Single Mom Wants 6ft Man Who Makes $500k？! She INSULTS Brian？! Andrew Wilson! ｜ Dating Talk #166
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6 hours and 53 minutes
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195.9192
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414
Summary
In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we have a special guest on the show, Angel, a sex worker and content creator from the Santa Barbara community. We talk about the passing of a beloved member of the community, Blessed the Weed Jesus, and what it means to honor his memory with a vigil in memory of him.
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reflect the views of the whatever channel now before i have the guests introduce themselves
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it's come to my attention that someone dear to the santa barbara community has uh has unfortunately
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passed away recently uh i don't know if you guys are familiar back in the og whatever days
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we had a pretty viral moment with one weed jesus
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now you maybe saw this that's me this is like 10 years old at this point fortunately his name's
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blessed the asian weed jesus back there nick go ahead and play it just to and you might be able to zoom
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in one potentially yeah there you go okay can you click that thing to hide the nick
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you'd probably click there okay and then you know boom scroll down just to lower it yeah that's fine
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and uh we can't play the audio because we'll get a probably get a copyright strike here on youtube
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but this clip went viral almost a decade ago i think it's actually been exactly a decade in any case
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uh super viral moment this guy is a staple of the santa barbara community he's you'll always spot him
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he gives people free i'm not a fan of uh marijuana but he just give them free shit uh apparently he's
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extremely wealthy his name was blessed at least that's what he went by and unfortunately recently
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he passed away so we got a candle here wanted to do a little vigil for blessed uh so rest in peace
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rest right rest in peace rest in peace um anyways so with that said without further ado we're going to
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have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead
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okay um my name is angel i'm 23 um i'm from virginia and i'm a i guess sex worker slash content creator
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so when you say sex worker what do you mean like fansly twitter you do you do like of or uh fansly
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it's kind of like oh okay yeah and do you do solo content bg content what are we talking about
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rated r like boy girl girl boy girl bb g b b b b b b b g no no no that's too much okay and have you
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done escorting too i did a couple times when i was 18 but i didn't i didn't like it so you didn't like
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it yeah and so you let's see what else um no i think that's it all right what about you
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my name is ellie i'm 25 i'm from santa barbara and i am a nanny right now all right welcome
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i am vera um i'm 25 years old i am from new york city and i'm a content creator too
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um i make uh boy girl content on twitter just on twitter uh twitter loyal fans um stuff like that
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yeah okay and you're also in a forensic scientist yes i am majoring in forensics right now i'm trying
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to get my master's okay and um hold on one sec uh you also do escorting is that correct yes sir
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okay how long have you been doing that um big labia outie disrespect to donated 69 dollars
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that's what's up all right big labia outie i don't like the name but uh thank you for that
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uh and you so you do escorting yes how long how long have you been doing that uh six years
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okay and then you're so what what does it mean to escort i mean uh i guess i just charge for time
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i guess you know i mean that's all i can really say about that and people are able to like book you
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through a website or uh yeah something like that or they just do it directly through dms how many
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clients would you say you see per week i know how much per month but per week every couple weeks
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if you want to average one at a time like i maybe one or two i'm very like picky do you sleep with
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them too sometimes wait what does escorting mean i'm so sorry it's kind of like a high end
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basically full service i'm sorry full service like sex work oh yeah like prostitution interesting
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i've never heard of it's a nice way to say yeah yeah or strumpet you got the strumpet where's the
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strumpet show us the strumpet nick i thought escorting we're repopularizing the term strumpet
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there she's in a video game she made a cameo wait go ahead i thought escorting meant waitressing
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no wait what no i've never heard of that word before actually wait you're not familiar with
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i've never heard of that word in my life like genuinely like actually no it's okay wait so
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but but you said you thought it was waitressing because it sounds like something like a restaurant
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i don't know like yeah all right it's supposed to be well there's another version of it like
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supporting people in like yeah that's like hotel like hospitality low-key now i was it's hospitality
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for sure yeah oh now do some of you for those of you who have actually wait i'm gonna come back to
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you really quick uh some of you included pronouns in your instagram bio what are your pronouns um she
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her she her she her they them they them do you ever go by she or you just i do sometimes but i mean i
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know some people don't really understand the whole you know pronouns thing so it's like i can't tell them
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what to do so you're not are you non-binary or yes okay do you have like a more specific because i
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know there's different categorizations no it's good you can just she her they them it's whatever they
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them okay yeah all right and there was uh some some people seem to i i don't know if this was on
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twitter we did a little twitter background here and you you're or no this is actually just in your
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instagram you say you're east asian yes i am white and asian my dad is asian my mom is white
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and your dad's like he's uh like 50 or 50 100 korean actually yes he is korean he's 100 korean yes
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okay were you were you born just straight like my mom were you born here in um i was born in south
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korea i moved to alabama when i was four and then i moved to atlanta when i was 13 and after that i
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moved to new york city when i was 18 okay do you speak uh korean no not at all wait so you moved
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when you when you're three is that what you said four you moved okay was your mom in the military
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no south korea no she just went to go visit basically wait you're so your dad's the korean
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one your mom's the white one yeah she's just good for him good for him okay uh did you ever get
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questioned on that a lot actually very very often because um yeah you're uh pretty white
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you got blue eyes what's your natural hair color i'm actually a redhead because she's a redhead
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i look nothing like him and that's what's crazy other than like nose eye shape and like lips in
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general like he has no lips do your parents know what you do yes okay both of them my whole family
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what do they think of it they don't care they say i'm 25 i'm grown fat bastard gloctavius donated
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69 dollars gloctavius get in my belly that's i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back
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baby back ribs i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs chili is baby back ribs
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what what is going on okay thank you uh okay what about you oh hey y'all i'm light bright i'm in
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my early 20s i'm a behavioral therapist slash content creator and yeah i go up when you say
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early when you say early 20s can we get a specific age all right y'all i'm 25 i just turned 25 there we
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go i'm an aries okay so mid 20s okay you're an aries yeah okay um and so you're where are you from
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um i'm from la la la what part los angeles what part yeah like south la south la yeah my name is
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tara i'm 23 i'm a freelancer and i'm from ontario canada yes welcome what about you what's up
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my name boss lady i'm from watts and i'm 24 i wasn't even gonna say my my age for real
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i was gonna say 20 something 20 something okay but yeah um i'm an artist artist yeah you do uh you're
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a rapper right we should react can we react to one of your rap videos yeah i can
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we'll be able to find is it it's just linked right in your instagram right yeah the link right
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in my bio or nick i'll try to find it actually let me see if i can find it i got it and so you're
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from uh watts california that's is that south yeah south central central okay uh nick we're gonna and
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it's cool if we yeah it's no problem because i don't know sometimes there's like copyright stuff
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or whatever sure yeah the song that's in my bio is our intro song me and my best friend we just
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drop well we'll listen to 30 seconds of it nick i put it in the private chat uh and then did you
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say what you uh do for work yeah i'm a behavioral therapist slash content creator slash model gotcha
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and what do you um for content creation what are you doing um so on tiktok i like dance and do like
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dance challenges no only fans though right no only fans and on instagram i strictly model fashion
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that's okay all right got it oh valdev donated 69 dollars and 69 cents screw young and fertile
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cool bassist raven haired elders is the new meta sign me up son cara are you trying to start a family
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in the u.s because i de-call you mommy wait which one's cara i think he meant tara oh because she's
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from canada oh okay are you trying to start a family fat bastard gloctavius donated 69 dollars
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get in my belly i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back baby back okay ribs i want my baby
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back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs julius baby back ribs gloctavius is kind of wild
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that's wild okay thank you man appreciate it big labia outie disrespected donated 69 dollars again
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that's what it sounds that's good did you want to respond to the
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you trying to start family because he'd call you mommy with somebody who calls me young and fertile
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okay yeah all right good to know good to know uh what about you yes um my name is erica i was
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originally born in california but i'm a military rat and grew up all over i am 37 years old and i'm a
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cosmetologist and an independent contractor so what i do for independent contracting is i travel trade
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shows and fairs and i sell eyebrows hey you sell eyebrows i sell eyebrows i love that like you do
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tint no it's um a 24-hour brow powder that stays on without sweating smearing and smudging and i beg
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women i don't really beg them i just say hey let me show you an easier and better way because what
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you're doing is not good did you create this no i work for a company all right you have the video
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i'm right there i'm turned looking at her on the right y'all gotta go a little bit
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oh so i should skip into it no just play it play it just play it just play it just play from
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good time fun time oh you're in it too yeah okay it's it's it's it's your boy dj trey it's my best
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friend right here let's go who do it better than me baby i'm a top pitch straight out
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you know the homie shooting all six i'm blind to the bullshit i've been on the mission get this
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money and move quick y'all got me spitting this hot shit hope you understand because i ain't
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doing no transmit put it on demand niggas know what i'm on shit ain't no sending message ain't no
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calling my phone i put my right hand up then i swing it to the left and hit that billy rock
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all right all right there you go yeah i love it can we get i gotta play the uh the um the um the
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chorus skip it up just a little bit i know it got a little a little chunky all right we'll play the
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chorus yeah right there right there like you almost yeah play right there no no no rewind
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you went forward just right there yep right there is this it right here yep
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did you write this you can pause it wait okay so can you
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translate for me it's it's bitch touch your toes with it yeah what what what is with it
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touch your toes when you you feel me like you hear not be like bend over shake your
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touch your toes with it they say oh but what what is with it
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with it like with what is it with your hands with six nine six nine blah blah blah 69
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that trap was trash they're roasting they're roasting
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we ain't tripping as long as that dough coming in so you can speak
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okay what they say damn black girl in the middle what fine as hell oh i know that's right baby thank
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you yeah all i seen was black girl in the middle and i was gonna see but anyway yeah touch your toes
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with it whatever you got going on in the back of there you feel me i feel i feel you see me when
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they're twerking i feel yeah he donated sixty nine dollars nice rapping
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i appreciate are we gonna get a little freestyle right now what do you think
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oh wait hold on one sec there's another one coming in but then we'll get a little
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uh okay thank you crab 90 nice rapping i like the beat did that not
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oh okay i was just delayed killer of cereal donated 69
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dude killer of cereal good to see you man thank you
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unwrapping the rapper through rapidly repetitive reactionary recordings relishing relinquishing
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relevance through retroactive and radioactive readings
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we got all you gotta do is hit that link in my bio then you'll figure it out baby
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some v that's like some v for v for vendetta alliteration
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he like big labia he cannot lie donated sixty nine dollars
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what the ladies would you date brian on one hand he is tall six ft one blue eyes rich
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sometimes funny successful but he has a dead body probably autistic what has a weird liking
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for big labia outies that part's true that's not true come on how you gonna throw me under
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the bus like that uh wait you know you know what we'll uh what uh here well we'll do it at at the uh
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relationship status part so uh do would they date me okay um oh freestyle let's hear freestyle real
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quick yeah do we can somebody give her i i i i'm i can't do a beat i can't be boss
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she don't need no beat somebody somebody do a beat
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lol paladins donated sixty nine dollars it's good better than the dumpster fire i was expecting
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now were you doing sign language during that video like are you are you like a deaf do you are you
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familiar with our neighborhood what's that we was throwing up our neighborhood what's that
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deuce line oh okay so it's like a piece but you put your thumb up okay okay yeah sorry i listen to
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pearl jam so i don't i don't know okay let's let's get a freestyle really quick
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how about we give you a topic or fuck no no she's got this do a beat do a beat do a beat do a beat
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or something someone give her a beat if y'all don't know behind freestyling
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no we don't slam oh we can't do no beats okay can we do the freestyle last can we do the freestyle last
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last let's do it last last last oh last damn i sound country or something sorry i'm a little bit
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i'm hard of hearing um here we'll come back to we'll come back okay what about you oh hi i'm
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natalie um i'm 23 from virginia and i am a mental health case manager all right welcome what about
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you hi my name is natalia chesty i'm 23 years old i'm from new york and i'm a content creator and
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also a salsa dancer salsa dancer okay all right ballroom dancer hey oh oh six thousand nine hundred
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and sixty nine blah blah sixty nine deleted sixty nine dollars here's a beat
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i love how the boys just kind of tried though they tried
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uh do you want to do it to that beat or do you need something better
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you need something better you want to go to the instrumental
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i mean somebody can drop a different beat do acapella girl come on girl do i look like a singer
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i'm a little you know i'm a little i could sing a little bit but i don't be doing too much
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y'all heard me earlier even me like it came out oh my goodness you got it do it drop it
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how about you start rap your song and then you like fit like continue it with freestyle
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that's what you want me to do yeah go ahead girl
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q what about you um the q pill 31 behavioral sciences certified relationship coach youtuber
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influencer author all right good to have you back man so we're gonna go around the table once more
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what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single situationship relationship talking
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stage friends with benefits relationship married polycule sex cults whatever it may be harem if you're
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single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead
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um i'm single and um actually it's very fresh i'm not gonna lie maybe like a couple days
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and um what was the last question sorry uh longest relationship uh i say about over two years a little
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over two years two years okay and the most recent relationship you said three days something ended
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uh how long was that relationship it was my the two years it was the two-year one have you well have you guys been on and off again no
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we was inseparable from the first moment that we okay so this is it's over over yeah okay who ended it
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i did why um i was taking care of the bills i'll take care of the kids and i was just over it
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kids oh do you do you have kids with the guy yes okay so he's the he's the bio father of my youngest yes
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of your youngest okay gmd jim donated sixty nine dollars
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don't be a minister south central while drinking your juice in the hood
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it's a movie that's funny it's a movie okay all right drinking my juice like a menace yeah they're
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talking about that i don't know that's right they don't want to go peep the video it's cool
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okay drinking on that you know that drink so you have how many kids just two just two yeah so and
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so uh the most the oldest one is a different dad different dad and your youngest is with
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the guy you were dating as of three days ago yes you were dating him for two years but you guys split
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up yeah okay and uh why did you break up again because i was taking care of like the bills the
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house the kids everything so yeah got it six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine blah blah
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blah 69 donated 69 dollars hey hey that's not fair give that horse back its hair brian with all these
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hair hats on the panel there's a bald ass horse out there somewhere freezing its ass off
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i don't know it's summertime right now so it's probably temperature wise the horse is probably
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doing fine thank you though appreciate it uh-oh nickelodeon donated 69 dollars she can't come
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up with two bars on the spot don't tell me you actually paid a ghost writer for that
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shit only thing you should be rapping is your career unfortunately baby i do what i want and i do
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what i please okay just like that two bars and i keep on sending that dough so you could keep
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talking more shit though thank you that kind of right and so but you do you do content right yeah
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so like your partner were you shooting content with him yes and but you weren't were you shooting
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stuff with other men too no i know okay yeah lol paladins donated 69 dollars
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with that many baby daddies she's halfway to rachel wilson speaking of speaking of the wilson's
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uh we're andrew i think might do uh we might call in the reinforcements he might uh do a little
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calling later on during the show so stay tuned for that okay so uh were you guys living together yes
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still living together yeah has there been a rebound no no rebound yet three days no i mean in order to get
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over the last guy you have to get under the next no i'm not i'm not like that what's the longest time
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they say i'm i'm i'm just saying they just broke up and they living in the same house so that's kind of
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i'm not like that though like i'm i'm ready to just heal and move on yeah she's wholesome
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yeah wholesome yeah yeah do you think he already moved on from you uh no definitely not really
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never gonna get over me never take my wholesome remark back oh uh what about you um i am in the
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talking stage okay right now talking stage talking stage um longest relationship was probably three
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and a half years three and a half years i would say yes all right hold on the last bit of that so
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you're currently in the talking stage how long have you been talking to this individual fairly
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fresh it's about a month in fairly fresh in your pre-show notes you said you promise that you have
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a train wreck of a dating life to talk about sure do you said uh well your relationship status you
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you said you're single but dating around so that's i'm assuming since then it's now in the talking stage yes
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ratchet hood rats donated 69 dollars you let him hit it raw you didn't have second
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by the way the tts is gonna be a single mom now you're a single mom you said i'm gonna have his
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kids don't care if he's here or not now you're a single mom i take care of my kids though i take
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care of my kids so oh that matters by the way the tts is gonna roast everybody on the panel don't
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take it personally uh thank you man appreciate it uh so you're in a talking stage is it with a uh
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what's your orientation uh labia lives matter donated 69 dollars hey brian love the podcast
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question for everyone on the panel who would date a man slash women who works a blue collar 50 plus
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hours a week nowadays people think 200k a year is average and that is false okay so who on the panel
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would date a man or i suppose woman who works a blue collar 50 plus hour week job just show of
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hands what's what i currently do what's blue collar um so blue collar is construction workers cops emts
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first responders military men men that actually work with their hands come build someone here oh why
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wouldn't i of course i would okay there you go all right uh orientation um bisexual okay now you said
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that you accidentally got into a long-term thruple relationship after a blacked-out hookup with two
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engaged women absolutely girly so is a so they were a lesbian couple i'm assuming yes and they were engaged
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to get married pretty much and then it became a three-way thruple yep how long did you date them
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that was the three and a half years that was the three that was okay can i ask you a question
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are they still engaged or married now everything you ruined it
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they wanted you though that's their fault great thank you how does that work don't you
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get no she didn't ruin it they wanted to explore their options and they got blamed i love you
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how does that work doesn't someone get jealous if you're insecure yes okay but if you're
00:29:57.520
pretty i don't consider that insecurity i consider that literally normal somebody got
00:30:02.560
sharing your partner somebody got bored and said no we need her they invited her she was getting all
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the shine and it corrupted everything yeah that's not her fault the basic sum of it they invited her
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that's crazy are you currently uh the talking stage is it a man or a woman it is a woman as a woman
00:30:22.480
and you said you're bi so have you you've dated some men psycho donated sixty nine dollars i'll start
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off the brian roast and say you are a strange kind of freak for being into wizard sleeves i only date
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women with audis what is wizard sleeves uh like a big labia oh you like audis i'm so disturbed like
00:30:46.960
big labia matter why are you disturbed no it's i don't no no none of that but hey look women have
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penis size preferences i got labor preference right so you like outie belly button no what no no
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not outie clicks it's the lips it's the lips oh he like what he like period there you go thank you for
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the co-sign though yeah right you're you date women do you have a preference no on any of our
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grounders no you don't have a preference i don't you never mind okay most girls that take steroids
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they have outies that's why i'm trying to find me a bodybuilder bro i'm trying to date like a
00:31:29.120
women take steroids you know what i mean they do steroids for real yeah that makes the clip big i think
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it makes it like it makes it hang out like a penis why do you i'll date a big girl too
00:31:38.320
sign me up okay anyways moving on uh so you've dated some men and two okay but currently you're in
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a talking stage with a woman yes all right what about you i'm single technically i'm in the
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talking stage kinda ish situationship thing going on um i was married to a trick actually for three
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years and a man who pays girls basically a what a what a pimp is that outside not a pimp not a pimp no
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like i mean it don't have to be it doesn't have to be that though it can be like just a man who
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pays like a pimp doesn't pay what doesn't he pay his the women bring him them the money and then he
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pays them out what are you talking about which is a trick no no no a trick and a pimp is two different
00:32:31.600
things a trick is who every day look a trick is who pay you yeah a pimp is who take your money so
00:32:39.440
you dated a man like a sugar daddy kinda like a sugar daddy it's a sugar daddy yeah but basically
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we're not together anymore clearly um it was a three-year thing he was a cheater basically but um
00:32:53.120
yeah i had his kids too and yeah oh so you have kids yes how many three three from the same guy right
00:33:01.120
yes okay all right three three kids um and longest relationship three years three years okay three
00:33:08.720
years kids how old are the kids uh five four and one and a half okay got it uh why did the relationship
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and the three-year ones the one with the were you guys married five four one and a half um yes we were
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me we did get an enormous killer of cereal donated 69 dollars pick six feet one inch 180k a year fit
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eight inches pp but has a horrible world outlook and negative attitude in general law five feet two
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inches 30k a year chubby four pp but has a positive outlook and uses confidence and swagger okay uh raise
00:33:50.800
your hands for guy number one i don't know what you want the six foot man the six foot one man that
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has a huge pp and makes 100k a year do you want the short man that makes but he has the tall one is
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very negative in life but the short man that makes 30 grand a year is very positive in life and he's very
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uplifting and i'll take i'm going for money yeah same why don't you pick one i'm confused why money
00:34:17.040
matters wait wait some guys i said i will learn to love somebody yeah six foot one paladins donated
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100 how does a trick cheat does that mean he started paying another woman no he actually turned into a
00:34:33.520
femboy and yes watch what turned gay and he well he liked both and he turned into a femboy and he
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started wearing skirts and stuff like that like your baby daddy what and i got very uncomfortable
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but it's like only because he didn't tell me this beforehand like you know we had met in high school
00:34:57.840
and stuff like that but yeah um he cheated because he was going after just i mean other people
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like so he was going after men he was going after both but yes mainly men yes huh who broke up with
00:35:11.360
who i ended it i made him leave basically one weekend i said you're out of my house wait question
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were you escorting prior to meeting him no i was just doing online content before that were you escorting
00:35:22.880
while you were with him uh i did once or twice but i stopped but it was like i mean when you allow
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somebody to do something it's like oh he let yeah he let me do it he was fine with you like sleeping
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with other men of course she was because then he was thinking about the money he didn't have a job
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he didn't have no job like you know i was paying all my bills and stuff he wasn't paying like are you
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okay girl i'm so sorry i wouldn't want to cry the fuck it was terrible like i know it might be like a
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laughing matter now but god damn hell no that would be his ass he would have thought twice he would
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have thought twice after wearing a fucking skirt around me girl i'm so sorry that just pissed me
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off for you do you need revenge you know what's right he lives in wisconsin and stuff with this
00:36:06.720
girl who hexes furbies like what we used to have as kids y'all know what furbies are right
00:36:11.120
furbies she says she curses and hexes them and sends them to people basically who's she
00:36:15.920
his new fiancee who he got together right after he left my house wait he has a fiancee
00:36:22.320
and it's a woman psycho donated 69 dollars like both you put out the 304 signal in the sky for
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this panel didn't you brian oh wait so we use strumpet over here thank you psycho appreciate it
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strong he was cheating on you trump it signal my life is terrible so he was cheating on you
00:36:40.800
no no it's okay like how are you doing now though am i going to ask questions yeah how are you doing
00:36:46.320
now like besides all that like how are you doing good it's just me and my girls now and we're chilling
00:36:53.360
um every day i live in new york city so it's something every day it's fun yes let me now that you're
00:36:59.440
dating and you're never mind donated 69 my sprinkler goes like this t st st st st st st st st man
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Ladies, why do you think black women and Asian men are statistically least desirable in the dating marketplace?
00:37:55.960
P.S. The bear in the woods let me know he is full.
00:38:00.640
We have another one that's about to come in, though, just after that.
00:38:13.060
I remember on a different podcast stream you said you dislike going down on women but really like large labia.
00:38:36.200
I want her to come before I do, preferably multiple times if possible.
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I haven't gone down on a girl since the Bush administration.
00:39:31.720
What if you're laying down and she can't and just sat on your face?
00:39:52.420
Now that you're back in the dating scene, how quick are you going to introduce these new guys
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I don't believe in that, so I'm sorry, but you're not a stepdad.
00:40:06.640
So, you can't be a dad because you're a mom, and you can only be a mom, but are you going
00:40:12.320
to find a good man to teach your children how to be treated like a man?
00:40:21.260
Because it took me almost a year for my ex to meet my children.
00:40:23.960
No, yeah, I feel like that's a good time frame as far as like, because my daughter,
00:40:27.780
So, she knows like, she's very conscious of everything.
00:40:29.960
So, if she sees how a man is treating me, she's not going to like that.
00:40:37.180
My oldest daughter will repeat anything you say.
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Girl, all I got to say is, remember how you was raised.
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And that's how you lean off with your children.
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Don't worry about showing them about no niggas.
00:40:57.260
Like, at the end of the day, bro, let me just say something.
00:40:59.820
At the end of the day, if your daughters, because you got daughters, you ain't got no sons.
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So, if your daughters see you doing what you got to do as a woman by yourself and no man in the house, they're going to feel like they ain't really got to have one.
00:41:11.880
So, on your own timing, when you feel like it's right to bring a man around your daughters, do that.
00:41:16.200
Don't have multiple niggas around your daughters.
00:41:19.140
Just like, and don't ever feel like you got to wonder when you're going to have that man to be around your kids to show them what a man's supposed to be like.
00:41:26.380
Because if they're seeing their mama being independent and being strong and getting through it, and when they get older and you're able to talk to them about what you went through,
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A man don't got nothing to do with being a daughter, and we all know that.
00:41:41.940
But when we see, if you see your mom coming in the house with different niggas, we going to do the same thing.
00:41:46.400
So, just respectfully, do everything on your own timing.
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Shit happens for a reason, but do everything on your own timing.
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Because, first of all, a nigga with a skirt wearing a skirt with a blue meme.
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But, like, if it was mine, I would just, you know, let's have a one-on-one conversation.
00:42:19.520
Do you ladies have, did you guys grow up with a positive father figure at home?
00:42:31.460
Like, okay, look, can we just ask a quick, can I ask a quick question?
00:42:36.220
Like, I don't have no disrespect towards y'all because everybody grew up a different way.
00:42:41.780
Like, what, like, because I know it's not daddy issues, so is it relationship issues that made
00:42:51.900
I like anything to do with being my off time from once my kids go to sleep, you know, I'm
00:43:08.560
So, you're fun and you're there for your kids, but you go out at night and you party like crazy.
