Whatever Podcast - Twins RAGE QUIT？! She Called Her BF A BlATCH？! Toxic Girl ADMITS To Abuse？! ｜ Dating Talk #178

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00:03:13.260 ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So please tell us your name, age,

00:03:17.400 location, and occupation. Go ahead. My name is Jess. I am 36. I live in Calabasas, but I'm a marketing

00:03:25.700 director for a plastic surgery office in Newport Beach that specializes in gynecomastia.

00:03:31.340 All right. And your clientele is primarily men, is that correct? Yeah. What's the, you said,

00:03:37.340 I think in your pre-show notes, you indicated 80%? Yeah. Men? Okay. All right. What about you? 1.00

00:03:43.180 Hi, my name is Azaira Blake. I am 20 years old. I currently live in Hollywood, California,

00:03:49.700 and my occupation that I'm working on right now is being a full-time runway model.

00:03:56.840 Full-time runway model. Okay. Are you in school right now, did you say? I am in school.

00:04:01.220 What are you studying? I'm studying business administration,

00:04:04.080 and I want to major in accounting. Okay. I see. You're an aspiring runway model.

00:04:11.920 Yes. Have you practiced your walk? I always practice my walk. People are very much irritated

00:04:17.920 with me because all I do is practice my walk. All you do is practice the walk. Okay. All right.

00:04:23.060 You got it down pretty good, or are we going to get a demo? Should we get a demo? I don't know.

00:04:26.740 There's probably not enough space, unfortunately, but cool, cool. What about you?

00:04:30.800 My name is Sonia Chiani, better known as Forever Untamed. I'm allegedly 40. I do identify as 27 to 32,

00:04:37.320 depending on the day. I'm from Orange County, a celebrity makeup artist, hairstylist,

00:04:42.160 and I do own a salon, and just venturing into women empowerment coaching and relaunching my podcast.

00:04:48.880 So pretty excited.

00:04:50.020 When you say women empowering.

00:04:52.500 Empowerment.

00:04:53.420 Women empowerment.

00:04:55.140 Women empowerment.

00:04:55.980 Women? 1.00

00:04:56.500 Woman and women. 0.98

00:04:57.400 Woman.

00:04:57.960 Woman, plural, singular. 1.00

00:04:59.820 It's all very confusing. And you said, so what do you do for the empower? How do you empower?

00:05:04.440 So it goes from accountability to self-awareness, and I help them to be the best version of themselves.

00:05:09.640 So whether it's relationship advice, whether it's career, whatever it is, it's that guidance.

00:05:14.840 Through my journey, I help them be their best version of themselves.

00:05:18.440 I see. Okay. And what, is it like a counseling type thing where you sit down with them in person,

00:05:25.080 or how does it typically work?

00:05:26.840 Well, it's more phone calls. So I kind of launched it recently. So I've been doing it more so

00:05:30.600 sporadically, but officially. So I have an initial call to see if that's something that I can help

00:05:36.080 them with. So they fill out a questionnaire, and just kind of see, assess if someone's serious.

00:05:41.340 What is it that I can help them? If it's something that I can definitely help them, then

00:05:44.380 I bring them on, and we kind of plan out, you know, a 30-, 60-, 90-day, like, game plan of what

00:05:52.180 we need to do, and then kind of go from there. So...

00:05:54.860 And what do you typically charge?

00:05:56.000 I'd, just real quick, there was one quick point of clarification I wanted. Did you say

00:06:01.320 you helped them through because of your journey?

00:06:05.420 So what I've gone through, like life, I guess, I've been through a lot of different things,

00:06:11.940 and I feel like social media, I've helped a lot of women through being open and vulnerable

00:06:16.700 with everything that I go through. So it's more so advice for women. So it's a safe space for

00:06:22.260 women that they can come, you know, I've, I don't know if you can say DV, domestic violence. 1.00

00:06:28.000 Yeah. And you teach them accountability? You said that?

00:06:31.420 It depends what they're needing. So it honestly depends on what they need, whether if it's

00:06:35.740 a relationship. So I have a couple of girls that are going through relationships that are

00:06:40.460 kind of stuck, or some that are trying to figure out what they want to do with their next steps

00:06:46.860 of life. So honestly, it depends. So I'm there for whatever they need, and if it's something

00:06:51.300 that I truly think that I can help them with, then I take them on. If I can't, then I don't.

00:06:56.580 I kind of give them the advice that I can, or maybe give them, refer them to other people

00:07:01.460 that I may know in the business. But yeah, it's still pretty brand new. So I'm still honing

00:07:09.040 it in, but it's exciting because it's been something that I've been doing on social media

00:07:12.220 basically for free. Because I say my passion is people as makeup artists. I love to make women 0.94

00:07:18.080 feel beautiful and have their inner and outer beauty match. And so when I'm able to do that,

00:07:27.160 as I said, people are my passion. And making them, helping change the world is my mission,

00:07:35.860 like being the best version of themselves. So I don't know. It's kind of a fun adventure.

00:07:41.100 I don't know the answers yet. It's Andrew, right? I don't know them yet, but we're figuring

00:07:47.560 out as we go. So we're figuring out as we go.

00:07:50.000 It's an adventure.

00:07:51.180 It is an adventure. It's an adventure of growth together. I think that's a thing that as me,

00:07:58.660 as a perfectionist, I usually have a tendency to perfect things before I start them. So this

00:08:04.000 one, I'm like, you know what? We're going to start it. I'm going to perfect it as I grow.

00:08:07.240 So I'm going to grow as a coach and my clients are going to help me grow. So it's an exciting

00:08:12.160 adventure to see where it goes.

00:08:14.360 All right. Well, good luck with the exciting adventure.

00:08:16.960 Thank you.

00:08:18.200 How much do you typically charge for a session or whatever?

00:08:21.620 Well, right now I'm kind of doing more consoles. Like I'll do like 15, 30 minute,

00:08:25.380 just like phone call for free. And then just depends on what they need. So before I was charging

00:08:33.740 250 for like an hour session to sit down. So it just depends what the program is. But for typically

00:08:40.880 I, what I have it now, it's like a 90 day kind of coaching for 1500 bucks. So it includes, you know,

00:08:48.220 weekly zoom calls. They have access to me through text. So I'm basically available to them at all

00:08:55.680 times, but they have that one. So we call if they need more than that, then they can reach out.

00:09:00.280 But, um, so yeah.

00:09:02.060 And then I, uh, I have here in my notes that you have OnlyFans for makeup.

00:09:07.420 I had one. I had not anymore though. Okay. And you were just posting, uh,

00:09:14.440 I was posting makeup stuff on when the, during, um, the lockdown, I think when they were trying

00:09:20.720 to steer away from the sex work, they reached out for makeup artists, hairstylists. So they

00:09:26.300 were the one that actually reached out to me. They made a promo video for me. So they promoted

00:09:30.020 the makeup, the hair fitness enthusiasts. So what I was doing is posting.

00:09:33.640 Wait, when you say they, are you talking about OnlyFans corporate or some like third party?

00:09:39.120 It was the corporate. Okay.

00:09:41.200 So they made a promo video for me for makeup, hair. I think it's still on Twitter. If you go

00:09:46.580 look for it, but, um, and then I would post sexy photo shoots too that I have.

00:09:51.200 You have Twitter? What is it?

00:09:52.620 I think it's, uh, underscore for everyone tamed. I'm very bad at that.

00:09:56.580 I might've already.

00:09:57.180 I just walked into something. Dun, dun, dun. All right. I'll see what kind of dirt I can

00:10:01.960 find. Uh, well, okay. I didn't find, I didn't find anything, but all right. Um, moving on.

00:10:06.440 What about you?

00:10:07.560 Um, my name is Summer. Um, I'm an educational speaker as well as a model and I love to be

00:10:13.740 in film, short films and, um, I really love what she's doing. I feel like me and my twin

00:10:19.160 sister are on a similar path where we empower people to be their better selves. And through the

00:10:24.080 education and knowledge that I've learned throughout my life, as well as in my culture

00:10:27.640 and history, um, that I like to empower people and educate them on how to become their best

00:10:32.120 self.

00:10:32.780 Sure. Can I have you, uh, laptop came out of nowhere. Can I have you tilt your mic down

00:10:36.940 just a little bit?

00:10:37.900 Yes. It's, it's better.

00:10:40.320 Perfect. Age?

00:10:41.980 I'm 24.

00:10:43.300 24. All right. Uh, any history of OF or anything like that?

00:10:47.860 No.

00:10:48.280 Okay. What about you?

00:10:50.320 Um, well, me and my sister were called the Severa twins, but my name is Sarah.

00:10:54.080 Um, we live in Los Angeles, California. We are, um, models in LA, but we are young entrepreneurs

00:11:00.420 as well. Um, we just launched our new, uh, clothing brand, Severa. Um, and then we also

00:11:06.080 are educational speakers as well. So, and I'm, we were 24, 30 seconds older.

00:11:11.140 I'm imagining you guys are twins, so.

00:11:12.660 30 seconds older.

00:11:13.620 Age would be the same. Uh, okay. Both 24. When you say educational speaker, what do you?

00:11:19.620 Um, so when we go on, um, different platforms, uh, we tend to love to talk about things that

00:11:26.100 are factually educational for the community and also just the world. Like there's just

00:11:31.880 a lot of people spreading false education in the world and a lot of like fake mentorship

00:11:37.000 and motivation. So I just like to go off of a factual basis and just statistically prove

00:11:41.920 a point with like pure knowledge. And I think that the world is going the opposite direction.

00:11:46.120 So I think it's necessary.

00:11:48.420 Okay. All right. What about you?

00:11:50.440 Hi, I'm Janara. I'm 19. I'm from Fullerton, California. I attend Cal State Fullerton as a

00:11:58.000 business major concentrating in accounting, and I'm also a party promoter.

00:12:03.100 Party promoter. Okay. And are you in a sorority?

00:12:06.720 No.

00:12:07.660 Do they, do they have, uh, Greek orgs at Cal State Fullerton?

00:12:11.780 Cal State Fullerton. Yeah.

00:12:12.500 Okay.

00:12:12.740 And you're a party promoter. Is that, I'm assuming that's in Fullerton or?

00:12:16.620 Yeah. It's like a little side hustle.

00:12:18.480 Okay. And so, uh, does that involve you also going to the parties?

00:12:22.960 Yes.

00:12:23.360 Partying. Okay.

00:12:23.960 Yeah.

00:12:24.380 Cool. Cool. All right. How long you been doing that for?

00:12:26.900 I think like about half a year now.

00:12:30.120 Half a year. Okay. And you're going into your junior year or sophomore year?

00:12:34.140 Sophomore.

00:12:34.580 Sophomore. Got it. What about you?

00:12:36.500 I'm Sam. I'm 22 years old. I'm from Boise, Idaho,

00:12:40.520 and I'm a licensed esthetician.

00:12:43.740 All right. Uh, Idaho. Have you always lived there?

00:12:47.660 Um, I grew up mostly in Salt Lake City, lived in Alaska for a few years,

00:12:53.640 and then I moved back to Boise when I was 17.

00:12:57.240 All right. Okay. I think you might be our first.

00:13:00.800 Have we had somebody from Idaho before?

00:13:02.460 I think you have. I saw one girl on one episode. Yeah.

00:13:06.520 Uh, okay. Not the first, but okay. Cool. What about you?

00:13:09.960 My name's Naomi. I am also from Boise, Idaho. I'm 27, and I own a salon.

00:13:16.460 All right. You guys work together?

00:13:18.440 Yeah.

00:13:18.720 Yeah, and we're sisters.

00:13:20.140 Oh, and related. Okay. And sisters. All right. And, uh, okay. And what about you?

00:13:26.080 Uh, my name's Liz. I live in Ventura County, and I own a car wrapping business.

00:13:31.360 Yes. Oh, age?

00:13:33.140 Oh, 25.

00:13:34.340 25. You own a car wrapping business. Do you do the actual wrapping yourself, or do you have, like, a team?

00:13:41.320 Everything. We do everything?

00:13:42.260 We take, like, the bumpers off, the door handles, the mirror caps, et cetera. Redo everything. It's not just wraps, though.

00:13:51.200 You actually take the bumpers off yourself?

00:13:53.580 Yeah. I'm big into cars.

00:13:54.800 Like you, personally?

00:13:56.180 Yes.

00:13:57.060 Okay.

00:13:57.660 I do, I refuse to take off any bumpers or anything on, like, McLarens and stuff like that, because I don't want that liability on my business, so I hire that out.

00:14:05.720 But for, like, Beamers, Mercedes, daily vehicles, I'll do all that.

00:14:12.600 All right. Cool. Are you in school at all, or?

00:14:15.400 No.

00:14:16.080 No school. All right. Andrew, what about you?

00:14:19.080 My name is Andrew Wilson. I'm the host of The Crucible. It is, to my knowledge, the fastest-growing debate channel on YouTube.

00:14:27.120 I'm a political analyst, a political satirist, and occasionally like to engage in debates.

00:14:32.220 All right. Welcome, Andrew. Welcome, everybody.

00:14:35.280 Going around the table once more, what is everybody's current relationship status?

00:14:40.480 So, are you single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits, relationship, married, polycule, sex, cult, harem, whatever it may be?

00:14:49.800 If you're single, how long have you been single, and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in, starting with you? Go ahead.

00:14:56.760 So, I'm currently married. Longest relationship I've ever been in was eight years.

00:15:03.100 Is that your marriage?

00:15:04.160 No.

00:15:04.600 Okay. How long have you been married?

00:15:06.780 I've been married for two years, but I've been with them for five now.

00:15:11.140 All right. Cool. Any kids?

00:15:14.800 No kids, but we have about 20 dogs.

00:15:17.720 20 dogs?

00:15:18.880 And a hairless cat.

00:15:20.400 You have like an animal sanctuary?

00:15:23.840 My husband's a TV host for a dog show on CBS.

00:15:27.580 He's a TV host for a dog show on CBS. Have we heard of it?

00:15:32.200 Lucky Dog.

00:15:34.500 Haven't heard of it, but very cool. Very cool.

00:15:37.260 What about you? Wait, is he like a dog whisperer? Like, is he a dog trainer?

00:15:41.220 Yeah, he does dog training. We do service, or we, I just snuggle the dogs, but he does service dogs.

00:15:46.680 He also has a master class for dog training.

00:15:49.740 Does he like correct dogs that behave really poorly?

00:15:53.920 Yes.

00:15:54.760 Like he'll get them in line or whatever?

00:15:57.140 Yes.

00:15:57.320 Okay. Cool. What about you?

00:15:59.280 I am currently single. I have been for about three years now. My first relationship, I've only ever had one boyfriend, and we dated for about two to three years.

00:16:12.620 If you ask him, he might say something different, but we were together for a very long time.

00:16:18.700 Wait, what do you mean he might say something different?

00:16:21.360 Because we broke up with each other, and then he moved on, and I still liked him, but he would still, like, make me feel wanted almost, so it was hard for me to move on for a very long time.

00:16:36.860 So I feel like we were still together, even though we broke up, but on his part, I think he had a new girlfriend, probably five girlfriends, I don't know.

00:16:45.940 There's this Mitch Hedberg joke. It goes something along the lines of, I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl who'd be mad at me if she heard me say that.

00:16:56.460 I think I kind of put, I think I got it about right, but in any case, so you were more so in the relationship than he was?

00:17:03.940 Yes.

00:17:04.340 Okay, and it was two to three years, on again, off again, kind of?

00:17:07.700 Yes.

00:17:08.040 How many times was it off and on?

00:17:11.300 I would say about five major times.

00:17:14.340 Five major times?

00:17:15.280 Yeah.

00:17:15.420 What about the minors?

00:17:17.340 Minors, maybe, like, ten, but it was only for, like, five minutes, and we were like, okay, I love you, sorry.

00:17:25.880 Okay, and so more often than not, who was initiating the off?

00:17:29.400 It was always me, because he would want to text other women in front of me or talk to other women in front of me, so I would break up with him, and I would break up with him every single time, but then I would also be the one to pull us back together.

00:17:48.920 So you would break up with him, but then also reach back out to get, yeah.

00:17:56.460 Yeah, and so was he up front with you?

00:18:00.680 I mean, you had knowledge of it, so.

00:18:02.320 He was very up front.

00:18:04.000 If I were to ask him, like, are you cheating on me?

00:18:06.580 He would just tell me, like, yeah.

00:18:09.160 Like, it would take him a while to get the final answer, but when he finally would tell me, he would tell me exactly what happened and why, I don't want to name his name, but he was adopted, and so he would always give me the same excuse and tell me that, like, he's looking for his mom and a woman, and I would have to deal with that.

00:18:31.320 Yeah, I was dealing with that for a very long time.

00:18:34.240 Looking for his mom and multiple women, it sounds like.

00:18:37.580 Like, and so, okay, so, but, I mean, was he up front with you that he didn't want monogamy?

00:18:43.400 He didn't want commitment?

00:18:45.380 No, he was very much like, you cannot be with anyone else, but I'm going to be with other people.

00:18:53.280 Oh, well, he was up front about that.

00:18:54.940 Yeah.

00:18:55.660 Okay, and were you with other people?

00:18:58.040 When we would break up.

00:18:59.960 You, okay.

00:19:00.540 But so, if he was up front with you that he was going to be seeing other girls, was it really cheating?

00:19:09.440 It was cheating, because we were in a relationship.

00:19:13.320 Right, you were in a relationship where he could see other women, and you couldn't see other men.

00:19:17.180 It wasn't like I allowed him to.

00:19:18.980 It was just that he was expressing to me what he was doing, because I knew that something wasn't right.

00:19:23.480 Well, okay, did you guys at any point have an actual overt conversation about, hey, this is exclusive, we're not seeing other people?

00:19:33.360 Yes, we had that conversation multiple times.

00:19:36.660 But you said that he said that he was going to be seeing other girls, and he wanted you to just be seeing him.

00:19:43.160 Stick around, yeah.

00:19:44.140 It was because he had a lot of personal issues.

00:19:46.380 So, he was literally looking for a mother, a mother figure, and any woman that he could be with.

00:19:53.680 So, it was like he was holding on to me, because he knew that's where his heart lied, but he was also looking for more of himself in other women.

00:20:03.720 I see.

00:20:04.700 Okay.

00:20:06.760 But he was up front with you that this was, he was seeing other women, right?

00:20:12.560 Yes, he was up front with me.

00:20:13.980 And you would break up with him.

00:20:15.740 And I dealt with it, okay, yes, okay.

00:20:17.460 So, is it cheating?

00:20:17.740 I dealt with it because I loved him, and it was cheating, because I loved him.

00:20:23.940 But if you loved him, but if he told you, I'm down to see you, but I want this to be like essentially an open relationship.

00:20:32.500 I mean, that's as farther along as we got, that's more of what it turned into.

00:20:38.400 Like exactly what you said, it did not start off like that.

00:20:41.780 But it traveled to that more and more.

00:20:44.120 So, when it did get to that point, that's when I finally pulled back, because he was expressing like, I'm going to be with other people.

00:20:52.320 Right, but you said each time you broke up with him was because he was involved with another woman.

00:20:56.340 But then, despite knowing that he would be involved with other women, you would accept him.

00:21:02.300 Yes, because I mean love.

00:21:03.120 You would not even accept him back.

00:21:04.420 You would go back to him.

00:21:05.860 I felt like he was the only person who would love me.

00:21:09.020 Nick?

00:21:09.740 Oh, okay.

00:21:10.120 I felt like he was the only person who would love me, and I'm very much attached to someone who I've become comfortable with.

00:21:20.180 It's hard for me to readjust to people, so that's why I would deal with it, because I didn't want to have to readjust to someone else.

00:21:26.500 Right.

00:21:26.820 But I mean, if he kind of said, and I'm not saying that I agree with the kind of arrangement that he had going on, but if he tells you, I'm going to be seeing other women, and then you break up with him, but then you go back to him without some sort of ultimatum of, you can't do that anymore.

00:21:46.300 Or just by virtue of you reaching back out to him would seem to indicate, at least to him, that you are now, you are willing to be in a relationship with him despite his, I don't even categorize it as cheating, but despite him seeing other women.

00:22:02.460 Yes, I was willing to be with him.

00:22:05.100 So it wasn't cheating then?

00:22:06.440 It was.

00:22:06.840 Right, but if you, if you, okay, so you would have to, there would have to be an establishment that he wouldn't, for you to continue seeing him, he can't see other girls.

00:22:18.600 But you'd go back to him despite his representations to you.

00:22:21.920 I feel like that's the establishment when you become in a relationship with someone.

00:22:25.660 When you become in a relationship, you establish that you're only going to be with that person.

00:22:30.380 So I'm trying to like break up with him because he wants to be with other people, but I also love him.

00:22:36.200 So I go back to him and I'm like, we can't do this anymore.

00:22:38.860 He would agree with me.

00:22:40.280 He would be honest to me about what happened, but then he would keep doing it.

00:22:43.760 He would continue to do it.

00:22:44.960 So it wasn't like, well, honestly, yes, I do know what I was getting myself into, but I also feel like I was hoping for the best at the same time.

00:22:58.380 I don't think he was cheating.

00:22:59.600 I mean, he told you, he told you, it's like, but what do you expect?

00:23:05.700 You, you break up with him, but then you go back to him, but he's already communicated to you that he's going to be sleeping with other chicks.

00:23:15.880 So by you going back to him, that's your accepting, that's essentially you accepting his terms.

00:23:23.680 Yes.

00:23:24.040 If he was, okay, if he was reaching back out to you, he's like, babe, I'm sorry, let's be together.

00:23:28.780 Let's be monogamous. 0.95

00:23:29.920 And then he did it.

00:23:30.980 That's one thing.

00:23:31.640 But you going back to him, I imagine it wasn't under, like, there wasn't a ultimatum where, well, you're reaching back out to him, but I'll only get back with you if you're not sleeping with other girls.

00:23:43.080 That was sort of the conversation.

00:23:47.260 But at the same time, I was more focused on being back with them than what he was doing.

00:23:52.860 Because the type of person I am, I really don't, like, I know this sounds bad, but being with other people wasn't my main focus.

00:24:00.880 Like, as long as he was able to be there for me when I needed him and able to understand the things that I couldn't communicate to anyone else, that was the main focus for me.

00:24:10.000 So being able to have a person that I can express those things with was the main focus.

00:24:15.060 So I was mentally draining myself, tuning out the cheating, and making it seem like it wasn't a big issue when it really was.

00:24:24.580 Okay, we can come back to some of that later.

00:24:26.760 I noticed you have a tattoo here that says the real brat. 1.00

00:24:30.020 Oh, real brat. 0.99

00:24:30.820 A real brat. 0.98

00:24:31.920 A real brat. 0.96

00:24:33.080 My name is Azira, but I am a big brat.

00:24:36.960 I also am very real.

00:24:38.880 I'm the realest.

00:24:39.800 The realest in red.

00:24:41.040 I'm not sexy red.

00:24:42.220 I'm the sexiest red.

00:24:43.720 Thank you very much. 0.88

00:24:45.480 And so altogether, it's a real brat.

00:24:48.940 A real brat. 0.93

00:24:50.900 A real brat. 0.93

00:24:51.620 I am a real brat. 0.56

00:24:52.740 What's a fake brat? 1.00

00:24:53.980 Is there a fake brat?

00:24:54.940 A fake brat is someone who...

00:24:56.420 Not actually a brat that you pretend to be?

00:24:58.380 A brat is being able to get your way and not putting up with anything else.

00:25:03.440 A fake brat is someone who acts like they're getting their way, but they're not.

00:25:07.180 I am getting my way.

00:25:08.120 A real brat is... 0.90

00:25:09.240 Well, you didn't get your way with your ex-boyfriend.

00:25:11.580 And I left it alone, and I'm hoping better for the future.

00:25:15.940 After a long three, four years, yes, I finally left it alone.

00:25:20.400 And my real bratness in me is not looking for anyone right now.

00:25:25.060 And I feel like that's what makes me a real brat, too, because I'm focused on getting what I want and not letting anyone stop me.

00:25:31.280 All right.

00:25:32.720 And how long have you been single?

00:25:34.920 For about two years, I would say.

00:25:38.260 It depends on when you consider that we broke up.

00:25:40.660 When's the last time you saw that guy?

00:25:44.100 Yesterday.

00:25:44.820 Just late last night.

00:25:48.460 About two, three weeks ago.

00:25:51.340 Oh, whoops.

00:25:52.100 Hold on.

00:25:52.800 I didn't mean to press that one.

00:25:54.040 Wait, so hold on.

00:25:57.920 You said you've been single for two years, but you saw this guy as recently as two weeks ago?

00:26:03.400 Two, three weeks ago.

00:26:05.340 Two, three.

00:26:06.260 Two.

00:26:07.580 And was there carnal knowledge involved in this visit?

00:26:12.220 Was there carnal knowledge?

00:26:14.460 What does that mean?

00:26:16.520 Carnal knowledge?

00:26:17.400 Sexual intercourse? 0.85

00:26:18.220 Oh, no. 0.94

00:26:18.540 P and the V? 0.88

00:26:18.960 No, we have not.

00:26:20.440 We actually haven't done anything physical since about two years.

00:26:24.860 That's kind of when I consider that we broke up.

00:26:26.920 It was when I first went to college.

00:26:28.140 Nothing physical?

00:26:29.360 Nothing physical.

00:26:30.540 But you have.

00:26:31.200 So what do you guys do?

00:26:32.500 Just meet up and go to Baskin-Robbins and have ice cream?

00:26:35.100 No, that's not what we do.

00:26:37.200 His mother is very much a great friend of mine, also a second mom to me.

00:26:43.540 And so every single time they have a family event or a graduation or his sister recently had a baby, I'm always invited.

00:26:52.340 So I find myself with his family a lot, and that's why I've seen him recently.

00:26:58.680 Okay.

00:27:01.280 So before you just, it was a family get-together?

00:27:05.280 Yeah, it was his little brother's graduation from high school.

00:27:08.580 Wait, his little brother's graduation from high school?

00:27:13.880 Yes.

00:27:15.160 And your family is involved?

00:27:16.840 Your family is involved now?

00:27:18.280 No, I'm close friends with his whole family, so they invite me to everything.

00:27:22.980 That's why I've seen him so recently.

00:27:25.640 I see.

00:27:26.340 Okay.

00:27:29.500 You didn't hook up two to three weeks ago?

00:27:31.280 No.

00:27:32.520 We very much didn't.

00:27:34.000 I wish we did because I really, I love him so much, but he's so upset the way our relationship went, and he blames me for everything.

00:27:46.040 So that's why I had to pull myself back because I want to be with someone who sees me as a great person, a great woman, and I feel like he doesn't see me as that because I put up with so many terrible things that he did.

00:28:00.040 He has, like, a different reputation for me.

00:28:01.900 Now it's just, oh, this girl, she's going to put up with whatever. 1.00

00:28:05.260 Like, I don't have to treat her with respect.

00:28:07.960 Like, that's how he sees me now, so I really can't ever be with him again.

00:28:12.320 Wait, you just said you wanted to hit.

00:28:14.140 I want to be with him, but I can't.

00:28:17.500 It's a principle.

00:28:18.780 It's discipline.

00:28:21.960 Wait, but it sounded like you wanted to hit, but he didn't.

00:28:26.480 It's not like he didn't.

00:28:28.540 We both did, but we didn't because he sees me as someone who he can play with, so I try not to put myself in that situation even though I want to.

00:28:40.380 Okay.

00:28:40.940 And I want to because I've been with him for a very long time, and I wouldn't want to restart with someone new.

00:28:47.040 In these instances where he's sort of...

00:28:48.700 Well, that's really weird to me, though, if you don't mind me just kind of asking, why would you be going to events with this guy's family and be having close personal relationships with this guy's family if that wasn't a way in which you can kind of piggyback off of them to get close to him?

00:29:07.960 Usually, you would think that if you were in a disastrous relationship where the man and the woman had decided that they just weren't right for each other, that generally they tend to space each other away from each other's families, you know, personal connections, things like this, so that they don't have to see each other anymore.

00:29:25.320 This is really...

00:29:25.820 It's really odd, right?

00:29:26.860 A little strange that you're going to his little brother's graduation.

00:29:30.860 Right?

00:29:31.420 That's a little weird.

00:29:33.180 It is a little weird.

00:29:36.080 Every time before one of his family members' events, I always give myself this pep talk, which is not great. 1.00

00:29:43.200 I'm like, you're stupid. 1.00

00:29:45.060 You're so dumb. 1.00

00:29:45.980 Why are you here? 1.00

00:29:47.080 Stay away from his family.

00:29:48.400 He doesn't want to be with you.

00:29:49.420 I always tell myself that, but I always end up going because I have, like, this everlasting faith that he'll finally, like, treat me right and want to be with me, and he'll see...

00:30:00.400 So you are using the family as a piggyback.

00:30:03.180 To get close to this guy.

00:30:04.680 Like, that's...

00:30:05.180 By your own admission, you're piggyback.

00:30:07.100 You're, like...

00:30:07.880 You're attaching yourself to his family members so that you can be close in proximity in hopes that he one day has a turnaround.

00:30:14.020 And he's like, finally...

00:30:15.780 You know, Eureka, the light bulb went off.

00:30:18.280 I was...

00:30:18.700 You know, I was brushing my teeth this morning, and ding, there it is.

00:30:23.540 You're the girl of my dreams.

00:30:25.060 I always knew it.

00:30:26.060 Like, is that...

00:30:26.820 Is that the Eureka you think is coming?

00:30:29.400 Or...

00:30:29.800 Sometimes that is the goal, but other times it's not solely me.

00:30:34.540 I feel like his mother wants me to be with him as well.

00:30:37.840 So I feel like she also does this to help me and him regain a stronger bond.

00:30:44.140 But it's funny because when she...

00:30:46.120 And does he tell his mama to mind her own business?

00:30:48.660 He does. 1.00

00:30:49.000 Does he say, Mom, mind your own fucking business, doesn't he? 1.00

00:30:52.520 He does. 1.00

00:30:53.240 Yep, yep, he does.

00:30:54.400 And me and her have been plotting her. 0.99

00:30:55.300 He says, Mom, I don't give a shit what you say. 0.99

00:30:57.540 I've never cared what you said, Mom. 0.99

00:30:58.840 I still love you, Mom.

00:30:59.780 I adore you.

00:31:00.360 You're my mom.

00:31:01.120 But mind your own business.

00:31:02.640 That's what he says, isn't it?

00:31:04.120 Yes, it is.

00:31:05.120 Yeah, yeah.

00:31:06.440 I think there's a situation, Andrew, when, girl, you've got to call me after this, and we're going to work through this together.

00:31:11.140 I'll hook you up.

00:31:12.520 Wait.

00:31:12.700 Yeah, she'll only charge you X amount of dollars. 0.94

00:31:14.900 I'm just only...

00:31:15.760 I'll just do the call.

00:31:16.560 At this point, I'll do it for free.

00:31:18.060 I'm going to need you to get out of it.

00:31:19.260 I mean, what other advice is there to give but move on?

00:31:25.360 I know.

00:31:25.720 There's no other prescriptive thing we can tell you.

00:31:30.720 This guy's going to continue seeing other women.

00:31:35.000 If he was really about you, he would only be about you.

00:31:39.540 So, like, you're basically, you were, are, will be the side chick. 0.65

00:31:44.880 Point blank, period.

00:31:45.960 I'm not saying that to be mean.

00:31:47.300 I'm just trying to give you, like, a wake-up call here.

00:31:50.400 You got to, like, you're still pining over this, dude.

00:31:54.760 But I'm just confused because you say you've been single for two years, but you're seeing this.

00:31:59.020 Okay.

00:31:59.580 I'm single, but I have to...

00:32:00.860 Metro Mac donated $69.

00:32:03.040 Yeah, we'll move on in a second.

00:32:03.960 Move the foo con bro.

00:32:05.700 Thank you, Metro Mac.

00:32:06.620 Appreciate it.

00:32:07.900 When, in the instances where he would allegedly cheat on you, was there any retribution on, from your end?

00:32:15.720 As in?

00:32:17.020 Slashing tires, reputation destruction, anything like that.

00:32:21.720 The most I would do is, I'm a very much of a not-talk-to-you person, so I would just not talk to him.

00:32:30.060 If I did talk to him, I would constantly scream at him.

00:32:34.200 Like, there would be, he would not be able to communicate.

00:32:36.540 I would just be standing there screaming at him for hours, and then I would cry.

00:32:41.180 Sounds healthy.

00:32:41.880 You would scream at him for hours?

00:32:44.560 Yes.

00:32:44.920 And he wouldn't get a one-word in?

00:32:46.880 No.

00:32:47.720 How did, what, this was a, like, multi-hour monologue?

00:32:51.460 Yes.

00:32:51.900 He wouldn't even respond, he'd just sit there playing Call of Duty?

00:32:54.620 Yes.

00:32:55.100 And he, sometimes...

00:32:55.740 Wait, would he be on a video game while you were yelling at him?

00:32:57.440 He would either be on the game, or on his phone, or we would be outside in the middle of going

00:33:02.000 somewhere, and sometimes we would be out places, and he would talk to someone, and I would grab

00:33:07.220 him, make him leave, and I would yell at him the whole way home.

00:33:10.700 You would yell at him in public?

00:33:12.380 Yes.

00:33:13.220 Yikes.

00:33:13.880 The whole way home.

00:33:14.580 So, so I gotta, I gotta say, to your, whoever this mystery man is, sir, run away as fast

00:33:21.240 as you can, flee, never look back again, tell mommy and little brother to stop having relationships

00:33:28.920 with your, possibly ex-girlfriends who may not have been the girlfriend, but that would

00:33:34.800 be my recommendation, you know, and I know somewhere he's watching this, or will be watching

00:33:39.520 this, and he's thinking, man, I've tried everything, I've done everything I could possibly do, she

00:33:45.360 calls my mom on Saturdays, bro, she calls her on Saturdays, yeah, yeah, okay.

00:33:52.160 I recently just blocked his mother, his brother, his sister, and him, because I can't do this

00:33:59.060 anymore, so, yeah. 0.99

00:34:00.800 He can't do that shit either. 0.99

00:34:04.800 Yikes, wait, okay, let's, can we get, I want a 30 second demo, so I'm, well, here's what 1.00

00:34:09.660 I'm gonna do, I'm gonna play solitaire for, hold on, all right, hold on, all right, look,

00:34:19.320 I'm gonna play solitaire, all right, you just yell at me like how you yelled at him, go

00:34:24.100 ahead.

00:34:25.240 What are you doing, why are you talking to them, I can't take you nowhere, that's my

00:34:30.080 best friend's party, come on, I literally am gonna have to hear about this tomorrow,

00:34:35.020 please, no, don't say that, don't say anything, please be quiet, no, because you stay cheating,

00:34:40.420 you stay acting like a hoe, I can't take you nowhere, you need to go home, don't leave 1.00

00:34:44.740 me, where are you going, come back, what is wrong with you, I don't know, I don't know,

00:34:49.300 I don't, I can't, no, be quiet, stop, every single time we go somewhere, we cannot go

00:34:55.140 anywhere, we cannot go anywhere, I can't take you anywhere, please, like, can you please

00:35:01.280 just act like you want to be with me, or we do not have to go places, we can deal with

00:35:05.260 this inside, not outside.

00:35:08.320 Sorry, I was busy playing solitaire.

00:35:10.020 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, can we put the cuckoo back in the clock here,

00:35:14.640 lady, for just a minute, whew, that was rough, that was rough, that sounded like you rehearsed

00:35:21.480 this, yeah, yeah, it happened so, it happened so many times, where, like, at that point,

00:35:27.540 I would just, like, go off, I would non-stop, like, I would lose my voice just screaming at

00:35:33.400 him, because there was nothing I could say for him to actually stop what he was doing,

00:35:38.600 so I would just say everything.

00:35:40.640 I have, like, a random one-off scenario question, if, like, a guy came into your life, and you,

00:35:47.200 and he was pursuing you, and he was a good man, and then this guy came back, and he was

00:35:52.240 like, no, I want you, which one would you take?

00:35:55.660 Private chat.

00:35:56.660 At this point in my life, I'm going to say the new person, only because every other moment

00:36:03.940 of my life, I've taken him back, and it wasn't worth it, every single time it wasn't worth

00:36:10.060 it, because he still couldn't see me as someone who was worth being with, and I want, uh, I

00:36:16.560 want, I want someone new who can see me as, like, a fresh, beautiful soul, and they don't

00:36:20.740 have all this pent-up anger against me or resentment, because I let them do things that

00:36:26.320 I shouldn't have, and I should have walked away a long time ago.

00:36:28.940 So, you said that you blocked this guy's family.

00:36:32.300 Yes.

00:36:32.820 You're not going to go over there anymore?

00:36:34.280 No.

00:36:35.220 Okay.

00:36:35.860 If you want to call him, just call me.

00:36:37.420 I got you.

00:36:39.240 I think we've all been there, though.

00:36:40.720 I'll be honest, like, the on and off, it takes a minute, and you say the real brat, I think

00:36:45.580 that's when you take your power back, when you start realizing your self-worth and self-respect, 0.98

00:36:49.700 and you're just like, I don't want to deal with this shit anymore. 0.97

00:36:51.420 So, you know you deserve better, but as someone who's been through it, sometimes it takes 0.99

00:36:57.300 a couple of times for you to realize it, and then your friends have all seen it, and you

00:37:03.920 start slowly seeing what they saw, and then you realize that it's time to cut it off, but

00:37:08.000 I'm proud of you. 0.99

00:37:08.760 I'm going to cut through all this bullshit. 0.99

00:37:11.160 Look, I'm just going to come out and say it. 0.99

00:37:12.720 You're not going to like it. 0.83

00:37:16.200 She's the abusive one. 1.00

00:37:17.460 Yeah, she is. 0.93

00:37:18.120 She's being abusive. 0.99

00:37:19.040 She for sure has a lot of, you need a lot of healing, my child, but...

00:37:23.340 Yeah, but you're telling her you don't have to put up with it anymore.

00:37:27.100 Hang on, hang on, hang on.

00:37:28.260 It's her journey.

00:37:29.720 Oh, Andrew.

00:37:31.140 It's her journey.

00:37:32.360 It's not that.

00:37:33.200 It's the fact that I'm saying that she definitely needs...

00:37:35.760 I'm not saying she doesn't need help.

00:37:36.880 It's the fact that she needs to go through...

00:37:39.160 She has a lot of unhealed trauma for herself, but at the same time, she's not putting up with

00:37:44.440 this, so now you have to focus on yourself.

00:37:46.220 Yeah, I mean, I'm not going to lie.

00:37:47.440 If somebody yelled at me like that, girl, I would have cut you. 1.00

00:37:50.020 I would have moved, changed my phone number, blocked you, like left.

00:37:52.200 But it is that resentment, it is that pent up, what you're not getting, so you're frustrated.

00:37:57.600 You're both toxic, and it just keeps getting more toxic and toxic because you're letting

00:38:01.340 it happen, so he doesn't respect you, you don't respect yourself, he's not listening

00:38:05.040 to you, he's tuning you out, and you get more frustrated because you don't feel hurt, 0.79

00:38:08.380 so it's like literally a toxic thing that just keeps fucking building up, building up 0.97

00:38:11.500 until it explodes. 0.96

00:38:12.700 Have you guys ever had a physical altercation?

00:38:15.080 Yes, we have, but it wasn't as bad as I would say, like, abuse goes.

00:38:26.060 I'm going to be honest.

00:38:27.480 I think that I...

00:38:27.980 But this was you physically attacking him, right?

00:38:31.300 This is where we're going?

00:38:32.800 If I could make a prediction?

00:38:34.140 I believe that I hit him, and then he hit me back, so I literally started crying, I

00:38:43.400 was like, oh my god, you hit me to that, but I was so mad, I did hit him.

00:38:47.860 Yeah, but you can't raise your hand if you don't want to expect to get hit.

00:38:51.840 Yeah, I should have never hit him.

00:38:52.520 Did this happen more than once?

00:38:54.160 This happened not many times, I would say three times in the same week to where it was

00:39:00.920 like we were actually fighting, but he was fighting me to a point where he wanted me

00:39:05.380 to stop, and I was fighting him to a point where I was angry, so it was like he wasn't...

00:39:10.100 So he was defending himself.

00:39:11.100 Yeah, he wasn't, like, hurting me or anything, he was genuinely trying to get, like, stopped.

00:39:14.620 He was, like, holding your arms or something?

00:39:15.840 Yeah.

00:39:16.260 And in the three times, of the three times you mentioned, you were the initiator in all

00:39:21.180 of them?

00:39:21.980 Yes.

00:39:22.480 Okay, and what were you, slapping him?

00:39:24.360 What were you doing?

00:39:25.800 I slapped him a few times. 0.97

00:39:27.860 I, like, I would punch him in the back and, like, in the arm. 0.94

00:39:31.880 This is so bad, but I was, like, so angry. 0.91

00:39:35.180 He would sit on his phone in my room and text other females, people that I used to be friends

00:39:40.480 with, people that I would see every day, and I would just, like, scream at him, like, please,

00:39:45.080 like, don't do that.

00:39:45.980 Get off your phone.

00:39:46.960 It was a game for him. 0.95

00:39:48.300 He was having so much fun, so I would, like, hit him.

00:39:51.160 Yeah, it was bad. 0.91

00:39:53.860 I was crazy.

00:39:54.720 I mean, honestly, I don't think he's at fault either, because, like, Brian said, he was honest

00:39:58.720 with you.

00:39:59.360 Like, he didn't have any consequences, because I've been through that, where I had an ex,

00:40:03.580 he said he wanted options, and I was like, that's not, no, I'm sorry, bye.

00:40:08.080 But he didn't have any consequences, so he really didn't care, and he told you what he

00:40:12.320 wanted, which wasn't really you, and it hurts to hear it, but you just kind of, like, want

00:40:16.840 to force it on him, and then you're just getting frustrated because you're not getting

00:40:19.320 what you want, but it's almost like selective hearing.

00:40:21.380 You're literally not listening to what he's saying, and you're just like, but give me

00:40:25.680 what I want, and he's like, well, this is what I'm giving you, and you just don't want

00:40:30.340 to accept what he wasn't giving you.

00:40:35.140 All right, kumbaya.

00:40:37.540 Can I get out?

00:40:38.160 This is also, I mean, this is also, wait, you said he's adopted?

00:40:43.440 Yes.

00:40:43.980 I feel so bad that I put that out there, but it's part of our love story, or was love story.

00:40:49.420 Did you adjust the mic, Nick?

00:40:51.380 I did start.

00:40:52.840 Okay.

00:40:53.960 But her, she needs to speak closer.

00:40:55.540 Yeah.

00:40:56.160 Yes.

00:40:58.100 It's also an L for this guy to actually tolerate this level of disrespect.

00:41:05.000 He's clearly the victim in this whole situation, but...

00:41:09.520 Okay, can I give a counter, though, to this, Brian?

00:41:12.700 I'm going to counter-signal you here.

00:41:14.620 Okay.

00:41:14.780 What if it's, you know, it's 11 o'clock at night, and he wants some Arby's, and it's

00:41:19.760 really far away, and it's open 24 hours, you know, seven days away.

00:41:23.400 You know, she can go get the Arby's for him, you know?

00:41:26.460 And she'll just do it, right?

00:41:28.620 So, wait, in his defense, who wants to get up at 11 o'clock at night?

00:41:32.860 Ladies, I'm going to Cabo San Lucas in February next year.

00:41:36.640 Would any of you on the panel bow to me, Bucky Larson, for six nights in a row if I flew you

00:41:41.620 out to Cabo?

00:41:43.220 Okay, I guess, show of hands, anybody here willing to take him up on his, this Bucky

00:41:47.920 Larson wants to fly you guys out to Cabo?

00:41:51.780 Anybody? 1.00

00:41:53.860 Shit, bro. 1.00

00:41:55.040 Damn, sorry, Bucky. 1.00

00:41:56.120 Sorry, Andrew, go ahead. 1.00

00:41:57.140 Sounds like sex trafficking. 0.95

00:41:57.860 Well, I'm just saying, you know, I understand what you're saying.

00:42:00.800 Kind of an L for him, because he's, you know, continuing to kind of lead her on and this

00:42:04.820 kind of thing, but, you know, I really feel like that that's deviating away from female 1.00

00:42:10.220 accountability in this instance.

00:42:11.860 Once you get to the, well, I hang out with his parents and his siblings in order to get

00:42:17.320 closer to him, I feel like he's just kind of stuck at that, but, like, what the hell

00:42:21.040 is he going to do?

00:42:24.080 What's he going to, like?

00:42:26.920 Like, he can't, he can't avoid it.

00:42:28.760 Yeah, he can't avoid it, right?

00:42:29.680 You keep inserting yourself in his life.

00:42:31.460 Like, I mean, we do that.

00:42:32.420 Like, let's be real.

00:42:33.180 We've done that a lot.

00:42:34.020 We keep in touch with the family because we want to get back.

00:42:37.000 Say it.

00:42:37.820 What?

00:42:38.120 I was trapping him for a certain amount of time.

00:42:43.240 That's what I wanted as well.

00:42:44.900 And then it just got dreadful.

00:42:46.620 And then I started asking myself, why am I here?

00:42:49.000 Why am I doing this?

00:42:49.860 But at first it was like, oh, yeah, like, his mom invited me.

00:42:52.700 Oh, I'm coming.

00:42:53.460 Like, but then it, I started to, like, gather myself.

00:42:57.300 His adoptive mother?

00:42:58.680 Yes.

00:43:00.600 Is his mother aware of the nature of your guys' physically violent relationship?

00:43:07.040 Yes.

00:43:07.340 I would tell her all the time.

00:43:08.920 And she would tell me, like, that he's not ready to be in a relationship

00:43:12.140 and that he needs to, like, grow a lot more within himself,

00:43:16.420 especially with his personal issues,

00:43:18.120 and that it's, like, not right for me to be with him.

00:43:22.140 But I would never listen to her, so. 0.99

00:43:25.580 This whole thing's a massive clusterfuck. 0.99

00:43:27.540 Like, the adoptive mother is not advising her adopted son 0.99

00:43:33.560 to try to exit a physically abusive relationship.

00:43:38.320 Yeah, I'm just not willing to throw this poor guy under the bus just yet.

00:43:41.500 I'm just not quite there.

00:43:45.220 He seems like he's had a hard time.

00:43:48.200 I mean, you're beating him up, ingratiating yourself into his family,

00:43:52.120 won't leave him alone. 1.00

00:43:53.740 You know, I mean, you kind of sound like a pain in the ass, honestly. 1.00

00:43:57.540 Yes, I do. 0.99

00:44:00.040 And that's why me and him can't be together,

00:44:02.620 because we have so much trauma in our history.

00:44:06.920 But I don't see it like that, which is part of my problem.

00:44:10.340 I see it all as, like, a long love story.

00:44:12.860 But in conclusion to this whole situation,

00:44:16.100 I feel that when you are not getting what you need or you need to receive in a relationship,

00:44:23.260 you need to remove yourself or else it'll bring something else out of you that is not beautiful

00:44:29.240 and that you don't need to experience.

00:44:31.760 And that's exactly what happened here.

00:44:33.380 Yeah, no, not really, because he tried to remove himself and then you surveyed yourself after he tried to remove himself, right?

00:44:41.900 So it's not really what happened here.

00:44:45.160 Wait, he don't get to remove himself?

00:44:47.200 Is that what you said?

00:44:47.800 He does not get to remove himself until we both feel that that is what needs to happen.

00:44:55.720 But now that I'm thinking about it now, it's okay.

00:45:00.200 Have you ever seen the movie Psycho?

00:45:01.620 You know the shower scene with that music, you know, that music is playing right there.

00:45:08.140 That's all I hear.

00:45:09.720 That's all I hear right now.

00:45:10.720 Is that this poor guy is going to have a shower scene soon.

00:45:14.500 He's just, you know, he's going to get off a hard day's work.

00:45:17.640 And then that's it.

00:45:18.640 The curtain's going to open and that's going to be it for him.

00:45:20.800 In all fairness, I think the red hair.

00:45:22.080 He doesn't get to quit, right?

00:45:23.240 He doesn't get to quit me.

00:45:24.280 He's not allowed to.

00:45:26.500 By the way, TTS has been bumped up to back to 200.

00:45:36.100 The whole situation is an absolute mess.

00:45:38.040 Are you trolling or is this legit?

00:45:42.340 No, I'm so serious.

00:45:43.980 If he were to watch this right now, he would be so happy because you're validating his point.

00:45:49.920 Everything that he says, you are validating.

00:45:52.700 He would be so happy right now. 0.96

00:45:54.060 He'd be like, yeah, I told you she's crazy. 0.56

00:45:56.620 Is he wrong? 0.72

00:45:57.620 Is he wrong?

00:45:59.420 I am crazy when you drive me to craziness.

00:46:04.740 It's all his fault.

00:46:06.400 This poor, logical, reasonable human being.

00:46:09.000 Is he watching this?

00:46:10.020 I'll literally help him.

00:46:10.920 Who you hang out with his family. 0.99

00:46:12.540 This poor, deranged lunatic whose family you're hanging out with. 0.99

00:46:17.660 I know it's poor you, really. 1.00

00:46:21.480 Poor you.

00:46:24.500 I mean, I appreciate you're honest.

00:46:27.160 That's commendable.

00:46:28.580 And she's not under the law. 0.98

00:46:29.620 No, I love that.

00:46:30.700 She's honest.

00:46:32.580 At least we can give her that, right? 0.98

00:46:34.120 Yeah, honestly, psychotic.

00:46:39.300 I'm not psychotic anymore.

00:46:41.880 I have completely removed myself.

00:46:44.560 And I'm continuing to remove myself every single day.

00:46:48.200 I'm continuing to understand what not being loved correctly does to me.

00:46:54.640 I don't put him at fault.

00:46:56.420 I put myself at fault because I should have taken removing myself from the situation a very long time ago.

00:47:03.820 And me staying is what brought this monster out of me.

00:47:08.220 And it's not because of him.

00:47:09.540 It's because of me.

00:47:10.840 And I take full accountability for that.

00:47:12.800 And that's why moving forward, I want to make sure that I know what triggers me and that I don't put myself in those positions.

00:47:19.560 And being not wanted triggers me.

00:47:21.400 So I'm not going to be in any position where I am not wanted.

00:47:24.820 Have you ever damaged any of his property?

00:47:28.160 Yes.

00:47:29.600 I just love the honest thing.

00:47:31.480 Like what?

00:47:32.900 He got me, okay, one time there was a Christmas that had one of the Christmases a few years ago.

00:47:40.340 And I had got him like all these gifts.

00:47:42.400 He used to like smoke in his mom's house.

00:47:44.940 So I would buy him like candles so that you couldn't smell it.

00:47:48.000 His mom was so mad. 0.80

00:47:49.060 But I had pressed him.

00:47:50.980 I was like, why didn't you get me a gift?

00:47:53.000 Like I don't understand.

00:47:54.440 Like I don't care if you don't have any money.

00:47:56.620 Like you could hustle and get me something.

00:48:00.140 Like I was so upset.

00:48:01.720 And then one day in January, he had like this long pole and he like, he gave it to me.

00:48:11.200 And inside of it was this long, big picture of the Vincent Van Owen sunflower painting.

00:48:20.660 It's like a pot with like all the sunflowers in it.

00:48:23.200 Wait, Vincent Van Gogh?

00:48:24.540 Yes, Vincent Van Gogh.

00:48:26.360 Sorry.

00:48:27.160 Okay.

00:48:27.720 Okay.

00:48:28.020 You're going to understand why I don't remember the name.

00:48:30.560 So you broke the vase or whatever?

00:48:32.300 No.

00:48:32.760 What happened was it's a painting.

00:48:34.720 It's a long picture frame painting of the picture that he gave me.

00:48:38.880 And then a few days later, he took me.

00:48:41.580 We were walking down like a bunch of streets.

00:48:43.920 He's like, we're almost there.

00:48:44.940 We're almost there.

00:48:45.340 I'm like, what are we doing?

00:48:46.320 I guess he had bought a picture frame for it on OfferUp.

00:48:50.080 And he put it together.

00:48:51.540 We put it together.

00:48:52.280 It was like almost as big as this table.

00:48:54.360 A really big like Vincent Van Gogh picture.

00:48:57.500 And you destroyed it.

00:48:58.860 What happened was one day, he didn't want to see me.

00:49:02.840 And this was about like six months later.

00:49:06.240 I was like very like in a traumatic phase of my life.

00:49:09.560 And I really needed him to be there for me.

00:49:11.680 But he was out with other girls and like with his friends who would take him with other girls.

00:49:16.880 And I was very much upset. 1.00

00:49:17.880 It was time to wreck that shit. 1.00

00:49:19.520 It was time to wreck that. 1.00

00:49:20.860 Teach him a lesson.

00:49:22.320 I was so upset.

00:49:22.780 He needed to be taught a lesson.

00:49:24.340 It was like watching me.

00:49:25.680 Everything that he gave me was watching me.

00:49:27.720 So I was like, okay, whatever.

00:49:28.880 I had some lighter fluid in the back.

00:49:30.620 I grabbed the lighter fluid.

00:49:32.120 I grabbed some matches.

00:49:33.320 I walked down the street like where all the crackheads were.

00:49:36.260 I started smashing the painting.

00:49:38.880 What?

00:49:39.200 I recorded it.

00:49:40.840 This is on Instagram.

00:49:43.860 I retract my free offer.

00:49:45.320 I'm going to need to charge you extra.

00:49:46.540 I'm some liability insurance.

00:49:47.780 I smashed it into pieces in the crackhead owie. 0.97

00:49:53.960 And I literally lit it up with lighter fluid.

00:49:57.360 They were hyping me up.

00:49:58.480 I lit it up with lighter fluid.

00:50:00.420 I sat there.

00:50:01.860 I started recording.

00:50:03.220 And I just let it burn.

00:50:04.360 I just sat there.

00:50:05.240 Just like watched it burn.

00:50:06.880 He had given me this big stuffed animal monkey.

00:50:09.680 And like it just reminded me of him.

00:50:11.640 Because when we first met, he was like kind of fat. 0.93

00:50:13.540 So like I called him Fat. 0.98

00:50:15.120 Fat Daddy. 0.97

00:50:15.800 And he gave me like this fat monkey. 0.84

00:50:19.360 And so I was like, okay, like this is him.

00:50:21.660 I did not want the monkey.

00:50:23.360 So like I tried to burn it.

00:50:24.820 I ran out of lighter fluid.

00:50:26.340 And there was a dog walking around.

00:50:28.040 I was like, here doggy, you want a toy?

00:50:29.600 And then the dog took it.

00:50:30.940 He ran off with it.

00:50:32.160 I just like sat there.

00:50:33.380 Does he have a car?

00:50:34.560 Oh, wait.

00:50:35.620 Before I tell you if he had a car, he had some nice clippers and some nice cologne.

00:50:40.200 I gave that to the homeless man who watched me burn his stuff.

00:50:43.280 Charity.

00:50:43.600 Oh, so you gave your stuff away.

00:50:45.000 Okay.

00:50:45.500 Yeah.

00:50:46.240 And so does he have a car?

00:50:49.280 He has a car now.

00:50:50.300 Have you ever damaged his car?

00:50:52.060 No.

00:50:52.640 When we were together, he didn't have a car.

00:50:54.740 Okay.

00:50:55.080 If he had a car, would you have damaged it?

00:50:56.780 I probably would have stolen it before I would have damaged it.

00:51:00.100 Only because in that phase of my life, like everything that was his was ours.

00:51:05.220 And if he wasn't mine, it's still mine.

00:51:07.740 So, yeah.

00:51:09.520 Uh, everything that was his was ours?

00:51:16.360 Hours.

00:51:16.720 Hours.

00:51:16.960 Hours.

00:51:17.040 So, if he had a car, it was our car.

00:51:19.120 And if he didn't want me, it was my car.

00:51:21.280 I would have, like, when he left stuff with me, it was mine.

00:51:26.480 That's why I gave his stuff away.

00:51:27.860 That's why I lit his stuff on fire.

00:51:30.260 Yeah.

00:51:30.840 I would have, if he had a car and we were together, I would have taken his car.

00:51:34.000 You know what's crazy to me?

00:51:35.160 If he had been able to go see other girls in that car, I would have had the car. 0.99

00:51:38.100 You know what's crazy to me about this conversation is if there was a man sitting where you're sitting telling us the exact same shit, but, like, flip the genders, the gravitas of the situation would be, like, way different. 0.95

00:51:56.720 Like, girls are kind of, like, chuckling. 0.99

00:51:58.140 She's chuckling.

00:51:58.880 She's laughing about it.

00:51:59.780 Like, not only if a guy was, like, revealing all these things, but he was laughing as he did, this guy would be, like, public enemy number one.

00:52:10.860 Yeah.

00:52:11.880 It's just kind of interesting to me how that works.

00:52:14.960 Well, he'd be on his ninth restraining order, you know? 0.97

00:52:17.700 I mean, his picture would be plastered all over, don't date this guy because he's a lunatic.com. 0.96

00:52:24.100 Right? 0.93

00:52:24.300 I mean, he would have everything on planet Earth going against him. 0.98

00:52:28.100 But ew, it's just like, well, well, you know, I'm in a nice little picnic dress, and, you know, I burned this guy's shit and handed all this stuff off to homeless people. 0.98

00:52:36.100 I'm nice. 0.98

00:52:36.920 I'm a real sweetheart.

00:52:38.800 I very much am a sweetheart.

00:52:41.260 As long as I'm not with him, everything's good because being with him triggered so much of myself that I needed to learn.

00:52:48.120 Yeah, it's his fault.

00:52:49.800 It's his fault.

00:52:50.560 It's not his fault.

00:52:51.720 It's my fault.

00:52:52.560 But it's also a good thing that it happened, not for him, of course, but at least for me because I got to realize these sides of myself that I wouldn't ever want to do again. 0.92

00:53:02.040 Like, I still look back, and I know I just said a lot of crazy things, but I miss that monkey, that fat monkey. 0.87

00:53:07.320 That's what I'm going to start saying to my wife. 0.99

00:53:08.720 I'm going to go in and be like, you burnt the roast, and I'm going to smack the shit out of her, and they're going to be like, it's your fault. 1.00

00:53:14.220 You bring out the worst in me. 1.00

00:53:16.060 I can't help it.

00:53:17.340 It's all you.

00:53:18.580 If you didn't bring, my fingers wouldn't be bruised right now from decking you so many times, but it's you.

00:53:25.040 You did it.

00:53:26.180 I mean, does that sound reasonable to you, or does that sound like I'd go to prison?

00:53:31.360 I was not 18 yet enough to do real time, so I was kind of in the green zone.

00:53:37.720 So let's wait a minute so we can get away with it. 0.98

00:53:38.940 Wait, were you, was, did you go to, like, did you catch a case for any of this shit? 1.00

00:53:45.600 No. 0.99

00:53:46.540 I never got caught for none of this stuff.

00:53:50.000 Yeah.

00:53:50.760 Older than 20.

00:53:53.980 Well, I mean, you say that it's only with this guy, but have any of these behaviors manifested with other men?

00:53:59.460 No.

00:54:00.100 What's crazy is that I think now I'm realizing my karma.

00:54:03.740 Every single guy that I have, like, talked to or tried to be with after him have all been psychopaths, and all of my friends know, if you're out there listening, I literally have dealt with psychopaths consistently after this, and it's torn me even more to the point where now I don't know how to be in a relationship.

00:54:24.200 Because at first I was, like, this crazy, like, wanting to be loved girl, but now, like, I'm dealing with people who are doing the same thing to me.

00:54:32.560 I actually, it's making sense to me now that I have been living out my karma. 0.50

00:54:36.380 Every person that I've talked to after him has been psycho.

00:54:40.860 They have done hurtful things and said hurtful things to me.

00:54:43.740 Sure.

00:54:44.080 Anyways, I do have to move it on.

00:54:45.720 Perhaps we'll come back to that in a little bit.

00:54:47.280 But preemptively, we were actually going to react to something actually somewhat related.

00:54:55.140 Nick, pull up the Daily Mail thing.

00:54:56.780 Do you want to pull up the video?

00:54:58.160 Yeah, the video.

00:54:59.240 Actually, let's get through, we'll get through relationship status, then we can do it afterwards.

00:55:03.640 What about you, relationship status?

00:55:06.440 Single and celibate.

00:55:08.300 How long have you been single?

00:55:10.060 I would say eight months.

00:55:12.300 How long have you been celibate?

00:55:15.100 Since we broke up eight months ago.

00:55:17.620 Longest relationship?

00:55:18.860 About three and a half years.

00:55:19.940 Was that the one that ended?

00:55:21.540 That one was three years.

00:55:22.860 The one before that was three and a half.

00:55:24.920 So they're all around three and a half years.

00:55:28.080 Ever married?

00:55:28.980 No.

00:55:29.640 Kids?

00:55:30.220 No.

00:55:31.140 Okay.

00:55:32.760 And so longest relationship, 3.5 years.

00:55:37.900 And when you say you're celibate, are you now like waiting until marriage or something?

00:55:41.800 No.

00:55:42.400 When I'm single, I don't really, I don't hook up.

00:55:45.640 It's just not me.

00:55:47.280 I kind of try to put myself out there to date and I downloaded the dating apps, went

00:55:51.480 out a couple times just to put myself out there.

00:55:54.400 Okay.

00:55:54.900 But no.

00:55:55.600 All right.

00:55:56.420 What about you?

00:55:57.740 I'm single.

00:55:58.800 How long have you been single?

00:56:00.040 Um, I would say for about like two years, three years.

00:56:08.840 Two to three years?

00:56:10.000 Yeah.

00:56:10.640 Okay.

00:56:11.320 Longest relationship?

00:56:12.520 I would say on and off for about five years.

00:56:15.960 From what age to what age?

00:56:17.920 From 18 to 22.

00:56:20.840 Okay.

00:56:21.260 And you're 24.

00:56:22.240 Okay.

00:56:22.500 So two to three.

00:56:23.140 All right.

00:56:24.820 Uh, how many times was it off and on?

00:56:27.300 Um, I would say often, um, I would say like it was kind of a physical situation, but not

00:56:38.040 necessarily on my end that I was just young.

00:56:40.940 I didn't really know the red flags and a guy.

00:56:44.440 And, um, I guess when you're in something like that, it takes a while to realize like

00:56:49.200 this is not healthy.

00:56:50.600 And then like, there was so many other factors in it that made it harder for me to like understand

00:56:56.760 what situation I was in.

00:56:58.320 And then when I finally, like, she kind of really helped me get out of that situation.

00:57:02.560 Um, I never looked back to it.

00:57:05.000 So you were in an on again, off again, five year relationship.

00:57:08.220 I mean, if you had to estimate how many times was it off and on?

00:57:12.060 I would say about three times, three to four times.

00:57:14.620 Three to four times.

00:57:15.060 It wasn't like off and then automatically on again.

00:57:17.280 It would be like a year.

00:57:18.920 It'd be like months.

00:57:20.060 Okay.

00:57:20.220 And then back together.

00:57:22.100 Would you date other people?

00:57:23.640 No.

00:57:24.000 In that off period?

00:57:25.340 Okay.

00:57:25.740 No.

00:57:25.980 When it was off, who initiated the off?

00:57:28.160 Me.

00:57:28.560 So it was always me.

00:57:29.340 And then when it was on, who initiated the let's get back together?

00:57:32.180 He would always try his best to come show up in my life any way possible.

00:57:37.880 All right.

00:57:38.820 Okay.

00:57:39.340 What about you?

00:57:40.980 Um, I would say I've never really had like a serious relationship or relationship.

00:57:45.960 Single.

00:57:46.540 Yeah.

00:57:46.800 So what's the longest period of time you've dated somebody?

00:57:49.640 Maybe like three months or less.

00:57:55.840 Three months.

00:57:56.440 But you never had a boyfriend?

00:57:59.460 I mean, Tim, in my, in my head, no.

00:58:02.400 Yes.

00:58:02.920 In my head.

00:58:03.220 Okay.

00:58:03.840 All right.

00:58:04.680 So when's the last time you've, I mean, you've been dating at all?

00:58:09.340 Um, no.

00:58:11.180 Well, I've like talked to people, like some people on the internet, like if I find, if

00:58:16.280 they say things that are like interesting to me, I'll like respond.

00:58:18.900 But I wouldn't, I'm not necessarily going out and dating people right now.

00:58:22.400 I'm too focused like on what we're doing.

00:58:24.240 So.

00:58:24.520 Which is the educational.

00:58:26.420 Yeah.

00:58:26.780 We are, we have educational speaking entrepreneurship in our brand.

00:58:31.060 We just launched, um, a clothing brand.

00:58:33.040 So it took a long time for me to get that together.

00:58:34.160 And you educate people on what?

00:58:36.520 Um, philosophy.

00:58:37.760 Like anything, anything that, not just philosophy, but just.

00:58:41.340 And like, like I said, how I was talking to you about red flags.

00:58:43.920 I was not aware of the red flags in men.

00:58:46.980 So I, we also educate like red flags in people or in relationships and how the aftermath of

00:58:51.700 trauma in a relationship, how can you grow after being traumatized?

00:58:55.340 How can you grow?

00:58:55.880 What kind of, uh, philosophy?

00:58:58.460 Like, um, uh, what's it called?

00:59:00.980 Stoicism.

00:59:01.180 Yeah.

00:59:01.640 Yeah.

00:59:02.540 Um, and like.

00:59:03.360 Wait, stoicism or solipsism?

00:59:05.140 No, stoic, stoicism.

00:59:06.660 Sorry if I'm saying it right.

00:59:07.600 It's wrong.

00:59:08.260 A stoicism?

00:59:08.980 Yeah.

00:59:09.540 Stoicism.

00:59:10.220 And like, uh, different philosophies.

00:59:11.780 You sure you're not teaching them solipsism?

00:59:13.920 No, I would say that.

00:59:15.280 Wait, what?

00:59:15.600 Okay.

00:59:15.840 I was just curious.

00:59:16.620 I was just curious.

00:59:17.280 No, no, no, no.

00:59:18.620 Just about like the mind and like how to like elevate one's mindset and vibration from

00:59:24.780 low frequency to high frequency.

00:59:26.420 What does that mean?

00:59:27.060 Well, that sounds, that sounds like esotericism.

00:59:29.420 No, it means, um, low vibrational is like talking about things like, oh, like she was 1.00

00:59:34.600 saying earlier, like she had to have those pep talks with herself saying, I'm stupid. 1.00

00:59:38.320 I'm an idiot. 1.00

00:59:39.500 And to go see him, those are like low vibrational thoughts. 1.00

00:59:42.980 And you're supposed to listen to the high vibration.

00:59:45.360 Like I'm better than this.

00:59:46.660 I can do great things.

00:59:47.920 I'm a compliment.

00:59:48.740 I'm here for a reason.

00:59:49.900 I want to be alive.

00:59:50.780 I want to fulfill my destiny.

00:59:54.540 Yeah.

00:59:55.060 Yeah.

00:59:55.180 I don't understand how that's linked in together with stoicism at all.

00:59:58.940 That has everything to do with stoicism because stoicism, I am explaining it right

01:00:02.840 now.

01:00:03.140 It has to do with stoicism because, um, people in stoicism believe that life should be peaceful

01:00:09.600 and that everything has a reason in a positive manner.

01:00:12.820 So everything correlates with stoicism to high vibration.

01:00:16.160 Like for example, like if you see a situation.

01:00:18.520 Can you tell me which, um, which of the great stoic philosophers talked about vibrational frequencies?

01:00:24.740 Well, it's like, for example, for someone.

01:00:26.700 Hang on, hang on, hang on.

01:00:28.180 I'd like an answer to my question.

01:00:30.040 Yes.

01:00:30.480 Can you tell me which great stoic philosophers talked about vibrational frequencies?

01:00:36.680 I'm not sure.

01:00:36.900 Uh, Maximus.

01:00:37.660 What did he say about vibrational frequencies?

01:00:41.620 He talked about the state of mind.

01:00:42.840 No way.

01:00:43.380 Maximus what?

01:00:44.520 I cannot remember his last name at the moment, but.

01:00:46.620 Maximus Delius Aurelius?

01:00:48.500 No.

01:00:48.940 That's not his name.

01:00:49.440 Was he the father to a murdered child?

01:00:51.740 No.

01:00:52.240 I'm sorry.

01:00:52.540 Was he the husband to a murdered wife and he's going to have his revenge in this life

01:00:57.420 or the next?

01:00:57.760 You just are making someone's name up.

01:00:59.360 That's not accurate.

01:01:01.320 Wait.

01:01:01.560 Are we asking who the author, uh, he's just like, wait, have you, you guys.

01:01:06.060 No, no.

01:01:06.340 I was, I was cracking a joke.

01:01:08.400 That's true.

01:01:08.760 Yeah, I know.

01:01:08.980 Right.

01:01:09.180 I was, I was quoting gladiator just because I thought it was funny.

01:01:12.420 Oh.

01:01:13.180 Wait, stoicism.

01:01:14.060 Maximus, but Maximus, the, the vibrational frequency guy.

01:01:18.360 He talked about the mindset of the brain and they did, they did test with human beings

01:01:23.440 when it comes to like talking and depression, people with depression and people who are like

01:01:27.780 successful in their, um, careers who have depression and they don't have depression.

01:01:31.760 And they like tested the people in the room and the people who spoke so highly about others

01:01:36.880 and they had this positive posture in mind that everything that they would say out their

01:01:41.240 mouth was something positive versus the people who are depressed.

01:01:43.840 Yeah, no, no, no.

01:01:44.160 I understand that, but before we jump to modern sociological science experiments, can you

01:01:50.160 tell me which stoic philosophers you're referencing?

01:01:53.440 Yeah.

01:01:53.720 What was his name again?

01:01:54.920 I just told you.

01:01:55.620 If you couldn't remember, you should have wrote it down.

01:01:56.740 I can't remember.

01:01:57.560 What is it?

01:01:57.960 Well, I'm sorry.

01:01:58.440 You should have wrote it down.

01:01:59.000 Can you tell me one more time?

01:02:00.940 No, no.

01:02:01.760 You have to pay me for that.

01:02:02.260 Why not?

01:02:02.800 You have to pay me for that.

01:02:02.960 Why won't you just tell me who the philosopher is?

01:02:04.220 You would have to pay me or go to school for that.

01:02:06.040 I'm so sorry.

01:02:07.280 Well, I wasn't sitting here, so why don't you tell me?

01:02:12.500 I don't really want to continue this conversation.

01:02:14.180 Well, so, I don't know.

01:02:15.660 Yeah, I know, but we really do want to continue the conversation.

01:02:17.780 Can you tell us who the philosopher was?

01:02:19.860 I just said his name was Maximus.

01:02:21.480 I cannot say his last name.

01:02:23.520 I just said that when you asked me that the first time, so that's why I didn't even want to

01:02:26.440 repeat the conversation.

01:02:27.240 If you're teaching people stoicism about vibrations, you can't name one philosopher other than Maximus

01:02:32.300 who teaches about vibrational frequencies, a stoic philosopher?

01:02:35.360 No, it's not even about his, it's not about that one philosopher himself.

01:02:38.720 It's about the idea of stoicism and the practice of it.

01:02:41.660 I don't really care about the point you're trying to prove.

01:02:45.640 The point I'm trying to say is a high vibrational mindset is the key to success.

01:02:49.720 In my life strategy and what I've been doing, that's been working great for me.

01:02:53.620 So whatever you're saying, I don't need to have a list of people to say, oh, this is like

01:02:58.720 who's the way of life.

01:02:59.740 You don't need the architects of stoicism.

01:03:01.880 But if you go and research it, I'm not wrong.

01:03:04.200 That's why I'm saying.

01:03:04.900 You can't quote any of them talking about vibrational frequencies.

01:03:06.000 I'm just trying to say that I'm not wrong what I'm saying.

01:03:08.160 So if you want to prove me wrong, pull up the facts against me.

01:03:10.820 Because everything, if you've researched this.

01:03:11.960 I'm trying to.

01:03:12.920 So here's the thing.

01:03:13.580 I'm willing.

01:03:14.560 So here.

01:03:15.340 So hang on.

01:03:16.400 I'm absolutely willing 100% to claim that I'm incorrect.

01:03:21.140 I love hearing other ideologies and philosophies.

01:03:23.540 But I'm going to need a little bit more than Maximus the philosopher who talked about vibrational

01:03:29.140 frequencies for me to even know what the hell you're talking about.

01:03:32.260 Okay.

01:03:32.580 Okay.

01:03:32.740 For example, Alexander the Great or.

01:03:35.060 Okay.

01:03:35.480 Alexander the Great never talked about vibrational frequencies.

01:03:37.860 He talks about high vibration and how he was able to conquer Jerusalem during a peaceful 0.61

01:03:42.760 during the 88 years of peace versus right now where it's Israel and Palestine.

01:03:48.100 There's this whole conflict going on. 0.98

01:03:49.600 The fuck does that have to do with anything? 0.99

01:03:51.100 Hold on. 0.99

01:03:51.380 Let me take over.

01:03:52.400 Let me take over here for a second.

01:03:54.060 Are you guys.

01:03:54.640 So you guys are talking about this stoicism, correct?

01:03:57.440 Yes.

01:03:58.100 Okay.

01:03:58.420 And you were referencing an individual.

01:04:00.540 I was gone.

01:04:01.680 Who is the individual who you referenced?

01:04:03.080 I would like to take back my answer because I don't know his full name at the moment.

01:04:06.220 I mean, I do know his name.

01:04:07.100 Did he write a book?

01:04:08.140 I'm sorry.

01:04:08.840 Was he an emperor?

01:04:09.880 No, he was.

01:04:10.740 He was a philosopher.

01:04:12.800 But I just cannot remember his name.

01:04:15.320 Yeah.

01:04:15.500 I cannot remember his full name because it's Greek.

01:04:17.040 Do you know who the most preeminent, prominent stoic philosopher was?

01:04:24.020 No.

01:04:24.500 Not on the top of my mind.

01:04:25.660 Are you familiar with the book Meditations?

01:04:27.760 Yeah.

01:04:28.800 Do you know who wrote the book?

01:04:30.340 No.

01:04:30.680 Not on the top of my mind.

01:04:31.440 They have very long names and I can't remember these things unless I go back and memorize.

01:04:35.120 Does Marcus Aurelius.

01:04:37.060 Yes.

01:04:37.480 Marcus Aurelius.

01:04:38.140 Yeah.

01:04:38.420 Yeah.

01:04:38.720 See, it's like, it's more so the message than the name.

01:04:41.260 Yeah.

01:04:41.280 Like the most famous stoic philosopher.

01:04:45.340 Yes.

01:04:45.720 Yes.

01:04:46.320 That's correct.

01:04:46.820 He was really keen on like what time he got up in the morning, what she ate for breakfast.

01:04:53.280 Not so keen on, I don't remember much about vibrational frequencies coming from Marcus Aurelius.

01:04:57.780 It could be worded in another way, but it's overall the same message of like having a high vibration.

01:05:03.460 It's the same thing.

01:05:04.400 What does that mean?

01:05:05.200 Well, I mean, I feel like I have, I get that.

01:05:07.560 I wouldn't put it as a philosophy to be honest, but I get it.

01:05:10.180 When you're low frequency, it's like when you're depressed, when you're just like all the negative or limiting beliefs or whatever it is.

01:05:17.800 So when you raise your vibration is, let's say if you do something, a workout, it's like the endorphins kick in.

01:05:23.420 It's like that, you know, but I mean, I don't, I don't, I wouldn't call it a philosophy.

01:05:28.360 Mine's more like, I don't know, self-awareness kind of thing, but maybe that ties into philosophy.

01:05:34.540 I'm not going to really get onto the philosophy part because I don't know much about it, but I get the ebbs and flows.

01:05:40.200 When you're low, you've got to kind of do something to get yourself out of it.

01:05:42.880 If I'm not feeling good, I will do something, you know, like Tony Robbins talks about it.

01:05:46.720 He's like, oh, you know, when he jumps up and down and change your physiology, if you're not feeling good, change your physiology, do something that feeds your soul and then raises your vibration.

01:05:53.940 So then it opens up your mindset because when you're on those low frequencies, you're just, it's almost like doomsday.

01:05:59.940 It's like you attract what you put out.

01:06:02.120 So when you're in a negative state mind, if you're in that low vibration, you're attracting everything that's negative.

01:06:07.520 So if you're feeling good, you're going to radiate that positivity and you're going to get that back in the universe.

01:06:13.080 So I believe that, but I don't know how it goes to philosophy.

01:06:14.560 It's not only that, but it's philosophy has to do everything to do with high vibration because of mindset and also point of view of life.

01:06:20.500 How do you want to live this life?

01:06:21.700 And also how do you perceive life?

01:06:23.560 This all has to do with philosophy.

01:06:25.120 Philosophy is used for people to practice in a way of life.

01:06:29.040 That's why people have religions.

01:06:30.200 That's why philosophy is incorporated in religion.

01:06:33.680 I mean, I don't know much about philosophy, but I mean, we have, I know we have, I'm Iranian.

01:06:36.700 So there's a lot of amazing philosophers that we have.

01:06:39.060 Philosophers that are, yeah.

01:06:39.420 But I'm saying like, I don't know much about it.

01:06:41.500 So I'm not going to speak on that, but I speak on the vibration part of it because I incorporate that in my life where I'm like, okay, if I'm feeling this, then change your vibration, change your physiology and it elevates you.

01:06:50.800 So again, I don't know much about the philosophy aspect of it, but I'm sure it ties into it.

01:06:56.200 How long, you said you've been single your whole life, you said?

01:06:59.500 Yes.

01:06:59.660 Pretty much.

01:07:00.740 No boyfriend.

01:07:02.520 Yes.

01:07:03.080 So are there any guys in the picture currently?

01:07:05.340 No.

01:07:05.700 No guys in the picture?

01:07:07.280 No.

01:07:07.560 No sneaky link?

01:07:08.460 No.

01:07:09.040 No guy you're texting?

01:07:11.960 No.

01:07:13.060 Okay.

01:07:13.860 And then what about you?

01:07:15.060 No guys in the picture currently?

01:07:17.580 No, no, no.

01:07:18.380 Okay.

01:07:19.280 All right.

01:07:20.000 And you said you teach women?

01:07:22.640 It's not women. 1.00

01:07:23.460 It's just people.

01:07:24.380 Who want to learn what?

01:07:27.480 Like people who want to, are interested in the mindset that we're talking about.

01:07:30.540 Like elevating their mindset from negative to positive.

01:07:32.800 Sometimes you can sit alone by yourself and have automatic negative mindsets.

01:07:37.200 Bad thoughts all the time.

01:07:38.340 You wonder why, where are these thoughts coming from?

01:07:40.220 It's coming from something self-like within, subconscious.

01:07:42.680 You have to change your mind frame, change how you view the world so you can perform better

01:07:46.720 and how you can treat others around you better.

01:07:49.140 I'm sorry?

01:07:49.560 How do you do that?

01:07:50.140 You have to change your mindset, try and change your mind frame.

01:07:53.940 Yeah, how do you do that?

01:07:54.680 By experiencing new levels of education, understanding new perspectives in life, and applying it to

01:08:00.760 your own life, your day-to-day, like, I don't know.

01:08:05.560 Yeah, I feel like, honestly, it's like very basic when it comes to that, where it's like,

01:08:09.100 it's just changing your perspective.

01:08:10.340 It's like, I can't really copy.

01:08:11.680 You guys don't share the same.

01:08:13.020 Well, I know, but I'm kind of like trying to make it make sense.

01:08:15.720 But I'm like, go ahead.

01:08:18.200 Yeah.

01:08:18.600 I mean, you said music, communicate.

01:08:20.240 I don't even really want to share too much because I feel like this is like your platform.

01:08:25.100 So I really would rather give it an opportunity to talk about dating and not to do with the

01:08:29.180 way of life.

01:08:30.380 That's actually fair.

01:08:31.440 All right.

01:08:31.660 Moving it on.

01:08:32.380 What about you?

01:08:33.140 I'm single.

01:08:33.880 I've been single since June 27th, to be exact.

01:08:38.320 June 27th, to be exact.

01:08:40.240 Okay.

01:08:40.480 So three weeks-ish.

01:08:42.780 Yeah, basically.

01:08:43.740 All right.

01:08:44.220 And how long was that relationship?

01:08:46.340 I wouldn't even call it a relationship.

01:08:48.580 What do you call it?

01:08:49.140 We were talking for like two months and then he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said

01:08:53.040 yes.

01:08:53.500 And then he broke up with me a week later.

01:08:56.400 Okay.

01:08:57.160 So like a little fling.

01:09:00.040 Okay.

01:09:00.480 And longest relationship?

01:09:02.140 A year and four months.

01:09:04.400 All right.

01:09:04.880 One year.

01:09:06.220 And we, originally we found you, you had some TikTok videos.

01:09:12.380 Nick, could you pull those up?

01:09:14.080 Yeah.

01:09:14.260 Oh.

01:09:15.720 Actually, you know what?

01:09:18.200 Hold on.

01:09:18.500 Let me get through everybody's relationship status.

01:09:20.180 Then we'll come back to that.

01:09:21.120 We'll come back to that.

01:09:22.200 Go ahead.

01:09:22.940 I have been in a relationship for four years and it is my longest relationship.

01:09:28.340 All right.

01:09:28.560 Was that the only question?

01:09:30.060 Yes.

01:09:30.480 Okay.

01:09:30.820 All right.

01:09:31.180 What about you?

01:09:31.540 I am married and that's, sorry, my longest really, we've been married three years, this

01:09:38.940 year together almost 10 and that's my longest relationship.

01:09:42.320 All right.

01:09:42.800 What about you?

01:09:44.180 I'm taken and the longest relationship was four years.

01:09:48.020 How long is your current thing?

01:09:51.140 We just started dating.

01:09:52.800 Just started dating.

01:09:53.760 Okay.

01:09:54.700 All right.

01:09:55.640 And do you have kids?

01:09:58.480 I'm currently cooking one.

01:10:00.620 All right.

01:10:01.400 There you go.

01:10:01.860 She's pregnant. 1.00

01:10:03.040 Pregante.

01:10:03.700 Cool.

01:10:04.420 How far along?

01:10:05.960 Almost eight months.

01:10:07.480 Well, congratulations.

01:10:08.700 Thank you.

01:10:09.540 Do you know if it's going to be a boy or a girl?

01:10:11.100 A boy.

01:10:11.520 Thank God.

01:10:13.500 All right.

01:10:14.220 And so going back to you, you said you've been single as of three weeks ago.

01:10:21.240 Yep.

01:10:21.380 You were dating a guy for two months.

01:10:24.640 So, and he broke up with you.

01:10:26.180 He asked you to be boyfriend, girlfriend.

01:10:28.580 A week later, breaks up with you.

01:10:30.360 Why did he break up with you?

01:10:32.440 I, okay.

01:10:34.140 Can I give the whole rundown?

01:10:36.560 Is it?

01:10:37.240 It's kind of like a couple.

01:10:37.940 Like a quickish rundown.

01:10:39.700 Yeah, go ahead.

01:10:40.140 Okay.

01:10:40.460 So I asked him to get me something and he didn't want to get it for me.

01:10:46.340 And then that started an argument.

01:10:48.680 And then the argument was at night.

01:10:52.740 And so we slept on it.

01:10:54.720 I'm sorry.

01:10:55.420 Next day, we didn't text at all.

01:10:58.920 Then that same night, he's like, hey, I don't think this is going to work out.

01:11:04.660 I go into things without fully evaluating them and looking at the repercussions.

01:11:09.540 So I don't think I wholeheartedly want a relationship anymore.

01:11:13.880 And that was it.

01:11:15.520 What was the thing that you wanted?

01:11:17.360 A vape.

01:11:17.800 You wanted a vape. 0.98

01:11:20.260 I wanted a vape.

01:11:22.620 And how much did the vape cost?

01:11:25.440 Like 20 bucks.

01:11:27.040 Okay.

01:11:27.520 Because I usually get them myself.

01:11:29.600 But the store that I went to carted.

01:11:32.440 And so I was like, hey, can you please get this for me?

01:11:36.880 And he's like, I don't want to get that for you because you're not 21 yet.

01:11:40.060 And I said, okay.

01:11:42.420 And then we had an argument and that whole thing happened.

01:11:45.980 Oh, okay.

01:11:46.580 So there was like, he didn't want some sort of liability there.

01:11:50.800 Which like, I understand.

01:11:52.080 And I told him, I was like.

01:11:52.580 So then why did you have an argument about it?

01:11:54.360 Because I told him, I was like, okay, if you don't want to get it, I'll just find another way to get it.

01:11:58.360 And he's like, oh, no, I don't want you to get it from people who are like druggies or things like that.

01:12:03.880 Like, I would rather have you get it from me, someone that you trust.

01:12:06.660 And I was like, well, you don't want to do it in the first place, so I'll just find my own other way to do it.

01:12:12.480 And then I guess that started a little fire in him or something.

01:12:18.600 Do you think he was wrong for breaking up with you?

01:12:22.100 I do.

01:12:24.320 Because we were talking for two months already and he knew my personality.

01:12:28.200 He knew the person that I was and I knew the type of person he was.

01:12:31.560 And he was interested.

01:12:33.180 He said he was interested in looking for a relationship.

01:12:35.300 But for him to cut me off after a week over one mild argument that could have easily been solved, I don't know.

01:12:43.820 It just didn't seem fair.

01:12:45.720 What was the nature?

01:12:46.560 I mean, how was the tone of the argument?

01:12:49.080 Were you yelling?

01:12:50.600 No, we weren't yelling.

01:12:51.600 It was over text.

01:12:52.520 It was very, like, mutual.

01:12:54.020 Can I read it?

01:12:58.540 Can I read the text messages?

01:13:01.120 Because, you know, sometimes people leave out certain details.

01:13:05.500 No, I'm being 100% honest.

01:13:07.800 I'm sure you are.

01:13:08.800 Yes.

01:13:09.040 But just, you know, without, you know, seeing the receipts, there's no point of contention or dispute as to what was said, what wasn't said. 0.99

01:13:17.740 And I could give you the guy's perspective of if you fucked up. 0.71

01:13:23.420 He said that I was being kind of dry because all I kept saying was okay because I just wanted to move on from what we were talking about. 0.99

01:13:36.000 And then we just, like, ended the night with goodnight.

01:13:39.060 And then he was like, oh, a girlfriend wouldn't just, like, sideline everything I say and not take into accountability what I'm saying.

01:13:47.340 Like, I'm trying to be serious and you're not taking me seriously.

01:13:50.640 And I'm like.

01:13:51.960 So he.

01:13:52.460 I don't.

01:13:53.200 In what world is that unreasonable?

01:13:56.120 I.

01:13:56.900 That's not totally reasonable.

01:13:59.040 I.

01:13:59.640 Doesn't it?

01:14:00.420 I guess, yeah.

01:14:02.020 I suppose.

01:14:05.740 Do you suppose?

01:14:08.120 Because before you said unfair, unreasonable.

01:14:12.020 Hold on just a sec.

01:14:13.500 Negative underscore 200 donated $200.

01:14:17.340 Famous stoic philosopher Dicus Maximus van Nguyen once said, align with the cosmos slow vibrations.

01:14:24.900 In quiet whispers, find wisdom and hidden pods to enlightenment and harmony.

01:14:29.920 Yeah, that's the guy, I think.

01:14:31.880 Thank you.

01:14:32.180 That's the guy.

01:14:32.440 Thank you.

01:14:33.180 Thank you.

01:14:33.960 Negative 200.

01:14:34.840 Negative 200.

01:14:35.900 Thank you.

01:14:36.280 I love you.

01:14:36.860 Yeah, but, I mean.

01:14:37.680 Donate 200.

01:14:38.400 He didn't even quote Biggest Dickus or anything.

01:14:41.040 That was the main philosopher.

01:14:43.120 That was cool.

01:14:43.880 Thank you.

01:14:44.960 That was good.

01:14:45.780 I don't speak no lies.

01:14:46.840 Yeah, so thank you for, thank you, negative.

01:14:49.660 So, back to this.

01:14:52.980 Have you guys spoken at all since or where did you guys leave it?

01:14:56.860 No, we haven't spoken since.

01:14:59.200 Okay.

01:14:59.520 How did he, how did he end it?

01:15:01.200 He just said.

01:15:01.800 He was just like, oh, I ultimately decided that I don't wholeheartedly want a relationship

01:15:06.400 with you.

01:15:06.980 He says that he makes impulsive decisions without thinking about the repercussions or things

01:15:12.980 like that.

01:15:13.660 And I was like, okay, well, if you don't want a wholehearted relationship, then I don't want

01:15:18.360 to do that with you.

