like i feel like there's more models than people that will bow to you in my

07:57:01.800 opinion and when i'm talking about standards i'm talking about there's quite a few models

07:57:06.520 there's a lot of agencies out there she's a model hold on you think it's more likely i get with a

07:57:13.160 10 out of 10 supermodel than find a woman who's willing to bow i don't know what you consider 10 out

07:57:19.000 of 10 but i do think you could get with an attractive woman for sure 100 what does attractive

07:57:23.960 mean a girl you like i don't know your type attractive not everybody's gonna see what you see

07:57:29.400 as a submissive girl i can get the bow way easier than a 10 out of 10 supermodel how about here we

07:57:35.800 can she's a virgin too let's add that on top no standard no standards are too high but when i'm

07:57:41.720 talking about standards i'm not talking about the biggest labia ever i'm not talking no standards are

07:57:47.480 too high can i finish what i'm saying go ahead go ahead when i'm talking about standards i'm talking

07:57:53.000 about what people like are expecting like you expect to go on first date and a man might expect

07:57:59.160 you to do that too like i'm talking about actions what do you expect what are your standards uh

07:58:07.000 i'm not talking about looks i'm not talking about standards over preferences

07:58:12.120 you can have standards related to looks okay but that's not what i'm talking about like when i'm

07:58:17.400 saying no standards are too high that's what i'm talking about okay can a woman have a height

07:58:22.360 standard like can a woman say i'll only date a guy who's six foot six is that a standard yeah

07:58:31.080 okay so i would think if regardless of how tall or short or whatever the woman is i would tell a woman

07:58:41.800 i mean look if you're a really really beautiful woman yeah maybe you could get a guy who's six six

07:58:46.520 it's a really small proportion of men who are that tall it's less than one percent so i'm i would

07:58:51.560 tell her like look that's kind of unrealistic i think that's a bit let's say it's an average chick

07:58:58.360 then i'm like okay yeah maybe you can find it yeah unlikely though you've shrunk your dating pool

07:59:08.040 to less than one percent

07:59:09.240 so i don't understand though if women can have height standards why can't i have like

07:59:15.160 she's hot standards she's beautiful standards

07:59:20.760 you just get caught up you girls can have any standards they want i mean i already said like

07:59:28.120 you could that i already said like i answered all your questions when you said that and i was like yeah

07:59:32.600 like you could have that standard and that's not too high if you're looking for a girl that's 10 out

07:59:36.920 of 10 like that's your preference uh latrice you interestingly enough leads right into this

07:59:43.480 women and their outlandish expectations on men you wanted to talk on that um yeah because i think that's

07:59:50.280 the problem and that's why it's a lot harder for that's why i'm actually seeing a lot more women that

07:59:55.560 have been single um is because of the expectations that they have upon men you know again we we've already

08:00:03.560 went over this earlier that we were talking about how you know men are expected to be the providers

08:00:08.280 the protectors to be able to have make certain financial expectations within uh the woman's standards

08:00:15.000 also xyz whatever but then when it comes down to women what exactly do they have to offer that

08:00:22.520 what do they have to offer in order to meet that meet those qualifiers that they have

08:00:27.080 and those expectations that they have upon men what can you offer is the question your man

08:00:33.080 provides for you and you offer health skills and you you help around the house yes there's women

08:00:37.080 that won't offer that at all okay yeah and i feel like you should offer more than just that like go to

08:00:42.360 work why why do i want to work for a white why do i want to work for a man who's not going to give a

08:00:47.720 shit about me while i get to be at home for a man that does care for me and provides for me

08:00:55.640 because you're getting money and you're also helping provide for the family i'm definitely getting

08:01:00.200 money i don't have a problem i'm i'm i'm getting money with a joint account too i i'm actually i'm

08:01:07.880 actually in charge of my of the finances in the household he does not have control of money i do

08:01:15.640 i gotta move it on i'm gonna move it on um going to lauren there's a few more notes for you

08:01:21.800 uh you write you don't split bills you don't pay for sitters to go on dates the man pays you

08:01:27.000 expect men to lead financially and show effort and what's interesting is that even with those

08:01:31.480 standards you've dated men who are fully aligned with that this is the simp epidemic i think so

08:01:39.720 the simp epidemic where men will like for example a woman could be like a prostitute and she'll still

08:01:46.840 find a guy to like who's willing to she'll find a sucker she'll find a guy who's willing to pay for

08:01:52.840 dates and stuff i think if you're i'm not calling you a prostitute but like there are we've had

08:01:57.800 actual literal prostitutes on the show and they're like i don't think there's anything further from

08:02:03.560 being traditional than being a prostitute chivalry should be completely out the door i'm not saying

08:02:08.600 she should be mistreated but if you want chivalry you got to be a lady and trust me prostitutes are not

08:02:14.360 ladies they're not they're women but they're not ladies and so i think there's this this dynamic going on

08:02:21.960 here where i agree with you like even if you're a totally modern woman even if you're a stated

08:02:28.040 feminist you can still find men because men are just that motivated and men maybe maybe they're

08:02:34.280 too horny maybe they're too whatever maybe they don't have enough options because women when it

08:02:38.840 comes to dating y'all move in abundance women move in abundance y'all don't there's no shortage of men

08:02:44.840 who want to sleep with you there's no shortage of men who want to be with you uh whether you you

08:02:50.680 find them attractive or not that's another story whereas a lot of men the experience of most men

08:02:57.080 most men live lives of quiet desperation most men don't have like 10 uh 10 women in the friend zone

08:03:06.600 who would readily fuck him most men don't have 10 women in the friend zone who are like dying to be

08:03:12.680 in a relationship with him the same way that women have women y'all always have a man in the pocket

08:03:18.040 you might not like the guy but there's a guy who's like would absolutely be a total

08:03:22.440 fucking simp you could run that relationship and he'll be a simp he'll pay for dates he'll he'll simp

08:03:28.200 for you he'll give you money just to have access to you romantically and or sexually you keep men in

08:03:35.000 the pocket the friend zone and so y'all come from abundance but a lot of dudes average like an average

08:03:42.760 girl she has a lot of sexual options like an average chick you move through the world with

08:03:51.080 the sexual optionality of a rock star as a man for us to have the same level of sexual access

08:03:58.120 you could have now i realize a lot of you don't want i totally get you guys don't want to just

08:04:03.000 fuck anybody but it's so easy for men what do you mean well hold on let me finish my point before

08:04:10.120 we get into that you move through the world as if like in terms of the men that are just like

08:04:16.040 want some dick want some dick want some dick y'all are rock stars in that sense for a man to have

08:04:21.800 women coming at them like that you gotta be you're a one percent man you're you're either top top tier

08:04:29.160 looks like you to to get that level of sexual attention from women you gotta be a not you gotta

08:04:36.200 be a chad you gotta be a nine out of ten to get that kind of sexual attention from women an average

08:04:43.160 woman a below average woman is getting bombarded with dick proposals want some dick no you want some

08:04:50.840 dick want some dick y'all y'all you just get on a dating app you'll have 10 dudes ready tonight to sleep

08:04:57.320 with you an average guy goes on a dating app an average guy goes to the bar no girls are going to

08:05:02.360 go talk to him no girls are sliding into an average dude's dms no chicks excuse me sir want some pussy

08:05:08.760 no it's not happening it's not happening so y'all move through with abundance a lot most men they don't

08:05:15.880 have abundance mindset so when they do find a girl they're gonna shit they'll do a lot of they'll do

08:05:22.120 some desperate shit and that's where simping comes in so even if the woman isn't meeting a standard

08:05:29.240 a lot of men whatever i'll do what it takes to get her i'll do what it takes to get pussy i'll do what

08:05:35.080 it takes to get a relationship and that's not criticism of women that's a criticism of men correct

08:05:42.200 because these men out here be fucking shit up they're fucking men are fucking shit up too in a lot of

08:05:48.280 ways a lot of people say brian you only criticize women these simps out here be fucking shit up

08:05:54.120 because y'all are used to a certain y'all y'all ain't doing it y'all ain't holding up your end of

08:05:59.640 the deal as women since dating is like hard and unjust for men do you expect women to owe you something

08:06:06.520 how did you cut how did you draw that from what i just said because you're talking about how hard

08:06:10.280 and unjust it is and then you're like hold on i'm not saying men look i'm not saying it's unjust

08:06:17.640 i'm speaking descriptively i'm saying this is what is it is true whether you like it or not whether

08:06:24.840 it is true that an average woman she can be bombarded with sexual options an average man

08:06:34.440 like honestly you put you put most women into a man's body they're incels you put most women into

08:06:41.400 a man's body you a lot of the a lot of women think oh uh if i was a man i'd be running through chicks

08:06:48.280 i'd have no you women don't have game like that like you think if you were a dude oh i if i was a dude

08:06:54.280 i would know exactly what no you would y'all be simps too y'all would be simps so i think the issue is

08:07:01.720 that sorry um well men men are not selective and they're not shooting towards like their league

08:07:11.000 you know so like they they just like if they see 10 women they would try with every single one of them

08:07:17.720 and that's the problem that men have women concentrate on their goal and they are more

08:07:23.000 selective when it comes to dating um and we also like i mean almost everywhere in the universe we're just