00:43:14.080
So, when you come home, are you waking up to your children hungover?
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Or are you just sleeping and letting them be on a TV?
00:43:25.020
Do you smoke a lot to the point where it affects your children?
00:43:32.500
My mama, my people smoke weed and I don't smoke a lick of weed.
00:43:39.760
I was really asking the question, like, what made y'all lead into escorting?
00:43:47.000
Can I just, I want you to answer first and then second.
00:43:54.160
So, I just want to know, like, what kind of lead, it don't have to get too emotional.
00:43:57.440
Like, what just made your mindset, like, oh, this is okay to do.
00:44:01.500
Because I see the memes and I've seen the different posts.
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Like, I swear Instagram and social media can make it seem like it's so, like, respectful.
00:44:08.500
Yeah, like, oh, you know, I got my daddy and I got this and I got that.
00:44:13.000
But, like, you know, like, is that how you feel?
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Like, whatever I want you to pay me, that's what you need to do.
00:44:24.560
I just do online and I record with whoever I'm dating at the time or situation or whatever.
00:44:30.220
But I did it because I didn't have nobody to watch my older daughter.
00:44:33.500
So, I found a job that I could stay home and provide.
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Like, just that person, strictly that person type situation.
00:44:51.280
Are you boyfriend, girlfriend? Is there a title?
00:45:08.040
I've been single for eight months and my longest relationship is, like, two years around.
00:45:30.660
I've been single for a cool minute, but my longest relationship is two and a half years.
00:45:44.420
I mean, like, I've been, like, you know, conversating, but I haven't took anything serious after that.
00:45:50.640
But maybe you've had a couple short-term things.
00:45:53.800
I'm, like, kind of owning off with one person, but then I'm, like, browsing them.
00:46:15.320
He still plays a very predominant active role in not just my son's life, but my daughter's life.
00:46:22.840
So, technically, he says I'm single, and I just, I'm using this time to heal.
00:46:32.320
I'm not really, I'm not a very promiscuous person.
00:46:39.820
And it's not, like, it's not the toxic alpha that I like.
00:46:46.140
It's the, the man that likes to provide stability of emotion.
00:46:53.700
How long have you, how long has it been complicated slash single?
00:47:01.020
Oh, you have two kids from two separate fathers?
00:47:05.940
I only, well, technically, the third one I had, I took her in.
00:47:13.700
So, you have, of the children that are yours, biologically?
00:47:18.440
He's 16 years older than me, and he was snipped when we got together.
00:47:22.920
The two children you have, are they from the same father?
00:47:26.440
So, you have, just to be, okay, so you're, you have two children, well, three children,
00:47:29.860
but two of the children that are biologically yours, they're both from separate men?
00:47:49.620
And then my youngest daughter was my son's man near me.
00:48:12.160
He's about to graduate high school this year, a year early.
00:48:18.680
And you said, how long has it been, you've been single slash complicated?
00:48:26.120
I'm in a relationship with a blue-collar worker, actually.
00:48:33.060
Can I have you tilt your microphone down just a tad?
00:48:49.800
Um, I am in a situationship and I'm, I mean, technically single, but I'm in a situationship
00:48:56.720
and I've been single for about almost two years now.
00:49:00.480
What do you mean, technically single, but in a situationship?
00:49:13.140
And so, the two, you said you've been single for two years.
00:49:17.860
Was that the two-year relationship that ended almost two years ago?
00:49:35.900
But you've been seeing this guy who you're in a situationship for one year.
00:50:03.400
Like, once a month, but, like, a couple of days.
00:50:05.620
Because I come from New York, so I, like, yeah.
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Ladies, ladies, I promise you have a good excuse.
00:50:20.300
He doesn't, he doesn't, like, I don't want him to pay for it.
00:50:23.060
I fly for free because my best friend works for United Airlines, so I travel for free.
00:50:32.460
Because I knew it was going to be embarrassing until I said the explanation.
00:50:36.920
I think he could spend the money every once in a while.
00:50:47.560
And are you in this one year period that you've been seeing him?
00:51:13.740
Have you attempted to have a title conversation with him?
00:51:29.400
And then he called me up and then wanted to restart things.
00:51:35.380
At any point, did you consider each other boyfriend-girlfriend?
00:52:12.600
Um, I can confidently say he doesn't want to marry me right now and I don't want to marry
00:52:20.060
But would you marry somebody that you're not in love with?
00:52:35.880
Whatever my bank account with my future husband is.
00:52:42.740
You know, you've been dating this guy for a year and neither of you love each other?
00:52:56.020
It's not normal because the way the brain works, you should be feeling compelled to be, you
00:53:04.260
But the thing is, like, also, like, the distance makes things a little bit harder.
00:53:11.060
So, y'all don't really have, y'all don't have any intimacy?
00:53:15.400
Because to me, it's starting to sound like y'all just taking up each other's time.
00:53:26.700
Are you looking to marry someone to date them forever?
00:53:30.840
Don't know what the other option is, but I do know I date to marry.
00:53:32.820
So, if you date to marry, you're statistically proven to end up in a divorce because when
00:53:37.120
you marry someone, you're supposed to date them forever to keep the flame alive.
00:53:47.700
When you're dating to look for somebody just to marry.
00:53:51.600
And you stop dating them, the flame burns out, and then you end up getting divorced.
00:53:58.800
So, you're looking for someone to marry them, to date them forever.
00:54:03.520
So, you literally want to fall in love with this person.
00:54:07.260
So, why are you not being, why are you continuously giving all of your time to this man and not
00:54:15.200
seeking other men if you don't want long distance?
00:54:20.060
I feel like long distance is a little bit hard.
00:54:29.900
Yeah, the guy I'm talking to right now, the situationship.
00:54:53.300
I feel like a lot of girls definitely think that men are capable of cheating in a situation
00:54:59.240
I think that's crazy, but there's really good men out there.
00:55:12.480
Anyway, got to go to work to earn back this money I just donated.
00:55:22.600
Got to go to work and earn back the money I just donated.
00:55:27.000
By the way, Dylan, I'm going to pull your chat back up again because we didn't answer
00:55:38.440
If it was a crime to not go down on a woman and Brian is on trial, you all are the jury panel.
00:55:44.840
How many years should he serve going down on small labial abys?
00:55:56.460
Can y'all imagine being with a man forever and he do not go down on you?
00:56:00.600
Then I would go down on a big lady and be a lover and you won't even need a life with
00:56:11.580
If he got a mouth, he could use it and vice versa.
00:56:13.780
Could you imagine being with a woman your whole life and she didn't...
00:56:26.700
Ironic that you're a big labial lover and you won't eat it.
00:56:29.540
That's why you really got a little smite at you.
00:56:33.680
It's just kind of ironic that you're like a big labial lover, but you don't really love
00:56:46.740
Why do I feel like if a girl went down on you and put her finger in your taint?
00:57:00.760
I feel like if a woman plays with his butthole, he'll go soft.
00:57:05.300
Wait, you're saying if a woman put her finger inside of him, he would go soft?
00:57:52.040
I wouldn't want to date either if I was a relationship coach.
00:57:53.740
Wait, why don't you want to have a relationship right now?
00:57:55.760
Because, well, for one, modern women are a headache.
00:58:02.420
And for me, I'm very analytical, like psychoanalytical.
00:58:10.780
And I basically know how to identify what's going to be problematic and what's going to
00:58:44.880
Rich, sometimes funny, successful, but he has a dead bod, probably autistic, has a weird
00:58:51.040
liking for big labia-outies, and a small teepee.
01:00:45.100
Bro, I think every girl is complicated to handle.
01:00:48.460
I don't know, Brian, but you look good, though.
01:00:50.920
You know, like, we could be like besties, and then you tell me about all the girls you got.
01:00:55.620
Yeah, and then you tell me about all the girls you got, and I just laugh at everybody
01:00:58.500
because they think that they got you, and they don't really got you.
01:01:01.640
And you're just telling me about all the girls you got.
01:01:08.360
The fact that you said you don't go down on women, I would never date you.
01:01:15.300
I should have asked this question before that shit.
01:01:33.240
No, I just don't like the environment that was put onto the room.
01:01:42.580
Like, I wish you shook my head when we met or shook all their hands or something.
01:02:07.940
When people enter someone's workspace or when someone enters someone's building, I don't
01:02:15.520
Like the basic little respect when you meet someone and that wasn't received.
01:02:54.740
I told my boyfriend that I was thinking about doing that when I walked in.
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I expect you guys to get in a single file line.
01:03:15.160
As soon as you get in here, each of you hit a bow.
01:03:37.960
So, to actually address your point, though, that I was, I didn't do the polite thing to
01:03:50.560
You know, there's a lot going on behind the scenes that I have to do.
01:03:56.740
And as my agent, as my proxy, he greeted you on your behalf.
01:04:00.440
Actually, as you guys came around the table, I do believe I greeted all of you when you
01:04:05.640
What ethnicities have you all dated and which has been consistently better for you?
01:04:10.740
Is there an ethnicity you would not date again and why?
01:04:15.760
So, I think as you guys all came to the table, I did a very token greeting.
01:04:20.840
But, I don't know if you just had a very pampered life and have never worked a hard day
01:04:30.440
Brian does not have enough hand sanitizer to shake all your hands.
01:04:38.040
Yeah, so I'm just busy before the show getting everything set up, making sure that we get
01:04:45.380
And, yeah, I don't really have the time to do these sort of token greeting.
01:04:51.740
No, yeah, that's totally, like, what you want to do is totally up to you.
01:04:55.160
The question was if I wanted to date you and because it wasn't, like, ah, my answer is
01:05:04.940
I'm actually having an argument with you about your assertion that it is, I suppose, rude
01:05:17.060
She probably thought you was, like, spooky, you know?
01:05:22.580
But, you know, other people get it, but some people don't.
01:05:26.880
If you don't want to greet people when, like, you're working, it's totally up to you.
01:05:35.080
So, before the show, I'm pretty locked in to, like, making sure I get things going.
01:05:39.320
And to, like, take time away from that to in every instance.
01:05:42.980
Luckily, everyone came up at the same time, but oftentimes people will kind of trickle in
01:05:47.080
because some people will arrive early, some people will arrive late, so we'll be bringing
01:05:53.760
So, I don't have the time to interrupt what I'm doing in each instance to just, you know,
01:06:03.420
Sometimes it doesn't always work out, but, yeah.
01:06:07.040
I don't know if you've ever had a job that actually required any degree of focus or attention.
01:06:14.500
I've taught from preschool all the way to high school.
01:06:37.040
I don't even know if you live here, but, like, this is your place.
01:06:40.420
So, I did want to, but I didn't because, like, you were just really busy or, like...
01:06:45.000
You know, you look a little scary a little bit, so...
01:06:47.920
If I'm being honest, you look a little bit scary, so I didn't want to interrupt your bubble.
01:07:00.000
I mean, sorry, situationship is not cheating on her.
01:07:09.460
All right, let me get a couple of these other chats out here.
01:07:26.860
Ladies, why do you think black woman and Asian men are statistically least desirable in the
01:07:48.900
The reason why black women and Asian men don't be together is because Asian people have
01:07:58.420
But on top of that, I mean, if you want to date a black woman, an Asian man will get that.
01:08:03.820
Q, any thoughts on this, and then we're going to move it along.
01:08:06.840
No, he was asking why it's like for Asian men, like amongst men, Asian men are the least
01:08:12.160
desired out of groups of men, and then for black women, black women are the least
01:08:15.960
desired out of the group, out of the ethnicities.
01:08:20.380
I thought he was talking about Asian men dating black women at first, too, but he talked about
01:08:25.560
Why are Asian men the least desired out of all the groups of men, and why are black women
01:08:29.620
the least desired out of all the groups of women, statistically?
01:08:31.420
Okay, first of all, it's a lot of flying Asian men now.
01:08:41.580
I don't know about that either, because there's a lot of black flying women out here now.
01:08:46.420
But is that statistic in the U.S. or World War II?
01:08:51.280
These women are absolutely disgusting and horrible humans, especially the one in the middle, except
01:09:04.420
Bro, y'all be expecting me to play virtue signal with these women.
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I analyze human behavior, and I help people with relationships.
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It's not my job to shame them for what they do.
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Okay, well, be human and answer that question, that last question that they just asked.
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I'm just going to throw this out there and help me in my dating life.
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That's why they at least desire it right there.
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Because I just wanted you to, you know, take my...
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Yeah, but they're talking about statistically, though.
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So, Asian men are the least desired because Asian men, they don't appear to be the stereotypical...
01:10:08.480
They lack the typical masculine features that women are typically attracted to.
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And then, black women, we all know that, based on the research, that it's due to their
01:10:20.540
Can I ask, what do you think about that, that black woman...
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I don't care because, you know, whoever can handle, can handle, you know?
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Did you date somebody before the current guy that you're with?
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Okay, so he's saying that you can't date anybody new.
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Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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I think it's because I'm just not there because I date to marry.
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So, the fact that, like, I had a traumatic experience with my ex,
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You've been in a one-year situationship with no title.
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You're dating him, but, I mean, in terms of, like...
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But you literally said you're not going to marry this guy.
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I believe I said I don't want to marry him right now.
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That doesn't mean I won't marry him in the future.
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So mental health to speak on the escort's POV as sex work usually has a route of abuse
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You don't have a title with him even though you've been dating for a year.
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You've broken up once already but got back together.
01:13:00.400
I mean, all these things added together don't make me very confident in your...
01:13:11.080
You said that he didn't want a relationship with you right now either?
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Honestly, it's kind of like just me right now if I'm being honest.
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My past relationship was a little bit traumatic.
01:13:24.440
Okay, so do you see yourself keeping him in your life for another year?
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I definitely think he's a great father figure, 110%.
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I just need more time with his heart right now, basically.
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Do you think that he would say the same thing about you?
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No, she said already that he wants to marry her.
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I mean, it just sounds like she is alpha widowed.
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It means your past relationship was traumatic enough that you can't get past it, and now
01:14:10.840
I think every woman goes through this alpha widow traumatic experience, and this is like
01:14:17.240
It's something that I'm going to tell my future daughters about and tell them.
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That's the story I'm going to tell them to warn them about men.
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And so, yeah, it is traumatic, and I think it's very valid.
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Well, just to be clear, the term alpha widow doesn't necessarily imply that there was trauma.
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He was the best that you know you could do, so you won't be able to actually fall in love
01:14:45.360
So what happened was, and I'll make it very, very short in two sentences, my mom passed away
01:14:49.020
in 2020 due to a sickness and a common sickness that I think we all know, and two weeks later,
01:14:57.780
Wait, is that the sole thing that was traumatic?
01:15:01.760
Wait, actually, he was cheating on you the whole time?
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Do you think he was cheating on you the whole time?
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Clearly, if he got engaged two weeks later, then yeah, 110%.
01:15:12.880
Do you actually see yourself marrying the guy that you're speaking to now in the future?
01:15:16.440
Um, I see that he's a good father figure, he has a good person, he has great family values,
01:15:21.540
Why don't you think you can fall in love with him?
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Uh, no, no, no, I never said I don't think I can fall in love with him.
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I just think I'm putting my heart a little bit to a stop, because it's scary, you know,
01:15:32.020
going from that traumatic relationship to a new one right now.
01:15:37.000
No, no, no, no, I'm sorry, I do have to move things on.
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I need to get through this, then I need to bump it up.
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What ethnicities have you all dated, and which has been consistently better for you?
01:15:50.860
Is there an ethnicity you would not date again, and why?
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You can only do one, I'm going to have to shift your question, this also did come in.
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Guys, we're doing 200 and up after this, so I'm actually just going to have to shift
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the question, too, since you asked two questions here.
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Do you have a racial preference, and if so, for what race?
01:16:32.000
I didn't know we were talking about preference.
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The TTS indicator, so they know we're switching.
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And, guys, it's been 52 minutes since we've gotten a tier one in a prime one hour ago.
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Can we do a little test if anybody has an available prime sub?
01:17:24.460
So I did actually want to come back really quick to we were talking about your situation here.
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So you said that your mom passed away from COVID and your boyfriend at the time ghosted you and got married, engaged two weeks later.
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And that was the guy who that's the trauma you speak of.
01:18:04.180
Now, have you had any subsequent conversations with this guy?
01:18:18.980
Have you had any, you know, he ghosted you, but have you talked to him?
01:18:22.460
I have not spoken to him, but something that I did think that was leading up to it was
01:18:26.240
that he never liked that I was doing social media at all.
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So he just didn't like the attention I was getting at all.
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Actually, I honestly, if I'm being honest, it really, it made him insecure.
01:18:34.000
He always, he always went out of his way to like assure me that I'm not insecure, but
01:18:40.040
Like he was trying to way defend it to the point that was way too sus.
01:18:42.920
So it was like, I kind of already know that you, he wanted a girl that was not on social
01:18:47.340
media, which was valid, but I wish he had explained that to me.
01:18:54.300
Kind of like, uh, you're not doing OnlyFans though, correct?
01:19:09.800
And so you got absolutely zero feedback post breakup about the reason or pretext for
01:19:25.580
Like, did you go by his house or anything like that?
01:19:27.840
I did go to drop off his clothes and then he would wear it and post on his Instagram the
01:19:31.720
next day with the clothes that he got that I returned.
01:19:33.500
So he didn't text you saying, Hey, this is over.
01:19:47.080
That's why it's really, it's really hard for me to enter a new relationship right now.
01:19:49.920
And I, I did get, I did get over it, but I just learned how to live with it.
01:20:00.720
Do you guys think that this is, meets the definition of trauma?
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I definitely, I think, I definitely think trauma doesn't have a specific definition.
01:20:11.960
Like, for example, if a three-year-old girl was standing right here and her cup just broke
01:20:15.560
and spilled to the floor, that's the same trauma she's going to have that's equivalent
01:20:18.820
The only difference is that she's younger, she doesn't know much.
01:20:22.480
I disagree with that, but obviously that's traumatic.
01:20:24.700
I mean, like, imagine dating someone for two years and then they just ghost you.
01:20:27.680
And then two weeks later, they're engaged to somebody else.
01:20:30.080
I mean, did you ever suspect him of having other women?
01:20:42.340
It doesn't mean certain criteria, but I can't, I mean, trauma obstructs, trauma obstructs
01:20:52.140
Wait, so what, what would you call it if you don't think it's trauma?
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Don't do sidebars, please, because it's bad for the audio.
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Oh, I was, I was saying, I think it's extremely emotional damaging, like it's emotionally damaging
01:21:21.380
I wouldn't classify it as trauma because trauma is basically essentially a rewiring of your
01:21:27.400
brain, like in, in a painful sense, like what you go through, it obstructs your ability,
01:21:32.380
whatever trauma you experience, it obstructs your ability to proceed forward and it hinders,
01:21:38.220
Like, so like you, you would suffer thinking about it over and over again.
01:21:42.500
Like it would just bother you consistently, constantly.
01:21:44.660
And who's saying it's not constantly bothering me consistently?
01:21:49.340
Okay, so for instance, um, my ex that broke up with me via text, uh, after 10 years of
01:21:55.300
being together, living together, raising children together, that didn't traumatize me.
01:22:01.160
Now, what traumatized me when I was a little girl dealing with really loud, aggressive men,
01:22:07.440
now if I hear a man yell and scream, you respond the same way.
01:22:13.000
I mean, I think some, another trauma or another thing that we're forgetting about this breakup,
01:22:17.940
um, is that it had, it involved my mom passing away.
01:22:25.260
So of course I would, I would want my best friend to be with me during this hard time with
01:22:29.500
So instead of just ghosting me, he just got engaged.
01:22:33.060
So it had to do with more than just the breakup.
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It's, it's tied with my, with my mother's passing.
01:22:47.520
If he just ghosted me and got engaged, I think that would definitely be a huge heartbreak,
01:22:52.020
but it's connected to a very valid, valid point.
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Cause then people going to start thinking like, oh, is it abandonment issues?
01:23:10.100
Because when you in a relationship, yeah, we do look for our significant other to be
01:23:20.700
And that might be why it's hard to move forward.
01:23:22.740
Cause you really don't want to go through that same cycle.
01:23:25.500
And if I'm being honest, like I've, I've been, I've, I've been in love before.
01:23:30.600
But the thing is, even now when I'm in love, I still have, hasn't have hesitation to even
01:23:40.200
Now this man that broke your heart, every man after him is not going to be the same
01:23:48.800
Feelings are getting, but what I'm telling you is just because my guy ended things with
01:23:54.240
me after 10 years, does that, does not mean like say Q and I were to get in a relationship
01:24:01.400
So you can't sit there and block everything out because then you're never going to find
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And I think that's the problem that I'm currently facing.
01:24:08.780
So you, so you admit that you're doing that currently.
01:24:10.780
That's why you're, you think that he knows that he knows that.
01:24:16.360
I think I've just, I just need someone to help me crack open my heart a little bit
01:24:23.900
I think you just protecting yourself and you learn, you don't, you don't live to just
01:24:30.360
Maybe certain situations or relationships you were in too deep before they were.
01:24:34.420
And so you taking your time as much as you can because you know how hard you love.
01:24:40.060
And then once that happens and you're open and you're to the point where you want to
01:24:43.460
be with them fully and you're in love, be that.
01:24:45.940
But it's okay to take your time and get to know somebody because like you've been experienced,
01:24:53.340
So at the end of the day, having emotional control is perfectly fine.
01:24:58.560
Yeah, just don't feel like you cannot explore your horizon no matter your circumstances
01:25:03.340
and situation because everybody are grown up differently and experienced differently and
01:25:08.600
So as long as you continue to have your journey and be open but still take your time mentally
01:25:18.100
We spoke about this a couple days ago because it just, you know, it keeps coming back to me.
01:25:25.640
Communication has always been on the table, which is actually why I'm still with him because
01:25:29.120
I feel I have the trust to even talk about my feeling, which is a big thing for women
01:25:34.220
So that's why I want to continue being with this guy.
01:25:42.360
Like how can someone just leave you when your parent just passes away?
01:25:50.500
And he said he wants to be with me during this time.
01:25:54.900
But that is the fight that he's willing to put up.
01:26:02.180
And I'm willing to help break that fight with him by my side.
01:26:08.860
Are you working on yourself at all to like fix?
01:26:12.680
Yeah, my life is like I have a job, conjugation.
01:26:15.560
I have my proud degree in children's education.
01:26:21.640
Yeah, he definitely put a huge safe space in the relationship, which is why I absolutely
01:26:29.880
But like, why don't you just call yourself friends until you're actually ready to get
01:26:33.640
in a relationship and then y'all can come back to it as like, you know, y'all both healed,
01:26:39.060
I mean, I don't want to go on a date with my friend, just a friend.
01:26:48.540
We go on mommy daughter dates and mommy son dates and you can date your best friend and
01:26:57.360
Relationships come in all shapes, forms, and sizes.
01:27:02.240
You're in a relationship right here with all of us.
01:27:06.860
You can love everybody, but being in love is different.
01:27:15.660
I mean, I, I would, yeah, I mean, I, I see what you're saying, but I don't think I kind
01:27:24.620
I don't think I can date my sister because you implied it with your kids.
01:27:29.040
Like I, my, my kid, my daughter and I will go get our nails done.
01:27:38.180
Um, I go to the mall or go see a movie with my best gal, my best gal pal.
01:27:42.580
Like not because we're not in love and having sex with each other, but we're going on a
01:27:46.960
movie date because we both want to see the same movie.
01:27:49.020
Well, this guy is more than my friend, so I don't, I don't, I don't see, it's not fair
01:27:52.800
for both of us to just call each other our friends or more than that.
01:27:56.760
So it's the, like, you want the romance, like date romance, like, you know, I want, I want,
01:28:01.300
we, we want the true romance, the heart, but it's been a year.
01:28:04.560
I just don't understand why you guys aren't like dating.
01:28:18.080
Follow the path that is your lessons brought you through.
01:28:22.940
Then exit with haste, but start with benefits of doubt.
01:28:39.720
So, is there, do you have any suspicion as to why your boyfriend, uh,
01:28:50.380
Uh, I would say because honestly, if I'm being honest, I think his mother told me why.
01:28:54.800
His mother did tell me why, um, which was actually so crappy.
01:28:58.540
It was because after my mom passed away, God rest her beautiful soul, um, my dreams were
01:29:06.080
So, I actually started going viral for all of my videos, which is actually, which was,
01:29:09.840
it was a really weird time for me because my mom just passed away, but my dreams literally
01:29:16.800
So, I was continue to feeding my audience with the positive content.
01:29:22.420
Um, but obviously I was devastated inside, but his mom would tell me, what if he, what
01:29:27.540
Are you going to continue posting that kind of happy content?
01:29:30.100
So, that was, that was the reason that his mother told me, um, I didn't think that was
01:29:37.100
My mom passed away, but my dreams were coming true.
01:29:51.700
I, I, I think one of the hardest parts was I absolutely adore his mother.
01:29:57.540
So, that was definitely the hardest part of the breakup or the ghosting.
01:30:05.780
Was you doing content creation an issue for him?
01:30:12.400
But at the same time, he would complain that I have multiple guys in my DMs, which I honestly
01:30:16.940
Um, I, I literally didn't at that time, even though I did have attention, but just men
01:30:20.440
really wouldn't because my demographic would be towards, like, young girls.