01:15:19.340 Well, I mean, you probably know better than us, but do you think that what precipitated

01:15:23.260 the breakup was this argument that you guys had?

01:15:25.380 I don't know.

01:15:27.800 I really don't know.

01:15:29.160 Because I thought everything was going fine.

01:15:30.880 Because we've had like mild arguments before, but it wasn't like this.

01:15:37.900 It looks like it's recovered.

01:15:40.200 Okay.

01:15:40.820 Go ahead.

01:15:41.380 Sorry.

01:15:41.900 But we've had like mild arguments where we've gotten over them, no problem.

01:15:45.900 And I thought this was just going to be another mild argument as well that we would get over,

01:15:49.980 but I guess not.

01:15:51.520 What else have you guys argued about?

01:15:56.460 Oh, me going to parties.

01:16:00.220 Oh, okay.

01:16:02.340 What was the argument there?

01:16:05.660 He said that he doesn't want to be with someone who goes to parties all the time.

01:16:10.560 When I told him originally already that I do party promoting as like a little side hobby

01:16:16.740 hustle, and he was like, oh, that's so cool that you do party promoting and you're in school

01:16:22.980 and you work and stuff like that.

01:16:24.840 I was like, oh, my God, this guy thinks I'm like so cool.

01:16:28.180 But then he's like, I don't want to be with a girl who does party promoting. 0.99

01:16:32.340 Okay.

01:16:33.540 Does he party?

01:16:34.040 You can understand that.

01:16:37.040 I do understand that. 0.99

01:16:38.120 You could be a pimp, but that wouldn't make you a prostitute, right? 0.98

01:16:42.840 That's not the way that that works. 1.00

01:16:44.580 So if you were a pimp and you did have a ring of prostitutes, 0.97

01:16:48.360 that would not entail that you yourself would need to sleep with the Johns, right? 0.88

01:16:51.960 So if you're a party promoter, I don't see how the entailment is that you must party exactly.

01:16:58.100 Well, I just go for my friends.

01:17:01.980 My friends are all there.

01:17:03.420 I'm friends with all the people that I host with, and they're all really cool people.

01:17:07.660 It's not like I'm going out talking to 300 guys in one night, getting all their numbers.

01:17:13.160 Are they coming to talk to you?

01:17:14.820 Some do come to talk to me, and I'll be polite and say hi,

01:17:18.820 but I'll tend to just brush them off because no.

01:17:25.540 Do you drink at the parties?

01:17:27.580 Rarely.

01:17:28.840 Rarely.

01:17:29.500 Do you smoke weed or anything like that?

01:17:32.040 No.

01:17:33.300 Okay.

01:17:35.060 So in any case, this guy broke up with you.

01:17:37.240 It seems like there's a little bit of sour grapes.

01:17:39.800 But hang on, but hang on.

01:17:40.700 There are other people, I'm guessing, at these parties who are drinking and doing some mild forms of drugs, right?

01:17:46.540 Yes.

01:17:47.260 Yeah.

01:17:47.900 Yes.

01:17:48.240 But I try to stay super as much as I can,

01:17:50.900 mainly because me and my roommate, we go together, and she likes to do all that stuff.

01:17:55.640 So I drive home, if that makes sense.

01:17:58.580 Is she single?

01:17:59.860 Yes.

01:18:02.000 Yeah.

01:18:02.580 So, like, when he first met you, he said, oh, it's cool that you do the party promoting.

01:18:10.280 He said, word for word, I think it's cool that you do photography and are a party promoter.

01:18:16.720 He was probably just trying to make a conversation so he could sleep with you.

01:18:21.820 Well, I mean, maybe he did think it's cool.

01:18:25.280 Maybe he just didn't think an entailment of being a person who promoted parties was that you then yourself needed to go party, right?

01:18:32.480 Because that's not an entailment of that.

01:18:35.300 Like, I promote parties.

01:18:36.440 It doesn't mean, it's like saying I'm a fight promoter.

01:18:38.720 It doesn't mean I have to go to fights, right?

01:18:41.440 Also, on that note, how often are these parties held?

01:18:45.380 Thursday, Friday, Saturday?

01:18:46.500 No, just, like, every Saturday, every other Saturday.

01:18:50.440 Okay.

01:18:51.340 And were there instances where, for example, he wanted to hang out with you on a Saturday, but you had to go to the party?

01:18:58.760 No.

01:18:59.920 Okay.

01:19:00.260 Well, I mean, he had, so I guess when you first met, he had no problem with you engaging in what he considered single behavior.

01:19:09.960 But once you guys started dating, he wanted you to act in a way that he thought was more consistent with being in a relationship.

01:19:17.100 I think both men and women typically tend to prefer their partners to not be partying when they're in a relationship.

01:19:24.900 So, that could be a component there.

01:19:31.360 In fact, when you start caring about someone, some of the behaviors that in the beginning that you are okay with, like the partying, then he's like, well, now I don't want to share you with him.

01:19:40.200 And if you're not going to give it up, then he's giving you up.

01:19:44.600 There's probably this big argument, though, that was the cause of the word.

01:19:50.620 I don't even know.

01:19:53.100 Just show him the text.

01:19:54.200 Just do it.

01:19:55.260 I just wish he communicated that, like, hey, I don't know.

01:19:58.740 Do it!

01:20:00.440 Just do it!

01:20:03.440 I deleted our old messages.

01:20:05.300 Lies. 0.99

01:20:06.080 Prove it.

01:20:07.240 Just kidding.

01:20:08.480 You deleted the text messages?

01:20:10.540 I deleted everything.

01:20:11.800 Yeah.

01:20:12.080 I haven't blocked on everything.

01:20:13.480 Isn't there a way that you can bring it back, like an iPhone or an iMessage?

01:20:17.600 You press, like, something?

01:20:18.480 No.

01:20:18.700 The recently deleted?

01:20:20.240 Gone.

01:20:21.260 The large attachments?

01:20:22.840 Gone.

01:20:23.360 You can actually call your phone carrier and they'll, like, provide some text back.

01:20:27.820 Nick, can you get on that?

01:20:28.840 Can we get those overseas back?

01:20:30.340 Wait, so then if you were in a relationship and your man asked you to give up going to parties, would you do it?

01:20:37.500 I would say within reason.

01:20:40.720 What's within reason to you?

01:20:42.060 I would say I wouldn't go, like, every time they throw, because it does get tiring, and sometimes I do not want to go sometimes, because sometimes I do like a night in on the weekends, so I don't know.

01:20:53.740 I mean...

01:20:54.600 Is it required for you to go?

01:20:56.160 No.

01:20:56.600 I just like to go for fun.

01:20:58.040 Did he ever come with you?

01:20:59.540 He was supposed to go to one with me that Saturday, but he didn't, because we broke up.

01:21:08.600 Do you have more, Lizzie?

01:21:11.040 Sorry, I just want to make sure I get this right, just real quick before we move on.

01:21:14.600 So you're in an argument about you going and partying too much, and your resolution to this was to bring him partying with you.

01:21:23.200 I just want to make sure I got that correct.

01:21:24.800 Because, okay, he's not a big, like, L.A. city party type of guy.

01:21:30.860 He's more like kickback close friends.

01:21:33.660 And I was like, okay, I went to these kickbacks with him.

01:21:36.380 They were fun.

01:21:37.060 And I was like, okay, well, if I go to these with you, I went to, like, three.

01:21:41.880 I was like, can you at least go to, like, just one, just to experience it?

01:21:46.540 And then he was fine with it.

01:21:48.420 No, no, no, I understand the idea here of you have this interest and I have this interest, and so I'm participating in your interest.

01:21:55.280 Will you participate in one of mine?

01:21:56.520 Yes.

01:21:57.200 But this ignores what the argument is about, right?

01:22:00.440 So let's assume that the role is reversed, and you're arguing with him about these get-togethers.

01:22:05.140 And he was like, oh, well, I have a great idea.

01:22:07.680 Why don't you just come with me to the get-togethers instead?

01:22:10.040 That'll just solve the problem.

01:22:12.020 Right?

01:22:13.300 Well, I didn't know it was an entire problem until we argued about it.

01:22:17.700 Because before that, everything was totally fine.

01:22:19.800 Like, he was like, oh, like, it's cool.

01:22:22.140 Like, yes, I'll go.

01:22:22.960 Like, I already have my outfit planned.

01:22:24.240 And then all of a sudden, it's like, I don't want to go.

01:22:26.600 I don't like you partying.

01:22:28.280 It's over.

01:22:28.620 Okay, can I?

01:22:30.520 So I know that growing up in this day and age, we kind of saturate ourselves with the idea that partying while in a relationship is not a bad thing.

01:22:39.560 Personally, I would never do it.

01:22:41.060 But I would say that it's not just, like, a trust issue.

01:22:45.800 It's a respect issue.

01:22:47.600 So if you respect your boyfriend, you just won't party unless he's there.

01:22:50.760 And that's my opinion.

01:22:53.520 And that's what takes a relationship very far.

01:22:56.800 So for future reference.

01:22:58.960 For future reference.

01:23:00.580 Protect his heart by not going to party without him.

01:23:03.360 Yeah.

01:23:04.260 A little invite.

01:23:05.700 It doesn't hurt anymore.

01:23:06.560 Well, no, I think you weren't ready for a relationship.

01:23:08.400 Because if you really do love someone and it's something that it's kind of like a non-negotiable to them, it comes down to, like, what's more important?

01:23:16.260 Is it the relationship more important?

01:23:17.580 Or if you show up to a party with your friends?

01:23:19.400 Cool.

01:23:19.760 Are you going to?

01:23:20.460 It literally just comes down to that.

01:23:22.180 So if he matters and you want to be with him, then going to parties or not going to parties is not that big of a deal.

01:23:27.480 Because you're like, well, this relationship matters to me and I want to build on that.

01:23:30.240 So, all right, babe, I won't go.

01:23:31.880 But if we do go, then we can go together.

01:23:34.760 Like, you can compromise that eventually.

01:23:36.300 But, like, initially giving him that, like you said, the respect of you matter to me more and making him, giving him that reassurance.

01:23:43.680 And then you can kind of compromise.

01:23:44.920 But, yeah, I think it's just when you're really into someone, then you'll do the sacrifices.

01:23:49.500 I have a question.

01:23:51.840 Would you want to date someone that was partying every weekend?

01:23:54.780 Like, if the roles were reversed?

01:23:56.660 Like, is that someone that you would want to be with?

01:23:59.260 If they were getting paid for it?

01:24:01.400 Even if it wasn't required for them to go?

01:24:04.620 Payment or not?

01:24:08.060 That's a good question.

01:24:10.740 I mean, I don't know.

01:24:13.740 Half and half?

01:24:14.920 Just curious.

01:24:16.180 Half and half?

01:24:16.960 Yes, no.

01:24:17.700 But it's like I'm the type of person who's very trustworthy, which is kind of a bad thing.

01:24:22.620 So, I will just trust my partner that they don't do anything.

01:24:26.980 But at the same time, I'm like, it's a respect thing, like you said.

01:24:29.960 Yeah.

01:24:30.140 So, like, when a guy's at parties, your boyfriend or future boyfriend, the idea in your head where it's like he's putting himself in a situation for all of these girls to come up to him, for all these girls to hit on him.

01:24:43.020 Whether or not you trust him, that's still happening.

01:24:45.560 Does the idea of that not bother you?

01:24:49.460 I would, I guess it does, yeah.

01:24:51.920 Because.

01:24:52.660 So, that's how guys feel, though, when young girls going to parties.

01:24:55.660 It's just giving those guys an opportunity, whether you're taken or not, to give them, like, yeah, again, so to give them that opportunity to flirt with you.

01:25:02.520 Yeah.

01:25:02.760 You can totally say no, but you're there.

01:25:05.780 Yeah.

01:25:06.040 And you're letting it happen by being there, whether you say no or not.

01:25:09.840 Mm-hmm.

01:25:10.740 So.

01:25:11.420 It's true.

01:25:12.140 Love that.

01:25:12.580 It's a good point.

01:25:15.060 It's a good point.

01:25:16.200 I mean, there's a differential here because as a guy, if you go to a bar club party, you could just go get a drink, be in the corner, be in the main part of it.

01:25:28.620 It doesn't really matter.

01:25:29.520 You're, nobody's going to talk to you as a guy the entire night, whether you're single, in a relationship, or married.

01:25:36.820 It doesn't matter.

01:25:37.760 If you're a girl, regardless of your relationship status, men are going to approach you. 0.98

01:25:42.020 Men are going to come and talk to you. 1.00

01:25:43.100 Men are going to flirt with you. 1.00

01:25:44.420 So, there's a massive differential there.

01:25:46.140 So, even making a comparison between men and women, just, it's totally different because the way y'all flirt as women is by putting yourselves out there. 0.87

01:25:56.160 So, when you're in a relationship, you need to stop your version of game and we need to stop our version of game.

01:26:04.360 So, for us as men, that's taking the initiator role.

01:26:07.320 For you as women, that's, you need to, you need to close off your, you need to close off your options by not doing what you do as a single woman, which is to put yourself in a position to be approached, to be talked to. 0.79

01:26:23.940 So, for example, most women aren't going to slide into a dude's DMs, but you're going to post revealing photos. 0.66

01:26:29.680 So, in a relationship, the appropriate thing would be to, for example, the guy to stop DMing girls and for the girl to stop posting revealing photos.

01:26:38.040 Or in the case of a bar, the situation would be the guy stops approaching women.

01:26:42.120 As a woman, you stop putting yourself in situations where it's, you have pre-knowledge that you're likely to be romantically and sexually pursued.

01:26:51.120 So, this obviously doesn't, look, you might get approached in Trader Joe's, but that's not really what we're talking about here.

01:26:57.820 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $200.

01:27:00.900 Hey, good to see you back there.

01:27:01.540 You tried and failed.

01:27:02.580 Thank you, bro.

01:27:03.200 You missed your shot.

01:27:04.860 What?

01:27:05.120 They spotted your position.

01:27:06.500 Huh?

01:27:06.780 Then you got headshot. 1.00

01:27:08.460 You beta fuck. 1.00

01:27:09.620 Thought you could hide. 1.00

01:27:11.260 Just pierced his ear, but didn't break his stride.

01:27:15.380 Trump 2024?

01:27:17.260 All right.

01:27:17.780 Trump 2024, baby!

01:27:18.800 He's a brave and a decent man.

01:27:21.840 He's a pioneer.

01:27:23.180 Yo, thank you, man.

01:27:23.800 Appreciate it.

01:27:25.060 Good to see you back in the chat, man.

01:27:27.200 Yeah, that was crazy.

01:27:27.980 I was watching all that stuff go down yesterday.

01:27:31.360 Massive.

01:27:32.680 Actually, we should maybe talk about the secret service and the women that were on his detail.

01:27:39.060 Ryan, that woman had the most important job that there was. 0.70

01:27:41.700 She was guarding the entirety of his midsection.

01:27:44.020 I don't know if he knew that or not.

01:27:45.240 Without her, I don't even think he would have been able to make it out of there.

01:27:49.620 She was really, she was kind of shouldering the lion's share of the burden, if you will.

01:27:55.980 I must have looked at that photo at least 30 times.

01:27:58.720 And while it's true that it was iconic that Trump was holding his fist up in an American flag,

01:28:03.640 and that'll go down in history as probably one of the greatest presidential pictures ever taken,

01:28:08.080 and all I could think of was how stunning and brave that woman was who was trying to pull him off that battlefield.

01:28:13.000 Yeah, well, did you see the photo of the other angle where there were one of the, not that woman, 0.96

01:28:18.460 who, granted, did her job and was being a meat shield effectively? 0.99

01:28:23.020 She did.

01:28:23.580 After she got done falling on the ground, she did indeed grab him around the midsection 0.99

01:28:27.640 and try to follow him out of there.

01:28:29.220 Well, there's the woman who was... 0.98

01:28:30.300 But it was a very slippery stage, to be fair.

01:28:32.680 Well, there, I don't know if you saw this other angle.

01:28:35.020 There's a woman who was, like, behind, and she was the one with short hair who failed to holster her weapon three times. 1.00

01:28:42.120 I don't know if you saw that part.

01:28:44.020 Well, okay, maybe, but these are new-issued pistols that they have, and, you know, they're really big,

01:28:50.700 and women have small hands. 1.00

01:28:52.100 It really wasn't fair.

01:28:53.580 If they had given her the proper equipment that was necessary, like all of the men got, Brian,

01:28:58.480 I think that she would have done just fine.

01:29:00.020 So I'm not going to take any of your absurd Trump bashing or any of your absurd bashing of his bodyguards

01:29:08.600 who clearly did an amazing job.

01:29:10.300 You saw the female sniper, the counter-sniper.

01:29:12.540 She was amazing.

01:29:13.820 She did a great job. 0.95

01:29:16.240 Yeah.

01:29:16.500 You saw her, right?

01:29:17.500 No, I didn't see her, actually.

01:29:18.800 I didn't see...

01:29:19.600 You didn't see her?

01:29:20.880 No, I didn't see the female sniper.

01:29:22.080 That's because nobody saw her, because there's no such thing.

01:29:24.840 But if there was, she would have done her job well.

01:29:28.320 Okay, that's good.

01:29:29.480 That's good.

01:29:30.700 Anyways, that's just crazy, the DEI and the Secret Service.

01:29:33.700 Okay.

01:29:34.940 Where were we?

01:29:36.180 I don't know.

01:29:37.240 We were talking about...

01:29:37.920 Partying.

01:29:38.340 Oh, partying.

01:29:39.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:29:39.780 Not putting yourself in situations and relationships.

01:29:43.460 Yeah.

01:29:44.060 Anyways, I guess we'll move things on a little bit here.

01:29:46.720 We did have a couple things to react to from you, though.

01:29:51.320 There was the TikTok.

01:29:52.820 I guess you can pull that one up, Nick.

01:29:55.260 I don't even know how you found it.

01:29:57.940 It came up in the For You page.

01:29:59.580 I think that's how we actually found you.

01:30:01.200 I don't even...

01:30:01.360 But go ahead.

01:30:02.320 From the...

01:30:03.120 Oh, mute the audio, please.

01:30:07.220 Yeah, I guess you can play it. 0.96

01:30:08.460 When you date to marry, but every boy is a cheater, liar, isn't ready for a relationship, or lives off the planet. 0.98

01:30:14.460 Okay, so...

01:30:17.360 And so, was this in reaction to the most recent guy, or was this about somebody else?

01:30:22.880 Oh, no, I just did it because I felt like it.

01:30:26.500 Oh, but I...

01:30:27.060 Well, I mean, I'm sure there's some truth to...

01:30:29.140 Well, I guess there's some truth to it.

01:30:31.600 Obviously, not every guy...

01:30:33.280 Every guy on the planet isn't a liar, cheater, lives off the face of the earth.

01:30:37.460 Yeah, well, was this most recent guy...

01:30:39.620 Did he cheat on you?

01:30:40.620 No.

01:30:41.060 Did he lie to you?

01:30:42.080 No?

01:30:43.760 No.

01:30:44.620 Oh.

01:30:45.880 He wasn't ready for a relationship?

01:30:48.000 Is that kind of more so?

01:30:49.180 Well, he was ready, right?

01:30:50.720 No.

01:30:50.980 Until you guys had a catastrophic argument about a vape.

01:30:53.760 I guess, yeah.

01:30:54.740 I suppose.

01:30:55.320 Yeah.

01:30:56.480 And then lives off the planet.

01:30:58.220 What is that?

01:30:58.740 Like, lives far away.

01:30:59.620 Like, would you hook up with an alien is kind of what you're talking about?

01:31:01.580 No, like, I mean, like, lives far away.

01:31:03.000 I'd hook up with an alien.

01:31:04.180 Sign me up.

01:31:05.300 Oh.

01:31:06.200 You wouldn't date an alien? 0.96

01:31:07.720 Like, what about, like, an avatar-type alien?

01:31:10.020 Oh, no.

01:31:10.720 I mean...

01:31:12.280 I'd hit.

01:31:13.960 I'm like...

01:31:14.480 Okay, all right.

01:31:15.680 He's tall.

01:31:16.620 That's y'all.

01:31:17.100 So what is it, I guess, what is it?

01:31:18.820 Short kings matter, too.

01:31:20.000 What does it mean to live off the planet?

01:31:21.940 Like, they just live far.

01:31:23.280 Oh, live far away.

01:31:24.340 That's just what I mean.

01:31:25.060 Oh, okay, okay.

01:31:26.780 But so this guy...

01:31:28.600 But it sounds like he was ready for a relationship.

01:31:31.500 Then...

01:31:31.820 I don't know if he was, if he wasn't, but ultimately he made the decision to end it.

01:31:37.160 Wait, let's role-play the whole vape situation.

01:31:39.840 So, okay.

01:31:40.320 Oh, my God.

01:31:40.940 We're walking through the mall.

01:31:42.300 Is it...

01:31:42.600 Was he a white guy, Asian guy, black guy?

01:31:44.720 He's just a guy.

01:31:46.440 Like a white guy.

01:31:47.420 Just a white guy.

01:31:48.120 White guy.

01:31:48.640 Yeah.

01:31:49.280 We weren't even, like, together.

01:31:51.020 We were just texting.

01:31:53.960 All right.

01:31:54.440 Okay.

01:31:56.400 All right.

01:31:57.640 Okay.

01:31:58.100 I'm...

01:31:58.580 I'm...

01:31:59.240 You're the guy.

01:32:00.440 I'm the guy.

01:32:00.820 You're Bobby.

01:32:01.660 All right.

01:32:02.400 We're...

01:32:02.940 Are we strolling through the mall?

01:32:04.300 Is it the mall?

01:32:04.660 We're texting.

01:32:06.300 Oh, you're texting.

01:32:07.560 We were texting.

01:32:07.960 Okay.

01:32:08.320 Hey, babe.

01:32:10.140 Okay.

01:32:10.620 I'm, like, hey.

01:32:11.560 Oh, so cool that you're a party promoter.

01:32:14.060 Ha-ha.

01:32:15.880 I love it.

01:32:18.960 Ha-ha.

01:32:20.040 Okay.

01:32:21.180 I was, like...

01:32:21.600 Surfer guy?

01:32:22.220 It was, like...

01:32:23.020 No.

01:32:23.840 Okay.

01:32:24.360 It was, like, okay.

01:32:25.880 So, the store I usually go to, cards now.

01:32:29.660 Can...

01:32:30.300 Who is going to get me my vape?

01:32:32.500 And then he was, like, not me.

01:32:35.100 Ha-ha.

01:32:36.020 Not me.

01:32:36.540 He's, like, not me.

01:32:37.520 That's what he said.

01:32:38.620 Well, he was just, like, not me.

01:32:40.920 Not me?

01:32:41.620 Okay.

01:32:41.980 Yeah.

01:32:42.000 He was just, like, not me.

01:32:43.580 You're not...

01:32:44.720 You're not...

01:32:44.740 If I get you this...

01:32:45.880 I get you this.

01:32:47.160 I'm just repeating it.

01:32:48.220 Go ahead.

01:32:48.420 He's, like, if I get you this, it's kind of illegal.

01:32:50.280 Into the mic.

01:32:50.920 Into the mic.

01:32:51.700 If I get you this, it's kind of illegal.

01:32:53.220 Valid.

01:32:53.420 Because you're not an adult yet.

01:32:55.760 Okay.

01:32:56.060 And I said, okay.

01:32:57.720 Well, you don't have to.

01:32:59.340 I will just find another way to get it.

01:33:02.520 And then he...

01:33:03.160 Guilt trip?

01:33:03.780 ...was, like, no.

01:33:05.860 Like, I'll get it for you, but I will feel bad because it is illegal.

01:33:11.880 And I said, okay, then don't... 1.00

01:33:15.060 Did you call him a pussy? 1.00

01:33:16.160 No. 1.00

01:33:17.600 I mean, what a putz. 0.96

01:33:18.900 This guy wasn't even willing to do criminal activity for you or anything. 1.00

01:33:21.920 What a real piece of garbage this guy is. 1.00

01:33:24.280 I will say I did call him a bitch once, but that's... 1.00

01:33:28.040 Oh, bro, you can't leave that shit out. 1.00

01:33:30.420 Wait, okay, hold on. 0.99

01:33:31.940 What's the context here?

01:33:33.260 Was this during the vape conversation?

01:33:35.440 Yes.

01:33:36.280 Yes.

01:33:36.720 There shouldn't even be any context. 0.99

01:33:38.300 You can't call a man a bitch. 0.97

01:33:39.460 That's, like, the respect is out of the door. 0.99

01:33:40.920 Wait, let's hear the rest of it, though.

01:33:42.440 Go ahead.

01:33:42.760 I told him, I was like, if you don't want to get it, that's fine, but I'm my own person

01:33:47.580 and I would still like to get one.

01:33:50.580 I let him know.

01:33:51.620 I was like, you're not my dad.

01:33:52.980 And that I am my own person and I will do what I want with the money that I have.

01:33:59.240 Well, I don't think he was trying...

01:34:01.240 He wasn't trying to prevent you from getting it, right?

01:34:03.620 No, he was just like, it's illegal.

01:34:05.640 I don't want to get it for you.

01:34:06.700 Point blank, period.

01:34:08.320 But then you said, well, I'll get it from somebody else.

01:34:10.420 But then he had safety concerns of, like, I don't know, can you, like, taint a vape?

01:34:18.540 I don't know.

01:34:19.140 I don't know either. 0.98

01:34:20.180 But what was the context of you calling him a bitch? 0.98

01:34:23.980 Um, let me rethink. 0.99

01:34:28.320 Was it during the vape conversation?

01:34:30.500 Yes, it was.

01:34:31.300 Okay.

01:34:31.640 What did he say then?

01:34:33.180 What did you say in context?

01:34:35.960 I think it was because he just knew I vaped and he knew it was like vaping is like a bad

01:34:42.940 thing and he wanted me to do it less.

01:34:45.560 And so I let him know.

01:34:46.480 I was like, okay, I will take that into consideration, but I am my own person and I will do it if I

01:34:53.180 want to. 0.99

01:34:53.920 And then I think that's where I called him a bitch. 1.00

01:34:55.840 So what, what's, what exactly did you say? 0.99

01:34:59.220 I said, I said, okay, I understand. 1.00

01:35:03.180 Can you stop being a bitch? 1.00

01:35:06.560 Did you, did you put, did you put Lil in there? 1.00

01:35:09.860 L-I-L.

01:35:10.580 Did you put Lil? 1.00

01:35:11.400 Did you put Lil bitch? 1.00

01:35:12.800 I just put. 1.00

01:35:13.200 Or was it just bitch? 1.00

01:35:14.180 It was just a bitch. 1.00

01:35:15.540 So there's a couple of things here. 1.00

01:35:19.360 You're not allowed to call guys bitches? 0.99

01:35:21.340 No. 1.00

01:35:21.700 No.

01:35:22.020 It just feels like he was trying to do what was best for you.

01:35:25.260 You have to understand like, okay, here's, here's two things.

01:35:28.020 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:35:28.960 Two things.

01:35:29.360 First off, this is one of the very, like, we spent about five minutes talking about it,

01:35:35.580 but you, you withheld a very important piece of evidence that we could have used to prosecute

01:35:43.340 you for your crime.

01:35:44.360 No, but like, this is what people do.

01:35:46.560 They'll like, they'll downplay what they've done wrong and they'll exaggerate what the other

01:35:53.140 person's done wrong.

01:35:54.840 I've, me personally, I've never done that ever.

01:35:57.600 I always am totally a hundred percent honest.

01:36:00.100 If, if I did something wrong, I'll say it.

01:36:02.260 I will paint a good, if I, especially if I'm asking for advice, I'll always be sure.

01:36:07.500 Okay.

01:36:07.720 Here's what I said.

01:36:08.420 Here's what they said.

01:36:09.060 I won't leave certain details out to try to paint me in a better light, but you calling 0.99

01:36:13.540 him a bitch is like the major, bro. 1.00

01:36:16.960 A guy wants to feel respected by his girl. 1.00

01:36:19.880 Respect is huge for men.

01:36:21.920 Men will kill, kill other men because other men disrespected them. 0.95

01:36:28.700 It's not even, won't even necessarily be about money. 0.86

01:36:31.520 If a guy disrespects, I'm not saying all men will do this, but men will literally kill other

01:36:37.180 men for feeling disrespected.

01:36:40.660 And as your woman, he wants you to, he, he wants you to respect him.

01:36:46.780 I mean, I think this goes both ways, but for men, like respect is on a whole nother level.

01:36:51.000 You can't like, you don't respect your man. 0.97

01:36:53.780 If you're calling him a bitch, you it's, it's respect is to men. 0.99

01:36:58.320 That's an instant breakup. 0.99

01:36:59.660 There's no going back.

01:37:00.780 Yeah, no, there's like men put respect above love.

01:37:04.900 So the way we want, we want to receive love is that respect.

01:37:07.860 So if you don't respect a man, you can't expect him to be a provider, protector.

01:37:11.120 Cause he's like, he doesn't respect me.

01:37:12.480 So why would I do any of these things for her? 0.99

01:37:14.640 So the moment you call him a bitch, it's like, that's, that's like the cardinal rule. 0.99

01:37:18.620 You never do. 1.00

01:37:19.160 If you want to break up with someone, call him a bitch, like not even in a joke and not 0.99

01:37:22.800 anything like that. 0.97

01:37:23.780 But respect is literally the most important to, to a man, just like how we want to receive

01:37:28.960 love.

01:37:29.780 So, yeah, I mean, that is the reason for the breakup.

01:37:32.640 It's that, I don't even think it has anything to do with your partying.

01:37:34.760 It has anything to do with any of that.

01:37:35.840 It's the fact that he just doesn't feel respected.

01:37:37.600 So I find it interesting too, that, um, just kind of going back to the tick tock as well,

01:37:43.140 that, you know, you, you're having a hard time finding like marriage or like these long-term

01:37:48.720 relationships.

01:37:49.320 But like, for me, I would never call my husband that just because of that respect.

01:37:53.060 So it makes me wonder if, you know, it's okay if you're not ready for marriage, but you're

01:37:57.000 just maybe not ready for that long-term like committed relationship.

01:38:00.340 You know what I mean?

01:38:01.220 Just something.

01:38:01.980 Yeah.

01:38:02.320 On the tick tock, you wrote dating to marry and dating to marry.

01:38:06.020 Like that's what I do.

01:38:06.960 If I, when I decide to date, I put myself out of, I act like a wife, right?

01:38:12.320 Because I'm trying to attract the husband.

01:38:14.040 So if, if my actions don't align with what I want, then I'm not going to attract the guy

01:38:18.680 that I want.

01:38:19.340 So if you're saying dating for marriage, that's a big thing to say.

01:38:22.360 If you're just having dating to date, cool, do whatever you want. 0.98

01:38:24.940 No, you can't even, you want to want to understand, you can't call a guy a bitch either. 0.98

01:38:28.080 No, I'm not saying the bitch, that, that's a whole, that's, that's a, that's 1.00

01:38:31.060 absolutely a non-negotiable. 0.98

01:38:32.260 That's like literally, yeah, no.

01:38:34.800 But I'm saying like dating to marry, it's different.

01:38:37.380 Like you really have to portray that person to attract that because if you're

01:38:43.160 partying, you're calling him, disrespecting him and all that, it's like, that's

01:38:46.700 not dating to marry.

01:38:47.640 Like that's, yeah.

01:38:51.380 Do you think that when you said, I'll get it from someone else, he thought you

01:38:54.240 meant another guy or was it truly about babying?

01:38:57.220 Because given that you were a partier, that's, that's where my mind went right

01:39:01.000 away.

01:39:01.320 When I said someone else, I was talking about like my friends mainly.

01:39:05.800 Also, I didn't know it was, I don't know if it's just the younger generation, but I 0.98

01:39:10.420 didn't know it was a cardinal rule not to call a guy a bitch. 1.00

01:39:14.120 Like I didn't know that. 0.99

01:39:15.320 It emasculates them.

01:39:16.200 Like I really didn't know that.

01:39:17.960 Wait, let me ask you a question. 1.00

01:39:19.520 If he called you a cunt, would that, that would be chill with you? 1.00

01:39:24.280 That'd be cool. 1.00

01:39:26.080 I think they, hold on, let's let her answer.

01:39:28.800 Hold on. 0.99

01:39:29.040 I'm like trying to picture him calling me a cunt and it's like not happening. 1.00

01:39:33.540 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

01:39:34.200 No, no, no.

01:39:34.680 But the question, the question is if he did, if he were to, we're not saying that he

01:39:41.400 would, we're just saying if he did, would that have been okay with you?

01:39:48.240 No, of course not.

01:39:49.460 So I guess I'm seeing the opposite end.

01:39:51.560 Wait, so what is the culture though?

01:39:53.920 Cause you're, you said you're 19, right?

01:39:55.440 So I mean, what is the culture? 1.00

01:39:57.100 The culture is talking shit to men. 1.00

01:39:59.160 I'm 20. 1.00

01:39:59.640 I'm here with you.

01:40:00.800 Yeah. 0.99

01:40:01.500 Like everyone nowadays, they just talk shit about each other. 0.99

01:40:05.020 What? 0.99

01:40:05.260 Like that's it.

01:40:06.280 But maybe that's why relationships don't last.

01:40:08.120 Maybe that's why relationships aren't lasting.

01:40:10.460 Yeah.

01:40:10.740 There's the relationship.

01:40:11.460 Bro, what's wrong with Gen Z women? 1.00

01:40:13.020 Get the fuck. 1.00

01:40:13.840 Bro. 1.00

01:40:14.360 No way.

01:40:15.200 Well, I've got a quick follow-up question.

01:40:17.340 It's like, there's no respect.

01:40:18.620 You guys are just ready to jump from one thing to another.

01:40:21.120 There's no respect.

01:40:21.880 There's no like core values.

01:40:23.620 There's none of that.

01:40:24.220 That's why there's relationships are. 0.99

01:40:25.600 Gen Z men start calling these women cunts. 0.99

01:40:28.640 That is literally the, oh, no, no, no. 0.98

01:40:31.560 But you're trying to say that it's cool for like, oh, that's how it is. 1.00

01:40:35.080 We just call men bitches. 0.99

01:40:36.960 I'm not saying that. 0.99

01:40:38.180 I was just telling her I'm in that generation too.

01:40:41.180 And I was going to say something.

01:40:42.720 You were co-signing.

01:40:43.580 No, I was saying I'm in that generation too.

01:40:46.200 I'm 20 years old.

01:40:47.280 I'm in that generation.

01:40:48.780 But I do not agree with what you did.

01:40:50.200 Bro, there's no generation where any guy who's like actually worth anything is going 1.00

01:40:56.740 to tolerate his girlfriend calling him a bitch. 0.99

01:40:59.600 I understand that. 1.00

01:41:00.780 I feel the same exact way. 0.96

01:41:02.700 I had a guy explain to me how he is going to call me a bitch because it's just a word. 1.00

01:41:08.900 Like, you my bitch. 1.00

01:41:10.360 Like, no, I'm not. 1.00

01:41:11.380 That's different.

01:41:11.700 Different context.

01:41:12.080 No, it's not different.

01:41:13.100 It's the same.

01:41:14.040 They're both bad things.

01:41:15.860 You don't do that on either part.

01:41:17.840 Yeah, I agree.

01:41:18.620 It's bad.

01:41:19.680 No, I was going to say, even with you, when you're yelling at your man, you're literally

01:41:22.560 emasculating him.

01:41:23.380 You stood there for hours.

01:41:24.740 Whether you're frustrated or not, men do not listen if you're yelling at them.

01:41:28.080 There's coming to your man for a solution and there's coming at him.

01:41:31.700 When you come at him, he's not going to listen.

01:41:33.480 He's going to tune you out.

01:41:34.580 There's no respect.

01:41:35.740 So the way you speak to men.

01:41:37.820 And it's funny because I feel like now, Jen, like you said, there's no good man.

01:41:41.080 There's plenty of good men.

01:41:42.920 It's because this generation emasculates men.

01:41:46.200 You guys, it's the women aren't their masculine. 0.82

01:41:50.220 Oh, this is where Jess and I will fire up. 1.00

01:41:52.340 Where it's feminism has definitely ruined all of that. 1.00

01:41:55.640 Where it comes to men being men.

01:41:57.740 Men step up.

01:41:58.500 There was, I don't know if you guys saw that article that there was some girl that was

01:42:02.220 drowning and the guy saved her, saved her life.

01:42:05.680 And then he was like, she was going to sue him for touching her.

01:42:09.020 It's like, this is, no, not even that.

01:42:11.120 It was like, oh, he touched me without my consent. 1.00

01:42:13.620 Bitch, you were under the water. 1.00

01:42:14.600 You were dying. 1.00

01:42:15.300 Like he literally saved your life.

01:42:16.700 And she's like, well, for a brief moment, I was grateful that I was alive.

01:42:19.600 For a brief moment, you were grateful.

01:42:21.140 This is why men don't step up.

01:42:23.460 Because when they do the right thing, they get crucified. 1.00

01:42:26.740 Damned if you do, damned if you don't. 1.00

01:42:27.800 Yeah. 1.00

01:42:28.120 It's literally that.

01:42:29.100 So it's like, why should we try? 0.74

01:42:30.220 If I try, like you said, I'm damned.

01:42:32.080 If I don't, then it's like, so it literally comes. 0.98

01:42:34.940 If you want better men, be better women. 1.00

01:42:36.980 Because it starts with you.

01:42:38.800 How you act.

01:42:39.620 How you carry yourself.

01:42:40.500 How you talk to them.

01:42:41.460 Treat a man like a king. 0.51

01:42:42.400 He'll treat you like a queen.

01:42:43.800 Elevate him.

01:42:44.440 Respect him.

01:42:44.880 And you'll get that.

01:42:45.660 Because if you don't, then.

01:42:47.280 I want to say one thing.

01:42:48.920 I got to say one thing.

01:42:50.720 This is a public service announcement to any.

01:42:54.180 Whoever the youngest person is who's watching this, you could be Gen Z.

01:42:57.380 You could be 16, 17, 18.

01:42:59.640 All the way to whatever age you could be.

01:43:01.980 Well, the youngest person watching this right now is eight months old.

01:43:05.220 Oh, it is.

01:43:06.360 It's true.

01:43:07.200 There you go.

01:43:07.840 Is it a boy?

01:43:08.580 Yeah.

01:43:08.820 Oh, it's a boy.

01:43:09.540 Okay.

01:43:09.980 It's advice for the boy in here who's cooking.

01:43:12.740 All right.

01:43:14.160 Public service announcement. 1.00

01:43:15.980 If your girl calls you a bitch, that is an insta breakup. 1.00

01:43:20.980 You just say, even if you're in person with her, you just say, this conversation is over. 1.00

01:43:25.840 You need to leave.

01:43:27.380 That's the end.

01:43:28.680 You don't know further conversation.

01:43:31.300 The relationship is over.

01:43:33.640 You're done.

01:43:34.440 You tell her to leave.

01:43:35.320 She's at your place. 0.97

01:43:36.160 Get out.

01:43:37.340 Conversation's over.

01:43:38.760 Delete her number.

01:43:39.460 Whatever you have to do.

01:43:40.700 But yeah, it's a wrap.

01:43:42.800 Yeah.

01:43:43.060 It's a wrap. 1.00

01:43:43.980 If a girl calls you a bitch. 1.00

01:43:44.480 I've got two follow-up questions here. 1.00

01:43:47.240 One for you and then one for the girl with the picnic dress. 0.69

01:43:54.640 She's a walking red flag. 1.00

01:43:56.120 For you, you say often, well, I wanted to go to these parties to hang out with my friends.

01:44:01.600 I wanted to go there to hang out with my friends.

01:44:03.220 My friends are all there.

01:44:04.500 Did you happen to have any exes who went to these parties as well?

01:44:08.080 No.

01:44:09.360 Not none?

01:44:10.340 None.

01:44:11.240 No dating interests at all?

01:44:12.740 None.

01:44:13.220 They never went to these parties.

01:44:15.320 All right.

01:44:16.140 And then over to picnic dress. 0.81

01:44:18.160 You say, ah, no, it's the same thing.

01:44:20.080 Oh, sorry. 1.00

01:44:20.640 When a man calls a woman a bitch is when a woman calls a man a bitch. 1.00

01:44:24.520 Would you say that if a man and you were sleeping together and in the throes of passion, you would 1.00

01:44:30.180 say something like, suck it, bitch, right, or something like that, that that would hit 1.00

01:44:34.360 the same way? 1.00

01:44:35.000 I don't care less what any of these pedestrian parasites have to say. 1.00

01:44:38.920 Tonight's show should be an emergency meeting dedicated to Trump. 0.99

01:44:43.240 Cancelled, convicted, and shot. 0.55

01:44:45.360 Everyone better vote Trump. 0.97

01:44:47.220 Raised fist.

01:44:48.140 What's up, Mike Davis?

01:44:49.020 Good to see you in the chat, man.

01:44:49.960 Thank you.

01:44:50.260 Appreciate it.

01:44:51.380 Yeah, it would have been good if we did a stream yesterday.

01:44:53.300 Go ahead.

01:44:53.680 Go ahead, Andrew.

01:44:54.360 Would you say that that would hit the same way?

01:44:56.720 If in the throes of passion, he said something like that? 0.99

01:44:59.980 He said something like, called you a bitch or something like this? 0.99

01:45:02.260 Wouldn't that be a little more excusable? 1.00

01:45:04.820 In the throes of passion?

01:45:06.600 Do you mean during like?

01:45:08.600 Yeah.

01:45:09.840 No, that's never okay.

01:45:11.680 I feel like that's when I'm my purest, most intimate self.

01:45:17.500 I feel like you should treat me with that same respect as well.

01:45:20.260 Like, I am like my most like naked, innocent.

01:45:24.980 Like, I need that same reaction.

01:45:26.840 Like, like kindness.

01:45:28.460 Are you going at it hot and heavy? 1.00

01:45:29.500 He's like, take it, bitch. 1.00

01:45:30.440 You think that that's him trying to insult you? 1.00

01:45:33.160 No.

01:45:33.660 I wouldn't say that.

01:45:34.060 I'm being honest, right?

01:45:35.520 Because when you say, ah, wait, wait.

01:45:38.120 It's always the same.

01:45:39.380 It always hits the same.

01:45:40.720 Clearly, there's instances where the word is used where the, I mean, the context always matters, right?

01:45:46.140 So it's not going to hit men the same way as it's going to hit women any more than, you know, somebody who was into getting degraded while they're having intercourse. 0.94

01:45:54.760 They might not like being called a bitch outside of that setting, but inside of it, maybe they're fine with it, right? 0.99

01:45:59.720 No, it's not okay. 0.97

01:46:01.140 It's not okay inside of that setting or outside.

01:46:03.480 Because in that setting, you're most connected.

01:46:06.500 So if you allow that in a situation where you're most connected, like, you can't not expect it in every other situation.

01:46:13.640 No, that's called boundaries.

01:46:14.700 That's when you communicate what you want.

01:46:16.420 If you're a freak in the bedroom and you want to be thrown around, call names, whatever it is, it stays there.

01:46:21.860 And then when you're outside, that's different.

01:46:23.300 It's a completely different context. 0.99

01:46:24.600 But men, regardless, you do not call a man a bitch. 0.99

01:46:27.440 Like, period. 0.98

01:46:28.960 Well, that would be weird if you were, like, in the bedroom. 1.00

01:46:31.880 You're like, you're a bitch. 1.00

01:46:33.480 I mean, unless he's into that. 1.00

01:46:35.340 I mean, the bedroom, I think, is different.

01:46:37.180 Never met a guy into that.

01:46:38.280 Yeah, but I mean, I still wouldn't even do that. 0.97

01:46:41.520 I would not let him speak to me while we're having a sexual intercourse. 0.50

01:46:47.620 It may not roam the district space outside. 0.98

01:46:51.220 Oh, come on. 0.87

01:46:52.200 Get stalked through his family forever.

01:46:54.440 He's going to call you whatever the hell he wants in the bedroom, and you ain't going to say a word about it, right?

01:46:58.860 Like, that's the truth.

01:46:59.600 Because he still hasn't learned to respect me outside of the bedroom.

01:47:03.820 That's what I was explaining to you earlier, is that as much as I wanted to be there, as much as I was putting myself in the positions to be around him, I still didn't be, like, with him because I knew that there was no respect there.

01:47:15.460 And what I'm saying is, regardless of if, like, a woman likes to be talked to a certain type of way in the bed, you're asking me, and I'm telling you that I don't, and I would not allow it because I don't allow it outside of the bedroom. 0.98

01:47:29.780 Okay, well, let's try it a different way, then.

01:47:33.220 Let's see if these two things hit the same way, okay?

01:47:36.420 So let's say that you called your man daddy in front of your father.

01:47:42.420 That's crazy.

01:47:43.500 I would never do that.

01:47:44.960 Yeah, but if you did.

01:47:45.860 Dad, do you have a trip?

01:47:47.540 What?

01:47:47.960 Do you think that that might, even though you call your father dad, right, or something, some variation of this, don't you think it might hit him a little differently the second we have different context around this?

01:48:00.140 I would never do that.

01:48:02.040 My dad has called me one time.

01:48:03.440 No, no, no, the point isn't whether or not you would do it.

01:48:05.540 The point is whether or not you could see how there would be different context and why it would be bothersome, even if you're using the same word.

01:48:13.560 Oh, you like that, daddy?

01:48:15.360 I don't, I don't know.

01:48:17.120 I wouldn't say that, like, outside of just me and him.

01:48:20.860 Like, I know I'm telling you guys, like, I called him fat daddy, but I wouldn't call him that in front of other people.

01:48:27.320 Like, I would call him that.

01:48:28.020 If you called your dad fat daddy, would it hit him a little different, do you think? 0.66

01:48:33.540 Yes, it would, because I don't see my dad like that.

01:48:35.340 Yes, it would, so context matters, context matters.

01:48:38.180 No, but I wouldn't call my dad fat daddy. 0.96

01:48:38.900 So he would over your dad, and you're like, hey, fat daddy, have a sandwich that made you fat dad. 0.65

01:48:44.060 He's not going to take it the same, right? 0.96

01:48:45.380 I wouldn't call him daddy.

01:48:45.520 My dad was never fat, so I wouldn't call him that.

01:48:48.360 I specifically called my ex that, because he used to be fat when we got together.

01:48:53.140 No, I get it, but if you went to your father, and you were like, hey, you know, I made you this delicious.

01:48:58.020 I made you this sandwich on this nice Saturday so you can relax. 0.98

01:49:00.480 Here you go, fat dad.

01:49:02.100 Do you think that he would take it the same way that you're, no, of course not, right? 0.98

01:49:07.820 No way.

01:49:08.280 I don't understand what you're trying to get at here.

01:49:12.900 What I'm trying to get at is that the reason I'm saying you can use the same word, and it can be more derogatory towards one person than it is another, is because context matters.

01:49:23.000 That's why when Brian says, look, he disagrees.

01:49:26.420 If you say bitch to a woman, it doesn't hit the same as when you say it to a man. 0.95

01:49:30.080 Context matters. 0.98

01:49:31.600 I wasn't disagreeing with that, though.

01:49:33.620 I was saying that it's both bad.

01:49:34.740 You did disagree. 1.00

01:49:35.860 No, I said that calling a woman a bitch is terrible and calling a man a bitch is terrible. 1.00

01:49:40.560 I feel like those are both different. 0.99

01:49:41.580 Yeah, but no, you said they're equal.

01:49:43.500 They're not equal.

01:49:44.460 They hit differently.

01:49:45.060 They're equal disrespect.

01:49:46.320 That's how I feel.

01:49:47.400 It's not equally disrespectful because it hits them different.

01:49:50.660 Just like it would hit your dad different if you called him fat daddy versus your ex, you see?

01:49:55.500 They're both disrespectful, though. 0.55

01:49:57.540 There's a difference.

01:49:58.380 They're both disrespectful.

01:49:59.360 You shouldn't be putting disrespect on a level of how disrespectful it is.

01:50:02.560 No, they're only disrespectful depending on context.

01:50:06.700 And I just gave you multiple times where there could be context where you use a word where it's not considered disrespectful. 1.00

01:50:12.560 Perhaps your pet name for a chick, like you called this guy fat daddy, is dumb bitch. 1.00

01:50:17.540 Maybe that's your pet name for her. 1.00

01:50:19.000 Hey, dumb bitch, come over here. 1.00

01:50:20.580 And she just loves that. 1.00

01:50:21.760 Is that disrespectful, then?

01:50:23.400 That is disrespectful.

01:50:24.700 He allowed me to call him that. 0.97

01:50:25.300 It's still disrespectful even though, but calling your ex fat daddy isn't. 0.83

01:50:29.620 He allowed me to call him that.

01:50:31.940 That was something that we talked about and something that he was okay with.

01:50:36.260 Yeah, so if she's okay with it, hang on, hang on.

01:50:39.200 If she's okay with it, then how could it be disrespectful?

01:50:41.800 Because he wasn't okay with it.

01:50:44.200 It has to be a mutual communication.

01:50:45.040 No, no, no, listen to what I'm asking you.

01:50:46.680 If you have a situation, stop, stop, stop talking for a second.

01:50:50.000 The reason I'm asking you to stop is because you're not hearing what I'm saying.

01:50:54.000 Go ahead.

01:50:55.060 A guy and a girl agree. 1.00

01:50:57.440 He says, my new pet name for you is dumb bitch. 1.00

01:51:00.640 And she goes, yay, I love being called that. 1.00

01:51:02.720 It's great.

01:51:04.100 Right?

01:51:04.540 It's my favorite.

01:51:06.140 Is it still disrespectful for him to call her that?

01:51:09.120 If she allowed it, then that's fine.

01:51:11.680 What I'm saying is...

01:51:12.180 Right, but that's my point is that within the frame of context, different words hit people differently. 0.97

01:51:18.980 And the bottom line is you just don't call a guy a bitch unless you want him to... 1.00

01:51:22.660 Here, I'll give you the best example ever, like the easiest example ever, right? 0.97

01:51:27.880 Hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on.

01:51:29.400 You hang on.

01:51:29.980 I think we can agree.

01:51:30.720 I think we're going to be able to agree.

01:51:31.520 If someone feels disrespected by what you're saying...

01:51:33.140 Stop prattling.

01:51:33.840 Stop prattling.

01:51:34.440 Just listen.

01:51:35.080 Stop prattling.

01:51:35.720 No, just listen to me.

01:51:36.300 Because you don't get it.

01:51:37.020 You don't get it.

01:51:37.620 Stop prattling for a second.

01:51:38.760 No, I want you to listen to me so that you can understand.

01:51:39.460 You're still prattling.

01:51:39.940 I listen to you.

01:51:41.300 Stop prattling.

01:51:42.240 You're still prattling.

01:51:43.340 I would like you to do the same for me.

01:51:44.960 Stop prattling.

01:51:45.680 So if someone tells you something and they feel disrespected by me, then it's disrespectful.

01:51:52.100 But if they say it's okay, then that's okay on their end.

01:51:55.460 Look, hold on.

01:51:56.180 I'm moderating this conversation.

01:51:58.560 If I tell anybody to stop talking, I need you to stop talking.

01:52:01.660 Okay.

01:52:02.280 So because it's what's going to happen, Andrew's going to say his piece.

01:52:06.560 You'll have a chance to respond.

01:52:07.800 Let him say his thing.

01:52:08.820 Then you can speak.

01:52:09.520 Go ahead.

01:52:10.040 Thank you.

01:52:10.360 So I'm just going to give you the easiest example of this ever so that there's no confusion at all.

01:52:15.240 Would it hit a black person differently if a white person called them the N-word than if a black person called them the N-word?

01:52:22.880 I've been having this conversation with the people around me.

01:52:27.480 Thank you, Stacey.

01:52:28.840 Wait.

01:52:29.460 Welcome, everyone.

01:52:30.960 Okay.

01:52:31.380 I've been having this conversation a lot with the people around me.

01:52:34.620 A recent coworker of mine, he told me that it is just as disrespectful because if it's a degrading word when someone else says it, then it's a degrading word when we say it to each other.

01:52:46.640 So, yes, it's disrespectful on both ends.

01:52:48.320 That's not my question.

01:52:49.820 My question isn't whether or not it's disrespectful.

01:52:51.620 My question is, would it hit differently if a white person called a black person the N-word versus if a black person called a black person the N-word? 0.86

01:53:00.360 Wouldn't it hit differently? 0.97

01:53:01.420 No, it would hit the same.

01:53:03.100 It hits the same. 1.00

01:53:04.100 You're so full of shit. 1.00

01:53:06.020 Nobody's ever going to believe that in a million years. 1.00

01:53:08.800 No, but you're not listening to what I just said.

01:53:11.540 I just had a conversation with a previous coworker of mine. 0.97

01:53:15.300 And I called him a nigga, and he said, that's very disrespectful. 0.86

01:53:20.260 I said, no, it would have been disrespectful if somebody who wasn't able to say that said that to you. 0.81

01:53:25.820 He let me know that that's disrespectful for me to say that to him as well because if it's degrading on somebody else saying it, then it's degrading on me saying it.

01:53:34.360 So are you going to stop listening to rap music?

01:53:36.880 It's not.

01:53:37.740 Wait, you're not letting me finish, though.

01:53:39.320 What I'm saying is that.

01:53:39.920 Yeah, but I mean, listen to how logical this is.

01:53:42.920 It's like saying, well, I'm not going to listen to rap music anymore because it says the word in it.

01:53:46.500 Let me just finish what I was saying.

01:53:48.000 What I'm saying is that I didn't think like that before.

01:53:51.280 I thought exactly what you're expecting me to think right now, but when someone had the conversation with me and they let me know that it's just as degrading for me to say it to him, knowing that I'm the same race as him for someone else to say it to him, and they're a different race, that changed my mindset.

01:54:09.720 That changed my perspective on it because it's true. 0.71

01:54:12.720 Okay, I got it.

01:54:13.060 If someone else were to say that, I need to take that same initiative and understand that it's degrading.

01:54:17.040 Yeah, I know.

01:54:17.480 I get it.

01:54:17.940 You don't have to reaffirm the same point five times.

01:54:20.500 I get it.

01:54:20.980 I just want to very quickly follow up with this.

01:54:24.160 Do you think that if you were to ask 1,000 random black people in the street, just 1,000 random black people, would it hurt you worse if a white person called you the n-word than if a black person called you the n-word?

01:54:37.840 How many of them do you think would say yes?

01:54:40.040 Most or very few?

01:54:42.960 How many?

01:54:44.480 I want to say I'm not exactly sure.

01:54:47.740 100%.

01:54:48.420 Because I was like that.

01:54:50.380 That's what you're not understanding, though.

01:54:52.180 I was the person who thought exactly what you're saying.

01:54:55.800 Like, okay, if a white person calls me a n-word, it's bad. 0.53

01:54:58.960 But if a black person calls me a n-word, it's a n-word. 0.82

01:55:01.060 This is getting TLS, Andrew. 0.87

01:55:02.000 This is getting TLS, Andrew.

01:55:04.060 I was able to change my mindset because when I did that to someone, they let me know that it's just as degrading.

01:55:12.380 The thing with it is you're not listening, though.

01:55:13.900 So if there were more people...

01:55:14.200 You're not listening.

01:55:14.880 Listen, let me tell you what he's asking.

01:55:17.020 Your mindset has changed, right?

01:55:18.720 That's what I'm saying.

01:55:19.600 I respect that.

01:55:19.620 That's cool.

01:55:20.240 But that's not what he's saying.

01:55:21.440 So more people can have a changed mindset.

01:55:22.520 We never know until we talk to them.

01:55:23.940 You're right.

01:55:24.540 But that's not the question.

01:55:25.620 The question is a basic black and white.

01:55:27.800 It's literally if a person, if a white person calls you the n-word versus a black person, it's a lot more.

01:55:33.600 But not everything when they say you have the card.

01:55:37.040 Yeah, I get it.

01:55:37.680 All right.

01:55:37.980 I'm moving it on.

01:55:38.680 I'm moving it on.

01:55:39.840 I'm moving it on.

01:55:40.840 Other people can't.

01:55:41.240 I'm moving it on.

01:55:42.400 Okay.

01:55:43.000 Nick, was there something we were pulling up?

01:55:46.360 Yeah, we can pull up.

01:55:48.280 We didn't ever pull this up, which is the video you want.

01:55:50.700 Oh, we'll come back to that, actually.

01:55:51.840 I'm going to bring it back to...

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01:55:54.400 Yeah.

01:55:54.980 Oh, stay safe.

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01:56:23.460 Okay, so back to you.

01:56:24.380 In your TikTok, you said when you date to marry.

01:56:27.280 So, I mean, for you, what does it mean to date to marry?

01:56:30.220 You date to marry.

01:56:31.920 What do you mean?

01:56:34.240 Thank you, AB Check.

01:56:35.460 You date someone to potentially end up marrying them.

01:56:39.720 Mm-hmm.

01:56:41.520 What does that look like to you?

01:56:43.440 Like, how do you carry yourself in a relationship to date to marry versus just date to date?

01:56:50.020 Well, I don't know.

01:56:50.800 I've never been married.

01:56:51.740 Well, obviously, I've never been married either, but there's characteristics.

01:56:58.080 So, like, let's say, what is your ideal?

01:57:00.460 If you pictured your husband, right, what are those characteristics?

01:57:03.800 If you, as a wife, as someone who wants to be married, what are the characteristics that you think you should have to date to marry?

01:57:10.620 Or, like, does that make sense?

01:57:12.560 Yeah, well, if I picture my husband and me as a wife, I would picture me as caring, loving, takes care of things around the house while also trying to make income. 0.96

01:57:23.800 Because I, in the future, I want to live in a household that has dual income, if possible.

01:57:28.360 Does that make sense?

01:57:29.660 What do you look for in a man? 0.87

01:57:30.800 What do I look for in a man? 0.97

01:57:32.460 I would say someone who's stable, I guess.

01:57:37.360 All I really look for is stability.

01:57:39.480 Like, if you can't keep a job, then I don't want to be with someone like that.

01:57:45.260 Can I ask you something?

01:57:46.660 Mm-hmm.

01:57:47.020 So, the guy that you said broke up with you, he refused to buy you a vape.

01:57:53.380 He obviously wasn't totally okay with you vaping.

01:57:56.520 And he didn't want to buy it for you because he didn't essentially want to break the law.

01:58:02.020 So, isn't that a green flag in a man?

01:58:04.300 Because that shows that he takes care of himself and he's also, you know, willing to, like, be straight as far as following the law, doing all of those things right.

01:58:15.380 Mm-hmm.

01:58:16.220 Yeah.

01:58:16.580 So, maybe you kind of have to change the way that you're putting yourself out there.

01:58:21.440 And you will find that man that you mentioned in the TikTok without moving because I know you mentioned that a lot of them, like, live far away.

01:58:30.320 Mm-hmm.

01:58:30.660 So, do you get what I'm saying?

01:58:32.000 Yeah.

01:58:35.700 That was actually a good point because, I mean, one of the things with the vape, in addition to it being illegal, it sounded like he had an issue with your, are you addicted to nicotine?

01:58:47.260 No.

01:58:47.900 I could quit if I wanted to.

01:58:49.100 You could quit if you were, how often do you vape?

01:58:52.540 Like, I'm planning on, like, stop, like, not vaping when school starts again.

01:58:58.000 Do the vape cartridges, do they have nicotine?

01:59:00.980 Yes.

01:59:02.120 Okay.

01:59:02.740 So, you could quit if you wanted to?

01:59:04.360 Yeah.

01:59:05.220 Why, why do you want to quit?

01:59:09.440 When school starts, yes.

01:59:11.120 Why is, why is that?

01:59:12.620 Just because I know that I've been doing it for a long while, and I see that since it's not affecting the outside of my body, I don't see it as a bad thing, but I know internally it's hurting me, so I want to quit once school starts.

01:59:26.900 But, I mean, so this guy who, he didn't want to do something illegal, but he also wanted to see you do something healthy by quitting the vaping, wouldn't that be, like, positive?

01:59:44.340 Positive, husband material, positive characteristic?

01:59:47.500 Well, yeah, it was positive, but regardless, I still wanted to do it, and I hoped that he would understand that.

01:59:55.040 Right, but he was trying to do something, like, he was trying to help you, he was looking out for you.

01:59:58.460 No, yeah, he was trying to help me.

01:59:59.300 Yeah, and you punished him for it.

02:00:00.920 Do you think... 0.99

02:00:01.440 You called him a bitch, and it's gone into an argument. 0.97

02:00:03.320 Do you think that maybe it was because you felt like he was controlling that aspect of your life, and you didn't like that feeling? 0.98

02:00:10.400 It did, because in the argument, he was making it a point that since I was younger than him, I was naive, and I didn't like that.

02:00:19.880 What was the age guy?

02:00:20.700 How old is he?

02:00:21.440 He's 21.

02:00:22.940 And you're 19?

02:00:23.980 Well, I mean, that's not a massive age thing, but...

02:00:26.580 I mean, was he wrong, though?

02:00:29.380 Well, I don't know.

02:00:31.020 Well, you said that you were naive, why?

02:00:35.780 For vaping?

02:00:36.540 For being addicted to...

02:00:37.460 No offense, Andrew.

02:00:38.480 Being addicted to nicotine?

02:00:39.720 Well, I guess, yeah.

02:00:41.640 Isn't that typically a bad thing?

02:00:44.300 Well, like, at this day, who doesn't vape anymore?

02:00:46.860 Like me?

02:00:47.140 I don't know.

02:00:47.500 Who doesn't vape?

02:00:47.980 I don't know.

02:00:48.000 I vaped at one point, and then I didn't, like, literally.

02:00:51.360 If everybody was shooting up heroin, would you do that?

02:00:55.140 But the thing, the logic of it doesn't make sense.

02:00:56.940 If you already know that it's not good for you, why not cut it now and wait till school?

02:01:01.620 Like, it's just, I think the mentality of it is you want to do what you want to do, and

02:01:06.800 it comes to, I don't know, I don't want to say insecurity, but it's like thinking that

02:01:13.420 it's control when somebody wants something good for you.

02:01:15.440 It's like, I want to do what I want to do.

02:01:16.660 And I'll be honest, in my 20s, I wanted to do what I wanted to do.

02:01:19.180 I don't want to be told what I want to do, because it's that stubborn, it's the, you

02:01:23.640 still have a, you know, you want to, you want to be your independent woman, don't tell me

02:01:28.360 what to do.

02:01:28.860 But really, when it comes down to it, if you're looking for a husband, a husband is a leader,

02:01:33.900 is somebody that, I think there's that word of submit, which triggers a lot of people.

02:01:38.480 But when you come to, if you want a husband who is a true leader, true provider, means

02:01:43.420 you trust him to relinquish control and trust that he's going to make the right decisions

02:01:47.520 for you.

02:01:47.900 You submit to that man in a sense that he's going to take care of me, and the decisions

02:01:51.760 that he's making for me is the best decisions for us, for me.

02:01:56.940 So in that sense, you would trust him.

02:01:58.420 Like, you know what?

02:01:58.900 You're right.

02:01:59.640 Partying is not a good look for me.

02:02:01.760 Vaping is not a good look for him, because all those things are going to make you better.

02:02:04.880 And that is the qualities that you do want in a man, because he's making the right decisions

02:02:08.900 in, he's basically investing in your future.

02:02:12.540 Because he's like, I want this woman, and I want the best version of her.

02:02:14.960 Because in relationships, you make each other better.

02:02:16.640 So those are qualities that you should look for.

02:02:19.160 And I think you say you want to date to marry, you're not even remotely ready for that.

02:02:23.260 But I think it's just a matter of working on yourself and realizing that when you truly

02:02:27.580 want a man, you have to be ready to, if he's the right man that leads, protects, all of

02:02:34.240 that, then you can submit to him and trust him to make decisions for you.

02:02:37.580 So you had an issue with him trying to, you said like it was controlling or whatever?

02:02:43.000 It felt like that, in a sense.

02:02:44.320 He was trying to control you.

02:02:45.840 Like, how so?

02:02:47.620 I don't know.

02:02:48.880 Well, like I said before, he made it a point that since I was younger than him, that I

02:02:52.800 wouldn't listen.

02:02:53.540 I was naive.

02:02:54.260 I was stubborn.

02:02:56.080 Well, were you?

02:02:56.800 I don't know.

02:03:00.340 I was just like very upset in the moment.

02:03:02.080 So would you, do girls get naive and stubborn when they're upset? 1.00

02:03:09.220 Some do.

02:03:10.200 Sure.

02:03:10.540 Yeah.

02:03:11.180 I mean, there's a difference between bossing and leading too.

02:03:13.640 So I mean, you could, it just goes back and forth.

02:03:15.980 It's just a matter of what you wanted.

02:03:17.020 It's like you weren't, you didn't want that relationship period.

02:03:19.080 Like realistically.

02:03:20.260 Does, does he vape?

02:03:21.760 Does he smoke weed at all?

02:03:23.100 Oh.

02:03:23.880 So it wasn't necessarily a health thing.

02:03:25.580 It was just you're underage.

02:03:27.240 Well, that kind of changes.

02:03:29.640 Well, I take a little bit of a flag back.

02:03:31.680 It's pretty, it is pretty unfortunate.

02:03:33.380 Like the U.S. was actually doing pretty, in terms of its, no offense, Andrew.

02:03:39.260 It's, it's, was moving towards this very anti-tobacco.

02:03:43.920 Like it was, it was super stigmatized throughout the 2000s.

02:03:48.520 But then like vaping came on in early 2010s.

02:03:52.860 Yeah.

02:03:52.940 We've been trying to change that slowly, but surely.

02:03:56.400 But super stigmatized.

02:03:58.820 And then the vapes came in and pretty much destroyed like a generation basically and got

02:04:03.900 them hooked on nicotine.

02:04:06.880 Interesting.

02:04:07.420 I used to smoke cloves.

02:04:08.480 I don't even think you guys know what that is, but it's like the genre.

02:04:11.320 It's like basic cigars.

02:04:12.520 I know what cloves are.

02:04:13.540 Yeah.

02:04:13.720 So I used to smoke before, like when they used to crackle, like back in the day.

02:04:17.620 And like when you smoke and all those in the, in the social settings you smoke, but when

02:04:23.040 you're vaping, you're 24 seven, you're like pumping those things.

02:04:27.000 And you're like, whether it's zero nicotine or it has anything, it's crazy.

02:04:30.320 Cause there was a time that I was like, I started doing the vaping too.

02:04:32.940 And I was like, I feel like I'm doing it way more than I would have smoked.

02:04:37.180 It's better if I smoke than vape.

02:04:39.500 Yeah.

02:04:39.780 Anyways, um, going back to your original tick tock, you also said when you date to marry, 0.94

02:04:45.080 but every boy is a cheater liar.

02:04:47.940 Um, so have you had personal experiences of men like cheating on you or lying? 0.93

02:04:52.940 Yes.

02:04:53.580 Okay.

02:04:54.420 Um, how many men would you say you've dated who've cheated on you?

02:04:58.420 Just one.

02:04:59.420 Oh, just one.

02:05:00.160 Just one.

02:05:00.840 And then you, how many men have you dated who didn't cheat on you?

02:05:04.440 Um, like three.

02:05:08.380 Oh, okay.

02:05:09.940 I guess I was, I was over exaggerating in the tick tock.

02:05:13.300 Yeah.

02:05:13.900 Um, also there was another tick tock.

02:05:16.300 I don't think we have it pulled up, but it says it was like a song or something.

02:05:19.940 It says, why can't you want me?

02:05:20.980 Like the other boys do.

02:05:21.960 They stare at me while I stare at you.

02:05:23.580 Yeah.

02:05:24.080 Is this the same guy?

02:05:25.740 No.

02:05:26.100 Is this the guy who, okay.

02:05:27.600 Is it a different guy?

02:05:28.600 Was there a guy in mind when you, for that one or?

02:05:31.860 No, I just liked the song.

02:05:33.480 Oh, okay.

02:05:33.980 No, that's literally the point of that.

02:05:35.600 I thought you resonated.

02:05:36.580 No, I just like that song.

02:05:38.140 Okay.

02:05:39.180 It reminded me of the, the lonely meme.

02:05:42.680 Nick, do you have the lonely meme?

02:05:43.660 We haven't pulled that up in a while.

02:05:46.080 So like when women say that they're like lonely, can't find a boy, can't find a guy, should 1.00

02:05:53.980 be on the tabs.

02:05:54.760 Yeah, this is kind of, yeah, this is kind of like, oh, I think this is women's experience. 0.99

02:06:08.360 Oh, I can't find a guy.

02:06:09.640 I'm so lonely.

02:06:11.100 You've got like 10 suitors, dozens of suitors, but you just reject them.

02:06:17.660 It's because everyone, women have such high expectations of, unrealistic high expectations 1.00

02:06:23.000 of men, in my opinion.

02:06:24.720 Yeah.

02:06:25.160 Do you want to expand on that?

02:06:27.060 I just think that, I mean, social media, I think plays a lot into this, but I mean,

02:06:33.000 even, I own a salon, so you probably know this, lots of women coming through lots of conversations. 1.00

02:06:38.640 Um, and it's just, you know, he isn't tall enough.

02:06:42.780 He doesn't make enough money.

02:06:43.900 He's not this, he's not that.

02:06:45.220 And it's like, what happened to meeting a genuine person and growing together personally?

02:06:50.360 I don't know.

02:06:51.120 Absolutely.

02:06:53.180 Word.

02:06:53.780 Not everyone's perfect.

02:06:55.820 Uh, back to you.

02:06:57.120 You, I think there was another one, another TikTok.

02:06:59.880 You said, don't lead people on for three months, bro.

02:07:03.180 Hashtag wasted three months of my life.

02:07:06.380 Was that the same, this guy?

02:07:07.920 That, that one was about the same guy.

02:07:09.900 But so how, so you feel like he led you on?

02:07:12.600 He said himself that he led him, that he led me on.

02:07:17.080 During the breakup?

02:07:18.160 Yes.

02:07:19.940 He led you on how?

02:07:21.660 Because he ultimately decided he wasn't ready for a relationship when he thought he was.

02:07:26.860 Well.

02:07:27.200 So he led me on. 1.00

02:07:28.580 Yeah, that's after you called him a bitch though. 1.00

02:07:30.880 Yeah. 0.98

02:07:32.220 I mean, maybe it was just, that's like, it's like, it wasn't, it's not you, it's me.

02:07:36.980 Yeah, it was like, you don't want to, you want to.

02:07:38.620 That's an excuse.

02:07:39.320 It's like, yeah, it's an exit strategy for sure.

02:07:42.360 Yeah, he was probably just trying to let you down easy.

02:07:46.420 Probably.

02:07:49.820 But do you feel like you were led on?

02:07:52.620 Yes.

02:07:52.980 But I don't get this whole thing.

02:07:55.040 This kind of, this always has confused me.

02:07:57.400 It seems like if a guy's not willing to commit or he ends a existing relationship, he's almost

02:08:03.420 always framed as the bad guy for wanting to end a relationship.

02:08:09.580 Whereas it, it occurs to me that women reserve the right at any moment to end a relationship 1.00

02:08:16.100 for any reason.

02:08:17.800 Frankly, I think anybody can end any relationship for any reason.

02:08:23.020 You, you can date somebody or choose to not date somebody for any reason.

02:08:27.920 Everybody has their own preferences, standards, and boundaries.

02:08:31.160 But it's, it's just interesting to me, like,

02:08:35.760 just why the framing here of, like,

02:08:41.260 like, have you ever ended things with a guy?

02:08:44.160 Yes.

02:08:45.080 Did you lead him on?

02:08:46.440 No.

02:08:47.800 Did you end things with a guy because he did something wrong?

02:08:53.060 Yes.

02:08:53.740 Okay, so then why is it that when you end things with a guy,

02:08:57.620 it's because he did something wrong, but when a guy ends something with you,

02:09:02.320 he also did something wrong.

02:09:04.020 Because when I end things with a guy, I give the guy chances to fix his mistakes,

02:09:09.520 like, if his behavior is bad.

02:09:10.700 If he cheats on you?

02:09:11.780 No, no, no, no, no.

02:09:12.500 Just, like, if I notice, like, patterns, like, he's not putting in effort or things like that.

02:09:17.220 Well, that's, I suppose, nice of you, but you're not required to do that.

02:09:20.980 I'm sure you agree.

02:09:21.920 Yeah.

02:09:22.680 I'm not, but I'm the type of person to have hope in things.

02:09:27.400 Yeah, but I feel like he told you, if his reason was that he doesn't want to party girl,

02:09:31.400 he told you he doesn't want to party girl.

02:09:33.240 But then again, I'm just going back to it. 0.99

02:09:34.720 You called him a bitch, and that was, he was done in that moment. 0.99

02:09:37.180 But he technically gave you a reason, so. 0.99

02:09:42.560 Well, then that was his reason.

02:09:45.000 But it's just weird.

02:09:45.800 It's like, okay, if a guy breaks up with you after dating you for three months, six months, whatever,

02:09:52.100 he led you on.

02:09:53.500 But if a girl breaks up with a guy after three, six months, however long, it's for reasons.

02:10:00.100 That's just ego, though.

02:10:01.220 It's just, I feel like that's the ego of, like, being led on.

02:10:03.980 And it's, I don't think you can.

02:10:06.020 But it's not leading, I don't think it's leading somebody on if you break up with somebody for a reason.

02:10:10.420 If you don't want to be there, you leave.

02:10:12.060 That's the thing.

02:10:12.740 Like, if you, you can't be led on, unless their intentions are different,

02:10:17.060 unless they're telling you they want certain, they want you to be a girlfriend, marriage, all these things,

02:10:21.040 and then that's not really their intention, and they're just trying to hook up with you.

02:10:24.260 Okay, that I understand being led on.

02:10:25.900 Cool.

02:10:26.540 But if it's, if you both decide that, hey, this is the person I want,

02:10:29.600 and you're moving toward a relationship, and you want the same goals,

02:10:32.440 and that's why it's important to talk about values and goals and what you want in the beginning.

02:10:35.820 So, you're not led on, because you know exactly what you're getting.

02:10:39.320 So, with everything that we're telling you, do you agree?

02:10:44.520 No, yeah.

02:10:44.960 I'm soaking it all in, and I'm, like, reminiscing.

02:10:48.380 Okay.

02:10:48.960 And for future, are you going to change that?

02:10:52.880 Probably, yeah. 1.00

02:10:53.780 Because I know, right now, I am young, and so I do make stupid decisions sometimes. 0.98

02:10:58.620 So, hopefully, when I'm older, I'm... 0.98

02:11:01.320 You're young, but you're still an adult, so you're capable of doing everything.

02:11:05.480 You were capable of doing it right from the start.

02:11:07.400 It's just, you didn't.

02:11:09.080 Yeah.

02:11:09.200 So, just take heed what we're saying.

02:11:11.160 Mm-hmm.

02:11:12.060 Cool.

02:11:13.160 That was a good question, actually.

02:11:14.560 How old do you want to be?

02:11:15.700 Like, have you, obviously, said date to marry, but do you want to get married really young?

02:11:19.700 Do you, are you wanting to have a family young, or, I mean, because you are young right now,

02:11:23.480 so it's totally fine to party while you're young, if you want to get married a little

02:11:26.080 later, but are you looking to get married, like, very early?

02:11:30.440 Is that your idea?

02:11:31.380 I wouldn't say, like, early, like, probably when I'm done with college.

02:11:35.080 So, in a couple years?

02:11:35.900 So, yeah.

02:11:37.780 I mean, I would just say, if you should look at what type of husband you want, and that

02:11:43.140 goes with, like, lifestyle, travel, party, everything, and it's kind of like showing up

02:11:46.860 to a job interview.

02:11:47.640 So, if you show up to a job interview in your pajamas, you're probably not going to get the

02:11:52.020 best job.

02:11:53.280 If you want someone to accept you in your pajamas, you're going to have to get a job

02:11:56.180 that hires people in pajamas.

02:11:59.020 So, it's attracting what you actually want.

02:12:01.960 So, you know, you can't just go into something wanting this really good husband and be like,

02:12:06.300 well, just accept my baby and I'm partying, you know, unless that's the type of guy that

02:12:10.520 you're looking at to marry.

02:12:13.120 I mean, and...

02:12:14.220 Can I say something to her?

02:12:16.140 Okay, go ahead.

02:12:16.740 It'll be very kind.

02:12:18.180 All right, go ahead.

02:12:18.900 I would like to...

02:12:20.780 I dream of getting married when I graduate college, too, as well.

02:12:25.020 I think that we should just take this time to, like, really, like, learn about ourselves

02:12:30.820 and what mistakes we can make, even if that's, like, choosing our needs first.

02:12:36.760 Like, you with the whole vaping thing.

02:12:38.820 Like, I have, like, not talked to people because they took my vape or, like, they didn't want

02:12:44.020 to get me one.

02:12:44.640 Like, trust me, you're not alone when it comes to that.

02:12:46.700 But we do need to work on that.

02:12:48.260 And, like, if we are, like, looking for someone that wants to spend the rest of their lives

02:12:53.020 with us, how are we living our lives?

02:12:55.240 And, like, what are we going to do to make it a better situation for us to be in a relationship?

02:13:02.420 Like, I feel like we should, like, take, like, deep looks at ourselves.

02:13:05.160 Not just you, but me, too.

02:13:06.340 And, like, just notice, like, even, like, calling him, like, a certain type of name and

02:13:11.900 out of his name.

02:13:12.700 Like, maybe thinking about, okay, well, would it be okay if he did that to me?

02:13:18.960 And, like, I can do the same thing.

02:13:20.660 Like, yelling at people, like, burning their stuff.

02:13:23.900 Like, is that okay if they do it to me?

02:13:25.880 Like, just kind of, like, asking ourselves, like, how we can move forward without, like,

02:13:31.160 hurting the other person, even if it's really small or even if it's really big.

02:13:34.820 That was beautiful.

02:13:35.940 That was beautiful.

02:13:36.520 Oh, look at that.

02:13:37.120 Euless sees the pagan donated $200.

02:13:40.760 Feminism is why guys are checking out. 1.00

02:13:43.140 We're called narcissistic predators.

02:13:45.640 Most women have been indoctrinated and brainwashed into this unfounded belief and wonder why Mictor

02:13:51.320 became a thing.

02:13:52.420 Hey, the pagan.

02:13:53.540 Thank you, man.

02:13:53.960 Appreciate your TTS.

02:13:54.980 Thank you so much for your patronage, man.

02:13:56.440 Well put.

02:13:57.460 Really quick on the whole, like, don't lead people on thing.

02:14:01.040 Like, this is, again, just going back to my confusion here.

02:14:03.780 So, would it be leading a woman on if I told her I want long-term, I desire some marriage,

02:14:10.640 want a long-term relationship, but then I get, she gets the commitment, she gets the

02:14:15.260 commitment, but then she, like, nobody's obliged to stay with somebody really for any

02:14:21.080 reason.

02:14:21.320 But if we're dating for six months and then, like, out of the blue, she just, like, starts, 0.99

02:14:28.280 I can't even, calls me a bitch or I'm trying to think of an extreme example, murders my 0.99

02:14:34.640 family. 1.00

02:14:35.360 Is it leading her on if I break up with her after she's gone and murdered my entire family?

02:14:41.020 Even though I told her I wanted a long-term relationship.

02:14:44.120 So, I guess my thing is, it's not leading a girl on to say that you're going to, you want

02:14:48.720 to date her, but then she behaves in ways or does things that you don't like.

02:14:54.560 No more, and I wouldn't, a woman could break up with, this isn't like a double standard thing. 1.00

02:14:59.760 A woman can break up with a guy because he's being lazy or whatever the reasons are that 1.00

02:15:05.120 you don't want to date a guy.

02:15:06.320 I don't think you can be let on.

02:15:07.380 If you're an adult, you're making a decision to be somewhere with someone.

02:15:10.400 I'm saying in that situation, like, trying to just play devil's advocate, but you really

02:15:14.280 can't be let on.

02:15:15.300 It's like, yeah, behavior changes.

02:15:17.620 There's that, people change.

02:15:20.360 People, you kind of, like, grow, either you grow together or you grow apart.

02:15:25.100 I don't think it's leading on. 0.96

02:15:27.200 And I think the other thing, damn, I totally just slipped my mind.

02:15:34.000 Oh, what was the other thing? 0.96

02:15:36.320 Um, oh, it was really good, too.

02:15:40.300 It was going to blow all your minds, but it just, like, just left my mind.

02:15:44.780 So if it comes back to me later, um, I guess I'll, uh, think about it.

02:15:50.620 The video?

02:15:54.160 From the Daily Mail.

02:15:56.040 Uh, yeah, we can, actually, let me pull up a couple chats first and then we'll, all right.

02:16:03.580 We have Bucky, Larson, Lizzie.

02:16:05.700 Can you read this one?

02:16:08.400 My third cousin just sadly got divorced and he has two kids.

02:16:12.580 Ladies, would you sign a legal contract that said whoever initiates divorce is entitled to nothing? 1.00

02:16:18.440 He has two kids, ladies.

02:16:21.500 Would you sign a legal contract that said whoever initiates divorce is entitled to nothing?

02:16:25.240 Uh, going around the table, would you sign that contract?

02:16:28.080 Whoever initiates the divorce gets nothing.

02:16:31.380 Um, I think circumstantial.

02:16:33.400 So if I, my husband told me to stay at home with the kids and I stayed at home and then divorced, probably not.

02:16:39.520 So it depends on what type of marriage or what situation we were going into.

02:16:43.420 Uh, if we were both working, yes, I would sign it.

02:16:45.740 Mm-hmm.

02:16:47.680 Um.

02:16:48.220 Um, I think, I think so.

02:16:53.220 I think I would sign it only because if I'm prepared to leave the relationship, the marriage,

02:17:00.820 I have to know at the back of my mind that could be losing everything.

02:17:05.840 So that's why I would.

02:17:08.300 I agree with Jess.

02:17:10.780 Um, well, I would just like to say cancel, not cancel.

02:17:13.700 And I would just say, like, over time, the heart changes.

02:17:16.900 So if someone falls out of love, it's not really their fault.

02:17:20.360 It's like, I wouldn't sign that.

02:17:22.100 No, I wouldn't sign that at all.

02:17:23.560 Wait, you wouldn't sign it?

02:17:25.120 Because if someone wants to divorce me because they're no longer in love with me,

02:17:28.640 is that necessarily their fault?

02:17:30.360 Like, the heart changes over time.

02:17:32.600 Relationships are work, though.

02:17:33.720 Like, that's something that you have to continue to work on over years.

02:17:36.180 Like, every day is not 100%.

02:17:38.000 If it's not working, we're working on it.

02:17:39.420 We're working on it.

02:17:39.740 It's not working.

02:17:40.360 What are we going to do?

02:17:40.720 Just sit in hell together? 0.69

02:17:41.860 Like, no.

02:17:42.240 I just think when you get married to someone,

02:17:43.800 that's something that you're committing to them for the rest of your life.

02:17:47.580 And you're going to work through the ups and downs.

02:17:49.460 And it's going to be hard.

02:17:50.660 Marriage isn't easy.

02:17:51.520 Yeah, I'm not saying to give up easily.

02:17:52.980 But I'm not going to stay in something that I know is not working.

02:17:56.140 Even if we try, we go to counseling, we do this.

02:17:58.180 Like, I see marriages that are not healthy for the children.

02:18:00.660 Right, so you're fine with divorce.

02:18:02.120 I mean, I don't like divorce.

02:18:03.520 But I don't want to sit with someone I'm not happy with.

02:18:05.440 Okay, but so the question is, whoever initiates divorce is entitled to nothing.

02:18:09.200 Nothing, yeah.

02:18:09.660 I wouldn't sign that.

02:18:10.820 I wouldn't sign that.

02:18:11.360 You are entitled, you feel entitled to something and divorce.

02:18:13.720 If we both have kids, then yeah, we need to take care of our children.

02:18:16.780 Like, split the house, split whatever we need to split.

02:18:19.240 But I don't think...

02:18:19.660 Even if you're the breadwinner?

02:18:20.900 So, like, let's say you're out earning your husband.

02:18:23.200 I'm sorry?

02:18:23.800 If you were out earning your husband and he wanted to divorce you,

02:18:27.420 you're fine, like, paying him alimony, child support, et cetera?

02:18:30.860 I mean, if that's what it came to, yeah.

02:18:32.200 If I could afford that, yeah, of course.

02:18:34.060 What about you?

02:18:35.060 I agree with her.

02:18:36.160 I think...

02:18:36.500 I mean, I also agree with her as well.

02:18:38.220 I think it's situational.

02:18:39.280 Sure.

02:18:39.480 Just depending.

02:18:40.160 What about you?

02:18:40.780 I agree with them.

02:18:41.840 Like, it's situational.

02:18:44.980 What do you mean situational?

02:18:46.400 Like, overall, just being prepared and if both of us are working.

02:18:50.600 Does that make sense?

02:18:51.460 I think she said something similar like that.

02:18:53.060 Yeah, you did.

02:18:53.760 Yeah.

02:18:54.840 Well, I mean, it depends.

02:18:57.840 Yes, I would sign.

02:18:59.640 Okay.

02:19:01.100 I would because I think that if you're having too many doubts about signing that,

02:19:06.400 you probably shouldn't be making a lifelong commitment to that person

02:19:09.600 because a lot of people, especially younger nowadays,

02:19:12.820 just go into marriage with the idea of, like, oh, well, you know,

02:19:15.920 if it doesn't work out, I can get divorced.

02:19:17.540 That should not even be something you are thinking about at all when you're going

02:19:22.000 into marrying someone.

02:19:23.140 I would sign it.

02:19:25.500 I agree with her.

02:19:27.500 Well, you got to just restate because.

02:19:32.800 I would only sign it depending on the circumstance.

02:19:37.020 So, like.

02:19:37.860 What's the circumstance?

02:19:40.240 If we were both working, I would sign it.

02:19:42.780 However, if I was a stay-at-home mom and let's say he cheated,

02:19:45.760 I don't give that chance.

02:19:47.160 And I think that I wouldn't sign it if he betrayed our marriage.

02:19:53.140 Yeah.

02:19:53.580 So, I think the original, like, 50-50 was because of families, right?

02:19:58.500 But now a lot of people aren't having families anymore,

02:20:00.520 but women are still able to take 50%. 1.00

02:20:02.700 So, I think that's kind of where the issue is.

02:20:05.320 But you should talk about this if you're going to get married to someone

02:20:07.760 and see, do you want to have a family?

02:20:09.820 What does that look like?

02:20:10.640 Are we both going to work?

02:20:11.600 Do you want me to stay at home?

02:20:12.700 And that's why you shouldn't get married as a guy, I think.

02:20:18.100 I don't think you should get married.

02:20:21.680 Don't get married.

02:20:23.080 Who's going to take care of you when you're old? 1.00

02:20:25.340 My long-term monogamous girlfriend.

02:20:27.560 What if she dies before you?

02:20:28.740 Well, I guess so.

02:20:29.260 What does that have to do?

02:20:30.220 Well, yeah, that could be the same thing.

02:20:32.940 Here, let me.

02:20:34.040 So, who objects to my don't-get-married position?

02:20:39.760 Them two, what about you?

02:20:42.280 Any objections?

02:20:43.640 No, I think marriage, too many people just do it just to do it.

02:20:47.940 I think marriage is something people should think about as far as lifestyle, beliefs, family, all that stuff.

02:20:53.460 It's not just the next step in a relationship.

02:20:57.600 And I think that's why divorce is so high.

02:21:00.520 Sacred.

02:21:01.180 To me, it's sacred.

02:21:02.120 And that's why, for me, when I get married, if I get married, then it's-

02:21:06.720 Safer?

02:21:07.620 No, it's sacred.

02:21:08.840 So, for me, the vows are sacred.

02:21:10.680 Like you said, relationships are work.

02:21:12.100 I put my all-in, my relationships letter on the marriage, where when I'm married, I don't believe in divorces.

02:21:19.840 We're working this out.

02:21:21.140 We're figuring it out one way or another.

02:21:22.800 We're a team, so we'll figure it out.

02:21:25.620 Yeah, you say that now.

02:21:27.380 No, I stick it through.

02:21:30.280 I'm one of those, through the good and the bad, I will stand by you.

02:21:35.100 And I've done that in relationships.

02:21:36.240 So, I know as a wife, I will stand by you no matter what.

02:21:39.160 But it does take two.

02:21:40.260 So, I can't save a relationship by myself.

02:21:43.820 So, it has to take two.

02:21:45.180 But I mean, not to poke too much here, but you said your longest relationship was three years.