08:07:31.080 waiting for the man to make the first move which put too much for pressure on the man i acknowledge

08:07:36.760 that but also like we're not we're not just like you know going after every man so we also not get in

08:07:44.680 unless if the man start like approach first and a lot of men nowadays don't approach so okay but as

08:07:53.080 women i agree that yes men are not approaching women as much anymore men are not putting in you know

08:07:59.000 certain well some men are putting in tons of effort the simp uh but yes that but there's a lot of

08:08:04.440 factors to that there's there's a different there's a shift in the social dynamics between when men and

08:08:09.240 women but the reality is as an average guy if you don't make the first move in your life you're dying

08:08:15.480 a virgin as an average woman you don't got to do shit and men will come to you whether you like them

08:08:21.000 or not is a separate conversation and there's a lot of factors that go into that as well yeah and it's been

08:08:26.040 like that unfortunately the reality women are the women are the sexual selectors women women are

08:08:31.800 pickier women are the sexual selectors i'm not it's not an injustice it's just reality it's just reality

08:08:38.280 women have more sexual optionality than men if if i want to get honestly people change reality a girl who's a

08:08:47.720 three can get just as much sex if she wanted to i i you know props to you guys because if men

08:08:56.040 had the sexual optionality that y'all had

08:09:01.240 that would be like a crazy fest holy

08:09:03.160 i mean it kind of is the times are kind of changing at least congratulations you guys are selective good

08:09:08.840 good good because if if the roles were diverse

08:09:15.240 hey brian did you ever see that one video where the girl had um she made a post on i don't know

08:09:21.640 if it was tick tock or instagram she said that she made a post pretending to be her friend her male

08:09:26.680 friend which was actually he was a very attractive dude dating apps yeah and went on a dating app she

08:09:32.040 realized just how hard he had it oh yeah you put you put an average girl on a dating app she has a

08:09:39.880 thousand matches in 24 hours you put an average guy on a dating app

08:09:46.360 maybe he has three like you there's so many there's so many differences i'm not trying to be like

08:09:51.400 oh feel pity for us i'm just talking about descriptively what is the case what is the case and

08:09:58.280 uh i honestly i think a girl who's a three she has more sexual options

08:10:05.080 than a dude's who's a nine a dude at least probably you have more options i think quality

08:10:14.360 quality is going to be different the guy who's a nine is going to get better quality but in terms of

08:10:19.960 parity but in for sexual optionality yeah y'all it's crazy um here i have to move it on uh but you don't

08:10:27.560 split bills um you've dated oh right the sims that you've dated men who are fully aligned with that

08:10:35.160 uh i look women can still get it i think it's a raw deal for men we have to be traditional you can

08:10:40.840 do whatever you want you can be modern women benefits of modernity to you the woman benefits of

08:10:47.640 tradition to you the woman downsides excuse me downsides of modernity to the man downsides of tradition

08:10:55.640 to the man that's the dynamic that i see you said you've experienced the full range of relationship

08:11:00.200 dynamics 50 50 man took the lead uh you said you consider yourself a feminist in a realistic way

08:11:06.360 meaning you believe men and women aren't identical you think modern dating should operate like you're the

08:11:11.080 same we kind of i think we already talked about that quite a bit um i guess just final question on on

08:11:19.320 that anyways how do you reconcile being a feminist and holding men to traditional gender roles when i

08:11:25.800 define like feminism i define it as just women being able to have the option and autonomy whether

08:11:31.880 to be in a relationship or not and whether to be in a traditional dynamic or not like i feel like women

08:11:37.640 should have that choice whether they want to be in that relation that type of relationship or not

08:11:42.920 okay you also say that his money is your money yes okay um should he be doing maybe this is

08:11:51.000 just my notes from one of your tick tocks should he be doing the dishes every day or am i it just

08:11:56.440 you know every relationship depends it depends on like what his job is how demanding it is i think

08:12:01.560 relationships should be equal and it just depends on what you know who's doing what and who's bringing

08:12:07.800 and what and who the demands of labor and things like that you say that misogyny is normalized and

08:12:15.080 even desired in the media how so sorry really don't mean to interrupt you um just so we understand the

08:12:23.320 terms can you define misogyny um i define misogyny like what the first thing that just comes in my

08:12:30.440 head is like example of that video of that woman like serving the man that's how i define misogyny

08:12:36.280 wait like the videos that you played earlier of like the woman bowing that's how i define

08:12:43.720 wait wait hold on hold on hold on um so that i'll be charitable that would be from your perspective

08:12:52.200 yeah that's from my perspective that would be an example of misogyny yes how do you with words how

08:12:58.040 do you define misogyny what does that mean i think men expecting servitude from women servitude

08:13:05.000 so and just a reminder for a guy to take you on the first date he has to pay for the first date

08:13:12.040 and he has to take you to a decent place it sounds like and he has to pay for your babysitter

08:13:17.160 how is that not servitude yeah that because i've explained this earlier that when if i were to get

08:13:24.760 pregnant it just shows him like what type of guy he's willing to do like i'm willing to take care of

08:13:29.000 you when you're vulnerable so why don't you why wouldn't you apply that logic to okay i would have

08:13:33.880 a relationship where we're doing that for each other but why why was that video misogynistic

08:13:41.480 which one the first one or the second one or both both both are so cooking a meal for your

08:13:47.960 your your man and it was like the concept she was like bowing and like why would that be misogynistic

08:13:57.800 even if it's culturally weird how would it be or like strange why would it be misogynistic

08:14:04.840 well i mean because it's not showing them doing it for each other it's just showing one as like

08:14:10.760 the woman doing something for the man wouldn't paying for your babysitter and paying for the date

08:14:18.120 that's him doing something for you that he doesn't get in return so are you a misandrist no but so why

08:14:25.480 would it be if it's misogynist that way why isn't it misandrist your way then yeah then i think you have

08:14:31.160 a point so you're a misandrist no no i was i'm agreeing so it's not misogynist no i'm agreeing with you

08:14:36.840 so your way your entire position just crumbles well yeah i can say that i'm wrong okay if that's

08:14:45.880 genuinely your position or you're just no i guess i guess you know if they're both as long as see

08:14:50.600 i've just grew up in households where i've seen unequal dynamics but if they're equal in the

08:14:55.160 relationship then i don't see anything wrong with that if they're equal in the like if they're both

08:15:00.600 equally taking care of each other i don't see anything wrong with that okay what i'm against is power

08:15:06.120 dynamics that's it what's wrong with power dynamics one person having more power than the other one

08:15:11.800 person it's inevitable but it's inevitable don't you think that's inevitable

08:15:19.160 well like well how about this men are physically stronger than women so on that in that uh at least

08:15:27.320 what's the word for it in that way there's clearly a power dynamic yeah

08:15:32.600 yeah unless like the woman's a crazy bodybuilder and like super yeah whatever and the guy's super

08:15:38.360 weak and and i'm just what where i'm coming from is i'm coming from a place of experiencing dv and

08:15:43.400 unequal relationships but if he respects his woman then i you know i don't what i guess one thing so

08:15:50.600 do you do you think the bow though is is like misogynistic to want that i just said no if that's

08:15:56.920 what okay okay i guess one further explanation on that you originally viewed it that way maybe other

08:16:04.600 women might still consider it like kind of crazy or misogynistic yeah my thing with the bow is as a

08:16:11.160 woman a lot of the women here at the table y'all want men to pay for not all of you but some of you

08:16:15.400 want men to pay for first dates and you can probably at least acknowledge that maybe we can

08:16:19.320 just say to be charitable 50 of women want men to pay for first dates what does that mean though

08:16:27.560 you might think well it's a second thought it's not it's just you don't even think about it

08:16:32.200 a man paying for the first date let's say he makes twenty dollars an hour if when a woman says

08:16:38.440 the man has to pay for the first date what does that actually translate to in practice in action

08:16:43.800 so if a guy makes twenty dollars an hour and he's i think a reasonable first date spend would be a

08:16:48.760 hundred dollars i think that's reasonable you go to chili's you get a drink you each get a drink you

08:16:53.800 get an appetizer main course dessert tip i think you're getting to 100 bucks chili's is not like

08:17:00.200 exactly the most impressive first date if he's making twenty dollars an hour that's five hours of work

08:17:07.400 work for the both of you okay to be fair if he's he's eating his own food so just your portion of

08:17:14.200 that bill let's say it's fifty dollars yeah a man who makes twenty dollars an hour has to work two and

08:17:19.800 a half hours now i'm not even factoring in tax one then it i'm not going to make that i'm not going

08:17:26.360 to make the math complicated um but factoring in tax it's actually a bit more but just for simplicity's

08:17:32.840 sake if a guy makes twenty dollars an hour let's just say after tax to make it simple

08:17:40.040 he has to work five hours or just for your portion two and a half hours to take you on a date when i

08:17:45.480 think about the bow that i desire three seconds done that's all she has to do it's effortless any

08:17:52.680 woman can do it whoops almost lost my laptop there when women say and i think i'm i'm a unique

08:17:59.960 snowflake in this regard i don't think any other man in america has this expectation besides me

08:18:06.120 i'm a fucking weirdo i don't think men really expect all that much really really you might say