01:30:35.640
I wonder if, you know, and it's obviously a terrible thing and a difficult thing to
01:30:44.660
But it, it occurs to me that perhaps in addition to his, uh, his qualms with you doing content
01:30:49.820
creation and the male attention, he, it was giving you, or he thought.
01:30:57.460
I wonder if he was just in the same way, and I'm not saying that this is the right thing
01:31:02.840
to do, but if you're significant, well, if your significant other, for example, got like
01:31:07.540
a, uh, cancer, like terminal cancer, and he just didn't want to, he didn't have what it
01:31:19.000
I'm not saying it's right, but with the passing of your mom, it's certainly possible that you
01:31:23.440
were grieving and, uh, that he perhaps just wanted to just not even be involved with, uh,
01:31:33.680
I know where your question's going a hundred percent.
01:31:35.580
Literally after he was ghosting me, I generally thought the reason why he ghosted me was because
01:31:39.200
I didn't have a mom anymore because he was a Christian and he, he is a Christian still.
01:31:42.920
So I thought he wanted to have a woman with two parents.
01:31:49.120
It's more so I assume you were, I mean, to lose a parent is a very, uh, very difficult
01:31:57.400
I assume you were distraught and upset and justifiably so, but perhaps he didn't want
01:32:03.440
to deal with that for you and deal with that again, not saying it's right, but, but that
01:32:09.880
So were you, uh, I mean, were you pretty, uh, bent out of shape?
01:32:17.400
Well, like, were you pretty, were you hysterical at all during the, what does that mean?
01:32:25.920
Something about me, if you go on something, please be straight up.
01:32:45.740
I definitely was not having, I wasn't hurting myself.
01:32:48.660
I wasn't hitting my, I wasn't doing, I wasn't running away.
01:32:53.900
I feel like since a lot of people have not like.
01:33:12.020
I definitely was not having any manic episodes at all.
01:33:17.180
Well, anyways, moving on for your pre-show notes.
01:33:20.020
The last thing you had is it okay for a guy to have a girl best friend and you think it's
01:33:25.680
Also, you do believe it's necessary for a girl.
01:33:29.000
You believe it's necessary for a girl to know how to cook and a man can take care of necessary
01:33:38.180
And your current guy, does he take care of the bills?
01:33:44.300
When you fly to see him, does he pay or do you pay?
01:34:04.000
Are you going to pay for everything when he flies to see you?
01:34:15.680
Thankfully, I do have a lot of collabs with restaurants, so I like to just take him out
01:34:19.420
to those kind of restaurants and just show him a good time.
01:34:22.020
I'm definitely going to be his little tourist attraction in New York, so I'm excited for
01:34:32.800
We already kind of hit on your long-term throuple relationship.
01:34:37.040
Now, you said that your dating life is a train wreck.
01:34:41.980
Um, I feel like that was a pretty train wreck situation itself.
01:34:49.440
I guess leading up to it, I was a chronic ghoster for a bit.
01:34:57.460
I did not know how to face my emotions, so I was great at just, if something was undesirable,
01:35:04.160
I would say goodbye without saying goodbye, and there we'd catch a block.
01:35:24.580
Because this can't be like, what are you talking for like a month?
01:35:26.840
No, this was giving, okay, this was probably seven years ago, I'd say.
01:35:37.560
Three to four months in, and you ghosting without any communication?
01:35:44.160
But I understand why you would, I mean, I don't know.
01:35:50.160
Wait, yeah, you say undesirable, so you carry on a relationship or a talking stage for three,
01:35:57.040
Well, it wasn't, it wasn't, I mean, it was desirable until I didn't really dig the communication
01:36:03.140
I was also receiving, so I figured it wasn't too much to jump off the edge and just wasn't
01:36:25.960
I did have the poly relationship, yes, but right now, absolutely not.
01:36:29.820
Like, do you, maybe you're not poly, but do you date multiple people at the same time?
01:36:38.420
And then, if you can think of any other train wrecks, let us know.
01:36:46.020
I want to, you can totally say no, I wanted to add to the other thing that you said about
01:36:54.020
Yeah, I mean, honestly, I, so I actually, what I do on social media, I do also do content
01:36:58.400
for girls, but I also expose men cheating on my social media accounts, but one of the
01:37:03.360
things that I also do is ask girls, or just touch on the topic, like, do you guys think
01:37:08.200
it's okay for a guy to have a girl best friend?
01:37:25.420
I never experienced it, but if it came already, like, I mean, I'm not, I think that's okay.
01:37:32.400
I think your partner should be your best friend.
01:37:47.460
A man doesn't want to be with a woman that has a bunch of guy best friends.
01:37:58.100
Because a lot of women are like, this is my best friend.
01:38:01.060
No, I'm saying, what if they're not just like, like, let's say your significant other
01:38:07.960
Okay, so literally so many women ask me the same question multiple times, but if you guys
01:38:21.080
When you're in a relationship, do you believe that you should have friends that are single?
01:38:29.100
Because if you go, exactly, they 100% influence you.
01:38:32.800
I've never, ever, ever had that happen to my life, like where it influenced me, but maybe
01:38:40.700
Maybe it's up to the person who consumes that opinion.
01:38:45.800
I think that, I think that everybody is obligated to do what they want to do with their life.
01:38:49.840
It shouldn't determine what you want to do with yours.
01:38:52.180
Like, okay, I could be the only one out the friend group that has a boyfriend and all my
01:38:59.800
If I have a boyfriend, he has a girl best friend, and it already happened before we met, I
01:39:05.580
mean, I have nothing to respect that until I get disrespected.
01:39:11.740
Like, I feel like that's where control and everything comes into play, and that's why a lot of relationships
01:39:19.060
If that person is not for you, when they have other situations going on behind your
01:39:26.280
If they cheat on you with their boy best friend, girl best friend, they were supposed to do
01:39:30.700
that, so God can, you can be what, I mean, so you could be, you know, single and do what
01:39:35.620
Like, don't sit there and just let it, I don't know.
01:39:38.020
I feel like a lot of relationships don't last when you try to control it too much.
01:39:42.240
Control, I mean, it's not controlling if you want to make sure you're significant other.
01:39:45.380
At the end of the day, people should respect your boundaries.
01:39:47.500
Like, if I don't think that a boy best friend or a girl best friend is okay, then yeah,
01:39:52.060
But like, if it already comes with it, then it's just like, okay, let's see how that works
01:39:55.760
And if it doesn't work out for you, you walk away.
01:40:03.220
I was about to say, like, I had a situation like that with the last girl I was dating.
01:40:17.040
I told her, um, because like, when we'd be hanging out, he would be trying to FaceTime
01:40:22.880
And she was like, nah, I don't see him like that.
01:40:29.660
I said, what man do you think wants to FaceTime?
01:40:32.360
You sit there, look at your face, talk on the phone with you just all the time, consistently.
01:40:39.820
But I think, like I said, I think girls and guys can be friends.
01:40:50.140
I don't, yeah, I don't, I don't believe in general that men and women can be friends.
01:40:53.780
So you don't think you and I can be friends without one of us wanting to fuck each other?
01:40:58.500
And I'm saying that because it's, it's subconscious.
01:41:01.240
So every time a guy is around you, everything he does, he's talking to you, he's being involved
01:41:06.260
with you, there's an element of attraction there.
01:41:10.740
That's compelling him to even want to engage with you, interact with you to begin with.
01:41:17.560
You think that men only want to be friends with you?
01:41:31.360
Your male friends have already thought about how naked you look in bed.
01:41:39.900
I have a guy best friend, me personally, and he's like my brother.
01:41:43.900
We've never been intimate with each other ever.
01:41:48.480
I think that, I think it's a maturity level and that's okay.
01:42:09.180
We're going to give you guys back your cell phones.
01:42:11.400
You're going to text your male friend who's single.
01:42:15.800
And you're going to be, say something along the lines of, I'm hoping you, they know that
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you're not like on the fucking podcast right now.
01:42:24.200
You're going to text them and say, I don't know, what are they texting?
01:42:58.800
It makes it a little complicated if you're in a relationship.
01:43:01.820
It makes it very weird if you guys are actually friends and you guys.
01:43:06.260
He just wants to see if he's going to pass it in an artist friend.
01:43:42.660
Who's got the fucking Gengar Pokemon card as their bag?
01:43:55.140
You guys just don't show the camera and your phones, please, because there's like wires happening.
01:44:03.300
Do you want to tell me word for word what to say?
01:44:06.180
If I was to tell you I like you, what would you say back?
01:44:15.440
If I was to say I like you, what would you say?
01:44:20.120
Have you ever thought about hooking up with me?
01:44:25.580
I think it should be something along the lines of.
01:44:28.200
If I was to tell you I like you, what would you say?
01:44:35.760
It can't be like too direct, but it can't be too indirect either.
01:44:45.540
Invite him over to watch Netflix and drink wine.
01:44:48.720
Or would you come in Netflix and chill with me?
01:45:04.100
So if I was to say, would you, if I, I, I'm texting, would you be down to Netflix and
01:45:21.220
Has the thought of being more ever crossed your mind?
01:45:31.460
Has the thought of being more ever crossed your mind?
01:45:45.180
You can text multiple friends, by the way, if you have more than one friend.
01:46:04.780
It has to be clear that they're making some sort of romantic or sexual overture.
01:46:08.860
Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever drops to follow, drops to prime sub if you have one.
01:46:19.900
Speaking of, guys, if you want, get your TTSs in.
01:46:22.840
While we're letting the girls do that, I'm going to pull up.
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Does a higher level of education lead to better decision making in relationships?
01:46:32.960
And is that why some lead to sex work due to lack of emotional and intellectual ability?
01:46:37.280
Also, just a heads up, guys, for the reads in TTS, we can only do one question per.
01:46:42.620
Does a higher level of education lead to better decision making in relationships?
01:46:59.300
So I feel like you have a better chance of, you know, obligating or, you know, seeing what you really want to be with because of the mind.
01:47:10.400
I was actually into psychology, so I understand.
01:47:13.320
Yeah, I don't think school got nothing to do with relationships.
01:47:27.120
She says, have you ever thought about us being more than friends?
01:47:39.020
If you guys haven't sent yet, this is a good one.
01:47:53.420
So, I texted him my guy friend who lives actually not far from me in New York.
01:47:59.760
I said, if I asked you to come over tonight on Netflix and chill, would you?
01:48:12.820
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
01:48:28.520
No, because I called because I was trying to get him to hurry up.
01:48:34.540
If I was to tell you I like you, what would you say?
01:48:37.000
He said, I would say I don't want to mess up our friendship.
01:48:46.120
I said, has the thought of being more than friends?
01:48:50.560
I said, has the thought ever crossed your mind to be more than friends?
01:49:01.780
I said, has the thought of being more than just friends ever crossed your mind?
01:49:15.620
Because he's not a good texter, but I can do it.
01:49:24.220
I literally watched her say, I'm going to test you.
01:49:58.800
Claire, you seem to be easily confused a little bit.
01:50:17.300
But she also texted the person that she sent the link to.
01:50:20.860
So I texted two of my friends that doesn't know that I'm on here.
01:50:25.060
Oh, all of my friends know that I'm on the podcast.
01:50:44.900
I actually have no idea what you guys are talking about.
01:50:47.360
But for reference, they actually did a major study on this as well.
01:50:51.160
They actually did a study on this as well for guy friends and girlfriends.
01:50:55.000
And what they found was that most of the guys were romantically interested in the women that they were friends with.
01:51:00.940
And what it is is women can be friends because women aren't as sexually motivated as men are.
01:51:11.280
If there's an absence of sexual attraction, they assume that the guy has an absence of sexual attraction as well.
01:51:17.240
When in reality, men think completely differently.
01:51:20.360
So they took them in closed rooms and asked them how they really feel about their other significant other.
01:51:25.220
And the men all confessed that they had feelings.
01:51:27.620
And the women said that they didn't have feelings.
01:51:40.520
Just to, like, conversate with you for a second.
01:51:54.380
I didn't get to send the podcast to my friends.
01:51:56.000
If you guys can, pass your phones back down this way so it's easier for...
01:52:14.380
I just had to take my daughter off emergency bypass because it'll go off like crazy.
01:52:28.020
I think it's good for men and women to be friends.
01:52:30.660
Yeah, I think it's good for men and women to be friends.
01:52:32.580
No, I think it's healthy, honestly, for men and women to be friends, 100%.
01:52:35.480
Girl, y'all get in the room by yourself and the one little good song play and the body is right.
01:52:45.860
Wait, wait, but can we talk about how, like, men and women, like, they're naturally born to be attractive to one another.
01:52:53.200
But it's just, like, it's possible to have a friendship.
01:53:02.240
Girl, you're going to do it and be ashamed of it and just text each other, like, we should or never.
01:53:11.800
But I think it's normal because physically we're just born to be attracted to men and men are attracted to women.
01:53:20.220
Men are literally only your friend to get in your pants.
01:53:34.200
I don't know if you guys want to bring religion into this, but I've been to church.
01:53:39.800
Like, there are guys with good intentions in general.
01:53:42.660
Okay, at least can we bring it to outside of...
01:53:47.520
Since we're going to bring religion into this, can I say something, please?
01:53:53.820
So, can I just please tell you what happens into the church every single day?
01:54:04.900
You have pastors and youth ministers cheating on their wives.
01:54:08.560
Okay, but who says that when you get into a religion that people are perfect?
01:54:18.540
But guys in religion are having these relationships, like friendships.
01:54:26.100
I said guys in religion still have good intentions.
01:54:37.140
Like, you can really believe that guys can do right, and you can believe that there are
01:54:45.920
A lot of people feel like women that be outside is ratchet, da, da, da, whatever.
01:54:51.280
But eternally, there's women that like to be outside, but really don't really conversate
01:54:56.320
So everybody can have their own physical and mindset thought of what they believe in.
01:55:00.400
Everybody has experienced what they believe in, so that's what they stand on.
01:55:03.540
That's why you kind of scaring me, because I'm like, what the hell have you been through?
01:55:09.260
But everybody has experienced different things.
01:55:12.060
So y'all just got to always understand that every time when somebody speak on something
01:55:15.300
that they believe in, it's because they have experienced it.
01:55:17.600
That's all it is, and that's all it would ever be.
01:55:21.740
That's why she passed the test with her boy, Best Ryan.
01:55:29.480
Like, I like what you said about how, like, every woman is going to have a different experience.
01:55:40.060
I don't think you can believe a single word that comes out of her mouth.
01:55:43.860
Props to Weeb Girl for betraying the sisterhood.
01:55:55.020
Every TTS that comes through, you need it repeated.
01:55:59.820
But it says vote to kick for bad faith texting.
01:56:03.820
I mean, you kind of poisoned the well by preemptively saying.
01:56:51.600
You also cannot, like he even said, don't text anybody that knows you're on.
01:56:56.840
I have no guy friend that doesn't know that I'm not on.
01:57:07.660
Yeah, she said, going to test you in all times.
01:57:31.420
Wait, now you're kind of gaslighting her because she's saying that you said something,
01:57:38.240
The truth is I have no idea what you're talking about.
01:57:50.800
I don't know why she in the corner would have any motivation to throw you under the bus.
01:58:06.440
All I know is if I ever get locked up, they better come get you because you ain't going
01:58:13.060
Then you ain't going to say nothing because you kind of didn't.
01:58:15.280
It actually kind of calls into question this whole traumatic situation.
01:58:21.580
Oh, I mean, I literally posted a video in 2020 saying goodbye to my lawyer.
01:58:27.180
I think your whole claim, I mean, you're kind of discrediting yourself here.
01:58:32.800
You're discrediting yourself by kind of like playing this weird game here.
01:58:57.900
Because I for sure said my homie's on your ass.
01:58:59.200
But to be fair, all of my guy friends know that I'm on the podcast, so...
01:59:07.140
You destroyed the experiment by saying, I'm going to test you in all caps to somebody
01:59:19.040
No, everybody has the link to the podcast, though.
01:59:21.940
It's like these experiments that are going on with Big Pharma where they hide the negative
01:59:26.840
results to get their drug passed, and then they give you all of these different side effects
01:59:35.220
But honestly, I would have just said just, if you owned up to it, I would have been like,
01:59:42.200
How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?
02:00:11.380
Well, it basically, like, it's a question to see if you can engage with a hypothetical.
02:00:26.440
Nick, what were some of the things that we had to react to?
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Guys, we're going to react to her Bumble profile.
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Would you like for me to read the bio so you can understand it?
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I live in El Paso, Texas, and Long Beach, California, and Clinton, Tennessee.
02:01:31.500
Like, have you ever gone to the state or the county fair and you go into those buildings
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I'm selling you something that you probably don't need.
02:01:42.960
I just told you, fairs, trade shows, and events.
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So like bike shows, boat shows, gun shows, car shows.
02:01:52.720
When you say witchy vibes, what does that mean?
02:01:57.660
I don't do voodoo, but I do heal people through.
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So as a cosmetologist slash barber, people sit in my chair and I make them stare at themselves
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while I ask all the right questions for them to heal.
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So, because your barber slash cosmetologist is initially your therapist because you tell
02:02:21.060
I make them answer their questions that they need answers to.
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Like, my whole theory behind going to college for psychology is trauma healing starts in the
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So it starts how you see yourself in the mirror.
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You're looking for a life partner, ambition, optimism, loyalty.
02:03:01.900
Your causes and communities, environmentalism, immigrant rights, human rights.
02:03:11.120
I've written quite a few letters for people to get citizenship.
02:03:33.340
So if I'm not using filters on my pictures, why are these men using filters?
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I think that's just trying to make yourself look sassy.
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Have you seen a lot of these men's like pretty filters?
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I don't know what made you a target, but I've never.
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If I don't use filters, I don't want a man that use filters.
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I actually noticed that this is kind of more common among men who are a bit on the older
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side because I feel like the older age cohort, it's like, I don't know why they just overdo
02:04:16.940
I'm not in favor of filters at all to begin with, but there are like older men that like
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Although I would point out that while there are some men on dating apps who misrepresent
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about their physical appearance, sometimes by posting old photos or by using filters,
02:04:38.700
it's far more common that women of all ages are using filters.
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And add on top of that, they're also using makeup, which is typically outside the realm
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And then when they wash their face off, they're a completely different person.
02:04:54.980
But this criticism can be much better applied to women than it can to men.
02:05:06.580
But there's far fewer men that do this thing than do women.
02:05:13.400
I'm just saying this is a much more common occurrence in women than it is in men.
02:05:17.980
But she's saying that her experience is just men.
02:05:21.840
For 10 years of my life, my guy was very honest about what he wanted sexually.
02:05:45.280
I had a lot of dating apps when him and I were together to find women.
02:05:51.100
And he, there was other things that happened, but I'm not going to go into it.
02:05:56.220
And for instance, I got catfished once by a couple just trying to find a girl for me and him.
02:06:02.580
And the guy was being the girl and they ended up being, and the filters made her look phenomenally great.
02:06:09.180
But it ended up being him using her and they were 65 years old.
02:06:26.740
Statistically proven, women age faster than men because they're causing fine lines and wrinkles by brushes and sponges and putting all this extra stuff on their face.
02:06:54.960
My ultimate green flag, my loyalty to the one I'm with.
02:07:03.580
I'm going to write down notes because we're going to talk about, there was the witchy, the witchy thing.
02:07:17.500
But not to love somebody else, to love yourself.
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Do you believe in, like, jade and stuff like that?
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I just didn't wear them tonight because I didn't want people to know exactly.
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Like, I literally have the whole chakra system tattooed on my arm.
02:07:38.280
Can I ask, what is it about, like, the potions that you make and the crystals that you sell that makes it work?
02:07:45.120
I don't sell anything and I don't do anything from, I don't do it for money.
02:08:17.360
Okay, well, in any case, you had a crazy dating story.
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You dated someone who had a fatal attraction to you.
02:08:29.320
I was just dating somebody that was just really insecure.
02:08:35.980
But my coming up, my uprising of everything that I do, like, as far as music and everything,
02:08:43.440
Like, when we go out, he wanted me to just, like, stare at him, like, only look at him,
02:08:50.420
When I go out with my homegirls or my friends, it was, like, a call every five seconds, every
02:09:03.420
We were friends at first because he did music and I did music, too.
02:09:06.820
So, I thought, like, you know, it would be a cool little vibe.
02:09:09.760
And when we started dating, I didn't really get to know him for real, for it yet.
02:09:14.220
But we started dating and then it got to that point of, like, it's starting to get a little
02:09:19.380
You know, like, wanting me to stay in, be in a cage type.
02:09:24.180
So, yeah, like, I talked to my granny and I was like, hey, like, you know, I'm dating
02:09:29.060
this boy, but he, like, kind of trying to keep me inside.
02:09:34.760
And, like, he hacked my Instagram and unfollowed a lot of my friends.
02:09:48.620
And my phone go off, like, for Instagram notification and his went off.
02:09:59.660
And so one of my friends, one of my long-term friends, and I ain't gonna lie, I was low-key
02:10:04.420
Like, so one of my long-term friends that I went to high school with, because I was
02:10:07.280
an athlete, I was very popular in high school, so, like, I had a lot of friends.
02:10:12.760
And I didn't have to delete the message, but I did, because I didn't want that to be a whole
02:10:16.460
new conversation to have with this toxic person.
02:10:19.380
So he was like, oh, why are you deleting the messages?
02:10:26.720
And, um, yeah, like, I had to date that situation, um, unfortunately.
02:10:34.720
He was saying, like, if I can't have you, nobody can.
02:10:41.860
Like, he done made an Instagram, like, exposing famous girls and putting me out
02:10:49.460
Looking back on it, did you realize you missed some replies?
02:10:51.880
When I tell y'all, see, that happened to me a while ago.
02:11:00.320
And, like, I was in a really dark place, like, mentally.
02:11:04.400
Because at first, I thought that I was tripping.
02:11:06.940
Like, I'm like, you know, like, maybe I do got trust issues.
02:11:11.100
But I knew he was going to harm me in some type of way.
02:11:13.660
And for him to, like, try to threaten me with that, like, Instagram stuff or
02:11:17.920
whatever, I just knew, like, I was like, yeah, next time, don't doubt your
02:11:22.040
intuition and how you feel because you was right the whole time.
02:11:28.120
And I feel like that's why I said it's more important to get to know somebody
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And, y'all, let me tell y'all, the more I got to know him, the more I got to know
02:11:46.540
Wait, what was his, like, his thing that he went for?
02:11:58.780
I seen somebody send him a screenshot of his face on Beyond Scared Straight as a
02:12:05.680
And I looked at that, and I'm like, damn, I was dealing with a little demon.
02:12:08.600
You didn't think anything of his obsessive behavior when he was, like, being overbearing?
02:12:16.900
In the beginning, he wasn't really overbearing.
02:12:19.120
I started seeing signs once I started coming over and we was having, like, sex.
02:12:24.840
So, after that year, because I was having sex, you know, so I lost my virginity at 18, so
02:12:41.780
I just, like, you know, I'm not too open for real.
02:12:49.560
But, yeah, so when that occurred, and then, like, I was just like, okay, you know, seeing
02:12:57.280
And then one thing I did notice, like, when I was getting phone calls, my heart would be
02:13:03.320
I'm like, yeah, I'm getting anxiety from this man, so I just need to let that go.
02:13:16.460
Yeah, no more contact, no more anything, right?
02:13:20.560
He be trying to follow me, yeah, but I, like, restricted, like, his accounts.
02:13:24.240
But, like, they pop up, and, like, I'm at the point where I don't give a fuck if you
02:13:29.760
Like, I'm kind of, like, to the point where I don't really be, honestly, personally, I
02:13:39.520
I try to stay more open into real life of what I got going on personally.
02:13:43.580
But if I see, like, that Instagram name pop up, oh, most definitely, I'm finna restrict
02:13:49.600
Why are you still trying to come this way, you know?
02:13:52.160
I don't feel no type of weight towards it no more, though, because I'm, like, in a bigger
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stage, better stage, mentally, physically, emotionally.
02:14:05.300
Have you blocked him, and he made new accounts still trying to get in contact with you?
02:14:10.160
He's made new accounts and tried to follow you through that.
02:14:13.340
Yeah, like, and then I had to change my number because he called my number one time, like,
02:14:18.840
it was, like, a random number, and, like, it was FaceTime, but sometimes I don't say
02:14:23.460
people numbers, so I answered it, and I see his face in the camera.
02:14:35.440
And, like, look, all respect, at the end of the day, I did have my experience, but I'm
02:14:44.100
I've heard his mother, like, you know, disrespect him, call him out his name and stuff like that,
02:14:48.580
and that's why, at the end of the day, like, I know why you act how you act.
02:14:53.720
Like, you don't want me to go nowhere because you don't get that motherly love, you don't
02:14:57.000
get that love, and I am very mature from my age, and growing up, you know, talking to
02:15:01.420
boys and shit like that in my age range, like, I was very mature to them, like, trying to
02:15:06.440
get them to stay focused or stay on that path, especially black men.
02:15:09.440
I dated a lot of black men, and unfortunately, they fall into the wrong path of doing crazy
02:15:14.020
shit, so I try to, like, you know, influence them to do better, so I don't blame nobody.
02:15:20.280
I grew up, and I learned, and it happened and how it happened, and now,
02:15:23.720
when I move forward, I just like to meet people a little more instead of just going
02:15:27.480
into something just because they want to, if that makes sense.
02:15:30.500
Now, you said that you feel like you were born in the wrong generation of dating.