02:21:50.220 Three and a half years.

02:21:50.720 Because you're 40, I mean, you haven't really, I'm not poking at your age, but I mean, that's a, you have not had like a substantially long-term relationship.

02:22:04.320 Well, I was celibate for about five years that I didn't want to in between those two relationships.

02:22:11.020 Yeah, these were, to me, serious relationships where I tried.

02:22:14.100 Yeah, sure.

02:22:14.780 Three is decent, but I mean, it's not like super long, you know?

02:22:19.280 Well, it's pretty long for me.

02:22:20.800 But again, it wasn't on my end.

02:22:22.660 We tried, and I gave it my all, and the person wasn't ready to give me what I wanted.

02:22:27.620 Sure.

02:22:28.560 Now, I think you guys had maybe some disagreements on the marriage stuff.

02:22:32.880 Yeah, I originally, when I messaged, that was one of the questions that I'd answered, and I said, I was like, oh, that's so sad that you don't want to get married.

02:22:41.820 However, I listened to one of your podcasts, and I can't remember exactly what you had said, but just kind of you saying, I'm not super religious, so I can't even stand on the whole, you know, I'm religious, and I think that's why people should get married.

02:22:55.000 But I do think, for me, personally, you're going into it 100%.

02:22:59.960 It's divorce isn't an option, so for me, that's kind of like that last, like, seal, but no different than, like, a prenup or something like that, too.

02:23:07.600 So, I agree.

02:23:09.360 I understand why you don't want to get married, just because people, I think, it's more disposable for a lot of people than some.

02:23:17.860 Okay.

02:23:18.140 And I can't remember exactly what you said in your podcast, or in one of the shows, as to why you didn't want to get married.

02:23:24.260 If I remember correctly, I think that he said something along the lines of, even if you have a prenup, there's a good chance that it could get thrown out, and she could still take, like, half of everything that he has.

02:23:36.960 So, which I understand that.

02:23:38.240 If you're not religious, and, you know, it doesn't hold a lot of value to you, then don't get married.

02:23:44.900 Well, I mean, there's a whole bunch.

02:23:46.540 I have a lot of justifications for my anti-marriage stance. 0.93

02:23:51.580 I actually don't object to it for people who are religious, but from my own self, outside of religious reasons to get married, I actually don't really see any reason to get married.

02:24:06.680 But I'm open to hearing any challenges to my position.

02:24:10.940 I think you two raised your hands in objection.

02:24:13.340 I'd like to hear your thoughts.

02:24:14.580 So, let's say you have a long-term girlfriend who's loyal to you, and she's pregnant.

02:24:18.580 I don't know if you have any children, but if not, that'll be your first child.

02:24:21.400 And she's asking you for commitment and security.

02:24:24.660 She wants security in the home.

02:24:26.100 She doesn't want to think that you'll leave her for another woman and get another woman pregnant, and that's why she wants marriage. 1.00

02:24:31.620 What would you say to that?

02:24:34.340 What would I say to what?

02:24:35.660 To her saying to her proposal.

02:24:36.940 Saying she wants to get married because, wow, this is a really traditional relationship where she gets pregnant out of wedlock. 0.81

02:24:43.920 But, okay, we can have that conversation.

02:24:46.280 It happens.

02:24:47.080 Yeah, it happens.

02:24:48.180 But, I mean, we're already not a traditional arrangement to begin with.

02:24:51.680 So, what will us being married achieve that – oh, so her.

02:24:59.600 I'm saying to you, okay, let's say –

02:25:00.940 How she benefits.

02:25:01.760 Let's say –

02:25:02.100 How do I benefit?

02:25:03.160 You need to sell –

02:25:04.440 Yes, because you have security.

02:25:04.980 If you want me to –

02:25:05.840 Because you're my security.

02:25:06.820 You need – no, no, no.

02:25:07.820 This is the woman's perspective. 0.95

02:25:09.920 If you want to convince me as a man to get married, how do I stand to benefit?

02:25:15.100 Okay, if you're – if we're together, I'm assuming we're in love.

02:25:17.800 So, if you love me and you love our future child, I want a house together.

02:25:21.380 I want to build together a family.

02:25:22.920 I can give you that without marriage. 0.86

02:25:24.760 I don't want you to leave me for another woman and get her pregnant and go and do the same thing with her that you're doing with me. 1.00

02:25:31.600 Wait a minute.

02:25:32.460 Why does marriage –

02:25:32.960 People do that.

02:25:33.560 Hold on.

02:25:33.940 Why does marriage –

02:25:34.780 Why is it benefiting him?

02:25:36.300 Why is marriage necessary even for that?

02:25:40.240 I mean, I guess being the man of the house, I would assume –

02:25:43.320 Was your argument – was your argument, if I love her enough, I should get married to her?

02:25:47.460 Yeah.

02:25:47.780 If she loves me enough, she should stay with me despite my desires to not get married.

02:25:52.780 I mean, what would you be –

02:25:53.660 Sorry, just to feed with your argument.

02:25:55.140 Why are you opposing marriage?

02:25:56.200 You don't want to be committed to me?

02:25:57.880 You don't want to give me the security that I desire?

02:25:59.700 Why can't I be committed to her outside of marriage?

02:26:02.560 Because I don't believe you.

02:26:03.280 Because that's not –

02:26:03.840 You don't believe me.

02:26:04.540 I don't believe that you won't divorce me.

02:26:06.980 So where does that leave us?

02:26:09.800 It just sounds like –

02:26:11.200 Okay, so I can give you reasons.

02:26:14.020 I can present to you reasons why I'm not really for marriage.

02:26:18.720 I would actually like, though, to hear – I think this is a good starting point.

02:26:23.120 Can you present to me compelling and convincing arguments why I or other men should get married?

02:26:31.180 I think the first thing that came to mind is that how serious a real man is.

02:26:35.220 So if you are a real man who stands on his word, you stand on your word, you stand on what you do in life, and you say, hey, you're the one I want.

02:26:42.020 And I want to live the rest of my life with you.

02:26:43.460 And I don't want anybody else.

02:26:43.760 Why do I need a marriage for that? 1.00

02:26:44.920 Why do I need a marriage for that? 1.00

02:26:46.000 But if you're saying that, prove it.

02:26:47.440 Show by your actions you have the action to put my hand in wedlock as in a commitment.

02:26:53.180 A commitment is to severe –

02:26:54.440 Okay.

02:26:56.180 I think that that's totally fair.

02:26:58.200 Marriage.

02:26:58.520 Let me give you a –

02:26:59.280 Commitment is marriage.

02:27:00.960 Yeah.

02:27:01.380 Go ahead.

02:27:01.900 Let me give you a very quick, easy rebuttal to this, and I'm just curious.

02:27:05.640 Okay.

02:27:06.660 So let's assume the man says, you're the one that I want forever.

02:27:10.540 They think that you're great.

02:27:11.600 You're the greatest ever.

02:27:12.640 I want to only be with you for the rest of my life, and I want to commit to that.

02:27:16.320 Will you commit to give him a prenup so that if you divorce him, you get nothing?

02:27:21.200 Is this a question?

02:27:21.800 Is this a question?

02:27:22.920 Yeah.

02:27:23.520 It sounded like a statement, but okay.

02:27:25.500 Would you?

02:27:26.180 Would you commit to a prenup so that you get nothing if there was a divorce?

02:27:30.380 No.

02:27:30.400 I already said no.

02:27:31.280 I don't agree with someone signing into marriage and not getting anything.

02:27:34.740 If you both put in work and you just leave the marriage with nothing, I don't think that's fair.

02:27:37.880 Well, that's really quite the strange argument then to say, well, wait.

02:27:41.640 I expect this lifetime commitment from you in order to prove and demonstrate that you love me.

02:27:46.960 Where's the demonstration of love from you?

02:27:50.320 What do you mean, where is the demonstration?

02:27:51.840 I want you to commit to me.

02:27:52.500 Couldn't you demonstrate that you were equally as serious by saying, it's fine.

02:27:57.560 I would sign a prenup because I know what I'm doing in life.

02:28:01.060 If you ask a question, you have to give me a second to answer the question.

02:28:04.740 Yeah, I would sign a prenup.

02:28:06.020 Yeah, I know.

02:28:06.780 So anyway, hang on.

02:28:07.640 Calm down.

02:28:08.240 Let me finish.

02:28:09.460 Chill out.

02:28:10.080 So if the argument is to say, hey, I need a commitment from a man so he only picks me, okay, that's it.

02:28:20.320 It's just me.

02:28:21.160 And that's his demonstration he loves me.

02:28:23.380 Couldn't the man then equally say that the demonstration from the woman to show that she loves him is that there's any sort of infidelity, cold bed, or financial irresponsibility, things like this, she leaves with nothing regardless of who initiates the divorce.

02:28:38.420 Yes, I agree.

02:28:39.640 Because that's just showing, like, you're trying to say, okay, I'm going to be a real man to you, but I want to make sure you have my back no matter if you change as a person.

02:28:46.960 You signing this is showing me you're real, that you would never do this.

02:28:49.480 So if you do do this, then that's on you.

02:28:51.220 Like, if you do cheat on me, if you do not take care of your money, if you do not take care of my kids, do not take care of me as your husband, then, yeah, that's on her as a wife. 1.00

02:28:58.080 Then why would there be a requirement of marriage at all?

02:29:00.440 Because that's commitment.

02:29:02.600 Yeah, but you can make those same commitments.

02:29:05.760 There's now no safeguards.

02:29:07.480 So if you made the commitment external to marriage, how is that not the exact same thing as you're making a commitment in marriage?

02:29:13.040 It's a sacred, it's holy matrimony.

02:29:14.960 It's like saying, okay, we're dating is the same thing as us being married.

02:29:18.520 How is that the same?

02:29:19.620 You're taking the vow.

02:29:20.780 It's not about the money.

02:29:22.540 You're turning marriage into money.

02:29:24.640 If you ask the question, you have to let me answer it.

02:29:28.520 Calm down, okay?

02:29:30.560 So the question which was asked is, how is this the same?

02:29:34.120 We're talking about commitment.

02:29:36.060 So if you are dating, you say, I want to commit to you for life, but I just don't want to do the marriage thing.

02:29:42.380 And if we do do the marriage thing, there's not going to be any protections for you anyway because you agree to sign them all away. 0.59

02:29:48.280 So what would be the distinction exactly?

02:29:51.220 It's like comparing a baby mama to a wife or like this is my wife and this is my kid or this is my baby mama and we live together.

02:29:58.740 Is that the same?

02:30:00.440 Is that the same?

02:30:01.280 I don't see why you couldn't have a commitment with a woman.

02:30:05.460 Okay.

02:30:06.060 Okay.

02:30:06.420 Listen, listen.

02:30:07.660 Yes.

02:30:08.320 Logically, this could be the exact same.

02:30:10.120 It would logically be the exact same to say I'm married to you or I'm committing to you for life and you have the same exact outcome both ways.

02:30:18.920 How is that not the same thing?

02:30:20.080 It's absolutely not the same thing because marriage is a vow.

02:30:23.440 It's a holy matrimony. 0.98

02:30:24.500 If you don't take your word seriously as a man, hey, I would love to, I want to be with you the rest of my life.

02:30:28.780 Holy and first religious.

02:30:30.300 No, no, no.

02:30:30.600 It doesn't have to be.

02:30:30.900 We're talking about a secular argument.

02:30:32.700 Well, then it's not holy.

02:30:33.860 If it's secular, it can't be holy. 0.69

02:30:35.380 Marriage is holy because you're actually taking it home and putting in your protection over for your life and your death.

02:30:40.720 After you die, you still, that's your wife. 0.99

02:30:42.860 If you die, that was your wife. 0.99

02:30:43.940 How would that be holy, absent religion? 1.00

02:30:47.080 It doesn't have to do to religion.

02:30:48.960 Yeah, that's what we're talking about is secular marriage.

02:30:51.380 We're not talking about religious marriage.

02:30:52.860 It's taking your body, your mind, and everything into this person.

02:30:54.680 The problem is you're arguing against arguments I'm not making.

02:30:58.680 So we're talking specifically about secular.

02:31:00.880 We're talking about specifically secular marriage.

02:31:03.320 Secular.

02:31:03.860 You know what the word secular means?

02:31:05.720 Please inform me.

02:31:07.040 You don't know what it means, do you?

02:31:08.500 You don't actually know what secular means.

02:31:11.060 Tell me what secular means.

02:31:11.600 I could take an estimated guess.

02:31:12.640 I could take an estimated guess, but I just said please inform me.

02:31:14.160 Okay, then take an estimated guess, as you put it.

02:31:18.580 It would be an educated guess, but you could take an estimated guess.

02:31:21.920 What is your estimated guess about what secular means?

02:31:26.060 One, like to be in one, secular.

02:31:28.760 Specific?

02:31:29.380 Specified?

02:31:29.880 Specific?

02:31:30.340 I don't know.

02:31:31.120 One is.

02:31:31.860 I don't know.

02:31:32.940 Erroneous.

02:31:34.260 Erroneous.

02:31:36.440 I got to take a break after that one.

02:31:38.360 Okay, I'll take over.

02:31:39.500 I'll take over here for a second.

02:31:40.900 Do you want kids?

02:31:42.560 Hold on.

02:31:43.380 So, okay.

02:31:44.240 Secular, that would be like a-religious, not religious. 0.88

02:31:48.620 Oh, I've never heard of that term.

02:31:50.860 You guys got to speak into the mics.

02:31:52.360 You're too far away.

02:31:53.360 Sorry.

02:31:53.820 Never heard of the term, but thank you for educating me.

02:31:56.420 Thank you.

02:31:57.340 You've never heard the term secular?

02:31:58.980 Not in this tense, no.

02:32:00.460 Okay.

02:32:01.580 In any, well, what tense have you heard secular in?

02:32:05.220 No tense.

02:32:05.960 No tense.

02:32:06.460 No tense.

02:32:06.780 Okay, you got it.

02:32:07.420 You got it, okay?

02:32:08.420 This was your first win.

02:32:09.560 Thank you.

02:32:10.360 Okay, so.

02:32:11.220 So, secular just means non-religious.

02:32:14.580 Okay.

02:32:14.860 Not specific.

02:32:15.840 Okay.

02:32:16.040 It means non-religious. 0.95

02:32:17.560 I did say that, non-specific.

02:32:18.680 I did say that was my estimate, yes.

02:32:20.320 Well, yeah, being in a marriage, I feel like.

02:32:22.280 It's not, non-specific.

02:32:24.020 It doesn't mean non-specific.

02:32:25.320 I feel like if you're married and you have a baby mama, that's the same. 0.78

02:32:28.280 Oh, okay.

02:32:28.500 Thank you for the clear.

02:32:29.220 It's not the same.

02:32:30.180 Like, it's just not.

02:32:32.100 Okay.

02:32:32.500 It's not the same, I guess.

02:32:36.020 It's just college.

02:32:36.660 Okay.

02:32:36.920 So, I've yet to hear an actual compelling argument why I should get married.

02:32:41.880 Do you want kids?

02:32:42.640 Do you want kids?

02:32:43.540 I think kids is a big thing.

02:32:44.940 That's not.

02:32:44.980 Sure.

02:32:45.340 Yeah.

02:32:45.860 I want seven kids.

02:32:46.900 All right.

02:32:47.140 If you want seven kids, what's the last name for the children?

02:32:51.360 The girlfriend or yours?

02:32:52.700 And would it bother you, since she's the one carrying them, if she just said, well, I want

02:32:56.940 them to have the same last name as me, and now you did not share the same last name as

02:33:00.300 your children?

02:33:01.460 I think that's a good reason, too.

02:33:03.720 You can.

02:33:04.280 Why would that be a requirement of marriage?

02:33:06.800 I'll just rebut it myself.

02:33:08.440 So, okay.

02:33:09.500 First off, you don't need to be married in order for your children to take your last name.

02:33:15.820 But what about the girlfriend?

02:33:17.080 Yeah.

02:33:17.360 What do you mean?

02:33:17.700 Then she gets excluded.

02:33:18.600 Now she doesn't share the same last name as her own children.

02:33:21.260 Mm-hmm.

02:33:22.100 Mm-hmm.

02:33:23.320 What does that have to do with anything?

02:33:25.240 Why would the kids take your last name instead of your girlfriend? 1.00

02:33:30.380 What?

02:33:30.920 So, what's your argument here?

02:33:32.260 If I don't marry her, she won't put... 0.95

02:33:34.240 Well, that's what I'm saying.

02:33:35.240 So, if you don't marry...

02:33:36.320 Okay, cool.

02:33:36.860 Then, you know what?

02:33:38.040 We can go 50-50 on everything.

02:33:40.460 Hyphenated.

02:33:41.360 And she can protect us in the event of a home invasion.

02:33:45.620 Fine.

02:33:45.940 That's cool.

02:33:47.620 Yes, you can put the father's last name on the birth certificate, even if you're not

02:33:51.760 married.

02:33:52.200 Yeah, you don't need to be married. 0.81

02:33:52.540 No, I know that.

02:33:53.360 I know that.

02:33:53.980 But who gets to choose the last name is what I'm saying.

02:33:58.220 I know you choose.

02:33:58.480 So, if you were to say, we're in a committed relationship, and I want the children before

02:34:02.440 we have them to have my last name, and you agree to it, why would that require marriage?

02:34:08.400 Yeah, that's true.

02:34:09.080 If you agree to it.

02:34:09.960 It doesn't require marriage.

02:34:10.800 Honestly, that's if you agree to it.

02:34:11.720 That's if you agree to it.

02:34:12.860 But the thing is, is like what she's saying is these questions wouldn't even happen if you're

02:34:17.000 married. 0.98

02:34:17.180 Even if we're fucking married, she can still say, she doesn't want my name. 0.99

02:34:21.560 Thanks. 1.00

02:34:21.780 So, that's a bullshit argument. 0.99

02:34:23.180 No, it would be an automatic thing. 1.00

02:34:24.200 That's a fucking toaster brain argument. 0.99

02:34:25.700 No, but that is true. 0.99

02:34:26.000 Even if we're married, she can say, I want hyphenation.

02:34:28.880 I want them to have my last name.

02:34:31.120 This is why it's important.

02:34:32.300 I think if you are going to get married, that's why I don't think marriage is for everyone,

02:34:35.240 but if you are going to get married, you should talk about these things.

02:34:37.220 But it's not a compelling argument.

02:34:38.740 It may not be for you, but I know if I had kids, it would really bother me if they didn't

02:34:41.920 share the same last name as me.

02:34:43.220 And I also don't believe in hyphenating names, so I took my husband's last name.

02:34:47.140 So, if I'm pregnant with your child, and you don't want to get married to me, I'm going

02:34:50.820 to just leave you and go to the next with your child in my stomach. 0.99

02:34:52.620 That's a major L for you.

02:34:54.200 But no, it's like, I want to find someone that's going to build a family with me.

02:34:57.240 She's going to get married.

02:34:57.960 And you're not putting a ring on it.

02:34:59.260 That's not a major L.

02:34:59.600 You're not putting a ring on it like Beyonce said.

02:35:01.500 So, what's the point of me and you being together?

02:35:03.600 You're just leading me on.

02:35:04.540 You're just giving me a fantasy of a home.

02:35:06.960 Like, oh, I'm playing wife and husband, but you're not trying to commit.

02:35:10.620 You guys break up.

02:35:11.900 There's no, okay, we're broken up.

02:35:14.080 This is still not a game.

02:35:15.160 You still fail to make a compelling reason why I ought to get married.

02:35:19.280 You should get married, which is like...

02:35:20.860 Like, if you want your woman to stay with you for a woman, I know. 1.00

02:35:22.680 This is all from the female viewpoint. 0.85

02:35:24.560 Me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me.

02:35:26.220 I have not heard a compelling reason why I, as a man, should get married.

02:35:29.780 You said you want someone to take care of you when you're old.

02:35:32.100 I never said that.

02:35:32.920 I literally never even said that.

02:35:34.560 I don't know what you said.

02:35:35.580 You said, oh, who's going to take care of you?

02:35:37.480 You're like, oh, my monogamous girlfriend or something like that. 0.89

02:35:40.060 That was a question posed to me by somebody else.

02:35:41.880 I never said that.

02:35:43.000 In fact, I'll even engage with that.

02:35:44.480 I don't need marriage to have that.

02:35:46.460 What's your next point?

02:35:47.260 I have one point that I feel like you can debunk it if you like.

02:35:51.040 But if you love someone, you truly love them to the bottom of your heart,

02:35:55.880 and you want to be with them for the rest of your life,

02:35:57.840 why do you not want to marry her?

02:35:59.380 Why doesn't she, if she really loves me, 0.99

02:36:01.420 not want to do some bullshit government thing 0.96

02:36:04.580 which involves the state in our relationship? 0.98

02:36:06.980 It doesn't have to be government.

02:36:08.520 It could be something sacred, like going to a temple

02:36:10.840 or just going to Hawaii and having some person.

02:36:13.300 That's why the example is non-religious.

02:36:15.020 I feel like relationship is regardless sacred, too.

02:36:16.480 What is a Goldie and Han? 0.92

02:36:16.880 Yeah, but that's why the example is non-religious.

02:36:19.100 So what he's saying is non-religious marriage.

02:36:21.180 What's Goldie and Han and Kurt Russell?

02:36:21.620 Who have been together for 20 years?

02:36:23.420 He's granting.

02:36:24.180 Yeah, he's right.

02:36:24.960 Yeah, if it's non-religious, then it doesn't matter.

02:36:26.680 Sure, that's a great reason to do it.

02:36:28.780 But if you're not religious,

02:36:30.320 what would the actual compelling argument be?

02:36:32.740 Nothing.

02:36:33.500 It's literally for tax benefits.

02:36:34.920 Yeah, no, so he's right.

02:36:36.200 Yeah, you don't have to get married

02:36:37.340 if you don't have that spiritual faith

02:36:39.040 that this is something important.

02:36:41.320 So if there is no religious or spiritual backing

02:36:45.080 to the marriage, then he is absolutely right.

02:36:46.780 Men shouldn't get married 1.00

02:36:47.620 if they don't have that spiritual faith.

02:36:49.620 It's not even just men.

02:36:50.340 It's men or women.

02:36:51.280 Like I was saying, I don't know who...

02:36:53.700 Well, hold on.

02:36:54.360 If the man's the breadwinner,

02:36:55.520 women have absolutely everything to gain 1.00

02:36:57.940 by getting married.

02:36:59.580 Well, yeah, I mean, if you want the protection provider.

02:37:02.160 Celebrity women, like Cher. 0.74

02:37:03.280 Men are overwhelmingly breadwinners 0.99

02:37:05.580 in relationships.

02:37:06.800 I mean, I'm all for the gender roles 1.00

02:37:09.660 when it comes to that.

02:37:11.320 Not in this generation.

02:37:12.120 Not in this. 0.91

02:37:12.960 Well, that's because women are a lot more masculine 1.00

02:37:14.980 and feminism has fucked that up. 1.00

02:37:16.320 So that's a whole different story. 0.93

02:37:17.720 Like I, when I get married,

02:37:19.860 the reason why, like you were saying,

02:37:21.180 the age thing, I don't want to settle.

02:37:23.420 I'd rather be single and be happy

02:37:25.120 than settle for something I don't want.

02:37:26.620 I want a true protector and provider

02:37:29.260 because I will play my role as the wife,

02:37:31.920 to be the piece, to be the nurturer,

02:37:34.440 to take care of the home,

02:37:35.360 take care of the kids.

02:37:36.320 And if I can't have that,

02:37:37.360 then I don't want that.

02:37:38.260 Like, same thing with that goes.

02:37:40.000 But I don't need to,

02:37:40.840 the society's not going to put a thing on me

02:37:42.320 that you need to be married,

02:37:43.240 you need to have kids.

02:37:43.900 No, I don't need to do any of that.

02:37:45.340 If it's with the right person

02:37:46.980 and I get everything that I want,

02:37:48.540 100%, I will be all for it.

02:37:50.320 If not, I'm happy taking care of myself,

02:37:52.600 providing for myself.

02:37:53.460 If you're not adding value to it,

02:37:54.900 if you're not a protector and provider,

02:37:56.280 then I'm going to continue to protect

02:37:57.340 and provide for myself.

02:37:58.780 Why do I need a man? 1.00

02:37:59.600 A man has a true...

02:38:01.180 Killer of Serial donated $200.

02:38:03.980 What's up, Killer?

02:38:04.420 What attitude do you bring to the relationship

02:38:06.680 that is not selfish in context?

02:38:09.480 Perhaps your boyfriend feels detached

02:38:11.780 from the idea based on a rocky past.

02:38:14.580 Is he or are you afraid to break it off?

02:38:16.880 Why?

02:38:18.180 Yo, Killer of Serial, thank you, man.

02:38:19.580 Appreciate it.

02:38:20.020 Really good to see you in the chat, man.

02:38:21.260 You are...

02:38:21.780 He's a brave and a decent man.

02:38:23.400 He's a pioneer.

02:38:24.260 What attitude do you bring to the relationship

02:38:26.060 that is not selfish?

02:38:26.960 Wait, who's this directed to?

02:38:28.500 So, perhaps your boyfriend...

02:38:31.340 I think maybe girls in general.

02:38:34.840 Killer of Serial.

02:38:35.860 What attitude do you bring to the relationship?

02:38:38.280 Perhaps your boyfriend feels detached

02:38:39.580 from the idea based on a rocky past.

02:38:41.840 Is he or are you afraid to break it off?

02:38:44.200 Why?

02:38:44.980 Maybe this is a previous conversation

02:38:46.740 when we had with the breakup.

02:38:48.120 Anyone can break up.

02:38:49.120 It could be.

02:38:49.500 Oh, about marriage.

02:38:50.360 But I wanted to ask you something

02:38:51.480 after you were done speaking.

02:38:53.400 I'm ready.

02:38:53.880 Oh, so with his point,

02:38:56.080 like, because I was saying

02:38:57.180 marriage should be, like, holy and sacred.

02:38:59.720 Like, that has to do with non-religious... 0.92

02:39:02.560 Or that has to do with religious

02:39:03.500 or a spiritual belief of something higher.

02:39:05.940 But he was saying,

02:39:07.120 no, I'm talking about as in just non-religious, 0.81

02:39:10.080 nothing to do with spirituality,

02:39:11.160 just a woman and a man.

02:39:12.480 I don't want to get married.

02:39:13.440 Do you believe that he is,

02:39:15.220 he is, like, accurate in that standpoint?

02:39:17.820 Like, of him saying that there's no reason

02:39:19.400 for women and men to get married.

02:39:21.360 I mean, there's no religious 0.99

02:39:22.320 or spiritual foundation.

02:39:23.820 Really, there's...

02:39:24.940 As far as when it comes to financial benefits,

02:39:27.060 there really isn't any for the man

02:39:29.160 to do that because as a man...

02:39:31.020 Or a bunch of risk.

02:39:32.020 Yeah, they're the protector

02:39:33.420 and the providers, right?

02:39:35.060 So they have to take care

02:39:37.560 of the whole family.

02:39:38.480 So it's like, really,

02:39:39.860 there isn't a benefit.

02:39:40.800 Yes, have someone to take care of you,

02:39:42.460 be your peace, be your nurturer.

02:39:43.760 You can have all those

02:39:44.600 with the relationship.

02:39:45.560 I think the security of the marriage

02:39:47.000 comes in that, hey,

02:39:47.780 we are taking a vow.

02:39:49.040 Yes, relationships,

02:39:49.740 you can recommit to yourself.

02:39:51.180 Like I was saying,

02:39:51.800 what is it, Goldie Hawn?

02:39:52.620 Is it Kurt Russell?

02:39:53.860 They've been together for 20 years.

02:39:55.520 They've never gotten married.

02:39:56.840 They just choose to be together every year.

02:39:59.940 And you can have that, too.

02:40:00.960 So I feel like it's...

02:40:02.240 I don't know.

02:40:03.000 With me,

02:40:04.660 I just don't believe in divorces.

02:40:06.220 So for me,

02:40:06.700 if I'm going to get married,

02:40:07.700 it's all in.

02:40:08.580 I want everything I have

02:40:09.680 and we're going to put in the work.

02:40:11.540 So if not,

02:40:12.260 then I'm not really in a rush

02:40:14.520 or thing about marriage either,

02:40:16.040 to be honest with you.

02:40:16.820 And so with that whole thing, though,

02:40:19.300 women reserve the right 1.00

02:40:20.340 at any moment

02:40:21.180 to change their minds.

02:40:22.840 So let me ask you guys a question.

02:40:24.420 Do you think

02:40:25.040 a divorce would be justified 0.98

02:40:27.460 if the woman was just 1.00

02:40:29.220 vaguely unhappy?

02:40:31.280 So the guy treats her well,

02:40:33.740 provides for the wife

02:40:35.520 and the kids,

02:40:36.940 isn't abusive in any way.

02:40:38.560 Maybe he's just boring.

02:40:39.960 She's unhappy.

02:40:41.220 She's just vaguely unhappy.

02:40:42.540 He's not abusive.

02:40:43.260 He actually treats her perfectly,

02:40:44.860 but she's vaguely unhappy.

02:40:47.140 Is that enough justification

02:40:48.600 for her to get a divorce? 1.00

02:40:49.980 No.

02:40:50.380 Change perspective.

02:40:51.160 Okay.

02:40:51.600 That's plenty of...

02:40:56.640 Very often,

02:40:57.900 that's precisely the reason

02:40:59.400 for women wanting

02:41:00.660 to get the divorce.

02:41:01.680 There's no evidence

02:41:02.460 of any abuse whatsoever.

02:41:04.240 The woman is just vaguely unhappy.

02:41:07.180 Well, see...

02:41:07.660 And needs to find herself. 1.00

02:41:09.140 Yeah, but see,

02:41:09.560 I feel like it's the same thing.

02:41:11.000 Men can change their minds as well.

02:41:12.220 Like in the relationship

02:41:13.260 that I was,

02:41:14.040 he was the one

02:41:14.540 that kept changing his mind

02:41:15.540 and coming back.

02:41:16.100 It's like making the permanent decisions

02:41:17.560 on temporary emotions.

02:41:18.500 And it's like,

02:41:18.800 you can't do that.

02:41:19.700 Anyone can change their mind

02:41:20.680 at any time.

02:41:21.500 But it's...

02:41:22.500 I think the marriage

02:41:23.660 is more of the security

02:41:24.980 where, yeah,

02:41:25.760 you can walk away

02:41:26.480 from the marriage a lot

02:41:27.820 at any time as well,

02:41:30.340 but there's a lot more to lose.

02:41:32.180 So you're more committed

02:41:33.200 into working it out

02:41:34.940 as opposed to a relationship.

02:41:35.900 Because if you walk away

02:41:36.760 from a relationship,

02:41:37.520 you're not really losing much.

02:41:39.840 You are, obviously,

02:41:40.700 so it gives the woman 0.97

02:41:41.740 or the breadwinner,

02:41:43.020 well,

02:41:43.680 it gives the woman 0.97

02:41:44.440 massive leverage

02:41:45.740 to basically bully the man around

02:41:48.260 in the relationship.

02:41:49.820 Yeah, but I mean,

02:41:50.540 if that's not...

02:41:51.160 Yes, necessarily.

02:41:52.440 Well, if you have children,

02:41:53.440 like, to stay together,

02:41:54.700 like,

02:41:55.280 and to raise the kids together

02:41:56.620 and make a, like,

02:41:57.300 a happy home,

02:41:58.460 even if you necessarily

02:41:59.420 aren't happy,

02:42:00.200 that takes a lot

02:42:00.820 of strength and courage.

02:42:01.980 And to grow old together,

02:42:03.440 like you guys are old 0.78

02:42:04.460 and taking care of one another,

02:42:05.540 I don't necessarily think

02:42:07.060 that old people 1.00

02:42:08.640 love each other

02:42:09.660 like the first day

02:42:10.360 they got married.

02:42:11.360 Like, love changes over time.

02:42:12.780 It's like the maturity.

02:42:13.980 Having that maturity

02:42:14.700 and courage to stay

02:42:15.760 and build that family

02:42:16.720 because we're a family

02:42:17.580 and we don't want

02:42:18.400 to break the family.

02:42:18.700 Why do I need a marriage

02:42:19.880 for that?

02:42:20.860 Because it's strength.

02:42:21.580 It strengthens the family.

02:42:22.820 I truly believe

02:42:23.940 that strengthens the family.

02:42:25.200 Did we just hear 1.00

02:42:26.160 the who hurt you shit? 1.00

02:42:27.300 I was kidding. 1.00

02:42:27.660 Did I just hear 1.00

02:42:28.400 the who hurt you shit? 1.00

02:42:30.220 Who hurt you, Brian? 1.00

02:42:31.520 Did you hear

02:42:32.000 I just say who hurt you?

02:42:33.140 Who hurt you?

02:42:34.100 Well, by the way,

02:42:35.500 Killa of Serial,

02:42:38.380 can you shoot me a DM

02:42:39.340 on Instagram?

02:42:41.600 Because I didn't want to,

02:42:42.260 I know you sent in a TTS.

02:42:43.680 Don't want to skip over it.

02:42:45.100 I just,

02:42:45.660 perhaps could you provide

02:42:46.420 a bit more clarification?

02:42:47.840 Feel free to DM

02:42:48.580 at whatever on Instagram.

02:42:49.860 I'll be on the lookout for it.

02:42:51.940 I don't know

02:42:52.480 if we've DMed before.

02:42:53.540 Just bump up our messages,

02:42:54.920 but I don't want

02:42:55.760 to just skip over it.

02:42:56.580 So if you can provide,

02:42:57.800 is this directed

02:42:58.480 at somebody specific,

02:42:59.940 Killa? 0.91

02:43:00.700 Anyways.

02:43:01.980 Yeah, I still,

02:43:02.820 yeah,

02:43:04.460 just don't.

02:43:05.420 I think you should

02:43:06.260 not get married.

02:43:07.860 Like,

02:43:08.100 if that's not what

02:43:08.900 you want for yourself,

02:43:10.120 then you should get

02:43:10.940 everything that you

02:43:11.660 do want for yourself.

02:43:13.120 Like,

02:43:13.480 we should not convince you.

02:43:15.240 Like,

02:43:15.420 you should want

02:43:16.100 to convince someone.

02:43:16.960 I just don't think

02:43:17.640 you will truly be happy

02:43:19.380 with your life

02:43:20.020 if you don't get married.

02:43:20.800 Why?

02:43:21.100 No.

02:43:21.600 I feel like it's

02:43:22.500 a part of happiness.

02:43:23.500 Tell me,

02:43:24.000 okay,

02:43:24.340 here's a different question.

02:43:25.880 Hold on,

02:43:26.560 here's a different question.

02:43:28.000 What do I get

02:43:30.360 in a marriage

02:43:31.660 that I can't get

02:43:32.680 from a long-term

02:43:33.440 monogamous relationship? 0.68

02:43:34.960 The security and commitment.

02:43:36.420 What security?

02:43:37.320 I would actually,

02:43:38.380 I actually think,

02:43:39.680 what does security mean

02:43:39.760 in a marriage?

02:43:40.560 No,

02:43:40.720 but I could just,

02:43:41.320 I could just make

02:43:41.980 the argument,

02:43:42.940 I can make the argument

02:43:43.840 that simply by virtue

02:43:46.100 of me getting married,

02:43:47.440 I've now introduced

02:43:49.500 an incentive to the woman. 0.87

02:43:51.880 Let's say I'm,

02:43:52.580 I mean,

02:43:54.200 unless a woman's 1.00

02:43:55.320 making a lot of money,

02:43:56.080 I'm probably going to be

02:43:57.140 out earning her significantly.

02:43:59.520 So,

02:44:00.380 by marrying her,

02:44:02.520 I've now introduced

02:44:03.360 an incentive where

02:44:04.460 if she does divorce me

02:44:05.920 and we've been married

02:44:07.380 for a long enough

02:44:07.960 period of time,

02:44:08.980 she gets a financial payment

02:44:11.140 for divorcing me.

02:44:13.100 Whereas if she breaks up

02:44:14.200 with me

02:44:14.500 and we're in a relationship,

02:44:17.120 then she actually has

02:44:18.280 a loss on her end.

02:44:20.140 So,

02:44:20.540 are you scared

02:44:21.240 of relationships?

02:44:22.320 Not scared of relationships

02:44:23.440 at all.

02:44:24.060 Are you scared

02:44:24.540 of the financial loss?

02:44:25.580 Are you scared

02:44:26.260 of divorce?

02:44:27.260 Are you scared

02:44:27.860 of losing something

02:44:29.240 or divorce?

02:44:30.540 He's right.

02:44:31.060 It's just a more

02:44:31.600 honorable thing.

02:44:32.300 Like I said,

02:44:32.600 that was my main point

02:44:33.360 was being a real man.

02:44:34.460 That was my first point.

02:44:35.660 It's more honorable.

02:44:36.920 It's like this,

02:44:37.360 I don't know how

02:44:38.140 your relationships,

02:44:40.220 I don't know how

02:44:40.680 your relationships work.

02:44:41.640 One at a time,

02:44:41.900 one at a time.

02:44:42.400 I don't think,

02:44:43.020 I don't know how

02:44:43.380 your relationships work.

02:44:44.300 Like,

02:44:44.700 if you're dating someone,

02:44:45.500 does she move in with you?

02:44:46.220 Does she live with you?

02:44:46.840 I don't even know.

02:44:47.600 Sure.

02:44:47.860 But in a marriage,

02:44:49.140 if you're dating someone,

02:44:50.620 they shouldn't just

02:44:51.200 automatically move in with you

02:44:52.360 and live with you 24-7.

02:44:53.380 I feel like that's

02:44:53.860 just too fast.

02:44:54.780 But when you're married,

02:44:55.500 you take that step like,

02:44:56.580 okay,

02:44:56.760 let's live together

02:44:57.440 and let's build a family,

02:44:58.640 let's have kids,

02:44:59.660 let's all cook for you

02:45:00.740 breakfast, lunch,

02:45:01.480 and dinner,

02:45:01.820 whatever.

02:45:02.000 Oh, I can get all of that

02:45:03.020 without marriage.

02:45:03.620 I can't without marriage,

02:45:04.440 but it's not,

02:45:05.800 I wouldn't say

02:45:06.440 that's fulfilling.

02:45:07.480 It's not,

02:45:07.840 it's not,

02:45:08.860 there's no feeling.

02:45:10.400 It's just not the same.

02:45:11.460 It's not the highest

02:45:12.140 you could go.

02:45:12.520 Let's say there's a mountain,

02:45:13.440 right?

02:45:13.840 And you know,

02:45:14.320 everyone knows

02:45:15.000 the mountain is the height,

02:45:16.380 the point of the mountain,

02:45:17.120 the tip of the mountain

02:45:17.680 is the highest point.

02:45:19.140 Everybody knows marriage

02:45:20.120 is the highest form

02:45:20.940 of commitment.

02:45:21.540 Am I wrong?

02:45:23.000 Is marriage,

02:45:23.840 yes or no,

02:45:24.420 is marriage the highest

02:45:25.420 form of commitment?

02:45:26.500 I could think of higher

02:45:27.140 forms of commitment.

02:45:27.800 From a secular perspective,

02:45:30.200 no.

02:45:30.860 I'm sorry?

02:45:31.640 He said from a secular

02:45:32.400 perspective,

02:45:33.060 no.

02:45:33.240 What is,

02:45:34.040 okay,

02:45:34.200 so what is the highest

02:45:35.360 form of commitment

02:45:36.040 in a secular perspective?

02:45:38.420 It would just be

02:45:39.100 whatever two human beings

02:45:40.220 agreed it was.

02:45:41.080 No.

02:45:41.240 So if you said,

02:45:42.480 okay,

02:45:43.200 well,

02:45:43.520 can I get my answer out

02:45:44.800 before you spurg again?

02:45:46.500 So anyway,

02:45:48.240 yes,

02:45:50.200 if two secularists

02:45:52.020 agreed that they were

02:45:53.120 committed to each other

02:45:54.300 and that they were

02:45:55.160 the highest form

02:45:56.200 they could ever be,

02:45:57.560 how could you ever

02:45:58.300 demonstrate that they weren't?

02:46:01.460 Because I just don't

02:46:02.320 truly believe that you,

02:46:03.100 will feel secure

02:46:04.200 with your man.

02:46:05.780 She will feel secure?

02:46:07.280 Yeah,

02:46:07.580 I don't think she will.

02:46:08.240 I don't think that.

02:46:08.640 Your argument is

02:46:09.280 because I feel,

02:46:10.000 oh,

02:46:10.220 I feel like you're wrong.

02:46:11.300 Oh,

02:46:11.700 well,

02:46:11.900 so as long as we just feel,

02:46:13.680 then I guess it's okay,

02:46:14.940 right?

02:46:15.380 You feel like that,

02:46:16.340 I feel like you're wrong.

02:46:17.300 I've donated $200.

02:46:19.180 Thank you,

02:46:19.560 question for panel.

02:46:20.980 If we get married tomorrow,

02:46:22.780 what will you bring

02:46:23.520 to the marriage

02:46:24.140 that will make it

02:46:24.900 very hard for any man

02:46:26.240 to want to have

02:46:27.080 divorce on the mind?

02:46:28.760 What are you willing

02:46:29.680 to sacrifice?

02:46:30.980 We'll go around the table

02:46:31.860 on this.

02:46:32.280 Go ahead.

02:46:34.280 So my thing's

02:46:35.520 a little bit weird,

02:46:36.180 but I give my husband,

02:46:37.360 and I've done this

02:46:38.000 for five years,

02:46:38.620 every single night

02:46:39.360 without skipping a night,

02:46:40.240 but I give him

02:46:40.920 a foot massage

02:46:41.720 every night before bed

02:46:42.700 and then give him

02:46:43.300 a back massage

02:46:43.900 every night.

02:46:44.440 I make drinks for him.

02:46:46.780 I mean,

02:46:47.020 I basically cater

02:46:48.220 to everything he needs

02:46:49.120 because he is the breadwinner,

02:46:50.500 and my job

02:46:51.960 is to basically

02:46:52.600 distress him

02:46:53.260 because he's always stressed.

02:46:55.460 That's it.

02:46:56.400 What you're providing

02:46:57.340 is very good.

02:46:58.740 I will grant you that,

02:47:00.400 but you don't need

02:47:01.480 marriage to have it,

02:47:02.720 so go ahead.

02:47:04.060 Oh, Lord.

02:47:04.980 Okay.

02:47:06.280 I would bring

02:47:07.360 definitely

02:47:08.140 a spiritual bond

02:47:09.660 to the table.

02:47:10.600 I feel like

02:47:11.440 I wouldn't even be

02:47:12.440 that far in a situation

02:47:13.640 with somebody

02:47:14.240 if they didn't have

02:47:15.280 traditional values

02:47:16.700 or a spiritual relationship

02:47:19.500 with whatever it is.

02:47:20.680 It doesn't have to be

02:47:21.520 what I'm spiritual with,

02:47:23.280 so I feel like

02:47:24.340 what I would bring

02:47:24.960 to the table

02:47:25.480 would definitely be

02:47:26.420 being able to

02:47:27.640 communicate with them

02:47:29.480 where they can't

02:47:30.200 with others,

02:47:30.900 being able to talk

02:47:31.880 to them

02:47:32.440 where they can't

02:47:33.080 with others,

02:47:33.740 and opening up

02:47:34.460 where they can't

02:47:35.000 with others.

02:47:35.860 I want it to be

02:47:36.660 something that,

02:47:37.580 like,

02:47:38.460 makes us special

02:47:40.160 and makes us

02:47:41.720 seek a higher form,

02:47:43.340 and I think

02:47:44.000 that that's something

02:47:44.640 you can't just do

02:47:45.540 with everybody else.

02:47:47.020 What about you?

02:47:47.700 I mean,

02:47:47.980 as long as I said

02:47:48.380 in marriage,

02:47:48.920 I think in every

02:47:49.960 relationship,

02:47:50.820 a man needs peace

02:47:52.460 and being his peace

02:47:53.540 and being the nurturer

02:47:54.440 and taking care

02:47:55.080 of whatever he is,

02:47:56.460 especially if he's

02:47:57.900 a bread burner,

02:47:58.860 then it's everything

02:47:59.620 else is on me.

02:48:00.380 It's like,

02:48:00.660 how can I provide

02:48:01.500 for you,

02:48:02.180 provide that peace

02:48:03.040 and give to you

02:48:04.400 if you're doing

02:48:05.600 all the heavy lifting?

02:48:06.920 So,

02:48:07.980 yeah,

02:48:08.920 food.

02:48:10.500 Devon Jackson

02:48:11.340 donated $200.

02:48:12.580 Good to see you,

02:48:13.420 man.

02:48:13.580 Thank you.

02:48:13.780 Enough of the

02:48:14.340 shaming language.

02:48:16.000 He's not scared.

02:48:17.360 He's not insecure.

02:48:18.800 It's simply more

02:48:19.640 beneficial to him

02:48:20.520 to get the benefits

02:48:21.480 of a wife

02:48:22.100 without the risk

02:48:22.860 of divorce

02:48:23.360 in a secular context.

02:48:25.040 It's not that deep.

02:48:25.900 It's not that deep,

02:48:26.780 bro.

02:48:26.820 Why buy the cow

02:48:27.420 if we can have the milk?

02:48:27.520 Yo, Devon,

02:48:28.280 good to see you,

02:48:28.900 man.

02:48:29.200 Thank you.

02:48:29.500 I don't even know.

02:48:31.580 Like,

02:48:32.560 if you're asking him

02:48:33.660 to stay on a tight rope

02:48:35.160 that he's walking across

02:48:36.120 and if he falls off,

02:48:37.360 he's going to fall

02:48:37.980 into a pit of spikes,

02:48:39.360 I would be pretty insecure.

02:48:41.300 I'd be pretty scared

02:48:42.720 and insecure

02:48:43.320 between that.

02:48:44.000 You ladies in the corner 1.00

02:48:45.260 seem to only want

02:48:46.360 the marriage

02:48:46.820 as a status symbol.

02:48:48.520 Again,

02:48:49.380 where is the benefit

02:48:50.300 of marriage for Brian?

02:48:51.640 Okay,

02:48:51.960 like I said

02:48:52.520 in the beginning,

02:48:53.100 obviously,

02:48:53.840 just Gerald

02:48:54.760 is kind of slow.

02:48:56.320 What's up,

02:48:56.760 Gerald?

02:48:57.020 Hey,

02:48:57.260 don't you dare

02:48:58.420 talk poorly

02:48:59.340 about Gerald.

02:49:01.420 Okay,

02:49:01.660 I'm sorry,

02:49:02.180 Gerald,

02:49:02.780 but I'm sorry.

02:49:05.200 I just have to say

02:49:05.880 that the beginning point

02:49:07.040 was if you don't have

02:49:09.760 God in your life,

02:49:11.040 don't believe in a higher form,

02:49:12.580 a higher power,

02:49:13.260 then yeah,

02:49:13.620 don't get married.

02:49:14.280 Do you have God

02:49:14.720 in your life?

02:49:15.440 Yeah,

02:49:15.660 absolutely.

02:49:16.300 Are you Christian?

02:49:17.440 I'm Muslim.

02:49:18.520 Salam alaikum.

02:49:19.220 All right.

02:49:19.740 Okay.

02:49:20.060 Salam alaikum.

02:49:20.920 Cool,

02:49:21.320 cool.

02:49:22.440 Yeah.

02:49:23.400 So there's no point

02:49:24.240 and I said that.

02:49:25.080 I was like,

02:49:25.440 you're right.

02:49:26.020 I did say that.

02:49:26.680 I'm just curious,

02:49:27.260 in your faith,

02:49:27.880 are you a practicing Muslim?

02:49:29.480 Yes,

02:49:29.740 I am.

02:49:31.180 Really?

02:49:32.100 Yes.

02:49:34.400 You want to ask me

02:49:35.160 the prayer times

02:49:35.880 or what?

02:49:38.140 Wait,

02:49:38.700 one question,

02:49:39.620 one question.

02:49:40.240 The thing with it,

02:49:40.760 if you want to bring Islam,

02:49:41.680 then that's a slippery slope

02:49:42.560 because you can talk about

02:49:43.400 sireh,

02:49:43.960 you can talk about

02:49:44.540 how they have multiple wives,

02:49:45.880 you can talk about

02:49:46.800 all these things.

02:49:47.520 We can talk about it.

02:49:48.240 You guys would,

02:49:49.060 but so you're fine

02:49:49.980 if like your husband

02:49:50.940 has multiple,

02:49:52.400 like is it four?

02:49:53.740 Yes,

02:49:54.160 it's four,

02:49:54.540 you're correct.

02:49:54.940 But in the Quran,

02:49:55.700 you have to,

02:49:57.100 the woman has to be okay 1.00

02:49:58.400 with being open

02:49:59.180 to another sister wife. 0.99

02:50:00.320 If she is not okay,

02:50:01.380 she has to write it

02:50:01.960 in her marriage contract.

02:50:03.080 I do not want him

02:50:03.780 to marry again on me.

02:50:05.260 Wait,

02:50:05.360 the woman in Islam?

02:50:06.200 Yes.

02:50:06.620 The woman who has to be 1.00

02:50:08.600 submissive to her husband

02:50:09.960 has to give her,

02:50:12.220 gives her husband permission.

02:50:15.140 So if the husband, 0.76

02:50:16.020 before marriage,

02:50:16.940 hold on,

02:50:17.420 if it's the husband's will

02:50:19.240 and desire to have

02:50:20.340 multiple wives,

02:50:21.280 but the woman's like, 1.00

02:50:22.700 eh,

02:50:22.900 I don't really want that.

02:50:24.140 It's her call?

02:50:25.260 Yeah.

02:50:25.460 Then they don't get married.

02:50:26.320 Yes,

02:50:26.340 because in order for a man

02:50:27.880 to marry four women, 0.74

02:50:28.840 they have to one,

02:50:29.580 treat them all equally.

02:50:30.460 If I buy her a Lamborghini,

02:50:31.520 I have to buy her a Lamborghini too.

02:50:32.460 She's right.

02:50:33.060 If I buy her a house,

02:50:33.960 I have to buy her a house too. 0.74

02:50:34.860 I'm not an expert in that.

02:50:35.600 There has to be equality.

02:50:36.820 It has to be just.

02:50:37.680 Even if he does not

02:50:38.440 love them the same.

02:50:39.280 Okay,

02:50:39.440 so if in the marriage contract...

02:50:40.900 Uh-huh.

02:50:41.340 Yeah,

02:50:41.560 but that's up to means too.

02:50:43.980 So if you cannot afford

02:50:44.940 four wives, 0.65

02:50:45.900 you cannot marry four wives.

02:50:47.000 Yeah,

02:50:47.220 you can.

02:50:47.540 No,

02:50:47.560 no,

02:50:47.680 but it's up to means

02:50:49.360 when it comes to

02:50:49.960 their material goods.

02:50:50.980 Well,

02:50:51.160 they all have to be

02:50:52.520 provided the same

02:50:53.400 and they're right

02:50:54.340 about the consent.

02:50:55.200 As long as there's means

02:50:56.300 to do so.

02:50:57.120 Yeah.

02:50:57.380 If there's not means

02:50:58.180 to do so,

02:50:58.800 then it's provided

02:50:59.500 that you can provide

02:51:00.340 for the younger ones

02:51:01.120 more than you can

02:51:01.720 the older ones,

02:51:02.420 for instance,

02:51:03.220 if that's what the means are

02:51:04.400 which are available.

02:51:05.540 No.

02:51:06.160 No,

02:51:06.600 no,

02:51:06.740 no,

02:51:06.880 no.

02:51:07.080 Yes,

02:51:07.500 yes,

02:51:07.900 yes,

02:51:08.100 yes,

02:51:08.420 yes.

02:51:08.500 And you see this

02:51:09.040 all the time.

02:51:09.620 It's being developed.

02:51:10.500 Yes,

02:51:10.820 you do,

02:51:11.180 yes.

02:51:11.460 Well,

02:51:11.580 they can do that,

02:51:12.580 but that's not the whole,

02:51:13.660 that's,

02:51:14.300 the legal of it

02:51:15.740 is not,

02:51:16.400 that you can't do that.

02:51:17.100 You have to be providing

02:51:17.860 equally for all the wives

02:51:19.880 and the first wife

02:51:20.680 does have to consent.

02:51:21.560 There's like Syria 1.00

02:51:22.780 where it's like temporary

02:51:23.680 marriages and all that,

02:51:25.080 but I mean,

02:51:26.120 there's rights

02:51:27.140 and then there's no rights.

02:51:28.540 So,

02:51:29.120 I mean,

02:51:29.500 Muslims,

02:51:29.780 there's rights in Islam,

02:51:31.020 but in culture,

02:51:31.820 it's not.

02:51:32.360 That's two different things.

02:51:33.260 Islam is peace,

02:51:34.200 but culture,

02:51:35.120 like Iranian culture,

02:51:36.400 it's culture and tradition.

02:51:38.520 That's completely different

02:51:39.460 than religion.

02:51:39.780 Get the rocks.

02:51:40.980 Abu.

02:51:41.740 Yeah,

02:51:42.160 get the rocks.

02:51:42.700 Get the rocks.

02:51:44.500 What?

02:51:44.940 Free power.

02:51:45.320 Nothing.

02:51:45.720 I don't know,

02:51:46.160 Nick,

02:51:46.360 why did you press that,

02:51:47.320 Nick?

02:51:47.860 Nick,

02:51:48.300 come on,

02:51:48.840 dude.

02:51:50.820 Rude.

02:51:52.000 Back to me bringing

02:51:52.800 peace to my man.

02:51:54.860 Yo,

02:51:55.400 Gerald,

02:51:56.400 good to see you in the chat.

02:51:57.400 Davon,

02:51:57.780 good to see you in the chat.

02:51:59.600 Where were we?

02:52:00.520 I think I was just

02:52:01.200 checkmating you guys

02:52:02.700 all over the place

02:52:03.320 on marriage.

02:52:05.640 We didn't get to them,

02:52:06.720 though.

02:52:06.860 Do you want to finish?

02:52:07.880 We were talking about

02:52:08.540 what we bring to

02:52:09.340 relationships and whatever.

02:52:10.940 Oh, yeah,

02:52:11.320 if you guys really quick

02:52:12.220 can give,

02:52:12.920 what will you bring

02:52:13.660 to the marriage

02:52:14.180 to make it hard for her?

02:52:15.120 I mean,

02:52:15.440 it's the same thing.

02:52:16.220 From their worldview,

02:52:16.860 they're correct,

02:52:17.460 I have nothing to add

02:52:18.220 to what she said.

02:52:19.580 from their worldview,

02:52:20.380 they're talking about Tilo,

02:52:21.380 so they're saying

02:52:22.160 there's a purpose

02:52:23.240 for marriage

02:52:23.820 and they don't believe

02:52:24.520 in marriage

02:52:24.900 outside of a purpose,

02:52:25.900 so that makes sense to me.

02:52:27.100 I can reconcile that,

02:52:29.000 but what I can't reconcile

02:52:31.220 is when I ask,

02:52:32.820 okay,

02:52:33.200 but they are secularists,

02:52:34.880 so from their purpose,

02:52:36.000 their purpose is only 0.99

02:52:36.820 whatever the fuck 0.99

02:52:37.300 they think it is, 1.00

02:52:37.960 right?

02:52:38.580 Whatever they think

02:52:39.360 their purpose is

02:52:40.060 or what they think it is.

02:52:40.860 Yeah,

02:52:41.080 I mean,

02:52:41.200 let's say you're atheist,

02:52:41.960 right,

02:52:42.220 and you're saying,

02:52:42.700 oh,

02:52:42.760 I don't have no purpose

02:52:43.620 to get married.

02:52:44.200 Then don't get married. 0.63

02:52:45.100 I don't have nothing

02:52:45.980 against you not getting married.

02:52:47.040 You don't believe

02:52:47.700 in a higher rate.

02:52:48.060 Right,

02:52:48.140 but that's not the criticism.

02:52:49.960 I agree with you,

02:52:50.840 but that's not really

02:52:51.460 the criticism.

02:52:51.740 You just said

02:52:52.060 you don't have a reason.

02:52:54.160 Yeah,

02:52:54.400 so the criticism

02:52:54.880 would be this,

02:52:55.760 would be to say,

02:52:57.120 can you provide

02:52:58.040 an argument

02:52:58.620 to an atheist

02:52:59.420 from the perspective

02:53:01.340 of an atheist

02:53:02.360 as to why

02:53:03.580 they should get married?

02:53:04.720 No,

02:53:05.400 there's no evidence.

02:53:06.960 There's no factual

02:53:07.840 based reason

02:53:08.620 why an atheist 0.98

02:53:09.720 should get married

02:53:10.760 if they choose

02:53:12.240 that they don't want to

02:53:13.380 based off of love.

02:53:14.740 There's actually

02:53:15.320 no argument

02:53:15.900 to debunk

02:53:16.620 someone's ideology

02:53:17.440 of that.

02:53:18.140 I have a question.

02:53:18.760 When it comes to masculinity,

02:53:20.020 I'm like,

02:53:20.400 I kind of don't know

02:53:21.180 where I'm going with this,

02:53:22.160 but it came to me

02:53:23.300 where,

02:53:23.600 okay,

02:53:23.800 let's say for marriage,

02:53:25.000 right,

02:53:25.240 if we want to restore

02:53:26.000 masculinity,

02:53:26.940 healthy masculinity,

02:53:27.740 because a lot of men

02:53:28.860 are masculine,

02:53:29.520 women are masculine, 1.00

02:53:31.480 more men are in the feminine, 0.70

02:53:32.840 whatever it is,

02:53:33.320 do we think that

02:53:34.900 by,

02:53:37.040 let's say,

02:53:37.420 the purpose of marriage,

02:53:38.800 bringing that old school

02:53:40.040 ideology of

02:53:40.960 man and woman,

02:53:42.980 man is the provider,

02:53:44.140 the woman is the nurturer 0.86

02:53:45.380 at home,

02:53:46.080 would that help

02:53:46.840 restore masculinity?

02:53:48.100 Would that be something

02:53:49.140 that if you

02:53:50.780 take it more seriously,

02:53:52.320 we can kind of like

02:53:53.180 change the generations

02:53:54.100 as you're coming,

02:53:55.100 because now you're,

02:53:55.800 the man is playing

02:53:56.620 the role of the protector,

02:53:58.000 the provider,

02:53:58.580 the husband,

02:53:59.720 as opposed to just

02:54:01.440 the boyfriend,

02:54:02.360 because it's,

02:54:03.320 it's a completely

02:54:03.820 different title,

02:54:04.960 I feel like.

02:54:05.680 Yeah,

02:54:05.920 it is,

02:54:06.380 I agree with you.

02:54:07.820 Because I feel like

02:54:08.300 in restoring masculinity,

02:54:09.880 that can be,

02:54:10.260 that can be a,

02:54:11.280 you know,

02:54:11.780 where you're playing

02:54:12.580 the role model of,

02:54:13.540 hey,

02:54:13.880 protector,

02:54:14.420 provider,

02:54:15.420 and.

02:54:16.600 I do have to read

02:54:17.420 this chat.

02:54:19.100 This came in like,

02:54:20.340 sorry it took us so long

02:54:21.120 to get through this.

02:54:21.720 Techno Trooper,

02:54:22.320 thank you for the 100 men,

02:54:23.140 statistics have revealed

02:54:24.140 alarming trends,

02:54:25.380 more girls are self-harming, 0.97

02:54:26.640 suffering from depression,

02:54:28.100 and experiencing rising

02:54:29.180 rates of obesity.

02:54:30.040 How significant do you

02:54:31.660 think the role of social

02:54:32.820 media is in these issues,

02:54:35.020 and what solutions can you

02:54:36.480 brainstorm to address them?

02:54:39.940 Yeah,

02:54:40.460 definitely,

02:54:40.840 I mean,

02:54:41.020 social media,

02:54:41.720 massive impact,

02:54:43.380 not just on women's

02:54:44.840 mental health,

02:54:45.660 but also on men's,

02:54:46.600 although this was perhaps

02:54:47.380 more pronounced in women,

02:54:49.060 and I think the solution is,

02:54:51.780 is that we ban social media.

02:54:53.780 Just kidding.

02:54:55.440 But maybe ban social media

02:54:57.000 for everyone under 18.

02:54:58.360 That could,

02:54:59.040 that could work.

02:54:59.900 Yeah,

02:55:00.360 I agree with that.

02:55:01.340 I agree with that 100%.

02:55:02.560 You disagree?

02:55:02.980 I think,

02:55:03.440 first off,

02:55:04.580 if,

02:55:04.880 you know,

02:55:05.140 if I have kids,

02:55:06.340 bro,

02:55:06.500 they don't get a smartphone

02:55:07.440 until they're 18.

02:55:08.160 The fact that they were

02:55:09.040 talking to WAP during lockdown,

02:55:11.960 that to me is like,

02:55:12.860 13 year olds,

02:55:13.740 like,

02:55:14.000 you should not even know

02:55:14.740 what that song is.

02:55:15.540 Like, 0.97

02:55:15.700 that's just ridiculous. 0.97

02:55:16.840 Like, 0.98

02:55:17.060 no.

02:55:18.060 Parental guys need to be 0.97

02:55:19.000 a lot more stricter.

02:55:20.300 100%.

02:55:20.580 Techno Trooper,

02:55:21.700 thank you man.

02:55:22.260 Sorry it took us a while to,

02:55:23.300 and that came in like

02:55:24.380 two hours ago.

02:55:25.460 We do prioritize our

02:55:26.600 messages via

02:55:27.800 Streamlabs,

02:55:29.460 streamlabs.com slash

02:55:30.320 whatever.

02:55:30.840 We tend to get to those first.

02:55:32.100 But thank you for the super chat,

02:55:33.000 man.

02:55:33.120 Appreciate it.

02:55:33.680 Thank you,

02:55:33.940 thank you.

02:55:34.680 Where were we?

02:55:35.580 I was asking you a question.

02:55:36.720 Do you think,

02:55:37.240 in marriage,

02:55:38.120 do you think that would help

02:55:39.180 restore masculinity

02:55:40.400 by being a role model

02:55:41.560 of being a protector

02:55:43.280 and provider

02:55:43.760 and bringing it back to,

02:55:45.140 you know,

02:55:46.440 what initially it was

02:55:48.020 where in the 50s

02:55:49.240 where it's like,

02:55:49.680 woman stays at home, 1.00

02:55:50.600 man is a provider.

02:55:51.480 So like,

02:55:51.940 bringing that back,

02:55:52.840 the polarity of,

02:55:55.980 I don't know,

02:55:56.580 just changing,

02:55:57.780 I guess,

02:55:58.220 bringing more masculinity back.

02:55:59.980 I feel like as a,

02:56:00.860 when you say husband,

02:56:01.920 that is,

02:56:02.660 that's a very strong,

02:56:04.240 like.

02:56:05.280 Yeah,

02:56:05.480 there's a lot of,

02:56:06.120 there's a lot of problems

02:56:06.920 with that.

02:56:07.720 So like,

02:56:07.980 I would agree,

02:56:08.500 I would agree with you

02:56:09.320 in principle.

02:56:10.300 So in the principle

02:56:10.940 of what you're saying is,

02:56:12.280 it's going to bring

02:56:13.160 a more masculine energy

02:56:14.580 and it's going to give

02:56:15.280 kind of better core values

02:56:16.820 to have a man at home 0.87

02:56:17.860 with the wife

02:56:19.200 raising the kids,

02:56:20.380 right?

02:56:20.620 That seems to make

02:56:21.640 a lot of sense.

02:56:22.260 We can look to other times

02:56:23.620 where this experiment

02:56:24.480 worked really well,

02:56:25.940 right?

02:56:27.000 But,

02:56:27.860 I'm sorry,

02:56:29.540 did you just need

02:56:30.900 to interject

02:56:31.640 right this second

02:56:32.800 while we're having

02:56:33.220 the conversation?

02:56:33.880 Did you just have to?

02:56:35.060 No,

02:56:35.300 it's just on the screen

02:56:36.000 it's going to disappear.

02:56:37.400 That's okay.

02:56:38.680 Go ahead.

02:56:40.360 Anyway,

02:56:41.060 so,

02:56:41.820 the problem is

02:56:43.760 is that you had

02:56:44.260 a lot of laws,

02:56:45.600 right?

02:56:45.860 You had a lot of laws

02:56:46.660 and you had

02:56:47.340 an entirely different culture 0.99

02:56:49.080 which would enable

02:56:50.000 this to happen.

02:56:51.440 Right now,

02:56:52.180 if you have

02:56:52.580 no-fault divorce

02:56:53.340 and you have

02:56:53.780 incentivizations

02:56:54.540 for women

02:56:55.300 to get divorced,

02:56:56.780 leave their family,

02:56:57.620 leave it broken,

02:56:59.060 I don't really understand

02:57:01.000 in modernity

02:57:01.720 why men would want 0.99

02:57:03.240 to clamor towards that.

02:57:04.440 It seems like

02:57:04.980 it's a really bad choice

02:57:07.080 for most men

02:57:07.640 to make in modernity.

02:57:08.660 So,

02:57:10.880 maybe if you could

02:57:11.340 change the laws

02:57:12.720 to go along with it

02:57:13.820 and change the conditions

02:57:15.120 to go along with it,

02:57:16.100 then yeah.

02:57:16.780 But just having children

02:57:18.380 in a home

02:57:18.940 that's almost assured

02:57:19.700 to be broken,

02:57:20.980 that doesn't make

02:57:22.460 a lot of sense,

02:57:23.120 right?

02:57:23.900 I agree.

02:57:24.700 I do have to move things

02:57:25.700 on a little bit

02:57:26.620 from the marriage conversation

02:57:27.900 but before we get

02:57:29.740 into some more

02:57:30.280 of our pre-show notes,

02:57:31.680 we have quite a bit

02:57:32.800 to cover tonight.

02:57:33.960 Does anybody have

02:57:34.860 any disagreements

02:57:36.120 that they've

02:57:37.440 heard from previous shows?

02:57:40.480 Maybe you've seen

02:57:41.020 a clip of Andrew,

02:57:41.740 maybe you've seen

02:57:42.200 a clip of me.

02:57:43.020 Anything you disagree

02:57:43.820 on that you've heard?

02:57:45.540 I have a disagreement.

02:57:46.660 What you got for us?

02:57:47.720 I don't know

02:57:48.220 if this is a position

02:57:49.160 that you actually hold

02:57:50.620 or if it's a position

02:57:52.160 that you hold more

02:57:53.020 for the sake

02:57:53.520 of the argument

02:57:54.180 but I don't agree

02:57:55.980 that women should 1.00

02:57:56.780 get drafted.

02:57:58.080 So,

02:57:58.660 but that's my only

02:57:59.240 disagreement.

02:58:01.160 Okay.

02:58:01.800 Do you believe

02:58:02.360 in equality?

02:58:02.860 Like how it is today?

02:58:07.680 No,

02:58:07.860 just believe

02:58:08.400 in the principle

02:58:08.920 of equality.

02:58:09.720 No.

02:58:10.460 You don't.

02:58:11.140 Okay.

02:58:11.520 Like I'm not

02:58:12.080 a feminist.

02:58:13.380 I'm not a feminist. 0.96

02:58:14.040 Yes.

02:58:14.540 Okay.

02:58:15.640 So what types

02:58:16.960 of things

02:58:17.660 would you like

02:58:18.540 to see more unequal

02:58:19.840 in society?

02:58:21.600 Well,

02:58:22.100 this is kind

02:58:22.600 of a hot take

02:58:23.440 but I really

02:58:24.640 don't think

02:58:25.140 that women 0.97

02:58:25.600 should be in politics

02:58:26.580 and I really

02:58:28.660 think that our

02:58:29.680 country wouldn't 0.93

02:58:30.420 be such a dumpster 1.00

02:58:31.480 fire if women 1.00

02:58:33.200 couldn't vote. 0.86

02:58:34.500 Okay.

02:58:34.940 So if what you're

02:58:36.820 doing is you're

02:58:38.240 creating the

02:58:38.940 regulation of saying

02:58:40.200 that women 0.97

02:58:41.580 don't have to be

02:58:42.440 drafted but they

02:58:43.540 also can't hold

02:58:44.380 political power,

02:58:45.840 I don't,

02:58:46.440 neither myself,

02:58:47.560 well I wouldn't,

02:58:48.160 I can't speak for

02:58:48.720 Brian but I have

02:58:49.440 no objections to

02:58:50.260 that.

02:58:50.680 Right.

02:58:51.220 I think,

02:58:51.820 you know,

02:58:52.380 I think that women 1.00

02:58:54.580 should be able

02:58:55.820 to vote

02:58:56.420 That's insane.

02:58:58.060 That's insane.

02:58:58.540 Well,

02:58:58.740 but I mean,

02:58:59.160 I just,

02:58:59.480 I'm talking about

02:59:00.000 the logic of it.

02:59:01.400 Anti-woman.

02:59:01.960 So all I'm talking

02:59:02.740 about is whether

02:59:03.640 or not it logically

02:59:05.320 tracks that if

02:59:06.280 your position is

02:59:07.440 I don't want women 1.00

02:59:09.460 to be drafted

02:59:10.340 but men should be

02:59:11.620 drafted and I

02:59:13.020 believe in equality

02:59:13.800 that that's a position

02:59:14.840 that doesn't make

02:59:15.400 any sense.

02:59:16.200 But if it is your

02:59:17.360 position instead,

02:59:18.900 no, 0.92

02:59:19.180 I don't want women 1.00

02:59:19.900 to be drafted

02:59:20.580 but in lieu of that

02:59:22.140 I'm going to make

02:59:23.020 sure they have no

02:59:23.580 political power

02:59:24.360 so therefore men

02:59:25.420 get political power

02:59:26.240 but they must be

02:59:26.900 drafted,

02:59:27.740 that makes sense

02:59:28.520 to me.

02:59:29.300 So whether or not

02:59:29.860 you agree that

02:59:30.680 that should happen

02:59:31.700 it's still not a

02:59:33.320 position that I

02:59:34.020 think is illogical.

02:59:36.540 Can I say something?

02:59:37.680 Go ahead.

02:59:38.380 So let's take time

02:59:39.600 to go back,

02:59:40.460 back in the day,

02:59:41.100 let's go to history

02:59:41.780 now.

02:59:42.460 So there was a time

02:59:43.360 when women couldn't 1.00

02:59:44.040 vote,

02:59:44.440 there was a time

02:59:44.960 where there was

02:59:45.920 1800s where we

02:59:48.080 were treated as

02:59:48.840 slaves.

02:59:49.260 When men have 0.99

02:59:50.000 the upper hand

02:59:50.640 property,

02:59:51.260 we were treated

02:59:52.680 slaves.

02:59:53.880 But then on top 0.99

02:59:54.600 of that,

02:59:55.360 one of the first

02:59:56.520 people to even

02:59:57.540 discover space

02:59:58.580 and how an

02:59:59.900 Iraq could go up 1.00

03:00:01.060 to space is a

03:00:01.880 woman.

03:00:02.460 Women have 0.95

03:00:03.020 intellect.

03:00:04.060 When a man has a 0.91

03:00:05.080 wife,

03:00:05.500 she has intellect 0.86

03:00:06.160 to guide him

03:00:06.900 in which way

03:00:08.000 he should go.

03:00:09.240 Not every woman 0.99

03:00:10.420 is a slut or 0.99

03:00:12.060 whatever you want 1.00

03:00:12.560 to call her, 1.00

03:00:13.300 an idiot. 1.00

03:00:14.140 You're basically 1.00

03:00:14.980 making a point

03:00:15.580 that a woman 0.98

03:00:16.220 doesn't have the

03:00:17.140 knowledge to be

03:00:18.180 in politics.

03:00:18.500 To see who

03:00:19.620 should guide her

03:00:20.280 country.

03:00:21.200 And I feel like

03:00:21.780 that's saying

03:00:22.860 that that's not

03:00:23.500 right.

03:00:24.260 Should women be 1.00

03:00:24.820 drafted?

03:00:25.400 I have no idea.

03:00:26.560 If they want to.

03:00:27.120 Hold on.

03:00:27.640 Do you know

03:00:28.580 what a draft is?

03:00:29.420 Yeah,

03:00:29.680 it's to go to

03:00:30.440 the army.

03:00:31.700 They pick you

03:00:31.980 to go to the army.

03:00:32.760 You literally

03:00:33.280 said if they

03:00:34.240 want to.

03:00:35.680 Do you know

03:00:36.260 what a draft is?

03:00:37.860 It's going to

03:00:38.480 the war in the

03:00:39.420 army.

03:00:40.540 You don't have

03:00:41.280 a choice.

03:00:42.100 My apologies.

03:00:43.040 They have no

03:00:43.340 choice to go.

03:00:44.960 She's saying

03:00:45.400 they want to be

03:00:45.820 in the army.

03:00:46.320 That's what she

03:00:46.580 was saying.

03:00:46.920 But we are not

03:00:47.700 physically equipped

03:00:48.880 like men.

03:00:49.740 That's not true.

03:00:51.840 So I can do

03:00:52.460 what you can do?

03:00:53.540 Not necessarily.

03:00:54.200 Yeah,

03:00:54.440 yeah,

03:00:54.520 but hang on.

03:00:55.220 When it comes to

03:00:55.660 physical things.

03:00:55.820 I think that what

03:00:56.580 you're saying is

03:00:57.160 fine.

03:00:57.600 I don't have an

03:00:58.080 issue with what

03:00:58.560 you're saying.

03:00:59.660 Okay,

03:01:00.020 but maybe we can

03:01:00.900 back it up a

03:01:01.580 little bit so

03:01:02.580 that we can see

03:01:03.240 if we can determine

03:01:04.240 if what you're

03:01:04.720 saying makes sense

03:01:05.460 or it kind of

03:01:06.080 doesn't make sense.

03:01:07.000 I understand.

03:01:08.080 Oh,

03:01:08.220 sorry,

03:01:08.420 go ahead.

03:01:09.840 So you are

03:01:11.020 an Islamicist,

03:01:12.140 correct?

03:01:13.900 I'm a Muslim.

03:01:14.820 What is it,

03:01:15.440 Islamicist?

03:01:16.200 That's not even a

03:01:16.760 word.

03:01:17.720 Well,

03:01:18.120 I don't know.

03:01:18.480 I'm talking about

03:01:18.940 women. 0.81

03:01:19.280 I'm talking about

03:01:20.080 women power. 1.00

03:01:20.800 I mean,

03:01:21.160 it is a word,

03:01:22.160 but okay.

03:01:22.520 I'm not talking

03:01:22.660 about religion.

03:01:22.940 I'm talking about

03:01:23.640 women power. 1.00

03:01:25.620 I'm sorry,

03:01:26.180 but can you name

03:01:27.100 the Muslim nation

03:01:28.100 where they have

03:01:29.500 instituted their

03:01:30.360 laws that women 1.00

03:01:31.220 are voting?

03:01:31.900 Egypt.

03:01:32.960 What are you

03:01:33.220 talking about?

03:01:33.700 Women vote in 0.99

03:01:34.520 Morocco.

03:01:34.560 Is that under

03:01:35.220 Muslim law or 0.86

03:01:36.160 is that under

03:01:36.620 parliamentary law?

03:01:37.960 Are you talking

03:01:38.280 about Sharia law?

03:01:39.080 Sharia law was

03:01:39.620 removed from Saudi Arabia.

03:01:40.340 One at a time.

03:01:41.620 I can't understand

03:01:42.300 both at one time.

03:01:43.560 Sharia law was

03:01:44.480 removed from Saudi 1.00

03:01:45.540 Arabia like in

03:01:46.360 what,

03:01:46.600 2016?

03:01:47.380 I'm not so sure.

03:01:48.200 Women can drive, 1.00

03:01:49.400 women can vote. 1.00

03:01:49.700 My question is,

03:01:50.620 can you name a

03:01:51.280 country that is

03:01:51.980 under Sharia law,

03:01:53.360 which is Muslim

03:01:54.080 law,

03:01:54.540 where women are 1.00

03:01:54.980 allowed to vote?

03:01:55.800 I don't know.

03:01:56.360 I'm not aware of

03:01:56.820 this knowledge.

03:01:58.540 You don't know?

03:01:58.980 Lebanon.

03:01:59.520 Yeah,

03:02:00.120 Lebanon and

03:02:01.380 what's it called?

03:02:04.160 Jordan.

03:02:04.480 Jordan.

03:02:06.160 Jordan,

03:02:06.880 women can vote 0.99

03:02:08.120 under Sharia law?

03:02:09.780 First of all,

03:02:10.700 Sharia law is like, 0.63

03:02:12.220 it's not Islam.

03:02:14.060 It's not Muslim. 1.00

03:02:14.860 Islam is believing

03:02:15.800 in one God and

03:02:17.400 believing that

03:02:17.820 Muhammad, peace and

03:02:18.740 blessings be upon

03:02:19.220 him, is the last

03:02:20.220 prophet.

03:02:20.960 That is what

03:02:21.580 Islam is.

03:02:22.980 So all the other

03:02:23.520 stuff you're talking

03:02:23.960 about is politics

03:02:24.760 and it's not to do

03:02:25.680 with religion directly.

03:02:28.040 What I'm talking

03:02:28.620 about, I don't

03:02:29.040 really have anything

03:02:29.760 to say about the

03:02:30.480 draft.

03:02:31.380 I don't know too

03:02:32.160 much about Armin

03:02:32.940 stuff, but I'll

03:02:34.460 I know is that

03:02:35.580 women should be 1.00

03:02:36.300 able to vote

03:02:36.800 because when the

03:02:37.440 time of frame,

03:02:38.760 when there wasn't

03:02:39.480 women wasn't able 1.00

03:02:40.400 to vote, how

03:02:41.100 were we treated

03:02:41.740 as women?

03:02:42.300 Terribly.

03:02:42.960 Terribly.

03:02:43.180 How were we

03:02:43.540 treated?

03:02:43.960 Just give me the

03:02:44.940 factual evidence

03:02:45.960 of how women 0.73

03:02:47.140 were treated

03:02:47.560 back then.

03:02:47.960 I'd like to

03:02:48.540 finish.

03:02:50.200 It just doesn't

03:02:50.680 make sense.

03:02:51.200 Why would you

03:02:51.580 want to be

03:02:51.880 treated that way?

03:02:52.580 Yeah, I'm going

03:02:53.000 to answer your

03:02:53.460 question.

03:02:54.400 You were treated

03:02:54.720 like objects.

03:02:55.400 So I don't know

03:02:56.860 if you want to

03:02:57.120 get to the super

03:02:57.560 chat first, but I

03:02:58.280 would like to

03:02:58.720 finish the exchange.

03:02:59.780 Thank you,

03:03:00.160 Gerald.

03:03:01.180 So let's move

03:03:02.920 back.

03:03:03.260 First, you say

03:03:03.800 in the 1800s,

03:03:04.700 women couldn't 1.00

03:03:05.120 vote.

03:03:05.380 That's true, but

03:03:05.820 neither could

03:03:06.100 men.

03:03:08.220 So I don't know

03:03:09.040 how that is

03:03:10.180 somehow great for

03:03:11.360 you to make that

03:03:12.400 point because for

03:03:13.720 most of human

03:03:14.320 history, neither

03:03:15.000 women nor men 0.99

03:03:16.500 could vote.

03:03:17.840 Right?

03:03:18.400 Only elites and

03:03:20.460 property owners.

03:03:21.300 For instance, the

03:03:22.200 Republic of the

03:03:22.880 United States, a

03:03:23.760 republic, it was

03:03:24.620 not set up for

03:03:25.720 universal suffrage.

03:03:27.020 Most men

03:03:27.460 couldn't vote and

03:03:28.760 women couldn't 1.00

03:03:29.600 vote.

03:03:30.600 And women only 0.99

03:03:31.260 got the vote

03:03:31.940 shortly after,

03:03:33.080 men got the

03:03:33.820 vote.

03:03:34.240 Very shortly

03:03:35.080 after, men got 0.69

03:03:35.920 the vote.

03:03:36.480 So this was

03:03:37.180 very, very close

03:03:38.140 together.

03:03:39.040 Here's another

03:03:39.500 interesting little

03:03:40.320 tidbit for you.

03:03:41.620 Every place where

03:03:42.680 women got to vote 0.70

03:03:43.700 on whether or not

03:03:44.420 they wanted to

03:03:45.060 vote, they voted

03:03:45.840 no.

03:03:46.980 They always voted

03:03:47.940 that they didn't

03:03:48.540 want the right to

03:03:49.220 vote.

03:03:49.500 Do you know why?

03:03:50.640 It's because they

03:03:51.140 didn't want to get

03:03:51.660 drafted and they

03:03:52.740 didn't want to have

03:03:53.260 to take on

03:03:53.780 parliamentary duties

03:03:54.880 compelled against

03:03:55.600 their will.

03:03:56.180 That's why.

03:03:57.140 So it makes a lot

03:03:57.800 of sense if men

03:03:58.500 are defending the

03:03:59.180 country.

03:03:59.500 You're saying

03:04:00.240 in order for me

03:04:00.960 to have the right

03:04:01.820 to speak up and

03:04:02.720 choose who I want

03:04:03.480 as my president

03:04:04.180 and the place

03:04:04.820 that I live in,

03:04:05.600 I have to go

03:04:06.320 in the war and

03:04:06.800 fight.

03:04:07.720 No, no, no.

03:04:08.540 I'm not saying

03:04:08.960 you have to.

03:04:09.820 I'm just asking

03:04:10.500 for the potential

03:04:11.240 of it.

03:04:11.960 So here's what

03:04:12.560 I mean by this.

03:04:13.600 I'll explain it

03:04:14.400 so that you

03:04:14.860 understand.

03:04:15.740 I'm just asking

03:04:16.580 for the

03:04:16.900 potentiality.

03:04:18.200 Meaning, if

03:04:19.480 there is some

03:04:20.200 threat to the

03:04:20.800 United States

03:04:21.600 and all men

03:04:23.840 are going to be

03:04:24.580 compelled potentially

03:04:25.960 to go and

03:04:27.100 thwart that

03:04:27.960 threat,

03:04:28.460 then I think

03:04:29.660 that you also

03:04:30.700 should be compelled

03:04:31.540 to go thwart

03:04:32.160 that threat

03:04:32.780 or why should

03:04:34.520 you be allowed

03:04:35.080 to vote?

03:04:35.960 You should not

03:04:36.440 have a stake,

03:04:37.180 in other words,

03:04:37.740 to start wars

03:04:38.580 with other countries

03:04:39.440 because you're

03:04:40.160 women but then 1.00

03:04:41.060 not have to

03:04:41.580 fight them

03:04:42.100 because you're

03:04:42.820 women. 0.81

03:04:43.740 How am I

03:04:44.440 starting a war?

03:04:45.040 By voting

03:04:45.460 president?

03:04:46.120 Who's president?

03:04:46.800 Yes, if you

03:04:47.580 vote, you're

03:04:48.460 voting in politicians

03:04:49.400 and are you

03:04:50.380 saying politicians

03:04:51.040 don't start wars?

03:04:52.120 I mean, yes,

03:04:54.800 they do, but I

03:04:55.560 don't think that

03:04:56.260 I believe that

03:04:56.900 women have a 1.00

03:04:57.580 right.

03:04:57.800 You can vote

03:04:58.700 for somebody who

03:04:59.440 can then start a

03:05:00.260 war which you

03:05:00.960 will never have

03:05:01.500 to go fight in.

03:05:02.260 That's not true

03:05:02.900 because if I

03:05:04.800 decide myself,

03:05:05.740 if I go to the

03:05:06.320 army and I

03:05:06.920 train my body

03:05:07.800 to be like a

03:05:08.460 G.I. Joe,

03:05:09.640 then yeah, I'll

03:05:10.120 go join the war 0.74

03:05:10.700 too.

03:05:11.240 I don't have a

03:05:11.600 problem with that.

03:05:12.000 I just feel like

03:05:13.180 you guys are

03:05:13.920 debunking the

03:05:14.480 woman's mind 1.00

03:05:15.080 and saying she

03:05:15.620 just because she

03:05:16.340 doesn't have the

03:05:16.780 physical fit.

03:05:17.620 Go ahead.

03:05:18.120 Hold on.

03:05:18.460 A couple

03:05:19.400 things here

03:05:19.900 because Andrew

03:05:21.540 raised a good

03:05:22.100 point.

03:05:22.800 You countered by

03:05:23.560 saying it was

03:05:24.240 100 years.

03:05:25.640 When it comes to

03:05:26.360 the right to

03:05:26.780 vote, only 50

03:05:28.000 years passed

03:05:28.820 between the

03:05:29.520 ratification of

03:05:30.240 the 15th

03:05:30.840 amendment, which

03:05:32.040 gave all men

03:05:32.740 the right to

03:05:33.200 vote in 1870

03:05:34.300 and the 19th

03:05:35.420 amendment, which

03:05:36.440 was the woman's 0.72

03:05:37.040 vote in 1920.

03:05:38.460 It's only 50

03:05:38.940 years in America

03:05:39.520 that all men

03:05:40.480 could vote, that

03:05:41.020 women could not. 1.00

03:05:41.880 Nick, pull it

03:05:42.280 up.

03:05:43.920 Okay.

03:05:44.460 Countries with

03:05:45.040 universal right to

03:05:46.460 vote.

03:05:46.860 So, the brown

03:05:50.760 is no universal

03:05:52.040 right to vote.

03:05:53.360 So, this means

03:05:53.980 like men and

03:05:54.520 women. 0.81

03:05:55.500 The light blue

03:05:56.620 is universal

03:05:57.420 right to vote

03:05:58.160 for only men.

03:05:59.800 The other blue

03:06:01.500 is universal

03:06:02.300 right to vote

03:06:03.700 for men and

03:06:04.480 women. 0.81

03:06:05.440 And this is,

03:06:06.100 is this for

03:06:07.200 the world?

03:06:10.580 Did they just

03:06:10.980 sort of aggregate

03:06:11.560 data?

03:06:11.800 Yeah, it was

03:06:11.940 universal right.

03:06:13.060 Aggregate data.

03:06:14.500 So, this trope

03:06:15.560 that there was

03:06:16.020 long stretches

03:06:17.240 of human

03:06:17.760 history where

03:06:18.520 men just had 0.79

03:06:19.620 all this power

03:06:20.200 and women

03:06:20.560 didn't.

03:06:21.080 Most men

03:06:21.640 couldn't vote.

03:06:22.420 Most women 0.99

03:06:22.860 couldn't vote.

03:06:23.780 Men, if they 0.99

03:06:24.320 wanted to vote,

03:06:25.160 they had to 0.97

03:06:25.700 go and die 0.95

03:06:26.260 and fight in 0.58

03:06:26.820 wars for

03:06:27.320 their country.

03:06:28.400 So, their

03:06:28.580 rights...

03:06:28.860 No, they 1.00

03:06:29.160 still weren't

03:06:29.600 allowed to

03:06:29.920 vote even

03:06:30.260 then.

03:06:30.960 That is

03:06:31.300 true.

03:06:31.800 But I'm

03:06:32.740 talking like

03:06:33.420 for the

03:06:33.900 short period

03:06:34.460 of time

03:06:34.940 that men

03:06:36.100 did have

03:06:37.000 the right

03:06:37.360 to vote

03:06:37.820 and women

03:06:39.600 didn't.

03:06:40.980 Even that

03:06:41.460 was localized

03:06:42.040 for most of

03:06:42.800 it.

03:06:42.960 Why do

03:06:44.200 you want to

03:06:44.500 revoke our

03:06:45.320 rights as a

03:06:46.060 woman in the

03:06:46.560 same thing?

03:06:47.280 Let me just

03:06:47.940 say something.

03:06:48.460 I was trying

03:06:48.920 to say that

03:06:51.020 I don't have

03:06:52.840 anything to say

03:06:53.240 about the

03:06:53.860 draft because

03:06:54.460 I'm not

03:06:54.860 having enough

03:06:55.800 knowledge.

03:06:56.420 Hang on,

03:06:57.140 let me address

03:06:57.900 her point and

03:06:58.380 then we'll get

03:06:59.100 into yours.

03:06:59.520 I promise.

03:07:00.420 So, you say

03:07:00.980 why do you

03:07:01.480 want to take

03:07:01.980 away women's 1.00

03:07:02.640 right to

03:07:03.120 X?

03:07:03.840 I think that

03:07:05.080 this is a

03:07:05.580 valid question.

03:07:07.140 And so, I'm

03:07:07.560 going to once

03:07:08.080 again reiterate

03:07:08.660 this argument.