08:18:13.320 well they expect sex well if we fuck you're all y'all are the ones who can come 10 times in a row

08:18:17.960 and i don't know i think sex is a mutual value exchange i honestly and because y'all be coming

08:18:25.240 10 times in a row i think women have the better deal when it comes to sex but if we have sex that's

08:18:30.040 equal we both get something but when it comes to paying for a date that's one direction unidirectional

08:18:36.760 so i guess ultimately the bow thing that seems completely effortless but the translation of a

08:18:46.360 woman saying men should pay for first dates is go work let's say the guy your husband does

08:18:53.080 construction whatever let's say he works a construction job let's say he works let's say

08:18:57.720 he works a job that's that's uh that's labor that's difficult and he makes twenty dollars an hour

08:19:04.360 when a girl says men should pay for first dates the translation there at least how i view it is

08:19:10.840 go go dig a ditch for two and a half hours if i said instead of the bow if i told a woman you have

08:19:18.360 to go do fucking physically labor for me for two and a half hours to go on a date with me

08:19:24.440 y'all would be like that's way worse than the fucking bow that's bullshit i'm not fucking digging a ditch

08:19:31.000 for you for two and a half hours but if i'm already working and if i'm already working and that's what's

08:19:36.920 like you you want and especially if it's something that's more expensive and that's something that i wanted

08:19:41.480 to go to that's still your time though but that's that's getting away from the point my point is

08:19:49.480 people look at you know this this expectation for uh even if forget the bow if i want a girl to cook

08:19:56.520 for me some women object to that if i want a girl to cook if i want a girl to clean i want uh how about

08:20:02.200 this tell me if you object to this the first time a girl comes over to my house i want her to do my laundry

08:20:08.360 do you object would you do it how about that um no would you do that no but i'm not the sun

08:20:21.160 no but she's like the sun like you said haha that's funny no i'm not trying to be funny what

08:20:28.360 what do you mean she thinks this way because she really views herself very high obviously she she

08:20:34.440 really thinks she's like everything she wants her men to do everything for her like you i didn't even

08:20:39.960 say that like no you want a lot oh okay maybe i misunderstood then excuse me but you you won't

08:20:47.320 do the laundry the first time you go to the guy's house for him will you do a guy's laundry no but

08:20:52.200 i'll cook for you uh can you come back miss uh miss uh nicks can i fix your computer

08:21:00.920 what's there to fix just it's sitting wrong oh she's my mom this is my this is my mom it's okay

08:21:11.320 first time you go over to a guy's house no will you do his laundry no what about you no what about

08:21:17.400 you sure you'll do w okay w wipe this girl up what about you well i did it when we were would you do

08:21:23.400 it first guy you go time you go to a guy's house what you do is laundry i i don't think men and women

08:21:28.440 should expect husband and wife treatment if they aren't married

08:21:34.600 yep well i guess you don't pay you don't care but wait hold on

08:21:39.400 those are fucking notes but isn't that in the traditional sense like wait wait miriam

08:21:46.040 hold on men should hold on men should pay on first dates men should provide i said if they

08:21:49.800 if they want to have babies yes but they're you're not married yes i want to have babies but i'm not

08:21:54.200 married to you yet why should i pay for why should i fine half and half i'm fine as long as i'm not

08:21:59.320 paying for his portion but but are are women going to be satisfied if i'm boyfriend and girlfriend with

08:22:04.600 a woman and i tell her you know what in some sort of situation where you would expect me to

08:22:08.920 protect you oh sorry we're not married yet so i'm not going to protect you because i only do that

08:22:13.560 for my for my wife yeah i would protect you yeah okay but you're no no hold on your position is that

08:22:22.600 should be saved for marriage the husband wife treatment should be saved can i clarify um so i

08:22:29.960 said they should not expect but if it can be done right so like let's say i want to cook i can cook for

08:22:37.720 the person but i'm not gonna do his laundry because that's correct okay in the same aspect

08:22:43.000 i don't i don't expect from the man to like spend money on me or pay my bills or whatever because

08:22:48.360 we're not married you see what i'm saying like i'm fine with like relax i know the testosterone is

08:22:55.960 getting to you chill out okay um look i've i've been like i i was never in like a healthy stable

08:23:05.160 relationship i always like paid for myself so if i'm with a man i'm right if i'm with a man and he's

08:23:12.360 like just don't get don't get jealous over there don't get jealous over there i'm okay with that

08:23:16.840 never mind i mean like doing the laundry is extreme but you know no no but i don't think

08:23:22.680 it's extreme because i don't even wash my own laundry my sister has to come to the house and

08:23:28.520 wash it for me i mean like you're 21 how about your sister wash your boyfriend's shit man get this

08:23:34.680 i'm not touching his undies till i know him hold on hold on hold on so um the point i'm trying to make

08:23:40.840 here is is that again and by the way by the first time you go to a guy's house that might not

08:23:46.520 you might have already been on two three four five dates or maybe it's the first day i don't know

08:23:51.560 i mean like it really depends if you've been on two three four five dates i might just do it to do

08:23:55.480 it because you haven't done it i might just cook for you because always the exception with you it's

08:23:59.720 always there yeah i love it it's not an exception it's the fact that we're in a relationship what i'm

08:24:04.360 trying to say what i'm trying to say when you guys give me pushback on the on the bow thing i don't

08:24:08.760 think it's a in terms of a traditional expectation uh within a traditional dynamic perhaps it's you

08:24:15.000 might dispute the you know how soon the the laundry doing gets done but i don't think it would be

08:24:22.600 unrealistic in a traditional dynamic to expect the woman to do the laundry maybe you might fight me on

08:24:28.040 how soon or whatever you said but you but your question was if you if i do why do men have to pay

08:24:34.360 for dates and that means they have to work two three four five six who said they have to pay for

08:24:39.080 all the dates even if it's just the first date that is still an expectation placed on men that

08:24:45.000 doesn't exist in the reverse so if the expectation for the man is you pay for the date translation you

08:24:51.160 have to work two three four five six hours to make enough money to be able to pay for said date

08:24:56.040 but you don't like i do i pay more than that though what if you just get that's five dollars you can

08:25:02.040 work for like five minutes to get five dollars you can go on the street and go give out stickers and

08:25:07.080 promote and get five dollars like most most people live paycheck to paycheck you think all these dudes

08:25:12.840 are fucking ballers most people are living paycheck to paycheck fucking the we got the trans

08:25:17.960 because of of this shit but um what was i saying look i'm just saying can i also i'm sorry

08:25:23.880 hold on just wait just wait so ultimately my confusion here is on one hand women have this

08:25:30.360 expectation men pay for first dates i get it there are some women who don't care that's fine i think

08:25:36.280 the majority of women it is their preference so if the woman wants a man to pay for the first date

08:25:41.560 translation the man has to work three four five six seven hours to pay for said date

08:25:48.040 that i think working for seven hours at whatever job you have i don't care if you're in office i

08:25:54.920 don't care if you're uh digging ditches i don't care if you're a janitor you're cleaning toilets you're

08:26:00.600 you're hustling as a as a waiter and cleaning tables and taking orders and dealing with

08:26:05.800 fucking annoying ass caring customers

08:26:10.520 if the girl comes over you good if the girl comes over and she's like doesn't want to do the laundry

08:26:18.040 that takes 15 minutes you you put the clothes in the laundry machine

08:26:25.160 that takes maybe a minute turn it on 10 20 seconds transfer it then you wait transfer it to the dryer

08:26:37.000 one or two minutes turn the dryer on

08:26:39.960 the folding is probably the longest part maybe that's 10 minutes chill out

08:26:47.000 why don't you do it yourself what

08:26:53.320 laundry takes maybe 20 minutes total 20 minutes total but first date first date work seven hours

08:27:02.600 men should work seven hours but oh my god if the woman has to do 20 minutes of work doing laundry

08:27:09.000 and so it depends on the task because washing the dishes or like yeah cooking like you're like

08:27:16.360 it's it's i don't it's better i think i don't want to touch your underwear that's the problem

08:27:21.160 we didn't have to say that my underwear is christine so like that's not everybody like i don't know

08:27:25.480 your hygiene i don't know you why you didn't all right guys be stinky sometimes and the issue is

08:27:31.240 not i guess the issue is not that you're asking something you guys what you are asking

08:27:35.000 imagine what it was like back then before the washer and dryer even existed they had to hand wash it

08:27:41.160 they had no that had to be horrendous actual thing and she's literally sleeping so we need to switch

08:27:47.160 this up i guess yeah i'm moving it on okay uh really quick i'm finishing off on the misogyny is

08:27:53.320 normalized i disagree i think if you're misogynistic if you're misogynistic say you go to university

08:28:02.200 university you're getting kicked out of the university if you're misogynist and you're on

08:28:06.600 social media you're going to get the wrath of these social media platforms you're going to get

08:28:10.760 canceled if you're a misogynist at work you're going to get canceled i see the reverse i actually

08:28:15.480 think misandry is normalized it's totally it's totally fine to hate men it's totally acceptable

08:28:21.080 anti-male rhetoric is way more prevalent on social media i see it all the time on tick tock if you doubt