02:15:36.500
So, which generation would you have preferred to have been born into when it comes to dating?
02:15:41.480
When it wasn't no social media and nothing, we had to sell records on the street.
02:15:47.680
I would have loved that because I wouldn't have to, you know, like, you got to hear stuff
02:15:52.140
from word on the mouth, word on the street, and I feel like that love back then, how they
02:15:57.620
make it seem in the movies, you know, we weren't born in those days, so I really don't know
02:16:00.840
how it really was, but I would have loved that 90s love, like, just the loyalty.
02:16:05.700
I'm really here for loyalty, you know, like, I love to be soft.
02:16:10.480
I know I'm a black girl, and I know I talk crazy, but all in all, when it comes to having
02:16:18.260
There are boys that I talk crazy to, I call them a bitch, in the quickest second, I don't
02:16:21.900
give a fuck, but, like, when you my man, though, like, I'm really a whole different person,
02:16:30.080
I promise, like, I'm so sweet, I'm so fragile, like, I love to be fragile when it comes to
02:16:35.000
my man, I love to be in the back, holding his hand type shit, you know?
02:16:39.700
Yeah, I love to be feminine, so it's a whole difference between being feminine and have
02:16:43.520
to be independent when it comes to a boy and a man.
02:16:52.960
Most men, like my ex, for instance, he kept me in a masculine state, like, I paid all my
02:16:57.740
own bills, I gave him mortgage money, I put all the-
02:17:13.440
I mean, we would, like, he provides the stability for my children, I would say.
02:17:22.220
Like, if it wasn't for him, I wouldn't have had a rent payment for $800 a month in Long
02:17:27.960
So he, in a way, like, helped you financially, basically?
02:17:30.240
I mean, in a sense, yeah, but I still paid my way.
02:17:33.920
He doesn't, he shouldn't have to get stuck paying for these children that aren't his.
02:17:40.340
I would say it was 100-100, like, I was there 100%, he was there 100%.
02:17:43.240
The way I paid him back in the stability for my children was I gave him his sexual deviances.
02:17:58.480
I think in a relationship, when you're getting into a relationship, depending how you want
02:18:02.400
the relationship to be, the main priority is to make sure that the woman always feels
02:18:08.420
Yeah, it don't even got nothing to do with bills and all that.
02:18:10.940
I don't even know what y'all talking about, for real, because what?
02:18:17.400
If you got that man sleeping in your house, that's, girl, look in the mirror and think,
02:18:23.460
But don't sit here and think that a man finna go pay your bills because you let him sleep
02:18:30.020
Stop letting men sleep at your house just because, like, they got good dick.
02:18:33.680
Like, just pay your own bills and live your life.
02:18:35.980
If he want to come spend the night here and there, boom.
02:18:38.500
But if y'all really something special, then that's when bills and all that come into play.
02:19:00.460
Now, there's a few pussies out there, you know.
02:19:05.900
Some pussy's better than other pussy, but most pussy is good pussy.
02:19:17.320
Women's orgasm response is a little more complicated.
02:19:21.660
You got to bite it, rub it, twist it, pull it, scratch it, bop it.
02:19:29.840
The ladies can speak up after me because, first of all, I ain't never had a man just live
02:19:37.860
So, like, that's when the 50-50 and all that come in because it's like, damn, he's been
02:19:46.060
That's why I'm saying, like, don't sit here and feel like a man is supposed to pay your
02:19:50.540
rent when you letting him in for free because of a dick.
02:19:58.420
Like, if it's, like, some situation where it's like, okay, y'all have a mutual understanding
02:20:02.100
or, like, y'all in a relationship, then yeah, but, like, don't just let nobody just come
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get up in there and get up in that thing, make you feel good.
02:20:09.820
Now you bored after a month and he ain't doing nothing but eating up all your groceries.
02:20:14.340
Yeah, I would never understand how you're going to say that.
02:20:16.640
Yeah, like, I'm just like, you know, like, if it's a mutual understanding, yeah, like,
02:20:25.580
Like, I'm saying I think men should also not just, like, pay for everything just because...
02:20:32.400
I mean, I'm a little confused what you're saying about, like, how men shouldn't pay a
02:20:42.340
Yeah, I just feel like it depends where the relationship is at.
02:20:46.580
I said, I said, don't invite a man over just because he got good dick and expect him to
02:20:52.500
I said, unless there's a relationship involved.
02:20:58.120
I said, because women get bored after a while of having sex.
02:21:00.800
So then we start feeling like, damn, this man, I don't know if he is caretaker.
02:21:07.520
Like, y'all just let him in just to get some dick.
02:21:10.200
And now you're trying to expect him to pay some rent.
02:21:12.580
Have a mutual agreement and a relationship and conversation about that.
02:21:16.440
Like, okay, what are we doing stepping forward?
02:21:19.820
That's where a lot of relationships fail because there's no communication involved.
02:21:22.460
I mean, don't you guys think that maybe a man should do, like, his duties of paying the
02:21:28.540
Don't you think that you guys can totally, like, say no?
02:21:36.740
A man is not going to sit here and think you want him to pay your bills because you just
02:21:45.020
That's like you calling your favorite little boo.
02:21:49.540
And then it comes into a, it turns into a habit and now you think he just going to pay
02:21:55.740
No, I think that should happen during marriage.
02:21:58.040
I do not think that should happen during a relationship where a guy, I feel like a guy
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doesn't have any obligation to pay the woman's rent.
02:22:08.480
If you are in a relationship, it is okay to go 50-50.
02:22:12.520
If he is slacking and you got a little bit more, it is okay.
02:22:17.440
If you're in a relationship with y'all working on, ain't nobody rich.
02:22:19.980
If you working on it and he working on it, go ahead and do y'all thing.
02:22:22.900
All I said was just don't expect a man to pay your rent off the rip if y'all just fucking.
02:22:34.160
So I feel like as a woman, y'all got to know we are very powerful.
02:22:40.980
So you need to be respectful of yourself to have that conversation with a man and say,
02:23:02.240
Veronica says, I was dating someone and we got caught by police once at the...
02:23:16.560
A real man looking for a woman that own a home, has a car, has a seven-figure yearly salary,
02:23:30.360
No, I feel like some men in this generation expect...
02:23:39.380
I feel like some men in this generation, not all men, there's great, wonderful men,
02:23:43.600
but some men think that women should wine and dine them.
02:23:52.520
Have any one of you ladies, have any one of y'all bought a man of flowers?
02:24:02.680
It's nice to get something when you don't get something.
02:24:13.060
Now, when my ex and I had our house, I grew flowers.
02:24:16.920
You buy cut flowers for the deceased, but if you want to prove your love to your man,
02:24:23.540
and he wants you to prove your love to him, he should buy you a potted plant,
02:24:34.700
I like the analogy, but I don't think that's literally.
02:24:47.700
Veronica, what's the story about the police on the beach?
02:24:52.860
I was in, like, high school or, like, college or something.
02:24:58.400
We went to the beach, and, like, basically we was just in the car chilling,
02:25:02.140
and then he decided to give me a hit, and then the police just came,
02:25:06.000
But I have a more interesting story that kind of goes more with what we're
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talking about or what the previous people have to talk about.
02:25:14.480
So I dibbled and dabbed in, like, females and everything like that.
02:25:20.240
So I had a girlfriend a couple of, like, years ago, probably, like,
02:25:25.500
And we ended up having a threesome with, like, her guy that she was, like,
02:25:36.040
And then after that, it was weird because the guy, I don't know.
02:25:40.960
Y'all probably been through it, too, if y'all have dibbled and dabbled
02:25:44.180
The guy ended up wanting me, like, to step in and, like, be his girlfriend
02:25:57.180
And it created some tension with, like, their relationship.
02:26:09.840
But, yeah, it created some tension, and then they ended up, like, breaking up.
02:26:13.060
On the threesome topic, who here has had a threesome show of hands?
02:26:34.100
I'm going to actually finish what I'm going to say.
02:26:36.660
So, you know, when it comes to threesomes, I'd rather only disappoint one woman at a time.
02:26:48.760
How many of you did the threesome for yourself?
02:27:08.400
Everything that I have done sexually, I did for him.
02:27:20.380
If I can't do it sober, that means it wasn't really good for me.
02:27:23.920
So, in order for me to give him these things, I had to be intoxicated.
02:27:40.180
I've always been stoned out of my mind, or really drunk.
02:27:49.940
A lot of people in college, like, they've had...
02:27:52.700
They've either never had sober sex, or they've had more drunk sex than they've had sober sex.
02:28:01.220
How do you know if you really like somebody if you never had sober sex?
02:28:05.240
People are uncomfortable making too much attention.
02:28:08.340
Because have I ever been initiated sex, like, me initiating it sober?
02:28:16.640
If you go to bed naked, and he obviously wakes up with a hard-on, he could wake, just
02:28:22.860
So, I called it the wake and take for 10 years.
02:28:27.620
Like, he just took what he wanted when I was sleeping.
02:28:40.140
Like, I'm just saying that you have experience.
02:28:43.180
I'm saying that you have experience, so I understand.
02:28:55.860
All they want, if you want to keep a man, he likes respect, keep his balls drained, keep
02:29:16.460
Okay, but why do relationships have to be just so regarded onto what only men want?
02:29:24.060
First of all, women are naturally caretakers and caregivers, so we know what a man want.
02:29:45.140
But if these women know what men want, why have you not had a relationship for longer than
02:29:50.780
Because there's too many independent women of their own mind of doing what they want to
02:29:54.200
A lot of women don't care to have a relationship.
02:30:06.240
And you satisfied and you just belittled your own well-being.
02:30:14.040
I just satisfied him sexually because he was so honest with me about what he wanted.
02:30:24.040
Everybody is obligated to do what they want respectfully.
02:30:32.420
But, you know, and my roots, you know, I don't know.
02:30:35.480
But if a man is telling you he want this and he want that, you know,
02:30:39.440
but I feel like you're just a little older than me.
02:30:53.860
I just feel like a lot of women don't listen because they don't settle for less.
02:31:00.380
Every man's standards is not a woman's standards.
02:31:05.760
Or a lot of women don't listen because they think that they can change a man.
02:31:14.160
I feel like a lot of women listen because they think they can change a man.
02:31:17.960
I'm going to sit here and have a threesome with you because I believe you're going to
02:31:21.720
I'm going to sit here and clean and cook and stress myself out because I feel like I will
02:31:25.560
stay with you forever because I'm going to do what you say.
02:31:31.460
He going out the house and having parties with his friends.
02:31:47.860
Girl, if you're stressed out, you're stressed out.
02:31:51.520
Smoking cigarettes is a big deal breaker for me.
02:31:56.340
I think I speak for everyone when I say the girl in the middle is super annoying where it's
02:31:59.700
in a drone and he can salvage the episode of this time.
02:32:08.300
I'm a little upset, disappointed we didn't hear the freestyle.
02:32:13.520
All I know is, JJ, send another two honey and say something again.
02:32:22.000
Now, going over to my note, we have something from Natalie.
02:32:26.580
You think the main thing you disagree with me on is my views on circumcision?
02:32:38.300
It doesn't apply to me, so I don't care that much.
02:32:54.560
I don't know if there's really much to debate there.
02:33:01.280
I absolutely do not agree with the circumcising of boys, especially at such a young age.
02:33:06.940
Because you're taking the ends of their nerves away from them.
02:33:11.920
Men that have never been circumcised actually have better sex because they have more feeling
02:33:15.940
because those nerves, it's scientifically proven.
02:33:18.520
You didn't just cut off half their nervous system.
02:33:27.000
If we were to have children, there's no way we're circumcising our children, Tara.
02:33:39.040
I don't like these names where it's like there's multiple pronunciations.
02:33:50.120
Vera, you said that you're feminist and traditional?
02:34:02.840
If a man would literally tell me, you can stay at home, cook, clean, take care of the kids,
02:34:09.500
But, also, at the same time, I still want my forensics job.
02:34:13.260
Like, I still want to be able to go to work and then come back home, cook, clean, take care of the kids.
02:34:18.140
But, as long as my bills are being paid by said man, as long as we have been in a relationship for longer than a year and a half,
02:34:25.820
two years, something like that, like, long term, like, serious.
02:34:29.240
Nothing that, you know, if I'm dating a man for, say, six months, no.
02:34:35.060
Like, you know, I mean, you can pay for dates and stuff, but I want to pay for dates, too, sometimes,
02:34:41.780
I would like to pay for dates or travels or whatever.
02:34:44.820
You said your ex-boyfriend was obsessed with your ex-best friend, and while they were doing stuff behind your back,
02:34:51.960
he had a whole different life with another girl and was a femboy.
02:34:57.520
Um, he, one of my ex-best friends, basically, she, um, well, we actually became best friends after he left my house.
02:35:07.800
And I didn't know that he was doing all these things with her, like, behind my back and stuff.
02:35:12.320
This was one of the girls, not including the men and the other girls.
02:35:16.720
But, yeah, um, it was just interesting, I guess.
02:35:33.000
You said that you've been doing sex work slash escorting since you were 18, correct?
02:35:47.060
Uh, I think that's on your Twitter, your Instagram.
02:36:01.020
I've been in myself and my reviews from men and women.
02:36:08.780
From, like, myself and, like, my bodies that I've had.
02:36:16.800
And you said your ex was, excuse me, obsessed with you while you guys were dating, and he
02:36:28.580
I mean, yeah, we had sex every day, but he still thought it was, you know, he had to
02:36:33.400
He would come by the club while I was working and just throw money on other girls.
02:36:50.960
So you were saying that you wanted to be, you want to be a traditional wife or have a traditional...
02:36:55.860
I want to be both, basically, kind of, sort of.
02:37:03.620
You, I mean, can you work a regular job, like a day job, like a nine-to-five and still be
02:37:08.920
a traditional stay-at-home, like, can you do both?
02:37:11.700
So I just, I feel like it's both, kind of, I guess.
02:37:16.240
How is being, how is being a traditional wife and being a feminist, like, how does that...
02:37:32.520
She said she was a traditional, but also a feminist.
02:37:46.720
Because people think that equality, like feminism is all equality, but this is where
02:37:54.100
Equality is only equal chance, but never equal results.
02:38:01.480
Because, like, if him and I go against for the same job at, let's say, axing a tree,
02:38:05.980
he axes it faster than me, so I'm not going to get paid the same as him.
02:38:11.080
So feminism into being a traditional woman of the household does not correlate with each
02:38:16.760
I mean, with that example, literally, scientifically, men are just more stronger than that.
02:38:20.960
How do we go from feminist to talking about her at the club?
02:38:23.760
She said that she wants to be a traditional woman, but she's also a feminist.
02:38:32.760
Because you can't be a feminist and still be a traditional wife.
02:38:36.600
Women should have the right to vote and own property and participate.
02:38:40.820
Brian, didn't you say something about not talking about political?
02:38:51.580
If you think women should have the right to vote, women should work, they should own
02:38:55.580
You can still be a working mom, and you can still be at home to be a traditional wife.
02:39:03.360
That's not necessarily true, because I raised my child by myself, and I do not get child support,
02:39:11.180
So with that being said, I'm still a traditional woman, and I'm not a feminist.
02:39:16.380
If you believe that women should be able to vote, you're a feminist.
02:39:20.940
I believe that humans all equally should have rights.
02:39:24.940
Do you realize that men had more rights up until...
02:39:27.940
Men of all colors, it doesn't matter what color skin you have in America, had every single
02:39:39.380
So just because you want to go out, and you want to get a career, and you want to get
02:39:43.880
a job, when it comes time to having children and being that traditional wife, it's time
02:39:49.380
That was first way feminism that got women the right to vote.
02:39:53.380
You are a feminist if you believe that women should be able to vote, participate in society,
02:40:06.380
You might not be a radical feminist, but you are.
02:40:10.380
Wait, actually, I didn't get to my point, Brian.
02:40:19.380
Where I was going to is, so let's say if you met a man that was traditional, and then he
02:40:32.380
But don't you think maybe that would probably get in the way of your future husband right
02:40:36.380
now, like knowing your past, or just what's your take on that?
02:40:40.380
I mean, of course, a man who wants to settle down with somebody like me would need to understand,
02:40:47.380
But I would delete all my social medias for the meantime, and I would just start all
02:40:53.380
We friend Paige and everything, like I would be obsessed.
02:41:09.380
I actually commend her for being willing to delete her social media.
02:41:15.380
I actually commend that because, you know, guys come with demands.
02:41:24.380
So if a woman is trying to prove her love to me, her loyalty, and her commitment, if
02:41:27.380
that's what she wants to do to do it, then I agree with that.
02:41:32.380
As a man, we don't demand, no healthy man should demand that a woman do something.
02:41:38.380
But if the woman is feeling him enough, she'd do it on her own.
02:41:41.380
And the fact that she's willing to do that, I can applaud that.
02:41:44.380
But isn't content creating another source of income that you have?
02:41:48.380
Isn't content creating another source of income that you have?
02:41:52.380
Yeah, but it's not the healthiest kind of income for how to have a relationship.
02:41:57.380
You thought your main income was when you would go in person and do that.
02:42:05.380
Um, so like, if your girlfriend is like an influencer, like on the healthy side, you know,
02:42:11.380
like athletics, whatever of that nature, um, you don't mind that, right?
02:42:15.380
If it's like respectful and all that, like dude, like, cause I know she brought up the
02:42:18.380
whole, are you like the girl behind the scenes type?
02:42:35.380
I'm talking about normal, like YouTuber, you know, make a bit closer.
02:42:39.380
I mean, for me it's complicated because I'm going to look at how does this affect the
02:42:43.380
Because there's a certain amount of time, attention, energy that I need to be put towards the
02:42:48.380
And if she's consumed in her content making, then she's not going to be able to nurture
02:42:54.380
So I don't believe she would be able to find the balance.
02:42:56.380
I would have to see that she actually knows how to find the balance.
02:43:10.380
If it was her income, then it would probably be something that she started from the jump.
02:43:13.380
But if I have the choice, if I have the choice, I wouldn't even date another influencer
02:43:29.380
Every girl I've dated, see, my date, yeah, what I want is what I'm already used to.
02:43:35.380
I'm, yeah, I'm already used to, what I want is what I, like, no girl that I dated had more
02:43:50.380
Cause like, I'm like, if somebody was like, you know, on the same path as you as far as
02:43:57.380
Cause you know, it's rare to find people that's actually doing content like this.
02:44:01.380
You know, Brian's, you know, podcast, this is him being himself.
02:44:04.380
You know, like people really have to be their, their selves.
02:44:07.380
So it's like, do you really feel like you can't be with somebody that's truly wants to
02:44:13.380
Like, you know, you used to a certain thing, but it's okay to go outside the box a little
02:44:30.380
I was just like, no, no, I just, I just want you to just keep an open mind.
02:44:35.380
You know, like just keep the thought of it, but don't be like, don't, don't belittle.
02:44:43.380
I treat everything case by case, but I'm saying in general, typically I don't go for influence.
02:44:54.380
It's not necessarily the attention that she would receive is her having to prioritize
02:44:59.380
It's her having to constantly, she'd be married to her content.
02:45:03.380
Instead of being engaged with someone who prioritizes him.
02:45:06.380
Have you ever been with a content creator before?
02:45:10.380
I mean, I haven't been in one, but I've messed with, I've messed with, I've messed
02:45:16.380
Like I was, like I was involved with a girl who had 443 K on Tik Tok.
02:45:21.380
Like, and for me, yeah, we could relate talking about content and stuff.
02:45:25.380
We could give each other ideas and all that kind of stuff.
02:45:28.380
But at the end of the day, I'm like, yo, you spend too much time doing it.
02:45:35.380
Because I make time, even though I'd create content, I make time.
02:45:43.380
But maybe it was like maybe just like her thing.
02:45:45.380
I think respectfully, I like your answer and whatever you like is okay.
02:45:48.380
Because at the end of the day, like, it is kind of hard to be with somebody that's
02:46:29.380
I just wanted to just know like your intake on that.
02:46:32.380
I didn't say you cute, but I meant to say you cool.
02:46:38.380
It's cause a lot of the females are talking and it's just be, I, I ain't gonna lie.
02:46:43.380
I get so sick of hearing females talk about what they think a man wants.
02:46:49.380
I just, I just want to say like, so that's why I'd be like, you tell me what you think.
02:46:53.380
Cause I'm tired of hearing the females talk about, oh, a man wants this.
02:46:56.380
You're not a man to know what the hell a man wants.
02:47:02.380
But I feel like a lot of the times it's like, every man is not the same.
02:47:05.380
Like not every man wants you to just do traditional obeying shit.
02:47:10.380
Like a lot of men be like, damn, you got a lot of free time on you.
02:47:16.380
I deal with like people that really be having shit going on.
02:47:22.380
I see a lot of the times where men speak about what do women bring to the table and stuff
02:47:28.380
If y'all make yourself so available and y'all not in tune to what y'all passionately
02:47:30.380
want to do and y'all just obligated to just do what a man wants you to do.
02:47:36.380
Just doing what a man wants you to do and just getting fucked.
02:47:42.380
Maybe because I just grew up how I grew up in a baby.
02:47:49.380
So you be giving me, I don't know, you giving me 1880 vibes.
02:48:02.380
Like, I have a thing that I got in Australia when I was there.
02:48:06.380
So I have, so this gentleman that was a big promoter for the Royal Easter Show,
02:48:13.380
which is the big fair in Sydney, Australia, had these man rules.
02:48:26.380
And like, one of the biggest things that women bitch about when they're in a relationship
02:48:32.380
You need it down, he needs it up, meet in the middle, and compromise.
02:48:38.380
Because I ain't never been in a toilet seat lift up situation.
02:48:47.380
I just feel like it's respectful to know what a man loves.
02:48:54.380
Like, we should always naturally offer that to them.
02:49:21.380
Hey, we're actually gonna call Andrew here in just a few minutes.
02:49:56.380
Can somebody test out and see if like a prime is available?
02:51:29.380
Oh, you got some new lighting in the back there, Andrew.
02:51:34.380
Are you able to boost the light on you a little bit?
02:51:56.380
We'll have you introduce yourself whenever you're ready.
02:52:04.380
this is my dear friend, my Caucasian, Andrew Wilson.
02:52:21.380
This man has moved in the opposite direction of the slightly off-center direction he's normally.
02:52:40.380
It's the fastest growing debate channel on the internet.
02:52:43.380
I'm a bloodsport debater, political satirist, and also a political analyst.
02:52:49.380
And so I come on these shows, especially whatever, and generally try to discuss different world views and why people think the things that they think.
02:53:26.380
Are you watching a little bit, or on your stream, or?
02:53:33.380
So let me get you caught up on a couple things here.
02:53:35.380
I'll give you kind of the rundown on some of the panelists that we have.
02:53:39.380
So we have OnlyFans, Thruple, I don't know how to introduce you.
02:54:19.380
We have that girl with the blue hair over there.
02:54:39.380
I don't know if you remember tangling with her, Andrew.
02:55:00.380
You did say, you did say you would do it later.
02:55:17.380
I just, I'm just, why we can't keep talking and then I'll do it later.
02:55:48.380
I will go out to bars and sit down and I'll start talking to someone.
02:55:53.380
And apparently I just lay out their whole life and they're like, oh my gosh, how did
02:56:00.380
And then they're like, oh my God, I'm like, this is what you need to do.
02:56:03.380
And then they're like, oh my God, you just literally healed my soul.
02:56:08.380
Oh, wait, Andrew, before, Andrew, she also likes pineapple on pizza.
02:56:16.380
That's, that's, uh, if you're so clairvoyant, then how come you couldn't avoid that pitfall?
02:56:21.380
Wait, does his, does Andrew's audio sound lower, Nick?
02:56:25.380
It does sound, Andrew, did you adjust anything on your end?
02:56:30.380
He, you're going to have to turn it up on yours.
02:56:33.380
Wait, Nick, you should be able to boost the audio.
02:56:41.380
Um, you are, so, so you're a clairvoyant witch.
02:56:49.380
You're a clairvoyant witch who heals people's souls when you're at the bar.
02:56:53.380
No, when they're sitting in my chair, like I'm a cosmetologist and I also am a barber.
02:56:58.380
So like, I literally will, like people will just pour out their souls to me and I ask all
02:57:03.380
the right questions for them to answer themselves in the mirror so they see themselves when they're
02:57:08.380
And it's like, it's a, it's a new version of healing people's trauma without them laying
02:57:20.380
It's all like, it, it's very personal to people when they open up to somebody.
02:57:31.380
They just come to me and I'm easy for them to talk to because I don't judge people.
02:58:06.380
Either she's trolling or she's lived a very sheltered life.
02:58:09.380
I'm actually so upset that you guys think I'm trolling because I genuinely wish.
02:58:11.380
All of my friends from high school, kindergarten, like I grew up like this.
02:58:26.380
She took out her knife and stabbed it in my stomach and twisted the knife.
02:58:35.380
So the question that someone asked, I believe, was if we would date Brian.
02:58:38.380
And then some girls voted yes, some girls voted no.
02:58:41.380
I voted no because coming in I kind of like already saw his character and he didn't say hi to all of us.
02:58:49.380
In the beginning, because we like entered his house.
02:58:52.380
I wouldn't date him because I didn't like his character.
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That while he was busy running around the studio like a chicken with his head cut off setting everything up for one of the most massive IRL live shows on planet Earth.
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He didn't take the time to stop and kiss your ass adequately.