03:07:09.460 if there is

03:07:11.280 the potential

03:07:12.020 that all men

03:07:13.360 in the United

03:07:13.980 States can be

03:07:15.080 drafted and

03:07:15.840 sent into

03:07:16.400 conflict because

03:07:17.480 they all

03:07:17.940 mandatorily,

03:07:19.980 mandatory, that

03:07:20.960 they have to

03:07:21.760 register for the

03:07:22.420 draft, period,

03:07:23.160 it's mandatory,

03:07:24.540 then I think

03:07:25.560 if that is

03:07:26.320 true, they

03:07:27.340 deserve the

03:07:27.860 stake to be

03:07:28.360 able to elect

03:07:28.900 politicians who

03:07:29.740 have the

03:07:30.000 potential to

03:07:30.680 start wars.

03:07:32.140 And women who

03:07:32.740 do not have to

03:07:33.560 go fight those

03:07:34.180 wars should not

03:07:35.520 be able to

03:07:36.740 elect politicians

03:07:37.760 who then can

03:07:38.600 start a war 0.85

03:07:39.220 that they

03:07:39.680 will not have

03:07:40.240 to fight in.

03:07:40.720 So, if you

03:07:41.160 make this

03:07:41.580 concession, yes,

03:07:43.020 I think women 1.00

03:07:43.580 should be

03:07:44.120 mandatorily drafted,

03:07:45.720 then fine, then

03:07:46.360 we can just do

03:07:46.960 that.

03:07:47.240 Okay, so when

03:07:47.760 men were drafted

03:07:48.520 into World War I

03:07:49.280 and World War II,

03:07:49.780 what were the

03:07:50.080 women doing?

03:07:50.600 You're acting

03:07:50.840 like they didn't

03:07:51.100 do anything.

03:07:51.960 They were taking

03:07:52.440 care of the

03:07:52.820 country.

03:07:53.200 They weren't

03:07:53.540 dying for you.

03:07:55.760 Yeah, but they

03:07:56.240 were taking care of

03:07:56.800 the country, making

03:07:57.440 their food.

03:07:58.720 There was something

03:07:59.440 for you.

03:08:00.060 There was something

03:08:00.380 for you when you

03:08:00.840 come back home.

03:08:01.860 They have your

03:08:02.400 kids.

03:08:02.860 They have a

03:08:03.220 responsibility of the

03:08:04.020 gender role. 1.00

03:08:04.920 Hold on, let me,

03:08:05.620 okay, I'll just

03:08:06.080 come in really

03:08:06.640 quick on this.

03:08:07.400 Who do you think

03:08:07.760 is the primary

03:08:08.300 victim of war,

03:08:09.140 men or women?

03:08:10.120 I think men 0.84

03:08:10.760 suffer more, but

03:08:13.120 women have a 1.00

03:08:14.700 duty and they

03:08:15.160 have a role and

03:08:15.680 they have a value

03:08:16.460 during the times

03:08:17.800 of war.

03:08:18.440 What's your

03:08:18.880 answer?

03:08:19.880 It's all about

03:08:20.560 perception.

03:08:21.140 Do you feel like

03:08:21.860 losing your life

03:08:22.800 in this life, do

03:08:23.660 you feel like

03:08:24.100 that's the worst

03:08:25.440 thing that could

03:08:25.820 happen to you?

03:08:26.420 To me, I don't

03:08:27.340 think that because

03:08:27.960 of my religious

03:08:28.880 beliefs.

03:08:29.440 Well, good, then

03:08:29.660 get drafted and

03:08:31.240 be quiet about it.

03:08:32.020 What I'm trying

03:08:32.680 to say is it's

03:08:33.420 all about

03:08:33.700 perception.

03:08:34.520 She's saying

03:08:35.080 that a woman 0.98

03:08:35.700 is not as

03:08:36.500 suffering as bad

03:08:37.200 as a man because

03:08:37.580 he's dying?

03:08:38.180 No, he's dying

03:08:38.520 for his country.

03:08:39.240 That's an honor.

03:08:40.300 A woman, she's 1.00

03:08:40.880 sitting there

03:08:41.140 going to take

03:08:41.420 care of the

03:08:41.760 kid.

03:08:42.180 She has to work.

03:08:42.940 She has to take

03:08:44.100 care of all these

03:08:44.800 things.

03:08:45.200 She don't have 0.99

03:08:45.780 no man anymore.

03:08:46.900 Agriculture,

03:08:47.400 nursing,

03:08:48.260 sickness,

03:08:49.380 nursing,

03:08:49.880 going into the

03:08:50.360 war, helping

03:08:50.760 the people get

03:08:51.660 better.

03:08:52.200 There's so many

03:08:52.840 things a woman 1.00

03:08:53.440 has to do and

03:08:53.860 you guys are

03:08:54.180 disregarding.

03:08:54.900 I am

03:08:56.060 disregarding it.

03:08:59.780 I absolutely

03:09:00.340 am disregarding it.

03:09:01.980 You're not

03:09:02.280 going to sit here

03:09:02.900 and say that

03:09:03.420 women sacrifice 1.00

03:09:05.240 more when it

03:09:06.140 comes to war 0.79

03:09:06.640 than men.

03:09:07.180 I'm not saying

03:09:07.740 that.

03:09:07.900 I never said

03:09:08.740 that.

03:09:08.760 Yes, I am

03:09:09.200 going to

03:09:09.420 disregard women's 0.98

03:09:11.100 wartime sacrifices.

03:09:12.780 I never said that.

03:09:13.320 Of course I'm 0.99

03:09:14.020 going to fucking 0.99

03:09:14.560 say that. 0.99

03:09:15.220 I'm actually

03:09:15.640 happy to get

03:09:16.140 into your

03:09:16.500 argument.

03:09:17.120 I think that

03:09:17.600 again, you

03:09:18.160 made at least

03:09:18.800 a counter

03:09:19.220 argument and

03:09:20.160 so I do want

03:09:20.760 to get into

03:09:21.240 it because it

03:09:21.940 is a

03:09:22.180 counter

03:09:22.400 argument.

03:09:22.580 My whole

03:09:22.880 point is not

03:09:23.640 about the

03:09:24.180 dang war because

03:09:24.700 I even just

03:09:25.340 said that in

03:09:25.760 the beginning.

03:09:26.300 My whole

03:09:26.640 point was about

03:09:27.260 women being

03:09:27.740 able to vote.

03:09:28.340 Let me repeat

03:09:29.140 your position

03:09:29.740 back to you so

03:09:30.500 that you know

03:09:31.280 that I know

03:09:31.880 what it is.

03:09:32.580 Okay?

03:09:33.140 Your position is

03:09:34.280 women are at 0.99

03:09:34.940 home and they're

03:09:35.920 sacrificing even

03:09:37.200 during wartime.

03:09:38.680 They're keeping the 0.91

03:09:39.280 fires burning.

03:09:40.300 They're keeping the 0.91

03:09:41.100 houses warm.

03:09:42.260 They're keeping the 0.91

03:09:42.760 kids fed.

03:09:43.860 There is a form of

03:09:44.800 sacrifice that women

03:09:45.700 are doing.

03:09:46.340 Keeping life going.

03:09:47.620 Yeah, yeah.

03:09:48.180 Am I wrong or is

03:09:49.180 that your argument?

03:09:50.140 Yeah, they're right.

03:09:50.880 Okay, great.

03:09:51.900 Then I would like to

03:09:52.660 respond to the

03:09:53.480 argument.

03:09:54.360 Okay?

03:09:54.680 So while I will

03:09:55.880 grant that this is

03:09:56.820 true, you're not

03:09:58.300 compelled to do so.

03:10:00.460 Meaning there's no

03:10:01.720 draft making you

03:10:03.360 take care of the

03:10:04.060 home front.

03:10:04.640 There's no draft

03:10:05.360 making you take

03:10:06.460 care of these

03:10:07.060 things.

03:10:07.440 There's no draft

03:10:08.100 making sure that

03:10:09.760 even at home you're

03:10:11.020 following domestic

03:10:11.960 duties to make it

03:10:12.920 better for men when 0.97

03:10:13.560 they get back.

03:10:14.260 You're still not

03:10:15.460 compelled.

03:10:16.360 And because of that

03:10:17.300 you will always face

03:10:18.320 a lesser consequence

03:10:19.460 than men.

03:10:20.880 For a war, which

03:10:22.020 means you would

03:10:22.540 have more incentive

03:10:23.360 to elect politicians

03:10:24.680 who could start

03:10:25.500 one.

03:10:26.060 So you're saying

03:10:26.540 that men who are

03:10:27.300 sick or disabled,

03:10:28.300 they shouldn't have

03:10:28.720 the right to vote

03:10:29.240 either.

03:10:29.740 Because they're 0.99

03:10:30.140 sick and disabled, 0.97

03:10:30.780 they can't fight

03:10:31.200 in the war.

03:10:31.640 My argument is

03:10:32.020 that the potential,

03:10:33.740 as long as the

03:10:34.640 potential exists,

03:10:36.080 that every man

03:10:37.240 can be compelled.

03:10:38.560 Every man can be

03:10:40.100 compelled into the

03:10:41.660 armed services,

03:10:42.720 regardless of

03:10:43.500 disability.

03:10:44.600 They could be a 1.00

03:10:45.260 fucking vegetable, 1.00

03:10:46.560 and the military 1.00

03:10:47.400 can draft them

03:10:48.500 legally.

03:10:48.940 The military can

03:10:50.100 come in and 1.00

03:10:50.700 draft their asses 1.00

03:10:51.760 legally because 1.00

03:10:52.680 they are compelled

03:10:53.680 to go into service.

03:10:55.540 Women are not. 1.00

03:10:56.720 Because that potential

03:10:57.600 exists, they're going

03:10:58.760 to be far more

03:10:59.360 responsible when it

03:11:00.640 comes to electing

03:11:01.300 politicians who won't

03:11:02.120 start wars because

03:11:03.160 they have to go 1.00

03:11:03.940 fucking fight them. 1.00

03:11:05.200 And here at home, 1.00

03:11:06.100 the counter-argument

03:11:06.800 is, but the women 1.00

03:11:07.760 will be home taking

03:11:08.740 care of the fires.

03:11:10.000 Maybe, but they're

03:11:10.760 not compelled to do

03:11:11.720 so.

03:11:12.420 And since they're not

03:11:13.100 compelled to do so,

03:11:13.900 there's no reason for

03:11:14.840 us to believe that they

03:11:15.560 don't even do that.

03:11:16.480 You want to starve?

03:11:17.340 You think, wait,

03:11:17.920 what do you mean

03:11:18.300 women are not 1.00

03:11:18.880 compelled to?

03:11:19.560 You think that they

03:11:20.000 don't love their

03:11:20.460 country just as men? 0.90

03:11:21.480 You think that a

03:11:21.980 woman can't love 1.00

03:11:22.640 her country just as

03:11:23.580 a man?

03:11:23.740 Well, if they love

03:11:23.840 their country just

03:11:23.940 as much as men,

03:11:24.600 why aren't they

03:11:24.920 out there saying

03:11:26.320 that?

03:11:26.640 Then that's where

03:11:27.660 comes gender roles. 1.00

03:11:28.860 So you're saying,

03:11:29.380 well, if a woman 1.00

03:11:30.400 loves her family just

03:11:31.160 as much as a man,

03:11:32.000 then why can't she

03:11:32.600 pick up the gun

03:11:33.100 and save us from

03:11:33.920 getting robbed?

03:11:35.760 No, what I'm

03:11:36.340 saying to you is

03:11:36.940 that if the man

03:11:37.800 is going to be the

03:11:38.640 one who picks up the...

03:11:39.200 I should be a man.

03:11:40.340 Let me respond

03:11:40.980 to your argument.

03:11:41.940 I'm saying to you

03:11:42.820 that if the man

03:11:43.520 is the one who

03:11:44.320 you expect to pick

03:11:45.120 up the gun and

03:11:45.680 defend you from

03:11:46.300 the robber who's

03:11:46.900 breaking in,

03:11:47.440 he should get the 1.00

03:11:47.900 big fucking piece 1.00

03:11:48.580 of chicken, 1.00

03:11:49.060 shouldn't he?

03:11:50.340 He already does.

03:11:51.860 He already does.

03:11:52.840 Yeah, and the

03:11:53.660 reason he does is

03:11:54.720 because the expectation

03:11:55.880 is that he does

03:11:57.000 that for you.

03:11:58.060 So he gets something

03:11:58.920 additional that you

03:11:59.860 don't get.

03:12:00.640 That's how that works.

03:12:01.620 You already treat it

03:12:02.300 that way because of,

03:12:03.460 you know, gender roles. 1.00

03:12:05.320 Okay, so who do you

03:12:06.100 think should get

03:12:07.000 more respect,

03:12:07.640 the mother or the

03:12:08.140 father?

03:12:08.340 Who should get

03:12:10.240 more respect,

03:12:10.820 the mother or the

03:12:11.480 father?

03:12:12.220 Well, they're

03:12:12.820 respected in

03:12:13.380 different ways.

03:12:14.080 But who should

03:12:15.080 have the higher

03:12:15.840 supremacy?

03:12:16.260 If you had to

03:12:16.740 save either mother

03:12:17.540 or father,

03:12:18.160 who should be

03:12:18.620 saved?

03:12:18.740 When you're talking

03:12:18.960 about...

03:12:19.740 Stop, stop.

03:12:20.680 I'm going to try

03:12:21.440 to...

03:12:21.660 All I'm trying to do

03:12:22.820 is understand the

03:12:23.740 question first before

03:12:24.720 I answer it.

03:12:25.720 When you say more

03:12:26.940 in this instance,

03:12:28.440 are you saying...

03:12:30.620 Okay, you don't

03:12:31.360 want me to get

03:12:31.820 clarification?

03:12:32.200 No, I just said

03:12:32.860 I apologize.

03:12:33.340 I'm waiting for

03:12:33.700 your answer.

03:12:34.520 Yeah, I know, but I

03:12:35.360 need you to clarify

03:12:36.040 a point first so I

03:12:37.480 can answer.

03:12:37.980 When you say the

03:12:39.320 word more in this

03:12:40.660 instance, are you

03:12:42.240 saying that kids

03:12:43.840 should respect dad

03:12:45.540 more than mom?

03:12:46.740 Are you saying love

03:12:47.660 more?

03:12:48.260 Are you saying it's a

03:12:48.940 combination of these

03:12:49.840 things?

03:12:50.100 Who literally matters

03:12:50.780 more?

03:12:51.300 If you had to save a

03:12:52.400 mother or a father

03:12:53.280 falling down a cliff,

03:12:54.800 who matters more to

03:12:56.020 you're asking him

03:12:56.680 like three different

03:12:57.520 questions?

03:12:57.820 It's the same question.

03:12:58.720 It's totally different.

03:12:59.860 Okay, so I'll start

03:13:00.760 with the one I just

03:13:01.880 heard, the falling

03:13:02.540 down the cliff.

03:13:03.080 So, I personally

03:13:04.620 would likely save

03:13:05.680 the woman, but not

03:13:06.520 because she matters

03:13:07.240 to society more, but

03:13:08.780 because there's an

03:13:09.440 obligatory duty under

03:13:11.300 Christian ethics to do

03:13:12.920 that first.

03:13:14.900 That's why.

03:13:15.980 Okay, so now you're

03:13:17.000 acknowledging the power

03:13:18.600 of a woman.

03:13:19.180 You're acknowledging

03:13:19.640 that women have value 1.00

03:13:20.980 in that.

03:13:21.320 No, I'm acknowledging

03:13:22.260 that there's divine

03:13:23.060 command.

03:13:23.620 You're not the same

03:13:23.760 as a man, but we

03:13:24.860 have value and we

03:13:25.720 have power and we

03:13:26.300 have edge.

03:13:26.700 I didn't say you

03:13:27.300 don't have value.

03:13:29.040 I just said your

03:13:29.620 value is not in

03:13:30.400 parliamentary politics.

03:13:31.560 In fact, you're

03:13:32.740 claiming your value

03:13:33.520 is not in

03:13:34.120 parliamentary politics.

03:13:35.140 You're claiming

03:13:35.460 your value is in

03:13:36.240 a support role at

03:13:37.240 home where you're

03:13:38.520 sewing up the 1.00

03:13:39.780 fucking socks and 1.00

03:13:40.700 cooking meals and 1.00

03:13:41.560 keeping the home

03:13:42.140 fires warm and not

03:13:43.760 out there fighting

03:13:44.420 the wars.

03:13:45.220 So, if that's what

03:13:45.920 your duty is, if

03:13:46.920 that's where your

03:13:47.480 place is, then why 1.00

03:13:48.840 the fuck are you in 0.99

03:13:49.500 parliamentary politics 1.00

03:13:50.580 voting to send

03:13:51.220 men to war?

03:13:52.220 That doesn't make

03:13:52.700 any sense.

03:13:53.000 If I have a service

03:13:53.820 to this world, if I

03:13:54.640 have a talent, if I

03:13:55.320 have the knowledge to

03:13:56.180 help this world, I, as

03:13:57.380 a woman, will put my 0.99

03:13:58.480 talent to use.

03:13:59.320 Yeah, but you're

03:13:59.700 talking about gender

03:14:00.320 rules.

03:14:00.480 Why do you need the

03:14:01.200 right to vote to do

03:14:01.900 that?

03:14:02.200 No, it's all coming

03:14:02.740 down to the same

03:14:03.280 thing.

03:14:03.700 It's all coming

03:14:04.200 down to a man being

03:14:05.740 drafted into the war

03:14:07.100 and they're saying

03:14:07.660 women shouldn't vote 1.00

03:14:08.460 because men are going 0.99

03:14:10.220 to draft it.

03:14:10.660 But it is.

03:14:11.060 I agree with the

03:14:12.220 point where it's

03:14:12.780 like, okay, Iran,

03:14:14.300 obviously, women have 1.00

03:14:16.600 such less freedoms and

03:14:19.800 voice and whatever it

03:14:20.600 is.

03:14:20.800 I get it.

03:14:21.820 But at age of 18, my

03:14:24.360 brother, or 16, if

03:14:25.700 you don't leave the

03:14:26.380 country, my brother

03:14:27.740 will get drafted.

03:14:28.540 I'm safe.

03:14:29.340 My brother is not.

03:14:30.100 My brother can never

03:14:30.860 go back to Iran because 1.00

03:14:31.680 he will get drafted and

03:14:32.580 has to go to war.

03:14:33.860 So for me, I agree with

03:14:35.040 that.

03:14:35.280 If you want to talk

03:14:35.980 about gender roles, then

03:14:37.080 yes, there has to be

03:14:38.120 an incentive, like

03:14:39.180 Andrew's talking about,

03:14:39.840 that it has to be a

03:14:40.320 bigger thing for the

03:14:41.020 man versus the woman. 0.97

03:14:42.280 I want to bring back

03:14:44.100 the gender roles.

03:14:44.920 I want to be at home.

03:14:46.100 I want to be the

03:14:47.260 nurturer.

03:14:48.360 Yes, you can have

03:14:49.160 value.

03:14:49.520 You can add to society.

03:14:50.620 It's no one saying

03:14:51.120 that.

03:14:51.440 But I want people to

03:14:53.580 have women and men 0.95

03:14:54.520 have equal, but I'm

03:14:55.380 not equal to a man.

03:14:56.420 So if they need to

03:14:57.780 have more rights, more

03:14:59.240 voice into things, then

03:15:00.520 yes, because I'm not

03:15:01.540 going to be able to

03:15:02.140 fulfill the things that

03:15:03.380 men do.

03:15:03.840 I'm not going to go to

03:15:04.480 war.

03:15:04.580 So you believe that you

03:15:05.100 shouldn't vote?

03:15:06.020 You believe that you

03:15:06.680 shouldn't vote as a 1.00

03:15:07.280 woman? 0.96

03:15:07.400 No, I can vote, but if

03:15:07.760 it comes to the...

03:15:07.980 No, but he's saying

03:15:08.740 that we shouldn't be

03:15:09.760 able to vote because

03:15:10.620 we're not being

03:15:11.180 drafted.

03:15:11.440 If it comes to the

03:15:12.540 politics, yeah, there's

03:15:13.440 a part of it that if

03:15:14.160 it's the politics of

03:15:15.060 war, if we're going to

03:15:15.860 bring back, if we

03:15:16.700 said earlier, if we're

03:15:17.740 going to change things

03:15:18.500 and bring the, you

03:15:19.400 know, the man, feminine 0.93

03:15:21.100 roles, bring back the

03:15:22.720 masculinity, okay, if

03:15:23.760 we're going to change

03:15:24.400 things, then yes, there

03:15:25.300 should be a change if

03:15:26.120 we're going to bring

03:15:26.540 the more masculine.

03:15:27.340 If I want to be a

03:15:27.820 stay-at-home wife, then

03:15:28.900 yes, the man being the

03:15:30.500 masculine, he should

03:15:31.520 have a higher voice.

03:15:33.140 So you're saying

03:15:33.460 Islam, like when it 1.00

03:15:34.560 comes to, we are

03:15:35.100 coming from a place

03:15:35.800 that my dad is the

03:15:37.900 head of the household

03:15:38.600 in Iran.

03:15:39.520 That's how I was

03:15:40.060 raised.

03:15:40.540 My dad said, whatever

03:15:41.460 my dad says goes.

03:15:43.140 So it's for me, I

03:15:44.440 agree with them because

03:15:45.320 it's like if we're

03:15:45.920 going to change the

03:15:46.500 system, if there's

03:15:47.160 a, there'll be a

03:15:47.760 change, if the

03:15:48.420 masculinity wants to 0.99

03:15:49.100 come back and we

03:15:49.600 want to be in our

03:15:50.100 feminine role, no 1.00

03:15:51.120 one's saying devalue

03:15:52.040 us, it's just saying

03:15:52.980 we want to be in our

03:15:53.600 feminine role, so 1.00

03:15:54.260 then there has to be

03:15:54.920 a change that men 0.88

03:15:55.600 have higher voice.

03:15:56.640 No, they should

03:15:57.440 have a higher voice.

03:15:57.460 Somebody gave you

03:15:57.800 a right, hey, this

03:15:58.640 is a golden ticket,

03:15:59.400 it's your right to

03:15:59.920 speak.

03:16:00.500 She's over here 0.99

03:16:01.020 trying to take it

03:16:01.460 back, like no, you

03:16:02.340 can't speak to me.

03:16:03.000 It's not saying

03:16:03.540 speak, but it's

03:16:04.820 saying like if you're

03:16:05.560 a politician, if you're

03:16:06.200 not going to step up

03:16:06.920 and...

03:16:07.280 No, no, it's not

03:16:08.500 a, see, that's the

03:16:09.220 thing, that's the

03:16:09.760 triggers of being

03:16:10.420 submissive, the

03:16:10.920 being submissive

03:16:11.500 slave, that doesn't 1.00

03:16:12.300 mean that's...

03:16:20.100 Submitting is not

03:16:20.740 a bad thing.

03:16:22.060 I'm talking about

03:16:22.720 from a woman to a 0.97

03:16:23.560 man, not from a

03:16:24.460 woman to her

03:16:25.200 Well, I don't know

03:16:25.860 what that...

03:16:26.220 No, a woman, that 1.00

03:16:26.960 is an honor when

03:16:27.840 you, in Islam...

03:16:28.720 The woman submitting

03:16:29.280 is fine.

03:16:29.820 Hold on, in Islam, no, 1.00

03:16:30.780 that is part of our

03:16:31.200 religion.

03:16:31.380 Even in Islam, it is 1.00

03:16:32.960 an honor when a

03:16:33.980 woman decides that 1.00

03:16:35.180 she wants to submit 0.94

03:16:36.120 to her man.

03:16:37.200 Okay, so don't say

03:16:37.860 it's a submissive

03:16:38.720 slave and it's about

03:16:39.480 the higher power.

03:16:39.860 I'm talking about

03:16:40.140 taking away your

03:16:40.660 power, what she

03:16:41.140 just said.

03:16:41.680 Okay, hang on.

03:16:43.320 I found your

03:16:44.880 gag here.

03:16:45.760 To quote him, Maximus...

03:16:47.100 Hang on, hang on,

03:16:49.060 and let me make

03:16:49.900 this quote real

03:16:50.540 quick.

03:16:50.880 This comes from

03:16:51.640 your guy that you

03:16:52.300 brought up, Maximus

03:16:53.780 Decimus Meridius.

03:16:55.480 And he says, when

03:16:57.400 death comes and

03:16:59.400 smiles at you, all

03:17:01.140 you can do is

03:17:02.380 smile back.

03:17:04.240 Right?

03:17:04.660 That's his quote.

03:17:05.940 Would you agree

03:17:06.420 with that quote?

03:17:07.460 Yeah.

03:17:07.760 From Maximus

03:17:08.360 Decimus Meridius?

03:17:09.300 Yes, I agree.

03:17:10.320 I just said that

03:17:10.860 during the war thing.

03:17:12.000 I literally just

03:17:12.340 said death is not

03:17:13.420 the worst thing

03:17:13.900 to happen.

03:17:13.920 Do you think women 0.99

03:17:14.180 are on the front

03:17:15.320 lines of the

03:17:15.940 battlefield smiling

03:17:16.920 back at death?

03:17:18.500 Yes, because

03:17:18.960 if you're fighting

03:17:19.560 for jihad, jihad is 0.76

03:17:20.700 an honorable death.

03:17:22.400 So you're saying

03:17:22.840 you're fighting for

03:17:23.600 your country, you're

03:17:25.060 fighting for justice,

03:17:26.000 you're fighting for

03:17:26.580 your peace in this 0.93

03:17:28.200 life, and you die, 0.92

03:17:29.680 that's the most 0.97

03:17:30.420 honorable death. 0.97

03:17:31.480 Yeah, but women 1.00

03:17:31.940 are not...

03:17:32.480 Okay, we're talking

03:17:33.020 about...

03:17:33.500 I don't know if

03:17:33.980 we're talking about

03:17:34.320 hypothetically or

03:17:35.120 what it is, because

03:17:35.760 the question that I

03:17:37.260 addressed earlier, if

03:17:38.520 we're going to change

03:17:39.360 things, then yes, I

03:17:40.480 want men to have the 1.00

03:17:41.760 say and more control

03:17:42.860 in politics, because

03:17:43.680 they do put their

03:17:44.480 lives on the line,

03:17:45.180 period.

03:17:45.940 That's the thing.

03:17:46.740 No one's saying

03:17:47.180 don't vote.

03:17:47.680 You can vote on

03:17:48.220 different things.

03:17:48.820 I didn't disagree

03:17:49.280 with that.

03:17:49.720 Yeah.

03:17:50.260 I didn't disagree

03:17:50.820 with that.

03:17:51.260 My point is saying,

03:17:52.360 my whole point, since

03:17:53.360 I started speaking,

03:17:54.260 was women should be 1.00

03:17:56.060 able to vote.

03:17:56.820 They should be able

03:17:57.220 to vote, but not

03:17:57.780 in the politics.

03:17:58.560 It's like things

03:17:59.500 pertaining to war.

03:18:00.700 I do have to move it

03:18:02.360 on a little bit here.

03:18:03.300 Desert Joe, keeping

03:18:04.100 this in the context

03:18:04.740 of the U.S.

03:18:05.240 and what is currently

03:18:05.760 the law in the books,

03:18:06.840 all men are required 1.00

03:18:07.540 to register for

03:18:08.160 selective service draft

03:18:09.440 at age 18 in order

03:18:11.080 to get the right to

03:18:11.860 vote.

03:18:12.500 Women are not. 1.00

03:18:14.000 So to bring it back

03:18:14.800 to your original thing,

03:18:15.540 you had a disagreement.

03:18:16.420 You said that you

03:18:17.900 disagree with me that

03:18:18.760 I think women should 1.00

03:18:19.940 be drafted.

03:18:21.200 Unlike you, I think

03:18:22.240 women should be able 1.00

03:18:23.000 to vote.

03:18:24.260 And so, but with that

03:18:25.740 should come a form of

03:18:27.380 equality between men

03:18:28.640 and women and that 1.00

03:18:29.640 equality would manifest

03:18:30.800 itself as women after

03:18:32.620 over a hundred years

03:18:34.020 having the right to

03:18:34.720 vote, but without any

03:18:35.680 corresponding responsibility

03:18:37.260 in the same way that

03:18:38.180 men had a corresponding

03:18:39.500 responsibility for them

03:18:41.460 to secure, for men to

03:18:42.640 secure their right to

03:18:43.460 vote, yeah, women 1.00

03:18:45.340 should be subject to

03:18:46.540 the draft because we

03:18:47.660 can talk about, frankly,

03:18:49.780 I think it's going to

03:18:50.520 be much more politically

03:18:51.760 achievable to make

03:18:55.200 women subject to forced 0.86

03:18:56.380 military conscription

03:18:57.280 than it will be to walk

03:18:58.340 back women's right to 1.00

03:18:59.760 vote.

03:19:00.180 So just pragmatically

03:19:01.260 speaking, we need to

03:19:02.440 move towards what

03:19:04.940 feminists have been 1.00

03:19:05.580 fighting for, equality.

03:19:07.180 Y'all can be drafted

03:19:07.940 too.

03:19:08.860 Although even then, even

03:19:10.020 in the case where you

03:19:10.840 were drafted, it still

03:19:12.640 wouldn't be fair for a

03:19:14.260 myriad of reasons.

03:19:15.240 And even if they, I

03:19:16.360 think I saw something

03:19:17.060 how what they're

03:19:18.460 currently arguing, I

03:19:19.620 guess, in the

03:19:20.280 government is they are

03:19:22.520 thinking about drafting

03:19:23.380 women, but they would 1.00

03:19:24.500 not be drafted into any

03:19:26.680 frontline combat.

03:19:27.660 And even if they were

03:19:28.860 drafted into frontline

03:19:29.840 combat, women always 1.00

03:19:31.560 have an out, whether

03:19:32.800 they're volunteer or

03:19:33.920 whether they were

03:19:34.860 drafted.

03:19:36.100 What you see happening

03:19:37.100 a lot with military

03:19:38.560 women who are 1.00

03:19:39.180 volunteers, before

03:19:40.840 they're about to be

03:19:41.740 shipped out or whatever,

03:19:43.120 they just get pregnant. 1.00

03:19:43.900 And if you get pregnant,

03:19:47.200 that's a, they, they, I

03:19:48.560 don't know the exact

03:19:49.620 procedures, but you

03:19:51.280 would not be, you

03:19:52.960 would not be deployed.

03:19:54.360 And they might just give

03:19:55.920 you a honorable discharge

03:19:58.060 or something, medical

03:19:59.160 discharge, I'm not

03:19:59.860 entirely sure.

03:20:00.880 But yeah, you can always,

03:20:02.800 at the end of the day,

03:20:03.520 as a woman, you can 0.95

03:20:04.160 always kind of avoid it.

03:20:05.460 So.

03:20:05.860 Yeah.

03:20:06.020 I think that just

03:20:07.960 instituting the woman's 1.00

03:20:09.300 draft for equality, I

03:20:10.920 would be behind that and

03:20:11.800 allow voting to continue

03:20:12.900 because I do believe 100%

03:20:14.860 that we're a general draft

03:20:17.220 instituted and women

03:20:18.240 actually feared that they

03:20:20.020 themselves would be

03:20:20.720 drafted, their voting

03:20:21.580 patterns would greatly

03:20:22.540 change and we'd never see

03:20:23.620 a Democrat in office again

03:20:25.020 for the rest of our lives.

03:20:26.360 That's what I think.

03:20:27.220 Absolutely.

03:20:27.880 Because they wouldn't have,

03:20:28.800 they would at that point

03:20:29.780 have to face the

03:20:30.720 consequences of whatever

03:20:32.000 they're voting for.

03:20:32.940 Right, a thing which

03:20:33.980 women often don't face 1.00

03:20:35.240 consequences for the

03:20:36.520 things that they do.

03:20:37.460 So I would actually like

03:20:38.360 to see women held to 0.93

03:20:39.760 account and I think that

03:20:40.920 if there was a general

03:20:42.000 draft and I would even

03:20:43.700 go further with the law

03:20:44.640 and say for every man

03:20:45.500 drafted in a war, a woman

03:20:47.600 equally also must be

03:20:49.120 drafted.

03:20:49.780 So in this case, I think

03:20:52.240 that you would, it's

03:20:53.060 complete equality, you

03:20:54.100 would share the burden

03:20:54.760 across the board and what

03:20:56.360 we'd end up with is much

03:20:57.740 more responsible voting

03:20:58.820 patterns from women.

03:21:00.340 All right, well you sit

03:21:00.960 down for nine months and

03:21:02.300 have the baby.

03:21:02.940 In your stomach.

03:21:03.860 Yeah, you spend, you

03:21:05.160 know, 20 years of your

03:21:06.080 life raising them like I

03:21:08.180 did.

03:21:08.720 My husband works way

03:21:10.100 harder than I do.

03:21:11.120 I'm just saying.

03:21:12.060 What's the argument?

03:21:12.840 Do you think I haven't

03:21:14.320 been in the room many,

03:21:15.720 many times watching the

03:21:17.760 painstaking agony that

03:21:18.960 women go through for two 1.00

03:21:20.180 fucking days? 1.00

03:21:21.440 Try it for 20 years. 1.00

03:21:23.180 Try going in the most

03:21:24.140 horrific things you can

03:21:25.320 ever imagine for 20 1.00

03:21:26.760 fucking years breaking 1.00

03:21:27.720 your body down for years 1.00

03:21:29.520 and years and years.

03:21:30.400 And I'm supposed to 1.00

03:21:30.860 kiss your ass because 1.00

03:21:31.920 for two days you ran 1.00

03:21:32.920 a little bit of agony. 1.00

03:21:34.280 Fuck that shit. 1.00

03:21:36.380 Okay, all right. 1.00

03:21:37.420 I'm done with this

03:21:38.080 discussion.

03:21:40.640 Would you rather, let

03:21:41.680 me just, I'm just

03:21:42.220 curious, would you

03:21:42.860 rather be on the front

03:21:45.820 for six months or go

03:21:47.820 through pregnancy?

03:21:49.760 I'd rather go through

03:21:50.720 pregnancy.

03:21:52.140 Okay.

03:21:53.700 Yeah, because I'm

03:21:54.440 alone and that's what

03:21:55.400 I was blessed with in

03:21:56.960 this life, to give

03:21:57.800 life.

03:21:58.140 Okay, so then.

03:22:01.280 What would you rather

03:22:02.120 do?

03:22:02.840 What would you rather

03:22:04.100 do?

03:22:05.860 What front?

03:22:06.960 World War I?

03:22:07.800 I'll be pregnant.

03:22:11.040 Wait.

03:22:11.780 Bro, none of, it's crazy

03:22:13.240 because I think like a lot

03:22:14.640 of you don't even have,

03:22:16.260 like, you don't even have

03:22:17.660 a base understanding of

03:22:19.460 warfare at all.

03:22:21.360 You don't even know when

03:22:22.360 World War I is.

03:22:23.200 You don't even know when

03:22:23.980 World War II is.

03:22:24.800 You don't know the

03:22:25.640 absolute barbarism that

03:22:27.220 occurred during these

03:22:28.140 just brutal military

03:22:29.940 conflicts.

03:22:31.260 And so, if a woman's 1.00

03:22:32.800 never even heard of

03:22:33.780 Trench Foot, she's never 1.00

03:22:34.860 even heard of chemical,

03:22:36.100 like, chemical weapons.

03:22:38.900 Mustard gas, for example.

03:22:41.120 Like, these are really

03:22:42.700 male-exclusive sufferings

03:22:44.740 that have occurred

03:22:45.280 through history.

03:22:46.080 I can't think of, like,

03:22:47.340 women who got Trench Foot. 1.00

03:22:49.800 You guys probably don't

03:22:51.000 even know what Trench Foot

03:22:51.880 is.

03:22:52.840 You don't know what, like,

03:22:54.500 if you look at the just

03:22:55.800 absolute catastrophe of

03:22:57.200 warfare, all of, like,

03:22:58.820 the vast majority of

03:22:59.740 these absolutely devastating

03:23:02.540 outcomes almost exclusively

03:23:04.480 impact men.

03:23:05.880 But then why do you ask

03:23:06.900 for...

03:23:07.200 You just don't know.

03:23:07.480 Why do you guys...

03:23:07.940 You're like, you guys are 1.00

03:23:09.040 oblivious and ignorant to, 1.00

03:23:11.340 like, the absolute, like, 0.97

03:23:13.980 insanity that is war.

03:23:15.040 How can I respect you as a

03:23:16.080 man if you don't want to

03:23:16.580 get up and fight the war?

03:23:17.800 That's my thing.

03:23:18.320 How can I look at you as a

03:23:19.260 masculine man if you don't

03:23:20.460 want to get up and fight

03:23:21.120 in the war?

03:23:21.500 Who will vote to send 0.98

03:23:23.240 people off to a war but

03:23:24.720 still wants to vote?

03:23:26.000 How can you vote to send

03:23:28.120 men off to war?

03:23:29.560 Because I'm happy.

03:23:30.900 That's completely

03:23:31.120 irresponsible and not

03:23:32.520 respectable at all.

03:23:32.680 Because one, that's my

03:23:33.340 right.

03:23:33.760 And two, I have the ability

03:23:35.960 and the, like, the right

03:23:37.600 to give children, to give

03:23:38.660 life, to add to this

03:23:39.600 population.

03:23:40.180 Can men do that? 0.56

03:23:40.860 No.

03:23:41.360 Yes.

03:23:41.740 You need men's... 1.00

03:23:43.240 Yeah, stop.

03:23:44.060 You need men's genetic 1.00

03:23:45.040 material to create life.

03:23:46.540 It's not unilateral.

03:23:47.580 You don't just whimsically

03:23:49.520 come up with a child in

03:23:50.800 your brain and you're 0.79

03:23:51.540 pregnant. 0.60

03:23:52.240 It requires male genetic 1.00

03:23:53.520 material called sperm.

03:23:55.320 Through pleasure.

03:23:56.260 And after, hang on, after 0.78

03:23:57.540 the sperm is injected 0.96

03:23:58.680 inside of your womb, then

03:24:00.480 the egg is fertilized, then

03:24:02.000 there's life.

03:24:02.560 This is not unilateral.

03:24:04.200 This is not something, you

03:24:05.020 don't just walk around and

03:24:06.040 go, well, I'm going to

03:24:07.180 reproduce today.

03:24:08.240 Boom.

03:24:08.940 That's not how it works.

03:24:10.260 You need male genetic 1.00

03:24:11.220 material.

03:24:12.100 It's totally and completely

03:24:13.300 irresponsible for women to 1.00

03:24:15.220 say, I demand the right to

03:24:16.720 vote so that I have a say

03:24:17.740 so, when you could vote in

03:24:19.380 politicians who send in

03:24:20.840 people to wars, which you

03:24:22.840 then will not have to

03:24:23.940 fight.

03:24:24.600 That's not only fundamentally

03:24:25.720 unfair and undemocratic,

03:24:27.620 but it's also monstrous.

03:24:29.420 It's monstrous to make the

03:24:30.740 claim that a section of

03:24:32.000 society who claims that

03:24:33.640 they are equal and free

03:24:35.020 can then use a different

03:24:36.640 subset of society to go

03:24:38.680 fight their wars on their

03:24:39.780 behalf.

03:24:40.580 That's crazy talk.

03:24:43.080 Burmese Mountain Tiger,

03:24:44.460 thank you for the 10

03:24:45.100 gifted subs and thank you

03:24:46.140 for the big 50 gifted

03:24:47.220 subs.

03:24:47.720 Really good to see you

03:24:48.460 back in the chat, man.

03:24:49.200 He's a brave and a decent

03:24:50.280 man.

03:24:50.740 He's a pioneer.

03:24:52.020 By the way, Andrew just

03:24:52.960 cooked.

03:24:53.740 That was beautiful, Andrew.

03:24:54.600 Thank you.

03:24:54.880 Thank you.

03:24:55.160 That was a great one.

03:24:56.420 Burmese Mountain Tiger,

03:24:58.180 good to see you in the

03:24:58.780 chat, man.

03:24:59.140 Thank you.

03:24:59.460 Thank you.

03:24:59.740 Appreciate it.

03:25:00.220 Thank you for all the

03:25:00.740 gifted subs, man.

03:25:01.400 You're a legend.

03:25:03.080 Anyways, I do got to move

03:25:04.080 it on a little bit here from

03:25:05.400 the draft.

03:25:06.420 Why don't we get...

03:25:07.200 By the way, that was a

03:25:07.740 great exchange.

03:25:09.160 I did actually enjoy the

03:25:10.920 fact that they had

03:25:11.540 arguments.

03:25:12.400 That's rare on the show,

03:25:13.480 but you had arguments.

03:25:14.300 Hats off to you.

03:25:17.280 I wasn't wearing one, but

03:25:18.240 if I was, hats off because

03:25:19.860 you actually had arguments

03:25:20.880 and I do appreciate that.

03:25:22.120 There you go.

03:25:23.100 That's great.

03:25:23.620 I think mine comes from

03:25:25.080 being in the middle of

03:25:26.000 Iran in Iraq war and you 0.93

03:25:27.360 actually hear the bombs

03:25:28.580 going off and the fear of

03:25:31.020 having people, brothers,

03:25:33.380 family being drafted.

03:25:34.800 I think that's where it is.

03:25:36.100 I would be for when men 0.98

03:25:38.480 have more control if they're

03:25:40.040 being drafted because when

03:25:41.020 you're in that...

03:25:42.580 When you hear the

03:25:43.920 damages, when you hear the

03:25:45.020 war, when you hear the

03:25:46.120 bombs going over your

03:25:46.980 head, and you have to run

03:25:48.800 for safety, go to a

03:25:49.600 basement, it's a completely

03:25:50.340 different perspective that

03:25:51.820 comes from it where it's

03:25:52.600 like I would never want to

03:25:53.680 be...

03:25:54.040 I would never want to be in

03:25:55.080 the front lines.

03:25:55.840 So for me, if it's like if

03:25:56.940 they're going to be in the

03:25:57.620 front lines, then yeah, I

03:25:58.520 want them to have more

03:25:59.320 power in the decision

03:26:00.180 making of where that war is

03:26:02.260 going to go and what's not

03:26:03.160 going to happen.

03:26:05.220 Okay.

03:26:05.720 So moving things on, I

03:26:07.180 think going back to one of

03:26:08.080 the disagreements, going to

03:26:09.400 Jessica here, you, I think

03:26:13.040 in your initial message,

03:26:14.660 excuse me, you said that

03:26:16.140 Brian said plastic surgery

03:26:17.940 is a mental illness, and 0.81

03:26:21.100 you wanted to come have a 0.86

03:26:22.640 conversation about that.

03:26:23.800 You work in a, like,

03:26:25.160 cosmetics office or plastic

03:26:27.540 surgeon's office.

03:26:28.620 Yes.

03:26:28.880 So my view is, generally

03:26:33.380 speaking, women who, and I

03:26:36.180 suppose men too, who elect

03:26:38.180 to get purely cosmetic

03:26:40.840 surgery, I do think it

03:26:42.120 pretty strongly correlates to

03:26:44.400 mental illness.

03:26:45.500 You seem to disagree. 0.83

03:26:46.780 I'm happy to have a

03:26:48.020 conversation about it.

03:26:49.680 Well, I guess, so purely

03:26:50.860 cosmetic, there's two

03:26:52.040 different reasons people get

03:26:53.520 plastic surgery.

03:26:54.380 One is vanity, and they

03:26:55.600 actually call it Snapchat

03:26:57.860 dysphoria, where people are

03:26:59.380 basically trying to get

03:27:00.720 surgery to look like the

03:27:01.660 Snapchat version of

03:27:02.800 themselves.

03:27:03.660 So in that case, yes, I

03:27:05.340 would, I would agree with

03:27:06.600 you, just because those

03:27:07.760 people are nightmares to

03:27:08.720 deal with, but, you know,

03:27:10.960 obviously my office, we're

03:27:12.120 very unique.

03:27:12.720 We deal with mostly men, 1.00

03:27:14.000 which we don't even do

03:27:15.180 Botox there.

03:27:16.680 Most plastic surgery are 0.98

03:27:17.880 all women and boobs and 1.00

03:27:18.980 everything, but I don't know 0.95

03:27:20.920 if you guys know what

03:27:21.580 gynecomastia is. 0.75

03:27:22.640 So it is plastic surgery.

03:27:24.420 It is considered cosmetic.

03:27:25.580 Um, you know, it's not

03:27:27.240 covered under insurance

03:27:28.360 unless you need like a

03:27:29.720 full chest lift, but, uh,

03:27:31.800 Is this for the, uh, T

03:27:32.840 stuff?

03:27:34.100 Gynecomastia? 0.80

03:27:34.500 No.

03:27:35.300 No.

03:27:35.560 No, it can be, because a

03:27:36.660 lot of guys, they

03:27:37.460 associate it with being on

03:27:38.520 testosterone, which it

03:27:39.700 can, um, but we do a lot

03:27:41.800 of teenagers.

03:27:42.460 We do a lot of 12-year-olds.

03:27:43.460 No, I mean the T and

03:27:44.420 LGBT.

03:27:45.760 Oh, no, no.

03:27:46.520 We don't do that.

03:27:47.140 We don't do any gender.

03:27:48.440 Yes.

03:27:48.940 No, we don't.

03:27:49.960 I think, unless they've

03:27:51.080 changed it, I think that the

03:27:52.140 surgeons have to have

03:27:52.960 special insurance if they

03:27:54.260 do gender-affirming

03:27:55.160 care, um, we don't do

03:27:57.320 that.

03:27:57.780 We, gynecomastia is

03:27:58.600 basically enlarged male

03:27:59.600 breasts, so we'll do it 1.00

03:28:01.240 on teenagers, like little

03:28:02.280 boys that are literally

03:28:03.360 like so little body fat,

03:28:04.900 and then they have 0.86

03:28:05.700 puffy nipples or like 0.98

03:28:07.060 almost B-cut breasts, and 0.99

03:28:08.480 it's, I mean, the stuff

03:28:09.980 that I see, that's why

03:28:11.320 when I saw the mental

03:28:12.080 illness, I see boys

03:28:13.900 literally taping their

03:28:14.960 chest with duct tape just

03:28:16.260 so they don't get

03:28:16.780 bullied or made fun of.

03:28:18.060 You know, it's a...

03:28:18.540 But that does have a lot

03:28:19.980 to do with estrogen,

03:28:21.140 testosterone, this type of

03:28:22.200 thing.

03:28:22.380 It does.

03:28:22.960 Yeah, it could be

03:28:23.480 genetic, it can be

03:28:24.420 hormones, I mean, you can

03:28:25.980 get it from steroid use,

03:28:27.400 um, you know, obviously

03:28:28.540 like the teenagers aren't

03:28:29.700 on steroids, but...

03:28:30.780 But so what, okay, so

03:28:31.580 what, uh, this is

03:28:33.360 typically, uh, gynecomastia,

03:28:36.420 it's, is the right word

03:28:37.880 anormal?

03:28:39.800 Yeah.

03:28:40.900 It's, it's not like...

03:28:42.160 It is abnormal.

03:28:42.820 It is not the normal

03:28:43.920 manifestation of breast

03:28:45.160 tissue in men.

03:28:46.040 No, and most men do have

03:28:47.340 some breast tissue, but this

03:28:48.680 is an enlarged, so it's

03:28:50.220 literally like a mass.

03:28:50.980 And it can stem from a

03:28:52.440 medical problem.

03:28:54.100 Yeah, well, I mean...

03:28:54.920 Such as...

03:28:56.480 Well, it's hormonal

03:28:57.860 imbalance, genetics, um, it

03:28:59.860 can be caused by

03:29:00.560 medication.

03:29:01.040 Yeah, and this hormonal

03:29:01.940 imbalance is causing them

03:29:03.140 to, uh, look away that is

03:29:06.520 not typical of, uh, of men.

03:29:09.580 Yeah, and I mean, the

03:29:10.580 stuff that we, we hear,

03:29:12.080 it's, it's so sad.

03:29:13.400 I mean, these kids get 1.00

03:29:14.500 called, like, bitch tits, 1.00

03:29:15.480 and I mean, the stuff is 1.00

03:29:17.360 really, really awful, but

03:29:18.340 I've seen a different side

03:29:19.560 of how it really affects

03:29:21.040 men, especially when it

03:29:22.280 comes to...

03:29:22.640 Well, wouldn't you liken

03:29:23.340 this to, like, um, you

03:29:25.060 know, a burn victim or

03:29:26.600 something like this, if

03:29:27.660 somebody was a burn

03:29:28.640 victim?

03:29:29.340 I mean, Brian's been

03:29:29.980 pretty clear that he

03:29:31.040 thinks that cosmetic

03:29:31.940 surgery, which is done

03:29:33.080 for the purpose of

03:29:34.320 reintroducing normalcy,

03:29:36.560 rather than some type of

03:29:38.180 bump up into a different

03:29:39.220 classification, is fine.

03:29:41.140 I mean, he's...

03:29:41.660 Yeah, well, I agree

03:29:42.260 with that.

03:29:42.280 He's basically, that's

03:29:42.960 been his position every

03:29:44.880 single time I've heard

03:29:45.600 him lay it down, in

03:29:46.340 fact.

03:29:46.820 Yeah.

03:29:46.980 Okay, the clip I saw,

03:29:48.340 it just said, plastic

03:29:49.080 surgery is a mental

03:29:49.820 illness, and I was like,

03:29:50.840 not the type, because,

03:29:51.920 yeah, burn victim...

03:29:52.200 Well, I think he's

03:29:53.140 talking about lip filler,

03:29:56.060 butt lifts, things like

03:29:57.040 this, which are designed

03:29:58.060 specifically to be high-risk

03:29:59.420 beauty enhancements, not

03:30:01.560 a way...

03:30:02.560 So, like, for instance,

03:30:03.720 there are women who are 1.00

03:30:04.640 born with a smaller

03:30:06.160 breast than their other 0.68

03:30:07.280 breasts, right? 0.95

03:30:08.560 Yeah.

03:30:08.720 This is something that's

03:30:09.680 fairly common.

03:30:11.340 I don't think anybody,

03:30:12.560 anybody, even people who

03:30:13.580 are against plastic

03:30:14.900 surgery, would be

03:30:15.800 against taking care of

03:30:17.400 that issue for them,

03:30:18.560 that's not problematic.

03:30:21.120 I don't think that

03:30:21.920 that's a fair way to

03:30:23.780 phrase it.

03:30:24.340 He's talking specifically

03:30:25.880 about people who are

03:30:26.900 using cosmetic surgery

03:30:28.220 in order to enhance

03:30:29.540 themselves into what

03:30:30.560 look like plastic

03:30:31.440 monsters.

03:30:32.620 Yeah.

03:30:33.100 I mean, like I said,

03:30:34.180 we don't do Botox or

03:30:35.320 filler, so I guess I

03:30:38.000 work in a very unique

03:30:39.040 plastic surgery setting.

03:30:40.100 I guess what I'm saying

03:30:40.860 is there's two sides to

03:30:41.840 it, you know, for

03:30:42.800 cosmetic.

03:30:44.280 I think it's affecting

03:30:45.440 you.

03:30:45.800 If you're trying to

03:30:46.260 become something that

03:30:47.180 you're not because you're

03:30:48.140 just so insecure, sure.

03:30:49.640 Obviously, there's

03:30:50.240 something mentally going

03:30:51.060 on, but if there's

03:30:52.460 something wrong with you

03:30:53.240 and you're trying to

03:30:53.760 correct something that's

03:30:54.540 abnormal, I don't see a

03:30:55.740 problem with it.

03:30:56.860 Right.

03:30:57.360 So, yeah, I mean,

03:30:57.980 when it comes to, like,

03:31:01.080 certain procedures, I

03:31:02.000 don't really have any

03:31:03.340 objections to certain

03:31:04.360 procedures.

03:31:04.800 I think the genesis of

03:31:07.000 plastic surgery actually

03:31:08.180 originated, I think,

03:31:09.840 with even men who

03:31:11.780 went to war and they 0.79

03:31:13.780 had severe deformities

03:31:15.380 in their face, they 0.91

03:31:16.200 got a bullet to the 0.98

03:31:16.980 face, shrapnel shell to

03:31:18.640 the face, and so their

03:31:20.000 faces were totally

03:31:20.900 deformed, and even if

03:31:22.620 there wasn't

03:31:23.020 necessarily, it wasn't

03:31:25.020 necessarily causing

03:31:26.460 some sort of medical

03:31:27.280 issue, perhaps they

03:31:28.340 could breathe fine, but

03:31:29.600 their face was severely

03:31:30.660 deformed, it made it 1.00

03:31:32.440 difficult for them to

03:31:33.320 maneuver through society,

03:31:34.480 they were looked at,

03:31:35.400 et cetera, et cetera,

03:31:36.100 et cetera.

03:31:37.060 Even if it was cosmetic

03:31:38.400 in that sense, it was

03:31:39.660 bringing them back to 0.66

03:31:40.860 normal, or as close to

03:31:42.540 normal as possible,

03:31:43.460 obviously plastic surgery

03:31:44.460 has evolved quite a bit

03:31:45.960 over the years.

03:31:47.240 Well, let me ask you a

03:31:48.740 question, if you don't

03:31:49.380 mind, Brian, because I'd

03:31:50.280 like to get clarification

03:31:50.980 on this from you, too.

03:31:52.720 Let's say that there was

03:31:53.640 a big rally that a guy

03:31:55.280 was at, and a projectile

03:31:56.860 whizzed by his head at

03:31:58.220 lightning speed, and put a

03:31:59.920 hole in the side of his

03:32:00.820 face, but a small one,

03:32:02.180 okay, and then he, being

03:32:05.080 the future president of the

03:32:06.100 United States, pumped his

03:32:07.180 hand up and went, yeah!

03:32:09.240 And there was a plastic

03:32:10.400 surgeon on scene who

03:32:11.700 could tape it together

03:32:12.640 real quick and make it

03:32:13.700 look like no scar, no

03:32:14.640 damage, nothing like that.

03:32:15.320 You wouldn't be against

03:32:15.940 that, right?

03:32:17.220 No, I would not be

03:32:18.280 against that, no.

03:32:18.980 Okay, fair enough.

03:32:19.100 Because there was an

03:32:20.580 injury, you know, let's say

03:32:21.900 his ear was, like, flopping

03:32:24.060 off, you know, I think.

03:32:27.740 And actually, wouldn't just

03:32:28.920 any surgeon be able to just

03:32:30.100 sew it back together?

03:32:31.100 You know what I mean?

03:32:33.000 Yeah, but would you mind if

03:32:34.980 there was some type of,

03:32:36.380 like, special cosmetic

03:32:38.420 surgeon who came in to

03:32:39.660 make sure that there was

03:32:40.380 very little or limited

03:32:41.640 scarring because this person

03:32:43.760 happens as the future

03:32:44.740 president of the United

03:32:45.300 States to be a prominent

03:32:46.800 politician, would you have

03:32:49.320 even a problem with that?

03:32:50.300 Yeah, no objections there.

03:32:51.560 My primary objections tend

03:32:53.800 to be these purely, purely

03:32:56.180 vanity cosmetic procedures,

03:32:58.180 BBL, lip filler, lipo, fake

03:33:02.020 breasts, labiaplasty, et

03:33:04.240 cetera.

03:33:06.320 As somebody who's had, 0.75

03:33:08.760 obviously, my boobs in, if I 1.00

03:33:12.100 had to do it again, I 0.96

03:33:13.060 definitely wouldn't have

03:33:14.100 because I went through so

03:33:17.220 much that I think it caused

03:33:18.360 more trauma than it did

03:33:20.420 because for me, it was, I

03:33:22.300 was doing more fitness

03:33:23.340 shoots and all I want, I

03:33:24.660 already had big breasts to 1.00

03:33:25.860 begin with, and all I wanted 0.94

03:33:27.800 was, like, a little bit of

03:33:28.600 side boob, maybe upper 1.00

03:33:29.880 fuller, and, like, I've had

03:33:31.960 probably four or five

03:33:32.840 surgeries, and I'm still

03:33:33.800 not happy.

03:33:34.480 I had, it led into

03:33:36.240 depression, I was celibate

03:33:38.180 for five years because I

03:33:39.040 was, like, I don't want to

03:33:39.980 date, like, so that's how

03:33:41.540 Jess and I actually met.

03:33:42.440 She was my nurse, like,

03:33:44.140 eight years ago, and.

03:33:46.400 How old were you when you

03:33:47.500 got the. . .

03:33:48.360 I was 32 when I first got

03:33:50.420 him, and it was supposed to

03:33:51.260 be a simple, my best friend

03:33:52.880 got him, and I wanted him

03:33:54.100 for, like, 10 years, and I

03:33:55.200 was, like, you know what,

03:33:56.000 let me just do it, and

03:33:56.960 it's funny because I

03:33:57.540 couldn't even come up

03:33:58.060 with the reason when my

03:33:58.780 mom told me.

03:33:59.380 As an adult, my mom's,

03:34:00.780 like, I'm, like, oh, I'm 0.99

03:34:02.000 going to get my boobs 0.94

03:34:02.900 done, and he's, like, 0.99

03:34:03.880 well, you tell your dad.

03:34:04.780 I'm, like, no, you tell

03:34:05.480 that.

03:34:05.780 Like, literally, I felt

03:34:06.600 like a little kid, like,

03:34:07.360 telling my dad, like,

03:34:08.700 oh, I'm going to get my. . .

03:34:09.300 He's, like, why?

03:34:09.800 I was, like, oh, I just

03:34:10.480 want him, and it's. . .

03:34:11.240 There literally wasn't a

03:34:12.020 reason.

03:34:12.320 I didn't need to.

03:34:13.580 Went to many doctors.

03:34:14.780 They told me, actually, not

03:34:15.720 to get him done because

03:34:16.460 they said if you're going

03:34:17.020 to do it, you need a lift

03:34:18.360 and implants because

03:34:20.140 you're going to get. . .

03:34:20.980 What is it?

03:34:21.320 The double bubble,

03:34:22.180 whatever it's called.

03:34:24.420 So, I got him done.

03:34:25.980 I honestly shouldn't have

03:34:27.100 touched him after I got

03:34:28.360 him done the first time,

03:34:29.480 but I was very greedy

03:34:30.640 because I wanted him

03:34:32.040 more natural, and then

03:34:33.340 I was, like, well, it's

03:34:34.120 not. . .

03:34:34.440 It's disproportionate to

03:34:35.380 my body.

03:34:36.940 Within, I think, eight

03:34:37.940 months, I switched him

03:34:39.060 out.

03:34:39.440 Ended up having a

03:34:40.080 hematoma.

03:34:41.000 I had blisters everywhere.

03:34:42.820 I had to have areola

03:34:43.700 tattoos.

03:34:44.540 Had to have, like,

03:34:45.600 multiple surgeries since

03:34:46.600 then.

03:34:46.800 Like, one, there's, like,

03:34:48.320 so much pain because I

03:34:49.180 lift weights at the gym,

03:34:50.900 so when I lift, the

03:34:51.900 harder it gets.

03:34:52.940 And honestly, to this

03:34:54.120 day, I am still not

03:34:55.080 happy.

03:34:55.520 Like, I'm just waiting to

03:34:56.740 get to the goal weight

03:34:57.740 that I want, and I may

03:34:59.460 take them out.

03:35:00.520 And when girls ask me,

03:35:01.780 I'm, like, don't. . .

03:35:02.700 I'm not the one to ask

03:35:03.720 because, like, I love the

03:35:04.680 way they look, but I feel

03:35:06.900 like there's a part of me

03:35:07.660 that I lost because I,

03:35:08.860 for example, even, like,

03:35:09.920 there was a tomboy part

03:35:11.680 of me or fitness where I

03:35:12.820 would do push-ups, pull-ups,

03:35:14.080 all those things.

03:35:15.160 I don't really do those

03:35:16.160 anymore because it's

03:35:16.800 just uncomfortable or

03:35:17.780 it's painful, so I feel

03:35:18.940 like it's limited me in

03:35:20.260 many ways, but I'm, I

03:35:22.060 don't know, I may be an

03:35:23.120 anomaly, but I definitely

03:35:24.680 regret doing it because

03:35:26.960 each time I've done it,

03:35:28.700 I've been more dissatisfied

03:35:31.260 than the time before, so

03:35:33.020 yeah.

03:35:35.020 Yeah, I mean, well,

03:35:36.880 Madison back here, her

03:35:38.520 aunt got BBL surgery and

03:35:42.080 she died.

03:35:42.560 Oh, yeah.

03:35:44.700 What is sepsis or what,

03:35:45.800 what happened?

03:35:46.700 There's a lot of

03:35:47.520 vascularity, so they, yeah.

03:35:50.140 But it's just, I mean,

03:35:51.240 my purview is, is that

03:35:52.760 typically, I mean, for,

03:35:56.200 it's probably mental

03:35:57.880 illness.

03:35:59.140 What about, like, a neck

03:36:00.000 lift when you're older

03:36:00.960 and especially for men

03:36:02.040 because you guys have the

03:36:02.900 button-up shirts and it

03:36:04.200 starts pinching there?

03:36:06.220 He's like, I'll wear my

03:36:06.960 sweater, hoodie.

03:36:07.820 I got a beard, I'm

03:36:08.560 chilling.

03:36:08.820 Um, don't wear

03:36:10.700 button-ups too much.

03:36:12.140 But, I think everything

03:36:14.940 in moderation.

03:36:15.900 I, I do agree the, like,

03:36:17.540 the cat lady stuff.

03:36:17.700 Wait, so it's

03:36:18.140 uncomfortable?

03:36:19.020 Yeah.

03:36:19.440 If a guy has a, a

03:36:21.080 I know, women don't have 1.00

03:36:21.940 these issues, but the

03:36:22.760 collared shirts on men

03:36:23.660 have no flexibility, so

03:36:25.420 like a lot of our, like,

03:36:26.620 business guys will get

03:36:27.460 neck lifts because when

03:36:28.520 they do this, it has

03:36:29.720 this, like, overhang and

03:36:30.600 it pinches the skin.

03:36:31.900 I mean, if, if they're,

03:36:34.660 like, required in their

03:36:36.220 business endeavors to, they

03:36:38.620 got to wear a suit and

03:36:40.980 it's, like, causing pain,

03:36:42.560 I suppose I'm fine with

03:36:44.160 that.

03:36:45.020 So, it's the excessive.

03:36:46.200 But, like, let me ask

03:36:47.560 you a question.

03:36:48.380 Let me ask you a question.

03:36:49.560 For breast implants, is

03:36:51.520 there any scenario where,

03:36:53.640 like, it's a woman is in

03:36:55.240 pain and she would need 0.92

03:36:56.720 breast implants, breast 0.58

03:36:59.040 implants to prevent her

03:37:00.920 pain?

03:37:01.520 Now, I know there's

03:37:02.080 breast reduction.

03:37:03.260 That's not really what I'm

03:37:04.120 talking about.

03:37:05.860 So, they use implants,

03:37:07.180 it depends.

03:37:07.540 So, they use them for

03:37:09.140 mastectomies after they

03:37:10.940 literally take everything

03:37:11.980 off as a shaper. 0.98

03:37:13.480 But those are considered

03:37:14.540 reconstructive.

03:37:15.080 So, she's had cancer.

03:37:15.960 Yeah.

03:37:16.220 So, if I grant, if I grant

03:37:17.540 that I'm fine with women 0.69

03:37:18.500 who've had breast removed

03:37:20.000 for cancer or whatever, if

03:37:21.860 I'm fine with that, but

03:37:23.320 would you agree with me

03:37:24.440 that all the women who are 1.00

03:37:26.020 otherwise healthy, who 0.99

03:37:27.460 just get fake titties, that 0.97

03:37:29.680 that's probably for... 0.99

03:37:31.360 Yeah.

03:37:31.880 Well, for augmentation, you

03:37:33.960 know, it's, like, I am a

03:37:34.900 bigger fan of if it makes

03:37:35.900 you feel confident.

03:37:36.700 However, like, I actually

03:37:37.740 personal preference, I love 0.97

03:37:39.340 small boobs. 0.97

03:37:40.320 So, I get jealous of those. 0.99

03:37:41.420 Well, don't you have

03:37:41.920 implants yourself?

03:37:42.640 I had a reduction.

03:37:44.240 Wait.

03:37:44.780 So, I naturally had really 0.98

03:37:46.160 big boobs to start with. 0.80

03:37:47.180 So, at 22, I had a 0.98

03:37:48.280 reduction.

03:37:49.200 But you have implants?

03:37:50.260 I have a very small

03:37:51.440 implant.

03:37:51.840 So, with reductions, a lot

03:37:53.040 of times they use, like,

03:37:54.200 it's basically, like, this

03:37:55.320 big and it's a shaper just 0.99

03:37:56.720 to keep it there so the

03:37:57.880 tissue doesn't pull.

03:37:59.060 Okay.

03:37:59.560 Oh, so you had a

03:38:00.420 reduction and then you got

03:38:02.100 implants.

03:38:02.680 It's at the same time.

03:38:03.900 So, they do it as, it's

03:38:04.920 basically to hold everything.

03:38:06.700 I've never heard that.

03:38:07.620 Yeah.

03:38:07.760 Is that pretty common? 0.98

03:38:09.060 Like, you got big titties, 0.99

03:38:11.000 I'm going to have a 0.97

03:38:12.280 reduction, but put some 0.98

03:38:13.880 fake titties? 0.99

03:38:14.480 Is that a common? 0.99

03:38:15.140 Well, it's still smaller

03:38:16.640 than significantly what

03:38:18.080 they were.

03:38:18.500 It's basically as a shaper 0.99

03:38:19.820 more than anything.

03:38:21.600 And you, did you get

03:38:22.320 that for, like, you had

03:38:24.060 back pain or?

03:38:25.160 No, I just, I hated big 0.97

03:38:26.460 boobs, to be honest. 0.96

03:38:27.600 I wanted small.

03:38:28.920 You hate it?

03:38:29.520 Oh.

03:38:29.940 Yeah.

03:38:30.160 I mean, I'm not that

03:38:31.040 tall, so.

03:38:31.600 I haven't heard that

03:38:32.140 one before.

03:38:32.880 Okay.

03:38:33.180 That's interesting.

03:38:35.040 Okay.

03:38:35.600 Well, yeah, I don't

03:38:37.800 know.

03:38:38.620 I feel like the mental

03:38:39.520 illness part of it, it

03:38:40.500 comes, it can become

03:38:41.780 addictive because even

03:38:42.960 with me, it's like the

03:38:43.900 pursuit of perfection.

03:38:45.100 That's the part that it 0.99

03:38:47.200 can really fuck with you 0.99

03:38:48.420 where you're just 1.00

03:38:49.100 constantly chasing it.

03:38:51.440 I mean, I wasn't

03:38:51.960 mentally ill to begin

03:38:52.780 with. 1.00

03:38:53.080 I was vain as fuck in 0.99

03:38:54.520 that sense where I 0.99

03:38:55.400 wanted bigger boobies. 1.00

03:38:56.500 And, but I think it

03:38:59.880 caused more issues than

03:39:02.380 it solved issues for

03:39:04.060 me.

03:39:04.920 Yeah, and I think

03:39:05.360 social media is a big

03:39:06.220 thing.

03:39:06.660 So the numbers, the

03:39:08.120 stats right now, obviously

03:39:09.800 I'm in a more male 0.77

03:39:10.880 dominated industry, but

03:39:11.980 the stats right now for

03:39:13.540 plastic surgery are now

03:39:14.800 going into the 20

03:39:15.620 year olds.

03:39:16.740 Yeah, I feel like

03:39:17.320 that's the social media

03:39:18.300 that they're altering

03:39:20.140 their face.

03:39:20.560 I don't know.

03:39:20.820 It's just like, it's

03:39:21.920 kind of, it's sad to me

03:39:23.300 that a generation, multiple

03:39:24.640 generations of women have 1.00

03:39:26.280 been sold this lie that

03:39:27.220 in order to be beautiful

03:39:28.880 or sexy or attractive or

03:39:30.840 accepted that they need

03:39:31.860 to undergo dangerous,

03:39:34.200 expensive, and unnecessary

03:39:35.620 cosmetic surgeries.

03:39:38.280 Yeah, I think if you feel

03:39:39.240 like you need to, and just

03:39:40.460 coming from the

03:39:41.220 perspective of dealing

03:39:42.040 with patients, if you

03:39:43.020 feel like that's going to

03:39:43.880 solve your problems, like

03:39:44.960 you're, it's not.

03:39:46.740 So, yeah, like I think if

03:39:48.380 you're just doing it to

03:39:49.080 enhance or better yourself,

03:39:50.300 like I'm okay with it.

03:39:51.280 But if somebody is like

03:39:52.280 depressed and they, they

03:39:53.740 think this is the answer,

03:39:55.060 they're never happy.

03:39:56.720 I guess.

03:39:57.660 I just think like, I

03:39:59.020 think women are good 1.00

03:40:00.000 looking without all that.

03:40:01.300 I think actually women who 1.00

03:40:02.540 get these procedures make

03:40:04.680 themselves look worse, if I

03:40:06.160 can be honest.

03:40:06.880 Yeah. 0.98

03:40:07.160 I think the fake titties 0.99

03:40:08.140 look bad. 0.98

03:40:08.600 The BBL looks bad.

03:40:09.520 The lipo belly looks bad.

03:40:10.840 The lip filler looks bad. 0.99

03:40:12.840 What's the other shit that 0.99

03:40:13.840 y'all do? 1.00

03:40:15.560 Botox?

03:40:17.140 The lip filler?

03:40:18.180 Yeah, I don't know.

03:40:19.020 Yeah.

03:40:19.420 I'm not expert on the 1.00

03:40:20.480 Botox shit, but. 0.99

03:40:21.880 Usually the, the good work 1.00

03:40:23.260 though, you, you really

03:40:24.040 can't tell.

03:40:24.820 I've never seen like lip

03:40:26.320 filler where you can't tell

03:40:27.340 looking at the side.

03:40:28.060 Lip filler, I'll agree.

03:40:28.940 If you look at the side

03:40:29.700 profile, there's always this 0.97

03:40:30.860 weird fucking indent in the 0.97

03:40:32.860 lip that just, it doesn't 0.99

03:40:34.460 look right.

03:40:34.900 It gives me uncanny valley.

03:40:36.080 I think women are honestly 1.00

03:40:37.300 destroying their bodies.

03:40:39.220 Just from like an aesthetic

03:40:40.460 perspective.

03:40:41.340 I don't, I don't think.

03:40:42.760 I'm not a big fan of.

03:40:44.440 I will agree with you on

03:40:45.680 filler.

03:40:46.120 I actually don't like

03:40:47.140 filler probably anywhere.

03:40:49.740 I have a question for you.

03:40:51.200 Yeah.

03:40:51.440 Oh, go ahead.

03:40:52.060 Go ahead.

03:40:52.600 I just, I know quite a few

03:40:54.520 people who have gone out of

03:40:55.600 the country for these

03:40:56.540 surgeries.

03:40:57.000 What's your opinion on that?

03:40:57.980 I'm just curious.

03:40:59.380 Like out of the country

03:41:00.160 surgeons versus.

03:41:01.700 I mean, I mean, obviously

03:41:03.000 it's way cheaper, right?

03:41:04.100 I wouldn't do it only

03:41:05.980 because I don't, you know,

03:41:07.060 it's in the case.

03:41:08.380 So with all surgeries,

03:41:09.680 there's risk and benefits

03:41:10.840 and in the case there are

03:41:12.660 risks and sometimes it's

03:41:13.900 not the surgeon there.

03:41:14.700 It could just be how you

03:41:15.280 heal.

03:41:16.080 If you don't speak the

03:41:16.960 language of the country

03:41:17.840 and you don't know the

03:41:18.980 systems because the medical

03:41:19.960 systems are very different

03:41:21.040 there, you really don't

03:41:22.240 have rights either.

03:41:23.080 Like at least in America, 0.55

03:41:24.080 you can sue.

03:41:24.900 There's the medical board.

03:41:25.860 There's, you know,

03:41:26.460 certain protocols of safety.

03:41:28.920 So I think that's kind of

03:41:29.720 what you're paying for.

03:41:30.640 I have seen people get

03:41:31.720 really good work somewhere.

03:41:32.780 To me, I wouldn't because

03:41:34.020 what happens if something

03:41:35.560 does go wrong?

03:41:36.480 For sure.

03:41:36.700 I thought with electives,

03:41:37.800 you can't sue.

03:41:39.520 You can if you can prove

03:41:40.760 malpractice.

03:41:41.340 Yeah.

03:41:41.520 If there's like,

03:41:42.040 bodged or malpractice or

03:41:44.660 something, but I don't

03:41:46.060 know.

03:41:46.220 I'm a, look, I'm a natural

03:41:47.180 body supremacist.

03:41:48.740 Okay.

03:41:49.300 Natural body supremacy.

03:41:51.020 All you cosmetic people

03:41:52.360 over here.

03:41:53.500 Um, I'll take, I'd rather an 0.95

03:41:56.000 a cup or no boobs. 1.00

03:41:57.700 I prefer a cup or no boobs 1.00

03:41:59.220 over some fake titties. 1.00

03:42:00.580 I'll take a little belly fat 0.99

03:42:02.520 over the lipo belly. 1.00

03:42:04.180 Give me a small ass over a BBL. 1.00

03:42:06.500 No ass over BBL. 1.00

03:42:07.860 Can you believe that? 0.99

03:42:09.260 Can you believe that? 0.99

03:42:09.700 No, but I'll take no ass. 1.00

03:42:11.360 I'll take pancake ass over BBL ass. 1.00

03:42:14.040 Give me pancake ass over BBL. 1.00

03:42:17.060 Uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, small upper lip, 1.00

03:42:19.940 no upper lip, white girl upper lip,

03:42:22.440 no upper lip over lip fillers.

03:42:24.660 Give me that.

03:42:25.620 Uh, let's see.

03:42:26.480 Basically any woman with any of 0.61

03:42:27.940 these procedures, however they were

03:42:29.740 before, I prefer them as they were.

03:42:32.960 I don't disagree with you.

03:42:34.580 I mean, I still had the big boobs

03:42:35.820 and now I have the pain with the big 0.95

03:42:37.200 boobs. 1.00

03:42:37.480 So it's not as fun.

03:42:38.480 Also like just from a, to make it

03:42:41.700 into a dating perspective, I mean,

03:42:43.260 I'd already use a dating perspective

03:42:44.540 because it's just like, what are you

03:42:45.800 physically attracted to?

03:42:47.160 But, uh, I think it's actually one

03:42:49.660 it can, in addition, let's say it's

03:42:51.100 not even a indicator for mental

03:42:53.140 illness, although it could very well

03:42:55.660 be, uh, it is an indicator for

03:42:57.740 vanity hundred like that.

03:42:59.440 You can't argue.

03:43:00.400 And so people who are vain tend to

03:43:01.940 have like a bit more superficial taste.

03:43:03.560 So, okay, is she going to be a 0.51

03:43:05.000 financial liability in some way?

03:43:06.840 She's probably, she's just not even

03:43:08.260 like that.

03:43:09.980 We don't, I wouldn't even mesh there.

03:43:12.040 Yeah.

03:43:12.280 I wear sweatpants.

03:43:13.680 You probably just see dollar signs.

03:43:15.160 BVL chicks don't go after guys in 1.00

03:43:16.860 sweatpants.

03:43:17.480 Okay.

03:43:17.760 They don't, they don't do it.

03:43:19.120 They don't do it.

03:43:20.280 Um, there's a mismatch there in terms

03:43:22.500 of vanity.

03:43:23.780 Uh, I'm trying to think what else.

03:43:26.480 Uh, oh, the other thing is it's a

03:43:30.060 financial liability because like if I'm,

03:43:32.020 let's say I'm the breadwinner and

03:43:33.320 she has a taste for plastic surgery 0.78

03:43:35.980 over the course of a lifetime, is that

03:43:38.680 an extra a hundred thousand dollars

03:43:39.780 that I'm going to have to front?

03:43:41.940 Cause don't you have to get, that's

03:43:43.500 like, like with breast implants, don't 0.96

03:43:45.000 you have to get that redone every 10,

03:43:47.560 20 years?

03:43:48.220 Not necessarily.

03:43:49.120 If there's nothing wrong with them,

03:43:50.860 you technically don't.

03:43:51.700 Now you used to, because they would

03:43:53.140 leak, you do have to get them checked

03:43:54.720 up, you know, every so often, but

03:43:56.540 they're a cohesive gel.

03:43:57.840 So again, there's risk to benefits.

03:43:59.780 If you're, there's nothing wrong

03:44:01.100 aesthetically, they're not causing

03:44:02.380 pain, there are no leaks, then you're

03:44:04.460 going to assume the risk of surgery and

03:44:05.960 there's not a lot to gain.

03:44:07.040 So it's up to the surgeon.

03:44:08.600 Word.

03:44:09.260 Yeah.

03:44:09.520 Oh, and then labiaplasty. 0.96

03:44:11.000 That's a, that's.

03:44:12.360 We do not do that.

03:44:13.500 That's a dagger in the heart to me.

03:44:16.040 Right, Nick?

03:44:16.900 Nick, pull it up.

03:44:17.760 BLM. 0.71

03:44:18.500 Is that really popular?

03:44:19.760 It's very popular.

03:44:21.080 Hashtag big labia matter.

03:44:24.100 Hashtag.

03:44:24.660 Can you pull up my nonprofit, Nick,

03:44:26.160 please?

03:44:26.980 Rude.

03:44:28.020 Rude. 1.00

03:44:29.220 Pull that shit up. 1.00

03:44:30.640 There we go. 1.00

03:44:31.400 He's got it.

03:44:32.540 Yes.

03:44:33.440 Hell yeah. 0.95

03:44:34.300 Hashtag big labia matter.

03:44:35.640 I got a nonprofit movement.

03:44:37.300 BLM. 0.71

03:44:38.340 Andrew's on the board of directors.

03:44:40.020 So, yeah.

03:44:43.060 I mean, is that really an, I mean, I

03:44:44.740 know it exists.

03:44:45.580 I know it's popular, but I always

03:44:46.760 thought it was like for older

03:44:48.000 women. 0.81

03:44:48.800 Older women. 0.98

03:44:49.240 No, there's like, these girls are 1.00

03:44:50.560 like any age.

03:44:52.840 They're like insecure about their 1.00

03:44:54.220 pussy lips. 1.00

03:44:55.460 You know, it's crazy. 1.00

03:44:56.300 That shit's crazy. 1.00

03:44:57.060 Any girls here insecure? 1.00

03:44:58.500 Yeah, I'm just asking.

03:44:59.420 Anyone insecure about the, you

03:45:01.980 know, the.

03:45:02.680 It's not something I usually

03:45:03.620 consider.

03:45:04.220 Anybody insecure?

03:45:04.900 Anyone ever felt insecure about

03:45:06.140 Sam waxes?

03:45:07.040 So she could probably tell you

03:45:07.920 some stories, you know?

03:45:10.640 Just saying.

03:45:11.360 Spotlight there.

03:45:12.580 I have, I have saved over a

03:45:14.560 hundred women. 1.00

03:45:15.240 Like roast beef?

03:45:16.140 Is that what you're talking about?

03:45:16.440 Hey, I don't like that kind of

03:45:17.800 language.

03:45:18.020 I'm just asking.

03:45:18.920 I don't know what it is.

03:45:19.740 We're saying big.

03:45:20.320 Yeah, large, large labia, Audi,

03:45:22.360 roast beef, wizard sleeve, Arby's.

03:45:24.200 Wizard sleeve?

03:45:24.920 Never heard that one.

03:45:26.220 I haven't heard that one.

03:45:27.040 It hanged like wizard, sleeve of

03:45:29.980 wizard.

03:45:30.740 That's funny.

03:45:31.500 That's crazy.

03:45:32.380 Yeah, that's crazy.

03:45:33.600 See, I don't like, I don't like it.

03:45:34.920 Like, cause I, I don't think we

03:45:36.220 should shame people.

03:45:36.920 I'm not shaming.

03:45:37.840 I'm just saying.

03:45:38.960 I don't think we should shame

03:45:39.880 people for the way that, you know,

03:45:41.460 they were born. 1.00

03:45:42.220 You can't change that shit. 1.00

03:45:43.540 We should also, we shouldn't shame 1.00

03:45:44.680 people, their genitalia.

03:45:46.520 Shouldn't shame men. 0.97

03:45:47.640 Shouldn't shame men. 0.97

03:45:48.320 If a man's got an average pee-pee 0.86

03:45:49.520 or small pee-pee, you shouldn't shame

03:45:51.320 them.

03:45:51.720 No.

03:45:52.100 There's a lot of pee-pee shaming.

03:45:53.680 There is.

03:45:54.100 A lot of pee-pee shaming.

03:45:55.180 There's plenty of love for all size

03:45:56.880 pee-pees.

03:45:57.600 Have you guys shamed, I bet you've all

03:45:59.800 here have shamed a pee-pee before. 0.68

03:46:01.160 No.

03:46:01.720 You've all shamed a pee-pee. 1.00

03:46:02.860 I object to it.

03:46:04.040 I shamed the hygiene.

03:46:05.360 I've never shamed the pee-pee. 1.00

03:46:08.220 That's good.

03:46:08.840 With the hygiene?

03:46:10.240 Yeah, the hygiene.

03:46:11.880 Yeah, the, okay.

03:46:12.980 That's different.

03:46:13.660 But pee-pee is, I like that we said

03:46:15.680 pee-pee. 0.99

03:46:16.260 You can't control one the size of

03:46:18.200 the pee-pee.

03:46:18.340 I don't think women should be shamed

03:46:19.760 if they, you know, they got a

03:46:21.680 I don't know what to call it.

03:46:24.260 You say, don't say it was, so 0.98

03:46:25.540 what do you got, just big labia? 0.99

03:46:27.060 Big labia, sure. 0.99

03:46:28.280 Audi. 0.65

03:46:29.060 Audi.

03:46:29.580 I like the wizard sleeve, though.

03:46:31.020 Wizard sleeve.

03:46:31.620 I've never heard that one before.

03:46:32.980 It has magical powers.

03:46:34.720 It does, bro.

03:46:36.140 It's crazy.

03:46:36.940 It's crazy out here.

03:46:38.360 That's funny. 0.98

03:46:39.200 Because I'm not an ass guy. 0.99

03:46:40.420 I'm not, I'm not a boob guy. 0.99

03:46:42.340 I'm a labia guy.

03:46:43.360 I'm a labia guy.

03:46:44.620 Interesting.

03:46:45.540 Okay, anyways, moving on.

03:46:46.880 Awkward.

03:46:48.280 What, y'all women? 1.00

03:46:48.800 Y'all women.

03:46:49.840 I want to dive into this.

03:46:51.580 How did you find out that you

03:46:53.200 were a labia guy?

03:46:54.080 I mean, everybody must wonder

03:46:55.280 this. 0.59

03:46:55.660 And if you're the labia guy, then

03:46:57.280 what is the initial, like,

03:46:58.920 attraction over?

03:46:59.960 Or how do you, what are the

03:47:01.000 things which initially attract

03:47:02.520 you to them?

03:47:03.000 Because they're not, like,

03:47:04.000 walking over going, hey, 0.80

03:47:04.800 Brian, take a look at my labia, 0.95

03:47:06.280 right? 0.86

03:47:06.640 Camel toe is my question. 1.00

03:47:07.860 Well, I'll let you know, sir.

03:47:09.020 Camel toe? 0.93

03:47:09.460 Yeah.

03:47:10.340 Do you make sure that, like,

03:47:11.480 to meet them up with the,

03:47:12.820 what is it, leggings?

03:47:13.940 I know, sir.

03:47:14.680 You know what?

03:47:15.380 I think as revenge, though,

03:47:16.720 women should start sending 1.00

03:47:18.920 pussy pics. 1.00

03:47:19.560 Like, you know how guys send 1.00

03:47:20.660 dick pics? 0.99

03:47:21.300 Women should be like, boom. 1.00

03:47:23.340 Just, like, take a shot, boom. 0.99

03:47:25.080 Here's, no.

03:47:26.600 You guys aren't down?

03:47:27.620 I mean.

03:47:28.060 I think you got reversed. 0.99

03:47:29.340 Men have been sending dick pics 0.99

03:47:31.040 for years. 0.99

03:47:31.380 I know.

03:47:31.920 Nobody wants them.

03:47:32.660 No one wants them. 1.00

03:47:33.860 You guys, I want pussy pics. 1.00

03:47:35.620 I'm like, I used to pull, 0.99

03:47:36.300 I'm like, if I used to get DM'd,

03:47:37.880 I would sort of my blast.

03:47:39.440 I'd be like, don't send me that. 0.99

03:47:40.820 Don't slide in my DM's with no dick pics 1.00

03:47:42.900 before you get blasted. 1.00

03:47:43.300 Thank you, Burmese Tiger, 0.93

03:47:44.420 for that.

03:47:45.540 Yeah, I would, I would like to know,

03:47:47.420 though, like, what, how does the

03:47:48.680 initial attraction work?

03:47:49.760 Yeah. 0.96

03:47:50.160 What if she doesn't have big labia? 1.00

03:47:51.380 Like, what are the things, 0.70

03:47:52.700 what are those physical characteristics?

03:47:54.940 I like to say that I only date women 1.00

03:47:56.800 with large labia. 0.96

03:47:58.160 But listen, look, I'll date, 0.96

03:48:01.680 you know what, I'll cut a girl, 1.00

03:48:03.180 I'll cut a girl break. 1.00

03:48:04.240 If she's got an any,

03:48:05.060 I guess I can date her.

03:48:07.160 I'll give her a pass, you know.

03:48:08.660 If she's got a good personality.

03:48:10.500 I don't know, there's so many names.

03:48:11.840 I mean.

03:48:12.260 She's got a good personality. 0.92

03:48:13.860 I mean, my first job was gynecology.

03:48:15.520 I'd never heard these terms before.

03:48:16.680 I've never been gynecology for two years.

03:48:18.540 They wear a thong, bikini,

03:48:19.780 and Mikey won't see anything.

03:48:21.260 Innies.

03:48:21.860 Innies, Audis.

03:48:22.500 What's in my game?

03:48:23.120 Normals, is there another, like,

03:48:24.580 is there like.

03:48:24.980 I think innies are more common.

03:48:26.420 I just think of belly buttons.

03:48:27.900 Same.

03:48:29.860 So wait, what's the question, Andrew?

03:48:31.920 Yeah, how do you, how do you.

03:48:32.760 Okay, okay, well, I'm just,

03:48:34.840 I'm just wondering,

03:48:35.700 because I've heard this a couple of times,

03:48:37.060 and I've never asked.

03:48:37.960 Of course.

03:48:38.480 And I see it in the whatever chat often.

03:48:41.780 Yeah.

03:48:42.360 If you're really, the thing is, 0.54

03:48:44.900 you're not a butt guy, 0.87

03:48:45.600 you're not a boob guy, 0.86

03:48:46.420 none of that, 0.98

03:48:47.500 you're a labia guy. 0.80

03:48:48.600 Yeah.

03:48:48.740 That's not a thing which you can just

03:48:50.900 detect immediately.

03:48:52.620 So what is the other characteristics

03:48:55.040 which draw the attraction in?

03:48:57.360 Because it's impossible for you

03:48:58.640 to actually detect the labia

03:49:00.200 until a later date, usually.

03:49:03.140 Right?

03:49:03.180 You know what, though?

03:49:03.760 I kind of have a radar for it.

03:49:05.120 It's crazy.

03:49:06.880 How do you detect them?

03:49:07.940 Like, because how she was talking earlier

03:49:09.400 about, like, high vibration.

03:49:10.060 Okay, well, which women here 1.00

03:49:11.480 have the biggest, like,

03:49:12.540 no, I'm kidding, Brian.

03:49:13.920 I'm just.

03:49:15.820 No, it's like, I get,

03:49:17.260 I get this intuition, you know?

03:49:19.360 I've got, like, a big labia radar.

03:49:21.640 So can you tell who on the table has?

03:49:24.300 Yeah, can you tell?

03:49:25.260 Oh, it would be,

03:49:26.040 it would be a degree of impropriety

03:49:28.020 for me to reveal 1.00

03:49:28.960 the nature of your guys' pussies 1.00

03:49:31.640 on the podcast. 1.00

03:49:33.100 Y'all crazy.

03:49:33.780 I'm curious to see if he's accurate or not. 0.85

03:49:36.240 I got it, I got it,

03:49:37.440 I got it, some intuitions,

03:49:38.800 but just kidding.

03:49:39.800 Okay.

03:49:41.020 Yeah, no, it's just, like,

03:49:42.000 high vibrations.