08:28:27.960 me i post i post four clips a day on my on my twitter i'm documenting this shit women can be

08:28:34.680 openly misandrist and there's like minimal or no pushback the social media platforms completely

08:28:41.160 tolerate it so can men though do you think men can't do that i think i think there's okay for

08:28:46.040 example i i'm trying to remember the i could get it wrong so somebody might check it and question me so

08:28:52.120 the hashtag on tick tock i might be getting the exact hashtag wrong but it's it's a basically this

08:29:03.000 the hashtag women suck completely blocked on tick tock hashtag men suck completely allowed and there's

08:29:09.720 like 20 000 videos the these platforms if if i some of the shit i see on tick tock the man hating i see on

08:29:17.320 there if it was the reverse you would be canceled andrew tate had uh had governments putting out

08:29:24.440 oh uh you can't uh we we got to combat the the red pill we got to combat blah blah all this shit

08:29:31.480 andrew perhaps you might think andrew tate has said some controversial things i might not even disagree

08:29:36.120 with you the shit i see from feminists on tick tock the the things they say about men i've never heard

08:29:42.280 andrew tate say anything even approaching as bad as what andrew tate has said these feminists on tick

08:29:49.000 tock these misandrist on tick tock they say crazy shit they say crazy shit and there's nothing nothing

08:29:55.800 happens nothing happens so anyways i'll move it on though um can i just comment on bro what is your deal

08:30:01.960 lady holy shit um all right uh okay something about dating a doctor we're gonna skip that you dated a

08:30:14.680 girl you you said you owe a lot of things to tana mojo manjo into the mic yeah you did oh but discovering

08:30:23.320 that grab me a ball of water discovering that i was pansexual because i think the way that she described

08:30:28.440 pensexual helped me like understand myself you owe a lot of things to yes okay um you said you were

08:30:39.400 stood up the crying video we already covered that you said you share all texts with your friends what

08:30:45.160 i think in some video you said you share all texts can you also get me a room temp nick no i don't think

08:30:51.480 that's not that's not true so like maybe like i don't know it's one of your tiktoks but i'll skip it

08:30:57.080 okay um okay uh let's see here i think that i mean there's more notes from you but we're already

08:31:04.280 uh yeah just put i'll take it thank you man um unfortunately there there are more notes but uh

08:31:13.160 oh miriam oh boy okay we have miriam and then we have nick's and i believe that's it for yeah that's

08:31:20.120 it just two more people and then we're wrapped okay miriam what did i say uh you said you're

08:31:29.080 looking for a man you might still be married you got married 20 years ago in saudi arabia you can't

08:31:34.360 file for divorce you tried many times he was abusive towards you towards your children uh you came to

08:31:40.520 the u.s to get your master's degree uh you've been solely raising your child no child support no

08:31:47.160 financial support irs taxes you as a single person i guess you're okay you can't claim a dependent

08:31:53.080 because you're not a citizen you're a magician all your friends are magicians uh

08:32:02.360 finally decided to have your first date in his house

08:32:04.680 he got mad saying it's not safe for men to have a woman in his house and you should have been

08:32:10.360 flattered that's the first date he wanted his house whatever that's fine you haven't dated for

08:32:15.480 like 10 years before you started having a baby fever last year and started searching only two

08:32:20.440 men you found made it be on the first date and they both told you they aren't looking to settle down

08:32:25.320 and we couldn't move forward yeah so the the last well the last guy i've dated and the one

08:32:32.840 well and one i've dated last year they both like these are the only ones that like moved well okay

08:32:38.920 so there there's a third guy that i want to mention the period because like if you want to mention the

08:32:44.600 story i don't want to like people place what company he works for because the story is okay

08:32:50.200 i'll just move on to the next thing um you say how millennials ruin dating not only for their generation

08:32:56.200 but for every generation coming afterwards are you gen x or are you millennial you're

08:33:00.280 you're a millennial i think i'm millennial yeah okay i'm millennial latrice millennial

08:33:05.000 wait so how did millennials ruin dating for their generation but other generations

08:33:09.240 quick answer if you can oh um i i think it's just like um back to your point how like women expect

08:33:17.240 certain things but men don't want women to expect the traditional treatment because women are not

08:33:24.840 given them the traditional treatment and all that you know it goes both ways actually men and women

08:33:30.440 are contributing to this and i think what is what is happening right now in the dating scene it gets

08:33:36.920 translated through social media and um all the tips that i see like men given um other men you know

08:33:44.360 dating tips or women given other women dating tips they all like questionable and they don't they don't

08:33:51.160 necessarily apply to everyone else or like maybe just like their own trauma whatever you said that

08:33:57.000 millennials yeah there are gen x there's gen z who is also making this like dating content or whatever

08:34:04.200 how specifically have millennials ruined dating because you say not only for their generation for

08:34:10.040 millennials but every other generation what is it specifically that millennials did

08:34:14.520 i think like back in the days uh well i cannot speak you know obviously about you know um

08:34:23.960 the us in general is just like from my observation of like the people i hang out with and stuff like

08:34:30.120 that you know like back in the days people would settle down faster than today today people are setting up

08:34:36.600 way higher expectations and they want um like uh how do i say this like they want

08:34:44.280 elongated period of um like an audition uh basically a wife audition or husband audition to like last

08:34:52.440 for a very long period before they actually want to settle down um and that's like not how things should

08:34:59.480 work i mean yes you need to know and understand the other person but there are people who are like

08:35:05.240 they would stay together for 10 years and they still haven't decided to like move forward yet

08:35:09.800 like you either want them or you don't i mean but isn't this a phenomenon that you can find in like

08:35:17.080 gen x and gen z so i don't know why this is like specifically millennials or why like

08:35:22.840 millennials are having this because because they are like the tipping point i guess uh because like the

08:35:28.360 previous generations did not seem to have that issue okay uh all right well uh final person here with notes

08:35:37.800 is nick's and there's really only one thing i wanted to touch on which was um

08:35:47.080 are we just gonna do a round three what huh like for your notes are we just i guess we could touch on

08:35:54.360 it super quick um like i was oh man i think take your time it's okay okay i was just i think last show

08:36:04.040 i was confused they're like the whole situation with like your i think your first boyfriend and

08:36:10.920 there's like confusion as to the sex life was a little funky yeah

08:36:23.320 okay is there a question you're asking there's nothing else i want to add to it

08:36:27.160 what's that there's nothing else i want to add to it but are you fine talking about it well what

08:36:32.600 are you asking well okay you were saying like okay my understanding was and perhaps you can refresh

08:36:39.240 my memory a little bit but you were dating a guy as your first boyfriend and you would both you would

08:36:48.280 have consensual sex but then also non-consensual sex in a cycle cycle sure well like my confusion tip i

08:36:59.880 mean look i guess my confusion is like if i was dating a girl and she non-consensually had sex with me

08:37:08.840 like that's the end of the relationship like that would be whoa but like and then my confusion though

08:37:17.080 is like one like okay monday you have consensual sex wednesday non-consensual friday consensual

08:37:25.880 yeah that's kind of confusing like isn't it logically it's possible like logically on monday i can

08:37:35.960 have sex with my girlfriend on tuesday i don't want to have sex and she holds me down and has sex

08:37:41.880 with me on wednesday i could have like logically it could be the case but it seems kind of like how

08:37:50.200 do you end up in this situation like that i guess complicated and you can withdraw consent at any time

08:37:56.920 uh yeah i i agree um and i'm not saying i'm just saying like

08:38:06.760 there can be times where you consented and didn't yeah wait hold on there can be when you say there

08:38:15.640 just to clarify what you just said there can be times where you consented and there can be times where

08:38:21.800 you didn't consent yes or can the same singular time be a time where you both consented and didn't

08:38:29.480 consent no no no that's not what i said okay sorry that's how i took it but i misunderstood i'm just

08:38:34.920 yeah sure of course but it's like were you verbally saying no or like what was happening i already

08:38:43.000 talked about this last time i don't have anything else to add

08:38:45.240 you didn't provide any new notes no i think it's fair to revisit it just because i

08:38:55.160 and i'm choosing to opt out so okay all right well okay

08:39:04.040 because somebody sent me like said you you said on the previous show you never verbalized saying no

08:39:10.280 you just disassociated like so you froze up i guess

08:39:18.200 i said that okay i told you i have nothing else to add

08:39:26.120 why did you want to come back on the show then what else what else is there to talk about

08:39:29.400 i said a couple things here all right okay i did my i did my i did my big one it's okay guys

08:39:35.400 you did you did your your big one all right she doesn't want to take it talk about the hating

08:39:40.680 white people thing she doesn't want to talk about this thing all right um

08:39:48.040 yeah uh guys we're going to wrap the show six nine dollar tts any final thoughts from any

08:39:51.800 panelists before we wrap the show our final segment uh who's down to take their makeup off

08:39:58.840 i haven't done this before yeah you gotta do it again oh you'll do it it's the final thing and

08:40:05.400 then we wrap the show you're down to take the makeup off well are you guys even wearing your

08:40:10.760 makeup i'm wearing makeup will you take makeup off i don't have foundation just warren will you take

08:40:15.000 makeup off who okay who will take makeup off i've done it before be a good sport do it again be a good