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I can understand why that would be highly upsetting to him.
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Well, no, I don't like the way you put it, but I respect your opinion.
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Because he didn't stop and say, oh, wow, you're so pretty.
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And everything about you is just epic in every way.
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Maybe she just wanted him to roll out the red carpet.
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He has collected a group of women from probably all over the nation, I would assume.
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Brought them all into a single location to allow them to go on.
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Again, one of the largest IRL podcasts on planet Earth.
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But I could definitely see why his meet and greet style, why he's preparing for a large
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Because really, at the end of the day, it's all about you, right?
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She wanted the red carpet to just, oh, you know.
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Well, it also just casts a shadow on your eyes.
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Well, thank you for coming to my defense, Andrew.
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Well, let me just end it with, just so you know, right?
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What I call that is spoiled brat behavior, being a spoiled brat.
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Because you want all, you want everything to stop so that people can acknowledge you.
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And how wonderful the things are that you do coming in to a student.
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Now, I'm sure that it never even occurred to you that you could be, oh, I don't know,
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Perhaps grateful for the fact that you were given a great opportunity on a massive show.
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I mean, why do that, though, when you can be a spoiled, entitled brat instead?
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I think she was just saying that, like, there was no acknowledgement.
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It wasn't dismissive, because he, when we all walked in, he said, there's Brian.
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So she had the expectation of being greeted by Brian, but Brian was super busy.
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Q, hang on, Q, were your, were your feelings hurt when you came in and Brian didn't acknowledge
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When you got into the studio and Brian didn't go over and give you a pat on the back, tell
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I just, for some reason, I just didn't think it would be a problem for you.
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But if you, if you heard me say I said that it wasn't because of me.
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At least, I wish you could have said that to somebody.
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I know, but there, there's no more second chances at a first impression.
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First impression with a human being, with a kid, with a two.
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You gave a terrible first impression of yourself.
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Yeah, you gave a terrible first impression of yourself.
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Your first, the first impression of the getting to know you stage of this was that you're an
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entitled brat who gets upset that the world doesn't stop in order to pat you on the head
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Perhaps in the future, instead of working on me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me,
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You can remember that there's an entire world around you of people doing all kinds of things
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that have nothing to do with you and it's not an affront.
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It's not meant as an affront to you that they have actual work that they have to get done
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in order to produce this massive podcast that thousands of people are currently watching.
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I'm sorry your ass was not sufficiently kissed on behalf of the whatever pot.
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Can you squeeze a little lemon in there for her?
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Is there anything else you can do for you, sweetheart?
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And actually to your point, Nick, I have assigned, I have light, not licensed.
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I've, I've assigned Nick who is my proxy, who is my agent.
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I don't know how we would be offended because of that.
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I mean, I can understand, but I mean, it sounds to me like somebody would be dodging the bullet,
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Because, because if the standard for dating is when you're in the middle of doing something
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that's super important that literally a dozen other people are counting on, plus thousands
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upon thousands of other people on top of that, if you don't drop what you're doing immediately
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to kiss my ass, then that means you're not date worthy.
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It's like, okay, well then I would say that anybody who was able to walk away from that
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or dodge that bullet has done a, probably, probably done him a huge favor.
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And this is why Andrew has been bestowed the, I can't even remember what the Latin was.
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Dude, don't, don't do, don't do the kumquat, dude.
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The quad, I've bestowed upon you the title of quad quumque defensor.
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I, that's, look, blame it on the people who devise the Latin language for the, the most
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Speaking of which, Nick, can we do test out one thing?
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Nick, in the sources tab, can you cop, uh, highlight discord, click on discord.
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And then you should just be able to press control V.
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Cause we, if for some reason we don't have it set up on this angle for the splits.
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Did she go to make you a sandwich to apologize, Brian, for her rude behavior?
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Uh, no, but she's, she's actually, I think Andrew, your, your rebuke.
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But I mean, don't you have the sandwich bar over there?
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Would you, would you accept a sandwich as a form of apology?
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So, uh, but Nickelodeon, thank you very much, man.
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Now I wanted to see, I'm trying to recall, let me get into some of my prescient.
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Erica, you said your last 10 years of your relationship, one interesting spark.
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So, um, when I, okay, so first off, there's two types of daters in this world.
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The investor goes on dates with one person and puts all of their time into that one person
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He was dating a panel of women and he was honest about it.
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And when we were in the early dating stages, he told me that he was, um, more of a polyamorous
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So there's threesomes and she goes and brings women back.
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So, so how, I mean, like how did that conversation start?
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You guys were talking and he was like, Hey, you know what I'd really like you to do?
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Well, he pretty much just said, I will not settle down with a woman unless they could satisfy
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And that's when I was like, well, what do you like sexually?
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And he told me and I was successful in it until I was not successful anymore because
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his, his, I called it the dark passenger, like Dexter type stuff.
03:10:19.380
I called it the dark, I taught, I said that, well, his dark passenger started to evolve.
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And when it started to evolve, I retracted and could not satisfy him anymore.
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So he broke up with me because I can't do certain things.
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I will not say that actually, it does not matter.
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I mean, it's gotta be pretty bad if you're willing to go out and get other chicks for
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him to bang so that you don't have to fulfill whatever this dark passenger desire is, right?
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I mean, we had a girlfriend for almost two years that lived with us.
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Him and I, we, I, there was a girlfriend that we had.
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And so, and did you bring other women in as well?
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Uh, when we had her, no, there was no other women.
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Um, so the reason why most women didn't stay is because I learned that women, um, they want
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to, they want to jeopardize your relationship and take over and get you kicked out.
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And so I don't want to, I didn't want a girlfriend anymore.
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I was like, I don't want to do this unless we can do it together because I personally
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don't like the betrayal of the other women that are supposed to be there for me and him
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I'm very loyal to the man that I am with and I will make him happy no matter what he asks.
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Um, but isn't this kind of passing the buck saying that, um, essentially the reason that
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you were getting chicks for him is because it was his desire and you were just being
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Isn't that kind of passing the buck and basically putting him at fault for things that you also
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I did what he asked because I wanted to do it for him.
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Isn't that you wanted to do it for him because it made you happy as well, right?
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Filling his cup and seeing the desire of him wanting me more did make me happy.
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Because when I would do those things for him, he would, I mean, you're, so you're equally
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Our very first sex party that we went to, which we were, we're both voyeurs.
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Um, I rather, I, it's a psychological thing for me.
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I want to, I, I trying to better understand why these women and men are swapping and sharing
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So there was this one guy that was walking around and he had trouble.
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And there's really no better way to do that than by participating, right?
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I, that's why I would never participate because I did not want to be, I don't like to be watched.
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Um, and I would like, so we, there was this man at the sex party walking around and he probably
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had the biggest penis I've ever seen in my life.
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And then all of a sudden this woman that was like 400 pounds, just like sumo wrestled herself
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And so him and I just start laughing and we get in trouble for laughing.
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So we get kicked out of this party because we were just so uncomfortable at our first experience
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at this and he was like, would you have ever done that?
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So then that's when he started to evolve sexually.
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And I just, I can't give him what he desires anymore.
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So he wants me to find somebody more monogamous.
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So, I mean, ultimately you're being a fucking D gen, right?
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Like you're both just being a couple of fucking D gens.
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You're going out of your way to just have sex with a ton of different people because it was self-gratifying for you.
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But he was, and you were helping him like case, case him out, scope him out, find him.
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You were, you were basically like, uh, the, the Weinstein side.
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What, what, what's, you know, uh, what, what's the chick's name?
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You were, you were basically his Ghislaine Maxwell, right?
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So you were, uh, you were basically, and how would you convince these women to go,
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Uh, we met like, one of the girls that we met, um, she was all about me.
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We met her at a lesbian bar and she saw me and was like, oh my God, you're the most beautiful thing.
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I, I, and she grabbed my breast and was like, and that turned him on.
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Um, none of this were, none of it, the whole time that this was going on, none of it was
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a red flag for you that a woman just went over and grabbed your breast and said, oh,
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And then your dude wanted to be like, what, what in the world is going through your mind
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Um, I did it without expectation of anything except for if you ever break up with me, don't
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Um, and there was, there's children involved in this.
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I'm just saying my children never knew about it.
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But while you are taking care of two children, you're involving yourself in sex swinger parties
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and helping this guy find women to bone while you have kids.
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If mom's like, uh, if mom's burying dead bodies in the backyard, is it good?
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You know, well, the kids never knew about it, right?
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I mean, you just, didn't you just admit all this on one of the largest IRL podcasts
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Well, being that my son is in military school and does not have a cell phone, and I guarantee
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Well, I mean, is he going to be in military school for the rest of his life?
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Brian, you shall address Andrew as the Grand Inquisitor.
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Panel, the Inquisition Patriarchy stands ready to rebuke your degeneracy.
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But, I mean, honestly, what are you going to do?
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Your son, I think I caught this earlier, he's almost an adult, right?
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So, I mean, eventually he's going to find out about this, isn't he?
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We didn't hide that from my children, that there was three of us in a relationship.
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And in what world did you think that that was a good idea for your kids?
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So you're single now because you made a bad choice to have a throuple?
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Because I won't let him watch me fuck other men.
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He wanted to watch you get bedded down with other dudes and that was your line, right?
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So, I mean, but the thing is, is I do have to ask this because I'm curious, right?
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Isn't the, well, hey, baby, I want to really watch another guy plow you while I watch that
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Isn't that enough for you to be like, well, I was already checked out.
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And not only was I already checked out, I neglected his needs as a man.
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And I did not break up with him in fear that he would drop my son.
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What do you mean drop your, what do you mean drop your son?
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So the paperwork is being processed and everything, but-
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So if he hasn't adopted your son, there's no real investment here other than emotional investment.
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Why would you want to keep a cuck around your children?
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I mean, if you, I'm the type of person that our relationship wasn't my kids' relationship.
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Even though he broke up with me, he still plays an active, positive role in my son's
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Like for me, being a single mom of my son for 17 years, I am a woman.
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I cannot raise a boy and teach him how to be a man.
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Do you think a cuck can raise a boy and teach him how to be a man?
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Yeah, but they're going to eventually know about that.
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One day they're going to be out fishing when he's 19.
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Because he's a very private person and doesn't want people knowing about this side of him.
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I think that the last person that I'd want to have the masculine energy around my kids
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would be a person who wanted to watch their mother get plowed by other dudes.
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We haven't even slept together since he broke up with me.
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But that's the thing is that he broke up with you.
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Which means that he told you he was a cuck and wanted these different relationships,
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I just, I was in love with the person that showed me his true side and was always honest
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He's the first man that I've ever fallen in love with.
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Why is there so many dudes who want to see their chick get plowed by other dudes while
03:21:22.380
I can honestly say that I would never be in a relationship like this again.
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And I do, I don't think that I will ever, I will, I can honestly say I don't think a
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man is going to want to marry me after knowing what I did for him because I'm not going to
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Well, I mean, I'm not, I don't, I'm not sure that that's true, that there's just no other
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I'm just saying that doesn't seem like if a person were to go to you, you're, you're,
03:21:55.380
I'm looking for a masculine figure in my kids' lives.
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He's a good man, but he has kind of this sexual deviant side about him.
03:22:03.380
You refer to this, you refer to this deviant side as the dark passenger, right?
03:22:07.380
That's what you're referring to the deviant side as.
03:22:09.380
But the second a man is willing to share you with another man for his own sexual gratification,
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I don't, I, okay, so I know he valued me in the aspect of how I ran a house.
03:22:43.380
Um, and when we did argue, um, I accepted that he was going to,
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leave and then come back and talk about it respectfully.
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Do you think that a man can have self-respect if their significant other,
03:22:56.380
if they let men plow their significant other and they, in fact, insist on it,
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do you think that they can actually have any form of self-respect?
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Do you think that any man, any real man could ever allow that in a million years?
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No, you ain't sharing your significant other with nobody if you got self-respect.
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I did respect him and I did fill his cup with his dark passenger.
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You made a, what you did was you made a series of terrible, horrible choices and this guy
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revealed himself for what he was and you didn't care.
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You put yourself, your own values ahead of that of your kids.
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You're a piece of meat for him to share with the other wolves.
03:23:48.380
Well, I'm happy to move the combo on, but I appreciate the engagement there.
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Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to 10, starting with you.
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Some day they think I'm a two, some day they think I'm a 10.
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You ever been approached like from a major, you know, either agency or anything that represents models?
03:25:58.380
I only say ten because you should be a little confident.
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I feel like everybody should feel like you guys are a ten.
03:26:05.380
I don't think so, but somebody else is a version.
03:26:08.380
You're a ten is somebody else though, so it's okay.
03:26:27.380
So, I'm a bit confused here with this whole ten thing, right?
03:26:31.380
Don't you think it's a bit either delusional or hubris to consider yourself amongst the
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No, because I really feel like everybody should have just said ten.
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Can I ask the question, like, how do they feel on a scale of one to ten?
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And you want them to answer, like, how do they think their looks are to men on a scale
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The question is, what do you think your, like, for example, if I were to ask somebody,
03:27:02.380
okay, what are the, what do you think the measurements of your bicep are?
03:27:08.380
Now, that's something we can objectively measure, right?
03:27:11.380
Ah, well, I mean, I think we can just make it easier, right?
03:27:18.380
So, since you know the male gaze so well, can you judge for us what each of these women
03:27:41.380
Are you saying that you can't speak to the male gaze?
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Are you saying you can't speak to the male gaze because you're not a male?
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Oh, well, then never bring up the male gaze again.
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Never bring it up again because you can't speak to it.
03:27:49.380
I was explaining the difference in that question, right?
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A lot of women, when they ask, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten,
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they interpret that to be like, okay, I feel like on my level of how I can look,
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The question is, how do you think you compare to all the other women out there?
03:28:08.380
I didn't realize that you thought women were stupid and didn't understand basic questions.
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Do you really think that they misinterpret what's being asked?
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Yeah, because they're answering how they feel on a scale of one to ten.
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They're saying they feel like a ten out of ten.
03:28:26.380
Well, then let's ask this a different way then.
03:28:28.380
To the gal, the rapper who's next to you, I'm sorry, I didn't catch your name.
03:28:48.380
So, anyway, lady, could you maybe give a rating, an objective rating, since you consider yourself
03:28:54.380
a ten, I believe, what you consider all the other women to be at the table?
03:29:03.380
And respectfully speaking, we're talking about face cards.
03:29:07.380
Brian, I know you're not playing because I just said you could be a ten to somebody.
03:29:32.380
No, yeah, respectfully, you asked me a personal question, and I just feel like everybody is
03:29:42.380
Can you think of one off the top of your head who you would say isn't?
03:29:47.380
Respectfully, I can't say on top of my head who's not a ten.
03:29:52.380
So every woman that you've ever met that you could ever think of right now is a ten, really?
03:30:07.380
Do you know any women personally who aren't tens?
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Every woman's a ten who you've ever, who you know personally.
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Do you think you're going to be, and I'll, I'll open this up to the entire panel.
03:30:47.380
Do you think you will be better looking in 10 years?
03:30:52.380
I think in 10 years, I'm going to have beautiful wrinkles.
03:30:55.380
I'm going to have beautiful skin that changes in a different way.
03:30:59.380
And that's the most, that, that's, that's such a blessing to, to know that we're living
03:31:11.380
You're going to be better looking in when you're 50 than you are right now.
03:31:13.380
Are you going to be better looking than than you are right now?
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If you're 50, are you going to be better looking or not?
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I don't, I honestly don't think I can answer that.
03:31:53.380
So do you think you will be, let me start off with the first one.
03:31:54.380
Do you think you will be more physically attractive in 10 years?
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I think you have a different definition of attraction.
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There are plenty of very attractive women in their thirties, forties, et cetera.
03:32:12.380
The question is comparing yourself now at 23, do you think you will be more attractive
03:32:31.380
Let me ask you, one day when you die and you're in a casket, are you going to be just
03:32:42.380
So I no longer have a physical body to compare to.
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Is it still just as attractive as you right now?
03:33:31.380
So will you be more physically attractive at 33 as compared to 23?
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Still beautiful, but not the same level, if that makes sense.
03:33:57.380
Some women are more attractive at 30, some are less.
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I'm saying some women do get more attractive from 25, 30.
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If you were to look at averages, just how you averagely interpret women, based on how
03:34:21.380
you, on average, see them at 20 versus at 33, let's say, would you say if you're in the
03:34:27.380
same boat, on average, you would be less or more attractive?
03:34:42.380
I don't think I'll be more attractive at 43 if it helps, but 33 is kind of like.
03:34:49.380
I got more attractive from my 20s to my 30s only because I lost almost 100 pounds.
03:34:59.380
You'll be more attractive at 35 than you are now at 25.
03:35:13.380
So you're more attractive or you will be more attractive at 35 than you are now.
03:35:33.380
So, I mean, when I get older, of course, I'm still going to look like 28, 29.
03:35:52.380
You'll be more attractive in 10 years than you are now.
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I think grays are really hot, so I'm going to say yes.
03:36:05.380
I love like a silver fox, so I think that's hot.
03:36:17.380
So, you think that'll make you more attractive?
03:36:19.380
Well, if they're so hot, then why do you cover them up?
03:36:27.380
They are, but I don't have a full head of gray yet, so.
03:36:31.380
I don't, and I choose not to color my hair because I like the silver.
03:36:46.380
So, will you be more physically attractive at 33 or how you are now at 23?
03:36:50.380
I think I'm in my prime right now, so I'm going to say no.
03:37:12.380
Does being realistic mean you're not confident?
03:37:14.380
Can you still be confident if you're realistic?
03:37:23.380
You think you'll be more attractive at 55 than you are now?
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I think I will be attractive, period, no matter what age it is.
03:37:32.380
I feel like we got our young skin and stuff like that.
03:37:35.380
We will still be beautiful, but will we be more attractive at an older age?
03:37:42.380
We will still be beautiful, but that's why we're not answering.
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To all of you who said you'll be more attractive in 10 years, 20 years, whatever, if any of you said 10, how could you possibly be a 10 now if you'll be more attractive in 10 years time?
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I can't even keep track, but Q, you had something else, right?
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I was just wondering, because when we talk about things objectively, it's okay to be objective and still have confidence.
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I think misconstruing, you know, oh, I got to say I'm a 10, or I got to say I'm going to be more attractive in 10 years, you don't think that's delusional?
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That's why I say you have to be realistic about your answer.
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That doesn't mean you're not confident just because you're being realistic.
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A lot of men think they're going to be like they're in their primes in their 30s.
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But a lot of men are like receding their hairlines already at that point.
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I don't know, but I want to be honest, you know, Holly Berry and those folks.
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A lot of women are also receding their hairlines.
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I believe that men older with their salt and pepper are more distinguished.
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And as long as they live a healthy lifestyle, sometimes they are more attractive than they
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Because when the man is in their 20s, they look like a baby face.
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But as older men, I think older men are more attractive because they're more distinguished.
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I mean, there certainly is a differential here in terms of, you know, what fits into sort
03:39:32.380
There are some certain differentials there when it comes to...
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Q, you've talked about this when it comes to...
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I think you've talked about this when it comes to, like, experience and even trauma,
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And it also tends to make women more masculine.
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So while women are attracted to masculinity, men are attracted to femininity.
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But I'll actually give you my own assessment on this.
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I'm not going to be all delusional on this myself.
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I'll even say all else being equal, too, because I've gained a little bit of weight.
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I got a little chubby recently, you know, working on it.
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For example, I'm getting bags under my eyes a little bit.
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Yeah, I think I was probably better looking when I was a little younger.
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But in 10 years time, no, there's no way I'm going to be...
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I'm not going to be better looking at 44 than I am now at 34.
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Now, granted, I think there's a bit of a differential when it comes to aging between men and women.
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I don't fully buy it because there's plenty of men that just...
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You know, this whole trope of, well, men age like wine and women age like milk.
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But look, there's a lot of men who age terribly.
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There's a little bit of truth to it, but it's not like every single man's just going to have a fucking glow up, you know?
03:41:19.380
And I think it's also hitting on like resource acquisition.
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It includes men being more financially attractive, them having acquired more, having accomplished more.
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That's typically what we mean when we say men are going to be more attractive as they age because they should have acquired more.
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They don't want somebody that's going to live in their car.
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So I'll be more financially attractive at 40, without a doubt.
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There was a chick who liked her men to live in her car with her.
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Of all the women on the panel, the highest rate is a four.
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I don't think anybody's going to be able to guess it.
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If I can guess, without you giving the game away, if I can guess which one it is, will you send in another $300 super chat?
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Well, we'll have to wait and see what he has to say.
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But are you going to guess which one before he says it?
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We have actually a couple other points on this whole thing.
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For those of you who said you'll look better in 10 or 20 years.
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If I could wave a magic wand that only advanced your outer appearance to how you will look in 10 years.
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You just advanced 10 years in terms of your physical appearance.
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It's just your outward appearance moves it forward 10 years.
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Even though you'd be more physically attractive in 10 years time.
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Because I want to live my life like however I'm supposed to be.
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If it takes 10 years for me to look 10, 10 years.
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So, you don't think aging has any impact on for your skin for example?
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My guess is that he's referencing red dress with glasses.
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That he claims the most attractive woman's panel, but still a 4.
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You want to say something as the most beautiful woman at the table?
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I want to hear more from redhead Linda Hamilton from Terminator.
03:45:06.380
But for the whole panel, where do you plan to be in 10 years in your lives or where do
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So to the whole panel, where do you plan to be in 10 years in your lives?
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So an earth ship is a 100% self-sustaining home that is cooled with the moon and heated
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I want to have chickens and goats and I want to grow fruit and vegetables and I want to provide
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and be 100% self-sustaining by myself without the production of mass chemically altered food.
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Definitely married and if I'm not doing content creating, being a teacher for sure.
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Probably have a family, be one of the most influential minds of this generation.
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I'm going to be rich and I'm going to ride off into the sunset with my wife and kids and
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Or anybody else for that matter if I can avoid it.
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I can't see myself continuing to do the dating talk, maybe a normal podcast.
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I would probably pass the reins on to somebody else.
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I certainly don't see myself still doing this when I'm, the dating panels anyways,
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I'd pass the reins on to somebody else, but we have minus 100.
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How this black t-shirt calls herself conservative, be a degenerate, allow her children to be around
03:48:09.380
Apparently I'm just crazy because if you actually meditate and you use mother earth, you can
03:48:18.380
But I'm not going to let you self project from within outward towards me because what I've
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Like when you were like one year old, you're like making potions and shit.
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No, I'm just saying like I've, my life is working for me.
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Like, I don't feel bad for the experiences that I've, I've had in life.
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Was I submissive and gave a man everything he want with his darkest fantasies?
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They didn't know about all of it because they don't need to know about it because they're
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This kind of sounds like they maybe flourished in spite of you.
03:49:07.380
My son looks up to me and he decided to graduate high school a whole year early so he can be
03:49:13.380
so he can be a Marine because he has seen the struggle that I have gone through.
03:49:17.380
And he's like, Mom, I just want to help you out.
03:49:26.380
But I gotta, I gotta tell you, he's probably going to get ripped pretty hard once people
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find out that that bomb was with a cock, right?
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I think that if, if that, if it comes down to that, I think that he's going to see
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that I provided for my children the best I knew how.
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I don't because I didn't respect my mother as a stripper.
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So my grandmother, my grandmother, my mom's side was a prostitute who was murdered.
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I just, I don't, my grandmother, my mother's side was a prostitute who was murdered.
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And for some reason, my, my mother had no ambition to become hooked up with some kind
03:50:16.380
So using this kind of cope of you came from a stripper, it's irrelevant.
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Do I believe that he was traumatized as a child and that's why he is the way he is
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Matter of fact, I know he was abused as a child.
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I just want to say, it sounds like your son loves you a lot and respects you.
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I can just, I can just tell by, I can just tell.
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And the fact that he went off to the Marine Corps, congratulations.
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I'm very, my biggest achievement in this world are my kids.
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She's in the army and she's about to get married.
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You were, you were out grooming chicks so that your dude could plow them.
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You were literally out grooming chicks and bribing them so your dude could plow them.
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These, these chicks wanted him as much as they wanted me.
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But you were sent out on a certain mission to find them specifically so that your dude could plow them.
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And he ended up breaking up with you because you wouldn't fuck other dudes.
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Because what happens behind the closed doors of a bedroom, the children don't need to know because they don't need to understand debauchery at those ages.
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Yeah, that's the same type of shit that you hear from every OnlyFans prostitute who exists that their children will always forgive their past because after all, they'll be driving a Bugatti.
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And I will have to hurdle that bunk in the road when it comes to that day.
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But as of right now, I don't need to because he didn't get to cuck me.
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But you didn't end the relationship when he said he wanted to do that.
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So again, you did not end the relationship when the man wanted to share you.
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So I was trying to change a man that I fell in love with.
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That you have no self control because of the chemical bonds of love.
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I didn't know about that until far into the relationship.
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I was hoping I would have been the last girl he would ever wanted to try.
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I was hoping he would give me a ring to marry me.
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Well, I mean, it doesn't sound like that's on him.
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I'm not saying it's on him by no means have I ever blamed him.
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I do have a pride because I saw how much he loved me in a sense.
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At least that's what I told myself that he loved me.
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I saw that his heart was like, or his eyes were just like filled.
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And I was able to do these things knowing that I was capable of making a man happy.
03:54:33.380
You said that you needed a man in your life to be a masculine role model for your son.