03:49:43.000 Like, it's the vibe.

03:49:43.960 It's like the vibration, you know?

03:49:45.380 If I knew you were, like, 0.94

03:49:46.460 a big labia man, 0.93

03:49:47.300 and then I would be on the baby,

03:49:48.520 of consciousness that you get to, you know?

03:49:50.580 Am I not good enough?

03:49:52.640 You'd feel insecure?

03:49:53.720 I would be like, no, I mean,

03:49:55.040 if you're, like,

03:49:55.600 if I'm a boob guy, I'm like,

03:49:57.000 so does he not like it?

03:49:57.220 That's how guys feel, though.

03:49:58.220 If a guy's average in the package,

03:50:00.640 and these girls, 1.00

03:50:01.460 well, I like a big dick. 1.00

03:50:02.780 That's how he's going to feel. 1.00

03:50:03.960 It's just, it's a big dick energy. 0.98

03:50:05.440 Hang on, hang on. 0.97

03:50:06.200 They're calling it,

03:50:07.240 they're calling this phenomenon ladar.

03:50:09.440 You have ladar?

03:50:10.640 What is it?

03:50:12.100 Ladar.

03:50:12.980 Ladar.

03:50:13.460 Ladar.

03:50:14.220 You have ladar.

03:50:15.760 Learning new things every day.

03:50:17.160 I'll take it.

03:50:17.980 It works.

03:50:18.520 Ladar.

03:50:18.860 It works.

03:50:19.820 You know,

03:50:21.120 it's like gaydar, but ladar. 0.91

03:50:22.540 It's like gaydar, but ladar.

03:50:24.260 It works.

03:50:24.680 Yeah.

03:50:25.620 That's true.

03:50:26.220 Love that for you.

03:50:26.860 It's great.

03:50:27.640 You should add that to your resume.

03:50:29.200 I do have,

03:50:30.000 I actually do put it on my resume.

03:50:32.200 There will be a limited run of 50,

03:50:34.460 whatever podcast,

03:50:35.400 special ladar sweatshirts,

03:50:37.960 only $339.39.

03:50:41.080 Only.

03:50:42.320 Only.

03:50:42.900 You can just tell,

03:50:43.760 like, when a girl has big labia energy, 1.00

03:50:45.720 like, you just know.

03:50:46.620 It's like the bigger upper fupa, though.

03:50:49.000 I know there's an upper fupa bigger.

03:50:50.520 It would not be appropriate for me to reveal.

03:50:52.620 Is it usually, like,

03:50:53.660 a physical attraction of some sort,

03:50:55.200 or is it, like, personality?

03:50:56.920 What's that?

03:50:57.540 Is it a physical attraction,

03:50:58.880 like, based on other parts of their body,

03:51:00.500 or is it more, like, personality, I guess?

03:51:02.460 I'm just saying,

03:51:02.960 you just know.

03:51:03.420 I'm just wondering, like,

03:51:04.300 what size?

03:51:04.600 It's like a big, big energy.

03:51:05.300 It's like big, big energy.

03:51:06.240 There's like a big,

03:51:07.160 big labia energy.

03:51:09.300 You just know.

03:51:11.080 It's like a vibe.

03:51:12.320 Like, you just feel it

03:51:13.480 because of the vibrations.

03:51:15.580 And the, like...

03:51:16.760 BLD versus... 1.00

03:51:17.920 Anyways, I don't know.

03:51:18.760 Big, big energy.

03:51:19.960 I'm just...

03:51:20.580 That's funny.

03:51:22.020 Yeah.

03:51:22.880 Good talk.

03:51:23.960 You be walking around

03:51:25.320 just, like,

03:51:26.060 using your intuition on people,

03:51:27.740 like, oh, yeah.

03:51:28.600 Like, they got that.

03:51:29.900 They are.

03:51:30.940 Yeah, I'm just going...

03:51:31.920 I'm in the street, like...

03:51:32.920 This is he scanning.

03:51:33.820 ...dinny, out...

03:51:34.740 Yeah, I just...

03:51:35.700 Yeah, you know.

03:51:37.360 What, you don't do that with guys? 0.99

03:51:38.520 Like, giant horse cock. 0.99

03:51:40.600 Yeah. 0.96

03:51:41.600 Micropene.

03:51:42.100 You don't do that?

03:51:42.800 You don't do that?

03:51:43.260 If their shorts are too short...

03:51:44.420 You don't do that?

03:51:45.060 Come on.

03:51:45.520 You do that.

03:51:45.820 I'm in sweatpants season.

03:51:47.040 You don't do that?

03:51:47.880 You don't do that?

03:51:49.360 No.

03:51:49.980 You never look to the guy

03:51:50.780 and be like, 1.00

03:51:51.260 he's got a horse cock. 0.99

03:51:52.400 No. 0.99

03:51:52.600 If their shorts are way too short,

03:51:54.440 it's kind of hard not to look.

03:51:55.320 That's crazy, bro.

03:51:56.180 I'm just saying.

03:51:56.660 You didn't look at Desmond back there

03:51:58.120 and be like, 1.00

03:51:58.500 that guy's got a horse cock. 1.00

03:52:00.160 It's like it. 1.00

03:52:01.580 What the...

03:52:02.140 Sorry, Desmond.

03:52:02.780 Didn't mean to throw you

03:52:03.260 under the bus.

03:52:03.740 I thought it was.

03:52:04.320 It's all good.

03:52:05.220 Oh, okay.

03:52:05.700 It's all good. 0.99

03:52:06.220 Anyways, god damn. 1.00

03:52:06.980 Why do you guys want to talk about this shit? 1.00

03:52:08.040 This is crazy. 1.00

03:52:08.900 It's your non-profit.

03:52:12.260 You brought this up.

03:52:14.120 You have the intuition.

03:52:16.020 Anyways, moving on.

03:52:16.900 Moving on.

03:52:17.440 Moving on.

03:52:18.600 Where were we?

03:52:19.840 I don't even know.

03:52:20.760 Oh, okay.

03:52:21.280 Here we go.

03:52:22.160 We got a couple chats here.

03:52:23.800 Killa of Cereal.

03:52:25.260 Lizzie, can you read this?

03:52:28.900 Agent Orange.

03:52:30.120 Burn pits.

03:52:31.540 I can't see.

03:52:33.240 Gangrene.

03:52:33.780 Thank you.

03:52:34.780 Trench foot.

03:52:35.160 Trench foot.

03:52:36.860 Hypothermia.

03:52:37.440 The eye tops in the way.

03:52:38.160 I'm so sorry.

03:52:38.920 Nerve agents.

03:52:39.940 Traumatic brain injury.

03:52:41.000 PTSD, amputation, broken bones.

03:52:43.960 Torture and mutilation versus how many stitches does it take after pregnancy? 1.00

03:52:48.020 I think that's directed at you.

03:52:50.560 It just depends.

03:52:51.740 In this topic, I'm just like, whatever.

03:52:54.860 Not all women require stitches after pregnancy.

03:52:57.480 Whatever.

03:52:58.040 Like the podcast you're on.

03:52:59.720 Yeah.

03:53:00.140 Whatever.

03:53:00.500 Whatever.

03:53:01.460 Whatever. 0.99

03:53:02.600 Kill of Cereal. 0.96

03:53:03.540 Plastics make you look older.

03:53:05.240 It doesn't keep up with the rest of your aging body.

03:53:07.560 The more you have, the worse it looks.

03:53:09.800 The older you get, especially with clothes off.

03:53:13.600 Hmm.

03:53:13.820 Kill of Cereal.

03:53:14.660 Well put. 1.00

03:53:15.960 I think this is a two-pronged approach here with the plastic surgery shit. 1.00

03:53:20.240 Men need to shame other men for gassing up women who have plastic surgery. 1.00

03:53:28.400 And then they also need to shame the women too. 1.00

03:53:31.340 The issue is the ones with good plastic surgery men don't know that they have plastic surgery.

03:53:35.780 It's very minimal tweaks where you still allow wrinkles and still allow it to the people who don't.

03:53:40.660 I ain't never seen a BBL where I'm like, that's not a BBL.

03:53:43.020 I mean, BBLs are pretty obvious.

03:53:45.300 I'll give you that.

03:53:45.460 Yeah.

03:53:45.880 They're disastrous.

03:53:47.580 Lip filler. 0.99

03:53:48.740 Fake titties. 0.99

03:53:49.260 I don't like filler. 1.00

03:53:49.940 Fake titties. 0.99

03:53:50.700 I'm not a good person. 0.99

03:53:51.580 I'll give you rhinoplasty. 0.50

03:53:53.260 Like, rhinoplasty, you can't tell typically.

03:53:56.100 Yeah, you can.

03:53:56.720 That changes the whole thing.

03:53:57.800 No.

03:53:57.820 Well, what I'm saying is like, you can't always tell if they've had it.

03:54:03.400 Sometimes you can. 0.99

03:54:04.440 Like, you can tell if the tip of the nose is all fucked up. 0.97

03:54:07.800 But like, a lot of times, if the surgeon, like, you can't tell. 0.98

03:54:12.680 Anyways, good talk.

03:54:13.880 Good talk, everybody.

03:54:14.860 Thank you, Kill of Serial.

03:54:16.340 Appreciate it, bro.

03:54:17.620 Let's get into some pre-show notes here.

03:54:20.100 Okay.

03:54:20.220 So we have, going back to Jessica, you said, one thing I've always found entertaining to

03:54:29.540 ask my girlfriends are what are their hard no, hard no's for dating. 0.90

03:54:33.360 For example, you meet a guy online, they're attractive, successful, everything you'd want

03:54:37.080 on paper.

03:54:37.580 But when you meet them, you find out one thing that is a hard no and makes you not want to

03:54:41.800 call them back.

03:54:42.460 So why don't we start with you?

03:54:43.740 We'll go around the table.

03:54:44.860 Burmese Mountain Tiger.

03:54:46.480 He's a brave and a decent man.

03:54:48.180 He's a pioneer.

03:54:49.220 Dude, thank you for the gifted 10 subs, man.

03:54:50.900 Really appreciate it.

03:54:51.620 Thank you.

03:54:51.880 Thank you.

03:54:52.180 Hope you guys are enjoying the stream over on Twitch.

03:54:54.840 Wait, Nick, really quick.

03:54:55.620 Why don't you pull it up?

03:54:56.260 Twitch.tv slash whatever drops to fall in a prime sub.

03:54:59.260 If you have one, guys, it's been, it's been, but I don't even know when the last time there's

03:55:05.160 been a prime sub.

03:55:06.540 I mean, you know, shout out to Burmese for the gifted subs, but boys, I think we need like

03:55:11.560 to test out a prime because like Sergeant Snipes, he sent one in like an hour ago.

03:55:16.160 So I need you guys to like, you know, like drop us a follow in a prime sub boys.

03:55:20.340 Cause I think Twitch is bugged.

03:55:21.800 Oh, there you go.

03:55:22.520 Gianni.

03:55:23.320 Thank you, bro.

03:55:24.240 And Rodden Treats.

03:55:25.300 Thank you, man.

03:55:25.880 Really appreciate it.

03:55:26.800 What's happening?

03:55:27.840 Thank you.

03:55:28.320 Sorry.

03:55:29.260 Whenever I go to Twitch, I go Canadian.

03:55:31.480 Wait, question.

03:55:32.400 When, when they don't, when they send you like the subs or whatever, what does that mean?

03:55:36.880 If they're giving you like 10 subs, like can people, or is it actual people?

03:55:40.560 It means they're selling their soul.

03:55:43.720 Yeah, but.

03:55:43.980 Sorry, that was cringe.

03:55:44.980 I'm like.

03:55:45.260 It's just like a donut.

03:55:46.180 It's like a.

03:55:46.760 But it's not like actual people can use it.

03:55:48.220 It's just like, they're just gifting that to you.

03:55:50.960 No, they're gifting it to people who are watching.

03:55:52.960 So if you're watching the stream on Twitch and there's gifted subs that go out, like people who

03:55:57.260 are watching who aren't subbed will get a sub.

03:55:59.880 Oh, that's cool.

03:56:00.800 Yeah.

03:56:00.940 Anyways, going back to this.

03:56:02.180 So a hard nose, hard nose.

03:56:04.580 So hard nose.

03:56:05.300 We used to talk about this all the time.

03:56:06.700 It's basically a guy looks perfect on paper.

03:56:09.540 You know, their photo's good.

03:56:10.980 Everything's good.

03:56:11.600 Then you go on a date with them.

03:56:12.740 Something you find out where you're just like, I absolutely not.

03:56:16.100 So mine was cyclist.

03:56:18.320 I can never date a cyclist. 1.00

03:56:19.620 Damn. 1.00

03:56:19.820 I don't care if they mountain bike. 1.00

03:56:20.980 I don't care if they ride bikes as a hobby.

03:56:22.680 But I think cyclist is a certain type of personality that's very entitled and don't care about

03:56:27.640 anybody else.

03:56:28.480 I commute two hours every day.

03:56:29.860 So I have a thing against cyclist.

03:56:32.640 Yeah.

03:56:33.740 Cyclist and then Prius drivers.

03:56:35.480 That's kind of.

03:56:36.080 Whoa. 1.00

03:56:36.700 Damn. 1.00

03:56:37.280 Okay. 0.99

03:56:37.800 I remember the Prius drivers.

03:56:39.460 Shots fired.

03:56:40.360 Wait.

03:56:40.520 So anyways.

03:56:42.140 Wait.

03:56:43.220 So cyclist?

03:56:45.100 Cyclist.

03:56:45.740 Why?

03:56:46.100 Because they all go in the lane.

03:56:48.740 They don't care.

03:56:49.400 They don't look behind.

03:56:50.700 They are just the most inconsiderate people.

03:56:52.760 And I think that is going to transfer over to a lifestyle of just like an entitled little 0.98

03:56:57.080 prick. 0.94

03:56:57.440 And I wouldn't want to date one.

03:56:58.620 I think Prius is not more Tesla.

03:57:00.360 Yeah.

03:57:01.540 Josie doesn't.

03:57:02.420 Isn't Josie a cyclist? 1.00

03:57:04.580 I don't know if she's watching right now.

03:57:06.180 Josie.

03:57:06.680 She's one of our like frequent viewers.

03:57:08.400 She's been on the show.

03:57:09.280 She's a cyclist. 0.99

03:57:10.400 Oh.

03:57:10.860 I guess I kind of date her.

03:57:11.780 We should get you guys to do debate.

03:57:13.060 Yo, Teenie Sunflower.

03:57:14.760 Thank you for the gifted subs.

03:57:15.780 Appreciate it.

03:57:16.800 Okay.

03:57:17.300 What about you?

03:57:17.800 Hard no for a guy.

03:57:19.620 I'm still working on my hard no's.

03:57:23.820 One that I'm teaching myself is if you don't have a legitimate job.

03:57:30.360 And by that, I mean trapping and drug dealing and hurting people, that is a hard no.

03:57:36.520 So I'm still teaching myself that as far as having a legitimate job, that could also

03:57:42.640 be taking the steps to follow your dreams, even if you don't have any money in the process.

03:57:49.200 But just making sure that you know what you're going after.

03:57:52.480 So a no is not, I have a no if you don't know what you want, like, or if you're not willing

03:57:57.960 to figure out what you want.

03:58:01.440 Next.

03:58:01.800 I mean, I'm trying to think what's a hard no.

03:58:04.820 For me, it's like literally hygiene.

03:58:06.760 What's that?

03:58:07.520 If you, uh-uh.

03:58:09.240 Because if you can't take care of yourself, and I like someone, I don't necessarily need

03:58:13.200 someone who's, like, shredded or whatever it is.

03:58:15.640 But it's like somebody who takes care of themselves and the hygiene, because that goes hand in

03:58:18.540 hand.

03:58:18.700 If you can't take care of yourself, how am I going to trust you to take care of me?

03:58:21.700 So that's a hard no.

03:58:22.420 Is there, like, a specific job that is a hard no for you?

03:58:25.620 Job?

03:58:26.620 I mean, honestly, the law enforcement, it's, because sometimes those guys can get excited

03:58:33.560 with power.

03:58:34.840 So I don't know.

03:58:36.120 That's, and then they have too much power, as in they can check my background.

03:58:39.620 They have way too much power.

03:58:40.760 So that one kind of makes me nervous.

03:58:42.060 So if I can avoid law enforcement, I will.

03:58:45.420 But it's not a hard, it's like, eh.

03:58:48.720 Eh, no.

03:58:50.140 Prefer not.

03:58:51.700 I'm not really sure if I should say this, because I don't want anyone to get mad at

03:58:57.500 me.

03:58:57.880 Say it.

03:58:59.580 Say it.

03:59:00.100 I know, now you have to say it.

03:59:01.280 Oh, well, it's kind of like their political stance.

03:59:05.380 Like, if they're not, like, free Palestine, I cannot talk to you. 0.54

03:59:09.400 Like, I just can't.

03:59:10.500 No, we're not going to go.

03:59:11.280 Oh, yeah.

03:59:11.560 Yeah, sorry.

03:59:12.160 She's not saying her stance.

03:59:13.520 You're good.

03:59:14.540 Really?

03:59:15.720 Did we just have to instantly go to social justice right away? 0.98

03:59:19.560 Just right away?

03:59:20.260 Yeah.

03:59:20.620 I don't want to say it, but it's my only thing.

03:59:22.560 It's certainly hard no.

03:59:23.740 That's right.

03:59:24.480 It's a hard no.

03:59:25.900 I would say bisexual.

03:59:27.800 Oh. 0.81

03:59:28.340 Ooh. 0.85

03:59:29.020 What about gay? 0.88

03:59:29.640 No. 1.00

03:59:30.160 Just full of gay? 1.00

03:59:31.620 Any guy that's bisexual, no. 1.00

03:59:33.520 I'm sorry.

03:59:34.220 Don't care if you're the richest.

03:59:35.560 Can't second that.

03:59:36.140 Smartest guy.

03:59:36.920 Yeah.

03:59:37.120 Sorry.

03:59:37.640 Not doing it.

03:59:38.480 Yeah.

03:59:39.480 I agree.

03:59:39.960 I would just say, if you're not funny, I like a good joke, and I laugh at almost everything.

03:59:46.020 But if you can't make me laugh, no.

03:59:48.340 That's also true, too.

03:59:49.780 That's it.

03:59:51.020 I'm going to second her on bisexual, and I'm going to second you on the hygiene and, yeah, 1.00

03:59:59.200 just laziness.

04:00:00.020 He has to be hardworking, have ambition, and kind of fall into my political views somewhat.

04:00:05.400 So, lack of work ethic and discipline?

04:00:09.200 Yes.

04:00:09.740 Discipline.

04:00:11.820 Definitely hygiene, and if you don't have ambition, for sure.

04:00:16.540 Are there any, like, jobs?

04:00:17.800 Oh, I already asked you, but, like, jobs that are hard no's for you guys?

04:00:22.560 I don't really. 0.98

04:00:23.300 I mean, clown. 0.98

04:00:24.400 Only fans. 0.97

04:00:26.340 Yeah, only fans, for sure.

04:00:28.340 But I think that's it.

04:00:29.300 I haven't really thought about that one a lot.

04:00:30.900 I wouldn't date a firefighter.

04:00:32.840 Why?

04:00:33.160 I just don't like the reputation.

04:00:36.400 I have, like, a bunch of friends who marry firefighters, and, like, they just, like, cheat

04:00:40.580 on everyone's wives with each other, and it's, like, not my...

04:00:43.440 I think that's how I feel.

04:00:44.420 Truck drivers.

04:00:46.260 Truck drivers.

04:00:47.600 Hell no.

04:00:48.840 Not all of them are like that, but I don't think I would be able to do it.

04:00:52.640 I hear, like, the truck driver reputation is, like, they all do drugs or something.

04:00:56.420 No, it's, like, they just all do everything because they have to be in every place.

04:01:01.560 Like, if you ask the children of a truck driver, they'll tell you the truth.

04:01:06.460 I'm not friends with her no more, but her dad was a truck driver, and she like, man, I

04:01:10.760 got siblings all across the world.

04:01:12.860 I ain't even met them.

04:01:14.120 Oh, that's what you mean.

04:01:14.840 He's dropping seats at each stop.

04:01:17.800 Every truck stop.

04:01:18.480 Yeah, every truck stop, there's a seat that's dropped.

04:01:21.000 Could that apply to, like, a flight attendant or, like, a pilot? 0.99

04:01:25.840 Pilots are notorious for being, like, I think the biggest whores. 1.00

04:01:29.480 I'm going to just fly out of there. 1.00

04:01:30.560 Yeah.

04:01:31.680 He didn't quit it.

04:01:34.440 Are there any, like, no's for you?

04:01:36.640 For jobs?

04:01:39.480 I don't know a specific job.

04:01:41.340 I definitely wouldn't want a guy that made less than I do.

04:01:44.320 You know, I do like the male-female role, so I don't really care about going shopping 0.96

04:01:48.600 or going on, like, lavish trips or anything, but I definitely like viewing the guy like a

04:01:53.780 provider, and I went that route with some past relationships where because I made good

04:01:58.380 money, I didn't care about what they did, and, I mean, honestly, it gets to you after a while.

04:02:02.800 I think you start looking at them in a feminine light, and I now realize how important it is

04:02:07.940 to see a guy like a man, and so, I mean, I like the alpha man, so I don't really necessarily

04:02:12.800 care about what he does.

04:02:14.420 It's more about his drive, and it's, the drive is important, too, because if they are a trust

04:02:19.700 funder and they don't have the drive because they were handed everything, that could all

04:02:23.840 be taken away, and then they're screwed. 0.56

04:02:25.260 So, I think drive is the thing I look at most.

04:02:28.660 I think that discipline is so important to a man that doesn't have any discipline.

04:02:33.080 Like, I don't think I would be able to trust him at all.

04:02:36.220 Absolutely.

04:02:36.780 I think it goes into other parts of their lives, too, and it's work, you know?

04:02:41.140 That was based, donated $200.

04:02:44.280 Late to the convo.

04:02:46.080 Thoughts on what happened in Pennsylvania yesterday around the table?

04:02:51.640 Should we ask that?

04:02:53.980 Okay, yeah.

04:02:54.620 Well, hang on, hang on, we'll wait, we'll wait, we'll wait for Brian to get back on

04:02:58.760 that one.

04:03:00.880 It's fine, it's fine.

04:03:02.300 He said, just have them answer.

04:03:05.040 Are you sure? 1.00

04:03:07.040 Yeah, fuck it. 1.00

04:03:08.180 I think it's sick. 1.00

04:03:11.540 I'm pro-Trump, so, yeah, I think it's disgusting what happened. 0.89

04:03:14.940 Word.

04:03:16.980 Did a woman save his life? 0.65

04:03:20.860 Absolutely not.

04:03:21.940 Under no circumstances does that happen, not even close, not even in the same

04:03:26.060 universe, not even in any alternative universe.

04:03:29.340 If you were a scientist who postulated one billion different universes which were

04:03:34.260 parallel mapped onto this one, in all of those, a woman still never saved Trump's

04:03:39.020 life.

04:03:39.560 No, I literally seen something that said that, that's why I asked.

04:03:44.060 I was just asking.

04:03:44.680 Yeah, well, I just wanted to make sure that I was completely clear with you so that

04:03:48.960 you knew that the answer is unequivocally no.

04:03:51.600 Thank you.

04:03:53.020 You're welcome.

04:03:54.220 So, what are your, like, thoughts on it, though?

04:03:56.500 Or?

04:03:58.400 I don't know.

04:03:59.460 Trump, a lot of people, I've seen something where, like, a lot of people like Trump because

04:04:06.000 he was giving us, like, free money and, like, checks and stuff.

04:04:09.460 I don't have, like, an exact political status on Trump.

04:04:15.780 So, I feel that as long as, like, he's not hurting anybody and nobody's hurting him, then

04:04:21.480 we should be fine.

04:04:22.420 But, obviously, that's not the case.

04:04:24.460 Yeah.

04:04:24.580 What happened yesterday, whether you like him or not, that is probably, he secured,

04:04:30.500 I feel like, the election.

04:04:31.800 And that photo of him just raising his fists up in the air is probably the most legendary

04:04:36.880 photo of any president.

04:04:39.080 And it's going to go down in history.

04:04:40.400 So, it's crazy.

04:04:41.980 He's been doing some legendary stuff, like, even going to prison in Atlanta.

04:04:45.960 Like, he's almost got shot.

04:04:48.240 Like, he's doing a lot of gangster things.

04:04:49.860 But I'm not saying I'm pro-Trump or anything.

04:04:52.040 I would just say he does a lot of iconic and historic things.

04:04:56.400 Yeah.

04:04:56.680 For sure.

04:04:57.200 The man is a legend, whether you like him or not.

04:04:59.160 I would say I, like, sympathize with him because I was in a situation in Atlanta where I got

04:05:06.020 shot.

04:05:07.140 And it was, like, a really, it was not, like, his.

04:05:10.740 Mine was a little bit worse.

04:05:12.100 But, yeah.

04:05:13.080 So, I was sympathizing with him.

04:05:13.700 Where'd you get hit?

04:05:14.620 I got shot in the head.

04:05:15.640 But it was half an inch from my brain.

04:05:18.380 It was a .22 caliber bullet.

04:05:19.680 And it was a shootout in front of my college, Georgia State.

04:05:22.180 Yeah.

04:05:22.400 That's the deadliest problem in the United States is a .22.

04:05:25.520 People don't know that.

04:05:26.440 And it was during the Trump era.

04:05:27.380 It was during the Trump era, 2020, when he was in election.

04:05:31.060 And everyone was going crazy in Georgia.

04:05:32.240 Was this during the BLM stuff?

04:05:34.700 It was during Black Lives Matter, yeah. 0.64

04:05:36.560 Yeah.

04:05:36.840 It was a lot of violence in Atlanta.

04:05:37.300 And is that what caused the, was that what caused the situation?

04:05:41.740 Yeah. 0.93

04:05:42.000 It was a black on black violence, yeah.

04:05:43.900 It was just violence, just in the streets.

04:05:45.580 Yeah.

04:05:46.520 Yeah.

04:05:46.780 So, I just sympathize with him.

04:05:47.920 Who was that?

04:05:48.340 Was that under Trump?

04:05:49.180 Or was that under a, what's that?

04:05:51.580 That was under Trump.

04:05:52.660 Yeah, it was under Trump, right?

04:05:53.680 Yeah, it was during his, it was during his election or something.

04:05:56.620 I forget what was happening, but he was stirring up a, there was rallies in Georgia and it was

04:06:01.740 during COVID.

04:06:03.080 I don't know, remember exactly what happened, but it was 2020.

04:06:06.240 And it took me four years to recover and like have the bullet get out my head.

04:06:10.520 And this was like the first time.

04:06:11.480 Where on your head were you hit?

04:06:12.900 Right by my ear on this side.

04:06:14.780 Um, and it was, um, it took four years for it to grow out my head.

04:06:19.380 So, you know, I'm very grateful.

04:06:20.500 So your, your skin was pushing the bullet out.

04:06:23.020 Yeah.

04:06:23.380 So I, I went to a neurosurgeon and they said that they were going to have to shave my hair

04:06:27.400 off if I wanted to take the bullet out or I could just suffer pain for until it grows

04:06:31.580 out.

04:06:31.900 And I just decided to just suffer the pain because I didn't want to shave my head.

04:06:36.760 And they said there was a risk that I would have a twitch in my face due to the surgery.

04:06:40.400 So I just was just going to tough it out.

04:06:43.600 So, yeah.

04:06:44.620 So it was this, uh, this state that you were in when this happened, did it by chance have

04:06:50.820 a Democrat governor?

04:06:53.560 I'm confused.

04:06:54.240 No, Georgia, it's Georgia.

04:06:55.740 Georgia had, I think.

04:06:56.340 Oh, no.

04:06:56.700 Yeah.

04:06:56.820 We were in Georgia.

04:06:57.720 I was in Atlanta, Atlanta, Georgia.

04:06:59.280 Governor?

04:06:59.820 I think.

04:07:00.000 Oh, you were in Atlanta.

04:07:01.260 Yeah.

04:07:01.680 I was living in Atlanta.

04:07:02.840 It was a Republican state.

04:07:04.300 Yeah.

04:07:04.700 Right.

04:07:05.080 What about the mayor of Atlanta?

04:07:06.600 He was Democrat.

04:07:07.520 He was Democrat.

04:07:09.260 Yeah.

04:07:09.520 He was Democrat.

04:07:10.700 Yeah.

04:07:11.200 It was at the same mayor of Atlanta who told the police to stand down during the massive

04:07:15.600 riots and allow them to go through and just kind of village everything inside.

04:07:18.420 I would say that that was a bad time in that the hospital systems, the police systems,

04:07:22.620 everything was just really bad.

04:07:24.240 Um, really bad timeframe in Atlanta, I would say.

04:07:27.360 Yeah.

04:07:28.080 Especially under a Democrat mayor who allows that type of violence to happen right in

04:07:31.680 the middle of the streets that led to you getting shot in the head.

04:07:34.400 That seems like, it seems like it's really bad to have Democrats as in charge of, you

04:07:39.080 know, anything.

04:07:39.840 I mean, I don't think it was necessarily like under whether or not he's Republican or Democratic.

04:07:44.200 It was happening because it was stated Georgia was going crazy.

04:07:47.300 Like everybody in Georgia was going crazy.

04:07:49.540 Oh, no.

04:07:49.960 Almost none of Georgia went crazy.

04:07:51.860 Huh?

04:07:52.100 And it was COVID.

04:07:52.660 So it was like a time that no one ever experienced.

04:07:55.840 Yeah. 0.99

04:07:56.280 Like no one experienced a shit down like that. 0.99

04:07:57.720 I got to keep this moving. 0.99

04:07:58.420 Laura.

04:07:58.880 People's reactions, I guess.

04:08:00.420 Where did we leave off?

04:08:01.940 Um, I don't have a political standpoint on Trump, but I think it's kind of iconic how

04:08:07.000 through everything that he's been through, all the controversies and all the hate that

04:08:10.480 he's still standing.

04:08:11.240 Like he got shot at and he's like still alive and still here and still fighting for what

04:08:15.440 he wants.

04:08:16.420 Yeah.

04:08:17.380 Um, I'm pro Trump and I think what happened was devastating.

04:08:20.880 And I think regardless of where you stand politically, um, you should be essentially

04:08:26.220 devastated if you love this country and regardless of what you think.

04:08:30.540 So I agree.

04:08:32.720 I think he's fighting for us, um, every day and it's sad that this has happened to him.

04:08:36.700 So I'm definitely pro Trump.

04:08:39.640 And I think what happened was super devastating as well.

04:08:42.960 Although it was a power move with that photo.

04:08:45.540 So all right, cool.

04:08:49.020 Uh, we have desert Joe keeping this in the context of the U S was currently the law in

04:08:52.340 the books.

04:08:52.700 All men are required to register for selective service drafted age 18 in order to get the

04:08:57.600 right to vote.

04:08:58.740 Women are not word. 1.00

04:09:02.160 Did you have something for this?

04:09:03.140 It looked like you were about to, no, I'm just tired of hearing about it.

04:09:06.020 It's giving me a headache.

04:09:07.080 It's giving you a headache to know that men have to be drafted.

04:09:10.220 No, it's like everyone has their own opinion.

04:09:11.800 And like, I respect everyone's individual opinions, but I just don't want my right to

04:09:16.600 take it, be taken away because I'm a woman and you want me to fight in a war. 0.99

04:09:20.400 Okay.

04:09:20.900 Your opinion is your, no, I don't want your right to vote, to be taken away.

04:09:24.280 I just want you to fight in a war, be drafted. 0.93

04:09:28.840 That's your thoughts.

04:09:30.240 Yeah.

04:09:30.600 But don't you think that would be fair?

04:09:31.760 Like, okay.

04:09:32.320 So too freaking bad.

04:09:33.740 You don't think, you don't think it's fair.

04:09:35.160 No, that's not what's happening now.

04:09:36.740 Why would that not be fair?

04:09:38.660 Because I can't fight in a war like how a man could. 0.98

04:09:41.360 And if I was trained to, if I was trained to, I would, yeah, I would love to, but I'm

04:09:45.800 not trained.

04:09:46.340 I'm not knowledgeable on war methods and techniques on how to defend my country.

04:09:53.100 That's just an opinion.

04:09:54.260 Like if you want me to fight in a war, that's your opinion.

04:09:56.300 I like where I'm at right now and I like my right to vote.

04:09:58.360 You don't have to.

04:09:59.120 Let me ask you this.

04:09:59.840 I like my right to vote.

04:10:00.400 That's amazing.

04:10:01.100 I like my right to vote.

04:10:02.720 Do you think it's unfair then that in order for men to be allowed to vote and to receive 0.74

04:10:09.780 other sorts of benefits, they have to register for the selective service, which makes them

04:10:14.520 subject, potentially subject to forced military conscription.

04:10:19.360 Do you think that's unfair?

04:10:20.800 No.

04:10:21.460 You don't think it's unfair?

04:10:22.740 No.

04:10:22.940 Why is it not unfair?

04:10:24.460 Because you're a man.

04:10:25.500 Do your job.

04:10:25.560 What does that have to do with anything?

04:10:26.900 Do your job.

04:10:27.880 What is that?

04:10:28.680 How does that?

04:10:29.940 She's just saying it's like gender roles. 1.00

04:10:32.220 She's saying like.

04:10:32.820 Are you a virgin?

04:10:34.260 It doesn't matter.

04:10:34.760 Do your job.

04:10:35.160 She's saying that it has gender roles. 0.95

04:10:37.300 If a man is a provider. 0.55

04:10:38.460 I can play this game too.

04:10:39.660 Are you a virgin?

04:10:40.440 But that doesn't have anything to do with the context.

04:10:42.000 It absolutely has everything to do.

04:10:43.800 How?

04:10:44.200 Yes.

04:10:44.560 Female virginity has been more. 1.00

04:10:46.960 What's the term?

04:10:48.020 More.

04:10:49.000 Has more import to men than it does the reverse.

04:10:53.520 You want to talk about traditional gender roles?

04:10:55.940 I'm not talking about traditional gender roles.

04:10:57.600 I just say.

04:10:58.100 Then what are you talking about?

04:10:59.060 You're asking me about wanting to be fighting in the war.

04:11:00.960 Like the physicality of a man.

04:11:02.180 Should women be paid equally? 1.00

04:11:03.760 I don't have to.

04:11:04.240 Should women be paid equally? 1.00

04:11:05.040 I think God.

04:11:05.520 If they can do the job equally.

04:11:06.880 Yeah.

04:11:07.360 If they can do the job equally as good.

04:11:09.020 For instance.

04:11:10.120 In your religion.

04:11:12.540 When men will take on multiple wives. 0.65

04:11:16.100 If they take on a fourth wife.

04:11:18.180 They will value in her. 0.87

04:11:19.700 Her virginity. 0.82

04:11:20.600 Right?

04:11:21.460 Yes.

04:11:21.760 Virginity is.

04:11:22.440 But hang on.

04:11:23.260 Hang on.

04:11:23.560 Hang on.

04:11:23.900 Hang on.

04:11:24.720 But they're obviously not valuing his virginity.

04:11:28.220 He's no longer a virgin.

04:11:30.140 Right?

04:11:31.180 No.

04:11:31.420 It's gender roles. 1.00

04:11:32.020 It's gender roles. 1.00

04:11:32.520 No.

04:11:32.740 So the thing is.

04:11:34.320 Is that what Brian's saying here is accurate.

04:11:36.420 He's saying.

04:11:37.160 Okay.

04:11:37.720 In this particular case.

04:11:39.080 The value.

04:11:40.480 That he places on a woman of virginity.

04:11:42.480 Even in your own culture.

04:11:43.720 Is highly valuable.

04:11:45.600 And you must know this.

04:11:47.120 Yeah.

04:11:47.320 Because by your own logic.

04:11:49.520 Thank you.

04:11:50.180 A woman.

04:11:51.020 Yeah.

04:11:51.260 If there's multiple wives. 1.00

04:11:53.160 They're going to be selecting for virgin wives. 1.00

04:11:55.520 In fact.

04:11:55.960 It's imperative.

04:11:56.560 That they select for that.

04:11:58.400 Just think how you would like to think.

04:11:59.940 And I have no disrespect for your opinion.

04:12:01.660 I'm just grateful that I have the right to vote.

04:12:03.620 And I don't have to be drafted.

04:12:04.900 So.

04:12:05.160 Yeah.

04:12:05.360 I get that you're grateful for the right to vote.

04:12:07.300 And I get that you're grateful that you don't have to be drafted.

04:12:10.320 And I'm also.

04:12:11.160 Me.

04:12:11.600 I'm grateful you have actual arguments.

04:12:13.740 Right?

04:12:14.020 In this particular case though.

04:12:15.560 You made the same argument.

04:12:16.940 And that's what I don't understand.

04:12:18.280 Because it's been defeated.

04:12:19.760 I don't understand why it is that you think.

04:12:22.460 When you say.

04:12:23.360 Well men.

04:12:24.080 That is their role to go fight.

04:12:25.760 I don't even disagree with you.

04:12:27.360 I don't think.

04:12:28.320 That any.

04:12:29.620 Of the Islamists. 0.98

04:12:31.220 Who hear this.

04:12:32.300 Will disagree with you.

04:12:33.240 I think all of us collectively would agree.

04:12:35.980 Men's role is to fight in wars. 1.00

04:12:38.940 But we would also agree that that means.

04:12:40.840 That the political power to send men off to war.

04:12:44.020 Should be in the hands of men. 1.00

04:12:46.480 Okay.

04:12:46.900 That's your opinion.

04:12:49.020 Do you have a reputation?

04:12:51.400 I have nothing to say from that.

04:12:53.240 That's your opinion.

04:12:54.120 Then you can just.

04:12:54.880 All right.

04:12:55.140 What you want.

04:12:55.720 Like everyone has their own opinion.

04:12:59.840 Okay.

04:13:00.860 All right.

04:13:03.700 So you said it's men's job to do what?

04:13:07.340 I feel like a man should.

04:13:08.720 To defend his country.

04:13:09.960 Yeah.

04:13:10.480 Okay.

04:13:11.100 So then what's a woman's job? 1.00

04:13:13.360 To shelter.

04:13:14.280 To nurture.

04:13:15.280 To do what a woman's value in life. 1.00

04:13:18.080 Whatever value she has to offer.

04:13:19.420 Yeah.

04:13:19.560 But is she required to do that? 0.99

04:13:22.060 She's not.

04:13:22.460 By the government.

04:13:23.340 Can she be forced to do that by the government? 1.00

04:13:26.260 She's not.

04:13:27.180 Okay.

04:13:27.580 And let's say women were forced to do that. 1.00

04:13:30.200 By the government.

04:13:31.360 Would that be worse than having.

04:13:34.000 Being forced to go to war.

04:13:35.660 And potentially die.

04:13:37.160 So you're saying because of the standpoint.

04:13:38.620 You're saying that women shouldn't vote. 0.86

04:13:39.980 That's not what I'm saying.

04:13:40.840 How do you feel?

04:13:44.580 What do you want from a woman? 1.00

04:13:45.520 I'm not arguing for walking back of women's right to vote. 0.65

04:13:47.920 What I am arguing for is an equalization of what the current status quo is.

04:13:52.760 If men have to be drafted.

04:13:54.640 So too do women. 1.00

04:13:56.440 But what good would that do with our physicality?

04:14:00.140 No.

04:14:00.260 Equality.

04:14:00.600 When it comes to statistics of the body.

04:14:02.860 What does it benefit America for women with no intellect? 1.00

04:14:08.620 Ignorant women who don't know how to shoot a gun. 1.00

04:14:10.960 How are we going to help you guys in war in the battlefield? 1.00

04:14:14.780 It doesn't matter.

04:14:15.460 Rather than being behind and doing nursing.

04:14:18.240 No.

04:14:18.460 Because that means you want women to die on balance because of equality. 1.00

04:14:22.100 So do you think women. 1.00

04:14:22.500 That's what it sounds like to me.

04:14:23.420 Let me answer.

04:14:23.840 So do you think women should not be able to volunteer to join the military? 0.92

04:14:28.220 They could.

04:14:28.840 Yes.

04:14:29.100 They should.

04:14:29.600 Anybody should have their rights.

04:14:30.500 That's such a weird argument because the inverse would be true.

04:14:34.260 So if you make the bold claim that, wait, you see men are engineered to fight these wars.

04:14:40.320 They're the best, the greatest, the finest who have ever existed fighting wars.

04:14:44.400 Women could never do it in a million years the way that they can. 1.00

04:14:47.700 Again, I would totally agree with you.

04:14:49.660 How is it that you can reconcile, though, that you should have the political power to send them off to fight one?

04:14:54.920 I didn't have no political power.

04:14:56.280 I didn't choose for that.

04:14:57.060 I didn't ask you.

04:14:58.180 Let her answer.

04:15:00.500 Hey, don't talk to my twin like that.

04:15:04.540 Well, I mean, I'm just being fair, right?

04:15:06.780 I want to have the conversation with the person I'm having it with.

04:15:10.160 The exchange I've had with both of you have been highly respectful.

04:15:13.320 But let's have the combo.

04:15:14.800 Go ahead.

04:15:15.360 Okay.

04:15:16.200 So you're saying, I'm sorry, can you rephrase the question one more time?

04:15:19.200 Yeah.

04:15:19.480 So I agree with you.

04:15:21.040 I totally agree with you.

04:15:21.960 Men are going to be way better at fighting wars than women. 1.00

04:15:24.780 And that is their general rule.

04:15:26.220 They are the best at it.

04:15:28.360 The best of the best of the best of the best.

04:15:31.560 Why should you have the political power to send them off to do that again?

04:15:34.700 I think that it's not the woman.

04:15:36.900 I think there's too much emphasis on the women sending men off to war. 0.99

04:15:40.220 It's a whole country as a total vote.

04:15:43.100 It's not just, oh, me.

04:15:44.380 If I say he has to go to war, then you guys have to go to war.

04:15:46.760 No, it's literal, the way the government is set up, it's not based off of a woman's vote. 1.00

04:15:52.020 It's literally the, not even, even the, the spot of a, like all of us, it's like democracy.

04:15:58.460 Oh, well, if women's votes don't matter, then why do you want the right to vote? 1.00

04:16:01.360 It's as a whole.

04:16:02.640 It's a, it's not just women. 1.00

04:16:03.840 Oh, the whole.

04:16:04.100 So if as a whole, the women, hang on. 1.00

04:16:07.040 If as a whole, women's right to vote don't matter, then why do you want women to be able 1.00

04:16:11.600 to vote?

04:16:11.780 That's not what I said.

04:16:12.740 You're now.

04:16:13.160 Oh, but then as a whole, their vote does matter?

04:16:15.200 As a whole, it does make a difference, but it's not the entirety of the decision.

04:16:18.720 Oh, so then as a whole, they can vote, and that could influence us to go to war?

04:16:22.520 So that's why I feel like you're invalid for your statement, because it doesn't make sense.

04:16:26.340 I see, I see.

04:16:26.720 So, well, let's find out.

04:16:27.880 It's not in the process of the government.

04:16:29.160 Okay, well, let us test the logic here and see.

04:16:29.820 It takes so much more to send women and to send men off of the war based off of a vote.

04:16:33.200 Well, let us find out which one of our logic makes the most sense.

04:16:37.180 So we start with women, wait a second, my vote doesn't matter. 1.00

04:16:40.900 I'm just a lonely female, and it's a collective of females. 0.87

04:16:43.940 It's like, okay, I can accept that.

04:16:46.480 It's a collective of women. 1.00

04:16:47.860 But then if I say, well, wait, if women's votes don't matter, then why do you want the right to vote? 1.00

04:16:53.560 You say, well, women's votes do matter. 1.00

04:16:55.660 If that is true, then you are admitting that collectively women can influence the electoral process, which could include influencing the deciding factor on whether or not men go to war.

04:17:07.800 Yeah, because it's the humanity of your life.

04:17:09.820 Like, you're putting your life in the hands of your government.

04:17:12.380 And a woman lives here, too. 0.99

04:17:13.900 A woman lives in the other country, too, that they're going to war with.

04:17:16.500 Why are you saying, oh, I don't care about your life?

04:17:18.880 Your life matters, whether or not you're a man, whether or not you're a woman, whether or not you're fighting on the front basis.

04:17:24.180 But because you're incapable of truly—

04:17:26.180 You are in this country.

04:17:26.640 You have a right to say what your life is here for.

04:17:29.600 And that's a really easy thing to state that, hey, wait a second, I do understand that this is going to be a thing fought by men, and so I'm using the vote responsibly. 0.54

04:17:40.600 There's no possible way for us to trust that, considering that you can vote for this thing and never suffer the negative repercussions of it.

04:17:49.680 They are suffering the repercussions.

04:17:51.440 No, no, no, no, no, no.

04:17:52.420 Just not as equal to men.

04:17:53.900 Just not as equal.

04:17:54.780 You're not suffering the negative repercussions of it.

04:17:57.700 You're voting to send men off to fight your battles for you.

04:18:00.920 You say this is what they're ontologically supposed to do.

04:18:04.160 Their telos, their purpose, what they're ingrained to do is to fight wars.

04:18:08.180 I even agree with that.

04:18:09.140 How is not losing someone you love not a negative repercussion?

04:18:12.140 Stop.

04:18:12.540 Hang on.

04:18:12.880 Let me ask the question that he can answer.

04:18:15.160 If it is so that it is their purpose to fight war, if it is so that it is ingrained in them to go and protect women and children and other men who are, you know, enfeebled,

04:18:26.040 then why shouldn't the destiny of who they fight the war with be solely in their own hands?

04:18:34.240 You think it should be solely in a man's hands? 0.99

04:18:36.780 It should be solely in the hands of those who have the potential to go fight the war, not in those who do not. 0.60

04:18:44.160 Okay.

04:18:46.500 Can you tell me why that's wrong?

04:18:48.460 That's not wrong.

04:18:49.620 It's not wrong. 0.84

04:18:50.600 That's not wrong.

04:18:51.340 I never said it was.

04:18:51.820 That's why I don't want you to vote.

04:18:54.020 That's why.

04:18:55.160 You just said it's not wrong.

04:18:56.680 It's not wrong to feel that way.

04:18:57.800 It's not wrong. 0.84

04:18:59.020 Yeah, because what is wrong?

04:19:00.680 Who am I to say that is wrong?

04:19:02.680 Wrong means that that is wrong.

04:19:04.060 That is against God's nature.

04:19:05.900 Well, wait a second.

04:19:07.400 That's funny that you bring up epistemology.

04:19:10.120 You bring up the grounding foundation of all of your morals comes from God.

04:19:13.880 So does mine.

04:19:14.580 Okay, so then why should I say that that's wrong?

04:19:16.760 That's not wrong.

04:19:18.060 Hang on.

04:19:18.360 When you say wrong, you're agreeing with me that all right and wrong comes from God, right?

04:19:23.040 It's not wrong for you to feel that way.

04:19:25.680 Hang on.

04:19:26.240 That's just to you and you're as a man.

04:19:26.960 Are you agreeing that all right and wrong comes from God?

04:19:30.400 Yes.

04:19:31.400 And is God masculine or is God feminine?

04:19:35.540 Neither.

04:19:36.280 It's the highest.

04:19:37.240 Unfathomable.

04:19:37.680 Neither?

04:19:38.560 The highest.

04:19:39.560 Unfathomable.

04:19:39.840 Why would I put God as a he or she? 1.00

04:19:42.580 It's neither.

04:19:43.160 Oh, I see.

04:19:43.880 And the highest prophet of God.

04:19:46.220 Was that a male or a female?

04:19:48.100 Male.

04:19:48.420 All prophets are males. 0.93

04:19:49.300 All prophets are males. 0.93

04:19:50.180 All prophets are males. 0.93

04:19:51.180 That's really weird that all prophets are males.

04:19:54.440 Because they're a leader.

04:19:55.340 All those prophets.

04:19:56.080 Hang on.

04:19:56.760 All those prophets who are males.

04:19:58.540 That's why she said go to war. 0.97

04:19:59.720 Go to your job.

04:20:00.760 Go lead.

04:20:01.700 Go lead for the country.

04:20:02.320 Chill out.

04:20:03.020 Chill out.

04:20:03.600 Chill out.

04:20:05.040 Okay.

04:20:05.440 I'm sorry.

04:20:06.060 Do you think that Christians aren't patriarchists?

04:20:08.260 No.

04:20:08.540 Did you have that confused?

04:20:09.460 I love Christians.

04:20:10.020 What?

04:20:10.720 Yeah.

04:20:11.220 Christians are patriarchists as well.

04:20:12.820 I'm not going to believe for a Muslim. 1.00

04:20:13.680 A Muslim nation because I'm a Christian patriarchist.

04:20:16.020 But if all of your prophets are male, that's really weird.

04:20:21.440 How come God doesn't want his message sent through women? 0.99

04:20:26.300 I'm not sure.

04:20:27.140 I'm not God.

04:20:27.920 You're not sure?

04:20:29.040 I'm not God.

04:20:29.920 How am I supposed to answer that question?

04:20:30.540 You're not sure?

04:20:31.360 Does God want you to have authority over men?

04:20:33.200 If you put that in the Quran, then I would answer that question.

04:20:34.200 If you put that in the Bible, we would be able to answer that question.

04:20:35.100 Does God want you to have authority over men?

04:20:37.360 No.

04:20:38.640 No. 0.99

04:20:39.400 Then why the fuck can you vote for when they go to war? 0.99

04:20:42.680 Because it's our right. 0.99

04:20:43.700 It's our right.

04:20:44.640 It's our right because we're alive in this too.

04:20:46.680 Oh, I see.

04:20:47.480 To war. 0.57

04:20:48.280 Women have a central part in war. 1.00

04:20:51.100 And you're trying to dismiss this because it's not as a negative.

04:20:54.080 It is negative, but not as negative.

04:20:56.800 You are right about that.

04:20:57.740 But it's still negative for a woman to lose her love of her life, to lose her father, to

04:21:01.080 lose her whole family in war.

04:21:02.920 That's fair.

04:21:03.500 That's a fair argument.

04:21:04.540 Hey, that's a fair argument too.

04:21:05.880 We have a part in war.

04:21:07.240 And I hate that you guys are trying to say it's all men.

04:21:09.220 Only war is about men.

04:21:10.740 Men are about war. 0.66

04:21:12.020 They're the only ones that suffer the consequences.

04:21:13.400 No, that's your argument.

04:21:15.080 That's actually your argument to say men should fight the war.

04:21:18.280 Your argument is to say men should fight the war because they're the most-

04:21:20.960 Men die and change all of our lives. 0.86

04:21:22.660 It changes all of our lives.

04:21:23.640 Hang on, hang on.

04:21:24.420 You got to let me finish my point.

04:21:26.300 And then I'll let you finish yours.

04:21:27.260 No, wait.

04:21:28.080 It's actually your point to say men are the most badass and they're the ones who need to fight

04:21:32.520 because that's what a man does.

04:21:34.320 That's what a man does.

04:21:36.880 He goes out and fights all those wars for you.

04:21:39.700 It's like, okay, fair enough.

04:21:42.160 That's what a man does on behalf of you.

04:21:44.800 Wait, make that face one more time.

04:21:46.720 Make the face one more time, Edge.

04:21:49.460 That's what a man does for you.

04:21:52.640 If it is so.

04:21:53.960 Yo, clip it and ship it, boys.

04:21:55.580 That that's what a man does on behalf of you.

04:21:59.340 Then why is it that you should have the right to vote to make him do that instead of him?

04:22:05.880 Who, by the way, you have admitted your God only speaks through prophets, which are men.

04:22:11.180 You have admitted women are not to have authority over men. 0.99

04:22:14.980 Why in the fucking world then, according to your own worldview, should you have the authority 0.98

04:22:19.700 to send men off to war ever or any female politician ever? 1.00

04:22:27.540 Okay.

04:22:28.220 Ever.

04:22:28.960 Are you done?

04:22:30.360 I'm done.

04:22:31.260 All right, great.

04:22:31.820 I was just waiting.

04:22:32.280 Okay, so basically, I just have a simple point, is that you are right about the prophets being,

04:22:38.260 men should be a leader in life with women when it comes to, like, leadership in political parties

04:22:43.780 and so forth.

04:22:44.560 But it doesn't take away that a woman is just as important in the message the prophets have

04:22:51.280 to give.

04:22:52.420 Who did Jesus, who was his mother?

04:22:54.520 Miriam.

04:22:55.080 She was so important in his message.

04:22:57.160 She was so important.

04:22:57.860 Wait, Miriam? 0.98

04:22:58.900 His mom.

04:22:59.580 Jesus' mom.

04:23:00.220 What are you talking about?

04:23:00.640 You mean Mary?

04:23:01.180 Her name is Miriam.

04:23:02.660 That's what she said.

04:23:04.440 No, she said Miriam.

04:23:05.760 That's her name.

04:23:06.860 It's Miriam.

04:23:07.600 Well, it's Mary.

04:23:08.720 Okay.

04:23:09.340 That's for other...

04:23:10.780 Maximus was the philosopher's name.

04:23:12.840 Okay, if you guys literally stop thinking from a Christian point of view, it's all religions

04:23:17.080 don't call her Mary.

04:23:18.200 In my religion, I call her Mary.

04:23:19.480 No, no, I understand.

04:23:20.440 Okay, I get it.

04:23:21.040 From your perspective, you're calling her Mary.

04:23:22.660 It's not just a Christian ideology.

04:23:23.380 It's Mary.

04:23:23.800 Okay, I respect it.

04:23:24.620 But how I speak, how I say her name is Miriam.

04:23:26.900 Okay, move on.

04:23:27.560 Okay.

04:23:27.840 And the point of what I'm saying is a woman has a part into every piece of a man's life.

04:23:33.800 That's why Eve came from Adam. 0.89

04:23:37.080 Did Mary have authority over Christ?

04:23:38.700 I'm not saying the woman has authority. 0.99

04:23:40.360 And you're using manipulative words to say that a woman has authority over a man's life in war. 0.94

04:23:46.680 Okay, I need to just...

04:23:48.260 Statistically and educationally, when it comes to government process of voting, a woman does 1.00

04:23:54.400 not have the full control or oversuperiority of a man going to war.

04:23:58.300 That's definitely not true.

04:23:59.600 Okay, so let me try this out again.

04:24:01.700 I'm just going to ask hyper-specifically.

04:24:03.840 Okay, hyper-specifically.

04:24:04.840 In your religion, yes or no, should women ever have authority over men, ever? 0.87

04:24:11.680 No.

04:24:12.920 No.

04:24:14.180 So in the political process, should women have authority over men, ever? 1.00

04:24:20.700 No, they don't.

04:24:22.200 They don't have it.

04:24:23.640 They don't have that.

04:24:24.440 And right now, right now...

04:24:25.560 Humanity has been...

04:24:26.740 Hang on.

04:24:27.480 Right now, are there female politicians in the United States who have authority over men, 1.00

04:24:32.440 or men, right now?

04:24:33.840 Right now, are there women who have authority over men in the United States? 1.00

04:24:38.940 Yes.

04:24:39.900 Yeah.

04:24:40.220 And should they?

04:24:42.100 Um, no, not from my standpoint, no.

04:24:44.760 No, they shouldn't.

04:24:45.480 So no woman should ever be able to, in Congress, or as President, or as Senator, ever be able 1.00

04:24:52.760 to cast a single vote in a position of authority in the United States.

04:24:57.680 Yes or no?

04:24:59.520 It's undecided for me, because I'm not...

04:25:01.420 No, answer my question.

04:25:02.800 Don't deflect.

04:25:03.760 No, I'm not in that political field.

04:25:07.240 I plead the fifth, because I'm not in that political field.

04:25:09.380 I plead the fifth.

04:25:09.900 I don't know if there's a woman righteous enough. 1.00

04:25:11.320 I don't know that.

04:25:11.900 Just answer the question.

04:25:13.340 Because there may be a woman righteous enough to do that. 1.00

04:25:15.780 She might have that.

04:25:16.560 Oh, man.

04:25:16.740 So let me get this right.

04:25:17.720 Let me get this right.

04:25:19.180 I ask you, should a woman ever have authority over a man? 1.00

04:25:21.900 Answer.

04:25:22.620 No.

04:25:23.280 Should a female politician ever have authority over a man? 1.00

04:25:26.160 Answer.

04:25:26.660 No.

04:25:26.900 Then why is it that you should be able to vote for a female politician that has authority 1.00

04:25:30.760 over a man? 0.99

04:25:31.380 Your answer, I plead the fucking fifth. 1.00

04:25:33.100 Is that correct? 0.99

04:25:33.940 Yes.

04:25:34.620 Do we have that about right?

04:25:35.800 It's because...

04:25:36.380 Did we reduce your position down to where it needs to be yet?

04:25:40.500 Please, for the love of God, I hope you have.

04:25:43.760 Oh, no.

04:25:45.140 I thought she was going to say something else.

04:25:46.340 No.

04:25:46.520 So can you answer my last question?

04:25:47.960 Should a female politician ever have the authority to send a man to war? 1.00

04:25:51.060 Yes or no?

04:25:52.720 I don't know.

04:25:53.920 I don't know the answer to that.

04:25:54.760 You don't know.

04:25:55.740 Okay.

04:25:56.000 Please, end of discussion.

04:25:58.020 Got to move it on.

04:25:58.840 Got to move it on.

04:25:59.480 We do have Stiffler.

04:26:01.160 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

04:26:03.440 Can pick 7, starting with you.

04:26:06.280 Go ahead.

04:26:06.740 5.

04:26:07.620 Into the mics, guys.

04:26:09.680 My own looks?

04:26:10.940 Yeah, looks.

04:26:12.140 10.

04:26:12.840 Kep?

04:26:14.080 I don't know, 8.

04:26:16.960 Sure, I would have to say 10.

04:26:18.420 Yeah, 10.

04:26:19.120 I have a stifler of 6.

04:26:21.460 Like a 5.5.

04:26:22.980 I'll say 5.

04:26:26.660 6.5.

04:26:28.260 Give myself a 5, Andrew.

04:26:32.620 4.

04:26:33.640 4.

04:26:34.600 So we've got 10, 8.

04:26:37.240 I know all the women laugh at that. 1.00

04:26:38.620 Am I way more attractive than I think I am?

04:26:42.600 You should just look at me then and be like, Andrew, you're so handsome. 0.98

04:26:45.840 It's ridiculous. 0.93

04:26:46.980 We just can't even control ourselves. 0.95

04:26:49.660 Why else would they laugh?

04:26:51.000 Is it less?

04:26:52.380 Should it be a 3?

04:26:54.260 Like, what am I getting wrong here?

04:26:55.800 Wait, can I ask a question?

04:26:56.780 At least a 6, Andrew.

04:26:57.580 Why do people rate themselves less than a 10?

04:27:00.380 Like, just from...

04:27:01.140 I'm just curious as to why you guys think you're not.

04:27:03.840 That's a good question.

04:27:04.980 There's room for improvement.

04:27:06.820 Yeah, so what we're trying to ascertain is whether or not you think you're perfect.

04:27:09.960 You don't need any improvement at all.

04:27:12.240 Well, actually, Andrew, we're trying to ascertain if you're delusional.

04:27:15.760 Yeah, but that would be the claim of perfection.

04:27:19.840 Sure.

04:27:20.100 So anybody who would claim that they were perfect would be delusional.

04:27:23.880 Oh, you're saying 10 is perfect?

04:27:28.000 Yeah, so when we're rating a scale of 1 to 10, 10 is the max, right?

04:27:33.020 Yeah.

04:27:33.740 Physically.

04:27:34.580 She said looks.

04:27:35.620 Yeah, yeah.

04:27:36.280 Perfect.

04:27:36.740 Physically perfect.

04:27:37.860 Can anything be above a 10?

04:27:39.680 What perfect?

04:27:40.820 I didn't...

04:27:41.280 Can anything be...

04:27:42.840 Okay, well, then hang on.

04:27:44.000 Just follow my logic.

04:27:45.100 Can anything in the scale of 1 to 10 be higher than 10?

04:27:48.940 No.

04:27:49.560 No.

04:27:50.100 But nobody said perfect.

04:27:51.160 Yeah, so if 10 is the highest, that means that you're counting yourself among the elite

04:27:56.860 least percentile on planet Earth.

04:28:00.900 I don't even know if there's a 10 which exists, but if there was, you're claiming that that

04:28:05.400 is you.

04:28:07.220 No, I didn't see the question in that way.

04:28:10.240 I didn't see the question in that way.

04:28:11.620 I think everything is imperfect.

04:28:13.060 So the word perfect, to me, doesn't stand in that question of physically 10.

04:28:17.940 I think that everyone at this table is absolutely beautiful.

04:28:20.680 So I would rate everyone here 10, including myself.

04:28:23.840 Let's...

04:28:24.240 I think that's fair.

04:28:25.420 So let's back up and kind of address the point.

04:28:26.980 Because I don't believe in perfection.

04:28:27.760 Again, that's a good argument.

04:28:29.040 You're using the word perfection as in that's 10.

04:28:31.840 10 is perfection because that's your perception.

04:28:33.980 That's not my perception.

04:28:36.260 I get it.

04:28:36.960 Now I understand what you mean by perfect.

04:28:39.320 And I understand that you're also are yielding to a God you consider only God to be perfect,

04:28:43.580 right?

04:28:44.340 Yeah.

04:28:45.280 Is that correct?

04:28:45.940 That's your standard of perfection, right?

04:28:47.660 Yes.

04:28:49.960 Both of you?

04:28:51.480 Yes.

04:28:51.920 I mean...

04:28:52.760 I can't.

04:28:53.500 Seriously.

04:28:54.020 I don't care.

04:28:54.080 Both?

04:28:54.600 One?

04:28:55.220 Into the mics, please.

04:28:56.360 Yes.

04:28:56.720 Yes.

04:28:57.520 Yes.

04:28:57.660 Yes.

04:28:58.520 Okay.

04:28:59.100 So if you're only considering God perfect, that's fine.

04:29:01.980 Okay?

04:29:02.820 Though I don't know how you would be able to ascertain the physical beauty of God.

04:29:06.840 We will still assume that under your worldview, the physical beauty of God is a 10 along with

04:29:11.880 every other characteristic.

04:29:12.660 I think myself, including everyone else, is not perfectly physical.

04:29:16.300 No.

04:29:16.840 Okay.

04:29:17.320 I get it.

04:29:18.380 But what I'm saying to you is that in this scale, we're only talking about physical characteristics.

04:29:24.140 10 being the highest possible.

04:29:25.740 So let me reframe.

04:29:26.900 Yeah, 10.

04:29:27.020 I think everyone's a 10 up in here.

04:29:28.500 Stop.

04:29:29.320 And let me finish.

04:29:30.620 Let me reframe the question so that you understand it better.

04:29:33.640 Understanding your paradigm.

04:29:35.460 If 1,000 men, random men, random, meaning, again, I can't emphasize this enough, random.

04:29:45.740 In fact, repeat back the word random so I know that you know what I mean.

04:29:49.640 Because I've asked this question a million times.

04:29:51.100 I just need to know you know it.

04:29:52.640 Yeah, random.

04:29:53.240 Okay.

04:29:54.040 So 1,000 random men, they're at a fair, and you're in a beauty contest, and they bring

04:30:00.020 you up.

04:30:01.060 And they say, okay, guys, you can go from 1 to 10 on her beauty.

04:30:05.580 Okay.

04:30:05.920 And the average of what all of you determine her beauty to be is what we'll go with.

04:30:10.520 So this guy raises two.

04:30:12.060 This guy raises four.

04:30:13.420 This guy raises seven.

04:30:14.680 This guy raises 10.

04:30:16.040 What do you think the average, the collective of all 1,000 of the men would put you numerically?

04:30:23.480 We're going to start with you, and then we're going to ask you four.

04:30:26.560 Go ahead.

04:30:27.240 Who, me?

04:30:27.920 Yeah.

04:30:29.760 What I think that they would think of me.

04:30:32.780 Did you hear what he was saying?

04:30:35.140 He said, yeah.

04:30:36.620 Yeah.

04:30:38.720 It's kind of a hard question to answer.

04:30:41.420 It's kind of a hard question to answer.

04:30:43.640 Okay.

04:30:44.040 So you answered 10.

04:30:45.220 Yeah.

04:30:46.160 So in the scenario that he gave you, what do you think they would give you, the 1,000

04:30:50.280 random men, on average?

04:30:56.780 I want to say 10. 1.00

04:31:00.680 Shit. 1.00

04:31:01.400 Wow. 1.00

04:31:01.860 Okay.

04:31:02.100 All right.

04:31:02.540 What about you?

04:31:03.280 You said eight.

04:31:04.100 What would the 1,000 men give you?

04:31:06.300 Average?

04:31:06.820 I don't know.

04:31:07.040 Maybe seven.

04:31:08.280 Because I don't know.

04:31:10.140 This is difficult, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so.

04:31:13.260 That's why we have 1,000 beholders, and we're asking you to average what you think they'd

04:31:17.580 say.

04:31:18.280 But I don't know their perception on beauty.

04:31:20.320 They like Western beauty.

04:31:21.480 They like blondes. 1.00

04:31:22.520 They like Western beauty.

04:31:24.020 I'm not Western beauty.

04:31:25.640 Yeah, great.

04:31:26.380 So anyway, they like Western beauty.

04:31:27.940 So then I wouldn't apply to this scenario because of people like Western beauty, that's blonde 1.00

04:31:35.200 hair, blue eyes, lighter skin.

04:31:37.300 I'm the opposite of that.

04:31:38.600 Okay, fine.

04:31:39.540 They value Eastern beauty.

04:31:41.020 She would be a 10. 0.93

04:31:43.400 I would still be a 10.

04:31:44.140 I view myself as a 10.

04:31:44.840 It just depends on what you love.

04:31:46.160 I don't know.

04:31:46.640 I know that you view yourself as a 10.

04:31:49.060 My question is not how you would be attracted to her just as much as she's attracted to

04:31:52.880 herself.

04:31:53.460 What's my...

04:31:54.080 Hang on.

04:31:54.620 I just want you to repeat for me.

04:31:56.200 What's my actual question to you?

04:31:58.920 Can you repeat it for me?

04:32:00.320 The question that you're asking is if there's a thousand men, what is the average of...

04:32:04.300 What is the rate that they're going to give you on average off of...

04:32:07.240 Based off of the thousand men that are looking at you in the beauty pattern?

04:32:09.920 Yes.

04:32:11.020 Am I taking...

04:32:11.920 Can you answer my question?

04:32:12.800 That's correct.

04:32:14.740 Right?

04:32:15.300 Yes.

04:32:15.460 They're going to rate you a 10?

04:32:17.360 So answer the question.

04:32:18.220 Depend...

04:32:18.620 Like she said, depending on what...

04:32:20.780 Where we are.

04:32:21.620 Like if I'm in...

04:32:22.440 Okay, you're out east.

04:32:23.380 For the love of God, give it up for me.

04:32:24.740 You're in east.

04:32:26.020 You're as east as you can go or as central... 0.99

04:32:28.860 Wherever the fuck you want. 0.99

04:32:29.980 No, because this matters. 1.00

04:32:30.300 I don't care.

04:32:30.440 That's why I'm like...

04:32:30.860 Whatever you think it'll be.

04:32:32.260 Okay, yeah.

04:32:32.840 If it was in my side of where I was raised and where I was blood born, then yeah, I would

04:32:36.980 be a 10.

04:32:37.480 But if I was in America...

04:32:38.220 You'd be a 10 where?

04:32:39.220 Where I was blood...

04:32:40.180 Where were you born?

04:32:41.200 Egypt.

04:32:41.320 Where's that?

04:32:41.900 I'm Egyptian.

04:32:42.780 Egypt.

04:32:43.040 We're full blood Egyptian.

04:32:44.080 You think it'd be a 10 in Egypt?

04:32:45.500 Yes.

04:32:46.220 Absolutely.

04:32:46.780 Okay.

04:32:47.180 I already know that.

04:32:47.940 All right.

04:32:48.480 And so then...

04:32:49.600 So all 1,000 men would hold up a sign saying 10?

04:32:52.780 Yes.

04:32:53.060 Yes, 100%.

04:32:53.780 Oh, okay.

04:32:55.060 And then...

04:32:55.740 And now I just want you to look at me and say, Andrew, I just want these words.

04:33:00.100 Can you look right in the camera?

04:33:00.920 Just look at the camera.

04:33:02.200 Whatever camera's the closest to you, look right at it and say, Andrew, I'm not delusional.

04:33:07.920 Every man in Egypt would say I'm a 10.

04:33:10.440 No, I'm not saying that because that's not...

04:33:12.160 See, your words are very manipulative.

04:33:13.820 You just said 1,000.

04:33:14.460 Oh, no, they're not.

04:33:15.320 If it's 1,000 out of 1,000, you could never have a sample size higher than 1,000 out of 1,000.

04:33:22.600 I would love to think that every man in Egypt finds me beautiful.

04:33:27.120 Yes, I would love to think that.

04:33:29.140 That is my opinion on myself.

04:33:29.880 Well, my question isn't what you'd like to think.

04:33:32.080 My question is what you actually think.

04:33:33.880 That is what I think.

04:33:35.020 Your question isn't...

04:33:35.520 What I like to think is what I think.

04:33:37.500 It's not even valid.

04:33:38.820 It's about my self-love and how I perceive myself.

04:33:41.320 Because how are we supposed to know what other men think?

04:33:43.240 I'm a woman.

04:33:43.860 I don't have the mind of a man.

04:33:45.020 Well, I'm not asking you to know what they think.

04:33:46.880 You are asking me.

04:33:47.640 You're asking me to...

04:33:48.320 How would they judge me?

04:33:49.460 How am I supposed to know?

04:33:50.140 Yeah, I'm just asking what you think they would guess.

04:33:52.160 I don't know.

04:33:53.000 Whatever they guess.

04:33:54.100 I'm like, you know what I mean?

04:33:55.680 It's an invalid question.

04:33:57.420 I'll take a crack.

04:33:57.960 It's an invalid question.

04:33:58.920 Okay, hang on.

04:33:59.900 I got it.

04:34:00.320 It's an invalid question.

04:34:01.720 If a bird hit that window doing 1,000 miles an hour, what do you think would happen?

04:34:06.260 They would die.

04:34:07.940 Oh, wait.

04:34:08.420 Suddenly, when it comes to a hypothetical, you can, even though it hasn't happened, you

04:34:13.080 don't know exactly what would happen, you can somehow make a guess as to what would happen.

04:34:18.260 But in this case, oh, your brain, it just is empty.

04:34:22.240 You have no idea what they'd ever say. 0.99

04:34:24.600 You're hurting my brain.

04:34:26.280 Yeah, I'm sure.

04:34:27.840 And every Egyptian man would agree with me.

04:34:30.460 No, they wouldn't.

04:34:31.120 I don't even think we should grant this geographical move.

04:34:35.960 You guys currently reside in the United States.

04:34:38.820 So what would men, a cross-section of men who live in the United States?

04:34:43.940 I think I would be 8 to 9, 9.

04:34:45.660 I would say 9 in my...

04:34:46.800 9.

04:34:47.280 Okay, what about you?

04:34:48.060 Yeah, 9 for me.

04:34:49.080 You guys are twins.

04:34:50.280 I would say the same answer.

04:34:51.900 9?

04:34:52.640 9?

04:34:53.100 Okay.

04:34:54.420 So still 10, 9, 9.

04:34:58.160 Is somebody going to tell them?

04:34:59.940 Somebody tell them?

04:35:00.640 Madison, you want to tell them?

04:35:02.340 Morgan, you want to tell them?

04:35:04.100 So it would actually...

04:35:06.100 I just want to let you know that what you're saying is that you think 1,000 out of 1,000

04:35:12.660 men would essentially vote 9 or 10 or 8 for every single one of you to the point that you

04:35:20.260 would average out to a 9 or a 10.

04:35:23.160 Yeah.

04:35:23.660 This would put you at the highest...

04:35:25.740 Hang on.

04:35:26.360 This would put you at the highest beauty standards of the entirety of planet Earth.

04:35:31.500 The highest possible beauty standards.

04:35:34.780 So that you understand what that means, every single woman who has come on this podcast has

04:35:40.740 given a similar answer to that, which means that either A, Brian Atlas only books the most

04:35:48.060 beautiful women in the world to come on whatever, or the more likely possibility. 1.00

04:35:54.920 For instance, if I were to ask you this question, you two twins in the back, and I'll let you

04:35:59.020 both answer.

04:36:00.280 If you right now had to make a gamble...

04:36:03.760 Hang on.

04:36:04.120 Had to make a gamble.

04:36:04.960 And if you were wrong on the gamble, you instantly dropped dead.

04:36:10.280 That was the consequence of the gamble.

04:36:12.940 If you had to either gamble, A, that Brian Atlas brings the most beautiful women on the

04:36:19.540 podcast ever, or B, that the women who mostly come on the podcast are delusional when it 0.98

04:36:26.300 comes to self-ratings, which way would you gamble?

04:36:29.260 I would not gamble because it's haram, first of all.

04:36:31.440 Yeah, I know, but you asked me the wrong person, so I'm sorry.

04:36:34.580 If you had to.

04:36:35.420 Yeah, yeah, I know, I know.

04:36:36.520 I can't, it's against my religion.

04:36:37.480 You know what's not haram?

04:36:38.840 A hypothetical, so engage in the hypothetical.

04:36:40.940 Yeah, I'm so sorry.

04:36:42.520 Okay, I just don't understand why do you want us to look at ourselves lower?

04:36:46.560 No, no, no, no, no, no, hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:36:48.880 You can't weasel answer his question.

04:36:51.040 I just don't understand.

04:36:51.640 I'm more than happy to be humbled by saying I'm a one.

04:36:55.360 I would say that I could be a one.

04:36:56.700 I'd be happy with that answer.

04:36:57.300 Can you answer my question?

04:36:58.280 Yeah, answer the actual question.

04:36:59.460 Wait, what was the question?

04:37:00.320 The question is, if you had to gamble and the stakes were your life, would you either

04:37:06.340 gamble, A, that Brian Atlas brings the most beautiful women in the world on his podcast

04:37:11.360 and fills the entire podcast with him, or B, that most of the women who come on the podcast 0.99

04:37:17.260 are delusional when it comes to their self-rating?

04:37:19.600 A, A, A.

04:37:19.880 Hang on, hang on.

04:37:21.480 You didn't even hear the second part of the question.

04:37:23.680 No, I heard, I remembered. 0.99

04:37:24.740 Or you will die.

04:37:25.180 How can you answer before you even heard the second part of the question?

04:37:27.220 Because I know the answer, I know the answer.

04:37:29.280 It's not delusion.

04:37:30.180 You shouldn't feel like a woman who self-love or whatever thinks that everyone here is

04:37:33.900 beautiful is delusional.

04:37:35.520 That's self-hate.

04:37:36.940 That's not what it is.

04:37:38.260 I'm trying to spread hate.

04:37:38.920 The question is not whether or not you shouldn't have a high estimate of your own looks.

04:37:45.080 The question is diverting to the gaze of males and whether or not men would judge you the

04:37:50.740 same way you judge yourself.

04:37:52.160 That question is invalid.

04:37:53.120 Hang on.

04:37:53.720 Your answer is yes, they would.

04:37:56.400 And so my question becomes, if that is so, and every single woman who comes on this podcast 0.99

04:38:01.720 gives a similar answer, then that would be conceding that Brian Atlas just has the most

04:38:07.140 beautiful women on his podcast.

04:38:09.240 Yes.

04:38:09.600 And then now that audience would agree by placebo effect.

04:38:14.180 Placebo.

04:38:14.780 Placebo effect.

04:38:15.820 Because when everyone is like, oh, wow.

04:38:17.560 Like, I'm so beautiful.

04:38:18.840 They think that they're very beautiful up in here.

04:38:21.160 Like, all the people here.

04:38:21.880 Do you realize that the placebo effect would indicate that you were wrong?

04:38:27.040 The placebo effect is saying there is no actual consequence here, but it's make-believe

04:38:32.880 and all in your head.

04:38:34.080 Oh, heads. 0.70

04:38:34.520 Yes.

04:38:34.800 That's what I'm saying.

04:38:35.780 The placebo effect is a delusion.

04:38:37.720 Do you realize that?

04:38:38.760 He said he got you.

04:38:40.520 Wait, what?

04:38:41.480 He's right.

04:38:42.020 The placebo effect is a delusion.

04:38:44.760 Yeah.

04:38:45.200 That's not what I feel like she was trying to say.

04:38:47.460 No, I'm saying the people.

04:38:49.060 The people watching.

04:38:50.160 I didn't say the women.

04:38:51.580 I said it's the placebo effect on the people. 1.00

04:38:53.940 You're not listening to my goddamn statement. 0.99

04:38:56.440 You're just sitting up here talking so damn much. 1.00

04:38:58.040 You're not even listening. 0.97

04:38:58.580 You said the women would be the placebo effect. 0.99

04:38:59.840 I just said there's a placebo effect on the audience, not the people on here.

04:39:04.300 You're just.

04:39:05.520 Oh, it's not that.

04:39:06.520 You're delusional. 0.95

04:39:07.540 You're delusional.

04:39:08.040 So do you think that the women, all of the women who come on the whatever podcast just

04:39:14.040 happen to be the most beautiful women in the whole world? 1.00

04:39:17.580 Or do you think that they might have a slightly higher estimation of themselves than the general

04:39:23.540 public would?

04:39:24.760 I would like to see a woman be self-confident in herself.

04:39:27.580 And I would not like.

04:39:27.960 What does it have to do with confidence?

04:39:29.120 Because how are you going to say that they are naturally attractive?

04:39:32.640 That's on your opinion.

04:39:33.340 You look in the mirror and you think you're a one?

04:39:34.980 Like, no.

04:39:35.220 Based on how you were raised, based off of your programming, your programming is telling

04:39:38.720 me that I am beautiful to you off of one to ten.

04:39:41.660 Why do I give a damn?

04:39:42.540 I don't.

04:39:43.360 So why would I think in the way of a man?

04:39:46.320 I'm not going to think in the way of a man.

04:39:47.900 Can you answer the question?

04:39:48.520 That's why the question is not.

04:39:50.400 It's like. 0.98

04:39:50.740 Nobody gives you shit about the diatribe. 0.99

04:39:52.500 Because we are not men. 0.99

04:39:53.580 How do we know that?

04:39:54.800 So we can only give our estimated guess based off ourselves.

04:39:57.440 Based off of a woman's standpoint.

04:39:59.000 All right.

04:39:59.300 Hang on.

04:39:59.760 I get it.

04:40:00.240 I get it now.

04:40:01.500 Due to the fact that leprechauns and unicorns mate in the sky and there's rainbows underneath

04:40:05.820 Skittles on top of hills which exist within ants who are chocolate covered,

04:40:10.540 Leflipidus are often green.

04:40:12.240 I'm just going based off of my life experience to be honest. 0.99

04:40:15.260 Or are you going to keep obfuscating into shit that I don't care about? 0.99

04:40:18.600 My question is. 1.00

04:40:19.700 Does Brian Atlas bring on the most beautiful women in the world?

04:40:22.800 Yes.

04:40:23.100 I already said the answer.

04:40:24.220 Or alternatively do they have a higher estimation of themselves than they actually believe that

04:40:29.680 they do?

04:40:30.540 That's my question.

04:40:31.520 Number one.

04:40:31.820 Answer the question.

04:40:33.580 Number one.

04:40:34.380 I answered it.

04:40:34.960 I circled it three times.

04:40:36.280 No, I didn't.

04:40:37.000 What you did was you said that unicorns live underground with gophers and sometimes they

04:40:40.940 wear green hats.

04:40:41.860 Well, you're just delusional.

04:40:43.420 So that's why you're mad that you want me to join your delusional. 0.84

04:40:45.840 Answer the question.

04:40:46.560 I did.

04:40:48.320 You didn't.

04:40:49.700 Saying that you answered the question doesn't mean you answered it. 1.00

04:40:52.420 It just means that you're full of shit. 1.00

04:40:54.180 Answer the question. 1.00

04:40:55.520 I'm full of shit. 1.00

04:40:56.620 Wait, Andrew, isn't a component of the question under threat of death? 1.00

04:41:02.120 Yes.

04:41:02.280 So like they would, they would die basically.

04:41:07.900 No, they're, they're, well, what's going on is they actually haven't answered the question.

04:41:12.560 They've gone out of their way to do everything but answer it.

04:41:15.580 So I'm going to ask one more time.

04:41:17.720 This time, this time, just give me the direct.

04:41:19.300 You don't have to.

04:41:19.900 You know what?

04:41:20.200 I'll just, I'll just give you what you want.

04:41:21.700 I just want.

04:41:22.120 I'm going to give you what you want.

04:41:23.080 Give me the direct question.

04:41:23.660 We are, we are saying what we think is our higher self, whatever you want to say.

04:41:28.900 That's my answer.

04:41:30.080 What?

04:41:30.480 And if your higher, and if your higher self were to not map onto reality, but you thought

04:41:35.300 it would have a better effect on society.

04:41:36.860 Well, I do think I'm a thing, so why should I say that I'm not?

04:41:39.000 Hang on, hang on, stop.

04:41:39.440 Let me ask the question.

04:41:41.720 If you were to think that whatever the higher self of people was, even if it was a lie, but

04:41:48.620 it had a better effect, would you still recommend that people go with their higher self?

04:41:55.240 Yes.

04:41:56.740 Then you have just stated that there's no reason to ever believe you when you say your higher

04:42:02.800 self ever.

04:42:03.960 Would you?

04:42:04.620 Would you go with your lower self or your higher self?

04:42:06.820 I would go with reality.

04:42:08.480 Which is what?

04:42:09.320 Which is what?

04:42:10.500 What do women rate you? 1.00

04:42:11.960 Some type of, in this particular case, inside the context of the question, the objective

04:42:18.020 reality of me, if I were to take, stop, I'm answering the question, if I were to take

04:42:22.620 1,000 women and they were to all rate me based on Western standards of beauty, I think that

04:42:30.120 collectively they would come up with something pretty close to a woman.

04:42:32.700 Can we rate you?

04:42:35.700 Sure, go ahead.

04:42:36.680 Wait, can it be a table thing?

04:42:37.780 Because I don't want to be the only one.

04:42:38.520 Sure, go ahead.

04:42:39.720 Oh, here you go.

04:42:40.260 Should we start?

04:42:42.280 And you know what I'll do?

04:42:43.340 Let me see what happens if I average this.

04:42:45.260 I would really say that you're like a 7.

04:42:47.700 Like, you're giving, like, Prince vibes. 1.00

04:42:49.780 I would say you're a liar. 0.92

04:42:51.480 No, just physical beauty. 0.89

04:42:52.980 Yeah, I'm talking about physical beauty.

04:42:54.600 You look like a 7.

04:42:56.000 You've never heard me say a word.

04:42:57.720 I'm just walking around.

04:42:58.880 You look like somebody that used to be a Prince back when he was younger.

04:43:01.300 Yeah.

04:43:02.640 Like, you're a 7.

04:43:04.020 Yeah.

04:43:04.920 7.

04:43:06.480 I feel the same way.

04:43:07.860 Yeah.

04:43:08.100 It's Mike's, guys.

04:43:08.980 I feel the same way.

04:43:11.300 I feel like you have a lot of features that make a Prince.

04:43:15.460 She did.

04:43:15.840 And when I watch certain things, I call certain men a Prince.

04:43:19.500 I feel like you would be a Prince.

04:43:21.460 I don't know how...

04:43:22.060 European beauty.

04:43:23.040 You know what?

04:43:23.940 Rate, rate, Brian, instead.

04:43:25.260 Do that.

04:43:26.260 Let's see if we get closer to a 5 with Brian.

04:43:28.740 I did not realize that I was regal and walked around with a robe and a nice scepter.

04:43:34.260 I did not realize that I was Prince.

04:43:36.200 See, look what that did.

04:43:37.240 But perhaps Brian is more peasant material.

04:43:39.620 Let's try Brian.

04:43:39.880 It's that luscious hair and that beard.

04:43:41.560 Come on now.

04:43:41.960 Yeah.

04:43:42.280 Look at you.

04:43:42.880 That's exactly what I mean.

04:43:44.420 Like, in your eyes.

04:43:44.940 It's a 7.

04:43:45.760 I think you have blue eyes.

04:43:47.580 Are your eyes blue or am I true?

04:43:49.060 Look at you smiling.

04:43:49.960 Now you're in 8.

04:43:50.540 Stop it.

04:43:51.140 Brian's eyes are blue.

04:43:51.940 Yeah, exactly.

04:43:53.000 That's exactly what I mean.

04:43:57.100 All right.

04:43:57.780 Brian's eyes are also blue, just so you know.

04:44:00.080 Why deflecting?

04:44:00.860 Just accept the compliments.

04:44:03.940 You're a 7.

04:44:04.680 Just take it.

04:44:05.960 Do you know...

04:44:06.560 Hang on.

04:44:07.400 You do realize that after hearing so many self-delusional answers from you, all of you,

04:44:13.680 there's no actual way for me to believe that any type of fluffing up of the ego, which you

04:44:20.440 are currently attempting in order to obfuscate from questions, means that it is in any way

04:44:25.320 based in the reality of what you actually think.

04:44:28.000 It can't be so, because when I ask you what you think of yourselves, the answers are clearly 0.95

04:44:32.780 so fucking delusional, I don't believe you believe it. 0.96

04:44:37.180 I believe it. 1.00

04:44:37.660 Put me in a lie detector. 1.00

04:44:39.000 Put me in a motherfucking lie detector. 1.00

04:44:40.600 Then ask me that dang question again. 1.00

04:44:42.020 But your preference...

04:44:44.880 All right.

04:44:45.460 I'll tangle on this for a little bit, Andrew.

04:44:49.260 I'll take the rants.

04:44:50.700 So a couple questions here.

04:44:53.500 Do you think all women are 10s? 0.98

04:44:56.660 Not every woman.

04:44:58.440 But yeah, I think that a majority of people here today are 10s.

04:45:01.640 The majority of women here are 10s. 1.00

04:45:03.740 Yes.

04:45:04.140 Why don't you guys just get into the table so you don't have to...

04:45:06.080 Yes.

04:45:06.480 Sorry.

04:45:06.880 I'm trying.

04:45:07.940 All right.

04:45:08.520 Sorry.

04:45:08.760 So what about just women in general? 0.95

04:45:13.680 I feel like everyone has beauty to them.

04:45:15.880 Everyone has something beautiful about them that no one else can really have.

04:45:19.100 So do you think, since you're saying all the women here are 10s, you're just, in terms

04:45:22.520 of looks, you're not better looking than any of the women here? 0.95

04:45:25.500 Everyone here is just equal in looks.

04:45:27.740 I didn't say equal, but they all have something that I would say that's more, in my opinion,

04:45:31.920 more beautiful than the other.

04:45:33.100 They look different, but in terms of their Burmese, think for the gifted 20, in terms 0.98

04:45:39.100 of their...

04:45:39.900 No one's equal.

04:45:40.680 They all have different new features.

04:45:42.240 Yeah.

04:45:42.260 Some people have blue eyes.

04:45:43.220 Some people have blonde hair.

04:45:44.280 We get that.

04:45:45.400 But there could be a blonde who's a 10, a brunette who's a 10, and a blonde who's a 7, and a brunette 1.00

04:45:51.480 who's a 7.

04:45:53.640 Okay.

04:45:54.120 Even in that 7, even the one that's a 7.

04:45:55.560 So everyone here is just comparable in terms of their physical attractiveness.

04:45:58.900 Yeah.

04:45:59.100 I would say it's in the high and even sense.

04:46:01.560 Like, everyone here has that, have a very beautiful thing about them.

04:46:04.900 Everyone's in the what?

04:46:06.160 They have somebody, everybody, a majority of people here have very beautiful physical features.

04:46:11.160 Okay.

04:46:11.860 Are you the most attractive girl here?

04:46:13.500 No.

04:46:13.800 Or just everybody's just equal?

04:46:15.460 It's not equal.

04:46:16.360 It's just everyone has different...

04:46:17.400 Their own unique features.

04:46:18.540 Yeah.

04:46:18.780 I know they're unique, but like...

04:46:20.140 And I wouldn't say that that could equate to that.

04:46:22.320 Like, there's no equality towards beauty.

04:46:25.360 And she's not saying, like, oh, I'm more beautiful than everyone else here.

04:46:28.640 She's saying that everyone has their own beauty.

04:46:31.160 Okay.

04:46:31.360 And I have my own beauty.

04:46:32.720 Like, there's different...