08:40:21.960 sport do it again ryan will you take your makeup off not after you guys asked me to do all this work

08:40:27.080 i haven't got my content yet you guys asked me to put on enough i mean that yeah but you're

08:40:32.840 gonna take it off eventually will you take your makeup off i i don't have anywhere to put my lashes

08:40:36.920 i'm not doing that keep your lashes on how about that no uh camilla camilla if she's alive camilla

08:40:46.520 okay you'll do it you're just wearing like some eye stuff though looks like camilla will you take your

08:40:51.640 makeup off um careful on that um all right wow okay good good sports here all right you want to see

08:41:03.080 some magic though uh do we end it with some magic is there any people say yes nick is there anything

08:41:08.440 we're forgetting sure sure sure sure uh just his instagram i guess just his instagram all right guys i'm

08:41:21.080 setting up my friend asmongold uh trying to get him set up he's a really great guy he's successful

08:41:25.800 streamer his his real name is zach his streaming name is asmongold i am trying to get him set up

08:41:31.560 with a girl trying to get him a date i'm going to show you his instagram and just really quick you can

08:41:35.800 just give a yes or no answer i'm not going to answer this oh man you got solipsism too man everything's

08:41:42.680 no well not that just like i i don't want to like if i don't like the person and i said no

08:41:48.920 no that he doesn't care he's not going to see it and if and if i if i like the person and said and

08:41:55.160 said yes and then he said not to me just let me let me look okay i'm trying to move it forward

08:42:03.480 we're so close we're right we're right it's okay take your time we've only been here eight hours it's

08:42:07.640 okay we're right at the finish line here so uh um nick do you have the instagram all right so he has an

08:42:14.200 axe so he'll protect you scroll up he plays world of warcraft world of warcraft scroll up

08:42:23.160 scroll up so he's a popular twitch streamer very successful uh why he's wearing a wig no no that's

08:42:31.640 his real hair into the mic into the mic uh so that's that's zach now you can scroll up it's fine so he's

08:42:37.080 he's a he's a streamer 130k uh well on instagram but he's big he's like one one of the top streamers on

08:42:43.640 twitch for he gets 40 000 concurrent uh super rich successful um would you can i i mean we got some

08:42:51.720 single ladies here so uh can i set you up on the day with zach um yeah maybe because i've i've dated

08:42:58.120 like nerdy guys before nerdy nerdy guys okay um so that's a yes yeah yeah okay would you be down if

08:43:04.680 he flew you out and paid for your uh babysitter babysitter if you flew he lives in he lives he lives in

08:43:11.320 austin so maybe you just go for like 24 hours just for the day texas yeah austin texas yeah so

08:43:18.040 he's in texas if he flies you out and he pays for the sitter will you go on a date with him yeah okay

08:43:22.760 um well you're if you if you're single though would you i'm not single but does he play dnd do you play

08:43:30.280 dnd i like your guys's vibe that's cool i i fuck with it i'm just curious no what about you would you date

08:43:37.320 him what you get to you get to peg him though because you like to dominate i never said i peg i

08:43:45.480 mean i i would you would i never said what what if he was submissive like because you're dominant

08:43:50.680 right would you date him no no okay would you date no

08:43:56.760 okay would you date him he already knows who i am and i don't think he likes me oh oh i did i think he

08:44:01.480 actually i saw he reacted to your really um but but would would you date him yes yo wait zach this

08:44:09.800 this is this is the trans girl so i don't think i think it's i think it's rage bait i think she's

08:44:16.200 not trans she she showed me her vagina um i think you want to ask him to check for you yes that's

08:44:22.920 exactly what i want um so zach i got her here in the flesh actually that's why we brought you on to

08:44:28.600 see if you would date zach zach in the flesh i got this girl here zach will you date her will you

08:44:35.000 date him okay all right tell tell him you have a cock before the kiss though okay um would you date

08:44:43.160 zach if you're single um no no okay well you're married so kind of in a bind there i'm still married

08:44:52.600 that's my excuse okay i said i'm not gonna

08:44:59.720 i said i'm not gonna answer but okay would you okay she's not gonna answer all right well i'm not

08:45:03.960 gonna press it i'm not gonna press it i wouldn't uh oh that was priceless sorry uh any final thoughts

08:45:09.560 from any panelists any you want to say anything before we uh wrap this up anybody no no have fun

08:45:15.640 with this i heard about champagne nobody did champagne no pizza only for a thousand bucks

08:45:22.520 that the person sends dang and you guys didn't have the cookies yeah i will we'll keep them in the

08:45:30.920 studio maybe i don't know if we we should freeze them can we just freeze them in the fridge oh yeah

08:45:36.440 will they be good for a week i can give them to the next some of them to the next and we can send

08:45:42.120 the girls home with some cookies too but like you all had the sugar free no one touched the sugar

08:45:46.600 i don't why would somebody go sugar free sugar that's they all had your free ones i'll eat them

08:45:51.240 after all right we got the chat here pasty george donated seventy dollars i would never pay to have

08:45:58.840 any feminist woman flown to me what a waste of money besides they're gold diggers

08:46:04.840 yes true true i guess uh hold on let's see just double checking making sure everything's all good

08:46:17.320 to go i think oh okay tonight's show was a little this is lauren's favorite segment i want to end the

08:46:28.680 show with some like fun little fun little rapid fire questions just just for lauren it takes like

08:46:34.680 five minutes to get through it uh okay name few countries besides the usa starting with you um europe

08:46:41.560 asia and russia oh no oh continent okay countries okay so um indonesia yeah and then um we also france

08:46:55.160 and then also japan what country is north of the usa canada what country is south of the usa mexico

08:47:05.640 you killed it good job good job loin what about uh to the first question name three countries you can't

08:47:10.840 repeat okay netherlands china russia name three countries you can't repeat closer to the mic

08:47:21.000 i wouldn't say that um what do you mean come on i didn't learn that no hands you didn't learn that

08:47:29.960 what do you mean i mean like it was kind of skipped for me they learned it the year after i got back

08:47:35.080 here have you traveled outside of the us well i grew up in germany so that's one wait wait it's okay

08:47:42.040 countries next to germany okay that's one country so name i know germany but like okay yes we'll give

08:47:48.920 you one name two other countries um

08:47:56.040 did anybody say asia wait asia okay give us give us a country in asia nobody helped no help no helping

08:48:05.960 out a country and i'll give you a hint no no no a country in asia give us one country in asia um

08:48:16.520 here give us one country in africa

08:48:22.360 nobody help nobody help why you pick africa because i'm black yes no i'm just trying to help

08:48:29.560 it's okay we've only been here nine hours um

08:48:37.960 you can use like

08:48:42.600 country texas

08:48:44.680 country no that's not a country i'm gonna get it hey just wait just wait text did you say texas

08:48:51.240 it's gonna be a different hey i feel bad do you guys um it might take you know 20 30 minutes to get

08:48:59.320 here the show has gone long can i treat you guys for to food like i'll get some door dash delivery

08:49:04.440 are you guys it might you might have to let's do it let's do it yeah let me see let me see what's

08:49:08.840 available but let's continue on with thank you damn yeah thank you appreciate it um

08:49:14.440 come on i'm falling for the rage bait right now no i think two countries two countries you just said

08:49:19.960 one korea yeah that's the one that's one well wait hold on which one he's built

08:49:25.080 hey what do you mean do your big one do your big one wait west or what is there is there more than

08:49:33.320 one korea west korea and west korea and north brian well she got it at least south korea

08:49:41.720 there you go there you go which one do you want me to say yes east korea thank you oh no you got

08:49:47.480 it right wait wait i'm sorry i got it one country in africa

08:49:56.600 nika i don't know why are you asking me that you can't just because i'm black

08:50:02.040 you want to know something i know is that my tribe was one of the first tribes to settle here

08:50:06.760 i don't know much about how about how about how about a country in africa that has the name

08:50:12.200 africa in it oh well oh my god how about a country in africa that has the name africa in it

08:50:18.120 huh africa words bro everything is two words oh i'm gonna tell you the one that i do know

08:50:25.960 i don't know i can't remember right now the word you just called me nigeria oh there you go

08:50:34.200 i was thinking it towards south africa by the way let me let me get moving uh three countries

08:50:39.160 that was so difficult um uzbekistan cambodia and thailand what about you um thailand he said don't

08:50:49.160 don't repeat um yeah you can't oh she already said that pangea transylvania oh my god this girl's

08:50:57.480 a troll and um she's she's sorry go ahead um some of these trans girls fake trans girls will put like

08:51:09.320 a thing down there to to like make it seem like packers is that what it's called packers yeah um

08:51:14.920 um really come on come on for real america i'm trying to end this i'm trying to get this

08:51:20.040 third one third one come on united states of america besides the usa

08:51:27.800 okay well yes south south america keep going or is that central you want me to list south america

08:51:33.640 yeah south american brazil one more one more

08:51:36.120 argentina go ahead um italy turkey and switzerland thank you latrice uh singapore oh she said italy um

08:51:52.520 oh jesus all right sorry uh singapore vietnam and

08:52:04.760 you said brazil already that was already in my head let me think of another one the only thing open

08:52:09.560 is denny's think of an edge and actually there's talk about singapore i said singapore