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I have more than just him in my son's life, though.
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I have very influential men that are in my son's life.
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You said that you were with him because he was a masculine role model for your son in his life.
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So you do need a man in your life by your own admission.
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Even though he broke up with me, he's still being a positive role model for the children.
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So my son's father raped me and tried to kill me.
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I know we're not supposed to say it, but you want the honest truth.
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But the thing is, is what I'm asking you though, is like, is this guy anywhere around in your
03:55:48.380
When you guys ended it, it was just checked out for good or...
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I don't know any circumstances, but I just want to know, because you did say that you
03:56:08.380
Yeah, because I can't teach a boy how to be a man.
03:56:09.380
Of course I want to know what the situation is with a biological father.
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A cuck can't teach a boy how to be a man either.
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Just because of what you like sexually behind closed doors does not make you a bad man.
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No man has self-respect at all if they're willing to allow their chick to get plowed
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If a man loves you, he would not do that to you.
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Yeah, yeah, but he's not trying to say that in a rude way.
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If a man really love you, he wouldn't do that to you.
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Even if you settle to do what you want to do for a man to please him.
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That's what I was trying to tell you previously.
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No self-respecting man ever who loves their woman would ever share her with anybody.
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Do you think a woman doesn't need a man in general?
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But I'm just saying, do you think a woman needs a man in general in her life?
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Because men these days want to be pampered for what?
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Y'all expect us to work, take care of the kids, and do household chores.
03:58:07.380
No, but in my situation, I don't mind spoiling my man, okay?
03:58:10.380
But if I'm not getting spoiled back, that's making me like you're my child.
03:58:14.380
So as far as my baby father, why we broke up is because he wanted for me to take care
03:58:19.380
Still, like you said, drain his balls, whatever.
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I just want to say I'm new to hearing drain his balls.
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Some men are very, like, very ignorant and they're just in their own little world.
03:58:53.380
Nick, can you bring up the greater male variability?
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The greater male variability theory that shows that on the extreme ends.
03:59:04.380
So, the most stupid people, there's a greater proportion of really, really stupid men as
03:59:09.380
compared to women, but there's also a greater proportion of very, very highly intelligent
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There's more so very, very hyper-intelligent men than there are women.
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But there's more women who are in the middle who are on the average.
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So, you have, there's more stupid men, but there's also more really, really smart men.
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Does that make the statement that women mature faster than men choose?
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Men also have more general knowledge across domains than women do as well.
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Because men react on logic and thought and fact and not emotion.
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If you don't come to my DM saying you want to be my man, you got to pay my bills.
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Like, so when you first meet a guy, he's got to like immediately start paying the bills?
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I'm like, if we're living together and we're like sharing a life together, like I would,
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if I'm taking care of the kids and I'm doing my thing, I want you to pay most of the bills.
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Like, if you're going on a first date with a guy, would you expect him to pay the babysitter?
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I don't know if any of you saw this viral video.
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I think they'd been dating for a short period of time.
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She expected him to purchase food for, does anybody know what I'm talking about?
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My opinion on it is, you're talking about, yeah, you said the restaurant where the, the
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girlfriend, yeah, expected the, the, her boyfriend to buy her kids food, but it's not her, his
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I think as long as the guys, if he has another kid with her, I think he should take care of
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If he doesn't have a kid with her, where's your baby daddy at?
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So if they were dating for a long time, like I could see how that's kind of disrespectful.
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Cause if we're like dating, like I would expect you to take care of me and my child.
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I mean, I can do it on my own, not saying I can't do it, but like, I would expect a man
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I will never ever let another nigga in my presence unless he actually doing grown man
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Like, like my baby daddy does not have a car, no license, no house.
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It is a scam because it like, I think it doesn't apply to rich people.
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Now, um, he's forced to take care of her because I work, I pay the bills and he has no
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So I'm not going to let him drive my car to go spend money on weed, alcohol and everything
04:03:07.380
Wait, Andrew, can I, let me, I'm always intrigued by these situations cause you said all of
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So when I got with him, we were both taking care of our own stuff to like separately.
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And then when I got pregnant, we decided to move.
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So, um, we had moved from Alaska and then I went to Virginia, he went to Florida and I
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And then we said, okay, we're going to move in together.
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We moved in and then he ended up losing his job twice.
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And I was like, okay, I'm going to just start, you know, paying the bills, taking care of
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And I told him he had a certain time to get a job, but he decided not to do that, which
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But I was like, I'm not going to have no third kid taking care of a man.
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When you're laid up in my house, like you comfortable, like how are you comfortable
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That was like, I don't care how much I love you.
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Wait, were you, were you an escort during this period?
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Like it's been a long ass time since I escorted.
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Oh, you, that's the last time you escorted was at 18?
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So y'all moved in together and it was, your name was on the lease?
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Now, if you lived together, how was he not involved in the first 10 months?
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So the situation was we didn't have our own place when we moved.
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So we live with somebody else and I was, he was working, but he did not help me take care
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I take care of the kids, wake up, he go to work.
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That's why I said like it was getting frustrating, which is why I broke it off with him because how
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do you have a job and you're broke every time you get paid when he only spent money?
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So you guys were living together with the friend?
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He wasn't, you know, playing with her, feeding her, giving her a bath, nothing.
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So he was there for the first 10 months and then afterwards you guys got a place together.
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And then after you got a place together, you still live with him.
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Why would it be helpful to run the guy down on Twitter?
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So the reason is because he claims that even though I take care of the bills, I still don't
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He claims since I take care of the kids, I don't do anything.
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So I was sitting there saying that because I'm working and he's sitting there arguing
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I don't think he deserves my respect as far as me because why would he want to move to
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do anything which is good for you if you're running him down all the time?
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If you're running him down all the time, why would he want to move into the category
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of doing well by you or doing well by kind of this, what is becoming like a makeshift
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Why would he want to move into that position if you're just running him down?
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So at the game of our relationship, like I said, we were taking care of ourselves separately.
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He was working at some sort of seafood plant, whatever.
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And so when we decided to get pregnant, like we planned the pregnancy, we moved.
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I'll support the kids while you work and save up money to send me money for the baby.
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But then when we moved in together, like I said, no car, no license.
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I let him take up my time to work and he still didn't provide even when I let him use
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all my stuff and not pay for it as far as my car knows.
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So that's why I got fed up with it as of this year, because all he does is lay around and
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sleep and maybe change a diaper, maybe feed the baby, maybe do this.
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So my older daughter, but I mean, why would that be, why would that be a problem if he's
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just taking care of the one that's his, he's not doing anything wrong by doing that,
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But it's because when we got together, he knew I had my daughter and I told him if it
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was the media, like he has to treat her the same as he treats any other child we have.
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So that's an unreasonable expectation to put on a man or to put on a woman.
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It would be an unreasonable expectation to put on a woman that they have to treat your
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progeny the same as they would treat their own and vice versa.
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Like I said, he knew what he was getting into when he met me.
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So if he didn't want to do that, he should have told me from the get go and I could have
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moved on and not waste over two years of my life with him.
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Now that I'm working, I'm paying for everything.
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I buy him clothes, shoes, weed, alcohol, whatever.
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And so I just don't think it's fair to me that I'm 23 getting my shit together.
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He's my age, but he's 36 and he has nothing to his name.
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Like asking his mama for money is just too much for me and I handle my shit.
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When he first met, like I said, he was working, like he was in Alaska.
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And he was providing for me and my daughter, but then he lost everything.
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He, I mean, he lied about having a car when we first met.
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Cause he was calling out of work claiming, oh, he wanted to spend time with me.
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Well, he lied about the car, but everything else.
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Wait, after a year, you should have known he wasn't going to.
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I should have, but he was sending like, he was sending money every week for the baby.
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So I'm like, okay, maybe he's going to change, do whatever.
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I thought you just said he wasn't, that he wasn't supporting the kid at all.
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No, I'm talking about the one that he had with me.
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He, he has not supported since I had her when I was pregnant.
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He said he was supporting a kid that wasn't his.
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I'm saying when I got pregnant, he sent baby stuff as far as like diapers, you know,
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But then after I had her is when it changed and he lost his job and he just decided, you
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I'm going to use my money on pills and all this other bullshit.
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But he was, so he was sending support to his kid while you were pregnant and then post-pregnancy
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and you guys did live together and he is currently right this second living with you and still
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If you consider physically being there, yes, physically.
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But as far as being a dad, as being an active dad, no, he's not.
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So are you just going to sleep around all day and let your kids do whatever and not even
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Well, when I was, so, um, I, I spent most of my adult life working 60, 70 hours a week
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Probably most of the week I would say was spent sleeping without being able to participate
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as much as I wish I could have in my kids' lives.
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But you know, I was busy making money so that they could live.
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What's yours body count from left to right sound off?
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By the way, Andrew, that guy who you made a challenge to, did he, what was his name?
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I don't think he ever, uh, or was it if you guessed it right, he would do it?
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If you want to give us a separate S-ing the D number, we'll accept that too.
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Since I was 18 though, from 18 and now, yeah, 60.
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So, I mean, how many years is that from 18 to 23?
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So, what you're actually saying is that in five years you boned 60 dudes?
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So, give us your P and the V count and your P on P count.
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It's between, um, I'm gonna say five, I'm gonna give y'all like four to ten shit.
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So, we're counting just any time P to V, right?
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Okay, so, unconsensually I was damaged growing up.
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So, I laid with more women than I did men because there was a time in my life that I thought
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I was a lesbian and then I was like I can't even get along with myself.
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If you were like dating a dude, would you make him wait for sex all the while you're
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How many women did you get involved while you were with us ex of yours?
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They've been skipping in questions all the time.
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They've been skipping in questions all the time.
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It's cause it's cause you guys have slept with like Q in a choco.
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Can I, can I legitimately ask a question for you guys?
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Would you be able to date a woman knowing she did what she did like for me?
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Would you be able to be with a woman like myself knowing my past?
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Let me give you the, let me give you the caveat.
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So the answer is no, but there's a caveat here, right?
04:16:18.380
Which is that you're not, you don't, you don't have to spend the rest of your life
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And there are men who are willing to look past it.
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I mean, you ain't do nothing but settle for less.
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You ain't do nothing but just like invite girls freely.
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Once you know your wife and all that, it don't even matter.
04:17:02.380
They're cutting things off and I'm good on that.
04:17:04.380
Just don't feel like you gotta do whatever your man says just to keep him.
04:17:13.380
I want a woman who's so submissive she will jump off a building.
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You know I don't want her to do it but she better be willing to fucking drink the Kool-Aid.
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I said you men wouldn't know a good woman even if I hit you with my car.
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I mean what has men done for me other than get me pregnant and cheat on me.
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At the end of the day right now I'm single for a reason.
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You had no autonomy whatsoever those sons of bitches.
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I mean you just didn't have any choice in the matter.
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Wait but do you categorize yourself as a good woman?
04:18:43.380
But like if you want a good man don't you have to be a good woman?
04:18:58.380
Hey I know a lot of men who really don't know a good woman.
04:19:14.380
Would you agree Brian or not agree that every like every woman has bad in them.
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There's some people who fall prey to what's called pre-lest.
04:19:43.380
They fall prey to what's called pre-lest and it becomes so bad.
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I don't accept that everybody has some good and some bad.
04:19:59.380
I think there are people who just have nothing but bad in them.
04:20:07.380
But it's really cool to see someone with that point of view.
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Never has a man turn me down that didn't regret it in the future.
04:22:04.380
The best dish that you're going to make is chicken casserole.
04:22:22.380
If you go into a random house building with a man.
04:22:25.380
You can still pay a thousand plus dollars on a tattoo.
04:22:28.380
He didn't do any paperwork and anything beforehand.
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Basically she slut shamed me and shit like that.
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Because it's always white people who got the most to say about certain issues that have
04:23:19.380
I'm not with anyone who can't do a simple thing.
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Some men don't even think that they should be providers.
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That men aren't going to take that into the calculus of determining.
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That goes for the same question I asked earlier.
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Would you guys consider yourself being able to date.
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I mean it sort of ties into the rating one to ten thing.
04:28:05.380
Inflated sense of their own physical attractiveness.
04:28:08.380
And men who are actually their looks equivalent.
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So I'll give you the most charitable definition.
04:30:11.380
I would consider probably a move for voting to be feminism.
04:30:20.380
An entailment of feminism is just rejecting patriarchy.
04:30:58.380
You're just going to ask her what she's saying.
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Why would property ownership of women be a rejection of patriarchy.
04:31:36.380
I mean from my understanding women weren't able to own property.
04:31:53.380
Do you think women should have the right to vote?
04:32:05.380
They only got the vote a few years before women got the vote.
04:32:07.380
Most women were not working and did not own property.
04:32:18.380
That's something that every woman was capable of doing.
04:32:22.380
It wasn't a thing every man was capable of doing.
04:32:25.380
But you're not arguing that that's a bad thing.
04:32:26.380
You're arguing that women being able to vote and such is.
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Because they didn't have the resources or capability to do so.
04:32:39.380
That that meant it was a rejection of patriarchy.
04:32:43.380
Can you explain why that would logically track.
04:32:46.380
Why it is that if women work that would be a rejection of patriarchy makes no sense to me.
04:32:50.380
I mean what you consider to be patriarchy is that the woman stays at home and fulfills her traditional gender role.
04:33:01.380
It just means that women or that women and men have a different role in society.
04:33:05.380
And that men are in the top echelons of that society all the way down to the household.
04:33:20.380
But most of them not working doesn't mean that most of them couldn't work.
04:33:25.380
If most men were in the workforce and a woman walked in and was like, hey, can you hire
04:33:35.380
They were teachers and they worked as secretaries.
04:33:38.380
They worked in the service industry and they worked as nurses.
04:33:41.380
They did all the same shit that they do right now.
04:33:44.380
In fact, they were they were sought after to do those jobs.
04:33:47.380
In fact, even even in the midst of the mostest patriarchy that we had, they were still sought
04:33:56.380
But it wasn't common and women still weren't able to vote.
04:34:11.380
What do you mean when you say most men weren't able to vote?
04:34:22.380
We did not have a universal suffrage in the United States until way later in its history.
04:34:29.380
But I still think that everybody should have the ability to vote.
04:34:32.380
That's nice, but that really has nothing to do with feminism, right?
04:34:39.380
But when you say women couldn't vote, neither could most men.
04:34:44.380
I mean, when you say most men, what do you mean by that?
04:34:51.380
I actually have something on this really quickly.
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It was only a 50 year period of time between the ratification of the 15th Amendment, which gave all men the right to vote in 1870 and the 19th Amendment women's vote in 1920.
04:35:08.380
So there's only 50 years in America that all men could vote that women cannot.
04:35:17.380
When they were presented with the option of voting for the right to vote.
04:35:21.380
When they were presented with the option of actually being able to vote for the right to vote, they voted against it.
04:35:26.380
And so that's why they ended up with an amendment instead.
04:35:30.380
Because they went through the court system instead for it.
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They just didn't want it to be connected to the drafts.
04:35:43.380
How many women do you think wanted the right to vote?
04:35:45.380
I think most of them didn't want to be drafted.
04:35:47.380
And the right to vote was connected to the drafts.
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So you think that they should just be able to vote without having the responsibility of the draft?
04:35:53.380
Yeah, I don't think fighting in a war determines whether you're eligible or not to participate in democracy.
04:35:59.380
So then just to get this right, you want men to go fight your wars while you vote that they do.
04:36:06.380
They just fight in the back line and they're on the intelligence.
04:36:08.380
Yeah, and that's nice that Chef Boyard woman is making the food for the men and signing their paychecks,
04:36:14.380
but they're not in the front lines getting killed, are they?
04:36:18.380
It sure is nice that you want the right to vote to send men to wars that you yourself don't have to fight.
04:36:26.380
So, to clarify, do you think that women should have the right to vote or not?
04:36:44.380
No, but I also don't think most people should have the right to vote.
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Because most women and some of these new up and coming men that are voting, they vote on emotion and they just watch the news and vote for who they're told to vote for.
04:37:04.380
You can't just be like, I don't like who you're voting for, therefore you can't ever.
04:37:13.380
A democracy is literally about letting everybody.
04:37:21.380
And if you sit there and say that everybody should have the right to vote when they're blindly voting because they're voting because of their famous people are telling them how to vote and they're not actually educating themselves on the facts, I don't think everybody should have the right to vote.
04:37:37.380
What if I don't think you're educating yourself on the facts?
04:37:40.380
No matter who wins for the votes, y'all still going to be mad.
04:37:44.380
It's like, for instance, Kanye West was on the ballot, and the majority of the 18, 19, and 20-year-old voted for Kanye West because who he was.
04:37:56.380
I do not think that everybody should have the right to vote because they don't vote on fact.
04:38:01.380
A lot of people, even in their 40s and 50s and 60s, vote for whatever headlines are telling them and rage-baiting them, oh, this is how lefties are, this is how conservatives are, this is how liberals are, and then they just interpret that and vote accordingly.
04:38:13.380
But this is coming from someone that's from Canada and has been ruled.
04:38:19.380
I was born in the States and I grew up in New York, okay?
04:38:24.380
Yeah, so I mean it sounds like if you think that those old people also are voting irresponsibly that we probably shouldn't let them vote.
04:38:33.380
I think if you live in a country, you should be able to vote in it.
04:38:59.380
I mean, I would argue that oppressive governments don't work, but we can agree to disagree on that.
04:39:06.380
I think a goal of the government is to actually benefit the people.
04:39:09.380
So if a government is oppressive, I don't think it's working.
04:39:25.380
So you're saying that governments themselves are supposed to be there on behalf of the
04:39:38.380
Because a monarchy usually doesn't end up like that.
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When you have one person with power, they usually end up looking out for themselves and
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They had all sorts of different things which were in the upper aristocratic class-
04:39:56.380
Which by the way, hang on, let me finish, lady.
04:40:00.380
An aristocratic class and then you have an underclass.
04:40:08.380
My point is that everybody should have the right to vote.
04:40:13.380
You should be able to have a say in how it works and how it runs-
04:40:19.380
You keep asserting it but you're not giving an argument.
04:40:29.380
Saying I should be able to do this because I should.
04:40:30.380
If you live in a country, you should have a say.
04:40:34.380
I should be able to do this because I should be able to do this because I should
04:40:36.380
be able to do this because I should be able to do this.
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Both men and women should have the right to vote.
04:41:08.380
Your value is higher than the two delusus W50 plus body counter mentality is on the rig.
04:41:22.380
Anyway, all these forms of government work fine.
04:41:23.380
I don't know why you keep on saying they didn't work.
04:41:29.380
Let me finish before you start spurging and then I'll let you talk.
04:41:34.380
Just so you know, when I'm talking and you're talking, I can't hear you and I want to hear
04:41:41.380
So going back to this course, those governments worked.
04:41:49.380
That could be an argument, this type of thing, but you're still not answering the question
04:41:54.380
of should, why should they other than you just want them to.
04:41:57.380
I genuinely believe that a democracy is only actually a democracy if the people who are
04:42:02.380
citizens of that state have a right to vote in how it runs.
04:42:07.380
Yeah, but that doesn't give us a reason why it should be a democracy.
04:42:17.380
You're just saying they should cause they should cause they should.
04:42:20.380
You should have a say if you live in the country.
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Because it's not, you're not a free citizen if you don't have a say in how it runs.
04:42:27.380
Why would you not be free if you didn't have a say in how things ran?
04:42:30.380
Because you don't have a say in how almost anything on planet Earth is run, including
04:42:36.380
Do you consider yourself free because you can vote?
04:42:42.380
Like, I don't think my individual impact is going to do anything unless I'm extremely rich
04:42:51.380
If no woman can vote, then women don't have a say at all.
04:42:54.380
If one woman could vote, it still wouldn't make a difference.
04:42:58.380
Even if you took suffrage and you were to limit suffrage, you would still have collective
04:43:02.380
It's just that not every fucking idiot could vote.
04:43:09.380
Why do you want every moron on Earth to be able to vote?
04:43:14.380
I'm not saying if you're 15, you're 12, you're 11, you should vote.
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Because at some point, you're just too young to understand the dynamics.
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You don't want a 13-year-old to vote because they're fucking dumb, right?
04:43:37.380
I think I'm being the most honest out of everybody in this panel.
04:43:39.380
I think it's pretty obvious why you wouldn't want a 16-year-old voting.
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Because a 16-year-old is busy in high school, like, studying for their tests, hanging out
04:43:50.380
They're way more busy than adults who are working 60 hours a week.
04:43:56.380
The reality is, like, a third of Americans are voting.
04:44:05.380
Why shouldn't 15-year-olds be able to vote then?
04:44:14.380
Why are you asking me to repeat myself 17 times?
04:44:22.380
And even if they wanted to, they don't understand the dynamics of it.
04:44:24.380
If you want to argue that 18 is still too young and you think 25 should be the limit of voting,
04:44:31.380
But I don't think that saying women shouldn't vote is a good solution.
04:44:36.380
So at 17 years and 11 months, you're too stupid to vote.
04:44:40.380
At 18 years old, you're smart enough now to vote, correct?
04:44:45.380
If you want to have an argument about when the proper age to vote is, we could have that
04:44:50.380
Yeah, but the point of the argument is the reason you think that young people shouldn't
04:44:55.380
Not because they're wrapped up with high school, which takes six hours a day, and where their
04:45:00.380
parents are working 10 to 12 hours a day, and they're still out there voting.
04:45:04.380
It's clearly not because they're in fucking high school.
04:45:08.380
I think they're both stupid and they're also focused on their own world and stuff.
04:45:14.380
Democracy functions in such a way that even people you disagree with have the right to
04:45:18.380
It doesn't matter if you think they're really, really, really stupid.
04:45:19.380
You're just asserting what is, not what ought to be.
04:45:27.380
You're asking me the same questions over and over, and I'm giving you the same questions?
04:45:42.380
Right now, what is true is that everyone has...
04:45:49.380
So when you just keep on giving me the descriptor of, but that's how democracies work though.
04:45:58.380
What is the justification for why every idiot should vote?
04:46:06.380
Are you basically saying that you think everybody you disagree with shouldn't have the right
04:46:11.380
No, you're just saying stupid people shouldn't vote.
04:46:14.380
Okay, so if you think a 30 year old is really dumb, should they have the right to vote or
04:46:19.380
Yeah, I don't think dumb people should vote, no.
04:46:31.380
Without telling me that is the way it works, because I don't give a shit about that.
04:46:38.380
Every single time I've answered your question, I told you because they live in the country
04:46:41.380
and they should therefore have a right to have some sort of say in how it functions.
04:46:49.380
When I say why should they, you say because they should.
04:46:56.380
I say why, if they're living here, does that mean they should have the right to vote?
04:47:00.380
And I say, yeah, but why should that entitle them to voting?
04:47:06.380
Even if you disagree with them, you think they're really stupid.
04:47:09.380
Even if you think they're just following Taylor Swift or Kanye West or whatever it is.
04:47:13.380
I don't care how much of a sheep you think they are.
04:47:15.380
A democracy means even the people you disagree with have the right to vote.
04:47:30.380
Just because you breathe there does not mean you shoo.
04:47:38.380
When we were founded as a republic, not everybody could vote.
04:47:41.380
When we were founded as a republic, could everyone vote or not, lady?
04:48:00.380
No, we live in a republic and there have been democratic voting rights which have been extended.
04:48:09.380
We live in a republic where democratic democratic measures are used but you can limit suffrage.
04:48:17.380
Yeah, but I think the way you want to limit is extreme.
04:48:26.380
Well, I live here and I don't want that so I guess it's fine, right?
04:48:29.380
If you share a house with somebody, right, and you have a whole family and somebody who wants to have a say in what goes on in their room, right?
04:48:38.380
Should they not be able to because they're stupid, you've decided you actually don't like them?
04:48:43.380
Yeah, if they're stupid and they live in my house, I don't want them to have a say in what goes on in their room.
04:48:55.380
Yeah, but what if, so inside of the house, the decisions they make inside of the house in their room, like, I don't know, leaving rotten food out and stuff like that because they're fucking stupid affects me, right?
04:49:08.380
Yeah, so then I would have every business going in and saying, hey, why don't you clean up that fucking shit that's everywhere that affects me?
04:49:14.380
Sure, but you're not going to control the whole world.
04:49:21.380
Okay, but should he still not have a say in what goes on in the house or in his own room?
04:49:27.380
Well, see, it seems that the responsible thing would be to have the house run by a person who can run the house, not a person who'd leave rotten food out because they're stupid, right?
04:49:38.380
You guys are, like, living in a four-bedroom apartment.
04:49:47.380
If you don't want them to vote, then don't charge them taxes.
04:49:53.380
They can't have a say in how you're using the taxes.
04:49:55.380
Why should you get to take money from them and be like, but you actually can't tell us how we're going to use it, though?
04:50:02.380
So, do you think you have a say in where your taxes go right now?
04:50:06.380
No, I don't think you have a say, but when you vote, you do have at least a little bit of an impact.
04:50:09.380
Well, then what the fuck are you talking about?
04:50:12.380
I'm sorry, does the IRS send you a little ledger and say, here's where your taxes went?
04:50:20.380
Your taxes went to social services and the military and this and that.
04:50:23.380
Not, did they send you a letter saying, oh, your taxes went to this black ops that you hate.
04:50:30.380
Your taxes, the IRS doesn't send you a ledger telling you where your taxes go.