04:46:33.080 So you kind of reject this, the hierarchy of appearance then?

04:46:37.740 Yeah.

04:46:38.240 I don't know.

04:46:38.540 Okay.

04:46:39.200 Would you...

04:46:40.140 Do you guys have a height preference?

04:46:42.940 Wait.

04:46:43.420 Are you...

04:46:43.680 Am I going on a date with somebody here?

04:46:46.300 No.

04:46:46.540 Just answer the question.

04:46:47.460 Do you have a height preference?

04:46:49.240 How tall are you?

04:46:50.220 No.

04:46:50.860 I don't have a height preference.

04:46:51.520 You don't care?

04:46:51.940 How tall are you?

04:46:52.620 I'm 5'6".

04:46:53.520 And I'm assuming you're 5'6", too.

04:46:54.960 No.

04:46:55.280 She's 5'5 and a half. 1.00

04:46:56.120 5'5 and a half.

04:46:57.180 She's an inch tall.

04:46:57.740 But...

04:46:58.260 Okay.

04:46:58.640 So you're 5'6.

04:47:01.060 Do you have a height preference when it comes to men?

04:47:03.640 Yeah.

04:47:04.500 I prefer tall men.

04:47:07.520 Taller men.

04:47:08.820 Okay.

04:47:09.640 So what are we talking here?

04:47:11.860 What's the minimum?

04:47:12.400 6'1.

04:47:14.500 6'1.

04:47:15.180 Okay.

04:47:15.420 So that's about the...

04:47:17.660 I believe that's the...

04:47:19.620 They have to be in the 10th percentile.

04:47:21.120 That's the top 10% of height to be 6'1.

04:47:28.440 You've not had a relationship.

04:47:29.880 Is that correct?

04:47:31.040 Yeah.

04:47:31.680 Okay.

04:47:32.140 Of the men that you've dated, even short term, what was the last guy you dated?

04:47:35.520 How tall was he?

04:47:36.900 6'2".

04:47:37.740 What about the guy before that?

04:47:39.740 5'8".

04:47:40.460 What about the guy before that?

04:47:41.460 None.

04:47:42.380 Just the two guys.

04:47:43.860 Okay.

04:47:44.100 So 6'2", 5'8".

04:47:45.000 All right.

04:47:46.820 And then what about you?

04:47:47.960 Last guy you dated?

04:47:48.700 Yeah, I would say he was 6'3".

04:47:52.140 6'3".

04:47:52.980 Okay.

04:47:53.360 So it's...

04:47:54.440 Interestingly enough, even though...

04:47:56.680 So you guys do care about height then?

04:47:59.240 Not necessarily, but if it comes with it, then hey, I'm not...

04:48:02.520 Would you date a guy who's shorter than you?

04:48:05.580 I don't know.

04:48:06.640 It just depends on who he is, his character.

04:48:08.520 Yeah.

04:48:08.540 I don't really know.

04:48:09.240 It depends on character as well.

04:48:11.020 Yeah.

04:48:11.260 Would he have to make up for it?

04:48:13.720 No.

04:48:14.080 The thing is, I wouldn't really...

04:48:16.240 Height is not a big thing to me.

04:48:17.940 It's more like...

04:48:18.520 I don't care at all.

04:48:18.940 If I'm...

04:48:19.160 If the energy, the vibe, and everything that's morally standing...

04:48:21.260 Sure.

04:48:21.480 Let's assume the energy is...

04:48:22.920 The vibe is good.

04:48:23.200 Everything's perfect, then yeah.

04:48:24.380 If everything's going well...

04:48:25.460 No, not perfect.

04:48:26.260 Not perfect.

04:48:27.440 It's just good.

04:48:28.100 It's just good.

04:48:28.260 It's aligning.

04:48:28.860 It's just good.

04:48:30.480 If you're aligning with me, then yeah, I wouldn't mind.

04:48:32.680 Yeah.

04:48:32.900 Maybe you would date a 5'5 billionaire who's got a huge pee-pee and his face is perfect

04:48:38.420 and he's the sweetest guy ever.

04:48:41.360 Maybe you'll accept dating a short guy then, but I'm just saying, would you date a normal

04:48:45.700 guy who's 5'5"?

04:48:46.880 Yeah.

04:48:47.380 If we're aligned mentally, physically, we like to do the same things, virtually, I'm just

04:48:52.200 being aligned.

04:48:52.460 But conveniently...

04:48:53.840 Based off physicality, no.

04:48:55.620 If that's solely based off physicality, but that's just...

04:48:58.700 That's not even something I would do.

04:48:59.920 Right.

04:49:00.100 But then you don't have a high preference, though.

04:49:02.060 No.

04:49:02.220 I thought...

04:49:02.560 Didn't you just say you do, though?

04:49:03.960 You asked.

04:49:04.340 I said that I would, after experiencing a taller guy, yeah, it's just nicer.

04:49:09.320 So you do have a preference.

04:49:10.340 It's a little bit more submissive in that way.

04:49:11.820 It's more submissive.

04:49:12.820 For me.

04:49:13.360 Okay.

04:49:13.720 So you are rank ordering men based on their physical appearance.

04:49:17.080 No.

04:49:17.680 Yes.

04:49:17.860 Because I did...

04:49:18.400 I was with somebody that was basically the same height as me.

04:49:20.860 5'8"?

04:49:21.080 5'8"?

04:49:21.900 Yeah.

04:49:22.300 That's one inch off of the average male height.

04:49:24.120 But my hair...

04:49:25.520 What does that have to do with anything?

04:49:26.860 I'm 5'8".

04:49:27.580 With this hair, I'm up here.

04:49:28.940 We're the same height.

04:49:30.060 All right.

04:49:30.620 And then what about...

04:49:31.860 Are there any other physical...

04:49:34.000 Like, you'd date an obese guy?

04:49:35.920 No.

04:49:36.720 No?

04:49:36.900 Yeah, I would not date an obese guy.

04:49:38.580 Because of how it looks?

04:49:39.660 No.

04:49:40.200 Because it's just like...

04:49:41.640 There's just...

04:49:42.120 It's kind of haram in my religion to be obese.

04:49:44.420 Because it's like you have to love life.

04:49:45.980 Take care of your body.

04:49:46.820 Love life.

04:49:47.120 Take care of your body.

04:49:47.960 Take care of yourself.

04:49:48.480 If you're not taking care of yourself...

04:49:50.140 If you're naturally just a chubby person, that's fine.

04:49:52.820 But if you're obese, that's another thing.

04:49:56.220 That's another thing.

04:49:57.440 Okay.

04:49:57.640 Have you ever known a girl who...

04:50:00.640 You've maybe heard of this phenomenon of, like, a good-looking girl who's dating, like,

04:50:05.700 a guy who's kind of mid? 0.95

04:50:07.020 Yeah, an ugly guy. 0.96

04:50:07.840 Yeah, that's fine. 1.00

04:50:07.960 Yeah, that's fine.

04:50:09.200 So why are you able to make a determination as to a guy's physical appearance, but you

04:50:13.940 can't make a determination as to women's physical appearance? 1.00

04:50:16.080 Because I see women differently than I see men.

04:50:17.700 How do you see women differently than you see men?

04:50:19.600 I don't look at women's physicality and men's physicality. 0.74

04:50:22.400 So you objectify men, but you don't objectify men. 1.00

04:50:24.160 I never objectify to men.

04:50:25.460 Isn't that exactly what you're doing?

04:50:26.800 What am I doing?

04:50:27.800 You're objectifying them based on their appearance.

04:50:29.880 I never said...

04:50:29.900 What did I say that was objectifying the man off his appearance?

04:50:33.220 You said, I don't treat women X way, but I do treat men this way. 0.97

04:50:38.040 I don't view women how she views men.

04:50:40.340 When she looks at a woman, she notices her beauty. 0.68

04:50:42.840 Okay, then disregard the objectify comment.

04:50:44.900 How are you able to make determinations as to physical appearance when it comes to men,

04:50:48.860 but not women? 0.99

04:50:49.820 Because I see women differently. 0.95

04:50:51.380 How do you see them differently?

04:50:52.120 I don't see this...

04:50:53.000 I don't see her as someone I'm going to marry.

04:50:55.260 Like, what do you mean?

04:50:56.280 I'm not listening.

04:50:56.720 So even if people are your own sex, you can't make any determinations as to somebody who's

04:51:00.540 like, maybe you can't precisely...

04:51:02.000 It's just not as serious to me when it comes to a woman.

04:51:04.540 I just appreciate her beauty.

04:51:05.940 I'm not going to sit here and really examine her because she's not someone I'm going to

04:51:09.680 have kids with.

04:51:10.320 So if you were a talent agent for a modeling agency and knowing that modeling, you know,

04:51:16.020 typically, not always, but typically tends to prefer to have people who are physically

04:51:21.840 attractive and good looking, you would just be incapable...

04:51:24.140 I've seen a lot of...

04:51:24.720 Let me finish.

04:51:25.680 You would just be incapable of making any determinations as to women's physical appearance.

04:51:30.440 I actually disagree with you.

04:51:31.900 Modeling agencies do not...

04:51:32.260 What do you disagree?

04:51:33.260 Modeling agencies look for different people that look different.

04:51:37.760 You don't have to be physically attractive.

04:51:39.420 If you look different, they want you.

04:51:41.460 You don't have to be beautiful.

04:51:42.500 You could look so crazy to other people and everyone could bully you and say that you're 0.98

04:51:45.880 ugly as hell your whole time, but you got signed. 1.00

04:51:48.120 It's 2005 and it's fucking... 1.00

04:51:50.380 You got signed. 0.99

04:51:50.740 You work for Abercrombie and Fitch or whatever the fuck that company was. 1.00

04:51:53.160 They're racist. 0.99

04:51:53.800 I don't even...

04:51:54.360 Who cares?

04:51:55.820 You work for that company. 0.99

04:51:57.260 It's 2005 before all this woke bullshit about like putting obese models out there. 0.98

04:52:02.780 So, okay. 0.96

04:52:03.580 So you're the talent scout for this company and your job is to find attractive people

04:52:09.420 You would be unable, incapable of making determinations as to a woman's physical appearance. 0.98

04:52:14.880 No, I am.

04:52:14.940 I am.

04:52:15.460 I am.

04:52:16.020 Okay.

04:52:16.680 So then how is it that you view men and women differently in this regard?

04:52:20.660 I'm just saying that like with a woman's beauty, it's just more... 1.00

04:52:26.380 It's just different.

04:52:26.940 Women have more beauty in this life than a man. 1.00

04:52:29.080 Like there's more attractive women than attractive men in my personal opinion. 0.96

04:52:32.860 Like that's what I believe.

04:52:33.980 It's like the body, it's the face, it's the features.

04:52:35.760 There's more to notice about a woman and check mark versus a man. 1.00

04:52:40.220 It's like a woman has way more detail. 0.94

04:52:42.000 It has a lot to do with it because her body, her physicality is completely different than

04:52:46.320 a man's physicality.

04:52:48.300 Yeah.

04:52:48.600 What do you mean?

04:52:49.360 What's not making sense?

04:52:50.380 He doesn't have to be fit.

04:52:50.660 He doesn't have to be fit to have a beautiful girl.

04:52:51.960 Okay.

04:52:52.260 So just to be clear, all women should view themselves as tens, but not all men should 0.81

04:52:55.640 view themselves as tens.

04:52:56.520 I didn't say that.

04:52:57.240 Men and women should see themselves for what they truly believe.

04:53:01.360 Should a guy who is mid think he's a 10? 1.00

04:53:03.820 Guys who are mid do think they're 10s. 0.74

04:53:05.520 No, no, no.

04:53:05.880 That's not the question.

04:53:07.400 Should they think they're 10?

04:53:08.860 They already do.

04:53:09.740 It doesn't make a difference what I say.

04:53:11.620 No, they don't.

04:53:12.440 They do.

04:53:13.120 Wait, do you guys agree?

04:53:13.740 They don't.

04:53:14.020 Is this just a one thing?

04:53:16.000 Is this just us?

04:53:16.940 No, no, no.

04:53:17.620 It's not a one thing.

04:53:18.280 Hold on.

04:53:18.500 I do have one quick follow-up question before we move on.

04:53:21.540 And this is specifically to you, Italian.

04:53:23.880 Just a very simple question.

04:53:25.540 Can you put, can you get very close to the mic so I can actually hear your answer?

04:53:29.440 Okay.

04:53:30.320 How would you feel if you didn't eat breakfast this morning?

04:53:34.220 Sassy.

04:53:35.820 Okay.

04:53:36.540 And then over to your twin.

04:53:37.660 How would you feel if you didn't eat breakfast this morning?

04:53:40.320 I would say just weak.

04:53:43.200 Like, ugh.

04:53:44.840 Like Aggie.

04:53:46.120 Ugh.

04:53:46.440 Okay.

04:53:47.420 The voice is done.

04:53:48.640 You did.

04:53:49.060 I didn't know.

04:53:50.020 It's also fair.

04:53:53.140 So, where did I?

04:53:55.480 What kind of question was that?

04:53:56.140 Where did I?

04:53:57.120 Oh, okay.

04:53:57.840 So. 0.99

04:53:58.220 It's a dumbass meme. 0.99

04:53:59.760 It's just fun to do every once in a while for no particularly good reason. 0.98

04:54:02.740 There are people who have trouble engaging in hypotheticals.

04:54:06.160 This meme, which by the way, means nothing.

04:54:08.100 There's no scientific backing.

04:54:09.920 Total meme.

04:54:11.280 But it is interesting.

04:54:13.060 Many times when I engage with people who can't engage in hypotheticals, if I ask them, how would you feel if you hadn't eaten breakfast this morning?

04:54:20.500 What they end up saying is, but I did eat breakfast this morning.

04:54:24.200 Which is, that's what the meme claims they would say.

04:54:28.660 No, you didn't say that.

04:54:29.760 Oh.

04:54:30.200 So, wait.

04:54:30.520 So, by a pass, though.

04:54:31.320 That means I'm not delusional?

04:54:33.260 Yes.

04:54:33.760 Oh, great.

04:54:33.940 Well, no, no, no.

04:54:34.540 It means you can engage in a hypothetical.

04:54:35.220 Thank you.

04:54:35.240 No, you just said it.

04:54:35.920 You just said it.

04:54:36.500 I didn't hear you more.

04:54:37.360 You said it.

04:54:37.960 You said it today. 0.99

04:54:38.680 It means you can engage in a hypothetical, but you're still fucking delusional. 0.98

04:54:43.420 I mean, this whole take is completely delusional. 0.98

04:54:45.960 It makes no sense whatsoever.

04:54:47.160 So, you guys, we were talking about mid-dudes, mid-dudes thinking they're 10s.

04:54:55.520 I feel like everyone would agree with that.

04:54:57.220 Would anyone like to chime in?

04:54:58.280 Does anyone want to chime in?

04:54:59.220 Yeah, so, but, so you, you think that that's wrong, right?

04:55:03.480 You don't think that's wrong?

04:55:04.820 I don't know.

04:55:05.680 You don't think it's wrong?

04:55:06.420 What's wrong if a mid-guy thinks he's a 10?

04:55:08.620 I don't think that's wrong.

04:55:09.580 Like, what's wrong with that?

04:55:10.520 Do you think it would indicate perhaps a lack of modesty or self-awareness?

04:55:18.480 He probably thinks he's a 10, not because based off of his looks.

04:55:21.560 Okay, but it's about looks.

04:55:22.640 He's probably like, oh, I'm a 10 because I got money.

04:55:24.420 Okay, it's about looks.

04:55:27.020 I don't know.

04:55:27.320 If a guy who's mid physically and he was like, my looks, I'm a 10 out of 10 looks.

04:55:33.700 He just has confidence.

04:55:34.520 I feel like that's just confidence.

04:55:35.720 How is it confidence?

04:55:36.620 Okay, let's say he has abs.

04:55:38.260 Let's say he has, he's six foot, but let's say he has a really big nose.

04:55:42.520 Why should he think that that really big nose is ugly? 0.84

04:55:45.880 Hey.

04:55:46.420 Why should he think that that makes sense?

04:55:47.860 Hey, that's mean.

04:55:49.220 How?

04:55:49.560 No, I'm literally saying like people get nose surgery because they don't like their nose.

04:55:53.520 So I'm trying to use something that's insecure point in the face, which is the nose and the lips.

04:55:57.500 So I'm trying to use this point by saying, why should he feel like his nose is ugly because the community or society will say big noses are ugly?

04:56:06.000 So it's all about mindset.

04:56:08.000 I'll answer your question.

04:56:09.340 I think it's a fair question.

04:56:11.020 I think it's because beauty standards are derived from your locality and from other people.

04:56:16.880 Your perspective on beauty.

04:56:18.720 So here, I'll explain.

04:56:21.200 Assume for a second that you grew up in a leper colony and everybody had leprosy. 1.00

04:56:26.260 If everybody had leprosy and you had nothing else to compare it to, you might consider some lepers to be beautiful. 1.00

04:56:34.340 But let's assume for a second instead that you grew up in a place where there was no lepers and suddenly you saw one for the first time. 1.00

04:56:41.860 Go ahead and lie to me and tell me that you wouldn't go, holy fuck, what the, oh God, that's ah. 0.99

04:56:47.860 Because that would be your reaction. 1.00

04:56:49.760 Why would you think it's ugly?

04:56:50.540 Why would you be like, oh wow, that's so interesting.

04:56:52.200 Like, I've never seen that before.

04:56:54.040 Intriguing.

04:56:54.800 It's all about perception of what you think of difference.

04:56:56.940 For the same reason I'm not delusional enough to believe that you for a second would go, oh, half your face was melted off and your tongue is hanging out this side and I can see your entire jaw and your eye also has been plucked out and you look like the dude from Hellraiser except missing half your face.

04:57:15.640 I think that you're a 10.

04:57:17.460 Come on.

04:57:18.380 Really?

04:57:19.040 She didn't say that.

04:57:19.640 I didn't say that.

04:57:20.360 But that's why people would say, no, you don't adhere to the beauty standard. 1.00

04:57:27.340 That's why they would do that.

04:57:28.540 Okay.

04:57:29.100 Well, that's them.

04:57:29.920 Like, that's nothing to do with it.

04:57:30.600 Yeah.

04:57:31.320 So.

04:57:31.920 So people might think the guy with the big nose is mid because he has a big nose.

04:57:35.740 All right.

04:57:35.860 That's all based off society, like what you just said.

04:57:38.040 It's just perception.

04:57:39.280 So going around the table, do you think you're going to be more physically attractive, better looking in 10 years' time as compared to now?

04:57:47.420 No.

04:57:47.740 No.

04:57:49.720 Definitely.

04:57:51.320 What about 20 years' time?

04:57:53.540 Of course.

04:57:54.600 So you're 20 now.

04:57:55.720 I'm 20.

04:57:56.220 So yes to 30, yes to 40.

04:57:57.960 Yes.

04:57:58.400 50.

04:57:59.580 30 years' time.

04:58:00.580 J-Lo.

04:58:01.000 50, yes.

04:58:02.480 I stop at 70 because I've seen what my family looks like if they make it to 70.

04:58:07.960 So you'll be more physically attractive at 40 than you are now at 20.

04:58:12.900 At 30, I believe I will.

04:58:14.600 But I didn't say I would be more physically attractive at 40.

04:58:17.580 I said I would still think I'm a 10.

04:58:22.240 Okay.

04:58:22.900 So fine.

04:58:23.800 You can still think you'll be a 10 at 40.

04:58:26.300 But comparatively speaking, do you think you will be more physically attractive at 30 than you are now at 20?

04:58:33.040 Yes.

04:58:35.400 Okay.

04:58:35.760 40 versus 20?

04:58:37.480 40, no.

04:58:38.920 I think 30 would be the greatest one.

04:58:43.440 I feel like I would like my looks most at 30.

04:58:47.300 I feel like my brain and my body would be fully developed and I would like that one.

04:58:53.040 Okay.

04:58:53.500 So but not at 40 then?

04:58:55.740 I think I would still be beautiful.

04:58:57.200 Not more beautiful.

04:58:58.800 Okay.

04:58:59.180 Yeah.

04:58:59.440 What about you?

04:59:00.600 Will you be more physically attractive in 10 years than you are now?

04:59:04.240 I would hope so.

04:59:05.660 But well, you're 40 now.

04:59:07.000 So will you be more physically attractive at 50?

04:59:08.940 I'm definitely a lot more attractive than when I was in my 30s.

04:59:12.120 So you okay, that's another question.

04:59:14.760 Are you more attractive now at 40 than you were at 30?

04:59:17.880 I feel like, yeah, because with all the surgeries that I had going on, I didn't really work.

04:59:24.020 I worked out on and off, but my face has stayed the same.

04:59:27.400 I think the body has fluctuated up and down.

04:59:29.360 But I love my face and like I'm seasoned more so now than I was.

04:59:35.860 Do you think you're more physically attractive now than you were at 20?

04:59:40.300 No, I like my body a lot more at 20s.

04:59:42.980 Okay.

04:59:43.920 All right.

04:59:45.040 And you said in 10 years, yes, to 50.

04:59:47.540 I would hope so.

04:59:47.960 What about 60?

04:59:49.560 I mean, realistically, no, but I have fear of getting old.

04:59:52.480 So I'm like, I keep thinking in my head, I'm still 27.

04:59:57.760 And also just going back to you, you're 36.

04:59:59.700 Do you think you're better looking at 26 than you are now at 36?

05:00:03.720 I feel like I had a very tacky style.

05:00:06.640 I was so no, but if I had different...

05:00:10.060 Well, the style would have been like time appropriate 10 years ago.

05:00:13.160 Right.

05:00:13.440 I mean, so I don't think anybody, just because of skin quality, I'm big on skin quality.

05:00:20.540 Unfortunately, I don't think skin quality gets better with age.

05:00:23.220 So I think the reality is, is after 30, things just start changing for the worse.

05:00:28.660 Don't.

05:00:31.660 Oh, sorry.

05:00:32.580 Go ahead.

05:00:33.100 I'm sorry, Brian.

05:00:33.720 I did want to interject just briefly because usually there's a follow-up we have at the

05:00:38.340 ratings.

05:00:40.520 After we get all of your answers, this type of thing, I was wondering for the two 10 twins

05:00:48.000 in the back and for the rest of the women on the panel, of course, if you were to have 0.96

05:00:53.220 the same question directed at you, 1,000 men are rating the girl next to you, what do you

05:00:59.380 think that they would rate them?

05:01:01.240 A 10?

05:01:01.700 A 10.

05:01:03.220 Oh, he's saying it's a follow-up.

05:01:05.580 Yeah, I think she's a beautiful woman. 1.00

05:01:07.560 Can you guys just very quickly raise your hands if it's a 10?

05:01:11.520 If you think 1,000 men who were rating the girl next to you, do you think that they would

05:01:16.080 say it's a 10?

05:01:16.780 Just raise your hand so I know.

05:01:18.620 Wait, what if it's a 9?

05:01:19.500 Can it be an average?

05:01:20.840 A high score?

05:01:21.360 Yeah, 9 or a 10.

05:01:22.200 A high score.

05:01:22.860 9 or a 10.

05:01:23.780 Either one's fine.

05:01:24.740 8 to 10.

05:01:25.580 Yeah, a high score.

05:01:26.020 If it's 8 to 10.

05:01:27.120 Okay, you know what?

05:01:27.980 Even 8 to 10 is fine.

05:01:29.140 Just raise your hand if it's an 8 for 10.

05:01:32.080 8 out of 10 that they would rate the woman next to you.

05:01:36.580 I would rate that.

05:01:37.340 Yeah, okay.

05:01:39.800 Will you be better looking in 10 years than you are now?

05:01:42.280 I think that my prime would probably be my 30s, but over that, like 40s and stuff, I really

05:01:47.720 Well, you're 24, so will you be, do you think you'll be better looking at 34 than you

05:01:52.240 are now?

05:01:52.860 Yeah, I do think that.

05:01:54.320 What about 44?

05:01:56.020 Um, I would only hope so, but I don't, I don't know.

05:01:58.140 I really don't know.

05:01:59.220 You don't know?

05:01:59.840 No.

05:02:00.140 I don't think so.

05:02:00.860 I don't know.

05:02:01.320 Okay, so for you?

05:02:02.380 I'm saying no.

05:02:03.080 I don't think so.

05:02:03.880 I think youth is more beautiful.

05:02:05.760 Yeah.

05:02:06.440 Wait.

05:02:06.820 Well, I just think youth in general is more beautiful, like the younger you are.

05:02:09.140 Okay, so you're better looking now at 24 than you will be at 34.

05:02:13.000 I'm also about skin, like she said.

05:02:14.540 Okay.

05:02:15.180 And then for you, better looking at 29 versus now at 19?

05:02:19.240 No.

05:02:20.240 No?

05:02:20.620 Okay.

05:02:20.900 No.

05:02:21.420 And then for you, better looking at 32 as compared to now at 22?

05:02:24.660 Uh, better looking now.

05:02:25.640 Okay.

05:02:26.260 What about you?

05:02:27.140 Better looking at 37 versus 27?

05:02:29.500 Better looking now.

05:02:31.000 Liz, better looking at 35 versus 25?

05:02:33.340 Better looking now.

05:02:34.740 Okay.

05:02:35.440 All right.

05:02:35.900 So a couple of you said yes, better looking in 10 years.

05:02:40.900 Uh, I thought that was an interesting one.

05:02:45.680 A little, a little, uh, out there, but.

05:02:48.800 I did have a brief question.

05:02:50.900 Uh, I was just wondering to the gal who has Italia on the shirt. 1.00

05:02:56.080 Uh, can you just tell me your favorite song?

05:02:58.000 I don't, I don't have one.

05:03:00.640 Uh, if you, if you had to pick one.

05:03:05.020 I don't know if you put it on the spot.

05:03:06.660 I don't know.

05:03:07.160 Yeah.

05:03:07.380 Well, how about your top two?

05:03:10.460 What?

05:03:11.600 Top two?

05:03:11.780 Just name a song you really like.

05:03:13.660 Oh, um, I really, I feel, I can't think.

05:03:17.640 Just any song you really like.

05:03:19.300 Spanish song.

05:03:19.880 Um, I do like Spanish music.

05:03:21.460 I like Bala de la Sol by Peso Pluma.

05:03:24.900 That's my side band, you know.

05:03:26.200 And what about your twin?

05:03:28.520 Um, I think her favorite song would probably, I don't know.

05:03:33.040 Um, it's an Arabic song.

05:03:35.260 What is it?

05:03:35.900 Oh, what is it?

05:03:36.500 I don't know.

05:03:37.140 I don't know the name.

05:03:38.280 I just know the song on SoundCloud.

05:03:40.100 Oh.

05:03:40.780 Isn't listening to music Haram?

05:03:43.480 Like, I just, um, not in the, like, yeah, music is.

05:03:47.540 Haram.

05:03:48.160 Yes, music is Haram.

05:03:48.820 Isn't listening to music Haram?

05:03:50.860 Music is Haram, but there's no choice but to hear music.

05:03:53.400 Ah, there's no choice, really.

05:03:55.560 Everywhere you go.

05:03:55.660 When you're out on the street, there is music being played.

05:03:59.520 Everywhere you go, there's music.

05:04:01.140 There's no escaping that.

05:04:02.580 When it comes to Haram and Halal in this modern day and age, because we're not living in the 1.00

05:04:06.460 18th century, um, it's, if someone listens to more music than they do holy verses, then

05:04:11.820 that would be considered Haram.

05:04:13.120 Yeah.

05:04:14.080 It's not the same.

05:04:14.980 Oh, I see.

05:04:15.640 It's not the same.

05:04:15.960 We have iPhones.

05:04:16.340 So you, so I just want to, I just want to make sure you guys, you guys would never lie

05:04:20.740 to me, right?

05:04:21.900 You don't listen to music, right?

05:04:25.880 I don't care who judges me.

05:04:26.840 I don't have to be perfect.

05:04:27.840 Islam isn't about, I have to be a perfect person.

05:04:30.780 No, I just have to be the best I can.

05:04:32.220 I just want to make sure I'm correct.

05:04:33.320 You're not doing Haram and listening to music, right?

05:04:37.000 I wouldn't say so because I would say I would have an equal amount of, like, I listen to.

05:04:40.920 But I do say music is not, like, the best of things.

05:04:44.480 But I would say, I would, honestly, I can't say that because I would just say, like, I

05:04:48.920 personally have, I do listen to music.

05:04:51.060 Who doesn't listen to music?

05:04:52.640 But I don't listen to it frequently.

05:04:54.340 I don't listen to it frequently.

05:04:55.320 Every day we would play a verse of the Quran.

05:04:56.980 Every day that's being played.

05:04:57.980 Music?

05:04:58.300 When I go out, I'll listen to music.

05:05:00.520 I don't listen to music when I'm at home.

05:05:01.780 You bump it in your apartment?

05:05:02.900 Come on.

05:05:03.300 Do you bump it?

05:05:04.520 No, but when I go outside, I do listen to music in the car.

05:05:07.060 Like, I do listen to music.

05:05:08.020 But in my tradition, how I was raised, I never listen to music in the home.

05:05:11.200 So I don't practice that.

05:05:12.480 In the home, yeah.

05:05:12.720 In the home, it's like a sanctuary piece.

05:05:13.660 I got to move it on from this.

05:05:15.380 All right, all right.

05:05:15.800 I was just wondering.

05:05:16.880 I want to move on.

05:05:17.380 But music is Haram, right? 0.76

05:05:19.000 I just want to make sure that's clear.

05:05:21.180 It is Haram?

05:05:22.300 It's so annoying.

05:05:24.500 Oh, am I?

05:05:25.880 Yes.

05:05:26.200 Is it awful that you have to confront your own cognitive business?

05:05:30.060 I'm totally fine with saying that.

05:05:31.720 No, I wouldn't say so.

05:05:32.680 Not in this modern day and age.

05:05:33.900 Yes, I would say it is Haram, but to a degree. 0.99

05:05:36.360 It depends on how much you listen to it.

05:05:36.820 And she would say, is Haram?

05:05:38.560 Can you guys even agree on if it's Haram or not?

05:05:40.980 I would say to a degree.

05:05:42.360 It's Haram. 0.58

05:05:43.180 To a degree.

05:05:44.020 I think I overall said that her first answer was what I agree with.

05:05:48.280 I feel like I get to hear a yes or no from you two.

05:05:51.820 Because the questions aren't based off of me.

05:05:53.720 Well, that's an impossibility, seemingly.

05:05:56.660 So they have to get us.

05:05:57.480 You can't just say yes or no.

05:05:59.180 Okay.

05:05:59.460 So to kind of wrap it up here on the whole rating yourself thing.

05:06:03.080 So I actually think it's more important for women to have an accurate self-assessment 0.96

05:06:07.320 of their own physical attractiveness as compared to men.

05:06:10.740 Something we talk about almost every single show.

05:06:13.880 And here's the reason why.

05:06:15.500 So if I'm a man and I'm delusional and I think I'm a 10 and I step to a girl who's a 10,

05:06:21.320 I'm getting rejected every single time.

05:06:24.700 If I step to a girl, like the way men get rejected is up front immediately.

05:06:29.000 I can't, like if I step to a girl who's frankly out of my league, I'm cut off of everything. 0.99

05:06:34.160 I can't get anything from her.

05:06:35.920 I can't get a date.

05:06:37.020 I can't get a conversation. 0.82

05:06:38.100 I certainly can't get casual sex.

05:06:41.200 Now with bringing up casual sex, I think you might know where I'm about to lead to. 0.98

05:06:45.380 You as women can secure casual sex from men who are outside of your league, whether that's 0.82

05:06:51.160 status, whether that's looks, whether that's personality. 0.98

05:06:54.720 You guys can sleep with men who are outside of your league.

05:06:57.880 They'll never give you commitment.

05:06:59.180 And that's precisely why it's more important for women to be based in reality when it comes 1.00

05:07:04.560 to their looks than men.

05:07:06.140 Although it ultimately doesn't matter because even if a man is delusional, he's just going

05:07:11.060 to get curved and rejected by girls who are out of his league.

05:07:15.240 So what ends up happening is you think your league is the men you sleep with.

05:07:21.360 That's actually not true.

05:07:22.760 Your league as women is the men that you can get commitment from and that you can get a ring 1.00

05:07:27.440 from.

05:07:27.760 That's your league. 1.00

05:07:30.100 So an average 19 year old chick who's just good looking can fuck a famous rapper, an athlete. 1.00

05:07:38.460 Doesn't mean you can get commitment. 0.97

05:07:40.460 Doesn't mean you can get commitment.

05:07:42.940 The difference here is, is that as a man, if I can sleep with a girl, there's a very good 0.96

05:07:48.220 chance I can get her in a relationship. 0.70

05:07:50.500 I can't say the same thing about women. 1.00

05:07:52.500 Just because you can sleep with a guy doesn't mean you can get him into a relationship. 0.62

05:07:56.540 So that's why I think it's important to be like, hmm, am I fucking with a guy outside 0.82

05:08:03.540 my league? 0.82

05:08:04.220 If I think I'm a 10, because you'll think you're entitled to a relationship with a guy who's

05:08:09.740 out of your league.

05:08:10.360 But really, he's just using you, which I object to.

05:08:13.420 I don't think that's right.

05:08:14.300 But you got to move in the world how it is. 0.51

05:08:17.360 And the way it is, is you're going to have hyper attractive guys who just want sex from 0.96

05:08:21.380 you. 1.00

05:08:22.240 And if that's the current dating meta, and you think you're hot shit, you think you're a 0.99

05:08:27.940 10, you think you're a baddie, but you can't get commitment from all these dudes, could be 0.99

05:08:33.980 that you're shooting outside of your league.

05:08:37.000 And you're curving the dudes who are actually on your level, who'd be prepared to give you

05:08:41.100 commitment, who'd be loyal, who'd treat you well. 1.00

05:08:43.860 And that's why you end up hearing all these women complaining about all these fuck boys. 1.00

05:08:48.460 They just want to fuck. 1.00

05:08:49.260 They don't want commitment. 1.00

05:08:50.180 There's plenty of, there's probably dudes who'd be prepared to commit to you. 0.98

05:08:53.360 You just think you're just curving them because you think I'm fucking this guy who's this 0.97

05:08:58.000 attractive, this other guy over here wants to give me commitment, but I'm not attracted 0.99

05:09:02.200 to him because I can fuck this guy who's really attractive who won't give me commitment. 1.00

05:09:05.140 Don't ever bring no sewer rat Arabs on here again. 1.00

05:09:08.060 Oh, bro, I got to skip this. 0.99

05:09:11.260 Bro, come on.

05:09:12.560 Come on, Mike Davis.

05:09:14.620 You can't say that, bro.

05:09:16.280 Okay.

05:09:17.780 Thank you, Mike Davis.

05:09:18.620 Appreciate it, bro.

05:09:19.860 That was a good call there, Nick, too.

05:09:22.500 Might I extend to Mr. Davis, though, that I do appreciate the $200 dono and completely agree

05:09:30.460 with you, but I, you know, you can't play the super chat, TOS.

05:09:34.000 Okay.

05:09:35.140 Burmese Mountain Tiger, thank you for the gifted 20 subs.

05:09:39.220 Appreciate it, though.

05:09:40.300 I mean, Mike Davis, I appreciate your patronage.

05:09:42.060 Just, we got to be careful with TOS here, man.

05:09:46.060 Okay, cool.

05:09:46.860 So, where was I?

05:09:48.220 I think I pretty much made my point, but, yeah. 0.99

05:09:54.160 I guess just newsflash, really attractive fuckboys will sleep with average mid-girls, and 1.00

05:09:59.360 average mid-girls think, that's my league. 1.00

05:10:02.100 Think, I can get that guy, and they'll just keep falling from dick to dick to dick, thinking 0.99

05:10:07.540 they can get that guy in a relationship, but they can't. 0.99

05:10:10.360 And then the guys who are actually in their league, in their level, y'all just curving

05:10:14.640 these dudes who, like, are in your league, and who are prepared to commit to you, give

05:10:19.180 you, et cetera.

05:10:20.780 So, Burmese Mountain Tiger, thank you for the gifted 20 subs.

05:10:24.840 Appreciate it, bro.

05:10:25.900 Do you guys disagree?

05:10:26.900 I don't know.

05:10:27.340 Maybe.

05:10:27.840 So, you guys disagree?

05:10:28.760 No. 1.00

05:10:29.060 Women don't fuck dudes outside of their league. 1.00

05:10:31.400 Never happens. 0.99

05:10:32.440 No, women, no, average mid-girls don't have access to, like, famous rappers and musicians. 1.00

05:10:41.840 Like, famous, I'm telling you, famous women don't ever fuck with, like, I mean, it happens 1.00

05:10:47.640 rarely, but, like, they're usually dealing with, like, guys on their level. 0.93

05:10:53.000 But, like, who, what makes you feel so confident?

05:10:55.900 Like, who are you to say that to a woman?

05:10:57.760 Like, what do you mean?

05:10:58.600 You're going based off of physicality again and again.

05:11:00.720 No, what he's saying is facts. 0.99

05:11:02.000 Like, women can always get sex. 1.00

05:11:03.220 It doesn't matter.

05:11:03.860 Yeah, that's, yeah, that part is correct, but not the part that actually has to do with

05:11:08.060 physicality.

05:11:09.000 He's saying, oh, a handsome guy is not gonna get with a girl that's physically ugly.

05:11:14.720 I see so many rich, handsome men end up marrying a woman that's not even as physically

05:11:20.620 attractive to him.

05:11:21.320 And she's, like, not even at that level.

05:11:24.320 She's just, like, a cute, normal, regular girl.

05:11:27.040 So are you advocating that women should keep thatting outside of their league? 0.63

05:11:31.260 You're advertising that women should just stay in their place and not go for the man 1.00

05:11:34.400 that they want.

05:11:34.940 And then if you have someone that you want and they are a righteous man, they're a

05:11:38.360 righteous leader to you, go for it, no matter what he looks like.

05:11:41.560 Okay, so this is what happens.

05:11:42.560 This is what happens typically.

05:11:44.440 So you have, like, huge, huge swaths of women who, throughout their 20s, are chasing after 0.57

05:11:50.640 these hyper-attractive men. 0.99

05:11:52.640 They'll spend their 20s fucking attractive dudes, never getting commitment. 1.00

05:11:56.460 Because why are you fucking all these men? 1.00

05:11:58.140 That's why this is what you get. 1.00

05:11:59.140 Once they're 30, oh, okay, let me settle down.

05:12:02.120 And it makes for a terrible marriage because she thinks she's settling, but it's actually

05:12:07.140 a dude in her league. 1.00

05:12:08.860 She's gonna treat that guy like shit. 1.00

05:12:10.780 She's gonna resent him. 1.00

05:12:11.740 She wasn't able, it's her karma to ruin a dude's life because she couldn't get the 1.00

05:12:16.400 fucking hyper-successful dudes who she could fuck in her prime. 0.99

05:12:20.240 Who was the leader in the relationship? 1.00

05:12:21.440 What does that have to do with anything?

05:12:22.900 If he's choosing her, that's his karma.

05:12:25.540 That has nothing to do with anything.

05:12:26.500 Can you finish your thoughts?

05:12:27.360 I want to see where you're going with it.

05:12:29.220 Well, I sort of got cut off here, but I was basically just responding to her.

05:12:35.220 Like, that's what's happening.

05:12:36.880 Y'all, y'all, how is it false knowledge?

05:12:39.460 Because you're using, like, you're not even using, like, a statistical basis.

05:12:43.200 You're using your opinionated statements to say that women should only talk to these 0.99

05:12:47.300 certain men.

05:12:48.160 If you're gonna sleep around, then do this.

05:12:50.420 Like, you're gonna get, you're gonna use and abuse if you're gonna go for a hyper-attractive

05:12:54.520 male.

05:12:55.100 And I just think that's not a positive thing to say or a factual, evident thing to say

05:12:59.240 because there's no evidence basing those. 0.97

05:13:01.200 There's no evidence that fuckboys exist. 0.98

05:13:02.940 But that doesn't mean he's hyper-attractive. 0.98

05:13:04.160 Hold on, hold on. 0.99

05:13:05.040 Who wants a fuckboy? 1.00

05:13:05.900 It's all about energy. 0.99

05:13:06.980 It's all about everything. 1.00

05:13:07.760 All girls complain about fuckboys after they get fucked by them. 1.00

05:13:11.080 But he doesn't mean he's handsome. 1.00

05:13:12.540 There's some girls, like, she thinks, oh, he's hot. 0.98

05:13:14.840 And I'm like, that guy's so ugly. 0.97

05:13:16.880 Yeah, cool. 0.97

05:13:17.300 You have different...

05:13:17.880 We don't have the same hyper-attractive of what hyper-attractive male is.

05:13:21.540 Yes, sure.

05:13:22.360 People have differences.

05:13:23.720 But, like, there are some men that, like, vast swaths of women will tend to agree that

05:13:30.200 those men are really physically attractive.

05:13:33.360 In fact, you're saying this is just opinion.

05:13:35.840 Dating apps have released this data.

05:13:38.520 Women swipe on only, like, the top 10% of men on those dating apps. 0.92

05:13:43.600 So, these dating apps where women are basically essentially making assessments almost near exclusively 0.75

05:13:51.880 or purely just on looks.

05:13:54.520 And it seems to be the case that...

05:13:56.640 So, do you guys agree with me?

05:13:57.520 Hold on. 0.99

05:13:57.820 Let me shut up. 1.00

05:13:58.600 Shut the fuck up and let me finish my point. 1.00

05:14:00.400 God damn. 1.00

05:14:00.880 You keep fucking interrupting. 1.00

05:14:02.440 Holy shit, dude. 1.00

05:14:04.380 Okay. 0.96

05:14:04.820 So, how could it be the case then?

05:14:07.300 Hey, what's this side combo back there?

05:14:09.480 They're still whispering behind your back.

05:14:11.180 That's mean.

05:14:11.760 Yeah, in any case, you've been interrupting all night and it's just you got to let people

05:14:15.140 finish their point.

05:14:16.100 So, okay.

05:14:17.160 How could it be the case then that there's a cohort of men on dating apps that get almost

05:14:22.180 all of the attention on the dating apps and they're running through chicks? 1.00

05:14:26.260 This is just a whatever podcast.

05:14:28.000 Like, you're not saying anything.

05:14:29.280 Like, you're saying whatever.

05:14:30.840 Oh, here's whatever, whatever, whatever.

05:14:32.500 It's nothing good. 1.00

05:14:33.620 It's just all this bullshit. 1.00

05:14:34.640 It's hurting my brain. 1.00

05:14:35.500 It's just like, ugh.

05:14:36.220 Yeah, you're high vibrational brain that can't understand facts and logic.

05:14:39.860 You're not speaking high vibration.

05:14:41.000 You're speaking low vibration. 0.99

05:14:42.220 You're fucking low vibration. 0.99

05:14:44.180 I said what you're speaking is low vibration. 1.00

05:14:45.860 You just cursed at me.

05:14:46.800 I never even cursed at nobody up in here.

05:14:48.480 So, I just didn't like that.

05:14:48.740 No, there's more than one way to be rude to somebody and you're constant interrupting

05:14:52.340 and failing.

05:14:52.600 Wait, there was no curse.

05:14:54.200 It's like, it's like arguing to argue.

05:14:56.560 It's like, that's the thing that's getting frustrating.

05:14:58.040 I think we're all tired. 0.99

05:14:58.980 None of us have energy because you literally argue to just fucking argue. 0.99

05:15:02.520 Like, the answer is simple. 1.00

05:15:03.720 Yes or fucking no. 0.99

05:15:04.680 And then you want to argue. 0.99

05:15:05.580 And it's like getting tiring because I don't even have the energy to interject because I'm

05:15:08.880 fucking over it because like, he asks you literally a question and you're like, but 0.99

05:15:13.300 this is, it's like, oh my God, you are delusional. 1.00

05:15:16.140 For fuck's sake, just answer yes or no. 0.99

05:15:18.320 Let's keep it on topic and let's fucking have great conversations. 0.99

05:15:21.120 Yeah. 0.97

05:15:21.440 Because none of us want to get involved anymore.

05:15:22.940 Yeah, I agree, but I'm not arguing to argue.

05:15:25.800 You are.

05:15:26.480 You literally are.

05:15:27.100 I'm arguing my point of view.

05:15:28.520 Yeah, but here's the thing.

05:15:29.280 You don't let them finish.

05:15:30.600 You don't let them finish.

05:15:31.900 Everyone's been respectful.

05:15:32.740 You don't let them finish and you just want to like literally respond to respond.

05:15:35.280 It's like combative.

05:15:36.340 It's, I hate to say this, but something like our Middle Eastern women, our women are like 0.98

05:15:40.020 so combative that it's like, you have to prove your point.

05:15:42.080 You don't have to prove your point.

05:15:43.260 It's a conversation.

05:15:45.000 Listen to what he's saying. 0.99

05:15:46.360 Half of the time, Andrew's saying exactly what you're fucking saying, but you're not even listening 0.99

05:15:50.240 to him. 0.99

05:15:50.740 I am listening to him.

05:15:51.020 You're just like literally just, just talking to talk.

05:15:53.800 That's not true.

05:15:54.560 That's not true.

05:15:55.660 You're talking.

05:15:56.420 I'm still talking.

05:15:57.340 Because you keep going.

05:15:58.200 Learn to listen.

05:15:58.760 Like, no, I don't need to. 1.00

05:15:58.960 That's what the fuck you've been doing all night. 1.00

05:16:00.320 Just learn to listen for a second. 1.00

05:16:01.980 As a woman.

05:16:02.640 I learned. 0.99

05:16:03.120 It's nice to shut the fuck up sometimes and listen. 0.99

05:16:05.860 Well, you aren't even understanding what the hell going on. 0.99

05:16:07.720 God, literally, sometimes it's the power.

05:16:11.040 Huh?

05:16:12.120 No, it's okay.

05:16:12.680 I'm just not going to hear you talk about it.

05:16:13.880 No, that's fine.

05:16:15.040 It's exhausting.

05:16:16.080 My God.

05:16:17.280 You can do what you want.

05:16:18.380 That's why you're in the particular insurance. 1.00

05:16:19.960 Fuck, it's exhausting to listen to the same shit. 1.00

05:16:23.180 Well, he was calling on her multiple times. 1.00

05:16:26.160 You kept saying the girl with the Italia, whatever shirt.

05:16:29.260 He was trying to communicate with them.

05:16:32.700 Nobody else was speaking up.

05:16:33.920 That's our own fault.

05:16:35.080 It's because it's exhausting when it's like the same.

05:16:37.900 They want to argue.

05:16:38.740 I'm not going to leave anywhere.

05:16:39.680 Okay, then that's fine.

05:16:40.720 Then leave it alone.

05:16:40.800 I'm not even talking to you about that.

05:16:42.380 Then leave it alone.

05:16:42.940 Then just leave it alone.

05:16:43.400 Leave it alone.

05:16:43.960 Leave it alone.

05:16:44.360 What?

05:16:44.700 They can't have an actual conversation.

05:16:47.500 We haven't had a new conversation the whole night.

05:16:49.760 Let's start one right now.

05:16:51.020 We were trying to, but they want to run out.

05:16:54.220 So it's literally simple.

05:16:56.160 If you want to have a conversation, you listen.

05:16:57.880 You reciprocate.

05:16:58.560 If you understand each other's points, it's like just to say because you want to voice

05:17:02.640 out what you want to say.

05:17:03.460 It's like to want to be heard. 0.98

05:17:04.860 That's ridiculous. 1.00

05:17:06.140 No, fuck that. 1.00

05:17:10.900 Weren't those chicks your ride, bro? 1.00

05:17:12.900 No, first of all, I drove them here.

05:17:15.540 We sleep from Los Angeles, LA, Hollywood, California.

05:17:20.060 No, are they really leaving, though?

05:17:21.720 No, they can't leave.

05:17:24.640 Yeah, dude.

05:17:25.100 Where are they at?

05:17:25.740 They walked out, bro.

05:17:26.640 They walked out.

05:17:27.160 Burmese, thanks for the gifted 10 subs. 0.93

05:17:28.840 What?

05:17:29.140 They rage quit?

05:17:29.940 Yeah, it was a rage quit.

05:17:31.520 See, that's the thing. 1.00

05:17:32.540 Like, that's literally the childish shit. 1.00

05:17:34.240 If you're going to run your mouth all day and then somebody checks you, you're going to 1.00

05:17:36.860 run out. 1.00

05:17:37.260 That's bitch move. 1.00

05:17:38.040 Sit down and take it. 1.00

05:17:39.260 You want to keep talking and talking and talking. 0.98

05:17:40.960 Didn't they call Andrew dumb earlier? 0.97

05:17:42.440 Like, honestly, I've been falling asleep just listening to it because I'm like, my brain 0.96

05:17:46.140 hurts, though.

05:17:46.800 Are they really leaving, though?

05:17:46.920 You and I have contact.

05:17:47.900 No, don't even know.

05:17:48.280 God.

05:17:48.720 We're like, no.

05:17:50.440 You're good, bro.

05:17:51.060 Because I'm like, should I let go check on them?

05:17:53.040 No, you're the power.

05:17:54.100 You have all the leverage and all the power.

05:17:56.260 Yo, Burmese mountain tiger, thank you for the gifted 50 subs.

05:17:58.820 It's not about having power, though.

05:17:59.360 You got all the leverage.

05:18:00.240 I feel like I just got my energy back.

05:18:00.820 Oh, they're chilling, bro.

05:18:01.560 They went to go get the smoothie.

05:18:03.420 I literally feel like I just got my energy back.

05:18:05.800 Oh, I should blame you, right?

05:18:06.400 I know. 1.00

05:18:07.060 I'm like, fuck. 1.00

05:18:07.940 No, seriously. 1.00

05:18:08.660 Here's the thing.

05:18:09.340 Like, I'm all for debate.

05:18:10.100 Yo, Debbie's in the chat.

05:18:12.100 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry.

05:18:12.840 I didn't mean to interrupt you.

05:18:13.500 Go ahead.

05:18:13.820 I'm saying, like, I'm all for, like, I mean, I love watching this show and it's like a debate

05:18:18.880 and back and forth.

05:18:20.120 But, like, even the ones I've watched, people, like, women just listen. 0.98

05:18:24.760 They don't listen to anything that you've said.

05:18:26.380 They just want to talk.

05:18:27.260 It's like, I just want.

05:18:28.160 You literally have asked 50.

05:18:29.680 I get it.

05:18:30.240 But when somebody asks you, you answered, like, a normal person.

05:18:33.980 He's like, hey, rate yourself.

05:18:35.420 Or it's a yes or no question.

05:18:36.700 You simply say yes or no.

05:18:38.420 Well, I don't know. 0.99

05:18:39.600 The fucking sky is blue. 0.99

05:18:40.940 So I think my answer might be. 0.99

05:18:42.480 No, it's what makes it special.

05:18:43.980 It is special.

05:18:44.880 But here's the thing.

05:18:45.680 There's topics to be passionate about. 0.91

05:18:47.380 And there's, you just want to fucking argue about everything.

05:18:49.700 That's exhausting. 0.94

05:18:50.420 No.

05:18:50.540 They were just passionate about everything.

05:18:52.940 Okay.

05:18:53.080 That's okay.

05:18:53.860 No.

05:18:54.080 You should be passionate more, too.

05:18:55.140 I'm passionate about it.

05:18:56.400 But I'm not ignorant to just fucking want to talk out of nothing. 0.96

05:18:58.960 Like, literally. 0.97

05:19:00.240 I don't need to prove my point.

05:19:01.880 It's okay.

05:19:02.780 It's whatever.

05:19:03.940 It's whatever.

05:19:05.200 Yeah.

05:19:06.100 It's whatever.

05:19:07.480 Yo, W for you, though, for coming to my defense. 0.99

05:19:11.900 Granted, probably shouldn't have told her to shut the fuck up. 1.00

05:19:14.140 But she was fucking interrupting. 0.99

05:19:15.920 I mean, you said it for all of us. 0.99

05:19:17.180 I feel like, here's the thing.

05:19:18.140 You were very patient.

05:19:19.020 Oh, did I?

05:19:19.200 Is everybody over?

05:19:19.700 Oh, yes.

05:19:20.240 Oh, I didn't.

05:19:20.840 Yeah.

05:19:21.120 I thought I was the bad guy.

05:19:22.140 No.

05:19:22.180 I was getting tired.

05:19:22.860 Maybe a little bit.

05:19:23.580 No.

05:19:23.780 You have to be for us.

05:19:25.660 I mean, it's not.

05:19:26.620 But here's the thing.

05:19:27.460 You have been very patient.

05:19:29.140 I feel like you don't lose your temper.

05:19:31.060 If you were losing your temper, like, I think we all were making eye contact.

05:19:34.120 We were all exhausted.

05:19:35.700 Like, Andrew's just the only one that has the energy to go back and forth.

05:19:38.780 We were just literally tired.

05:19:39.700 Because we're like, I don't want to even interject and talk to anyone because it's, like, the same conversation, same thing, going back and forth.

05:19:46.000 It's, like, I want to leave.

05:19:48.040 Can we have our new guests introduce themselves?

05:19:52.620 I'm Madison.

05:19:53.940 I'm Morgan.

05:19:55.860 The faces of whatever.

05:19:57.900 Okay, cool.

05:19:58.640 Wow.

05:19:58.900 That was a good time.

05:20:00.280 Rage quit.

05:20:01.220 Major rage quit.

05:20:02.120 I feel like the vibration just raised in this corner.

05:20:04.420 Dude, the vibrations have, have, have.

05:20:07.380 Yeah, but I still don't understand.

05:20:09.700 Um, perhaps you can enlighten me.

05:20:12.200 Why exactly did, did they, did they go?

05:20:16.240 I, I.

05:20:16.700 Just Gerald.

05:20:17.620 We've had some really contentious problems here on whatever.

05:20:21.220 I felt a stroke.

05:20:21.980 That was not one of them.

05:20:23.520 Just Gerald.

05:20:24.720 Well, okay. 1.00

05:20:25.460 I said the words, shut the fuck up. 0.99

05:20:28.660 And then I said, I said, what did I say? 1.00

05:20:32.360 Hold on. 1.00

05:20:33.040 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

05:20:34.540 Okay. 1.00

05:20:35.080 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

05:20:37.420 No. 1.00

05:20:37.700 I said it like that.

05:20:38.320 Like, that was kind of crazy, yo.

05:20:40.820 I said.

05:20:41.080 And then she said it too.

05:20:42.380 I didn't tell her. 1.00

05:20:43.160 I said, as a woman, there's a time that you need to learn to shut the fuck up and listen. 1.00

05:20:47.480 That is very true. 0.99

05:20:48.180 Oh, come on. 0.87

05:20:49.100 Picnic dress. 0.93

05:20:50.100 You've been a savage the whole night. 1.00

05:20:52.040 You don't give a fuck about somebody saying some shit. 1.00

05:20:55.500 You don't care. 1.00

05:20:56.280 I do.

05:20:56.960 That's what I've been trying to tell you, though.

05:20:58.640 Because you're having a good combo.

05:20:59.940 So what actually led up to this, that I don't really understand.

05:21:04.700 We have had way more brutal combos with people on whatever.

05:21:08.920 I mean, way more.

05:21:10.100 I just feel like that was.

05:21:10.700 I'm actually surprised they rage went down.

05:21:13.120 Nickelodeon donated $200.

05:21:14.400 Oh, Nickelodeon, bro.

05:21:15.940 Drop the mic, babe. 1.00

05:21:17.520 Hit me up.

05:21:18.440 I got another pearl necklace for you.

05:21:21.100 Dribble, Dribble.

05:21:21.580 He's a brave and a decent man.

05:21:23.040 He's a pioneer.

05:21:23.540 Dude, Nickelodeon, you're a legend.

05:21:25.260 Really good to see you back in the chat, man.

05:21:26.980 Thank you for your patronage.

05:21:28.260 Thank you for the dono, TTS.

05:21:29.900 Appreciate it, man.

05:21:30.440 Thank you, thank you.

05:21:31.440 Dribble, Dribble, Dribble? 0.98

05:21:32.700 Is that like drizzle, drizzle or some shit? 0.99

05:21:34.500 Okay, well, I should leave. 0.99

05:21:36.200 Is it because of the...

05:21:37.680 What do you mean you should leave?

05:21:38.860 No, you should stay.

05:21:39.780 They should wait.

05:21:40.520 No, I should leave because I brought them here.

05:21:41.600 They invited me here.

05:21:43.240 Why are you going to let them mess you up?

05:21:45.140 You've had a great night.

05:21:45.920 I drove them here because they invited me.

05:21:47.400 Wait, should we try to get them back?

05:21:50.760 Yeah.

05:21:51.460 Yeah.

05:21:51.860 That's what I'm saying.

05:21:53.160 I'm bringing them back.

05:21:54.100 That's so unfair.

05:21:55.680 We are all here to speak on women's preference.

05:21:56.580 I got an idea.

05:21:57.460 Stay there.

05:21:58.080 Hold on.

05:21:58.560 I think I know where they are.

05:21:59.960 One sec.

05:22:01.140 Hang on, hang on.

05:22:01.900 Now, picnic dress.

05:22:03.820 Okay?

05:22:04.320 I get it.

05:22:05.460 All of you have been chilling together the entire evening.

05:22:09.860 But there was nothing there that warranted a rage quit.

05:22:12.520 Come on.

05:22:13.000 I think it's his vein.

05:22:14.180 Like, you've been having fun most of the night.

05:22:16.540 We've been having a good spar back and forth.

05:22:19.180 No, I feel like everyone was attacking the fact that...

05:22:22.020 Hang on.

05:22:22.240 Into the mic or I can't hear her.

05:22:23.680 I feel like everyone was attacking the fact that they were defending their points of views. 0.98

05:22:28.780 I mean, if nobody else is going to say anything, then why tell someone else to shut the fuck up? 0.98

05:22:33.960 Like, I feel like speak the fuck up. 0.97

05:22:35.800 Yeah, that's fine. 1.00

05:22:36.100 Instead of telling other women to shut the fuck up. 1.00

05:22:38.100 No, no, no, no, hang on, hang on, hang on. 1.00

05:22:40.000 That's not what it is.

05:22:40.900 I feel like that's the green.

05:22:43.360 I just want to let you know, picnic dress.

05:22:46.420 I just want to let you know, that's the thing I respected the most.

05:22:50.680 That they did defend their point of view.

05:22:52.560 Exactly.

05:22:52.880 That they did hit back. 1.00

05:22:54.080 That they said, fuck off, Andrew. 1.00

05:22:55.760 I'm right about this. 1.00

05:22:56.740 And I was like, yeah, let's do this.

05:22:59.420 That's the thing that makes me the happiest.

05:23:01.560 Yes.

05:23:02.180 That's why I don't get it, because they were clearly having a good time.

05:23:04.720 So, what was the trigger?

05:23:05.840 You tell me. 0.99

05:23:06.180 Everyone keeps telling them to shut the fuck up. 0.99

05:23:08.440 What was the thing that made it snap? 0.99

05:23:09.200 I love the fact that they spoke their mind.

05:23:11.400 My issue is picking at every single thing is not...

05:23:15.060 Hang on, blue dress. 0.94

05:23:16.580 Let picnic dress answer. 1.00

05:23:18.880 I'm asking her.

05:23:19.560 Thank you.

05:23:20.140 That's their buddies, right?

05:23:21.880 You've had base takes.

05:23:22.940 I'm not going to disagree.

05:23:23.880 You've had base takes the whole night, but let her respond.

05:23:26.180 It's because they're answering questions the way they need to respond.

05:23:31.900 When you guys ask us a question, it's very hard for a person with a very open mind to

05:23:39.040 just say yes or no, because the question is deeper, and it's manipulative.

05:23:43.540 And if you're able to just answer it yes or no, then that's okay.

05:23:47.320 But there's also forces of powers that make you want to dig deeper. 0.99

05:23:51.820 And if you don't dig deeper, then you should shut the fuck up. 0.99

05:23:54.560 Like, I don't see why they had to shut the fuck up, because they were able to decipher 0.99

05:23:59.780 everything that was put in front of them and everything that was asked to them. 0.98

05:24:03.360 They were able to dig deeper and figure out what's really going on.

05:24:07.760 And it's just like, I don't understand why that's like something that we're drawing each

05:24:12.980 other apart from.

05:24:14.160 Like, I feel like that should build us all up.

05:24:15.860 Like, we should all be asking more questions.

05:24:18.100 We should all be answering differently instead of just yes or no.

05:24:21.460 Let me see if I can explain.

05:24:22.360 We should be fighting.

05:24:22.980 When he was talking about women's rights, when you were speaking about women's rights,

05:24:26.680 we've got to do one point at a time.

05:24:27.560 They were the only ones speaking.

05:24:28.800 Hang on.

05:24:29.260 We should be learning.

05:24:30.460 We should be speaking too.

05:24:31.200 Kick, kick, dress. 0.97

05:24:31.920 Hang on a second.

05:24:33.340 I'm sorry.

05:24:33.660 Let's do one.

05:24:34.460 We'll do one point at a time.

05:24:35.860 Okay?

05:24:36.140 We'll do one point at a time.

05:24:38.000 I agree that absolutely if somebody is having a good faith exchange, they should not be silenced

05:24:46.420 anything of the sort.

05:24:47.560 But can you agree with me that things are either going to be true or they're not going

05:24:53.260 to be true, right?

05:24:54.620 It can't be both.

05:24:56.020 It can't be an in-between.

05:24:57.540 Either it's true or it's not true.

05:25:00.520 That has to be true, right?

05:25:03.280 Hydrate.

05:25:04.180 I hydrate.

05:25:04.920 This is one of those questions where you can't just answer yes or no.

05:25:07.580 No, no, no.

05:25:07.980 It's not a trick question.

05:25:09.540 It really isn't.

05:25:10.240 I'll explain it to you.

05:25:11.240 One of the laws of logic, we're talking about the law of excluded middle.

05:25:18.080 It's true or it's not true.

05:25:20.120 It can't be both.

05:25:21.380 It can't be in-between.

05:25:23.180 If I make a statement to you, I am X feet tall.

05:25:27.280 If I'm not X feet tall, that was not true.

05:25:29.820 And if I am, that was true, right?

05:25:31.800 It has to be that way, doesn't it?

05:25:34.020 These questions aren't that simple, though, and you know that.

05:25:37.280 Well, I'm willing to hear how it could be possible that somebody could tell both a truth and a falsehood at the same time.

05:25:44.900 I am willing to listen.

05:25:46.380 I want to learn.

05:25:47.780 If you can tell me or possibly explain to me in any world you could ever envision how somebody could tell me a truth which was actually a lie, I want to hear it.

05:25:58.500 It's not that a truth is actually a lie.

05:26:01.200 I think that even when you ask us these questions, you have a certain expectation on what you want us to say, regardless of what we say.

05:26:09.140 So it might seem like a false.

05:26:11.120 I actually agree.

05:26:12.020 Even though we are telling our own truths.

05:26:15.300 So...

05:26:15.860 Wait.

05:26:17.220 Your own truth is different than the truth.

05:26:21.000 So what if your own truth was that when you look behind you, it didn't say whatever.

05:26:26.820 It said whoever.

05:26:29.500 And I said, no, that says whatever.

05:26:31.640 Only one of us could be right, correct?

05:26:35.260 That's a question that only one of us could be correct.

05:26:38.220 But the questions that you're asking me are things that are not visible.

05:26:43.020 Well, hang on.

05:26:43.220 Who would be correct?

05:26:44.200 That are about more mentality things.

05:26:47.800 Hang on, hang on.

05:26:48.620 Back up, back up, back up.

05:26:49.900 Hang on, hang on.

05:26:50.460 How people look physically.

05:26:52.240 Back up, back up, back up.

05:26:54.020 If only one of us could be correct, which one of us would be correct?

05:26:58.220 If you said it said whoever, and I said it said whatever, who is actually correct?

05:27:06.220 Is it old English, Andrew?

05:27:08.740 No, it's modern English.

05:27:10.440 Who is actually correct?

05:27:12.600 Is it middle English?

05:27:14.640 Andrew?

05:27:15.120 No middle English.

05:27:16.860 You know what I'm talking about, and it's whatever.

05:27:20.920 It's whatever.

05:27:22.600 Is that the truth?

05:27:23.780 Rage quit.

05:27:24.720 Another rage quit.

05:27:25.200 No, don't rage quit.

05:27:26.360 Get back.

05:27:27.060 It's a rage quit.

05:27:27.140 You can't leave.

05:27:28.720 We were in the middle of an exchange.

05:27:30.120 All right.

05:27:30.520 If I'm going to be here, they're going to be here.

05:27:32.400 If they're not going to be here.

05:27:33.140 Well, tell them to come back.

05:27:35.260 Tell them to come back.

05:27:36.340 Yeah, Nick.

05:27:36.660 We're having a good exchange.

05:27:37.540 Nick, you can go help convince.

05:27:39.600 You can go help convince Nick.

05:27:41.180 I can go talk to him.

05:27:42.640 Nick will come with you, and you can go to come.

05:27:44.180 He'll help convince.

05:27:45.160 I don't think that'll help.

05:27:46.500 He'll help convince.

05:27:47.400 I mean, I don't have a joke against him.

05:27:48.960 Like, literally, I love the way they're talking.

05:27:50.100 Yeah, you can stay.

05:27:50.860 You can stay.

05:27:55.600 That is a power move, though.

05:27:56.940 She did drive. 0.98

05:27:58.720 Like, you can't really rage quit, really, if you can't leave.

05:28:04.860 Anyways, okay, Burmese Mountain Tiger.

05:28:07.260 Thank you for all the gifted subs, man. 0.99

05:28:08.540 You're a fucking legend, dude. 0.99

05:28:10.280 You are a legend. 1.00

05:28:11.140 Oh, can you pull up Twitch really quick?

05:28:15.100 Guys, go to twitch.tv.

05:28:16.480 Snash whatever. 0.99

05:28:17.380 If you enjoy seeing people rage quit off the show after I tell them to shut the fuck up, 0.98

05:28:22.700 please drop us a follow and drop a Prime. 0.98

05:28:28.200 Boys, it's been Big T, bro.

05:28:31.280 Guys, it was almost 16 minutes since we last got a Prime, but thankfully, Big T, he made

05:28:37.760 sure it wasn't bugged.

05:28:38.840 Drop us a Prime sub, boys.

05:28:39.980 If you enjoy us as content creators, you want to see us do more, we need your support over

05:28:44.080 there on Twitch.

05:28:45.320 Okay, let me get in.

05:28:46.260 We've got to get through all my pre-show notes.

05:28:47.800 There's a lot of pre-show notes.

05:28:48.560 Okay, hang on.

05:28:49.200 Prince Andrew does not appreciate this.

05:28:52.220 Prince Andrew, who is regal, who has a cape, does not appreciate it.

05:28:55.600 Remember earlier, I was referred to as a prince, Brian.

05:28:59.720 Oh, yes.

05:29:01.220 Your Majesty.

05:29:02.600 Your Highness.

05:29:02.900 I don't approve.

05:29:04.180 I don't approve of the rage quits.

05:29:07.740 Yeah.

05:29:08.260 You know, there's this Bill Burr.

05:29:09.980 I've mentioned this before.

05:29:10.880 There's this Bill Burr bit where if a woman's right in an argument, she'll stick to the 1.00

05:29:17.980 point and she'll beat you. 1.00

05:29:19.400 But if she's wrong, she'll like talk about other shit, try to rile you up until she pisses 1.00

05:29:24.860 you off and then you call her a bitch and then she just gets mad that you called her a bitch 1.00

05:29:28.280 and then. 1.00

05:29:30.020 Now you're in the wrong.

05:29:31.180 And then now you're in the wrong.

05:29:32.240 So you're saying that women never win arguments. 1.00

05:29:35.060 That's what you're saying.

05:29:37.120 No, they win.

05:29:38.020 They do in that case.

05:29:39.040 They win them a lot.

05:29:41.340 It's because they beat you till you're tired and you're like, fine, you win.

05:29:47.040 I'm going to find the clip, this Bill Burr clip because it's really good.

05:29:49.460 What is this whole you're tired thing?

05:29:50.840 You keep bringing this up.

05:29:52.680 What time is it there?

05:29:54.320 It's like 10, right?

05:29:56.360 My brain just hurts from the...

05:29:57.940 It's 10 o'clock.

05:30:00.780 What do you go to bed?

05:30:02.020 Do you get in your walker?

05:30:04.460 Do you grab your walker at 10 o'clock and you're like, oh, I got to get over to my bed.

05:30:09.020 I'm like, I got to reel myself over to my bed to go to sleep at 10 o'clock at night?

05:30:14.560 No, normally if I sit still for this long, it's either I'm getting my hair done, I'm

05:30:19.760 doing something, just sitting here and listening.

05:30:22.860 I know, but that's the thing.

05:30:24.200 I kind of want to go bring them back.

05:30:25.340 I love their argument, but it's like them being passionate.

05:30:29.060 But seriously, just everything was just an argument that's like I don't even want to

05:30:32.780 interject anymore to talk.

05:30:35.080 So you get tired when you're just sitting here staring at people back and forth arguing.

05:30:40.580 Word.

05:30:41.240 True.

05:30:41.820 Let me get into my pre-show notes.

05:30:44.760 So did we go all the way around on her hard nose? 1.00

05:30:48.500 Yes.

05:30:48.700 Did everybody have a hard no?

05:30:50.720 You said funny.

05:30:52.260 The guy's not funny.

05:30:53.300 Yeah.

05:30:53.840 That's like deal breaker if he's not funny.

05:30:56.080 Are you funny?

05:31:02.280 Um, I don't know.

05:31:04.900 I wouldn't say so.

05:31:07.860 Would you object to a guy like disqualifying you because of your lack of humor?

05:31:13.860 What do you mean?

05:31:15.640 Huh?

05:31:16.260 Can you repeat?

05:31:17.540 Would you object to a guy disqualifying you because you lacked humor?

05:31:22.060 I wouldn't object that.

05:31:23.160 You'd be fine with it.

05:31:23.960 Yeah.

05:31:24.460 That chick's not funny. 1.00

05:31:25.220 I'm not going to, I'm not going to date her.

05:31:27.440 Yeah.

05:31:27.680 Okay.

05:31:27.940 That's fine.

05:31:28.620 That's fair.

05:31:29.720 That's fair.

05:31:30.840 Although you typically don't hear men disqualifying or caring about if a woman's funny.

05:31:38.340 Because a lot of them aren't.

05:31:39.720 She's so hot and attractive, but she's just not funny. 1.00

05:31:43.340 I guess I won't have sex with her because she couldn't make me laugh. 1.00

05:31:47.360 Won't have sex with her. 1.00

05:31:48.500 Won't date her. 0.99

05:31:49.820 Okay. 0.70

05:31:50.300 We have Naomi, psycho ex, went to prison for stalking you. 1.00

05:31:54.600 Yeah. 0.99

05:31:55.000 Super toxic.

05:31:55.980 Gave you an STD.

05:31:57.080 What?

05:31:57.560 What?

05:31:58.160 What?

05:31:58.340 What?

05:31:58.400 That's you?

05:31:59.260 And told your parents first?

05:32:00.660 Wait, what the?

05:32:01.260 Never.

05:32:01.900 Yeah.

05:32:02.360 He, uh, yeah, he, um, told my parents first.

05:32:06.560 So, I mean, do you want like the whole story?

05:32:08.600 Sure.

05:32:08.840 Wait, he told, he told, he told your parents first about the STD?

05:32:12.640 Before you told me.

05:32:13.600 Yeah. 1.00

05:32:14.700 Damn. 1.00

05:32:15.420 Savage. 1.00

05:32:16.480 Messed up, right?

05:32:17.160 Wait, he gave you an STD or you gave it?

05:32:19.160 No, it was not me.

05:32:20.020 I promise.

05:32:21.000 What was the, uh, STD?

05:32:22.440 It was chlamydia, so I'm cured.

05:32:24.500 Don't worry, guys.

05:32:25.820 We're cured.

05:32:26.800 What do you mean?

05:32:27.200 What do you mean?

05:32:27.700 Don't worry.

05:32:28.420 I wasn't, I wasn't concerned about it.

05:32:30.100 Well, that's true.

05:32:30.120 You wouldn't have to worry.

05:32:31.220 Except on your behalf, right?

05:32:32.840 Yeah.

05:32:33.360 Yeah.

05:32:33.580 You're not wrong.

05:32:34.980 So, uh, short version, I guess.

05:32:37.380 Um, yeah.

05:32:38.320 So, we were just together for, it seemed like forever, but I think it was only a year and

05:32:42.980 a half total year.

05:32:44.380 My parents had eventually stepped in.

05:32:46.300 I was 16, almost 17.

05:32:49.160 And they just, at some point, were like, this is awful, it's toxic, just lots of fighting.

05:32:54.080 Um, it just wasn't good.

05:32:55.440 He was an awful guy.

05:32:57.040 And I think I was just trying to repair him.

05:32:59.720 I'm a kind of a fixer.

05:33:00.920 So, um, I eventually, my parents made us break up and of course I didn't listen.

05:33:09.060 And so, I eventually continued to talk to him for a few weeks.

05:33:12.160 However, when I realized he was a little psycho was when I was, I'll never forget, it was a

05:33:18.320 Sunday, my mom and I were hanging out.

05:33:20.520 Obviously, I'm not going to talk to my mom or talk to my boyfriend while my mom is with

05:33:25.560 me.

05:33:25.860 And he, um, asked why I was shopping with her, why I was at the mall.

05:33:31.640 And so, that's when I kind of realized he was a little crazy.

05:33:34.520 So, I ended things, broke things off. 0.93

05:33:38.160 Well, that's when he went more crazy.

05:33:40.420 I really hope he's watching.

05:33:42.320 So, um, he started smashing my windows in.

05:33:46.580 My parents' tires went flat.

05:33:48.240 Like, he was sending, like, death threats to my, uh, my parents, myself, where I was

05:33:53.520 working.

05:33:54.020 Just, like, all the crazy things.

05:33:55.900 At this point, the cops were involved.

05:33:57.520 But nothing had physically happened.

05:33:59.460 Like, no physical altercations or anything.

05:34:01.260 So, they just were, at this point, were building a case.

05:34:03.340 Um, but right before I decided to break things off with him is just when, um, I realized he

05:34:10.580 was cheating on me, which is really dumb because there were so many signs.

05:34:14.380 I mean, my parents saw him out with other women in town and I was just delusional.

05:34:18.440 I'm like, he's not cheating on me.

05:34:19.780 There's no way.

05:34:20.900 Yeah, he was.

05:34:22.120 So, yeah, it was bad.

05:34:25.200 Um, made for great memoirs for my senior year, though, in high school.

05:34:28.460 So, it's fine.

05:34:30.220 Um, but yeah, we ended up breaking things off and he got convicted on, he had other

05:34:34.580 charges as well, but they were able to charge him with first degree stalking, too.

05:34:38.260 Yikes.

05:34:39.360 Yikes.

05:34:39.580 Yeah.

05:34:40.200 You said that women nowadays, in your opinion, are unrealistic and have such high expectations. 1.00

05:34:46.780 So, the whole world we live in, honestly, is super fucked. 0.99

05:34:49.580 Your words, not mine. 0.98

05:34:51.500 Do you care to expand on, uh, on that?

05:34:53.920 I just think that, I think, I mean, I'm not old.

05:34:58.460 I'm young still, so obviously I can't say back in the day, but I do think there was

05:35:02.340 something before online dating and creating this, like, idea in our heads of maybe social

05:35:06.600 media has a play into this, but just of what the perfect man or woman is supposed to be.

05:35:12.140 Um, and I think there's a lot to be said to people who can meet, they meet each other

05:35:16.740 organically, they grow together, they become a better version of themselves.

05:35:21.260 Um, I don't know.

05:35:23.380 I mean, I just think saying, like, I want my husband to make X amount of dollars every

05:35:28.000 year and he has to be this tall and he has to be this.

05:35:30.360 And if he doesn't check all the check marks, then he's not even worth trying for, or even

05:35:34.540 trying to put in time and see if that's a relationship that is worth your while.

05:35:38.800 So, that's just my opinion.

05:35:40.540 No one's perfect.

05:35:41.420 And I think we all have room to grow.

05:35:43.380 So.

05:35:44.280 And, uh, going back to the guy you dated, was that the guy you dated for two years when

05:35:49.740 you were younger?

05:35:50.500 Yeah.

05:35:50.720 Okay.

05:35:51.820 The high school dropout.

05:35:53.020 Yeah.

05:35:53.460 Yeah.

05:35:53.740 High school dropout. 0.96

05:35:54.280 Gangster.

05:35:54.560 He considered himself. 0.93

05:35:56.160 Let me read this.

05:35:57.140 Everyone tell their best joke.

05:35:58.640 There were two muffins in an oven.

05:36:01.580 Uh, and one muffin looks over and says, phew, it's hot in here. 0.95

05:36:05.460 The other muffin looks back and says, holy crap, a talking muffin. 0.95

05:36:11.220 Uh. 0.99

05:36:13.840 Okay. 0.93

05:36:15.280 Thank you, kill with cereal.

05:36:16.360 That was, it's a good joke. 0.89

05:36:19.920 It's good.

05:36:20.700 Um, give it like a seven out of ten, you know?

05:36:23.960 Um.

05:36:26.260 Best joke.

05:36:27.820 Anyone got a joke?

05:36:28.640 I want to hear a joke from you.

05:36:29.720 No, I ain't got none.

05:36:30.660 You got none?

05:36:31.200 Yeah.

05:36:32.540 Okay.

05:36:34.000 Hmm.

05:36:34.900 Anybody?

05:36:36.140 Madison?

05:36:37.080 I just love the, oh yeah.

05:36:38.700 Fireworks.

05:36:39.120 Not really funny.

05:36:40.300 Can you see them in the window, guys?

05:36:42.340 I don't know if they can see it.

05:36:43.420 Oh yeah, they can.

05:36:44.120 Can you see that, guys?

05:36:45.020 It's right there.

05:36:46.660 Fireworks.

05:36:47.660 It's late.

05:36:48.440 Oh my god.

05:36:52.320 Fabulous.

05:36:53.140 Oh yeah.

05:36:56.520 I'm just waiting for the fireworks sound so I can, it's kind of loud, it's kind of loud

05:36:59.900 in the studio, boys. 1.00

05:37:01.340 God damn, what the fuck is Nick doing, bro? 1.00

05:37:02.900 You gotta, you gotta get the sailor move on. 1.00

05:37:05.260 He's in.

05:37:05.820 He's back.

05:37:06.780 Are they?

05:37:08.020 I brought one.

05:37:09.060 Oh.

05:37:09.340 The others are looking, like, maybe.

05:37:12.600 What, what do you mean, maybe?

05:37:13.900 They had to be.

05:37:14.320 They're about getting pizza right now.

05:37:15.480 They're, these.

05:37:16.200 I said, throw you the pizza. 0.99

05:37:18.240 Oh my god.

05:37:18.840 We gotta bring it back.

05:37:20.240 They're coming back.

05:37:21.080 Okay, well, I'm gonna try to get through the pre-show.

05:37:22.620 I gotta get through the pre-show notes before they're back, because that's just gonna take 0.82

05:37:25.620 fucking forever. 0.90

05:37:26.940 Okay. 1.00

05:37:27.300 Uh, let's see, uh, okay, you were dating the crazy dude, uh, stalking, yep, terrible, very 0.71

05:37:36.560 bad, not cool, stalking, don't stalk, man or woman, woman or man, don't, don't stalk people, 1.00

05:37:42.060 fucked up, just move on, get plenty of fish in the sea. 0.99

05:37:45.160 Uh, hold on, I'm just trying to get through the notes here. 0.99

05:37:48.780 Um, you've said you, oh, we already did that, unrealistic expectations, has to make so much

05:37:57.260 money, buy certain things, has to be tall fit, et cetera, but what do they bring to the table?

05:38:02.360 How about we do that?

05:38:03.180 We'll go around the table.

05:38:04.040 What, or did we kind of do this already?

05:38:05.940 We did.

05:38:06.320 We kind of did, yeah, like the, what do you bring to the table, but it was like within

05:38:09.680 the context of marriage, so, oh, welcome back, boom, anti, I don't know if this is a first, 0.94

05:38:17.120 a, a walk back, rage quit, it was, uh, reverse, yeah, you weren't so much a rage quit, the two

05:38:26.600 girls though, might've been, we have Sam here, also Idaho, you want to talk about dating in 0.66

05:38:31.520 Idaho, is that, uh, oh, dating in Idaho?

05:38:35.220 Yeah.

05:38:35.700 I don't think I put that on there.

05:38:37.180 Oh, okay.

05:38:37.860 I think I put on, like, something about online dating.

05:38:40.700 Uh, you said, uh, yeah, relationships are disposable, divorce rates are at an all-time

05:38:44.980 high, it seems like half of the women I come across have done or do OFs seeking arrangements, 0.98

05:38:48.700 but they can't find a good man and all men suck, that's what, you're saying that that's 0.99

05:38:54.080 what they say. 0.99

05:38:54.640 Yeah, that's not what I'm saying.

05:38:56.240 Yeah.

05:38:56.320 Yeah.

05:38:56.840 Going around the table, what do you think of men, starting with you?

05:39:01.840 Actually, starting with you.

05:39:04.520 Uh-huh.

05:39:05.220 Wait, can you elaborate on how I get in?

05:39:08.440 Just had, what do you think of men?

05:39:10.020 Thanks a lot.

05:39:11.680 Yeah.

05:39:12.280 I think that a lot of the men I have come across right now in this time have been very much,

05:39:21.360 um, money mindset made.

05:39:24.660 I would love to meet more men that are more focused on morals and integrity and independence

05:39:33.440 rather than just getting money.

05:39:36.160 I feel like a lot of men are just, only money is on their mind, and I feel like there's a

05:39:41.300 lot more to be focused on.

05:39:43.720 One, I wouldn't say don't focus on money, but I want to say, I think men only focus on that,

05:39:49.100 and I would love to see a man who focuses on more.

05:39:51.240 That's beautiful.

05:40:00.180 Touching.

05:40:00.800 It was touching.

05:40:01.320 And you're taking shots there.

05:40:03.620 Okay.

05:40:04.580 So what do you think of men in general, I guess?

05:40:08.100 Do we need men? 0.81

05:40:10.120 Yes.

05:40:10.880 We definitely do need men. 0.98

05:40:13.580 Okay.

05:40:15.700 Why?

05:40:16.520 Are you asking me why?

05:40:17.340 Going around the table on it.

05:40:18.660 What do you think of men?

05:40:20.120 I love men.

05:40:21.300 I feel like it's the balance of the world.

05:40:24.260 There are protectors, and it's definitely needed for the world to grow.

05:40:32.740 I think a lot of, I have two brothers, so they're definitely an inspiration to me.

05:40:38.360 My dad, he's the rock of the family, so I definitely love, I don't think I would like

05:40:44.420 a world without betting it.

05:40:48.220 I think a lot of the grown men in my life are great.

05:40:52.500 Yeah, your answer could just be like, men are great.

05:40:54.420 Yeah.

05:40:54.720 Yeah, perfect.

05:40:55.500 I think most men are cool.

05:40:56.900 Yeah.

05:40:57.700 I don't see a problem with men.

05:40:59.840 You don't see a problem with men?

05:41:01.820 Well, like their existence, I don't really see a problem with it.

05:41:04.880 But you're like, it could go either way?

05:41:06.440 Like, they could be here, they could not.

05:41:08.940 I wouldn't really.

05:41:09.860 Well, if they weren't here, I feel like the world would burn.

05:41:15.280 Oh, okay.

05:41:15.760 I feel like men is like, it's something that we need in our lives.

05:41:20.300 Okay.

05:41:21.200 They're the Yangtara Yang, and yeah, they're great.

05:41:25.360 We need them.

05:41:26.200 At the end of the day, there's just good people and bad people out there.

05:41:28.600 It doesn't matter the gender. 1.00

05:41:31.240 Yeah, I agree.

05:41:31.900 Men are great.

05:41:33.300 Yeah, they're pretty great.

05:41:34.340 So, sweet.

05:41:35.780 Going back to Sam, you said you haven't dated around a lot, but your ex-boyfriend of three

05:41:40.000 years was a two-ex-felon drug dealer.

05:41:42.620 Also, I think he had a porn addiction, which I feel like is a common problem with our culture.

05:41:47.460 Yeah.

05:41:48.200 I'll keep it short, but me and that guy, we dated for three years.

05:41:56.580 And towards the end of our relationship, I did find out that he was watching a lot of

05:42:01.460 adult content.

05:42:02.900 And a lot of people that I've kind of talked to this about are basically are just like,

05:42:07.640 you know, it's not that big of a deal.

05:42:09.260 And I could argue that.

05:42:10.720 But at the same time, I think having that mentality is what's led us into this culture of, you

05:42:15.600 know, normalizing everybody doing OF and posting half-naked pictures on Instagram and things

05:42:20.700 like that.

05:42:21.320 So, I don't think it should be so normalized.

05:42:24.740 And yeah.

05:42:26.340 But I don't know how much more you want me to go into it.

05:42:29.160 Sure.

05:42:29.860 No, that's fine.

05:42:31.200 I'm kind of confused.

05:42:32.600 The tattoo on your arm?

05:42:34.540 I can't figure out what it is.

05:42:36.340 Which one?

05:42:36.800 The one that I can see.

05:42:39.980 Yeah.

05:42:40.320 Well, actually, all of them kind of look similar.

05:42:42.140 They just look like squiggly lines.

05:42:44.000 Yeah.

05:42:44.400 What's going on there?

05:42:45.060 It's some abstract art that I saw a few years ago, and I really liked it.

05:42:49.600 And it just never left my mind.

05:42:51.820 So, I decided to get it tattooed on me.

05:42:53.700 I just like art.

05:42:55.580 And then the other one is like, honestly, a basic white girl tattoo.

05:42:59.940 It's a dragon and a flower.

05:43:02.040 Yeah, the dragon and flower I get.

05:43:04.260 Yeah.

05:43:04.500 But the art, what is it about that that stood out?

05:43:08.480 I don't know.

05:43:09.400 I think it looked cool.

05:43:10.940 I do a lot of abstract art myself.

05:43:13.220 I like to draw with Sharpies. 0.98

05:43:15.340 And it was similar to the kind of stuff that I draw.

05:43:19.820 So, I just really, really liked it.

05:43:22.380 And yeah.

05:43:23.780 Okay.

05:43:25.000 I do have a question here.

05:43:27.780 Hold on.

05:43:28.360 It is.

05:43:28.900 Where did I write it?

05:43:29.760 Starting with Lizzie over here. 0.93

05:43:33.320 What do you think men want? 1.00

05:43:38.420 I feel like men ultimately want to be respected and listened to.

05:43:45.480 But that's just my short answer of it.

05:43:50.700 Okay.

05:43:51.680 Okay.

05:43:52.220 So, that kind of sounded like you were parroting what our blue dress friend over here said.

05:43:59.900 I'm just saying.

05:44:00.860 Well, her and I have a lot of the same views.

05:44:04.140 Do you?

05:44:04.980 Yeah.

05:44:07.380 Okay.

05:44:07.860 Let's try to just get everyone's answer here.

05:44:12.420 I think men are looking for a partner in life.

05:44:16.280 And that could be emotional support, physical support, just kind of all of that.

05:44:21.820 Go ahead.

05:44:22.220 Answer the questions, guys.

05:44:25.280 But yeah.

05:44:25.660 Just emotional support, a partnership, someone that they can share their life with and grow as a couple.

05:44:32.080 Yeah.

05:44:32.300 Pretty much the same.

05:44:33.240 Just someone who supports you, is there for you, you know, to an extent, takes care of you, will bury your children, things like that.

05:44:41.300 Yeah.

05:44:42.060 Just overall a partner who will be there for you like no one else will.

05:44:49.700 I agree.

05:44:50.760 I think trust and respect and, yeah, I don't know.

05:44:57.420 Peace, for you to be quiet, a good mother to future children.

05:45:03.760 A good cook, too. 0.97

05:45:06.000 Wait, wait, he's picnic dress.

05:45:07.940 Picnic dress.

05:45:08.980 You're back.

05:45:10.100 I knew he would be back.

05:45:12.480 I knew he would be back.

05:45:14.040 Where are the other two?

05:45:15.680 Apparently they're coming.

05:45:16.880 They're on the way.

05:45:17.640 They're coming.

05:45:18.040 They're on the way.

05:45:18.660 They're coming back.

05:45:19.560 Are they coming with the pizza?

05:45:20.200 All right.

05:45:20.880 Awesome.