08:52:15.080 dang my brain is starting to fog up a little bit hold on i know i feel like i'm on track

08:52:24.920 do i just make this like super easy and that uh you said african country yeah brito supreme please

08:52:30.280 and potato i think i just got to get everybody to make a symbol crunch wrap supreme

08:52:34.840 does everybody just want to cuntrap supreme just so it's simple i don't need taco bell can i politely

08:52:40.120 request for a baja blast and a potato taco i feel like this is too complicated i think it's too

08:52:45.720 okay here let's blast through this then uh okay countries countries countries it's just been my

08:52:50.440 head is just okay uh miriam miriam go ahead i would go with saudi arabia qatar era can i say

08:52:57.160 saudi arabia or do you want me to pick it lauren we need you okay lauren i can say pakistan wait who

08:53:02.280 said pakistan no one i said uzbekistan okay yeah uh pakistan uh singapore and uh starting with

08:53:09.720 vietnam starting with our good friend lauren uh how many continents are there oh i think there's like

08:53:18.520 eight isabella how many continents are there okay um

08:53:27.000 quick guys quick quick quick five continents seven seven seven seven seven seven okay uh name

08:53:35.240 one continent antarctica you can't repeat asia korea no you can't be

08:53:44.840 you gotta be okay okay it's continent continent continent

08:53:50.200 earlier you mentioned continent though hold on shh shh be a good submissive saudi arabian

08:53:57.400 what is iceland a continent i'm gonna get the burqa no no i'm gonna get the hold on china no no no

08:54:04.840 get the rocks yeah abdul yeah get the rock get the rock where are you originally from germany

08:54:12.680 here san diego what okay all right uh name name a continent europe continent north america

08:54:19.080 australia uh australia wait how many was that already we have five so far we have five so there's

08:54:27.960 north america already already said you already said we said antarctica i forgot the ones that people

08:54:35.800 already said antarctica asia europe europe north america australia uh

08:54:41.240 africa south america beautiful uh okay um what two countries don't help her what two countries border

08:54:51.800 the usa border mexico and so is mexico's where down south yeah okay and then what's the other bordering

08:55:02.520 country oh which above what's above america she said it earlier no hey shh don't help don't help

08:55:11.880 yes there's no way there's no way i'm getting paid oh my god wait germany is above and you lived in

08:55:24.760 germany she drove from germany to here she drove from i like that that's good um okay how many these

08:55:32.280 some of these are super easy how many states in the usa actually i'm just i just got laser

08:55:37.880 until she gets it right yeah yeah good good i like that how many states in the usa i want to say 50.

08:55:43.560 yes good job yeah see we got we got to give her we got to give her some positive reinforcement

08:55:48.040 um what is the capital of the usa

08:55:53.320 no slovenia were you about to say slovenia that sounded like florida

08:55:58.040 but i think i was about to say the capital of florida yeah but where does where does the

08:56:01.720 president washington dc okay i helped you out a little bit uh how many stars are on the u.s flag

08:56:08.920 isn't there 50 what is 34 plus 66

08:56:19.160 34 plus that's 100 oh sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry what the frick okay uh what century are we in

08:56:27.160 starting with you lauren the 21st 20th century okay uh yeah what century kamea kamehameha 21st okay uh how

08:56:44.280 how many in one dozen 12 okay well i 12 except for the baker's dozen i guess which is who did the us gain

08:56:53.320 its independence from britain i'll kind of like jump around on who i pick um who was the first

08:56:59.560 president of the usa kamehameha kamehameha wait uh kamehameha kamehameha can you scoot into the oh

08:57:05.560 sorry um a little bit maybe pull this abraham lincoln a little bit wait george washington

08:57:12.680 okay um what country for you what country is the great wall of china in china hey don't sleep on my

08:57:26.440 girl over here don't sleep on it she got that's your caucasian that's my caucasian all right now say it

08:57:31.960 back you're my caucasian no the the other thing the other word the one you said earlier why when we say

08:57:39.720 it why do you want to say it okay whatever how many inches in the feet foot feet um how many

08:57:47.160 seasons are there four uh how many days in a year uh 365 except for how many letters how many letters

08:57:55.800 in the alphabet um i'm stumped i'm not gonna lie how many letters in the alphabet

08:58:09.720 oh boy wait 50 is in the 50s in the 50s do you want to narrow it down wait number

08:58:21.240 55 56 20 26 letter letters how many numbers wait infinite oh yeah how many letters in a number

08:58:32.120 oh boy okay uh how many how many days for you 24 hold on i was talking about that deadly p deadly p

08:58:44.360 how many how many uh oh my how many days of the week and with the letter y

08:58:55.400 all days all day yeah good job good job that one's kind of a trick one uh what's a shape with four

08:59:01.480 sides called for kamehameha square yes good job all right uh how long does each president

08:59:13.160 serve their term four years okay uh what language do the people in idaho speak that's for you for you

08:59:23.560 idaho idaho idaho what language do they speak english good job nice okay all right um these are

08:59:35.240 just some fun questions that you know at the end here to you know uh what ocean is california next to

08:59:45.080 oh um like that thing that's like five miles not even it was like like what ocean yeah what what

08:59:53.320 ocean atlantic do you know what time we use do you know what time we use for california

09:00:00.440 good job you killed it hell yeah i'm not even trying um what is what is half of one million

09:00:09.880 half of five hundred thousand yes okay uh how many years in a decade

09:00:15.560 how many years in a decade okay how many how many are in a century a hundred yes uh if a dozen eggs

09:00:33.720 costs three dollars how much is each egg

09:00:38.760 if it wait i don't know i'm not good with math just math it math it out if a dozen eggs each egg cost

09:00:47.080 three dollars yeah so you have a dozen eggs no no no so a dozen eggs total costs three dollars

09:00:54.040 how much is one egg um 25 cents yes you killed it lauren good job uh what is the closest star

09:01:06.040 to earth sun that's her i had to ask you that uh uh let's see um do you know this is lauren's favorite

09:01:17.640 do you know what the what year the war of 1812 started 1812 nice kamehameha you killed it okay what

09:01:28.840 country is the panama canal in what is a panama canal oh it's a canal what country is it in

09:01:37.160 it's in a country um yeah is it in germany is it in korea is it in south america why do you always

09:01:49.080 go to korea i don't know it's in south america it's in south america hey i got i got it eventually

09:01:53.720 no but but what country oh shit it's not a country

09:01:57.400 panama canal panama canal hey don't help don't help there's no way come on you're

09:02:10.440 fucking you gotta be fucking with us you're messing with us right okay what country is the panama canal

09:02:16.680 in kamehameha what do you think it's getting no panama okay uh okay here's a here's a fun one

09:02:24.840 where i i'm sorry i just got to pick you on you where where did the attack on pearl harbor take

09:02:34.040 place in pearl harbor actually yes i mean why would you call it the pearl harbor attack if it's not

09:02:42.440 that yes it's in the name you could hawaii would have also been acceptable but but yes pearl heart that

09:02:48.840 is actually um to kamehameha what country did the vietnam war happen in

09:02:55.400 um vietnam yes um to nix how much is a quarter of an hour quarter 15 minutes okay uh to to isabella

09:03:06.520 what is 100 minus 34 100 minus 34 is

09:03:12.040 66 yes uh to lauren what is three times three plus one three times three is nine ten

09:03:21.240 sorry she was doing the six sorry i got distracted yeah yeah wrong emote yeah yeah wrong emote

09:03:30.600 three times three times three plus one oh she said ten sorry i wasn't even yeah okay we're waiting on you

09:03:40.280 uh for you what is three times three times three uh 27 yep uh if yes is spelled y-e-s what does e-y-e-s spell

09:03:54.040 i can't do your big one e-y-e-s e-y-e-s i can't where did you get x from hey isabel oh there is no you

09:04:16.760 you didn't say s no no it's just it's just this e ryan give me taco bell hold on e-y-e-s honestly

09:04:25.400 it's i feel like i got a i got it back wow you're proud you said and then you're dragging this out

09:04:31.880 please can i have a burrito get something oh my god are you sure we appreciate you

09:04:38.440 does everybody just want can i just get everybody a burrito yes a burrito are you fine with the

09:04:43.240 wait no beans just slide us a 10 because i don't want to have any allergy issues i'll get a baja

09:04:50.680 blast now we can yeah get whatever i can't drink mountain dew oh sorry yeah okay who wants taco bell

09:04:56.920 i'm fine with taco bell i'm in a bind here because some women don't want that's the yeah

09:05:02.760 what what other options do we have nothing nothing nothing it's only what i am i want there's mcdonald's

09:05:10.040 i mean it's almost two i don't want to have tummy issues later okay no you no no food for you no i'll do

09:05:17.560 taco bell oh i'll do taco bell yeah just do like maybe like half burritos half tacos or something yeah

09:05:22.680 beefy five-layer burrito sure because i can have tacos and cheese whatever hold on let me see what

09:05:28.360 there is i will have an allergic i gotta feed these girls it was a long show so i feel like i gotta

09:05:32.440 feed them you're not yourself when you're hungry yes yes the food the food well um

09:05:42.920 i'm glad i got it i'll do quick i'll do quick i'm glad you're good where the