04:50:53.380
And by the way, let me just, let me just finish it off this way.
04:50:56.380
Even if I grant your argument and tell you, okay, fine, don't charge them taxes and then,
04:51:03.380
Just so you know, most people in the United States, most do not, are not a net positive
04:51:09.380
So therefore, most people in the United States should not vote by your logic.
04:51:16.380
You just, you just got done saying, then don't, don't charge them taxes.
04:51:20.380
I'm telling you that most people don't pay taxes.
04:51:25.380
What do you mean when you say they're not paying taxes?
04:51:28.380
They take more out of the system than they put into the system.
04:51:36.380
I don't, like, can you give me an example of what you mean?
04:51:42.380
Are you saying that you've paid me a hundred dollars?
04:51:45.380
No, but you're still paying me a hundred dollars.
04:51:52.380
Just because someone wants something doesn't give them the right to have it.
04:51:57.380
That is why not everyone should be allowed to vote.
04:52:04.380
That if most people are not paying taxes by this logic, most people should not be able
04:52:13.380
You're just considering them not paying taxes because it's going negative.
04:52:15.380
But I think that's a problem of the government more so than the individual.
04:52:18.380
So I think if the individual is paying the tax, they should be able to have the right to vote.
04:52:27.380
So then they pay no taxes and they actually receive tax dollars, but they still deserve
04:52:33.380
Even though they're now, not only are they not paying taxes, they're just getting tax
04:52:37.380
If they're, if they're not paying taxes, then probably not.
04:52:41.380
Like it doesn't matter if, if the government's going negative on the fact that they're paying
04:52:46.380
Again, that's something the government should fix.
04:52:48.380
I'm saying the government's giving more benefits to the individual than the individuals giving
04:52:53.380
Meaning they're actually a net drain on the tax system, not a, they're not paying anything
04:53:05.380
It's that's not just it, but people who live under the property threshold and the poverty
04:53:12.380
threshold and people who are super wealthy also pay no tax.
04:53:23.380
So I guess if you're defrauding the government, then like, yeah, you shouldn't really have
04:53:36.380
I kind of want to wait until she's back from the bathroom.
04:53:50.380
I mean, like somebody who's just not just like just a regular person.
04:54:06.380
I just don't really feel like dating a man right now.
04:54:12.380
Just in general, I don't mind about average, I guess.
04:54:32.380
How much money does a guy need to earn to date you?
04:54:58.380
But what's possible isn't necessarily probable.
04:56:16.380
This is according to the Internal Revenue Service.
04:56:18.380
Less than 1% of all tax filers reported an adjusted gross income exceeding $500,000.
04:57:11.380
So I think the average male height is like five.
04:57:48.380
Quitting what I do basically for him specifically.
04:58:01.380
He's the guy who's not gonna care about your past.
04:58:09.380
There's people who don't care about that though.
04:58:11.380
There are men who don't care about that at all.
04:58:55.380
You may not get the big screen TV and the Bugatti.
04:59:02.380
In most parts of the Midwest of the United States.
04:59:05.380
No man making 500k is going to waste his time on you.
04:59:56.380
I live in El Paso and there's not really many six foot Hispanic men.
05:00:06.380
You want to grab one of the 30,000 Hispanic men who make 500,000 plus dollars a year.
05:00:19.380
Well I want a man that can teach my kids Spanish.
05:00:23.380
They're already half Hispanic anyways regardless.
05:00:27.380
It's good on a resume to know another language.
05:00:30.380
Like that's a lot of reason why people get hired if they know a second language.
05:00:43.380
I mean you can be a server and still make a lot of money.
05:00:50.380
You could be in telecommunications and it could be helpful.
05:00:53.380
But most high paying jobs do not require you to be bilingual.
05:01:02.380
Do you want kids to grow up to be servers and get extra tips because they speak Spanish
05:01:23.380
When I call someone a sex worker is this for the purpose of insulting them.
05:01:27.380
Society needs to return to shaming this type of fatherless behavior.
05:01:43.380
So I wanted to ask about the $500,000 requirement.
05:01:46.380
Like do you really do you really like think that a Hispanic man will.
05:01:55.380
Do you really think that money matters is basically what I'm asking.
05:01:59.380
At the end of the day money really doesn't matter because it comes and goes.
05:02:22.380
I've dated guys that make $30,000 or $40,000 and I've made more than them.
05:02:25.380
But I can promise you the right guy that loves you and accepts you for even what
05:02:32.380
But like the guy that will actually maybe love you is probably five foot five foot three
05:02:37.380
But he is the one that will fight and will do the most for you.
05:02:40.380
And he's Latino and will teach your kid Spanish.
05:02:52.380
What job do you have where you're making more than $50,000 a year?
05:02:54.380
I said the guy I'm with has made $50,000 or $40,000.
05:03:09.380
It's like, oh, now we're getting to my finances.
05:03:18.380
And you're getting paid more than $50,000 a year at 23?
05:03:21.380
With all the three incomes I do with social media, salsa dancing, and the school.
05:03:31.380
She tried to sell me some meth before the show.
05:03:34.380
She tried to sell me some meth before the show.
05:03:39.380
Do you make a lot of money doing salsa dancing?
05:03:41.380
More than you make in your primary job, perhaps?
05:03:44.380
Thankfully, with the great dancing that I have, yes.
05:03:53.380
That makes more sense as to why you're making a higher amount of revenue.
05:03:55.380
Honestly, like the most high paying one, thanks to God, is the content creation.
05:03:58.380
That's like, I feel like it goes with content creation is the same equal as like the school
05:04:05.380
I'm guessing that you're not exactly dressed modestly when you're salsa dancing.
05:04:11.380
I'm guessing you're not exactly dressed modestly when you're salsa dancing.
05:04:19.380
Honestly, I've literally turned down gigs because of the costumes and I've had to lose
05:04:25.380
That really doesn't answer the question though.
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I mean, everyone has different opinions of modesty.
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As long as I'm not showing my freaking ass, I'm totally good and I don't like to show.
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I mean, you have to go through my Instagram for that, but I definitely make sure I don't
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Here, let me get through a couple of questions.
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Let a brother know if I measure up or am I chopped liver.
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The hubris of some of you limits your ability to differentiate what averages.
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Brian, get some average guys on your panel to defend this.
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Well, I mean, Andrew, your debate skills are, like, most average guys don't have the
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Please break down the mandatory expenses that require 500K per year.
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Because I think women throw out these arbitrary numbers of what they want income-wise in a
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And I don't think any of you have made an Excel sheet, a spreadsheet of what all the expenses
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add up to, what they amount to, and y'all just throw out a number.
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Because a man doesn't need to make that much to be with you.
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I mean, my oldest daughter's school costs $59,000 a year.
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Your daughter goes to a Christian private school?
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Your daughter goes to a Christian private school?
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My question is, is this man that is not the father of your children has to make $500,000
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or $400,000 a year to pay for your children's education?
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I mean, I pay for it, so it doesn't matter right now.
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So then why does this man have to make $500,000 if you're paying for it?
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If he wants to marry me and be with me, I mean, you're going to be a stepdad.
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But being a stepdad does not mean he has to financially provide for your children.
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If he wanted to see if he would, is basically what she's saying.
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Can we all go and finish answering the average guy?
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There are simps that want that like fat boy Andrew.
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He married a single mom with three baby daddies and takes care of their kids.
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I'm going to do some rapid fire questions here.
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And you said the primary victim of war is women and children.
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So, most men that I know, they choose to serve their country.
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And they are bombing these countries and killing most women and children.
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Because they're not removing the women and children before the war starts.
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Well, typically in military conflicts, although there are civilian casualties, typically you're
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That's not like, you're not, you're not intentionally typically going after the civilian population.
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The question was who is the primary victim of war?
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I believe women and children are the primary victims because they're the ones that are
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Now, most men that are going to war, they don't see themselves as victims.
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Now that I understand it clear, men, they're the one that's dying.
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Well, let me, here, let me, let me ask you a couple of clarifying questions to you.
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In World War I and World War II, when it comes to the.
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You don't need to preempt what I'm going to ask you.
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Of the population of the United States, who was the primary victim of war?
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Well, if you're talking about like Pearl Harbor, it was men and women.
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Because a lot of women died at the bombs on the ship.
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I don't have the, I don't have the data in front of me.
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I don't suspect there was an equal distribution of deaths during Pearl Harbor between men and women.
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Perhaps there were surely nurses or something or, but that's dubious.
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I don't know if somebody can do quick research on that, Nick.
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But I mean, if you're saying like World War I and II, men definitely were victims of dying to war, yes.
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But we were asking who the victim, who the majority of the victims are, and it's the women and children that are dying for the casualties.
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So you think, so you think the majority of wars, there's more women and children casualties than the men who are at war?
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I mean, they're affected, but not primary, primarily the ones that are impacted.
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I wouldn't know the statistics, but women and children don't ask to die.
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I mean, these men that are going to war, they have the assumption that they might die.
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Girl, you think the majority of men talk about, oh, I want to fight for my country.
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No, they get tickets from their families because they be the only sons and they don't have no choice.
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The estimates of civilian deaths in World War II range from about 38 million to 55 million civilian.
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What do you think that the overall deaths in that war were from non-civilian casualties?
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Yeah, that's, well, so, so non-civilian casualties.
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So if the estimates are 38 to 55 million civilian deaths, how many people do you think who were not civilians lost their lives?
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Oh, well then, I mean, World War II was the Holocaust almost.
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Andrew, you're asking about military casualties, correct?
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You don't, you don't think there were millions of military deaths?
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Oh, most definitely there was millions of military people that died.
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We did, and we say that the civilian deaths, though we're around 55 million, we know that the 20 million military deaths were basically primarily male.
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And we know that the civilian deaths are going to be a mixture of men and women, boys and girls.
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So the thing is, is that even by this logic, men still overwhelmingly take more casualties and have more deaths in war than women do.
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Even if we were to parse it up by civilian casualties, the most of which are not women, it's men.
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But are they victims because they chose to fight?
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I'm just asking, does that make them a victim if they chose to do something?
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Well, I would argue even among the volunteer force, if you end up going to war and dying, you're still a victim.
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Now, perhaps there was some understanding that there was a risk when you're volunteering that, you know, perhaps you volunteer during peacetime.
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You're some Kansas boy, 1940, and then, you know, no anticipation that the United States is going to get involved in this European conflict.
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Well, I mean, well, there was the Pacific campaign in theater, but you're still a victim if you die.
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Primarily, though, I would just have to ask, what do you think men are fighting for?
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What do you think the incentive is if you get drafted as a man to go to war?
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If you're in America for the freedom of the Constitution?
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Yeah, no, nobody's going over and dying for the freedom of the Constitution.
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Maybe some people are, but for the most part, don't you think that people are going over under the propaganda of fighting for their families and fighting for the women and children in their domestic homelands?
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Yeah, I'm not asking you if you've been to war.
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So I also have not been to war, but I can still speculate as to the motivations of people who go to war and what it is that they're going to war over.
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I just know a lot of, like, I have a lot of friends that are in infantry, and they thrive to go overseas to fight for some reason.
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Because they're protecting their homeland, right?
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And mostly that they're protecting the women and children in their homeland.
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So what they're doing is they're going and dying for women and children.
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So you know how there's medics in the military?
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So if, you know, there's female nurses, and let's say there was a bombing campaign from the belligerent force,
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and this belligerent force thought it necessary or beneficial for the war effort to bomb,
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actually this is probably a war crime, so I'm kind of, to bomb where the nurses are.
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And let's say this is primarily made up of women who are treating injured soldiers.
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With those women, even though they are volunteers or drafted, or let's just say they're volunteer nurses in the military,
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are they not victims if they end up dying within?
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But they volunteered to go into a war zone and be.
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Of course they're victims, but they chose to put themselves in harm's way.
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But why are you saying they're the victims, but men who volunteer into the military are not victims too?
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I mean, men are victims, like people that die are victims, yes.
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But they, like I said, they also chose to put themselves in harm's way.
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Like you went somewhere knowing that you might die.
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But, okay, isn't your son going into the military?
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So if he dies, would he not be a victim because he's choosing to go into the military though?
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I mean, of course he's going to be a victim to death.
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But he chose to fight, so he has to know that there could be an outcome of him dying.
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Okay, but he's still a victim if he dies is what I'm saying.
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So what you're saying, even if your son chooses to go, he's not a victim because he volunteered to go fight for his country?
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He said if you were drafted, would you go tomorrow?
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But you're not actually, even if you're drafted, you can flee and not go to the draft like other men have done.
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Tell me though, what would your motivation be for going?
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Right, so then the thing is, is that if men are the victims of war, they're being victimized in war in order to protect women and children, right?
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If you were drafted, would you consider yourself a victim if you were killed in a foreign war?
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Most men in most of these large scale conflicts were drafted.
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If I chose to go, I wouldn't see that I was a victim.
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I would know that I chose to put myself in harm's way and if I died, I died.
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So as long as they volunteer to protect the children, then they're not victims.
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I mean, you knew what you were going into when you went to go fight for a country.
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We won't linger too long on this, but I always like to ask it because it's always interesting to hear the answers and I'm actually trying to get just more data points on this.
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If you're in the forest, would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the woods starting with you?
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Wait, actually, before you give your explanation, let me go around the table, get everybody's answers.
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Would you rather run into a random bear or a random man?
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I don't think so because I'm not so afraid of bears.
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So the question is, would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the
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Because I would come across a bear from a distance.
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That's kind of hard because I watch a lot of scary movies.
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Because they can be equally dangerous depending on how the man is.
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Hope, I'm praying that the man is a good guy that I went into.
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I didn't know men out here was bigger and faster than bears.
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Those who answered bear, do you also support men in women's locker rooms, men in women's
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sports, men in women's prisons and trans rights?
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Wait, but so you're fine with men in women's locker rooms?
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When it comes to the bathroom thing, would you rather a random bear walk into the bathroom
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What the question is trying to determine the reason that he brought up the tea rights and
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He's trying to say, well, I don't understand because you can already be involved in these
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kinds of tight knit, intricate spaces with men.
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And you just, you don't care, but for some reason being trapped with them externally in
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a forest is somehow more bothersome than being trapped with a ginormous bear that wants, you
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know, possibly could just eat your face and there's no way to predict anything that they
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Um, that's, that's what the question is asking.
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So if I could jump in, um, that's what I was going to say.
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Like, why would you want to be with a, a animal that wants to rip your face off?
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Doesn't, cannot converse, cannot, cannot say nothing to you, but you wouldn't want to talk
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to a man and just, you know, you could get out of a situation with a man, but as far as a bear, no.
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I just seen a story the other day about this woman and her kids getting mauled by a bear.
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No matter how fast they ran, that bear caught them and mauled them, all of them.
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Let me quickly, I'll quickly follow up with this, which is this.
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What I'm saying is why would you want to be stuck with a mammal that can tear your face off?
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Those of you who said bear, I assume it's because you feel like men are, they're prone to victimizing you in some sort of way.
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What percentage of men do you think in the circumstances would choose to victimize you?
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So the question is, what percentage of men do you think in the circumstances would choose to victimize you?
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Brian FFS play the bear fight clip when you ask the bear question.
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So what percentage of men do you think would choose to victimize you?
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That's a, so half the population of the United States.
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I make over $200,000 a year as a physician and mostly socialize with high earners.
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Nobody at this income level would be interested.
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So to answer your question, what do I mean by victimize?
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They would either, they could essay you, they could, they would try to kill you.
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I say like for the bear, like man or bear question.
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Andrew, do you have a, want to address quickly there?
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I just want to give a, or just do a quick follow up here.
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Um, let us assume for a moment that you did, that you were stuck in the forest with a bear.
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The bear has not actually been aggressive towards you, but you are stuck there with the bear.
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It could become aggressive and a random man who you do not know happens to be per going through that forest.
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And you could request aid from him to get you out of the situation that you're in with the bear.
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Why is he in the middle of the forest in the first place?
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Well, what if he's wearing something that isn't hiking related?
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Like, some men escape the woods to get away from.
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He just happens to be walking through the forest.
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You have been trapped in this forest with a bear.
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Well, then I don't think I would ask for help from the man.
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So you would prefer to be trapped in the forest rather than even ask a strange stranger
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Since Brian won't read my last chat, air Q are a 10 in my eyes.
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I don't see any history of you sending in any other previous messages.
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Men today aren't competing with other men for women but their time.
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I don't think that women and men handle being single better than the other person.
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For instance, for me, like, I'm not gonna lie, I have days where I don't get out of bed because I rather cry and be sad and I ghost everybody.
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I am curious, before I have Andrew finish off with this and then we'll move on to something else and then we'll try to get this wrapped up pretty soon here.
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When it comes to this 50% number, like, so if we look at the entire male population of the United States, which I believe is, what, 150 million or something?
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I don't know the exact, what is it, 160 million men in the United States?
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So that's 80, so 50% of that is 80 million men.
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Do you really think that 50% of the men, uh, like, you must, you must like be able to-
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The fact that the bear question is somehow debatable shows how effed up women are in the head.
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It's why they're so claw your face off, so it don't even matter.
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Those of you who said bear, it's just like, okay.
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So, you'll meet a stranger in a club, get drunk, go to his house, and have sex with him,
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but meeting him sober in the forest is somehow more scary?
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You're in alone in a house, though, is what he's saying.
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Just- Andrew, do you have one last thing on this?
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So, you actually would not appeal to a stranger for help if you were trapped in a forest with a bear?
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I'd be like, hey, look at this cool bear, let's take a picture.
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You risk it with the many men you lay with, but not a random man in the first that could protect you from the bear.
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Wait, do you really think 80 million men in the United States, if given the opportunity, would victimize you?
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Statistically, women abuse human children and babies far more than bears do.
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Would it be safer to leave your baby in the woods with a bear instead of a woman?
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Women are actually more liable to start a physical argument with a man than a man is willing to hit her.
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The answer is still woman because while there are abusive women, this number is typically a very small minority of women.
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A very, very small minority of men are violent or would be inclined to hurt you in some way or to assault you in some way.
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The vast majority of men are just normal, good men that wouldn't ever consider hurting you.
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But to say that 80 million men in the United States would hurt you if they came across you in this scenario is just kind of ridiculous.
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Do you think 80 million men in the United States, if given the chance, would hurt you?
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Honestly, I would think more like 30 now that I think about it.
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But like when you think about it, yes, there are good men out there, which I mean common.
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You run into a hungry bear and a man looking to harm you in the woods.
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Which one would you be more willing to try and outrun?
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Which one would you be more willing to try and outrun?
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You could still overpower a man if you want to.
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A couple more kind of rapid fire questions here.
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I would like to know the answer to my question.
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If 50% of men are SA-ers, why do you think that they would want to SA you?
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Yeah, but that doesn't mean 50% of them would want to.
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Even if I granted that it was true, why would 50% of them choose you?
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Out of all the women that they could go for, why would they choose you?
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I felt like a lot of the answers were like, you know, experience, trauma answers.
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And I think the likelihood is even lesser because most SA's occur when you know the
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All I thought about was him hitting me in the back of my head and throwing me in a dungeon
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Obviously, like to propagate the species, we need men for reproduction, but I'm talking
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I feel like everybody can be racist to any culture.
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But I don't know if y'all take that to the heart.
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Like for instance, the word cracker is a racist term to white people.
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I was wondering if that actually hurt feelings though.
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No, but like calling all white people oppressors is like racist in my opinion.
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I'm not supposed to not be saying a word for it.
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I mean, some people say, you know, you can't be...
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I'll just say, isn't it kinda racist to say you can't be racist towards white people?
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We'll do a roast session and then we're gonna wrap the show.
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I mean, I think hypergamy is men's fault mostly because they're ugly.
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I would say like maybe like 50% of them are not really attractive.
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Wait, so but why would that be men's, why does that mean hypergamy is men's fault?
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Because they want a girl who does everything for them and fulfills all their needs and whatever,
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but they wanna be like a lazy, not lazy, like they'll do all the work and whatever, but they'll be like ugly completely.
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And then they'll complain about no sex during that.
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I think this trope is actually more applicable to women.
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This whole thing of, yeah, the basement dwelling obese man wants a Victoria's Secret model.
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Actually, I think it's the completely unremarkable average woman who is desirous of a man outside of her league.
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That's much more common than the man who's the basement dwelling Cheeto dust, blah, blah, blah.
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Because men get slapped in the face with reality.
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If an average dude steps to a Victoria's Secret model, instant rejection.
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Eric, you caught my itemite and you seem very wise.
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So, whereas the reversal as a woman, if you step to a guy outside of your league, he might keep you around for a couple days, couple weeks, couple months, use you for sex.
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So you might think, well, I was able to sleep with that guy.
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Men are more attracted to women as a whole, right?
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This is, even if you're ugly, you'll probably find a guy, right?
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Most women are not attracted to most men just right off the bat unless they actually try to invest in their looks and such.
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And a lot of men don't do it in the right areas.
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They think, okay, as long as I'm rich, then I could be a fat guy and do all these other things and be ugly and whatever.
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I could just turn that back around on you and say, like, look at all these chubby overweight women who just think, let me throw on some makeup.
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Let me throw on some makeup, spend all this money on makeup products instead of actually going to the gym.
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I think all that money you spend on makeup, go buy a gym membership and hit that shit hard, that'll make you way more attractive than painting your face.
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I agree with that, but I just think that men are attracted to women more.
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Let's say you consider this girl to be a 2 out of 10, right?
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But a guy who doesn't put any effort into his looks will not be able to find a girl, right?
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Because women care more about attraction and men will fuck anything.
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So, men being attractive is more important than a woman being attractive.
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Q, do you want to do a response and then I'll let Andrew come in on this because he has some good points on this.
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She's basically saying that it's easier for a woman to get a man than it is for a man to get a woman.
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That's basically what she's saying because women, at the end of the day, there will always be, like, the burden on men to try to find a woman that they can reproduce with,
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whereas women typically have men who just throw themselves at them, who aren't desirable.
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And, Andrew, I've heard your arguments on this before, if I can kind of prompt you.
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So you've argued that while it is the case that there are these men when it comes to hypergamy,
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there are these men who kind of create the home makers, as I guess they're called.
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Yeah, well, let me dive into this real quick because I want to make sure I understand the argument correctly by steelmanning it.
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If I heard you correctly, you said that it's because men are ugly.
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And so I think, to steelman this correctly, you're saying that women find men less attractive than men find women, correct?
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Because men are mostly ugly and women are mostly not ugly.
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Also, just men have a higher sex drive, from my understanding.
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So then, you would say that hypergamy is nature, not social.
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So then, how come it was when thousands of years ago, when there was no beauty standards whatsoever, before there was civilization, would you say that hypergamy existed then?
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If you're a woman in a village, right, pre-technology, you're saying hypergamy is part of female nature, isn't it?
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If you don't have options, then there's no hypergamy.
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Yeah, but then the females were just as heinous as the men.
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So why were the females still going for that top tier of men, according to our archeological records?
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If you have options, men and women will both be hypergamous if they have a few options.
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Can you give me the proof of that claim that if the options are there, they're both...
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Before there was these beauty standards which existed pre what you would consider civilization,
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why do we still see that hypergamy is a matter of the record that women still went for this top percentile of men?
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Well then it can't be because men are ugly then.
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A guy who's like the alpha guy who can have all the girls who wants, he is also hypergamous, right?
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It can't be because men are ugly and women are pretty if the pre-beauty standards, they were both fucking ugly and had bad hygiene.
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They weren't getting all that bullshit, so why were they still going for them if the argument is that they were just...
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Like, what we consider beautiful today is obviously not going to be what they consider beautiful.
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Oh yeah, the men back then, 10,000 years ago, wanted women with mustaches.
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Well, I mean, I just think it was probably more of the standard.
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I don't think most women were shaving back way, way back.
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So they were equally as ugly and yet they still went for those men.
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If you're saying it's just nature, it doesn't matter if the men were better looking than the women.
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It doesn't because men will fuck anything and women will not, right?
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Then it has nothing to do with the beauty standard, does it?
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So your argument that it's because mean or ugly was a stupid fucking argument, wasn't it?
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Well, it's that if the beauty standard is relative, right?
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And a woman has options back 5 million years ago when cavemen were still around or whatever the hell.
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And she's looking, she's going to choose the best option for her, the man that's most attractive to her.
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If you want to compare that man to today, sure, I bet he's ugly, but back in the time, he wasn't.
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Are you saying that back in the time that these women with armpit hair, body hair all over the place smelled just as bad as the fucking men,
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had no beauty standards whatsoever, they didn't have the fake titties, they didn't have any of that,
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the rigors of the day also affected them as much as the men?
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And I would say, if you look at the archaeological record, these women were not better looking than the men of the time.
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If they're still going for this top percentile of the alpha, who's this big ugly ape fuck,
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why is it that you then think, if that's part of the nature, that now in modernity, what's happened is men just won't upkeep the beauty standards,
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even though the historic record is against you.
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Well, the historic record is because women had to get married to men, right?
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Pre-civilization, were they even really getting married?
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Or was it just, oonga boonga, come over here to my cave.
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I mean, I don't, if you're talking that far back, it's like, we could even argue whether, like, what their language was,
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because they're ooga booga, like, I don't know how much they were able to understand.
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So, like, I don't even know, like, this feels kind of arbitrary to talk about it.
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Well, okay, recorded civilization is about 10,000 years old, roughly.
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Homo sapiens have not changed in 10,000 years at all.