05:45:21.540 Are they coming with the pizza?

05:45:22.360 I think so.

05:45:22.980 I'm hungry.

05:45:23.680 Okay.

05:45:24.860 They're bringing pizza?

05:45:27.480 Did they get it for him?

05:45:29.200 I don't know.

05:45:30.340 I don't know.

05:45:30.680 It's like a singular pizza and we're all...

05:45:32.340 It's just a slice.

05:45:33.020 It's a singular slice.

05:45:34.560 I'll say at least get me some.

05:45:36.660 But Brian likes bacon on his pizza and they're Muslims. 1.00

05:45:39.560 Can they do that?

05:45:42.540 No, bro.

05:45:43.780 Yeah, I wonder.

05:45:45.240 Maybe it's pepperoni.

05:45:46.400 Who knows?

05:45:48.780 Pepperoni is also made out of pork.

05:45:50.700 What men want above all.

05:45:54.060 I think it's peace and respect and someone who's nurturing and caring.

05:45:59.400 Okay.

05:46:01.280 What I have seen so far, like I previously said, I really think that men only want money and...

05:46:10.060 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

05:46:11.440 What do you think men want in a relationship from a woman? 0.92

05:46:15.320 From a woman. 0.99

05:46:15.560 You think it's money?

05:46:17.800 Okay.

05:46:18.280 Now I need to think.

05:46:21.040 I would say...

05:46:22.440 From a relationship, I would say someone who only listens and does not respond.

05:46:28.860 That's what I was saying.

05:46:32.660 To be quiet.

05:46:34.700 That's a way to put that, I guess.

05:46:36.600 What about you?

05:46:38.700 Sex, fun, eye candy, and loyalty on someone who would be a good mom if they did want children with that person. 0.99

05:46:44.620 Sex, loyalty, good mom. 0.99

05:46:48.600 Okay. 0.98

05:46:49.140 Cool, cool.

05:46:50.580 That's pretty good.

05:46:51.300 Some pretty good answers there.

05:46:52.680 Well done.

05:46:54.040 Questions for you, I think in your Instagram, Azira?

05:46:57.860 Azira.

05:46:59.240 Azira.

05:47:00.240 Excuse me.

05:47:03.300 Okay, if you...

05:47:04.580 Come on, Azira.

05:47:06.560 Really?

05:47:08.000 Azira.

05:47:08.680 You guys have this chemistry.

05:47:11.040 It's crazy.

05:47:11.900 You and Andrew.

05:47:13.260 Andrew, if he wasn't married, I think you guys would...

05:47:16.420 You're talking about this man right here.

05:47:19.000 I'm talking about that man right there.

05:47:19.880 Wait a second.

05:47:20.640 Wait a second. 0.97

05:47:21.320 I have a fictitious black ex-wife. 0.91

05:47:24.360 Just so you know, you think...

05:47:27.080 Who? 0.99

05:47:27.300 This is ridiculous. 0.94

05:47:28.060 Was it dudes? 0.98

05:47:29.020 It was a dude and a girl.

05:47:30.420 Yeah, that's not happening.

05:47:31.320 That's what I said. 0.99

05:47:32.340 Why the fuck would we let two... 0.98

05:47:33.960 First off, we don't have space for these two randoms. 0.99

05:47:36.560 I don't have a touch of them.

05:47:38.620 Actually, you are slurred.

05:47:40.180 Okay, so...

05:47:41.260 In your Instagram, it says,

05:47:44.720 If you know you don't deserve me, I'd rather be all alone.

05:47:49.220 Yes.

05:47:49.940 It says,

05:47:51.040 Don't come and try to hurt me.

05:47:54.260 Don't come and try to love me if you know you don't deserve me.

05:47:58.800 I'd rather be all alone.

05:48:00.720 So, question.

05:48:01.360 Would you rather be alone than settle for an average guy?

05:48:04.240 I don't have any problems with being with an average guy.

05:48:11.440 Okay.

05:48:12.020 I think that that wouldn't be settling for me.

05:48:14.700 That would be fine for me.

05:48:17.540 What do you think an average guy is?

05:48:20.960 I think an average guy is a man who is a man, not a boy, has a job, can take care of himself, but is not overly rich or overly successful.

05:48:33.960 I consider average as middle class, and not considering his looks.

05:48:39.880 Wait a second.

05:48:41.080 That's all monetary.

05:48:42.200 What do you think an average man is in his core, as a personality?

05:48:49.620 Is he average intelligence?

05:48:52.400 Is he...

05:48:53.240 What does average mean as far as the person goes?

05:48:56.820 As far as the person goes, I would say most likely intelligence, as you were saying, and then also morals.

05:49:09.420 Like, he doesn't overly believe in certain things, but he also believes in good, but he doesn't just believe in, oh, you have to do this in a certain way.

05:49:19.880 I think average, for me, would be someone who's kind of in the middle standpoint of everything, whether it be, like...

05:49:28.020 Well, that sounds moderate, not average.

05:49:30.600 Don't you think the average man believes in morality and, you know, kind of the dream of Americana?

05:49:39.060 That seems average to me, right?

05:49:42.000 But to me, that's not...

05:49:44.280 Well, what is...

05:49:45.080 Well, that's what I'm asking.

05:49:46.220 What is average?

05:49:46.960 You kind of gave us the...

05:49:49.000 Well, average to me is the size of the wallet.

05:49:51.660 What is an average paycheck?

05:49:54.860 But if you're talking about a person, what is an average person, an average man?

05:50:01.820 What does that look like?

05:50:03.800 That's what I'm trying to explain.

05:50:05.820 Like, it...

05:50:06.600 For me, an average man does have a lot to do with money and morals, because if you don't...

05:50:13.060 Money and morals?

05:50:14.160 Yes, because I would say that a man who is, like, not average and is high standard is doing very well for himself and those all around him and is also able to make distinctive points of views in good ways.

05:50:32.180 I think average would be, to me, average is considered, like, you don't really have your own point of view.

05:50:40.520 You're not willing to speak up for yourself.

05:50:43.640 Those are things that I consider average.

05:50:46.400 Like, you don't stand out.

05:50:47.780 My definition of an average man, I think an average man is a person who wants to reproduce and wants to take care of a family.

05:51:00.400 They may not be extreme on philosophy or overly educated, but they love their wife.

05:51:08.060 They love their family.

05:51:09.020 They're going to work hard every single day to make sure that they're okay.

05:51:12.580 I think that that is average.

05:51:15.920 I think that that is normal.

05:51:18.080 I think that that is a trait which is very commonly found.

05:51:22.760 When you say average, what I hear from you is they have X amount in their pocketbook,

05:51:30.220 and it seems like you kind of are giving it a political leaning of moderate.

05:51:36.440 They're moderate in the things they do.

05:51:39.120 I don't think average men are moderate.

05:51:41.500 I think that they essentially value the things that you value.

05:51:46.460 I just wonder where you come up with average.

05:51:49.700 Like, they're normal looking.

05:51:51.440 That doesn't mean that, you know, they don't have good self-esteem

05:51:58.420 or that they're not at a job which is paying a decent wage.

05:52:03.920 It doesn't mean any of those things.

05:52:06.440 So, when you say average, I kind of want to dive in here a little bit.

05:52:12.480 Maddie, press button A for blue dress to be your female alpha 1.00

05:52:15.980 or button B for settle for the average man.

05:52:19.820 By the way, TTS is 69.

05:52:21.820 Warlord 69, thank you for the TTS.

05:52:25.620 Maddie's not here.

05:52:27.380 Button A for blue dress to be your female alpha. 1.00

05:52:28.980 Well, I think the average guy is going to work at Amazon or a factory,

05:52:33.220 and he's going to bring home 22 bucks an hour,

05:52:35.540 and he's going to come home and expect a piece in his home.

05:52:38.560 I think that that's pretty average.

05:52:40.680 Yes, I agree.

05:52:41.620 So, what really is average to you?

05:52:44.860 That is mainly how you explained it is also how I see it.

05:52:50.400 When I say as far as, like, income, that's what I'm saying.

05:52:53.920 Like, he can take care of himself.

05:52:56.840 When I say overly average, I consider that as someone who can take care of everyone around them.

05:53:04.560 But to me, an average man is someone who can just take care of himself.

05:53:08.480 He's living right.

05:53:09.660 He doesn't have as many, as many, he doesn't have such a big personality.

05:53:17.020 Like, he's kind of, like, in the midst of, like, being quiet, but also being, like, who he really is.

05:53:24.180 I feel like it's just everything that I see myself as,

05:53:28.460 I feel that if he's not able to be at that level with me, then he is considered average.

05:53:35.800 I see.

05:53:36.220 So, you consider yourself average?

05:53:37.760 No, I consider myself...

05:53:39.560 Can we make final points on this?

05:53:42.220 Because we're getting bogged down on every single new thing.

05:53:45.440 Can we make final points, please, from both of you?

05:53:49.780 You can go first.

05:53:50.640 Yeah, so you consider, you said, I consider average to be everything that I am.

05:53:57.280 That's what you said.

05:53:58.680 No, I said, I consider overly average to be...

05:54:04.000 What does that mean, overly average?

05:54:05.540 That just means more average than average.

05:54:07.760 No, I mean, like, the next step.

05:54:09.880 Like, what is a term that you would put over average?

05:54:12.960 Above average.

05:54:14.040 Exceptional.

05:54:14.880 Yes.

05:54:15.940 Exceptional is right where I am.

05:54:17.460 Well, exceptional would be the opposite of average.

05:54:20.340 That's what I'm saying.

05:54:20.400 Someone who believes in the same things as I am and is open to communicating them and being able to express how they feel at the same level as I am.

05:54:31.320 Okay, well, let me just ask this last question very quickly.

05:54:33.740 What do you think an average, average, not exceptional, but average woman expects from an average man? 0.74

05:54:46.640 To meet her at the same level.

05:54:49.660 Yeah, what does that mean?

05:54:51.400 Explain it.

05:54:52.080 Whatever level she's at, I think she expects that.

05:54:55.920 She's at your level.

05:54:58.140 Then that wouldn't be average.

05:55:00.220 Yeah, well, what would that mean?

05:55:01.600 What would that entail?

05:55:02.840 What would an average man need to do to meet you at your level?

05:55:06.920 He would need to express his needs and his love for people and for things more and be able to stand up for what is good and what is right.

05:55:17.780 That, I would not consider that average.

05:55:19.740 I would consider that extraordinary.

05:55:24.300 To just say what your preferences are and to be moral, that's extraordinary?

05:55:30.360 Yes.

05:55:30.880 All right, moving things on, you said that you started your own church to save our generation.

05:55:43.180 This world will come to an end one day.

05:55:45.200 I saw this clip.

05:55:46.180 You're starting your own church.

05:55:47.400 Also, let's please not get bogged down too long on, just so I can get through everybody and we can hopefully try not to be here for too late tonight.

05:55:56.740 Okay, so let me explain that.

05:55:58.420 I was looking forward to starting my own church because I feel that everyone in this world, no matter what they believe in, because I find myself to be Christian, but I don't see that as the only reliable or valuable religion.

05:56:17.360 I see everything.

05:56:18.080 Then you're not a Christian. 0.74

05:56:19.520 No, it's not even like that.

05:56:21.240 What I see is that.

05:56:21.940 It's not even possible.

05:56:22.820 No, no, it is possible because I know where I stand, but I don't think where I stand is the only place to be stood.

05:56:29.700 I feel that no matter what you believe in, we all believe in something that's good, something that's a higher power.

05:56:35.860 In learning multiple religions, you start to see similarities, and that's why I think it's really important to be able...

05:56:43.900 Well, let's find out if this is true.

05:56:45.900 Let me just ask you one question, and then we can move on very quickly.

05:56:49.440 Is Jesus Christ God?

05:56:52.580 No.

05:56:53.680 Okay, well, then that's the end of that.

05:56:56.400 Can I finish my church segment really quickly?

05:57:00.160 There's no real reason to.

05:57:02.140 We've already established that you're not a Christian. 0.97

05:57:04.780 Wait, can I just finish, though?

05:57:08.160 Okay.

05:57:08.720 But for what?

05:57:09.840 You're just going to give us some prattle about something that's not Christianity.

05:57:13.580 You're not a Christian. 1.00

05:57:15.120 No, because he asked me a question.

05:57:15.960 Wait, you have a cross earring.

05:57:18.720 Yeah, yes.

05:57:20.040 So you're a Christian.

05:57:21.120 Yes.

05:57:21.720 But Jesus isn't God?

05:57:24.360 Jesus isn't God.

05:57:25.860 What is Jesus, then?

05:57:27.500 He is a man that was put on earth to walk God's footsteps, to show us what is capable through the Lord.

05:57:36.060 Yeah, but there's the Trinity.

05:57:36.960 Hang on, hang on.

05:57:37.880 I'm sorry.

05:57:38.340 Is Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior?

05:57:40.360 Yes, he is.

05:57:41.940 Oh, I'm sorry.

05:57:43.080 So your Lord and Savior is a man?

05:57:45.320 He is a man.

05:57:46.320 Your Lord and Savior is a man?

05:57:48.680 He was put on earth to show us how we can live as you.

05:57:52.520 Wait, wait, what do you mean?

05:57:53.700 A man came to earth to show you something?

05:57:56.260 We were all put on earth.

05:57:58.080 But I'm saying he was specifically put on earth.

05:58:01.080 Were you born of a virgin?

05:58:04.560 I'm not saying I was born of a virgin.

05:58:06.200 Were you born of a virgin?

05:58:08.920 Obviously not.

05:58:10.300 Was Jesus Christ born of a virgin? 0.91

05:58:13.140 Yes, he was.

05:58:14.140 Can you explain how somebody could be born of a virgin without the divinity?

05:58:18.120 Without the divine?

05:58:19.340 Nicola Dion donated $69.

05:58:22.440 She'd just call herself exceptional, maybe at manipulation and forcing herself on others.

05:58:28.600 When referring to men, most women would call the toxicant predatory.

05:58:32.920 Yeah, can you explain how a virgin could get pregnant absent God? 0.98

05:58:42.320 I cannot explain that.

05:58:44.120 You cannot explain that.

05:58:45.580 Interesting.

05:58:46.040 I would like to explain something very important that he asked me about.

05:58:48.980 You've got to speak into the mic or I can't hear you.

05:58:51.140 Into the mic.

05:58:52.280 I would like to explain something very important that he asked me about my profile.

05:58:57.800 Can I do that?

05:58:58.560 Yeah, but I'm asking you a specific question.

05:59:01.500 What is it?

05:59:02.040 If you can't explain how a virgin could become impregnated absent God, if you can't explain that,

05:59:09.740 then can you explain how Jesus was a man?

05:59:13.380 I really can't explain any of this.

05:59:15.920 And that's why if you let me finish on what he asked me, I can explain why I didn't end up starting a church.

05:59:24.060 Can we get into that?

05:59:25.060 Well, not really, because you said you were starting a church, but you didn't.

05:59:31.760 Yeah, I just want to talk about that.

05:59:33.420 I don't think the reasons why you didn't start the church are really material at this point.

05:59:38.660 No, but I do want to just explain.

05:59:40.240 I'll give you 20 seconds.

05:59:41.240 Go ahead.

05:59:41.500 Okay, perfect.

05:59:42.180 Thank you.

05:59:42.520 That's all I needed.

05:59:43.580 Okay, so I did want to start a church because I wanted everyone who has talents on this earth that are using them for sin

05:59:51.760 to be able to bring their talents to God or whatever higher form that they see.

05:59:56.780 But I realized that I wasn't able to do that yet because I am still learning, and I am working on myself.

06:00:02.960 And there's a way to approach people when it comes to religion, and you have to be very open-minded,

06:00:09.560 and you have to listen to people, and they also have to listen to you if you're saying the right thing.

06:00:13.800 So I feel like I have a lot of self-work to do on myself before I can do it for everyone else.

06:00:19.520 So, yes, I do want to start a church, but I am not able to right now.

06:00:23.300 Lizzie, you had something?

06:00:25.540 It's not even relevant anymore.

06:00:27.800 Okay, that's fine.

06:00:29.420 All right, moving things on to – hold on.

06:00:35.320 Going back to Janara?

06:00:39.160 Did I say it right?

06:00:40.220 Mm-hmm.

06:00:40.400 Okay.

06:00:42.120 You said you went on a hinged date, and this guy trauma-dumped all of his past relationships

06:00:46.380 and was really exposing himself on all his weird kinks?

06:00:49.440 Mm-hmm.

06:00:49.760 Question mark.

06:00:50.560 And this story, how his actions led to this girl at a mental hospital.

06:00:55.940 And I didn't even ask for this stuff.

06:00:57.520 He was just full-on trauma-dumping and exposing himself to the first degree.

06:01:03.340 Mm-hmm.

06:01:04.040 What were his weird kinks? 1.00

06:01:07.700 He was into threesomes?

06:01:09.220 He was into threesomes.

06:01:10.560 Is that a kink? 1.00

06:01:12.040 I guess, because he really liked them, and he liked explaining it to me.

06:01:18.120 Like two-dude threesomes?

06:01:20.240 No, two-girl.

06:01:20.900 Two-girl?

06:01:21.480 Mm-hmm.

06:01:22.380 Did he have one?

06:01:24.460 He's told me that he has multiple times.

06:01:27.140 I don't know if – is it a kink to one? 0.79

06:01:29.840 But you think it's weird.

06:01:31.280 To me, yes.

06:01:32.220 Walking Roscoe underscore on underscore YouTube donated $77.77.

06:01:39.280 Overly average is like someone shopping and asking for extra medium underwear.

06:01:44.320 RIP Patrice O'Neill and Kevin Samuels.

06:01:46.620 Rest in peace.

06:01:47.420 Retired military living in Germany.

06:01:49.380 Yo-ho.

06:01:49.780 Love you guys.

06:01:50.780 Roscoe.

06:01:51.240 Christ is God.

06:01:53.260 Danke, Schein.

06:01:54.480 Thank you for the TTS man.

06:01:56.240 Appreciate it.

06:01:56.700 7-7-7-7 lucky numbers.

06:01:59.300 Wait, actually, really quick.

06:02:00.680 I'm going to come back to the weird kink dude, whatever. 1.00

06:02:03.780 You said you were a 10 earlier, but you said you were also fine with dating an average guy.

06:02:07.940 So how do you reconcile you yourself being this, like, amazing 10 who's willing to date an average guy?

06:02:14.400 How do you reconcile that?

06:02:15.600 I reconcile that because I don't think that I'm too good for anyone.

06:02:21.560 I do see myself as a high standard and a high level,

06:02:24.680 and I believe that other people can see me that way, too.

06:02:28.220 But I also don't degrade other people,

06:02:31.780 and I feel like even though someone, I can see them rather than, like, exceptional to average,

06:02:38.400 I still feel like I could be compatible with them

06:02:41.180 because there are certain characteristics that draw people to each other

06:02:45.900 no matter what your, like, status is on looks or financial.

06:02:49.880 I feel like I could be able to meet anyone anywhere

06:02:52.480 because I just feel like I can love anyone.

06:02:55.500 I feel like the problem is someone loving me.

06:02:57.680 All right. 0.53

06:02:58.040 Anyways, back to weird threesome kink guy who trauma-dumped. 1.00

06:03:01.780 What else besides the threesome thing?

06:03:03.860 You said he was really into blood.

06:03:06.240 Okay, that's kind of weird.

06:03:07.420 Yeah.

06:03:08.920 Wait, just, like...

06:03:09.580 That escalated quickly.

06:03:10.920 Like, he told me a story where he was doing it one time,

06:03:15.840 and, like, her nose started bleeding, and he, like, rubbed his thumb on it and waved it.

06:03:19.480 Oh, yikes.

06:03:20.220 Yeah.

06:03:20.700 And I was like, I don't need to know that. 0.98

06:03:23.700 Although, I guess he's down for period sex, so... 0.92

06:03:28.540 He had iron deficiency. 0.99

06:03:29.740 Yeah, but you don't need period sex. 0.97

06:03:30.320 Silver lining. 0.98

06:03:31.480 Silver lining.

06:03:32.560 What?

06:03:33.400 A little bit.

06:03:34.100 Crazy.

06:03:35.180 Yeah, like, he wants... 0.93

06:03:36.800 He's got these weird kinks, but he also... 1.00

06:03:39.300 You wake up, and he's draining your blood.

06:03:41.000 I don't know, silver.

06:03:42.020 Oh, my God.

06:03:43.120 You don't wake up.

06:03:43.900 No, you don't wake up.

06:03:45.540 It's just gone.

06:03:47.180 Wait.

06:03:48.120 Question, ladies. 0.99

06:03:49.580 I heard this from a comedian.

06:03:51.120 Would this be a turn-on if you heard a guy say this?

06:03:55.620 So, you're like, oh, I'm sorry.

06:03:57.940 Like, it's that time of the month. 1.00

06:03:59.760 I don't know if we can. 0.98

06:04:00.680 And the guy was like, well, I guess we got to make a fucking mess then. 0.98

06:04:06.280 Maybe not like that. 0.98

06:04:08.500 Maybe not like that, but...

06:04:10.360 I mean, the way he said it, I think it's Matt, right?

06:04:13.900 I think the way he said it, yeah.

06:04:16.040 Matt, right?

06:04:16.780 So, it was a joke.

06:04:17.980 I think Ali Wong, she has this...

06:04:20.160 Oh, that's right.

06:04:21.020 You're right.

06:04:21.300 She has this bit where she's like, yeah, I was on my period.

06:04:23.080 And it was like, she said it was the most romantic, hottest thing ever.

06:04:25.760 Yeah, with her ex-husband.

06:04:27.660 Yeah.

06:04:28.100 Would that be, if a guy said that when you were...

06:04:30.200 I think it's better if he was just polite and like...

06:04:32.580 Yeah.

06:04:32.720 That doesn't matter.

06:04:34.400 I mean, it depends on the sense of humor.

06:04:35.680 Well, not... 0.99

06:04:36.740 No, he's like, I guess we got to make a fucking mess then. 0.99

06:04:40.900 I mean, I would have laughed, I think. 0.99

06:04:42.600 Okay, all right.

06:04:42.980 I think you have to be in the moment. 0.99

06:04:44.960 Damn. 0.99

06:04:45.360 For it to... 1.00

06:04:45.980 For that to fit?

06:04:47.240 Coming from you at a table.

06:04:48.920 Yeah, you can't just be at a table.

06:04:50.500 Like, it's a little different.

06:04:52.140 Okay, fair enough, fair enough.

06:04:53.860 So, you're on the Weird Hinge date.

06:04:55.800 He sent a girl to the mental hospital?

06:04:58.140 Yeah.

06:04:58.520 So, this girl, I guess, was like really in love with him and then he broke it off with 0.92

06:05:04.240 her and she started getting with his friend and they went to Arizona and shit went down

06:05:12.820 and so the friend left her and so she ended up going to a mental hospital because she had 0.96

06:05:18.420 nowhere else to go. 1.00

06:05:19.760 Damn. 0.99

06:05:20.680 Hey, Brian. 0.99

06:05:21.660 Yeah.

06:05:22.340 We have a big storm rolling in here.

06:05:24.900 Okay.

06:05:25.220 I have to wrap it a little early.

06:05:26.720 Sure, sure.

06:05:26.780 I got to take care of it.

06:05:27.620 It's 2 a.m. here, but guys, all of you on the panel, thank you so much for having me

06:05:32.280 on this evening and I'll do a raid over this way.

06:05:35.160 Hey, Andrew, thank you so much for tuning in, man.

06:05:37.100 Thank you.

06:05:37.520 Yeah, we definitely appreciate if you can shoot us a raid and yeah, thank you so much, Andrew.

06:05:42.900 Appreciate you joining us once again here.

06:05:47.240 We love you, Prince.

06:05:48.160 Thank you, Andrew.

06:05:49.740 W. Andrew.

06:05:51.560 No, we do love you, Prince.

06:05:53.040 We do love you, Prince.

06:05:54.720 You really are a Prince.

06:05:56.800 Andrew the Prince.

06:05:57.400 He gives me the Aladdin vibes. 1.00

06:05:59.420 Oh, fuck. 1.00

06:05:59.880 Like daddy Aladdin. 1.00

06:06:01.520 All right.

06:06:01.840 Well, thank you.

06:06:02.420 It was very nice to meet all of you.

06:06:04.260 Have a wonderful night.

06:06:05.480 Hope you have a good night, Andrew.

06:06:06.620 Good night.

06:06:06.900 Bye, guys.

06:06:07.180 So, the guy, the dude, he, you said he was exposing himself.

06:06:15.300 Yeah.

06:06:16.020 What was like the other biggest thing that he did?

06:06:18.560 Um, he was telling, um, he was telling, telling me all of these crazy stories that he's had

06:06:22.900 with past girls.

06:06:24.020 Yeah.

06:06:24.380 Yeah.

06:06:25.180 And it was just very alarming to me.

06:06:27.860 Like, okay, you're telling all of this to me on the first date.

06:06:31.180 Yeah.

06:06:31.540 It's been like, what, 30 minutes?

06:06:33.420 Were you guys at like dinner or something?

06:06:34.980 And he just like, yeah, pretty much.

06:06:38.060 We were like, just across from the table.

06:06:40.680 Just revealing his red flags.

06:06:41.940 Like, playing a almond shop at dinner.

06:06:43.620 And I was like, so, like, what are you into?

06:06:45.920 And he goes, oh, I'm really into this, this, and this.

06:06:49.680 And then he tells me all these stories about these girls that he's been with and crazy

06:06:53.860 stuff.

06:06:54.540 White guy? 0.84

06:06:55.340 Was it white guy?

06:06:55.900 Maybe he was just trying to brag and it wasn't real.

06:06:57.960 It was a Vietnamese guy.

06:06:58.780 Vietnamese guy?

06:06:59.500 Yeah.

06:06:59.840 Oh, okay.

06:07:00.860 Yeah.

06:07:01.140 Not me being Vietnamese. 0.99

06:07:03.160 You're Vietnamese?

06:07:04.280 Pardon?

06:07:04.440 I guess better to have found out sooner than later.

06:07:09.400 Yeah.

06:07:09.960 Yeah.

06:07:11.260 It was kind of crazy.

06:07:12.820 Yeah, that's, do you think he like pulls though?

06:07:16.720 I mean. 0.99

06:07:17.040 Like, even though he like says all this shit, do you think he pulled on dates? 0.99

06:07:21.060 He, he does pull, but he doesn't keep them. 0.99

06:07:25.060 I'll say that.

06:07:25.440 Like, he'll hit?

06:07:25.880 He'll scare them away. 0.87

06:07:26.840 He'll hit and that's it.

06:07:27.760 Like, hit and run and that's it.

06:07:29.800 That's a bold tactic to like, go on a date with a chick and be like, here's how I ruined 0.97

06:07:34.360 the past three chicks I dated.

06:07:36.940 It's, he's laying out.

06:07:38.020 That's bold.

06:07:38.780 He's laying his cards on the table.

06:07:39.840 I like blood if you don't like that.

06:07:41.680 Oh, yeah.

06:07:42.180 We're not like, hey, what is he older than you or younger?

06:07:44.980 We're like, oh, he's so honest though.

06:07:47.460 Wait, chat.

06:07:47.760 That's bad for me.

06:07:48.920 Like, ignoring red flags.

06:07:50.160 Yo, chat.

06:07:52.720 Wait, did the raid come through?

06:07:54.940 It's a raid.

06:07:55.480 Oh, I think it's coming through right now.

06:07:56.780 Yo, what's up everybody from the Crucible?

06:07:59.620 Welcome, boys.

06:08:00.400 Welcome, guys.

06:08:00.980 We're going to get into, for the last, like, hour of the show or whatever, we're going

06:08:06.640 to get into heated debates on feminism, man versus bear. 1.00

06:08:11.920 There's a development in the man versus bear thing.

06:08:15.080 A woman in Romania was killed by a bear.

06:08:18.180 So, I think that's relevant.

06:08:20.280 W, the Crucible crew.

06:08:21.940 Welcome, guys.

06:08:23.780 We're going to also, we're going to hit, we're going to touch on feminism, man versus bear.

06:08:28.540 And I think, probably, we're going to talk about other things.

06:08:36.040 Anyways, so, what were we talking about?

06:08:41.200 We're talking about blood.

06:08:42.300 The dude?

06:08:42.860 Yeah.

06:08:43.640 The dude?

06:08:44.300 Yeah.

06:08:44.880 Yeah, so.

06:08:46.480 He has, like, a history of these girls.

06:08:49.580 Uh-huh.

06:08:50.140 Oh, I know that.

06:08:51.500 Okay.

06:08:51.780 I wanted to ask the chat.

06:08:54.620 Yo, chat.

06:08:55.900 Yo, Louis.

06:08:56.480 Thanks for the Gifted Five memberships.

06:08:57.620 Do you guys think in the chat that it is, if a girl previously dated a dude like that,

06:09:06.440 is that a red flag on the girl? 0.64

06:09:09.300 Like, if she dated that dude.

06:09:11.480 Like, that dude or any red flag type of dude.

06:09:14.320 Dated or just not on a date.

06:09:15.740 Like, because I was thinking about this with the body count conversation.

06:09:19.140 Like, how guys don't like girls with high body counts, right?

06:09:21.720 And I was thinking, like, well, what if she has, like, a higher body count, but, like,

06:09:27.020 the guys are relatively respectable dudes. 0.99

06:09:31.120 But then she, like, fucked one dude, but that dude is, like, your fucking sworn enemy piece 1.00

06:09:37.240 of shit, like, just scumbag ratty motherfucker. 1.00

06:09:40.540 And I was thinking, like, I would kind of rather a chick have sex with, like, three wholesome, 1.00

06:09:48.920 good, like, virgin dudes than some, like, total fuck boy, piece of shit, fucking face-tatted 1.00

06:09:55.180 motherfucker with, like, fucking SoundCloud-ass rapper motherfucking-having scumbag bitch-ass 1.00

06:10:01.620 having motherfucking... 1.00

06:10:02.540 You know what I mean? 0.99

06:10:03.500 Sorry, I'm, like, foaming at the mouth a bit.

06:10:06.500 Do you know what, like, do you know what I was like?

06:10:09.360 Yeah. 0.99

06:10:09.600 I would rather her have a higher body count, but she fucked with good dudes than, like, 1.00

06:10:14.100 she fucked one dude who's, like, scum of the fucking earth. 1.00

06:10:18.820 Who he fucked a bunch of chicks. 1.00

06:10:20.560 You know what I mean? 1.00

06:10:21.300 Yeah.

06:10:22.040 I think they're both not good.

06:10:24.220 You know what I mean?

06:10:25.620 But, uh, you know what I mean?

06:10:29.100 Would you find it kind of nice, though, that, like, you're the first good guy?

06:10:32.540 She's the first good guy she's with.

06:10:34.300 Oh, that's a bad spot to be.

06:10:36.840 Is it?

06:10:37.240 I'm the first one.

06:10:38.140 I'm, like, she's gonna be bored.

06:10:41.860 She's gonna be bored. 0.98

06:10:42.280 No, it's, like, she finally got treated right by someone, and she holds you in really high

06:10:46.700 regards because you're the first good guy that it's been in her life.

06:10:51.560 I do think that, I don't know.

06:10:53.180 Don't you have, like, a praise kink? 0.87

06:10:55.960 Nope. 1.00

06:10:56.560 What the fuck? 1.00

06:10:57.260 You said that before. 1.00

06:10:58.660 A what kink? 0.97

06:10:59.620 Wait, what was that?

06:11:00.220 What does that have to do?

06:11:01.520 Like, she's like, oh my gosh, you're the first good guy.

06:11:04.300 Oh, I don't have a praise kink in my direction.

06:11:07.220 I have a praise kink in her direction. 0.91

06:11:10.160 If that makes any sense.

06:11:11.040 Oh, you like to praise her?

06:11:11.940 Yeah.

06:11:12.300 Oh, okay.

06:11:13.020 Never mind.

06:11:13.540 I thought it was the other way around. 0.99

06:11:14.580 Like, that's the opposite of, like, the degradation shit. 0.99

06:11:16.980 Like, I'm not into that. 0.99

06:11:17.540 Oh, yeah, yeah.

06:11:17.980 Never mind.

06:11:18.940 Then.

06:11:19.280 No offense, Lizzie.

06:11:23.060 This girl, she told me a story.

06:11:24.700 No, I'm kidding.

06:11:25.620 I'm kidding.

06:11:26.320 But I do think, though, the whole body count discourse, even if the body count's one, but 1.00

06:11:34.220 the guy's a total fucking scumbag, that's bad, too. 1.00

06:11:38.220 You know what I mean? 1.00

06:11:39.300 So you'd prefer the good guy scenario?

06:11:42.560 Like, I'd rather have a body count of three, but they were good dudes, than her have a body 1.00

06:11:46.900 count of one, but he was a massive fucking scumbag. 1.00

06:11:49.280 But was he good and then turned into a massive fuckboy? 1.00

06:11:52.640 I mean, whatever, scum, or was he, like, scum to begin with? 1.00

06:11:57.700 Always scum. 1.00

06:11:58.660 Always scum, I get it, I think. 1.00

06:12:01.180 Wait, so, chat. 1.00

06:12:02.280 Chat.

06:12:03.240 I'm asking the chat here.

06:12:04.600 Would you prefer a girl who has a body count of three, but they were, like, good dudes, 1.00

06:12:09.900 or a body count of one, but the dude was a massive fucking rat, piece of shit, motherfucking 1.00

06:12:17.320 bothersome, piece of scumbag, asshole, fucking cocksucker, motherfucker. 1.00

06:12:21.440 I kind of think guys would prefer that, though. 1.00

06:12:23.880 Which do you prefer, the three body count or the one body count?

06:12:26.980 Everybody's saying a one.

06:12:28.320 It's actually kind of mixed so far.

06:12:30.880 I'm seeing some threes.

06:12:32.440 I'm seeing some ones.

06:12:35.360 And you've got to think, okay, I'll ask this follow-up question after this.

06:12:39.900 Okay. 0.99

06:12:41.120 Damn. 1.00

06:12:43.080 It's mixed, bruv. 1.00

06:12:44.480 Somebody said two.

06:12:45.660 It's mixed.

06:12:45.980 I got to choose one one.

06:12:47.340 Now, here's the follow-up question.

06:12:49.640 The girl has a body count of three, but they were good dudes who were virgins. 1.00

06:13:00.460 So she took their virginity from three dudes. 0.99

06:13:02.900 Or she has a body count of one, but the dude she fucked has a body count of, like, 500. 1.00

06:13:08.740 What if the dude took her virginity? 0.99

06:13:12.540 So, chat, the body count of three, all virgins, or body count of one, but the dude had a body,

06:13:19.360 his body count was 500.

06:13:21.460 Wait.

06:13:22.180 Which do you pick, boys?

06:13:24.220 Some saying three.

06:13:26.000 The first person said still one.

06:13:28.200 The first person said still one.

06:13:34.640 I think I've got to take the three, bro. 0.98

06:13:36.480 So she lost her virginity to this demon dude?

06:13:39.140 In that case, the three, but... 0.95

06:13:41.020 Wait, what? 0.99

06:13:41.540 So she basically lost her virginity to this demon dude. 1.00

06:13:44.300 Yeah, to the rat motherfucker. 1.00

06:13:46.840 Yeah. 1.00

06:13:47.280 So there's that dude, or she took three dudes' virginity. 1.00

06:13:54.560 And they were, like, good dudes.

06:13:56.200 In this scenario, both...

06:14:00.280 Why would it be a lack of character?

06:14:01.880 Like, okay, so, yeah, let's say she took three dudes' virginities. 1.00

06:14:04.740 Wouldn't that make her, like, the piece of shit? 1.00

06:14:07.920 The predator? 1.00

06:14:08.220 Not necessarily.

06:14:09.200 The predator, and then, like...

06:14:10.460 What would they make her? 0.66

06:14:11.580 She just likes virgins? 1.00

06:14:12.900 Yeah, like, she just likes virgins. 1.00

06:14:14.340 Like, she's just out here to, like...

06:14:15.700 What if, like, he just so happened to be a virgin?

06:14:17.980 It's a tough one.

06:14:19.040 It's a tough one, yeah.

06:14:19.580 But then you go to the number one, and maybe he manipulated her,

06:14:22.620 and she was, like, innocent, but, like, wanted to try the bad boy, you know?

06:14:25.880 That's fair.

06:14:26.860 I think the other one's a more predator to me.

06:14:30.860 If you're doing the three-guy one, like, she obviously had, like, a motive.

06:14:35.680 But then the one, it's like, oh, my first guy who's giving me attention.

06:14:40.820 It's just a thought that crossed my mind on the body count discourse.

06:14:44.760 Anyways, back to you.

06:14:46.860 You had, is it bad to be friends with your ex if you were together almost four years ago,

06:14:51.180 and you both have no feelings towards each other?

06:14:52.960 Yes.

06:14:53.540 Yes.

06:14:54.220 It's bad to still be friends with your ex.

06:14:55.660 Get this girl some contact lenses, huh? 1.00

06:14:58.260 Yeah, yeah, it is.

06:14:59.040 Yeah.

06:14:59.300 I have to.

06:14:59.960 For sure.

06:15:01.020 Bad to be friends.

06:15:01.960 Are you friends with your ex from four years ago?

06:15:04.740 I am.

06:15:05.960 Red flag.

06:15:06.580 Girl.

06:15:06.900 Red flag, J-J-J-J-Nay-Nay-Nay. 1.00

06:15:11.340 Even if he verbally tells me that he's into other girls?

06:15:15.860 Sorry, wait, hold on.

06:15:16.740 I choose to blank to, bro, to midget blank in a red ant's nest than either of the options.

06:15:24.760 Whoa. 1.00

06:15:26.580 To, in a red, first off, don't knock midget porn, you fucking asshole. 1.00

06:15:31.860 I, I, solidarity with short, short women, okay? 1.00

06:15:35.380 How dare you talk shit about the short ladies. 1.00

06:15:40.380 Any of y'all know dwarf? 1.00

06:15:41.540 I'm trying to, trying to get it in.

06:15:43.260 I'm trying to get it in with it.

06:15:44.460 You know dwarf? 0.93

06:15:45.940 What's up?

06:15:46.440 Female dwarf.

06:15:47.280 Her name's Autumn.

06:15:48.480 What's up, Autumn?

06:15:49.240 How you doing?

06:15:50.500 What's up?

06:15:53.020 She's very Christian. 0.99

06:15:56.480 Does she, uh, premarital sex? 0.99

06:15:58.840 Are you into dwarves? 0.99

06:16:03.500 I would, I would date a dwarf. 0.99

06:16:04.920 You really?

06:16:05.720 Just throwing them around.

06:16:06.200 I would date, I would date a dwarf. 1.00

06:16:08.160 Yeah.

06:16:09.580 Period.

06:16:10.480 I would, is, is that a, is that a quit?

06:16:12.220 Does that mean that they have the... 0.96

06:16:13.020 Does the labia match the sex? 0.97

06:16:14.400 Is it a quit? 0.98

06:16:14.980 Oh, it's a quit.

06:16:16.000 Yeah, does the labia match, like, what you're doing for?

06:16:18.140 Yeah.

06:16:18.360 She says she's checking.

06:16:19.360 She says she's got to check on them.

06:16:20.700 No, I just have to move on.

06:16:22.880 That's like the first ever double rage quit.

06:16:26.000 Boom.

06:16:27.000 I'm going to have you, so go over there, Morgan. 1.00

06:16:29.660 Yeah, you'll move over there.

06:16:32.500 W's.

06:16:32.960 Oh, wait. 1.00

06:16:33.280 Oh, shit, bro. 1.00

06:16:34.240 I forgot the rule. 1.00

06:16:35.240 We were supposed to, yeah, you got to take the, I forgot.

06:16:37.840 I should have removed it.

06:16:38.880 Oh, well.

06:16:40.020 Okay.

06:16:40.380 What are you saying? 0.99

06:16:42.140 Oh, frick. 0.99

06:16:44.100 What do you think? 0.97

06:16:44.920 Oh, I should create something.

06:16:45.940 Did she already leave?

06:16:47.100 No, she's just going to be there first.

06:16:48.780 Bro, if they're leaving, they just got to be...

06:16:51.880 Out you go.

06:16:53.100 It's got to be like this, bro.

06:16:54.640 Out.

06:16:55.040 Where are you?

06:16:55.720 Out you go.

06:16:57.760 It's okay.

06:16:58.480 It's fine.

06:16:59.480 Anyways, where were we?

06:17:01.580 The dwarves.

06:17:02.020 The dwarves.

06:17:02.540 Dwarves, yeah.

06:17:03.200 Does the labia match?

06:17:04.900 Does it have to match, you know?

06:17:07.040 What?

06:17:07.520 The size.

06:17:08.400 The...

06:17:09.080 Is it over there?

06:17:10.040 Move over one.

06:17:10.760 I'm just saying.

06:17:13.220 Yeah, I guess.

06:17:14.380 I'm not sure.

06:17:15.460 Does it have to match?

06:17:16.420 I don't know.

06:17:17.040 You've got the most interesting taste.

06:17:18.540 What did you call it?

06:17:19.680 Ladar?

06:17:20.440 I have the ladar.

06:17:21.700 Ladar?

06:17:22.320 Yeah.

06:17:22.460 Wait, Brian, what is your type?

06:17:24.660 Okay, what is your type?

06:17:25.760 Let's get into it.

06:17:26.900 I'm glad that you asked.

06:17:28.420 Hold on.

06:17:29.220 I have it written down.

06:17:31.100 Oh, manifestation list. 1.00

06:17:32.020 Have this shit written down. 1.00

06:17:33.640 Okay, so any race... 1.00

06:17:36.640 I can't believe I have to repeat this every show.

06:17:39.040 Hey, let's get her moving out of here because there's too much talking back here. 1.00

06:17:42.400 Ulysses, the pagan donated $69.

06:17:44.900 I would applaud anyone that changed their promiscuous behavior, but their past has consequences.

06:17:51.100 It can be respected, but it's not unreasonable for me to exclude them from my dating pool. 0.73

06:17:57.240 Lussies. 1.00

06:17:58.260 Yo, pagan, man. 0.95

06:17:59.180 Thank you for the TTS.

06:18:00.160 Appreciate it, man.

06:18:01.060 You're asking what my type is?

06:18:02.640 Yeah.

06:18:02.900 Here, don't read it.

06:18:03.580 Let me just...

06:18:04.140 Oh, I can't even see your screen.

06:18:05.220 Oh, you can't?

06:18:05.820 It's the privacy block?

06:18:07.420 Yeah.

06:18:07.520 Okay.

06:18:07.540 Right.

06:18:08.360 All right.

06:18:08.920 Let's start with looks.

06:18:10.360 Okay.

06:18:11.320 All right.

06:18:11.580 You guys can chime in if any of you object to this.

06:18:13.720 All right.

06:18:14.260 Any race is fine, but slight preference for white women or Asian women. 0.95

06:18:18.780 But I've dated Latina, black, whatever. 0.89

06:18:23.080 Various crazy people donated $69. 0.93

06:18:26.240 Hey, I don't... 1.00

06:18:26.880 Large labia is like a vaginal meat sweater. 1.00

06:18:30.800 That's a good thing, though. 0.98

06:18:32.420 I like how...

06:18:33.260 That's actually kind of a good thing.

06:18:34.500 Good thing you're not vegetarian.

06:18:34.880 Thank you, bro.

06:18:35.840 Thank you.

06:18:36.140 I appreciate it.

06:18:36.960 Like the wizard cuffs.

06:18:38.800 Wizard cuffs?

06:18:39.680 Yo.

06:18:40.340 What was it?

06:18:40.680 Wizard sleeves?

06:18:41.500 Wizard wings.

06:18:42.080 Wizard sleeves.

06:18:42.460 Wizard sleeves.

06:18:43.140 Wizard sleeves, yeah, yeah.

06:18:44.480 I'm a fan.

06:18:44.960 You wore like a sleeve.

06:18:45.340 I'm a fan.

06:18:46.260 You know.

06:18:47.560 Let's see.

06:18:49.500 Prefer short women, but I'll date any height. 1.00

06:18:51.540 So she could be four, five, dwarf.

06:18:55.200 Or like a six foot, seven.

06:18:59.540 I don't even have a height limit.

06:19:01.800 I'll date an eight foot chick. 1.00

06:19:03.980 That's right.

06:19:05.480 Unless it's like the...

06:19:08.000 I would do it, but...

06:19:13.000 You wouldn't stay.

06:19:14.740 I would do it.

06:19:15.620 No.

06:19:16.620 Wait, like someone that's super tall.

06:19:17.320 You would just try it, I feel. 0.99

06:19:18.520 But I feel like once you get into that height, don't you have like health problems and shit? 0.96

06:19:22.560 Yeah, but I don't even have the positioning. 0.95

06:19:24.240 Like what?

06:19:24.740 I can make it work.

06:19:25.640 Don't you worry.

06:19:26.840 I got it.

06:19:27.300 I got it under wrap.

06:19:28.060 Ryan's going up on them. 1.00

06:19:29.500 What the fuck? 1.00

06:19:30.520 First off. 1.00

06:19:31.200 Oh.

06:19:34.060 What was that joke from the...

06:19:36.200 What's it called?

06:19:36.880 The Roast of...

06:19:40.880 Who's the most recent guy who got roasted?

06:19:43.180 Tom Brady.

06:19:43.500 Oh, Tom Brady.

06:19:44.380 Yeah.

06:19:45.760 Oh, hell no.

06:19:47.600 Oh, hell yeah.

06:19:48.360 Anybody?

06:19:48.780 Anybody?

06:19:49.300 Okay.

06:19:49.540 I forget what it was.

06:19:50.360 Nobody remembers.

06:19:51.700 Oh, Natural Body Supremacist.

06:19:53.380 We already talked about that, but prefer... 0.99

06:19:55.600 Obviously, like hygiene, grooming and shit's important, but strong preference. 0.99

06:19:59.220 No plastic surgery. 1.00

06:20:00.280 No fake tits. 1.00

06:20:00.860 No fake lips. 0.99

06:20:01.520 No BBL.

06:20:02.060 No lipo.

06:20:02.520 No labiaplasty.

06:20:04.780 Let's see.

06:20:05.780 Minimal.

06:20:06.280 No makeup.

06:20:06.880 But whatever.

06:20:08.840 Let's see. 0.81

06:20:13.900 Small boobs are elegant, you know? 1.00

06:20:16.740 They're elegant. 0.98

06:20:18.740 This pisses everyone off.

06:20:20.980 Okay. 0.99

06:20:21.520 Small boobs, right? 1.00

06:20:22.860 If you look at Greek statues, Roman statues, historical statues, these women didn't have fucking 1.00

06:20:29.940 can-crusher titties. 0.99

06:20:32.220 They had, like, modest, maybe a B-cup, max.

06:20:36.100 Just a handful.

06:20:36.740 They had a B-cup max.

06:20:38.500 So, what I like to say is, everyone's going to hate me, even the small titty.

06:20:43.820 People don't like me for this one. 0.97

06:20:44.880 I think, so, a woman who has big boobs can be sexy and hot and attractive, but I don't think 1.00

06:20:55.400 she can be beautiful. 0.92

06:20:58.020 That's going to trigger a lot of people.

06:20:59.520 No, because that's your opinion.

06:21:00.440 I only think, like, small titty chicks can be beautiful. 1.00

06:21:05.360 Don't get, you can be sexy as fuck hot with giant melon can-crusher titties for sure. 1.00

06:21:12.540 They're great. 1.00

06:21:13.940 They're great.

06:21:15.400 Just motorboat.

06:21:16.280 I'm kidding.

06:21:17.700 But, what I'm saying is, I don't think you can be beautiful.

06:21:21.980 I agree.

06:21:22.080 There's a difference in elegance.

06:21:23.340 It's elegant, bro.

06:21:24.580 There's a difference.

06:21:25.180 There's, like, certain things, like, that I would, even before I had my implants on, I

06:21:28.900 always had the bigger boobs, where, like, there's certain things that I can't wear, where

06:21:32.380 it's, like, the ones that have the slashes, it's, like, more elegant dresses.

06:21:36.400 It, like, looks different on them.

06:21:37.780 So, there is definitely a different beauty to it.

06:21:40.600 Let's see.

06:21:41.300 What else?

06:21:43.300 Wait. 0.77

06:21:43.780 Do you feel the same way about butts? 0.98

06:21:46.280 Like, if a girl has a huge butt, you think she can just be sexy, but if she has, like, 1.00

06:21:50.080 an average butt, it's, like... 0.99

06:21:52.160 I'm undecided on the butt thing. 0.90

06:21:54.920 But, actually, you know, like, for... 0.86

06:21:56.520 Like, a big butt's kind of nice to look at, but for, like, speed...

06:22:01.460 Speed? 0.87

06:22:02.240 It aids in speed.

06:22:03.140 For speed?

06:22:03.600 Speed.

06:22:04.320 For speed, it's, like, can sometimes get in the way.

06:22:06.860 No, no, no.

06:22:07.660 It can aid in speed.

06:22:09.080 In speed?

06:22:10.120 If you have...

06:22:10.600 Like, in a race?

06:22:11.220 Scenes of rhythm?

06:22:11.840 Wait.

06:22:12.200 What kind of...

06:22:12.600 What are you talking about?

06:22:13.540 What are you talking about?

06:22:14.600 Wait.

06:22:14.980 What type of speed?

06:22:15.600 Let's just move on.

06:22:16.560 Carry on.

06:22:17.080 What is...

06:22:17.680 Like, if the...

06:22:18.620 Look.

06:22:19.840 We're actually, like, racing. 1.00

06:22:21.180 Some big fucking thighs... 1.00

06:22:22.100 Never mind. 1.00

06:22:23.180 ...and some, like, big booty, it's, like, it can be nice to look at, but I feel like

06:22:29.980 when it comes down to it, when it comes down, like, it kind of makes it harder.

06:22:35.840 I don't know what you're talking about.

06:22:37.020 Like, it makes it harder.

06:22:39.640 Yeah, but it doesn't.

06:22:41.600 Are we really racing, or are we racing?

06:22:44.760 No, I'm saying, like, the...

06:22:47.180 Okay.

06:22:47.980 The...

06:22:48.600 Obscurity 89 donated $69.

06:22:53.420 I'd prefer option one.

06:22:55.580 My wife had three bad boys before me.

06:22:58.200 One banned from Cuba for our word.

06:23:00.660 One with a felony for throwing an ex down the stairs.

06:23:04.020 Now I'm married to her, and she thinks I'm sweet and a god.

06:23:07.900 That's what I'm saying.

06:23:08.640 Obscurity 89.

06:23:09.840 Period.

06:23:10.080 My wife had three bad boys before me and one banned from Cuba.

06:23:13.140 Okay.

06:23:14.620 Go you.

06:23:15.160 Cool.

06:23:15.520 Thank you.

06:23:15.840 Thank you, man.

06:23:17.080 Appreciate it.

06:23:18.160 What were we talking about?

06:23:19.740 Racing.

06:23:20.360 Speed.

06:23:20.700 Oh, like, okay.

06:23:21.600 So, I just think it makes it kind of harder.

06:23:27.300 Like, objectively, it's, like, the...

06:23:30.560 It's a little harder.

06:23:32.580 Big booty? 1.00

06:23:34.040 Like, big legs, big booty. 0.94

06:23:37.260 It makes it harder.

06:23:39.780 Well, the way you say harder.

06:23:41.500 It's harder.

06:23:42.160 I mean, I think what you're saying, but I don't know what you're saying.

06:23:45.440 It's just, like...

06:23:46.400 I know what you're saying.

06:23:47.600 Okay, so, like, continue your definition.

06:23:49.560 Go ahead, Lizzie.

06:23:50.160 What do you have?

06:23:50.740 No, no, no.

06:23:51.400 How do you feel?

06:23:51.420 Same thing.

06:23:52.160 I understand a little bit where he's coming from on, like, it could be harder because

06:23:56.580 the momentum is, like, dragging.

06:23:58.680 You know what I mean?

06:23:59.320 Like... 1.00

06:23:59.400 The fuck are you doing? 1.00

06:23:59.960 Are we running? 1.00

06:24:01.000 Am I even talking about the same thing?

06:24:03.360 I think everyone's confused.

06:24:05.380 Are we talking about sex or running? 0.82

06:24:06.980 Sex. 0.99

06:24:07.140 We're talking about sex. 0.98

06:24:07.640 Oh, my God. 0.89

06:24:08.380 Okay.

06:24:08.900 Fantastic.

06:24:09.960 I mean, the way he was talking about it, I thought we were running.

06:24:12.640 I feel like it's, like, it's just, like, a lodge.

06:24:15.900 It's, like, when...

06:24:16.740 Yeah, it's, like, an ocean.

06:24:18.060 Like, you know what I mean?

06:24:19.400 Like, it's hard to, like...

06:24:19.880 It reverberates.

06:24:20.920 Yes!

06:24:21.480 There's this reverber...

06:24:22.380 That helps with the momentum sometimes.

06:24:24.100 It's, like, this giant wave.

06:24:25.260 It's, like, a ten-foot wave.

06:24:26.420 Ron underscore Briggs donated $69.

06:24:29.820 Brian, sadly, most women you have on listen and take advice like Trump catches bullets,

06:24:35.380 barely nicks their ears.

06:24:37.300 How do we get women to admit they are not logical thinkers and to submit to pure logic? 1.00

06:24:43.880 That is a really good question.

06:24:46.020 If you...

06:24:46.360 I don't know the answer.

06:24:47.420 If you find out, tell me.

06:24:49.260 I will pay you a lot of money.

06:24:51.800 But, yeah, I don't know.

06:24:52.940 I'm not sure.

06:24:54.300 I'm not sure.

06:24:54.980 I'm not trying to really change y'all minds.

06:24:58.020 I'm trying to change their minds.

06:25:01.100 What's up, guys?

06:25:01.920 What's up?

06:25:03.660 What was I saying?

06:25:05.100 I feel like as long as you have the rhythm and you're all going with the same waves, it works.

06:25:08.700 Oh, yeah, she... 1.00

06:25:08.720 You got a really good point on that because, like, it...

06:25:12.200 Bro, I'm, like, if it...

06:25:14.280 Like, what's it called when a girl puts it back on a... 1.00

06:25:16.920 Yeah, yeah.

06:25:18.160 I'm, like, oh, bro, you might throw my back out, bro. 0.98

06:25:21.880 Bro, I might get a sprain or some shit. 0.99

06:25:24.020 I could get sprained. 0.99

06:25:25.080 I could get sprained.

06:25:25.660 I'm looking out for my health. 0.99

06:25:26.820 That's, like, where, like, the saying comes in where it's, like, no, that's, like, a lot of ass to handle. 0.98

06:25:32.120 You know what I mean? 0.99

06:25:32.560 That's how you get all of dat in dem jeans.

06:25:35.220 Dem jeans.

06:25:35.900 Dem jeans.

06:25:36.480 How you get all of dat.

06:25:38.660 It is true, though. 0.81

06:25:40.780 It is true.

06:25:42.200 Nice to look at.

06:25:44.060 Also, here, I'll just be...

06:25:45.200 I'll be more detailed.

06:25:46.220 Okay.

06:25:46.560 I'll just...

06:25:47.200 You guys, anybody...

06:25:48.220 Everybody okay with a little detail?

06:25:49.940 You okay?

06:25:50.400 You okay with some detail?

06:25:51.380 Yeah.

06:25:51.620 You guys want some detail?

06:25:52.900 Morgan?

06:25:53.300 I don't think you want it.

06:25:54.060 You know, it's like those people who are, like, so since you guys have been asking about my skin care routine, let me tell you about it.

06:25:59.060 He's like, since you guys keep asking.

06:26:01.080 So, okay, I'll just give you one scenario where it could present a potential issue, right?

06:26:08.080 If the girl's on top and she's just, boom, rocking, dies, rocking, booty rocking. 0.99

06:26:17.200 Dammit, let me... 1.00

06:26:18.240 Log Paladins donated $69. 0.99

06:26:20.920 Yo, thank you, man.

06:26:21.460 Appreciate it.

06:26:21.800 Missed the first part of the show.

06:26:23.360 Must have been a banger. 1.00

06:26:24.720 W Andrew for triggering them.

06:26:26.820 W Andrew.

06:26:27.000 Speaking about banger, small booties are better for us guys who are less than seven.

06:26:31.960 Let's you get it in deeper.

06:26:33.840 He just explained it in detail for you.

06:26:37.320 That could be...

06:26:38.240 It could be one of the reasons.

06:26:39.820 But, okay, so...

06:26:41.400 Oh, so, okay, if the girl's on top, right, and, like, if you're trying to, like... 0.96

06:26:48.060 Okay, she's on top and she's, like, laying down chest to chest, basically.

06:26:52.720 And you're trying to... 0.99

06:26:55.720 You're, like, trying to reach around and rub her clit. 1.00

06:27:00.140 If her leg's too thick, you can't... 1.00

06:27:03.280 It's, like, hard to...

06:27:04.360 It's hard to reach.

06:27:05.920 This is a lot of information.

06:27:07.960 I'm trying to...

06:27:08.760 I'm just saying, bro.

06:27:10.000 This is so crazy.

06:27:10.740 Wait, bud.

06:27:12.560 Intel Wilde donated $69.

06:27:16.080 Tobey Maguire got bit by a spider, but Brian, Andrew, and Trump must have been bit by a goat.

06:27:21.620 Thank you, Intel Wilde.

06:27:24.100 Dude, good to see you back in the chat, man.

06:27:25.420 It's been a while.

06:27:26.060 Intel Wilde, and also...

06:27:27.660 Who was the guy who sent in the last one?

06:27:29.600 It was Law Paladins.

06:27:31.320 This is for Law Paladins and Intel Wilde.

06:27:33.620 He's a brave and a decent man.

06:27:35.260 He's a pioneer.

06:27:36.440 Boom! 0.99

06:27:36.900 Such a good movie.

06:27:39.100 You go straight down.

06:27:40.960 I don't...

06:27:41.960 Okay, so continue your type.

06:27:43.320 No, that was it.

06:27:44.160 Oh, okay.

06:27:44.680 Continue your type, yes.

06:27:45.380 Yeah, yeah, of course, of course.

06:27:46.720 Yeah, but I'm just saying it, like, can complicate things a little bit.

06:27:50.440 Mm-hmm.

06:27:51.300 Mm-hmm.

06:27:52.140 I'm just saying, you know?

06:27:54.260 Oh, slight preference for dark hair, but, like, don't really care.

06:27:57.780 Blonde, whatever. 0.90

06:27:58.940 Brunette. 0.87

06:27:59.660 Redhead, I guess. 0.84

06:28:02.880 So you basically welcome all...

06:28:04.700 I wouldn't disqualify a girl if she had, like, red hair, you know? 1.00

06:28:09.080 But slight preference for dark hair.

06:28:12.320 Let's see.

06:28:12.940 We already talked about labia, so that's kind of out there in the...

06:28:18.600 Wait, if you're...

06:28:19.880 She has to have done three years of cello.

06:28:23.360 That's so specific.

06:28:24.040 That's so specific.

06:28:25.420 Yeah, I'll accept violin, viola...

06:28:29.580 Piano?

06:28:30.400 Why?

06:28:31.980 I can work with the piano.

06:28:33.840 You got some piano experience?

06:28:35.480 I know a little piano.

06:28:36.800 Oh, okay.

06:28:37.200 All right.

06:28:37.680 Okay.

06:28:38.680 I can fix her.

06:28:40.320 So...

06:28:40.920 You do fit the category pretty well.

06:28:42.920 Okay, no.

06:28:43.660 Let me see.

06:28:45.260 Did you say, okay, no?

06:28:47.840 I don't know how to play the cello, sorry.

06:28:49.840 Wait, you do know how to play the cello?

06:28:50.820 I don't.

06:28:51.380 Oh, shoot.

06:28:52.940 Yeah, but, you know, it's like...

06:28:54.900 Right?

06:28:55.460 You guys know what I'm talking about with the whole cello thing, right?

06:28:58.180 No.

06:28:58.700 Nope.

06:28:58.920 Morgan knows.

06:29:00.380 She has to be good hand coordination. 0.92

06:29:02.300 Yeah, that's what I was going to say.

06:29:03.220 Like, it probably has to do with something with...

06:29:05.400 Oh.

06:29:06.120 Hand coordination.

06:29:07.280 Okay.

06:29:07.600 Excellent.

06:29:10.000 I say that as a joke, though, because, like, we've had this conversation on the show before.

06:29:13.440 Like, you guys think, oh, because hand jobs.

06:29:15.620 But it's like, if, like, all that's on the table is a handy, I kind of don't want it.

06:29:23.820 Like, if a girl's like, well, I'll give you a hand job, I'd be like, excuse me. 1.00

06:29:28.940 I'll give you the hand job.

06:29:31.300 No, I'll just...

06:29:31.920 Well, I feel like, no, you guys, I mean, you don't...

06:29:33.720 Ah, I'm F.

06:29:35.200 Yeah.

06:29:35.540 Ah.

06:29:36.220 That's what I'm saying, Dan.

06:29:37.000 Ah, as if.

06:29:38.820 Ah, let's see.

06:29:39.580 What else?

06:29:40.380 Oh, no, chat.

06:29:40.960 Let me ask the chat.

06:29:43.280 Boys, if all that's on the table is a hand job, do you just turn it down? 0.99

06:29:53.120 I don't know if I just have dick discipline, but, like, I'd rather just not... 0.99

06:29:56.940 Like, can we not? 0.96

06:29:58.220 You know what I mean?

06:29:59.460 Oh, we haven't done the bow video.

06:30:01.180 Do you know what I mean, though, chat?

06:30:04.120 Nick?

06:30:04.800 Or, sorry, not Nick.

06:30:05.680 Chat?

06:30:05.900 Chat, would you turn down, do you turn down the handy?

06:30:11.860 They're saying yes.

06:30:13.780 I just turned down the handy.

06:30:15.840 I don't know.

06:30:17.520 Like, I don't think I've ever had, like, a good hand...

06:30:20.020 Sorry, ladies, but I've never... 0.90

06:30:21.560 And, like, what situation would a girl only give you a handy, though? 0.64

06:30:27.100 I know.

06:30:27.520 That's what I was thinking.

06:30:28.220 I don't know.

06:30:29.100 I was like, have you come across that?

06:30:31.060 Like, a girl... 1.00

06:30:31.780 She's like, oh, I'll just give you a hand job. 1.00

06:30:33.880 All I gotta offer is a handy.

06:30:35.460 Yeah.

06:30:35.960 That's it.

06:30:36.700 I think so.

06:30:37.680 It happened, like, once in college.

06:30:39.500 I don't know how it happened, but that's how it happened.

06:30:44.460 Just, yeah.

06:30:44.820 Crazy conversation.

06:30:46.260 I'm sorry.

06:30:47.220 Is it here?

06:30:47.800 You need earmuffs?

06:30:48.720 Should we give you earmuffs, you know?

06:30:50.700 Oh, let's see.

06:30:52.140 What else?

06:30:53.820 That was, like, mostly physical stuff.

06:30:58.120 Oh, also, I, like...

06:30:59.620 Actually, you know, I feel like...

06:31:01.860 I don't want to, like, say anything a bit vulgar, so I don't...

06:31:06.060 I won't say it, because I feel like...

06:31:07.500 Really?

06:31:07.940 I feel like you guys are a little too innocent for this, you know?

06:31:14.040 You guys just...

06:31:14.960 I want to protect your ears, so...

06:31:19.040 Okay.

06:31:20.520 Anyways, personality.

06:31:21.980 I should answer that.

06:31:24.020 Moderate preference for introverted women.

06:31:26.000 Quiet, calm, soft-spoken. 1.00

06:31:27.660 I have this shit written down, if it sounds like I'm reading from a list. 1.00

06:31:31.740 Little bit shy, a little bit nerdy. 1.00

06:31:34.860 Modesty.

06:31:35.520 Good.

06:31:36.940 Brings me peace.

06:31:37.940 Doesn't quarrel.

06:31:40.360 Let's see.

06:31:41.980 Doesn't party.

06:31:42.720 Doesn't drink.

06:31:43.260 Doesn't do drugs.

06:31:44.360 Doesn't go to bars or clubs.

06:31:45.580 See?

06:31:45.800 You got excluded.

06:31:46.980 Rip.

06:31:47.200 Sorry.

06:31:47.480 You're almost there.

06:31:47.920 Let's see.

06:31:52.480 Oh, undivided romantic and sexual attention.

06:31:55.020 The earlier, the better.

06:31:55.960 So, basically, what that means, once I step into your life, there can't be other dudes

06:32:03.020 in the picture.

06:32:04.040 Like, first date, you want a second date, it has to be a wrap with the other dudes.

06:32:08.540 And I'll extend the same.

06:32:09.860 Like, I'll extend the same.

06:32:12.320 Because I'm not, like, I don't want to be in this situation-ship for three months, you're

06:32:15.820 seeing other dudes, I'm seeing other chicks.

06:32:17.740 Like, if I like a girl, I like the girl, and I'm going to pursue that.

06:32:22.800 So, all these people, that's one of the big things, complaints from both men and women

06:32:27.580 in the current, like, dating landscape.

06:32:29.960 It's people just in these situation-ships for months on the end, nothing ever materializes.

06:32:36.100 But, like...

06:32:37.680 Is that them?

06:32:38.740 Possibly.

06:32:40.760 I don't know.

06:32:42.060 Probably.

06:32:42.420 Well, I feel like that's a thing, too.

06:32:43.720 Like, I've never been able to date multiple people at the same time.

06:32:47.880 It's like, if the first date doesn't go well, then that's done with.

06:32:51.700 But I'm kind of, like, that tunnel vision, too, where it's like, I just don't know how

06:32:56.420 people date multiple at the same time.

06:32:58.860 Like, I can't.

06:32:59.780 I don't know.

06:33:00.920 Well, for example, I mean, this is how strict I am with, like, if she's involved with other

06:33:06.600 dudes.

06:33:07.480 I remember one time, I was on a phone call with a girl, because I'll always, like, if

06:33:10.720 I meet a girl on a dating app, I'm not on dating apps anymore, but if I meet a girl

06:33:14.700 on a dating app, or when I was on them, I'd always do a phone call first.

06:33:19.680 I think, is that kind of normal?

06:33:21.100 I like to do FaceTime, make sure that your pictures match what you're saying.

06:33:25.160 So, I do a phone call, and I had this girl say, on the phone call, she was like, oh, hey,

06:33:30.960 I got to go, because I'm going on a date with another dude.

06:33:34.700 And, like, even that, even though I've never met her, that's a deal breaker for me.

06:33:38.880 Warlord 69, you who donated $69.

06:33:43.180 Maddie, button to accept what Brian tells you what a woman is. 0.99

06:33:47.300 Or button B, accept what blue dress tells you what a woman is. 1.00

06:33:51.100 The choice is yours.

06:33:52.720 Like, the definition of a woman, I feel like they would have the both, the same definition,

06:33:56.780 so.

06:33:57.080 Yeah.

06:33:58.080 Right.

06:33:58.440 Pick a button.

06:34:00.240 A.

06:34:01.240 No, pick the other button.

06:34:03.520 B.

06:34:05.380 What?

06:34:05.800 What is a woman? 1.00

06:34:07.120 For you.

06:34:07.460 Oh, what is a woman? 1.00

06:34:08.260 Excuse me.

06:34:08.540 Excuse me.

06:34:09.380 A woman is somebody who can carry life and give birth. 1.00

06:34:14.840 Okay.

06:34:15.440 That was good.

06:34:16.540 That was good.

06:34:17.400 Wait, so back to this.

06:34:19.320 Well, it was, oh, undivided romantic and sexual attention.

06:34:22.980 So, yeah, I mean, if I'm interested.

06:34:26.460 She called you and told you she was going on a date with another guy? 0.69

06:34:29.220 Well, yeah, we were on the phone.

06:34:32.060 We'd match.

06:34:32.620 We were going to plan a date or something.

06:34:34.640 I was like, hey, let's hop on a call.

06:34:35.860 I'll talk to her.

06:34:36.940 Going well.

06:34:37.560 And she tells me, oh, hey, I have to run into dinner because I have a date.

06:34:42.960 I just lost interest right away.

06:34:44.420 She could have said, like, we're going to dinner.

06:34:45.820 Something else.

06:34:46.400 I feel like even if I did have that, too, I wouldn't tell the guy because I'm like, hold on.

06:34:50.500 I don't know how this.

06:34:50.620 I guess it's better that she told you.

06:34:52.080 The honesty, but still, we're honest.

06:34:54.220 Now, that's, I mean, but so if I go on a first date with a girl and she wants to go on a second date with me, 0.71

06:35:00.300 it has to be a wrap for all the other dudes that she's talking to if she wants a second date. 0.99

06:35:05.820 I get it on a first date, whatever. 0.98

06:35:08.720 You're maybe going on other dates and shit. 0.80

06:35:10.820 But if you want a second date, it has to be a wrap with other dudes. 0.81

06:35:15.840 Is that something that you disclose to her or you expect of her?

06:35:20.900 Or, like, is that something normally, like, on the first date?

06:35:25.860 I'll tell a girl.

06:35:26.480 I'll tell a girl.

06:35:27.680 Yeah.

06:35:28.180 I'll even tell a girl before I first meet up with her. 0.99

06:35:30.040 I'm like, look, I'm not interested in, like, some casual shit where you're fucking other dudes. 1.00

06:35:33.920 I'm fucking other girls. 0.99

06:35:35.260 This is what I'm looking for. 1.00

06:35:36.700 You can get with the program or you can back to the streets you go.

06:35:40.120 Go off, queen. 1.00

06:35:40.960 I feel like when you have your intentions set, then, like, either they like it or they don't.

06:35:47.000 It's like, yeah, you're honest about what you want.

06:35:48.940 And it's your dating with the intention.

06:35:52.340 So you're not just dating to just hook up or have situationships.

06:35:55.060 So that's, I would respect that.

06:35:56.540 I'd be like, okay, cool.

06:35:57.260 Did you make that a rule because, like, that's happened multiple times?

06:36:01.660 Or it was just, like, something you thought on the top of your head?

06:36:05.200 Well, I just don't want to be involved with a girl who's romantically or sexually involved with another man. 1.00

06:36:09.780 So, like, I don't want to hook up with – I don't – I wouldn't even – even if I was inclined to just – even if I was just inclined to have a one-night stand, I wouldn't even want to do it with a woman who's sexually involved with another man.

06:36:24.100 Yeah.

06:36:25.140 Like, that's just kind of gross.

06:36:26.360 I feel like women have – when they're sexually, it's like you're emotionally involved. 0.99

06:36:29.880 So there's definitely a tie there because I don't believe that women can just have sex, to have sex, casual sex. 0.99

06:36:35.340 Eh, they can do it. 0.99

06:36:36.120 I mean, they do it.

06:36:38.960 I mean, yeah.

06:36:39.600 I don't understand it, I guess, personally.

06:36:42.340 That's just never been my thing.

06:36:43.580 I've never been a hookup type of person.

06:36:45.420 But, yeah, I mean, I would agree with you, too. 0.97

06:36:49.740 The ones that do are, like, a little mentally challenged.

06:36:51.860 Yeah.

06:36:52.380 Mentally challenged.

06:36:54.160 But I think that, at least for me, since I know what I'm looking for –

06:36:58.880 Joe Murphy donated $69.

06:37:02.260 Brian, lay off of the edibles and the drinks, brother.

06:37:06.840 Just tell the ladies that being 30 pounds overweight is unattractive. 1.00

06:37:11.440 Ladies don't get fat. 1.00

06:37:13.300 This applies to men as well.

06:37:16.040 That's true.

06:37:16.480 I've got to lose some weight, bro.

06:37:17.320 I've got 30 pounds to lose.

06:37:19.620 At least.

06:37:20.600 At least.

06:37:21.040 I've got a dad, Bob, bro.

06:37:21.780 I've got a stressful job.

06:37:23.840 I've been stress eating.

06:37:24.920 It's crazy.

06:37:25.680 But I'm working on the diet.

06:37:26.960 It's under control, boys.

06:37:28.460 Right?

06:37:28.920 I got chunky since the last time you were on, right?

06:37:30.700 Me, too.

06:37:31.480 Right?

06:37:31.780 Wait, what?

06:37:32.180 What?

06:37:32.400 Never mind.

06:37:33.000 You got drunk when I was on the last time?

06:37:34.720 He said, I got chunky since the last time you were on.

06:37:38.220 I was like, you were drinking during that interview?

06:37:41.040 No, I don't drink.

06:37:43.640 But what was I saying?

06:37:45.520 Oh, yeah.

06:37:46.520 So just because I know exactly what I'm looking for, I definitely think that – because I 0.98

06:37:53.420 have no interest in just, like, fucking a girl once and never talking to her again. 0.97

06:37:57.200 If I sleep with a girl, I want there to be continuity. 0.99

06:37:59.740 I'm going to continue seeing her.

06:38:02.360 So, yeah, just to me, it's – I don't know.

06:38:06.520 That's good.

06:38:07.320 It only really never works that way.

06:38:09.860 So you've got to be in front.

06:38:11.660 But, I mean, I think that's my – at least prescriptive advice to other men.

06:38:15.940 If you – at least if you know what you want and you want a relationship, you want something

06:38:20.380 long-term with a girl, you've got to make sure she's on the same page with you.

06:38:25.800 Like, you've got to – because the way a lot of people move, both men and women, but

06:38:29.960 I can only speak from the male experience here, a lot of people be dating multiple people,

06:38:34.540 sleeping with multiple people.

06:38:36.480 And, like, for me, that's unacceptable. 0.99

06:38:38.880 If a girl's fucking another guy and she's trying to mess with me, I'm not interested. 1.00

06:38:42.940 I don't care how fucking hot she is. 1.00

06:38:44.880 I don't – like, it's such a turnoff to be dealing with a chick that's fucking somebody 1.00

06:38:49.160 else, so it's got to be a wrap with her. 0.99

06:38:51.260 I don't care how hot she is, how cool she is, how attractive she is. 1.00

06:38:54.820 If there's another dude in the picture in some way, romance – certainly sexual, that's

06:38:59.660 immediate deal breaker.

06:39:02.400 But, yeah, my advice to dudes, to guys are your standard should be to – anywhere from

06:39:10.160 sleeping with a girl to being in a relationship with a girl.

06:39:13.140 Clearly, there cannot be other dudes in the picture.

06:39:16.520 So –

06:39:16.680 No, I agree with you.

06:39:17.380 I think even my last relationship, how I set the boundary where it was, like, where

06:39:22.440 I had just started talking.

06:39:23.800 I said, listen, the moment we get intimate, like, it's game over.

06:39:27.700 Like, it's a wrap.

06:39:28.760 I don't want you talking to anyone.

06:39:29.960 And I know – I think he had a couple of dates lined up after our date, which he ended

06:39:34.400 up canceling it because I'm like, no, this is not what I thought.

06:39:36.700 It's fine.

06:39:37.380 I just know my worth.

06:39:38.580 Like, I don't share.

06:39:39.880 I don't like that.

06:39:41.300 Either you want it or you don't.

06:39:42.580 That's just who I am.

06:39:43.360 Yeah, and I guess to just add on to my point, a lot of these dudes – I've heard these

06:39:48.220 dudes say recreational use only. 0.98

06:39:50.640 Like, oh, okay, if she's kind of, like, slutty, then just sleep with her. 1.00

06:39:53.920 Or, like, bro, even – like, there's no realm if she – there's no realm, even if you're 1.00

06:40:00.740 inclined to have casual sex, should you sleep with a girl who's fucking other men? 1.00

06:40:07.000 100%. 1.00

06:40:07.960 So this recreational use thing is, like, being a cuck with extra steps.

06:40:13.240 Like, you should not desire to sleep with – like, recreational use only.

06:40:18.020 No, she's – it's nothing.

06:40:20.180 She gets nothing from you.

06:40:22.060 She doesn't get your sexual energy. 1.00

06:40:23.600 She doesn't get anything.

06:40:25.060 It has to be a wrap if she's sexually involved with another dude. 1.00

06:40:29.480 And I don't like the term recreational use only.

06:40:31.880 That's what other people use.

06:40:32.840 I've never heard of it until right now.

06:40:34.240 Recreational use only. 0.86

06:40:35.180 Basically just for sex.

06:40:36.980 I don't like that terminology, but it's got to be a wrap.

06:40:40.100 I learned three or four from this podcast.

06:40:42.200 Boom.

06:40:42.480 Like, what do they keep saying?

06:40:43.680 What do they look up the terminology to understand the podcast?

06:40:48.460 Let's see.

06:40:49.260 And then I'm trying to think if there's anything else.

06:40:51.800 Oh, the bow.

06:40:52.960 The bow.

06:40:53.480 Peace is big.

06:40:55.440 But you can't have a quarrelsome.

06:41:00.080 Go ahead, Nick.

06:41:00.840 Go ahead, play.

06:41:01.300 She's got a bow. 1.00

06:41:02.320 Huge.

06:41:05.360 Boom.

06:41:06.240 Huge bow.

06:41:07.120 Look at this.

06:41:07.940 She got my shoes.

06:41:10.380 Love you.

06:41:10.820 I just kicks it at her. 1.00

06:41:12.900 The bed's not made that nice.

06:41:14.600 Laundry.

06:41:15.220 Ready to go.

06:41:16.060 Yeah, that's definitely a, you know, stern talking to.

06:41:19.800 For the not made.

06:41:21.040 Actually, I don't care about the bed.

06:41:22.200 You know.

06:41:22.400 Really?

06:41:22.700 I get home from a long day at the podcast studio.

06:41:25.540 She's got my dinner ready.

06:41:27.120 Food ready.

06:41:29.280 What's up with the uncut tomatoes, bro? 0.97

06:41:31.620 That's kind of ridiculous. 0.97

06:41:33.700 Oh, I know. 0.98

06:41:34.140 That was...

06:41:34.660 Next.

06:41:35.360 Or wait.

06:41:35.720 Sorry.

06:41:35.960 One more time. 1.00

06:41:36.740 Replay that shit. 1.00

06:41:37.480 Let's see the bow. 1.00

06:41:38.080 Just the bow.

06:41:40.420 Boom.

06:41:40.920 Boom.

06:41:41.320 Boom.

06:41:41.980 She's got a bow, bro.

06:41:43.280 I walked through the door.

06:41:45.520 I need a bow.

06:41:47.020 That's fun.

06:41:47.600 What do you guys think of that?

06:41:48.580 Starting with L-Dog over here.

06:41:51.280 I mean, if you're asking for it, then yeah, sure.

06:41:53.700 I don't mind.

06:41:54.360 You're down for the bow?

06:41:55.240 Yeah.

06:41:55.860 Okay.

06:41:56.080 I will.

06:41:58.100 You do the bow?

06:41:58.800 I will.

06:41:59.080 I will.

06:41:59.420 Law Paladins donated $69.

06:42:01.520 Law Paladins.

06:42:02.000 What's up, bro?

06:42:02.480 Q for Brixen.

06:42:03.560 What about an Eiffel Tower?

06:42:05.380 Not even for the memes.

06:42:07.360 Q for the panel ever had an Eiffel Tower? 0.99

06:42:10.380 What the fuck? 0.99

06:42:11.460 Wait. 1.00

06:42:11.960 Law Paladins.

06:42:12.720 I'm dedicated.

06:42:13.480 Every time you send in a TTS, this is your noise now.

06:42:20.180 Okay.

06:42:20.840 Q for Brian.

06:42:21.740 What about an Eiffel Tower?

06:42:22.540 Not even for the memes.

06:42:23.580 Wait.

06:42:23.820 What?

06:42:24.380 Like threesomes?

06:42:24.940 It's a...

06:42:26.940 You don't know what an Eiffel Tower is.

06:42:28.360 I know what it is.

06:42:29.380 It's like you're high-fiving the dude.

06:42:33.900 If you want to remember that.

06:42:35.200 Honestly, I'm not...

06:42:36.680 Even if I was inclined to...

06:42:38.240 Okay.

06:42:38.860 Hold on.

06:42:39.360 Here's my take on threesomes. 0.97

06:42:40.500 I'm only allowed to disappoint one woman at a time.

06:42:43.480 Okay?

06:42:44.260 So I can't be doing this threesome thing.

06:42:47.240 Like I can't...

06:42:47.900 You know, I can't do it.

06:42:49.900 But a threesome with another dude?

06:42:52.340 That's right.

06:42:52.700 Ugh.

06:42:54.060 Ugh.

06:42:54.460 I'm sorry.

06:42:56.460 Brother, what?

06:42:57.520 Ugh.

06:42:57.920 Brother, ugh.

06:42:58.920 You gotta add that to your thing.

06:43:00.660 Ugh.

06:43:01.220 It's like, yeah, brother, ugh.

06:43:03.440 Would you guys have a threesome going around that? 0.99

06:43:05.360 Or have you had a threesome?

06:43:06.760 Starting with our homegirl here.

06:43:08.380 No.

06:43:08.840 Jessica.

06:43:09.880 And Jessica, step on up. 1.00

06:43:12.360 No?

06:43:13.060 No.

06:43:13.760 That was funny.

06:43:16.160 That's it?

06:43:16.640 Okay.

06:43:17.020 Morgan?

06:43:17.760 No?

06:43:18.440 No.

06:43:19.200 No, I don't like to share.

06:43:20.580 No.

06:43:20.780 Me neither.

06:43:21.160 No.

06:43:22.200 No.

06:43:22.840 No.

06:43:23.700 That's disgusting.

06:43:24.840 Yeah.

06:43:25.000 I like question people who actually do do that.

06:43:29.400 Yeah.

06:43:30.020 So back to the bow?

06:43:31.040 Anyways.

06:43:31.560 Do I?

06:43:33.300 I guess I would do it.

06:43:35.340 I guess you're honest.

06:43:36.380 Like, no, no.

06:43:36.940 I would do, like, a two-girl.

06:43:38.360 I would do a two-girl threesome. 0.98

06:43:40.200 Obviously. 1.00

06:43:41.020 But she would have to arrange that shit. 1.00

06:43:43.800 Yeah. 1.00

06:43:44.180 She would have to arrange it.

06:43:45.180 Like, you wouldn't request it.

06:43:46.860 Or, like, go on.

06:43:47.740 You wouldn't just be like, let's do it.

06:43:50.440 It would have to, like, I wouldn't do the work to make it.

06:43:53.660 Like, it would have to just fall into my lap somehow.

06:43:56.820 Literally.

06:43:57.920 Like, if those two twins.

06:43:59.200 No, I'm just kidding.

06:44:00.040 Stayed here.

06:44:00.620 Okay.

06:44:00.960 Oh, my gosh.

06:44:02.680 Okay, wait.

06:44:03.520 About that, by the way.

06:44:05.120 Just, I mean, I know I blow up.

06:44:06.480 But it had nothing to do with their passion.

06:44:08.460 It was that they kept interrupting.

06:44:09.960 So it just extended the arguments for no apparent reason.

06:44:13.600 We're literally having the same argument over and over because she wasn't listening.

06:44:16.620 I love their passion.

06:44:17.880 I definitely love that they're passionate about what they were saying.

06:44:20.700 But it's just, like, learn to listen so we can have, wrap up an argument.

06:44:26.500 Oh, yeah.

06:44:27.820 Oh, yeah.

06:44:28.900 You like that, Tommy?

06:44:33.340 It's coming to midnight.

06:44:35.120 Wait, I got. 1.00

06:44:36.240 I'm going to pretend like you didn't just make my dick go soft. 1.00

06:44:41.340 Oh, man. 1.00

06:44:42.340 Okay.

06:44:43.860 Let's see.

06:44:44.540 What else?

06:44:47.100 You were talking about the bow.

06:44:48.240 I don't know.

06:44:48.680 I think that's it.

06:44:49.300 Oh, would you bow?

06:44:50.240 Were we going around on the bow?

06:44:52.220 Yeah, bow. 0.76

06:44:52.340 Did you?

06:44:52.860 I would bow.

06:44:53.340 She said, yeah.

06:44:53.960 I said, yeah.

06:44:54.580 I would bow.

06:44:55.280 I would bow.

06:44:55.780 You would do the bow?

06:44:56.260 Would you bow?

06:44:57.680 Back to you?

06:44:58.980 No.

06:45:00.740 No, that wasn't like, that wasn't like, it's not like, I would bow to other women. 1.00

06:45:05.560 It's just, you know what I mean?

06:45:07.160 No, if you were that woman, would you bow? 1.00

06:45:09.120 If I was, if I had a pussy, would I bow? 1.00

06:45:11.780 I'm asking you if you would bow. 1.00

06:45:13.600 If I was a chick?

06:45:15.080 I don't know.

06:45:15.840 I'm a dude.

06:45:16.360 If his chick asked him to bow, would he?

06:45:17.760 Yeah.

06:45:18.280 Bow back to her.

06:45:19.320 Yeah.

06:45:19.580 If your chick asked you to bow every time she came up. 0.93

06:45:23.000 No, but in a life or death situation, I would protect her.

06:45:26.980 All right.

06:45:29.080 I would, actually, no, I wouldn't though, because I wouldn't take the bullet, right?

06:45:32.540 Yeah.

06:45:34.180 No, I would protect her.

06:45:35.820 But you wouldn't take the bullet.

06:45:36.780 I would dispatch, I would have to pull out my self-defense mechanism and protect her with

06:45:45.140 it.

06:45:45.300 So you wouldn't bow.

06:45:46.880 Huh?

06:45:47.520 No, I don't think.

06:45:48.220 You're not protecting her.

06:45:49.080 Honestly, I like, if it was like a kind of like we were, I like to be silly with my girl. 0.93

06:45:55.080 Like, it's fun to be kind of like goofy, silly. 0.97

06:45:56.540 But honestly, if she was like, let me hit a bow, I'd probably fucking do it. 0.99

06:45:59.960 Just if it was like a silly context, but like a serious context, hell no, I'm not bowing. 0.99

06:46:06.000 Like just if we're goofing off or whatever, fuck, yeah, I'm not, I'm not tripping about 0.98

06:46:09.780 that. 0.99

06:46:10.520 Maddie, have you hit Frankie with a bow?

06:46:13.060 Yes.

06:46:14.120 Have you?

06:46:14.540 Yes.

06:46:14.960 Would you bow?

06:46:15.520 Would you bow to him?

06:46:16.360 Yeah, if it makes my man happy.

06:46:16.720 Morgan, would you hit a bow?

06:46:17.800 No.

06:46:18.380 Oh, Morgan.

06:46:18.960 Really, Morgan?

06:46:19.480 Okay, we'll fix it.

06:46:20.500 I thought you said yes.

06:46:20.880 No, I don't think so.

06:46:22.040 Have you, have you any dating prospects, Morgan?

06:46:24.380 What?

06:46:24.940 Any prospects?

06:46:25.720 I don't know.

06:46:26.240 I'm not looking for anybody like this.

06:46:27.500 Okay, all right.

06:46:28.220 She's focused on the soccer.

06:46:30.580 I would bow.

06:46:32.420 Based.

06:46:32.940 Okay, that's good.

06:46:35.040 What was I saying?

06:46:36.240 Okay, we were talking about the bowing thing.

06:46:39.560 Yeah.

06:46:41.220 Yeah.

06:46:42.560 Oh, okay.

06:46:47.740 Sorry, guys.

06:46:48.280 I was just looking at my notes here.

06:46:49.960 We're going to get through a rapid fire section here.

06:46:53.500 Do you want to get the tweet?

06:46:54.860 The tweet?

06:46:55.520 Was there a tweet?

06:46:56.320 There's a tweet video.

06:46:57.660 We'll have to save it.

06:46:58.980 We'll save it for next show.

06:47:00.760 We will save it for next show.

06:47:02.120 There's also a Bill Murray thing.

06:47:06.980 We'll probably get like copyright or whatever.

06:47:09.420 Okay, a couple things here.

06:47:10.720 I'm going to go through my rapid fire questions.

06:47:13.780 We got to do the bear question.

06:47:15.260 Nick, pull up the news article.

06:47:17.340 Wait, actually, I'll get the answers first.

06:47:19.840 Would you rather be alone in the forest with a random man or a random bear?

06:47:23.620 Man.

06:47:24.480 Man.

06:47:25.840 Oh, man, I guess.

06:47:28.300 Man.

06:47:29.060 Probably man.

06:47:30.440 Man.

06:47:30.840 I feel like you should have asked this before.

06:47:37.040 Earlier.

06:47:37.600 Yeah.

06:47:37.900 Those three probably would have said bear.

06:47:39.960 I feel like that would have been bear.

06:47:42.340 But what kind of bear?

06:47:44.680 Where does the bear come from?

06:47:46.720 How does the bear feel about me?