09:05:47.480 fuck are the burritos sorry guys i'm just uh here what was the around the table oh what what

09:05:53.640 does what here while i'm doing this answer the question uh e-y-e-s oh yeah okay if you were born

09:05:59.880 10 years ago how old would you be today for you ten yes how many world wars were there for you two

09:06:09.080 two i mean two wait hold on i gotta focus it's not a question i'm talking to them uh okay burritos

09:06:17.320 sorry excuse me oh hiccup okay burritos grilled cheese burrito bean burrito burrito supreme

09:06:28.520 supreme please okay i'm gonna just do a bunch of burrito supremes um wait what's in the burritos

09:06:34.280 what's in it they're good they're good okay um no beans yeah it does have beans i'm allergic so

09:06:40.680 can we get like oh my god get her one taco taco this is too complicated guys why don't we just out

09:06:47.800 here you know what hey there's cookies back there there's fucking cookies we're gonna blast through

09:06:52.680 this do the whole thing the same thing except for her because she has like she's can you just slide

09:06:59.160 us a ton should i just order the food yes please yes can you get bella and i a baja blast freeze

09:07:05.560 we'll split it we really appreciate you brian yes yes yeah i'm doing it wait can you guys talk

09:07:12.200 though yeah yeah we can talk oh yeah okay okay what do you want what do you want to talk about

09:07:15.800 two no no you you guys what we want to talk about i gotcha okay i have a question for you yeah

09:07:22.360 please burrito i guess or okay it is gonna take like it'll probably take 30 minutes to get here i'll do it

09:07:28.520 the fast shipping or whatever okay we'll walk in yes okay uh do you want food yes want food food

09:07:35.480 but no beans food food no you'll just take off okay uh food i'm good food food yes okay so one

09:07:44.600 two yes you can't count it's five okay and yeah i know i should somebody please

09:07:51.800 nick you want a burrito okay all right um okay yeah so since we supposed to like you know occupy

09:07:59.480 ourselves yeah yeah you know i got a real quick question for y'all you know i'm a singer and all

09:08:03.160 like i could sing for y'all right now yeah let's do it

09:08:07.640 i've been counting out i've gone on notice

09:08:18.840 i've been far out these are my deepest secrets thought i'd take them to the grave but i gotta be

09:08:30.360 real right now trust me i mean what i say trust me i mean what i say when i say you don't notice

09:08:38.920 me most days no you don't see that dynamic done change but you don't know what to say

09:08:42.840 i'm shamed because you really was my fave now i gotta push you away making me feel this way that

09:08:47.400 shit for real not okay plug the socials plug the socials oh yeah p deadly underscore p underscore

09:08:57.400 dangerous i know that's right don't you ever quit singing for anybody oh my god not even for 10

09:09:06.520 million dollars and that even for 10 million dollars and that's beautiful all right so magic

09:09:13.720 magic magic yeah yeah uh you want cards coins i don't want to see them cards again yeah

09:09:18.840 can you be all frustrated can you explain the trick like is that okay done ordered okay back to this

09:09:24.760 back to this so no sorry no magic fuck magic oh hey what the fuck okay um

09:09:33.800 uh how many world wars were there or did i already ask that okay what decade was world war one

09:09:39.320 decade decade so like 1830s 1870 that's a decade i don't know guess take a guess yeah i would say

09:09:49.720 like yeah like in the 1800s in the 1800s okay isabella what do you think what decade 19 19 what 19

09:09:59.640 no not century decade oh um 19 19 i don't know 60 was it 1960 okay for world war one yes what decade

09:10:12.120 was world war one nine eight eighteen eighteen seven thirties yeah okay uh what decade was world

09:10:23.320 world war one wasn't it 1920s great depression yes yeah 19th it was 1920s it is it is the 19 19 18. uh

09:10:34.680 what was the primary decade of world war ii um i don't know wild guess wild guess yeah 19 there's no wrong

09:10:45.240 answers for 30s i don't know yeah there's 1940 okay isabella 1960 1960 1960 1970 70 okay 1970s

09:10:56.680 1960s i think 1960s world war ii okay uh 1940s 1940s that was 1940s yeah the primary one you said 1930s

09:11:07.720 because it's 1939 to 1945 so it's gonna be 1930s to 1940s yeah well the primary decade would be the

09:11:17.000 1940s but yes it started i say primary decade because it started in 1939 but most of it was in

09:11:22.040 the 1940s um can you name three kardashians yes um like chloe kim and kourtney okay um can you name

09:11:32.760 three k-pop stars yes um lisa rosa rose rose rose rose rose yes i think that's a mexican pop star but

09:11:43.320 okay rose no rosa she's a mexican pop star no i just said her name wrong i okay continue oh okay um

09:11:54.360 what's it john cook john cook john cook yes yes i'm exposing myself my bad

09:11:59.800 stop snooping what is this girl doing okay sit down and pull your skirt down lady uh

09:12:08.920 huh no what are you doing ladies put here no you can't do that here sit normally sit normally

09:12:15.240 pull sit normally sit normally scoot in oh my um scoot what the here scoot in scoot your

09:12:24.520 fucking skirt down that shit is riding up way too much scoot there oh my god you like that don't

09:12:30.200 you no i don't here let me let placey george we have a few more questions sorry for the delay pasty

09:12:36.920 pasty george donated seventy dollars a lot of the female panelists except chair seven and maybe chair

09:12:44.200 eight on this episode do not have any practical skills values and morals which makes them unqualified for

09:12:51.400 being marriage material you know us very well can can i what skills are you talking about because

09:12:56.760 i'm studying to be in business like what you mean just because i prefer not to do job like that pasty

09:13:04.680 i would never pay to have any feminist woman flown to me what a waste of money he gets

09:13:09.720 didn't you already say that they go diggers um can i sorry add something oh my god no you can't okay

09:13:16.040 what percentage of men do you think are over six feet these are going to be more dating related

09:13:20.200 i only think like like 15 percent of men okay i have no clue guess wild guess no clue

09:13:28.040 10 percent guess guess guess oh i don't know quick six food okay okay sorry food

09:13:34.600 six six percent i feel like it's five percent okay

09:13:37.000 six seven six seven six seven percent

09:13:46.120 i'm sorry i'm brain rotted yeah she's oh dindindon

09:13:54.440 she did her big one i think she's losing it i think we're gonna have to check her into this

09:13:59.240 insane oh my god what the stutter here you next insane asylum um what percentage of men are over six

09:14:06.440 feet i'd say like ten percent was that her answer probably one or less oh um well i don't know the

09:14:13.240 percentage but given that a lot of god damn do you have to you know how like you know the i'll go with

09:14:19.640 15 percent with that explanation in the u.s constitution there was a preamble like the the

09:14:26.360 shit before the constitution or whatever the fuck every answer is like well let me just

09:14:32.200 waste 15 seconds just saying some irrelevant shit

09:14:37.320 it's 50 it's about 15 percent oh holy shit i'm right here lady don't

09:14:41.800 fucking scream goddamn holy fuck i'm dying over here what percent what percent of men make at least

09:14:47.960 one million dollars a year um a little closer to the i would say like eight percent okay eight

09:14:54.200 percent wait what is one percent bro shut three percent shut up maybe saudi arabia had it

09:15:00.680 fucking right goddamn just let people you'll get your turn i didn't hear that question i was asking

09:15:08.920 about the question i wasn't broken you were talking over him ears goddamn let my home girl my caucasian

09:15:16.360 talk wait sorry what did you say oh like three percent three percent uh what was the question

09:15:23.480 again you're killing me here guys come on help me help you get you out we got off track i i forgot

09:15:29.720 what percent of men make at least one million dollars a year two percent two percent one percent one

09:15:34.760 one percent you're just fucking grunting

09:15:42.200 we've we fucking lost her okay what about you uh two percent it's better content if you answer but

09:15:48.520 i'll say five okay what about you what's that one it's it's uh guys it's it's less than one percent uh

09:15:54.440 what percent uh what percent of million a year what percent of men have yachts

09:16:05.480 i would i would say like one percent one percent okay isabel what what percent of men have yachts um one

09:16:14.120 percent okay uh two guys just quick give me quick quick quick quick two percent two percent less than one

09:16:22.120 one percent go go go go i don't know the question she's not gonna go what percent of men have yachts

09:16:29.960 zero okay good answer less than one percent yeah it's less than one into the mic please okay

09:16:37.080 uh do any of you keep a list of all the men you've been with like on your phone do you have like okay

09:16:41.560 what was the answer what do you mean by it's way less than one percent way less than one percent i'll

09:16:46.040 know the exact percentage um do any of you keep a list of all the men you've been with like on your

09:16:50.760 phone like what do you mean like like on your phone yeah yeah like a physical list no like on

09:16:56.680 your phone i don't need to because i'm so pure and tight i don't need to i know all the names

09:17:02.360 i think it's time to go home bro it's too too late and the hormones are acting up apparently like

09:17:06.680 the testosterone getting weird testosterone blockers uh okay uh nobody has the list okay um does anybody

09:17:16.120 here have a roster or have you ever had a roster no never had a roster oh like people aren't like

09:17:22.440 dating multiple people at the same time uh okay um have you ever slept with someone the same day you