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Evolution is such a long, elongated period of time that 10,000 years is a blink.
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So we were basically in the exact same form we're in right now.
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Pre-civilization, hang on, stop, let me finish.
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Pre-civilization, we were still in the same form we're in right now,
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except that women couldn't pluck their fucking eyebrows and shave their armpits
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They were as hideous as the men were, and yet they were still going for that top percentage.
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Historically, women were always trying to be attractive.
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Maybe they didn't get fake tits and put on makeup because it didn't exist,
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Speaking of which, you said you take an issue with men's problem.
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Men's problems with makeup is really just rooted in insecurity most of the time.
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I mean, I think they have a fair complaint when, like, a woman cakes it on way too much
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and, like, looks completely different, but for the most part, like, if she's just putting
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on foundation and, like, just enhancing her features...
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Do you think it's insecure for a man to prefer a woman who wears minimal or no makeup?
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No, I think a lot of the reason why men say, oh, I prefer a woman with no makeup is because
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they know when a girl puts on makeup she looks prettier and then, like...
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Because I look the same without makeup, period, so it don't really make me look ten times
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Yeah, it enhances my beauty, but I look the same without makeup, like, my skincare...
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At the same time, if you like to do makeup, you just do your makeup.
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I don't think that got nothing to do with men, though.
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Some men just prefer women that don't wear makeup.
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They would wear the right type of bear skin in order to bring in their mate.
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There is evidence of makeup being in use greater than 10,000 years ago.
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Women have always wanted the top men and have competed for it.
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This is still not a widespread phenomenon, one.
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And the archeological records show that women were hideous, heinous, over 10,000 years ago.
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For instance, they didn't have tampons and Tampax, and they didn't have feminine hygiene products,
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and they would walk around frequently to embarrass them.
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I've been a cosmetologist for almost 19 years now, okay?
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Men are statistically attracted to a far higher percent of women than women to men.
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Back then, when he's saying women and men were equally ugly, he's not lying.
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Because women didn't even wash their hair for weeks and months at a time.
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They would keep it up in a bun because they couldn't just wash it like we'd wash our hair here.
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We have more opportunities to stay clean and stay hygienic.
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And in the Egyptian era of Cleopatra, they broke up.
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Women that wore makeup and that made makeup was actually the queens.
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It wasn't, oh, we're going to go out and do our makeup because we're the poor class.
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They looked ugly and still got banged by random men.
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Well, if that's the case, and I could agree with you that it is, then it really doesn't
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have anything to do in modernity either with looks.
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That was like made 30k a year, but he like was super attractive in every other facet than
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like most women would break their rules for him.
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But if you talking about what he's saying, like archaeology, anthropology and those records
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Yeah, but the further back you go, we didn't have like money wasn't a thing.
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But I'm telling you that hypergamy was about status and resources.
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But I think today most women would break their rules for a hot guy with nothing else.
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I mean, there's also evolutionary business too.
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I have turned down so many hot guys because men have become uglier than women.
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As we can point to a time where women were just as fucking ugly, heinous and smelled just
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You cannot compare people to today's standards and be like, look, they were ugly so hypergamy
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And their standards, they had different standards of music.
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Steel man my argument like I steel man your argument.
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I don't know what else you want from me, to be honest.
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Steel man my argument, which if you don't know what that means, it just means tell me
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Your argument is that back then women didn't have like there was no beauty standard or anything
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And so the only difference between men and women was the status that men could provide.
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So if this is the case, then in modernity, if you're just saying that men are worse looking
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than women, if we can point to a time when they were basically equally bad looking.
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Oh, so you just think that women are naturally better looking than men?
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Well, no, but I think women do naturally have a tendency.
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Because that would be the inference, wouldn't it?
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The inference would be that women are just naturally better looking than men.
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That back then, if you're comparing their beauty standards, women were still trying even
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if it was minimal, even if it was not like they couldn't take their hair down or have deodorant
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They were still trying in the facets that they had available.
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They were trying to survive by eating whatever they could get, carubs, and whatever the fuck
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So, if that's the case, I don't think they were spending time on beauty standards at all.
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This conversation includes numerous unsubstantiated claims about anthropology and archaeology,
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all presented without the necessary citations or shola.
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I'll go grab a bunch of archaeological sources, though we can agree logically this is true,
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Alpha ducks slash beta bucks doesn't mean that women only f alphas.
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Makeup is the functional equivalent of a man working at McDonald's saying that he is a lawyer.
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If men are visual creatures, and you falsely increase your perceived level of physical attractiveness,
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Tell us if you could have sex with her with her makeup on.
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Like, what is the basis of being physically attracted to somebody?
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He said, what is the basis of being physically attractive?
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One of these reasons is that one, it can be a marker for fertility, at least from the female component.
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So when it comes to offspring, right, does being attractive confer benefits in life?
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That would confer some sort of benefit when it comes to reproduction.
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Is it desirous for people to confer as many benefits as possible onto their children?
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Do you want to give your kids as many advantages as possible?
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Will your children have a better life if they're physically attractive?
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Like, I'm not thinking about the physical attraction.
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Yes, they would have an easier life if they were attractive.
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And so, one of the reasons we seek out an attractive partner, one of the reasons, aside from our
05:58:44.380
own sort of selfish desires, although this would also just be selfish, is if we have
05:58:49.380
children with them, our children would be attractive.
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So, when a woman lies about her physical appearance, either through makeup usage, plastic
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I was waiting for you to make that connection, and that's really what it is.
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Like, you get into a relationship with someone thinking about, like, what your future is
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Andrew, I don't agree with all your views, but thank you for being the voice of reason
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Yeah, and you don't have to agree with everything that I say, man, but I appreciate the support.
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So, the point I'm trying to make is that makeup, men cannot utilize.
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The chick in the red needs to thank the Ashanti wannabe and the rest of the trolls for making
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Because men, men can't really operate in the realm of, well, let me get plastic surgery.
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Men can get plastic surgery, but the, the, as far as the procedures go, like most women
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would clown on a dude who like got bicep implants or who got like some sort of, you know, there's
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I can't, I literally cannot be with a guy that has smaller calves than me.
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Red shirt getting ready to rage quit like last time long.
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So look, I mean, since, you know, the realm of makeup is, that's not really the man's realm.
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Yeah, men lying about their status or their money or their success, since that's an attraction
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If you go into a relationship and your purpose is to think about the physical attraction of
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your children and not about like, you know, whether he's a good person and he's someone
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That's not my argument that that's the sole reason.
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Your argument is that's why attraction matters, right?
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Well, it's also what you can just find aesthetically pleasing to yourself.
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But there are certain like similar things that people will deem to be attractive.
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Okay, what is the function of being attracted to somebody?
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How many times do you like, is it almost a trope, not a trope, but is it like almost
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If you're like just meeting somebody, you're like, we would have really attractive kids.
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I think it's really weird when somebody says that.
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I've had men tell me that we would make beautiful babies together.
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So for you to say that, people have never said that, women and men both say that.
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I feel like you have looked at someone and thought about, oh, yes, we would make great
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I don't think it's becoming pretty circular at this point.
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We're going to enter into the roast section here in just a moment.
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Any final questions from anybody before we do the roast segment?
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Do the women at the table agree with the other women who said that they were tens?
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I mean, I agree that all women are tens, but like some days they can have twos, they
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Coming out, I feel like an eight because I'm tired.
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So then the inference here is that you're a 10, right?
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She says all men, all women are tens, all men are tens.
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Well, the thing, the thing is, is that it could be logically consistent, but that doesn't
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You can have a logically consistent position and still be full of shit.
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You could look at them and just tell like, okay, she not a team.
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If somebody, you think a woman with a fucking hunch on her back, who is like, who walks
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around like this and you know, she's fucking nasty.
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You think if somebody said you look like Lizzo, you wouldn't be offended?
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You can't go up to everybody and be like they a 10 just to make you feel better.
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No, but really, I'm not doing that to make you feel better.
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You're one of the most sensible women on the panel.
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I'm not going to call you boss lady because that's insane.
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You don't honestly think all of the women on this panel are 10s, do you?
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I mean, my explanation, y'all going to feel like it's bullshit anyway.
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But I just feel like everybody a 10 to a certain person.
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Like, you don't got to be a 10 to everybody, but it's somebody for everybody.
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Like, it's men out here that think Lizzo passed a 10.
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Like, it's men out here that think a lot of people are past 10 with makeup, without makeup.
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I don't do no judging, for real, because I just don't do that.
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But like you said, with the women walking around with a humpback and a messed up face
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You look at homeless people, they in relationships.
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Ladies, what do you think an average man would rate you, 1 to 10, if they were to rate your virtue?
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I just, I feel like it's on the eye of the beholder, seriously.
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Like, I can be a 5 to a guy, but I can be a 10 to another guy.
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Lizzo can be a negative 2 to someone, Lizzo can be a negative, I mean a 75 for someone else.
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It's absolutely incredible this girl in the red is that socially disagreeable and also that unattractive physically.
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There are a lot of men using steroids to get women incorporated celebs.
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If you inject tea and build up a harem of 10, is that worse than putting on eye shadow?
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How is it that Lizzo, Danny DeVito, Brad Pitt, and Heidi Klum can all be in the same category?
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So what about, so what about the, the chattest question on virtue?
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How do you think the average man would rate you on virtue one to 10?
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We are in the row section, so you're going to get interrupted, but.
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Virtue as in qualities or traits that you would consider to be desirable.
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I was going to say eight, but they kind of threw me off.
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Makeup and bolt on does not pass onto your kids.
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Look in the mirror after the shower before you blame men.
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Look at her underbite, fidgeting, skin picking, eye bags, blankly staring through her brow.
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Panel, who do you think are the better communicators, men or women?
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I have a nervous tick, so you can go screw yourself.
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That forever single mom with the three kids might be the most delusional.
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So real quick, real quick, I'll reframe virtue.
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FYI, don't forget to check you request on Nick.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, just real quick, behavior showing high moral standards.
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Some examples of this would be honesty, loyalty, chastity, modesty, and kindness.
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Let's just start with those for virtue very quickly around the table.
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Did you see H3 absolutely trash you and your podcast?
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Tell H3 that I'll take him on in a debate any time.
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Right to left, 2,3,3,2,5,5,4,4,7, minus 1.
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I mean, they just lied and they lied about a bunch of shit.
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A democracy is two wolves and a lamb deciding what to have for dinner.
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A republic is two wolves and a well-armed lamb deciding what to have for dinner.
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If you guys want, get your last-minute things in.
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Andrew, did you have something else on the virtue thing?
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Yeah, I was just wondering where does – remember I said chastity is one of those virtues?
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If you had to score that one, you know, one to ten, where does chastity fall?
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Are we, like, going around the table with someone who's going to say chastity?
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Chastity, like, you have sex with people and stuff like that.
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Without knowing what chastity meant when it was like eight, eight, eight, eight, eight, eight.
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The state or practice of refraining from extramarital or especially from all sexual intercourse.
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Didn't you say your body count was like 50 to 70?
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Listen, I got most of them from when I was 18, 19, 20, and then I slowed down when I turned 21.
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So, really, I mean, it was in those first three years.
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How is it better that he's a 60 in three years instead of five?
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Because I learned from my mistakes as, you know, being young and shit.
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Like, now I know I shouldn't have did that stuff and I regret it.
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So, I'm changing my actions now going forward being an adult.
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Did anyone else catch that the chicken black said she only dates alpha men?
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A panel of women of what not to let my daughters become.
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Also, woman in red, Canada has enough problems.
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To the single mom with the future marine son, this episode and your past will go into his background check for his security clearance.
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Most of them were non-chastity chastity if they knew what it is.
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The panel's combined chastity score is two tenths.
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Ladies bickering with each other on what men think.
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Meanwhile, we men tell you, a male friend wants to eventually bang you.
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To the female on the far right, you were an illegal prostitute until you were legal.
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She slides down the pole at the Spearmint Rhino in Vegas on Saturdays.
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Chastity is a stripper's name from Wedding Crashers.
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You're beautiful, but I need to shove your giant nose in my bum and show your show daddies.
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Brian, forgetting everything you know about the women around the table, would you, with your own hair and ears, based on looks alone, date any of them?
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Uh, there's like two, yes, like three of the women I would date.
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Ethan couldn't debate himself out of a paper bag.
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But for real, Brickson dropped that thickie down low on time.
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The random bear in the woods would raise them better.
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She, to your credit, you're kind of reasonable.
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Why are you bringing our family business in a debate?
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Especially when I wore this black and white dress for you.
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I'm sorry, but when it comes to my child, it is that serious.
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Well, when someone is bullying your kid, then maybe you can talk.
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Because when they're being bullied online with the parent, then you can actually talk.
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But because it's not you, if I were you, I would honestly stay quiet.
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Because you're not the one that's the victim here.
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Not knowing the definition of chastity should disqualify them from the debate law.
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If I would have known that I could ruin my son's here.
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He just thought about his answer and still it came out wrong.
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Realize you're infinitely more beautiful than Vera.
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Treat these women as a lesson for you to learn from.
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Andrew Fattas thinks he tough arguing with 304s.
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Show how tough you are with those jiggly big tits.
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She's doing her best as a mom despite her past.
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He's got about 100 times your audience and has nothing to gain from such a small creator.
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Dylan Mulvaney in the red dress needs to grab a Bud Light and a glue dot.
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You got to watch Goonies and do the truffle shuffle.
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Somebody send in a Bitcoin so Brian does the truffle shuffle.
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We are not amused with two Wilson one cup policy.
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Next time Andrew comes in person, we will get him the singular cup.
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Andrew, I wouldn't like it as much as you think you would.
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Actually, speaking of, let's take this opportunity.
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Tell us about your current dating situation to Andrew.
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Long story short, I'm with this great guy who...
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Andrew out here slaying these strumpets and Brian out here being a freak for the wizard's
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Yeah, so I'm with this incredible guy and we are in a talking stage right now for almost
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a year and talking stage meaning I'm not dating him.
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I'm not dating him because of my recent situation.
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No, well, he ghosted me after my mom passed away in 2020 and two weeks later he got engaged
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And I'm not dating this guy I'm talking to right now because I'm having a little bit
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of like, you know, well, I like to call it trauma.
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Well, I don't really have enough information, but...
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But I know his mom did tell me it might have been because of social media because he didn't
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like the attention I was getting on social media.
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Because you were salsa dancing on social media?
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Like, I do like comedy relatable videos for girls.
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Why do I have a feeling that he didn't leave you because of comedy related videos?
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No, but literally, like, I would like to know too.
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I mean, I know Brian was saying maybe it was because I didn't have...
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Like, maybe you were doing something like that.
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I'm positive because I was in high school and I didn't take it professionally until,
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Oh, like, we met in high school and, like, switched from, like, summer vacation and then
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He left her and then two weeks later got engaged to somebody else.
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Like, I'm pretty sure he left because he was just talking.
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Well, two weeks later you get engaged to somebody.
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Like, obviously you have to know them a lot better than two weeks.
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I mean, some people get married a week after meeting.
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You could just go meet somebody tomorrow and go get engaged to them.
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It's pretty likely that they knew each other for more than two weeks.
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I mean, it could be, but the question becomes, like, we don't know.
06:27:04.320
So if we don't know, I'm not going to speculate on it.
06:27:07.980
So moving into this, though, you're not sure why he left you.
06:27:12.060
And then in your current relationship, you have a long-distance relationship?
06:27:22.820
Yeah, so he's going to fly you out, right, to L.A.?
06:27:37.080
Because I'm guessing, because you're in Santa Barbara right now, you're probably out there
06:27:41.120
Well, yeah, but I also work here, and I love taking a bunch of dance classes here.
06:27:51.300
Yeah, no, but you're meeting up with him, right?
06:27:57.600
It's going to be flown out, blown out, thrown out.
06:28:08.200
So you've been in a situationship talking stage for one year.
06:28:20.340
So they've been dating for a year, but they're not boyfriend-girlfriend.
06:28:29.720
So he's out there banging other chicks, basically.
06:28:42.140
But how good of a judge of character are you when your last guy left you and got engaged
06:28:47.780
And by your own speculation, he must have known her.
06:28:50.140
So you're clearly not a great judge of these things, right?
06:28:52.140
I mean, like I said, he ghosted me out of nowhere.
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So honestly, that would be a shock to anybody, even if they did have a good judge of character.
06:28:58.480
But if he got hooked up with another chick within two weeks, your speculation is they probably
06:29:05.800
So he's probably screwing around with her, right?
06:29:14.500
So your current guy, why not assume the same thing?
06:29:23.360
It's going to be a nice date, a nice walk on the beach as you get to know each other
06:29:29.340
I mean, I would never compare a guy's heart to another guy's heart.
06:29:35.280
You're never going to compare your experience with men to your experience with men.
06:29:39.520
Well, I wouldn't compare their hearts, but that's why I'm still shaking up about dating because
06:29:45.940
But that doesn't have to do anything with its heart.
06:29:48.160
Yeah, I wouldn't compare one Jaguar's heart to another Jaguar's heart either, but I ain't
06:29:54.500
So the thing is, it's like, you go off of what your experience is.
06:30:00.480
That basically, this dude who you have no title with, you flow out, you're going to see
06:30:22.980
Well, I mean, my take on it is that to have been dating somebody for one year without there
06:30:30.700
being a title, without there being any sort of...
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Now that I'm thinking about it, I'm sorry, Brian.
06:30:54.680
I just think you're overall, you were being so mean.
06:31:07.280
...where they put up with you being just a nonsense...
06:31:16.940
So why are y'all acting like y'all don't know who he is?
06:31:20.940
Well, you should do your research because he don't hold back.
06:31:26.200
I'm confusing him with another guy who sits here.
06:31:36.160
He's the most recurring guest that we've had on the show.
06:31:49.960
There's actually not been anything I've said to you,
06:31:56.200
You literally just don't like the way that I say the things I say,
06:31:59.160
but I haven't actually said I've never attacked you,
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just said, hey, I think this guy's probably banging other chicks.
06:32:06.560
Can you tell me what personal way I've actually attacked you in any way?
06:32:11.680
Honestly, I think you literally called me a spoiled brat.
06:32:19.320
Other than that, other than brat, what have I said?
06:32:28.780
Yeah, apart from brat, I'll take the L on the brat.
06:32:30.840
Because you want another reason why you were a bully,
06:32:39.160
Are you going to drop the tears on me because I called you a brat?
06:32:44.560
Well, the thing is, even if I did drop a tear, you still would laugh at it.
06:32:50.800
Honestly, if I did drop a tear, you would laugh at it because you're a bully and you were
06:32:56.100
You see, histronics are laughable, so why not laugh at it?
06:33:02.100
When you become hysterical, it's funny because it's stupid.
06:33:13.080
I never said anything about your story being stupid, ever.
06:33:20.820
I just told you straight up, I think that this dude probably banging other chicks.
06:33:25.220
You know, you're very smart, but you do look bad.
06:33:27.680
I can't wait to see the comment section on this, dude.
06:33:34.800
All you've done the whole show is whine while your dude's out plowing other chicks,
06:34:08.780
Get them in, because I'm going to wrap up the show, guys.
06:34:10.420
Would you date a man who owns five-plus firearms?
06:34:43.660
My question to you is what's $2,500 by $10,000?
06:35:27.220
Since we can pick now, being with anyone for anything but love is waste of life.
06:35:34.160
Stuff he says poorly written for him in crayon.
06:35:55.840
We're going to try to wrap up the show here really quick.
06:35:59.640
Do you want to address the pathological liar accusations?
06:36:05.060
That everybody's calling you a pathological liar.
06:36:13.600
You lied earlier about the whole sending out the message to the friend thing.
06:36:20.720
No, you even, when you were confronted by the girl who was sitting next to you.
06:36:27.620
Natalia, my hot cleaning lady, 28, was ghosted by her first guy.
06:36:36.080
Don't let it affect your desire for motherhood.
06:36:49.920
We were talking about can men and women be friends?
06:36:58.780
Yeah, and so I was like, hey, can any of you have any single male friends?
06:37:03.360
Would you be down to text them and send them a text kind of flirting with them, basically?
06:37:24.700
Imagine being an overweight, below-average-looking single mother who is a sex worker and thinking
06:37:36.380
So you, just to be clear, you want a guy who makes $500K?
06:37:58.660
Full progressive feminist or sex worker turned based.
06:38:20.460
Because, so there's a couple components of this.
06:38:23.180
So you, I guess, didn't reveal that you said, hey, I'm doing a test.
06:38:30.980
And then you lied about not having the conversation about that.
06:38:44.280
You used to, you used to F gay people in prison?
06:38:52.740
Did you find these ghetto queens on the east side of Santa Barbara?
06:38:56.960
I swear I've seen that heifer with the taps robbed KFC for a bucket of chicken.
06:39:15.860
You know, I'll fight to the death on this hill.
06:39:25.600
Wait, KFC French fries, Andrew, or French fries from Popeyes?
06:39:39.200
When's the last time any of you admitted you were wrong or apologized for being wrong?
06:40:23.980
Also, a couple last few things here before I wrap up.
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If you want, you can get your last minute TTS in.
06:40:36.800
Shout out to the women of color on the panel not getting upset because of tone.
06:40:51.760
She claimed they all got girls, but that doesn't mean they won't cheat.
06:41:03.960
Men and women can be friends if the woman is ugly.
06:41:09.520
Popeye's is better and pineapple on pizza is perfectly acceptable.
06:41:19.460
You're saying you'll be friends with pretty women?
06:41:31.020
Don't bring yourself down based on the uneducated words or perspective of others.
06:42:01.480
Does it smell like giz and desperation in there?
06:42:30.880
Are you really making it until like a cousin thing?
06:42:41.840
I was, but damn, this one went longer than him.
06:43:08.780
Can you explain to the ladies why the situationships are ridiculous?
06:43:12.800
Every man knows when a girl is in situationship, she just bangs a hot dude.
06:43:53.980
Okay, so guys, we're going to do a Twitch raid.
06:43:58.740
Before I do that, I'm just going to do a couple...
06:44:07.400
What high-value man would take a single mother sex worker that also looks like a blobfish?
06:44:13.220
Also, pink shirt, whatever your name is, do us all a favor.
06:44:31.800
Last call, hit the like button, please, on your way out.
06:44:35.740
You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
06:44:41.540
So if you guys could kindly stick around for the raid.
06:44:44.840
And when you head on over there, drop him a subscribe.
06:44:48.160
Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
06:44:51.560
Your patronage is greatly appreciated, given that the vast majority of these videos end up with the yellow monetization thing.
06:44:59.940
You know, we're talking about some controversial stuff, adult conversations, sex-related stuff.
06:45:05.060
So, of course, you know, most of this stuff gets demonetized.
06:45:08.180
We will be live again Tuesday at 5 p.m. Pacific.
06:45:10.620
Got another wonderful panel in the works for that one.
06:45:13.960
Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram if you can make it to Santa Barbara.
06:45:18.200
Nick, was there anything else we had to pull up?
06:45:20.220
Yeah, there's one other Instagram thing that we didn't pull up.
06:45:25.920
I know that some of these talks can become very contentious.
06:45:33.080
That is part of the adversarial nature of the show.
06:45:59.160
Andrew, when are you coming next in the studio?
06:46:02.880
My understanding is that it's going to be late this month.
06:46:31.860
Guys, if you're watching on Twitch, drop us a follow.
06:46:36.700
It's been an hour since a Prime sub has come in.
06:46:40.140
Guys, can somebody test and see if our Prime thing is working?
06:46:56.300
I thought we got banned on Twitch or something.
06:47:00.600
Drop us a follow in a Prime sub if you have one.
06:47:07.060
So, those of you watching on Twitch, thank you for tuning in on Twitch.
06:48:03.640
And then that should go through here and just sink.
06:48:07.220
It's starting to, again, yeah, there's a big movement to play Classic Crush.
06:48:15.120
Now there's, like, thousands of people that have made characters.
06:48:44.680
Because I ripped off whatever podcast in this story.
06:48:50.560
As many of you can tell, my hair is looking rather fresh and trimmed today.
06:49:01.900
And as you do with your hairstylist, you have lots of conversations or whatever, catch up.
06:49:07.580
She goes, by the way, as I'm leaving, she's like, by the way,
06:49:10.640
would you be okay with me hooking you up with one of my friends from work?
06:49:16.500
And I looked at her and I was like, no, I don't want that.
06:49:26.520
I'm only 27, obviously, but they're around your age.
06:49:36.640
All right, well, those of you who we rated, look, all the people we rated over there on
06:49:54.300
I'm going to let these TTSs come through, then we'll wrap up here.
06:50:03.440
Try not being mad defensive over the smaller details.
06:50:07.280
Way to take the easy route by bullying via virtue signaling.
06:50:39.800
How do you get 500k TikTok followers about exposing cheaters yet can't identify when you
06:50:49.780
I mean, she's not getting cheated on if she's not with him.
06:50:56.980
Your TikTok is designed around exposing cheaters?
06:51:01.140
I mentioned that earlier, but I don't think no one heard me.
06:51:16.420
It's no wonder she has no clue her non-BF is cheating.
06:51:23.000
But Q's coming for that show because I owe him a drink.
06:51:50.460
But please understand that you are doing a good job.
06:52:06.120
Something good comes out of the whatever podcast.
06:52:08.400
You know, a lot of people are that because of the whatever podcast.
06:52:10.920
The only spree I care about is Cody's story at WrestleMania.
06:52:28.880
The chat misses her and her high moral standards.