06:47:48.740 Is the vibrational frequency of the bear high?

06:47:51.960 I feel like I can talk to the bear. 1.00

06:47:53.600 Good shit. 1.00

06:47:56.240 Good shit. 1.00

06:47:58.300 Well, I feel like based off the bear thing, you guys aren't really going to give me. 0.98

06:48:02.140 I mean, we can give you different answers if you want.

06:48:03.780 No, well, don't give a fake answer.

06:48:04.940 I've actually seen a lot of videos lately about men posting videos about this topic.

06:48:09.760 And they're like, sometimes I do understand why women choose bear. 1.00

06:48:13.500 Because, like, I don't know, in the context, it was like, oh, like, I was in a club, like,

06:48:18.620 and some guys don't know how to take no for an answer.

06:48:21.160 I get why women choose the bear. 1.00

06:48:22.900 Well, I feel like in the bear, though, like, there's a thought that the man could kill me,

06:48:29.980 but I could run away from the bear.

06:48:31.740 I feel like I have, I can climb the tree and get away from the bear.

06:48:36.380 But the man would probably, I don't know.

06:48:38.360 The bear runs fast.

06:48:40.100 I know.

06:48:40.980 The bear gonna get you, girl.

06:48:42.380 But a man in the woods is kind of scary.

06:48:46.480 He's there for the same reason that you are there.

06:48:48.700 Just randomly got popped in the woods.

06:48:50.580 Yeah.

06:48:51.020 Wait, so, Janara, are you sure it's man?

06:48:54.480 Yeah.

06:48:57.160 I feel like this is a question where if, like, the first four people say man.

06:49:00.780 I should start just saying bear on the table.

06:49:04.200 I'm still kind of thinking about it.

06:49:05.720 Because the moment you said alone with a man in the thing, I was like, murder.

06:49:09.120 I feel like it's also just, like, the way we phrase it.

06:49:11.500 What was that?

06:49:11.760 Because I have that back.

06:49:12.480 So it's like, what was it?

06:49:13.980 It wasn't supposed to fall, so I didn't mean to, like, throw it at you.

06:49:16.560 Were you trying to scare me?

06:49:17.140 Were you trying to scare us?

06:49:19.880 With a fake spider?

06:49:21.060 You failed horribly.

06:49:22.340 Where'd you get that?

06:49:22.840 So the bit, the bit, I got this, uh, hold on, let me put it on.

06:49:26.780 On Amazon?

06:49:27.180 You chose the wrong girl.

06:49:27.920 Boys, I got this spider, and I thought, like, if, maybe I gotta do this differently, but

06:49:35.240 if a girl says bear, maybe I, like, one of you guys can just walk behind them and, like,

06:49:39.940 plop it on the table.

06:49:40.960 Oh, that'd be good.

06:49:41.540 That would be funny.

06:49:42.420 And then if they freak out over the spider.

06:49:45.540 It's just crazy, like, a fake spider.

06:49:48.240 The way, he just, like, aggressively checked it.

06:49:50.000 Maybe you need more.

06:49:51.020 I'm sorry.

06:49:51.440 The way he threw it, like, a ninja star, and it fell off.

06:49:55.320 It was supposed to, like, land right there, but I think maybe one of you, like, put some,

06:50:01.520 some, like, something on the table, and it just, like, slid right off.

06:50:05.280 Oh, yeah. 0.94

06:50:05.700 You should get one of those fake cockroaches. 1.00

06:50:07.260 Those are more fun.

06:50:07.780 The thing was, like, moonwalking.

06:50:08.800 Too fake.

06:50:09.320 The ones that you can remote control.

06:50:10.860 Oh, that's a fun.

06:50:11.980 That would be more realistic.

06:50:12.700 Fine, I'll just get a real spider.

06:50:14.460 That's fine.

06:50:15.040 I love spider ears.

06:50:15.320 I'm just gonna get a real tarantula.

06:50:17.180 That's why I chose man.

06:50:18.060 We are gonna, the whatever podcast, the whatever podcast is gonna adopt a tarantula.

06:50:25.020 I name it, Bob.

06:50:25.900 I wanna see it.

06:50:27.060 A snake or something.

06:50:28.260 And a snake.

06:50:29.120 I contacted snake guy recently.

06:50:31.480 Oh, okay.

06:50:32.100 Do you think girls are scared of snakes? 1.00

06:50:33.540 Yes.

06:50:33.700 If you get a snake or a spider, I would love to see it.

06:50:36.120 You come back?

06:50:37.040 I love spiders.

06:50:37.600 Can you bring, what's your friend's name?

06:50:39.280 Eunice, or whatever? 1.00

06:50:40.720 I saw you do a TikTok with her.

06:50:41.880 Oh, no.

06:50:43.360 She's not interesting. 0.99

06:50:44.140 She's not, she's not down.

06:50:45.800 No. 1.00

06:50:46.900 Damn. 1.00

06:50:47.580 Okay. 0.99

06:50:48.680 Okay, let's get through a couple more questions.

06:50:54.160 Lol Paladins donated $69.

06:50:57.640 Ladies, would you date a Trump supporter? 0.98

06:51:00.660 Trump 2024.

06:51:01.960 Okay, would you date a Trump supporter?

06:51:03.980 Yes.

06:51:05.140 I mean, it would depend, but I wouldn't just, like, discriminate.

06:51:08.020 Yes.

06:51:08.900 I am.

06:51:10.200 Yeah.

06:51:11.360 Are you?

06:51:12.460 Yes.

06:51:13.060 Yes.

06:51:13.740 Are you?

06:51:14.000 Yes, I would.

06:51:14.860 I'm not following the crowd.

06:51:16.200 I'm saying yes, because I feel yes.

06:51:18.120 No, but are you, like, more conservative or more liberal?

06:51:22.100 Honestly, I'm kind of independent.

06:51:24.140 I don't lean towards one way or another, so.

06:51:27.060 Okay.

06:51:27.480 No, either way, totally fine, but.

06:51:29.360 Yeah.

06:51:30.260 Yes, and I am.

06:51:31.540 Yes, and you are.

06:51:32.800 I don't think I could date someone with the opposite political, so yes.

06:51:36.140 Yes, I am.

06:51:39.400 How long have you been dating this new guy?

06:51:41.140 You said it was.

06:51:42.720 Recent?

06:51:43.380 Pretty recent.

06:51:44.200 Yeah, like.

06:51:45.080 But then you said you're moving.

06:51:46.540 A couple weeks.

06:51:47.600 Moving?

06:51:48.180 He's moving.

06:51:49.220 Oh, he's moving?

06:51:49.860 Oh, he's moving.

06:51:50.320 What's the story?

06:51:51.120 Well, no, this wouldn't be for, like, a year.

06:51:53.840 Oh.

06:51:55.380 Wait, you guys are long distance?

06:51:58.060 No.

06:51:58.420 Well, so he's in the military, and.

06:52:02.140 So he's deployed?

06:52:02.980 He's in Japan.

06:52:03.920 I leave to see him on Thursday.

06:52:05.520 Oh, fine.

06:52:06.860 Wait, but you said you've only been seeing him for a short period of time?

06:52:09.940 Yes, but we've been friends for a while.

06:52:11.920 Oh, you knew him before.

06:52:13.120 I knew him before.

06:52:14.080 That makes sense.

06:52:14.780 Yeah.

06:52:16.260 And he comes back in December.

06:52:19.960 Do you think he's living in Japan?

06:52:24.320 What?

06:52:25.180 You know what they say about military men?

06:52:27.440 Oh, my goodness.

06:52:29.160 It's probably an open door.

06:52:30.340 He's 100% not like that.

06:52:32.340 We met in church.

06:52:33.340 I'm very Christian.

06:52:34.260 He's very Christian.

06:52:35.200 That's good.

06:52:35.820 That's good.

06:52:36.420 He has a really, really big head on his shoulders.

06:52:39.700 He's a super loyal guy.

06:52:41.480 I trust him completely.

06:52:43.580 I love him.

06:52:44.060 And vice versa.

06:52:46.300 That's good.

06:52:46.600 So, yeah.

06:52:47.940 That's good.

06:52:47.960 I definitely hit the jackpot with him.

06:52:50.620 That's awesome.

06:52:51.480 Congrats.

06:52:52.700 All right.

06:52:53.600 Going back to Janara.

06:52:55.440 Did I say it right?

06:52:56.420 Yeah.

06:52:56.760 Okay.

06:52:58.100 Oh, you said you're single.

06:52:59.940 Have you had a rebound, though?

06:53:01.660 No.

06:53:01.900 Are you, like, currently dating anybody?

06:53:04.920 No.

06:53:05.420 No dudes in the picture?

06:53:06.780 No.

06:53:07.140 Dating apps?

06:53:07.900 No.

06:53:08.220 No dating apps?

06:53:08.840 None.

06:53:10.240 Okay.

06:53:10.720 I don't like dating apps.

06:53:11.700 I think they're weird.

06:53:13.260 Fair enough.

06:53:13.840 Fair enough.

06:53:14.660 I still want to know why I'm banned on Hinge.

06:53:17.280 What did you do or say anything?

06:53:18.860 Did you put your makeup OnlyFans in there?

06:53:21.020 No.

06:53:21.680 You linked to it?

06:53:22.720 No.

06:53:23.660 This is, like, but it's weird because after the ex and I broke up, I tried to go back

06:53:27.100 on the app, and it said, oh, well, if you want to, what is it, appeal, email us before

06:53:34.900 December 16th, 2021.

06:53:36.860 I'm, like, well, the time has kind of passed, but I have no idea why.

06:53:40.100 Maybe he secretly did something.

06:53:42.680 I know.

06:53:43.380 Pulled some strings.

06:53:44.860 Oh, this was the other thing.

06:53:45.940 Somebody sent me something.

06:53:47.660 So, what's that guy's name?

06:53:50.200 Sorry, I just slipped my mind.

06:53:51.380 The guy from 300?

06:53:53.740 Gerard Butler.

06:53:54.300 Gerard Butler.

06:53:55.140 Thank you.

06:53:55.480 Thank you.

06:53:56.320 So, apparently, we've been reacting to these recent age gap relationships.

06:54:00.140 Last week, we reacted to Tobey Maguire, 49, Spider-Man, dating a 20-year-old.

06:54:05.540 Anthony Kiedis in his 60s, dating a 20-year-old.

06:54:09.560 Gerard Butler is, Nick, if you can find something on this.

06:54:13.460 Hot.

06:54:14.020 Butler dating age gap.

06:54:15.860 How old is he?

06:54:16.900 Gerard Butler is.

06:54:19.540 56?

06:54:20.060 I've never seen it.

06:54:21.260 Wait, hold on.

06:54:22.420 Who's Gerard Butler? 0.96

06:54:23.760 Somebody sent me a story, but I can't, damn it, I can't find it. 0.63

06:54:27.760 Gerard Butler, girlfriend? 0.96

06:54:31.920 Oh, Gerard Butler, 54, finds love.

06:54:36.000 Nick, do you have the Daily Mail article?

06:54:38.820 I can link it to you.

06:54:43.040 Oh, they just broke up?

06:54:44.160 Okay, well, we'll find Rip.

06:54:48.820 Hold on.

06:54:50.280 Can you find the Daily Mail article?

06:54:51.820 Just Gerard Butler, girlfriend?

06:54:56.020 I think.

06:54:56.760 I think.

06:54:58.800 Did you have it?

06:55:04.800 Oh, my God. 1.00

06:55:08.240 The Daily Mail, you fuckers. 1.00

06:55:10.560 Oh, my gosh. 1.00

06:55:11.060 Okay.

06:55:12.360 Scroll up.

06:55:13.140 Make a big.

06:55:14.200 Make a big.

06:55:14.900 Gerard Butler, 54, finds love again with stunning model 25, years his junior.

06:55:20.560 Oh, okay.

06:55:20.960 So, wait.

06:55:21.200 25.

06:55:21.860 So, she's 20.

06:55:23.780 Wait.

06:55:24.740 Hold on.

06:55:26.940 You got it.

06:55:27.720 29.

06:55:28.780 Mm-hmm. 1.00

06:55:29.340 Fuck. 1.00

06:55:30.340 Wait. 1.00

06:55:31.820 29?

06:55:33.420 29?

06:55:34.180 Okay.

06:55:36.440 Are there photos?

06:55:37.600 Do they have photos?

06:55:39.740 There he is.

06:55:40.760 Look at that handsome guy.

06:55:41.880 Oh, my God.

06:55:44.640 This is Sparta!

06:55:48.440 He could do better.

06:55:49.320 She doesn't look good.

06:55:50.020 Yeah.

06:55:50.400 He could do better. 0.98

06:55:51.380 It was the boobs. 1.00

06:55:52.180 Okay. 0.98

06:55:52.940 He could do better.

06:55:53.580 She doesn't look that old, though.

06:55:55.720 I mean, she looks older.

06:55:56.860 Yeah.

06:55:57.220 That's what I meant.

06:55:57.560 She doesn't look that.

06:55:58.500 She looks older than 25. 0.83

06:55:59.400 So, just going around the table, would you do, like, an age gap relationship?

06:56:04.420 Starting over here.

06:56:07.200 As long as I'm...

06:56:07.840 Or, like, what's the oldest you would date?

06:56:09.220 I mean, I know you're married.

06:56:10.140 Huh?

06:56:10.240 You're married.

06:56:10.880 Yeah.

06:56:11.160 But I just couldn't go past my dad.

06:56:13.600 That would be weird.

06:56:14.600 And my dad's 20 years older than I am.

06:56:17.580 So...

06:56:17.740 What about you?

06:56:18.960 I don't think I could date anyone older than probably 30.

06:56:24.280 Okay.

06:56:24.520 Like, 33, 34.

06:56:26.280 Anything older than that.

06:56:27.400 I don't think...

06:56:28.000 Sure.

06:56:29.340 21, 22.

06:56:31.180 Okay.

06:56:32.220 I would do, like, 10 years.

06:56:33.560 So, like, 29.

06:56:34.660 Mm-hmm.

06:56:35.380 I mean, it's odd because they always end up being younger.

06:56:38.880 So...

06:56:39.120 You date...

06:56:39.400 You date... 0.66

06:56:40.020 You're like a cougar, then. 0.97

06:56:41.380 I am.

06:56:41.780 I've entered my cougar era.

06:56:43.640 Thank you.

06:56:44.460 You took some milf.

06:56:45.660 Well, you do look younger than...

06:56:46.980 Well, it's funny because I picked up this...

06:56:48.520 Well, I mean, I think I got picked up on at the urgent care for my dog.

06:56:52.640 27.

06:56:54.000 So, I didn't know he was 27.

06:56:55.780 So, that's a pretty big gap.

06:56:58.020 13 years.

06:56:59.020 Okay.

06:56:59.420 Oldest, 25.

06:57:02.960 What about you?

06:57:03.780 25 years.

06:57:04.820 No, 25.

06:57:05.640 I'm kidding.

06:57:06.480 Oh.

06:57:06.640 With the age.

06:57:08.460 Seven years.

06:57:10.320 I think it depends.

06:57:11.700 I mean, my husband's 11 years older than me, so I'm fine with age gaps.

06:57:15.120 But I think if somebody is like 30 years older or 20 years older and they're just like a slob and clearly look their age and this is like a hot young model that's clearly transactional, I mean, he's not bad looking. 1.00

06:57:29.460 So, I could see why that age gap was there.

06:57:32.120 I think it just depends.

06:57:33.880 Would you date Ryan Reynolds?

06:57:35.740 How old is he?

06:57:36.540 In a heartbeat.

06:57:37.100 47.

06:57:37.700 I know.

06:57:38.080 In a heartbeat.

06:57:39.120 He's my favorite.

06:57:40.820 Without having known his age, would you have dated him then?

06:57:43.720 He could pass for 30s.

06:57:45.940 Oh, I love him so much.

06:57:47.840 He's funny.

06:57:48.860 He's the funniest guy ever.

06:57:50.180 What's your favorite band?

06:57:51.400 My favorite band, the Bee Gees or Queen.

06:57:55.000 Interesting.

06:57:55.300 Would you date Freddie Mercury?

06:57:58.580 He is dead. 1.00

06:57:59.920 And gay. 1.00

06:58:00.500 And gay. 0.97

06:58:01.000 I was like, wait. 0.96

06:58:02.960 And gay. 0.81

06:58:03.980 Yeah. 0.99

06:58:04.700 Rip.

06:58:05.440 Sorry, Freddie Mercury from Beyond the Grave.

06:58:07.800 What a great movie.

06:58:08.380 I tried to set you up, bro.

06:58:09.920 Wait, great movie?

06:58:11.480 Oh, yeah.

06:58:11.860 The movie Bohemian Rhapsody.

06:58:13.720 It was okay.

06:58:14.480 So good.

06:58:14.960 It was okay.

06:58:16.540 I think he did a great job, yeah.

06:58:18.220 I think Sacha Baron Cohen should have, honestly.

06:58:20.920 Oh, I love him too.

06:58:22.200 He was originally cast.

06:58:24.100 Borat.

06:58:24.900 I didn't know.

06:58:25.180 Borat was originally cast as a.

06:58:28.640 Interesting.

06:58:29.460 As a.

06:58:30.780 That guy.

06:58:31.840 So.

06:58:32.460 We're going to lower the TTS boys to.

06:58:36.780 $29.99.

06:58:38.260 Uh-oh.

06:58:38.740 It should be there.

06:58:39.800 Let me just get everything switched over.

06:58:41.080 We're going to do a roast section.

06:58:42.280 We'll do the Bumble section. 0.75

06:58:43.600 We haven't done in a while.

06:58:45.140 And then we're going to wrap up.

06:58:47.120 So, Nick, if you can get Bumble running, where is.

06:58:52.460 Hold on one sec.

06:58:56.960 This girl needs snacks. 1.00

06:58:59.020 You know what you.

06:58:59.840 We all need snacks.

06:59:00.280 I know.

06:59:00.740 Feeding.

06:59:01.380 I keep thinking about that pizza.

06:59:03.280 In fact, girls, I'm sorry. 0.99

06:59:04.040 Come back for me.

06:59:04.740 Pizza.

06:59:05.020 Pizza.

06:59:05.100 All right.

06:59:07.680 We're going to do a Bumble segment.

06:59:09.160 You each get 20 swipes.

06:59:11.600 Many of the first age range.

06:59:13.040 Oh.

06:59:13.520 Age range for you?

06:59:15.220 What do you mean?

06:59:15.860 Age range?

06:59:16.780 Oh.

06:59:16.960 Of men like you would date.

06:59:18.820 Clearly, I haven't been on these apps.

06:59:21.860 I.

06:59:23.280 I'm 36.

06:59:24.240 I would not go below 40.

06:59:27.180 Like older.

06:59:27.780 So 40 and above?

06:59:28.960 Yeah, 40 to like 55-ish.

06:59:32.820 Mm-hmm.

06:59:33.220 I don't really have like a set age because it depends on the.

06:59:36.220 How they look and how they take care of themselves.

06:59:38.720 Word.

06:59:39.500 What?

06:59:40.280 Word.

06:59:40.860 But I'm not into younger guys.

06:59:42.820 Oh, no.

06:59:43.160 I'm not into them.

06:59:43.860 They just gravitate toward me.

06:59:46.220 So just say yes or no.

06:59:46.800 Okay, you get 20 swipes.

06:59:47.500 Yes or no?

06:59:49.540 No.

06:59:51.000 I'm probably going to say no to everyone.

06:59:54.120 He super swiped you.

06:59:55.420 No.

06:59:56.960 Nikki.

06:59:58.640 Am I supposed to say no to that?

07:00:02.100 No.

07:00:02.740 I was like, that's the photo?

07:00:04.520 No.

07:00:06.100 Really?

07:00:06.920 No.

07:00:08.000 You can have it.

07:00:09.160 Dax.

07:00:09.640 No.

07:00:10.120 What up?

07:00:11.640 No.

07:00:13.460 No.

07:00:13.920 Oh.

07:00:14.460 Oh, my God.

07:00:15.380 No.

07:00:16.500 Did you just set these up?

07:00:19.200 No, they're random.

07:00:20.020 Baptiste?

07:00:21.660 No.

07:00:23.860 No.

07:00:25.100 I want to see your profile picture, Nikki.

07:00:28.040 No.

07:00:29.560 I know.

07:00:31.300 Is that a...

07:00:32.700 No. 1.00

07:00:34.320 Damn, bro. 1.00

07:00:36.020 No. 1.00

07:00:36.880 What? 1.00

07:00:37.400 Damn. 1.00

07:00:38.420 No. 0.99

07:00:39.000 This is why I would never be able to do online dating, though.

07:00:41.760 You got beat close.

07:00:42.700 You're too far from the mic.

07:00:44.540 Oh.

07:00:45.660 No.

07:00:48.100 No.

07:00:50.520 That was funny?

07:00:51.540 Was that no for all of them?

07:00:52.960 Yeah.

07:00:54.180 Period.

07:00:55.340 Okay.

07:00:55.900 Let's do Morgan.

07:00:57.200 Let's get Morgan. 0.99

07:00:59.320 18.

07:01:00.400 1825?

07:01:01.460 We're going to see what Morgan's type is.

07:01:03.880 Guys.

07:01:05.340 Oh, God.

07:01:05.760 It's funny, because when I was 21, I used to think guys who were 25 were so old.

07:01:15.200 I'm like, oh, punch my old self.

07:01:17.640 Huh?

07:01:17.940 No.

07:01:19.480 Really?

07:01:19.860 No.

07:01:20.180 That baby.

07:01:21.780 That baby's...

07:01:22.580 No.

07:01:26.100 No.

07:01:28.020 Yeah.

07:01:30.300 No.

07:01:31.240 Is that a dude?

07:01:32.220 Is that a woman? 0.99

07:01:32.780 No.

07:01:33.360 That's a woman. 1.00

07:01:34.120 No.

07:01:37.280 No.

07:01:39.160 No.

07:01:41.320 No.

07:01:43.360 No.

07:01:43.880 No.

07:01:45.520 No.

07:01:47.720 No.

07:01:49.420 No.

07:01:51.420 No.

07:01:53.720 No.

07:01:56.080 I can't see a...

07:01:57.160 No.

07:02:00.000 Yeah.

07:02:02.080 No.

07:02:02.600 So, you like the lighter features.

07:02:05.960 Okay.

07:02:07.200 So, what about you?

07:02:09.560 I don't know.

07:02:09.980 I usually put like 35 to like 47.

07:02:14.340 It's a milf.

07:02:15.280 I want to see what's out there.

07:02:16.440 I want to see what's out there.

07:02:18.520 Lol Paladins donated $30.

07:02:21.280 You always ask these girls if they date an older man, but you never ask us men if we date

07:02:26.980 these strumpets.

07:02:28.400 The answer is no.

07:02:29.480 Also, Elden Ring new DLC has strumpet.

07:02:33.280 Look it up.

07:02:37.160 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

07:02:40.380 That was beautiful.

07:02:40.980 Thank you.

07:02:41.340 Thank you.

07:02:42.320 I think...

07:02:43.080 Are we ready to go for her?

07:02:44.900 Is this a strumpet?

07:02:46.120 No.

07:02:48.520 No.

07:02:51.540 Maybe, actually.

07:02:54.200 No.

07:02:54.600 Yes.

07:02:58.020 You look serious.

07:02:58.800 No.

07:03:00.720 No.

07:03:03.320 No.

07:03:05.200 I don't know what that is.

07:03:06.400 No.

07:03:08.000 No.

07:03:08.720 Gustavo.

07:03:09.960 Is that you?

07:03:12.400 Joe Murphy donated $69.

07:03:15.240 Yeah, thank you, Joe.

07:03:15.760 Ladies, if you think you're stastically safer with a bear, you're ideologically possessed

07:03:21.240 by postmodern feminism.

07:03:23.200 Who can specifically describe what feminism is? 1.00

07:03:26.620 Bonus points if you know for real.

07:03:28.480 Oh, I'm so sorry.

07:03:35.260 I'm so sorry.

07:03:35.940 Anybody? 0.99

07:03:37.580 Feminism is what's fucked their world up. 1.00

07:03:40.700 Go ahead. 1.00

07:03:41.360 This is your passion.

07:03:42.780 I'm not a feminist. 0.96

07:03:43.900 I'm not a feminist. 0.96

07:03:44.640 You're not a feminist. 1.00

07:03:45.440 No.

07:03:45.880 We're not feminists. 1.00

07:03:47.060 Oh, wait.

07:03:47.440 Actually, I have one last note for you before we get back into the dating app review.

07:03:51.040 I think originally when you reached out, we were trying to get a bunch of your girlfriends

07:03:56.520 on, but you said they all chickened out besides Sonia here, who's a legend. 0.95

07:04:01.940 Thank you very much.

07:04:02.540 One of them said...

07:04:03.540 Warlord 69, you woo donated $30.

07:04:06.600 Thank you, bro.

07:04:07.180 Brian, rate the panel on how long they survive in the woods alone.

07:04:10.800 I like this.

07:04:11.320 They have 100 days to survive.

07:04:13.740 Hmm.

07:04:15.100 I'll survive. 0.99

07:04:15.860 Damn, this is a tough one. 0.99

07:04:17.300 I wouldn't. 0.99

07:04:17.680 Feminism has lied to everyone donated $30. 1.00

07:04:21.840 The two in the corner who rage quit are the epitome of feminist indoctrination such that 1.00

07:04:26.880 they challenge anything that goes against their worldview and must be right with the last word in everything.

07:04:33.380 Yo, thank you, man.

07:04:35.880 Honestly, I don't think any of you would survive.

07:04:38.520 What was it?

07:04:39.200 30 days in the woods?

07:04:40.880 No, no, no.

07:04:41.440 How many days?

07:04:41.900 Oh, 100 days?

07:04:43.320 I'm sorry. 0.89

07:04:43.800 Y'all dead.

07:04:44.320 I'm sorry. 0.84

07:04:44.720 No, I'm like 100 days.

07:04:46.620 So, rate us how many days we would survive out of 100.

07:04:50.200 What's everybody's body fat percentage?

07:04:52.700 I think, like, seven.

07:04:54.600 Currently, I'd probably live the longest.

07:04:56.700 I think half of you would be able to find water.

07:05:02.980 There's also, like, the whole, you know, you need to start a fire, keep heat.

07:05:07.180 I could do that.

07:05:08.180 I'll grant you, fine.

07:05:09.340 It's summertime, so you won't die of, you know, exposure.

07:05:12.580 You don't die of heat.

07:05:13.480 I'd rather be in the cold.

07:05:14.380 But if you're in the woods, I mean, you have shade.

07:05:17.600 I know.

07:05:19.680 I could last.

07:05:20.520 I don't know.

07:05:20.920 I'd probably die really fast.

07:05:21.420 It depends on the body fat percentage.

07:05:22.920 What is that?

07:05:23.100 The naked and afraid?

07:05:24.160 As long as I got clothes on, I'll survive.

07:05:25.940 I would like that.

07:05:26.040 I'd survive.

07:05:27.680 I don't think so.

07:05:28.240 Until almost the end.

07:05:30.080 And then at, like, the last day.

07:05:30.960 99 is not mine.

07:05:32.160 How much can, like, a human survive just, like, no food, no water again?

07:05:36.280 Well, what is it?

07:05:37.140 Air is five minutes.

07:05:39.860 Without air.

07:05:40.420 No, it's 40 days.

07:05:42.220 You have air to lose.

07:05:43.760 You can't survive without air for, like, a minute.

07:05:47.260 Water?

07:05:47.720 No, yeah.

07:05:48.160 Water, 72 hours.

07:05:50.300 Food?

07:05:51.660 Food can go wild.

07:05:53.500 Food can go wild.

07:05:54.320 I feel like all of us would last at least a week.

07:05:57.100 Chat, how much, how long can you go without food?

07:06:01.300 Isn't it, like, two weeks?

07:06:02.340 Food is, like, food is.

07:06:04.260 Well, no, because people literally fast 40 days.

07:06:07.000 I don't know.

07:06:07.700 I just know I give that reserve.

07:06:09.120 It also, you have to be drinking, like, mineral water when you fast, too, right?

07:06:13.160 I give you guys, like, a Fortnite.

07:06:15.720 And that's, like, being charitable.

07:06:17.360 I feel like that's fair.

07:06:17.580 A what?

07:06:17.960 That's fair.

07:06:18.460 A Fortnite?

07:06:19.020 I feel like I could do.

07:06:20.220 You don't know what a Fortnite is?

07:06:22.460 It's okay.

07:06:24.180 It's like a game.

07:06:24.840 It's 14.

07:06:25.580 No, it's a game.

07:06:27.680 It's 14 days.

07:06:28.840 14 days?

07:06:29.480 Yeah, that's what I would say.

07:06:30.060 A Fortnite is 14 days.

07:06:31.340 Oh.

07:06:31.640 Most people, it's okay.

07:06:32.620 I'm not dunking on you because you don't know.

07:06:34.680 No, it's fine.

07:06:35.640 But I was saying I would give it two weeks, too.

07:06:38.600 Maddie doesn't know what Fortnite is.

07:06:39.460 Staying away from my dog.

07:06:40.700 That's too long.

07:06:41.340 Three weeks on average.

07:06:43.000 I try my best to hear that.

07:06:43.940 I honestly found out what Fortnite was because I work here.

07:06:46.560 That's good.

07:06:49.420 Bumble, we still got to finish up for her. 0.99

07:06:51.640 Yeah, why not date that?

07:06:53.060 I was not done swiping.

07:06:55.800 Maybe, because he has dogs.

07:06:58.120 No.

07:06:59.960 No.

07:07:01.640 No.

07:07:02.620 Great pick. 1.00

07:07:03.740 What the fuck? 1.00

07:07:04.740 I'm hungry, so. 1.00

07:07:06.100 Love that.

07:07:07.100 No.

07:07:09.820 No.

07:07:11.160 You fly southwest.

07:07:12.840 It depends which one it is.

07:07:15.100 The hot one.

07:07:16.680 Lol Paladins donated $30.

07:07:19.440 Ninja could live a fortnight longer than her. 1.00

07:07:21.720 What the fuck do you say to me, you little shit? 1.00

07:07:27.300 How are you not in fucking school? 1.00

07:07:30.220 You kiss your mother with that mouth? 1.00

07:07:32.120 It's called you kiss your mother with that fucking mouth? 1.00

07:07:35.980 Huh? 1.00

07:07:36.820 Huh?

07:07:37.440 I don't know why he's so angry.

07:07:39.200 I don't know why he's so angry. 1.00

07:07:41.000 Because the fucking youth of society. 1.00

07:07:43.040 I don't know why you shut up when I'm talking to you. 1.00

07:07:45.660 You shut your mouth. 1.00

07:07:48.140 Bro, Lol Paladins. 1.00

07:07:49.600 What the fuck? 0.99

07:07:50.380 I've never triggered that, by the way, in like 200 episodes. 0.99

07:07:54.300 So thank you for the alley-oop, bro.

07:07:57.400 Appreciate it.

07:07:59.760 Bumble?

07:08:00.160 Was that 20?

07:08:02.980 I think it was 20.

07:08:05.820 No.

07:08:09.220 I skipped this segment. 0.97

07:08:11.400 I literally have sounds on my soundboard I've never fucking triggered. 0.87

07:08:15.000 How sad is that? 0.80

07:08:15.920 I was going to say, what makes you listen to a sound and be like,

07:08:17.720 I'm putting that on my stream deck?

07:08:20.400 It's funny.

07:08:20.900 I have some weird ones in mind.

07:08:23.620 It doesn't matter what you think!

07:08:27.000 What did he even say, babe?

07:08:28.860 It doesn't matter what you think.

07:08:29.880 It doesn't matter.

07:08:31.020 Oh.

07:08:32.980 Did we finish with her?

07:08:34.120 Yes.

07:08:34.700 Are we doing Maddie?

07:08:35.560 No, I'll skip.

07:08:36.540 We'll do my girl, J-

07:08:39.500 You said it like three times.

07:08:42.840 Jannara, sorry.

07:08:43.580 Yes.

07:08:44.900 Yeah, let's do age range of guys you date.

07:08:46.920 You said 18 to 21?

07:08:47.960 I'll do 18 to 22.

07:08:49.740 22.

07:08:50.200 18 to 22. 0.99

07:08:51.700 All right, boys, we're going to get her a date who's not a bitch. 1.00

07:08:55.560 A rebound. 1.00

07:08:56.560 She don't mess with no bitches, boys. 1.00

07:08:59.500 No. 0.99

07:09:00.280 I feel like that was like three days ago when we started this conversation.

07:09:03.040 Where is he?

07:09:04.580 That might be your podcast.

07:09:06.460 What is this Star Trek nonsense?

07:09:08.220 That's Star Wars.

07:09:08.880 No.

07:09:09.120 Is that Photoshop?

07:09:10.220 Yes.

07:09:10.840 Oh.

07:09:11.300 No.

07:09:12.040 Hmm.

07:09:13.300 No.

07:09:13.660 You don't like his little tattoo, anime tattoo?

07:09:16.580 Yes.

07:09:17.220 Yes to this guy?

07:09:18.260 Yes.

07:09:18.640 Okay.

07:09:19.060 No.

07:09:19.340 No.

07:09:21.080 No.

07:09:22.760 No.

07:09:23.980 What?

07:09:24.600 No. 1.00

07:09:25.120 Damn, bro. 1.00

07:09:26.980 No. 1.00

07:09:28.760 No.

07:09:30.800 No.

07:09:33.580 It's kind of racist.

07:09:34.980 Don't say yes.

07:09:36.500 No.

07:09:36.740 Yes.

07:09:41.360 Oh, boy.

07:09:42.620 No.

07:09:43.320 That's a trial.

07:09:44.980 No.

07:09:46.900 No.

07:09:49.060 Yes.

07:09:49.540 Oh, I love that food.

07:09:51.980 No.

07:09:52.280 No.

07:09:52.340 That Chinese donut.

07:09:53.980 No.

07:09:55.920 That's all?

07:09:56.600 That's all.

07:09:56.760 That's 20?

07:09:57.620 No.

07:09:57.920 Okay.

07:09:58.200 That was reasonable.

07:09:58.400 I always wonder what they think when they post their pictures with guys.

07:10:02.840 Well, that looks cool.

07:10:07.320 Cool.

07:10:07.940 Good times.

07:10:09.700 Oh, Nick, you know what we should have done, bro?

07:10:11.760 What?

07:10:13.000 Oh, did you tell the red-haired girl who left in your private chat the whole, like, they're

07:10:17.120 just waiting, they're chilling?

07:10:19.560 I think we kind of spoke about it down there, and I shouldn't have.

07:10:23.760 Yeah, it's okay.

07:10:24.720 It's all good.

07:10:26.200 She was just saying it's an excuse, so she didn't need it.

07:10:28.120 Okay.

07:10:29.960 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:10:31.220 Do you guys want to do the bumble thing?

07:10:33.000 I'll skip it.

07:10:34.940 Impropriety, because you guys are.

07:10:37.400 I guess I should have skipped it for you, too.

07:10:39.900 Okay.

07:10:40.520 All right.

07:10:40.720 She said no to all of them.

07:10:41.800 Or we could do Lizzie really quick, and she could say, if she was single, what her type

07:10:47.620 is.

07:10:47.900 We could definitely.

07:10:49.160 Okay.

07:10:49.560 All right.

07:10:50.240 Okay.

07:10:50.580 I think this is the final question.

07:10:52.640 Do you consider yourself a feminist going around the table, starting with you? 1.00

07:10:57.780 No.

07:10:58.120 No.

07:10:59.620 No.

07:11:00.480 We already did this earlier.

07:11:02.020 No.

07:11:02.920 Yeah. 1.00

07:11:03.140 Damn, bro. 1.00

07:11:04.160 Damn, I shouldn't have told those chicks to shut the fuck up. 1.00

07:11:06.380 No. 1.00

07:11:07.540 No.

07:11:07.940 No.

07:11:08.020 Oh, man.

07:11:08.840 I fumbled, bro.

07:11:09.960 I fumbled.

07:11:11.420 Fumbled bag.

07:11:12.140 Kind of like Janara fumbled bag with that really nice guy who didn't want her to vape and was

07:11:18.720 just looking out for her.

07:11:20.160 He vaped, too.

07:11:22.200 Oh, he vaped, too?

07:11:23.000 Yeah.

07:11:23.240 He vaped, too.

07:11:24.180 And smoked weed, right?

07:11:25.700 Mm-hmm.

07:11:25.980 Okay, so maybe he wasn't.

07:11:27.700 Michigan Christian donated $30.

07:11:30.640 We are patriots.

07:11:32.320 We are Donald Trump.

07:11:33.980 We will not be stopped, not even with bullets.

07:11:36.800 Not even with bullets.

07:11:37.320 Make America great again. 1.00

07:11:39.300 Deport all illegals. 1.00

07:11:40.840 Wow. 0.99

07:11:41.400 Return power to states.

07:11:42.500 Okay.

07:11:43.200 Yeah.

07:11:43.400 Return to Christ.

07:11:44.460 Oh, repeal. 1.00

07:11:45.160 And, yes, repeal the 19th.

07:11:47.100 Oh.

07:11:48.440 Guys, get your roasts in.

07:11:50.740 Get your roasts in, boys.

07:11:52.980 We're going to let a few come in, and then we're going to wrap the show.

07:11:57.980 While we're doing that, any final thoughts from anybody?

07:12:00.720 Anything you guys want to argue on, debate on, talk about, any dating stuff, anything before

07:12:06.980 we wrap up here?

07:12:09.200 Jessica, I know you're dying to drop some truth bombs.

07:12:12.540 I don't know if I have anything.

07:12:15.100 I have a question.

07:12:16.440 What's that?

07:12:17.280 Say you were in, like, what's, like, a decent length of a relationship?

07:12:22.260 Like, six months, a year?

07:12:23.660 Yeah.

07:12:24.300 Say you broke up with that person.

07:12:25.960 What is a good amount of time to take to yourself to heal?

07:12:30.940 Are you asking me or just everybody?

07:12:32.740 Like, everyone.

07:12:33.440 Like, it depends on the nature of the relationship.

07:12:35.400 But what do they say?

07:12:36.100 They say, like, you have to wait a whole, what's the equivalent?

07:12:39.620 Twice as long?

07:12:40.240 You have to wait half the time.

07:12:41.180 Half the time.

07:12:42.540 Half the time of how long the relationship was?

07:12:44.300 So, like, if the relationship was six months, then you'd wait three months.

07:12:47.240 Oh, okay.

07:12:48.200 But that's, like, rule of thumb.

07:12:49.560 And honestly, it just depends on where you are.

07:12:51.080 Yeah, I think it's different for everyone.

07:12:52.860 You don't have to do it.

07:12:55.660 I think they more so say that's how long it takes to heal.

07:13:00.400 But it doesn't preclude you from dating. 1.00

07:13:02.760 So, if you date somebody two years, it's going to take you a year to get over that shit. 0.99

07:13:07.900 Date somebody for six years, it's going to take you, damn, three years, really? 1.00

07:13:13.180 Damn. 1.00

07:13:13.940 What are these bitch-ass motherfuckers? 1.00

07:13:15.720 I wouldn't date for so long if I, like, ever did end up, like, breaking up with my boyfriend. 1.00

07:13:21.600 What would happen?

07:13:22.520 You would just become a nun?

07:13:23.700 Yeah.

07:13:24.980 I probably would.

07:13:26.280 Wait, so how long would you be grieving?

07:13:28.260 Probably, like, five to ten years I wouldn't date. 1.00

07:13:30.480 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

07:13:30.840 Shut up, man. 1.00

07:13:31.220 Okay, five years. 1.00

07:13:32.340 I probably wouldn't date for five years.

07:13:33.900 You guys have been dating for, what, two years?

07:13:34.920 Yeah, almost two years.

07:13:36.080 You're going to grieve a two-year relationship for five years, Maddie?

07:13:39.140 Yeah.

07:13:40.100 I actually think I probably wouldn't date for five years.

07:13:42.980 You wouldn't take five years?

07:13:44.360 I wouldn't date for five years.

07:13:46.620 After you and Frankie.

07:13:47.500 So, Frankie dumps you right now. 1.00

07:13:49.320 You're not dating for five years.

07:13:51.020 Probably.

07:13:53.060 Bro, stop the cat, man.

07:13:54.460 I promise you I probably wouldn't date for five years.

07:13:58.140 That's cat.

07:13:58.800 I'm really serious about him.

07:14:01.220 Desert Joe donated 30 dollars.

07:14:03.420 Do you think that's cat?

07:14:04.120 Brixen, nice hire with Morgan.

07:14:06.500 But where is her warrior hat?

07:14:08.520 Total fail.

07:14:09.880 Also, what happened to Gustavo?

07:14:12.460 Did you kill him off?

07:14:13.680 Maddie, what happened to Gustavo?

07:14:15.080 Bro, he literally fell off the balcony.

07:14:17.620 What the A?

07:14:18.200 That's really insensitive to say that, Maddie.

07:14:21.640 People fall off.

07:14:23.340 The balcony doesn't die?

07:14:25.020 Off the cliffs.

07:14:25.960 In here.

07:14:26.660 Here.

07:14:27.040 Oh, I wasn't thinking about that.

07:14:27.960 How dare you?

07:14:28.660 I didn't say the cliffs.

07:14:29.400 Rude.

07:14:29.800 Lol Paladins donated 30 dollars.

07:14:32.660 My ex dated me for five years and she waited about five hours before getting underneath 1.00

07:14:37.440 some else.

07:14:38.460 Oh, that's so terrible.

07:14:39.100 Half as long?

07:14:40.140 Nah, women ain't doing that. 1.00

07:14:44.080 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

07:14:44.940 Justin Martins donated 30 dollars.

07:14:47.820 Maddie drives a Mazda.

07:14:49.660 Boom roasted.

07:14:50.500 Boom roasted.

07:14:51.440 I drive a Toyota. 1.00

07:14:53.180 Oh, shit. 0.99

07:14:54.760 W's in the chat for Maddie's Toyota. 1.00

07:14:57.000 Period.

07:14:57.220 Okay, but Mazdas are like really good parts of the car accident. 1.00

07:14:59.920 M-X-5 donated 30 dollars.

07:15:02.020 Super good.

07:15:02.700 My exes are cool and you hurt my feelings.

07:15:05.820 Is this from like two shows ago when I was dunking on Mazda Miatas?

07:15:09.300 I love Miatas. 0.97

07:15:10.200 Wait, look, you were like talking crap about them? 0.66

07:15:11.500 Nobody wants to get in your Mazda truck. 0.95

07:15:13.840 Oh, wait.

07:15:14.320 Oh, yeah, that for July 4th?

07:15:16.040 Yeah.

07:15:16.380 The dude with the Mazda?

07:15:18.300 Yeah. 0.92

07:15:18.580 Oh, he drove by and he was like, shitty YouTube.

07:15:22.620 He was like, nobody wants to be in your video. 0.98

07:15:24.940 And Brian was like, nobody wants to be in your shitty Mazda truck. 0.98

07:15:28.400 That's true. 0.98

07:15:28.940 I did say that.

07:15:29.180 Lord Bula donated 30 dollars.

07:15:31.760 Ladies, we all know what the dating world is like for single mothers. 1.00

07:15:36.200 I would like to know what your take on single fathers would be.

07:15:39.820 Disregard age. 0.79

07:15:41.500 Much love, everyone.

07:15:42.720 LB, pronounced Bula.

07:15:46.380 Nickelodeon donated 30 dollars.

07:15:48.120 Men are expected to catch a bullet for their girl.

07:15:51.840 More interesting, would you jump in front to protect the president?

07:15:56.020 How are we supposed to roast well-behaved sweet ladies? 1.00

07:15:59.880 Maddie, put on Murica hat. 1.00

07:16:03.940 Time release underscore one donated 30 dollars.

07:16:07.820 Warning, warning.

07:16:09.360 Science shows that taller people are more susceptible to cancer.

07:16:12.940 If women keep breeding specifically with taller men along with the birth crisis, 0.99

07:16:17.800 the human population will be extinct.

07:16:21.920 That's true, bro.

07:16:23.880 That's crazy.

07:16:25.140 Yes.

07:16:26.360 Taller people are more susceptible to cancer.

07:16:28.920 Really?

07:16:29.600 Interesting.

07:16:29.840 Is that true?

07:16:30.680 Sorry, Desmond.

07:16:32.740 That's true.

07:16:33.520 So, going back to Lord Buell, he's, uh, take on single fathers. 0.95

07:16:41.400 Would you date, uh, just a show of hands, would you date a single father?

07:16:45.960 I used to not.

07:16:47.920 Michigan Christian donated 30 dollars.

07:16:51.220 Women voting should be based on whether they're draftable. 1.00

07:16:54.360 You serious? 0.99

07:16:55.680 That's loose pussy energy. 1.00

07:16:57.780 Men make better decisions than women. 1.00

07:17:00.060 And that is why women shouldn't be allowed to vote. 1.00

07:17:03.080 Damn. 1.00

07:17:03.300 Appeal 19. 0.99

07:17:04.300 Disavow.

07:17:05.120 I disavow.

07:17:07.500 Disavow.

07:17:08.760 I think we should draft women. 1.00

07:17:10.080 Um, okay.

07:17:12.460 And, uh, oh, going to Nickelodeon.

07:17:14.800 Nick, could you pull up that photo of the Secret Service lady who was, like, hiding behind?

07:17:21.080 Who's, like, hiding?

07:17:24.240 So, there was a lady in the front, and then a lady in the back. 1.00

07:17:26.460 Yeah, there's a lady in the front, and then there's a lady in the back. 1.00

07:17:29.060 I thought there was three of them.

07:17:29.440 I only saw the one in front.

07:17:30.580 There were three.

07:17:31.520 I thought the third was the snake.

07:17:32.760 Ace underscore Lens donated 30 dollars.

07:17:35.800 You can only pick one, allowed access to contraception and have to sign up for the draft.

07:17:41.500 Or, never be forced to sign up for the draft and not allowed access to contraception.

07:17:47.540 So, starting with you, which one do you pick?

07:17:49.580 The first or the second?

07:17:51.080 The second.

07:17:51.900 Second?

07:17:54.740 To be honest, it really didn't read all day.

07:17:57.280 Second.

07:17:58.420 Second?

07:17:59.340 Second.

07:18:00.040 Second.

07:18:00.920 The second was no contraception.

07:18:02.660 Ulysses the Pagan donated 30 dollars.

07:18:05.880 Biden versus stairs.

07:18:07.720 Trump versus bullet.

07:18:09.240 MAGA wins.

07:18:10.540 I like the bike better.

07:18:12.120 Imagine, though, like, I do wonder, do you think the assassination attempt

07:18:18.280 is enough to have, like, gives him the win?

07:18:23.320 Yes.

07:18:23.760 I feel it.

07:18:24.260 Do you think it gives Trump the W?

07:18:26.840 Yes.

07:18:27.280 A lot of people are sympathizing for him right now.

07:18:29.760 If he goes through all of that and he doesn't win, then what was it all for?

07:18:33.280 Then it's suspect.

07:18:35.180 For the friends we made along the way.

07:18:36.880 Lol Paladins donated 30 dollars.

07:18:39.760 Birthrate plummeting is the biggest crisis facing this planet.

07:18:43.480 Good on you for the women of the planet willing to save it rather than hedonistic pleasure.

07:18:48.200 The women without babies quit killing Earth. 1.00

07:18:51.000 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

07:18:57.560 Appreciate it.

07:18:58.920 Joe Murphy donated 30 dollars.

07:19:01.600 The dating apps are indeed a modern-day dating hellscape.

07:19:05.700 Stay away, everyone.

07:19:07.160 Yep.

07:19:07.520 Roughly 80% of females over 30 on the apps of children.

07:19:11.880 That's a massive liability taking on another man's children. 1.00

07:19:15.520 Damn. 0.99

07:19:17.020 Word. 1.00

07:19:17.600 Okay.

07:19:17.960 Thank you, Joe Murphy.

07:19:18.860 Yeah, I mean, look, if you don't want to date somebody who has a child, I think that's totally fine. 0.99

07:19:25.480 Probably for the best, for the sake of the mom, father, or child.

07:19:30.780 If you don't want to date somebody who has a kid, man.

07:19:34.280 Wait, so Maddie, you would take five years to get rough.

07:19:38.760 I would probably take, like, one full year after to, like, actually, like, probably get back to my normal groove.

07:19:48.460 Yeah.

07:19:48.860 And then I'd probably take another year after that to just, I wouldn't date for at least, like, okay, now you're kind of making me seem like I'm crazy.

07:19:59.220 So, probably.

07:20:00.480 Hey, look, it could be valid.

07:20:01.820 Me, personally.

07:20:02.420 I would say three to five.

07:20:03.620 Three to five.

07:20:03.880 Look, I think that's a sign of a good girl there.

07:20:07.040 Like, for me, for me personally, if I was dating a chick for six months, I would kind of want her to be, like, never date again.

07:20:15.740 Like, that would be such an ego boost.

07:20:18.840 But I don't even want to think about that.

07:20:19.980 Oh, we dated for six months, and you become a nun? 0.97

07:20:23.680 Like, you couldn't love anybody else, and you still.

07:20:25.820 I don't think I would be a nun.

07:20:26.900 I would.

07:20:27.200 You wouldn't be.

07:20:27.820 I still would get married and have kids.

07:20:29.440 That's actually, even if we don't date, I think that should be the standard of, like, what would be a good woman?

07:20:36.660 Like, she loves you so much.

07:20:38.380 Even after you break up, she still loves you.

07:20:40.620 She refuses to date again.

07:20:43.260 Right, Morgan?

07:20:45.440 No.

07:20:46.120 No?

07:20:46.340 I think after my last relationship, the one that was three years.

07:20:49.420 I would become a nun until, like, we get back together again.

07:20:53.620 Look, I'm like the romantic one.

07:20:55.720 I'm romantic here.

07:20:56.840 I was celibate for five years in between both relationships.

07:21:00.200 That's what I'm saying.

07:21:00.680 I would become a nun until he's ready to get back with me. 0.98

07:21:05.660 Bruh.

07:21:06.400 Okay, here's the.

07:21:07.600 Okay, this is the scenario, right?

07:21:09.640 I leave on a ship.

07:21:12.480 I leave on a ship. 0.99

07:21:13.540 This is before cell phones and shit. 0.99

07:21:15.340 The man leaves on a ship. 0.99

07:21:17.040 The woman's standing on a cliff, and she stands there, and she's like, I will not leave this spot until my man comes back.

07:21:23.800 Isn't there a story like that?

07:21:24.820 That's 20 years.

07:21:26.740 20 years for a man. 1.00

07:21:28.720 That's what I think, if I match with some chick on Tinder and we, like, fuck for six months, I think she should never date again. 1.00

07:21:37.560 She should be. 0.99

07:21:38.620 20 years is the only.

07:21:39.520 I think if I date a girl for six months, she should just never.

07:21:44.240 That's how she shows loyalty to me.

07:21:46.160 Maddie, huge head, donated $30. 0.94

07:21:48.780 Sure.

07:21:49.180 Eight at 18 forever.

07:21:51.080 Eight at 18 forever.

07:21:53.020 Eight at 18 forever.

07:21:54.740 Eight at 18 forever.

07:21:57.580 Okay.

07:21:58.060 I'm offended.

07:21:59.980 Is it a Pokemon episode?

07:22:02.460 I don't know.

07:22:03.480 I feel like it was a cartoon.

07:22:05.640 Wait, but, okay, here's a question, Maddie.

07:22:08.120 How long do you think Frankie would wait? 0.99

07:22:11.620 I think we would both probably, like, three to five years.

07:22:18.660 Genuinely.

07:22:19.140 Ah, okay.

07:22:20.620 I can't speak for him.

07:22:21.960 He'd probably maybe wait less.

07:22:23.940 Like, a couple weeks, you think?

07:22:25.580 Gosh.

07:22:26.460 Maybe, like, a little less than a year.

07:22:32.440 I would hope longer than that.

07:22:36.520 Would you girls be upset if you broke up with a guy you're dating for, like, two years? 0.92

07:22:39.980 You broke up with him, though.

07:22:41.420 And then, like, but otherwise, like, good relationship, kind of.

07:22:45.440 Defornger underscore Clofivey donated $30.

07:22:48.440 Yeah, thank you, man.

07:22:49.200 Bear versus man. 1.00

07:22:50.660 Anyone who picks bear is a liar or dumb. 0.99

07:22:53.580 If you can't scroll through nature is metal on Instagram without looking away, never pick bear. 0.99

07:23:00.060 Lol Paladins donated $30.

07:23:02.980 You've had so many alpha widows on the show. 1.00

07:23:05.660 Remember the girl that lived in a car with her boyfriend and didn't get over him?

07:23:10.140 That is some good D right there.

07:23:12.700 Bet Brixen has never done that.

07:23:15.620 You don't get the sound anymore, bro.

07:23:17.980 I gave you the sound, but now that you said that, sound revoked.

07:23:22.520 You're the only person who has a sound, and you just got it revoked, bro.

07:23:26.540 So, what was your question?

07:23:32.880 If a guy moved on.

07:23:34.400 Digmatized, huh?

07:23:35.320 What?

07:23:35.800 Or if you broke up with a guy.

07:23:37.500 Otherwise, good relationship.

07:23:38.140 Oh, you broke up with a guy, dating for a year, and then, like, he smashes a girl the next day.

07:23:42.920 Are you upset?

07:23:44.040 Yeah, absolutely.

07:23:45.360 You broke up with him.

07:23:46.840 Probably because he was doing something wrong.

07:23:48.560 Bruh.

07:23:48.960 I sound like a feminist right now. 0.93

07:23:50.260 So, wait, you would be upset?

07:23:51.380 You would be upset?

07:23:52.580 Yes.

07:23:53.640 Of course.

07:23:54.500 Why wouldn't you?

07:23:54.900 You'd be upset.

07:23:55.620 Okay.

07:23:56.040 Because you're probably thinking about that girl throughout the whole entire relationship.

07:23:59.240 Nah, bro.

07:23:59.760 I just got the riz.

07:24:00.760 She just came into the picture.

07:24:01.880 I just think that if you're, like, if you're, I guess, um...

07:24:07.880 Read what you so donated, $30.

07:24:10.520 Every man wants a woman as committed to him as Steve Irwin's wife is to him.

07:24:15.240 Even after all this time, she hasn't been on a date and focuses on family instead.

07:24:20.700 Big W.

07:24:21.900 R.I.P.

07:24:22.640 Steve Irwin.

07:24:23.940 Okay, yeah.

07:24:24.520 That makes sense.

07:24:24.980 Is it, yeah, is it, like, uh, like, if I pass away and, like, she just, I don't want her

07:24:31.680 to date anybody after me after I die?

07:24:34.280 A lot of people do that.

07:24:34.720 Is that greedy?

07:24:36.140 No.

07:24:36.400 Is that greedy?

07:24:37.240 Almost every person does that, right?

07:24:39.740 How old are you?

07:24:41.020 Huh?

07:24:41.300 How old are you?

07:24:42.140 No, no, no, no, no. 0.80

07:24:42.940 I mean, like, when you die. 0.99

07:24:44.220 When you die.

07:24:46.080 I'm 21. 0.95

07:24:47.280 Oh.

07:24:47.980 And she's 21.

07:24:49.160 Mm-hmm.

07:24:49.920 Okay.

07:24:51.380 I think...

07:24:52.500 Brian's chair, 2024, donated $30.

07:24:56.720 Maga-ga-ga-ga-ga-ga. 1.00

07:24:58.740 Make America great and glorious and good and gruesome and gigantic and gluey and gooey again.

07:25:04.200 Woo! 0.99

07:25:05.540 Alliteration.

07:25:06.120 Well done, bro.

07:25:07.000 Let me see.

07:25:07.640 Do it again.

07:25:08.140 That's wild.

07:25:08.780 Do it again, bro.

07:25:09.480 That was great.

07:25:10.480 Did you open this photo?

07:25:11.800 Yeah, we can pull it up.

07:25:12.780 Is this it?

07:25:13.940 Uh, there was another one.

07:25:15.500 Wait, uh, there was another one.

07:25:17.320 Wait, there's a guy in the back.

07:25:18.880 No, a short-haired woman. 1.00

07:25:19.460 It was, like, a different one.

07:25:20.760 Oh.

07:25:20.940 And it doesn't, honestly, it doesn't even matter.

07:25:22.640 You were going to say something, L-Dog?

07:25:26.020 I was going to say that if their solution is to just, like, get sex right after a breakup,

07:25:33.600 you kind of question, like, if that person even really...

07:25:36.840 Yeah.

07:25:37.280 Maybe you shouldn't have broken up with him.

07:25:40.480 Maybe he should have started acting right. 1.00

07:25:41.140 I'm just going to gaslight the fuck out of you. 1.00

07:25:43.880 I'm out of gas. 0.99

07:25:44.960 So if she dies, are you allowed to date?

07:25:47.300 Huh?

07:25:47.740 No, I'll come back and haunt you.

07:25:48.720 If she dies, are you allowed to date?

07:25:49.420 I'll mourn for, like, two weeks.

07:25:51.980 Two weeks.

07:25:52.960 Hell no.

07:25:53.080 I will mourn.

07:25:53.960 I will mourn for two weeks.

07:25:56.360 After the two weeks, I can get Jiggy Wooden.

07:25:59.600 Warlord 69, you woodenated $30.

07:26:03.180 Brian, base blue dresser's answer on how long she survives for 100 days.

07:26:08.740 Can I get a sound?

07:26:10.860 What?

07:26:11.400 Wait, base blue dresser's answer on how long she survives for 100 days? 0.98

07:26:15.460 Mm-hmm.

07:26:16.120 On what?

07:26:17.240 Can I give uwu?

07:26:18.420 I guess I could give him a sound.

07:26:20.460 Hold on.

07:26:23.860 Uwu?

07:26:25.000 Oh, my gosh.

07:26:26.340 There you go, bro.

07:26:27.260 Bro, you're going to have to drop another, though, since I just gave you a sound.

07:26:30.300 Boom.

07:26:31.420 Wait, what were we talking about?

07:26:33.560 The waiting until...

07:26:36.940 Yeah. 0.52

07:26:37.700 Dying.

07:26:38.240 Yep.

07:26:38.660 We got it.

07:26:39.400 I think it's worse if you have kids.

07:26:41.020 You should wait way longer if you have kids.

07:26:43.440 Oh, yeah.

07:26:44.040 Really?

07:26:44.240 Because the kids have to process it and, like...

07:26:46.740 But why...

07:26:47.160 How could you get mad at the guy if you break up with him, and then he goes out and, like,

07:26:52.040 hooks up with another chick right away?

07:26:53.420 We were on a break!

07:26:54.420 I think it depends on why you broke up with him.

07:26:56.440 Yeah, I would, too.

07:26:56.560 I think it fully depends on why.

07:26:58.140 If it's like, okay, I broke up with him because...

07:26:58.980 He was too good to you.

07:27:00.140 That's why you broke up with him.

07:27:01.100 Oh.

07:27:01.300 Oh, okay.

07:27:02.300 By all means, yeah, go do your thing, because that's on me, then. 0.96

07:27:06.980 You broke up with him because he couldn't keep up with your sex drive? 1.00

07:27:11.680 Have you all seen that? 1.00

07:27:14.440 And then he goes, fucks someone. 0.99

07:27:16.020 That makes no sense. 0.99

07:27:17.960 That's the worst possible scenario. 0.98

07:27:20.220 Well, he, like, has a sex drive, but, like...

07:27:21.860 Then I would be mad, because it's like, you couldn't do that in the relationship. 0.63

07:27:25.640 Have you guys seen that meme where it's...

07:27:27.240 Work on marriage?

07:27:27.740 Have you guys seen that meme where it's, like, guys say they want a girl with high sex drive 1.00

07:27:34.180 until they meet a girl who wants to fuck six times a day? 1.00

07:27:36.560 Mm-hmm. 1.00

07:27:36.880 Mm-hmm.

07:27:37.620 Have you guys seen that meme?

07:27:40.480 I'm too innocent for that.

07:27:41.600 I don't know.

07:27:42.320 You're too well?

07:27:43.180 She said I'm too innocent.

07:27:43.940 I'm too innocent?

07:27:45.660 Really?

07:27:46.900 Really, though?

07:27:47.760 Yes.

07:27:49.420 I don't know.

07:27:49.780 I think as soon as the breakup occurs, you can go right back up.

07:27:54.880 Nickelodeon donated $30.

07:27:56.740 I know what I mean?

07:27:57.460 Speaking of moving on too quick, chick next to Brian. 0.95

07:28:01.340 You said G.I. Joe was just a friend before you started dating.

07:28:05.840 Was that what you told the ex you dated before him?

07:28:08.560 I don't need a sound.

07:28:10.140 I got props.

07:28:12.520 I didn't become friends with him until after my last relationship, so we didn't know each

07:28:17.940 other when I was dating my last relationship.

07:28:20.760 Huh.

07:28:21.640 Good times.

07:28:23.380 Good times.

07:28:24.400 Good times.

07:28:25.140 Okay.

07:28:25.660 Cool.

07:28:27.260 Any other final things before we wrap up here, guys?

07:28:30.120 Nick, I'm going to get a raid going.

07:28:32.300 No.

07:28:32.700 Just thinking about it.

07:28:33.540 I'll be home at 4'0". 0.75

07:28:34.380 Oh, dude.

07:28:36.120 Okay.

07:28:36.360 Hold on. 1.00

07:28:36.960 Check this shit out, right? 1.00

07:28:38.020 I'm going to... 1.00

07:28:39.960 Today's Sunday, right?

07:28:40.900 Please tell me it's Sunday.

07:28:41.520 Yes.

07:28:42.080 Oh, I'm going to go home and watch House of the Dragon.

07:28:46.020 W.

07:28:47.080 Sorry, that was cringe.

07:28:48.940 I hope you have a good time.

07:28:51.400 I love this for you.

07:28:54.320 Did you guys...

07:28:55.120 Yo, chat.

07:28:55.860 Chat, chat, chat. 0.99

07:28:56.540 Did you guys see the fucking episode last week, bro? 1.00

07:29:00.260 Holy fuck. 1.00

07:29:01.000 Honestly, one of the best fucking episodes. 1.00

07:29:06.180 Screw Game of Thrones. 0.99

07:29:08.220 I think it's one of the best episodes in the entire fucking franchise. 1.00

07:29:11.260 Boys. 0.99

07:29:11.600 So good.

07:29:12.300 Same.

07:29:13.100 House of the Dragon, better than Game of Thrones.

07:29:15.320 Chat.

07:29:15.500 I think so, too.

07:29:16.300 Opening this up to the chat, what's better?

07:29:19.120 House of the Dragon or Game of Thrones?

07:29:20.700 But is it still ongoing or is it seasons?

07:29:23.300 I can't commit unless there's at least four seasons.

07:29:25.360 Wait, wait, wait. 1.00

07:29:25.920 They're going to fucking spoil this shit for me. 1.00

07:29:27.280 Hide the chat, Nick. 1.00

07:29:28.140 They're going to spoil this shit for me. 0.99

07:29:29.340 Game of Thrones is already done. 1.00

07:29:30.600 Well, yeah, that one's done. 1.00

07:29:31.320 Oh, fuck, fuck, fuck. 1.00

07:29:31.780 But the Dragon... 1.00

07:29:32.680 They're going to spoil...

07:29:33.420 They have two seasons right now.

07:29:35.160 See, I can't commit unless there's three, because then I would have to wait.

07:29:39.100 Yeah.

07:29:39.800 Delulu, why is that?

07:29:41.300 Because I'm so tired.

07:29:42.300 I feel like my lower half body is asleep.

07:29:46.080 Well.

07:29:48.560 Numb at this point.

07:29:49.840 I can't feel my toes.

07:29:51.020 I'm sitting in the car again.

07:29:52.020 Final question.

07:29:54.100 Okay.

07:29:54.900 So, you are a lady, and you're best friends with a princess.

07:30:04.120 And this princess, she actually is named Heir to the throne.

07:30:10.520 So, she's going to be queen, right?

07:30:13.360 You find out that she... 1.00

07:30:19.140 Actually, hold on.

07:30:21.700 Reversing the roles.

07:30:23.160 You're the princess.

07:30:24.700 You have a friend who's, like, nobility.

07:30:27.560 She is...

07:30:28.760 She's... 1.00

07:30:31.760 Is she, like, a nobody?

07:30:33.380 She's a lady. 1.00

07:30:34.640 And so, your dad's the king.

07:30:37.300 You're going to be the queen one day.

07:30:38.840 You're named Heir.

07:30:39.760 You're a princess.

07:30:40.320 Your friend, her dad is, like, the number one consultant for the king.

07:30:50.020 The hand of the king.

07:30:51.300 So, like, number two in charge, kind of.

07:30:54.540 Your friend gets...

07:30:57.020 Oh, your mom passes away in childbirth.

07:30:59.620 Oh.

07:31:00.100 Your mom passes away in childbirth.

07:31:02.020 You were going to have a sibling.

07:31:03.620 But, yeah.

07:31:06.380 So, because your mom passed away in childbirth...

07:31:11.920 Joe Murphy donated $30.

07:31:14.240 Ladies, raise your hand if you have ever camped for five days. 0.99

07:31:18.840 The big tree forest is the best spot to test out your camping skills.

07:31:23.520 Don't forget to bring bear spray.

07:31:26.540 Word?

07:31:27.080 That was our favorite thing.

07:31:28.420 We used to go for New Year's.

07:31:30.160 So, reminder.

07:31:31.300 Here.

07:31:31.580 You're the princess.

07:31:32.960 Your friend...

07:31:34.160 Your mom just, you know, died in childbirth.

07:31:37.480 And then the king has to remarry.

07:31:40.500 Your father has to remarry.

07:31:41.760 It's his duty.

07:31:42.580 He has to remarry.

07:31:43.620 He has to try to have more heirs.

07:31:45.340 More children.

07:31:46.740 So, he marries your best friend who's, like, 20.

07:31:54.780 Like, your age, right?

07:31:56.560 And then, like, so that complicated...

07:31:58.740 Now your best friend is technically your mom.

07:32:01.420 And then she gets pregnant a bunch of times.

07:32:05.940 And she has sons.

07:32:07.580 And you're the heir to the throne.

07:32:09.880 But those sons are going to be potential...

07:32:13.240 You know, they're going to have...

07:32:15.480 Try to make a claim, potentially, to your throne. 1.00

07:32:20.880 And how do you feel about your best friend fucking your dad, the king? 1.00

07:32:26.140 What the fuck? 1.00

07:32:27.840 That's what happened. 1.00

07:32:28.820 Were you not following?

07:32:29.920 Were you not following?

07:32:31.940 I mean, the sons, it's going to take a while for them to claim to the throne.

07:32:35.100 So, that's fine.

07:32:35.900 I can be a princess.

07:32:36.720 I don't have to make decisions.

07:32:38.220 I love this for me.

07:32:39.500 My best friend knows me, so she knows what I love.

07:32:42.040 And it's my mom now.

07:32:43.180 My dad's happy.

07:32:44.240 I'm happy.

07:32:45.240 I think it works.

07:32:46.420 Win-win.

07:32:47.280 I'm all for it. 1.00

07:32:47.760 You're fine with your best friend fucking your dad? 1.00

07:32:50.320 I mean, fuck it. 1.00

07:32:51.180 I donated $30. 1.00

07:32:52.920 Sorry I don't talk in a u-woo voice.

07:32:55.500 I don't know what you expected me to do, dot, no.

07:32:59.020 No.

07:32:59.760 Can we get a u-woo from each of the girls on the panel? 0.99

07:33:02.620 Yeah, we can do that.

07:33:03.320 Starting with Lizzie here.

07:33:04.800 What's u-woo? 0.97

07:33:05.960 U-woo? 0.67

07:33:07.160 Hold on.

07:33:07.700 U-woo? 0.67

07:33:08.300 You have to do that.

07:33:10.020 Go ahead.

07:33:10.040 You have to give it your best shot.

07:33:12.060 I'm going to sound so Asian. 0.59

07:33:13.320 We cannot end the stream until every girl here does it. 0.99

07:33:18.860 I'm not doing it.

07:33:19.600 I'm not doing it.

07:33:20.400 You got this, Lizzie.

07:33:22.380 You got this.

07:33:24.200 I'll just do it for the both of us.

07:33:25.520 I'm going to change the TTS voice to a French guy.

07:33:28.320 I'm literally going to cry.

07:33:30.780 I'm changing the TTS to a French guy. 1.00

07:33:35.980 That sound.

07:33:36.680 Actually, do we, I'm changing it to a German guy, boys.

07:33:40.580 U-woo.

07:33:41.080 No.

07:33:41.680 TTS is now German.

07:33:43.820 TTS is now German.

07:33:45.080 His name is Hans.

07:33:46.300 Okay?

07:33:46.860 I love Hans.

07:33:47.660 Hans.

07:33:48.220 So.

07:33:49.580 U-woo? 0.67

07:33:50.160 Anybody?

07:33:50.780 U-woo? 0.67

07:33:51.180 Let's hear it.

07:33:52.860 Gambit 90 donated 30 dollar.

07:33:55.320 What?

07:33:55.600 Hey, Brian.

07:33:56.600 Have you seen the plastic surgeon guessing each of UK Love Island cast?

07:34:00.700 They've all been ruined by excessive plastic surgery.

07:34:03.220 Also, Iren Moriarty had made the voice of the Vorschau almost unwatchable.

07:34:07.820 That sounds so much more fun.

07:34:08.920 Yeah.

07:34:09.480 Yeah, definitely.

07:34:10.840 Okay.

07:34:11.320 I'm now going to change it to a, um, a.

07:34:15.460 What are the options?

07:34:16.180 I'm changing it to an Italian. 0.99

07:34:17.620 I'm going to, I'm going to give us Giorgio.

07:34:19.660 Can you give it Australian?

07:34:20.980 Giorgio.

07:34:21.380 I can do Australian if they come in. 0.95

07:34:23.480 Uh, wait.

07:34:24.440 We, uh, U-woo?

07:34:25.540 Anybody?

07:34:25.760 She was down.

07:34:26.680 You're going to do an U-woo? 0.98

07:34:27.380 Let's hear the U-woo. 1.00

07:34:27.820 No, I thought she was going to first.

07:34:28.740 How do you do an U-woo? 0.99

07:34:29.640 No, I'm, I'm good.

07:34:30.600 You got it.

07:34:31.220 Who's going to do it?

07:34:31.980 Somebody's going to do it.

07:34:32.900 I don't even know how you do it.

07:34:34.280 J-Dawg. 0.99

07:34:35.020 You.

07:34:35.380 Okay, you.

07:34:35.960 Let's hear it.

07:34:37.620 Do I just go?

07:34:38.760 Yeah, just go.

07:34:39.520 You got this.

07:34:41.280 Do you?

07:34:42.340 Oh, that was good.

07:34:43.760 That was good.

07:34:44.540 That was good.

07:34:46.960 Wow, good job.

07:34:49.780 That was good.

07:34:50.540 That was good.

07:34:50.580 Thanks for joining us.

07:34:51.320 Bro, you practice that.

07:34:52.940 Yeah.

07:34:53.300 Blue dress was that the king's order that you accepted were the hand's orders?

07:35:06.080 Was that?

07:35:06.780 Oh.

07:35:08.020 Blue paladis donated 30 dollars.

07:35:10.580 U-woo, your choice. 0.82

07:35:12.680 No.

07:35:13.800 I'm going to change that to, hold on.

07:35:18.260 Since that, I'm going to change it to Japanese and I'm going to re-trigger it. 0.98

07:35:21.480 Blue paladis donated 30 dollars.

07:35:25.700 U-woo, your choice. 0.82

07:35:28.640 It didn't hit.

07:35:30.580 It didn't really, yeah.

07:35:31.840 Hold on.

07:35:32.260 Let me see if I can.

07:35:34.780 Hold on.

07:35:35.480 But that was really good.

07:35:36.420 Changing this quick.

07:35:36.900 Oh, yeah.

07:35:37.440 That was impressive.

07:35:38.580 Thanks.

07:35:40.940 Blue paladis donated 30 dollars.

07:35:43.720 U-woo, your choice. 0.82

07:35:46.320 That was better.

07:35:47.760 What did we want?

07:35:48.480 We didn't do French.

07:35:49.620 Hold on.

07:35:49.900 I'm going to do French.

07:35:50.620 Australian.

07:35:51.480 Wait, one sec.

07:35:52.220 I'm going to do Remy.

07:35:54.020 We're going to do Remy for the French. 0.98

07:35:56.180 Thank you.

07:35:57.480 What were you?

07:35:58.580 Anybody else with a U-woo?

07:36:00.180 Wait, what were we talking about before that?

07:36:03.480 The game?

07:36:04.300 Oh, oh, guys.

07:36:05.640 Yeah, okay. 0.96

07:36:06.420 Your best friend, your best friend fucks her dad, marries him, and has children, which 0.98

07:36:15.540 will potentially challenge your claim to the Iron Throne, which will potentially challenge 0.99

07:36:16.960 your claim to the Iron Throne.

07:36:19.540 No issues?

07:36:20.760 Don't really have a choice.

07:36:22.040 Lizzie?

07:36:22.600 You don't have a choice.

07:36:24.060 Lizzie?

07:36:26.720 Yeah, I don't have a choice, so I'm just going to let it happen.

07:36:29.080 Yeah, but you can not be friends with her anymore.

07:36:33.520 She's just my mom. 0.99

07:36:34.220 Yo, Lizzie, your best friend fucks her dad. 1.00

07:36:36.500 Yeah, no, I wouldn't be friends with her anymore. 0.99

07:36:38.540 What about you?

07:36:39.480 Yeah, I couldn't do it.

07:36:40.880 Mm-mm.

07:36:41.660 No.

07:36:42.100 Same.

07:36:43.000 Well, if it was, like, the only choice, I'd feel weird at first, but then I'd be like,

07:36:48.600 but this is what had to happen.

07:36:49.940 Like, imagine having those conversations with your friend.

07:36:53.180 It had to happen.

07:36:54.080 Well, we're not going to have those conversations anymore.

07:36:55.960 Is my dad going to marry someone else?

07:36:58.700 No.

07:36:58.900 Is that a choice?

07:37:00.120 Yeah, no, he could marry somebody else.

07:37:02.140 Okay.

07:37:02.600 What?

07:37:03.000 I thought he married the best friend.

07:37:06.720 Well, I thought that was the only choice.

07:37:07.920 He could have married.

07:37:10.820 Well, I don't want to get into it.

07:37:11.920 This is, like, TOS.

07:37:12.760 So, was that his choice or the hand's choice?

07:37:14.000 He could have married.

07:37:15.540 Anyone else?

07:37:16.180 Like, a Valerian.

07:37:19.700 But that chick was a bit too young for him. 1.00

07:37:22.180 You know what I mean?

07:37:22.840 Yeah.

07:37:24.740 Now, the Hightowers.

07:37:26.100 The Hightowers.

07:37:27.540 It was kind of a clinical decision.

07:37:29.460 He had to.

07:37:30.840 You know, the Hightowers were a very, very powerful family.

07:37:34.440 Very powerful house.

07:37:36.440 Is this, is it wrong to, is this kind of spoilers?

07:37:39.520 Like, first season two years ago?

07:37:41.560 I was going to say, this is, you're talking about the first season, right?

07:37:44.280 Yeah, first season, first few episodes.

07:37:46.180 Like, first few episodes.

07:37:47.620 I'm obsessed with your eyeliner.

07:37:48.860 I got it.

07:37:49.580 I'm just realizing who you look like.

07:37:51.680 Oh, my God.

07:37:52.400 Who's she looking?

07:37:52.840 Who?

07:37:53.300 Into the mic.

07:37:53.940 She literally looks like the, what's her name? 1.00

07:37:56.520 Laura from 365 Days.

07:37:58.980 Can somebody roast Maddie? 0.89

07:38:00.620 Oh.

07:38:01.340 I wouldn't mind having him.

07:38:02.760 Somebody roast Morgan. 0.97

07:38:05.180 Somebody roast us.

07:38:06.460 There were, like, too many simps for Morgan last show, so I feel like she got to get roasted

07:38:10.780 a little bit.

07:38:11.320 You're Morgan?

07:38:12.240 Morgan needs a roast. 1.00

07:38:13.360 I'm obsessed with Morgan's eyes.

07:38:14.720 They won't start roasting her. 0.99

07:38:15.640 Yeah.

07:38:16.220 Her skin.

07:38:16.680 For about another couple months.

07:38:17.920 She has a nice team. 0.84

07:38:18.860 She's got nice.

07:38:19.300 When she gets comfortable.

07:38:20.020 We're just going to get compliments.

07:38:21.180 I know.

07:38:21.720 It's crazy.

07:38:22.140 A little compliment circle.

07:38:24.040 Yeah.

07:38:24.520 You've done well.

07:38:25.480 Let's see.

07:38:25.940 Option A.

07:38:26.620 Brian always brings the most beautiful women on this podcast. 1.00

07:38:30.900 Wait, so, any thoughts?

07:38:38.220 You'd be cool with your best friend?

07:38:41.220 No.

07:38:41.640 Let's get the mic a little close to you.

07:38:43.280 Let's get it close to you.

07:38:43.620 Would you?

07:38:44.720 Would your mother? 1.00

07:38:46.060 Wait, what the fuck? 1.00

07:38:47.460 If roles were reversed. 1.00

07:38:49.440 I would disown.

07:38:51.400 Well, I mean, if there's an option now.

07:38:53.340 If that was the only option, that's different.

07:38:56.260 You know?

07:38:56.680 But, check this out, right? 0.98

07:38:57.640 So, you also, you get married to a gay guy. 0.93

07:39:03.180 But, I don't know why. 0.80

07:39:04.660 Yeah. 0.93

07:39:04.980 You get married to a gay guy, but then you fake his... 0.98

07:39:07.900 Oh, my God. 1.00

07:39:08.420 I shouldn't spoil this shit. 0.99

07:39:08.940 What is happening? 0.98

07:39:10.160 I'm sorry.

07:39:10.560 Now you're talking about the second season.

07:39:11.560 I shouldn't spoil it.

07:39:12.320 Don't spoil it.

07:39:12.700 You're talking about the second season now?

07:39:14.100 Huh?

07:39:14.900 What are you talking about?

07:39:16.200 This is still first season, but I shouldn't spoil it.

07:39:18.460 Okay.

07:39:18.720 Never mind.

07:39:19.740 I'm sorry.

07:39:20.400 Now I want to watch it, because I'm invested now.

07:39:22.540 This is from two...

07:39:23.260 It came out two years.

07:39:24.540 I want to watch the second, but Frankie said no.

07:39:26.560 Bro, House of the Dragon.

07:39:27.400 And I think...

07:39:27.940 Oh, I didn't...

07:39:28.380 Wait.

07:39:28.600 Chat.

07:39:29.500 Nick, pull up the chat.

07:39:30.700 You said don't ruin it for you.

07:39:31.940 Chat.

07:39:32.720 Oh, that's right.

07:39:33.380 Never mind.

07:39:33.800 Don't show it.

07:39:34.260 But, chat.

07:39:34.940 Do you prefer House of the Dragon or Game of Thrones?

07:39:37.560 I got to say House of the Dragon.

07:39:38.920 I think it's better.

07:39:40.020 I think it's better.

07:39:40.680 Anyways, with that said, unless anyone has any final thoughts, we got to wrap up the show.

07:39:45.760 Going once.

07:39:47.180 Going twice.

07:39:48.800 Going three times.

07:39:49.460 Okay.

07:39:49.620 We're going to wrap.

07:39:50.080 I need to get food in and out.

07:39:51.660 Maybe.

07:39:52.140 We'll see.

07:39:52.400 I don't know.

07:39:52.640 I'm not kidding.

07:39:53.700 Never mind.

07:39:53.940 Please tell me there's that one.

07:39:54.580 Okay.

07:39:54.800 We're going to raid Woe Grandma, Nick, if you can get that going.

07:39:58.840 Yo.

07:39:59.160 Actually, yeah.

07:39:59.800 Thank you, Nick.

07:40:00.920 Guys, if you're still watching...

07:40:02.840 She would slide-tackle that. 0.99

07:40:19.880 All-Mont Marine donated $30.

07:40:22.000 Game of Thrones was epic until the last two seasons.

07:40:25.240 Yep. 0.99

07:40:25.600 The whole series is trash now. 0.72

07:40:27.660 House of Dragon is great, but it all means nothing because of how God ended. 0.96

07:40:32.440 Demon dies in the season.

07:40:33.160 Ah! 1.00

07:40:33.540 Shut the fuck up, bro! 1.00

07:40:34.660 No! 1.00

07:40:35.440 Bro!

07:40:35.840 Warlord 69, you donated $30.

07:40:38.720 Blue dress.

07:40:39.800 The same reason you touch up your hair every time you look at the camera is the same reason

07:40:44.600 you need some season and orders. 0.99

07:40:45.000 There's no fucking way Daemon dies. 1.00

07:40:46.780 There's no fucking way Daemon dies. 1.00

07:40:48.320 I see it. 1.00

07:40:48.880 He does.

07:40:49.600 They're noisy. 1.00

07:40:50.780 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

07:40:51.140 I didn't watch it, but Frankie watches it. 1.00

07:40:53.200 He appreciates the podcast.

07:40:55.080 Wife and he watch it every time. 1.00

07:40:57.960 Blue dress-based RF.

07:40:59.680 They love you.

07:41:00.340 Enjoyed reacting to podcasts tonight.

07:41:01.880 Okay.

07:41:02.480 I'll put it on to Australian.

07:41:04.160 Sorry.

07:41:04.440 I kept it on French for way too long.

07:41:05.580 Yeah.

07:41:05.680 I would like to hear these compliments in the language I can understand.

07:41:09.140 Australian.

07:41:10.360 Oh.

07:41:10.680 All-Mont Marine donated $30.

07:41:12.660 Bruh.

07:41:13.040 Just kidding.

07:41:13.900 Haven't seen the episode yet.

07:41:15.160 There's no... 0.99

07:41:16.200 Damn it. 0.99

07:41:16.540 You can't retract it. 1.00

07:41:17.740 He just psyched you.

07:41:18.480 Okay.

07:41:18.800 It's set to Australian, I guess.

07:41:21.840 It's set to Australian.

07:41:23.920 I was elective hearing.

07:41:24.820 I heard the first one.

07:41:26.160 We're going to put...

07:41:26.960 We're going to give it to Russell.

07:41:28.320 Okay.

07:41:28.620 If anybody wants to let any come through...

07:41:31.120 So...

07:41:32.240 Oh, Twitch.

07:41:32.800 Really quick, Nick.

07:41:33.540 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

07:41:35.080 Drop us a follow.

07:41:35.580 Drop us a prime sub.

07:41:36.400 Guys, it's been one minute since we last got to Prime.

07:41:38.920 I'm pretty sure it's bugged.

07:41:39.960 Right, Maddie?

07:41:41.060 Yeah, it's bugged.

07:41:41.780 Tell them what to do, Maddie.

07:41:42.800 Somebody can go test it out really fast.

07:41:45.180 I think it's broken.

07:41:47.300 Oh, yay. 1.00

07:41:48.100 Thank you, bitch. 1.00

07:41:49.880 He fixed it. 1.00

07:41:51.320 Yo, Grimai.

07:41:52.340 Yo, thank you guys so much for the primes.

07:41:53.720 Really appreciate it.

07:41:54.680 I hope...

07:41:55.200 Thank you guys for who watch on Twitch.

07:41:57.080 We're trying to build our audience over there.

07:41:58.540 We're going to be doing some Twitch exclusive stuff.

07:42:00.700 So, guys, if you're watching on YouTube, head on over to Twitch.

07:42:03.160 Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you haven't.

07:42:05.340 Thank you guys so much for all the primes.

07:42:06.840 Really appreciate it. 0.98

07:42:07.520 You guys are fucking legends. 0.99

07:42:09.740 You guys are... 1.00

07:42:11.700 I'm a fucking legend. 1.00

07:42:13.440 For you guys, I guess. 1.00

07:42:15.320 Okay, cool.

07:42:16.300 And then we're going to do a raid to Woe Grandma.

07:42:18.820 But really quick before we do that, GG.

07:42:20.780 Well played to the panel.

07:42:21.640 Last call.

07:42:22.020 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

07:42:23.900 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

07:42:24.740 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

07:42:26.940 I appreciate that.

07:42:27.640 Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.

07:42:29.840 We will be live again Tuesday, 5 p.m. Pacific.

07:42:33.200 Got a very good show coming on Tuesday.

07:42:34.860 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram. 0.61

07:42:37.140 If you can make it to Santa Barbara 07 is in the chat.

07:42:39.400 Michael Buckley, 111, donated $30.

07:42:42.940 L-Dog, you're incredibly beautiful.

07:42:44.600 Any chance you can let your hair down?

07:42:47.520 Who's L-Dog?

07:42:48.520 You're L-Dog.

07:42:49.540 I don't get that nickname.

07:42:51.480 L-Dog?

07:42:52.400 No, I'm not going to put my hair down.

07:42:54.400 Lol Paladins donated $30.

07:42:56.640 You've never once had a good Australian on the show ever. 1.00

07:42:59.260 Of all the bad Australians, the twins were the worst. 1.00

07:43:02.680 Every other Australian was also bad. 1.00

07:43:05.020 Well, what about Jake Rattlesnake?

07:43:06.060 Jake Rattlesnake.

07:43:06.560 He's good.

07:43:07.120 Duh.

07:43:07.380 He's good.

07:43:08.240 Okay, we're going to...

07:43:09.420 Above Kill Zero donated $30.

07:43:11.960 Blue Drays-based AF.

07:43:13.020 I like you.

07:43:13.780 W-E enjoyed the discourse tonight.

07:43:16.000 Much love.

07:43:17.120 When you were going off at the two DeLulu twins, I was like, go off, queen. 1.00

07:43:22.080 Okay.

07:43:22.460 Honestly, like, I really held it in.

07:43:24.600 Lord Buller donated $30.

07:43:26.960 Struth.

07:43:27.780 Me and me mate Baza were driving in the ute when some flamin' galah cut us off in some 1.00

07:43:31.980 dodgy hold and camo.

07:43:33.420 We got out and had a bit of a blue or a bit of a dissed up, if you will, but talked it out.

07:43:38.480 Okay.

07:43:39.460 Old Man Marine donated $30.

07:43:41.900 House is the Dragon is good, but would rather watch whatever kisses.

07:43:45.660 Yo, Old Man Marine, thank you for your TTS, man.

07:43:49.280 Thank you, everybody else, for your TTSs.

07:43:51.080 Really appreciate your patronage.

07:43:52.500 It means the world couldn't do this podcast without you guys.

07:43:55.480 So thank you guys so much.

07:43:56.400 Really appreciate it.

07:43:57.280 We are going to raid Woe Grandma. 0.99

07:44:00.320 Woe Grandma. 1.00

07:44:01.020 She's playing World of Warcraft Retail.

07:44:04.140 I'm going to go ahead and get that going in just a few seconds.

07:44:07.980 I think she's always had glasses.

07:44:09.680 But guys on Twitch, be nice to her. 0.99

07:44:11.640 She's 82.

07:44:12.820 She's 82.

07:44:13.580 She's playing World of Warcraft.

07:44:14.780 She's got a better streaming setup than us.

07:44:16.900 We're going to drop the raid right now.

07:44:18.400 Thank you guys for watching on Twitch.

07:44:19.400 Have a good night, guys.

07:44:22.520 Boom.

07:44:23.360 What is a drop a raid?

07:44:25.280 No, and that wouldn't work.

07:44:27.780 She's so cute.

07:44:28.860 We're two different kinds of streamers.

07:44:31.440 Oh, my goodness.

07:44:33.180 Julia.

07:44:34.500 It's what?

07:44:35.600 No, it's whatever.

07:44:37.000 That's not Julia. 1.00

07:44:38.460 Hello, whatever.

07:44:40.100 Is the audio all the way?

07:44:41.540 You don't need me.

07:44:44.280 You just think you need me.

07:44:46.160 Welcome, raiders.

07:44:47.900 All right.

07:44:49.280 So now what?

07:44:51.440 I've got to go on Twitch.

07:44:54.760 Cool.

07:44:55.340 Okay.

07:44:55.720 And then I think we're all good here on YouTube.

07:44:58.180 Okay.

07:44:58.500 07 is in the chat.

07:44:59.520 I hope you guys have a good night.

07:45:01.840 We'll see you on Tuesday.

07:45:03.060 Good night, guys.

07:45:03.520 Thank you.

07:45:04.480 Thanks.

07:45:04.760 Thanks.

07:45:05.440 You

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