09:17:29.080 met them yes okay hey no judgment i've i've done it i've done it uh same day 24 hours same day you met

09:17:38.760 them really yeah it pisses me off if you ask me wait you finish i'll drop you wait you finish the

09:17:44.760 sentence really yeah no no you finish the sentence really no nigga no there you go really no you okay

09:17:53.640 but i don't i'm not finished i don't get it have you ever have you ever slept with someone the same

09:17:57.240 day you met them no no no okay uh anyone here ever had a actually really quick uh how quick was it

09:18:06.680 how quick was like for example like you you met somebody i've talked to them and then it was like

09:18:12.280 five hours later no i mean talk to them i would talk to them for like weeks it's never been like

09:18:17.400 random we had a girl on the show last week and again no judgment but she was like okay i met him

09:18:23.880 on tinder i went to his house and then pretty much 30 minutes after walking through his door we were

09:18:28.760 having sex you know yeah yeah it was like but it's usually like i talked to them first like it was

09:18:34.200 like a talking couple hours yeah okay uh quickest quickest quickest time you from from meet to hookup

09:18:45.160 i don't remember but it was a couple dates okay couple dates i would argue with my husband it was

09:18:50.040 like after date number two okay what about you quickest hookup a couple weeks couple weeks

09:18:59.080 kamehameha

09:19:04.440 i'd say like a month okay did you answer this okay um date number by the way i got your burrito without

09:19:13.080 beans so um okay have you oh anyone ever had a threesome yes yeah yeah yes more than that more than

09:19:19.960 the threesome more than a threesome yeah like a foursome oh no just just a threesome um have you had more

09:19:25.480 more than one no okay threesome threesome foursome more than the foursome orgy threesome

09:19:34.600 threesome threesome threesome no no threesome okay i've never had a threesome

09:19:40.280 i don't believe you

09:19:43.000 why i only like to disappoint one woman at a time

09:19:46.360 are you setting low standards for yourself how about a man and a woman i'm a one girl kind of

09:19:53.800 guy you know what i mean um you said disappoint though i know it's a joke um has anyone here had

09:19:58.600 a ho phase define ho phase uh sleeping with

09:20:05.160 multiple people in relatively rapid succession lauren finding myself a ho phase a ho phase

09:20:16.520 kamehameha over there she had a ho phase in oahu shit she was known on waikiki she was the waikiki

09:20:23.880 i was literally like six okay well oh i didn't remember what time you moved from hawaii okay you

09:20:32.200 went back there to visit a week ago or some shit um okay uh has anyone here ever hooked up with two

09:20:38.200 guys in a 24-hour period no kamehameha your silence is telling um okay are men the problem

09:20:47.400 no i think it's both both both the problem filipina nicks are men the problem

09:20:56.600 nicks what the fuck hey say that shit with your chest

09:21:01.320 say with your chest i know how you really feel after the podcast she's gonna be

09:21:06.360 fucking dropping bombs man man fuck man fuck these hoes

09:21:12.840 she's gonna be eating that taco bell like yo

09:21:14.760 fuck you ryan fuck this bitch thanks for the burrito but

09:21:17.880 fuck you okay i would say i'm not the problem except for you whoa

09:21:22.520 yo hey that's oh hey come on i know i know you'd like to get freaky when you're getting down with

09:21:28.200 a guy you you like to degrade guys in the bedroom but like you know you gotta keep that private okay

09:21:33.240 keep it to yourself okay i'm not trying to king shame you if you're into that maybe just a little

09:21:39.080 bit okay do men suck no

09:21:45.480 nobody okay all right come on do men suck come on hey what do they suck do they what do they did you

09:21:52.600 just say what do they say this girl's getting a lot excited here hey 10 years of celibacy that'll

09:21:57.240 do that women men suck but so do women men suck but so do women men suck but so do women if i would

09:22:07.000 am i'm being completely honest women almost suck more than men

09:22:14.360 women yeah yeah it'd be on another level it'd be on a whole nother level you're

09:22:19.400 bi right yeah well it's actual question what with the women do you have a different like do women

09:22:26.040 do you go 50 50 with women yeah that's you that's okay i feel like that's a conversation for another

09:22:30.360 day but yeah like yeah yeah we don't get too detailed but yeah i mean it just like i said i

09:22:35.720 feel like every relationship depends it depends on like what they need more in that moment in time

09:22:40.120 do they need to cover the babysitter i kind of feel like i my ex did cover the babysitter when we went

09:22:46.280 out but i also like bought her dinner and bought her flowers and things like that so you know what

09:22:50.440 i mean like when i'm in a relationship with someone well we weren't like well whatever we were hooking

09:22:54.360 up but i do like also take care of my partner just like on the dl uh-huh like you live you live

09:23:02.200 where would you live again you just moved to la right um no i've been on and off living in la

09:23:06.200 but i was in austin for three years question were you just like just just between us like were you

09:23:12.760 just like running through houston you said austin were you just like running through no these austin

09:23:19.480 hood rats no why the austin are so gentlemen oh no not the i've only had one because i feel like

09:23:26.360 you got a game for chicks like you could run through some chicks you know um like you have

09:23:32.440 a roster of girls just running through these hood rats yeah i mean i feel like

09:23:36.760 like yeah we will both match you what sorry um okay uh are men trash

09:23:46.520 hey answer the question i just got you a fucking do you know how much i spent on that burrito

09:23:51.080 how many hours of work i'm so sorry here do i have to do his laundry now guys actually i do need do you

09:23:56.200 want to you no okay um but you want to hit a bow really quick just here okay how about this instead

09:24:10.920 i'm scared okay if if you refuse to answer a question you have to wear the the

09:24:17.400 put that on okay and then um can i have you spin the helicopter on top okay if you skip a question

09:24:24.600 you get a punishment okay whose head has been in that yeah that's what i'm wondering

09:24:31.560 okay candace owens actually wore that does it smell

09:24:34.520 yes i remember that hey okay uh if you could uh i think this is the last question oh my goodness

09:24:43.160 uh if you could snap your finger and all men disappeared and to be fair let's not make you a

09:24:51.160 mass murderer they just get sent to an island and they gotta like kick it there for the rest of

09:24:55.640 their life it's like attack on titan or some shit there's fucking titans maybe having the time of

09:24:59.240 their lives and women could reproduce without men would you do it no would you do it

09:25:07.240 can anybody tell me what she just said i couldn't understand i didn't understand the words some gay

09:25:28.200 shit some gay shit what i said was gay exactly it was some gay shit oh it was literally yeah yeah

09:25:36.200 i thought i thought you were being a bit no no she was saying some gay that's kind of homophobic

09:25:42.120 a little bit i mean come on that was a little i would love to have just women around me that sounds

09:25:46.120 fun like and i've always said that we can all get together next you snap your finger do you do it

09:25:51.160 live on my lesbian fantasies absolutely i'm right there with you uh kamehameha i can't even reproduce so

09:25:57.160 right okay maybe maybe you'll get your cock working one day we'll get it working all right

09:26:04.920 uh what about you um unfortunately you can't get a man pregnant well but but she can get him boy

09:26:11.800 pregnant get this girl some viagra she'll be pumping out babies any second uh what about what about you

09:26:17.400 uh no uh no what about you no okay i'm pretty sure that's it any fine thoughts from anybody you didn't

09:26:23.800 ask me i i just this that you did you didn't know you just like you asked him then you move

09:26:30.680 bye guys bye hold on hold on hold on i gotta do the outro um okay uh let me just check let me just

09:26:38.520 check on the status yeah what's the eta oh my god what happened they're close i i hit submit

09:26:48.040 it i didn't you rage baited us he's a liar no look look look i can't i thought it went through

09:26:56.840 it's okay i'm a fucking idiot slide us a 10 we'll call it even all right well do it again do it again

09:27:02.120 unfortunately there's just the food that we have back there um wow i have half a promise i have half

09:27:08.360 of a like let's wrap it up see that's why you're single you'll get us next time though right next time

09:27:13.560 i'll get it say swear say swear if even if you guys come on different episodes i will hook you

09:27:19.880 up food wise and i'm gonna bring up this clip you can yeah yeah i'm a man of my word i will hook if

09:27:26.040 you guys come back maybe you won't but if you if you do come back i will i will uh i'll give you guys

09:27:32.520 the hook up food wise i'll get you'll get dessert you'll get whatever okay okay uh nick are we forgetting

09:27:38.040 anything are we good uh we're gonna reach out yes thank you okay guys uh really quick if you're

09:27:44.760 watching wow we still have 1200 viewers on twitch that's dope really quick drop us a prime sub i

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09:28:23.080 in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to you guys it was a fun panel you

09:28:27.720 guys were fun you guys were a blast uh i mean except for you um i thought success for me i could

09:28:34.840 come here man but uh i'll make it up to you oh come down there come come down there getting him

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09:29:18.040 some fun fun convo so you guys are dope and i i will honor the food offer so if you guys come back

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Whatever Podcast - December 22, 2025

She HIDES Being TRÂNS？! Single Mom DEMANDS Men Pay For Babysitter？! MlSANDRlST？! ｜ Dating Talk 274

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Hate Speech Sentences

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